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<i>- Hey, babe.
- Hey.</i>

2
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<i>- How you doin'?
- Good, good. You?</i>

3
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<i>I'm great.</i>

4
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<i>You almost ready?</i>

5
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<i>Almost, I just have shoes</i>

6
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<i>and earrings.</i>

7
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<i>Hey, would you wear that suit?</i>

8
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<i>The one we had made in London.</i>

9
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<i>I'm wearing it.</i>

10
00:01:08,966 --> 00:01:11,168
<i>Remember that
great little hotel?</i>

11
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<i>I do. Where you surprised me</i>

12
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<i>with the silk lingerie
for my birthday.</i>

13
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<i>Mmm... Rocky.</i>

14
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<i>Say hi.</i>

15
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<i>Hi...</i>

16
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<i>Hello, Rocky.</i>

17
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<i>- He misses you.
- I miss him.</i>

18
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<i>Hey, do me a favor,
wear those red strappy shoes</i>

19
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<i>so I can see your feet.</i>

20
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<i>The ones I almost broke
my back in?</i>

21
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<i>I'd love to get you
on your back right now.</i>

22
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<i>You...</i>

23
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<i>Shoes coming up.</i>

24
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<i>Ooh, look at that.</i>

25
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<i>Wow, that's nice.</i>

26
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<i>- Red shoes.
- Oh, boy.</i>

27
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<i>Red shoes.</i>

28
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<i>Oh, boy.</i>

29
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<i>Oh... you're killing me.</i>

30
00:02:00,117 --> 00:02:02,086
<i>You're killing me right now.</i>

31
00:02:04,188 --> 00:02:06,458
<i>You don't wear those shoes
for anyone else, do you?</i>

32
00:02:06,491 --> 00:02:08,891
<i>Never you mind.</i>

33
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<i>Hey, it's Saturday night,
let's do something special.</i>

34
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<i>Where should we go?</i>

35
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<i>What do you feel like?</i>

36
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<i>I don't know.</i>

37
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<i>Maybe... something European.</i>

38
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<i>How about
the little French place?</i>

39
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<i>- Let's go. Let's do it.
- Okay.</i>

40
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<i>I'll see you there.</i>

41
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<i>Don't start without me.</i>

42
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Thank you.

43
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Bonsoir, madame, and welcome.

44
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How are you? Been a while, hey.

45
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Doing very well.

46
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May I bring you a Bombay
gin martini, very cold?

47
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Oh, sounds prefect, thanks.

48
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Oh, remind me,
what's the wifi password?

49
00:03:01,413 --> 00:03:02,945
French75.

50
00:03:02,947 --> 00:03:04,181
Gotcha.

51
00:03:32,310 --> 00:03:33,612
<i>Jack?</i>

52
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<i>Is this seat taken, madam?</i>

53
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<i>There you are.</i>

54
00:03:41,586 --> 00:03:43,020
<i>How's the connection, alright?</i>

55
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<i>It's fine.</i>

56
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<i>We're making a movie</i>

57
00:03:46,991 --> 00:03:48,627
<i>in Whitefish, Montana,
don't forget,</i>

58
00:03:48,660 --> 00:03:51,329
<i>so the closest thing to French
around here is the mustard.</i>

59
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<i>No, not even that.</i>

60
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<i>Oh, well...</i>

61
00:03:58,135 --> 00:03:59,136
<i>Amazing.</i>

62
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<i>Did you get a haircut?</i>

63
00:04:00,405 --> 00:04:02,507
<i>You look great in that suit.</i>

64
00:04:04,074 --> 00:04:06,143
<i>You trying to make
all the women to drool?</i>

65
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<i>The only women
drooling around here</i>

66
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<i>have their A.A.R.P. cards.</i>

67
00:04:12,551 --> 00:04:15,487
<i>But you love older women.</i>

68
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<i>You, babe.</i>

69
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<i>You, you get better...</i>

70
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<i>and better.</i>

71
00:04:21,493 --> 00:04:23,395
<i>- Hello, sir.
- Hello.</i>

72
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<i>Can I get you a drink?</i>

73
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<i>Should we start with our usual?</i>

74
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<i>Get a martini, please.</i>

75
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<i>Bombay gin... very, very cold.</i>

76
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<i>Comin' right up.</i>

77
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<i>Mine's already on the way.</i>

78
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<i>What do you feel like?</i>

79
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<i>I think...</i>

80
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<i>I will have
the filet of sole almondine</i>

81
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<i>with wilted spinach.</i>

82
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<i>That sounds like
girl food to me.</i>

83
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- Your martini, madame.
- Thank you.

84
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<i>Then I'm gonna get
the New York steak,</i>

85
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<i>"rare but not cold."</i>

86
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<i>And a side of spinach.</i>

87
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<i>We can eat
our vitamins together.</i>

88
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<i>Now, how's that for intimate?</i>

89
00:04:59,598 --> 00:05:01,165
<i>I'll wait for you.</i>

90
00:05:03,167 --> 00:05:04,636
<i>Mine is coming.</i>

91
00:05:05,570 --> 00:05:07,071
<i>Thank you.</i>

92
00:05:10,575 --> 00:05:12,344
<i>- Cheers!
- Cheers!</i>

93
00:05:12,377 --> 00:05:16,615
<i>Here's to us and those
like us, damn few left.</i>

94
00:05:17,682 --> 00:05:21,185
<i>The girls hate that toast.</i>

95
00:05:21,219 --> 00:05:23,421
<i>Well, other than that,</i>

96
00:05:23,455 --> 00:05:25,590
<i>we haven't
screwed 'em up too bad.</i>

97
00:05:25,624 --> 00:05:27,792
<i>Well, let's hope our luck holds.</i>

98
00:05:30,127 --> 00:05:32,364
<i>Lisa's only been
in college for three weeks.</i>

99
00:05:32,397 --> 00:05:34,366
<i>Might be a little early to tell.</i>

100
00:05:36,668 --> 00:05:38,603
<i>You know Kate's boyfriend,</i>

101
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<i>the one with the motorcycle?</i>

102
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<i>Let's call him "friend."</i>

103
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<i>- Kate's friend with the motorcycle...
- Yeah... Uh-huh.</i>

104
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<i>He asked me what the secret was</i>

105
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<i>to our long marriage.</i>

106
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<i>This is a guy
with a lot of secrets.</i>

107
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<i>What'd ya tell him?</i>

108
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<i>"Don't get divorced."</i>

109
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<i>Excellent advice, that's very wise.</i>

110
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<i>What would you like
this evening, madame?</i>

111
00:06:00,325 --> 00:06:02,594
<i>I think I'll have
the filet of sole, please.</i>

112
00:06:02,627 --> 00:06:05,230
<i>And a glass of Sauvignon blanc.</i>

113
00:06:05,263 --> 00:06:06,464
<i>Great choice.</i>

114
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- <i>There you are!</i> Bon soir.
<i>- Look who's here.</i>

115
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<i>It's been too long.</i>

116
00:06:11,770 --> 00:06:13,638
<i>Yes, well...</i>

117
00:06:13,672 --> 00:06:16,274
<i>She can tell you
the shoot has been...</i>

118
00:06:16,308 --> 00:06:17,876
<i>It's been a little rough here.</i>

119
00:06:17,909 --> 00:06:21,178
<i>Uh, but, uh,
it's only five more weeks.</i>

120
00:06:21,212 --> 00:06:25,216
<i>Only? I will take good care
of your lovely wife.</i>

121
00:06:25,250 --> 00:06:26,751
<i>Please, please do.</i>

122
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- Au revoir.
- Au revoir.

123
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<i>Well, for a for a place
that has bison burgers</i>

124
00:06:34,225 --> 00:06:35,427
<i>and grits on the menu,</i>

125
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<i>they have
a pretty good wine list.</i>

126
00:06:39,931 --> 00:06:42,667
<i>I'm gonna get
the New York steak,</i>

127
00:06:42,701 --> 00:06:44,202
<i>"rare but not cold,"</i>

128
00:06:44,235 --> 00:06:48,573
<i>a side of spinach
and get this pinot.</i>

129
00:06:48,607 --> 00:06:50,408
<i>- Great choice.
- In a bottle.</i>

130
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<i>Thank you.</i>

131
00:06:56,815 --> 00:06:58,283
<i>What?</i>

132
00:06:59,851 --> 00:07:02,687
<i>What's with
that sheepish little grin?</i>

133
00:07:07,659 --> 00:07:10,261
<i>There's a man over there.</i>

134
00:07:10,295 --> 00:07:13,531
<i>He keeps looking at me,
like he thinks he knows me.</i>

135
00:07:13,565 --> 00:07:14,633
<i>But he doesn't.</i>

136
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<i>He wants to.</i>

137
00:07:16,334 --> 00:07:19,237
<i>Who can blame him?</i>

138
00:07:19,270 --> 00:07:21,206
<i>Look at you in that dress.</i>

139
00:07:22,707 --> 00:07:25,777
<i>This is the time where you
give him that look that says...</i>

140
00:07:25,810 --> 00:07:29,247
<i>my 400-pound wrestling
championship husband</i>

141
00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:31,616
<i>is about to walk through
the door any minute</i>

142
00:07:31,650 --> 00:07:32,884
<i>and kill him.</i>

143
00:07:32,917 --> 00:07:35,553
<i>- Give it to him.
- Oh, yeah right.</i>

144
00:07:35,587 --> 00:07:37,689
<i>- I'm so practiced at that look.
- Come on.</i>

145
00:07:37,722 --> 00:07:39,224
<i>Well, give it to him.</i>

146
00:07:39,858 --> 00:07:42,225
<i>I... Wait...</i>

147
00:07:42,227 --> 00:07:43,561
<i>Like that? Like...</i>

148
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<i>That's way to pretty.</i>

149
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<i>Like this.</i>

150
00:07:48,767 --> 00:07:50,635
<i>- Yeah. There we go.
- Sir?</i>

151
00:07:50,669 --> 00:07:52,570
<i>Hey, won't you meet
my beautiful wife.</i>

152
00:07:52,604 --> 00:07:53,905
Isn't she something?

153
00:07:53,938 --> 00:07:55,373
<i>Wow, you are beautiful.</i>

154
00:07:55,407 --> 00:07:56,875
<i>Is that right? Heh.</i>

155
00:07:56,908 --> 00:08:00,412
<i>Yeah, she is.
He's right. You are.</i>

156
00:08:00,445 --> 00:08:02,914
<i>Heh. I think it worked.</i>

157
00:08:07,619 --> 00:08:10,955
<i>Thank you.</i>

158
00:08:10,989 --> 00:08:14,626
<i>These Saturday
night dates, babe.</i>

159
00:08:14,659 --> 00:08:17,328
<i>They're not enough for me.</i>

160
00:08:17,362 --> 00:08:18,730
<i>I know.</i>

161
00:08:21,700 --> 00:08:24,436
<i>You didn't call me last
night to say good night.</i>

162
00:08:24,469 --> 00:08:26,938
<i>Shit, I'm sorry, I...</i>

163
00:08:26,971 --> 00:08:28,506
<i>I got in so late,</i>

164
00:08:28,540 --> 00:08:31,009
<i>and I'm coming down
with something.</i>

165
00:08:31,042 --> 00:08:33,578
<i>Can you hear me,
do I sound all stuffed up?</i>

166
00:08:33,611 --> 00:08:34,779
<i>A little bit.</i>

167
00:08:34,813 --> 00:08:35,947
<i>Yeah, I think I'm getting</i>

168
00:08:35,980 --> 00:08:37,649
<i>an ear infection.
I can only hear</i>

169
00:08:37,682 --> 00:08:41,284
<i>in one ear right now so...
I-I didn't even eat.</i>

170
00:08:41,286 --> 00:08:43,655
<i>I passed out, I went
right to sleep, so...</i>

171
00:08:44,923 --> 00:08:46,725
<i>Would you please...</i>

172
00:08:46,758 --> 00:08:49,294
<i>Please come to Montana?</i>

173
00:08:49,327 --> 00:08:51,496
<i>I-I-I don't...</i>

174
00:08:51,529 --> 00:08:53,498
<i>ever get used
to not being around you.</i>

175
00:08:53,531 --> 00:08:55,476
<i>We've done this plenty of times
and it just never,</i>

176
00:08:55,500 --> 00:08:57,736
<i>it just never feels right,
so please come.</i>

177
00:08:57,769 --> 00:09:00,605
<i>Remember, the last time
I came on your location?</i>

178
00:09:00,638 --> 00:09:02,607
<i>- Yeah.
- I read three novels,</i>

179
00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:06,745
<i>and according to my Fitbit,
I walked 70 miles.</i>

180
00:09:06,778 --> 00:09:09,647
<i>You make that sound like
it's a bad thing.</i>

181
00:09:09,681 --> 00:09:13,685
<i>Well, it's good
for my health obviously, but...</i>

182
00:09:15,854 --> 00:09:18,389
<i>With the girls
both finally away at school</i>

183
00:09:18,423 --> 00:09:20,992
<i>and the catering business
is starting to take off...</i>

184
00:09:21,025 --> 00:09:22,961
<i>You know, yesterday,
I had an order</i>

185
00:09:22,994 --> 00:09:25,563
<i>for 300 chocolate covered
strawberries.</i>

186
00:09:25,597 --> 00:09:28,333
<i>I ate all the ugly ones.
It was a big mistake.</i>

187
00:09:28,366 --> 00:09:29,667
<i>Oh, no.</i>

188
00:09:29,701 --> 00:09:30,869
<i>You and chocolate.</i>

189
00:09:30,902 --> 00:09:32,537
<i>No good.</i>

190
00:09:32,570 --> 00:09:34,081
<i>I don't know what happens
to me around chocolate.</i>

191
00:09:34,105 --> 00:09:35,607
<i>I just... I'm a goner.</i>

192
00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:36,908
<i>You once you told me</i>

193
00:09:36,941 --> 00:09:38,476
<i>I was better than chocolate.</i>

194
00:09:38,510 --> 00:09:39,878
<i>Remember?</i>

195
00:09:39,911 --> 00:09:41,946
<i>No, I've never said that.</i>

196
00:09:41,980 --> 00:09:43,346
<i>Yes, you did.</i>

197
00:09:43,348 --> 00:09:44,349
<i>In your dreams.</i>

198
00:09:44,382 --> 00:09:46,351
<i>You did.</i>

199
00:09:46,384 --> 00:09:48,987
<i>Come to Montana
and I'll remind you.</i>

200
00:09:49,020 --> 00:09:52,690
<i>You have a whole cast and crew
who revere and adore you.</i>

201
00:09:52,724 --> 00:09:55,894
<i>Yeah, yeah...
I'm the producer, remember...</i>

202
00:09:55,927 --> 00:09:57,462
<i>I write the checks.</i>

203
00:09:57,495 --> 00:09:59,364
<i>So yes, they adore me.</i>

204
00:10:01,666 --> 00:10:03,434
<i>Oh, thank you.</i>

205
00:10:05,069 --> 00:10:07,972
- <i>May I...?
- Thank you.</i>

206
00:10:08,006 --> 00:10:09,474
<i>Start while your steak's hot.</i>

207
00:10:09,507 --> 00:10:10,942
<i>Your Sauvignon blanc, madame.</i>

208
00:10:10,975 --> 00:10:12,410
<i>Perfect.</i>

209
00:10:25,757 --> 00:10:27,659
<i>So, c'mon then,</i>

210
00:10:27,692 --> 00:10:31,963
<i>tell me, what's the craziest
thing that happened this week?</i>

211
00:10:31,996 --> 00:10:33,565
<i>The craziest thing.</i>

212
00:10:33,598 --> 00:10:35,400
<i>Well, we were, uh...</i>

213
00:10:37,468 --> 00:10:39,904
<i>We were shooting trying
to get a shot of the actors</i>

214
00:10:39,938 --> 00:10:42,540
<i>sailing on the lake at sunset.</i>

215
00:10:42,574 --> 00:10:46,077
<i>And suddenly the follow barge,
it starts to sink.</i>

216
00:10:46,110 --> 00:10:48,146
<i>And water is coming
in the boat, yeah.</i>

217
00:10:48,179 --> 00:10:50,148
<i>So, we take all the equipment
and the crew,</i>

218
00:10:50,181 --> 00:10:52,550
<i>and we go to the other side
of the boat.</i>

219
00:10:52,584 --> 00:10:55,420
<i>That side starts going down.</i>

220
00:10:55,453 --> 00:10:57,922
<i>We barely made it to the shore</i>

221
00:10:57,956 --> 00:11:00,859
<i>and we totally lost
the sunset shot.</i>

222
00:11:00,892 --> 00:11:03,628
<i>It is pretty funny, actually.</i>

223
00:11:03,661 --> 00:11:04,963
<i>Yeah, I guess,</i>

224
00:11:04,996 --> 00:11:07,532
<i>if I wasn't responsible
for the budget.</i>

225
00:11:07,565 --> 00:11:10,468
<i>We went over again. So...</i>

226
00:11:10,501 --> 00:11:12,170
- <i>Filet of sole.
- that.</i>

227
00:11:12,204 --> 00:11:14,439
- Bon appétit.
- Thanks.

228
00:11:16,608 --> 00:11:21,779
<i>Yeah, well, I kind of rode
my own sinking barge this week.</i>

229
00:11:21,813 --> 00:11:23,581
<i>You know that bit
in the front entry</i>

230
00:11:23,615 --> 00:11:26,084
<i>that we patched over twice?</i>

231
00:11:26,117 --> 00:11:28,953
<i>- Yes...
- Well, it opened up again.</i>

232
00:11:28,987 --> 00:11:36,060
<i>And Rafael found
a kind of subterranean geyser.</i>

233
00:11:36,094 --> 00:11:37,729
<i>So, what do we do now?</i>

234
00:11:37,762 --> 00:11:41,132
<i>Rafael is gonna come back
tomorrow to discuss it.</i>

235
00:11:43,034 --> 00:11:44,469
<i>To surprises.</i>

236
00:11:45,204 --> 00:11:46,738
<i>Surprises.</i>

237
00:11:50,842 --> 00:11:52,810
<i>Oh, look who it is.</i>

238
00:11:52,844 --> 00:11:55,613
<i>- Jack?
- Hey.</i>

239
00:11:55,647 --> 00:11:57,115
<i>I think I lost you.</i>

240
00:11:57,148 --> 00:11:59,517
<i>Oh, I can still see you.</i>

241
00:11:59,550 --> 00:12:02,687
<i>This is Cheryl, she works
in the hair department.</i>

242
00:12:03,855 --> 00:12:05,757
<i>Hi. I still can't see anything.</i>

243
00:12:05,790 --> 00:12:07,992
<i>- But hello.
- See us?</i>

244
00:12:08,026 --> 00:12:10,628
<i>Uh, just... Yes. Hi.</i>

245
00:12:10,662 --> 00:12:14,032
<i>We're... We're actually...
We're on a date. Heh.</i>

246
00:12:14,065 --> 00:12:15,867
<i>Oh, that's so cute!</i>

247
00:12:15,900 --> 00:12:18,203
<i>I need to do that with my guy.</i>

248
00:12:18,237 --> 00:12:19,938
<i>Nice to meet you.</i>

249
00:12:19,971 --> 00:12:21,240
<i>And you.</i>

250
00:12:21,273 --> 00:12:22,907
<i>Great to see you.</i>

251
00:12:22,941 --> 00:12:24,876
<i>Have a good dinner.</i>

252
00:12:24,909 --> 00:12:26,711
<i>Small town...</i>

253
00:12:28,846 --> 00:12:33,952
<i>Mmm, the steak is...</i>

254
00:12:33,985 --> 00:12:35,254
<i>perfect.</i>

255
00:12:35,287 --> 00:12:36,688
<i>It's perfect.</i>

256
00:12:37,855 --> 00:12:39,123
<i>How's the wine?</i>

257
00:12:40,591 --> 00:12:42,261
<i>I think you have
something in your teeth.</i>

258
00:12:42,294 --> 00:12:43,728
<i>Really?</i>

259
00:12:43,761 --> 00:12:46,529
<i>Smile.</i>

260
00:12:46,531 --> 00:12:48,733
<i>Yeah, it's...
You got a piece of spinach.</i>

261
00:12:48,766 --> 00:12:49,944
<i>- Where?
- There, the second...</i>

262
00:12:49,968 --> 00:12:50,935
<i>On this side or this side?</i>

263
00:12:50,969 --> 00:12:52,937
<i>- This side.
- Which side?</i>

264
00:12:52,971 --> 00:12:54,206
<i>This side.</i>

265
00:12:54,239 --> 00:12:56,808
<i>- This way?
- Yeah.</i>

266
00:12:56,841 --> 00:12:58,910
<i>- Bingo. You're on it.
- Oh, I can feel it hang on.</i>

267
00:12:58,943 --> 00:13:00,144
<i>Feel it?</i>

268
00:13:07,252 --> 00:13:08,853
<i>Mmm.</i>

269
00:13:17,895 --> 00:13:19,264
<i>What was that?</i>

270
00:13:19,298 --> 00:13:21,566
<i>It's bread.</i>

271
00:13:21,599 --> 00:13:24,769
<i>Do I look like a woman
who wants more bread?</i>

272
00:13:24,802 --> 00:13:26,037
<i>Yes.</i>

273
00:13:27,038 --> 00:13:29,841
<i>Is there something
you're not telling me?</i>

274
00:13:30,775 --> 00:13:31,976
<i>Yeah.</i>

275
00:13:32,010 --> 00:13:34,246
<i>I'd like butter too,
and olive oil.</i>

276
00:13:34,279 --> 00:13:36,579
<i>Well, just if I saw you,</i>

277
00:13:36,581 --> 00:13:38,616
<i>this beautiful woman
sitting alone,</i>

278
00:13:38,649 --> 00:13:42,254
<i>I... I might wanna send you
something over.</i>

279
00:13:43,355 --> 00:13:45,056
<i>Like what?</i>

280
00:13:45,089 --> 00:13:48,860
<i>Like a glass of great champagne.</i>

281
00:13:53,598 --> 00:13:55,033
<i>Mm-hmm.</i>

282
00:13:57,336 --> 00:14:02,173
<i>To my handsome
professional wrestler husband</i>

283
00:14:02,207 --> 00:14:04,142
<i>who can still surprise me.</i>

284
00:14:05,210 --> 00:14:06,609
<i>Surprise me</i>

285
00:14:06,611 --> 00:14:08,813
<i>and come to Whitefish, Montana.</i>

286
00:14:09,747 --> 00:14:12,617
<i>Your tenacity
has made you a success</i>

287
00:14:12,650 --> 00:14:14,919
<i>and I do admire it.</i>

288
00:14:14,952 --> 00:14:17,622
<i>If you come, I'll make
my special pancakes</i>

289
00:14:17,655 --> 00:14:20,758
<i>and we'll spend Sunday,
the whole day, in bed.</i>

290
00:14:20,792 --> 00:14:22,361
<i>- Come.
- Unless, of course,</i>

291
00:14:22,394 --> 00:14:24,829
<i>you get called out
to urgent production meetings,</i>

292
00:14:24,862 --> 00:14:28,766
<i>or location scouts,
or director breakdowns...</i>

293
00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:30,269
<i>And if I do,
I'll come right back.</i>

294
00:14:30,302 --> 00:14:32,337
<i>- So, I get called away...
- I will come!</i>

295
00:14:32,371 --> 00:14:34,038
<i>I promise.</i>

296
00:14:36,641 --> 00:14:41,280
<i>And for you, madame,
our dessert menu.</i>

297
00:14:41,313 --> 00:14:43,248
<i>Thanks.</i>

298
00:14:43,282 --> 00:14:45,049
<i>We having dessert?</i>

299
00:14:45,083 --> 00:14:47,051
<i>You know what I'm craving?</i>

300
00:14:47,085 --> 00:14:49,854
<i>Think I have an idea,
Mr. Subtle.</i>

301
00:14:49,887 --> 00:14:52,990
<i>Some of your strawberries
dipped in chocolate.</i>

302
00:14:53,024 --> 00:14:55,927
<i>That would be fantastic.</i>

303
00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:57,762
<i>What if I told you
I'd saved you some?</i>

304
00:14:57,795 --> 00:15:00,665
<i>Ah, I'd say seeing is believing.</i>

305
00:15:02,267 --> 00:15:03,868
<i>All finished, sir?</i>

306
00:15:03,901 --> 00:15:05,136
<i>Yes, I am.</i>

307
00:15:06,371 --> 00:15:08,806
<i>- How about dessert?
- Please.</i>

308
00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:12,710
<i>I've been good all week,
which is hard here.</i>

309
00:15:12,743 --> 00:15:14,346
<i>I say we should go for it.</i>

310
00:15:14,379 --> 00:15:16,948
<i>And I've been doing
my 10,000 steps,</i>

311
00:15:16,981 --> 00:15:19,284
<i>so why don't we have
our favorite,</i>

312
00:15:19,318 --> 00:15:20,952
<i>creme brulee?</i>

313
00:15:20,985 --> 00:15:23,688
<i>Oh, I don't know if they make
that in Whitefish.</i>

314
00:15:23,721 --> 00:15:26,689
<i>Can you ask the chef if he can
make me a creme brulee?</i>

315
00:15:26,691 --> 00:15:28,192
<i>I'm not sure what that is, sir.</i>

316
00:15:28,227 --> 00:15:31,195
<i>It's a custard
with a caramelized top.</i>

317
00:15:31,230 --> 00:15:32,830
<i>It's really easy.</i>

318
00:15:32,864 --> 00:15:35,234
<i>Uh, sorry, all we have
is what's on the menu.</i>

319
00:15:35,267 --> 00:15:39,304
<i>Uh, but we do have Campfire
Pie as our specialty.</i>

320
00:15:39,338 --> 00:15:41,139
<i>Did you hear that?</i>

321
00:15:44,276 --> 00:15:46,010
<i>Campfire Pie.</i>

322
00:15:47,379 --> 00:15:49,013
<i>What's in that?</i>

323
00:15:49,046 --> 00:15:51,383
<i>- Well, it has...
- You know what, don't tell me.</i>

324
00:15:51,416 --> 00:15:52,984
<i>Surprise me.</i>

325
00:15:58,457 --> 00:15:59,790
<i>Hold on, the girls.</i>

326
00:15:59,824 --> 00:16:02,327
<i>Aww, they knew we had a date.</i>

327
00:16:04,263 --> 00:16:07,732
<i>Your mother and I are in
a hot FaceTime date right now.</i>

328
00:16:07,765 --> 00:16:09,800
<i>- Can we talk later?
- Oh, wow, you and Mom</i>

329
00:16:09,834 --> 00:16:12,069
<i>are really leveling up
in the romance department.</i>

330
00:16:12,103 --> 00:16:14,339
<i>- Okay, bye.
- That's funny.</i>

331
00:16:14,373 --> 00:16:17,376
<i>How about Lisa saying
we raised the bar on romance.</i>

332
00:16:17,409 --> 00:16:22,381
<i>Heh. I love that they think
this is real romance...</i>

333
00:16:22,414 --> 00:16:23,915
<i>Should we be worried?</i>

334
00:16:23,948 --> 00:16:26,150
<i>No, not at all,
it is real romance.</i>

335
00:16:30,422 --> 00:16:33,090
<i>Dare I ask
how the Campfire Pie is?</i>

336
00:16:34,992 --> 00:16:39,431
<i>Well, It's the stuff
of ghost stories.</i>

337
00:16:39,464 --> 00:16:41,165
<i>Whoa...</i>

338
00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:44,802
<i>How's the creme brulee?</i>

339
00:16:44,835 --> 00:16:46,938
<i>Not as good as mine.</i>

340
00:16:46,971 --> 00:16:49,774
<i>I'll make it when the girls
are back for Christmas.</i>

341
00:16:50,875 --> 00:16:52,244
<i>That's a great idea.</i>

342
00:16:58,182 --> 00:16:59,817
<i>Ahem. You know, babe,</i>

343
00:16:59,850 --> 00:17:01,886
<i>I'm... I'm fading.</i>

344
00:17:01,919 --> 00:17:03,054
<i>I'm sorry to be an old guy,</i>

345
00:17:03,087 --> 00:17:04,889
<i>but I had to wake up at five</i>

346
00:17:04,922 --> 00:17:06,358
<i>for a location scout
this morning</i>

347
00:17:06,391 --> 00:17:10,262
<i>and I think I should call it.</i>

348
00:17:10,295 --> 00:17:13,532
<i>Okay... You should go
and crawl into bed.</i>

349
00:17:13,565 --> 00:17:16,167
<i>Yeah.</i>

350
00:17:16,201 --> 00:17:18,936
<i>I'm happy you didn't cancel
our date though.</i>

351
00:17:18,970 --> 00:17:20,472
<i>No, never.</i>

352
00:17:20,505 --> 00:17:23,808
<i>Drive safe, okay,
you've had a few drinks.</i>

353
00:17:24,909 --> 00:17:27,044
<i>Oh, are we counting now?</i>

354
00:17:27,078 --> 00:17:29,514
<i>Why don't you ask your buddy
in the corner?</i>

355
00:17:29,548 --> 00:17:32,484
<i>He's long gone.
You can sleep well.</i>

356
00:17:32,517 --> 00:17:35,820
<i>Good. I love you.</i>

357
00:17:37,054 --> 00:17:38,823
<i>I love you too.</i>

358
00:17:39,558 --> 00:17:41,226
<i>Kiss me.</i>

359
00:17:43,928 --> 00:17:45,230
<i>Give me a real kiss.</i>

360
00:17:45,264 --> 00:17:47,031
<i>I love you too,
but I'm not doing that.</i>

361
00:17:47,064 --> 00:17:49,401
<i>Why not?
I don't care who's looking.</i>

362
00:17:49,434 --> 00:17:50,901
<i>Yeah, well I do.</i>

363
00:17:50,935 --> 00:17:52,103
<i>Give me a quick kiss.</i>

364
00:17:52,136 --> 00:17:53,505
<i>Oh, for God sake.</i>

365
00:17:55,072 --> 00:17:56,140
<i>- Mwah.
- Mwah.</i>

366
00:17:56,173 --> 00:17:57,840
<i>- There.
- I love you.</i>

367
00:17:57,842 --> 00:17:59,511
<i>- Good night.
- Good night.</i>

368
00:18:02,179 --> 00:18:04,849
How much of a "bigger problem"?

369
00:18:04,882 --> 00:18:08,253
The city inspector says
it's not a real emergency.

370
00:18:08,287 --> 00:18:09,554
He won't come for two weeks.

371
00:18:09,588 --> 00:18:11,022
Seriously?

372
00:18:11,055 --> 00:18:13,258
Two weeks before
you can even start?!

373
00:18:13,292 --> 00:18:15,126
If you're lucky.

374
00:18:29,574 --> 00:18:31,243
Thank you.

375
00:18:31,276 --> 00:18:33,412
Oh, one minute.

376
00:18:42,487 --> 00:18:44,055
Okay.

377
00:18:44,955 --> 00:18:46,190
I'm ready.

378
00:18:47,892 --> 00:18:49,126
Thanks.

379
00:19:58,062 --> 00:19:59,498
<i>Hello? Babe?</i>

380
00:19:59,531 --> 00:20:03,235
- Hi.
- <i>Are you okay?</i>

381
00:20:03,268 --> 00:20:05,504
I was just missing you.

382
00:20:05,537 --> 00:20:08,507
<i>Uh, I'm totally asleep.</i>

383
00:20:08,540 --> 00:20:11,343
<i>Can we just...
talk in the morning?</i>

384
00:20:11,376 --> 00:20:13,043
I'm at your front door.

385
00:20:13,077 --> 00:20:14,513
<i>What?!</i>

386
00:20:14,546 --> 00:20:16,080
I'm here.

387
00:20:16,113 --> 00:20:18,350
<i>Are you. Are you kidding me?</i>

388
00:20:18,383 --> 00:20:20,619
- <i>Are you serious?</i>
- Heh. Yes.

389
00:20:20,652 --> 00:20:23,087
<i>Come on, it's freezing out here.</i>

390
00:20:25,156 --> 00:20:27,091
Hello.

391
00:20:27,124 --> 00:20:28,926
Hold on a sec...

392
00:20:31,630 --> 00:20:33,298
Just...

393
00:20:37,369 --> 00:20:39,003
Surprise!

394
00:20:39,036 --> 00:20:41,406
- Hey. Hi. Hi.
- Hi.

395
00:20:45,510 --> 00:20:47,011
Come in.

396
00:20:52,584 --> 00:20:56,020
Hey... what a surprise.

397
00:20:57,054 --> 00:20:59,023
Yeah...

398
00:20:59,056 --> 00:21:00,592
She forgot her shoe.

399
00:21:20,044 --> 00:21:21,580
<i>Have a sense of being calm</i>

400
00:21:21,613 --> 00:21:24,749
<i>and relaxed
as you start this program.</i>

401
00:21:24,783 --> 00:21:26,785
<i>Exhale and feel any tension</i>

402
00:21:26,818 --> 00:21:29,053
<i>in the neck
and shoulders release.</i>

403
00:21:29,086 --> 00:21:32,491
<i>Now bring your arms,
palm face up by your chest.</i>

404
00:21:32,524 --> 00:21:34,326
<i>Extend the arms forward,</i>

405
00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:37,696
<i>and then spiral around
to your sides.</i>

406
00:21:38,797 --> 00:21:40,232
<i>And a nice deep breath</i>

407
00:21:40,265 --> 00:21:42,099
<i>as you open the chest.</i>

408
00:21:43,401 --> 00:21:47,071
<i>And bring your hands
down to your sides.</i>

409
00:21:47,104 --> 00:21:48,507
<i>Now, as you bring your arms up,</i>

410
00:21:48,540 --> 00:21:52,142
<i>have the wrists cross,
come up to the chest.</i>

411
00:21:52,176 --> 00:21:55,647
<i>And the arms come up
to the sides and down.</i>

412
00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:57,716
So, you're not dead.

413
00:21:57,749 --> 00:22:00,385
Why did you leave like that?

414
00:22:00,418 --> 00:22:02,754
I had to get out of there.

415
00:22:02,787 --> 00:22:04,356
Apparently so...

416
00:22:04,389 --> 00:22:07,392
I ate the rest of your risotto
and both desserts.

417
00:22:07,425 --> 00:22:12,697
<i>I just wanted to do
something, without reporting to you.</i>

418
00:22:12,731 --> 00:22:14,432
Huh.

419
00:22:14,466 --> 00:22:16,568
You want to know
the real reason?

420
00:22:18,436 --> 00:22:21,105
Yeah. I-I don't know.

421
00:22:23,441 --> 00:22:25,410
I want a girlfriend.

422
00:22:25,443 --> 00:22:27,479
Someone fun to play with.

423
00:22:34,184 --> 00:22:36,254
Do you have somebody in mind?

424
00:22:37,289 --> 00:22:39,691
No. You know I love you.

425
00:22:41,226 --> 00:22:43,461
Well, we've had some...

426
00:22:43,495 --> 00:22:45,697
pretty great play dates
over the years.

427
00:22:45,730 --> 00:22:47,799
Yeah, but now you're too busy

428
00:22:47,832 --> 00:22:50,402
with your needy girlfriends,
your book clubs,

429
00:22:50,435 --> 00:22:51,870
your garden events,

430
00:22:51,903 --> 00:22:54,573
and that bocce game
every friggin' Friday night.

431
00:22:54,606 --> 00:22:57,809
But-but you have
your guy friends to play with.

432
00:23:04,416 --> 00:23:06,685
Okay, so what would you want

433
00:23:06,718 --> 00:23:08,486
your girlfriend
to do with you today?

434
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:10,187
<i>Today?</i>

435
00:23:11,356 --> 00:23:12,691
She'd go sailing with me.

436
00:23:12,724 --> 00:23:14,626
<i>But you don't like to sail.</i>

437
00:23:14,659 --> 00:23:16,795
Oh John, it isn't that
I don't like to sail.

438
00:23:16,828 --> 00:23:18,363
It's that it makes me sick.

439
00:23:18,396 --> 00:23:19,898
I feel the same way
about ballet,

440
00:23:19,931 --> 00:23:23,167
but I've gone with you
for the past 41 years.

441
00:23:26,538 --> 00:23:28,506
Okay.

442
00:23:28,540 --> 00:23:30,241
What time?

443
00:23:30,275 --> 00:23:32,174
<i>Huh?</i>

444
00:23:32,176 --> 00:23:33,445
What time do we sail?

445
00:23:33,478 --> 00:23:36,348
Hey, I was just using
that as an example.

446
00:23:36,381 --> 00:23:37,849
I'm going to take
an extra Dramamine;

447
00:23:37,882 --> 00:23:39,584
I'm going to make
a picnic lunch.

448
00:23:39,618 --> 00:23:41,920
How about that crispy fried
chicken that you love?

449
00:23:41,953 --> 00:23:43,822
Really, you'd go?

450
00:23:43,855 --> 00:23:45,590
You know I love that chicken.

451
00:23:45,624 --> 00:23:48,393
<i>I can't remember
the last time you made it.</i>

452
00:23:48,426 --> 00:23:51,863
I was saving it
for a... a last supper.

453
00:23:54,399 --> 00:23:55,700
<i>You're going to love today.</i>

454
00:23:55,734 --> 00:23:58,336
<i>It'll be really great
out on the boat.</i>

455
00:24:01,573 --> 00:24:03,742
Ah, sorry I'm late.

456
00:24:03,775 --> 00:24:06,344
Hi.

457
00:24:06,378 --> 00:24:08,380
The garden tour starts
in half an hour.

458
00:24:08,413 --> 00:24:10,415
- What are you doing?
- And I tried to call you.

459
00:24:10,448 --> 00:24:12,951
I'm going sailing with John.

460
00:24:12,984 --> 00:24:14,586
Since when do you sail?

461
00:24:14,619 --> 00:24:16,721
Since he went
to the city last night alone

462
00:24:16,755 --> 00:24:19,691
and stayed there
'cause I'm no fun anymore.

463
00:24:19,724 --> 00:24:21,493
Oh, brother...

464
00:24:21,526 --> 00:24:24,396
Haven't you earned your free
"no fun" pass by now?

465
00:24:24,429 --> 00:24:25,764
Apparently, it expired.

466
00:24:25,797 --> 00:24:28,733
Listen, Diana,
he's at that dangerous age

467
00:24:28,767 --> 00:24:30,578
when successful men trade in
their old wives...

468
00:24:30,602 --> 00:24:33,238
- Oh, please. Oh, please.
- for young hot Asian girls

469
00:24:33,271 --> 00:24:35,707
- that specialize in...
- Okay, okay. Stop.

470
00:24:35,740 --> 00:24:37,475
- Stop!
- I'm just saying.

471
00:24:37,509 --> 00:24:38,643
What can you do?

472
00:24:39,644 --> 00:24:41,312
You go sailing.

473
00:24:41,346 --> 00:24:43,314
So, when did he buy a sailboat?

474
00:24:43,348 --> 00:24:45,617
I thought it was into
that vintage Porsche.

475
00:24:45,650 --> 00:24:50,355
No, no, Mustang,
that was the year before.

476
00:24:50,388 --> 00:24:51,523
Last year was the boat.

477
00:24:51,556 --> 00:24:52,824
Does he even know how to sail?

478
00:24:52,857 --> 00:24:54,893
I don't know,
we've never been out alone.

479
00:24:54,926 --> 00:24:57,495
Oy. I do not get
a good feeling about this.

480
00:24:57,529 --> 00:24:59,330
Well, I'm not going
on the Titanic.

481
00:24:59,364 --> 00:25:02,265
Can't you find something else
to do fun together?

482
00:25:02,267 --> 00:25:05,570
He says I specialize in saying
"no", so today I'm saying "yes."

483
00:25:05,603 --> 00:25:08,271
Hmm... Well, I wouldn't
do that for any man.

484
00:25:08,273 --> 00:25:09,974
And that's why you're alone.

485
00:25:10,008 --> 00:25:12,010
Blessedly!

486
00:25:12,043 --> 00:25:13,945
Alright, I am calling
the Coast Guard

487
00:25:13,978 --> 00:25:15,580
if I don't hear from you by six.

488
00:25:29,694 --> 00:25:31,730
Can I help you, my man?

489
00:25:31,763 --> 00:25:33,898
No thanks, my man.

490
00:25:33,932 --> 00:25:36,701
- I got it.
- Okay. You sure?

491
00:25:36,735 --> 00:25:38,436
Yeah, I got it.

492
00:25:40,638 --> 00:25:42,807
Can't get over what
a good day it is out here.

493
00:25:42,841 --> 00:25:44,409
It's gorgeous.

494
00:25:44,442 --> 00:25:47,011
And I'm not seasick so far. Heh.

495
00:26:19,677 --> 00:26:21,513
I topped off your gas
for you, my man.

496
00:26:21,546 --> 00:26:22,814
Okay.

497
00:26:26,084 --> 00:26:28,419
Oh, perfect, thank you.

498
00:26:30,555 --> 00:26:32,457
Ah! Damn!

499
00:26:32,490 --> 00:26:33,458
Oh, you okay?

500
00:26:33,491 --> 00:26:34,859
Ah, it's tiller...

501
00:26:36,928 --> 00:26:38,997
You're all set.

502
00:26:39,030 --> 00:26:42,700
And dude, you got a fast boat.

503
00:26:42,734 --> 00:26:44,002
Oh, yeah. Heh.

504
00:26:46,971 --> 00:26:48,740
Got some change?

505
00:26:48,773 --> 00:26:50,408
No, man.

506
00:26:53,711 --> 00:26:54,879
Thanks, man.

507
00:26:56,114 --> 00:26:57,949
Have a great day.

508
00:27:00,952 --> 00:27:02,754
Good job, honey!

509
00:27:16,067 --> 00:27:17,468
Take the tiller, honey.

510
00:27:17,502 --> 00:27:18,736
Oh!

511
00:27:29,147 --> 00:27:34,085
<i>♪ Oh, we sail the ocean blue
In our saucy ships of beauty ♪</i>

512
00:27:39,657 --> 00:27:41,793
Not the kind of thing
you do in a book club.

513
00:27:51,002 --> 00:27:54,437
Looks like we'll have to
wait for the wind to come up.

514
00:27:54,439 --> 00:27:56,641
Oh well, it's such a lovely day.

515
00:27:56,674 --> 00:27:57,909
Who cares.

516
00:27:57,942 --> 00:27:59,777
How about we have a look around.

517
00:28:06,050 --> 00:28:07,986
Wow, honey.

518
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:11,890
We have the lake to
ourselves, it looks like.

519
00:28:11,923 --> 00:28:13,892
Except for that
big fella over there.

520
00:28:13,925 --> 00:28:16,561
Oh, that's actually
a Great Blue Heron.

521
00:28:17,495 --> 00:28:18,863
- Yeah?
- Yeah.

522
00:28:18,897 --> 00:28:20,665
It has extra
feathers under its chin

523
00:28:20,698 --> 00:28:23,167
that it combs with a special
claw on its middle toe.

524
00:28:23,202 --> 00:28:26,070
So, how'd you know all that?

525
00:28:26,104 --> 00:28:28,207
Don't tell me you've
become a "birder" now.

526
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:30,041
No, but I read about Herons

527
00:28:30,074 --> 00:28:34,012
in that boring book club
you refuse to join.

528
00:28:34,045 --> 00:28:38,016
Look, I just don't want
to join a book club

529
00:28:38,049 --> 00:28:40,551
or ever have a schedule again.

530
00:28:41,686 --> 00:28:43,788
You don't get it?

531
00:28:43,821 --> 00:28:46,090
If I want to go
to a baseball game,

532
00:28:46,124 --> 00:28:47,992
I want to go to a baseball game.

533
00:28:48,026 --> 00:28:52,697
Or maybe go to the antique
car show in Monterey.

534
00:28:52,730 --> 00:28:56,067
Maybe just sit around on the
porch all day and play chess.

535
00:28:57,769 --> 00:29:00,772
I want a girlfriend
who wants to do my stuff.

536
00:29:02,674 --> 00:29:05,508
And what if your girlfriend
wants to do her stuff?

537
00:29:05,510 --> 00:29:08,179
You mean like lunches
with girlfriends,

538
00:29:08,213 --> 00:29:11,049
hair appointments, bocce?

539
00:29:11,082 --> 00:29:13,751
I thought you would love playing
on the bocce team.

540
00:29:13,785 --> 00:29:15,053
I joined for us.

541
00:29:15,086 --> 00:29:17,622
But who wants to sign up a guy
with a bad knee?

542
00:29:17,655 --> 00:29:19,824
Someone who's always looking
for interesting new things

543
00:29:19,857 --> 00:29:22,760
for us to do together.
Like that Moroccan cooking class.

544
00:29:22,794 --> 00:29:25,596
Yeah, that was a good idea,
except I got heartburn!

545
00:29:25,630 --> 00:29:27,732
Remember, I signed us up

546
00:29:27,765 --> 00:29:28,876
for that wood shop class
to build

547
00:29:28,900 --> 00:29:30,202
those bookshelves you wanted.

548
00:29:31,769 --> 00:29:33,805
Well, that was
just great until...

549
00:29:33,838 --> 00:29:36,841
I saw that guy get his fingers
cut off right in front of me.

550
00:29:37,875 --> 00:29:40,144
That was an isolated accident.

551
00:29:40,178 --> 00:29:42,046
It scared me.

552
00:29:43,081 --> 00:29:44,749
But you could've told me that.

553
00:29:44,782 --> 00:29:46,684
You just quit.

554
00:29:46,718 --> 00:29:49,654
If you looked in my eyes,
I think it would be obvious.

555
00:29:54,659 --> 00:29:56,027
You've changed, you know.

556
00:29:56,961 --> 00:29:59,130
Thank you for noticing.

557
00:29:59,163 --> 00:30:01,200
Our kids are gone.
We have an empty nest.

558
00:30:01,233 --> 00:30:04,303
We're both retired.
We have to course correct.

559
00:30:04,336 --> 00:30:05,737
And if your idea of doing that

560
00:30:05,770 --> 00:30:07,805
is getting a girlfriend,
just go for it!

561
00:30:12,577 --> 00:30:13,544
What are you doing?

562
00:30:13,578 --> 00:30:15,247
I'm eating my stuff.

563
00:30:16,581 --> 00:30:17,982
Well, hey, I'm hungry too.

564
00:30:18,016 --> 00:30:20,918
Let's find a place to drop
anchor and have lunch.

565
00:30:21,886 --> 00:30:23,054
Here, come take the tiller

566
00:30:23,087 --> 00:30:25,056
and I'll go get the anchor.
Come on.

567
00:30:37,735 --> 00:30:41,039
Oh! My knee!

568
00:30:41,072 --> 00:30:43,574
Alright, come get the tiller.

569
00:30:45,143 --> 00:30:46,811
Sorry, babe.

570
00:30:46,844 --> 00:30:49,747
It's... It's up front there.

571
00:30:49,781 --> 00:30:51,283
Okay.

572
00:30:51,316 --> 00:30:53,785
I'd appreciate it
if you'd call me "Girlfriend."

573
00:31:06,664 --> 00:31:08,032
Thank you.

574
00:31:08,066 --> 00:31:10,802
Now, just drop it in when I say.

575
00:31:12,404 --> 00:31:13,771
Now!

576
00:31:15,807 --> 00:31:16,941
Oh!

577
00:31:20,978 --> 00:31:22,814
Some sailor you are.

578
00:31:22,847 --> 00:31:25,284
I think I have great potential.

579
00:31:25,317 --> 00:31:26,818
Don't you think?

580
00:31:29,153 --> 00:31:32,123
I'm really sorry that wood shop
class scared you, Di.

581
00:31:33,691 --> 00:31:36,994
Not as much as your phone call
this morning.

582
00:31:38,763 --> 00:31:40,665
I have something for us.

583
00:31:52,043 --> 00:31:54,045
- Yummy.
- Yum-me.

584
00:31:56,381 --> 00:31:57,849
Whoo!

585
00:32:03,322 --> 00:32:07,259
As old Marines say, "Here's
to us and those like us."

586
00:32:07,292 --> 00:32:09,294
Dammed few left."

587
00:32:09,328 --> 00:32:11,696
Now, why do you say that?

588
00:32:11,729 --> 00:32:12,997
It's true!

589
00:32:13,030 --> 00:32:15,066
We never would have met
if it were now.

590
00:32:15,099 --> 00:32:17,969
Everybody finds their perfect
soulmate online.

591
00:32:18,002 --> 00:32:19,304
I mean, nobody gets married

592
00:32:19,338 --> 00:32:22,241
because they're young
and pregnant, like us.

593
00:32:22,274 --> 00:32:24,709
Yeah, I guess.

594
00:32:24,742 --> 00:32:27,178
Well, they didn't
both love antique car shows

595
00:32:27,212 --> 00:32:30,713
and garden tours.

596
00:32:30,715 --> 00:32:32,884
That's it, they'd never meet.

597
00:32:32,917 --> 00:32:34,262
Yeah, they would've
already hit delete.

598
00:32:34,286 --> 00:32:36,321
Yeah. Heh.

599
00:32:36,355 --> 00:32:38,789
I guess we really are dinosaurs.

600
00:32:38,823 --> 00:32:40,435
Can you imagine what our bio's
or whatever they call 'em?

601
00:32:40,459 --> 00:32:44,396
Profiles. Oh, here's yours:

602
00:32:44,429 --> 00:32:48,166
"Tyrannosaurus wants
to meet another 'Saurus',

603
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:51,035
"preferably blonde
with big boobs." Heh.

604
00:32:53,372 --> 00:32:56,441
"She must have the ability
to organize his closet,

605
00:32:56,475 --> 00:32:59,311
"and tolerate
Godzilla-like snoring

606
00:32:59,344 --> 00:33:02,146
and make crispy fried chicken."

607
00:33:02,180 --> 00:33:05,217
- "He must accept book clubs, garden events..."
- Oh!

608
00:33:05,250 --> 00:33:08,453
- "...and girlfriends with endless relationship problems."
- Mmm. Stop.

609
00:33:08,487 --> 00:33:11,155
Stop, stop, stop! Heh.

610
00:33:11,189 --> 00:33:15,893
"And appreciate sincere loyalty."

611
00:33:15,927 --> 00:33:18,162
Wow, good save.

612
00:33:31,943 --> 00:33:34,246
It is so peaceful here.

613
00:33:35,846 --> 00:33:38,983
I'm not even seasick today. Heh.

614
00:33:42,086 --> 00:33:45,490
Oh! Oh, honey.

615
00:33:50,127 --> 00:33:52,196
I guess I can't do
fried anymore.

616
00:33:52,231 --> 00:33:54,131
Maybe not on a boat.

617
00:33:54,165 --> 00:33:55,400
Here.

618
00:34:01,005 --> 00:34:03,375
Do you want to think
about heading back?

619
00:34:03,408 --> 00:34:06,177
Yeah, I'm really tired.

620
00:34:06,211 --> 00:34:07,812
I couldn't sleep last night.

621
00:34:09,113 --> 00:34:11,882
Maybe because I'm too used
to sleeping with you.

622
00:34:14,253 --> 00:34:15,220
Yeah, let's go.

623
00:34:15,254 --> 00:34:16,388
Okay.

624
00:34:32,604 --> 00:34:34,839
I just... Ugh.

625
00:34:39,378 --> 00:34:40,978
I can't do it anymore.

626
00:34:41,012 --> 00:34:42,247
My damn shoulder.

627
00:34:42,281 --> 00:34:44,449
It's fine. It's no problem.

628
00:34:44,483 --> 00:34:46,851
Why don't you call
that dock boy?

629
00:35:01,633 --> 00:35:03,868
There's no damn signal.

630
00:35:04,569 --> 00:35:06,505
Well...

631
00:35:06,538 --> 00:35:09,541
I mean, honey,
look where we are.

632
00:35:09,574 --> 00:35:12,076
It's a beautiful afternoon.

633
00:35:14,011 --> 00:35:15,547
Sorry, babe.

634
00:35:16,615 --> 00:35:17,882
Damn!

635
00:35:17,915 --> 00:35:20,151
I wanted this
to be a perfect day.

636
00:35:25,223 --> 00:35:26,591
Honey...

637
00:35:28,226 --> 00:35:31,229
Do you remember that time
when we were in college

638
00:35:31,263 --> 00:35:34,897
and we were stranded
in that mountain cabin

639
00:35:34,899 --> 00:35:37,536
waiting for
the snowplow to come?

640
00:35:37,569 --> 00:35:39,471
Do you remember what we did?

641
00:35:39,504 --> 00:35:42,006
Come on, baby, come sit with me.

642
00:35:44,676 --> 00:35:47,144
I want you to relax.

643
00:35:47,178 --> 00:35:50,349
I want you to have a nice day.

644
00:35:50,382 --> 00:35:52,317
I wonder what
a "girlfriend" would do

645
00:35:52,351 --> 00:35:54,386
in a situation like this?

646
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:56,921
We got a problem here.

647
00:35:56,954 --> 00:35:59,391
I know we have
a problem, my gosh.

648
00:36:14,004 --> 00:36:15,207
Oh!

649
00:36:16,241 --> 00:36:18,543
Ugh. Hi! Hi!

650
00:36:18,577 --> 00:36:20,044
Hey!

651
00:36:22,146 --> 00:36:23,315
Hi.

652
00:36:24,949 --> 00:36:28,052
Wait... Hey!

653
00:36:28,085 --> 00:36:29,421
Hello!

654
00:36:29,454 --> 00:36:31,122
Hey, come help!

655
00:36:38,028 --> 00:36:39,964
You got a problem?

656
00:36:39,997 --> 00:36:41,999
Yeah, I can't get
the outboard started.

657
00:36:42,032 --> 00:36:44,436
I... I got a bad shoulder.

658
00:36:53,412 --> 00:36:55,045
I got it.

659
00:37:17,134 --> 00:37:19,471
- You're out of gas.
- What?

660
00:37:19,504 --> 00:37:22,106
We had a full tank
when we left the marina.

661
00:37:22,139 --> 00:37:24,376
Yeah, but this little tank
is so small

662
00:37:24,409 --> 00:37:26,378
I'm surprised
it got you this far.

663
00:37:26,411 --> 00:37:29,381
These little motors are only meant
to get you in and out of the dock.

664
00:37:34,519 --> 00:37:38,189
"He likes Hemingway,
certain lingerie,

665
00:37:38,223 --> 00:37:41,058
"crispy fried chicken
he can't eat anymore.

666
00:37:41,091 --> 00:37:43,228
And can be an ass."

667
00:37:44,663 --> 00:37:47,031
"She adores
his true sailor's heart

668
00:37:47,064 --> 00:37:49,201
and his love of adventure."

669
00:37:49,234 --> 00:37:53,371
"He adores her moves...
all of them."

670
00:37:54,673 --> 00:37:56,508
Circle the right arm around

671
00:37:56,541 --> 00:37:58,410
and down the midline.

672
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:05,082
Circle the left arm around
and down the midline.

673
00:38:06,284 --> 00:38:09,421
This creates inner balance
and harmony.

674
00:38:09,454 --> 00:38:11,556
Well, that,
that feels kind of good.

675
00:38:11,590 --> 00:38:14,056
- Mm-hmm.
- Is there a class we can take...

676
00:38:14,058 --> 00:38:16,528
girlfriend?

677
00:38:49,394 --> 00:38:51,095
Here we go.

678
00:39:06,878 --> 00:39:08,547
Oh, hello.

679
00:39:43,147 --> 00:39:44,749
Hey. Hi.

680
00:39:48,453 --> 00:39:49,588
Come in.

681
00:39:53,190 --> 00:39:54,459
Is this seat taken?

682
00:39:54,492 --> 00:39:55,660
- No.
- Great.

683
00:39:55,694 --> 00:39:57,295
- Thank you.
- What's your name?

684
00:39:57,329 --> 00:39:58,563
- I'm Jackie.
- Oh.

685
00:39:58,597 --> 00:40:00,398
- What's yours?
- Wendy.

686
00:40:00,432 --> 00:40:03,301
- Nice to meet you.
- Thank you.

687
00:40:03,335 --> 00:40:04,569
Oh. Excuse me.

688
00:40:04,603 --> 00:40:07,639
- Oh, please.
- Jackie, hi.

689
00:40:07,672 --> 00:40:10,275
Ah, well, it looks beautiful,
doesn't it?

690
00:40:10,308 --> 00:40:14,144
So, let's all toast
in my mom's way.

691
00:40:14,178 --> 00:40:16,615
Oh, and say your names.

692
00:40:17,616 --> 00:40:18,783
I'm Caroline.

693
00:40:18,817 --> 00:40:20,452
I'm Anne.

694
00:40:21,786 --> 00:40:24,255
Remember what Claire would say

695
00:40:24,289 --> 00:40:27,492
if we didn't really look
in each other's eyes?

696
00:40:27,525 --> 00:40:28,927
"Seven years of bad sex."

697
00:40:30,261 --> 00:40:31,463
Been there, done that.

698
00:40:31,496 --> 00:40:33,531
Oh! I would like any sex.

699
00:40:33,565 --> 00:40:34,699
Marlene.

700
00:40:34,733 --> 00:40:35,867
Joanne.

701
00:40:37,202 --> 00:40:38,837
Patty.

702
00:40:38,870 --> 00:40:41,339
I'm not taking any chances.

703
00:40:41,373 --> 00:40:42,607
Nancy.

704
00:40:43,575 --> 00:40:44,743
Jackie.

705
00:40:45,777 --> 00:40:46,945
Wendy.

706
00:40:46,978 --> 00:40:48,613
Mary Kay.

707
00:40:50,749 --> 00:40:52,550
To mom.

708
00:40:52,584 --> 00:40:54,686
To Claire.

709
00:41:04,596 --> 00:41:05,764
You okay?

710
00:41:07,399 --> 00:41:08,566
Yeah.

711
00:41:09,634 --> 00:41:10,935
I'm fine.

712
00:41:19,844 --> 00:41:21,813
I have been living
on the East Coast

713
00:41:21,846 --> 00:41:23,715
pretty much since I was 18

714
00:41:23,748 --> 00:41:27,285
and I just didn't get back
to see my mom

715
00:41:27,318 --> 00:41:30,922
as much as much
as I wanted to or should have.

716
00:41:30,955 --> 00:41:33,658
But we finally planned
a trip together,

717
00:41:33,692 --> 00:41:35,927
in September, to France.

718
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:38,997
We started planning it
after my dad died.

719
00:41:39,030 --> 00:41:41,966
And then we thought we'd go
after I passed the bar,

720
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:44,502
and then after
she finished her book,

721
00:41:44,536 --> 00:41:46,805
then I got a job
and I had to start right away.

722
00:41:46,838 --> 00:41:49,607
And we were waiting
for the right time.

723
00:41:49,641 --> 00:41:50,875
There's no such thing.

724
00:41:50,909 --> 00:41:52,844
No, it's not.

725
00:42:01,052 --> 00:42:02,721
I know this vase!

726
00:42:02,754 --> 00:42:06,491
We got this in a little funky
thrift shop in Kentucky.

727
00:42:06,524 --> 00:42:09,294
- Yeah!
- And those peonies, her favorites.

728
00:42:11,029 --> 00:42:12,464
You know, I actually think that

729
00:42:12,497 --> 00:42:15,300
Claire discovered peonies
with me.

730
00:42:15,333 --> 00:42:17,669
One of our dreaded
regulars we had

731
00:42:17,702 --> 00:42:19,404
at the diner that we worked at

732
00:42:19,437 --> 00:42:20,839
would bring us some
from his garden

733
00:42:20,872 --> 00:42:23,475
instead of tipping.

734
00:42:23,508 --> 00:42:25,977
We hated him,

735
00:42:26,010 --> 00:42:28,346
but we grew
to love those flowers.

736
00:42:31,316 --> 00:42:34,819
After our sophomore year
at college working as waitresses

737
00:42:34,853 --> 00:42:37,922
at a resort in upstate New York.

738
00:42:37,956 --> 00:42:40,792
Our immediate goal,
besides making money,

739
00:42:40,825 --> 00:42:42,961
was lose our virginity.

740
00:42:42,994 --> 00:42:44,763
What!

741
00:42:44,796 --> 00:42:46,598
Just get it over with.

742
00:42:46,631 --> 00:42:47,908
We wanted to know
what it was like.

743
00:42:47,932 --> 00:42:49,400
Oh, my God!

744
00:42:49,434 --> 00:42:51,002
The endless lecture series

745
00:42:51,035 --> 00:42:52,871
I got from Mom
about how I needed

746
00:42:52,904 --> 00:42:55,073
to "save myself
for the right guy,"

747
00:42:55,106 --> 00:42:57,075
and there she was planning
some random...?!

748
00:42:57,108 --> 00:42:59,878
Of course. She needed
to teach you ethics...

749
00:42:59,911 --> 00:43:03,681
Even though she didn't
always practice them.

750
00:43:03,715 --> 00:43:06,985
She was your mother.
Part of the job description.

751
00:43:07,018 --> 00:43:08,820
So, she actually...?

752
00:43:08,853 --> 00:43:10,455
Mm-hmm.

753
00:43:10,488 --> 00:43:15,560
He was older...
about 24, experienced.

754
00:43:16,795 --> 00:43:19,731
And I got some jerk
from Wisconsin

755
00:43:19,764 --> 00:43:22,467
we'll just call
"the five second man."

756
00:43:22,500 --> 00:43:24,502
I'm sorry.

757
00:43:40,552 --> 00:43:43,386
Um... Anybody want to know
how Claire and I met?

758
00:43:43,388 --> 00:43:45,490
Yes.

759
00:43:45,523 --> 00:43:47,892
We were interns
at Vogue together.

760
00:43:47,926 --> 00:43:50,495
She was an assistant
to the photo editor,

761
00:43:50,528 --> 00:43:51,930
who happened
to be a total bitch.

762
00:43:51,963 --> 00:43:54,399
We both hated her
and bonded deeply over that.

763
00:43:54,432 --> 00:43:57,635
Nothing like having someone
to hate together, right?

764
00:43:57,669 --> 00:43:59,637
But then we discovered

765
00:43:59,671 --> 00:44:02,574
that we were both dating
the same guy.

766
00:44:02,607 --> 00:44:04,075
What?

767
00:44:04,108 --> 00:44:09,480
I mean, he was awfully cute,
and he did have attributes.

768
00:44:09,514 --> 00:44:11,716
But he was just too boring
for either one of us.

769
00:44:11,749 --> 00:44:14,485
And anyway, she met your father
shortly after that, so...

770
00:44:14,519 --> 00:44:18,089
But we always loved
to toast Rodger,

771
00:44:18,122 --> 00:44:20,124
because he brought us together.

772
00:44:21,726 --> 00:44:23,161
I can't believe it's been

773
00:44:23,194 --> 00:44:25,463
only a little over a month.

774
00:44:25,496 --> 00:44:27,932
Feels like...

775
00:44:27,966 --> 00:44:29,734
I don't know what it feels like.

776
00:44:29,767 --> 00:44:31,803
There's nothing
to compare it to.

777
00:44:34,172 --> 00:44:35,907
And what about you, honey?

778
00:44:36,808 --> 00:44:38,643
Me?

779
00:44:38,676 --> 00:44:40,812
How are you?

780
00:44:43,848 --> 00:44:46,451
Well, every morning
when I wake up,

781
00:44:46,484 --> 00:44:49,654
I still can't believe it.

782
00:44:49,687 --> 00:44:51,454
But I've been so busy...
there's been so much

783
00:44:51,456 --> 00:44:52,991
to take care of, and...

784
00:44:57,762 --> 00:44:59,631
Excuse me. Heh.

785
00:45:01,032 --> 00:45:05,737
Sorry, my plane was very late,

786
00:45:05,770 --> 00:45:08,172
and the Uber driver
was ignorant!

787
00:45:08,207 --> 00:45:10,141
Everyone...

788
00:45:10,174 --> 00:45:11,676
this is Rose Simon.

789
00:45:11,709 --> 00:45:13,745
<i>Bonjour.</i>

790
00:45:13,778 --> 00:45:15,647
It's a pleasure to be here.

791
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:17,482
Anne, <i>Bonjour!</i>

792
00:45:17,515 --> 00:45:18,850
Oh...

793
00:45:18,883 --> 00:45:21,119
I brought some chocolate
for you from Paris.

794
00:45:21,152 --> 00:45:22,720
Oh, thank you!

795
00:45:22,754 --> 00:45:23,821
Rose, some wine?

796
00:45:23,855 --> 00:45:25,790
Oh, thank you. Yes, please.

797
00:45:25,823 --> 00:45:28,092
We've just been getting
to know each other.

798
00:45:28,126 --> 00:45:30,728
There's plates and food.
Please help yourself.

799
00:45:30,762 --> 00:45:32,664
Yes. Thank you.

800
00:45:38,002 --> 00:45:39,871
I know what I'm going
to have later.

801
00:45:41,172 --> 00:45:43,508
I think I'm done.

802
00:45:45,710 --> 00:45:49,013
So, Rose...

803
00:45:49,047 --> 00:45:52,083
we've just been telling stories
about Mom.

804
00:45:54,118 --> 00:45:56,654
On the plane,
I was thinking about

805
00:45:56,688 --> 00:45:58,723
the first time I met Claire.

806
00:45:58,756 --> 00:46:02,894
She floated
into my shop one afternoon.

807
00:46:02,927 --> 00:46:07,932
I had a little boutique in
the Marais district of Paris.

808
00:46:07,966 --> 00:46:10,635
She would come in
and admire things

809
00:46:10,668 --> 00:46:12,870
and often buy a scarf or two.

810
00:46:12,904 --> 00:46:13,905
Or 43...

811
00:46:15,873 --> 00:46:17,809
Ah... We shared a passion

812
00:46:17,842 --> 00:46:20,878
for beautiful things
in many forms...

813
00:46:20,912 --> 00:46:24,115
gardens, contemporary art...

814
00:46:24,148 --> 00:46:28,753
We'd stroll over to the...

815
00:46:28,786 --> 00:46:33,691
the Pompidou Centre
and explore for hours.

816
00:46:33,725 --> 00:46:37,829
I tell you,
she would not tolerate

817
00:46:37,862 --> 00:46:40,898
any "French attitude",
not even from me.

818
00:46:45,703 --> 00:46:47,638
Speaking of museums...

819
00:46:47,672 --> 00:46:50,242
Yeah,
Mom collected all kinds of art.

820
00:46:50,275 --> 00:46:54,078
Yeah, and I see she
put yours front and center.

821
00:47:01,853 --> 00:47:05,023
This was her favorite ribbon.

822
00:47:05,056 --> 00:47:07,592
I see she continued
to use it, huh?

823
00:47:07,625 --> 00:47:08,960
Yes.

824
00:47:08,993 --> 00:47:10,828
It was for my pigtails

825
00:47:10,862 --> 00:47:12,730
and it was always
on my tap shoes.

826
00:47:12,764 --> 00:47:15,833
- I know that ribbon.
- I recognize it too.

827
00:47:15,867 --> 00:47:18,770
She hand-picked
every truffle for you.

828
00:47:20,171 --> 00:47:23,708
Your mother brought
those chocolates to my wedding.

829
00:47:24,876 --> 00:47:27,045
Well, that's
what we called it anyway,

830
00:47:27,078 --> 00:47:29,914
but it was not legal then.

831
00:47:29,947 --> 00:47:33,618
Uh, my wife Alice and I
got married

832
00:47:33,651 --> 00:47:36,288
in the desert outside of Taos.

833
00:47:36,321 --> 00:47:39,057
And I had invited your parents,

834
00:47:39,090 --> 00:47:41,192
and your mom said that
your dad couldn't come,

835
00:47:41,226 --> 00:47:42,994
but she accepted,

836
00:47:43,027 --> 00:47:45,997
which, I swear to God,
I didn't expect.

837
00:47:46,030 --> 00:47:48,066
There comes your mother,

838
00:47:48,099 --> 00:47:51,169
all on her own,
middle of nowhere,

839
00:47:51,203 --> 00:47:53,137
impeccably dressed

840
00:47:53,171 --> 00:47:57,642
in this very conservative suit,

841
00:47:57,675 --> 00:48:01,045
holding a box
of those chocolates.

842
00:48:01,079 --> 00:48:04,283
She was my most
conservative friend,

843
00:48:04,316 --> 00:48:11,290
but also my most accepting
and supportive.

844
00:48:13,925 --> 00:48:15,360
For me, too.

845
00:48:18,830 --> 00:48:21,833
Claire was completely there
for me when...

846
00:48:21,866 --> 00:48:23,368
when my husband came out

847
00:48:23,402 --> 00:48:25,404
and left me and the kids
for his boyfriend.

848
00:48:25,437 --> 00:48:27,071
- Oh, no.
- Oy!

849
00:48:27,105 --> 00:48:28,873
I was blindsided.

850
00:48:28,906 --> 00:48:32,377
I really didn't
see it coming at all.

851
00:48:32,411 --> 00:48:34,313
Claire called me.

852
00:48:34,346 --> 00:48:36,215
I was in publishing at the time

853
00:48:36,248 --> 00:48:40,084
and we were talking about
a book sale to England.

854
00:48:40,118 --> 00:48:42,687
She heard the tone in my voice.

855
00:48:42,720 --> 00:48:44,789
The next morning,
she jumped on a plane,

856
00:48:44,822 --> 00:48:49,160
flew to L.A. and took the kids
while I went off to the desert.

857
00:48:49,193 --> 00:48:52,364
Just remember staring out
over the landscape.

858
00:48:52,397 --> 00:48:55,733
I couldn't even think at first.

859
00:48:55,766 --> 00:49:00,771
But being alone for those two
days was exactly what I needed.

860
00:49:00,805 --> 00:49:03,908
By the time I got back,
she turned into bloody Mary Poppins.

861
00:49:03,941 --> 00:49:06,445
The kids had planted carrots

862
00:49:06,478 --> 00:49:09,448
in the back garden, and they'd
been exploring tide pools

863
00:49:09,481 --> 00:49:10,848
and making cookies.

864
00:49:10,882 --> 00:49:13,716
- They were having the best time.
- Aw...

865
00:49:13,718 --> 00:49:17,989
Claire gave me what I so needed
those couple of days

866
00:49:18,022 --> 00:49:21,792
as if it was the easiest thing
in the world.

867
00:49:21,826 --> 00:49:25,464
She... She just knew.

868
00:49:25,497 --> 00:49:28,065
And later she introduced me
to someone else

869
00:49:28,099 --> 00:49:31,068
who'd been
in a similar situation.

870
00:49:31,102 --> 00:49:33,037
She was a life saver.

871
00:49:37,875 --> 00:49:40,044
I can't believe I just barfed
all that out

872
00:49:40,077 --> 00:49:41,413
in a room full of strangers.

873
00:49:41,446 --> 00:49:44,048
No! It's why we're here.

874
00:49:44,081 --> 00:49:47,286
You know, I just feel that
Claire brought us all together.

875
00:49:47,319 --> 00:49:49,954
- You know what I mean?
- Oh, yes.

876
00:49:49,987 --> 00:49:53,425
I worry that my daughter
won't be able to trust men.

877
00:49:53,458 --> 00:49:56,295
She's already made some
horrible boyfriend choices.

878
00:49:56,328 --> 00:50:00,031
Oh, you and my mom must have
had a field day on that one.

879
00:50:00,064 --> 00:50:03,167
- She loved your boyfriend.
- No kidding!

880
00:50:03,202 --> 00:50:05,370
When we broke up,
she went into mourning.

881
00:50:05,404 --> 00:50:07,104
Oh, but she just wanted you

882
00:50:07,138 --> 00:50:10,509
not to be too hasty,
to take a last look.

883
00:50:10,542 --> 00:50:12,311
- Right.
- She did think a lot of him.

884
00:50:12,344 --> 00:50:15,046
Yeah, she made that
crystal clear.

885
00:50:15,079 --> 00:50:17,449
And that I wasn't
getting any younger.

886
00:50:18,816 --> 00:50:20,117
I think she was afraid

887
00:50:20,151 --> 00:50:21,386
she wasn't getting any younger

888
00:50:21,420 --> 00:50:24,423
and she wanted to be
the fun grandmother,

889
00:50:24,456 --> 00:50:25,990
not the old granny.

890
00:50:26,023 --> 00:50:27,792
Yes, and it wasn't that

891
00:50:27,825 --> 00:50:30,094
she wasn't proud
of your success.

892
00:50:30,127 --> 00:50:33,965
It's just that she didn't
want you to miss out.

893
00:50:34,865 --> 00:50:36,201
Yeah, right.

894
00:50:37,469 --> 00:50:39,504
Are you doing okay?

895
00:50:39,538 --> 00:50:40,805
Fine.

896
00:50:40,838 --> 00:50:42,139
Of course.

897
00:50:42,173 --> 00:50:45,076
Oh, that sounded
exactly like Claire.

898
00:50:45,109 --> 00:50:47,446
She would always say,
"I'm fine."

899
00:50:47,479 --> 00:50:49,013
Marriage, check.

900
00:50:49,046 --> 00:50:50,282
Work, check.

901
00:50:50,315 --> 00:50:52,149
Except when it came to you.

902
00:50:52,183 --> 00:50:53,452
She was only as happy

903
00:50:53,485 --> 00:50:55,820
as your last conversation
with her.

904
00:50:57,989 --> 00:50:59,358
That's just it.

905
00:50:59,391 --> 00:51:01,526
Our last conversation,

906
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:05,029
I, um... We...

907
00:51:05,062 --> 00:51:06,298
Excuse me.

908
00:51:09,100 --> 00:51:10,901
She mention
that last conversation?

909
00:51:10,935 --> 00:51:12,835
- Yeah.
- It was a big disagreement.

910
00:51:12,837 --> 00:51:13,871
Yeah, was.

911
00:51:36,228 --> 00:51:38,497
Sorry.

912
00:51:38,530 --> 00:51:39,498
You okay?

913
00:51:39,531 --> 00:51:41,266
It's alright.

914
00:51:42,967 --> 00:51:46,505
I've just been sitting here
listening to you all,

915
00:51:46,538 --> 00:51:48,573
and I feel like you're talking
about someone

916
00:51:48,607 --> 00:51:51,276
I didn't know.

917
00:51:51,310 --> 00:51:54,313
It's ironic
the way Mom was there

918
00:51:54,346 --> 00:51:56,415
for all of you,
so compassionate.

919
00:51:56,448 --> 00:51:59,882
- For me, not so much.
- Oh, sweetie.

920
00:51:59,884 --> 00:52:03,886
My life just always seemed
really messy compared to hers.

921
00:52:03,888 --> 00:52:05,888
Honey, well, life is messy.

922
00:52:05,890 --> 00:52:07,535
But your mother knew how
to clean up very well.

923
00:52:07,559 --> 00:52:09,927
- Yeah...
- She didn't want to burden you.

924
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:11,396
I wish she had!
That's the thing,

925
00:52:11,430 --> 00:52:12,564
that's what distanced us.

926
00:52:12,597 --> 00:52:14,198
She never told me anything.

927
00:52:14,232 --> 00:52:16,601
Maybe her not telling
you some things

928
00:52:16,635 --> 00:52:19,538
was her way of showing her love.

929
00:52:19,571 --> 00:52:21,138
What does that mean?

930
00:52:21,172 --> 00:52:24,008
I mean that...

931
00:52:24,041 --> 00:52:26,043
Well, I can think of
one example.

932
00:52:26,077 --> 00:52:29,548
- Don't. No.
- I know it's inappropriate.

933
00:52:29,581 --> 00:52:31,091
- Yeah, it is.
- It's okay. What is it?

934
00:52:31,115 --> 00:52:32,584
It's inappropriate.

935
00:52:32,617 --> 00:52:35,920
No, honestly, um...

936
00:52:35,953 --> 00:52:37,955
Honestly, it makes me
too ashamed, so...

937
00:52:37,988 --> 00:52:40,024
No really, I mean...

938
00:52:40,057 --> 00:52:42,527
- I really want to know.
- Marlene, don't go there.

939
00:52:42,561 --> 00:52:44,095
How embarrassing
could it really be,

940
00:52:44,128 --> 00:52:45,497
after your story about Rodger?

941
00:52:49,368 --> 00:52:50,933
It was right after Rodger.

942
00:52:50,935 --> 00:52:54,937
I think the lines got
a little blurred for me

943
00:52:54,939 --> 00:52:56,408
with Claire and I...

944
00:52:59,644 --> 00:53:02,347
I had a thing with, with Tom.

945
00:53:04,982 --> 00:53:06,651
My dad?

946
00:53:09,488 --> 00:53:11,456
What do you mean by "a thing"?

947
00:53:11,490 --> 00:53:13,124
A nothing thing,

948
00:53:13,157 --> 00:53:17,329
a one night, drunken,
million years ago,

949
00:53:17,362 --> 00:53:20,064
deeply regrettable thing,
that I wish

950
00:53:20,097 --> 00:53:22,166
that you mother
never found out about, but...

951
00:53:22,199 --> 00:53:24,269
Tom told her everything because
he didn't want there

952
00:53:24,302 --> 00:53:25,637
to be any secrets...
between them.

953
00:53:25,670 --> 00:53:27,572
Jesus, poor Mom...

954
00:53:27,606 --> 00:53:31,276
Yeah, she was,
she was very angry.

955
00:53:31,309 --> 00:53:33,478
And very upset.

956
00:53:33,512 --> 00:53:38,115
She said it made her
even more upset

957
00:53:38,149 --> 00:53:41,253
because I'd been
so dishonest about it.

958
00:53:41,286 --> 00:53:46,023
See, your mother had
a very strong moral compass

959
00:53:46,056 --> 00:53:47,426
and she followed it.

960
00:53:47,459 --> 00:53:52,397
And... and I never
really had that, so...

961
00:53:52,431 --> 00:53:54,466
How was she still your friend?

962
00:53:55,700 --> 00:53:58,303
Well, it was a long time ago,

963
00:53:58,336 --> 00:54:03,073
and, uh, we almost
didn't get past it.

964
00:54:03,107 --> 00:54:07,111
But she was determined
to forgive me.

965
00:54:07,144 --> 00:54:13,015
She saw forgiveness as kind
of a spiritual achievement.

966
00:54:13,017 --> 00:54:14,486
And, uh...

967
00:54:14,519 --> 00:54:17,522
And this was sort of
a life lesson for her,

968
00:54:17,556 --> 00:54:19,758
something like that, you know...

969
00:54:19,791 --> 00:54:23,695
Anyway,
she did forgive me, so...

970
00:54:23,728 --> 00:54:27,097
I just didn't really
forgive myself, so...

971
00:54:29,234 --> 00:54:31,369
Why didn't she tell me?

972
00:54:31,403 --> 00:54:34,306
Oh, because
you adored your father.

973
00:54:34,339 --> 00:54:38,343
She didn't want
to tarnish that relationship.

974
00:54:38,376 --> 00:54:40,712
Let's face it.

975
00:54:40,745 --> 00:54:43,113
Tom was irresistible. Heh.

976
00:54:43,147 --> 00:54:44,416
Did you sleep with him too?

977
00:54:45,750 --> 00:54:48,185
What I meant was that...

978
00:54:48,220 --> 00:54:51,523
Claire was aware of how women
responded to him.

979
00:54:51,556 --> 00:54:52,591
Men too.

980
00:54:52,624 --> 00:54:53,658
Yeah.

981
00:54:53,692 --> 00:54:54,659
He just...

982
00:54:54,693 --> 00:54:56,695
He lit up a room.

983
00:54:58,630 --> 00:55:00,765
I'm really sorry, Caroline.

984
00:55:07,606 --> 00:55:09,106
Tom adored

985
00:55:09,139 --> 00:55:10,208
Claire.

986
00:55:10,242 --> 00:55:13,077
They were soulmates, really.

987
00:55:14,779 --> 00:55:19,081
You know, in France, we say:

988
00:55:19,083 --> 00:55:22,387
"On ne fout pas un mariage en
I'air à cause d'un coup de cul",

989
00:55:22,420 --> 00:55:25,223
which means, you don't
throw away a marriage

990
00:55:25,257 --> 00:55:27,259
because of a piece of ass.

991
00:55:27,292 --> 00:55:29,728
- No offense.
- None taken.

992
00:55:29,761 --> 00:55:34,164
Marriage, well, love,

993
00:55:34,198 --> 00:55:36,401
it's bigger than a bedroom.

994
00:55:37,802 --> 00:55:42,104
They never lost their magic
the way most couples do.

995
00:55:42,106 --> 00:55:44,509
I always thought they were
so romantic,

996
00:55:44,543 --> 00:55:47,412
in an old-fashioned way.

997
00:55:47,445 --> 00:55:51,249
He'd come home from work,
and she'd put on perfume.

998
00:55:51,283 --> 00:55:52,651
He'd make martinis

999
00:55:52,684 --> 00:55:55,353
and lift her up for a kiss.

1000
00:55:55,387 --> 00:55:58,323
Is that what that photo is?

1001
00:55:58,356 --> 00:56:00,759
Yeah, I took that.

1002
00:56:00,792 --> 00:56:04,629
Well, you have your mother's
eyes and her eye.

1003
00:56:06,631 --> 00:56:08,833
Okay, well,

1004
00:56:08,867 --> 00:56:10,835
I'm a lawyer, as you know,

1005
00:56:10,869 --> 00:56:15,139
and I have some questions,
I was hoping to answer today,

1006
00:56:15,172 --> 00:56:16,775
since clearly
you all knew my mother

1007
00:56:16,808 --> 00:56:19,611
a lot better than I did.

1008
00:56:19,644 --> 00:56:22,414
I've been going
through her things.

1009
00:56:22,447 --> 00:56:25,182
I found her wedding dress
in the attic,

1010
00:56:25,216 --> 00:56:27,752
which I didn't know she kept.

1011
00:56:27,786 --> 00:56:32,657
And I noticed that the seams
had been let out at the waist.

1012
00:56:33,792 --> 00:56:35,660
You were at the wedding...

1013
00:56:35,694 --> 00:56:37,262
Stress eating?

1014
00:56:38,463 --> 00:56:40,899
No.

1015
00:56:40,932 --> 00:56:43,368
She was pregnant.

1016
00:56:43,401 --> 00:56:46,170
So, my Catholic mother
who told me

1017
00:56:46,204 --> 00:56:50,208
she had a flu at her wedding
was pregnant with me.

1018
00:56:50,241 --> 00:56:52,577
She always planned to tell you.

1019
00:56:52,611 --> 00:56:54,679
Did my dad know?

1020
00:56:54,713 --> 00:56:56,848
She told him on their honeymoon.

1021
00:56:58,216 --> 00:56:59,684
That must have been a surprise.

1022
00:56:59,718 --> 00:57:01,753
Well, I don't think
either one of them

1023
00:57:01,786 --> 00:57:04,522
wanted to start
a family immediately.

1024
00:57:05,724 --> 00:57:08,360
But Caroline,
when you were born,

1025
00:57:08,393 --> 00:57:13,698
he was totally in love,
and a natural father.

1026
00:57:17,902 --> 00:57:20,839
When my brother
was born "too soon,"

1027
00:57:20,872 --> 00:57:24,342
my mother
was called "a sinner." Heh.

1028
00:57:24,376 --> 00:57:25,519
I mean, it was hard to shake off

1029
00:57:25,543 --> 00:57:27,679
that indoctrination
in those days.

1030
00:57:27,712 --> 00:57:29,781
Now, it's almost
the opposite extreme.

1031
00:57:29,814 --> 00:57:31,850
My daughter and her boyfriend

1032
00:57:31,883 --> 00:57:34,753
got married only after
they'd had two kids.

1033
00:57:34,786 --> 00:57:38,723
And my granddaughters
were her flower girls.

1034
00:57:39,958 --> 00:57:41,893
In France, you know,
couples often

1035
00:57:41,926 --> 00:57:43,561
don't get married
until their children

1036
00:57:43,595 --> 00:57:45,497
are teenagers, if at all.

1037
00:57:45,530 --> 00:57:49,267
Did my mom ever say
how she felt about it?

1038
00:57:49,300 --> 00:57:53,872
Oh, If it wasn't for
all that Catholic guilt

1039
00:57:53,905 --> 00:57:55,507
your grandmother threw at her,

1040
00:57:55,540 --> 00:57:58,777
- I don't think she would've given a damn.
- Mm-mm.

1041
00:57:58,810 --> 00:58:01,813
She was so happy

1042
00:58:01,846 --> 00:58:03,682
being pregnant with you.

1043
00:58:06,885 --> 00:58:08,620
Well, thank God
for us old hippies

1044
00:58:08,653 --> 00:58:10,455
who lightened everything
the hell up!

1045
00:58:12,323 --> 00:58:15,393
- And feminism made a dent.
- Yeah.

1046
00:58:15,427 --> 00:58:18,596
My mom always said
that it passed her by.

1047
00:58:18,630 --> 00:58:20,565
She had three kids,
and my father

1048
00:58:20,598 --> 00:58:23,334
never changed a diaper
or did a dish.

1049
00:58:25,303 --> 00:58:28,006
We were lucky
to be born when we were.

1050
00:58:28,039 --> 00:58:29,574
Yup. That's right.

1051
00:58:29,607 --> 00:58:32,544
My mother told me
a horrific story

1052
00:58:32,577 --> 00:58:35,714
about her roommate
who got pregnant

1053
00:58:35,747 --> 00:58:39,684
and went to Mexico
and came back hemorrhaging.

1054
00:58:43,521 --> 00:58:47,025
Something that will always
define my friendship with Claire

1055
00:58:47,058 --> 00:58:50,795
was something
she did for me many years ago.

1056
00:58:53,631 --> 00:58:55,467
I was 42 and pregnant.

1057
00:58:55,500 --> 00:58:58,301
I have a friend that age
who's been trying for years.

1058
00:58:58,303 --> 00:59:01,606
Yeah, well, I wasn't trying.

1059
00:59:01,639 --> 00:59:04,976
I already had two kids,
teenagers.

1060
00:59:05,009 --> 00:59:07,612
I couldn't handle an infant.

1061
00:59:07,645 --> 00:59:10,915
And my husband,
he'd never understand.

1062
00:59:12,650 --> 00:59:17,223
It would have been the end
of us... and the family.

1063
00:59:19,090 --> 00:59:22,494
But if I kept it, it would have
been the end of me.

1064
00:59:32,504 --> 00:59:34,072
I needed someone to trust

1065
00:59:34,105 --> 00:59:38,076
that could take me
to the clinic...

1066
00:59:38,109 --> 00:59:39,978
and stay with me,

1067
00:59:40,011 --> 00:59:43,815
and I asked Claire, and...

1068
00:59:43,848 --> 00:59:46,017
And she did this for me.

1069
00:59:48,987 --> 00:59:53,356
Was one of those perfect
spring mornings.

1070
00:59:53,358 --> 00:59:56,494
The plum trees were in bloom
along the streets.

1071
00:59:56,528 --> 00:59:57,996
So beautiful.

1072
01:00:00,098 --> 01:00:03,868
And there I was,
about to end a life.

1073
01:00:03,902 --> 01:00:06,971
I asked Claire
to stop, turn around,

1074
01:00:07,005 --> 01:00:09,541
and she looked at me and said...

1075
01:00:12,610 --> 01:00:16,548
"It's time
for you choose your life."

1076
01:00:21,452 --> 01:00:23,087
I cried for a week.

1077
01:00:24,556 --> 01:00:26,457
She called me every day.

1078
01:00:30,094 --> 01:00:31,896
It's never easy
to make that choice.

1079
01:00:31,930 --> 01:00:33,565
No.

1080
01:00:33,598 --> 01:00:35,633
I'm so sorry,
that must have been horrible.

1081
01:00:35,667 --> 01:00:39,037
Yeah, that's one thing my mom
and I always agreed on.

1082
01:00:54,552 --> 01:00:57,922
So, Wendy,

1083
01:00:57,956 --> 01:01:01,092
do you want to tell
everyone how you met Mom?

1084
01:01:01,125 --> 01:01:02,861
Ah... let's see.

1085
01:01:02,894 --> 01:01:06,698
A couple of years ago, Claire
sat next to me on a flight.

1086
01:01:06,731 --> 01:01:08,700
And we just hit it off.

1087
01:01:08,733 --> 01:01:10,668
- Are you a doctor?
- Yes.

1088
01:01:10,702 --> 01:01:12,837
Yes, I heard about you.

1089
01:01:12,871 --> 01:01:14,472
But look, on the way back,

1090
01:01:14,505 --> 01:01:16,808
all your mother did
was talk about you.

1091
01:01:16,841 --> 01:01:20,879
And what you do...
and why two vital women

1092
01:01:20,912 --> 01:01:23,448
would "choose"
such hard careers.

1093
01:01:23,481 --> 01:01:24,582
Yeah, yeah.

1094
01:01:24,616 --> 01:01:25,984
I know, she was always on me

1095
01:01:26,017 --> 01:01:27,785
about why I didn't go work
at a firm

1096
01:01:27,819 --> 01:01:30,453
that does "fun" stuff
instead of social justice.

1097
01:01:30,455 --> 01:01:32,156
Well, she got it though,
she really got it.

1098
01:01:32,190 --> 01:01:34,826
- She did.
- You know, while we're landing,

1099
01:01:34,859 --> 01:01:37,161
she pulls out her checkbook
writes a donation

1100
01:01:37,195 --> 01:01:39,631
to one of the clinics
I was overseeing.

1101
01:01:39,664 --> 01:01:41,599
She volunteered
there too, right?

1102
01:01:41,633 --> 01:01:44,736
She did, yeah.
And we would have... Oh...

1103
01:01:44,769 --> 01:01:47,138
We would have lunch together
afterwards and...

1104
01:01:48,207 --> 01:01:51,643
your mother was curious
about me.

1105
01:01:51,676 --> 01:01:53,711
She was curious about my work

1106
01:01:53,745 --> 01:01:56,014
and about me
being African American.

1107
01:01:56,047 --> 01:02:00,118
She was not afraid to ask
very specific questions.

1108
01:02:00,151 --> 01:02:05,823
We had the, the best
conversations about race

1109
01:02:05,857 --> 01:02:09,060
and everything that,
you know, I have to deal with

1110
01:02:09,093 --> 01:02:10,561
and what it means to me

1111
01:02:10,595 --> 01:02:12,664
and how it affects me
on a daily basis.

1112
01:02:12,697 --> 01:02:14,198
I mean...

1113
01:02:14,233 --> 01:02:16,501
it was okay to be uncomfortable.

1114
01:02:20,272 --> 01:02:25,643
Anyway, she also pushed me
to have my very first massage.

1115
01:02:25,677 --> 01:02:28,713
Yes, I agree with that.

1116
01:02:28,746 --> 01:02:31,716
I just didn't, you know,
realize how depleted I was.

1117
01:02:31,749 --> 01:02:35,887
And your mom, she cared
about my well-being.

1118
01:02:37,188 --> 01:02:39,590
- Was the massage with Mitzi?
- Yes, it was.

1119
01:02:40,725 --> 01:02:41,826
Well, don't they always say

1120
01:02:41,859 --> 01:02:44,527
put your own oxygen mask
on first?

1121
01:02:44,529 --> 01:02:46,529
- That they do.
- Can't help anyone.

1122
01:02:48,099 --> 01:02:50,269
Oh, that's Robert,

1123
01:02:50,302 --> 01:02:51,903
he lives
in the basement apartment.

1124
01:02:54,706 --> 01:02:57,075
Oh, is Claire's book club
still meeting?

1125
01:02:57,108 --> 01:02:58,710
Nope.

1126
01:02:58,743 --> 01:03:00,745
Sorry to disturb
your ladies' lunch.

1127
01:03:00,778 --> 01:03:03,614
Or knitting club.

1128
01:03:03,648 --> 01:03:05,817
- This package just arrived.
- Oh...

1129
01:03:05,850 --> 01:03:07,895
And I wanted to let you know
there's also a car blocking

1130
01:03:07,919 --> 01:03:09,787
the neighbor's driveway

1131
01:03:09,821 --> 01:03:12,190
and the meter maid is
at the top of the block, so...

1132
01:03:12,224 --> 01:03:13,556
- Thank you.
- Yeah.

1133
01:03:13,558 --> 01:03:15,260
- That might be me.
- Ah.

1134
01:03:15,294 --> 01:03:16,761
I'll be back.

1135
01:03:19,197 --> 01:03:20,798
It's for Mom.

1136
01:03:29,241 --> 01:03:32,211
Oh, it's California poppy seed.

1137
01:03:32,244 --> 01:03:33,711
She would scatter them

1138
01:03:33,745 --> 01:03:36,014
- in road dividers, vacant lots.
- Yes.

1139
01:03:36,047 --> 01:03:38,750
- Yes, she did do that.
- Yeah, she used to stop her car

1140
01:03:38,783 --> 01:03:41,584
on the side of the highway
and get out and throw seeds.

1141
01:03:41,586 --> 01:03:44,722
As a kid, it was so embarrassing.

1142
01:03:44,756 --> 01:03:46,090
I think that she did that

1143
01:03:46,124 --> 01:03:47,892
on the first day
that we met in Charleston.

1144
01:03:47,925 --> 01:03:51,062
- Really?
- Yeah. So, I was an aspiring singer,

1145
01:03:51,095 --> 01:03:52,597
but I couldn't make
any money at it,

1146
01:03:52,630 --> 01:03:54,266
so I was working
as a photographer.

1147
01:03:54,299 --> 01:03:56,634
And I think
that was Claire's first book,

1148
01:03:56,667 --> 01:03:58,870
um, "Gardens of the South".

1149
01:03:58,903 --> 01:04:00,239
Aw, that first night,

1150
01:04:00,272 --> 01:04:04,108
I took her
to this funky little honky-tonk,

1151
01:04:04,142 --> 01:04:06,811
and we bonded over barbecue.

1152
01:04:09,013 --> 01:04:11,216
She found out
that I was a songwriter

1153
01:04:11,250 --> 01:04:14,219
and she asked me to sing
one of my songs for her.

1154
01:04:14,253 --> 01:04:16,988
But, you know, I was so worried

1155
01:04:17,021 --> 01:04:19,824
that this poised Yankee lady

1156
01:04:19,857 --> 01:04:21,993
would think that I was
some southern fried hick.

1157
01:04:22,026 --> 01:04:25,628
But... I sang for her,

1158
01:04:25,630 --> 01:04:29,000
and, uh, after I was finished,

1159
01:04:29,033 --> 01:04:32,637
she just looked at me
and she said,

1160
01:04:32,670 --> 01:04:35,274
"What are you doing
taking pictures

1161
01:04:35,307 --> 01:04:38,776
when you can sing
and write songs like that?"

1162
01:04:38,810 --> 01:04:40,778
Oh... Mom.

1163
01:04:40,812 --> 01:04:42,281
That's so sweet.

1164
01:04:44,916 --> 01:04:48,653
I find I keep talking to her
like she's still here.

1165
01:04:48,686 --> 01:04:49,720
She is.

1166
01:04:49,754 --> 01:04:51,689
I talk to my mom all the time.

1167
01:04:51,722 --> 01:04:53,358
She's still telling me
what to do.

1168
01:04:57,329 --> 01:04:59,231
Caroline, your mother

1169
01:04:59,264 --> 01:05:01,099
was insanely proud of you,

1170
01:05:01,132 --> 01:05:05,204
graduating cum laude
and passing the bar.

1171
01:05:05,237 --> 01:05:06,338
I think she even may have

1172
01:05:06,371 --> 01:05:07,972
been a little intimidated

1173
01:05:08,005 --> 01:05:10,242
by all your accomplishments,

1174
01:05:10,275 --> 01:05:12,710
and maybe even a little envious

1175
01:05:12,743 --> 01:05:14,246
of your young, single life.

1176
01:05:14,279 --> 01:05:17,115
Mom, jealous of me? No.

1177
01:05:17,148 --> 01:05:18,950
I think that she had thought

1178
01:05:18,983 --> 01:05:21,986
that you'd done
so much for the world...

1179
01:05:22,019 --> 01:05:26,090
and that she wanted to make sure that you
were taking care of your own world too.

1180
01:05:26,124 --> 01:05:30,094
You know, she didn't want you
to put that on hold.

1181
01:05:30,128 --> 01:05:32,130
And for what it's worth,

1182
01:05:32,163 --> 01:05:34,366
she thought
you'd make a great mom.

1183
01:05:34,399 --> 01:05:36,801
I can't believe
I didn't get a ticket.

1184
01:05:36,834 --> 01:05:38,035
It was so close.

1185
01:05:38,069 --> 01:05:39,371
Oh! You're so lucky.

1186
01:05:39,404 --> 01:05:41,038
It's so impossible around here.

1187
01:05:46,811 --> 01:05:49,947
So, Patty...

1188
01:05:49,981 --> 01:05:52,016
you went to grade school
with Mom, right?

1189
01:05:52,049 --> 01:05:54,752
Oh...

1190
01:05:54,785 --> 01:05:57,922
This is us in first grade!

1191
01:06:00,158 --> 01:06:02,994
Well, that some connection,
losing your teeth together.

1192
01:06:03,027 --> 01:06:07,031
Yeah, but hers grew in
faster and straighter.

1193
01:06:07,064 --> 01:06:08,799
Aw, so cute.

1194
01:06:08,833 --> 01:06:11,270
We were best friends
at Sacred Heart-less.

1195
01:06:12,937 --> 01:06:15,207
She protected me
in what was known

1196
01:06:15,240 --> 01:06:17,008
as "penmanship class"

1197
01:06:17,041 --> 01:06:19,744
from Sister Jean-Marie's
"knuckle rapping."

1198
01:06:19,777 --> 01:06:21,846
You know,
they don't even teach handwriting anymore.

1199
01:06:21,879 --> 01:06:24,182
They don't?

1200
01:06:24,216 --> 01:06:29,488
Three years ago, we found
each other on Facebook.

1201
01:06:29,521 --> 01:06:33,758
We realized we were
each other's oldest friend.

1202
01:06:35,860 --> 01:06:40,164
I've lived in Dayton
since 5th grade.

1203
01:06:40,198 --> 01:06:42,867
I guess I'm
her country bumpkin friend.

1204
01:06:42,900 --> 01:06:46,804
I have to admit, being around
all you accomplished women

1205
01:06:46,837 --> 01:06:49,040
is daunting for this Ohio gal.

1206
01:06:49,073 --> 01:06:51,210
- Oh, no.
- Oh...

1207
01:06:53,945 --> 01:06:56,914
Claire came to visit last March.

1208
01:06:56,948 --> 01:07:02,387
We went on this long walk...
winter was just thawing.

1209
01:07:03,355 --> 01:07:05,390
We ended up having an...

1210
01:07:05,424 --> 01:07:10,194
unexpectedly deep conversation
about our mothers

1211
01:07:10,229 --> 01:07:12,364
and end of life issues.

1212
01:07:13,931 --> 01:07:16,200
I watched my mother die
of Alzheimer's

1213
01:07:16,235 --> 01:07:17,502
for over five years.

1214
01:07:17,536 --> 01:07:20,838
And I still remember
the day that she said,

1215
01:07:20,871 --> 01:07:23,007
"I know you're someone I love."

1216
01:07:23,040 --> 01:07:24,243
Mmm.

1217
01:07:26,978 --> 01:07:28,980
We both wondered whether or not

1218
01:07:29,013 --> 01:07:32,016
we had enough faith
to face death.

1219
01:07:33,318 --> 01:07:37,021
She still had
so much life to live.

1220
01:07:37,054 --> 01:07:39,890
Feels completely unfair,

1221
01:07:39,924 --> 01:07:42,159
really outrageous, really,

1222
01:07:42,193 --> 01:07:43,961
I'm totally furious!

1223
01:07:43,995 --> 01:07:46,398
Amen.

1224
01:07:46,431 --> 01:07:49,834
That's the ravaging part
of a loss like Claire's.

1225
01:08:01,879 --> 01:08:05,016
You know, Claire and I went
on a retreat last year.

1226
01:08:05,049 --> 01:08:07,118
Yeah, to a spa?

1227
01:08:07,151 --> 01:08:09,388
Nope... for creative writing.

1228
01:08:09,421 --> 01:08:10,955
Really?

1229
01:08:10,988 --> 01:08:13,592
Our first assignment
was to write about

1230
01:08:13,625 --> 01:08:15,126
the "what ifs" in our lives.

1231
01:08:15,159 --> 01:08:17,194
What if we'd married
different men.

1232
01:08:17,229 --> 01:08:20,031
What if we gone abroad
and never came back.

1233
01:08:22,234 --> 01:08:25,304
You know, I found a manuscript
with no title

1234
01:08:25,337 --> 01:08:29,140
in one of Mom's computer bags
and nearly tossed it out.

1235
01:08:29,173 --> 01:08:31,008
But then I read
the first few pages

1236
01:08:31,042 --> 01:08:34,145
and the style was so like
the way she talked.

1237
01:08:34,178 --> 01:08:36,881
What was it about?

1238
01:08:36,914 --> 01:08:38,916
- I don't know.
- Pardon?

1239
01:08:38,949 --> 01:08:40,519
That's all I read.

1240
01:08:40,552 --> 01:08:43,154
What the hell
are you waiting for?

1241
01:08:43,187 --> 01:08:45,089
To be honest...

1242
01:08:45,122 --> 01:08:47,158
I was afraid to read more.

1243
01:08:47,191 --> 01:08:48,993
What were you afraid of?

1244
01:08:49,026 --> 01:08:52,029
Maybe she was writing about us.

1245
01:08:52,063 --> 01:08:53,898
I'm not ready to...

1246
01:08:54,666 --> 01:08:56,501
I get it.

1247
01:08:56,535 --> 01:08:58,135
I bet a lot of us have

1248
01:08:58,169 --> 01:08:59,937
unresolved "stuff"
with our mom's.

1249
01:08:59,970 --> 01:09:01,105
No. Not me.

1250
01:09:01,138 --> 01:09:03,140
I know I do.

1251
01:09:06,143 --> 01:09:08,913
Well, you know
what Claire would say...

1252
01:09:10,215 --> 01:09:12,983
"Just keep moving
like you're dancing."

1253
01:09:16,053 --> 01:09:18,122
Oh... I don't know.

1254
01:09:18,155 --> 01:09:20,124
Excuse me. Heh.

1255
01:09:45,584 --> 01:09:49,053
That was Mom's
Chi Gong instructor,

1256
01:09:49,086 --> 01:09:51,556
he came for her Thursday
afternoon lesson.

1257
01:09:53,458 --> 01:09:56,528
He's been in China
for the last two months...

1258
01:09:56,561 --> 01:09:59,264
I had to tell him.

1259
01:10:04,669 --> 01:10:08,172
Oh, Rose, do you want
to open those chocolates?

1260
01:10:08,206 --> 01:10:10,609
- Oh!
- Mmm...

1261
01:10:10,642 --> 01:10:13,678
These are from
A La Mere de Famille,

1262
01:10:13,712 --> 01:10:16,314
the oldest chocolate shop
in Paris.

1263
01:10:16,348 --> 01:10:17,616
And Claire's favorite.

1264
01:10:18,983 --> 01:10:20,619
Voilà.

1265
01:10:20,652 --> 01:10:23,120
- Gorgeous.
- Bon Appétit.

1266
01:10:23,154 --> 01:10:26,691
- Oh, my.
- I'm sorry if this is awkward,

1267
01:10:26,725 --> 01:10:31,996
but I know your mother died
in an accident,

1268
01:10:32,029 --> 01:10:35,300
I never heard
what happened exactly...

1269
01:10:37,101 --> 01:10:40,739
Oh, I sorry, I didn't realize
that you didn't...

1270
01:10:40,772 --> 01:10:43,375
Me either.

1271
01:10:47,779 --> 01:10:49,581
Last month, Mom went to visit

1272
01:10:49,614 --> 01:10:52,684
her editor in Napa,
Louise Greene.

1273
01:10:52,717 --> 01:10:56,455
Some of you may know of her,
she's 82 going on 28.

1274
01:10:56,488 --> 01:10:58,590
Yes, I always said I wanted
to be her when I grew up.

1275
01:10:58,623 --> 01:11:00,559
Amazing woman.

1276
01:11:02,394 --> 01:11:05,764
There was an unexpected rain
and the roads were slick.

1277
01:11:05,797 --> 01:11:08,333
A big rig truck coming
from the opposite direction,

1278
01:11:08,366 --> 01:11:10,167
it jackknifed...

1279
01:11:10,202 --> 01:11:13,738
crossed the center divider
into oncoming traffic.

1280
01:11:13,772 --> 01:11:16,073
I was told she died instantly.

1281
01:11:17,409 --> 01:11:19,778
Well...

1282
01:11:19,811 --> 01:11:23,080
going quickly without pain

1283
01:11:23,113 --> 01:11:26,150
or illness or dread,

1284
01:11:26,183 --> 01:11:30,187
even though
it was way too soon...

1285
01:11:30,222 --> 01:11:33,658
it's not all bad.

1286
01:11:33,692 --> 01:11:36,126
I called her on the way to work,

1287
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:38,497
maybe 20 minutes
before the crash.

1288
01:11:38,530 --> 01:11:40,499
I know from her phone log

1289
01:11:40,532 --> 01:11:43,401
I was the last person
that she spoke to.

1290
01:11:43,435 --> 01:11:47,439
Oh, there must be
some comfort in that.

1291
01:11:47,472 --> 01:11:48,740
None.

1292
01:11:50,642 --> 01:11:52,577
See, that's the thing.

1293
01:11:52,611 --> 01:11:56,214
We'd had that big "fracture"
months before.

1294
01:11:56,248 --> 01:11:58,583
And then we'd
come out of our corners

1295
01:11:58,617 --> 01:12:01,720
and taken the gloves off,
and for a while,

1296
01:12:01,753 --> 01:12:04,188
we talked about everything else.

1297
01:12:04,222 --> 01:12:07,592
But that day, when I called,

1298
01:12:07,626 --> 01:12:09,794
I had a secret to tell her

1299
01:12:09,828 --> 01:12:11,530
she was not gonna believe,

1300
01:12:11,563 --> 01:12:13,598
and it was all her fault!

1301
01:12:15,333 --> 01:12:17,769
But I didn't want to tell her

1302
01:12:17,802 --> 01:12:21,573
on the phone
while she was driving, so...

1303
01:12:25,577 --> 01:12:27,379
I waited.

1304
01:12:30,815 --> 01:12:36,655
And she said,
"Oh, I love beautiful secrets."

1305
01:12:38,890 --> 01:12:41,726
She said it was
a "beautiful secret?"

1306
01:12:43,127 --> 01:12:45,263
Did she call it "beautiful"?

1307
01:12:45,297 --> 01:12:46,498
You just said it.

1308
01:12:46,531 --> 01:12:48,333
Heh.

1309
01:12:48,366 --> 01:12:53,271
Oh, I hadn't remembered that
until just now.

1310
01:12:53,305 --> 01:12:55,473
I haven't told anyone.

1311
01:12:55,507 --> 01:13:00,211
Honey, you know,
wherever she is, your mom knows.

1312
01:13:02,146 --> 01:13:05,784
Why don't you... tell us.

1313
01:13:14,392 --> 01:13:18,263
I broke up with Michael
after almost two years.

1314
01:13:18,296 --> 01:13:20,231
And she was really upset.

1315
01:13:20,265 --> 01:13:25,337
She seemed more upset for him
than what I was feeling.

1316
01:13:25,370 --> 01:13:29,341
That's when we totally derailed

1317
01:13:29,374 --> 01:13:32,344
into a full-on blowout fight.

1318
01:13:32,377 --> 01:13:34,779
She let me know that
she just "couldn't believe"

1319
01:13:34,813 --> 01:13:37,282
that after
I'd done the school thing,

1320
01:13:37,315 --> 01:13:38,583
and the work thing so well,

1321
01:13:38,617 --> 01:13:42,454
I'd completely blown
the "good man thing",

1322
01:13:42,487 --> 01:13:44,522
is what she called it.

1323
01:13:44,556 --> 01:13:47,859
Attempting to, you know,
rationally explain to her

1324
01:13:47,892 --> 01:13:50,395
that it wasn't her choice,
it was mine,

1325
01:13:50,428 --> 01:13:53,398
didn't go over well.

1326
01:13:53,431 --> 01:13:56,401
And I didn't stay civil
for long either.

1327
01:13:56,434 --> 01:14:00,205
Well, it's natural,
you were upset.

1328
01:14:00,238 --> 01:14:02,307
So, for weeks afterward,

1329
01:14:02,340 --> 01:14:05,510
she begged me
to see Michael again.

1330
01:14:05,543 --> 01:14:08,647
She kept saying, "Just see him,
meet for a little talk",

1331
01:14:08,680 --> 01:14:12,517
be absolutely sure that
you are ready to let him go,

1332
01:14:12,550 --> 01:14:14,285
that I wasn't being impulsive.

1333
01:14:15,387 --> 01:14:17,689
I said no blanking way.

1334
01:14:17,722 --> 01:14:20,223
You can say "fucking."

1335
01:14:20,225 --> 01:14:22,694
I said no fucking way,

1336
01:14:22,727 --> 01:14:26,297
and I actually dated

1337
01:14:26,331 --> 01:14:29,601
some other guys,
nice, boring guys.

1338
01:14:29,634 --> 01:14:32,704
Good for you.
Boring is underrated.

1339
01:14:34,806 --> 01:14:38,743
Well, I ended up

1340
01:14:38,777 --> 01:14:42,480
in a moment
of weakness or clarity,

1341
01:14:42,514 --> 01:14:44,416
I'm not sure which,

1342
01:14:44,449 --> 01:14:47,752
texting Michael to see
if he wanted to meet and talk.

1343
01:14:50,288 --> 01:14:52,357
And...?

1344
01:14:52,390 --> 01:14:54,359
Well, we "met" all right,

1345
01:14:54,392 --> 01:14:56,259
but I don't think
we said one word,

1346
01:14:56,261 --> 01:14:58,296
besides "Make sure it's locked",

1347
01:14:58,329 --> 01:15:00,932
and I left the next morning.

1348
01:15:03,568 --> 01:15:05,804
That day in May,
when I called Mom,

1349
01:15:05,837 --> 01:15:08,540
was just moments
after I found out

1350
01:15:08,573 --> 01:15:10,575
I was pregnant from that little talk...

1351
01:15:10,608 --> 01:15:12,944
she insisted
I have with Michael.

1352
01:15:16,047 --> 01:15:19,317
Why didn't I just tell her then?

1353
01:15:19,350 --> 01:15:21,720
Oh, sweetie.

1354
01:15:25,457 --> 01:15:30,795
And how is that
"beautiful secret" doing?

1355
01:15:35,500 --> 01:15:38,803
- Oh, my goodness.
- Oh, my goodness.

1356
01:15:40,939 --> 01:15:43,308
Michael must be thrilled.

1357
01:15:44,642 --> 01:15:46,911
- I haven't told him.
- Oh...

1358
01:15:48,680 --> 01:15:52,817
I haven't decided
what to do about it.

1359
01:15:52,851 --> 01:15:55,787
You mean about him or...?

1360
01:15:55,820 --> 01:15:57,522
Both.

1361
01:15:59,524 --> 01:16:02,727
You know that trip that you were
going to take with your mom...

1362
01:16:02,761 --> 01:16:06,931
could be a really good place
to, um, sort it all out.

1363
01:16:06,965 --> 01:16:08,900
Be a shame
to waste those tickets.

1364
01:16:08,933 --> 01:16:11,436
I was going
to offer them to you.

1365
01:16:11,469 --> 01:16:13,938
- Oh, no, no, no.
- Absolutely not.

1366
01:16:13,972 --> 01:16:15,774
Why don't you take Michael?

1367
01:16:15,807 --> 01:16:17,342
Oh, heh, no way.

1368
01:16:17,375 --> 01:16:19,778
And you could get
some talking done.

1369
01:16:19,811 --> 01:16:23,014
Oh, she's got you all
thinking just like her!

1370
01:16:23,047 --> 01:16:25,683
It's a conspiracy!

1371
01:16:25,717 --> 01:16:27,385
Okay, moving on.

1372
01:16:27,418 --> 01:16:30,355
Come, I want
to show you something.

1373
01:16:37,695 --> 01:16:42,066
So as some of you know,
my mom liked to make altars.

1374
01:16:42,100 --> 01:16:44,102
Oh, her beautiful altars.

1375
01:16:44,135 --> 01:16:47,505
She made one for me with the
kids when my husband left.

1376
01:16:47,539 --> 01:16:49,407
It was very healing for them.

1377
01:16:49,440 --> 01:16:51,976
Yeah, how she made one for me
when I was preparing for the bar

1378
01:16:52,010 --> 01:16:53,978
and I always thought
that was why I passed it.

1379
01:16:54,012 --> 01:16:56,014
It really got me through.

1380
01:16:57,949 --> 01:17:00,118
So I've started one
for her here,

1381
01:17:00,151 --> 01:17:03,121
and I have
some of her favorite objects,

1382
01:17:03,154 --> 01:17:05,790
and her books, and photographs.

1383
01:17:07,492 --> 01:17:09,894
That's why I asked you all
to bring a remembrance today.

1384
01:17:09,928 --> 01:17:12,430
I was hoping
we could all add to it.

1385
01:17:15,800 --> 01:17:18,870
Last January,
Claire and I went to Stinson Beach.

1386
01:17:18,903 --> 01:17:22,507
And we each made
a list of our regrets,

1387
01:17:22,540 --> 01:17:25,476
and tied them around a rock,
and threw them in the ocean.

1388
01:17:25,510 --> 01:17:30,982
And then we sat in the sand,
nipping from a flask of brandy,

1389
01:17:31,015 --> 01:17:33,117
making plans for this year.

1390
01:17:37,889 --> 01:17:39,157
I picked this up that day,

1391
01:17:39,190 --> 01:17:42,961
and it's wrapped
with a prayer for Claire.

1392
01:17:48,867 --> 01:17:52,136
I just wrote a note to Claire.

1393
01:17:52,170 --> 01:17:54,472
It's sort of a thank you note.

1394
01:18:00,511 --> 01:18:06,517
This is a photo of me,
my wife and our son Max.

1395
01:18:07,585 --> 01:18:08,720
Claire had bought him

1396
01:18:08,753 --> 01:18:10,822
his first pair of drumsticks.

1397
01:18:12,824 --> 01:18:14,025
Damn her. Heh.

1398
01:18:18,696 --> 01:18:19,998
This is Claire and me

1399
01:18:20,031 --> 01:18:22,667
at our first dance recital.

1400
01:18:22,700 --> 01:18:24,168
The teacher gave up on me,

1401
01:18:24,203 --> 01:18:27,939
but Claire was good,
she kept on dancing.

1402
01:18:33,578 --> 01:18:38,082
We saw this beautiful Matisse
exhibit together in Paris.

1403
01:18:38,116 --> 01:18:41,753
And Claire
had particularly loved

1404
01:18:41,786 --> 01:18:43,888
this composition of two women,

1405
01:18:43,922 --> 01:18:47,091
and she said
they looked like sisters,

1406
01:18:47,125 --> 01:18:49,761
and she'd always wanted
a sister, so...

1407
01:18:49,794 --> 01:18:53,197
I'd say she got
a lot of sisters.

1408
01:18:53,232 --> 01:18:55,767
Heh. Yes.

1409
01:18:55,800 --> 01:18:57,902
These are the children

1410
01:18:57,936 --> 01:19:02,774
in the kids' program that
had never seen a dentist.

1411
01:19:02,807 --> 01:19:07,745
Claire was a donor
and she came to visit them.

1412
01:19:07,779 --> 01:19:11,115
I'd like to make a
donation in Claire's name.

1413
01:19:11,149 --> 01:19:13,516
Oh, I would too.

1414
01:19:13,518 --> 01:19:14,652
Thank you so much.

1415
01:19:14,686 --> 01:19:17,522
I will gladly accept. Thank you.

1416
01:19:17,555 --> 01:19:19,824
I'm going to miss our long talks

1417
01:19:19,857 --> 01:19:23,962
at our favorite restaurant,
the Odeon,

1418
01:19:23,995 --> 01:19:29,901
where we would drink champagne
and eat oysters,

1419
01:19:29,934 --> 01:19:32,704
and we'd have
the best confessionals.

1420
01:19:32,737 --> 01:19:35,006
I promise you

1421
01:19:35,039 --> 01:19:38,543
I will always be here
for Caroline.

1422
01:19:40,178 --> 01:19:42,714
Last August,
Claire and I decided

1423
01:19:42,747 --> 01:19:45,116
we would meet
and exchange what we'd written.

1424
01:19:46,285 --> 01:19:48,653
But then we decided
we weren't ready.

1425
01:19:50,021 --> 01:19:52,156
So we started drinking wine.

1426
01:19:52,190 --> 01:19:54,659
How much wine, you ask?

1427
01:19:54,692 --> 01:19:57,929
Enough that we ended up
lying down in my backyard,

1428
01:19:57,962 --> 01:19:59,664
shooting our manuscripts,

1429
01:19:59,697 --> 01:20:01,899
and each other,
with these pistols.

1430
01:20:04,303 --> 01:20:08,172
It felt like the first time
we first met,

1431
01:20:08,207 --> 01:20:10,541
and we felt so free.

1432
01:20:15,113 --> 01:20:19,984
These are lyrics to a song
that I wrote for Claire.

1433
01:20:22,020 --> 01:20:23,721
Well, sing it!

1434
01:20:23,755 --> 01:20:26,124
Oh, I can't,
I didn't bring my guitar.

1435
01:20:26,157 --> 01:20:27,558
Please sing it.

1436
01:20:27,592 --> 01:20:29,160
- I...
- Please.

1437
01:20:30,161 --> 01:20:31,562
Oh...

1438
01:20:35,133 --> 01:20:38,903
<i>♪ There are gifts In the love ♪</i>

1439
01:20:38,936 --> 01:20:42,073
<i>♪ There are gifts In the loss ♪</i>

1440
01:20:42,106 --> 01:20:45,210
<i>♪ Regrets are like rocks ♪</i>

1441
01:20:45,244 --> 01:20:48,780
<i>♪ That sink to the bottom ♪</i>

1442
01:20:48,813 --> 01:20:51,749
<i>♪ Free from the weight ♪</i>

1443
01:20:51,783 --> 01:20:55,953
<i>♪ A new road to cross ♪</i>

1444
01:20:58,290 --> 01:21:01,293
<i>♪ Now you're gone ♪</i>

1445
01:21:01,326 --> 01:21:04,329
<i>♪ But life goes on ♪</i>

1446
01:21:04,363 --> 01:21:07,332
<i>♪ Because love is what stays ♪</i>

1447
01:21:07,366 --> 01:21:10,369
<i>♪ Because love finds a way ♪</i>

1448
01:21:10,402 --> 01:21:13,838
<i>♪ Because love is the answer ♪</i>

1449
01:21:13,871 --> 01:21:17,075
<i>♪ At the end of the day ♪</i>

1450
01:21:17,108 --> 01:21:20,078
<i>♪ Because love is what stays ♪</i>

1451
01:21:20,111 --> 01:21:23,646
<i>♪ Because love finds a way ♪</i>

1452
01:21:23,648 --> 01:21:26,717
<i>♪ Because love will forgive ♪</i>

1453
01:21:26,751 --> 01:21:29,288
<i>♪ At the end of the day ♪</i>

1454
01:21:29,321 --> 01:21:33,691
<i>♪ Only love remains ♪</i>

1455
01:21:37,028 --> 01:21:39,030
Aw, you guys.

1456
01:21:40,164 --> 01:21:41,766
Thank you.

1457
01:21:43,968 --> 01:21:45,413
I went into my mom's room
this morning,

1458
01:21:45,437 --> 01:21:47,004
I was looking
for something to wear.

1459
01:21:47,038 --> 01:21:48,973
This ring was her mother's

1460
01:21:49,006 --> 01:21:51,709
and I found this book of poems

1461
01:21:51,742 --> 01:21:53,378
that I gave to her
for Mother's Day

1462
01:21:53,412 --> 01:21:55,847
a couple years ago.

1463
01:21:55,880 --> 01:21:59,851
I opened it at random
and found these lines:

1464
01:22:02,954 --> 01:22:07,825
"Without warning you left me,
But you returned..."

1465
01:22:09,894 --> 01:22:13,865
I feel like my mother has
returned to me in all of you.

1466
01:22:39,391 --> 01:22:42,093
And now,
from the "Claire Collection",

1467
01:22:42,126 --> 01:22:45,096
of the best scarves ever...

1468
01:22:45,129 --> 01:22:48,065
I know she would want
you all to have one.

1469
01:22:48,099 --> 01:22:50,067
So please pick your favorite,

1470
01:22:50,101 --> 01:22:54,005
no fighting
and let's have champagne.

1471
01:23:20,365 --> 01:23:23,766
- Oh, and Gloria, you have to drink this.
- Thank you.

1472
01:23:23,768 --> 01:23:26,771
Gloria's been an invaluable part
of our family.

1473
01:23:26,804 --> 01:23:29,208
As you have been "mi familia."

1474
01:23:31,108 --> 01:23:33,978
To Mom, and all of us
who love her.

1475
01:23:34,011 --> 01:23:38,015
May her scarves wrap
each of us in her magic.

1476
01:23:39,784 --> 01:23:42,254
To Claire.

1477
01:23:47,292 --> 01:23:49,394
Oh, we have to take
a picture together.

1478
01:23:49,428 --> 01:23:50,895
Oh, I got that.

1479
01:23:50,928 --> 01:23:53,030
All you have to do
is click right there,

1480
01:23:53,064 --> 01:23:55,500
- stand exactly where I'm standing.
- Okay.

1481
01:23:55,534 --> 01:23:58,203
Alrighty,
and I'm scooching over here.

1482
01:23:59,103 --> 01:24:02,274
Okay.

1483
01:24:02,307 --> 01:24:04,443
Everybody, smile!

1484
01:24:12,917 --> 01:24:14,519
You're not
really going to let them go

1485
01:24:14,553 --> 01:24:15,953
just like that, are you?

1486
01:24:15,987 --> 01:24:17,356
What do you mean?

1487
01:24:24,161 --> 01:24:26,030
Okay, ladies...

1488
01:24:27,299 --> 01:24:29,368
You can't leave just yet.

1489
01:24:29,401 --> 01:24:33,037
There are tap shoes for
every one of you Cinderellas.

1490
01:24:33,070 --> 01:24:36,441
As you know,
she collected these...

1491
01:24:36,475 --> 01:24:40,412
From Goodwill's, garage sales,
anywhere she was.

1492
01:24:40,445 --> 01:24:43,348
Yeah, she found a pair in Paris
and made me dance with her.

1493
01:24:43,382 --> 01:24:46,117
Caroline, you're not really
seriously gonna make us...

1494
01:24:46,150 --> 01:24:49,221
Oh, I seriously really am.

1495
01:24:49,254 --> 01:24:51,055
She is her mother's daughter.

1496
01:24:51,088 --> 01:24:52,491
- Ah, yeah.
- Find your size.

1497
01:24:52,524 --> 01:24:54,191
Oh, gosh!

1498
01:25:09,106 --> 01:25:15,112
Step, step, up,
shuffle, step, step.

1499
01:25:15,146 --> 01:25:18,082
A five, six, seven, eight...

1500
01:25:21,386 --> 01:25:22,887
Oh, yeah!

1501
01:25:28,959 --> 01:25:30,295
Is everyone okay?

1502
01:25:35,099 --> 01:25:36,401
Whoo!

1503
01:25:39,338 --> 01:25:42,541
Honey, there's no perfect life.

1504
01:25:42,574 --> 01:25:43,575
Maybe so.

1505
01:25:43,608 --> 01:25:46,244
But, for the first time,

1506
01:25:46,278 --> 01:25:49,180
feels possible to think about
what to do with mine.

1507
01:25:49,214 --> 01:25:50,382
Mmm.

1508
01:25:51,550 --> 01:25:53,518
"Possible" is a good start.

1509
01:25:56,588 --> 01:25:58,956
Hey...

1510
01:25:58,989 --> 01:26:03,395
Caroline, I hope someday,
you can forgive me.

1511
01:26:05,364 --> 01:26:06,531
I'll call you.

1512
01:26:08,065 --> 01:26:10,034
Okay, thank you.

1513
01:26:18,175 --> 01:26:23,180
Um, this is the advance
to my new CD.

1514
01:26:23,215 --> 01:26:24,649
And I want you to know

1515
01:26:24,683 --> 01:26:27,219
that your mom's song
is on there,

1516
01:26:27,252 --> 01:26:30,955
and that I wouldn't have been
able to do it without her.

1517
01:26:32,357 --> 01:26:34,058
Thank you.

1518
01:26:34,091 --> 01:26:35,394
You're welcome.

1519
01:26:38,028 --> 01:26:40,030
When you decide
what you're going to do,

1520
01:26:40,064 --> 01:26:41,098
will you let us know?

1521
01:26:41,132 --> 01:26:42,334
I will.

1522
01:26:42,367 --> 01:26:43,968
'Cause we're here for you.

1523
01:26:45,002 --> 01:26:46,170
Thank you.

1524
01:26:46,204 --> 01:26:47,972
Alright. Bye.

1525
01:26:50,308 --> 01:26:52,344
Don't wait for anything.

1526
01:26:52,377 --> 01:26:53,678
Yeah?

1527
01:26:53,712 --> 01:26:55,146
Okay.

1528
01:26:56,080 --> 01:26:57,382
Thank you.

1529
01:27:00,285 --> 01:27:02,621
Your mother gave me this,
and I want you to have it.

1530
01:27:04,356 --> 01:27:05,624
Thank you.

1531
01:27:09,494 --> 01:27:10,529
Oh...

1532
01:27:10,562 --> 01:27:12,330
Oh. Hm.

1533
01:27:12,364 --> 01:27:13,398
We love you.

1534
01:27:13,432 --> 01:27:15,267
I love you too.