Bon appetit, papi.
It's okay?
- Of course. - Yes, we have our ups and downs.
But also, we work through them,
and we're stronger than ever.
Ari's first birthday party. We did it.
Our last first birthday.
We managed not to kill each other over the 90 days.
And now I'm the mother of his three kids.
We don't want any more kids at this point.
Oh, yeah.
Suck that toe.
Very well said.
After four tumultuous years of living in Egypt,
Mahmoud is moving to the U.S.
I'm feeling, like, really anxious because
this is our last chance to save our marriage.
[speaking in Portuguese]
No, no, no, no.
John is just, you know, always a pain in my ass.
[exclaims]
This is the most important day of our life.
I need to get my man home to America.
If the visa is denied, it's over.
I didn't want to do that to you,
but I should have come clean.
It's not like I want somebody else.
I had to find out through your friend, Ed.
I gave up everything for him.
I deserve some answers.
[sniffles]
What's wrong with you?
You've been punishing me, and you're enjoying
your power over me.
I don't enjoy showing power over you or anything.
No, I just don't.
I am trying to track down Mahmoud.
Mahmoud! Mahmoud!
Get in the [bleep] car!
[upbeat music playing]
♪ You hit the beat Got the world on a streak ♪
♪ Deliver forever You'll do anything ♪
♪ Hatch your eggs Grab the diamond ring ♪
♪ This is an art to do everything ♪
♪ Oh, oh
♪ It's the time of our lives
[Kobe] Babe, I'm home.
Honey, I have a surprise for you.
Bon appetit, papi.
Wow. I love this.
- Come here. - Mm.
Mm.
[Lisa] Emily, Kobe, dinner's ready.
[groans]
I'm Kobe.
I'm 36 years old, and I'm originally from Cameroon.
And this is my beautiful wife, Emily.
And we live in Salina, Kansas.
We have our son, Koban, who is four,
and our daughter, Scarlett, who is two.
And all four of us are living in my parents' basement.
And we love it.
Sure.
It's a madhouse up here!
A little bit.
Dinner's ready.
I'll help set the table.
[Lisa] Maybe you can help me set the table.
This one for Koban?
Well, Koban already ate.
Koban, sit right here.
Sissy, you already had a sucker.
Here, sit here.
Can I have a bite?
- Do you want a place to eat? - Ah...
- Check in, everybody. - Oh, my gosh.
So what have you guys been up to?
We're very grateful having my parents there to help with
the kids, but it's pretty challenging
having my parents there 24/7, 'cause they are,
you know, all up in our business all the time.
To an extent, we can't really feel free as if,
you know, we were in our own house.
He can't walk around in his underwear.
I love just being myself, like, you know...
- bare body. - You like being naked.
- All right, little children. - I think they're really tired.
- They're going. Let's go. - Let's put them to bed.
- Come on. - Let's go.
One, two, ready, go.
Why am I getting you like this?
Say... [in French]
- This happens every night. - [speaking other language]
- Every night. - Huh?
I've never really been a homebody.
I like to be, like, constantly on the go.
And it is crazy to think that, you know,
four years ago, I was traveling all over.
Kobe and I met in Xi'an, China.
I went to China to teach English,
and he was there working as an underwear model.
I saw him in a bar, and I thought he was very hot,
and I followed him to the bathroom and got his number.
From that moment, I'm like, yo,
Let you give me a shot?
You're lucky that I gave you a shot.
We hooked up, and a few weeks later,
I found out I was pregnant.
[Kobe] When I found out she was pregnant,
at that moment, I'm like, okay, it's happened.
She's the one.
So I came back to America and started the K1 visa process,
but unfortunately for us, COVID hit,
so it took almost two years for Kobe to get here,
and he missed, you know, Koban's birth.
[woman] Congratulations.
But he finally got approved for his visa,
and he was able to meet our son for the first time face-to-face.
Who's that? Do you see Papa?
Do you see Dada?
- Oh, my God. - Don't be shy.
- Hi. - Give him a hug together.
[laughs]
He's looking at you.
Who is that?
He looks just like you.
Huh?
It's okay. It's okay, babe. It's okay.
I was very happy to becoming father,
but to become a husband was not very easy
because our first 90 days was so hard.
This big pile of manure goes in this bucket.
All right, get in there. Scoop it up.
Keep calm, babe.
Why don't you just start from the big pile?
- Why are you... - Calm, honey.
Just let me do what I'm doing, okay?
Why are you pulling it down?
Are you serious?
[grunts]
One of the greatest challenges we are ever facing in
our relationship is Emily's bossiness,
but I love her anyway, and I'm really happy that
we made it, you know,
to the altar.
I, Kobe, take you, Emily, to be my wife.
[woman] Will you, Emily, take this man to be your husband?
I do.
[woman] I now pronounce you husband and wife.
[all clapping and cheering]
All right, let's read the little blue trucks, okay?
Wow.
You ready to go night-night?
Are you going to go with Mommy, okay?
Get ready. Give Daddy kisses.
Good night, Daddy.
- Okay. - All right.
It has been two years since Kobe and I got married.
And in that time, we have had another baby,
Scarlett, who is the best addition to our family.
Kobe got his green card. He has a job now.
And I'm a stay-at-home mom.
And we are slowly saving money so we can move out
of my parents' basement and get our own place.
But for right now, we're really happy.
Oh my gosh, they are so tired.
Well, that was record time for them going to sleep.
So I'm like, "Wow, it's going to be so fun
- to do a 25-hour travel day with them." - I know.
I know.
Can't wait for us to go to Cameroon
and then introduce you guys to my big family.
After two and a half years, me, Emily, the kids,
David, and Lisa are finally going to Cameroon.
This will be Emily's first time.
And I just cannot wait to be back home
and see my friends, my family, and eat the good food.
Oh, man...
So how long is this flight going to take?
So 23 hours to get to Cameroon.
Okay.
Everyone's stress levels need to be dialed to one.
I'm gonna get some kind of medication for that.
[Emily] We'll get you some melatonin.
- [laughs] - It'll be fine.
Okay, so when do we see your dad?
- Once we drive there. - Once we drive to Buea, yeah.
Is there anything else that we need to be concerned about?
What happens on Monday?
People who open their shops on a Monday,
they'll burn down the shop.
And there's always been a history of conflict
between the two regions.
There is a civil war going on in Cameroon,
But, I mean, we're gonna be safe.
My family's gonna be with me.
It wouldn't be going if it was not safe.
- You guys are gonna love it there. - Okay.
We're just gonna stick out like a sore thumb.
Yeah.
Are you nervous about meeting Kobe's parents?
I mean, it'll be the first time meeting my in-laws.
I mean, you just have to be yourself, but, you know...
Less of American woman.
- But I am an American woman. - Of course.
Well, I'm just saying.
For the good of our family.
- Just go easy, chill, stay chill. - Chill. Chill.
- [sighs softly] - Relax. Just be less of yourself.
[laughing]
Meeting Kobe's family for the first time,
you know, Kobe has obviously said, I'm a little bossy.
So I have a fear of them thinking,
you know, I'm a bit much.
And did I take their son to America? I did.
So it's like, I don't know how
they truly feel about all that.
[Kobe] I mean, in Cameroon, it's very difficult to see a woman, like,
try to stand up and challenge her husband or try to,
like, you know, be bossy to the husband.
Like, African women are very, very submissive to their men.
I strongly believe that her Type A personality
can cause a lot of problems to my family.
Well, I guess we'll see.
♪ Can you make go Ooh, ooh, ooh, ahh ♪
♪ Do you think You can touch me In my hot spots?♪
♪ So we can make love On the floor ♪
[Sophie] We drank too much wine last night.
Sometimes we overdo it.
But obviously, you know, I feel like since
we've moved in, we're just having, like, the best time.
I'm just so glad that you let me live here,
you know, after everything that happened with Rob.
I'm so glad you left when you did.
Like, that was much needed.
♪ Fly with me to the sky with me ♪
♪ Don't be surprised at things you find in me ♪
- You're welcome here anytime. - No, no, I appreciate it.
My home is your home.
Yeah, no, I appreciate it.
My name is Sophie, I'm 24 years old,
I'm from London, and I was living in LA for a bit,
but now I live in Austin with my best friend Kae for the last two months.
The first year of being married,
it's not really gone how I expected it to go.
Obviously, like, I didn't move here with
the intention of, like, not working things out with Rob.
So it's just like, I don't know, it's just been a lot,
and it's unfortunate it hasn't worked out how I wanted it to.
It's still weird for me to, like, not live with my husband.
My husband Rob was someone I met online on social media.
We basically started messaging just because I thought
he was cute and I guess he thought I was cute.
And then mine and Rob's first phone call went really well.
It lasted like eight hours.
It felt like we had an instant connection.
After I ended that call, I was kind of just like,
"Oh, my God, this is the guy I want to be with."
I felt like I found the guy I'd been looking for
the whole time and just felt like this is it.
This is who I'm going to end up with, which is insane.
I love you, baby.
What attracted me to Rob initially was...
I actually had a lot of pets growing up.
I had, like, ten turtles. I had two dogs.
I had multiple cats. I had just a bunch of animals.
Oh, I had rabbits as well.
His love of animals is slightly different.
Like, he likes weird creatures, but I just loved it.
It was really nice.
Me and Rob did long distance for about two years,
and then after that, I came up with the idea
for us to do the K1 visa so that we could actually be together.
After my K1 visa was approved, I was in on a plane
on my way to America to start my new life with Rob.
- Made it. - I made it.
Hey, baby. You like that?
[Sophie] It was really amazing to, like,
finally be with Rob, and it felt like a fairy tale.
But then shortly after, I realized that
he wasn't the person I had been imagining
the whole time.
Oh.
- You like that? - Yeah, that's better.
Oh, yeah, that might be over the fence right there.
I feel like a scholarship might come out of this.
Where is the scholarship?
All right, Rob.
I'm Rob. I'm 33 years old.
I'm originally from Kansas City, Missouri,
currently living in Austin, Texas.
I'm married to Sophie, at least for now.
Sophie and I met online through just social media.
I thought she was beautiful, and I told her,
♪ Yeah Don't ask me how I do it ♪
Sophie's personality really struck me as different and unique,
and she definitely grew up rich,
but she didn't come off as someone who was, like,
pretentious or thought she was better than people.
She wanted to get to know me in a sincere way.
That just made me fall even that much harder for her.
And then Sophie came to America on a K-1 visa with this...
deadline to get married, which was very stressful.
And I think that just made it really hard on us that first 90 days.
The problem started when I online cheated.
It had happened before Sophie and I were living together in LA,
before the K1 visa.
There were women sending inappropriate videos
and pictures and basically porn.
And I encouraged it.
So the fact is, I online cheated, and I don't deny that.
I'm not perfect, but I'm definitely not trying
to [bleep] with nobody else but you.
- Baby... - You know the messages.
I saw the messages, even the ones that you didn't say.
I've seen them, Rob.
So I don't care what you keep saying.
You're just a liar.
[Rob] Fortunately, she accepted my apology
and she was actually gonna marry me
and give me that chance to show her
I love her and I'm loyal
and if she's in my life, I truly don't want anyone else.
It's my very great pleasure and delight
to now pronounce you husband and wife.
[all cheering]
Don't tell 'em about it.
Soon after we got married, we decided to get a fresh start.
Sophie and I and my dog Rome, we all moved to Austin, Texas.
We expanded the family a bit, and I got some pet tarantulas,
six of them.
But just a few months after we moved,
the fighting continued, and Sophie decided
to go move out and live with her new best friend
in Austin, this girl Kae.
It's like at the end of the day, the 90 days,
it worked against us more than you could ever know.
Like, it wasn't enough time to understand where we were.
It wasn't enough time to be sure about where we were.
- Yeah. - So we had 90 days to figure it all out.
And this is the last thing I expected
was that I was gonna get married
and in our first year together,
she wouldn't be living with me.
It doesn't sound like you guys are married in my eyes.
Yeah. It's not what I thought it was gonna be like either.
I haven't seen my wife in two months.
I just feel like everything's just been really overwhelming.
Like, not just getting married,
but, like, moving to a new country.
- I can only imagine. - And it's like, you know,
obviously, when people get married,
like, they expect, like, you know, everything works out.
And I was kind of hoping that, like,
moving here would be a fresh start for us.
I don't know. I was just hoping for this to, like, change things for us.
- But I just feel, if anything, it made it worse. - Yeah.
I tried to put Rob's cheating behind me,
but shortly after I moved to Austin,
I saw that he had got this text from some random girl.
So I figured out a way to get into Rob's social media
to find out what was really going on,
and that's how I found out that he was actually talking to,
like, way more girls than he had admitted to.
So he lied to me about the extent of his online cheating.
And, like, the thing is, is, like, how do we know
he's not gonna do it again?
Yeah, I mean, that's the thing, like, I don't know that.
No, my God, no.
What do you think about her friends?
Yeah, she's got this one friend, Kae,
that is kind of like the Bane of my existence.
She's just ruining our relationship, I feel like.
And that's the girl she lives with.
Have you seen Kae?
- In person? - Yeah, I met Kae a few times.
And every time I meet her, she's all, "Rob,
you should be out with us more often, Rob."
This and that. All positive, all happy-go-lucky.
But then I know that she doesn't respect our marriage.
She doesn't respect me.
So it's like, that's who's in her ear all the time.
So it's definitely not helping our relationship whatsoever.
And bro, to be honest,
I am thinking that, are you [bleep] this girl?
Like, are y'all in a relationship?
You think she's a lesbian?
I mean, she said she was bisexual,
- but she had never hooked up. - Wait, Kae or Sophie?
Sophie.
And honestly, I feel like Kae's a little...
Wait, wait, you gotta rewind. When did you find this out?
Bro, I found out right before we got married that Sophie
was into women, but she never actually explored it.
How did...
- There's nothing bad. - Then what is it?
There's nothing I want you to worry about.
You're bi?
Like, bisexual?
[grunts]
You have to remember, like, this is your life, too.
You know what I mean?
Yeah, and I just... It's just hard for me,
'cause it's like, this isn't how it's meant to be, you know?
And I just, like, really want things to work out, you know?
But it's like, I don't even live with my husband.
I live here, you know?
I know, and I'm taking care of you better than he is.
[both laughing]
- Literally. - [laughing]
What if she is in love with K?
And obviously, we don't know, right?
Bro, if she's in love with K, she's...
We don't know, but it sounds like
your wife is sleeping with somebody else.
From my position right now, from what you're telling me...
I know it sounds [bleep] stupid.
It sounds dumb.
But I don't have answers.
I don't know Kae's sexuality.
And Sophie has not been getting intimate with me
for a while.
So, you know, I got to wonder if is
Sophie getting that somewhere else?
Is she getting that with Kae?
But at the same time, she might not be.
And me asking could make things worse.
So I don't know where Sophie's head is at right now,
but every day I do feel like she's slipping away from me.
Do you regret getting married?
I don't know, man.
It feels like she's getting used to a life without me.
And I know that I [bleep] up, but she's the love of my life,
and I'm really not ready to lose her.
Looking for some pajamas for my husbands.
Tomorrow, Mahmoud is moving to the US,
and it's going to be a whole new chapter for us.
[speaking in Arabic]
[upbeat music playing]
♪ Could it be my hair?
♪ Maybe it's my purse
♪ Get yourself together, girl Getting...♪
♪ It's a glow-up You can hashtag that ♪
♪ Upgrade New style ♪
- Hi, how are you? - I'm good, how are you?
- I'm good, thank you. - If you need anything, just let us know.
Okay.
My name's Nicole.
I'm 40 years old, and I live in Los Angeles, California.
- Do you sell pajamas here? - I do, I have lots of pajamas.
- Really? - Yeah, they're actually just right over here.
Okay.
- I like your shirt. - Thank you.
It's cute.
I've always loved fashion, and living here
in Los Angeles, I feel like I can be
as expressive as I want.
I just kind of feel free here,
and I can wear what I want.
Looking for some pajamas for my husband.
I did get a new one recently.
Back in Egypt, my husband Mahmoud
tries to wear his street clothes to bed.
Like, one time, he wore, like, a wool sweater and,
like, some jeans to bed, and it was, like, scratched me.
Like, it scratched my arm or something.
It drives me crazy, and so I want to get him
some comfortable pajamas.
Which is pretty great.
I haven't had a chance to price it or steam it yet.
I mean, that's really cute. I don't know if you'd go for it, though.
- He's a little picky. - A little picky?
Yeah, he's a little picky.
What about this guy? Does he look yellow?
Those are cute, yeah. Let's do those.
- So where's your husband from? - He's from Egypt.
- Yeah, he's moving here. - Wow, so you're doing long distance.
Yeah, we have been for four years,
except last year I was living in Egypt,
and then I moved back, and then his visa was approved,
- so he's going to come. - Oh, my God. That's great.
- Congrats. - Yeah. We'll see. Thank you.
Thank you.
It's been a long, long, long road.
I miss Mahmoud so much.
It's been five months since I've seen him,
but I'm so excited because tomorrow
Mahmoud is moving to the U.S., and it's going to be
a whole new chapter for us.
Four years ago, I went on a spiritual retreat in Egypt.
And on the last day of the trip,
I met Mahmoud in a fabric store where he was working.
It was definitely an intense attraction at first sight.
Just everything, like his skin, just he's dreamy.
Like I looked into his eyes and I was like,
"Damn, he's so cute." I'm so glad he said hi.
We only spent one day together in Egypt,
and then I went home to the U.S.
And within a week, I think, of being back in the U.S.,
he said he loves me and he proposed to me.
And a couple weeks later, I was back in Cairo.
We both knew that there would be a lot of religious
and cultural differences that would challenge us.
And of course, we'd only known each other a month,
but we were crazy in love.
But you know, sometimes love just isn't enough.
For the last four years, I have tried to live there
and assimilate and make life in Egypt work,
but I just couldn't do it.
So I had to come back to the United States.
For me in Egypt, living like an Egyptian woman
was a big challenge because in Islamic marriage,
there were just a lot of rules,
very strict rules.
Like, I definitely made sure I was always covered
when I was in public.
And I tried my best to conform.
I was doing things just to please him.
I felt like I lost myself.
[Mahmoud speaking English]
[Nicole] Yeah.
In my hooded bathing suit?
I think you should try to wear it and see how it feels.
I do not like to be told what to do! Um...
My mom did that a lot when I was a grown up.
So I have a hard time taking orders and commands
from somebody, especially my husband.
[Mahmoud speaking English]
Leave me the [bleep] alone!
Everything about you--
Every single second, like of every day that I've been here so far,
it's just you picking at me! Like, pick, pick, pick!
Yes, constantly.
Nothing's not good enough for you ever!
Go find some other [bleeping]!
I was like, no more. I can't. I can't do it.
But I feel like maybe we hadn't tried all that we could try.
And now Mahmoud is, is coming from Egypt
to the United States on a spousal visa.
And this isn't gonna be easy.
But we have to make this work.
It's our last shot.
- Have a great day. - [man] Thank you. Have a good one.
- Thank you so much. Take care. - Good bye.
All right. Thank you.
[soft music playing]
[Mahmoud speaking English]
[Nicole] You know, I just think I'm like home sick already.
I, you know, I don't have an apartment any more in L.A. [crying]
No. But, like, we fight all the time.
It's just like, I just hope we can figure it out. That's all.
And now I'm moving to United States,
and trying to start new life there.
[speaking Arabic]
[Mahmoud speaking English]
[speaking Arabic]
[sighs wearily]
[in English]
[both speaking Arabic]
[speaking Arabic]
[Mahmoud speaking English]
How's being married?
We need to work on our communication.
It's clear he doesn't fully trust me with everything.
We've known each other for 10 years.
And I've never met Manuel's children.
I don't really know why that's happening.
[Manuel speaking Spanish]
[Manuel speaking English]
[Ashley] Keep it going!
Come on! Yes, you can!
- Let's go! - [dance music playing]
Four, three, two, one!
And cross!
Nine!
Come on!
Let's go!
[speaking Spanish]
[Ashley in English] Come on!
♪ Step into your best life
♪ Love yourself and shine bright ♪
I want us to give a hand for my honey-bunny over there in the back.
- It's his first spin class. - [all cheering]
I'm Ashley. I'm 33 years old. And I'm from Rochester, New York.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] And we have been husband and wife for almost one whole year.
Guys, that was such a great class. Thank you all so much for coming!
Let's get those towels in the air!
Yes!
I like to keep busy.
My main occupation is a practicing witch.
I work in tarot, astrology, and I'm a spin instructor.
[woman speaking Spanish]
[Manuel speaking Spanish]
Mm...
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] Manuel and I met over 10 years ago.
I was in Ecuador for college.
And then New Years eve night, he asked me to dance.
I was sitting there with my girlfriends...
[continues in Spanish]
[in English] Of course I'm gonna think, "Oh, my God. I'm in love!"
- Yeah. - Yeah.
[Ashley] We did long-distance on and off.
But it took seven years for us to reconnect.
And then one day I decided to fly to Ecuador again to see if this was real.
About two hours after I landed in Ecuador,
he pulls out a ring...
and presents it to me.
And then I was like, "Okay, I--"
We applied for the K1 visa.
And then when Manuel was finally, actually coming to the United States,
I had the biggest panic attack of my life.
- Oh, my God. - [woman on phone speaks indistinctly]
Oh, my God. I'm freaking out. I'm freaking out!
- Oh, my God! Mm... [exclaims] - [woman on phone] Okay, breath in.
Oh, my God. I'm ugly crying!
I was absolutely overcome with emotion.
But if Manuel can find the strength to up and leave his family in Ecuador,
I can find a way to accept him fully into my life.
Oh! [laughing]
[speaking Spanish]
90 days if definitely not enough to get to know somebody before you marry them.
Especially because Manuel is secretive when it comes to his family.
He likes to decide what I need to know and what I don't need to know.
Like, I knew he had some family in New York.
I just didn't know how many he had.
And so that was a bit of a surprise to me.
[Mercy speaking spanish over phone]
[Manuel speaking Spanish]
[speaking Spanish]
[Ashley speaking Spanish]
Manuel is a person...
who clearly has said that he is a closed book.
And I need to open up the book and ask what every single page means.
This is the way Manuel moves.
But, um, I can't see myself with anybody else.
- [agreeing in Spanish] - Mm-hmm.
[speaking Spanish]
[Ashley speaking Spanish]
[all cheering]
So, [bleep] was hard!
But, we're here.
- Yeah. Yeah. - Yeah.
[upbeat music playing]
[both speaking Spanish]
Manuel feels really lonely in Rochester
and misses his friends and family.
So I've been trying to make more effort
into him connecting with my family.
- [all] Hi! - Hi, sweetheart!
[all greeting]
- Hello. - [indistinct conversation]
- So nice to see you. - [woman] Hi, baby girl.
- How are you doin', honey? - I'm good.
[greeting in Spanish]
[speaking Spanish]
Hmm.
You wanna go to the bounce house, Mom?
No, I won't do no bounce house.
You don't wanna go to the bounce house?
- Yeah, try that. - [all laughing]
Just pull over this way.
How's being married?
We need to work on our communication.
Like, he needs to open up to me.
He does-- He'd be annoying me sometimes.
I want him to feel comfortable enough to trust me with everything.
He needs to open the door.
And then introduce you to his children.
And that should've already been done when he was taking you there visiting.
- [Sienna] - Yes.
Manuel has two kids. They're in their teens.
But we've known each other for 10 years and I've never met Manuel's children in person.
And I've barely spoken to them over the phone.
Manuel talks to them really often without including me.
I don't really know why that's happening.
Why is it that we've been married almost a year
and I feel like he's hiding me from his kids.
You're married. So, you-- You made him a part of your life.
And he made you a part of his life.
But it's clear he doesn't fully trust me with everything.
[Ashley] I've thought about that.
I think we're spiraling a little bit.
We gotta calm down.
- I think-- - You wanna sit down right here?
Yeah, let's revisit it.
[Ashley speaking Spanish]
[Stacey] Why?
[Ashley speaking Spanish]
[speaking Spanish]
[Ashley in English] He said he does.
[in Spanish]
[in English] He's like, in the moment there were so many things going on,
I didn't wanna confuse the kids.
[continues in Spanish]
[in English] He's like, everything has a, has a moment or a time.
[in Spanish]
[in English] He's like, right now there's a whole lot of stuff
going on in Ecuador.
You guys have to trust each other.
If you don't trust each other how can there be love?
[Ashley] My mom is right.
If we're gonna have a successful marriage,
we need to be open with each other
and I need to be part of his kids lives.
So, I need to have a serious conversation with Manuel
because if Manuel never opens up I do not think this marriage will survive.
Just be careful.
Basically, I'm thinking about moving back with Rob.
What the hell! Why would you wanna move back in there?
I definitely have plans for my future with Rob
to have like a happy home and a safe home.
And I think that's what makes it so hard to walk away.
I don't want you with him! Don't go!
I think it's gonna be a very fun trip.
But I'm like, nervous.
[Kobe] I know Emily is kind of afraid to meet my family.
But, honestly, I really don't know how my family or friends are gonna react.
And this is something I'm really concerned about.
- Good luck. - [grunts]
[upbeat music playing]
[Claire] Sophie!
Hey!
- [squeals] - Hello.
Oh, my God, you look beautiful.
How are you getting on?
[Sophie] I have been having a really bad time lately
with everything that's been going on with Rob.
So, it's been really nice having my mum in town.
Um, she has a boyfriend out here in Texas,
even though she lives in Mexico.
So she's just been up here a lot to see him, and also to see me.
- So, this is John. He's like... - Her boyfriend.
- [squeals] He said it! - Yeah.
This is finally him.
- Hello. - Yeah.
Yeah, so... do you wanna play this?
No, we can't-- What is it?
It's called Pachisi.
- No. It's called bocce ball. - Pachisi.
- Bocce ball. You wanna play? - Yeah.
Okay, what color do you wanna be?
- I'm the pink. - I was gonna be the pink one.
I'm gonna be the pink one.
[Sophie] This is my first time meeting John.
It makes me so happy to see my mum so happy.
She's just been through so much bad experiences with men,
that she finally deserves to find love and happiness.
It also does help that, like, she has someone there for her.
'Cause it's always been just me and my mum.
So now it kind of relieves that pressure off of me, and...
I can focus a bit more on my life and, you know,
my relationship with Rob, especially.
[John]
- America? - [John] Yeah.
Uh, nearly a year now.
Oh, that's it?
[Stacey] Do you understand him?
[Sophie] Why wouldn't I understand him?
[John] I understand what you say.
[John] What did you say?
[Sophie] I'm married to an American guy so I get your accent.
Oh, I know. I've heard a little bit about him. Not really.
[Stacey] His nickname. You know his nickname, right?
- No, what is it? - Rob, the knob.
Rob, the knob.
Door knob or something else.
Oh, yeah. It means willy.
[Sophie] I don't think he know what that means.
- Oh, okay, yeah. - Rob, the knob.
Have you heard good or bad things about him?
Mm... More bad than good.
- Really? Mum! - [both laugh]
There's nothing good to say about him. He is an [bleeps]!
He was an actual arse.
He used to go out and leave her.
You were always sad, always crying to me.
He online cheated. I can go on, and on and on.
The first time I met Rob, he was actually really lovely.
Like, he-- They were happy. He was just a nice guy.
But he isn't that man today.
I don't know who this guy--
This guy like literally has morphed into something completely different.
And it's not on her. It's on him.
Because he cheated online with what, two, three, I don't--
Those are the times we know about.
And I'm so glad that They're not living together.
Clearly.
All jokes aside, the man's horrible.
[Sophie] But, it's like, I do love him.
Basically, I'm thinking about moving back with Rob.
What the hell! Why would you wanna move back in there?
Yeah, but we're married.
If he can prove to you that he loves you again and he's like...
gonna change, fine. But what's the rush?
Because I know-- I already know how it's gonna go.
- I can tell you that right now. - You don't know though.
- 'Cause you don't know him like I know him. - I do actually.
I don't want you with him. I think he's mean to you.
I don't like him. He's definitely not good enough for you.
I don't want you to go straight back in there.
It's just gonna be a whole mess. Just don't go!
I get that you love me and you want the best for me, but I have married him.
And he does have a really nice side.
Like, I know she said a lot to you as well,
but, like, a lot of things are, make him a good person,
and he is a good person.
I mean, the process of doing the K1 visa, the 90 day thing,
like, it, it takes a lot, you know.
And he stood with me like a whole four years, and we did long distance.
And it's like, he is nice, he just has--
Like, our marriage in a weird spot.
That doesn't mean he's a horrible, nasty person.
[John] So what are you gonna do to repair it?
I do know that I wanna be with him and I love him.
And so that's why, like, I'm thinking of meeting up with him soon
so, like, we can talk about it.
[Stacey] I really don't think Sophie should be meeting up with Rob right now.
It's just been crazy ever since they got married.
It's just bad energy.
Bad energy.
I wouldn't marry someone that was completely horrible.
- You know, like... I'm not stupid. - Yeah.
So I'm hoping the time apart is gonna, like, help us fix things.
I just feel like I should give him a chance.
Growing up I didn't have very, like, stable childhood.
Um, my dad wasn't around,
and my mum struggled with substance abuse.
So she couldn't really raise me how she should've.
It felt like I had to kind of take care of her a lot.
Because of that I definitely have plans for my future with Rob
to have like, a happy home, and a safe home.
And not like the one I was kind of, grew up in.
And I think that's what makes it so hard to walk away.
So, I'm gonna see Rob again.
And then if there is even the slightest chance
that Rob can show that he can change and grow up,
then I feel like the future that me and him both want is still possible.
[vocalizing]
This is a waste of time I think.
- No, it's not. You have the dress. - Mm-hmm.
All right. We're just gonna tuck it in here.
Boom! Outfit and diaper for a day.
♪ The way he's moving
♪ Everybody's grooving
♪ Dance floor is coming to life ♪
- Okay. - Let me show you how this works.
- Mm-hmm. - Once it's all full...
then I fold it up like this...
Open the suitcase.
Tell me that's not freakin' organized.
It's organized. I like it.
[Emily] We are leaving for Cameroon tomorrow for two weeks.
This is the most important trip of our lives
because my family is gonna see me not just as Kobe,
- but, you know, as a father and a husband. - Aw...
And they're gonna meet my wife and my kids for the very first time.
[grunts] I know. We can sleep on the plane.
Meeting Kobe's family, that really is pretty nerve-wrecking.
You know, I want them to love me
because we're, you know, I love their son, and, um...
I think we make each other very happy.
And I want them, that to come across,
even if we speak different languages.
You know, I just want them to accept me.
I want everything to be perfect
for the first time of us, you know, meeting your family.
Yeah, I know you wanna impress my family.
You want them to look at you like, okay, oh, she's the best mother.
Of course you're a good mom. You're the best ever.
Okay?
You can go to bed, babe. I'll finish it up.
All right. I love you.
Good luck.
[grunts]
All of this luggage better make it.
All righty.
That should be good. All right, let's load it up.
Dad!
[Kobe] It's gonna be a long day for us and the kids.
We have three hours drive to Kansas City.
And one hour, thirty minutes flight to Detroit.
And nine hours flight to Paris.
and six hours flight to Douala, Cameroon.
But it's gonna feel good to be back home.
Then breathe the Cameroon air, and, you know...
I mean, I'm really looking forward.
We'll see you two in Kansas City.
All right. Let's do this!
Are you guys ready to go for real?
[all cheering]
All right. Who's ready for Cameroon?
- Me! - Me.
[all cheering]
Sisi, are you ready?
[Emily] It's gonna be so fun!
[screams]
You know that you're grandpa is really excited to meet you guys, Koban?
[both] You're gonna hug him?
- Mm... - Oh, he's gonna be so happy!
[both] We're here!
[Emily] Perfect.
- We have made it to the airport. - [screaming]
- We are all ready to go. - [Kobe] Oh, my goodness.
- Come here, my little... - You wanna just see daddy?
And we are getting ready to go where? Where are we going?
Africa!
- To Africa! Whoo! - Yay! We're going to Cameroon.
Oh, my goodness.
Are you guys, are you guys moving out of the United States?
- [David] I think so. - [Lisa] I think so.
I think so.
[Emily] Okay, I think we have everything.
[Kobe] I know Emily is kind of afraid to meet my family.
So, I'm just gonna try as much as I can to make her feel comfortable.
Here we go!
But, in my mind, I'm so concerned because
no one in my family has ever left and got married to a foreigner,
live outside of Cameroon.
I mean, I want the first impression to be, you know, perfect, to be good.
[Emily] Here we go!
It's really happening.
[Kobe] But, obviously, I really don't know
how my family or friends are gonna react.
And this is something I'm really concerned about.
[Emily speaking]
[Kobe speaking]
Isn't it gorgeous out here on the lake?
Trying to control myself...
- Really? - Seeing you like this...
I have an idea.
We're trying to have a baby. Uh...
It's kind of risky, don't you think?
I like risky.
We could lay down here.
[vocalizing]
♪ I'm really good at handling my business ♪
♪ I hustle harder than the rest is my business ♪
♪ Be talking trash, running that mouth like it's a relay ♪
♪ I'm the one that actually gets paid ♪
You're so sexy in that captain hat.
Aw. That is so sweet.
Aw...
♪ I can hear you
Isn't it gorgeous out here on the lake?
This is our honeymoon and this is so romantic, being on the boat with you.
Don't you think?
You don't like this boat!
No.
I'm Gino, I'm 54-years-old,
and this is my wife, Jasmine,
who is from Panama City, Panama.
We are newlyweds, and we live in Canton, Michigan.
Don't do that.
Well, baby. How I picture my honeymoon was like,
a private jatch, you know, like big jatch. Not this.
Big what?
Jatch. A jatch. Huge jatch.
"Judge"?
Jatch!
How do you pronounce it? You don't understand my English, no?
No.
A, like, a private ship.
- Oh, you mean, yacht? - Yeah.
You wanna be on a yacht. You're saying this boat's too small?
It is.
Jasmine and I have been married for two months now.
But we met three and a half years ago on a dating site.
We spoke like daily for nine months.
When Gino came to Panama for the first time,
at that moment...
Aw!
Handsome, even more handsome than Bruce Willis.
[gasps]
[Gino] It took us approximately 18 months
to get through the K-1 visa process.
And when my visa got approved, it was such a relief,
because it meant that I could travel to America
to marry the love of my life.
- [Jasmine] Baby! [chuckling] - Mi amor!
Whoo-hoo-hoo!
- Oh, my God! - [sobbing]
I can't believe you're here!
I'm trying to control myself.
- Really? - Seeing you like this...
- You're so tan. - I know.
Thank you, you're very lucky to have me.
Okay, what about this napkin?
- That's my 40th birthday party. - With your...
initial name and your ex-wife in a heart,
- and she-- - So what?
I had a life before I met you.
Jasmine is a jealous person.
- I mean, I'm not gonna-- - Excuse me?
You know, I'm not gonna lie about that.
- I will say over-protective. - She does not like it
when I even... look at or speak to a woman,
but it's gotten worse since she's come to the United States.
What is this?
I don't know!
Could be one of my coworkers'
or some other [bleep] in my car
or something like that.
[shouts] No!
[Jasmine sobbing] I just wanna go home.
[Gino] You're so ridiculous.
[sobbing] I wanna go home.
The last three and a half years together,
he has been with me during happy, good moments,
and also through... through hardship.
So, he knows my heart,
and I cannot believe that we made it to the altar
and I can now call you
- [in Spanish] - [Gino] Aw.
I, Gino, take you, Jasmine,
to be my lawfully wedded wife.
I, Jasmine, take you, Gino,
to be my lawfully wedded husband.
[officiant] You are now husband and wife.
- Yay! - [guests cheering and clapping]
Yay!
- Yeah. [laughs] - Whoo! Look at that, baby!
And it's a diamond, a real one.
I even tested it.
- Right, baby? - Mmm-hmm.
I love you, baby.
[in Spanish]
I have an idea.
It's kind of risky, don't you think?
I like risky.
We are trying to have a baby.
Uh... we are trying a lot, [laughing]
- which is good... - [chuckling]
- ...which is good, I love it. - Practice makes perfect.
I feel like everyone can see us, you know, this...
We don't have anywhere to go,
it's, like, we're exposed here.
But we could lay down here.
You know, I don't want people watching us having sex,
but we can do something like this, okay?
I'm not against it.
- When? - Um...
Maybe even tonight during camping, I can be... I can surprise--
Yeah, because I'm ovulating and we have to do it tonight.
Did you bring the blue pills?
I actually did.
Okay, good.
You should take three.
And you know what, baby?
Now that we are planning to make our baby,
another thing is, remember that we are a family already.
It's not just the baby,
it's the babies that we already have, my kids,
you know, because they will eventually come.
I have two children back in Panama,
but they are being taken care of by my mother,
my sister, and their father.
Um, but we have a lot of hope,
you know, to bring them over in six months.
Yes, this is just temporary,
and I know that we are gonna be a happy family,
we are gonna be all complete
and our children are coming soon.
I know you've sacrificed a lot,
leaving all your family and coming here to the USA, and...
I very much appreciate it, you know.
I am happy right now, don't get me wrong,
I'm happy to be with you, I'm happy to be your wife,
baby, I love you, but...
[voice trembling]
I feel like I have failed them.
I've been in America for over four months,
and that's the exact amount of time
that I haven't seen my kids.
I wanna give my children [inhales] a home,
because... [inhales]
um...
If I cannot have my children here with me,
I'm sorry, it...
it can be the greatest nation in the world,
but I will have to choose my children
over my husband.
[Sophie] Me and Rob are meeting up today.
It just makes me very anxious and scared,
and just, like, I just, I really don't want the marriage to...
[sobbing] Sorry.
[sobbing] Can I have a second, please?
♪ Another day Take my time ♪
♪ Now feeling fine
♪ Trying to catch a moment It ends ♪
[Rob] I'm a little nervous, you know,
I haven't really been talking to Sophie, seeing her.
Definitely the fact that this is, like, the conversation
that leads up to whether or not she's coming home and...
and has any type of enthusiasm about working things out.
♪ Keep going with it
If it goes well, then...
we can start to work towards the future.
I just want to be in a loving relationship
with somebody that I love,
that I'm not ready to walk away from.
I'm hoping it's a good sign that Sophie wants to see me
and she wants to talk about things.
I understand that I broke her trust
by talking to other women.
So I get that I need to do things differently
and show her that I have self-control
and that I'm, you know, I'm...
gonna hold myself accountable.
And at this moment,
what really matters is getting my wife back.
I'll do anything I can to win Sophie over.
So I'm planning to have Sophie meet me at a selfie gallery
because I know that she's always wanted to go to one.
And I really just want to kind of keep her
in the best mood possible
so we can have a civil conversation
about where this relationship is going.
Like, I kind of look at it,
like, it's like a video game,
like, you start off with five hearts,
your health, your energy, all that [bleep], you got five hearts
and I'm down to the last one.
I got one left with her.
I need to figure out how to find common ground
and bring her back into my life.
But this meeting really does determine
the fate of Sophie and I's relationship.
After two months of being away from Rob,
I now feel like I'm ready to meet up with him,
because I'm not really ready to give up the relationship yet.
As I'm waiting for Rob,
I feel guilty for staying away for two months,
just because I feel like maybe I have left it too long
and maybe at this point, he doesn't even want
to work things out with me anymore.
The suspense is killing me.
I just have anxiety right now, I don't know, I just, like...
I'm just ready to see him and let's just talk it out,
like, I don't want to keep...
I don't know, I'm just overthinking it now.
I need Rob to show me
that he's going to take accountability,
and I need to be able to believe
that he won't hurt me again,
before I'm able to just go back to him.
[Rob] My hope for today is that Sophie and I
can just agree to put the past behind us
and move forward as husband and wife.
If this conversation ends
with anything less than Sophie showing me
that she wants to move back home,
at this point, that could spell, "Our relationship is over."
[Sophie] I love Rob and I want things
to work out with us and our marriage,
but I just feel like I don't know
if I'll ever be able to trust him again
after he online cheated on me multiple times.
It just makes me very anxious and scared
and just feel a lot of ways to where it's like I just,
I really don't want the marriage to...
[sobbing]
[dramatic music playing]
[Nicole] Today, Mahmoud's coming.
My legs are all shaky
and, like, I'm feeling a little out of body [chuckles] kind of.
But I feel a lot of pressure,
because I'm hoping that we can get it together to make this work
because this is our last chance.
♪ When I turn, I turn too well ♪
♪ When I come, I come to you ♪
It's too far over I think.
Oh, [bleep]!
[chuckling nervously] I can't wait.
[upbeat music playing]
Today, Mahmoud's coming
and I'm feeling... I'm feeling good,
like, I'm feeling actually ready for him and excited...
getting to see him
and, you know, like, make him breakfast
and just kind of wake up with him in the morning,
and, um, like, I can't wait to just start our lives together.
I think that it's gonna be better for our relationship
when he gets here.
First of all, there's more opportunity,
I'm not stuck in the house
all the time like I would be in Egypt.
We are not living with his family.
I think all of those things,
at least for me, it'll be better.
I'm hoping that Mahmoud will see the value in that as well.
We have been waiting for this day
for a really long time,
but I'm feeling, like, really anxious
because Mahmoud was raised conservatively
and in a very religious household.
He's never lived away from his family.
So he's gonna have to find a way to...
to be Muslim and to accept things around him
that aren't necessarily an acceptable part of his religion.
His whole world is about to change.
[clears throat]
So, this is what I'm wearing.
I mean,
probably not ideal for Mr. Mahmoud.
The fact that I have quite a bit of fashion experience,
what I choose to wear has always been deeply tied to my identity.
So it's hard for me, 'cause the one thing that we fight so much about
and that I love so much is clothes.
He likes me to dress pretty modest,
but I think it's...
a nice compromise.
You can see a little bit of my leg,
stomach's out a little.
I think we're good.
When I was in Egypt, I tried things his way
and now I need him to try things my way.
So, this time I'm gonna be myself
in order to have a healthy marriage.
I have the right to live my life the way that I want to.
At the same time, I love him and I wanna make this work.
A lot rides on him...
liking America.
I cannot believe that he's gonna be here in two hours.
It's crazy.
I'm gonna come back with a husband.
I'm gonna give him, like, a thousand kisses
right in front of everyone
and he's just gonna have to take it.
[laughs] 'Cause...
'Cause in Egypt I never got to do that.
♪ Hold on to hope Don't be afraid of the dark ♪
♪ 'Cause I will come For you tonight ♪
My legs are all shaky
and, like, I'm feeling a little out of body [chuckles] kind of.
Hard to believe it's real,
like it's happening within a few minutes.
He's gonna come walking through those doors.
Like, it's all setting in.
We've been through a lot of stuff together,
like, four years of it.
And I feel a lot of pressure
because this is our last chance,
so I'm hoping that we can get it together
and do what's necessary to make this work
because I really love Mahmoud.
But I don't know
if things will improve when he gets here,
because I don't know if it's just,
if place can change all of the things that we are going through.
I just don't know how it's gonna be,
but I'm gonna give it my all.
♪ We both got scars And it's hard to understand ♪
Listen, we need to get a bigger house.
It costs a lot of money to buy a house.
You know, you're not even pregnant yet.
If you were pregnant, that's a different story.
It really is a good home for this...
- for the moment. Uh... - It is not. Actually, it is not.
[Gino] I need to be financially cautious right now.
When you're talking negatively.
♪ We've been Loving it up all day ♪
♪ We get work so we could play but we gotta get up ♪
♪ 'Cause we're Going out tonight ♪
Ay, ay, ay.
[chuckles]
♪ I love you loving like you love mine ♪
♪ We could stay here Till the end of time ♪
[Jasmine] I'm not a camping person, I don't like this.
Jasmine and I are on our honeymoon.
[chuckles] Yes, we are newlyweds,
and for me, being married to Gino feels like being able
to have your favorite dessert every day,
but I don't know, going camping
for a honeymoon is not, like, romantic.
You're gonna change your mind, you'll see.
- Hi! - [employee] Hi.
How are you today?
Hi.
Ah!
- So hot out there today. - Well, what can I do for you?
- I know. - [Gino laughs]
You're on a tent site today?
- Yes. - All right.
We just got married.
Well, congratulations.
This is our honeymoon.
Well, you're the first.
- Well, here's your map, and here's your car pass. - [Gino] Oh.
- Let's go, husband. - Ready?
Congratulations again, you two.
- Thank you. - Thank you.
- Enjoy. - Thanks very much.
- And welcome to our park here. - Thank you.
If you guys have a moment, I'll show you where the restrooms are.
[Jasmine] What the [bleep]?
So, these are the showers, it's just a...
basic outdoor camping shower,
- but the water is always hot. - Oh, that's nice. That's nice.
Lovely.
Glamorous, luxurious.
But, Gino, he wants to save money,
because he thinks that we spent too much money on the wedding.
So, wow, we are gonna have a Michigan honeymoon.
[Gino] Look at that water.
There is no way on earth I'm getting into that lake.
No?
Gino, you didn't watch the movie Cocodrive?
- Which one? - Cocodrive.
- It happened in the United States... - Coco Dry?
...and there was a huge "cocodrive"
that was eating everyone.
I'm not gonna die like that.
I'm sorry, what was he doing?
-"Crocrodile." - Oh, crocodile!
There's no crocodiles here.
Oh, there's 124!
That's our spot.
What do you think?
This camping sucks, I don't like it.
There are mosquitoes, they are biting me,
but I'm willing to try camping
if Gino tries to make a baby tonight
because I'm ovulating today,
so I need Gino.
[Gino] It doesn't make sense though.
Gino, it cannot be that difficult to built a tent.
It has only four walls.
Are you sure you don't wanna book a hotel?
Maybe if I do like this.
What are you doing?
Trying to unfold it.
Oh, there we go.
- See this little thing goes-- - Yeah, because I pushed that thing.
Yes!
I have never done this in my life.
How do you do it?
- Like this? - Don't put it directly in the fire, you know,
it'll burn so fast.
Is it?
- Just don't burn your mouth. - Mmm.
I've never eaten these things.
Mmm.
[blows]
Oh, my God.
It's so peaceful and quiet in here.
Isn't it?
Baby, I'm...
So far what I've seen from the United States,
like, I really like it.
- Mmm-hmm. - And...
I would love to raise my kids here.
And that being said,
I do believe that we should start looking for a bigger house.
I have never liked our current house
because you have another woman living there for seven years.
On top of that, it's also way too small for our kids.
It really is a good home for this...
- for the moment. Uh... - It is not. Actually, it is not,
because where are we gonna put my kids
and the baby that we are gonna make...
- potentially tonight? - We are gonna figure that out.
It costs a lot of money to buy a house now, very, very much.
Baby, you have to get a job.
[Gino] I know Jasmine wants a new house,
but right now we're living off my savings,
because I quit my job
just to support Jasmine when she comes to the USA.
So I need to be financially cautious right now.
When you're talking negativity...
You know, you're not even pregnant yet.
If you were pregnant, that's a different story.
That's exactly what I mean.
I don't wanna wait until I'm pregnant
and be thinking about, "Oh, my kids are coming
and then our baby is coming
- and-- - You want this one?
No, listen to me, I'm being serious.
Listen, we need to get a bigger house.
Before coming to America, Gino promised the world,
like, buying a new house,
but now he says that I need to get pregnant first.
He really wants to have children.
But what Gino doesn't know
is that I had issues in the past getting pregnant.
It is very [bleep] up, what I did,
I should have told him the truth, but I didn't.
One of the reasons
why Gino's first marriage didn't work out
had to do with the fact that
they could never get pregnant,
so I am so scared of telling Gino
I might not be able to ever get pregnant,
and I know that he will be heartbroken.
[Rob] I would like for you to come home
so that we could try to work our [bleep] out.
In my opinion, you're the same as
before two and a half months ago.
[Rob] That's not fair at all.
See, this is why we can't get anywhere, we can't move forward.
[Sophie] Because I don't trust you.
You should have been honest.
I didn't want to do that, so I lied.
♪ You can say that It's just a game ♪
♪ Love and hate It's all the same ♪
♪ But I still make you scream My name ♪
♪ Oh, it wasn't love It wasn't love ♪
- Hello. - Hola, chica.
- How are you? - I'm good.
- How you doing? - [chuckles] I'm good.
- You look nice. - First, I didn't even recognize you,
- I'm like, "Oh." [laughs] - How?
It's just been that long, huh?
You got those perked up, don't you?
Yes. [laughs]
I was really nervous before seeing Rob
and I just wanted to throw up from my nerves,
but now I'm finally seeing him,
all the nervous feelings I was feeling before have just gone away,
and I'm just extremely happy
to, like, finally see him again.
It's crazy that after all the drama
and everything that's happened,
that Rob can still give me butterflies
and I think that just shows that, like,
our love is really strong and we are gonna keep trying
and I feel like that shows that we are a strong couple.
Well, there's a selfie room, so I wanna take some pictures.
All right, I'll take a pink selfie.
[Sophie] Look, it says, "Good vibes only."
That's what we need. We need good vibes.
You need good vibes.
- Who? - You.
I have good vibes.
It looks like I have a pink shirt on.
[camera shutter clicks]
You do have a pink shirt on.
Seeing Sophie for the first time in two months,
I'm like, "Damn!"
My heart is beating out of my chest.
My palms are sweaty.
I'm super nervous.
She just does that to me.
[Sophie chuckling]
[both laughing]
- Hold it, someone's on the line. - Hold on.
[Sophie laughing]
- [camera shutter clicking] - Do a happy one.
[Sophie laughing]
[laughing] You look so serious.
- [camera shutter clicks] - Okay, take one of me.
This is a great reminder that,
when things are good between me and Rob,
they're, like, really good,
but I can't risk me taking him back
and... putting myself in that situation
to be hurt, again.
Otherwise I'm gonna leave.
- You know what's at home? - What?
- Your wedding ring. - I knew you had it, I knew it!
- You know why I have it? - Oh, my God, I feel so much better.
I thought I lost it
and I didn't wanna tell you 'cause I knew you took it.
- I didn't take it, [chuckles] you just know that if-- - Yes, you did!
- Oh, my God, I'm relieved... - I did not take it.
...because I thought I was terrible and lost the ring.
Let me see yours.
It's not on.
You don't have your ring on.
Everyone thinks you're a single guy
in Austin, living your life.
I'm just trying not to look stupid.
- I'm walking around with a wedding ring-- - You do look stupid,
a married man without the ring.
You know what's crazy?
It's that I have friends who have never met my wife.
You don't know my friends.
Well, you've hung out with them a whole lot more
than you've hung out with me.
Be honest.
I mean, you moved out two months ago, right?
- Because of you... - Right?
- ...of other issues. - Because of me, what?
- I didn't do anything that was like-- - You didn't do anything, okay.
What, a month after we got married...
- Mmm-hmm, yeah. - ...you did a factory reset on my phone.
Mmm-hmm, what did I find?
- You found conversations-- - I found
all these texts, all these other girls on your phone
from the whole four years.
There was like 50 bitches on your phone, Rob.
It was literally girls who hit me up,
tell me I'm cute or tell me, tell me, you know,
just to try to have, like, a conversation.
- What I've realized is you... - These little small interactions.
...cannot take accountability
- and you're always gonna try to victimize yourself. - I'm not trying to--
- Honestly, all you need to-- - You're not accepting me taking accountability.
Honestly, all you need to do is say, like,
"I know, I'm really sorry, how can we fix this."
Done.
See, this is why we can't get anywhere, we can't move forward.
[Sophie] Because I don't trust you.
You lied about the online cheating multiple times.
- No, that's not true. - It is true!
- It's not true. - It is true!
[Rob] I didn't want to tell you,
"Oh, I've had some small conversations
- with women over the years." - You should've, you should've, you should've been honest.
I didn't wanna do that, so I lied.
That's the only time I lied.
It would be completely different
if you had just tried to be honest with me and say,
"Look, I'm really sorry, I messed up."
I would've been accepting of that
because at least you was honest and you're trying.
Like, how do you not see that?
Because at the end of the day, I'm hoping
to avoid the [bleep] conflict altogether.
First of all,
I'm sorry that I had conversations with any women.
- Conversations, okay. - That's-- What else were they?
- They weren't physical. - No.
- They weren't emotional. - Okay, no. Downplay it,
- but continue. Continue. - I'm not-- How am I down--
The [bleep] you say is just like,
you just be reaching and that's the...
- that's what makes it so hard. - No, because if you're gonna come in here and act like,
"You moved out, you just wanna party with your..."
Like, no, say your side too, there's two sides to it.
But you're not taking any accountability for what you did.
- I have taken accountability. - I shouldn't be the one
to tell you what you did.
- Have I not already apologized to you? - Again.
- So, now I need to apologize again. - Mmm-hmm.
None of these women were backup options.
- I only liked-- - I'm not talking about it with you.
You saying the same things to me,
doesn't mean anything to me.
- So you just shut down and run away. - No, I'm just...
I'm over the conversation.
I would like for you to come home
In my opinion, you're the same as
before two and a half months ago.
That's not fair at all.
I... Sophie.
- I'm not talking about it right now. - I'm literally here
- apologizing for all of that. - I gave you two and a half months to change.
And I'm here apologizing for all these things.
You won't let it go.
Because it's so frustrating to someone to hurt you so bad
and just downplay it.
But it's like, you don't get it,
I have nothing to talk about.
♪ Oh la la la la
Woo ooo!
[horns honking]
This season on 90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After...
Woo!
I can't wait to meet Kobe's family, and you know,
be in your home country.
[laughter]
One foot in front of the other, interact with your public.
Jasmine has what it takes to be a beauty queen.
She's, like, the whole package.
He has a good package.
[laughter]
Wow!
Woo!
Oh. My. God.
I am just so excited to be Mrs. Big Ed.
I'm shocked that this wedding is actually happening.
So are we.
So what brings you in today?
Potentially, doing a postnuptial agreement.
In a marriage, you're entitled to half of
his savings and he's obligated to pay for half of your debts.
About 100K.
♪
[beeping]
And I'm telling you that I don't have
five [bleep] thousand dollars to pay for a lawyer.
Yeah. 'Cause I'm tired of this [bleep].
[sobbing]
Let me see your phone.
♪
The [bleep] is this?
30,000K contributions. Michael payment, payment.
What is this?
[bleep]
Like, this is my last chance to make him tell me, like,
"I want you. You're who I want."
You act like...K. Cool.
- Bye. - Bye forever.
[bleep]
♪
[sobbing]