[man] Previously on Before the 90 Days...
[grunts]
I'm so excited that I'm finally leaving to meet
my incredibly gorgeous girlfriend in person.
Okay.
But we haven't communicated a lot recently and it's making me feel weird.
And when I start getting anxious, it's like lightning coming out of my butt.
Oh, man, that's not good.
My insecurities are starting to creep back in.
Maybe she's having second thoughts.
I have to put myself out there and hope for the best.
My heart just dropped.
Meeting your mom and your family is actually of utmost importance to me.
I'll be honest with you, Meisha, I need to talk to them.
You say... Wait, hold on. So you haven't told them?
No.
It just makes me feel like he is actually the one bothered with my past.
[Cleo speaking]
[Cleo] Christian said that he is totally fine with dating a trans woman.
Hi.
But I have noticed some mixed signals.
All right. I'm going to bed.
It will be worrying if this doesn't change within, you know, a day.
Hi, baby.
It's good to see you. What's been happening?
Do you know anything about Jasmine and Dane?
She dated like 2018, 2019, if I'm not mistaken.
Oh, so right before she met me kinda?
[Ura] Yes.
[Gino] Jasmine's ex is in her life,
and she's hiding it behind my back.
Something's going on here.
So some part of you still believes that there is some type of hope?
I was thinking, "What if Carmella was like in prison or something?"
And I found some stuff that he needs to know.
-This is a escort page. -[gasps]
[Lashanti] This is her, right?
What the [bleep]?
She was so adamant that I come off the dating app.
She was still on it.
See, that's the game.
I want to believe that I'm the only man that's in Violet's life.
But her behavior's making me really question it.
[Violet speaking]
[Riley] I want to be good to Violet.
I just don't like being lied to.
[Statler speaking]
I might kiss the ground. Not really, it's germy.
But in theory, I would.
I'm hoping she can get to England as quickly as possible.
So that we can finally be together.
I'm so excited to finally be meeting Dempsey for the first time in person
after months and months and months.
But Dempsey's connecting flight from Thailand was delayed,
so she missed her flight.
So I'm probably not going to see her until tomorrow.
I'm here, arrived, greeted by a friendly cleaning robot.
Big fan of robots, so that was cool.
Even if it was out of her control, it still sucks.
It's a huge blow.
Especially because our communication
has not been well in the past couple of weeks,
and so my insecurities are already pretty high.
So you add this on top of it and suddenly I'm like, "Did you do this on purpose?
Are you with someone else? Like what's going on?"
I mean, her not being here tonight is not what I was expecting,
or like... wanting.
I feel like the more time together, the better.
But just gonna try to stay in good spirits about it,
and, um, I'm hoping that this works out with me and Dempsey.
You know, I'm hoping 100% that this is kinda my endgame.
So, I've put all of my eggs into this basket.
I don't have a plan B.
Uh, this kinda decides the rest of my life.
So, if it doesn't go well...
Shrug emoji, like I don't know. I don't know.
Our plan was to meet at the airport,
get a train to Manchester, stay at a hotel for the night,
and then drive up to her place in Darlington.
Since Dempsey missed her flight,
and I already booked a really nice hotel room in Manchester,
I'm gonna go to the hotel because I'm gonna use this time to reset and relax,
and just try to get rid of my anxieties before the big meet.
Have you heard of Darlington?
Yeah, kind of farm land a little bit?
[Statler laughs] Yeah, it gets pretty cold.
Oh, boy.
-[taxi driver speaking] -[Statler] Perfect. Thank you.
Why was she American? Did I just enter a friggin' wormhole?
Okay, now I can rest in peace,
but not in a dead way.
Hello, England.
Holy [bleep].
I think this is it. The Cow Hollow Hotel. Sweet.
-Here you go, here is your room. -Wow.
-These are beautiful walls. -[staff laughs]
-Yeah, so here's your room seven. -Wow.
And if you need anything, you can give us a call on the phone there.
-Oh, wow. -And then I'll give you your key there.
-Oh, cool. Thank you so much. That's perfect. -All right.
-Enjoy your stay. -Thank you so much. I will.
Most definitely.
Okay.
Kinda a cozy romantic place, but the toilet area is a problem.
Just because like here... Here.
But this is just England, they don't have a lot of space.
So, it's like, "Hello, I'm taking a [bleep]."
"Hi, I'm waiting to get laid."
"This is not a good situation because you can actively hear me releasing gas."
"Yeah, I know, I'm not turned on any longer."
That what it's going to be like.
Oh, I better get all my [bleep] out now.
[sighs heavily]
[Spanish music playing]
[Jasmine speaking]
[Gino] Oh, wow.
Today, Jasmine and I are going to the Panama Canal.
I've been dying to see it ever since I've come to Panama.
Because I'm an engineer
and the canal is one of the greatest feats ever for engineering.
-Oh, are we here? -[Jasmine] Ay, baby, yes.
-That is huge ship. -Look at it.
[Gino] It's such a cool place and so much history here.
I'm really interested to see how it operates
and like how the ship gets through the canal.
It should be pretty cool.
[Jasmine] Wow.
Look at that one. Oh, my gosh.
-[Gino] Wow. -[Jasmine] Ay, baby.
[Gino] That's pretty awesome.
[Jasmine] This is Miraflores Locks.
You know that the locks what they do
is they even the level of the water
so huge ships can pass through.
-[Gino] That's good. -[Jasmine] Right?
How do you feel as an engineer, baby, to see this?
Yeah, it's very awesome, you know, very awesome.
Aren't you proud that it was your government,
your country the one who built this?
Like, your country and my country
has always have like a love history.
Baby, I'm talking.
Sorry.
-That-- -I hear something. Okay.
I'm just... This canal is so interesting. Sorry.
[Jasmine] Hey, look at me.
You're good?
Yeah.
[Jasmine] Ever since last night, Gino's acting very weird,
and I don't understand why.
I'm a little bit concerned because we are running out of time
to figure it out, and work as a couple
before I move to America.
So, baby, it's just we need to work on communication.
I'm trying to communicate to you right now.
-All right. -[Jasmine] Okay.
Okay.
[Jasmine] You always get defensive.
[Gino] I'm good. Just let me be.
Well, listen, babe. With my ex-husband, I was with him for nearly eight years.
One of our biggest struggles was communication.
-That-- -Well, I was with my ex-wife and we never had any issues.
-Uh-- -But you ended up getting divorced.
Yeah, but we were together for seven years.
-And we got along. We didn't argue and we got along. -But how long--
Uh, because you were a boring relationship.
No, it wasn't boring.
Why you bring up your ex?
Well, why did you bring up your ex?
Because I needed to give an example.
Oh, okay, but you think it's okay you can bring up your ex and I can't?
Because you know that I get mad when you bring up your ex.
[Gino] It doesn't matter.
If you can do, I'm gonna do it.
Then you'll know what it feels like.
Anyway, let me enjoy this scenery.
I want to have a good time with Jasmine today
because we've had some rough seas
since I've been here and God knows we really need it.
But to be honest, in the back of my mind, I'm still thinking about Dane.
This is how you pay me back for bringing you here to see the Panama Canal?
Dane is just a guy that Jasmine said she's friends with.
But last night, Jasmine's friend Ura
told me that Dane is more than just a friend,
but her ex-boyfriend.
I'm worried that something might be going on between them.
Shoot.
My hands are so watery.
I can help you.
-Let me help you. -[Gino] No, no, no.
I got it.
Baby, what's going on? You're being very weird.
I'm going to have to be honest with you, um...
I've been a little concerned.
I know you told me you're talking with Dane and he's just a friend,
-but you lied to me. -What?
-Yesterday when we were dancing and stuff... -[Jasmine] Mmm-hmm.
...your friend Ura was saying that Dane was your ex.
Um, which I didn't even know.
So can you tell me what's going on?
[Jasmine] There is nothing going on.
[Gino] I don't know about that.
Are you?
Yes, it is crazy.
I mean, like... [laughs]
-I don't think it's funny. -I'm sorry, I'm not making fun of you.
-You know, like I laugh when I'm nervous. -Why are you nervous?
You cheating on me?
Just by like looking around here though,
like I don't think that I'm dressed...
Oh, my gosh, they're wearing dresses.
[Nicola] It's a wedding, Meisha.
[Meisha] It's a dress, I'm fitting in.
-I'm... I gotta change. I'll jump in your back seat. -[Nicola] Where are you...
-I'll go in the back seat. I'll go in the back seat. -[Nicola] Okay.
I'll go in the back seat.
[Nicola speaking]
-Guard, Nico, guard. -There's people coming, Meisha.
I don't want nobody to see you.
I still feel in my heart that this bond with Carmella is real.
I think I've come too far to just stop.
[Louis] So I did reverses on the photos on the escort site,
and we got a hit.
[quietly]
There's my baby, Meisha!
[Meisha] That's supposed to be me, but whatever.
[Nicola speaking]
-[speaking French] -[laughs] Thank you.
I've been in Israel a couple days now with Nicola,
and so far the trip has now been a sort of mixed bag.
[Nicola speaking]
-[Meisha] Yes. -[Nicola speaking]
One the one hand, I'm loving being in the Holy Land
and going to all these places with Nicola.
On the other end, I'm still struggling with
a lot of things that I'm seeing,
and expressing that are concerns to me
and they are not being heard or dealt with at all.
I would like to meet his family.
I mean, it's been seven years and they don't know anything about me.
We're thinking about spending our lives together
so that's not an outrageous request.
I think that it's a very normal and it's a very healthy request.
And if he comes through with that, if that happens,
then I could potentially start to feel a little bit better.
[Meisha speaking]
-[Nicola] Yes. -[Meisha speaking]
Okay.
Just by like looking around here though, I don't think that I'm dressed...
Oh, my gosh! They're wearing dresses!
I am not going to wear what I am wearing and everyone else
-is in dresses. Look at this. -[Nicola] It's a wedding.
That's a wedding dress? No, that's a dress.
Okay, maybe it's a wedding dress, I'm fitting in.
I gotta change. I gotta change, Nico.
-I gotta change. -[Nico] Okay, but you're going to do it very fast.
-I'll jump in our backseat. -What are you doing...
-I'll go in the backseat. I'll go in the backseat. -Okay.
-I'll go in the backseat. -[door closing]
[Nicola speaking]
-[Meisha] Guard, Nico, guard. -There's people coming, Meisha.
-I don't want nobody to see you. -[Meisha] Okay.
I don't understand why she start to feel obsessed about her clothes.
Will you zip that up back there?
[Nicola] I can get the zipper for you.
[Meisha] With my past vocation in television,
I am actually very used to swapping clothes
in every situation, in the weirdest accommodations.
You're very fast, huh, Meisha?
[Meisha] So if I want to switch into a dress and I don't have a bathroom,
I just have a car and a backseat,
it's no big deal to me.
Now let's go and look at this valley. Come.
Give me your hand.
-[Meisha] Oh, my God. -[Nicola] Look at this. La Haifa.
[Meisha] This is absolutely gorgeous.
[Nicola] Do you want to take a picture, Meisha?
-Yes. -[Meisha] Yes, I want to.
-Oh, my gosh. -One, two.
Could you... Get your... One, two.
[Nicola chuckles]
So cute, Meisha.
[Nicola speaking]
Aw, so cute.
[coos]
-Aw, did you see that? -[Nicola chuckles] Yeah.
So, do you think today's better than yesterday
after all the drama with my brother and my mom?
It's better today?
Yeah, well, I mean, like we haven't really opened that can of worms
and we haven't really talked about it.
-[Meisha] Yeah. -'Cause I get tired.
-[Meisha] So cute. -[Nicola] I know.
Um, have you texted your brother yet?
Yeah, yesterday.
-You did? -[Nicola] Yeah.
-[Meisha] Are you serious? -[Nicola] Yes, would I lie to you, Meisha?
-[Meisha] Well, I hope not. -[Nicola] Look.
It say that I am presenting you Meisha,
and she want to see you if you can come to Marahum.
Yeah.
-So, since you came to Israel... -Okay.
...the last 48 hours, you been rushing me with my family.
I'm taking stuff like slowly in life.
You want everything rush, rush, rush, rush, rush!
We've all the life together.
But we don't know if we have our entire lives together.
We need to figure that out over the next two weeks
because how could I think about the rest of my life
with someone who I feel like I don't even think he listens to me?
I don't even think he cares about how I feel. Do you know what that would be like?
This is why this two weeks is so important. We need to know this stuff
because... if I go home
not engaged to you, Nicola,
then this will be over.
-[sighs] -So we're not held captive in this space forever.
We have to have an answer.
[Nicola] Meisha never talk like that to me on the phone.
She say that we're meant to be together,
we will get married and nothing will separate us.
We will go through all the obstacles.
And it's the first time that...
I'm trying to listen to her,
but I'm not going to change.
I'm going to be the same person.
So that make me worried about our future because...
'Cause I love her so much.
Well, we'll see what'll happen, Meisha.
-We will see. -[Meisha] Yeah.
-We will. -[sighs]
-[Tyray grunts] -Hey.
Hey, thanks for picking me up.
You ready to head over there and talk to this guy?
Yeah, I'm ready.
Just kinda excited to kinda get...
-to that next step, you know? -Yeah.
[Tyray] After seeing her photos on the escort sites,
I wasn't getting any closer
to finding out about Carmella with my own research.
So I reached out to a private investigator for help
and I'm really hoping to get some answers today.
It's the moment of truth.
Yeah, the truth. [chuckles]
My heart's racing a little bit. I'm nervous. [chuckles]
[Lashanti] I'm nervous for you.
I still feel in my heart that it's bound with Carmella.
It's real.
And that it's Carmella's boyfriend or husband
trying to break us up.
[Lashanti] Right, thanks.
I'm finally ready to get to the truth.
Hey.
Hi, there. Good afternoon.
-Tyray. -My name's Louis.
-Nice to meet you, Louis. -Pleasure to meet you.
This is my sister Lashanti.
-Lashanti, pleasure to meet you. Louis. -Nice to meet you too.
Have a seat.
My name is Louis. And I've been a private investigator
for approximately 20 years.
I did receive a call from Tyray.
We talked a little while about his situation.
I believe that he was hoping that...
she was true and blue...
but I did find some information.
Obviously, I took the information that you gave me
and I began...
I got on the computer and began running...
phone numbers...
and some of the other items that you gave me.
You're ready?
[chuckles nervously]
Yes, I'm ready.
The phone numbers were either drop phones...
or, uh, they're set up for texting,
-so you can't... you can't trace the phones. -[Lashanti] Yeah.
Um, the email... I did track the email.
Uh, and it came back...
Did come back to a PayPal account
-and that's how you transferred the money. -Yeah.
[Louis] Now, unfortunately,
that information is unavailable.
It's private. It has to be subpoenaed.
-Okay. -[Louis] Okay.
So I did reverses on the photos
on the escort site
and, uh, we got a hit.
[Lashanti] Is it more escort sites?
Uh, no.
[Louis] This is a little raunchier.
[Lashanti] Hmm.
She is a cam porn... star.
-[Lashanti] What? -Wow.
Let me tell you what I think we have here, okay?
This is, uh, one of her main Twitter accounts.
"Sweet Carmella."
- Do you see that? -[Tyray] Yes, crazy.
And as you scroll down a little bit,
you'll notice that she's got some...
contact information there.
-[Lashanti] Mmm-hmm. -[Louis] Right?
She's got, uh, PayPal numbers
which didn't match
the PayPal account that you gave me.
And then, you go to over here to the "about".
-It said her name and underneath United States. -[Tyray] Yeah.
It says, like, she's like a fetish queen.
[Lashanti] Oh, wow.
[Tyray] Never seen this.
[Tyray] I'm trying to stay hopeful,
but I'm more confused than ever.
None of this lines up with,
you know, the Carmella I fell in love with.
This wasn't her.
Maybe the person behind the text
and this woman in the photos are two different people.
Oh, my God. [breathing heavily]
[Carmella on video] So...
you like beautiful, black goddesses, do you?
[Louis] Does it sound the same?
[Tyray] No. She sent videos but they didn't have sound.
You notice the background?
-[Tyray] Yeah. -[Louis] In some of the pictures
you sent me, that there was the same background
- of those moons. -[Tyray] Yeah.
No, I... I...
[sniffles]
That's not the Carmella I fell in love with.
This relationship with Carmella was everything to me.
We were like soulmates even though we haven't met in person.
And realizing this image
isn't the face I've been talking to
is devastating.
I... I'm angry about the fact
that someone, like, got me
with pictures of a porn star.
And then, at the same time, it's like,
I'm still a little confused.
So, like, since we do have,
a way to actually communicate with...
the real Carmella,
I do wanna reach out to her.
Maybe they're working together on their scam.
You never know.
I am suspicious, that, you know,
that Carmella and Christian
might have some type of connection.
[Louis] This is a very common...
They work in gangs or in groups.
-Yeah, you can only try. -Yeah, true.
I just wanna contact her to see if this is true.
Maybe she knows
and maybe that'll be my first step into getting answers.
And maybe she can lead me to him.
Like, I've come too far to just stop.
And after hearing all this,
I just feel like it's time for me to come clean
with the rest of my family.
But, it's so much harder to tell my mom
because she's been through so much already.
I feel like I'm at an age
where I shouldn't be making mistakes like this.
Are you okay?
Uh, today I don't feel good.
I mean...
Oh, my gosh.
[Riley] I arrived in Vietnam a few days ago.
And even though yesterday Violet and I had a...
a straight up blowout argument,
it ended well
because I got to finally meet her family.
So today we made plans
to meet at the War Remembrance Museum
in Ho Chi Minh City
and I'm hoping that we can get
everything back on track.
Mmm-hmm.
You just see... You see...
the eagle on the back?
-Mmm-hmm. -[Riley] It's a army signal for Screaming Eagles.
-It's the Airborne, they're paratroopers. -Ah.
[Riley] The War Remembrance Museum
is a documentation
of the Vietnam War with the Americans'
involvement and the atrocities that took place
and what happened because of it.
As a soldier, it, you know, as a person in the military,
I wanna just see the stories.
You feel sad?
-[Violet] Yes. -[Riley] Yeah, it's, uh...
War is bad, but it's part of the history.
Are you okay? You wanna...
Uh, today I don't feel good.
Oh, let's, uh...
Let's just sit down for a while.
We can talk. All right?
You know, last night we have dinner with family
-but, um... -Yeah.
Uh, after that when my mom talk with me, um...
I'm not trying to control.
I'm trying to understand what's going on.
I mean...
-Let me talk first? Yeah. -Okay, go ahead.
And, uh, second she say, um...
-I'm not thoughtful? -Yeah.
-When you come visit my home, you... -Yeah.
You don't...
Very bad.
-It was very bad? -Yeah, very bad.
In Vietnam, very bad.
How am I supposed to...
I don't know what's your mother like.
I don't know what's appropriate.
Mmm-hmm.
[Riley] All right. Fair enough.
And I... I feel horrible,
but it's not my intention
to disrespect you, your mother, your home...
your... your country.
I... That's not my intention.
I do need to learn more about your culture.
My question to you is...
when are you gonna learn about my culture?
I'll give you an example.
You call me fat and ugly in front of people.
What?
-You really said that? -[Violet chuckling]
Yeah. [chuckling]
All right.
In my culture,
in America, that's rude, that's disrespectful,
especially when a woman says that
about the man that she is with.
-Ah, really? I don't know. -Yeah.
It... It's...
We... We can be, like, if we are alone
and we're around family,
we can make the jokes like that
to each other.
But in front of strangers,
I'm a guest here.
I am... I am...
I seen one other person of my skin complexion here,
in this whole time I've been here.
You're not accustomed to us
so when you say it, it sounds like
it's a... it's an attack.
Because we're not light or whatever it may be.
I'm already a spectacle.
I'm a Black man in this country
and they're already looking at me differently
because I'm 6'4",
I am dark
and when you say, "Oh, he's ugly,"
you start feeding the stereotype
that if you're light skin Black, you're prettier...
versus dark skin Black.
It's very, uh, hurtful and disrespectful.
People are already looking at me.
How am I supposed to feel
when you talk in your language
and then you go,
"I say to her you are ugly"?
I don't have any context.
I don't know what you're talking about.
I don't know it's a joke.
It sound like it's a fact to you.
[speaking other language]
I do accept your apology. I do.
I don't wanna give up on us.
I think we have the potential,
but I think, fundamentally,
we're not understanding each other's culture.
-But I think that we... -So...
We have opportunity to...
to make this something good.
-Yeah. -Okay.
By... by paying attention,
by spending time asking questions.
I'm willing to... I'm willing to try...
because I care about you.
I care about you too.
So maybe we go to dinner together?
-Is that possible? -Yeah.
Yes.
I would really like you would wear a sexy dress.
-Oh. All right. -[laughing]
[Riley] So far this trip hasn't been so easy.
But it really feels that Violet and I
are starting to communicate more
and things are starting to open up for us.
I wanna believe that this is us
starting to get back on track,
but in reality we have a lot of issues
that we need to address.
I'm willing to put in the work
because I believe in us.
I just hope she does too.
Hey!
Taxi!
[groans]
I've been waiting months to meet Dempsey
and now that the moment's here,
I don't know if I've contracted a bug or something
but I am not feeling well.
My stomach is in knots.
I am freaked out.
I am really not feeling well.
Um...
I have been sick basically all night.
Uh...
It's... I've been having...
stomach issues...
like, intense nausea
and, um...
I haven't been vomiting.
I've had, like, lots of diarrhea.
[groans]
This is not the right day for this
because I'm seeing Dempsey today.
We're already a day behind.
I was supposed to see her yesterday.
And now I... I'm supposed to see her today
and I'm like, what's gonna happen?
Oh, my God!
This sucks.
There's no way I can meet Dempsey like this.
Like, I think I'd have to wear a diaper, legitimately.
[groans]
Oh, I'm super bummed.
It sucks. [sniffles]
I'm exhausted.
My body is just worn out
and I don't know if I've contracted
a bug or something,
but I am not feeling well.
Let's give her a spray.
[grunts] Anything to smell good.
I'm really hoping I'm not contagious
because I don't wanna miss any more days
of not seeing Dempsey.
I get stomach problems all the time,
but this one definitely feels different,
so it's time to go to the doctor.
Hi.
The doctor's appointment went really well.
I have a... a parasite.
And it kicked in pretty quickly
so I'm not feeling nauseous at the moment
and I'm not contagious.
Yeah.
I feel like just knowing what's wrong with me
makes me feel a little...
bit more pep in my step, so...
I think I wanna walk a little bit
and see if we can meet halfway maybe.
She said,
"Just walking around.
Whereabouts do you want to meet?"
It's starting to hit me
that I'm going to be...
in person, face to face,
with Dempsey very soon.
I just dropped a pin for Dempsey
so I think we're meeting somewhere up here.
Ugh.
I just need like a... a second.
I've been waiting months to meet Dempsey
and now that the moment's here,
I am freaked out.
I'm not feeling my best.
My stomach is in knots.
I'm not sure if I need a toilet soon.
I'm not sure if I'm gonna be able to keep it all in.
My heart is going a million miles an hour.
It feels like it's gonna just beat out of my chest.
Things gonna go either really right or really wrong.
You're at the top of this rollercoaster
and you're just waiting for it to...
[blows]
[groaning]
Once a year, I always have a cigarette.
[chuckles]
-Are you serious? -[Meisha] Yeah.
I'm a little bit worried.
I don't like it, Meisha.
-[Cleo] Good morning. -[Christian] Good morning.
Last night I was really tired.
I just gave her a kiss and went to bed.
Which I felt kinda bad about...
but I just, really was, like, facing the other way
and just went to sleep.
Um, so, yeah.
-I didn't hear you. -Well, that's good.
You're kind of hugging me
and then you were turning and then you were hugging me again.
That's nice. Yeah, thank you.
Cool.
[Cleo] This is my first morning waking up with Christian
and I woke up
feeling a little disappointed.
I was hoping for more physical affection.
For me, cuddles, hugs, are really important.
I'm affectionate, friendly and...
clingy. So... [laughs]
What? [chuckles]
[Cleo] It's topical estrogen gel.
You just put in on your arm.
-[Christian] Really? -[Cleo] Yeah.
That's so strange, like...
-Okay. -Whereas topical just like,
go straight into your bloodstream.
How long does that, like, does it take to, like,
dry off your skin?
Um, dries off, like, within, like, two, three minutes.
[laughs]
That was funny.
Sure, yeah. Yeah, we can.
One of the things that, you know,
really attracted me to Cleo's personality
was how open she is about her identity.
But now that we're here in person,
I feel a little bit out of my element.
Seeing Cleo put on her estrogen gel,
you know, I don't know a whole lot about it.
If I, you know, try to...
touch her, if it rubs off on me, you know, like...
I'm not sure whether or not
it's something that I have to be careful of.
It's a little uncomfortable.
Um, this is a new situation for me
and it's gonna take some time for me
to get used to.
Cats first.
-Humans second. -[Cleo] Always.
-Okay. Cool. -All right, girls.
[Cleo] Maybe we should plan about what we're gonna be doing today.
Well, I don't necessarily plan.
I usually have like, a rough itinerary.
-Like, just like, maybe some ideas. -Oh.
It's like, I wanna go explore, you know.
First time in London and I wanna check things out, and see what's going on.
All right. Okay.
Christian is definitely a go-with-a-flow kind of person.
And, in order to manage that,
I need a degree of predictability in my life.
-Let's go. Start walking? -Okay.
But, I worry that if I voice my concerns,
that that could stand in the way of him having a good time in London.
Especially on our first day out together.
-[Christian] Let's go this way. -Yeah.
[Christian] This is, uh, pretty picturesque, and...
Yeah. I mean, this is literally it.
Like, it's literally the very center of London.
-We get the chimes too. That's awesome. Yeah. -Yeah.
-Very picturesque. -Yeah.
So you got the Big Ben there, the parliament, London Eye's over there.
[Christian] Yeah. Very cool.
-Shall we keep walking? -Yeah, yeah. Let's just keep going.
I was a big James Bond fan as a kid.
And like, seeing the Buckingham Palace or Big Ben,
just like the geographical scenes I saw in like, '60s Bond films,
it felt super surreal.
And, being with Cleo, it definitely makes my experience much more romantic.
She's like, my Bond girl.
I thought this place would be pretty cute
-to have a drink. -Cool.
Up the gang plank.
Wow.
Oh, my God. The view is great.
Here you go, babe.
-That's for you. -Oh, thank you.
[Christian] Warm me up a little bit here.
Well, I'd like to make a toast.
To you and I finally gettin' together.
-We're on our first date. -First date.
And honestly, I really like that it's not that crowded.
We could be a little bit more personal with each other.
-[Cleo] It's more intimate. Um, yeah. -Yeah.
Just enjoy each other's company,
rather than being distracted by whatever else is going around.
Yeah, like having to scream, and like, making sure you can hear each other.
-Yeah. What? What? -Yeah.
You know, especially being jet lagged and everything, and just you know...
-I'm sorry that I was like, so tired last night. -Yeah. Take it easy.
I just didn't want you thinking like,
I wasn't attracted to you, by not, like...
being forward, or being like touchy.
Nah. Don't worry. I wouldn't have slept with you on the first night, anyway.
Okay.
That's good to know. You're a classy broad.
-So... [chuckles] Yeah. -Yeah.
Actually, yeah. Really nice.
That's not like, bitter or anything.
Yeah. You know. You don't wince at it. I like that, you know.
I mean, I could drink this like it's water.
-I could like, gurgle it in my mouth. -Yeah?
I just... Yeah, I drink a lot of Jameson, I like it.
You know, maybe, I don't know.
Yeah. About two or three drinks of that,
and then I'll probably do some karaoke.
Probably go dancing.
That's something I like to do a lot. I like to go dancing.
And are you somebody who likes to go out and dance?
Um...
I can't say I'm somebody that does that, to be honest.
I want to kind of, see you when you're getting a buzz.
To see you get like a little... little goofy on me a little bit.
-Okay. -Okay.
What do you say about us getting out of here,
and go on to something that's a little more lively?
I guess we could go somewhere livelier.
Since I've been in London, Cleo's been pretty shy.
I want to find a place where
she can let loose a little bit, come out of her shell.
I'm really hoping that if we break the ice,
and Cleo is able to, you know, liven up a little bit,
it'll definitely make me feel more confident in our relationship.
Watch your step.
[Meisha speaking]
-[Nicola speaking] -[Meisha speaking]
[Nicola speaking]
I mean...
Because I don't like...
Yeah.
[Meisha] I'm actually really excited to get Nicola in...
a totally different atmosphere.
Let's go out. Let's have some fun.
Let's grab a beer.
Not talk about anything too serious.
Just have fun.
[Nicola] If you came to this area 20 years ago,
nothing was here.
Now it's all night club and bars.
-Oh, night club... -Restaurant...
Many people you can see.
Yeah.
Well, I think this area...
is really cute.
-In Hebrew, l'chaim. -L'chaim.
In Arabic.
[both speaking foreign language]
Cheers.
So, when was the last time you were at a bar?
[Meisha] What?
-Yeah. -Not one?
-Not if it's like a sports game, nothing? -No.
Yeah, yeah.
[Meisha] So, now...
Once a year, I always have a cigarette,
-on New year's eve. -Oh.
-Yeah? -Yeah.
-Are you serious? -Yeah.
It's one a year.
I don't like it, Meisha.
It's not right.
[Meisha] Like my whole life, pre-conversion.
But this was...
fun.
Like, this is what all me,
everyone in my family, all my friends,
like if they came to Israel,
they would absolutely wanna, you know, come do this stuff.
[Nicola] For me, Meisha,
is someone is very devout Catholic...
-[Meisha] To be? -To be in nightclub.
I like you. I am also a devout Catholic.
But I can also go and not feel
ashamed or like, guilt-ridden.
Because I love to dance.
That, in and of itself is not a sin.
[Nicola] But, when people go to the nightclub, what they're doing, Meisha?
Woman and man.
-Right. -What they doing?
-It's simple life. -It opens the door to temptation.
But, I mean...
If you go to a, like, a dance club,
and you're just dancing,
is that a sin?
You know, it's very complicated question.
I mean...
I can be there, but I don't do the same, right?
-I can be there. -Right.
I will not participate with them.
-Well, correct. Yeah. -I prefer not to go there.
My daughters are at that age,
where you know, they're going into college.
Like, would there be judgement on them
if they had boyfriends and they were going out clubbing?
And... like, would you,
like, judge them, like, say things?
Because if I fight with them,
that's going to destroy our relationship.
So, after the day that we...
-I know. I agree. I agree. -All this conversation between us.
-Let's just enjoy the night. -Yes.
[Meisha] So, I think this is what we should do.
Why don't we just go in there,
and we'll just kind of see what it's like in there.
Should we? And just see like the...
If you want, Meisha, I'm not going to fight with you.
-But just to see. -Yeah.
-Five minutes. -Okay.
-And we go. -Then we'll leave.
-Ten minutes, maximum. -I'm not gonna make--
You don't have to stay anywhere that you don't wanna stay.
Okay.
[Meisha speaking]
Whoo.
[Nicola speaking]
-[Meisha] Like, I'm shocked. -Why?
[Meisha] Uh-oh. I don't know.
Maybe just five minutes ago,
-Yeah. -...someone wouldn't even act like, he had a groovy bone.
[laughs]
Seeing Nicola in this element
does give me great hope.
And it leads me to believe that
he cares enough to do things that'll make me happy.
There's still a lot that I need to figure out
to see if Nicola is someone
that I can spend forever with.
But it is a huge relief
seeing Nicola come out of his shell a little bit tonight and compromise.
So like, four years ago, I met this girl online.
She lives all the way in Barbados.
Producers told me I'm being catfished by a man.
What?
[Tyray] I still believe
that the person behind all the messages is a woman.
I'm thinking like, going back to Barbados.
For what?
[Statler] I'm working myself up.
I'm shaking in my boots.
It feels like a first look
at potentially my wife.
[Shaprea] What you doing?
Uh, just getting some of Mom's pills ready for the week.
These are ones she takes once a day.
Twice a day, and then once a day.
After visiting the private investigator,
um, I did come to the realization
that, you know, I was catfished.
And I messaged the real Carmella,
to see if she could chat.
But she still hasn't gotten back to me.
You know, I have to be honest with myself.
I'm not getting anywhere.
It just really sucks.
-I'm gonna get a beer. You want one? -Yes, please.
[Tyray] Here you go.
-Thank you. -You're welcome.
-Cheers. -[Shaprea speaking]
I don't know. [laughs]
I told my sister Lashanti and my brother Ronald about,
um, Carmella.
But after everything I've gone through in the past few weeks,
I don't wanna have any more secrets in my life.
Especially not with my family.
So I have to come clean with my mom and my sister, Shaprea.
And I need to be able to open up with them.
So what's going on?
It's a long story, but...
I kind of wanna tell you and Mom together.
Just kind of, get it out there.
Okay.
I can't like, keep hiding it.
You gonna get her?
-Yeah, I'll get her. -All right.
I'm worried about giving my mom this information,
because I know that she is going through so much herself.
You know, she's trying to get herself back on her feet.
And I don't want her to have that burden of me, and my dumb decision.
What you need to tell us?
-Uh, I mean, it's a long story. -What?
Something with you recently?
-Your health? Are you... -No, my health is okay.
Like, not bad.
-Okay. Just kind of get to it. -[Tyray chuckles] All right.
Yeah, so like, four years ago, I met this girl online.
And, she lives kind of far away.
Far away like, where?
Like, all the way in Barbados.
But you snuck off to Barbados last year.
-Last year I went to Barbados, yeah, but... -[Shaprea] To see her?
I... That was the plan.
Yeah.
[Shaprea] Kept telling you not to go.
And I didn't press the issue.
And I was like, maybe he just need a break.
'Cause we was dealing with a lot of stuff anyways,
but never would have crossed my mind that you was going out there to go see a girl.
-So what happened when you got there? -What happened?
Uh, she never showed up.
-Are you serious? -So what?
Did you ever talk to her again? Like, what happened?
I did. I started talking to her again,
like, a month afterwards. 'Cause I was kind of like...
Why'd you... Why'd you do that?
[Shaprea] Tyray.
-I cannot believe you did that. -Me neither.
-'Cause what the heck? -I am so shocked.
That's not even half of it.
Production had a voice message
from this person.
Saying that the girl
in the pictures isn't the girl who I was talking to.
Producers told me I'm being catfished by a man.
What?
I don't believe this.
[Shaprea] Tyray, how did you get mixed up in this?
I can't believe it.
I'm... I'm confused.
So is it a girl or is it a boy?
That's what I'm trying to figure out.
Like we went to a private investigator yesterday.
-[Whitney] Y'all did? -[Shaprea] You did?
Me and Lashanti did.
[Shaprea] And what they say?
Basically he showed me that she was a pornography model.
-Oh. -Oh, my God.
[Tyray] And that she was also a cam girl in America.
And then he said he doesn't really know where
-the person on Snapchat was. -Where they came from.
-Wow. That's literally insane. -I cannot believe it.
-I'm in shock. -I cannot believe it.
You okay?
Yeah, I'm okay. But, it's just kind of, like...
I just... I'm just trying to get closure at this point.
I'm thinking like, going back to Barbados.
For what?
[exhales]
To like, maybe see if I can find this person, like...
So you wanna find the person behind the messages?
-And see why they did this? -Yeah.
-Why is it so important? -Why is it so important?
I did have strong feelings for this person, like...
We were like... We had a lot of like, goals and aspirations that I was saying like,
starting a business, and...
Like she gave me, like, something I never really had.
She...
like, told me that she loved me and stuff. So...
I still believe that the person behind all the messages is a woman.
So, I feel like I need to talk to this person
one more time.
Because I just wanna know if my instincts are right.
That this person loved me the way I loved them.
If anything else is fake,
at least that love was real.
And I feel like, that would be the closure I need, and that's it.
[Whitney] Oh, Tyray.
And now to see him so down, you know.
I feel like, he's just heart broken.
And I hope he can heal.
I hope he can get over this.
If you even got the chance to even see this person in real life,
what would you even say?
[Tyray] I don't know yet.
There's so many questions that I have that I wanna ask,
but he's not trying to answer them.
But he just won't give a straight answer.
I definitely think he's holding on to some type of hope
that maybe it could work out for real.
[Statler] I just dropped a pin for Dempsey.
So, I think we're meeting somewhere up here.
[groans]
I'm working myself up.
I'm shaking in my boots.
This is too [bleep] much, man.
It feels like a first look,
at potentially my wife.
It's exciting, but it's also terrifying.
-Hi. [laughs] -[Dempsey] Hi.
-Hi. -Hi.
I can't believe you're actually here.
[Statler] I can't believe you're a real person.
-A real human being. -Yeah. I am.
[Statler] And you look lovely.
-You look nice. -Quite beautiful, yeah.
Your eyes are scary, mesmerizing...
and stuff.
-[chuckles softly] -Uh...
So you have bags?
-Can I hold something? -You can hold that.
-All right. I'll hold this. -Thank you.
Wow. This is light.
-This is all you took... -You want to hold the heavy one?
-No, I took this. -...with you to Thailand?
-Oh, you got a big one. Okay. That's cool. -Yeah. It's heavy.
Yeah. No, that's good.
[chuckles softly]
I'm Dempsey. I'm 28.
I live on a farm in Darlington.
And, after seven months of online dating,
to traveling, being in Thailand,
missing my flight, Statler being ill,
I'm just really excited to finally meet Statler.
But then I'm also really anxious. It's a whole mix of emotions.
-I just think we're both awkward people. -Yeah. Me too.
-Yeah. -Yeah.
I instantly felt a connection from the first, like, phone call.
She makes me feel so special.
And, I've never felt this much with somebody before.
Are your cheeks red,
or did you get a little sunburn?
-I'm blushing. I'm blushing. Yeah. -You're blushing. Okay.
You do this to me a lot.
-What do I do? -You make me blush.
It's crazy.
Don't usually have that effect on people.
Usually it's horror.
So...
-Yes, it's a very monotone voice. -Yeah.
-Thank you for noticing. -[laughs]
I was nervous. I didn't know if you were gonna like me.
If I was gonna like you.
-Yeah. -But, I still do.
-You still like me? -Yeah.
That's fantastic. That's really good news for me.
-I really care for you a lot. -Yeah?
I really like you.
I think you're better than expected.
Oh. [giggles]
-I feel amazing. -Yeah, I feel good.
[Statler] She just radiates awkwardness.
It's just really attractive to me.
I feel at home.
You feel at home?
-'Cause I am extremely awkward. -Oh, yeah.
I just instantly had butterflies in heart, under my stomach.
-Thank you for that. -[giggles]
So I got you some gifts.
-Oh. -[Dempsey speaking]
That's amazing. Oh, thank you.
-You've got some vitamins. -[laughing] Yay!
Uh, oh. Wow. Then we have...
"Love, Raw?"
-Is that a sexual thing? -[clears throat]
Uh, sure. It could be.
[both laugh]
Could be, yeah.
It's good.
-Uh, vegan peanut butter cups. -Yay.
This is very romantic.
And I appreciate this gesture.
Yeah, do you? I also have gifts for you.
-It's in the suitcase at the hotel. -Okay.
Can I... Can I check out your butt?
I haven't looked at it yet.
[Dempsey laughing]
No?
Wow.
[both laugh]
That's even better in person. Jesus Christ.
Wow.
-So, do you wanna go exchange gifts or... -Yeah.
Cool. All right. Let's do that then.
Yeah. Are we staying in the same hotel?
-Yeah. You can come to my hotel room. -Yeah?
You wanna like, sleep in my bed?
[snorts]
[giggles]
Excuse me, are you guys, like, celebrating something?
Your birthday?
I'm from Minneapolis, Minnesota, so, Midwest, I'm very Midwestern boy.
It's not about me being shy, I'm autistic.
Christian leads his life spur of the moment
and that's not what I'm about.
Thank you.
[Christian] Are you excited?
[Cleo] I'm excited to spend time with you.
[Christian speaking]
[Cleo speaking]
[Christian] Yeah.
And, honestly, looks like a physical representation of my mind.
-All right. -You know, what I'm saying?
Yeah, yeah, yeah, [stutters] we'll get a drink in you
and, then, I'm sure it'll, it'll open up.
I'm trying to make sure that Christian has a good time here
and I know that he's trying to loosen me up a little.
We wanna do two of the Sour Prince Charles Face.
-Yes? -Yeah, thank you, brother, appreciate it.
[Cleo] But I don't feel like this place is, necessarily,
vey, you know, autism-friendly.
[crowd chattering]
[Cleo] There is a lot going on, there's lights everywhere.
Trinkets.
There is a lot of noise and I'm feeling a little claustrophobic.
-[waiter] Here are your specials. -[Christian] Oh!
Look at this. Wow. Set it down, brother.
[Cleo] Thank you.
[Christian] All right.
I'm gonna, kinda, like, go to town on it just for a minute just to, like...
-Yeah. -Yeah?
[crowd chattering in the background]
I mean, I don't really taste, like, the booze as much.
But that's good and that's also dangerous, though.
It is.
Honestly, I might drink, like, I feel like if I had two of these,
I'd be really screwed up, like, when I, okay, so...
-I got a really crazy story for ya. -Go on.
Okay, so, like, I definitely had a couple drinks on the plane ride to London.
I was, like, walking through the aisle
and, you know, everyone's kinda sleeping
but there is this seat with this gal that was sitting there,
this blonde girl, right?
And she was looking at me like...
"What are... What are you doing?"
And then, I was, like, "Oh, look, I'm sorry,
it's dark in here and I can't see.
I'm, like, stumbling around, I'm kinda, like, drunk right now."
And, then, like, she started, like, talking to me,
so, I sat down and was having conversation with her and her friend.
And these girls are, like, young, they were, like, 21 years old.
And we were talking for a while and I, I had a buzz going
and they didn't seem like, you know, they had any drinks in front of them
and it was late, I figured, "Hey, how about a nightcap?" You know what I'm saying?
When I went to the back of the plane and I said, "Hey, can I get three drinks?"
and then the flight attendant goes,
"No, I heard about you."
Then she goes, "I'm not handing you a drink."
I guess they, maybe, like, complained or something?
Yeah, but, like, you know, I was just being social,
they were the only people that were, like, awake on the plane.
Oh, my, I would, I would, totally freak out if somebody did that to me.
Okay, being, like, a 30-year-old man,
I can probably look like a creep in that situation,
-but I wasn't hitting on them, you know what I'm saying? -All right.
Like, does it, does it bother you
that I was making friends with, like, women on the plane?
I guess, if I was on the plane and we were, like, traveling together
and you just sat down, to, like, random girls...
Well, I would never do that if you were with me, you know what I'm saying,
-if we were traveling-- -But you would do it behind my back?
No, no, I wouldn't, absolutely not, no.
But like, you did.
Well, no, because you were not on the plane,
I was all... I was all alone, you know what I'm saying?
Exactly.
I think Cleo's getting hung up on the fact
that I was chatting to younger women.
But that's never been an issue for me in past relationships.
I think my girlfriends have understood that I'm just, like, a friendly guy.
I hope that, you know, she can kinda see
that me being social or talking with women is not a big deal.
I make friends anywhere I go, I'm just kinda like magnetic in that way.
I mean, I'll talk to anybody, you know what I'm saying?
[Cleo] I know that Christian is extremely sociable,
but knowing that he was being flirty with these two girls
that was definitely different from what, the way I approach my flights.
I definitely wouldn't get drunk on a plane,
and I certainly wouldn't be chatting up to strangers on a plane either.
And there's definitely a part of me that perhaps is worried about,
you know, whether we are, you know, 100% compatible.
[crowd chattering]
Hey, excuse me, excuse me,
are you guys, like, celebrating something tonight?
Your birthday?
Twenty-six? Awesome.
-Oh, yeah. -Yeah.
I'm from Minneapolis, Minnesota, so, Midwest, I'm very Midwestern boy.
When it comes to, like, meeting American people,
you guys have this, kind of, stereotype of like, uh, cowboy hat and cowboy boots,
-like, Southern... -[women laughing]
You don't sound like that at all!
[Christian] This is... this is Cleo, this is my girlfriend Cleo.
[all greeting]
Yes, I'm actually here to meet her for the first time.
-Uh, yeah, this is the first time... -First time?
-Yeah. -In person.
In person.
Do you wanna come closer?
I just can't, it's too many people.
[Cleo speaking]
You know, especially, if I'm sensorially overwhelmed or emotionally overwhelmed.
It cause a completely shut down and just be like, "I need space now."
It's not about me being shy.
I'm autistic and I wish he was a bit more considerate.
Is there any, like, particular scotches that you could recommend?
-He's got no idea, go on. -[women laughing]
[Christian] Okay.
-I feel like it's too many people... -Sure.
...for me to interact at the same time.
[Christian] I got you, I totally got you.
Well, all right, my friends, happy birthday.
Thank you.
-Have a good night, ladies. -Cheers, bye.
[all greeting indistinctly]
[Cleo] I am exhausted.
There is a time and place for everything
and, right now, it's about making each other feel special,
not inviting other people into the conversation.
Okay, I'm just gonna finish this up.
If today's date was an example
of how every single date between Christian and I is to go,
I don't necessarily think
that this is the type of relationship I would want to be in.
You got everything?
-Hmm. -Okay.
When I wanna have sex with you, you're never in the mood.
Unbelievable.
You reject me all the [bleep] time.
[Gino] So, can you tell me what's going on?
Jasmine and I have been together for about two years now.
And I fully trusted Jasmine.
I've never had any reason not to trust Jasmine.
Now, I'm finding out that she's still friends with her ex-boyfriend
and didn't tell me about it.
That's [bleep] up.
Like, what's going on behind my back?
I have to know now.
Because when she comes to Michigan, it's too late.
I don't wanna find out after we're married, I have to find out now.
You have anything going on with him right now?
No!
Baby,
I've been faithful.
I'm not cheating on you.
He's just my friend.
[Gino] You always told me that I can't be friends with my ex.
You fly off the rocker when you... Even at the sound or mention of my ex's names.
Dane never shared nude pictures of me with anyone like your ex,
so, don't compare Dane.
He's a gentleman, he's respectful,
he's very aware that we're engaged.
We're not interested on having anything, you, you understand that?
Yes, I lied to Gino.
And he still doesn't know that Dane lives in the same apartment building.
But lying to him...
So, I do believe that it is time for telling him the truth.
Okay, so, how often you guys talk?
At least once a week.
[inhales]
Are you serious?
Are you meeting up with him and stuff in person?
We, we meet sometimes to...
to shop, to talk.
-Just to do friend stuff, that, that's it. -"Friend stuff"?
-So, were you alone with him recently? -I--
-Like, yes, we have been-- -What do you mean, "Yes"?
Because he's living in the same building as I am
and I just had coffee with him a few days before you come.
-I-- -What?
You gotta be kidding me.
Out of all the buildings in freaking Panama,
you gotta pick the one that your ex is in.
Yeah, he's my friend.
Are you freaking kidding me?
I feel angry and betrayed
because I would have never paid for this apartment for Jasmine to stay in
if I knew that her ex is living in the same building.
And the fact that Jasmine is pretending like this is no big deal,
it makes her look very suspicious.
So, you're not romantic with him or intimate with him in any way?
-No, we're not attracted physically to each other. -So, have...
Have you had sex with him since you broke up?
We became, like, friends with benefits.
Just because sex was good.
But since I met you, that stopped.
He's just my friend and that's it.
Have you thought about having sex with him since, since then?
I'll be honest with you, like...
It's not that I'm in love with him, it's not that I'm attracted to him,
but...
since, when I wanna have sex with you, you're never in the mood,
-you don't want me. -Yeah, okay.
-You don't wanna kiss me... -That's 'cause you argue...
-...and you have never-- -...with me all the [bleep] time.
I feel [bleep] really, like, you reject me all the [bleep] time.
So, do I think about having sex with him,
like, just think about it.
It's not that I fantasize about, of me doing it,
but, I...
remember how it was like...
having sex with him.
-I'm not-- -That [bleep] very, very low.
Do you think it's okay that you fantasize
-about having sex with him? -All right, listen,
if our sexual life were better then I would fantasize about us.
Unbelievable.
By Jasmine's definition, she absolutely cheated.
'Cause cheating to her is even speaking to someone.
If I spoke to my ex, she would blow a fit, a gasket.
And here she is, talking to her ex,
fantasizing about him,
physically seeing him, moved into the same building he's in.
I'm losing my trust.
And how are we supposed to get married without trust?
This is bad, it's very bad.
[Riley] I have a friend
and she wanted to meet you.
I'm hoping that Tiffanie can get Violet to open up a little bit more.
[Tiffanie on video call]
She's asking you a question. Why are you looking at me?
[speaking other language]
[chuckles]
-[Violet in English] Hi. -[Riley] How are you?
-[Violet] I'm good. -[Riley] You look beautiful.
Lovely, [excitedly] oh, lovely.
-[Riley] Yeah. -[Violet] Oh.
It's beautiful sexy.
Thank you.
I hope I'm dressed appropriately for you.
-I'm great? -[laughing] Yeah.
Uh-oh.
You see Violet's face, she's impressed.
This is right here is why I came here, for this moment right here.
[sighs]
We have an undeniable connection and I love seeing this side of her.
She has this tough exterior,
but she also has a, a sweet side that keeps bringing me back.
Yes.
What do you wanna know?
Okay.
[Riley] Mmm-hmm.
...we don't get married.
-I understand that. -Yes.
[Riley] Mmm-hmm.
So... Oh!
Oh, thank you. Lord, what good timing.
[Violet laughs] Wow, look yummy.
Whoa, what's this?
Uh...
-[Riley] It's fish. -[Violet speaking]
-[Violet] I think it's fish. -[Riley] Okay.
So, um...
In America, it's very important
for family and friends to get along with the person's spouse.
But, if we're married,
you're my wife.
It doesn't matter what my sister
or any other person is saying.
Because I married you, not them.
Mmm-hmm.
And I know you were trying to build a relationship with him.
But when we argue...
Mmm-hmm.
...you contact my father and you said really bad things about me.
-Tonight, we don't talk about bad-- -I know,
no, no, no, listen...
[Riley] Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait...
You're right. It was supposed to be a nice night. It was supposed to be a nice night.
I was wrong, I was wrong. I'm sorry.
-It was an accident. -[Violet speaking]
Thank you.
[Riley] Few days before I left to Vietnam,
I found out that after a couple of falling out or arguments or whatever,
Violet was texting my father
horrible, horrible things about me.
"I knew your son doesn't love me in the time we are together,
he just loves him... hisself." Really?
[Riley reading]
Really? This is what she says to you?
Yes.
As always, she's not willing to talk about it or she's avoiding my questions
and it just makes me feel uncomfortable and it's a little rude.
I'm glad that you already get along with my dad, but...
I, I do have a friend, her name... She's like my big sister.
She, um, she wanted to meet you.
-She's like a sis-- -What's name?
Tiffanie.
-Tiffanie? -Yeah.
-Would you mind if we called her and she-- -I don't mind,
-never mind. -She get to meet-- Okay,
all right, all right, all right.
So, let's...
Let's call her.
[phone ringing]
[Riley] Hey, hey, hey!
[Riley] What's up?
Hi, Tiffanie, nice to see you.
So, I'm gonna give you to her, I gotta run to the bathroom. Okay?
[stutters] I mean, I've to go and I'm holding it.
So, you talk to Tiffanie and I'll be back.
I definitely still have many questions for Violet
and I'm starting to worry that I won't be able
to ever have these conversations with her because she'll shut it down.
But I'm hoping that Tiffanie can get Violet to open up a little bit more
if I'm not around.
Maybe she's holding back because it's me there.
And, hopefully, they'll have a really candid conversation.
Oh, thank you.
[Tiffanie speaking]
[Violet] Yeah.
She's asking why, after you told me to delete the app,
why were you still on the app?
She wants to know.
Right, she's asking you a question, why are you looking at me?
She wants to hear it from you.
Let me... let me ask you a question.
When I was at your house and your family asked me questions, did I answer them?
[Tiffanie speaking]
[Razwan] Next time onBefore the 90 Days...
[Statler] I feel like I've entered cute world.
For two people, things are a little, a little tight.
[Dempsey] That's just like a toilet room.
[Statler] Could I use the toilet?
I'm a city girl... this isn't gonna work.
I am on my period.
[Amanda laughing] Oh, my God.
[Razwan] You know?
[Nicola] Our hotel, you have to see our room.
I never saw a woman making messy place in bedroom.
I'm in shock.
I would have loved for Nicola to be excited about us.
But, instead, I felt embarrassed.
[Sheila speaking other language]
[signing]
[David signing]
[Jasmine] Gino and I only have one week and a half left together,
so, we need to see a therapist.
I'm not satisfied sexually, in this relationship.
-He has even made... -I don't reject her.
...comments about my private parts.
-You made me feel rejected. -[Gino] These are the kind
-of comments... -[Jasmine] Because I'm being honest,
-like, we need-- -...where I really don't have any desire to be with her.
[Tiffanie speaking]
Ah...
We stop talking tonight, okay?
Do not talk down to me.
Okay, beat it.
Bye!