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I need to tell you something.
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Oh, my God. What?
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[laughing]
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When I hear of people falling
madly in love online,
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I kind of roll my eyes
a little. But it's happened
to me.
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[Riley] I've never met Violet
in person.
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But now, it's happening.
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I'm going to Vietnam.
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Vietnam, man!
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Look at you. Beautiful!
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And if things work out,
I'm ready to spend the rest
of my life with her.
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[both laughing]
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[in Spanish]
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[doctor speaking]
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Oh, my God.
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This is our last chance
to reignite the spark.
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- No.
- Baby!
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Seven years of talking about
this moment.
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[Meisha] Nicola is the love
of my life.
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But he is so different
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from anyone else I have
ever been with.
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Oh, my gosh. Nicola!
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He is a 46 year-old
virgin.
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[in other language]
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[Sheila in English]
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What if my son cannot connect
with David because he's deaf?
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[Tyray] My girlfriend lives
in Barbados.
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I've never been in love before
but I'm ready to be, like,
husband and wife.
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This is an escort page.
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This is her, right?
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It's not fair for you to do
this to me.
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[Amanda] He's the first person
that I've been with since
the death of my husband.
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I wanted you to be the right person.
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But maybe we're just
not right for each other.
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[phone chimes]
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There's a guy with his shirt
off and you won't show me who
it is. He's just a friend?
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You liar. You lie.
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I'm getting really worried.
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Are you cheating on me?
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- [bleep] you!
- I'm done.
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[Amanda] All right, let's say prayers.
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And we thank you for
everything in our lives that
you have blessed us with.
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Amen, good job.
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Yeah, I think that would be nice.
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[Amanda] All right.
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My name is Amanda. I'm
31 years old.
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I live in Eunice, Louisiana.
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But I'm currently visiting
my sister in Marietta, Ohio.
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Okay, lay down.
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I am.
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Okay.
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Earlier this year, I lost my
husband, Jason, to his battle
with cancer.
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Jason and I were married
eight years.
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He was such a jokester.
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Yeah!
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He loved to make people laugh.
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But he also took great care
of us.
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He was smart,
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just a good guy with
a good heart.
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[imitating horse sounds]
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Maddy, we're gonna go faster.
Hang on!
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We were best friends.
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And I would have never
expected a future without him.
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Where you going?
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But about a year ago, Jason
started having lung problems.
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He felt like he may have
pneumonia or something, like,
in his chest.
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So they did x-rays, PET
scans, CT scans.
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You know, they didn't see
anything but he was kind of
telling them, like,
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"No, I don't feel right.
Something is wrong." And
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maybe eight months after his
first time going in,
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Jason was diagnosed with
stage four, terminal ampullary cancer.
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The cancer was throughout his body.
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And the doctor said,
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best case scenario would be
for him to live
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three months with chemotherapy.
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Jason just kind of...
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He just, like, looked at me,
but, like, he didn't cry or anything.
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I felt, like, even in that
moment, like,
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he was trying to be strong.
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And then, three days later,
he was so weak.
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I ended up forcing him to go
in to the hospital.
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And only ten days after
his diagnosis,
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I was looking at him, and...
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just kind of seeing, like...
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Like... You know... Like...
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his life leave his eyes.
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And he was gone.
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[sniffles]
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I waited, I think, three days
to tell my kids.
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You know, I told them, like,
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Daddy passed away.
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He's in heaven, and...
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My son said, "When will
Daddy be back from heaven?"
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And Alina, she said, "You
can't come back from heaven."
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And...
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I just hugged them.
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Ay!
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It's been so hard without him.
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But having my kids helped me.
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Because I have to
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take care of them and be
there for them.
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[kisses]
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I love you.
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When Jason was sick,
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he had told me he wanted
me to
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find love again and move on.
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You know, he was like, it's
not fair for you to live your
life alone.
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Also, like, the kids need
someone in their lives.
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And that it wasn't fair,
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like, to him, if I-- You know,
if I didn't-- If I just lived
my life,
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you know, not finding love again.
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And, of course, you know,
I didn't expect to.
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After Jason passed away,
I tried to keep occupied
and busy.
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So I definitely watched a lot
of social media videos.
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It was just an escape from
everything going on in
the real world.
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One night, my friend was doing
a live stream challenge
on TikTok.
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My friend kept winning and
the guy who lost was being
so silly.
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And I was like, oh, he's cute.
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On TikTok, you can pay
to send people gifts.
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So I sent him a rose.
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Which is worth, like,
less than a dollar.
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Later that day, he sent me
a private message.
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Over the next couple days,
we messaged back and forth
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and before I knew it, we were
talking on the phone every
day and night.
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And I was just completely
opening up to him.
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And then, I think I, like,
send him a photo or something
of me and he was like,
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"I want you to be only mine."
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And so it kinda, like, just
went from there.
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Razvan is 26 years old.
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He lives in Bucharest, Romania.
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He is a model, singer and
social media entertainer.
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Sorry.
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I told Razvan really early on
that I was a widow.
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And he truly has been someone
that I can lean on.
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And he has talked me through
some of my worst days.
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Giddyup!
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[Amanda] He makes me laugh all
the time,
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he's silly and kind of, like,
a little bit dorky.
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[Razvan] Look how beautiful.
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That's amazing.
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[Amanda] He is super sweet and
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he's just one of those people
that will do anything for
someone he loves.
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We've been together for
four months.
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Every morning when I wake
up, he'll have, like, messages
waiting for me.
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Babe, why you don't answer me?
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I just wanna say I love you
so much and call me when you
wake up.
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Bye.
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I do feel some guilt
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being with Razvan so soon
after my husband's death.
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I know that he could never
replace Jason.
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But we started to form this
really deep connection.
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So in a few days, I am
travelling to Romania
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to meet Razvan in person
for the first time.
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It's really a tricky thing
to navigate.
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How do you move on?
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And it's not just myself,
I have to think about
the kids.
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I don't want my kids
to think, like,
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I'm with someone else,
you know? And
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that I don't love their
dad anymore.
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Because I do.
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I mean, I never thought that
I would meet someone
so quickly.
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It's like we just kind of got
caught up in this whirlwind
of, like, emotions.
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And we're like, "I love you
so much."
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I've never even meet him
in person.
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And to say these things
is crazy.
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But...
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I just feel in my heart that
we are meant to be and it will
work itself out.
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♪ Keep, keep on going ♪
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♪ Know just what to do ♪
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Yeah, this one's dark and natural.
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- Yeah, that looks
good quality.
- Yes.
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And we can also take brown
and combine the two.
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How do you like my new hair?
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I think it's a great look.
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[laughing]
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♪ Yow! That's right ♪
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The tape-ins, you can wear
them at night,
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- and all the time, right?
- Yes.
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Okay.
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I'm Gino, I'm 53 years old.
And I'm from Canton, Michigan.
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And you said, this is, like,
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human hair, I think?
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100% human hair.
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Oh, yeah.
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- Maybe I should get a picture
for her to see it.
- Okay.
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I'm here to pick something up
for my fiance.
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But I don't know, really,
anything about hair extensions.
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How much does something
like this cost?
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This box alone is $320.
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That's a lot of money.
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How many do you think
a woman would need?
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I would say five, to be safe.
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Holy [bleep].
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Well, maybe I can buy, like,
one sample.
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I hope she doesn't think
I'm gonna buy all the hair.
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[laughs]
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I'm not one to buy a lot of
materialistic things.
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I just don't go spending,
spending, spending.
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But my fiance? Now she's
a different story.
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[laughs]
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See what kinda response--
Oh, oh. She's writing.
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Oh.
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Jasmine pushes me
to my limit sometimes.
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But there's not a lot
I wouldn't do for her.
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She's a feisty, passionate Latina.
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And she's the love of my life.
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[Gino] I've met Jasmine over
two years ago.
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And she lives in Panama.
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Her beauty and sexiness
drew me in.
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But her dynamite personality,
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that's what really did it
for me.
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So after nine months
of talking online,
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I booked a trip to Panama
to meet her in person.
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That's risky, right?
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[laughing] I guess I am adventurous.
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Boo! Look at you!
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Jasmine!
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[both laughing]
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Who's my little baby?
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[both laughing]
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We had super amazing moments together.
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You're so hot and sexy.
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[laughs]
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But we've also had some rough
times too.
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One of your exes sent me
a message.
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Did you send her naked
pictures of me?
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[shouting] That was part of
my privacy!
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How can you do that?
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[bleep]
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[Gino] Me sending nude
photos to my ex
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really pushed our relationship
to the edge.
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But Jasmine and I have
a very strong bond.
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It would take a lot
to break it.
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I love you.
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Jasmine.
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Will you marry me?
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Of course, yes.
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[both laugh]
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Leaving Jasmine in Panama
was one of the hardest things
I've had to do.
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So as soon as I got home,
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I filed the K-1 visa to bring
Jasmine to the United States.
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But, you know, it's taken
a long time to process.
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We're at, like, 12 months.
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So that makes Jasmine frustrated,
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because she wants to be with
me now. And it causes friction
between us.
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You know, we get in a lot
of arguments.
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And Jasmine and I being apart
have kinda made things worse.
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So I have a trip planned
to Panama in a few days.
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And I think we both definitely
need it.
250
00:16:33,586 --> 00:16:38,413
I'm excited because I get
to show off some of my new
clothes to Jasmine.
251
00:16:38,413 --> 00:16:42,241
You know, I got better shirts.
252
00:16:42,241 --> 00:16:45,862
Jasmine did not like
the clothes that I used
to wear.
253
00:16:45,862 --> 00:16:49,103
So I realized I definitely
needed to upgrade.
254
00:16:49,103 --> 00:16:51,448
Last time I went and seen Jasmine,
255
00:16:51,448 --> 00:16:53,413
these wear the hats
that I wore.
256
00:16:55,448 --> 00:16:56,862
This is what I upgraded to.
257
00:16:58,379 --> 00:16:59,206
Look at the difference.
258
00:17:03,379 --> 00:17:04,758
There's a lot riding on
this trip.
259
00:17:08,689 --> 00:17:11,310
We have a lot of good times
together, but
260
00:17:11,310 --> 00:17:14,655
we argue about a lotta stuff.
261
00:17:14,655 --> 00:17:18,724
Like finances and our
sexual issues.
262
00:17:22,103 --> 00:17:27,103
Hopefully this will be my last
trip to Panama before our visa
gets approved.
263
00:17:27,103 --> 00:17:30,827
And if Jasmine and I can't
work out our issues while
I'm there,
264
00:17:30,827 --> 00:17:34,000
then I'm gonna have a lot
of concerns
265
00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:36,000
about bringing her to the USA.
266
00:17:49,172 --> 00:17:51,172
[doctor in Spanish]
267
00:17:53,379 --> 00:17:54,689
[Jasmine speaking]
268
00:18:09,517 --> 00:18:12,827
My name is Jasmine. I'm
35 years old.
269
00:18:12,827 --> 00:18:14,172
And I'm the whole package,
you know?
270
00:18:14,724 --> 00:18:15,862
[in Spanish]
271
00:18:21,344 --> 00:18:22,206
Oh, my God.
272
00:18:23,310 --> 00:18:25,000
I'm a perfectionist.
273
00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:28,551
I like to look and
feel perfect.
274
00:18:33,724 --> 00:18:35,068
[in Spanish]
275
00:19:03,172 --> 00:19:03,931
Hmm.
276
00:19:07,827 --> 00:19:09,413
[in English]
277
00:19:14,172 --> 00:19:16,103
our sex was so good.
278
00:19:16,103 --> 00:19:19,793
But he has visited me other
times since then, and
279
00:19:19,793 --> 00:19:21,931
he barely wants to have sex anymore.
280
00:19:29,206 --> 00:19:33,000
And when we do have sex,
he can't even finish.
281
00:19:39,896 --> 00:19:41,000
[laughs]
282
00:19:43,206 --> 00:19:44,241
[in Spanish]
283
00:20:39,275 --> 00:20:42,448
[in English]
I love Gino so deeply, but...
284
00:20:46,517 --> 00:20:48,448
I feel like we are growing
more distant.
285
00:20:50,689 --> 00:20:55,689
This trip that Gino is taking
to Panama is our last chance.
286
00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:00,758
Before I feel ready
287
00:21:00,758 --> 00:21:02,965
to take that huge step
288
00:21:02,965 --> 00:21:05,862
of moving
to the United States.
289
00:21:05,862 --> 00:21:06,896
[Jasmine in Spanish]
290
00:21:22,344 --> 00:21:24,724
Violet is the woman
of my dreams,
291
00:21:24,724 --> 00:21:26,620
the love of my life.
292
00:21:26,620 --> 00:21:28,689
I'm like super excited
to come there.
293
00:21:28,689 --> 00:21:29,896
- Just...
- [Violet on phone] Oh...
294
00:21:32,137 --> 00:21:33,655
I am not saying that word.
295
00:21:34,275 --> 00:21:35,862
I don't say I love you
296
00:21:35,862 --> 00:21:37,931
because there's something
there with Violet
297
00:21:37,931 --> 00:21:39,551
that she's just not
telling me.
298
00:21:41,206 --> 00:21:43,344
If I go there
and everything goes great...
299
00:21:46,379 --> 00:21:48,413
...and we'll get engaged.
[laughs]
300
00:21:48,413 --> 00:21:49,965
That's just crazy.
301
00:21:49,965 --> 00:21:51,758
You guys have broken up
and gotten back together
302
00:21:51,758 --> 00:21:53,068
how many times already?
303
00:22:02,068 --> 00:22:03,034
[jazz music playing]
304
00:22:19,448 --> 00:22:20,344
I'm Riley.
305
00:22:20,344 --> 00:22:21,862
I'm 48 years old
306
00:22:21,862 --> 00:22:24,517
and I live in
Stroudsburg, Pennsylvania.
307
00:22:24,517 --> 00:22:27,827
I've been trying to rebuild
my jazz collection.
308
00:22:27,827 --> 00:22:31,034
I had over 20,000 albums.
309
00:22:31,034 --> 00:22:35,758
But in 2000, I had a housefire
and I lost everything.
310
00:22:35,758 --> 00:22:38,034
I'm originally from
Southside Jamaica, Queens.
311
00:22:38,758 --> 00:22:40,275
And growing up in New York,
312
00:22:40,275 --> 00:22:42,310
music was a big part
of my life.
313
00:22:42,310 --> 00:22:44,310
Um, I wasn't very popular
growing up.
314
00:22:44,310 --> 00:22:46,482
I was not the cool kid.
315
00:22:46,482 --> 00:22:48,103
So it was my...
316
00:22:48,103 --> 00:22:49,862
kind of my outlet, right,
my thing.
317
00:22:50,862 --> 00:22:52,965
And it just made me feel
less alone.
318
00:22:54,034 --> 00:22:55,344
This is jazz,
319
00:22:55,344 --> 00:22:59,344
and then it goes into
'70s soul and R
320
00:22:59,344 --> 00:23:01,724
And then it goes into
the really obscure,
321
00:23:01,724 --> 00:23:03,206
like Elton Johns and...
322
00:23:06,689 --> 00:23:08,586
Because it's Elton John.
323
00:23:09,517 --> 00:23:10,896
But my main thing is jazz.
324
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:13,689
You can tell.
325
00:23:13,689 --> 00:23:16,586
I see colors, you know,
when I hear music,
326
00:23:16,586 --> 00:23:19,103
especially jazz,
it's like a dance.
327
00:23:22,103 --> 00:23:24,275
You know, that... that...
that rhythm.
328
00:23:24,275 --> 00:23:26,448
When you're listening to jazz,
you gotta have this.
329
00:23:26,448 --> 00:23:27,931
[scatting]
330
00:23:28,448 --> 00:23:29,275
My cigars.
331
00:23:29,931 --> 00:23:31,206
It's just fun.
332
00:23:31,206 --> 00:23:32,482
When I play jazz music,
333
00:23:32,482 --> 00:23:33,620
I light up a good cigar.
334
00:23:34,827 --> 00:23:36,000
Yo, that's my...
That's my world.
335
00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:38,103
That's... that's the life.
That's life.
336
00:23:39,206 --> 00:23:40,275
Come on, Meesh.
337
00:23:42,413 --> 00:23:43,655
Good Meesh.
338
00:23:44,724 --> 00:23:46,000
This is Mila.
339
00:23:46,931 --> 00:23:48,931
She's pulling,
and she's very strong.
340
00:23:48,931 --> 00:23:50,482
She's very strong.
341
00:23:50,482 --> 00:23:53,034
I work in public safety
for the US government.
342
00:23:53,034 --> 00:23:57,448
And before that, I was in
the military for eight years.
343
00:23:57,448 --> 00:23:59,931
You know, with my job,
the training that I received,
344
00:23:59,931 --> 00:24:03,068
I have to think
of the most insane thing
345
00:24:03,068 --> 00:24:05,517
that could possibly happen
346
00:24:05,517 --> 00:24:07,724
and how will we prepare
for it.
347
00:24:07,724 --> 00:24:10,172
They trained me to not let my
guard down.
348
00:24:10,172 --> 00:24:12,206
So I... I think it's very
difficult for me
349
00:24:12,206 --> 00:24:14,793
to not have it bleed into
my... my personal life.
350
00:24:14,793 --> 00:24:17,172
Good girl.
351
00:24:17,172 --> 00:24:20,793
I try to be more trusting
and let people in but I...
352
00:24:20,793 --> 00:24:21,793
I always get hurt.
353
00:24:24,689 --> 00:24:27,965
I was in a serious
relationship with someone.
354
00:24:27,965 --> 00:24:31,862
You know, one day
I went to her apartment,
355
00:24:31,862 --> 00:24:33,206
and she wouldn't open
the door,
356
00:24:33,206 --> 00:24:34,482
I was just ringing the bell
357
00:24:34,482 --> 00:24:37,068
and felt it in me
there was something up.
358
00:24:37,068 --> 00:24:38,344
So I went straight
to her bedroom
359
00:24:38,344 --> 00:24:39,793
and there was a guy
in the closet.
360
00:24:41,310 --> 00:24:42,482
She met him through me.
361
00:24:44,310 --> 00:24:46,551
It felt like a betrayal, like...
362
00:24:47,172 --> 00:24:48,655
On another level of hurt.
363
00:24:51,413 --> 00:24:53,344
A few years later,
364
00:24:53,344 --> 00:24:55,793
I finally put myself
out there again...
365
00:24:55,793 --> 00:24:56,689
Come on.
366
00:24:56,689 --> 00:24:58,034
...and then I met someone.
367
00:24:59,344 --> 00:25:01,103
I really thought
she was gonna be the one
368
00:25:01,103 --> 00:25:02,310
I build my forever home with.
369
00:25:03,517 --> 00:25:06,068
So I put a ring on layaway.
370
00:25:06,068 --> 00:25:09,827
And I had every intension
to ask her to marry me.
371
00:25:10,896 --> 00:25:12,827
And then one day she said,
372
00:25:12,827 --> 00:25:15,931
"Oh, I'm gonna go to Philly to
get some stuff or whatever,"
373
00:25:15,931 --> 00:25:17,103
and she just never came back.
374
00:25:18,206 --> 00:25:20,103
Couple of phone calls
here and there.
375
00:25:20,103 --> 00:25:22,034
She gives me her reasons,
376
00:25:22,034 --> 00:25:23,275
but they didn't make sense.
377
00:25:24,241 --> 00:25:26,206
And, uh, that was it.
378
00:25:26,206 --> 00:25:27,275
She was just gone.
379
00:25:29,689 --> 00:25:30,724
Come on.
380
00:25:30,724 --> 00:25:31,758
That was too much for me.
381
00:25:35,241 --> 00:25:36,103
I was in a dark place.
382
00:25:38,758 --> 00:25:40,310
And I was very, very lonely.
383
00:25:42,586 --> 00:25:44,758
So, like, a couple of weeks later,
384
00:25:44,758 --> 00:25:47,241
I downloaded a Vietnamese,
uh, dating app.
385
00:25:49,724 --> 00:25:53,827
My thought process is, "Hey,
when it's nighttime here,
386
00:25:53,827 --> 00:25:55,344
it's daytime there.
387
00:25:55,344 --> 00:25:57,586
I can find somebody
to talk to."
388
00:25:57,586 --> 00:25:59,172
And then I met Violet.
389
00:26:00,137 --> 00:26:03,241
♪ I caught you smiling ♪
390
00:26:03,241 --> 00:26:06,862
[Riley] Violet is from
Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam.
391
00:26:06,862 --> 00:26:09,000
And she is 43 years old.
392
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:12,310
♪ I swear
That the world has stopped ♪
393
00:26:12,310 --> 00:26:17,034
♪ For the beautiful smile
I see ♪
394
00:26:17,034 --> 00:26:18,689
[Riley] She's beautiful.
I think she's beautiful.
395
00:26:18,689 --> 00:26:20,862
She's... Like, she don't even
look her age.
396
00:26:20,862 --> 00:26:21,724
It is crazy.
397
00:26:22,793 --> 00:26:26,068
And I felt like
there was a connection.
398
00:26:26,068 --> 00:26:28,379
Ever since then, we've just
been chatting, you know,
399
00:26:28,379 --> 00:26:31,965
and calling each other pretty
much daily for two years.
400
00:26:31,965 --> 00:26:36,482
Violet is... the sweetest jerk
I've ever met in my life.
401
00:26:37,482 --> 00:26:39,206
She is hilarious.
402
00:26:39,206 --> 00:26:40,379
She's very clever
403
00:26:40,379 --> 00:26:41,931
with her jokes.
404
00:26:41,931 --> 00:26:43,413
She'll say something
real slick.
405
00:26:43,413 --> 00:26:44,827
It's like a joke grenade.
406
00:26:44,827 --> 00:26:46,793
It'll take me
like three seconds for it
to explode.
407
00:26:46,793 --> 00:26:49,206
I'd be like,
"Hey, wait a minute."
408
00:26:50,413 --> 00:26:52,827
I've never met Violet
in person.
409
00:26:52,827 --> 00:26:54,482
But now it's happening.
410
00:26:54,482 --> 00:26:55,931
Come on, Meesh.
411
00:26:55,931 --> 00:26:59,068
In a few days, I'm gonna be
going to Vietnam
for two weeks
412
00:26:59,068 --> 00:27:00,827
to meet the woman
of my dreams,
413
00:27:00,827 --> 00:27:02,413
the love of my life.
414
00:27:02,413 --> 00:27:04,793
I get to hold her, kiss her,
touch her,
415
00:27:04,793 --> 00:27:07,000
have those laughs together
in person.
416
00:27:08,241 --> 00:27:10,137
You know, after everything
I've been through,
417
00:27:10,137 --> 00:27:11,137
I really believe that
418
00:27:11,137 --> 00:27:12,896
this could be
a new beginning for me.
419
00:27:20,793 --> 00:27:21,620
[line ringing]
420
00:27:26,275 --> 00:27:27,379
[Riley] Hey, baby.
421
00:27:27,379 --> 00:27:28,448
You look pretty.
422
00:27:29,551 --> 00:27:30,448
Oh, thank you.
423
00:27:30,448 --> 00:27:31,862
[Riley] You know what--
424
00:27:31,862 --> 00:27:34,379
[Riley] Yeah. Oh, you're
always ready? Oh, okay.
425
00:27:34,379 --> 00:27:35,413
[both laughing]
426
00:27:36,517 --> 00:27:38,310
It's only, like,
a few more days.
427
00:27:38,758 --> 00:27:39,689
Yeah.
428
00:27:39,689 --> 00:27:42,068
Are you excited for me
to come and visit?
429
00:27:43,310 --> 00:27:44,482
[Violet on phone] Hmm.
430
00:27:44,482 --> 00:27:45,931
[Riley] A... a little.
431
00:27:45,931 --> 00:27:47,586
Uh, just a little bit, yeah.
432
00:27:48,655 --> 00:27:49,896
[in other language]
You.
433
00:27:49,896 --> 00:27:50,931
[both laughing]
434
00:27:54,413 --> 00:27:57,068
I'm like really, really,
really super excited
435
00:27:57,068 --> 00:27:59,310
to come near...
I'm... I'm real happy.
436
00:27:59,310 --> 00:28:01,206
- It's just...
- [Violet on phone] Oh.
437
00:28:03,172 --> 00:28:04,206
[both laughing]
438
00:28:04,206 --> 00:28:05,965
I am not saying that word.
439
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:08,103
I don't say I love you.
440
00:28:08,827 --> 00:28:10,862
I don't ever say I love you.
441
00:28:10,862 --> 00:28:13,482
'Cause whenever I say
I love you to a person,
they leave.
442
00:28:15,551 --> 00:28:18,689
I... I... I'm not saying
the word but I'll say this.
443
00:28:21,862 --> 00:28:23,620
Oh, yeah, with this. This.
444
00:28:25,172 --> 00:28:27,793
It started because Violet
told me
445
00:28:27,793 --> 00:28:31,586
women in Vietnam mean
the opposite of what they say.
446
00:28:31,586 --> 00:28:33,448
So when she says she hates me,
447
00:28:33,448 --> 00:28:35,517
it actually means I like you
448
00:28:35,517 --> 00:28:37,275
or I care for you or whatever.
449
00:28:37,275 --> 00:28:40,241
So she knows how I feel
when I do this.
450
00:28:40,241 --> 00:28:42,586
Really, it's just
a sweet thing that we just do.
451
00:28:42,586 --> 00:28:44,206
I think it's kind of cute, honestly.
452
00:28:45,965 --> 00:28:48,034
But I care about Violet a lot.
453
00:28:48,034 --> 00:28:50,103
But we've been through
some ups and downs
454
00:28:50,103 --> 00:28:51,931
over the last year or so.
455
00:28:51,931 --> 00:28:55,034
And because of my past
relationships and...
456
00:28:55,034 --> 00:28:56,103
and, you know, unfortunately,
457
00:28:56,103 --> 00:28:57,793
because of what I do
for a living,
458
00:28:57,793 --> 00:29:00,310
I might be just
overly cautious.
459
00:29:00,310 --> 00:29:03,379
But I just feel like there's
something there with Violet
460
00:29:03,379 --> 00:29:06,517
that she's just not
telling me or she's not...
461
00:29:06,517 --> 00:29:09,620
being as forthcoming
as I would need her to be
462
00:29:09,620 --> 00:29:11,241
on certain things.
463
00:29:11,241 --> 00:29:13,655
[Violet speaking over phone]
[laughs]
464
00:29:13,655 --> 00:29:16,068
Becau... You don't know
why I'm excited?
465
00:29:16,068 --> 00:29:16,965
I swear I...
466
00:29:16,965 --> 00:29:18,413
I think you're just
messing with me.
467
00:29:18,413 --> 00:29:19,758
I think you...
468
00:29:19,758 --> 00:29:20,931
You're just as excited.
469
00:29:20,931 --> 00:29:22,896
You just don't wanna
show me anything.
470
00:29:22,896 --> 00:29:23,862
[Violet on phone]
Are you sure?
471
00:29:23,862 --> 00:29:25,586
- [Riley] I'm positive.
- [Violet laughing]
472
00:29:27,724 --> 00:29:31,241
I know I am not the easiest
person to understand.
473
00:29:31,241 --> 00:29:32,620
There's a jungle up here.
474
00:29:32,620 --> 00:29:34,275
There's a lot going on
up there.
475
00:29:35,137 --> 00:29:37,275
It just feels that Violet...
476
00:29:38,068 --> 00:29:39,275
may just understand me.
477
00:29:40,517 --> 00:29:42,931
After everything
I've been through,
478
00:29:42,931 --> 00:29:45,103
it's really hard for me
to trust people,
479
00:29:45,103 --> 00:29:48,103
but I have to go through
with this.
480
00:29:48,103 --> 00:29:51,068
I truly believe
that she's worth the risk.
481
00:29:51,068 --> 00:29:53,793
I... I... I'mma let you go.
I know it's late there.
482
00:29:53,793 --> 00:29:55,655
Get some rest.
Have a good night, okay?
483
00:29:57,137 --> 00:29:58,137
Okay.
484
00:30:00,551 --> 00:30:01,379
Bye.
485
00:30:02,034 --> 00:30:03,000
[chuckles softly]
486
00:30:04,793 --> 00:30:05,689
[chuckles]
487
00:30:20,103 --> 00:30:22,103
[Amber speaking]
488
00:30:23,655 --> 00:30:25,724
I don't know.
I'm literally so pale.
489
00:30:25,724 --> 00:30:28,275
- First of all, have you ever
gotten a spray tan?
- Yes.
490
00:30:28,275 --> 00:30:29,896
They don't turn out streaky
or like...
491
00:30:29,896 --> 00:30:31,448
[Amanda] I mean, it's been
like a long time,
492
00:30:31,448 --> 00:30:34,000
but I feel like spray tans
have gotten better.
493
00:30:34,655 --> 00:30:36,000
In a few days,
494
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:37,517
I am going to Romania
495
00:30:37,517 --> 00:30:41,689
to meet my boyfriend, Razvan,
in person for the first time.
496
00:30:41,689 --> 00:30:44,206
So my sister, Amber, is
taking me to get a spray tan
497
00:30:44,206 --> 00:30:46,137
because I do not want
498
00:30:46,137 --> 00:30:48,206
to get off the plane
in Romania and
499
00:30:50,827 --> 00:30:52,965
I want Razvan to see me
and think,
500
00:30:52,965 --> 00:30:55,655
"She looks toned, tanned
and sexy."
501
00:30:56,551 --> 00:30:57,551
[laughing]
502
00:30:58,724 --> 00:31:00,241
[woman] All right.
503
00:31:00,241 --> 00:31:02,000
So go ahead and undress there.
504
00:31:03,310 --> 00:31:04,896
Now...
505
00:31:04,896 --> 00:31:07,379
do you have any special
occasion you're going to?
506
00:31:07,379 --> 00:31:11,000
[Amanda] Yes. I'm going to see
my boyfriend in Romania.
507
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:12,172
[woman] No kidding.
508
00:31:12,172 --> 00:31:13,620
- That's exciting. [laughs]
- [Amanda] I know. That's...
509
00:31:13,620 --> 00:31:15,275
[laughs]
510
00:31:15,275 --> 00:31:17,655
- [Amanda] It's the first time
I'm ever meeting him, so...
- [woman] Oh, okay.
511
00:31:17,655 --> 00:31:19,758
- [Amanda] I feel like
I need a little tan.
- [woman] Okay. All right.
512
00:31:19,758 --> 00:31:20,965
We're gonna start in the back.
513
00:31:23,655 --> 00:31:26,758
[Amber] I think Amanda
plays the strong role.
514
00:31:26,758 --> 00:31:30,551
She doesn't really like
to show how bad she's hurting.
515
00:31:31,413 --> 00:31:34,137
And I don't think
she is dealing with
516
00:31:34,137 --> 00:31:35,758
the loss of her husband.
517
00:31:35,758 --> 00:31:38,482
She's just trying to cover up
a lot of grief,
518
00:31:38,482 --> 00:31:41,000
and Razvan just happened to be
right there at the right time.
519
00:31:43,827 --> 00:31:46,000
Your new boyfriend is really
going to like this.
520
00:31:46,379 --> 00:31:48,000
[laughing]
521
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:50,103
- Okay, dear, go ahead
and get dressed.
- All right. Thank you.
522
00:31:53,620 --> 00:31:55,448
Well, you know you don't
have to go.
523
00:31:55,448 --> 00:31:57,448
- You can always say no.
- Oh, my gosh, stop it.
524
00:31:57,448 --> 00:32:00,103
Like, I don't know,
I just feel like...
525
00:32:00,103 --> 00:32:02,827
Uh, this is all going so fast
with you and him.
526
00:32:02,827 --> 00:32:05,931
And at first, I thought
this was just,
like, a little fling,
527
00:32:05,931 --> 00:32:08,137
- and it's turned
into something...
- [Amanda laughing]
528
00:32:08,137 --> 00:32:10,689
...that I don't know
if you're ready for.
529
00:32:10,689 --> 00:32:12,689
You're still grieving
a little bit,
530
00:32:12,689 --> 00:32:14,310
going through some things.
531
00:32:14,310 --> 00:32:16,517
There's no, like,
standard set,
532
00:32:16,517 --> 00:32:18,206
"Oh, you have to grieve
for this long
533
00:32:18,206 --> 00:32:19,379
and then you have to do this
534
00:32:19,379 --> 00:32:20,724
and then you have
to be alone."
535
00:32:20,724 --> 00:32:23,137
- No, like...
- I know there's no playbook
on things like that
536
00:32:23,137 --> 00:32:24,448
and I'm aware,
537
00:32:24,448 --> 00:32:28,827
but that doesn't mean that
it's okay to...
to rush things.
538
00:32:28,827 --> 00:32:30,586
You guys have broken up
and gotten back together
539
00:32:30,586 --> 00:32:32,034
how many times already?
540
00:32:34,344 --> 00:32:36,482
Razvan and I have broken up
541
00:32:36,482 --> 00:32:39,620
a few times throughout
our relationship,
542
00:32:39,620 --> 00:32:43,344
mainly because of his
social media content.
543
00:32:43,793 --> 00:32:46,517
He will flirt,
544
00:32:47,206 --> 00:32:48,551
do stripteases.
545
00:32:48,551 --> 00:32:50,586
I don't know,
just crazy things.
546
00:32:51,344 --> 00:32:54,379
He tells me it's just his job
547
00:32:54,379 --> 00:32:56,482
and, like, it's like acting
for him.
548
00:32:56,482 --> 00:32:58,517
That's what he tells me.
549
00:32:58,517 --> 00:33:01,655
But one time, he thought
that I was sleeping
550
00:33:01,655 --> 00:33:04,689
and he didn't expect me to be
on his live stream.
551
00:33:04,689 --> 00:33:08,103
Then suggested that
this woman shower,
552
00:33:08,103 --> 00:33:11,034
uh... with her clothes on and
she had on a white T-shirt.
553
00:33:11,034 --> 00:33:12,827
I don't think she was wearing
a bra.
554
00:33:12,827 --> 00:33:15,827
So I broke up with him
because of that.
555
00:33:15,827 --> 00:33:18,724
But each time, we always
end up getting back together.
556
00:33:19,931 --> 00:33:21,448
Obviously, I know
we have problems,
557
00:33:21,448 --> 00:33:23,413
'cause no relationship
is perfect.
558
00:33:23,413 --> 00:33:25,931
But I think he cares about me
so much,
559
00:33:25,931 --> 00:33:27,310
like we've gotten closer.
560
00:33:27,310 --> 00:33:28,448
I feel like
we're at a point that,
561
00:33:28,448 --> 00:33:31,586
like, if I go there
and everything goes great,
562
00:33:31,586 --> 00:33:34,448
maybe he will propose
563
00:33:34,448 --> 00:33:36,344
and we'll get engaged.
[laughing]
564
00:33:37,206 --> 00:33:38,000
[Amber sighs]
565
00:33:39,206 --> 00:33:40,103
What?
566
00:33:40,103 --> 00:33:41,896
Why are we talking
about marriage
567
00:33:41,896 --> 00:33:43,413
with a guy that you've
never met?
568
00:33:43,413 --> 00:33:45,793
Like, that... I don't know,
that's crazy to me.
569
00:33:45,793 --> 00:33:48,000
- It seems--
- Getting engaged
and committing...
570
00:33:49,448 --> 00:33:51,103
I don't think that's crazy.
I mean...
571
00:33:51,103 --> 00:33:52,379
Are you ready for that?
572
00:33:54,448 --> 00:33:55,275
Yeah.
573
00:33:57,137 --> 00:33:58,103
I don't think you are.
574
00:33:59,655 --> 00:34:01,413
I will be at a loss for words,
575
00:34:01,413 --> 00:34:04,000
um, if she comes back engaged.
[chuckles]
576
00:34:04,758 --> 00:34:06,758
They fight a decent bit
577
00:34:06,758 --> 00:34:09,241
for being a...
a fairly new relationship.
578
00:34:09,241 --> 00:34:11,689
And I think
this is really fast,
579
00:34:11,689 --> 00:34:13,655
after the death
of her husband.
580
00:34:13,655 --> 00:34:14,689
She doesn't know herself.
581
00:34:14,689 --> 00:34:15,896
She's always been a wife,
582
00:34:15,896 --> 00:34:17,862
she's always been, you know,
a mom.
583
00:34:17,862 --> 00:34:19,517
She needs a little time
to, like,
584
00:34:19,517 --> 00:34:20,758
find herself again.
585
00:34:20,758 --> 00:34:22,586
And I don't think she's gonna
be able to do that,
586
00:34:22,586 --> 00:34:24,310
jumping into another marriage.
587
00:34:25,758 --> 00:34:27,137
I... I... I'm... I'm worried
588
00:34:27,137 --> 00:34:29,310
that you don't genuinely
care about him
589
00:34:29,310 --> 00:34:31,103
and you're just trying to...
590
00:34:31,103 --> 00:34:34,034
to cover this void that
you have with... with Jason.
591
00:34:34,689 --> 00:34:35,827
It's not like I was like,
592
00:34:35,827 --> 00:34:38,172
going out looking
for someone, no.
593
00:34:38,172 --> 00:34:41,068
It's like you don't know
what I feel
594
00:34:42,482 --> 00:34:43,931
being like alone...
595
00:34:45,620 --> 00:34:47,517
with the kids. [sighs]
596
00:34:47,517 --> 00:34:49,448
Like, no one can know that
597
00:34:49,448 --> 00:34:51,068
unless you had experienced it,
you know?
598
00:34:54,862 --> 00:34:56,724
I'm not just thinking
of myself either.
599
00:34:56,724 --> 00:34:57,586
You know what I mean?
600
00:34:58,034 --> 00:34:59,000
Like...
601
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,379
I feel like... [sniffles]
602
00:35:01,379 --> 00:35:04,000
Like, the kids need someone,
too, you know?
603
00:35:04,689 --> 00:35:06,034
- I know.
- [Amanda sniffles]
604
00:35:06,034 --> 00:35:08,206
Even like before I met Razvan,
I was like,
605
00:35:08,206 --> 00:35:09,413
thinking like, "How...
606
00:35:10,517 --> 00:35:11,689
How am I gonna do it?
607
00:35:11,689 --> 00:35:13,000
Like, how am I gonna
raise the kids?"
608
00:35:14,482 --> 00:35:16,896
And to be there and be
everything that they need,
609
00:35:16,896 --> 00:35:18,103
you know, I can't. [sniffles]
610
00:35:19,896 --> 00:35:23,448
I can never fill
that other role.
611
00:35:23,448 --> 00:35:24,827
- [Amber] I know.
- [Amanda sniffles]
612
00:35:28,206 --> 00:35:29,758
[Amber] I just...
613
00:35:29,758 --> 00:35:31,620
I don't want you getting hurt
or anything.
614
00:35:31,620 --> 00:35:32,655
That's all.
615
00:35:35,758 --> 00:35:36,758
[sniffles]
616
00:35:38,896 --> 00:35:40,724
[Tyray] My girlfriend's name
is Carmella
617
00:35:40,724 --> 00:35:42,620
and she lives in Barbados.
618
00:35:42,620 --> 00:35:47,103
She looks like Cardi B
and Megan Thee Stallion
combined. [laughs]
619
00:35:47,103 --> 00:35:50,000
We do have, you know,
naughty Snapchat sessions.
620
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:52,896
We send, like, sexy pictures,
like, you know?
621
00:35:53,482 --> 00:35:54,758
The... [laughs]
622
00:35:56,275 --> 00:35:57,862
The booty. [laughs]
623
00:36:11,448 --> 00:36:16,379
♪ Chillin' in the park, uh,
Yeah ♪
624
00:36:16,379 --> 00:36:18,896
♪ Families walking by
And ladies, too ♪
625
00:36:18,896 --> 00:36:20,724
♪ Dogs and baskets ♪
626
00:36:20,724 --> 00:36:21,896
♪ With the camera crew ♪
627
00:36:21,896 --> 00:36:23,206
[laughs] Sorry.
628
00:36:33,965 --> 00:36:35,517
Playing the ukulele
is very soothing,
629
00:36:35,517 --> 00:36:37,862
especially out here in nature,
like it's beautiful.
630
00:36:37,862 --> 00:36:40,310
You hear the birds,
the airplanes, the...
631
00:36:40,310 --> 00:36:41,413
The leaves, the dogs.
632
00:36:41,413 --> 00:36:43,000
So it's pretty cool
and relaxing.
633
00:36:45,172 --> 00:36:46,137
My name is Tyray.
634
00:36:46,137 --> 00:36:47,344
I am 33 years old.
635
00:36:47,344 --> 00:36:49,034
And I live
in Modesto, California.
636
00:36:52,344 --> 00:36:54,482
♪ A man walking by
With a red hat ♪
637
00:36:54,482 --> 00:36:55,482
♪ And a blue sweater ♪
638
00:36:58,206 --> 00:36:59,275
I'm not a musician
639
00:36:59,275 --> 00:37:00,724
but I did pick up the ukulele
640
00:37:00,724 --> 00:37:03,206
because I noticed that
everyone who plays it
looks happy. [laughs]
641
00:37:05,275 --> 00:37:06,896
I get along with everyone.
642
00:37:06,896 --> 00:37:08,206
I like meeting new people.
643
00:37:08,793 --> 00:37:10,275
I'm pretty outgoing,
644
00:37:10,275 --> 00:37:11,344
and I'll talk a lot.
645
00:37:12,413 --> 00:37:14,793
But I feel insecure
sometimes, too,
646
00:37:14,793 --> 00:37:15,827
because of my weight.
647
00:37:16,655 --> 00:37:17,793
It's always been a struggle,
648
00:37:17,793 --> 00:37:19,206
I've always been
a big guy, um...
649
00:37:20,896 --> 00:37:22,413
I would say I got big, like,
650
00:37:22,413 --> 00:37:24,448
maybe when I was like,
eight, nine, ten.
651
00:37:24,448 --> 00:37:26,275
Uh, we had moved.
652
00:37:26,275 --> 00:37:27,758
I didn't have
a lot of friends there.
653
00:37:27,758 --> 00:37:29,827
So food became
a real comfort for me,
654
00:37:29,827 --> 00:37:31,724
especially like chocolate,
I love chocolate, so...
655
00:37:31,724 --> 00:37:33,137
[laughs] That's like
my best friend.
656
00:37:36,551 --> 00:37:38,137
I feel like the insecurity
for my weight
657
00:37:38,137 --> 00:37:41,620
did prevent me from having
a... a relationship.
658
00:37:41,620 --> 00:37:44,000
I'm afraid to put myself
out there 'cause of rejection.
659
00:37:45,206 --> 00:37:47,931
So it's really embarrassing
to admit where I'm like,
660
00:37:47,931 --> 00:37:49,586
33 years old
and still a virgin.
661
00:37:52,068 --> 00:37:52,896
Five.
662
00:37:53,965 --> 00:37:54,793
Six.
663
00:37:55,724 --> 00:37:56,724
Seven.
664
00:37:57,448 --> 00:37:58,275
Eight.
665
00:37:59,172 --> 00:38:00,000
Nine.
666
00:38:01,241 --> 00:38:03,000
- Ten. You can take a break.
- [Whitney sighs]
667
00:38:03,931 --> 00:38:05,793
[Tyray] Family is everything
to me.
668
00:38:05,793 --> 00:38:08,379
My mom moved in with me
about a year ago.
669
00:38:08,379 --> 00:38:10,448
We are sharing a
one-bedroom apartment,
670
00:38:10,448 --> 00:38:12,241
so we're pretty cramped.
671
00:38:12,241 --> 00:38:14,034
- How does it feel?
Is it too tight?
- Sore still.
672
00:38:14,034 --> 00:38:16,310
- [Tyray] It's still sore?
- Yeah.
673
00:38:16,310 --> 00:38:19,965
Last year, my mom found out
she had a tumor in her brain.
674
00:38:19,965 --> 00:38:21,689
They removed the tumor
and then the next day
675
00:38:21,689 --> 00:38:23,241
the doctor called us
to the hospital
676
00:38:23,241 --> 00:38:25,379
and told us that she had
a stroke.
677
00:38:25,379 --> 00:38:27,241
- How's that? That hurt?
- [Whitney] Yeah.
678
00:38:27,241 --> 00:38:28,413
[Tyray] And then
that shoulder?
679
00:38:28,413 --> 00:38:29,655
I was in shock.
680
00:38:29,655 --> 00:38:30,931
I didn't know what to do.
681
00:38:30,931 --> 00:38:33,103
And, yeah, I was very afraid
that I was gonna lose my mom.
682
00:38:34,068 --> 00:38:35,206
Keep going.
683
00:38:35,206 --> 00:38:37,344
Mom, are you ready to get back
in those heels? [laughs]
684
00:38:37,344 --> 00:38:39,172
- I do.
- [Tyray] And start walking.
685
00:38:39,172 --> 00:38:40,827
[Whitney] Tyray is
a teddy bear.
686
00:38:40,827 --> 00:38:42,517
He's a good guy.
687
00:38:42,517 --> 00:38:45,551
I have two more sons
and two daughters
688
00:38:45,551 --> 00:38:47,758
but Tyray helps me out
more than... than any of them.
689
00:38:47,758 --> 00:38:50,896
We have a really good
relationship. Mmm-hmm.
690
00:38:50,896 --> 00:38:52,137
[Tyray] Come on, you got it.
Good job.
691
00:38:53,413 --> 00:38:55,482
I was a claims rep for
a health insurance company.
692
00:38:55,482 --> 00:38:57,517
But I actually ended up
quitting my job
693
00:38:57,517 --> 00:39:00,068
to take care of Mom full-time.
694
00:39:00,068 --> 00:39:02,586
My father passed away
when I was four years old.
695
00:39:02,586 --> 00:39:04,655
He got into an argument
with a friend at a park,
696
00:39:04,655 --> 00:39:06,000
and, um, he was murdered.
697
00:39:08,896 --> 00:39:10,862
My mom, she raised us
all by herself.
698
00:39:11,655 --> 00:39:13,241
Money was very hard.
699
00:39:13,241 --> 00:39:14,965
We were homeless a few times.
700
00:39:14,965 --> 00:39:17,137
My mom had to made
a lot of sacrifices for us.
701
00:39:17,137 --> 00:39:19,827
So I felt like, I owed her
to actually say,
702
00:39:19,827 --> 00:39:22,068
"Hey, you know, this is more
important right now,"
703
00:39:22,068 --> 00:39:24,310
to put what... what I wanted
on the back-burner for her.
704
00:39:26,758 --> 00:39:28,586
It's been really difficult.
705
00:39:28,586 --> 00:39:30,896
Like, my social life
is pretty much gone.
706
00:39:30,896 --> 00:39:32,448
But honestly, I don't mind
707
00:39:32,448 --> 00:39:34,000
'cause I do have Carmella.
708
00:39:36,586 --> 00:39:38,310
My girlfriend's name
is Carmella
709
00:39:38,310 --> 00:39:39,896
and she's 27 years old.
710
00:39:39,896 --> 00:39:41,413
And she lives in Barbados.
711
00:39:43,034 --> 00:39:46,379
She is this hot, thick,
beautiful woman.
712
00:39:46,379 --> 00:39:47,862
This goddess.
713
00:39:47,862 --> 00:39:51,758
Like, Cardi B
and Megan Thee Stallion
combined. [laughs]
714
00:39:51,758 --> 00:39:52,586
Like, she has all that.
715
00:39:53,724 --> 00:39:55,689
I met Carmella on an online
dating site.
716
00:39:55,689 --> 00:39:58,689
Me and Carmella chat every day
about everything.
717
00:40:00,206 --> 00:40:03,689
From like random stuff
to our plan for the future.
718
00:40:03,689 --> 00:40:06,068
We've been talking for almost
four years now.
719
00:40:06,068 --> 00:40:08,827
And I would describe it as,
like, a soulmate connection.
720
00:40:08,827 --> 00:40:10,034
Like, we're made
for each other.
721
00:40:10,862 --> 00:40:12,310
I've never been in love before
722
00:40:12,310 --> 00:40:14,068
but this feeling I feel
for Carmella is just...
723
00:40:14,793 --> 00:40:16,689
Like, warm.
724
00:40:16,689 --> 00:40:20,000
Almost like heartburn
but like a good heartburn.
725
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:21,896
Carmella doesn't work
right now.
726
00:40:21,896 --> 00:40:24,103
But she is planning on,
uh, going to school
727
00:40:24,103 --> 00:40:25,655
and she does hair on the side.
728
00:40:26,551 --> 00:40:27,482
When she talks about, like,
729
00:40:27,482 --> 00:40:28,862
what she wants to do
in the future,
730
00:40:28,862 --> 00:40:30,137
like her goals and stuff,
731
00:40:30,137 --> 00:40:31,517
like, that really
makes me happy.
732
00:40:31,517 --> 00:40:33,862
And like, her wanting to start
a business and I'm like,
733
00:40:33,862 --> 00:40:35,827
"You know, you can do it,"
you know, I'm pushing her
734
00:40:35,827 --> 00:40:38,310
and being that...
that support factor for her.
735
00:40:40,931 --> 00:40:42,793
Carmella is the sweetest thing ever.
736
00:40:42,793 --> 00:40:46,068
She gives me confidence,
she makes me happy.
737
00:40:46,068 --> 00:40:48,517
She's extremely emotionally supportive,
738
00:40:48,517 --> 00:40:49,655
especially when my mom
got sick.
739
00:40:49,655 --> 00:40:51,068
So she was there for me.
740
00:40:51,068 --> 00:40:53,896
I really appreciated that
from her.
741
00:40:53,896 --> 00:40:56,206
Right here, I was letting her
know that I'm thinking of her.
742
00:40:56,206 --> 00:40:57,620
And then she's letting me know
743
00:40:57,620 --> 00:40:59,482
that I look like a teddy bear
with facial hair.[chuckles]
744
00:40:59,482 --> 00:41:00,655
So adorable.
745
00:41:00,655 --> 00:41:02,137
Um...
746
00:41:02,137 --> 00:41:03,965
We only communicate
on Snapchat
747
00:41:03,965 --> 00:41:07,172
but we do have, you know,
naughty Snapchat sessions.
748
00:41:08,517 --> 00:41:11,103
We do send, like,
sexy pictures and video,
749
00:41:11,103 --> 00:41:13,103
you know, the... [laughs]
750
00:41:15,655 --> 00:41:18,482
You know, the booty. [laughs]
751
00:41:20,034 --> 00:41:22,551
[producer] Is it ever
over video or...
752
00:41:22,551 --> 00:41:25,137
[Tyray] Uh, unfortunately not.
[laughs]
753
00:41:25,137 --> 00:41:27,172
She's never video chatted me.
754
00:41:27,172 --> 00:41:28,862
[producer] Do you ever ask
for a video chat yet?
755
00:41:29,517 --> 00:41:31,413
Uh, no. I did once,
756
00:41:31,413 --> 00:41:34,724
but, she didn't say anything.
So I didn't really...
757
00:41:34,724 --> 00:41:36,413
Uh, you know,
I took it as a 'no'.
758
00:41:38,827 --> 00:41:40,724
May be she's not comfortable.
759
00:41:40,724 --> 00:41:42,965
Or maybe she doesn't
like video chatting.
760
00:41:42,965 --> 00:41:44,034
I know a lot of people don't.
761
00:41:46,344 --> 00:41:48,482
I do plan on seeing
Carmella soon.
762
00:41:48,482 --> 00:41:51,413
Um, I'm just trying to see
if I can find a flight
763
00:41:51,413 --> 00:41:53,689
that's in my, um,
small budget.
764
00:41:53,689 --> 00:41:57,275
So, that's pretty much
what I'm waiting
for at this moment.
765
00:41:57,275 --> 00:42:00,448
I'm excited to share,
like, my cooking skills
with someone,
766
00:42:00,448 --> 00:42:03,000
other than my mom.
[chuckles]
767
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:05,275
Carmella is my
girlfriend right now.
768
00:42:05,275 --> 00:42:07,275
But, um,
hopefully soon,
my wife.
769
00:42:09,758 --> 00:42:12,241
We, kind of, discussed,
like, getting engaged.
770
00:42:12,241 --> 00:42:15,206
And I showed her, like,
rings one day when
I went to the jewelry store.
771
00:42:15,206 --> 00:42:18,275
And she was like,
you know, I'm ready to,
like, be a wife and stuff.
772
00:42:20,413 --> 00:42:21,586
So I wanna propose, because,
773
00:42:21,586 --> 00:42:23,103
after four years of dating,
774
00:42:23,103 --> 00:42:25,448
I feel like, Carmella
is the one for me.
775
00:42:25,448 --> 00:42:26,793
Even though we
didn't meet yet,
776
00:42:26,793 --> 00:42:29,206
the emotion is there
with us, and it's like,
777
00:42:29,206 --> 00:42:30,758
I don't want to let
something like that go
778
00:42:31,620 --> 00:42:32,724
Dinner's ready.
779
00:42:32,724 --> 00:42:33,965
- [Whitney] Dinner's ready?
- Yeah.
780
00:42:33,965 --> 00:42:37,275
- I've made you some salmon
and some vegetables.
- Oh, wow.
781
00:42:37,275 --> 00:42:39,482
- [Tyray] Hope you like it.
- I will.
782
00:42:39,482 --> 00:42:40,724
I've kept Carmella a secret,
783
00:42:40,724 --> 00:42:43,172
because I don't want
my family to judge me.
784
00:42:43,172 --> 00:42:47,241
It just seems like,
it's something that, a lot
of people won't understand.
785
00:42:47,241 --> 00:42:49,103
- There's bones in there.
So be careful.
- Oh, okay.
786
00:42:49,103 --> 00:42:50,827
- I just swallowed one.
- Uh-oh.
787
00:42:52,482 --> 00:42:53,862
[Tyray] All my
sisters have kids.
788
00:42:53,862 --> 00:42:55,896
My brothers,
they're all like,
in relationships.
789
00:42:55,896 --> 00:42:58,482
So, I do wanna
be on their level.
790
00:42:58,482 --> 00:43:01,137
I want the normal life,
white picket fence, and...
791
00:43:01,137 --> 00:43:02,310
a happy family.
792
00:43:04,275 --> 00:43:05,413
Before I go up to Barbados,
793
00:43:05,413 --> 00:43:07,724
I do wanna tell my
family about Carmella.
794
00:43:07,724 --> 00:43:09,965
They have to know how
deep I'm in love with her.
795
00:43:09,965 --> 00:43:13,034
I want them to like,
feel the love that I
have for Carmella.
796
00:43:13,034 --> 00:43:15,379
I put myself
in the back
burner a lot.
797
00:43:15,379 --> 00:43:17,000
And I feel like, I can finally
798
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,310
look at myself and say,
"You know, it's time for you".
799
00:43:20,137 --> 00:43:21,275
My time, finally.
800
00:43:25,931 --> 00:43:27,034
[Jasmine]
I'm so sick and tired.
801
00:43:27,034 --> 00:43:28,620
When we are having sex,
802
00:43:28,620 --> 00:43:31,000
it is so difficult
for you to [bleep].
803
00:43:32,344 --> 00:43:35,827
When we fight,
I lose my desire.
804
00:43:35,827 --> 00:43:39,448
But the biggest issue
is Jasmine doesn't put
any of the blame on herself.
805
00:43:53,482 --> 00:43:55,172
[Gino humming]
806
00:43:57,517 --> 00:43:59,931
I'm getting ready to see
Jasmine in a few days.
807
00:43:59,931 --> 00:44:02,206
And I have so
many things to do.
808
00:44:03,275 --> 00:44:05,241
On top of packing
and getting ready
809
00:44:05,241 --> 00:44:07,344
for a long trip to Panama,
810
00:44:07,344 --> 00:44:09,827
I'm also juggling
a new full time job
811
00:44:09,827 --> 00:44:11,068
as a automotive engineer.
812
00:44:12,379 --> 00:44:14,517
[whispers] Uh, okay.
813
00:44:14,517 --> 00:44:17,172
Being employed
has helped me,
as far as, like,
814
00:44:17,172 --> 00:44:20,172
being able to support
Jasmine more.
815
00:44:20,172 --> 00:44:23,931
But, Jasmine gets a little
upset that I can't
talk to her as much,
816
00:44:23,931 --> 00:44:28,103
um, because, I... you know,
before when I wasn't working,
817
00:44:28,103 --> 00:44:30,896
I could talk to her throughout
the entire day, more or less.
818
00:44:31,689 --> 00:44:32,517
[device rings]
819
00:44:32,827 --> 00:44:33,827
Okay.
820
00:44:33,827 --> 00:44:34,689
[device rings]
821
00:44:38,586 --> 00:44:40,689
Jasmine. How you doing?
822
00:44:43,206 --> 00:44:44,000
[chuckles]
823
00:44:46,206 --> 00:44:47,620
Yeah, I got a new hat.
824
00:44:48,103 --> 00:44:48,965
Do you like it?
825
00:44:53,310 --> 00:44:54,965
Uh, yeah.
826
00:44:54,965 --> 00:44:56,034
[chuckles nervously]
827
00:44:56,034 --> 00:44:57,379
[giggles]
828
00:44:57,379 --> 00:45:00,068
I don't know if you can see,
but I got new shorts, too.
829
00:45:00,068 --> 00:45:01,172
Can you see?
830
00:45:02,448 --> 00:45:03,275
[Jasmine gasps]
831
00:45:06,310 --> 00:45:08,620
[laughs] No.
I don't do that stuff.
832
00:45:11,413 --> 00:45:12,241
[laughs]
833
00:45:13,172 --> 00:45:14,758
Well, you know...
834
00:45:14,758 --> 00:45:18,551
it's coming up to the day,
I get to go out
and see you, again.
835
00:45:20,931 --> 00:45:22,689
[Jasmine] I just been
wondering, you know...
836
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:28,034
Yeah.
837
00:45:28,034 --> 00:45:30,241
Unfortunately,
it's the same news.
838
00:45:30,931 --> 00:45:33,068
But, uh, we're getting close.
839
00:45:33,068 --> 00:45:35,448
I think within the next 30
days, we should get approval.
840
00:46:01,517 --> 00:46:02,965
[Jasmine]
I kept moving from
841
00:46:02,965 --> 00:46:06,000
one temporary
apartment to the other,
842
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:09,758
believing that my
visa is gonna get
approved any time soon.
843
00:46:09,758 --> 00:46:11,758
But then, it doesn't
get approved.
844
00:46:11,758 --> 00:46:12,965
And I have to move again.
845
00:46:17,655 --> 00:46:20,310
He insisted on doing
all by himself,
846
00:46:20,310 --> 00:46:22,137
since he wanted to save money.
847
00:46:24,931 --> 00:46:28,655
But now, it's a huge
disruption to my life,
848
00:46:28,655 --> 00:46:29,689
to have to keep moving.
849
00:46:31,413 --> 00:46:32,965
So, baby, this is the deal.
850
00:46:38,241 --> 00:46:40,000
And there is a place
where I wanna be.
851
00:46:49,896 --> 00:46:50,724
Per month?
852
00:46:51,586 --> 00:46:52,413
Yeah.
853
00:46:53,896 --> 00:46:56,241
That's crazy.
854
00:46:56,241 --> 00:46:58,965
You said that the visa
is gonna get
approved in 30 days.
855
00:46:58,965 --> 00:47:02,344
So it's gonna be the last
month I'm gonna
be living in my country.
856
00:47:02,344 --> 00:47:03,758
And I wanna live like a queen.
857
00:47:04,344 --> 00:47:05,896
I deserve it.
858
00:47:05,896 --> 00:47:08,724
Don't you think,
maybe we could try
a one bedroom place?
859
00:47:15,724 --> 00:47:17,965
[Jasmine]
And, we need that privacy.
860
00:47:17,965 --> 00:47:19,862
Since,
when we are having sex...
861
00:47:24,862 --> 00:47:25,689
What?
862
00:47:26,620 --> 00:47:28,206
To [bleep] . To ejaculate.
863
00:47:28,206 --> 00:47:30,241
- How do you say
that in English?
- Yeah, I...
864
00:47:30,241 --> 00:47:33,344
We have sexual problems
because we do it...
we argue a lot still.
865
00:47:33,344 --> 00:47:35,000
And that's a big problem.
866
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:35,862
- Um--
- [Jasmine speaking]
867
00:47:38,827 --> 00:47:39,793
No, no, no, no.
868
00:47:43,862 --> 00:47:45,586
I'm super attracted
to Jasmine.
869
00:47:45,586 --> 00:47:47,379
She beautiful, gorgeous.
870
00:47:47,379 --> 00:47:49,413
But when we argue and fight,
871
00:47:49,413 --> 00:47:51,965
I lose my, uh, desire.
872
00:47:52,896 --> 00:47:55,103
But the biggest
issue is, I feel like,
873
00:47:55,103 --> 00:47:57,724
Jasmine doesn't put any
of the blame on herself.
874
00:47:59,275 --> 00:48:00,965
She needs to like,
take it more seriously.
875
00:48:02,103 --> 00:48:04,827
Otherwise, it doesn't
make me confident.
876
00:48:04,827 --> 00:48:06,000
You know, about our future.
877
00:48:16,586 --> 00:48:18,724
[in sign language]
878
00:48:20,344 --> 00:48:21,172
- [motorcycle revs]
- [David signing]
879
00:48:28,793 --> 00:48:30,689
[through automated voice]
880
00:48:34,862 --> 00:48:36,137
- [both giggling]
- [automated voice continues]
881
00:49:13,172 --> 00:49:15,413
[in sign language]
882
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:24,000
[pinball machine clacking]
883
00:50:55,655 --> 00:50:57,241
[hoofbeats]
884
00:50:59,137 --> 00:51:00,931
[David signing]
885
00:51:12,344 --> 00:51:14,344
[motorcycle revs]
886
00:51:14,344 --> 00:51:15,172
[David signing]
887
00:52:25,103 --> 00:52:26,620
[candy wrapper rustling]
888
00:52:30,586 --> 00:52:31,689
[in sign language]
889
00:52:39,448 --> 00:52:40,689
[storekeeper speaking]
890
00:52:43,172 --> 00:52:44,000
[in sign language]
891
00:55:09,344 --> 00:55:14,551
I can't wait give you kiss.
892
00:55:40,344 --> 00:55:42,103
You my heart.
893
00:55:44,655 --> 00:55:45,931
[David signing]
894
00:56:29,413 --> 00:56:30,551
[chair scrapes]
895
00:56:35,310 --> 00:56:37,517
It's good to see you, Dave.
Can I get you
something to drink?
896
00:56:40,448 --> 00:56:41,275
[David signing]
897
00:56:59,862 --> 00:57:02,034
[automated voice speaking]
898
00:57:04,655 --> 00:57:05,655
[Mark] Are you nervous?
899
00:57:15,172 --> 00:57:16,655
[automated voice speaking]
900
00:57:19,517 --> 00:57:21,103
- [both giggling]
- [automated voice continues]
901
00:57:30,862 --> 00:57:32,413
Now you do sound
very confident
902
00:57:32,413 --> 00:57:34,000
about how all of this
is gonna go.
903
00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:37,000
Uh, are there any doubts
that you've had along the way?
904
00:57:44,689 --> 00:57:46,758
[automated voice speaking]
905
00:58:30,413 --> 00:58:32,034
[Mark] Even if we
do care about them,
906
00:58:32,034 --> 00:58:34,689
sending support
like that, it's tough,
if it's a lot of money.
907
00:58:43,448 --> 00:58:45,862
[Mark] This idea of traveling
half way across the world,
908
00:58:45,862 --> 00:58:47,896
it almost sounds like it's,
909
00:58:47,896 --> 00:58:50,068
coming out of a fairy
tale in his mind.
910
00:58:50,068 --> 00:58:53,689
This true love story
that can have
no bad ending.
911
00:58:54,344 --> 00:58:55,793
But it's a little worrisome
912
00:58:55,793 --> 00:58:58,551
that, uh, somebody's
just sending money
half way across the world
913
00:58:58,551 --> 00:59:01,241
to this person that they
don't know all that well.
914
00:59:01,241 --> 00:59:04,551
It's very rare
that anything like that
could work out, but...
915
00:59:04,551 --> 00:59:06,068
Who knows,
fairy tales
can come true.
916
00:59:07,517 --> 00:59:09,758
Well, if you love her a lot,
it sounds like it's worth it.
917
00:59:15,241 --> 00:59:18,241
[automated voice]
Yeah, I am 100%
ready to go.
918
00:59:18,241 --> 00:59:19,586
[automated voice speaking]
919
00:59:55,172 --> 00:59:56,413
Hey, babe.
920
00:59:56,413 --> 00:59:59,620
[Amanda] Well, I just saw
the trailer for that movie.
921
00:59:59,620 --> 01:00:01,000
And I did not like it.
922
01:00:03,068 --> 01:00:03,896
[Razvan] You know...
923
01:00:05,793 --> 01:00:07,965
- Oh, so artistic.
- [Razvan speaking]
924
01:00:07,965 --> 01:00:10,758
You can't control
what I do in my job.
925
01:00:20,241 --> 01:00:21,310
[Jr. imitates roar]
926
01:00:21,310 --> 01:00:22,172
Settle down.
927
01:00:28,103 --> 01:00:29,413
[Jr. speaking]
928
01:00:29,931 --> 01:00:30,758
[Aleena speaking]
929
01:00:33,172 --> 01:00:37,482
When I hear of people
meeting other people online,
930
01:00:37,482 --> 01:00:39,172
and falling madly in love,
931
01:00:39,172 --> 01:00:40,931
I kind of, roll my
eyes a little,
932
01:00:40,931 --> 01:00:42,482
like, "Oh, yeah. Sure".
933
01:00:42,482 --> 01:00:45,724
But, it happened to me.
934
01:00:45,724 --> 01:00:48,586
Razvan has opened
my heart again to love,
935
01:00:48,586 --> 01:00:51,034
which I never
thought would happen,
936
01:00:51,034 --> 01:00:52,827
after losing my husband.
937
01:00:52,827 --> 01:00:55,517
But, I feel so
in love with him,
938
01:00:55,517 --> 01:00:58,965
that in three days,
I am traveling
939
01:00:58,965 --> 01:01:02,551
all the way to Romania,
to give this man a kiss.
940
01:01:02,551 --> 01:01:03,655
You're doing it.
941
01:01:03,655 --> 01:01:04,517
Look at me.
942
01:01:06,551 --> 01:01:08,034
Oh, yeah. So huge.
943
01:01:09,275 --> 01:01:11,068
They're not really huge, yet.
944
01:01:11,586 --> 01:01:12,965
I just started.
945
01:01:13,655 --> 01:01:16,034
I am super excited.
946
01:01:16,034 --> 01:01:20,413
But, a part of me
does have some guilt,
947
01:01:20,413 --> 01:01:22,034
because I'm leaving
my children.
948
01:01:22,034 --> 01:01:24,551
[Aleena speaking]
949
01:01:25,758 --> 01:01:28,206
Um, mommy is gonna be gone...
950
01:01:28,965 --> 01:01:29,793
three weeks.
951
01:01:31,206 --> 01:01:32,448
No.
952
01:01:32,448 --> 01:01:35,551
- Do you know, how like,
when I video call Razvan?
- Mmm-hmm.
953
01:01:35,551 --> 01:01:37,241
Mommy is gonna be with Razvan
954
01:01:37,241 --> 01:01:39,000
- and you guys
are gonna be at home.
- [Jr.] Mommy!
955
01:01:40,413 --> 01:01:43,793
[Amanda] Razvan
and my kids talk often.
956
01:01:43,793 --> 01:01:46,000
He plays with them
on video chat.
957
01:01:46,000 --> 01:01:48,827
He dresses up in costumes.
958
01:01:48,827 --> 01:01:54,344
But, I am scared
to tell my children,
959
01:01:54,344 --> 01:01:57,172
that I am in another
serious relationship,
960
01:01:57,172 --> 01:01:59,896
until I am 100% sure,
961
01:01:59,896 --> 01:02:03,758
that Razvan and I
are gonna be together.
962
01:02:03,758 --> 01:02:06,206
Shake off all
the crumbs.
Like this.
963
01:02:06,206 --> 01:02:09,862
Because, if we broke up,
964
01:02:09,862 --> 01:02:14,000
it's another man in my
children's lives that...
965
01:02:15,068 --> 01:02:16,344
won't be there.
966
01:02:16,724 --> 01:02:17,551
[sniffles]
967
01:02:20,379 --> 01:02:21,482
All right. Let's go.
968
01:02:21,482 --> 01:02:22,689
[Jr. exclaims happily]
969
01:02:26,206 --> 01:02:27,068
[cell phone ringing]
970
01:02:33,241 --> 01:02:34,448
Hey, babe.
971
01:02:34,448 --> 01:02:36,379
- [Amanda]
How is your day going?
- Yeah, well, it's good.
972
01:02:39,034 --> 01:02:40,517
- [Amanda] Aw. You look good.
- [Razvan speaking]
973
01:02:40,517 --> 01:02:41,551
[Amanda] Ready for what?
974
01:02:43,551 --> 01:02:47,241
- [both chuckle]
- I know, I'm just kidding,
yes, I am excited.
975
01:02:47,241 --> 01:02:49,206
[Razvan] So, listen, uh...
976
01:02:49,206 --> 01:02:50,034
- [chuckles softly]
- [Razvan] I...
977
01:02:56,000 --> 01:02:57,931
[laughing] Oh, my gosh, what?
978
01:03:02,241 --> 01:03:03,586
[Amanda laughing]
979
01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:06,034
[Razvan laughing]
980
01:03:06,034 --> 01:03:06,896
[Amanda speaking]
981
01:03:08,551 --> 01:03:11,689
- It needs a lot of work.
- [continues laughing]
982
01:03:11,689 --> 01:03:14,379
[Amanda] So, what's the plan
when I get there?
983
01:03:14,931 --> 01:03:16,206
[Razvan speaking]
984
01:03:23,344 --> 01:03:24,137
It's about,
985
01:03:25,379 --> 01:03:26,689
you know, love, and...
986
01:03:29,655 --> 01:03:30,482
[Razvan] And...
987
01:03:34,655 --> 01:03:36,137
No, there will not be.
988
01:03:36,137 --> 01:03:37,034
[Razvan speaking]
989
01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:47,068
I tell you I'm not jealous
but you know
that I am jealous.
990
01:03:47,068 --> 01:03:50,965
You, you can't con--
control what I do
in, in my job.
991
01:03:53,000 --> 01:03:56,034
Razvan does a little bit
of everything
in entertainment.
992
01:03:56,034 --> 01:03:58,137
He's been acting
in theater for years
993
01:03:58,137 --> 01:04:03,586
and recently, he is trying
to get more work in films
and start his music career.
994
01:04:03,586 --> 01:04:07,068
I already feel jealous
that all of his followers
on social media
995
01:04:07,068 --> 01:04:10,793
are women,
just drooling over him
all of the time.
996
01:04:10,793 --> 01:04:14,103
But my jealousy
goes to another level
997
01:04:14,103 --> 01:04:17,137
when I see his acting roles.
998
01:04:17,137 --> 01:04:18,275
[music playing]
999
01:04:21,724 --> 01:04:24,068
[Amanda] I know
that it's really hard
to make it as an actor,
1000
01:04:24,068 --> 01:04:27,206
and, in the meantime,
he needs to make a living,
1001
01:04:27,206 --> 01:04:30,241
but I am a little bit insecure
1002
01:04:30,241 --> 01:04:33,448
about some of the things
that I may have to deal with.
1003
01:04:33,448 --> 01:04:37,413
I just saw the trailer
for that movie you did
1004
01:04:37,965 --> 01:04:38,965
and I did not like it.
1005
01:04:39,793 --> 01:04:40,517
[Razvan] You know...
1006
01:04:42,206 --> 01:04:44,000
- [Amanda] Oh,
so artistic. [laughs]
- [Razvan] Like...
1007
01:04:44,827 --> 01:04:46,103
[Jr. speaking indistinctly]
1008
01:04:47,620 --> 01:04:49,931
- Yes?
- [Jr. whispering]
1009
01:04:49,931 --> 01:04:51,655
[Amanda] No more candy,
you had enough candy.
1010
01:04:52,931 --> 01:04:55,275
Tell Razvan
what you think his job is.
1011
01:04:56,379 --> 01:04:58,275
[Jr. speaking]
1012
01:04:58,275 --> 01:05:00,206
- [laughing]
- [Razvan] Yeah,
this is why I'm so strong
1013
01:05:00,206 --> 01:05:01,310
and I have big muscles.
1014
01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:03,379
[Jr. speaking]
1015
01:05:03,379 --> 01:05:05,517
- [Amanda laughing]
- [Razvan] I have
bigger muscles than you.
1016
01:05:05,517 --> 01:05:06,655
[Jr. speaking]
1017
01:05:07,896 --> 01:05:08,724
[Razvan speaking]
1018
01:05:12,896 --> 01:05:14,275
In the future or...
1019
01:05:14,275 --> 01:05:17,034
How do you think...
1020
01:05:17,034 --> 01:05:21,758
Like, you will be as--
That other adult,
like, in their lives.
1021
01:05:21,758 --> 01:05:23,310
Like, do you think
you're ready for that?
1022
01:05:30,379 --> 01:05:33,172
Yeah, but it's not only about
playing with them, though.
1023
01:05:33,172 --> 01:05:36,103
You have to take care of them,
like, help them, guide them...
1024
01:05:36,103 --> 01:05:37,344
[Razvan] No, listen...
1025
01:05:51,724 --> 01:05:54,793
[Amanda] I think
Razvan and I do have
a future together
1026
01:05:54,793 --> 01:05:56,517
but it's confusing for me
1027
01:05:56,517 --> 01:06:00,586
because I've never
been with anyone
other than Jason.
1028
01:06:00,586 --> 01:06:03,551
I am looking for a person
that I can lean on
1029
01:06:03,551 --> 01:06:06,103
and that's there for me,
there for my children.
1030
01:06:06,103 --> 01:06:10,827
But there is still a lot
that I don't know
about Razvan and...
1031
01:06:10,827 --> 01:06:14,241
I just really hope
that he can be
the partner that I need
1032
01:06:14,241 --> 01:06:15,103
for me and the kids.
1033
01:06:23,655 --> 01:06:24,793
So, you don't know
if she's divorced?
1034
01:06:25,931 --> 01:06:29,172
Violet was lying
about her being divorced
1035
01:06:29,172 --> 01:06:30,931
at the time
we started talking.
1036
01:06:30,931 --> 01:06:34,827
She took it upon herself
to hide the truth from me.
1037
01:06:34,827 --> 01:06:36,103
And there's one other thing...
1038
01:06:40,517 --> 01:06:41,655
["Reckless Boy" playing]
1039
01:06:49,448 --> 01:06:51,931
♪ Yeah, I was rich ♪
1040
01:06:51,931 --> 01:06:53,448
♪ But a random boy ♪
1041
01:06:54,793 --> 01:06:56,482
♪ A new city ♪
1042
01:06:57,517 --> 01:06:59,034
♪ I did enjoy ♪
1043
01:07:03,482 --> 01:07:05,655
[Riley] I'm leaving
for Vietnam in a few days
1044
01:07:05,655 --> 01:07:07,103
to meet my girlfriend, Violet.
1045
01:07:07,896 --> 01:07:09,172
She is funny,
1046
01:07:09,172 --> 01:07:12,206
she is absolutely stunning
1047
01:07:12,206 --> 01:07:14,482
and I can't believe,
after two years,
1048
01:07:14,482 --> 01:07:18,275
I'm finally able to go
and meet her
for the first time in person.
1049
01:07:24,206 --> 01:07:26,965
My friends, they are holding
a Juneteenth celebration.
1050
01:07:28,379 --> 01:07:32,034
So, I offered
to go over a little early
to help them set up.
1051
01:07:32,034 --> 01:07:33,724
[Shawn] What's up, boo?
1052
01:07:33,724 --> 01:07:35,241
[Tiffanie] You're here
for the Juneteenth?
1053
01:07:35,241 --> 01:07:36,448
- [Shawn] Juneteenth.
- [Tiffanie] Juneteenth.
1054
01:07:36,448 --> 01:07:37,931
[Shawn] You're late.
1055
01:07:37,931 --> 01:07:39,482
[Tiffanie] You're very late,
you're supposed
to help us with watering.
1056
01:07:39,482 --> 01:07:41,137
- [Riley] I have things to do.
- You got things to do?
1057
01:07:41,137 --> 01:07:42,413
- Oh!
- [Riley] It's all
fallin' down.
1058
01:07:42,413 --> 01:07:43,655
Thank you.
1059
01:07:43,655 --> 01:07:47,172
[Riley] I have known Shawn
for, about, 30 years
1060
01:07:47,172 --> 01:07:48,965
and I consider him
a big brother.
1061
01:07:49,862 --> 01:07:52,068
Tiffanie is Shawn's wife
1062
01:07:52,068 --> 01:07:55,413
and she is very vocal
about her feelings.
1063
01:07:56,310 --> 01:07:57,965
But they're my family
1064
01:07:57,965 --> 01:08:01,241
and their opinions
really do matter to me.
1065
01:08:02,310 --> 01:08:03,448
[Tiffanie] You're just
so busy?
1066
01:08:03,448 --> 01:08:05,758
[Riley] Yeah,
I'm just preparing
for the, the trip.
1067
01:08:05,758 --> 01:08:07,517
- [Tiffanie] You're
really going?
- Yeah.
1068
01:08:08,931 --> 01:08:12,034
I have really strong
feelings for her.
1069
01:08:12,034 --> 01:08:16,137
I, I'm going there
because I wanna meet her
in person, see if we click.
1070
01:08:16,137 --> 01:08:17,241
I don't see the big deal.
1071
01:08:17,241 --> 01:08:18,310
- [thuds]
- Even if--
1072
01:08:18,310 --> 01:08:19,551
- [Riley] Now, see that's--
- The ancestors just
1073
01:08:19,551 --> 01:08:21,034
- said that it's a big deal.
- [laughing]
1074
01:08:21,034 --> 01:08:23,068
The anc-- Look what
the ancestors just said.
1075
01:08:23,068 --> 01:08:24,586
[Shawn] Oh, shaka, laka, laka.
1076
01:08:24,586 --> 01:08:26,655
- [Shawn and Tiffanie laughing]
- The ancestors just said it.
1077
01:08:27,862 --> 01:08:30,413
Riley is very spontaneous.
1078
01:08:30,413 --> 01:08:33,137
Um, you never know
what you're gonna
get with him.
1079
01:08:33,137 --> 01:08:35,344
I mean, right after
the last girlfriend,
1080
01:08:35,344 --> 01:08:38,000
I mean, he, he goes
on a dating app
1081
01:08:38,000 --> 01:08:39,310
and he meets Violet
1082
01:08:40,655 --> 01:08:41,965
a week later.
1083
01:08:41,965 --> 01:08:43,655
- That's concerning,
that's concerning.
- That is concerning.
1084
01:08:44,965 --> 01:08:47,413
[Tiffanie] God forbid,
she breaks his heart,
1085
01:08:47,413 --> 01:08:50,724
this might be, like,
a nail in a coffin.
1086
01:08:51,517 --> 01:08:53,206
It's been, like,
almost two years.
1087
01:08:56,206 --> 01:08:57,931
- I mean, we built a rapport.
- You built what rapport?
1088
01:08:57,931 --> 01:08:59,137
- [Riley] I asked--
- Did you send her money?
1089
01:09:00,551 --> 01:09:01,793
No.
1090
01:09:01,793 --> 01:09:03,482
- Listen, I sent...
- Here we go, come on,
let it-- Hmm.
1091
01:09:03,482 --> 01:09:05,379
- ...her daughter...
- [Tiffanie] Oh.
1092
01:09:05,379 --> 01:09:08,862
...$100 for her 16th birthday.
1093
01:09:08,862 --> 01:09:09,931
That's all I sent.
1094
01:09:09,931 --> 01:09:11,517
[Shawn] And how many,
how many kids she have?
1095
01:09:11,517 --> 01:09:13,413
- Two.
- You're going to step-father
1096
01:09:13,413 --> 01:09:16,655
- at this time?
You're ready for that?
- I feel that I am.
1097
01:09:18,413 --> 01:09:20,862
Violet has two daughters,
1098
01:09:20,862 --> 01:09:23,793
one is 20, the other is 16.
1099
01:09:23,793 --> 01:09:26,517
Violet and I have
spoke about marriage
1100
01:09:26,517 --> 01:09:29,586
and bringing her over here,
bringing her daughters
over here.
1101
01:09:29,586 --> 01:09:32,620
I actually have a great
relationship with them and...
1102
01:09:38,241 --> 01:09:39,310
[laughs]
1103
01:09:39,310 --> 01:09:41,724
- So, do you love her?
- [Riley] Yes.
1104
01:09:41,724 --> 01:09:43,827
It's just, I don't
like saying the word.
1105
01:09:44,551 --> 01:09:46,241
But I'm bringing a ring.
1106
01:09:46,827 --> 01:09:48,034
[Tiffanie] A ring?
1107
01:09:48,034 --> 01:09:50,310
It's more like a promise ring
1108
01:09:50,310 --> 01:09:54,275
because once I [stutters]
get all the answers I need
1109
01:09:54,275 --> 01:09:56,379
and we can get past
what we need to get past,
1110
01:09:56,379 --> 01:09:57,931
I think, she might be the one.
1111
01:09:57,931 --> 01:09:59,344
- Like, like what?
- [Tiffanie] So, like, what?
1112
01:10:02,068 --> 01:10:02,965
[Riley] Uh, for example...
1113
01:10:06,862 --> 01:10:08,689
So, you don't know
if she's divorced?
1114
01:10:08,689 --> 01:10:11,413
She told me later,
like, three months in,
1115
01:10:11,413 --> 01:10:15,206
that, "Oh, by the way,
my divorce
was just finalized."
1116
01:10:15,206 --> 01:10:17,517
But it was three months in,
after I asked her
multiple times.
1117
01:10:20,103 --> 01:10:23,413
Violet was lying
about her being divorced
1118
01:10:23,413 --> 01:10:25,379
at the time
we started talking.
1119
01:10:25,379 --> 01:10:28,965
I asked very direct questions
1120
01:10:28,965 --> 01:10:32,758
and she took it upon herself
to hide the truth from me
1121
01:10:32,758 --> 01:10:34,862
and that's what my concern is.
1122
01:10:34,862 --> 01:10:37,482
And there's one
other thing, like,
1123
01:10:37,482 --> 01:10:40,344
she was so adamant
that I come off the dating app
1124
01:10:40,827 --> 01:10:41,931
and I did it
1125
01:10:41,931 --> 01:10:43,655
and when this
whole thing blew up,
1126
01:10:43,655 --> 01:10:46,000
I went just to check
and see if she was still on it
and she was.
1127
01:10:47,172 --> 01:10:48,965
[Riley] I, I--
1128
01:10:48,965 --> 01:10:50,689
[Tiffanie] So, what did
she say about the fact
1129
01:10:50,689 --> 01:10:52,172
that you saw her
still on the app?
1130
01:10:52,172 --> 01:10:53,793
- [Riley] She said--
- She probably said
why were you looking, right?
1131
01:10:53,793 --> 01:10:55,448
'Cause you're supposed to be
off that, but anyway...
1132
01:10:55,448 --> 01:10:57,137
What did she say?
That's what she said?
1133
01:10:57,137 --> 01:10:58,241
- She said that.
- [Tiffanie] See,
that's the game.
1134
01:10:58,241 --> 01:11:00,758
That is the game, man.
1135
01:11:00,758 --> 01:11:03,551
[Riley] After I found out
that Violet was still
on the dating app,
1136
01:11:03,551 --> 01:11:06,448
we hit a really rough patch,
just arguing a lot.
1137
01:11:07,551 --> 01:11:10,206
And even though
we did resolve these things,
1138
01:11:10,206 --> 01:11:15,620
there's still that little bit
in me that I'm just
not sure I believe her.
1139
01:11:15,620 --> 01:11:18,586
But, at the end of the day,
I put that all aside,
1140
01:11:18,586 --> 01:11:21,379
I chalk it up
to miscommunication,
1141
01:11:21,379 --> 01:11:24,931
or cultural misunderstandings.
1142
01:11:24,931 --> 01:11:29,517
I, I know you guys love me
and you have concerns,
if she's worth it,
1143
01:11:29,517 --> 01:11:32,896
but I really believe
that she can be the one.
1144
01:11:34,931 --> 01:11:39,379
I've been through a lot
in the last four, five years
1145
01:11:39,379 --> 01:11:44,896
and, to me, Violet represents
the possibility
of building something great.
1146
01:11:44,896 --> 01:11:47,275
So, if I fly
half-way around the world
1147
01:11:47,275 --> 01:11:50,034
and find out that I was wrong
about everything,
1148
01:11:50,862 --> 01:11:52,000
I'll be broken.
1149
01:11:52,793 --> 01:11:53,793
[Shawn] I just hope you know
1150
01:11:53,793 --> 01:11:55,275
- what you're doing, man.
- I really do, too.
1151
01:11:59,689 --> 01:12:00,862
I have good news...
1152
01:12:04,103 --> 01:12:05,620
- [laughing]
- [Dane] Fantastic.
1153
01:12:05,620 --> 01:12:09,310
So, will it be awkward,
you know, if I bump into Gino?
1154
01:12:10,206 --> 01:12:11,551
[Jasmine speaking]
1155
01:12:13,137 --> 01:12:15,000
He's the last person
I dated...
1156
01:12:35,862 --> 01:12:39,482
[Jasmine] Yesterday,
my sister, Liz, and I moved
into a new apartment.
1157
01:12:43,275 --> 01:12:45,137
Finally, Gino agreed
to pay for...
1158
01:12:48,793 --> 01:12:51,655
But I didn't tell Gino
how I found the place.
1159
01:12:53,689 --> 01:12:54,827
[both laughing] Hi.
1160
01:12:55,517 --> 01:12:56,965
How are you?
1161
01:12:56,965 --> 01:12:58,689
- [Jasmine] How are you?
- Good, good to see you.
1162
01:12:58,689 --> 01:13:01,344
- [Jasmine] Yes,
you always look so good.
- [Dane] How have you been?
1163
01:13:01,344 --> 01:13:03,482
You look fantastic as well,
love the nails.
1164
01:13:03,482 --> 01:13:04,758
[laughing]
1165
01:13:06,344 --> 01:13:07,137
[Jasmine speaking]
1166
01:13:13,896 --> 01:13:18,241
Um, he's handsome, he's rich,
I mean [laughs]
he has so many good qualities.
1167
01:13:19,034 --> 01:13:20,310
I have good news.
1168
01:13:20,310 --> 01:13:21,517
- Tell me, please.
- Because...
1169
01:13:26,034 --> 01:13:27,827
- [laughing]
- [Dane] Fantastic.
1170
01:13:27,827 --> 01:13:29,482
I'm excited,
we're gonna be neighbors.
1171
01:13:29,482 --> 01:13:30,827
- [Jasmine] Right?
- That'd be good.
1172
01:13:30,827 --> 01:13:33,172
- Yeah.
- We can cook together.
1173
01:13:33,172 --> 01:13:34,551
Yeah, or you can
teach me to cook.
1174
01:13:34,551 --> 01:13:35,689
- [laughing]
- [Dane] Um...
1175
01:13:36,724 --> 01:13:37,551
How have you been?
1176
01:13:38,517 --> 01:13:41,172
Uh, very busy and stressed.
1177
01:13:41,172 --> 01:13:42,793
That, you know,
my fiance is, you know,
1178
01:13:42,793 --> 01:13:45,620
- is coming in a few days.
- Yeah.
1179
01:13:45,620 --> 01:13:47,689
And, um...
1180
01:13:47,689 --> 01:13:50,862
So, does that mean
that Gino will be living
in the building as well?
1181
01:13:50,862 --> 01:13:54,379
Yes, for three weeks,
we're gonna be all neighbors.
1182
01:13:54,379 --> 01:13:57,379
- [laughing]
Happy neighborhood.
- Wow.
1183
01:13:57,379 --> 01:14:01,068
So, will it be awkward,
you know,
if I bump into him there?
1184
01:14:03,379 --> 01:14:04,413
Um...
1185
01:14:08,448 --> 01:14:09,448
[Jasmine speaking]
1186
01:14:11,275 --> 01:14:14,103
He is the last person
I dated before Gino.
1187
01:14:15,482 --> 01:14:19,000
We were together
just for a short period
of, of time
1188
01:14:19,000 --> 01:14:21,965
and Dane is a good guy
and he's handsome.
1189
01:14:26,172 --> 01:14:30,206
I need someone
that is gonna give me
that fire, you know?
1190
01:14:36,241 --> 01:14:39,206
We stayed friends
since the break up
1191
01:14:39,206 --> 01:14:41,827
but Gino doesn't know
anything about Dane.
1192
01:14:44,931 --> 01:14:47,103
It's not that we are doing
anything wrong,
1193
01:14:47,103 --> 01:14:49,344
- I mean, we are just
two friends.
- Yeah.
1194
01:14:49,344 --> 01:14:50,172
[Jasmine] But...
1195
01:14:52,413 --> 01:14:54,655
Because the thing is,
like, you know, like...
1196
01:14:59,655 --> 01:15:02,034
- [Dane] Sure.
- [Jasmine] And last year...
1197
01:15:02,034 --> 01:15:04,724
- Yeah.
- ...he did something
very bad to me.
1198
01:15:04,724 --> 01:15:08,931
- I sent him,
because I trusted...
- [Dane] Yeah.
1199
01:15:08,931 --> 01:15:12,448
...some topless
pictures of me.
1200
01:15:12,448 --> 01:15:13,586
Sure.
1201
01:15:13,586 --> 01:15:18,724
And he sent those
to his ex-girlfriend
1202
01:15:18,724 --> 01:15:19,689
to make her jealous.
1203
01:15:21,000 --> 01:15:21,827
Wow.
1204
01:15:25,344 --> 01:15:26,172
[Dane] Yeah.
1205
01:15:31,137 --> 01:15:32,000
[Jasmine] Like...
1206
01:15:34,379 --> 01:15:38,034
Losing my job
was a big blow for me
1207
01:15:38,034 --> 01:15:42,103
because being a teacher
was a huge part
of my identity.
1208
01:15:44,000 --> 01:15:48,413
But now with our livelihood
and just me waiting
for this visa,
1209
01:15:48,413 --> 01:15:50,827
I feel like I totally
depend on Gino
1210
01:15:50,827 --> 01:15:54,034
and that really makes
me feel stuck in life,
in everything.
1211
01:15:55,172 --> 01:15:56,137
Yeah, I only...
1212
01:15:57,413 --> 01:15:59,862
You have no idea, like,
the arguments that we have.
1213
01:15:59,862 --> 01:16:02,586
Well, it's a terrible thing
to do, I don't know
what to say.
1214
01:16:02,586 --> 01:16:04,034
How did you get through it?
1215
01:16:04,034 --> 01:16:04,896
[Jasmine] I haven't...
1216
01:16:06,896 --> 01:16:07,758
Yeah.
1217
01:16:07,758 --> 01:16:08,655
[Jasmine speaking]
1218
01:16:09,758 --> 01:16:11,862
But I am devoted, babe.
1219
01:16:11,862 --> 01:16:13,275
- [Dane] Yeah.
- When I love someone,
1220
01:16:13,862 --> 01:16:15,000
I, I love hard.
1221
01:16:18,344 --> 01:16:22,448
I don't... I don't mean this
personally about Gino
'cause I don't know him but...
1222
01:16:22,448 --> 01:16:26,310
You don't wanna, kind of,
force anything,
I don't think, like.
1223
01:16:26,310 --> 01:16:28,517
If you're gonna spend
your life together,
that's a long time.
1224
01:16:29,551 --> 01:16:31,172
I don't know,
I think you're fantastic,
1225
01:16:31,172 --> 01:16:32,758
any man
would be lucky to have you.
1226
01:16:34,551 --> 01:16:35,379
So...
1227
01:16:36,241 --> 01:16:38,413
You know,
don't settle for something
1228
01:16:38,413 --> 01:16:41,206
that's not up to
what you want for yourself.
1229
01:16:48,862 --> 01:16:50,517
I'm nervous for her.
1230
01:16:50,517 --> 01:16:53,206
[Amber] I just hope
she knows the difference
1231
01:16:53,206 --> 01:16:56,689
between filling a void
and what's real.
1232
01:16:56,689 --> 01:16:58,103
I'm just, like, nervous.
1233
01:17:02,310 --> 01:17:03,103
[laughing]
1234
01:17:17,689 --> 01:17:20,000
[Amanda in a sing-song voice]
1235
01:17:22,172 --> 01:17:24,172
- No.
- No? [chuckles]
1236
01:17:24,172 --> 01:17:27,172
Well, we got to,
Mommy's gonna leave today.
1237
01:17:27,965 --> 01:17:29,724
I know.
1238
01:17:29,724 --> 01:17:33,034
[Amanda] I'm finally
leaving today, to meet Razvan,
1239
01:17:33,034 --> 01:17:35,034
I have butterflies,
1240
01:17:35,034 --> 01:17:38,758
I have palm sweat,
armpit sweat, [laughs]
1241
01:17:38,758 --> 01:17:40,793
everything, I am so excited.
1242
01:17:42,000 --> 01:17:46,241
I am getting
some things for my kids,
1243
01:17:46,241 --> 01:17:47,413
a little stuffed animal...
1244
01:17:49,758 --> 01:17:52,724
I got them little cards.
1245
01:17:52,724 --> 01:17:54,068
I put in here a little...
1246
01:18:05,551 --> 01:18:07,724
So, we all, like,
have three that go together.
1247
01:18:10,586 --> 01:18:14,172
This will be the first time
that I will be away
from my children
1248
01:18:14,172 --> 01:18:15,517
since their Dad
has passed away.
1249
01:18:16,586 --> 01:18:17,689
Hey, come here, I'll hold you.
1250
01:18:17,689 --> 01:18:20,517
And I just want them to know
that I love them
1251
01:18:20,517 --> 01:18:22,206
and I'm gonna miss them.
1252
01:18:23,793 --> 01:18:25,206
[Amanda] A little doggy.
1253
01:18:27,413 --> 01:18:28,517
You're welcome.
1254
01:18:28,517 --> 01:18:31,068
Oh, I'm gonna miss you
too much. [kisses]
1255
01:18:31,068 --> 01:18:31,793
[Jr. speaking]
1256
01:18:33,137 --> 01:18:36,862
Yeah, look, they go together,
like a family.
1257
01:18:36,862 --> 01:18:38,827
This one's Aleena's,
1258
01:18:38,827 --> 01:18:40,310
Momma's
1259
01:18:40,310 --> 01:18:41,517
and yours.
1260
01:18:43,482 --> 01:18:45,275
Aw, look how nice.
1261
01:18:46,862 --> 01:18:48,344
I love it.
1262
01:18:48,344 --> 01:18:49,206
[kisses]
1263
01:18:52,379 --> 01:18:54,448
- [Amanda] Amber, you ready?
- [Amber] Yeah.
1264
01:18:55,172 --> 01:18:56,965
I got it, you go ahead.
1265
01:18:56,965 --> 01:18:59,206
My sister is taking me
to the airport today
1266
01:18:59,206 --> 01:19:01,034
and we're meeting
my aunt there
1267
01:19:01,034 --> 01:19:02,862
so my kids can go
back home with her.
1268
01:19:02,862 --> 01:19:04,413
[Amanda] Get buckled up.
1269
01:19:04,413 --> 01:19:07,068
[Amanda] I don't think
that it hit me up until now
1270
01:19:07,068 --> 01:19:10,931
how hard it is gonna be
to leave them.
1271
01:19:10,931 --> 01:19:16,137
But, in life, you don't get
this love very often,
1272
01:19:16,137 --> 01:19:19,620
so, I would be a fool
to not open my heart to it
and take the chance.
1273
01:19:23,206 --> 01:19:24,000
[Amanda chuckles]
1274
01:19:24,758 --> 01:19:26,068
[Aleena] Mom, let's go!
1275
01:19:31,241 --> 01:19:32,793
[Amanda] We are going to...
1276
01:19:35,310 --> 01:19:38,000
There's, like, some castles.
1277
01:19:41,034 --> 01:19:41,862
Okay!
1278
01:19:42,517 --> 01:19:44,137
Well, I'm excited for you.
1279
01:19:45,448 --> 01:19:50,172
Yeah, but I don't know
what to expect though.
1280
01:19:50,172 --> 01:19:51,689
I'm just, like, nervous.
1281
01:19:58,034 --> 01:19:58,862
[Amanda] Uh...
1282
01:19:59,827 --> 01:20:02,482
I will just, like,
sleep on the couch.
1283
01:20:04,344 --> 01:20:05,655
[Amanda chuckling]
1284
01:20:05,655 --> 01:20:07,172
- Where did that come from?
- [Amanda chuckling]
I don't know.
1285
01:20:08,448 --> 01:20:12,965
With Jr. and Aleena
losing their father,
1286
01:20:12,965 --> 01:20:16,827
that makes the stakes
that much higher
1287
01:20:16,827 --> 01:20:21,172
on making sure
that the next man
that comes into our lives...
1288
01:20:24,551 --> 01:20:27,517
will [voice shaking]
not leave.
1289
01:20:28,724 --> 01:20:30,241
And he's the right one.
1290
01:20:35,379 --> 01:20:37,034
[gasps] Oh, my gosh!
1291
01:20:41,413 --> 01:20:42,310
[Amanda speaking]
1292
01:20:43,448 --> 01:20:44,862
[Aleena] Hey, give me that!
1293
01:20:47,344 --> 01:20:51,000
I'm nervous for her,
it's, it's a long trip.
1294
01:20:51,000 --> 01:20:54,275
It could be
the fairytale ending
that she's hoping it'll be,
1295
01:20:54,275 --> 01:20:57,000
you know,
the happily ever after, but...
1296
01:20:57,000 --> 01:21:00,241
I just hope she knows
the difference
1297
01:21:00,241 --> 01:21:03,896
between filling a void
and what's real.
1298
01:21:08,586 --> 01:21:09,620
Give Mommy a hug.
1299
01:21:10,758 --> 01:21:12,275
Oh!
1300
01:21:12,275 --> 01:21:13,896
[Amanda] Mommy's
gonna miss you so much.
1301
01:21:26,379 --> 01:21:29,931
♪ I just need a little bit
more of your love ♪
1302
01:21:29,931 --> 01:21:31,482
Bye, I love you!
1303
01:21:34,586 --> 01:21:38,758
♪ I just need a little bit
more of your love ♪
1304
01:21:38,758 --> 01:21:41,827
[Amanda] This past year
without my husband
1305
01:21:42,448 --> 01:21:44,655
has been really difficult.
1306
01:21:45,931 --> 01:21:49,482
Some people may feel
that it's too soon
1307
01:21:49,482 --> 01:21:52,413
for me to start dating
someone else.
1308
01:21:52,413 --> 01:21:55,000
But I'm gonna embrace love
1309
01:21:55,000 --> 01:21:59,965
and embrace this special guy
that God has brought
into my life.
1310
01:21:59,965 --> 01:22:03,275
♪ Can't help myself ♪
1311
01:22:03,275 --> 01:22:07,862
[Amanda] I'm opening myself
up to Razvan and it's scary
1312
01:22:07,862 --> 01:22:11,413
because what if he's not
the person that he shows me,
1313
01:22:11,413 --> 01:22:14,896
you know,
through the phone, what if
he's totally different?
1314
01:22:14,896 --> 01:22:18,724
I don't know if I could
mentally or emotionally
recover from that.
1315
01:22:20,034 --> 01:22:21,551
♪ Yeah ♪
1316
01:22:42,827 --> 01:22:44,034
[Tyray] Hello. [titters]
1317
01:22:53,551 --> 01:22:54,379
[Tyray] Oh, okay.
1318
01:23:01,655 --> 01:23:03,586
- Here you go.
- Oh, thank you.
1319
01:23:08,931 --> 01:23:12,724
Tyray, we've learned some
information about Carmella
that we need to let you know.
1320
01:23:13,413 --> 01:23:14,241
Okay.
1321
01:23:15,068 --> 01:23:16,689
[David] After
we talk about this,
1322
01:23:16,689 --> 01:23:20,965
if you decide
that you don't
wanna keep filming,
1323
01:23:20,965 --> 01:23:23,827
let me know and, also,
if you decide after we talk
1324
01:23:23,827 --> 01:23:26,758
that you don't want us to use
any of the footage
1325
01:23:26,758 --> 01:23:29,172
that we've already filmed,
that's okay, just let me know.
1326
01:23:29,172 --> 01:23:30,000
- Okay.
- [David] Okay.
1327
01:23:30,862 --> 01:23:31,862
[David] Um...
1328
01:23:33,344 --> 01:23:36,862
We've learned Carmella
has not been honest with you
about who she is.
1329
01:23:39,655 --> 01:23:40,482
Like, about what?
1330
01:23:43,724 --> 01:23:46,965
[David] The person
you've been messaging with
1331
01:23:46,965 --> 01:23:49,379
for the last
several years,
1332
01:23:49,379 --> 01:23:52,413
is not the same woman
in the pictures and videos.
1333
01:23:53,862 --> 01:23:54,862
Like, at all, like...
1334
01:23:56,000 --> 01:23:57,413
Do you guys know
who it is or, like, is it...
1335
01:23:58,448 --> 01:23:59,655
There's a lot
that we don't know
1336
01:23:59,655 --> 01:24:02,689
but after you gave
us Carmella's number,
we reached out
1337
01:24:02,689 --> 01:24:06,000
and it took a while
but, eventually,
we made contact.
1338
01:24:07,379 --> 01:24:09,000
We talked to them for a bit
1339
01:24:09,000 --> 01:24:12,068
and the person admitted
that they're not
1340
01:24:12,068 --> 01:24:13,448
who they've been telling you
that they are.
1341
01:24:15,000 --> 01:24:18,689
So, the person
you've been match--
messaging with...
1342
01:24:20,586 --> 01:24:21,413
is a man.
1343
01:24:23,206 --> 01:24:24,000
Wow.
1344
01:24:26,827 --> 01:24:27,655
[David] I'm sorry.
1345
01:24:31,172 --> 01:24:34,034
[narrator] This season on
Before the 90 Days...
1346
01:24:34,034 --> 01:24:37,103
You've been a bad,
bad girl.
1347
01:24:37,103 --> 01:24:40,034
- [laughing]
- Bad girl.
You will do as I say.
1348
01:24:40,034 --> 01:24:41,000
[exclaims]
1349
01:24:42,275 --> 01:24:43,758
- [Razvan] Get ready...
- [laughing] Oh, God.
1350
01:24:44,275 --> 01:24:45,517
...'cause I'm ready.
1351
01:24:47,103 --> 01:24:48,448
[Sheila speaking]
1352
01:24:50,103 --> 01:24:51,068
[automated voice speaking]
1353
01:24:52,413 --> 01:24:53,689
[Sheila speaking]
1354
01:24:55,724 --> 01:24:57,275
[automated voice speaking]
1355
01:24:58,448 --> 01:24:59,310
[both laughing]
1356
01:25:01,000 --> 01:25:02,241
[gasps] What is that?
1357
01:25:02,241 --> 01:25:06,068
My name is Statler,
and I live in Irving, Texas.
1358
01:25:06,068 --> 01:25:08,793
No, that was weird.
Sorry, that...
I don't know what I'm doing.
1359
01:25:08,793 --> 01:25:10,758
Okay. [clears throat]
[blows raspberry]
1360
01:25:10,758 --> 01:25:13,068
I'm into girls
with an English accent.
1361
01:25:13,068 --> 01:25:15,379
[with English accent]
'Cause it's so freakin' hot, innit?
1362
01:25:15,379 --> 01:25:16,862
Hi babe.
1363
01:25:16,862 --> 01:25:19,586
[Statler] And now,
after seven months of talking,
1364
01:25:19,586 --> 01:25:22,482
I'm flying to England
to meet my girlfriend, Dempsey.
1365
01:25:22,482 --> 01:25:24,931
And if all goes well,
then I'll just move there.
1366
01:25:27,724 --> 01:25:28,793
She's not aware.
1367
01:25:29,413 --> 01:25:30,379
[chuckles nervously]
1368
01:25:31,724 --> 01:25:34,206
[Meisha] Nicola and I
are both devout Catholics.
1369
01:25:34,206 --> 01:25:36,689
But his family might not
approve of me
1370
01:25:36,689 --> 01:25:39,103
because of my past.
1371
01:25:39,103 --> 01:25:41,896
You haven't told them
that I'm here in Israel?
1372
01:25:41,896 --> 01:25:43,344
No. They're not going to
like you...
1373
01:25:45,896 --> 01:25:47,137
Do they know that I exist?
1374
01:25:49,620 --> 01:25:52,862
People would describe me
as the life of the party,
for sure.
1375
01:25:52,862 --> 01:25:56,655
But I'm really look for
somebody that I wanna spend
the rest of my life with.
1376
01:25:56,655 --> 01:26:00,379
And even though I've never
met her before, with Cleo,
I may have found that.
1377
01:26:00,379 --> 01:26:04,551
But she is really different
from women that I've dated
in the past.
1378
01:26:04,551 --> 01:26:05,758
You wanna come closer?
1379
01:26:05,758 --> 01:26:08,310
I just can't.
There's too many people.
1380
01:26:08,310 --> 01:26:10,551
It's not about me being shy.
1381
01:26:14,172 --> 01:26:14,931
[Tyray speaking]
1382
01:26:17,310 --> 01:26:20,344
I'm just desperate
to meet this person,
but what if
1383
01:26:20,344 --> 01:26:21,310
they don't show up?
1384
01:26:26,000 --> 01:26:26,965
[Sheila speaking]
1385
01:26:40,517 --> 01:26:41,655
[crying]
1386
01:26:41,655 --> 01:26:43,517
She called me
a manipulator, psychopath.
1387
01:26:44,793 --> 01:26:46,344
For my own mental health,
I can't go on like this.
1388
01:26:47,620 --> 01:26:48,310
[crying]
1389
01:26:49,241 --> 01:26:50,896
Do not talk down to me.
1390
01:26:52,724 --> 01:26:53,448
Okay, beat it.
1391
01:26:54,758 --> 01:26:56,724
Bye! I'm done.
1392
01:27:02,103 --> 01:27:03,655
Get out of my house!
1393
01:27:13,344 --> 01:27:14,655
[crying]