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I want to see
how prepared you are

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for the visa interview.

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-You ready, baby?
-I'm ready.

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[narrator]
Previously on 90 Day Fiance:
Happily Ever After?

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How long is your penis?

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[laughs raucously]

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[Michael] My visa interview's
scheduled for tomorrow.

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[Angela] If he gets denied,
I just think

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there's nothing else to do.

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He put the texts where...

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Who would put that in there?

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Absolutely not.

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-Is the kitchen clean?
-[child exclaims]

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Hey!

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[Alexei] No throwing, Asher!

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I still have five weeks
of this.

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I really need Loren
to recover quickly,

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or this is gonna be
the longest five weeks
of my life.

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Get out of here.

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John just got here,
so I'm gonna go meet up
with him. Okay?

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[Gino] Maybe this makes
her happy,

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gets her out
of her depression.

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And maybe she...

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changes her mind

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about having a child with me.

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I really think
it'd be good for you.

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[David] The word, "property,"

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is a very difficult word
for us.

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It feels like we've lost
all control.

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So, I'm not

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gonna be silent.

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I just want to say "bye."

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Do you know
when you're coming back? Or...

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No, I don't.

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Right now,

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it's very painful
to be around Ed.

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So, Ryleigh and I
are gonna go back
to San Diego for a little bit.

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I'm trying to stay
very strong for Ryleigh.

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And it's so hard. [sniffles]

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[in other language]

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[continues in Spanish]

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-[in other language]
-[Ashley uttering
indistinctly]

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I'm tired of this.
I'm so tired of this.

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Manuel has been acting
like a child

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since we got to New York,

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I'm just starting to wonder
if he wants to be free of me.

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I'm ready to go.

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I'm done.

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[Manuel speaking in Spanish]

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Wait, wait, wait.
[continues indistinctly]

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[upbeat music playing]

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♪ I'm feeling like a weight
has been lifted ♪

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♪ Right off of my chest

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♪ I must confess
I make your body move now ♪

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[Gino] What is this?

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I want you
to whip me in shape.

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Yes, I'm going to.

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♪ Looking like the
sunshine so bright ♪

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♪ Cruisin' in the drop top
Good life ♪

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♪ It's one of those days
it's going my way
feels so good about it ♪

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We have a goal.

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I'm gonna be a beauty queen.

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And that makes you...
a beauty king.

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A beauty king?

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Gino and I got back from Miami
a few weeks ago.

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And now my focus is,

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going to the gym
and getting into shape

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for the beauty pageant.

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Especially the ones
that are all accumulated
in your gut,

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-after eating frozen dinners
for years.
-Oh... Look.

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I don't want to lose
too much weight as I have
such skinny legs already,

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But if I lose it... 15 pounds
in my gut, okay, maybe.

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Yeah, that's what
I'm talking about.

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Oh, let me examine you.
[exhales deeply]

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-They're...
-[Gino chuckles]

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...They're too skinny. We...

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-We need to build up muscle.
Like...
-I need more...

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I totally agree.
I need muscle in my leg.

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I worked out
my upper body a lot,

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and these legs
got to catch up.

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[scoffs] The--
Where is the muscle?

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-Here!
-Let me touch it.

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[chortles]

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So, you're gonna do like this.

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[Gino] Oh, gosh.

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-Okay? As strong as you can.
-You're a maniac.

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Gosh.

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Show me your power.

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Stronger!

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[shouting] Give it to me!

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[panting and laughs]

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There you go.

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In all seriousness,

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working out and preparing
for the beauty pageant

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is helping me
to be less depressed.

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Instead of being just stuck
in the house

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thinking about the situation
with my kids,

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my mom being sick,

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it feels good to have
a goal and...

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Okay, you want me
to hold the bag?

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-Hold it.
-Don't go too hard
on yourself.

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Hold it.

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Come on, Jasmine.

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Hit it harder
like you mean it.

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-[chuckles]
-This is my family.

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How do you feel about some
of the comments that maybe
that were said to you?

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How do you feel about it?

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-[yelping] Oh... [bleep]!
-[laughs sheepishly]

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[laughing] I'm sorry.

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[breath trembling]
I'm so sorry.

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-[groans softly]
-Did I... [laughs]

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-[bleep]
-Whoops!

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Are you okay?

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Yeah, I'm okay now.

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Listen, be serious.
Oh, my gosh.
I'm out of breath.

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I talked to Elena.

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You remember her?

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From the pageant?

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Yes. She told me that,

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"Hey, Jas, you know,

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we're looking forward
to you to come,

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but your husband hasn't paid
for the participation fees."

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We only have one week left.

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So, why didn't you pay for it?

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If he misses the deadline,

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he blows up this opportunity
for me.

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I'm hoping
that Gino forgot about paying
for this pageant,

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and it wasn't on purpose.

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[bleep]

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It is a lot of money, okay?

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I didn't...
When we were in Miami,

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I didn't know
that the immigration costs,

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which is your permanent
resident status, skyrocketed.

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And we have to pay for that.

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It's like the top priority...

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-So, go back to work!
Go back to work.
-...like, over 50% to...

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You have to go back to work.

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You know, this money thing

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is stressing
the heck out of me.

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I left my job

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because you were coming
into the United States

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for the very first time.

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-No!
-...reading--

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I don't waste my time.

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I read about stuff
that's important.

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I am a pri-- provider.

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Go back to work.

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You can... You could
be making thousands
and thousands

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-and thousands and thousands
instead of being...
-No, I know...

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-...at home.
-I... [titters]

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I had to support you
for a bit.

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Now you're getting
on your feet.

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She's getting on her feet now.

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And... now, I'm feeling
more... a little
more comfortable...

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-[scoffs] Oh.
-...to go back to work.

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-When?
-But-- Very soon.

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You're driving me nuts.

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Do you want me to beg, right?

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To be at your mercy,

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-as usual?
-No! That's not true.

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If you have told me
that day in Miami,

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like, "Hey,
we cannot afford it."

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It has been--

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No, but you don't understand.
I mean--

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And... that...
That's my only motive,

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like, my only goal
when I wake up.

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I don't have
absolutely anything to do,

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-other than cleaning the house
and cooking for you.
-Well... Look...

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I mean, I have to look
at all our financial resources

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to try to get the money.

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But... right now,
I want to go home.

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I still have to do 45 minutes
of cardio,

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now that we're done with that.

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No, no, no. I'm... I'm done.

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I... I can't do
any more working out.

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I have stuff at home
I have to do.

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But you told me that you were
gonna be okay with my workout.

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You did
a really good workout today.

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-Let's go home and--
-Gino, stop.

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I'm begging you, 45 minutes?

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No, I'll take you
later tonight,

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-okay?
-You... You always say that,

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-then you fall asleep.
-I'll... I'll take you
later tonight.

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[groaning] Ugh.

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-[mutters indistinctly]
-I'm sorry.

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[Jasmine]
It is very frustrating

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because I completely depend
on him for everything.

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I cannot go anywhere
without him.

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Because he's the one
who drives me.

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I rely on him financially.

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He hasn't provided me,
like, any credit card

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for basic stuff.

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And he enjoys so much
making decisions

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about every single detail
in my life.

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I believe that he's trying
to control me.

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And that is so scary,

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because I've never been
in this vulnerable position,
and I don't like it.

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I'm not a submissive person.

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[Jasmine] It's always
the same [bleep].

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[Angela]
Today is Michael's
visa interview.

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But unfortunately,

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I'm not there,
because we got
in a major argument

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this morning and...

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I regret not going.

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This is just a nightmare.

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[hissing and attempting
to whistle]

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-Hello.
-[in French]

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[continues in French]

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Uh, bonjour.

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I, English...

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-[waiter] Okay.
-I... "Bonjour, madame..."

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[in English]

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-Okay. You don't speak French?
-Oh, you speak English?

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-Yes.
-[sighs in relief] Thank God.

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I just need a beer.

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I'm having
a bad day already...

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-Okay.
-...so I don't wanna
have to... Ugh. Anyway.

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I'm nervous, see?

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And he's going to the embassy
to get a visa...

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-Okay.
-...and we got
into a big argument,

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and I didn't go with him.

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And now I feel bad.

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And now I'm just nervous,
and...

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[in English]

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It is.

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I'm sorry to vent to you.

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If he don't show up,
you wanna go to dinner?

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[snorting laughter]
I'm just kidding.

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[giggling] I'm just kidding.

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I'm trying
to lighten things up.

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-I'm just kidding.
-[titters softly]

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I'm sorry to take your time.

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-Just a... a beer
in... in a glass, please.
-Okay.

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-[Angela] Thank you.
-Okay.

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-Yes. Thank you so much.
-[waiter speaking
indistinctly]

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[Angela] This interview
shouldn't take

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more than 20 minutes,
is what we have found out,
by researching.

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And it's been hours,

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and I haven't even heard
a text message

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from Michael.

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I don't know.
I don't know what
to feel right now.

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Only me and Michael
can pull off something
like this,

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a happy moment,
and screw it up.

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Me and Michael.

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Maybe that's why
we're meant to be,

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because we're both dickheads.

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I should have just been
more understanding.

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He should have, too,
because I'm just
as nervous as him.

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I'm going to text him
right now and let him know
I'm waiting here.

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If he wants
[chuckling nervously]
to come meet his wife

251
00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:13,896
and give me the good news,

252
00:12:13,896 --> 00:12:15,586
or give me the bad news.

253
00:12:17,482 --> 00:12:19,068
Oh, God. [sighs]

254
00:12:21,310 --> 00:12:24,724
This wait is the hardest thing
I've had to do in a long time.

255
00:12:24,724 --> 00:12:26,586
Our entire future together

256
00:12:26,586 --> 00:12:29,586
hinges on if he can ace
this interview.

257
00:12:29,586 --> 00:12:33,172
And what scares me
the most, is I have no control
over the interview.

258
00:12:33,172 --> 00:12:34,586
It's all up to Michael.

259
00:12:41,620 --> 00:12:42,965
[exhales in frustration]

260
00:12:43,517 --> 00:12:45,000
[child crying in the distance]

261
00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:47,068
[bleep]

262
00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:51,655
[sighing] Oh, God.
This is [bleep] torture.

263
00:12:56,793 --> 00:12:57,758
[sighs softly]

264
00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:02,034
[exhales in frustration]

265
00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:09,000
[sighs softly]

266
00:13:18,068 --> 00:13:19,000
[grunts]

267
00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:20,172
[burps and belches]

268
00:13:20,724 --> 00:13:22,172
Why hasn't he called?

269
00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:24,172
Did he get it?

270
00:13:25,310 --> 00:13:26,896
Or did he not get it?
And he's, like,

271
00:13:26,896 --> 00:13:29,275
since the argument,
did he just [bleep] leave me?

272
00:13:29,275 --> 00:13:30,689
I don't-- I don't...

273
00:13:30,689 --> 00:13:33,896
Like, I'm really scared
to fricking death right now,

274
00:13:33,896 --> 00:13:35,655
and I'm not scared of [bleep].

275
00:13:55,482 --> 00:13:57,344
-You didn't get it?
-No.

276
00:14:02,068 --> 00:14:03,344
You didn't get it.

277
00:14:05,517 --> 00:14:07,586
What the [bleep] do you mean
you didn't get it?

278
00:14:08,413 --> 00:14:09,724
-Angie--
-What are you saying, Michael?

279
00:14:09,724 --> 00:14:10,793
I've been upset all day.

280
00:14:10,793 --> 00:14:11,793
-I know.
-What are you saying?

281
00:14:11,793 --> 00:14:13,000
-Just going to--
-I don't believe this.

282
00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:15,275
-I cannot
[bleep] believe this.
-Hold on, hold on...

283
00:14:15,275 --> 00:14:16,793
-Hold on.
-I cannot...

284
00:14:16,793 --> 00:14:17,896
-I can't believe this.
-Hold on.

285
00:14:17,896 --> 00:14:20,586
-Angie, it is still--
-Oh, my God.

286
00:14:20,586 --> 00:14:22,068
Hold on, hold on.

287
00:14:23,793 --> 00:14:24,896
[meekly and breathily] God!

288
00:14:26,827 --> 00:14:28,448
[Liz crying]

289
00:14:37,517 --> 00:14:39,896
I feel completely embarrassed.

290
00:14:39,896 --> 00:14:44,413
Out of all the selfish,
terrible things
that Ed has ever done,

291
00:14:44,413 --> 00:14:46,655
this is by far the worst.

292
00:14:52,172 --> 00:14:53,689
[upbeat music playing]

293
00:14:54,896 --> 00:14:57,448
[GPS] In 600 feet, turn right.

294
00:14:58,413 --> 00:14:59,551
Turn right.

295
00:15:01,103 --> 00:15:03,103
Route recalculation.

296
00:15:03,103 --> 00:15:04,586
[Ed] Oh, [bleep].

297
00:15:04,586 --> 00:15:06,206
[GPS] Route recalculation.

298
00:15:06,206 --> 00:15:07,551
[Ed] Are you kidding me?

299
00:15:08,275 --> 00:15:10,034
[GPS] Route Recalculation.

300
00:15:11,068 --> 00:15:15,758
♪ I never saw her
in the dead of night ♪

301
00:15:17,689 --> 00:15:20,482
♪ 'Cause I'm crawling
And crying ♪

302
00:15:20,482 --> 00:15:23,034
♪ Come on
Let me loose in the wild ♪

303
00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:26,482
[Ed] Liz went back
to San Diego.

304
00:15:26,482 --> 00:15:28,379
She left about two weeks ago.

305
00:15:28,379 --> 00:15:30,172
And I really don't know

306
00:15:30,172 --> 00:15:32,275
when Liz is planning
on coming back

307
00:15:32,275 --> 00:15:33,655
to get her stuff out.

308
00:15:34,517 --> 00:15:36,862
I mean, I would be a fool
not to admit that,

309
00:15:36,862 --> 00:15:39,068
you know, you do miss
the relationship.

310
00:15:39,068 --> 00:15:40,482
So, I'm kind of lonely.

311
00:15:40,482 --> 00:15:42,758
But, I still feel confident

312
00:15:42,758 --> 00:15:46,379
in the choice I made,
not to marry Liz.

313
00:15:48,275 --> 00:15:49,482
Ed, you made it!

314
00:15:49,482 --> 00:15:50,793
-I did.
-Did you find it okay?

315
00:15:50,793 --> 00:15:52,275
-Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah...
-Okay, great.

316
00:15:52,275 --> 00:15:53,896
Come on in.
We're gonna take a look

317
00:15:53,896 --> 00:15:55,379
at this new
construction house.

318
00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:57,275
[Ed] I'm pouring myself

319
00:15:57,275 --> 00:15:59,379
into my new career
in real estate,

320
00:15:59,379 --> 00:16:00,689
and I just started working

321
00:16:00,689 --> 00:16:03,379
for an awesome broker
right here

322
00:16:03,379 --> 00:16:04,827
in Northwest Arkansas.

323
00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:07,310
We're going to go
in the kitchen.

324
00:16:07,310 --> 00:16:11,103
-Okay?
-Um, it's got
granite countertops.

325
00:16:11,103 --> 00:16:14,103
-Now, this is a matte finish.
-Wow.

326
00:16:14,103 --> 00:16:17,379
-Okay. Yeah.
-And... Do you notice
anything missing?

327
00:16:17,379 --> 00:16:20,000
-Um, maybe a refrigerator?
-A refrigerator.

328
00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:22,793
-Do you remember why,
from class?
-Yes, I do.

329
00:16:22,793 --> 00:16:24,862
Because it's not
personal property.

330
00:16:26,068 --> 00:16:27,689
-No, it's--
-Because the refrigerator

331
00:16:27,689 --> 00:16:29,172
-is personal property...
-...Oh, you're right.
Pardon me,

332
00:16:29,172 --> 00:16:31,103
-it is. Right.
-...it's movable,
it's on wheels.

333
00:16:31,103 --> 00:16:32,689
-If it's attached.
-Okay. Remember that

334
00:16:32,689 --> 00:16:33,896
when you're
showing clients, Ed.

335
00:16:33,896 --> 00:16:35,310
-[chuckling] Oh,
I know. Right.
-This is important.

336
00:16:35,310 --> 00:16:38,000
-You listening? Okay. Good.
-Got it. Yeah.
[chuckling] Yeah, yeah.

337
00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:39,379
It's a bittersweet moment.

338
00:16:39,379 --> 00:16:41,000
I mean, up until about
a few weeks ago,

339
00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:44,000
I thought I would be doing
all of this with Liz.

340
00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:46,586
And now, you know, she's gone.

341
00:16:47,379 --> 00:16:49,000
[Mitzi] If somebody's ever
in trouble,

342
00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:50,689
this could be
another little bedroom...

343
00:16:50,689 --> 00:16:53,586
-[chortles] Yeah. [chuckles]
-...you know?
This master is huge.

344
00:16:53,586 --> 00:16:55,896
[Ed] You know,
at some point, I'm gonna
have to see Liz again.

345
00:16:55,896 --> 00:16:58,551
She's gonna have to come back
and pack up all of her stuff.

346
00:16:59,482 --> 00:17:01,172
And in the past,

347
00:17:01,172 --> 00:17:02,758
I would trick myself
into believing

348
00:17:02,758 --> 00:17:06,964
that if I don't make it work
with Liz, I'll never be
with anybody else.

349
00:17:07,205 --> 00:17:09,172
So, this time,

350
00:17:09,172 --> 00:17:12,103
I want to be strong,
and I want to know

351
00:17:12,103 --> 00:17:14,378
that there is somebody
out there for me.

352
00:17:14,378 --> 00:17:15,378
[Mitzi] Look at this view!

353
00:17:15,378 --> 00:17:16,758
-Oh, my--
-Do you see that view?

354
00:17:18,378 --> 00:17:19,792
Nothing wrong with Liz.

355
00:17:19,792 --> 00:17:20,964
It's just not her.

356
00:17:21,689 --> 00:17:23,896
This is a great
new experience.

357
00:17:23,896 --> 00:17:25,689
-[Mitzi] It's a great house.
-For sure.

358
00:17:26,103 --> 00:17:28,172
[upbeat music playing]

359
00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:35,655
♪ We're gonna get you out

360
00:17:38,413 --> 00:17:39,689
Are you ready?

361
00:17:39,689 --> 00:17:40,758
Yeah.

362
00:17:41,275 --> 00:17:42,241
[softly] Okay.

363
00:17:44,896 --> 00:17:47,000
After I had decided
to cancel the wedding,

364
00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:49,482
I decided to leave Arkansas
for a little bit.

365
00:17:50,275 --> 00:17:52,068
I've been here for two weeks

366
00:17:52,068 --> 00:17:53,586
in San Diego with my daughter.

367
00:17:55,275 --> 00:17:57,655
Passport, okay.

368
00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:01,482
These last two weeks
have been really hard,

369
00:18:01,482 --> 00:18:05,413
but it's been nice
to spend them here
with my daughter.

370
00:18:05,413 --> 00:18:08,068
Right now,
I have summer vacations
with Ryleigh

371
00:18:08,068 --> 00:18:09,862
and all of her school breaks.

372
00:18:09,862 --> 00:18:13,000
The rest of the time,
she is doing her school year

373
00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:15,482
in another country
with her dad and stepmom.

374
00:18:15,793 --> 00:18:17,827
And, um...

375
00:18:18,689 --> 00:18:21,068
Unfortunately, it's time
for her to go home.

376
00:18:26,620 --> 00:18:28,862
Sorry this summer
didn't go as planned.

377
00:18:30,275 --> 00:18:31,241
[kisses]

378
00:18:33,103 --> 00:18:35,758
-We did have fun, didn't we?
-Mmm-hmm.

379
00:18:36,586 --> 00:18:37,896
Are you going to miss Ed?

380
00:18:37,896 --> 00:18:39,551
-Yeah.
-Yeah?

381
00:18:57,689 --> 00:18:59,275
-Are you ready?
-Mmm-hmm.

382
00:19:04,172 --> 00:19:05,344
Time to board.

383
00:19:09,103 --> 00:19:10,448
[chuckles]

384
00:19:10,448 --> 00:19:13,034
Ryleigh is definitely
the most important person
in my life.

385
00:19:14,310 --> 00:19:16,379
And it's really hard
to say goodbye to her.

386
00:19:18,379 --> 00:19:19,758
A few weeks ago,

387
00:19:19,758 --> 00:19:21,862
I thought I would be
crying emotionally,

388
00:19:21,862 --> 00:19:24,517
seeing Ed in his outfit

389
00:19:24,517 --> 00:19:26,103
as I'm walking down the aisle.

390
00:19:26,103 --> 00:19:27,068
But...

391
00:19:27,068 --> 00:19:28,758
now I'm crying,

392
00:19:28,758 --> 00:19:30,206
as my daughter is leaving.

393
00:19:30,206 --> 00:19:31,896
-Bye, baby. I love you.
-[Ryleigh] Bye.

394
00:19:31,896 --> 00:19:32,931
[Liz blows a kiss]

395
00:19:33,172 --> 00:19:34,310
[sniffles]

396
00:19:34,310 --> 00:19:35,482
[Liz softly blows a kiss]

397
00:19:38,793 --> 00:19:41,344
There are moments where I wish
I had never met Ed.

398
00:19:42,586 --> 00:19:44,413
If I didn't give
my time to Ed,

399
00:19:44,413 --> 00:19:45,896
maybe I could have met someone

400
00:19:45,896 --> 00:19:47,758
who would have
treated me better.

401
00:19:47,758 --> 00:19:49,068
[soft music playing]

402
00:19:49,068 --> 00:19:54,379
♪ 'Cause it all breaks down

403
00:20:03,310 --> 00:20:05,275
[cell phone dialing]

404
00:20:06,310 --> 00:20:07,758
[Patty speaking over phone]

405
00:20:07,758 --> 00:20:08,827
Good morning.

406
00:20:10,931 --> 00:20:12,620
[softly] Ugh...

407
00:20:12,620 --> 00:20:14,551
I feel a little sick
to my stomach.

408
00:20:19,310 --> 00:20:21,862
Yeah, she's...
She's on her first flight.

409
00:20:24,896 --> 00:20:25,862
No.

410
00:20:26,862 --> 00:20:27,862
[Patty over phone]

411
00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:29,000
No.

412
00:20:34,896 --> 00:20:36,000
[Liz] This is not
what I thought

413
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:37,551
it was gonna be a month ago.

414
00:20:40,862 --> 00:20:42,172
[sad music playing]

415
00:20:44,586 --> 00:20:46,896
[crying] But everybody knew
this was gonna happen,

416
00:20:46,896 --> 00:20:49,000
and I had faith
that it wasn't.

417
00:20:50,172 --> 00:20:51,241
[sniffles]

418
00:20:54,103 --> 00:20:55,068
[Patty over phone]

419
00:20:58,931 --> 00:21:01,172
It was so different
after therapy.

420
00:21:01,172 --> 00:21:02,862
It was completely different.

421
00:21:03,586 --> 00:21:04,551
[Patty over phone]

422
00:21:13,482 --> 00:21:14,620
[Liz] Mom, it's embarrassing.

423
00:21:14,620 --> 00:21:16,448
Mom, it's so embarrassing.

424
00:21:33,275 --> 00:21:34,241
[Patty over phone]

425
00:21:37,310 --> 00:21:38,965
[sniffles]

426
00:21:40,275 --> 00:21:42,413
[Liz] I feel like
the worst mom ever.

427
00:21:42,413 --> 00:21:44,551
I don't even have a home
for my kid right now.

428
00:21:46,758 --> 00:21:48,172
[Patty over phone]

429
00:21:54,931 --> 00:21:56,620
[Liz] I feel
completely embarrassed

430
00:21:56,620 --> 00:21:58,241
believing that we can make it.

431
00:21:59,172 --> 00:22:00,689
I am left with nothing.

432
00:22:01,379 --> 00:22:03,103
I don't have an apartment.

433
00:22:03,103 --> 00:22:04,965
I don't have a job. [sighs]

434
00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:07,655
And now that Ryleigh is gone.

435
00:22:08,172 --> 00:22:09,689
I am here alone.

436
00:22:13,517 --> 00:22:16,931
Out of all the selfish,
terrible things

437
00:22:16,931 --> 00:22:20,344
that Ed has ever done,
this is by far the worse.

438
00:22:21,482 --> 00:22:23,000
Here I am crying over him.

439
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:26,068
And he...
he could care less about me.

440
00:22:28,103 --> 00:22:32,275
And I honestly have no idea
what I'm gonna do next.

441
00:22:32,275 --> 00:22:35,068
But at some point, I do need
to go back to Arkansas.

442
00:22:42,586 --> 00:22:44,206
I'm not gonna
text her Happy birthday.

443
00:22:44,206 --> 00:22:45,724
I'll say it in person.

444
00:22:45,724 --> 00:22:48,517
Well, I don't really think
she knows that you're
staying with us, either.

445
00:22:48,517 --> 00:22:51,137
Oh, that's gonna be marvelous.

446
00:22:52,275 --> 00:22:54,896
I didn't tell Thais
because it's her birthday

447
00:22:54,896 --> 00:22:56,517
and she's already
upset with me.

448
00:22:56,517 --> 00:22:59,310
So I'm hoping tonight
she'll kind of be
in a better mood

449
00:22:59,310 --> 00:23:01,655
and you know,
it's only up from here.

450
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:05,448
[Ashley] Manuel said...

451
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:09,758
Holy moly!

452
00:23:09,758 --> 00:23:12,482
Recently, Manuel has been
asking for more money

453
00:23:12,482 --> 00:23:14,586
but refuses to tell me why.

454
00:23:14,586 --> 00:23:17,758
It makes me feel like
there's something
I don't know.

455
00:23:23,482 --> 00:23:25,448
[amusing instrumental
music playing]

456
00:23:35,965 --> 00:23:38,172
-[Patrick] John. Good man.
-[John] What's up?

457
00:23:38,172 --> 00:23:40,275
Half man, half machine.

458
00:23:40,275 --> 00:23:41,862
-[Patrick] You made it.
-I made it.

459
00:23:46,241 --> 00:23:47,344
How's your leg doing?

460
00:23:47,344 --> 00:23:49,896
My legs doing good.
Got a little sore flying.

461
00:23:49,896 --> 00:23:51,000
Yeah, I bet.

462
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:51,965
[Patrick sighs]

463
00:23:53,586 --> 00:23:55,482
It's Thais's birthday,
and I feel bad

464
00:23:55,482 --> 00:23:56,896
that we just got into a fight

465
00:23:56,896 --> 00:23:59,896
because I didn't ask
for the blessing from her dad.

466
00:23:59,896 --> 00:24:02,068
But I'm gonna
give her some space.

467
00:24:02,068 --> 00:24:03,379
John just came into town,

468
00:24:03,379 --> 00:24:05,241
and so I'm gonna meet up
with him and get a drink.

469
00:24:06,172 --> 00:24:07,344
Well, we got cheers.

470
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:09,689
-Cheers!
-Cheers! It's mostly foam.

471
00:24:09,689 --> 00:24:10,586
Welcome to Brazil!

472
00:24:10,586 --> 00:24:11,655
Thank you!

473
00:24:12,482 --> 00:24:13,551
[Patrick] My brother is here

474
00:24:13,551 --> 00:24:15,448
because he wants to be
a part of Aleesi's party.

475
00:24:15,448 --> 00:24:18,275
But in reality it's Brazil.

476
00:24:18,275 --> 00:24:20,000
Like he loves coming to Brazil

477
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:22,896
'cause he wants to relax,
have a good time.

478
00:24:22,896 --> 00:24:24,724
And I don't blame him.

479
00:24:25,586 --> 00:24:26,482
I mean, it's Thais's birthday.

480
00:24:26,482 --> 00:24:27,724
Did you wish her
"Happy birthday"?

481
00:24:28,586 --> 00:24:30,137
Oh, yeah?

482
00:24:30,137 --> 00:24:31,551
It is.

483
00:24:31,551 --> 00:24:33,241
I'm sure she's gonna be
happy to see me.

484
00:24:33,241 --> 00:24:34,758
You better send her a message.

485
00:24:34,758 --> 00:24:36,379
I'm not gonna text her,
"Happy birthday".

486
00:24:36,379 --> 00:24:37,896
I'll say it in person.

487
00:24:37,896 --> 00:24:39,000
Well, she--
I don't really think she knows

488
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:40,413
that you're staying
with us either.

489
00:24:42,241 --> 00:24:43,241
You didn't tell her?

490
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:45,758
I kind of skated that one by.

491
00:24:45,758 --> 00:24:48,344
Oh, that's gonna be marvelous.

492
00:24:49,793 --> 00:24:52,275
[Patrick] John doesn't make
my life any easier.

493
00:24:52,275 --> 00:24:53,689
He's always
trying to save money,

494
00:24:53,689 --> 00:24:55,655
so he didn't make
a hotel reservation

495
00:24:55,655 --> 00:24:57,965
and he just assumed
that he could stay with us.

496
00:24:57,965 --> 00:25:00,482
I didn't tell Thais
because it's her birthday

497
00:25:00,482 --> 00:25:02,344
and she's already
upset with me.

498
00:25:02,344 --> 00:25:05,000
So I'm hoping tonight
she'll kind of be
in a better mood

499
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,344
and you know,
it's only up from here.

500
00:25:08,965 --> 00:25:11,758
I got to see Carlos today,
Thais's dad.

501
00:25:12,655 --> 00:25:14,000
Yeah? How did that go?

502
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:16,896
Well, I feel like
we both got to, like,
hear each other out.

503
00:25:16,896 --> 00:25:20,137
But towards the end,
it got a little weird
when we started talking.

504
00:25:20,137 --> 00:25:23,758
So, like, I almost felt like
he wanted me like,
to kiss the ring.

505
00:25:23,758 --> 00:25:25,965
-The way he was like--
-[laughs] What are you
talking about "Kiss the ring"?

506
00:25:25,965 --> 00:25:28,000
-Like, he's the Godfather?
-Yeah.

507
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:29,586
Like, that's the way it felt.

508
00:25:29,586 --> 00:25:32,655
The way it was like,
asking me to ask
for his permission.

509
00:25:32,655 --> 00:25:34,793
-You already married her.
-Yeah.

510
00:25:34,793 --> 00:25:37,103
It's more of like
a cultural like thing.

511
00:25:37,103 --> 00:25:38,655
Like a sign of respect.

512
00:25:39,137 --> 00:25:41,034
What did you do?

513
00:25:41,034 --> 00:25:43,379
I said, "What I am here for
is to get your respect".

514
00:25:43,379 --> 00:25:44,896
Okay.

515
00:25:44,896 --> 00:25:46,482
But Thais didn't really
like the fact that, like,

516
00:25:46,482 --> 00:25:48,586
I wasn't like, you know--

517
00:25:48,586 --> 00:25:51,310
Oh, she wanted you to, like,
just bow down?

518
00:25:53,482 --> 00:25:55,655
We don't kiss the rings
in this family.

519
00:25:55,862 --> 00:25:56,862
All right?

520
00:25:58,379 --> 00:25:59,965
[John] I may be
in your country, Sir,

521
00:25:59,965 --> 00:26:01,413
but you're not the Godfather.

522
00:26:02,241 --> 00:26:03,344
Hey!

523
00:26:03,586 --> 00:26:04,896
There we go!

524
00:26:04,896 --> 00:26:06,448
They need to
respect each other.

525
00:26:07,172 --> 00:26:09,103
It's a give and take,
you know.

526
00:26:09,103 --> 00:26:10,862
[John] Now Johnny's happy.

527
00:26:10,862 --> 00:26:13,655
So this is cachaca.
There's a little bit
of a bite.

528
00:26:14,172 --> 00:26:15,241
[John] That's what I like.

529
00:26:15,241 --> 00:26:16,172
Go ahead. Here you go.

530
00:26:16,172 --> 00:26:17,241
Put it over there.

531
00:26:20,793 --> 00:26:21,758
Ahh!

532
00:26:22,896 --> 00:26:24,862
Pretty good!

533
00:26:24,862 --> 00:26:26,482
I'm gonna meet
good old Carlos.

534
00:26:26,482 --> 00:26:28,000
Yeah. You're gonna
get to meet everyone.

535
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:29,793
I think everyone's
gonna get to meet
each other eventually.

536
00:26:29,793 --> 00:26:32,068
Oh well, It should--
It should be fun.

537
00:26:32,068 --> 00:26:33,551
Yeah, Dad stopped by
last night.

538
00:26:33,551 --> 00:26:35,172
So he got to meet Aleesi.

539
00:26:35,172 --> 00:26:37,482
-How did that go?
-Oh, it was great!

540
00:26:37,482 --> 00:26:40,689
I mean, he came
with a big pail of paint

541
00:26:40,689 --> 00:26:43,551
'cause like, he wants me
to paint the apartment
with him.

542
00:26:44,379 --> 00:26:45,965
He wants you to paint
the apartment with him?

543
00:26:45,965 --> 00:26:47,931
A little father-son bonding?

544
00:26:50,793 --> 00:26:52,379
Yeah, so Thais
was a little upset

545
00:26:52,379 --> 00:26:53,689
because, like, he got, like,

546
00:26:53,689 --> 00:26:55,172
when he showed up
he just had

547
00:26:55,172 --> 00:26:58,137
like a list of things
that he wanted to get fixed
in the apartment.

548
00:26:58,137 --> 00:27:00,379
She thinks like,
you know, he asks--

549
00:27:00,379 --> 00:27:02,000
Asks a lot from me.

550
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:03,448
Well, I mean,
you are his income

551
00:27:03,448 --> 00:27:05,034
and his bread and butter,
aren't you?

552
00:27:07,172 --> 00:27:08,586
I guess.

553
00:27:08,586 --> 00:27:10,448
[laughs sarcastically]

554
00:27:10,448 --> 00:27:11,896
Why such an evil laugh?

555
00:27:11,896 --> 00:27:14,965
First time in my life,
I think I agree with Thais.

556
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:19,551
[John speaking]

557
00:27:28,103 --> 00:27:30,241
But I'm gonna be staying
with Pat and Thais

558
00:27:30,241 --> 00:27:31,793
and you know,
she doesn't know yet.

559
00:27:31,793 --> 00:27:33,655
So maybe I can play nice

560
00:27:33,655 --> 00:27:35,896
and, like, be like,
on her side.

561
00:27:35,896 --> 00:27:38,586
And then that will help
the transition.

562
00:27:38,586 --> 00:27:39,758
Maybe!

563
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:42,551
I'm just looking out for you.

564
00:27:42,965 --> 00:27:44,241
He might be using you.

565
00:27:44,965 --> 00:27:47,000
I mean,
he's not the best father.

566
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:48,344
Let's be honest.

567
00:27:48,344 --> 00:27:49,689
-Neither is mine.
-Yeah, he wasn't.

568
00:27:49,689 --> 00:27:50,586
Neither is mine.

569
00:27:50,586 --> 00:27:51,586
No, it's not--

570
00:27:51,586 --> 00:27:53,275
But I don't talk to my father.

571
00:27:53,275 --> 00:27:55,275
Bro, your dad
wasn't in your life at all.

572
00:27:55,275 --> 00:27:57,448
Oh, he took me
to some baseball games.

573
00:27:57,448 --> 00:27:59,241
Did he ever take you
to baseball games?

574
00:27:59,241 --> 00:28:00,655
No. So shut up.

575
00:28:00,655 --> 00:28:02,482
No, he didn't take me
to baseball games,

576
00:28:02,482 --> 00:28:04,103
but like I lived with him.

577
00:28:04,103 --> 00:28:06,103
I mean, it was definitely
harder on you
than it was on me.

578
00:28:08,448 --> 00:28:10,517
Like I don't hold anything
against anyone forever.

579
00:28:11,379 --> 00:28:13,896
Well, you never held
anything against him ever.

580
00:28:13,896 --> 00:28:15,379
Yeah, 'cause he's my family.
He's my dad.

581
00:28:15,379 --> 00:28:16,448
Well, yeah, well,

582
00:28:16,448 --> 00:28:18,000
you know,
sometimes family sucks.

583
00:28:18,482 --> 00:28:19,448
[dramatic music playing]

584
00:28:19,896 --> 00:28:20,862
Right?

585
00:28:21,482 --> 00:28:23,379
I don't judge my dad for,

586
00:28:23,379 --> 00:28:24,965
you know,
what he's done in the past

587
00:28:24,965 --> 00:28:26,482
and you know
the mistakes he's made.

588
00:28:26,482 --> 00:28:30,551
I just want to be with my dad.
Like, I love my dad.

589
00:28:33,172 --> 00:28:37,344
But at the same time, too,
like John's making me realize
that the issues

590
00:28:37,344 --> 00:28:40,551
between Thais and my dad
are bigger than I thought.

591
00:28:40,551 --> 00:28:43,689
And that just adds
even more stress
because I'm still trying

592
00:28:43,689 --> 00:28:46,344
to deal with Carlos
and figure out that situation.

593
00:28:47,689 --> 00:28:49,379
I just want this
to be a smooth trip,

594
00:28:49,379 --> 00:28:51,172
and as much as
I want to hang out with John

595
00:28:51,172 --> 00:28:52,586
and spend time with him,

596
00:28:52,586 --> 00:28:55,448
the last thing I want
is for him to
make things worse.

597
00:28:56,551 --> 00:28:58,068
[John]
But anyways, you know,

598
00:28:58,068 --> 00:28:59,068
I'm glad I'm here.

599
00:28:59,862 --> 00:29:01,275
I can't believe
it's her birthday.

600
00:29:01,275 --> 00:29:03,482
I didn't-- I forgot.

601
00:29:03,482 --> 00:29:06,655
And now we have to
go back there and, you know,
give her birthday present.

602
00:29:06,655 --> 00:29:08,344
You staying at the apartment
with us.

603
00:29:15,482 --> 00:29:18,034
♪ I hope
you're ready for action ♪

604
00:29:19,275 --> 00:29:22,448
♪ Come back to
The girl you know ♪

605
00:29:24,689 --> 00:29:26,172
-Hi, cousin!
-[Jasmine] Hi.

606
00:29:26,172 --> 00:29:27,379
-How are you?
-I'm good.

607
00:29:27,379 --> 00:29:28,655
How are you?

608
00:29:28,655 --> 00:29:29,724
[Ashley] Fine.

609
00:29:30,655 --> 00:29:32,068
Well, you look stressed out.

610
00:29:33,793 --> 00:29:35,103
New York was a lot.

611
00:29:37,793 --> 00:29:41,620
♪ I hope you're ready for,
ready for, ready for action ♪

612
00:29:43,379 --> 00:29:45,482
-How are you feeling?
-Stressed,

613
00:29:45,482 --> 00:29:47,034
-a little overwhelmed,
-Okay.

614
00:29:47,034 --> 00:29:49,758
a bit sad, kind of confused.

615
00:29:51,379 --> 00:29:52,758
Oh jeez. Okay.

616
00:29:52,758 --> 00:29:55,344
I need my witch potion.

617
00:29:58,896 --> 00:30:01,793
-Whatever. I need
all of the juice.
-Okay.

618
00:30:01,793 --> 00:30:04,586
-Okay, so I have the magnesium
for your stress.
-Please.

619
00:30:04,586 --> 00:30:06,448
-Energy. I have B-12--
-I need energy.

620
00:30:06,448 --> 00:30:09,068
-Yes.
-I feel like I aged
like ten years out there.

621
00:30:09,068 --> 00:30:11,379
Oh Jesus have mercy.
Okay.

622
00:30:11,379 --> 00:30:13,586
Manuel and I came back
from New York a few days ago,

623
00:30:13,586 --> 00:30:15,793
and the trip
was really intense.

624
00:30:15,793 --> 00:30:19,172
And things have
really not gotten better
since then, either.

625
00:30:19,172 --> 00:30:22,000
So today I'm going to get
my witch potion, aka

626
00:30:23,586 --> 00:30:26,172
I always feel better
and refreshed

627
00:30:26,172 --> 00:30:28,241
after my Ivy treatments.

628
00:30:28,241 --> 00:30:33,655
I mean, it can be thought of
as like a chakra realignment
for the body.

629
00:30:34,689 --> 00:30:36,241
[Jasmine speaking]

630
00:30:41,896 --> 00:30:43,482
Let me simmer.

631
00:30:43,482 --> 00:30:45,586
[inhales and exhales]

632
00:30:45,586 --> 00:30:47,689
Go ahead, channel it.

633
00:30:47,689 --> 00:30:50,379
-[Ashley] I don't even know
where to begin, girl.
-[Jasmine] Mmm.

634
00:30:50,379 --> 00:30:52,344
Let's just like
cut to the chase.

635
00:30:53,379 --> 00:30:56,000
Manuel's actions
trigger a lot,

636
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:59,862
and he acts like his actions
are no big deal.

637
00:30:59,862 --> 00:31:03,275
The other day, he did, like,
kind of come into the room

638
00:31:03,275 --> 00:31:04,862
a little forcefully
talking about

639
00:31:08,103 --> 00:31:09,310
And then just leaves.

640
00:31:11,275 --> 00:31:12,344
That's odd.

641
00:31:13,379 --> 00:31:14,655
Exactly!

642
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:16,379
Holy moly!

643
00:31:16,379 --> 00:31:18,551
And it's like, "Who needs it?

644
00:31:18,551 --> 00:31:20,000
Why are we sending it?

645
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:22,241
-How much do we need to send?"
-Yeah, right.

646
00:31:23,137 --> 00:31:24,068
What did you say?

647
00:31:25,172 --> 00:31:28,103
I did put a $1000
in his banking account

648
00:31:28,103 --> 00:31:32,103
for him and honestly,
for the family.

649
00:31:34,137 --> 00:31:35,448
[Jasmine speaking]

650
00:31:35,448 --> 00:31:36,517
I don't know!

651
00:31:37,275 --> 00:31:39,482
How much money
have you sent back?

652
00:31:39,482 --> 00:31:41,620
-I mean, since he's been here?
-Yeah.

653
00:31:43,344 --> 00:31:44,344
Thousands...

654
00:31:44,344 --> 00:31:45,310
Thousands?

655
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:50,137
[Ashley] Manuel and I
have agreed

656
00:31:50,137 --> 00:31:54,172
to send back about
$200 a month to Ecuador.

657
00:31:54,172 --> 00:31:55,482
That's something
that we can afford

658
00:31:55,482 --> 00:31:57,068
without it taking away
from the things

659
00:31:57,068 --> 00:31:59,068
that we need here in America.

660
00:31:59,068 --> 00:32:02,275
And $200 goes
a long way there.

661
00:32:02,275 --> 00:32:06,379
But recently,
Manuel has been asking
for more money for his family.

662
00:32:06,379 --> 00:32:08,689
At least he's claiming
it's for his family.

663
00:32:08,689 --> 00:32:10,241
But like,
how do I really know?

664
00:32:10,241 --> 00:32:14,793
'Cause Manuel has
a long history
of leaving out details,

665
00:32:14,793 --> 00:32:17,862
and so it makes me
feel like there's something
I don't know.

666
00:32:18,896 --> 00:32:20,551
This whole situation
with secrecy

667
00:32:20,551 --> 00:32:22,241
and me not knowing
what's going on

668
00:32:22,241 --> 00:32:24,068
is just super triggering
in so many ways,

669
00:32:24,068 --> 00:32:26,551
because how I've been hurt
in the past, right?

670
00:32:27,275 --> 00:32:30,241
But did you explain this
to Manuel?

671
00:32:30,241 --> 00:32:31,586
I mean, I definitely told him

672
00:32:31,586 --> 00:32:33,517
about my biological father.

673
00:32:36,896 --> 00:32:39,000
But Manuel
might not be understanding

674
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,137
how some of the things
that he thinks are like

675
00:32:41,137 --> 00:32:45,000
-no big deal
could be triggering for me.
-Right.

676
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,137
My biological father
wasn't really in my life,

677
00:32:47,137 --> 00:32:48,793
kind of in and out
sort of situation,

678
00:32:48,793 --> 00:32:51,862
and really there's like
a lot of pain there.

679
00:32:52,586 --> 00:32:53,551
[Ashley sighs]

680
00:32:54,689 --> 00:32:56,137
[sniffles]

681
00:32:57,655 --> 00:33:00,172
My mom had me
when she was 16

682
00:33:00,172 --> 00:33:01,793
by my biological dad.

683
00:33:01,793 --> 00:33:05,172
They immediately separated,
and I didn't find out

684
00:33:05,172 --> 00:33:08,137
that he was my father
until later in life.

685
00:33:08,137 --> 00:33:11,034
And then he committed suicide.

686
00:33:12,758 --> 00:33:17,000
What made me feel abandoned
was I've never had

687
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:21,896
a chance to cultivate
a relationship with him.

688
00:33:21,896 --> 00:33:27,241
And so, yeah, I am hyper aware
and hypersensitive to secrets

689
00:33:27,241 --> 00:33:29,896
and transparency because

690
00:33:29,896 --> 00:33:35,103
things weren't very
transparent to me,
you know, growing up.

691
00:33:35,103 --> 00:33:37,448
And so when Manuel
comes in here

692
00:33:37,448 --> 00:33:39,551
triggering
both of those wounds,

693
00:33:39,551 --> 00:33:42,379
it doesn't make me
feel safe with him.

694
00:33:42,379 --> 00:33:47,000
I've been asking Manuel
to be fully honest
and transparent for years.

695
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:50,172
And part of me was hoping
that it would get better

696
00:33:50,172 --> 00:33:52,241
as we went through
the marriage.

697
00:33:52,896 --> 00:33:53,793
But it's not.

698
00:33:53,793 --> 00:33:56,448
So, where do we go from here?

699
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:58,034
I don't know.

700
00:33:59,689 --> 00:34:00,586
Jesus have mercy.

701
00:34:00,586 --> 00:34:02,448
I know.

702
00:34:02,448 --> 00:34:05,586
I think there's
a pattern of him
not telling you things.

703
00:34:05,586 --> 00:34:06,827
There is a pattern.

704
00:34:07,896 --> 00:34:09,793
-Like, this dishonesty...
-The dishonesty.

705
00:34:09,793 --> 00:34:12,757
-Secrecy and all of that
takes you back to...
-The secrecy...

706
00:34:12,757 --> 00:34:14,310
[intense music playing]

707
00:34:18,344 --> 00:34:20,793
I've known Ashley and Manuel
for a long time.

708
00:34:20,793 --> 00:34:22,275
I love her to death,

709
00:34:22,275 --> 00:34:26,379
and I just want to see
her relationship succeed.

710
00:34:26,379 --> 00:34:29,482
After hearing and seeing
everything that's going on,

711
00:34:29,482 --> 00:34:32,655
if I was in Ashley's shoes,
I think I would question

712
00:34:32,655 --> 00:34:34,862
whether or not I should
stay in the marriage.

713
00:34:35,896 --> 00:34:38,688
I mean, I hope they can work
through their trust issues,

714
00:34:38,688 --> 00:34:42,172
but I think they both
have to want to do that
for it to happen.

715
00:34:44,241 --> 00:34:46,827
Based on everything
you just told me,

716
00:34:48,103 --> 00:34:50,000
you probably
should look into a postnup.

717
00:34:51,482 --> 00:34:54,103
His very secretive
around his money.

718
00:34:54,103 --> 00:34:55,896
You gave him a $1000.

719
00:34:55,896 --> 00:34:57,655
Where is that $1000?

720
00:34:58,896 --> 00:35:03,068
What if he's just
pocketing this money to do
God knows what?

721
00:35:03,965 --> 00:35:05,896
I don't-- I also like,
don't want him

722
00:35:05,896 --> 00:35:09,103
to get even more distant
because of it.

723
00:35:14,482 --> 00:35:15,448
Yeah.

724
00:35:17,275 --> 00:35:19,172
If this is love,

725
00:35:19,172 --> 00:35:21,758
then you asking for a postnup
should not be an issue.

726
00:35:25,275 --> 00:35:26,758
-Right?
-Yeah.

727
00:35:29,034 --> 00:35:32,103
[Ashley] At this moment,
Jasmine is making
a lot of sense.

728
00:35:32,103 --> 00:35:34,482
He abandoned me in New York.

729
00:35:34,482 --> 00:35:38,482
He is still keeping things
close to the cuff.

730
00:35:38,482 --> 00:35:41,000
And he's still being
secretive about money.

731
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:42,896
So I do think
getting a postnup

732
00:35:42,896 --> 00:35:45,103
is a step
in the right direction.

733
00:35:45,103 --> 00:35:48,000
I have not a clue
how Manuel is going to react,

734
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,551
but I need to stop
pussyfooting around
his feelings

735
00:35:51,551 --> 00:35:53,862
and protect my life
and make sure that

736
00:35:53,862 --> 00:35:55,517
what I've built
doesn't fall apart.

737
00:35:57,793 --> 00:36:00,482
-Okay, I have glossed
over red flags in the past.
-Yeah, exactly.

738
00:36:00,482 --> 00:36:03,137
-And I don't want
a gloss over red flags here.
-No.

739
00:36:06,689 --> 00:36:07,965
[Alexei] Go ahead, buddy.

740
00:36:07,965 --> 00:36:08,965
[boy speaking]

741
00:36:10,379 --> 00:36:11,793
[crying] Hi, baby.

742
00:36:11,793 --> 00:36:13,034
Thank you!

743
00:36:13,034 --> 00:36:14,896
Thank you. Where's my kiss?

744
00:36:14,896 --> 00:36:16,034
I told them to be careful.

745
00:36:16,034 --> 00:36:17,482
So they're super careful.

746
00:36:17,482 --> 00:36:19,275
Loren is still
in a lot of pain.

747
00:36:19,275 --> 00:36:21,689
And not only that
she can't pick them up,

748
00:36:21,689 --> 00:36:23,827
she can barely
do anything with them.

749
00:36:28,896 --> 00:36:29,862
♪ Come and close my eyes

750
00:36:29,862 --> 00:36:31,689
♪ Because I don't enjoy
the view ♪

751
00:36:31,689 --> 00:36:35,862
♪ So I sent my resignation
and I said with a kiss ♪

752
00:36:38,379 --> 00:36:40,034
[Alexei] Okay, hold on!

753
00:36:41,068 --> 00:36:43,241
Okay, okay, okay, okay.

754
00:36:44,586 --> 00:36:45,620
Got it.

755
00:36:46,551 --> 00:36:47,655
Okay.

756
00:36:47,655 --> 00:36:49,000
Leave this here for now.

757
00:36:49,586 --> 00:36:50,896
[Loren speaking]

758
00:36:50,896 --> 00:36:53,793
♪ I've told you once
and I'll tell you again ♪

759
00:36:53,793 --> 00:36:56,586
♪ That I am really not
the type to play ♪

760
00:36:56,586 --> 00:36:58,000
♪ 'Cause this isn't a game

761
00:36:58,000 --> 00:36:58,965
[Alexei sighs]

762
00:37:02,068 --> 00:37:04,172
I spent the last three days
in a hotel

763
00:37:04,172 --> 00:37:05,482
taking care of Loren,

764
00:37:05,482 --> 00:37:09,241
and today we're finally
going home to see our kids.

765
00:37:09,241 --> 00:37:11,758
But Loren is still
in a lot of pain,

766
00:37:11,758 --> 00:37:15,448
so I'm a little nervous
trying to start real life.

767
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:19,689
I'll just walk you
all the way upstairs

768
00:37:19,689 --> 00:37:22,482
with everything,
and then I'll go
park the car in the spot.

769
00:37:22,482 --> 00:37:26,172
Today is Rosh Hashanah,
which is the Jewish New Year.

770
00:37:26,172 --> 00:37:28,793
So I wanted to invite
Loren's parents

771
00:37:28,793 --> 00:37:31,758
and for us to have
a nice family dinner.

772
00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:35,689
Even though it might be
a lot for Loren,

773
00:37:35,689 --> 00:37:38,379
I think it's important
to teach the kids

774
00:37:38,379 --> 00:37:41,241
about Israel
and about traditions.

775
00:37:41,241 --> 00:37:45,000
And it might even
take her mind off
the pain for a second.

776
00:37:53,172 --> 00:37:54,344
Hey, Margie!

777
00:37:54,344 --> 00:37:56,034
-Hello!
-[Alexei] Hey!

778
00:37:59,586 --> 00:38:00,482
We made it.

779
00:38:00,482 --> 00:38:01,827
-[Marlene] Wow!
-Hey!

780
00:38:03,655 --> 00:38:05,482
I'm afraid
to touch you. [laughs]

781
00:38:05,482 --> 00:38:06,758
[Loren] It's okay.

782
00:38:07,034 --> 00:38:08,068
[Alexei] Yeah.

783
00:38:08,551 --> 00:38:10,344
-Hi.
-Hi.

784
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:11,931
[kissing]

785
00:38:12,379 --> 00:38:13,413
How are you?

786
00:38:14,103 --> 00:38:15,137
I've been better.

787
00:38:16,379 --> 00:38:18,034
But I have no chins.

788
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:20,896
Hmm.
I didn't notice them before,

789
00:38:20,896 --> 00:38:22,448
so it doesn't matter.
[laughs]

790
00:38:27,275 --> 00:38:29,344
Let me put you--
Try to put you on the couch.

791
00:38:29,344 --> 00:38:30,344
I'm hungry.

792
00:38:31,448 --> 00:38:32,862
[soft music playing]

793
00:38:35,137 --> 00:38:36,241
[Loren sighs] Ah!

794
00:38:36,241 --> 00:38:38,034
[Alexei] A pillow
behind your back like this?

795
00:38:38,034 --> 00:38:39,068
[Loren] Mmm-hmm.

796
00:38:41,172 --> 00:38:42,793
All right. You wanna
start with the kitchen

797
00:38:42,793 --> 00:38:44,000
-and get rid of some stuff,
-[Marlene] Okay.

798
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:46,517
-With the fridge, I mean.
-[Marlene] Perfect.

799
00:38:47,172 --> 00:38:50,448
[Alexei] Wings, old chicken.

800
00:38:55,103 --> 00:38:57,000
-[Alexei] What are
all these things?
-I have no idea.

801
00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:59,172
I hate sitting here
and not helping.

802
00:38:59,172 --> 00:39:01,586
Like I know
where everything is,

803
00:39:01,586 --> 00:39:03,172
I want to do everything,

804
00:39:03,172 --> 00:39:06,379
I can't and I feel really bad
about it.

805
00:39:06,379 --> 00:39:10,275
Because I know this was
something I elected to do.

806
00:39:10,275 --> 00:39:12,482
[Marlene] And this can go.
This I'm sure is a little--

807
00:39:12,482 --> 00:39:13,965
Cookies, no.
Leave me the cookies.

808
00:39:13,965 --> 00:39:15,275
-[Marlene] Wait.
I'll put it in a bag.
-[Alexei] Yeah.

809
00:39:15,275 --> 00:39:17,586
-You don't need the whole box.
-Yeah.

810
00:39:17,586 --> 00:39:20,965
[Loren] I'm so grateful
how Alex has stepped up.

811
00:39:21,793 --> 00:39:24,896
Having Alex be so supportive,
I think that,

812
00:39:24,896 --> 00:39:27,448
that's what's gonna keep me
plugging along

813
00:39:27,448 --> 00:39:29,137
and like getting through
all of this.

814
00:39:29,137 --> 00:39:30,206
[clears throat]

815
00:39:30,206 --> 00:39:32,068
All right, that's it.
I'm going to get the kids.

816
00:39:34,482 --> 00:39:35,448
[Loren] Okay.

817
00:39:38,379 --> 00:39:39,344
Mmm.

818
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:42,655
[soft music playing]

819
00:39:49,965 --> 00:39:51,448
Okay. So remember, boys,

820
00:39:51,448 --> 00:39:54,689
when we come home,
Mama can only sit.

821
00:39:54,689 --> 00:39:56,655
Don't jump on her
and don't pull on her.

822
00:39:56,655 --> 00:40:00,034
She has all kinds of bandages.

823
00:40:00,275 --> 00:40:01,310
Okay, Ashi?

824
00:40:02,275 --> 00:40:03,241
[Alexei] Don't be scared.

825
00:40:04,275 --> 00:40:05,241
[kid speaking]

826
00:40:05,586 --> 00:40:06,482
Very big boo boo.

827
00:40:06,482 --> 00:40:08,241
So I need to be
very careful with Mama.

828
00:40:09,275 --> 00:40:10,448
Like a giraffe?

829
00:40:13,344 --> 00:40:14,655
[Alexei] A big tall giraffe?

830
00:40:14,655 --> 00:40:16,275
-Yeah.
-Mmm. Okay.

831
00:40:16,275 --> 00:40:17,241
[kid speaking]

832
00:40:17,448 --> 00:40:18,448
Okay.

833
00:40:21,034 --> 00:40:22,275
[Alexei] The kids are
very young,

834
00:40:22,275 --> 00:40:24,931
and I don't think
they fully understand
the situation.

835
00:40:25,448 --> 00:40:26,965
Kids are unpredictable.

836
00:40:26,965 --> 00:40:29,931
He can be sitting nice
on the couch one second

837
00:40:32,275 --> 00:40:34,000
And I mean, I am worried

838
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:35,758
they're gonna be
too rough with Loren

839
00:40:42,137 --> 00:40:43,655
Go ahead, buddy.

840
00:40:43,655 --> 00:40:46,137
[chuckles] That's Mama.

841
00:40:46,965 --> 00:40:47,965
There's Mama.

842
00:40:48,586 --> 00:40:50,896
-There's Mama!
-Hi, baby.

843
00:40:50,896 --> 00:40:53,000
[Alexei] There's Mama.
Remember, be careful.

844
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:55,379
Go to mama, give her--
Oh yes. Shoes first. Okay.

845
00:40:55,379 --> 00:40:56,379
Good job!

846
00:40:56,379 --> 00:40:57,862
Hi, baby.

847
00:41:00,172 --> 00:41:02,482
You can go say hi to Mama,
but carefully.

848
00:41:02,482 --> 00:41:03,655
Come give Mommy a hug.

849
00:41:03,655 --> 00:41:04,896
[Alexei] Go give
Mama a hug go.

850
00:41:04,896 --> 00:41:05,862
[kid speaking]

851
00:41:07,482 --> 00:41:08,862
Give a puppy for Mama.

852
00:41:10,103 --> 00:41:11,482
Hi, baby.

853
00:41:11,482 --> 00:41:12,896
Thank you!

854
00:41:12,896 --> 00:41:14,862
Thank you. Where's my kiss?

855
00:41:14,862 --> 00:41:16,000
[Alexei] You can give
Mama a kiss.

856
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:17,275
Yes.

857
00:41:17,275 --> 00:41:18,379
I told them to be careful

858
00:41:18,379 --> 00:41:20,034
-so they're super careful.
-[Loren] Oh come, come.

859
00:41:21,586 --> 00:41:22,896
[kisses] Hi, baby.

860
00:41:22,896 --> 00:41:25,103
Thank you. Hi. [kisses]

861
00:41:25,344 --> 00:41:26,310
Hi!

862
00:41:26,896 --> 00:41:27,827
[crying]

863
00:41:28,551 --> 00:41:29,379
[Loren speaking]

864
00:41:29,379 --> 00:41:31,448
-There's light over there.
-What?

865
00:41:31,448 --> 00:41:34,586
-There's light over there.
-I know there's a light
over there.

866
00:41:34,586 --> 00:41:35,862
[Alexei] I should be careful.

867
00:41:35,862 --> 00:41:37,000
[Loren] It's okay.

868
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:38,275
[kid] I got shark!

869
00:41:38,275 --> 00:41:39,862
-You got a shark?
-Yeah.

870
00:41:40,379 --> 00:41:41,758
Oh my-- I know.

871
00:41:42,172 --> 00:41:44,172
[kid] He shares me.

872
00:41:44,172 --> 00:41:45,448
He shared with you?

873
00:41:47,758 --> 00:41:48,827
-[baby gurgling]
-Hi!

874
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:50,034
I know.

875
00:41:51,379 --> 00:41:53,137
-Did you miss mom?
-[baby crying]

876
00:41:53,137 --> 00:41:54,103
[Loren gasps] Oh.

877
00:41:56,793 --> 00:41:58,551
Hi. I know.

878
00:41:59,793 --> 00:42:02,172
After this major surgery,

879
00:42:02,172 --> 00:42:04,172
Not only that,
she can't pick them up,

880
00:42:04,172 --> 00:42:06,586
she can barely do
anything with them.

881
00:42:06,586 --> 00:42:09,896
And I think not being able
to be a super mom

882
00:42:09,896 --> 00:42:12,482
for six to eight weeks
is really gonna test her

883
00:42:12,482 --> 00:42:14,482
physically, mentally.

884
00:42:14,482 --> 00:42:16,448
So, yeah,
there's a lot of worrying.

885
00:42:17,551 --> 00:42:18,896
[grunts] Okay, one time I do.

886
00:42:18,896 --> 00:42:19,931
One time.

887
00:42:27,275 --> 00:42:29,448
What are your reservations?

888
00:42:29,448 --> 00:42:32,758
It comes back to the...
the property thing.

889
00:42:33,689 --> 00:42:37,275
So you become their property.

890
00:42:37,275 --> 00:42:39,689
If Kobe decides you're going
to live in Cameroon,

891
00:42:39,689 --> 00:42:41,344
you're going to live
in Cameroon.

892
00:42:42,241 --> 00:42:43,655
[Lisa] So how do you feel
about that?

893
00:42:44,758 --> 00:42:45,862
I mean...

894
00:42:47,275 --> 00:42:48,620
[Emily] Um...

895
00:42:53,275 --> 00:42:57,586
So, John, he messed up
his reservation at the hotel.

896
00:42:57,586 --> 00:43:00,137
Do you mind if he stays here
for a couple nights?

897
00:43:01,241 --> 00:43:03,793
[Thais]
With all the things
between Patrick and my dad,

898
00:43:03,793 --> 00:43:06,000
John is the last thing
that I need right now.

899
00:43:15,482 --> 00:43:17,172
[car honks]

900
00:43:23,379 --> 00:43:25,793
To call my daughter,

901
00:43:25,793 --> 00:43:28,689
or any person property,
you know,

902
00:43:28,689 --> 00:43:30,517
it's equating it
to a thing or...

903
00:43:30,896 --> 00:43:31,896
A possession.

904
00:43:31,896 --> 00:43:32,931
Yeah.

905
00:43:40,103 --> 00:43:44,206
[Felix talking]

906
00:43:49,103 --> 00:43:51,344
[Felix talking]

907
00:44:05,103 --> 00:44:09,241
[Kobe] When my cousin, Felix,
said that Emily becomes
our property,

908
00:44:09,241 --> 00:44:12,689
I was like, "Oh my God,"
like...

909
00:44:12,689 --> 00:44:14,586
you didn't just say that.

910
00:44:14,586 --> 00:44:17,482
Because Emily's mom
still isn't getting it.

911
00:44:17,482 --> 00:44:20,275
And I am worried that
she is going to

912
00:44:20,275 --> 00:44:22,275
refuse to set the bride price

913
00:44:22,275 --> 00:44:25,344
just because of
the word "Property."

914
00:44:25,344 --> 00:44:27,344
Which would definitely put
all of our chances

915
00:44:27,344 --> 00:44:31,620
of getting approval
for our wedding
in big jeopardy.

916
00:44:33,034 --> 00:44:36,275
So you become their property.

917
00:44:36,275 --> 00:44:37,310
[Emily] Hmm-hmm.

918
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:39,241
How do you feel about that?

919
00:44:40,551 --> 00:44:41,620
I mean,

920
00:44:42,896 --> 00:44:43,965
[Emily] Umm...

921
00:44:47,448 --> 00:44:49,275
I mean, if it's tradition,
I mean,

922
00:44:49,275 --> 00:44:51,103
I'm marrying
a Cameroonian man.

923
00:44:51,103 --> 00:44:52,413
[Lisa] Are you kidding?

924
00:44:53,758 --> 00:44:56,896
I mean,
what are your reservations?

925
00:44:56,896 --> 00:45:00,275
It comes back to the...
the property thing.

926
00:45:00,275 --> 00:45:01,344
Yeah.

927
00:45:03,172 --> 00:45:04,896
[David] It does sting
a little bit.

928
00:45:04,896 --> 00:45:06,586
Doesn't sound right to me.

929
00:45:06,586 --> 00:45:08,931
I get it traditionally,
but I'm just, you know...

930
00:45:13,172 --> 00:45:15,448
It's just in some sense of...

931
00:45:15,448 --> 00:45:18,034
Like, we are responsible
for her.

932
00:45:19,172 --> 00:45:21,172
She belongs to our family.

933
00:45:21,172 --> 00:45:24,310
We will treat her
like we treat our sister.

934
00:45:25,103 --> 00:45:27,413
It's not like we own her,
like...

935
00:45:29,379 --> 00:45:31,931
[David] She has no say...
She has a say.

936
00:45:32,758 --> 00:45:34,241
Of course, she's a grown up.

937
00:45:34,241 --> 00:45:36,137
She has a say
in our relationship.

938
00:45:36,137 --> 00:45:37,379
I like that description
better.

939
00:45:37,379 --> 00:45:38,586
[Kobe] We are responsible
for her.

940
00:45:38,586 --> 00:45:39,655
Okay.

941
00:45:42,793 --> 00:45:44,241
-Okay.
-All right. You're okay
with that?

942
00:45:44,241 --> 00:45:46,482
-That sounds better.
-That sounds much better.

943
00:45:46,482 --> 00:45:50,000
In America,
we fought very hard
for women to have rights.

944
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:50,896
-[Lisa] So...
-Yeah.

945
00:45:50,896 --> 00:45:52,448
We don't want
to give them up now.

946
00:45:52,448 --> 00:45:54,137
[tense music playing]

947
00:45:55,758 --> 00:45:59,172
[Lisa] I think there were
parts of it
that felt very strange.

948
00:45:59,172 --> 00:46:04,137
Like, when Emily's gone,
they'll bury her in Cameroon.

949
00:46:05,172 --> 00:46:08,551
But in the end,
they're going to be
in America.

950
00:46:08,896 --> 00:46:11,379
So, for now,

951
00:46:11,379 --> 00:46:15,103
I want to honor Kobe
and his culture,

952
00:46:15,103 --> 00:46:18,275
and I have to accept
what their wishes are,

953
00:46:18,275 --> 00:46:19,551
in the moment.

954
00:46:21,241 --> 00:46:24,310
So, how do we proceed
from here?

955
00:46:31,172 --> 00:46:32,206
[Lisa] Okay.

956
00:46:32,793 --> 00:46:34,275
We have a list.

957
00:46:34,275 --> 00:46:36,241
But this is our first list,
ever.

958
00:46:39,103 --> 00:46:40,551
[David] It's only one page.

959
00:46:41,862 --> 00:46:43,034
Okay, first thing...

960
00:46:43,034 --> 00:46:45,586
[Kobe] You don't read it.
You give him the list.

961
00:46:45,586 --> 00:46:46,620
[David] Okay.

962
00:46:47,275 --> 00:46:48,793
[David] If you have questions,

963
00:46:48,793 --> 00:46:50,448
-you call me.
-[Felix] Yeah.

964
00:46:53,103 --> 00:46:55,000
[David] I was a little nervous
giving them my list.

965
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:57,793
I wasn't sure
if I had done it right.

966
00:46:57,793 --> 00:47:00,344
And then there was
the bride's price.

967
00:47:01,551 --> 00:47:04,551
You know, I don't know
how much money,

968
00:47:04,551 --> 00:47:06,137
you know, Kobe's parents have,

969
00:47:06,137 --> 00:47:08,448
and I don't want to feel like,
it's like,

970
00:47:08,448 --> 00:47:12,379
I was pressuring them
to come up with something
that they don't have.

971
00:47:12,379 --> 00:47:15,586
So I went in for 1000 francs.

972
00:47:15,586 --> 00:47:19,689
The 1000 francs is probably
worth about $2...

973
00:47:19,689 --> 00:47:21,586
less than $2.

974
00:47:21,586 --> 00:47:23,103
I mean,
anything would have been fine.

975
00:47:23,103 --> 00:47:26,000
It was just more of
a traditional thing for me.

976
00:47:26,896 --> 00:47:28,448
It's negotiable.

977
00:47:28,448 --> 00:47:31,172
There's some of those things
we don't need, maybe,
but we'd like to have.

978
00:47:31,172 --> 00:47:33,000
-But we can work it out.
-[Kobe] Okay.

979
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:35,000
You don't have to explain
yourself to us.

980
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:38,758
Even if there is something,
they see something there
that they disagree with,

981
00:47:38,758 --> 00:47:40,758
they don't say it now.

982
00:47:40,758 --> 00:47:42,310
-[David] Okay.
-[Emily] They don't talk
about it.

983
00:47:43,586 --> 00:47:46,655
Now that my dad officially
has a dowry list,

984
00:47:46,655 --> 00:47:49,275
the only thing left for us
is for me and my family

985
00:47:49,275 --> 00:47:52,758
to go and try and see
how we can get
those things on the list.

986
00:47:52,758 --> 00:47:54,379
And then after that,

987
00:47:54,379 --> 00:47:57,482
we can get married
traditionally.

988
00:47:57,482 --> 00:47:59,448
[David] Thank you
for explaining everything
to us.

989
00:48:00,103 --> 00:48:01,793
We have something for you.

990
00:48:01,793 --> 00:48:04,896
We will bring something out
from the kitchen,
so don't leave.

991
00:48:04,896 --> 00:48:05,896
Oh, wow.

992
00:48:05,896 --> 00:48:08,000
-[Emily] I did make the food.
-Okay.

993
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:11,344
So, I can't wait to hear
what you think about it.

994
00:48:12,586 --> 00:48:14,448
[all laughing]

995
00:48:16,034 --> 00:48:19,448
I mean, I'm very excited
for this seal the deal meal.

996
00:48:19,448 --> 00:48:20,689
But I'm, like, nervous.

997
00:48:20,689 --> 00:48:22,482
I hope your family likes it,

998
00:48:22,482 --> 00:48:24,241
because it's made with love.

999
00:48:24,482 --> 00:48:25,724
[laughing]

1000
00:48:27,586 --> 00:48:28,793
[David] How is it?

1001
00:48:28,793 --> 00:48:30,034
How's her cooking?

1002
00:48:31,103 --> 00:48:32,172
Is it good?

1003
00:48:34,379 --> 00:48:36,034
-Thank you.
-Yes.

1004
00:48:38,379 --> 00:48:40,034
The best eru I ever tasted.

1005
00:48:40,586 --> 00:48:42,241
-[gasps]
-[all laughing]

1006
00:48:54,896 --> 00:48:58,241
Here's a toast to the joining
of both our families.

1007
00:48:59,137 --> 00:49:00,758
-[Emily] Yay!
-[glasses clinking]

1008
00:49:01,482 --> 00:49:03,793
[David] America and Cameroon.

1009
00:49:03,793 --> 00:49:06,275
-[Kobe] Yeah!
-[David] Cheers!

1010
00:49:06,275 --> 00:49:10,655
[Kobe] The overall outcome
of today was the greatest
success ever.

1011
00:49:10,655 --> 00:49:15,103
Because it's a great step,
you know, towards my family

1012
00:49:15,103 --> 00:49:18,241
officially accepting Emily
as my wife.

1013
00:49:19,103 --> 00:49:21,586
-[Lisa] Bye bye.
-[David] Nice to meet you.

1014
00:49:21,586 --> 00:49:24,965
[Kobe] I've always wanted
a situation
where everybody in my life

1015
00:49:24,965 --> 00:49:27,379
can get along
and love each other.

1016
00:49:27,379 --> 00:49:30,793
[Kobe] So, it's like a dream
come true for me

1017
00:49:30,793 --> 00:49:34,275
that this is happening now
with my family.

1018
00:49:34,275 --> 00:49:38,448
But I really wish that
my friends also accept Emily
for who she is

1019
00:49:38,448 --> 00:49:43,482
and, you know, show up
on our wedding and give me
all the support that I need.

1020
00:49:43,482 --> 00:49:47,000
[Kobe] I just can't imagine
a traditional wedding
without my friends.

1021
00:49:47,000 --> 00:49:48,517
[Lisa] Have a safe drive home.

1022
00:49:49,448 --> 00:49:50,862
See you soon.

1023
00:49:54,551 --> 00:49:56,758
[somber music playing]

1024
00:50:03,137 --> 00:50:05,482
All right.
Welcome to Casa G. Mendez.

1025
00:50:05,482 --> 00:50:07,758
[John] Oh, Casa G. Mendez.
Okay.

1026
00:50:14,965 --> 00:50:16,000
All right. This is it.

1027
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:17,000
All right.

1028
00:50:17,586 --> 00:50:18,620
[yelps]

1029
00:50:19,379 --> 00:50:20,344
[Patrick] Coming back
from the bar,

1030
00:50:20,344 --> 00:50:21,689
I feel like I'm walking
on eggshells.

1031
00:50:21,689 --> 00:50:24,379
I wasn't able to resolve
things with Thais' dad earlier

1032
00:50:24,379 --> 00:50:26,103
so she's already upset.

1033
00:50:26,103 --> 00:50:27,689
And now I've got John with me.

1034
00:50:27,689 --> 00:50:30,275
And she doesn't want
to see John
on any regular day,

1035
00:50:30,275 --> 00:50:32,344
but especially not
on her birthday.

1036
00:50:33,172 --> 00:50:34,448
[door creaking]

1037
00:50:34,758 --> 00:50:35,793
Teodoro!

1038
00:50:35,793 --> 00:50:38,172
[John] Hey! What's up,
little guy?

1039
00:50:38,172 --> 00:50:41,448
[Patrick speaking Portuguese]

1040
00:50:41,448 --> 00:50:43,137
♪ Happy birthday...

1041
00:50:43,137 --> 00:50:45,172
[Thais] Thank you.

1042
00:50:45,172 --> 00:50:47,275
♪ To you

1043
00:50:47,275 --> 00:50:48,448
Isn't that a great present?

1044
00:50:48,896 --> 00:50:50,137
John's here.

1045
00:50:50,137 --> 00:50:53,551
I came all the way here
to sing you happy birthday.

1046
00:50:54,586 --> 00:50:56,482
Thank you, John.
Thank you so much.

1047
00:50:56,482 --> 00:50:58,551
You know, you're welcome.
You're welcome.

1048
00:50:58,551 --> 00:51:00,965
[speaking Portuguese]

1049
00:51:00,965 --> 00:51:03,482
-Oh, we were down the street
at the bar.
-Oh, yeah?

1050
00:51:03,482 --> 00:51:05,551
Yeah, just having
a couple of drinks.

1051
00:51:05,551 --> 00:51:08,448
-[Patrick] Just catching up.
-Yeah. Brotherly love.

1052
00:51:08,793 --> 00:51:10,758
[John] You know.

1053
00:51:10,758 --> 00:51:14,137
Today is my birthday,
and I'm already upset.

1054
00:51:14,137 --> 00:51:17,896
And Patrick just come
with John.

1055
00:51:17,896 --> 00:51:19,172
Smelling alcohol.

1056
00:51:19,172 --> 00:51:21,896
Yeah,
because we were celebrating.

1057
00:51:21,896 --> 00:51:24,034
-We did a birthday shot
for you.
-Celebrate what?

1058
00:51:24,034 --> 00:51:25,689
Well, I did a birthday shot
for you.

1059
00:51:25,689 --> 00:51:28,655
I knew you didn't drink,
so I did it for you.

1060
00:51:32,241 --> 00:51:33,551
[Thais] You know,
the baby's sleeping.

1061
00:51:37,793 --> 00:51:39,758
-[Patrick] Yeah,
what do you think?
-[John] It's pretty good.

1062
00:51:42,551 --> 00:51:46,655
So, John,
he messed up
his reservation at the hotel,

1063
00:51:46,655 --> 00:51:48,620
Messed up?
What do you mean messed up?

1064
00:51:49,862 --> 00:51:51,965
[Patrick]

1065
00:51:53,758 --> 00:51:57,000
Accident. Acidente.

1066
00:51:57,000 --> 00:51:59,241
[Patrick] Do you mind if he
stays here
for a couple nights?

1067
00:52:00,068 --> 00:52:02,241
[tense music playing]

1068
00:52:03,758 --> 00:52:05,137
What do you think?
Is that okay?

1069
00:52:10,241 --> 00:52:11,862
[John] Two nights. Two nights.

1070
00:52:11,862 --> 00:52:13,275
No big deal. No big deal.

1071
00:52:13,275 --> 00:52:14,551
I'll stay with you.

1072
00:52:14,551 --> 00:52:15,827
[Patrick] Baby,
we got an extra room.

1073
00:52:20,275 --> 00:52:23,896
I wish Patrick told me
that John was going
to stay with us.

1074
00:52:23,896 --> 00:52:25,275
I mean, it's my birthday,

1075
00:52:25,275 --> 00:52:28,241
and with all the things
between Patrick and my dad,

1076
00:52:28,241 --> 00:52:30,551
John is the last thing
that I need right now.

1077
00:52:33,758 --> 00:52:35,482
All right. Well,
it's just for a couple nights.

1078
00:52:35,482 --> 00:52:37,862
-[John] Two nights. That's it.
-[Patrick] He's not gonna
bother us.

1079
00:52:37,862 --> 00:52:38,931
[John] I'll go to bed.

1080
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:42,689
[Patrick] All right, well,
the room's here.

1081
00:52:42,689 --> 00:52:45,000
It's the first
room on the right.

1082
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:46,482
Hey. Shh.

1083
00:52:46,482 --> 00:52:47,896
[Patrick] Just be quiet.

1084
00:52:47,896 --> 00:52:48,965
[John] That's a big bed?

1085
00:52:49,689 --> 00:52:51,172
Yeah, big enough.

1086
00:52:51,172 --> 00:52:53,896
[John] It's a twin...at best.

1087
00:52:53,896 --> 00:52:56,448
-[Patrick] Yeah.
-[Thais] Hey,
the baby's sleeping.

1088
00:52:57,344 --> 00:52:59,344
[John whispering] I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.

1089
00:52:59,344 --> 00:53:00,482
I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

1090
00:53:00,482 --> 00:53:01,724
I'm not loud.

1091
00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:03,034
I'm being quiet.

1092
00:53:03,034 --> 00:53:04,379
I'm being quiet.

1093
00:53:04,379 --> 00:53:05,689
[John] I'm just gonna
go to sleep.

1094
00:53:05,689 --> 00:53:06,689
No big deal.

1095
00:53:06,689 --> 00:53:09,034
Teodoro's happy to see me,
right buddy?

1096
00:53:09,793 --> 00:53:12,000
[John] Yeah. [baby talking]

1097
00:53:12,482 --> 00:53:13,655
Yeah.

1098
00:53:13,655 --> 00:53:14,586
See?

1099
00:53:14,586 --> 00:53:15,655
He's happy.

1100
00:53:16,034 --> 00:53:18,551
[shushes] Be quiet.

1101
00:53:19,172 --> 00:53:20,586
[Patrick] Okay,
we'll be quiet.

1102
00:53:20,586 --> 00:53:21,586
[John] We're quiet,
we're quiet.

1103
00:53:21,586 --> 00:53:24,862
Yeah. You two, like,
just drink and then...

1104
00:53:24,862 --> 00:53:27,137
We had, like,
two drinks. That's it.

1105
00:53:27,137 --> 00:53:28,689
Yeah, and then come here,

1106
00:53:28,689 --> 00:53:29,586
talk too loud.

1107
00:53:29,586 --> 00:53:31,103
And you guys just...

1108
00:53:31,103 --> 00:53:32,689
-No, I'm quiet.
-[Thais] Yes, you are!

1109
00:53:32,689 --> 00:53:34,379
What are you talking about?
I love my niece.

1110
00:53:34,379 --> 00:53:35,655
I love my niece.

1111
00:53:35,655 --> 00:53:36,655
No I'm quiet.

1112
00:53:37,379 --> 00:53:38,586
I'll just go to bed.

1113
00:53:38,586 --> 00:53:40,000
You guys can do
whatever you want.

1114
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:43,241
Okay. I'm just trying
to help out, you know?

1115
00:53:43,241 --> 00:53:44,655
[John] Well, that was great.

1116
00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:51,275
I understand why Thais
is frustrated.

1117
00:53:51,275 --> 00:53:53,172
I mean, it's her birthday.

1118
00:53:53,172 --> 00:53:54,793
Things didn't go well
with her dad.

1119
00:53:54,793 --> 00:53:56,689
And now John's here.

1120
00:53:56,689 --> 00:53:59,275
But tomorrow we're gonna go
to my dad's ranch,

1121
00:53:59,275 --> 00:54:01,241
and it's gonna be a great day.

1122
00:54:03,379 --> 00:54:04,379
Okay. Great.

1123
00:54:04,379 --> 00:54:05,862
Wonderful.

1124
00:54:05,862 --> 00:54:10,034
I mean, not the best start
to your trip in Brazil.

1125
00:54:10,034 --> 00:54:12,379
Well, you know,
at least we got...

1126
00:54:12,379 --> 00:54:13,620
we're together, right?

1127
00:54:14,103 --> 00:54:15,172
Yeah.

1128
00:54:20,103 --> 00:54:21,620
[speaking Spanish]

1129
00:54:24,275 --> 00:54:25,448
"Okay, Ashley..."

1130
00:54:25,448 --> 00:54:26,758
[speaking Spanish]

1131
00:54:36,034 --> 00:54:37,724
[speaking Spanish]

1132
00:54:38,586 --> 00:54:39,551
Hmm-hmm.

1133
00:54:44,379 --> 00:54:45,931
This is [bleep] ridic...

1134
00:54:51,448 --> 00:54:53,448
Michael, I love you
for seven years,

1135
00:54:53,448 --> 00:54:55,586
but I can drop you
for seven more.

1136
00:54:55,586 --> 00:54:56,655
I'm tired.

1137
00:54:57,172 --> 00:54:59,103
[dramatic music playing]

1138
00:55:04,310 --> 00:55:07,551
♪ I don't care what you say

1139
00:55:07,551 --> 00:55:10,103
♪ But it's time to play
a different game ♪

1140
00:55:10,103 --> 00:55:11,413
[speaking Spanish]

1141
00:55:16,103 --> 00:55:17,172
[Ashley] Hmm-hmm.

1142
00:55:18,482 --> 00:55:21,413
♪ Taking off like
A slingshot ♪

1143
00:55:25,793 --> 00:55:29,034
[speaking Spanish]

1144
00:55:32,241 --> 00:55:35,344
-[bee buzzes]
-[Ashley yelping]

1145
00:55:38,965 --> 00:55:40,931
[both laughing]

1146
00:55:45,172 --> 00:55:46,137
Bees.

1147
00:55:47,172 --> 00:55:49,137
Bees.

1148
00:55:49,517 --> 00:55:52,206
[speaking Spanish]

1149
00:55:52,206 --> 00:55:55,103
-Yeah. Hmm-hmm.
-[Manuel buzzing]

1150
00:55:56,275 --> 00:55:59,758
[speaking Spanish]

1151
00:56:10,034 --> 00:56:11,137
IV?

1152
00:56:11,137 --> 00:56:13,517
[speaking Spanish]

1153
00:57:58,137 --> 00:57:59,758
...postnuptial agreement.

1154
00:58:00,275 --> 00:58:01,862
And um...

1155
00:58:04,000 --> 00:58:04,965
Um...

1156
00:58:05,310 --> 00:58:06,827
[speaking Spanish]

1157
00:58:21,275 --> 00:58:22,344
"Okay, Ashley..."

1158
00:58:22,344 --> 00:58:24,310
[speaking Spanish]

1159
00:58:52,068 --> 00:58:53,275
Hmm-hmm.

1160
00:58:55,551 --> 00:58:57,758
[Ashley speaking Spanish]

1161
00:59:21,413 --> 00:59:22,379
Hmm-hmm.

1162
01:00:15,379 --> 01:00:18,655
-Okay.
-Okay.

1163
01:00:18,655 --> 01:00:21,896
I'm not surprised that Manuel
doesn't like the idea
of a postnup,

1164
01:00:21,896 --> 01:00:26,793
but at least he agreed
to discuss it further
with a lawyer.

1165
01:00:26,793 --> 01:00:30,344
But, Manuel loves getting
a case of the amnesia.

1166
01:00:30,344 --> 01:00:32,862
When certain things
are happening, so...

1167
01:00:32,862 --> 01:00:35,034
I hope he behaves himself

1168
01:00:35,034 --> 01:00:37,206
when we get to
the lawyer's office.

1169
01:00:37,793 --> 01:00:39,655
[dramatic music playing]

1170
01:00:46,068 --> 01:00:48,310
Um, I was nervous
because I just didn't know
what to expect.

1171
01:00:48,310 --> 01:00:51,689
And, you know, I like,
like to know
what's gonna happen.

1172
01:00:51,689 --> 01:00:53,896
[Emily] Everything is going
so well on this trip.

1173
01:00:53,896 --> 01:00:57,620
But there is one thing
that's been eating at me
since it came up.

1174
01:00:57,620 --> 01:01:00,448
I want to talk about
what Valerie brought up to me.

1175
01:01:03,103 --> 01:01:04,344
[Loren] I'm not gonna lie.

1176
01:01:04,344 --> 01:01:08,586
It's more of a recovery
than I thought...
than we thought.

1177
01:01:08,586 --> 01:01:11,655
It just kills me
to see you going through this.

1178
01:01:11,655 --> 01:01:12,758
It was my decision.

1179
01:01:12,758 --> 01:01:15,689
I know.
So no complaining allowed.

1180
01:01:15,689 --> 01:01:18,275
[Loren]
The worst part is having
my mom judge.

1181
01:01:18,275 --> 01:01:22,103
I know she's judging
and critiquing
everything I do.

1182
01:01:27,724 --> 01:01:30,000
[upbeat music playing]

1183
01:01:36,068 --> 01:01:37,517
[sighs softly]

1184
01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:42,275
-Hey, babe.
-Hey, I'm in the kitchen.

1185
01:01:43,551 --> 01:01:45,000
Wow! So good.

1186
01:01:45,931 --> 01:01:47,586
Oh.

1187
01:01:49,068 --> 01:01:51,551
[Emily laughing] Hi.

1188
01:01:58,896 --> 01:02:02,275
I'm so happy because I think
today was really good.

1189
01:02:02,275 --> 01:02:03,448
It was a successful day.

1190
01:02:03,448 --> 01:02:05,862
I think it was
very successful.

1191
01:02:05,862 --> 01:02:07,793
I love that everybody
loved my food.

1192
01:02:08,275 --> 01:02:09,310
[Kobe] Oh.

1193
01:02:09,310 --> 01:02:10,620
The best eru.

1194
01:02:11,172 --> 01:02:12,586
I even tried it.

1195
01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:22,379
[Kobe] I'm getting excited
because both Emily
and her parents

1196
01:02:22,379 --> 01:02:25,000
made it through
with the knock door.

1197
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:26,206
I know there's still a lot
for us to do

1198
01:02:26,206 --> 01:02:27,413
before the wedding...

1199
01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:34,241
Were you nervous about
the whole knock door thing?

1200
01:02:34,241 --> 01:02:36,896
Um, I was nervous
because I just didn't know
what to expect.

1201
01:02:36,896 --> 01:02:40,517
And, you know, I like,
like to know
what's gonna happen.

1202
01:02:40,517 --> 01:02:44,000
I mean, I wish I was, like,
more involved in,
actually, in the conversation

1203
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:46,310
because I feel like
the questions
that my parents had

1204
01:02:46,310 --> 01:02:47,620
were important questions.

1205
01:02:50,655 --> 01:02:51,931
Am I your property?

1206
01:02:53,310 --> 01:02:56,172
Um, not really like a property
like, sort of...

1207
01:03:00,793 --> 01:03:02,827
[Kobe laughing]

1208
01:03:02,827 --> 01:03:04,620
Everything is going so well
on this trip,

1209
01:03:04,620 --> 01:03:05,689
and it feels like my family

1210
01:03:05,689 --> 01:03:08,000
is really forming a bond
with his family.

1211
01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:11,413
But there is one thing
that's been
eating at me since it came up.

1212
01:03:11,413 --> 01:03:14,137
And I want to put it to rest
so I can enjoy the
wedding fully,

1213
01:03:14,137 --> 01:03:16,689
and not have it in the back
of my head the whole time.

1214
01:03:18,344 --> 01:03:22,517
I want to talk about
the unsettling in my mind.

1215
01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:29,586
About what Valerie
brought up to me.

1216
01:03:30,137 --> 01:03:31,448
About your ex-girlfriend.

1217
01:03:40,413 --> 01:03:44,206
So wait, the girlfriend here
still thought
they were dating?

1218
01:03:45,068 --> 01:03:47,206
-While he was in China?
-Yeah.

1219
01:03:47,206 --> 01:03:49,517
He told me when he was
dating me,
he was single.

1220
01:03:49,517 --> 01:03:51,000
So I'm like, but did he lie?

1221
01:03:54,137 --> 01:03:56,241
[Emily] I think
we should meet.

1222
01:03:56,241 --> 01:03:57,931
-[Kobe] You want to meet her?
-Hmm-hmm.

1223
01:03:57,931 --> 01:03:59,000
Why?

1224
01:04:00,448 --> 01:04:02,034
Makes no sense.

1225
01:04:02,034 --> 01:04:03,482
It makes a lot of sense.

1226
01:04:05,172 --> 01:04:09,517
I don't understand why
we have to bring
my ex-girlfriend

1227
01:04:09,517 --> 01:04:11,517
in the picture again.

1228
01:04:11,517 --> 01:04:13,655
You've already
expressed your concern.

1229
01:04:13,655 --> 01:04:16,413
Why does it bother you so much
that I want to know?

1230
01:04:16,413 --> 01:04:17,448
Of course, it bothers me.

1231
01:04:17,448 --> 01:04:19,172
It makes me wonder
if you're telling the truth.

1232
01:04:19,172 --> 01:04:20,655
[clicks tongue]

1233
01:04:22,241 --> 01:04:23,310
[Emily] Are we good?

1234
01:04:24,724 --> 01:04:27,172
Because you're a little
defensive about it.

1235
01:04:30,103 --> 01:04:31,482
Will you please just text her?

1236
01:04:38,034 --> 01:04:39,068
All right.

1237
01:04:40,724 --> 01:04:42,793
[dramatic music playing]

1238
01:04:48,137 --> 01:04:51,137
Yes, tomorrow,
at the beach, at 4:00.

1239
01:04:51,137 --> 01:04:52,241
Love it.

1240
01:04:52,689 --> 01:04:54,068
With my wife.

1241
01:04:54,931 --> 01:04:56,310
I mean, I'm excited that Kobe

1242
01:04:56,310 --> 01:04:58,172
agreed to invite
his ex to lunch,

1243
01:04:58,172 --> 01:05:00,896
just so we could, you know,
just talk everything out.

1244
01:05:01,758 --> 01:05:06,620
Yeah, but I am so,
I mean, I don't know

1245
01:05:06,620 --> 01:05:11,068
what to expect right now
because it's a dead chapter.

1246
01:05:11,068 --> 01:05:13,241
I just want to know
when they broke up.

1247
01:05:13,241 --> 01:05:14,620
It's what I want to know.

1248
01:05:15,275 --> 01:05:16,241
Okay.

1249
01:05:20,379 --> 01:05:22,068
I hope I do, too.

1250
01:05:26,793 --> 01:05:28,413
[upbeat music playing]

1251
01:05:38,172 --> 01:05:39,241
Now.

1252
01:05:47,241 --> 01:05:48,206
[kid chattering]

1253
01:05:48,206 --> 01:05:49,241
[shushing]

1254
01:05:49,241 --> 01:05:51,103
[praying in Hebrew]

1255
01:05:55,724 --> 01:05:57,896
-Amen.
-Amen.

1256
01:05:57,896 --> 01:05:58,965
Come, let's go eat now.

1257
01:06:06,724 --> 01:06:09,344
[praying in Hebrew]

1258
01:06:10,241 --> 01:06:11,862
[all] Amen.

1259
01:06:12,413 --> 01:06:13,655
Umm.

1260
01:06:16,655 --> 01:06:19,655
[Alexei] It's Loren's first
night home after the surgery,

1261
01:06:19,655 --> 01:06:22,034
and I've also
invited her parents

1262
01:06:22,034 --> 01:06:24,413
to celebrate Rosh Hashanah.

1263
01:06:24,413 --> 01:06:27,482
I love it, I mean, for me,
it's important to try

1264
01:06:27,482 --> 01:06:30,172
to keep our family tight,
and celebrate all the holidays

1265
01:06:30,172 --> 01:06:32,793
and everything
as much as possible.

1266
01:06:32,793 --> 01:06:36,206
Here's to a happy, healthy
and sweet New Year.

1267
01:06:36,206 --> 01:06:38,000
-To all of us.
-Yes.

1268
01:06:38,000 --> 01:06:39,793
-Cheers.
-Cheers.

1269
01:06:41,344 --> 01:06:43,034
You're okay, hon.
You don't need...

1270
01:06:43,620 --> 01:06:45,068
[Loren] Cheers, boys.

1271
01:06:45,068 --> 01:06:46,758
[Alexei] Give Ashie
a nice hug and a kiss.

1272
01:06:46,931 --> 01:06:48,103
Okay.

1273
01:06:49,724 --> 01:06:51,241
[speaking in Hebrew]

1274
01:06:54,379 --> 01:06:55,931
Okay, now you can go.

1275
01:06:55,931 --> 01:06:57,448
[all laughing]

1276
01:06:58,137 --> 01:07:00,344
[Loren talking in English]

1277
01:07:02,448 --> 01:07:04,206
Go ahead.
This is for a New Year.

1278
01:07:05,448 --> 01:07:07,068
-Okay, Ashie.
-Hmm-mm.

1279
01:07:07,068 --> 01:07:08,310
No.

1280
01:07:08,310 --> 01:07:09,586
[Bryan] So how you feeling?

1281
01:07:09,586 --> 01:07:11,620
-[Loren] I'm hurting.
-Yeah?

1282
01:07:11,620 --> 01:07:15,482
I'm really hurting, like
my ears hurt from the bandage.

1283
01:07:15,482 --> 01:07:17,103
That's why it's off right now.

1284
01:07:17,586 --> 01:07:18,793
I'm not gonna lie.

1285
01:07:18,793 --> 01:07:22,275
It's more of a recovery than
I thought, than we thought.

1286
01:07:22,724 --> 01:07:23,896
-Right?
-Yeah.

1287
01:07:23,896 --> 01:07:26,034
Like the I've got the drains
and the this and the that.

1288
01:07:26,034 --> 01:07:30,068
Maybe we shouldn't have
celebrated tonight.

1289
01:07:30,068 --> 01:07:32,517
We're here, and that's
something to celebrate.

1290
01:07:32,517 --> 01:07:34,551
Abba Bey is here.
You guys are here.

1291
01:07:34,551 --> 01:07:36,206
We should be grateful
we're here.

1292
01:07:36,206 --> 01:07:37,724
I know, but it's
just a lot to do.

1293
01:07:37,724 --> 01:07:39,413
Well, you know, it's done.
We're here.

1294
01:07:39,413 --> 01:07:40,586
[Marlene] She's not doing it.

1295
01:07:49,448 --> 01:07:51,241
I think it was smart

1296
01:07:51,241 --> 01:07:54,206
that she did kind of
everything all at once.

1297
01:07:54,206 --> 01:07:56,275
But on the other side
of that coin,

1298
01:07:56,275 --> 01:07:58,103
she did everything
all at once.

1299
01:07:58,103 --> 01:08:00,586
You know, this is
like a long recovery.

1300
01:08:00,586 --> 01:08:03,655
Alex is an incredible
hands-on dad.

1301
01:08:03,655 --> 01:08:06,448
But I think even
he's gonna say, you know,

1302
01:08:06,448 --> 01:08:09,448
halfway through this,
like, "What, were we crazy?"

1303
01:08:09,448 --> 01:08:11,448
like, "Why did I think
I could do this?"

1304
01:08:14,965 --> 01:08:16,448
[Loren]
Thank you, guys, for helping.

1305
01:08:16,448 --> 01:08:18,033
You know what,
it was a pleasure.

1306
01:08:18,033 --> 01:08:20,412
Thank God, Saba Bey is here.

1307
01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:22,448
It takes a village.

1308
01:08:22,862 --> 01:08:24,517
[Bryan]

1309
01:08:24,517 --> 01:08:25,862
[Marlene] That's right.

1310
01:08:25,862 --> 01:08:28,827
I mean, I'll come
when you want me to.

1311
01:08:28,827 --> 01:08:31,274
Thank God, you know,
I have flexibility.

1312
01:08:31,274 --> 01:08:34,136
It just kills me
to see you going through this.

1313
01:08:34,136 --> 01:08:36,895
I wasn't expecting
this recovery,

1314
01:08:36,895 --> 01:08:38,862
but being excited
about the results

1315
01:08:38,862 --> 01:08:40,344
is what's getting me through.

1316
01:08:40,344 --> 01:08:41,241
But now you have to remember,

1317
01:08:41,241 --> 01:08:43,171
you already have
three children.

1318
01:08:43,895 --> 01:08:45,965
-I know.
-[Marlene] Why do it now?

1319
01:08:45,965 --> 01:08:47,171
Your father-in-law is here.

1320
01:08:47,171 --> 01:08:48,586
It's the holiday.

1321
01:08:48,586 --> 01:08:50,310
-[Bryan] I know.
-Oh, my God.

1322
01:08:51,310 --> 01:08:53,068
-It was my decision.
-[Marlene] I know.

1323
01:08:53,068 --> 01:08:54,965
It was my decision. What?

1324
01:08:54,965 --> 01:08:56,310
So no complaining allowed.

1325
01:09:02,862 --> 01:09:04,517
I'm gonna go lay down.

1326
01:09:04,517 --> 01:09:05,517
[Alexei] Come.

1327
01:09:06,068 --> 01:09:08,103
We're gonna go bring her down,

1328
01:09:08,103 --> 01:09:10,965
and then, we'll be back
with the kiddos.

1329
01:09:10,965 --> 01:09:12,033
[Bryan] What happened? Oh, my.

1330
01:09:12,033 --> 01:09:13,895
-[Alexei] Shaikey.
-[Bryan] It's upside down.

1331
01:09:15,448 --> 01:09:16,517
Don't worry.

1332
01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:20,379
[Marlene]
What are you so busy with?

1333
01:09:21,412 --> 01:09:22,689
Okay. Be careful.

1334
01:09:23,895 --> 01:09:25,136
[Loren groaning]

1335
01:09:28,206 --> 01:09:29,930
[grunting in pain]

1336
01:09:30,620 --> 01:09:31,965
-You gotta rest.
-I know.

1337
01:09:31,965 --> 01:09:33,000
Yeah.

1338
01:09:35,551 --> 01:09:37,344
[Loren] Dinner was a lot.
I overdid it.

1339
01:09:37,344 --> 01:09:38,551
Dinner was too much.

1340
01:09:38,551 --> 01:09:39,586
[Alexei] I know.

1341
01:09:40,068 --> 01:09:41,379
[Loren] Ow! Ow!

1342
01:09:41,379 --> 01:09:42,551
[Alexei]
You want me to put this on

1343
01:09:42,551 --> 01:09:43,689
so I can go back out there?

1344
01:09:43,689 --> 01:09:44,724
Yeah.

1345
01:09:46,792 --> 01:09:48,724
Tell me the, the tightness.

1346
01:09:51,758 --> 01:09:53,517
-[Alexei] Good.
-Yeah.

1347
01:09:56,000 --> 01:09:57,827
-[Alexei] All right, mama.
-[bleep]

1348
01:09:59,517 --> 01:10:00,620
You wanted this, baby.

1349
01:10:00,620 --> 01:10:01,551
I know.

1350
01:10:01,551 --> 01:10:02,965
[Alexei] So, then, that's it.

1351
01:10:02,965 --> 01:10:04,034
I know.

1352
01:10:04,034 --> 01:10:06,689
So then that's it.
You have to deal with it.

1353
01:10:08,620 --> 01:10:11,172
Okay, rest. I'm gonna
go back out there, okay?

1354
01:10:11,172 --> 01:10:12,206
Mm-hmm.

1355
01:10:12,862 --> 01:10:14,000
Let me know if you need me.

1356
01:10:15,965 --> 01:10:17,000
Ow!

1357
01:10:22,862 --> 01:10:24,206
[baby cooing]

1358
01:10:24,206 --> 01:10:26,206
[Marlene] Hey.

1359
01:10:26,206 --> 01:10:29,310
I know that they helped,
and I really do appreciate it,

1360
01:10:29,310 --> 01:10:33,172
but I don't appreciate
having my mom judge.

1361
01:10:33,172 --> 01:10:35,206
I know she's judging.

1362
01:10:35,206 --> 01:10:39,413
I know she's criticizing,
critiquing everything I do.

1363
01:10:40,517 --> 01:10:41,965
Yes, I chose this.

1364
01:10:41,965 --> 01:10:43,103
Yes, I wanted it.

1365
01:10:43,103 --> 01:10:45,172
Yes, I knew it was
going to be painful.

1366
01:10:45,172 --> 01:10:46,689
Did I know how painful?

1367
01:10:46,689 --> 01:10:48,896
Did I know how hard
it would be to come home

1368
01:10:48,896 --> 01:10:52,068
with three kids,
and I realize, just like

1369
01:10:52,068 --> 01:10:55,448
how much I can't just stop
and do nothing?

1370
01:10:56,275 --> 01:10:57,793
It's hard, man.

1371
01:11:02,137 --> 01:11:03,793
[Jasmine speaking]

1372
01:11:03,793 --> 01:11:06,551
And you're enjoying
your power over me.

1373
01:11:06,551 --> 01:11:08,655
I don't enjoy showing
power over you.

1374
01:11:09,482 --> 01:11:11,068
[Gino] No, I don't.

1375
01:11:27,034 --> 01:11:28,206
[Jasmine speaking]

1376
01:11:29,000 --> 01:11:30,931
I really want a smoothie
right now.

1377
01:11:30,931 --> 01:11:32,517
I haven't eaten anything
since morning.

1378
01:11:32,517 --> 01:11:36,000
So we didn't have time
to stay at the gym,

1379
01:11:36,000 --> 01:11:38,068
and finish my, my cardio,

1380
01:11:38,068 --> 01:11:40,137
knowing how important
it is to me,

1381
01:11:40,137 --> 01:11:42,931
but we do have time
for smoothies?

1382
01:11:42,931 --> 01:11:43,965
I'm starving.

1383
01:11:44,896 --> 01:11:46,724
♪ Yeah, right

1384
01:11:48,172 --> 01:11:51,793
♪ You said you did it
For the light inside me ♪

1385
01:11:53,206 --> 01:11:56,137
You want a smoothie?
We make time for a smoothie.

1386
01:11:56,137 --> 01:11:59,379
It's just what you want,
when you want it,
all the time.

1387
01:11:59,793 --> 01:12:01,206
Nah, that's not true.

1388
01:12:02,000 --> 01:12:03,655
I'm just describing facts.

1389
01:12:05,586 --> 01:12:07,137
Why are you so bitchy today?

1390
01:12:07,137 --> 01:12:08,344
You are the bitch.

1391
01:12:08,344 --> 01:12:09,620
Is it that time of the month?

1392
01:12:11,241 --> 01:12:13,413
You're a [bleep] idiot
for saying that.

1393
01:12:24,793 --> 01:12:27,068
In Panama, nobody
controlled me.

1394
01:12:27,068 --> 01:12:29,137
I was very independent person.

1395
01:12:29,827 --> 01:12:32,206
But now Gino
controls the money.

1396
01:12:32,206 --> 01:12:34,413
And I believe that Gino
is using the whole

1397
01:12:34,413 --> 01:12:36,275
"We don't have enough money"

1398
01:12:36,275 --> 01:12:39,551
argument as a way
to have control over me.

1399
01:12:39,551 --> 01:12:41,724
He decides what we can do.

1400
01:12:41,724 --> 01:12:42,896
What we cannot do.

1401
01:12:42,896 --> 01:12:45,517
What I can buy,
what I shouldn't.

1402
01:12:45,517 --> 01:12:47,965
When I can
work out at the gym,

1403
01:12:47,965 --> 01:12:50,103
we have to stop for
a smoothie because he said so.

1404
01:12:51,000 --> 01:12:53,103
Because what I want,
it doesn't matter.

1405
01:12:55,000 --> 01:12:57,000
[Gino coughing]

1406
01:12:57,000 --> 01:12:58,482
-[woman 1] Hi, guys.
-[Jasmine and Gino] Hi.

1407
01:12:58,482 --> 01:13:00,137
Welcome to Bamboo.
How are you?

1408
01:13:00,137 --> 01:13:01,448
What can we get for you?

1409
01:13:03,034 --> 01:13:04,655
[Gino] Strawberry banana.

1410
01:13:04,655 --> 01:13:06,379
Strawberry banana smoothie.

1411
01:13:06,379 --> 01:13:09,655
I want the avocado smoothie.

1412
01:13:09,655 --> 01:13:11,000
[woman 1] Okay.

1413
01:13:11,000 --> 01:13:13,793
[Gino] I get that Jasmine's
frustrated about the pageant,

1414
01:13:13,793 --> 01:13:15,620
but she's always
asking for things,

1415
01:13:15,620 --> 01:13:17,379
and she needs
to understand that

1416
01:13:17,379 --> 01:13:19,793
she can't always get
what she wants all the time.

1417
01:13:20,793 --> 01:13:23,379
This is a partnership,
and we are a team.

1418
01:13:23,379 --> 01:13:26,724
Sometimes I get what I want,
and sometimes she does.

1419
01:13:26,724 --> 01:13:29,275
But we're a team
and it's got to be 50-50.

1420
01:13:33,172 --> 01:13:34,517
Where, what you're doing?

1421
01:13:39,482 --> 01:13:41,034
What's the problem?

1422
01:13:41,034 --> 01:13:42,793
Why couldn't I finish
my cardio,

1423
01:13:42,793 --> 01:13:44,827
and all of a sudden,
we have time to be here,
seated?

1424
01:13:44,827 --> 01:13:46,000
[Gino]
Don't have a heart attack

1425
01:13:46,000 --> 01:13:48,758
'cause you didn't do
extra minutes on cardio.

1426
01:13:48,758 --> 01:13:50,068
We did a full workout today.

1427
01:13:50,068 --> 01:13:53,000
It has nothing to do with the
cardio, you're not getting it.

1428
01:13:53,000 --> 01:13:56,310
Okay? I'm never allowed
to do what I want to do.

1429
01:13:56,310 --> 01:13:58,689
And it's always
what Gino wants,

1430
01:13:58,689 --> 01:14:00,724
because this is
freaking Gino Land.

1431
01:14:05,379 --> 01:14:06,758
You're acting crazy.

1432
01:14:09,827 --> 01:14:11,586
[exhales]

1433
01:14:11,586 --> 01:14:13,517
I'm gonna say
that without yelling.

1434
01:14:30,034 --> 01:14:32,931
Because I'm always,
I always wake up like,

1435
01:14:32,931 --> 01:14:34,344
"What am I going to do today?"

1436
01:14:34,344 --> 01:14:38,310
Like me as a person,
it's not, not me as a wife,

1437
01:14:38,310 --> 01:14:42,655
me as a daughter, me as a mom,
me as a person for once.

1438
01:14:47,344 --> 01:14:49,310
What are you talking about?
We just were at the gym,

1439
01:14:49,310 --> 01:14:51,655
and I told you I'd find
a way to pay for it.

1440
01:14:52,517 --> 01:14:53,620
You said that
you were not sure

1441
01:14:53,620 --> 01:14:55,275
about paying for that,
because with...

1442
01:14:55,275 --> 01:14:57,482
[Gino] No, I said I would...

1443
01:14:57,482 --> 01:14:58,827
I told you at the [bleep] gym.

1444
01:14:58,827 --> 01:15:00,482
You wanna sabotage it?

1445
01:15:03,172 --> 01:15:04,862
[Jasmine] I see the smirk
on your face.

1446
01:15:10,344 --> 01:15:14,758
I [bleep] told you at the gym
that I would find a way

1447
01:15:14,758 --> 01:15:16,482
to get the money
to pay for it.

1448
01:15:17,000 --> 01:15:19,000
Don't you appreciate that?

1449
01:15:19,000 --> 01:15:22,379
All I have done
is supported you in Panama.

1450
01:15:22,379 --> 01:15:24,000
For three years,
I supported you,

1451
01:15:24,000 --> 01:15:26,275
and you don't appreciate that,
[bleep] at all.

1452
01:15:26,275 --> 01:15:28,862
Look at your appreciation.
This is appreciation I get.

1453
01:15:32,172 --> 01:15:34,586
You don't appreciate anything.

1454
01:15:42,310 --> 01:15:45,413
Be on my knees,
"Oh my gosh. Thank you.

1455
01:15:45,413 --> 01:15:47,862
Thank you. You brought me
to America. Oh my gosh."

1456
01:15:47,862 --> 01:15:50,931
Should I kiss
your [bleep] face?

1457
01:15:50,931 --> 01:15:53,586
You are [bleep] nuts.
That's what you are.

1458
01:15:53,586 --> 01:15:55,137
[Jasmine]
I'm not gonna be here.

1459
01:15:57,103 --> 01:16:00,482
I really think that Gino
wants to sabotage the pageant

1460
01:16:00,482 --> 01:16:04,241
to show that he can take away
what I really want.

1461
01:16:06,413 --> 01:16:09,034
Gino used to be
my safe person,

1462
01:16:09,034 --> 01:16:10,827
the person that
I trusted the most?

1463
01:16:10,827 --> 01:16:14,379
But ever since we got married,
a lot of things have changed.

1464
01:16:14,379 --> 01:16:17,068
He's very different.

1465
01:16:17,068 --> 01:16:20,034
I would have never married
this kind of Gino.

1466
01:16:24,793 --> 01:16:26,000
[Gino] Don't be so dramatic.

1467
01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:32,413
I get Jasmine is having
a hard time in America,

1468
01:16:32,413 --> 01:16:34,827
but she has to understand that

1469
01:16:34,827 --> 01:16:38,310
eventually she'll be able
to be more independent,

1470
01:16:38,310 --> 01:16:42,172
drive, work in a job,
but all of that takes time.

1471
01:16:42,172 --> 01:16:43,827
It doesn't happen overnight.

1472
01:16:44,517 --> 01:16:45,965
[Jasmine] I want to go home.

1473
01:16:46,965 --> 01:16:48,000
Take me home.

1474
01:16:51,620 --> 01:16:53,137
Do you, do you want this?

1475
01:17:00,931 --> 01:17:02,931
I don't enjoy showing
power over you.

1476
01:17:04,000 --> 01:17:05,034
No, I don't.

1477
01:17:10,758 --> 01:17:12,758
Wow, if you think that,
there's something wrong.

1478
01:17:16,413 --> 01:17:19,379
And I'm gonna
go home walking...

1479
01:17:23,482 --> 01:17:25,620
-[Gino] Where are you going?
-[Jasmine] Home.

1480
01:17:27,448 --> 01:17:29,724
[dramatic music playing]

1481
01:17:32,517 --> 01:17:34,482
[Jasmine crying]
He wants to drive me crazy.

1482
01:17:35,448 --> 01:17:39,862
He knows that I am
not emotionally, mentally,

1483
01:17:39,862 --> 01:17:43,379
you know, strong enough
to deal with all this.

1484
01:17:51,379 --> 01:17:53,896
But I [bleep] love him.

1485
01:17:53,896 --> 01:17:56,379
You know, I wish
I have a choice.

1486
01:17:56,379 --> 01:17:59,344
If I had the power, I would
choose not to love him...

1487
01:18:00,724 --> 01:18:01,793
at this point.

1488
01:18:10,344 --> 01:18:12,310
[Angela] I want you to tell me
what they said.

1489
01:18:19,965 --> 01:18:21,827
I just want to ask a question
before you finish.

1490
01:18:23,517 --> 01:18:27,000
I knew there was gonna be
some screw up that you did.

1491
01:18:27,000 --> 01:18:28,482
We ain't ever gonna
get a visa.

1492
01:18:29,965 --> 01:18:30,965
Because I'm done.

1493
01:18:40,241 --> 01:18:41,310
You didn't get it.

1494
01:18:43,000 --> 01:18:45,206
-Listen, let me tell you--
-It's not under control.

1495
01:18:49,827 --> 01:18:53,862
Oh my God,
I can't believe this.

1496
01:18:59,413 --> 01:19:00,724
God!

1497
01:19:15,965 --> 01:19:17,551
We ain't ever gonna
get a visa.

1498
01:19:17,551 --> 01:19:20,586
Like he's been denied
twice in the past.

1499
01:19:20,586 --> 01:19:22,103
We don't know why.

1500
01:19:22,103 --> 01:19:24,206
We don't know
what the [bleep] they found.

1501
01:19:24,206 --> 01:19:27,724
I knew there was gonna be
some screw up that you did.

1502
01:19:31,379 --> 01:19:34,482
Nothing goes right for us.
It's...

1503
01:19:36,413 --> 01:19:38,103
This is, this is too much.

1504
01:19:45,758 --> 01:19:48,379
Nobody else does
that kind of protocol.

1505
01:19:50,724 --> 01:19:52,517
So we're stuck here two weeks?

1506
01:19:55,793 --> 01:19:57,793
Really? You know what?
You can leave now.

1507
01:19:58,827 --> 01:19:59,862
You can leave now.

1508
01:20:01,689 --> 01:20:03,379
-I need a moment.
-Hold on, hold on.

1509
01:20:03,379 --> 01:20:04,551
-I need a moment.
-Let me break it down.

1510
01:20:04,551 --> 01:20:05,793
I've been sitting here hours.
I need a moment.

1511
01:20:05,793 --> 01:20:07,724
-Let me break it down to you.
-No.

1512
01:20:08,344 --> 01:20:10,827
I've been shaking
all [bleep] day.

1513
01:20:10,827 --> 01:20:12,896
But you tell me to go home.
You just stay here.

1514
01:20:15,000 --> 01:20:17,551
You really care about me, huh?

1515
01:20:17,551 --> 01:20:19,896
You never say the right things
to your wife.

1516
01:20:24,689 --> 01:20:27,000
I just... I don't wanna hear
about all that [bleep]

1517
01:20:27,000 --> 01:20:29,448
Michael, here's what I want
to break down to you first.

1518
01:20:30,724 --> 01:20:34,344
Nobody [bleep] goes through
what we've gone through.

1519
01:20:36,758 --> 01:20:39,620
Michael, I don't want you
there, and they're trying...

1520
01:20:43,931 --> 01:20:46,034
You need to be scared
about this.

1521
01:20:46,034 --> 01:20:47,931
Everybody else
gets a yes or no.

1522
01:20:47,931 --> 01:20:51,103
Regardless, if you get it
or not, this is [bleep].

1523
01:20:51,103 --> 01:20:54,689
Nobody goes through this much
to get a goddamn visa!

1524
01:20:55,413 --> 01:20:58,344
Angie. Angie, we are
still on track.

1525
01:20:58,344 --> 01:20:59,896
I want you to tell me
what they said.

1526
01:21:17,827 --> 01:21:20,172
So I just I want
to ask the question.

1527
01:21:20,172 --> 01:21:22,275
I want to ask the question
before you finish.

1528
01:21:22,275 --> 01:21:24,689
-Okay.
-How did you go to Abidjan?

1529
01:21:37,137 --> 01:21:38,965
You son of a bitch!
You didn't tell me that.

1530
01:21:41,034 --> 01:21:42,275
Tell me again.

1531
01:21:42,275 --> 01:21:43,241
Tell me again.

1532
01:21:43,241 --> 01:21:44,862
-No, don't tear.
-I will tear this mother...

1533
01:21:44,862 --> 01:21:47,862
Did you move to [bleep]
Abidjan and didn't tell me?

1534
01:21:49,758 --> 01:21:53,379
Michael told me
that the embassy moved

1535
01:21:53,379 --> 01:21:55,931
the case to Abidjan,

1536
01:21:55,931 --> 01:21:59,793
and now he's telling me
that he moved it.

1537
01:21:59,793 --> 01:22:02,137
You have no right
making decisions like that

1538
01:22:02,137 --> 01:22:03,862
without consulting me.

1539
01:22:03,862 --> 01:22:06,551
We have enough trouble trying
to get to the embassy once...

1540
01:22:06,551 --> 01:22:08,655
Why would you mess with them?

1541
01:22:08,655 --> 01:22:10,448
He should have left it [bleep]
where it was.

1542
01:22:10,448 --> 01:22:11,965
I'm sure the embassy

1543
01:22:11,965 --> 01:22:14,965
thought that was suspicious,
and that's probably why

1544
01:22:14,965 --> 01:22:16,586
he ain't got
the damn visa right now.

1545
01:22:17,310 --> 01:22:18,275
Come darling,
let me explain this.

1546
01:22:18,275 --> 01:22:19,586
No, no, no! You just slipped.

1547
01:22:19,586 --> 01:22:21,448
-That's how you do.
-I didn't slip.

1548
01:22:21,448 --> 01:22:24,689
You moved the mother [bleep]
to Abidjan and didn't tell me.

1549
01:22:24,689 --> 01:22:25,862
What the [bleep] are we doing?

1550
01:22:25,862 --> 01:22:27,241
-Can you sit down please?
-No, I'm not, no.

1551
01:22:29,862 --> 01:22:31,965
Michael, what you're doing
is doing what you want

1552
01:22:31,965 --> 01:22:34,482
and telling me later,
and it's causing problems.

1553
01:22:34,482 --> 01:22:36,379
And, honey,
I'm too old for that [bleep].

1554
01:22:36,379 --> 01:22:38,000
And I love you
for seven years,

1555
01:22:38,000 --> 01:22:40,275
but I can drop you
for seven more.

1556
01:22:40,275 --> 01:22:41,344
I'm tired.

1557
01:22:42,551 --> 01:22:43,551
On that note...

1558
01:22:44,931 --> 01:22:45,965
'Cause I'm done.

1559
01:22:45,965 --> 01:22:47,034
I'm done, Michael.

1560
01:22:49,379 --> 01:22:50,862
[dramatic music playing]

1561
01:22:54,724 --> 01:22:55,827
[Emily] Next time on

1562
01:22:55,827 --> 01:22:58,068
90 Day Fiance:
Happily Ever After...

1563
01:22:58,724 --> 01:22:59,793
Hey, Dad.

1564
01:22:59,793 --> 01:23:00,724
Hey!

1565
01:23:00,724 --> 01:23:02,172
Whoa, whoa, whoa.

1566
01:23:03,379 --> 01:23:05,275
[John]
The last time I seen Jose,

1567
01:23:05,275 --> 01:23:07,344
we didn't have
the best of relationship.

1568
01:23:16,344 --> 01:23:18,034
It's like a, "Hello.
Good to see you"

1569
01:23:18,034 --> 01:23:20,344
and then, like within
10 minutes, it's like,

1570
01:23:20,344 --> 01:23:21,551
"Yeah, you know what?
I got to fix this."

1571
01:23:22,034 --> 01:23:23,103
That's my bull [bleep].

1572
01:23:25,482 --> 01:23:28,206
I'm not going to sit here
in front of your family,

1573
01:23:28,206 --> 01:23:31,034
and tell them like
we are a happy marriage.

1574
01:23:31,034 --> 01:23:32,482
That's not the reality.

1575
01:23:33,413 --> 01:23:34,931
[Gino]
That is not true at all.

1576
01:23:34,931 --> 01:23:36,965
I have a hard time
being intimate with you

1577
01:23:36,965 --> 01:23:38,793
because of all the
hurtful things you say to me.

1578
01:23:40,620 --> 01:23:44,241
Gino has a lot of
deep sexual issues, but...

1579
01:23:58,241 --> 01:24:00,413
[Alexei]
Israel is at war with Hamas.

1580
01:24:01,241 --> 01:24:02,344
I feel torn.

1581
01:24:02,344 --> 01:24:04,310
I feel like maybe
I should do more.

1582
01:24:04,827 --> 01:24:07,482
It's affecting us strongly.

1583
01:24:08,310 --> 01:24:09,758
But I could definitely
see myself

1584
01:24:09,758 --> 01:24:11,068
go back and do something.

1585
01:24:13,137 --> 01:24:14,724
[Emily] Thank you.

1586
01:24:14,724 --> 01:24:18,379
Today we're going to meet up
with Kobe's ex-girlfriend.

1587
01:24:19,310 --> 01:24:21,344
And just to see
if they were still dating

1588
01:24:21,344 --> 01:24:22,827
when he knocked me up.

1589
01:24:23,620 --> 01:24:25,310
Did you even ask her to come?

1590
01:24:25,724 --> 01:24:26,758
Of course I did.

1591
01:24:27,931 --> 01:24:29,206
Okay. Is that her?

1592
01:24:34,000 --> 01:24:35,724
So what brings you in today?

1593
01:24:35,724 --> 01:24:38,793
Potentially doing
a postnuptial agreement.

1594
01:24:39,896 --> 01:24:40,965
In the marriage,

1595
01:24:40,965 --> 01:24:42,896
you're entitled
to half of his savings

1596
01:24:42,896 --> 01:24:45,689
and he's obligated to pay
for half of your debts.

1597
01:24:47,310 --> 01:24:48,448
About a 100k.

1598
01:24:49,034 --> 01:24:50,655
[speaking in Spanish]

1599
01:24:59,517 --> 01:25:02,310
Do you truly believe
that he could be that guy

1600
01:25:02,310 --> 01:25:03,310
that you fell in love with?

1601
01:25:04,482 --> 01:25:05,517
I don't know.

1602
01:25:06,862 --> 01:25:07,965
Like, I thought I fell in love

1603
01:25:07,965 --> 01:25:09,137
with this certain type
of person, and it feels like

1604
01:25:09,137 --> 01:25:12,517
he's turned into
someone completely different.

1605
01:25:12,517 --> 01:25:13,793
Look at your little face.

1606
01:25:15,758 --> 01:25:16,862
You're fat.

1607
01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:18,379
[crying]

1608
01:25:20,689 --> 01:25:21,724
Give me one sec.

1609
01:25:26,620 --> 01:25:28,827
When I said
I can't stay two weeks,

1610
01:25:28,827 --> 01:25:30,965
he told me to go home,
and he'll stay here.

1611
01:25:34,827 --> 01:25:36,724
I'm starting to see
some red flags here

1612
01:25:36,724 --> 01:25:38,827
because why does he want
to stay by himself?