1 00:00:01,068 --> 00:00:02,655 [man] Previously on Before the 90 Days 2 00:00:02,689 --> 00:00:07,034 Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit. 3 00:00:07,068 --> 00:00:08,482 I was not raised with any religion. 4 00:00:09,241 --> 00:00:11,620 I was the fun party girl. 5 00:00:11,655 --> 00:00:14,793 But I had a pretty profound spiritual awakening, 6 00:00:14,827 --> 00:00:18,931 and God has given me a love that I've been searching for in Nicola. 7 00:00:18,965 --> 00:00:22,965 So you're not worried that he's a virgin. 8 00:00:25,586 --> 00:00:27,275 [woman speaking in Vietnamese] 9 00:00:27,310 --> 00:00:29,103 [Violet speaking Vietnamese] 10 00:00:29,137 --> 00:00:30,655 [laughing] 11 00:00:30,689 --> 00:00:32,793 [Violet speaking in English] 12 00:00:32,827 --> 00:00:34,034 [Violet speaking in Vietnamese] 13 00:00:39,344 --> 00:00:40,965 [Riley in English] I just wanna get over there, 14 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:42,965 find out what I need to find out, 15 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:45,275 so I might hire a PI. 16 00:01:10,586 --> 00:01:14,827 Maybe you can tell the kids that we are together. 17 00:01:14,862 --> 00:01:17,241 I can't risk you coming into their lives 18 00:01:17,275 --> 00:01:18,724 and us not working out. 19 00:01:18,758 --> 00:01:21,586 And then it's like another guy that'd just left, 20 00:01:21,620 --> 00:01:22,448 you know, like their dad. 21 00:01:23,689 --> 00:01:25,172 It's so much more fragile. 22 00:01:26,586 --> 00:01:27,586 [Jasmine speaking] Baby... 23 00:01:29,206 --> 00:01:32,517 Well, I'm not cooking with the proper equipment. 24 00:01:32,551 --> 00:01:35,413 Jasmine needs to understand that I am not a pushover. 25 00:01:35,448 --> 00:01:39,103 I really wanted to cook a goddamn vegan food for you! 26 00:01:46,723 --> 00:01:48,068 [crying] 27 00:02:06,620 --> 00:02:08,793 When I get to Israel, 28 00:02:08,827 --> 00:02:11,344 and after I meet Nicola, I'll text you. 29 00:02:11,379 --> 00:02:13,310 -Okay. -I'll definitely text you. 30 00:02:14,448 --> 00:02:15,344 It's happening. 31 00:02:15,379 --> 00:02:16,793 My daughters are dropping me 32 00:02:16,827 --> 00:02:17,862 off at the airport 33 00:02:17,896 --> 00:02:21,241 and I am finally off to Israel to meet Nicola. 34 00:02:21,275 --> 00:02:22,793 -So, just, like, go... -So, just pull up here, honey. 35 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:25,241 [Svea] Well, here we go. 36 00:02:26,172 --> 00:02:28,793 Two weeks is a long time to be away, 37 00:02:28,827 --> 00:02:32,862 but at the same time, two weeks may not feel like a long time at all, 38 00:02:32,896 --> 00:02:36,275 especially being that I have to learn so much about Nicola. 39 00:02:37,517 --> 00:02:38,724 I really need this. 40 00:02:38,758 --> 00:02:40,275 I love you both so much. 41 00:02:40,310 --> 00:02:41,965 -[Meisha's daughter] Have fun. -[Meisha] I will. 42 00:02:42,448 --> 00:02:43,344 I'll be smart. 43 00:02:43,379 --> 00:02:45,344 ["Chasing Stars" playing] 44 00:02:47,172 --> 00:02:48,793 ♪ You're living the moment♪ 45 00:02:48,827 --> 00:02:52,793 ♪ Carried away from who you are♪ 46 00:02:52,827 --> 00:02:54,758 [Meisha] All right, the bags are checked 47 00:02:54,793 --> 00:02:57,793 and I'm, like, so excited, but I'm so nervous. 48 00:02:57,827 --> 00:03:00,344 Um, I'm gonna see what happens. 49 00:03:00,379 --> 00:03:03,620 ♪ Chasing stars♪ 50 00:03:03,655 --> 00:03:04,931 ♪ Chasing...♪ 51 00:03:04,965 --> 00:03:09,413 At the end of this trip, the hopeful outcome is engagement. 52 00:03:09,448 --> 00:03:11,655 I mean, he's everything to me, so... 53 00:03:11,689 --> 00:03:15,551 The worst case scenario is that I even lose my best friend 54 00:03:15,586 --> 00:03:17,310 and I think that that ultimately 55 00:03:17,344 --> 00:03:19,896 is what could potentially hurt the most. 56 00:03:19,931 --> 00:03:21,551 Probably a little bit of a crazy person but... 57 00:03:24,586 --> 00:03:26,206 But I'm such a firm believer 58 00:03:26,241 --> 00:03:29,896 that sometimes we just have to step out in faith and say, 59 00:03:29,931 --> 00:03:31,827 "Screw it. I am just going for it." 60 00:03:32,689 --> 00:03:35,517 I love him and he is my babe. 61 00:03:38,758 --> 00:03:39,827 Here I come. 62 00:03:41,827 --> 00:03:43,413 [airplane roaring] 63 00:03:55,827 --> 00:03:57,241 Oh, Meisha, I'm coming. 64 00:04:22,827 --> 00:04:24,551 [engine whirring] 65 00:04:29,965 --> 00:04:33,241 I am so excited. 66 00:04:33,275 --> 00:04:34,965 I mean, of course I'm gonna be nervous. 67 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:36,310 I've been nervous the whole time. 68 00:04:36,344 --> 00:04:40,310 Seven years of talking about this moment. 69 00:04:49,931 --> 00:04:50,896 [laughs] 70 00:04:50,931 --> 00:04:52,724 [indistinct chatter in background] 71 00:04:58,517 --> 00:05:00,896 And my expectation with Meisha... 72 00:05:03,068 --> 00:05:04,724 Ugh, it's going to be amazing. 73 00:05:05,862 --> 00:05:07,000 When I'm going to see Meisha, 74 00:05:07,034 --> 00:05:08,000 I'm going to give her, like, you know... 75 00:05:08,655 --> 00:05:10,275 Small kiss. 76 00:05:10,310 --> 00:05:13,862 Small, fast and nice with emotion, you know. 77 00:05:14,310 --> 00:05:15,344 [kisses] 78 00:05:15,379 --> 00:05:16,793 [laughs] 79 00:05:18,724 --> 00:05:19,551 Is that Meisha? 80 00:05:20,206 --> 00:05:21,034 Nah. 81 00:05:27,965 --> 00:05:29,793 Oh, my God. [chuckles] 82 00:05:30,551 --> 00:05:32,034 Meisha! [chuckles] 83 00:05:33,068 --> 00:05:34,103 Oh, finally... [chuckles] 84 00:05:37,068 --> 00:05:38,103 Oh, my... 85 00:05:49,068 --> 00:05:51,000 [Meisha speaking] 86 00:05:51,034 --> 00:05:53,000 [Nicola speaking] 87 00:05:53,034 --> 00:05:55,413 [Meisha speaking] 88 00:05:55,448 --> 00:05:57,103 [both chuckling] 89 00:05:57,862 --> 00:05:59,793 [Meisha speaking] 90 00:06:02,413 --> 00:06:03,724 [Meisha speaking] 91 00:06:03,758 --> 00:06:05,344 -[Meisha speaking] -[Nicola speaking] 92 00:06:05,379 --> 00:06:06,413 [Meisha speaking] 93 00:06:06,448 --> 00:06:07,241 [Nicola chuckling] 94 00:06:10,551 --> 00:06:12,793 I'm so completed. 95 00:06:13,448 --> 00:06:14,275 [Nicola speaking] 96 00:06:15,965 --> 00:06:17,034 [Meisha] How happy are you? 97 00:06:18,758 --> 00:06:20,206 Okay, good. 98 00:06:20,241 --> 00:06:21,551 Thanks be to God. 99 00:06:23,689 --> 00:06:25,000 -[speaking Hebrew] -Huh? 100 00:06:25,034 --> 00:06:26,241 [speaking Hebrew] 101 00:06:27,310 --> 00:06:28,965 -What does that mean again? -[Nicola] 102 00:06:31,793 --> 00:06:34,482 Did I look exactly how you thought I would when you first saw me? 103 00:06:34,517 --> 00:06:35,482 Yes. 104 00:06:35,517 --> 00:06:37,758 -I looked exactly... -Exactly, even better. 105 00:06:37,793 --> 00:06:40,000 -Better in person than on the phone? -Better in person. 106 00:06:40,034 --> 00:06:40,862 Yes. 107 00:06:46,620 --> 00:06:49,517 It far exceeded my expectations. 108 00:06:49,551 --> 00:06:52,103 Even cuter, even better, and... 109 00:06:53,034 --> 00:06:53,896 Just my babe. 110 00:06:53,931 --> 00:06:54,965 [chuckles] 111 00:06:58,655 --> 00:07:00,448 -[Meisha] -[Nicola speaking indistinctly] 112 00:07:10,137 --> 00:07:11,310 Aw. 113 00:07:11,344 --> 00:07:13,758 -[Nicola chuckles] -[Meisha] Oh, my God. 114 00:07:13,793 --> 00:07:15,758 Is it... [chuckles] 115 00:07:15,793 --> 00:07:17,068 -Okay. -[Nicola speaking] 116 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:19,275 -Stop it. -[Nicola speaking] 117 00:07:19,310 --> 00:07:20,827 -Okay... -[Nicola speaking] 118 00:07:20,862 --> 00:07:22,896 Is this gonna... Is your car still gonna run? 119 00:07:22,931 --> 00:07:24,000 [Nicola chuckles] 120 00:07:24,034 --> 00:07:25,241 -Oh, okay. -[Nicola speaking] 121 00:07:26,517 --> 00:07:28,586 Let's go. 122 00:07:28,620 --> 00:07:31,310 -[Meisha] I'm so glad I got to kiss you. -[Nicola speaking] 123 00:07:32,103 --> 00:07:33,137 [straining] 124 00:07:38,448 --> 00:07:40,275 -[Meisha] Yes! -[Nicola sighs] 125 00:07:41,103 --> 00:07:43,137 Let's say one Our Father, and... 126 00:07:43,172 --> 00:07:45,413 -[both] One Hail Mary. -...that this car does not break down. 127 00:07:48,517 --> 00:07:49,586 Do you think it's gonna... 128 00:07:53,034 --> 00:07:54,172 Okay. 129 00:07:54,206 --> 00:07:56,344 Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name... 130 00:07:57,862 --> 00:07:59,551 What's most important right now 131 00:07:59,586 --> 00:08:04,689 is that me and Nico, like, get to know each other on the deepest level possible. 132 00:08:04,724 --> 00:08:09,034 I have to take this time to really get to know Nicola and his world, 133 00:08:09,068 --> 00:08:11,344 so we can decide if we wanna be together forever, 134 00:08:12,206 --> 00:08:13,172 -which I think we do. -Yes. 135 00:08:14,758 --> 00:08:16,931 Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit. 136 00:08:16,965 --> 00:08:19,137 As it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be. 137 00:08:19,172 --> 00:08:21,068 Amen. Let's go. 138 00:08:41,102 --> 00:08:42,655 [Gino] I wanna put a few things away here. 139 00:08:44,620 --> 00:08:48,862 I'm so happy, babe, that you're in a better mood today, you know. 140 00:08:48,896 --> 00:08:51,068 -[Gino] Oh. -I know I was rough last night. 141 00:08:51,896 --> 00:08:52,931 [Gino speaking] 142 00:08:55,586 --> 00:08:56,413 I only had a... 143 00:08:57,586 --> 00:08:59,758 a few hours sleep, you know, so... 144 00:08:59,793 --> 00:09:01,965 -[Jasmine] Bad. -So I feel a little better today. 145 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:05,896 Yeah. What I'm trying to tell is that you really surprised me this morning. 146 00:09:05,931 --> 00:09:08,206 I was not expecting you to be... [chuckles] 147 00:09:09,551 --> 00:09:12,034 all, like, ready and... 148 00:09:15,241 --> 00:09:16,586 [laughs] 149 00:09:17,965 --> 00:09:20,034 I was not expecting it and it was good. 150 00:09:20,793 --> 00:09:22,379 That's good to hear, baby. 151 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:23,827 Mmm. 152 00:09:27,379 --> 00:09:28,206 [chuckles] 153 00:09:44,896 --> 00:09:45,724 Where can I put this? 154 00:09:46,448 --> 00:09:47,620 [Jasmine speaking] 155 00:09:54,965 --> 00:09:57,655 So you're gonna try to do it more frequent? 156 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:00,620 Yeah, let's see how it goes. 157 00:10:00,655 --> 00:10:02,896 You know, I don't like to plan stuff like that. 158 00:10:02,931 --> 00:10:06,551 -Let's just let it happen naturally. -Naturally, right? 159 00:10:06,586 --> 00:10:08,724 But you know what? I did bring a couple of gifts for you. 160 00:10:08,758 --> 00:10:10,931 [gasps] Thank you, baby. 161 00:10:13,551 --> 00:10:14,482 Ta-da! 162 00:10:15,275 --> 00:10:17,482 Uh, a travel pocket. 163 00:10:19,172 --> 00:10:21,655 I know you used the other one so much, it... 164 00:10:21,689 --> 00:10:23,034 I believe you told me it broke, 165 00:10:23,068 --> 00:10:25,000 so I wanted to get you another one. 166 00:10:25,034 --> 00:10:27,655 Yeah, so you brought me exactly the same, yeah. 167 00:10:27,689 --> 00:10:30,758 You were using it everyday and I wanted to get you 168 00:10:30,793 --> 00:10:32,931 something that you can use everyday. 169 00:10:32,965 --> 00:10:34,896 [Jasmine chuckles] Thank you, baby. 170 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,413 I would say creative is number one. 171 00:10:43,448 --> 00:10:46,620 She gave me very creative gifts the first time I met her. 172 00:10:46,655 --> 00:10:47,620 -Yeah. -Those were... 173 00:10:47,655 --> 00:10:49,275 -Very thoughtful. -Those were the best gifts 174 00:10:49,310 --> 00:10:51,379 because, you know, it comes from the heart. 175 00:10:51,413 --> 00:10:54,758 -I... -Everything that I do for you comes from my heart, okay? 176 00:10:54,793 --> 00:10:57,310 Everything, baby, everything, 177 00:10:57,344 --> 00:10:59,482 because I love you. 178 00:10:59,517 --> 00:11:01,655 -I love you too. -Aw, my baby. 179 00:11:02,793 --> 00:11:03,620 So cute. 180 00:11:06,310 --> 00:11:08,310 So I also got you... 181 00:11:09,344 --> 00:11:12,689 some hair that you asked me... 182 00:11:12,724 --> 00:11:15,758 to investigate to show you what they offer in Michigan. 183 00:11:15,793 --> 00:11:17,793 It's 330 bucks. 184 00:11:17,827 --> 00:11:18,689 [Jasmine] Thank you, baby. 185 00:11:18,724 --> 00:11:21,275 I love this gift, but it's just... 186 00:11:21,310 --> 00:11:23,689 Do you have, like, any idea how many of this 187 00:11:23,724 --> 00:11:26,344 I have to put on to get this look? 188 00:11:26,379 --> 00:11:27,827 -I... -How many do you use? 189 00:11:27,862 --> 00:11:29,034 I use, like, ten. 190 00:11:30,689 --> 00:11:32,000 -You use ten. -[Jasmine] Yeah. 191 00:11:32,034 --> 00:11:35,689 So, like, this hair cost me $3,500, okay? 192 00:11:37,758 --> 00:11:40,448 I thought it was, like, half of that cost, 193 00:11:40,482 --> 00:11:43,000 But it's good that we're having this conversation right now 194 00:11:43,034 --> 00:11:45,862 so you can have an idea because once I'm in Michigan, 195 00:11:45,896 --> 00:11:48,862 I'm gonna be your wife, you know... 196 00:11:48,896 --> 00:11:53,206 So, it's not gonna be, you know, like, me paying for all these things. 197 00:11:56,793 --> 00:11:57,793 [Gino chuckles] 198 00:12:02,724 --> 00:12:05,206 [Jasmine] I know that Gino thinks that I'm unreasonable, 199 00:12:05,241 --> 00:12:08,034 but I have sacrificed so many things for our relationship. 200 00:12:09,068 --> 00:12:11,413 I'm giving up everything here in Panama. 201 00:12:11,448 --> 00:12:14,517 So the one thing I'm not going to sacrifice 202 00:12:14,551 --> 00:12:18,103 is my quality of life once I move to the United States. 203 00:12:20,413 --> 00:12:23,551 You want a beautiful wife, this is what it takes. 204 00:12:24,241 --> 00:12:25,517 You know, you just want... 205 00:12:25,551 --> 00:12:27,517 You're not thinking about budget. 206 00:12:27,551 --> 00:12:29,586 You're just asking for things that, you know, 207 00:12:30,206 --> 00:12:31,344 are pretty luxurious 208 00:12:31,379 --> 00:12:33,413 and you have to do things within a budget. 209 00:12:33,448 --> 00:12:39,551 Gino, I'm not gonna stop wearing hair extensions once I'm in Michigan. 210 00:12:39,586 --> 00:12:40,586 You understand? 211 00:12:42,655 --> 00:12:44,413 Well, we're certainly, one way or the other, 212 00:12:44,448 --> 00:12:47,103 we'll work it out, so don't worry. 213 00:12:48,551 --> 00:12:50,275 Okay, let's go to breakfast. 214 00:12:50,931 --> 00:12:51,758 Okay. 215 00:12:52,758 --> 00:12:54,206 [sniffs] 216 00:12:54,241 --> 00:12:56,931 She knows I have some money saved, okay? 217 00:12:57,482 --> 00:12:58,862 That's the problem. 218 00:12:58,896 --> 00:13:01,793 She thinks she can grab my retirement money like it's cash 219 00:13:01,827 --> 00:13:02,793 and start spending it. 220 00:13:04,206 --> 00:13:05,517 No, you can't do that. 221 00:13:06,758 --> 00:13:08,103 Are you ready? We're starving. 222 00:13:08,137 --> 00:13:09,137 You're gonna bring the unicorn? 223 00:13:09,172 --> 00:13:10,689 Yeah, I wanna bring my unicorn. 224 00:13:12,896 --> 00:13:18,586 I really think it's time for me to set the expectations for Jasmine 225 00:13:18,620 --> 00:13:20,206 when it comes to my money. 226 00:13:20,241 --> 00:13:23,517 But I'm terrified about bringing up the prenup to her 227 00:13:23,551 --> 00:13:26,000 because she might take it the wrong way 228 00:13:26,862 --> 00:13:28,793 and, you know, she might explode. 229 00:13:38,724 --> 00:13:40,689 [Christian] People would describe me as the life of the party 230 00:13:40,724 --> 00:13:42,827 but I'm really looking for somebody 231 00:13:42,862 --> 00:13:44,724 that I want to spend the rest of my life with. 232 00:13:44,758 --> 00:13:47,103 and I think I may have found them. 233 00:13:47,137 --> 00:13:51,241 But Cleo is really different from women that I've dated in the past. 234 00:13:59,758 --> 00:14:01,655 I have a proposal for you today. 235 00:14:06,241 --> 00:14:08,379 Because you're gonna be just wasting your time 236 00:14:08,413 --> 00:14:10,206 -explaining [bleep] to me. -No, no, no, no. 237 00:14:10,241 --> 00:14:15,310 -No, it's not all... -If there is a [bleep] prenup, I'm not gonna marry you. 238 00:14:33,482 --> 00:14:34,620 I don't look too bad, huh? 239 00:14:34,655 --> 00:14:36,000 I clean up pretty nice. 240 00:14:36,034 --> 00:14:36,965 [laughs] 241 00:14:43,344 --> 00:14:44,827 I'm getting ready for a Halloween party 242 00:14:44,862 --> 00:14:46,275 that my friend Morgan's throwing. 243 00:14:46,310 --> 00:14:49,068 I'm going as Chet Steiner, '70s news man. 244 00:14:55,103 --> 00:14:56,310 Are we live? We're live. 245 00:14:56,344 --> 00:14:58,517 We're live. 3, 2, 1... 246 00:14:58,551 --> 00:15:01,655 This is Chet Steiner reporting from Twin Cities, Minnesota. 247 00:15:01,689 --> 00:15:04,172 Outside of a Halloween party now, we're gonna go inside 248 00:15:04,206 --> 00:15:05,448 and see where everything's all about. 249 00:15:05,482 --> 00:15:07,000 Stay tuned for more. 250 00:15:08,448 --> 00:15:09,344 My name's Christian. 251 00:15:09,379 --> 00:15:11,068 I'm from Minneapolis, Minnesota 252 00:15:11,103 --> 00:15:12,068 and I'm 30 years old. 253 00:15:12,689 --> 00:15:13,862 Hey everybody! 254 00:15:13,896 --> 00:15:16,068 -[woman] Hey. -[Christian] How's it goin'? 255 00:15:16,103 --> 00:15:18,344 People would describe me as the life of the party for sure. 256 00:15:18,379 --> 00:15:19,896 [indistinct] 257 00:15:19,931 --> 00:15:21,000 [woman] Whoo! 258 00:15:21,034 --> 00:15:22,000 -[people talking indistinctly] -[woman laughs] 259 00:15:23,413 --> 00:15:24,724 When I go out, I like to dance. 260 00:15:24,758 --> 00:15:27,068 I like to drink a cocktail 261 00:15:27,103 --> 00:15:28,482 and I love to make people laugh. 262 00:15:28,517 --> 00:15:30,827 Now can we get a comment from the cow, please? 263 00:15:31,413 --> 00:15:32,827 [women laughing] 264 00:15:32,862 --> 00:15:35,413 When it comes to dating, I've dated many types of women. 265 00:15:35,448 --> 00:15:38,241 I have been called starry-eyed Christian before 266 00:15:38,275 --> 00:15:40,793 where I'm really, really infatuated with somebody for a time 267 00:15:40,827 --> 00:15:42,172 and then maybe just doesn't work out 268 00:15:42,206 --> 00:15:44,551 and as soon as they're gone, somebody else is there. 269 00:15:47,068 --> 00:15:49,586 I've had a few serious relationships. 270 00:15:49,620 --> 00:15:54,482 During the pandemic, I eloped with a girlfriend of mine 271 00:15:54,517 --> 00:15:57,482 but I ended up getting it annulled later that year. 272 00:15:58,517 --> 00:15:59,517 I never really settling. 273 00:15:59,551 --> 00:16:00,862 I'm really looking for somebody 274 00:16:00,896 --> 00:16:02,448 that I wanna spend the rest of my life with. 275 00:16:02,482 --> 00:16:03,758 A companion, a partner. 276 00:16:03,793 --> 00:16:05,413 [fire crackling] 277 00:16:05,448 --> 00:16:07,896 [Christian] There's something about that dynamic of a husband and wife 278 00:16:07,931 --> 00:16:09,689 that no matter what, at the end of the day 279 00:16:09,724 --> 00:16:11,103 you have somebody to come home to, 280 00:16:11,137 --> 00:16:13,724 that I've always been longing for. 281 00:16:13,758 --> 00:16:16,275 And I think with Cleo, I may have found that. 282 00:16:19,344 --> 00:16:22,448 Cleo to me is like a princess from another planet. 283 00:16:23,103 --> 00:16:24,310 She's a model from Italy. 284 00:16:24,344 --> 00:16:25,862 She lives in London. 285 00:16:25,896 --> 00:16:28,137 She's extremely gorgeous. 286 00:16:28,172 --> 00:16:29,862 She's wonderful. 287 00:16:29,896 --> 00:16:31,965 She's very genuine. 288 00:16:33,620 --> 00:16:35,068 Cleo and I first started talking 289 00:16:35,103 --> 00:16:36,793 on social media almost a year ago. 290 00:16:38,068 --> 00:16:40,827 I was just scrolling and saw her. 291 00:16:40,862 --> 00:16:43,655 She has this humor that just cracks me up 292 00:16:43,689 --> 00:16:45,586 and if a girl can make me laugh, I just... 293 00:16:45,620 --> 00:16:47,758 I tend to crush pretty easy. 294 00:16:47,793 --> 00:16:50,275 It started off as very friendly, but 295 00:16:50,310 --> 00:16:53,517 soon it started to snowball into something that was more. 296 00:16:53,551 --> 00:16:57,931 And it slowly evolved over time where I got really strong feelings for her. 297 00:16:57,965 --> 00:16:59,275 Even though I've never met her before, 298 00:16:59,310 --> 00:17:00,793 I feel extremely close to her. 299 00:17:01,827 --> 00:17:04,862 And probably for the last four months, 300 00:17:04,896 --> 00:17:06,964 we've been on a video call every single night 301 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:09,344 and sometimes for hours at a time. 302 00:17:09,378 --> 00:17:14,000 But Cleo is really different from women that I've dated in the past. 303 00:17:39,034 --> 00:17:40,586 [people talking indistinctly] 304 00:17:40,620 --> 00:17:42,620 [drilling] 305 00:17:43,689 --> 00:17:44,758 [Cleo] I'm Cleo. 306 00:17:44,793 --> 00:17:46,137 I'm 33 years old. 307 00:17:46,172 --> 00:17:47,827 I'm a student and a model... 308 00:17:47,862 --> 00:17:48,689 [car honks] 309 00:17:49,482 --> 00:17:50,275 ...and I'm autistic. 310 00:17:55,827 --> 00:17:58,172 Just putting my sunflower lanyard on... 311 00:17:58,206 --> 00:18:00,758 -[sirens wailing in background] -...and my light headphones 312 00:18:00,793 --> 00:18:01,931 to, kind of, block the noise. 313 00:18:02,413 --> 00:18:03,275 [vehicles honking] 314 00:18:03,310 --> 00:18:04,896 [Cleo] Um, this is very noisy for me. 315 00:18:04,931 --> 00:18:06,862 [sirens wailing] 316 00:18:19,689 --> 00:18:21,413 [people talking indistinctly] 317 00:18:28,034 --> 00:18:29,896 It affects the way a person 318 00:18:33,965 --> 00:18:35,206 [bell dings] 319 00:18:38,172 --> 00:18:42,000 I can get very easily overstimulated by various thing. 320 00:18:42,034 --> 00:18:43,517 [wheels clattering] 321 00:18:43,551 --> 00:18:45,000 [Cleo speaking] 322 00:18:46,965 --> 00:18:48,172 [drum cracking] 323 00:18:50,379 --> 00:18:53,551 [Cleo] It affects my ability to make decisions. 324 00:18:53,586 --> 00:18:58,344 So I am really drawn to making sure that everything is predictable to an extent. 325 00:18:59,482 --> 00:19:01,793 And throughout my life, being autistic has... 326 00:19:01,827 --> 00:19:03,965 -[Cleo speaking] -[child crying] 327 00:19:07,137 --> 00:19:07,965 [Cleo speaking] 328 00:19:10,551 --> 00:19:13,172 I was subjected to a lot of bullying 329 00:19:14,034 --> 00:19:15,655 because I was different. 330 00:19:15,689 --> 00:19:20,448 I used to try my hardest to suppress and try to mask my symptoms 331 00:19:31,448 --> 00:19:34,275 But I still fail miserably sometimes 332 00:19:34,310 --> 00:19:36,758 and it was just really, really hard. 333 00:19:39,689 --> 00:19:43,275 On the positive, I feel that being autistic 334 00:19:43,310 --> 00:19:47,000 allows me to be unapologetically myself. 335 00:19:48,620 --> 00:19:51,000 And I am proud of that. 336 00:19:57,517 --> 00:19:58,793 -[Ousama] Hey, Cleo. -Nice to see you. 337 00:19:58,827 --> 00:20:00,241 [Ousama] How are you? 338 00:20:00,275 --> 00:20:02,517 -[Cleo] Okay. I'm a little bit stressed. -Running a little late? 339 00:20:02,551 --> 00:20:03,689 -Yeah, I'm sorry I'm late. -[chuckles] 340 00:20:03,724 --> 00:20:05,689 I just had to go through all of Central London... 341 00:20:05,724 --> 00:20:07,344 -[Ousama] That's okay. -...and it was so busy. 342 00:20:07,379 --> 00:20:08,827 -Yeah. -[Cleo] I'm a little bit overwhelmed right now, 343 00:20:08,862 --> 00:20:10,620 so, like, I'm gonna need, like, a few minutes... 344 00:20:10,655 --> 00:20:12,275 [Ousama] Yeah, chill, chill, we're chilling, we're chilling. 345 00:20:12,310 --> 00:20:14,310 -I've got time today so no rush. -[Cleo] That's great. 346 00:20:14,344 --> 00:20:15,689 [people talking indistinctly in background] 347 00:20:17,379 --> 00:20:18,931 [Ousama] I met Cleo at university. 348 00:20:18,965 --> 00:20:21,137 We connected over the weird stuff of life. 349 00:20:21,172 --> 00:20:25,068 Spirits, ghosts, astrology, psychedelics. 350 00:20:25,103 --> 00:20:26,827 All of the good stuff. [chuckles] 351 00:20:27,965 --> 00:20:29,448 It was pretty intense this week. 352 00:20:29,482 --> 00:20:30,448 -[Cleo] Yes. -Yep. 353 00:20:30,482 --> 00:20:34,241 It was really intense despite the, um... 354 00:20:35,275 --> 00:20:36,241 Like... 355 00:20:37,448 --> 00:20:38,517 [chuckles softly] 356 00:20:41,379 --> 00:20:44,482 Um, I just feel like... 357 00:20:44,517 --> 00:20:45,965 Because, like, I mean... 358 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:47,103 Sorry, guys, it's just, kind of, 359 00:20:47,137 --> 00:20:49,103 the first day's filming, and I feel like... 360 00:20:49,137 --> 00:20:50,931 You know, I love to, kind of, understand people better. 361 00:20:59,137 --> 00:21:00,655 Do you guys know your star sign, 362 00:21:00,689 --> 00:21:02,689 or your personality type at all? 363 00:21:04,379 --> 00:21:07,068 [Cleo] Okay. Yeah, I can totally see you being an Aquarius. 364 00:21:07,103 --> 00:21:08,241 And... 365 00:21:08,275 --> 00:21:09,344 [Cleo] A Leo. Okay. 366 00:21:09,379 --> 00:21:10,862 And what about you? 367 00:21:12,103 --> 00:21:13,000 A Libra. 368 00:21:14,275 --> 00:21:17,034 Keeping a straight face. For sure. [laughs] 369 00:21:19,517 --> 00:21:21,896 [Cleo speaking] 370 00:21:39,931 --> 00:21:42,172 And understanding myself better. 371 00:21:43,793 --> 00:21:45,000 -Yeah, sorry. It's just, like... -Yep, yep. 372 00:21:45,034 --> 00:21:46,241 [Cleo] Yeah, yeah. 373 00:21:46,275 --> 00:21:48,000 [Ousama speaking] 374 00:21:48,034 --> 00:21:49,137 He's a Gemini. 375 00:21:49,172 --> 00:21:51,482 -Mmm. -He's a Gemini. 376 00:21:51,517 --> 00:21:53,689 -This is your first Gemini? -He is. 377 00:21:53,724 --> 00:21:55,482 [Ousama speaking] 378 00:21:55,517 --> 00:21:58,758 Very tumultuous. So, the highs are high, and the lows are low. 379 00:22:02,137 --> 00:22:03,206 [Ousama] Yeah. 380 00:22:03,241 --> 00:22:04,896 [Cleo speaking] 381 00:22:09,551 --> 00:22:10,413 It is. 382 00:22:11,413 --> 00:22:13,275 [mid-tempo electronic music playing] 383 00:22:13,310 --> 00:22:14,862 [Cleo] My boyfriend's name is Christian. 384 00:22:14,896 --> 00:22:17,551 We met a year ago. 385 00:22:17,586 --> 00:22:20,379 And my first impression of him was... 386 00:22:23,344 --> 00:22:24,413 I'm joking. 387 00:22:25,827 --> 00:22:26,724 No, I'm joking. 388 00:22:28,965 --> 00:22:31,896 Christian and I met on social media. 389 00:22:31,931 --> 00:22:33,275 And we just started talking. 390 00:22:35,172 --> 00:22:36,137 And pretty soon, 391 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,275 he was what I was thinking about 392 00:22:40,241 --> 00:22:41,241 most of the day. 393 00:22:45,310 --> 00:22:48,068 Christian is extroverted, he's goofy, 394 00:22:48,103 --> 00:22:49,482 doesn't take himself too seriously. 395 00:22:49,517 --> 00:22:51,724 [in generic American accent] You killed my brother, 396 00:22:51,758 --> 00:22:53,275 you dirty rat. 397 00:22:53,310 --> 00:22:55,793 [Cleo] And he just looks cute. 398 00:22:55,827 --> 00:22:58,551 Like, I'm totally a simp for him. 399 00:23:03,413 --> 00:23:04,620 A simp is like... 400 00:23:04,655 --> 00:23:06,793 You're, like... I don't know, it's really hard to explain. 401 00:23:06,827 --> 00:23:08,793 Like, basically your brain shuts off 402 00:23:08,827 --> 00:23:10,172 and you're just dumb for now. 403 00:23:10,206 --> 00:23:12,000 Like, you'd do anything for them. 404 00:23:14,482 --> 00:23:15,862 [Ousama speaking] 405 00:23:15,896 --> 00:23:17,827 Do you think you guys are a good match? 406 00:23:17,862 --> 00:23:21,482 Um, I believe astrology does indicate tendencies, 407 00:23:21,517 --> 00:23:25,137 as opposed to deciding destiny, but... 408 00:23:27,689 --> 00:23:28,551 [Ousama] Yeah. 409 00:23:29,517 --> 00:23:30,758 Changing plan every day. 410 00:23:30,793 --> 00:23:32,620 Wanting to do one thing, and then, 411 00:23:32,655 --> 00:23:33,655 -you know, doing another. -Yeah, yeah. 412 00:23:33,689 --> 00:23:35,655 And really taking you on a roller-coaster. 413 00:23:35,689 --> 00:23:38,448 So, me being autistic, I'm very introverted, 414 00:23:38,482 --> 00:23:40,862 I'm kind of worried that this could cause some friction. 415 00:23:43,172 --> 00:23:44,896 So, is that something that's kind of bothering you then? 416 00:23:44,931 --> 00:23:47,137 Just, kind of, like, that super-extroverted side of him? 417 00:23:48,310 --> 00:23:49,482 I mean, here's the thing. 418 00:23:49,517 --> 00:23:52,172 Maybe the opposite attracts, but I feel, with him, 419 00:23:52,206 --> 00:23:54,758 he's probably the most extroverted person 420 00:23:54,793 --> 00:23:56,724 -that I've ever dated. -Hmm. 421 00:23:56,758 --> 00:23:59,206 So, that, kind of, scares me a little bit. 422 00:23:59,241 --> 00:24:00,172 [Ousama] Yeah. 423 00:24:02,103 --> 00:24:03,896 [Cleo] In my past relationships, 424 00:24:03,931 --> 00:24:07,517 there's definitely been times where I felt that being autistic 425 00:24:07,551 --> 00:24:09,172 made me feel like I was a burden, 426 00:24:09,206 --> 00:24:11,931 because maybe I was getting too anxious, 427 00:24:11,965 --> 00:24:14,379 or I would refuse to do things, refuse to go out. 428 00:24:14,413 --> 00:24:17,793 And that made things hard. 429 00:24:17,827 --> 00:24:21,793 I feel like I've really put my heart out there for Christian, 430 00:24:21,827 --> 00:24:25,068 but there's a real concern that maybe Christian 431 00:24:25,103 --> 00:24:27,896 isn't necessarily somebody that's gonna be happy 432 00:24:27,931 --> 00:24:30,448 being in a committed relationship. 433 00:24:30,482 --> 00:24:32,413 You know, especially, with somebody like me. 434 00:24:32,448 --> 00:24:36,965 And I do worry that I'll be totally heart-broken if things don't work out. 435 00:24:51,034 --> 00:24:52,724 Love the chocolate. 436 00:24:52,758 --> 00:24:54,034 [Amanda] I don't think this is cooked. 437 00:24:54,068 --> 00:24:55,034 [Razvan speaking] 438 00:24:56,896 --> 00:24:57,862 [Riley speaking] 439 00:24:59,448 --> 00:25:01,827 I can't wait to give Violet a hug, 440 00:25:01,862 --> 00:25:03,413 but we have a bet. 441 00:25:03,448 --> 00:25:06,310 Whoever touched the other person first loses. 442 00:25:07,655 --> 00:25:09,137 Beautiful. 443 00:25:09,172 --> 00:25:11,379 So, I gotta stay strong. 444 00:25:11,413 --> 00:25:12,931 Oh. 445 00:25:12,965 --> 00:25:14,310 Ah, you gonna hug me first, you're gonna lose the bet. 446 00:25:14,344 --> 00:25:15,827 [laughing] 447 00:25:21,551 --> 00:25:22,965 [pigeons cooing] 448 00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:36,551 [Razvan speaking] 449 00:25:42,103 --> 00:25:44,586 But why are you, like, spreading it around like that? 450 00:26:01,241 --> 00:26:04,793 And the pancake guy love the chocolate. 451 00:26:05,517 --> 00:26:06,482 Mmm. 452 00:26:10,551 --> 00:26:11,793 All right, pancake man. 453 00:26:26,413 --> 00:26:29,551 We had such a long day, and I was so tired. 454 00:26:32,517 --> 00:26:36,206 [Amanda] I've been in Romania with Razvan for two days now. 455 00:26:36,241 --> 00:26:38,862 I'm very happy to be here with him, 456 00:26:38,896 --> 00:26:40,655 but last night, 457 00:26:40,689 --> 00:26:42,206 I got upset because 458 00:26:42,241 --> 00:26:44,689 I feel like he was pushing too much 459 00:26:44,724 --> 00:26:46,827 when it comes to telling my kids about our relationship. 460 00:26:49,551 --> 00:26:53,655 So, how do you feel about our conversation last night? 461 00:26:54,793 --> 00:26:56,000 [Razvan speaking] 462 00:27:13,034 --> 00:27:13,931 Yeah. [chuckles softly] 463 00:27:44,862 --> 00:27:46,586 [Amanda] I don't think this is cooked. 464 00:27:46,620 --> 00:27:47,551 [Razvan speaking] 465 00:27:49,551 --> 00:27:51,586 -[chuckling] No. No. -Come on. Come here. 466 00:27:54,310 --> 00:27:55,241 [mumbling] 467 00:27:59,310 --> 00:28:00,310 [Razvan speaking] 468 00:28:08,862 --> 00:28:10,655 Do they have American food there? 469 00:28:16,448 --> 00:28:17,413 Okay, girl. 470 00:28:24,689 --> 00:28:25,655 [car door closes] 471 00:28:29,034 --> 00:28:30,758 [Amanda] This looks nice. 472 00:28:30,793 --> 00:28:32,137 -[Razvan speaking] -[Amanda] And healthy. 473 00:28:32,172 --> 00:28:33,482 [Razvan speaking] 474 00:28:33,517 --> 00:28:34,482 -[Amanda] Yeah. -[Razvan speaking] 475 00:28:41,310 --> 00:28:43,137 [Amanda] I don't eat dairy. 476 00:28:47,655 --> 00:28:48,586 [Amanda] No. 477 00:28:55,310 --> 00:28:58,241 I don't... I don't like packaged food. Like, really. 478 00:28:59,103 --> 00:29:00,068 I'm sorry. 479 00:29:00,103 --> 00:29:02,827 -I'm really not trying to be picky. -[sighs] 480 00:29:02,862 --> 00:29:05,482 Like, these things, I don't eat them really. 481 00:29:06,931 --> 00:29:09,517 [Razvan speaking] 482 00:29:17,103 --> 00:29:19,482 Well, I choose you to be my boyfriend. 483 00:29:22,689 --> 00:29:23,551 That's true. 484 00:29:25,758 --> 00:29:27,586 I don't eat... I don't eat shellfish. 485 00:29:29,689 --> 00:29:31,689 Shellfish. Fish with a shell. 486 00:29:31,724 --> 00:29:33,689 Lobster, crab, shrimp. 487 00:29:33,724 --> 00:29:35,655 I literally had told you that before. 488 00:29:35,689 --> 00:29:36,551 Like, so many times. 489 00:29:41,620 --> 00:29:46,344 [Amanda] I know Razvan and I are still getting to know one another, but... 490 00:29:46,379 --> 00:29:50,586 Jeez Louise, I've told him so many times, like, what I eat. 491 00:29:50,620 --> 00:29:53,241 Maybe it's not that common in Romania, 492 00:29:53,275 --> 00:29:54,655 so he's not used to it. 493 00:29:54,689 --> 00:29:57,241 But it's nice to see that Razvan's trying. 494 00:29:58,344 --> 00:30:00,758 I just hope that, moving forward, 495 00:30:00,793 --> 00:30:03,344 he can listen and respect my needs 496 00:30:03,379 --> 00:30:05,137 the first time I tell him. 497 00:30:05,172 --> 00:30:09,068 Or the second. Or I'll take it... Even the third. 498 00:30:09,103 --> 00:30:10,068 [chuckles softly] 499 00:30:10,103 --> 00:30:11,000 Salsa? 500 00:30:11,827 --> 00:30:12,724 Yeah. 501 00:30:31,689 --> 00:30:32,655 [Riley speaking] 502 00:30:35,103 --> 00:30:38,482 After 37 hours of flights and layovers, 503 00:30:38,517 --> 00:30:41,000 and 8,700 miles, 504 00:30:42,103 --> 00:30:44,655 finally, I'm about to land in Vietnam. 505 00:30:44,689 --> 00:30:47,172 And meet Violet for the very first time. 506 00:30:48,620 --> 00:30:50,793 My stomach is kind of in knots because it's like, 507 00:30:50,827 --> 00:30:53,413 we've been communicating for two years. 508 00:30:58,965 --> 00:31:01,965 I can't believe I'm actually here in Vietnam. 509 00:31:03,103 --> 00:31:05,586 My heart is going nuts right now. 510 00:31:09,482 --> 00:31:12,310 I can't wait to give Violet a hug, 511 00:31:12,344 --> 00:31:13,482 but we have a bet. 512 00:31:13,517 --> 00:31:17,586 Whoever touched the other person first loses. 513 00:31:17,620 --> 00:31:20,827 So, if I touch her first, she wins total control of me. 514 00:31:21,931 --> 00:31:24,103 So, I gotta stay strong. 515 00:31:45,275 --> 00:31:46,241 [Violet speaking] 516 00:32:20,655 --> 00:32:22,620 I can't believe this is actually happening. 517 00:32:29,862 --> 00:32:31,206 [Riley speaking] 518 00:32:50,620 --> 00:32:51,862 Vi, Vi. 519 00:32:51,896 --> 00:32:53,379 Look at you. Beautiful. 520 00:32:55,724 --> 00:32:56,896 Oh. 521 00:32:56,931 --> 00:32:58,620 Ah, you gonna hug me first, you're gonna lose the bet. 522 00:32:58,655 --> 00:32:59,965 You hug me, you lose the bet. 523 00:33:04,344 --> 00:33:05,275 Vi, Vi. 524 00:33:05,310 --> 00:33:06,827 [Violet speaking] 525 00:33:06,862 --> 00:33:07,965 You're gonna cry? 526 00:33:09,137 --> 00:33:11,068 I'm not crying. You're crying. 527 00:33:14,413 --> 00:33:15,620 Oh, you're so beautiful. 528 00:33:19,103 --> 00:33:20,034 I lost? 529 00:33:20,724 --> 00:33:23,551 Oh, no, no. You lose. 530 00:33:24,586 --> 00:33:25,689 Okay, I lose. 531 00:33:27,206 --> 00:33:29,241 -You're my boss. -Yeah. 532 00:33:29,275 --> 00:33:32,482 Nearly two years, and I finally get to meet her in person, 533 00:33:32,517 --> 00:33:33,689 and I'm, like, really... 534 00:33:33,724 --> 00:33:35,758 I'm smiling too much. 535 00:33:35,793 --> 00:33:36,827 Oh. 536 00:33:36,862 --> 00:33:38,413 I think I'm really, really happy. 537 00:33:45,931 --> 00:33:47,413 You lie. 538 00:33:47,448 --> 00:33:48,724 You don't look anything like your photo. 539 00:33:49,758 --> 00:33:50,620 No. 540 00:33:51,275 --> 00:33:52,517 You look more beautiful. 541 00:33:56,551 --> 00:33:57,448 Yeah. 542 00:33:59,379 --> 00:34:00,620 [laughs boisterously] 543 00:34:02,965 --> 00:34:03,931 Can I kiss you? 544 00:34:04,586 --> 00:34:05,586 Yes. 545 00:34:09,310 --> 00:34:10,275 Thank you. 546 00:34:15,931 --> 00:34:17,585 How did I get so lucky to have you? 547 00:34:18,310 --> 00:34:19,310 Yeah. 548 00:34:21,344 --> 00:34:23,103 Come on, let's go. Where are we going? Which way? 549 00:34:23,137 --> 00:34:24,137 -Uh... -You show me. 550 00:34:24,172 --> 00:34:26,241 I'll follow you, boss. 551 00:34:28,206 --> 00:34:29,413 [Riley] Yeah, for now. 552 00:34:31,137 --> 00:34:33,000 [Riley laughs] The rest of my life? 553 00:34:36,034 --> 00:34:40,724 I wanted to talk to you about how you feel, 554 00:34:40,757 --> 00:34:42,585 you know, about signing a prenup. 555 00:34:44,172 --> 00:34:45,655 Like, from the bottom of my heart... 556 00:34:46,793 --> 00:34:49,172 Like [bleep] you. 557 00:34:49,206 --> 00:34:51,482 A 100 times [bleep] you. 558 00:34:56,275 --> 00:34:58,275 ["Si Te Vas" by Abe Stewart playing] 559 00:35:12,482 --> 00:35:13,931 [Gino] Ooh, Eiffel Tower. 560 00:35:13,965 --> 00:35:15,310 [Jasmine chuckles] All right. 561 00:35:15,344 --> 00:35:16,172 [Gino] That's pretty awesome. 562 00:35:19,965 --> 00:35:20,965 Thank you. 563 00:35:22,206 --> 00:35:23,896 [Gino] It's my first morning back in Panama, 564 00:35:25,068 --> 00:35:26,724 and it feels so good to be with Jasmine. 565 00:35:27,965 --> 00:35:30,793 But, after our conversation today 566 00:35:30,827 --> 00:35:33,551 about spending expectations, 567 00:35:33,586 --> 00:35:37,172 it worries me that Jasmine wants to live this life of luxury 568 00:35:37,965 --> 00:35:39,172 when she comes to USA. 569 00:35:47,655 --> 00:35:49,034 I was tired last night, okay? 570 00:35:49,068 --> 00:35:51,724 But, I like massages. 571 00:35:51,758 --> 00:35:53,000 Are you gonna be able to give them to me? 572 00:35:59,655 --> 00:36:01,896 No, not like that. Just a regular massage. 573 00:36:05,793 --> 00:36:06,931 Because I... 574 00:36:06,965 --> 00:36:09,413 Regular massage is what I'm asking for. All right? 575 00:36:11,241 --> 00:36:12,344 [Jasmine] Okay, whatever. 576 00:36:13,482 --> 00:36:15,517 [Jasmine speaking in Spanish] 577 00:36:18,206 --> 00:36:19,724 [Jasmine speaking in English] 578 00:36:28,793 --> 00:36:30,103 I really appreciate it. 579 00:36:32,310 --> 00:36:34,724 There's something I kind of want to talk to you today about 580 00:36:34,758 --> 00:36:36,379 that's kind of important. 581 00:36:36,413 --> 00:36:38,000 -So... -Which is? 582 00:36:38,034 --> 00:36:38,965 Um... 583 00:36:40,551 --> 00:36:43,551 Something that I've been thinking about recently, 584 00:36:44,586 --> 00:36:47,241 and, um, I want to bring it up to you now. 585 00:36:50,482 --> 00:36:53,620 The idea of a prenup came up in the past, 586 00:36:53,655 --> 00:36:57,241 and she was not a happy camper. 587 00:36:59,793 --> 00:37:01,862 Jasmine shut it down pretty quickly 588 00:37:01,896 --> 00:37:04,241 and I didn't wanna fight with her at the time. 589 00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,793 But it's different now. 590 00:37:07,827 --> 00:37:10,275 Like, we have a lot of issues going on, 591 00:37:10,310 --> 00:37:12,827 and our visa could be approved anytime soon. 592 00:37:13,896 --> 00:37:16,827 So, I mean, I feel like I have to do it. 593 00:37:21,275 --> 00:37:24,655 So, you know I've been working since I graduated college 594 00:37:24,689 --> 00:37:26,344 -in 1993. -Yeah. 595 00:37:26,379 --> 00:37:27,620 And I've been working hard my whole life, 596 00:37:27,655 --> 00:37:29,896 getting up every day, going to work. 597 00:37:29,931 --> 00:37:33,137 I got that part. So? 598 00:37:33,172 --> 00:37:36,172 No, I'm just trying to explain to you what's going on with my investments 599 00:37:36,206 --> 00:37:38,758 -that I've saved... -Are you gonna lose your money? 600 00:37:40,482 --> 00:37:42,517 No, no, no, no. So... 601 00:37:42,551 --> 00:37:46,241 Okay, what I'm trying to say is, um... 602 00:37:46,275 --> 00:37:50,931 I wanted to talk to you about how you feel, 603 00:37:50,965 --> 00:37:53,758 um, you know, about signing a prenup. 604 00:37:59,793 --> 00:38:01,172 Now, here's the deal with that. 605 00:38:02,206 --> 00:38:04,068 Let me explain. 606 00:38:04,103 --> 00:38:07,206 I'm super in love with you. You're super in love with me. 607 00:38:07,241 --> 00:38:09,068 We're both very in love, okay? 608 00:38:10,482 --> 00:38:13,172 But, like, if, um... 609 00:38:14,172 --> 00:38:15,586 What I'm saying is, uh... 610 00:38:18,206 --> 00:38:19,206 What am I saying? 611 00:38:20,413 --> 00:38:21,310 Um... 612 00:38:22,103 --> 00:38:24,517 I forgot where I was. But, um... 613 00:38:24,551 --> 00:38:28,413 Like, it hurts me. Like, you think I'm marrying you to... 614 00:38:29,172 --> 00:38:31,000 To divorce, first of all. 615 00:38:31,689 --> 00:38:33,172 No, I... No. 616 00:38:33,206 --> 00:38:34,172 I'm not saying that. 617 00:38:34,206 --> 00:38:37,068 I'm saying I think we'll be together forever. 618 00:38:38,379 --> 00:38:40,482 I think we're gonna last forever. 619 00:38:40,517 --> 00:38:42,413 I know we're both in love, 620 00:38:42,448 --> 00:38:44,206 -and were gonna last forever. -So why do you need a prenup? 621 00:38:46,206 --> 00:38:49,689 Because in case something happens outside of our... 622 00:38:49,724 --> 00:38:53,206 Do you listen how stupid you sound right now? 623 00:38:55,758 --> 00:38:58,482 You know what? If you wanna hear me, 624 00:38:58,517 --> 00:38:59,689 like, from the bottom of my heart... 625 00:39:01,551 --> 00:39:03,310 Like [bleep] you. 626 00:39:03,344 --> 00:39:05,586 A 100 times [bleep] you. 627 00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:10,896 It's very disrespectful. 628 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:13,586 It seems like this is kind of like 629 00:39:13,620 --> 00:39:15,379 a lot of our arguments how they go. 630 00:39:15,413 --> 00:39:17,517 Like, you always get upset and then that's it. 631 00:39:17,551 --> 00:39:19,379 That's your position. 632 00:39:19,413 --> 00:39:20,655 My position is 633 00:39:21,758 --> 00:39:24,068 I'm just taking it out, 634 00:39:25,172 --> 00:39:26,793 and we're no longer engaged. 635 00:39:34,172 --> 00:39:36,551 [Jasmine speaking via voice-over] 636 00:39:36,586 --> 00:39:39,827 Gino and I have talked about the prenup before, but... 637 00:39:43,482 --> 00:39:45,931 Because after two years, 638 00:39:45,965 --> 00:39:49,275 you're expecting someone to know who you are. 639 00:39:49,310 --> 00:39:51,241 And he doesn't know me. 640 00:39:51,275 --> 00:39:54,034 According to him, I'm gonna take everything from him, 641 00:39:54,068 --> 00:39:55,275 and he's gonna lose his money. 642 00:39:55,310 --> 00:39:57,310 That's the perception he has of me. 643 00:40:00,344 --> 00:40:01,862 So, you're gonna finish that? 644 00:40:01,896 --> 00:40:03,448 I don't wanna stay here any longer. 645 00:40:04,586 --> 00:40:06,413 I can bring this home with me, I think. 646 00:40:08,448 --> 00:40:09,379 Yeah. 647 00:40:14,931 --> 00:40:15,896 She's always told me, 648 00:40:15,931 --> 00:40:17,448 "You know, we're gonna be forever, Gino. 649 00:40:17,482 --> 00:40:19,448 You know, I would rather have you dead 650 00:40:19,482 --> 00:40:20,448 than to be with another person," 651 00:40:20,482 --> 00:40:21,448 she'd tell me. 652 00:40:21,482 --> 00:40:24,931 Hola.Uh, I want to bring my food home. 653 00:40:24,965 --> 00:40:27,068 For her to come out suddenly, 654 00:40:27,103 --> 00:40:30,103 and say, "Oh, no, forget all of that what we talked about. 655 00:40:30,137 --> 00:40:32,758 By the way, we're gonna break-up today because 656 00:40:32,793 --> 00:40:34,896 you're saying that you wanna protect your assets." 657 00:40:37,068 --> 00:40:38,379 [Jasmine] I can do it by myself. 658 00:40:38,413 --> 00:40:40,137 Close the door. 659 00:40:40,172 --> 00:40:41,655 [Gino] It makes me wonder, you know, 660 00:40:41,689 --> 00:40:44,275 what she's in this for. You know, it kind of makes me question it. 661 00:40:45,758 --> 00:40:47,034 [Jasmine] I can open my own door. 662 00:40:53,172 --> 00:40:54,137 [via sign language] 663 00:40:57,068 --> 00:40:58,931 [Sheila speaking] 664 00:41:02,137 --> 00:41:03,862 [Sheila speaking other language] 665 00:41:12,241 --> 00:41:13,137 [softly in English] What? 666 00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:27,000 [via sign language] 667 00:41:52,517 --> 00:41:54,241 [Sheila speaking] 668 00:41:56,758 --> 00:42:01,034 And I feel so excited, and happy, 669 00:42:02,413 --> 00:42:03,793 and just a little nervous. 670 00:42:03,827 --> 00:42:05,034 [Sheila speaking other language] 671 00:42:07,344 --> 00:42:08,206 [speaking other language] 672 00:42:10,034 --> 00:42:12,172 [Sheila speaking other language] 673 00:42:12,931 --> 00:42:14,551 [Sheila speaking in English] 674 00:42:23,241 --> 00:42:26,241 [speaking in native language] 675 00:42:35,034 --> 00:42:39,137 [speaking English] I want David and I have some privacy 676 00:42:39,172 --> 00:42:40,724 and... [clears throat] 677 00:42:42,344 --> 00:42:43,241 [chuckles] 678 00:42:45,241 --> 00:42:46,931 [speaking Tagalog] 679 00:42:56,827 --> 00:42:58,827 [speaking English] 680 00:43:06,310 --> 00:43:08,206 [speaking Tagalog] 681 00:43:29,448 --> 00:43:31,379 [speaking English] 682 00:44:27,965 --> 00:44:30,482 [Sheila speaking] 683 00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:07,103 ♪ When your heart's a racer, racing at the speed of light ♪ 684 00:45:07,137 --> 00:45:10,517 ♪ And you feel like you got nowhere else to go♪ 685 00:45:12,172 --> 00:45:16,793 ♪ Know I'll hold you till the sun comes in the morning light ♪ 686 00:45:16,827 --> 00:45:19,724 ♪ Yeah, I'll keep you safe I'll never let you go ♪ 687 00:45:20,896 --> 00:45:22,344 ♪ I'll never let you go ♪ 688 00:45:23,034 --> 00:45:24,620 [Sheila crying] 689 00:45:48,068 --> 00:45:49,379 [Sheila sniffles] 690 00:45:55,137 --> 00:45:56,241 [Sheila clears throat] 691 00:46:05,689 --> 00:46:07,482 what... what you... 692 00:46:10,931 --> 00:46:12,827 What you think? What? 693 00:46:14,103 --> 00:46:15,655 [laughs] 694 00:46:15,689 --> 00:46:16,827 Thank you. 695 00:46:30,172 --> 00:46:31,448 [giggles] 696 00:46:36,344 --> 00:46:37,931 [producer] In person... [laughs] 697 00:46:38,379 --> 00:46:40,689 No, you. You. 698 00:46:41,241 --> 00:46:42,689 [laughs] 699 00:46:47,275 --> 00:46:48,586 [giggles] 700 00:46:49,965 --> 00:46:51,793 How was your flight? 701 00:46:53,931 --> 00:46:54,965 You ate? 702 00:47:02,931 --> 00:47:04,689 Little hungry? 703 00:47:04,724 --> 00:47:05,931 Okay. 704 00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:08,068 You can... [chuckles] 705 00:47:10,241 --> 00:47:11,862 [giggles] 706 00:47:13,206 --> 00:47:14,379 [cries] 707 00:47:19,206 --> 00:47:20,827 [producer] "H". 708 00:47:21,379 --> 00:47:23,724 Hotel. 709 00:47:28,206 --> 00:47:29,379 [laughs] 710 00:47:30,551 --> 00:47:32,413 Oh, yeah. We... Maybe. 711 00:47:39,413 --> 00:47:40,655 [Cleo speaking] 712 00:47:46,103 --> 00:47:47,965 Have you discussed that at all? 713 00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:50,689 How does that work with, like... 714 00:47:50,724 --> 00:47:52,517 Well, I... You know, sex isn't 715 00:47:52,551 --> 00:47:54,172 the end-all be-all in a relationship. At least for me. 716 00:47:54,206 --> 00:47:55,586 -That's the thing... -[woman] I don't know, dude. 717 00:47:55,620 --> 00:47:57,413 That's a huge part of relationships. 718 00:48:22,206 --> 00:48:23,275 [chuckles softly] 719 00:48:24,758 --> 00:48:26,551 In just a few days, my boyfriend Christian 720 00:48:26,586 --> 00:48:28,275 is coming to London to meet me 721 00:48:28,310 --> 00:48:30,344 for the very first time. 722 00:48:30,379 --> 00:48:33,793 So, today I am meeting up with my friend Jane 723 00:48:33,827 --> 00:48:36,103 and we are going for a little shopping trip 724 00:48:36,137 --> 00:48:37,517 in a vintage store 725 00:48:37,551 --> 00:48:38,896 because I love you know... 726 00:48:40,793 --> 00:48:43,965 [chuckles softly] And I would love to find the perfect look to wear 727 00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,000 when I meet Christian the first time at the airport. 728 00:48:47,896 --> 00:48:49,931 Cleo, hey! 729 00:48:49,965 --> 00:48:52,620 [Cleo] Oh, you're here! 730 00:48:52,655 --> 00:48:55,689 -So, so nice to see you. You look so good. -Oh, thank you. 731 00:48:55,724 --> 00:48:56,965 How is it going? 732 00:49:05,517 --> 00:49:09,275 -[Jane speaking] -[Cleo] Yeah. 733 00:49:09,310 --> 00:49:11,517 Oh, what do you think? Do you think this could be an option? 734 00:49:11,965 --> 00:49:12,965 Your legs... 735 00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:14,448 You don't want to hide your legs. 736 00:49:14,482 --> 00:49:16,172 My mum always said you should show your legs 737 00:49:16,206 --> 00:49:18,172 -as long as you can. -Exactly. 738 00:49:19,379 --> 00:49:22,103 I have known Cleo for nearly a decade now. 739 00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:24,620 She's a very beautiful person. 740 00:49:24,655 --> 00:49:26,793 She was always very kind on the inside 741 00:49:26,827 --> 00:49:30,586 and very, I think, fragile and very sensitive. 742 00:49:30,620 --> 00:49:32,137 She lives her authentic self 743 00:49:32,172 --> 00:49:34,137 and I have been there through that journey 744 00:49:34,172 --> 00:49:36,586 and have seen, like, everything she had to go through 745 00:49:36,620 --> 00:49:38,482 to actually arrive where she is today 746 00:49:38,517 --> 00:49:40,241 and I admire her for that strength. 747 00:49:41,655 --> 00:49:43,862 So what's so special about this guy? 748 00:49:43,896 --> 00:49:45,862 -I mean... -Yeah, I mean, I always thought 749 00:49:45,896 --> 00:49:47,655 that I was never going to be a person that was 750 00:49:47,689 --> 00:49:49,758 ever going to have like a long-distance relationship, 751 00:49:54,034 --> 00:49:56,241 And I was really, kind of, like, puzzled by how 752 00:49:56,275 --> 00:49:58,068 like, even though we'd never met, 753 00:49:58,103 --> 00:50:00,172 we had such a closeness and I think 754 00:50:00,206 --> 00:50:02,931 that's really kind of, like, what, you know, swept me off my feet. 755 00:50:03,862 --> 00:50:05,620 Are you not concerned, you know... 756 00:50:05,655 --> 00:50:09,137 It is one thing to see a person on the chats, on a video, 757 00:50:09,172 --> 00:50:11,482 but it doesn't give you, like, the body language... 758 00:50:12,448 --> 00:50:14,172 Like, in a sense, yeah. 759 00:50:14,206 --> 00:50:15,620 Yeah. 760 00:50:15,655 --> 00:50:17,965 I mean, that would totally be, like, tragic. [chuckles] But, like... 761 00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:18,827 But, like, I mean... 762 00:50:21,724 --> 00:50:25,413 Especially because he's never dated a trans woman before. 763 00:50:28,482 --> 00:50:30,827 At birth, I was assigned male. 764 00:50:30,862 --> 00:50:34,862 However, I identify as a transgender woman. 765 00:50:39,034 --> 00:50:44,413 Growing up, I always related more to my female peers. 766 00:50:46,137 --> 00:50:50,689 I tried my hardest to fit in as, you know, a man 767 00:50:50,724 --> 00:50:54,103 but that was just not what I felt. 768 00:50:54,137 --> 00:50:57,344 And it was just so hard to, even, look in the mirror, 769 00:50:57,379 --> 00:50:59,000 or just simply go about my daily life. 770 00:51:00,206 --> 00:51:02,931 I remember going to sleep and, like, praying 771 00:51:02,965 --> 00:51:04,379 that the next morning I would wake up as a girl. 772 00:51:14,413 --> 00:51:18,655 And I didn't want to add anything else to the mix. 773 00:51:25,448 --> 00:51:27,413 Have you discussed that at all? 774 00:51:27,448 --> 00:51:28,965 Yeah, we have... We have... 775 00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:30,482 We actually have talked about this. 776 00:51:30,517 --> 00:51:32,137 I did bring up that insecurity 777 00:51:32,172 --> 00:51:34,172 and he was, kind of, very honest about it. 778 00:51:40,655 --> 00:51:42,689 Obviously, I am worried 779 00:51:42,724 --> 00:51:45,482 that once he's here, like, there's maybe certain things about me 780 00:51:45,517 --> 00:51:48,793 that, you know, maybe, like, he wouldn't have noticed online, 781 00:51:48,827 --> 00:51:50,413 or, you know, maybe be bothered by 782 00:51:50,448 --> 00:51:53,137 the things about me that I feel insecure about. 783 00:52:04,827 --> 00:52:06,482 I've been transitioning for, like, nine years, 784 00:52:06,517 --> 00:52:09,206 and right now, I medicate and take hormones 785 00:52:09,241 --> 00:52:12,655 and also testosterone blocker on a daily basis. 786 00:52:12,689 --> 00:52:14,896 There's a whole array of surgeries 787 00:52:14,931 --> 00:52:17,137 that some transwomen elect to have. 788 00:52:17,172 --> 00:52:20,724 Transgender people have their hairline lowered, their Adam's apple shaved. 789 00:52:20,758 --> 00:52:24,241 Quite a few transwomen get gender confirmation surgery. 790 00:52:24,275 --> 00:52:28,103 I don't think I have any hesitations about having surgery. 791 00:52:28,137 --> 00:52:30,586 It's just about finding the right time and place 792 00:52:30,620 --> 00:52:33,000 and I think it's also very important to choose the right person, 793 00:52:41,413 --> 00:52:43,862 ...it's not so much about whether he would be accepting 794 00:52:43,896 --> 00:52:45,896 but it's more, is he going to be able 795 00:52:45,931 --> 00:52:49,241 to, like, hold to the pressure, like societal pressure? 796 00:52:49,275 --> 00:52:50,586 Or the fact that... 797 00:52:52,310 --> 00:52:53,620 Like, you know, people would say, you know, 798 00:52:53,655 --> 00:52:54,965 "She is not a woman. She is a..." you know, 799 00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:56,034 "She's a man" or whatever. 800 00:52:56,068 --> 00:52:57,689 Like, is he going to be able 801 00:52:57,724 --> 00:52:59,379 to deal with all of that? 802 00:53:00,655 --> 00:53:03,172 Because he has never dated a trans person, 803 00:53:03,206 --> 00:53:04,620 is he going to stand by you? 804 00:53:05,655 --> 00:53:08,172 I'm hoping. [chuckles] I mean... 805 00:53:18,586 --> 00:53:21,517 [Christian] The game today is Texas hold'em. 806 00:53:23,896 --> 00:53:26,137 All right. I am going to bet 200. 807 00:53:28,724 --> 00:53:30,793 I'm going to London very soon to meet Cleo 808 00:53:30,827 --> 00:53:33,896 and even though Cleo and I have not met in-person yet, 809 00:53:33,931 --> 00:53:37,517 I feel closer to her than any woman I've dated 810 00:53:37,551 --> 00:53:39,862 within the last few years, for sure. 811 00:53:39,896 --> 00:53:41,310 [Christian speaking] 812 00:53:41,344 --> 00:53:43,896 That's why I'm making this big trip all the way to London 813 00:53:43,931 --> 00:53:46,655 to see if this relationship can go the distance. 814 00:53:47,724 --> 00:53:49,379 So you're already in for 50? 815 00:53:49,413 --> 00:53:52,172 -Now she wants to call, okay, all right. -[Kristen laughs] 816 00:53:52,206 --> 00:53:53,965 -[man 1] Oh, you, damn. -I'm wondering now what do you got? 817 00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:55,827 -Did you get a four or something? -[man 2] Something happened. 818 00:53:55,862 --> 00:53:57,137 [Kristen] I don't know. 819 00:53:57,172 --> 00:53:59,000 I may have just thrown my money away. 820 00:53:59,034 --> 00:54:01,586 -I don't know. [laughs] -We'll see. 821 00:54:01,620 --> 00:54:03,931 I'm very open with my friends about the fact 822 00:54:03,965 --> 00:54:05,689 that Cleo's transgender. 823 00:54:05,724 --> 00:54:07,379 But, I mean, if... 824 00:54:07,413 --> 00:54:08,827 If I were to bring her around my friends and family 825 00:54:08,862 --> 00:54:11,241 without having told them, I don't think anyone would be able to tell. 826 00:54:11,275 --> 00:54:13,413 She presents as a woman 827 00:54:13,448 --> 00:54:15,068 and she is gorgeous. 828 00:54:18,965 --> 00:54:20,517 [Ben] So when are you heading to London? 829 00:54:20,551 --> 00:54:22,448 Uh, pretty soon. Pretty soon, yeah. 830 00:54:24,137 --> 00:54:27,344 It's definitely grandiose to travel across seas 831 00:54:27,379 --> 00:54:29,034 not for the place but for a person. 832 00:54:29,068 --> 00:54:30,448 [chuckles] That's true. 833 00:54:30,482 --> 00:54:32,172 Yeah, there's just something about Cleo. 834 00:54:32,206 --> 00:54:34,172 I mean, there's definitely some differences 835 00:54:34,206 --> 00:54:36,379 but as far as like my feelings towards Cleo, 836 00:54:36,413 --> 00:54:38,206 it's strong enough, I feel like, to overcome, 837 00:54:38,241 --> 00:54:40,068 you know, any type of situation like that. 838 00:54:40,103 --> 00:54:42,103 But have you ever, like, dated, 839 00:54:42,137 --> 00:54:44,862 hooked-up with someone who's trans? 840 00:54:44,896 --> 00:54:47,379 No, this is... This is going to be the first time. 841 00:54:47,413 --> 00:54:50,172 Have you even explored with other genders 842 00:54:50,206 --> 00:54:52,758 or is this all-new to you? 843 00:54:52,793 --> 00:54:55,275 Uh, there is a time in college 844 00:54:55,310 --> 00:54:57,517 where I made out with a guy. 845 00:54:57,551 --> 00:55:00,517 And immediately I just knew, I was like, 846 00:55:00,551 --> 00:55:05,448 "This ain't for me." Like, I'm heterosexual. AF. You know? 847 00:55:06,758 --> 00:55:08,000 I'm just not into dudes. 848 00:55:09,103 --> 00:55:12,758 So has Cleo had gender confirmation surgery? 849 00:55:12,793 --> 00:55:16,275 That is something that she would have to say. 850 00:55:16,310 --> 00:55:20,068 That is not something that I feel comfortable with disclosing with people. 851 00:55:20,103 --> 00:55:23,620 Hypothetically, if you got some boobies up front. 852 00:55:23,655 --> 00:55:25,931 -[Christian] Oh, my God. -You got a [bleep] down low. 853 00:55:25,965 --> 00:55:28,482 -Oh, boy. Um... -[laughing] 854 00:55:28,517 --> 00:55:30,965 I mean, I... I'd have to cross that bridge when I come to it. 855 00:55:32,793 --> 00:55:34,965 So Cleo and I have discussed 856 00:55:35,517 --> 00:55:37,586 our anatomy and... 857 00:55:39,655 --> 00:55:42,793 But when my friends and family broach this subject, 858 00:55:42,827 --> 00:55:45,482 I just find it extremely uncomfortable to answer 859 00:55:45,517 --> 00:55:48,000 because it's not like I'm asking, 860 00:55:48,034 --> 00:55:50,241 "Hey, buddy, what's your girlfriend's labia like?" 861 00:55:50,275 --> 00:55:52,413 Or "Does she have a big [bleep]?" 862 00:55:54,310 --> 00:55:56,482 It's kind of nasty word, too. Ugh. 863 00:55:57,206 --> 00:55:58,517 But are you nervous? 864 00:56:00,344 --> 00:56:01,758 Like, in this moment, no. 865 00:56:01,793 --> 00:56:03,241 But I feel like, maybe in like in... 866 00:56:03,275 --> 00:56:05,965 -[laughs] -...you know, when it's... when it's time, 867 00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:08,655 when the sun goes down and everything. 868 00:56:10,206 --> 00:56:11,689 But at the same time, like, 869 00:56:11,724 --> 00:56:14,827 I'm not... I'm not worried about it, honestly. 870 00:56:17,241 --> 00:56:19,413 [Kristen] How are you not worried about it? 871 00:56:19,448 --> 00:56:21,344 'Cause, like, you're someone that's said, 872 00:56:21,379 --> 00:56:23,137 "I am not attracted to men." 873 00:56:23,172 --> 00:56:24,689 No, I'm not. So, I'm not. And it's not... 874 00:56:24,724 --> 00:56:26,586 So how does that work with, like... 875 00:56:27,379 --> 00:56:28,862 Well, I... 876 00:56:28,896 --> 00:56:31,068 [exhales] I mean, you know, sex isn't the end-all 877 00:56:31,103 --> 00:56:32,344 be-all in a relationship. At least for me. 878 00:56:32,379 --> 00:56:33,758 -That's the thing... -[Kristen] I don't know, dude. 879 00:56:33,793 --> 00:56:35,586 That's a huge part of relationships. 880 00:56:38,413 --> 00:56:42,000 I'm wondering if this is like a... like an exploration for him. 881 00:56:42,034 --> 00:56:44,551 It's not really something that I am for sure, 882 00:56:44,586 --> 00:56:47,034 like, "Yes, he can handle it" or "No, he can't." 883 00:56:47,068 --> 00:56:50,068 Um, but I think it will be hurtful for Cleo 884 00:56:50,103 --> 00:56:52,344 if he isn't able. 885 00:56:52,379 --> 00:56:54,103 So I don't know. 886 00:56:54,137 --> 00:56:56,137 That is something that he really has to ask himself. 887 00:56:57,310 --> 00:56:58,379 Well... 888 00:56:58,931 --> 00:57:00,551 I mean... 889 00:57:00,586 --> 00:57:05,206 Maybe I will have some anxieties or some apprehension, uh, 890 00:57:05,241 --> 00:57:07,413 because, you know, it's definitely... 891 00:57:07,448 --> 00:57:08,379 It's definitely going to be different. 892 00:57:08,413 --> 00:57:09,655 I can't... I can't say that it won't be. 893 00:57:16,034 --> 00:57:18,655 I think there's going to be some situations 894 00:57:18,689 --> 00:57:20,551 that will present challenges for us. 895 00:57:20,586 --> 00:57:22,965 But I'm putting a lot into this relationship 896 00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:26,896 and I really don't want to consider 897 00:57:26,931 --> 00:57:29,586 whether or not Cleo or I won't work out 898 00:57:29,620 --> 00:57:34,206 because it really is kind of heartbreaking, to think about that. 899 00:57:40,586 --> 00:57:42,724 So, Vivi, what are we doing tomorrow? 900 00:57:43,620 --> 00:57:45,551 [Violet speaking] 901 00:57:51,172 --> 00:57:54,482 [Riley] I don't understand how I'm not a priority for Violet right now. 902 00:57:55,241 --> 00:57:56,310 Sucks. 903 00:58:17,862 --> 00:58:19,137 [Riley speaking] 904 00:58:20,689 --> 00:58:21,931 [laughing] 905 00:58:23,448 --> 00:58:25,344 Normal? This is normal? 906 00:58:25,379 --> 00:58:27,413 -[Violet speaking] -[Riley] Oh, my Lord. 907 00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:33,758 Thirty-seven hours of travel and flights, 908 00:58:33,793 --> 00:58:35,310 I'm finally in Vietnam, 909 00:58:35,344 --> 00:58:37,413 and it's[chuckles] really exciting 910 00:58:37,448 --> 00:58:39,896 to be with Violet in the flesh 911 00:58:39,931 --> 00:58:41,827 because that chemistry and connection 912 00:58:41,862 --> 00:58:44,931 that I was feeling with Violet, it's real. 913 00:58:44,965 --> 00:58:46,758 And... [exhales] I'm just so happy. 914 00:58:48,310 --> 00:58:49,620 [Riley chuckles] 915 00:58:51,137 --> 00:58:52,586 [Riley] That's my hotel. 916 00:58:52,620 --> 00:58:53,862 [Violet] It's your hotel. 917 00:58:58,758 --> 00:58:59,965 [Violet speaking Vietnamese] 918 00:59:13,517 --> 00:59:15,379 -Hello. -[woman] Good afternoon, sir. 919 00:59:15,413 --> 00:59:16,379 Oh, I'm checking in. 920 00:59:21,413 --> 00:59:22,413 -You want the two keys. -Yes. 921 00:59:25,413 --> 00:59:27,034 [both laughing] 922 00:59:28,758 --> 00:59:30,310 Violet and I both agree that 923 00:59:30,344 --> 00:59:32,517 she would not be staying in a hotel with me 924 00:59:32,551 --> 00:59:35,586 because she explained, in her culture, that 925 00:59:35,620 --> 00:59:39,482 sleeping with a man that she's not married to is inappropriate 926 00:59:39,517 --> 00:59:42,172 and I can definitely respect that. 927 00:59:42,206 --> 00:59:44,689 But, she knocks on the door, I'm going to open it. 928 00:59:45,689 --> 00:59:47,206 [laughs] 929 00:59:49,896 --> 00:59:51,551 -This will be your room. -Hmm. 930 00:59:51,586 --> 00:59:53,827 You will... You will put me in first... Wow. 931 00:59:53,862 --> 00:59:55,517 Oh, it's a big bed. 932 00:59:59,586 --> 01:00:01,310 [exhales] I'm here. 933 01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:03,482 Vivi, you take it easy. 934 01:00:03,517 --> 01:00:05,517 -I'm going to take a shower and everything. -[Violet] Yes. 935 01:00:05,551 --> 01:00:07,689 We could go and get something to eat and just relax. 936 01:00:07,724 --> 01:00:09,724 Mmm, I need to change clothes. 937 01:00:09,758 --> 01:00:10,862 What time do you want to meet? 938 01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:13,034 In 40 minutes? 939 01:00:13,068 --> 01:00:14,172 -Okay? -Okay. 940 01:00:14,206 --> 01:00:15,310 [Violet] I'm your boss. 941 01:00:15,344 --> 01:00:16,551 -[Riley] You're my boss. -Yes. 942 01:00:37,172 --> 01:00:39,379 -Vivi -Wow. 943 01:00:39,413 --> 01:00:40,965 Hello. 944 01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:43,655 -Oh, my God. -You look beautiful. 945 01:00:43,689 --> 01:00:45,689 My God, you look beautiful. 946 01:00:46,103 --> 01:00:47,379 Look at you. 947 01:00:48,172 --> 01:00:49,172 You're beautiful. 948 01:00:49,206 --> 01:00:50,758 -Thank you. -Can't get enough of you. 949 01:00:52,103 --> 01:00:55,000 You know, in Vietnam, we have tradition of... 950 01:00:58,068 --> 01:00:59,862 -Oh. -Yeah. 951 01:00:59,896 --> 01:01:02,689 -Yes. -All right, so next time I'll wait for you. 952 01:01:02,724 --> 01:01:04,034 -Yes. -You show up. 953 01:01:05,482 --> 01:01:07,482 This definitely the Violet I know. 954 01:01:07,517 --> 01:01:12,448 Very sassy, you know, very direct in what she's expecting 955 01:01:12,482 --> 01:01:13,965 or what's going to happen. 956 01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:16,551 I'm all about it because this trip needs to be 957 01:01:16,586 --> 01:01:19,310 about full transparency and communication. 958 01:01:20,344 --> 01:01:22,448 -Cheers. -Cheers to you and us. 959 01:01:23,103 --> 01:01:24,586 It's great to be here 960 01:01:24,620 --> 01:01:26,241 for a fun-filled two weeks. 961 01:01:28,724 --> 01:01:29,827 Finally. 962 01:01:34,931 --> 01:01:36,413 Oh, thank you. Yes. 963 01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:46,034 So I wasn't here for your birthday. 964 01:01:46,068 --> 01:01:48,379 -Aw. [laughs] -And I feel bad. 965 01:01:49,413 --> 01:01:50,689 I got you pearls. 966 01:01:50,724 --> 01:01:52,655 -Aw, thank you. -Happy birthday. 967 01:01:52,689 --> 01:01:55,965 [Riley] So, pearl necklace, pearl bracelet, pearl earrings. 968 01:01:56,000 --> 01:01:57,931 -You want me to put it on you? -Yeah. 969 01:01:57,965 --> 01:01:59,310 Oh, which one you want to wear now? 970 01:01:59,344 --> 01:02:00,827 -All of them... -This one. 971 01:02:00,862 --> 01:02:01,862 That one? The wrist? 972 01:02:05,793 --> 01:02:08,000 -Here you go. -[Violet] Okay. 973 01:02:09,896 --> 01:02:11,000 Really? 974 01:02:12,310 --> 01:02:14,689 I get a pat on the... I get pats on the cheek. 975 01:02:15,241 --> 01:02:16,517 I bought you pearls. 976 01:02:18,517 --> 01:02:19,896 [speaking Vietnamese] 977 01:02:29,862 --> 01:02:33,103 So, we have a lot, you know... 978 01:02:34,448 --> 01:02:35,931 to work on, right? 979 01:02:35,965 --> 01:02:37,000 Mmm-hmm. 980 01:02:37,655 --> 01:02:39,275 I have a lot of questions. 981 01:02:43,689 --> 01:02:47,172 -[speaking English] -Yeah. 982 01:02:54,482 --> 01:02:55,517 Okay. 983 01:02:57,551 --> 01:02:59,448 So, what are we doing tomorrow? 984 01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:01,034 Tomorrow... 985 01:03:04,379 --> 01:03:05,689 Uh... 986 01:03:10,103 --> 01:03:12,896 Okay, so what time will I be seeing you, then? 987 01:03:12,931 --> 01:03:13,862 Uh... 988 01:03:20,724 --> 01:03:22,103 What do you mean "if" I want to meet you? 989 01:03:22,137 --> 01:03:23,862 I want to meet you. 990 01:03:23,896 --> 01:03:25,206 -[laughs] -What do you mean "if"? 991 01:03:25,241 --> 01:03:28,379 You think I flew for two days to come here... 992 01:03:28,413 --> 01:03:31,448 -Yeah. -...and I might not want to see you? 993 01:03:31,482 --> 01:03:33,379 "If" I want to see you? Are you kidding me? 994 01:03:34,586 --> 01:03:37,206 -Nah. -Maybe tomorrow we have dinner together? 995 01:03:38,068 --> 01:03:39,068 Okay. 996 01:03:40,655 --> 01:03:44,275 It's a hard thing to find out on my first full day I'm here 997 01:03:44,310 --> 01:03:47,689 that I won't have the day with her, you know? 998 01:03:48,413 --> 01:03:49,931 You ready to go? 999 01:03:49,965 --> 01:03:51,586 Let's go, okay. 1000 01:03:51,620 --> 01:03:54,034 [Riley] I'm only here for two weeks and I... 1001 01:03:54,068 --> 01:03:57,551 I don't understand how I'm not a priority for Violet right now. 1002 01:03:58,586 --> 01:03:59,448 Sucks. 1003 01:04:02,379 --> 01:04:05,862 -Stay, have a good night. -I'll see you tomorrow. Okay. 1004 01:04:05,896 --> 01:04:07,482 -I'll see you tomorrow. Okay. -Sleep well. 1005 01:04:07,517 --> 01:04:08,793 -Bye, baby. -[Riley] Okay, bye. 1006 01:04:16,931 --> 01:04:19,655 I have very very deep feelings for Violet 1007 01:04:19,689 --> 01:04:23,517 and I wanna believe in her and I wanna believe in us but 1008 01:04:23,551 --> 01:04:26,931 I'd expected a little more engagement from her. 1009 01:04:26,965 --> 01:04:29,241 Between our reactions about the pearls 1010 01:04:29,275 --> 01:04:31,413 and not wanting to speak about certain things 1011 01:04:31,448 --> 01:04:33,482 and then, not being able to spend time with me, 1012 01:04:33,517 --> 01:04:35,137 it's... it's definitely a little concerning. 1013 01:04:38,482 --> 01:04:40,137 [Riley speaking] 1014 01:04:58,827 --> 01:05:00,137 [Razvan speaking in English] 1015 01:05:01,793 --> 01:05:04,172 [Amanda chuckles] Okay, that was kinda good. 1016 01:05:11,551 --> 01:05:14,655 I think, little by little, Razvan and I, 1017 01:05:14,689 --> 01:05:17,241 are able to understand each other a little bit more. 1018 01:05:17,275 --> 01:05:19,896 And that makes me feel hopeful. 1019 01:05:19,931 --> 01:05:21,931 [Razvan speaking] 1020 01:05:24,413 --> 01:05:25,689 [Amanda] Aw, okay. 1021 01:05:27,896 --> 01:05:29,379 [birds chirping] 1022 01:05:29,896 --> 01:05:31,862 [Razvan speaking] 1023 01:05:33,793 --> 01:05:36,068 Oh, my gosh. Why are there so many birds? 1024 01:05:36,758 --> 01:05:37,896 [Razvan speaking] 1025 01:05:40,724 --> 01:05:42,206 But what if they poop on me? 1026 01:05:43,517 --> 01:05:44,896 [Amanda] I know. 1027 01:05:44,931 --> 01:05:46,206 [chuckles] They will. 1028 01:05:47,551 --> 01:05:49,827 It sounds like I am 1029 01:05:49,862 --> 01:05:53,655 walking in one of those old black-and-white movies 1030 01:05:53,689 --> 01:05:56,965 where the vampire comes out of a leaky alley 1031 01:05:57,000 --> 01:05:58,724 and it's creeping me out. 1032 01:05:59,724 --> 01:06:02,137 I mean, we are in Romania. 1033 01:06:02,172 --> 01:06:04,413 What if these are vampire bats? 1034 01:06:07,241 --> 01:06:08,965 [Razvan speaking] 1035 01:06:11,068 --> 01:06:12,241 [Amanda] Yeah. 1036 01:06:12,275 --> 01:06:14,034 [Razvan speaking] 1037 01:06:16,620 --> 01:06:18,137 [Amanda] Aw, how cute. 1038 01:06:18,172 --> 01:06:20,551 But I'm not an actress. I don't wanna do it. 1039 01:06:21,413 --> 01:06:22,724 [Razvan speaking] 1040 01:06:31,103 --> 01:06:32,620 So, you'll kiss this girl? 1041 01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:35,206 [exhales heavily] 1042 01:06:36,827 --> 01:06:39,034 Oh, you do? You have to think about it? 1043 01:06:39,068 --> 01:06:40,310 -[Razvan speaking] -Okay. 1044 01:06:42,862 --> 01:06:45,896 Before I came to Romania I made it clear to Razvan 1045 01:06:45,931 --> 01:06:50,310 that I am not okay with him kissing another woman. 1046 01:06:50,344 --> 01:06:54,275 I feel like Razvan has given me a lot of reasons to be jealous 1047 01:06:54,310 --> 01:06:57,206 just with his online content, 1048 01:06:57,241 --> 01:07:01,241 him flirting with other girls on his livestreams 1049 01:07:01,275 --> 01:07:06,137 and something about him kissing another woman in front of me, 1050 01:07:06,172 --> 01:07:08,655 it just makes me uneasy and I don't like it. 1051 01:07:11,655 --> 01:07:14,000 -[Razvan speaking] -[Amanda] Yeah. 1052 01:07:14,034 --> 01:07:15,275 Wonderful. 1053 01:07:15,896 --> 01:07:17,137 [Razvan speaking] 1054 01:07:21,275 --> 01:07:22,344 Okay. 1055 01:07:22,896 --> 01:07:24,862 [Razvan speaking] 1056 01:07:24,896 --> 01:07:27,344 My music career is also very important for me. 1057 01:07:47,655 --> 01:07:49,896 -[phone ringing] -[birds chirping] 1058 01:07:52,689 --> 01:07:54,551 [speaking foreign language] 1059 01:08:03,896 --> 01:08:05,068 [Ovidiu in English] 1060 01:08:05,103 --> 01:08:07,379 -[Razvan speaking in English] -[Amanda] Okay. 1061 01:08:07,413 --> 01:08:09,068 [Amanda chuckles] 1062 01:08:09,103 --> 01:08:10,413 [Razvan speaking foreign language] 1063 01:08:12,896 --> 01:08:14,103 [Ovidiu speaking foreign language] 1064 01:08:55,758 --> 01:08:57,241 [Amanda in English] I find it really rude 1065 01:08:57,274 --> 01:09:00,241 that Razvan is talking to this guy 1066 01:09:00,274 --> 01:09:02,758 obviously about me because I hear my name. 1067 01:09:02,792 --> 01:09:04,068 I don't know, it makes me, like, 1068 01:09:04,103 --> 01:09:05,620 uncomfortable a little bit because 1069 01:09:06,379 --> 01:09:08,068 I don't know what he's saying. 1070 01:09:09,862 --> 01:09:11,241 [Razvan and Ovidiu speaking foreign language] 1071 01:09:17,379 --> 01:09:18,724 [Razvan in English] 1072 01:09:18,758 --> 01:09:19,965 Sure. 1073 01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:21,758 -[Razvan speaking] -[Amanda] Okay. 1074 01:09:23,482 --> 01:09:25,344 So, what did he say? 1075 01:09:25,379 --> 01:09:27,000 Because I heard my name a few times. 1076 01:09:36,103 --> 01:09:37,103 What did you say? 1077 01:09:44,033 --> 01:09:46,689 No, no, what did I tell you the problem was? 1078 01:09:48,033 --> 01:09:50,344 Okay. Did I say I was jealous if you do 1079 01:09:50,379 --> 01:09:51,827 a video with another girl? 1080 01:09:57,275 --> 01:10:00,172 You can do whatever you want to do. 1081 01:10:00,206 --> 01:10:02,000 [Amanda] I'm just telling you my feelings on it 1082 01:10:02,034 --> 01:10:04,103 and you can make your own decision. Okay? 1083 01:10:05,931 --> 01:10:07,310 Do whatever you wanna do... 1084 01:10:07,344 --> 01:10:09,758 Your actions will tell me what I need to know. 1085 01:10:09,793 --> 01:10:11,172 So, that's fine. 1086 01:10:16,689 --> 01:10:18,344 [Razvan speaking] 1087 01:10:44,758 --> 01:10:46,344 [Nicola speaking in English] 1088 01:10:50,793 --> 01:10:54,137 I just don't know if I totally agree, yet. 1089 01:11:16,034 --> 01:11:18,000 [car honks] 1090 01:11:18,034 --> 01:11:19,724 [Meisha] Oh, my gosh. Why was it honking at you? 1091 01:11:21,379 --> 01:11:24,137 You're... not the best driver? 1092 01:11:24,172 --> 01:11:25,931 [cackles] 1093 01:11:25,965 --> 01:11:27,275 [Nicola speaking in English] 1094 01:11:28,827 --> 01:11:31,551 No. You're the best driver in the world. 1095 01:11:34,172 --> 01:11:35,344 [Nicola speaking] 1096 01:12:08,862 --> 01:12:11,344 -[Meisha] Wow, Nico! -[Nicola speaking] 1097 01:12:11,379 --> 01:12:12,896 [Meisha] Holy! 1098 01:12:12,931 --> 01:12:17,172 -[Nicola speaking] -[Meisha] That is insane! 1099 01:12:24,241 --> 01:12:25,275 [man 1] With pleasure. 1100 01:12:29,379 --> 01:12:31,241 -Yes, I... gave you. -[Nicola speaking] 1101 01:12:33,034 --> 01:12:35,206 [man 1] Okay. 1102 01:12:35,241 --> 01:12:38,793 [Meisha] That is... that's a lot of information but okay. 1103 01:12:38,827 --> 01:12:40,379 -Okay, you just go to your room... -[Meisha] Oh! 1104 01:12:40,413 --> 01:12:42,517 -...and we'll send it to you. -[Nicola speaking] 1105 01:12:42,551 --> 01:12:43,931 -[man 1 speaking] -[Meisha speaking in English] 1106 01:12:46,896 --> 01:12:49,896 -[man 1] You're welcome. By the elevator. -Oh, my gosh. 1107 01:12:49,931 --> 01:12:53,517 I don't really think that Nicola himself 1108 01:12:53,551 --> 01:12:57,103 knows how different it is 1109 01:12:57,137 --> 01:12:59,931 to be a 46-year-old virgin. 1110 01:12:59,965 --> 01:13:03,448 And now being in the flesh, in the physical 1111 01:13:03,482 --> 01:13:07,482 I'm starting to just realize that I'm gonna have to try and navigate this. 1112 01:13:07,517 --> 01:13:09,793 -[Meisha] Oh, my God! -[Nicola speaking] 1113 01:13:09,827 --> 01:13:11,689 [Meisha speaking] 1114 01:13:12,379 --> 01:13:14,793 I am very comfortable 1115 01:13:14,827 --> 01:13:19,689 being flirty and fun and touchy and romantic. 1116 01:13:19,724 --> 01:13:24,068 And I know that those gestures don't have to lead to sex. 1117 01:13:24,103 --> 01:13:26,275 -[Nicola groaning] -[Meisha] Let's see my bed. 1118 01:13:27,965 --> 01:13:29,103 [Meisha] Let's see my bed. 1119 01:13:32,517 --> 01:13:35,586 But Nicola doesn't have that 1120 01:13:35,620 --> 01:13:41,172 same natural ability to just kinda be in that element with a woman, 1121 01:13:41,206 --> 01:13:44,620 but if he's not an affectionate person 1122 01:13:44,655 --> 01:13:46,896 that's gonna be a problem for me. 1123 01:13:46,931 --> 01:13:48,241 You can go get the wine. 1124 01:13:48,275 --> 01:13:50,793 -All I know, is I have to take a shower. -[Nicola speaking] 1125 01:13:52,344 --> 01:13:53,689 -[Meisha] Yeah. -[Nicola speaking] 1126 01:13:58,137 --> 01:13:59,793 [Nicola exclaims] 1127 01:14:09,172 --> 01:14:10,551 [Meisha] Nico. 1128 01:14:16,413 --> 01:14:17,862 [Nicola speaking] 1129 01:14:19,965 --> 01:14:22,758 [Nicola and server speaking foreign language] 1130 01:14:22,793 --> 01:14:24,896 -Thank you. What? -[Nicola speaking] 1131 01:14:26,586 --> 01:14:27,724 [Meisha] What do you mean? 1132 01:14:28,206 --> 01:14:29,517 [Nicola speaking] 1133 01:14:30,586 --> 01:14:32,379 [Meisha] What? 1134 01:14:32,413 --> 01:14:33,586 This is structured... 1135 01:14:35,206 --> 01:14:37,172 Nico! This is structured chaos. 1136 01:14:37,206 --> 01:14:38,896 These are piles of 1137 01:14:38,931 --> 01:14:40,896 what I'm... what... you know, I need to lay it all out 1138 01:14:40,931 --> 01:14:42,620 so I can actually see what's going on. 1139 01:14:42,655 --> 01:14:44,413 [Nicola speaking] 1140 01:14:46,000 --> 01:14:47,137 What? 1141 01:14:47,172 --> 01:14:48,586 I have a whole another suitcase 1142 01:14:48,620 --> 01:14:51,172 -so, you can't let this bother you because, um... -[Nicola speaking] 1143 01:14:51,206 --> 01:14:54,172 You have to say to yourself, "I will learn to love it." 1144 01:14:54,206 --> 01:14:56,206 [Nicola speaking] 1145 01:14:56,241 --> 01:14:57,896 [Meisha] I don't know if that is true. 1146 01:15:00,068 --> 01:15:02,379 Okay, will you show me the food? We can talk about clothes later. 1147 01:15:02,413 --> 01:15:03,896 [Nicola speaking] 1148 01:15:20,068 --> 01:15:21,448 [Meisha] Okay. Oh, my God. 1149 01:15:21,482 --> 01:15:22,965 No, you're gonna feed me that whole big bite? 1150 01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:24,965 -Yes. -Okay. Oh! [chuckles] 1151 01:15:25,551 --> 01:15:26,724 [muffled] Okay, wow. 1152 01:15:28,931 --> 01:15:30,551 -Don't worry, sweetie pie. -Next time 1153 01:15:30,586 --> 01:15:32,586 you feed your woman just a little tiny portion. 1154 01:15:34,758 --> 01:15:37,241 Okay, thank you, sweetheart. Wow. 1155 01:15:37,275 --> 01:15:39,068 -My eyes are watering. [laughs] -[Nicola laughs] 1156 01:15:40,482 --> 01:15:41,724 [Meisha] They are. 1157 01:15:43,586 --> 01:15:45,862 I am genuinely curious 1158 01:15:45,896 --> 01:15:47,793 how this day has been for you. 1159 01:15:47,827 --> 01:15:49,137 [speaking English] 1160 01:16:28,137 --> 01:16:29,620 [Meisha] I love you for that. 1161 01:16:29,655 --> 01:16:32,000 -Thank you for saying that. -Yes. 1162 01:16:32,034 --> 01:16:35,896 I do not disagree with you. 1163 01:16:35,931 --> 01:16:40,000 I just don't know if I totally agree with you, yet. 1164 01:16:42,379 --> 01:16:44,137 [Meisha] No. No. 1165 01:16:44,172 --> 01:16:46,965 I just mean that there's gonna be a lot 1166 01:16:47,000 --> 01:16:50,517 that we have to learn about each other still and a lot 1167 01:16:50,551 --> 01:16:52,827 that we're gonna go through and 1168 01:16:53,793 --> 01:16:55,620 everything 1169 01:16:55,655 --> 01:16:58,206 looks good but we have to go deep 1170 01:16:58,241 --> 01:17:00,586 and know for real that it is good. 1171 01:17:01,724 --> 01:17:03,344 [in English] 1172 01:17:03,896 --> 01:17:04,758 [Meisha] Yeah. 1173 01:17:35,896 --> 01:17:37,379 [Meisha] Amen. 1174 01:17:38,896 --> 01:17:40,413 [Nicola in English] 1175 01:17:43,275 --> 01:17:45,724 "Thy will be done on earth, as it is in heaven." 1176 01:17:47,206 --> 01:17:48,413 You know, if you truly loved me 1177 01:17:48,448 --> 01:17:50,448 you would listen to my proposal. 1178 01:17:50,482 --> 01:17:51,896 Now I'm trying to explain it to you... 1179 01:17:51,931 --> 01:17:53,413 [Jasmine speaks indistinctly] 1180 01:17:53,448 --> 01:17:55,413 -[bleep]. I want it. -[Gino] Don't rip that up. 1181 01:17:55,448 --> 01:17:57,724 I took a [bleep] picture of it anyway. 1182 01:17:57,758 --> 01:17:58,758 [bleep] you. 1183 01:18:25,275 --> 01:18:28,103 After our discussion about prenup yesterday 1184 01:18:28,137 --> 01:18:31,068 Jasmine hasn't spoken to me so I really don't know where we're at. 1185 01:18:32,448 --> 01:18:33,793 And also, 1186 01:18:33,827 --> 01:18:35,620 Jasmine slept in another room last night. 1187 01:18:38,827 --> 01:18:40,965 Uh, it doesn't feel good. 1188 01:18:41,000 --> 01:18:43,448 On the one hand I want the prenup, 1189 01:18:43,482 --> 01:18:47,448 but I don't want our relationship to end because of this. 1190 01:18:47,482 --> 01:18:50,379 So, this morning I actually woke up 1191 01:18:50,413 --> 01:18:53,103 and I, like, wrote down a proposal 1192 01:18:53,137 --> 01:18:56,275 that, you know, with Jasmine's best interest, 1193 01:18:56,310 --> 01:18:59,206 you know, in mind, like, I want to, like, protect her. 1194 01:19:01,034 --> 01:19:03,000 Um, all I want her to do is listen to me. 1195 01:19:13,517 --> 01:19:14,517 [Jasmine] Yes? 1196 01:19:15,172 --> 01:19:16,517 Good morning. 1197 01:19:18,206 --> 01:19:20,517 I was wondering if you wanna, you know, 1198 01:19:20,551 --> 01:19:22,034 sit down and talk some. 1199 01:19:24,517 --> 01:19:25,517 Okay. 1200 01:19:26,689 --> 01:19:27,896 [Gino softly] Okay. 1201 01:19:37,379 --> 01:19:38,482 Um, 1202 01:19:39,137 --> 01:19:40,172 how are you doing? 1203 01:19:40,827 --> 01:19:43,103 I'm sad. I'm disappointed. 1204 01:19:43,137 --> 01:19:44,482 I'm mad at you. 1205 01:19:45,655 --> 01:19:49,448 We've been engaged for more than a year 1206 01:19:49,482 --> 01:19:51,517 and now you're showing me, like, 1207 01:19:51,551 --> 01:19:53,827 like you don't trust me that you need... 1208 01:19:54,724 --> 01:19:56,620 conditions. 1209 01:19:56,655 --> 01:19:58,103 -And you... -No, I do trust you. 1210 01:19:58,137 --> 01:20:00,310 Then show it, with actions. 1211 01:20:00,344 --> 01:20:02,137 Like, why are you asking for it? 1212 01:20:03,724 --> 01:20:06,379 Gino talking about a prenup is like 1213 01:20:06,413 --> 01:20:08,379 the same nightmare I went through 1214 01:20:13,758 --> 01:20:17,344 so I have to walk away with nothing. 1215 01:20:17,379 --> 01:20:18,965 Just my... my clothing. 1216 01:20:19,000 --> 01:20:20,517 And now, it's like, 1217 01:20:20,551 --> 01:20:23,517 a different character, but the same story. 1218 01:20:23,551 --> 01:20:25,827 No, but I have... I have a proposal for you today. 1219 01:20:26,551 --> 01:20:28,862 What is the proposal about? 1220 01:20:28,896 --> 01:20:30,827 -If you're done telling me what your thoughts are... -Yeah. 1221 01:20:36,206 --> 01:20:39,172 Because if there is a prenup, there is no marriage. 1222 01:20:39,206 --> 01:20:41,586 -There is no engagement. There is nothing. -[Gino] Just listen. 1223 01:20:41,620 --> 01:20:43,000 -Let me speak first. -No. 1224 01:20:43,034 --> 01:20:44,310 But you have to be clear 1225 01:20:44,344 --> 01:20:46,310 because you're gonna be just wasting your time 1226 01:20:46,344 --> 01:20:48,034 -explaining [bleep] to me. -No, no, no. 1227 01:20:48,068 --> 01:20:51,310 -No, not at all. -If there is a [bleep] prenup 1228 01:20:51,344 --> 01:20:53,275 I'm not gonna marry you! 1229 01:20:55,551 --> 01:20:57,310 -I don't... -[Jasmine] Period. 1230 01:20:57,344 --> 01:20:59,310 -I'm not gonna listen to something I'm... -No, no. Okay, well then 1231 01:20:59,344 --> 01:21:02,206 that shows me that you don't love me. You don't give a [bleep]. 1232 01:21:02,241 --> 01:21:03,862 So, [bleep] all of it then. 1233 01:21:03,896 --> 01:21:05,413 Forget it then. 1234 01:21:05,448 --> 01:21:07,034 [bleep]. Just forget it. 1235 01:21:07,068 --> 01:21:08,586 [bleep] you. [bleep] you. 1236 01:21:11,758 --> 01:21:13,551 [sobbing] 1237 01:21:13,586 --> 01:21:14,793 You're such an idiot. 1238 01:21:16,241 --> 01:21:17,379 [Gino] Forget it. 1239 01:21:21,448 --> 01:21:23,068 [Jasmine speaking] 1240 01:21:23,379 --> 01:21:24,586 [sobbing] 1241 01:21:28,586 --> 01:21:29,689 [Gino] Hmm. 1242 01:21:33,275 --> 01:21:36,172 I mean, this is exactly why I proposed a prenup. 1243 01:21:36,206 --> 01:21:37,448 [crying] 1244 01:21:39,482 --> 01:21:41,827 She's always screaming and yelling 1245 01:21:41,862 --> 01:21:43,586 and can't have a normal conversation 1246 01:21:43,620 --> 01:21:45,689 and I can't talk to her, 1247 01:21:45,724 --> 01:21:46,793 and that's a problem. 1248 01:21:47,931 --> 01:21:50,448 Yes, I love her, um, but, 1249 01:21:50,482 --> 01:21:52,758 I've had fears about her temper, 1250 01:21:52,793 --> 01:21:55,275 um, since I've met her. 1251 01:21:55,310 --> 01:21:57,517 Well, actually, more... yeah, since I met her. 1252 01:21:59,655 --> 01:22:01,620 [Jasmine] Are you talking about me? 1253 01:22:03,724 --> 01:22:05,862 Pack up your things. Get out of here. 1254 01:22:07,310 --> 01:22:08,586 Get out of here. 1255 01:22:09,448 --> 01:22:10,896 You know, if you truly loved me 1256 01:22:10,931 --> 01:22:13,310 you would listen to my proposal. 1257 01:22:13,344 --> 01:22:15,586 -You didn't even give me a... -Okay, what is the [bleep] proposal? 1258 01:22:19,275 --> 01:22:20,655 [Gino] My proposal... 1259 01:22:22,034 --> 01:22:24,655 So, and I even write "protection for Jasmine." 1260 01:22:24,689 --> 01:22:26,896 That's the high... That's the headline. 1261 01:22:26,931 --> 01:22:30,862 If I was the person that initiated divorce 1262 01:22:30,896 --> 01:22:34,137 you would be giving the highest amount of financial protection. 1263 01:22:35,000 --> 01:22:36,068 Do you understand that? 1264 01:22:37,965 --> 01:22:39,413 Now, I'm trying to explain it to you... 1265 01:22:39,448 --> 01:22:41,758 [Jasmine] Let me see the [bleep]. 1266 01:22:45,931 --> 01:22:47,655 So, this is... so... 1267 01:22:47,689 --> 01:22:50,724 This means that if I initiate divorce 1268 01:22:50,758 --> 01:22:52,862 I'm gonna get a very small amount. 1269 01:22:52,896 --> 01:22:55,000 -[Gino] If you do. -That means that I'm stuck with you. 1270 01:22:55,034 --> 01:22:57,137 If you [bleep] cheat on me, I have to accept it. 1271 01:22:57,172 --> 01:22:59,482 -I cannot get divorce. -No, no, no. No, no, no, no. 1272 01:22:59,517 --> 01:23:01,206 It says "except for cheating". 1273 01:23:03,758 --> 01:23:05,655 I don't want this. I don't want this. 1274 01:23:05,689 --> 01:23:06,724 [Gino] Don't rip that up. 1275 01:23:08,275 --> 01:23:10,310 You know what, I took a [bleep] picture of it anyway. 1276 01:23:13,068 --> 01:23:14,655 -It's just... -[Jasmine] I would really appreciate 1277 01:23:14,689 --> 01:23:17,344 if you just take your things and get out of my house. 1278 01:23:19,413 --> 01:23:21,862 -Yeah, I'm not going to. -Because you're a [bleep] idiot. 1279 01:23:23,586 --> 01:23:26,310 -Really? -Like, all my [bleep] demons come out 1280 01:23:26,344 --> 01:23:27,379 because of you. 1281 01:23:27,413 --> 01:23:29,551 -[Jasmine speaking] -You cannot even communicate 1282 01:23:29,586 --> 01:23:32,068 'cause you can't comm... 'cause you yell, yell, yell. 1283 01:23:32,103 --> 01:23:35,482 I get along even with my exes better than I do with you. 1284 01:23:35,517 --> 01:23:37,827 -They are better people. -Just yell, yell, yell. Don't you? 1285 01:23:37,862 --> 01:23:39,000 That's all you know how to [bleep] do. 1286 01:23:39,034 --> 01:23:41,482 Even, like, I feel more attracted 1287 01:23:41,517 --> 01:23:44,103 to my ex even than to [bleep] you. 1288 01:23:44,137 --> 01:23:46,862 -And he's better looking than you... -Yeah, well... Oh! 1289 01:23:46,896 --> 01:23:48,724 -...and he has more money than you. -Yeah, right. 1290 01:23:48,758 --> 01:23:50,310 -And he... yeah... -[Gino] Yeah, right. 1291 01:23:50,344 --> 01:23:53,206 -...and he doesn't have sex problems like you do. -[Gino] Oh, yeah, exactly. 1292 01:23:53,241 --> 01:23:54,724 You [bleep] couldn't. 1293 01:23:54,758 --> 01:23:57,482 You're the worst sexual person in the world. 1294 01:23:57,517 --> 01:24:01,724 Oh! You should just go and ask my ex-boyfriend 1295 01:24:01,758 --> 01:24:04,379 -if I'm the worst sexual person. -I don't have to ask him. 1296 01:24:04,413 --> 01:24:06,551 -So, why aren't you still with your ex? -[Jasmine speaking] 1297 01:24:06,586 --> 01:24:08,241 [Jasmine] Go and ask him. 1298 01:24:08,275 --> 01:24:09,482 Why aren't you still with your ex? 1299 01:24:11,586 --> 01:24:12,758 Tell me that. 1300 01:24:12,793 --> 01:24:14,379 I won't even answer that. 1301 01:24:16,931 --> 01:24:18,379 If only you knew. 1302 01:24:19,827 --> 01:24:20,931 [door closes] 1303 01:24:31,310 --> 01:24:32,620 [Jasmine] All I want is love, 1304 01:24:32,655 --> 01:24:35,000 and to be loved and respected. 1305 01:24:35,034 --> 01:24:37,448 And I'm not getting any of these things from Gino 1306 01:24:37,482 --> 01:24:39,275 bringing up the prenup stuff. 1307 01:24:42,586 --> 01:24:43,793 His lies, 1308 01:24:43,827 --> 01:24:45,689 communicating with exes. 1309 01:24:45,724 --> 01:24:47,724 Like, no woman has loved him 1310 01:24:47,758 --> 01:24:49,758 like the way I do love him, 1311 01:24:49,793 --> 01:24:53,551 but, Gino is looking at me like a gold digger. 1312 01:24:53,586 --> 01:24:56,206 So, that's very painful. 1313 01:25:05,206 --> 01:25:07,896 [man 2] Next time on Before the 90 Days... 1314 01:25:07,931 --> 01:25:11,034 My God, I cannot believe he's gonna be here. 1315 01:25:11,068 --> 01:25:12,620 Christian will be here in London 1316 01:25:12,655 --> 01:25:14,551 in less than 24 hours. 1317 01:25:14,586 --> 01:25:17,000 I've put a lot of faith in this relationship 1318 01:25:17,034 --> 01:25:18,689 but there's a part of me that worries 1319 01:25:18,724 --> 01:25:21,724 maybe he's not gonna be strong enough. 1320 01:25:21,758 --> 01:25:23,620 So, does your family know that Cleo's trans? 1321 01:25:23,655 --> 01:25:24,689 [Christian] Uh... 1322 01:25:33,965 --> 01:25:35,517 [Sheila speaking foreign language] 1323 01:25:35,551 --> 01:25:36,931 [man 3 speaking English] 1324 01:25:36,965 --> 01:25:38,103 [Sheila] Reservation, oh. 1325 01:25:46,586 --> 01:25:48,517 [Sheila] I'm a little bit nervous 1326 01:25:48,551 --> 01:25:51,551 because I've never been with a deaf person before. 1327 01:25:59,517 --> 01:26:01,689 Meeting your family is actually 1328 01:26:01,724 --> 01:26:03,827 of utmost importance to me. 1329 01:26:03,862 --> 01:26:05,275 [Nicola speaking] 1330 01:26:05,931 --> 01:26:08,000 It just makes me feel like 1331 01:26:08,034 --> 01:26:09,931 maybe the reason he's been hiding me 1332 01:26:09,965 --> 01:26:12,068 because he is actually 1333 01:26:12,103 --> 01:26:13,931 bothered with my past. 1334 01:26:13,965 --> 01:26:15,586 Well, then, so you haven't told them 1335 01:26:15,620 --> 01:26:17,275 -that I'm here in Israel? -No. No. 1336 01:26:18,482 --> 01:26:20,068 Do they know that I exist? 1337 01:26:22,275 --> 01:26:25,172 When I tell you things, like, you just don't listen. 1338 01:26:25,206 --> 01:26:26,551 [Razvan speaking English] 1339 01:26:28,931 --> 01:26:32,896 When I love I put everything in that person and 1340 01:26:32,931 --> 01:26:35,344 I'm really scared that we have a lot of fights. 1341 01:26:35,379 --> 01:26:36,862 [Amanda softly] 1342 01:26:37,724 --> 01:26:38,965 [Razvan] I don't know. 1343 01:26:42,413 --> 01:26:43,827 Hey, hey, hey. 1344 01:26:43,862 --> 01:26:45,000 How was Vietnam? 1345 01:26:45,034 --> 01:26:47,344 Did you get butterflies when you saw her? 1346 01:26:47,379 --> 01:26:49,000 She made a lot of plans. 1347 01:26:49,034 --> 01:26:50,896 Said that she couldn't see me. 1348 01:26:50,931 --> 01:26:53,551 You have to be more demanding than that. 1349 01:26:53,586 --> 01:26:55,172 [Riley] I feel like I'm an afterthought. 1350 01:26:55,206 --> 01:26:58,068 Can you at least say that the rest of the time I'm here, 1351 01:26:58,103 --> 01:26:59,172 you're gonna make time for me? 1352 01:27:00,827 --> 01:27:02,172 [Jasmine speaking foreign language] 1353 01:27:06,448 --> 01:27:07,655 I want him 1354 01:27:07,689 --> 01:27:10,344 to show me that I'm worth fighting for. 1355 01:27:10,379 --> 01:27:12,137 I... I really need that. 1356 01:27:12,172 --> 01:27:13,965 [woman speaking foreign language] 1357 01:27:18,620 --> 01:27:21,448 I was thinking, like, what if Carmella was, like, in prison or something. 1358 01:27:22,275 --> 01:27:23,793 Yeah, you're delusional. 1359 01:27:23,827 --> 01:27:25,000 She's not in prison. 1360 01:27:27,517 --> 01:27:30,827 And I found some stuff that he needs to know. 1361 01:27:31,827 --> 01:27:32,965 This is her, right? 1362 01:27:33,689 --> 01:27:35,000 What the [bleep]? 1363 01:27:40,275 --> 01:27:41,344 [bleep].