1 00:00:06,673 --> 00:00:08,467 ♪ Nah, nah, nah, eh ♪ 2 00:00:08,967 --> 00:00:10,928 ♪ Nah, nah, nah, eh, eh ♪ 3 00:00:11,011 --> 00:00:13,013 ♪ Nah, nah, nah, eh ♪ 4 00:00:14,014 --> 00:00:17,976 - It is Hotlanta. We're here. We are queer. - It is summer. 5 00:00:18,060 --> 00:00:21,271 He's wearing a safari onesie. He's in a four-wheel drive. 6 00:00:21,355 --> 00:00:23,732 - It's like a whole thing. - Yeah, he is. 7 00:00:23,815 --> 00:00:24,816 [all laughing] 8 00:00:25,651 --> 00:00:27,402 ♪ It's a beautiful day ♪ 9 00:00:27,486 --> 00:00:32,199 Oh, my God, our gorgeous guy of the week is none other than Neal Reddy. 10 00:00:32,282 --> 00:00:34,743 - [shouting] So excited. - [laughing] 11 00:00:34,826 --> 00:00:39,456 He's been nominated by his sometimes roommate Ben. He is 36. 12 00:00:39,540 --> 00:00:43,794 He is 5-foot-8 inches and supe single, ready to mingle. 13 00:00:44,670 --> 00:00:46,505 Am I Rico Suave? No. 14 00:00:46,588 --> 00:00:48,173 [chuckling] 15 00:00:48,257 --> 00:00:52,594 I'm a dork. When it comes to girls, sometimes I'm good, sometimes terrible. 16 00:00:53,845 --> 00:00:57,933 He has this massive long hair and beard that hide most of his face. 17 00:00:58,016 --> 00:01:01,353 I've had long hair, long beard for 6 years. 18 00:01:01,436 --> 00:01:05,065 Used to be down to here. I made a baby step and cut it up to here. 19 00:01:05,148 --> 00:01:08,151 He's giving me Wilson from Home Improvement realness. 20 00:01:08,235 --> 00:01:10,988 I need to get out there, let me see that face. 21 00:01:11,071 --> 00:01:14,074 [Neal] I thought I looked cool. Girls and airport security 22 00:01:14,157 --> 00:01:16,702 did not think it looked that cool. [laughs] 23 00:01:16,785 --> 00:01:21,456 His mom wants to get rid of the hair to shop him at weddings. 24 00:01:21,540 --> 00:01:24,543 [Neal] Indian parents, a lot of times, are very strict, 25 00:01:24,626 --> 00:01:27,587 very overbearing and always in your life. 26 00:01:27,671 --> 00:01:31,717 I think she wants me to look more like a typical, upstanding Indian. 27 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:33,385 He doesn't change clothes. 28 00:01:35,345 --> 00:01:39,725 He'll pick an outfit for a period of time, and that's what he exists in. 29 00:01:39,808 --> 00:01:43,103 [Jonathan] First floor of his house is the base of his fierce app. 30 00:01:43,186 --> 00:01:46,148 He is a Martha Stewart app-making genius. 31 00:01:46,231 --> 00:01:47,232 Ooh! 32 00:01:47,316 --> 00:01:49,776 [Neal] I'm partner in a business-to-business app. 33 00:01:49,860 --> 00:01:53,280 It helps restaurants primarily get broken equipment fixed. 34 00:01:53,363 --> 00:01:56,658 He is going to be hosting this launch event for his app. 35 00:01:56,742 --> 00:02:01,496 It's gonna be his first big hosting event from his house in over ten years. 36 00:02:01,580 --> 00:02:02,956 - Wow. - Ten years? 37 00:02:04,333 --> 00:02:08,503 [Neal] I don't like people in my house. I don't like my personal life discussed. 38 00:02:08,587 --> 00:02:12,382 It's a control, power thing, it's a comfort thing, protection thing. 39 00:02:12,466 --> 00:02:14,926 I've separated all aspects of my life. 40 00:02:15,010 --> 00:02:18,180 My friends are separate, family. Everything is separate. 41 00:02:18,263 --> 00:02:23,352 I believe one of the reasons that Neal is so private is because he's insecure. 42 00:02:23,435 --> 00:02:26,897 His friends don't know him. He keeps everyone at a distance. 43 00:02:26,980 --> 00:02:29,733 Keep them at arm's length so you don't get hurt. 44 00:02:29,816 --> 00:02:33,111 - I don't get it. - It's like a Kelly Clarkson song. 45 00:02:33,195 --> 00:02:37,199 I really hope the Fab 5 can help Neal get out of his comfort zone 46 00:02:37,282 --> 00:02:39,743 and make him a little bit more open. 47 00:02:39,826 --> 00:02:41,828 With his hair, his beard, his home, 48 00:02:41,912 --> 00:02:44,331 - he keeps everyone at arm's length. - Yes. 49 00:02:44,414 --> 00:02:47,542 We need to give this man some sass in that Sasquatch. 50 00:02:47,626 --> 00:02:49,795 - Yes! - [Karamo] Let's go. 51 00:02:52,339 --> 00:02:56,593 - ♪ Better ♪ - ♪ All things just keep getting better ♪ 52 00:03:03,433 --> 00:03:05,519 Is that him walking down the street? 53 00:03:05,602 --> 00:03:06,770 Look, I see a Yeti. 54 00:03:06,853 --> 00:03:08,939 I see a Yeti. 55 00:03:09,481 --> 00:03:11,566 - Get out. - Neal! 56 00:03:12,609 --> 00:03:13,819 - Come on. - Oh, my God! 57 00:03:14,403 --> 00:03:16,363 [all yelling] 58 00:03:16,446 --> 00:03:18,657 - [Karamo] How you doing, man? - Don't scare the dog. 59 00:03:18,740 --> 00:03:20,909 - Hi. - You don't like being touched? 60 00:03:20,992 --> 00:03:22,536 Look how comfortable I am. 61 00:03:22,619 --> 00:03:24,913 - Forever, attack them. - [Jonathan] Look at all this. 62 00:03:24,996 --> 00:03:27,749 This is so cool that you guys are just touching me. 63 00:03:27,833 --> 00:03:29,209 [Jonathan] I'm the hairdresser. 64 00:03:29,292 --> 00:03:31,753 He's like, "I have a license to touch you." 65 00:03:31,837 --> 00:03:34,214 Your shoulders and arms are so cute. 66 00:03:34,297 --> 00:03:36,216 Look at all this delt life. 67 00:03:36,299 --> 00:03:37,426 Yes. 68 00:03:37,509 --> 00:03:39,553 - [Karamo] You have adorable eyes. - Thank you. 69 00:03:39,636 --> 00:03:41,805 [Tan] And you don't take a compliment well. 70 00:03:41,888 --> 00:03:44,099 You look away, but we'll work on that. 71 00:03:44,182 --> 00:03:47,477 - It's comfortable. - You've got a dog hair on your eyelash. 72 00:03:47,561 --> 00:03:50,564 - This is your street? You live close? - Down the road. 73 00:03:50,647 --> 00:03:52,607 - [Tan] Can you walk us over? - Yeah, yeah. 74 00:03:52,691 --> 00:03:54,067 Oh, my God. 75 00:03:54,693 --> 00:03:57,529 Oh, my God, there's so much hair, Neal. 76 00:04:01,825 --> 00:04:03,076 Oh, my God. 77 00:04:05,245 --> 00:04:09,416 Oh, Neal, you need to vacuum this rug. This is disgusting. 78 00:04:09,499 --> 00:04:10,834 [Neal] That's part of the rug. 79 00:04:10,917 --> 00:04:13,754 - No, you need to vacuum. - You're ruining the rug. 80 00:04:13,837 --> 00:04:17,340 You could create ten new dogs with the hair around this house. 81 00:04:17,924 --> 00:04:20,552 [Jonathan] Christmas was over, like, six months ago. 82 00:04:20,635 --> 00:04:24,181 Those have only been up for 11 years, so it's fine. [laughing] 83 00:04:24,264 --> 00:04:28,310 The card says "best couple ever," then you have to specify "dog plus owner." 84 00:04:28,393 --> 00:04:29,394 [chuckles] 85 00:04:29,478 --> 00:04:31,938 [Karamo] What woman will come and have a relaxing night? 86 00:04:32,022 --> 00:04:34,149 She has to clean before she can sit... Ew. 87 00:04:34,232 --> 00:04:38,069 It's no surprise to me that Neal hasn't had friends over. 88 00:04:38,153 --> 00:04:41,656 - Who would want to? - Why do you have a lantern full of bags? 89 00:04:41,740 --> 00:04:42,949 Those are for poops. 90 00:04:43,033 --> 00:04:43,992 Ew! 91 00:04:44,075 --> 00:04:46,703 - Dog poops. - [Bobby] And stuff is just thrown around. 92 00:04:46,787 --> 00:04:48,580 The sofa is gross. 93 00:04:48,663 --> 00:04:50,373 It's covered in hair. 94 00:04:50,457 --> 00:04:53,877 Oh, my God. Look how full this thing is of hair. 95 00:04:56,171 --> 00:04:58,131 - [Karamo] Ew. - Oh, my God. 96 00:04:58,215 --> 00:04:59,424 That can't be his brush. 97 00:04:59,508 --> 00:05:02,803 - That has to be the dog's brush. - [Jonathan] Literally so real. 98 00:05:02,886 --> 00:05:03,720 No. 99 00:05:03,804 --> 00:05:06,807 - Look how disgusting the bathtub is. - It's so nasty. 100 00:05:07,390 --> 00:05:10,227 Neal's bathroom reminds me a lot of a skin tag. 101 00:05:10,310 --> 00:05:12,771 [Karamo] We gotta start just cleaning this. 102 00:05:12,854 --> 00:05:16,983 It's not hurting anything, but it doesn't look great. 103 00:05:17,067 --> 00:05:18,693 It's so gross in here. 104 00:05:18,777 --> 00:05:21,863 It's like that green emoji with the like [grunts] face. 105 00:05:21,947 --> 00:05:24,491 - [Tan] He's got a lot of shavers. - He ain't using them. 106 00:05:24,574 --> 00:05:28,620 Those are just my crotch shavers. Thanks for touching them. [chuckles] 107 00:05:29,204 --> 00:05:33,959 - You're going through everything. Cool. - You know when you're feeling just: 108 00:05:34,042 --> 00:05:35,168 - Yeah. - Yes! 109 00:05:35,252 --> 00:05:38,505 [Tan] This is very beautiful. 110 00:05:38,588 --> 00:05:43,510 - Do one of those dances, the circular one. - You wanna learn...? We grind the pepper. 111 00:05:43,593 --> 00:05:47,556 And then we're changing the light bulb, and then stay away, stay away. 112 00:05:47,639 --> 00:05:52,561 There are basics with Indian dance moves, but it's not just something fun to do. 113 00:05:52,644 --> 00:05:55,188 You're showing your skills in the kitchen. 114 00:05:55,272 --> 00:05:57,274 - Get your hands... No, yeah. - Yes. 115 00:05:57,357 --> 00:05:58,900 - There you go. - Yes, yeah. 116 00:05:58,984 --> 00:06:03,655 Around the house, and when you've got uninvited guests, just stay away. 117 00:06:03,738 --> 00:06:05,240 [laughing] 118 00:06:05,699 --> 00:06:10,203 Let's talk about this real quick. Now, you've given these shoes pride of place? 119 00:06:10,662 --> 00:06:14,332 - Yeah, when I do work and stuff, I... - Oh, yeah, yeah. Oh, yeah. 120 00:06:14,416 --> 00:06:19,296 Plaid. Every house I go into, plaid. God, what is it with Americans? 121 00:06:19,379 --> 00:06:22,757 I thought with an Indian, we'd get something other than plaid. 122 00:06:22,841 --> 00:06:26,678 It looks like the dog destroys the house, and he never fixes it. 123 00:06:30,849 --> 00:06:34,269 This is a reminder you're not married and you've got to get married. 124 00:06:34,853 --> 00:06:37,188 A dowry suitcase is something that 125 00:06:37,272 --> 00:06:41,234 pretty much every Indian and Pakistani has. 126 00:06:41,318 --> 00:06:45,030 Your parents collected this since your mom was in her 2nd trimester. 127 00:06:45,113 --> 00:06:48,033 - This is beautiful stuff. - But it's usually silver 128 00:06:48,116 --> 00:06:53,663 and gold and jewelry that you will one day gift to your new bride or husband. 129 00:06:53,747 --> 00:06:56,583 It's not a dowry kit. She told me to hold on to it. 130 00:06:56,666 --> 00:06:59,002 - She... - I love that you fell for that bullshit. 131 00:06:59,085 --> 00:07:01,463 Do you feel the pressure with this to marry Hindu? 132 00:07:01,546 --> 00:07:05,425 I don't feel that much pressure anymore. I separated myself from it. 133 00:07:05,508 --> 00:07:09,179 I feel the same. My family still ask, "When will you marry a girl?" 134 00:07:09,262 --> 00:07:12,015 I'm like, "Uh... I've got something to tell you, Mom." 135 00:07:12,515 --> 00:07:15,393 [in Australian accent] Here we see this gorgeous, blond wolf dog 136 00:07:15,936 --> 00:07:18,813 in its natural habitat outside of Atlanta, Georgia. 137 00:07:19,773 --> 00:07:23,401 We keep a safe distance from the animal so as to not disturb it. 138 00:07:23,485 --> 00:07:27,238 But any time you see an animal get behind you like this, you're in danger. 139 00:07:27,906 --> 00:07:29,950 So, you really wanna be careful. 140 00:07:30,033 --> 00:07:33,453 I'm just gonna go ahead and go away so he doesn't attack me. 141 00:07:35,038 --> 00:07:38,375 [gasps] Oh, wow, he has a dehydrator. 142 00:07:38,458 --> 00:07:41,252 Raw probiotics, they make me super regular. 143 00:07:41,336 --> 00:07:44,673 So, let's chat. I'm gonna get a little more comfortable. 144 00:07:44,756 --> 00:07:47,759 Okay, I'm gonna be slightly uncomfortable. [chuckles] 145 00:07:47,842 --> 00:07:49,469 I do think, professionally, 146 00:07:49,552 --> 00:07:53,014 with the look that you have, you're giving me Cast Away. 147 00:07:53,098 --> 00:07:55,308 - Cast Away's a great movie. [laughs] - It is. 148 00:07:55,892 --> 00:08:00,146 We can keep some of your natural vibes, but also groom it in a way 149 00:08:00,230 --> 00:08:02,774 that it is more commercially attractive. 150 00:08:02,857 --> 00:08:04,943 - Yeah. - So, take your shirt off, 151 00:08:05,443 --> 00:08:08,071 hold me for ten minutes. That's the best way... 152 00:08:08,154 --> 00:08:12,325 - You can't. You're wearing a romper. - We'll do your shirt. I'll cuddle, 153 00:08:12,409 --> 00:08:15,203 - just a little. He hates it. - So uncomfortable. 154 00:08:15,286 --> 00:08:17,163 He loves it. A little cuddy. 155 00:08:17,247 --> 00:08:18,540 - Forever, bite him. - Aw... 156 00:08:19,749 --> 00:08:22,836 [Antoni] So, you have elements that say home chef a little bit. 157 00:08:22,919 --> 00:08:26,297 You have a rice cooker, a blender, a really good juicer. 158 00:08:26,381 --> 00:08:29,259 They seem like they were bought eight years ago, 159 00:08:29,342 --> 00:08:33,346 - and they've been neglected since. - I used to cook more than I do now. 160 00:08:33,430 --> 00:08:35,890 I cook 'cause I like to entertain people. 161 00:08:35,974 --> 00:08:38,852 I stopped, because it sucks cooking for one person. 162 00:08:38,935 --> 00:08:42,105 - We need a reason for you to cook again. - Yes. 163 00:08:42,188 --> 00:08:44,482 - You have this app you're working on. - Yup. 164 00:08:44,566 --> 00:08:47,318 There's an event this week. Tell me about that. 165 00:08:47,402 --> 00:08:52,115 It will be a launch party. Friends and people from the restaurant industry here. 166 00:08:52,198 --> 00:08:54,659 The perfect way to end this week will be for you 167 00:08:54,743 --> 00:08:58,455 to use your kitchen in an amazing way and create something beautiful 168 00:08:58,538 --> 00:09:02,000 - for your guests. - That's one option. Other option is chips. 169 00:09:03,293 --> 00:09:07,088 You haven't had anybody in this space or entertained for ten years? 170 00:09:07,172 --> 00:09:08,590 - It's been a while. - Why? 171 00:09:08,673 --> 00:09:12,385 It wasn't like one thing. It was a slow... I used to have parties. 172 00:09:12,469 --> 00:09:16,222 And then my friends grew up and moved on. They all got married, had kids. 173 00:09:16,306 --> 00:09:21,352 I was this guy that's by myself. So, it's like everything changed. 174 00:09:21,436 --> 00:09:24,522 Is there a part of you that feels you have a wall up? 175 00:09:24,606 --> 00:09:26,232 Yeah, sure, I have a wall up. 176 00:09:26,316 --> 00:09:27,484 I read body language, 177 00:09:27,567 --> 00:09:30,779 and the minute I started asking you why you have a wall up, 178 00:09:30,862 --> 00:09:32,614 you built a wall in front of me. 179 00:09:32,697 --> 00:09:36,284 - You literally did this. - I was trying to show you my guns. 180 00:09:36,367 --> 00:09:38,078 Yeah. That's all it was. 181 00:09:38,161 --> 00:09:42,290 No, you're right. I don't know why I have a wall. I just know I have one. 182 00:09:42,373 --> 00:09:44,334 What do you think it's keeping you from? 183 00:09:45,502 --> 00:09:49,923 I mean, I think it's keeping me from being more consistently happy, honestly. 184 00:09:50,006 --> 00:09:53,468 Like, I feel like I'm protected, I'm safe. 185 00:09:53,551 --> 00:09:56,429 That's the thing about, uh, when people build up walls. 186 00:09:56,513 --> 00:10:00,266 They end up keeping other people out, but they're also keeping themselves in. 187 00:10:00,767 --> 00:10:04,145 You act like you don't care about your house, how you look, 188 00:10:04,229 --> 00:10:07,273 or people are no longer in your life, I don't buy it. 189 00:10:07,357 --> 00:10:10,985 - You're a toucher, I forgot. - No, listen. We'll all touch you 190 00:10:11,069 --> 00:10:13,279 because we'll get you out of this space. 191 00:10:14,489 --> 00:10:16,407 And I see you have half blinds. 192 00:10:16,991 --> 00:10:21,079 Used to be full blinds. I took them down so I could paint this color. 193 00:10:21,162 --> 00:10:22,539 - Then I never... - Which...? 194 00:10:22,622 --> 00:10:26,793 I put up these temporary blinds, and then I never, uh... 195 00:10:27,585 --> 00:10:30,296 - I see unfinished projects. - There's a million. 196 00:10:30,380 --> 00:10:31,506 Show me more. 197 00:10:32,048 --> 00:10:33,341 [Neal] I build this deck. 198 00:10:33,424 --> 00:10:38,012 I had this whole vision of finishing this, but I never got around to it. 199 00:10:38,096 --> 00:10:41,391 This space looks like an awesome place to have your party. 200 00:10:41,474 --> 00:10:42,976 Like here and in there. 201 00:10:43,059 --> 00:10:46,813 [Neal] I use that area a lot, usually for me and maybe one other person. 202 00:10:46,896 --> 00:10:49,482 But no one sits here anymore. We sit in the same corner. 203 00:10:49,566 --> 00:10:52,819 It looks dirty. Why would they? And the chair's broken. 204 00:10:52,902 --> 00:10:55,738 All right, let's go back in. It is hot out here. 205 00:10:55,822 --> 00:10:58,491 What's going on here? This doesn't look finished. 206 00:10:58,575 --> 00:11:00,618 - It's another... [laughing] - Unfinished project. 207 00:11:00,702 --> 00:11:02,996 - I'm seeing a pattern. - There's a theme. 208 00:11:03,079 --> 00:11:05,206 Fellas, I think we're done! 209 00:11:05,290 --> 00:11:06,541 [Neal laughing] 210 00:11:06,624 --> 00:11:11,087 I gotta let you know. I see you're laughing and smiling, having a good time, 211 00:11:11,171 --> 00:11:15,008 but, also, this is hard for you. We're here to help you make better. 212 00:11:15,091 --> 00:11:17,510 - Right. - You're allowing people to be let in. 213 00:11:17,594 --> 00:11:21,264 Allowing yourself to be vulnerable is the biggest show of strength. 214 00:11:21,347 --> 00:11:23,683 That's what I really want, is a change. 215 00:11:23,766 --> 00:11:27,145 All we ask for is an open heart. We feel you have that. 216 00:11:27,228 --> 00:11:29,314 - Let's put our hands in. - Okay. 217 00:11:29,397 --> 00:11:30,940 [all] Yes. 218 00:11:31,024 --> 00:11:32,525 - All in. - This is a first. 219 00:11:32,609 --> 00:11:33,860 Get this over with. 220 00:11:33,943 --> 00:11:36,613 - Oh, enjoy feeling it. - It's weird now. So weird. 221 00:11:36,696 --> 00:11:39,115 It's love and energy we're sending to you. 222 00:11:39,198 --> 00:11:41,326 - Touchers and lovers. - [all] Neal! 223 00:11:41,409 --> 00:11:42,243 Yes. 224 00:11:42,327 --> 00:11:44,787 ♪ I'm gonna do my thing ♪ 225 00:11:47,081 --> 00:11:48,708 ♪ Tear it down ♪ 226 00:11:49,417 --> 00:11:52,462 ♪ Bring it on I'm gonna do my thing ♪ 227 00:11:52,754 --> 00:11:55,256 I know I've gotta get my weed whackers out, 228 00:11:55,340 --> 00:11:59,218 and I gotta get my biceps strong, because we're gonna be cutting. 229 00:12:00,053 --> 00:12:04,390 [Antoni] I wanna show him that everyone is capable of making a meal from scratch. 230 00:12:04,474 --> 00:12:06,684 It'll make you feel good about yourself. 231 00:12:06,768 --> 00:12:11,481 My biggest mission is to get Neal out of this bachelor pad cave he's living in, 232 00:12:11,564 --> 00:12:15,318 and get him a home that's eclectic, it's cool, it's modern, sleek. 233 00:12:15,401 --> 00:12:17,362 It's everything that Neal is. 234 00:12:17,445 --> 00:12:21,824 [Tan] I wanna take him from hipster yogi and make his wardrobe more appropriate 235 00:12:21,908 --> 00:12:24,118 for the creative director that he wants to become. 236 00:12:24,577 --> 00:12:27,413 Neal's having a problem with letting people in. 237 00:12:27,497 --> 00:12:31,000 We gotta break down that wall. People need to see the real Neal. 238 00:12:31,084 --> 00:12:34,629 ♪ Gotta sing as loud as you can sing it ♪ 239 00:12:34,712 --> 00:12:38,675 There's a lot of fancy stores. I don't really shop at fancy stores. 240 00:12:38,758 --> 00:12:41,678 - You don't? I would never have known. - [laughing] 241 00:12:41,761 --> 00:12:43,054 [Neal] Thank you very much. 242 00:12:43,930 --> 00:12:48,685 Let's talk clothes. You are one of the few people that has got pieces I really like. 243 00:12:48,768 --> 00:12:52,647 - However, you're not wearing those. - My mom will buy me clothes. 244 00:12:52,730 --> 00:12:55,441 I don't like throwing them away, so I put them up. 245 00:12:55,525 --> 00:12:58,528 I think Indians or Pakistani people have the same mom. 246 00:12:58,611 --> 00:13:01,322 - Exact same mom. - They refuse to let you have 247 00:13:01,406 --> 00:13:04,450 - your own life. - Yeah, but it's all out of love. 248 00:13:04,534 --> 00:13:08,121 She wants you to make an effort. Take it from a business owner. 249 00:13:08,204 --> 00:13:11,124 I'm not in a suit, but I have to make an effort. 250 00:13:11,207 --> 00:13:14,836 There's no way, if I've got a big investor meeting and I say: 251 00:13:14,919 --> 00:13:17,714 "Okay, here's the team. Look how good we look." 252 00:13:17,797 --> 00:13:19,966 And there's a house Yeti. Like, no. 253 00:13:20,049 --> 00:13:24,220 You've never seen one of those. You got the first one. That's a big deal. 254 00:13:24,303 --> 00:13:28,599 Button-downs. I want you to start seeing these as a decent option for work. 255 00:13:28,683 --> 00:13:32,311 I'm not trying to take you from super casual to Mr. Businessman. 256 00:13:32,395 --> 00:13:35,940 - I'm not gonna go for anything crazy. - Just subdued like this? 257 00:13:36,024 --> 00:13:39,736 I would wear that. However, I'm not trying to dress you as a gay guy. 258 00:13:39,819 --> 00:13:42,697 - This is Miami camouflage. [chuckles] - Actually, I do love it. 259 00:13:42,780 --> 00:13:45,116 There are certain options that would work. 260 00:13:45,199 --> 00:13:47,785 They're more muted, especially the job that you do. 261 00:13:47,869 --> 00:13:51,873 You're a creative guy. How you'd think this represents you is beyond me. 262 00:13:51,956 --> 00:13:56,002 If you spend less time on your outfit, you can spend more time creating. 263 00:13:56,085 --> 00:14:00,339 - Steve Jobs wore the same thing. - See how slick he was? It was killer. 264 00:14:00,423 --> 00:14:04,385 - I'll wear turtlenecks now? - I'll get you a version that makes sense. 265 00:14:04,469 --> 00:14:06,888 Neal's challenging. He seems resistant 266 00:14:06,971 --> 00:14:10,475 to us wanting to make him feel good about himself. 267 00:14:10,558 --> 00:14:14,145 - [laughing] - You did a great job with the blazer. 268 00:14:14,228 --> 00:14:17,398 - You're right. I look good. - Let me show you a second way 269 00:14:17,482 --> 00:14:19,067 of wearing it, for funsies. 270 00:14:19,150 --> 00:14:23,613 He's laughing, but I need him to realize that he's gotta change something. 271 00:14:23,696 --> 00:14:25,740 Right now, his look is not working. 272 00:14:25,823 --> 00:14:30,495 Let's get that hair out of the way. I've got a feeling we'll get rid of it. 273 00:14:30,578 --> 00:14:33,414 I just wanna see how it would look if it were gone. 274 00:14:33,498 --> 00:14:35,833 Good. Oh, my God, that's already better. 275 00:14:35,917 --> 00:14:39,128 - Let's tuck that into your shirt. [laughs] - What's really funny is, 276 00:14:39,212 --> 00:14:42,048 it was so long, so I would tuck my beard in to eat. 277 00:14:42,131 --> 00:14:45,676 Isn't that worrying? Okay, how do you feel in it, first of all? 278 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:48,304 It just seems like there's a lot going on. 279 00:14:48,388 --> 00:14:50,598 - All right. Let's tone it down. - Yeah. 280 00:14:50,681 --> 00:14:54,143 Wearing a blazer over it will tone down the print. 281 00:14:54,227 --> 00:14:56,854 You won't see as much of it. You just get a pop. 282 00:14:56,938 --> 00:14:59,065 Feels better that we cover the print. 283 00:14:59,148 --> 00:15:02,777 But now it feels like I'm going to a very formal meeting. 284 00:15:02,860 --> 00:15:05,780 You think this is formal? It is not formal at all. 285 00:15:05,863 --> 00:15:09,367 It's just slightly dressed up. And I wouldn't button it up. 286 00:15:09,450 --> 00:15:11,911 We would make sure this is slightly shorter. 287 00:15:12,495 --> 00:15:16,791 So, if the arms are the correct length, it makes the suit feel better fitted. 288 00:15:19,502 --> 00:15:21,712 I know you would wear this tucked out. 289 00:15:21,796 --> 00:15:24,966 I'm not gonna do it all the way. How do you feel in that? 290 00:15:25,049 --> 00:15:27,218 - Good, feel very European. - Love that. 291 00:15:27,301 --> 00:15:29,303 I'm like the Indian member of Coldplay. 292 00:15:29,387 --> 00:15:31,889 - Best compliment you could ever give me. - [laughs] 293 00:15:31,973 --> 00:15:34,725 I wanna try putting on a shirt over it. 294 00:15:34,809 --> 00:15:37,937 - Should I roll the sleeves? - I like the sleeves rolled. 295 00:15:38,020 --> 00:15:42,358 It looks younger. Now, personally, I think you look wicked. 296 00:15:42,442 --> 00:15:45,987 I'm too hip. It's like, "This guy thinks he's cooler than us." 297 00:15:46,070 --> 00:15:48,698 See, at an event like the one that you've got this week, 298 00:15:48,781 --> 00:15:51,659 I'd happily have you wear a shirt over a T-shirt. 299 00:15:51,742 --> 00:15:55,413 We're elevating your look. It's no longer just jeans and T-shirt. 300 00:15:55,496 --> 00:15:58,207 - It's a version that makes sense for you. - Right. 301 00:15:58,291 --> 00:16:02,336 It's still very much Neal, but a dressed-up, mommy-pleasing Neal. 302 00:16:02,420 --> 00:16:05,339 Neal isn't listening. He's hearing what I'm saying. 303 00:16:05,423 --> 00:16:09,260 However, I don't think he's understanding that he needs to change. 304 00:16:09,343 --> 00:16:11,971 So, let's send you off to the boys. 305 00:16:12,054 --> 00:16:13,931 It's gonna take us chipping away 306 00:16:14,015 --> 00:16:17,768 to make him see that he can feel good and confident about himself. 307 00:16:17,852 --> 00:16:19,645 And that's nothing to be ashamed of. 308 00:16:24,775 --> 00:16:27,320 Let's go on to the kitchen. 309 00:16:30,031 --> 00:16:32,158 Hey, chefs, this is my friend Neal. 310 00:16:32,241 --> 00:16:34,577 - [Neal] Hey, guys. - Thank you for letting us come. 311 00:16:34,660 --> 00:16:39,040 This is one of my favorite restaurants. They do amazing stuff with pinchos. 312 00:16:39,123 --> 00:16:43,127 Pinchos, which are tapas on bread meant to be shared. 313 00:16:43,211 --> 00:16:45,796 - You guys have things you can show us? - [John] Yeah. 314 00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:48,174 [Antoni] I want him to get excited about one dish. 315 00:16:48,257 --> 00:16:52,345 It's a good way to light up that fire and get him excited about cooking. 316 00:16:52,428 --> 00:16:54,889 Cheese and bread, the simplest sandwich. 317 00:16:54,972 --> 00:16:57,850 But it's the best thing! The simplest can be the best. 318 00:16:57,934 --> 00:17:01,854 For entertaining, it's easy, 'cause you can prepare this ahead of time. 319 00:17:01,938 --> 00:17:05,858 You just have it ready there. All you have to do after is assemble. 320 00:17:06,692 --> 00:17:09,320 The cool thing is, it has mayo on both sides, 321 00:17:09,403 --> 00:17:11,197 which lubes up the sandwich. 322 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:14,075 - Nothing like a good lubing of a sandwich. - [Neal laughs] 323 00:17:14,158 --> 00:17:17,119 [Andy] With white American cheese with the ibérico ham, 324 00:17:17,203 --> 00:17:18,746 with bread on the outside. 325 00:17:18,829 --> 00:17:22,583 Key to a good grilled cheese, you just douse it in butter. 326 00:17:22,667 --> 00:17:25,503 - [Neal] Yeah. - [Andy] You're like Picasso in this thing. 327 00:17:25,586 --> 00:17:28,673 Give it a bit of press. Bread has crevices and stuff. 328 00:17:28,756 --> 00:17:32,885 - You can do it with, like, a plate. - I'm a tough guy. I'll use my hand. 329 00:17:32,969 --> 00:17:35,513 So, cut it once this way, then once that way. 330 00:17:35,596 --> 00:17:37,932 - You guys wanna try this? Beautiful. - Yes. 331 00:17:38,015 --> 00:17:40,560 - Can we sit down and have this? - [John] Absolutely. 332 00:17:42,353 --> 00:17:44,939 There you go. Put that right there. Bon appétit. 333 00:17:45,022 --> 00:17:46,732 - One bite, that's it. - One bite? 334 00:17:47,858 --> 00:17:49,986 [both grunting] 335 00:17:50,403 --> 00:17:53,573 - That's good. - This bread is supporting a lot of weight 336 00:17:53,656 --> 00:17:56,367 physically and emotionally, 'cause I'm holding it. 337 00:17:56,450 --> 00:17:58,035 - That was really good. - [laughs] 338 00:17:58,119 --> 00:18:00,371 Making jokes is something you do a lot. 339 00:18:00,454 --> 00:18:03,749 I do make jokes, and I'm one of those people that's like, 340 00:18:03,833 --> 00:18:08,004 what, you like to cover up awkwardness with humor? Yeah, I do that. 341 00:18:08,087 --> 00:18:10,339 - It's a protective layer? - Yeah, it is. 342 00:18:10,798 --> 00:18:14,969 When I came out, I was uncomfortable with, like, how will people judge me? 343 00:18:15,052 --> 00:18:19,473 What I could control was how I behaved. I have to make everybody laugh. 344 00:18:19,557 --> 00:18:25,438 I do the same thing, too, where it's like, if you can be funny, then you can... 345 00:18:25,521 --> 00:18:29,275 - Not control a conversation... Yeah. - You control the amount of intimacy 346 00:18:29,358 --> 00:18:32,320 and vulnerability you're giving off or not giving off. 347 00:18:32,403 --> 00:18:34,864 And the more comfortable I am with myself, 348 00:18:34,947 --> 00:18:39,243 the more I'm the same guy with everybody else, or at least it starts to bleed. 349 00:18:39,327 --> 00:18:41,704 You thought it's depressing to cook for one. 350 00:18:41,787 --> 00:18:44,332 - It is. - My goal is to change your mind. 351 00:18:44,415 --> 00:18:47,793 You can take care in making something as easy as this, 352 00:18:47,877 --> 00:18:50,463 or scrambled eggs, omelet, whatever it is. 353 00:18:50,546 --> 00:18:52,757 It's just a matter of maintenance. 354 00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:56,510 Tapping back into that. I've forgotten about it for too long. 355 00:18:56,594 --> 00:18:59,680 - Yeah. - I do like eating. It's the truth. 356 00:18:59,764 --> 00:19:04,101 Um, what'll be fun for this event, a lot of it will be taken care of, 357 00:19:04,185 --> 00:19:08,439 but have one component you make, giving thanks to the people visiting you. 358 00:19:08,522 --> 00:19:11,233 Maybe we'll do some version of a grilled cheese. 359 00:19:11,317 --> 00:19:13,569 - Okay. Yeah, excited. - Cool? All right. 360 00:19:13,653 --> 00:19:17,114 Neal's passionate about food, loves to cook. But he's forgotten. 361 00:19:17,198 --> 00:19:21,077 And it's a perfect opportunity to bring cuisine back into his life. 362 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:24,038 Okay, grabbing a piece to go, and we gotta get going. 363 00:19:29,502 --> 00:19:30,836 [Neal] Yo, yo, yo. 364 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:32,880 - What's going on? - What's going on? 365 00:19:32,963 --> 00:19:33,839 All right. 366 00:19:33,923 --> 00:19:37,551 Oh, you're already more comfortable with being touched. 367 00:19:37,635 --> 00:19:39,011 We're making planters. 368 00:19:39,095 --> 00:19:42,264 There's projects around the house that you never finish. 369 00:19:42,348 --> 00:19:44,141 So, today, we're gonna finish. 370 00:19:44,225 --> 00:19:46,977 You took so long to get here, I started already. [chuckles] 371 00:19:47,561 --> 00:19:50,981 This new space will help Neal let his walls down with work, 372 00:19:51,065 --> 00:19:54,026 family, friends, future girlfriends, everything. 373 00:19:54,443 --> 00:19:55,945 These are for upstairs. 374 00:19:56,028 --> 00:19:59,699 I want your party this weekend to have some greenery out there. 375 00:19:59,782 --> 00:20:02,243 It's sparse. You did great with the deck... 376 00:20:02,326 --> 00:20:05,538 You didn't like that planter that had a dead plant in it? 377 00:20:05,621 --> 00:20:08,165 Plants hate me. Some plants are racist. 378 00:20:08,249 --> 00:20:11,001 I don't know what to say to that. I think I'm gonna move on. 379 00:20:11,085 --> 00:20:12,628 [both laughing] 380 00:20:12,712 --> 00:20:13,713 All right. 381 00:20:14,714 --> 00:20:15,756 [Neal yells] 382 00:20:16,966 --> 00:20:18,884 - Just kidding. - [Bobby laughing] 383 00:20:22,763 --> 00:20:26,058 - Tell me about this party. - We've been working on this app for years. 384 00:20:26,142 --> 00:20:26,976 Wow. 385 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:32,314 We'll let people in the industry know we're ready to start taking business. 386 00:20:32,398 --> 00:20:35,317 Just have a reason to bring friends and family together. 387 00:20:35,401 --> 00:20:38,320 Usually separate, but we're having everything mixed. 388 00:20:38,404 --> 00:20:42,324 I feel like it'll be disastrous, and I'll hate you guys after this, 389 00:20:42,408 --> 00:20:45,286 - but fingers crossed. [chuckles] - We'll make you look good. 390 00:20:45,828 --> 00:20:49,957 - A few more strokes and we're done. - That's what I say by myself. 391 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:54,420 - "Come on, you can do it. A few more." - Few more strokes, and you're done. 392 00:20:54,503 --> 00:20:57,715 It's really cool to see Neal finish a project. 393 00:20:57,798 --> 00:20:59,633 You could see that he was proud. 394 00:20:59,717 --> 00:21:02,386 Done. How's that feel? Finished a project. 395 00:21:02,470 --> 00:21:05,181 No thanks to you, but, yeah, I got it done. [chuckles] 396 00:21:09,310 --> 00:21:11,979 A lot of men have an issue with vulnerability, 397 00:21:12,062 --> 00:21:15,107 and letting people in and telling them about yourself. 398 00:21:15,191 --> 00:21:19,862 Ben told me that he knows nothing about you and that it breaks his heart. 399 00:21:20,404 --> 00:21:25,075 I do think a lot of my friends feel, I think, a little disconnected from me, 400 00:21:25,159 --> 00:21:29,413 because I know everything about them, but they know very little 401 00:21:29,497 --> 00:21:31,582 - about what's going on with me. - [Antoni] Why? 402 00:21:31,665 --> 00:21:34,084 [Neal] I thought if I'm the loyal guy, dependable, 403 00:21:34,168 --> 00:21:36,670 that'd be enough for me not to have to open up. 404 00:21:36,754 --> 00:21:40,174 And I think that builds this, like, not equal kind of... 405 00:21:40,257 --> 00:21:42,676 You're not being vulnerable with people around you. 406 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:47,139 He needs to understand that being vulnerable is not weakness. It's strength. 407 00:21:47,223 --> 00:21:50,976 You're in tune with yourself, which is the sexiest thing. 408 00:21:51,060 --> 00:21:53,687 You're gonna enjoy where we're taking you. 409 00:21:54,688 --> 00:21:55,940 What? 410 00:21:58,692 --> 00:22:02,321 - How's it going? - Let's get some boxing going. 411 00:22:02,404 --> 00:22:06,617 I want you to understand, we're waking up your body. You work where you live. 412 00:22:06,700 --> 00:22:10,788 That's turning you into a hermit. Start doing more physical activity. 413 00:22:10,871 --> 00:22:12,915 - Have you guys boxed before? - [Karamo] Yes. 414 00:22:12,998 --> 00:22:16,752 I was sad, and boxing was the way that I could get out of my head, 415 00:22:16,836 --> 00:22:19,964 and it helped me to take out some anxiety I was having. 416 00:22:20,047 --> 00:22:21,799 [Marty] Quick boxing lesson. 417 00:22:21,882 --> 00:22:24,468 Never wanna be a wide target. Be a small target. 418 00:22:24,552 --> 00:22:27,304 The number one punch in your arsenal is your jab. 419 00:22:27,388 --> 00:22:29,390 So, put your hands up. Ready? 420 00:22:29,473 --> 00:22:31,684 One. Oh, y'all not ready. 421 00:22:31,767 --> 00:22:36,480 One, two, three, four, five. 422 00:22:36,564 --> 00:22:39,650 Neal's so afraid to be judged, he never gets in the ring. 423 00:22:39,733 --> 00:22:43,988 This is a way that he can understand that you gotta put yourself out there. 424 00:22:44,321 --> 00:22:46,073 Somebody's running out of gas. 425 00:22:46,156 --> 00:22:48,867 - The tank was very low to begin with. - [Marty] Too bad. 426 00:22:48,951 --> 00:22:51,996 - [Karamo] Sometimes you get knocked down. - Take your time. One. 427 00:22:52,079 --> 00:22:53,205 [grunting] 428 00:22:53,289 --> 00:22:56,292 There you go, champ. And zero. Nice work. 429 00:22:56,375 --> 00:23:00,838 You know what? Get back up and have faith that you're gonna win the next fight. 430 00:23:00,921 --> 00:23:02,798 - [Neal panting] - [Marty] How you feel? 431 00:23:02,881 --> 00:23:05,843 - All right to terrible. - Are you gonna work at it? 432 00:23:05,926 --> 00:23:07,177 - Yeah. - There you go. 433 00:23:07,261 --> 00:23:08,554 You're taking yourself out the comfort zone 434 00:23:08,637 --> 00:23:10,556 by doing something you normally never do. 435 00:23:10,639 --> 00:23:14,351 Getting in the ring, it's about connecting with another person. 436 00:23:14,435 --> 00:23:17,396 - You can do it. - Whatever you say, I agree with. [laughs] 437 00:23:17,479 --> 00:23:20,399 [Marty] The first thing you gotta learn is move your head. 438 00:23:20,482 --> 00:23:23,319 If you can't move your head, you're gonna get what? 439 00:23:23,402 --> 00:23:25,571 - [Neal] Hit. - Ships that don't move get sunk. 440 00:23:25,654 --> 00:23:27,406 So, remember that. Ready? Go. 441 00:23:27,489 --> 00:23:28,741 Look at that. 442 00:23:28,824 --> 00:23:30,492 Wow, good job, Neal. 443 00:23:30,576 --> 00:23:34,663 - Five, four... Missed. Three, two, one. - Good job. You got it. Keep it up. 444 00:23:34,747 --> 00:23:36,332 You got it. Good job. 445 00:23:36,415 --> 00:23:38,959 - You got one more round in you? - Yeah. 446 00:23:39,043 --> 00:23:40,586 [Neal panting] 447 00:23:40,669 --> 00:23:42,838 - Twenty seconds. - [Karamo] You can do it, Neal. 448 00:23:42,921 --> 00:23:44,715 Come on. Change your life now. 449 00:23:44,798 --> 00:23:47,843 Only 20 seconds of your life. Let me get them now. 450 00:23:47,926 --> 00:23:50,179 - Let's go, 20. Come on, 20. - You got it. 451 00:23:50,763 --> 00:23:52,097 You're not tired. 452 00:23:52,181 --> 00:23:55,017 Ten, nine, eight... Come on, one more. 453 00:23:55,100 --> 00:23:59,063 Seven, six... Land it. Five, four, three... 454 00:23:59,146 --> 00:24:01,106 Come on, two, one. Finish. 455 00:24:01,190 --> 00:24:02,316 - [bell rings] - Time. 456 00:24:02,399 --> 00:24:04,276 [Karamo chuckling] 457 00:24:04,360 --> 00:24:06,862 [Marty] There you go, baby. That's how you work. 458 00:24:06,945 --> 00:24:09,239 You didn't think you could, what happened? 459 00:24:09,323 --> 00:24:12,451 - [Neal] I did it. Thank you. - Always go one more round, brother. 460 00:24:12,534 --> 00:24:14,411 Get a good stretch, guys. Thanks again. 461 00:24:14,495 --> 00:24:15,621 [groans] 462 00:24:17,331 --> 00:24:18,957 - How was that? - [Neal] It was good. 463 00:24:19,041 --> 00:24:23,379 Made me realize that it's been a slow couple months to years 464 00:24:23,462 --> 00:24:27,007 as far as activity-wise goes, put on some lbs, that sucks. 465 00:24:27,091 --> 00:24:31,762 Any type of sadness you feel, if you start doing something like this, it'll help. 466 00:24:31,845 --> 00:24:35,057 You'll start being happy, feeling supported, energetic. 467 00:24:35,140 --> 00:24:36,392 [Antoni] I have to mention. 468 00:24:36,975 --> 00:24:41,105 The time you spent looking him in the eye is more than I've seen you engage 469 00:24:41,188 --> 00:24:44,441 in eye contact during the duration of us being together. 470 00:24:44,525 --> 00:24:47,945 I really wanted to hit him. That's where this is coming from. 471 00:24:48,028 --> 00:24:50,364 It's like you're forced to have contact 472 00:24:50,447 --> 00:24:53,951 with another person and share this moment. Look what it does. 473 00:24:54,034 --> 00:24:55,369 - I'm proud of you for this. - Thanks. 474 00:24:56,912 --> 00:24:58,497 [Bobby] It's looking great, man. 475 00:25:03,836 --> 00:25:06,296 And don't fuck it up, and I already did. 476 00:25:07,297 --> 00:25:10,926 ♪ They say the party won't be on Until I get up in the place ♪ 477 00:25:11,009 --> 00:25:12,219 Come on, get in there. 478 00:25:12,302 --> 00:25:16,014 - If I ran, you think you could catch me? - I'm faster than you. 479 00:25:16,098 --> 00:25:18,475 Getting Neal to come out of his comfort zone 480 00:25:18,559 --> 00:25:21,311 and getting him out from behind all that hair, 481 00:25:21,395 --> 00:25:25,733 he's gonna see he is an attractive guy and people want to be around him. 482 00:25:25,816 --> 00:25:27,818 He just has to take his arms down. 483 00:25:27,901 --> 00:25:32,322 - What's your fear about cutting your hair? - I just don't wanna fade in. 484 00:25:32,406 --> 00:25:35,909 Be like another dude with a haircut that everyone else has. 485 00:25:35,993 --> 00:25:38,829 I am not married to cutting your hair off 486 00:25:38,912 --> 00:25:43,375 for the sake of cutting it off. I don't wanna take away your personality. 487 00:25:43,459 --> 00:25:47,671 It'll look so good. You have enough length to donate to Beautiful Lengths. 488 00:25:47,755 --> 00:25:50,382 - What is the length to cut off? - Eight inches. 489 00:25:50,466 --> 00:25:53,302 That's the only time someone said I've had eight inches, Johnny. 490 00:25:53,385 --> 00:25:54,720 - [laughing] - Ooh. 491 00:25:55,304 --> 00:25:58,557 - Okay, I'm just gonna cut this off now. - I'm so nervous. 492 00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:00,434 [grunting] 493 00:26:00,517 --> 00:26:04,229 - It's happening. I want us to hold on. - It hurts, it hurts. 494 00:26:04,313 --> 00:26:07,983 [Jonathan] Okay. So, that's over with. Let's go wash your hair. 495 00:26:08,525 --> 00:26:11,195 Let me cry inside a little bit first. 496 00:26:11,278 --> 00:26:15,073 Neal is a little baby guinea pig with anxiety, honey. 497 00:26:15,157 --> 00:26:17,075 I love how relaxed you are. 498 00:26:17,159 --> 00:26:19,703 He is so terrified, every noise, he's: 499 00:26:22,581 --> 00:26:25,250 Can't look at you like this. I wanna do your beard first. 500 00:26:32,674 --> 00:26:35,385 - I love this length of beard. - [Neal] While you do that, 501 00:26:35,469 --> 00:26:37,763 - I'm gonna pat your head. - Thank you. 502 00:26:37,846 --> 00:26:39,139 Get it, really get it. 503 00:26:39,223 --> 00:26:40,057 All right. 504 00:26:40,933 --> 00:26:45,062 I'm getting you through this touch phobia. I'm gonna wax your brows. 505 00:26:45,145 --> 00:26:46,230 [groans] 506 00:26:47,981 --> 00:26:51,443 - Oh! That felt so good. - That's why you don't have a girlfriend. 507 00:26:51,527 --> 00:26:54,446 Every time you make out, they had to look at this. 508 00:26:54,530 --> 00:26:55,739 [Neal] Oh! Feels better. 509 00:26:55,823 --> 00:26:59,701 He looks amazing, and he's just, like, handling it really well. 510 00:26:59,785 --> 00:27:01,453 - Oh. That's the worst one. - Sorry. 511 00:27:03,372 --> 00:27:06,708 I'm shaping you to be like a gorgeous Indian Jake Gyllenhaal. 512 00:27:06,792 --> 00:27:10,796 Neal is a really fun guy, so I want his new look to reflect that. 513 00:27:10,879 --> 00:27:13,173 So, people know, "I am a guy with style, 514 00:27:13,257 --> 00:27:16,343 I do have creative ideas, let me help you out." 515 00:27:16,426 --> 00:27:19,596 See how your hair's damp now? It's not soaking wet? 516 00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:23,767 That's what you do when round brushing. Only part I'd brush is the top. 517 00:27:24,643 --> 00:27:27,980 Oh, my God. I did so good. Do you like? Get all up in it. 518 00:27:29,898 --> 00:27:33,777 - How's that beard feel? - [chuckles] I don't know who this man is. 519 00:27:34,278 --> 00:27:37,489 This was the part I feared most, but I'm super excited. 520 00:27:37,573 --> 00:27:40,284 - You are? - Yeah, I am genuinely excited. 521 00:27:40,367 --> 00:27:43,912 Let me give you a hug, I'm so excited. Thank you so much. 522 00:27:43,996 --> 00:27:47,833 It's a deep hug, it's a deep hug. I'm so happy. Looks so cool. 523 00:27:47,916 --> 00:27:50,419 How can I forget? I got you some cologne. 524 00:27:50,502 --> 00:27:55,549 This is how you do this, and I learned this from Queer Eye numero uno. 525 00:27:55,632 --> 00:27:58,802 Stand up. That gorgeous Kyan taught me this trick. 526 00:27:58,886 --> 00:28:01,889 You spray, delay and walk away. 527 00:28:01,972 --> 00:28:03,181 [laughs] 528 00:28:03,265 --> 00:28:05,017 - Okay. - Hey, your turn, ready? 529 00:28:05,100 --> 00:28:07,019 Spray, delay, walk through it. 530 00:28:07,102 --> 00:28:10,439 - Just like you did. - Yes. Fiercedom, honey. 531 00:28:11,023 --> 00:28:12,900 ♪ Are you ticklish, never, never ♪ 532 00:28:12,983 --> 00:28:14,818 ♪ You've been trying since forever ♪ 533 00:28:14,902 --> 00:28:19,197 ♪ I don't wanna put you down There's a new game in town ♪ 534 00:28:19,781 --> 00:28:24,036 Who's a pretty girl? So fluffy, so clean. 535 00:28:24,912 --> 00:28:27,748 ♪ Boy, you better run back home ♪ 536 00:28:27,831 --> 00:28:30,918 ♪ 'Cause those days are gone Look at me now ♪ 537 00:28:31,627 --> 00:28:34,129 You look so good. 538 00:28:34,212 --> 00:28:38,508 - It feels good. I feel... - Wait till you see your house. 539 00:28:40,219 --> 00:28:42,512 Are you ready to see your place? 540 00:28:42,596 --> 00:28:46,058 Come on, come on through. Look how handsome he looks. 541 00:28:46,141 --> 00:28:47,935 - I love it. - Thanks. 542 00:28:48,018 --> 00:28:51,146 - He has been waiting... - Oh, he doesn't recognize you. 543 00:28:51,230 --> 00:28:54,107 - She's like, "Who the hell are you?" - Oh, I know. 544 00:28:54,191 --> 00:28:56,902 [Tan] I had the same reaction. Look how happy she is. 545 00:28:56,985 --> 00:29:01,031 "You've finally cut your damn hair." Oh, yeah, I feel so happy. 546 00:29:01,114 --> 00:29:03,617 - Wow, amazing. - Do you recognize me at all? 547 00:29:03,700 --> 00:29:05,160 - Sharp. - You look so good. 548 00:29:05,244 --> 00:29:06,662 - [Bobby] Are you ready? - Yeah. 549 00:29:06,745 --> 00:29:07,621 What? 550 00:29:11,375 --> 00:29:14,419 Oh, shit. It's so different. It's so cool, though. 551 00:29:14,503 --> 00:29:18,048 This place was kind of a '90s time capsule with the wood color. 552 00:29:20,509 --> 00:29:24,888 I decided to take the cabinets black, which toned down the gold of the floor. 553 00:29:24,972 --> 00:29:26,473 And now it looks modern. 554 00:29:26,556 --> 00:29:28,767 - [Neal] It's not all monotone now. - [Bobby] Yeah. 555 00:29:30,727 --> 00:29:32,396 [Neal] Painted the brick. Crazy. 556 00:29:32,479 --> 00:29:35,315 Have you noticed that there is no more dog hair? 557 00:29:35,399 --> 00:29:38,110 [Bobby] Do you know why? Here's your new roommate. 558 00:29:38,193 --> 00:29:42,155 You can set it to where once a day, it goes and vacuums the house. 559 00:29:42,698 --> 00:29:45,409 I got a leather sofa, so it doesn't stick to it. 560 00:29:45,492 --> 00:29:46,618 Oh! 561 00:29:47,035 --> 00:29:49,538 - The deck is done. - The deck is decked out. 562 00:29:50,289 --> 00:29:52,499 [Jonathan] Get all butch on your deck, honey. 563 00:29:53,959 --> 00:29:56,712 - [Neal] This is nuts. - [Karamo] This looked like a college dorm. 564 00:29:56,795 --> 00:29:59,715 - Now it looks like a grown man lives here. - I know. 565 00:29:59,798 --> 00:30:01,800 You can host 20 people out here. 566 00:30:01,883 --> 00:30:04,803 - Look at the planters we made. - [Neal] Hey, they're good. 567 00:30:05,387 --> 00:30:08,307 - [Karamo] We also found you a wife. - Lawrence of Gayrabia. 568 00:30:08,390 --> 00:30:09,808 - Yes. - [chuckles] 569 00:30:10,392 --> 00:30:12,561 - There's still more. - Follow Bobbers. 570 00:30:13,186 --> 00:30:16,148 And look at this, you even have room to entertain. 571 00:30:16,690 --> 00:30:18,984 You had this '90s mirror up there. 572 00:30:20,027 --> 00:30:22,321 The way to modernize it is to frame it. 573 00:30:26,283 --> 00:30:28,410 And now for the love nest 574 00:30:28,493 --> 00:30:31,246 that you're gonna be using with this new look. 575 00:30:31,330 --> 00:30:32,706 [mimicking bass guitar] 576 00:30:33,832 --> 00:30:35,917 [laughing] What was your version? 577 00:30:36,001 --> 00:30:37,252 [mimicking bass guitar] 578 00:30:37,669 --> 00:30:39,671 Oh, shit. 579 00:30:43,258 --> 00:30:47,429 Most people think black walls make rooms feel smaller. It's the opposite. 580 00:30:47,512 --> 00:30:48,972 It adds depth to a room. 581 00:30:49,056 --> 00:30:52,059 I never would have thought to do it, but it's me. 582 00:30:52,142 --> 00:30:55,771 - Painted the grout lines, too? - Instead of spending money to rip it out, 583 00:30:55,854 --> 00:30:58,440 paint the grout black and it modernizes it. 584 00:30:58,523 --> 00:30:59,649 It's so nuts. 585 00:31:00,067 --> 00:31:03,070 We'll make buttered leek Gruyère grilled cheeses. 586 00:31:03,153 --> 00:31:06,281 - Tell me what it smells like. - Onions. What is a leek? 587 00:31:06,365 --> 00:31:08,909 They're a little sweeter, more delicate. 588 00:31:08,992 --> 00:31:12,162 So, you cut off the root part, and then the green part. 589 00:31:12,245 --> 00:31:13,622 So, these we don't use. 590 00:31:13,705 --> 00:31:16,333 - And you just do a really thin chop. - Slice. 591 00:31:16,833 --> 00:31:18,794 Leeks have a lot of sand in them, 592 00:31:18,877 --> 00:31:21,546 so it's something that you have to wash out. 593 00:31:21,630 --> 00:31:25,592 Once you're done slicing leeks, you're gonna put a glob of butter, 594 00:31:25,675 --> 00:31:28,470 maybe two to three tablespoons, medium low. 595 00:31:28,553 --> 00:31:31,515 Sweat them out. It's about getting them translucent. 596 00:31:31,598 --> 00:31:36,019 Assemble the grilled cheeses ahead of time, so when you have a large majority 597 00:31:36,103 --> 00:31:39,314 of the people that are here, you start busting these out. 598 00:31:39,398 --> 00:31:41,900 Um, how are you feeling about entertaining people? 599 00:31:41,983 --> 00:31:43,652 Nervous, but in a good way. 600 00:31:43,735 --> 00:31:47,280 It's nice to have a place to show off to your guests, right? 601 00:31:47,781 --> 00:31:50,534 [Jonathan] Here we are. We're in your getting-ready space. 602 00:31:50,617 --> 00:31:53,286 I'm full of presents. I got you a blow-dryer. 603 00:31:53,370 --> 00:31:57,416 I'm just gonna get myself a quick cold shot. It'd be hot in here. 604 00:31:57,958 --> 00:32:00,252 - Let me help you. - Yes. 605 00:32:00,335 --> 00:32:02,879 Oh, Mommy likes it. Oh, Mommy loves it. 606 00:32:02,963 --> 00:32:06,800 Ooh, body moisturizer. I got you some razors for your cheeks. 607 00:32:06,883 --> 00:32:10,345 - Your beard line is actually here. - I was shaving it down? 608 00:32:10,429 --> 00:32:13,098 - When you do your shaving... - Don't take it out. 609 00:32:13,181 --> 00:32:14,850 Exactly. It's for up here. 610 00:32:14,933 --> 00:32:18,562 Get out of the shower, dry your face, give your beard a little: 611 00:32:18,645 --> 00:32:21,940 - Gets the dead skin out. - Then you can put beard lotion on 612 00:32:22,023 --> 00:32:25,694 just to keep the whiskers nice and soft. So, yeah, we're good. 613 00:32:25,777 --> 00:32:29,739 I wish that with this party tonight, that is such high stakes for you, 614 00:32:29,823 --> 00:32:32,909 - like your mother could be here. - She's gonna be here. 615 00:32:32,993 --> 00:32:36,079 - She is? - Yeah, yeah. I'm excited and nervous, 616 00:32:36,163 --> 00:32:39,875 because my mom hasn't seen me without a beard in seven years. 617 00:32:39,958 --> 00:32:41,543 - Really? - Yeah, it's crazy. 618 00:32:41,626 --> 00:32:45,464 She wanted me to look like I cared. I think that's her biggest fear. 619 00:32:45,547 --> 00:32:48,175 I didn't care about how I looked and I kind of let myself go, 620 00:32:48,258 --> 00:32:49,843 finish projects that I start and all these things. 621 00:32:49,926 --> 00:32:51,845 I think she's gonna be super-happy. 622 00:32:51,928 --> 00:32:55,140 - This is a big night for you. - This is different. 623 00:32:55,223 --> 00:33:00,562 To have my family, friends, business people all thrown in together. 624 00:33:00,645 --> 00:33:03,773 My friends have never met my parents. A few of them have. 625 00:33:03,857 --> 00:33:05,942 Mostly, it wasn't that kind of thing. 626 00:33:06,026 --> 00:33:10,405 Sounds like those walls you had up of letting people out and keeping yourself 627 00:33:10,489 --> 00:33:13,450 - locked in are getting knocked down. - So, baby step. 628 00:33:13,533 --> 00:33:16,411 Those baby steps are what keeps you on your journey 629 00:33:16,495 --> 00:33:19,664 to being this guy your mother won't be worried about. 630 00:33:19,748 --> 00:33:22,959 Right. The biggest thing, I don't want her to worry. 631 00:33:23,043 --> 00:33:27,088 Your closet. We've kept some of the good stuff that you had in here. 632 00:33:27,172 --> 00:33:30,133 We've gotten rid of stuff that's never gonna work. 633 00:33:30,217 --> 00:33:32,344 - Burned it in a bonfire. - Had to go. 634 00:33:32,427 --> 00:33:35,639 So, button-up shirts. This will be your go-to section. 635 00:33:35,722 --> 00:33:38,808 When going to work, you don't need a long-sleeved shirt. 636 00:33:38,892 --> 00:33:43,021 Go short-sleeved. But there's a way to do it playfully. Next, footwear. 637 00:33:43,104 --> 00:33:45,565 Never owned a brown pair of dress shoes. 638 00:33:45,649 --> 00:33:47,817 - How's that possible? - Can I wear black? 639 00:33:47,901 --> 00:33:50,028 - Goes with everything. [laughs] - Not everything. 640 00:33:50,111 --> 00:33:52,572 - Also, I found this. - Cricket. 641 00:33:52,656 --> 00:33:54,741 There's also one in my closet. 642 00:33:54,824 --> 00:33:59,246 Indians and Pakistanis, uh, fight about cricket literally every year. 643 00:33:59,329 --> 00:34:03,583 That's the time I started to think, "We really are in a closet together." 644 00:34:03,667 --> 00:34:05,669 This may be a first. Um, okay... 645 00:34:05,752 --> 00:34:09,089 We're breaking down cultural barriers here. 646 00:34:09,172 --> 00:34:11,675 - Um, I wanna put you in a couple of looks. - Okay. 647 00:34:11,758 --> 00:34:15,679 For me, the most important part of tonight is what his mom has to say. 648 00:34:15,762 --> 00:34:19,766 I get what it feels like, as a Pakistani, to have your mom be proud of you. 649 00:34:19,849 --> 00:34:24,271 It takes a lot for them to say, "I am proud of you." It's gonna be beautiful. 650 00:34:24,354 --> 00:34:26,773 - Ready, boys? - [all] Yes. 651 00:34:26,856 --> 00:34:29,192 - All right, mate, come on down. - [Neal] Right. 652 00:34:29,276 --> 00:34:31,695 You look so good. 653 00:34:31,778 --> 00:34:35,198 - Those pants and that shirt are awesome. - You look adorable. 654 00:34:35,282 --> 00:34:39,578 - This is how Miss India does it. - I can't sashay like that, though. 655 00:34:39,661 --> 00:34:42,831 You're wrong. She's always got a sari. She holds the sari. 656 00:34:42,914 --> 00:34:46,126 - Oh, my God, you're so right. - It's the little detail. 657 00:34:46,209 --> 00:34:48,837 - Give us your version. There you go. - [all] Yeah. 658 00:34:49,504 --> 00:34:51,506 Yeah. 659 00:34:51,590 --> 00:34:53,592 - Make your mama proud. - There we go. 660 00:34:53,675 --> 00:34:55,719 We want a look he'll wear to work. 661 00:34:55,802 --> 00:34:58,346 We show some style, he's got a graphic print. 662 00:34:58,430 --> 00:35:02,350 He's got a pant that looks denim, but it's actually just linen. 663 00:35:02,434 --> 00:35:04,436 Then a sneaker that's slightly stepped up. 664 00:35:04,519 --> 00:35:06,730 I am in love with the shirt. 665 00:35:06,813 --> 00:35:08,898 I love it buttoned all the way up. 666 00:35:08,982 --> 00:35:11,693 I'd never wear linen, but it's not dress pants. 667 00:35:11,776 --> 00:35:13,069 Linen is awesome in the summer. 668 00:35:13,153 --> 00:35:15,697 [Neal] These are high tops, but not ratty. 669 00:35:15,780 --> 00:35:20,243 Looks like a guy in the creative field. I wouldn't expect he's an accountant. 670 00:35:20,327 --> 00:35:24,664 I wish I was a crazy, excited guy, but I'm, like, inside bursting, excited. 671 00:35:24,748 --> 00:35:26,791 - No, we can tell you are. - Yeah. 672 00:35:26,875 --> 00:35:30,170 I'm proud of the fact that from getting to know you, 673 00:35:30,253 --> 00:35:34,049 it seemed you were all over the place. You are no longer that man. 674 00:35:34,132 --> 00:35:37,302 - Thanks. - You can't selectively numb feeling. 675 00:35:37,385 --> 00:35:41,848 If you try to numb the vulnerability, you also numb joy, happiness, connection. 676 00:35:41,931 --> 00:35:45,602 You can't have connection, joy and happiness without vulnerability. 677 00:35:45,685 --> 00:35:48,563 It doesn't happen overnight. If it happens in one department 678 00:35:48,647 --> 00:35:51,358 of your life, you can do it in every other part. 679 00:35:51,441 --> 00:35:54,027 [Tan] There's no shame in showing that you're happy. 680 00:35:54,110 --> 00:35:57,989 No, especially as a dude. It's the weirdest thing to be happy. 681 00:35:58,073 --> 00:36:00,784 - What's wrong with being happy? - You're awesome. 682 00:36:00,867 --> 00:36:03,286 You have a great heart, super-handsome. 683 00:36:03,370 --> 00:36:05,747 You know what you're doing. Let people know. 684 00:36:05,830 --> 00:36:08,208 Thank you so much. I just wanna say something. 685 00:36:08,291 --> 00:36:10,126 Uh... All right. 686 00:36:11,252 --> 00:36:12,253 Uh... 687 00:36:13,171 --> 00:36:17,050 This has been a completely weird and beautiful experience. 688 00:36:17,133 --> 00:36:19,636 I just wanna thank you guys. I was in... 689 00:36:20,053 --> 00:36:24,057 uh, a big down spell, like a really dark place. 690 00:36:25,517 --> 00:36:29,396 In the past couple months, I've been comfortable being in that dark place. 691 00:36:29,479 --> 00:36:32,232 For some reason, I didn't fight my way out of it. 692 00:36:32,315 --> 00:36:34,818 And that's why this meant a lot to me. 693 00:36:34,901 --> 00:36:37,362 I didn't have anyone to talk to about it. 694 00:36:37,445 --> 00:36:41,241 So, all those weird laughs, that's the first time in a long time 695 00:36:41,324 --> 00:36:43,702 I've just been, like, joyful, 696 00:36:44,411 --> 00:36:48,164 genuine joy, right, that was bred from, like, just pain. 697 00:36:48,957 --> 00:36:52,794 When I started out the week, I felt like this was just highlighting, 698 00:36:53,128 --> 00:36:55,004 like, uh, what was wrong in my life. 699 00:36:55,088 --> 00:36:57,716 And by the end of the week, I realized 700 00:36:57,799 --> 00:37:00,635 it wasn't highlighting what was wrong in my life. 701 00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:05,640 It was showing me, like, how good my life could be if I just cared. 702 00:37:06,224 --> 00:37:09,352 I don't have to change overnight, it won't be perfect, 703 00:37:09,436 --> 00:37:14,399 but it did give me a glimmer of hope there could be a different option for you, 704 00:37:14,482 --> 00:37:17,444 and that's the most powerful part of this week. 705 00:37:17,527 --> 00:37:19,154 I can't thank you guys enough. 706 00:37:19,237 --> 00:37:23,283 From the bottom of my heart, that's the nicest thing anyone's done for me. 707 00:37:23,366 --> 00:37:24,576 So, I appreciate it. 708 00:37:26,369 --> 00:37:29,706 - Give me a hug. - We're proud of you for being vulnerable 709 00:37:29,789 --> 00:37:32,250 - and sharing with us. - I appreciate it. 710 00:37:32,333 --> 00:37:35,170 - Thanks, buddy. It's okay, it's okay. - [Forever barks] 711 00:37:35,253 --> 00:37:36,963 - Love you. - It's okay, girl. 712 00:37:37,046 --> 00:37:40,467 - Oh, that's a really good hug. - I'm doing two-arm hugs now. 713 00:37:40,550 --> 00:37:43,678 I know. When we first met, you wouldn't let us touch you. 714 00:37:43,762 --> 00:37:45,430 - Thank you. - Thank you. 715 00:37:45,513 --> 00:37:48,516 - We gonna do a group hug? - We're doing a group hug. 716 00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:50,977 - You get in the middle. - You ready for it? 717 00:37:51,060 --> 00:37:52,228 It's a big one. 718 00:37:53,062 --> 00:37:55,106 So good! 719 00:37:55,190 --> 00:37:57,525 - Bye. - Bye. 720 00:37:57,609 --> 00:37:58,568 [Karamo] We love you! 721 00:38:00,570 --> 00:38:05,325 ♪ Always put your best foot forward ♪ 722 00:38:07,535 --> 00:38:10,371 ♪ And never be afraid ♪ 723 00:38:15,001 --> 00:38:19,506 Oh, queens, my little internal alarm is ringing to check in with Neal Reddy. 724 00:38:19,589 --> 00:38:22,467 - How is he doing? What is going on? - Are you ready? 725 00:38:22,550 --> 00:38:23,718 Checking in. 726 00:38:25,178 --> 00:38:29,724 [Neal] Forever, are you sad now? It's quiet. Everyone's gone. 727 00:38:30,308 --> 00:38:33,353 Is he not like giving me Le Cordon Bleu realness now? 728 00:38:33,436 --> 00:38:36,689 - He's giving me crushed bread. - [Karamo] This is making me hungry. 729 00:38:36,773 --> 00:38:40,485 - Yeah, this is like torture. - [Antoni] Cheese and bread, what's not... 730 00:38:40,568 --> 00:38:41,986 - [all] Oh! - He just cut himself! 731 00:38:42,070 --> 00:38:43,571 [Neal] That's gonna be bad. 732 00:38:43,655 --> 00:38:46,574 - I felt that through my whole body. - [Bobby] I heard that. 733 00:38:46,658 --> 00:38:47,659 [all shouting] 734 00:38:47,742 --> 00:38:51,079 [Antoni] It was just grilled cheese. I thought he'd be safe. 735 00:38:51,162 --> 00:38:54,582 - [Neal] It's a good omen for the meal. - Attaboy, put the glove on. 736 00:38:55,166 --> 00:38:56,793 [Jonathan] I love the pop of color. 737 00:38:56,876 --> 00:38:59,629 I know. Oh, bless him. I'd be freaking out. 738 00:39:00,088 --> 00:39:03,049 I love him so much right now. This makes me happy. 739 00:39:03,758 --> 00:39:06,386 - [Jonathan] Cute. - [Tan] Yes, love those options. 740 00:39:06,469 --> 00:39:09,138 - I'd go for the whiter one. - I'd go for the pink. 741 00:39:09,222 --> 00:39:10,139 I like the pink. 742 00:39:10,723 --> 00:39:13,685 - I like the first choice. - Honestly, either, I'll be happy. 743 00:39:14,435 --> 00:39:18,398 Yes. It looks real formal. I mean, it is a business event. 744 00:39:18,481 --> 00:39:21,901 - I'm overruling myself. I love it. - [Antoni] That's a great fit. 745 00:39:21,985 --> 00:39:24,445 [Jonathan] He's turning me on so much right now. 746 00:39:24,529 --> 00:39:26,906 That was a gorgeous bit of a matte pomade. 747 00:39:29,826 --> 00:39:31,327 [as Jonathan] Yes, queen. 748 00:39:31,411 --> 00:39:33,079 [all] Yeah! 749 00:39:35,373 --> 00:39:37,917 I love Neal, man, he's so funny. 750 00:39:39,502 --> 00:39:40,670 [sighs] 751 00:39:41,713 --> 00:39:43,548 [Tan] He's nervous, you guys. 752 00:39:43,631 --> 00:39:46,134 He hasn't had people in his space for so long. 753 00:39:46,217 --> 00:39:47,927 - Ten years. - I can only imagine 754 00:39:48,011 --> 00:39:49,345 what he's going through. 755 00:39:49,429 --> 00:39:50,805 Wow. 756 00:39:52,181 --> 00:39:54,225 - [Neal] Hey. - Finally, I see your face. 757 00:39:54,309 --> 00:39:57,228 - Surprised? - Oh, my God. [laughs] 758 00:39:57,312 --> 00:40:00,189 You look nice. It's beautiful here, it's very nice. 759 00:40:00,273 --> 00:40:01,524 - Are you happy? - Very. 760 00:40:01,608 --> 00:40:02,817 - [Leena] Oh, my God. - Wow. 761 00:40:02,901 --> 00:40:05,820 His mom is so cute, I love her little bod. 762 00:40:06,446 --> 00:40:09,240 - Beautiful. - [Neal] Everything down here. 763 00:40:09,324 --> 00:40:10,825 [Sue] Wow. That's nice. 764 00:40:11,284 --> 00:40:15,663 I love the kind of ever-present, slightly disapproving look in her eye. 765 00:40:15,747 --> 00:40:17,790 - Yes, always. - You look so handsome. 766 00:40:17,874 --> 00:40:21,544 - Are you sure? - Yes. I can't believe you're my son. 767 00:40:21,628 --> 00:40:22,962 She just gave him... 768 00:40:23,046 --> 00:40:25,423 - She's smiling, bless her. - There she goes. 769 00:40:26,007 --> 00:40:28,217 - I like your shirt. - I'm wearing a watch. 770 00:40:28,301 --> 00:40:30,637 You look like a real gentleman now. 771 00:40:30,720 --> 00:40:35,516 - This is what you wanted for how long? - A long time. I didn't expect it from you, 772 00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:38,061 - but it's a nice surprise. - Why didn't you? 773 00:40:38,144 --> 00:40:41,981 You never listen to me, so, finally, somebody made you listen. 774 00:40:42,065 --> 00:40:43,566 That's a good thing. 775 00:40:43,650 --> 00:40:47,654 - There's a compliment with a bit of shade. - That was a lot for her. 776 00:40:47,737 --> 00:40:50,740 Big step. Usually, they don't give that compliment. 777 00:40:50,823 --> 00:40:53,117 [all shouting] 778 00:40:53,201 --> 00:40:54,702 - Hey. - [Ben] Oh, my God. 779 00:40:55,203 --> 00:40:58,414 Oh, my God. You look incredible. 780 00:40:58,498 --> 00:40:59,916 Yes, it's Ben! 781 00:40:59,999 --> 00:41:02,377 - Hey, guys, come on in. - [Ben] That is insane. 782 00:41:02,460 --> 00:41:03,836 - Hey. - Hello. 783 00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:05,296 What's up, man? 784 00:41:05,380 --> 00:41:07,799 - You're so handsome. Goodness. - Thank you. 785 00:41:07,882 --> 00:41:10,259 He hugged everyone as they walked through. 786 00:41:10,343 --> 00:41:12,303 - [Karamo] I know. - [Jonathan] He's feeling good. 787 00:41:12,387 --> 00:41:13,638 [Karamo] Oh, my gosh. 788 00:41:13,721 --> 00:41:16,891 - How many sexy friends does he have? - His friends are hot. 789 00:41:16,975 --> 00:41:19,769 The whole week, I had this envisionment in my head 790 00:41:19,852 --> 00:41:21,854 - of what the haircut would look like. - Me too. 791 00:41:21,938 --> 00:41:26,192 It's actually a little longer than I was anticipating, and it looks better. 792 00:41:26,275 --> 00:41:28,486 He didn't wanna go, like, too drastic. 793 00:41:28,569 --> 00:41:32,865 Now I feel like I'd be comfortable setting you up with Rachel's friends. 794 00:41:32,949 --> 00:41:35,243 Honestly, Ben is taking my breath away. 795 00:41:35,326 --> 00:41:36,828 Mine, too. 796 00:41:36,911 --> 00:41:40,289 [Neal] If you see anyone brown, that's my family. Say hi to them. 797 00:41:40,373 --> 00:41:44,752 Help yourself to some booze. We'll get a bottle opener, hold on. 798 00:41:44,836 --> 00:41:47,755 - You should've been wearing this... - Okay, Mom. 799 00:41:47,839 --> 00:41:48,756 ...months ago. 800 00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:52,468 I have more hair products than you do. I've got a whole stack. 801 00:41:52,552 --> 00:41:55,304 No, no, you don't understand, it's a whole tray. 802 00:41:55,388 --> 00:41:58,433 He's so cute and coy and flirty. 803 00:41:58,516 --> 00:42:00,643 - I know. - [Jonathan] I love that Neal Reddy. 804 00:42:02,103 --> 00:42:04,564 Mm. Very good, Neal. 805 00:42:04,647 --> 00:42:06,149 - You prepared this? - Yes. 806 00:42:06,232 --> 00:42:07,400 [Ben] Is that prosciutto? 807 00:42:07,483 --> 00:42:11,487 Prosciutto ham, brioche bread, Gruyère cheese, some mayonnaise. 808 00:42:11,571 --> 00:42:12,405 That's it. 809 00:42:12,488 --> 00:42:15,324 He does seem comfortable and in his element. 810 00:42:15,408 --> 00:42:19,537 Thank you for coming. Three years ago, we decided we were gonna do an app 811 00:42:19,620 --> 00:42:23,750 to help restaurants get stuff fixed. The app was put in the App Store. 812 00:42:23,833 --> 00:42:27,295 - You gotta celebrate your victories. - He's looking at them all. 813 00:42:27,378 --> 00:42:31,507 This has been a crazy week for me. About 90 percent of the people here 814 00:42:31,591 --> 00:42:34,510 haven't been here and I've known them for 15 years. 815 00:42:34,594 --> 00:42:38,306 But I didn't think it was weird until everyone started telling me it was. 816 00:42:38,389 --> 00:42:39,515 [laughing] 817 00:42:39,599 --> 00:42:41,434 I'm glad everyone's here mixing. 818 00:42:41,517 --> 00:42:45,188 We're gonna do a quick video about the app, and then that's it. 819 00:42:45,271 --> 00:42:47,482 - Other than that, have fun. - Good job. 820 00:42:47,565 --> 00:42:49,484 It's a good app, they'll love it. 821 00:42:49,567 --> 00:42:53,279 [woman on TV] When an issue arises, everything is right at your fingertips. 822 00:42:53,362 --> 00:42:55,823 - He's doing super-well. - [Karamo] Everyone's engaged. 823 00:42:55,907 --> 00:42:58,367 [woman] Don't let broken equipment break your business. 824 00:42:58,451 --> 00:43:00,036 Get your business humming along. 825 00:43:00,119 --> 00:43:04,123 Now we go back to being normal. Back to normal, talking to each other. 826 00:43:04,540 --> 00:43:07,418 [Jonathan] I hope Neal takes from this experience 827 00:43:07,502 --> 00:43:11,839 that letting people in isn't a sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength. 828 00:43:11,923 --> 00:43:15,009 Hopefully, just opens himself up to real possibility. 829 00:43:15,093 --> 00:43:17,887 I know that his life has changed from this point, 830 00:43:17,970 --> 00:43:20,515 and he's got an amazing future ahead of him. 831 00:43:20,598 --> 00:43:23,851 He's no longer nonchalant Neal. He's the man now. 832 00:43:23,935 --> 00:43:26,479 - I'm very proud of you. - Yeah? Thank you. 833 00:43:26,562 --> 00:43:29,315 - You don't need to worry. - I know. Thank you. 834 00:43:29,398 --> 00:43:32,610 He ran from us when we met him. And now he's embracing. 835 00:43:32,693 --> 00:43:34,779 And all in a few freaking days. 836 00:43:34,862 --> 00:43:36,572 Good job to us. 837 00:43:36,656 --> 00:43:37,490 Yeah. 838 00:43:37,573 --> 00:43:39,867 Sometimes, it just takes the fairies. 839 00:43:39,951 --> 00:43:41,452 [all shouting] 840 00:43:45,289 --> 00:43:49,043 ♪ So, won't you follow me? ♪ 841 00:43:51,420 --> 00:43:55,299 Social media is a great way to build your brand and reach the right audience. 842 00:43:55,383 --> 00:43:58,010 But be strategic about the hashtags you use. 843 00:43:58,094 --> 00:44:02,014 Keep them short, understandable and, most importantly, about you. 844 00:44:02,098 --> 00:44:03,558 Hashtag "ass." 845 00:44:05,143 --> 00:44:05,977 Damn. 846 00:44:06,519 --> 00:44:09,522 [Widelife's "All Things (Just Keep Getting Better)" playing] 847 00:44:28,541 --> 00:44:31,002 ♪ You came into my life ♪ 848 00:44:31,711 --> 00:44:35,006 ♪ And my world never looked so bright ♪ 849 00:44:35,381 --> 00:44:38,551 ♪ It's true You bring out the best in me ♪ 850 00:44:38,634 --> 00:44:43,014 ♪ When you are around ♪ 851 00:44:45,850 --> 00:44:47,768 ♪ Things keep getting better ♪ 852 00:44:53,316 --> 00:44:54,942 ♪ Things keep getting better ♪ 853 00:45:00,740 --> 00:45:02,366 ♪ Things keep getting better ♪ 854 00:45:08,039 --> 00:45:10,082 ♪ Things keep getting better ♪