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[all speaking
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[Gino in English] <i>Previously</i>
<i>on</i> 90 Day Fiance:
Happily Ever After?

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[speaking foreign language]

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[in English]
This is the first time ever
that we are having

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our family together.

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So we are nervous.

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[speaking foreign language]

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[Claire in English]

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How the hell do you know

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what the [bleep]
a decent guy is?

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Hey, you're being rude.

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I think letting my mom
come here tonight

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might have been a mistake.

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[Claire speaking]

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[Sophie] Mom, let's walk on.
Come on.

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[Alex speaking
foreign language]

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[in English]
Israel is at war with Hamas.

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<i>My mom and my brother</i>
<i>are in Israel,</i>

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<i>so I'm worried about them.</i>

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[in foreign language]

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[in English] When did you
actually break up with her?

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It took me getting knocked up

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to really knock your
girlfriend out of the picture.

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<i>I love my husband,</i>

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but it still
just makes me wonder,

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like, "Why did you lie
about it?"

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<i>Now I have doubts.</i>

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I mean, a little betrayed.

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I'm not gonna lie.

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[Gino] I want to make sure
you give me
all the credit I deserve.

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[Jasmine] Real men,

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they never list
the things they do.

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Let me tell you
what a real woman is.

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A real woman is one that's
calm and not bitchy.

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That's a good question.

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This is so embarrassing, man.

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I went through his phone
like a fine-tooth comb.

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<i>So how do I protect myself?</i>

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I need help.

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This is goddamn crazy.

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[Ed] Hey, Mom,
I'm gonna be honest.

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I didn't expect two for
the price of one.

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I'm gonna be totally honest.

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[Patty] Well, maybe
you should have been a man.

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Well, maybe
you should have done

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a better job raising
your daughter.

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He is going to die
a very, very lonely old man.

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And he's going to spend
the rest of his eternal life
in purgatory hell.

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[Liz sobbing]

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<i>♪ Good golly, gal ♪</i>

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<i>♪ You're the fastest girl</i>
<i>in town ♪</i>

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-[Sophie] Yeah.
-Can you tell me

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what "grit" is?

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Yeah.

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-[Sophie] Try it.
-No. It sounds weird.

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[waitress speaking]

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<i>♪ Ooh, good golly, gal ♪</i>

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I feel emotionally
hungover from yesterday.

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After last night's disastrous
meetup with Rob,

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<i>it's hard to really keep hold</i>
<i>of the hope for our marriage.</i>

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And I don't really know
what my next move should be.

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Breakfast sandwich.

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Oh, thank you.

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You're welcome.

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What is that?

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-Grits.
-Oh, that's-- Okay.

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-So, y'all enjoy.
-Thank you.

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Of course.

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[Claire speaking]

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[Sophie] What is that?

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Is that sausage?

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[Claire] I think so.

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I think Americans have
sausage, round sausages.

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-We have like long--
-[Sophie] I don't think
they have round sausages.

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They do.

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I've had sausage here.

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It's not round.

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That is so weird.

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-Okay.
-I did it.

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What the hell?

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I know.

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I prefer English breakfast.
Don't you?

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<i>I've never heard of grits</i>
<i>before today.</i>

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I don't know. It kind of
just looks like jail food.

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It doesn't-- [laughs] It
doesn't look like that,
like, edible.

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I don't know
why you would eat this

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if you didn't have to eat it.

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<i>In England,</i>
<i>you've got your baked beans,</i>

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toast, bacon and eggs,
which is so good.

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And hash browns.

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It's the weirdest thing I've
ever tasted in my life.

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[phone vibrating]

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Was that Rob?

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Is he being a knob?

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[phone vibrating]

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We're just going
back and forth on text,

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and he's just pissing me off.

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Since the whole thing
went down

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between Rob and my mom,

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<i>we've been texting</i>
<i>and he's been expressing</i>

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<i>that he does want me</i>
<i>to come home.</i>

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But he just insists that
my mom is to blame
for everything.

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<i>She was a bit too hard on him.</i>
<i>But at the same time,</i>

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she is just trying to be
a good parent to me.

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<i>And I just want him to</i>
<i>apologize for at least,</i>
<i>you know,</i>

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<i>making her cry.</i>

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It would mean a lot to me.

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[phone vibrating]

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Leave it.

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-Because when I leave...
-No, I know.

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...I'm going to be worried.
You know?

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Yeah.

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Like, I know he's hurting
and he wants you and all that,

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but he was awful last night.

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Yeah.

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I'm just not making
any decisions at this moment.

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I'm not asking you to
make a decision, but...

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I mean, I would just stay with
my friend for a bit

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and then get a job.

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No.

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No. No.

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No. I don't know.

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I haven't-- I'm not thinking
that far ahead,

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because I'm not--

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Like,
I don't want to leave Rob,

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go back to England,
and do all that.

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Like, I'd rather not.

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Then what if I regret it?

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[Claire] <i>With Sophie, like,</i>

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<i>she makes</i>
<i>really good choices in life.</i>

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I've never questioned
nothing she does.

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She's very sensible.

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But with Rob,
that's her Achilles' heel.

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She just makes
the worst decisions,

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like giving him second chances
and going back to him.

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She should just end it
because it's just...

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it's never gonna...
it's never gonna work.

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I can tell you
don't know what to do.

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Clearly.

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Can I tell you what
I think you should do?

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Mmm-hmm.

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Right now, I don't think
you should move back there.

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Yeah, so I think
the next few days,

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I'm just gonna stay
at Kay's house.

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I think that's
a really sensible solution.

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I need to definitely
get my stuff from his house.

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And I need to, like,
tell him what I'm doing,

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because he's gonna
expect me to come home.

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Ugh, he's already--

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I already see
the lecture coming.

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-Oh, God, not the lecture.
-"Why are you running away
from your problems again?"

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Meh, meh, meh, meh.

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I mean, probably.

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And also,
if he apologized to you,

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that would show me at least
something,

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-that he's not like...
-Yeah.

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I just wanna make it
easier for you.

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Yeah, I just don't want him
to try to stop me

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and then convince me to stay.

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Yeah, and he will.

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Because he'll give you
the sad face.

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You will feel sorry.

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He should really be like,

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"I understand
why you need some space.

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I made your mom cry."

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Yeah.

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[Sophie]
<i>It's really hard to say,</i>

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<i>like, why do I keep</i>
<i>giving Rob so many chances?</i>

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I don't know.
It's like I love him, for one.

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As a person, I do.

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He's a dick to me, yes.

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But as a person, like,
I care about him so much.

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But now I'm at a point

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<i>where I need to stop</i>
<i>running from my issues</i>

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<i>and really weigh out the pros</i>
<i>and cons of the relationship</i>

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<i>and either move back in</i>
<i>and be all in,</i>

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or like...

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I have to leave it.

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<i>Because I can't keep giving</i>
<i>Rob all these chances.</i>

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I'll grab my stuff and then
tell him, like,

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"Look, this is it. Like...

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this is the last [bleep] time.

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Like, I don't want
to be unhappy forever."

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Yeah.

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[Angela sighs] Oh, God.

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I mean,
this un-[bleep]-real.

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Oh, my God.

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He's told all these people
my personal income tax.

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I go on his phone to look
at this group he's on,

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<i>and I'm in shock right now,</i>
<i>everything that I found out.</i>

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<i>But I don't want to believe it</i>

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<i>until I'm absolutely</i>
<i>certain it's the truth.</i>

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<i>And I found an immigration</i>
<i>lawyer to help me understand</i>

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<i>what my options are,</i>

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so I can protect myself
and my family

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if there is some
scamming [bleep] going on.

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Hello.

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Hi, I'm Rebecca Carcagno.

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I'm Angela.
I'm married to a Nigerian.

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And I'm over here in Africa
with my husband.

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We're here in Abidjan.

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Uh, I had questions about...

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why he's being
held up with his visa,

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and in the process,

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today, I found out stuff
on his phone...

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like, I'm in shock.

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It's Paradise Men.

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This looks like
a goddamn scam to me.

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Interesting. Um...

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<i>I mean, you might just be</i>
<i>assuming a lot of things.</i>

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<i>I mean,</i>
<i>I don't know your history.</i>

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Well, he did--

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we did a K-1, got denied.

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And then
we got married in 2020.

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So we have been waiting
a long time

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since we got married.

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And he went yesterday for
his spousal visa interview,

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and, uh, they wanted to know
why did our K-1 get denied.

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And they...

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said they were going to
contact Lagos,

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and they'll get back to him.

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They want to see why.

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What was the longest
you've seen in the past

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them wait for this
administrative process?

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The longest I have seen is
over a year.

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-But I don't know that's
gonna happen to your case.
-Aah!

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Because they told you
specifically

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what they're looking
to find out.

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But if you're concerned
it's a scam,

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then maybe you don't want
the case to be approved.

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Because since
you've been married

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<i>at least two years already,</i>

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once he enters
on the immigrants visa,

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he's a permanent resident,
and you're--

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[Angela] I know that.

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<i>...which means you'll</i>
<i>be financially responsible</i>
<i>for him.</i>

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So that affidavit of support
says that you will provide

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the intending immigrant
any support necessary

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to maintain him or her
at an income

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<i>that is at least 125% of</i>
<i>the federal poverty guidelines</i>

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<i>for his or her household.</i>

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So basically he could sue you.

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Or if he ends up needing
public assistance
and using it,

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the government can sue you.

245
00:12:15,300 --> 00:12:17,266
And it's very clear
that divorce

246
00:12:17,266 --> 00:12:19,467
does not end this obligation.

247
00:12:19,467 --> 00:12:22,900
Um, so it's when either
he becomes a US citizen

248
00:12:22,900 --> 00:12:24,166
<i>or it has worked the--</i>

249
00:12:24,166 --> 00:12:27,767
<i>and received credit for</i>
<i>the 40 quarters of coverage</i>

250
00:12:27,767 --> 00:12:29,066
<i>under the Social Security Act.</i>

251
00:12:29,066 --> 00:12:30,567
<i>So that's 10 years.</i>

252
00:12:30,567 --> 00:12:33,667
So you should really
think about whether
you do want to proceed,

253
00:12:33,667 --> 00:12:35,233
you know, with this.

254
00:12:36,166 --> 00:12:39,000
[Angela]
<i>This is a</i> [bleep] <i>nightmare.</i>

255
00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:41,667
You're telling me that if
I don't abide by the rules,

256
00:12:41,667 --> 00:12:43,400
Michael can sue me?

257
00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:44,433
Can you imagine?

258
00:12:45,567 --> 00:12:48,400
<i>What am I supposed to</i>
<i>do right now?</i>

259
00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:50,634
<i>Just let him scam me</i>
<i>more out of money?</i>

260
00:12:51,967 --> 00:12:52,800
Hmm.

261
00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:55,767
Michael jeopardizes
my financial future,

262
00:12:55,767 --> 00:12:57,934
I'm not the only one
that will be getting hurt.

263
00:12:58,667 --> 00:12:59,967
<i>I have six grandkids.</i>

264
00:12:59,967 --> 00:13:02,100
<i>I've been looking after 'em</i>
<i>all my life,</i>

265
00:13:02,100 --> 00:13:05,066
<i>and I want to look after 'em</i>
<i>after my life.</i>

266
00:13:05,066 --> 00:13:08,467
And there's no way in hell
that I would let anyone

267
00:13:08,467 --> 00:13:11,333
take my money from my family.

268
00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:13,867
Period.

269
00:13:13,867 --> 00:13:16,166
So my question to you,
is there any way

270
00:13:16,166 --> 00:13:19,767
I can personally
go stop this at the embassy?

271
00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:22,367
<i>Yes, you could</i>
<i>send them an email</i>

272
00:13:22,367 --> 00:13:26,300
<i>and tell them you want</i>
<i>to withdraw your petition.</i>

273
00:13:26,300 --> 00:13:29,700
Um, but I think you would
want to be sure
that you want to do this--

274
00:13:29,700 --> 00:13:30,867
[Angela] I know, I know.

275
00:13:30,867 --> 00:13:32,300
Yes, absolutely.

276
00:13:32,300 --> 00:13:34,900
I might be just overreacting,
because I can do that.

277
00:13:34,900 --> 00:13:37,767
But I need to make sure first
what's going on.

278
00:13:37,767 --> 00:13:39,000
<i>Because it's already</i>
<i>at the embassy.</i>

279
00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:40,166
<i>He's already</i>
<i>done his interview.</i>

280
00:13:40,166 --> 00:13:42,800
<i>So make your decision</i>
<i>as soon as you're able to.</i>

281
00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:44,166
Okay.

282
00:13:44,166 --> 00:13:46,567
Like, at least, I would have
a serious conversation

283
00:13:46,567 --> 00:13:48,000
before you do that,

284
00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:51,300
<i>because once you withdraw</i>
<i>your support of him,</i>

285
00:13:51,300 --> 00:13:53,934
<i>that route is going to be</i>
<i>permanently closed.</i>

286
00:13:58,467 --> 00:14:00,567
I invested seven years
of my life

287
00:14:00,567 --> 00:14:03,000
waiting on Michael
to get his visa to the US.

288
00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:04,934
<i>There's nothing in it</i>
<i>for me but love.</i>

289
00:14:08,867 --> 00:14:11,266
<i>You don't just</i>
<i>stop loving somebody.</i>

290
00:14:11,266 --> 00:14:14,867
But what I can stop doing
is being there for him,

291
00:14:14,867 --> 00:14:16,467
and I don't
have to be his wife.

292
00:14:16,467 --> 00:14:18,734
I can love him over there
till I get over him.

293
00:14:19,100 --> 00:14:20,066
Because, after all,

294
00:14:20,066 --> 00:14:21,567
it doesn't look like
he loves me at all.

295
00:14:25,967 --> 00:14:27,433
[Jasmine speaking]

296
00:14:34,266 --> 00:14:35,433
We don't have intimacy.

297
00:14:36,166 --> 00:14:38,667
This is not how
a marriage should be.

298
00:14:38,667 --> 00:14:40,266
[Gino] That's gonna take
some time.

299
00:14:40,266 --> 00:14:42,834
And when I'm comfortable
to do it, I'll let you know.

300
00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:49,867
Honestly, we were not very
prepared for this recovery
from the surgery.

301
00:14:49,867 --> 00:14:52,467
And now the war
and all of that is--

302
00:14:52,467 --> 00:14:53,767
it's a lot.

303
00:14:53,767 --> 00:14:56,300
I know Loren needs me
and my support,

304
00:14:56,300 --> 00:14:57,266
and I'm trying.

305
00:14:57,266 --> 00:14:59,767
But I'm just so overwhelmed

306
00:14:59,767 --> 00:15:01,533
and I feel like I'm breaking.

307
00:15:06,467 --> 00:15:09,033
<i>♪ I got a fire ♪</i>

308
00:15:09,667 --> 00:15:13,567
<i>♪ Burning out of control ♪</i>

309
00:15:13,567 --> 00:15:16,767
<i>♪ We keep on rolling ♪</i>

310
00:15:16,767 --> 00:15:19,567
<i>♪ Leaving nothing behind ♪</i>

311
00:15:21,767 --> 00:15:26,066
<i>♪ Burn me, burn me</i>
<i>burn me down ♪</i>

312
00:15:31,967 --> 00:15:33,533
[Gino speaking Spanish]

313
00:15:37,567 --> 00:15:41,934
[in English]
I thought maybe we could
go to lunch and chat some.

314
00:15:58,467 --> 00:15:59,700
Yeah. I mean, that--
that's fair.

315
00:15:59,700 --> 00:16:00,767
I'm-- I'm okay with that.

316
00:16:02,667 --> 00:16:03,734
Okay.

317
00:16:09,467 --> 00:16:11,800
[Gino] <i>I want to</i>
<i>take Jasmine to lunch</i>

318
00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:14,300
so that we can talk about,
you know,

319
00:16:14,300 --> 00:16:15,967
what happened at
the appliance store yesterday,

320
00:16:15,967 --> 00:16:17,533
the nasty fight we got into.

321
00:16:17,700 --> 00:16:18,667
Ready?

322
00:16:20,700 --> 00:16:21,967
Okay.

323
00:16:21,967 --> 00:16:23,266
Let's go.

324
00:16:23,266 --> 00:16:27,166
<i>It hurts me that she said</i>
<i>that I wasn't a real man.</i>

325
00:16:27,166 --> 00:16:29,500
<i>I mean, this is</i>
<i>the kind of crap that</i>

326
00:16:29,500 --> 00:16:32,533
I go through
too often with Jasmine.

327
00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:37,000
How can we
get out of this mess

328
00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:40,533
of always getting in
these stupid arguments?

329
00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:42,433
Um...

330
00:16:44,567 --> 00:16:47,634
I really don't
know how to move forward.

331
00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:54,634
I am exhausted,
mentally exhausted.

332
00:16:56,867 --> 00:16:58,166
I have to be honest with you.

333
00:16:58,166 --> 00:17:00,533
I'm mentally exhausted myself.

334
00:17:01,100 --> 00:17:02,166
Poor Gino.

335
00:17:05,467 --> 00:17:08,400
I know that I said some
mean things to Gino yesterday,

336
00:17:08,400 --> 00:17:09,734
but I'm not the only one.

337
00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:12,066
[Gino] Okay.

338
00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:14,667
[Jasmine]
<i>I never would have thought</i>

339
00:17:14,667 --> 00:17:17,767
that this is how our marriage
was going to look like.

340
00:17:17,767 --> 00:17:21,266
<i>We are acting like</i>
<i>we are each other's enemy.</i>

341
00:17:21,266 --> 00:17:24,734
<i>And our relationship</i>
<i>has been affected sexually.</i>

342
00:17:25,266 --> 00:17:26,333
We don't have intimacy.

343
00:17:27,367 --> 00:17:29,100
<i>And we are newlyweds.</i>

344
00:17:29,100 --> 00:17:31,533
This is not
how marriage should be.

345
00:17:32,967 --> 00:17:35,233
I wanted to go
to the gym today,

346
00:17:43,100 --> 00:17:45,200
you don't see me
as an attractive woman

347
00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:46,867
because of
the things that I do.

348
00:17:46,867 --> 00:17:48,634
I didn't say
you are not attractive.

349
00:17:51,700 --> 00:17:54,233
Well, what you said...

350
00:18:00,667 --> 00:18:01,767
that really hurt me.

351
00:18:03,767 --> 00:18:06,967
Well, I'm sorry that
I retaliated.

352
00:18:07,767 --> 00:18:10,667
But, um, you told me that,
you know,

353
00:18:10,667 --> 00:18:12,867
I'm not a provider.
I'm not a real man.

354
00:18:12,867 --> 00:18:14,300
-Mmm.
-[clicks tongue]

355
00:18:14,300 --> 00:18:16,367
And that really hurts me

356
00:18:16,367 --> 00:18:20,000
because I feel like
I've been a provider to you.

357
00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:21,700
And then, you know,

358
00:18:21,700 --> 00:18:24,367
I told you that
I finally paid for the pageant

359
00:18:24,367 --> 00:18:25,767
and I was expecting you
to be happy.

360
00:18:25,767 --> 00:18:28,233
And you didn't give me
any credit for doing that.

361
00:18:28,667 --> 00:18:30,367
And that hurt you.

362
00:18:30,367 --> 00:18:31,433
Yeah, that hurt me.

363
00:18:36,100 --> 00:18:41,100
I am sorry if I hurt your...

364
00:18:41,100 --> 00:18:43,166
your masculinity as a man,

365
00:18:43,166 --> 00:18:45,000
and you felt less than a man.

366
00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:46,634
That was not my intention.

367
00:18:47,867 --> 00:18:48,834
And...

368
00:19:02,700 --> 00:19:03,867
So you won't say
hurtful things.

369
00:19:03,867 --> 00:19:06,634
I won't say hurtful things
purposely.

370
00:19:08,066 --> 00:19:09,166
But...

371
00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:25,367
That's going to take
some time.

372
00:19:25,367 --> 00:19:26,667
And when I'm
comfortable to do it,

373
00:19:26,667 --> 00:19:28,333
I'll let you know.

374
00:19:32,266 --> 00:19:33,467
Like...

375
00:19:34,367 --> 00:19:38,667
Gino, I want you to find me
attractive, even if I argue.

376
00:19:38,667 --> 00:19:40,667
-Like--
-Are you talking about
physically?

377
00:19:40,667 --> 00:19:43,166
Because physically--
physically,
I'm attracted to you.

378
00:19:44,367 --> 00:19:47,266
You're beautiful--
a very beautiful woman.

379
00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:53,533
What do you like about me
physically the most?

380
00:19:54,300 --> 00:19:57,734
I like your big,
perky breasts.

381
00:20:00,567 --> 00:20:01,634
Very good shape.

382
00:20:02,867 --> 00:20:05,567
Okay. I like everything
from you physically.

383
00:20:05,567 --> 00:20:09,533
Like, in my eyes, you're the
most beautiful man on Earth.

384
00:20:10,100 --> 00:20:12,033
Aw, that's so sweet.

385
00:20:13,266 --> 00:20:16,000
[Jasmine] <i>We've been</i>
<i>through a very rough patch,</i>

386
00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:19,467
but baby steps,
we are improving,

387
00:20:19,467 --> 00:20:22,533
and we can finally have
a civil conversation.

388
00:20:27,867 --> 00:20:30,266
-Very deep into my throat.
-Down your throat.

389
00:20:30,266 --> 00:20:31,867
-Yeah. And--
-So she shuts up.

390
00:20:31,867 --> 00:20:35,333
Yeah, it's like a pacifier
in my mouth.

391
00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:39,600
-I love you so much.
-True love.

392
00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:42,300
Do you want to try my tomato?
It's very good.

393
00:20:42,300 --> 00:20:43,433
Come.

394
00:20:43,767 --> 00:20:45,033
[Gino laughing]

395
00:20:46,767 --> 00:20:49,166
You-- Come on! You're Italian.

396
00:20:49,166 --> 00:20:50,767
-You should like tomatoes.
-No, it's good.

397
00:20:54,266 --> 00:20:56,133
<i>♪ Lie awake ♪</i>

398
00:20:57,667 --> 00:21:01,133
<i>♪ And feel</i>
<i>the pressure mounting ♪</i>

399
00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:03,567
Hello!

400
00:21:03,567 --> 00:21:06,667
<i>♪ You will not be led ♪</i>

401
00:21:06,667 --> 00:21:07,767
Go see Pop-Pop.

402
00:21:07,767 --> 00:21:09,667
-[gasps] Hi, honey.
-Hi.

403
00:21:15,767 --> 00:21:17,567
Ooh, look who's here.

404
00:21:17,567 --> 00:21:20,166
Ah, sprout. Ooh!

405
00:21:23,166 --> 00:21:24,266
Mwah!

406
00:21:24,266 --> 00:21:25,934
-Ow. That hurt.
-[baby cooing]

407
00:21:26,767 --> 00:21:27,667
[Alex] <i>I gotta go to work,</i>

408
00:21:27,667 --> 00:21:30,367
and today,
the daycare is closed.

409
00:21:30,367 --> 00:21:33,266
<i>Loren cannot take care</i>
<i>of the kids by herself.</i>

410
00:21:33,266 --> 00:21:35,900
<i>She's still recovering</i>
<i>from the surgery.</i>

411
00:21:35,900 --> 00:21:37,567
She's in a lot of pain still.

412
00:21:37,567 --> 00:21:40,100
She can't do certain moves
because she keeps...

413
00:21:40,100 --> 00:21:41,867
you know, moving
and then feeling the pain.

414
00:21:41,867 --> 00:21:45,266
So I'm gonna drop off the kids
with Ima G and Pop-Pop.

415
00:21:46,767 --> 00:21:48,900
How are you holding up?

416
00:21:48,900 --> 00:21:53,100
I mean, it's been crazy with
everything going on in Israel.

417
00:21:53,100 --> 00:21:54,533
We're...

418
00:21:56,100 --> 00:21:58,066
just like
I feel drained, I guess.

419
00:21:58,066 --> 00:21:59,500
I don't know. I feel tired

420
00:21:59,500 --> 00:22:02,467
from all the stress
and information.

421
00:22:02,467 --> 00:22:04,767
And like on top of, you know,

422
00:22:04,767 --> 00:22:07,000
-the kids
and Loren in recovery...
-And Loren.

423
00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:08,433
-...and all of that...
-I know.

424
00:22:10,867 --> 00:22:12,467
Oh, I have no doubt.

425
00:22:12,467 --> 00:22:14,667
I'm gonna bring this
back to her,

426
00:22:14,667 --> 00:22:17,600
-uh, full scale.
-I have no doubt.

427
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:19,266
Where will you be snorkeling?

428
00:22:19,266 --> 00:22:21,166
Ooh, thank you, honey.

429
00:22:21,166 --> 00:22:22,600
You're cleaning.

430
00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:23,867
-Thank you.
-Good job, boys.

431
00:22:23,867 --> 00:22:25,767
-Thank you.
-[kid babbling]

432
00:22:25,767 --> 00:22:28,100
[Alex] She's still not lifting
the kids, number one,

433
00:22:28,100 --> 00:22:29,467
-which is the main thing.
-Right.

434
00:22:39,767 --> 00:22:41,033
Yeah, it's not easy.

435
00:22:43,166 --> 00:22:45,867
I know Loren needs me
and my support,

436
00:22:45,867 --> 00:22:46,767
and I'm trying,

437
00:22:46,767 --> 00:22:49,467
but I'm just so overwhelmed.

438
00:22:49,467 --> 00:22:52,667
<i>I'm stressed nonstop</i>
<i>at home, at work.</i>

439
00:22:52,667 --> 00:22:53,867
My mind is racing.

440
00:22:53,867 --> 00:22:55,567
I'm thinking about Israel.

441
00:22:55,567 --> 00:22:57,567
And I-- like I'm breaking.

442
00:22:57,567 --> 00:22:59,367
<i>But at the same time,</i>

443
00:22:59,367 --> 00:23:01,867
I have my family here,
my wife, my kids.

444
00:23:01,867 --> 00:23:04,467
So that's my priority
right now.

445
00:23:07,367 --> 00:23:09,266
Oh, my God.

446
00:23:09,266 --> 00:23:12,200
-So she cried to you, or--
-All the time. Every day.

447
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:14,166
The second I come to work,
she starts.

448
00:23:14,166 --> 00:23:16,667
I'm like,
"Stop bitching already.
You wanted this. Have--"

449
00:23:16,667 --> 00:23:18,533
-Oh, well, forget it.
I'm not gonna...
-Right.

450
00:23:19,700 --> 00:23:22,066
When the doctor says to Alex,

451
00:23:22,066 --> 00:23:23,367
you know,
"It's six to eight weeks

452
00:23:23,367 --> 00:23:24,567
she can't do anything."

453
00:23:24,567 --> 00:23:29,266
He's saying, "Yeah, okay.
You know, maybe four weeks."

454
00:23:29,266 --> 00:23:32,100
But now he's seeing it's real.

455
00:23:32,100 --> 00:23:35,100
<i>So I think he feels helpless.</i>

456
00:23:35,100 --> 00:23:37,400
<i>And for Loren to not jump up</i>

457
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:39,800
<i>and help with the kids</i>
<i>is difficult.</i>

458
00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:41,400
You know, we're trying to help
any way we can,

459
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:42,367
but no matter what,

460
00:23:42,367 --> 00:23:44,634
it's physically
and mentally exhausting.

461
00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:54,734
Tension and frustration.
I'm sure.

462
00:23:56,567 --> 00:24:00,066
Honestly, we were not very
prepared for this recovery
from the surgery.

463
00:24:00,066 --> 00:24:02,166
We thought it
was going to be easier.

464
00:24:02,166 --> 00:24:04,300
And now the war
and all of that,

465
00:24:04,300 --> 00:24:05,400
it's a lot.

466
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:06,767
I'm a little overwhelmed.

467
00:24:07,567 --> 00:24:10,967
I know it's a trying time,
but...

468
00:24:10,967 --> 00:24:12,967
-We'll be fine.
-...we're here.
You'll be okay.

469
00:24:12,967 --> 00:24:14,767
-Let us pray.
-Yes.

470
00:24:16,867 --> 00:24:18,467
[Alex] <i>I knew it was</i>
<i>going to be a challenge</i>

471
00:24:18,467 --> 00:24:20,767
<i>to take care of</i>
<i>the household on my own</i>

472
00:24:20,767 --> 00:24:22,967
<i>while Loren is recovering,</i>

473
00:24:22,967 --> 00:24:24,533
<i>but I thought</i>
<i>I can handle it.</i>

474
00:24:25,266 --> 00:24:26,367
<i>At the beginning,</i>

475
00:24:26,367 --> 00:24:29,400
I think she really downplayed
this whole recovery thing.

476
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:30,800
She told me, you know,

477
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:32,467
she'll be
able to do things, and

478
00:24:32,467 --> 00:24:35,200
we both kind of agreed
it's gonna be fine.

479
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:39,000
<i>But if I knew how hard</i>
<i>this recovery is going to be,</i>

480
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:40,400
there's no way
I would have been

481
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:42,467
as supportive as I have been.

482
00:24:42,467 --> 00:24:43,967
[inaudible]

483
00:24:51,100 --> 00:24:52,033
[speaking foreign language]

484
00:24:52,033 --> 00:24:53,667
[John in English]
What are you talking about?

485
00:24:53,667 --> 00:24:55,467
[speaking in foreign language]

486
00:24:55,467 --> 00:24:58,000
Jose, I don't know
what he said.

487
00:24:58,000 --> 00:24:59,266
When it comes down to it,

488
00:24:59,266 --> 00:25:01,867
you shouldn't
charge your son for rent.

489
00:25:01,867 --> 00:25:03,667
[Patrick] Yes, he should.
I charged you for rent.

490
00:25:04,700 --> 00:25:06,367
<i>He's kind of</i>
<i>crossing the line.</i>

491
00:25:06,367 --> 00:25:07,767
Really, he has
nothing to do with it.

492
00:25:11,467 --> 00:25:12,767
[Patty] It's okay.

493
00:25:12,767 --> 00:25:13,867
Let it out.

494
00:25:13,867 --> 00:25:15,166
Take deep breaths.

495
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:17,367
[crying]

496
00:25:19,266 --> 00:25:21,900
I don't know how you go
from loving someone so much

497
00:25:21,900 --> 00:25:23,266
to just...

498
00:25:23,266 --> 00:25:24,467
[breathing shakily]

499
00:25:24,467 --> 00:25:26,533
<i>...wishing that</i>
<i>they didn't even exist.</i>

500
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,000
I really don't want
to see him.

501
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:29,934
Take a deep breath.

502
00:25:36,667 --> 00:25:39,066
[speaking foreign language]

503
00:25:59,867 --> 00:26:01,500
[Patrick in English]
<i>We're out to dinner</i>
<i>with our families</i>

504
00:26:01,500 --> 00:26:03,500
and Carlos
is starting off hot.

505
00:26:03,500 --> 00:26:05,467
You know, immediately
gives my dad [bleep]

506
00:26:05,467 --> 00:26:07,266
about having
to fix the ranch up

507
00:26:07,266 --> 00:26:08,567
to have a party there.

508
00:26:08,567 --> 00:26:09,667
<i>And to be honest,</i>

509
00:26:09,667 --> 00:26:11,467
<i>he's kind of</i>
<i>crossing the line.</i>

510
00:26:11,467 --> 00:26:14,467
Carlos doesn't need
to know business between
my dad and me.

511
00:26:14,467 --> 00:26:16,066
Like, that's our business.

512
00:26:16,066 --> 00:26:19,233
And, really, he has
nothing to do with it.

513
00:26:19,867 --> 00:26:22,000
[speaking in foreign language]

514
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:22,934
[Patrick] They're talking
about the apartment.

515
00:26:22,934 --> 00:26:24,133
[John in English]
What are you talking about?

516
00:26:25,100 --> 00:26:27,166
[speaking in foreign language]

517
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:28,867
[in English]

518
00:26:28,867 --> 00:26:30,600
[speaking in foreign language]

519
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:33,333
[in English] Hey, Jose,
I don't know what he said.

520
00:26:34,066 --> 00:26:35,266
When it comes down to it,

521
00:26:35,266 --> 00:26:37,567
you shouldn't
charge your son for rent.

522
00:26:37,567 --> 00:26:39,433
[Patrick] Yes, he should.
I charged you for rent.

523
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:42,467
You charged me for rent?

524
00:26:42,467 --> 00:26:43,800
-Yeah. You lived with me...
-Yeah.

525
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:44,767
...you paid me.

526
00:26:44,767 --> 00:26:46,700
I paid you
more than you asked.

527
00:26:46,700 --> 00:26:48,333
It still wasn't enough.

528
00:26:48,567 --> 00:26:49,867
What?

529
00:26:49,867 --> 00:26:54,166
The only reason why I got
the apartment we're in now
was for Thais.

530
00:26:54,166 --> 00:26:56,867
Because, otherwise,
I would have
just stayed at Dad's house.

531
00:26:56,867 --> 00:26:59,734
But I didn't want to bring
our stuff into his home.

532
00:27:00,967 --> 00:27:02,200
Because when
I first came out here,

533
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:03,667
I stayed at his house
for free.

534
00:27:09,300 --> 00:27:12,367
You guys are acting like
this is like a high-rise condo

535
00:27:12,367 --> 00:27:14,900
that's costing
thousands of dollars a month.

536
00:27:14,900 --> 00:27:17,867
It costs thousands of dollars
a year.

537
00:27:17,867 --> 00:27:19,000
I mean, I don't know

538
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:21,567
if Patrick
is holding this apartment

539
00:27:21,567 --> 00:27:23,800
for, like, a sentimental
reason or something.

540
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:25,000
You're never there.

541
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:26,133
So what's the purpose?

542
00:27:35,066 --> 00:27:39,233
So I think Patrick, you know,
should let the apartment go.

543
00:27:42,567 --> 00:27:45,233
[Carlos speaking
in foreign language]

544
00:28:05,367 --> 00:28:06,634
[in English] No, no, no.

545
00:28:08,500 --> 00:28:11,166
[Patrick speaking
in foreign language]

546
00:28:15,867 --> 00:28:17,800
[in English]
About time you spoke up.

547
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:19,100
You been quiet as a church.

548
00:28:19,100 --> 00:28:20,767
I'm letting them talk.

549
00:28:20,767 --> 00:28:22,166
-What'd you say?
-[Jose] No.

550
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,467
[Thais speaking
in foreign language]

551
00:28:29,567 --> 00:28:31,200
[John in English]
Let's be honest here.

552
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:33,166
Thais lied to you,

553
00:28:33,166 --> 00:28:35,266
so, therefore,
you weren't able

554
00:28:35,266 --> 00:28:38,800
to get my brother
to ask you for the blessing

555
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:40,867
to kiss the ring.

556
00:28:40,867 --> 00:28:42,166
[Patrick] Exactly.

557
00:28:42,166 --> 00:28:47,867
So, therefore, he was not able
to ask the blessing

558
00:28:47,867 --> 00:28:49,634
because you
didn't tell your father.

559
00:28:51,367 --> 00:28:52,500
[Patrick] <i>I mean,</i>
<i>whose side are you on?</i>

560
00:28:52,500 --> 00:28:55,266
You're just playing both sides
and just making this a mess.

561
00:28:55,266 --> 00:28:56,667
I'm on the side of truth.

562
00:28:56,667 --> 00:28:57,500
You don't even know
what they're saying.

563
00:28:57,500 --> 00:29:00,400
I-- I'm listening
to the interpretation,

564
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,400
and I'm reading
body language, okay?

565
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:03,500
That's how-- you know,

566
00:29:03,500 --> 00:29:05,300
that's what
a good detective does.

567
00:29:05,300 --> 00:29:06,967
-And that's what I'm doing.
-Dude,
you are not a detective.

568
00:29:06,967 --> 00:29:07,900
I'm good.

569
00:29:07,900 --> 00:29:08,967
I'm real good.

570
00:29:09,767 --> 00:29:11,233
The blessing is over.

571
00:29:11,900 --> 00:29:13,867
There's no more
kissing the ring.

572
00:29:13,867 --> 00:29:15,867
The marriage is done.

573
00:29:15,867 --> 00:29:18,066
I think your father seems
like a nice guy.

574
00:29:19,266 --> 00:29:20,767
But it's not happening.

575
00:29:20,767 --> 00:29:25,567
[speaking in foreign language]

576
00:29:31,100 --> 00:29:32,533
[in English]

577
00:29:45,266 --> 00:29:47,867
[Patrick speaking
in foreign language]

578
00:29:58,266 --> 00:29:59,867
-[in English]
What are you talking about?
-That's more important.

579
00:29:59,867 --> 00:30:01,934
[speaking in foreign language]

580
00:30:19,266 --> 00:30:23,367
[in English]

581
00:30:23,367 --> 00:30:25,600
<i>I think it's because</i>
<i>he's still upset</i>

582
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:27,934
that Patrick hasn't asked
for the blessing.

583
00:30:36,900 --> 00:30:38,367
I don't know.

584
00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:41,634
[speaking in foreign language]

585
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:50,634
[in English]

586
00:30:52,567 --> 00:30:53,900
The number one on my list
is a goat.

587
00:30:53,900 --> 00:30:55,200
[Kobe] It's right over there.

588
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:58,266
[David] Oh, there he is.
Oh, okay, very nice.

589
00:30:58,266 --> 00:30:59,467
[Emily] <i>It's so cute,</i>

590
00:30:59,467 --> 00:31:01,867
but I never thought,
in my wildest dreams,

591
00:31:01,867 --> 00:31:03,800
that I would be traded
for a goat.

592
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:05,166
[David] Okay, we got to
give him a name.

593
00:31:14,867 --> 00:31:16,066
[David] Throw it.

594
00:31:16,066 --> 00:31:18,533
One, two, three.

595
00:31:19,367 --> 00:31:20,867
-Uh-oh.
-[Lisa] Whoa!

596
00:31:20,867 --> 00:31:22,634
That was a crazy throw.

597
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:28,967
Throw it like this.

598
00:31:28,967 --> 00:31:30,433
-Hiyah!
-Throw it like this.

599
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:32,533
Wow.

600
00:31:33,166 --> 00:31:34,500
So, Emily, what's going on?

601
00:31:34,500 --> 00:31:36,467
What are we waiting on here?

602
00:31:37,567 --> 00:31:41,533
We are waiting for
the list that you gave

603
00:31:43,266 --> 00:31:44,367
So they're coming here.

604
00:31:44,367 --> 00:31:45,867
Yep. They're going
to come here

605
00:31:45,867 --> 00:31:47,367
and present the items.

606
00:31:47,367 --> 00:31:49,100
So this is
my last chance to...

607
00:31:49,100 --> 00:31:51,600
-Your last chance.
-...agree to the wedding,
or call it all off.

608
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:53,667
Yep.

609
00:31:53,667 --> 00:31:56,467
<i>My traditional Cameroonian</i>
<i>wedding is tomorrow.</i>

610
00:31:56,467 --> 00:31:57,767
And, right now,

611
00:31:57,767 --> 00:31:59,667
things are a little bit
uneasy between Kobe and I

612
00:31:59,667 --> 00:32:01,367
<i>because of his ex.</i>

613
00:32:01,367 --> 00:32:03,266
I mean, all I wanted
was the truth,

614
00:32:03,266 --> 00:32:04,500
<i>and I did get it,</i>

615
00:32:04,500 --> 00:32:07,000
<i>but I wish I had a little bit</i>
<i>more time to get over it</i>

616
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:08,266
<i>before the wedding.</i>

617
00:32:08,266 --> 00:32:10,533
So it's hard to just, like,
let it go.

618
00:32:18,467 --> 00:32:20,567
Oh, I think Daddy's here.

619
00:32:20,567 --> 00:32:22,400
-[gasps] What?
-[David] What?

620
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:25,433
-[imitates fanfare]
-So exciting.

621
00:32:27,467 --> 00:32:28,533
[Kobe speaking]

622
00:32:46,567 --> 00:32:47,934
[speaking in foreign language]

623
00:32:57,867 --> 00:32:59,667
-[in English] Yeah, wow!
-Wow!

624
00:32:59,667 --> 00:33:00,500
Look at this.

625
00:33:00,500 --> 00:33:02,300
-Whoo-hoo!
-Look at this!

626
00:33:02,300 --> 00:33:05,667
Wow, look at this.
Interesting, interesting.

627
00:33:05,667 --> 00:33:06,800
[David] Yes. Yes, yes, yes!

628
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:08,266
Fantastic.

629
00:33:08,266 --> 00:33:11,433
The list of things
you submitted to my family,

630
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:13,033
everything is here.

631
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:18,767
[David] Well, awesome.

632
00:33:18,767 --> 00:33:20,500
The number one on my list
is a goat.

633
00:33:20,500 --> 00:33:21,867
It's right over there.

634
00:33:21,867 --> 00:33:22,800
Oh, there he is.

635
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:24,500
-Okay. Aw.
-[Lisa] Aw!

636
00:33:24,500 --> 00:33:25,600
[David] Okay, very nice.

637
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:27,266
-All right.
-Oh, he's so cute!

638
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:29,400
It's so cute.

639
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:31,767
But I never thought,
in my wildest dreams,

640
00:33:31,767 --> 00:33:34,200
that I would be traded
for a goat.

641
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:35,867
Maybe, like a herd of goats.

642
00:33:35,867 --> 00:33:37,233
<i>One goat?</i>

643
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:39,467
I'm just kidding.

644
00:33:39,467 --> 00:33:40,867
<i>I love it.</i>

645
00:33:40,867 --> 00:33:42,166
[David] Okay.
We got to give him a name.

646
00:33:42,166 --> 00:33:44,400
[Lisa] He has like
a heart on his face.

647
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:45,900
We're going to
name the goat Boyah.

648
00:33:45,900 --> 00:33:47,166
-[Kobe] Boyah.
-[Emily] Boyah.

649
00:33:47,166 --> 00:33:48,266
-[Kobe chuckles]
-[David] Yeah.

650
00:33:48,266 --> 00:33:50,700
I kind of love that goat.

651
00:33:50,700 --> 00:33:52,500
<i>I'd put her in</i>
<i>my suitcase if I could,</i>

652
00:33:52,500 --> 00:33:54,500
but we'll share her
with someone here

653
00:33:54,500 --> 00:33:56,266
or someone who can...

654
00:33:56,266 --> 00:33:58,200
-you know, wants a baby goat.
-Lisa would give the goat

655
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:00,900
my airline ticket
to take back the USA...

656
00:34:00,900 --> 00:34:02,867
-Right now, I would.
-...and leave me here.

657
00:34:03,767 --> 00:34:05,567
[David] And then the palm oil.

658
00:34:05,567 --> 00:34:07,367
That's this. An umbrella.

659
00:34:07,367 --> 00:34:10,600
Yeah, we needed that
two weeks ago.

660
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:12,867
-[David] All right, umbrella.
-[Emily] Yeah,
the best umbrella.

661
00:34:12,867 --> 00:34:14,900
A wooden cane,
which I love.

662
00:34:14,900 --> 00:34:17,367
Uh, two African shirts.

663
00:34:17,367 --> 00:34:18,900
So, they're right over there.

664
00:34:18,900 --> 00:34:19,967
[David] Okay.

665
00:34:20,266 --> 00:34:21,333
All right.

666
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:23,867
[Kobe]
So everything is all yours,

667
00:34:23,867 --> 00:34:25,867
as long as
we have your daughter.

668
00:34:25,867 --> 00:34:28,400
It sounds like ransom
or something.

669
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:29,567
[Emily] Was that
everything on the list?

670
00:34:29,567 --> 00:34:31,066
-No, it's not finished.
-Oh, it's not finished?

671
00:34:32,967 --> 00:34:35,266
[David]
Yeah, the bride's price.

672
00:34:35,266 --> 00:34:36,667
-[Kobe] Okay,
that's very good.
-Ugh.

673
00:34:36,667 --> 00:34:37,967
-We're coming to that, so.
-I hate this part.

674
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:43,900
[David] The bride price.

675
00:34:43,900 --> 00:34:45,567
-So the bride price--
-Okay. Where do I go?

676
00:34:45,567 --> 00:34:47,600
-I mean, you just--
-Do I go on this side?

677
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:48,767
-No, you have to go back--
-Oh, I have to leave.

678
00:34:48,767 --> 00:34:50,266
-[Lisa] You're not here.
-[Felix] Yes, you just
have to leave.

679
00:34:50,266 --> 00:34:52,834
Okay. All right,
my fate is in your hands.

680
00:35:08,667 --> 00:35:10,734
And you are going to count

681
00:35:20,767 --> 00:35:21,934
[David] Okay.

682
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:28,967
You okay?

683
00:35:28,967 --> 00:35:30,734
Uh... yeah.

684
00:35:33,867 --> 00:35:37,500
I mean, the whole
like buying a wife thing

685
00:35:37,500 --> 00:35:39,700
is just not ever gonna
sit well with me.

686
00:35:39,700 --> 00:35:42,967
And I don't care
if people keep telling me
it's tradition,

687
00:35:42,967 --> 00:35:44,900
that's what it feels like
to me.

688
00:35:44,900 --> 00:35:46,634
[David] <i>No, I think...</i>

689
00:35:47,367 --> 00:35:48,700
"When in Cameroon,

690
00:35:48,700 --> 00:35:50,867
do what Cameroonians do."

691
00:35:50,867 --> 00:35:54,333
Okay, we asked them to
negotiate for 1,000 francs.

692
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:03,834
[father speaking
in foreign language]

693
00:36:05,266 --> 00:36:06,634
[Kobe in English]
Maybe we take out three.

694
00:36:09,100 --> 00:36:11,166
Okay. Thank you.

695
00:36:11,166 --> 00:36:13,767
So that is what we can afford.

696
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:16,767
If it's not enough,

697
00:36:17,500 --> 00:36:19,166
it's negotiable.

698
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:22,700
I know. But this
is what you can afford.

699
00:36:22,700 --> 00:36:23,867
I am okay.

700
00:36:23,867 --> 00:36:25,033
Okay. We're good.

701
00:36:26,967 --> 00:36:28,100
[David] I'm okay.

702
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:35,700
The bride price that my family
finally paid to Emily's dad

703
00:36:35,700 --> 00:36:39,433
was 700 francs,
which is like a $1.50.

704
00:36:40,767 --> 00:36:43,367
<i>It's not a lot of money</i>
<i>to American culture,</i>

705
00:36:43,367 --> 00:36:45,934
but it's expensive
in Cameroon.

706
00:36:46,467 --> 00:36:48,066
[chuckles]

707
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:49,567
All right.

708
00:36:49,567 --> 00:36:50,567
Okay.

709
00:36:52,066 --> 00:36:53,367
-[Felix] Our wife.
-[Kobe] Now, this is--

710
00:36:53,367 --> 00:36:56,266
-"Our wife."
-Now, this is
your new position.

711
00:36:56,266 --> 00:36:58,100
You know, before we got here,
you were over there.

712
00:36:58,100 --> 00:36:59,700
But now, you're here.

713
00:36:59,700 --> 00:37:00,767
-Yes.
-That means a lot.

714
00:37:00,767 --> 00:37:02,166
And, you see,
they're still happy,

715
00:37:02,166 --> 00:37:03,667
despite the fact
that you're here.

716
00:37:03,667 --> 00:37:05,133
I mean, everybody's happy.

717
00:37:06,066 --> 00:37:07,233
[sniffles]

718
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:11,266
-[David] Mom, be happy.
-Mom.

719
00:37:13,867 --> 00:37:16,734
-Aw.
-[Emily] Oh, Mama.

720
00:37:17,867 --> 00:37:20,734
When she came out
and she stood with them...

721
00:37:21,467 --> 00:37:23,567
[laughs and sniffles]

722
00:37:23,567 --> 00:37:26,834
...it just felt more like
she wasn't ours anymore.

723
00:37:29,066 --> 00:37:31,100
[David] <i>Yeah, I kind--</i>
<i>I felt that, too.</i>

724
00:37:31,100 --> 00:37:34,867
<i>But I'm absolutely sure</i>
<i>Kobe understands</i>

725
00:37:34,867 --> 00:37:36,900
that this is
for the sake of tradition,

726
00:37:36,900 --> 00:37:40,100
that this isn't
necessarily the reality.

727
00:37:40,100 --> 00:37:42,567
When we get back
to the States, you know,

728
00:37:42,567 --> 00:37:44,700
<i>it's going to be like it was.</i>

729
00:37:44,700 --> 00:37:46,867
<i>-I mean, they--</i>
-[Lisa] <i>I mean,</i>
<i>I hope it's not different.</i>

730
00:37:46,867 --> 00:37:50,000
They've had a more
American style marriage.

731
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:51,533
I hope this doesn't change it.

732
00:37:58,600 --> 00:37:59,867
I want you to learn from this.

733
00:37:59,867 --> 00:38:01,367
You learned from it, Ed.

734
00:38:01,367 --> 00:38:03,000
I'm worried about
your next relationship.

735
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:04,066
I want you to be happy.

736
00:38:04,066 --> 00:38:05,433
Are you [bleep] kidding me?

737
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:07,867
Moments like this make me wish

738
00:38:07,867 --> 00:38:10,567
that I had never ever met Ed.

739
00:38:10,567 --> 00:38:12,667
Liz, you don't know
how to talk to men.

740
00:38:12,667 --> 00:38:14,100
You're not a man, Ed.

741
00:38:14,100 --> 00:38:15,400
You're a [bleep] child.

742
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,467
[Angela]
You want to tell me the truth
of what I already know?

743
00:38:20,467 --> 00:38:23,133
That you scammed me
or you embezzled money.

744
00:38:25,367 --> 00:38:28,500
How in the world
did I let this get this bad?

745
00:38:28,500 --> 00:38:31,800
Everything I found
on his phone is alarming.

746
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:33,600
You possibly could
go to jail tomorrow.

747
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:34,634
Do you understand this?

748
00:38:45,467 --> 00:38:46,734
[Liz crying]

749
00:39:03,300 --> 00:39:04,367
Hi.

750
00:39:06,100 --> 00:39:07,266
Hi, Leon.

751
00:39:07,266 --> 00:39:08,266
What's the matter?

752
00:39:10,500 --> 00:39:12,233
Why are you guys sad?

753
00:39:12,667 --> 00:39:13,734
What's the matter?

754
00:39:13,734 --> 00:39:15,266
-[Patty] <i>You think</i>
<i>you're ready now?</i>
-[Liz] <i>No.</i>

755
00:39:15,266 --> 00:39:17,834
Okay, take as much time
as you need.

756
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:21,100
It's okay.

757
00:39:21,100 --> 00:39:23,367
Let it out.

758
00:39:24,500 --> 00:39:25,834
Take deep breaths.

759
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:27,834
-[crying]
-You can do it.

760
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:29,600
You can do it.

761
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:31,767
You've got this.

762
00:39:31,767 --> 00:39:35,467
[Liz] <i>I am definitely trying</i>
<i>to keep my composure</i>
<i>with Ed right now.</i>

763
00:39:35,467 --> 00:39:37,700
I don't know if I'm ever
gonna see him again,

764
00:39:37,700 --> 00:39:40,300
<i>so I know I have</i>
<i>to say goodbye to him,</i>

765
00:39:40,300 --> 00:39:43,634
<i>but I just want to get</i>
<i>my stuff out and leave.</i>

766
00:39:47,100 --> 00:39:49,500
I don't know how you go
from loving someone so much

767
00:39:49,500 --> 00:39:50,834
to just...

768
00:39:51,767 --> 00:39:54,133
wishing that
they didn't even exist.

769
00:39:56,500 --> 00:39:58,133
I really don't
want to see him.

770
00:39:59,767 --> 00:40:00,834
Take a deep breath.

771
00:40:07,967 --> 00:40:10,166
[Ed] <i>I understand why Liz</i>
<i>is pissed off at me.</i>

772
00:40:10,166 --> 00:40:12,166
Okay, I canceled the wedding.

773
00:40:12,166 --> 00:40:14,266
But for her to come in
with her mom

774
00:40:14,266 --> 00:40:15,867
<i>and just fly off the handle,</i>

775
00:40:15,867 --> 00:40:19,567
<i>this is the main reason</i>
<i>why I ended our relationship.</i>

776
00:40:19,567 --> 00:40:23,066
We spend most of our time
fighting or mad at each other,

777
00:40:23,066 --> 00:40:25,100
and it's just--
that's not a relationship.

778
00:40:25,100 --> 00:40:27,767
It's not--
It's not healthy for anyone.

779
00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:37,834
You out of here?

780
00:40:38,867 --> 00:40:39,934
Oh, thank you.

781
00:40:41,100 --> 00:40:42,667
And then, um...

782
00:40:44,467 --> 00:40:45,500
just for scheduling,

783
00:40:45,500 --> 00:40:49,000
so when would you
like your movers to come?

784
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:50,000
I already have it scheduled.

785
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:51,066
They're coming tomorrow.

786
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:52,834
Tomorrow? Okay.

787
00:40:54,500 --> 00:40:56,467
I'm sorry I blew up
at your mom,

788
00:40:56,467 --> 00:40:57,567
but she was coming at me.

789
00:40:57,567 --> 00:40:58,567
It doesn't matter, Ed.

790
00:40:58,567 --> 00:41:00,166
You need to learn how
to talk to a woman, period.

791
00:41:00,166 --> 00:41:01,367
It doesn't matter who
comes at you.

792
00:41:01,367 --> 00:41:02,767
-Well, that's your saying.
-Just know--

793
00:41:02,767 --> 00:41:03,800
It doesn't matter.

794
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:05,100
-Yeah, but she--
-Thank you for your apology.

795
00:41:05,100 --> 00:41:06,467
-There's no excuse.
-Thank you.

796
00:41:06,467 --> 00:41:07,900
-Own it.
You shouldn't have done it.
-It is what it is.

797
00:41:07,900 --> 00:41:10,000
You don't talk to a woman
that way, period.

798
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:11,800
Okay. Your mom
wasn't being a woman.

799
00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:12,767
She was being a...

800
00:41:12,767 --> 00:41:14,000
-Just stop.
-How did I--

801
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:15,500
-Stop. See? This is what--
-Liz, you're being ridiculous.

802
00:41:15,500 --> 00:41:16,767
We're not--
Just, you owned up to it.

803
00:41:16,767 --> 00:41:17,800
-Okay, fine. Got it.
-We're taking apologies.

804
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:19,367
-But don't make excuses.
-Got it.

805
00:41:19,367 --> 00:41:21,367
Fine.
I have a request from you.

806
00:41:21,367 --> 00:41:23,166
Yeah, I don't--
You don't get no requests, Ed.

807
00:41:23,166 --> 00:41:26,000
-I want you to learn from
this experience.
-You learned from it, Ed.

808
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:27,767
-I want you to learn...
-You learned from it.

809
00:41:27,767 --> 00:41:29,834
-I want you to learn--
-I've already learned.

810
00:41:30,266 --> 00:41:31,333
Have you?

811
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:33,867
I'm worried about
your next relationship.

812
00:41:33,867 --> 00:41:35,000
I want you to be happy.

813
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:37,000
-My next relationship?
-And if you don't change,

814
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:38,000
you're never gonna be happy.

815
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:39,166
-If I don't change?
-Correct.

816
00:41:39,166 --> 00:41:41,000
-If I don't change?
-If you don't change.

817
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:43,233
Says the one who can't
talk to a [bleep] woman.

818
00:41:45,300 --> 00:41:46,467
So I'm giving you advice.

819
00:41:46,467 --> 00:41:47,867
You know, I'm gonna be fine.

820
00:41:47,867 --> 00:41:49,066
I hope so. I do.

821
00:41:49,066 --> 00:41:50,667
I'm worried about you.
I'm worried that--

822
00:41:50,667 --> 00:41:52,266
-This is a narcissistic--
Stop projecting...
-You're never gonna--

823
00:41:52,266 --> 00:41:53,567
-But you're never gonna
find happiness...
-...Ed.

824
00:41:53,567 --> 00:41:55,367
-...unless you learn--
-Who-- Who said we're talking

825
00:41:55,367 --> 00:41:56,367
about a relationship
right now?

826
00:41:56,367 --> 00:41:58,200
You didn't learn
from this experience.

827
00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:00,100
-You didn't learn
from this experience.
-I did too, Liz.

828
00:42:00,100 --> 00:42:01,333
-I did.
-No, you didn't!

829
00:42:01,333 --> 00:42:02,967
-Oh, my God, I did.
-I'm not talking about
a relationship, Ed.

830
00:42:02,967 --> 00:42:04,266
I'm trying to
say goodbye to you,

831
00:42:04,266 --> 00:42:05,600
and you're trying
to bring up the next guy

832
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:06,900
that comes into my life.

833
00:42:06,900 --> 00:42:08,734
Are you [bleep] kidding me?

834
00:42:10,300 --> 00:42:13,800
Well, I tried to apologize
for smarting off to your mom
and then you...

835
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:15,567
-That's it.
Then you had excuses.
-...start telling me,

836
00:42:15,567 --> 00:42:16,900
-"Oh, you don't know
how to talk to women."
-You don't.

837
00:42:16,900 --> 00:42:18,367
-"You don't know
how to talk to women."
-You make excuses.

838
00:42:18,367 --> 00:42:20,266
You don't even
know how to talk to me.
Why don't you just start...

839
00:42:20,266 --> 00:42:22,300
-Why don't you just--
-Liz, you don't know
how to talk to men.

840
00:42:22,300 --> 00:42:23,700
You're not a man, Ed.

841
00:42:23,700 --> 00:42:24,867
You're a [bleep] child.

842
00:42:25,166 --> 00:42:26,367
Okay. Bye.

843
00:42:27,300 --> 00:42:28,433
Have a nice life.

844
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:32,300
[Liz bleeping] you, Ed.

845
00:42:32,300 --> 00:42:34,567
I literally just
wanted to say by.

846
00:42:34,567 --> 00:42:36,000
-[Ed] And you didn't.
-[Liz] No.

847
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:38,200
-I did come out.
I'm giving you everything.
-You--

848
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:39,667
You... Oh, my God.

849
00:42:39,667 --> 00:42:40,967
-I hate you.
-[Ed] That's just so...

850
00:42:40,967 --> 00:42:43,200
[Liz] I [bleep]
hate you so much.

851
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:44,667
You're so triggered.

852
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:46,233
[bleep] you, Ed.

853
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:50,166
Wasn't the first time
I heard that.

854
00:42:50,166 --> 00:42:52,634
[Liz] He can't [bleep]
listen to anything.

855
00:42:55,367 --> 00:42:56,333
[sniffles]

856
00:42:59,700 --> 00:43:00,767
[sniffles]

857
00:43:02,266 --> 00:43:03,266
[exhales]

858
00:43:05,300 --> 00:43:07,567
[crying]

859
00:43:10,100 --> 00:43:13,333
<i>This could</i>
<i>definitely be the last time</i>
<i>that I ever see Ed in person.</i>

860
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,266
I definitely feel like
I deserve to be loved

861
00:43:19,266 --> 00:43:22,133
without the constant fear
of being left behind.

862
00:43:22,867 --> 00:43:24,767
<i>And because of Ed,</i>

863
00:43:24,767 --> 00:43:28,266
<i>I don't even know</i>
<i>if I'm going to trust love.</i>

864
00:43:28,266 --> 00:43:30,166
<i>Like, it can feel good</i>
<i>for one minute,</i>

865
00:43:30,166 --> 00:43:31,767
<i>but it's still</i>
<i>in the back of my head</i>

866
00:43:31,767 --> 00:43:33,066
<i>that it's never</i>
<i>gonna work out.</i>

867
00:43:33,066 --> 00:43:34,033
[crying]

868
00:43:34,033 --> 00:43:36,934
Moments like this make me wish
that I have never,

869
00:43:37,266 --> 00:43:38,533
ever met Ed.

870
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:40,834
[sniffles]

871
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:45,000
Why do I have
to learn something?

872
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:47,667
-I'm not even looking
for anything else.
-[Patty] You have to--

873
00:43:50,567 --> 00:43:52,567
[Liz] <i>I wanted to tell Ed</i>
<i>that this was real to me.</i>

874
00:43:52,567 --> 00:43:53,867
<i>I wanted him to know that,</i>

875
00:43:53,867 --> 00:43:56,066
<i>like, I'm still sad</i>
<i>that it's happening.</i>

876
00:43:57,567 --> 00:44:00,767
He's such a dick for the way
that he handled everything.

877
00:44:00,767 --> 00:44:01,667
I didn't deserve that.

878
00:44:01,667 --> 00:44:03,734
I didn't deserve
those words from him.

879
00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:09,533
<i>My heart</i>
<i>is trying to say goodbye.</i>

880
00:44:10,767 --> 00:44:12,066
His is not there.

881
00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:21,900
I love Liz.

882
00:44:21,900 --> 00:44:23,867
I'll always love her. And...

883
00:44:23,867 --> 00:44:26,567
<i>she changed my life</i>
<i>in many good ways.</i>

884
00:44:26,567 --> 00:44:30,967
I tried to give her that, too,
but she wouldn't...
accept it.

885
00:44:30,967 --> 00:44:33,667
<i>Liz is a good person,</i>
<i>and it was real.</i>

886
00:44:33,667 --> 00:44:34,867
<i>The love was real.</i>

887
00:44:34,867 --> 00:44:37,567
<i>But, I mean,</i>
<i>I think at the end of the day,</i>

888
00:44:37,567 --> 00:44:39,867
it's better
to have the start over,

889
00:44:39,867 --> 00:44:42,934
than to be
in the wrong relationship.

890
00:45:06,467 --> 00:45:09,367
I really
didn't like how last night
everyone was attacking my dad.

891
00:45:09,367 --> 00:45:12,266
Because they thought
he was wrong,
he's wrong.

892
00:45:13,367 --> 00:45:15,500
<i>Last night</i>
<i>the dinner was a disaster</i>

893
00:45:15,500 --> 00:45:18,367
and things are little-little
tense between us.

894
00:45:18,367 --> 00:45:21,767
[Patrick] Like, let's focus
on the important things,
you know, like...

895
00:45:21,767 --> 00:45:24,367
me working on my relationship
with your dad.

896
00:45:25,900 --> 00:45:26,867
[baby cooing]

897
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:36,934
You made
my mom cry yesterday, Rob.

898
00:45:37,867 --> 00:45:39,734
This is some
[bleep] bull [bleep].

899
00:45:40,467 --> 00:45:41,533
<i>This woman...</i>

900
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:43,133
is my worst nightmare.

901
00:45:46,266 --> 00:45:47,900
[Spanish song playing]

902
00:45:53,133 --> 00:45:55,467
Come on, get me something
for my blood pressure.

903
00:45:56,133 --> 00:45:57,467
[in Spanish]

904
00:46:04,100 --> 00:46:05,433
[in English]
I need it after last night.

905
00:46:06,166 --> 00:46:07,100
Yeah. [chuckles]

906
00:46:07,100 --> 00:46:08,066
[Patrick in Spanish]

907
00:46:09,667 --> 00:46:10,867
-[woman speaking Spanish]
-[Thais] Huh?

908
00:46:10,867 --> 00:46:12,266
[Patrick in English]
They raise my blood pressure.

909
00:46:12,266 --> 00:46:15,333
-Yeah. Okay.
We're gonna take this one.
-[woman speaking Spanish]

910
00:46:15,333 --> 00:46:17,433
[Spanish song
continues playing]

911
00:46:19,066 --> 00:46:21,767
[Thais groans]
Let's sit for a second.

912
00:46:21,767 --> 00:46:23,300
I have to give Aleesi bottle.

913
00:46:23,567 --> 00:46:24,467
You hungry?

914
00:46:24,467 --> 00:46:26,233
-[baby cooing]
-You hungry?

915
00:46:31,166 --> 00:46:33,934
Hey, oh. Yeah. [laughing]

916
00:46:33,934 --> 00:46:35,567
I don't know what
the party's gonna be like.

917
00:46:35,567 --> 00:46:37,333
[baby cooing]

918
00:46:38,567 --> 00:46:40,166
I mean, for a second there,

919
00:46:40,166 --> 00:46:42,367
it was just like
a [bleep] talking fest.

920
00:46:42,367 --> 00:46:43,333
[Thais] Yeah.

921
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:47,000
<i>Last night</i>
<i>that dinner was a disaster,</i>

922
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:49,166
and me and Patrick,
we didn't talk much.

923
00:46:49,166 --> 00:46:51,300
Things are little-little tense
between us.

924
00:46:54,100 --> 00:46:57,834
It's sad because, you know,
we did that for everyone.

925
00:47:10,033 --> 00:47:11,000
[Patrick] I agree with you.

926
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:12,667
I think everyone
was against my daddy.

927
00:47:13,867 --> 00:47:16,166
Because they thought
he was wrong,

928
00:47:16,166 --> 00:47:17,166
he's wrong.

929
00:47:20,033 --> 00:47:22,233
I don't want
this apartment anymore,

930
00:47:22,233 --> 00:47:24,867
and I think
at the end of this trip,

931
00:47:24,867 --> 00:47:28,000
it's better we have,
you know, done with this.

932
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:30,600
'Cause everyone
think the same.

933
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:33,333
You know, my family,
and we don't need this.

934
00:47:33,333 --> 00:47:36,367
'Cause it's causing stress
in our relationship.

935
00:47:36,367 --> 00:47:38,033
How is it causing stress
in our relationship?

936
00:47:40,066 --> 00:47:41,800
Over not--
Over nothing, though.

937
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:45,333
[Patrick] Yeah,
well, I don't think
that's a decision that

938
00:47:45,333 --> 00:47:47,033
you can make just on your own.

939
00:47:47,033 --> 00:47:48,533
Like, I want
to keep the apartment.

940
00:47:49,867 --> 00:47:52,567
We don't use
the apartment here,
you know?

941
00:47:55,133 --> 00:47:57,166
And no one's there.

942
00:47:57,166 --> 00:47:59,533
And we're paying for nothing,
you know.

943
00:48:01,567 --> 00:48:03,233
We didn't come here to [bleep]

944
00:48:03,233 --> 00:48:05,533
stupid-ass argue
about a goddamn apartment.

945
00:48:06,166 --> 00:48:07,100
[Thais speaking]

946
00:48:09,367 --> 00:48:10,934
I know that
it's hard on Patrick

947
00:48:10,934 --> 00:48:12,400
that he doesn't have
a lot of family,

948
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:15,767
and he really wants his dad
to be a part of his life.

949
00:48:15,767 --> 00:48:19,500
<i>But It's hard to believe</i>
<i>that Jose wants</i>
<i>the same thing</i>

950
00:48:19,500 --> 00:48:23,233
because of all the things
that he's done in the past.

951
00:48:23,233 --> 00:48:25,767
<i>I mean,</i>
<i>I don't even know the details,</i>

952
00:48:25,767 --> 00:48:28,266
because Patrick
always have a hard time

953
00:48:28,266 --> 00:48:30,500
talking about his childhood.

954
00:48:30,500 --> 00:48:35,033
But I feel
like Patrick is trying
to buy his father's love,

955
00:48:35,033 --> 00:48:37,467
and, uh, it's not
the right way to do it.

956
00:48:39,567 --> 00:48:44,000
We came here
to bring our daughter
to meet the family.

957
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:45,767
Like, let's focus
on the important things.

958
00:48:45,767 --> 00:48:49,166
Let's focus on,
you know, Aleesi
meeting her grandparents,

959
00:48:49,667 --> 00:48:51,100
and, you know, like,

960
00:48:51,100 --> 00:48:53,667
me working on my relationship
with your dad.

961
00:48:59,467 --> 00:49:00,834
I was trying.

962
00:49:02,467 --> 00:49:04,767
But he just wanted to argue
with my dad the whole night.

963
00:49:04,767 --> 00:49:07,433
I didn't really feel like
he wanted to talk to me much.

964
00:49:11,233 --> 00:49:12,934
I'm definitely
gonna work on it.

965
00:49:14,567 --> 00:49:17,233
And whether
he likes me or not,
like, that's gonna be on him.

966
00:49:19,834 --> 00:49:22,600
[Thais] <i>We were so happy</i>
<i>before this trip.</i>

967
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:26,367
And now,
with all the-the family drama,

968
00:49:26,367 --> 00:49:28,100
<i>me and Patrick</i>
<i>are now fighting.</i>

969
00:49:29,467 --> 00:49:31,934
<i>I just wish</i>
<i>that we could have some fun.</i>

970
00:49:41,934 --> 00:49:44,667
[man vocalizing]

971
00:49:44,667 --> 00:49:47,667
♪ <i>Gonna have</i>
<i>To face my demons♪</i>

972
00:49:47,667 --> 00:49:48,634
[Sophie speaking]

973
00:49:49,667 --> 00:49:50,634
[Claire speaking]

974
00:49:52,133 --> 00:49:53,367
♪ <i>Now I know♪</i>

975
00:49:53,367 --> 00:49:55,934
[vocalizing]

976
00:49:59,066 --> 00:50:01,634
[Claire] Oh, God.
Wait, wait, wait. Soph.

977
00:50:03,066 --> 00:50:04,033
[Sophie] Oh.

978
00:50:04,567 --> 00:50:05,600
Can you get up these?

979
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:07,500
[Claire] Yeah, I can.
Just... [grunts]

980
00:50:07,500 --> 00:50:08,500
You sure?

981
00:50:08,500 --> 00:50:10,033
[Claire] Yeah. Yeah.

982
00:50:10,033 --> 00:50:12,667
[Sophie] Sorry, I didn't think
about these stairs.

983
00:50:12,667 --> 00:50:15,467
<i>I told Rob</i>
<i>that I'm coming over,</i>
<i>but I haven't really told him</i>

984
00:50:15,467 --> 00:50:18,033
that I'm packing my stuff
and going to Kae's
for a few days,

985
00:50:18,033 --> 00:50:21,266
<i>just because I feel like</i>
<i>it's something that I would</i>
<i>like to tell him in person,</i>

986
00:50:21,266 --> 00:50:22,500
and I kind of owe that to him

987
00:50:22,500 --> 00:50:24,200
instead of just coming
and grabbing my stuff.

988
00:50:26,033 --> 00:50:27,066
[Claire exhales]

989
00:50:30,767 --> 00:50:33,100
<i>I really hope that Rob</i>
<i>can be understanding.</i>

990
00:50:33,100 --> 00:50:35,266
If we can get through this
without him blowing up,

991
00:50:35,266 --> 00:50:38,100
then that's
really gonna show me
that he may be able to change.

992
00:50:39,767 --> 00:50:41,166
-Hello.
-[Rob] Hello.

993
00:50:41,967 --> 00:50:42,867
[exhales]

994
00:50:43,767 --> 00:50:45,667
<i>Claire has a lot of nerve</i>
<i>showing up here,</i>

995
00:50:45,667 --> 00:50:49,000
especially after all she did
was insult me last night.

996
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:52,233
I just don't feel like
Sophie and I can really
get anywhere with this person

997
00:50:52,233 --> 00:50:53,734
constantly in Sophie's ear,

998
00:50:53,734 --> 00:50:55,967
<i>telling her,</i>
<i>"Rob is this terrible thing</i>

999
00:50:55,967 --> 00:50:57,266
<i>and that</i>
<i>terrible thing, and...</i>

1000
00:50:57,266 --> 00:51:00,834
he's stealing your sparkle,"
or whatever the hell
she comes up with.

1001
00:51:00,834 --> 00:51:03,033
<i>But I'm gonna do my best</i>
<i>to just be the man</i>

1002
00:51:03,033 --> 00:51:05,000
<i>that Sophie</i>
<i>keeps asking me to be,</i>

1003
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:07,266
and maybe it will help.
Maybe she'll see it.

1004
00:51:07,266 --> 00:51:09,033
And she'll see
that I'm trying.

1005
00:51:10,367 --> 00:51:11,400
I got that for you.

1006
00:51:11,867 --> 00:51:13,200
[Sophie] Oh, thank you.

1007
00:51:14,567 --> 00:51:16,166
-Look, he got it for me.
-[Claire] Oh, my God.

1008
00:51:17,934 --> 00:51:19,667
Thanks. [chuckles]

1009
00:51:19,667 --> 00:51:20,667
That's very nice.

1010
00:51:20,667 --> 00:51:23,400
[Rob] This one doesn't do
the happy and sad face.

1011
00:51:23,967 --> 00:51:25,667
But it does turn inside out.

1012
00:51:25,667 --> 00:51:26,934
-[Sophie] Does it?
-[Rob] Yeah.

1013
00:51:28,867 --> 00:51:29,767
[exclaims]

1014
00:51:29,767 --> 00:51:30,734
[Rob speaking]

1015
00:51:31,934 --> 00:51:33,934
[Sophie] Oh, my God.

1016
00:51:33,934 --> 00:51:36,100
We saw it online before
and I wanted it.

1017
00:51:38,333 --> 00:51:40,767
I'm gonna name him--
I don't know what I'm naming
him yet,

1018
00:51:40,767 --> 00:51:44,233
but it's special because...
it has this thing.

1019
00:51:44,233 --> 00:51:47,734
Which, if you flip it,
so if you flip it, it's happy.

1020
00:51:47,734 --> 00:51:49,867
But then,
if you flip this side,
it's angry.

1021
00:51:49,867 --> 00:51:51,667
So basically, when I'm moody,

1022
00:51:51,667 --> 00:51:54,100
I'mma just show him this side
and he knows I'm pissed.

1023
00:51:54,100 --> 00:51:56,667
But then,
if I show him this side,
that he knows I'm happy.

1024
00:51:56,667 --> 00:51:58,433
<i>That was very nice of him</i>
<i>to get me this.</i>

1025
00:52:17,834 --> 00:52:20,467
Yeah, But--
Oh, look, I figured out.

1026
00:52:21,567 --> 00:52:22,533
[Claire snorts]

1027
00:52:25,233 --> 00:52:26,433
I can tell by your face.

1028
00:52:27,166 --> 00:52:28,166
[Sophie] A-ha!

1029
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:29,567
Thanks.

1030
00:52:32,667 --> 00:52:33,767
[Rob] You're welcome.

1031
00:52:36,233 --> 00:52:38,300
And, Claire, I do want
to apologize for yesterday.

1032
00:52:45,734 --> 00:52:46,934
I didn't mean to upset you.

1033
00:52:48,467 --> 00:52:49,467
[Claire] Okay.
I appreciate that.

1034
00:52:49,467 --> 00:52:51,834
I-I apologize
for raising my voice at you.

1035
00:52:54,767 --> 00:52:55,734
[Sophie] Yeah.

1036
00:53:01,066 --> 00:53:02,533
[Rob]
So what brings you guys by?

1037
00:53:04,100 --> 00:53:06,000
What's going on?

1038
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:09,133
Um, now I feel bad
because you brought me this.

1039
00:53:09,667 --> 00:53:10,667
[Rob] You feel bad?

1040
00:53:16,467 --> 00:53:17,400
[Claire speaking]

1041
00:53:28,500 --> 00:53:30,200
[Sophie] Okay.
Well, this is very nice.

1042
00:53:31,266 --> 00:53:33,033
I appreciate you
apologizing to my mom.

1043
00:53:35,266 --> 00:53:37,834
But I do feel like I just
need a few days to, like,

1044
00:53:38,767 --> 00:53:40,033
stay at my friend's.

1045
00:53:47,166 --> 00:53:48,934
And, like, process everything.

1046
00:53:54,233 --> 00:53:55,533
And I was gonna grab my stuff.

1047
00:53:58,667 --> 00:54:01,266
I think we both just
need some space and...

1048
00:54:01,266 --> 00:54:03,467
you know, maybe have some time
to, like, reflect on things.

1049
00:54:03,467 --> 00:54:05,100
And maybe
you'd really realize, like,

1050
00:54:06,166 --> 00:54:07,266
[bleep] isn't going well,

1051
00:54:07,266 --> 00:54:09,233
and it's not going to end
well if it continues.

1052
00:54:13,033 --> 00:54:14,834
-Maybe you'd really see--
-[Rob] You told me
the same thing

1053
00:54:14,834 --> 00:54:16,100
when you moved out before.

1054
00:54:16,967 --> 00:54:19,567
You said, "I need time
to just focus on me

1055
00:54:19,567 --> 00:54:22,467
-and think about
and have some space."
-I just...

1056
00:54:22,467 --> 00:54:24,367
[Sophie]
Do you not understand why
I don't wanna just come back,

1057
00:54:24,367 --> 00:54:26,166
back here
like nothing's happened?

1058
00:54:26,166 --> 00:54:27,934
You made
my mom cry yesterday, Rob.

1059
00:54:32,767 --> 00:54:34,066
<i>It's very confusing</i>

1060
00:54:34,066 --> 00:54:36,767
because I really appreciate
Rob's apology to my mom

1061
00:54:36,767 --> 00:54:39,066
and the sweet gift
that he gave me.

1062
00:54:39,066 --> 00:54:41,166
<i>But at the same time,</i>
<i>it's like, one cute squishy</i>

1063
00:54:41,166 --> 00:54:44,867
isn't just gonna take away
everything that's happened
the past few days.

1064
00:54:44,867 --> 00:54:48,767
<i>So it is upsetting to me</i>
<i>that I have to get</i>
<i>my things and go.</i>

1065
00:54:48,767 --> 00:54:50,333
<i>But I do know</i>
<i>it's the right thing.</i>

1066
00:54:52,834 --> 00:54:54,667
I'm gonna grab my suitcase.

1067
00:54:56,500 --> 00:54:57,433
[grunts]

1068
00:55:00,066 --> 00:55:01,100
Sorry.

1069
00:55:05,667 --> 00:55:07,533
This is some [bleep]
bull [bleep].

1070
00:55:09,066 --> 00:55:10,467
<i>I apologized to Claire.</i>

1071
00:55:11,166 --> 00:55:12,467
<i>I got Sophie a gift.</i>

1072
00:55:14,667 --> 00:55:16,133
It's like a shot in the heart.

1073
00:55:17,467 --> 00:55:20,634
<i>Claire is absolutely</i>
<i>responsible for this.</i>

1074
00:55:21,567 --> 00:55:23,667
Her opinion
will always be against me.

1075
00:55:23,667 --> 00:55:25,367
No matter what I do.

1076
00:55:25,367 --> 00:55:28,100
<i>It's pushing me</i>
<i>farther into a place</i>

1077
00:55:28,100 --> 00:55:31,100
<i>where, at some point,</i>
<i>things might get out of hand.</i>

1078
00:55:31,467 --> 00:55:32,467
<i>This woman...</i>

1079
00:55:32,867 --> 00:55:34,233
is my worst nightmare.

1080
00:55:39,834 --> 00:55:41,867
Baby, I feel
like a tropical fruit.

1081
00:55:41,867 --> 00:55:43,867
So juicy, so delicious.

1082
00:55:43,867 --> 00:55:46,734
You look like you're missing
from the pumpkin patch.

1083
00:55:47,667 --> 00:55:50,500
Who would think
someone like you that

1084
00:55:50,500 --> 00:55:53,667
doesn't have any sense
of fashion for himself

1085
00:55:53,667 --> 00:55:55,467
does have it
for another person.

1086
00:55:55,467 --> 00:55:58,033
You would be
like a shining star
in this dress.

1087
00:56:00,333 --> 00:56:02,166
[Loren] I had a call
with Dr. Dev.

1088
00:56:02,166 --> 00:56:04,834
-[Alexei] Mmm-hmm.
-And he basically
told me, like,

1089
00:56:04,834 --> 00:56:07,567
I need to stop doing
everything I'm doing.

1090
00:56:07,567 --> 00:56:08,700
Yeah, okay. So what do you
want me to do?

1091
00:56:08,700 --> 00:56:11,400
You wanna go lay down
on the bed all day,
and that's it?

1092
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:13,834
I can't do
everything by myself.

1093
00:56:13,834 --> 00:56:17,066
I feel like
you resent me for this.

1094
00:56:17,467 --> 00:56:18,300
[exhales deeply]

1095
00:56:21,266 --> 00:56:23,834
♪ <i>I felt you coming</i>
<i>When you walked in♪</i>

1096
00:56:24,734 --> 00:56:27,166
♪ <i>That feeling hit me</i>
<i>Like a whirlwind♪</i>

1097
00:56:27,166 --> 00:56:28,300
♪ <i>Whirlwind ♪</i>

1098
00:56:29,600 --> 00:56:31,567
[Gino] Today is the big day.

1099
00:56:31,567 --> 00:56:33,934
To look at pageant dresses.
Are you excited?

1100
00:56:34,867 --> 00:56:38,767
I am trying to speak,
but my lips are frozen.

1101
00:56:38,767 --> 00:56:41,266
[Gino chuckling] My gosh,
we have matching jackets.

1102
00:56:41,266 --> 00:56:42,667
We look like twins.

1103
00:56:42,667 --> 00:56:44,066
I'm not your twin.

1104
00:56:44,967 --> 00:56:46,634
[woman vocalizing]

1105
00:56:47,967 --> 00:56:49,600
♪ <i>I've been, I've been♪</i>

1106
00:56:49,600 --> 00:56:51,533
♪ <i>I've been love shy♪</i>

1107
00:56:52,867 --> 00:56:53,900
[Jasmine groaning]

1108
00:56:55,467 --> 00:56:56,734
Hi.

1109
00:56:56,734 --> 00:56:59,000
-Hi. Welcome in. Good.
-[Gino] Hello.
How are you doing?

1110
00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:00,934
So what brings
you guys in today?

1111
00:57:00,934 --> 00:57:03,233
Uh. I am participating

1112
00:57:03,233 --> 00:57:07,367
-in a beauty pageant
in Florida...
-[woman] Ooh!

1113
00:57:07,367 --> 00:57:09,233
...and I really need a dress,

1114
00:57:09,233 --> 00:57:10,600
and I really need your help.

1115
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:11,800
[woman and Jasmine laughing]

1116
00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:14,567
-Let's go over
to our formal wear department.
-[Gino] Perfect.

1117
00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:17,033
Okay.

1118
00:57:17,033 --> 00:57:20,000
Ever since our conversation
a few days ago,

1119
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:23,367
-things have been
getting better between us.
-Yeah.

1120
00:57:23,367 --> 00:57:26,333
We're gonna leave
whatever hurt us in the past,

1121
00:57:26,867 --> 00:57:28,033
and move forward.

1122
00:57:28,033 --> 00:57:30,600
Because we have
an agenda today.

1123
00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:32,600
The Miss International World
beauty pageant

1124
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:34,834
is only a few days away,

1125
00:57:34,834 --> 00:57:37,867
but I still don't have
an evening gown.

1126
00:57:37,867 --> 00:57:40,033
We were gonna find
a spectacular dress

1127
00:57:40,033 --> 00:57:41,266
for a buck.

1128
00:57:41,266 --> 00:57:42,300
[laughs] I'm just kidding.

1129
00:57:43,333 --> 00:57:44,433
[Jasmine]
What is so funny, baby?

1130
00:57:47,266 --> 00:57:49,233
[Gino] There's a lot
of nice dresses here.

1131
00:57:49,233 --> 00:57:51,066
Hot pink, baby.
I think hot, this is--

1132
00:57:51,066 --> 00:57:54,066
Hot pink is
an awesome color on you
because it's really bright.

1133
00:57:54,834 --> 00:57:56,967
And we can see
your bright smile

1134
00:57:56,967 --> 00:57:59,266
and how hot you are in pink.

1135
00:57:59,266 --> 00:58:02,166
Actually, it's
my good luck color,

1136
00:58:02,166 --> 00:58:05,567
because when I went
to the embassy interview,

1137
00:58:05,567 --> 00:58:07,000
I was wearing hot pink.

1138
00:58:07,367 --> 00:58:08,400
They approve it.

1139
00:58:10,033 --> 00:58:11,600
What about this one, baby?

1140
00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:13,734
[Gino] It's not bad.

1141
00:58:13,734 --> 00:58:16,767
I don't think blue
is the color, though,
for this.

1142
00:58:16,767 --> 00:58:18,000
Why not?

1143
00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:21,133
I don't think
it's at the level of some
of those colors here.

1144
00:58:21,133 --> 00:58:22,400
I think you need
something bright.

1145
00:58:22,934 --> 00:58:24,100
What do you think of this one?

1146
00:58:26,467 --> 00:58:29,500
Oh, my God!

1147
00:58:29,500 --> 00:58:31,166
[gasps] Look.

1148
00:58:31,166 --> 00:58:34,934
-Oh, my God. It matches
your butterfly ring.
-I love butterflies.

1149
00:58:36,367 --> 00:58:38,266
You are just on point,

1150
00:58:38,266 --> 00:58:39,734
and I cannot believe it.

1151
00:58:39,734 --> 00:58:43,033
Like who would think
someone like you that

1152
00:58:43,033 --> 00:58:46,066
doesn't have any sense
of fashion for himself,

1153
00:58:46,066 --> 00:58:48,000
does have it
for another person.

1154
00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:49,467
No sense of fashion?
Are you kidding me?

1155
00:58:49,467 --> 00:58:52,500
I've improved my fashion
in the last few years.

1156
00:58:52,500 --> 00:58:54,500
Look what I wore
first time I met you.

1157
00:58:58,000 --> 00:59:01,667
<i>I'm not wearing</i>
<i>those sports shirts</i>
<i>any more like that.</i>

1158
00:59:06,834 --> 00:59:08,934
[Jasmine laughing]

1159
00:59:10,333 --> 00:59:12,266
-[woman]
All right. So, Gino...
-[Gino] All right.

1160
00:59:12,266 --> 00:59:13,734
...you can have
a seat right here.

1161
00:59:13,734 --> 00:59:15,266
-You get to be the judge.
-[Gino] Cool.

1162
00:59:15,266 --> 00:59:17,133
-I'm the judge and the jury.
-[woman] Jasmine,

1163
00:59:17,133 --> 00:59:20,367
you're gonna work with me
in the fitting room.

1164
00:59:20,367 --> 00:59:23,033
So I'll do all the zipping,
lacing and tying.

1165
00:59:23,033 --> 00:59:24,667
-[Jasmine]
Oh, thank you. Gino?
-[woman] Yes.

1166
00:59:24,667 --> 00:59:27,567
-[Gino] Maybe you can teach me
something about zipping...
-[woman and Jasmine laughing]

1167
00:59:27,567 --> 00:59:30,667
...so then I can help her
at the pageant, you know.

1168
00:59:30,667 --> 00:59:33,734
[woman] The trick is
you've got to do the hook
and eye first.

1169
00:59:33,734 --> 00:59:34,867
[Gino] Hook and eye.

1170
00:59:34,867 --> 00:59:36,867
-[woman] And then the zipper.
-[Jasmine] Uh-huh.

1171
00:59:36,867 --> 00:59:39,066
-Okay. Maybe that's the deal.
-[Jasmine] Okay.

1172
00:59:41,467 --> 00:59:42,734
[Gino]
<i>I kind of have an idea.</i>

1173
00:59:43,367 --> 00:59:44,734
I could be your manager.

1174
00:59:46,233 --> 00:59:47,734
Why? Why? [exhales]

1175
00:59:47,734 --> 00:59:49,367
[Gino]
I have some familiarity.

1176
00:59:49,367 --> 00:59:51,934
Because I almost joined
the Mr. Michigan pageant

1177
00:59:51,934 --> 00:59:53,734
in my younger years.

1178
00:59:53,734 --> 00:59:55,200
-[laughs] What?
-[Gino] Yeah.

1179
00:59:55,767 --> 00:59:57,166
<i>I didn't end up joining,</i>

1180
00:59:57,166 --> 00:59:59,166
<i>but I just wanted to go</i>
<i>to the interviews,</i>

1181
00:59:59,166 --> 01:00:00,433
<i>hear what it's about,</i>

1182
01:00:00,433 --> 01:00:02,967
<i>and I used to watch</i>
<i>a lot of them,</i>

1183
01:00:02,967 --> 01:00:04,800
and I'd seen what
they'd go through.

1184
01:00:05,567 --> 01:00:07,200
I think I can help you.

1185
01:00:07,734 --> 01:00:08,667
Wow.

1186
01:00:09,266 --> 01:00:10,867
Amazing.

1187
01:00:10,867 --> 01:00:15,133
The universe works
in very mysterious ways.

1188
01:00:17,667 --> 01:00:19,500
[woman] Okay. Ready?

1189
01:00:19,500 --> 01:00:21,734
-Here she comes.
-Let's see it.

1190
01:00:21,734 --> 01:00:24,200
-[woman] Yeah.
-[Gino] Oh, my God.

1191
01:00:24,734 --> 01:00:26,500
That's a stunning dress.

1192
01:00:27,567 --> 01:00:29,934
That is gonna
knock their socks off.

1193
01:00:29,934 --> 01:00:31,567
What? [laughing]

1194
01:00:31,567 --> 01:00:32,867
Baby.

1195
01:00:32,867 --> 01:00:35,233
-Oh, my gosh.
-That's hot. That's hot.

1196
01:00:37,066 --> 01:00:39,200
[woman]
Ready for the next one?

1197
01:00:40,233 --> 01:00:42,133
-[Jasmine] Yes.
-[Gino] Yeah, let's see it.

1198
01:00:48,100 --> 01:00:50,133
Baby, I feel
like a tropical fruit.

1199
01:00:50,133 --> 01:00:52,133
So juicy, so delicious.

1200
01:00:52,133 --> 01:00:55,100
You look like you're missing
from the pumpkin patch.

1201
01:00:56,166 --> 01:00:57,233
You know, it's like...

1202
01:00:57,767 --> 01:01:00,100
[exhales] this dress...

1203
01:01:00,100 --> 01:01:02,367
This one, look at how
beautiful this color is.

1204
01:01:02,367 --> 01:01:05,133
You would be like
a shining star in this dress.

1205
01:01:06,767 --> 01:01:07,734
[Jasmine] Sit.

1206
01:01:08,600 --> 01:01:10,567
-Sit.
-[Gino] Call me "Master."

1207
01:01:10,567 --> 01:01:12,033
[Gino and woman laughing]

1208
01:01:12,667 --> 01:01:13,634
[Jasmine] Yeah.

1209
01:01:15,867 --> 01:01:17,600
You are my manager.

1210
01:01:17,600 --> 01:01:19,433
But I can fight you.

1211
01:01:19,433 --> 01:01:20,867
Don't do that.

1212
01:01:20,867 --> 01:01:22,266
-[Jasmine] Hmm.
-[Gino] You'll be lost.

1213
01:01:22,266 --> 01:01:23,300
[Jasmine laughing]

1214
01:01:24,333 --> 01:01:26,033
Jasmine, I am your manager,

1215
01:01:26,033 --> 01:01:28,667
so I have to be
honest with you
and try to critique you.

1216
01:01:29,100 --> 01:01:30,834
You know?

1217
01:01:30,834 --> 01:01:32,834
Someone is sleeping
on the couch tonight.

1218
01:01:33,734 --> 01:01:34,867
Coco?

1219
01:01:34,867 --> 01:01:37,333
Someone I'm looking at,
but I'm not gonna
say his name.

1220
01:01:39,667 --> 01:01:40,634
[mouthing] Me.

1221
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:42,934
[Jasmine] Okay.

1222
01:01:43,667 --> 01:01:45,300
What about this one?

1223
01:01:45,367 --> 01:01:46,734
Ooh.

1224
01:01:47,667 --> 01:01:49,333
Ooh. That's a nice one, too.

1225
01:01:51,333 --> 01:01:53,467
It definitely fits you good.

1226
01:01:53,467 --> 01:01:56,133
-[Jasmine] I really
love this color.
-Beautiful color.

1227
01:01:56,133 --> 01:01:58,767
And I show off my dress--
My breasts.

1228
01:01:58,767 --> 01:02:00,934
But nothing like,
vulgar way...

1229
01:02:00,934 --> 01:02:02,533
-[woman] Mmm-hmm.
-...you know, like,
ugh, like...

1230
01:02:03,367 --> 01:02:06,467
You know, I show enough

1231
01:02:06,467 --> 01:02:08,667
for them to say, like,
"Mmm. She had something,"

1232
01:02:08,667 --> 01:02:11,634
but not like,
"I'm classy. I'm not a bitch."

1233
01:02:13,133 --> 01:02:14,767
And I have a tail.

1234
01:02:14,767 --> 01:02:16,100
Like an alligator.

1235
01:02:16,100 --> 01:02:17,567
-[woman laughing]
-[Gino] Yeah. Yeah.

1236
01:02:17,567 --> 01:02:19,567
Now you look
like a beauty queen.

1237
01:02:19,567 --> 01:02:20,667
It fits you really good.

1238
01:02:20,667 --> 01:02:22,333
It's nice styling.

1239
01:02:22,333 --> 01:02:24,000
[Jasmine exhales] I love it.

1240
01:02:28,867 --> 01:02:30,500
<i>I love the pink dress, but...</i>

1241
01:02:36,333 --> 01:02:37,500
This is the one.

1242
01:02:37,500 --> 01:02:38,500
[Gino] It's beautiful.

1243
01:02:39,600 --> 01:02:42,266
[Jasmine] <i>I honestly feel like</i>

1244
01:02:42,266 --> 01:02:44,166
this beauty pageant is real.

1245
01:02:44,166 --> 01:02:46,166
It's becoming tangible.

1246
01:02:46,166 --> 01:02:47,867
And this beauty pageant

1247
01:02:47,867 --> 01:02:50,667
can open many doors to me.

1248
01:02:50,667 --> 01:02:53,200
<i>And I'm looking forward</i>
<i>to the future.</i>

1249
01:02:54,033 --> 01:02:55,634
<i>This is just the beginning.</i>

1250
01:02:55,934 --> 01:02:57,767
Yeah. Yep.

1251
01:02:57,767 --> 01:02:58,734
Definitely.

1252
01:03:03,467 --> 01:03:05,333
[vocalizing]

1253
01:03:25,967 --> 01:03:27,500
Oh, yeah. Oh, [bleep].

1254
01:03:31,967 --> 01:03:35,233
♪ <i>It goes on and on and on♪</i>

1255
01:03:35,233 --> 01:03:38,066
<i>♪ So tired</i>
<i>So I can't and I'm done ♪</i>

1256
01:03:38,066 --> 01:03:43,533
♪ <i>We're on this road</i>
<i>To sleep♪</i>

1257
01:03:45,367 --> 01:03:46,333
[groans]

1258
01:03:48,367 --> 01:03:49,433
Ow. Okay.

1259
01:03:52,867 --> 01:03:54,233
[Alexei] Night night, boys.

1260
01:03:58,767 --> 01:04:00,233
[Loren] <i>My mommy</i>
<i>makeover surgery...</i>

1261
01:04:00,233 --> 01:04:01,967
<i>was just over a month ago,</i>

1262
01:04:01,967 --> 01:04:05,033
and my recovery is going
a lot slower than I'd hoped.

1263
01:04:05,033 --> 01:04:08,133
<i>It's psychological</i>
<i>because I'm feeling better,</i>

1264
01:04:08,133 --> 01:04:12,634
<i>but Dr. Dev is telling me,</i>
<i>"Don't do more, do less."</i>

1265
01:04:13,467 --> 01:04:15,767
-[Dr. Dev speaking]
-Yeah.

1266
01:04:15,767 --> 01:04:17,433
[Dr. Dev speaking]

1267
01:04:20,133 --> 01:04:22,166
<i>...I just think you're doing</i>
<i>a little bit too much</i>

1268
01:04:22,166 --> 01:04:23,867
<i>in terms of activities.</i>

1269
01:04:23,867 --> 01:04:28,734
<i>Housework, lifting,</i>
<i>house chores, uh, driving.</i>

1270
01:04:28,734 --> 01:04:30,567
<i>You know, I think</i>
<i>you're gonna have to really</i>

1271
01:04:30,567 --> 01:04:31,934
<i>calm some of those things down</i>

1272
01:04:31,934 --> 01:04:33,433
<i>just to help</i>
<i>with the inflammation</i>

1273
01:04:33,433 --> 01:04:36,767
<i>and definitely, uh,</i>
<i>continue to take it easy,</i>

1274
01:04:36,767 --> 01:04:38,834
<i>as far as the, uh, activities.</i>

1275
01:04:38,834 --> 01:04:40,867
<i>I think everyone's</i>
<i>gonna have to chip in to,</i>

1276
01:04:40,867 --> 01:04:42,066
<i>to help with those things.</i>

1277
01:04:44,033 --> 01:04:45,367
As I recover more,

1278
01:04:45,367 --> 01:04:49,467
I think Alex expects me
to take on more
of my usual mom duties.

1279
01:04:49,467 --> 01:04:52,500
<i>And Alex is so preoccupied</i>
<i>with work</i>

1280
01:04:52,500 --> 01:04:54,033
<i>and what's going on in Israel</i>

1281
01:04:54,033 --> 01:04:57,166
and I wanna step in
and I wanna help him,

1282
01:04:57,166 --> 01:04:59,800
even though
I'm not supposed to.

1283
01:05:04,100 --> 01:05:05,500
[Alexei sighs]

1284
01:05:06,367 --> 01:05:08,166
Wow.

1285
01:05:08,166 --> 01:05:11,333
-Everybody's down, finally.
-[Loren] Mmm, okay.

1286
01:05:12,266 --> 01:05:13,300
[blows raspberry]

1287
01:05:16,166 --> 01:05:17,333
It's a lot of work.

1288
01:05:18,500 --> 01:05:19,934
[Alexei] Yeah,
it's a lot of work.

1289
01:05:20,500 --> 01:05:21,734
You can't lift anybody,

1290
01:05:21,734 --> 01:05:23,333
I have to do
everything myself.

1291
01:05:26,967 --> 01:05:29,767
Laundry again?
Everyday you gotta do laundry?

1292
01:05:29,767 --> 01:05:30,834
[Loren] Yeah, babe,

1293
01:05:30,834 --> 01:05:34,367
because we have a lot
of people in the house,

1294
01:05:34,367 --> 01:05:37,266
and I don't wanna
spend an hour

1295
01:05:37,266 --> 01:05:40,133
doing laundry once a week
or twice a week.

1296
01:05:42,967 --> 01:05:45,233
-I had a call with Dr. Dev.
-Mmm-hmm?

1297
01:05:45,233 --> 01:05:47,367
And he basically
told me, like,

1298
01:05:47,367 --> 01:05:49,667
I need to stop doing
everything I'm doing.

1299
01:05:51,567 --> 01:05:53,100
You can fold the laundry.

1300
01:05:53,100 --> 01:05:56,500
[Loren] He was telling me
that all of these
repetitive movements

1301
01:05:56,500 --> 01:05:58,600
are basically gonna ruin
my surgery because--

1302
01:05:58,600 --> 01:06:00,333
[Alexei] It's not gonna ruin
your surgery, okay?

1303
01:06:00,333 --> 01:06:01,467
So, what do you want me to do?

1304
01:06:01,467 --> 01:06:03,567
You wanna go lay down
on the bed all day,
and that's it?

1305
01:06:03,567 --> 01:06:05,734
I can't do that.
You had three babies.

1306
01:06:08,967 --> 01:06:10,934
I can't do everything
by myself.

1307
01:06:11,467 --> 01:06:12,433
[Loren sighs]

1308
01:06:14,000 --> 01:06:16,166
Do laundry once a week

1309
01:06:16,166 --> 01:06:19,066
and fold it slowly,
slowly, slowly,

1310
01:06:19,066 --> 01:06:20,667
-and you, you'll be fine.
-[Loren] And push-- put the--

1311
01:06:20,667 --> 01:06:23,467
Putting the dishes away
and getting dinner ready

1312
01:06:23,467 --> 01:06:24,967
and packing the bags, and...

1313
01:06:24,967 --> 01:06:25,934
[Alexei] When do you want me
to do that?

1314
01:06:25,934 --> 01:06:26,767
...organizing the house.

1315
01:06:26,767 --> 01:06:27,767
[Alexei] When do you want me
to do that?

1316
01:06:27,767 --> 01:06:29,400
That's what I'm saying.
It has to get done.

1317
01:06:32,066 --> 01:06:34,033
I don't know if she
downplayed it on purpose

1318
01:06:34,033 --> 01:06:37,667
or she really didn't know
how bad it's gonna be,

1319
01:06:37,667 --> 01:06:41,934
but Loren really downplayed
this recovery to me,

1320
01:06:41,934 --> 01:06:43,500
<i>how-- how this is gonna work.</i>

1321
01:06:43,500 --> 01:06:44,400
<i>She, she was saying that,</i>

1322
01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:46,233
<i>"Yeah, don't worry.</i>
<i>Nothing gonna change.</i>

1323
01:06:46,233 --> 01:06:48,133
<i>I just can't lift</i>
<i>heavy things."</i>

1324
01:06:48,133 --> 01:06:50,967
And, uh, now she can't move,
she can't lift,

1325
01:06:50,967 --> 01:06:53,867
she can't look up,
she can't look down.

1326
01:06:53,867 --> 01:06:55,266
Forget about
the first two weeks

1327
01:06:55,266 --> 01:06:57,467
where she couldn't even change
her own clothes by herself.

1328
01:06:57,467 --> 01:06:59,634
We're not even talking
about that.

1329
01:07:01,467 --> 01:07:05,433
I feel like you
underestimated this surgery.

1330
01:07:05,433 --> 01:07:09,266
I feel like you didn't tell me
even how hard it's gonna be.

1331
01:07:09,266 --> 01:07:11,100
I didn't think it was
gonna be this hard.

1332
01:07:11,100 --> 01:07:12,166
[Alexei] I feel like
you played it down,

1333
01:07:12,166 --> 01:07:13,734
and now
I have to deal with it.

1334
01:07:13,734 --> 01:07:15,166
And that's it.
And I have to go to work,

1335
01:07:15,166 --> 01:07:17,467
and I have to pick them up,
drop them off,

1336
01:07:17,467 --> 01:07:19,667
change them, dress them.

1337
01:07:19,667 --> 01:07:23,533
I didn't think that
the recovery was gonna be
this intense, honestly.

1338
01:07:24,133 --> 01:07:25,467
I did this surgery
for you too.

1339
01:07:25,467 --> 01:07:27,600
-You didn't do it for me.
-[Loren] Yes, I did.

1340
01:07:27,600 --> 01:07:29,233
For me, I told you,
go to the gym.

1341
01:07:29,233 --> 01:07:31,033
Don't go to the surgery.

1342
01:07:31,033 --> 01:07:33,467
You left that alone
and you went to the surgery

1343
01:07:33,467 --> 01:07:35,467
because you decided
that's gonna solve
all your issues.

1344
01:07:35,467 --> 01:07:36,967
You thought
you were gonna wake up
and be Barbie.

1345
01:07:36,967 --> 01:07:38,066
That's it.

1346
01:07:38,066 --> 01:07:39,533
Oh, my God.

1347
01:07:41,867 --> 01:07:43,066
It doesn't work like that.

1348
01:07:45,734 --> 01:07:47,867
I don't know what to tell you.

1349
01:07:47,867 --> 01:07:50,467
-I--
-Just listen to what I say
and don't argue with me.

1350
01:07:50,467 --> 01:07:53,066
Do the things
the way I'm telling you.

1351
01:07:53,066 --> 01:07:55,200
Not the way
you're telling me now.

1352
01:07:58,433 --> 01:08:02,266
Honestly, I feel like

1353
01:08:02,266 --> 01:08:06,000
you resent me
for this surgery.

1354
01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:07,667
-I don't resent you.
-[Loren] Um...

1355
01:08:07,667 --> 01:08:09,567
But you downplayed it
and you told me it's nothing.

1356
01:08:09,567 --> 01:08:10,567
I'm glad I downplayed it.

1357
01:08:10,567 --> 01:08:11,567
Because if I didn't--

1358
01:08:11,567 --> 01:08:12,567
-[Alexei]
You would've still done it.
-You-- No.

1359
01:08:12,567 --> 01:08:14,266
But you would've not
supported me.

1360
01:08:14,266 --> 01:08:15,734
I'm glad I downplayed it.

1361
01:08:15,734 --> 01:08:17,567
I had no choice.
I had no choice, Loren.

1362
01:08:17,567 --> 01:08:18,400
And that's it. I'm done.

1363
01:08:18,400 --> 01:08:19,667
I'm going to sleep
on the couch tonight.

1364
01:08:22,600 --> 01:08:23,634
[bleep] ass [bleep].

1365
01:08:30,367 --> 01:08:31,667
[sighs]

1366
01:08:39,266 --> 01:08:42,767
[Loren]
<i>I'm absolutely being selfish</i>
<i>by doing this surgery.</i>

1367
01:08:42,767 --> 01:08:44,967
And Alex is already
doing too much,

1368
01:08:44,967 --> 01:08:46,667
and he's so burnt out.

1369
01:08:46,667 --> 01:08:50,100
<i>So, I don't blame him</i>
<i>for being upset about it.</i>

1370
01:08:50,100 --> 01:08:52,266
But I'm also
really disappointed

1371
01:08:52,266 --> 01:08:55,000
because I didn't wanna do it
to push us apart.

1372
01:08:55,000 --> 01:08:57,266
<i>Like, I'm doing it now</i>

1373
01:08:57,266 --> 01:08:59,767
<i>so we can have</i>
<i>a better future together.</i>

1374
01:08:59,767 --> 01:09:01,233
And he doesn't
understand that.

1375
01:09:05,266 --> 01:09:06,300
[sighs wearily]

1376
01:09:12,867 --> 01:09:13,934
[exhales]

1377
01:09:16,000 --> 01:09:19,433
[speaking Portuguese]

1378
01:09:24,967 --> 01:09:27,734
Natalia is extremely rude.

1379
01:09:27,734 --> 01:09:31,166
We weren't together,
so it wasn't cheating.

1380
01:09:31,166 --> 01:09:33,066
[speaking Portuguese]

1381
01:09:48,567 --> 01:09:50,233
Well, watch out.
Big step, big step.

1382
01:09:55,567 --> 01:09:57,600
[women squealing]

1383
01:09:57,600 --> 01:09:59,533
[speaking Portuguese]

1384
01:10:01,767 --> 01:10:05,066
[both speaking Portuguese]

1385
01:10:05,867 --> 01:10:07,166
[Thais speaking Portuguese]

1386
01:10:08,600 --> 01:10:09,867
[both speaking Portuguese]

1387
01:10:09,867 --> 01:10:11,166
-[Natalia and Thais] Natalia.
-Natalia.

1388
01:10:11,166 --> 01:10:12,734
[speaking Portuguese]

1389
01:10:12,734 --> 01:10:16,166
Tonight,
Patrick's meeting my friends
for the very first time,

1390
01:10:16,166 --> 01:10:17,667
and I'm a little nervous.

1391
01:10:17,667 --> 01:10:21,400
<i>Because even though they have</i>
<i>never met Patrick before...</i>

1392
01:10:31,767 --> 01:10:35,166
<i>I'm sure they will have</i>
<i>a lot of questions for him.</i>

1393
01:10:35,166 --> 01:10:37,600
[Natalia speaking Portuguese]

1394
01:10:39,100 --> 01:10:40,100
-[Natalia laughs]
-[Thais] Okay.

1395
01:10:40,100 --> 01:10:41,900
[Thais speaking Portuguese]

1396
01:10:44,767 --> 01:10:46,000
[Natalia] Okay, okay.

1397
01:10:46,000 --> 01:10:47,467
I put my hand on the table.

1398
01:10:47,467 --> 01:10:48,367
It's your fault.

1399
01:10:48,367 --> 01:10:50,600
I know, I need help.

1400
01:10:51,834 --> 01:10:54,467
[Thais] <i>Patrick can be</i>
<i>clumsy sometimes.</i>

1401
01:10:54,467 --> 01:10:56,133
I mean,
you're always struggling.

1402
01:11:00,967 --> 01:11:02,100
[Patrick] Yeah.

1403
01:11:02,100 --> 01:11:04,133
Things are definitely
a lot harder with my leg
right now.

1404
01:11:04,133 --> 01:11:06,166
And it wasn't the first
impression I wanted to make.

1405
01:11:06,166 --> 01:11:07,834
[Thais chuckles]

1406
01:11:09,033 --> 01:11:11,934
[speaking Portuguese]

1407
01:11:12,433 --> 01:11:14,433
[John speaking Portuguese]

1408
01:11:14,433 --> 01:11:15,700
[speaking Portuguese]

1409
01:11:15,700 --> 01:11:17,800
[Patrick] She, she asked you,
uh, how do you like
Montes Claros?

1410
01:11:18,600 --> 01:11:21,667
-Uh... Montes Claros.
-Montes Claros.

1411
01:11:21,667 --> 01:11:22,767
-Uh...
-[Patrick] How do you like it?

1412
01:11:22,767 --> 01:11:24,767
[John speaking Portuguese]

1413
01:11:24,767 --> 01:11:26,867
[speaking Portuguese]

1414
01:11:26,867 --> 01:11:28,900
[John] Oh, Karol!

1415
01:11:31,233 --> 01:11:32,667
[Thais speaking Portuguese]

1416
01:11:32,667 --> 01:11:35,634
[speaking Portuguese]

1417
01:11:49,867 --> 01:11:51,033
[Natalia speaking Portuguese]

1418
01:12:00,767 --> 01:12:04,166
[speaking Portuguese]

1419
01:12:05,166 --> 01:12:06,734
[Patrick speaking Portuguese]

1420
01:12:07,834 --> 01:12:10,066
-[speaking Portuguese]
-[Patrick] Uh-huh.

1421
01:12:10,066 --> 01:12:12,333
[speaking Portuguese]

1422
01:12:15,033 --> 01:12:16,000
[speaking Portuguese]

1423
01:12:16,767 --> 01:12:20,834
[speaking Portuguese]

1424
01:12:22,934 --> 01:12:23,900
[speaking Portuguese]

1425
01:12:24,834 --> 01:12:28,667
Mmm. [speaking Portuguese]

1426
01:12:28,667 --> 01:12:32,233
She's, she's asking
if you treat me, like, good.

1427
01:12:34,533 --> 01:12:36,000
[John] What did you say?

1428
01:12:36,000 --> 01:12:37,600
Uh, no, I didn't say anything.

1429
01:12:37,600 --> 01:12:39,634
She's just asking.
She doesn't know anything.

1430
01:12:41,266 --> 01:12:44,266
[Patrick speaking Portuguese]

1431
01:12:44,266 --> 01:12:46,066
[Natalia speaking Portuguese]

1432
01:13:04,100 --> 01:13:05,333
No, so...

1433
01:13:05,333 --> 01:13:07,233
[speaking Portuguese]

1434
01:13:13,834 --> 01:13:16,133
I'm telling her about Sarah.

1435
01:13:17,567 --> 01:13:20,066
-Sarah?
-The girl. Sa--

1436
01:13:20,066 --> 01:13:23,567
-Oh, from before?
-Yeah.

1437
01:13:23,567 --> 01:13:27,033
Isn't what's important
where you guys are now,
you know?

1438
01:13:29,266 --> 01:13:31,767
[Patrick]
<i>Natalia is extremely rude.</i>

1439
01:13:31,767 --> 01:13:33,000
<i>I'm just meeting her.</i>

1440
01:13:33,000 --> 01:13:34,734
It was after my first trip
to Brazil,

1441
01:13:34,734 --> 01:13:35,767
I met Thais.

1442
01:13:35,767 --> 01:13:38,000
And I had plans
on coming back to Brazil,

1443
01:13:38,000 --> 01:13:40,000
but we weren't official.

1444
01:13:40,000 --> 01:13:43,166
And you know,
it was at a party
and I was drinking.

1445
01:13:43,166 --> 01:13:44,600
And you know,
I kissed this girl,

1446
01:13:44,600 --> 01:13:45,767
and that-- that was it.

1447
01:13:45,767 --> 01:13:48,333
And I told Thais about it
the next day.

1448
01:13:48,333 --> 01:13:49,967
<i>She was definitely</i>
<i>upset about it.</i>

1449
01:13:49,967 --> 01:13:53,133
But we weren't together,
so it wasn't cheating.

1450
01:13:54,867 --> 01:13:56,734
[speaking Portuguese]

1451
01:13:57,233 --> 01:14:02,266
[speaking Portuguese]

1452
01:14:02,266 --> 01:14:04,233
-No.
-[Thais] You make out
with her.

1453
01:14:04,233 --> 01:14:06,934
[speaking Portuguese]

1454
01:14:06,934 --> 01:14:08,467
-[John] Whoa, chill--
-[Patrick speaking Portuguese]

1455
01:14:08,467 --> 01:14:11,166
-It's just... [rolls tongue]
No big deal, no big deal.
-No, no, no...

1456
01:14:11,166 --> 01:14:12,834
[speaking Portuguese]

1457
01:14:12,834 --> 01:14:16,000
[Patrick and John
speaking Portuguese]

1458
01:14:16,467 --> 01:14:19,333
[speaking Portuguese]

1459
01:14:19,333 --> 01:14:21,166
-[speaking Portuguese]
-[Natalia speaking Portuguese]

1460
01:14:21,567 --> 01:14:24,667
[speaking Portuguese]

1461
01:14:33,233 --> 01:14:34,200
Bitch.

1462
01:14:37,100 --> 01:14:42,166
[both speaking Portuguese]

1463
01:14:42,166 --> 01:14:45,200
[Thais speaking Portuguese]

1464
01:14:49,667 --> 01:14:51,967
[Patrick] Oh, no,
she's talking about the party
you threw in Dallas.

1465
01:14:51,967 --> 01:14:53,734
But I didn't do anything.

1466
01:14:56,433 --> 01:14:58,233
[chuckles] Welcome, welcome.

1467
01:14:58,233 --> 01:14:59,934
[speaking Portuguese]

1468
01:15:02,233 --> 01:15:04,734
[people chattering]

1469
01:15:04,734 --> 01:15:08,333
You got it, you got it,
you got it, hey.

1470
01:15:10,867 --> 01:15:14,667
-[Karol speaking Portuguese]
-[Thais speaking Portuguese]

1471
01:15:14,667 --> 01:15:15,734
-Bad.
-[John] Me

1472
01:15:15,734 --> 01:15:17,867
-Very bad, very bad.
-[John] No!

1473
01:15:17,867 --> 01:15:19,600
[John] How? How? How?

1474
01:15:19,600 --> 01:15:21,233
How-- Why am I bad?

1475
01:15:21,233 --> 01:15:23,900
-[speaking Portuguese]
-[Patrick] Uh-huh?

1476
01:15:29,934 --> 01:15:31,467
She thinks
you're a bad influence

1477
01:15:31,467 --> 01:15:35,100
and she thinks, uh,
you want me to be...

1478
01:15:36,533 --> 01:15:39,000
like, cheat on Thais.

1479
01:15:39,000 --> 01:15:41,367
No, no, no, no, no, no.

1480
01:15:41,367 --> 01:15:43,433
We're not cheaters
in our family.

1481
01:15:46,166 --> 01:15:47,767
<i>I don't take him down</i>
<i>a bad path.</i>

1482
01:15:47,767 --> 01:15:49,867
First of all,
he's a grown ass [bleep] man.

1483
01:15:49,867 --> 01:15:52,233
Nobody's taking him down
a bad path, all right?

1484
01:15:52,233 --> 01:15:55,867
<i>And I'm not even sitting there</i>
<i>trying to get him down</i>
<i>the bad path.</i>

1485
01:15:55,867 --> 01:15:57,266
Yeah, I mean, John and I
lived together

1486
01:15:57,266 --> 01:15:59,066
the whole time
I was dating Thais.

1487
01:15:59,066 --> 01:16:01,567
And he never asked me
to do anything,

1488
01:16:01,567 --> 01:16:04,967
like, you know, anything bad
as far as, like,

1489
01:16:04,967 --> 01:16:07,433
going to strip clubs
or dating other women.

1490
01:16:07,433 --> 01:16:09,133
I did bring up
a strip club once.

1491
01:16:09,133 --> 01:16:10,266
Well, it was for
the bachelor party.

1492
01:16:10,266 --> 01:16:11,500
That was a bachelor party.

1493
01:16:11,500 --> 01:16:13,000
-I did do-- I did do that.
-I mean, I, that--
That's different.

1494
01:16:13,000 --> 01:16:13,934
I did do that.

1495
01:16:13,934 --> 01:16:15,300
But that's, like,
you know, normal.

1496
01:16:16,600 --> 01:16:18,533
[Patrick speaking Portuguese]

1497
01:16:18,533 --> 01:16:19,934
[speaking Portuguese]

1498
01:16:29,667 --> 01:16:32,066
[speaking Portuguese]

1499
01:16:33,867 --> 01:16:35,000
Hey.

1500
01:16:37,867 --> 01:16:39,433
[Angela speaking]

1501
01:16:48,467 --> 01:16:50,533
[Michael speaking]
Give my phone!

1502
01:16:50,533 --> 01:16:52,066
[Angela] Get--
Take that phone.
Take that phone.

1503
01:16:52,066 --> 01:16:53,233
Get that phone!

1504
01:16:55,467 --> 01:16:56,800
<i>♪ Blood beating adrenaline ♪</i>

1505
01:16:57,867 --> 01:17:01,634
<i>♪ Tastes like liquor</i>
<i>When I breathe you in it ♪</i>

1506
01:17:04,266 --> 01:17:05,400
What the [bleep] is this?

1507
01:17:09,100 --> 01:17:12,133
<i>♪ I'll hear your voice</i>
<i>In the darkness ♪</i>

1508
01:17:12,133 --> 01:17:15,433
<i>♪ And I see your face</i>
<i>When you're not around ♪</i>

1509
01:17:18,266 --> 01:17:19,800
[Angela] Oh, my God.

1510
01:17:21,834 --> 01:17:23,300
I don't know, I need answers.

1511
01:17:29,867 --> 01:17:32,834
And I'm not giving
this phone back
'cause I bought it.

1512
01:17:33,834 --> 01:17:35,367
After the phone call
with a lawyer,

1513
01:17:35,367 --> 01:17:37,834
I'm not feeling no better
to be honest with you.

1514
01:17:37,834 --> 01:17:39,734
Because now
I gotta make a decision.

1515
01:17:39,734 --> 01:17:40,867
If he's really scamming me

1516
01:17:40,867 --> 01:17:43,333
and he's a part
of a bigger scamming ring...

1517
01:17:45,033 --> 01:17:47,033
<i>Because once he gets</i>
<i>to the US,</i>

1518
01:17:47,033 --> 01:17:49,800
I'm financially responsible
for him.

1519
01:17:50,667 --> 01:17:52,033
[sighs]

1520
01:17:52,033 --> 01:17:55,266
How in the world
did I let this get this bad?

1521
01:17:55,266 --> 01:17:58,834
Everything I found
on his phone's alarming.

1522
01:17:58,834 --> 01:18:00,967
<i>There's a sack full of money,</i>

1523
01:18:00,967 --> 01:18:03,133
pictures of older women
on the chat,

1524
01:18:03,133 --> 01:18:06,533
<i>my private information,</i>
<i>Social Security, tax.</i>

1525
01:18:07,467 --> 01:18:09,567
<i>I gotta get some answers.</i>

1526
01:18:09,567 --> 01:18:11,634
You got the wrong
[bleep] American.

1527
01:18:12,533 --> 01:18:13,734
This is about to...

1528
01:18:13,734 --> 01:18:16,266
Could be the last conversation
I have tonight

1529
01:18:16,266 --> 01:18:18,734
with my so-called husband.

1530
01:18:27,767 --> 01:18:28,734
<i>Bonjour.</i>

1531
01:18:29,533 --> 01:18:30,533
Michael?

1532
01:18:31,967 --> 01:18:32,900
Michael?

1533
01:18:35,567 --> 01:18:36,600
Michael?

1534
01:18:38,133 --> 01:18:39,066
Michael.

1535
01:18:40,734 --> 01:18:41,734
How are you?

1536
01:18:43,066 --> 01:18:44,133
Thank you for letting me
see the phone,

1537
01:18:44,133 --> 01:18:46,300
'cause I found out
a lot of stuff.

1538
01:18:47,734 --> 01:18:50,166
You wanna tell me the truth
what I already know?

1539
01:18:50,166 --> 01:18:53,133
That you scammed me
or you, you embezzled money

1540
01:18:53,133 --> 01:18:54,400
and you're in a ring.

1541
01:18:55,100 --> 01:18:56,000
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1542
01:18:56,000 --> 01:18:58,200
Hold up, let me finish.
Let's stop playing.

1543
01:19:00,934 --> 01:19:02,767
Don't lie
because it's all here.

1544
01:19:02,767 --> 01:19:05,133
'Cause you're gonna--
You possibly could go
to jail tomorrow.

1545
01:19:05,133 --> 01:19:06,967
-Do you understand this?
-[Michael speaking]

1546
01:19:06,967 --> 01:19:08,567
Okay, I'm just telling you.

1547
01:19:08,567 --> 01:19:09,533
Tell.

1548
01:19:11,634 --> 01:19:13,734
[Angela] I'm telling you now.

1549
01:19:13,734 --> 01:19:16,300
Let's talk about the drop off.

1550
01:19:17,133 --> 01:19:19,133
-And the stack of money.
-[Michael speaking]

1551
01:19:20,867 --> 01:19:22,734
-Drop off?
-[Angela speaking]

1552
01:19:30,000 --> 01:19:30,934
[Angela] It is money.

1553
01:19:32,734 --> 01:19:34,467
-[Angela] I did.
-[Michael] Calm down.

1554
01:19:34,467 --> 01:19:36,166
-No, it's no calming down.
-[Michael] Let me explain it.

1555
01:19:36,166 --> 01:19:38,000
-[Michael speaking]
-Okay, okay.

1556
01:19:38,000 --> 01:19:39,734
Okay, okay.

1557
01:19:40,567 --> 01:19:41,800
[Angela] I was there,
I know that.

1558
01:19:44,934 --> 01:19:45,967
[Angela] I remember that.

1559
01:19:45,967 --> 01:19:47,834
-So, what are you...
What is this?
-[Angela] Okay.

1560
01:19:47,834 --> 01:19:49,300
[Michael speaking]

1561
01:19:54,100 --> 01:19:55,400
Ah.

1562
01:20:18,567 --> 01:20:23,467
You broke United States
law of giving
my [bleep] information

1563
01:20:23,467 --> 01:20:25,834
for them to [bleep] photocopy.

1564
01:20:25,834 --> 01:20:27,467
And it's-- I got the proof.

1565
01:20:27,467 --> 01:20:29,867
That's why you can go
to jail over here, bitch.

1566
01:20:29,867 --> 01:20:30,867
There's nothing there.

1567
01:20:30,867 --> 01:20:32,033
[Angela] You, you--

1568
01:20:33,266 --> 01:20:35,467
-And I--
-No, no,
this is on here, babe.

1569
01:20:35,467 --> 01:20:37,433
You, you had someone
do it for you.

1570
01:20:37,433 --> 01:20:41,834
You gave him my tax paper
2022 [bleep], dude.

1571
01:20:41,834 --> 01:20:44,467
And that has
every [bleep] information.

1572
01:20:44,467 --> 01:20:45,867
My [bleep] social.

1573
01:20:45,867 --> 01:20:50,333
That is against
the United States [bleep] law.

1574
01:20:51,834 --> 01:20:53,100
[Michael] You,
you think I'm a fool?

1575
01:20:53,100 --> 01:20:54,433
That I don't know
what I'm doing?

1576
01:20:54,433 --> 01:20:55,934
No, I don't.
I think you're smarter than--

1577
01:20:55,934 --> 01:20:58,033
[Angela] No, no, no.
I'm gonna ask of you--

1578
01:20:58,033 --> 01:20:59,500
Let me back this up.

1579
01:21:01,333 --> 01:21:02,266
Okay. Okay.

1580
01:21:02,266 --> 01:21:03,934
-Hold on. Hold on.
-Or socials?

1581
01:21:03,934 --> 01:21:06,333
-[Angela] Okay. Go ahead.
-What are you talking about?

1582
01:21:06,333 --> 01:21:08,233
[Michael speaking]

1583
01:21:11,767 --> 01:21:13,667
But when you go to the cafe,

1584
01:21:13,667 --> 01:21:15,333
I'm thinking you're doing it
your goddamn self.

1585
01:21:16,133 --> 01:21:17,300
[Angela] I would be--

1586
01:21:19,367 --> 01:21:20,634
[Angela] Okay.
Okay, okay, okay.

1587
01:21:23,266 --> 01:21:25,233
[Michael speaking]

1588
01:21:34,567 --> 01:21:35,533
Okay.

1589
01:21:36,567 --> 01:21:37,500
[Angela] Well, I don't know.

1590
01:21:37,500 --> 01:21:39,333
Why would you run a group chat
and make money?

1591
01:21:40,367 --> 01:21:42,567
-[Angela] And all these thi--
-No.

1592
01:21:42,567 --> 01:21:43,934
You say "goddamn" again.

1593
01:21:43,934 --> 01:21:46,533
[Michael speaking]

1594
01:21:53,734 --> 01:21:54,934
[Angela]
You always got an answer.

1595
01:21:54,934 --> 01:21:56,533
I'm so tired of your lies.

1596
01:21:58,266 --> 01:22:00,734
[Angela] It ain't us.
You did a group chat.

1597
01:22:00,734 --> 01:22:02,333
They're all reaching out
to you.

1598
01:22:04,233 --> 01:22:06,333
You're a scammer
and you know it.

1599
01:22:09,166 --> 01:22:11,567
-I tried to show
you were good, you're not.
-Honey, you saw--

1600
01:22:11,567 --> 01:22:12,667
You're not. And you know what?

1601
01:22:12,667 --> 01:22:13,834
My government's protecting me.

1602
01:22:13,834 --> 01:22:15,433
This is why
we can't get the visa.

1603
01:22:16,066 --> 01:22:17,600
I called
an immigration lawyer.

1604
01:22:26,166 --> 01:22:27,367
I'm gonna report it.

1605
01:22:27,367 --> 01:22:28,500
Whether I stay or not,

1606
01:22:28,500 --> 01:22:31,133
I'm gonna report this
to the federal [bleep]
government.

1607
01:22:31,133 --> 01:22:33,634
Your whole,
your whole team's going down.

1608
01:22:36,467 --> 01:22:37,500
Look at me.

1609
01:22:39,166 --> 01:22:41,033
I loved you like no other.
[laughs]

1610
01:22:41,033 --> 01:22:42,467
I'm not crying tonight.

1611
01:22:42,467 --> 01:22:44,300
Am I? I've had enough.

1612
01:22:51,767 --> 01:22:53,100
[Michael speaking]

1613
01:22:54,433 --> 01:22:57,533
[Angela] Take my phone.
Take that phone.
Get that phone!

1614
01:22:57,533 --> 01:22:58,834
Get that phone!

1615
01:23:02,834 --> 01:23:06,600
[man speaking]

1616
01:23:07,667 --> 01:23:10,533
[narrator] <i>Next time on</i>
90 Day Fiancé:
Happily Ever After...

1617
01:23:10,533 --> 01:23:12,000
[Kobe speaking]

1618
01:23:12,634 --> 01:23:14,233
<i>Today is such a joyous day.</i>

1619
01:23:14,233 --> 01:23:17,100
<i>But my friends, you know,</i>

1620
01:23:17,100 --> 01:23:20,133
are not in support
of my relationship with Emily.

1621
01:23:20,133 --> 01:23:21,867
<i>They're like my family,</i>
<i>you know?</i>

1622
01:23:21,867 --> 01:23:24,533
I'm getting married
and then they're not there.

1623
01:23:28,567 --> 01:23:31,567
I, I videotaped some
of the girls that I thought
had good--

1624
01:23:31,567 --> 01:23:32,533
Excuse me?

1625
01:23:34,166 --> 01:23:36,934
You were recording
other girls.

1626
01:23:36,934 --> 01:23:38,033
That's bull [bleep].

1627
01:23:39,333 --> 01:23:42,667
He is recording this woman
with what purpose?

1628
01:23:42,667 --> 01:23:44,133
<i>To help me?</i>

1629
01:23:44,133 --> 01:23:48,567
Or you are gonna
be using those videos
for being masturbating?

1630
01:23:48,567 --> 01:23:50,800
[crying]

1631
01:23:53,433 --> 01:23:56,166
[Natalia speaking Portuguese]

1632
01:23:56,166 --> 01:23:58,467
[Karol speaking Portuguese]

1633
01:23:58,467 --> 01:24:02,667
Tonight was one of the reasons
that you shouldn't be here
in Brazil.

1634
01:24:02,667 --> 01:24:05,033
Don't cry me a river
when they start trouble

1635
01:24:05,033 --> 01:24:07,533
and the big bad wolf
blows their house down.

1636
01:24:09,000 --> 01:24:10,500
[speaking Portuguese]

1637
01:24:13,767 --> 01:24:15,033
[Sophie] Like,
you don't get me moving out.

1638
01:24:15,033 --> 01:24:15,967
I'm about to leave you,

1639
01:24:15,967 --> 01:24:18,033
and you're still talking
about what I need to do?

1640
01:24:18,033 --> 01:24:20,934
You should be like,
"What the [bleep] can I do
so you don't leave?"

1641
01:24:20,934 --> 01:24:22,867
[Rob] Well, all right,
tell me what I need to do
while you move out.

1642
01:24:22,867 --> 01:24:23,834
Well, you should've asked me.

1643
01:24:24,533 --> 01:24:28,033
This is an emotional
roller coaster.

1644
01:24:28,033 --> 01:24:30,734
[bleep] whipping me around
a whirlwind.

1645
01:24:30,734 --> 01:24:32,767
You have anything else
you need to say to me?

1646
01:24:32,767 --> 01:24:35,934
-I'm gonna leave.
-I love you?

1647
01:24:40,100 --> 01:24:44,066
So, Ashley gave Manuel $1000.

1648
01:24:44,066 --> 01:24:46,033
-Where is the money
going exactly?
-Who'll--

1649
01:24:46,867 --> 01:24:48,900
[speaking Spanish]

1650
01:24:50,066 --> 01:24:53,834
This is making me question
what else don't I know?

1651
01:24:54,767 --> 01:24:57,600
[speaking Spanish]

1652
01:25:01,934 --> 01:25:04,266
[speaking Spanish]

1653
01:25:04,266 --> 01:25:05,233
[laughs]

1654
01:25:05,233 --> 01:25:07,300
Nothing is [bleep] funny.

1655
01:25:11,266 --> 01:25:12,433
-[Michael speaking]
-[Angela] No, that phone!

1656
01:25:12,433 --> 01:25:14,100
-Give me the phone.
-[Michael speaking]

1657
01:25:14,100 --> 01:25:15,400
-[Angela] Give me your phone!
-[Michael speaking]

1658
01:25:15,767 --> 01:25:17,533
[Angela speaking]

1659
01:25:17,533 --> 01:25:19,567
-[Michael speaking]
-[Angela] Give the phone,
get it!

1660
01:25:19,567 --> 01:25:21,233
[Michael] <i>Angela,</i>
<i>she's out of control.</i>

1661
01:25:22,266 --> 01:25:23,200
This is too much.

1662
01:25:23,200 --> 01:25:26,133
-[Angela] Give that phone!
-[Michael speaking]

1663
01:25:26,133 --> 01:25:27,767
No, it's mine!