1 00:00:02,219 --> 00:00:03,612 - Previously on "The Bold Type"... 2 00:00:03,655 --> 00:00:04,569 - I saw that the Belle is hiring bartenders. 3 00:00:04,613 --> 00:00:06,136 You could work here. 4 00:00:06,180 --> 00:00:07,485 - You could even do like a podcast. 5 00:00:07,529 --> 00:00:10,184 - How about you record one episode? 6 00:00:10,227 --> 00:00:13,187 And if I don't like it, then-- - I won't bring it up again. 7 00:00:13,230 --> 00:00:16,364 - Eva--I think you knew that since you got my father fired 8 00:00:16,407 --> 00:00:18,583 from his own company after 25 years. 9 00:00:18,627 --> 00:00:21,108 - How am I gonna do this job and have a baby? 10 00:00:21,151 --> 00:00:23,153 - There's no heartbeat. 11 00:00:23,197 --> 00:00:25,764 - I think I feel relieved that I'm not having this baby. 12 00:00:25,808 --> 00:00:28,158 - Whatever you're feeling right now, 13 00:00:28,202 --> 00:00:29,551 it's okay. 14 00:00:29,594 --> 00:00:31,640 - I got a double mastectomy three months ago. 15 00:00:31,683 --> 00:00:34,512 - When Kevin tried to touch me there, 16 00:00:34,556 --> 00:00:36,166 I just--I freaked out. 17 00:00:36,210 --> 00:00:38,560 I just--I'm not comfortable with them. 18 00:00:38,603 --> 00:00:43,086 I wrote a piece about it to see if maybe 19 00:00:43,130 --> 00:00:45,567 I could find people like me. We'll see if people show up. 20 00:00:45,610 --> 00:00:47,090 - I think they will. 21 00:00:47,134 --> 00:00:48,657 [punchy music] 22 00:00:49,614 --> 00:00:51,486 - No, no, no, I need you to go right now. 23 00:00:51,529 --> 00:00:53,314 Yes, I have a first date, but you gotta go. 24 00:00:53,357 --> 00:00:54,706 - Jane, this is huge. - Yeah. 25 00:00:54,750 --> 00:00:56,099 - This is really big. - Mm-hmm. 26 00:00:56,143 --> 00:00:57,492 - I mean, two weeks ago, you said you weren't ready. 27 00:00:58,580 --> 00:01:00,364 - I know, but my support group thinks it'll help, so... 28 00:01:00,408 --> 00:01:01,626 - Yeah, and, seriously, I'm so proud of you. 29 00:01:01,670 --> 00:01:02,888 - Thank you. 30 00:01:02,932 --> 00:01:04,107 - What's he like? What does he do? 31 00:01:05,065 --> 00:01:06,196 - He's geographically desirable and a twin. 32 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:08,111 That's all I know. 33 00:01:08,155 --> 00:01:09,373 So you have to go, - A twin. 34 00:01:09,417 --> 00:01:10,592 - Can you go? I have to finish getting ready. 35 00:01:10,635 --> 00:01:12,115 - Yes, no, no, no, I'm gonna get 36 00:01:12,159 --> 00:01:13,334 out of your hair ASAP. - Okay. 37 00:01:13,377 --> 00:01:14,335 - But, hey, I'm so proud of you. 38 00:01:14,378 --> 00:01:15,597 - Thank you. - I love you. 39 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:17,120 Call me if you need anything at all. 40 00:01:17,164 --> 00:01:18,121 - Nope, you have fun with Marissa. 41 00:01:18,165 --> 00:01:19,340 Tell her I said hi. - Okay. 42 00:01:19,383 --> 00:01:21,907 ♪ 43 00:01:21,951 --> 00:01:23,866 - ♪ You're a house on fire 44 00:01:23,909 --> 00:01:25,650 ♪ The match and the lighter 45 00:01:25,694 --> 00:01:28,436 - This is nice... 46 00:01:28,479 --> 00:01:32,614 just sitting here with you, getting to know each other. 47 00:01:32,657 --> 00:01:34,442 [laughs] 48 00:01:34,485 --> 00:01:37,749 I mean, i-it's a little weird staring at you on my computer, 49 00:01:37,793 --> 00:01:41,927 but, uh, maybe we should, uh, talk about our hobbies. 50 00:01:41,971 --> 00:01:44,582 I'll go first, um... 51 00:01:44,626 --> 00:01:48,934 I love to write, except I do that for a living, 52 00:01:48,978 --> 00:01:52,764 so I guess that doesn't really count as a hobby. 53 00:01:52,808 --> 00:01:57,465 I love lists, and I like to check things off 54 00:01:57,508 --> 00:01:59,423 after I've completed them. 55 00:01:59,467 --> 00:02:02,470 Huh, I've always said that I was gonna run a marathon, 56 00:02:02,513 --> 00:02:05,516 but I haven't done that yet. 57 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:07,649 [door opens] - I think I left it over here. 58 00:02:08,954 --> 00:02:11,348 Oh, my God. What's happening? 59 00:02:11,392 --> 00:02:13,568 Is that your--your date on the computer? 60 00:02:13,611 --> 00:02:16,136 Why are you naked? And why isn't he here? 61 00:02:17,659 --> 00:02:20,183 - My date is here. [chuckles] 62 00:02:20,227 --> 00:02:22,185 I-I'm dating my boobs, Kat. 63 00:02:22,229 --> 00:02:24,796 ♪ 64 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:28,191 - ♪ Make you my man, and I'll be your woman ♪ 65 00:02:28,235 --> 00:02:29,714 ♪ 66 00:02:29,758 --> 00:02:33,196 ♪ We can make it unless I make it one moment ♪ 67 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:34,763 [phone chimes] 68 00:02:34,806 --> 00:02:36,286 ♪ More champagne for us 69 00:02:36,330 --> 00:02:39,594 ♪ Let's get drunk and make loving ♪ 70 00:02:39,637 --> 00:02:42,205 - ♪ I know you're in love... - Really? 71 00:02:42,249 --> 00:02:43,989 - You look so handsome right now. 72 00:02:44,033 --> 00:02:46,601 And it's been two weeks. 73 00:02:46,644 --> 00:02:48,994 I'm ready. - Mm. 74 00:02:49,038 --> 00:02:50,866 - Great. - Mm-hmm. 75 00:02:50,909 --> 00:02:53,216 - Let's do this. 76 00:02:53,260 --> 00:02:55,000 God, I missed this. 77 00:02:55,044 --> 00:02:57,220 - Mm, me too. 78 00:02:57,264 --> 00:03:01,833 ♪ 79 00:03:01,877 --> 00:03:04,662 - Actually, I read somewhere 80 00:03:04,706 --> 00:03:07,578 that, if I'm on top, our chances are better. 81 00:03:08,666 --> 00:03:11,843 - Um, chances better for what? 82 00:03:11,887 --> 00:03:13,889 - Conceiving. 83 00:03:13,932 --> 00:03:15,717 Apparently position makes a difference. 84 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:19,199 - Oh, um, I... 85 00:03:21,853 --> 00:03:24,552 I-I was saying I'm ready 86 00:03:24,595 --> 00:03:28,469 for regular sex not... not baby sex. 87 00:03:28,512 --> 00:03:30,732 - Right, of course. I'm sorry. 88 00:03:30,775 --> 00:03:34,257 - No, it's-- I should've been clearer. 89 00:03:34,301 --> 00:03:35,867 - I read into it. 90 00:03:35,911 --> 00:03:40,394 I guess...I'm just ready to try again. 91 00:03:42,396 --> 00:03:45,486 Ever since we got pregnant, it's all I can think about-- 92 00:03:45,529 --> 00:03:48,706 starting a family with you, being a dad, 93 00:03:48,750 --> 00:03:51,927 having a little baby you or me. - [chuckles] 94 00:03:54,364 --> 00:03:57,498 - Okay, not right now, 95 00:03:57,541 --> 00:04:00,544 but when you're ready, 96 00:04:00,588 --> 00:04:02,285 I'm ready to try again. 97 00:04:02,329 --> 00:04:05,897 [tender music] 98 00:04:05,941 --> 00:04:07,856 - Okay. 99 00:04:07,899 --> 00:04:14,515 ♪ 100 00:04:17,431 --> 00:04:19,389 - Hello. 101 00:04:19,433 --> 00:04:21,478 I see your date spent the night. 102 00:04:21,522 --> 00:04:24,873 Must have gone well, hey. - Ah, funny. 103 00:04:24,916 --> 00:04:28,398 Thank you. - Oh, okay. 104 00:04:28,442 --> 00:04:31,532 Hey, look, I know I don't really know much 105 00:04:31,575 --> 00:04:33,621 about this stuff, and maybe you don't want 106 00:04:33,664 --> 00:04:34,970 to talk about it, but if you do... 107 00:04:36,711 --> 00:04:38,669 - My support group gave me 108 00:04:38,713 --> 00:04:40,976 a how to love your body post-mastectomy guide. 109 00:04:42,456 --> 00:04:44,501 First step is getting to know your boobs 110 00:04:44,545 --> 00:04:46,329 as if you're dating them. 111 00:04:46,373 --> 00:04:48,592 - Hm. - It was awkward and silly 112 00:04:48,636 --> 00:04:52,335 and weird, and if I could, I'd never ask 'em out again. 113 00:04:52,379 --> 00:04:54,685 Plus they're kind of clingy. 114 00:04:54,729 --> 00:04:57,427 - Well, first dates are the worst, am I right? 115 00:04:57,471 --> 00:04:58,863 But you know what makes 'em better? 116 00:04:58,907 --> 00:05:01,518 Activities--you should take them out. 117 00:05:01,562 --> 00:05:04,739 Body painting, a seaweed spa wrap. 118 00:05:04,782 --> 00:05:06,349 - It's a good idea. 119 00:05:06,393 --> 00:05:07,916 - Hopefully not the only one I have today. 120 00:05:07,959 --> 00:05:10,353 - Oh, right, tonight's the podcast trial 121 00:05:10,397 --> 00:05:12,660 with Penny, the woman who runs the domestic violence shelter. 122 00:05:12,703 --> 00:05:16,141 - She actually had to bail for a conference in Boston, 123 00:05:16,185 --> 00:05:17,447 but it's all good. 124 00:05:17,491 --> 00:05:19,362 I got this woman who invented a device 125 00:05:19,406 --> 00:05:20,842 that cleans plastic out of the ocean, 126 00:05:20,885 --> 00:05:23,627 so hopefully it goes well, and once Darby gives me 127 00:05:23,671 --> 00:05:25,847 the green light, then Penny can be my next guest. 128 00:05:25,890 --> 00:05:27,849 - That's awesome. - Thank you. 129 00:05:27,892 --> 00:05:30,417 I just--I hope I can pull it off, you know? 130 00:05:30,460 --> 00:05:32,636 Make a difference. - You will. 131 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:34,856 You always do. - Thanks. 132 00:05:34,899 --> 00:05:37,641 And, look, I know maybe it wasn't love at first sight, 133 00:05:37,685 --> 00:05:40,557 but I do think you're gonna have your happily ever after. 134 00:05:40,601 --> 00:05:42,037 - [chuckles] - All three of you. 135 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:43,473 You're perfect for each other. 136 00:05:43,517 --> 00:05:47,390 ♪ 137 00:05:47,434 --> 00:05:48,826 [knock on door] 138 00:05:48,870 --> 00:05:50,437 - Jacqueline, we have a pitch meeting. 139 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:51,394 - Oh. 140 00:05:52,526 --> 00:05:53,875 How does that look? 141 00:05:53,918 --> 00:05:56,181 - Good, good, very good. - Mm. 142 00:05:56,225 --> 00:05:59,837 Ian took it, and I've kind of forgotten 143 00:05:59,881 --> 00:06:02,666 how...talented he is. 144 00:06:02,710 --> 00:06:05,582 - Well, he has, like, the perfect subject, so... 145 00:06:05,626 --> 00:06:06,888 - Thank you, Andrew. 146 00:06:06,931 --> 00:06:10,108 - I mean, of course, yeah, my p-pleas-- 147 00:06:10,152 --> 00:06:11,893 There's a pitch meeting. Pitch meeting. 148 00:06:11,936 --> 00:06:14,678 ♪ 149 00:06:14,722 --> 00:06:16,201 - Good morning, beautiful people. 150 00:06:16,245 --> 00:06:17,420 - Morning. 151 00:06:17,464 --> 00:06:18,682 - Who's feeling alive today? 152 00:06:18,726 --> 00:06:19,727 - Whoo! - Yes! 153 00:06:19,770 --> 00:06:21,206 - Good! 154 00:06:21,250 --> 00:06:24,601 And who feels sexy and confident? 155 00:06:24,645 --> 00:06:26,081 - Me. - Good for you, Andrew. 156 00:06:26,124 --> 00:06:27,604 - Thank you. 157 00:06:27,648 --> 00:06:32,740 - We are all very powerful, sexual creatures, 158 00:06:32,783 --> 00:06:35,569 and we deserve to feel that way. 159 00:06:35,612 --> 00:06:39,529 Now, that all comes, of course, from the inside, 160 00:06:39,573 --> 00:06:42,053 but, clothes do help, 161 00:06:42,097 --> 00:06:44,447 which is why I want to celebrate 162 00:06:44,491 --> 00:06:46,188 the power of fashion. 163 00:06:46,231 --> 00:06:48,146 Pitches. 164 00:06:48,190 --> 00:06:51,541 - Sexy lingerie-- does wearing it to the office 165 00:06:51,585 --> 00:06:53,891 make you feel more or less in charge? 166 00:06:53,935 --> 00:06:55,589 - Love it. What else? 167 00:06:57,460 --> 00:06:59,767 - I can do a piece for "The Failing Feminist"-- 168 00:06:59,810 --> 00:07:03,466 power dressing outside the office. 169 00:07:03,510 --> 00:07:05,903 My mom had this DVF wrap dress, 170 00:07:05,947 --> 00:07:07,862 and she didn't work or anything, 171 00:07:07,905 --> 00:07:10,560 but I could just tell from photos that she felt 172 00:07:10,604 --> 00:07:13,781 really powerful and important when wearing it. 173 00:07:13,824 --> 00:07:15,478 - Well, I would love if you could find that photo 174 00:07:15,522 --> 00:07:18,220 to include it in your piece. - Yeah, I think I can. 175 00:07:18,263 --> 00:07:20,527 - Fashion people. [phone buzzes] 176 00:07:20,570 --> 00:07:23,573 - Okay, sorry, Jasper's here. - What? 177 00:07:23,617 --> 00:07:25,488 - You got this, Red. 178 00:07:25,532 --> 00:07:27,098 - Uh-- - Sutton? 179 00:07:27,142 --> 00:07:29,100 - Okay. [clears throat] 180 00:07:29,144 --> 00:07:32,495 Well, we could do a photo spread 181 00:07:32,539 --> 00:07:35,890 of the female business uniform through the decades. 182 00:07:35,933 --> 00:07:39,937 What kind of clothing does make women feel 183 00:07:39,981 --> 00:07:43,593 powerful and sexual and independent? 184 00:07:43,637 --> 00:07:45,900 I feel like society would really like for us 185 00:07:45,943 --> 00:07:48,250 to believe that women dress to impress men, 186 00:07:48,293 --> 00:07:52,602 but the truth is iconic pieces like the Chanel tweed suit 187 00:07:52,646 --> 00:07:55,649 Diane von Furstenberg's wrap dress were created 188 00:07:55,692 --> 00:07:59,740 so that women could feel sexy for themselves. 189 00:07:59,783 --> 00:08:02,830 So maybe some female designers, you know? 190 00:08:02,873 --> 00:08:05,789 And how their fashion empowers women 191 00:08:05,833 --> 00:08:08,792 to own their sexuality. 192 00:08:08,836 --> 00:08:13,101 - That is exactly the kind of thing I'm looking for. 193 00:08:13,144 --> 00:08:14,885 How would you like to run point 194 00:08:14,929 --> 00:08:17,671 on that fashion spread? - I would really love that. 195 00:08:17,714 --> 00:08:20,151 - Great. What else we got? 196 00:08:20,195 --> 00:08:27,158 ♪ 197 00:08:27,202 --> 00:08:29,552 - I vaguely remember that picture. 198 00:08:29,596 --> 00:08:31,336 - I'm wearing yellow rainboots, 199 00:08:31,380 --> 00:08:33,861 and Mom's in a brown, patterned dress? 200 00:08:33,904 --> 00:08:35,906 - Oh, I remember that dress. 201 00:08:35,950 --> 00:08:38,909 She loved how easy it was to take on and off. 202 00:08:38,953 --> 00:08:41,085 - Yeah, the photo is on the wall by the stairs 203 00:08:41,129 --> 00:08:43,784 in a silver frame. - You okay? 204 00:08:43,827 --> 00:08:48,571 'Cause you didn't say gross when I alluded 205 00:08:48,615 --> 00:08:50,834 to your mom and me, you know...doing it. 206 00:08:50,878 --> 00:08:54,882 - Yeah, uh, gross, okay? Um...I'm fine. 207 00:08:54,925 --> 00:08:59,060 I just have a lot on my mind, but I'm good. 208 00:09:00,975 --> 00:09:02,803 - Okay. 209 00:09:02,846 --> 00:09:05,675 I'll, uh, scan the photo and send it as soon as I can. 210 00:09:05,719 --> 00:09:08,112 - Okay, thanks. Love you, Dad. 211 00:09:08,156 --> 00:09:09,984 Bye. - Yeah. 212 00:09:10,027 --> 00:09:13,030 [soft dramatic music] 213 00:09:13,074 --> 00:09:16,207 [punchy music] 214 00:09:16,251 --> 00:09:19,820 ♪ 215 00:09:19,863 --> 00:09:22,910 - He wants to get pregnant, like, now. 216 00:09:22,953 --> 00:09:24,346 - No pressure. - I know. 217 00:09:24,389 --> 00:09:26,870 And he doesn't even know how relieved I felt 218 00:09:26,914 --> 00:09:28,698 when I found out I wasn't having a baby. 219 00:09:28,742 --> 00:09:29,960 Honestly, I didn't think I was gonna have 220 00:09:30,004 --> 00:09:31,745 to talk to him about it. 221 00:09:31,788 --> 00:09:33,094 - Well, I mean, you have to tell him how you feel. 222 00:09:33,137 --> 00:09:34,965 - And disappoint him? I can't do that. 223 00:09:35,009 --> 00:09:37,620 - Yeah, but, Sutton, getting accidentally pregnant 224 00:09:37,664 --> 00:09:39,361 and planning for a baby are two very different things, 225 00:09:39,404 --> 00:09:40,884 and you're allowed to want to wait. 226 00:09:40,928 --> 00:09:43,626 - Yeah, and Richard, he'll understand. 227 00:09:43,670 --> 00:09:46,194 - I don't know. I just-- 228 00:09:46,237 --> 00:09:47,717 Let's talk about something else. 229 00:09:47,761 --> 00:09:48,979 How's the podcast? 230 00:09:49,023 --> 00:09:51,242 - It was kind of boring. 231 00:09:51,286 --> 00:09:54,724 For someone who's so interesting and impressive, 232 00:09:54,768 --> 00:09:57,901 she just didn't really, like, bring anything. 233 00:09:57,945 --> 00:10:00,121 I don't think it's exciting enough to impress Darby. 234 00:10:00,164 --> 00:10:01,992 - Well, if you're looking for exciting, 235 00:10:02,036 --> 00:10:03,646 take me for a cruise. - Really? 236 00:10:03,690 --> 00:10:06,780 - Yeah, 'cause I am... 237 00:10:06,823 --> 00:10:09,260 styling a very exciting shoot 238 00:10:09,304 --> 00:10:11,219 about fashion and empowerment. 239 00:10:11,262 --> 00:10:13,656 - But the podcast is members only, 240 00:10:13,700 --> 00:10:14,918 and, uh... [clicks tongue] 241 00:10:14,962 --> 00:10:16,746 you're still my guest, kid. 242 00:10:16,790 --> 00:10:18,400 - I spend so much time at this bar, 243 00:10:18,443 --> 00:10:21,751 I keep forgetting that. - [chuckles] 244 00:10:21,795 --> 00:10:23,100 - You could do Jane's boobs. 245 00:10:23,144 --> 00:10:25,712 - No, sorry, they're booked and busy-- 246 00:10:25,755 --> 00:10:27,278 body plastering. - What? 247 00:10:27,322 --> 00:10:29,237 - Kat took this class where you make a cast 248 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:30,630 of a body part. 249 00:10:31,326 --> 00:10:32,893 - [whispers] Vagina. 250 00:10:32,936 --> 00:10:34,895 - Bet no one's done boobs before. 251 00:10:34,938 --> 00:10:37,680 - It's a pretty decent second date. 252 00:10:39,203 --> 00:10:40,814 But a better idea, though, would be for you to come 253 00:10:40,857 --> 00:10:42,380 and be a part of my shoot. 254 00:10:42,424 --> 00:10:44,948 - Honestly, I'm not really ready to be photographed yet. 255 00:10:45,993 --> 00:10:47,690 - Okay. 256 00:10:47,734 --> 00:10:49,126 - Could I get a gin martini please? 257 00:10:49,170 --> 00:10:50,345 - Yeah. 258 00:10:50,388 --> 00:10:52,782 [pop music] 259 00:10:52,826 --> 00:10:54,784 Straight? - Dirty. 260 00:10:54,828 --> 00:10:57,787 - Interesting. - You think I don't have taste? 261 00:10:57,831 --> 00:11:00,311 - Oh, you read minds now? - Sometimes. 262 00:11:00,355 --> 00:11:03,445 - Hmm, really? Well, that is impressive. 263 00:11:03,488 --> 00:11:07,449 A telepathic NRA card-carrying Republican. 264 00:11:07,492 --> 00:11:10,234 - Not as impressive as a feminist socialist activist 265 00:11:10,278 --> 00:11:12,410 who finally knows how to make a good drink. 266 00:11:12,454 --> 00:11:14,195 [stirring utensil clinking] 267 00:11:17,241 --> 00:11:18,329 - Enjoy. 268 00:11:18,373 --> 00:11:19,983 - Thank you. 269 00:11:20,027 --> 00:11:21,942 - You're welcome. 270 00:11:22,986 --> 00:11:24,379 - I really don't like her. 271 00:11:24,422 --> 00:11:26,860 - She is so lucky that she's on the board at Safford. 272 00:11:26,903 --> 00:11:28,122 I mean, did you see? 273 00:11:28,165 --> 00:11:29,906 She defended hardline immigration 274 00:11:29,950 --> 00:11:31,734 last night on ABC news. 275 00:11:31,778 --> 00:11:33,997 - Yeah, like a heartless monster. 276 00:11:34,041 --> 00:11:35,825 - Yeah, and I couldn't change the channel. 277 00:11:35,869 --> 00:11:37,087 - Neither could I. 278 00:11:37,131 --> 00:11:38,436 ♪ 279 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:40,395 - Oh, no. - What? 280 00:11:40,438 --> 00:11:43,311 - I know who I need to get on the podcast. 281 00:11:43,354 --> 00:11:46,053 both: Who? - Her. 282 00:11:46,096 --> 00:11:51,362 - ♪ 'Cause we're boring people boring lives ♪ 283 00:11:51,406 --> 00:11:53,016 ♪ Dubba dub bom 284 00:11:53,060 --> 00:11:53,930 ♪ Dubba dubba dub bom 285 00:11:58,065 --> 00:12:00,981 [soft dramatic music] 286 00:12:01,024 --> 00:12:07,988 ♪ 287 00:12:09,206 --> 00:12:13,167 - Wow, what is going on? This smells amazing. 288 00:12:13,210 --> 00:12:15,082 - Just a little celebratory breakfast 289 00:12:15,125 --> 00:12:18,215 for my wife who's been kicking so much ass at work lately. 290 00:12:21,392 --> 00:12:23,220 You want eggs. I can make eggs. 291 00:12:23,264 --> 00:12:26,136 - No, no, no, it's not that. - Okay, what is it? 292 00:12:26,180 --> 00:12:28,269 - I have to... 293 00:12:28,312 --> 00:12:29,966 tell you something. 294 00:12:31,141 --> 00:12:32,926 - Okay. 295 00:12:32,969 --> 00:12:34,536 - Yesterday, when we were talking 296 00:12:34,579 --> 00:12:37,800 about trying for a baby... - Right. 297 00:12:39,410 --> 00:12:42,762 - Just--work is so great, and we just got married, 298 00:12:42,805 --> 00:12:45,808 and I just really want to enjoy this moment, you know? 299 00:12:45,852 --> 00:12:48,419 26, newly married stylist. 300 00:12:51,553 --> 00:12:53,555 - Okay. 301 00:12:53,598 --> 00:12:57,385 - I-I didn't know how to tell you in the moment, 302 00:12:57,428 --> 00:12:58,778 but I... 303 00:13:01,519 --> 00:13:03,913 I'm not close to being ready. 304 00:13:06,046 --> 00:13:07,395 Are you mad? 305 00:13:07,438 --> 00:13:10,790 - Mad? No, no, of course not. 306 00:13:10,833 --> 00:13:13,880 A little disappointed, maybe, 307 00:13:13,923 --> 00:13:17,971 but this is gonna happen when we are both ready. 308 00:13:19,450 --> 00:13:20,930 - Yeah. 309 00:13:22,889 --> 00:13:25,065 I love you. - Love you. 310 00:13:25,108 --> 00:13:27,371 - Thank you for being understanding. 311 00:13:27,415 --> 00:13:28,895 ♪ 312 00:13:28,938 --> 00:13:31,898 - Now, grab some syrup and some cakes. 313 00:13:31,941 --> 00:13:33,813 Let's eat. 314 00:13:33,856 --> 00:13:36,816 [soft music] 315 00:13:36,859 --> 00:13:43,823 ♪ 316 00:13:47,565 --> 00:13:48,871 - Oh-- 317 00:13:50,220 --> 00:13:52,483 - Do you need something? 318 00:13:52,527 --> 00:13:54,529 - Uh, me? 319 00:13:54,572 --> 00:13:58,228 I, um, was actually just wondering 320 00:13:58,272 --> 00:14:00,970 if I could get your help with something. 321 00:14:02,058 --> 00:14:03,146 - What's up? 322 00:14:03,190 --> 00:14:05,932 - So I have this idea for a podcast, 323 00:14:05,975 --> 00:14:08,891 and the Belle has agreed to listen to an episode, 324 00:14:08,935 --> 00:14:10,632 and if it's good, then they'll let me do it here. 325 00:14:10,675 --> 00:14:12,503 - Okay. - It's conversations 326 00:14:12,547 --> 00:14:14,157 across the bar kind of thing 327 00:14:14,201 --> 00:14:16,943 where I interview members about their passions and projects. 328 00:14:16,986 --> 00:14:19,162 - Okay. 329 00:14:19,206 --> 00:14:21,469 - And I think that you would be a great guest. 330 00:14:21,512 --> 00:14:24,298 - You want me to do your podcast? 331 00:14:24,341 --> 00:14:26,909 - Yes, I think you would be interesting. 332 00:14:26,953 --> 00:14:30,043 - Really? - Yes, really. 333 00:14:30,086 --> 00:14:31,958 We could debate the issues. - [chuckles] 334 00:14:32,001 --> 00:14:36,179 - That...is unexpected on so many levels. 335 00:14:36,223 --> 00:14:38,442 I'm going to politely decline. 336 00:14:38,486 --> 00:14:39,966 - Why? 337 00:14:40,009 --> 00:14:41,576 - Because you don't strike me as someone 338 00:14:41,619 --> 00:14:44,318 who can fairly engage with conservatives, Kat. 339 00:14:44,361 --> 00:14:47,147 - Okay, I can rein it in for a podcast. 340 00:14:47,190 --> 00:14:50,498 - Well, I look forward to seeing that, 341 00:14:50,541 --> 00:14:52,892 but not with me. 342 00:14:52,935 --> 00:14:55,024 Good luck though. That's a really good idea. 343 00:15:01,465 --> 00:15:03,511 - It is a great idea. 344 00:15:08,298 --> 00:15:10,213 - Okay, this guy. - Yep. 345 00:15:10,257 --> 00:15:12,346 - And this guy too--straight-- - To the studio, got it, yep. 346 00:15:12,389 --> 00:15:14,000 - You're the best. - Yep. 347 00:15:16,393 --> 00:15:19,353 - Mm-hmm, how's it going? - So great. 348 00:15:19,396 --> 00:15:21,442 Do you ever get that feeling that you're just 349 00:15:21,485 --> 00:15:24,010 doing exactly what you're meant to do? 350 00:15:24,053 --> 00:15:25,489 - The first day I walked into "Scarlet." 351 00:15:25,533 --> 00:15:28,362 [laughter] 352 00:15:28,405 --> 00:15:32,018 - You know, my mom never had a Chanel tweed suit 353 00:15:32,061 --> 00:15:36,022 or a DVF wrap dress, and I always wanted her 354 00:15:36,065 --> 00:15:38,459 to be the kind of woman that did, 355 00:15:38,502 --> 00:15:40,417 but she was a waitress. 356 00:15:42,028 --> 00:15:43,551 Well, I guess her waitress uniform 357 00:15:43,594 --> 00:15:46,946 was her own version of powerful. 358 00:15:46,989 --> 00:15:49,035 - She must be so proud of you. 359 00:15:49,078 --> 00:15:51,515 - She is. 360 00:15:51,559 --> 00:15:54,257 She knows how much I love styling. 361 00:15:54,301 --> 00:15:55,650 There was a minute there where I didn't know 362 00:15:55,693 --> 00:15:58,044 if it was gonna happen. You know? 363 00:15:58,087 --> 00:15:59,654 Watching Kat and Jane rise the ranks, 364 00:15:59,697 --> 00:16:02,091 and I just felt like I was idling. 365 00:16:03,614 --> 00:16:05,529 - You were an assistant longer than you wanted to be. 366 00:16:05,573 --> 00:16:06,617 - Mm-hmm. 367 00:16:06,661 --> 00:16:09,533 - But you were never idling. 368 00:16:09,577 --> 00:16:14,016 You were preparing for your moment 369 00:16:14,060 --> 00:16:18,194 so that when the time was right, 370 00:16:18,238 --> 00:16:20,501 you would soar. 371 00:16:21,981 --> 00:16:23,721 Everyone has their own timeline. 372 00:16:25,375 --> 00:16:27,638 - Yeah, we do, don't we? 373 00:16:33,514 --> 00:16:34,602 - Unbelievable. 374 00:16:34,645 --> 00:16:36,343 [door clanks] 375 00:16:36,386 --> 00:16:40,086 - Wow, that "honey I'm home" greeting was very short-lived. 376 00:16:40,129 --> 00:16:41,130 - Yeah, well... 377 00:16:43,089 --> 00:16:45,308 Eva doesn't think I can talk to Republicans 378 00:16:45,352 --> 00:16:47,049 and have a productive conversation, 379 00:16:47,093 --> 00:16:50,531 so she said no to being in my podcast. 380 00:16:50,574 --> 00:16:53,751 - Mm, ta-da. 381 00:16:53,795 --> 00:16:55,753 - Nice boobs. - Thanks. 382 00:16:55,797 --> 00:17:00,062 - Great job. How was your plastering class? 383 00:17:00,106 --> 00:17:04,545 - Oh, it was a nightmare. I hated every minute of it. 384 00:17:04,588 --> 00:17:06,503 - Oh. - But thank you for trying. 385 00:17:06,547 --> 00:17:08,636 These sunflower nipples are making me very happy. 386 00:17:08,679 --> 00:17:10,159 - They're beautiful. - Thanks. 387 00:17:10,203 --> 00:17:11,465 - Have you given any more thought 388 00:17:11,508 --> 00:17:14,685 to being in Sutton's shoot? It might help. 389 00:17:14,729 --> 00:17:16,818 - It just kind of feels like a lot, 390 00:17:16,861 --> 00:17:18,646 but, I mean, maybe. 391 00:17:18,689 --> 00:17:22,041 Wait, so you really think that Eva can help you 392 00:17:22,084 --> 00:17:25,392 get that podcast? - Yeah, I know she can. 393 00:17:25,435 --> 00:17:27,829 - Well, then show her that she's wrong. 394 00:17:27,872 --> 00:17:30,092 Go to one of her Republican mixers. 395 00:17:30,136 --> 00:17:33,095 [punchy music] 396 00:17:33,139 --> 00:17:34,705 ♪ 397 00:17:34,749 --> 00:17:36,098 - I have an idea, 398 00:17:36,142 --> 00:17:38,796 and I think it's gonna make both of us happy. 399 00:17:40,537 --> 00:17:42,409 Okay, just because we're not on the same timeline 400 00:17:42,452 --> 00:17:44,193 doesn't mean that we shouldn't be prepared 401 00:17:44,237 --> 00:17:47,457 for when we're both ready, so I did some research. 402 00:17:47,501 --> 00:17:48,676 - A sperm bank. 403 00:17:50,373 --> 00:17:53,507 I didn't know that older sperm can have an effect on children. 404 00:17:53,550 --> 00:17:55,726 - Same way older eggs can. 405 00:17:55,770 --> 00:17:58,686 - I gotta be honest. This is a little weird. 406 00:17:58,729 --> 00:18:00,383 - I know. 407 00:18:00,427 --> 00:18:02,342 - But I do love that you're thinking about us, 408 00:18:02,385 --> 00:18:04,648 about our future. - Mm-hmm. 409 00:18:06,172 --> 00:18:08,391 So... 410 00:18:08,435 --> 00:18:09,871 does this mean-- 411 00:18:09,914 --> 00:18:11,525 - We're gonna put our future children on ice? 412 00:18:13,179 --> 00:18:14,528 Yeah. - Yeah? 413 00:18:14,571 --> 00:18:16,138 - Yeah. - [laughs] 414 00:18:16,182 --> 00:18:17,748 [tender music] 415 00:18:21,578 --> 00:18:24,625 [soft music] 416 00:18:24,668 --> 00:18:27,541 - So we swing by the sperm bank, 417 00:18:27,584 --> 00:18:29,325 and then I drop you off at work. 418 00:18:29,369 --> 00:18:31,458 - How modern are we? 419 00:18:31,501 --> 00:18:33,547 Oh, wow, listen to this. 420 00:18:33,590 --> 00:18:36,158 With sperm freezing, 58-year-old Hank Tier 421 00:18:36,202 --> 00:18:37,507 "was able to get his wife pregnant 422 00:18:37,551 --> 00:18:40,858 15 years after he froze his sperm." 423 00:18:40,902 --> 00:18:44,340 - 15 years? - 15 years. 424 00:18:44,384 --> 00:18:47,561 That's crazy. - Yeah, it is. 425 00:18:49,476 --> 00:18:51,826 - I mean, I knew that it was "forever." 426 00:18:51,869 --> 00:18:53,436 I just wasn't thinking about what that means 427 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:55,438 practically, you know? 428 00:18:55,482 --> 00:18:57,092 Buys us so much time. 429 00:19:01,270 --> 00:19:02,576 - [sighs] 430 00:19:08,843 --> 00:19:11,193 - I'm so happy you agreed to be in the shoot. 431 00:19:11,237 --> 00:19:13,108 Can I come see? 432 00:19:16,590 --> 00:19:19,549 [gasps] Jane, you look so pretty. 433 00:19:19,593 --> 00:19:21,551 - Thanks. It's a little big here though. 434 00:19:21,595 --> 00:19:24,728 - Oh, let me just take it in a little bit. 435 00:19:26,426 --> 00:19:28,297 Ooh, I'm so sorry! Are you okay? 436 00:19:28,341 --> 00:19:29,907 - What? 437 00:19:29,951 --> 00:19:32,649 - Uh, I just pricked you with a pin. 438 00:19:32,693 --> 00:19:34,173 You didn't feel it? 439 00:19:34,216 --> 00:19:36,218 [soft dramatic music] 440 00:19:36,262 --> 00:19:38,307 - No, no, I didn't feel anything. 441 00:19:40,744 --> 00:19:43,921 - Um...okay, I'm gonna go grab the first-aid kit. 442 00:19:43,965 --> 00:19:45,532 - Okay. 443 00:19:58,675 --> 00:20:00,634 [clatters] 444 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:24,875 [phone buzzes] 445 00:20:36,713 --> 00:20:38,411 [sighs] 446 00:20:38,454 --> 00:20:39,847 [knocking] 447 00:20:41,805 --> 00:20:44,330 - I didn't order anything. Go next door. 448 00:20:46,245 --> 00:20:48,203 [phone buzzes] 449 00:20:52,729 --> 00:20:54,209 Dad? 450 00:20:58,387 --> 00:21:01,651 What? How? 451 00:21:01,695 --> 00:21:04,306 - Miles and an empty seat. 452 00:21:04,350 --> 00:21:06,308 - [chuckles] 453 00:21:06,352 --> 00:21:08,832 Uh, but why? 454 00:21:08,876 --> 00:21:10,660 - Oh, I don't know. 455 00:21:10,704 --> 00:21:13,663 'Cause I wanted to give you the photo of your mom, 456 00:21:13,707 --> 00:21:16,013 and when I found the dress, 457 00:21:16,057 --> 00:21:17,885 I thought you might like that too. 458 00:21:21,889 --> 00:21:25,240 Also I didn't feel great about how you sounded 459 00:21:25,284 --> 00:21:28,330 on the phone, thought maybe you could use a hug. 460 00:21:28,374 --> 00:21:31,333 [tender music] 461 00:21:31,377 --> 00:21:33,553 ♪ 462 00:21:33,596 --> 00:21:35,598 - [sobs] 463 00:21:35,642 --> 00:21:38,035 ♪ 464 00:21:38,079 --> 00:21:39,994 [sobs] 465 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,350 - Hey. - Hey! 466 00:21:48,394 --> 00:21:50,700 - Hey. 467 00:21:50,744 --> 00:21:52,006 - What do you want for lunch? 468 00:21:52,049 --> 00:21:55,836 I could do salad or Thai if you have time. 469 00:21:55,879 --> 00:21:57,620 - Mm, maybe we should do the salad place. 470 00:21:57,664 --> 00:21:59,492 - Okay, great. I love salad, big fan. 471 00:21:59,535 --> 00:22:03,496 Big...salad fan. 472 00:22:08,501 --> 00:22:11,373 Hey, are you okay, baby? 473 00:22:11,417 --> 00:22:15,072 - I mean, I don't really have that much time... 474 00:22:15,116 --> 00:22:17,597 not 15 years anyway. 475 00:22:19,555 --> 00:22:22,341 - We're not talking about lunch anymore are we? 476 00:22:23,516 --> 00:22:24,560 - [sighs] 477 00:22:24,604 --> 00:22:26,823 I'm sorry, it's just-- 478 00:22:26,867 --> 00:22:28,390 that thing you said this morning 479 00:22:28,434 --> 00:22:30,349 about freezing sperm for 15 years... 480 00:22:32,612 --> 00:22:35,528 You seemed really happy about that. 481 00:22:39,967 --> 00:22:43,884 I don't wanna be an old dad. 482 00:22:43,927 --> 00:22:46,713 I wanna be there for our kids' graduations, 483 00:22:46,756 --> 00:22:50,325 for their weddings, and for their kids. 484 00:22:50,369 --> 00:22:52,501 I can't wait 15 years. 485 00:22:53,110 --> 00:22:54,938 - Hey... 486 00:22:54,982 --> 00:22:57,811 I don't need to wait 15 years. 487 00:22:57,854 --> 00:22:59,987 - How long do you think you need? 488 00:23:03,469 --> 00:23:05,688 Okay, how about this? 489 00:23:07,124 --> 00:23:10,476 We promise that within five years, 490 00:23:10,519 --> 00:23:12,739 we try for a baby again. 491 00:23:12,782 --> 00:23:15,655 You'll be in your early 30s. I'll be mid-40s. 492 00:23:16,873 --> 00:23:19,093 What do you say? 493 00:23:26,013 --> 00:23:29,843 - Pinkie promise? - Yeah, pinkie promise. 494 00:23:29,886 --> 00:23:36,850 ♪ 495 00:23:43,596 --> 00:23:45,859 - And then I took this plastering class. 496 00:23:45,902 --> 00:23:49,471 It was supposed to make me feel "one" with my body, 497 00:23:49,515 --> 00:23:53,388 but instead it just made me feel fake-- 498 00:23:53,432 --> 00:23:57,044 like I'm trying to convince my brain 499 00:23:57,087 --> 00:23:59,002 to be over something that it's not. 500 00:23:59,046 --> 00:24:03,485 - Did you try writing about it? - Yeah. 501 00:24:03,529 --> 00:24:06,575 - That didn't help? - Not really. 502 00:24:06,619 --> 00:24:08,838 I mean, nothing's really helped. 503 00:24:08,882 --> 00:24:10,492 My friends have been amazing, 504 00:24:10,536 --> 00:24:11,667 but they don't really understand 505 00:24:11,711 --> 00:24:13,974 how this feels, and the support group, 506 00:24:14,017 --> 00:24:16,106 they help a little, but you know what? 507 00:24:16,150 --> 00:24:17,630 Maybe this is just the way it is now. 508 00:24:17,673 --> 00:24:20,807 Maybe I'm just supposed to muddle through. 509 00:24:24,724 --> 00:24:27,770 - Come on, let's get out of here. 510 00:24:27,814 --> 00:24:29,642 - Hm? 511 00:24:29,685 --> 00:24:33,036 - Come on, maybe a little fresh air will help. 512 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:34,647 - Okay. 513 00:24:34,690 --> 00:24:37,650 [upbeat music] 514 00:24:37,693 --> 00:24:40,522 ♪ 515 00:24:40,566 --> 00:24:43,482 [indistinct chatter] 516 00:24:51,011 --> 00:24:52,969 - But, let's face it, the infighting 517 00:24:53,013 --> 00:24:55,189 amongst the Democratic Party makes them vulnerable 518 00:24:55,232 --> 00:24:57,017 to criticism. 519 00:24:57,060 --> 00:24:58,584 I mean, I still know people who are arguing 520 00:24:58,627 --> 00:25:01,412 about Bernie and Hillary. - I know. 521 00:25:01,456 --> 00:25:03,110 The myopic attitude consistently 522 00:25:03,153 --> 00:25:04,720 holds the party back as a whole. 523 00:25:04,764 --> 00:25:06,156 - You know, I actually agree. 524 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,071 Both parties could use a better direction. 525 00:25:08,115 --> 00:25:09,943 I think mission statements would be helpful. 526 00:25:09,986 --> 00:25:11,858 - Yes, but Dems are famous 527 00:25:11,901 --> 00:25:13,468 for being aimless and wandering. 528 00:25:13,512 --> 00:25:14,904 - Well, they're also passionate. 529 00:25:14,948 --> 00:25:18,429 - And emotional, which makes their message confusing, 530 00:25:18,473 --> 00:25:21,520 - Yes, yes, you know, 531 00:25:21,563 --> 00:25:23,609 I actually think that that's true. 532 00:25:23,652 --> 00:25:25,567 Emotion does get in the way sometimes. 533 00:25:25,611 --> 00:25:27,569 As long as they stick to the plan 534 00:25:27,613 --> 00:25:29,789 and have a clear goal... 535 00:25:39,102 --> 00:25:42,236 - I thought we were going to eat. 536 00:25:42,279 --> 00:25:46,936 - I just wanted to stop here for old time's sake. 537 00:25:48,590 --> 00:25:50,549 You remember when you used to spend hours 538 00:25:50,592 --> 00:25:51,898 searching for that perfect planner 539 00:25:51,941 --> 00:25:53,595 before a school year? 540 00:25:53,639 --> 00:25:55,641 - Yeah, well, it wasn't just the planner. 541 00:25:55,684 --> 00:26:00,733 It was the pens and the tabs. It was kind of a whole thing. 542 00:26:00,776 --> 00:26:04,563 I actually didn't get a planner for next year. 543 00:26:04,606 --> 00:26:07,174 - Oh, well, you should. 544 00:26:07,217 --> 00:26:10,699 Here, pick one, my treat. 545 00:26:10,743 --> 00:26:11,744 - [laughs] 546 00:26:11,787 --> 00:26:13,180 [gasps] 547 00:26:13,223 --> 00:26:15,922 Wow, there are seven colors. 548 00:26:15,965 --> 00:26:17,967 Do you think they did that for every day of the week? 549 00:26:18,011 --> 00:26:19,534 - Maybe. - Hm. 550 00:26:19,578 --> 00:26:21,797 - Why do I love this so much? 551 00:26:21,841 --> 00:26:24,104 - Because you like to plan things 552 00:26:24,147 --> 00:26:26,933 in an organized manner. - Yeah, I do. 553 00:26:26,976 --> 00:26:29,152 [chuckles] 554 00:26:29,196 --> 00:26:30,980 What do you think of this one? 555 00:26:31,024 --> 00:26:35,768 Plenty of room for lists and a special place for goals. 556 00:26:35,811 --> 00:26:37,639 - Goals are good. 557 00:26:39,162 --> 00:26:41,295 Come on, grab those pens you've been eyeing, 558 00:26:41,338 --> 00:26:43,514 and let's check out. 559 00:26:45,125 --> 00:26:46,953 - Hey. - He's paying. 560 00:26:46,996 --> 00:26:48,955 - Yep, I'm Dad. - [laughs] 561 00:26:48,998 --> 00:26:50,826 - She's a writer. 562 00:26:51,740 --> 00:26:53,742 - I didn't expect to see you here. 563 00:26:53,786 --> 00:26:56,789 - Yeah, well, I didn't expect to be here, 564 00:26:56,832 --> 00:26:58,878 but I wanted to prove to you that I can have 565 00:26:58,921 --> 00:27:00,662 a healthy debate with the other side, 566 00:27:00,706 --> 00:27:03,796 and the only way to do that is to show you, so... 567 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,669 - That's impressive. - Hm. 568 00:27:07,713 --> 00:27:09,628 - It's gonna take more than one conversation. 569 00:27:10,890 --> 00:27:12,152 - I know. 570 00:27:12,195 --> 00:27:13,893 - Identity politics is so touchy. 571 00:27:13,936 --> 00:27:15,808 - Shall we? 572 00:27:15,851 --> 00:27:19,638 - Everything is politically incorrect these days. 573 00:27:19,681 --> 00:27:20,943 - I know. 574 00:27:20,987 --> 00:27:23,163 I am terrified of saying the wrong thing. 575 00:27:23,206 --> 00:27:24,686 - [sighs] 576 00:27:24,730 --> 00:27:26,122 - Yeah, I mean, I think that that's a fear 577 00:27:26,166 --> 00:27:27,907 a lot of people share, 578 00:27:27,950 --> 00:27:29,778 especially in the age of social media. 579 00:27:29,822 --> 00:27:32,172 - What am I supposed to say to my 13-year-old daughter 580 00:27:32,215 --> 00:27:35,958 when she thinks it's fashionable to be gay? 581 00:27:36,002 --> 00:27:39,135 - Uh, I don't know about fashionable. 582 00:27:39,179 --> 00:27:40,920 - No, she's right. 583 00:27:40,963 --> 00:27:42,791 Just look at these queer celebrities-- 584 00:27:42,835 --> 00:27:44,706 Kristen Stewart, and what's the other one? 585 00:27:44,750 --> 00:27:46,273 - Oh, Cara Delevingne. 586 00:27:46,316 --> 00:27:48,579 It's like kids are being bullied if they're straight. 587 00:27:48,623 --> 00:27:50,016 - Bullied, really? 588 00:27:50,059 --> 00:27:52,192 - I know it's hard to believe, but it is happening, 589 00:27:52,235 --> 00:27:53,846 and it is a problem. 590 00:27:53,889 --> 00:27:55,238 - I actually think that the real problem 591 00:27:55,282 --> 00:27:56,718 is what's happening right here. 592 00:27:56,762 --> 00:28:00,026 - I think what Kat means to say is that there's no way-- 593 00:28:00,069 --> 00:28:02,245 - Eva, maybe let someone from the queer community 594 00:28:02,289 --> 00:28:04,639 field this one. - Oh. 595 00:28:04,683 --> 00:28:06,032 Oh, I'm sorry. 596 00:28:06,075 --> 00:28:07,729 I didn't realize that you were-- 597 00:28:07,773 --> 00:28:09,252 - Oh, queer? Yeah... 598 00:28:09,296 --> 00:28:10,645 [chuckles] 599 00:28:10,689 --> 00:28:13,126 I am, yeah, and I can assure you, 600 00:28:13,169 --> 00:28:15,868 there is no liberal agenda to turn straight people gay, 601 00:28:15,911 --> 00:28:17,739 promise. 602 00:28:17,783 --> 00:28:19,045 We just want equal rights and opportunities-- 603 00:28:19,088 --> 00:28:20,742 the same ones you have. 604 00:28:20,786 --> 00:28:24,050 - And I just want my daughter to grow up happy and normal. 605 00:28:24,093 --> 00:28:29,185 - Normal...uh, as in straight? 606 00:28:29,229 --> 00:28:33,102 - As in the way God intended. That is how I feel. 607 00:28:33,146 --> 00:28:37,237 - Okay, I think coming here was a really bad idea. 608 00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:40,414 - Kat, Kat, wait. 609 00:28:40,457 --> 00:28:44,026 - You were right. I can't do it. 610 00:28:44,070 --> 00:28:45,898 Talking to people like that-- it was a mistake. 611 00:28:45,941 --> 00:28:47,116 - No, it wasn't. 612 00:28:49,336 --> 00:28:51,686 I'll do your podcast. - Why? 613 00:28:51,730 --> 00:28:54,776 I just proved that I couldn't engage in a healthy debate. 614 00:28:54,820 --> 00:28:56,343 - Kat, do you want me to do your podcast? 615 00:28:56,386 --> 00:28:58,214 - Yes. - Okay. 616 00:28:58,258 --> 00:29:01,870 Well, then I would shut up and accept the offer. 617 00:29:01,914 --> 00:29:02,915 - Okay. 618 00:29:02,958 --> 00:29:05,091 ♪ 619 00:29:08,790 --> 00:29:10,009 [upbeat music] 620 00:29:10,052 --> 00:29:11,880 - Okay, so when the issue of identity politics 621 00:29:11,924 --> 00:29:14,056 comes up in your circles, how do you combat the stigma 622 00:29:14,100 --> 00:29:17,233 that the conservative party is overall homophobic? 623 00:29:17,277 --> 00:29:18,887 - I don't combat it at all 624 00:29:18,931 --> 00:29:20,671 because it's none of my business. 625 00:29:20,715 --> 00:29:22,804 I don't think that it should be brought up 626 00:29:22,848 --> 00:29:24,763 nor should that fire be fanned 627 00:29:24,806 --> 00:29:29,942 because sexuality whether homo, hetero, pan, A, or other, 628 00:29:29,985 --> 00:29:32,031 it doesn't define a person. 629 00:29:32,074 --> 00:29:33,815 - Okay, sure, it doesn't define a person, 630 00:29:33,859 --> 00:29:35,817 but it certainly adds to why they might be put 631 00:29:35,861 --> 00:29:38,211 into the category of other, and therefore oppressed 632 00:29:38,254 --> 00:29:39,778 under the system we're all in. 633 00:29:39,821 --> 00:29:42,781 - The system being-- - Capitalism and patriarchy. 634 00:29:42,824 --> 00:29:44,043 - Right. 635 00:29:44,086 --> 00:29:46,393 - Okay, I see you laughing, and I mean, 636 00:29:46,436 --> 00:29:48,003 you can go ahead and laugh if you want, 637 00:29:48,047 --> 00:29:50,049 but you are also a victim of the system. 638 00:29:50,092 --> 00:29:51,659 You're a woman living in the world, 639 00:29:51,702 --> 00:29:53,226 and you can't be immune to the effects of that. 640 00:29:53,269 --> 00:29:57,883 - Well, in the LGBTQ community, it just feels like-- 641 00:29:57,926 --> 00:30:00,929 - Okay, Eva, you have to stop speaking for a community 642 00:30:00,973 --> 00:30:02,844 that you're not involved in. It's not your place. 643 00:30:02,888 --> 00:30:05,020 - I can speak for that community-- 644 00:30:05,064 --> 00:30:08,241 my community-- because I'm a lesbian. 645 00:30:08,284 --> 00:30:11,113 I am a Republican woman who is not defined 646 00:30:11,157 --> 00:30:13,246 by my sexuality because sexuality 647 00:30:13,289 --> 00:30:15,161 is not a personality trait. 648 00:30:15,204 --> 00:30:16,858 Just because I don't wear it on my sleeve 649 00:30:16,902 --> 00:30:19,034 doesn't mean that I don't get to claim my space. 650 00:30:20,949 --> 00:30:23,691 - Absolutely, yes. 651 00:30:23,734 --> 00:30:26,433 I mean, you should be able to claim your space. 652 00:30:27,913 --> 00:30:33,483 And identity politics are...very tricky. 653 00:30:33,527 --> 00:30:40,751 ♪ 654 00:30:40,795 --> 00:30:43,711 - I always knew you'd be a writer. 655 00:30:43,754 --> 00:30:45,321 - [chuckles] 656 00:30:45,365 --> 00:30:48,020 - You were constantly jotting things down in your notebook, 657 00:30:48,063 --> 00:30:51,284 coming up with stories, setting your own deadlines. 658 00:30:51,327 --> 00:30:53,112 - I did do that, didn't I? 659 00:30:53,155 --> 00:30:54,722 [laughter] 660 00:30:54,765 --> 00:30:56,506 - You never gave yourself much time. 661 00:30:56,550 --> 00:30:59,248 - Yeah, well, I kind of liked the rush 662 00:30:59,292 --> 00:31:00,902 of not knowing if I could finish. 663 00:31:00,946 --> 00:31:04,732 - But you always did. 664 00:31:04,775 --> 00:31:07,213 It's not always a race. 665 00:31:08,518 --> 00:31:09,998 - I know. 666 00:31:10,042 --> 00:31:13,219 - Some things take time, but you have that now. 667 00:31:16,831 --> 00:31:19,399 You get to fill all those days. 668 00:31:19,442 --> 00:31:21,357 Every one of them, Jane. 669 00:31:23,229 --> 00:31:26,493 You know why? 670 00:31:26,536 --> 00:31:29,452 Because you did something brave. 671 00:31:29,496 --> 00:31:32,499 Not just for you but for me 672 00:31:32,542 --> 00:31:35,154 and your brothers and your friends. 673 00:31:36,938 --> 00:31:42,509 - Dad. [sniffles] 674 00:31:42,552 --> 00:31:45,555 - When you told me that you tested positive 675 00:31:45,599 --> 00:31:47,470 for the same gene that took your mom, I... 676 00:31:47,514 --> 00:31:50,473 [voice breaks] 677 00:31:50,517 --> 00:31:54,086 I thought, "I can't lose you too." 678 00:31:57,872 --> 00:31:59,395 But I couldn't tell you what to do. 679 00:31:59,439 --> 00:32:00,527 - [chuckles] 680 00:32:02,050 --> 00:32:05,227 - It was your body, your decision. 681 00:32:05,271 --> 00:32:07,403 - And I don't regret making that decision, 682 00:32:07,447 --> 00:32:08,839 I just-- 683 00:32:10,841 --> 00:32:11,930 I don't know. 684 00:32:11,973 --> 00:32:13,496 I didn't think it would be this hard. 685 00:32:15,934 --> 00:32:17,239 - I get that. 686 00:32:19,981 --> 00:32:25,987 But that part of your body, it's not the enemy. 687 00:32:26,031 --> 00:32:29,469 It's the part that saved your life. 688 00:32:32,124 --> 00:32:34,430 It's not about muddling through. 689 00:32:34,474 --> 00:32:38,130 It's about embracing and enjoying your life 690 00:32:38,173 --> 00:32:41,611 as much as you can-- every moment of it. 691 00:32:41,655 --> 00:32:43,309 Huh? 692 00:32:44,875 --> 00:32:47,443 You got a second chance at life. 693 00:32:50,055 --> 00:32:51,970 Your mother never had that. 694 00:32:53,623 --> 00:32:56,104 - I know. 695 00:32:56,148 --> 00:33:03,111 ♪ 696 00:33:03,155 --> 00:33:07,376 [punchy music] 697 00:33:07,420 --> 00:33:11,206 - ♪ Fade in the morning waking up with a big head ♪ 698 00:33:11,250 --> 00:33:15,123 ♪ 699 00:33:15,167 --> 00:33:18,561 ♪ I live down the block do it up for me she said ♪ 700 00:33:18,605 --> 00:33:22,870 ♪ 701 00:33:22,913 --> 00:33:24,654 ♪ I hear 'em whisper 702 00:33:24,698 --> 00:33:26,395 ♪ I hear 'em whispering 703 00:33:26,439 --> 00:33:30,312 ♪ 704 00:33:30,356 --> 00:33:32,662 ♪ People taking notice 705 00:33:32,706 --> 00:33:34,925 ♪ Can't help but focus on this ♪ 706 00:33:34,969 --> 00:33:38,016 ♪ 707 00:33:38,059 --> 00:33:40,148 ♪ I am the people that you meet... ♪ 708 00:33:40,192 --> 00:33:41,497 - Hey. - Hi! 709 00:33:41,541 --> 00:33:43,195 - Thought you might need this. - Oh, thanks T. 710 00:33:43,238 --> 00:33:44,500 You're the best. - No problem. 711 00:33:44,544 --> 00:33:45,588 And do you need anything else? 712 00:33:45,632 --> 00:33:47,068 - Yeah, I do actually. 713 00:33:47,112 --> 00:33:49,331 Next time, can I get your creative input? 714 00:33:49,375 --> 00:33:50,289 - Seriously? - Yeah. 715 00:33:50,332 --> 00:33:51,551 I know you have some. 716 00:33:51,594 --> 00:33:53,379 It's not that long ago that I was you, 717 00:33:53,422 --> 00:33:55,424 and I wouldn't be here if somebody wasn't asking me 718 00:33:55,468 --> 00:33:59,124 what my opinion is, so I can count on you? 719 00:33:59,167 --> 00:34:01,996 - You bet. - Thank you. 720 00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:03,954 [chuckles] 721 00:34:07,001 --> 00:34:08,089 Jane. 722 00:34:10,700 --> 00:34:12,920 You look so beautiful. 723 00:34:12,963 --> 00:34:15,966 - Thanks. - Does this mean-- 724 00:34:16,010 --> 00:34:19,231 - That I am participating in your shoot if you will have me. 725 00:34:19,274 --> 00:34:20,623 - Duh. - [chuckles] 726 00:34:20,667 --> 00:34:22,060 - And this dress. 727 00:34:22,103 --> 00:34:24,105 - It's my mom's. 728 00:34:24,149 --> 00:34:26,064 My dad brought it for me along with 729 00:34:26,107 --> 00:34:28,066 some much needed advice and perspective. 730 00:34:29,676 --> 00:34:31,939 I'm gonna stop feeling sorry for myself 731 00:34:31,982 --> 00:34:34,115 and start living my life. 732 00:34:34,159 --> 00:34:36,726 You know, that's why I got the surgery-- 733 00:34:36,770 --> 00:34:39,686 to give me more time to live, so I'm gonna do that. 734 00:34:39,729 --> 00:34:41,514 I'm gonna run a marathon. - Oh. 735 00:34:41,557 --> 00:34:43,603 - I am going to do all of the things 736 00:34:43,646 --> 00:34:46,475 that I've always wanted to do but have been putting off. 737 00:34:46,519 --> 00:34:49,217 - Jane, that is amazing. 738 00:34:49,261 --> 00:34:52,264 You deserve everything that you've ever wanted. 739 00:34:52,307 --> 00:34:55,310 - So do you. - Thanks. 740 00:34:55,354 --> 00:34:57,399 Honestly, I kind of feel like I have it. 741 00:34:57,443 --> 00:35:01,360 Like, right here, right now, nothing is missing, you know? 742 00:35:01,403 --> 00:35:05,059 I-I'm living my life 743 00:35:05,103 --> 00:35:07,105 exactly the way that I want to. 744 00:35:07,148 --> 00:35:12,153 ♪ 745 00:35:12,197 --> 00:35:15,113 - Isn't that a good thing? 746 00:35:15,156 --> 00:35:17,463 - Not if the person you're living it with 747 00:35:17,506 --> 00:35:20,727 feels differently. 748 00:35:20,770 --> 00:35:26,646 Jane, I'm asking Richard to wait.... 749 00:35:26,689 --> 00:35:31,216 for me, but... 750 00:35:31,259 --> 00:35:34,219 He's waiting for something that I can't give him. 751 00:35:35,263 --> 00:35:36,482 - What do you mean? 752 00:35:36,525 --> 00:35:40,442 - I love my life the way it is. 753 00:35:40,486 --> 00:35:43,489 I don't want kids. 754 00:35:43,532 --> 00:35:45,230 - [sighs] 755 00:35:45,273 --> 00:35:48,668 But you might change your mind in, like, five years, you know? 756 00:35:48,711 --> 00:35:50,191 - I don't think I'm going to. 757 00:35:50,235 --> 00:35:52,759 I don't want kids, Jane. I just don't. 758 00:35:56,458 --> 00:35:59,287 [sighs] How am I gonna tell Richard? 759 00:35:59,331 --> 00:36:01,463 It's gonna break his heart. 760 00:36:01,507 --> 00:36:08,427 ♪ 761 00:36:14,259 --> 00:36:15,521 [Woodes' "This is My Year"] 762 00:36:15,564 --> 00:36:19,220 [soft pop music] 763 00:36:19,264 --> 00:36:25,574 ♪ 764 00:36:25,618 --> 00:36:27,533 - ♪ I said I'd be there 765 00:36:27,576 --> 00:36:29,752 ♪ Forgot to remember 766 00:36:29,796 --> 00:36:31,754 ♪ I said I would call 767 00:36:31,798 --> 00:36:34,104 ♪ But I wrote you a letter 768 00:36:34,148 --> 00:36:36,063 ♪ It's inside my head 769 00:36:36,106 --> 00:36:38,239 ♪ Return to sender 770 00:36:38,283 --> 00:36:41,460 ♪ I said I would change 771 00:36:41,503 --> 00:36:43,636 ♪ This is my year 772 00:36:43,679 --> 00:36:46,073 ♪ So worth the wait 773 00:36:46,116 --> 00:36:50,164 ♪ Everything starts going my way ♪ 774 00:36:50,208 --> 00:36:52,253 ♪ This is my year 775 00:36:52,297 --> 00:36:54,560 ♪ That's what they say 776 00:36:54,603 --> 00:36:58,694 ♪ Till we wake up on New Year's Day ♪ 777 00:36:58,738 --> 00:37:01,393 ♪ This is my year 778 00:37:01,436 --> 00:37:03,264 - Congratulations. 779 00:37:03,308 --> 00:37:06,180 The way that you handled that woman was hot. 780 00:37:06,224 --> 00:37:08,182 - Mm, well, you know, I could handle you the same way. 781 00:37:08,226 --> 00:37:09,401 - Mm, oh, yeah? 782 00:37:09,444 --> 00:37:10,663 ♪ 783 00:37:10,706 --> 00:37:13,100 Only if you use your podcast voice. 784 00:37:13,143 --> 00:37:17,104 - ♪ I'll cherish my mom, I'll get motivation ♪ 785 00:37:17,147 --> 00:37:18,279 ♪ I'll learn to forgive 786 00:37:18,323 --> 00:37:20,803 ♪ I'll try to be patient 787 00:37:20,847 --> 00:37:24,503 - What would you say are the biggest issues 788 00:37:24,546 --> 00:37:26,679 facing our country today? 789 00:37:26,722 --> 00:37:28,420 [chuckles] 790 00:37:28,463 --> 00:37:32,162 ♪ 791 00:37:32,206 --> 00:37:34,339 - Gun violence. - Mm-hmm. 792 00:37:34,382 --> 00:37:37,211 ♪ 793 00:37:37,255 --> 00:37:38,560 - Divisive language. 794 00:37:38,604 --> 00:37:40,867 ♪ 795 00:37:40,910 --> 00:37:43,870 Also climate change? 796 00:37:43,913 --> 00:37:49,310 ♪ 797 00:37:49,354 --> 00:37:52,531 Do you agree? 798 00:37:52,574 --> 00:37:55,098 - Yes. - Yes, what? 799 00:37:55,142 --> 00:37:58,319 - Yes, Eva. 800 00:37:58,363 --> 00:38:00,539 - Are you serious? 801 00:38:03,281 --> 00:38:04,543 [huffs] 802 00:38:04,586 --> 00:38:06,153 Good-bye. 803 00:38:07,415 --> 00:38:09,156 - ♪ I said I'd be there 804 00:38:09,199 --> 00:38:11,245 ♪ Forgot to remember 805 00:38:11,289 --> 00:38:13,508 ♪ I said I would call... 806 00:38:13,552 --> 00:38:15,728 - Hey, babe. In here. 807 00:38:15,771 --> 00:38:17,338 - ♪ It sits in my head 808 00:38:17,382 --> 00:38:20,298 ♪ Return to sender 809 00:38:20,341 --> 00:38:24,606 ♪ I said I would change, but now it's December ♪ 810 00:38:24,650 --> 00:38:28,349 ♪ I keep my hopes 811 00:38:28,393 --> 00:38:34,399 ♪ On the shelf 812 00:38:34,442 --> 00:38:37,271 - Hey, how was the shoot? 813 00:38:38,185 --> 00:38:40,535 - I love you so much. 814 00:38:40,579 --> 00:38:42,320 - What's wrong? 815 00:38:44,365 --> 00:38:46,585 - More than I thought possible. 816 00:38:46,628 --> 00:38:51,241 - [chuckles] You're starting to scare me. 817 00:38:51,285 --> 00:38:52,765 - You have to let me get through this 818 00:38:52,808 --> 00:38:56,377 because this is really hard, and I have to tell you 819 00:38:56,421 --> 00:38:59,337 before a month becomes six months 820 00:38:59,380 --> 00:39:02,644 becomes a year and then we're five years in, and I--I... 821 00:39:06,344 --> 00:39:09,564 And I can't give you what you want. 822 00:39:09,608 --> 00:39:12,350 - ♪ So worth the wait, everything starts ♪ 823 00:39:12,393 --> 00:39:13,612 ♪ Going my way 824 00:39:13,655 --> 00:39:16,615 - So... 825 00:39:16,658 --> 00:39:20,793 the same way that the miscarriage... 826 00:39:20,836 --> 00:39:24,405 made you realize how much you want a baby... 827 00:39:24,449 --> 00:39:26,712 - ♪ I'll be so strong 828 00:39:26,755 --> 00:39:29,758 - [whispers] It made me realize that I don't. 829 00:39:29,802 --> 00:39:33,936 - ♪ I'll get some sleep, look after myself ♪ 830 00:39:33,980 --> 00:39:37,810 - I love our life. I love us. 831 00:39:40,508 --> 00:39:43,555 I don't want anything else. 832 00:39:44,904 --> 00:39:47,428 You're enough for me. 833 00:39:47,472 --> 00:39:54,479 ♪ 834 00:39:54,522 --> 00:39:57,220 And I don't want that to change. 835 00:39:57,264 --> 00:39:59,571 - ♪ This is my year 836 00:39:59,614 --> 00:40:01,921 ♪ So worth the wait 837 00:40:01,964 --> 00:40:05,925 ♪ Everything starts going my way ♪ 838 00:40:05,968 --> 00:40:08,580 ♪ This is my year 839 00:40:08,623 --> 00:40:12,453 - I don't want children... 840 00:40:12,497 --> 00:40:16,239 and I can't promise you I ever will. 841 00:40:16,283 --> 00:40:19,765 ♪ I'll be so strong, I'll eat so well ♪ 842 00:40:19,808 --> 00:40:24,378 ♪ I'll get some sleep, look after myself ♪ 843 00:40:24,422 --> 00:40:27,555 ♪ Yeah, that's what they say ♪ 844 00:40:27,599 --> 00:40:29,470 - I love you. 845 00:40:29,514 --> 00:40:31,733 ♪ Till we wake up on New Year's Day ♪ 846 00:40:31,777 --> 00:40:33,909 ♪ This is my year 847 00:40:33,953 --> 00:40:37,043 ♪ 848 00:40:37,086 --> 00:40:39,785 [phone clatters] 849 00:40:39,828 --> 00:40:42,918 ♪ This is my year