1 00:00:01,523 --> 00:00:03,786 - Previously on "The Bold Type"... 2 00:00:03,829 --> 00:00:05,135 - Ryan and I haven't had sex since he got back 3 00:00:05,179 --> 00:00:06,615 from his book tour, and it's becoming a problem. 4 00:00:06,658 --> 00:00:08,138 - I'm okay, but you're not. 5 00:00:08,182 --> 00:00:10,140 - So Ryan couldn't get it up. It happens. 6 00:00:10,184 --> 00:00:12,055 - I don't know. It feels like we're broken. 7 00:00:12,099 --> 00:00:14,057 - Mark has a team going to Ukraine 8 00:00:14,101 --> 00:00:15,363 to cover the Russian invasion. 9 00:00:15,406 --> 00:00:18,496 He wants me to join, and I said yes. 10 00:00:18,540 --> 00:00:21,499 - How unhappy are you with our marriage, Ian? 11 00:00:21,543 --> 00:00:24,285 - I think about as unhappy as you, Jacqueline. 12 00:00:24,328 --> 00:00:25,329 - I've been looking for something 13 00:00:25,373 --> 00:00:27,114 to make me feel better about losing. 14 00:00:27,157 --> 00:00:30,073 I learned a lot about myself and about what I wanted. 15 00:00:30,117 --> 00:00:31,770 I think if I don't run from it, I can turn it 16 00:00:31,814 --> 00:00:33,642 into something really incredible. 17 00:00:33,685 --> 00:00:35,165 I need to find myself again. 18 00:00:35,209 --> 00:00:36,427 - I really want to thank you 19 00:00:36,471 --> 00:00:37,559 for you you've embraced the new "Scarlet." 20 00:00:37,602 --> 00:00:39,082 - Since I lost the election, 21 00:00:39,126 --> 00:00:41,084 it's a different way for me to help people. 22 00:00:41,128 --> 00:00:43,869 - Oliver did say that he wanted to promote you. 23 00:00:43,913 --> 00:00:44,827 He just can't. 24 00:00:44,870 --> 00:00:47,699 So make yourself more promotable. 25 00:00:47,743 --> 00:00:48,874 - Make yourself a brand. 26 00:00:48,918 --> 00:00:50,702 Get a bunch of Instagram followers. 27 00:00:50,746 --> 00:00:52,095 - A fashion influencer? 28 00:00:52,139 --> 00:00:54,837 - Sutton Brady, fashion influencer. 29 00:00:57,187 --> 00:00:59,146 - Oh, Jane, I think this is working. 30 00:00:59,189 --> 00:01:01,409 - I can see that. 31 00:01:01,452 --> 00:01:04,194 - Mm, we're definitely getting harder. 32 00:01:04,238 --> 00:01:06,196 - Well, that's the goal, isn't it? 33 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:09,678 [door opens, closes] - Yes, it is. 34 00:01:09,721 --> 00:01:12,550 - Alex, is that you? 35 00:01:12,594 --> 00:01:14,074 - Yeah. 36 00:01:14,117 --> 00:01:16,772 - Come in here, join us. - Yeah, check this out, dude. 37 00:01:16,815 --> 00:01:20,123 - ♪ I just let it go and roll off my back ♪ 38 00:01:20,167 --> 00:01:22,778 ♪ 39 00:01:22,821 --> 00:01:25,781 - Ah, spa day... again. 40 00:01:25,824 --> 00:01:27,783 - Yep. - And you're in luck. 41 00:01:27,826 --> 00:01:30,220 I got a face mask just for you. 42 00:01:30,264 --> 00:01:31,656 - [gasps] No, thanks, I'm good. 43 00:01:31,700 --> 00:01:33,528 - Come on. Get over here. 44 00:01:33,571 --> 00:01:35,182 - Come on, roomie, you're gonna love this. 45 00:01:35,225 --> 00:01:36,705 I'm a convert. 46 00:01:36,748 --> 00:01:39,838 - Okay, so hate to break it to you, but I've been noticing 47 00:01:39,882 --> 00:01:44,321 that you have some dry spots there, there, there, and there, 48 00:01:44,365 --> 00:01:45,540 and guess what. 49 00:01:45,583 --> 00:01:48,934 I'm a good friend, so I'm gonna help you out. 50 00:01:48,978 --> 00:01:52,503 - Oh. - Got you this vitamin C mask. 51 00:01:52,547 --> 00:01:54,418 It's gonna fix all your problems. 52 00:01:54,462 --> 00:01:55,941 You are gonna be glowing. 53 00:01:55,985 --> 00:01:58,422 We won't even need the sunshine, okay? 54 00:01:58,466 --> 00:02:00,163 - Mm-hmm. 55 00:02:00,207 --> 00:02:01,773 - Just wait till it starts tingling. 56 00:02:01,817 --> 00:02:03,253 - [chuckles] 57 00:02:03,297 --> 00:02:05,908 - How long? - Eh, 45 minutes. 58 00:02:05,951 --> 00:02:07,214 - [softly] Great. 59 00:02:07,257 --> 00:02:09,781 - Okay, smile. 60 00:02:09,825 --> 00:02:12,219 - ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh 61 00:02:12,262 --> 00:02:15,265 ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh 62 00:02:15,309 --> 00:02:16,484 [elevator bell dings] 63 00:02:16,527 --> 00:02:17,833 - Have you talked to Jane recently? 64 00:02:17,876 --> 00:02:18,964 - Is that a real question? 65 00:02:19,008 --> 00:02:20,488 - Oh, I'm just a little concerned. 66 00:02:20,531 --> 00:02:22,011 This is the second week in a row 67 00:02:22,054 --> 00:02:24,840 Ryan ditched a publishing party so he could stay at home 68 00:02:24,883 --> 00:02:26,798 in sweats and make face masks with Jane, 69 00:02:26,842 --> 00:02:28,887 which they were very eager for me to join. 70 00:02:28,931 --> 00:02:30,759 - Yes, we did see the Insta story, 71 00:02:30,802 --> 00:02:32,978 and your skin-- well, it looks fantastic. 72 00:02:33,022 --> 00:02:34,241 - Hmm. 73 00:02:34,284 --> 00:02:35,503 - I think we should talk to Jane. 74 00:02:35,546 --> 00:02:36,808 - Why? 'Cause they're into a little self-care? 75 00:02:36,852 --> 00:02:38,810 I think it's fine. - It's more than a little. 76 00:02:38,854 --> 00:02:41,378 It's all they do. - Are they having sex? 77 00:02:41,422 --> 00:02:43,946 - That's a tough question for a roommate to answer 78 00:02:43,989 --> 00:02:45,774 without seeming pervy. 79 00:02:48,516 --> 00:02:49,995 - So what? - No, not going there. 80 00:02:50,039 --> 00:02:50,909 - Alex? 81 00:02:50,953 --> 00:02:52,824 [gasps] Sage, hi. 82 00:02:52,868 --> 00:02:53,912 - Hi. 83 00:02:53,956 --> 00:02:55,479 - I tried the selfie stick last night. 84 00:02:55,523 --> 00:02:56,828 - Uh-huh. - I think I'm in love. 85 00:02:56,872 --> 00:02:58,265 - [laughs] - It's a vibrator. 86 00:02:58,308 --> 00:03:00,267 - [gasps] Oh, fun name. - Mm. 87 00:03:00,310 --> 00:03:01,877 - Well, I have a lot more where that came from, 88 00:03:01,920 --> 00:03:03,835 and if you like them, you should give 'em 89 00:03:03,879 --> 00:03:04,880 a shout-out on your Insta story. 90 00:03:04,923 --> 00:03:06,360 - Yes. 91 00:03:06,403 --> 00:03:08,666 - So your friends created this vibrator company? 92 00:03:08,710 --> 00:03:10,842 - Yeah, five years ago from their apartment. 93 00:03:10,886 --> 00:03:13,280 And they're launching with a huge billboard. 94 00:03:13,323 --> 00:03:14,498 Check it out. 95 00:03:14,542 --> 00:03:16,239 - "Yes, yes, yes, I'm so good." 96 00:03:16,283 --> 00:03:17,849 - [scoffs] Killer billboard. 97 00:03:17,893 --> 00:03:20,983 - You know, with a phone app, someone in, I don't know, 98 00:03:21,026 --> 00:03:23,725 San Francisco can control that one. 99 00:03:23,768 --> 00:03:25,944 - [gasps] Thank you. 100 00:03:25,988 --> 00:03:27,511 - Hey, what are we looking at? 101 00:03:27,555 --> 00:03:29,948 - State-of-the-art vibrators courtesy of Sage's friends. 102 00:03:29,992 --> 00:03:32,429 - Hmm. - Jane... 103 00:03:32,473 --> 00:03:33,517 - I'm good. 104 00:03:33,561 --> 00:03:34,953 - What? - Excuse me? 105 00:03:34,997 --> 00:03:37,304 - Did you just say no to a free vibrator? 106 00:03:37,347 --> 00:03:38,566 - So? 107 00:03:38,609 --> 00:03:41,525 - A vibrator. And you could use it with Ryan. 108 00:03:41,569 --> 00:03:42,526 - And it's free. 109 00:03:42,570 --> 00:03:43,832 [indistinct chatter] 110 00:03:43,875 --> 00:03:46,008 - I'm just not interested. 111 00:03:46,051 --> 00:03:47,879 - So confusing to me. - Oh, no. 112 00:03:47,923 --> 00:03:49,707 - Think you were right. - I was. 113 00:03:49,751 --> 00:03:50,708 - Right about what? 114 00:03:50,752 --> 00:03:52,362 - Fashion closet. 115 00:03:52,406 --> 00:03:54,059 - Come on, Jane. 116 00:03:54,103 --> 00:03:56,018 - I have no idea. 117 00:03:56,061 --> 00:03:59,326 - Come on, Jane. - Oh, my G--okay. 118 00:03:59,369 --> 00:04:01,893 Am I in trouble? - Yes. 119 00:04:03,852 --> 00:04:05,375 - Okay, what is this? 120 00:04:05,419 --> 00:04:07,464 Because this feels like an intervention. 121 00:04:07,508 --> 00:04:08,770 - Well, that's because it is. 122 00:04:08,813 --> 00:04:11,555 We saw your Instagram story with Alex. 123 00:04:11,599 --> 00:04:12,991 - I know you saw it. 124 00:04:13,035 --> 00:04:14,776 You commented that you wish you had been invited. 125 00:04:14,819 --> 00:04:15,777 - Well... - Indeed. 126 00:04:15,820 --> 00:04:17,387 That was before we found out 127 00:04:17,431 --> 00:04:18,997 about all of the other sad spa dates. 128 00:04:19,041 --> 00:04:20,738 - Why is he talking to you about this? 129 00:04:20,782 --> 00:04:22,958 - We know Ryan's been having a little trouble, you know... 130 00:04:23,001 --> 00:04:24,002 - Pitching a tent. 131 00:04:24,046 --> 00:04:25,439 - Taking it from six to noon. 132 00:04:25,482 --> 00:04:27,005 - You know, flying the flag at half-mast. 133 00:04:27,049 --> 00:04:28,877 - Full salute. - Getting an erection. 134 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:30,226 - Yeah, no, I get it. 135 00:04:30,270 --> 00:04:31,836 There's nothing wrong with having a chill night 136 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:33,969 with your boyfriend and watching old movies 137 00:04:34,012 --> 00:04:35,666 and giving each other facials. 138 00:04:35,710 --> 00:04:37,407 - I think they're the wrong kind of facials, though. 139 00:04:37,451 --> 00:04:38,930 - Oh, it's like lesbian bed death, 140 00:04:38,974 --> 00:04:40,062 and you guys aren't even lesbians. 141 00:04:40,105 --> 00:04:43,413 - Okay, you guys, I really appreciate 142 00:04:43,457 --> 00:04:46,111 your concern, but there's not a problem. 143 00:04:46,155 --> 00:04:47,896 Ryan and I are fine. 144 00:04:47,939 --> 00:04:51,029 So...bye. 145 00:04:51,073 --> 00:04:52,857 - Mm. - Hmm. 146 00:04:52,901 --> 00:04:54,598 Well, that went well. [door opens] 147 00:04:54,642 --> 00:04:57,688 - Hey, do you have any cute styling pics to show me? 148 00:04:57,732 --> 00:05:00,778 [door closes] - Yeah. 149 00:05:00,822 --> 00:05:03,825 So I got that at a consignment shop in Williamsburg. 150 00:05:03,868 --> 00:05:06,654 - So cute. I love these. 151 00:05:06,697 --> 00:05:09,352 But why aren't you in them? - Ooh, I'm not a model. 152 00:05:09,396 --> 00:05:12,616 - You know that your brand is, like, 10% your style 153 00:05:12,660 --> 00:05:14,009 and the other 90% is you. 154 00:05:14,052 --> 00:05:15,140 - Hmm. - You know? 155 00:05:15,184 --> 00:05:16,794 - Mm-hmm. - I mean, think about it. 156 00:05:16,838 --> 00:05:19,971 Selby Drummond, Erin Foster-- they're influencers you know 157 00:05:20,015 --> 00:05:22,365 because they're in their photos. 158 00:05:22,409 --> 00:05:24,889 - I don't know if I want to do that, though. 159 00:05:26,587 --> 00:05:28,893 In the clothes, in the photos. - Right. 160 00:05:28,937 --> 00:05:30,982 So that when the time comes for a promotion, 161 00:05:31,026 --> 00:05:33,420 everybody knows who Sutton Brady is, 162 00:05:33,463 --> 00:05:35,726 and they can't say no, right? 163 00:05:35,770 --> 00:05:37,293 - Right. 164 00:05:37,337 --> 00:05:39,077 - Great, can't wait to see more photos with you in them. 165 00:05:39,121 --> 00:05:41,863 - Yeah. 166 00:05:41,906 --> 00:05:42,994 [door opens] 167 00:05:43,038 --> 00:05:44,126 [sighs] 168 00:05:44,169 --> 00:05:45,997 [door closes] 169 00:05:46,041 --> 00:05:47,695 - Okay, small team, who's next? 170 00:05:47,738 --> 00:05:49,131 Alex. 171 00:05:49,174 --> 00:05:50,872 - I have an interview with Antoni from "Queer Eye" 172 00:05:50,915 --> 00:05:52,874 set for next week. - Fantastic. 173 00:05:52,917 --> 00:05:54,310 - He's so hot. - I know. 174 00:05:54,354 --> 00:05:59,402 - Also, I want to make "Ask Alex" "Ask Alex Live." 175 00:05:59,446 --> 00:06:00,882 - Live? - Yes. 176 00:06:00,925 --> 00:06:02,449 Readers will send in questions, 177 00:06:02,492 --> 00:06:06,844 and then you will answer them on a live podcast format. 178 00:06:06,888 --> 00:06:10,500 - Live? [clears throat] - You just said that. 179 00:06:10,544 --> 00:06:11,762 - [giggles] 180 00:06:11,806 --> 00:06:13,721 - And I think you're gonna do a great job. 181 00:06:13,764 --> 00:06:16,027 - Live. 182 00:06:16,071 --> 00:06:17,507 - Sage... - Mm-hmm. 183 00:06:17,551 --> 00:06:19,770 - How is your millennial sex-party piece coming? 184 00:06:19,814 --> 00:06:22,556 - Well, I scored two tickets to the very exclusive 185 00:06:22,599 --> 00:06:24,906 high-end Bacchanal on Wednesday night, so, yay. 186 00:06:24,949 --> 00:06:26,124 - Fantastic. 187 00:06:26,168 --> 00:06:28,953 - But I'm having a little herpes flare-up, 188 00:06:28,997 --> 00:06:31,129 so, morally, boo. 189 00:06:31,173 --> 00:06:33,654 - I applaud your restraint. 190 00:06:33,697 --> 00:06:36,570 - Jane, might be a nice follow-up 191 00:06:36,613 --> 00:06:38,789 to your tantric-sex marathon piece. 192 00:06:39,921 --> 00:06:42,489 - Uh, well, actually, I was thinking 193 00:06:42,532 --> 00:06:44,186 of pitching a beauty story 194 00:06:44,229 --> 00:06:47,058 about how face masks are the new Friday night. 195 00:06:47,102 --> 00:06:49,234 [chuckles] 196 00:06:49,278 --> 00:06:50,540 - Are they? 197 00:06:50,584 --> 00:06:52,890 [dramatic music] 198 00:06:52,934 --> 00:06:56,633 - So, um, actually, I have an idea. 199 00:06:56,677 --> 00:06:59,070 Sage's friends just started a vibrator company. 200 00:06:59,114 --> 00:07:00,550 They're called Broads. 201 00:07:00,594 --> 00:07:02,813 They are very focused on female pleasure, 202 00:07:02,857 --> 00:07:04,424 run by women. 203 00:07:04,467 --> 00:07:07,731 I would really like to promote them on social media, but-- 204 00:07:07,775 --> 00:07:08,906 - It's too close to advertorial. 205 00:07:08,950 --> 00:07:09,994 - Yeah. 206 00:07:10,038 --> 00:07:11,953 - We walk that line all the time, Kat. 207 00:07:11,996 --> 00:07:13,737 I will leave that up to you. 208 00:07:13,781 --> 00:07:15,565 I know you'll do the right thing. 209 00:07:15,609 --> 00:07:16,958 - Okay. 210 00:07:17,001 --> 00:07:18,829 - All right, that's it for now. 211 00:07:18,873 --> 00:07:20,178 Uh, Sage. - Yeah. 212 00:07:20,222 --> 00:07:23,094 - Are these, uh, available for sampling? 213 00:07:23,138 --> 00:07:24,095 I'd like to try one. 214 00:07:24,139 --> 00:07:25,749 - Yes. 215 00:07:25,793 --> 00:07:27,577 - Ian might be gone, but I'm not sitting at home 216 00:07:27,621 --> 00:07:29,579 in my sweats doing nothing. - [chuckles] 217 00:07:29,623 --> 00:07:31,146 Okay, uh... 218 00:07:31,189 --> 00:07:33,148 might I suggest Her Royal Vagesty? 219 00:07:33,191 --> 00:07:34,149 - Oh. 220 00:07:34,192 --> 00:07:35,759 - Um, I'll do it. 221 00:07:35,803 --> 00:07:39,850 Uh, the--the sex-club story. I'll do it. 222 00:07:39,894 --> 00:07:42,026 - You know you have to go, right? 223 00:07:42,070 --> 00:07:43,550 - Yeah, I know. 224 00:07:43,593 --> 00:07:45,943 - Okay. - Great. 225 00:07:45,987 --> 00:07:48,816 I look forward to seeing what you come up with. 226 00:07:48,859 --> 00:07:50,818 Oh, oh. 227 00:07:50,861 --> 00:07:52,602 - [clears throat] 228 00:07:52,646 --> 00:07:54,996 [device vibrating] - Hmm, very interesting. 229 00:07:55,039 --> 00:07:57,172 This should be fun. 230 00:07:57,215 --> 00:08:00,088 - A live podcast-- isn't that just radio? 231 00:08:00,131 --> 00:08:01,829 - Yeah, but it's--you know, it's a podcast 232 00:08:01,872 --> 00:08:05,528 with a livestream, you know. - Wait. Video? 233 00:08:05,572 --> 00:08:07,704 - Yeah. - Oh, my God. 234 00:08:07,748 --> 00:08:09,227 - Hey, Tiny Jane. 235 00:08:09,271 --> 00:08:10,968 Sex club? 236 00:08:13,057 --> 00:08:14,624 - If you get a plus-one, I'm coming. 237 00:08:14,668 --> 00:08:16,713 - Uh, it's already taken. - How could you do this to me? 238 00:08:16,757 --> 00:08:17,888 - I am inviting Ryan. 239 00:08:17,932 --> 00:08:19,586 - Oh. - Huh. 240 00:08:19,629 --> 00:08:20,804 - You guys are right. 241 00:08:20,848 --> 00:08:22,153 Our sex life is a little dead right now, 242 00:08:22,197 --> 00:08:24,939 and maybe a sex party will fix it. 243 00:08:26,854 --> 00:08:28,638 - Yes, we fixed it. 244 00:08:32,381 --> 00:08:33,556 [line trilling] 245 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:36,167 [device vibrating, cell phone ringing] 246 00:08:36,211 --> 00:08:37,386 - [moans] 247 00:08:37,429 --> 00:08:40,302 [line trilling] 248 00:08:40,345 --> 00:08:44,088 [cell phone continues ringing, Kat moans] 249 00:08:44,132 --> 00:08:45,525 [sighs] 250 00:08:45,568 --> 00:08:49,354 Oh, my God. 251 00:08:49,398 --> 00:08:51,356 [sighs] 252 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:53,271 [cell phone continues ringing] 253 00:08:53,315 --> 00:08:54,446 [sighs] 254 00:08:54,490 --> 00:08:56,100 What? 255 00:08:56,144 --> 00:08:58,320 - Hello to you, too. How are you? 256 00:08:58,363 --> 00:09:00,583 - Oh, you know, honestly, I've been better. 257 00:09:00,627 --> 00:09:04,413 I was, uh, closing in on an orgasm when you called. 258 00:09:04,456 --> 00:09:06,415 - Why did you answer? - Don't know. 259 00:09:06,458 --> 00:09:08,373 Might hang up. - No, no, no, no, don't, don't. 260 00:09:08,417 --> 00:09:09,636 I need your help. 261 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:12,508 I have no idea what to wear to a sex club. 262 00:09:12,552 --> 00:09:14,336 - And you think I do? 263 00:09:14,379 --> 00:09:16,077 - Well, to be fair, I did call Sutton first, 264 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:17,557 but she didn't answer. - Really, Jane? 265 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:18,601 That hurts. 266 00:09:18,645 --> 00:09:21,343 But I also get it. 267 00:09:21,386 --> 00:09:23,258 [sighs] Are you sure this is a good idea, though? 268 00:09:23,301 --> 00:09:25,434 It's a pretty big swing. 269 00:09:25,477 --> 00:09:27,697 - Yeah, well, Ryan and I need a big swing. 270 00:09:27,741 --> 00:09:30,221 I mean, tantric sex didn't work, 271 00:09:30,265 --> 00:09:32,484 and now he's in his head, 272 00:09:32,528 --> 00:09:35,444 and I just think I need something to shock his system, 273 00:09:35,487 --> 00:09:37,446 get him out of his sex slump. 274 00:09:37,489 --> 00:09:39,100 - No, that makes sense. 275 00:09:39,143 --> 00:09:41,755 - Okay, so what do we think, like, a little black dress? 276 00:09:41,798 --> 00:09:45,541 - Uh, no, it's not a cocktail party, Jane. 277 00:09:45,585 --> 00:09:47,630 It's an orgy. - You don't know that. 278 00:09:47,674 --> 00:09:50,067 - I might. - You've been to one? 279 00:09:50,111 --> 00:09:52,504 - Okay, fine, so I've never been, 280 00:09:52,548 --> 00:09:54,376 but I feel like it's a pretty good guess. 281 00:09:54,419 --> 00:09:55,377 - [groans] 282 00:09:55,420 --> 00:09:57,553 Okay, so what do we think, 283 00:09:57,597 --> 00:10:00,295 like, a trench coat or something? 284 00:10:00,338 --> 00:10:04,212 - Uh, yeah, yeah, and lingerie... 285 00:10:04,255 --> 00:10:05,561 but sexy lingerie. 286 00:10:05,605 --> 00:10:08,390 Do not show up in a plain black camisole. 287 00:10:08,433 --> 00:10:11,393 - Yeah, no, absolutely not. 288 00:10:11,436 --> 00:10:13,003 - Okay. 289 00:10:15,310 --> 00:10:17,355 Can I go now? I got to get back to this. 290 00:10:17,399 --> 00:10:19,793 - All right, bye. - Bye. 291 00:10:19,836 --> 00:10:22,143 [device vibrating] 292 00:10:22,186 --> 00:10:23,535 [sighs happily] 293 00:10:26,843 --> 00:10:29,672 - [gasps] [cell phone ringing] 294 00:10:29,716 --> 00:10:31,152 - Hi, beautiful. 295 00:10:31,195 --> 00:10:33,415 - Finished with work already? - Kind of. 296 00:10:33,458 --> 00:10:36,418 Some investors are taking us for a sail in the marina. 297 00:10:36,461 --> 00:10:38,159 - Wow, that sounds fun. 298 00:10:38,202 --> 00:10:40,291 - Technically, it's still work. 299 00:10:40,335 --> 00:10:42,163 Seems like people here are actually attempting 300 00:10:42,206 --> 00:10:43,512 this whole work-life-balance thing. 301 00:10:43,555 --> 00:10:45,383 - I have something to add to that balance. 302 00:10:45,427 --> 00:10:47,211 I have a vibrator that you can operate 303 00:10:47,255 --> 00:10:49,692 through an app from San Francisco. 304 00:10:49,736 --> 00:10:51,346 - Really? 305 00:10:51,389 --> 00:10:53,696 - Yeah, I'm gonna have the IT guy help me set it up. 306 00:10:53,740 --> 00:10:55,698 - [stammers] No way an IT guy with a man bun 307 00:10:55,742 --> 00:10:57,352 is gonna help you set that up. 308 00:10:57,395 --> 00:10:59,397 - [laughs] We'll figure it out later. 309 00:10:59,441 --> 00:11:01,573 - How's the fashion-influencer thing going? 310 00:11:01,617 --> 00:11:03,271 - Honestly, it isn't. 311 00:11:03,314 --> 00:11:05,273 Kat keeps telling me that I have to put myself 312 00:11:05,316 --> 00:11:07,405 in the photos and show the world who I am, 313 00:11:07,449 --> 00:11:10,278 but I don't want to walk around Manhattan snapping selfies. 314 00:11:10,321 --> 00:11:12,062 - So do it from our apartment. 315 00:11:12,106 --> 00:11:14,674 Show them Sutton Brady in her cool, new home. 316 00:11:14,717 --> 00:11:17,154 - Yeah, maybe. 317 00:11:17,198 --> 00:11:18,590 - You can do it. 318 00:11:18,634 --> 00:11:21,637 [light music] 319 00:11:21,681 --> 00:11:27,643 ♪ 320 00:11:27,687 --> 00:11:29,079 [liquid pouring] 321 00:11:29,123 --> 00:11:30,559 - Hey. - Hi. 322 00:11:30,602 --> 00:11:34,128 - If Broads goes public, I've decided I'm buying stock. 323 00:11:34,171 --> 00:11:35,129 - [gasps] 324 00:11:35,172 --> 00:11:36,434 You tried the Ex Machina. 325 00:11:36,478 --> 00:11:38,175 - Oh, yeah. Ten out of ten. 326 00:11:38,219 --> 00:11:41,570 Even Tiny Jane's tiny little face couldn't kill my buzz. 327 00:11:41,613 --> 00:11:43,441 - Hmm? - That company is amazing. 328 00:11:43,485 --> 00:11:45,313 I can't wait for their billboard to go up-- 329 00:11:45,356 --> 00:11:47,184 something that publicly says it's okay for a woman... 330 00:11:47,228 --> 00:11:48,664 - No, Kat-- 331 00:11:48,708 --> 00:11:50,448 - To please herself and she doesn't need a partner. 332 00:11:50,492 --> 00:11:52,755 - No, the billboard company pulled the ad this morning. 333 00:11:52,799 --> 00:11:54,626 - What? Why? 334 00:11:54,670 --> 00:11:57,107 - They said it was profane. 335 00:11:57,151 --> 00:11:59,414 - Profane? 336 00:11:59,457 --> 00:12:03,113 The ad said, "Yes, yes, yes, I'm so good." 337 00:12:03,157 --> 00:12:04,680 What is profane about that? 338 00:12:04,724 --> 00:12:07,291 - I don't know, but it's City Billboard's call. 339 00:12:07,335 --> 00:12:09,554 There's nothing my friends can do about it now. 340 00:12:09,598 --> 00:12:11,295 - Hmm. 341 00:12:11,339 --> 00:12:12,775 Okay. 342 00:12:12,819 --> 00:12:14,385 That's bullshit. 343 00:12:14,429 --> 00:12:16,866 - [stammers] 344 00:12:16,910 --> 00:12:19,521 [indistinct chatter] - [sighs] 345 00:12:19,564 --> 00:12:22,393 [smooth music] 346 00:12:22,437 --> 00:12:25,701 Hey, I'm Alex, you must be the new tech. 347 00:12:25,745 --> 00:12:28,530 - You're Alex as in "Ask Alex"? 348 00:12:28,573 --> 00:12:29,792 - You seem surprised. 349 00:12:29,836 --> 00:12:33,317 - I just kind of assumed you'd be, you know... 350 00:12:33,361 --> 00:12:34,362 - Older? 351 00:12:34,405 --> 00:12:35,537 - A woman. 352 00:12:37,278 --> 00:12:40,368 - Well, I'm Alex, a man. 353 00:12:40,411 --> 00:12:43,284 - I'm Lisa, a tech. 354 00:12:44,459 --> 00:12:46,417 I have some deodorant here. 355 00:12:46,461 --> 00:12:49,333 You want a hit? You seem a little nervous. 356 00:12:50,334 --> 00:12:53,207 - [chuckles] No, I'm all right, thanks. 357 00:12:53,250 --> 00:12:55,862 - Oh, pit stains in front of 10,000 live viewers... 358 00:12:55,905 --> 00:12:57,559 authentic, I like it. 359 00:12:57,602 --> 00:12:59,779 - 10,000 viewers? 360 00:12:59,822 --> 00:13:01,693 - Mm-hmm. 361 00:13:03,913 --> 00:13:05,697 - You know, maybe I'll take a hit of that. 362 00:13:07,351 --> 00:13:10,615 - ♪ One day I'm gonna be a big kid ♪ 363 00:13:10,659 --> 00:13:13,444 - You really didn't have to bring all this down. 364 00:13:13,488 --> 00:13:15,272 - It's my pleasure, Mrs. Hunter. 365 00:13:15,316 --> 00:13:18,362 - Sutton, Roy, not married yet. 366 00:13:18,406 --> 00:13:20,756 - Well, you got to take it for a test-drive before you buy it. 367 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:22,323 How do you like living here? 368 00:13:22,366 --> 00:13:23,846 - It's great, but I usually carry my own dresses. 369 00:13:23,890 --> 00:13:25,413 - You'll get used to it. 370 00:13:25,456 --> 00:13:27,371 If you need anything, just buzz. 371 00:13:27,415 --> 00:13:29,852 - Thank you. - Okay. 372 00:13:29,896 --> 00:13:31,767 - ♪ So you've been around the block ♪ 373 00:13:31,811 --> 00:13:33,769 ♪ Well, watch what'll happen 374 00:13:33,813 --> 00:13:35,379 ♪ If you don't let me walk 375 00:13:35,423 --> 00:13:37,555 ♪ I might as well get flattened by a car ♪ 376 00:13:37,599 --> 00:13:40,732 ♪ You wouldn't let me drive it, anyway ♪ 377 00:13:40,776 --> 00:13:44,998 ♪ I won't have to prove myself someday ♪ 378 00:13:45,041 --> 00:13:48,349 ♪ One day I'm gonna be a big kid ♪ 379 00:13:48,392 --> 00:13:49,829 ♪ Gonna be a big kid 380 00:13:49,872 --> 00:13:52,396 - I'm gonna count you down. Headphones look dumb. 381 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:56,357 Five, four, three, two... 382 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:57,749 We're live. 383 00:13:57,793 --> 00:14:00,752 - Hey, I'm Alex Crawford from "Scarlet" magazine, 384 00:14:00,796 --> 00:14:03,538 and I write the "Ask Alex" column. 385 00:14:03,581 --> 00:14:05,888 I'm gonna be answering questions in real time, 386 00:14:05,932 --> 00:14:08,891 so hit me up. 387 00:14:08,935 --> 00:14:11,024 Here's one that we can all relate to. 388 00:14:11,067 --> 00:14:12,373 [chuckles] 389 00:14:12,416 --> 00:14:14,027 "I'm stuck in the friend zone. 390 00:14:14,070 --> 00:14:18,770 How do I take this relationship from platonic to romantic?" 391 00:14:18,814 --> 00:14:21,686 Okay, so the first step of getting 392 00:14:21,730 --> 00:14:25,299 out of the friend zone is making it clear you want out. 393 00:14:25,342 --> 00:14:28,780 Uh, so you could just tell that person how you're feeling, 394 00:14:28,824 --> 00:14:31,696 which I did once-- twice, actually. 395 00:14:31,740 --> 00:14:33,481 Different people. 396 00:14:33,524 --> 00:14:37,398 Uh, "What happened to the first one?" 397 00:14:37,441 --> 00:14:40,488 We're just friends and-- 398 00:14:40,531 --> 00:14:41,706 [chuckles awkwardly] 399 00:14:41,750 --> 00:14:44,709 Well, no, not exactly. She's engaged now. 400 00:14:44,753 --> 00:14:47,538 Getting back to it, alternatively, you could just 401 00:14:47,582 --> 00:14:52,326 take the plunge and go straight right in for a kiss. 402 00:14:52,369 --> 00:14:53,675 If you have consent, 403 00:14:53,718 --> 00:14:56,417 because consent is the most important part 404 00:14:56,460 --> 00:14:59,333 of any physical advance... 405 00:14:59,376 --> 00:15:00,769 though it kind of defeats 406 00:15:00,812 --> 00:15:03,772 the whole taking-the-plunge idea. 407 00:15:03,815 --> 00:15:05,295 Uh, right. [clears throat] 408 00:15:05,339 --> 00:15:07,428 So, "What happened to the second one?" 409 00:15:07,471 --> 00:15:09,343 You guys want to know about that. 410 00:15:09,386 --> 00:15:12,563 She left me to go on "The Bachelor." 411 00:15:12,607 --> 00:15:15,653 Hmm, a lot of laughing emojis. 412 00:15:15,697 --> 00:15:19,092 Uh, dating these days is a real minefield, 413 00:15:19,135 --> 00:15:23,400 which is, you know, why you asked my opinion, 414 00:15:23,444 --> 00:15:27,535 because this is "Ask Alex." 415 00:15:29,450 --> 00:15:31,365 - Thanks for letting me shoot at my old digs. 416 00:15:31,408 --> 00:15:33,628 Richard's was feeling too glamorous and decadent. 417 00:15:33,671 --> 00:15:36,631 You know, this is more accessible. 418 00:15:36,674 --> 00:15:38,938 - I will try to take that as a compliment. 419 00:15:38,981 --> 00:15:41,114 - It is. - Hmm. 420 00:15:41,157 --> 00:15:43,464 So you like these better? 421 00:15:43,507 --> 00:15:45,727 - I think so. I don't know. 422 00:15:45,770 --> 00:15:47,729 I'm still trying to figure out what I want to put out there. 423 00:15:47,772 --> 00:15:49,209 It's kind of weird. 424 00:15:49,252 --> 00:15:51,820 - You will, but you're gonna have to do it at Richard's, 425 00:15:51,863 --> 00:15:53,604 because Ryan's gonna be home any second 426 00:15:53,648 --> 00:15:55,345 and I have to invite him to a sex club. 427 00:15:55,389 --> 00:15:58,000 - Yes, and, of course, if he's not into the sex-club thing-- 428 00:15:58,044 --> 00:15:59,828 - You will be my plus-one, yes. 429 00:15:59,871 --> 00:16:01,351 [door closes] 430 00:16:01,395 --> 00:16:02,570 - Hello, ladies. 431 00:16:02,613 --> 00:16:03,658 - Hello, Ryan. - Hi. 432 00:16:03,701 --> 00:16:05,007 Right on time. 433 00:16:05,051 --> 00:16:06,835 Hi. - Did you win? 434 00:16:06,878 --> 00:16:08,663 - Oh, man, it was a crazy game. 435 00:16:08,706 --> 00:16:10,012 2-2 going into the third period-- 436 00:16:10,056 --> 00:16:11,492 - Yes or no would have been good. 437 00:16:11,535 --> 00:16:12,536 [softly] See you. 438 00:16:12,580 --> 00:16:13,668 - [softly] Okay, yep. 439 00:16:13,711 --> 00:16:15,496 It was a yes, by the way. 440 00:16:15,539 --> 00:16:17,454 [refrigerator door opens, closes] 441 00:16:17,498 --> 00:16:19,500 It really was a crazy game. - Yeah? 442 00:16:19,543 --> 00:16:20,501 - Yeah. - Glad you went? 443 00:16:20,544 --> 00:16:21,850 - Yeah, thanks for pushing me. 444 00:16:21,893 --> 00:16:25,506 Felt good to get back on the ice again. 445 00:16:25,549 --> 00:16:27,682 - Well, uh, speaking of getting back out there, 446 00:16:27,725 --> 00:16:29,989 I had an idea. 447 00:16:30,032 --> 00:16:31,512 - Takeout from that new Malaysian place? 448 00:16:31,555 --> 00:16:33,166 I heard they make you sign a waiver 449 00:16:33,209 --> 00:16:35,603 if you get the ghost pepper curry. 450 00:16:35,646 --> 00:16:37,387 - Not exactly. 451 00:16:37,431 --> 00:16:38,867 Um... 452 00:16:38,910 --> 00:16:42,871 well, I was just wondering if maybe you wanted 453 00:16:42,914 --> 00:16:45,700 to go to a sex club with me tomorrow night. 454 00:16:45,743 --> 00:16:47,049 - Excuse me? 455 00:16:47,093 --> 00:16:50,400 - Well, Jacqueline assigned me this story 456 00:16:50,444 --> 00:16:52,881 about how sex clubs 457 00:16:52,924 --> 00:16:55,710 are becoming more popular among millennials. 458 00:16:55,753 --> 00:16:58,713 - You want to go to a sex club? 459 00:16:58,756 --> 00:17:01,716 - It's my job to go to a sex club 460 00:17:01,759 --> 00:17:03,457 and to write about it. 461 00:17:03,500 --> 00:17:06,895 I just thought that it might be fun for us to go together, 462 00:17:06,938 --> 00:17:09,202 observe. 463 00:17:09,245 --> 00:17:11,073 - Ah, I don't know. - We've watched porn together. 464 00:17:11,117 --> 00:17:12,901 - What? Yeah, but that's different. 465 00:17:12,944 --> 00:17:17,471 Just think of it like that, except just live. 466 00:17:17,514 --> 00:17:19,081 Come on. 467 00:17:19,125 --> 00:17:22,084 We've been in kind of a sex rut lately, 468 00:17:22,128 --> 00:17:26,480 and, I don't know, maybe this could snap us out of it. 469 00:17:28,525 --> 00:17:30,745 - Okay, okay. 470 00:17:30,788 --> 00:17:32,747 If you want to go to a sex club, 471 00:17:32,790 --> 00:17:34,531 I will go with you. 472 00:17:36,229 --> 00:17:39,145 [both chuckle] 473 00:17:39,188 --> 00:17:41,451 - ♪ I guess you think I'm not as good... ♪ 474 00:17:41,495 --> 00:17:43,149 - Oh, hot date tonight? 475 00:17:43,192 --> 00:17:44,150 - Nope. 476 00:17:44,193 --> 00:17:46,456 [laughter] 477 00:17:46,500 --> 00:17:47,936 I still don't get 478 00:17:47,979 --> 00:17:50,156 what they could possibly think is profane about this ad. 479 00:17:50,199 --> 00:17:51,896 - Maybe someone at City Billboards 480 00:17:51,940 --> 00:17:53,507 just doesn't want to promote sex toys. 481 00:17:53,550 --> 00:17:54,812 - Yeah, but have you seen the ads 482 00:17:54,856 --> 00:17:57,946 for that erectile dysfunction medication--Rect? 483 00:17:57,989 --> 00:17:59,948 - Ugh, the one with the corn on the cob 484 00:17:59,991 --> 00:18:01,123 shaped like a penis? - Mm-hmm. 485 00:18:01,167 --> 00:18:02,907 - That's profane. - Exactly. 486 00:18:02,951 --> 00:18:05,519 And they're all over Manhattan, including billboards, 487 00:18:05,562 --> 00:18:08,043 and pulling the ad is a full-on sexist double standard, 488 00:18:08,087 --> 00:18:09,958 and we have to do something about it. 489 00:18:10,001 --> 00:18:12,526 - Kat, my friends at Broads have made peace with it. 490 00:18:12,569 --> 00:18:14,049 - Well, I haven't. 491 00:18:14,093 --> 00:18:17,139 Come on, Sage, this is the kind of thing Scarlet can fix. 492 00:18:17,183 --> 00:18:19,054 Do you have plans tonight? 493 00:18:19,098 --> 00:18:21,622 - I am going to order in and watch Trevor Noah. 494 00:18:21,665 --> 00:18:23,189 - So...no? 495 00:18:23,232 --> 00:18:24,842 - No. [chuckles] - Come on. 496 00:18:24,886 --> 00:18:26,148 - Where are we going? 497 00:18:26,192 --> 00:18:27,628 - Oh, we're not gonna go anywhere. 498 00:18:27,671 --> 00:18:28,629 We're gonna make tweets. 499 00:18:28,672 --> 00:18:30,805 - [gasps] Yes, yes. 500 00:18:30,848 --> 00:18:33,024 I love when you get like this. 501 00:18:35,679 --> 00:18:38,204 - Okay. - Let's burn it down. 502 00:18:38,247 --> 00:18:40,554 - [chuckles] Yeah. - [laughs] 503 00:18:44,253 --> 00:18:46,777 [indistinct chatter] 504 00:18:46,821 --> 00:18:48,779 - All right, step away from the free sandwiches, 505 00:18:48,823 --> 00:18:50,129 and let's review your Instagram. 506 00:18:50,172 --> 00:18:51,826 - This one's good. 507 00:18:51,869 --> 00:18:53,828 It's a little Kardashian, but... 508 00:18:53,871 --> 00:18:56,222 You know what? You're owning it. 509 00:18:56,265 --> 00:18:58,615 - I literally don't own any of it. 510 00:18:58,659 --> 00:19:01,183 - Oh, right. This one's cute. 511 00:19:02,924 --> 00:19:04,534 Hey, why'd you take off your engagement ring? 512 00:19:04,578 --> 00:19:06,188 - I don't know. It just didn't feel right. 513 00:19:06,232 --> 00:19:07,798 I mean, don't get me wrong. 514 00:19:07,842 --> 00:19:09,800 I'm so happy to be engaged to Richard. 515 00:19:09,844 --> 00:19:12,020 I just hoped that I would be 516 00:19:12,063 --> 00:19:14,196 in a different spot in my career when it happened. 517 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:16,938 I don't know. I feel like I'm two Sutton Bradys-- 518 00:19:16,981 --> 00:19:18,157 the one who works as an assistant 519 00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:20,811 making 750 a week... and the other one 520 00:19:20,855 --> 00:19:23,074 who wears a vintage diamond engagement ring 521 00:19:23,118 --> 00:19:25,207 and sleeps in a $4 million apartment, 522 00:19:25,251 --> 00:19:27,166 and neither of them really feel like me. 523 00:19:27,209 --> 00:19:30,995 I'll pick one--I just don't know which one yet. 524 00:19:31,039 --> 00:19:34,564 Oh, Al, my sincerest condolences. 525 00:19:34,608 --> 00:19:37,219 - Oh, come on, I-- I personally didn't think 526 00:19:37,263 --> 00:19:38,655 the podcast was that bad. 527 00:19:38,699 --> 00:19:40,570 It wasn't. It was... 528 00:19:40,614 --> 00:19:42,529 - Mm, don't lie. 529 00:19:42,572 --> 00:19:45,140 - It was pretty bad. - Yeah. 530 00:19:45,184 --> 00:19:47,229 But you should keep doing it. 531 00:19:47,273 --> 00:19:48,274 - [chuckles] 532 00:19:48,317 --> 00:19:49,666 Why? 533 00:19:49,710 --> 00:19:51,233 - Do you remember the advice you gave me 534 00:19:51,277 --> 00:19:52,626 when I was trying to write my bio? 535 00:19:52,669 --> 00:19:55,019 - I've given a lot of advice this year. 536 00:19:55,063 --> 00:19:56,891 Jog my memory. 537 00:19:56,934 --> 00:19:59,676 - You have an opportunity to make a difference. 538 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:02,679 In my case, it was as a queer black woman, 539 00:20:02,723 --> 00:20:05,160 and in your case, it's as a straight black man 540 00:20:05,204 --> 00:20:07,249 working at an all-women's magazine. 541 00:20:07,293 --> 00:20:08,250 - I agree. 542 00:20:08,294 --> 00:20:10,861 However, being on the spot, 543 00:20:10,905 --> 00:20:13,864 having to have all the answers right away... 544 00:20:13,908 --> 00:20:15,866 that's not me. - Hmm. 545 00:20:15,910 --> 00:20:17,172 - I'm a writer. 546 00:20:17,216 --> 00:20:19,218 I like to take my time with my ideas, craft them. 547 00:20:19,261 --> 00:20:22,308 - Okay, I get that, but just because it's called "Ask Alex" 548 00:20:22,351 --> 00:20:25,049 doesn't mean you have to have all the answers. 549 00:20:25,093 --> 00:20:29,053 Maybe think of it as more of just listening 550 00:20:29,097 --> 00:20:31,186 and starting the conversation. 551 00:20:31,230 --> 00:20:33,232 What do you think? 552 00:20:33,275 --> 00:20:35,277 - Hmm. 553 00:20:35,321 --> 00:20:37,888 I think I'm listening. 554 00:20:37,932 --> 00:20:39,281 - Hey. - Hey. 555 00:20:39,325 --> 00:20:41,240 - He's got the first step. - Thanks, Kat. 556 00:20:41,283 --> 00:20:44,243 - You got it. [cell phone vibrates] 557 00:20:46,897 --> 00:20:49,248 - Yeah, I will be home soon to help you with your homework. 558 00:20:49,291 --> 00:20:51,902 - [whispering] See, I mean, I don't know why we're here. 559 00:20:51,946 --> 00:20:53,817 - I got held up. I'm on my way. 560 00:20:53,861 --> 00:20:55,863 All right, okay. 561 00:20:58,257 --> 00:21:01,303 Do you know why I am running late? 562 00:21:01,347 --> 00:21:04,306 Because I had to talk Robbie Davis from Rect 563 00:21:04,350 --> 00:21:06,961 out of suing us because of your tweets. 564 00:21:07,004 --> 00:21:11,095 - But I mean, all--all press is--is good press, right? 565 00:21:11,139 --> 00:21:13,272 - Uh, yeah, I, too, have heard that said. 566 00:21:13,315 --> 00:21:18,277 - Not when you are calling for men to boycott his product. 567 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:19,669 - Technically, that wasn't us. 568 00:21:19,713 --> 00:21:21,149 We were just trying to say, 569 00:21:21,192 --> 00:21:23,760 if Rect is allowed to advertise on City Billboards, 570 00:21:23,804 --> 00:21:25,414 then Broad should be allowed to do so as well. 571 00:21:25,458 --> 00:21:29,418 - Yeah, I recognize that, but you inspired boycott talk, 572 00:21:29,462 --> 00:21:31,768 and you did nothing to stop it. 573 00:21:31,812 --> 00:21:33,988 Now, I understand that these are your friends, Sage. 574 00:21:34,031 --> 00:21:36,947 - Oh, I-I feel like I should take responsibility. 575 00:21:36,991 --> 00:21:39,254 This was my idea. 576 00:21:39,298 --> 00:21:40,908 But I do feel like we have 577 00:21:40,951 --> 00:21:43,345 every right to be mad, you know? 578 00:21:43,389 --> 00:21:44,912 I mean, this isn't even about the way 579 00:21:44,955 --> 00:21:46,087 that the Broads ad looks. 580 00:21:46,130 --> 00:21:48,132 It's actually about an advertising outlet 581 00:21:48,176 --> 00:21:50,221 that doesn't want to promote a woman's desire 582 00:21:50,265 --> 00:21:52,963 to please herself despite not having a partner. 583 00:21:53,007 --> 00:21:56,967 - Broads is promoting sexual independence for women. 584 00:21:57,011 --> 00:21:58,404 - Yes. 585 00:21:58,447 --> 00:22:02,277 And I think it's really important for women to see 586 00:22:02,321 --> 00:22:06,325 that you can be alone and be sexually satisfied. 587 00:22:06,368 --> 00:22:10,720 - I understand, and I respect the message, 588 00:22:10,764 --> 00:22:14,158 just not the way which you were trying to get it across. 589 00:22:14,202 --> 00:22:17,248 - Got it. We will change the messaging. 590 00:22:18,424 --> 00:22:19,381 - Thank you. 591 00:22:22,079 --> 00:22:26,388 That said... by all means, use our platform 592 00:22:26,432 --> 00:22:28,912 to promote women's pleasure. 593 00:22:28,956 --> 00:22:31,088 [soft dramatic music] 594 00:22:31,132 --> 00:22:32,394 - [gasps] 595 00:22:32,438 --> 00:22:34,178 [both giggle] 596 00:22:34,222 --> 00:22:37,051 - [inhales deeply] 597 00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:41,490 Wow. 598 00:22:41,534 --> 00:22:44,232 - [chuckles] You like? 599 00:22:44,275 --> 00:22:47,017 - Yeah, very much. 600 00:22:47,061 --> 00:22:48,192 - [chuckles] 601 00:22:48,236 --> 00:22:50,194 - I just, um... 602 00:22:50,238 --> 00:22:52,196 guess I feel a bit underdressed now? 603 00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:55,286 Overdressed? I don't really know what to-- 604 00:22:55,330 --> 00:22:57,201 - It's fine as long as you're comfortable. 605 00:22:57,245 --> 00:22:59,334 Do you think we need to bring anything? 606 00:22:59,378 --> 00:23:01,423 - I--what would we bring? 607 00:23:01,467 --> 00:23:04,252 - I don't know. It's my first sex party. 608 00:23:04,295 --> 00:23:09,213 Do we bring hand sanitizer, uh, condoms, a cheese plate? 609 00:23:09,257 --> 00:23:11,128 - Why would we need condoms? 610 00:23:11,172 --> 00:23:13,304 - What do you mean? 611 00:23:13,348 --> 00:23:14,871 - What do you mean? 612 00:23:14,915 --> 00:23:19,136 You said we were gonna just observe a sex party, right? 613 00:23:19,180 --> 00:23:21,530 Like watching live porn? 614 00:23:21,574 --> 00:23:25,273 Are you planning on us having sex at this club? 615 00:23:25,316 --> 00:23:28,407 - I don't know, maybe. 616 00:23:28,450 --> 00:23:30,321 - Maybe. 617 00:23:31,148 --> 00:23:32,367 Uh... 618 00:23:32,411 --> 00:23:35,544 - I don't know. I'm just--I'm just trying to-- 619 00:23:35,588 --> 00:23:37,459 - Trying to what? 620 00:23:37,503 --> 00:23:42,116 - [sighs] You know, help you. 621 00:23:42,159 --> 00:23:45,293 - It's just--it's kind of making things worse. 622 00:23:47,121 --> 00:23:48,818 [sighs] 623 00:23:48,862 --> 00:23:50,559 I don't expect you to forgive me 624 00:23:50,603 --> 00:23:51,995 for what I did with that woman. 625 00:23:52,039 --> 00:23:54,389 - But that's the thing-- I have forgiven you. 626 00:23:54,433 --> 00:23:55,608 - I know that you say you have. 627 00:23:55,651 --> 00:23:59,089 - Ryan, I'm telling you, I have forgiven you. 628 00:23:59,133 --> 00:24:01,178 - [stammers softly] 629 00:24:03,224 --> 00:24:04,355 - What do you want me to do? 630 00:24:04,399 --> 00:24:06,923 You want me to go to the sex club 631 00:24:06,967 --> 00:24:08,316 and kiss someone else? 632 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:11,319 Will you feel better about yourself then? 633 00:24:11,362 --> 00:24:14,322 [soft dramatic music] 634 00:24:14,365 --> 00:24:16,106 ♪ 635 00:24:16,150 --> 00:24:18,848 Seriously? - I don't know. 636 00:24:18,892 --> 00:24:20,807 - Okay, wow. 637 00:24:20,850 --> 00:24:24,158 - I don't know, but... 638 00:24:24,201 --> 00:24:26,203 maybe you should go without me. 639 00:24:26,247 --> 00:24:30,207 ♪ 640 00:24:30,251 --> 00:24:31,470 - I'm on it. 641 00:24:31,513 --> 00:24:34,908 I mean, I'm not on it, but I'm on Wi-Fi. 642 00:24:34,951 --> 00:24:37,388 - Okay, let's give it a go. 643 00:24:39,347 --> 00:24:40,827 [vibrator rumbles] 644 00:24:40,870 --> 00:24:43,003 - Houston, we have contact. 645 00:24:43,046 --> 00:24:46,310 - [laughs] Amazing. 646 00:24:46,354 --> 00:24:49,488 Okay, I'm gonna try something. 647 00:24:49,531 --> 00:24:51,359 [vibrator rumbles rapidly] That work? 648 00:24:51,402 --> 00:24:53,317 - [laughs] Yeah. 649 00:24:53,361 --> 00:24:54,318 That should do it. 650 00:24:54,362 --> 00:24:56,451 Listen, uh, call me in an hour 651 00:24:56,495 --> 00:24:58,975 and start slow so I can... [clicks tongue] 652 00:24:59,019 --> 00:25:00,020 Get into it. 653 00:25:00,063 --> 00:25:01,282 - Of course. 654 00:25:01,325 --> 00:25:03,066 You know, people say that technology's 655 00:25:03,110 --> 00:25:04,459 making us all isolated. 656 00:25:04,503 --> 00:25:07,244 - Yeah, well, thankfully, it's bringing us together. 657 00:25:07,288 --> 00:25:10,421 - ♪ Visions I vandalize 658 00:25:10,465 --> 00:25:12,641 ♪ Cold in my kingdom size 659 00:25:12,685 --> 00:25:14,643 [indistinct chatter] 660 00:25:14,687 --> 00:25:18,560 ♪ Fell for these ocean eyes 661 00:25:18,604 --> 00:25:21,215 ♪ You should see me in a crown ♪ 662 00:25:21,258 --> 00:25:23,217 ♪ I'm gonna run this nothing town ♪ 663 00:25:23,260 --> 00:25:24,392 - Welcome. 664 00:25:24,435 --> 00:25:26,307 - I-I'll keep my coat, thanks. 665 00:25:26,350 --> 00:25:28,527 - ♪ One by one by one 666 00:25:31,225 --> 00:25:34,141 [dramatic electronic music] 667 00:25:34,184 --> 00:25:35,925 - Hey. - Cavalry's here. 668 00:25:35,969 --> 00:25:37,884 - Oh, my gosh, thank you so much for coming. 669 00:25:37,927 --> 00:25:39,494 - Oh, yeah, of course. We got you. 670 00:25:39,538 --> 00:25:42,845 Tiny Jane dressed to slay the sex party. 671 00:25:42,889 --> 00:25:44,412 - So Ryan wants you to kiss somebody? 672 00:25:44,455 --> 00:25:47,894 - Well, he didn't say that, but he didn't not say that. 673 00:25:47,937 --> 00:25:49,243 - Oh, maybe if you kiss someone, it'll help. 674 00:25:49,286 --> 00:25:51,071 - Yeah, you're in the right place for it. 675 00:25:51,114 --> 00:25:52,812 - Yeah, I don't know. 676 00:25:52,855 --> 00:25:54,683 [indistinct chatter] 677 00:25:54,727 --> 00:25:56,163 I just need to focus on my story, 678 00:25:56,206 --> 00:25:58,165 and I can think about Ryan later. 679 00:25:58,208 --> 00:26:00,689 - Good idea. - Yeah. 680 00:26:00,733 --> 00:26:02,125 - Welcome to Bacchanal. 681 00:26:02,169 --> 00:26:05,215 Playpen to the right, bar and lounge to the left. 682 00:26:05,259 --> 00:26:07,957 Those are warm-ups-- after that, the further you go, 683 00:26:08,001 --> 00:26:09,393 the sexier it gets. 684 00:26:09,437 --> 00:26:12,919 - Great, um, thanks. We're all kind of new to this. 685 00:26:12,962 --> 00:26:16,052 - Just use protection, ladies. Dental dams are still a thing. 686 00:26:16,096 --> 00:26:17,271 - Oh. - Oh. 687 00:26:17,314 --> 00:26:20,840 - And consent will always be a thing. 688 00:26:20,883 --> 00:26:22,972 - Right. - So have fun. 689 00:26:23,016 --> 00:26:23,973 - Ready, Jane? 690 00:26:24,017 --> 00:26:25,801 - I'm gonna go into the playpen. 691 00:26:25,845 --> 00:26:28,195 But, uh, I think I should do my interview alone. 692 00:26:28,238 --> 00:26:29,849 - Really? 693 00:26:29,892 --> 00:26:31,851 - Yeah, knowing you're in the building really helps, though. 694 00:26:31,894 --> 00:26:33,243 - Of course. - Yeah, we'll be at the bar... 695 00:26:33,287 --> 00:26:35,506 you know, if you need anything. 696 00:26:35,550 --> 00:26:36,986 - Okay. 697 00:26:37,030 --> 00:26:38,814 - Thank you. - Thanks. 698 00:26:38,858 --> 00:26:40,860 - Enjoy. 699 00:26:40,903 --> 00:26:43,863 [Georgi Kay's "Wake Up"] 700 00:26:43,906 --> 00:26:46,866 [spooky pop music] 701 00:26:46,909 --> 00:26:50,043 - Oh, man, I should have brought my swimsuit. 702 00:26:50,086 --> 00:26:52,219 - Well, it seems like you don't need it. 703 00:26:52,262 --> 00:26:55,135 - Mm. Look at these drinks. 704 00:26:55,178 --> 00:26:56,919 - [gasps] Cute. 705 00:26:56,963 --> 00:26:59,443 - Almost too cute to consume. 706 00:26:59,487 --> 00:27:01,097 - Almost. Thank you. 707 00:27:01,141 --> 00:27:02,359 - Mm-hmm. 708 00:27:02,403 --> 00:27:05,188 ♪ Wake up 709 00:27:05,232 --> 00:27:08,975 ♪ I'm ready when you are 710 00:27:09,018 --> 00:27:13,762 ♪ I've had enough, I'm sick and tired of the lies ♪ 711 00:27:13,806 --> 00:27:15,764 - That's a person. 712 00:27:15,808 --> 00:27:18,549 ♪ 713 00:27:18,593 --> 00:27:21,248 ♪ Shake up 714 00:27:21,291 --> 00:27:24,904 ♪ The fear in your heart 715 00:27:24,947 --> 00:27:27,167 ♪ You talk too much 716 00:27:27,210 --> 00:27:31,911 ♪ The walls you made are crumbling down ♪ 717 00:27:31,954 --> 00:27:35,088 [indistinct chatter] 718 00:27:35,131 --> 00:27:37,090 ♪ No, it's never enough 719 00:27:37,133 --> 00:27:40,920 [smacking, muffled groaning] 720 00:27:40,963 --> 00:27:42,922 ♪ Can you hear me? 721 00:27:42,965 --> 00:27:44,793 ♪ No, it's never enough 722 00:27:44,837 --> 00:27:47,187 ♪ Do you understand? 723 00:27:47,230 --> 00:27:48,492 ♪ 724 00:27:48,536 --> 00:27:51,191 [purse rumbles] - Oh, no. 725 00:27:51,234 --> 00:27:52,583 Do you know if we can use our phones in here? 726 00:27:52,627 --> 00:27:56,152 Did they say anything about it? - I don't know. 727 00:27:56,196 --> 00:27:58,198 - It's not my phone. Can you hold this? 728 00:27:58,241 --> 00:27:59,547 - Yeah. 729 00:27:59,590 --> 00:28:01,027 - ♪ No, it's never enough 730 00:28:01,070 --> 00:28:03,986 ♪ Do you understand? 731 00:28:04,030 --> 00:28:06,641 - [gasps] Oh, no. 732 00:28:06,685 --> 00:28:08,077 - Hmm? 733 00:28:08,121 --> 00:28:10,079 - I had a vibrator sex date with Richard. 734 00:28:10,123 --> 00:28:11,690 - Ah. 735 00:28:11,733 --> 00:28:13,866 - And then Jane called, and I forgot to set this thing up, 736 00:28:13,909 --> 00:28:16,129 and I just... 737 00:28:16,172 --> 00:28:18,914 stood up my fiancé [camera shutter clicks] 738 00:28:18,958 --> 00:28:20,481 - ♪ No, it's never enough 739 00:28:20,524 --> 00:28:23,005 ♪ Are you listening? 740 00:28:23,049 --> 00:28:27,053 ♪ No, it's never enough, can you hear me? ♪ 741 00:28:27,096 --> 00:28:29,577 - Here's your drink. - Thanks, babe. 742 00:28:29,620 --> 00:28:31,187 - [chuckles] 743 00:28:31,231 --> 00:28:37,150 ♪ 744 00:28:37,193 --> 00:28:38,673 - Hi. - Hi. 745 00:28:38,717 --> 00:28:41,981 Um, this might be weird. 746 00:28:42,024 --> 00:28:45,114 - We like weird. - Uh, not that kind of weird. 747 00:28:45,158 --> 00:28:48,074 Um, I'm a writer for "Scarlet" magazine, 748 00:28:48,117 --> 00:28:51,164 and I'm doing a piece on why sex parties 749 00:28:51,207 --> 00:28:53,383 are so popular with millennials. 750 00:28:53,427 --> 00:28:55,516 - You can ask my husband anything. 751 00:28:55,559 --> 00:28:57,997 I'll be back soon. [chuckles] 752 00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:04,046 ♪ 753 00:29:05,656 --> 00:29:07,528 - So what do you want to know? 754 00:29:07,571 --> 00:29:09,878 - Oh, I have so many questions. 755 00:29:09,922 --> 00:29:11,967 Um, so she's kissing another man. 756 00:29:12,011 --> 00:29:14,187 That isn't a problem for you? 757 00:29:14,230 --> 00:29:16,189 - We like to mix it up. 758 00:29:16,232 --> 00:29:19,192 As long as each of us gets a turn, it works. 759 00:29:19,235 --> 00:29:21,672 - Did you meet at one of these or...? 760 00:29:21,716 --> 00:29:23,196 - We did. 761 00:29:23,239 --> 00:29:24,545 When we kept coming back to each other, 762 00:29:24,588 --> 00:29:25,546 we just realized... 763 00:29:25,589 --> 00:29:28,114 might as well. - Wow. 764 00:29:28,157 --> 00:29:30,899 What a love story. - Yeah. 765 00:29:30,943 --> 00:29:32,509 - Yeah. 766 00:29:32,553 --> 00:29:34,207 [camera shutter clicking] 767 00:29:34,250 --> 00:29:35,556 - What are you doing? [chuckles] 768 00:29:35,599 --> 00:29:38,341 - Capturing the real Sutton Brady. 769 00:29:38,385 --> 00:29:40,996 See this lady right here? 770 00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:42,693 - [laughs] 771 00:29:42,737 --> 00:29:45,087 - That's the real you, baby. - I'm confused. 772 00:29:45,131 --> 00:29:47,133 - Come on, a Marc Jacobs sample sale bag, 773 00:29:47,176 --> 00:29:49,483 a free tampon from Orangetheory, 774 00:29:49,526 --> 00:29:52,138 a leftover sandwich from the kitchen, 775 00:29:52,181 --> 00:29:54,227 and a vibrator that you were supposed to use 776 00:29:54,270 --> 00:29:56,446 on your sex date with your fiancé, 777 00:29:56,490 --> 00:29:58,057 but then your best friend called and said, 778 00:29:58,100 --> 00:29:59,275 "Hey, do you want to come to a sex club?" 779 00:29:59,319 --> 00:30:00,711 And so you had to just book it. 780 00:30:00,755 --> 00:30:01,974 - Yeah, I mean, who wouldn't? 781 00:30:02,017 --> 00:30:04,019 - You know, a lot of people wouldn't. 782 00:30:04,063 --> 00:30:06,239 And I know you have that rock on your finger, 783 00:30:06,282 --> 00:30:07,588 and you live in a fancy apartment, 784 00:30:07,631 --> 00:30:10,243 but that's just part of who you are. 785 00:30:10,286 --> 00:30:12,158 There's also your style, 786 00:30:12,201 --> 00:30:16,075 which is sophisticated but, you know, accessible. 787 00:30:16,118 --> 00:30:18,555 - Is it chic yet whimsical? 788 00:30:18,599 --> 00:30:21,515 - Mm-hmm, it's also, um... 789 00:30:21,558 --> 00:30:23,778 messy. - Mm-hmm. 790 00:30:23,822 --> 00:30:25,388 - But you're hella cute about it, honey. 791 00:30:25,432 --> 00:30:27,260 - Mm, thank you. - Yeah. 792 00:30:27,303 --> 00:30:31,090 I feel like that should be your first Instagram post, you know? 793 00:30:31,133 --> 00:30:34,093 I think you can do it if you want it. 794 00:30:34,136 --> 00:30:37,096 [electronic music] 795 00:30:37,139 --> 00:30:40,099 [woman singing in Spanish] 796 00:30:40,142 --> 00:30:47,149 ♪ 797 00:31:05,689 --> 00:31:07,169 - Hi. - Hi. 798 00:31:09,171 --> 00:31:11,260 - Um, I'm--I'm Jane. 799 00:31:11,304 --> 00:31:14,046 I'm doing a story about sex parties 800 00:31:14,089 --> 00:31:15,525 for "Scarlet." 801 00:31:15,569 --> 00:31:19,573 Uh, do you mind if I ask you a couple questions? 802 00:31:19,616 --> 00:31:21,662 - Actually, I do mind. 803 00:31:21,705 --> 00:31:24,230 - Oh, uh, I'm sorry. 804 00:31:24,273 --> 00:31:26,536 - It's just I'm not here to talk. 805 00:31:28,321 --> 00:31:30,497 - Yeah, yeah, I get that. 806 00:31:30,540 --> 00:31:37,547 ♪ 807 00:31:46,817 --> 00:31:48,471 [dark electronic music] 808 00:31:48,515 --> 00:31:50,386 - You're right, Kat, it's perfect for Instagram, 809 00:31:50,430 --> 00:31:51,953 and I think I can do it. 810 00:31:51,997 --> 00:31:53,520 - Yeah. 811 00:31:53,563 --> 00:31:55,522 - I'm also pretty sure we can't have our phones. 812 00:31:55,565 --> 00:31:56,915 - Mm-hmm. 813 00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:00,440 - Okay, don't look now, but, um, there are 814 00:32:00,483 --> 00:32:02,442 three women masturbating behind you. 815 00:32:02,485 --> 00:32:04,052 - Ooh. 816 00:32:04,096 --> 00:32:05,445 Mm, this way? - Mm-hmm. 817 00:32:05,488 --> 00:32:06,968 - Hmm. 818 00:32:07,012 --> 00:32:09,492 ♪ 819 00:32:09,536 --> 00:32:11,016 Wow, that's kind of incredible, right? 820 00:32:11,059 --> 00:32:12,887 - Mm-hmm. [woman moans] 821 00:32:12,931 --> 00:32:14,976 - I think this is the angle I need 822 00:32:15,020 --> 00:32:16,847 to promote female pleasure. 823 00:32:16,891 --> 00:32:18,545 I mean, they could be having sex with anyone. 824 00:32:18,588 --> 00:32:19,763 - Mm-hmm. 825 00:32:19,807 --> 00:32:22,723 - And they're choosing to please themselves. 826 00:32:22,766 --> 00:32:24,986 - You should talk to them. - Yeah. 827 00:32:25,030 --> 00:32:29,469 - Uh, maybe wait till they're finished. 828 00:32:29,512 --> 00:32:31,514 - Probably. - Probably, yes. 829 00:32:31,558 --> 00:32:32,689 [woman moans] 830 00:32:32,733 --> 00:32:36,955 Mm, you're a wise lady, Sutton Brady. 831 00:32:36,998 --> 00:32:38,173 - [scoffs] 832 00:32:38,217 --> 00:32:45,180 ♪ 833 00:32:45,224 --> 00:32:47,878 - Um... 834 00:32:47,922 --> 00:32:50,011 - Everything okay? 835 00:32:50,055 --> 00:32:54,146 - Yeah, I'm fine. I just, uh--I have to go. 836 00:32:54,189 --> 00:32:55,582 But thank you. 837 00:32:55,625 --> 00:33:02,110 ♪ 838 00:33:02,154 --> 00:33:03,546 Hey. 839 00:33:03,590 --> 00:33:05,679 You guys, I'm so glad I found you. 840 00:33:05,722 --> 00:33:07,898 I just kissed somebody, and it was terrible. 841 00:33:07,942 --> 00:33:10,118 - Oh, that sucks. - Oh, yeah, sorry, Jane. 842 00:33:10,162 --> 00:33:12,207 - No, no, no, no, this is great, 843 00:33:12,251 --> 00:33:13,730 'cause now I get it. 844 00:33:13,774 --> 00:33:16,907 I get why Ryan came back from his book tour to find me, 845 00:33:16,951 --> 00:33:20,041 because now all I want to do is go home and be with him. 846 00:33:20,085 --> 00:33:22,478 - Oh, Jane, that's so beautiful. 847 00:33:22,522 --> 00:33:24,872 - What about you, did you, uh, find a wife? 848 00:33:24,915 --> 00:33:28,745 - Uh, no, but I did find a new work angle. 849 00:33:28,789 --> 00:33:29,790 - Oh. 850 00:33:29,833 --> 00:33:31,487 - And I got some great interviews. 851 00:33:31,531 --> 00:33:33,924 You know what? I feel like this place is actually pretty dope. 852 00:33:33,968 --> 00:33:35,665 [device vibrating] - Oh--[laughs] 853 00:33:35,709 --> 00:33:37,580 - Wait, is that-- - [giggles] 854 00:33:37,624 --> 00:33:41,149 Richard... is calling, 855 00:33:41,193 --> 00:33:44,892 so I'm gonna... 856 00:33:44,935 --> 00:33:46,067 I'm gonna take it. 857 00:33:46,111 --> 00:33:48,591 I think I'm gonna take it. Take it. 858 00:33:48,635 --> 00:33:50,071 [clears throat] Mm. 859 00:33:50,115 --> 00:33:51,855 ♪ 860 00:33:51,899 --> 00:33:53,901 [laughter] 861 00:33:53,944 --> 00:33:56,077 - I was afraid she was gonna tip over. 862 00:33:56,121 --> 00:33:57,687 [both chuckle] 863 00:33:57,731 --> 00:34:00,125 So should we wait for her by the naked lady? 864 00:34:00,168 --> 00:34:01,952 - Sure. 865 00:34:01,996 --> 00:34:04,172 - We need a little grape. - Or a pear. 866 00:34:04,216 --> 00:34:06,174 - Mmm, lovely. 867 00:34:08,002 --> 00:34:10,961 Well, look who's here. 868 00:34:11,005 --> 00:34:12,485 Go get him, baby. 869 00:34:12,528 --> 00:34:17,794 ♪ 870 00:34:17,838 --> 00:34:20,797 - Hey. - Hi. 871 00:34:20,841 --> 00:34:24,105 - Can we--can we get out of here, talk somewhere else? 872 00:34:24,149 --> 00:34:25,802 - No, come with me. 873 00:34:25,846 --> 00:34:28,979 - Uh, Jane, we really should talk. 874 00:34:29,023 --> 00:34:31,765 - No more talking. I'm done talking. 875 00:34:31,808 --> 00:34:35,247 ♪ 876 00:34:35,290 --> 00:34:38,511 - Can we just hang on a second? - Shh. 877 00:34:38,554 --> 00:34:39,990 - Hang on. 878 00:34:40,034 --> 00:34:42,689 [Grimes & io's "Violence"] 879 00:34:42,732 --> 00:34:44,256 ♪ 880 00:34:44,299 --> 00:34:46,780 - Jane, listen to me. I have to-- 881 00:34:46,823 --> 00:34:49,130 Mm. Just hang on. 882 00:34:49,174 --> 00:34:52,829 - I kissed someone just now, 883 00:34:52,873 --> 00:34:56,659 and I hated it, and now I understand how bad you feel 884 00:34:56,703 --> 00:34:59,662 and how much you just want all of this to go away 885 00:34:59,706 --> 00:35:02,187 because I feel the same way. 886 00:35:02,230 --> 00:35:03,188 I love you. 887 00:35:03,231 --> 00:35:09,803 ♪ 888 00:35:09,846 --> 00:35:12,675 Now let's put this behind us for real. 889 00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:16,157 - ♪ Want to party, want to wake up ♪ 890 00:35:16,201 --> 00:35:19,247 ♪ Baby, it's violence, violence ♪ 891 00:35:19,291 --> 00:35:23,033 ♪ Baby, it's violence 892 00:35:23,077 --> 00:35:24,209 ♪ 893 00:35:24,252 --> 00:35:30,345 ♪ You can't see what I see 894 00:35:30,389 --> 00:35:34,784 ♪ You can't see what I see ♪ 895 00:35:34,828 --> 00:35:41,574 ♪ 'Cause you, ha, ha, feed off hurting me ♪ 896 00:35:41,617 --> 00:35:44,577 ♪ 897 00:35:48,058 --> 00:35:51,018 [upbeat music] 898 00:35:51,061 --> 00:35:55,196 ♪ 899 00:35:55,240 --> 00:35:57,198 [cell phone vibrates] 900 00:35:57,242 --> 00:35:59,287 - [chuckles] 901 00:35:59,331 --> 00:36:02,421 [indistinct chatter] 902 00:36:03,987 --> 00:36:05,859 Hey. - Hi. 903 00:36:05,902 --> 00:36:07,513 You see them likes, baby? 904 00:36:07,556 --> 00:36:08,862 - Yeah. - You see that engagement? 905 00:36:08,905 --> 00:36:10,864 - I saw it, and I want to say thank you. 906 00:36:10,907 --> 00:36:12,779 - You're welcome. 907 00:36:12,822 --> 00:36:14,215 - How's Ryan? - Good. 908 00:36:14,259 --> 00:36:15,782 - He gave me the other kind of facial last night. 909 00:36:15,825 --> 00:36:17,218 - Oh. - Your skin looks great. 910 00:36:17,262 --> 00:36:18,263 - [laughs] 911 00:36:18,306 --> 00:36:20,003 - You into that? - No, I'm kidding. 912 00:36:20,047 --> 00:36:22,528 But we're really good. 913 00:36:22,571 --> 00:36:23,746 Yay. [chuckles] 914 00:36:23,790 --> 00:36:25,008 - Oh, I got to go talk to Jacqueline. 915 00:36:25,052 --> 00:36:27,054 Jacqueline. - [gasps] Jane. 916 00:36:27,097 --> 00:36:28,316 - Hi. 917 00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:29,926 - I loved your piece, by the way. 918 00:36:29,970 --> 00:36:32,407 "How Millennials Say Intimacy: Sex Party," 919 00:36:32,451 --> 00:36:33,408 great title. 920 00:36:33,452 --> 00:36:34,627 - [chuckles] Thank you. 921 00:36:34,670 --> 00:36:36,455 It was a little out of my comfort zone, 922 00:36:36,498 --> 00:36:37,717 but I'm glad I did it. 923 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:39,066 - Well, that's how we grow, right? 924 00:36:39,109 --> 00:36:41,373 And right now we need to. - Right. 925 00:36:41,416 --> 00:36:44,376 Speaking of, I know you said that there was gonna be 926 00:36:44,419 --> 00:36:46,595 the possibility of more verticals, 927 00:36:46,639 --> 00:36:49,468 and I would really love that opportunity. 928 00:36:49,511 --> 00:36:52,949 - Okay, well, verticals are a huge commitment 929 00:36:52,993 --> 00:36:54,734 of resources from "Scarlet." 930 00:36:54,777 --> 00:36:57,084 You'd virtually be your own editor. 931 00:36:57,127 --> 00:37:00,740 - I understand, and I'm up for that challenge. 932 00:37:00,783 --> 00:37:02,394 - Well, that's good to know. 933 00:37:02,437 --> 00:37:04,613 Let's see how your next piece does. 934 00:37:04,657 --> 00:37:06,920 - Okay. 935 00:37:06,963 --> 00:37:09,923 [punchy music] 936 00:37:09,966 --> 00:37:13,056 ♪ 937 00:37:13,100 --> 00:37:16,408 - I grew up in a religious family, 938 00:37:16,451 --> 00:37:21,413 and I was raised to think my sexuality should be protected, 939 00:37:21,456 --> 00:37:24,764 a prize I saved for the right man, 940 00:37:24,807 --> 00:37:27,636 and when I met him, I could use it to win his love, 941 00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:29,986 and if I enjoyed it, that was good. 942 00:37:30,030 --> 00:37:33,773 But for me, that wasn't good enough. 943 00:37:33,816 --> 00:37:35,514 When I went to college, I realized 944 00:37:35,557 --> 00:37:37,994 that my sexual pleasure was a gift 945 00:37:38,038 --> 00:37:40,823 that God gave to me and that I should experience it 946 00:37:40,867 --> 00:37:42,434 any way I wanted to, 947 00:37:42,477 --> 00:37:46,438 be it alone, in a hot tub, at a sex party, 948 00:37:46,481 --> 00:37:48,527 or with the love of my life. 949 00:37:48,570 --> 00:37:51,486 I control my own sexual pleasure. 950 00:37:54,837 --> 00:37:58,363 [cell phone beeps] 951 00:38:07,023 --> 00:38:08,503 [knock at door] 952 00:38:08,547 --> 00:38:11,376 - Kat. - Hey. 953 00:38:11,419 --> 00:38:13,334 - I saw your piece 954 00:38:13,378 --> 00:38:15,684 about the ladies at the sex club, 955 00:38:15,728 --> 00:38:17,382 and it was great. 956 00:38:17,425 --> 00:38:19,384 You have been working so hard lately-- 957 00:38:19,427 --> 00:38:21,037 early mornings, late nights. 958 00:38:21,081 --> 00:38:23,866 - Well, I mean, it's a good thing I like my job, right? 959 00:38:23,910 --> 00:38:27,653 - You've done so much since you ran for city council. 960 00:38:27,696 --> 00:38:31,004 Between getting Chloe to run in that marathon 961 00:38:31,047 --> 00:38:33,006 and trying to get that billboard company 962 00:38:33,049 --> 00:38:35,138 to change its mind about Broads, 963 00:38:35,182 --> 00:38:37,532 changing RJ's mind about me. 964 00:38:37,576 --> 00:38:40,405 - Well, that was easy 'cause-- 965 00:38:40,448 --> 00:38:42,450 - I just wanted to make sure 966 00:38:42,494 --> 00:38:45,105 that you are taking time for you. 967 00:38:45,148 --> 00:38:46,541 - Yeah. 968 00:38:46,585 --> 00:38:49,588 - Good. Life is about balance, Kat. 969 00:38:49,631 --> 00:38:53,461 You can make a difference and have a personal life... 970 00:38:53,505 --> 00:38:55,376 if you want one. 971 00:38:57,247 --> 00:38:58,988 - Yeah. 972 00:38:59,032 --> 00:39:00,686 Thank you. 973 00:39:00,729 --> 00:39:02,427 - Cheers. - Cheers. 974 00:39:02,470 --> 00:39:03,819 - Now take your tea... - Yeah. 975 00:39:03,863 --> 00:39:05,517 - And get back to work. - Yes. 976 00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:07,823 Okay, thank you. 977 00:39:07,867 --> 00:39:10,522 - ♪ I only start something better ♪ 978 00:39:10,565 --> 00:39:12,959 ♪ If I say nothing 979 00:39:13,002 --> 00:39:13,960 ♪ Nothing at all 980 00:39:14,003 --> 00:39:15,744 - [sighs] 981 00:39:15,788 --> 00:39:18,051 - ♪ When I open my mouth, open my mouth ♪ 982 00:39:18,094 --> 00:39:21,446 - It's not always easy to put yourself out there, 983 00:39:21,489 --> 00:39:25,232 but taking risks is important. 984 00:39:25,275 --> 00:39:27,234 Vulnerability can be a gift. 985 00:39:27,277 --> 00:39:30,977 Yes, it can open us up to pain or embarrassment 986 00:39:31,020 --> 00:39:34,763 but can also bring us connection and acceptance. 987 00:39:34,807 --> 00:39:37,157 I have to admit that vulnerability scares me, 988 00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:38,680 but it's necessary 989 00:39:38,724 --> 00:39:41,553 to ask the questions we're embarrassed to ask 990 00:39:41,596 --> 00:39:44,860 and to give the answers we're afraid to say aloud. 991 00:39:44,904 --> 00:39:47,950 - ♪ We never evolve, I'm dodging all your calls ♪ 992 00:39:47,994 --> 00:39:50,736 - Ultimately, it's what allows us to grow, 993 00:39:50,779 --> 00:39:52,128 which is what I want to do along with you 994 00:39:52,172 --> 00:39:54,740 here on "Ask Alex Live." 995 00:39:54,783 --> 00:39:56,742 Though, from here on out, I'll be doing 996 00:39:56,785 --> 00:39:58,961 as much listening as I will be answering. 997 00:39:59,005 --> 00:40:03,096 So each week I'm gonna pose a new question, 998 00:40:03,139 --> 00:40:07,056 invite guests ranging from experts and laymen 999 00:40:07,100 --> 00:40:10,277 to tell us what they know and what they don't 1000 00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:13,889 and how we can bridge that gap together. 1001 00:40:13,933 --> 00:40:18,067 This week's topic is self-love. 1002 00:40:18,111 --> 00:40:21,984 And I've invited "Scarlet's" very own to weigh in-- 1003 00:40:22,028 --> 00:40:25,248 Jane Sloan, Sutton Brady, 1004 00:40:25,292 --> 00:40:28,904 Kat Edison, and Sage Aiello. 1005 00:40:28,948 --> 00:40:30,123 Happy to have you here. 1006 00:40:30,166 --> 00:40:32,604 - Glad to be here. - Thanks for having us. 1007 00:40:32,647 --> 00:40:34,780 - It's a pleasure to be on the show, Alex. 1008 00:40:34,823 --> 00:40:36,999 - Are we gonna talk about sex or what? 1009 00:40:37,043 --> 00:40:38,958 all: Yes. - Wow. 1010 00:40:39,001 --> 00:40:40,960 We're really excited. 1011 00:40:41,003 --> 00:40:43,919 Well, um, Jane, why don't you start? 1012 00:40:43,963 --> 00:40:45,617 - Um, I just went to a sex club. 1013 00:40:45,660 --> 00:40:47,183 - [gasps] Get out. 1014 00:40:47,227 --> 00:40:50,491 - That's it. 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