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[narrator] Previously on OutDaughtered...
[all screaming]
All right! I'm out.
How's it been finding a helper? Have you had any luck?
I mean we've done a couple of interviews
I'm looking to hire someone to multitask
making lunches, helping with homework cleaning the house
washing towels and sheets and cleaning the bathrooms.
Yeah.
Hi.
Same.
I met Mandi through an online moms group
and she's got twins and triplets.
And so we thought it might be fun to just connect.
I can't really relate to my best friends.
I mean I would love to start some type of, Iike, multiples moms group.
Does anybody know what percent of marriages fail
because of communication issues?
-A lot. -98%
Communication is the toughest thing
that our marriage probably deals with.
I get frustrated
when I'm physically and mentally struggling.
I still have to have the weight of him saying
"Oh, well, I did more than you."
And that makes me want to punch the wall.
Have either of you ever considered going to therapy?
I scheduled a therapist appointment.
Therapist appointment, for what?
Growing up or whatever, us three,
we've never really talked about our feelings.
I just know that I don't want to keep feeling like this, like...
[groans]
[upbeat music playing]
This place looks fun.
Hey, remember, we use manners.
Look. I see a bunch of people that look alike over there.
They're like look, look, look. Hi, I'm Danielle.
-Nice to meet you. Finally, oh my God. -Yeah.
Hey, girls!
-And Mandi! -Hello, I'm Mandi!
Hey!
So today we're gonna meet up with some other families of multiples.
We've talked on social media
but this will be our first time, like, meeting in person.
And it just so happened to be a day where we could meet.
So it-- I just think we're gonna have a total blast together.
These two are identical so they look more alike.
[Riley] I don't see it.
Kylie...
Which one are y'all gonna go on first?
-He's usually outgoing. -Boom.
-This one's a little more timid. -Boom.
Okay, I think we have to get socks.
-Y'all want to go slide? -Yes.
-Yes.
Y'all take the kids, go get socks.
We're going to take the babies over here.
We gotta go get socks.
-[indistinct] -Oh, yeah.
I'm Danny Oldini This is my wife Mandi Oldini.
We're from New Braunfels, Texas,
and we have 4-year-old twin boys.
And a year and a half old triplets, two boys and a girl.
Blayke, our oldest. They're like little ducks that follow Blayke around.
I need that and I don't have that.
-So I'm Brittani Marshall. This is my husband. -Jason.
And we live in Austin, Texas.
We have 9-year-old quadruple daughters.
It was like, so like freeing.
Like you could totally let your guard down
around these people
because like, they completely understand.
But I also loved getting to just see babies
and hold them and they're so cute.
[indistinct chatter]
-Okay. -He's okay.
Yeah, I miss this little cute little age.
This feels like so long ago to me.
Oh, my gosh, me too.
Like I want another one sometimes and then I...
-Then you think, "Wait I might get fours." -Back to reality.
I'm like, yeah, actually no, scratch that.
And you're done?
Oh, yeah. Done.
After triplets...
-Yeah. We've got Mandi's tubes removed, so... -Okay.
-What about y'all? -Uh...
My wife worked in medical sales
so she sat in the room with me while they were doing the prep.
I actually got to snip Jason myself.
-What? -Vasectomy, yeah.
-So I... -That's exciting.
I was like, this is the best day of my whole entire Life.
They're talkIng while he's down there cutting.
I see him turn around to her and he's like "Would you like the honors?"
[Danny] That's some trust right there.
You know, it's a given, we've all had vasectomies.
But here In Jason's story where his wife actually...
Uh... [laughs] Helped.
Wow.
So I know that obviously...
I'm not laughIng at you,
but I'm just like, because I remember this phase
and then it was like, I had two more.
Here, mommy.
Cheese, Mommy.
Lulu's going night-night. Y'all gotten tired?
-No. -No?
Night night.
Hey, Ava--Olivia. Whoever you are.
I love that you say whoever you are too.
[Mandi] So what's it like having kids in school?
And like, how do you spend time with all of them
and help them with their homework?
[Brittani] I think it's always a work in progress.
I try to make them come home,
sit down, get all their homework done.
[Danielle] But it's super challenging with five girls.
Because they're all learning differently
and I don't know what she's on and what she's on
and how she does It.
So it gets harder, believe me.
It's been harder and harder as I'm busier with work,
-she's busier with work. -Right.
And so like, we're actually interviewing people to bring in.
-Hopefully we find that very soon. -Yeah.
This next week we've got another interview set up
for you know people to come in and help us out with the housework,
the kids stuff...
And so you know, hopefully it all works out
because we've never encountered just busy,
like the busy that we're in the middle of right now.
So like, I know we're getting close to the holidays
and this year we're kind of planning a big surprise for the kids.
It's something they haven't really done before.
So we've got this magical winter lights that's over here in Houston.
So, we're gonna go to that and surprise them.
-That's cool. -Kids are gonna be super...
-Yeah, that's really cool. -...super excited about it.
[Jason] Awesome.
[Adam] I had a blast meeting these other parents with multiples.
I mean, you know, I was more concerned that like,
okay this is just like one more thing added to our list of things
that got to get done this week.
But I saw it as like a net positive
and the kids had an absolute blast for sure.
I told you you were gonna jump.
[Danielle] It really was something I feel like we probably all needed,
all three families probably needed a little bit of that,
like, we're not in it alone type of thing.
Well, his has been fun, you know,
like, I've always felt like no one gets me,
like, no one understands...
like, my life.
-Right? -[Brittani] Me too.
[Mandi] So, my current therapy is just getting time to spend on me
because there comes a time when you're like... [screaming]
literally cannot do all of the things.
That's why I'm like, I'm changing something this year.
-Like, I like to stay busy. I like to be working. -Same.
It's hard for me to stop
-but you're gonna get burnt out, so. -Right.
I need to lessen stress.
-I've got to hire people to keep up with the house. -Yeah.
So like, I can focus on just like my sanity,
I think with a lot of things.
-Yeah. That's awesome. -[Danielle] Yeah.
[Danielle] I'm going to therapy in a few days for the first time.
So talking with Brittani and Mandi, you know,
just about, like, what is it that they need
for their own mental health and their own therapy.
It makes me feel okay. That like, I need that too.
Like... [chuckles]
As alone as I feel, I'm actually not the only one.
But I think that's good that you're doing that
and it sets a good example for your kids, you know.
Yeah.
[upbeat music playing]
[Adam] Hazel.
I got your favorite, donut holes.
Okay.
Daddy got some donuts. Y'all come downstairs.
[Adam] What's up, Ri-Ri?
I would make a chocolate donut
with blueberry inside of it.
And then I'll put some sprinkles on top.
[Adam] I got some good news. Guess what?
-What? -Remember whenever we've gone to Houston, Texas
for games before?
-Yes. -And y'all
always like watching the cheerleaders during the game.
-Hmm-mm. -Well, this year,,
daddy signed you up for junior cheerleaders.
This Texans cheer event is something that the quints absolutely love
and so, you know, I just took it upon myself
to go ahead and sign them up this year.
Y'all get cheerleading outfits,
like, you literally get to dance on the field on game day
with the cheerleaders.
-Cool. -Cool.
When is this-- when is all this happening?
[Adam] Next week.
-So you already signed them up? -[Adam] Yeah.
[girl] What?
Did you forget what week it is?
[Danielle] I mean this is one of the busiest weeks of the year for us.
We've got the fashion show,
I've got my first therapy appointment.
It's also holiday season and so,
now he's throwing this cheerleading thing on me.
And I'm thinking we just got back from this retreat
discussing communication
and this is one of the things that we need to be working on.
So Adam is blowing my mind right now.
I mean for a little eight-year-old girl,
like, when else you get kind of an opportunity--
I know, but now it's a whole another...
[exhales]
We're gonna talk about this later.
I didn't see like, any conflicts on the calendar.
I mean, it wasn't like taking up
or like, eating into the space or something else.
Typically like our calendar is always chock full of stuff anyway
and so it's like, we had a couple open days on there.
And so I filled them.
I can teach them to dance.
What's so funny?
Or a front flip.
I can do front flip.
They're gonna-- I'm not gonna be teaching the Cheer.
They're gonna send me a video.
And I'm just gonna show you all the video.
And I might bust a move. I don't know. Who knows?
-You think I can do it? -[girls together] No.
[upbeat music playing]
[Danielle] So, let's just do like a quick run through.
Madison,
this little desk can be like, our check in desk. Literally like right here.
So the fashion show is this week.
It's our annual like, big event for Graeson Bee.
And we dropped the whole holiday collection.
So you know, the girls are all walking in the fashion show
which they've done in the past couple of years
and they're super excited about it.
[upbeat music playing]
[man] Oh, look...
[woman] Oh, my pretty girls!
[Danielle] You know, they've been doing this since they were four.
And so they know what to do.
But this is a new venue and we have to knock out all the little details.
I want the isle roads to go as long as I can get them.
You know, I'm hoping it's going to be successful
because I don't only want to sell tickets
and show the new collection,
I want to raise money to give back to the NICU
because families need help and support through that time.
So they'll check in.
-Champagne. -Giveaways.
We don't want them walking into the back of a chair.
Nobody's gonna sit up right next to the kitchen door.
Madison, nobody cares what's behind them.
They're gonna be lookIng this way.
I mean there's a huge list of things that still have to get done
because we've got more people coming.
We have only eight cocktail tables.
Just don't know if that's enough.
Nailing down the catering
when the food's coming, all the drinks, the decorations,
the store aesthetics, the whole photo backdrop,
how it's gonna show and who's walking together...
Thank you...
You're welcome.
There's just so much still to do, and I need this to be a success.
All right.
I got to get to the shop.
-You all right? -No, I'm like, struggling.
I mean, I want them to do this cheer thing.
I do. It's just everything is piling on top of each other
and I still have so much to do,
so it's just making it harder.
[sighs in exasperation]
I don't know, I just wish that maybe the conversation was,
"Hey, how do you feel about seeing if we can pull this off with the kids?"
'Cause you know I wouldn't miss it.
So like maybe it was a conversation before telling the kids that...
I don't know...
I'm just getting worked up and frustrated
because it's always been like we discussed before we tell the kids
especially on this week out of all the weeks of the year.
So that's all I'm asking is like, let's just talk about it first.
I get overwhelmed because I just get frustrated that I cannot do it all.
I can't maintain all the things
and still trying to take care of myself.
These are the things we have to talk about
and Adam doesn't get it. He doesn't get that.
So, yeah, I mean, it does feel like,
you know, things are going backwards.
Bye.
[indistinct instructions]
One, two, three. Stretching out. Touch your knee.
The Houston Texans Cheerleaders put together a video
so that we can practice at home.
He was that good. That good.
♪ Put it in the pocket
The past couple of years I've just had some health issues in my body.
I do physically suffer a lot with pain that changes your mental state
when you're not feeling well.
I'm not sure if my husband is understanding in that.
I feel almost like resented.
Sure.
[upbeat music playing]
You're gonna break him.
I have the most stuffed animals out of all of us.
I think Hazel does 'cause her whole bed
is almost filled up with stuffed animals.
[Adam] All right girls, come here.
-You want to practice your video? -Yes.
So, first off, we're gonna be shimmying our pom poms, okay?
We don't have them, just act like they're your fists.
I mean, I know that this is a busy week for Danielle
but not necessarily for like, the kids
and so to prep for this cheer performance,
if I can take the load of that as much as possible,
so she can just like, focus on the fashion show
and go into therapy, like...
I think it's a win win all around.
[vocalizing]
[cheerleading video playing]
[Adam] All right, get ready.
So the Houston Texans Cheerleaders put together a video
so that we can practice at home.
But these kids are going to step on field on game day
and in the past, the girls have kind of struggled
with a little anxiety in big performances.
[Danielle] Ava, you okay?
You got this.
[Ava] It made me nervous because there was a lot of people
and I didn't know that there were gonna be that many.
I mean, I want to just make sure that the girls are as prepared as possible
so there's just no stage fright.
[indistinct instructions]
Why do you turn all the way around?
It's where you get puppies.
-Not a vegetarian. -Yeah.
It's called a "vetenarian."
-Veterinarian. -A veterinarian.
A veterinarian.
Why you want to be a veterinarian?
Because you get puppies.
No, you don't.
[Adam] You want to do it one more time?
Without what?
The TV thingy.
Well, whenever y'all do it at the thing,
you'll have your cheerleader coach with y'all.
So. If y'all get lost in the dance, y'all just watch her, what she's doing.
[Adam] Are they doing a good job, Beaux ?
[girls giggling]
I think I'm going to forget most of it
and just copy the other cheerleaders.
[indistinct instructions]
One, two, three. Stretching out. Touch your knee.
It is very funny to see my dad dancing.
Your dad?
Just a little bit.
He was...
-He was this good. -[Riley] That good.
♪ Put it in your pocket Put it in your pocket ♪
[woman] That's it.
[upbeat music playing]
So, I'm here for my first therapy session
and I have no idea what to get out of this.
Hi, Danielle.
-Hi. -Hi, I'm Jenn.
-Danielle. Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you. You ready?
-Yeah. -Come on back.
I mean, I don't know if I'm ready but...
[laughs] You'll be fine.
What I don't want is to leave this place
and being all cry eyed emotional
and then that just sets the tone for the rest of the day.
So what brings you in today?
Um... let's see.
I don't know, I guess I married 17 and a half years.
We have six kids,
we have businesses.
Six kids?
We just live a high stressed life and go, go, go
and the communication is always like...
the lines of like, miscommunication
and then not communicating enough
and that and we're kind of going like six different places all the time.
They're involved in like, different things
and going different places and trying to balance all of that out.
-Yeah. -That's hard.
Yeah. So that's kind of like my thing,
like, I just don't wanna not be there
and those are the hard things, like, I want to do it all.
Gotcha.
And be it all and be everywhere with six kids.
-So... trying to pull a superwoman-supermom. -Yeah.
How's that going for you?
It's great!
I'm always busy content
because I'm always doing something.
Were you like that as a kid too?
I grew up-- I had to be responsible pretty young.
-And so I think I am that way because... -Okay. Gotcha.
...I had to take on a lot of responsibility at a young age
me and my sisters
we all kind of grew up at a very young age.
And we needed something we did for ourselves a lot
and we were babysitting, earning money, paying bills,
like, really at a young age and though I was the baby,
I felt like more of like the protector, leader.
I wanted to keep things right.
And if it wasn't right,
I was gonna speak up about it. So...
In the past couple of years I've just had like, some health issues in my body.
It has gone through a huge like, shock
and change after having quintuplets.
I used to work out all the tIme but my body can't take the workouts
like I used to.
I do physically suffer a lot with pain.
Gotcha.
And so that changes your mental state
-when you're not feeling well. -Definitely.
You know, there are times where I'm like,
I can't get out of bed and, you know,
I'm not sure
if my husband is...
...you know, understanding in that.
And though he will take care of things like get the kids to school
and all that, and I'm super appreciative of that,
but I just, I feel almost like resented.
Sure.
'Cause he's just like, "You've got to start small
and just keep going, blah, blah, blah"
and I think the hard balance between
how I feel physically, and mentally, at times,
he just can't understand.
Right, because you put on the face,
the mask, that says "I'm fine, I'm fine, I'm fine", but really, internally, you're--
Yeah. I'm like, if you only knew how much pain I am, like...
Do you ever let yourself just cry and go?
Uh...
I don't have that.
[laughs]
I'm like, why? Just kidding.
-What? What's that? -I mean...
I'm not emotional and I'm not like a softie.
I do think, you know, your body, one of its natural resources
is allowing yourself to cry. It's healing, it helps you to release
some of that pent up stuff every once in a while.
If I had emotions,
I don't know,
I feel like I don't have time for the emotions but yet
I think there are times where
if I want to or need to feel emotions,
I probably hide from them because...
...I think I'm missing out on something
or I'm not going to get something else accomplished.
Like, tasks outdo the emotions that I probably need to have.
I think sometimes a lot of people are afraid because
if I start crying, I don't know how to stop.
I just...
...don't like to do it.
[Jenn] I know.
Because some of it doesn't feel good or there's this,
something, a block in there we'd have to go over.
Yeah.
But you have to put yourself first, right?
Like, if you fly on any plane they're going to tell you,
put the oxygen mask on yourself before you assist anybody else.
Same thing in life.
-You know what I mean? -Yeah.
[Danielle] I'm not even sure I know how to put my oxygen mask on
first before I do for my children.
But I do know that
I do want to be mentally, physically,
well rounded for my family.
But I don't know really what that would look like and I'm not even sure
how long it takes to get there and what I need to do.
I mean I'm turning 40 this year.
And that's 40 years of feelings.
That's a lot of therapy.
[Jenn] You know, allowing yourself to take off
some of that harder shell, just a little bit,
because what's underneath it is the things that
I want you to start to be able to express.
♪ Yeah
♪ Let's get high
♪ Yeah, let's get high
♪ Let's get high
Today is the Graeson Bee Holiday soiree and fashion show.
New venue for us, new place, more people,
and I'm like is this place big enough?
Did I order enough food?
Do I have enough of product here?
I don't know. Just, do I have enough chairs?
So there's always those thoughts that go around.
Can we put the music back on?
Mommy is in a state of perpetual of worriedness.
Just like, always. Mommy's always just like, worried and flustered.
We're at the beginning of like,
the holiday season for the boutique.
Things are only gonna pick up for Danielle.
And so with all the stuff that's going on this week,
while she's been figuring out the fashion show, I've been practicing
and stuff at home with the quints
to do this cheer event so she doesn't
have to stress out about that because she wants everything
to go so well and so perfectly.
-[Danielle] Hey, is everybody ready? -[all cheering] Yeah.
Hi. Hi.
We are going to start the show.
[crowd cheering]
Let's get this started.
What's up, everybody?
All right. First, we get Miss Hazel.
In a nice, flowy, stars aligned, sequined tulle dress.
It's not a catwalk.
You walk like a cat or something?
Wearing a green velour dress. [indistinct]
[Adam] The fashion show is in full force
and, I mean, it's just crazy how just over the top this whole venue is.
And I am proud of Danielle.
I mean, just to see everybody just there to rally around her
and support her business and it's just awesome.
There's Parker.
[Dale] Next up, we got Riley Paige!
Last but not least...
[chuckling] Danielle!
[Danielle] So the night was amazing.
I feel like everyone's had like a good response
and like, they loved the venue and stuff and we raised some money for the NICU.
You did an awesome job, Ri.
It just makes my heart so happy to see that they took the time
to come out here and do this and be here for us.
All right. Thank you, all. Thank you. Thank you.
[upbeat music playing]
Yes, it does.
[giggling]
All right, so the two girls that are coming over for the interview
are from quint's old school and they've been teachers
so they know what it's like to work with a bunch of kids.
Yeah.
Make sure they pass the sniff test.
[Danielle] I'm getting desperate to find someone
to help with the kids and around the house.
People keep telling me
it's too much work for one person
so we've got two girls that are coming in
and we're gonna interview them and hoping that they can tag team.
[humming]
I hope this works out because it has been a draining
and a super difficult process to just find someone.
-Hazel, are you gonna do some karaoke for 'em? -Nah.
Then why do you have that out?
-[knock on door] -Hazel, go answer the door.
I'm not answering the door.
One the girls that we're interviewing today
is a friend of ours' youngest daughter,
who we've known for years. And the other one
is one of her current coworkers.
-Hello. -Hello.
-Hi. -Hi, I'm Maura.
We've done a lot of interviews and it seems like there's been
a good fit with some people.
But then they end up turning us down.
-Hi. I'm Maura. -Hello.
Miss Maura.
But we talked to them on the phone the other day and they seemed great.
So, hopefully this is the help we've been praying for.
-I'm going to go upstairs. -Okay.
-Don't be too loud so we can hear each other down here. -Okay.
All right, so.
This is our life. These are our kids.
Blayke's upstairs somewhere.
This is Beaux over here.
Gus is down here.
Hi, Gus.
[chuckling]
You don't have cats, do you?
-I have two. -Yes.
-She has one. -I have one.
We talked to someone who has cats and Adam
asked if he could shave the cats to be hairless cats.
-[laughing] Why? -Hairless?
[Danielle] 'Cause he wants a hairless cat.
I do, too.
If you've got one, you're more than welcome to bring it over.
No, my cats would hate me.
[all laughing]
[Danielle] But yeah, like I said on the phone,
we're looking for some help across the week.
You know, obviously helping with the kids and like, house task.
But it's not always gonna be the same every single day.
It just depends on what does that week looks like.
So a lot of like, flexibility
and managing all that they're responsible things they're
supposed to be doing as well.
So kinda like guiding them and making sure they're getting
their necessary chores done.
Yes.
Would y'all be okay with us doing maybe some kind of reward system
-like some kind of chart or anything like that? -Absolutely.
-If they clean up something then they get a sticker. -Yeah.
This is awesome. They come with experience with children
and if these girls are willing to, like,
divide days and conquer all the task
then they would be perfect.
So how do you see our scheduling going?
So I was thinking maybe if you take three days and you take three days,
or every other day, whatever,
that way we can maximize you know, the days of help that we can get help with.
[Maura] So you would want us separately.
So you still want us to do all those things?
Yes, and not every day will look the same. But, yes.
[chuckling] That's a lot for one person.
It is, it is a lot. It is a lot.
I don't think that's exactly what we had in mind.
'Cause we were thinking that it was gonna be both of us working the same days.
Okay.
So y'all coming together as a team is--
-[Maura] Yeah, yeah. -Y'all's impression-- Okay.
Hiring two people isn't something that we even thought about
or even planned for financially.
[Adam] Yeah, they're gonna have to agree to split days
or I feel like we're just back to the drawing board.
Financially, trying to hire, you know, two people
full time, every day is a lot for us.
And so maybe y'all could think about...
...if this is something that you're interested in, how, you know,
how y'all could manage this.
And then we can just follow up and touch base again or something.
-Okay. -All right. Sounds good.
Who's excited?
[all cheering]
[all cheering] Let's go!
[hip-hop music playing]
[Danielle] Cheer day, cheer day.
Yup.
Couple more days and we get this van back.
Yeah.
No, you can't.
-It's hot potato, not monkey in the middle. -Yeah!
[cheering]
A what?
A first down?
-What's a first down? -What's a first down?
[together] What's a second down?
[Adam] I think we're gonna get there and we're gonna go to the bubble.
And then y'all get to practice.
Practice at least a couple more times before y'all go down to the field today.
Why is called the big bubble?
'Cause it's a, it's really a big bubble.
Air is what holds it up.
[upbeat music playing]
I see the stadium.
[upbeat music playing]
[Danielle] Let's go! We're here, we're here.
[Adam] Oh, we made it in the bubble!
[girl] Whoa!
[announcer speaking] Welcome to NRG Stadium, y'all!
Are y'all ready to get started?
-Better go get in your spot. -Hey, go find your spot.
[Adam] We're in the bubble and the girls are doing their last minute practice
before we walk down to the stadium for their performance.
This is a lot bigger of a crowd
than what they've ever performed in front of.
[Adam] They've only had one practice
like, inside the stadium.
They're right here.
Honestly, I don't know what to expect and, you know, how it's gonna go.
[indistinct chatter]
[Adam] This isn't just like a dance recital with like, hundreds of people.
This is tens of thousands of people.
[upbeat music playing]
Who's excited!
[all cheering]
All right, ladies, don't forget to smile and
don't forget y'all's guard line, okay?
Let's go!
[all cheering]
We're running on to the field and all the noises and people were cheering.
And there was this little kid that was going--
He was looking at me and I'm like...
[all cheering]
♪ Everything is better
♪ When I am with you
♪ As long as we're together
♪ Everything is better When I am with you ♪
♪ You made me believe
♪ That dreams can come true
♪ Everything is better with
♪ Everything is better with you ♪
♪ As long as we're together Everything is better with you♪
♪ Everything is better
The girls did amazing. I thought it was super cute.
Yes, it was in the busiest week,
and I was frustrated that all this was falling on top of each other, but...
You see them out there and you're like, "Okay, so cute."
And so I am proud of them and I'm glad they did it.
Best at cheerleading is... Parker!
[Adam] Look at all the lights!
[girl] Whoa!
[Adam] Let's go have some fun. And there's a big surprise.
We all got you...
[upbeat music playing]
[Adam] Look at all the lights!
[girl] Whoa!
[Danielle] Who's excited for Christmas season?
[all] Me!
I know I'm in the spirit.
[Crystal] This makes me smile.
Light will get you in the holiday spirit.
You might get lit, that's what you're excited for.
[laughs]
There's tons of lights to see.
[Danielle] Look at that tunnel there.
-[Adam] Let's go have some fun. -Yeah!
And there's a big surprise in the end.
[all cheering]
[Danielle] Okay, let's go.
-[upbeat music playing] -[girl] Wow.
Life lately has been overwhelming
and super busy,
and we just wanted to try to find a moment
to actually do something holiday related
and take the girls to go see some Christmas lights.
Look at the robot.
We have a huge surprise for the kids for this upcoming Christmas holiday.
And we've just been trying to figure out the perfect way to surprise them.
There's a spaceship!
It's a-- It's an airplane!
[Danielle] It's aliens!
[Danielle] Who wants to go see the castle?
[all cheering]
-Let's go see the castle! -[all] Let's go.
[Danielle whooping]
[Adam] I think that castle has gotten bigger.
This castle is amazing!
It is, huh?
Hey, if you think this castle is amazing,
there's an even bigger one.
We all got you a trip to Walt Disney World Resort in Florida!
[all cheering]
Are you all excited?
-Yeah! -[all cheering]
I couldn't... My mind just blew out my whole entire head.
Who's riding rides, baby? I am!
-[all cheering] -I am.
When are we going?
We're going in the New Year.
We have to wait a whole year?
No, I mean, it's next year, but--
-They don't understand. -After Christmas. Yeah.
And I got hats for everybody.
What is that!
[Adam] I mean after the year that we've have had,
I mean, we can't think of a better place to kick-off the new year
with a trip to Disneyworld.
[Danielle] It's like, it does not matter what is happening in your life
you go to Disney and like, it's just happy-go-lucky 24/7.
So, it's just gonna be so fun.
[all cheering]
I mean we've always wanted to do a trip like this
but doing it with both of her sisters' families
I mean, that means there's 16 of us and that's a lot.
[Danielle] It's gonna happen, it's going to be a little bit hectic
to get it all you know... [chuckles]
organized and scheduled but, we did it, we're gonna do it.
Let's go to Disneyworld!
[all cheering]
We're going now?
This is gonna be the best trip ever.
[all cheering]
-You see the castle? -[Danielle] Who's excited?
[Danielle] Next time on OutDaughtered...
[Adam] This trip, you know, this is something new and exciting
because the quints haven't really experienced thrill rides before.
So I'm so excited to see it through the kid's eyes.
[Adam] Expedition Everest is calling my name.
I'm dizzy just thinking about it.
I've got to show the girls that I'm still gonna try.
No. I was holding Mommy's hand.
[screaming]
-Cheers. -To a great vacation that we all needed, right?
Yes. I love life but everything is so fast paced
and I don't like to stop.
Then I feel the guilt just thinking about
I feel like this, I feel--
Lord. Your mind runs too much.
[Danielle] I love all my girls more than they could ever know.
But why do I stIll feel like I didn't do enough for them?
Then you just need to go to therapy.
You feel like you want to do it again?
How am I to deal with my kids getting older as they're experiencing emotions?
I don't want to fail them because I'm not emotionally available.
Thank you.
I've been like checking emails and I got some opportunities.
I don't want to talk about work.
We can barely stay afloat with the work level that we have right now.
Now he wants to bring on more work while we're on vacation?
Like, not before we hire help.
I just have to let them know.
Okay, well, then the answer is no.