Baby, I feel like a tropical fruit,
so juicy, so delicious.
[Emily] Previously on 90 Day Fiance
Happily Ever After.
You look like you're missing
from the pumpkin patch.
The Miss International World beauty pageant
is only a few days away.
I could be your manager.
Because in my younger years,
I almost joined the Mister Michigan pageant.
[Jasmine] Ready for the next one?
That's hot, that's hot.
What?
Baby.
-I had a call with Dr. Dev. -[Alexei] Mmm-hmm.
And he basically told me I need to stop
doing everything I'm doing.
Okay. So what do you want me to do?
You wanna go lay down on the bed
all day and that's it?
I know Loren needs me and my support,
and my dad has been very helpful with the kids,
but I'm stressed nonstop.
I'm thinking about Israel, and I...
Like I'm breaking.
We were not prepared for the surgery.
You downplayed it and you told me it's nothing.
I'm glad I downplayed it because if I didn't...
That's it, I'm done. I'm going to sleep on the couch tonight.
[bleep].
[Emily] It's like no matter what I do,
I won't be good enough for Kobe.
-I was saying-- -We had no... I'm talking, one minute.
You hurt my feelings.
No, it's because I'm talking. Okay.
[Kobe speaking]
I don't wanna be put in a position
where I have to choose
between my friends and my wife.
So I'm really hoping that we resolve things.
[in Spanish]
[Ashley] I feel like Manuel's secrecy
is kind of an all-time high right now.
I have no clue
where the thousand dollars is...
That I gave Manuel just the other week.
[in Spanish]
You made my mom cry yesterday, Rob.
This is some [bleep] bull[bleep].
Claire is absolutely responsible for this.
This woman is my worst nightmare.
[in Portuguese]
-Uh-huh. -[in Portuguese]
No, no, no, no, no.
-[in Portuguese] -That's your friend.
[in Portuguese]
-[woman screaming] -Hey!
[Angela speaking]
Your whole... Your whole team is going down.
-[Michael speaking] -[producer speaking]
[Angela] Here, take my phone, take that phone.
Get that phone!
♪ Put the music on And turn it up ♪
♪ Roll the windows Fall in love ♪
♪ I wanna ride All night with my baby ♪
[Jasmine speaking]
I'm coming to this beauty pageant
to prove myself that, you know, I'm capable of this,
it doesn't matter my age, that I still got it, baby.
♪ I wanna ride All night with my baby ♪
♪ Yeah
Do you think you packed all the pageant stuff
-that you need? -Yeah.
[Gino] Because I've seen they wanted a lot
of different types of shoes.
You got all that stuff?
I did, I... Don't start, okay?
Did you pack your toothbrush?
[Jasmine] Yes, I did. I did.
[exhales breath]
Yeah, exactly.
[giggles]
Today, we're flying to Florida
for the Miss International World beauty pageant,
and I'm so excited
because I know that
the person that I wanna become after this experience,
it's gonna be a happier Jasmine.
[Gino] Yeah, but the competition
is gonna be tough,
going up against professionals,
you know, is she gonna be good enough for this?
You don't say that.
It sounds like I have to be
a man wearing many hats.
[laughs]
I'm gonna burn all your hats, what about that?
Oh, my gosh, then I'll have to show my bald head.
Awesome.
[upbeat music playing]
[Jasmine] Gino.
-Gino. -[Gino] Yeah.
What you're doing? Number two?
You should have done number two yesterday?
Hurry up.
[Gino] What are you wearing?
[Jasmine] Baby, you... What do you mean?
Are you going to work out or something?
Gino, we're all dressing like this
because we're going rehearsal.
It seems like you need, I don't know,
maybe a necklace or something.
-Or... -Are you [bleep] serious?
So that's what they are gonna think?
[Gino] No, I mean, you look... you look nice.
But you seem really tense.
Don't tell me I'm tense, I know I'm tense,
I feel it in my back and my stomach,
I'm hungry, and I'm bloated.
It's close to that time of the month too, isn't it?
[Jasmine] Don't start with that [bleep].
I don't need to get my period right now
because I need to wear a bikini.
You ready to go?
Look, you look... you look fabulous, okay?
You know that right?
-Fabulous? -Fabulous.
Hmm, thank you.
[quirky music playing]
-It's gonna be fun. -Open the door.
Hi, everyone.
Hello.
Miss Panama.
Hello.
Ladies, welcome.
[all] Hi.
[clapping and cheering]
-Hope you guys are excited. -[all] Yes.
-[all] Woo! -[clapping]
Well, ladies, first, well, we wanna welcome you
to the 2023, okay?
Miss International World Pageant,
you've all been fabulous, you've all been amazing.
[Susmita] And the pageant this weekend,
just a quick, you know, overview of what to expect.
We're going right into rehearsals.
After that, swimwear competition.
We're going to be having the creative costumes,
and we're going to go into the evening wear competition.
-Yes. -[Susmita] Exactly, right?
I'm going to go ahead and split you guys up
and we'll get right into the rehearsal, okay?
-[cheering and clapping] -All right, let's go.
Woo.
I really want to make
a good impression because...
So, since you're in the middle,
you'll exit back out this way,
-you follow Latina. -Mmm-hmm.
Okay? And you guys will go out this way.
So let's try that, okay?
Posture, roll those shoulders.
[laughs] Good.
So this is your stance.
[Gino] Posture.
All right. Now, we're going to go ahead
and actually do the walkthrough here.
Let's see this.
[Susmita] Can we get the music?
♪ The perfect fit
[Susmita] And walk.
♪ Just how You like it, ooh ♪
[Susmita] Gorgeous, yes.
♪ When you know it's right
♪ The perfect fit
[Susmita] Beautiful.
♪ No doubt about it
♪ Ooh, it's obvious
[Susmita] Yes.
♪ Yeah, yeah
[Susmita] Woo-hoo!
Jasmine, let's go.
♪ And if you see What you want ♪
♪ Then you gotta get it For real ♪
♪ 'Cause you know
♪ How good That makes you feel ♪
♪ Oh, yeah [indistinct] ♪
♪ Don't want it to stop
♪ That's when you know Got the perfect fit ♪
-[Susmita] Yay. -[Willina] All right.
Yeah.
Woo.
Willina is gonna give you a little bit of feedback
based on what we just saw, okay?
-[woman] Yes. -So I have Latina.
Baby, you sped it up in the last one,
so good, keep it up.
Okay. And now I have Mimi.
I love the energy you give on stage,
but like, uh, I saw...
I saw a lot of [makes sound] you know what I mean?
Jasmine.
Jasmine, we need you to
interact a little more with the audience
and I need you to work on your... on your gracefulness,
like instead of... It's more like...
Another thing, smile a little softer.
So more like...
You know what I mean?
-Yes. -[Willina] Great.
[tense music playing]
I'm an over thinker.
So hearing Willina pointing out my performance
is really freaking me out, because there are a lot
of competitions for this pageant.
But I need to...
I feel confident.
I think that I can bring it,
and most importantly, become a queen.
[Michael speaking]
[Angela] Here, take my phone. Take that phone!
-[Michael speaking] -[Angela] Get that phone!
See what he just did? Get the phone, get my phone.
-[Michael speaking] -Get my... You got it?
-[Michael speaking] -No, that phone.
-Give me the phone. -[Michael speaking]
-Give me your phone! -[Michael speaking]
Give me--
Give me your phone. Get the phone from here.
I'm done.
-[Michael speaking] -Get the phone, get it.
-[Michael speaking] -Get the phone!
-No! -[Angela] Give me my phone!
-Michael, give me the phone. -[Michael] No,
-this is my phone. -No, it's mine!
[Michael] No.
[Angela] [bleep] well, give me your phone.
[Michael speaking]
[Angela] Wait, let him go. Wait, wait, let him go!
He's my husband still. Move.
[Michael speaking]
All right, Michael, calm down.
Everything's okay.
[producer speaking]
[somber music playing]
[Angela] This is out of hand.
I'm really concerned about Michael
because I've never see him act like this,
and I think we need a break right now.
You know, I didn't get married for a long time for a reason
and this is why.
I took the investment I put in this marriage,
the love I've given him.
It's so embarrassing trying to trust him
over and over after finding out he lies.
[in foreign language]
[Kobe speaking in foreign language]
[Kobe speaking]
This has left me in a situation
where I had to choose between my friends and my wife.
[Manuel in Spanish]
I am pissed to holy hell that he would even
put an ultimatum on the table.
If Manuel wants to go back to Ecuador, go [bleep] back.
[country music playing]
-[Emily] Hello. -[Julia] Hi.
[Emily] Hi.
Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you, I'm Emily.
Oh, thank you so much.
We have a big day today.
-Yeah. -Oh, boy.
[upbeat music playing]
Okay. So what do you have in mind for today?
Um, I want to be very, like, traditional.
-Okay. -So I was looking
at pictures and I think a lot
-of the ones I saw was up. -Okay.
-And they had like beads. -[Julia] Beads.
-Okay. -Yes.
So excited.
Tonight's the big night.
The dowry was approved,
the bride price was exchanged,
and so now it's important that I look
as traditional as possible because I wanna go all out
for our wedding, like when's the next time
we would have a wedding in Cameroon.
Never.
And so, I want to be perfect.
Kobe hasn't been home in two and half years, so...
Yeah.
it's a big get-together for him.
Like, his whole family takes up,
you know, 80 people.
[Julia] You know, here,
a wedding is for the whole family
-and friends. -[Emily] Yeah.
Our wedding I think it's gonna be pretty big.
I'm just really excited to see my husband.
But, we have chosen not to see each other
until we get into the ceremony.
Because it creates, like, the butterflies
in your stomach and it's like,
"I can't wait to see him and kiss him
and see, you know, what he looks like
in his traditional wedding outfit."
But I mean, I'm attracted to my husband
even if he was wearing, you know,
[bleep] cotton candy as an outfit.
I don't know. I love him no matter what.
He's just, ugh, so hot.
-[Lisa] Hello. -Hi.
[Lisa] Oh, you look so pretty.
[Emily] Thank you. I like your dress.
[Lisa] Wow.
Thanks.
Is that gonna like hold when you're dancing?
[Emily] I don't know.
[Lisa] Hopefully, you won't dance
and, like, fling your head around
and whip someone with it. [laughs]
[Emily] I know.
My hair is very heavy,
like, probably like 10 pounds and...
But I have like 200 bobby pins in this thing.
But I feel like my hair looks fantastic.
This is the biggest I've ever worn it,
but I'm like digging it.
[Lisa] You look so good.
Ooh.
So are you nervous at all?
I kind of learned a lot after Kobe and I had a chat.
Really? What did you learn?
[Emily] That he technically didn't break up
with his ex until after I was pregnant with Koben.
[dramatic music playing]
So how do you feel about that going into a wedding?
[Emily] The past is in the past,
but it just got brought up.
Being here and being able to talk to his friends
doesn't change that I love him though.
[Lisa] So, are his friends
coming to the wedding or...
I have no idea. I haven't talked to him.
I don't know if Kobe's talked to them.
-I have no idea. -Really?
[Emily] Mmm-hmm.
[Lisa] You don't think that's gonna cause problems?
[Emily] I don't know.
We'll see what happens.
[Kobe grunts]
Hmm.
[in foreign language]
Today is such a joyous day
to be able to fully embrace my Cameroon culture.
There's gonna be lot of dancing and drinking.
And most importantly, Emily and I
are gonna get blessings from our parents.
[in foreign language]
[Isadore in foreign language]
[laughs]
[Kobe speaking]
Because these two weeks, we've been through a lot.
And, you know, I want it to be
a happy celebration for all of us.
[chuckles]
[in foreign language]
[dramatic music playing]
[in foreign language]
[Kobe speaking]
This has left me in the situation
where I had to choose
between my friends and my wife.
And I never thought I was gonna be put
in that position, but I had to.
And at the end of the day,
this doesn't make me feel good at all.
[in foreign language]
[Kobe in foreign language]
♪ You're sick
♪ Human [indistinct] A disease ♪
♪ Damn
[Ashley] Can I just grab you real quick? Come here.
Thank you.
Thank you. You're all set.
♪ Some might say The parasites ♪
♪ Still living in my gut
[Manuel in Spanish]
[clears throat]
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
Yes.
[in Spanish]
Yeah.
I'm saging the house today
because Manuel's energy
is messing with my energy.
Apparently he needs an extra $300
for his family
and I think he's worried that I don't have it.
I know Manuel's family needs money,
and I have got no problem giving them what they need.
The problem is
he wants me to blindly send money back home
without any questions being asked.
[Manuel in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
[Ashley in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
-[Ashley] Okay. -[in Spanish]
[Ashley in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
Manuel saying that I'm irresponsible with money
is absolutely [bleep] laughable.
I work hard for my money.
This is America, honey.
You gotta work your ass off for that dollar.
And, like, bills are paid,
he's got clothes on his back, food in his belly.
So it's coming off ungrateful.
And it is 100% not fair to me
that I am not told what is happening with money
that I am providing.
[in Spanish]
No, no, no, no, no, no.
[in Spanish]
Okay, Manuel. You know, I can't do this right now.
I need to go take a walk. This is too much for me.
You're literally threatening to leave.
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[suspenseful music playing]
[Ashley] [sighs]
I am pissed to holy hell
that he would even put an ultimatum on the table.
When you're threatening to go back home
because you don't get what you want,
it triggers my trauma response.
I'm supposed to feel like you're not going to abandon me
when he threatened to abandon me?
You can't do that. I'm sorry.
If Manuel wants to go back to Ecuador,
go [bleep] back.
[Thais] I want to know.
...[in Portuguese]
I was sticking up for myself.
[Thais] I'm so embarrassed.
I mean, it was supposed to be a good time
with the friends and now--
[Thais speaking]
[dramatic music playing]
-[woman screams] -Hey!
[in Portuguese]
I just bought this shirt.
Go... Let's go clean up.
[John speaking]
Well, I'm here sticking up for you, bro.
[Patrick] We're out getting drinks with Thais's friends,
and, like, Natalia came off really hot,
like, thinking, like, I cheated on Thais
and, you know, John's a bad influence.
[John] When you act like that,
you know, I'm gonna call you a slut.
I don't know too many words in Portuguese.
But what am I supposed to do?
Not defend myself?
Eye for an eye, man.
[dramatic music playing]
[sighs] Is your shirt good?
-I mean, it's black, so it'll be good, you know? -[Patrick] I know.
-It'll be good. -It beads off, it beads off.
-[in Portuguese] -[in Portuguese]
[suspenseful music playing]
[in Portuguese]
[Thais speaking]
-[Patrick] Oh. -Yeah.
[Thais speaking]
I'm so embarrassed
because it wasn't supposed to be like this.
I mean, it was supposed to be a good time
with the friends, and now...
No, I want to know why you said that to her.
...[in Portuguese]
We came here
and all she did was [bleep] on John,
-the whole time. -[John] The whole time.
That's not fair.
He doesn't deserve that.
I was sticking up for myself.
[Patrick] Yeah.
Ah--
-...[in Portuguese] -[Patrick] I don't think it right...
I don't think it's right that she just,
like, said John's a bad person.
For no reason. You don't meet someone the first time
and say, "Oh, hey, you're a horrible person."
And, like, think nothing's gonna happen.
And I'm trying to make him a whore, basically.
[Patrick] Yeah.
Never tried having Patrick meet anyone.
Never. Never, never. Never.
-[John] Me? I didn't do it. -[Thais] Yeah!
-[John] That's your friend, not me. -Problem.
-[Thais speaking] -And your friend's wrong.
-[indistinct] -Corel's nice.
-Kyle was nice. -Corel, no problemo.
[in Portuguese]
Tonight was one of the reasons
that you shouldn't be here in Brazil.
Because your friend started
-with me and my brother. -Because you don't know
how to behave in places.
Don't cry me a river when they start trouble
and the Big Bad Wolf blows their house down.
[Patrick] Oh, my God.
[Thais] No, I prefer don't see him the rest of the trip.
[belches]
That hurt.
I mean, you crossed a line on that one.
[dramatic music playing]
Like, you don't get me moving out.
I'm about to leave you and you're still talking
about what I need to do?
You should be like, "What the [bleep]
can I do so you don't leave?"
You... All right. Tell me what I need to do
-while you move out. -That you should have asked me.
This is an emotional rollercoaster.
She's [bleep] whipping me around in a whirlwind.
Is there anything else you need to say to me?
I'm gonna leave.
[dramatic music playing]
♪ How come everybody Needs to be so magical? ♪
♪ Line us up And knock 'em down ♪
♪ Just one more Chance at... ♪
[Claire speaking]
♪ Nobody will be where
♪ We thought [indistinct] ♪
[Claire speaking]
But this time, she's just gonna spend some time
trying to heal and feel what she's feeling.
[Rob speaking]
All right. So you just need to be still.
By the way, I had nothing to do with this decision.
Right.
[dramatic music playing]
[Rob] Once again, Sophie's walking out that door
and she's going back to Kay's.
And I don't really believe that she's going to,
you know, weigh all the pros and cons on our relationship.
Like, she not gonna do that [bleep].
I can hope, but she spent so much time away
and never thought to do this soul-searching until right now?
She's gonna go enjoy not being here
and then wake up and be like,
"God, I said I'd only be gone for four days.
Do I wanna go home or not?"
And, you know, I don't deserve
to be with somebody like that.
I'm sad because my wife is always leaving.
But just remember,
there's two sides to every story. She--
I don't think that she or you
have thought about my side.
To be clear, Sophie has always been taken care of.
[Claire] No, she hasn't.
[Rob] So you don't know... So you're gonna tell me this... So...
I went crazy because that's the only thing
I grab at 7:00 a.m before work.
I don't wake up early enough to cook myself breakfast...
-[Sophie speaking] -and Sophie kept bringing up
how I was telling her
what she could and couldn't eat.
But my reasoning wasn't because I wanted to tell her
what she could and couldn't eat.
I just wanted her to be considerate of me
because it was an easy snack for me before I go to work.
[Sophie] Are you going over the granola bars?
Just wanted space because you're pissed off at something.
You're always pissed off. Fine, cool.
-[Rob] I'm not even pissed off. -All right. Okay.
I'm very calm right now.
And I'm trying to...
And I'm having a conversation with your mom.
About my granola bars, I get it.
[Rob] But you're throwing it at my face like I was...
I didn't even... I--
[Claire] Everything about the [indistinct]
She brought... She brought it up.
I just tried to talk to her about it.
You ate the whole box of granola bars.
I said, "Sophie, can you not eat the whole box?
Because this is the only thing that I take to work."
I'm not arguing over granola bars.
I don't want you to eat a whole box of granola bars
when that's the only thing that I'm--
It's okay.
Why did you go over there?
You don't seem to like me very much, Sophie.
Honestly, I feel like if this dinner that we had
never happened, then you wouldn't be leaving right now.
-Your mom was very... -The day before...
-[Rob] upset at me. Your mom-- -you made me cry
-multiple times in one day. -[Rob] Sophie...
-[Sophie] It wasn't going... -I made you cry over...
-well anyway. -a misunderstanding that you...
-That you took the wrong way. -And the second time...
-[Rob] And the second time... -you was nice to me.
You stood in front of me and said,
"There are other people that can make me so much happier."
-[Sophie] Do you not think... -Do you know... Okay.
-deep, like... -[Rob] Hold on, let me talk.
-someone can make me happy? -[Rob] Let me talk.
-You don't think that? -Let me talk. Let me talk.
-This is what you need to reflect on. -[Sophie] I would like to--
-This is what you need to reflect on. -I know what I need
-to reflect on. -You need to figure out...
You don't need to tell me what to reflect on.
You need to figure out if who I am as a person
is somebody you can be with
without being pissed off all the time.
[dramatic music playing]
Okay.
-[Rob] Truly. -[Sophie] Okay.
[Rob] Because you're always walking away.
[Sophie] Okay.
-[Claire] Huh? -[Sophie speaking]
[dramatic music playing]
[Rob] She's leaving again.
I'm not perfect.
But it feels like there are things
that Sophie is needing me to change that makes me me.
Like, my actual personality?
And I can't do that.
This is an emotional rollercoaster.
She's [bleep] whipped me around
a whirlwind of emotions.
Sophie, I have listened to you and listened to you,
and I've said sorry and sorry
and sorry, and you walk out.
-I always listen to you. -[Rob] I don't do that to you.
-[Sophie] I do listen to you. -[Rob] I don't do that--
Like, you don't get me moving out.
I'm about to leave you and you're still talking
about what I need to do?
You should be like, "What the [bleep] can I do
-so you don't leave?" -You... All right.
Tell me what I need to do while you move out.
That you should have asked me.
[Rob] Okay. I didn't ask you.
[Sophie] But you don't see how that's the [bleep] problem.
You can think about what you could do
to show me that you've changed,
and reflect on yourself and really realize
and be accountable about the whole thing.
All right.
This could be me happy with you.
Or this could be me with you if you stay the same.
Do you have anything else you need to say to me?
-I'm gonna leave. -I love you?
[dramatic music playing]
[Sophie] I love you, too.
I'm going now.
Bye.
Man, if we wasn't married...
I don't think I would be right here
right now like I am. No.
Not at all.
But that commitment [bleep] is a mother [bleep]
because I committed to her and I put it on paper.
And I'll give it everything I [bleep] can.
Everything I can.
But if she isn't seeing that,
then I'm not gonna hold my breath
and wait for her to come back.
I'm gonna start thinking about
what life is like without her.
[upbeat music playing]
Isn't this beautiful?
It's really nice to see Kobe's friends here.
But I really just hope they're here to support us.
[Kobe speaking]
[Alexei speaking]
Right now, it's time for my dad to go home.
I don't really know what's gonna happen over there,
if even our town where he lives
is gonna be in danger.
Ay, ay, ay.
[tribal music playing]
[woman] Emily.
-Emily. -Emily?
Come on, girl.
[cheering]
[tribal music playing]
-[indistinct chatter] -[woman] You look beautiful.
[Emily] I'm just so excited
because tonight is our traditional wedding,
and it really is an amazing feeling
having Kobe's sisters come and get me.
[woman speaking]
[woman] Okay, okay.
[Emily] Let's go to the wedding!
[cheering]
[tribal music playing]
I'm not saying American weddings are not fun,
but when it comes to Africa,
it's the best.
[emcee speaking]
-[cheering and clapping] -[emcee speaking]
[indistinct]
[Kobe speaking]
[laughs]
I'm so happy to see
so much of my family
whom I haven't seen in a long time.
But I still got some butterflies in my stomach
because my friends are not here, you know.
They're like my family, you know?
I'm getting married and then they're not there.
[child speaking]
[cheering]
[emcee speaking]
[upbeat music playing]
[Kobe speaking]
I'm like, "Wow."
-I'm pretty sure [indistinct] -[Emily] I feel like I pulled it off.
[Kobe speaking]
[Emily] And like, my gosh, my husband's always sexy.
-But today? -Aww.
Our traditional wedding, I mean, he looks like...
I would take him to the bedroom right now.
-Oh [bleep]. [laughs] -Mmm-hmm.
[emcee speaking]
-[Emily speaking] -[emcee speaking]
[Kobe speaking]
[man] [indistinct]
[Kobe speaking]
Woo!
-Woo. -[cheering]
[indistinct chatter]
-[Emily speaking] -I love you.
[Emily speaking]
[Kobe speaking]
[Emily speaking]
[Kobe speaking]
[man speaking]
Good evening, bon soir, everyone.
Welcome.
We are happy you are all here
to celebrate the wedding of Kobe and Emily.
How crazy is this world?
That a black man from Buea, Cameroon
and a white girl from Salina, Kansas
can go to Xi'An, China, and fall in love.
So please join me now
as we bless these two.
Let's pray, heavenly Father,
bless these two children with eternal happiness,
good health, may they be blessed
with many children and a big house,
but bless them with a big house first.
[laughs]
We ask all this in Jesus' name, amen.
[all] Amen.
[upbeat music playing]
[crowd cheering]
[Lisa] I cannot believe how much has happened in two weeks.
I can't believe somehow
we threw a wedding together in two weeks.
I hope we got all the nuances right
-of what we're supposed to do. -I think so.
We were winging it.
[David] Yeah. When I found out that I had to give a blessing,
I watched just a lot of YouTube.
[laughing]
But it was so cool.
I thought it was great. Such a cultural experience.
-Fantastic. -Yeah.
[indistinct chatter]
Yeah.
[laughs]
[laughter]
[man] Ladies and gentleman [indistinct]
[Valery speaking]
[Kobe speaking]
I mean, it's really nice to see Kobe's friends here.
Especially Valery, since he is Kobe's best friend.
But I really just hope they're here to support us.
♪ Golden leaves On concrete streets ♪
♪ They... feel out of place
♪ So long, so long
♪ I'm going home
[humming] [clears throat]
[in Hebrew]
-[babies babbling] -[in Hebrew]
[babies babbling]
Ay, yay, yay.
My dad has been here for over a month.
He came before Loren's surgery,
and it's now time for him to leave
and go back to Israel.
It has been great having my dad here,
for him to witness, you know, me being a dad
and just spend all this time with the grandkids,
and I don't really know
what's gonna happen over there,
if the conflict is gonna escalate
and if even our town
where he lives is gonna be in danger.
And I'm worried and sad.
[speaking Hebrew]
[in Hebrew]
[laughter]
[Shai speaking]
[Loren] Saba's going home, baby.
[Shai speaking]
You wanna go in the Saba airplane?
-[Shai] Mmm-hmm. -Well, we'll go see one, okay?
But Saba's gonna go home
for a little bit and then come back.
Okay, that's it.
Alex is very strong and I can count on one hand
how many times I'd seen him
get emotional and kind of let his guard down.
But this has been so hard on him.
The decision for Alex to move to the US
and leave all of his family, his friends,
everything he knows behind, this is harder now.
Like, they're all in danger. And he's here.
And my heart hurts for him
because he doesn't openly talk
about his emotions.
He tends to bottle them up.
There's like a pit in your stomach.
Like, I can't explain it.
It's just like the wind has been taken out of you
and I see that in him.
All right. Come. We're gonna get out
and say bye to Saba, okay?
[Saba speaking Hebrew]
[in Hebrew]
-[Loren] Let's give Saba a hug. -[Alexei] Give Saba
a big hug, Shai. Come on.
[speaking Hebrew]
Bye, bye.
-[in Hebrew] -[Alexei] Shai, go say bye to Saba.
-Go ahead. -[in Hebrew]
[Alexei] Give him a nice kiss.
-[speaking Hebrew] -[babies babbling]
[in Hebrew]
[somber music playing]
[in Hebrew]
[Saba] [in Hebrew]
[Alexei in Hebrew]
Bye-bye.
[Shai] Bye, bye-bye, Saba.
-Bye. -Wave. Wave, wave, wave.
-[Saba] Bye, bye, bye. -Bye, Saba.
Bye. [laughs]
Bye, Saba.
[Saba] Bye-bye. [speaking Hebrew]
Bye-bye.
Bye, Saba.
[Saba] Bye. [speaking Hebrew]
Saba.
[Alexei in Hebrew]
[in Hebrew]
[Alexei in Hebrew]
[in Hebrew]
[somber music playing]
[in Hebrew]
-[in Hebrew] -[in Hebrew]
[in Hebrew]
-[in Hebrew] -[in Hebrew]
[somber music playing]
[Alexei] I'm feeling sad.
It feel like, you know, my dad is leaving.
There's a war over there. I'm stuck here.
Sometimes, I think to myself, like, Ukraine is at war,
Israel is at war, and I'm here in Florida
living a life, you know?
And it makes me feel bad, like, why...
How do I get to be so lucky, you know?
We really got used to having my dad here
and, you know, we don't know when we're gonna
be able to get together again.
Hopefully, this war will be over soon
and we'll get together.
[somber music playing]
So Ashley gave Manuel a thousand dollars.
Where is the money going exactly?
[in Spanish]
[Ashley] I don't know what world he lives in
where he thinks he can just do this
behind my back. I'm done with this.
I'm sick of him making me look like a fool.
♪ You may run For a long time ♪
♪ Run on, for a long time
♪ Let me tell you that God's Gonna cut you down ♪
♪ Cut you down, down, down
♪ Let me tell you that God's Gonna cut you down ♪
-Hey. -Hey, girl.
-How ya doing? -Hmm.
I'm doing, I'm here, but I'm glad to see you though.
-Let's check on this cake. -[Sienna] Okay.
This morning, Manuel and I thought, again,
over sending money home, and he decided to give me
a nasty little ultimatum that if I didn't give him
the money that he was requesting,
that he was gonna go home.
We are here to check on a cake.
-It should be under Ashley. -Okay.
And to top it all off, his birthday's tomorrow,
so I'm picking up the cake that I ordered.
But if he doesn't get his act together,
it's gonna be thrown in his face.
[shopkeeper] They're still finishing it in the back.
-Okay. -So they just have about five to 10 more minutes.
-Oh, they're still working on it? -Yeah.
Is there any way we can change
some of the verbiage on the cake?
We do require 48-hour notice
for anything like that. I'm so sorry.
I was gonna see if she could change it to [bleep] off.
-Oh. -[Ashley] Mmm-hmm.
Ashley's pissed. I don't understand what's going on.
I know Manuel can be very sketchy.
So we gotta get down to business.
I know something's up. What's going on with you?
So I put a thousand dollars
in his banking account out of my money.
And then he asked for $300.
-[Sienna] After? -Mmm-hmm.
[Sienna] You gave him a thousand dollars?
Yes, he asked for $300 because they need it at home.
And then I was like, "Okay, but why?"
He wouldn't tell me why.
[sighs] I did finally put my foot down.
I said that I'm not giving...
any money until I know more of what's going on.
Good for you.
[Ashley] It wasn't received very well.
-Hmm. Yeah. -He threatened to leave me.
-Ashley-- -Girl.
Maybe he needs to go back at this point.
That screams "Red flag."
You constantly give to Manuel all the time
and like you're not receiving anything back from him.
[Ashley] Mmm-hmm.
[Sienna] Just be careful
because I think he's moving funny.
I'm thinking that, like, there's something going on.
-He... I-- -Yeah. Yeah.
[Ashley] I don't have words. I--
Yeah, because Manuel is using you.
-[Ashley] You see-- -He has a secret agenda.
-[Ashley] I think-- -And you're being blind...
-[Ashley] I think you're being mean. -about the whole thing.
[Ashley] And you're kinda hurting my feelings.
How am I hurting your feelings?
I think he loves you but I think he also
has a secret agenda, to take care of his family
and the people back at home.
Things, like, don't add up.
And I think you should be aware of that.
I know the way that we are moving right now
is not sustainable and cannot work this way.
You're allowed to set boundaries.
You're allowed to know the truth.
And you're allowed to know where your money is going.
If it were me, I'd be talking to somebody about something.
I know Jonathan is pretty close with Manuel.
He might have some answers.
Call him and see if he knows anything,
and gets at the truth, honey.
-[Ashley] It's worth a shot. -Why not, right?
-Yeah. Okay. -[Sienna] All right.
[phone line trilling]
Hi, Jonathan.
Hi, beautiful girl.
[Ashley] Ola.
-How are you? -[Jonathan] Good.
[Ashley in Spanish]
[Jonathan] No problem.
So...
Ashley gave Manuel a thousand dollars,
then Manuel had the nerve to ask for 300 more dollars
on top of the thousand. Do you know if the...
Where the money's going or what he's using the money for
or if there's problems?
Well, in what manner?
[in Spanish]
Wait.
[in Spanish]
Uh-hmm.
[in Spanish]
[Sienna] What? What is saying?
[Ashley] Jonathan is saying that he's having conversation
with the baby mom, but the thing about it is Manuel
has presented to me, like, he doesn't even talk to her.
He told you that he wasn't having conversations with his baby mom at all?
That has been the way he's been presenting it to me,
like he doesn't speak to her. Period.
[Sienna] So he's been lying to you.
Ashley...
♪ Hell, to the no, To the no, no, no ♪
I don't know what has crawled up Manuel's ass
and in what world he lives in
where he thinks he can just do this
behind my back.
Like, I'm done with this
and he's gonna have to deal with the consequences,
because I'm sick of him making me look like a fool.
I'm... I gotta go home, like, right now.
[man speaking]
[crowd cheering]
I mean, what's he gonna say? I don't know if he's gonna be supportive
or is he's gonna, like, talk [bleep].
[Valery speaking]
[Emily] But Valery has the microphone and is gonna give a speech.
So I'm a little nervous about what he's gonna say in front of everybody.
I videotaped some of the girls
-that I thought had good posture. -Excuse me?
You were recording other girls.
That's what [bleep].
[upbeat music playing]
[Kobe speaking]
[man speaking]
[Isadore in French]
[cheers and applause]
My dad is really happy that I get to bring my family
over to Cameroon and fulfill tradition.
[Emily] I loved that we are able
to make his dad so proud
because I wanted their acceptance, and the fact that
his father only speaks French, like, it doesn't bother me at all.
At this wedding, you can tell when somebody's expressing,
like, their heart to you and just by their actions
and by their emotions. And I feel like
I just really got that from his dad tonight.
[man speaking]
[crowd] Hi.
I mean, it is a relief in one way
that his friends are here to enjoy the wedding,
but I am still surprised 'cause I'm like, "Oh, okay.
So, do you support our marriage
or are you just here to make Kobe happy?"
I don't know if he's gonna be supportive
or if he's gonna, like, talk [bleep].
But Valery has the microphone and is gonna give a speech.
So I'm a little nervous about what he's gonna say in front of everybody.
[suspenseful music playing]
♪ Floating out in the ocean
♪ Cherry picking the stars
[Jasmine speaking]
[singer] ♪ Learning to sail
♪ Without a boat
♪ For the first time
Um, Willina told me, like,
my smile is too, like, bright.
What's wrong with it?
[Gino] Um...
well, that looked a little fake.
You just have to smile like your natural self
and be, you know.
You don't want a fake smile. Did you watch her when she was smiling?
She was doing examples of,
see the difference between my smile, it's like this
and then how she really smiled or versus not so real.
I'm worried about Jasmine
because the rehearsal's off to a rough start.
And not a good look for Jasmine,
you know, as far as in the coach's eyes.
Everybody I'm meeting at this pageant
is way better than what I expected.
So Jasmine needs to step it up a few notches, you know,
if she wants to win this thing.
You did very good, don't get me wrong.
[Jasmine] I'm just trying to improve.
[Gino] Yes. And now,
if you improved in a couple areas,
like your posture, you would be the best.
I videotaped some of the girls that I thought
had good posture and looked at the crowd.
[Jasmine] Excuse me?
You were recording other girls.
That's [bleep]
[Gino] They do it pretty good. Okay?
Overall.
Let me show you...
a couple people that I felt that overall that they...
Let's see.
Incredible.
[Gino] So here's a couple examples.
Like how she interfaces with the audience
and stuff in her posture.
Look at how she's doing that and maybe it'll help you.
The girl from Haiti, she has good posture.
Okay?
[whimsical music playing]
[Gino] Wow. So good.
[Jasmine] Gino is just, like,
watching another woman, admiring them.
[Gino] That was good.
[Jasmine speaking]
All right. Here's yours.
Do you see how you,
like, quickly looked at the audience?
♪ I don't know about you
♪ But I ain't gonna waste but you ♪
So I'm gonna tell you something,
you, you're not the jury,
but the reason why I brought you here
-is to support me. -I am supporting you.
Because the way you're treating me is like
everybody else is better than me.
All that I needed was you giving me some
kind supporting words.
-Now, you're telling me that you-- -No. You did good.
-You did good. -No, no, Gino,
I know that I'm not the best, but it hurts me.
Like, you know, if the jury determines
that it's okay, but not my husband pointing out,
-like, who's better than me. -But you're not--
-And that recorded them. -Jasmine, you're not supposed
to take it like this.
[Jasmine] That's the way you made me feel
and that I'm never enough...
-Good enough for you. -I'm trying... No,
I want you to win.
-No, I feel more insecure. -And I know you can.
I feel more insecure now.
[dramatic music playing]
[sobbing]
[Jasmine] The swimwear competition
is in about an hour,
and I still need to get ready,
but I have to calm down first.
I have what it takes
to do my best in this competition,
but Gino's making me feel bad about myself.
[Jasmine speaking]
[dramatic music playing]
[Michael speaking]
[dramatic music playing]
[Angela] Yesterday was a [bleep] nightmare.
All the proof is right there in front of me
that my husband's been scamming me this whole time.
But even though I'm seeing the evidence in my face,
it's hard for me to believe that a man
that I've been with seven years
could be this low and dirty.
It's nerve-wracking.
I'm praying I'm wrong.
I mean, I've been thinking about
how things escalated between us.
And to be honest, I've never seen him so upset.
And then Michael gave me his phone back
and poof, he was gone.
I mean gone. He's never done that before.
Like, maybe he's scared that I'll turn him in.
Or maybe I really upset him.
This has got me all turn around.
I don't know what to believe at this point.
[cars honking]
[Michael speaking]
All this fighting's got me exhausted.
I think I'm so tired.
I'm ready to hear you out, Michael.
I'm cold.
So, why were you on this group?
You know, that...
Whether it's innocent or not, it makes you look bad.
Angie, I know...
I know you might not understand it.
[Michael speaking]
[Angela] I mean, that's what went through my head.
Or what about the, um...
[Michael speaking]
And that's it.
And where did you get $8,000 at?
It's not $8,000.
You see how simple that was?
You could have said that. You just...
I think you just don't tell me what's happening
and I assumed [bleep] because of all the shady
[bleep] you've done in the past, Michael.
I know, I know.
Just tell me one thing.
Why was there a picture of an old woman in that chat...
That's somebody's mom, somebody's grandma.
[Michael] I apologize for that.
What was it about the insurance on their...
Life insurance?
[suspenseful music playing]
[Michael] I had no idea about that.
It was there. You Googled it.
-I went through so much [bleep] on your phone -[Michael speaking]
where I [gasps] oh, my God.
I have no idea about this life insurance, nothing like that.
Sorry...
[Michael speaking]
Please.
You have to understand how you make me feel,
why I get all [imitates cracking sound]
You... I'm a woman, I mean, I don't have balls.
I have hormones.
[Angela] Women are different emotionally like men, like...
[Michael speaking]
[Angela] That's what I know.
-See, you're supposed to tell me things like that. -[Michael speaking]
[Angela] I appreciate you telling me that
'cause I didn't know how you felt lonely
for me, you never tell me.
That's why I feel so, like, not loved.
Of course, I do, you know that.
I do.
[Angela] It's nice to hear
he's been lonely in Nigeria without me.
But on the other hand, I've been just as lonely,
but I didn't went to these group chats.
He forgets again we're in this together.
And this is what I tried to tell him for seven years.
When you hold back and not communicate to me,
it's a mess.
Because I think all kind of things
and it's all your fault,
because all you do is tell me you miss me,
that's why we'd argue but not like this.
No.
[Michael] I want us to live together as husband and wife
and I want to be there for you, take care of you.
I mean, be the man in your life and in the house.
That is it.
[sighs softly]
I just wanna believe 100% what he's saying
to me right now, because I love him.
But, you know, my mind is just telling me
there's so many things that's still suspicious,
that my heart's telling me
to stay and my mind is telling me to go.
[Angela speaking]
I waited this long, let's see what happens.
But even if I decide to take him home
after I hear him today, if he gets the visa,
I'm not gonna put up with this 'cause I got him the visa.
You have lied so much that it's not my fault
that I cannot believe you, Michael.
But if I pulled the visa, I'd be like ripping
the last chapter out of the book.
You won't know the ending.
And we gotta know an ending.
[dramatic music playing]
[in Spanish]
I get that Manuel needs to keep in contact
with his ex because of the children.
That is not what upsets me here.
It is the lying about it.
[in Spanish]
[Manuel] Yeah.
[in Spanish]
♪ I'm a bomb with a beating heart ♪
♪ For the [indistinct] ♪
♪ I can explode♪
The [bleep] deceit, man.
The [bleep] deceit.
♪ Will someone give me a little fire?♪
♪ I need to feed to start this desire ♪
I'm so annoyed right now because I literally knew,
I knew that there were conversations being had
that felt funny and weird.
And then he'd go, "Who? What are you talking about?
You don't understand."
No. I do understand [bleep] very clearly.
There are conversations being had that I am not privy to.
What the [bleep].
There's something I don't know.
So tell me what the [bleep] I don't know and stop [bleep]
gaslighting me and making it seem like I'm [bleep] crazy.
[intense music playing]
I understand that he has two children by the same woman.
I understand that he needs
to send her money for those children.
My issue here is that Manuel painted a picture
that they don't talk
and I am finding out that they do.
That is what is bothering me right now.
I mean, I wanna be able to support
Manuel's kids back home, but how can I be sure
that these kids are getting the money?
I need to know what's going on with Manuel.
Like, I deserve to know the truth.
-[Sienna speaking] -[Ashley speaking]
Hi.
[in Spanish]
Hi, CC.
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
-Yeah. -[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
-[Manuel laughs] -[in Spanish]
-[Manuel laughs] -[Ashley] Okay.
-What the [bleep] is funny? -[in Spanish]
What the [bleep] is funny?
[Manuel] Yeah.
-[in Spanish] -Why am I finding out the [bleep]
nothing is [bleep] funny.
[intense music playing]
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[Ashley] Okay.
-So, how does he know? -Right.
[in Spanish]
So it's not true?
Not true.
[phone rings]
[Jonathan] [in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Jonathan in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Jonathan in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Jonathan in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[suspenseful music playing]
So, what did he just say?
He's saying all these things that don't have to do with the point.
Like, it's deflection.
I can just tell he's lying.
[Manuel laughs]
[Sienna] Yeah [bleep] funny.
[in Spanish]
I'm [bleep] crazy because you've made me crazy, okay?
[laughs]
[Ashley] Stop [bleep] laughing.
Yeah, it's comical, Manuel.
Continue laughing.
It's all [bleep] funny, Manuel.
[sighs]
[man speaking]
Whoo!
[Kobe] Next time on 90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After.
[Jasmine] I'm very excited because I feel beautiful.
I think your pageant walk...
Uh-huh.
it's not good.
Are you serious?
[dramatic music playing]
[Jasmine] I do appreciate you coming here.
Thank you for that.
However...
I have not felt positive
reinforcement from you.
So you are uninvited to the rehearsals.
Uninvited?
-[Alexei] Okay, babe. -[Loren] Are you ready?
Yes. We gotta go. Come on.
[Loren] Okay. I'm coming out.
I don't know why I'm nervous.
This is the first time since the surgery that Alex
will see me without my faja,
my girdle, my bandages, everything.
And I just hope that he's happy with the results.
[Alexei] I'm ready for you.
My relationship with my dad is a lot different
than the relationship with your dad.
Like, my dad wasn't around.
[dramatic music playing]
[Thais speaking]
[Angela] We don't know when that visa's coming.
What if we start fighting again?
Right now, I need to decide
if he is telling the truth about everything he said.
I'm gonna get to the bottom of this.
[Michael speaking]
[Manuel in Spanish]
[Ashley in Spanish]
-[Manuel in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
-[Ashley in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
[Sophie] It's Rob's birthday today.
[woman] Oh, yeah?
[Sophie] You know, he's going to a club with his friends.
[woman] Does it worry you?
-[Rob] Yeah. -[indistinct]
-[Rob] Julia? -[Julia speaking]
-Nice to meet you, Julia. -Yes.
-There you go. -[Julia speaking]
-I'm with my friends-- -[Julia speaking]
Thank you. So are you.
[Rob speaking]
[Julia speaking]
[Rob] Oh.