I want to see how prepared you are
for the visa interview.
-You ready, baby? -I'm ready.
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How long is your penis?
[laughs raucously]
[Michael] My visa interview's scheduled for tomorrow.
[Angela] If he gets denied, I just think
there's nothing else to do.
He put the texts where...
Who would put that in there?
Absolutely not.
-Is the kitchen clean? -[child exclaims]
Hey!
[Alexei] No throwing, Asher!
I still have five weeks of this.
I really need Loren to recover quickly,
or this is gonna be the longest five weeks of my life.
Get out of here.
John just got here, so I'm gonna go meet up with him. Okay?
[Gino] Maybe this makes her happy,
gets her out of her depression.
And maybe she...
changes her mind
about having a child with me.
I really think it'd be good for you.
[David] The word, "property,"
is a very difficult word for us.
It feels like we've lost all control.
So, I'm not
gonna be silent.
I just want to say "bye."
Do you know when you're coming back? Or...
No, I don't.
Right now,
it's very painful to be around Ed.
So, Ryleigh and I are gonna go back to San Diego for a little bit.
I'm trying to stay very strong for Ryleigh.
And it's so hard. [sniffles]
[in other language]
[continues in Spanish]
-[in other language] -[Ashley uttering indistinctly]
I'm tired of this. I'm so tired of this.
Manuel has been acting like a child
since we got to New York,
I'm just starting to wonder if he wants to be free of me.
I'm ready to go.
I'm done.
[Manuel speaking in Spanish]
Wait, wait, wait. [continues indistinctly]
[upbeat music playing]
♪ I'm feeling like a weight has been lifted ♪
♪ Right off of my chest
♪ I must confess I make your body move now ♪
[Gino] What is this?
I want you to whip me in shape.
Yes, I'm going to.
♪ Looking like the sunshine so bright ♪
♪ Cruisin' in the drop top Good life ♪
♪ It's one of those days it's going my way feels so good about it ♪
We have a goal.
I'm gonna be a beauty queen.
And that makes you... a beauty king.
A beauty king?
Gino and I got back from Miami a few weeks ago.
And now my focus is,
going to the gym and getting into shape
for the beauty pageant.
Especially the ones that are all accumulated in your gut,
-after eating frozen dinners for years. -Oh... Look.
I don't want to lose too much weight as I have such skinny legs already,
But if I lose it... 15 pounds in my gut, okay, maybe.
Yeah, that's what I'm talking about.
Oh, let me examine you. [exhales deeply]
-They're... -[Gino chuckles]
...They're too skinny. We...
-We need to build up muscle. Like... -I need more...
I totally agree. I need muscle in my leg.
I worked out my upper body a lot,
and these legs got to catch up.
[scoffs] The-- Where is the muscle?
-Here! -Let me touch it.
[chortles]
So, you're gonna do like this.
[Gino] Oh, gosh.
-Okay? As strong as you can. -You're a maniac.
Gosh.
Show me your power.
Stronger!
[shouting] Give it to me!
[panting and laughs]
There you go.
In all seriousness,
working out and preparing for the beauty pageant
is helping me to be less depressed.
Instead of being just stuck in the house
thinking about the situation with my kids,
my mom being sick,
it feels good to have a goal and...
Okay, you want me to hold the bag?
-Hold it. -Don't go too hard on yourself.
Hold it.
Come on, Jasmine.
Hit it harder like you mean it.
-[chuckles] -This is my family.
How do you feel about some of the comments that maybe that were said to you?
How do you feel about it?
-[yelping] Oh... [bleep]! -[laughs sheepishly]
[laughing] I'm sorry.
[breath trembling] I'm so sorry.
-[groans softly] -Did I... [laughs]
-[bleep] -Whoops!
Are you okay?
Yeah, I'm okay now.
Listen, be serious. Oh, my gosh. I'm out of breath.
I talked to Elena.
You remember her?
From the pageant?
Yes. She told me that,
"Hey, Jas, you know,
we're looking forward to you to come,
but your husband hasn't paid for the participation fees."
We only have one week left.
So, why didn't you pay for it?
If he misses the deadline,
he blows up this opportunity for me.
I'm hoping that Gino forgot about paying for this pageant,
and it wasn't on purpose.
[bleep]
It is a lot of money, okay?
I didn't... When we were in Miami,
I didn't know that the immigration costs,
which is your permanent resident status, skyrocketed.
And we have to pay for that.
It's like the top priority...
-So, go back to work! Go back to work. -...like, over 50% to...
You have to go back to work.
You know, this money thing
is stressing the heck out of me.
I left my job
because you were coming into the United States
for the very first time.
-No! -...reading--
I don't waste my time.
I read about stuff that's important.
I am a pri-- provider.
Go back to work.
You can... You could be making thousands and thousands
-and thousands and thousands instead of being... -No, I know...
-...at home. -I... [titters]
I had to support you for a bit.
Now you're getting on your feet.
She's getting on her feet now.
And... now, I'm feeling more... a little more comfortable...
-[scoffs] Oh. -...to go back to work.
-When? -But-- Very soon.
You're driving me nuts.
Do you want me to beg, right?
To be at your mercy,
-as usual? -No! That's not true.
If you have told me that day in Miami,
like, "Hey, we cannot afford it."
It has been--
No, but you don't understand. I mean--
And... that... That's my only motive,
like, my only goal when I wake up.
I don't have absolutely anything to do,
-other than cleaning the house and cooking for you. -Well... Look...
I mean, I have to look at all our financial resources
to try to get the money.
But... right now, I want to go home.
I still have to do 45 minutes of cardio,
now that we're done with that.
No, no, no. I'm... I'm done.
I... I can't do any more working out.
I have stuff at home I have to do.
But you told me that you were gonna be okay with my workout.
You did a really good workout today.
-Let's go home and-- -Gino, stop.
I'm begging you, 45 minutes?
No, I'll take you later tonight,
-okay? -You... You always say that,
-then you fall asleep. -I'll... I'll take you later tonight.
[groaning] Ugh.
-[mutters indistinctly] -I'm sorry.
[Jasmine] It is very frustrating
because I completely depend on him for everything.
I cannot go anywhere without him.
Because he's the one who drives me.
I rely on him financially.
He hasn't provided me, like, any credit card
for basic stuff.
And he enjoys so much making decisions
about every single detail in my life.
I believe that he's trying to control me.
And that is so scary,
because I've never been in this vulnerable position, and I don't like it.
I'm not a submissive person.
[Jasmine] It's always the same [bleep].
[Angela] Today is Michael's visa interview.
But unfortunately,
I'm not there, because we got in a major argument
this morning and...
I regret not going.
This is just a nightmare.
[hissing and attempting to whistle]
-Hello. -[in French]
[continues in French]
Uh, bonjour.
I, English...
-[waiter] Okay. -I... "Bonjour, madame..."
[in English]
-Okay. You don't speak French? -Oh, you speak English?
-Yes. -[sighs in relief] Thank God.
I just need a beer.
I'm having a bad day already...
-Okay. -...so I don't wanna have to... Ugh. Anyway.
I'm nervous, see?
And he's going to the embassy to get a visa...
-Okay. -...and we got into a big argument,
and I didn't go with him.
And now I feel bad.
And now I'm just nervous, and...
[in English]
It is.
I'm sorry to vent to you.
If he don't show up, you wanna go to dinner?
[snorting laughter] I'm just kidding.
[giggling] I'm just kidding.
I'm trying to lighten things up.
-I'm just kidding. -[titters softly]
I'm sorry to take your time.
-Just a... a beer in... in a glass, please. -Okay.
-[Angela] Thank you. -Okay.
-Yes. Thank you so much. -[waiter speaking indistinctly]
[Angela] This interview shouldn't take
more than 20 minutes, is what we have found out, by researching.
And it's been hours,
and I haven't even heard a text message
from Michael.
I don't know. I don't know what to feel right now.
Only me and Michael can pull off something like this,
a happy moment, and screw it up.
Me and Michael.
Maybe that's why we're meant to be,
because we're both dickheads.
I should have just been more understanding.
He should have, too, because I'm just as nervous as him.
I'm going to text him right now and let him know I'm waiting here.
If he wants [chuckling nervously] to come meet his wife
and give me the good news,
or give me the bad news.
Oh, God. [sighs]
This wait is the hardest thing I've had to do in a long time.
Our entire future together
hinges on if he can ace this interview.
And what scares me the most, is I have no control over the interview.
It's all up to Michael.
[exhales in frustration]
[child crying in the distance]
[bleep]
[sighing] Oh, God. This is [bleep] torture.
[sighs softly]
[exhales in frustration]
[sighs softly]
[grunts]
[burps and belches]
Why hasn't he called?
Did he get it?
Or did he not get it? And he's, like,
since the argument, did he just [bleep] leave me?
I don't-- I don't...
Like, I'm really scared to fricking death right now,
and I'm not scared of [bleep].
-You didn't get it? -No.
You didn't get it.
What the [bleep] do you mean you didn't get it?
-Angie-- -What are you saying, Michael?
I've been upset all day.
-I know. -What are you saying?
-Just going to-- -I don't believe this.
-I cannot [bleep] believe this. -Hold on, hold on...
-Hold on. -I cannot...
-I can't believe this. -Hold on.
-Angie, it is still-- -Oh, my God.
Hold on, hold on.
[meekly and breathily] God!
[Liz crying]
I feel completely embarrassed.
Out of all the selfish, terrible things that Ed has ever done,
this is by far the worst.
[upbeat music playing]
[GPS] In 600 feet, turn right.
Turn right.
Route recalculation.
[Ed] Oh, [bleep].
[GPS] Route recalculation.
[Ed] Are you kidding me?
[GPS] Route Recalculation.
♪ I never saw her in the dead of night ♪
♪ 'Cause I'm crawling And crying ♪
♪ Come on Let me loose in the wild ♪
[Ed] Liz went back to San Diego.
She left about two weeks ago.
And I really don't know
when Liz is planning on coming back
to get her stuff out.
I mean, I would be a fool not to admit that,
you know, you do miss the relationship.
So, I'm kind of lonely.
But, I still feel confident
in the choice I made, not to marry Liz.
Ed, you made it!
-I did. -Did you find it okay?
-Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah... -Okay, great.
Come on in. We're gonna take a look
at this new construction house.
[Ed] I'm pouring myself
into my new career in real estate,
and I just started working
for an awesome broker right here
in Northwest Arkansas.
We're going to go in the kitchen.
-Okay? -Um, it's got granite countertops.
-Now, this is a matte finish. -Wow.
-Okay. Yeah. -And... Do you notice anything missing?
-Um, maybe a refrigerator? -A refrigerator.
-Do you remember why, from class? -Yes, I do.
Because it's not personal property.
-No, it's-- -Because the refrigerator
-is personal property... -...Oh, you're right. Pardon me,
-it is. Right. -...it's movable, it's on wheels.
-If it's attached. -Okay. Remember that
when you're showing clients, Ed.
-[chuckling] Oh, I know. Right. -This is important.
-You listening? Okay. Good. -Got it. Yeah. [chuckling] Yeah, yeah.
It's a bittersweet moment.
I mean, up until about a few weeks ago,
I thought I would be doing all of this with Liz.
And now, you know, she's gone.
[Mitzi] If somebody's ever in trouble,
this could be another little bedroom...
-[chortles] Yeah. [chuckles] -...you know? This master is huge.
[Ed] You know, at some point, I'm gonna have to see Liz again.
She's gonna have to come back and pack up all of her stuff.
And in the past,
I would trick myself into believing
that if I don't make it work with Liz, I'll never be with anybody else.
So, this time,
I want to be strong, and I want to know
that there is somebody out there for me.
[Mitzi] Look at this view!
-Oh, my-- -Do you see that view?
Nothing wrong with Liz.
It's just not her.
This is a great new experience.
-[Mitzi] It's a great house. -For sure.
[upbeat music playing]
♪ We're gonna get you out
Are you ready?
Yeah.
[softly] Okay.
After I had decided to cancel the wedding,
I decided to leave Arkansas for a little bit.
I've been here for two weeks
in San Diego with my daughter.
Passport, okay.
These last two weeks have been really hard,
but it's been nice to spend them here with my daughter.
Right now, I have summer vacations with Ryleigh
and all of her school breaks.
The rest of the time, she is doing her school year
in another country with her dad and stepmom.
And, um...
Unfortunately, it's time for her to go home.
Sorry this summer didn't go as planned.
[kisses]
-We did have fun, didn't we? -Mmm-hmm.
Are you going to miss Ed?
-Yeah. -Yeah?
-Are you ready? -Mmm-hmm.
Time to board.
[chuckles]
Ryleigh is definitely the most important person in my life.
And it's really hard to say goodbye to her.
A few weeks ago,
I thought I would be crying emotionally,
seeing Ed in his outfit
as I'm walking down the aisle.
But...
now I'm crying,
as my daughter is leaving.
-Bye, baby. I love you. -[Ryleigh] Bye.
[Liz blows a kiss]
[sniffles]
[Liz softly blows a kiss]
There are moments where I wish I had never met Ed.
If I didn't give my time to Ed,
maybe I could have met someone
who would have treated me better.
[soft music playing]
♪ 'Cause it all breaks down
[cell phone dialing]
[Patty speaking over phone]
Good morning.
[softly] Ugh...
I feel a little sick to my stomach.
Yeah, she's... She's on her first flight.
No.
[Patty over phone]
No.
[Liz] This is not what I thought
it was gonna be a month ago.
[sad music playing]
[crying] But everybody knew this was gonna happen,
and I had faith that it wasn't.
[sniffles]
[Patty over phone]
It was so different after therapy.
It was completely different.
[Patty over phone]
[Liz] Mom, it's embarrassing.
Mom, it's so embarrassing.
[Patty over phone]
[sniffles]
[Liz] I feel like the worst mom ever.
I don't even have a home for my kid right now.
[Patty over phone]
[Liz] I feel completely embarrassed
believing that we can make it.
I am left with nothing.
I don't have an apartment.
I don't have a job. [sighs]
And now that Ryleigh is gone.
I am here alone.
Out of all the selfish, terrible things
that Ed has ever done, this is by far the worse.
Here I am crying over him.
And he... he could care less about me.
And I honestly have no idea what I'm gonna do next.
But at some point, I do need to go back to Arkansas.
I'm not gonna text her Happy birthday.
I'll say it in person.
Well, I don't really think she knows that you're staying with us, either.
Oh, that's gonna be marvelous.
I didn't tell Thais because it's her birthday
and she's already upset with me.
So I'm hoping tonight she'll kind of be in a better mood
and you know, it's only up from here.
[Ashley] Manuel said...
Holy moly!
Recently, Manuel has been asking for more money
but refuses to tell me why.
It makes me feel like there's something I don't know.
[amusing instrumental music playing]
-[Patrick] John. Good man. -[John] What's up?
Half man, half machine.
-[Patrick] You made it. -I made it.
How's your leg doing?
My legs doing good. Got a little sore flying.
Yeah, I bet.
[Patrick sighs]
It's Thais's birthday, and I feel bad
that we just got into a fight
because I didn't ask for the blessing from her dad.
But I'm gonna give her some space.
John just came into town,
and so I'm gonna meet up with him and get a drink.
Well, we got cheers.
-Cheers! -Cheers! It's mostly foam.
Welcome to Brazil!
Thank you!
[Patrick] My brother is here
because he wants to be a part of Aleesi's party.
But in reality it's Brazil.
Like he loves coming to Brazil
'cause he wants to relax, have a good time.
And I don't blame him.
I mean, it's Thais's birthday.
Did you wish her "Happy birthday"?
Oh, yeah?
It is.
I'm sure she's gonna be happy to see me.
You better send her a message.
I'm not gonna text her, "Happy birthday".
I'll say it in person.
Well, she-- I don't really think she knows
that you're staying with us either.
You didn't tell her?
I kind of skated that one by.
Oh, that's gonna be marvelous.
[Patrick] John doesn't make my life any easier.
He's always trying to save money,
so he didn't make a hotel reservation
and he just assumed that he could stay with us.
I didn't tell Thais because it's her birthday
and she's already upset with me.
So I'm hoping tonight she'll kind of be in a better mood
and you know, it's only up from here.
I got to see Carlos today, Thais's dad.
Yeah? How did that go?
Well, I feel like we both got to, like, hear each other out.
But towards the end, it got a little weird when we started talking.
So, like, I almost felt like he wanted me like, to kiss the ring.
-The way he was like-- -[laughs] What are you talking about "Kiss the ring"?
-Like, he's the Godfather? -Yeah.
Like, that's the way it felt.
The way it was like, asking me to ask for his permission.
-You already married her. -Yeah.
It's more of like a cultural like thing.
Like a sign of respect.
What did you do?
I said, "What I am here for is to get your respect".
Okay.
But Thais didn't really like the fact that, like,
I wasn't like, you know--
Oh, she wanted you to, like, just bow down?
We don't kiss the rings in this family.
All right?
[John] I may be in your country, Sir,
but you're not the Godfather.
Hey!
There we go!
They need to respect each other.
It's a give and take, you know.
[John] Now Johnny's happy.
So this is cachaca. There's a little bit of a bite.
[John] That's what I like.
Go ahead. Here you go.
Put it over there.
Ahh!
Pretty good!
I'm gonna meet good old Carlos.
Yeah. You're gonna get to meet everyone.
I think everyone's gonna get to meet each other eventually.
Oh well, It should-- It should be fun.
Yeah, Dad stopped by last night.
So he got to meet Aleesi.
-How did that go? -Oh, it was great!
I mean, he came with a big pail of paint
'cause like, he wants me to paint the apartment with him.
He wants you to paint the apartment with him?
A little father-son bonding?
Yeah, so Thais was a little upset
because, like, he got, like,
when he showed up he just had
like a list of things that he wanted to get fixed in the apartment.
She thinks like, you know, he asks--
Asks a lot from me.
Well, I mean, you are his income
and his bread and butter, aren't you?
I guess.
[laughs sarcastically]
Why such an evil laugh?
First time in my life, I think I agree with Thais.
[John speaking]
But I'm gonna be staying with Pat and Thais
and you know, she doesn't know yet.
So maybe I can play nice
and, like, be like, on her side.
And then that will help the transition.
Maybe!
I'm just looking out for you.
He might be using you.
I mean, he's not the best father.
Let's be honest.
-Neither is mine. -Yeah, he wasn't.
Neither is mine.
No, it's not--
But I don't talk to my father.
Bro, your dad wasn't in your life at all.
Oh, he took me to some baseball games.
Did he ever take you to baseball games?
No. So shut up.
No, he didn't take me to baseball games,
but like I lived with him.
I mean, it was definitely harder on you than it was on me.
Like I don't hold anything against anyone forever.
Well, you never held anything against him ever.
Yeah, 'cause he's my family. He's my dad.
Well, yeah, well,
you know, sometimes family sucks.
[dramatic music playing]
Right?
I don't judge my dad for,
you know, what he's done in the past
and you know the mistakes he's made.
I just want to be with my dad. Like, I love my dad.
But at the same time, too, like John's making me realize that the issues
between Thais and my dad are bigger than I thought.
And that just adds even more stress because I'm still trying
to deal with Carlos and figure out that situation.
I just want this to be a smooth trip,
and as much as I want to hang out with John
and spend time with him,
the last thing I want is for him to make things worse.
[John] But anyways, you know,
I'm glad I'm here.
I can't believe it's her birthday.
I didn't-- I forgot.
And now we have to go back there and, you know, give her birthday present.
You staying at the apartment with us.
♪ I hope you're ready for action ♪
♪ Come back to The girl you know ♪
-Hi, cousin! -[Jasmine] Hi.
-How are you? -I'm good.
How are you?
[Ashley] Fine.
Well, you look stressed out.
New York was a lot.
♪ I hope you're ready for, ready for, ready for action ♪
-How are you feeling? -Stressed,
-a little overwhelmed, -Okay.
a bit sad, kind of confused.
Oh jeez. Okay.
I need my witch potion.
-Whatever. I need all of the juice. -Okay.
-Okay, so I have the magnesium for your stress. -Please.
-Energy. I have B-12-- -I need energy.
-Yes. -I feel like I aged like ten years out there.
Oh Jesus have mercy. Okay.
Manuel and I came back from New York a few days ago,
and the trip was really intense.
And things have really not gotten better since then, either.
So today I'm going to get my witch potion, aka
I always feel better and refreshed
after my Ivy treatments.
I mean, it can be thought of as like a chakra realignment for the body.
[Jasmine speaking]
Let me simmer.
[inhales and exhales]
Go ahead, channel it.
-[Ashley] I don't even know where to begin, girl. -[Jasmine] Mmm.
Let's just like cut to the chase.
Manuel's actions trigger a lot,
and he acts like his actions are no big deal.
The other day, he did, like, kind of come into the room
a little forcefully talking about
And then just leaves.
That's odd.
Exactly!
Holy moly!
And it's like, "Who needs it?
Why are we sending it?
-How much do we need to send?" -Yeah, right.
What did you say?
I did put a $1000 in his banking account
for him and honestly, for the family.
[Jasmine speaking]
I don't know!
How much money have you sent back?
-I mean, since he's been here? -Yeah.
Thousands...
Thousands?
[Ashley] Manuel and I have agreed
to send back about $200 a month to Ecuador.
That's something that we can afford
without it taking away from the things
that we need here in America.
And $200 goes a long way there.
But recently, Manuel has been asking for more money for his family.
At least he's claiming it's for his family.
But like, how do I really know?
'Cause Manuel has a long history of leaving out details,
and so it makes me feel like there's something I don't know.
This whole situation with secrecy
and me not knowing what's going on
is just super triggering in so many ways,
because how I've been hurt in the past, right?
But did you explain this to Manuel?
I mean, I definitely told him
about my biological father.
But Manuel might not be understanding
how some of the things that he thinks are like
-no big deal could be triggering for me. -Right.
My biological father wasn't really in my life,
kind of in and out sort of situation,
and really there's like a lot of pain there.
[Ashley sighs]
[sniffles]
My mom had me when she was 16
by my biological dad.
They immediately separated, and I didn't find out
that he was my father until later in life.
And then he committed suicide.
What made me feel abandoned was I've never had
a chance to cultivate a relationship with him.
And so, yeah, I am hyper aware and hypersensitive to secrets
and transparency because
things weren't very transparent to me, you know, growing up.
And so when Manuel comes in here
triggering both of those wounds,
it doesn't make me feel safe with him.
I've been asking Manuel to be fully honest and transparent for years.
And part of me was hoping that it would get better
as we went through the marriage.
But it's not.
So, where do we go from here?
I don't know.
Jesus have mercy.
I know.
I think there's a pattern of him not telling you things.
There is a pattern.
-Like, this dishonesty... -The dishonesty.
-Secrecy and all of that takes you back to... -The secrecy...
[intense music playing]
I've known Ashley and Manuel for a long time.
I love her to death,
and I just want to see her relationship succeed.
After hearing and seeing everything that's going on,
if I was in Ashley's shoes, I think I would question
whether or not I should stay in the marriage.
I mean, I hope they can work through their trust issues,
but I think they both have to want to do that for it to happen.
Based on everything you just told me,
you probably should look into a postnup.
His very secretive around his money.
You gave him a $1000.
Where is that $1000?
What if he's just pocketing this money to do God knows what?
I don't-- I also like, don't want him
to get even more distant because of it.
Yeah.
If this is love,
then you asking for a postnup should not be an issue.
-Right? -Yeah.
[Ashley] At this moment, Jasmine is making a lot of sense.
He abandoned me in New York.
He is still keeping things close to the cuff.
And he's still being secretive about money.
So I do think getting a postnup
is a step in the right direction.
I have not a clue how Manuel is going to react,
but I need to stop pussyfooting around his feelings
and protect my life and make sure that
what I've built doesn't fall apart.
-Okay, I have glossed over red flags in the past. -Yeah, exactly.
-And I don't want a gloss over red flags here. -No.
[Alexei] Go ahead, buddy.
[boy speaking]
[crying] Hi, baby.
Thank you!
Thank you. Where's my kiss?
I told them to be careful.
So they're super careful.
Loren is still in a lot of pain.
And not only that she can't pick them up,
she can barely do anything with them.
♪ Come and close my eyes
♪ Because I don't enjoy the view ♪
♪ So I sent my resignation and I said with a kiss ♪
[Alexei] Okay, hold on!
Okay, okay, okay, okay.
Got it.
Okay.
Leave this here for now.
[Loren speaking]
♪ I've told you once and I'll tell you again ♪
♪ That I am really not the type to play ♪
♪ 'Cause this isn't a game
[Alexei sighs]
I spent the last three days in a hotel
taking care of Loren,
and today we're finally going home to see our kids.
But Loren is still in a lot of pain,
so I'm a little nervous trying to start real life.
I'll just walk you all the way upstairs
with everything, and then I'll go park the car in the spot.
Today is Rosh Hashanah, which is the Jewish New Year.
So I wanted to invite Loren's parents
and for us to have a nice family dinner.
Even though it might be a lot for Loren,
I think it's important to teach the kids
about Israel and about traditions.
And it might even take her mind off the pain for a second.
Hey, Margie!
-Hello! -[Alexei] Hey!
We made it.
-[Marlene] Wow! -Hey!
I'm afraid to touch you. [laughs]
[Loren] It's okay.
[Alexei] Yeah.
-Hi. -Hi.
[kissing]
How are you?
I've been better.
But I have no chins.
Hmm. I didn't notice them before,
so it doesn't matter. [laughs]
Let me put you-- Try to put you on the couch.
I'm hungry.
[soft music playing]
[Loren sighs] Ah!
[Alexei] A pillow behind your back like this?
[Loren] Mmm-hmm.
All right. You wanna start with the kitchen
-and get rid of some stuff, -[Marlene] Okay.
-With the fridge, I mean. -[Marlene] Perfect.
[Alexei] Wings, old chicken.
-[Alexei] What are all these things? -I have no idea.
I hate sitting here and not helping.
Like I know where everything is,
I want to do everything,
I can't and I feel really bad about it.
Because I know this was something I elected to do.
[Marlene] And this can go. This I'm sure is a little--
Cookies, no. Leave me the cookies.
-[Marlene] Wait. I'll put it in a bag. -[Alexei] Yeah.
-You don't need the whole box. -Yeah.
[Loren] I'm so grateful how Alex has stepped up.
Having Alex be so supportive, I think that,
that's what's gonna keep me plugging along
and like getting through all of this.
[clears throat]
All right, that's it. I'm going to get the kids.
[Loren] Okay.
Mmm.
[soft music playing]
Okay. So remember, boys,
when we come home, Mama can only sit.
Don't jump on her and don't pull on her.
She has all kinds of bandages.
Okay, Ashi?
[Alexei] Don't be scared.
[kid speaking]
Very big boo boo.
So I need to be very careful with Mama.
Like a giraffe?
[Alexei] A big tall giraffe?
-Yeah. -Mmm. Okay.
[kid speaking]
Okay.
[Alexei] The kids are very young,
and I don't think they fully understand the situation.
Kids are unpredictable.
He can be sitting nice on the couch one second
And I mean, I am worried
they're gonna be too rough with Loren
Go ahead, buddy.
[chuckles] That's Mama.
There's Mama.
-There's Mama! -Hi, baby.
[Alexei] There's Mama. Remember, be careful.
Go to mama, give her-- Oh yes. Shoes first. Okay.
Good job!
Hi, baby.
You can go say hi to Mama, but carefully.
Come give Mommy a hug.
[Alexei] Go give Mama a hug go.
[kid speaking]
Give a puppy for Mama.
Hi, baby.
Thank you!
Thank you. Where's my kiss?
[Alexei] You can give Mama a kiss.
Yes.
I told them to be careful
-so they're super careful. -[Loren] Oh come, come.
[kisses] Hi, baby.
Thank you. Hi. [kisses]
Hi!
[crying]
[Loren speaking]
-There's light over there. -What?
-There's light over there. -I know there's a light over there.
[Alexei] I should be careful.
[Loren] It's okay.
[kid] I got shark!
-You got a shark? -Yeah.
Oh my-- I know.
[kid] He shares me.
He shared with you?
-[baby gurgling] -Hi!
I know.
-Did you miss mom? -[baby crying]
[Loren gasps] Oh.
Hi. I know.
After this major surgery,
Not only that, she can't pick them up,
she can barely do anything with them.
And I think not being able to be a super mom
for six to eight weeks is really gonna test her
physically, mentally.
So, yeah, there's a lot of worrying.
[grunts] Okay, one time I do.
One time.
What are your reservations?
It comes back to the... the property thing.
So you become their property.
If Kobe decides you're going to live in Cameroon,
you're going to live in Cameroon.
[Lisa] So how do you feel about that?
I mean...
[Emily] Um...
So, John, he messed up his reservation at the hotel.
Do you mind if he stays here for a couple nights?
[Thais] With all the things between Patrick and my dad,
John is the last thing that I need right now.
[car honks]
To call my daughter,
or any person property, you know,
it's equating it to a thing or...
A possession.
Yeah.
[Felix talking]
[Kobe] When my cousin, Felix, said that Emily becomes our property,
I was like, "Oh my God," like...
you didn't just say that.
Because Emily's mom still isn't getting it.
And I am worried that she is going to
refuse to set the bride price
just because of the word "Property."
Which would definitely put all of our chances
of getting approval for our wedding in big jeopardy.
So you become their property.
[Emily] Hmm-hmm.
How do you feel about that?
I mean,
[Emily] Umm...
I mean, if it's tradition, I mean,
I'm marrying a Cameroonian man.
[Lisa] Are you kidding?
I mean, what are your reservations?
It comes back to the... the property thing.
Yeah.
[David] It does sting a little bit.
Doesn't sound right to me.
I get it traditionally, but I'm just, you know...
It's just in some sense of...
Like, we are responsible for her.
She belongs to our family.
We will treat her like we treat our sister.
It's not like we own her, like...
[David] She has no say... She has a say.
Of course, she's a grown up.
She has a say in our relationship.
I like that description better.
[Kobe] We are responsible for her.
Okay.
-Okay. -All right. You're okay with that?
-That sounds better. -That sounds much better.
In America, we fought very hard for women to have rights.
-[Lisa] So... -Yeah.
We don't want to give them up now.
[tense music playing]
[Lisa] I think there were parts of it that felt very strange.
Like, when Emily's gone, they'll bury her in Cameroon.
But in the end, they're going to be in America.
So, for now,
I want to honor Kobe and his culture,
and I have to accept what their wishes are,
in the moment.
So, how do we proceed from here?
[Lisa] Okay.
We have a list.
But this is our first list, ever.
[David] It's only one page.
Okay, first thing...
[Kobe] You don't read it. You give him the list.
[David] Okay.
[David] If you have questions,
-you call me. -[Felix] Yeah.
[David] I was a little nervous giving them my list.
I wasn't sure if I had done it right.
And then there was the bride's price.
You know, I don't know how much money,
you know, Kobe's parents have,
and I don't want to feel like, it's like,
I was pressuring them to come up with something that they don't have.
So I went in for 1000 francs.
The 1000 francs is probably worth about $2...
less than $2.
I mean, anything would have been fine.
It was just more of a traditional thing for me.
It's negotiable.
There's some of those things we don't need, maybe, but we'd like to have.
-But we can work it out. -[Kobe] Okay.
You don't have to explain yourself to us.
Even if there is something, they see something there that they disagree with,
they don't say it now.
-[David] Okay. -[Emily] They don't talk about it.
Now that my dad officially has a dowry list,
the only thing left for us is for me and my family
to go and try and see how we can get those things on the list.
And then after that,
we can get married traditionally.
[David] Thank you for explaining everything to us.
We have something for you.
We will bring something out from the kitchen, so don't leave.
Oh, wow.
-[Emily] I did make the food. -Okay.
So, I can't wait to hear what you think about it.
[all laughing]
I mean, I'm very excited for this seal the deal meal.
But I'm, like, nervous.
I hope your family likes it,
because it's made with love.
[laughing]
[David] How is it?
How's her cooking?
Is it good?
-Thank you. -Yes.
The best eru I ever tasted.
-[gasps] -[all laughing]
Here's a toast to the joining of both our families.
-[Emily] Yay! -[glasses clinking]
[David] America and Cameroon.
-[Kobe] Yeah! -[David] Cheers!
[Kobe] The overall outcome of today was the greatest success ever.
Because it's a great step, you know, towards my family
officially accepting Emily as my wife.
-[Lisa] Bye bye. -[David] Nice to meet you.
[Kobe] I've always wanted a situation where everybody in my life
can get along and love each other.
[Kobe] So, it's like a dream come true for me
that this is happening now with my family.
But I really wish that my friends also accept Emily for who she is
and, you know, show up on our wedding and give me all the support that I need.
[Kobe] I just can't imagine a traditional wedding without my friends.
[Lisa] Have a safe drive home.
See you soon.
[somber music playing]
All right. Welcome to Casa G. Mendez.
[John] Oh, Casa G. Mendez. Okay.
All right. This is it.
All right.
[yelps]
[Patrick] Coming back from the bar,
I feel like I'm walking on eggshells.
I wasn't able to resolve things with Thais' dad earlier
so she's already upset.
And now I've got John with me.
And she doesn't want to see John on any regular day,
but especially not on her birthday.
[door creaking]
Teodoro!
[John] Hey! What's up, little guy?
[Patrick speaking Portuguese]
♪ Happy birthday...
[Thais] Thank you.
♪ To you
Isn't that a great present?
John's here.
I came all the way here to sing you happy birthday.
Thank you, John. Thank you so much.
You know, you're welcome. You're welcome.
[speaking Portuguese]
-Oh, we were down the street at the bar. -Oh, yeah?
Yeah, just having a couple of drinks.
-[Patrick] Just catching up. -Yeah. Brotherly love.
[John] You know.
Today is my birthday, and I'm already upset.
And Patrick just come with John.
Smelling alcohol.
Yeah, because we were celebrating.
-We did a birthday shot for you. -Celebrate what?
Well, I did a birthday shot for you.
I knew you didn't drink, so I did it for you.
[Thais] You know, the baby's sleeping.
-[Patrick] Yeah, what do you think? -[John] It's pretty good.
So, John, he messed up his reservation at the hotel,
Messed up? What do you mean messed up?
[Patrick]
Accident. Acidente.
[Patrick] Do you mind if he stays here for a couple nights?
[tense music playing]
What do you think? Is that okay?
[John] Two nights. Two nights.
No big deal. No big deal.
I'll stay with you.
[Patrick] Baby, we got an extra room.
I wish Patrick told me that John was going to stay with us.
I mean, it's my birthday,
and with all the things between Patrick and my dad,
John is the last thing that I need right now.
All right. Well, it's just for a couple nights.
-[John] Two nights. That's it. -[Patrick] He's not gonna bother us.
[John] I'll go to bed.
[Patrick] All right, well, the room's here.
It's the first room on the right.
Hey. Shh.
[Patrick] Just be quiet.
[John] That's a big bed?
Yeah, big enough.
[John] It's a twin...at best.
-[Patrick] Yeah. -[Thais] Hey, the baby's sleeping.
[John whispering] I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
I'm not loud.
I'm being quiet.
[John] I'm just gonna go to sleep.
No big deal.
Teodoro's happy to see me, right buddy?
[John] Yeah. [baby talking]
Yeah.
See?
He's happy.
[shushes] Be quiet.
[Patrick] Okay, we'll be quiet.
[John] We're quiet, we're quiet.
Yeah. You two, like, just drink and then...
We had, like, two drinks. That's it.
Yeah, and then come here,
talk too loud.
And you guys just...
-No, I'm quiet. -[Thais] Yes, you are!
What are you talking about? I love my niece.
No I'm quiet.
I'll just go to bed.
You guys can do whatever you want.
Okay. I'm just trying to help out, you know?
[John] Well, that was great.
I understand why Thais is frustrated.
I mean, it's her birthday.
Things didn't go well with her dad.
And now John's here.
But tomorrow we're gonna go to my dad's ranch,
and it's gonna be a great day.
Okay. Great.
Wonderful.
I mean, not the best start to your trip in Brazil.
Well, you know, at least we got...
we're together, right?
Yeah.
[speaking Spanish]
"Okay, Ashley..."
[speaking Spanish]
Hmm-hmm.
This is [bleep] ridic...
Michael, I love you for seven years,
but I can drop you for seven more.
I'm tired.
[dramatic music playing]
♪ I don't care what you say
♪ But it's time to play a different game ♪
[speaking Spanish]
[Ashley] Hmm-hmm.
♪ Taking off like A slingshot ♪
[speaking Spanish]
-[bee buzzes] -[Ashley yelping]
[both laughing]
Bees.
[speaking Spanish]
-Yeah. Hmm-hmm. -[Manuel buzzing]
[speaking Spanish]
IV?
[speaking Spanish]
...postnuptial agreement.
And um...
Um...
[speaking Spanish]
"Okay, Ashley..."
[speaking Spanish]
Hmm-hmm.
[Ashley speaking Spanish]
Hmm-hmm.
-Okay. -Okay.
I'm not surprised that Manuel doesn't like the idea of a postnup,
but at least he agreed to discuss it further with a lawyer.
But, Manuel loves getting a case of the amnesia.
When certain things are happening, so...
I hope he behaves himself
when we get to the lawyer's office.
[dramatic music playing]
Um, I was nervous because I just didn't know what to expect.
And, you know, I like, like to know what's gonna happen.
[Emily] Everything is going so well on this trip.
But there is one thing that's been eating at me since it came up.
I want to talk about what Valerie brought up to me.
[Loren] I'm not gonna lie.
It's more of a recovery than I thought... than we thought.
It just kills me to see you going through this.
It was my decision.
I know. So no complaining allowed.
[Loren] The worst part is having my mom judge.
I know she's judging and critiquing everything I do.
[upbeat music playing]
[sighs softly]
-Hey, babe. -Hey, I'm in the kitchen.
Wow! So good.
Oh.
[Emily laughing] Hi.
I'm so happy because I think today was really good.
It was a successful day.
I think it was very successful.
I love that everybody loved my food.
[Kobe] Oh.
The best eru.
I even tried it.
[Kobe] I'm getting excited because both Emily and her parents
made it through with the knock door.
I know there's still a lot for us to do
before the wedding...
Were you nervous about the whole knock door thing?
Um, I was nervous because I just didn't know what to expect.
And, you know, I like, like to know what's gonna happen.
I mean, I wish I was, like, more involved in, actually, in the conversation
because I feel like the questions that my parents had
were important questions.
Am I your property?
Um, not really like a property like, sort of...
[Kobe laughing]
Everything is going so well on this trip,
and it feels like my family
is really forming a bond with his family.
But there is one thing that's been eating at me since it came up.
And I want to put it to rest so I can enjoy the wedding fully,
and not have it in the back of my head the whole time.
I want to talk about the unsettling in my mind.
About what Valerie brought up to me.
About your ex-girlfriend.
So wait, the girlfriend here still thought they were dating?
-While he was in China? -Yeah.
He told me when he was dating me, he was single.
So I'm like, but did he lie?
[Emily] I think we should meet.
-[Kobe] You want to meet her? -Hmm-hmm.
Why?
Makes no sense.
It makes a lot of sense.
I don't understand why we have to bring my ex-girlfriend
in the picture again.
You've already expressed your concern.
Why does it bother you so much that I want to know?
Of course, it bothers me.
It makes me wonder if you're telling the truth.
[clicks tongue]
[Emily] Are we good?
Because you're a little defensive about it.
Will you please just text her?
All right.
[dramatic music playing]
Yes, tomorrow, at the beach, at 4:00.
Love it.
With my wife.
I mean, I'm excited that Kobe
agreed to invite his ex to lunch,
just so we could, you know, just talk everything out.
Yeah, but I am so, I mean, I don't know
what to expect right now because it's a dead chapter.
I just want to know when they broke up.
It's what I want to know.
Okay.
I hope I do, too.
[upbeat music playing]
Now.
[kid chattering]
[shushing]
[praying in Hebrew]
-Amen. -Amen.
Come, let's go eat now.
[praying in Hebrew]
[all] Amen.
Umm.
[Alexei] It's Loren's first night home after the surgery,
and I've also invited her parents
to celebrate Rosh Hashanah.
I love it, I mean, for me, it's important to try
to keep our family tight, and celebrate all the holidays
and everything as much as possible.
Here's to a happy, healthy and sweet New Year.
-To all of us. -Yes.
-Cheers. -Cheers.
You're okay, hon. You don't need...
[Loren] Cheers, boys.
[Alexei] Give Ashie a nice hug and a kiss.
Okay.
[speaking in Hebrew]
Okay, now you can go.
[all laughing]
[Loren talking in English]
Go ahead. This is for a New Year.
-Okay, Ashie. -Hmm-mm.
No.
[Bryan] So how you feeling?
-[Loren] I'm hurting. -Yeah?
I'm really hurting, like my ears hurt from the bandage.
That's why it's off right now.
I'm not gonna lie.
It's more of a recovery than I thought, than we thought.
-Right? -Yeah.
Like the I've got the drains and the this and the that.
Maybe we shouldn't have celebrated tonight.
We're here, and that's something to celebrate.
Abba Bey is here. You guys are here.
We should be grateful we're here.
I know, but it's just a lot to do.
Well, you know, it's done. We're here.
[Marlene] She's not doing it.
I think it was smart
that she did kind of everything all at once.
But on the other side of that coin,
she did everything all at once.
You know, this is like a long recovery.
Alex is an incredible hands-on dad.
But I think even he's gonna say, you know,
halfway through this, like, "What, were we crazy?"
like, "Why did I think I could do this?"
[Loren] Thank you, guys, for helping.
You know what, it was a pleasure.
Thank God, Saba Bey is here.
It takes a village.
[Bryan]
[Marlene] That's right.
I mean, I'll come when you want me to.
Thank God, you know, I have flexibility.
It just kills me to see you going through this.
I wasn't expecting this recovery,
but being excited about the results
is what's getting me through.
But now you have to remember,
you already have three children.
-I know. -[Marlene] Why do it now?
Your father-in-law is here.
It's the holiday.
-[Bryan] I know. -Oh, my God.
-It was my decision. -[Marlene] I know.
It was my decision. What?
So no complaining allowed.
I'm gonna go lay down.
[Alexei] Come.
We're gonna go bring her down,
and then, we'll be back with the kiddos.
[Bryan] What happened? Oh, my.
-[Alexei] Shaikey. -[Bryan] It's upside down.
Don't worry.
[Marlene] What are you so busy with?
Okay. Be careful.
[Loren groaning]
[grunting in pain]
-You gotta rest. -I know.
Yeah.
[Loren] Dinner was a lot. I overdid it.
Dinner was too much.
[Alexei] I know.
[Loren] Ow! Ow!
[Alexei] You want me to put this on
so I can go back out there?
Yeah.
Tell me the, the tightness.
-[Alexei] Good. -Yeah.
-[Alexei] All right, mama. -[bleep]
You wanted this, baby.
I know.
[Alexei] So, then, that's it.
I know.
So then that's it. You have to deal with it.
Okay, rest. I'm gonna go back out there, okay?
Mm-hmm.
Let me know if you need me.
Ow!
[baby cooing]
[Marlene] Hey.
I know that they helped, and I really do appreciate it,
but I don't appreciate having my mom judge.
I know she's judging.
I know she's criticizing, critiquing everything I do.
Yes, I chose this.
Yes, I wanted it.
Yes, I knew it was going to be painful.
Did I know how painful?
Did I know how hard it would be to come home
with three kids, and I realize, just like
how much I can't just stop and do nothing?
It's hard, man.
[Jasmine speaking]
And you're enjoying your power over me.
I don't enjoy showing power over you.
[Gino] No, I don't.
[Jasmine speaking]
I really want a smoothie right now.
I haven't eaten anything since morning.
So we didn't have time to stay at the gym,
and finish my, my cardio,
knowing how important it is to me,
but we do have time for smoothies?
I'm starving.
♪ Yeah, right
♪ You said you did it For the light inside me ♪
You want a smoothie? We make time for a smoothie.
It's just what you want, when you want it, all the time.
Nah, that's not true.
I'm just describing facts.
Why are you so bitchy today?
You are the bitch.
Is it that time of the month?
You're a [bleep] idiot for saying that.
In Panama, nobody controlled me.
I was very independent person.
But now Gino controls the money.
And I believe that Gino is using the whole
"We don't have enough money"
argument as a way to have control over me.
He decides what we can do.
What we cannot do.
What I can buy, what I shouldn't.
When I can work out at the gym,
we have to stop for a smoothie because he said so.
Because what I want, it doesn't matter.
[Gino coughing]
-[woman 1] Hi, guys. -[Jasmine and Gino] Hi.
Welcome to Bamboo. How are you?
What can we get for you?
[Gino] Strawberry banana.
Strawberry banana smoothie.
I want the avocado smoothie.
[woman 1] Okay.
[Gino] I get that Jasmine's frustrated about the pageant,
but she's always asking for things,
and she needs to understand that
she can't always get what she wants all the time.
This is a partnership, and we are a team.
Sometimes I get what I want, and sometimes she does.
But we're a team and it's got to be 50-50.
Where, what you're doing?
What's the problem?
Why couldn't I finish my cardio,
and all of a sudden, we have time to be here, seated?
[Gino] Don't have a heart attack
'cause you didn't do extra minutes on cardio.
We did a full workout today.
It has nothing to do with the cardio, you're not getting it.
Okay? I'm never allowed to do what I want to do.
And it's always what Gino wants,
because this is freaking Gino Land.
You're acting crazy.
[exhales]
I'm gonna say that without yelling.
Because I'm always, I always wake up like,
"What am I going to do today?"
Like me as a person, it's not, not me as a wife,
me as a daughter, me as a mom, me as a person for once.
What are you talking about? We just were at the gym,
and I told you I'd find a way to pay for it.
You said that you were not sure
about paying for that, because with...
[Gino] No, I said I would...
I told you at the [bleep] gym.
You wanna sabotage it?
[Jasmine] I see the smirk on your face.
I [bleep] told you at the gym that I would find a way
to get the money to pay for it.
Don't you appreciate that?
All I have done is supported you in Panama.
For three years, I supported you,
and you don't appreciate that, [bleep] at all.
Look at your appreciation. This is appreciation I get.
You don't appreciate anything.
Be on my knees, "Oh my gosh. Thank you.
Thank you. You brought me to America. Oh my gosh."
Should I kiss your [bleep] face?
You are [bleep] nuts. That's what you are.
[Jasmine] I'm not gonna be here.
I really think that Gino wants to sabotage the pageant
to show that he can take away what I really want.
Gino used to be my safe person,
the person that I trusted the most?
But ever since we got married, a lot of things have changed.
He's very different.
I would have never married this kind of Gino.
[Gino] Don't be so dramatic.
I get Jasmine is having a hard time in America,
but she has to understand that
eventually she'll be able to be more independent,
drive, work in a job, but all of that takes time.
It doesn't happen overnight.
[Jasmine] I want to go home.
Take me home.
Do you, do you want this?
I don't enjoy showing power over you.
No, I don't.
Wow, if you think that, there's something wrong.
And I'm gonna go home walking...
-[Gino] Where are you going? -[Jasmine] Home.
[dramatic music playing]
[Jasmine crying] He wants to drive me crazy.
He knows that I am not emotionally, mentally,
you know, strong enough to deal with all this.
But I [bleep] love him.
You know, I wish I have a choice.
If I had the power, I would choose not to love him...
at this point.
[Angela] I want you to tell me what they said.
I just want to ask a question before you finish.
I knew there was gonna be some screw up that you did.
We ain't ever gonna get a visa.
Because I'm done.
You didn't get it.
-Listen, let me tell you-- -It's not under control.
Oh my God, I can't believe this.
God!
We ain't ever gonna get a visa.
Like he's been denied twice in the past.
We don't know why.
We don't know what the [bleep] they found.
I knew there was gonna be some screw up that you did.
Nothing goes right for us. It's...
This is, this is too much.
Nobody else does that kind of protocol.
So we're stuck here two weeks?
Really? You know what? You can leave now.
-I need a moment. -Hold on, hold on.
-I need a moment. -Let me break it down.
I've been sitting here hours. I need a moment.
-Let me break it down to you. -No.
I've been shaking all [bleep] day.
But you tell me to go home. You just stay here.
You really care about me, huh?
You never say the right things to your wife.
I just... I don't wanna hear about all that [bleep]
Michael, here's what I want to break down to you first.
Nobody [bleep] goes through what we've gone through.
Michael, I don't want you there, and they're trying...
You need to be scared about this.
Everybody else gets a yes or no.
Regardless, if you get it or not, this is [bleep].
Nobody goes through this much to get a goddamn visa!
Angie. Angie, we are still on track.
I want you to tell me what they said.
So I just I want to ask the question.
I want to ask the question before you finish.
-Okay. -How did you go to Abidjan?
You son of a bitch! You didn't tell me that.
Tell me again.
-No, don't tear. -I will tear this mother...
Did you move to [bleep] Abidjan and didn't tell me?
Michael told me that the embassy moved
the case to Abidjan,
and now he's telling me that he moved it.
You have no right making decisions like that
without consulting me.
We have enough trouble trying to get to the embassy once...
Why would you mess with them?
He should have left it [bleep] where it was.
I'm sure the embassy
thought that was suspicious, and that's probably why
he ain't got the damn visa right now.
Come darling, let me explain this.
No, no, no! You just slipped.
-That's how you do. -I didn't slip.
You moved the mother [bleep] to Abidjan and didn't tell me.
What the [bleep] are we doing?
-Can you sit down please? -No, I'm not, no.
Michael, what you're doing is doing what you want
and telling me later, and it's causing problems.
And, honey, I'm too old for that [bleep].
And I love you for seven years,
but I can drop you for seven more.
I'm tired.
On that note...
'Cause I'm done.
I'm done, Michael.
[dramatic music playing]
[Emily] Next time on
90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After...
Hey, Dad.
Hey!
Whoa, whoa, whoa.
[John] The last time I seen Jose,
we didn't have the best of relationship.
It's like a, "Hello. Good to see you"
and then, like within 10 minutes, it's like,
"Yeah, you know what? I got to fix this."
That's my bull [bleep].
I'm not going to sit here in front of your family,
and tell them like we are a happy marriage.
That's not the reality.
[Gino] That is not true at all.
I have a hard time being intimate with you
because of all the hurtful things you say to me.
Gino has a lot of deep sexual issues, but...
[Alexei] Israel is at war with Hamas.
I feel torn.
I feel like maybe I should do more.
It's affecting us strongly.
But I could definitely see myself
go back and do something.
[Emily] Thank you.
Today we're going to meet up with Kobe's ex-girlfriend.
And just to see if they were still dating
when he knocked me up.
Did you even ask her to come?
Of course I did.
Okay. Is that her?
So what brings you in today?
Potentially doing a postnuptial agreement.
In the marriage,
you're entitled to half of his savings
and he's obligated to pay for half of your debts.
About a 100k.
[speaking in Spanish]
Do you truly believe that he could be that guy
that you fell in love with?
I don't know.
Like, I thought I fell in love
with this certain type of person, and it feels like
he's turned into someone completely different.
Look at your little face.
You're fat.
[crying]
Give me one sec.
When I said I can't stay two weeks,
he told me to go home, and he'll stay here.
I'm starting to see some red flags here
because why does he want to stay by himself?