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-[theme music playing]
<i>-♪ Style, class, turnaround, yes! ♪</i>

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<i>♪ You came into my life</i>
<i>And my world never looked so bright ♪</i>

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<i>♪ It's true</i>
<i>You bring out the best in me ♪</i>

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<i>♪ When you are around</i>
<i>When you are around ♪</i>

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<i>♪ All things just keep getting better ♪</i>

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<i>♪ The nights just keep getting better ♪</i>

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<i>♪ All things just</i>
<i>keep getting better, yeah! ♪</i>

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[vocalizing]

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<i>♪ All things just keep getting better ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Oh! ♪</i>

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My word. We're in Texas, everybody!

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Howdy, y'all.
Did you just fling your hair?

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I did. Inside my cowboy hat.

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[laughing]

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<i>♪ Ooh! Ooh! ♪</i>

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<i>♪ I got just two weeks</i>
<i>To have me some fun… ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Deep in the heart of Texas! ♪</i>

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[Jonathan] Here we are
in the gorgeous city of Austin,

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which is absolutely in bloom
and beautiful, if I do say so myself.

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Austin's real cute.

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Jonathan, where are we going?
What are we doing?

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This week,
our heroine's name is Terri White.

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Terri is a two-step dance instructor
at her family-owned honky-tonk,

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the Broken Spoke, in Austin, Texas.

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I've heard of that.

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-Really?
-It's famous.

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-[Karamo] You've heard of this place?
-Yeah.

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If you wanna know the secret
to a woman's heart, this is it.

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Men that dance always get lucky.

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[laughing]

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My name is Terri White. I am 58 years old.

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My parents own the Broken Spoke.
James and Annetta White.

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They've owned it 55 years.

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It has not changed one splinter.

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[woman] Hell yeah!

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[Terri] I love dancing because
it makes you forget all your trouble.

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[Terri] Yeah!

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I think people need
to quit bitching at each other

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and have a good time.

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-There you go. Yes!
-[cheering]

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[man grunts, laughs]

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She was nominated by her daughter Ashley.

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She said, "Terri is stubborn and has
a hard time listening to everybody."

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[Ashley] My mom marches to her own drum.

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Boogie!

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She always tells me I need to loosen up,
and I think she needs to rein it in.

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She tells me, "Mother, stop!" [laughs]

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[Jonathan] She doesn't wanna scream
"old lady in polyester pants."

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Daisy Dukes and cowboy boots
are working for her.

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-She's wearing Daisy Dukes?
-Wow.

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-Spot-on for a honky-tonk.
-[Karamo laughs] Yes, honey.

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My daughter and son
have both gone to a Catholic school,

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and she's gonna be who she is
inside that church as well.

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And it's just, like, so embarrassing.

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I am an older woman,
but do I show cleavage? You bet.

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I wear my hair long… [laughs]

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and bangs, 'cause it's called bangtox
and not Botox, you know?

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[Ashley] She hides behind
the long, blonde hair,

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but I think that
it is a cover-up, masking something.

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Even if she were completely bald,
she would be beautiful,

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and I don't think she feels that.

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[Jonathan] Terri's eldest grandson
recently graduated high school,

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and Terri wants him to move in with her
so he can be closer to his internship.

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-Love.
-But… big "but" here.

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Her daughter, not quite sure
this is the best living arrangement.

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[Terri] You need something
to eat, don't you? Here, boy.

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I live on a 250-acre family ranch.

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All right, Patriarch.

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That's a good boy. Come on.

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I currently live in this home alone.

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To fill the void of loneliness,
she's constantly moving.

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[Terri] All right, here we go.

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[Ashley] It's normally her animals.

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Touché, what he say?

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[Ashley] Collecting things,

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fiddling around with projects
in her home and work at the Spoke.

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She doesn't stop long enough to,
like, stay in the kitchen and cook.

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At the end of this week, Terri wants
to throw her grandson a graduation party

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to really show her family that she's ready
to, like, debut a new lease on life.

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Oh, that's nice.

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I loved my grandmother, boy.

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She helped me overcome a lot of things
just by loving me so strong,

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and I wanted the same for my grandkids.

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[Ashley] I think the Fab Five
can help her feel like,

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"My life and my house
and Terri has got it under control,"

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but I don't even know
that she will be open to this.

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[Terri] I don't like change.

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It is about me feeling
happy and comfortable.

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-[Karamo] This one is a Texas doozy.
-[exhaling] All right, here we go.

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Our mission this week is
to show the dancing queen

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that age is a badge of honor
and prove to her daughter

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that she can be their matriarch.

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-[all] Yeah!
-Yee-haw!

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Okay now, most importantly, everyone.

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What is a honky-tonk?

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[country music playing]

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[crowd chattering]

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[laughs]

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[Jonathan] Hey!

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-How are you? James, nice to meet you!
-How you doing? Good to see ya.

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-Look at this bling! You came to play!
-Thank you. Got a lot of bling bling.

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Hey, come on back.
We're gonna teach y'all how to dance.

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Come on back with me.

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-Where's Terri?
-Terri's back here.

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[Tan] She doesn't
know we're coming, right?

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Always push off
from the middle off your right.

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Push hard. Push.

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Right, are you patting my ass,
or are you making me move?

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-[laughing]
-You see?

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[crowd cheering]

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[Antoni] What?

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[screams]

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-[Antoni] Oh, my gosh, I just--
-There you are!

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-Look at you, you are hot.
-[laughing]

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Wow!

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-[Karamo] Mama! I live this!
-Wow!

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[Karamo] Yeah!

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Honey, I am obsessed.

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Yes!

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Terri is serving me curves
and swerves in all the right places.

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Her hips are like water,
and I wanna move and be her river.

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Wow! Y'all freaking me out.

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-Wait, look at you!
-Insane!

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[Karamo] She's in the middle of this
floor, controlling it and looking fierce.

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But if that was my grandma,

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I would be like,
"Granny, what are you doing?"

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-Oh, my!
-You look amazing.

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Wait, okay, what are we teaching them?

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The Western Swing, kinda.
You know, it's a two-step.

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-We're gonna go like this.
-Oh, my!

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-That happened when I was five.
-[Terri] Slow. There you go.

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-Quick, quick, slow.
-Whoo!

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-Whoa!
-[Terri] Glide.

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-She's leading, Tan.
-Quick, quick, slow. There you go.

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Now just repeat.

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Now, you're not a baby.
Don't look at your feet.

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-[laughing]
-[Karamo] I got you, mama.

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[Terri] Guys, listen, the secret
to this is to slide your feet.

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-Don't break your foot. You're too slow.
-[laughing]

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-Slow.
-Too quick.

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-Huh.
-[Terri] Again too slow.

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[crowd cheering]

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Daddy long legs! Shoot! I'm like, "Whoa!"

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[laughing]

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Look at his great shirt, man.
He's got a horse on him.

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Take the horse and ride.

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I love you!

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Do I have a crush on Terri?

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-Okay.
-Y'all are beautiful, man.

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[Antoni] You're making me blush.

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[laughing]

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Oh, my. [chuckles]

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[Terri] Before we leave,
we're gonna do the "Cotton-Eyed Joe."

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What you sayin'? Bullshit.

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-[all] Bullshit!
-Thank you, Kyle.

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-["Cotton-Eyed Joe" playing]
-One, two, tap, travel, and…

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One, two, three, four, five…

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<i>♪ Where did you come from?</i>
<i>Where did you go?… ♪</i>

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Six! [shouts]

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-Round again.
-[all] One, two!

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One, two!

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[all] Bullshit!

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[Terri] Circle to the left.

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[all] Bullshit!

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Bullshit!

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[cheering]

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Good luck. Wish me luck.

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-Bye, everybody.
-Bye!

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[Terri] I'm scared. I'm scared.

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[Antoni] Lean into it. Lean into it.

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<i>♪ Where did you come from?</i>
<i>Where did you go? ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Where did you come from</i>
<i>Cotton-Eyed Joe? ♪</i>

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[Tan] Ooh, is this the ranch?

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-[Antoni] Wow!
-You think it's pretty?

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Yeah, it's beautiful.

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-That's my house.
-[Karamo] Yes, it is.

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-[Bobby] Aww.
-[Karamo] Wow.

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I would need y'all to understand.
I don't live like this.

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-Well, let us see.
-It's a mess.

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Hey! Welcome!

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[Terri] Welcome, girls.

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[Karamo] Oh!

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-I see the decor of horses.
-Horsies.

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Reminds me of home.

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More horses?

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These boots are killing me.

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-Can I please take off these boots? It's--
-Please do it.

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-Oh, Jesus!
-[Tan] Is there toys? I wanna play with.

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-That's all my stuff.
-[Karamo] Thank you.

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-Oh! Oh!
-[laughing]

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-[Antoni] There you go.
-Oh, my gosh. Thank you. Oh!

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Oh, those boots.
I don't know how Texans do it.

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-[Bobby] Beautiful. Does she have a story?
-Ride that puppy.

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-[laughs] Oh, my!
-No, trust me, we're not scared.

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-[laughing]
-Oh! Oh!

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-Oh, my!
-That horse is hungry!

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[Jonathan] Nice little tape-ins.

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That's my favorite piece.
My grandmother made that.

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-[Bobby] Her grandmother made that.
-[Karamo] Grapes here. I do love a theme.

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Oh, that's rough.

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The closet is a shit show.

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It's so disorganized, and it's got
a thousand personalities going on.

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God, that's so short.

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One of the main personalities
that is shining very bright is hoochie.

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[sighs]

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[Antoni] Wow, this fridge!

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[Terri] The Mini Me refrigerator.

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One day, he'll grow up into a big boy.

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-Who put a shoe on the countertop?
-[Antoni] Yeah, there's a belt as well.

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-Brand-new clean, that's okay.
-[Karamo] That is not brand-new clean!

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Mnh-mnh. Not… Not on there.

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-[Terri] Look, I am severely ADD.
-[Bobby] ADD?

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-It's what they call me.
-Me too.

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[Terri] I clean my house.

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I do a little here, here.
I'll go out there, go here.

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So, you're like a pinball machine.
You're just all over the place. Yeah.

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When I'm painting a wall,
I'll paint something over here.

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-I wonder what it looks like over here.
-[Terri] Hello! Look at my ceiling.

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-I screwed it up.
-[Bobby] Oh, yeah. You get it.

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-[Terri] I'm like…
-[laughs]

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Horse number 932,

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33, 34, 35… 936.

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[Tan] Talk to me about the short-shorts.

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-I see a lot of really short short-shorts.
-Yes.

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I don't wear full skirts,
because you can't dance in 'em.

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-Okay.
-So, I wear short skirts.

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I'm not afraid to show it.

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Great. Don't be afraid to show anything.

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[Terri] Right.
At my age, you show your assets.

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-Okay.
-[Terri] But you don't be dirty about it.

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[Tan]
Tell me how you feel about your age.

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00:10:32,508 --> 00:10:35,386
-Well, I'm 58. In two years, I'll be 60.
-Yeah.

233
00:10:35,469 --> 00:10:38,681
-But I am gonna dress my way.
-Okay.

234
00:10:38,764 --> 00:10:41,392
[Terri] Yeah. Because inside
you feel like your soul is young.

235
00:10:41,475 --> 00:10:42,309
[Tan] Yeah.

236
00:10:42,393 --> 00:10:46,313
You feel young.
You have the same taste as you always did.

237
00:10:46,397 --> 00:10:48,774
-Yeah.
-And I gotta dress like granny?

238
00:10:48,857 --> 00:10:51,694
I'm not a ho.
I just wanna, like, be what I want.

239
00:10:52,361 --> 00:10:56,365
[Tan] Terri is trying to play a part
of a younger sexy person.

240
00:10:56,448 --> 00:11:00,577
I… I get what it feels like to age,
but not feel like that internally.

241
00:11:01,161 --> 00:11:05,416
However, it ain't going away anytime soon.
It's not getting easier any time soon.

242
00:11:05,499 --> 00:11:08,836
You are a grandma. Like,
that is just a fact. You are a grandma.

243
00:11:08,919 --> 00:11:12,923
-And the most great thing in my life. Yes.
-Wonderful. Let's celebrate that.

244
00:11:13,674 --> 00:11:18,971
-You already have your work wardrobe done.
-I want a classier version of me.

245
00:11:20,013 --> 00:11:21,390
That's all I needed.

246
00:11:22,433 --> 00:11:24,226
[Karamo] "Hi, Tina." "Hey, girlfriend."

247
00:11:24,309 --> 00:11:26,145
"What you doing later on?"

248
00:11:26,228 --> 00:11:29,189
"You know, hanging with the Fab Five."

249
00:11:31,900 --> 00:11:33,026
[Bobby] What's going on here?

250
00:11:33,110 --> 00:11:36,029
-[Terri] Oh, that's a project.
-[Bobby] When did you start this?

251
00:11:36,113 --> 00:11:38,907
Last year. [laughs]

252
00:11:38,991 --> 00:11:42,369
My bathroom is my best memories.

253
00:11:42,453 --> 00:11:43,412
This is me.

254
00:11:43,495 --> 00:11:44,580
It's a Terri room.

255
00:11:44,663 --> 00:11:45,622
Terri's initials.

256
00:11:45,706 --> 00:11:46,915
Terri, Terri, Terri, Terri.

257
00:11:46,999 --> 00:11:49,042
Teeny, tiny Terri tornado
came through here.

258
00:11:49,126 --> 00:11:52,629
-What is going on in this bathroom?
-I haven't figured it out yet.

259
00:11:52,713 --> 00:11:56,049
What's not going on in this bathroom
is the better question, I guess.

260
00:11:56,133 --> 00:11:57,885
We have collections, honey.

261
00:11:57,968 --> 00:12:00,596
-[Terri] That's my life.
-There's some beautiful pieces up there.

262
00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:02,973
-That vase in the back, beautiful.
-That's everything.

263
00:12:03,056 --> 00:12:04,433
-[Bobby] Beautiful.
-Goodwill.

264
00:12:04,516 --> 00:12:06,435
I can't see it
'cause there's too many of 'em.

265
00:12:06,518 --> 00:12:11,440
Terri's house, it looks exactly the way
I imagine Terri's brain looking inside.

266
00:12:11,523 --> 00:12:13,275
There is a million things going on.

267
00:12:13,859 --> 00:12:15,611
They're not all a million bad things.

268
00:12:15,694 --> 00:12:19,114
They're just all different,
and they're all going on at once.

269
00:12:19,198 --> 00:12:20,282
It's all chaotic.

270
00:12:21,325 --> 00:12:23,202
[Tan] Ooh, I'm working hard.

271
00:12:23,285 --> 00:12:25,329
[Antoni] This doesn't work! Oh, my gosh.

272
00:12:25,412 --> 00:12:27,664
[Tan] Just a second
I'm working on your underwear.

273
00:12:27,748 --> 00:12:30,334
-[Antoni] Oh!
-Okay, right, you wanna try this on?

274
00:12:31,126 --> 00:12:32,377
-[Antoni] Yeah.
-Oh!

275
00:12:32,461 --> 00:12:34,421
[laughing]

276
00:12:34,505 --> 00:12:36,006
[Tan] Let's fill you out.

277
00:12:36,089 --> 00:12:37,382
[laughing]

278
00:12:37,466 --> 00:12:39,635
-Hoo-hoo! Look at that!
-Oh, that's cold!

279
00:12:39,718 --> 00:12:43,639
-Okay! Go with it.
-[both shouting]

280
00:12:43,722 --> 00:12:46,600
I have a question to you about hair.
You had short hair before.

281
00:12:46,683 --> 00:12:48,185
-[Terri] Mm-hmm.
-Then we changed it.

282
00:12:48,268 --> 00:12:54,066
I started growing it, and…
and that's when I noticed bad textures.

283
00:12:54,149 --> 00:12:56,109
Then hair was coming out.

284
00:12:56,193 --> 00:12:58,111
And your hairline starts changing.

285
00:12:58,195 --> 00:12:59,905
Different things, you're like,

286
00:12:59,988 --> 00:13:03,116
"Okay, I'm gonna, like, dye it.
What is happening?"

287
00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:04,451
So, I just…

288
00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:07,329
I… I know how to camouflage.

289
00:13:07,913 --> 00:13:11,166
Camouflage? So,
what's going on with your hair nowadays?

290
00:13:14,670 --> 00:13:18,173
-Is this like-- do we have a little--
-It's a really private thing for me.

291
00:13:18,257 --> 00:13:22,553
Yeah, because your hair visually looks,
I mean, amazing. So, is…

292
00:13:22,636 --> 00:13:24,680
[whispers] Is it a wig?

293
00:13:24,763 --> 00:13:25,764
-No.
-No.

294
00:13:27,724 --> 00:13:29,560
-You know I do hair, right?
-I know that.

295
00:13:29,643 --> 00:13:33,355
I don't tell anybody
anything about myself.

296
00:13:33,438 --> 00:13:34,439
I never have.

297
00:13:35,649 --> 00:13:38,485
[Jonathan] Terri is not being entirely
truthful with me about her hair,

298
00:13:38,569 --> 00:13:43,031
but I wanna honor her and give her space
to be as truthful as she wants to be.

299
00:13:43,115 --> 00:13:44,950
And I'm also willing to be patient

300
00:13:45,033 --> 00:13:48,579
until she trusts me enough to talk to me
about what's really going on.

301
00:13:49,538 --> 00:13:50,914
You look amazing.

302
00:13:50,998 --> 00:13:53,750
What you're doing with your hair
and your face and your clothes,

303
00:13:53,834 --> 00:13:57,212
literally looks-- look at me-- amazing.

304
00:13:58,046 --> 00:14:00,424
-This is about range, honey. It's variety.
-Uh-huh.

305
00:14:02,885 --> 00:14:04,052
Well, I don't know.

306
00:14:04,136 --> 00:14:06,805
I just am, like… [groans]

307
00:14:07,556 --> 00:14:09,433
you know, afraid.

308
00:14:09,516 --> 00:14:10,350
[Jonathan] Yeah.

309
00:14:11,560 --> 00:14:13,937
[Karamo] Come on.
Show y'all how us real country boys do it.

310
00:14:16,773 --> 00:14:17,608
Uh!

311
00:14:17,691 --> 00:14:20,402
-Ha! I can't even look at that.
-I'm a cowboy on a ranch.

312
00:14:20,485 --> 00:14:22,738
-[horse whinnies]
-[cow moos]

313
00:14:22,821 --> 00:14:25,032
[Antoni chuckles]
Okay. So, this is the kitchen.

314
00:14:25,115 --> 00:14:26,909
-That's nice.
-This is my grandma's recipe.

315
00:14:26,992 --> 00:14:28,911
I feel she's close to me
when I have it here.

316
00:14:28,994 --> 00:14:29,828
[Antoni] Which one?

317
00:14:29,912 --> 00:14:31,371
[Terri] Banana cake. The best.

318
00:14:31,455 --> 00:14:34,082
-Something your grandma used to make?
-Yes, a lot.

319
00:14:34,166 --> 00:14:35,626
Do you make it often?

320
00:14:35,709 --> 00:14:38,128
All the time.
It makes me feel closer to her.

321
00:14:38,211 --> 00:14:40,047
-Yeah. That's really sweet.
-Yeah.

322
00:14:40,130 --> 00:14:43,884
She's the one that said, "You can be
whatever you want, Terri. It's okay."

323
00:14:43,967 --> 00:14:45,719
And you needed
to hear that as a little kid.

324
00:14:45,802 --> 00:14:47,763
Oh, yeah. Who doesn't?

325
00:14:47,846 --> 00:14:49,473
Yeah, absolutely.

326
00:14:49,556 --> 00:14:52,351
Taking in your grandson, is there
anything that you wanna teach him?

327
00:14:52,434 --> 00:14:53,310
Independence.

328
00:14:53,393 --> 00:14:56,939
He needs to grow
and… and spread his wings.

329
00:14:57,022 --> 00:14:59,524
So you're trying to teach him
what your grandmother taught you?

330
00:14:59,608 --> 00:15:04,279
Yes, I want him to have the freedom
to become the man he wants to be.

331
00:15:04,363 --> 00:15:06,949
I don't want him to become
what he thinks his mom wants him to be.

332
00:15:07,032 --> 00:15:08,158
Yeah.

333
00:15:08,241 --> 00:15:09,910
-Big news in Texas.
-[Terri] You look good.

334
00:15:09,993 --> 00:15:12,162
[Jonathan] I've got someone
to introduce to you.

335
00:15:12,245 --> 00:15:15,791
-It's Tanya Tucker!
-[shouting]

336
00:15:15,874 --> 00:15:17,626
Oh, wow!

337
00:15:17,709 --> 00:15:19,419
-That is my dress.
-[Bobby] Beautiful!

338
00:15:19,503 --> 00:15:22,422
First and foremost,
I'm the same size as you, which is funny.

339
00:15:22,506 --> 00:15:25,509
-Check it out, baby.
-Wow!

340
00:15:25,592 --> 00:15:27,344
I think everyone would agree

341
00:15:27,427 --> 00:15:31,723
that the world could use
more Tan France shoulders and clavicle.

342
00:15:31,807 --> 00:15:32,849
Am I wrong?

343
00:15:32,933 --> 00:15:35,727
-Dipper! Dipper!
-Oh-ho-ho! Oh!

344
00:15:35,811 --> 00:15:37,145
[laughing]

345
00:15:39,022 --> 00:15:41,858
How was your relationship
with you and your daughter growing up?

346
00:15:41,942 --> 00:15:44,069
Ashley was a little hard to raise.

347
00:15:44,152 --> 00:15:45,570
She was very independent.

348
00:15:45,654 --> 00:15:47,823
She would throw herself down.

349
00:15:47,906 --> 00:15:49,366
-You know, throwing a fit.
-[laughing]

350
00:15:49,449 --> 00:15:51,159
And I was, "Uh, what do I do?"

351
00:15:51,243 --> 00:15:52,494
Hmm.

352
00:15:52,577 --> 00:15:54,955
-Ashley had a hard time.
-In what way?

353
00:15:55,038 --> 00:15:57,165
From me, because
I didn't know what I was doing.

354
00:15:57,749 --> 00:15:58,709
How old is Ashley now?

355
00:15:59,334 --> 00:16:00,752
-Thirty-seven.
-Thirty-seven?

356
00:16:01,336 --> 00:16:04,006
How do you compare yourself
to where she was at 37 to where you are?

357
00:16:04,089 --> 00:16:06,341
She has always been way more mature,

358
00:16:06,425 --> 00:16:10,012
more structured,
and I think Ashley's trying to change me.

359
00:16:10,846 --> 00:16:13,390
Hmm. So it makes you feel judged?

360
00:16:14,516 --> 00:16:16,309
Oh, yeah, I'm… I'm judged,

361
00:16:16,393 --> 00:16:18,854
and then I end up being crazy, you know,

362
00:16:18,937 --> 00:16:21,440
'cause I'm comfortable
with me being Terri.

363
00:16:22,065 --> 00:16:22,899
[Karamo] Yeah.

364
00:16:23,567 --> 00:16:25,444
Terri has a problem with vulnerability

365
00:16:25,527 --> 00:16:27,779
because she feels like
she's getting judged,

366
00:16:27,863 --> 00:16:31,950
and that's stopping her
from opening up and receiving advice

367
00:16:32,034 --> 00:16:33,660
and accepting change.

368
00:16:33,744 --> 00:16:38,457
Hello. So, I heard that you're hosting
a potluck at the end of the week, queen.

369
00:16:38,540 --> 00:16:40,834
It's a graduation party for my grandson.

370
00:16:40,917 --> 00:16:43,754
-Okay.
-And y'all are gonna give me structure.

371
00:16:43,837 --> 00:16:44,671
[Johnathan chuckles]

372
00:16:44,755 --> 00:16:47,340
We can lead a horse to water,
but you can't make 'em what?

373
00:16:47,424 --> 00:16:48,884
-Drink.
-[Bobby] Right.

374
00:16:48,967 --> 00:16:52,471
-We got our work cut out for us. Yeah!
-There's only one way to get out of here.

375
00:16:52,554 --> 00:16:53,638
What do you say?

376
00:16:53,722 --> 00:16:54,848
[all] Bullshit!

377
00:16:54,931 --> 00:16:56,058
The hell you say.

378
00:16:56,141 --> 00:16:57,225
[all] Bullshit!

379
00:16:57,309 --> 00:16:59,311
[rock music playing]

380
00:17:01,772 --> 00:17:03,982
<i>♪ We're always going in circles… ♪</i>

381
00:17:04,066 --> 00:17:06,401
Clearly, the house has
gotten out of control.

382
00:17:06,485 --> 00:17:07,736
It's a little chaotic.

383
00:17:07,819 --> 00:17:13,366
When she comes home, she needs
to be able to relax and become zen

384
00:17:13,450 --> 00:17:15,827
so Terri can focus
on spending good quality time

385
00:17:15,911 --> 00:17:18,038
with her grandson and her daughter.

386
00:17:19,164 --> 00:17:23,126
Terri may be scared that she doesn't
wanna look like a traditional grandma.

387
00:17:23,210 --> 00:17:25,462
But by the end of this week,

388
00:17:25,545 --> 00:17:27,339
she'll be able
to present herself to the world,

389
00:17:27,422 --> 00:17:29,299
knowing that she is still wild.

390
00:17:29,382 --> 00:17:33,762
She's still sexy,
but appropriate in any situation she's in.

391
00:17:34,846 --> 00:17:38,433
[Jonathan] I definitely think that she is
very scared about the aging process.

392
00:17:38,517 --> 00:17:42,938
I really am of the opinion
that it is so exciting that we get to age.

393
00:17:43,021 --> 00:17:45,857
And I want
to help Terri get to that place of, like,

394
00:17:45,941 --> 00:17:49,736
really celebrating her experience
and not be in a place of resisting it.

395
00:17:50,779 --> 00:17:52,197
[Karamo] Terri doesn't understand

396
00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:54,616
why Ashley feels conflicted
with her son moving in.

397
00:17:54,699 --> 00:17:57,077
But at the end of the day,
they need to come together

398
00:17:57,160 --> 00:17:58,954
and start to understand each other.

399
00:17:59,037 --> 00:18:00,580
So that way they can grow

400
00:18:00,664 --> 00:18:04,417
and can start to create
a nurturing environment for Alex.

401
00:18:05,585 --> 00:18:10,006
I really wanna focus on the things
that are great and so special about Terri,

402
00:18:10,090 --> 00:18:13,927
and her face lights up
when she talks about this banana cake.

403
00:18:14,010 --> 00:18:16,847
Terri loved it
when her grandma made that cake for her.

404
00:18:16,930 --> 00:18:19,266
It's time for her
to pass that on to her grandson.

405
00:18:19,349 --> 00:18:21,768
<i>♪ Gonna be okay ♪</i>

406
00:18:26,148 --> 00:18:28,150
[woman vocalizing]

407
00:18:33,238 --> 00:18:34,990
Whoo! Hold on.

408
00:18:35,073 --> 00:18:37,951
Yeah. Yeah, baby! That's pretty good.

409
00:18:39,035 --> 00:18:40,287
Stimulating. [laughs]

410
00:18:40,370 --> 00:18:42,581
Hadn't had a boyfriend in a long time.

411
00:18:43,123 --> 00:18:44,374
Um… [laughs]

412
00:18:44,457 --> 00:18:46,293
-I'm actually gonna put you to work.
-Sure.

413
00:18:46,376 --> 00:18:48,670
I want you to help me
do some of the tiling,

414
00:18:48,753 --> 00:18:51,214
because I want you
to help me finish some projects.

415
00:18:51,298 --> 00:18:54,551
I'm not a person that doesn't
finish things. It's just that, uh…

416
00:18:54,634 --> 00:18:57,804
I don't believe it. No need
to people-please me and say you do.

417
00:18:57,888 --> 00:18:58,805
'Cause I have eyes.

418
00:18:58,889 --> 00:19:02,350
Listen, I come home at night going,
"Who the hell came in my house?"

419
00:19:02,434 --> 00:19:03,935
-But it was you.
-And it was me!

420
00:19:04,019 --> 00:19:06,188
[laughs] You know…

421
00:19:07,147 --> 00:19:10,567
-If I don't have a tidy home, chaos.
-Mm-hmm.

422
00:19:10,650 --> 00:19:12,444
-[laughs]
-Well…

423
00:19:12,527 --> 00:19:14,529
[Bobby] I wanna take Terri
tile shopping today.

424
00:19:14,613 --> 00:19:18,617
I wanna make her bathroom
this beautiful, serene, spa-like place

425
00:19:19,201 --> 00:19:22,078
where she can come in
and just get away from it all.

426
00:19:22,162 --> 00:19:24,706
I noticed
there's little bits of this color

427
00:19:24,789 --> 00:19:27,751
in, like, pots and vases
and stuff in your house.

428
00:19:27,834 --> 00:19:29,085
So I wanted to tie that in

429
00:19:29,169 --> 00:19:32,047
because, like, the vases in your bathroom
I think are really pretty.

430
00:19:32,130 --> 00:19:34,466
Uh-huh. That's nice to know.

431
00:19:34,549 --> 00:19:36,509
This is gonna be pretty. Do you like this?

432
00:19:36,593 --> 00:19:38,970
[Terri] No, I love that.
That's my favorite color.

433
00:19:39,054 --> 00:19:41,556
-Reminds me of the creek that I swim in.
-Yes.

434
00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:45,185
I think you did
a great job figuring me out.

435
00:19:45,268 --> 00:19:49,439
I can tell
underneath this big Texas façade

436
00:19:50,023 --> 00:19:52,651
is someone looking for some new direction.

437
00:19:53,276 --> 00:19:54,819
-And voilà!
-Oh, wow.

438
00:19:54,903 --> 00:19:56,529
[Bobby] Tile B is here.

439
00:19:56,613 --> 00:19:57,447
-All right.
-Oh, wow.

440
00:19:57,530 --> 00:20:02,661
So, the thing about tile
is it's actually not really that scary.

441
00:20:02,744 --> 00:20:04,037
That's gonna be really pretty.

442
00:20:04,120 --> 00:20:05,747
-[Bobby] Do you wanna lay one?
-Sure.

443
00:20:05,830 --> 00:20:09,084
Taking care of your home,
it's like medicine for your soul,

444
00:20:09,167 --> 00:20:12,504
and minimizing the chaos
and clutter in your home

445
00:20:12,587 --> 00:20:15,966
allows you to minimize
the chaos and clutter in your mind.

446
00:20:16,049 --> 00:20:17,884
So, finish that project.

447
00:20:17,968 --> 00:20:18,927
[Terri] I did it!

448
00:20:19,010 --> 00:20:20,053
-[Bobby] See?
-Yeah.

449
00:20:20,136 --> 00:20:23,306
It's scary, then you're like, "Oh,
I can knock this out in an afternoon."

450
00:20:23,390 --> 00:20:25,433
-Well, it's gonna look beautiful now.
-Yeah.

451
00:20:31,189 --> 00:20:33,066
Tell me about Austin. Why do we love it?

452
00:20:33,149 --> 00:20:36,611
[Terri] Personally, I love Austin
because you can be anything you want,

453
00:20:36,695 --> 00:20:39,239
any way you want it,
and it's damn okay.

454
00:20:39,823 --> 00:20:43,118
[Tan] I'm nervous
about taking Terri shopping.

455
00:20:43,201 --> 00:20:45,578
My concern is that Terri is not willing

456
00:20:45,662 --> 00:20:49,207
to try on anything
that I might suggest for her.

457
00:20:49,291 --> 00:20:51,710
This is the first time
I've ever felt this way.

458
00:20:52,335 --> 00:20:56,172
To start this off right,
I thought we might play a little game.

459
00:20:56,256 --> 00:20:59,175
I would like you
to just have a really casual browse

460
00:20:59,259 --> 00:21:01,594
and tell me what stone
would be your stone.

461
00:21:01,678 --> 00:21:02,721
That is me?

462
00:21:02,804 --> 00:21:04,431
[Tan] Yeah, that you'd keep in your home,

463
00:21:04,514 --> 00:21:06,891
that feels like you
or that you would gravitate towards.

464
00:21:06,975 --> 00:21:08,101
-Okay.
-Take your time.

465
00:21:08,184 --> 00:21:10,687
-It would be this.
-Ooh, you've already decided.

466
00:21:11,229 --> 00:21:14,274
Okay. This one's called amazonite. Ooh!

467
00:21:14,899 --> 00:21:17,944
"Assists with communicating
one's true thoughts and feelings

468
00:21:18,028 --> 00:21:21,156
without over-emotionalism
in order to effect peace."

469
00:21:21,239 --> 00:21:22,449
-That's me.
-Yeah?

470
00:21:22,532 --> 00:21:24,659
'Cause I don't let anybody in.

471
00:21:25,285 --> 00:21:27,996
-Not really.
-Yeah, I… I can tell that.

472
00:21:28,079 --> 00:21:29,831
You're a tough lady, Terri.

473
00:21:29,914 --> 00:21:33,710
I'm just protective of me, 'cause if I
don't shine my buttons, nobody else does.

474
00:21:33,793 --> 00:21:34,961
Yeah.

475
00:21:35,045 --> 00:21:37,297
-Okay, follow me, my love.
-Sure.

476
00:21:37,380 --> 00:21:38,548
You said yesterday

477
00:21:38,631 --> 00:21:43,887
that you, uh, would like
to have a "classy version" of you.

478
00:21:43,970 --> 00:21:45,388
-Yes.
-Love that.

479
00:21:45,472 --> 00:21:48,058
-So now we are showing your great boobs.
-I know.

480
00:21:48,141 --> 00:21:49,893
We're showing your amazing legs.

481
00:21:49,976 --> 00:21:52,979
Have you considered maybe
focusing on one area at once?

482
00:21:53,063 --> 00:21:55,440
I… I don't know how to get there.
No, I don't.

483
00:21:55,523 --> 00:21:57,442
Then I would like to help you with that.

484
00:21:57,525 --> 00:22:00,070
I pulled a bunch of stuff already,

485
00:22:00,153 --> 00:22:01,821
but I've got one question.

486
00:22:01,905 --> 00:22:05,742
-Is this too wild?
-I knew you were gonna pull that.

487
00:22:05,825 --> 00:22:08,203
-There's something about it.
-That's too grandma-y.

488
00:22:08,286 --> 00:22:11,623
Grand-- You think this is grandma?
What grandmas are you hanging around?

489
00:22:11,706 --> 00:22:13,625
My mother wears that.

490
00:22:13,708 --> 00:22:14,584
That short?

491
00:22:15,210 --> 00:22:17,921
-No, that's just not even it.
-All right, all right, all right.

492
00:22:18,004 --> 00:22:21,007
I don't know
how she's gonna respond to this.

493
00:22:21,091 --> 00:22:25,303
My concern is that Terri is gonna
come out and be like, "Mnh-mnh.

494
00:22:25,387 --> 00:22:29,224
This is so not okay. You've covered up
way too much of my body."

495
00:22:29,307 --> 00:22:30,892
-Can I open the curtain?
-Certainly.

496
00:22:30,975 --> 00:22:31,893
Wonderful.

497
00:22:32,602 --> 00:22:33,853
-Okay.
-You like it?

498
00:22:33,937 --> 00:22:34,979
You don't even know.

499
00:22:35,063 --> 00:22:37,857
We are focusing
on your wonderful bosom.

500
00:22:37,941 --> 00:22:39,442
We've covered up some of the rest,

501
00:22:39,526 --> 00:22:41,694
but it doesn't mean
I've taken your sexy away.

502
00:22:41,778 --> 00:22:43,530
Your legs look amazing.

503
00:22:43,613 --> 00:22:45,240
Your ass looks amazing.

504
00:22:45,323 --> 00:22:48,368
You tell me that that's not a hot grandma.

505
00:22:48,451 --> 00:22:50,078
No, this is a look I would go with.

506
00:22:50,161 --> 00:22:53,873
You could be 25. You could be 55.
You could be whatever age.

507
00:22:53,957 --> 00:22:56,793
You still look hot.
You still look classy.

508
00:22:56,876 --> 00:22:57,877
[Terri] But I get respect.

509
00:22:57,961 --> 00:23:00,588
Everyone would be looking at you
for all the right reasons.

510
00:23:00,672 --> 00:23:03,925
This is what I wanted.
I wanted dressy but casual.

511
00:23:04,008 --> 00:23:07,137
-I want more upscale classy. Like, yeah.
-Yeah, did you feel it?

512
00:23:07,220 --> 00:23:08,054
Yes, I feel it.

513
00:23:09,013 --> 00:23:12,183
By all accounts,
nobody gets to choose anything for Terri.

514
00:23:12,267 --> 00:23:15,353
So, it feels like
we've really made a breakthrough.

515
00:23:15,437 --> 00:23:18,273
It doesn't have to
always be skin, skin, skin, skin, skin.

516
00:23:18,356 --> 00:23:21,443
Instead of showing it all, show a little.
Keep them guessing.

517
00:23:21,526 --> 00:23:23,445
I wanna see you.
If you hate it, you hate it.

518
00:23:23,528 --> 00:23:26,156
I want you to be open,
and we're gonna play.

519
00:23:26,239 --> 00:23:27,574
-Can I open this?
-Yes.

520
00:23:28,783 --> 00:23:30,994
And how are we feeling
about it now that we've got it on?

521
00:23:31,077 --> 00:23:33,913
Like to get me out,
you're gonna have to have a potato peeler.

522
00:23:33,997 --> 00:23:35,331
[Tan laughs]

523
00:23:35,915 --> 00:23:39,544
Tell me about grandma. When was
the last time your grandma wore this?

524
00:23:42,547 --> 00:23:44,841
You got a hot grandma if she's in this.

525
00:23:46,426 --> 00:23:48,720
[Terri] I like it
way better than I thought I would.

526
00:23:48,803 --> 00:23:51,097
-Good.
-Because it fits right through here.

527
00:23:51,181 --> 00:23:52,015
-Yeah.
-Right?

528
00:23:52,098 --> 00:23:54,809
-It gives you room for your big butt.
-Yeah, it does.

529
00:23:54,893 --> 00:23:56,311
[Terri] But yet, it shows my legs.

530
00:23:56,394 --> 00:23:58,897
Do you feel like you're frumpy dumpy?

531
00:23:58,980 --> 00:24:00,857
-No, not in any way.
-Okay, great.

532
00:24:01,983 --> 00:24:06,488
-I'm stunned that it even appeals to me.
-That makes me happy.

533
00:24:07,363 --> 00:24:09,115
-[Terri] Yeah.
-It's still so damn sexy.

534
00:24:09,199 --> 00:24:11,117
You're just not showing it all at once.

535
00:24:11,201 --> 00:24:13,620
-You're choosing one focus.
-All at once, it's ho-ey.

536
00:24:13,703 --> 00:24:14,787
[Tan laughs]

537
00:24:14,871 --> 00:24:16,080
-I gotcha.
-Yes.

538
00:24:16,164 --> 00:24:18,249
You have no idea
what an accomplishment you've done.

539
00:24:18,333 --> 00:24:20,251
-Thanks.
-I don't like anybody's taste.

540
00:24:20,335 --> 00:24:22,128
-Good.
-I'm like, "Nope. Ain't happening."

541
00:24:22,212 --> 00:24:23,421
[laughing]

542
00:24:23,505 --> 00:24:26,132
-["Glowed Up" playing]
<i>♪ I'm high-key confident ♪</i>

543
00:24:26,216 --> 00:24:28,384
<i>♪ Ooh, and there ain't no stoppin' it ♪</i>

544
00:24:28,468 --> 00:24:31,262
<i>♪ Glowed up like I'm rollin' first class ♪</i>

545
00:24:31,346 --> 00:24:34,390
<i>♪ Ooh, ooh, and I like it like that</i>
<i>Glowed up… ♪</i>

546
00:24:34,474 --> 00:24:36,851
Have you ever been
to Swedish Hill Bakery?

547
00:24:36,935 --> 00:24:39,187
[Terri] For about however long
they've been open, yeah.

548
00:24:39,270 --> 00:24:41,439
-[Antoni] So that's a yes. Awesome.
-That is a major yes.

549
00:24:42,023 --> 00:24:43,441
<i>♪ I like it like that</i>…<i> ♪</i>

550
00:24:43,525 --> 00:24:45,652
-[woman] Hi.
-Hi, Chef Jen, how are you?

551
00:24:45,735 --> 00:24:46,694
I'm great. How are you?

552
00:24:46,778 --> 00:24:50,281
Really good. Mind if we just get
in your kitchen and have some fun?

553
00:24:50,365 --> 00:24:52,909
-Yeah, come on back.
-[Antoni] Awesome. Thank you so much.

554
00:24:53,535 --> 00:24:55,578
-You're gonna wait here for a second.
-[Terri] Sure.

555
00:24:55,662 --> 00:24:57,080
And I'm gonna be right back.

556
00:24:58,206 --> 00:25:00,542
Terri, close your eyes. Close your eyes.

557
00:25:02,126 --> 00:25:03,586
Okay, you can open 'em.

558
00:25:05,421 --> 00:25:08,132
-Oh, my God, Alex! Aww!
-[Antoni laughs]

559
00:25:08,216 --> 00:25:09,384
-How are you, baby?
-I'm good.

560
00:25:09,467 --> 00:25:11,594
-[Antoni] I brought Alex!
-[laughs]

561
00:25:11,678 --> 00:25:13,263
[Antoni] We were sitting in your kitchen

562
00:25:13,346 --> 00:25:15,598
when we saw
this lovely recipe of your grandma's.

563
00:25:15,682 --> 00:25:18,726
Me and my grandmother made together,
and I loved anything she made.

564
00:25:18,810 --> 00:25:20,812
-Have you made this with your grandma?
-No.

565
00:25:20,895 --> 00:25:23,439
-You've eaten it with me though.
-You guys are gonna be roommates.

566
00:25:24,023 --> 00:25:26,985
So I figure why not get in the kitchen
and have something you guys can make?

567
00:25:27,068 --> 00:25:28,194
Okay, so…

568
00:25:28,278 --> 00:25:31,948
First, you put your buttermilk
into your baking soda,

569
00:25:32,031 --> 00:25:34,951
and then you wanna stir it so that
it's good and mixed, not lumpy.

570
00:25:35,034 --> 00:25:38,580
I am here. I got my <i>mise en place,</i>
all the ingredients.

571
00:25:38,663 --> 00:25:40,373
Ready to make this banana cake.

572
00:25:40,456 --> 00:25:42,125
-[Alex] This thing?
-[Terri] Sugar first.

573
00:25:42,208 --> 00:25:44,002
-[Alex] Sugar first?
-[Antoni] Sugar first.

574
00:25:44,085 --> 00:25:46,296
[Terri] Mostly because
butter will stick to the bottom.

575
00:25:46,379 --> 00:25:48,256
[Antoni] Terri just swoops right in.

576
00:25:48,339 --> 00:25:50,758
She takes control
'cause that's the woman that she is.

577
00:25:50,842 --> 00:25:52,885
There, you have that
and then half your shortener.

578
00:25:52,969 --> 00:25:54,721
[Antoni] You know
what you're talking about.

579
00:25:54,804 --> 00:25:57,098
I'm but a peon in her world.

580
00:25:57,181 --> 00:25:59,350
-Make sure the shortening's…
-I'm here for it, frankly.

581
00:25:59,434 --> 00:26:01,477
-Do it like a blender.
-Oh, okay.

582
00:26:01,561 --> 00:26:03,104
So it's all nice and foamy.

583
00:26:03,187 --> 00:26:04,564
I am loving this.

584
00:26:05,898 --> 00:26:07,984
Oh, you have
a way better technique though.

585
00:26:08,067 --> 00:26:09,152
[all laughing]

586
00:26:10,028 --> 00:26:10,862
[Antoni] Perfect.

587
00:26:10,945 --> 00:26:13,656
[Terri] My grandma showed love
through baking food.

588
00:26:13,740 --> 00:26:16,909
She had me cooking with her
and stuff, but we were buddies.

589
00:26:17,493 --> 00:26:20,038
Yeah. Well, you guys are buddies.

590
00:26:20,622 --> 00:26:23,041
-Now I know why you're so drawn to him.
-He's my boy.

591
00:26:23,124 --> 00:26:24,792
[Antoni] I'm gonna
go put this in the oven.

592
00:26:25,501 --> 00:26:26,502
You're doing good.

593
00:26:27,086 --> 00:26:29,213
I've reached out to a few family members.

594
00:26:29,297 --> 00:26:31,883
Nobody seems to have
the recipe for the rum glaze.

595
00:26:31,966 --> 00:26:33,217
-I have it.
-[Antoni] What is it?

596
00:26:33,301 --> 00:26:34,719
-Here.
-Okay.

597
00:26:34,802 --> 00:26:37,263
[Terri] You start
with one stick of butter,

598
00:26:37,347 --> 00:26:40,266
but you're gonna put your rum in there
and warm it up with your butter.

599
00:26:40,350 --> 00:26:43,102
So then you wanna
just put your sugar in there.

600
00:26:43,186 --> 00:26:46,147
Is grandma's house very different
than the house that you were raised in?

601
00:26:46,230 --> 00:26:47,440
Yeah, I would say so.

602
00:26:47,523 --> 00:26:51,194
It's just my mom and my grandma
are just two different people.

603
00:26:51,277 --> 00:26:52,445
My mom is very organized--

604
00:26:52,528 --> 00:26:55,323
So you like your structure.
You like things to be put away.

605
00:26:55,406 --> 00:26:57,533
That's just a comfort thing
'cause I've been around it.

606
00:26:57,617 --> 00:26:59,911
-[Antoni] What are you looking forward to?
-[Alex] Uh…

607
00:26:59,994 --> 00:27:01,829
-[Terri] Getting away from his mother.
-[laughs]

608
00:27:01,913 --> 00:27:03,915
-[laughing]
-You can't help yourself.

609
00:27:03,998 --> 00:27:04,957
[Terri] I'm just joking.

610
00:27:05,041 --> 00:27:07,960
Probably just getting
to be around my grandma more.

611
00:27:08,044 --> 00:27:10,046
-Aww, that's sweet, Alex.
-[Antoni] Just hanging out.

612
00:27:10,129 --> 00:27:12,632
[Alex] She's not like anybody else
that you'll ever meet.

613
00:27:12,715 --> 00:27:14,634
-She's her own person. She's Terri.
-Fun.

614
00:27:14,717 --> 00:27:18,346
I just want her to not need other
people's approval or anything like that.

615
00:27:18,429 --> 00:27:20,723
-Just be okay with her.
-[Terri] Yeah. Yeah.

616
00:27:20,807 --> 00:27:23,685
-He really loves you.
-I know that. I know that.

617
00:27:24,977 --> 00:27:25,812
Beautiful.

618
00:27:25,895 --> 00:27:28,981
Terri's gone through her life
feeling like she's being judged

619
00:27:29,065 --> 00:27:31,442
by everyone around her
for the way that she presents herself.

620
00:27:31,526 --> 00:27:33,736
But the validation that she needs
is already there.

621
00:27:33,820 --> 00:27:35,446
It's literally right in front of her.

622
00:27:35,530 --> 00:27:38,199
-There you go. That's how you do it.
-[Antoni] It's in her family.

623
00:27:38,282 --> 00:27:40,243
I really think
you guys are gonna get along well.

624
00:27:40,326 --> 00:27:41,160
We always have.

625
00:27:41,244 --> 00:27:43,663
He's gonna teach you
a little bit of structure.

626
00:27:43,746 --> 00:27:46,124
-He will too.
-You're gonna teach him a bit of freedom.

627
00:27:47,667 --> 00:27:50,878
Mmm! This is legit freakin' delicious.

628
00:27:50,962 --> 00:27:52,839
-That's good.
-[Terri] Aw, you're so sweet.

629
00:27:52,922 --> 00:27:54,549
["We Belong" by Bleeding Fingers playing]

630
00:27:54,632 --> 00:27:58,052
<i>♪ Right where we belong, whoo! ♪</i>

631
00:27:58,136 --> 00:28:00,513
<i>♪ With all of the magic, yeah, yeah! ♪</i>

632
00:28:00,596 --> 00:28:03,182
<i>♪ Together we’re stranded, yeah, yeah! ♪</i>

633
00:28:03,266 --> 00:28:06,561
<i>♪ Left my fears at home ♪</i>

634
00:28:06,644 --> 00:28:11,023
<i>♪ Away from the madness, yeah, yeah!</i>
<i>Tonight we forget it, yeah, yeah! ♪</i>

635
00:28:11,107 --> 00:28:14,819
<i>♪ I’m finally vibing, already decided… ♪</i>

636
00:28:16,654 --> 00:28:18,197
[alarm chirps]

637
00:28:18,281 --> 00:28:20,575
[laughing]

638
00:28:20,658 --> 00:28:22,618
[Karamo] We're gonna do archery
with your mom.

639
00:28:22,702 --> 00:28:24,787
-Okay.
-So she's gonna be coming here in a bit.

640
00:28:24,871 --> 00:28:26,622
We're here at Central Texas Archery

641
00:28:26,706 --> 00:28:31,043
because Terri and Ashley
have to grow and get to a healthy place,

642
00:28:31,127 --> 00:28:33,421
not just for themselves, but for Alex too,

643
00:28:33,504 --> 00:28:36,340
and when people are afraid
to talk about their emotions,

644
00:28:36,424 --> 00:28:38,259
it's good
to sometimes give them an activity.

645
00:28:38,342 --> 00:28:41,304
So that way they can do both.
What was your childhood like?

646
00:28:42,930 --> 00:28:45,057
-Eventful.
-[laughs]

647
00:28:45,141 --> 00:28:48,603
That is a really good word
after spending some time with your mom.

648
00:28:48,686 --> 00:28:52,064
She isn't always
the most structured human being.

649
00:28:52,940 --> 00:28:55,318
I was a little young adult.

650
00:28:55,401 --> 00:28:58,946
Yeah, yeah. Meaning that you had
to kind of raise yourself?

651
00:28:59,030 --> 00:29:00,865
I just grew up quick, I guess.

652
00:29:00,948 --> 00:29:02,617
-[Karamo] Mm-hmm.
-And…

653
00:29:05,286 --> 00:29:08,581
…it's hard to have a conversation and…

654
00:29:08,664 --> 00:29:10,666
[gasps, sniffles]

655
00:29:11,459 --> 00:29:13,294
…get her to listen, you know?

656
00:29:13,878 --> 00:29:16,506
That's a fear of yours,
your son coming into your mom's house

657
00:29:16,589 --> 00:29:18,925
and your mom not listening to your son.

658
00:29:19,008 --> 00:29:23,638
Her coping mechanism is
she goes 90 miles an hour.

659
00:29:23,721 --> 00:29:26,474
Because if she has
to stop and really listen,

660
00:29:26,557 --> 00:29:30,603
then she has to hear
and acknowledge something.

661
00:29:30,686 --> 00:29:31,521
Yeah.

662
00:29:31,604 --> 00:29:33,356
That's when she starts to feel judged.

663
00:29:33,439 --> 00:29:35,358
Yes, and… and that's hard for her.

664
00:29:35,441 --> 00:29:38,194
You know, if you feel like
the people that you love the most

665
00:29:38,277 --> 00:29:40,071
are judging you,
that's a horrible way to feel.

666
00:29:40,154 --> 00:29:41,072
Yeah.

667
00:29:41,155 --> 00:29:43,074
I love every part of her,

668
00:29:43,157 --> 00:29:45,618
and I really want
what's best for both of them.

669
00:29:45,701 --> 00:29:49,163
Yeah. Have you ever
been able to say that to her?

670
00:29:49,247 --> 00:29:52,458
[sighs] You know…
have you been around my mom?

671
00:29:52,542 --> 00:29:53,918
[laughing]

672
00:29:55,795 --> 00:29:57,547
[Tan] Hi!

673
00:29:57,630 --> 00:29:58,965
-Hello, my love.
-How are you?

674
00:29:59,048 --> 00:30:00,466
Hi!

675
00:30:00,550 --> 00:30:01,717
[Karamo] Hi!

676
00:30:01,801 --> 00:30:03,928
-How are you, beautiful?
-[Tan] Darling, how are you?

677
00:30:04,011 --> 00:30:04,929
[Karamo] You look good!

678
00:30:05,012 --> 00:30:07,306
[Tan] Why have you brought me
to the middle of nowhere?

679
00:30:07,390 --> 00:30:09,809
I'm actually sending you away,
but we're gonna do some archery.

680
00:30:09,892 --> 00:30:12,186
That's cute. Okay, have fun. Bye.

681
00:30:12,270 --> 00:30:13,396
[all] Bye.

682
00:30:13,479 --> 00:30:14,438
Hi!

683
00:30:14,522 --> 00:30:16,357
-How are ya?
-Really good. I'm glad you're here.

684
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:17,567
Yeah.

685
00:30:17,650 --> 00:30:19,485
Talking to Ashley is so eye-opening.

686
00:30:19,569 --> 00:30:21,737
Because she feels like
her mother doesn't listen to her.

687
00:30:21,821 --> 00:30:23,990
And so I wanna get Terri to a place

688
00:30:24,073 --> 00:30:26,951
where she knows that she can
communicate with the people in her life

689
00:30:27,034 --> 00:30:28,494
and not feel judged.

690
00:30:29,078 --> 00:30:30,663
So we're gonna start shooting at those

691
00:30:30,746 --> 00:30:32,790
so we can create a sign
for the graduation party.

692
00:30:32,874 --> 00:30:34,041
[Terri] Oh, is there--

693
00:30:34,125 --> 00:30:35,668
-[Karamo] There's paint in there.
-Paint?

694
00:30:35,751 --> 00:30:38,129
Yeah, with all of your grandson's
high school colors in it.

695
00:30:38,212 --> 00:30:39,714
-Wonderful!
-Oh, cool!

696
00:30:39,797 --> 00:30:40,631
[Karamo] Yes.

697
00:30:40,715 --> 00:30:44,427
[instructor] Put the three fingers
underneath the arrow on the string.

698
00:30:44,510 --> 00:30:47,305
-And let go when you're ready.
-[Ashley] Let go when you're ready.

699
00:30:47,388 --> 00:30:48,973
-Perfect. Come on.
-[Terri] I'm aiming.

700
00:30:49,682 --> 00:30:50,641
[grunts]

701
00:30:50,725 --> 00:30:54,061
-Got there. It went up.
-[Terri scoffs] It moves on me.

702
00:30:54,145 --> 00:30:56,147
-[Karamo] Almost.
-[Terri] I'm gonna close my eyes.

703
00:30:56,230 --> 00:30:59,066
-Whoo! Money!
-[Karamo] Good job!

704
00:30:59,984 --> 00:31:01,319
[shouts]

705
00:31:01,402 --> 00:31:03,654
-Talk about euphoric, finally.
-High-five!

706
00:31:03,738 --> 00:31:04,572
-Yeah.
-[laughing]

707
00:31:04,655 --> 00:31:06,198
[Karamo] We got a little bit more.

708
00:31:06,282 --> 00:31:08,284
Come on. We'll bring this
over here so we can paint.

709
00:31:08,367 --> 00:31:09,660
-[Terri] All right.
-[rattling]

710
00:31:11,037 --> 00:31:13,706
-Let's do the "congratulations" up here.
-[Terri] Yeah.

711
00:31:13,789 --> 00:31:18,628
What I love about this is
Alex is moving from one nest to the other,

712
00:31:18,711 --> 00:31:21,255
you're both working together for him.

713
00:31:21,339 --> 00:31:22,548
-[Terri] I will.
-[Ashley] Yeah.

714
00:31:22,632 --> 00:31:24,383
[Terri] What she has to understand is that

715
00:31:24,467 --> 00:31:30,139
I'm gonna be trying my very best
to do what she really wants, in my way.

716
00:31:30,222 --> 00:31:32,350
But sometimes I think…

717
00:31:34,101 --> 00:31:37,104
in heart of hearts,
when it comes to Alex,

718
00:31:37,188 --> 00:31:39,565
she doesn't think
that I handle responsibility right.

719
00:31:39,649 --> 00:31:40,524
[Karamo] Is that true?

720
00:31:40,608 --> 00:31:45,112
[Ashley] I want him to be held accountable
and to transition into adulthood.

721
00:31:45,196 --> 00:31:48,449
Like, he needs to get up and go to work,
and he needs to be productive.

722
00:31:48,532 --> 00:31:51,661
I know, Ash.
It's just that she has structure.

723
00:31:51,744 --> 00:31:54,288
It's something I don't even have any.

724
00:31:54,372 --> 00:31:55,790
How you gonna change that shit?

725
00:31:55,873 --> 00:31:57,708
-We're not here to change you.
-[Terri] Oh, yes.

726
00:31:57,792 --> 00:32:00,920
This is not about me judging you at all.

727
00:32:01,045 --> 00:32:03,464
It is about that.
She's a much better mom than me.

728
00:32:03,547 --> 00:32:04,382
[Ashley] No, listen.

729
00:32:04,465 --> 00:32:06,467
-It's not about me being better.
-[Terri] She is.

730
00:32:06,550 --> 00:32:10,930
All I want is for you to know
I would love for you to hear me.

731
00:32:11,013 --> 00:32:13,224
-And listen.
-Do you understand what that means?

732
00:32:13,307 --> 00:32:16,352
Yes, it means, "Mother,
look at me when I'm talking to you

733
00:32:16,435 --> 00:32:17,853
and really hear the words I'm saying

734
00:32:17,937 --> 00:32:20,398
instead of looking away
and not listening."

735
00:32:20,481 --> 00:32:23,943
Look, I act that way
'cause it's a defense mechanism, Ashley.

736
00:32:25,528 --> 00:32:27,071
I have a hard time…

737
00:32:28,864 --> 00:32:29,740
[hesitates]

738
00:32:30,908 --> 00:32:34,704
-[Ashley] This is hard for you.
-No, it's not. I don't like it.

739
00:32:34,787 --> 00:32:38,040
I don't think emotion is
really great to me like this.

740
00:32:40,876 --> 00:32:42,420
What can we do to support you?

741
00:32:43,087 --> 00:32:45,548
-Like, give me a moment. [scoffs]
-[Karamo] Yeah, that's okay.

742
00:32:45,631 --> 00:32:48,509
See, that's part of the communication
that is happening here.

743
00:32:48,592 --> 00:32:50,636
So, we can give you a moment.

744
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:51,929
That's totally okay.

745
00:32:53,764 --> 00:32:55,850
[sobs, sniffles]

746
00:32:55,933 --> 00:32:57,184
She misreads me.

747
00:32:57,268 --> 00:32:59,770
I hear everything this child says.

748
00:32:59,854 --> 00:33:02,148
I leave out her door
thinking, "Oh, my God,"

749
00:33:02,231 --> 00:33:06,485
and then I process
and I process and I process.

750
00:33:06,569 --> 00:33:09,071
-That's good to hear.
-That's good for me to hear.

751
00:33:09,155 --> 00:33:11,615
She thinks that I just blow it off.
I do not.

752
00:33:11,699 --> 00:33:14,827
It wears me out. It's 'cause
my brain cannot absorb any more.

753
00:33:14,910 --> 00:33:16,162
[Ashley] I appreciate that.

754
00:33:16,245 --> 00:33:17,747
-[Karamo] Hear you.
-I love her so much.

755
00:33:17,830 --> 00:33:19,540
I hear every syllable she says.

756
00:33:19,623 --> 00:33:23,544
-But now she knows that you're listening.
-Yeah, yeah.

757
00:33:23,627 --> 00:33:27,548
I never have in my entire life
doubted how much you love me.

758
00:33:27,631 --> 00:33:30,301
-I'm a good grown-up. I'm a good parent.
-That's right.

759
00:33:30,384 --> 00:33:34,847
And I am that because I learned
how to be a good parent from your love.

760
00:33:36,348 --> 00:33:38,017
You've done a good job.

761
00:33:38,642 --> 00:33:39,727
Yeah.

762
00:33:39,810 --> 00:33:41,187
[Ashley] Do you understand?

763
00:33:41,270 --> 00:33:42,605
Yeah.

764
00:33:42,688 --> 00:33:44,648
Thanks, Ashley.

765
00:33:47,109 --> 00:33:50,863
One of the ways that you all can
start hearing each other even more is

766
00:33:50,946 --> 00:33:52,782
I think we need some type of word
or something

767
00:33:52,865 --> 00:33:54,909
where you all can say to each other,

768
00:33:54,992 --> 00:33:58,162
"Hey, right now,
I might be feeling judged."

769
00:33:58,245 --> 00:34:01,165
Or "Hey, right now,
I need time to process."

770
00:34:01,248 --> 00:34:03,751
Mine will be,
"Slap my butt. No way. I'm out."

771
00:34:03,834 --> 00:34:05,377
[laughing]

772
00:34:05,461 --> 00:34:06,796
-Mine's "Karamo."
-[Karamo] Okay.

773
00:34:06,879 --> 00:34:08,756
-Karamo! That-- All right, agreed.
-Karamo!

774
00:34:08,839 --> 00:34:11,550
-Agreed? Okay. That will be your signal.
-[laughing]

775
00:34:11,634 --> 00:34:12,802
[Karamo] If she says my name,

776
00:34:12,885 --> 00:34:15,179
that means to you,
"She needs me to listen a bit longer."

777
00:34:15,262 --> 00:34:18,140
And if she says it,
that means she needs time to process,

778
00:34:18,224 --> 00:34:19,975
she can't go any deeper with her emotions.

779
00:34:20,059 --> 00:34:23,104
And I think that's a healthy way
for you all to start moving forward.

780
00:34:23,187 --> 00:34:24,021
[Ashley] Okay.

781
00:34:24,105 --> 00:34:27,942
-Karamo!
-[laughing]

782
00:34:28,025 --> 00:34:31,570
<i>♪ That’s where they got me going</i>
<i>Like a rocket so hot ♪</i>

783
00:34:31,654 --> 00:34:34,949
<i>♪ I like to cool down</i>
<i>Feeling like a p-p-pot ♪</i>

784
00:34:35,032 --> 00:34:39,954
<i>♪ The heat’s addictive, I need some liquid</i>
<i>A gin and tonic… ♪</i>

785
00:34:40,496 --> 00:34:43,040
Okay, come on in and take a seat.

786
00:34:45,209 --> 00:34:46,752
Hi.

787
00:34:46,836 --> 00:34:48,587
-Can I touch your hair? Okay.
-Yeah.

788
00:34:49,547 --> 00:34:51,882
So, your look is so pretty.

789
00:34:51,966 --> 00:34:54,260
-You already know what it is.
-I do.

790
00:34:54,343 --> 00:34:55,344
[Terri] Okay.

791
00:34:59,265 --> 00:35:02,309
I don't want any unveiling, you know.

792
00:35:02,393 --> 00:35:04,687
[Jonathan] I have so much love
and compassion for anyone

793
00:35:04,770 --> 00:35:07,606
who's struggling
with accepting their hair.

794
00:35:07,690 --> 00:35:09,859
Because I know how much suffering
people go through

795
00:35:09,942 --> 00:35:11,694
as a result
of having issues with their hair.

796
00:35:11,777 --> 00:35:15,197
If we went into another room,
if you're nervous, I do have another room.

797
00:35:15,281 --> 00:35:18,409
-I'm not nervous. I'm petrified.
-Okay.

798
00:35:18,492 --> 00:35:22,496
My hunch is that
Terri has hair going on under her wig,

799
00:35:22,580 --> 00:35:26,458
but whatever Terri is willing
and ready to do, to talk about,

800
00:35:26,542 --> 00:35:27,751
I'm here for her.

801
00:35:27,835 --> 00:35:29,295
I want you to be happy.

802
00:35:29,378 --> 00:35:31,964
I love hair on you, but I think--
'Cause your body's beautiful,

803
00:35:32,047 --> 00:35:34,300
but I feel like this is
just covering up to a point

804
00:35:34,383 --> 00:35:36,343
where you can't see
the hourglass of your body.

805
00:35:36,427 --> 00:35:37,887
What do you think I do that for?

806
00:35:37,970 --> 00:35:39,263
-To cover up.
-Sure.

807
00:35:39,346 --> 00:35:41,098
But don't you agree that, like,

808
00:35:41,182 --> 00:35:43,601
a gorgeous, hourglass body
is, like, what everybody wants?

809
00:35:43,684 --> 00:35:44,518
[Terri] Sure.

810
00:35:44,602 --> 00:35:45,436
You have that.

811
00:35:45,519 --> 00:35:48,606
I really think you could live in your
natural hair and rock the shit out of it.

812
00:35:48,689 --> 00:35:49,899
I don't want to.

813
00:35:49,982 --> 00:35:52,151
I don't have the hair anymore. I used to.

814
00:35:52,234 --> 00:35:54,320
But I feel like
I just would be very curious to see,

815
00:35:54,403 --> 00:35:58,407
because I have literally
made miracles happen.

816
00:35:58,490 --> 00:36:00,242
But you can't style this one.

817
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:02,494
-What?
-You can't style this.

818
00:36:03,078 --> 00:36:04,496
It's ugly.

819
00:36:04,580 --> 00:36:07,625
You are not ugly. You're so--
Like, your energy is different--

820
00:36:07,708 --> 00:36:11,337
People expect me to look a certain way.
Can't put hair where there's none.

821
00:36:11,921 --> 00:36:14,173
Well, if we styled it forward…

822
00:36:14,256 --> 00:36:16,550
No. There's-- It's not enough.

823
00:36:17,134 --> 00:36:18,761
I'm dead serious.

824
00:36:20,179 --> 00:36:22,848
-Give me a great version of this.
-Huh?

825
00:36:22,932 --> 00:36:25,643
-What do you mean?
-You can give me a great version of this.

826
00:36:25,726 --> 00:36:29,730
You can actually give it a long,
really long shag if you wanted to.

827
00:36:29,813 --> 00:36:32,358
Okay, I'm into that.
So, kind of open up the face?

828
00:36:32,441 --> 00:36:34,693
-You know, really shag it, play it. Yeah.
-Yeah.

829
00:36:34,777 --> 00:36:36,570
-Yay! Let's go wash it.
-Yeah.

830
00:36:37,488 --> 00:36:40,574
[Jonathan] I've never not gotten someone
to, like, let me see their natural hair.

831
00:36:41,367 --> 00:36:46,247
She looked at me, and she said,
"Not today, Jesus look-alike. Not today."

832
00:36:48,791 --> 00:36:51,543
-I'm really excited we're doing a shag.
-You can make it look so good.

833
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:54,463
-I'm gonna like it.
-I think you are too.

834
00:36:54,546 --> 00:36:56,215
We're gonna take some of that length up

835
00:36:56,298 --> 00:36:58,342
and kind of reshape it
and just soften it up.

836
00:36:58,425 --> 00:36:59,802
I'm gonna be, like, struttin' it.

837
00:36:59,885 --> 00:37:01,387
-Okay.
-Great shit.

838
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:03,597
[Jonathan] Yeah.

839
00:37:03,681 --> 00:37:05,516
Yikes! I'm sorry.

840
00:37:06,517 --> 00:37:10,312
I just love Terri, and I want her
to feel as beautiful as she is.

841
00:37:10,396 --> 00:37:13,190
If you end up taking this off one night
and you're like, "You know what?

842
00:37:13,274 --> 00:37:14,483
I think I am down to do it."

843
00:37:14,566 --> 00:37:16,735
-[Terri] Yeah.
-Call and I will highlight your hair.

844
00:37:16,819 --> 00:37:18,612
-[Terri] Ain't you sweet.
<i>-</i>And let it grow out.

845
00:37:18,696 --> 00:37:20,614
[whirring]

846
00:37:20,698 --> 00:37:23,242
-[pop music playing]
<i>-♪ This is it ♪</i>

847
00:37:23,325 --> 00:37:25,786
<i>♪ It's wide open ♪</i>

848
00:37:25,869 --> 00:37:28,372
<i>♪ I know it, live it… ♪</i>

849
00:37:28,455 --> 00:37:30,457
-Okay, ready to see the new you?
-[Terri] Yes.

850
00:37:30,541 --> 00:37:33,377
[Jonathan] All right. Three, two, one.

851
00:37:35,546 --> 00:37:38,132
[whistles] Looks pretty good, huh?

852
00:37:38,215 --> 00:37:40,926
-[Jonathan] Get up in it and take a look.
-Really good.

853
00:37:41,010 --> 00:37:41,969
We did it!

854
00:37:42,052 --> 00:37:43,762
We did come up with a solution, huh?

855
00:37:43,846 --> 00:37:45,222
Yeah, we did, didn't we?

856
00:37:45,306 --> 00:37:48,017
I don't know if I made progress
with Terri coming into a place

857
00:37:48,100 --> 00:37:49,852
of acceptance with where her hair is.

858
00:37:49,935 --> 00:37:52,354
Oh, yeah, that's really cute.

859
00:37:52,438 --> 00:37:55,941
But I am happy that she's feeling bold,
confident, beautiful

860
00:37:56,025 --> 00:37:58,944
and ready for maybe a potential
bigger change in the future. Who knows?

861
00:37:59,028 --> 00:38:01,488
[Terri] At some point,
I'm gonna think about what you said.

862
00:38:01,572 --> 00:38:02,406
Yeah.

863
00:38:02,489 --> 00:38:04,158
I think you're really very beautiful.

864
00:38:04,241 --> 00:38:05,909
-[Terri] Ain't you sweet.
-Right. Oh!

865
00:38:05,993 --> 00:38:07,870
["Ghost" by the Rigs playing]

866
00:38:07,953 --> 00:38:09,788
<i>♪ Let it sing ♪</i>

867
00:38:10,998 --> 00:38:13,792
<i>♪ A choir of sinners ♪</i>

868
00:38:13,876 --> 00:38:15,377
<i>♪ Broken wings ♪</i>

869
00:38:15,461 --> 00:38:16,837
<i>♪ Broken wings ♪</i>

870
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:19,214
<i>♪ Ain't no angels ♪</i>

871
00:38:19,298 --> 00:38:21,633
<i>♪ Just a bunch of thieves… ♪</i>

872
00:38:21,717 --> 00:38:24,094
[Terri] You should ride more often.
You ride good.

873
00:38:24,178 --> 00:38:25,679
[Antoni] I should. I really like it.

874
00:38:25,763 --> 00:38:27,139
-You know what it does for me?
-Hmm?

875
00:38:27,222 --> 00:38:29,558
I quit thinking about anything else
'cause I'm riding.

876
00:38:29,641 --> 00:38:30,476
You're like me.

877
00:38:30,559 --> 00:38:32,644
-[Terri] Yeah.
-You need meditation like I do.

878
00:38:32,728 --> 00:38:34,146
[Terri laughs]

879
00:38:34,229 --> 00:38:36,982
<i>♪ Oh! ♪</i>

880
00:38:39,735 --> 00:38:43,030
-Wow!
<i>-</i>Well, hello there, cowgirl.

881
00:38:43,113 --> 00:38:46,367
-Terri, you look so comfortable on that.
-[Karamo] Look so pretty.

882
00:38:46,450 --> 00:38:48,535
[Antoni] This is my new life.
I'm moving in with Terri.

883
00:38:48,619 --> 00:38:50,412
I hope you designed
a bedroom for me, Bobby.

884
00:38:50,496 --> 00:38:51,497
[Tan] Yep, sure did.

885
00:38:51,580 --> 00:38:54,041
-That's exactly what happened.
-[Antoni] Let's do this.

886
00:38:54,124 --> 00:38:55,709
[Jonathan] How excited are you?

887
00:38:55,793 --> 00:38:57,961
-I'm nervous and excited.
-[laughing]

888
00:38:58,045 --> 00:39:00,172
-[Bobby] All right, are you ready?
-[Terri] I'm ready.

889
00:39:00,297 --> 00:39:01,757
-[Bobby] Okay.
-[gasps]

890
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:04,802
-[Karamo laughs] Yes?
-Oh, my God!

891
00:39:04,885 --> 00:39:08,097
Slap my butt. That is really beautiful!

892
00:39:08,180 --> 00:39:09,181
-[Bobby] Right?
-[laughing]

893
00:39:09,264 --> 00:39:11,141
-[Antoni] This is incredible!
-[Terri] Holy shit!

894
00:39:11,225 --> 00:39:12,434
[laughing]

895
00:39:12,518 --> 00:39:13,769
[Terri] That's wonderful.

896
00:39:13,852 --> 00:39:15,562
-It doesn't look like my house.
-It does not.

897
00:39:16,397 --> 00:39:17,481
[Terri] And this is great.

898
00:39:17,564 --> 00:39:20,275
[Bobby] I kept the light,
airy feel that you had,

899
00:39:20,359 --> 00:39:22,444
but I added some layers of textures.

900
00:39:23,404 --> 00:39:25,614
-You've got seating here.
-My favorite is that.

901
00:39:25,697 --> 00:39:27,825
-[Jonathan] Isn't it amazing?
-[Terri] That is bitchin'.

902
00:39:27,908 --> 00:39:28,951
[Bobby] It's Morocco-ish.

903
00:39:29,034 --> 00:39:30,619
-[Terri] I like that.
-[Antoni] Bitchin'.

904
00:39:30,702 --> 00:39:32,621
-[purrs]
-[laughing]

905
00:39:33,205 --> 00:39:36,125
Shut up! Oh, my God!

906
00:39:38,502 --> 00:39:39,920
[Bobby] What did you say you wanted?

907
00:39:40,003 --> 00:39:42,589
-[Antoni] Greatest fridge in the world!
-What did Daddy give you?

908
00:39:42,673 --> 00:39:43,841
You got a big Smeg!

909
00:39:43,924 --> 00:39:46,510
-[Terri] That is the best thing.
-[Antoni] You love a good fridge.

910
00:39:46,593 --> 00:39:48,303
He got an old fridge young.

911
00:39:48,387 --> 00:39:51,974
[Bobby] Your grandma's light is there.
I love this nice little pop of color.

912
00:39:52,057 --> 00:39:52,891
[Terri] Yes.

913
00:39:52,975 --> 00:39:54,476
[Bobby] It actually stands out way more

914
00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:56,520
now that the cabinets
are light than it did before.

915
00:39:57,104 --> 00:39:58,897
I… I am just overwhelmed.

916
00:39:58,981 --> 00:40:01,233
Show us more! Show us more!

917
00:40:01,817 --> 00:40:02,860
Oh! That's my bed?

918
00:40:02,943 --> 00:40:04,736
[Bobby] That is your bed.

919
00:40:05,737 --> 00:40:07,281
I raised it up because it was so pretty.

920
00:40:07,364 --> 00:40:09,450
-[Terri] Oh, my God!
-[Bobby] It was being hidden.

921
00:40:10,367 --> 00:40:14,079
Oh, my God! Shit!

922
00:40:16,039 --> 00:40:18,250
[Bobby] Terri and I tiled
this whole area together.

923
00:40:18,333 --> 00:40:19,793
-[Antoni] Did you?
-[Jonathan] Oh!

924
00:40:19,877 --> 00:40:21,003
Yeah, we did all this.

925
00:40:21,086 --> 00:40:22,629
-That is amazing.
-This is stunning!

926
00:40:22,713 --> 00:40:24,590
[Karamo] Oh, good job!

927
00:40:25,799 --> 00:40:28,802
You think that this is gonna help
with some of the chaos?

928
00:40:28,886 --> 00:40:32,306
Uh, yeah, I was up four to five times
a night. Don't even know why.

929
00:40:32,389 --> 00:40:36,226
Because it was chaotic and the chaos
around you puts chaos in your mind.

930
00:40:36,310 --> 00:40:37,352
Yes.

931
00:40:37,436 --> 00:40:38,562
-[Bobby] And now?
-Exactly.

932
00:40:38,645 --> 00:40:42,399
I think that I'm gonna feel more,
you know, when I get home, like… [sighs]

933
00:40:47,279 --> 00:40:49,072
I went like this, this morning.

934
00:40:49,156 --> 00:40:49,990
Turn him on.

935
00:40:50,073 --> 00:40:51,283
-[whirring]
-[laughing]

936
00:40:51,366 --> 00:40:53,660
-Yeah, and I was like…
-Ooh-ooh-ooh!

937
00:40:53,744 --> 00:40:54,828
Okay.

938
00:40:55,704 --> 00:40:56,663
Hello!

939
00:40:56,747 --> 00:40:58,957
You did such a great job!

940
00:40:59,041 --> 00:40:59,917
[Jonathan] Thank you.

941
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:02,544
-And it won't ever grow.
-[laughing]

942
00:41:02,628 --> 00:41:06,423
Oh, yeah, well, speaking of that,
actually, I did get you one more thing.

943
00:41:06,507 --> 00:41:08,300
This is the cap from the HairClub.

944
00:41:08,383 --> 00:41:12,387
And so what you can do, when you feel
like you're ready for a change,

945
00:41:12,471 --> 00:41:14,264
you can just wear that
to stimulate growth.

946
00:41:14,348 --> 00:41:17,768
It's one of those things that you have to
wear three times a week for 20 minutes.

947
00:41:17,851 --> 00:41:19,102
-But when you're ready.
-Change.

948
00:41:19,186 --> 00:41:21,939
[Jonathan] Yes, this is waiting for you
right underneath your sink.

949
00:41:22,523 --> 00:41:23,774
-I love you.
-I love you.

950
00:41:23,857 --> 00:41:25,943
-I had fun getting to play with you.
-Aw, you're sweet.

951
00:41:27,986 --> 00:41:31,198
If you remember, we're showing
one thing instead of everything.

952
00:41:31,281 --> 00:41:32,574
Everything.

953
00:41:32,658 --> 00:41:35,744
-How do you feel about that?
-Wonderful. I never knew it.

954
00:41:35,827 --> 00:41:38,580
Great, and it felt like something
you would like to continue to do?

955
00:41:38,664 --> 00:41:39,706
That's easy to do.

956
00:41:39,790 --> 00:41:40,791
[Tan] Great.

957
00:41:40,874 --> 00:41:42,209
[laughing]

958
00:41:42,292 --> 00:41:43,919
-Are you ready to see Terri?
-[all] Yeah!

959
00:41:44,002 --> 00:41:46,296
Good. Me too. Come on, Terri.

960
00:41:48,048 --> 00:41:50,175
[cheering]

961
00:41:50,259 --> 00:41:52,469
-[Karamo] That looks good!
-[Jonathan] I love that pant.

962
00:41:52,553 --> 00:41:53,387
It does?

963
00:41:53,470 --> 00:41:55,347
-Yeah.
-Nice front zip on the pants. I like that.

964
00:41:55,430 --> 00:41:57,140
[Terri] It gives the shoe a peekaboo.

965
00:41:57,224 --> 00:41:58,809
-[Tan] Yeah, it does.
-[Karamo] Yes.

966
00:41:58,892 --> 00:42:00,644
-You feel good? Feels like you?
-[Terri] Yes.

967
00:42:00,727 --> 00:42:02,521
-Yes.
-Do you still feel sexy?

968
00:42:02,604 --> 00:42:05,065
-Of course.
-[all laughing]

969
00:42:05,148 --> 00:42:07,401
This is still very much you.
It's like a zhuzh-ed up you.

970
00:42:07,484 --> 00:42:09,027
-I think it's beautiful.
-Made it easier.

971
00:42:09,111 --> 00:42:10,946
-[Karamo] Yeah.
-[Jonathan] Really pretty.

972
00:42:11,029 --> 00:42:12,990
[emotional music playing]

973
00:42:13,574 --> 00:42:16,660
Listen, you boys have done miracles.

974
00:42:16,743 --> 00:42:19,246
Nobody in my entire life
has ever known what y'all know.

975
00:42:19,329 --> 00:42:20,497
[Karamo] Oh, wow.

976
00:42:20,581 --> 00:42:23,625
Never. He tapped in
that I need a little discipline.

977
00:42:23,709 --> 00:42:25,043
-[laughing]
-[Antoni] Oh!

978
00:42:25,127 --> 00:42:27,129
You know, this one taught me how to cry.

979
00:42:27,212 --> 00:42:28,630
-[sniffles]
-[laughing]

980
00:42:28,714 --> 00:42:31,341
And this one taught me how to like, just--

981
00:42:31,425 --> 00:42:33,635
-He allowed me to be me.
-[Antoni] Mm-hmm.

982
00:42:35,137 --> 00:42:36,263
By doing that cake,

983
00:42:36,346 --> 00:42:38,557
that you actually were
looking at me thinking,

984
00:42:39,224 --> 00:42:43,228
"Wow, she really is great at that."
That meant a lot to me, it really did.

985
00:42:43,312 --> 00:42:44,354
You are so good at it.

986
00:42:44,438 --> 00:42:46,732
No, you're good at cooking
and all this kind of stuff,

987
00:42:46,815 --> 00:42:49,401
and then for you to,
like, admire me, it was a lot.

988
00:42:49,484 --> 00:42:51,903
You know? Made me feel better. Yep.

989
00:42:51,987 --> 00:42:53,822
And I'm very excited about Alex.

990
00:42:53,905 --> 00:42:56,408
He didn't come in here,
and it's Granny's house.

991
00:42:56,491 --> 00:42:58,577
-[Tan] Yeah.
-He comes in, and it's our house.

992
00:42:58,660 --> 00:43:00,037
[Bobby] Oh, that's nice.

993
00:43:00,662 --> 00:43:02,581
-You got a party to get together, honey!
-Yeah!

994
00:43:02,664 --> 00:43:04,291
-[Karamo] Yeah!
-[Tan] I'm gonna miss you.

995
00:43:04,374 --> 00:43:06,793
[Terri] I'm gonna miss y'all.
Y'all are really sweet.

996
00:43:06,877 --> 00:43:08,170
Y'all are the best!

997
00:43:08,253 --> 00:43:11,882
-[Johnathan] Love you, Terri. Have fun!
-I love you. Bye, buddies!

998
00:43:11,965 --> 00:43:13,050
-[Bobby] Bye!
-[Johnathan] Bye!

999
00:43:23,602 --> 00:43:27,105
["So Move Along" by Rupert Pope
and John Robertson playing]

1000
00:43:28,690 --> 00:43:32,569
<i>♪ Had your time</i>
<i>And now it's been and gone ♪</i>

1001
00:43:33,153 --> 00:43:38,408
<i>♪ Move along, move along ♪</i>

1002
00:43:38,492 --> 00:43:42,329
<i>♪ Hear me saying that this race has run ♪</i>

1003
00:43:42,412 --> 00:43:45,540
<i>♪ So move along ♪</i>

1004
00:43:45,624 --> 00:43:48,960
<i>♪ Haven’t seen you here in a while… ♪</i>

1005
00:43:49,044 --> 00:43:52,506
-[Karamo] We're almost there.
-Feel kind of nervous.

1006
00:43:53,298 --> 00:43:55,634
-But, like, excitedly nervous. Yeah.
-You do? Yeah.

1007
00:43:55,717 --> 00:43:57,719
[Antoni] So much has changed.
It's like a whole year.

1008
00:43:57,803 --> 00:43:59,429
Wonder if she's living with her grandson.

1009
00:43:59,513 --> 00:44:02,641
-[Karamo] Yeah.
-I do wonder.

1010
00:44:02,724 --> 00:44:04,142
-[Karamo] Here we go.
-[Antoni] Oh!

1011
00:44:04,726 --> 00:44:06,228
-[Karamo] Wow.
-[Antoni] Oh, my gosh.

1012
00:44:06,311 --> 00:44:08,313
[Karamo] I just got chills in my body.

1013
00:44:08,397 --> 00:44:09,981
-[Antoni] Me too.
-[Karamo] Literally.

1014
00:44:10,607 --> 00:44:13,402
-[Johnathan] Right.
-Okay, let's do this.

1015
00:44:14,820 --> 00:44:16,863
-All right, shall we?
-Okay, yeah.

1016
00:44:16,947 --> 00:44:18,156
[Tan] I'm nervous to see Terri

1017
00:44:18,240 --> 00:44:21,868
because so much
has happened over the last year

1018
00:44:21,952 --> 00:44:25,914
that I worried that she slipped
right back into her old ways.

1019
00:44:25,997 --> 00:44:26,832
After you.

1020
00:44:27,958 --> 00:44:29,376
[Terri] Hi, guys!

1021
00:44:31,420 --> 00:44:33,130
-Terri!
-Hi!

1022
00:44:33,213 --> 00:44:35,674
-[laughs] Oh, my God! Terri!
-[Bobby] God!

1023
00:44:38,260 --> 00:44:40,220
Look at how gorgeous you look!

1024
00:44:40,303 --> 00:44:42,013
-You look amazing.
-[Jonathan] Oh, my God!

1025
00:44:42,097 --> 00:44:44,766
[Karamo] You're so pretty!
How you doing?

1026
00:44:44,850 --> 00:44:45,934
-Good.
-Oh, my God!

1027
00:44:46,017 --> 00:44:49,146
-[Terri] Hi!
-Your hair looks so pretty!

1028
00:44:49,229 --> 00:44:52,107
-See, I was thinking of you when I did it.
-[Jonathan] Oh, my God!

1029
00:44:52,190 --> 00:44:55,277
Hello. Oh, my gosh!
I barely recognized you!

1030
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:58,113
-I know!
-I barely recognized you.

1031
00:44:58,196 --> 00:45:01,199
[Terri] I had to do what Jonathan said.
I just did it.

1032
00:45:01,283 --> 00:45:03,827
-That's what you didn't want me to see?
<i>-</i>You look incredible.

1033
00:45:03,910 --> 00:45:05,829
-[Terri] Yeah.
-This is your real hair?

1034
00:45:05,912 --> 00:45:07,247
[Karamo] Yeah, that's her hair!

1035
00:45:07,330 --> 00:45:10,125
-[Tan] Why did you hide it away?
-[Karamo] I know.

1036
00:45:10,208 --> 00:45:12,419
[splutters] I can't-- I'm really like…

1037
00:45:12,502 --> 00:45:14,755
-I don't think I've ever been so aghast.
-[Karamo] Shocked.

1038
00:45:14,838 --> 00:45:20,302
I have never been this shocked in my life!

1039
00:45:20,385 --> 00:45:21,928
-[Tan] Wow!
-How have y'all been?

1040
00:45:22,012 --> 00:45:24,097
-[Tan] Forget about us!
-[Karamo] How have you been?

1041
00:45:24,181 --> 00:45:25,807
I've been wonderful.

1042
00:45:25,891 --> 00:45:28,769
[Tan] Okay, first things first.
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad.

1043
00:45:28,852 --> 00:45:31,772
-The most lovely man.
-Terrible. He was, uh…

1044
00:45:35,859 --> 00:45:36,735
[exhales]

1045
00:45:36,818 --> 00:45:38,904
-What? The reason everybody came here.
-[Tan] Yeah.

1046
00:45:38,987 --> 00:45:42,449
[Terri] You know? He had an uncanny
ability to make you feel so special.

1047
00:45:42,532 --> 00:45:44,785
-And that's what I loved about him.
-[Tan] Yeah.

1048
00:45:44,868 --> 00:45:47,996
Yeah, no, the moment we walked in,
I felt a warmth and a welcome from him.

1049
00:45:48,079 --> 00:45:48,955
[Terri] Exactly.

1050
00:45:49,039 --> 00:45:50,832
-Did your grandson move in?
-Yes, he did.

1051
00:45:50,916 --> 00:45:53,001
And he lived with me
for about eight months.

1052
00:45:53,084 --> 00:45:55,962
-And then his stepdad died.
-Oh!

1053
00:45:56,046 --> 00:45:57,339
[Terri] Ashley's husband.

1054
00:45:57,422 --> 00:46:00,634
-He died of a massive heart attack.
-[Jonathan] Oh, my God!

1055
00:46:00,717 --> 00:46:01,718
She's been through a lot.

1056
00:46:01,802 --> 00:46:03,553
-Oh.
-[Antoni] Oh, my gosh.

1057
00:46:03,637 --> 00:46:04,513
[Ashley] Hey!

1058
00:46:04,596 --> 00:46:06,598
-[Tan] Oh, hi!
-[Karamo] Hi, Ashley!

1059
00:46:06,681 --> 00:46:08,141
How are you doing?

1060
00:46:08,225 --> 00:46:09,684
-Look how big Alex got.
-[Tan] I know!

1061
00:46:09,768 --> 00:46:11,561
-[Jonathan] He's like a grown-up now!
-I know!

1062
00:46:11,645 --> 00:46:14,397
-It's so good to see you!
-[shouts] Hi!

1063
00:46:14,481 --> 00:46:17,275
[Tan] You! You look beautiful.

1064
00:46:17,359 --> 00:46:18,568
[Bobby] How's it going?

1065
00:46:18,652 --> 00:46:20,403
-[Ashley] It's going.
-How are you doing?

1066
00:46:20,487 --> 00:46:23,490
[Terri] She's doing good. [chuckles]

1067
00:46:23,573 --> 00:46:25,075
-I'm already crying.
-[Terri] It's okay.

1068
00:46:25,158 --> 00:46:26,660
[Antoni] It's okay. Just let it out.

1069
00:46:26,743 --> 00:46:28,870
-It's been a really hard year.
-[Terri] Yeah.

1070
00:46:29,579 --> 00:46:30,872
-These are clean.
-Thank you.

1071
00:46:30,956 --> 00:46:33,333
No prob. I keep 'em on me.

1072
00:46:33,416 --> 00:46:36,086
-Listen, I'm always in need.
-[Terri] I wanna tell you a funny story.

1073
00:46:36,169 --> 00:46:37,838
To get her mind on something else.

1074
00:46:37,921 --> 00:46:40,507
-We had an issue right after y'all left.
-[Karamo] Uh-huh.

1075
00:46:40,590 --> 00:46:42,926
-And I went, "Karamo!"
-[laughs]

1076
00:46:43,009 --> 00:46:46,930
Listen, I thought about you all year,
and I wanted to reach out so bad,

1077
00:46:47,013 --> 00:46:49,182
because the day that we spent with you,

1078
00:46:49,266 --> 00:46:51,810
it was a game changer
for our relationship.

1079
00:46:51,893 --> 00:46:54,896
-[Karamo] Aw.
-She really has used the Karamo on me.

1080
00:46:54,980 --> 00:46:57,816
[all laughing]

1081
00:46:57,899 --> 00:47:02,612
When my husband was in the hospital,
she was in the hospital parking lot.

1082
00:47:02,696 --> 00:47:05,866
She couldn't come in,
but just knowing she was there, you know?

1083
00:47:06,491 --> 00:47:08,451
She would be mowing my grass at 9 p.m.

1084
00:47:08,535 --> 00:47:10,745
You know, just 'cause
that's what my husband loved.

1085
00:47:10,829 --> 00:47:12,122
And, uh,

1086
00:47:12,205 --> 00:47:16,751
so I wanna tell you truly from the bottom
of my heart, I'm so thankful.

1087
00:47:17,335 --> 00:47:20,005
You know,
my mom has a home she's so proud of.

1088
00:47:20,088 --> 00:47:21,506
We have communication.

1089
00:47:22,841 --> 00:47:26,720
And I wanna tell you how thankful I am
for meeting my mom exactly where she was

1090
00:47:26,803 --> 00:47:28,889
and understanding
her vulnerability with her hair.

1091
00:47:29,514 --> 00:47:32,392
That was something
so anxiety-ridden for her.

1092
00:47:32,475 --> 00:47:34,144
-So I'm thankful.
-[Terri] I love him.

1093
00:47:34,227 --> 00:47:38,231
-I thought, "I would turn gay for him."
-[laughing]

1094
00:47:38,315 --> 00:47:41,651
We would have to, like--
We would have to do several other things…

1095
00:47:41,735 --> 00:47:42,777
[laughing]

1096
00:47:42,861 --> 00:47:46,823
Your energy feels
more comfortable in your skin.

1097
00:47:46,907 --> 00:47:49,659
It's a true transformation. It really is.

1098
00:47:50,327 --> 00:47:52,537
-Alex, how are you doing?
-[Terri] Yeah.

1099
00:47:52,621 --> 00:47:54,414
-I'm hanging in. I'm fine.
-[Karamo] Yeah.

1100
00:47:54,497 --> 00:47:57,834
-How do you get through it all?
-I just make sure they're all right.

1101
00:47:57,918 --> 00:47:59,586
As long as they're all right,
I'm all right.

1102
00:47:59,669 --> 00:48:01,838
-[Karamo laughs] Yeah.
-You are such a sweetheart.

1103
00:48:01,922 --> 00:48:03,131
-He is.
-[Terri] Isn't he?

1104
00:48:03,214 --> 00:48:06,676
-He's more like me than he wants to admit.
-[laughing]

1105
00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:07,636
[Ashley] Yeah.

1106
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:11,056
Terri, before we go, we have one more
little gift we wanted to give you.

1107
00:48:11,139 --> 00:48:12,265
Oh, gosh. Okay.

1108
00:48:13,266 --> 00:48:14,351
Oh, my God, Ashley! Look!

1109
00:48:15,393 --> 00:48:18,647
-[Ashley] Aww! I love it!
-[Terri] And Dad's in there.

1110
00:48:18,730 --> 00:48:20,065
Who was this lady?

1111
00:48:20,148 --> 00:48:22,567
-She has left the building.
-Wild bitch!

1112
00:48:22,651 --> 00:48:24,694
[all laughing]

1113
00:48:24,778 --> 00:48:26,404
2020 was a hard year for all of us.

1114
00:48:26,988 --> 00:48:31,242
It's been a year of a pandemic,
loss, so much change.

1115
00:48:31,868 --> 00:48:37,999
However, it's a moment to really remind
ourselves of what really matters to us,

1116
00:48:38,083 --> 00:48:39,084
which is each other.

1117
00:48:39,834 --> 00:48:43,630
Terri took so much tragedy
that the universe gave her

1118
00:48:43,713 --> 00:48:46,091
and turned it
into being there for her daughter,

1119
00:48:46,174 --> 00:48:48,385
turned it into being there
for her grandson.

1120
00:48:48,468 --> 00:48:51,596
It is just beautiful
to see how much she has grown.

1121
00:48:52,430 --> 00:48:53,890
And that's a reminder to all of us.

1122
00:48:53,974 --> 00:48:56,351
Even though you've been
through something hard,

1123
00:48:56,434 --> 00:48:57,852
never stop growing.

1124
00:48:57,936 --> 00:49:00,021
You just gotta keep on keeping on.

1125
00:49:00,105 --> 00:49:02,107
-Bye!
-[Terri] Bye, guys.

1126
00:49:02,190 --> 00:49:03,692
-Bye, everyone.
-Bye.

1127
00:49:03,775 --> 00:49:04,734
[Terri] Keep it country!

1128
00:49:04,818 --> 00:49:06,069
[Antoni] Keep it country!

1129
00:49:06,152 --> 00:49:07,278
[Terri] What do you say?

1130
00:49:07,362 --> 00:49:08,697
[Fab Five] Bullshit!

1131
00:49:08,780 --> 00:49:09,948
What do you say?

1132
00:49:10,031 --> 00:49:11,658
-[Fab Five] Bullshit!
-[laughing]

1133
00:49:11,741 --> 00:49:12,742
[Fab Five] Bye!

1134
00:49:18,540 --> 00:49:19,916
[Antoni] Neon, come here.

1135
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:24,421
If you're like me, you left 2020 with
one more dog than you entered it with.

1136
00:49:24,504 --> 00:49:27,007
She's our little Texas shelter pup.

1137
00:49:27,090 --> 00:49:29,926
So today's hip tip
is about canine couture.

1138
00:49:30,010 --> 00:49:32,929
Yes, they already come
with a gorgeous coat,

1139
00:49:33,013 --> 00:49:36,641
but we are gonna accessorize it
and make it pop.

1140
00:49:36,725 --> 00:49:39,644
And it's all about
leaning into your pet's comfort zone.

1141
00:49:39,728 --> 00:49:43,773
For Neon,
that's almost exclusively wigs and tutus.

1142
00:49:43,857 --> 00:49:44,941
[snapping fingers]

1143
00:49:45,025 --> 00:49:48,653
-Nah. Next.
-[snapping fingers]

1144
00:49:48,737 --> 00:49:52,365
-Better. But we can do better. Next.
-[snapping fingers]

1145
00:49:52,449 --> 00:49:53,783
Perfect. Right, Ant?

1146
00:49:53,867 --> 00:49:55,410
[laughing]

1147
00:49:55,493 --> 00:49:58,621
Neon, you're so beautiful.

1148
00:49:58,705 --> 00:49:59,706
[Tan laughs] Yes.

1149
00:49:59,789 --> 00:50:00,915
[Antoni] All jokes aside,

1150
00:50:00,999 --> 00:50:04,461
adopting dogs is a lot of fun
and a lot of responsibility,

1151
00:50:04,544 --> 00:50:06,796
but it can be life changing.
Please consider it.

1152
00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:08,548
-Yeah!
-Yeah!

1153
00:50:08,631 --> 00:50:10,425
Good girl!

1154
00:50:12,302 --> 00:50:15,513
-["Cotton-Eyed Joe" playing]
-[man] <i>Whoo-hoo!</i>

1155
00:50:15,597 --> 00:50:19,768
<i>♪ If it hadn't been for Cotton-Eyed Joe</i>
<i>I'd been married a long time ago ♪</i>

1156
00:50:19,851 --> 00:50:21,936
<i>♪ Where did you come from?</i>
<i>Where did you go? ♪</i>

1157
00:50:22,020 --> 00:50:24,064
<i>♪ Where did you come from</i>
<i>Cotton-Eyed Joe? ♪</i>

1158
00:50:24,147 --> 00:50:28,276
<i>♪ If it hadn't been for Cotton-Eyed Joe</i>
<i>I'd been married a long time ago ♪</i>

1159
00:50:28,359 --> 00:50:30,779
<i>♪ Where did you come from?</i>
<i>And where did you go? ♪</i>

1160
00:50:30,862 --> 00:50:32,989
<i>♪ Where did you come from</i>
<i>Cotton-Eyed Joe? ♪</i>

1161
00:50:35,450 --> 00:50:37,827
[vocalizing]

1162
00:50:41,456 --> 00:50:45,794
<i>♪ If it hadn't been for Cotton-Eyed Joe</i>
<i>I'd been married a long time ago ♪</i>

1163
00:50:45,877 --> 00:50:48,296
<i>♪ Where did you come from?</i>
<i>Where did you go? ♪</i>

1164
00:50:48,379 --> 00:50:50,465
<i>♪ Where did you come from</i>
<i>Cotton-Eyed Joe? ♪</i>

1165
00:50:50,548 --> 00:50:54,385
<i>♪ Hey, hey, hey, hey!</i>
<i>♪ Hey, hey, hey, hey! ♪</i>

1166
00:50:54,469 --> 00:50:58,681
<i>♪ Hey, hey, hey, hey!</i>
<i>♪ Hey, hey, hey, hey! ♪</i>

1167
00:50:58,765 --> 00:51:03,186
<i>♪ Hey, hey, hey, hey!</i>
<i>♪ Hey, hey, hey, hey! ♪</i>

1168
00:51:03,269 --> 00:51:07,398
<i>♪ Hey, hey, hey, hey!</i>
<i>♪ Hey, hey, hey, hey! ♪</i>

1169
00:51:09,234 --> 00:51:11,528
♪ <i>Whoo! ♪</i>

1170
00:51:12,821 --> 00:51:14,155
<i>♪ Yee-ha! ♪</i>

1171
00:51:15,949 --> 00:51:17,992
<i>♪ Where did you come from?</i>
<i>Where did you go? ♪</i>

1172
00:51:18,076 --> 00:51:20,245
<i>♪ Where did you come from</i>
<i>Cotton-Eyed Joe? ♪</i>

1173
00:51:20,328 --> 00:51:24,207
[shouting]