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<i>Bon appetit, papi.</i>

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It's okay?

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- Of course.
- Yes, we have our ups
and downs.

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But also, we work
through them,

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and we're stronger than ever.

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Ari's first birthday party.
We did it.

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<i>Our last first birthday.</i>

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We managed not to kill each
other over the 90 days.

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And now I'm the mother of
his three kids.

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We don't want any more kids
at this point.

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Oh, yeah.

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Suck that toe.

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Very well said.

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<i>After four tumultuous years
of living in Egypt,</i>

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Mahmoud is moving to the U.S.

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<i>I'm feeling, like,
really anxious because</i>

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this is our last chance
to save our marriage.

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[speaking in Portuguese]

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No, no, no, no.

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John is just, you know,
always a pain in my ass.

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[exclaims]

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This is the most important day
of our life.

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I need to get my man home
to America.

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If the visa is denied,
it's over.

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I didn't want to
do that to you,

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but I should have come clean.

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It's not like I want
somebody else.

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I had to find out
through your friend, Ed.

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<i>I gave up everything for him.</i>

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I deserve some answers.

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[sniffles]

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What's wrong with you?

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You've been punishing me,
and you're enjoying

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your power over me.

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I don't enjoy showing power
over you or anything.

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No, I just don't.

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I am trying to track down
Mahmoud.

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Mahmoud!
Mahmoud!

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Mahmoud!
Get in the [bleep] car!

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[upbeat music playing]

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<i>♪ You hit the beat
Got the world on a streak ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Deliver forever
You'll do anything ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Hatch your eggs
Grab the diamond ring ♪</i>

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<i>♪ This is an art
to do everything ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Oh, oh</i>

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<i>♪ It's the time of our lives</i>

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[Kobe] Babe, I'm home.

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Honey, I have
a surprise for you.

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<i>Bon appetit, papi.</i>

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Wow. I love this.

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- Come here.
- Mm.

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Mm.

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[Lisa] Emily, Kobe,
dinner's ready.

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[groans]

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<i>I'm Kobe.</i>

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I'm 36 years old,
and I'm originally
from Cameroon.

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And this is
my beautiful wife, Emily.

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And we live in Salina, Kansas.

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<i>We have our son, Koban,
who is four,</i>

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and our daughter, Scarlett,
who is two.

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And all four of us are living
in my parents' basement.

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And we love it.

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Sure.

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It's a madhouse up here!

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A little bit.

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Dinner's ready.

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I'll help set the table.

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[Lisa] Maybe you can
help me set the table.

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This one for Koban?

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Well, Koban already ate.

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Koban, sit right here.

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Sissy, you already
had a sucker.

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Here, sit here.

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Can I have a bite?

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- Do you want a place to eat?
- Ah...

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- Check in, everybody.
- Oh, my gosh.

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So what have you guys
been up to?

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<i>We're very grateful having
my parents there to help with</i>

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<i>the kids,
but it's pretty challenging</i>

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having my parents there 24/7,
'cause they are,

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you know, all up
in our business all the time.

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To an extent,
we can't really feel free
as if,

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you know,
we were in our own house.

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He can't walk around
in his underwear.

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I love just being myself,
like, you know...

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- bare body.
- You like being naked.

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- All right, little children.
- I think they're really tired.

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- They're going. Let's go.
- Let's put them to bed.

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- Come on.
- Let's go.

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One, two, ready, go.

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Why am I getting
you like this?

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Say... [in French]

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- This happens every night.
- [speaking other language]

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- Every night.
- Huh?

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<i>I've never really been
a homebody.</i>

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I like to be, like,
constantly on the go.

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And it is crazy to think that,
you know,

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four years ago,
I was traveling all over.

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<i>Kobe and I met
in Xi'an, China.</i>

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<i>I went to China
to teach English,</i>

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<i>and he was there working as
an underwear model.</i>

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<i>I saw him in a bar,
and I thought he was very hot,</i>

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<i>and I followed him to
the bathroom and got
his number.</i>

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From that moment,
I'm like, yo,

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Let you give me a shot?

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You're lucky that
I gave you a shot.

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<i>We hooked up,
and a few weeks later,</i>

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<i>I found out I was pregnant.</i>

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[Kobe] <i>When I found out
she was pregnant,</i>

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at that moment, I'm like,
okay, it's happened.

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<i>She's the one.</i>

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<i>So I came back to America
and started the K1
visa process,</i>

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but unfortunately for us,
COVID hit,

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so it took almost two years
for Kobe to get here,

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and he missed, you know,
Koban's birth.

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[woman] Congratulations.

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But he finally got approved
for his visa,

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and he was able to meet
our son for the first time
face-to-face.

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Who's that?
Do you see Papa?

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Do you see Dada?

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- Oh, my God.
- Don't be shy.

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- Hi.
- Give him a hug together.

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[laughs]

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He's looking at you.

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Who is that?

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He looks just like you.

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Huh?

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It's okay. It's okay, babe.
It's okay.

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I was very happy
to becoming father,

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but to become a husband
was not very easy

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because our first 90 days
was so hard.

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This big pile of manure
goes in this bucket.

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All right, get in there.
Scoop it up.

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Keep calm, babe.

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Why don't you just start
from the big pile?

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- Why are you...
- Calm, honey.

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Just let me do what
I'm doing, okay?

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Why are you pulling it down?

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Are you serious?

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[grunts]

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One of the greatest challenges
we are ever facing in

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our relationship is
Emily's bossiness,

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but I love her anyway,
and I'm really happy that

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we made it, you know,

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to the altar.

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I, Kobe, take you, Emily,
to be my wife.

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[woman]
Will you, Emily, take this man
to be your husband?

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I do.

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[woman] I now pronounce you
husband and wife.

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[all clapping and cheering]

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All right, let's read
the little blue trucks, okay?

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Wow.

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You ready to go night-night?

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Are you going to go
with Mommy, okay?

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Get ready.
Give Daddy kisses.

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Good night, Daddy.

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- Okay.
- All right.

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It has been two years since
Kobe and I got married.

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And in that time,
we have had another baby,

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Scarlett, who is the best
addition to our family.

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<i>Kobe got his green card.
He has a job now.</i>

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<i>And I'm a stay-at-home mom.</i>

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And we are slowly saving money
so we can move out

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of my parents' basement
and get our own place.

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But for right now,
we're really happy.

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Oh my gosh, they are so tired.

167
00:09:02,379 --> 00:09:05,379
Well, that was record time
for them going to sleep.

168
00:09:07,103 --> 00:09:10,172
So I'm like, "Wow,
it's going to be so fun

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- to do a 25-hour
travel day with them."
- I know.

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I know.

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Can't wait for us to go
to Cameroon

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and then introduce you guys
to my big family.

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After two and a half years,
me, Emily, the kids,

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David, and Lisa are finally
going to Cameroon.

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<i>This will be Emily's
first time.</i>

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And I just cannot wait
to be back home

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and see my friends, my family,
and eat the good food.

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Oh, man...

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So how long is this flight
going to take?

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So 23 hours to get
to Cameroon.

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Okay.

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Everyone's stress levels need
to be dialed to one.

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I'm gonna get some kind of
medication for that.

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[Emily] We'll get you
some melatonin.

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- [laughs]
- It'll be fine.

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00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:02,103
Okay, so when do
we see your dad?

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00:10:02,103 --> 00:10:04,551
- Once we drive there.
- Once we drive to Buea, yeah.

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00:10:05,896 --> 00:10:08,655
Is there anything else that
we need to be concerned about?

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What happens on Monday?

190
00:10:16,482 --> 00:10:19,482
People who open their shops
on a Monday,

191
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they'll burn down the shop.

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00:10:27,724 --> 00:10:30,793
And there's always
been a history of conflict

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between the two regions.

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<i>There is a civil war going on
in Cameroon,</i>

195
00:10:41,482 --> 00:10:43,172
But, I mean,
we're gonna be safe.

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My family's gonna be with me.

197
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It wouldn't be going
if it was not safe.

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- You guys are gonna love
it there.
- Okay.

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00:10:52,689 --> 00:10:55,068
We're just gonna stick out
like a sore thumb.

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00:10:55,068 --> 00:10:57,172
Yeah.

201
00:10:57,172 --> 00:11:00,137
Are you nervous about meeting
Kobe's parents?

202
00:11:01,379 --> 00:11:04,172
I mean, it'll be the first
time meeting my in-laws.

203
00:11:04,172 --> 00:11:09,068
I mean, you just have to
be yourself, but, you know...

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00:11:10,379 --> 00:11:12,034
Less of American woman.

205
00:11:13,793 --> 00:11:16,448
- But I am an American woman.
- Of course.

206
00:11:17,724 --> 00:11:19,137
Well, I'm just saying.

207
00:11:20,517 --> 00:11:23,793
For the good of our family.

208
00:11:23,793 --> 00:11:26,551
- Just go easy, chill,
stay chill.
- Chill. Chill.

209
00:11:43,482 --> 00:11:46,000
- [sighs softly]
- Relax.
Just be less of yourself.

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00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:49,000
[laughing]

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00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:51,793
Meeting Kobe's family
for the first time,

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00:11:51,793 --> 00:11:55,793
you know, Kobe has obviously
said, I'm a little bossy.

213
00:11:55,793 --> 00:11:57,793
So I have a fear
of them thinking,

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00:11:57,793 --> 00:11:59,379
you know, I'm a bit much.

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00:11:59,379 --> 00:12:02,586
And did I take their son
to America? I did.

216
00:12:02,586 --> 00:12:05,379
So it's like,
I don't know how

217
00:12:05,379 --> 00:12:07,793
they truly feel about
all that.

218
00:12:07,793 --> 00:12:10,793
[Kobe] <i>I mean, in Cameroon,
it's very difficult to see
a woman, like,</i>

219
00:12:10,793 --> 00:12:13,000
try to stand up and challenge
her husband or try to,

220
00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:14,793
like, you know,
be bossy to the husband.

221
00:12:14,793 --> 00:12:18,103
Like, African women are very,
very submissive to their men.

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00:12:18,103 --> 00:12:21,172
I strongly believe that her
Type A personality

223
00:12:21,172 --> 00:12:23,758
can cause a lot of problems
to my family.

224
00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:27,068
Well, I guess we'll see.

225
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<i>♪ Can you make go
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ahh ♪</i>

226
00:12:35,379 --> 00:12:40,275
<i>♪ Do you think
You can touch me
In my hot spots?♪</i>

227
00:12:40,275 --> 00:12:43,965
<i>♪ So we can make love
On the floor ♪</i>

228
00:12:44,896 --> 00:12:46,965
[Sophie] We drank too much
wine last night.

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Sometimes we overdo it.

230
00:12:49,517 --> 00:12:51,793
But obviously, you know,
I feel like since

231
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we've moved in,
we're just having, like,
the best time.

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I'm just so glad that
you let me live here,

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00:12:57,586 --> 00:12:59,793
you know, after everything
that happened with Rob.

234
00:13:01,379 --> 00:13:03,482
I'm so glad you left
when you did.

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00:13:03,482 --> 00:13:05,482
Like, that was much needed.

236
00:13:05,482 --> 00:13:07,689
<i>♪ Fly with me to the sky
with me ♪</i>

237
00:13:07,689 --> 00:13:10,689
<i>♪ Don't be surprised at things
you find in me ♪</i>

238
00:13:10,689 --> 00:13:13,793
- You're welcome here anytime.
- No, no, I appreciate it.

239
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My home is your home.

240
00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:16,586
Yeah, no, I appreciate it.

241
00:13:17,896 --> 00:13:19,896
My name is Sophie,
I'm 24 years old,

242
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I'm from London,
and I was living in LA
for a bit,

243
00:13:22,793 --> 00:13:25,758
but now I live in Austin
with my best friend Kae
for the last two months.

244
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<i>The first year of
being married,</i>

245
00:13:28,172 --> 00:13:30,758
it's not really gone how
I expected it to go.

246
00:13:33,482 --> 00:13:35,172
Obviously, like,
I didn't move here with

247
00:13:35,172 --> 00:13:38,482
the intention of, like,
not working things out
with Rob.

248
00:13:38,482 --> 00:13:41,379
So it's just like,
I don't know,
it's just been a lot,

249
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and it's unfortunate it hasn't
worked out how I wanted it to.

250
00:13:44,482 --> 00:13:47,137
It's still weird for me to,
like, not live with
my husband.

251
00:13:49,482 --> 00:13:52,689
<i>My husband Rob was someone
I met online on social media.</i>

252
00:13:52,689 --> 00:13:54,586
<i>We basically started messaging
just because I thought</i>

253
00:13:54,586 --> 00:13:56,689
<i>he was cute and I guess
he thought I was cute.</i>

254
00:13:56,689 --> 00:14:00,586
And then mine and Rob's first
phone call went really well.

255
00:14:00,586 --> 00:14:02,172
<i>It lasted like eight hours.</i>

256
00:14:02,172 --> 00:14:04,344
It felt like we had
an instant connection.

257
00:14:05,689 --> 00:14:09,068
After I ended that call,
I was kind of just like,

258
00:14:09,068 --> 00:14:11,689
"Oh, my God, this is the guy
I want to be with."

259
00:14:11,689 --> 00:14:14,172
I felt like I found the guy
I'd been looking for

260
00:14:14,172 --> 00:14:16,379
the whole time
and just felt like this is it.

261
00:14:16,379 --> 00:14:19,137
This is who I'm going
to end up with,
which is insane.

262
00:14:20,689 --> 00:14:21,758
I love you, baby.

263
00:14:22,724 --> 00:14:25,689
What attracted me
to Rob initially was...

264
00:14:27,172 --> 00:14:29,172
<i>I actually had a lot
of pets growing up.</i>

265
00:14:29,172 --> 00:14:32,000
I had, like, ten turtles.
I had two dogs.

266
00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:34,896
<i>I had multiple cats.
I had just a bunch of animals.</i>

267
00:14:34,896 --> 00:14:36,689
Oh, I had rabbits as well.

268
00:14:36,689 --> 00:14:38,172
<i>His love of animals
is slightly different.</i>

269
00:14:38,172 --> 00:14:41,275
Like, he likes
weird creatures,
but I just loved it.

270
00:14:41,275 --> 00:14:42,379
It was really nice.

271
00:14:43,310 --> 00:14:46,103
<i>Me and Rob did long distance
for about two years,</i>

272
00:14:46,103 --> 00:14:48,586
and then after that,
I came up with the idea

273
00:14:48,586 --> 00:14:52,068
for us to do the K1 visa
so that we could actually
be together.

274
00:14:53,172 --> 00:14:56,172
<i>After my K1 visa was approved,
I was in on a plane</i>

275
00:14:56,172 --> 00:14:58,965
on my way to America to
start my new life with Rob.

276
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- Made it.
- I made it.

277
00:15:05,206 --> 00:15:08,586
Hey, baby.
You like that?

278
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[Sophie]
<i>It was really amazing
to, like,</i>

279
00:15:10,103 --> 00:15:13,379
<i>finally be with Rob,
and it felt like a fairy tale.</i>

280
00:15:13,379 --> 00:15:15,379
But then shortly after,
I realized that

281
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he wasn't the person
I had been imagining

282
00:15:19,172 --> 00:15:20,241
the whole time.

283
00:15:22,689 --> 00:15:24,000
Oh.

284
00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:25,793
- You like that?
- Yeah, that's better.

285
00:15:28,068 --> 00:15:30,379
Oh, yeah, that might be over
the fence right there.

286
00:15:30,379 --> 00:15:32,379
I feel like a scholarship
might come out of this.

287
00:15:32,379 --> 00:15:33,482
Where is the scholarship?

288
00:15:39,724 --> 00:15:40,758
All right, Rob.

289
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I'm Rob.
I'm 33 years old.

290
00:15:44,172 --> 00:15:46,000
I'm originally
from Kansas City, Missouri,

291
00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:47,896
currently living in
Austin, Texas.

292
00:15:47,896 --> 00:15:51,275
I'm married to Sophie,
at least for now.

293
00:15:53,689 --> 00:15:57,379
Sophie and I met online
through just social media.

294
00:15:57,379 --> 00:15:59,448
<i>I thought she was beautiful,
and I told her,</i>

295
00:16:02,724 --> 00:16:05,379
<i>♪ Yeah
Don't ask me how I do it ♪</i>

296
00:16:05,379 --> 00:16:08,586
<i>Sophie's personality really
struck me as different
and unique,</i>

297
00:16:08,586 --> 00:16:10,896
<i>and she definitely
grew up rich,</i>

298
00:16:10,896 --> 00:16:14,172
but she didn't come off as
someone who was, like,

299
00:16:14,172 --> 00:16:17,000
pretentious or thought
she was better than people.

300
00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:21,103
<i>She wanted to get to know me
in a sincere way.</i>

301
00:16:21,103 --> 00:16:23,793
That just made me fall even
that much harder for her.

302
00:16:26,620 --> 00:16:31,379
<i>And then Sophie
came to America on
a K-1 visa with this...</i>

303
00:16:31,379 --> 00:16:34,379
deadline to get married,
which was very stressful.

304
00:16:34,379 --> 00:16:38,655
And I think that just
made it really hard on us
that first 90 days.

305
00:16:41,172 --> 00:16:44,896
<i>The problem started
when I online cheated.</i>

306
00:16:44,896 --> 00:16:47,896
It had happened before Sophie
and I were living together
in LA,

307
00:16:47,896 --> 00:16:49,482
before the K1 visa.

308
00:16:51,172 --> 00:16:53,482
<i>There were women sending
inappropriate videos</i>

309
00:16:53,482 --> 00:16:55,896
<i>and pictures
and basically porn.</i>

310
00:16:55,896 --> 00:16:57,896
<i>And I encouraged it.</i>

311
00:16:57,896 --> 00:17:01,448
So the fact is,
I online cheated,
and I don't deny that.

312
00:17:03,586 --> 00:17:06,689
I'm not perfect,
but I'm definitely not trying

313
00:17:06,689 --> 00:17:08,379
to [bleep] with nobody else
but you.

314
00:17:08,379 --> 00:17:09,655
- Baby...
- You know the messages.

315
00:17:09,655 --> 00:17:11,379
I saw the messages,
even the ones that
you didn't say.

316
00:17:11,379 --> 00:17:12,896
I've seen them, Rob.

317
00:17:12,896 --> 00:17:14,379
So I don't care what
you keep saying.

318
00:17:14,379 --> 00:17:15,448
You're just a liar.

319
00:17:16,689 --> 00:17:20,000
[Rob] <i>Fortunately,
she accepted my apology</i>

320
00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:22,482
and she was actually
gonna marry me

321
00:17:22,482 --> 00:17:24,689
and give me
that chance to show her

322
00:17:24,689 --> 00:17:26,103
<i>I love her
and I'm loyal</i>

323
00:17:26,103 --> 00:17:30,034
and if she's in my life,
I truly don't want
anyone else.

324
00:17:32,517 --> 00:17:34,793
It's my very great pleasure
and delight

325
00:17:34,793 --> 00:17:37,896
to now pronounce you
husband and wife.

326
00:17:39,724 --> 00:17:41,586
[all cheering]

327
00:17:46,482 --> 00:17:47,758
Don't tell 'em about it.

328
00:17:50,482 --> 00:17:54,172
Soon after we got married,
we decided to get
a fresh start.

329
00:17:54,172 --> 00:17:57,793
Sophie and I and my dog Rome,
we all moved to Austin, Texas.

330
00:17:57,793 --> 00:18:02,172
We expanded the family a bit,
and I got some pet tarantulas,

331
00:18:02,793 --> 00:18:03,862
six of them.

332
00:18:04,931 --> 00:18:06,689
But just a few months
after we moved,

333
00:18:06,689 --> 00:18:09,482
the fighting continued,
and Sophie decided

334
00:18:09,482 --> 00:18:11,896
to go move out and live
with her new best friend

335
00:18:11,896 --> 00:18:13,344
in Austin, this girl Kae.

336
00:18:15,103 --> 00:18:16,896
It's like at the end of
the day, the 90 days,

337
00:18:16,896 --> 00:18:20,586
it worked against us more
than you could ever know.

338
00:18:20,586 --> 00:18:23,793
Like, it wasn't enough time
to understand where we were.

339
00:18:23,793 --> 00:18:26,586
It wasn't enough time to be
sure about where we were.

340
00:18:26,586 --> 00:18:28,896
- Yeah.
- So we had 90 days
to figure it all out.

341
00:18:28,896 --> 00:18:30,689
And this is the last thing
I expected

342
00:18:30,689 --> 00:18:32,172
was that I was gonna
get married

343
00:18:32,172 --> 00:18:35,000
and in our first year
together,

344
00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:36,275
she wouldn't be living
with me.

345
00:18:36,275 --> 00:18:39,103
It doesn't sound like you guys
are married in my eyes.

346
00:18:39,103 --> 00:18:42,275
Yeah. It's not what I thought
it was gonna be like either.

347
00:18:42,275 --> 00:18:44,551
I haven't seen my wife
in two months.

348
00:18:46,172 --> 00:18:49,068
I just feel like everything's
just been really overwhelming.

349
00:18:49,068 --> 00:18:50,172
Like, not just getting
married,

350
00:18:50,172 --> 00:18:51,586
but, like, moving to
a new country.

351
00:18:51,586 --> 00:18:53,275
- I can only imagine.
- And it's like, you know,

352
00:18:53,275 --> 00:18:54,586
obviously,
when people get married,

353
00:18:54,586 --> 00:18:57,793
like, they expect, like,
you know,
everything works out.

354
00:18:57,793 --> 00:18:59,379
And I was kind of hoping
that, like,

355
00:18:59,379 --> 00:19:02,000
moving here would be
a fresh start for us.

356
00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:05,275
I don't know.
I was just hoping for this to,
like, change things for us.

357
00:19:05,275 --> 00:19:07,862
- But I just feel, if anything,
it made it worse.
- Yeah.

358
00:19:09,310 --> 00:19:11,586
I tried to put Rob's cheating
behind me,

359
00:19:11,586 --> 00:19:13,689
but shortly after
I moved to Austin,

360
00:19:13,689 --> 00:19:16,689
I saw that he had got
this text from some
random girl.

361
00:19:16,689 --> 00:19:19,172
<i>So I figured out a way
to get into Rob's social media</i>

362
00:19:19,172 --> 00:19:20,896
<i>to find out what was really
going on,</i>

363
00:19:20,896 --> 00:19:23,896
and that's how I found out
that he was actually
talking to,

364
00:19:23,896 --> 00:19:27,793
like, way more girls than
he had admitted to.

365
00:19:27,793 --> 00:19:31,793
So he lied to me about
the extent of his
online cheating.

366
00:19:33,827 --> 00:19:35,793
And, like, the thing is,
is, like, how do we know

367
00:19:35,793 --> 00:19:37,448
he's not gonna do it again?

368
00:19:38,482 --> 00:19:40,862
Yeah, I mean,
that's the thing, like,
I don't know that.

369
00:19:41,275 --> 00:19:42,655
No, my God, no.

370
00:19:47,310 --> 00:19:49,689
What do you think
about her friends?

371
00:19:49,689 --> 00:19:51,379
Yeah, she's got this
one friend, Kae,

372
00:19:51,379 --> 00:19:54,172
that is kind of like
the Bane of my existence.

373
00:19:54,172 --> 00:19:56,482
She's just ruining
our relationship, I feel like.

374
00:19:56,482 --> 00:19:58,448
And that's the girl
she lives with.

375
00:19:59,275 --> 00:20:00,379
Have you seen Kae?

376
00:20:00,379 --> 00:20:02,275
- In person?
- Yeah, I met Kae a few times.

377
00:20:02,275 --> 00:20:04,379
And every time I meet her,
she's all, "Rob,

378
00:20:04,379 --> 00:20:06,482
you should be out
with us more often, Rob."

379
00:20:06,482 --> 00:20:09,000
This and that.
All positive,
all happy-go-lucky.

380
00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:12,000
But then I know that
she doesn't respect
our marriage.

381
00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:13,172
She doesn't respect me.

382
00:20:13,172 --> 00:20:15,586
So it's like, that's who's in
her ear all the time.

383
00:20:15,586 --> 00:20:18,344
So it's definitely not helping
our relationship whatsoever.

384
00:20:19,172 --> 00:20:21,000
And bro, to be honest,

385
00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:24,068
I am thinking that,
are you [bleep] this girl?

386
00:20:24,068 --> 00:20:25,655
Like, are y'all in
a relationship?

387
00:20:26,793 --> 00:20:28,275
You think she's a lesbian?

388
00:20:28,275 --> 00:20:30,103
I mean, she said
she was bisexual,

389
00:20:30,103 --> 00:20:32,896
- but she had never hooked up.
- Wait, Kae or Sophie?

390
00:20:32,896 --> 00:20:33,931
Sophie.

391
00:20:33,931 --> 00:20:35,689
And honestly,
I feel like Kae's a little...

392
00:20:35,689 --> 00:20:38,379
Wait, wait, you gotta rewind.
When did you find this out?

393
00:20:38,379 --> 00:20:40,586
Bro, I found out right before
we got married that Sophie

394
00:20:40,586 --> 00:20:43,551
was into women,
but she never actually
explored it.

395
00:20:44,103 --> 00:20:45,275
How did...

396
00:20:52,793 --> 00:20:54,586
- There's nothing bad.
- Then what is it?

397
00:20:54,586 --> 00:20:56,034
There's nothing I want you
to worry about.

398
00:20:59,689 --> 00:21:00,862
You're bi?

399
00:21:02,103 --> 00:21:03,344
Like, bisexual?

400
00:21:04,793 --> 00:21:06,275
[grunts]

401
00:21:08,172 --> 00:21:10,793
You have to remember, like,
this is your life, too.

402
00:21:10,793 --> 00:21:11,862
You know what I mean?

403
00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,586
Yeah, and I just...
It's just hard for me,

404
00:21:15,586 --> 00:21:17,793
'cause it's like,
this isn't how it's meant
to be, you know?

405
00:21:17,793 --> 00:21:21,103
And I just, like, really want
things to work out, you know?

406
00:21:21,103 --> 00:21:23,000
But it's like,
I don't even live
with my husband.

407
00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:24,172
I live here, you know?

408
00:21:24,172 --> 00:21:26,000
I know, and I'm taking care
of you better than he is.

409
00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:27,275
[both laughing]

410
00:21:27,793 --> 00:21:29,655
- Literally.
- [laughing]

411
00:21:33,724 --> 00:21:35,275
What if she is in love with K?

412
00:21:35,275 --> 00:21:36,793
And obviously,
we don't know, right?

413
00:21:36,793 --> 00:21:38,137
Bro, if she's in love with K,
she's...

414
00:21:39,206 --> 00:21:41,068
We don't know,
but it sounds like

415
00:21:41,068 --> 00:21:43,758
your wife is sleeping with
somebody else.

416
00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,068
From my position right now,
from what you're telling me...

417
00:21:48,068 --> 00:21:49,068
I know it sounds
[bleep] stupid.

418
00:21:49,068 --> 00:21:51,655
It sounds dumb.

419
00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:54,448
But I don't have answers.

420
00:21:59,206 --> 00:22:01,482
<i>I don't know Kae's sexuality.</i>

421
00:22:01,482 --> 00:22:04,344
<i>And Sophie has not been
getting intimate with me</i>

422
00:22:04,827 --> 00:22:05,793
for a while.

423
00:22:05,793 --> 00:22:07,793
So, you know,
I got to wonder if is

424
00:22:07,793 --> 00:22:09,379
Sophie getting that
somewhere else?

425
00:22:09,379 --> 00:22:10,758
Is she getting that with Kae?

426
00:22:11,517 --> 00:22:13,896
<i>But at the same time,
she might not be.</i>

427
00:22:13,896 --> 00:22:16,379
<i>And me asking could
make things worse.</i>

428
00:22:17,517 --> 00:22:19,379
So I don't know where Sophie's
head is at right now,

429
00:22:19,379 --> 00:22:23,482
but every day I do feel like
she's slipping away from me.

430
00:22:23,482 --> 00:22:25,241
Do you regret getting married?

431
00:22:28,724 --> 00:22:30,000
I don't know, man.

432
00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:33,586
<i>It feels like she's getting
used to a life without me.</i>

433
00:22:33,586 --> 00:22:37,379
And I know that I [bleep] up,
but she's the love of my life,

434
00:22:37,379 --> 00:22:39,172
and I'm really not ready
to lose her.

435
00:22:45,689 --> 00:22:48,689
<i>Looking for some pajamas
for my husbands.</i>

436
00:22:48,689 --> 00:22:51,068
Tomorrow, Mahmoud is moving
to the US,

437
00:22:51,068 --> 00:22:53,482
and it's going to be
a whole new chapter for us.

438
00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:55,862
[speaking in Arabic]

439
00:23:11,793 --> 00:23:13,931
[upbeat music playing]

440
00:23:28,172 --> 00:23:30,482
<i>♪ Could it be my hair?</i>

441
00:23:30,482 --> 00:23:32,068
<i>♪ Maybe it's my purse</i>

442
00:23:32,068 --> 00:23:34,482
<i>♪ Get yourself together, girl
Getting...♪</i>

443
00:23:34,482 --> 00:23:36,586
<i>♪ It's a glow-up
You can hashtag that ♪</i>

444
00:23:36,586 --> 00:23:39,000
<i>♪ Upgrade
New style ♪</i>

445
00:23:41,586 --> 00:23:43,482
- Hi, how are you?
- I'm good, how are you?

446
00:23:43,482 --> 00:23:46,068
- I'm good, thank you.
- If you need anything,
just let us know.

447
00:23:46,068 --> 00:23:47,068
Okay.

448
00:23:47,586 --> 00:23:48,896
My name's Nicole.

449
00:23:48,896 --> 00:23:52,758
I'm 40 years old,
and I live in Los Angeles,
California.

450
00:23:52,758 --> 00:23:55,275
- Do you sell pajamas here?
- I do, I have lots of pajamas.

451
00:23:55,275 --> 00:23:56,758
- Really?
- Yeah, they're actually
just right over here.

452
00:23:56,758 --> 00:23:57,896
Okay.

453
00:23:57,896 --> 00:23:59,172
- I like your shirt.
- Thank you.

454
00:23:59,172 --> 00:24:00,103
It's cute.

455
00:24:01,103 --> 00:24:03,793
I've always loved fashion,
and living here

456
00:24:03,793 --> 00:24:06,172
in Los Angeles,
I feel like I can be

457
00:24:06,172 --> 00:24:07,793
as expressive as I want.

458
00:24:07,793 --> 00:24:10,379
<i>I just kind of feel free here,</i>

459
00:24:10,379 --> 00:24:13,758
and I can wear what I want.

460
00:24:13,758 --> 00:24:16,172
Looking for some pajamas
for my husband.

461
00:24:16,862 --> 00:24:20,068
I did get a new one recently.

462
00:24:20,862 --> 00:24:23,689
<i>Back in Egypt,
my husband Mahmoud</i>

463
00:24:23,689 --> 00:24:26,172
<i>tries to wear
his street clothes to bed.</i>

464
00:24:26,172 --> 00:24:29,275
Like, one time, he wore,
like, a wool sweater and,

465
00:24:29,275 --> 00:24:32,275
like, some jeans to bed,
and it was, like,
scratched me.

466
00:24:32,275 --> 00:24:35,068
Like, it scratched my arm
or something.

467
00:24:35,068 --> 00:24:37,482
It drives me crazy,
and so I want to get him

468
00:24:37,482 --> 00:24:39,000
some comfortable pajamas.

469
00:24:39,482 --> 00:24:40,862
Which is pretty great.

470
00:24:40,862 --> 00:24:43,103
I haven't had a chance
to price it or steam it yet.

471
00:24:43,103 --> 00:24:45,689
I mean, that's really cute.
I don't know if you'd go
for it, though.

472
00:24:46,517 --> 00:24:48,172
- He's a little picky.
- A little picky?

473
00:24:48,172 --> 00:24:49,586
Yeah, he's a little picky.

474
00:24:51,689 --> 00:24:54,000
What about this guy?
Does he look yellow?

475
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,000
Those are cute, yeah.
Let's do those.

476
00:24:57,275 --> 00:24:59,586
- So where's your husband from?
- He's from Egypt.

477
00:24:59,586 --> 00:25:02,000
- Yeah, he's moving here.
- Wow, so you're doing
long distance.

478
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:03,586
Yeah, we have been
for four years,

479
00:25:03,586 --> 00:25:06,000
except last year
I was living in Egypt,

480
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,000
and then I moved back,
and then his visa
was approved,

481
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,379
- so he's going to come.
- Oh, my God. That's great.

482
00:25:09,379 --> 00:25:10,689
- Congrats.
- Yeah. We'll see. Thank you.

483
00:25:10,689 --> 00:25:11,586
Thank you.

484
00:25:11,586 --> 00:25:14,241
It's been a long, long,
long road.

485
00:25:15,103 --> 00:25:16,862
I miss Mahmoud so much.

486
00:25:16,862 --> 00:25:19,482
<i>It's been five months
since I've seen him,</i>

487
00:25:19,482 --> 00:25:21,482
<i>but I'm so excited
because tomorrow</i>

488
00:25:21,482 --> 00:25:24,482
Mahmoud is moving to the U.S.,
and it's going to be

489
00:25:24,482 --> 00:25:26,137
a whole new chapter for us.

490
00:25:27,896 --> 00:25:32,068
Four years ago, I went on
a spiritual retreat in Egypt.

491
00:25:32,068 --> 00:25:34,275
<i>And on the last day of
the trip,</i>

492
00:25:34,275 --> 00:25:38,172
I met Mahmoud
in a fabric store
where he was working.

493
00:25:38,172 --> 00:25:42,000
<i>It was definitely an intense
attraction at first sight.</i>

494
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,896
Just everything,
like his skin,
just he's dreamy.

495
00:25:44,896 --> 00:25:47,000
Like I looked into his eyes
and I was like,

496
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:50,586
"Damn, he's so cute."
I'm so glad he said hi.

497
00:25:50,586 --> 00:25:53,275
<i>We only spent one day
together in Egypt,</i>

498
00:25:53,275 --> 00:25:55,379
<i>and then I went home
to the U.S.</i>

499
00:25:55,379 --> 00:25:59,103
And within a week, I think,
of being back in the U.S.,

500
00:25:59,103 --> 00:26:02,551
he said he loves me
and he proposed to me.

501
00:26:03,793 --> 00:26:06,241
And a couple weeks later,
I was back in Cairo.

502
00:26:07,793 --> 00:26:11,586
<i>We both knew that there
would be a lot of religious</i>

503
00:26:11,586 --> 00:26:14,689
<i>and cultural differences
that would challenge us.</i>

504
00:26:14,689 --> 00:26:17,275
And of course, we'd only known
each other a month,

505
00:26:17,793 --> 00:26:19,275
<i>but we were crazy in love.</i>

506
00:26:21,689 --> 00:26:24,172
But you know, sometimes love
just isn't enough.

507
00:26:26,793 --> 00:26:31,379
For the last four years,
I have tried to live there

508
00:26:31,379 --> 00:26:35,000
and assimilate and make life
in Egypt work,

509
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:37,172
<i>but I just couldn't do it.</i>

510
00:26:38,275 --> 00:26:40,448
So I had to come back
to the United States.

511
00:26:44,586 --> 00:26:47,862
<i>For me in Egypt,
living like an Egyptian woman</i>

512
00:26:47,862 --> 00:26:51,758
<i>was a big challenge because
in Islamic marriage,</i>

513
00:26:51,758 --> 00:26:53,172
there were just
a lot of rules,

514
00:26:53,172 --> 00:26:55,379
a lot of rules,
very strict rules.

515
00:26:55,379 --> 00:26:58,758
Like, I definitely made sure
I was always covered

516
00:26:58,758 --> 00:27:00,896
when I was in public.

517
00:27:00,896 --> 00:27:03,862
And I tried my best
to conform.

518
00:27:05,896 --> 00:27:08,655
<i>I was doing things
just to please him.</i>

519
00:27:09,482 --> 00:27:10,931
I felt like I lost myself.

520
00:27:11,758 --> 00:27:12,758
[Mahmoud speaking English]

521
00:27:15,482 --> 00:27:16,551
[Nicole] Yeah.

522
00:27:19,310 --> 00:27:21,758
In my hooded bathing suit?

523
00:27:23,586 --> 00:27:25,965
I think you should try to
wear it and see how it feels.

524
00:27:27,206 --> 00:27:30,482
I do not like to be told
what to do! Um...

525
00:27:30,482 --> 00:27:33,896
My mom did that a lot
when I was a grown up.

526
00:27:33,896 --> 00:27:36,482
So I have a hard time
taking orders and commands

527
00:27:36,482 --> 00:27:39,034
from somebody,
especially my husband.

528
00:27:40,413 --> 00:27:41,551
[Mahmoud speaking English]

529
00:27:42,689 --> 00:27:44,172
Leave me the [bleep] alone!

530
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:46,655
Everything about you--

531
00:27:49,103 --> 00:27:52,275
Every single second,
like of every day
that I've been here so far,

532
00:27:52,275 --> 00:27:54,275
it's just you picking at me!
Like, pick, pick, pick!

533
00:27:55,689 --> 00:27:56,862
Yes, constantly.

534
00:27:56,862 --> 00:27:58,896
Nothing's not good enough
for you ever!

535
00:27:58,896 --> 00:28:00,862
Go find some
other [bleeping]!

536
00:28:02,103 --> 00:28:06,275
<i>I was like, no more.
I can't. I can't do it.</i>

537
00:28:06,275 --> 00:28:10,448
But I feel like maybe
we hadn't tried
all that we could try.

538
00:28:11,206 --> 00:28:14,275
And now Mahmoud is,
is coming from Egypt

539
00:28:14,275 --> 00:28:16,655
to the United States
on a spousal visa.

540
00:28:17,275 --> 00:28:19,172
<i>And this
isn't gonna be easy.</i>

541
00:28:19,172 --> 00:28:21,379
But we have to make this work.

542
00:28:21,379 --> 00:28:23,862
It's our last shot.

543
00:28:23,862 --> 00:28:25,379
- Have a great day.
- [man] Thank you.
Have a good one.

544
00:28:25,379 --> 00:28:26,482
- Thank you so much.
Take care.
- Good bye.

545
00:28:26,482 --> 00:28:28,000
All right. Thank you.

546
00:28:28,482 --> 00:28:30,758
[soft music playing]

547
00:28:51,413 --> 00:28:52,689
[Mahmoud speaking English]

548
00:29:19,379 --> 00:29:21,586
[Nicole]
You know, I just think
I'm like home sick already.

549
00:29:21,586 --> 00:29:25,034
I, you know, I don't
have an apartment
any more in L.A. [crying]

550
00:29:27,379 --> 00:29:29,275
No. But, like,
we fight all the time.

551
00:29:29,275 --> 00:29:31,965
It's just like,
I just hope we can
figure it out. That's all.

552
00:29:50,896 --> 00:29:53,275
And now I'm moving
to United States,

553
00:29:53,275 --> 00:29:55,448
and trying to start
new life there.

554
00:30:35,931 --> 00:30:37,137
[speaking Arabic]

555
00:30:43,379 --> 00:30:45,551
[speaking Arabic]

556
00:31:03,793 --> 00:31:05,034
[Mahmoud speaking English]

557
00:31:20,758 --> 00:31:23,655
[speaking Arabic]

558
00:32:12,586 --> 00:32:13,931
[sighs wearily]

559
00:32:25,896 --> 00:32:27,068
[in English]

560
00:32:43,896 --> 00:32:44,965
[both speaking Arabic]

561
00:33:09,758 --> 00:33:11,000
[speaking Arabic]

562
00:33:22,310 --> 00:33:23,827
[Mahmoud speaking English]

563
00:33:43,931 --> 00:33:45,103
How's being married?

564
00:33:45,103 --> 00:33:47,482
We need to work
on our communication.

565
00:33:47,482 --> 00:33:50,586
It's clear he doesn't fully
trust me with everything.

566
00:33:50,586 --> 00:33:52,000
<i>We've known
each other for 10 years.</i>

567
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:54,172
<i>And I've never
met Manuel's children.</i>

568
00:33:54,172 --> 00:33:57,241
I don't really know
why that's happening.

569
00:34:12,965 --> 00:34:14,551
[Manuel speaking Spanish]

570
00:34:21,793 --> 00:34:22,758
[Manuel speaking English]

571
00:34:24,344 --> 00:34:25,655
[Ashley] Keep it going!

572
00:34:26,551 --> 00:34:28,551
Come on! Yes, you can!

573
00:34:30,689 --> 00:34:33,965
- Let's go!
- [dance music playing]

574
00:34:33,965 --> 00:34:36,793
Four, three, two, one!

575
00:34:36,793 --> 00:34:38,137
And cross!

576
00:34:38,965 --> 00:34:40,758
Nine!

577
00:34:40,758 --> 00:34:42,448
Come on!

578
00:34:42,448 --> 00:34:43,448
Let's go!

579
00:34:43,448 --> 00:34:44,448
[speaking Spanish]

580
00:34:45,896 --> 00:34:47,275
[Ashley in English] Come on!

581
00:34:47,275 --> 00:34:49,448
<i>♪ Step into your best life</i>

582
00:34:50,793 --> 00:34:54,241
<i>♪ Love yourself
and shine bright ♪</i>

583
00:34:54,241 --> 00:34:58,172
I want us to give a hand
for my honey-bunny
over there in the back.

584
00:34:58,172 --> 00:35:00,620
- It's his first spin class.
- [all cheering]

585
00:35:03,896 --> 00:35:07,448
I'm Ashley. I'm 33 years old.
And I'm from Rochester,
New York.

586
00:35:07,793 --> 00:35:09,310
[speaking Spanish]

587
00:35:11,551 --> 00:35:17,551
[in English] And we have
been husband and wife
for almost one whole year.

588
00:35:17,551 --> 00:35:21,000
Guys, that was such
a great class. Thank you all
so much for coming!

589
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:23,241
Let's get those
towels in the air!

590
00:35:24,275 --> 00:35:25,586
Yes!

591
00:35:25,586 --> 00:35:27,379
<i>I like to keep busy.</i>

592
00:35:27,379 --> 00:35:30,344
My main occupation
is a practicing witch.

593
00:35:30,344 --> 00:35:34,103
I work in tarot, astrology,
and I'm a spin instructor.

594
00:35:35,551 --> 00:35:36,758
[woman speaking Spanish]

595
00:35:38,551 --> 00:35:39,931
[Manuel speaking Spanish]

596
00:35:49,862 --> 00:35:50,896
Mm...

597
00:35:50,896 --> 00:35:52,034
[speaking Spanish]

598
00:35:55,862 --> 00:35:58,551
[in English] <i>Manuel
and I met over 10 years ago.</i>

599
00:35:58,551 --> 00:36:01,344
<i>I was in Ecuador for college.</i>

600
00:36:01,344 --> 00:36:04,896
<i>And then New Years eve night,
he asked me to dance.</i>

601
00:36:04,896 --> 00:36:06,896
I was sitting there
with my girlfriends...

602
00:36:06,896 --> 00:36:08,655
[continues in Spanish]

603
00:36:11,172 --> 00:36:14,448
[in English] Of course
I'm gonna think,
"Oh, my God. I'm in love!"

604
00:36:15,172 --> 00:36:16,827
- Yeah.
- Yeah.

605
00:36:17,689 --> 00:36:20,655
[Ashley] <i>We did
long-distance on and off.</i>

606
00:36:20,655 --> 00:36:25,241
<i>But it took seven years
for us to reconnect.</i>

607
00:36:25,241 --> 00:36:30,241
<i>And then one day
I decided to fly to Ecuador
again to see if this was real.</i>

608
00:36:30,241 --> 00:36:33,689
About two hours
after I landed in Ecuador,

609
00:36:33,689 --> 00:36:35,551
<i>he pulls out a ring...</i>

610
00:36:36,275 --> 00:36:37,896
and presents it to me.

611
00:36:37,896 --> 00:36:41,241
And then I was like,
"Okay, I--"

612
00:36:42,379 --> 00:36:44,689
<i>We applied for the K1 visa.</i>

613
00:36:44,689 --> 00:36:50,448
And then when Manuel
was finally, actually
coming to the United States,

614
00:36:50,448 --> 00:36:53,758
I had the biggest
panic attack of my life.

615
00:36:53,758 --> 00:36:55,758
- Oh, my God.
- [woman on phone
speaks indistinctly]

616
00:36:55,758 --> 00:36:58,758
Oh, my God. I'm freaking out.
I'm freaking out!

617
00:36:58,758 --> 00:37:02,344
- Oh, my God! Mm... [exclaims]
- [woman on phone]
Okay, breath in.

618
00:37:02,344 --> 00:37:04,620
Oh, my God. I'm ugly crying!

619
00:37:05,758 --> 00:37:09,137
I was absolutely
overcome with emotion.

620
00:37:09,137 --> 00:37:13,344
But if Manuel can find
the strength to up and leave
his family in Ecuador,

621
00:37:13,344 --> 00:37:16,965
I can find a way
to accept him fully
into my life.

622
00:37:17,655 --> 00:37:19,172
Oh! [laughing]

623
00:37:23,275 --> 00:37:24,896
[speaking Spanish]

624
00:37:32,586 --> 00:37:36,379
90 days if definitely not
enough to get to know somebody
before you marry them.

625
00:37:36,379 --> 00:37:40,896
Especially because
Manuel is secretive when
it comes to his family.

626
00:37:40,896 --> 00:37:45,448
He likes to decide
what I need to know
and what I don't need to know.

627
00:37:45,448 --> 00:37:47,344
Like, I knew he had
some family in New York.

628
00:37:47,344 --> 00:37:49,137
I just didn't know
how many he had.

629
00:37:49,137 --> 00:37:51,000
And so that was
a bit of a surprise to me.

630
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:52,517
[Mercy speaking spanish
over phone]

631
00:37:53,379 --> 00:37:54,655
[Manuel speaking Spanish]

632
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:00,551
[speaking Spanish]

633
00:38:03,448 --> 00:38:04,551
[Ashley speaking Spanish]

634
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:10,000
Manuel is a person...

635
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:13,448
who clearly has said
that he is a closed book.

636
00:38:13,448 --> 00:38:18,689
And I need to open up
the book and ask what
every single page means.

637
00:38:18,689 --> 00:38:20,965
This is the way Manuel moves.

638
00:38:21,793 --> 00:38:24,655
But, um, I can't see myself
with anybody else.

639
00:38:26,241 --> 00:38:28,068
- [agreeing in Spanish]
- Mm-hmm.

640
00:38:28,965 --> 00:38:30,724
[speaking Spanish]

641
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:36,758
[Ashley speaking Spanish]

642
00:38:41,965 --> 00:38:43,241
[all cheering]

643
00:38:46,689 --> 00:38:48,344
So, [bleep] was hard!

644
00:38:48,344 --> 00:38:50,862
But, we're here.

645
00:38:50,862 --> 00:38:52,206
- Yeah. Yeah.
- Yeah.

646
00:38:56,034 --> 00:38:57,931
[upbeat music playing]

647
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:03,517
[both speaking Spanish]

648
00:39:09,172 --> 00:39:11,344
Manuel feels really
lonely in Rochester

649
00:39:11,344 --> 00:39:14,000
and misses his friends
and family.

650
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:17,241
So I've been trying
to make more effort

651
00:39:17,241 --> 00:39:19,655
into him connecting
with my family.

652
00:39:20,379 --> 00:39:21,862
- [all] Hi!
- Hi, sweetheart!

653
00:39:21,862 --> 00:39:23,896
[all greeting]

654
00:39:23,896 --> 00:39:25,689
- Hello.
- [indistinct conversation]

655
00:39:25,689 --> 00:39:27,655
- So nice to see you.
- [woman] Hi, baby girl.

656
00:39:27,655 --> 00:39:29,655
- How are you doin', honey?
- I'm good.

657
00:39:29,655 --> 00:39:31,068
[greeting in Spanish]

658
00:39:32,103 --> 00:39:33,551
[speaking Spanish]

659
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:49,551
Hmm.

660
00:39:50,793 --> 00:39:52,344
You wanna go
to the bounce house, Mom?

661
00:39:52,344 --> 00:39:53,448
No, I won't do
no bounce house.

662
00:39:53,448 --> 00:39:54,586
You don't wanna
go to the bounce house?

663
00:39:54,586 --> 00:39:56,034
- Yeah, try that.
- [all laughing]

664
00:39:58,034 --> 00:39:59,655
Just pull over this way.

665
00:40:01,551 --> 00:40:02,965
How's being married?

666
00:40:06,448 --> 00:40:08,551
We need to work
on our communication.

667
00:40:09,482 --> 00:40:11,862
Like, he needs
to open up to me.

668
00:40:11,862 --> 00:40:14,241
He does--
He'd be annoying me sometimes.

669
00:40:14,241 --> 00:40:17,655
I want him to feel
comfortable enough to trust me
with everything.

670
00:40:18,275 --> 00:40:19,551
He needs to open the door.

671
00:40:19,551 --> 00:40:21,275
And then introduce you
to his children.

672
00:40:21,275 --> 00:40:25,068
And that should've already
been done when he was
taking you there visiting.

673
00:40:26,172 --> 00:40:27,827
- [Sienna]
- Yes.

674
00:40:31,482 --> 00:40:35,068
Manuel has two kids.
They're in their teens.

675
00:40:35,068 --> 00:40:40,103
<i>But we've known each other for
10 years and I've never met
Manuel's children in person.</i>

676
00:40:40,103 --> 00:40:42,586
<i>And I've barely
spoken to them over the phone.</i>

677
00:40:42,586 --> 00:40:45,758
Manuel talks
to them really often
without including me.

678
00:40:45,758 --> 00:40:48,965
<i>I don't really know
why that's happening.</i>

679
00:40:48,965 --> 00:40:51,758
<i>Why is it that we've been
married almost a year</i>

680
00:40:51,758 --> 00:40:55,655
and I feel like
he's hiding me
from his kids.

681
00:40:55,655 --> 00:40:59,103
You're married.
So, you-- You made him
a part of your life.

682
00:40:59,103 --> 00:41:01,379
And he made you
a part of his life.

683
00:41:01,379 --> 00:41:04,551
But it's clear
he doesn't fully
trust me with everything.

684
00:41:10,965 --> 00:41:12,241
[Ashley]
I've thought about that.

685
00:41:25,172 --> 00:41:26,862
I think we're spiraling
a little bit.

686
00:41:26,862 --> 00:41:28,172
We gotta calm down.

687
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:30,000
We gotta calm down.

688
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:31,758
- I think--
- You wanna sit down
right here?

689
00:41:31,758 --> 00:41:33,344
Yeah, let's revisit it.

690
00:41:35,586 --> 00:41:37,413
[Ashley speaking Spanish]

691
00:41:45,793 --> 00:41:47,000
[Stacey] Why?

692
00:41:50,379 --> 00:41:51,862
[Ashley speaking Spanish]

693
00:41:52,965 --> 00:41:54,275
[speaking Spanish]

694
00:41:54,275 --> 00:41:56,034
[Ashley in English]
He said he does.

695
00:41:59,689 --> 00:42:01,344
[in Spanish]

696
00:42:04,448 --> 00:42:06,241
[in English] He's like,
in the moment there were
so many things going on,

697
00:42:06,241 --> 00:42:08,068
I didn't wanna
confuse the kids.

698
00:42:09,965 --> 00:42:11,862
[continues in Spanish]

699
00:42:11,862 --> 00:42:14,965
[in English] He's like,
everything has a, has a moment
or a time.

700
00:42:15,689 --> 00:42:16,862
[in Spanish]

701
00:42:25,034 --> 00:42:26,448
[in Spanish]

702
00:42:26,448 --> 00:42:28,758
[in English]
He's like, right now
there's a whole lot of stuff

703
00:42:28,758 --> 00:42:29,758
going on in Ecuador.

704
00:42:35,137 --> 00:42:37,103
You guys have
to trust each other.

705
00:42:38,103 --> 00:42:40,241
If you don't trust each other
how can there be love?

706
00:42:41,137 --> 00:42:42,172
[Ashley] <i>My mom is right.</i>

707
00:42:42,172 --> 00:42:43,862
If we're gonna have
a successful marriage,

708
00:42:43,862 --> 00:42:45,448
we need to be open
with each other

709
00:42:45,448 --> 00:42:48,448
and I need to be part
of his kids lives.

710
00:42:48,448 --> 00:42:51,448
<i>So, I need to have
a serious conversation
with Manuel</i>

711
00:42:51,448 --> 00:42:55,655
because if Manuel never
opens up I do not think
this marriage will survive.

712
00:42:58,000 --> 00:42:59,413
Just be careful.

713
00:43:05,689 --> 00:43:09,241
Basically, I'm thinking
about moving back
with Rob.

714
00:43:09,241 --> 00:43:11,241
What the hell!
Why would you wanna
move back in there?

715
00:43:11,241 --> 00:43:14,241
I definitely have plans
for my future with Rob

716
00:43:14,241 --> 00:43:16,448
to have like a happy home
and a safe home.

717
00:43:16,448 --> 00:43:19,448
And I think that's what
makes it so hard
to walk away.

718
00:43:19,448 --> 00:43:21,620
I don't want you with him!
Don't go!

719
00:43:22,758 --> 00:43:25,586
I think it's gonna be
a very fun trip.

720
00:43:25,586 --> 00:43:27,448
But I'm like, nervous.

721
00:43:27,448 --> 00:43:31,034
[Kobe]
<i>I know Emily is kind of
afraid to meet my family.</i>

722
00:43:31,034 --> 00:43:35,068
<i>But, honestly, I really
don't know how my family
or friends are gonna react.</i>

723
00:43:35,068 --> 00:43:38,758
And this is something
I'm really concerned about.

724
00:43:38,758 --> 00:43:41,034
- Good luck.
- [grunts]

725
00:43:48,862 --> 00:43:51,241
[upbeat music playing]

726
00:43:58,758 --> 00:43:59,931
[Claire] Sophie!

727
00:44:04,275 --> 00:44:05,448
Hey!

728
00:44:05,448 --> 00:44:06,827
- [squeals]
- Hello.

729
00:44:07,586 --> 00:44:09,103
Oh, my God,
you look beautiful.

730
00:44:09,103 --> 00:44:10,758
How are you getting on?

731
00:44:10,758 --> 00:44:12,965
[Sophie] <i>I have been having
a really bad time lately</i>

732
00:44:12,965 --> 00:44:15,241
with everything
that's been going on
with Rob.

733
00:44:15,241 --> 00:44:18,068
So, it's been really nice
having my mum in town.

734
00:44:18,068 --> 00:44:21,000
Um, she has a boyfriend
out here in Texas,

735
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:22,586
even though
she lives in Mexico.

736
00:44:22,586 --> 00:44:26,655
So she's just been up here
a lot to see him,
and also to see me.

737
00:44:26,655 --> 00:44:29,862
- So, this is John.
He's like...
- Her boyfriend.

738
00:44:29,862 --> 00:44:31,724
- [squeals] He said it!
- Yeah.

739
00:44:34,103 --> 00:44:35,275
This is finally him.

740
00:44:35,275 --> 00:44:36,448
- Hello.
- Yeah.

741
00:44:36,448 --> 00:44:38,862
Yeah, so...
do you wanna play this?

742
00:44:39,689 --> 00:44:41,068
No, we can't--
What is it?

743
00:44:41,068 --> 00:44:42,655
It's called Pachisi.

744
00:44:42,655 --> 00:44:44,551
- No. It's called bocce ball.
- Pachisi.

745
00:44:44,551 --> 00:44:46,862
- Bocce ball.
You wanna play?
- Yeah.

746
00:44:46,862 --> 00:44:48,000
Okay, what color
do you wanna be?

747
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:50,103
- I'm the pink.
- I was gonna be
the pink one.

748
00:44:50,103 --> 00:44:51,344
I'm gonna be the pink one.

749
00:44:51,344 --> 00:44:53,068
[Sophie]
<i>This is my first time
meeting John.</i>

750
00:44:53,068 --> 00:44:56,172
It makes me so happy
to see my mum so happy.

751
00:44:56,172 --> 00:44:58,448
She's just been through
so much bad experiences
with men,

752
00:44:58,448 --> 00:45:02,551
that she finally deserves
to find love and happiness.

753
00:45:02,551 --> 00:45:05,344
It also does help that,
like, she has someone
there for her.

754
00:45:05,344 --> 00:45:07,655
'Cause it's always been
just me and my mum.

755
00:45:07,655 --> 00:45:10,862
<i>So now it kind of
relieves that pressure
off of me, and...</i>

756
00:45:10,862 --> 00:45:13,344
I can focus a bit more
on my life and, you know,

757
00:45:13,344 --> 00:45:15,310
my relationship
with Rob, especially.

758
00:45:16,068 --> 00:45:17,448
[John]

759
00:45:17,448 --> 00:45:18,758
- America?
- [John] Yeah.

760
00:45:18,758 --> 00:45:20,586
Uh, nearly a year now.

761
00:45:20,586 --> 00:45:22,206
Oh, that's it?

762
00:45:24,103 --> 00:45:25,344
[Stacey]
Do you understand him?

763
00:45:25,344 --> 00:45:26,448
[Sophie]
Why wouldn't I understand him?

764
00:45:28,137 --> 00:45:29,551
[John] I understand
what you say.

765
00:45:30,586 --> 00:45:32,448
[John] What did you say?

766
00:45:32,448 --> 00:45:35,275
[Sophie]
I'm married to an American guy
so I get your accent.

767
00:45:35,275 --> 00:45:38,275
Oh, I know. I've heard
a little bit about him.
Not really.

768
00:45:38,275 --> 00:45:40,275
[Stacey] His nickname.
You know his nickname, right?

769
00:45:40,275 --> 00:45:42,137
- No, what is it?
- Rob, the knob.

770
00:45:42,965 --> 00:45:44,241
Rob, the knob.

771
00:45:45,758 --> 00:45:46,965
Door knob or something else.

772
00:45:46,965 --> 00:45:49,000
Oh, yeah.
It means willy.

773
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:50,965
[Sophie] I don't think
he know what that means.

774
00:45:52,482 --> 00:45:54,482
- Oh, okay, yeah.
- Rob, the knob.

775
00:45:54,482 --> 00:45:56,482
Have you heard
good or bad things about him?

776
00:45:56,482 --> 00:45:59,172
Mm... More bad than good.

777
00:45:59,172 --> 00:46:01,344
- Really? Mum!
- [both laugh]

778
00:46:01,344 --> 00:46:04,206
There's nothing good
to say about him.
He is an [bleeps]!

779
00:46:11,275 --> 00:46:12,448
He was an actual arse.

780
00:46:12,448 --> 00:46:13,862
He used to go out
and leave her.

781
00:46:13,862 --> 00:46:15,689
You were always sad,
always crying to me.

782
00:46:15,689 --> 00:46:18,206
He online cheated.
I can go on,
and on and on.

783
00:46:21,068 --> 00:46:23,758
The first time I met Rob,
he was actually really lovely.

784
00:46:23,758 --> 00:46:27,482
Like, he--
They were happy.
He was just a nice guy.

785
00:46:27,482 --> 00:46:29,344
But he isn't that man today.

786
00:46:29,344 --> 00:46:30,913
I don't know who this guy--

787
00:46:30,913 --> 00:46:33,379
This guy like literally
has morphed into something
completely different.

788
00:46:33,379 --> 00:46:36,241
<i>And it's not on her.
It's on him.</i>

789
00:46:36,241 --> 00:46:39,448
Because he cheated
online with what,
two, three, I don't--

790
00:46:39,448 --> 00:46:40,965
Those are the times
we know about.

791
00:46:40,965 --> 00:46:43,206
<i>And I'm so glad that
They're not living together.</i>

792
00:46:43,689 --> 00:46:45,068
Clearly.

793
00:46:47,482 --> 00:46:50,551
All jokes aside,
the man's horrible.

794
00:46:50,551 --> 00:46:52,241
[Sophie] But,
it's like, I do love him.

795
00:46:56,172 --> 00:46:58,448
Basically, I'm thinking
about moving back
with Rob.

796
00:47:00,448 --> 00:47:02,827
What the hell!
Why would you wanna
move back in there?

797
00:47:07,034 --> 00:47:08,379
Yeah, but we're married.

798
00:47:08,379 --> 00:47:11,241
If he can prove to you
that he loves you again
and he's like...

799
00:47:11,241 --> 00:47:13,655
gonna change, fine.
But what's the rush?

800
00:47:14,689 --> 00:47:16,862
Because I know--
I already know
how it's gonna go.

801
00:47:16,862 --> 00:47:18,379
- I can tell you that
right now.
- You don't know though.

802
00:47:18,379 --> 00:47:21,689
- 'Cause you don't know him
like I know him.
- I do actually.

803
00:47:21,689 --> 00:47:24,448
I don't want you with him.
I think he's mean to you.

804
00:47:24,448 --> 00:47:27,965
I don't like him.
He's definitely not
good enough for you.

805
00:47:27,965 --> 00:47:29,344
I don't want you
to go straight back in there.

806
00:47:29,344 --> 00:47:31,413
It's just gonna be
a whole mess.
Just don't go!

807
00:47:33,172 --> 00:47:37,000
I get that you love me
and you want the best for me,
but I have married him.

808
00:47:37,655 --> 00:47:39,344
And he does have
a really nice side.

809
00:47:39,344 --> 00:47:41,275
Like, I know she said
a lot to you as well,

810
00:47:41,275 --> 00:47:43,379
but, like,
a lot of things are,
make him a good person,

811
00:47:43,379 --> 00:47:44,689
and he is a good person.

812
00:47:44,689 --> 00:47:47,965
I mean, the process of doing
the K1 visa, the 90 day thing,

813
00:47:47,965 --> 00:47:49,862
like, it, it takes a lot,
you know.

814
00:47:49,862 --> 00:47:53,137
And he stood with me
like a whole four years,
and we did long distance.

815
00:47:53,137 --> 00:47:55,551
And it's like,
he is nice, he just has--

816
00:47:55,551 --> 00:47:57,344
Like, our marriage
in a weird spot.

817
00:47:57,344 --> 00:48:00,000
That doesn't mean
he's a horrible, nasty person.

818
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:01,724
[John]
So what are you gonna
do to repair it?

819
00:48:03,862 --> 00:48:07,000
I do know that I wanna
be with him and I love him.

820
00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:10,000
And so that's why, like,
I'm thinking of meeting
up with him soon

821
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:11,689
so, like,
we can talk about it.

822
00:48:13,482 --> 00:48:16,724
[Stacey] <i>I really don't think
Sophie should be meeting up
with Rob right now.</i>

823
00:48:26,344 --> 00:48:28,551
<i>It's just been crazy
ever since they got married.</i>

824
00:48:28,551 --> 00:48:30,448
It's just bad energy.

825
00:48:31,103 --> 00:48:32,965
Bad energy.

826
00:48:32,965 --> 00:48:35,379
I wouldn't marry someone
that was completely horrible.

827
00:48:35,379 --> 00:48:37,344
- You know, like...
I'm not stupid.
- Yeah.

828
00:48:37,344 --> 00:48:40,000
So I'm hoping
the time apart is gonna,
like, help us fix things.

829
00:48:41,137 --> 00:48:42,965
I just feel like
I should give him a chance.

830
00:48:44,482 --> 00:48:47,793
Growing up I didn't have
very, like, stable childhood.

831
00:48:47,793 --> 00:48:49,758
Um, my dad wasn't around,

832
00:48:49,758 --> 00:48:53,137
<i>and my mum struggled
with substance abuse.</i>

833
00:48:53,137 --> 00:48:55,793
So she couldn't really
raise me how she should've.

834
00:48:55,793 --> 00:48:58,896
It felt like I had to kind of
take care of her a lot.

835
00:48:58,896 --> 00:49:02,758
Because of that
I definitely have plans
for my future with Rob

836
00:49:02,758 --> 00:49:04,965
<i>to have like, a happy home,
and a safe home.</i>

837
00:49:04,965 --> 00:49:07,689
<i>And not like the one
I was kind of, grew up in.</i>

838
00:49:07,689 --> 00:49:10,724
And I think that's what
makes it so hard to walk away.

839
00:49:11,448 --> 00:49:13,379
<i>So, I'm gonna see Rob again.</i>

840
00:49:13,379 --> 00:49:16,034
And then if there is even
the slightest chance

841
00:49:16,034 --> 00:49:18,344
that Rob can show
that he can change
and grow up,

842
00:49:18,344 --> 00:49:22,206
then I feel like the future
that me and him both want
is still possible.

843
00:49:26,241 --> 00:49:28,310
[vocalizing]

844
00:49:35,793 --> 00:49:36,965
This is a waste
of time I think.

845
00:49:36,965 --> 00:49:39,758
- No, it's not.
You have the dress.
- Mm-hmm.

846
00:49:39,758 --> 00:49:42,344
All right. We're just gonna
tuck it in here.

847
00:49:42,344 --> 00:49:44,655
Boom! Outfit and diaper
for a day.

848
00:49:44,655 --> 00:49:46,448
<i>♪ The way he's moving</i>

849
00:49:46,448 --> 00:49:48,034
<i>♪ Everybody's grooving</i>

850
00:49:48,034 --> 00:49:50,862
<i>♪ Dance floor
is coming to life ♪</i>

851
00:49:52,689 --> 00:49:54,689
- Okay.
- Let me show you
how this works.

852
00:49:54,689 --> 00:49:56,413
- Mm-hmm.
- Once it's all full...

853
00:49:57,000 --> 00:49:58,517
then I fold it up like this...

854
00:49:59,137 --> 00:50:00,448
Open the suitcase.

855
00:50:05,758 --> 00:50:07,413
Tell me that's not
freakin' organized.

856
00:50:08,103 --> 00:50:09,551
It's organized. I like it.

857
00:50:10,758 --> 00:50:14,448
[Emily] <i>We are leaving
for Cameroon tomorrow
for two weeks.</i>

858
00:50:14,448 --> 00:50:16,965
This is the most important
trip of our lives

859
00:50:16,965 --> 00:50:20,448
because my family is gonna
see me not just as Kobe,

860
00:50:20,448 --> 00:50:22,862
- but, you know,
as a father and a husband.
- Aw...

861
00:50:22,862 --> 00:50:26,310
And they're gonna meet
my wife and my kids
for the very first time.

862
00:50:31,655 --> 00:50:34,655
[grunts] I know.
We can sleep on the plane.

863
00:50:35,965 --> 00:50:40,241
Meeting Kobe's family,
that really is
pretty nerve-wrecking.

864
00:50:40,241 --> 00:50:43,655
You know, I want them
to love me

865
00:50:43,655 --> 00:50:47,448
because we're, you know,
I love their son, and, um...

866
00:50:47,448 --> 00:50:49,344
I think we make
each other very happy.

867
00:50:49,344 --> 00:50:51,655
And I want them,
that to come across,

868
00:50:51,655 --> 00:50:54,379
even if we speak
different languages.

869
00:50:54,379 --> 00:50:56,241
You know, I just want them
to accept me.

870
00:50:58,103 --> 00:50:59,344
I want everything
to be perfect

871
00:50:59,344 --> 00:51:02,655
for the first time of us,
you know, meeting your family.

872
00:51:02,655 --> 00:51:04,793
Yeah, I know you wanna
impress my family.

873
00:51:04,793 --> 00:51:08,241
You want them
to look at you like, okay,
oh, she's the best mother.

874
00:51:08,241 --> 00:51:11,551
Of course you're a good mom.
You're the best ever.

875
00:51:13,793 --> 00:51:15,000
Okay?

876
00:51:17,379 --> 00:51:19,344
You can go to bed, babe.
I'll finish it up.

877
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:21,206
All right. I love you.

878
00:51:22,103 --> 00:51:23,551
Good luck.

879
00:51:23,551 --> 00:51:25,103
[grunts]

880
00:51:31,448 --> 00:51:33,620
All of this luggage
better make it.

881
00:51:34,586 --> 00:51:35,655
All righty.

882
00:51:35,655 --> 00:51:37,482
That should be good.
All right, let's load it up.

883
00:51:37,482 --> 00:51:38,758
Dad!

884
00:51:40,448 --> 00:51:42,965
[Kobe] <i>It's gonna be a long
day for us and the kids.</i>

885
00:51:42,965 --> 00:51:46,172
We have three hours
drive to Kansas City.

886
00:51:46,172 --> 00:51:49,551
And one hour, thirty minutes
flight to Detroit.

887
00:51:49,551 --> 00:51:53,000
And nine hours flight
to Paris.

888
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:56,000
and six hours flight
to Douala, Cameroon.

889
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:58,344
<i>But it's gonna feel
good to be back home.</i>

890
00:51:58,344 --> 00:52:01,448
Then breathe the Cameroon air,
and, you know...

891
00:52:01,448 --> 00:52:03,344
I mean, I'm really
looking forward.

892
00:52:03,344 --> 00:52:05,862
We'll see you two
in Kansas City.

893
00:52:06,689 --> 00:52:08,448
All right. Let's do this!

894
00:52:09,172 --> 00:52:11,241
Are you guys
ready to go for real?

895
00:52:11,241 --> 00:52:12,344
[all cheering]

896
00:52:17,586 --> 00:52:19,793
All right.
Who's ready for Cameroon?

897
00:52:19,793 --> 00:52:21,344
- Me!
- Me.

898
00:52:21,344 --> 00:52:23,172
[all cheering]

899
00:52:23,172 --> 00:52:24,275
Sisi, are you ready?

900
00:52:24,275 --> 00:52:26,862
[Emily] It's gonna be so fun!

901
00:52:26,862 --> 00:52:28,413
[screams]

902
00:52:28,413 --> 00:52:30,758
You know that you're grandpa
is really excited
to meet you guys, Koban?

903
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:33,448
[both] You're gonna hug him?

904
00:52:33,448 --> 00:52:36,965
- Mm...
- Oh, he's gonna be so happy!

905
00:52:43,379 --> 00:52:45,000
[both] We're here!

906
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:46,310
[Emily] Perfect.

907
00:52:49,793 --> 00:52:52,000
- We have made it
to the airport.
- [screaming]

908
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:54,034
- We are all ready to go.
- [Kobe] Oh, my goodness.

909
00:52:54,034 --> 00:52:56,172
- Come here, my little...
- You wanna just
see daddy?

910
00:52:56,172 --> 00:52:59,000
And we are getting
ready to go where?
Where are we going?

911
00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:00,068
Africa!

912
00:53:00,068 --> 00:53:02,965
- To Africa! Whoo!
- Yay! We're going to Cameroon.

913
00:53:02,965 --> 00:53:04,724
Oh, my goodness.

914
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:08,068
Are you guys,
are you guys moving
out of the United States?

915
00:53:08,068 --> 00:53:09,275
- [David] I think so.
- [Lisa] I think so.

916
00:53:09,275 --> 00:53:10,965
I think so.

917
00:53:12,379 --> 00:53:14,655
[Emily] Okay, I think
we have everything.

918
00:53:14,655 --> 00:53:17,965
[Kobe]
<i>I know Emily is kind of
afraid to meet my family.</i>

919
00:53:17,965 --> 00:53:21,551
So, I'm just gonna
try as much as I can
to make her feel comfortable.

920
00:53:21,551 --> 00:53:23,344
Here we go!

921
00:53:24,586 --> 00:53:27,448
But, in my mind,
I'm so concerned because

922
00:53:27,448 --> 00:53:31,758
<i>no one in my family has
ever left and got married
to a foreigner,</i>

923
00:53:31,758 --> 00:53:33,551
<i>live outside of Cameroon.</i>

924
00:53:33,551 --> 00:53:37,344
I mean, I want the first
impression to be, you know,
perfect, to be good.

925
00:53:38,586 --> 00:53:39,689
[Emily] Here we go!

926
00:53:39,689 --> 00:53:42,103
It's really happening.

927
00:53:42,103 --> 00:53:43,758
[Kobe] <i>But, obviously,
I really don't know</i>

928
00:53:43,758 --> 00:53:46,137
<i>how my family
or friends are gonna react.</i>

929
00:53:46,137 --> 00:53:49,206
And this is something
I'm really concerned about.

930
00:53:50,586 --> 00:53:51,758
[Emily speaking]

931
00:53:53,068 --> 00:53:54,310
[Kobe speaking]

932
00:54:04,172 --> 00:54:06,482
Isn't it gorgeous out here
on the lake?

933
00:54:06,482 --> 00:54:08,551
Trying to control myself...

934
00:54:08,551 --> 00:54:10,448
- Really?
- Seeing you like this...

935
00:54:10,448 --> 00:54:11,655
I have an idea.

936
00:54:13,862 --> 00:54:16,448
We're trying
to have a baby. Uh...

937
00:54:18,896 --> 00:54:20,448
It's kind of risky,
don't you think?

938
00:54:20,448 --> 00:54:22,241
I like risky.

939
00:54:22,241 --> 00:54:24,000
We could lay down here.

940
00:54:30,172 --> 00:54:31,862
[vocalizing]

941
00:54:31,862 --> 00:54:34,965
<i>♪ I'm really good at handling
my business ♪</i>

942
00:54:34,965 --> 00:54:38,000
<i>♪ I hustle harder than the
rest is my business ♪</i>

943
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:41,379
<i>♪ Be talking trash,
running that mouth
like it's a relay ♪</i>

944
00:54:41,379 --> 00:54:44,448
<i>♪ I'm the one
that actually gets paid ♪</i>

945
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:51,241
You're so sexy in that
captain hat.

946
00:54:51,241 --> 00:54:54,103
Aw. That is so sweet.

947
00:54:54,103 --> 00:54:55,241
Aw...

948
00:54:56,551 --> 00:55:00,344
<i>♪ I can hear you</i>

949
00:55:04,379 --> 00:55:07,137
Isn't it gorgeous out here
on the lake?

950
00:55:07,137 --> 00:55:10,896
This is our honeymoon
and this is so romantic,
being on the boat with you.

951
00:55:10,896 --> 00:55:12,758
Don't you think?

952
00:55:12,758 --> 00:55:14,241
You don't like this boat!

953
00:55:14,689 --> 00:55:15,827
No.

954
00:55:16,758 --> 00:55:19,379
I'm Gino, I'm 54-years-old,

955
00:55:19,379 --> 00:55:21,862
and this is my wife, Jasmine,

956
00:55:21,862 --> 00:55:24,448
who is from
Panama City, Panama.

957
00:55:24,448 --> 00:55:27,758
We are newlyweds,
and we live
in Canton, Michigan.

958
00:55:29,275 --> 00:55:30,551
Don't do that.

959
00:55:32,689 --> 00:55:36,068
Well, baby. How I picture
my honeymoon was like,

960
00:55:36,068 --> 00:55:40,965
a private jatch,
you know, like big jatch.
Not this.

961
00:55:41,379 --> 00:55:42,344
Big what?

962
00:55:43,275 --> 00:55:45,551
Jatch. A jatch. Huge jatch.

963
00:55:47,068 --> 00:55:48,344
"Judge"?

964
00:55:49,379 --> 00:55:50,758
Jatch!

965
00:55:52,103 --> 00:55:54,620
How do you pronounce it?
You don't understand
my English, no?

966
00:55:55,793 --> 00:55:56,965
No.

967
00:55:58,344 --> 00:56:01,000
A, like, a private ship.

968
00:56:01,000 --> 00:56:03,551
- Oh, you mean, yacht?
- Yeah.

969
00:56:03,551 --> 00:56:06,724
You wanna be on a yacht.
You're saying
this boat's too small?

970
00:56:07,482 --> 00:56:08,758
It is.

971
00:56:10,241 --> 00:56:13,379
Jasmine and I have been
married for two months now.

972
00:56:13,379 --> 00:56:16,758
But we met three and a half
years ago on a dating site.

973
00:56:20,896 --> 00:56:25,241
<i>We spoke like daily
for nine months.</i>

974
00:56:26,551 --> 00:56:29,000
When Gino came to Panama
for the first time,

975
00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:30,172
<i>at that moment...</i>

976
00:56:36,655 --> 00:56:37,620
Aw!

977
00:56:39,448 --> 00:56:40,517
Aw!

978
00:56:44,241 --> 00:56:47,103
Handsome, even more handsome
than Bruce Willis.

979
00:56:47,103 --> 00:56:48,862
[gasps]

980
00:56:48,862 --> 00:56:51,344
[Gino] <i>It took us
approximately 18 months</i>

981
00:56:51,344 --> 00:56:53,551
<i>to get
through the K-1 visa process.</i>

982
00:56:53,551 --> 00:56:56,758
And when my visa got approved,
it was such a relief,

983
00:56:56,758 --> 00:56:59,655
because it meant
that I could travel to America

984
00:56:59,655 --> 00:57:02,034
to marry the love of my life.

985
00:57:02,034 --> 00:57:04,862
- [Jasmine] Baby! [chuckling]
<i>- Mi amor!</i>

986
00:57:04,862 --> 00:57:06,344
Whoo-hoo-hoo!

987
00:57:06,344 --> 00:57:08,068
- Oh, my God!
- [sobbing]

988
00:57:08,068 --> 00:57:09,931
I can't believe you're here!

989
00:57:19,448 --> 00:57:21,379
I'm trying to control myself.

990
00:57:21,379 --> 00:57:22,896
- Really?
- Seeing you like this...

991
00:57:22,896 --> 00:57:25,551
- You're so tan.
- I know.

992
00:57:25,551 --> 00:57:27,931
Thank you,
you're very lucky to have me.

993
00:57:44,586 --> 00:57:46,379
Okay, what about this napkin?

994
00:57:46,379 --> 00:57:49,620
- That's my 40th
birthday party.
- With your...

995
00:57:50,379 --> 00:57:52,793
initial name
and your ex-wife in a heart,

996
00:57:52,793 --> 00:57:53,965
- and she--
- So what?

997
00:57:54,689 --> 00:57:56,310
I had a life before I met you.

998
00:58:04,965 --> 00:58:06,551
Jasmine is a jealous person.

999
00:58:06,551 --> 00:58:07,793
- I mean, I'm not gonna--
- Excuse me?

1000
00:58:07,793 --> 00:58:09,758
You know,
I'm not gonna lie about that.

1001
00:58:09,758 --> 00:58:12,000
- I will say over-protective.
- She does not like it

1002
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:15,482
when I even... look at
or speak to a woman,

1003
00:58:15,482 --> 00:58:18,965
but it's gotten worse
since she's come
to the United States.

1004
00:58:19,275 --> 00:58:21,758
What is this?

1005
00:58:22,137 --> 00:58:23,655
I don't know!

1006
00:58:25,241 --> 00:58:26,862
Could be one of my coworkers'

1007
00:58:26,862 --> 00:58:28,965
or some other [bleep]
in my car

1008
00:58:28,965 --> 00:58:30,551
or something like that.

1009
00:58:31,344 --> 00:58:33,103
[shouts] No!

1010
00:58:33,103 --> 00:58:34,448
[Jasmine sobbing]
I just wanna go home.

1011
00:58:34,448 --> 00:58:35,758
[Gino] You're so ridiculous.

1012
00:58:35,758 --> 00:58:38,965
[sobbing] I wanna go home.

1013
00:58:39,793 --> 00:58:42,241
The last three
and a half years together,

1014
00:58:42,241 --> 00:58:45,793
he has been with me
during happy, good moments,

1015
00:58:45,793 --> 00:58:48,103
and also through...
through hardship.

1016
00:58:48,103 --> 00:58:49,965
So, he knows my heart,

1017
00:58:49,965 --> 00:58:53,551
and I cannot believe
that we made it to the altar

1018
00:58:53,551 --> 00:58:54,965
and I can now call you

1019
00:58:54,965 --> 00:58:56,862
- [in Spanish]
- [Gino] Aw.

1020
00:58:56,862 --> 00:58:59,103
I, Gino, take you, Jasmine,

1021
00:58:59,103 --> 00:59:01,448
to be my lawfully wedded wife.

1022
00:59:01,965 --> 00:59:03,758
I, Jasmine, take you, Gino,

1023
00:59:03,758 --> 00:59:06,172
to be my lawfully
wedded husband.

1024
00:59:06,172 --> 00:59:09,137
[officiant] You are now
husband and wife.

1025
00:59:09,137 --> 00:59:10,344
- Yay!
- [guests cheering
and clapping]

1026
00:59:10,344 --> 00:59:12,241
Yay!

1027
00:59:15,137 --> 00:59:17,655
- Yeah. [laughs]
- Whoo! Look at that, baby!

1028
00:59:17,655 --> 00:59:19,344
And it's a diamond,
a real one.

1029
00:59:19,344 --> 00:59:20,448
I even tested it.

1030
00:59:29,689 --> 00:59:31,344
- Right, baby?
- Mmm-hmm.

1031
00:59:36,379 --> 00:59:37,586
I love you, baby.

1032
00:59:37,586 --> 00:59:38,758
[in Spanish]

1033
00:59:41,793 --> 00:59:43,517
I have an idea.

1034
00:59:47,103 --> 00:59:48,793
It's kind of risky,
don't you think?

1035
00:59:48,793 --> 00:59:50,103
I like risky.

1036
00:59:51,655 --> 00:59:53,379
We are trying to have a baby.

1037
00:59:53,379 --> 00:59:56,551
Uh... we are trying a lot,
[laughing]

1038
00:59:56,551 --> 00:59:58,103
- which is good...
- [chuckling]

1039
00:59:58,103 --> 01:00:00,206
- ...which is good, I love it.
- Practice makes perfect.

1040
01:00:02,482 --> 01:00:05,241
I feel like everyone
can see us, you know, this...

1041
01:00:05,241 --> 01:00:06,379
We don't have anywhere to go,

1042
01:00:06,379 --> 01:00:08,241
it's, like,
we're exposed here.

1043
01:00:10,034 --> 01:00:12,172
But we could lay down here.

1044
01:00:14,482 --> 01:00:16,655
You know, I don't want people
watching us having sex,

1045
01:00:16,655 --> 01:00:18,758
but we can do
something like this, okay?

1046
01:00:18,758 --> 01:00:19,965
I'm not against it.

1047
01:00:19,965 --> 01:00:21,793
- When?
- Um...

1048
01:00:21,793 --> 01:00:24,448
Maybe even tonight
during camping,
I can be... I can surprise--

1049
01:00:24,448 --> 01:00:27,758
Yeah, because I'm ovulating
and we have to do it tonight.

1050
01:00:27,758 --> 01:00:29,413
Did you bring the blue pills?

1051
01:00:30,586 --> 01:00:31,862
I actually did.

1052
01:00:31,862 --> 01:00:33,206
Okay, good.

1053
01:00:34,000 --> 01:00:35,034
You should take three.

1054
01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:39,000
And you know what, baby?

1055
01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:43,379
Now that we are planning
to make our baby,

1056
01:00:43,379 --> 01:00:47,862
another thing is, remember
that we are a family already.

1057
01:00:47,862 --> 01:00:49,344
It's not just the baby,

1058
01:00:49,344 --> 01:00:52,103
it's the babies
that we already have, my kids,

1059
01:00:52,103 --> 01:00:54,413
you know, because
they will eventually come.

1060
01:00:56,586 --> 01:00:58,551
I have two children
back in Panama,

1061
01:00:58,551 --> 01:01:01,344
but they are being
taken care of by my mother,

1062
01:01:01,344 --> 01:01:03,344
my sister, and their father.

1063
01:01:03,344 --> 01:01:05,448
Um, but we have a lot of hope,

1064
01:01:05,448 --> 01:01:08,551
you know, to bring them over
in six months.

1065
01:01:09,103 --> 01:01:10,551
Yes, this is just temporary,

1066
01:01:10,551 --> 01:01:13,172
and I know that we are gonna
be a happy family,

1067
01:01:13,172 --> 01:01:15,000
we are gonna be all complete

1068
01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:17,172
and our children
are coming soon.

1069
01:01:19,586 --> 01:01:21,551
I know
you've sacrificed a lot,

1070
01:01:22,758 --> 01:01:27,448
leaving all your family
and coming here
to the USA, and...

1071
01:01:27,448 --> 01:01:29,586
I very much appreciate it,
you know.

1072
01:01:29,586 --> 01:01:31,655
I am happy right now,
don't get me wrong,

1073
01:01:31,655 --> 01:01:34,137
I'm happy to be with you,
I'm happy to be your wife,

1074
01:01:34,137 --> 01:01:35,758
baby, I love you, but...

1075
01:01:40,965 --> 01:01:41,965
[voice trembling]

1076
01:01:44,758 --> 01:01:47,448
I feel like
I have failed them.

1077
01:01:49,482 --> 01:01:52,758
I've been in America
for over four months,

1078
01:01:52,758 --> 01:01:55,448
and that's
the exact amount of time

1079
01:01:55,448 --> 01:01:57,206
that I haven't seen my kids.

1080
01:01:58,172 --> 01:02:02,206
<i>I wanna give my children</i>
[inhales] <i>a home,</i>

1081
01:02:03,241 --> 01:02:04,655
because... [inhales]

1082
01:02:05,758 --> 01:02:06,724
um...

1083
01:02:20,379 --> 01:02:23,241
If I cannot have
my children here with me,

1084
01:02:23,241 --> 01:02:24,758
I'm sorry, it...

1085
01:02:24,758 --> 01:02:27,000
it can be the greatest nation
in the world,

1086
01:02:27,000 --> 01:02:31,000
but I will have
to choose my children

1087
01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:32,413
<i>over my husband.</i>

1088
01:02:39,689 --> 01:02:41,793
[Sophie] <i>Me and Rob
are meeting up today.</i>

1089
01:02:41,793 --> 01:02:43,862
It just makes me
very anxious and scared,

1090
01:02:43,862 --> 01:02:47,000
<i>and just, like, I just,
I really don't want
the marriage to...</i>

1091
01:02:49,896 --> 01:02:52,551
[sobbing] Sorry.

1092
01:02:53,793 --> 01:02:56,206
[sobbing] Can I have
a second, please?

1093
01:03:00,620 --> 01:03:02,862
<i>♪ Another day
Take my time ♪</i>

1094
01:03:02,862 --> 01:03:05,344
<i>♪ Now feeling fine</i>

1095
01:03:05,344 --> 01:03:08,551
<i>♪ Trying to catch a moment
It ends ♪</i>

1096
01:03:11,206 --> 01:03:12,758
[Rob] I'm a little nervous,
you know,

1097
01:03:12,758 --> 01:03:16,172
I haven't really been talking
to Sophie, seeing her.

1098
01:03:16,172 --> 01:03:18,551
Definitely the fact
that this is, like,
the conversation

1099
01:03:18,551 --> 01:03:21,655
that leads up to
whether or not
she's coming home and...

1100
01:03:21,655 --> 01:03:26,413
and has any type of enthusiasm
about working things out.

1101
01:03:26,862 --> 01:03:28,862
<i>♪ Keep going with it</i>

1102
01:03:29,793 --> 01:03:31,344
<i>♪ Keep going with it</i>

1103
01:03:35,275 --> 01:03:36,827
If it goes well, then...

1104
01:03:37,586 --> 01:03:40,241
we can start to work
towards the future.

1105
01:03:40,241 --> 01:03:41,793
I just want to be
in a loving relationship

1106
01:03:41,793 --> 01:03:43,758
with somebody that I love,

1107
01:03:43,758 --> 01:03:46,689
that I'm not ready
to walk away from.

1108
01:03:46,689 --> 01:03:49,206
I'm hoping it's a good sign
that Sophie wants to see me

1109
01:03:49,206 --> 01:03:51,000
and she wants
to talk about things.

1110
01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:52,862
<i>I understand
that I broke her trust</i>

1111
01:03:52,862 --> 01:03:54,862
<i>by talking to other women.</i>

1112
01:03:54,862 --> 01:03:57,206
So I get that I need
to do things differently

1113
01:03:57,206 --> 01:03:59,551
and show her
that I have self-control

1114
01:03:59,551 --> 01:04:01,034
and that I'm, you know, I'm...

1115
01:04:02,068 --> 01:04:03,827
gonna hold myself accountable.

1116
01:04:04,379 --> 01:04:05,517
<i>And at this moment,</i>

1117
01:04:05,517 --> 01:04:07,827
what really matters is
getting my wife back.

1118
01:04:09,103 --> 01:04:12,068
<i>I'll do anything I can
to win Sophie over.</i>

1119
01:04:12,068 --> 01:04:15,172
So I'm planning to have Sophie
meet me at a selfie gallery

1120
01:04:15,172 --> 01:04:17,448
because I know
that she's always wanted
to go to one.

1121
01:04:18,482 --> 01:04:20,310
<i>And I really just want
to kind of keep her</i>

1122
01:04:20,310 --> 01:04:21,517
in the best mood possible

1123
01:04:21,517 --> 01:04:22,965
so we can have
a civil conversation

1124
01:04:22,965 --> 01:04:24,862
about where this relationship
is going.

1125
01:04:24,862 --> 01:04:27,275
Like, I kind of look at it,

1126
01:04:27,275 --> 01:04:28,758
like, it's like a video game,

1127
01:04:28,758 --> 01:04:30,517
like, you start off
with five hearts,

1128
01:04:30,517 --> 01:04:33,034
your health, your energy,
all that [bleep],
you got five hearts

1129
01:04:33,034 --> 01:04:35,448
and I'm down to the last one.

1130
01:04:35,448 --> 01:04:37,206
I got one left with her.

1131
01:04:37,206 --> 01:04:40,172
I need to figure out
how to find common ground

1132
01:04:40,172 --> 01:04:43,068
and bring her back
into my life.

1133
01:04:43,068 --> 01:04:45,344
But this meeting
really does determine

1134
01:04:45,344 --> 01:04:48,034
the fate of Sophie
and I's relationship.

1135
01:04:56,448 --> 01:04:58,517
After two months
of being away from Rob,

1136
01:04:58,517 --> 01:05:02,413
I now feel like I'm ready
to meet up with him,

1137
01:05:02,413 --> 01:05:05,310
<i>because I'm not really ready
to give up
the relationship yet.</i>

1138
01:05:06,620 --> 01:05:08,482
<i>As I'm waiting for Rob,</i>

1139
01:05:08,482 --> 01:05:11,310
I feel guilty for staying away
for two months,

1140
01:05:11,310 --> 01:05:14,620
just because I feel like
maybe I have left it too long

1141
01:05:14,620 --> 01:05:16,586
and maybe at this point,
he doesn't even want

1142
01:05:16,586 --> 01:05:18,862
to work things out
with me anymore.

1143
01:05:20,517 --> 01:05:22,724
The suspense is killing me.

1144
01:05:25,241 --> 01:05:29,206
I just have anxiety right now,
I don't know, I just, like...

1145
01:05:29,206 --> 01:05:31,137
I'm just ready to see him
and let's just talk it out,

1146
01:05:31,137 --> 01:05:32,793
like, I don't want to keep...

1147
01:05:32,793 --> 01:05:34,724
I don't know,
I'm just overthinking it now.

1148
01:05:36,517 --> 01:05:38,379
<i>I need Rob to show me</i>

1149
01:05:38,379 --> 01:05:39,896
that he's going
to take accountability,

1150
01:05:39,896 --> 01:05:42,344
and I need
to be able to believe

1151
01:05:42,344 --> 01:05:44,344
<i>that he won't hurt me again,</i>

1152
01:05:44,344 --> 01:05:46,551
before I'm able
to just go back to him.

1153
01:05:56,103 --> 01:05:57,862
[Rob] <i>My hope for today is
that Sophie and I</i>

1154
01:05:57,862 --> 01:05:59,689
can just agree
to put the past behind us

1155
01:05:59,689 --> 01:06:01,379
and move forward
as husband and wife.

1156
01:06:03,379 --> 01:06:04,965
<i>If this conversation ends</i>

1157
01:06:04,965 --> 01:06:06,551
<i>with anything less
than Sophie showing me</i>

1158
01:06:06,551 --> 01:06:08,517
<i>that she wants
to move back home,</i>

1159
01:06:08,517 --> 01:06:11,758
at this point,
that could spell,
"Our relationship is over."

1160
01:06:15,965 --> 01:06:17,000
[Sophie] <i>I love Rob
and I want things</i>

1161
01:06:17,000 --> 01:06:18,620
to work out with us
and our marriage,

1162
01:06:18,620 --> 01:06:20,172
but I just feel like
I don't know

1163
01:06:20,172 --> 01:06:21,758
if I'll ever be able
to trust him again

1164
01:06:21,758 --> 01:06:25,206
after he online cheated on me
multiple times.

1165
01:06:25,206 --> 01:06:27,000
<i>It just makes me
very anxious and scared</i>

1166
01:06:27,000 --> 01:06:29,310
<i>and just feel a lot of ways
to where it's like I just,</i>

1167
01:06:29,310 --> 01:06:31,965
<i>I really don't want
the marriage to...</i>

1168
01:06:35,758 --> 01:06:36,931
[sobbing]

1169
01:07:05,586 --> 01:07:08,034
[dramatic music playing]

1170
01:07:17,034 --> 01:07:18,344
[Nicole] <i>Today,
Mahmoud's coming.</i>

1171
01:07:18,758 --> 01:07:20,034
My legs are all shaky

1172
01:07:20,034 --> 01:07:23,758
and, like, I'm feeling
a little out of body
[chuckles] kind of.

1173
01:07:23,758 --> 01:07:25,758
<i>But I feel a lot of pressure,</i>

1174
01:07:25,758 --> 01:07:28,758
<i>because I'm hoping
that we can get it together
to make this work</i>

1175
01:07:28,758 --> 01:07:30,344
because this is
our last chance.

1176
01:07:38,620 --> 01:07:42,275
<i>♪ When I turn,
I turn too well ♪</i>

1177
01:07:42,275 --> 01:07:45,310
<i>♪ When I come,
I come to you ♪</i>

1178
01:07:46,034 --> 01:07:47,758
It's too far over I think.

1179
01:07:48,068 --> 01:07:49,620
Oh, [bleep]!

1180
01:07:49,620 --> 01:07:50,724
[chuckling nervously]
I can't wait.

1181
01:07:52,206 --> 01:07:55,551
[upbeat music playing]

1182
01:07:58,689 --> 01:08:00,068
Today, Mahmoud's coming

1183
01:08:00,068 --> 01:08:03,034
and I'm feeling...
I'm feeling good,

1184
01:08:03,034 --> 01:08:06,275
like, I'm feeling actually
ready for him and excited...

1185
01:08:07,379 --> 01:08:08,275
getting to see him

1186
01:08:08,275 --> 01:08:10,034
and, you know, like,
make him breakfast

1187
01:08:10,034 --> 01:08:12,827
and just kind of wake up
with him in the morning,

1188
01:08:12,827 --> 01:08:16,758
and, um, like, I can't wait
to just start
our lives together.

1189
01:08:19,482 --> 01:08:22,000
I think that it's gonna
be better for our relationship

1190
01:08:22,000 --> 01:08:23,103
when he gets here.

1191
01:08:23,103 --> 01:08:25,034
First of all,
there's more opportunity,

1192
01:08:25,034 --> 01:08:26,896
I'm not stuck in the house

1193
01:08:26,896 --> 01:08:29,344
all the time
like I would be in Egypt.

1194
01:08:29,344 --> 01:08:32,724
We are not living
with his family.

1195
01:08:32,724 --> 01:08:35,000
I think all of those things,

1196
01:08:35,000 --> 01:08:36,413
at least for me,
it'll be better.

1197
01:08:36,413 --> 01:08:40,275
I'm hoping
that Mahmoud will see
the value in that as well.

1198
01:08:42,172 --> 01:08:43,758
<i>We have been waiting
for this day</i>

1199
01:08:43,758 --> 01:08:46,379
for a really long time,

1200
01:08:46,379 --> 01:08:48,482
<i>but I'm feeling,
like, really anxious</i>

1201
01:08:48,482 --> 01:08:52,241
because Mahmoud
was raised conservatively

1202
01:08:52,241 --> 01:08:55,068
and in a very
religious household.

1203
01:08:55,068 --> 01:08:57,000
<i>He's never lived
away from his family.</i>

1204
01:08:57,000 --> 01:08:59,965
<i>So he's gonna have
to find a way to...</i>

1205
01:08:59,965 --> 01:09:03,931
<i>to be Muslim and to accept
things around him</i>

1206
01:09:03,931 --> 01:09:08,103
<i>that aren't necessarily
an acceptable part
of his religion.</i>

1207
01:09:08,103 --> 01:09:10,000
His whole world is
about to change.

1208
01:09:14,068 --> 01:09:15,551
[clears throat]

1209
01:09:16,103 --> 01:09:17,620
So, this is what I'm wearing.

1210
01:09:17,620 --> 01:09:18,655
I mean,

1211
01:09:19,275 --> 01:09:22,448
probably not ideal
for Mr. Mahmoud.

1212
01:09:22,448 --> 01:09:25,655
<i>The fact that I have quite
a bit of fashion experience,</i>

1213
01:09:25,655 --> 01:09:29,034
<i>what I choose to wear
has always been deeply tied
to my identity.</i>

1214
01:09:30,275 --> 01:09:34,448
So it's hard for me,
'cause the one thing
that we fight so much about

1215
01:09:34,448 --> 01:09:37,620
<i>and that I love so much
is clothes.</i>

1216
01:09:37,620 --> 01:09:39,758
He likes me
to dress pretty modest,

1217
01:09:39,758 --> 01:09:41,620
but I think it's...

1218
01:09:43,000 --> 01:09:44,758
a nice compromise.

1219
01:09:44,758 --> 01:09:46,482
You can see
a little bit of my leg,

1220
01:09:46,482 --> 01:09:48,517
stomach's out a little.

1221
01:09:50,034 --> 01:09:51,103
I think we're good.

1222
01:09:54,793 --> 01:09:56,758
<i>When I was in Egypt,
I tried things his way</i>

1223
01:09:56,758 --> 01:09:59,103
and now I need him
to try things my way.

1224
01:10:00,137 --> 01:10:02,586
<i>So, this time
I'm gonna be myself</i>

1225
01:10:02,586 --> 01:10:04,724
<i>in order to have
a healthy marriage.</i>

1226
01:10:04,724 --> 01:10:08,137
<i>I have the right
to live my life
the way that I want to.</i>

1227
01:10:08,137 --> 01:10:11,896
At the same time, I love him
and I wanna make this work.

1228
01:10:12,310 --> 01:10:13,827
<i>A lot rides on him...</i>

1229
01:10:14,655 --> 01:10:15,862
liking America.

1230
01:10:17,241 --> 01:10:20,896
I cannot believe
that he's gonna be here
in two hours.

1231
01:10:22,896 --> 01:10:24,137
It's crazy.

1232
01:10:25,172 --> 01:10:27,793
I'm gonna come back
with a husband.

1233
01:10:27,793 --> 01:10:30,000
I'm gonna give him,
like, a thousand kisses

1234
01:10:30,000 --> 01:10:31,103
right in front of everyone

1235
01:10:31,103 --> 01:10:32,862
and he's just gonna have
to take it.

1236
01:10:32,862 --> 01:10:34,206
[laughs] 'Cause...

1237
01:10:35,344 --> 01:10:37,310
'Cause in Egypt
I never got to do that.

1238
01:10:50,206 --> 01:10:54,758
<i>♪ Hold on to hope
Don't be afraid of the dark ♪</i>

1239
01:10:56,620 --> 01:11:01,551
<i>♪ 'Cause I will come
For you tonight ♪</i>

1240
01:11:03,068 --> 01:11:04,482
<i>My legs are all shaky</i>

1241
01:11:04,482 --> 01:11:07,931
and, like, I'm feeling
a little out of body
[chuckles] kind of.

1242
01:11:07,931 --> 01:11:09,034
Hard to believe it's real,

1243
01:11:09,034 --> 01:11:11,034
like it's happening
within a few minutes.

1244
01:11:11,034 --> 01:11:13,068
He's gonna come
walking through those doors.

1245
01:11:13,068 --> 01:11:14,862
<i>Like, it's all setting in.</i>

1246
01:11:16,206 --> 01:11:18,034
We've been through
a lot of stuff together,

1247
01:11:18,034 --> 01:11:19,206
like, four years of it.

1248
01:11:20,172 --> 01:11:22,000
<i>And I feel a lot of pressure</i>

1249
01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:23,724
<i>because this is
our last chance,</i>

1250
01:11:23,724 --> 01:11:26,413
so I'm hoping
that we can get it together

1251
01:11:26,413 --> 01:11:28,310
and do what's necessary
to make this work

1252
01:11:28,310 --> 01:11:30,000
because I really love Mahmoud.

1253
01:11:31,034 --> 01:11:33,206
<i>But I don't know</i>

1254
01:11:33,206 --> 01:11:35,551
<i>if things will improve
when he gets here,</i>

1255
01:11:35,551 --> 01:11:38,000
because I don't know
if it's just,

1256
01:11:38,000 --> 01:11:40,896
if place can change
all of the things
that we are going through.

1257
01:11:40,896 --> 01:11:42,793
<i>I just don't know
how it's gonna be,</i>

1258
01:11:42,793 --> 01:11:45,448
but I'm gonna give it my all.

1259
01:11:45,448 --> 01:11:50,827
<i>♪ We both got scars
And it's hard to understand ♪</i>

1260
01:12:01,931 --> 01:12:04,448
Listen, we need
to get a bigger house.

1261
01:12:04,448 --> 01:12:06,551
It costs a lot of money
to buy a house.

1262
01:12:06,551 --> 01:12:07,793
You know,
you're not even pregnant yet.

1263
01:12:07,793 --> 01:12:10,000
If you were pregnant,
that's a different story.

1264
01:12:10,000 --> 01:12:12,896
It really is a good home
for this...

1265
01:12:12,896 --> 01:12:15,344
- for the moment. Uh...
- It is not.
Actually, it is not.

1266
01:12:15,344 --> 01:12:18,482
[Gino] I need to be
financially cautious
right now.

1267
01:12:18,482 --> 01:12:20,586
When you're talking
negatively.

1268
01:12:33,448 --> 01:12:36,068
<i>♪ We've been
Loving it up all day ♪</i>

1269
01:12:36,068 --> 01:12:39,344
<i>♪ We get work so we could play
but we gotta get up ♪</i>

1270
01:12:39,344 --> 01:12:41,275
<i>♪ 'Cause we're
Going out tonight ♪</i>

1271
01:12:41,275 --> 01:12:42,344
Ay, ay, ay.

1272
01:12:49,482 --> 01:12:50,758
[chuckles]

1273
01:12:50,758 --> 01:12:53,206
<i>♪ I love you loving like
you love mine ♪</i>

1274
01:12:53,206 --> 01:12:56,413
<i>♪ We could stay here
Till the end of time ♪</i>

1275
01:12:56,413 --> 01:12:58,689
[Jasmine] I'm not
a camping person,
I don't like this.

1276
01:13:05,275 --> 01:13:08,344
Jasmine and I are
on our honeymoon.

1277
01:13:08,344 --> 01:13:10,241
[chuckles] Yes,
we are newlyweds,

1278
01:13:10,241 --> 01:13:14,413
<i>and for me, being married
to Gino feels like being able</i>

1279
01:13:14,413 --> 01:13:17,482
<i>to have your favorite dessert
every day,</i>

1280
01:13:17,482 --> 01:13:20,000
but I don't know,
going camping

1281
01:13:20,000 --> 01:13:22,379
for a honeymoon is not,
like, romantic.

1282
01:13:22,379 --> 01:13:24,482
You're gonna change
your mind, you'll see.

1283
01:13:28,103 --> 01:13:29,241
- Hi!
- [employee] Hi.

1284
01:13:29,241 --> 01:13:30,620
How are you today?

1285
01:13:31,241 --> 01:13:32,172
Hi.

1286
01:13:32,172 --> 01:13:33,379
Ah!

1287
01:13:33,379 --> 01:13:34,310
- So hot out there today.
- Well, what can I do for you?

1288
01:13:34,310 --> 01:13:35,482
- I know.
- [Gino laughs]

1289
01:13:35,482 --> 01:13:37,137
You're on a tent site today?

1290
01:13:37,137 --> 01:13:38,586
- Yes.
- All right.

1291
01:13:39,413 --> 01:13:41,413
We just got married.

1292
01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:43,103
Well, congratulations.

1293
01:13:43,103 --> 01:13:44,551
This is our honeymoon.

1294
01:13:45,517 --> 01:13:47,241
Well, you're the first.

1295
01:13:50,379 --> 01:13:52,551
- Well, here's your map,
and here's your car pass.
- [Gino] Oh.

1296
01:13:52,551 --> 01:13:54,379
- Let's go, husband.
- Ready?

1297
01:13:54,379 --> 01:13:55,689
Congratulations again,
you two.

1298
01:13:55,689 --> 01:13:57,103
- Thank you.
- Thank you.

1299
01:13:57,103 --> 01:13:58,724
- Enjoy.
- Thanks very much.

1300
01:13:58,724 --> 01:14:00,206
- And welcome to our park here.
- Thank you.

1301
01:14:00,206 --> 01:14:02,620
If you guys have a moment,
I'll show you
where the restrooms are.

1302
01:14:03,241 --> 01:14:04,482
[Jasmine] What the [bleep]?

1303
01:14:04,482 --> 01:14:06,827
So, these are the showers,
it's just a...

1304
01:14:08,103 --> 01:14:09,793
basic outdoor camping shower,

1305
01:14:09,793 --> 01:14:12,241
- but the water is always hot.
- Oh, that's nice. That's nice.

1306
01:14:13,965 --> 01:14:14,965
Lovely.

1307
01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:22,655
Glamorous, luxurious.

1308
01:14:28,586 --> 01:14:31,586
But, Gino,
he wants to save money,

1309
01:14:31,586 --> 01:14:34,965
<i>because he thinks
that we spent too much money
on the wedding.</i>

1310
01:14:34,965 --> 01:14:38,137
So, wow, we are gonna have
a Michigan honeymoon.

1311
01:14:41,517 --> 01:14:42,689
[Gino] Look at that water.

1312
01:14:42,689 --> 01:14:45,482
There is no way on earth
I'm getting into that lake.

1313
01:14:45,482 --> 01:14:47,000
No?

1314
01:14:47,000 --> 01:14:50,379
Gino, you didn't watch
the movie Cocodrive?

1315
01:14:51,000 --> 01:14:52,517
- Which one?
- Cocodrive.

1316
01:14:52,517 --> 01:14:54,758
- It happened
in the United States...
- Coco Dry?

1317
01:14:54,758 --> 01:14:57,724
...and there was
a huge "cocodrive"

1318
01:14:57,724 --> 01:14:59,862
that was eating everyone.

1319
01:14:59,862 --> 01:15:01,413
I'm not gonna die like that.

1320
01:15:01,413 --> 01:15:02,793
I'm sorry, what was he doing?

1321
01:15:02,793 --> 01:15:05,137
-"Crocrodile."
- Oh, crocodile!

1322
01:15:05,137 --> 01:15:06,724
There's no crocodiles here.

1323
01:15:07,931 --> 01:15:09,758
Oh, there's 124!

1324
01:15:10,068 --> 01:15:11,137
That's our spot.

1325
01:15:12,689 --> 01:15:13,655
What do you think?

1326
01:15:18,172 --> 01:15:20,689
This camping sucks,
I don't like it.

1327
01:15:20,689 --> 01:15:23,344
There are mosquitoes,
they are biting me,

1328
01:15:23,344 --> 01:15:26,758
but I'm willing to try camping

1329
01:15:26,758 --> 01:15:29,655
if Gino tries
to make a baby tonight

1330
01:15:29,655 --> 01:15:31,448
because I'm ovulating today,

1331
01:15:31,448 --> 01:15:32,931
<i>so I need Gino.</i>

1332
01:15:36,517 --> 01:15:38,344
[Gino] It doesn't make
sense though.

1333
01:15:38,344 --> 01:15:41,551
Gino, it cannot
be that difficult
to built a tent.

1334
01:15:41,551 --> 01:15:44,482
It has only four walls.

1335
01:15:44,482 --> 01:15:46,724
Are you sure
you don't wanna book a hotel?

1336
01:15:48,931 --> 01:15:51,000
Maybe if I do like this.

1337
01:15:51,000 --> 01:15:52,000
What are you doing?

1338
01:15:52,655 --> 01:15:54,379
Trying to unfold it.

1339
01:15:55,344 --> 01:15:56,758
Oh, there we go.

1340
01:15:56,758 --> 01:15:58,965
- See this little thing goes--
- Yeah, because I pushed
that thing.

1341
01:16:00,137 --> 01:16:01,206
Yes!

1342
01:16:06,620 --> 01:16:08,655
I have never done this
in my life.

1343
01:16:08,655 --> 01:16:09,965
How do you do it?

1344
01:16:11,448 --> 01:16:13,931
- Like this?
- Don't put it directly
in the fire, you know,

1345
01:16:13,931 --> 01:16:15,034
it'll burn so fast.

1346
01:16:15,034 --> 01:16:16,034
Is it?

1347
01:16:21,034 --> 01:16:23,413
- Just don't burn your mouth.
- Mmm.

1348
01:16:27,551 --> 01:16:29,034
I've never eaten these things.

1349
01:16:33,793 --> 01:16:34,931
Mmm.

1350
01:16:35,551 --> 01:16:36,413
Mmm.

1351
01:16:36,413 --> 01:16:37,551
[blows]

1352
01:16:38,172 --> 01:16:39,241
Oh, my God.

1353
01:16:40,034 --> 01:16:41,655
It's so peaceful
and quiet in here.

1354
01:16:43,275 --> 01:16:44,275
Isn't it?

1355
01:16:45,172 --> 01:16:46,931
Baby, I'm...

1356
01:16:46,931 --> 01:16:49,137
So far what I've seen
from the United States,

1357
01:16:49,137 --> 01:16:50,793
like, I really like it.

1358
01:16:50,793 --> 01:16:52,689
- Mmm-hmm.
- And...

1359
01:16:52,689 --> 01:16:55,517
I would love
to raise my kids here.

1360
01:16:57,517 --> 01:16:59,827
And that being said,

1361
01:16:59,827 --> 01:17:03,103
I do believe
that we should start looking
for a bigger house.

1362
01:17:04,137 --> 01:17:06,310
I have never liked
our current house

1363
01:17:06,310 --> 01:17:11,551
because you have another woman
living there for seven years.

1364
01:17:11,551 --> 01:17:16,241
On top of that, it's also
way too small for our kids.

1365
01:17:16,965 --> 01:17:19,517
It really is a good home
for this...

1366
01:17:19,517 --> 01:17:21,620
- for the moment. Uh...
- It is not.
Actually, it is not,

1367
01:17:21,620 --> 01:17:23,448
because where are we gonna
put my kids

1368
01:17:23,448 --> 01:17:27,241
and the baby
that we are gonna make...

1369
01:17:27,241 --> 01:17:30,000
- potentially tonight?
- We are gonna figure that out.

1370
01:17:30,000 --> 01:17:33,551
It costs a lot of money to buy
a house now, very, very much.

1371
01:17:33,551 --> 01:17:36,000
Baby, you have to get a job.

1372
01:17:37,689 --> 01:17:39,758
[Gino] <i>I know Jasmine wants
a new house,</i>

1373
01:17:39,758 --> 01:17:42,413
but right now
we're living off my savings,

1374
01:17:42,413 --> 01:17:44,551
<i>because I quit my job</i>

1375
01:17:44,551 --> 01:17:47,206
just to support Jasmine
when she comes to the USA.

1376
01:17:47,206 --> 01:17:50,482
So I need to be financially
cautious right now.

1377
01:17:50,482 --> 01:17:53,206
When you're talking
negativity...

1378
01:17:58,172 --> 01:17:59,517
You know,
you're not even pregnant yet.

1379
01:17:59,517 --> 01:18:01,724
If you were pregnant,
that's a different story.

1380
01:18:01,724 --> 01:18:03,241
That's exactly what I mean.

1381
01:18:03,241 --> 01:18:05,896
I don't wanna wait
until I'm pregnant

1382
01:18:05,896 --> 01:18:08,310
and be thinking about,
"Oh, my kids are coming

1383
01:18:08,310 --> 01:18:10,172
and then our baby is coming

1384
01:18:10,172 --> 01:18:11,206
- and--
- You want this one?

1385
01:18:11,206 --> 01:18:13,896
No, listen to me,
I'm being serious.

1386
01:18:13,896 --> 01:18:16,655
Listen, we need
to get a bigger house.

1387
01:18:18,137 --> 01:18:21,000
Before coming to America,
Gino promised the world,

1388
01:18:21,586 --> 01:18:23,896
<i>like, buying a new house,</i>

1389
01:18:23,896 --> 01:18:28,241
but now he says that I need
to get pregnant first.

1390
01:18:28,241 --> 01:18:30,551
<i>He really wants
to have children.</i>

1391
01:18:31,655 --> 01:18:33,103
<i>But what Gino doesn't know</i>

1392
01:18:33,103 --> 01:18:36,620
is that I had issues
in the past getting pregnant.

1393
01:18:37,724 --> 01:18:40,000
<i>It is very</i> [bleep] <i>up,
what I did,</i>

1394
01:18:40,000 --> 01:18:44,344
I should have told him
the truth, but I didn't.

1395
01:18:44,344 --> 01:18:45,655
<i>One of the reasons</i>

1396
01:18:45,655 --> 01:18:49,793
why Gino's first marriage
didn't work out

1397
01:18:50,448 --> 01:18:52,689
had to do with the fact that

1398
01:18:52,689 --> 01:18:54,758
<i>they could never get pregnant,</i>

1399
01:18:54,758 --> 01:18:58,586
so I am so scared
of telling Gino

1400
01:18:58,586 --> 01:19:01,965
<i>I might not be able
to ever get pregnant,</i>

1401
01:19:01,965 --> 01:19:04,862
<i>and I know
that he will be heartbroken.</i>

1402
01:19:08,482 --> 01:19:09,862
[Rob] I would like for you
to come home

1403
01:19:09,862 --> 01:19:12,000
so that we could try
to work our [bleep] out.

1404
01:19:12,000 --> 01:19:14,068
In my opinion,
you're the same as

1405
01:19:14,068 --> 01:19:15,620
before two
and a half months ago.

1406
01:19:15,620 --> 01:19:17,310
[Rob] That's not fair at all.

1407
01:19:17,310 --> 01:19:20,310
See, this is why
we can't get anywhere,
we can't move forward.

1408
01:19:20,310 --> 01:19:21,551
[Sophie]
Because I don't trust you.

1409
01:19:21,551 --> 01:19:22,482
You should have been honest.

1410
01:19:22,482 --> 01:19:24,068
I didn't want to do that,
so I lied.

1411
01:19:31,793 --> 01:19:34,517
<i>♪ You can say that
It's just a game ♪</i>

1412
01:19:34,517 --> 01:19:37,275
<i>♪ Love and hate
It's all the same ♪</i>

1413
01:19:39,000 --> 01:19:41,482
<i>♪ But I still make you scream
My name ♪</i>

1414
01:19:43,620 --> 01:19:49,103
<i>♪ Oh, it wasn't love
It wasn't love ♪</i>

1415
01:19:53,034 --> 01:19:55,310
- Hello.
<i>- Hola, chica.</i>

1416
01:19:55,310 --> 01:19:56,379
- How are you?
- I'm good.

1417
01:19:56,379 --> 01:19:57,620
- How you doing?
- [chuckles] I'm good.

1418
01:19:57,620 --> 01:19:59,068
- You look nice.
- First, I didn't even
recognize you,

1419
01:19:59,068 --> 01:20:01,482
- I'm like, "Oh." [laughs]
- How?

1420
01:20:03,448 --> 01:20:04,620
It's just been that long, huh?

1421
01:20:08,103 --> 01:20:10,103
You got those perked up,
don't you?

1422
01:20:10,862 --> 01:20:12,448
Yes. [laughs]

1423
01:20:13,413 --> 01:20:16,000
I was really nervous
before seeing Rob

1424
01:20:16,000 --> 01:20:17,862
and I just wanted to throw up
from my nerves,

1425
01:20:17,862 --> 01:20:20,620
<i>but now
I'm finally seeing him,</i>

1426
01:20:20,620 --> 01:20:23,620
all the nervous feelings
I was feeling before
have just gone away,

1427
01:20:23,620 --> 01:20:25,275
and I'm just extremely happy

1428
01:20:25,275 --> 01:20:27,034
to, like, finally
see him again.

1429
01:20:27,034 --> 01:20:29,000
<i>It's crazy that
after all the drama</i>

1430
01:20:29,000 --> 01:20:30,344
and everything
that's happened,

1431
01:20:30,344 --> 01:20:33,000
that Rob can still
give me butterflies

1432
01:20:33,000 --> 01:20:34,965
and I think
that just shows that, like,

1433
01:20:34,965 --> 01:20:37,344
our love is really strong
and we are gonna keep trying

1434
01:20:37,344 --> 01:20:40,103
and I feel like that shows
that we are a strong couple.

1435
01:20:41,758 --> 01:20:44,931
Well, there's a selfie room,
so I wanna take some pictures.

1436
01:20:44,931 --> 01:20:46,689
All right,
I'll take a pink selfie.

1437
01:20:48,862 --> 01:20:51,206
[Sophie] Look,
it says, "Good vibes only."

1438
01:20:51,206 --> 01:20:53,413
That's what we need.
We need good vibes.

1439
01:20:54,137 --> 01:20:55,379
You need good vibes.

1440
01:20:55,379 --> 01:20:56,758
- Who?
- You.

1441
01:20:56,758 --> 01:20:58,655
I have good vibes.

1442
01:20:58,655 --> 01:21:00,068
It looks like
I have a pink shirt on.

1443
01:21:00,068 --> 01:21:01,655
[camera shutter clicks]

1444
01:21:01,655 --> 01:21:03,206
You do have a pink shirt on.

1445
01:21:06,724 --> 01:21:08,724
<i>Seeing Sophie
for the first time
in two months,</i>

1446
01:21:08,724 --> 01:21:09,931
I'm like, "Damn!"

1447
01:21:10,793 --> 01:21:12,379
My heart is beating
out of my chest.

1448
01:21:12,758 --> 01:21:14,482
My palms are sweaty.

1449
01:21:15,137 --> 01:21:16,310
I'm super nervous.

1450
01:21:16,310 --> 01:21:17,586
She just does that to me.

1451
01:21:22,448 --> 01:21:23,310
[Sophie chuckling]

1452
01:21:23,310 --> 01:21:24,620
[both laughing]

1453
01:21:24,620 --> 01:21:27,310
- Hold it,
someone's on the line.
- Hold on.

1454
01:21:30,896 --> 01:21:32,620
[Sophie laughing]

1455
01:21:32,620 --> 01:21:34,793
- [camera shutter clicking]
- Do a happy one.

1456
01:21:34,793 --> 01:21:36,413
[Sophie laughing]

1457
01:21:38,379 --> 01:21:40,586
[laughing]
You look so serious.

1458
01:21:40,586 --> 01:21:43,034
- [camera shutter clicks]
- Okay, take one of me.

1459
01:21:44,448 --> 01:21:46,344
This is a great reminder that,

1460
01:21:46,344 --> 01:21:48,172
when things are good
between me and Rob,

1461
01:21:48,172 --> 01:21:50,034
they're, like, really good,

1462
01:21:50,034 --> 01:21:52,655
but I can't risk
me taking him back

1463
01:21:52,655 --> 01:21:55,137
and... putting myself
in that situation

1464
01:21:55,137 --> 01:21:56,758
<i>to be hurt, again.</i>

1465
01:21:56,758 --> 01:21:58,310
Otherwise I'm gonna leave.

1466
01:22:04,172 --> 01:22:06,068
- You know what's at home?
- What?

1467
01:22:07,793 --> 01:22:11,379
- Your wedding ring.
- I knew you had it, I knew it!

1468
01:22:11,379 --> 01:22:14,103
- You know why I have it?
- Oh, my God,
I feel so much better.

1469
01:22:14,103 --> 01:22:15,310
I thought I lost it

1470
01:22:15,310 --> 01:22:17,275
and I didn't wanna tell you
'cause I knew you took it.

1471
01:22:17,275 --> 01:22:20,103
- I didn't take it, [chuckles]
you just know that if--
- Yes, you did!

1472
01:22:20,103 --> 01:22:21,896
- Oh, my God, I'm relieved...
- I did not take it.

1473
01:22:21,896 --> 01:22:24,068
...because I thought
I was terrible
and lost the ring.

1474
01:22:25,000 --> 01:22:26,068
Let me see yours.

1475
01:22:26,448 --> 01:22:27,448
It's not on.

1476
01:22:28,206 --> 01:22:29,793
You don't have your ring on.

1477
01:22:29,793 --> 01:22:32,413
Everyone thinks
you're a single guy

1478
01:22:32,413 --> 01:22:34,241
in Austin, living your life.

1479
01:22:36,758 --> 01:22:38,413
I'm just trying
not to look stupid.

1480
01:22:38,413 --> 01:22:40,034
- I'm walking around
with a wedding ring--
- You do look stupid,

1481
01:22:40,034 --> 01:22:41,103
a married man
without the ring.

1482
01:22:41,103 --> 01:22:42,275
You know what's crazy?

1483
01:22:42,275 --> 01:22:44,172
It's that I have friends
who have never met my wife.

1484
01:22:44,172 --> 01:22:46,103
You don't know my friends.

1485
01:22:46,103 --> 01:22:48,000
Well, you've hung out
with them a whole lot more

1486
01:22:48,000 --> 01:22:49,206
than you've hung out with me.

1487
01:22:50,862 --> 01:22:51,862
Be honest.

1488
01:22:51,862 --> 01:22:53,482
I mean, you moved out
two months ago, right?

1489
01:22:53,482 --> 01:22:54,758
- Because of you...
- Right?

1490
01:22:54,758 --> 01:22:57,241
- ...of other issues.
- Because of me, what?

1491
01:22:57,241 --> 01:23:00,482
- I didn't do anything
that was like--
- You didn't do anything, okay.

1492
01:23:01,827 --> 01:23:04,517
What, a month
after we got married...

1493
01:23:04,517 --> 01:23:06,965
- Mmm-hmm, yeah.
- ...you did a factory reset
on my phone.

1494
01:23:06,965 --> 01:23:07,827
Mmm-hmm, what did I find?

1495
01:23:07,827 --> 01:23:09,827
- You found conversations--
- I found

1496
01:23:09,827 --> 01:23:11,689
all these texts, all these
other girls on your phone

1497
01:23:11,689 --> 01:23:13,137
from the whole four years.

1498
01:23:14,344 --> 01:23:16,689
There was like 50 bitches
on your phone, Rob.

1499
01:23:16,689 --> 01:23:18,413
It was literally girls
who hit me up,

1500
01:23:18,413 --> 01:23:20,482
tell me I'm cute or tell me,
tell me, you know,

1501
01:23:20,482 --> 01:23:23,034
just to try to have,
like, a conversation.

1502
01:23:23,034 --> 01:23:25,310
- What I've realized is you...
- These little
small interactions.

1503
01:23:25,310 --> 01:23:26,896
...cannot take accountability

1504
01:23:26,896 --> 01:23:29,172
- and you're always gonna try
to victimize yourself.
- I'm not trying to--

1505
01:23:29,172 --> 01:23:31,586
- Honestly, all you need to--
- You're not accepting me
taking accountability.

1506
01:23:31,586 --> 01:23:33,137
Honestly, all you need to do
is say, like,

1507
01:23:33,137 --> 01:23:35,000
"I know, I'm really sorry,
how can we fix this."

1508
01:23:35,000 --> 01:23:36,413
Done.

1509
01:23:38,206 --> 01:23:41,448
See, this is why
we can't get anywhere,
we can't move forward.

1510
01:23:41,448 --> 01:23:42,655
[Sophie]
Because I don't trust you.

1511
01:23:42,655 --> 01:23:45,620
You lied
about the online cheating
multiple times.

1512
01:23:45,620 --> 01:23:47,862
- No, that's not true.
- It is true!

1513
01:23:47,862 --> 01:23:49,344
- It's not true.
- It is true!

1514
01:23:49,344 --> 01:23:50,724
[Rob] <i>I didn't want
to tell you,</i>

1515
01:23:50,724 --> 01:23:52,482
<i>"Oh, I've had
some small conversations</i>

1516
01:23:52,482 --> 01:23:54,413
- with women over the years."
- You should've, you should've,
you should've been honest.

1517
01:23:54,413 --> 01:23:56,000
I didn't wanna do that,
so I lied.

1518
01:23:56,000 --> 01:23:57,931
That's the only time I lied.

1519
01:23:57,931 --> 01:23:59,103
It would be
completely different

1520
01:23:59,103 --> 01:24:01,241
if you had just tried
to be honest with me and say,

1521
01:24:01,241 --> 01:24:02,655
"Look, I'm really sorry,
I messed up."

1522
01:24:02,655 --> 01:24:04,068
I would've been
accepting of that

1523
01:24:04,068 --> 01:24:06,344
because at least
you was honest
and you're trying.

1524
01:24:06,344 --> 01:24:07,827
Like, how do you not see that?

1525
01:24:07,827 --> 01:24:09,793
Because at the end of the day,
I'm hoping

1526
01:24:09,793 --> 01:24:12,620
to avoid the [bleep]
conflict altogether.

1527
01:24:15,586 --> 01:24:16,689
First of all,

1528
01:24:16,689 --> 01:24:19,655
I'm sorry that I had
conversations with any women.

1529
01:24:19,655 --> 01:24:22,896
- Conversations, okay.
- That's-- What else were they?

1530
01:24:22,896 --> 01:24:24,862
- They weren't physical.
- No.

1531
01:24:24,862 --> 01:24:26,482
- They weren't emotional.
- Okay, no. Downplay it,

1532
01:24:26,482 --> 01:24:28,275
- but continue. Continue.
- I'm not-- How am I down--

1533
01:24:28,275 --> 01:24:29,896
The [bleep] you say
is just like,

1534
01:24:29,896 --> 01:24:31,620
you just be reaching
and that's the...

1535
01:24:31,620 --> 01:24:34,413
- that's what makes it so hard.
- No, because if you're gonna
come in here and act like,

1536
01:24:34,413 --> 01:24:37,000
"You moved out, you just wanna
party with your..."

1537
01:24:37,000 --> 01:24:40,275
Like, no, say your side too,
there's two sides to it.

1538
01:24:40,275 --> 01:24:43,034
But you're not taking
any accountability
for what you did.

1539
01:24:43,034 --> 01:24:45,172
- I have taken accountability.
- I shouldn't be the one

1540
01:24:45,172 --> 01:24:46,413
to tell you what you did.

1541
01:24:46,413 --> 01:24:48,310
- Have I not already apologized
to you?
- Again.

1542
01:24:50,000 --> 01:24:52,103
- So, now I need
to apologize again.
- Mmm-hmm.

1543
01:24:52,103 --> 01:24:54,586
None of these women were
backup options.

1544
01:24:54,586 --> 01:24:56,689
- I only liked--
- I'm not talking about it
with you.

1545
01:24:56,689 --> 01:24:58,448
You saying the same things
to me,

1546
01:24:58,448 --> 01:24:59,896
doesn't mean anything to me.

1547
01:24:59,896 --> 01:25:02,103
- So you just shut down
and run away.
- No, I'm just...

1548
01:25:02,103 --> 01:25:03,413
I'm over the conversation.

1549
01:25:08,655 --> 01:25:10,000
I would like for you
to come home

1550
01:25:11,896 --> 01:25:14,172
In my opinion,
you're the same as

1551
01:25:14,172 --> 01:25:15,758
before two
and a half months ago.

1552
01:25:15,758 --> 01:25:17,068
That's not fair at all.

1553
01:25:18,620 --> 01:25:19,862
I... Sophie.

1554
01:25:19,862 --> 01:25:21,448
- I'm not talking about it
right now.
- I'm literally here

1555
01:25:21,448 --> 01:25:24,379
- apologizing for all of that.
- I gave you two
and a half months to change.

1556
01:25:24,379 --> 01:25:26,862
And I'm here apologizing
for all these things.

1557
01:25:28,172 --> 01:25:30,344
You won't let it go.

1558
01:25:30,344 --> 01:25:33,310
Because it's so frustrating
to someone to hurt you so bad

1559
01:25:33,310 --> 01:25:35,413
and just downplay it.

1560
01:25:35,413 --> 01:25:37,310
But it's like,
you don't get it,

1561
01:25:37,310 --> 01:25:38,517
I have nothing to talk about.

1562
01:25:45,344 --> 01:25:47,206
♪ Oh la la la la

1563
01:25:50,103 --> 01:25:51,206
Woo ooo!

1564
01:25:51,206 --> 01:25:52,344
[horns honking]

1565
01:25:52,344 --> 01:25:55,137
This season on 90 Day Fiance
Happily Ever After...

1566
01:25:55,137 --> 01:25:56,862
Woo!

1567
01:25:56,862 --> 01:25:58,620
I can't wait to meet Kobe's
family, and you know,

1568
01:25:58,620 --> 01:26:00,448
be in your home country.

1569
01:26:00,448 --> 01:26:03,310
[laughter]

1570
01:26:03,310 --> 01:26:07,103
One foot in front of the other,
interact with your public.

1571
01:26:07,103 --> 01:26:11,000
Jasmine has what it takes to be
a beauty queen.

1572
01:26:11,000 --> 01:26:12,379
She's, like, the whole package.

1573
01:26:12,379 --> 01:26:13,655
He has a good package.

1574
01:26:13,655 --> 01:26:16,275
[laughter]

1575
01:26:16,275 --> 01:26:17,275
Wow!

1576
01:26:17,275 --> 01:26:19,241
Woo!

1577
01:26:19,241 --> 01:26:22,862
Oh. My. God.

1578
01:26:22,862 --> 01:26:26,344
I am just so excited to be
Mrs. Big Ed.

1579
01:26:26,344 --> 01:26:29,000
I'm shocked that this wedding
is actually happening.

1580
01:26:29,000 --> 01:26:30,931
So are we.

1581
01:26:33,413 --> 01:26:34,724
So what brings you in today?

1582
01:26:34,724 --> 01:26:38,206
Potentially, doing
a postnuptial agreement.

1583
01:26:38,206 --> 01:26:41,655
In a marriage,
you're entitled to half of

1584
01:26:41,655 --> 01:26:44,965
his savings and he's obligated
to pay for half of your debts.

1585
01:26:46,931 --> 01:26:48,103
About 100K.

1586
01:26:55,379 --> 01:26:59,068
♪

1587
01:27:09,137 --> 01:27:10,620
[beeping]

1588
01:27:15,724 --> 01:27:16,827
And I'm telling you
that I don't have

1589
01:27:16,827 --> 01:27:19,793
five [bleep] thousand dollars
to pay for a lawyer.

1590
01:27:25,241 --> 01:27:27,034
Yeah. 'Cause I'm tired of
this [bleep].

1591
01:27:27,034 --> 01:27:31,068
[sobbing]

1592
01:27:31,068 --> 01:27:32,344
Let me see your phone.

1593
01:27:32,344 --> 01:27:35,344
♪

1594
01:27:35,344 --> 01:27:36,655
The [bleep] is this?

1595
01:27:36,655 --> 01:27:39,758
30,000K contributions.
Michael payment, payment.

1596
01:27:39,758 --> 01:27:41,241
What is this?

1597
01:27:42,724 --> 01:27:43,862
[bleep]

1598
01:27:59,758 --> 01:28:02,000
Like, this is my last chance to
make him tell me, like,

1599
01:28:02,000 --> 01:28:04,137
"I want you.
You're who I want."

1600
01:28:06,034 --> 01:28:08,931
You act like...K. Cool.

1601
01:28:08,931 --> 01:28:10,137
- Bye.
- Bye forever.

1602
01:28:12,103 --> 01:28:13,551
[bleep]

1603
01:28:19,517 --> 01:28:21,931
♪

1604
01:28:21,931 --> 01:28:23,000
[sobbing]