[Veah] Previously on
Before the 90 Days...
[Cruz] Wow, that looks beautiful.
[Adnan speaking]
[Adnan speaking Arabic]
[Adnan speaking English]
[Tigerlily speaking]
[man] Go, go, go, go, go!
This is so overwhelming.
I really don't know what to expect.
So I just hope this is
everything that I've imagined it to be.
[Adnan] Come here, come here, come here.
[Veah speaking]
I do.
[Veah] I'm leaving to South Africa tomorrow
to meet my boyfriend, Sunny.
But I'm nervous because
I'm bringing my ex-boyfriend, Rory, with me.
[Rory speaking]
[Veah] The answer right now is no.
He just gets really pissed off.
It makes me feel a little uncomfortable.
What if [bleep] goes south? What are you gonna do?
No, no, no. I love you more.
I didn't think love was possible for me
because I'm autistic.
But then I found Matilda.
[Matilda speaking]
I believe that Matilda is the love of my life.
But I'm worried that if I tell her
that we have to postpone the wedding,
she'll just end things right here, right now.
[Matilda speaking]
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
I will not be having sex with you
until we get married.
This is the vow I made to God.
[Rayne] If I knew that he did not wanna be intimate with me,
I wouldn't have gotten on the plane.
You agreed that you felt, like,
a whole deeper connection with me.
-Yes. -You agreed that you felt like I was your soulmate.
It's not right.
What is your plan?
[Loren] I could see myself living here because,
in America, I'm homeless.
So sad.
[Loren] I got a text that wasn't my favorite.
I most likely have gonorrhea of the penis.
I'm not batting 1,000 right now.
And telling Faith that I have an STD
from someone I slept with recently,
that has potential to ruin our relationship.
[children chattering]
So, I did a little bit of research this morning
about gonorrhea
to see what I gotta do
to make sure that she doesn't get it.
So it turns out I can kiss Faith
and give her gonorrhea.
So, good thing we haven't done that yet.
So, after getting the text that
my friend in Las Vegas has gonorrhea,
and the fact that I've been having
gunk spew out of my penis,
I'm like, "Well, this all makes sense now."
So, the person who gave me this this fun little gift,
told me that her treatment just started
and the doctor said seven to ten days.
So I assume it'll be the same for me.
In, like, a week, week and a half,
we'll be hunky dory.
Because gonorrhea has a treatment,
and it's curable,
and people get it all the time,
like, for me, it's not a big deal.
It's like food poisoning.
But I'm a little bit nervous.
I have told Faith that I spend the night with people,
so I feel like it's kind of implied that we've been having sex.
But we haven't had, like, a real clear conversation about it.
And now I really have no choice
but to be completely honest with her.
So I'm definitely gonna tell Faith,
but she's got a fun day planned,
so I'm not just gonna, like,
spring it on her very first thing.
So I'm gonna let us do some fun stuff,
and hopefully this gonorrhea thing doesn't ruin the day.
Hello?
-Hi. -[Loren] Wow.
[both chuckling]
[Loren] Oh, yeah.
-[Faith] Are you ready... -Mmm-hmm.
[Faith] ...for more adventures in, you know...
In the Philippines.
-[Faith] Yes. -Let's go.
Come on. [chuckling]
[Faith speaking]
Yum yum.
[both chuckling]
Yes. You look good.
Bathing suit?
-I don't have... -[Loren] Oh, okay.
[Faith speaking]
-[Loren] Come on. -[chuckling]
[Faith] Yeah.
[Faith] Being a ladyboy has never been easy.
People...
But Loren makes me feel confident and beautiful.
For the first time, it feels like a man really cares about me.
Yeah.
[Faith speaking]
Yeah. Forever.
[Faith speaking]
-And we are. -[Faith] Yeah.
-We take it slow. -[Faith speaking]
[Loren] Yeah. Mmm-hmm.
[Faith speaking]
So far, I do okay.
[Faith speaking]
[Loren] That's right. So...
[Loren] Right.
[Faith speaking]
Yeah.
I'm invested.
I'm ready to do, do it.
So, I know she still wants time
to really get to know each other.
But I'm excited that Faith seems open to the idea
of my moving to the Philippines.
The relationship is progressing in the direction I want.
So now I'm getting a lot more nervous and anxious
to tell her about the STD.
All that progress could go out the window.
Everything I came out here to accomplish could be over.
So I'm really worried.
-[upbeat music playing] -[crowd chanting]
[crowd cheering]
[indistinct chatter]
[Tigerlily] A few days ago, I married Adnan
on the first day that we met
and tonight is the big wedding celebration.
-[crowd cheering, clapping] -[people vocalizing]
Confused. [chuckling]
[crowd chanting in Arabic]
[crowd cheering]
[Adnan speaking]
-[Adnan shouting in Arabic] -[people chuckling]
-[indistinct chatter] -[Adnan speaking in English]
[Tigerlily] Oh, my gosh. It's so beautiful.
[Adnan speaking]
[Adnan] I'm working so hard to make this day so special.
[Adnan] This does not mean anything.
Just... I like them. I like the golden mask.
It's just Adnan.
[Adnan speaking]
[Tigerlily] It's way bigger than
anything that I could've ever dreamed of.
You did so good, baby.
[Adnan] I do all of these things for my wife...
With love, I do everything.
[Tigerlily chuckles]
-[indistinct chatter] -[Adnan speaking]
[Adnan speaking in Arabic]
[Adnan in English] We are so late.
[Adnan speaking]
[Adnan] And after that,
the party is starting.
[man speaking in Arabic]
[all speaking in Arabic]
[Adnan in English] Maybe 15 minute?
-Yeah, I need 15. -[man speaking in Arabic]
[Adnan] Maybe 10 minutes.
[Tigerlily] Okay, then, let's start now.
Cruz, let's take off.
-[Adnan] Okay, get out! -10 minutes.
[man speaking in Arabic]
[Tigerlily] Adnan told me that we need one look
to first enter the party,
and then we need to change into our second look
so that we can present ourselves to everyone
as a married couple for the first time.
I don't really know if
this is a Jordanian thing or an Adnan thing.
If they have more than one outfit,
it's more special. [chuckles]
-[Shay] We're almost there. -[chuckles]
[Adnan singing]
You're so pretty today, baby.
-She's pretty every day. -[Adnan] I know.
Baby, I'm gonna take my shirt off since you have yours off.
[Shay speaking]
[Tigerlily] I'll be... I'll take my shirt off
-so we're matching. -[Adnan] No!
[Tigerlily] Okay.
-Yeah. -[Tigerlily] I go swimming.
-Okay. I'll wear a bikini. -[Shay] Could she...
-Could she wear a bikini? -[Tigerlily] I'll wear a bikini then.
-Well, then, put your shirt back on. -[Adnan] Okay.
[Adnan speaking in Arabic]
[Tigerlily] I was trying not to get annoyed
in the middle of our wedding celebration, but,
this is definitely a double standard.
He's, like, shirtless in our changing room
with Shay here,
and it's okay because he's a guy.
But it's not okay for me to be
alone in a room with men, fully clothed.
Shouldn't his body be only for me, too?
Oh, that's good. You have a shirt on now, honey.
[man speaking in Arabic]
[Shay] Okay, so now I have to get you undressed, but...
Okay, I have to get undressed.
[Adnan speaking in Arabic]
-There's, like, four guys in here. -[Shay chuckling]
[Tigerlily] Maybe if we had, like, two different...
Maybe if we had, like, a girl and a guy's room.
-[Shay] Yeah. -'Cause, like,
-I can't do anything. -[Shay] We need, like, a girl's and a guy's thing.
[men speaking in Arabic]
[Adnan speaking in English]
-[men speaking in Arabic] -[Adnan speaking in Arabic]
[Tigerlily] It's already been, like, 10 minutes and I haven't done anything.
There are three people
helping Adnan get into his suit.
A suit!
Meanwhile, I have this complicated dress.
There are ties
and a million buttons
and clasps and hookey things.
But Adnan's in here with his guys, and there are
these rules that I have to adhere to.
So I'm just waiting.
I'm gonna go sit down if we're not gonna do anything.
Is this how it is in Muslim culture,
where women are just supposed to wait
and this is their place?
Below the man?
[Tigerlily speaking]
It's moments like this that make me think
this is what our future
as a married couple will look like.
And that will definitely not fly with me.
[Shay] Can you do that... Can you do that out there?
[man speaking]
[Niles] Thank you, sir.
I'm finally going to Ghana to meet Matilda.
I'm gonna be able to just squish her cheeks.
Squishy, squishy, squishy, squishy.
It's my first time being alone in the airport.
I usually have my family here with me.
Traveling across the world is not easy for someone
who's neurodivergent.
The reality's starting to set in.
It's now in God's hands.
[exhales]
[Brian] Last night, I explained to Ingrid about my past.
I did not expect her
to react the way that she did.
I'm worried that she might not recover from what she's learned.
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[upbeat rock music playing]
[bird tweeting]
[Niles] Okay...
That's good.
One, two, three, four.
The laundry pods.
Counting all of my items, taking inventory,
it helps me feel like I'm in control,
which is really important because,
after two years of talking on social media,
I'm finally going to Ghana
to meet Matilda for the very first time.
Shampoo. Conditioner.
Please be in there.
Okay. Got my toothbrush.
Traveling across the world is not easy
for someone who's neurodivergent.
It's overwhelming for me.
Okay. One,
two, three. Okay.
But it'll all be worth it
because I'm finally going to be able
to talk to Matilda in person.
I'm gonna be able to just squish her cheeks.
Squishy, squishy, squishy, squishy.
Except there'll actually be a face in my hands.
This is for her.
It's a little... It's a gift for her.
It's a necklace.
It's not much, but it's what I can do right this instant.
No.
And I am gonna need to sit down and talk to her about this.
I haven't been as straightforward with Matilda as I need to be
about the wedding that she's already planning.
The truth is I would really like
to get to know her better
and to see if Matilda understands
just what it's truly like to live with someone who has autism.
All right.
And also, I really want my family
to be there when we get married.
But right now,
they don't support my relationship with Matilda.
My family is most concerned about
me being taken advantage of,
me being talked into something
that I may not be able to get myself out of.
And if I came back home a married man,
they would probably have a hard time accepting that.
I do feel like...
There comes a point where
you have to let the love take a backseat and say,
"Okay, well, I'm gonna respect him as an adult.
I'm going to trust that he can make,
that he can make good decisions."
[stutters] What do you think?
It really does hurt.
I would have liked for them to have been here with me,
to have supported me in this.
I really would have.
I couldn't bear to tell Matilda
that my parents didn't really support this relationship.
That's another thing I'm gonna have to break to her.
I hate holding back the truth from Matilda,
but I really just don't wanna hurt her.
I'm all over the place right now, to be honest with you.
There's so many feelings.
Excitement. Fear.
[exhales]
[man speaking]
[Niles] Thank you, sir.
How you doing today, sir?
[man speaking]
I'm doing all right. As well as I can be.
[man speaking]
That's it.
[man speaking]
I imagine.
Now the reality's starting to set in.
I mean, I'm here. There's no turning back.
It's now in God's hands.
It's my first time being alone in the airport.
I usually have my family here with me.
But time for me to start, you know,
pursuing my destiny, whatever that is.
I have so many thoughts buzzing around in my head right now.
What is she gonna think of me?
What is she gonna think about my mannerisms?
Am I gonna smell funny?
And, of course, how am I going to tell Matilda straight out
that there is no wedding on this trip?
It is difficult because
I never thought love
was something that could happen to me.
And here I am
about to go across the pond
to meet somebody who could love me,
who could give me that love and compassion
that I've been seeking my whole life.
I don't wanna ruin it.
Well, here it goes.
Boarding the plane.
Here I come, Matilda.
[chittering]
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[speaking Portuguese]
[Brian] I've been in Brazil for two days,
and it's our first day in Ingrid's hometown of Gurupi.
Last night, I had explained to Ingrid about my past.
I felt judged right away,
when I started to tell my story.
[in Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking]
[Brian in English] At the end of the night, things were very tense.
We slept in the same bed,
but very cold.
We both gave our backs and just turned around and went to sleep.
I did not expect her to react the way that she did.
Shows a lack of compassion and...
it... it makes me look at her in a different way.
That's not a good feeling.
[in Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking]
[in English] The plan for today was for Ingrid to go home,
to spend some time with her son.
But we really need to talk and put everything on the table.
[in Portuguese]
[in English] We have a very strong connection.
I feel it. It's just...
I'm worried that she may not recover from what she has learned.
[in Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking]
[Brian speaking]
[Ingrid speaking]
[Brian speaking]
[sighs]
[woman speaking]
Okay.
[woman speaking]
[Brian speaking]
[exclaims]
[Ingrid speaking]
[Brian speaking]
Okay.
[Brian] Mm-hmm.
[Brian in English] We always talked about how important
it is for me to get to know her kids.
So, I'm a little disappointed in the fact
that I won't be meeting her son right away.
It feels like she's taking a step back
and it's not a good sign.
[both in Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking]
[Chidi in English]
and you remember that I made you so many assurances.
I came all the way over here to feel the love from Chidi.
And I feel hurt and betrayed that Chidi is misguided by his faith.
Looking back, are you ashamed
of even flirting with me and loving me in that way?
[Loren] Things are finally starting to get romantic.
But now I have to tell her this terrible news.
So, we can't kiss.
Hmm?
I have gonorrhea.
[electronic music playing]
[Chidi speaking]
[Rayne] Uh, in certain areas.
But these trees are different, obviously.
[Chidi speaking]
[Rayne] Okay.
[Chidi speaking]
-Hmm? -[Rayne] Nothing.
Finally, yesterday I reviewed my vow of celibacy to Rayne,
and since then she seems a little distant.
-[Rayne] Here's a bigger step. -[Chidi] Okay. Thank you.
I am thankful...
...that something I said hurts someone I love so much.
[Rayne speaking]
[Chidi] Oh.
[Rayne] Oh, there's fishies down there.
[Rayne] No. There's like, goldfish,
but they're like... Like,
-that big. Like, they're not big big, but... -[Chidi] Oh.
[Rayne] So how am I doing guiding you?
[Chidi speaking]
No.
-You said "no"? -[Rayne] Yep.
[chuckles]
[Chidi] You know what?
That would be my life without you around me.
I love you so much.
I've been thinking about our conversation at the market a lot,
and I feel hurt and betrayed
that Chidi has changed his mind about premarital sex.
But despite how misguided Chidi is by his faith,
I still love him.
I can't help it.
You know, that was really, really sweet words you just said.
-[Chidi chuckling] -You surprise me a lot.
But I must say, um...
I didn't mean to get a little angry at the market.
It just shocked me because all I wanted
was to, like, love and cuddle on each other.
And actual just love and connection.
You know what I mean? Like, I wasn't looking for just sex.
I wanted, like, the physical attention.
Just to be alone with you and go for walks and hang out.
And... that's all I wanted.
[Chidi sighing]
-Yeah. -Of course, I would have wanted more, but...
But I respect your decisions.
But I'll be waiting.
[Chidi] Wow.
-Divam. -[both laughing]
I... I appreciate your...
profound understanding.
I am surprised that Rayne apologized
for getting angry at the market.
In fact, we've had some fights,
and this is the first time for the five years
Rayne ever apologized to me for anything.
I am not surprised
it came as a shock to you because...
...phone calls, and...
I can remember that I made you so many assurances.
Meeting me at that point, looking back that far now,
-were... are you ashamed of even flirting with me... -[Chidi] Well...
...and... and loving me in that way?
-Are you ashamed of it now? -No. I am not because, um...
that was...
who I was at that time.
But we are all human beings and, uh...
Uh, but, you know...
I love you and will forever love you,
and I want to do it with you.
But... I just wanna do it at the right time. And...
[Rayne] I understand where you're coming from.
But I really, honestly, would like affection.
That's all I'm asking.
[Chidi] Here,
[Rayne chuckling]
-Right? -Yes.
[kisses]
Thank you.
I'm not a sex-crazed person.
I didn't come all the way over here just for that.
I came all the way over here to feel the love from Chidi specifically.
So, him telling me
that he's gonna start touching me more
and rubbing, like, cuddling...
That's all I want.
[Chidi] Now come to me.
[Rayne laughing] Don't throw me over.
[both laughing]
-Oh, my God. I think we're near. -Yeah?
-I'm so excited. -I know.
Beautiful landscape. Beautiful girl.
Perfect day.
[indistinct chatter]
[Faith speaking]
We're here.
At the Wawa Dam.
[chickens clucking]
-[Loren] Looking good, right? -[Faith] Yes.
-Go down right here? Yeah. -[Faith] Super nice.
[Faith] Let's go. I'm so excited.
Oh, be careful.
[Loren laughing]
[Loren] I'm excited Faith organized this trip today.
The Wawa Dam is beautiful.
[Faith] We can go down there,
touch the... touch the water.
We're only 35 kilometers from Manila.
But this countryside is exactly what I imagine the Philippines to be.
[Faith speaking]
Get those feet together, right? Mermaids don't have feet.
-[both laughing] -Yeah.
It's really good that Faith has totally just opened up,
and I'm so happy she finally seems so at ease around me.
I really hope we keep building our chemistry today
before having a fun conversation about STDs and monogamy.
[Faith] Um, we want to swim?
Yeah, we're gonna swim.
That's why we're here, right? Water.
[Faith] Yeah. I really love swimming.
It's so nice. It's so cold.
-Are you ready? -I'm ready.
[Faith speaking]
-[both laughing] -[Loren] Sexy.
[Faith speaking]
[woman vocalizing]
It's so nice.
[Faith] It's very nice to be swimming together with Loren
because being the water gives me confidence as a woman.
I know Loren's not perfect...
[Loren] What?
[Loren speaking]
[Faith speaking]
[Loren] Come on. You are.
Even before I met you, I said I loved you. Right?
-You know you're beautiful. -Mm-hmm.
-[Loren] You're from the Philippines. -Yes.
[Loren] Hardworking.
Right? And you're serious.
Yeah. I think, about us.
You're a ladyboy.
My dream.
[Loren] It's my dream, marry someone just like you.
We just had this amazing time together.
Things are finally starting to get romantic.
But now I have to tell her this terrible news.
I can't put this off any longer,
and she deserves to know the truth.
-Let's go. -Yeah.
[Faith speaking]
-I did really enjoy it. -[Faith] Mm-hmm.
So, yeah.
Feel like, kissing energy.
[Faith] Mm-hmm.
[Loren] So, we can't kiss.
[Faith] Hmm?
We can't kiss.
[Faith speaking]
[Loren] Well...
I have gonorrhea.
"Gonorrhea"?
[Loren] It's a sexually transmitted disease.
I have gonorrhea.
"Gonorrhea"?
[Loren] It's a sexually transmitted disease.
[Faith speaking]
Yeah.
Um, when you get this kind of, you know, disease?
[Loren] Remember I sent you the picture on Halloween
of the girl from Thailand?
I did. But she spend the night.
-[Faith] With you? -Yeah.
Did you having sex together?
Yeah.
[Faith speaking]
-They said, "I have gonorrhea..." -[Faith] Mm-hmm.
"...and that means maybe you have it too.
So you need to get checked before I give to somebody."
And I said, "Oh, my gosh."
[Faith speaking]
We are here dating for how many months?
-[Loren] Online? -Yes, online.
Well, I hadn't met you yet.
It don't count as cheating until I meet you, right?
[Loren] Yeah. You think so?
[Loren] You think so?
Okay.
I know that he sleep at other houses,
but he never told me that...
And I was never suspicious because I trusted him.
That really hurts.
I know. But it's treatable.
You get one shot, it's over.
Go back to Manila?
Ah, yeah.
[Loren] For me, it was just meaningless sex.
But I don't think Faith fully understood
that I was sleeping with other people.
So I do kind of feel guilty about what I did.
...and my heartbeat goes faster
because he lied on me.
[in Filipino]
[Loren in English] Okay. Long trip back.
Nice and awkward.
[birds chirping]
[Veah] Do I have everything? Probably [bleep] not.
I really just got to sort all this [bleep].
And then I'll feel better.
I mean, I did bring some crackers.
There's so much [bleep]. That's just disorganized.
I'm really freaking overwhelmed.
A lot of things are going through my head and my heart right now.
I don't know what it's going to be like
to touch and hold Sunny for the first time.
And I have mixed feelings about leaving the country
because I'm just really unprepared
for a lot of things to be different.
And so I guess the change is kind of...
making me... a little nervous. And then the long flight.
[sniffles]
I have to fly, and...
For several hours, and...
I didn't really sleep,
so I just feel like I'm an emotional wreck.
[sniffles]
Maybe it's the nerves or the anxieties,
you know, every time I travel, but...
this is not how I want to meet him for the first time.
I have two full days of traveling internationally to South Africa
before I can be with Sunny.
He's worth it, but this is a lot for me.
-Cab for Veah? -[driver] Yep.
This is exactly why I'm glad I'm not doing it by myself.
[keypad tapping]
[notification chiming]
My ex-boyfriend Rory is traveling with me,
but I haven't told Sunny
because he can get very jealous at times.
He's not super happy about me being friends with my ex,
and it's definitely caused fights between us.
As crazy as this sounds,
if I didn't have Rory going with me,
I wouldn't be brave enough to get on the plane.
I'm comfortable with Rory. Rory knows me.
And so I'm hoping that when I get there
and explain that to Sunny, he'll be understanding.
-[Rory] Ready to go to the airport? -[Veah] Yeah.
-[both laughing] -I was just about to say that. Jinx.
Yeah. Jinx you owe me a Coke.
Do you have everything packed?
[Veah] I think so. I hope so.
Do you know what we're doing when we get...
when we land in South Africa?
What's our... What's our game plan? What's going on?
I was thinking that you could go to your hotel.
-[Rory] Yeah. -And that I could, um...
Sunny's gonna pick me up and I could go with Sunny.
And then I was thinking I would tell him then
about you being there.
I want you guys to meet in the first couple of days. But...
I don't... I don't know.
I'm just nervous.
I'm scared. I don't want him
to flip the [bleep] out and break up with me.
He's gonna have to control himself.
I'm just here to make sure you're safe and comfortable.
So if he's got an issue, he's gonna have to just [bleep] get over it.
Like, I don't want him to say something stupid to you.
So, at that point, I'm gonna have to step in.
I'm not gonna... to put up with him being disrespectful.
I don't know. Talking about it, it's making me anxious again.
Like, I'm literally going there in hopes that he's going to propose.
And I don't want this to be a setback of him not proposing to me.
You really hope he's... You really think he's gonna propose to you?
[chuckles nervously]
-I, I don't know. -[Rory] Are you--
-He said something about that. -[Rory chuckles]
Don't you think that's kinda soon?
No, because we've been on video chat for the past year.
I'm all about making dumb decisions,
but God damn, that's one of 'em.
[laughs]
Three weeks of knowing somebody in pe-- That's way too soon.
My biggest concern,
based off what I've heard from in the past from his behavior,
is how he's gonna treat her.
I think it's important if I meet him,
just to get a feeling for him,
and if I think he's a scumbag then he'll hear about it.
[Veah] There's the airport
and there's a plane taking off.
This is crazy.
[Veah] This is it. Here we go.
[Rory speaking]
All right, hey. I was...
You have your passport and stuff ready?
Make sure you can access it at all times.
[airport attendant speaking]
[Rory chuckles] You didn't sign your passport, goof.
My God.
-[Veah] Where do I sign? -[Rory speaking]
Yeah, sorry about that.
-That's such a rookie mistake. -That was so embarrassing.
You are such a, such a nerd.
♪♪ We ♪
♪♪ Yeah, we better run ♪
[airport security speaking]
♪♪ Run like the wind ♪
Now that I'm getting closer to meeting Sunny for the first time,
it's really getting real, like...
I'm like, oh, wow, this is going to happen.
This is where we're at.
Oop, and we found our seats.
I'm excited just for all our first moments together.
Like the first time we kiss, the first time we hold hands.
The first time we hug.
First time we get to sleep in the same bed together.
Wow.
This is nice.
But at the same time, there's so much going through my mind.
I'm on the plane,
and I still haven't told Sunny that Rory is here with me.
Like, holy freaking crap.
Am I making the right decision?
Like, what if Rory and Sunny just end up fighting
and don't get along?
I'm scared that this is gonna be messy as [bleep].
[Rayne]You believe that I was brought here
by God himself as a miracle.
Because your blindness,
it's just not a normal occurrence.
[chuckles] What?
[Rayne] Like, the whole thing is spiritually connected?
Because if you could see, I wouldn't be here.
[Chidi] I love her deeply, but...
And conversations like this
gives me a great deal of worry and concern.
Thank you.
After our walk in the park yesterday,
I think Chidi is really trying
to be more affectionate towards me.
I think he's trying.
Entrance is over here.
Yay! We get to see monkeys. [chuckles softly]
Today, Chidi brought me to a beautiful nature conservatory.
And it's so perfect
'cause he knows how much I love to be around animals.
Okay, we're gonna turn here, there's a step.
This is what I flew all the way to Nigeria for,
to spend all these moments with Chidi
and to always have him to myself
Like, that's all I want,
is 24 hours a day to never leave his side again.
Ooh, it's a pretty walkway.
-[Chidi] Oh. -[Rayne laughs]
There's, like, a swamp.
-Everywhere you turn is green. -[Chidi] Wow.
[Rayne] Oh, it's so pretty.
Like, what do you see now?
Can you, like, see any light at all?
Like, what do you see?
[Chidi] Well, um...
-[Rayne] Is it gray or black? -[Chidi] Gray.
And sometimes, I feel the sparks of different colors.
But I can still sense the beauty of the place.
-[birds chirping] -[water flowing]
[Chidi] Oh, man. It's awesome.
-[thuds] -Oh.
[Rayne] I feel bad for Chidi,
especially knowing that he got to see the beauty and then it was taken.
Broken board coming up.
-Step over, there. -Thank you.
[Rayne] That would definitely be hard,
knowing that you're missing out on so much.
Ah, a monkey.
-[Chidi] Oh, there's a monkey there? -[Rayne] That's a monkey.
Yes. He's right here.
Hi, bubba.
Look at monkey. Say hi.
-Wow. How does he look like? -Hi.
Oh, he has tiny, tiny little eyes and a cute little mouth.
-He's a little fatty. -[monkey screeches]
[both laughing]
[Chidi] Wow. I wish we had come with a banana.
[Rayne] I've been waiting my whole life to touch a monkey.
-[Chidi] Really? -[Rayne] My entire life,
-as far back as I could think. -[Chidi] Wow. Wow.
[Rayne] I love him.
[laughs]
Look, look, look. We're at the top now.
-[Chidi] At a top? -[Rayne] Yeah, so it's so far.
-[Chidi] It's really high? -[Rayne] Yeah, it's high.
Like, um, the waters under this wall,
is it the same waters under the lower one?
Yes, it's just, right now you're like,
above some of the trees,
and then the other trees are still, like,
-way surpassing us. -[Chidi] Okay, wow.
[Rayne] I wish you could see it.
[Chidi] Yeah.
You mentioned the apple hitting you on the forehead.
But I'd like to know exactly, like, how you went blind.
-[clears throat] -[Rayne] Like, what happened?
[Chidi] Um...
I had a cousin. They have this apple tree.
He climbed the tree.
I was on ground, catching it.
All of a sudden, one just fell off from and hit me
on this right eye.
The pain was so excruciating.
But that night...
Everything became normal until a year later.
It's a kind of eye disease
-that is cause as a result of pressure in the eyes. -[Rayne] Mmm-hmm?
[Chidi speaking]
...that, um, it won't get better.
Then...
...I fell.
Hit this left eye on a wooden bench.
And I was taken to the hospital and...
[Rayne] Sorry.
If I could pay for some surgery to help you see again,
I would do everything for you
-just so that you can live your life again. -[Chidi] Aww.
Thanks so much for being the light.
[Rayne] But you know the whole thing about being blind, like,
do you believe that you became blind spiritually?
[chuckles softly] What?
[Rayne] Like, the whole thing is spiritually connected?
Because if you could see, I wouldn't be here.
When I met Chidi after he told me he was blind,
I felt kind of relieved.
Like, oh, my God, I don't have to be so self-conscious anymore.
It allowed me to feel closer to him
than anybody I had ever been with.
It's crazy how it happened
with him losing his eyesight on two different incidents.
I definitely don't think that's no coincidence.
I think something spiritual happened to him
that made him lose his sight,
so that we could come together.
It's just adding up to, like, the perfect thing.
You believe that I was brought here by God himself
as a miracle.
Because your blindness,
it's just not a normal occurrence.
I mean, we've all been smacked in the face countless times.
-Um... [chuckles] -[Rayne chuckles]
[both laugh]
Well, um, of course.
I believe.
Honestly speaking,
Rayne's interest in my condition
is one of the things that makes me love her the most.
But she says bizarre and weird things like...
Which is outlandish and, um, kind of insulting.
...on how such a person could, you know...
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
I know that Ingrid asked for space,
but I need to stop by
and let her know that I care about her.
[speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
[Brian] This could've been a really bad idea.
[Adnan speaking]
Baby, I couldn't start until you were done.
[Shay] She should've gotten dressed first before you.
Babe.
-[knocking at door] -[Shay speaking]
-[Brian speaking Portuguese] -[florist speaking Portuguese]
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
This morning, I dropped Ingrid at home so she can be with her son.
But it feels really weird being apart from Ingrid
because I really don't know what she's thinking.
-[speaking Portuguese] -[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[speaking Portuguese]
-[Brian speaking Portuguese] -[speaking Portuguese]
[both speaking Portuguese]
I know that Ingrid asked for space,
but I need to stop by
and let her know that I care about her.
I wanna make this work.
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[cell phone ringing]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
-[Brian speaking Portuguese] -[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid laughs]
[Brian] I'm a little nervous
'cause I know that I'm taking a chance
showing up at her, at her, at her place.
[speaking Portuguese]
-[Ingrid speaking Portuguese] -[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[Brian] This could've been a really bad idea.
-[Ingrid speaking Portuguese] -[Brian speaking Portuguese]
-[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
-[Ingrid speaking Portuguese] -[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
-[kisses] -[Ingrid chuckles softly]
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
-[Ingrid speaking Portuguese] -[Brian speaking Portuguese]
-[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid gasps] Ah!
[speaking Portuguese]
[both speaking Portuguese]
-[Ingrid speaking Portuguese] -[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
-Whoo! -[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
-[Brian speaking Portuguese] -[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
[Brian] Ingrid's house was not built
with the wheelchair accessibility in mind.
If anything, it looks like it was, [laughs]
it was against wheelchair accessibility.
-[Brian speaking Portuguese] -[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
Hello.
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
-[Arthur speaking Portuguese] -[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
-[Ingrid speaking Portuguese] -[Brian speaking Portuguese]
-[Ingrid speaking Portuguese] -[Brian laughs]
-Oh. -[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
-[Brian speaking Portuguese] -[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid gasps]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
-[Arthur speaking Portuguese] -[Brian speaking Portuguese]
-[Ingrid speaking Portuguese] -[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[both laugh]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
-[Arthur speaking Portuguese] -[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
[Brian] I'm really glad I came.
Meeting Arthur is a joy.
He's just a perfect little boy.
And it stays in my mind a little bit
that there's a possibility that this could,
this could be it, this could be my family.
[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid] Oh!
-[laughs] -[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
-[Brian speaking Portuguese] -[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
-[Brian speaking Portuguese] -[kisses]
[speaking Portuguese]
[Ingrid speaking Portuguese]
-[kisses] -[Brian speaking Portuguese]
[speaking Portuguese]
[Shay] Can you do that out there?
Can you do that outside?
-This is gonna take a long time. -[speaking Arabic]
Okay, yeah.
Shay and I are trying as fast as we can
to get into my second wedding dress.
But I'm waiting for Adnan to finish getting ready.
-We have everything? -[Tigerlily] Yeah.
But if I'm gonna have only five minutes,
then it's not enough time.
Baby. Okay, baby.
-[Shay] Adnan, everybody has to leave real quick. -[Tigerlily] I need--
[Adnan] Okay, guys, get out.
Thank you. Get out.
[Adnan speaking Arabic]
-[Adnan speaking] -[Shay speaking]
So now, I only have five minutes,
which is just pretty much impossible.
[Shay] Is this tight enough?
Yeah, a little bit tighter.
-[knocking at door] -[Shay] Go away.
Wow, this is so gorgeous.
[Adnan speaking]
I know Tigerlily to get ready a long time.
-[Tigerlily] Okay, let's find my foot. -[Shay] Yeah.
Okay, one at a time.
[Adnan] Baby?
-[Tigerlily] I need Cruz to do my veil and my... -[Adnan] Okay. Cruz?
Yeah, yeah.
-He's coming. -[Tigerlily] Okay.
[Cruz] Wow.
[Adnan speaking]
Babe.
-Baby, I couldn't start until you were done. -[Adnan] Okay.
[Shay] She should've gotten dressed first before you.
-Oh, wow. -[Adnan speaking]
[man speaking Arabic]
-I know. Let my queen get ready. -[chuckles softly]
Okay?
-[Tigerlily] Love you, honey. So much. -[Adnan speaking]
[Adnan] I am stressed.
But I see her and I'm forget everything.
And just, I can't believe this is my wife.
She is so pretty and beautiful.
And I'm so lucky to have wife like this.
You're so beautiful, baby.
-That's okay. Yeah. -That's okay?
[Tigerlily] Even though there are some things that we need to work on,
I know that Adnan is the love of my life.
When the love is there,
then there's not gonna be anything that would be a deal breaker.
Like, if I found out that Adnan was, like,
a serial killer or something,
as long as he didn't wanna, like, turn me into a skin suit,
then that would be okay.
We would find a way to stop his serial killing
because I love him.
Are you ready?
[Tigerlily] Yeah.
[captivating music playing]
[Tigerlily speaking]
I am just speechless.
Adnan has done everything to make this wedding celebration
just like a fairy tale.
And I am so proud to be Adnan's wife.
[women ululating]
[Tigerlily] I really feel like royalty right now.
I feel now I am a king with my queen, Tigerlily.
[Tigerlily] Oh, my God.
[DJ] Are you ready?
[upbeat music playing]
[man 2 speaking Arabic]
In a Jordanian wedding,
the man and woman, they dancing separate.
[all exclaiming]
[Adnan] I having so much fun 'cause everyone here is...
[in Arabic]
[in English]
But shouldn't it be called... [speaking Arabic]
[in English] "Adnan and Tigerlily?"
[upbeat music playing]
[Tigerlily speaking]
[Cruz] This is the biggest, outrageous wedding I've ever been to.
As far as them being in love,
I'm seeing it now.
[Shay speaking]
[Cruz] There's good energy between them.
But I get a vibe where it is more about him.
[Cruz] Yeah, if this relationship may not last,
it was still a badass wedding!
[all exclaiming]
[Tigerlily speaking]
[Adnan speaking]
You did so good, baby.
[Tigerlily] You did, like, better than I could have ever imagined.
-[Adnan speaking] -[Tigerlily] Yeah.
And I love you so much.
[Niles] It's a big airport.
Autism really hampers me in social situations.
I'm concerned about stepping into a new culture.
[Hayford in other language]
[Enoch in other language]
Oh.
[Matilda speaking]
[Niles] Flight one, down.
It's a big airport.
I'm on my way to meet my girlfriend, Matilda, in Ghana,
and I don't think I've ever been so nervous,
but I've also never been this excited, either.
The duality of man, wouldn't you say?
Traveling, in general, is overwhelming for me.
[indistinct conversation]
[Niles] The noise, the lights, the new surroundings,
around a lot more people than you're used to.
In stressful moments like this,
I do try to work through it.
I do self-soothing gestures...
Yes, there's a little more people here.
Speaking to myself aloud, rubbing my temples,
rubbing my... my face,
constantly looking around, looking away.
It soothes me, it gives me a minute
to just really reorient myself.
All right.
Aside from my problems with traveling,
autism really hampers me in social situations.
So, I'm concerned about stepping into a new culture
because I barely understand
the culture that I was born to.
We'll get our... get ourselves together.
There's gonna be so many expectations,
so many things I'm... I'm supposed to do,
so many situations I'm gonna be expected to handle
But it's gonna be worth it, to meet Matilda.
Flight number two.
Matilda, here I come.
You just have to wait a little longer.
[Matilda in other language]
[in English] My name is Matilda.
I'm 23 years of age.
I'm from Offinso, Ghana.
When when I was a little girl, I wanted to be a soldier.
[chuckles]
[in other language]
[Hayford laughs]
[Enoch in other language]
[Hayford speaking]
[man in other language]
[Matilda in English] To me...
they don't have big restaurants.
[in other language]
-[Enoch speaking] -[Vida laughs]
[Matilda in English] And that is about to happen
because I am getting ready to marry
my amazing American boyfriend, Niles.
Niles is a sweet guy, very sensitive,
and he always makes me laugh.
And I've been talking to him on the phone every day.
...but all the same, I love him.
And I'm excited...
[in other language]
[Enoch speaking]
[Enoch laughs]
-[Enoch] Oh. -Uh-huh.
[Enoch speaking]
Oh.
[in English]
[Abena in other language]
[Hayford speaking]
[Abena speaking]
[Matilda in English] In Offinso, it's hard to make money.
But he passed away.
Since then, I help my mom to sold the plantain.
So I'm worried for my family.
[in other language]
[Hayford speaking]
[Abena speaking]
[Matilda speaking]
[in English]
[in other language]
[Matilda in English]
-[in other language] -[Abena speaking]
[Matilda in English] When Niles and I together,
I think my life will change,
and I am excited.
But this wedding and everything we need to do...
And I'm a little bit afraid...
...because of his autism.
[in Filipino]
[in English]
[in Filipino]
[in English]
Yes--
It is, yes.
[Faith speaking]
No.
No, no, no.
You don't--
Am I the first person you know who get gonorrhea?
It's okay. It's-- Doctor gonna fix.
[Faith in other language]
[in English]
How many times?
No, you didn't ask if I was sleeping with people.
But you have to know.
-You had to have known... -Okay.
...that I'm having sex the whole time.
[Loren] Yeah?
[Loren] Well, I didn't think it mattered.
If I sleep with someone or not.
But I haven't meet you yet,
so I didn't think it was cheating.
[in Filipino]
You're gonna come all the way in or talk from there?
Okay.
-[Faith] Mm-hmm. -Mm-hmm.
Whatever you want.
-[Faith] Okay. -Okay?
[Loren] I know.
[Faith speaking]
[Loren] Mm-hmm.
I really messed up.
We're probably breaking up.
I feel bad that Faith is so hurt.
And, you know, I'm realizing that I should have been clearer from the start.
She sees what I did as betrayal.
And I don't know what I can do to make it right.
[chuckles]
I'm freaking out because I'm gonna meet
my boyfriend for the first time,
but I have my ex-boyfriend here with me.
I wish I could see her right now.
-Rory, come over here more. -We're fine.
Are you sure? Because I can literally see out that door.
If Sunny sees Rory right now,
it'd be a complete [bleep] show.
Everything could go south.
[Veah speaking]
[Sunny speaking]
So, I thought it's a good idea.
Both of us could have a privacy,
and we can get to know each other more better.
And that's why I'm kind of
trying to be make everything perfect.
I never get a chance to date a lot of women.
I had only one girlfriend,
and I had a first kiss when I was 21.
I just traveled for 36 hours across the world to meet Sunny for the first time.
Like, this is it, this is everything I waited for.
I have a mix of emotions.
I'm so excited that I'm like, "I don't know how this is gonna work out.
Like, I just wanna go out and meet Sunny.
I don't want Sunny to see Rory.
But we don't have a plan yet
of how this is all gonna go down."
I feel like it kinda is a messy situation
that hasn't got figured out.
Come up with a freaking code word.
Something I can text you,
um, to know that you can exit the building
because I do not want to chance Sunny seeing you.
So much anxiety.
[exhales]
[Sunny speaking]
But I really love Veah.
I feel like she's the perfect and right woman for my life.
[cell phone chimes]
Sunny just texted me, and he's here.
He's here.
Oh, my God.
[chuckles]
I'm honestly just flipping out on the inside.
Like, I don't know what to do.
I'm gonna meet my boyfriend for the first time,
but I have my ex-boyfriend here with me.
Like, I feel so anxious and so nervous.
I wish I could see her right now.
Rory, come this way.
-Come over here more. -We're fine.
-Quit freaking out. -Are you sure?
Because I... I can literally see that door.
[Rory speaking]
[Veah] Right after baggage claim,
there's, like, glass doors,
like, right here, and I'm just thinking, like,
Sunny could, like, walk up to them
and easily see Rory.
It'd be a complete [bleep] show.
Everything could go south.
Our relationship could be over before it even begins.
Come this way a little bit more.
-Oh, my God. -[Veah speaking]
[Rayne] Next time, on Before the 90 Days...
[in Portuguese]
When I told her I'm sleeping with people, she was under the impression
that only meant sleeping, so she's a little pissed.
If they wants to be exclusive, are you gonna be okay
of not exploring other people.
[Loren] I feel like if you love each other enough,
then sleeping around shouldn't be an issue for each other.
[exclaiming] My love!
Right now, I'm just enjoying my time with Matilda.
But I know I'm gonna have to come clean tonight...
[Hayford speaking]
[Veah] This is crazy.
I don't want a big, explosive situation right now.
Wait till we exit.
[Rory speaking]
I'm a grown-ass man hiding in the airport from this kid.
[Rayne speaking]
So deep and spiritual.
Why do you look so angry?
-[man] No, no. -[Rayne] Throughout this whole time
you've been looking real angry.
I've been getting some weird vibes off Victoria.
It's kind of like a real dark energy
that vibrates throughout my body.
When we look at each other in the eyes,
there's something there.
When I don't get along with people, I move on. I don't linger.
-Hey. -[laughs]
Wait, so you're allowed to shake girls' hands,
but I can't shake Cruz's hand.
I am feeling completely betrayed.
You have different rules than me?
Not different rules.
I'm not going to be in a relationship with someone that doesn't respect me.
You make me so angry and so stressful.
These are your rules. These aren't even my rules.
That's even worse.
[Adnan] Where are you going?
It's a big problem when you, uh, leave your husband.