1 00:00:00,586 --> 00:00:01,517 I can't see. 2 00:00:01,517 --> 00:00:03,241 [narrator] Previously on OutDaughtered... 3 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:07,379 [all screaming] 4 00:00:07,379 --> 00:00:08,620 All right! I'm out. 5 00:00:08,620 --> 00:00:10,689 How's it been finding a helper? Have you had any luck? 6 00:00:10,689 --> 00:00:12,827 I mean we've done a couple of interviews 7 00:00:12,827 --> 00:00:16,206 I'm looking to hire someone to multitask 8 00:00:16,206 --> 00:00:19,068 making lunches, helping with homework cleaning the house 9 00:00:19,068 --> 00:00:22,241 washing towels and sheets and cleaning the bathrooms. 10 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:24,965 Yeah. 11 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:27,034 Hi. 12 00:00:29,103 --> 00:00:30,068 Same. 13 00:00:30,068 --> 00:00:32,827 I met Mandi through an online moms group 14 00:00:32,827 --> 00:00:35,310 and she's got twins and triplets. 15 00:00:35,310 --> 00:00:37,689 And so we thought it might be fun to just connect. 16 00:00:37,689 --> 00:00:40,827 I can't really relate to my best friends. 17 00:00:40,827 --> 00:00:44,689 I mean I would love to start some type of, Iike, multiples moms group. 18 00:00:49,103 --> 00:00:52,172 Does anybody know what percent of marriages fail 19 00:00:52,172 --> 00:00:53,586 because of communication issues? 20 00:00:53,586 --> 00:00:55,379 -A lot. -98% 21 00:00:56,206 --> 00:00:59,000 Communication is the toughest thing 22 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:01,275 that our marriage probably deals with. 23 00:01:01,275 --> 00:01:03,482 I get frustrated 24 00:01:03,482 --> 00:01:06,931 when I'm physically and mentally struggling. 25 00:01:06,931 --> 00:01:09,275 I still have to have the weight of him saying 26 00:01:09,275 --> 00:01:10,482 "Oh, well, I did more than you." 27 00:01:10,482 --> 00:01:12,000 And that makes me want to punch the wall. 28 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:14,137 Have either of you ever considered going to therapy? 29 00:01:14,931 --> 00:01:17,793 I scheduled a therapist appointment. 30 00:01:17,793 --> 00:01:20,827 Therapist appointment, for what? 31 00:01:20,827 --> 00:01:21,896 Growing up or whatever, us three, 32 00:01:21,896 --> 00:01:23,896 we've never really talked about our feelings. 33 00:01:23,896 --> 00:01:27,620 I just know that I don't want to keep feeling like this, like... 34 00:01:27,620 --> 00:01:28,758 [groans] 35 00:01:32,620 --> 00:01:34,586 [upbeat music playing] 36 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:43,793 This place looks fun. 37 00:01:43,793 --> 00:01:46,965 Hey, remember, we use manners. 38 00:01:49,103 --> 00:01:51,689 Look. I see a bunch of people that look alike over there. 39 00:01:51,689 --> 00:01:54,378 They're like look, look, look. Hi, I'm Danielle. 40 00:01:54,378 --> 00:01:56,103 -Nice to meet you. Finally, oh my God. -Yeah. 41 00:01:56,103 --> 00:01:57,758 Hey, girls! 42 00:02:04,206 --> 00:02:07,068 -And Mandi! -Hello, I'm Mandi! 43 00:02:07,068 --> 00:02:08,482 Hey! 44 00:02:08,482 --> 00:02:11,206 So today we're gonna meet up with some other families of multiples. 45 00:02:11,206 --> 00:02:12,931 We've talked on social media 46 00:02:12,931 --> 00:02:15,000 but this will be our first time, like, meeting in person. 47 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:18,172 And it just so happened to be a day where we could meet. 48 00:02:18,172 --> 00:02:20,413 So it-- I just think we're gonna have a total blast together. 49 00:02:20,413 --> 00:02:23,068 These two are identical so they look more alike. 50 00:02:23,068 --> 00:02:24,241 [Riley] I don't see it. 51 00:02:28,379 --> 00:02:29,758 Kylie... 52 00:02:37,689 --> 00:02:39,862 Which one are y'all gonna go on first? 53 00:02:53,379 --> 00:02:55,896 -He's usually outgoing. -Boom. 54 00:02:55,896 --> 00:02:58,344 -This one's a little more timid. -Boom. 55 00:02:59,172 --> 00:03:00,793 Okay, I think we have to get socks. 56 00:03:00,793 --> 00:03:02,275 -Y'all want to go slide? -Yes. 57 00:03:02,275 --> 00:03:04,000 -Yes. -Yes. 58 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:05,896 Y'all take the kids, go get socks. 59 00:03:05,896 --> 00:03:07,793 We're going to take the babies over here. 60 00:03:07,793 --> 00:03:09,068 We gotta go get socks. 61 00:03:09,068 --> 00:03:10,517 -[indistinct] -Oh, yeah. 62 00:03:10,517 --> 00:03:14,103 I'm Danny Oldini This is my wife Mandi Oldini. 63 00:03:14,103 --> 00:03:15,896 We're from New Braunfels, Texas, 64 00:03:15,896 --> 00:03:18,137 and we have 4-year-old twin boys. 65 00:03:20,482 --> 00:03:23,482 And a year and a half old triplets, two boys and a girl. 66 00:03:23,482 --> 00:03:27,689 Blayke, our oldest. They're like little ducks that follow Blayke around. 67 00:03:27,689 --> 00:03:29,413 I need that and I don't have that. 68 00:03:29,413 --> 00:03:32,482 -So I'm Brittani Marshall. This is my husband. -Jason. 69 00:03:32,482 --> 00:03:34,000 And we live in Austin, Texas. 70 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:36,379 We have 9-year-old quadruple daughters. 71 00:03:40,586 --> 00:03:42,379 It was like, so like freeing. 72 00:03:42,379 --> 00:03:44,896 Like you could totally let your guard down 73 00:03:44,896 --> 00:03:46,413 around these people 74 00:03:46,413 --> 00:03:49,275 because like, they completely understand. 75 00:03:49,275 --> 00:03:52,206 But I also loved getting to just see babies 76 00:03:52,206 --> 00:03:53,551 and hold them and they're so cute. 77 00:03:55,067 --> 00:03:56,793 [indistinct chatter] 78 00:03:56,793 --> 00:03:58,620 -Okay. -He's okay. 79 00:03:58,620 --> 00:04:01,689 Yeah, I miss this little cute little age. 80 00:04:01,689 --> 00:04:04,068 This feels like so long ago to me. 81 00:04:04,068 --> 00:04:05,482 Oh, my gosh, me too. 82 00:04:05,482 --> 00:04:08,827 Like I want another one sometimes and then I... 83 00:04:08,827 --> 00:04:11,517 -Then you think, "Wait I might get fours." -Back to reality. 84 00:04:11,517 --> 00:04:13,275 I'm like, yeah, actually no, scratch that. 85 00:04:13,275 --> 00:04:14,310 And you're done? 86 00:04:14,310 --> 00:04:16,103 Oh, yeah. Done. 87 00:04:16,103 --> 00:04:17,241 After triplets... 88 00:04:17,241 --> 00:04:20,481 -Yeah. We've got Mandi's tubes removed, so... -Okay. 89 00:04:20,481 --> 00:04:22,344 -What about y'all? -Uh... 90 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:24,724 My wife worked in medical sales 91 00:04:24,724 --> 00:04:27,793 so she sat in the room with me while they were doing the prep. 92 00:04:27,793 --> 00:04:29,689 I actually got to snip Jason myself. 93 00:04:29,689 --> 00:04:32,482 -What? -Vasectomy, yeah. 94 00:04:32,482 --> 00:04:33,724 -So I... -That's exciting. 95 00:04:33,724 --> 00:04:36,482 I was like, this is the best day of my whole entire Life. 96 00:04:36,482 --> 00:04:39,103 They're talkIng while he's down there cutting. 97 00:04:39,103 --> 00:04:42,275 I see him turn around to her and he's like "Would you like the honors?" 98 00:04:42,275 --> 00:04:43,793 [Danny] That's some trust right there. 99 00:04:43,793 --> 00:04:46,482 You know, it's a given, we've all had vasectomies. 100 00:04:46,482 --> 00:04:50,965 But here In Jason's story where his wife actually... 101 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,137 Uh... [laughs] Helped. 102 00:04:55,586 --> 00:04:56,793 Wow. 103 00:04:56,793 --> 00:04:59,482 So I know that obviously... 104 00:04:59,482 --> 00:05:01,896 I'm not laughIng at you, 105 00:05:01,896 --> 00:05:04,275 but I'm just like, because I remember this phase 106 00:05:04,275 --> 00:05:06,068 and then it was like, I had two more. 107 00:05:07,793 --> 00:05:09,620 Here, mommy. 108 00:05:09,620 --> 00:05:11,241 Cheese, Mommy. 109 00:05:12,275 --> 00:05:15,000 Lulu's going night-night. Y'all gotten tired? 110 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:16,758 -No. -No? 111 00:05:18,379 --> 00:05:19,689 Night night. 112 00:05:21,896 --> 00:05:24,551 Hey, Ava--Olivia. Whoever you are. 113 00:05:25,689 --> 00:05:28,000 I love that you say whoever you are too. 114 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:30,275 [Mandi] So what's it like having kids in school? 115 00:05:30,275 --> 00:05:32,586 And like, how do you spend time with all of them 116 00:05:32,586 --> 00:05:34,379 and help them with their homework? 117 00:05:34,379 --> 00:05:36,275 [Brittani] I think it's always a work in progress. 118 00:05:36,275 --> 00:05:37,586 I try to make them come home, 119 00:05:37,586 --> 00:05:39,206 sit down, get all their homework done. 120 00:05:39,206 --> 00:05:42,482 [Danielle] But it's super challenging with five girls. 121 00:05:42,482 --> 00:05:44,310 Because they're all learning differently 122 00:05:44,310 --> 00:05:46,586 and I don't know what she's on and what she's on 123 00:05:46,586 --> 00:05:47,517 and how she does It. 124 00:05:47,517 --> 00:05:49,482 So it gets harder, believe me. 125 00:05:55,275 --> 00:05:59,068 It's been harder and harder as I'm busier with work, 126 00:05:59,068 --> 00:06:00,724 -she's busier with work. -Right. 127 00:06:00,724 --> 00:06:04,068 And so like, we're actually interviewing people to bring in. 128 00:06:04,068 --> 00:06:06,689 -Hopefully we find that very soon. -Yeah. 129 00:06:06,689 --> 00:06:09,793 This next week we've got another interview set up 130 00:06:09,793 --> 00:06:13,482 for you know people to come in and help us out with the housework, 131 00:06:13,482 --> 00:06:14,482 the kids stuff... 132 00:06:14,482 --> 00:06:17,724 And so you know, hopefully it all works out 133 00:06:17,724 --> 00:06:21,000 because we've never encountered just busy, 134 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:24,103 like the busy that we're in the middle of right now. 135 00:06:24,103 --> 00:06:27,103 So like, I know we're getting close to the holidays 136 00:06:27,103 --> 00:06:30,896 and this year we're kind of planning a big surprise for the kids. 137 00:06:30,896 --> 00:06:34,000 It's something they haven't really done before. 138 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:37,827 So we've got this magical winter lights that's over here in Houston. 139 00:06:37,827 --> 00:06:40,172 So, we're gonna go to that and surprise them. 140 00:06:40,172 --> 00:06:41,482 -That's cool. -Kids are gonna be super... 141 00:06:41,482 --> 00:06:43,103 -Yeah, that's really cool. -...super excited about it. 142 00:06:43,103 --> 00:06:44,586 [Jason] Awesome. 143 00:06:44,586 --> 00:06:46,413 [Adam] I had a blast meeting these other parents with multiples. 144 00:06:46,413 --> 00:06:49,413 I mean, you know, I was more concerned that like, 145 00:06:49,413 --> 00:06:53,275 okay this is just like one more thing added to our list of things 146 00:06:53,275 --> 00:06:54,931 that got to get done this week. 147 00:06:54,931 --> 00:06:58,103 But I saw it as like a net positive 148 00:06:58,103 --> 00:07:00,551 and the kids had an absolute blast for sure. 149 00:07:02,724 --> 00:07:04,620 I told you you were gonna jump. 150 00:07:04,620 --> 00:07:08,000 [Danielle] It really was something I feel like we probably all needed, 151 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:10,379 all three families probably needed a little bit of that, 152 00:07:10,379 --> 00:07:12,896 like, we're not in it alone type of thing. 153 00:07:12,896 --> 00:07:15,172 Well, his has been fun, you know, 154 00:07:15,172 --> 00:07:17,586 like, I've always felt like no one gets me, 155 00:07:17,586 --> 00:07:19,793 like, no one understands... 156 00:07:19,793 --> 00:07:21,000 like, my life. 157 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:22,413 -Right? -[Brittani] Me too. 158 00:07:22,413 --> 00:07:26,896 [Mandi] So, my current therapy is just getting time to spend on me 159 00:07:26,896 --> 00:07:29,379 because there comes a time when you're like... [screaming] 160 00:07:29,379 --> 00:07:31,896 literally cannot do all of the things. 161 00:07:31,896 --> 00:07:34,172 That's why I'm like, I'm changing something this year. 162 00:07:34,172 --> 00:07:36,896 -Like, I like to stay busy. I like to be working. -Same. 163 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:39,620 It's hard for me to stop 164 00:07:39,620 --> 00:07:43,000 -but you're gonna get burnt out, so. -Right. 165 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:44,689 I need to lessen stress. 166 00:07:44,689 --> 00:07:48,068 -I've got to hire people to keep up with the house. -Yeah. 167 00:07:48,068 --> 00:07:50,172 So like, I can focus on just like my sanity, 168 00:07:50,172 --> 00:07:52,206 I think with a lot of things. 169 00:07:52,206 --> 00:07:54,793 -Yeah. That's awesome. -[Danielle] Yeah. 170 00:07:56,793 --> 00:08:01,068 [Danielle] I'm going to therapy in a few days for the first time. 171 00:08:01,068 --> 00:08:03,793 So talking with Brittani and Mandi, you know, 172 00:08:03,793 --> 00:08:05,620 just about, like, what is it that they need 173 00:08:05,620 --> 00:08:09,206 for their own mental health and their own therapy. 174 00:08:09,206 --> 00:08:13,413 It makes me feel okay. That like, I need that too. 175 00:08:13,413 --> 00:08:14,689 Like... [chuckles] 176 00:08:14,689 --> 00:08:17,275 As alone as I feel, I'm actually not the only one. 177 00:08:18,275 --> 00:08:20,103 But I think that's good that you're doing that 178 00:08:20,103 --> 00:08:23,000 and it sets a good example for your kids, you know. 179 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:24,034 Yeah. 180 00:08:26,793 --> 00:08:28,862 [upbeat music playing] 181 00:08:45,793 --> 00:08:47,034 [Adam] Hazel. 182 00:08:47,896 --> 00:08:50,448 I got your favorite, donut holes. 183 00:08:54,275 --> 00:08:55,275 Okay. 184 00:09:03,103 --> 00:09:05,965 Daddy got some donuts. Y'all come downstairs. 185 00:09:06,586 --> 00:09:08,034 [Adam] What's up, Ri-Ri? 186 00:09:12,068 --> 00:09:14,689 I would make a chocolate donut 187 00:09:14,689 --> 00:09:17,172 with blueberry inside of it. 188 00:09:17,172 --> 00:09:19,862 And then I'll put some sprinkles on top. 189 00:09:21,931 --> 00:09:24,275 [Adam] I got some good news. Guess what? 190 00:09:24,275 --> 00:09:26,620 -What? -Remember whenever we've gone to Houston, Texas 191 00:09:26,620 --> 00:09:28,103 for games before? 192 00:09:28,103 --> 00:09:30,689 -Yes. -And y'all 193 00:09:30,689 --> 00:09:33,482 always like watching the cheerleaders during the game. 194 00:09:33,482 --> 00:09:36,275 -Hmm-mm. -Well, this year,, 195 00:09:36,275 --> 00:09:39,655 daddy signed you up for junior cheerleaders. 196 00:09:41,793 --> 00:09:45,586 This Texans cheer event is something that the quints absolutely love 197 00:09:45,586 --> 00:09:47,896 and so, you know, I just took it upon myself 198 00:09:47,896 --> 00:09:49,482 to go ahead and sign them up this year. 199 00:09:49,482 --> 00:09:51,482 Y'all get cheerleading outfits, 200 00:09:51,482 --> 00:09:55,000 like, you literally get to dance on the field on game day 201 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:56,310 with the cheerleaders. 202 00:09:56,310 --> 00:09:57,655 -Cool. -Cool. 203 00:10:06,379 --> 00:10:10,275 When is this-- when is all this happening? 204 00:10:10,827 --> 00:10:11,965 [Adam] Next week. 205 00:10:13,793 --> 00:10:17,172 -So you already signed them up? -[Adam] Yeah. 206 00:10:18,275 --> 00:10:19,206 [girl] What? 207 00:10:19,206 --> 00:10:20,793 Did you forget what week it is? 208 00:10:22,413 --> 00:10:25,517 [Danielle] I mean this is one of the busiest weeks of the year for us. 209 00:10:25,517 --> 00:10:27,103 We've got the fashion show, 210 00:10:27,103 --> 00:10:28,689 I've got my first therapy appointment. 211 00:10:28,689 --> 00:10:30,689 It's also holiday season and so, 212 00:10:30,689 --> 00:10:34,172 now he's throwing this cheerleading thing on me. 213 00:10:34,172 --> 00:10:37,482 And I'm thinking we just got back from this retreat 214 00:10:37,482 --> 00:10:39,103 discussing communication 215 00:10:39,103 --> 00:10:41,827 and this is one of the things that we need to be working on. 216 00:10:41,827 --> 00:10:44,344 So Adam is blowing my mind right now. 217 00:10:45,482 --> 00:10:47,827 I mean for a little eight-year-old girl, 218 00:10:47,827 --> 00:10:50,103 like, when else you get kind of an opportunity-- 219 00:10:50,103 --> 00:10:52,241 I know, but now it's a whole another... 220 00:10:54,068 --> 00:10:55,655 [exhales] 221 00:10:57,000 --> 00:10:58,620 We're gonna talk about this later. 222 00:10:58,620 --> 00:11:02,172 I didn't see like, any conflicts on the calendar. 223 00:11:02,172 --> 00:11:03,793 I mean, it wasn't like taking up 224 00:11:03,793 --> 00:11:06,896 or like, eating into the space or something else. 225 00:11:06,896 --> 00:11:10,724 Typically like our calendar is always chock full of stuff anyway 226 00:11:10,724 --> 00:11:13,172 and so it's like, we had a couple open days on there. 227 00:11:13,172 --> 00:11:15,379 And so I filled them. 228 00:11:15,379 --> 00:11:17,655 I can teach them to dance. 229 00:11:19,103 --> 00:11:20,172 What's so funny? 230 00:11:28,482 --> 00:11:30,068 Or a front flip. 231 00:11:30,586 --> 00:11:32,068 I can do front flip. 232 00:11:33,896 --> 00:11:36,724 They're gonna-- I'm not gonna be teaching the Cheer. 233 00:11:36,724 --> 00:11:38,310 They're gonna send me a video. 234 00:11:38,310 --> 00:11:41,206 And I'm just gonna show you all the video. 235 00:11:41,206 --> 00:11:44,241 And I might bust a move. I don't know. Who knows? 236 00:11:45,172 --> 00:11:47,241 -You think I can do it? -[girls together] No. 237 00:11:49,896 --> 00:11:51,689 [upbeat music playing] 238 00:11:55,482 --> 00:11:57,896 [Danielle] So, let's just do like a quick run through. 239 00:11:57,896 --> 00:11:59,482 Madison, 240 00:11:59,482 --> 00:12:02,620 this little desk can be like, our check in desk. Literally like right here. 241 00:12:02,620 --> 00:12:04,724 So the fashion show is this week. 242 00:12:04,724 --> 00:12:07,896 It's our annual like, big event for Graeson Bee. 243 00:12:07,896 --> 00:12:11,689 And we dropped the whole holiday collection. 244 00:12:11,689 --> 00:12:13,827 So you know, the girls are all walking in the fashion show 245 00:12:13,827 --> 00:12:15,517 which they've done in the past couple of years 246 00:12:15,517 --> 00:12:17,758 and they're super excited about it. 247 00:12:18,275 --> 00:12:20,172 [upbeat music playing] 248 00:12:20,172 --> 00:12:21,689 [man] Oh, look... 249 00:12:21,689 --> 00:12:24,724 [woman] Oh, my pretty girls! 250 00:12:24,724 --> 00:12:27,000 [Danielle] You know, they've been doing this since they were four. 251 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:28,586 And so they know what to do. 252 00:12:28,586 --> 00:12:33,931 But this is a new venue and we have to knock out all the little details. 253 00:12:33,931 --> 00:12:36,413 I want the isle roads to go as long as I can get them. 254 00:12:36,413 --> 00:12:38,517 You know, I'm hoping it's going to be successful 255 00:12:38,517 --> 00:12:41,413 because I don't only want to sell tickets 256 00:12:41,413 --> 00:12:42,517 and show the new collection, 257 00:12:42,517 --> 00:12:45,379 I want to raise money to give back to the NICU 258 00:12:45,379 --> 00:12:48,172 because families need help and support through that time. 259 00:12:48,172 --> 00:12:49,896 So they'll check in. 260 00:12:49,896 --> 00:12:52,000 -Champagne. -Giveaways. 261 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:54,275 We don't want them walking into the back of a chair. 262 00:12:54,275 --> 00:12:57,379 Nobody's gonna sit up right next to the kitchen door. 263 00:12:57,379 --> 00:12:59,827 Madison, nobody cares what's behind them. 264 00:12:59,827 --> 00:13:01,482 They're gonna be lookIng this way. 265 00:13:01,482 --> 00:13:04,689 I mean there's a huge list of things that still have to get done 266 00:13:04,689 --> 00:13:06,689 because we've got more people coming. 267 00:13:06,689 --> 00:13:09,724 We have only eight cocktail tables. 268 00:13:09,724 --> 00:13:11,172 Just don't know if that's enough. 269 00:13:11,172 --> 00:13:12,517 Nailing down the catering 270 00:13:12,517 --> 00:13:15,827 when the food's coming, all the drinks, the decorations, 271 00:13:15,827 --> 00:13:18,482 the store aesthetics, the whole photo backdrop, 272 00:13:18,482 --> 00:13:21,482 how it's gonna show and who's walking together... 273 00:13:21,482 --> 00:13:22,413 Thank you... 274 00:13:22,413 --> 00:13:24,379 You're welcome. 275 00:13:24,379 --> 00:13:27,896 There's just so much still to do, and I need this to be a success. 276 00:13:29,724 --> 00:13:30,689 All right. 277 00:13:31,896 --> 00:13:33,344 I got to get to the shop. 278 00:13:36,379 --> 00:13:40,379 -You all right? -No, I'm like, struggling. 279 00:13:41,689 --> 00:13:43,793 I mean, I want them to do this cheer thing. 280 00:13:43,793 --> 00:13:46,068 I do. It's just everything is piling on top of each other 281 00:13:46,068 --> 00:13:48,172 and I still have so much to do, 282 00:13:48,172 --> 00:13:49,965 so it's just making it harder. 283 00:13:52,310 --> 00:13:53,586 [sighs in exasperation] 284 00:13:53,586 --> 00:13:56,000 I don't know, I just wish that maybe the conversation was, 285 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:59,896 "Hey, how do you feel about seeing if we can pull this off with the kids?" 286 00:13:59,896 --> 00:14:01,413 'Cause you know I wouldn't miss it. 287 00:14:01,413 --> 00:14:06,275 So like maybe it was a conversation before telling the kids that... 288 00:14:06,275 --> 00:14:07,551 I don't know... 289 00:14:08,620 --> 00:14:10,793 I'm just getting worked up and frustrated 290 00:14:10,793 --> 00:14:15,000 because it's always been like we discussed before we tell the kids 291 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:18,896 especially on this week out of all the weeks of the year. 292 00:14:18,896 --> 00:14:22,275 So that's all I'm asking is like, let's just talk about it first. 293 00:14:22,275 --> 00:14:26,793 I get overwhelmed because I just get frustrated that I cannot do it all. 294 00:14:26,793 --> 00:14:30,344 I can't maintain all the things 295 00:14:31,172 --> 00:14:33,448 and still trying to take care of myself. 296 00:14:34,793 --> 00:14:37,068 These are the things we have to talk about 297 00:14:37,068 --> 00:14:39,379 and Adam doesn't get it. He doesn't get that. 298 00:14:39,379 --> 00:14:41,275 So, yeah, I mean, it does feel like, 299 00:14:41,275 --> 00:14:43,551 you know, things are going backwards. 300 00:14:45,379 --> 00:14:46,344 Bye. 301 00:14:48,482 --> 00:14:49,793 [indistinct instructions] 302 00:14:49,793 --> 00:14:53,689 One, two, three. Stretching out. Touch your knee. 303 00:14:53,689 --> 00:14:56,724 The Houston Texans Cheerleaders put together a video 304 00:14:56,724 --> 00:14:59,000 so that we can practice at home. 305 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:01,586 He was that good. That good. 306 00:15:01,586 --> 00:15:03,827 ♪ Put it in the pocket 307 00:15:03,827 --> 00:15:07,793 The past couple of years I've just had some health issues in my body. 308 00:15:07,793 --> 00:15:12,103 I do physically suffer a lot with pain that changes your mental state 309 00:15:12,103 --> 00:15:13,482 when you're not feeling well. 310 00:15:13,482 --> 00:15:18,000 I'm not sure if my husband is understanding in that. 311 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:20,000 I feel almost like resented. 312 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:21,034 Sure. 313 00:15:27,793 --> 00:15:29,758 [upbeat music playing] 314 00:15:40,758 --> 00:15:42,137 You're gonna break him. 315 00:15:49,793 --> 00:15:51,896 I have the most stuffed animals out of all of us. 316 00:15:51,896 --> 00:15:53,275 I think Hazel does 'cause her whole bed 317 00:15:53,275 --> 00:15:55,931 is almost filled up with stuffed animals. 318 00:16:01,172 --> 00:16:02,379 [Adam] All right girls, come here. 319 00:16:02,379 --> 00:16:04,793 -You want to practice your video? -Yes. 320 00:16:04,793 --> 00:16:08,689 So, first off, we're gonna be shimmying our pom poms, okay? 321 00:16:10,103 --> 00:16:12,379 We don't have them, just act like they're your fists. 322 00:16:12,379 --> 00:16:15,172 I mean, I know that this is a busy week for Danielle 323 00:16:15,172 --> 00:16:18,689 but not necessarily for like, the kids 324 00:16:18,689 --> 00:16:21,482 and so to prep for this cheer performance, 325 00:16:21,482 --> 00:16:25,000 if I can take the load of that as much as possible, 326 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:28,000 so she can just like, focus on the fashion show 327 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:30,586 and go into therapy, like... 328 00:16:30,586 --> 00:16:32,586 I think it's a win win all around. 329 00:16:32,896 --> 00:16:34,482 [vocalizing] 330 00:16:35,379 --> 00:16:37,000 [cheerleading video playing] 331 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:38,379 [Adam] All right, get ready. 332 00:16:38,379 --> 00:16:41,896 So the Houston Texans Cheerleaders put together a video 333 00:16:41,896 --> 00:16:43,758 so that we can practice at home. 334 00:16:43,758 --> 00:16:48,793 But these kids are going to step on field on game day 335 00:16:48,793 --> 00:16:51,103 and in the past, the girls have kind of struggled 336 00:16:51,103 --> 00:16:53,862 with a little anxiety in big performances. 337 00:16:54,482 --> 00:16:55,827 [Danielle] Ava, you okay? 338 00:16:56,103 --> 00:16:57,482 You got this. 339 00:16:57,482 --> 00:16:59,413 [Ava] It made me nervous because there was a lot of people 340 00:16:59,413 --> 00:17:02,379 and I didn't know that there were gonna be that many. 341 00:17:02,379 --> 00:17:06,275 I mean, I want to just make sure that the girls are as prepared as possible 342 00:17:06,275 --> 00:17:08,172 so there's just no stage fright. 343 00:17:09,103 --> 00:17:10,172 [indistinct instructions] 344 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:21,241 Why do you turn all the way around? 345 00:17:28,205 --> 00:17:29,896 It's where you get puppies. 346 00:17:29,896 --> 00:17:33,379 -Not a vegetarian. -Yeah. 347 00:17:33,379 --> 00:17:35,379 It's called a "vetenarian." 348 00:17:35,379 --> 00:17:37,068 -Veterinarian. -A veterinarian. 349 00:17:37,068 --> 00:17:38,172 A veterinarian. 350 00:17:38,172 --> 00:17:40,172 Why you want to be a veterinarian? 351 00:17:40,896 --> 00:17:42,379 Because you get puppies. 352 00:17:42,379 --> 00:17:44,275 No, you don't. 353 00:17:44,275 --> 00:17:45,551 [Adam] You want to do it one more time? 354 00:17:47,896 --> 00:17:49,172 Without what? 355 00:17:49,172 --> 00:17:50,896 The TV thingy. 356 00:17:50,896 --> 00:17:52,620 Well, whenever y'all do it at the thing, 357 00:17:52,620 --> 00:17:55,793 you'll have your cheerleader coach with y'all. 358 00:17:55,793 --> 00:17:59,172 So. If y'all get lost in the dance, y'all just watch her, what she's doing. 359 00:18:01,793 --> 00:18:03,793 [Adam] Are they doing a good job, Beaux ? 360 00:18:03,793 --> 00:18:05,241 [girls giggling] 361 00:18:08,482 --> 00:18:10,310 I think I'm going to forget most of it 362 00:18:10,310 --> 00:18:13,000 and just copy the other cheerleaders. 363 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:16,482 [indistinct instructions] 364 00:18:18,068 --> 00:18:22,103 One, two, three. Stretching out. Touch your knee. 365 00:18:22,103 --> 00:18:25,379 It is very funny to see my dad dancing. 366 00:18:25,379 --> 00:18:26,482 Your dad? 367 00:18:31,482 --> 00:18:32,793 Just a little bit. 368 00:18:32,793 --> 00:18:33,965 He was... 369 00:18:34,862 --> 00:18:37,103 -He was this good. -[Riley] That good. 370 00:18:37,103 --> 00:18:40,620 ♪ Put it in your pocket Put it in your pocket ♪ 371 00:18:40,620 --> 00:18:41,586 [woman] That's it. 372 00:18:42,379 --> 00:18:43,758 [upbeat music playing] 373 00:18:54,172 --> 00:18:57,310 So, I'm here for my first therapy session 374 00:18:57,310 --> 00:19:00,931 and I have no idea what to get out of this. 375 00:19:00,931 --> 00:19:02,275 Hi, Danielle. 376 00:19:02,275 --> 00:19:03,689 -Hi. -Hi, I'm Jenn. 377 00:19:03,689 --> 00:19:05,517 -Danielle. Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you. You ready? 378 00:19:05,517 --> 00:19:06,862 -Yeah. -Come on back. 379 00:19:06,862 --> 00:19:08,068 I mean, I don't know if I'm ready but... 380 00:19:08,068 --> 00:19:10,586 [laughs] You'll be fine. 381 00:19:10,586 --> 00:19:13,896 What I don't want is to leave this place 382 00:19:13,896 --> 00:19:17,896 and being all cry eyed emotional 383 00:19:17,896 --> 00:19:20,896 and then that just sets the tone for the rest of the day. 384 00:19:20,896 --> 00:19:22,448 So what brings you in today? 385 00:19:23,068 --> 00:19:25,310 Um... let's see. 386 00:19:25,310 --> 00:19:30,517 I don't know, I guess I married 17 and a half years. 387 00:19:30,517 --> 00:19:32,000 We have six kids, 388 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:33,206 we have businesses. 389 00:19:33,206 --> 00:19:34,689 Six kids? 390 00:19:34,689 --> 00:19:39,379 We just live a high stressed life and go, go, go 391 00:19:39,379 --> 00:19:41,896 and the communication is always like... 392 00:19:41,896 --> 00:19:44,000 the lines of like, miscommunication 393 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,310 and then not communicating enough 394 00:19:46,310 --> 00:19:51,000 and that and we're kind of going like six different places all the time. 395 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:53,172 They're involved in like, different things 396 00:19:53,172 --> 00:19:55,517 and going different places and trying to balance all of that out. 397 00:19:55,517 --> 00:19:57,379 -Yeah. -That's hard. 398 00:19:57,379 --> 00:19:59,896 Yeah. So that's kind of like my thing, 399 00:19:59,896 --> 00:20:03,275 like, I just don't wanna not be there 400 00:20:03,275 --> 00:20:05,793 and those are the hard things, like, I want to do it all. 401 00:20:05,793 --> 00:20:06,896 Gotcha. 402 00:20:06,896 --> 00:20:10,172 And be it all and be everywhere with six kids. 403 00:20:10,172 --> 00:20:15,344 -So... trying to pull a superwoman-supermom. -Yeah. 404 00:20:16,206 --> 00:20:17,827 How's that going for you? 405 00:20:18,103 --> 00:20:19,344 It's great! 406 00:20:20,413 --> 00:20:22,517 I'm always busy content 407 00:20:22,517 --> 00:20:24,482 because I'm always doing something. 408 00:20:24,482 --> 00:20:26,172 Were you like that as a kid too? 409 00:20:26,172 --> 00:20:30,310 I grew up-- I had to be responsible pretty young. 410 00:20:30,310 --> 00:20:33,689 -And so I think I am that way because... -Okay. Gotcha. 411 00:20:33,689 --> 00:20:35,896 ...I had to take on a lot of responsibility at a young age 412 00:20:35,896 --> 00:20:36,896 me and my sisters 413 00:20:36,896 --> 00:20:40,517 we all kind of grew up at a very young age. 414 00:20:40,517 --> 00:20:43,517 And we needed something we did for ourselves a lot 415 00:20:43,517 --> 00:20:46,103 and we were babysitting, earning money, paying bills, 416 00:20:46,103 --> 00:20:49,689 like, really at a young age and though I was the baby, 417 00:20:49,689 --> 00:20:52,758 I felt like more of like the protector, leader. 418 00:20:52,758 --> 00:20:54,413 I wanted to keep things right. 419 00:20:54,413 --> 00:20:55,586 And if it wasn't right, 420 00:20:55,586 --> 00:20:59,310 I was gonna speak up about it. So... 421 00:20:59,310 --> 00:21:04,000 In the past couple of years I've just had like, some health issues in my body. 422 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,689 It has gone through a huge like, shock 423 00:21:06,689 --> 00:21:09,103 and change after having quintuplets. 424 00:21:09,103 --> 00:21:13,310 I used to work out all the tIme but my body can't take the workouts 425 00:21:13,310 --> 00:21:14,275 like I used to. 426 00:21:14,275 --> 00:21:17,000 I do physically suffer a lot with pain. 427 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:18,103 Gotcha. 428 00:21:18,103 --> 00:21:20,068 And so that changes your mental state 429 00:21:20,068 --> 00:21:22,379 -when you're not feeling well. -Definitely. 430 00:21:22,379 --> 00:21:24,068 You know, there are times where I'm like, 431 00:21:24,068 --> 00:21:26,379 I can't get out of bed and, you know, 432 00:21:26,793 --> 00:21:28,172 I'm not sure 433 00:21:28,172 --> 00:21:30,551 if my husband is... 434 00:21:31,793 --> 00:21:33,793 ...you know, understanding in that. 435 00:21:33,793 --> 00:21:36,068 And though he will take care of things like get the kids to school 436 00:21:36,068 --> 00:21:37,896 and all that, and I'm super appreciative of that, 437 00:21:37,896 --> 00:21:40,620 but I just, I feel almost like resented. 438 00:21:40,620 --> 00:21:41,758 Sure. 439 00:21:43,517 --> 00:21:45,206 'Cause he's just like, "You've got to start small 440 00:21:45,206 --> 00:21:47,103 and just keep going, blah, blah, blah" 441 00:21:47,103 --> 00:21:50,275 and I think the hard balance between 442 00:21:50,275 --> 00:21:54,000 how I feel physically, and mentally, at times, 443 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:55,896 he just can't understand. 444 00:21:55,896 --> 00:21:57,689 Right, because you put on the face, 445 00:21:57,689 --> 00:22:01,862 the mask, that says "I'm fine, I'm fine, I'm fine", but really, internally, you're-- 446 00:22:01,862 --> 00:22:05,689 Yeah. I'm like, if you only knew how much pain I am, like... 447 00:22:05,689 --> 00:22:08,551 Do you ever let yourself just cry and go? 448 00:22:10,689 --> 00:22:11,758 Uh... 449 00:22:13,275 --> 00:22:15,172 I don't have that. 450 00:22:15,172 --> 00:22:16,172 [laughs] 451 00:22:16,172 --> 00:22:19,413 I'm like, why? Just kidding. 452 00:22:19,413 --> 00:22:21,000 -What? What's that? -I mean... 453 00:22:22,068 --> 00:22:25,000 I'm not emotional and I'm not like a softie. 454 00:22:26,379 --> 00:22:30,068 I do think, you know, your body, one of its natural resources 455 00:22:30,068 --> 00:22:34,310 is allowing yourself to cry. It's healing, it helps you to release 456 00:22:34,310 --> 00:22:36,758 some of that pent up stuff every once in a while. 457 00:22:37,689 --> 00:22:39,655 If I had emotions, 458 00:22:40,379 --> 00:22:41,620 I don't know, 459 00:22:41,620 --> 00:22:44,620 I feel like I don't have time for the emotions but yet 460 00:22:44,620 --> 00:22:47,000 I think there are times where 461 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:49,793 if I want to or need to feel emotions, 462 00:22:49,793 --> 00:22:51,965 I probably hide from them because... 463 00:22:53,103 --> 00:22:56,310 ...I think I'm missing out on something 464 00:22:56,310 --> 00:22:59,379 or I'm not going to get something else accomplished. 465 00:22:59,379 --> 00:23:04,896 Like, tasks outdo the emotions that I probably need to have. 466 00:23:04,896 --> 00:23:08,482 I think sometimes a lot of people are afraid because 467 00:23:08,482 --> 00:23:10,517 if I start crying, I don't know how to stop. 468 00:23:10,517 --> 00:23:11,655 I just... 469 00:23:13,103 --> 00:23:14,275 ...don't like to do it. 470 00:23:14,275 --> 00:23:15,448 [Jenn] I know. 471 00:23:16,896 --> 00:23:19,275 Because some of it doesn't feel good or there's this, 472 00:23:19,275 --> 00:23:22,413 something, a block in there we'd have to go over. 473 00:23:22,413 --> 00:23:24,275 Yeah. 474 00:23:24,275 --> 00:23:26,758 But you have to put yourself first, right? 475 00:23:26,758 --> 00:23:29,103 Like, if you fly on any plane they're going to tell you, 476 00:23:29,103 --> 00:23:32,586 put the oxygen mask on yourself before you assist anybody else. 477 00:23:32,586 --> 00:23:33,896 Same thing in life. 478 00:23:33,896 --> 00:23:35,448 -You know what I mean? -Yeah. 479 00:23:37,620 --> 00:23:41,000 [Danielle] I'm not even sure I know how to put my oxygen mask on 480 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,000 first before I do for my children. 481 00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:44,862 But I do know that 482 00:23:44,862 --> 00:23:48,103 I do want to be mentally, physically, 483 00:23:48,103 --> 00:23:51,103 well rounded for my family. 484 00:23:51,103 --> 00:23:56,379 But I don't know really what that would look like and I'm not even sure 485 00:23:56,379 --> 00:24:00,517 how long it takes to get there and what I need to do. 486 00:24:00,517 --> 00:24:02,758 I mean I'm turning 40 this year. 487 00:24:03,310 --> 00:24:06,137 And that's 40 years of feelings. 488 00:24:09,310 --> 00:24:10,931 That's a lot of therapy. 489 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,275 [Jenn] You know, allowing yourself to take off 490 00:24:16,275 --> 00:24:18,482 some of that harder shell, just a little bit, 491 00:24:18,482 --> 00:24:21,275 because what's underneath it is the things that 492 00:24:21,275 --> 00:24:23,172 I want you to start to be able to express. 493 00:24:32,482 --> 00:24:33,620 ♪ Yeah 494 00:24:37,172 --> 00:24:38,689 ♪ Let's get high 495 00:24:38,689 --> 00:24:40,448 ♪ Yeah, let's get high 496 00:24:44,655 --> 00:24:46,241 ♪ Let's get high 497 00:24:46,241 --> 00:24:50,862 Today is the Graeson Bee Holiday soiree and fashion show. 498 00:24:50,862 --> 00:24:53,103 New venue for us, new place, more people, 499 00:24:53,103 --> 00:24:56,103 and I'm like is this place big enough? 500 00:24:56,103 --> 00:24:57,896 Did I order enough food? 501 00:24:57,896 --> 00:25:00,379 Do I have enough of product here? 502 00:25:00,379 --> 00:25:02,689 I don't know. Just, do I have enough chairs? 503 00:25:02,689 --> 00:25:04,862 So there's always those thoughts that go around. 504 00:25:04,862 --> 00:25:06,172 Can we put the music back on? 505 00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:14,310 Mommy is in a state of perpetual of worriedness. 506 00:25:16,379 --> 00:25:20,172 Just like, always. Mommy's always just like, worried and flustered. 507 00:25:20,172 --> 00:25:21,689 We're at the beginning of like, 508 00:25:21,689 --> 00:25:24,275 the holiday season for the boutique. 509 00:25:24,275 --> 00:25:26,448 Things are only gonna pick up for Danielle. 510 00:25:26,448 --> 00:25:29,172 And so with all the stuff that's going on this week, 511 00:25:29,172 --> 00:25:33,758 while she's been figuring out the fashion show, I've been practicing 512 00:25:33,758 --> 00:25:35,586 and stuff at home with the quints 513 00:25:35,586 --> 00:25:38,241 to do this cheer event so she doesn't 514 00:25:38,241 --> 00:25:41,448 have to stress out about that because she wants everything 515 00:25:41,448 --> 00:25:43,310 to go so well and so perfectly. 516 00:25:44,482 --> 00:25:48,310 -[Danielle] Hey, is everybody ready? -[all cheering] Yeah. 517 00:25:49,689 --> 00:25:51,379 Hi. Hi. 518 00:25:51,379 --> 00:25:54,137 We are going to start the show. 519 00:25:55,172 --> 00:25:56,689 [crowd cheering] 520 00:25:56,689 --> 00:25:58,517 Let's get this started. 521 00:25:59,034 --> 00:26:00,655 What's up, everybody? 522 00:26:02,103 --> 00:26:05,172 All right. First, we get Miss Hazel. 523 00:26:05,172 --> 00:26:10,034 In a nice, flowy, stars aligned, sequined tulle dress. 524 00:26:21,896 --> 00:26:23,724 It's not a catwalk. 525 00:26:24,896 --> 00:26:27,344 You walk like a cat or something? 526 00:26:31,241 --> 00:26:36,689 Wearing a green velour dress. [indistinct] 527 00:26:36,689 --> 00:26:39,896 [Adam] The fashion show is in full force 528 00:26:39,896 --> 00:26:44,448 and, I mean, it's just crazy how just over the top this whole venue is. 529 00:26:45,068 --> 00:26:46,689 And I am proud of Danielle. 530 00:26:46,689 --> 00:26:50,896 I mean, just to see everybody just there to rally around her 531 00:26:50,896 --> 00:26:54,275 and support her business and it's just awesome. 532 00:26:54,275 --> 00:26:55,310 There's Parker. 533 00:27:10,034 --> 00:27:12,724 [Dale] Next up, we got Riley Paige! 534 00:27:13,689 --> 00:27:16,413 Last but not least... 535 00:27:18,275 --> 00:27:20,068 [chuckling] Danielle! 536 00:27:21,896 --> 00:27:23,793 [Danielle] So the night was amazing. 537 00:27:23,793 --> 00:27:26,586 I feel like everyone's had like a good response 538 00:27:26,586 --> 00:27:30,103 and like, they loved the venue and stuff and we raised some money for the NICU. 539 00:27:30,103 --> 00:27:31,758 You did an awesome job, Ri. 540 00:27:31,758 --> 00:27:34,137 It just makes my heart so happy to see that they took the time 541 00:27:34,137 --> 00:27:37,379 to come out here and do this and be here for us. 542 00:27:37,379 --> 00:27:40,068 All right. Thank you, all. Thank you. Thank you. 543 00:27:42,965 --> 00:27:44,551 [upbeat music playing] 544 00:27:56,655 --> 00:27:58,137 Yes, it does. 545 00:27:58,482 --> 00:27:59,931 [giggling] 546 00:28:02,137 --> 00:28:05,379 All right, so the two girls that are coming over for the interview 547 00:28:05,379 --> 00:28:08,103 are from quint's old school and they've been teachers 548 00:28:08,103 --> 00:28:10,172 so they know what it's like to work with a bunch of kids. 549 00:28:10,172 --> 00:28:11,172 Yeah. 550 00:28:11,172 --> 00:28:13,344 Make sure they pass the sniff test. 551 00:28:13,344 --> 00:28:15,103 [Danielle] I'm getting desperate to find someone 552 00:28:15,103 --> 00:28:18,172 to help with the kids and around the house. 553 00:28:18,172 --> 00:28:19,275 People keep telling me 554 00:28:19,275 --> 00:28:21,275 it's too much work for one person 555 00:28:21,275 --> 00:28:23,758 so we've got two girls that are coming in 556 00:28:23,758 --> 00:28:26,965 and we're gonna interview them and hoping that they can tag team. 557 00:28:27,896 --> 00:28:30,137 [humming] 558 00:28:30,137 --> 00:28:33,482 I hope this works out because it has been a draining 559 00:28:33,482 --> 00:28:36,862 and a super difficult process to just find someone. 560 00:28:36,862 --> 00:28:39,758 -Hazel, are you gonna do some karaoke for 'em? -Nah. 561 00:28:40,655 --> 00:28:42,482 Then why do you have that out? 562 00:28:42,482 --> 00:28:44,379 -[knock on door] -Hazel, go answer the door. 563 00:28:44,379 --> 00:28:46,482 I'm not answering the door. 564 00:28:46,482 --> 00:28:48,275 One the girls that we're interviewing today 565 00:28:48,275 --> 00:28:50,793 is a friend of ours' youngest daughter, 566 00:28:50,793 --> 00:28:53,000 who we've known for years. And the other one 567 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,448 is one of her current coworkers. 568 00:28:55,448 --> 00:28:56,793 -Hello. -Hello. 569 00:28:56,793 --> 00:28:58,068 -Hi. -Hi, I'm Maura. 570 00:28:58,068 --> 00:29:01,241 We've done a lot of interviews and it seems like there's been 571 00:29:01,241 --> 00:29:02,689 a good fit with some people. 572 00:29:02,689 --> 00:29:04,689 But then they end up turning us down. 573 00:29:04,689 --> 00:29:06,758 -Hi. I'm Maura. -Hello. 574 00:29:06,758 --> 00:29:08,379 Miss Maura. 575 00:29:08,379 --> 00:29:11,103 But we talked to them on the phone the other day and they seemed great. 576 00:29:11,103 --> 00:29:15,689 So, hopefully this is the help we've been praying for. 577 00:29:15,689 --> 00:29:18,068 -I'm going to go upstairs. -Okay. 578 00:29:18,068 --> 00:29:21,206 -Don't be too loud so we can hear each other down here. -Okay. 579 00:29:21,689 --> 00:29:23,000 All right, so. 580 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:25,172 This is our life. These are our kids. 581 00:29:25,172 --> 00:29:26,896 Blayke's upstairs somewhere. 582 00:29:26,896 --> 00:29:28,551 This is Beaux over here. 583 00:29:28,551 --> 00:29:30,241 Gus is down here. 584 00:29:30,379 --> 00:29:31,689 Hi, Gus. 585 00:29:31,689 --> 00:29:33,103 [chuckling] 586 00:29:33,103 --> 00:29:34,758 You don't have cats, do you? 587 00:29:34,758 --> 00:29:36,172 -I have two. -Yes. 588 00:29:36,172 --> 00:29:37,482 -She has one. -I have one. 589 00:29:37,482 --> 00:29:40,758 We talked to someone who has cats and Adam 590 00:29:40,758 --> 00:29:43,793 asked if he could shave the cats to be hairless cats. 591 00:29:43,793 --> 00:29:45,586 -[laughing] Why? -Hairless? 592 00:29:45,586 --> 00:29:47,482 [Danielle] 'Cause he wants a hairless cat. 593 00:29:47,482 --> 00:29:48,758 I do, too. 594 00:29:48,758 --> 00:29:50,793 If you've got one, you're more than welcome to bring it over. 595 00:29:50,793 --> 00:29:52,034 No, my cats would hate me. 596 00:29:52,034 --> 00:29:53,724 [all laughing] 597 00:29:55,586 --> 00:29:57,793 [Danielle] But yeah, like I said on the phone, 598 00:29:57,793 --> 00:30:02,482 we're looking for some help across the week. 599 00:30:02,482 --> 00:30:06,344 You know, obviously helping with the kids and like, house task. 600 00:30:06,344 --> 00:30:09,379 But it's not always gonna be the same every single day. 601 00:30:09,379 --> 00:30:11,448 It just depends on what does that week looks like. 602 00:30:11,448 --> 00:30:13,482 So a lot of like, flexibility 603 00:30:13,482 --> 00:30:16,275 and managing all that they're responsible things they're 604 00:30:16,275 --> 00:30:17,586 supposed to be doing as well. 605 00:30:17,586 --> 00:30:20,448 So kinda like guiding them and making sure they're getting 606 00:30:20,448 --> 00:30:22,000 their necessary chores done. 607 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:23,379 Yes. 608 00:30:23,379 --> 00:30:27,068 Would y'all be okay with us doing maybe some kind of reward system 609 00:30:27,068 --> 00:30:28,896 -like some kind of chart or anything like that? -Absolutely. 610 00:30:28,896 --> 00:30:32,275 -If they clean up something then they get a sticker. -Yeah. 611 00:30:32,275 --> 00:30:35,758 This is awesome. They come with experience with children 612 00:30:35,758 --> 00:30:38,586 and if these girls are willing to, like, 613 00:30:38,586 --> 00:30:41,172 divide days and conquer all the task 614 00:30:41,172 --> 00:30:43,862 then they would be perfect. 615 00:30:43,862 --> 00:30:46,379 So how do you see our scheduling going? 616 00:30:46,379 --> 00:30:49,551 So I was thinking maybe if you take three days and you take three days, 617 00:30:49,551 --> 00:30:51,241 or every other day, whatever, 618 00:30:51,241 --> 00:30:55,448 that way we can maximize you know, the days of help that we can get help with. 619 00:30:55,448 --> 00:30:57,241 [Maura] So you would want us separately. 620 00:30:57,241 --> 00:31:00,068 So you still want us to do all those things? 621 00:31:00,068 --> 00:31:03,827 Yes, and not every day will look the same. But, yes. 622 00:31:05,275 --> 00:31:08,517 [chuckling] That's a lot for one person. 623 00:31:09,241 --> 00:31:11,448 It is, it is a lot. It is a lot. 624 00:31:11,448 --> 00:31:14,448 I don't think that's exactly what we had in mind. 625 00:31:14,448 --> 00:31:18,344 'Cause we were thinking that it was gonna be both of us working the same days. 626 00:31:18,344 --> 00:31:20,137 Okay. 627 00:31:20,137 --> 00:31:22,655 So y'all coming together as a team is-- 628 00:31:22,655 --> 00:31:26,000 -[Maura] Yeah, yeah. -Y'all's impression-- Okay. 629 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:29,103 Hiring two people isn't something that we even thought about 630 00:31:29,103 --> 00:31:31,068 or even planned for financially. 631 00:31:31,068 --> 00:31:35,793 [Adam] Yeah, they're gonna have to agree to split days 632 00:31:35,793 --> 00:31:38,896 or I feel like we're just back to the drawing board. 633 00:31:38,896 --> 00:31:42,965 Financially, trying to hire, you know, two people 634 00:31:42,965 --> 00:31:46,172 full time, every day is a lot for us. 635 00:31:46,172 --> 00:31:48,655 And so maybe y'all could think about... 636 00:31:49,896 --> 00:31:53,000 ...if this is something that you're interested in, how, you know, 637 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:54,965 how y'all could manage this. 638 00:31:54,965 --> 00:31:57,793 And then we can just follow up and touch base again or something. 639 00:31:57,793 --> 00:31:59,655 -Okay. -All right. Sounds good. 640 00:32:02,551 --> 00:32:04,551 Who's excited? 641 00:32:04,551 --> 00:32:05,862 [all cheering] 642 00:32:11,275 --> 00:32:12,724 [all cheering] Let's go! 643 00:32:18,793 --> 00:32:20,413 [hip-hop music playing] 644 00:32:26,103 --> 00:32:27,965 [Danielle] Cheer day, cheer day. 645 00:32:29,551 --> 00:32:30,517 Yup. 646 00:32:31,379 --> 00:32:33,655 Couple more days and we get this van back. 647 00:32:33,655 --> 00:32:35,000 Yeah. 648 00:32:59,068 --> 00:33:00,724 No, you can't. 649 00:33:05,344 --> 00:33:08,448 -It's hot potato, not monkey in the middle. -Yeah! 650 00:33:13,448 --> 00:33:14,655 [cheering] 651 00:33:18,793 --> 00:33:20,482 A what? 652 00:33:20,482 --> 00:33:21,896 A first down? 653 00:33:21,896 --> 00:33:23,172 A first down? 654 00:33:23,172 --> 00:33:25,655 -What's a first down? -What's a first down? 655 00:33:28,379 --> 00:33:30,551 [together] What's a second down? 656 00:33:30,551 --> 00:33:33,275 [Adam] I think we're gonna get there and we're gonna go to the bubble. 657 00:33:33,275 --> 00:33:34,896 And then y'all get to practice. 658 00:33:34,896 --> 00:33:38,379 Practice at least a couple more times before y'all go down to the field today. 659 00:33:38,379 --> 00:33:40,655 Why is called the big bubble? 660 00:33:40,655 --> 00:33:43,068 'Cause it's a, it's really a big bubble. 661 00:33:43,068 --> 00:33:45,068 Air is what holds it up. 662 00:33:49,172 --> 00:33:50,517 [upbeat music playing] 663 00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:54,724 I see the stadium. 664 00:33:59,482 --> 00:34:01,586 [upbeat music playing] 665 00:34:01,586 --> 00:34:03,896 [Danielle] Let's go! We're here, we're here. 666 00:34:03,896 --> 00:34:05,379 [Adam] Oh, we made it in the bubble! 667 00:34:05,379 --> 00:34:06,965 [girl] Whoa! 668 00:34:06,965 --> 00:34:09,206 [announcer speaking] Welcome to NRG Stadium, y'all! 669 00:34:10,241 --> 00:34:12,379 Are y'all ready to get started? 670 00:34:12,379 --> 00:34:15,241 -Better go get in your spot. -Hey, go find your spot. 671 00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:22,551 [Adam] We're in the bubble and the girls are doing their last minute practice 672 00:34:22,551 --> 00:34:25,688 before we walk down to the stadium for their performance. 673 00:34:25,688 --> 00:34:29,034 This is a lot bigger of a crowd 674 00:34:29,034 --> 00:34:31,068 than what they've ever performed in front of. 675 00:34:31,068 --> 00:34:33,447 [Adam] They've only had one practice 676 00:34:33,447 --> 00:34:35,137 like, inside the stadium. 677 00:34:35,137 --> 00:34:36,620 They're right here. 678 00:34:41,655 --> 00:34:47,137 Honestly, I don't know what to expect and, you know, how it's gonna go. 679 00:34:47,137 --> 00:34:49,241 [indistinct chatter] 680 00:34:54,275 --> 00:34:58,000 [Adam] This isn't just like a dance recital with like, hundreds of people. 681 00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:00,344 This is tens of thousands of people. 682 00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:04,551 [upbeat music playing] 683 00:35:07,482 --> 00:35:09,137 Who's excited! 684 00:35:09,137 --> 00:35:10,862 [all cheering] 685 00:35:10,862 --> 00:35:12,896 All right, ladies, don't forget to smile and 686 00:35:12,896 --> 00:35:14,862 don't forget y'all's guard line, okay? 687 00:35:15,172 --> 00:35:16,862 Let's go! 688 00:35:18,241 --> 00:35:19,965 [all cheering] 689 00:35:30,655 --> 00:35:35,586 We're running on to the field and all the noises and people were cheering. 690 00:35:35,586 --> 00:35:38,241 And there was this little kid that was going-- 691 00:35:39,344 --> 00:35:41,448 He was looking at me and I'm like... 692 00:35:42,896 --> 00:35:44,344 [all cheering] 693 00:35:53,482 --> 00:35:56,482 ♪ Everything is better 694 00:35:56,482 --> 00:35:58,862 ♪ When I am with you 695 00:36:00,482 --> 00:36:03,482 ♪ As long as we're together 696 00:36:03,482 --> 00:36:06,034 ♪ Everything is better When I am with you ♪ 697 00:36:06,034 --> 00:36:08,241 ♪ You made me believe 698 00:36:10,379 --> 00:36:14,517 ♪ That dreams can come true 699 00:36:15,137 --> 00:36:18,275 ♪ Everything is better with 700 00:36:18,275 --> 00:36:20,448 ♪ Everything is better with you ♪ 701 00:36:28,793 --> 00:36:32,862 ♪ As long as we're together Everything is better with you♪ 702 00:36:32,862 --> 00:36:35,724 ♪ Everything is better 703 00:36:40,689 --> 00:36:44,689 The girls did amazing. I thought it was super cute. 704 00:36:44,689 --> 00:36:47,241 Yes, it was in the busiest week, 705 00:36:47,241 --> 00:36:50,206 and I was frustrated that all this was falling on top of each other, but... 706 00:36:51,344 --> 00:36:54,482 You see them out there and you're like, "Okay, so cute." 707 00:36:54,482 --> 00:36:57,344 And so I am proud of them and I'm glad they did it. 708 00:37:06,482 --> 00:37:09,758 Best at cheerleading is... Parker! 709 00:37:16,103 --> 00:37:17,482 [Adam] Look at all the lights! 710 00:37:17,482 --> 00:37:18,758 [girl] Whoa! 711 00:37:18,758 --> 00:37:22,000 [Adam] Let's go have some fun. And there's a big surprise. 712 00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:23,655 We all got you... 713 00:37:31,482 --> 00:37:33,413 [upbeat music playing] 714 00:37:37,793 --> 00:37:39,241 [Adam] Look at all the lights! 715 00:37:39,241 --> 00:37:40,551 [girl] Whoa! 716 00:37:40,551 --> 00:37:42,275 [Danielle] Who's excited for Christmas season? 717 00:37:42,275 --> 00:37:43,379 [all] Me! 718 00:37:43,379 --> 00:37:44,862 I know I'm in the spirit. 719 00:37:44,862 --> 00:37:46,344 [Crystal] This makes me smile. 720 00:37:46,344 --> 00:37:48,586 Light will get you in the holiday spirit. 721 00:37:48,586 --> 00:37:50,482 You might get lit, that's what you're excited for. 722 00:37:50,482 --> 00:37:51,896 [laughs] 723 00:37:51,896 --> 00:37:53,586 There's tons of lights to see. 724 00:37:53,586 --> 00:37:55,172 [Danielle] Look at that tunnel there. 725 00:37:55,172 --> 00:37:56,896 -[Adam] Let's go have some fun. -Yeah! 726 00:37:56,896 --> 00:37:58,931 And there's a big surprise in the end. 727 00:37:59,482 --> 00:38:01,448 [all cheering] 728 00:38:01,448 --> 00:38:02,965 [Danielle] Okay, let's go. 729 00:38:02,965 --> 00:38:04,655 -[upbeat music playing] -[girl] Wow. 730 00:38:08,241 --> 00:38:10,689 Life lately has been overwhelming 731 00:38:10,689 --> 00:38:12,241 and super busy, 732 00:38:12,241 --> 00:38:15,551 and we just wanted to try to find a moment 733 00:38:15,551 --> 00:38:17,896 to actually do something holiday related 734 00:38:17,896 --> 00:38:19,827 and take the girls to go see some Christmas lights. 735 00:38:20,379 --> 00:38:22,068 Look at the robot. 736 00:38:22,068 --> 00:38:26,344 We have a huge surprise for the kids for this upcoming Christmas holiday. 737 00:38:26,344 --> 00:38:30,551 And we've just been trying to figure out the perfect way to surprise them. 738 00:38:30,551 --> 00:38:32,965 There's a spaceship! 739 00:38:32,965 --> 00:38:35,482 It's a-- It's an airplane! 740 00:38:35,482 --> 00:38:37,137 [Danielle] It's aliens! 741 00:38:46,793 --> 00:38:48,586 [Danielle] Who wants to go see the castle? 742 00:38:48,586 --> 00:38:50,068 [all cheering] 743 00:38:50,068 --> 00:38:52,241 -Let's go see the castle! -[all] Let's go. 744 00:38:57,241 --> 00:38:58,482 [Danielle whooping] 745 00:38:58,482 --> 00:39:00,827 [Adam] I think that castle has gotten bigger. 746 00:39:01,965 --> 00:39:04,379 This castle is amazing! 747 00:39:04,379 --> 00:39:06,137 It is, huh? 748 00:39:06,137 --> 00:39:09,551 Hey, if you think this castle is amazing, 749 00:39:11,034 --> 00:39:12,896 there's an even bigger one. 750 00:39:12,896 --> 00:39:18,344 We all got you a trip to Walt Disney World Resort in Florida! 751 00:39:19,172 --> 00:39:20,551 [all cheering] 752 00:39:23,586 --> 00:39:24,931 Are you all excited? 753 00:39:25,379 --> 00:39:26,965 -Yeah! -[all cheering] 754 00:39:28,172 --> 00:39:34,068 I couldn't... My mind just blew out my whole entire head. 755 00:39:35,551 --> 00:39:37,689 Who's riding rides, baby? I am! 756 00:39:37,689 --> 00:39:40,551 -[all cheering] -I am. 757 00:39:41,896 --> 00:39:43,448 When are we going? 758 00:39:43,448 --> 00:39:45,482 We're going in the New Year. 759 00:39:45,482 --> 00:39:47,275 We have to wait a whole year? 760 00:39:47,275 --> 00:39:49,551 No, I mean, it's next year, but-- 761 00:39:49,551 --> 00:39:51,310 -They don't understand. -After Christmas. Yeah. 762 00:40:01,275 --> 00:40:03,344 And I got hats for everybody. 763 00:40:04,586 --> 00:40:06,379 What is that! 764 00:40:06,379 --> 00:40:08,655 [Adam] I mean after the year that we've have had, 765 00:40:08,655 --> 00:40:12,275 I mean, we can't think of a better place to kick-off the new year 766 00:40:12,275 --> 00:40:13,896 with a trip to Disneyworld. 767 00:40:13,896 --> 00:40:17,000 [Danielle] It's like, it does not matter what is happening in your life 768 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:21,344 you go to Disney and like, it's just happy-go-lucky 24/7. 769 00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:24,517 So, it's just gonna be so fun. 770 00:40:25,275 --> 00:40:27,000 [all cheering] 771 00:40:28,793 --> 00:40:32,068 I mean we've always wanted to do a trip like this 772 00:40:32,068 --> 00:40:36,482 but doing it with both of her sisters' families 773 00:40:36,482 --> 00:40:40,482 I mean, that means there's 16 of us and that's a lot. 774 00:40:40,482 --> 00:40:42,862 [Danielle] It's gonna happen, it's going to be a little bit hectic 775 00:40:42,862 --> 00:40:45,793 to get it all you know... [chuckles] 776 00:40:45,793 --> 00:40:49,965 organized and scheduled but, we did it, we're gonna do it. 777 00:40:50,793 --> 00:40:52,655 Let's go to Disneyworld! 778 00:40:52,655 --> 00:40:54,241 [all cheering] 779 00:40:54,689 --> 00:40:56,241 We're going now? 780 00:40:57,586 --> 00:41:00,137 This is gonna be the best trip ever. 781 00:41:00,586 --> 00:41:02,241 [all cheering] 782 00:41:07,758 --> 00:41:10,241 -You see the castle? -[Danielle] Who's excited? 783 00:41:11,241 --> 00:41:13,241 [Danielle] Next time on OutDaughtered... 784 00:41:14,689 --> 00:41:18,000 [Adam] This trip, you know, this is something new and exciting 785 00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:22,172 because the quints haven't really experienced thrill rides before. 786 00:41:22,172 --> 00:41:25,172 So I'm so excited to see it through the kid's eyes. 787 00:41:25,172 --> 00:41:27,310 [Adam] Expedition Everest is calling my name. 788 00:41:28,241 --> 00:41:29,793 I'm dizzy just thinking about it. 789 00:41:29,793 --> 00:41:32,241 I've got to show the girls that I'm still gonna try. 790 00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:37,137 No. I was holding Mommy's hand. 791 00:41:38,689 --> 00:41:40,379 [screaming] 792 00:41:40,379 --> 00:41:43,586 -Cheers. -To a great vacation that we all needed, right? 793 00:41:43,586 --> 00:41:46,655 Yes. I love life but everything is so fast paced 794 00:41:46,655 --> 00:41:48,172 and I don't like to stop. 795 00:41:48,172 --> 00:41:50,000 Then I feel the guilt just thinking about 796 00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:51,379 I feel like this, I feel-- 797 00:41:51,379 --> 00:41:53,862 Lord. Your mind runs too much. 798 00:41:53,862 --> 00:41:56,965 [Danielle] I love all my girls more than they could ever know. 799 00:41:56,965 --> 00:42:00,655 But why do I stIll feel like I didn't do enough for them? 800 00:42:00,655 --> 00:42:02,862 Then you just need to go to therapy. 801 00:42:02,862 --> 00:42:04,551 You feel like you want to do it again? 802 00:42:04,551 --> 00:42:09,344 How am I to deal with my kids getting older as they're experiencing emotions? 803 00:42:09,344 --> 00:42:12,310 I don't want to fail them because I'm not emotionally available. 804 00:42:12,586 --> 00:42:13,862 Thank you. 805 00:42:13,862 --> 00:42:17,310 I've been like checking emails and I got some opportunities. 806 00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:19,482 I don't want to talk about work. 807 00:42:19,482 --> 00:42:23,448 We can barely stay afloat with the work level that we have right now. 808 00:42:23,448 --> 00:42:27,275 Now he wants to bring on more work while we're on vacation? 809 00:42:27,275 --> 00:42:28,655 Like, not before we hire help. 810 00:42:28,655 --> 00:42:31,793 I just have to let them know. 811 00:42:31,793 --> 00:42:33,655 Okay, well, then the answer is no.