1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 2 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 3 00:00:20,429 --> 00:00:22,011 STEPHANIE: For those continuing with the second part 4 00:00:22,111 --> 00:00:23,533 of this course next semester, 5 00:00:23,633 --> 00:00:25,815 we will explore the development and evolution 6 00:00:25,915 --> 00:00:27,336 of social customs. 7 00:00:27,436 --> 00:00:30,299 For example, the first recorded marriage contract 8 00:00:30,399 --> 00:00:32,421 can be traced back 4,000 years. 9 00:00:32,521 --> 00:00:34,784 Those records were found primarily in Mesopotamia 10 00:00:34,884 --> 00:00:38,588 and seem to have only existed as ways of preserving power 11 00:00:38,688 --> 00:00:40,509 and furthering lineages. 12 00:00:40,609 --> 00:00:43,512 I’d like to think times have changed since then. 13 00:00:43,612 --> 00:00:45,955 It wasn’t until the Enlightenment that the notion 14 00:00:46,055 --> 00:00:48,758 of marrying for love became widely accepted. 15 00:00:48,858 --> 00:00:52,642 ♪♪ [cello] 16 00:00:52,742 --> 00:00:54,603 All right, who forgot to turn their cellphone off 17 00:00:54,703 --> 00:00:56,605 from the last class? 18 00:00:56,705 --> 00:00:58,287 STUDENT #1: I think it’s coming from outside. 19 00:00:58,387 --> 00:00:59,809 STUDENT #2: That’s so weird. 20 00:00:59,909 --> 00:01:02,071 ♪♪ [continues] 21 00:01:03,993 --> 00:01:05,995 - Is that Professor Larson? - What? 22 00:01:06,876 --> 00:01:08,878 I will be right back. 23 00:01:19,528 --> 00:01:20,790 What is all of this? 24 00:01:20,890 --> 00:01:22,892 Happy anniversary! 25 00:01:23,973 --> 00:01:25,975 Hold that thought. 26 00:01:37,306 --> 00:01:40,809 So six months ago today was our very first date, 27 00:01:40,909 --> 00:01:43,933 and ever since the moment that you bumped into me 28 00:01:44,033 --> 00:01:47,296 and spilled my coffee everywhere, 29 00:01:47,396 --> 00:01:50,099 I knew you were the one. 30 00:01:50,199 --> 00:01:52,621 And I never understood the saying, 31 00:01:52,721 --> 00:01:55,184 "When you know, you know," 32 00:01:55,284 --> 00:01:57,286 till I met you. 33 00:02:02,651 --> 00:02:04,653 So... 34 00:02:06,895 --> 00:02:10,879 Dr. Stephanie Bishop, will you marry me? 35 00:02:10,979 --> 00:02:12,121 - Yes. - Yes? 36 00:02:12,221 --> 00:02:14,763 Yes, a million times, yes. 37 00:02:14,863 --> 00:02:16,805 Whew! Ah, it’s a little loose. 38 00:02:16,905 --> 00:02:18,907 It doesn’t matter. I love it. 39 00:02:19,708 --> 00:02:21,710 - And I love you. - I love you too. 40 00:02:34,242 --> 00:02:37,946 I love how you basically highlighted this entire article. 41 00:02:38,046 --> 00:02:39,508 He makes a lot of good points. 42 00:02:39,608 --> 00:02:41,190 You know, between his books and his Ted Talks, 43 00:02:41,290 --> 00:02:42,391 you’re kind of a fanboy. 44 00:02:42,491 --> 00:02:43,952 And I am very proud of it. 45 00:02:44,052 --> 00:02:45,234 Are you almost done? 46 00:02:45,334 --> 00:02:46,635 We still have to swing by my apartment. 47 00:02:46,735 --> 00:02:48,837 Hey, quick question. 48 00:02:48,937 --> 00:02:51,840 Which color bathing suit conveys to your family how honored I am 49 00:02:51,940 --> 00:02:53,762 to spend the summer with them at their vacation house? 50 00:02:53,862 --> 00:02:56,485 And also how much I love you, and I’m excited to marry you? 51 00:02:56,585 --> 00:02:59,808 I’m not sure you can get all that from a bathing suit color. 52 00:02:59,908 --> 00:03:01,970 I think green. 53 00:03:02,070 --> 00:03:04,052 You know you have nothing to be nervous about. 54 00:03:04,152 --> 00:03:06,154 I’m not nervous. 55 00:03:07,836 --> 00:03:09,538 Okay, I’m a little nervous. 56 00:03:09,638 --> 00:03:12,140 I met them one time for like five minutes in passing. 57 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:14,583 Now I’m spending a significant amount of time with them, 58 00:03:14,683 --> 00:03:16,304 and you are so close. 59 00:03:16,404 --> 00:03:17,986 I just really want them to like me. 60 00:03:18,086 --> 00:03:22,030 They will love you because I love you. 61 00:03:22,130 --> 00:03:24,713 Besides, after a few rounds of golf on the course with my dad, 62 00:03:24,813 --> 00:03:26,815 you will be best buds. 63 00:03:27,295 --> 00:03:28,597 I never played golf. 64 00:03:28,697 --> 00:03:30,879 - Like ever? - No. 65 00:03:30,979 --> 00:03:33,341 Don’t worry. You will be fine. 66 00:03:36,504 --> 00:03:39,167 Okay, maybe I could take a few lessons. 67 00:03:39,267 --> 00:03:41,209 We don’t leave for a few hours. 68 00:03:41,309 --> 00:03:43,411 Ben, how many sweaters did you pack? 69 00:03:43,511 --> 00:03:45,854 - I like to layer. - Yes, but it’s Palm Springs, 70 00:03:45,954 --> 00:03:48,016 and we’re gonna be in flip-flops most of the time. 71 00:03:48,116 --> 00:03:50,098 And I was a Boy Scout. I go prepared. 72 00:03:50,198 --> 00:03:52,260 See? Now it actually closes, 73 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:54,462 and you have room for other things like... 74 00:03:54,562 --> 00:03:57,225 a magazine, some light reading by the pool. 75 00:03:57,325 --> 00:04:00,468 You make fun, but James Quincy’s article on emerging markets 76 00:04:00,568 --> 00:04:01,750 will make you rethink everything 77 00:04:01,850 --> 00:04:04,112 you thought you knew about economics. 78 00:04:04,212 --> 00:04:07,475 I’m sorry you got passed over for that job with Quincy. 79 00:04:07,575 --> 00:04:09,758 I’m not. If I got the teaching job at Oxford, 80 00:04:09,858 --> 00:04:11,559 I never would’ve met you. 81 00:04:11,659 --> 00:04:14,082 Then I guess everything worked out the way it was supposed to. 82 00:04:14,182 --> 00:04:17,525 Sure did. Now I’m engaged to an almost-tenured professor, 83 00:04:17,625 --> 00:04:19,407 and we’re going to Palm Springs 84 00:04:19,507 --> 00:04:21,129 to spend time with people that you love most. 85 00:04:21,229 --> 00:04:24,612 I love the sound of that. "Tenured professor." 86 00:04:24,712 --> 00:04:28,056 You worked really hard. I’m proud of you. 87 00:04:28,156 --> 00:04:30,498 Life is good. 88 00:04:30,598 --> 00:04:32,901 - How’s it fit? - It fits perfectly. 89 00:04:33,001 --> 00:04:34,422 I’m sorry it was a little loose before, 90 00:04:34,522 --> 00:04:35,944 but I didn’t wanna ruin the surprise 91 00:04:36,044 --> 00:04:38,146 by asking you what size ring you wear. 92 00:04:38,246 --> 00:04:40,909 - Thought I guessed right. - You were close. 93 00:04:41,009 --> 00:04:42,670 I know you get superstitious about that kind of stuff, 94 00:04:42,770 --> 00:04:45,713 so please, for me, do not read into it. 95 00:04:45,813 --> 00:04:48,356 You mean how like in 16th century Persia, 96 00:04:48,456 --> 00:04:50,678 if the ring didn’t fit, it was seen as a bad omen? 97 00:04:50,778 --> 00:04:52,520 It might’ve crossed my mind for a moment, 98 00:04:52,620 --> 00:04:55,003 but then I realized it’s a myth and not at all real. 99 00:04:55,103 --> 00:04:57,365 Ah, the perks of dating an anthropology professor. 100 00:04:57,465 --> 00:04:59,467 Engaged to. 101 00:05:00,988 --> 00:05:03,231 [ringtone] 102 00:05:07,275 --> 00:05:09,457 Hi, Dad. Calling for an ETA? 103 00:05:09,557 --> 00:05:12,300 Yes, yes, your mom wants to know how much to make for dinner. 104 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:13,781 Uh, we’re gonna leave here in a few hours, 105 00:05:13,881 --> 00:05:15,343 so we should be on time. 106 00:05:15,443 --> 00:05:17,105 Are Tracy and Preston there yet? 107 00:05:17,205 --> 00:05:20,308 Uh, no, their flight was delayed out of San Francisco. 108 00:05:20,408 --> 00:05:22,550 Listen, Stephanie, uh... 109 00:05:22,650 --> 00:05:24,652 Yeah? 110 00:05:27,535 --> 00:05:29,397 Um, drive safe. 111 00:05:29,497 --> 00:05:31,559 We will. Love you. 112 00:05:31,659 --> 00:05:33,661 Love you too. 113 00:05:34,702 --> 00:05:35,963 Okay. 114 00:05:36,063 --> 00:05:38,526 - Did you tell her? - I was about to, 115 00:05:38,626 --> 00:05:40,408 but it didn’t feel like the right moment. 116 00:05:40,508 --> 00:05:43,651 It’s a lot to spring on them, but the girls will understand. 117 00:05:43,751 --> 00:05:45,132 I hope so. They love this house 118 00:05:45,232 --> 00:05:46,734 and all the summers we’ve spent here. 119 00:05:46,834 --> 00:05:49,096 It’s hard telling them we’re selling it. 120 00:05:49,196 --> 00:05:51,419 I know, but they know you’re retiring 121 00:05:51,519 --> 00:05:53,501 and that we’ve always wanted to travel. 122 00:05:53,601 --> 00:05:57,184 I know, but it’s big news. We should tell them in person. 123 00:05:57,284 --> 00:05:58,946 All right. 124 00:05:59,046 --> 00:06:03,731 Then somebody better go take the "For Sale" sign off the lawn. 125 00:06:06,374 --> 00:06:08,235 Right. 126 00:06:08,335 --> 00:06:10,337 Good thinking. 127 00:06:13,621 --> 00:06:16,444 So every summer, Dad would take a month off from the clinic 128 00:06:16,544 --> 00:06:18,205 so that we could all be together at the house 129 00:06:18,305 --> 00:06:21,328 for some Bishop family bonding time. 130 00:06:21,428 --> 00:06:22,970 It’s where I took my first steps, 131 00:06:23,070 --> 00:06:24,612 it’s where I learned to swim, 132 00:06:24,712 --> 00:06:28,536 and the country club hosts this super fun jamboree 133 00:06:28,636 --> 00:06:29,937 on the Fourth of July. 134 00:06:30,037 --> 00:06:32,039 This place sounds like more than just a house. 135 00:06:36,604 --> 00:06:37,545 What? 136 00:06:37,645 --> 00:06:39,066 I have an idea. 137 00:06:39,166 --> 00:06:40,347 [sighs] Okay. 138 00:06:40,447 --> 00:06:43,150 What if we get married 139 00:06:43,250 --> 00:06:44,231 at the vacation house 140 00:06:44,331 --> 00:06:45,913 on the Fourth of July? 141 00:06:46,013 --> 00:06:47,314 Fireworks and all. 142 00:06:47,414 --> 00:06:49,957 Like this Fourth of July, in four weeks. 143 00:06:50,057 --> 00:06:51,438 No, of course not this Fourth of July. 144 00:06:51,538 --> 00:06:52,479 Next summer. 145 00:06:52,579 --> 00:06:54,581 We’ve got the time. 146 00:06:55,382 --> 00:06:57,525 - I love it. - You do? 147 00:06:57,625 --> 00:06:59,567 Yeah, if it’s your dream to get married on the Fourth of July 148 00:06:59,667 --> 00:07:01,969 at your family vacation house, 149 00:07:02,069 --> 00:07:04,071 then it’s mine too. 150 00:07:51,038 --> 00:07:53,300 Wow. This place is amazing. 151 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:55,222 - Home away from home. - I love it. 152 00:07:55,322 --> 00:07:57,484 Wait till you see the backyard. 153 00:07:59,646 --> 00:08:01,428 - STEPHANIE: Here we are. - Oh, there she is! 154 00:08:01,528 --> 00:08:03,030 Hi, Mom! 155 00:08:03,130 --> 00:08:04,311 Perfect timing. 156 00:08:04,411 --> 00:08:05,352 And Ben. 157 00:08:05,452 --> 00:08:07,314 Ben, we’re so glad you are here. 158 00:08:07,414 --> 00:08:08,715 Come on, everybody, follow me. 159 00:08:08,815 --> 00:08:10,317 Are you okay? What’s going on? 160 00:08:10,417 --> 00:08:11,919 Oh, yeah. Oh, my gosh, I’m never better. 161 00:08:12,019 --> 00:08:14,001 I’m so excited, you two. 162 00:08:14,101 --> 00:08:16,083 - Come on, your Dad’s waiting. - Okay. 163 00:08:16,183 --> 00:08:18,805 Hey, hey, hey, did you tell her already? 164 00:08:18,905 --> 00:08:21,648 No. Maybe one of my students posted on social media. 165 00:08:21,748 --> 00:08:23,250 Maybe. 166 00:08:23,350 --> 00:08:26,293 Honey, sweetheart, they’re here. 167 00:08:26,393 --> 00:08:27,694 They just arrived. 168 00:08:27,794 --> 00:08:29,856 STEPHANIE: Tracy, Preston, you made it. 169 00:08:29,956 --> 00:08:31,698 We’re so excited. 170 00:08:31,798 --> 00:08:33,340 - Here you go. - Welcome to the desert. 171 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:35,822 Stephanie, Ben, so glad you’re here. 172 00:08:35,922 --> 00:08:36,823 Big news. 173 00:08:36,923 --> 00:08:39,106 What’s going on? 174 00:08:39,206 --> 00:08:40,667 A soon-to-be wedding. 175 00:08:40,767 --> 00:08:44,111 Wait, who told you that we’re engaged? 176 00:08:44,211 --> 00:08:46,113 You’re engaged? 177 00:08:46,213 --> 00:08:48,835 - Y-You and, uh... - Ben. 178 00:08:48,935 --> 00:08:51,558 Ben, right. How can you be engaged? 179 00:08:51,658 --> 00:08:53,440 Didn’t you just start dating? 180 00:08:53,540 --> 00:08:55,121 Is that not what this champagne is for? 181 00:08:55,221 --> 00:08:56,883 I’m so confused. 182 00:08:56,983 --> 00:09:00,367 No! The champagne is because Preston and I are engaged. 183 00:09:00,467 --> 00:09:01,848 No! [laughing] 184 00:09:01,948 --> 00:09:04,691 - Congratulations! - Congratulations to you! 185 00:09:04,791 --> 00:09:06,052 Can you believe this? 186 00:09:06,152 --> 00:09:08,174 No, not a bit. 187 00:09:08,274 --> 00:09:09,536 Congratulations, Preston. 188 00:09:09,636 --> 00:09:11,578 Thank you. Congratulations to you as well. 189 00:09:11,678 --> 00:09:14,220 Stephanie and Ben are engaged. 190 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:17,264 So how long have you two been dating again? 191 00:09:17,364 --> 00:09:19,426 Six months, but we knew right away. 192 00:09:19,526 --> 00:09:21,908 Six mo-- Wow. Fast. 193 00:09:22,008 --> 00:09:23,269 And when did this happen? 194 00:09:23,369 --> 00:09:25,231 A couple days ago. What about you guys? 195 00:09:25,331 --> 00:09:26,913 Last week. 196 00:09:27,013 --> 00:09:28,955 Mr. Bishop, thank you for inviting me into your home. 197 00:09:29,055 --> 00:09:31,157 Your house is beautiful. 198 00:09:31,257 --> 00:09:32,719 Technically, Stephanie invited you. 199 00:09:32,819 --> 00:09:34,941 I just didn’t say no. 200 00:09:39,986 --> 00:09:43,289 Um, Steph, let me see your ring. 201 00:09:43,389 --> 00:09:44,611 [gasps] 202 00:09:44,711 --> 00:09:46,493 Obviously, you’re my maid of honor. 203 00:09:46,593 --> 00:09:48,214 And obviously you’re mine. 204 00:09:48,314 --> 00:09:50,016 And since it was always our favorite holiday, 205 00:09:50,116 --> 00:09:52,218 Preston and I decided to get married 206 00:09:52,318 --> 00:09:54,360 right here at the house on the Fourth of July. 207 00:09:56,322 --> 00:09:57,824 I was just telling Ben 208 00:09:57,924 --> 00:10:00,306 that I wanted to get married on the Fourth of July. 209 00:10:00,406 --> 00:10:02,749 No way! Did you guys want this Fourth of July? 210 00:10:02,849 --> 00:10:04,851 No. Next year. 211 00:10:05,451 --> 00:10:07,033 Okay, great, because Preston and I 212 00:10:07,133 --> 00:10:08,474 wanna get married this summer. 213 00:10:08,574 --> 00:10:11,718 Honey, that’s only four weeks away. 214 00:10:11,818 --> 00:10:14,921 I know it’s fast, but Preston’s grandma’s getting older, 215 00:10:15,021 --> 00:10:17,003 and he really wants her to be at the wedding. 216 00:10:17,103 --> 00:10:19,485 The longer we wait, the harder it is for her to travel, 217 00:10:19,585 --> 00:10:21,808 and I know how much it means for Tracy 218 00:10:21,908 --> 00:10:24,210 that we get married right here at the house. 219 00:10:24,310 --> 00:10:26,572 Well, that works for us. We can have our turn next year. 220 00:10:26,672 --> 00:10:29,255 Let’s just see how everything pans out. 221 00:10:29,355 --> 00:10:32,819 Tracy and Preston were together quite a long time 222 00:10:32,919 --> 00:10:34,921 before even considering an engagement. 223 00:10:36,202 --> 00:10:37,143 Dad. 224 00:10:37,243 --> 00:10:38,905 I just don’t want anyone 225 00:10:39,005 --> 00:10:41,007 rushing into anything. 226 00:10:45,491 --> 00:10:47,393 A toast... to us. 227 00:10:47,493 --> 00:10:50,036 - We’re both engaged! - Yay! 228 00:10:50,136 --> 00:10:51,477 Toast! 229 00:10:51,577 --> 00:10:53,119 All right, let’s give Ben the tour. 230 00:10:53,219 --> 00:10:56,482 Ah, yes. So how was the drive out? 231 00:10:56,582 --> 00:10:57,804 Enjoy! 232 00:10:57,904 --> 00:10:59,685 They’ve been together six months. 233 00:10:59,785 --> 00:11:02,208 Tracy wants to get married in four weeks. 234 00:11:02,308 --> 00:11:03,649 Oh, boy. 235 00:11:03,749 --> 00:11:05,751 Boy is right. 236 00:11:11,797 --> 00:11:13,219 So where do you want these? 237 00:11:13,319 --> 00:11:16,062 You’re two doors down from me, 238 00:11:16,162 --> 00:11:18,144 and it has an amazing view. 239 00:11:18,244 --> 00:11:19,665 I don’t think your parents were very thrilled 240 00:11:19,765 --> 00:11:21,427 about the engagement. 241 00:11:21,527 --> 00:11:23,829 They just weren’t expecting it. They’ll come around. 242 00:11:23,929 --> 00:11:26,392 Hope so. I know you mentioned you were engaged before. 243 00:11:26,492 --> 00:11:28,034 You think that’s why they’re hesitant? 244 00:11:28,134 --> 00:11:29,835 No, I don’t think that has anything to do with it. 245 00:11:29,935 --> 00:11:31,317 It was a long time ago. 246 00:11:31,417 --> 00:11:33,639 I think it’s just that Tracy and Preston 247 00:11:33,739 --> 00:11:35,241 have been together for like 10 years 248 00:11:35,341 --> 00:11:38,164 and not used to a relationship moving this quickly. 249 00:11:38,264 --> 00:11:40,846 Okay, well, I won’t worry then. 250 00:11:40,946 --> 00:11:42,948 Okay, good. 251 00:11:51,116 --> 00:11:52,298 Morning! 252 00:11:52,398 --> 00:11:53,419 Hi. 253 00:11:53,519 --> 00:11:55,741 Morning, morning, welcome. 254 00:11:55,841 --> 00:11:58,464 Please help yourselves. 255 00:11:58,564 --> 00:11:59,945 Wow! Waffle and pancakes. 256 00:12:00,045 --> 00:12:01,587 You don’t see that too often. 257 00:12:01,687 --> 00:12:04,190 Well, I know it’s silly, but it’s a tradition. 258 00:12:04,290 --> 00:12:06,071 When the girls were little, they couldn’t decide 259 00:12:06,171 --> 00:12:07,633 between waffles and pancakes, 260 00:12:07,733 --> 00:12:10,476 so first breakfast of every summer, we have both. 261 00:12:10,576 --> 00:12:12,918 You’re in full planning mode, aren’t you? 262 00:12:13,018 --> 00:12:15,721 Just under four weeks is not a lot of time. 263 00:12:15,821 --> 00:12:17,283 We’ve gotta be smart and diligent about this. 264 00:12:17,383 --> 00:12:19,565 Divide and conquer. Lists are key. 265 00:12:19,665 --> 00:12:21,527 Can you tell Tracy’s a lawyer? 266 00:12:21,627 --> 00:12:23,449 Oh, Ben, please help yourself. 267 00:12:23,549 --> 00:12:25,210 Shouldn’t we wait for Preston and Robert? 268 00:12:25,310 --> 00:12:27,293 Oh, no, I’m sure they grabbed something at the club. 269 00:12:27,393 --> 00:12:29,214 I told them to wait to see if you wanted to go, 270 00:12:29,314 --> 00:12:30,816 but they didn’t wanna lose their tee time. 271 00:12:30,916 --> 00:12:32,298 Trust me, I do not blame them. 272 00:12:32,398 --> 00:12:34,740 I do not know the first thing about golf. 273 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:37,182 Now that you and Stephanie are engaged, you’ll have to learn. 274 00:12:37,282 --> 00:12:40,666 No, he doesn’t have to learn. It is not mandatory. 275 00:12:40,766 --> 00:12:42,147 So what’s first? 276 00:12:42,247 --> 00:12:44,630 Mom and I are going to look at dresses today. 277 00:12:44,730 --> 00:12:46,151 I already sent out the save-the-date email, 278 00:12:46,251 --> 00:12:48,113 but I need you to order the invitations face-up. 279 00:12:48,213 --> 00:12:49,955 - Oh, and look into the cake. - Frankie’s? 280 00:12:50,055 --> 00:12:51,997 - Where else? - What’s Frankie’s? 281 00:12:52,097 --> 00:12:54,680 It’s a bakery we used to go to when we were little. 282 00:12:54,780 --> 00:12:56,562 I was thinking layered. 283 00:12:56,662 --> 00:12:58,083 - Obviously. - With fresh strawberries. 284 00:12:58,183 --> 00:13:00,085 Oh, and blueberries and cream-filled, 285 00:13:00,185 --> 00:13:01,326 and then it’s red, white, and blue. 286 00:13:01,426 --> 00:13:02,968 And if we do that, we might as well 287 00:13:03,068 --> 00:13:05,250 make the whole wedding coordinate with those colors. 288 00:13:05,350 --> 00:13:06,452 I mean, it is the Fourth of July. 289 00:13:06,552 --> 00:13:07,813 And my dress will be white. 290 00:13:07,913 --> 00:13:09,334 And mine will be blue. 291 00:13:09,434 --> 00:13:10,816 And that works on two levels 292 00:13:10,916 --> 00:13:12,297 because it will work with the wedding colors, 293 00:13:12,397 --> 00:13:14,259 but also you can bring me something blue. 294 00:13:14,359 --> 00:13:15,861 And we can do red floral arrangements. 295 00:13:15,961 --> 00:13:17,302 Love it! 296 00:13:17,402 --> 00:13:18,984 Here you go, honey. You’re gonna need it 297 00:13:19,084 --> 00:13:20,706 to keep up with them. 298 00:13:20,806 --> 00:13:22,948 - Thank you. - You’re welcome. 299 00:13:23,048 --> 00:13:25,030 STEPHANIE: All right, so cake and invitations. 300 00:13:25,130 --> 00:13:28,353 That’s not too bad, seeing as Tracy’s list was very long. 301 00:13:28,453 --> 00:13:30,075 BEN: Easily doable. 302 00:13:30,175 --> 00:13:33,078 The best part is we can use their list for our wedding. 303 00:13:33,178 --> 00:13:35,180 - Easy breezy. - Mm-hmm. 304 00:13:37,262 --> 00:13:38,323 Good morning! 305 00:13:38,423 --> 00:13:40,045 Good morning. Can I help you? 306 00:13:40,145 --> 00:13:42,407 I’m guessing you’re one of the Bishop daughters. 307 00:13:42,507 --> 00:13:44,009 Yes. I am Stephanie. 308 00:13:44,109 --> 00:13:47,532 - And this is my fiancé Ben. - Nice to meet you. 309 00:13:47,632 --> 00:13:49,695 That’s the first time I introduced you as my fiancé. 310 00:13:49,795 --> 00:13:50,976 - I like it. - Me too. 311 00:13:51,076 --> 00:13:52,938 Well, congratulations to you both. 312 00:13:53,038 --> 00:13:54,499 Your parents said nothing but great things 313 00:13:54,599 --> 00:13:55,540 about you and your sister. 314 00:13:55,640 --> 00:13:57,102 Thank you. 315 00:13:57,202 --> 00:13:58,984 Um, who are you? 316 00:13:59,084 --> 00:14:02,147 Oh, I’m so sorry. Where are my manners? 317 00:14:02,247 --> 00:14:04,189 I’m Anna Kim, your parents’ real estate broker. 318 00:14:04,289 --> 00:14:05,190 Their what? 319 00:14:05,290 --> 00:14:07,312 Broker for the house. 320 00:14:07,412 --> 00:14:11,236 I couldn’t wait to tell them. We have our first offer. 321 00:14:11,336 --> 00:14:13,338 My parents are selling the house? 322 00:14:18,663 --> 00:14:20,405 We wanted to tell you last night, 323 00:14:20,505 --> 00:14:21,766 but then you both announced you were engaged, 324 00:14:21,866 --> 00:14:23,929 and it took us by surprise. 325 00:14:24,029 --> 00:14:26,611 I can’t believe that you’re selling this house. 326 00:14:26,711 --> 00:14:28,533 Honey, it was a really hard decision, 327 00:14:28,633 --> 00:14:30,175 but with your dad about to retire, 328 00:14:30,275 --> 00:14:33,058 selling this house means we could travel the world. 329 00:14:33,158 --> 00:14:34,739 We got married so young, 330 00:14:34,839 --> 00:14:36,461 and then I went straight to medical school, 331 00:14:36,561 --> 00:14:38,143 and then you guys came along. 332 00:14:38,243 --> 00:14:42,027 I loved every second of it, but now we have the time. 333 00:14:42,127 --> 00:14:43,989 I want you guys to have this opportunity. 334 00:14:44,089 --> 00:14:45,670 You deserve it. 335 00:14:45,770 --> 00:14:48,793 It’s just gonna be hard not to have this place. 336 00:14:48,893 --> 00:14:50,835 How about a compromise? 337 00:14:50,935 --> 00:14:53,438 Your dad and I put off selling the house for a year or two, 338 00:14:53,538 --> 00:14:55,920 that way you can still get married here next summer. 339 00:14:56,020 --> 00:14:57,922 The buyer that put in an offer 340 00:14:58,022 --> 00:15:00,024 wants the house by the end of the summer. 341 00:15:04,629 --> 00:15:06,651 Well, we’ll just have to decline the offer. 342 00:15:06,751 --> 00:15:09,214 I highly advise against that. 343 00:15:09,314 --> 00:15:11,616 I mean, it’s well over the asking price, 344 00:15:11,716 --> 00:15:13,298 and you know the saying: 345 00:15:13,398 --> 00:15:15,980 Your first offer’s always the best offer. 346 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:18,543 I don’t know if this helps, but it is a smart time to sell. 347 00:15:18,643 --> 00:15:20,625 I mean, with what you could save on property taxes alone, 348 00:15:20,725 --> 00:15:22,267 it’d do wonders for your retirement fund. 349 00:15:22,367 --> 00:15:25,510 Spoken like a true economics professor. 350 00:15:25,610 --> 00:15:27,472 He’s right. 351 00:15:27,572 --> 00:15:29,914 I don’t want you guys to miss out on a good deal ’cause of me. 352 00:15:30,014 --> 00:15:32,277 Stephanie, would you really be okay 353 00:15:32,377 --> 00:15:34,719 not getting married here? 354 00:15:34,819 --> 00:15:36,881 Yeah. Ben and I will find somewhere else. 355 00:15:36,981 --> 00:15:38,202 Definitely. 356 00:15:38,302 --> 00:15:40,044 Might be a blessing in disguise. 357 00:15:40,144 --> 00:15:42,206 That way you could take your time 358 00:15:42,306 --> 00:15:44,168 finding the perfect place. 359 00:15:44,268 --> 00:15:47,412 Nothing wrong with a long engagement. 360 00:15:47,512 --> 00:15:51,095 This just means we’ll have to make your wedding the best ever 361 00:15:51,195 --> 00:15:54,078 ’cause it’ll be our final hurrah here. 362 00:16:01,165 --> 00:16:02,747 WOMAN: So these are more traditional ones. 363 00:16:02,847 --> 00:16:04,629 Clean backgrounds. 364 00:16:04,729 --> 00:16:06,431 I like that one. 365 00:16:06,531 --> 00:16:08,473 Okay. 366 00:16:08,573 --> 00:16:09,754 - Stephanie. - Huh? 367 00:16:09,854 --> 00:16:10,915 What do you think? 368 00:16:11,015 --> 00:16:12,477 Oh, um, it’s nice. 369 00:16:12,577 --> 00:16:15,520 It’s just a little plain. 370 00:16:15,620 --> 00:16:17,522 You okay? We should pick one soon. 371 00:16:17,622 --> 00:16:19,844 Tracy told me she has a print shop on standby for tonight. 372 00:16:19,944 --> 00:16:22,326 Right. I’m just a little distracted. Sorry. 373 00:16:22,426 --> 00:16:24,649 You know what? Let me go grab the other binder. 374 00:16:24,749 --> 00:16:26,691 There might be something more your taste in there. 375 00:16:26,791 --> 00:16:28,793 - One sec. - Thank you. 376 00:16:29,754 --> 00:16:30,855 Still thinking about the house? 377 00:16:30,955 --> 00:16:34,378 Minor aftershock, I think. 378 00:16:34,478 --> 00:16:36,500 Just wasn’t expecting it. 379 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:39,343 I completely get where your dad’s coming from. 380 00:16:39,443 --> 00:16:41,065 Although with that being said, 381 00:16:41,165 --> 00:16:42,426 I didn’t spend my childhood vacations here. 382 00:16:42,526 --> 00:16:44,228 I mean, I get why they’re selling it. 383 00:16:44,328 --> 00:16:49,233 I guess I just always envisioned bringing my own kids here. 384 00:16:49,333 --> 00:16:51,335 Our kids. 385 00:16:53,457 --> 00:16:57,842 What do you think of these? 386 00:16:57,942 --> 00:16:59,203 Ooh, I like this. 387 00:16:59,303 --> 00:17:01,125 I mean, it’s not really in our theme, 388 00:17:01,225 --> 00:17:04,648 but it is the shade of purple that is my favorite color. 389 00:17:04,748 --> 00:17:06,410 - Really? - Oh, totally. 390 00:17:06,510 --> 00:17:08,813 In middle school, I wore the same purple hoodie every day. 391 00:17:08,913 --> 00:17:10,534 - Drove my mom nuts. - That’s funny. 392 00:17:10,634 --> 00:17:13,738 Yeah, took my fashion sense a little bit of time. 393 00:17:13,838 --> 00:17:17,621 No, I mean, it’s funny that I didn’t know your favorite color. 394 00:17:17,721 --> 00:17:21,866 Well, I guess it just never came up. 395 00:17:21,966 --> 00:17:23,707 What’s yours? 396 00:17:23,807 --> 00:17:24,708 Orange. 397 00:17:24,808 --> 00:17:27,311 - Orange. - Yeah. 398 00:17:27,411 --> 00:17:29,413 Yeah, I prefer the burnt tones. 399 00:17:30,694 --> 00:17:32,696 I did not expect that. 400 00:17:34,658 --> 00:17:35,679 - That one. - This one. 401 00:17:35,779 --> 00:17:37,481 Okay. 402 00:17:37,581 --> 00:17:40,304 You know, you guys make a very cute couple. 403 00:17:45,269 --> 00:17:47,171 BEN: Where are we off to now? 404 00:17:47,271 --> 00:17:49,793 STEPHANIE: Off to Frankie’s to get a cake, of course. 405 00:18:01,165 --> 00:18:02,786 - Stephanie! - Frankie. 406 00:18:02,886 --> 00:18:04,148 It’s been too long. 407 00:18:04,248 --> 00:18:06,230 I know. Last summer I was in Antigua, 408 00:18:06,330 --> 00:18:08,632 researching the indigenous people of the Arawak. 409 00:18:08,732 --> 00:18:11,235 As one does. 410 00:18:11,335 --> 00:18:14,398 Hey, I saw that your parents listed their house. 411 00:18:14,498 --> 00:18:16,160 Yeah, they already have an offer. 412 00:18:16,260 --> 00:18:18,362 - Wow. - Mm-hmm. 413 00:18:18,462 --> 00:18:20,324 Oh, this is my fiancé Ben. 414 00:18:20,424 --> 00:18:21,725 Fiancé? 415 00:18:21,825 --> 00:18:23,327 Nice meeting you, Ben. 416 00:18:23,427 --> 00:18:25,929 Nice to meet you too. It smells amazing in here. 417 00:18:26,029 --> 00:18:27,691 Well, you have to have a sample. 418 00:18:27,791 --> 00:18:30,734 Frankie used to spoil us with her samples when we were little. 419 00:18:30,834 --> 00:18:32,656 Well, you and your sister were my favorite customers. 420 00:18:32,756 --> 00:18:35,859 Now, these are our newest creation. 421 00:18:35,959 --> 00:18:37,341 Okay. 422 00:18:37,441 --> 00:18:39,443 Thanks. 423 00:18:40,284 --> 00:18:41,185 Mmm! 424 00:18:41,285 --> 00:18:42,346 What do you think? 425 00:18:42,446 --> 00:18:44,268 Oh, my gosh, that’s so good. 426 00:18:44,368 --> 00:18:45,829 No wonder we’re getting the cake from here. 427 00:18:45,929 --> 00:18:47,991 Cake? For your wedding? 428 00:18:48,091 --> 00:18:49,433 No, for Tracy and Preston. 429 00:18:49,533 --> 00:18:51,034 They got engaged at the same time, 430 00:18:51,134 --> 00:18:53,597 but their wedding is first on the Fourth of July. 431 00:18:53,697 --> 00:18:56,560 Oh, that’s wonderful! 432 00:18:56,660 --> 00:18:59,323 Wait. Do you mean this Fourth of July? 433 00:18:59,423 --> 00:19:00,844 Yes. 434 00:19:00,944 --> 00:19:03,407 We’re backed up on orders for months. 435 00:19:03,507 --> 00:19:06,930 I’m so sorry, but that’s the busiest time of the year. 436 00:19:07,030 --> 00:19:08,612 Oh, no. 437 00:19:08,712 --> 00:19:10,574 Little Frankie would be so disappointed 438 00:19:10,674 --> 00:19:13,497 if she knew we couldn’t get the wedding cake here. 439 00:19:13,597 --> 00:19:17,461 Well, I would never disappoint Little Frankie. 440 00:19:17,561 --> 00:19:20,183 Let me go check the order book. I’ll see what I can do. 441 00:19:20,283 --> 00:19:24,027 Little Frankie! [laughing] 442 00:19:24,127 --> 00:19:26,309 Um, who’s Little Frankie? 443 00:19:26,409 --> 00:19:29,673 When I was like 10 or so, I wanted an extra cookie, 444 00:19:29,773 --> 00:19:32,315 so I told her that I would name one of my kids after her. 445 00:19:32,415 --> 00:19:34,598 - Good to know. - Yeah, so take note. 446 00:19:34,698 --> 00:19:36,920 Number four or five has to be named Frankie. 447 00:19:37,020 --> 00:19:38,401 Wait, you want four or five kids? 448 00:19:38,501 --> 00:19:40,443 Try five or six. You knew that. 449 00:19:40,543 --> 00:19:42,365 I did not know that. 450 00:19:42,465 --> 00:19:43,647 How many do you want? 451 00:19:43,747 --> 00:19:45,328 I don’t know. One, maybe two. 452 00:19:45,428 --> 00:19:47,290 - Really? That’s it? - Yeah. I was an only child. 453 00:19:47,390 --> 00:19:49,392 I came from a small family. 454 00:19:50,073 --> 00:19:52,616 Okay, I’m not supposed to do this, 455 00:19:52,716 --> 00:19:54,778 but I’ve moved things around, 456 00:19:54,878 --> 00:19:57,821 and I will personally see that your cake gets done. 457 00:19:57,921 --> 00:20:02,365 Thank you so much. Tracy’s gonna be very excited. 458 00:20:07,010 --> 00:20:08,591 Making some progress on our to-do list. 459 00:20:08,691 --> 00:20:10,313 Yeah. 460 00:20:10,413 --> 00:20:13,717 Have you given any thought to our plan B for the wedding? 461 00:20:13,817 --> 00:20:15,478 - Not yet. You? - Nah. 462 00:20:15,578 --> 00:20:17,400 I was so focused on the proposal, 463 00:20:17,500 --> 00:20:19,943 I hadn’t thought much about our next steps. 464 00:20:23,066 --> 00:20:24,327 What? 465 00:20:24,427 --> 00:20:27,250 I just got an email from James Quincy. 466 00:20:27,350 --> 00:20:31,614 Another riveting article on emerging markets? 467 00:20:31,714 --> 00:20:35,578 The guy they hired for the Oxford spot just dropped out. 468 00:20:35,678 --> 00:20:38,341 Apparently they’re going over my application from last year. 469 00:20:38,441 --> 00:20:41,064 - Wait, really? - This is amazing. 470 00:20:41,164 --> 00:20:42,345 What does this mean? 471 00:20:42,445 --> 00:20:44,587 That I have another shot at the job. 472 00:20:44,687 --> 00:20:46,309 I could be teaching and doing research 473 00:20:46,409 --> 00:20:48,471 at the Oxford School of Economics. 474 00:20:48,571 --> 00:20:50,233 Under your hero. 475 00:20:50,333 --> 00:20:52,335 I can’t even believe I have this opportunity. 476 00:20:53,536 --> 00:20:55,838 Well, what does this mean for us? 477 00:20:55,938 --> 00:20:57,520 We move to England. 478 00:20:57,620 --> 00:21:00,563 I can’t move to England. I’m about to make tenure, 479 00:21:00,663 --> 00:21:03,166 and you know how rare that is for a professor my age. 480 00:21:03,266 --> 00:21:04,807 I can’t just walk away. 481 00:21:04,907 --> 00:21:06,769 Right, I’m sorry. 482 00:21:06,869 --> 00:21:09,052 I didn’t mean to jump ahead like that. 483 00:21:09,152 --> 00:21:12,335 You know, when I applied, I hadn’t met you yet. 484 00:21:12,435 --> 00:21:14,337 I don’t wanna be responsible 485 00:21:14,437 --> 00:21:16,439 for you missing something like this. 486 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:19,982 We don’t have to talk about this right now. 487 00:21:20,082 --> 00:21:21,464 They already passed on me once. 488 00:21:21,564 --> 00:21:22,605 I’m sure there’s hundreds of candidates 489 00:21:22,685 --> 00:21:24,187 more qualified than me, 490 00:21:24,287 --> 00:21:26,349 so I doubt they’d even offer it to me. 491 00:21:26,449 --> 00:21:28,751 Maybe, but none more hard-working 492 00:21:28,851 --> 00:21:30,753 or talented than you. 493 00:21:30,853 --> 00:21:32,275 Thank you. 494 00:21:32,375 --> 00:21:35,398 I just wanna be spending some time with my girl. 495 00:21:35,498 --> 00:21:37,500 - We can do that. - Yeah. 496 00:21:42,545 --> 00:21:44,367 Ooh! So close. Maybe next time. 497 00:21:44,467 --> 00:21:47,890 I can’t wait for you all to see my wedding dress. 498 00:21:47,990 --> 00:21:49,572 You know, I really lucked out. 499 00:21:49,672 --> 00:21:51,294 Only a few alterations, and it will be ready. 500 00:21:51,394 --> 00:21:53,776 We successfully picked out your cake and invitations, 501 00:21:53,876 --> 00:21:55,818 so creating your dream wedding in four weeks? 502 00:21:55,918 --> 00:21:57,540 No problem. 503 00:21:57,640 --> 00:21:59,902 Ah-ah-ah. There’s still a lot to do. 504 00:22:00,002 --> 00:22:01,264 Don’t jinx us. 505 00:22:01,364 --> 00:22:04,086 Mom, don’t worry. We’ve got this. 506 00:22:08,330 --> 00:22:10,332 Yes! 507 00:22:11,694 --> 00:22:13,556 You guys win again. 508 00:22:13,656 --> 00:22:14,837 Rematch later? 509 00:22:14,937 --> 00:22:16,959 Always. 510 00:22:17,059 --> 00:22:20,563 All right, come and get it! 511 00:22:20,663 --> 00:22:24,006 Here we go. Ribs a la Robert. 512 00:22:24,106 --> 00:22:27,410 Ah, and my famous corn on the cob. 513 00:22:27,510 --> 00:22:29,412 TRACY: My favorite. PRESTON: Ooh-whee! 514 00:22:29,512 --> 00:22:31,514 All right. 515 00:22:32,555 --> 00:22:34,216 This smells amazing, Mr. Bishop. 516 00:22:34,316 --> 00:22:36,499 Ah, it’s the slow roast method. 517 00:22:36,599 --> 00:22:38,661 The longer it waits, the better it is. 518 00:22:38,761 --> 00:22:40,302 Should I be at all concerned 519 00:22:40,402 --> 00:22:43,706 that the fire extinguisher is so close to the grill? 520 00:22:43,806 --> 00:22:45,988 - Dad? - It’s always been there. 521 00:22:46,088 --> 00:22:47,910 When the girls were little, 522 00:22:48,010 --> 00:22:49,912 Stephanie would use the grill to roast her marshmallows. 523 00:22:50,012 --> 00:22:51,474 We never had to use it, 524 00:22:51,574 --> 00:22:54,917 but let’s just say we had a few close calls. 525 00:22:55,017 --> 00:22:56,959 I didn’t like to wait. It’s always faster 526 00:22:57,059 --> 00:22:58,801 if you just catch ’em on fire and blow it out. 527 00:22:58,901 --> 00:23:00,042 I’m with her. 528 00:23:00,142 --> 00:23:01,443 Can you tell me more about 529 00:23:01,543 --> 00:23:03,365 Stephanie as a young kid? 530 00:23:03,465 --> 00:23:05,648 She was a little bit of a troublemaker. 531 00:23:05,748 --> 00:23:06,929 That is not true. 532 00:23:07,029 --> 00:23:09,011 Yes, it is true. 533 00:23:09,111 --> 00:23:11,854 Don’t you remember the time you gave all my dolls a haircut? 534 00:23:11,954 --> 00:23:13,936 It was trendy. 535 00:23:14,036 --> 00:23:15,497 Or the time we had to go to the ER 536 00:23:15,597 --> 00:23:17,419 when you thought it was wise to jump off the roof 537 00:23:17,519 --> 00:23:22,464 with an umbrella after seeing Mary Poppins. 538 00:23:22,564 --> 00:23:24,747 Tracy was our practical daughter. 539 00:23:24,847 --> 00:23:27,549 Stephanie, she always moved to the beat of her own drum. 540 00:23:27,649 --> 00:23:30,312 AKA Tracy was more responsible. 541 00:23:30,412 --> 00:23:32,314 ELEANORE: Now, I didn’t say that. 542 00:23:32,414 --> 00:23:33,836 Hey, I’ll take it. 543 00:23:33,936 --> 00:23:36,759 Because I’m so responsible, I met Preston. 544 00:23:36,859 --> 00:23:38,600 Oh, how’d you guys meet? 545 00:23:38,700 --> 00:23:41,723 It’s my first day of law school, very first class, 546 00:23:41,823 --> 00:23:44,726 and I read the syllabus the wrong way 547 00:23:44,826 --> 00:23:46,528 and showed up with the wrong textbook. 548 00:23:46,628 --> 00:23:49,611 I look over, and this beautiful girl 549 00:23:49,711 --> 00:23:52,374 is just watching me scramble. 550 00:23:52,474 --> 00:23:55,297 She reaches out, hands me the correct book, 551 00:23:55,397 --> 00:23:57,459 and that was that. 552 00:23:57,559 --> 00:24:00,262 I cannot believe you had an extra textbook. 553 00:24:00,362 --> 00:24:01,864 To be fair, I had two textbooks 554 00:24:01,964 --> 00:24:03,745 because there were two different editions, 555 00:24:03,845 --> 00:24:06,188 and I didn’t know which one the professor would teach from. 556 00:24:06,288 --> 00:24:07,950 Been together ever since. 557 00:24:08,050 --> 00:24:11,153 So what about you two? Was it love at first sight? 558 00:24:11,253 --> 00:24:13,035 It was. For me, at least. 559 00:24:13,135 --> 00:24:16,078 I mean, from the moment she gave me a handful of tissues 560 00:24:16,178 --> 00:24:18,440 to clean the coffee I just spilled all over myself. 561 00:24:18,540 --> 00:24:21,843 And for me, it was that he didn’t seem that upset at all. 562 00:24:21,943 --> 00:24:23,445 Well, it was iced coffee. 563 00:24:23,545 --> 00:24:24,926 [chuckles] 564 00:24:25,026 --> 00:24:27,969 I met Eleanore in second grade. 565 00:24:28,069 --> 00:24:29,491 Well, that’s incredible. 566 00:24:29,591 --> 00:24:31,413 Yep. Knew her nine years 567 00:24:31,513 --> 00:24:32,614 before I even asked her out. 568 00:24:32,714 --> 00:24:34,816 Twenty-two before we were engaged. 569 00:24:34,916 --> 00:24:36,698 That is a long time. 570 00:24:36,798 --> 00:24:39,861 I think we knew each other better than we knew ourselves. 571 00:24:39,961 --> 00:24:43,545 Built a solid friendship first, then the romance came. 572 00:24:43,645 --> 00:24:46,588 And we had the same values, the same vision for the future. 573 00:24:46,688 --> 00:24:48,230 That’s the important thing. 574 00:24:48,330 --> 00:24:50,632 ELEANORE: Yes, hey, but that was our story. 575 00:24:50,732 --> 00:24:52,994 Everybody’s story is different. 576 00:24:53,094 --> 00:24:56,598 And our Stephanie has always moved at a faster pace. 577 00:24:56,698 --> 00:24:58,860 And it’s worked out so far. 578 00:25:01,943 --> 00:25:03,365 Pass the salad, please. 579 00:25:03,465 --> 00:25:05,467 Who’s ready for some of this, huh? 580 00:25:10,512 --> 00:25:12,013 Okay, who’s next? 581 00:25:12,113 --> 00:25:15,136 Well, we gotta find a great spot for Sam and Gary. 582 00:25:15,236 --> 00:25:17,579 - How about table four? - Great. 583 00:25:17,679 --> 00:25:19,020 Seating chart? 584 00:25:19,120 --> 00:25:20,782 Yeah, it’s a bit tricky though, 585 00:25:20,882 --> 00:25:22,984 as we’re doing it based on the save-the-date responses, 586 00:25:23,084 --> 00:25:24,546 but we gotta get a jump on it. 587 00:25:24,646 --> 00:25:26,308 Hey, have you seen Stephanie? 588 00:25:26,408 --> 00:25:30,712 She’s outside marking where the tables will go. 589 00:25:30,812 --> 00:25:33,034 BEN: Oh, when was that taken? 590 00:25:33,134 --> 00:25:37,078 Let’s see, I was 17, so Stephanie was 15. 591 00:25:37,178 --> 00:25:39,160 It’s definitely the awkward years. 592 00:25:39,260 --> 00:25:41,723 Like you had awkward years. No. The only reason 593 00:25:41,823 --> 00:25:43,565 that we’re not having a slideshow at the wedding 594 00:25:43,665 --> 00:25:47,489 is because I had braces and headgear for three years. 595 00:25:47,589 --> 00:25:49,591 She still has that beautiful smile. 596 00:25:51,993 --> 00:25:54,736 Look, anyway, I will let you guys get back to the chart. 597 00:25:54,836 --> 00:25:56,838 Good luck with that. 598 00:25:58,319 --> 00:26:00,662 Uh, nope, we gotta have one less at table five. 599 00:26:00,762 --> 00:26:02,864 I just got an email earlier from my cousin Timothy 600 00:26:02,964 --> 00:26:04,746 that he already has Fourth of July plans, 601 00:26:04,846 --> 00:26:06,628 so he won’t be able to make it. 602 00:26:06,728 --> 00:26:11,553 There’s another one of my family members who’s not able to come. 603 00:26:11,653 --> 00:26:15,356 But the important thing is that your grandma is coming, 604 00:26:15,456 --> 00:26:18,760 and she’s sitting right here, front and center. 605 00:26:18,860 --> 00:26:20,862 That’s true. 606 00:26:23,624 --> 00:26:26,147 - Did you just splash me? - What if I did? 607 00:26:27,348 --> 00:26:29,550 Okay, all right, truce. Truce? 608 00:26:30,792 --> 00:26:32,794 All right. 609 00:26:33,234 --> 00:26:34,656 Can I ask you something? 610 00:26:34,756 --> 00:26:36,858 Anything. 611 00:26:36,958 --> 00:26:39,500 Do you worry that people think we moved too fast? 612 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,622 By "people," do you mean my dad? 613 00:26:41,722 --> 00:26:42,984 Yeah. 614 00:26:43,084 --> 00:26:46,627 He keeps dropping these not-so-subtle hints 615 00:26:46,727 --> 00:26:49,090 about us waiting, taking things slower. 616 00:26:50,171 --> 00:26:51,272 I know. 617 00:26:51,372 --> 00:26:54,195 I’m trying to just let it go. 618 00:26:54,295 --> 00:26:56,717 Just don’t want people thinking we made a snap decision. 619 00:26:56,817 --> 00:26:58,920 I don’t want you thinking that. 620 00:26:59,020 --> 00:27:00,922 That’s why, uh... 621 00:27:01,022 --> 00:27:02,964 I thought a lot about this. 622 00:27:03,064 --> 00:27:05,526 Of course I don’t. And I don’t want you to think 623 00:27:05,626 --> 00:27:08,970 that me saying yes was, okay? 624 00:27:09,070 --> 00:27:11,072 Okay. 625 00:27:11,392 --> 00:27:13,394 Don’t you do it. 626 00:27:14,635 --> 00:27:16,257 Pretty sure we called a truce. 627 00:27:16,357 --> 00:27:18,519 We called a truce, are you kidding me? 628 00:27:23,724 --> 00:27:25,726 Cheers. 629 00:27:27,408 --> 00:27:30,751 I’m so glad that we’re finally all doing a double date. 630 00:27:30,851 --> 00:27:33,394 And we should go to the Fourth of July Jamboree together too. 631 00:27:33,494 --> 00:27:34,795 Oh, yeah, the jamboree. 632 00:27:34,895 --> 00:27:36,797 Tracy and Stephanie get pretty into it. 633 00:27:36,897 --> 00:27:37,918 That’s because it’s fun. 634 00:27:38,018 --> 00:27:40,161 - This place is so cute. - Right? 635 00:27:40,261 --> 00:27:41,642 I heard good things about the band, 636 00:27:41,742 --> 00:27:44,085 and apparently they play weddings. 637 00:27:44,185 --> 00:27:45,146 PRESTON: Yes! I’ve been looking forward 638 00:27:45,226 --> 00:27:46,327 to hearing them. 639 00:27:46,427 --> 00:27:48,809 So, Ben, what’s your go-to music? 640 00:27:48,909 --> 00:27:50,171 - Punk underground. - Really? 641 00:27:50,271 --> 00:27:52,133 Yeah, I did my undergrad at Oxford, 642 00:27:52,233 --> 00:27:54,695 and I kinda got wrapped up in the whole scene. 643 00:27:54,795 --> 00:27:56,537 I didn’t know you lived in England. 644 00:27:56,637 --> 00:27:58,299 - PRESTON: Did you like it? - Oh, I loved it, yeah. 645 00:27:58,399 --> 00:28:02,022 Hoping to go back someday, if the timing were right. 646 00:28:02,122 --> 00:28:04,745 Well, at least your music taste is better than Stephanie’s here. 647 00:28:04,845 --> 00:28:06,227 She loves techno. 648 00:28:06,327 --> 00:28:08,149 Oh, yeah. I’ve learned to embrace that one. 649 00:28:08,249 --> 00:28:09,430 It’s fun to dance to. 650 00:28:09,530 --> 00:28:10,711 I don’t know about that. 651 00:28:10,811 --> 00:28:11,992 Pretty good to work out to though. 652 00:28:12,092 --> 00:28:15,436 Oh, my gosh, is that Dave Robinson? 653 00:28:15,536 --> 00:28:18,078 - That is Dave Robinson. - Is this his band? 654 00:28:18,178 --> 00:28:20,201 - Must be. - Did you guys know? 655 00:28:20,301 --> 00:28:23,244 - No, of course not. - The Dave you were engaged to? 656 00:28:23,344 --> 00:28:25,646 - That Dave? - A very long time ago. 657 00:28:25,746 --> 00:28:27,848 I like Dave. Hey, Dave! 658 00:28:27,948 --> 00:28:29,089 Stop! 659 00:28:29,189 --> 00:28:30,090 Preston, no. 660 00:28:30,190 --> 00:28:32,192 PRESTON: Dave. 661 00:28:33,033 --> 00:28:34,895 Stephanie Bishop. 662 00:28:34,995 --> 00:28:36,997 He’s coming. 663 00:28:37,998 --> 00:28:40,100 - No way. - Hi, Dave. 664 00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:43,344 Hey, long time, no see. What are you doing here? 665 00:28:43,444 --> 00:28:45,426 My parents have a vacation house here. 666 00:28:45,526 --> 00:28:47,388 Ah, I remember that, yeah. 667 00:28:47,488 --> 00:28:49,390 Never got the invite. 668 00:28:49,490 --> 00:28:50,551 Is this your band? 669 00:28:50,651 --> 00:28:51,832 Yeah, for now. 670 00:28:51,932 --> 00:28:53,273 Till something better comes along. 671 00:28:53,373 --> 00:28:55,396 You remember Tracy and Preston, right? 672 00:28:55,496 --> 00:28:56,477 Yeah, of course. 673 00:28:56,577 --> 00:28:58,038 You guys are still together. 674 00:28:58,138 --> 00:28:59,319 You should be married with kids by now. 675 00:28:59,419 --> 00:29:00,881 Actually, I just got engaged. 676 00:29:00,981 --> 00:29:01,842 Congrats. 677 00:29:01,942 --> 00:29:04,725 And this is my fiancé Ben. 678 00:29:04,825 --> 00:29:06,807 Fiancé. 679 00:29:06,907 --> 00:29:10,731 Hopefully you guys make it further than we did, huh? 680 00:29:10,831 --> 00:29:12,052 We will. 681 00:29:12,152 --> 00:29:13,734 So how’d you guys meet? 682 00:29:13,834 --> 00:29:16,376 Los Angeles College, where we teach. 683 00:29:16,476 --> 00:29:20,220 You became a professor. Wow, that’s-- that’s great. 684 00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:21,261 Archeology. 685 00:29:21,361 --> 00:29:22,503 Anthropology. 686 00:29:22,603 --> 00:29:23,904 Ah, close enough, right? 687 00:29:24,004 --> 00:29:25,586 Not really. 688 00:29:25,686 --> 00:29:27,307 Well, I’m gonna finish setting up, 689 00:29:27,407 --> 00:29:29,830 but, man, it was really good to see you, Steph. 690 00:29:29,930 --> 00:29:31,191 You too. 691 00:29:31,291 --> 00:29:32,793 Don’t judge me on these guys. 692 00:29:32,893 --> 00:29:34,795 They won’t let me play my original stuff, so... 693 00:29:34,895 --> 00:29:36,897 PRESTON: See you, Dave. 694 00:29:39,860 --> 00:29:41,521 You okay? 695 00:29:41,621 --> 00:29:43,623 Yeah. 696 00:29:45,986 --> 00:29:48,969 PRESTON: All I’m saying is I kinda liked the band. 697 00:29:49,069 --> 00:29:51,211 We could at least see if they’re available. 698 00:29:51,311 --> 00:29:53,774 No, that would be so weird. 699 00:29:53,874 --> 00:29:56,697 I don’t want that guy at our wedding in any capacity. 700 00:29:56,797 --> 00:29:59,339 I don’t think that you would’ve gone to grad school 701 00:29:59,439 --> 00:30:01,341 or got your doctorate if you guys stayed together. 702 00:30:01,441 --> 00:30:03,183 It’s true. 703 00:30:03,283 --> 00:30:06,706 Him leaving you was the best thing that could’ve happened. 704 00:30:06,806 --> 00:30:09,289 Wait, he left you? 705 00:30:12,292 --> 00:30:13,753 Could you just give us a minute? 706 00:30:13,853 --> 00:30:14,995 Yeah, we’ll meet you at the car. 707 00:30:15,095 --> 00:30:17,097 Thanks. 708 00:30:18,818 --> 00:30:20,760 So we dated freshman year, 709 00:30:20,860 --> 00:30:22,923 and the band that he was with at the time 710 00:30:23,023 --> 00:30:25,245 asked him to go on tour, 711 00:30:25,345 --> 00:30:27,367 so he proposed, 712 00:30:27,467 --> 00:30:29,289 and I thought it would be so cool 713 00:30:29,389 --> 00:30:32,052 to be engaged to a rock star, and I said yes. 714 00:30:32,152 --> 00:30:34,774 My mom and dad were not thrilled when I told them 715 00:30:34,874 --> 00:30:37,017 that I was gonna drop out of school and follow him, 716 00:30:37,117 --> 00:30:40,360 so they talked me out of it, thank goodness. 717 00:30:41,761 --> 00:30:43,763 And then he never came back. 718 00:30:45,445 --> 00:30:48,028 But it all worked out because I was able to figure out 719 00:30:48,128 --> 00:30:50,610 what I wanted to do with my life. 720 00:30:53,173 --> 00:30:54,674 So we have your parents to thank. 721 00:30:54,774 --> 00:30:58,358 Yes, my parents were right. 722 00:30:58,458 --> 00:30:59,879 It wasn’t until he was gone 723 00:30:59,979 --> 00:31:03,223 that I realized how much he was holding me back. 724 00:31:05,385 --> 00:31:07,987 I’d like to think I would’ve figured it out at some point. 725 00:31:10,950 --> 00:31:13,573 But I’m glad I went through all of that 726 00:31:13,673 --> 00:31:17,317 because it led me to you. 727 00:31:46,666 --> 00:31:48,688 Wow. 728 00:31:48,788 --> 00:31:51,050 This a 1955 Thunderbird? 729 00:31:51,150 --> 00:31:52,412 It sure is. 730 00:31:52,512 --> 00:31:54,013 I didn’t know you had this in here. 731 00:31:54,113 --> 00:31:55,695 This is stunning. 732 00:31:55,795 --> 00:31:57,417 My pride and joy. 733 00:31:57,517 --> 00:32:01,341 I may have to sell it soon to pay for all these weddings. 734 00:32:01,441 --> 00:32:02,982 Oh, you don’t have to do that. 735 00:32:03,082 --> 00:32:05,184 Stephanie and I said we’d pay for it ourselves. 736 00:32:05,284 --> 00:32:07,387 You don’t think I can pay for my daughter’s wedding? 737 00:32:07,487 --> 00:32:09,549 What? No, no, no. I just mean that, 738 00:32:09,649 --> 00:32:11,631 you know, you don’t have to, if you don’t want to. 739 00:32:11,731 --> 00:32:13,352 Not a traditional guy, huh? 740 00:32:13,452 --> 00:32:15,995 I am with some things. 741 00:32:16,095 --> 00:32:19,439 Not in paying for the wedding or, say, 742 00:32:19,539 --> 00:32:22,101 asking my permission before proposing. 743 00:32:24,263 --> 00:32:26,425 [chuckling] 744 00:32:28,547 --> 00:32:30,549 So Thunderbird, huh? 745 00:32:31,991 --> 00:32:33,493 Where’d you get her? 746 00:32:33,593 --> 00:32:35,815 My dad used to own one. 747 00:32:35,915 --> 00:32:37,737 Few years ago, I found this one online. 748 00:32:37,837 --> 00:32:39,859 - Been restoring it. - Does it run? 749 00:32:39,959 --> 00:32:41,941 Almost. 750 00:32:42,041 --> 00:32:43,823 I restored it with all original parts, 751 00:32:43,923 --> 00:32:45,945 but I still need an idler arm. 752 00:32:46,045 --> 00:32:47,667 Can’t find an authentic one anywhere, 753 00:32:47,767 --> 00:32:49,308 and I don’t wanna risk putting something in 754 00:32:49,408 --> 00:32:51,230 that wasn’t made specifically for this model, 755 00:32:51,330 --> 00:32:54,053 so still on the hunt. 756 00:32:55,414 --> 00:32:57,416 Do you mind if I take a look? 757 00:32:59,298 --> 00:33:01,300 - Yeah, sure. - Thanks. 758 00:33:03,582 --> 00:33:06,165 You got a 292 cubic inch OHV. 759 00:33:06,265 --> 00:33:09,528 You got a 292 wide block V8 engine. 760 00:33:09,628 --> 00:33:11,650 This is all first of its kind stuff, sir. 761 00:33:11,750 --> 00:33:14,293 I didn’t realize you’re into classic cars. 762 00:33:14,393 --> 00:33:16,335 - My dad was a mechanic. - Ah. 763 00:33:16,435 --> 00:33:20,499 Some of my best memories are him picking me up from school, 764 00:33:20,599 --> 00:33:23,342 taking me to the shop, showing me all the cool cars. 765 00:33:23,442 --> 00:33:25,024 But this? 766 00:33:25,124 --> 00:33:27,947 This was my favorite. All Thunderbirds. 767 00:33:28,047 --> 00:33:30,950 Is that all original interior as well? 768 00:33:31,050 --> 00:33:33,052 Oh, yeah, you bet. 769 00:33:33,772 --> 00:33:34,954 Here, come, come. 770 00:33:35,054 --> 00:33:36,755 Come sit. 771 00:33:36,855 --> 00:33:38,517 - Really? - Yeah. 772 00:33:38,617 --> 00:33:40,619 Check it out. 773 00:33:42,821 --> 00:33:44,823 Ohh! 774 00:33:46,105 --> 00:33:47,406 Ohh! 775 00:33:47,506 --> 00:33:49,848 Now this is how a car’s supposed to feel. 776 00:33:49,948 --> 00:33:51,810 [chuckles] 777 00:33:51,910 --> 00:33:54,333 Ben, you should hit the green with Preston and me tomorrow 778 00:33:54,433 --> 00:33:55,854 before the food tasting. 779 00:33:55,954 --> 00:33:57,536 I would love to hit the green with you guys. 780 00:33:57,636 --> 00:33:59,738 You’re talking about golf, right? 781 00:33:59,838 --> 00:34:01,380 Yes. 782 00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:03,302 But I have to warn you I’m not very good, 783 00:34:03,402 --> 00:34:06,705 seeing as I’ve actually never played before. 784 00:34:06,805 --> 00:34:08,347 That’s all right. You seem like a sharp guy. 785 00:34:08,447 --> 00:34:10,469 I’m sure you’ll pick it up in no time. 786 00:34:10,569 --> 00:34:12,571 Hope so. 787 00:34:23,582 --> 00:34:25,484 Why are you smiling? 788 00:34:25,584 --> 00:34:27,966 Your dad just asked me to play golf with him tomorrow. 789 00:34:28,066 --> 00:34:29,128 That’s great. 790 00:34:29,228 --> 00:34:31,130 I’m pretty sure we just bonded. 791 00:34:31,230 --> 00:34:33,652 I knew you would. 792 00:34:33,752 --> 00:34:36,735 He did make a comment about me not asking his permission 793 00:34:36,835 --> 00:34:38,217 before I proposed. 794 00:34:38,317 --> 00:34:41,900 Hmm. I didn’t even really consider that. 795 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:44,303 He’s kind of old school, but he can be swayed. 796 00:34:44,403 --> 00:34:46,225 When I told him that I was taking a year off 797 00:34:46,325 --> 00:34:48,227 between high school and college, I thought he’d freak out, 798 00:34:48,327 --> 00:34:50,869 but after a six-hour conversation about my future, 799 00:34:50,969 --> 00:34:52,391 he was totally cool. 800 00:34:52,491 --> 00:34:54,393 Don’t worry. 801 00:34:54,493 --> 00:34:58,036 It’s an archaic tradition. Trust me, I would know. 802 00:34:58,136 --> 00:34:59,558 Who wants some fresh lemonade? 803 00:34:59,658 --> 00:35:01,660 Oh, yes, thank you. 804 00:35:03,742 --> 00:35:05,444 That is amazing. 805 00:35:05,544 --> 00:35:07,085 Isn’t it? It’s the cucumber. 806 00:35:07,185 --> 00:35:09,207 My secret weapon. 807 00:35:09,307 --> 00:35:12,170 Hey, Steph, did you look at the photographers that I sent you? 808 00:35:12,270 --> 00:35:14,733 Yes, I think we should go with this one, 809 00:35:14,833 --> 00:35:17,576 since your first choice is hard to get in touch with. 810 00:35:17,676 --> 00:35:19,137 You know what, I’m gonna leave this to you guys. 811 00:35:19,237 --> 00:35:20,579 I’m gonna go watch some YouTube videos 812 00:35:20,679 --> 00:35:22,841 - on how to hit a golf ball. - Good luck. 813 00:35:28,366 --> 00:35:29,748 I like him. 814 00:35:29,848 --> 00:35:31,850 Me too. 815 00:35:45,423 --> 00:35:47,425 [sighs] 816 00:35:53,391 --> 00:35:55,173 Setting the bar high like always, sir. 817 00:35:55,273 --> 00:35:56,895 My axis is slightly off. 818 00:35:56,995 --> 00:35:59,818 Couldn’t tell. Your downswing was perfect. 819 00:35:59,918 --> 00:36:01,920 Yeah, great downswing. 820 00:36:07,605 --> 00:36:09,307 Hey, did you ask for Robert’s permission 821 00:36:09,407 --> 00:36:10,749 before you proposed to Tracy? 822 00:36:10,849 --> 00:36:12,150 I did. 823 00:36:12,250 --> 00:36:13,631 You didn’t, I presume? 824 00:36:13,731 --> 00:36:15,073 I honestly didn’t even think about it. 825 00:36:15,173 --> 00:36:16,715 I mean, we’re not that close, 826 00:36:16,815 --> 00:36:19,597 and Stephanie’s more modern with that kind of stuff. 827 00:36:19,697 --> 00:36:21,639 He didn’t say anything to you, did he? 828 00:36:21,739 --> 00:36:23,681 - No. - Okay, good. 829 00:36:23,781 --> 00:36:25,323 I figure that’s why he’s being so rough on me. 830 00:36:25,423 --> 00:36:27,766 Hey, look, he was rough on me, too, 831 00:36:27,866 --> 00:36:29,407 when I first started dating Tracy, 832 00:36:29,507 --> 00:36:30,809 but just give him a little while. 833 00:36:30,909 --> 00:36:31,850 He’ll warm up. 834 00:36:31,950 --> 00:36:33,211 What’s a little while? 835 00:36:33,311 --> 00:36:35,313 About six years. 836 00:36:36,514 --> 00:36:38,516 Hey, you’re up, Ben! 837 00:36:45,083 --> 00:36:48,386 Oh, hey, I wouldn’t go with that one. 838 00:36:48,486 --> 00:36:49,627 - No? - You don’t wanna go 839 00:36:49,727 --> 00:36:51,189 with a high iron on this first drive. 840 00:36:51,289 --> 00:36:53,031 You want a driver. 841 00:36:53,131 --> 00:36:54,552 Yeah, here you go. 842 00:36:54,652 --> 00:36:55,553 Driver. 843 00:36:55,653 --> 00:36:57,715 - Thank you. - Yeah. 844 00:36:57,815 --> 00:36:59,817 Here we go. 845 00:37:08,146 --> 00:37:10,148 Easy peasy. 846 00:37:24,962 --> 00:37:26,584 Sorry. 847 00:37:26,684 --> 00:37:28,686 Okay. 848 00:37:35,533 --> 00:37:39,837 Look, golf is a game of time, patience, and precision. 849 00:37:39,937 --> 00:37:42,360 Try looking at the ball the entire time. 850 00:37:42,460 --> 00:37:44,462 Okay. 851 00:37:47,665 --> 00:37:49,667 Wha-- 852 00:37:51,909 --> 00:37:53,331 I-I’m so sorry. 853 00:37:53,431 --> 00:37:55,613 I have no idea what happened. 854 00:37:55,713 --> 00:37:58,015 That was my dad’s favorite club. 855 00:37:58,115 --> 00:37:59,617 Are you serious? 856 00:37:59,717 --> 00:38:01,939 Sir, I’ll go get it right now. I am so sorry. 857 00:38:02,039 --> 00:38:04,181 Careful not to swallow any of that water. 858 00:38:04,281 --> 00:38:06,283 No clue what’s in it. 859 00:38:08,726 --> 00:38:10,348 Ben, Ben, Ben, Ben. 860 00:38:10,448 --> 00:38:12,750 Stop, stop, I’m kidding. 861 00:38:12,850 --> 00:38:14,832 It’s an old set from a yard sale. 862 00:38:14,932 --> 00:38:16,934 You don’t have to go in there. 863 00:38:21,739 --> 00:38:23,361 All right. 864 00:38:23,461 --> 00:38:25,082 I’m so sorry. 865 00:38:25,182 --> 00:38:27,324 I didn’t think you’d really go in. 866 00:38:27,424 --> 00:38:32,329 May not be a great golfer, but you’ve got, uh, zest. 867 00:38:32,429 --> 00:38:35,152 - Gonna be a long day. - Mm-hmm. 868 00:38:36,473 --> 00:38:38,475 It’s all right. 869 00:38:40,798 --> 00:38:43,621 And you’re sure that we can’t just have one of everything? 870 00:38:43,721 --> 00:38:46,063 We do have to narrow it down a little bit. 871 00:38:46,163 --> 00:38:48,345 I wanted you all here to get your feedback, 872 00:38:48,445 --> 00:38:50,347 so please be honest. 873 00:38:50,447 --> 00:38:51,869 Well, of the salads, 874 00:38:51,969 --> 00:38:53,671 I’m liking the spinach goat cheese. 875 00:38:53,771 --> 00:38:55,913 - That’s a really good dressing. - Okay. 876 00:38:56,013 --> 00:38:58,075 Oh, my dear, I think the mixed spring greens 877 00:38:58,175 --> 00:39:00,958 with the crumbled bleu cheese is the way to go. 878 00:39:01,058 --> 00:39:03,801 I don’t know. I think that the simple iceberg with bacon 879 00:39:03,901 --> 00:39:05,442 is always the best choice. 880 00:39:05,542 --> 00:39:07,284 So everyone likes something different. 881 00:39:07,384 --> 00:39:10,407 Great. That should make things easier. 882 00:39:10,507 --> 00:39:13,450 Salads are the safe choice for appetizers, 883 00:39:13,550 --> 00:39:15,773 but if this was my wedding, I’d do the coconut shrimp. 884 00:39:15,873 --> 00:39:17,695 Yeah, me too. I mean, it’s really good. 885 00:39:17,795 --> 00:39:20,497 Oh, but, honey, you have to have a salad at a wedding. 886 00:39:20,597 --> 00:39:22,059 Why? Can’t mix it up? 887 00:39:22,159 --> 00:39:24,381 Because there’s a reason for traditions, 888 00:39:24,481 --> 00:39:26,463 like having salad before a meal. 889 00:39:26,563 --> 00:39:28,265 Yeah, sure. 890 00:39:28,365 --> 00:39:30,527 I mean, because, you know, that’s what people expect. 891 00:39:33,811 --> 00:39:34,912 Thoughts on main dishes. 892 00:39:35,012 --> 00:39:36,754 Chicken, hands down. 893 00:39:36,854 --> 00:39:39,356 I say pot roast. The sauce on top is incredible. 894 00:39:39,456 --> 00:39:42,800 No! I know pot roast. I-- 895 00:39:42,900 --> 00:39:44,962 I make an old family recipe every Christmas. 896 00:39:45,062 --> 00:39:48,445 Girls, you have to admit mine’s way better. 897 00:39:48,545 --> 00:39:49,767 Oh, yeah, how do you make it? 898 00:39:49,867 --> 00:39:51,528 Sorry, Ben, secret recipe. 899 00:39:51,628 --> 00:39:53,490 Only for family members. 900 00:39:53,590 --> 00:39:56,773 Well, then I guess you’re gonna have to let me know pretty soon. 901 00:39:56,873 --> 00:39:57,975 We’ll see how it goes. 902 00:39:58,075 --> 00:39:59,656 - Dad! - Robert! 903 00:39:59,756 --> 00:40:01,018 I’m kidding! 904 00:40:01,118 --> 00:40:02,779 [phone ringing] 905 00:40:02,879 --> 00:40:05,822 Excuse me real quick. I have to take this. 906 00:40:05,922 --> 00:40:07,945 Well, we should probably eat the rest of the food. 907 00:40:08,045 --> 00:40:09,666 We don’t want it to go to waste. 908 00:40:09,766 --> 00:40:11,428 TRACY: You just want the rest of mine, don’t you? 909 00:40:11,528 --> 00:40:12,789 BEN: Are you serious? PRESTON: If you don’t want it. 910 00:40:12,889 --> 00:40:15,592 ELEANORE: Okay, take the rest of this too. 911 00:40:15,692 --> 00:40:17,714 Yeah, yeah. 912 00:40:17,814 --> 00:40:20,958 Yeah, thank you so much. Okay. 913 00:40:21,058 --> 00:40:24,401 Preston will finish all of them. The shrimp was so good. 914 00:40:24,501 --> 00:40:26,203 Who was it? 915 00:40:26,303 --> 00:40:27,644 That was James Quincy. 916 00:40:27,744 --> 00:40:30,667 He just offered me the job at Oxford. 917 00:40:32,349 --> 00:40:33,650 That is great. 918 00:40:33,750 --> 00:40:35,132 Wow. 919 00:40:35,232 --> 00:40:36,453 Congratulations. 920 00:40:36,553 --> 00:40:38,555 BEN: Thank you, sir. 921 00:40:44,681 --> 00:40:48,585 Okay, so how many chairs does that package come with? 922 00:40:48,685 --> 00:40:53,390 So can we do half the amount for a little less of the cost? 923 00:40:53,490 --> 00:40:54,671 I see. 924 00:40:54,771 --> 00:40:57,794 Okay, thank you. I’ll let you know. 925 00:40:57,894 --> 00:40:59,035 Everything okay? 926 00:40:59,135 --> 00:41:00,637 I never realized how complicated 927 00:41:00,737 --> 00:41:02,599 chair and table rentals could be. 928 00:41:02,699 --> 00:41:04,241 Well, you think you’ll have time for a little break? 929 00:41:04,341 --> 00:41:05,402 I’d love to talk. 930 00:41:05,502 --> 00:41:07,244 I’d love a break. 931 00:41:07,344 --> 00:41:08,805 Good, ’cause I have the perfect place. 932 00:41:08,905 --> 00:41:10,006 Where? 933 00:41:10,106 --> 00:41:11,328 It’s a surprise. 934 00:41:11,428 --> 00:41:13,430 Hmm. Intriguing. 935 00:41:16,272 --> 00:41:18,615 Ben, you did all this? 936 00:41:18,715 --> 00:41:20,297 I did. Tracy mentioned it, 937 00:41:20,397 --> 00:41:22,699 and I figured this was the perfect spot. 938 00:41:22,799 --> 00:41:23,940 What’s all this for? 939 00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:25,342 Us. 940 00:41:25,442 --> 00:41:27,344 I figured we could talk about the job offer 941 00:41:27,444 --> 00:41:30,747 and just get away for a minute. 942 00:41:30,847 --> 00:41:32,268 Have a seat. 943 00:41:32,368 --> 00:41:34,370 - Thank you. - Yeah. 944 00:41:38,495 --> 00:41:42,799 So did you find out when you have to give your decision? 945 00:41:42,899 --> 00:41:45,682 I did. Two weeks. July third. 946 00:41:45,782 --> 00:41:47,764 That’s right before the wedding. 947 00:41:47,864 --> 00:41:51,928 If I did take the job, would you come with me? 948 00:41:52,028 --> 00:41:55,131 Me moving to England would be such a fun adventure, 949 00:41:55,231 --> 00:42:00,096 and there’s a part of me that would say yes in a heartbeat. 950 00:42:00,196 --> 00:42:02,018 But I’m scared. 951 00:42:02,118 --> 00:42:05,221 If I leave my job, I have to start all over. 952 00:42:05,321 --> 00:42:08,424 I’ve built this great career at Los Angeles College 953 00:42:08,524 --> 00:42:11,788 that no one really expected. 954 00:42:11,888 --> 00:42:15,692 And I can’t let that go. I have to see it through. 955 00:42:18,454 --> 00:42:20,116 I won’t take the job. 956 00:42:20,216 --> 00:42:22,679 Then there’s that other side. I can’t live with myself 957 00:42:22,779 --> 00:42:24,921 if I know you didn’t take it because of me. 958 00:42:25,021 --> 00:42:28,004 What if we don’t talk about it right now? 959 00:42:28,104 --> 00:42:30,006 I have two weeks before I have to give them an answer, 960 00:42:30,106 --> 00:42:32,568 and it is a beautiful day. 961 00:42:32,668 --> 00:42:35,051 It’s a beautiful lake. 962 00:42:35,151 --> 00:42:37,153 A beautiful woman. 963 00:42:38,474 --> 00:42:40,536 This decision won’t just go away. 964 00:42:40,636 --> 00:42:42,939 I know but maybe we don’t have to make a decision 965 00:42:43,039 --> 00:42:44,781 right this second. 966 00:42:44,881 --> 00:42:46,542 We can hold off, 967 00:42:46,642 --> 00:42:49,385 and maybe it’ll change if we don’t harp on it. 968 00:42:49,485 --> 00:42:52,388 I think I can try to do that. 969 00:42:52,488 --> 00:42:53,870 - Yeah? - Yeah. 970 00:42:53,970 --> 00:42:56,873 Besides, we’ve got some fun stuff coming up. 971 00:42:56,973 --> 00:42:58,274 Got the jamboree. 972 00:42:58,374 --> 00:43:01,758 Oh, yes, I cannot wait for this jamboree. 973 00:43:01,858 --> 00:43:06,242 Please tell me there’s a charcuterie plate in there. 974 00:43:06,342 --> 00:43:08,344 Oh, you mean this? 975 00:43:13,869 --> 00:43:15,091 I love you. 976 00:43:15,191 --> 00:43:16,812 I love you too. 977 00:43:16,912 --> 00:43:19,315 ♪♪ [march] 978 00:43:25,561 --> 00:43:28,384 I wish I could tell him to stay, forget about the job. 979 00:43:28,484 --> 00:43:31,027 - So why don’t you? - I’m worried he’ll listen. 980 00:43:31,127 --> 00:43:32,468 And then later, when it’s too late, 981 00:43:32,568 --> 00:43:34,870 he’ll realize what he missed out on. 982 00:43:34,970 --> 00:43:36,912 Should I just go with him? 983 00:43:37,012 --> 00:43:39,435 I don’t think that there’s an easy answer here. 984 00:43:39,535 --> 00:43:41,077 What are you ladies talking about? 985 00:43:41,177 --> 00:43:42,278 Nothing. 986 00:43:42,378 --> 00:43:44,360 Today is a fun day. No stress. 987 00:43:44,460 --> 00:43:46,402 No talking about the wedding or England. 988 00:43:46,502 --> 00:43:48,044 That’s gonna be a little difficult, 989 00:43:48,144 --> 00:43:50,526 considering this is an Independence Day celebration, 990 00:43:50,626 --> 00:43:52,688 and England had a little something to do with that. 991 00:43:52,788 --> 00:43:53,849 You know what I mean. 992 00:43:53,949 --> 00:43:55,371 Look at this. 993 00:43:55,471 --> 00:43:59,095 Guess how many jelly beans to win a free dinner. 994 00:43:59,195 --> 00:44:01,337 There’s at least 200 in there. 995 00:44:01,437 --> 00:44:04,059 What? No. There’s over a thousand. 996 00:44:04,159 --> 00:44:05,341 Hey, how many are you putting? 997 00:44:05,441 --> 00:44:07,443 I’m not telling. 998 00:44:08,924 --> 00:44:10,926 Fine. 999 00:44:12,888 --> 00:44:14,550 See, Ben? Isn’t this fun? 1000 00:44:14,650 --> 00:44:16,192 - Be honest. - It is. 1001 00:44:16,292 --> 00:44:18,234 It’s my first jamboree. 1002 00:44:18,334 --> 00:44:20,516 This was always Tracy and I’s favorite part of the summer. 1003 00:44:20,616 --> 00:44:22,238 Especially the balloon pop. 1004 00:44:22,338 --> 00:44:24,520 Yes, the balloon pop. We have to do that. 1005 00:44:24,620 --> 00:44:26,722 - What is the balloon pop? - Don’t ask. 1006 00:44:26,822 --> 00:44:28,604 Preston’s just bitter because we always win. 1007 00:44:28,704 --> 00:44:30,005 I always let you win! 1008 00:44:30,105 --> 00:44:31,767 Tracy, that sounds like a challenge. 1009 00:44:31,867 --> 00:44:33,849 It does sound like a challenge. 1010 00:44:33,949 --> 00:44:36,211 - We accept. - Good. 1011 00:44:36,311 --> 00:44:38,313 [cheering] 1012 00:44:41,757 --> 00:44:43,819 So the team that pops the most balloons 1013 00:44:43,919 --> 00:44:45,701 after throwing all the darts wins. 1014 00:44:45,801 --> 00:44:46,782 Sounds easy enough. 1015 00:44:46,882 --> 00:44:47,903 Not as easy as you think. 1016 00:44:48,003 --> 00:44:49,264 Boys versus girls? 1017 00:44:49,364 --> 00:44:50,906 Oh, it’s on. 1018 00:44:51,006 --> 00:44:54,390 Careful, Ben, the Bishop girls get very competitive. 1019 00:44:54,490 --> 00:44:55,951 We’ll see. 1020 00:44:56,051 --> 00:44:58,053 Ladies first. 1021 00:44:58,974 --> 00:45:00,976 - Yeah! - Okay, lucky shot. 1022 00:45:02,097 --> 00:45:04,079 Where is this coming from? 1023 00:45:04,179 --> 00:45:05,761 Played a lot of darts in college. 1024 00:45:05,861 --> 00:45:07,863 Wait till you see Tracy’s arm at the dunk tank. 1025 00:45:16,592 --> 00:45:18,333 You guys put up a good fight. 1026 00:45:18,433 --> 00:45:19,775 We didn’t stand a chance, did we? 1027 00:45:19,875 --> 00:45:21,777 You guys won every game at the jamboree. 1028 00:45:21,877 --> 00:45:23,579 That’s how we roll. 1029 00:45:23,679 --> 00:45:25,541 Well, at least we didn’t come out totally empty-handed. 1030 00:45:25,641 --> 00:45:26,542 Ben won. 1031 00:45:26,642 --> 00:45:28,183 In Constitution trivia. 1032 00:45:28,283 --> 00:45:30,706 Yeah, and he got that super cool flag. 1033 00:45:30,806 --> 00:45:33,669 Which makes no sense at an Independence Day celebration. 1034 00:45:33,769 --> 00:45:36,471 - Maybe it’s a sign. - Maybe. 1035 00:45:36,571 --> 00:45:38,393 MAN ON P.A.: Ladies and gentlemen, 1036 00:45:38,493 --> 00:45:41,236 may I have your attention, please? 1037 00:45:41,336 --> 00:45:44,880 The winner of the guess the number of jelly beans contest 1038 00:45:44,980 --> 00:45:50,005 with a guess of 1,776 is... 1039 00:45:50,105 --> 00:45:51,486 Tracy Bishop! 1040 00:45:51,586 --> 00:45:54,229 PRESTON: 1776! Of course! 1041 00:45:57,352 --> 00:45:59,895 - Redheads? No way. - Yes. 1042 00:45:59,995 --> 00:46:01,136 I’m telling you, there’s no way. 1043 00:46:01,236 --> 00:46:02,858 Studies have shown 1044 00:46:02,958 --> 00:46:05,180 that a significant amount of Neanderthals were redheads. 1045 00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:07,823 All right, yeah, and who’s doing these studies? 1046 00:46:07,923 --> 00:46:08,944 Scientists. 1047 00:46:09,044 --> 00:46:11,666 TRACY: Okay, I got it. 1048 00:46:11,766 --> 00:46:13,388 You okay? 1049 00:46:13,488 --> 00:46:15,270 No. That was our firm on the phone. 1050 00:46:15,370 --> 00:46:16,912 They’ve been trying to reach us all day. 1051 00:46:17,012 --> 00:46:18,593 Apparently there was an issue 1052 00:46:18,693 --> 00:46:20,315 with the paperwork Preston and I submitted 1053 00:46:20,415 --> 00:46:22,117 for the case we were just working on before we left. 1054 00:46:22,217 --> 00:46:25,560 Now we have to go refile back in San Francisco ASAP, 1055 00:46:25,660 --> 00:46:27,162 or our client could go into bankruptcy. 1056 00:46:27,262 --> 00:46:28,683 What? Don’t they know you’re on vacation, 1057 00:46:28,783 --> 00:46:30,285 or that you’re planning your wedding? 1058 00:46:30,385 --> 00:46:31,887 It doesn’t matter. It has to get done. 1059 00:46:31,987 --> 00:46:33,328 So what are you gonna do? 1060 00:46:33,428 --> 00:46:35,090 Preston’s looking up flights right now. 1061 00:46:35,190 --> 00:46:37,172 I’m hoping we can sort it out in a day or two. 1062 00:46:37,272 --> 00:46:40,295 But that means I need you to take over all of the planning. 1063 00:46:40,395 --> 00:46:42,457 Of course. Whatever you need. 1064 00:46:42,557 --> 00:46:43,818 Thanks. You’re a lifesaver. 1065 00:46:43,918 --> 00:46:46,141 Mom says she and Dad will help out too. 1066 00:46:46,241 --> 00:46:47,662 The most important thing 1067 00:46:47,762 --> 00:46:49,464 is that my dress needs to be picked up tomorrow. 1068 00:46:49,564 --> 00:46:50,745 - Done. - We also have to figure out 1069 00:46:50,845 --> 00:46:53,308 - something with centerpieces. - On it. 1070 00:46:53,408 --> 00:46:56,411 And make sure that all of the rentals are arriving on time. 1071 00:46:57,572 --> 00:46:59,714 No problem. 1072 00:46:59,814 --> 00:47:01,116 Thank you so much. 1073 00:47:01,216 --> 00:47:02,557 Mom said it would be a lot for you to handle, 1074 00:47:02,657 --> 00:47:04,699 but I told her that you got this. 1075 00:47:20,395 --> 00:47:22,337 - Hi. Welcome. - Hi. 1076 00:47:22,437 --> 00:47:24,819 I’m Becky. Would you like to try that on? 1077 00:47:24,919 --> 00:47:26,421 Oh, no, thank you. I’m actually here 1078 00:47:26,521 --> 00:47:29,424 picking up for my sister, Tracy Bishop. 1079 00:47:29,524 --> 00:47:31,426 Yes! It just came in. 1080 00:47:31,526 --> 00:47:33,528 - I’ll go grab it. - Thanks. 1081 00:47:44,258 --> 00:47:47,802 I’m so glad we were able to get it sized correctly in time. 1082 00:47:47,902 --> 00:47:50,485 - Wow, it’s stunning. - It is. 1083 00:47:50,585 --> 00:47:53,568 And so is the one you have in your hand there. 1084 00:47:53,668 --> 00:47:55,410 Huge misconception in my line of work 1085 00:47:55,510 --> 00:47:57,732 that only brides-to-be can try dresses on. 1086 00:47:57,832 --> 00:48:00,735 Well, ironically I am also a bride-to-be. 1087 00:48:00,835 --> 00:48:03,618 - Even better! - I shouldn’t. 1088 00:48:03,718 --> 00:48:06,901 Lots to do, and I don’t even have a date picked out yet. 1089 00:48:07,001 --> 00:48:08,863 No date means no pressure. 1090 00:48:08,963 --> 00:48:12,066 That’s the best way to try these things on. 1091 00:48:12,166 --> 00:48:14,148 True. And in Roman times, 1092 00:48:14,248 --> 00:48:15,830 the bridesmaids were actually required 1093 00:48:15,930 --> 00:48:19,153 to wear the same dress as the bride to pose as decoys 1094 00:48:19,253 --> 00:48:20,995 in case enemy kingdoms or evil spirits 1095 00:48:21,095 --> 00:48:22,837 tried kidnapping the bride. 1096 00:48:22,937 --> 00:48:25,159 So really it’s tradition. 1097 00:48:25,259 --> 00:48:27,482 Oh, I’m an anthropology professor. 1098 00:48:27,582 --> 00:48:30,404 Oh, okay. That makes more sense. 1099 00:48:30,504 --> 00:48:32,166 Yes. 1100 00:48:32,266 --> 00:48:35,169 I mean, I guess I could try one on. 1101 00:48:35,269 --> 00:48:37,371 What’s the harm in that? 1102 00:48:37,471 --> 00:48:40,394 ♪♪ [upbeat] 1103 00:49:13,267 --> 00:49:14,889 See, I like this one. 1104 00:49:14,989 --> 00:49:19,493 The neckline and the waist, it’s exactly what I want. 1105 00:49:19,593 --> 00:49:21,936 You look beautiful. 1106 00:49:22,036 --> 00:49:23,257 Hmm. 1107 00:49:23,357 --> 00:49:25,820 - Trying on dresses already. - Hi, Mom. 1108 00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:28,903 I was picking up Tracy’s, and I got a little carried away. 1109 00:49:29,003 --> 00:49:30,344 It fits you perfectly. 1110 00:49:30,444 --> 00:49:31,866 It does, doesn’t it? 1111 00:49:31,966 --> 00:49:33,467 I love it. 1112 00:49:33,567 --> 00:49:35,569 You look beautiful, honey. 1113 00:49:36,370 --> 00:49:37,791 Why don’t we go get an iced coffee? 1114 00:49:37,891 --> 00:49:39,073 What do you say? 1115 00:49:39,173 --> 00:49:41,175 Sure. I’ll go change. 1116 00:49:48,902 --> 00:49:51,565 Just don’t want you to rush into this marriage, 1117 00:49:51,665 --> 00:49:53,047 at least until we find out 1118 00:49:53,147 --> 00:49:54,688 where Ben’s job is gonna take him 1119 00:49:54,788 --> 00:49:56,330 and where that leaves you both. 1120 00:49:56,430 --> 00:49:58,572 Mom, I’m not like everybody else in this family, 1121 00:49:58,672 --> 00:50:00,294 and I don’t plan things right away, 1122 00:50:00,394 --> 00:50:02,376 but that doesn’t mean I don’t know what I want. 1123 00:50:02,476 --> 00:50:05,339 Sweetheart, you’ve only known Ben for six months. 1124 00:50:05,439 --> 00:50:09,263 Marriage is for life. It’s okay to take your time. 1125 00:50:09,363 --> 00:50:12,146 Maybe we did jump in a little quickly, 1126 00:50:12,246 --> 00:50:15,309 and we didn’t think out every single future decision, 1127 00:50:15,409 --> 00:50:18,612 but I have never been so sure of anything in my life. 1128 00:50:20,574 --> 00:50:23,197 I just don’t want it to be like with Dave, 1129 00:50:23,297 --> 00:50:26,320 with you wanting to follow him without thinking things through. 1130 00:50:26,420 --> 00:50:28,402 I don’t wanna see you get hurt. 1131 00:50:28,502 --> 00:50:31,205 This is a completely different situation, 1132 00:50:31,305 --> 00:50:33,247 and I’ve grown so much since then. 1133 00:50:33,347 --> 00:50:34,368 You’re right. 1134 00:50:34,468 --> 00:50:36,330 You have. 1135 00:50:36,430 --> 00:50:40,013 And I am so proud of the woman you’ve become. 1136 00:50:40,113 --> 00:50:42,176 But you’re still my baby girl, 1137 00:50:42,276 --> 00:50:44,178 and I reserve the right to worry. 1138 00:50:44,278 --> 00:50:47,341 And you also need to trust that I can make my own choices, 1139 00:50:47,441 --> 00:50:50,504 like getting engaged, moving to England. 1140 00:50:50,604 --> 00:50:51,945 Ben is a good guy, 1141 00:50:52,045 --> 00:50:54,308 and I can see how much you care for each other. 1142 00:50:54,408 --> 00:50:56,750 Just promise me when you’re making those choices 1143 00:50:56,850 --> 00:50:59,393 that you’ll think about what’s right for you, too, 1144 00:50:59,493 --> 00:51:02,876 ’cause that’s what’s gonna be best for both of you. 1145 00:51:02,976 --> 00:51:05,098 I promise. 1146 00:51:06,700 --> 00:51:08,282 That dress was gorgeous. 1147 00:51:08,382 --> 00:51:10,404 - Wasn’t it? - Oh, my God. 1148 00:51:10,504 --> 00:51:12,506 I love it. 1149 00:51:38,812 --> 00:51:41,134 [ringtone] 1150 00:51:44,537 --> 00:51:45,719 Hey, how’s it going? 1151 00:51:45,819 --> 00:51:48,441 TRACY: Not good. Things are snowballing. 1152 00:51:48,541 --> 00:51:50,924 And Preston just received some really bad news. 1153 00:51:51,024 --> 00:51:53,607 - Oh, no, what happened? - His grandmother fell, 1154 00:51:53,707 --> 00:51:55,168 and she’s not gonna be able to make it to the wedding. 1155 00:51:55,268 --> 00:51:57,490 Oh, my God, that’s horrible. 1156 00:51:57,590 --> 00:52:00,293 I know, and he was so looking forward to her being there. 1157 00:52:00,393 --> 00:52:01,895 When do you guys think you’ll be here? 1158 00:52:01,995 --> 00:52:03,857 Hopefully soon. 1159 00:52:03,957 --> 00:52:05,779 Look, I know you’re already doing a million things. 1160 00:52:05,879 --> 00:52:08,341 I haven’t received confirmation from the florist yet. 1161 00:52:08,441 --> 00:52:09,863 Can you go check on the order? 1162 00:52:09,963 --> 00:52:11,264 Absolutely. First thing tomorrow. 1163 00:52:11,364 --> 00:52:13,146 Okay, thanks. You’re a lifesaver. 1164 00:52:13,246 --> 00:52:14,507 Of course. Good luck. 1165 00:52:14,607 --> 00:52:16,389 Thanks. Love you. 1166 00:52:16,489 --> 00:52:18,511 Love you. Give Preston my love too. 1167 00:52:18,611 --> 00:52:20,613 Bye. 1168 00:52:34,828 --> 00:52:38,291 But my sister placed the order on the website two weeks ago. 1169 00:52:38,391 --> 00:52:41,454 I am so sorry. I’m not seeing anything under that name. 1170 00:52:41,554 --> 00:52:42,455 Could it be under Preston? 1171 00:52:42,555 --> 00:52:44,217 We just updated our website. 1172 00:52:44,317 --> 00:52:46,379 It might just be an unfortunate glitch. 1173 00:52:46,479 --> 00:52:48,822 - What were you looking for? - We’re doing red rose bouquets. 1174 00:52:48,922 --> 00:52:51,084 Oh, that shouldn’t be a problem. Let me start a new order. 1175 00:52:53,326 --> 00:52:55,748 Now, when’s the wedding? 1176 00:52:55,848 --> 00:52:56,870 July Fourth. 1177 00:52:56,970 --> 00:52:58,351 This year? 1178 00:52:58,451 --> 00:52:59,672 Yes. 1179 00:52:59,772 --> 00:53:00,793 That’s next week. 1180 00:53:00,893 --> 00:53:03,236 Technically, six days. 1181 00:53:03,336 --> 00:53:05,278 I’m not sure we can fill such a big order 1182 00:53:05,378 --> 00:53:06,759 in such short time. 1183 00:53:06,859 --> 00:53:09,042 That’s why she placed the order two weeks ago. 1184 00:53:09,142 --> 00:53:11,524 Right. Hmm. 1185 00:53:11,624 --> 00:53:13,846 Let me see what I can do. 1186 00:53:13,946 --> 00:53:15,948 Thank you. 1187 00:53:17,390 --> 00:53:18,571 Of course Tracy puts me in charge, 1188 00:53:18,671 --> 00:53:20,213 and it’s already falling apart. 1189 00:53:20,313 --> 00:53:22,695 It’s not falling apart. It’s a minor hiccup. 1190 00:53:22,795 --> 00:53:24,177 I just feel like this wedding 1191 00:53:24,277 --> 00:53:25,438 is getting closer and closer by the minute. 1192 00:53:25,518 --> 00:53:26,939 I know. 1193 00:53:27,039 --> 00:53:29,982 And so is this decision you have to make about the job. 1194 00:53:30,082 --> 00:53:31,424 I know. 1195 00:53:31,524 --> 00:53:33,426 - We need to discuss it soon. - And we will, 1196 00:53:33,526 --> 00:53:35,768 as soon as we finish all the wedding errands, okay? 1197 00:53:38,331 --> 00:53:40,473 We probably won’t be able to do all roses. 1198 00:53:40,573 --> 00:53:42,315 Are you okay with other flowers? 1199 00:53:42,415 --> 00:53:44,437 Yeah, we’re going with red, white, and blue, 1200 00:53:44,537 --> 00:53:45,838 so as long as they’re red. 1201 00:53:45,938 --> 00:53:47,560 We can totally do that. 1202 00:53:47,660 --> 00:53:53,085 Ranunculus, sugarbushes, dahlias, anthurium, peonies. 1203 00:53:53,185 --> 00:53:54,927 There are so many beautiful flowers that come in red. 1204 00:53:55,027 --> 00:53:56,449 Great. 1205 00:53:56,549 --> 00:53:58,611 Hey, it may even be better than plain roses anyway. 1206 00:53:58,711 --> 00:53:59,812 Problem solved. 1207 00:53:59,912 --> 00:54:01,914 One problem solved. 1208 00:54:15,888 --> 00:54:17,189 Stephanie, Ben! 1209 00:54:17,289 --> 00:54:19,111 Hi, Frankie! 1210 00:54:19,211 --> 00:54:21,514 Tracy’s cake is looking great. 1211 00:54:21,614 --> 00:54:22,995 Oh, that’s so good to hear. 1212 00:54:23,095 --> 00:54:25,438 Come decorate some Fourth of July tarts. 1213 00:54:25,538 --> 00:54:27,600 We really shouldn’t. We still have so much to do. 1214 00:54:27,700 --> 00:54:30,022 I think we can make time. Plus, they smell amazing. 1215 00:54:31,624 --> 00:54:33,746 Okay, why not? 1216 00:54:37,550 --> 00:54:40,372 Why, uh, why tarts? 1217 00:54:40,472 --> 00:54:43,496 This was the favorite food of our founding fathers. 1218 00:54:43,596 --> 00:54:46,018 That actually makes sense because raspberry tarts 1219 00:54:46,118 --> 00:54:48,661 were very popular in the late 1700s. 1220 00:54:48,761 --> 00:54:50,763 Decorate. 1221 00:54:52,084 --> 00:54:56,589 Oh, you both started with the same color icing. 1222 00:54:56,689 --> 00:54:58,691 A sign it’s meant to be. 1223 00:55:01,173 --> 00:55:03,175 All right. 1224 00:55:03,495 --> 00:55:05,317 What are you making? 1225 00:55:05,417 --> 00:55:10,963 The original flag with the stars for the original colonies. 1226 00:55:11,063 --> 00:55:13,485 - I love it. - What about you? 1227 00:55:13,585 --> 00:55:16,729 Obviously a very detailed portrait 1228 00:55:16,829 --> 00:55:20,312 of Thomas Jefferson with spiky hair. 1229 00:55:32,084 --> 00:55:35,587 STEPHANIE: So the chairs will be in rows over here. 1230 00:55:35,687 --> 00:55:37,349 And where’s the band gonna go? 1231 00:55:37,449 --> 00:55:39,712 Well, there’s no band, but the DJ will be over here. 1232 00:55:39,812 --> 00:55:41,714 - Ah. - Oh, hi! 1233 00:55:41,814 --> 00:55:44,837 You guys can put those on the side of the house for storage. 1234 00:55:44,937 --> 00:55:47,079 Thank you. 1235 00:55:47,179 --> 00:55:49,601 It’s coming along great. I’m very proud of you. 1236 00:55:49,701 --> 00:55:52,084 For being able to direct people where to store chairs? 1237 00:55:52,184 --> 00:55:54,767 No, no, because, uh... 1238 00:55:54,867 --> 00:55:56,688 well, for helping your sister plan this wedding, 1239 00:55:56,788 --> 00:55:58,050 for, uh, 1240 00:55:58,150 --> 00:56:01,093 for being on track for tenure. 1241 00:56:01,193 --> 00:56:03,976 For just being an amazing daughter. 1242 00:56:04,076 --> 00:56:05,337 Thanks, Dad. 1243 00:56:05,437 --> 00:56:07,379 You deserve the best. 1244 00:56:07,479 --> 00:56:08,500 Always. 1245 00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:11,083 Are you talking about Ben? 1246 00:56:13,845 --> 00:56:15,847 [sighs] 1247 00:56:18,890 --> 00:56:20,072 Look, Stephanie, 1248 00:56:20,172 --> 00:56:22,114 the first date I ever took your mom on 1249 00:56:22,214 --> 00:56:24,116 was to grab a cheeseburger at a diner 1250 00:56:24,216 --> 00:56:26,158 when we were just teenagers. 1251 00:56:26,258 --> 00:56:28,480 Oh, I was worried it wasn’t nice enough, 1252 00:56:28,580 --> 00:56:32,724 not good enough for someone as special as she was, 1253 00:56:32,824 --> 00:56:35,927 but it was all I could afford. 1254 00:56:36,027 --> 00:56:38,710 Your mom didn’t care at all. She loved it. 1255 00:56:40,552 --> 00:56:43,535 Anyway, we spent that whole date 1256 00:56:43,635 --> 00:56:45,697 talking plans for our future, 1257 00:56:45,797 --> 00:56:49,501 dreaming about things we wanted out of life, 1258 00:56:49,601 --> 00:56:51,063 and we quickly discovered 1259 00:56:51,163 --> 00:56:54,406 we pretty much wanted the same things. 1260 00:56:56,208 --> 00:56:59,351 I left knowing I’d marry her. 1261 00:56:59,451 --> 00:57:04,316 Years later, after I’d become a doctor, 1262 00:57:04,416 --> 00:57:06,358 I took her to this very fancy restaurant 1263 00:57:06,458 --> 00:57:08,640 for our 15th anniversary. 1264 00:57:08,740 --> 00:57:11,203 She looked at the menu and was sad. 1265 00:57:11,303 --> 00:57:13,385 There were no cheeseburgers on it. 1266 00:57:14,826 --> 00:57:16,328 She asked if we could leave 1267 00:57:16,428 --> 00:57:19,371 and go back to the diner where we had our first date. 1268 00:57:19,471 --> 00:57:21,333 I asked her why. 1269 00:57:21,433 --> 00:57:24,135 She told me the cheeseburger reminded her 1270 00:57:24,235 --> 00:57:27,259 that we had, in fact, made our lives 1271 00:57:27,359 --> 00:57:31,362 what we wanted together. 1272 00:57:32,764 --> 00:57:35,066 I like that. 1273 00:57:35,166 --> 00:57:36,508 If you love someone 1274 00:57:36,608 --> 00:57:37,829 you wanna spend the rest of your life with, 1275 00:57:37,929 --> 00:57:40,352 the only thing that matters 1276 00:57:40,452 --> 00:57:43,395 is that you have the same vision for the future. 1277 00:57:43,495 --> 00:57:46,398 Well, why on earth did you wait so long to marry her 1278 00:57:46,498 --> 00:57:48,440 after that first date? 1279 00:57:48,540 --> 00:57:51,422 Seems like you could’ve eloped that night. 1280 00:57:52,864 --> 00:57:54,406 Stephanie... 1281 00:57:54,506 --> 00:57:57,969 that is not at all the point I was trying to make. 1282 00:57:58,069 --> 00:57:59,971 I know. 1283 00:58:00,071 --> 00:58:02,774 My point is that you knew 1284 00:58:02,874 --> 00:58:06,618 Mom was the woman for you right away, 1285 00:58:06,718 --> 00:58:10,361 and I know that Ben is the man for me. 1286 00:58:11,843 --> 00:58:14,846 He’s so kind and thoughtful. 1287 00:58:16,367 --> 00:58:18,029 We laugh every day, 1288 00:58:18,129 --> 00:58:22,313 and he cheers me on in every part of my life. 1289 00:58:22,413 --> 00:58:24,796 So you may think that this is fast, 1290 00:58:24,896 --> 00:58:30,381 but in 10 years or 20 or 30, whatever, 1291 00:58:32,103 --> 00:58:35,506 he’s the one I wanna have the cheeseburger with. 1292 00:58:39,230 --> 00:58:42,133 Well, everything seems to be coming in on time, 1293 00:58:42,233 --> 00:58:43,735 which is a good sign. 1294 00:58:43,835 --> 00:58:46,738 Just talked to Tracy, and they are wrapping things up. 1295 00:58:46,838 --> 00:58:49,861 They’ll be home tomorrow, so we are on track. 1296 00:58:49,961 --> 00:58:52,223 I know she’s so grateful to you for taking over. 1297 00:58:52,323 --> 00:58:55,426 Well, I know she’d do the same if the tables were reversed. 1298 00:58:55,526 --> 00:58:57,768 [ringtone] 1299 00:58:58,930 --> 00:59:00,932 Hello? 1300 00:59:02,773 --> 00:59:04,195 Oh, my gosh. 1301 00:59:04,295 --> 00:59:06,297 Tell her congratulations. 1302 00:59:07,378 --> 00:59:08,920 No, I totally understand. 1303 00:59:09,020 --> 00:59:11,022 Thanks for letting me know. 1304 00:59:12,623 --> 00:59:14,525 The photographer can’t make it anymore. 1305 00:59:14,625 --> 00:59:16,007 - Oh, no. - BEN: What happened? 1306 00:59:16,107 --> 00:59:17,128 She had a baby. 1307 00:59:17,228 --> 00:59:19,230 What? 1308 00:59:19,910 --> 00:59:21,252 Okay, um... 1309 00:59:21,352 --> 00:59:23,614 - We’ll find another one. - Four days out? 1310 00:59:23,714 --> 00:59:25,376 Do you know how hard it was to book her? 1311 00:59:25,476 --> 00:59:27,418 If anybody can do it, you can. 1312 00:59:27,518 --> 00:59:29,340 I’m sure they’re out there. 1313 00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:31,442 Okay, I’ll help you look. 1314 00:59:33,324 --> 00:59:35,906 Yeah, this July Fourth. 1315 00:59:36,006 --> 00:59:38,409 Yes, as in four days from now. 1316 00:59:40,051 --> 00:59:42,233 Hello? 1317 00:59:42,333 --> 00:59:45,196 Yeah, so it’d just be for the basic package. 1318 00:59:45,296 --> 00:59:48,579 Great. The wedding is this Tuesday. 1319 00:59:50,261 --> 00:59:52,263 Oh, you’re already booked. 1320 00:59:53,664 --> 00:59:55,666 Okay, thank you. 1321 00:59:58,909 --> 00:59:59,930 Hey, have you tried this guy? 1322 01:00:00,030 --> 01:00:01,772 Renaldo Salks. 1323 01:00:01,872 --> 01:00:04,014 Says he’s the best wedding photographer in Palm Springs. 1324 01:00:04,114 --> 01:00:05,376 Oh, yeah, I tried him a couple weeks ago 1325 01:00:05,476 --> 01:00:07,178 before we booked this other one, 1326 01:00:07,278 --> 01:00:09,780 but his messages were full, and I couldn’t get through. 1327 01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:11,662 Well, his social media says 1328 01:00:11,762 --> 01:00:13,704 he’s working an engagement party tomorrow 1329 01:00:13,804 --> 01:00:15,146 at the country club. 1330 01:00:15,246 --> 01:00:17,708 It’s too bad we can’t go ask him. 1331 01:00:17,808 --> 01:00:19,109 Why can’t we? 1332 01:00:19,209 --> 01:00:21,852 Uh, because we’re not invited. 1333 01:00:27,458 --> 01:00:31,982 ♪♪ 1334 01:00:37,668 --> 01:00:39,089 Just act like you’ve been invited 1335 01:00:39,189 --> 01:00:40,811 and nobody knows the difference. 1336 01:00:40,911 --> 01:00:42,653 Why do I feel like you’ve crashed a party before? 1337 01:00:42,753 --> 01:00:43,934 It was a long time ago, 1338 01:00:44,034 --> 01:00:45,536 and I was writing a dissertation. 1339 01:00:45,636 --> 01:00:47,338 Okay. 1340 01:00:47,438 --> 01:00:49,219 Relax your shoulders a bit. 1341 01:00:49,319 --> 01:00:51,181 Oh, there he is. 1342 01:00:51,281 --> 01:00:52,423 Can I get you to-- Yeah, beautiful. 1343 01:00:52,523 --> 01:00:53,824 Smile a little bit. Yeah! 1344 01:00:53,924 --> 01:00:56,547 Okay, so what’s the plan? 1345 01:00:56,647 --> 01:00:58,028 We’re just gonna wing it. 1346 01:00:58,128 --> 01:00:59,590 He’s gonna work his way through the guests, 1347 01:00:59,690 --> 01:01:01,311 and then we wait for our chance to talk to him. 1348 01:01:01,411 --> 01:01:03,153 Okay, and what do we do till then? 1349 01:01:03,253 --> 01:01:05,676 Enjoy a party we didn’t have to plan. 1350 01:01:05,776 --> 01:01:07,778 I like that. 1351 01:01:11,021 --> 01:01:12,523 You’re right. 1352 01:01:12,623 --> 01:01:14,685 When you act like you belong, no one even notices. 1353 01:01:14,785 --> 01:01:16,787 It’s a bizarre human trait. 1354 01:01:17,588 --> 01:01:18,489 Listen, about the job-- 1355 01:01:18,589 --> 01:01:20,651 Before you say anything, 1356 01:01:20,751 --> 01:01:22,653 I’ve been thinking about it, 1357 01:01:22,753 --> 01:01:24,535 and I want you to take it. 1358 01:01:24,635 --> 01:01:25,976 What about you? 1359 01:01:26,076 --> 01:01:29,540 Lovely couple. May I take your picture? 1360 01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:31,261 - You may. - Yes... 1361 01:01:31,361 --> 01:01:33,263 if we can ask you a question. 1362 01:01:33,363 --> 01:01:35,025 I don’t use filters, if that’s your question. 1363 01:01:35,125 --> 01:01:37,067 No, that’s not it. Are you available 1364 01:01:37,167 --> 01:01:41,271 to shoot a wedding on the Fourth of July? 1365 01:01:41,371 --> 01:01:43,674 This Fourth of July, as in a few days from now? 1366 01:01:43,774 --> 01:01:47,598 Yes, here in Palm Springs at our vacation home. 1367 01:01:47,698 --> 01:01:50,000 Are you friends of John or Ellie? 1368 01:01:50,100 --> 01:01:51,241 Um... 1369 01:01:51,341 --> 01:01:52,442 Neither. 1370 01:01:52,542 --> 01:01:54,084 I don’t understand. 1371 01:01:54,184 --> 01:01:56,566 Well, we weren’t able to get in touch with you, 1372 01:01:56,666 --> 01:01:58,648 and we knew you’d be here. 1373 01:01:58,748 --> 01:02:00,851 I think this is the first time 1374 01:02:00,951 --> 01:02:02,893 I’ve been stalked for my services. 1375 01:02:02,993 --> 01:02:04,294 Flattered? 1376 01:02:04,394 --> 01:02:05,896 A little scared. 1377 01:02:05,996 --> 01:02:07,457 It’s for my sister. 1378 01:02:07,557 --> 01:02:09,219 Our photographer had a baby and can’t make it, 1379 01:02:09,319 --> 01:02:11,321 and we are desperate. 1380 01:02:12,362 --> 01:02:14,584 Normally I’d say no because this is weird, 1381 01:02:14,684 --> 01:02:16,186 but since you’ve gone to all this trouble 1382 01:02:16,286 --> 01:02:17,908 of tracking me down, 1383 01:02:18,008 --> 01:02:19,950 and you’ve been at this party for half an hour 1384 01:02:20,050 --> 01:02:22,392 without being noticed, 1385 01:02:22,492 --> 01:02:23,633 I guess okay. 1386 01:02:23,733 --> 01:02:24,875 - Yes! - Thank you so much! 1387 01:02:24,975 --> 01:02:25,916 Thank you. 1388 01:02:26,016 --> 01:02:27,357 You’re welcome. 1389 01:02:27,457 --> 01:02:29,679 Better not take any photos of you at this. 1390 01:02:29,779 --> 01:02:31,441 Yeah, it’s probably best you don’t. 1391 01:02:31,541 --> 01:02:33,743 People are starting to stare, so we should probably head out. 1392 01:02:35,225 --> 01:02:36,326 Thank you again. 1393 01:02:36,426 --> 01:02:37,647 You’re welcome. 1394 01:02:37,747 --> 01:02:39,409 Thank you. 1395 01:02:39,509 --> 01:02:41,511 May I take your photo? 1396 01:02:53,563 --> 01:02:54,544 - You’re back! - Oh, hey. 1397 01:02:54,644 --> 01:02:55,905 Yes, finally. 1398 01:02:56,005 --> 01:02:57,787 Every time we were close to finishing, 1399 01:02:57,887 --> 01:02:59,309 something else came up. 1400 01:02:59,409 --> 01:03:00,710 TRACY: Where were you guys? 1401 01:03:00,810 --> 01:03:03,393 Oh, you know, just getting Renaldo Salks 1402 01:03:03,493 --> 01:03:04,794 to photograph your wedding. 1403 01:03:04,894 --> 01:03:07,037 - No way. - That’s great. 1404 01:03:07,137 --> 01:03:08,918 TRACY: But what about the other photographer? 1405 01:03:09,018 --> 01:03:11,161 She had a baby, but the important thing 1406 01:03:11,261 --> 01:03:13,563 is that we are on track with everything for the wedding. 1407 01:03:13,663 --> 01:03:15,245 I know. It’s so incredible. 1408 01:03:15,345 --> 01:03:17,347 Oh, you’re the best. 1409 01:03:31,401 --> 01:03:34,384 See, now you wanna keep your shoulders, waist, and knees 1410 01:03:34,484 --> 01:03:35,945 all parallel to the ground 1411 01:03:36,045 --> 01:03:37,307 so that when you swing, 1412 01:03:37,407 --> 01:03:40,430 you get the full momentum of the twist. 1413 01:03:40,530 --> 01:03:41,951 - Okay. - Okay? 1414 01:03:42,051 --> 01:03:44,053 Okay. 1415 01:03:53,703 --> 01:03:55,885 Better, nice. 1416 01:03:55,985 --> 01:03:57,206 Now just make sure 1417 01:03:57,306 --> 01:03:59,048 that you curve that club around your body. 1418 01:03:59,148 --> 01:04:00,610 You don’t hit the club straight 1419 01:04:00,710 --> 01:04:02,251 in order to make the ball go straight. 1420 01:04:02,351 --> 01:04:04,293 - Okay. - All right. 1421 01:04:04,393 --> 01:04:05,735 Hey, I appreciate your help. 1422 01:04:05,835 --> 01:04:07,937 If Robert actually ever invites me back out, 1423 01:04:08,037 --> 01:04:09,499 I wanna show off my golfing skills 1424 01:04:09,599 --> 01:04:12,382 and not my ability to chuck a club into the lake. 1425 01:04:12,482 --> 01:04:16,466 Of course. Besides, it helps keep my mind off things, so... 1426 01:04:16,566 --> 01:04:17,587 The wedding? 1427 01:04:17,687 --> 01:04:19,829 Yeah. 1428 01:04:19,929 --> 01:04:21,270 Is everything okay? 1429 01:04:21,370 --> 01:04:23,553 No, not exactly. 1430 01:04:23,653 --> 01:04:25,074 Cold feet? 1431 01:04:25,174 --> 01:04:26,636 No, no, it’s nothing like that. 1432 01:04:26,736 --> 01:04:28,518 I can’t wait to marry Tracy, 1433 01:04:28,618 --> 01:04:31,280 but once I found out that my grandma couldn’t make it, 1434 01:04:31,380 --> 01:04:33,282 along with pretty much half of my family, 1435 01:04:33,382 --> 01:04:36,205 I started to wonder if we should have the wedding now at all. 1436 01:04:36,305 --> 01:04:39,809 I wanna share the most important day of my life 1437 01:04:39,909 --> 01:04:41,210 with the ones that I love, 1438 01:04:41,310 --> 01:04:44,053 and I know that Tracy has her heart set 1439 01:04:44,153 --> 01:04:47,797 on having this wedding here at the vacation house and-- 1440 01:04:49,358 --> 01:04:50,860 I’m sorry. 1441 01:04:50,960 --> 01:04:52,341 I didn’t mean to dump this all on you. 1442 01:04:52,441 --> 01:04:53,743 I just don’t know what to do. 1443 01:04:53,843 --> 01:04:54,984 Look, it’s fine. 1444 01:04:55,084 --> 01:04:56,666 I get it. 1445 01:04:56,766 --> 01:04:59,789 I’d say your best bet is just go talk to Tracy. 1446 01:04:59,889 --> 01:05:01,350 Tell her how you’re feeling. 1447 01:05:01,450 --> 01:05:03,592 But she is so excited about this wedding. 1448 01:05:03,692 --> 01:05:05,514 I can’t ask her not to have it. 1449 01:05:05,614 --> 01:05:07,316 Look, you love each other, right? 1450 01:05:07,416 --> 01:05:09,939 Then she’ll understand how important it is. 1451 01:05:13,342 --> 01:05:14,643 What? 1452 01:05:14,743 --> 01:05:16,726 Just realizing I should be taking my own advice. 1453 01:05:16,826 --> 01:05:18,768 I have to give an answer on the job tomorrow, 1454 01:05:18,868 --> 01:05:23,232 and Stephanie and I have a lot to talk about. 1455 01:05:25,594 --> 01:05:28,657 I’m just not sure what jewelry to wear with the dress. 1456 01:05:28,757 --> 01:05:29,779 You should do an earring. 1457 01:05:29,879 --> 01:05:31,100 [doorbell rings] 1458 01:05:31,200 --> 01:05:32,301 Dad, can you get that? 1459 01:05:32,401 --> 01:05:34,383 You guys expecting more deliveries? 1460 01:05:34,483 --> 01:05:36,485 Not until tomorrow. 1461 01:05:37,686 --> 01:05:38,667 Hi. 1462 01:05:38,767 --> 01:05:40,809 Oh, thank you, thank you. 1463 01:05:42,731 --> 01:05:43,913 Has my name on it. 1464 01:05:44,013 --> 01:05:45,995 Did you order something? 1465 01:05:46,095 --> 01:05:48,097 Nope. 1466 01:05:54,343 --> 01:05:56,345 - Can’t be. - What is it? 1467 01:05:58,027 --> 01:06:00,609 It’s the idler arm I need for my Thunderbird. 1468 01:06:00,709 --> 01:06:02,711 Who sent it to you? 1469 01:06:04,473 --> 01:06:06,475 There’s a note. 1470 01:06:08,357 --> 01:06:10,579 "Robert, Ben told me you could use one of these. 1471 01:06:10,679 --> 01:06:11,820 Enjoy. 1472 01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:13,502 Thomas Larson." 1473 01:06:13,602 --> 01:06:15,344 That’s Ben’s dad. 1474 01:06:15,444 --> 01:06:17,106 Ben did this. 1475 01:06:17,206 --> 01:06:19,208 Told you he was thoughtful. 1476 01:06:20,048 --> 01:06:22,090 I can’t believe he did this for me. 1477 01:06:30,379 --> 01:06:32,381 This looks beautiful. 1478 01:06:35,103 --> 01:06:37,105 Thank you. 1479 01:06:40,869 --> 01:06:42,871 Thank you. 1480 01:06:44,313 --> 01:06:45,734 I can’t believe that guessing the right number 1481 01:06:45,834 --> 01:06:48,056 of jelly beans in a jar got us a dinner here. 1482 01:06:48,156 --> 01:06:49,738 I’m glad it did. 1483 01:06:49,838 --> 01:06:54,583 It gives us a chance to take a step back from work and from-- 1484 01:06:54,683 --> 01:06:56,685 From wedding planning. 1485 01:06:57,726 --> 01:06:59,748 Tracy... 1486 01:06:59,848 --> 01:07:02,611 I wanna talk to you about the wedding. 1487 01:07:06,495 --> 01:07:08,076 Give it a try. 1488 01:07:08,176 --> 01:07:09,598 Oh, you bet your life. 1489 01:07:09,698 --> 01:07:11,800 [engine starts, revs] 1490 01:07:11,900 --> 01:07:13,802 - [engine idling] - That sounds good. 1491 01:07:13,902 --> 01:07:15,524 Thanks to you. 1492 01:07:15,624 --> 01:07:17,326 I’m gonna take it for a spin. You wanna come along? 1493 01:07:17,426 --> 01:07:20,208 Stephanie and I have some stuff to do, but maybe later. 1494 01:07:20,308 --> 01:07:22,210 All right, later it is. 1495 01:07:22,310 --> 01:07:24,212 [laughing] 1496 01:07:24,312 --> 01:07:26,314 Enjoy! Bye-bye. 1497 01:07:29,277 --> 01:07:31,420 You know you just validated his obsession, right? 1498 01:07:31,520 --> 01:07:32,821 Oh, you mean his hobby. 1499 01:07:32,921 --> 01:07:34,923 Same thing. 1500 01:07:36,284 --> 01:07:38,547 Look, I have to tell Quincy an answer tomorrow, 1501 01:07:38,647 --> 01:07:41,269 so we should probably talk about it. 1502 01:07:41,369 --> 01:07:43,371 I’ll go to England with you. 1503 01:07:46,454 --> 01:07:47,956 I was gonna tell you I’m not gonna take the job, 1504 01:07:48,056 --> 01:07:50,358 but you would move to England? 1505 01:07:50,458 --> 01:07:51,680 You don’t wanna take the job? 1506 01:07:51,780 --> 01:07:53,361 No, I do. 1507 01:07:53,461 --> 01:07:55,403 To work with Quincy would be a highlight of my career, 1508 01:07:55,503 --> 01:07:58,186 but without you, then it doesn’t mean anything. 1509 01:07:59,828 --> 01:08:02,050 You would really move? 1510 01:08:02,150 --> 01:08:04,152 I would for you. 1511 01:08:05,633 --> 01:08:07,635 I can’t ask you to do that. 1512 01:08:09,357 --> 01:08:11,219 I know how hard you’ve worked for everything, 1513 01:08:11,319 --> 01:08:13,662 and I couldn’t live with myself 1514 01:08:13,762 --> 01:08:15,764 if I knew I made you give it all up. 1515 01:08:17,766 --> 01:08:19,868 Maybe if we’d been together for a couple years 1516 01:08:19,968 --> 01:08:23,271 and were actually on the same page about what we wanted, 1517 01:08:23,371 --> 01:08:26,314 but we haven’t even talked about this. 1518 01:08:26,414 --> 01:08:29,417 And we don’t actually know if we want the same amount of kids. 1519 01:08:34,462 --> 01:08:36,464 Maybe we did rush into this. 1520 01:08:40,668 --> 01:08:42,670 So what now? 1521 01:08:43,992 --> 01:08:45,994 You take the job, and I stay here. 1522 01:08:48,116 --> 01:08:50,118 And us? 1523 01:08:50,518 --> 01:08:53,341 Put a pin in it, take a break. 1524 01:08:53,441 --> 01:08:55,443 You could really do that? 1525 01:08:57,765 --> 01:08:59,968 If it meant you following your dreams. 1526 01:09:01,849 --> 01:09:03,851 And you following yours. 1527 01:09:43,651 --> 01:09:45,593 Glad I caught you before you left. 1528 01:09:45,693 --> 01:09:47,955 Mr. Bishop, what are you doing here? 1529 01:09:48,055 --> 01:09:51,239 Thought I’d take another drive in the T-Bird, 1530 01:09:51,339 --> 01:09:52,400 brought me here. 1531 01:09:52,500 --> 01:09:54,522 Which brings me to my next point. 1532 01:09:54,622 --> 01:09:56,564 What are you doing here? 1533 01:09:56,664 --> 01:09:58,666 Stephanie thought this was for the best. 1534 01:10:01,228 --> 01:10:02,770 When Stephanie was a little girl, 1535 01:10:02,870 --> 01:10:04,452 she dug a hole in the wall 1536 01:10:04,552 --> 01:10:06,814 and thought the fiberglass insulation was cotton candy 1537 01:10:06,914 --> 01:10:08,776 and that it led to a magical land, 1538 01:10:08,876 --> 01:10:11,078 so no, Stephanie doesn’t always know what’s best. 1539 01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:15,823 She thought I’d be happy taking my dream job, 1540 01:10:15,923 --> 01:10:19,587 but Stephanie doesn’t realize that I can’t be happy 1541 01:10:19,687 --> 01:10:21,689 without her in my life. 1542 01:10:23,290 --> 01:10:26,534 Then I think there’s something you’ve been meaning to ask me. 1543 01:10:27,935 --> 01:10:30,077 My blessing to marry my daughter. 1544 01:10:30,177 --> 01:10:33,841 I didn’t think you liked me, Mr. Bishop. 1545 01:10:33,941 --> 01:10:35,943 Isn’t about time you called me Robert? 1546 01:10:37,865 --> 01:10:39,867 Look, I admit I... 1547 01:10:41,348 --> 01:10:43,491 I didn’t get you at first. 1548 01:10:43,591 --> 01:10:45,453 But now I see how thoughtful you are about my daughter, 1549 01:10:45,553 --> 01:10:48,055 how you put her needs before your own, 1550 01:10:48,155 --> 01:10:52,179 how you went above and beyond to get me a little car part. 1551 01:10:52,279 --> 01:10:54,622 Bottom line, I’ve never seen Stephanie smile more 1552 01:10:54,722 --> 01:10:56,063 than when she’s with you. 1553 01:10:56,163 --> 01:10:58,405 And I wish we could be together. 1554 01:11:01,168 --> 01:11:03,631 Sometimes when I’m working on the car, 1555 01:11:03,731 --> 01:11:06,233 and it’s just not doing what I want it to, 1556 01:11:06,333 --> 01:11:08,996 I stop, I breathe, 1557 01:11:09,096 --> 01:11:12,720 I look at it from a different angle, 1558 01:11:12,820 --> 01:11:14,802 try to see my other options. 1559 01:11:14,902 --> 01:11:17,945 There’s always another way to go about things. 1560 01:11:22,629 --> 01:11:25,112 Parked in a loading zone. I’d better get going. 1561 01:11:27,835 --> 01:11:29,296 So anyway, you have it. 1562 01:11:29,396 --> 01:11:31,098 Have what? 1563 01:11:31,198 --> 01:11:33,180 My blessing. 1564 01:11:33,280 --> 01:11:35,642 For whenever you need it. 1565 01:11:38,806 --> 01:11:41,088 Thank you, Robert. 1566 01:11:46,974 --> 01:11:49,016 - [car door closes] - BUS DRIVER: All aboard. 1567 01:11:51,778 --> 01:11:53,780 [engine starts] 1568 01:11:57,104 --> 01:11:59,106 ROBERT: Take care. 1569 01:12:17,364 --> 01:12:18,585 You’re up early. 1570 01:12:18,685 --> 01:12:21,428 Couldn’t sleep. 1571 01:12:21,528 --> 01:12:23,350 There’s something that I have to tell you. 1572 01:12:23,450 --> 01:12:25,953 - Me too. - Do you wanna go first? 1573 01:12:26,053 --> 01:12:28,055 No, you go. 1574 01:12:29,536 --> 01:12:31,238 Preston and I are calling off the wedding. 1575 01:12:31,338 --> 01:12:32,559 What? 1576 01:12:32,659 --> 01:12:33,880 Preston doesn’t wanna get married 1577 01:12:33,980 --> 01:12:35,282 unless all of his family can be there, 1578 01:12:35,382 --> 01:12:37,284 especially his grandmother. 1579 01:12:37,384 --> 01:12:38,645 And I agree. 1580 01:12:38,745 --> 01:12:40,247 I was just on such a whirlwind 1581 01:12:40,347 --> 01:12:42,889 with getting the wedding ready in time. 1582 01:12:42,989 --> 01:12:46,653 I never realized how he was feeling till last night. 1583 01:12:46,753 --> 01:12:48,014 I get it. 1584 01:12:48,114 --> 01:12:49,576 It’d be really hard to get married 1585 01:12:49,676 --> 01:12:51,338 without all the people that you love most there. 1586 01:12:51,438 --> 01:12:55,021 Thank you for being so understanding. 1587 01:12:55,121 --> 01:12:57,984 I know you’ve worked so hard on this wedding, 1588 01:12:58,084 --> 01:13:00,647 and I was terrified to tell you that it’s off. 1589 01:13:02,209 --> 01:13:04,791 I have to follow my heart. 1590 01:13:04,891 --> 01:13:06,473 Where’s Ben? 1591 01:13:06,573 --> 01:13:08,875 At the bus station. 1592 01:13:08,975 --> 01:13:10,757 Why? What happened? 1593 01:13:10,857 --> 01:13:14,761 I told him to take the job and to put a pin in us. 1594 01:13:14,861 --> 01:13:18,805 Stephanie, you and I both know you’re supposed to be with Ben. 1595 01:13:18,905 --> 01:13:20,327 - Go after him. - I can’t. 1596 01:13:20,427 --> 01:13:22,649 I have to let him go after what he wants. 1597 01:13:22,749 --> 01:13:24,891 Do you love him? 1598 01:13:24,991 --> 01:13:26,333 With all my heart. 1599 01:13:26,433 --> 01:13:28,214 I’ve seen the way that he talks about you, 1600 01:13:28,314 --> 01:13:29,896 the way he looks at you. 1601 01:13:29,996 --> 01:13:31,738 You think some job is more important 1602 01:13:31,838 --> 01:13:34,220 than what the two of you have? 1603 01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:36,863 It just all happened too fast. 1604 01:13:36,963 --> 01:13:38,905 I didn’t even know his favorite color 1605 01:13:39,005 --> 01:13:40,266 until a couple weeks ago. 1606 01:13:40,366 --> 01:13:41,628 Who cares about that? 1607 01:13:41,728 --> 01:13:45,151 That’s not important, and you know it. 1608 01:13:45,251 --> 01:13:48,194 I can’t give up what I’ve been working for for some guy. 1609 01:13:48,294 --> 01:13:50,637 I didn’t do it with Dave, and I’m not gonna do it now. 1610 01:13:50,737 --> 01:13:55,662 Ben is not some guy, and he is definitely not Dave. 1611 01:13:57,463 --> 01:13:59,245 You need to ask yourself 1612 01:13:59,345 --> 01:14:02,589 what is best for you and Ben as a couple. 1613 01:14:04,270 --> 01:14:07,454 You need to be honest with each other. 1614 01:14:07,554 --> 01:14:08,575 I wanna be. 1615 01:14:08,675 --> 01:14:10,537 Well? 1616 01:14:10,637 --> 01:14:12,639 What is your heart telling you? 1617 01:14:30,256 --> 01:14:32,438 He wasn’t at the bus stop. 1618 01:14:32,538 --> 01:14:34,120 I missed him. 1619 01:14:34,220 --> 01:14:36,222 Maybe check outside? 1620 01:14:36,903 --> 01:14:37,804 Why? 1621 01:14:37,904 --> 01:14:40,106 Trust me. 1622 01:14:54,480 --> 01:14:55,661 Hello, beautiful. 1623 01:14:55,761 --> 01:14:57,223 Hi. 1624 01:14:57,323 --> 01:14:59,545 So I just got off the phone with Quincy, 1625 01:14:59,645 --> 01:15:05,151 and I told him that I’m not taking the position. 1626 01:15:05,251 --> 01:15:07,754 But I did pitch him a new one. 1627 01:15:07,854 --> 01:15:10,997 One where I can stay in LA, do my research, 1628 01:15:11,097 --> 01:15:13,279 and for once a year for a couple of weeks, 1629 01:15:13,379 --> 01:15:16,202 I go to Oxford, and I teach my findings. 1630 01:15:16,302 --> 01:15:18,885 And I thought for those couple weeks, maybe... 1631 01:15:18,985 --> 01:15:20,446 that you’d come with me, 1632 01:15:20,546 --> 01:15:23,009 as long as I schedule it over the summer. 1633 01:15:23,109 --> 01:15:26,372 I like this plan. What’d he say? 1634 01:15:26,472 --> 01:15:28,954 He said he thought it would work. 1635 01:15:30,356 --> 01:15:33,059 And as far as kids go, 1636 01:15:33,159 --> 01:15:34,620 we’ll figure it out. 1637 01:15:34,720 --> 01:15:37,143 Maybe I’ll want six kids. 1638 01:15:37,243 --> 01:15:41,347 Maybe I could just do four with like two dogs. 1639 01:15:41,447 --> 01:15:44,510 I don’t care how long we’ve known each other 1640 01:15:44,610 --> 01:15:46,392 or that we don’t know every single thing 1641 01:15:46,492 --> 01:15:47,833 about each other yet 1642 01:15:47,933 --> 01:15:51,157 because, Stephanie, what we have is real, 1643 01:15:51,257 --> 01:15:54,600 and it’s lasting. 1644 01:15:54,700 --> 01:15:56,762 I’m here for you, 1645 01:15:56,862 --> 01:16:00,286 and I wanna be here for you for the rest of my life 1646 01:16:00,386 --> 01:16:02,388 ’cause my only dream is you. 1647 01:16:06,472 --> 01:16:08,374 So I’m gonna ask you a familiar question 1648 01:16:08,474 --> 01:16:11,137 that’s all about what you want, 1649 01:16:11,237 --> 01:16:15,621 not what you think is right or what you think is best for me. 1650 01:16:15,721 --> 01:16:17,823 Do you think you could answer it honestly? 1651 01:16:17,923 --> 01:16:19,925 Mm-hmm. 1652 01:16:23,329 --> 01:16:26,472 Stephanie, will you still marry me? 1653 01:16:26,572 --> 01:16:28,574 With all my heart. 1654 01:16:41,387 --> 01:16:42,768 What is this? 1655 01:16:42,868 --> 01:16:44,850 Stephanie, I wanna give this to you. 1656 01:16:44,950 --> 01:16:46,952 Mom bought it for you. 1657 01:16:47,673 --> 01:16:49,775 With it comes a wedding. 1658 01:16:49,875 --> 01:16:53,419 A perfect Fourth of July dream wedding. 1659 01:16:53,519 --> 01:16:55,521 Are you sure? 1660 01:16:56,121 --> 01:16:57,102 It’s your wedding. 1661 01:16:57,202 --> 01:16:59,204 It always really was. 1662 01:17:01,006 --> 01:17:02,508 Well, I guess I’m gonna have to get my parents 1663 01:17:02,608 --> 01:17:03,629 on the next flight out. 1664 01:17:03,729 --> 01:17:05,110 - [laughing] - Yeah! 1665 01:17:05,210 --> 01:17:07,673 [clapping] 1666 01:17:07,773 --> 01:17:11,617 ♪♪ ["Wedding March"] 1667 01:17:43,208 --> 01:17:44,469 Hey. 1668 01:17:44,569 --> 01:17:46,571 Good luck. 1669 01:17:48,774 --> 01:17:50,776 Thank you, sir. 1670 01:17:56,982 --> 01:17:59,264 You may now all be seated. 1671 01:18:02,868 --> 01:18:04,970 Ben... 1672 01:18:05,070 --> 01:18:07,693 you are my everything. 1673 01:18:07,793 --> 01:18:11,696 I am so lucky that I found you, 1674 01:18:11,796 --> 01:18:14,399 and there’s no one else I’d rather grow old with. 1675 01:18:16,281 --> 01:18:18,583 I know what I want. 1676 01:18:18,683 --> 01:18:20,685 It’s you. 1677 01:18:21,246 --> 01:18:23,248 Now and forever. 1678 01:18:29,975 --> 01:18:32,117 Stephanie... 1679 01:18:32,217 --> 01:18:34,719 no matter what roadblocks come our way, 1680 01:18:34,819 --> 01:18:39,044 I will always support and love you. 1681 01:18:39,144 --> 01:18:42,327 You are the most amazing woman that I ever met. 1682 01:18:42,427 --> 01:18:44,749 I’m so lucky that I found you. 1683 01:18:47,152 --> 01:18:49,154 Thank you. 1684 01:18:50,475 --> 01:18:53,258 Do you, Stephanie, take Ben to be your lawfully wedded husband? 1685 01:18:53,358 --> 01:18:54,980 I do. 1686 01:18:55,080 --> 01:18:58,183 Do you, Ben, take Stephanie to be your lawfully wedded wife? 1687 01:18:58,283 --> 01:18:59,344 I do. 1688 01:18:59,444 --> 01:19:01,446 You may now kiss the bride. 1689 01:19:22,387 --> 01:19:27,051 ♪ The first time I saw you, I knew ♪ 1690 01:19:27,151 --> 01:19:32,137 ♪ The spark that I couldn’t undo ♪ 1691 01:19:32,237 --> 01:19:37,782 ♪ Not even if I wanted to ♪ 1692 01:19:37,882 --> 01:19:42,667 ♪ And in this moment ♪ 1693 01:19:42,767 --> 01:19:47,392 ♪ I saw my life pass before me ♪ 1694 01:19:47,492 --> 01:19:49,073 ♪ And I knew that it was love ♪ 1695 01:19:49,173 --> 01:19:51,236 Ben is such a lovely young man. 1696 01:19:51,336 --> 01:19:53,197 Go get yourself a drink, Tom. 1697 01:19:53,297 --> 01:19:54,919 - Mom, Dad. - Yeah. 1698 01:19:55,019 --> 01:19:57,021 There’s something we wanna tell you. 1699 01:19:58,783 --> 01:20:01,326 - Good news? - Very. 1700 01:20:01,426 --> 01:20:04,128 We just got off the phone with the realtor. 1701 01:20:04,228 --> 01:20:06,891 Preston and I have decided to buy the house from you. 1702 01:20:06,991 --> 01:20:08,453 What? Oh, my-- 1703 01:20:08,553 --> 01:20:10,775 W-What about the other buyer? 1704 01:20:10,875 --> 01:20:12,176 Well, it took a little convincing, 1705 01:20:12,276 --> 01:20:13,378 but we got him to drop out. 1706 01:20:13,478 --> 01:20:14,739 Did I just hear this right? 1707 01:20:14,839 --> 01:20:16,541 - Are you guys buying the house? - We are! 1708 01:20:16,641 --> 01:20:20,304 - You sure you wanna do this? - Yes. 1709 01:20:20,404 --> 01:20:23,107 We can’t imagine not having this house in our family. 1710 01:20:23,207 --> 01:20:26,190 Besides, when Preston’s grandma feels better, 1711 01:20:26,290 --> 01:20:28,793 we still wanna have our wedding right here in the backyard. 1712 01:20:28,893 --> 01:20:31,516 Ah, well, that’s just wonderful, honey. 1713 01:20:31,616 --> 01:20:33,317 Oh, you’re gonna make me cry again. 1714 01:20:33,417 --> 01:20:36,561 Hey, would you mind if I have this dance? 1715 01:20:36,661 --> 01:20:38,803 This one and every one. 1716 01:20:38,903 --> 01:20:44,408 ♪ And in this moment ♪ 1717 01:20:44,508 --> 01:20:48,813 ♪ I see our dreams coming true ♪ 1718 01:20:48,913 --> 01:20:50,615 What? 1719 01:20:50,715 --> 01:20:53,297 I was just thinking how they found proof of humans dancing 1720 01:20:53,397 --> 01:20:55,379 on cave paintings from 9,000 years ago. 1721 01:20:55,479 --> 01:20:56,581 That’s what you were thinking about? 1722 01:20:56,681 --> 01:20:59,463 Yeah. I like how it’s in our DNA 1723 01:20:59,563 --> 01:21:01,465 to wanna connect like this. 1724 01:21:01,565 --> 01:21:05,069 - I like it. - Me too. 1725 01:21:05,169 --> 01:21:10,034 ♪ Come on, let’s find a way, find a way home ♪ 1726 01:21:10,134 --> 01:21:15,519 ♪ I’ll paint you a sky full of rainbows ♪ 1727 01:21:15,619 --> 01:21:20,725 ♪ Come on, let’s find a way ♪ 1728 01:21:20,825 --> 01:21:24,068 ♪ Home ♪ 1729 01:21:25,830 --> 01:21:28,412 ♪ Come on, let’s find a way ♪ 1730 01:21:28,512 --> 01:21:33,998 ♪ Find a way home ♪ 1731 01:21:36,280 --> 01:21:38,702 ♪ Home ♪ 1732 01:21:38,802 --> 01:21:42,166 ♪ Find a way home ♪ 1733 01:21:43,968 --> 01:21:49,013 ♪ Ooh ♪