(BOTH CHEER)
..90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After...
Sumit's parents, they'll never accept me.
It's not right, it's disrespectful.
This is crazy. Don't cry. I hate it, I hate it, I hate it.
It is really discouraging that our marriage could be in danger
because we found out Usman taking a second wife
is gonna prevent us from getting married in America.
(SIGHS) Bye.
So much of our future is just out of our control.
So, Liz, do you have any...? Do you have concerns...
Honestly, like, I don't have a family member or a friend.
Cos it is gonna be a lot.
I think this is gonna be a great test for us
to see how Ed defends our relationship to his family.
Dad and I actually talked about doing some therapy,
because he knows somebody.
Do you know how much (BLEEP) therapy our family needs?
Things have really hit a new low with my family.
No-one's innocent, including Andrei and myself.
I'm just hoping that this family therapy will help.
YARA:
The last few days, you've already (BLEEP) about the houses
and now you wanna stay in Europe when I go back to the US?
It's one thing after another.
This thing about Billy...
He's got kidney disease.
So, I wanted to go help him in Canada.
(TRADITIONAL MUSIC)
Hello. Hello. Hello. Hi.
Hi. (SPEAKS HINDI) Sumit.
I'm Shubham. Nice meeting you.
Hi. I'm Jenny. Nice to meet you.
(SPEAKS HINDI)
OK. (SPEAKS HINDI) OK.
Have you done Bollywood dance before?
Well, I watch the movies all the time.
That's what we know. Oh, OK, it's fine.
I'll teach you the moves. Yeah.
Tonight we're taking a Bollywood dance class.
SUMIT:
I have always wanted to do Bollywood dancing.
The style and everything, the music, is so fun.
By myself, I might be a little shy.
I mean, if Sumit was more available and didn't have to work so much,
we could maybe do fun things.
I wanna have fun with you,
but I'm very happy you came.
OK, put your right hand like this
and, one, move forward.
Two, and three.
OK. Three. OK.
OK, like this. One, two, three, four.
Buh-bah! One, two, and, one, two.
First, this hand will, right hand will be like this.
Push from right. OK.
And when you're here, like, push from left.
Yeah.
And what does this hand...? OK.
I mean, I'm an OK dancer, I have rhythm.
I can follow the beat.
But Bollywood dance is more about hands
and upper shoulders. Yeah.
Then you need to involve more hand and shoulder into the dances,
than, you know, to just, uh, shaking her ass.
(CHUCKLES)
Oh, my.
OK, one more time, on the music.
(RHYTHMIC INSTRUMENTAL MUSIC) We got this.
Three, four, forward.
And... Three, four.
One, two, three, four.
Wow!
Wooo!
Keep going.
SUMIT:
(LAUGHS)
Nice. Very good.
One, two, three, and ah!
(LAUGHS)
You got it. Nice.
It's hard to catch up with the rhythm, but...
But this was fun, but now I gotta go home and sleep for three weeks. Yeah.
Ooh! That was fun. I liked that.
Yeah, that was fun. That was a lot of fun.
I'm gonna practise, cos I'm gonna... Me and Jenny are gonna practise.
We're gonna beat you guys. We're gonna... You'll take us.
We'll have a dance-off.
SUMIT:
Oh, yeah, for sure. Glad you could come, and got off work.
Are we gonna be losing you tomorrow to work?
I haven't met my parents since I told them Jenny and I are married.
So, hopefully they will come this time.
Maybe it's a good idea we all go?
Uh...
I would love to meet your family.
It doesn't make any sense. How can you guys sit there and say
you want him to choose who he wants to marry?
He has made that choice,
but you guys are like, no.
He has... You guys have tried that.
That's the thing, you're not letting him live and think for himself.
(BOTH SPEAKING HINDI)
Come on!
Let's just all go meet them together
and just see what happens.
Mm. You say, "Mm-hm..."
Actually, I'm thinking about it, like...
Uh... What are you worried about?
We're not here to disrespect your family, your culture,
but we also aren't gonna let your family berate my mom either. Yes.
You know. Just like... If you won't like it, we won't like it.
If we get to meet Sumit's family tomorrow,
it's gonna show us how Sumit reacts
and protects my mom, defends my mom.
Whether it costs you your family or not,
there's no way in Hades
that I would let anybody disrespect my momma.
Not while I'm standing next to her.
I'm really happy that you want to help us
and you want to support us.
Uh... It's a lot, actually.
I need to think about it. I didn't even think about this.
I mean, of course you need to think about it.
Nobody's gonna force you, but my daughters are here,
and we need their support so I think, right now, it's the best time,
before they leave India, then I'm left here by myself to fight the fight by myself again.
I'm a bit worried that maybe Christina will be too confrontational.
I don't want them to say anything, uh, like, uh, wrong,
to my family because...
2 00:09:14.400 -- 00:09:16.960 align:middle line:90% position:50% # RUPERT POPE & GILES PALMER: Million Miles
I'm excited. They're gonna smoke ribs.
Jordan is baking my beans,
which means I'll have gas,
which is not good for you.
(LAUGHS)
So, babe, are you ready to meet la famiglia?
That's the only thing I'm really nervous about.
I can handle situations, I just don't wanna be in a situation where I just don't know anybody.
I'll keep you on my arm. I won't leave you by yourself.
But this one's definitely not gonna end like the last one, I'll tell you right now.
Yesterday, Liz and I had dinner with my sister Christine.
Now we're getting ready for our engagement party.
My family's hosting it.
The crowd's gonna be, mostly, my nieces and nephews
and I'm a little bit afraid.
OK, here's to engagement party No.2.
Let's not fuck it up.
If the party is a success,
my hope is that will bring a lot of this love and enthusiasm with us.
When we get to California, maybe open up a channel with my mom
where we can start to repair our relationship.
OK, baby. Here we go. Are you ready?
My family, they've done very well with real estate
and that's why we're gonna be partying in a castle.
I think it's a perfect kind of, like, fairy tale.
It looks like there's gonna be a lot of rooms I can hide in.
Hello. Welcome.
You guys look amazing. You look amazing.
My God, this is awesome. I thought you wearing pink. (LAUGHS)
I feel like I can be influenced by his family
and we would fight a lot about that
to the point where Ed and I would break up over it.
So I'm worried that anybody could talk Ed out of our relationship.
(INDISTINCT CHATTER)
You guys, Ed and Liz are here. (CHEERING)
I'm the one on the left.
(LAUGHTER)
I'm just kidding. (LAUGHTER)
Great to see you. We've been waiting for you.
Hey. How are you doing? Good. How are you? Good.
I really love that. Thank you.
We have to introduce you. Hello. Hey!
Oh, my God. Oooh! Do you know who I am?
I'm Carly, I'm, like, the oldest niece.
OK. You look beautiful. (LAUGHS)
It's nice to meet you.
Ed, how are you? (LAUGHS)
Oh, I missed you.
Long time no see.
I love this dress.
Yeah. A friend gave it to me.
Did you say Ed gave it to you? Oh, no, my friend.
Oh, there's no way Ed would pick that. (LAUGHTER)
(INDISTINCT CHATTER)
All right.
Let's go in the other room. All right.
I'm gonna stretch out.
Anyways... Wow. Look at this.
Hey, guys, my feet are aching.
Can we go sit down in there? Yes.
Is that good for y'all?
This is typical Ed.
He told me he would not leave my side.
The second we walk in the door, boom, gone.
And I thought there was a respect that he would make me comfortable
till I adjusted and got to know the family,
but I'm disappointed.
I've never been around, like, a huge crowd,
like a large group of girls from Ed's family.
So, I'm very intrigued.
Are there any wedding plans?
Do you have a date set?
Um...
We don't have a date for the wedding. We're in no rush.
I think the pressure of a wedding
and his mom not being onboard...
Cos I don't want to look back in a year or two
and then have that be a regret.
Norma is an elephant in the room.
I can't blame myself for being the problem in the relationship,
but there are times where it does beat me down.
I don't think Ed's gonna be ready to get married
until his mom can accept me.
It's a little scary, because I see Ed eventually leaving me
because his family's not accepting.
I don't know if she was invited tonight.
I was asking Ed if she knew about the party today.
I did not officially extend an invitation
because I know that they are working through
what their troubles have been.
I'd probably do the same thing.
Yeah.
Ed and Liz got engaged and Mom, I think, she felt, maybe forced out,
which is, I think, valid.
I mean, it was very hard on Mom. It hurt her very badly,
cos she felt she was leaving her place.
That wasn't Ed's intention, but that still is the way it played.
So, what's happening with Mom?
(CLEARS THROAT) She did not take
Liz and I getting engaged together at all well.
She was hurt. I heard some chatter.
You heard some chatter.
I could just... I had to tell Mom, "Look, I love you.
When you're ready, you know, I'm here,
you know, but until you can accept Liz, I can't be around you.
This is my life."
I think it's a drastic change for her
because they have cohabitated for so long.
There's like a mourning period.
There's no longer Ed and my mom living together,
you know, in the same house as a unit.
I think it's the initial shock, he's gotta get outta the nest,
you know, it's about time, in my opinion.
My hope is that we can mend it, because Liz is who I wanna be with
and I wanna be with my family. It's a work in progress.
Something different. Yeah.
So, what did you hear? What's your...?
Well, she's never given me an opinion that she didn't like her.
She actually said that she's a great girl.
It's interesting that my mom said nice things about Liz
to my brother Tommy, where... as that's not what I'm hearing.
It does give me hope knowing that, one day, my mom can accept Liz.
(INDISTINCT CHATTER) OK, everybody over...
I'm chill. You guys, can I say something?
You guys, thank you so much.
Liz and I wanna thank you for just giving us this opportunity.
I've found love and I'm very happy.
Um, we don't know the date yet, but we are gonna get married.
Even though I'm a little frustrated with the fact that
Ed just, like, up and left me, there was no yelling, no crying,
no throwing a ring in a bush.
People seem to be very supportive.
I just hope Norma and Tiffany can get to the point where
they can be supportive of this,
just because I don't think Ed can get married till he fixes things with his daughter and his mom.
And there's a chance that that may never happen.
(INDISTINCT CHATTER)
# DANIEL FARRANT & NICK KINGSLEY: No Apology
No, honey. You look cute.
Thank you.
All right, baby, let's go tell your family what you did.
You did.
(SHOUTING ANGRILY)
I'm getting a little nervous. I mean, I've embarrassed myself.
So you're over there calm, because they're all on your side.
No.
I admit, I let my emotions get the best of me.
But I will not take all the blame for what happened
because Michael's behaviour triggered me.
This ain't just been going on when I land in Nigeria.
This has been going on for months.
Oh, God.
Oh, God. It's not as easy as that.
I've always had respect for his family.
But what they need to understand is
their sweet boy isn't so sweet to his wife.
Hello.
Um...pineapple and vodka.
I'm nervous to see Michael's family
because who wants to feel like their in-laws hate them?
Hello.
I'm good. How are you?
Thank you for coming.
So...
Where's Mamma and Sister?
I'm really embarrassed.
Do you think Mamma and them will ever forgive me for this?
Oh, God.
Michael's been doing shady stuff.
This guy's Instagram - flirting with women...
Whoa! Yeah.
And he thinks that's funny.
It hurt my feelings.
So you see how upset I was.
I know and I am truly, truly, truly sorry.
Yes, you have.
Always have.
..I don't want Michael to get to the US
and we have problems.
Seriously, Michael?
This guy don't know I got a crush - or had - I don't have one now.
Yes, he's on dialysis. He's a good man.
I love to take care of sick people. That was my job.
I'm trying to really help him live.
..that is...
Yeah and...
He has to fix the problem of the trust.
He knows what to do.
# SKRIPTURE: Believe That
Babe, I can't tell you enough, like,
how bad I feel.
And I feel like, maybe, you could've just, like,
not been so hard right off the bat.
I know but, babe, did you see me?
Did you see me? Like, I sat there,
calm and collected.
I just left the meeting with my sisters and Andrei
and it went horribly.
After seeing my sisters so upset,
I kind of wish that I would have told them I was pregnant
before we posted on social media.
I feel like things keep getting worse and worse between me and my family
and I think Andrei can just be a little harsh at times,
which definitely isn't helping.
Screaming over the top of someone to try to get higher than them,
they're not gonna hear you.
You're all screaming.
No.
They didn't just come in and start hating you, like...
But I'm fucking trying to talk and they'll be like,
"Listen, hey..."
Screaming over the top of someone...
Baby... Trust me when I tell you.
Screaming over...
It's not just all you,
but I do think that I would like for you
to consider taking it more easy.
I'm just going to therapy for myself,
to just step off.
Bully for you, Lib. OK, go ahead and yell and scream.
I'm gonna sit here and be the civil one.
Of course, I feel the need to protect my wife
when she's being attacked verbally from her sisters
and the rest of her family.
That's why I'm there, that's why I had to come to this meeting.
But, after this fighting with Libby's sister at this meeting...
I wish there wasn't turmoil between us,
especially, like, with a baby on the way.
But there is and I wanna just try to fix it.
We have to fix it and just live happily ever after (?)
I cannot deal with that crap.
Even though I think my sisters were wrong by going to my mom's birthday,
I still want a relationship with them,
especially since Ellie is gonna have another sibling soon.
With the immigration problems hanging over us,
Andrei has really been on edge lately.
And the way that my family always tries to push his buttons,
I feel like he, at some point, it's just gonna reach his boiling point.
# JESSE WALTON: Free My Broken-Hearted Soul
I just miss her. I know, I miss her too.
I came home about six weeks ago
from being with Usman in Nigeria
and I needed to know where we would go from here.
So, I was trying to figure out our wedding, the immigration stuff,
the second wife, then, about two or three weeks after I got back,
my mom got really, really sick and passed away.
She was my best friend and she was my biggest supporter.
And, no matter how old I got, if I had an issue or a problem,
I would just go crawl in bed with her, put my head on her shoulder,
and smell this gardenia perfume and it just always made me feel better.
It does not feel the same without my mom here
and I don't think people realise
that, like, how close my mom and I really were.
Bye. I love you, Mommy. I love you too, honey.
You gonna be OK? You sure? No, I'm gonna miss you too much.
I know. I know. I'm gonna miss you too.
Yeah, right.
All right. OK, you have a good time, honey.
Love you.
No words can describe how much I'm gonna miss my mother.
None. None.
But thank God that I have Jamal and that Jamal is here with me
and can be here to help me.
Like, I'm never gonna see her again. But she's always with you.
I know it sounds crazy, but I feel like a part of me died with her.
I don't think I'll ever be the same.
Part of my heart is just gone.
She didn't want you to stop your life, you know.
Like, what do I do now? Because I feel like I always took care.
I took care of you, then, like, I took care of her for so long.
So it's like who do I take care of now?
You know? Myself? Well, Usman's like the same age as me, almost,
so you could take care of him. I don't need to take care of Usman.
He can take care of himself. Yeah.
It's like I wake up in the morning, I got so used to, making her coffee
and it's just gonna be hard because I lived with her for eight years.
Um...
It's OK.
Mm.
(WEEPS)
(SNIFFLES)
My grandma was not some traditional grandmother,
but I always felt that love from her.
But I feel like it hit my mom the hardest,
just because she's been with her, you know, these past eight years
as her caregiver.
I feel that my mom is not someone that likes being alone.
But she also knows I'm a phone call away,
you know, and I'll get on that plane whenever she needs me.
I know I just have to be strong.
With her passing, I think it brought our family closer together.
Cos really, like, now, you're all I have, you know. Yeah.
You got Usman who, regardless how I feel about him,
you know, he's very supportive of - Me, yeah. ..you.
So I appreciate it. Yeah.
I feel like, with Usman, he has kind of shown me more of a truer side to him.
He seemed to be really caring for my mom, you know,
she was struggling with Grandma.
To wanna be involved in the family, I feel that's taking an effort.
So him being present and keeping my mom happy
is something I can't really be upset about, you know.
Mom always loved him too, cos she always told us.
Whenever he would call her, she would go, "Sojaboy, he go, 'Mommy!'"
They would scream at each other. He was really present with her.
She was happy about me and Usman. She loved Usman.
She was happy about that.
I was not prepared for my mom to pass away like this.
I would never want to go through this kind of pain again,
or loss again, without having the people close to me around me.
Especially Usman.
So, it's really super important to me now, with my mom's passing,
that Usman comes to the States to be with me.
# You are the one that I want, yeah... #
ANGELA:
MICHAEL:
No, Michael, don't do that! You can't!
Oh!
That's good.
Ah!
You do one swimming lesson and you're a fucking champ now.
(GIGGLES)
This is the most fun I've had for years.
I feel sexy. I feel hot.
Before my weight-loss surgery,
I wouldn't be caught dead in a bathing suit like this.
Now I really feel like Michael is enjoying looking at my new body.
(LAUGHS)
(CHUCKLES)
OK.
Voila.
Oh, my God. Wow, Michael.
I'm very much feeling like your wife, right now.
This is so sweet.
Are these mine? Yeah.
They'd better be mine.
I got my drink.
(LAUGHS) I didn't see no box, right.
Oh, Michael.
(GASPS) Oh, my God, you know I like hearts.
So pretty.
(CHUCKLES)
Mm. I love it. Thank you so much.
I haven't felt like Michael's priority in years.
I gotta say, this is exactly what I needed to believe in our marriage.
I'm really happy right now, honestly.
Well, what is that?
What is your problem with it?
I really, truly in my heart wanna help this man.
He's sick, Michael.
It's very important for me to help Billy
because I can only imagine what he's going through with kidney disease.
The last time I was in Nigeria, it was for my wedding,
but I had to leave abruptly
because my mom was very sick and she passed a week after our wedding.
It did make me feel kinda guilty
and I only wish that I was there for my mom more.
So, now that I have a sick friend that needs my help,
I just wanted to help him wash his dishes, cook his food,
giving him a break from daily routines
and letting him just focus on his health.
Michael, I love him like a friend,
and this man is fucking fighting for his life.
He's really a good person, Michael.
The man don't even know I had a crush on him.
You know what, Michael? What?
I don't wanna do this, but I'm gonna rip this damn Band-Aid
because you're my husband.
You're the most important thing in my life. Absolutely.
So, you know what we're gonna do?
We're gonna call him on the phone.
Maybe the real issue is Michael's never met Billy,
so there's no proof that he's only just a friend.
Once he talks to Billy, and Billy assures him there's nothing going on,
I think Michael's gonna respect that, especially coming from a man.
If you say no, then we'll carry this on,
every time we get in a fight.
I know you're gonna like him.
(VIDEO CALL DIALLING TONE)
Hi, Billy. Hey, Angel.
How are you? Oh, I'm well. I'm really well.
Ready to go upstairs to a friend's house. How are you?
I'm good. I'm in Nigeria with my husband Michael.
Would you please come say hi to Billy, please?
I would love to meet him, yeah.
Michael. How are you?
Pleasure to meet you.
(EXHALES SHARPLY)
Uh...
I told him you didn't know, Billy,
and I'm very embarrassed.
Just... Michael, shut the hell up.
Um, OK...
Uh...
(INSTRUMENTAL MUSIC)
YARA:
JOVI: All right, Mylah, let's go.
Hello. We're checking in.
Hey, Jovi? What?
Already? Yes, of course.
Hi!
My God. (YARI SPEAKING UKRAINIAN)
(BOTH GIGGLE)
Honestly, it's so good for me to finally see Karina in person
and just...so... it's so weird for me to say,
but it's just to see her alive.
Like, touch her and know that she's actually real,
she's alive, she's here in front of me.
(SPEAKING UKRAINIAN)
(GIGGLES)
# NINEONEONE: Bonfire
Do you wanna shop for the baby?
All right.
Let's go. Come on, baby.
I wish I knew this store when Ellie was a little baby.
It's been a few days since the big blow out with my sisters
and today we are happy
because we are going to do a little bit of baby shopping.
I honestly need something, like, super positive right now,
and I'm really looking forward to this.
Just bringing back so many memories.
I cannot wait for the baby snuggles and...
(LAUGHS) Oh, stop.
You love snuggling with Ellie.
She was, like, the size of your forearm -
Yeah. ..for the longest time, and just laid on your chest. So cute.
Having one child alone is a lot of work,
but now, with two kids coming, I feel like that's gonna be even more difficult for us.
It's parent life. It's what you get. Well, we have to get a baby-sitter.
We'll see. (LAUGHS)
Well, do you guys have a stroller?
We need a new one. OK, so I will definitely recommend
the infant car seat so you can use the seat from the stroller
into the car. Mm.
And, if you travel, the infant car seat, also are plane approved.
Yeah, that's a good point. I love it.
We have all the good-quality infant car seats and strollers.
You guys know I'm right there if you guys need anything. Thank you.
You're very welcome.
Baby, you look so good pushing a stroller.
I look good pushing a stroller? DILF.
Mm. I already did that, by the way.
I know, but I haven't seen you push a stroller in forever.
You look good. I like this stuff.
By the time Ellie's out of her car seat,
we can use that for the other baby.
Mm-hm. Cos she only needs it for another half a year.
But then, this will, just like will travel.
Babe? What? What do you mean, "Babe"?
I know it's a factor, but can we...?
Like, you have to think real about this.
We still haven't heard any news about the Green card
and that puts me in a tight hole because the time is passing
and, if they tell me something, I have to move to another country,
taking my whole life from one place to another is a big deal to do.
I have, like, my wife, kids, dog...
So, I don't know how should I move all that stuff to another place
the easiest way possible and fast as-as I can.
No.
Babe, I'm...
But we have to, you know, cos we're real.
Well, the time of my third trimester, I can't travel, so...
Well, that's what I'm saying.
We'll have to think about this stuff.
I absolutely want to give birth in America.
I just feel like, in another country,
it's gonna be more difficult, I'm not familiar with the hospitals.
I would like some sort of answer before I hit my eighth month mark
because, after that, like, I'm here, I'm stuck
for at least, you know, three or four months.
You're not gonna stay here and deliver alone.
I don't wanna deliver alone, babe, but I don't want to have the baby in another country.
You have to live with me.
Who are you gonna have here? Who's gonna help you?
What are you gonna do? Like, do you think about that?
Andrei believes that I wouldn't have any support here
if he would have to leave.
Hopefully my family would step up and help me if they knew that I needed it.
But, to go through all of this and give birth without my husband being by my side,
I can't even imagine.
It makes me so sad to even think about.
Well, let's not think about the worst part, so...
You can't not be here for the baby's birth.
# THE VENICE CONNECTION: Stay With Me
Ooh!
Being in the fresh air really helps me,
like, not think about my mom so much.
But I feel like... I don't know.
It's such a loss, so being out here just resets my mind.
I am gonna join a gym, get a trainer,
kind of lose a little stomach a little bit, you know.
I am 51, honey, so...
Gotta keep up. My boyfriend's 33.
(CHUCKLES)
Since my passed away, I'm still trying to figure out my life.
She was my best friend. She was my confidante.
She was my biggest supporter. I don't know where to go from here.
But I do believe that my mom would've wanted for me to take care of myself
and her death made me realise I need to do better for Jamal and Usman.
I need to start exercising more, stop smoking.
There's just a lot of things I need to do for myself.
(VIDEO CALL DIALLING TONE)
Sojaboy. Hello.
Hi. How are you? I'm good.
What are you doing?
I'm happy to see you.
I'm OK. I love you. OK. I hope you're great.
It's hard, you know. It's hard, but I'm OK.
I wanna thank you for everything.
I feel like this has made our relationship stronger too.
You know what I mean? Like, I can really count on you for things.
It's not just me being there for you. No.
I do. I do love you.
Kim-ba-ley!
You're so stupid. I do love you though. (CHUCKLES)
And now that, like, I put my mom to rest and everything,
we have to focus on now.
Everything was so confusing with the lawyer,
so we need to talk about, like, how we want things done.
OK.
After talking to the immigration lawyer,
we found out that Usman could not have a second wife in America,
because polygamy is illegal in America.
And that would prevent Usman from getting the Green card.
This puts our whole future of our relationship in jeopardy
because it's really important to Usman's family and to Usman
that he has a child.
I, unfortunately, cannot have any.
So, it's, um, frustrating.
I'm worried about our future.
I have this...
Yes.
What do you mean?
I don't know what you're saying, though. I don't understand.
Wait, what? What?
Are you joking right now?
So, you wanna adopt the little boy?
Yeah.
OK. Um...
You gotta give me a second...
So, Mohammed, your brother, would just give you his baby?
What? Then who the fuck raises the child? Me?
I don't know.
I'm too old. I'm asking.
I don't know if I want to raise another child.
Like, I raised mine. You know what I'm saying?
We definitely need to think about this first.
Let's talk about this more, OK.
Although I really didn't like the idea of Usman taking a second wife,
I don't know how I feel about adopting his brother's baby.
He's telling me, like, this is the normal thing in Nigeria,
but it's so unreal and it's so crazy.
This is really hard for me to process
and it's even harder because I'm halfway across the world from Usman.
I-I'm in shock. It's a "What the...?" moment.
I really want to figure out these next steps with Usman,
as there is a hell of a lot going on, no matter what I decide now.
# DAS ORIGINAL FELDKIRCHNER QUINTETT: Poomuckl Polka
Mylah, it's snowing!
Mylah is not under the umbrella. (CHUCKLES)
There you go, hold it.
OK, it actually has stopped snowing.
It's cute, isn't it? It is.
It's such a beautiful little town.
Where's Karina?
OK, she's there already. Mm-hm.
I have met Yara's friend Karina.
We spent a lot of time together in Ukraine.
She is one of Yara's friends who can speak English,
so I've had the most interaction with her compared to any other of Yara's friends.
(BOTH SPEAKING UKRAINIAN)
Hi. Hello.
Karina, this is my friend Talmadge.
Hello. Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. (CHUCKLES)
No?
(LAUGHTER)
Small cappuccino. There's a still water.
Thank you. Can we get two beers, please?
What? Two beers.
Yeah. OK.
She said, "Beers for breakfast?" (LAUGHS)
Should I not do that? Like, they're not available till later?
We need something too, like Aperol spritz, or something like that.
I can't believe you get beer for breakfast.
What's wrong with a beer for breakfast?
You're just being typical. Getting a beer for breakfast -
Do you know - ..in front of my mum.
Do you know that we don't get this quality of beer in America?
You need to drink it for breakfast? It's kinda like mid-morning.
It's not like 7:00am, or anything. (MUTTERS)
Can you imagine now you see us and we have a small baby?!
(LAUGHS) She's like, "Yeah."
Oh, yeah.
Yeah, I'm taking one sip of one, one sip of the other.
(SPEAKING UKRAINIAN)
Again, I keep saying this, "Can y'all speak English, please?"
What y'all saying about me?
I'm saying that you need to go work soon,
but I would love to stay here.
I thought we already had this conversation.
Why would you bring that up?
She wants you to stay, or what?
Yeah, she will love if I stayed. My mom would love if I stayed.
I understand that, but I don't feel comfortable with that right now.
I know everything happening is in Ukraine right now
but, if things get worse and it goes to another country,
I don't want them here without me.
I know it's safe territory now
and I just...
I feel like we come as a family and we will go home as a family.
This is... You are so...
If something happened, you can come.
Well, what am I supposed to do?
That's a dad duty, not a friend duty.
I'm just telling you what I would like.
I'd like you to come back with me.
I'd like Mylah to travel home with me too.
Selfish? This is my family.
You don't think it's selfish to keep him far away from his little baby girl?
He goes to work for a month.
He would still not see her.
Like, it's just like you're making a big deal over nothing.
Karina's right, you are selfish.
Thank you.
(SPEAKING UKRAINIAN)
Jovi? What? Please?
(SPEAKING UKRAINIAN)
See, my mom crying, Jovi.
See? You want my mom to cry?
No, I don't want your mom to cry.
But I'm just telling you, like...
Not now.
(SPEAKING UKRAINIAN)
I don't know.
I don't think it was Yara's original plan to stay in Europe longer.
I think, once she gets to see her mom, she sees Karina,
she misses them and I think they're trying to influence her that she needs to stay there.
I'm really concerned about leaving without her,
because Yara's promising me she's gonna come back to the States.
I don't know if she really well and when that'll be.
It makes me really nervous.
(BOTH SPEAKING UKRAINIAN)
# JAMES MCLEAN & LUMINA: Give In To You Again
I don't know what to wear.
Is it cold out?
This is your home town, and you're asking me?
Ah, yeah.
Did you have fun last night? It was a good time.
Last night, Ed and I celebrated our second engagement party
with his family here in Arkansas.
Overall, last night was great.
It didn't end in disaster like the other one,
but we just still have a lot to figure out.
They really liked you.
I don't think I've been around such a big group of girls.
What'd you guys talk about?
(KISSING) You. Us.
Yeah.
I know. I was talking to Marky and Andrew.
Christine really put it together, but everybody helped her.
Is she coming today?
Um, I don't know if she's going to the ranch or not.
Today's the last day we're in Arkansas,
so I'm gonna make every minute count.
I wanna show Liz as much of Arkansas as I can.
And one activity that's pretty huge in Arkansas is four-wheeling.
(GOBBLING)
Thank you, babe.
I would definitely, um,
put this activity down on the Redneck side.
But we're not gonna go full Redneck here,
which would include drinking and crashing the four-wheel drive.
So we're gonna keep it pretty peachy.
Hey. How you doing? Howdy.
Yeah.
Babe, can you help me with my seat belt?
Babe, this is fun.
I'm freezing my ass off. (CHUCKLES)
(GIGGLES)
I was scared.
We're going up this incline, almost gonna flip over.
It's loud, um, and those things are, like, powerful.
I could totally see myself in San Diego with one of these bad boys,
going to the grocery store.
I could put the doggies in the back.
(EXCITED SQUEAL)
Boy, that was fun.
(EXHALES SHARPLY)
Ed got scared. Liz scared the crap outta me.
I can't wait to do it again. I can't, either.
This was so much fun. We had a great time.
This is not goodbye. We'll see you...
We'll be back. I'm just sad you're leaving.
I had a blast.
I had a really good time.
She did. I like how everyone's connected to family.
It's really nice and really welcoming.
Yeah. Yeah.
I am feeling accepted and supported by the family here in Arkansas,
and I see his family out here truly wanting Ed to be happy.
And, if we had that kind of support from his mom,
or his daughter, it would be way easier.
Cos I know we can't move forward in our relationship
because of the tension that he has for the two main women in his life.
Thanks for opening up your home. You're so welcome.
I hope you guys both respect each other.
Keep any negativity out that you can.
Do stay in touch with Mum. Keep reaching out.
Mom and I talk regular, but I try to stay out of that part of it.
Yeah, let me take that on. OK.
You know, if she saw the amount of love and acceptance we got
at your party, she would get over her whatever. Yeah.
But thanks for all your support on that. You're welcome.
I appreciate it.
I love you too. See you guys soon. God bless you. You too.
All right, be safe.
This trip and the engagement party
and being surrounded by, you know, my family, it drives home
how important family is in my life.
So it was great being here in Arkansas,
but I know, when I get back to California,
that, you know, Liz and I are gonna be facing the same challenges
that we're gonna have to deal with.
OK. All right, sweet. See you soon. Bye-bye. Bye.
# HENRY CHRIS KALDRE: Hand Of Buddha
Oh, my God.
You leave so much dishes for me to wash after cooking last night?
You used so many dishes.
I know.
Sorry to leave you all that mess but, you know, I have to go to work.
Get over there and make a mess in their kitchen, OK.
Having my daughter around has been so much fun.
But now, since my daughter and Jen have been here,
it's making me miss America more and more.
Hi. Good morning.
Hi, Jenny. Good morning.
Hi. Thank you so much for joining me here.
What I wanna talk to you about is, well,
I'm living in India right now, currently,
and I'm married to a Indian.
And so I'm interested in getting him to America,
so kind of I just wanted to talk to you and ask you about the process.
OK.
I set up a virtual meeting today with an immigration lawyer
to get a visa process going for Sumit,
so I can get him to America.
I feel bad for going behind his back
but I don't wanna scare him
by telling him I'm starting this process.
Sumit doesn't wanna even consider moving to America.
So, if he knows that I'm talking to an immigration lawyer,
it might upset him.
How hard do you think it'll be for me to get him to America?
I'm a US citizen.
I'm sure you can see that. Yeah, yeah.
Oh, my gosh.
Four months back. OK.
We've been in this relationship since 2011,
all the way up till now.
That's fine. That's really good.
Yeah, I am divorced from America...
I've been divorced for, like, 25, probably 20 years.
Almost two decades, yeah? Yes. OK.
You are independent, right?
Totally independent
and what's a spinster?
Spinster is a single woman who's never married. Oh. OK.
I never heard that word before.
He's 33. So, he's almost 34.
And your age, Jenny?
64.
Oh. OK.
So, uh... Big age gap, yes. OK.
Yeah.
I understand that there is a big age gap between us,
but we've been together ten years.
First, we had to go through proving our love to Sumit's parents,
and now we have to continue doing it for immigration.
I mean, we've stayed together this long. There's a reason for it.
Obviously, we love each other.
No, we are separate in our own house.
Yes, we are.
Not very often.
They won't interview his family, will they?
OK.
We married without telling them that we were gonna be married
because they don't want him to marry me
because of the age gap difference.
They don't want him to be married to me, obviously.
Yeah.
I mean, I don't believe there's any complaint,
but I guess I should ask him and double-check.
That's quite important.
In the past, Sumit's parents had full power over him.
I mean, they got him in a marriage with somebody he didn't even know.
I'll be surprised and shocked if they don't try to do something
to stop this.
My daughter wants to meet Sumit's family and give 'em one more chance
to change their mind about me.
Maybe the thought of taking Sumit away from his family
to America, it might make his parents rethink how they treat us.
But, if it backfires,
getting the visa process started and moving back to America
is really the best shot that we have left for happiness.
Thank you. All right. Bye. Bye-bye. Bye-bye. Have a nice day.
You too. Bye-bye.
# T KELLEY: Just Let It Go
Let's eat. Flavors Of East Africa.
(LAUGHS)
So, this is like Usman's tribal food.
Ugali, it has this different name in Hausa. Ugali.
And you break it apart and you, like, dip it. It's so good.
The samosas are my favourite. I will literally eat anything right now.
I love having you back home. Yeah, I'm glad to be back.
Since my mom passed away two months ago,
it's been such, like, an uphill battle for me.
On top of that, I really don't know what to think about
the idea of adopting Usman's brother's child.
Usman says this is a normal thing in Nigeria.
But it's really weird to me.
This is so out of my lifestyle.
I'm trying to be accepting of it,
but I really don't know if I'm up for it.
This one's really good.
It's not bad, right?
How do you feel?
I'm doing OK.
I had a talk with Usman today.
How's he doing? He's doing good.
There's a lot that I need to discuss with him.
Like what? Just like this whole second wife thing.
It's not legal here in the United States, you know,
so we're on this video chat.
He's like, "There's a way where I don't have to have a second wife."
He brought up, like, adopting his brother's son.
He's like three, you know, and...
So you'd raise the child? ..getting into school.
Mm-hm. Where Usman's from, this is a normal thing
for him to adopt his brother's child?
In his... Like, where he's from in Sokoto,
this is totally his culture. It is?
It's all about the bloodline there.
Mm-hm. And the family carrying on the name.
I don't know. It's a lot to think about.
I don't... I'm sorry...
When you're 70, that kid'll be, what?
19? 18. 18.
Like, what is going on? I know.
It feels crazy.
I feel like I'm doing my best to trust your instincts
but, um, the second wife idea,
the baby...
It's a lot.
Now Usman wants to adopt his brother's child,
and I'm just like, "Usman, what are you doing?"
Like, this is not a game.
And my mom having to take care of the kid.
Like she's already got to take care of Usman when he come over here
and then you're gonna bring a whole kid, that all seems weird to me.
I know this is not and was not in her plans.
I hope she's taking it serious,
because, at the end of the day, if they adopt a child...
This is a human being. It's not a fucking dog.
And I don't know what role she thinks I'm gonna have,
but I'm still trying to acknowledge Usman even being in our life, so...
There's a lot I have to consider.
I don't know if I'm ready to, like, raise a kid again.
And that's one thing I'm gonna talk to him about,
cos I feel like I'm the one that always has to take on so much.
I don't know how much more I can take on, you know.
I'm still, like, trying to wrap my head around the fact
that you're engaged to him. You know I'm happy.
I feel secure in my relationship. Like, I trust him.
He seems like a genuine person from what you say
but, when I really talk to him, I'm kind of just like...
"I don't know you," you know.
That's why you need to get to know him. And... Yeah.
It's really important to me
that you and Usman get along.
I'm just not going to fake a relationship. I know.
But you're the two people I love more than anything in this world.
Especially you.
I do wanna go back over there, like, soon.
You should.
I want you to go with me.
I really think you and him should meet face-to-face.
Meeting Usman? Mm-hm. Now? Mm.
I think it's time and I won't marry him until he meets you, so...
Oh, really? At least meets you.
What if I end up not liking...
This is the man I'm supposed to marry.
I need y'all to get along and...
I just need y'all to get along.
It's really important for me.
I'm not expecting a father-son relationship.
I'm not expecting for them to be best friends.
And they need to both understand that I'm the one in the middle,
I'm the one that gets affected by this stuff.
So, Jamal and Usman, I want them to respect each other and respect me.
I mean, I'm definitely open to coming to Nigeria.
It'd be interesting, like, my first time
to meet your, like, Nigerian rapper superstar person.
Why you gotta call him that every time? He's a superstar.
It's like, I'm happy for you that you're happy,
but the person you're being with, he just has a lot of questions...
..that need to be answered, I feel like.
I wanna take Jamal to Nigeria with me in a few weeks,
so he can see why I'm fighting so hard for this relationship.
And we have to talk about this whole adoption thing.
So I really need to think if I'm really ready to raise a child again
and then it's very important that Usman and Jamal get along.
I really don't know if I could raise a child
in an environment where Jamal is against it.
I know it's important to you, so it's important to me, so...
So, we'll start looking at plane tickets and stuff. All right.
Just...
Michael, shut the hell up.
Um, uh...
Uh...
I adore... I adore your wife.
I think she's a fantastic lady.
I think she has a beautiful heart.
But I do not have a crush on your wife. (CHUCKLES)
Angel? Angel?
Angel?
Angel.
Yes? It's OK.
But, uh, you know, I appreciate the call.
I'm just wondering why did you call me with Michael, like, beside you?
Uh, Michael...
If Angel had a little crush on me, which I didn't even know,
I mean, she's always presented herself very respectful
and very loving and more caring about my situation.
And I'm very close to Billy because of your actions, Michael.
Michael, um, I don't know if I'm stepping out of line,
but I mean, let's put things in a bit of perspective.
I'm stuck to a dialysis machine, my friend.
And I told him that.
Five days a week, seven hours a night, you know.
Like, look, what I'm trying to say is the word "Angel,"
it's not coming from-from a crush,
it's coming from compassion, as friends,
because you wife really, really wants to help me.
She made me the promise she's gonna come down to Canada, you know,
and, Michael, that's it.
No, no.
Stop it. I will not stop helping this man that I care about.
And I keep my word.
He's got kidney failure, you understand?
How can I not help this man?
And, Billy, I will never leave your side.
I appreciate that.
I won't.
Because you brought me misery.
Oh.
And he brought smiles to me in a bad time.
I'm just telling you the truth.
What you put me through was bad, man.
I've never been the kind of woman that has cheated on my-my partner.
I'm loyal, so I feel like I shouldn't be made
to choose between keeping my marriage or helping a sick friend.
You or nobody else will stop me to go to help him
and, if you wanna leave me because of that,
then you do it.
I hate it when people tell me what to do.
Michael, especially, because Michael's known from the start
that I'm a very strong, independent woman.
It's pissing me off that he's tryin' his best to make me submissive.
Sorry, Billy, I really don't like you being involved in this,
because I know you got a lot more things to worry about
than our arguments.
Again - But, Billy, I want you to understand, I'm standing by you,
because you know what you don't understand, Billy?
Is when I had no-one, I had you, as a friend.
Michael... Where are you going?
Billy, I'm so sorry that you had to experience this.
Open the damn door.
Next time on 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After...
When are you going to give me a definite answer
when it comes to having a baby?
I am so serious. You need to give me an answer.
It's almost like you're giving me an ultimatum.
I am not going to allow him to distract me again.
No more Missus Nice Girl.
That will definitely break our relationship.
I'm her son, you know.
Like, I've seen her get screwed over by so many men.
I'm going to really pay attention to how him and my mom,
you know, interact with each other.
If he disrespects my mom, I'm gonna step in.
Like, I was actually thinking if...
..you wanna come back home,
how do you think you would feel about us having another baby?
Another baby? Maybe a child could strengthen our relationship.
If Yara got pregnant again,
I feel like it would bring us closer.
What are you doing?
You're really that mad that I'm going to Canada?
Oh, really?
I can't deal with the bickering and the fighting or the drama
and I just want a clean slate.
We care very deeply for Sumit.
I just would love for you to feel the same way about my mom.
If I'm not gonna be accepted, then, I think maybe it's better
if we just go ahead and live in America, then.
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