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<i>-♪ I wanna be with you ♪</i>
-[dance music playing]

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[vocalizing]

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-[Tan] Whoa!
-[Jonathan] Wow!

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Antoni, did you make us egg tacos?

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-Or breakfast tacos, yeah.
-[laughing]

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Technically, they're egg tacos.

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[accented] Egg tacos.
Don't ya know, there?

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[ringing]

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-[Tan] We have another dossier.
-[Antoni] Oh, yay!

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-[Tan] We filling our faces?
-Yeah.

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That means you'll shut up and let me read.

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[laughing]

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"Our hero this week is Josh Eilers."

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Come on, get on in there now. Yep.

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My name is Josh. I'm 32 years old,
and I live in Austin, Texas.

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Yah!

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[Tan] "He's the founder of Ranger Cattle,
a cattle ranch that manages

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the production and distribution
of Wagyu beef throughout Texas,

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which is very expensive,
the best in the world."

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[Antoni] Ooh, we got a cowboy.

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You know I love a cowboy so much.
I married one.

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What I love most about this ranch
is it gives me a sense of pride.

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Come on, now. Yep. [whistles]

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And we grow
the most badass beef in Texas.

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"He is single, but he was
nominated by his ex-girlfriend Kayla…"

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He is the hot mess express…

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[chuckles] …and needs some help
in every aspect of his life.

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I always say
that he has Peter Pan Syndrome.

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[Tan] "…his dream girl who remains
a close friend and business partner."

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-Which I think is really interesting.
-[Antoni] Yeah.

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Since you're the marketing chair,
you gotta figure out how

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to get all of that information
into a picture.

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Josh and I used to date, back in the day.

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He's so charming,
your total Texas gentleman.

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But Josh is flirtatious with other women.

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He's very much, like,
a love-'em-and-leave-'em type.

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Some of the reasons why I nominated him
are part of why we didn't work out.

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But we have since become
really great friends,

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and I help him
with marketing at the ranch.

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[laughs]

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-[Josh] How'd that go?
-You're great.

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[Josh] Me and Kayla,
we fell pretty hard for each other.

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But I didn't do everything right.

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I wasn't the guy she was ready for.

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And I think I'll always regret that.

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We gotta figure out
what's going on inside

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so you can start
to have more flourishing relationships.

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Ready. Set…

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[sizzles]

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It would take an act of God
for me to date Josh again.

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I'm never gonna say never, but he really
has to go through some serious changes.

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Not just, like, on the outside,
but truly on the inside.

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"Prior to raising cattle, he was one
of the youngest rangers in the US Army."

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-Good for him.
-No idea you had rangers in the army.

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-Does that mean cattle rangers?
-No, Power Rangers.

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-They're like "Triceratops!"
-[laughing]

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Josh is one of the youngest
army rangers in American history.

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He's really humble.

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You just wouldn't know right away
that he was a Purple Heart recipient

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or that he was injured in battle, and he's
lucky to be here today and tell the tale.

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[Tan] "While his military career
instilled structure and discipline,

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Josh lacks follow-through
in his romantic relationships."

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"He's never taken any of them
seriously until losing Kayla." Ooh!

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Josh is charming and wonderful,

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but he doesn't shower half the time.

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I don't think he wears underwear.

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[laughs]

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[Josh]
The women definitely prefer me dirty.

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A cowboy is not gonna smell,
you know, all pretty and like flowers.

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They're gonna smell like a ranch.
That's what women are into.

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[Tan] "His philosophy…
who needs to shower or wash your hair

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when you can spend
your day working on a ranch?"

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-Sounds hot.
-[laughing]

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You know, I've put
ten years into this company.

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Those young bulls in the Valero pasture,
we need to run that DNA on 'em.

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Building it bigger and better
every day of my life.

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But I really wanna see
what I can achieve, like, as a man,

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as a father, as a role model,
as a leader of a family.

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I got goosebumps on that one.

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"Josh admits his biological clock
is ticking and knows he needs to grow up

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and fine-tune his lifestyle in order
to live his dream of being a father."

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Yes! Men applying biological
pressure to themselves to reproduce.

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-It's about time, honey. Yes!
-[laughing]

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"Let's help this wannabe husband
so he can lasso the love of his life."

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[all cheering]

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I'm gonna change so I can be a little
less Hugh Hefner and a little more cowboy.

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[laughs]

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-[theme music playing]
-[vocalizing]

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<i>♪ All things just keep getting better ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Oh! ♪</i>

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[country music playing]

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<i>♪ Too long out of the saddle… ♪</i>

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[mooing]

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All right, hold him right there.

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I do love cows.
I think they're so beautiful.

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Especially when the fat
is beautifully marbled.

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[laughs]

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I do not enjoy going to ranches, cattles…

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-Karamo doesn't enjoy going to cattles.
-[Jonathan laughing]

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Oh, hello.

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[Antoni] Is that him?
Aww, look at the cattle.

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I think I'm carrying
one of their cousins in my purse.

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-Oh, my God, there's a baby one!
-[Bobby] Aww!

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[Tan] That's a calf!

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Bobby, do not make out with any cows.

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If I play my cards right…

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-A cow's about to get pregnant!
-[all laughing]

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Hey, hold these, Walker.

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Bring this one back now.

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-Hello!
-I don't know if we should yell.

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-[Tan] You're not to yell around cows?
-[Bobby] Not at them, no.

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Hi, cows.

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Oh, hello.

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-Hi!
-Just give me one second.

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Okay.

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Hey, spin her around.

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Bring her back. Bring her back.

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-Let us know when you're ready. Peace.
-[chuckles] All right, give me one second.

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We're here. We're queer.
Forget about the cows.

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How are you guys?

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Is that a beer? Isn't it ten o'clock?

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Yeah, but we start early so, like,
the whole noon rule doesn't count here.

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I was not expecting the voice.

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Usually, we try to be
up and rolling by five. Yeah.

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He naturally speaks
like Matthew McConaughey.

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These are Wagyu cattle.
We'll breed 'em in a couple days.

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I'm thinking… [imitates McConaughey]
…"All right, all right, all right."

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[chuckles] Yeah.

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[Karamo] Is it peeing?

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-Yes, that's what animals do.
-[Antoni] Karamo.

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-This one's what they call a city slicker.
-I couldn't tell.

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[laughing]

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If you all could smell
what I smell right now…

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[groans]

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…you would understand
why Josh don't got a girlfriend.

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Your hair is so pretty.

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This beard. This hair. This face, honey.
You are working it. Yes!

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All right.

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-Oh, my golly, Moses.
-[Antoni] That is a big boy.

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-He's excited to have someone in there.
-[Antoni] He likes the attention. Like me.

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[laughing]

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This bull's got some big…

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[cowbell rings]

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…bull stuff.

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[moos]

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-How about you show us where you sleep?
-That was a segue.

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[Bobby and Josh laughing]

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Here, walk through
this grass right over here.

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Is there gonna be snakes?

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[Josh] No, there's no snakes.

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-Man, this is wild.
-[Antoni] What's wild about it?

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We're in a very conservative state.

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Raising beef cattle is probably
the most conservative industry.

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Just judging by the looks of you guys,
I don't think y'all are conservative.

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-So, it's not what we're used to here.
-Is it my open, exposed shoulders?

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[all laughing]

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I mean, don't five queer people
show up here on a daily basis?

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[laughing continues]

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Clearly, they do not.

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This is the feed barn.

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[Josh] Yeah, yeah.
It's barley, cottonseed, corn.

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-You were gonna show us where you sleep.
-I sleep here.

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-[Fab Five] Oh!
-[Josh] Up in the shipping.

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I was, like, looking over there.
I'm like, wait, where? Ah!

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He lives over these three mounds
that smell incredibly bad.

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[Bobby] This is where
you invite ladies to?

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She's like,
"I have to get up early tomorrow."

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-[Josh] Watch your step. Come on in.
-[Jonathan] Oh, God.

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[Bobby] This is headquarters?
Or housing? Or…

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This is what we call the living quarters.

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[Tan] Did it come as this,
or did you turn it into this?

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[Josh] We turned it into this.

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Are y'all seeing this?

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[Jonathan] You gotta
loosen it up a little.

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Jesus, take the wheel and drive
this shipping container far, far away.

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[Josh] People say,
"Oh, you live in a trailer."

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There's no wheels. It's not a trailer.

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It's giving me, like,
maybe hazardously built.

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Like, is it safe? Is it "secure"?

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Is this house moving?

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[Antoni] What's this?

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It's all cattle-rancher stuff.

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Where are, like, the personal books?
The journals?

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Oh, my God, he's got a flat iron.

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Chili Cook-Off…

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Candlelight Chili Cook-Off…

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I don't think
he's dusted in here in years.

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[Bobby] Let's go in here.

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An empty printer ink cartridge,
he's like my dad.

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Oh, my God, his Christmas stocking!

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-[Antoni] That's cute, he likes dogs.
-Even that's dirty.

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[Antoni] I like the dream catcher.

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I like when you open a closet
and bugs fly out.

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-That's nice.
-[Josh] Thank you.

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[Tan] Whoa, whoa, whoa,
this is where you sleep?

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-[Josh] Yeah.
-How do we have sex on this?

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[Josh] I don't think we will have sex
on this. Y'all might have sex on this.

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-No, we're not having sex on that.
-[Bobby] No, we don't have sex together.

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-[Antoni] Hey, stereotypes.
-[Jonathan] He's married.

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Can you imagine trying
to have any kind of… [clicks tongue]

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…on this bunk bed? No.

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And the bed's not made!

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It sounds like this provided what
you needed for that stage in your life.

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-Absolutely.
-If you're wanting to start a new stage…

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-Wife, family…
-[Josh] Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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This won't cut it for that stage.
Your cradle right here, the dog…

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-It's not quite a three-bedroom.
-Three-bedroom with a view.

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-[laughs] Yeah.
-With a view of feed.

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[Antoni] Wow!

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These have mold on them.
I didn't know marshmallows can go old.

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[chuckles] What's
Brucella abortus vaccine?

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Next to a nice '98 Cabernet.

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This is what
my mom would call a death trap!

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-[Jonathan] Let's go into your bathroom.
-[Bobby] God!

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I almost fell off these stairs!

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Stay to the right.

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[Jonathan] How much time
are you willing to spend?

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-Getting ready?
-Yeah.

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Oh, I mean, like, five minutes.

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Great! Five minutes is plenty for me.

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Once you wake up and you're moving,

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you're wasting time if you're not working
or getting something done.

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I like to just get my hair wet,
because otherwise, it 'fros out.

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-Yeah, 'cause you've got very curly hair.
-Very curly, very curly, like, yeah.

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I must admit,
I kind of like the long hair.

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I like your long hair too.

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-Thanks, man. I appreciate that.
-You were in the army, weren't you?

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-Yeah.
-And that was, like, high and tight…

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Exactly, so for five years, I couldn't
have my hair longer than this, you know?

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-But will I even have hair at 42?
-That's why I have long hair.

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00:09:49,506 --> 00:09:51,425
'Cause genetically,
I feel like I'm gonna lose it.

232
00:09:51,508 --> 00:09:53,927
I know. Me too, man.
I feel like yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

233
00:09:54,011 --> 00:09:55,888
Is there anything
that you're curious about?

234
00:09:55,971 --> 00:09:57,264
Well, I'm a little bit nervous.

235
00:09:57,348 --> 00:09:58,223
For what?

236
00:09:58,307 --> 00:10:00,934
Well, y'all are slightly more
than I was ready for this morning.

237
00:10:01,018 --> 00:10:03,479
It's not what kind of walks
into the ranch every day.

238
00:10:03,562 --> 00:10:05,356
Which'll be nice. We're gonna have fun.

239
00:10:05,439 --> 00:10:07,941
It's a whole lot of trust
going into you guys, so…

240
00:10:08,025 --> 00:10:09,943
I'm gonna wax your eyebrows off,
shave your head…

241
00:10:10,027 --> 00:10:12,404
-Great.
-Kidding. I'm not doing those things.

242
00:10:12,488 --> 00:10:14,907
-Well, I'm excited. [laughs]
-Me too! Yeah!

243
00:10:14,990 --> 00:10:17,284
Oh, jeez. We'll see how it goes. Yeah.

244
00:10:18,452 --> 00:10:21,080
Bobby, if you kiss another damn cow,

245
00:10:21,163 --> 00:10:23,248
I am not playing with your ass.

246
00:10:23,332 --> 00:10:25,793
[speaking gibberish]

247
00:10:25,876 --> 00:10:27,670
[Jonathan] I wanna tell you about Tan.

248
00:10:27,753 --> 00:10:30,464
His waist-to-ass ratio has really…

249
00:10:30,547 --> 00:10:33,050
-His waist is tiny. This ass is fat.
-[Tan] Tiny.

250
00:10:33,133 --> 00:10:35,761
This is what we're gonna do for you
before the week is done.

251
00:10:35,844 --> 00:10:39,306
Yes, we are gonna put the emphasis
on the butt, with a high-waisted jean.

252
00:10:39,390 --> 00:10:41,767
That's what you wanted, right?
Crop top, high-waisted jean?

253
00:10:41,850 --> 00:10:44,937
-Anyway, I'll let you guys talk about it.
-[all laughing]

254
00:10:45,020 --> 00:10:47,940
-Are you doing all right?
-Oh, yeah. Wow, you guys are a lot.

255
00:10:48,023 --> 00:10:49,983
-I'm the normal one. Mano a mano?
-Yeah, all right.

256
00:10:50,067 --> 00:10:51,944
-Yeah.
-What do you really want from your life?

257
00:10:52,027 --> 00:10:56,115
When I'm, like, an old man,
I have grandkids,

258
00:10:56,198 --> 00:11:01,036
and that I was able to raise
good children who raised good children.

259
00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:03,330
You literally have the dream I wanted.

260
00:11:03,414 --> 00:11:06,291
I'm expecting my first child,
which we're very, very excited about.

261
00:11:06,375 --> 00:11:07,668
-Congratulations.
-Thank you.

262
00:11:07,751 --> 00:11:08,877
I see the look of confusion.

263
00:11:08,961 --> 00:11:11,964
It's the same look that my brother-in-laws
who live on a ranch also had.

264
00:11:12,047 --> 00:11:14,049
It's called a surrogacy process.

265
00:11:14,133 --> 00:11:15,801
Somebody's carrying our baby.

266
00:11:15,884 --> 00:11:17,970
-That is cool.
-I felt exactly like you did.

267
00:11:18,053 --> 00:11:19,555
I'm just ready for that next step.

268
00:11:19,638 --> 00:11:21,890
Pull out what you would wear on a date.

269
00:11:21,974 --> 00:11:24,226
Yeah, we always do
a heavy starch on the jeans.

270
00:11:24,309 --> 00:11:26,937
'Cause I think if you have
a crease in a jean, it's kind of classy.

271
00:11:27,020 --> 00:11:27,896
Yo, wait.

272
00:11:27,980 --> 00:11:30,858
That is not just a heavy starch.

273
00:11:30,941 --> 00:11:32,693
-That is cardboard.
-Yeah.

274
00:11:32,776 --> 00:11:36,321
I could literally bend that, not fold it.
That's insane.

275
00:11:36,405 --> 00:11:38,949
So what you want,
when you pull it, you wanna hear it.

276
00:11:39,032 --> 00:11:41,577
[laughs] What<i> you</i> want.
That's definitely not what I want.

277
00:11:41,660 --> 00:11:43,579
-[laughs]
-[Tan] That's insane.

278
00:11:43,662 --> 00:11:48,667
-Yeah.
-He has his jeans starched so much

279
00:11:49,251 --> 00:11:53,172
that you literally have
to bend them and crack them apart.

280
00:11:53,255 --> 00:11:54,590
You find that comfortable?

281
00:11:54,673 --> 00:11:58,135
I think I do.
And it's just a classic cowboy.

282
00:11:58,218 --> 00:11:59,219
[Tan] That is nuts.

283
00:11:59,303 --> 00:12:02,931
I don't understand
the reason for cardboard jeans.

284
00:12:03,515 --> 00:12:04,767
You're not showering very often.

285
00:12:04,850 --> 00:12:06,852
I just think humans
shower too much in general.

286
00:12:06,935 --> 00:12:09,146
-Okay, let me give you an example.
-Yeah.

287
00:12:09,229 --> 00:12:11,774
-You take this girl on a date.
-All right.

288
00:12:11,857 --> 00:12:13,233
You go home with her.

289
00:12:13,317 --> 00:12:17,029
She takes her clothes off,
and she stinks to high hell.

290
00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:19,114
See where I'm going?

291
00:12:19,198 --> 00:12:20,491
-Can I counter this?
-Please.

292
00:12:20,574 --> 00:12:23,452
What if you never once
got a complaint on any of that, ever?

293
00:12:23,535 --> 00:12:26,622
People are usually too kind
to say, "Hey, you smell."

294
00:12:26,705 --> 00:12:28,207
And what about pheromones?

295
00:12:28,290 --> 00:12:29,208
No woman is thinking,

296
00:12:29,291 --> 00:12:32,377
"Ooh, I can't wait to get to him
because he smells like this."

297
00:12:32,461 --> 00:12:34,463
And then, the hair.

298
00:12:34,546 --> 00:12:35,589
The hair.

299
00:12:35,672 --> 00:12:40,052
His hair is just really,
really, really greasy.

300
00:12:40,135 --> 00:12:45,390
Like I've never ever seen
such greasy hair in my life.

301
00:12:45,474 --> 00:12:46,433
You're a stinky boy.

302
00:12:46,517 --> 00:12:48,352
And what do we do with stinky boys?

303
00:12:48,435 --> 00:12:50,646
Tan and Antoni
are going to wash your hair.

304
00:12:50,729 --> 00:12:52,022
-Now.
-Okay.

305
00:12:52,105 --> 00:12:54,066
Do a wet t-shirt contest.
Take your top off.

306
00:12:54,149 --> 00:12:56,276
-[Tan] No, don't take your top off.
-Oh, what?

307
00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:58,654
-Is there any fresh towels?
-Yeah, right there.

308
00:12:58,737 --> 00:13:01,156
-[Tan] We're claiming that as fresh.
-I'm not gonna smell it.

309
00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:02,908
[Tan] He's gonna put a towel around you.

310
00:13:02,991 --> 00:13:03,909
Like this?

311
00:13:03,992 --> 00:13:05,786
[Tan] You can come all the way up here.

312
00:13:05,869 --> 00:13:08,497
[Jonathan] So, Tan, make sure
you wash down to his scalp.

313
00:13:08,580 --> 00:13:10,207
-Get his roots.
-[Tan] You know I will.

314
00:13:10,290 --> 00:13:12,501
-[Josh] Oh, wow.
-[Tan] It does feel nice. I know it does.

315
00:13:12,584 --> 00:13:14,294
Oh, my God, shoot the bottom!

316
00:13:14,378 --> 00:13:15,838
-It's all brown!
-[Antoni] Whoa!

317
00:13:15,921 --> 00:13:16,964
[Josh] Pretty dramatic.

318
00:13:17,047 --> 00:13:21,093
-That's not dramatic. That's brown water!
-Your hair is brown.

319
00:13:21,176 --> 00:13:23,136
There's cow shit in your scalp, honey.

320
00:13:23,220 --> 00:13:25,597
That's honestly a <i>Queer Eye</i> first.

321
00:13:25,681 --> 00:13:27,683
Did you see the dirt
that came out of that shit?

322
00:13:27,766 --> 00:13:28,684
[Josh] Oh, yeah.

323
00:13:28,767 --> 00:13:32,688
-See, liberals can be fun!
-[all laughing]

324
00:13:33,272 --> 00:13:36,191
-You are beautiful.
-[Tan] Doesn't that feel nice?

325
00:13:36,275 --> 00:13:37,609
[Jonathan] You're a model.

326
00:13:37,693 --> 00:13:41,446
I don't remember the last time
I saw someone's hair run brown

327
00:13:41,530 --> 00:13:43,574
that didn't have
brown hair color in their hair.

328
00:13:43,657 --> 00:13:46,159
Yes. Have you ever loved yourself more?

329
00:13:46,243 --> 00:13:48,579
-[Josh] I think a couple of times.
-[all laughing]

330
00:13:48,662 --> 00:13:51,164
-[Antoni] I wanna see the kitchen.
-[Josh] Okay, let's go.

331
00:13:51,248 --> 00:13:53,750
So, we built
a tasting room right up the hill.

332
00:13:53,834 --> 00:13:57,212
-Do you wanna carry me or no?
-[Josh] No, I'm pretty good.

333
00:13:57,296 --> 00:13:59,423
[Jonathan] I just wanted to make sure.

334
00:13:59,506 --> 00:14:01,508
-[Josh] Let me show you around a bit.
-[Antoni] Yeah.

335
00:14:01,592 --> 00:14:04,928
We have that retail counter here.
If you want a steak, you can come in.

336
00:14:05,012 --> 00:14:06,763
Then we've got somewhat of a kitchen.

337
00:14:06,847 --> 00:14:08,557
-This is a great kitchen!
-It's cool, huh?

338
00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:10,309
[Antoni] How many days a week
you eat steak?

339
00:14:10,392 --> 00:14:12,853
Most days. I'll try
to throw in chicken every now and then,

340
00:14:12,936 --> 00:14:14,938
but not when anyone's watching.

341
00:14:15,022 --> 00:14:17,190
-[Antoni] When nobody's watching?
-Yeah, yeah, yeah.

342
00:14:17,274 --> 00:14:20,569
-Oh, masculinity.
-Meat and potatoes is where it's at.

343
00:14:20,652 --> 00:14:22,404
-Meat and potatoes?
-Best meal in the world.

344
00:14:22,487 --> 00:14:26,074
The best beef would probably be
a New York Strip, super marbled.

345
00:14:26,158 --> 00:14:28,035
Well, that's the point of Wagyu,

346
00:14:28,118 --> 00:14:30,287
and of eating that
is that it's perfectly marbled.

347
00:14:30,370 --> 00:14:32,998
-And what about vegetables?
-I just don't like 'em, you know?

348
00:14:33,081 --> 00:14:35,459
-I hear they're healthy, but--
-It's a rumor.

349
00:14:35,542 --> 00:14:36,919
You know what I mean? [laughs]

350
00:14:37,002 --> 00:14:39,379
-You need more veggies in your life.
-They're not delicious.

351
00:14:39,463 --> 00:14:40,881
If it were good, I would eat it.

352
00:14:40,964 --> 00:14:43,300
How did your mom make veggies
for you growing up.

353
00:14:43,383 --> 00:14:46,929
Mom was a pretty good Texan woman
and didn't feed me a whole lot of veggies.

354
00:14:47,012 --> 00:14:49,056
-[laughing]
-[Josh] You know?

355
00:14:51,099 --> 00:14:52,893
Can you tell me about your time
in the service?

356
00:14:52,976 --> 00:14:54,770
I joined the military when I was 17.

357
00:14:54,853 --> 00:14:57,064
Probably sooner than I really should have.

358
00:14:57,147 --> 00:14:58,899
-Yeah.
-I wasn't quite grown up.

359
00:14:58,982 --> 00:15:03,320
My old man told me that
the military is run by a bunch of kids.

360
00:15:03,403 --> 00:15:08,158
I had no clue what that meant until I was
a 20-year-old team leader in Afghanistan

361
00:15:08,241 --> 00:15:10,577
leading men into combat.

362
00:15:10,661 --> 00:15:11,954
That is bizarre.

363
00:15:12,037 --> 00:15:13,872
-But that taught you leadership.
-Yeah.

364
00:15:13,956 --> 00:15:17,042
But I also remember me being 17
is where I also learned how

365
00:15:17,125 --> 00:15:20,587
to, like, be a little bit more responsible
in some of the areas that weren't work.

366
00:15:20,671 --> 00:15:23,799
Where I learned how to,
like, be a better boyfriend,

367
00:15:23,882 --> 00:15:25,884
how to groom myself, how to find my look.

368
00:15:25,968 --> 00:15:27,844
-Yeah.
-Those are the moments where I found that.

369
00:15:27,928 --> 00:15:29,805
Do you feel like
you missed out on those moments?

370
00:15:29,888 --> 00:15:30,931
I think massively.

371
00:15:31,014 --> 00:15:34,601
I went straight
from the military to college,

372
00:15:34,685 --> 00:15:36,520
but I wasn't really just in college.

373
00:15:36,603 --> 00:15:38,897
I was starting this company
at the same time.

374
00:15:38,981 --> 00:15:43,360
You said that your ex Kayla
was the right woman at the wrong time.

375
00:15:43,443 --> 00:15:44,403
-What happened?
-Yeah.

376
00:15:44,486 --> 00:15:47,489
We had plans of, like,
getting married and stuff.

377
00:15:47,572 --> 00:15:49,533
And then, once the added pressures

378
00:15:49,616 --> 00:15:52,536
of, like, the company spiraling downhill
because of the pandemic,

379
00:15:52,619 --> 00:15:56,373
um, she started seeing, you know,
all my shortcomings pretty quick.

380
00:15:56,456 --> 00:16:00,585
So, it didn't last very long. You know,
I think we only dated a few months.

381
00:16:00,669 --> 00:16:03,213
And, um, it's a weight on my heart.

382
00:16:03,296 --> 00:16:04,923
It's like, aww, I let the one go

383
00:16:05,007 --> 00:16:07,718
because I wasn't right
in my head at the right time.

384
00:16:07,801 --> 00:16:10,012
And I don't think I did
a very good job of that.

385
00:16:10,095 --> 00:16:13,056
-Yeah, that's pretty honest to say.
-Yeah, yeah.

386
00:16:13,140 --> 00:16:14,516
[Karamo] Yeah.

387
00:16:14,599 --> 00:16:16,184
-Hey, boos.
-Hey!

388
00:16:16,768 --> 00:16:17,936
I just made him uncomfortable.

389
00:16:18,020 --> 00:16:19,646
-Oh, no.
-Yeah.

390
00:16:19,730 --> 00:16:23,066
This is the first time
you've been around five queer people.

391
00:16:23,150 --> 00:16:23,984
That you know of.

392
00:16:24,067 --> 00:16:25,694
-Is it-- Yes.
-That I know of, yeah.

393
00:16:25,777 --> 00:16:29,322
[Tan] Are we feeling like
we can make this work this week?

394
00:16:29,406 --> 00:16:31,950
We're gonna understand who we are,
understand each other.

395
00:16:32,034 --> 00:16:33,702
If you guys are
the experts you say you are…

396
00:16:33,785 --> 00:16:37,122
I feel like "expert's" been used
loosely for me before. Like, you know…

397
00:16:37,205 --> 00:16:38,540
[Tan] How are we feeling?

398
00:16:38,623 --> 00:16:42,127
We feel good. I think we can make some
progress and head in the right direction.

399
00:16:42,210 --> 00:16:43,795
-I think so too!
-Hey!

400
00:16:43,879 --> 00:16:46,465
-[Tan] So, we all feeling good about this?
-Yeah, Tanny!

401
00:16:46,548 --> 00:16:48,383
-[Tan] Let's do it.
-[Antoni] Whoo!

402
00:16:51,428 --> 00:16:55,098
I'd like to think that Josh is
more than wine and marshmallows.

403
00:16:55,182 --> 00:16:58,143
We need to introduce Josh
to the other four food groups,

404
00:16:58,226 --> 00:16:59,603
other than meat.

405
00:17:01,563 --> 00:17:05,358
I want Josh to understand
that I'm not trying to turn him into me.

406
00:17:05,442 --> 00:17:08,779
I want him to be
just the best version of himself.

407
00:17:08,862 --> 00:17:13,325
Josh enlisted so early, that I think there
was areas that he stopped growing in.

408
00:17:13,408 --> 00:17:16,661
It's time for him
to start to grow in other ways,

409
00:17:16,745 --> 00:17:19,664
if he really wants
to have a family one day.

410
00:17:19,748 --> 00:17:23,794
We're upcycling a used shipping container.
We're putting three French doors here.

411
00:17:23,877 --> 00:17:25,295
I wanted to give him a new space,

412
00:17:25,378 --> 00:17:28,423
'cause right now
his home does not scream "ready."

413
00:17:28,507 --> 00:17:30,592
It screams "run."

414
00:17:30,675 --> 00:17:34,304
People are like, "Oh, well, a metal box,
that's gotta be so hot to live in."

415
00:17:34,387 --> 00:17:36,598
[man] If you insulate it correctly,
it feels great.

416
00:17:36,681 --> 00:17:39,059
[Bobby] And it'll last way longer
than traditional buildings.

417
00:17:39,142 --> 00:17:42,354
Yeah, a shipping container will last
up to 100 years if you treat it properly.

418
00:17:42,437 --> 00:17:45,440
From a hair-health perspective,
not overwashing your hair is amazing.

419
00:17:45,524 --> 00:17:48,151
But, like, there's no
deep cleaning going on here.

420
00:17:48,235 --> 00:17:50,195
I've got my work cut out for me.

421
00:17:50,278 --> 00:17:52,280
[dance music playing]

422
00:17:54,032 --> 00:17:57,953
<i>♪ DJ, turn it up so we can get started ♪</i>

423
00:18:00,872 --> 00:18:02,124
[Jonathan] Hi!

424
00:18:02,207 --> 00:18:04,292
-[Josh] Hey, I'm Josh Eilers.
-Nice to meet you.

425
00:18:04,376 --> 00:18:07,087
-Toni.
-Nice to meet you. Oh, welcome in.

426
00:18:07,170 --> 00:18:09,297
That was so Texan and, like, gentlemanly.

427
00:18:09,381 --> 00:18:10,841
-You took your hat off.
-[laughing]

428
00:18:10,924 --> 00:18:13,927
-That was the cutest thing I've ever seen.
-Really? All right.

429
00:18:14,010 --> 00:18:15,470
Do you do that regularly?

430
00:18:15,554 --> 00:18:18,306
-Yeah, yes, sir, yeah. Quite a bit.
-Oh, my God. Okay, take a seat.

431
00:18:18,390 --> 00:18:21,726
Tell me, do you wanna
take care of your hair more?

432
00:18:21,810 --> 00:18:24,521
[Josh] I don't think I really know
how to take care of the hair more.

433
00:18:24,604 --> 00:18:27,774
One, no one really
teaches men how to care for hair.

434
00:18:27,858 --> 00:18:31,987
And two, I've never had it before.
So, it's been kind of an experiment.

435
00:18:32,070 --> 00:18:35,365
I was originally thinking that
I wanted to cut your hair shorter.

436
00:18:35,448 --> 00:18:37,075
But you have a great hairline.

437
00:18:37,159 --> 00:18:41,580
And I do vibe with, like, you're
not gonna have the rest of your life

438
00:18:41,663 --> 00:18:43,582
to have, like,
really long hair if you lose it.

439
00:18:43,665 --> 00:18:45,542
I've been on Propecia
since I was, like, 19,

440
00:18:45,625 --> 00:18:47,794
'cause everyone in my family's,
like, lost their hair.

441
00:18:47,878 --> 00:18:50,881
And I really don't wanna lose mine.
So, I very much, you know, feel like

442
00:18:50,964 --> 00:18:53,675
I wanna have long hair until
I don't have a hairline to support it.

443
00:18:53,758 --> 00:18:55,594
I do think it needs
a little bit of a shape.

444
00:18:55,677 --> 00:18:59,389
This can read a little bit Lord Farquaad,
from <i>Shrek</i>.

445
00:18:59,472 --> 00:19:01,766
-Okay.
-Not really trying to do that.

446
00:19:01,850 --> 00:19:05,228
Oh, also, I'm gonna do this other thing.

447
00:19:05,312 --> 00:19:08,773
I really feel like we need
to put a few highlights in your hair.

448
00:19:08,857 --> 00:19:09,858
But just, like, five.

449
00:19:10,692 --> 00:19:11,818
-Color?
-[Jonathan] Yes.

450
00:19:12,319 --> 00:19:16,364
You're screaming, "I need to be let out
of this misogynistic, repressive box!"

451
00:19:16,948 --> 00:19:20,118
"I need to have a few highlights,
so that I can let my texture sing!"

452
00:19:20,202 --> 00:19:22,329
-Do whatever you want.
-Come on, let's wash your hair.

453
00:19:22,412 --> 00:19:27,459
The only thing I know how to do
to get this man out of his comfort zone

454
00:19:27,542 --> 00:19:29,419
is to give him balayage highlights,

455
00:19:29,502 --> 00:19:32,422
a full facial and a manicure,
all before ten in the morning.

456
00:19:32,505 --> 00:19:34,507
Have you ever had
a gorgeous clip in your hair?

457
00:19:34,591 --> 00:19:35,842
-[Josh] No.
-[laughs]

458
00:19:35,926 --> 00:19:38,220
-That's a first.
-We're gonna do lots of firsts today.

459
00:19:38,303 --> 00:19:39,137
Great.

460
00:19:39,221 --> 00:19:42,807
Because I need to shake…
him out of his comfort zone.

461
00:19:42,891 --> 00:19:46,686
-Are you excited? It's our first--
-I'm a little bit nervous, but yeah.

462
00:19:46,770 --> 00:19:48,438
Why are you nervous, hon?

463
00:19:49,606 --> 00:19:53,026
Well, I think this is, uh, an environment
I've never really been in, you know?

464
00:19:53,109 --> 00:19:55,528
What do you want
from this experience, overall?

465
00:19:55,612 --> 00:19:57,030
You know, I've always said that

466
00:19:57,113 --> 00:20:02,202
if different people could just
sit down and share a beer and talk,

467
00:20:02,285 --> 00:20:04,704
like, they'd find out they'll have
a whole lot more in common

468
00:20:04,788 --> 00:20:06,414
-than they have different.
-Uh-huh.

469
00:20:06,498 --> 00:20:09,167
You know, things like the shoes.
Man, what's that about?

470
00:20:09,251 --> 00:20:11,920
Cute, right? I mean,
What's up with your cowboy boots?

471
00:20:12,003 --> 00:20:14,005
-There's heels on those.
-A little bit.

472
00:20:14,089 --> 00:20:15,799
[Jonathan] It's the difference
of two inches.

473
00:20:15,882 --> 00:20:19,469
So normally, I think I would see you
walking down the street, I'd be like,

474
00:20:19,552 --> 00:20:21,429
"Man, that guy's just weird."

475
00:20:21,513 --> 00:20:23,014
So, I identify as non-binary.

476
00:20:23,098 --> 00:20:26,476
-What's that mean?
-It means that I don't identify as a man.

477
00:20:26,559 --> 00:20:30,522
Okay. So, what is
the polite way to address you?

478
00:20:30,605 --> 00:20:32,482
My pronouns are he/she/they.

479
00:20:32,565 --> 00:20:34,359
But typically,
when someone's non-binary,

480
00:20:34,442 --> 00:20:37,529
like you would not wanna say, like,
"sir" or, like, "man."

481
00:20:37,612 --> 00:20:38,571
-Really?
-Yeah.

482
00:20:38,655 --> 00:20:40,448
If you're ever unsure,
you can totally ask.

483
00:20:40,532 --> 00:20:42,826
Then it's okay to ask?
Like, nobody gets offended?

484
00:20:42,909 --> 00:20:45,078
No, but I mean,
also I'll tell you that, like,

485
00:20:45,161 --> 00:20:48,873
that's all a language I didn't really have
until I was in my 30s.

486
00:20:48,957 --> 00:20:51,668
-Uh-huh.
-So, it's normal that people don't know.

487
00:20:51,751 --> 00:20:54,254
Well, and I think, like,
a big part of me is that

488
00:20:54,337 --> 00:20:56,214
I always wanna be super polite, you know?

489
00:20:56,298 --> 00:20:58,133
-Yeah.
-I never wanna hurt anybody's feelings.

490
00:20:58,216 --> 00:21:00,093
[Jonathan] I want
to spend enough time with Josh

491
00:21:00,176 --> 00:21:02,053
to make him realize
that gender's a construct.

492
00:21:02,137 --> 00:21:04,639
So, how old were you when you came out?

493
00:21:04,723 --> 00:21:06,391
Oh, well, I was pretty young.

494
00:21:06,474 --> 00:21:09,561
If you imagine me as,
like, a six-year-old, I was like…

495
00:21:09,644 --> 00:21:11,646
[laughs] You know?

496
00:21:11,730 --> 00:21:13,398
Exactly like I am now, but younger.

497
00:21:13,481 --> 00:21:17,444
And he can be around different people,
because a lot of people wear heels.

498
00:21:17,527 --> 00:21:19,029
[Josh] So these are the highlights?

499
00:21:19,112 --> 00:21:22,115
[Jonathan] Yep.
It's a French technique called balayage,

500
00:21:22,198 --> 00:21:23,700
which means to sweep.

501
00:21:23,783 --> 00:21:26,953
It just looks
a little more natural than a foil.

502
00:21:28,538 --> 00:21:30,665
That is pretty.

503
00:21:33,501 --> 00:21:35,628
[Josh] You know what my goal is
by the end of the day?

504
00:21:35,712 --> 00:21:37,672
-Yes.
-Be your first Republican friend.

505
00:21:37,756 --> 00:21:40,342
[Jonathan] Oh, yeah, well, you are.
Have you ever seen <i>Pretty Woman?</i>

506
00:21:40,425 --> 00:21:43,386
-[Josh] Yeah, yeah! That's a classic.
<i>-</i>This is gonna be your beauty montage.

507
00:21:43,470 --> 00:21:47,223
<i>-</i>[rock music playing]
<i>-♪ I love the taste of freedom, huh! ♪</i>

508
00:21:47,307 --> 00:21:48,558
<i>♪ Hey! ♪</i>

509
00:21:48,641 --> 00:21:52,228
-[woman] You ever had your nails done?
-No, ma'am. This is my first time.

510
00:21:52,312 --> 00:21:55,023
Usually, I just clean out the dirt
with a pocketknife, you know?

511
00:21:55,106 --> 00:21:57,400
-[Jonathan] Oh, my God.
-[Josh] It works surprisingly well.

512
00:21:57,484 --> 00:21:59,861
[woman laughs]

513
00:21:59,944 --> 00:22:01,821
[Jonathan] You are living your best life.

514
00:22:01,905 --> 00:22:03,198
Oh, it is perfect.

515
00:22:03,281 --> 00:22:06,826
I want you to, like,
show me the products to use

516
00:22:06,910 --> 00:22:10,205
so I don't… around
with getting the wrong stuff.

517
00:22:10,288 --> 00:22:13,416
-You know, 'cause I'll take it serious.
-I love that about you.

518
00:22:13,500 --> 00:22:15,835
Did that feel relaxing and gorgeous?

519
00:22:15,919 --> 00:22:16,961
[Josh] That felt good.

520
00:22:17,045 --> 00:22:19,964
Good. We're just
gonna do a classic countdown.

521
00:22:20,048 --> 00:22:22,884
We go three, we go two, and…

522
00:22:22,967 --> 00:22:24,302
There's a new Josh.

523
00:22:27,389 --> 00:22:29,766
Definitely feels cleaner.
Wow. Can I touch it?

524
00:22:29,849 --> 00:22:31,476
[Jonathan] Yeah, get all up in there.

525
00:22:31,559 --> 00:22:32,602
I'm very relieved.

526
00:22:32,685 --> 00:22:34,062
I was partially super scared,

527
00:22:34,145 --> 00:22:36,564
you know, those highlights
were gonna be bright purple.

528
00:22:36,648 --> 00:22:39,025
[Jonathan] On the root,
I, like, made it your natural color.

529
00:22:39,109 --> 00:22:41,736
-So, it's not, like, super blended.
-Gotcha, gotcha, yeah.

530
00:22:41,820 --> 00:22:43,321
-[Jonathan] I did good, right?
-Yeah.

531
00:22:43,405 --> 00:22:45,740
-I'm impressed.
-Ah!

532
00:22:45,824 --> 00:22:47,450
You are looking stunning.

533
00:22:47,534 --> 00:22:48,410
[Josh] Thank you.

534
00:22:48,493 --> 00:22:52,997
When have you ever felt
more gorgeous than you do right now?

535
00:22:53,081 --> 00:22:54,874
-Never. Thanks to you.
-Thank you.

536
00:22:56,167 --> 00:22:58,461
I think we should just do a tiny hug.
It's okay.

537
00:22:58,545 --> 00:22:59,879
-All right.
-Okay, come on.

538
00:22:59,963 --> 00:23:02,132
-[rock music playing]
<i>-♪ Just keep on movin' ♪</i>

539
00:23:02,215 --> 00:23:04,634
<i>♪ Na na na na na na… ♪</i>

540
00:23:04,717 --> 00:23:05,718
[Bobby] It's a cool place.

541
00:23:05,802 --> 00:23:09,180
They do a lot of woodworking,
CNC routing, make their own furniture…

542
00:23:09,264 --> 00:23:10,098
[Josh] All right.

543
00:23:10,181 --> 00:23:13,226
[Bobby] So, I thought it would be cool
to make a family crest for you.

544
00:23:13,309 --> 00:23:16,521
Your family name actually means warrior.
So, it's a warrior shield.

545
00:23:16,604 --> 00:23:18,148
-I love that.
-[Bobby] Good.

546
00:23:18,231 --> 00:23:19,983
Josh has been talking
about starting a family.

547
00:23:20,066 --> 00:23:24,446
So, I want to give him the physical
manifestation of leaving a legacy.

548
00:23:24,529 --> 00:23:25,822
And that's a family crest.

549
00:23:25,905 --> 00:23:27,073
Shield's gonna look like this.

550
00:23:27,157 --> 00:23:29,784
Your family name
is what's at the very top.

551
00:23:29,868 --> 00:23:32,120
-The lightning bolt from the Rangers.
-Yeah, absolutely.

552
00:23:32,203 --> 00:23:34,664
It represents who you are, who you were.

553
00:23:34,747 --> 00:23:37,250
But the thing that
stands out to me the most

554
00:23:37,333 --> 00:23:40,503
is one of the two of these,
'cause it's an oak tree.

555
00:23:40,587 --> 00:23:44,466
What I like about it is
I saw tons of these on your property.

556
00:23:44,549 --> 00:23:48,052
And not only does it represent
your land and what you're building,

557
00:23:48,136 --> 00:23:50,763
it represents growth and family tree.

558
00:23:50,847 --> 00:23:53,308
-Yeah, no, I love it.
-Good. Which one do you like best?

559
00:23:53,391 --> 00:23:54,642
-I like the tree.
-Yeah.

560
00:23:55,351 --> 00:23:59,564
I'm big into the past, right?
But I'm really into the future.

561
00:23:59,647 --> 00:24:03,526
And so, I think to be able to build
something that will pass down is a gift.

562
00:24:03,610 --> 00:24:06,779
It's incredible. It gives me
something to look forward to, you know?

563
00:24:06,863 --> 00:24:09,407
Something exciting. Something
that's built sturdy and out of wood.

564
00:24:09,491 --> 00:24:11,951
[Bobby] This will be
a great family heirloom to hand down.

565
00:24:12,035 --> 00:24:14,245
-I'm excited about it.
-Good. I'm glad you like it.

566
00:24:14,329 --> 00:24:16,623
-[rock music playing]
<i>-♪ Your five star life comes easy ♪</i>

567
00:24:16,706 --> 00:24:17,957
<i>♪ Show me, tease me ♪</i>

568
00:24:18,041 --> 00:24:22,462
<i>♪ Lipstick and heels, yeah, yeah! ♪</i>

569
00:24:25,048 --> 00:24:28,301
-[Josh] So where are we at?
-[Tan] We are at a place called Estilo.

570
00:24:28,384 --> 00:24:30,512
I know that you have
a way that you dress already.

571
00:24:30,595 --> 00:24:32,514
-But we're gonna change it up slightly.
-Mm-hmm.

572
00:24:32,597 --> 00:24:33,806
-After you.
-All right.

573
00:24:33,890 --> 00:24:37,185
A little bit nervous about
walking into here. Just looking around.

574
00:24:37,268 --> 00:24:38,186
[both laugh]

575
00:24:38,269 --> 00:24:41,189
-What is it that makes you nervous?
-Just not something I'm used to.

576
00:24:41,272 --> 00:24:43,775
[Tan] Are there certain clothes
that you're seeing that you like?

577
00:24:43,858 --> 00:24:44,984
It doesn't feel quite right?

578
00:24:45,068 --> 00:24:47,862
No, but I'm sure if I put it on,
I could tell you pretty quick.

579
00:24:47,946 --> 00:24:51,199
Well, you had said, "Well, you guys
are the experts, let's see what you do."

580
00:24:51,282 --> 00:24:53,409
And so you have to give me a chance today.

581
00:24:53,493 --> 00:24:55,703
-I see sneakers on the table.
-I'm not doing sneakers.

582
00:24:55,787 --> 00:24:58,623
-'Cause we gotta meet in the middle.
-We're gonna meet in the middle.

583
00:24:58,706 --> 00:25:00,500
-Like, I think it looks--
-Chic as…

584
00:25:00,583 --> 00:25:03,836
It looks great on you, and it's probably
a fashion icon, but it ain't me.

585
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:10,051
Josh doesn't want to be seen as
anything other than a masculine rancher.

586
00:25:10,134 --> 00:25:12,178
I think that he's very much concerned

587
00:25:12,262 --> 00:25:15,014
about being seen
as even slightly effeminate.

588
00:25:15,098 --> 00:25:19,102
I wanna show you that you can be stylish
without anybody thinking, "Oh, he's gay."

589
00:25:19,185 --> 00:25:21,688
-Just look good.
-Just look good and play with clothes--

590
00:25:21,771 --> 00:25:23,314
-And impress the lady.
-Yeah.

591
00:25:23,898 --> 00:25:26,734
So, I'll still keep you in denim,
so it still feels like Josh.

592
00:25:26,818 --> 00:25:28,278
[Josh] I appreciate that. Yeah, yeah.

593
00:25:28,361 --> 00:25:30,196
But just a slightly different cut.

594
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:31,990
Instead of T-shirts,

595
00:25:32,073 --> 00:25:34,993
Henleys have got a little bit of detail,
where the girl's like,

596
00:25:35,076 --> 00:25:36,578
"Okay, he's not just put a T-shirt on.

597
00:25:36,661 --> 00:25:38,454
He's got something
a little more interesting--"

598
00:25:38,538 --> 00:25:39,747
Show some chest hair.

599
00:25:39,831 --> 00:25:41,082
-[Tan] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
<i>-</i>Okay.

600
00:25:41,165 --> 00:25:44,544
And they're not gonna be massive on you.
I want them to be relatively fitted.

601
00:25:44,627 --> 00:25:46,588
You're in shape.
Why don't we show off the goods?

602
00:25:46,671 --> 00:25:50,717
So, I wanna show you different versions
of-- I know. We're gonna try it.

603
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:54,178
I wanna know why you hate
something like this so much.

604
00:25:54,262 --> 00:25:56,514
Like, when I put
my boots on in the morning,

605
00:25:56,598 --> 00:25:59,559
I think about, like, my ancestors
that have put on boots.

606
00:25:59,642 --> 00:26:00,476
Okay.

607
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:04,063
My father, my grandfather,
generations of Texans.

608
00:26:04,147 --> 00:26:05,231
-Okay.
-[groans]

609
00:26:05,315 --> 00:26:07,108
Any of my ancestors ever put that on…

610
00:26:07,191 --> 00:26:09,902
So it's more than just the looks of it.
It's like, that is how…

611
00:26:09,986 --> 00:26:11,988
-[Tan] "That's my heritage."
-That is my home.

612
00:26:12,071 --> 00:26:13,906
-But also…
-[groans]

613
00:26:13,990 --> 00:26:17,660
There weren't options like this available
when your grandfather was young.

614
00:26:17,744 --> 00:26:18,578
-For example.
-Yeah.

615
00:26:18,661 --> 00:26:22,832
So, I've set aside a look in here for you.
Give me a shout if you need help at all.

616
00:26:22,915 --> 00:26:24,917
I'm trying to be so respectful

617
00:26:25,001 --> 00:26:28,755
by giving him
the most conservative clothes I can find,

618
00:26:28,838 --> 00:26:31,215
but an upgrade to what he's worn before.

619
00:26:32,091 --> 00:26:33,676
[Josh] I actually don't hate the boots.

620
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:36,721
But I'm worried about everything else
because it's so tight.

621
00:26:36,804 --> 00:26:39,140
I'm gonna sweat through this
in about 12 minutes.

622
00:26:39,223 --> 00:26:40,683
You can see my pecker.

623
00:26:40,767 --> 00:26:43,102
-You can't. I promise you can't.
-I see it in the mirror.

624
00:26:43,186 --> 00:26:44,937
-You cannot.
-Oh, my-- Yeah.

625
00:26:45,021 --> 00:26:46,814
Like, I don't even have a belt here.

626
00:26:46,898 --> 00:26:50,193
But even this,
he seems so resistant to it.

627
00:26:50,276 --> 00:26:52,779
-Do you always wear a belt?
-Every day.

628
00:26:52,862 --> 00:26:54,947
To hold your pants up,
or you just like the look?

629
00:26:55,031 --> 00:26:56,532
[Josh] I got a lot of pride in my belt.

630
00:26:56,616 --> 00:26:58,910
If you work for the ranch for ten years,
you get a buckle.

631
00:26:58,993 --> 00:27:00,495
-That means a lot to us.
-Okay.

632
00:27:00,578 --> 00:27:02,914
-So, do I tuck it in?
-Yeah, just in the front.

633
00:27:04,332 --> 00:27:05,333
It's different, man.

634
00:27:05,416 --> 00:27:07,043
There's no doubt it's different.

635
00:27:07,126 --> 00:27:10,088
Forget that it's different. Do you think,
"He looks like an attractive man"?

636
00:27:10,171 --> 00:27:12,674
[Josh] Right now, no.
I think I look like a golfer.

637
00:27:15,510 --> 00:27:17,637
Is the thing that's
throwing it off the shirt?

638
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:20,348
-The shirt's throwing it off.
-We're gonna change it. Real quick.

639
00:27:24,977 --> 00:27:26,979
-What do you think?
-What do you think?

640
00:27:27,063 --> 00:27:28,856
This one feels a whole lot better.

641
00:27:28,940 --> 00:27:30,733
-I feel like I can breathe.
-Okay.

642
00:27:30,817 --> 00:27:33,194
-This material breathes.
-Great.

643
00:27:33,277 --> 00:27:35,738
Do I think this is the right size for you?

644
00:27:35,822 --> 00:27:37,573
Personally, I don't.

645
00:27:37,657 --> 00:27:40,243
-You see this? This is the shoulder seam.
-Yeah.

646
00:27:40,326 --> 00:27:42,745
-If you push real hard, you can feel…
-This should be up there?

647
00:27:42,829 --> 00:27:43,830
It should be here.

648
00:27:44,997 --> 00:27:46,708
You know what's kind of annoying?

649
00:27:47,291 --> 00:27:49,460
I don't often like to admit I'm wrong.

650
00:27:49,544 --> 00:27:51,337
But, uh, now I'm looking at this shirt,

651
00:27:51,421 --> 00:27:54,006
and I'm like,
seeing it might be a little bit baggy.

652
00:27:54,090 --> 00:27:55,049
-Sure is.
-Little bit.

653
00:27:55,133 --> 00:27:56,884
-Do you want to try the large?
-Let's try it.

654
00:27:56,968 --> 00:28:00,054
[Tan] It's nice to see
that he's starting to finally see

655
00:28:00,138 --> 00:28:02,765
that he can look good
and still feel "masculine"

656
00:28:02,849 --> 00:28:05,017
and still feel like a rancher.

657
00:28:05,101 --> 00:28:08,438
But that doesn't mean that he can't
feel good about what he's wearing.

658
00:28:08,521 --> 00:28:10,064
What do you think on this one?

659
00:28:10,148 --> 00:28:11,357
-So much better.
-Really?

660
00:28:11,441 --> 00:28:13,609
Already, that's getting closer
to your shoulder.

661
00:28:13,693 --> 00:28:15,445
Yeah, it's getting closer to the shoulder.

662
00:28:15,528 --> 00:28:19,365
The baggy thing you were in before
makes your arms look skinny, like noodles.

663
00:28:19,449 --> 00:28:21,909
Whereas this actually shows off your arms.

664
00:28:21,993 --> 00:28:24,412
I actually don't hate this. Huh.

665
00:28:24,495 --> 00:28:28,207
[laughs] I'll take that.
That's a big compliment, I know.

666
00:28:28,291 --> 00:28:29,751
[Josh] Yeah, honestly, I feel great.

667
00:28:29,834 --> 00:28:31,461
I'm just nervous about…

668
00:28:31,544 --> 00:28:32,670
Tell me. The legs?

669
00:28:32,754 --> 00:28:34,672
Accepted by other cowboys
and stuff like that.

670
00:28:34,756 --> 00:28:37,759
Like, if I roll out to a ranch today
and I'm looking like this…

671
00:28:37,842 --> 00:28:40,428
Wear whatever you wear on the ranch,
it doesn't bother me.

672
00:28:40,511 --> 00:28:44,182
Outside of the ranch, when you're trying
to impress the girls, not the guys,

673
00:28:44,265 --> 00:28:46,100
go for something
that's gonna impress the girls.

674
00:28:46,726 --> 00:28:48,853
This is a guy who's not
just obsessed with his work.

675
00:28:48,936 --> 00:28:53,149
He understands that there's a life
that's equally as important. His family.

676
00:28:53,733 --> 00:28:55,651
I actually really appreciate that.

677
00:28:56,360 --> 00:29:00,114
-[rock music playing]
<i>-♪ Let me listen every time, baby ♪</i>

678
00:29:00,198 --> 00:29:03,034
<i>♪ Do you wanna get wild, baby? ♪</i>

679
00:29:03,117 --> 00:29:04,368
<i>♪ You gotta take 'em all… ♪</i>

680
00:29:04,452 --> 00:29:06,412
-Hey. Neon, come here.
-Hey!

681
00:29:06,496 --> 00:29:07,580
-Neon.
-Neon, come on.

682
00:29:08,164 --> 00:29:09,081
This is our house.

683
00:29:09,165 --> 00:29:10,917
And this is my kitchen.

684
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:14,837
Vegetables can be delicious. They can
be good for you, but they can also be…

685
00:29:14,921 --> 00:29:16,631
-Boring.
-No, we're not here for boring.

686
00:29:17,215 --> 00:29:21,344
I get it. Josh gets to have
delicious Wagyu beef every day.

687
00:29:21,427 --> 00:29:23,846
But that's one food group.
What about the other four?

688
00:29:23,930 --> 00:29:27,391
-When's the last time you had a carrot?
-Honestly, I was feeding it to a horse.

689
00:29:27,475 --> 00:29:28,518
Horses love carrots.

690
00:29:28,601 --> 00:29:30,353
[chuckles] The last time
you had a carrot was

691
00:29:30,436 --> 00:29:32,688
when you were actually feeding it
to a horse, not yourself?

692
00:29:32,772 --> 00:29:35,733
-I'd probably do one for you, one for me.
-Right. Okay.

693
00:29:35,817 --> 00:29:37,318
These are gonna be more delicious.

694
00:29:37,401 --> 00:29:40,071
-I got these beautiful rainbow carrots.
-Uh-huh.

695
00:29:40,154 --> 00:29:43,616
[Antoni] This is a Y peeler,
and you're just gonna peel the outer skin.

696
00:29:43,699 --> 00:29:45,284
-[Josh] I got that.
-Watch your fingers…

697
00:29:45,368 --> 00:29:49,580
Perfect. I'm gonna put in a little
knob of butter, about a tablespoon.

698
00:29:49,664 --> 00:29:51,791
-Uh-huh.
-Olive oil is my go-to.

699
00:29:51,874 --> 00:29:53,125
I'm gonna swirl it around my pan

700
00:29:53,209 --> 00:29:55,586
just to kind of get an even coating
around the whole thing.

701
00:29:55,670 --> 00:29:56,629
I keep the ends on.

702
00:29:56,712 --> 00:29:59,507
They get nice and crispy.
You can cut 'em off when they're cooked.

703
00:30:00,591 --> 00:30:03,010
Perfect. We're gonna add salt.

704
00:30:04,262 --> 00:30:05,221
Look how beautiful!

705
00:30:05,304 --> 00:30:08,057
-How could you not love vegetables?
-It does look good, doesn't it?

706
00:30:08,140 --> 00:30:10,768
The cooking that I wanna be able to do,
there's eye appeal.

707
00:30:10,852 --> 00:30:13,312
-This is, like, sexy-looking, you know?
-Yeah, totally.

708
00:30:13,396 --> 00:30:17,400
Like, even if I don't fully know what's
going on right now, it looks like I do.

709
00:30:17,483 --> 00:30:20,111
Eye appeal to Kayla,
who's, like, looking at you cooking,

710
00:30:20,194 --> 00:30:21,654
or your eye when you're looking?

711
00:30:21,737 --> 00:30:23,573
Well, no, someone looking at me like I'm--

712
00:30:23,656 --> 00:30:25,867
-Oh! So it's all about vanity for you.
-See-- So--

713
00:30:25,950 --> 00:30:28,202
Oh, absolutely,
'cause I look at this, and I'm like,

714
00:30:28,286 --> 00:30:30,413
"Oh, shit, I don't know
what's going on here." You know?

715
00:30:30,496 --> 00:30:32,498
-But you look like a pro! Yeah.
-Exactly!

716
00:30:32,582 --> 00:30:33,833
Put that towel on your shoulder,

717
00:30:33,916 --> 00:30:35,626
all of a sudden it's like,
demands respect,

718
00:30:35,710 --> 00:30:37,420
Right? It's very practical.

719
00:30:37,503 --> 00:30:40,423
So now, we're basically
gonna assemble our glaze.

720
00:30:40,506 --> 00:30:43,092
This is a glaze that
you can use for chicken, for fish.

721
00:30:43,175 --> 00:30:45,595
So here I have some fresh thyme.
Have you ever had thyme?

722
00:30:45,678 --> 00:30:46,679
-No.
-Here.

723
00:30:46,762 --> 00:30:48,639
-They grow upward, right?
-Uh-huh.

724
00:30:48,723 --> 00:30:51,726
[Antoni] And, if you kind of go down
with your finger, gently…

725
00:30:51,809 --> 00:30:53,477
This stem we don't really want.

726
00:30:53,561 --> 00:30:55,563
And those, you can just
kind of throw right in there.

727
00:30:55,646 --> 00:30:57,773
-So we're just interested in the leaves?
-Yeah.

728
00:30:57,857 --> 00:31:01,027
That's where all the flavor is.
We don't need very much. Just a little.

729
00:31:01,110 --> 00:31:03,821
-Then next up, honey.
-Just straight up honey right here.

730
00:31:03,905 --> 00:31:04,947
[Antoni] Straight up honey.

731
00:31:05,031 --> 00:31:07,074
So, the reason
I'm adding it now and not earlier,

732
00:31:07,158 --> 00:31:08,868
honey is very high in sugar,

733
00:31:08,951 --> 00:31:10,870
and this would have,
like, burnt to a crisp

734
00:31:10,953 --> 00:31:12,496
if we added it a little too early on.

735
00:31:12,580 --> 00:31:15,041
-Do you like spice? Chili flakes?
-Yeah, let's do it.

736
00:31:15,124 --> 00:31:17,251
So, we're gonna put a little of that.

737
00:31:17,335 --> 00:31:21,172
And then,
literally we're just coating it around.

738
00:31:21,255 --> 00:31:24,050
It's like a nice little forward-backward.

739
00:31:24,133 --> 00:31:26,052
-You can do it.
-All right.

740
00:31:27,303 --> 00:31:28,220
[Antoni] There you go!

741
00:31:28,304 --> 00:31:29,180
Kinda like that?

742
00:31:29,263 --> 00:31:31,057
-That's confidence.
-[laughs]

743
00:31:31,140 --> 00:31:32,683
We'll be ready to make our plates.

744
00:31:32,767 --> 00:31:35,394
I have one that's rare,
one that's medium-rare.

745
00:31:35,478 --> 00:31:37,813
You really know
what you're doing with these cattle.

746
00:31:37,897 --> 00:31:40,650
-I think this is my favorite part of it.
-Really?

747
00:31:40,733 --> 00:31:43,027
If this steak turns out good,
then it's like

748
00:31:43,110 --> 00:31:46,364
everybody on every step
of the way did a good job.

749
00:31:46,447 --> 00:31:47,281
[Antoni] Totally.

750
00:31:47,365 --> 00:31:50,743
I like that he's feeling empowered,
that he feels like he's a boss doing this.

751
00:31:50,826 --> 00:31:52,912
That's what excites me about it.

752
00:31:54,664 --> 00:31:57,208
I will say, the carrots
I'm most impressed with, though.

753
00:31:57,291 --> 00:31:59,210
Might be the best carrot
I've ever had in my life.

754
00:31:59,293 --> 00:32:00,544
-Really?
-Pretty good, yeah.

755
00:32:01,128 --> 00:32:04,173
'Cause that spice at the end is like…
'Cause you don't taste it right away.

756
00:32:04,256 --> 00:32:05,257
[Antoni] Totally.

757
00:32:05,341 --> 00:32:07,176
Neon, sit. Good girl.

758
00:32:08,386 --> 00:32:09,595
She approves of the Wagyu.

759
00:32:09,679 --> 00:32:10,763
[rock music playing]

760
00:32:10,846 --> 00:32:15,142
<i>♪ Get your best shoes on</i>
<i>To see what it's all about… ♪</i>

761
00:32:21,315 --> 00:32:23,401
[engine sputtering]

762
00:32:23,484 --> 00:32:24,360
[rock music playing]

763
00:32:24,443 --> 00:32:28,197
<i>♪ Hey, there, hi, let's do it again ♪</i>

764
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:31,659
<i>♪ Try to keep your head in the air… ♪</i>

765
00:32:31,742 --> 00:32:35,162
Let's swing this end, so it's
more perpendicular with the trees.

766
00:32:35,746 --> 00:32:36,872
I gave Josh a new home

767
00:32:36,956 --> 00:32:41,085
because Josh needed a separate space
away from the other guys on the ranch,

768
00:32:41,168 --> 00:32:44,630
where he could actually focus
on cultivating a relationship

769
00:32:44,714 --> 00:32:46,424
and maybe a marriage.

770
00:32:46,507 --> 00:32:47,842
[whirring]

771
00:32:47,925 --> 00:32:51,971
<i>♪ Messing with a working man ♪</i>

772
00:32:53,222 --> 00:32:58,352
<i>♪ Something's building, it's a picture</i>
<i>It's a rhythm, it's a context ♪</i>

773
00:33:00,062 --> 00:33:02,690
-Hey, hey, hey. You look so great!
-[Josh laughs]

774
00:33:02,773 --> 00:33:05,067
-You like it?
-[Karamo] You look so handsome.

775
00:33:05,151 --> 00:33:07,111
[Josh] All right. Coming in for hugs.

776
00:33:07,194 --> 00:33:09,155
Always. Are you not used to hugs yet?

777
00:33:09,238 --> 00:33:10,406
Well, we're getting there.

778
00:33:10,489 --> 00:33:11,657
Hey, this is Miss Harris.

779
00:33:11,741 --> 00:33:14,201
-Hello, I'm Misty Harris.
-Josh Eilers. Pleasure to meet you.

780
00:33:14,285 --> 00:33:18,456
So, Miss Harris is
our etiquette and lifestyle coach.

781
00:33:18,539 --> 00:33:20,541
She's going to be showing you some ways,

782
00:33:20,624 --> 00:33:23,627
as you're moving through life,
you can be a little bit more polished.

783
00:33:23,711 --> 00:33:25,963
Listen, I love a cowboy.

784
00:33:26,047 --> 00:33:29,050
Drinking a beer,
riding a horse, eating meat.

785
00:33:29,133 --> 00:33:32,928
But if you really wanna court somebody,
he'll need some of these etiquette classes

786
00:33:33,012 --> 00:33:36,307
to really show
that he can be both rugged and refined.

787
00:33:36,390 --> 00:33:39,060
Generally, the man sits
on the left of a lady.

788
00:33:39,143 --> 00:33:40,770
[Josh] On the left. So I would sit here.

789
00:33:40,853 --> 00:33:43,564
And he would pull the chair out for her.

790
00:33:43,647 --> 00:33:45,983
And she would glide
gracefully into her chair.

791
00:33:46,067 --> 00:33:46,984
It gets important here.

792
00:33:47,068 --> 00:33:49,737
He's gonna push one time
and then the rest of the adjusting, I do.

793
00:33:49,820 --> 00:33:52,615
-I'm gonna very beautifully glide.
-[Misty laughs]

794
00:33:52,698 --> 00:33:55,993
-So all of your forks go on the left.
-Forks are on the left, yes, ma'am.

795
00:33:56,077 --> 00:33:57,787
[Misty] We're having soup and salad first.

796
00:33:57,870 --> 00:34:01,874
So, whatever's coming first,
that's which fork goes on the outside.

797
00:34:03,042 --> 00:34:04,418
How do you normally eat soup?

798
00:34:04,502 --> 00:34:06,003
I'd probably stir it up a little bit.

799
00:34:06,087 --> 00:34:08,881
You actually scoop going outwards,

800
00:34:08,964 --> 00:34:10,883
scrape the bottom
and bring it to your mouth.

801
00:34:10,966 --> 00:34:12,802
-[Tan] So, there's no drippage.
-[Misty] Yes.

802
00:34:12,885 --> 00:34:15,304
You don't wanna wear it
before the end of the night.

803
00:34:15,387 --> 00:34:17,056
What would you do with your bread?

804
00:34:17,139 --> 00:34:19,391
I would probably dip that bread.

805
00:34:19,475 --> 00:34:22,645
Me too! I would dip my bread! [laughs]

806
00:34:22,728 --> 00:34:25,022
-You drop a piece in, and spoon it out.
-[Josh] Okay.

807
00:34:25,106 --> 00:34:28,109
So when the spoon is dirty,
can you set it back on the table?

808
00:34:28,192 --> 00:34:29,985
-[Misty] Never.
-[Josh] Yes, ma'am.

809
00:34:30,069 --> 00:34:32,363
-I need note cards. Yeah.
-[all laughing]

810
00:34:32,446 --> 00:34:35,908
Josh is really absorbing
this etiquette class.

811
00:34:35,991 --> 00:34:38,035
You see he is asking questions.
He is engaged.

812
00:34:38,119 --> 00:34:39,245
Grip it.

813
00:34:40,329 --> 00:34:41,330
Flip it.

814
00:34:42,331 --> 00:34:45,251
Whatever lady Josh starts dating next,
you're welcome.

815
00:34:45,334 --> 00:34:49,630
When you are not finished with your meal,
"X" means don't touch that.

816
00:34:49,713 --> 00:34:51,882
When you're finished,
this means you're done.

817
00:34:51,966 --> 00:34:54,468
And that's a silent signal
that your server will know.

818
00:34:54,552 --> 00:34:55,469
Also with your napkin,

819
00:34:55,553 --> 00:34:58,430
this means you're done also
if it's to the left of your plate.

820
00:34:58,514 --> 00:35:00,683
-We're learning a lot.
-[all laughing]

821
00:35:00,766 --> 00:35:03,602
-Proper cheers?
-[Misty] Oh, no, no. Be gentle.

822
00:35:03,686 --> 00:35:04,979
-[Tan] Yes.
-Let's not tap.

823
00:35:05,062 --> 00:35:06,230
-Let's raise.
-No tapping.

824
00:35:06,313 --> 00:35:07,773
-Raising a glass.
-Cheers.

825
00:35:07,857 --> 00:35:09,233
[Tan] Cheers to us all.

826
00:35:09,316 --> 00:35:11,777
Y'all didn't think I was just
gonna take him to etiquette class.

827
00:35:11,861 --> 00:35:14,196
Y'all know we about
to have a heartfelt conversation now.

828
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:16,615
[Josh groans]
You're the only one I'm scared of.

829
00:35:16,699 --> 00:35:18,367
Why would you be nervous with me?

830
00:35:18,450 --> 00:35:20,202
You know what I don't do every day?

831
00:35:20,286 --> 00:35:21,704
-Talk about feelings.
-I got it.

832
00:35:21,787 --> 00:35:24,957
It's time to get to the root
of how Josh's actions and words

833
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:26,417
truly aren't aligning up with

834
00:35:26,500 --> 00:35:31,380
making this dream of having a family
and kids one day and the future he wants.

835
00:35:31,964 --> 00:35:34,884
I've never actually
taken the time to look at me.

836
00:35:34,967 --> 00:35:36,218
[Karamo laughs]

837
00:35:36,302 --> 00:35:37,761
Can I take a drink before we do this?

838
00:35:37,845 --> 00:35:40,055
-Listen, we'll take a drink together.
-All right.

839
00:35:40,139 --> 00:35:42,516
-Cheers. You're not supposed to touch.
-Oh, yeah, you're not.

840
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:43,976
We learned that in etiquette class.

841
00:35:44,059 --> 00:35:47,104
I thought the etiquette class was
the probably most thoughtful thing

842
00:35:47,188 --> 00:35:48,647
anyone's done for me in a long time.

843
00:35:48,731 --> 00:35:49,607
Nice.

844
00:35:49,690 --> 00:35:52,026
I've always set others ahead of me.

845
00:35:52,109 --> 00:35:56,155
Putting yourself second is something that
you've practiced for a very long time.

846
00:35:56,238 --> 00:35:59,825
It's not even second, dude.
It's, like, 300th, you know?

847
00:35:59,909 --> 00:36:02,494
How does it make you feel
that you'd put yourself 300th?

848
00:36:02,578 --> 00:36:04,288
It makes me feel honorable.

849
00:36:04,371 --> 00:36:06,290
It makes me feel, like, admirable.

850
00:36:06,373 --> 00:36:08,042
You're spinning. That's part of the charm.

851
00:36:08,125 --> 00:36:10,002
It's like, "I feel admirable.
I feel honorable."

852
00:36:10,085 --> 00:36:12,463
But I know for a fact,
'cause I've been there before,

853
00:36:12,546 --> 00:36:17,009
as someone who's
put myself not first, I feel shitty as…

854
00:36:17,092 --> 00:36:19,178
None of us can live our lives
putting ourselves second.

855
00:36:19,261 --> 00:36:22,556
Even if you're a parent, you have to be
able to respect and love yourself first.

856
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:24,767
So that way you can
start taking responsibility

857
00:36:24,850 --> 00:36:26,852
for every one of your relationships.

858
00:36:27,811 --> 00:36:30,981
Do you think you took responsibility
in your relationship with Kayla?

859
00:36:31,482 --> 00:36:33,776
You kidding me?
I was a degenerate, you know?

860
00:36:33,859 --> 00:36:36,445
I looked at other women.
I shouldn't have done that.

861
00:36:37,780 --> 00:36:40,449
Yeah, she was sure always easy.

862
00:36:40,532 --> 00:36:42,660
So, it's like,
"Oh, man, dude, I'm scared."

863
00:36:42,743 --> 00:36:45,454
"Like, I found this girl
that I really like."

864
00:36:45,537 --> 00:36:48,791
"What am I gonna do?
Oh, shit, man. We're getting attached."

865
00:36:48,874 --> 00:36:52,086
Like, we're talking about marriage,
stuff like that. That's scary.

866
00:36:52,169 --> 00:36:53,671
Everyone's scared, though, right?

867
00:36:53,754 --> 00:36:54,630
No.

868
00:36:54,713 --> 00:36:55,547
You're not scared?

869
00:36:55,631 --> 00:36:57,424
No, because I trust and I love myself.

870
00:36:57,508 --> 00:37:01,011
And I know by trusting and loving myself,
I'm gonna make the right decision.

871
00:37:01,095 --> 00:37:03,013
-Can I ask you a question?
-Yeah, you can.

872
00:37:03,097 --> 00:37:05,432
What was the first thing
you did when you were like,

873
00:37:05,516 --> 00:37:07,643
"Shit, man, I gotta love myself"?

874
00:37:07,726 --> 00:37:10,062
You think about the ways
and things that you do to yourself

875
00:37:10,145 --> 00:37:11,397
that's not loving yourself.

876
00:37:12,147 --> 00:37:13,649
And so for me, I used to drink a lot.

877
00:37:13,732 --> 00:37:15,693
I used to party
every once in a while with drugs.

878
00:37:15,776 --> 00:37:19,738
But I realized all of those actions, none
of those were serving me to love myself.

879
00:37:20,322 --> 00:37:22,449
To the outside world, I was successful.

880
00:37:22,533 --> 00:37:26,495
And I was looking at myself in the mirror,
and I was like, "I don't have it."

881
00:37:26,578 --> 00:37:28,163
I think we have a similar history.

882
00:37:28,247 --> 00:37:29,665
-Yeah.
-Yeah.

883
00:37:29,748 --> 00:37:33,794
But you know you can get past that,
and you can start to love yourself more.

884
00:37:34,420 --> 00:37:36,547
Because the minute you start
to heal things in yourself,

885
00:37:36,630 --> 00:37:39,216
things'll get better in all
the other relationships in your life.

886
00:37:39,925 --> 00:37:42,761
Knowing that your dream
is to have a family, this life.

887
00:37:42,845 --> 00:37:44,805
That Kayla was a part of that dream.

888
00:37:45,681 --> 00:37:46,557
Yeah.

889
00:37:47,099 --> 00:37:49,643
-Have you ever said "I'm sorry" to her?
-No.

890
00:37:49,727 --> 00:37:50,936
No, never.

891
00:37:51,020 --> 00:37:52,813
I would love for you to call Kayla.

892
00:37:52,896 --> 00:37:54,940
And you don't have to apologize right now,

893
00:37:55,024 --> 00:37:56,692
'cause I think it needs
to be face-to-face.

894
00:37:56,775 --> 00:37:57,609
Yeah.

895
00:37:57,693 --> 00:37:58,861
But I think maybe inviting her

896
00:37:58,944 --> 00:38:01,155
to come over
with the specific reason of saying,

897
00:38:01,238 --> 00:38:02,364
"Hey, I need to talk to you."

898
00:38:02,448 --> 00:38:05,659
-Yeah. Yeah.
-Unfiltered honesty like you just gave me.

899
00:38:05,743 --> 00:38:09,163
Hearing that Kayla never got
an apology breaks my heart.

900
00:38:09,246 --> 00:38:11,874
Because so many people leave relationships
without getting closure.

901
00:38:14,376 --> 00:38:15,794
-[Kayla] <i>Hey.</i>
-[Josh] Hey.

902
00:38:15,878 --> 00:38:17,463
<i>-Hey.</i>
-[Josh] What are you doing?

903
00:38:18,630 --> 00:38:21,008
<i>Just relaxing. What are you doing?</i>

904
00:38:21,091 --> 00:38:22,176
[Josh] Uh, just hanging out.

905
00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:26,013
But that also means that Josh
never closed this relationship properly.

906
00:38:26,096 --> 00:38:28,599
So he never got to own up
to what he's done,

907
00:38:28,682 --> 00:38:31,435
which when you can't own up
and be truthful with yourself,

908
00:38:31,518 --> 00:38:33,687
there's no growth
or healing ever happening.

909
00:38:33,771 --> 00:38:36,231
Would you like to come hang out?

910
00:38:37,399 --> 00:38:39,360
If you want true growth and healing,

911
00:38:39,443 --> 00:38:42,029
you gotta own up
to what you did and confront it.

912
00:38:42,696 --> 00:38:45,366
<i>I mean, definitely. I will be there.</i>

913
00:38:45,449 --> 00:38:47,659
All right, honey. I'm excited about it.

914
00:38:48,494 --> 00:38:52,289
This is the first step
in his actions matching his words.

915
00:38:52,373 --> 00:38:53,540
I can't wait to see you.

916
00:38:53,624 --> 00:38:55,042
<i>-Same.</i>
-All right, bye.

917
00:38:57,127 --> 00:38:58,587
-Ha!
-You're getting emotional here?

918
00:38:58,670 --> 00:39:01,840
No, I'm not getting emotional, man.
I said I wasn't gonna cry.

919
00:39:01,924 --> 00:39:03,550
First time I've seen your eyes gloss up.

920
00:39:03,634 --> 00:39:05,511
Oh, it's allergies.

921
00:39:05,594 --> 00:39:07,596
[rock music playing]

922
00:39:13,435 --> 00:39:15,646
<i>♪ Oh, oh, whoa-oh ♪</i>

923
00:39:15,729 --> 00:39:16,814
[exhales]

924
00:39:16,897 --> 00:39:18,232
Yes, yes.

925
00:39:21,777 --> 00:39:24,571
-[horn honks]
-[Fab Five] Hey!

926
00:39:24,655 --> 00:39:26,281
Hi!

927
00:39:26,365 --> 00:39:28,617
-[Bobby] Finally got you blindfolded, huh?
-Yeah.

928
00:39:28,700 --> 00:39:31,870
[Bobby] Right, we're gonna go this way.
All right, turn around.

929
00:39:31,954 --> 00:39:32,788
[Fab Five] Ready?

930
00:39:32,871 --> 00:39:33,747
I'm ready. I'm ready.

931
00:39:33,831 --> 00:39:35,916
-One. Two. Three!
-[Tan] All right, let's do it!

932
00:39:37,543 --> 00:39:39,962
-[Josh giggles]
-[Fab Five laughing]

933
00:39:40,045 --> 00:39:41,755
[Karamo] This is a brand-new house.

934
00:39:41,839 --> 00:39:42,965
Wow.

935
00:39:43,048 --> 00:39:44,133
[Tan] Are you speechless?

936
00:39:44,883 --> 00:39:48,178
Yeah. I don't wanna be weird about it,
but I'd like to just give you all hugs.

937
00:39:48,262 --> 00:39:49,888
[Antoni] Aww!

938
00:39:49,972 --> 00:39:52,391
-That's nice!
-[Karamo] That's not weird!

939
00:39:52,474 --> 00:39:53,809
That's not weird!

940
00:39:53,892 --> 00:39:55,978
-[all laughing]
-No, no, that was badass.

941
00:39:56,061 --> 00:39:57,729
Dude, this is awesome.

942
00:39:57,813 --> 00:39:58,981
Can we look around?

943
00:39:59,565 --> 00:40:00,774
[Bobby] Let's go inside.

944
00:40:02,443 --> 00:40:04,236
[laughing]

945
00:40:07,197 --> 00:40:09,575
-[Jonathan] Isn't it gorg?
-[Josh] That's all you do, right?

946
00:40:09,658 --> 00:40:11,869
-[Bobby] You have a kitchen now.
-We can laugh about it.

947
00:40:11,952 --> 00:40:14,371
[Jonathan] Just think,
you've got a fully-functional kitchen

948
00:40:14,455 --> 00:40:16,039
and a face frame of highlights.

949
00:40:16,123 --> 00:40:18,625
-[laughing]
-Who could ask for anything more?

950
00:40:18,709 --> 00:40:21,587
[Bobby] You've got somewhere
to chill at night, to entertain.

951
00:40:21,670 --> 00:40:24,965
You can Netflix and chill right there.
Sturdy. Bobby built it by hand.

952
00:40:25,048 --> 00:40:25,883
[laughing]

953
00:40:26,467 --> 00:40:28,677
[Bobby] One of the guys on our team
painted this for you.

954
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:30,095
That's badass, man.

955
00:40:30,179 --> 00:40:31,763
[Bobby] Shall we keep going?

956
00:40:31,847 --> 00:40:33,599
A real-life bathroom.

957
00:40:33,682 --> 00:40:36,393
It's a small space,
but there's a ton of storage.

958
00:40:37,227 --> 00:40:38,145
This is cool, man.

959
00:40:38,228 --> 00:40:41,565
All right, and now, the final space.

960
00:40:41,648 --> 00:40:42,983
Your new bedroom.

961
00:40:44,151 --> 00:40:46,445
Closet, storage, plants.

962
00:40:46,528 --> 00:40:50,073
I did two huge windows on the corner
to make the space feel super big.

963
00:40:50,157 --> 00:40:52,159
I'm just honestly blown away by this.

964
00:40:52,242 --> 00:40:56,163
Like, the incredible details
are ridiculous, you know?

965
00:40:57,498 --> 00:41:00,709
You know, one of my favorite things
about the space now

966
00:41:00,792 --> 00:41:03,921
is your new family crest. Your legacy.

967
00:41:04,004 --> 00:41:05,881
Know how badass
that'd be to pass down to kids?

968
00:41:05,964 --> 00:41:08,342
-Like, multiple generations.
-[Bobby] It's gonna weather.

969
00:41:08,425 --> 00:41:09,968
-It's gonna be cool as hell.
-Oh!

970
00:41:10,052 --> 00:41:13,722
[Josh] And outdoor cooking?
Man, there's an outdoor sink too.

971
00:41:13,805 --> 00:41:14,806
-Ah!
-[Bobby] Right.

972
00:41:14,890 --> 00:41:16,183
Absolutely blown away.

973
00:41:16,767 --> 00:41:22,231
Okay, so I literally made you,
like, a heterosexual-man-proof card

974
00:41:22,314 --> 00:41:25,025
of literally the order
of how to do your skincare.

975
00:41:25,108 --> 00:41:27,194
This is like if you only
have time for a few things.

976
00:41:27,277 --> 00:41:28,612
This is, like, your quick routine.

977
00:41:28,695 --> 00:41:29,696
[laughs] All right.

978
00:41:29,780 --> 00:41:33,033
[Jonathan] This has just your conditioner
in it, mixed with water.

979
00:41:33,116 --> 00:41:35,244
It's my new favorite thing
for people with curly hair.

980
00:41:35,327 --> 00:41:37,287
It just kind of refreshes things.

981
00:41:37,371 --> 00:41:39,831
-And I can just leave that in there?
-Yep, exactly.

982
00:41:39,915 --> 00:41:42,501
So take your hand out.
I'm gonna put a little bit of this in.

983
00:41:42,584 --> 00:41:44,545
-Then start on your ends.
-Way back here?

984
00:41:44,628 --> 00:41:45,796
I like what you're doing.

985
00:41:45,879 --> 00:41:48,006
-Like that? Right there?
-A little scrunch. Yes.

986
00:41:48,090 --> 00:41:49,466
-Come here.
-Thank you.

987
00:41:49,550 --> 00:41:51,009
I had so much fun.

988
00:41:51,093 --> 00:41:54,721
That was a really,
much more, like, comfortable hug.

989
00:41:54,805 --> 00:41:56,431
-Yeah.
-Yeah, yeah. I mean…

990
00:41:56,515 --> 00:41:58,934
I think when we first met, I was nervous.

991
00:41:59,017 --> 00:41:59,893
I could tell.

992
00:41:59,977 --> 00:42:02,854
After six hours in a salon with you,
I felt a little more comfortable.

993
00:42:02,938 --> 00:42:03,981
-Oh.
-Yeah.

994
00:42:04,064 --> 00:42:05,357
And now you're all-the-way comfy.

995
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:09,027
Yeah! You actually did what you said you
were gonna do. You're not full of shit.

996
00:42:09,111 --> 00:42:11,947
You actually made me note cards.
You actually, like, helped me.

997
00:42:12,030 --> 00:42:14,491
You actually cared.
That's actually pretty… cool.

998
00:42:14,575 --> 00:42:17,953
I don't wanna make you uncomfortable
now that you just said you're comfortable,

999
00:42:18,036 --> 00:42:20,080
but the way you were
pushing your hair back…

1000
00:42:20,163 --> 00:42:23,125
-I just gave you a compliment. [laughs]
-No, no, no, but Kayla's gonna--

1001
00:42:23,208 --> 00:42:24,793
-The girls are gonna--
-Maybe do that?

1002
00:42:24,876 --> 00:42:27,045
-Oh. That whole thing…
-What, on this side?

1003
00:42:27,129 --> 00:42:28,755
-[screams]
-[laughs]

1004
00:42:28,839 --> 00:42:32,009
Did… Did you guys see that?
Did you see that at home, America?

1005
00:42:32,092 --> 00:42:34,553
-[screams]
-What happened? What happened?

1006
00:42:34,636 --> 00:42:36,305
Dude, show it to Antoni.

1007
00:42:37,639 --> 00:42:38,765
[laughing]

1008
00:42:38,849 --> 00:42:40,976
-Thank you very much.
-[Jonathan] Love you. Have fun!

1009
00:42:42,144 --> 00:42:44,313
You have something big
coming up tonight with Kayla.

1010
00:42:44,396 --> 00:42:46,607
What do you think our game plan should be?

1011
00:42:46,690 --> 00:42:49,401
Question is, what do you think
our game plan should be?

1012
00:42:49,943 --> 00:42:53,280
Honestly, I think what I need to do is
I think I need to apologize to her.

1013
00:42:53,363 --> 00:42:54,239
Perfect.

1014
00:42:54,323 --> 00:42:55,365
And actually mean it.

1015
00:42:55,449 --> 00:42:58,535
It's real easy to say "I'm sorry."
Been doing that since kindergarten.

1016
00:42:59,161 --> 00:43:03,373
Actually look her in the eyes and say,
"I'm sorry I wasn't a good guy to you."

1017
00:43:03,457 --> 00:43:07,210
And that apology, for her,
to mean something, you gotta own it.

1018
00:43:07,294 --> 00:43:10,130
-You want me to own the actual truth?
-Own the truth.

1019
00:43:10,213 --> 00:43:12,299
-The only way this is gonna work.
-I'll own it.

1020
00:43:12,382 --> 00:43:13,842
[Karamo] If you're giving an apology,

1021
00:43:13,925 --> 00:43:17,304
there can never be
a "but" or a "what" or a "why."

1022
00:43:17,387 --> 00:43:20,140
Apologies are just
owning what you have done

1023
00:43:20,223 --> 00:43:23,644
and allowing the other person to receive
the fact that you understand what you did.

1024
00:43:23,727 --> 00:43:26,104
-Have you ever given an apology like that?
-No.

1025
00:43:26,188 --> 00:43:29,232
And I still haven't yet,
so I'm a little bit nervous. Yeah.

1026
00:43:30,233 --> 00:43:31,985
-Hey, Tanny.
-Sorry to interrupt, kids.

1027
00:43:32,069 --> 00:43:33,070
Time to get changed.

1028
00:43:33,737 --> 00:43:34,613
[both] Oh!

1029
00:43:34,696 --> 00:43:36,698
-Are you becoming a hugger, Josh?
-[Josh] No.

1030
00:43:36,782 --> 00:43:39,951
-[laughing] Come on.
-You know you love me the most.

1031
00:43:41,286 --> 00:43:43,705
[Tan] Footwear was what you were
the most concerned about.

1032
00:43:43,789 --> 00:43:48,669
This is a version of a cowboy boot
that is super slick, super stylish.

1033
00:43:48,752 --> 00:43:51,046
-But it's not like a work boot.
-Uh-huh.

1034
00:43:51,129 --> 00:43:54,299
And so, if you were to go
out on a date or whatever,

1035
00:43:54,383 --> 00:43:56,259
I'd love for you
to wear this kind of thing.

1036
00:43:56,343 --> 00:43:57,636
Everything's really neutral.

1037
00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:00,931
So no matter what you put on from here,
it's gonna go with your shirt.

1038
00:44:01,014 --> 00:44:04,101
-Didn't get out of control. You did good.
-Let's try this.

1039
00:44:04,184 --> 00:44:05,060
-Let's try it.
-Okay.

1040
00:44:05,686 --> 00:44:07,562
Okay, kids! Are we ready?

1041
00:44:07,646 --> 00:44:09,189
-[all] Yeah!
-[Tan] I know we are.

1042
00:44:10,607 --> 00:44:12,901
-Look at our dapper man!
-[Karamo] Wow!

1043
00:44:12,984 --> 00:44:13,860
[Jonathan] Wow!

1044
00:44:13,944 --> 00:44:16,655
Aww! You're walking towards Kayla…

1045
00:44:16,738 --> 00:44:18,573
-You look really good!
-He gave a twirl!

1046
00:44:18,657 --> 00:44:20,909
Super model looking around my land.

1047
00:44:20,992 --> 00:44:22,160
[Antoni] Is that seersucker?

1048
00:44:22,244 --> 00:44:23,995
-It is seersucker!
-[Antoni] Great suit.

1049
00:44:24,079 --> 00:44:27,124
If I don't get a crop top,
I'll take this as a close second, honey.

1050
00:44:27,207 --> 00:44:28,250
Final one?

1051
00:44:28,333 --> 00:44:29,459
-[all] Yeah!
-Great!

1052
00:44:29,543 --> 00:44:31,211
And this one is a crop top.

1053
00:44:31,294 --> 00:44:32,838
[Tan] It's a crop top!

1054
00:44:32,921 --> 00:44:35,549
[chanting] Crop top! Crop top!
Crop top! Crop top! Crop top!

1055
00:44:35,632 --> 00:44:37,050
Yeah!

1056
00:44:37,134 --> 00:44:39,720
Tan, your backside's a third look.
It looks so cute in those jeans.

1057
00:44:39,803 --> 00:44:42,431
[laughs] Thank you. All right, Josh!

1058
00:44:42,514 --> 00:44:45,058
-[Jonathan] Wow!
-Whoo!

1059
00:44:45,142 --> 00:44:47,436
-[Antoni] Is that a suede shirt?
-It sure is!

1060
00:44:47,519 --> 00:44:51,231
The goal was to not to take Josh
too much out of his comfort zone.

1061
00:44:51,314 --> 00:44:52,482
-I like this one.
-Good.

1062
00:44:52,566 --> 00:44:54,526
-How's the hair?
-You look gorgeous!

1063
00:44:54,609 --> 00:44:57,112
-Thank you.
-It's time for us to leave! Time to go.

1064
00:44:57,195 --> 00:44:58,447
Joshy.

1065
00:44:58,530 --> 00:45:00,782
You guys came in pretty hard and heavy.

1066
00:45:00,866 --> 00:45:03,827
Then, uh,
I learned a lot about my feelings.

1067
00:45:03,910 --> 00:45:05,912
So, uh, thank you, guys.

1068
00:45:05,996 --> 00:45:08,498
And I mean that sincerely,
from the bottom of my heart.

1069
00:45:08,582 --> 00:45:09,916
-I'm already getting sad.
-[laughs]

1070
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:11,710
Thank you all for being my friend.

1071
00:45:11,793 --> 00:45:13,670
-We appreciate it.
-[Karamo] Lifelong friends.

1072
00:45:13,754 --> 00:45:15,630
[Antoni] Thank you for opening up to us

1073
00:45:15,714 --> 00:45:18,467
and asking a million questions
about every single thing.

1074
00:45:19,050 --> 00:45:21,344
-[Josh] Ah.
-You got this. Ahh!

1075
00:45:21,428 --> 00:45:23,096
-Thank you.
-[Bobby] Bye, Josh.

1076
00:45:23,180 --> 00:45:24,681
-[Tan] Bye!
-[Antoni] Have fun tonight.

1077
00:45:24,765 --> 00:45:25,682
Have so much fun!

1078
00:45:25,766 --> 00:45:27,267
-Bye!
-Bye, honey!

1079
00:45:27,350 --> 00:45:30,103
Oh, my God, this is some
of our finest work. Look at you!

1080
00:45:30,187 --> 00:45:31,772
[Tan] I know! He looks so good.

1081
00:45:31,855 --> 00:45:34,441
-And then put on a crop top. I love you!
-[laughing]

1082
00:45:35,984 --> 00:45:39,654
-[rock music playing]
-<i>♪ I know that times have been hard ♪</i>

1083
00:45:40,405 --> 00:45:42,657
<i>♪ Harder than they usually are… ♪</i>

1084
00:45:42,741 --> 00:45:44,075
[Karamo] Love some Wagyu.

1085
00:45:44,159 --> 00:45:45,911
Here you go.

1086
00:45:45,994 --> 00:45:48,246
-[Tan] Looks absolutely lovely.
-You're all very welcome.

1087
00:45:48,330 --> 00:45:50,457
-[Bobby] Come this way.
-[Antoni] Come on, Neon.

1088
00:45:50,540 --> 00:45:52,000
[Karamo] Bobby. Johnny.

1089
00:45:52,083 --> 00:45:54,878
-Tanny. Antoni.
-[Antoni] Come on.

1090
00:45:54,961 --> 00:45:57,464
-Come on, kid. Oh, you too?
-[Karamo sighs]

1091
00:45:57,547 --> 00:45:59,674
-All right, all right.
-[laughs] Look at the smile.

1092
00:45:59,758 --> 00:46:01,718
-[Tan] Should we do it?
-[Karamo] Yeah.

1093
00:46:02,928 --> 00:46:04,054
He looks so handsome.

1094
00:46:04,137 --> 00:46:07,140
-[Jonathan] His hair looks really good.
-His hair does look really good.

1095
00:46:08,141 --> 00:46:10,185
God, Bobby, that space looks so good.

1096
00:46:10,268 --> 00:46:11,645
-[Bobby] I wanna move in there.
-Oh!

1097
00:46:11,728 --> 00:46:12,813
It does look beautiful.

1098
00:46:14,523 --> 00:46:16,650
[Kayla] Oh, my gosh.

1099
00:46:16,733 --> 00:46:17,818
Is this real life?

1100
00:46:18,902 --> 00:46:20,904
Oh, my goodness.

1101
00:46:20,987 --> 00:46:23,031
And "oh, my goodness" to you. Hello!

1102
00:46:23,114 --> 00:46:25,992
Hey, honey, how are you?
I've got something to show ya.

1103
00:46:26,076 --> 00:46:28,453
And wait, what? Your beard is like…

1104
00:46:28,537 --> 00:46:31,665
-Yeah? You like it?
-[laughs] Oh, my God, this is amazing.

1105
00:46:32,374 --> 00:46:34,125
I'm gonna cry for you. This is insane.

1106
00:46:34,209 --> 00:46:36,294
No, here. Come here.
I'm cooking us dinner.

1107
00:46:36,378 --> 00:46:39,422
-Honestly, she's stunning.
-Stunning, she's gorgeous.

1108
00:46:39,506 --> 00:46:42,968
This is… I'm speechless.

1109
00:46:45,262 --> 00:46:47,180
-Hey, cheers.
-Cheers.

1110
00:46:47,264 --> 00:46:48,473
Thanks for coming over.

1111
00:46:48,557 --> 00:46:50,767
-They make a cute couple.
-They do.

1112
00:46:50,851 --> 00:46:52,602
We got a couch over here.

1113
00:46:52,686 --> 00:46:54,896
[Kayla] Have you,
like, ever had an actual couch?

1114
00:46:54,980 --> 00:46:56,982
No, it's the first time.
Isn't that exciting?

1115
00:46:57,065 --> 00:46:58,316
-Whoa!
-Wow!

1116
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:01,653
I cannot believe he was
having her over at that last trailer.

1117
00:47:01,736 --> 00:47:02,988
I know.

1118
00:47:03,071 --> 00:47:05,866
-Did you wash your hair? You look--
-I washed it. You like it?

1119
00:47:05,949 --> 00:47:08,952
-Yes! I mean, you have beautiful hair.
-Yeah, smell it.

1120
00:47:09,035 --> 00:47:10,912
It smells good. It smells, like, manly.

1121
00:47:10,996 --> 00:47:14,457
She was scared to death to smell his hair,
and now she seemed really enjoy it.

1122
00:47:14,541 --> 00:47:16,001
-Yay!
-Yeah.

1123
00:47:16,084 --> 00:47:17,794
Here. Have a seat.

1124
00:47:17,878 --> 00:47:19,337
Aw, thank you.

1125
00:47:19,421 --> 00:47:21,089
-One time.
-Prince Charming.

1126
00:47:21,172 --> 00:47:23,758
-All right.
-The presentation… ten out of ten.

1127
00:47:24,301 --> 00:47:26,428
-You look stunning.
-So do you!

1128
00:47:27,053 --> 00:47:29,556
You're beautiful.
Or should I say "bootyful"?

1129
00:47:29,639 --> 00:47:32,642
Those jeans look really good
on your… you know.

1130
00:47:32,726 --> 00:47:34,895
-[laughs]
-[Fab Five] Oh!

1131
00:47:34,978 --> 00:47:37,939
He does have a nice,
little muscular butt, you can tell him.

1132
00:47:38,023 --> 00:47:40,233
[Josh] It was such an amazing experience,
you know?

1133
00:47:40,317 --> 00:47:41,776
I got to thinking about, like…

1134
00:47:41,860 --> 00:47:45,447
[exhales] I don't think until now,
I've ever really thought about our--

1135
00:47:45,530 --> 00:47:47,115
I've never apologized, right?

1136
00:47:49,159 --> 00:47:50,535
I want you to know…

1137
00:47:52,287 --> 00:47:54,497
that I'm sorry,
from, like, the bottom of my heart.

1138
00:47:56,833 --> 00:47:59,753
I'm sorry for being dishonest to you.

1139
00:48:02,589 --> 00:48:04,049
Because the whole time…

1140
00:48:05,050 --> 00:48:06,885
you were amazing, right?

1141
00:48:07,469 --> 00:48:10,221
Like, you were the girl
that I wanted, and I just…

1142
00:48:10,305 --> 00:48:12,766
I wasn't the guy that you wanted.

1143
00:48:12,849 --> 00:48:15,477
But I led it on.
Like, I led you on to believe that.

1144
00:48:16,353 --> 00:48:18,647
You know, I'm sorry for misleading you.

1145
00:48:19,522 --> 00:48:21,316
And I'm sorry I looked at other women.

1146
00:48:22,651 --> 00:48:23,652
I'm sorry.

1147
00:48:24,277 --> 00:48:26,488
-[sighs]
-I absolutely adore you.

1148
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:29,199
I'm gonna work on being better.

1149
00:48:29,282 --> 00:48:32,702
That was the hardest part
about this entire week,

1150
00:48:32,786 --> 00:48:34,329
was reflecting on myself.

1151
00:48:34,913 --> 00:48:36,539
I think the problem is that I just…

1152
00:48:36,623 --> 00:48:38,583
I never loved myself.

1153
00:48:39,084 --> 00:48:40,961
I've got to learn to love myself.

1154
00:48:41,044 --> 00:48:42,879
-[Jonathan] Aww!
-That was the final piece.

1155
00:48:42,963 --> 00:48:45,507
It's like, "What did I do wrong?
Why didn't they love me?"

1156
00:48:45,590 --> 00:48:48,718
Exactly, and it was not about you.
It was 'cause he didn't love his own self.

1157
00:48:50,553 --> 00:48:51,930
I accept your apology.

1158
00:48:52,013 --> 00:48:54,015
I'm so happy to be
part of this next chapter.

1159
00:48:54,099 --> 00:48:56,142
Like, I hope I'm part
of this next chapter with you.

1160
00:48:56,226 --> 00:48:59,479
And I'm happy
to support you in any way I can.

1161
00:48:59,562 --> 00:49:00,522
[Josh] You're an angel.

1162
00:49:01,106 --> 00:49:04,234
My hope for Josh is that
he never stops doing the work on himself.

1163
00:49:04,317 --> 00:49:08,113
[Bobby] Just saying "I want a wife
and a family" are just empty words.

1164
00:49:08,196 --> 00:49:11,157
Actions and preparations
need to be put into that.

1165
00:49:11,241 --> 00:49:14,202
And I think we've definitely
started him on the right track

1166
00:49:14,285 --> 00:49:16,371
to finally find his way home.

1167
00:49:21,876 --> 00:49:23,920
Ever find yourself in the perfect spot,

1168
00:49:24,004 --> 00:49:26,923
wearing your favorite suit,
and you don't know what to drink?

1169
00:49:27,007 --> 00:49:30,135
Well, how about revisit a classic?
The Old Fashioned.

1170
00:49:30,218 --> 00:49:32,262
Start out with an Old Fashioned glass.

1171
00:49:32,345 --> 00:49:33,930
One sugar cube.

1172
00:49:34,014 --> 00:49:35,765
A couple of drops of bitters.

1173
00:49:35,849 --> 00:49:37,934
Three to four splashes of water.

1174
00:49:39,769 --> 00:49:41,938
So Old Fashioneds are
typically made with rye or bourbon.

1175
00:49:42,022 --> 00:49:44,858
Today, we're going primo
with some whiskey.

1176
00:49:44,941 --> 00:49:46,317
A few ice cubes.

1177
00:49:46,401 --> 00:49:49,863
Larger ice cubes will prevent
your cocktail from watering down.

1178
00:49:49,946 --> 00:49:52,824
And, finally, zest of a fresh orange.

1179
00:49:53,783 --> 00:49:56,578
[sniffs] Mmm! And you have yourself
an Old Fashioned.

1180
00:49:56,661 --> 00:49:58,413
Cheers, y'all.

1181
00:49:58,496 --> 00:50:02,000
<i>-</i>[country music playing]
<i>-♪ If your life is like a tornado ♪</i>

1182
00:50:02,083 --> 00:50:04,836
<i>♪ You've been living in black and white ♪</i>

1183
00:50:04,919 --> 00:50:10,216
<i>♪ All you need is a smoke and a rainbow</i>
<i>Honey, let me give you a light ♪</i>

1184
00:50:10,300 --> 00:50:14,554
<i>♪ All right, let me give you a light ♪</i>

1185
00:50:16,514 --> 00:50:19,517
<i>♪ Yes, queen, go</i>,<i> queen</i>
<i>Dipping like a Dairy Queen ♪</i>

1186
00:50:19,601 --> 00:50:22,270
<i>♪ Put your inhibitions in a big U-Haul ♪</i>

1187
00:50:22,353 --> 00:50:25,356
<i>♪ Good wheel Gucci</i>
<i>Where my Chattahoochees? ♪</i>

1188
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:28,568
<i>♪ Out in the country, honey</i>
<i>Y'all means all, hey! ♪</i>

1189
00:50:29,736 --> 00:50:31,738
<i>♪ Y'all means all, hey! ♪</i>

1190
00:50:32,405 --> 00:50:34,199
<i>♪ Hey! Y'all means all ♪</i>

1191
00:50:34,282 --> 00:50:37,118
<i>♪ Yes, queen, go, queen</i>
<i>Dipping like a Dairy Queen ♪</i>

1192
00:50:37,202 --> 00:50:40,038
<i>♪ Put your inhibitions in a big U-Haul ♪</i>

1193
00:50:40,121 --> 00:50:42,957
<i>♪ Good wheel Gucci</i>
<i>Where my Chattahoochees? ♪</i>

1194
00:50:43,041 --> 00:50:45,919
<i>♪ Out in the country, honey</i>
<i>Y'all means all, hey! ♪</i>

1195
00:50:47,253 --> 00:50:49,255
<i>♪ Y'all means all, hey! ♪</i>

1196
00:50:49,881 --> 00:50:51,966
<i>♪ Hey! Y'all means all ♪</i>