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I need to tell you something.
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Oh, my God. What?
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[laughing]
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When I hear of people falling
madly in love online,
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I kind of roll my eyes
a little. But it's happened
to me.
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[Riley] I've never met Violet
in person.
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But now, it's happening.
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I'm going to Vietnam.
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Vietnam, man!
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Look at you. Beautiful!
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And if things work out,
I'm ready to spend the rest
of my life with her.
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[both laughing]
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[in Spanish]
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[doctor speaking]
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Oh, my God.
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This is our last chance
to reignite the spark.
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-No.
-Baby!
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Seven years of talking about
this moment.
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[Meisha] Nicola is the love
of my life.
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But he is so different
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from anyone else I have
ever been with.
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Oh, my gosh. Nicola!
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He is a 46 year-old
virgin.
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[in other language]
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[Sheila in English]
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What if my son cannot connect
with David because he's deaf?
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[Tyray] My girlfriend lives
in Barbados.
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I've never been in love before
but I'm ready to be, like,
husband and wife.
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This is an escort page.
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This is her, right?
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It's not fair for you to do
this to me.
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[Amanda] He's the first person
that I've been with since
the death of my husband.
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I wanted you to be the right
person.
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But maybe we're just
not right for each other.
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[phone chimes]
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There's a guy with his shirt
off and you won't show me who
it is. He's just a friend?
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You liar. You lie.
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I'm getting really worried.
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Are you cheating on me?
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-[bleep] you!
-I'm done.
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[Amanda] All right, let's say
prayers.
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And we thank you for
everything in our lives that
you have blessed us with.
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Amen, good job.
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Yeah, I think that would be
nice.
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[Amanda] All right.
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My name is Amanda. I'm
31 years old.
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I live in Eunice, Louisiana.
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But I'm currently visiting
my sister in Marietta, Ohio.
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Okay, lay down.
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I am.
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Okay.
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Earlier this year, I lost my
husband, Jason, to his battle
with cancer.
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Jason and I were married
eight years.
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He was such a jokester.
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Yeah!
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He loved to make people laugh.
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But he also took great care
of us.
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He was smart,
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just a good guy with
a good heart.
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[imitating horse sounds]
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Maddy, we're gonna go faster.
Hang on!
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We were best friends.
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And I would have never
expected a future without him.
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Where you going?
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But about a year ago, Jason
started having lung problems.
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He felt like he may have
pneumonia or something, like,
in his chest.
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So they did x-rays, PET
scans, CT scans.
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You know, they didn't see
anything but he was kind of
telling them, like,
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"No, I don't feel right.
Something is wrong." And
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maybe eight months after his
first time going in,
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Jason was diagnosed with
stage four, terminal ampullary
cancer.
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The cancer was throughout his
body.
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And the doctor said,
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best case scenario would be
for him to live
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three months with
chemotherapy.
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Jason just kind of...
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He just, like, looked at me,
but, like, he didn't cry or
anything.
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I felt, like, even in that
moment, like,
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he was trying to be strong.
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And then, three days later,
he was so weak.
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I ended up forcing him to go
in to the hospital.
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And only ten days after
his diagnosis,
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I was looking at him, and...
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just kind of seeing, like...
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Like... You know... Like...
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his life leave his eyes.
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And he was gone.
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[sniffles]
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I waited, I think, three days
to tell my kids.
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You know, I told them, like,
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Daddy passed away.
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He's in heaven, and...
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My son said, "When will
Daddy be back from heaven?"
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And Alina, she said, "You
can't come back from heaven."
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And...
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I just hugged them.
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Ay!
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It's been so hard without him.
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But having my kids helped me.
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Because I have to
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take care of them and be
there for them.
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[kisses]
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I love you.
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When Jason was sick,
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he had told me he wanted
me to
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find love again and move on.
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You know, he was like, it's
not fair for you to live your
life alone.
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Also, like, the kids need
someone in their lives.
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And that it wasn't fair,
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like, to him, if I-- You know,
if I didn't-- If I just lived
my life,
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you know, not finding love
again.
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And, of course, you know,
I didn't expect to.
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After Jason passed away,
I tried to keep occupied
and busy.
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So I definitely watched a lot
of social media videos.
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It was just an escape from
everything going on in
the real world.
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One night, my friend was doing
a live stream challenge
on TikTok.
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My friend kept winning and
the guy who lost was being
so silly.
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And I was like, oh, he's cute.
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On TikTok, you can pay
to send people gifts.
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So I sent him a rose.
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Which is worth, like,
less than a dollar.
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Later that day, he sent me
a private message.
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Over the next couple days,
we messaged back and forth
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and before I knew it, we were
talking on the phone every
day and night.
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And I was just completely
opening up to him.
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And then, I think I, like,
send him a photo or something
of me and he was like,
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"I want you to be only mine."
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And so it kinda, like, just
went from there.
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Razvan is 26 years old.
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He lives in Bucharest,
Romania.
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He is a model, singer and
social media entertainer.
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Sorry.
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I told Razvan really early on
that I was a widow.
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And he truly has been someone
that I can lean on.
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And he has talked me through
some of my worst days.
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Giddyup!
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[Amanda] He makes me laugh all
the time,
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he's silly and kind of, like,
a little bit dorky.
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[Razvan] Look how beautiful.
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That's amazing.
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[Amanda] He is super sweet
and
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he's just one of those people
that will do anything for
someone he loves.
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We've been together for
four months.
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Every morning when I wake
up, he'll have, like, messages
waiting for me.
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Babe, why you don't answer me?
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I just wanna say I love you
so much and call me when you
wake up.
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Bye.
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I do feel some guilt
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being with Razvan so soon
after my husband's death.
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I know that he could never
replace Jason.
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But we started to form this
really deep connection.
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So in a few days, I am
travelling to Romania
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to meet Razvan in person
for the first time.
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It's really a tricky thing
to navigate.
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How do you move on?
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And it's not just myself,
I have to think about
the kids.
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I don't want my kids
to think, like,
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I'm with someone else,
you know? And
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that I don't love their
dad anymore.
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Because I do.
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I mean, I never thought that
I would meet someone
so quickly.
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It's like we just kind of got
caught up in this whirlwind
of, like, emotions.
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And we're like, "I love you
so much."
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I've never even meet him
in person.
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And to say these things
is crazy.
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But...
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I just feel in my heart that
we are meant to be and it will
work itself out.
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♪ Keep, keep on going ♪
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♪ Know just what to do ♪
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Yeah, this one's dark and
natural.
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-Yeah, that looks
good quality.
-Yes.
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And we can also take brown
and combine the two.
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How do you like my new hair?
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I think it's a great look.
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[laughing]
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♪ Yow! That's right ♪
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The tape-ins, you can wear
them at night,
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-and all the time, right?
-Yes.
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Okay.
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I'm Gino, I'm 53 years old.
And I'm from Canton, Michigan.
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And you said, this is, like,
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human hair, I think?
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100% human hair.
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Oh, yeah.
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-Maybe I should get a picture
for her to see it.
-Okay.
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I'm here to pick something up
for my fiance.
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But I don't know, really,
anything about hair
extensions.
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How much does something
like this cost?
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This box alone is $320.
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That's a lot of money.
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How many do you think
a woman would need?
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I would say five, to be safe.
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Holy [bleep].
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Well, maybe I can buy, like,
one sample.
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I hope she doesn't think
I'm gonna buy all the hair.
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[laughs]
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I'm not one to buy a lot of
materialistic things.
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I just don't go spending,
spending, spending.
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But my fiance? Now she's
a different story.
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[laughs]
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See what kinda response--
Oh, oh. She's writing.
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Oh.
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Jasmine pushes me
to my limit sometimes.
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But there's not a lot
I wouldn't do for her.
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She's a feisty, passionate
Latina.
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And she's the love of my life.
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[Gino] I've met Jasmine over
two years ago.
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And she lives in Panama.
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Her beauty and sexiness
drew me in.
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But her dynamite personality,
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that's what really did it
for me.
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So after nine months
of talking online,
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I booked a trip to Panama
to meet her
in person.
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That's risky, right?
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[laughing] I guess I am
adventurous.
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Boo! Look at you!
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Jasmine!
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[both laughing]
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Who's my little baby?
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[both laughing]
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We had super amazing moments
together.
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You're so hot and sexy.
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[laughs]
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But we've also had some rough
times too.
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One of your exes sent me
a message.
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Did you send her naked
pictures of me?
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[shouting] That was part of
my privacy!
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How can you do that?
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[bleep]
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[Gino] Me sending nude
photos to my ex
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really pushed our relationship
to the edge.
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But Jasmine and I have
a very strong bond.
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It would take a lot
to break it.
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I love you.
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Jasmine.
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Will you marry me?
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Of course, yes.
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[both laugh]
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Leaving Jasmine in Panama
was one of the hardest things
I've had to do.
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So as soon as I got home,
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I filed the K-1 visa to bring
Jasmine to the United States.
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But, you know, it's taken
a long time to process.
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We're at, like, 12 months.
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So that makes Jasmine
frustrated,
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because she wants to be with
me now. And it causes friction
between us.
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You know, we get in a lot
of arguments.
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And Jasmine and I being apart
have kinda made things worse.
248
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So I have a trip planned
to Panama in a few days.
249
00:16:26,967 --> 00:16:29,634
And I think we both definitely
need it.
250
00:16:33,367 --> 00:16:38,266
I'm excited because I get
to show off some of my new
clothes to Jasmine.
251
00:16:38,266 --> 00:16:42,066
You know, I got better shirts.
252
00:16:42,066 --> 00:16:45,634
Jasmine did not like
the clothes that I used
to wear.
253
00:16:45,634 --> 00:16:49,000
So I realized I definitely
needed to upgrade.
254
00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:51,266
Last time I went and seen
Jasmine,
255
00:16:51,266 --> 00:16:53,433
these wear the hats
that I wore.
256
00:16:55,266 --> 00:16:56,800
This is what I upgraded to.
257
00:16:58,266 --> 00:16:59,233
Look at the difference.
258
00:17:03,166 --> 00:17:04,734
There's a lot riding on
this trip.
259
00:17:08,500 --> 00:17:11,166
We have a lot of good times
together, but
260
00:17:11,166 --> 00:17:14,500
we argue about a lotta stuff.
261
00:17:14,500 --> 00:17:18,734
Like finances and our
sexual issues.
262
00:17:21,967 --> 00:17:26,867
Hopefully this will be my last
trip to Panama before our visa
gets approved.
263
00:17:26,867 --> 00:17:30,700
And if Jasmine and I can't
work out our issues while
I'm there,
264
00:17:30,700 --> 00:17:33,867
then I'm gonna have a lot
of concerns
265
00:17:33,867 --> 00:17:36,066
about bringing her to the
USA.
266
00:17:49,066 --> 00:17:51,233
[doctor in Spanish]
267
00:17:53,266 --> 00:17:54,634
[Jasmine speaking]
268
00:18:09,367 --> 00:18:12,700
My name is Jasmine. I'm
35 years old.
269
00:18:12,700 --> 00:18:14,233
And I'm the whole package,
you know?
270
00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:15,800
[in Spanish]
271
00:18:21,266 --> 00:18:22,233
Oh, my God.
272
00:18:23,166 --> 00:18:24,867
I'm a perfectionist.
273
00:18:24,867 --> 00:18:28,533
I like to look and
feel perfect.
274
00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:35,100
[in Spanish]
275
00:19:03,066 --> 00:19:03,900
Hmm.
276
00:19:07,700 --> 00:19:09,433
[in English]
277
00:19:14,066 --> 00:19:15,967
our sex was so good.
278
00:19:15,967 --> 00:19:19,600
But he has visited me other
times since then, and
279
00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:21,900
he barely wants to have sex
anymore.
280
00:19:29,066 --> 00:19:33,066
And when we do have sex,
he can't even finish.
281
00:19:39,734 --> 00:19:41,066
[laughs]
282
00:19:43,100 --> 00:19:44,266
[in Spanish]
283
00:20:39,100 --> 00:20:42,467
[in English]
I love Gino so deeply, but...
284
00:20:46,367 --> 00:20:48,467
I feel like we are growing
more distant.
285
00:20:50,500 --> 00:20:55,634
This trip that Gino is taking
to Panama is our last chance.
286
00:20:58,867 --> 00:21:00,634
Before I feel ready
287
00:21:00,634 --> 00:21:02,867
to take that huge step
288
00:21:02,867 --> 00:21:05,734
of moving
to the United States.
289
00:21:05,734 --> 00:21:06,900
[Jasmine in Spanish]
290
00:21:22,166 --> 00:21:24,600
Violet is the woman
of my dreams,
291
00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:26,467
the love of my life.
292
00:21:26,467 --> 00:21:28,533
I'm like super excited
to come there.
293
00:21:28,533 --> 00:21:29,900
-Just...
-[Violet on phone] Oh...
294
00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:33,634
I am not saying that word.
295
00:21:34,166 --> 00:21:35,734
I don't say I love you
296
00:21:35,734 --> 00:21:37,734
because there's something
there with Violet
297
00:21:37,734 --> 00:21:39,533
that she's just not
telling me.
298
00:21:41,066 --> 00:21:43,367
If I go there
and everything goes great...
299
00:21:46,266 --> 00:21:48,266
...and we'll get engaged.
[laughs]
300
00:21:48,266 --> 00:21:49,867
That's just crazy.
301
00:21:49,867 --> 00:21:51,634
You guys have broken up
and gotten back together
302
00:21:51,634 --> 00:21:53,100
how many times already?
X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=MPEGTS:900000,LOCAL:00:00:00.000
303
00:22:00,100 --> 00:22:01,233
[jazz music playing]
304
00:22:17,467 --> 00:22:18,367
I'm Riley.
305
00:22:18,367 --> 00:22:19,867
I'm 48 years old
306
00:22:19,867 --> 00:22:22,533
and I live in
Stroudsburg, Pennsylvania.
307
00:22:22,533 --> 00:22:25,900
I've been trying to rebuild
my jazz collection.
308
00:22:25,900 --> 00:22:29,000
I had over 20,000 albums.
309
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:33,734
But in 2000, I had a housefire
and I lost everything.
310
00:22:33,734 --> 00:22:36,233
I'm originally from
Southside Jamaica, Queens.
311
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:38,266
And growing up in New York,
312
00:22:38,266 --> 00:22:40,367
music was a big part
of my life.
313
00:22:40,367 --> 00:22:42,367
Um, I wasn't very popular
growing up.
314
00:22:42,367 --> 00:22:44,533
I was not the cool kid.
315
00:22:44,533 --> 00:22:46,166
So it was my...
316
00:22:46,166 --> 00:22:48,066
kind of my outlet, right,
my thing.
317
00:22:48,867 --> 00:22:51,166
And it just made me feel
less alone.
318
00:22:52,100 --> 00:22:53,367
This is jazz,
319
00:22:53,367 --> 00:22:57,467
and then it goes into
'70s soul and R&B.
320
00:22:57,467 --> 00:22:59,800
And then it goes into
the really obscure,
321
00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:01,433
like Elton Johns and...
322
00:23:04,734 --> 00:23:06,734
Because it's Elton John.
323
00:23:07,533 --> 00:23:09,066
But my main thing is jazz.
324
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:11,700
You can tell.
325
00:23:11,700 --> 00:23:14,533
I see colors, you know,
when I hear music,
326
00:23:14,533 --> 00:23:17,266
especially jazz,
it's like a dance.
327
00:23:20,100 --> 00:23:22,266
You know, that... that...
that rhythm.
328
00:23:22,266 --> 00:23:24,533
When you're listening to jazz,
you gotta have this.
329
00:23:24,533 --> 00:23:26,066
[scatting]
330
00:23:26,467 --> 00:23:27,433
My cigars.
331
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:29,266
It's just fun.
332
00:23:29,266 --> 00:23:30,533
When I play jazz music,
333
00:23:30,533 --> 00:23:31,800
I light up a good cigar.
334
00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:34,000
Yo, that's my...
That's my world.
335
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,266
That's... that's the life.
That's life.
336
00:23:37,166 --> 00:23:38,433
Come on, Meesh.
337
00:23:40,467 --> 00:23:41,800
Good Meesh.
338
00:23:42,734 --> 00:23:44,166
This is Mila.
339
00:23:44,900 --> 00:23:47,000
She's pulling,
and she's very strong.
340
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:48,467
She's very strong.
341
00:23:48,467 --> 00:23:51,000
I work in public safety
for the US government.
342
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:55,533
And before that, I was in
the military for eight years.
343
00:23:55,533 --> 00:23:58,100
You know, with my job,
the training that I received,
344
00:23:58,100 --> 00:24:01,100
I have to think
of the most insane thing
345
00:24:01,100 --> 00:24:03,533
that could possibly happen
346
00:24:03,533 --> 00:24:05,700
and how will we prepare
for it.
347
00:24:05,700 --> 00:24:08,166
They trained me to not let my
guard down.
348
00:24:08,166 --> 00:24:10,166
So I... I think it's very
difficult for me
349
00:24:10,166 --> 00:24:12,867
to not have it bleed into
my... my personal life.
350
00:24:12,867 --> 00:24:13,867
Good girl.
351
00:24:13,867 --> 00:24:15,166
Good girl.
352
00:24:15,166 --> 00:24:18,867
I try to be more trusting
and let people in but I...
353
00:24:18,867 --> 00:24:19,967
I always get hurt.
354
00:24:22,634 --> 00:24:25,900
I was in a serious
relationship with someone.
355
00:24:25,900 --> 00:24:29,900
You know, one day
I went to her apartment,
356
00:24:29,900 --> 00:24:31,266
and she wouldn't open
the door,
357
00:24:31,266 --> 00:24:32,467
I was just ringing the bell
358
00:24:32,467 --> 00:24:35,100
and felt it in me
there was something up.
359
00:24:35,100 --> 00:24:36,367
So I went straight
to her bedroom
360
00:24:36,367 --> 00:24:37,967
and there was a guy
in the closet.
361
00:24:39,367 --> 00:24:40,634
She met him through me.
362
00:24:42,266 --> 00:24:44,734
It felt like a betrayal,
like...
363
00:24:45,166 --> 00:24:46,800
On another level of hurt.
364
00:24:49,467 --> 00:24:51,367
A few years later,
365
00:24:51,367 --> 00:24:53,867
I finally put myself
out there again...
366
00:24:53,867 --> 00:24:54,734
Come on.
367
00:24:54,734 --> 00:24:56,266
...and then I met someone.
368
00:24:57,467 --> 00:24:59,166
I really thought
she was gonna be the one
369
00:24:59,166 --> 00:25:00,533
I build my forever home with.
370
00:25:01,533 --> 00:25:04,100
So I put a ring on layaway.
371
00:25:04,100 --> 00:25:07,967
And I had every intension
to ask her to marry me.
372
00:25:08,900 --> 00:25:10,867
And then one day she said,
373
00:25:10,867 --> 00:25:14,000
"Oh, I'm gonna go to Philly to
get some stuff or whatever,"
374
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:15,266
and she just never came back.
375
00:25:16,166 --> 00:25:18,100
Couple of phone calls
here and there.
376
00:25:18,100 --> 00:25:20,100
She gives me her reasons,
377
00:25:20,100 --> 00:25:21,433
but they didn't make sense.
378
00:25:22,266 --> 00:25:24,266
And, uh, that was it.
379
00:25:24,266 --> 00:25:25,433
She was just gone.
380
00:25:27,734 --> 00:25:28,734
Come on.
381
00:25:28,734 --> 00:25:29,900
That was too much for me.
382
00:25:33,266 --> 00:25:34,266
I was in a dark place.
383
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:38,533
And I was very, very lonely.
384
00:25:40,533 --> 00:25:42,734
So, like, a couple of weeks
later,
385
00:25:42,734 --> 00:25:45,433
I downloaded a Vietnamese,
uh, dating app.
386
00:25:47,734 --> 00:25:51,900
My thought process is, "Hey,
when it's nighttime here,
387
00:25:51,900 --> 00:25:53,367
it's daytime there.
388
00:25:53,367 --> 00:25:55,734
I can find somebody
to talk to."
389
00:25:55,734 --> 00:25:57,433
And then I met Violet.
390
00:25:58,166 --> 00:26:01,266
♪ I caught you smiling ♪
391
00:26:01,266 --> 00:26:04,900
[Riley] Violet is from
Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam.
392
00:26:04,900 --> 00:26:06,900
And she is 43 years old.
393
00:26:06,900 --> 00:26:10,166
♪ I swear
That the world has stopped ♪
394
00:26:10,166 --> 00:26:15,000
♪ For the beautiful smile
I see ♪
395
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:16,700
[Riley] She's beautiful.
I think she's beautiful.
396
00:26:16,700 --> 00:26:18,900
She's... Like, she don't even
look her age.
397
00:26:18,900 --> 00:26:19,900
It is crazy.
398
00:26:20,734 --> 00:26:24,000
And I felt like
there was a connection.
399
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,367
Ever since then, we've just
been chatting, you know,
400
00:26:26,367 --> 00:26:30,000
and calling each other pretty
much daily for two years.
401
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:34,634
Violet is... the sweetest jerk
I've ever met in my life.
402
00:26:35,467 --> 00:26:37,166
She is hilarious.
403
00:26:37,166 --> 00:26:38,467
She's very clever
404
00:26:38,467 --> 00:26:40,000
with her jokes.
405
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:41,467
She'll say something
real slick.
406
00:26:41,467 --> 00:26:42,867
It's like a joke grenade.
407
00:26:42,867 --> 00:26:44,867
It'll take me
like three seconds for it
to explode.
408
00:26:44,867 --> 00:26:47,433
I'd be like,
"Hey, wait a minute."
409
00:26:48,367 --> 00:26:50,900
I've never met Violet
in person.
410
00:26:50,900 --> 00:26:52,533
But now it's happening.
411
00:26:52,533 --> 00:26:53,867
Come on, Meesh.
412
00:26:53,867 --> 00:26:57,166
In a few days, I'm gonna be
going to Vietnam
for two weeks
413
00:26:57,166 --> 00:26:58,900
to meet the woman
of my dreams,
414
00:26:58,900 --> 00:27:00,367
the love of my life.
415
00:27:00,367 --> 00:27:02,867
I get to hold her, kiss her,
touch her,
416
00:27:02,867 --> 00:27:05,166
have those laughs together
in person.
417
00:27:06,166 --> 00:27:08,166
You know, after everything
I've been through,
418
00:27:08,166 --> 00:27:09,166
I really believe that
419
00:27:09,166 --> 00:27:11,066
this could be
a new beginning for me.
420
00:27:18,867 --> 00:27:19,800
[line ringing]
421
00:27:24,266 --> 00:27:25,467
[Riley] Hey, baby.
422
00:27:25,467 --> 00:27:26,634
You look pretty.
423
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:28,467
Oh, thank you.
424
00:27:28,467 --> 00:27:29,867
[Riley] You know what--
425
00:27:29,867 --> 00:27:32,467
[Riley] Yeah. Oh, you're
always ready? Oh, okay.
426
00:27:32,467 --> 00:27:33,634
[both laughing]
427
00:27:34,533 --> 00:27:36,533
It's only, like,
a few more days.
428
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:37,700
Yeah.
429
00:27:37,700 --> 00:27:40,266
Are you excited for me
to come and visit?
430
00:27:41,367 --> 00:27:42,533
[Violet on phone] Hmm.
431
00:27:42,533 --> 00:27:44,000
[Riley] A... a little.
432
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:45,734
Uh, just a little bit, yeah.
433
00:27:46,634 --> 00:27:48,000
[in other language]
You.
434
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:49,066
[both laughing]
435
00:27:52,467 --> 00:27:55,166
I'm like really, really,
really super excited
436
00:27:55,166 --> 00:27:57,367
to come near...
I'm... I'm real happy.
437
00:27:57,367 --> 00:27:59,433
-It's just...
-[Violet on phone] Oh.
438
00:28:01,166 --> 00:28:02,266
[both laughing]
439
00:28:02,266 --> 00:28:04,166
I am not saying that word.
440
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:06,266
I don't say I love you.
441
00:28:06,867 --> 00:28:08,867
I don't ever say I love you.
442
00:28:08,867 --> 00:28:11,634
'Cause whenever I say
I love you to a person,
they leave.
443
00:28:13,533 --> 00:28:16,867
I... I... I'm not saying
the word but I'll say this.
444
00:28:19,900 --> 00:28:21,800
Oh, yeah, with this. This.
445
00:28:23,166 --> 00:28:25,800
It started because Violet
told me
446
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:29,634
women in Vietnam mean
the opposite of what they say.
447
00:28:29,634 --> 00:28:31,467
So when she says she hates me,
448
00:28:31,467 --> 00:28:33,533
it actually means I like you
449
00:28:33,533 --> 00:28:35,266
or I care for you or whatever.
450
00:28:35,266 --> 00:28:38,266
So she knows how I feel
when I do this.
451
00:28:38,266 --> 00:28:40,634
Really, it's just
a sweet thing that we just do.
452
00:28:40,634 --> 00:28:42,433
I think it's kind of cute,
honestly.
453
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,100
But I care about Violet a lot.
454
00:28:46,100 --> 00:28:48,100
But we've been through
some ups and downs
455
00:28:48,100 --> 00:28:50,000
over the last year or so.
456
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:53,100
And because of my past
relationships and...
457
00:28:53,100 --> 00:28:54,100
and, you know, unfortunately,
458
00:28:54,100 --> 00:28:55,900
because of what I do
for a living,
459
00:28:55,900 --> 00:28:58,367
I might be just
overly cautious.
460
00:28:58,367 --> 00:29:01,367
But I just feel like there's
something there with Violet
461
00:29:01,367 --> 00:29:04,533
that she's just not
telling me or she's not...
462
00:29:04,533 --> 00:29:07,634
being as forthcoming
as I would need her to be
463
00:29:07,634 --> 00:29:09,266
on certain things.
464
00:29:09,266 --> 00:29:11,700
[Violet speaking over phone]
[laughs]
465
00:29:11,700 --> 00:29:14,100
Becau... You don't know
why I'm excited?
466
00:29:14,100 --> 00:29:15,000
I swear I...
467
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:16,467
I think you're just
messing with me.
468
00:29:16,467 --> 00:29:17,867
I think you...
469
00:29:17,867 --> 00:29:19,000
You're just as excited.
470
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:20,900
You just don't wanna
show me anything.
471
00:29:20,900 --> 00:29:21,867
[Violet on phone]
Are you sure?
472
00:29:21,867 --> 00:29:23,734
-[Riley] I'm positive.
-[Violet laughing]
473
00:29:25,700 --> 00:29:29,266
I know I am not the easiest
person to understand.
474
00:29:29,266 --> 00:29:30,634
There's a jungle up here.
475
00:29:30,634 --> 00:29:32,433
There's a lot going on
up there.
476
00:29:33,166 --> 00:29:35,433
It just feels that Violet...
477
00:29:36,100 --> 00:29:37,433
may just understand me.
478
00:29:38,467 --> 00:29:41,000
After everything
I've been through,
479
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,100
it's really hard for me
to trust people,
480
00:29:43,100 --> 00:29:46,100
but I have to go through
with this.
481
00:29:46,100 --> 00:29:49,100
I truly believe
that she's worth the risk.
482
00:29:49,100 --> 00:29:51,867
I... I... I'mma let you go.
I know it's late there.
483
00:29:51,867 --> 00:29:53,800
Get some rest.
Have a good night, okay?
484
00:29:55,166 --> 00:29:56,333
Okay.
485
00:29:58,600 --> 00:29:59,533
Bye.
486
00:30:00,100 --> 00:30:01,166
[chuckles softly]
487
00:30:02,867 --> 00:30:03,867
[chuckles]
488
00:30:18,166 --> 00:30:20,266
[Amber speaking]
489
00:30:21,634 --> 00:30:23,700
I don't know.
I'm literally so pale.
490
00:30:23,700 --> 00:30:26,266
-First of all, have you ever
gotten a spray tan?
-Yes.
491
00:30:26,266 --> 00:30:27,900
They don't turn out streaky
or like...
492
00:30:27,900 --> 00:30:29,467
[Amanda] I mean, it's been
like a long time,
493
00:30:29,467 --> 00:30:32,166
but I feel like spray tans
have gotten better.
494
00:30:32,700 --> 00:30:34,100
In a few days,
495
00:30:34,100 --> 00:30:35,467
I am going to Romania
496
00:30:35,467 --> 00:30:39,700
to meet my boyfriend, Razvan,
in person for the first time.
497
00:30:39,700 --> 00:30:42,266
So my sister, Amber, is
taking me to get a spray tan
498
00:30:42,266 --> 00:30:44,166
because I do not want
499
00:30:44,166 --> 00:30:46,433
to get off the plane
in Romania and
500
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:51,000
I want Razvan to see me
and think,
501
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:53,800
"She looks toned, tanned
and sexy."
502
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:55,800
[laughing]
503
00:30:56,867 --> 00:30:58,367
[woman] All right.
504
00:30:58,367 --> 00:31:00,166
So go ahead and undress there.
505
00:31:01,367 --> 00:31:02,900
Now...
506
00:31:02,900 --> 00:31:05,467
do you have any special
occasion you're going to?
507
00:31:05,467 --> 00:31:09,100
[Amanda] Yes. I'm going to see
my boyfriend in Romania.
508
00:31:09,100 --> 00:31:10,166
[woman] No kidding.
509
00:31:10,166 --> 00:31:11,700
-That's exciting. [laughs]
-[Amanda] I know. That's...
510
00:31:11,700 --> 00:31:13,166
[laughs]
511
00:31:13,166 --> 00:31:15,634
-[Amanda] It's the first time
I'm ever meeting him, so...
-[woman] Oh, okay.
512
00:31:15,634 --> 00:31:17,867
-[Amanda] I feel like
I need a little tan.
-[woman] Okay. All right.
513
00:31:17,867 --> 00:31:19,166
We're gonna start in the back.
514
00:31:21,634 --> 00:31:24,734
[Amber] I think Amanda
plays the strong role.
515
00:31:24,734 --> 00:31:28,734
She doesn't really like
to show how bad she's hurting.
516
00:31:29,467 --> 00:31:32,166
And I don't think
she is dealing with
517
00:31:32,166 --> 00:31:33,734
the loss of her husband.
518
00:31:33,734 --> 00:31:36,467
She's just trying to cover up
a lot of grief,
519
00:31:36,467 --> 00:31:39,166
and Razvan just happened to be
right there at the right time.
520
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,166
Your new boyfriend is really
going to like this.
521
00:31:44,467 --> 00:31:46,000
[laughing]
522
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,266
-Okay, dear, go ahead
and get dressed.
-All right. Thank you.
523
00:31:51,634 --> 00:31:53,467
Well, you know you don't
have to go.
524
00:31:53,467 --> 00:31:55,533
-You can always say no.
-Oh, my gosh, stop it.
525
00:31:55,533 --> 00:31:58,166
Like, I don't know,
I just feel like...
526
00:31:58,166 --> 00:32:00,800
Uh, this is all going so fast
with you and him.
527
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:03,900
And at first, I thought
this was just,
like, a little fling,
528
00:32:03,900 --> 00:32:06,166
-and it's turned
into something...
-[Amanda laughing]
529
00:32:06,166 --> 00:32:08,700
...that I don't know
if you're ready for.
530
00:32:08,700 --> 00:32:10,734
You're still grieving
a little bit,
531
00:32:10,734 --> 00:32:12,367
going through some things.
532
00:32:12,367 --> 00:32:14,533
There's no, like,
standard set,
533
00:32:14,533 --> 00:32:16,266
"Oh, you have to grieve
for this long
534
00:32:16,266 --> 00:32:17,367
and then you have to do this
535
00:32:17,367 --> 00:32:18,700
and then you have
to be alone."
536
00:32:18,700 --> 00:32:21,166
-No, like...
-I know there's no playbook
on things like that
537
00:32:21,166 --> 00:32:22,467
and I'm aware,
538
00:32:22,467 --> 00:32:26,867
but that doesn't mean that
it's okay to...
to rush things.
539
00:32:26,867 --> 00:32:28,634
You guys have broken up
and gotten back together
540
00:32:28,634 --> 00:32:30,233
how many times already?
541
00:32:32,367 --> 00:32:34,467
Razvan and I have broken up
542
00:32:34,467 --> 00:32:37,634
a few times throughout
our relationship,
543
00:32:37,634 --> 00:32:41,533
mainly because of his
social media content.
544
00:32:41,867 --> 00:32:44,734
He will flirt,
545
00:32:45,166 --> 00:32:46,533
do stripteases.
546
00:32:46,533 --> 00:32:48,734
I don't know,
just crazy things.
547
00:32:49,367 --> 00:32:52,467
He tells me it's just his job
548
00:32:52,467 --> 00:32:54,533
and, like, it's like acting
for him.
549
00:32:54,533 --> 00:32:56,600
That's what he tells me.
550
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:59,634
But one time, he thought
that I was sleeping
551
00:32:59,634 --> 00:33:02,700
and he didn't expect me to be
on his live stream.
552
00:33:02,700 --> 00:33:06,100
Then suggested that
this woman shower,
553
00:33:06,100 --> 00:33:09,100
uh... with her clothes on and
she had on a white T-shirt.
554
00:33:09,100 --> 00:33:10,867
I don't think she was wearing
a bra.
555
00:33:10,867 --> 00:33:13,867
So I broke up with him
because of that.
556
00:33:13,867 --> 00:33:16,900
But each time, we always
end up getting back together.
557
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:19,467
Obviously, I know
we have problems,
558
00:33:19,467 --> 00:33:21,467
'cause no relationship
is perfect.
559
00:33:21,467 --> 00:33:24,000
But I think he cares about me
so much,
560
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:25,367
like we've gotten closer.
561
00:33:25,367 --> 00:33:26,467
I feel like
we're at a point that,
562
00:33:26,467 --> 00:33:29,634
like, if I go there
and everything goes great,
563
00:33:29,634 --> 00:33:32,467
maybe he will propose
564
00:33:32,467 --> 00:33:34,533
and we'll get engaged.
[laughing]
565
00:33:35,166 --> 00:33:36,166
[Amber sighs]
566
00:33:37,166 --> 00:33:38,100
What?
567
00:33:38,100 --> 00:33:39,900
Why are we talking
about marriage
568
00:33:39,900 --> 00:33:41,467
with a guy that you've
never met?
569
00:33:41,467 --> 00:33:43,867
Like, that... I don't know,
that's crazy to me.
570
00:33:43,867 --> 00:33:46,166
-It seems--
-Getting engaged
and committing...
571
00:33:47,467 --> 00:33:49,166
I don't think that's crazy.
I mean...
572
00:33:49,166 --> 00:33:50,533
Are you ready for that?
573
00:33:52,467 --> 00:33:53,433
Yeah.
574
00:33:55,166 --> 00:33:56,333
I don't think you are.
575
00:33:57,734 --> 00:33:59,467
I will be at a loss for words,
576
00:33:59,467 --> 00:34:02,166
um, if she comes back engaged.
[chuckles]
577
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:04,734
They fight a decent bit
578
00:34:04,734 --> 00:34:07,166
for being a...
a fairly new relationship.
579
00:34:07,166 --> 00:34:09,700
And I think
this is really fast,
580
00:34:09,700 --> 00:34:11,734
after the death
of her husband.
581
00:34:11,734 --> 00:34:12,734
She doesn't know herself.
582
00:34:12,734 --> 00:34:13,900
She's always been a wife,
583
00:34:13,900 --> 00:34:15,900
she's always been, you know,
a mom.
584
00:34:15,900 --> 00:34:17,600
She needs a little time
to, like,
585
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:18,734
find herself again.
586
00:34:18,734 --> 00:34:20,634
And I don't think she's gonna
be able to do that,
587
00:34:20,634 --> 00:34:22,533
jumping into another marriage.
588
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:25,166
I... I... I'm... I'm worried
589
00:34:25,166 --> 00:34:27,367
that you don't genuinely
care about him
590
00:34:27,367 --> 00:34:29,100
and you're just trying to...
591
00:34:29,100 --> 00:34:32,233
to cover this void that
you have with... with Jason.
592
00:34:32,734 --> 00:34:33,900
It's not like I was like,
593
00:34:33,900 --> 00:34:36,166
going out looking
for someone, no.
594
00:34:36,166 --> 00:34:39,266
It's like you don't know
what I feel
595
00:34:40,467 --> 00:34:42,066
being like alone...
596
00:34:43,634 --> 00:34:45,533
with the kids. [sighs]
597
00:34:45,533 --> 00:34:47,467
Like, no one can know that
598
00:34:47,467 --> 00:34:49,266
unless you had experienced it,
you know?
599
00:34:52,867 --> 00:34:54,800
I'm not just thinking
of myself either.
600
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:55,800
You know what I mean?
601
00:34:56,100 --> 00:34:57,100
Like...
602
00:34:57,100 --> 00:34:59,367
I feel like... [sniffles]
603
00:34:59,367 --> 00:35:02,166
Like, the kids need someone,
too, you know?
604
00:35:02,734 --> 00:35:04,100
-I know.
-[Amanda sniffles]
605
00:35:04,100 --> 00:35:06,266
Even like before I met Razvan,
I was like,
606
00:35:06,266 --> 00:35:07,634
thinking like, "How...
607
00:35:08,533 --> 00:35:09,734
How am I gonna do it?
608
00:35:09,734 --> 00:35:11,166
Like, how am I gonna
raise the kids?"
609
00:35:12,467 --> 00:35:15,000
And to be there and be
everything that they need,
610
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:16,266
you know, I can't. [sniffles]
611
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:21,467
I can never fill
that other role.
612
00:35:21,467 --> 00:35:22,967
-[Amber] I know.
-[Amanda sniffles]
613
00:35:26,266 --> 00:35:27,734
[Amber] I just...
614
00:35:27,734 --> 00:35:29,700
I don't want you getting hurt
or anything.
615
00:35:29,700 --> 00:35:30,800
That's all.
616
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:34,900
[sniffles]
617
00:35:36,867 --> 00:35:38,800
[Tyray] My girlfriend's name
is Carmella
618
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:40,600
and she lives in Barbados.
619
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:45,100
She looks like Cardi B
and Megan Thee Stallion
combined. [laughs]
620
00:35:45,100 --> 00:35:48,000
We do have, you know,
naughty Snapchat sessions.
621
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,066
We send, like, sexy pictures,
like, you know?
622
00:35:51,533 --> 00:35:52,900
The... [laughs]
623
00:35:54,266 --> 00:35:56,066
The booty. [laughs]
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624
00:36:07,500 --> 00:36:10,000
♪ Chillin' in the park, uh,
Yeah ♪
625
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:12,467
♪ Chillin' in the park, uh,
Yeah ♪
626
00:36:12,467 --> 00:36:15,066
♪ Families walking by
And ladies, too ♪
627
00:36:15,066 --> 00:36:16,867
♪ Dogs and baskets ♪
628
00:36:16,867 --> 00:36:18,166
♪ With the camera crew ♪
629
00:36:18,166 --> 00:36:19,533
[laughs] Sorry.
630
00:36:30,166 --> 00:36:31,700
Playing the ukulele
is very soothing,
631
00:36:31,700 --> 00:36:34,066
especially out here in nature,
like it's beautiful.
632
00:36:34,066 --> 00:36:36,500
You hear the birds,
the airplanes, the...
633
00:36:36,500 --> 00:36:37,533
The leaves, the dogs.
634
00:36:37,533 --> 00:36:39,333
So it's pretty cool
and relaxing.
635
00:36:41,367 --> 00:36:42,367
My name is Tyray.
636
00:36:42,367 --> 00:36:43,500
I am 33 years old.
637
00:36:43,500 --> 00:36:45,433
And I live
in Modesto, California.
638
00:36:48,367 --> 00:36:50,700
♪ A man walking by
With a red hat ♪
639
00:36:50,700 --> 00:36:51,900
♪ And a blue sweater ♪
640
00:36:54,467 --> 00:36:55,533
I'm not a musician
641
00:36:55,533 --> 00:36:56,967
but I did pick up the ukulele
642
00:36:56,967 --> 00:36:59,533
because I noticed that
everyone who plays it
looks happy. [laughs]
643
00:37:01,467 --> 00:37:03,100
I get along with everyone.
644
00:37:03,100 --> 00:37:04,533
I like meeting new people.
645
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:06,500
I'm pretty outgoing,
646
00:37:06,500 --> 00:37:07,634
and I'll talk a lot.
647
00:37:08,533 --> 00:37:11,000
But I feel insecure
sometimes, too,
648
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:12,166
because of my weight.
649
00:37:12,867 --> 00:37:14,066
It's always been a struggle,
650
00:37:14,066 --> 00:37:15,533
I've always been
a big guy, um...
651
00:37:17,100 --> 00:37:18,600
I would say I got big, like,
652
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:20,600
maybe when I was like,
eight, nine, ten.
653
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:22,367
Uh, we had moved.
654
00:37:22,367 --> 00:37:23,967
I didn't have
a lot of friends there.
655
00:37:23,967 --> 00:37:26,000
So food became
a real comfort for me,
656
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:27,867
especially like chocolate,
I love chocolate, so...
657
00:37:27,867 --> 00:37:29,467
[laughs] That's like
my best friend.
658
00:37:32,700 --> 00:37:34,266
I feel like the insecurity
for my weight
659
00:37:34,266 --> 00:37:37,734
did prevent me from having
a... a relationship.
660
00:37:37,734 --> 00:37:40,367
I'm afraid to put myself
out there 'cause of rejection.
661
00:37:41,367 --> 00:37:44,166
So it's really embarrassing
to admit where I'm like,
662
00:37:44,166 --> 00:37:45,900
33 years old
and still a virgin.
663
00:37:48,266 --> 00:37:49,233
Five.
664
00:37:50,166 --> 00:37:51,233
Six.
665
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:53,100
Seven.
666
00:37:53,734 --> 00:37:54,634
Eight.
667
00:37:55,367 --> 00:37:56,433
Nine.
668
00:37:57,367 --> 00:37:59,333
-Ten. You can take a break.
-[Whitney sighs]
669
00:38:00,100 --> 00:38:02,000
[Tyray] Family is everything
to me.
670
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:04,533
My mom moved in with me
about a year ago.
671
00:38:04,533 --> 00:38:06,634
We are sharing a
one-bedroom apartment,
672
00:38:06,634 --> 00:38:08,367
so we're pretty cramped.
673
00:38:08,367 --> 00:38:10,266
-How does it feel?
Is it too tight?
-Sore still.
674
00:38:10,266 --> 00:38:12,500
-[Tyray] It's still sore?
-Yeah.
675
00:38:12,500 --> 00:38:16,166
Last year, my mom found out
she had a tumor in her brain.
676
00:38:16,166 --> 00:38:17,867
They removed the tumor
and then the next day
677
00:38:17,867 --> 00:38:19,467
the doctor called us
to the hospital
678
00:38:19,467 --> 00:38:21,600
and told us that she had
a stroke.
679
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:23,367
-How's that? That hurt?
-[Whitney] Yeah.
680
00:38:23,367 --> 00:38:24,634
[Tyray] And then
that shoulder?
681
00:38:24,634 --> 00:38:25,867
I was in shock.
682
00:38:25,867 --> 00:38:27,100
I didn't know what to do.
683
00:38:27,100 --> 00:38:29,467
And, yeah, I was very afraid
that I was gonna lose my mom.
684
00:38:30,266 --> 00:38:31,367
Keep going.
685
00:38:31,367 --> 00:38:33,500
Mom, are you ready to get back
in those heels? [laughs]
686
00:38:33,500 --> 00:38:35,367
-I do.
-[Tyray] And start walking.
687
00:38:35,367 --> 00:38:37,066
[Whitney] Tyray is
a teddy bear.
688
00:38:37,066 --> 00:38:38,634
He's a good guy.
689
00:38:38,634 --> 00:38:41,734
I have two more sons
and two daughters
690
00:38:41,734 --> 00:38:43,967
but Tyray helps me out
more than... than any of them.
691
00:38:43,967 --> 00:38:47,166
We have a really good
relationship. Mmm-hmm.
692
00:38:47,166 --> 00:38:48,467
[Tyray] Come on, you got it.
Good job.
693
00:38:49,533 --> 00:38:51,734
I was a claims rep for
a health insurance company.
694
00:38:51,734 --> 00:38:53,734
But I actually ended up
quitting my job
695
00:38:53,734 --> 00:38:56,266
to take care of Mom full-time.
696
00:38:56,266 --> 00:38:58,734
My father passed away
when I was four years old.
697
00:38:58,734 --> 00:39:00,867
He got into an argument
with a friend at a park,
698
00:39:00,867 --> 00:39:02,333
and, um, he was murdered.
699
00:39:05,066 --> 00:39:07,233
My mom, she raised us
all by herself.
700
00:39:07,867 --> 00:39:09,467
Money was very hard.
701
00:39:09,467 --> 00:39:11,100
We were homeless a few times.
702
00:39:11,100 --> 00:39:13,367
My mom had to made
a lot of sacrifices for us.
703
00:39:13,367 --> 00:39:16,000
So I felt like, I owed her
to actually say,
704
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:18,266
"Hey, you know, this is more
important right now,"
705
00:39:18,266 --> 00:39:20,634
to put what... what I wanted
on the back-burner for her.
706
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:24,734
It's been really difficult.
707
00:39:24,734 --> 00:39:27,100
Like, my social life
is pretty much gone.
708
00:39:27,100 --> 00:39:28,634
But honestly, I don't mind
709
00:39:28,634 --> 00:39:30,333
'cause I do have Carmella.
710
00:39:32,734 --> 00:39:34,500
My girlfriend's name
is Carmella
711
00:39:34,500 --> 00:39:36,166
and she's 27 years old.
712
00:39:36,166 --> 00:39:37,734
And she lives in Barbados.
713
00:39:39,166 --> 00:39:42,600
She is this hot, thick,
beautiful woman.
714
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:44,000
This goddess.
715
00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:48,000
Like, Cardi B
and Megan Thee Stallion
combined. [laughs]
716
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:48,867
Like, she has all that.
717
00:39:49,867 --> 00:39:51,867
I met Carmella on an online
dating site.
718
00:39:51,867 --> 00:39:55,066
Me and Carmella chat every day
about everything.
719
00:39:56,367 --> 00:39:59,867
From like random stuff
to our plan for the future.
720
00:39:59,867 --> 00:40:02,166
We've been talking for almost
four years now.
721
00:40:02,166 --> 00:40:05,000
And I would describe it as,
like, a soulmate connection.
722
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:06,433
Like, we're made
for each other.
723
00:40:07,066 --> 00:40:08,500
I've never been in love before
724
00:40:08,500 --> 00:40:10,433
but this feeling I feel
for Carmella is just...
725
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:12,867
Like, warm.
726
00:40:12,867 --> 00:40:16,166
Almost like heartburn
but like a good heartburn.
727
00:40:16,166 --> 00:40:18,066
Carmella doesn't work
right now.
728
00:40:18,066 --> 00:40:20,367
But she is planning on,
uh, going to school
729
00:40:20,367 --> 00:40:22,000
and she does hair on the side.
730
00:40:22,734 --> 00:40:23,600
When she talks about, like,
731
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:25,100
what she wants to do
in the future,
732
00:40:25,100 --> 00:40:26,367
like her goals and stuff,
733
00:40:26,367 --> 00:40:27,734
like, that really
makes me happy.
734
00:40:27,734 --> 00:40:30,066
And like, her wanting to start
a business and I'm like,
735
00:40:30,066 --> 00:40:32,000
"You know, you can do it,"
you know, I'm pushing her
736
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:34,634
and being that...
that support factor for her.
737
00:40:37,166 --> 00:40:39,000
Carmella is the sweetest thing
ever.
738
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:42,266
She gives me confidence,
she makes me happy.
739
00:40:42,266 --> 00:40:44,700
She's extremely emotionally
supportive,
740
00:40:44,700 --> 00:40:45,867
especially when my mom
got sick.
741
00:40:45,867 --> 00:40:47,266
So she was there for me.
742
00:40:47,266 --> 00:40:50,066
I really appreciated that
from her.
743
00:40:50,066 --> 00:40:52,500
Right here, I was letting her
know that I'm thinking of her.
744
00:40:52,500 --> 00:40:53,867
And then she's letting me know
745
00:40:53,867 --> 00:40:55,734
that I look like a teddy bear
with facial hair. [chuckles]
746
00:40:55,734 --> 00:40:56,867
So adorable.
747
00:40:56,867 --> 00:40:58,266
Um...
748
00:40:58,266 --> 00:41:00,166
We only communicate
on Snapchat
749
00:41:00,166 --> 00:41:03,533
but we do have, you know,
naughty Snapchat sessions.
750
00:41:04,734 --> 00:41:07,367
We do send, like,
sexy pictures and video,
751
00:41:07,367 --> 00:41:09,467
you know, the... [laughs]
752
00:41:11,867 --> 00:41:14,800
You know, the booty. [laughs]
753
00:41:16,266 --> 00:41:18,734
[producer] Is it ever
over video or...
754
00:41:18,734 --> 00:41:21,367
[Tyray] Uh, unfortunately not.
[laughs]
755
00:41:21,367 --> 00:41:23,367
She's never video chatted me.
756
00:41:23,367 --> 00:41:25,233
[producer] Do you ever ask
for a video chat yet?
757
00:41:25,734 --> 00:41:27,600
Uh, no. I did once,
758
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:30,867
but, she didn't say anything.
So I didn't really...
759
00:41:30,867 --> 00:41:32,734
Uh, you know,
I took it as a 'no'.
760
00:41:35,066 --> 00:41:36,867
May be she's not comfortable.
761
00:41:36,867 --> 00:41:39,166
Or maybe she doesn't
like video chatting.
762
00:41:39,166 --> 00:41:40,433
I know a lot of people don't.
763
00:41:42,500 --> 00:41:44,634
I do plan on seeing
Carmella soon.
764
00:41:44,634 --> 00:41:47,600
Um, I'm just trying to see
if I can find a flight
765
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:49,867
that's in my, um,
small budget.
766
00:41:49,867 --> 00:41:53,467
So, that's pretty much
what I'm waiting
for at this moment.
767
00:41:53,467 --> 00:41:56,700
I'm excited to share,
like, my cooking skills
with someone,
768
00:41:56,700 --> 00:41:59,166
other than my mom.
[chuckles]
769
00:41:59,166 --> 00:42:01,467
Carmella is my
girlfriend right now.
770
00:42:01,467 --> 00:42:03,634
But, um,
hopefully soon,
my wife.
771
00:42:05,867 --> 00:42:08,367
We, kind of, discussed,
like, getting engaged.
772
00:42:08,367 --> 00:42:11,266
And I showed her, like,
rings one day when
I went to the jewelry store.
773
00:42:11,266 --> 00:42:14,634
And she was like,
you know, I'm ready to,
like, be a wife and stuff.
774
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:17,734
So I wanna propose, because,
775
00:42:17,734 --> 00:42:19,266
after four years of dating,
776
00:42:19,266 --> 00:42:21,600
I feel like, Carmella
is the one for me.
777
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:23,000
Even though we
didn't meet yet,
778
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:25,367
the emotion is there
with us, and it's like,
779
00:42:25,367 --> 00:42:27,100
I don't want to let
something like that go
780
00:42:27,867 --> 00:42:28,867
Dinner's ready.
781
00:42:28,867 --> 00:42:30,166
-[Whitney] Dinner's ready?
-Yeah.
782
00:42:30,166 --> 00:42:33,500
-I've made you some salmon
and some vegetables.
-Oh, wow.
783
00:42:33,500 --> 00:42:35,700
-[Tyray] Hope you like it.
-I will.
784
00:42:35,700 --> 00:42:36,867
I've kept Carmella a secret,
785
00:42:36,867 --> 00:42:39,266
because I don't want
my family to judge me.
786
00:42:39,266 --> 00:42:43,367
It just seems like,
it's something that, a lot
of people won't understand.
787
00:42:43,367 --> 00:42:45,266
-There's bones in there.
So be careful.
-Oh, okay.
788
00:42:45,266 --> 00:42:47,166
-I just swallowed one.
-Uh-oh.
789
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:50,066
[Tyray] All my
sisters have kids.
790
00:42:50,066 --> 00:42:52,166
My brothers,
they're all like,
in relationships.
791
00:42:52,166 --> 00:42:54,734
So, I do wanna
be on their level.
792
00:42:54,734 --> 00:42:57,367
I want the normal life,
white picket fence, and...
793
00:42:57,367 --> 00:42:58,634
a happy family.
794
00:43:00,467 --> 00:43:01,533
Before I go up to Barbados,
795
00:43:01,533 --> 00:43:03,867
I do wanna tell my
family about Carmella.
796
00:43:03,867 --> 00:43:06,100
They have to know how
deep I'm in love with her.
797
00:43:06,100 --> 00:43:09,166
I want them to like,
feel the love that I
have for Carmella.
798
00:43:09,166 --> 00:43:11,600
I put myself
in the back
burner a lot.
799
00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:13,166
And I feel like, I can finally
800
00:43:13,166 --> 00:43:15,634
look at myself and say,
"You know, it's time for you".
801
00:43:16,367 --> 00:43:17,634
My time, finally.
802
00:43:22,166 --> 00:43:23,266
[Jasmine]
I'm so sick and tired.
803
00:43:23,266 --> 00:43:24,734
When we are having sex,
804
00:43:24,734 --> 00:43:27,333
it is so difficult
for you to [bleep].
805
00:43:28,500 --> 00:43:32,000
When we fight,
I lose my desire.
806
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:35,800
But the biggest issue
is Jasmine doesn't put
any of the blame on herself.
X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=MPEGTS:900000,LOCAL:00:00:00.000
807
00:43:47,900 --> 00:43:49,734
[Gino humming]
808
00:43:51,900 --> 00:43:54,367
I'm getting ready to see
Jasmine in a few days.
809
00:43:54,367 --> 00:43:56,734
And I have so
many things to do.
810
00:43:57,600 --> 00:43:59,600
On top of packing
and getting ready
811
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:01,700
for a long trip to Panama,
812
00:44:01,700 --> 00:44:04,266
I'm also juggling
a new full time job
813
00:44:04,266 --> 00:44:05,634
as a automotive engineer.
814
00:44:06,734 --> 00:44:08,867
[whispers] Uh, okay.
815
00:44:08,867 --> 00:44:11,467
Being employed
has helped me,
as far as, like,
816
00:44:11,467 --> 00:44:14,467
being able to support
Jasmine more.
817
00:44:14,467 --> 00:44:18,266
But, Jasmine gets a little
upset that I can't
talk to her as much,
818
00:44:18,266 --> 00:44:22,467
um, because, I... you know,
before when I wasn't working,
819
00:44:22,467 --> 00:44:25,433
I could talk to her throughout
the entire day, more or less.
820
00:44:26,100 --> 00:44:27,066
[device rings]
821
00:44:27,166 --> 00:44:28,266
Okay.
822
00:44:28,266 --> 00:44:29,166
[device rings]
823
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:35,166
Jasmine. How you doing?
824
00:44:37,533 --> 00:44:38,533
[chuckles]
825
00:44:40,533 --> 00:44:42,166
Yeah, I got a new hat.
826
00:44:42,467 --> 00:44:43,433
Do you like it?
827
00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:49,467
Uh, yeah.
828
00:44:49,467 --> 00:44:50,467
[chuckles nervously]
829
00:44:50,467 --> 00:44:51,800
[giggles]
830
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:54,533
I don't know if you can see,
but I got new shorts, too.
831
00:44:54,533 --> 00:44:55,734
Can you see?
832
00:44:56,867 --> 00:44:57,800
[Jasmine gasps]
833
00:45:00,634 --> 00:45:03,166
[laughs] No.
I don't do that stuff.
834
00:45:05,867 --> 00:45:06,734
[laughs]
835
00:45:07,533 --> 00:45:09,100
Well, you know...
836
00:45:09,100 --> 00:45:13,066
it's coming up to the day,
I get to go out
and see you, again.
837
00:45:15,266 --> 00:45:17,166
[Jasmine] I just been
wondering, you know...
838
00:45:21,367 --> 00:45:22,367
Yeah.
839
00:45:22,367 --> 00:45:24,734
Unfortunately,
it's the same news.
840
00:45:25,266 --> 00:45:27,367
But, uh, we're getting close.
841
00:45:27,367 --> 00:45:29,967
I think within the next 30
days, we should get approval.
842
00:45:55,867 --> 00:45:57,367
[Jasmine]
I kept moving from
843
00:45:57,367 --> 00:46:00,367
one temporary
apartment to the other,
844
00:46:00,367 --> 00:46:04,100
believing that my
visa is gonna get
approved any time soon.
845
00:46:04,100 --> 00:46:06,166
But then, it doesn't
get approved.
846
00:46:06,166 --> 00:46:07,433
And I have to move again.
847
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:14,700
He insisted on doing
all by himself,
848
00:46:14,700 --> 00:46:16,634
since he wanted to save money.
849
00:46:19,266 --> 00:46:23,100
But now, it's a huge
disruption to my life,
850
00:46:23,100 --> 00:46:24,166
to have to keep moving.
851
00:46:25,734 --> 00:46:27,433
So, baby, this is the deal.
852
00:46:32,533 --> 00:46:34,533
And there is a place
where I wanna be.
853
00:46:44,266 --> 00:46:45,233
Per month?
854
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:46,967
Yeah.
855
00:46:48,367 --> 00:46:50,634
That's crazy.
856
00:46:50,634 --> 00:46:53,266
You said that the visa
is gonna get
approved in 30 days.
857
00:46:53,266 --> 00:46:56,734
So it's gonna be the last
month I'm gonna
be living in my country.
858
00:46:56,734 --> 00:46:58,233
And I wanna live like a queen.
859
00:46:58,700 --> 00:47:00,166
I deserve it.
860
00:47:00,166 --> 00:47:03,233
Don't you think,
maybe we could try
a one bedroom place?
861
00:47:10,100 --> 00:47:12,367
[Jasmine]
And, we need that privacy.
862
00:47:12,367 --> 00:47:14,333
Since,
when we are having sex...
863
00:47:19,266 --> 00:47:20,166
What?
864
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:22,533
To [bleep] . To ejaculate.
865
00:47:22,533 --> 00:47:24,533
-How do you say
that in English?
-Yeah, I...
866
00:47:24,533 --> 00:47:27,734
We have sexual problems
because we do it...
we argue a lot still.
867
00:47:27,734 --> 00:47:29,367
And that's a big problem.
868
00:47:29,367 --> 00:47:30,333
-Um--
-[Jasmine speaking]
869
00:47:33,166 --> 00:47:34,333
No, no, no, no.
870
00:47:38,166 --> 00:47:40,000
I'm super attracted
to Jasmine.
871
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:41,734
She beautiful, gorgeous.
872
00:47:41,734 --> 00:47:43,800
But when we argue and fight,
873
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:46,533
I lose my, uh, desire.
874
00:47:47,266 --> 00:47:49,533
But the biggest
issue is, I feel like,
875
00:47:49,533 --> 00:47:52,333
Jasmine doesn't put any
of the blame on herself.
876
00:47:53,634 --> 00:47:55,433
She needs to like,
take it more seriously.
877
00:47:56,467 --> 00:47:59,266
Otherwise, it doesn't
make me confident.
878
00:47:59,266 --> 00:48:00,533
You know, about our future.
879
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:13,233
[in sign language]
880
00:48:14,700 --> 00:48:15,734
-[motorcycle revs]
-[David signing]
881
00:48:23,166 --> 00:48:25,166
[through automated voice]
882
00:48:29,166 --> 00:48:30,634
-[both giggling]
-[automated voice continues]
X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=MPEGTS:900000,LOCAL:00:00:00.000
883
00:49:05,634 --> 00:49:08,100
[in sign language]
884
00:49:15,500 --> 00:49:16,634
[pinball machine clacking]
885
00:50:48,266 --> 00:50:50,000
[hoofbeats]
886
00:50:51,734 --> 00:50:53,533
[David signing]
887
00:51:04,867 --> 00:51:06,867
[motorcycle revs]
888
00:51:06,867 --> 00:51:07,800
[David signing]
889
00:52:17,634 --> 00:52:19,333
[candy wrapper rustling]
890
00:52:23,166 --> 00:52:24,367
[in sign language]
891
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:33,367
[storekeeper speaking]
892
00:52:35,634 --> 00:52:36,634
[in sign language]
893
00:55:01,867 --> 00:55:07,233
I can't wait give you kiss.
894
00:55:32,867 --> 00:55:34,800
You my heart.
895
00:55:37,166 --> 00:55:38,533
[David signing]
896
00:56:21,967 --> 00:56:23,166
[chair scrapes]
897
00:56:27,734 --> 00:56:30,233
It's good to see you, Dave.
Can I get you
something to drink?
898
00:56:33,000 --> 00:56:33,900
[David signing]
899
00:56:52,467 --> 00:56:54,734
[automated voice speaking]
900
00:56:57,166 --> 00:56:58,333
[Mark] Are you nervous?
901
00:57:07,634 --> 00:57:09,333
[automated voice speaking]
902
00:57:12,066 --> 00:57:13,800
-[both giggling]
-[automated voice continues]
903
00:57:23,367 --> 00:57:24,967
Now you do sound
very confident
904
00:57:24,967 --> 00:57:26,500
about how all of this
is gonna go.
905
00:57:26,500 --> 00:57:29,634
Uh, are there any doubts
that you've had along the way?
906
00:57:37,266 --> 00:57:39,433
[automated voice speaking]
907
00:58:22,967 --> 00:58:24,500
[Mark] Even if we
do care about them,
908
00:58:24,500 --> 00:58:27,367
sending support
like that, it's tough,
if it's a lot of money.
909
00:58:35,967 --> 00:58:38,367
[Mark] This idea of traveling
half way across the world,
910
00:58:38,367 --> 00:58:40,467
it almost sounds like it's,
911
00:58:40,467 --> 00:58:42,533
coming out of a fairy
tale in his mind.
912
00:58:42,533 --> 00:58:46,433
This true love story
that can have
no bad ending.
913
00:58:46,967 --> 00:58:48,367
But it's a little worrisome
914
00:58:48,367 --> 00:58:51,166
that, uh, somebody's
just sending money
half way across the world
915
00:58:51,166 --> 00:58:53,734
to this person that they
don't know all that well.
916
00:58:53,734 --> 00:58:57,066
It's very rare
that anything like that
could work out, but...
917
00:58:57,066 --> 00:58:58,734
Who knows,
fairy tales
can come true.
918
00:59:00,066 --> 00:59:02,433
Well, if you love her a lot,
it sounds like it's worth it.
919
00:59:07,734 --> 00:59:10,734
[automated voice]
Yeah, I am 100%
ready to go.
920
00:59:10,734 --> 00:59:12,266
[automated voice speaking]
921
00:59:47,634 --> 00:59:48,967
Hey, babe.
922
00:59:48,967 --> 00:59:52,166
[Amanda] Well, I just saw
the trailer for that movie.
923
00:59:52,166 --> 00:59:53,634
And I did not like it.
924
00:59:55,600 --> 00:59:56,533
[Razvan] You know...
925
00:59:58,266 --> 01:00:00,467
-Oh, so artistic.
-[Razvan speaking]
926
01:00:00,467 --> 01:00:03,433
You can't control
what I do in my job.
X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=MPEGTS:900000,LOCAL:00:00:00.000
927
01:00:10,900 --> 01:00:12,100
[Jr. imitates roar]
928
01:00:12,100 --> 01:00:13,066
Settle down.
929
01:00:18,800 --> 01:00:20,233
[Jr. speaking]
930
01:00:20,634 --> 01:00:21,734
[Aleena speaking]
931
01:00:23,800 --> 01:00:28,166
When I hear of people
meeting other people online,
932
01:00:28,166 --> 01:00:29,867
and falling madly in love,
933
01:00:29,867 --> 01:00:31,634
I kind of, roll my
eyes a little,
934
01:00:31,634 --> 01:00:33,166
like, "Oh, yeah. Sure".
935
01:00:33,166 --> 01:00:36,467
But, it happened to me.
936
01:00:36,467 --> 01:00:39,367
Razvan has opened
my heart again to love,
937
01:00:39,367 --> 01:00:41,800
which I never
thought would happen,
938
01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:43,600
after losing my husband.
939
01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:46,266
But, I feel so
in love with him,
940
01:00:46,266 --> 01:00:49,734
that in three days,
I am traveling
941
01:00:49,734 --> 01:00:53,266
all the way to Romania,
to give this man a kiss.
942
01:00:53,266 --> 01:00:54,367
You're doing it.
943
01:00:54,367 --> 01:00:55,333
Look at me.
944
01:00:57,266 --> 01:00:58,867
Oh, yeah. So huge.
945
01:01:00,066 --> 01:01:01,900
They're not really huge, yet.
946
01:01:02,266 --> 01:01:03,800
I just started.
947
01:01:04,367 --> 01:01:06,700
I am super excited.
948
01:01:06,700 --> 01:01:11,100
But, a part of me
does have some guilt,
949
01:01:11,100 --> 01:01:12,734
because I'm leaving
my children.
950
01:01:12,734 --> 01:01:15,433
[Aleena speaking]
951
01:01:16,467 --> 01:01:19,066
Um, mommy is gonna be gone...
952
01:01:19,634 --> 01:01:20,634
three weeks.
953
01:01:21,900 --> 01:01:23,166
No.
954
01:01:23,166 --> 01:01:26,266
-Do you know, how like,
when I video call Razvan?
-Mmm-hmm.
955
01:01:26,266 --> 01:01:27,900
Mommy is gonna be with Razvan
956
01:01:27,900 --> 01:01:29,800
-and you guys
are gonna be at home.
-[Jr.] Mommy!
957
01:01:31,100 --> 01:01:34,500
[Amanda] Razvan
and my kids talk often.
958
01:01:34,500 --> 01:01:36,800
He plays with them
on video chat.
959
01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:39,600
He dresses up in costumes.
960
01:01:39,600 --> 01:01:45,100
But, I am scared
to tell my children,
961
01:01:45,100 --> 01:01:47,900
that I am in another
serious relationship,
962
01:01:47,900 --> 01:01:50,634
until I am 100% sure,
963
01:01:50,634 --> 01:01:54,367
that Razvan and I
are gonna be together.
964
01:01:54,367 --> 01:01:56,900
Shake off all
the crumbs.
Like this.
965
01:01:56,900 --> 01:02:00,533
Because, if we broke up,
966
01:02:00,533 --> 01:02:04,800
it's another man in my
children's lives that...
967
01:02:05,734 --> 01:02:07,233
won't be there.
968
01:02:07,467 --> 01:02:08,433
[sniffles]
969
01:02:11,100 --> 01:02:12,266
All right. Let's go.
970
01:02:12,266 --> 01:02:13,533
[Jr. exclaims happily]
971
01:02:16,900 --> 01:02:17,900
[cell phone ringing]
972
01:02:23,900 --> 01:02:25,100
Hey, babe.
973
01:02:25,100 --> 01:02:27,233
-[Amanda]
How is your day going?
-Yeah, well, it's good.
974
01:02:29,700 --> 01:02:31,266
-[Amanda] Aw. You look good.
-[Razvan speaking]
975
01:02:31,266 --> 01:02:32,533
[Amanda] Ready for what?
976
01:02:34,166 --> 01:02:38,000
-[both chuckle]
-I know, I'm just kidding,
yes, I am excited.
977
01:02:38,000 --> 01:02:40,000
[Razvan] So, listen, uh...
978
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:40,967
-[chuckles softly]
-[Razvan] I...
979
01:02:46,734 --> 01:02:48,800
[laughing] Oh, my gosh, what?
980
01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:54,433
[Amanda laughing]
981
01:02:55,734 --> 01:02:56,734
[Razvan laughing]
982
01:02:56,734 --> 01:02:57,634
[Amanda speaking]
983
01:02:59,266 --> 01:03:02,367
-It needs a lot of work.
-[continues laughing]
984
01:03:02,367 --> 01:03:05,233
[Amanda] So, what's the plan
when I get there?
985
01:03:05,634 --> 01:03:07,066
[Razvan speaking]
986
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:14,967
It's about,
987
01:03:16,100 --> 01:03:17,533
you know, love, and...
988
01:03:20,367 --> 01:03:21,333
[Razvan] And...
989
01:03:25,367 --> 01:03:26,867
No, there will not be.
990
01:03:26,867 --> 01:03:28,100
[Razvan speaking]
991
01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:37,734
I tell you I'm not jealous
but you know
that I am jealous.
992
01:03:37,734 --> 01:03:41,867
You, you can't con--
control what I do
in, in my job.
993
01:03:43,734 --> 01:03:46,734
Razvan does a little bit
of everything
in entertainment.
994
01:03:46,734 --> 01:03:48,800
He's been acting
in theater for years
995
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:54,266
and recently, he is trying
to get more work in films
and start his music career.
996
01:03:54,266 --> 01:03:57,634
I already feel jealous
that all of his followers
on social media
997
01:03:57,634 --> 01:04:01,467
are women,
just drooling over him
all of the time.
998
01:04:01,467 --> 01:04:04,800
But my jealousy
goes to another level
999
01:04:04,800 --> 01:04:07,867
when I see his acting roles.
1000
01:04:07,867 --> 01:04:09,100
[music playing]
1001
01:04:12,367 --> 01:04:14,734
[Amanda] I know
that it's really hard
to make it as an actor,
1002
01:04:14,734 --> 01:04:17,900
and, in the meantime,
he needs to make a living,
1003
01:04:17,900 --> 01:04:20,900
but I am a little bit insecure
1004
01:04:20,900 --> 01:04:24,166
about some of the things
that I may have to deal with.
1005
01:04:24,166 --> 01:04:28,233
I just saw the trailer
for that movie you did
1006
01:04:28,634 --> 01:04:29,800
and I did not like it.
1007
01:04:30,500 --> 01:04:31,734
[Razvan] You know...
1008
01:04:32,800 --> 01:04:34,867
-[Amanda] Oh,
so artistic. [laughs]
-[Razvan] Like...
1009
01:04:35,533 --> 01:04:37,066
[Jr. speaking indistinctly]
1010
01:04:38,367 --> 01:04:40,634
-Yes?
-[Jr. whispering]
1011
01:04:40,634 --> 01:04:42,533
[Amanda] No more candy,
you had enough candy.
1012
01:04:43,634 --> 01:04:46,233
Tell Razvan
what you think his job is.
1013
01:04:47,166 --> 01:04:49,000
[Jr. speaking]
1014
01:04:49,000 --> 01:04:51,000
-[laughing]
-[Razvan] Yeah,
this is why I'm so strong
1015
01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:52,166
and I have big muscles.
1016
01:04:52,700 --> 01:04:54,100
[Jr. speaking]
1017
01:04:54,100 --> 01:04:56,266
-[Amanda laughing]
-[Razvan] I have
bigger muscles than you.
1018
01:04:56,266 --> 01:04:57,533
[Jr. speaking]
1019
01:04:58,634 --> 01:04:59,533
[Razvan speaking]
1020
01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:05,000
In the future or...
1021
01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:07,700
How do you think...
1022
01:05:07,700 --> 01:05:12,467
Like, you will be as--
That other adult,
like, in their lives.
1023
01:05:12,467 --> 01:05:14,166
Like, do you think
you're ready for that?
1024
01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:23,800
Yeah, but it's not only about
playing with them, though.
1025
01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:26,800
You have to take care of them,
like, help them, guide them...
1026
01:05:26,800 --> 01:05:28,233
[Razvan] No, listen...
1027
01:05:42,467 --> 01:05:45,533
[Amanda] I think
Razvan and I do have
a future together
1028
01:05:45,533 --> 01:05:47,266
but it's confusing for me
1029
01:05:47,266 --> 01:05:51,367
because I've never
been with anyone
other than Jason.
1030
01:05:51,367 --> 01:05:54,266
I am looking for a person
that I can lean on
1031
01:05:54,266 --> 01:05:56,700
and that's there for me,
there for my children.
1032
01:05:56,700 --> 01:06:01,467
But there is still a lot
that I don't know
about Razvan and...
1033
01:06:01,467 --> 01:06:05,000
I just really hope
that he can be
the partner that I need
1034
01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:05,967
for me and the kids.
1035
01:06:14,266 --> 01:06:15,634
So, you don't know
if she's divorced?
1036
01:06:16,634 --> 01:06:19,867
Violet was lying
about her being divorced
1037
01:06:19,867 --> 01:06:21,600
at the time
we started talking.
1038
01:06:21,600 --> 01:06:25,533
She took it upon herself
to hide the truth from me.
1039
01:06:25,533 --> 01:06:26,967
And there's one other thing...
X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=MPEGTS:900000,LOCAL:00:00:00.000
1040
01:06:29,367 --> 01:06:30,634
["Reckless Boy" playing]
1041
01:06:38,266 --> 01:06:40,734
♪ Yeah, I was rich ♪
1042
01:06:40,734 --> 01:06:42,533
♪ But a random boy ♪
1043
01:06:43,634 --> 01:06:45,533
♪ A new city ♪
1044
01:06:46,367 --> 01:06:48,100
♪ I did enjoy ♪
1045
01:06:52,266 --> 01:06:54,533
[Riley] I'm leaving
for Vietnam in a few days
1046
01:06:54,533 --> 01:06:56,100
to meet my girlfriend, Violet.
1047
01:06:56,734 --> 01:06:58,066
She is funny,
1048
01:06:58,066 --> 01:07:01,066
she is absolutely stunning
1049
01:07:01,066 --> 01:07:03,266
and I can't believe,
after two years,
1050
01:07:03,266 --> 01:07:07,333
I'm finally able to go
and meet her
for the first time in person.
1051
01:07:13,066 --> 01:07:15,900
My friends, they are holding
a Juneteenth celebration.
1052
01:07:17,166 --> 01:07:20,967
So, I offered
to go over a little early
to help them set up.
1053
01:07:20,967 --> 01:07:22,533
[Shawn] What's up, boo?
1054
01:07:22,533 --> 01:07:24,100
[Tiffanie] You're here
for the Juneteenth?
1055
01:07:24,100 --> 01:07:25,266
-[Shawn] Juneteenth.
-[Tiffanie] Juneteenth.
1056
01:07:25,266 --> 01:07:26,734
[Shawn] You're late.
1057
01:07:26,734 --> 01:07:28,266
[Tiffanie] You're very late,
you're supposed
to help us with watering.
1058
01:07:28,266 --> 01:07:30,000
-[Riley] I have things to do.
-You got things to do?
1059
01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:31,367
-Oh!
-[Riley] It's all
fallin' down.
1060
01:07:31,367 --> 01:07:32,533
Thank you.
1061
01:07:32,533 --> 01:07:36,100
[Riley] I have known Shawn
for, about, 30 years
1062
01:07:36,100 --> 01:07:38,000
and I consider him
a big brother.
1063
01:07:38,734 --> 01:07:41,000
Tiffanie is Shawn's wife
1064
01:07:41,000 --> 01:07:44,467
and she is very vocal
about her feelings.
1065
01:07:45,266 --> 01:07:46,867
But they're my family
1066
01:07:46,867 --> 01:07:50,266
and their opinions
really do matter to me.
1067
01:07:51,166 --> 01:07:52,266
[Tiffanie] You're just
so busy?
1068
01:07:52,266 --> 01:07:54,533
[Riley] Yeah,
I'm just preparing
for the, the trip.
1069
01:07:54,533 --> 01:07:56,533
-[Tiffanie] You're
really going?
-Yeah.
1070
01:07:57,734 --> 01:08:00,867
I have really strong
feelings for her.
1071
01:08:00,867 --> 01:08:05,066
I, I'm going there
because I wanna meet her
in person, see if we click.
1072
01:08:05,066 --> 01:08:06,100
I don't see the big deal.
1073
01:08:06,100 --> 01:08:07,166
-[thuds]
-Even if--
1074
01:08:07,166 --> 01:08:08,367
-[Riley] Now, see that's--
-The ancestors just
1075
01:08:08,367 --> 01:08:09,967
-said that it's a big deal.
-[laughing]
1076
01:08:09,967 --> 01:08:11,967
The anc-- Look what
the ancestors just said.
1077
01:08:11,967 --> 01:08:13,367
[Shawn] Oh, shaka, laka, laka.
1078
01:08:13,367 --> 01:08:15,634
-[Shawn and Tiffanie laughing]
-The ancestors just said it.
1079
01:08:16,734 --> 01:08:19,266
Riley is very spontaneous.
1080
01:08:19,266 --> 01:08:22,000
Um, you never know
what you're gonna
get with him.
1081
01:08:22,000 --> 01:08:24,166
I mean, right after
the last girlfriend,
1082
01:08:24,166 --> 01:08:26,867
I mean, he, he goes
on a dating app
1083
01:08:26,867 --> 01:08:28,333
and he meets Violet
1084
01:08:29,500 --> 01:08:30,867
a week later.
1085
01:08:30,867 --> 01:08:32,734
-That's concerning,
that's concerning.
-That is concerning.
1086
01:08:33,867 --> 01:08:36,266
[Tiffanie] God forbid,
she breaks his heart,
1087
01:08:36,266 --> 01:08:39,800
this might be, like,
a nail in a coffin.
1088
01:08:40,467 --> 01:08:42,333
It's been, like,
almost two years.
1089
01:08:45,166 --> 01:08:46,867
-I mean, we built a rapport.
-You built what rapport?
1090
01:08:46,867 --> 01:08:48,233
-[Riley] I asked--
-Did you send her money?
1091
01:08:49,367 --> 01:08:50,533
No.
1092
01:08:50,533 --> 01:08:52,266
-Listen, I sent...
-Here we go, come on,
let it-- Hmm.
1093
01:08:52,266 --> 01:08:54,266
-...her daughter...
-[Tiffanie] Oh.
1094
01:08:54,266 --> 01:08:57,734
...$100 for her 16th birthday.
1095
01:08:57,734 --> 01:08:58,734
That's all I sent.
1096
01:08:58,734 --> 01:09:00,367
[Shawn] And how many,
how many kids she have?
1097
01:09:00,367 --> 01:09:02,266
-Two.
-You're going to step-father
1098
01:09:02,266 --> 01:09:05,634
-at this time?
You're ready for that?
-I feel that I am.
1099
01:09:07,266 --> 01:09:09,734
Violet has two daughters,
1100
01:09:09,734 --> 01:09:12,634
one is 20, the other is 16.
1101
01:09:12,634 --> 01:09:15,266
Violet and I have
spoke about marriage
1102
01:09:15,266 --> 01:09:18,367
and bringing her over here,
bringing her daughters
over here.
1103
01:09:18,367 --> 01:09:21,634
I actually have a great
relationship with them and...
1104
01:09:27,166 --> 01:09:28,166
[laughs]
1105
01:09:28,166 --> 01:09:30,533
-So, do you love her?
-[Riley] Yes.
1106
01:09:30,533 --> 01:09:32,800
It's just, I don't
like saying the word.
1107
01:09:33,467 --> 01:09:35,266
But I'm bringing a ring.
1108
01:09:35,634 --> 01:09:36,967
[Tiffanie] A ring?
1109
01:09:36,967 --> 01:09:39,166
It's more like a promise ring
1110
01:09:39,166 --> 01:09:43,166
because once I [stutters]
get all the answers I need
1111
01:09:43,166 --> 01:09:45,266
and we can get past
what we need to get past,
1112
01:09:45,266 --> 01:09:46,734
I think, she might be the one.
1113
01:09:46,734 --> 01:09:48,367
-Like, like what?
-[Tiffanie] So, like, what?
1114
01:09:50,967 --> 01:09:51,900
[Riley] Uh, for example...
1115
01:09:55,634 --> 01:09:57,500
So, you don't know
if she's divorced?
1116
01:09:57,500 --> 01:10:00,266
She told me later,
like, three months in,
1117
01:10:00,266 --> 01:10:04,066
that, "Oh, by the way,
my divorce
was just finalized."
1118
01:10:04,066 --> 01:10:06,533
But it was three months in,
after I asked her
multiple times.
1119
01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:12,266
Violet was lying
about her being divorced
1120
01:10:12,266 --> 01:10:14,266
at the time
we started talking.
1121
01:10:14,266 --> 01:10:17,867
I asked very direct questions
1122
01:10:17,867 --> 01:10:21,634
and she took it upon herself
to hide the truth from me
1123
01:10:21,634 --> 01:10:23,734
and that's what my concern is.
1124
01:10:23,734 --> 01:10:26,266
And there's one
other thing, like,
1125
01:10:26,266 --> 01:10:29,367
she was so adamant
that I come off the dating app
1126
01:10:29,634 --> 01:10:30,867
and I did it
1127
01:10:30,867 --> 01:10:32,500
and when this
whole thing blew up,
1128
01:10:32,500 --> 01:10:35,100
I went just to check
and see if she was still on it
and she was.
1129
01:10:36,100 --> 01:10:37,867
[Riley] I, I--
1130
01:10:37,867 --> 01:10:39,634
[Tiffanie] So, what did
she say about the fact
1131
01:10:39,634 --> 01:10:41,066
that you saw her
still on the app?
1132
01:10:41,066 --> 01:10:42,634
-[Riley] She said--
-She probably said
why were you looking, right?
1133
01:10:42,634 --> 01:10:44,367
'Cause you're supposed to be
off that, but anyway...
1134
01:10:44,367 --> 01:10:46,100
What did she say?
That's what she said?
1135
01:10:46,100 --> 01:10:47,166
-She said that.
-[Tiffanie] See,
that's the game.
1136
01:10:47,166 --> 01:10:49,634
That is the game, man.
1137
01:10:49,634 --> 01:10:52,367
[Riley] After I found out
that Violet was still
on the dating app,
1138
01:10:52,367 --> 01:10:55,467
we hit a really rough patch,
just arguing a lot.
1139
01:10:56,367 --> 01:10:59,000
And even though
we did resolve these things,
1140
01:10:59,000 --> 01:11:04,467
there's still that little bit
in me that I'm just
not sure I believe her.
1141
01:11:04,467 --> 01:11:07,367
But, at the end of the day,
I put that all aside,
1142
01:11:07,367 --> 01:11:10,266
I chalk it up
to miscommunication,
1143
01:11:10,266 --> 01:11:13,734
or cultural misunderstandings.
1144
01:11:13,734 --> 01:11:18,367
I, I know you guys love me
and you have concerns,
if she's worth it,
1145
01:11:18,367 --> 01:11:21,900
but I really believe
that she can be the one.
1146
01:11:23,734 --> 01:11:28,166
I've been through a lot
in the last four, five years
1147
01:11:28,166 --> 01:11:33,734
and, to me, Violet represents
the possibility
of building something great.
1148
01:11:33,734 --> 01:11:36,266
So, if I fly
half-way around the world
1149
01:11:36,266 --> 01:11:39,100
and find out that I was wrong
about everything,
1150
01:11:39,734 --> 01:11:41,066
I'll be broken.
1151
01:11:41,734 --> 01:11:42,634
[Shawn] I just hope you know
1152
01:11:42,634 --> 01:11:44,367
-what you're doing, man.
-I really do, too.
1153
01:11:48,634 --> 01:11:49,800
I have good news...
1154
01:11:52,967 --> 01:11:54,467
-[laughing]
-[Dane] Fantastic.
1155
01:11:54,467 --> 01:11:58,333
So, will it be awkward,
you know, if I bump into Gino?
1156
01:11:59,066 --> 01:12:00,533
[Jasmine speaking]
1157
01:12:01,967 --> 01:12:04,000
He's the last person
I dated...
X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=MPEGTS:900000,LOCAL:00:00:00.000
1158
01:12:22,800 --> 01:12:26,734
[Jasmine] Yesterday,
my sister, Liz, and I moved
into a new apartment.
1159
01:12:30,367 --> 01:12:32,433
Finally, Gino agreed
to pay for...
1160
01:12:35,800 --> 01:12:38,900
But I didn't tell Gino
how I found the place.
1161
01:12:40,800 --> 01:12:42,066
[both laughing] Hi.
1162
01:12:42,634 --> 01:12:44,000
How are you?
1163
01:12:44,000 --> 01:12:45,734
-[Jasmine] How are you?
-Good, good to see you.
1164
01:12:45,734 --> 01:12:48,367
-[Jasmine] Yes,
you always look so good.
-[Dane] How have you been?
1165
01:12:48,367 --> 01:12:50,533
You look fantastic as well,
love the nails.
1166
01:12:50,533 --> 01:12:51,900
[laughing]
1167
01:12:53,367 --> 01:12:54,900
[Jasmine speaking]
1168
01:13:00,800 --> 01:13:05,433
Um, he's handsome, he's rich,
I mean [laughs]
he has so many good qualities.
1169
01:13:06,100 --> 01:13:07,367
I have good news.
1170
01:13:07,367 --> 01:13:08,734
-Tell me, please.
-Because...
1171
01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:14,900
-[laughing]
-[Dane] Fantastic.
1172
01:13:14,900 --> 01:13:16,533
I'm excited,
we're gonna be neighbors.
1173
01:13:16,533 --> 01:13:17,867
-[Jasmine] Right?
-That'd be good.
1174
01:13:17,867 --> 01:13:20,266
-Yeah.
-We can cook together.
1175
01:13:20,266 --> 01:13:21,533
Yeah, or you can
teach me to cook.
1176
01:13:21,533 --> 01:13:22,900
-[laughing]
-[Dane] Um...
1177
01:13:23,734 --> 01:13:24,734
How have you been?
1178
01:13:25,533 --> 01:13:28,266
Uh, very busy and stressed.
1179
01:13:28,266 --> 01:13:29,900
That, you know,
my fiance is, you know,
1180
01:13:29,900 --> 01:13:32,734
-is coming in a few days.
-Yeah.
1181
01:13:32,734 --> 01:13:34,800
And, um...
1182
01:13:34,800 --> 01:13:37,900
So, does that mean
that Gino will be living
in the building as well?
1183
01:13:37,900 --> 01:13:41,467
Yes, for three weeks,
we're gonna be all neighbors.
1184
01:13:41,467 --> 01:13:44,500
-[laughing]
Happy neighborhood.
-Wow.
1185
01:13:44,500 --> 01:13:48,233
So, will it be awkward,
you know,
if I bump into him there?
1186
01:13:50,467 --> 01:13:51,634
Um...
1187
01:13:55,500 --> 01:13:56,634
[Jasmine speaking]
1188
01:13:58,266 --> 01:14:01,333
He is the last person
I dated before Gino.
1189
01:14:02,467 --> 01:14:06,000
We were together
just for a short period
of, of time
1190
01:14:06,000 --> 01:14:09,166
and Dane is a good guy
and he's handsome.
1191
01:14:13,100 --> 01:14:17,433
I need someone
that is gonna give me
that fire, you know?
1192
01:14:23,266 --> 01:14:26,266
We stayed friends
since the break up
1193
01:14:26,266 --> 01:14:29,066
but Gino doesn't know
anything about Dane.
1194
01:14:32,000 --> 01:14:34,166
It's not that we are doing
anything wrong,
1195
01:14:34,166 --> 01:14:36,467
-I mean, we are just
two friends.
-Yeah.
1196
01:14:36,467 --> 01:14:37,367
[Jasmine] But...
1197
01:14:39,467 --> 01:14:41,900
Because the thing is,
like, you know, like...
1198
01:14:46,734 --> 01:14:49,000
-[Dane] Sure.
-[Jasmine] And last year...
1199
01:14:49,000 --> 01:14:51,734
-Yeah.
-...he did something
very bad to me.
1200
01:14:51,734 --> 01:14:56,000
-I sent him,
because I trusted...
-[Dane] Yeah.
1201
01:14:56,000 --> 01:14:59,533
...some topless
pictures of me.
1202
01:14:59,533 --> 01:15:00,600
Sure.
1203
01:15:00,600 --> 01:15:05,800
And he sent those
to his ex-girlfriend
1204
01:15:05,800 --> 01:15:06,900
to make her jealous.
1205
01:15:08,000 --> 01:15:08,967
Wow.
1206
01:15:12,367 --> 01:15:13,333
[Dane] Yeah.
1207
01:15:18,166 --> 01:15:19,233
[Jasmine] Like...
1208
01:15:21,367 --> 01:15:25,000
Losing my job
was a big blow for me
1209
01:15:25,000 --> 01:15:29,333
because being a teacher
was a huge part
of my identity.
1210
01:15:31,000 --> 01:15:35,500
But now with our livelihood
and just me waiting
for this visa,
1211
01:15:35,500 --> 01:15:37,867
I feel like I totally
depend on Gino
1212
01:15:37,867 --> 01:15:41,333
and that really makes
me feel stuck in life,
in everything.
1213
01:15:42,266 --> 01:15:43,433
Yeah, I only...
1214
01:15:44,467 --> 01:15:46,900
You have no idea, like,
the arguments that we have.
1215
01:15:46,900 --> 01:15:49,634
Well, it's a terrible thing
to do, I don't know
what to say.
1216
01:15:49,634 --> 01:15:51,100
How did you get through it?
1217
01:15:51,100 --> 01:15:52,066
[Jasmine] I haven't...
1218
01:15:53,900 --> 01:15:54,800
Yeah.
1219
01:15:54,800 --> 01:15:55,800
[Jasmine speaking]
1220
01:15:56,800 --> 01:15:58,900
But I am devoted, babe.
1221
01:15:58,900 --> 01:16:00,467
-[Dane] Yeah.
-When I love someone,
1222
01:16:00,900 --> 01:16:02,533
I, I love hard.
1223
01:16:05,266 --> 01:16:09,467
I don't... I don't mean this
personally about Gino
'cause I don't know him but...
1224
01:16:09,467 --> 01:16:13,266
You don't wanna, kind of,
force anything,
I don't think, like.
1225
01:16:13,266 --> 01:16:15,734
If you're gonna spend
your life together,
that's a long time.
1226
01:16:16,533 --> 01:16:18,166
I don't know,
I think you're fantastic,
1227
01:16:18,166 --> 01:16:19,900
any man
would be lucky to have you.
1228
01:16:21,600 --> 01:16:22,533
So...
1229
01:16:23,266 --> 01:16:25,467
You know,
don't settle for something
1230
01:16:25,467 --> 01:16:28,467
that's not up to
what you want for yourself.
1231
01:16:36,000 --> 01:16:37,600
I'm nervous for her.
1232
01:16:37,600 --> 01:16:40,266
[Amber] I just hope
she knows the difference
1233
01:16:40,266 --> 01:16:43,800
between filling a void
and what's real.
1234
01:16:43,800 --> 01:16:45,333
I'm just, like, nervous.
1235
01:16:49,367 --> 01:16:50,333
[laughing]
X-TIMESTAMP-MAP=MPEGTS:900000,LOCAL:00:00:00.000
1236
01:17:02,900 --> 01:17:05,367
[Amanda in a sing-song voice]
1237
01:17:07,266 --> 01:17:09,367
-No.
-No? [chuckles]
1238
01:17:09,367 --> 01:17:12,533
Well, we got to,
Mommy's gonna leave today.
1239
01:17:13,166 --> 01:17:14,967
I know.
1240
01:17:14,967 --> 01:17:18,266
[Amanda] I'm finally
leaving today, to meet Razvan,
1241
01:17:18,266 --> 01:17:20,166
I have butterflies,
1242
01:17:20,166 --> 01:17:24,066
I have palm sweat,
armpit sweat, [laughs]
1243
01:17:24,066 --> 01:17:26,233
everything, I am so excited.
1244
01:17:27,266 --> 01:17:31,533
I am getting
some things for my kids,
1245
01:17:31,533 --> 01:17:32,800
a little stuffed animal...
1246
01:17:35,066 --> 01:17:38,066
I got them little cards.
1247
01:17:38,066 --> 01:17:39,467
I put in here a little...
1248
01:17:50,734 --> 01:17:53,100
So, we all, like,
have three that go together.
1249
01:17:55,634 --> 01:17:59,367
This will be the first time
that I will be away
from my children
1250
01:17:59,367 --> 01:18:00,800
since their Dad
has passed away.
1251
01:18:01,734 --> 01:18:02,867
Hey, come here, I'll hold you.
1252
01:18:02,867 --> 01:18:05,734
And I just want them to know
that I love them
1253
01:18:05,734 --> 01:18:07,533
and I'm gonna miss them.
1254
01:18:09,066 --> 01:18:10,533
[Amanda] A little doggy.
1255
01:18:12,634 --> 01:18:13,634
You're welcome.
1256
01:18:13,634 --> 01:18:16,266
Oh, I'm gonna miss you
too much. [kisses]
1257
01:18:16,266 --> 01:18:17,266
[Jr. speaking]
1258
01:18:18,266 --> 01:18:22,166
Yeah, look, they go together,
like a family.
1259
01:18:22,166 --> 01:18:24,166
This one's Aleena's,
1260
01:18:24,166 --> 01:18:25,634
Momma's
1261
01:18:25,634 --> 01:18:26,900
and yours.
1262
01:18:28,734 --> 01:18:30,734
Aw, look how nice.
1263
01:18:32,166 --> 01:18:33,634
I love it.
1264
01:18:33,634 --> 01:18:34,533
[kisses]
1265
01:18:37,533 --> 01:18:39,800
-[Amanda] Amber, you ready?
-[Amber] Yeah.
1266
01:18:40,367 --> 01:18:42,166
I got it, you go ahead.
1267
01:18:42,166 --> 01:18:44,367
My sister is taking me
to the airport today
1268
01:18:44,367 --> 01:18:46,166
and we're meeting
my aunt there
1269
01:18:46,166 --> 01:18:48,100
so my kids can go
back home with her.
1270
01:18:48,100 --> 01:18:49,533
[Amanda] Get buckled up.
1271
01:18:49,533 --> 01:18:52,266
[Amanda] I don't think
that it hit me up until now
1272
01:18:52,266 --> 01:18:56,100
how hard it is gonna be
to leave them.
1273
01:18:56,100 --> 01:19:01,266
But, in life, you don't get
this love very often,
1274
01:19:01,266 --> 01:19:05,000
so, I would be a fool
to not open my heart to it
and take the chance.
1275
01:19:08,367 --> 01:19:09,367
[Amanda chuckles]
1276
01:19:09,967 --> 01:19:11,433
[Aleena] Mom, let's go!
1277
01:19:16,367 --> 01:19:18,100
[Amanda] We are going to...
1278
01:19:20,500 --> 01:19:23,333
There's, like, some castles.
1279
01:19:26,166 --> 01:19:27,233
Okay!
1280
01:19:27,634 --> 01:19:29,467
Well, I'm excited for you.
1281
01:19:30,533 --> 01:19:35,367
Yeah, but I don't know
what to expect though.
1282
01:19:35,367 --> 01:19:37,000
I'm just, like, nervous.
1283
01:19:43,166 --> 01:19:44,233
[Amanda] Uh...
1284
01:19:44,967 --> 01:19:47,800
I will just, like,
sleep on the couch.
1285
01:19:49,533 --> 01:19:50,734
[Amanda chuckling]
1286
01:19:50,734 --> 01:19:52,533
-Where did that come from?
-[Amanda chuckling]
I don't know.
1287
01:19:53,533 --> 01:19:58,166
With Jr. and Aleena
losing their father,
1288
01:19:58,166 --> 01:20:02,000
that makes the stakes
that much higher
1289
01:20:02,000 --> 01:20:06,533
on making sure
that the next man
that comes into our lives...
1290
01:20:09,634 --> 01:20:12,800
will [voice shaking]
not leave.
1291
01:20:13,967 --> 01:20:15,634
And he's the right one.
1292
01:20:20,533 --> 01:20:22,467
[gasps] Oh, my gosh!
1293
01:20:26,734 --> 01:20:27,734
[Amanda speaking]
1294
01:20:28,634 --> 01:20:30,266
[Aleena] Hey, give me that!
1295
01:20:32,533 --> 01:20:36,166
I'm nervous for her,
it's, it's a long trip.
1296
01:20:36,166 --> 01:20:39,533
It could be
the fairytale ending
that she's hoping it'll be,
1297
01:20:39,533 --> 01:20:42,166
you know,
the happily ever after, but...
1298
01:20:42,166 --> 01:20:45,500
I just hope she knows
the difference
1299
01:20:45,500 --> 01:20:49,233
between filling a void
and what's real.
1300
01:20:53,867 --> 01:20:55,000
Give Mommy a hug.
1301
01:20:55,967 --> 01:20:57,467
Oh!
1302
01:20:57,467 --> 01:20:59,233
[Amanda] Mommy's
gonna miss you so much.
1303
01:21:11,467 --> 01:21:15,166
♪ I just need a little bit
more of your love ♪
1304
01:21:15,166 --> 01:21:16,800
Bye, I love you!
1305
01:21:19,634 --> 01:21:24,000
♪ I just need a little bit
more of your love ♪
1306
01:21:24,000 --> 01:21:27,233
[Amanda] This past year
without my husband
1307
01:21:27,634 --> 01:21:30,100
has been really difficult.
1308
01:21:31,166 --> 01:21:34,734
Some people may feel
that it's too soon
1309
01:21:34,734 --> 01:21:37,634
for me to start dating
someone else.
1310
01:21:37,634 --> 01:21:40,166
But I'm gonna embrace love
1311
01:21:40,166 --> 01:21:45,166
and embrace this special guy
that God has brought
into my life.
1312
01:21:45,166 --> 01:21:48,467
♪ Can't help myself ♪
1313
01:21:48,467 --> 01:21:53,066
[Amanda] I'm opening myself
up to Razvan and it's scary
1314
01:21:53,066 --> 01:21:56,533
because what if he's not
the person that he shows me,
1315
01:21:56,533 --> 01:22:00,066
you know,
through the phone, what if
he's totally different?
1316
01:22:00,066 --> 01:22:04,100
I don't know if I could
mentally or emotionally
recover from that.
1317
01:22:05,166 --> 01:22:06,900
♪ Yeah ♪
1318
01:22:28,166 --> 01:22:29,467
[Tyray] Hello. [titters]
1319
01:22:38,867 --> 01:22:39,800
[Tyray] Oh, okay.
1320
01:22:46,734 --> 01:22:48,900
-Here you go.
-Oh, thank you.
1321
01:22:54,066 --> 01:22:58,100
Tyray, we've learned some
information about Carmella
that we need to let you know.
1322
01:22:58,634 --> 01:22:59,634
Okay.
1323
01:23:00,166 --> 01:23:01,867
[David] After
we talk about this,
1324
01:23:01,867 --> 01:23:06,166
if you decide
that you don't
wanna keep filming,
1325
01:23:06,166 --> 01:23:09,000
let me know and, also,
if you decide after we talk
1326
01:23:09,000 --> 01:23:11,967
that you don't want us to use
any of the footage
1327
01:23:11,967 --> 01:23:14,367
that we've already filmed,
that's okay, just let me know.
1328
01:23:14,367 --> 01:23:15,367
-Okay.
-[David] Okay.
1329
01:23:16,066 --> 01:23:17,500
[David] Um...
1330
01:23:18,467 --> 01:23:22,266
We've learned Carmella
has not been honest with you
about who she is.
1331
01:23:24,967 --> 01:23:25,867
Like, about what?
1332
01:23:28,967 --> 01:23:32,166
[David] The person
you've been messaging with
1333
01:23:32,166 --> 01:23:34,634
for the last
several years,
1334
01:23:34,634 --> 01:23:37,800
is not the same woman
in the pictures and videos.
1335
01:23:39,166 --> 01:23:40,266
Like, at all, like...
1336
01:23:41,266 --> 01:23:42,800
Do you guys know
who it is or, like, is it...
1337
01:23:43,634 --> 01:23:44,867
There's a lot
that we don't know
1338
01:23:44,867 --> 01:23:47,900
but after you gave
us Carmella's number,
we reached out
1339
01:23:47,900 --> 01:23:51,333
and it took a while
but, eventually,
we made contact.
1340
01:23:52,533 --> 01:23:54,166
We talked to them for a bit
1341
01:23:54,166 --> 01:23:57,266
and the person admitted
that they're not
1342
01:23:57,266 --> 01:23:58,800
who they've been telling you
that they are.
1343
01:24:00,166 --> 01:24:04,000
So, the person
you've been match--
messaging with...
1344
01:24:05,867 --> 01:24:06,734
is a man.
1345
01:24:08,367 --> 01:24:09,367
Wow.
1346
01:24:12,066 --> 01:24:13,100
[David] I'm sorry.
1347
01:24:16,367 --> 01:24:19,266
[narrator] This season on
Before the 90 Days...
1348
01:24:19,266 --> 01:24:22,266
You've been a bad,
bad girl.
1349
01:24:22,266 --> 01:24:25,266
-[laughing]
-Bad girl.
You will do as I say.
1350
01:24:25,266 --> 01:24:26,367
[exclaims]
1351
01:24:27,500 --> 01:24:29,166
-[Razvan] Get ready...
-[laughing] Oh, God.
1352
01:24:29,533 --> 01:24:30,900
...'cause I'm ready.
1353
01:24:32,367 --> 01:24:33,800
[Sheila speaking]
1354
01:24:35,367 --> 01:24:36,467
[automated voice speaking]
1355
01:24:37,734 --> 01:24:39,100
[Sheila speaking]
1356
01:24:41,000 --> 01:24:42,734
[automated voice speaking]
1357
01:24:43,734 --> 01:24:44,734
[both laughing]
1358
01:24:46,166 --> 01:24:47,367
[gasps] What is that?
1359
01:24:47,367 --> 01:24:51,166
My name is Statler,
and I live in Irving, Texas.
1360
01:24:51,166 --> 01:24:54,000
No, that was weird.
Sorry, that...
I don't know what I'm doing.
1361
01:24:54,000 --> 01:24:55,967
Okay. [clears throat]
[blows raspberry]
1362
01:24:55,967 --> 01:24:58,166
I'm into girls
with an English accent.
1363
01:24:58,166 --> 01:25:00,634
[with English accent]
'Cause it's so freakin' hot,
innit?
1364
01:25:00,634 --> 01:25:02,066
Hi babe.
1365
01:25:02,066 --> 01:25:04,634
[Statler] And now,
after seven months of talking,
1366
01:25:04,634 --> 01:25:07,634
I'm flying to England
to meet my girlfriend,
Dempsey.
1367
01:25:07,634 --> 01:25:10,266
And if all goes well,
then I'll just move there.
1368
01:25:12,967 --> 01:25:14,100
She's not aware.
1369
01:25:14,533 --> 01:25:15,734
[chuckles nervously]
1370
01:25:16,867 --> 01:25:19,367
[Meisha] Nicola and I
are both devout Catholics.
1371
01:25:19,367 --> 01:25:21,967
But his family might not
approve of me
1372
01:25:21,967 --> 01:25:24,367
because of my past.
1373
01:25:24,367 --> 01:25:27,166
You haven't told them
that I'm here in Israel?
1374
01:25:27,166 --> 01:25:28,734
No. They're not going to
like you...
1375
01:25:31,166 --> 01:25:32,533
Do they know that I exist?
1376
01:25:34,900 --> 01:25:38,100
People would describe me
as the life of the party,
for sure.
1377
01:25:38,100 --> 01:25:41,867
But I'm really look for
somebody that I wanna spend
the rest of my life with.
1378
01:25:41,867 --> 01:25:45,533
And even though I've never
met her before, with Cleo,
I may have found that.
1379
01:25:45,533 --> 01:25:49,734
But she is really different
from women that I've dated
in the past.
1380
01:25:49,734 --> 01:25:50,967
You wanna come closer?
1381
01:25:50,967 --> 01:25:53,500
I just can't.
There's too many people.
1382
01:25:53,500 --> 01:25:55,900
It's not about me being shy.
1383
01:25:59,367 --> 01:26:00,700
[Tyray speaking]
1384
01:26:02,367 --> 01:26:05,533
I'm just desperate
to meet this person,
but what if
1385
01:26:05,533 --> 01:26:06,634
they don't show up?
1386
01:26:11,166 --> 01:26:12,266
[Sheila speaking]
1387
01:26:25,867 --> 01:26:26,900
[crying]
1388
01:26:26,900 --> 01:26:28,900
She called me
a manipulator, psychopath.
1389
01:26:30,000 --> 01:26:31,734
For my own mental health,
I can't go on like this.
1390
01:26:32,967 --> 01:26:33,734
[crying]
1391
01:26:34,500 --> 01:26:36,266
Do not talk down to me.
1392
01:26:38,000 --> 01:26:38,800
Okay, beat it.
1393
01:26:40,066 --> 01:26:42,100
Bye! I'm done.
1394
01:26:47,266 --> 01:26:49,000
Get out of my house!
1395
01:26:58,533 --> 01:26:59,967
[crying]