[narrator] Previously on 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days...
Jasmine.
[laughs]
I filed a K-1 visa to bring Jasmine to the United States.
But it's taking a long time,
so I have a trip planned to Panama.
...before I take that huge step
of moving to the United States.
[in Spanish]
[Jasmine Pineda in Spanish]
[in English] So, I'm hoping...
...he will be able to [bleep] inside of me.
[laughs]
[rush of muted sounds]
[emotive music playing]
[automated voice speaking]
[chuckling]
Babe, I just wanna say that I love you so much,
and I miss you, and I can't wait to see you.
[Amanda] I lost my husband, Jason, to cancer.
But Razdan has opened my heart again to love,
which I never thought would happen.
Give Mommy a hug.
I need to make sure
the next man that comes into our lives
will not leave.
[exclaiming]
[laughs]
I'm going to Vietnam to meet the woman of my dreams,
Violet.
But we've been through some ups and downs.
She was so adamant that I come off the dating app.
And I went just to check to see if she was still on it...
[Tyray] My girlfriend lives in Barbados.
She is this hot, thick goddess.
I've never been in love before,
but I feel like Carmella's the one for me.
Wow.
[exhales]
[classical opera music plays]
[Marco] Mangia, mangia. Look at that.
They're gonna be so good.
Hey!
- [people] Hey! - Hey, Gino, what's up?
[Gino Palazzolo] Christina, how you doing?
I'm good. Good to see you.
- [Gino] Dana! - What's up, cuz?
- [laughs] - You're hands-on today.
[Gino] Love it.
I'm flying out to Panama in a few days.
And I'm super excited to see Jasmine.
Both of us really need to see each other in person.
This whole waiting for K-1 visa approval,
that created some tension for us.
And I'm hoping on this trip we could work out our issues.
You know, I can turn the thing if you want.
- [Marco] There you go. Get in there. - [Gino] I can turn it.
[Marco] Jump in there and make you some dinner.
Today, my uncle Marco organized a family dinner
at his apartment complex common room,
so we could all spend some time together
before I go on my trip to Panama.
[Dana] Go ahead, crank it.
[Gino] Look at that, it's magic. [laughs]
[Marco] Yeah. Fresh Italian bread, good sauce.
I got three hours of love making that sauce.
- Oh, yeah. - Slow and low.
Awesome. [chuckles]
I come from a big Italian family.
And when my grandpa was around, we'd always go to his house.
We would be making homemade spaghetti,
and it was like a special moment for all of us.
Okay, you guys ready?
Mangia, mangia, look at that.
Oh, mangia.
So, these dinners are really important for the family
to get together and bond.
- [Christina] Let's dig in. - [Marco] You guys go ahead.
[Gino] So good.
[Marco] Did you ever put ricotta cheese on your spaghetti?
[Christina] All the time.
[Gino] Anyone need some salad dressing?
[Marco] The sauce come out pretty good.
[Gino] You definitely can cook a good sauce.
[Marco] You're looking a lot sharper.
Yeah, I like it. The new hat, new shirt. Looking good.
Thank you. Yeah, I actually went out
- and upgraded my clothes before I leave on my trip. - Good.
I think Jasmine would like to see me dressed up a little better, you know?
[Dana] Yeah.
[whimsical music playing]
[all laughing]
I still have the Jesus sandals. I can't give those up.
Just don't wear them with socks.
[all laughing]
- [Dana] You excited? - [Gino] Oh, yeah.
How's everything going?
Uh, it's going good, um,
I mean, we're having some arguments and stuff sometimes,
- you know? - Yeah.
[Gino] Uh, I think it's mostly 'cause of long distance and stuff.
[Marco] I noticed she got a new apartment.
Yeah.
Do you pay for all that stuff?
Uh, well, you know, uh,
I've helped out, I've helped her out.
Interesting.
Did you ever bring up the prenup to her again?
I know it didn't go very well the first time you talked to her about it.
Well, you know, um...
I haven't, no.
Jasmine and I had a brief conversation
about prenup in the past.
Jasmine, did you know that
Gino was considering a prenup before you got married?
No, he never mentioned it to me.
I'm not signing up any prenup.
If I'm in the United States and we get married,
and he screw it up,
he... I'm gonna kick him out of the house
and I'm gonna stay with everything.
No, no, no, no, no.
[Gino] She shut it down quickly,
and I didn't wanna drag this thing out.
But now a prenup is something
that I'm actually considering,
because I wanna protect myself.
[Marco] You're afraid that she's gonna walk if you say,
"I want a prenup."
Not just walk, she's gonna blow up.
It's kind of like saying, you know,
"I don't trust you."
[tense music playing]
- [Marco] Your opinion counts just as much as hers. - Absolutely.
- You know? It's not just all Jasmine. - [Gino] Yeah.
Don't you think this is a lot, though?
I mean, with the fights
and the arguments and the different things.
Is this something that you would really wanna build
a relationship on, you know?
You're not even married yet. You-- You wanna have kids.
But I feel like you're afraid
to bring up any issues with Jasmine,
and that's kind of a problem.
Exactly.
It is important for us to bring up these concerns,
because sometimes I don't think
Gino thinks about these things enough.
He kind of just rolls with the punches.
And he thinks things are gonna be resolved in a short amount of time,
but I can only see it getting worse.
I just think that you need to
stick up for yourself more.
Yeah. Yeah, I hear ya.
[tense music playing]
You know, I think my family's right.
I can't keep putting off this prenup conversation.
I think I'm gonna need to stand up for myself on this trip.
But, you know, it might not go well.
We could permanently break up or something,
and, you know, I don't wanna be in that situation.
I-- I understand. Uh, I'm not gonna, like, get pushed around.
She's gonna respect you.
- Yes. - And if not?
On down the road, she goes.
[upbeat music playing]
♪ You know your body got a rhythm, girl ♪
♪ Dreaming that you're mine ♪
[Riley] I'm leaving for Vietnam in a few days
to finally see and meet Violet in person.
Even though we have some issues that we need to discuss from our past,
I really think that she could be the one.
[chuckles] So, I decided to meet her.
But before I leave, I want to go and visit my dad
to make sure he's okay while I'm in Vietnam.
Early last year, my dad had COVID.
We thought we were gonna lose him.
Like, he was on oxygen and all types of other...
crazy, Terminator wires hanging out of him.
But, stubborn son of a bitch pulled through.
My dad does know who Violet is.
They have video chatted.
She actually did reach out to him when he was just getting out of the hospital.
But, I really don't talk to my father that much about my personal life.
Hey, what's up, man?
All right, now. Hey, hey!
[both laughing]
[Calson] Everything all right? Everything good?
- [Calson] Yeah. - [Riley] Yeah, boy!
Riley, he come to see me every Friday.
Oh, well, I'm hungry.
- All right, I'll... I'll set you up good. - [Riley speaking]
You know that.
With my mother and my grandfather.
Riley, every time he comes he wants some curry goat.
So I spend a lot of money on curry goat.
[chuckling]
But I don't mind because I love him.
I love him very much. I love him.
You... You want to eat a lot of food?
Like, I will eat the whole goat.
- [Calson] Oh. - Legit.
No, don't do that.
[Riley] I'm leaving for two weeks.
- So, I don't... I'm not gonna get this food for a while. - [Calson] Oh, okay. All right.
- So... - [Calson] All right, well...
I'll take care of that.
- I'll take care of that. - [chuckling] Okay.
- [Calson] Plate's damn full. - Thank you.
[Calson] All right.
So, you're leaving in a couple of days, huh?
[Riley] Yeah.
[Calson speaking]
[Riley] I can, I have, but it happened.
Like, honestly, I think...
You know something? I'm scared. I don't trust them.
[Riley] Why are you scared?
I'm not just jumping in...
without being, um, aware, and, um...
smart about it.
[Calson] Right, well... well, the thing is, I have...
That you don't know about.
I have...
about 150 different texts from different days.
[sighing] So wait...
Okay, how, and... 150?
150. You can check it.
Um...
[stammering] I'm... I'mma...
Let me see.
Like... [sighs]
[reading] "I knew your son doesn't love me in the time we are together.
He just loves him... hisself." Really?
[reading] "He never knows how is true love. So he forever will be alone."
- Really? This is what she says to you? - [Calson] Yes!
And I did not comment on it because I don't want
to get in the middle of anything.
[Riley] The text that she sent to my father
were sent when we were not really getting along,
because at the time, I was questioning her
if she was telling the truth or not.
It seems to me that Violet is taking advantage of my father
to try to get to me, to manipulate him.
He's elderly, he's sick.
Like... who does that?
This [bleep] is ridiculous, man.
- [bewildered laughing] - [Calson] Well...
Like, I'm really [bleep] pissed off right now.
I know, that's why I never said anything to you.
I think this is a waste of time going there.
I've had to tell him what she said.
I feel a little sad because he's upset,
but I pray he'll take that into consideration
for what he needs to do in the future.
I don't want to talk about this anymore.
- I just... This is ridiculous. - [Calson] All right, it's fine.
- [Riley] Those [bleep] text messages just aggravated me. - [Calson] It's a lot.
[Riley] I don't... It's not fair.
She... She messes up and then, like...
[chuckling] ...would contact my family make it, like,
"There's something wrong with him.
He's this, he's that."
It's real [bleep] up.
There's so many questions I already have.
I have a list.
But now, this...
Being that she hasn't even told me about these texts
make me feel that there's way more that she's hiding from me,
and you know what, I don't even know if I want to go on this trip now.
[in Spanish]
[in English]
So I asked my friend to bring me butt plugs
so we can prepare my ass.
[in Spanish]
[Tyray] I messaged her.
I'm not ready to walk away from Carmella yet.
This might all just be a misunderstanding.
[Spanish song playing]
- Hello! - [Yira speaking Spanish]
[Jasmine in Spanish]
[Jasmine in English] Tonight, I'm grabbing drinks with my girls,
because my fiance Gino is coming to Panama tomorrow.
I... I can't wait to have him just...
face-to-face.
I need to see him. I need to have him with me.
[Yira in Spanish]
Mmm.
[Jasmine speaking Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Juana in Spanish]
[Yira in Spanish]
[Jasmine in Spanish]
[Jasmine gasping]
[in Spanish]
[all laughing]
[Jasmine in English]
So I asked my friend to bring me butt plugs, so...
[Jasmine speaking Spanish]
[Jasmine in English] First, you know,
you start, like, stimulating the area,
and then you start with the... the small one,
and then you move to the medium one,
and then you go, you know, bigger and bigger.
Because I know that the ass can grow.
At this point, I'm willing to try anything
to get our sex life back on track.
[in Spanish]
[in English] That ugly message
that I got from Gino's cousin Dana,
is very concerning.
Because they see me as an opportunist!
Someone that just wants to go to the United States,
marry Gino, and...
after I'm, you know, secure with a citizenship,
just, "Goodbye, Gino."
[in Spanish]
[Yira speaking]
[Jasmine speaking]
[Jasmine in English] If I am going to leave the only home I have ever known
and move to Michigan,
I really need to feel from Gino
that I'm gonna be looked after
and that I'm gonna be number one in his life.
And at this moment, I don't feel like that.
Like, about what?
There's a lot that we don't know but after you gave us
Carmella's number, we reached out.
And it took a while
but eventually, we made contact.
And so...
The person you've been messaging with
is a man named Christian.
Wow.
Did he...
[exhales]
Man, I don't know, like...
[sighs]
- [producer] I'm sorry. - [groans]
- [producer] We have a recording of him... - Oh, no.
...talking to one of our producers
that I can play for you if you want.
We also have a message that the person sent to us
and how they feel about what they've done.
I can show that to you.
[scoffs] I don't think I can do it right now.
[exhales] Man.
[producer speaking]
[Tyray] Yeah, I'm okay.
It's embarrassing, like... [exhales]
My head's just, like, all over the place.
That I felt something so I was, like, in love.
And I usually don't put my guard down
when it comes to, like, stuff like that.
And then, like, I really put it down for he, or whoever it is.
Because the way we chatted it was, like,
um...
So, I don't know.
That's why I'm just kinda,
kind of like, like, mainly shocked,
and, like, disappointed in myself.
I know about computers.
And, like, I watch the show Catfish.
Like, I know, like, usually what to look for
when you see a fake profile.
Like, I should have seen it. It was, like, only Snapchat,
but...
I didn't think someone was, like, trying to play me
because I wasn't sending, like, you know,
thousands of dollars or anything like that.
It was just, like, a little bit.
Carmella initially asked me for money,
uh, back in 2019, and I said no.
And then she just kind of, like, "Oh, okay," and kind of ignored me.
Until March 2020, she messaged me.
That's when I kinda, like, let my guard down and sent her something.
I sent between $50 and $100 a month.
You know, she doesn't really question the money I give her,
but she just, like, is always asking for more.
I just, like...
like, my emotions are, like, all over the place.
And I'm... [scoffs]
It's, like, you can, like, feel it,
but then it's, like, it still doesn't feel real.
It's, like... [scoffs] I don't know.
It's weird.
[door closes]
I messaged her or them.
Uh, you know, I told her, "You lied to me. You tricked me."
And I put "Babe, how could you?"
Um, "They told me that you were a man."
[Tyray] No, it's not even opened.
I'm going back to... to all the past
where she, like, said "I love you."
And it's weird, but I still kind of feel, like, maybe,
she's real or something,
but then I know,
the person that they...
The picture is real, but, like...
I had a connection with the actual person,
so I still feel that connection.
Like, I still have, like, a glimmer of hope that maybe...
Maybe she was hacked, I don't know.
No matter how messed up this situation is...
I'm not ready to walk away from Carmella yet...
because I still have,
you know, a little bit of me that says...
this might all just be a misunderstanding.
I wanna get to the bottom of everything.
I'm just gonna not message her no more today.
And then, then tomorrow when I wake up and be, like, was that a dream?
It's actually a nightmare.
So that's what I'm afraid of the most,
like, how I'm gonna feel tomorrow.
I'm so excited to see Razvan!
I never thought that I would find love again,
but it's hard to say what life has in store for me.
It's really hot here in Bucharest.
So maybe one more.
One more-- No, I cannot take my T-shirt off.
[Amanda] I am in Paris right now,
and this is the last stop
until I board my flight to Romania!
Although I am tired,
I'm so excited to see Razvan!
[woman singing in other language]
Razvan just texted me.
He said, "I can't believe you will be here. I love you."
And I told him that I'm really nervous.
He said, "Why?" I said, "Because I'm gonna look so terrible."
He said, "No, I love you. You will look beautiful to me always." [chuckles]
I'm on my way to meet my boyfriend Razvan for the first time.
It feels unreal, like a dream.
And I just can't wait to see him.
I feel like God has given me this chance to find
true love and happiness once again in my life
for me and for my kids.
After I lost my husband to cancer,
I felt mentally and emotionally broken.
So I never thought that I would find love again.
And it's hard to say what life has in store for me.
Hello, guys.
It's, uh, it's really hot here in Bucharest, you know,
it's, like, really hot.
My name is Razvan. I am 26 years old,
and I live in Bucharest, Romania.
What... What are you saying there, Karen?
Oh, you want... want more?
No, I cannot take my T-shirt off.
I've always wanted to be an actor since I was young.
Because I saw these movie stars.
I saw Sylvester Stallone.
I saw Arnold. I saw Van Damme.
And I told myself I want to be like them one day.
Okay, for you guys. For you, one more.
Okay, it's enough, it's enough.
But it's, uh, hard to make a living
to be an actor in, uh, Romania.
So, another income is by doing, uh, lives on TikTok.
And I can change those gifts in, uh, in money.
What? No.
No. Maybe one more. One more, but, you know...
Anything, you know.
But to make more money...
♪ Touch my body ♪
♪ Ooh, just touch my body ♪
[Razvan] ...you need to be flirty,
you need to be more sexy,
you need to do a lot of crazy things.
Next, we put some chocolate on me.
I have 127,000 followers,
and 70% are womans.
People are watching here, okay.
We cannot do our crazy stuff, okay.
See you tonight more or live,
7:00 pm, as usual.
I love you all. Bye.
Social media is great.
This platform
where you can meet people all over the world.
But the best thing is because of social media, I meet with Amanda.
♪ I can feel it I can feel it ♪
[Razvan] Me and Amanda...
I realize that I fall in love from, uh, the first hour.
[laughing]
I get a lot of attention from social media, but
something about Amanda drew me in,
to get more involved and to know her better.
Amanda is very funny.
We talk very often through the day.
I feel like she have a sweet heart,
and she's a special woman.
I never date an American woman before.
And...
And it's really hard.
Like, I dream about this day to meet her in person.
[Razvan speaking]
[Amanda in other language]
[Razvan in other language]
[chuckles]
[Razvan speaking English] Deanna is my friend.
But it's nothing romantic between me and Deanna.
We are just close friends.
[chuckles]
[in Romanian]
[speaking in other language]
[both laughing]
[Razvan chuckles]
- [Deanna speaking] - Uh...
[speaking in other language]
Okay.
- [Razvan speaking] - Mmm-hmm.
[speaking in other language]
[Razvan speaking English] I was married before, three years ago.
I proposed my ex-wife after one month.
And we got divorced after six months.
I think my marriage didn't work
mostly because of, uh, jealousy of my career.
Because of my past,
sometimes I am concerned that I'm moving too quickly with Amanda.
But having a long-distance relationship,
it's really hard to talk through a phone
and not be there, it's really hard.
And I... I don't want to have this distance anymore.
[in other language]
[in English] Yeah.
[in other language]
[Razvan chuckles]
[Razvan speaking]
[Deanna] Ooh.
- [speaking in other language] - [Razvan speaking]
Uh...
[speaking in other language]
- Oh. - [Razvan speaking]
[Deanna speaking in other language]
[sighs]
[laughs]
Mmm.
[Razvan speaking English] I know me and Amanda, we will have challenges
in our relationship.
But meeting her totally changed my life.
She's a widow, and she has kids.
And this is something new for me.
But I'm ready to step up, and be there,
and love her.
I just hope that I can be everything that she's looking for in a partner.
[David signing]
- Oh, damn. - [Tyray] The producers told me
it was actually a man that was pretending to be Carmella.
And they have, like, a recording or something.
[Lashanti] My brother's a good person. He has a big heart.
I can't believe it's happening to him.
- [Gino] All right. - Have a great time.
I am worried about Gino.
He gets there, she comes bouncing her boobs in front of him.
And all his good commonsense goes and turns to jelly.
Hi, baby!
[Tyray] Um, my mom's here, so...
I don't really have any privacy.
I wouldn't mind going for a walk, though.
Yesterday, the producers told me
that Carmella might not be who she says she is.
When they reached out to her, a man responded
and said that he's been pretending to be Carmella for four years.
No, not at all. I just went straight to sleep.
And then when I woke up, that's when it started hitting me, like,
oh, my God, and I started just going and going and going.
I'm just having trouble processing everything
just because of, you know,
the amount of time we spent together,
and, you know, the conversations we had,
the bond and the love that me and Carmella have for each other.
I still have a belief that Carmella is, you know, Carmella.
I don't really know what I should do or,
or what the next step is.
I kinda need someone just to have support right now.
So, today I'm gonna rip off the Band-Aid,
and I'm gonna tell Ronald and Lashanti,
my siblings about Carmella.
Maybe they can, like,
help me think of what my next steps should be.
[mellow music playing]
- [Ronald] This looks like it's a cool little spot. - [Tyray] It is.
- Oh, thank you. - [Ronald] Yeah, no problem.
[Tyray] I didn't tell my family about Carmella
because I keep things pretty private.
Ever since I was little and my dad passed away,
I've always kept my emotions inside.
I try to be the man of the family
and not burden, you know, my family with any of my problems.
But I feel like what's going on with Carmella is too much to handle alone.
So I feel like I need to...
open up and let them know what's going on.
I'm just hoping that when I do tell them, that they're gonna be understanding.
[Lashanti] I'm just kidding.
Our brother, Tyray, text us
that he had something to tell us
which was kind of surprising to me.
[Lashanti] My brother's a good person.
He has a big heart,
but we worry about him because he holds everything in.
It's, like, he never lets anybody know what's going on in his life at all.
- So him trying to open up, it's strange. - Yeah.
What do you want to tell us?
Um...
Man... [chuckling] I don't even know where to start, um...
Start from the beginning.
And I've been in it for four years.
[Ronald] Damn, four years.
Jeez Louise.
[Lashanti speaking]
I didn't think he liked either one.
[all chuckling]
Yeah.
[Lashanti] Who is she?
[Tyray] Uh, her name is Carmella.
We chatted on Snapchat.
We kind of got, like, a really good bond
and that's kind of how I started to fall in love.
Oh, damn, uh...
[Lashanti] Where's she from?
Like, you know when I went to Barbados last year?
- That's what you went for? - [Tyray laughing nervously]
Like, I went to Barbados and then she, um, she never showed up.
Carmella and I were dating for three years
before I decided to go to Barbados.
Like, I was super excited to see her.
You know, I was going to finally meet her, the love of my life.
So I made it to Barbados.
I booked my trip for five days.
Barbados had very strict COVID, um, rules,
so I had to actually quarantine for three days.
And the plan was for her to meet me at the villa
after the quarantine was over.
So after I got my negative test results I text her,
you know, when can we meet?
But she didn't respond.
She kind of just ghosted me.
I was heartbroken, like, traveling 4,000 miles
for someone and they don't show up.
It was hurtful.
You flew there and she couldn't come out to her own home town
or home city or whatever it is, country, to come see you?
She said it was because of COVID.
[Lashanti] What?
How come you didn't...
Didn't push your issue more?
Why was you so, like, docile?
'Cause I was in love and I didn't wanna, like, push her away.
Man, but there's more though.
[inhaling]
Yesterday, the producers told me that it wasn't really her I was talking to.
It was actually a man that was pretending to be Carmella.
Huh?
Yeah.
Oh, wow. That is sick.
That's a really long time to act like somebody else.
I know, and I don't know what to do now, like...
I just don't know what to do next.
This is... This is shocking. This is... I'm appalled.
- It's a surprise, yeah. - Yeah.
[Lashanti] I can't believe it's happening to him.
I feel bad 'cause you don't just catfish a person like Tyray
because he is a good-hearted person.
My heart is broke for him.
[Ronald] That's wild.
Wait, how did they confess? What did they say?
They have, like, a recording or something.
- Oh. - [Tyray] They wanted to play it
but I didn't want to hear it right now.
I think you should hear it.
You have to know what's going on so you have some closure.
We are right here to support you.
Come on, hold my hand.
[Tyray and Lashanti laughing]
[Lashanti] I'm serious.
[Tyray] I don't know, I'm scared.
You'll be all right.
All right.
[Tyray] Uh, I guess.
- Hold my hand too? - [Tyray chuckling]
[Tyray and Ronald laughing]
- [Lashanti] Go ahead. - [Tyray laughing] All right.
[producer] This is a recording of the conversation
one of our producers had with Christian
after we first made contact.
[Lashanti speaking]
Tyray.
[Christian speaking indistinctly]
[Lashanti] It's okay.
- Are you okay? - Yeah.
It's all right to not be okay.
Here, just...
- Thank you. - [Lashanti] Mmm-hmm.
[Razvan speaking]
I think it's the most beautiful thing that happened...
[Amanda] I've been waiting for this moment
but now that it's here
I'm scared.
[Amanda squealing excitedly]
[folk music playing]
[Razvan sighing]
[Razvan speaking]
I think it's the most emotional and...
Uh, the most beautiful thing that happened...
[chuckling]
I am so nervous, I don't know.
Today, my American girlfriend, Amanda,
is coming here in Romania.
She will be here
and I feel like it would be a very special moment
because when you meet the right person
you are happy, you are complete.
[laughing] Oh, no, this is... No.
This will look great.
[Amanda speaking]
I just arrived in Romania
to finally see Razvan in person
and to not just see him over the phone
and, like, kiss a phone screen.
[Razvan speaking]
[Amanda] It feels surreal.
It feels like I've been waiting for this moment for a very long time.
But now that it's here, it's kind of like...
I don't know, I'm scared.
Maybe I'm ready, maybe I'm not, but...
I'm here so just gotta go for it.
[Razvan speaking] [chuckling]
[inspirational music plays]
[chuckling]
[squealing excitedly]
[chuckling]
[sighing]
[pop music playing]
♪ I want you and only you ♪
[Razvan speaking]
[Amanda speaking]
[Razvan speaking]
[Amanda speaking]
[Razvan chuckling]
[Amanda] No, I don't, I'm stinky.
I mean, I can't believe she's here.
It feels amazing.
It feels like... I can't believe it.
- Oh, oh, ooh. - [Amanda chuckling]
[Razvan speaking]
- [Amanda] Oh, that's for me? - [Razvan] Yes.
Thanks.
- I thought you'd like it. - I love it.
- I take this. - Let's get out of here.
[Amanda speaking]
I feel like...
[Amanda] I don't know.
[Razvan chuckling] And through here.
[Amanda chuckling] What?
Okay, let's go.
[Amanda speaking]
[Razvan laughing]
[Amanda] I've been waiting for this moment for so long.
But I'm realizing it's gonna take me a little bit
to kind of, feel more comfortable to be with him.
Like, have that physical connection with him.
Thank you.
So I just hope Razvan is patient with me
and understands that I need to take things slowly.
[Razvan speaking]
I'm looking to hire a private investigator in Vietnam
in order for me to get the truth.
How often do you find that women are lying?
Eighty?
[Thang speaking]
[Riley] Oh, my gosh.
[in other language]
[chuckling]
[all laughing]
[Sheila in English]
[in other language]
[all laughing]
[piano music playing]
[Riley] Tomorrow, I'm leaving for Vietnam
to meet Violet for the first time.
I was excited to go to Vietnam
but I found out that Violet sent some disturbing texts to my father
when we were not really getting along.
I'm very hurt about her actions
and it makes me question everything she's been telling me even more.
But I still wanna go,
I just wanna navigate this with the most clarity that I can,
so I can protect myself and my heart.
[call dialing]
[call answering]
[Riley] Hi, how are you?
I'm doing well.
So, I really wanna thank you for taking the time to meet with me
because I will be in the country in a few days
and I'm very interested in hiring a private eye.
I always felt that Violet hasn't really been giving me the full story
about the divorce and not deleting the dating app.
It's a lot.
So, I'm looking to hire a private investigator in Vietnam
in order for me to get the truth.
[Thang speaking]
Well, I met a woman from Vietnam on a dating app.
And I'm actually coming to see her for the first time
since we met almost two years ago.
And we had some issues.
So I'm looking for someone that can just make sure
that she's telling me now, the real stories.
My main concern is, is she really divorced?
The other thing I would like to know is, is she still on the dating app?
Because she, when we had a big falling out, because of one of her lies,
I went back on the app just to see and she was on the dating app,
using a different name.
Yeah, so...
I do have a copy of her passport.
[Thang speaking]
Okay.
Would you actually, like, get in a car and follow her?
Really?
Wow, okay.
I mean, I feel, uh...
[in other language]
I feel, you know, but...
I just, I wanna protect myself,
and make sure that she is the right person
'cause I really feel that she may be the right person for me.
[Thang speaking]
You know?
Oh, wow.
[Riley] Oh, really?
How often, when you do your investigation,
do you find that women are lying?
Is it 50%, 40%?
50%, wow.
[Thang speaking]
Oh, 80.
[Thang speaking]
Oh, my gosh.
Wow.
I'm trying to... I'm trying to stay positive.
But it's, you know, I'm really worried
to find out the truth.
[Thang] Yeah.
I wanna believe that Violet is telling me the truth.
But hearing this investigator say what he has found in the past,
is a little scary.
Part of me really wants to know what's going on
but one of my concerns is that I just might be wrong
and going down a rabbit hole in my own mind.
And if she was to find out that I'm hiring a PI,
it would just, it would hit the fan.
She could leave me.
And I'm not prepared to take that chance.
I don't know if I would like to move forward
but thank you so much for taking the time to talk to me.
Very nice to meet you, thank you.
[Riley] Bye.
[in other language]
[in English] I'm Sheila. I'm 31-years-old,
from Cebu, Philippines.
[laughing]
[in Tagalog]
[in English]
He makes me laugh.
He makes me smile everyday.
He always say, "Mom."
[sighing]
[in other language]
[in English] I meet Jhonreil's father when I was 16 or 17.
'Cause he's too young
and he cannot support our son.
My son and I don't have a lot
but we do the best we can with what we have.
In my house we don't have all running water...
[in other language]
[in English] Me and my son and my parents, live together.
But my house is difficult to live because it's very small.
And now the roofs are gone.
We have very limited electricity
but we have a toilet.
[in other language]
[in English] My boyfriend's name is David.
He's from Omaha, Nebraska.
After a few days we meet
we started to talk every day.
David treat me like a queen,
and I feel butterflies
every time we talk.
[in other language]
[in English]
[Sheila] When I was a kid...
[in other language]
[in English] And then my eardrums was broke.
[Sheila speaking]
That I never felt with my other relationship.
[Sheila in other language]
[Sheila in English]
And I really appreciated it and thankful for him...
A lot.
[in other language]
[friend talking]
[in English] Oh, my God, my Sheila, my happy, so sexy.
[in other language]
[Sheila in English]
Every day, every day.
[in other language]
[friend speaking]
[in English] I am a jealousy person.
[Sheila in other language]
[in English] I cannot control my jealousy,
so we fight with David.
[in other language]
[Sheila speaking]
[Sheila in English]
Here we are.
[Amanda speaking]
[Razvan speaking]
Oh, okay.
Why? Because you'll cry after?
Are there any, like, parks around here?
Yes, we have a big park.
[Razvan speaking]
[Amanda] This is heavy.
Here we are.
[Amanda speaking]
- Oh, you're so, so sweet. - Do you like it?
Yeah.
It's a little strange, like, seeing everything in person.
I mean, it feels unreal to even be here.
[Amanda speaking]
[Razvan speaking]
Oh, okay.
- For me and you having sex? - Yeah.
I was thinking we need to use.
Why? Because you'll cry after?
[phone ringing]
[Razvan] Hi.
[Aleena speaking]
I miss you so much. Are you having a good day?
- Yep. - Let Mommy talk to Junie for a little bit.
[Razvan] Hi Junie. How are you?
Yeah, look. She's here in Romania.
[Amanda] The bedroom is too far away.
- No. - [both chuckling]
Listen, Mommy's gonna sleep on the couch,
and Razvan's gonna sleep in his bed.
Well, I love you so much.
You call me before bedtime, okay?
- Bye. - Bye.
Did you hear what he said?
He said, "Let me see the bedroom."
Maybe if he just wants to know...
Yeah.
I've only been in Romania a few hours,
but any time I talk to my kids or talk about them,
like, even right now,
like, I'm starting to just get so emotional, like...
They're my world and I love them so much.
I wanna make sure they feel secure with me being away.
[Amanda speaking]
Okay.
But I know this trip to see Razvan
is as much for them as it is for me.
Because there is potential for him to be what they need
as that guy, that father figure in their lives,
which is why I'm here for three weeks visiting him,
and getting to know him.
Razvan, what's up with all the things on the sink?
Oh, well that's my stuff...
Where am I gonna put my stuff?
Oh, look, let me put my brush here.
It falls off because there's no room.
[Razvan] I will make some.
Why didn't you do it before I arrived?
Well, uh...
You know, it is the first day that we see each other.
It's the first night that she will spend with...
I need to be patient with her a little bit.
Okay...
[Amanda speaking]
[laughing]
Why did you do that?
- [speaking indistinctly] - [laughing]
I just wanna kiss him so much because he just looks so good.
But Razvan and I 100% will not have sex tonight,
because I do also feel guilty
for even being in a relationship with Razvan,
you know, because of Jason.
I think I'll get over it over time,
but, I mean, that guilt is still there.
[Razvan speaking]
[Jasmine gasping]
- Baby! - Jasmine!
[Jasmine speaking]
Oh, my God.
♪ I walk right at my own speed ♪
♪ I don't run for nobody ♪
♪ Yeah, I go my own way ♪
♪ No matter what they say ♪
- [Marco] Next stop, Panama. - [Gino] Oh, yeah.
♪ I like it that way ♪
[Gino] You betcha.
The day has finally arrived
and I have chills all over my body.
Like it really hits me, you know,
like, I'm really gonna see Jasmine soon.
[Gino] And even though he has concerns about Jasmine,
my Uncle Marco is Mr. Reliable.
He is taking me to the airport today.
[Marco] Here we go again, man. Panama.
[Gino] I'm dying to see her again, you know.
Yeah. Hopefully things go well
and she treats you a little better than last time, I hope.
Yeah. Well, you know, um, we just have to talk,
better communication,
try to work out some of our issues.
Just don't let her push you around this time.
That's one thing, I'm not gonna let her push me around this time.
You've gotta stand up for yourself, buddy,
- and that's it. - I'm not gonna let her push me around this time.
That's it.
[Marco] You know, it seems like he has all these good intentions,
and then he gets there.
She comes there bouncing her boobs in front of him
and all his good commonsense goes and turns to jelly.
- Thank you so much. - Have a great time.
- Yeah, thank you. - Be careful.
Yeah, it's gonna be great. Yeah.
There you go.
Sometimes I wonder if Jasmine is taking advantage of Gino.
- God bless, take care. - All right.
[Marco] So I really hope and pray that she accepts the prenup
and that they resolve all their issues,
'cause I love him.
I really love him.
[Gino] All right...
Oops. [laughing]
Oh, here we go again.
Even though Jasmine and I, our relationship has become
a bit complicated lately,
with all the K-1 visa delays,
and intimacy issues,
but, you know, the fact is
as time goes by, my love grows stronger for her.
Because, you know, she's a very caring person
and she truly loves me,
and, you know, that means a lot to me.
Thank you.
This trip is very important to me
because I'm pretty certain that this will be
the last chance that Jasmine and I have together
and to work out our issues before our visa gets approved
and she's ready to come to the USA.
♪ In those open spaces I can breathe in love ♪
So, I'm not giving up on Jasmine,
because I still believe
that Jasmine and I can work anything out.
Yeah! [laughing]
[Jasmine speaking]
[in Spanish]
[Jasmine in English] I know we have a lot of issues to solve,
but today, the whole world stops
because Gino's arriving. He's my man.
And all I want is to hug him and kiss him and smell him.
[Gino] I made it.
[Jasmine gasps]
Right, his plane is here. He's in Panama.
It's just a matter of a few minutes
to see each other again.
Gino!
I'm feeling even more nervous
than the first time that I met Gino,
because I have more invested now,
and I really want to make this relationship work.
[Jasmine gasps]
Whoa, Jasmine.
- Hi, baby. - Jasmine, oh, my God.
Oh, baby. God!
Oh, my God.
I'm bleeding lipstick.
So people know that you're mine.
Oh!
I'm the happiest man.
I mean, I've been waiting, like, five months
to see Jasmine, and finally I get to see her.
Yes, he's my baby,
and if we were not here at this public place
at the airport with tons of family kids and stuff,
my lipstick would not only be on your face,
but on my favorite piece of meat on earth.
[laughing] I don't know.
Oh, my baby.
Oh.
- Let's go, sexy thing. - Ready.
- Um, oh, no. It looks good. Just leave it. - Okay, good.
I'm gonna take my baby home...
Good plan.
Oh, my God.
Walk. I wanna see you from behind.
Model for me, bitch.
[laughing]
[narrator] Next time on Before the 90 Days...
Oh, my Jesus, forgive us our sins.
Over a decade ago,
I had a pretty profound spiritual awakening.
That led me to the steps of the Roman Catholic Church,
and a love that I've been searching for in Nicola.
But we have lived very different lives
up until this point.
[in other language]
[in English]
Last night, Amanda...
And she starts sucking my neck, like...
Um...
[in other language]
[Violet in English]
[in other language]
[in English] I just wanna find out what I need to find out.
If you feel the need to have a PI follow her,
there's an issue.
Welcome home, my angel.
Oh, my God. What a view!
Is it worth $3,000? That's the question.
Of course it is.
Seeing her spending habits,
it's not making me feel good about our future
and that affects my sexual desire.
[Jasmine speaking]
Do you still in the back of your mind think that she is real?
A little bit.
There is someone behind these messages
that I have a deep connection with.
Maybe, you know, what the producer was told wasn't true.
No, I've never done that.
Let me try this. See what comes up.