[Gino] Previously on 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?
[Emily speaking]
[Emily] I don't know if he's gonna be supportive
or if he's gonna, like, talk [bleep].
[Valery speaking]
You should be like, "What the [bleep] can I do so you don't leave?"
[Rob] All right. Tell me what I need to do while you move out.
You should have asked me.
Man, if we wasn't married...
I committed to her, and I give it everything I [bleep] can.
Dr. Dave told me I need to stop doing everything I'm doing.
Okay. So what do you want me to do?
You wanna go lay down on the bed all day, and that's it?
We were not prepared for the surgery.
You downplayed it, and you told me
-it's nothing. -I'm glad I downplayed it because if I didn't--
That's it. I'm done. I'm going to sleep on the couch tonight.
So why were you on this group?
Do you know... [sighs]
See, you're supposed to tell me things like that.
My heart's telling me to stay,
my mind's telling me to go.
[Jasmine speaking]
I videotaped some of the girls
-that I thought had good posture. -Excuse me?
Gino is making me feel bad about myself.
[Gino] The girl from Haiti.
Wow, so good.
[Jasmine speaking]
[breathing deeply]
[in Spanish]
-[Manuel in English] Yeah. -[in Spanish]
[chuckles]
-[Manuel laughing] -[Ashley in English] Okay.
[Ashley] It's comical, Manuel.
My issue is that Manuel painted a picture that they don't talk.
Yeah, it's comical, Manuel.
It's all [bleep] funny, Manuel.
-[door closes] -[sighs in exasperation]
♪ Stick your chest out ♪
Whoa! Look at you.
I'm putting, like, this bronzer in here so like--
Because I haven't had the chance to tan in Michigan.
You know, there's tanning booths in Michigan.
I--
That's so sad that you have to live in a place
where you need those machines.
In Panama, it was just the sunshine.
♪ Stick your chest out ♪
[Gino] Is that your hot pink swimsuit for the competition?
[Jasmine] Mm-hm. I shave.
You don't see any hair?
No, it looks terrific.
[Jasmine] I'm getting ready for the first competition...
...the bathing suit competition.
And I'm very excited because I look beautiful, I feel beautiful
despite Gino's criticism.
So I'm just gonna go and do my best.
Yeah, it is--
-Hm? -[Jasmine] Do I have a camel toe?
What's that?
Oh, my goodness, gracious.
Okay, camel toes is the [bleep], right?
It's-- Imagine this is a [bleep].
Can you see it? This is a [bleep].
And when you wear something tight, you can see it.
Oh, yeah, those look like [bleep].
That does look real. Oh, my gosh!
Are you getting excited?
Pervert!
You cannot look at any camel toe.
Oh, my God.
[Gino] Jasmine, let me see your posture.
You've been practicing?
[Jasmine] Yeah.
And can you roll your shoulders?
I didn't see you roll your shoulders or do posturing.
That's, that's--
-Well, that was-- -From one to ten? From one to ten?
You mean I have to rate it?
Yes.
Uh, I'm not very good at rating.
So I'm not a [bleep] ten?
Um...
Four.
Incredible.
Be more supportive and stop, like, putting me down.
Ready to go? I think we have to go.
Yeah, we have to go.
Well, welcome back, everybody,
to the 2023 Ms. International World Competition.
[audience cheering]
[woman] All right. That's what we want to hear.
Now, I know that some of you know all about pageants.
And the things that we look for is women that can empower.
We look for beauty, we look for intelligence.
And what they're going to do going forward.
Because our motto clearly states
"More than a pageant, more than beauty."
Well, without further ado, let's get this show rolling.
Whoo!
[woman] All right. Yes.
[Lamont speaking]
[indistinct chatter]
♪ Disco night ♪
♪ Makes you feel all right ♪
♪ I can dance to the beat I'm not alone ♪
♪ We can all boogie... ♪
♪ Disco night ♪
♪ It will make you feel all right ♪
♪ When you groove to the rhythm you can't go wrong♪
♪ We can all boogie... ♪
♪ You got the dips in your hips ♪
♪ You got the music inside ♪
Whoo!
♪ It's the perfect For the dream tonight ♪
♪ Baby, don't you know ♪
♪ Even nine to five ♪
♪ Leave it all behind Go do what you want ♪
♪ La-la-la ♪
[woman] We're concluding our show right now,
but thank you so much.
And we do have our ladies going into rehearsal for the parade of costumes.
-Thank you, everyone. -[Lamont] All right, see you. See you later.
Hi, baby. Baby, baby, baby, please.
I need--
How did I do?
-I think your pageant walk... -Uh-huh.
...you know, could use improvement and...
You know, I mean, it's, it's not good.
Are you serious?
-Just shut up. -No, I'm not gonna shut up.
You're very rude.
[upbeat music playing]
[Angela speaking]
So I feel better than I have since I've been at this hotel.
Do you?
Well, I feel-- I feel okay.
[Angela] Last night, I thought I was going to go back home to the US
and pull this visa
because it's just a lot. This has been a lot.
But waking up this morning, I don't feel like I did two days ago
because Michael told me for the first time
that he was really lonely.
He's showing me more emotion, more than I've ever seen in six years.
But it's so hard to figure out the truth with Michael.
And right now, I need to decide
if he is telling the truth about everything he said.
I need to know.
This is a good thing for us,
to talk like this and not fight.
And I'm listening to you, and you're listening to me
-for once, from my heart, not my words. -Mm-hm. Yeah.
But you have to prove to me that, that this is not what your intentions are.
Yeah.
I feel like everything we've learned in couples therapy,
it just got threw out the window.
Like, now we just got to start all over again.
[stuttering] I really feel...
confused because I do feel like you were using me.
And putting all this together, what I've been through and all, like...
[sighs]
We don't know when that visa's coming.
What if we start fighting again?
What if I find out something else again?
Okay?
So I am gonna stay to see about our visa.
I don't wanna pull it.
But that doesn't mean
everything's still okay.
You know what I mean? We're getting there.
It's a process.
Yeah, yeah.
But just don't think I'm not watching you.
-I'm-- -Because I'm watching.
Just because I'm smiling at you.
-I'm watching. -Babe.
I am.
-I don't want any issue. -Then stop causing trouble.
I need to stay for this visa
because we're in a better place.
We're not fixed.
We're far from fixed.
But we are emotionally connecting again.
It doesn't mean I don't think there's shady [bleep].
I do.
But...
Like, it doesn't seem like he's saying things
just to make me feel better this time.
This time, I think he understands I'm his partner.
Don't answer me like a test.
Like you want me to-- You want to give me the right answer.
And I felt the difference.
[Michael speaking]
-That's what I keep telling you. -[Michael speaking]
I got you.
Yeah.
-[Loren] Are you ready? -Do it! [gasps]
It's so sexy.
When I decided to get the surgery, I thought for sure
that it would help with my body dysmorphia.
But those issues aren't gone yet.
-[Noga] Look how skinny you look. -[Loren] I know.
You can see all of my dimples.
This is a definite no for me.
[Manuel speaking Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Manuel and Ashley] Ciao.
[upbeat music playing]
-[Noga] Here we are. -Sexify myself.
Ooh. Let's do it.
-[Noga] What a great boutique. -What a cute place.
[Loren] I haven't been-- This is, like, my first time
really out of the house, even with you.
Well, good. Let's have fun.
Maybe we can pick a few outfits.
Alex and I got into a huge fight a couple of weeks ago.
I think we've both gotten over the fight,
but I don't think things have been the same between us.
There's just tension.
I think a date night could help us.
We're both mentally stressed.
We're physically exhausted.
And we just need time, just the two of us,
without kids, without parents, just--
Every couple needs that.
[Noga chuckles]
Mm.
I like that. That's short.
-This is short. -[Noga] Okay.
Like?
[Noga] But it will tighten your boobs.
But it's like a corset.
-[Loren] Hello, Prague. -[Noga] Oh, look at the bows in the back.
Oh, that's really cute, Loren.
I need something that, like, screams I've still got it,
but, like, I'm also really not trying to get pregnant again.
[Noga chuckles]
[Noga] How are you feeling? How's the recovery going?
[Loren] It's been hard.
This has been quite a test for me and Alex, honestly.
We just had a huge fight because Alex is, like, accusing me
of downplaying how serious the surgery was.
I feel like he's resenting me for doing it.
-And, like, I feel bad. -[Noga] And it's been a long time, too.
-Yeah. -Don't feel bad
because you guys will just need to get to your groove.
It's just a matter of time. Date night will help.
Loren looks amazing. She's healing perfect.
Uh, she looks incredible.
But Alex definitely needs to be more patient with Loren.
I think the expectations as a mom and as a wife are high from Alex,
so I think she definitely needs some time for herself.
[Loren] Are you ready?
Do it.
[Noga gasps] You look so good.
-Come see. Mirror's over here. -I don't-- I don't if I like the material already.
Oh, my God. It looks so beautiful.
My God. No.
This is not the dress for me.
-But look how skinny you look. -No. Look at--
You can see all of my dimples.
My God.
No. This is a definite no for me.
-It's nothing. -Okay, next.
-No. Hard no. -[chuckles]
[Loren] When I decided to get the surgery,
I thought for sure that it would help with my body dysmorphia
and my confidence and change that.
But those issues aren't gone yet.
I'm still physically and mentally not quite there.
-[Noga] Ooh! -I don't know.
-Right. -[Noga] It's such a flattering dress.
[Loren] Do you think so, though?
[Noga] Yeah. I mean, it's so sexy.
[Loren] Do you think Alex would like this?
[Noga] Love it.
[Loren] Do you know what this reminds me of?
When I used to go visit him, his mom would always have
a new set of sheets for us, always.
And one year, it was the year of the leopard.
And I feel like this will definitely--
-Will bring him back. -If I show up to date night like this, he'll be like,
"Oh, my God, you look like the sex sheets."
That's what we called them.
It will remind him of when we first started dating, the, the sex sheets.
And what you guys are about.
-Yeah. -And maybe it will help everything.
[gasps]
I love it, which is what we're hoping for, right?
[Loren] I'm not trying.
We don't need to try for another one.
-We could still have-- -[Loren] Six.
Usually, Alex and I have a very healthy sex life.
But because of the surgery and then negative energy
and fighting all the time,
our intimacy hasn't been as much as he would like.
We've always been a united front,
and lately we have not been on the same page.
And we really need to get back to that.
-I can't believe. -I love it.
-I'm very excited, actually.
-It looks so hot. -Comes out looking like myself again.
-It looks so good. -This is my alter ego.
-Veronica Vixen. -Mm!
Oh, my God. Alex is gonna go crazy.
-[woman] Y'all ready? -This is the winner.
-Yes, we love it. -[Loren] I can't believe.
-I would have never chosen that dress. -They said it was gorgeous.
-Really? -[woman] It looks amazing when you try it on.
This surgery is the first step to reclaiming Loren again.
Before marriage, before kids, I was more independent.
I loved that version of myself.
But Alex likes that version of Loren at home,
taking care of the house and the kids.
So I don't know if he wants the old Loren back.
All right. I texted your receipt to you,
-and you're all set to go. -Thank you so much.
-Thank you, thank you. -Thank you, ladies. Bye.
♪ You let the devil in you ♪
♪ Must be the devil in you ♪
It's all [bleep] funny, Manuel.
[in Spanish]
-[in English] Come on, come on. -[in Spanish]
♪ You let the devil in you ♪
♪ Oh! ♪
♪ You let the devil in you ♪
[Manuel speaking Spanish]
[Ashley speaking Spanish]
-[in English] Yeah. -[Ashley speaking Spanish]
[in English] No.
[Manuel speaking Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Manuel in English] Wow!
[in Spanish]
[Ashley in English] Okay?
[in Spanish]
[in English] I don't have a problem with Manuel talking
to the mother of his children,
but I don't understand why this needed to be a lie.
I don't understand why he can't just be like,
"Oh, I talked to the mother of my kids.
I have to send her X amount of money this month."
Boom. Easy.
What he is not realizing is he's making things
more complicated by the way that he's moving.
And it's ruining our relationship.
[in Spanish]
[Ashley speaking Spanish]
[in English] Someone is lying.
[in Spanish]
[Manuel speaking]
[in English] Don't talk to me.
No, I don't wanna talk to you.
Get away from me! Get away from me!
[in Spanish]
-[in English] Where's he going? -I don't [bleep] know.
[Manuel speaking Spanish]
[in English] I feel like this has been a conversation that we've had
over and over and over again, but I still don't feel heard.
Like, am I always going to have to dig for information with you
to get what I need to know?
Like, why can't you just tell me these things that I should know?
I'm at my limit with any sort of deception.
I don't know where you go from here
-at this point, like-- -[Ashley sighs]
[Sienna speaking]
I don't know.
I don't have an answer to that.
[Thais speaking]
This trip has been a lot harder than I thought it was going to be.
With all the fighting between the friends and the family,
it's put a lot of tension in our relationship.
What's your dad done for our relationship other than cause problems?
[upbeat music playing]
[in Portuguese]
[exhales deeply]
[Patrick in English] Feels good, huh?
Yeah, it feels good.
Baby's with your mom.
It's our first date alone.
This trip has been a lot harder than I thought it was gonna be.
And with all the fighting between the friends and the family, it's just--
It's put a lot of tension in our relationship.
So I figured, like, you know, we needed
to get away from everyone and have a date night.
And so we decided to go to a place that we had our first date.
-Remember our first date here? -[Thais] Uh-huh.
We couldn't even talk to each other.
We had to use our phones.
-Lot's changed, huh? -[Thais] Yeah.
[Patrick] We met on a dating app.
And then shortly after that, we came here on a date.
It was amazing, huh?
Yeah. I mean, it was--
It was fun. I mean, it was awkward, that's for sure.
It was awkward, yeah.
Like, it was just silence.
And looking at each other.
Yeah.
[Patrick in Portuguese]
[in Portuguese]
[in English] I always say that. I always say that wrong.
-Caipirinha. -I know.
Damn it!
But I worked extremely hard to learn Portuguese.
I mean, I literally studied four to six hours a day
probably for, at least, three months non-stop.
So that's-- That was so sweet, [indistinct] .
-Oh, here we go. -[Thais] Mm!
That's what I'm talking about.
[Patrick] Here we go.
It's all you can eat restaurant
where they bring meat around in a stick.
It's my favorite type of restaurant.
So when she picked it for our first date,
I was like, "Oh, this is perfect."
-[in Portuguese] -[Thais] Mm-hm.
[in English] I said that good.
[Thais] Mm.
[Patrick] Oh, yeah? How did that go?
You guys talk about John?
Yeah, of course.
[Patrick] No, I don't.
[Thais speaking]
[Patrick] But, I mean, at the same time, too, like,
your dad hasn't given us anything.
What's your dad done for our relationship other than cause problems?
Oh, your dad's causing problems.
You know, it's more than what you think.
Like, when I first came out here, it wasn't about you.
It was about coming back to my dad.
My relationship with my dad's a lot different
than the relationship with your dad.
Like, my dad wasn't around.
[sniffles]
[Rob] It's been a minute since I've been back to Kansas City.
I feel like a trip like this to my hometown,
this is some time away from the stress of my marriage.
And I'm just gonna try to focus on having a good time.
Right down that street...
♪ I woke up this morning ♪
♪ And my Ferrari Wouldn't start ♪
♪ No, no, no ♪
♪ When I tried my Maserati ♪
♪ It sounded like It was gonna... ♪
[Rob] Hey, there it is.
It's been a minute since I've been back to Kansas City.
♪ I got to give it Some more blues ♪
♪ 'Cause my woman's Taking half ♪
♪ Hey! ♪
♪ Don't give me some More blues ♪
♪ Oh, yeah, yeah ♪
[Rob speaking]
She told me the plan was to say at Kae's for just a few days
to think things through.
But honestly, I don't believe that [bleep] for one second.
And I know I don't want to sit at home waiting,
so I'm gonna try something different.
Ah. Okay.
Today is my birthday.
And it's definitely not a good feeling,
you know, when your wife doesn't want to be with you on your birthday.
Oh, they got one of them private, private poopers.
I grew up in Kansas City.
And, you know, I've got people here who miss me.
I haven't been here in a while.
I got family.
Kansas City is definitely gonna be way more fun for me
than sitting in Austin alone.
Oh, man. [grunts]
I haven't been back here since I was 26.
I'm gonna go see my friends, I'm gonna go see my mom.
And it's nothing but love.
And that's why I'm here. Nothing--
No arguments, no bickering. It's gonna be--
It's just gonna be good energy coming my way.
And that feels great.
I'm excited. Time to do the do.
[scatting]
It's really weird being back here.
I'm very excited to see my mom tonight.
You know, I miss her.
The last time I saw her was at Sophie and I's wedding.
I'm sure she's gonna have some opinions
about what's been going on between Sophie and I,
and maybe she'll give me some good perspective.
Because I've never been married before, and this--
This isn't-- This isn't what I thought it was going to be like.
You know, I grew up wanting to get married one time
because, I mean, I just didn't want to do
the same thing that I watched my mom do.
And that's why I'm still holding on to Sophie.
But if she wants all this space,
and she's been doing her thing,
then I need to just do me.
Man, I used to be all up and down these streets.
Right down that street...
That's where she lived.
On this corner up here,
the girl who lives in that house,
I had the biggest crush on when I was in seventh grade.
We dated for two weeks.
And her mom told her to break up with me.
Yup. Claire is not the first mom
to tell her daughter to break up with me.
I feel like a trip like this to my hometown,
it might not fix my issues,
but this is some time away
from the stress of my marriage.
And I'm just gonna try to focus on having a good time for my birthday.
And Kansas City, I think, will deliver.
It's going to be good to be actually in person
with the people that I care about, that care about me.
And, you know, just like, kind of like old times.
Just hanging out with the people
who I actually [bleep] with.
[dramatic music playing]
-Thank you. -[Valery speaking]
-[Emily] Whoo! -[Kobe cheering]
[Valery speaking]
Thank you.
Whoo!
[man 1 speaking]
[Kobe] We just have to make sure
that we get the final blessings...
And then Emily and I are going to continue our lives
not only as an American couples,
but as an official Cameroon couples.
[man 2] Good evening, all.
[all cheering]
[Kobe speaking]
That's so sweet.
I love that we are able to make his dad so proud.
And the fact that we are able to pull off this traditional wedding
in such a short amount of time.
Smile big, smile.
It feels so good to have the approval
that I had been wanting coming to Cameroon.
His friends approve, his family approves,
and now I'm officially his Cameroonian wife.
Wow!
Tonight has been so fun.
I'm so excited to be here in Cameroon
and meet all of my husband's
and mine now family and friends.
Thank you so much for being here.
And, yeah, let's party.
Whoo!
We're a power couple.
I feel like we're, like, officially married
under American law and Cameroonian law.
It feels really good
because I want to spend the rest of my life with Kobe.
I'm just really lucky to have you, babe.
-I love you. -I love you.
[all exclaiming]
-[Alexei] Okay, babe. -[Loren] Are you ready?
Yes. The babysitter is here.
-We gotta go. Come on. -[Loren] Okay, I'm coming out.
I don't know why I'm nervous.
This is the first time since the surgery
that Alex will see me without my faja, my girdle,
my bandages, everything.
And I just hope that he's happy with the results.
[Alexei] I'm ready for you.
♪ You like it better With my lipstick on ♪
♪ You've got a taste And you can't get enough ♪
[Loren] I have so much makeup,
and I don't wear any of it.
♪ Let's take a ride ♪
♪ Oh, I am feeling alive ♪
[Alexei] No. Inside. Push, push, push.
Good job.
Push, push, push, Shai.
Where's Mama?
-Oh. -[Loren gasps]
-There's mama. -[Loren] Hello.
Can you take your shoes off?
[child] I got gummy.
You got gummies? Hello.
Go ahead. Go take your shoes off.
Hello, little miss.
Since the surgery, Alex has taken on everything,
and it's really taken a toll on our relationship
while I've been recovering.
So tonight, we want to enjoy a nice dinner with him,
and just, kind of, talk with him.
And just have us time.
Focus on each other right now.
You look all, uh...
-Well-- -...pampered up and stuff.
-What is that? -Thank you for noticing.
Yeah. I see you with some smoky eye over there or whatever.
-[laughing] Eyeliner. -Huh? Smoky eye, or no?
-Just eyeliner. -[Alexei] Uh-huh.
-I went big tonight. -[Alexei] Okay.
[Loren] Tonight is a really big deal.
This is the first time since the surgery
that Alex will see me without my faja,
my girdle, my bandages, everything.
And I want to feel sexy,
and I want him to think that I look beautiful.
But I don't know how Alex is gonna react.
I just hope that he's happy with the results.
-Okay, L., I'm gonna go change. -[Loren] Okay.
Are you going to change?
-You go first. -Okay.
-I have an outfit of choice tonight. -You do?
Loren asked me out on a date,
so I feel excited, I feel good.
Because Loren sees me struggling,
she sees that I'm tired.
We're working very, very hard right now.
And we need to find the balance.
-Okay, babe. -[Loren] Are you ready?
Yes. The babysitter is here.
-We gotta go. Come on. -[Loren] Okay, I'm coming out.
[Alexei] I'm ready for you.
Whoo!
Oh, wow.
Wait, do a little circle. Turn around for me.
Turn around.
Okay, now you can come.
Now you can come and dance for me, honey.
Yeah.
-I feel good on this chair right now. -[Loren grunts]
[Alexei] I know I can't lift you still.
Okay.
All right, I like this.
Not making baby number four.
Looks like the sheets my mom gave us for, uh...
Remember?
-The sex sheets. -[Alexei] Sex sheets.
-Okay. Yalla, go get your purse. Let's go. -[Loren] Okay.
-[Alexei] Bye-bye, boys. -[Loren] And girl.
Be good for Ms. Hanecca.
-Bye-bye. -[Loren] Love you.
♪ City lights Dreams take flight ♪
♪ Set this town on fire ♪
[Loren] Wow.
Cheers, honey.
[glasses clinking]
I feel like...
I don't know.
Like, I'm nervous about date night.
-Nervous about date night? -Like I felt, I felt more...
Comfortable on our first date than right now.
-Why? Why are you so uncomfortable? -I don't know.
It feels weird to not have my faja on or my binder
and this material against my skin.
And you feel good, like...
Yeah, I'm definitely not fully there,
but like, I certainly don't have any regrets doing it.
Well, you look great, honey.
Thank you.
I think that this surgery,
it definitely tested us.
-But it still is testing us, honey bunny. -Yeah.
It's been really nice, though, having you do this kind of stuff.
Well, yeah. It wasn't, for me.
So you need to heal faster and yalla.
Get back to it, honey bunny.
-So, talking about getting back to normal. -Hmm-hmm.
You know, I want to, like,
find myself again, right?
I focused on having babies the last few years and raising the babies, right?
So did I.
I know you did, but now, I had this surgery.
And I got it done and over with,
and now, I do want to kind of find myself again.
I really, like lost myself in the post-partum depression and everything.
I want to further my career, for our family.
I don't want to just be mom and a wife.
[stammers] What are you trying to say?
I want to be a working mom.
I do want to kind of get back into advertising and marketing
and really focus on that and pursue it.
You're a mom, first of all. You need to take care of the kids.
-Absolutely. -You take care of the house.
[stammers] And me, as far as I need.
Nothing is going to change.
-Mom and wife comes first. -You're saying it now.
But then when you start going and you have a meeting,
and then what? I'm at home with kids
and you're galloping around?
Because that's what it sounds to me like you're building for.
I feel like you think I'm a bad mom
because I want to be something for myself.
-I don't think you are. -So I can show our kids that I can do that.
-I don't think you are-- -And they can see, Mommy is strong.
And this and that, like...
They don't care about seeing Mommy strong.
They care about Mommy being there.
[intense music playing]
You know, we were always in an agreement that...
The mom and, and the wife...
Is the first priority.
Those are the roles.
You know, old school, so to speak, roles.
I didn't agree to be a stay-at-home mom.
But that was your goal.
-But that-- -I just agreed.
That's what you wanted.
But I also want to be a businesswoman.
But I don't think it's possible.
At some place, it's gonna take away from the family.
-One hundred percent. -It's possible and I'm gonna show you.
[suspenseful music playing]
You're always there for the person you love.
And the fact that you don't get that back?
Breaks my heart.
We had a lot of hard times
because of things we've been through,
so it's hard to see that he's struggling.
I have not felt positive
reinforcement from you.
You are uninvited to the rehearsals.
Uninvited?
[Gino] I didn't expect that.
I just feel like, maybe I should pack my bags and leave.
Maybe that's a better idea.
[tense music playing]
♪ Don't want To over complicate it ♪
♪ Don't want to face The things you hated ♪
♪ Now that this mess Is consecrated ♪
Hey.
♪ Do all I can To just evade it ♪
Long time no see.
I know. It's been too long.
I missed you.
And I miss you.
♪ You treat me Like a black rose ♪
♪ Yeah, they're waiting In the shadows ♪
♪ You treat me Like a black rose ♪
How are you doing?
-Great. How are you? -I'm all right.
Hugging my mom for the first time,
and it's been like, almost a year.
It's-- Honestly, it feels so good
because I feel that love,
And I've been wanting--
I've been needing to feel that love from, from someone,
and I hadn't been getting it from my wife. So...
Getting a hug from her
really makes me feel so much better
just because I know somebody really loves me.
I got a drink while I was waiting.
-What did you get? Some lemonade? -Try it.
[clears throat]
A little something back there I wasn't expecting.
Since when-- You didn't used to drink nothing like that.
-I'm grown now. -Really? That's what it was?
No, I can't let you out drink me.
That's crazy.
Who is this person?
[Andrea giggling]
My mom is pretty much the exact opposite of Claire.
She would never be that obnoxious.
She would never be that judgmental of someone.
And she would always give someone
an opportunity to show her who they are.
I feel like Claire has written off
any opportunity for me to show her who I am.
And my mom is just so much more understanding and patient.
They're just worlds apart.
They're completely different.
[sighs] So, talk to me.
Tell me what's up.
-How's life? -Man, you know-- You know how life is.
Life is...
Life is complicated.
And I guess, I make it more complicated.
Sophie's doing her thing.
Doing, you know, what she felt like was best for her, I guess.
But...
That's not what I thought marriage was gonna be like.
Well, it's not what it should be like.
[Andrea] Rob is strong-willed.
He is a very loyal person.
He was always protecting his friend,
or standing by whoever.
He just always, um...
Did the right thing.
He's been through a lot in his life.
And we had a lot of hard times
because of things we've been through.
And so, it's hard to see that he's struggling right now.
I don't understand her not coming home.
What is that, and where--
-Where are we at at this point? I mean... -I can't make sense of it.
I've said I'm sorry a thousand times.
I've said, just give me a chance a thousand times.
And not go-- Getting anywhere.
And then, like a few days ago, her mom came to town,
and all her mom did was just rip into me,
about how, how terrible I am.
And then after that,
Sophie comes to the house and...
She's basically telling me,
she needs more days away from me to think about things.
It sounds like you're living in--
You're living in limbo.
Thank you.
[Andrea] Oh, thank you.
I mean, commitment's not easy for you.
-You know? -That's a big thing for me.
I know it is.
Because, I mean, I don't have a whole lot of good examples
of people working out.
I hated to see that you deserved love,
and you deserved somebody who was going to be a good--
A good man for you and it didn't play out like that.
Yeah. But sometimes, you have to get to that point
because it's just not healthy.
[solemn music playing]
You are the most loyal person in the world.
And that is always there for the person you love.
And the fact that you don't get that back?
Breaks my heart.
Because I know your life and I know what you've been through.
Which is why you don't pick your people easy.
When you finally say, "I'm in this," you mean it.
And I was your biggest supporter.
You know? I support this relationship.
But your heart matters to me.
Yeah. I know.
[Rob] My life feels extremely messy right now.
I don't know what has happened to my life.
It's very hard for me to wrap my head around divorce.
But it hurts to be stuck in this limbo,
of not knowing what it is that we have,
and I, I don't get anything out of this relationship.
I don't get any love.
I don't get any intimacy. I don't get any affection.
I don't get any consideration.
I don't get anything out of it.
I can't do that to myself forever.
[dramatic music playing]
[soft music playing]
Hooh! Freezing.
[tense music playing]
Jasmine's posture, and how she's walking...
Um... It definitely needs some work.
I'm hoping that my feedback
has alerted her to maybe, look at others
and see how she can improve herself.
I thought you did okay
in the swimsuit competition,
compared to the last time you were out.
But there's a couple of details that if you try to improve yourself,
you could win the competition and be the best of the best.
I do appreciate you coming here, and being supportive.
Thank you for that. However...
[Jasmine sighing]
I have not felt positive
reinforcement from you.
You're focusing on, on all the negatives.
So I decided,
that you are uninvited to the rehearsals.
Uninvited?
Yeah.
Seriously?
[suspenseful music playing]
I have been nothing but supportive to you
-since I come here. -And I appreciate it.
-I appreciate it. -And this is the thanks that I get?
Listen.
Don't be my coach.
Be my husband.
Be part of the audience.
[intense music playing]
[Gino] I didn't expect that.
Um... I--
You know, that just doesn't make sense to me, like...
Um... It's not a good feeling.
It's almost like, Jasmine is pushing me away,
or pushing, you know, our relationship away, like...
I don't know if she's trying to start a fight with me,
or she's trying to get back at me.
Is it like a revenge thing? I don't know.
She makes me feel like she doesn't want me around.
Like, you know? I just feel like maybe,
I should pack my bags and leave.
Maybe that's a better idea.
I don't know. That's how I feel.
[tense music playing]
We thought it would be really fun
to bring his dad like an "American Dad" outfit.
[all cheering]
[dramatic music playing]
Salut.
It's my birthday today,
and it is pretty tempting
to just be carefree and completely forget about my marital issues.
[soft music playing]
Oh, I'm sorry, Babe.
[sniffles]
[Patrick] Like, my dad wasn't around.
Like, my parents got divorced.
Then we moved across the country.
So like, you know, I'd be lucky to see my dad once a year.
Most of the time, it was at a motel
because he was on the road and he was a truck driver.
And it'd be like, for a day or two.
And that was it.
And I'd wait another year until his route came back.
You know this already.
-I told you. -I know but I-- I don't know.
A long time, but like...
Since when? I don't know the whole story.
I didn't-- I haven't--
I mean, before I came back, I didn't see him for almost five years.
And, you know...
Maybe I told you in bad Portuguese,
-or I told you in English-- -For sure, bad Portuguese.
And you didn't understand, like, you know, like...
Having that apartment...
It was the start of like,
my dad coming back into my life.
Hmm-hmm.
It was like the first time, like we, actually,
you know, had something like, to do together.
And I haven't gotten to do that with him
pretty much my entire life.
And like, why...
throw that away,
for a few hundred dollars?
[soft music playing]
I understand.
To me, it's priceless.
Hmm-hmm.
I feel bad.
I had no idea that Patrick's relationship
with his dad was bad, as he's telling me right now.
So, like, maybe...
You know, next time,
we see my dad,
your dad, you can just--
We can just squash this whole thing.
You can talk to him.
And, you know, set the boundaries for the apartment.
Okay.
I just want to say thank you.
For you, like, to share with me all this, and...
Now that I understand why you want to have the apartment.
Because, like, love you.
And I want you to feel happy. Feel good.
-I love you too. -I want you to have it.
I want to see you happy, you know that.
Of course.
-I am happy. -Okay.
But I want you to do something for me, too.
I want you to bond with my dad,
and ask him for the blessing.
I can do that.
I mean, I want to have a good relationship with your dad.
You know, like, I just haven't felt like he really wanted it.
So it's like, if I see like, he's open to bonding with me,
like, and I feel right about it,
like, I'll ask for the blessing.
[guitar music playing]
I think we should invite him for the trip.
Okay.
We're planning a little vacation
from our vacation.
We're gonna go to a town that's a few hours away
called Janauba.
We came to Brazil so we could spend time with the family,
and more specifically like,
me and her dad, so...
I don't think it's a bad idea,
but I'm definitely nervous about her dad coming.
But like, one thing like,
I'd really like, because...
You know...
I know your relationship
with John has been up and down,
and, like, it hasn't been the best, like...
I'd like John to come on this trip with us and for you guys to bond, too.
Oh, my...
I'd like you guys to be friends.
And I'll talk to him too, like...
And he'll be on his best behavior, and...
You know, I think you'll...
you know, you might love him one day.
I'll get to know your dad and you'll get to know John.
[chuckles]
Deal?
-Deal. -Okay.
Shake on it.
[Thais giggling] Shake on it.
-Okay. -[groans]
-My leg hurt. -I know you don't like me,
-My leg hurt. -like, too tall,
more than you, but...
Oh, be careful.
I love you.
That's one thing that happened when you gave birth.
-What? -Your ass got big.
Hey, shut up.
[upbeat music playing]
Koban, do you know what we're doing today?
Do you know where we're going?
Where?
Well, we have a layover in Paris,
but where are we going right now?
-[Emily] In Africa. -[Kobe] In Africa, you just--
Whose house are we going to?
Do you know what we're gonna do at grandpa's house?
We are gonna say goodbye.
-The wedding was so cool. -[David] Yeah.
The wedding was so fun.
-Yeah. -It was a lot of fun.
[David] All the entertainment, the dancers, the singers.
Of course, we didn't know anything about it.
You guys are just like, okay.
Today, we're coming over to my family's home
to say goodbye to everybody.
Woah, okay. We're here.
[Emily and David cheering]
[Emily speaking indistinctively]
It's been two weeks since we're here,
and it's been the shortest two weeks
-ever in my entire life. -Oh, I know.
Good morning. Good morning. Good morning.
That was a fun night last night. That was fun.
Good morning. Bonjour. Bonjour.
[Lisa] Hello, Papa.
I just can't believe that we, um, got to the point
where we have to say goodbye, and it breaks my heart,
but, you know, we just have to accept that.
So...
[cheering]
Okay, try it on.
All right. Papa.
You're welcome.
Okay.
When Kobe came to America,
he brought my dad a Cameroonian outfit,
so we thought it would be really fun
to bring his dad like an "American dad" outfit.
And I just thought it would be a fun thing
for him to try on like, cargo shorts
with ankle socks,
and tennis shoes,
with a fanny pack and a button-up collared shirt.
And then I'm having, like, flash forward to like,
"Oh, my gosh. This will be my husband in like...
40 years."
Ladies and gentlemen.
Are you guys ready?
Everybody say, "Whoa!"
[all] Woah!
[all cheering]
[Emily] Oh, my gosh.
[people laughing]
We look very much alike.
I know.
So, we just want to say thank you guys and...
Thank you.
-Thanks. -I'll miss you.
Okay, Papa.
American grandfather.
American grandfather. [laughs]
[speaking French]
[Isadore speaking French]
-Say "Bye, Grandpa." -[babbles] Grandpa
Give him a hug. Big hug.
[all] Aww.
Sweet girl.
Wow! Grandma's so strong!
[Emily] Yes.
Oh, that's good.
Merci, Maman.
[Isadore speaking French]
This is gonna be another...
[Antoinette] Miss you.
[soft music playing]
[Kobe] Amen.
-Oh... -[both chuckling]
I admit that being here with Emily
and seeing my friends accepting her as an official Cameroonian wife
and my family accepting her as part of the family,
makes it even harder to leave.
All righty.
-Bye, everybody, thank you so much! -Flying kiss.
[David] Bye-bye, thank you for everything.
[Emily speaking French]
It's really sad right now because, you know,
I'm leaving Cameroon not knowing when I'm gonna be back.
No matter, you know, how comfortable you feel outside,
when you're leaving people like that,
there's always some sort of, you know, emotional breakdown in you.
I will always hope to return home
as soon as possible whenever the chance...
I'll always hope to return home.
Yeah.
Oh, my goodness. I can't believe we're leaving already.
[in French]
[Angela] After a month abroad in Ivory Coast,
I don't want to think about negative or bad stuff at this moment.
This is a new beginning.
That's what I'm hoping for.
♪ See the signs ♪
♪ Here we are, lost in time ♪
♪ Leading us on Leading us on ♪
[Angela] After a month abroad in Ivory Coast,
it's so great to be home because I've been away from my family so long.
And all the other [bleep] on his phone.
But now that I'm home, I don't want to think about
negative or bad stuff at this moment.
This is a new beginning.
That's what I'm hoping for.
[man] Oh, my goodness.
What are you doing? Come on, let's go.
We're in the USA. You're in the [bleep] USA!
[Angela] U-S-A, baby!
USA!
Are you crying?
And you better put the jacket on.
-Let me hold this. 'Cause it's cold out there. -Okay. Mm-hmm.
We're in the USA, let's see some patriotism.
Now you're a Nigerian American.
Turn around, turn around. Let me see.
No dirt on it? Ugh. Okay, you did good.
How does it feel?
Sexy, baby.
Sexy... [indistinct]
We gotta hurry and get our luggage.
-Come on. -Yeah.
[Angela] Is this real?
We're home, babe.
[Michael sighs] Finally. Home sweet home.
It's been seven years, maybe a little over between all the visas.
Finally we're here.
[Angela] Here, baby. Let's go.
Can you do a little model for me?
Can you wear it proudly?
Like that is what we've been fighting for right there.
Yeah.
-[Angela] Ooh! Oh, Michael, it's cold out here. I told-- -Jesus.
-Are you cold? -[Michael exclaims]
See why I got you a jacket?
[Michael] Honestly...
Well, you're in winter now. Get used to it.
Excuse me? Yeah, can you help us, please?
-[man] Yes, I can. -Thank you, sir.
I don't think living together is gonna solve our problems,
but I think we can start to figure them out better.
The real test is now that he's here,
is it gonna make our relationship stronger
or is it gonna make it worse?
Because now we're gonna be around each other 24-7.
This is lifetime now.
All right, let's go home. [indistinct]
I'm excited.
Look at our stores.
You see 'em?
What do you think? What do you think, Michael?
-Just look around. -Yeah.
[Angela] Mm-mm.
We can't stand beeps.
Oh, I know you will.
[Angela] I'm just so excited. Have you thought about you getting to see the house?
-Like, where I sit all the time. -Yeah.
-Where I've cussed you out in the kitchen. -Of course.
[Angela speaking]
I kept it a surprise.
They think I just left you there, you're going back to Nigeria,
and I've waited all I can wait.
I'm going home.
Oh, God, this is getting so real. [squeals in excitement]
You waited all your life for these kids.
I already know they love him. I mean, they love him. They bonded with him.
Ariah was, I think, a year old when she met Michael
over the phone.
And I'm excited for them to have their papa.
Their own papa 'cause they really love him.
And the main thing is he can be a mentor for them.
Teach 'em right from wrong and not to lie.
[both laughing]
I don't know if I should give you that job just yet.
[Michael speaking]
-[Angela] I'm a little concerned. -[Michael] What?
It's Skyla.
-Skyla? -Yeah.
Yeah, I know.
-When I was telling her what was going on and stuff? -I know.
But if she sees how happy the kids are,
how happy I am just seeing you there,
maybe she'll give you a chance to prove yourself
or at least explain face-to-face,
not over a freaking phone. You know what I mean?
I got you.
-Michael, we're about here. Look. -Yeah?
Wow. This is our house.
-There's our car. -[Michael] Mmm.
[Angela] In my heart, I really believe
Michael is going to show me and Skyla that he can be a loving husband.
I know he can.
Okay.
-Okay? -All right, baby. Got you.
All right, good luck.
-I love you. -Love you too. See you soon.
[Angela] Okay. Bye.
If Michael is not here for the right reasons
and happens to just book up and leave,
I'm not the only one that will be getting hurt.
It's gonna affect my grandkids.
But at this point, he's here now, I brought him here,
and there's no turning back.
And that's the scary part.
Julia.
-Nice to meet you, Julia. -[woman] Yes.
I do get hit on a lot. I know how [bleep] bad I could be.
[upbeat music playing]
[sighs] I don't know what to wear.
[Sophie] What are you gonna wear tonight, Kae?
[Kae] Uh, I'm not quite sure.
I have a couple of options,
but something black.
[both chuckle]
You would actually look cute in this red one.
-It would match my hair. -Yeah, but that would look cute.
Okay.
[Sophie] I've been at Kae's for a few days now.
It definitely feels weird not spending Rob's birthday with him.
He's with everyone he cares about, and I'm not there.
But at the end of the day,
I still feel like it is the right decision to have this time apart
because I know that ultimately this is gonna beneficial for us
regardless of the outcome.
[Kae] So, like, are you excited to go out tonight?
You know, have fun, cut loose.
[Sophie] Yeah, I'm excited to, you know, be with my friends.
[Kae] Good. I was hoping that.
-It's Rob's birthday today. -[Kae] Oh, yeah?
[Sophie] He's in Kansas City.
Oh.
What do you think he's doing out there?
Well, I have spoken to him, you know, here and there.
He told me he's going to a club with his friends.
[Kae] Does it worry you?
When he used to live in Kansas, he was a ho and a player.
I don't know, he could meet an ex
or he could just meet a girl that's, like, super nice to him.
Like, I don't really know what's going on with us.
And it's not like a healthy relationship right now,
but like, it's not something that I feel like we should just give up on, you know?
Don't be thinking about what Rob's doing tonight
'cause, like, I don't want that to affect your mood.
Like let's have a good time, you know what I mean?
Drinks on me tonight.
♪ Do you see the World on sign ♪
♪ I see where there's smoke There's fire ♪
[girls cheering]
[people cheering]
-[woman] You want a shot? -Hell, yeah.
[people cheering]
It's my birthday today, and at 34 years old,
um, this isn't exactly how I saw my life playing out.
At the very least,
I thought that if I was in love with someone that they would be here.
But I'm gonna go to the club tonight with my best friend, Parker,
and try to live it up and just enjoy it,
and not think about any of the negativity going on in my life.
-Yeah. Do you want a drink? -Yep.
-Cranberry. -Cranberry?
-[woman speaking] -[bleep]
[upbeat music playing]
-[woman] Are you ready, Rob? -[Rob] I'm ready.
Happy [bleep] birthday.
Thank you, thank you.
-[woman] Happy birthday. -[Rob] Thank you.
-Anybody else's birthday today? -[woman] No, just yours.
Hell no, 'cause it's my birthday.
I used to club a lot when I was younger.
I was hanging out with girls and I liked to dance,
and I used to love to dance at the clubs,
but I guess you can kind of just say I got burnt out on it.
So it's been a long time since I've been at the club.
And even longer since I've been in a club without Sophie.
It is pretty tempting to just be carefree
and completely forget about my marital issues.
But at the same time, I'm definitely not trying
to do anything that's gonna make things worse between Sophie and I.
I'm a Leo. I mean, it's my birthday. It's August.
You don't know that much about signs.
No, I know a lot about Leos.
-When's your birthday? -I'm the fish.
He's a Pisces.
-Oh, you're Pisces? -Julia.
-Nice to meet you, Julia. -Yes.
-Thank you, so are you. -[woman] No...
You know what? Let's have a good [bleep] night.
-Let's have a good [bleep] night. -Exactly.
Oh, yeah? [indistinct]
[woman] Happy birthday!
[all cheering]
Y'all trying to set me up.
And by pretty women.
I know how [bleep] bad I could be.
I know the access I have to be a dog.
I'm not gonna let you steal my phone.
See, y'all trying to...
No, absolutely not.
-You're so cute. -You are very attractive.
He's so cute.
Y'all don't mean that.
100%, I mean it when I said--
Are those contacts or are those your eyes?
-I was born with these eyes. -That's his born eyes!
Is this your homie?
Tjuan, I swear to God...
You said 10:00, didn't you? Didn't you?
My name is Tjuan. and, yeah, I'm here for my boy Rob's birthday.
Um, ain't seen him in a minute.
When Rob told me he got married,
I didn't believe him at first 'cause...
I mean, if you knew Rob, you know what I mean.
He was a little bit of a player.
So, no, I'm not surprised by what's happening right now.
Not at all.
I'm doing...
You look like Scottie Pippen's ex-wife. Yeah?
She do kind of look like her, though!
I get Sandra Bullock more than anything.
"Hey, you look like..." Do you like that?
'Cause I think Scottie Pippen's ex-wife
looked better than Sandra Bullock.
I'm gonna go with Sandra Bullock over Scottie Pippen's ex-wife.
Right, but if the person who's telling you what you look like
says you look like the person who they think looks better--
The person telling me is about to get kissed on the lips.
[Julia speaking]
[Rob] I'm in a very complicated situation.
Um... I'm obsessed with him.
And that's just that.
He's perfect, he looks so great.
From my understanding, he is dealing with issues in a relationship.
I want him to figure that out for himself.
But, um, selfishly...
I want to take him home and get to know him
and that's that.
I really wanna get to know you.
You're just so handsome.
[Rob] Look what happens when I go out.
Like most guys would love for that to be what it looks like
and I'm over here trying to make sure
that I'm not gonna do nothing I ain't supposed to do.
Like make out with that girl,
grabbing ass, touch [bleep]
But I have so many opportunities.
I can get into some [bleep]
If I wanted to get into some [bleep]
I'm here all night, baby.
-[clanking] -[Thais screams]
She's so scared of water.
[Thais] No! [laughing]
[Loren] Next time on 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?...
[Patrick] This trip is the best chance I have
to work everything out with him.
But Carlos is putting in zero effort with me right now.
It's about investing in our kids.
I just hope that she can see this with me.
I 100% love your culture and your tradition,
but also, we're very lucky that we live in America
and our kids get to grow up there.
Other moms do work.
-Be my cheerleader. I would cheer you-- -Loren.
I'm not gonna be your [bleep] cheerleader, okay?
What do you mean? It's a support system.
Any man in the world that respects himself and his manhood
don't want his wife to tell him, " Come be my cheerleader."
[dramatic music playing]
[Ashley] I found out that Manuel is talking to the mother of his children
way more than he let on.
I don't understand why it needs to be kept secret.
It just feels like she doesn't love me.
It feels like I'm doing this alone.
You know, Sophie and I have been teetering on this breakup for a while,
but she's not gonna call me to talk about this stuff.
I have to make this decision for us.
Hello.
I'm so desperate to to have your attention.
Do you know how much that hurt me?
Like my husband doesn't make love to me.
[Gino] It's just too much fighting.
She's, like, getting uglier to me by the day
with all this fighting.
You fix your [bleep] head and your [bleep].
You're the one who has to fix it.
Mom, it's just not meant to be if he's not coming over here.
I can't wait to prove you wrong
that he's gonna get that visa.
Skyla's face.
I cannot wait to say,
"Look who's coming for dinner."
-[kid 1] Oh, my God! -[kid 2 screaming] Mom!