1 00:00:01,835 --> 00:00:04,494 Previously on "The Real Housewives of Dallas" Reunion.. 2 00:00:04,505 --> 00:00:07,414 It was a positive COVID test. 3 00:00:07,491 --> 00:00:09,082 - Kary and Brandi... - Hi. 4 00:00:09,159 --> 00:00:10,342 - Hi, Andy. - ...are Zooming in. 5 00:00:10,419 --> 00:00:15,172 I have my pink briefcase with all my evidence. 6 00:00:15,182 --> 00:00:17,132 Elle Wood goes to court. 7 00:00:17,209 --> 00:00:19,509 I'm not like you. I'm not milquetoast. 8 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:20,686 I'm not a doormat. Not gonna take that. 9 00:00:20,763 --> 00:00:22,003 I'm not a doormat, but you know what I am? 10 00:00:22,081 --> 00:00:23,096 - So that's not who I am. - I'm a good friend. 11 00:00:23,173 --> 00:00:25,015 - You're divorcing? - Yeah. 12 00:00:25,026 --> 00:00:27,851 - Wow. - I wanna hug you, Kary, so bad. 13 00:00:27,862 --> 00:00:30,145 I'm not asking you for speaking lessons. 14 00:00:30,222 --> 00:00:31,855 Did any of us ever sign up for, like, 15 00:00:31,866 --> 00:00:34,691 the Tiffany Moon grammar class? 'Cause I know I didn't. 16 00:00:34,702 --> 00:00:38,195 Kameron had said "Chicken feet? No thanks. 17 00:00:38,205 --> 00:00:41,373 I'd rather eat SparkleDog Treats." 18 00:00:41,450 --> 00:00:43,700 It wasn't a personal thing, 19 00:00:43,711 --> 00:00:47,546 and I sincerely apologize that I offended you for that. 20 00:00:47,623 --> 00:00:50,832 Do you accept her ownership and her apology 21 00:00:50,909 --> 00:00:53,668 for that statement? 22 00:00:53,745 --> 00:00:56,046 - No. - You don't? 23 00:00:56,057 --> 00:00:57,056 - No. - You don't accept her-- 24 00:00:57,132 --> 00:00:58,465 We're not finished. 25 00:00:58,542 --> 00:01:06,565 ♪♪♪ 26 00:01:06,642 --> 00:01:11,561 The tweet that you tweeted out with the SparkleDog Treats-- 27 00:01:11,572 --> 00:01:14,573 to me was very offensive. 28 00:01:14,650 --> 00:01:17,818 I ate everything at dim sum, every single thing off my plate. 29 00:01:17,894 --> 00:01:19,694 Actually--Actually, Kameron, this is actually 30 00:01:19,771 --> 00:01:21,822 not even about chicken feet anymore. 31 00:01:21,898 --> 00:01:23,990 I know, exactly. I think it's personal. 32 00:01:24,067 --> 00:01:25,534 I think you don't like me, and there's a reason. 33 00:01:25,610 --> 00:01:27,661 - No. - And I really wanna know why. 34 00:01:27,737 --> 00:01:31,998 I think you are so privileged and ignorant 35 00:01:32,075 --> 00:01:36,169 that you would compare something that I eat every week 36 00:01:36,246 --> 00:01:40,590 and consider normal and try to promote your business. 37 00:01:40,601 --> 00:01:43,718 What?! Promote? Lookit, you're selling t-shirts, honey. 38 00:01:43,795 --> 00:01:45,270 You are selling t-shirts for $25... 39 00:01:45,347 --> 00:01:47,597 - Yeah, I sell t-shirts for $22. - ...with chicken feet on it. 40 00:01:47,608 --> 00:01:49,224 You're promoting yourself, my love. 41 00:01:49,301 --> 00:01:50,725 - Look at this. - You sell t-shirts 42 00:01:50,802 --> 00:01:52,277 that have chicken feet on them? - Yes, $25. 43 00:01:52,354 --> 00:01:53,837 - It says "Tastes Like Chicken." - I mean, I can't even like... 44 00:01:53,839 --> 00:01:55,114 It says "Tastes Like Chicken"? Like, the chicken feet? 45 00:01:55,190 --> 00:01:56,273 - Yes. - Okay. 46 00:01:56,283 --> 00:01:57,899 - Yeah. - Do you need this? 47 00:01:57,976 --> 00:01:59,943 - Did you forget that? - No, she remembers. 48 00:01:59,954 --> 00:02:01,361 No, I haven't forgotten any of these. 49 00:02:01,438 --> 00:02:03,613 All of these receipts that you're bringing, Kameron, 50 00:02:03,624 --> 00:02:05,699 you're, like, "This! This!" I remember. 51 00:02:05,775 --> 00:02:07,351 Yeah, I don't need you to show me. 52 00:02:07,353 --> 00:02:09,744 I have that in my head, okay? The whitesplaining, all this. 53 00:02:09,821 --> 00:02:11,296 I don't need you to show me. I remember. 54 00:02:11,373 --> 00:02:14,291 Yeah, okay, I would like to know how are you not judging me here 55 00:02:14,301 --> 00:02:16,793 as a collective group according to my race? 56 00:02:16,804 --> 00:02:18,044 Tell me right now. 57 00:02:18,121 --> 00:02:20,630 Um, I would like to first reference the scene 58 00:02:20,641 --> 00:02:22,141 in which that was, like, suited for? 59 00:02:22,217 --> 00:02:25,260 This is bullsh--, Tiffany. This is bullsh--. 60 00:02:25,337 --> 00:02:28,147 - Are you ready to listen now? - Yeah. 61 00:02:28,223 --> 00:02:30,557 I'm happy to listen, and you need to explain that. 62 00:02:30,634 --> 00:02:32,893 So that tweet was live-tweeted 63 00:02:32,969 --> 00:02:35,228 when it was Kary's 50th birthday party, 64 00:02:35,305 --> 00:02:38,148 and we sat down to dinner, and the food came out, 65 00:02:38,159 --> 00:02:39,941 and I think I said something like, "Oh, my God. 66 00:02:40,018 --> 00:02:41,818 This food is delicious." 67 00:02:41,829 --> 00:02:43,987 This looks so good. 68 00:02:43,998 --> 00:02:47,115 It's a lot better than the chicken feet. I know that. 69 00:02:47,192 --> 00:02:49,075 My people take offense to that. 70 00:02:49,152 --> 00:02:50,994 You just offended everyone in China. 71 00:02:51,005 --> 00:02:52,996 I'm sorry, girl. I can't--No. It has nothing to do with China 72 00:02:53,007 --> 00:02:54,840 that I don't like chicken feet. - It's like our cultural food. 73 00:02:54,917 --> 00:02:56,249 It isn't, no, no, no. 74 00:02:56,326 --> 00:02:58,010 That's stereotyping your whole country right now. 75 00:02:58,086 --> 00:02:59,628 Do you realize that? 76 00:02:59,704 --> 00:03:02,681 And I was like, okay, thanks, whitesplaining. 77 00:03:02,758 --> 00:03:04,799 Thank you for explaining my culture to me! 78 00:03:04,876 --> 00:03:06,259 I wasn't talking about racism, Tiffany. 79 00:03:06,336 --> 00:03:07,844 - I was talking about food. - Yes. 80 00:03:07,855 --> 00:03:09,304 It wasn't about racism! You made it-- 81 00:03:09,381 --> 00:03:11,306 Food...is...part...of... my...culture! 82 00:03:11,383 --> 00:03:13,683 Don't explain my culture to me. 83 00:03:13,694 --> 00:03:15,018 I was comparing food. 84 00:03:15,029 --> 00:03:16,645 I'm not talking about your culture, Tiffany. 85 00:03:16,721 --> 00:03:18,197 - I was talking about food. - Like, how do we go from... 86 00:03:18,273 --> 00:03:19,689 She's saying food--She's saying food is part of her culture. 87 00:03:19,700 --> 00:03:21,191 - Ooh, child! Child. - Okay. 88 00:03:21,202 --> 00:03:25,862 She's saying she-- when you talk about food... 89 00:03:25,873 --> 00:03:27,447 - Yeah. - ...that it's important 90 00:03:27,524 --> 00:03:28,765 in her culture, that it's-- - There's eight other countries 91 00:03:28,767 --> 00:03:30,267 that eat chicken foot. I ate my whole plate. 92 00:03:30,269 --> 00:03:32,327 There's 18 other countries that eat chicken foot. So what? 93 00:03:32,404 --> 00:03:34,037 Yeah. Stephanie said she'd rather ck 94 00:03:34,048 --> 00:03:37,207 her husband's asshole than eat a chicken foot. 95 00:03:37,218 --> 00:03:39,209 So why am I the one being attacked right now? 96 00:03:39,220 --> 00:03:40,961 I never said anything about it. 97 00:03:41,037 --> 00:03:42,221 Were you offended by what she said, 98 00:03:42,297 --> 00:03:43,338 that she would rather lick her husband's asshole? 99 00:03:43,415 --> 00:03:45,340 That's far worse, Tiffany. 100 00:03:45,417 --> 00:03:48,718 I mean, his asshole may taste good. I don't know. 101 00:03:48,729 --> 00:03:50,887 Like, what on earth? Why are you after me? 102 00:03:50,898 --> 00:03:52,222 - It may. I don't know. - You're always surprising me. 103 00:03:52,233 --> 00:03:54,224 - [ laughs ] - You're very surprising. 104 00:03:54,235 --> 00:03:55,892 Well, you're gonna let that go, 105 00:03:55,903 --> 00:03:58,070 and you're gonna sit here and attack me. 106 00:03:58,146 --> 00:03:59,729 What do you think of that? I am curious. 107 00:03:59,740 --> 00:04:01,907 Stephanie did not say to me, 108 00:04:01,984 --> 00:04:05,235 "You're offending your own culture. 109 00:04:05,246 --> 00:04:07,737 You're stereotyping..." whatever the sentence was. 110 00:04:07,748 --> 00:04:09,364 That's the part that I'm whitesplaining. 111 00:04:09,441 --> 00:04:12,242 I wanted to look at you as an individual. 112 00:04:12,253 --> 00:04:13,477 - Okay. - Not the butthole, whatever. 113 00:04:13,479 --> 00:04:14,586 I wanted to look at you as an individual. 114 00:04:14,663 --> 00:04:15,812 - Okay. - You know what I mean? 115 00:04:15,814 --> 00:04:17,923 Don't tell me, a woman born in China... 116 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:19,091 - Got it. - ...about my culture. 117 00:04:19,167 --> 00:04:20,592 - Got it. - That's whitesplaining. 118 00:04:20,669 --> 00:04:24,763 And you seemed so more concerned 119 00:04:24,840 --> 00:04:26,715 with the public's perception 120 00:04:26,791 --> 00:04:29,384 of you possibly being "racist," canceling you... 121 00:04:29,461 --> 00:04:32,929 Who wouldn't right now, Tiffany? Who wouldn't? Give me a break! 122 00:04:32,940 --> 00:04:34,931 ...than actually hurting my feelings. 123 00:04:34,942 --> 00:04:36,349 Well, Twitter agreed with me, so Twitter removed your post. 124 00:04:36,426 --> 00:04:37,934 - Right, oh. - So just letting you know. 125 00:04:37,945 --> 00:04:40,770 No, no, no, no, no, no, no. No, no, no, boo. 126 00:04:40,781 --> 00:04:42,230 Twitter did not remove my post. 127 00:04:42,307 --> 00:04:44,283 - Right here. Right here. - This is your account. 128 00:04:44,359 --> 00:04:46,401 - She deleted it. - I removed my post. 129 00:04:46,478 --> 00:04:47,902 - She deleted her post. - No, honey, lookit. 130 00:04:47,979 --> 00:04:49,904 "Thank you for report. We reviewed the account, 131 00:04:49,981 --> 00:04:52,124 and your tweet has been removed from Tiffany Moon's post." 132 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,117 - There you go. - I have so many tweets. 133 00:04:54,128 --> 00:04:55,535 Honey, I don't think Twitter lies, babe. 134 00:04:55,612 --> 00:04:57,787 I have never deleted a single tweet except that one. 135 00:04:57,798 --> 00:04:59,280 Twitter doesn't lie. Twitter doesn't lie. 136 00:04:59,358 --> 00:05:02,042 - Twitter doesn't lie. - Twitter doesn't lie, my love. 137 00:05:02,118 --> 00:05:03,302 - All right, well... - Oh, Twitter doesn't... 138 00:05:03,378 --> 00:05:04,461 - No, it doesn't. - I wanna--I wanna-- 139 00:05:04,471 --> 00:05:06,379 I wanna talk about the pizza party. 140 00:05:06,456 --> 00:05:10,800 According to your fellow Housewives and the viewers, 141 00:05:10,811 --> 00:05:13,303 your epicurean pizza party... - Yeah. 142 00:05:13,314 --> 00:05:14,721 ...was kind of a flop. 143 00:05:14,798 --> 00:05:17,891 No fighting. On your first infraction, 144 00:05:17,967 --> 00:05:20,977 you shall receive a verbal warning. 145 00:05:20,988 --> 00:05:25,315 - You just ate some crickets. - No, I didn't. 146 00:05:25,326 --> 00:05:27,442 - Hey, Brandi? - [ retching and coughing ] 147 00:05:27,519 --> 00:05:31,112 Ew, gross. 148 00:05:31,189 --> 00:05:35,334 Nikki Nik tweeted, "Tiffany's party was like an H.R. meeting." 149 00:05:35,410 --> 00:05:38,078 BravoTea tweeted, "Tiffany has more rules at her pizza party 150 00:05:38,154 --> 00:05:41,998 than the U.S. has COVID-19 restrictions." 151 00:05:42,009 --> 00:05:46,294 Um, Brandi, what was your reaction to the pizza party 152 00:05:46,371 --> 00:05:48,421 and the rules and the cricket? 153 00:05:48,498 --> 00:05:51,683 As far as the cricket, like, I was in my first trimester, 154 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:54,511 and I did not know, so I think that also has something to do 155 00:05:54,521 --> 00:05:56,188 with me throwing up. 156 00:05:56,264 --> 00:05:57,847 Tiffany, Jake from Topeka, Kansas, said, 157 00:05:57,858 --> 00:06:01,860 "Tricking everyone into eating crickets was pretty extra, 158 00:06:01,937 --> 00:06:04,312 "especially after the whole chicken feet thing. 159 00:06:04,389 --> 00:06:07,107 "Not really the best way to get yourself a girl posse. 160 00:06:07,183 --> 00:06:09,359 Do you still stand by that prank?" 161 00:06:09,370 --> 00:06:11,861 I mean, I get that eating crickets is gross, 162 00:06:11,872 --> 00:06:14,781 but, like, it's not-- it's FDA-approved. 163 00:06:14,858 --> 00:06:16,491 It's not poisonous, you know? 164 00:06:16,568 --> 00:06:17,867 Actually, it's a criminal offense. 165 00:06:17,878 --> 00:06:19,211 Actually, it's a criminal offense, 166 00:06:19,287 --> 00:06:20,870 and it's a misdemeanor in the state of Texas. 167 00:06:20,881 --> 00:06:22,455 What's a criminal offense? 168 00:06:22,532 --> 00:06:24,216 Hiding food in people's food without them knowing. 169 00:06:24,292 --> 00:06:27,001 Right here. "Pen-al" Code, Title 5, Chapter 22. 170 00:06:27,078 --> 00:06:28,962 - Pee-nal code. - "Assaultive Offenses." 171 00:06:29,038 --> 00:06:31,172 - Thank you, Lawyer Barbie. - Penal code. 172 00:06:31,249 --> 00:06:32,724 - Penal code. - I will say that I don't-- 173 00:06:32,801 --> 00:06:35,969 I do not mind--I do not mind a joke and a prank. 174 00:06:36,045 --> 00:06:37,512 So I guess it was better that it was me 175 00:06:37,589 --> 00:06:39,347 and none of the other ladies. 176 00:06:39,424 --> 00:06:42,225 Stephanie, Sharon from Plainview, New York, said, 177 00:06:42,236 --> 00:06:45,395 "All of you went after Tiffany for her cricket prank, 178 00:06:45,406 --> 00:06:49,816 "but why am I 100% sure that if Brandi did the cricket prank, 179 00:06:49,893 --> 00:06:52,360 you all would have thought it was hilarious?" 180 00:06:52,437 --> 00:06:54,246 Because it was more of, you do these shows, 181 00:06:54,322 --> 00:06:57,824 and obviously, you wanna create moments, right? 182 00:06:57,901 --> 00:07:00,419 So I think Tiffany, on every party she threw, up until 183 00:07:00,495 --> 00:07:04,372 the, um, Hawaiian party, she was trying to get a reaction. 184 00:07:04,449 --> 00:07:05,757 Like, chicken feet was to get a reaction. 185 00:07:05,834 --> 00:07:08,093 Let's be honest, right? Putting crickets in our food 186 00:07:08,170 --> 00:07:10,336 was to get a reaction. Giving up all those stupid rules 187 00:07:10,413 --> 00:07:13,590 was to get a reaction, and then when we get a reaction, 188 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:15,550 you're like, "I don't know why they don't wanna be my friend," 189 00:07:15,627 --> 00:07:18,511 but it's like, it's part of our job to react as well. 190 00:07:18,588 --> 00:07:20,889 So we're kind of damned if we do, damned if we don't. 191 00:07:20,965 --> 00:07:24,184 - Yeah. - And it sucks. 192 00:07:24,260 --> 00:07:27,279 D'Andra, did they overreact about the cricket prank? 193 00:07:27,355 --> 00:07:29,948 I believe so, but I like to eat a lot of different things, 194 00:07:30,025 --> 00:07:31,191 so nothing bothers me. 195 00:07:31,267 --> 00:07:32,692 Oh, my God. You're asking D'Andra? 196 00:07:32,769 --> 00:07:34,344 - D'Andra eats everything. - Yeah, don't ask D'Andra. 197 00:07:34,346 --> 00:07:35,528 - Yeah, nothing bothers me. - She literally will eat worms. 198 00:07:35,605 --> 00:07:37,104 I'm always up for a new culinary adventure. 199 00:07:37,182 --> 00:07:39,240 - Doesn't matter what it is. - Se will eat anything nasty. 200 00:07:39,317 --> 00:07:40,459 Kameron, Hannah from Baltimore said, 201 00:07:40,535 --> 00:07:42,410 "Do you think everyone was harder on Tiffany 202 00:07:42,487 --> 00:07:44,796 "in her first season than they were on you 203 00:07:44,873 --> 00:07:45,964 your first season on the show?" 204 00:07:46,041 --> 00:07:48,133 I had a really hard time my first season, 205 00:07:48,210 --> 00:07:50,376 and I reached out to Tiffany, telling her, 206 00:07:50,453 --> 00:07:52,921 like, I've been there before. I've been the new girl. 207 00:07:52,997 --> 00:07:55,465 And I constantly--I felt like throughout the season, 208 00:07:55,476 --> 00:07:57,425 wanted to check on her, like, send her messages, 209 00:07:57,502 --> 00:07:59,469 "Are you okay? Let me know. 210 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:01,596 I know what it's like to be the new girl." 211 00:08:01,673 --> 00:08:02,972 Well, you're looking at me funny. 212 00:08:02,983 --> 00:08:04,098 Are you saying I didn't do that? 213 00:08:04,175 --> 00:08:05,099 'Cause I have text messages. 214 00:08:05,176 --> 00:08:06,226 Don't put your suspicion on me. 215 00:08:06,302 --> 00:08:08,311 Honey, I got text messages right here. 216 00:08:08,322 --> 00:08:09,938 You want me to get 'em out? Do you need me to get 'em out? 217 00:08:10,014 --> 00:08:11,156 I don't remember you reaching out to-- 218 00:08:11,233 --> 00:08:12,398 Okay, if you want me to get 'em out, I will. 219 00:08:12,475 --> 00:08:14,901 - Okay, so-- - Kameron, can't you just 220 00:08:14,978 --> 00:08:16,386 remember stuff without having to riffle through a piece of paper 221 00:08:16,388 --> 00:08:17,904 every five minutes? It's really annoying, and like-- 222 00:08:17,981 --> 00:08:19,405 - It is kind of annoying. - Well, I just-- 223 00:08:19,482 --> 00:08:20,907 - Annoying the crap out of me. - I know it's annoying, 224 00:08:20,984 --> 00:08:22,167 but I just don't want people to be a victim, 225 00:08:22,244 --> 00:08:23,835 and you just--you need to tell the truth. 226 00:08:23,912 --> 00:08:25,995 You must have been texting the wrong phone number, honey. 227 00:08:26,006 --> 00:08:27,005 I wanna see them. I wanna see 'em. 228 00:08:27,082 --> 00:08:29,082 Let me get 'em out here. 229 00:08:29,158 --> 00:08:31,176 This is gonna be a long day. 230 00:08:31,253 --> 00:08:34,003 - [ papers rustling ] - Here you go. 231 00:08:34,014 --> 00:08:37,507 "Hey, girlie, was worried about you since you left early. 232 00:08:37,518 --> 00:08:39,351 "I hope you really are okay. 233 00:08:39,427 --> 00:08:42,095 "I know cast trips are insane, and it's a lot to take in. 234 00:08:42,171 --> 00:08:46,024 "Know that I'm always here if you ever want to vent or talk. 235 00:08:46,101 --> 00:08:48,101 "Took me a long time to figure everything out, 236 00:08:48,177 --> 00:08:50,353 so I know how it is being the newbie." 237 00:08:50,364 --> 00:08:52,480 And then you said, "No, I just had some stuff 238 00:08:52,557 --> 00:08:56,076 to get to at home. Thanks for your support, babe." 239 00:08:58,038 --> 00:08:59,371 You know, it seemed like at the end of the season, 240 00:08:59,447 --> 00:09:02,207 you were in a really great place with everyone. 241 00:09:02,284 --> 00:09:04,367 Then the show starts airing, 242 00:09:04,378 --> 00:09:07,036 and then people are tweeting about the show. 243 00:09:07,047 --> 00:09:10,331 I'm assuming that watching the show really made you 244 00:09:10,408 --> 00:09:12,333 unsure about how you felt about everyone. 245 00:09:12,410 --> 00:09:13,385 - Yeah. - Is that fair? 246 00:09:13,461 --> 00:09:14,702 - It's very strange... - Yeah. 247 00:09:14,780 --> 00:09:18,223 ...to--to watch something you did months ago. 248 00:09:18,300 --> 00:09:21,009 And I mean, do you feel like social media 249 00:09:21,085 --> 00:09:24,387 really set your relationship with Tiffany back? 250 00:09:24,398 --> 00:09:26,014 I'm telling you, I was so excited 251 00:09:26,090 --> 00:09:28,349 for you to join our cast. 252 00:09:28,426 --> 00:09:30,184 I thought you were gonna be my number one alliance. 253 00:09:30,261 --> 00:09:32,228 Like, I was like, yes. 254 00:09:32,239 --> 00:09:34,406 And then I felt like once the show wrapped, 255 00:09:34,482 --> 00:09:37,650 I felt like your cyberbullying was like a different person, 256 00:09:37,727 --> 00:09:41,696 and I just got hurt feelings. - So where's the daylight here? 257 00:09:41,773 --> 00:09:43,656 Is there a path forward for you two? 258 00:09:43,733 --> 00:09:47,201 I'm an optimist. I feel like there's always a chance forward. 259 00:09:47,278 --> 00:09:50,747 I feel like the bridge has not been burned. 260 00:09:50,757 --> 00:09:54,250 Um...but I also feel like the-- 261 00:09:54,261 --> 00:09:56,586 Oh, my God. I can't take it with the papers. 262 00:09:56,597 --> 00:09:58,171 Oh, you're getting out the paperwork? 263 00:09:58,247 --> 00:10:00,089 - [ laughing ] - No, I have one more thing. 264 00:10:00,100 --> 00:10:01,933 - Oh, my God. - You have one more thing? 265 00:10:02,010 --> 00:10:04,102 - We're wrapping this up. - I can't take this seriously. 266 00:10:04,179 --> 00:10:05,428 - Oh, my God. - I'm just-- 267 00:10:05,439 --> 00:10:07,105 but this is the thing. I have another-- 268 00:10:07,182 --> 00:10:09,098 I have a whole conversation between us, 269 00:10:09,109 --> 00:10:10,609 and we said we're moving forward, 270 00:10:10,685 --> 00:10:13,111 and it's like every time I put-- 271 00:10:13,188 --> 00:10:14,446 Okay, well, this is the moving forward after that. 272 00:10:14,522 --> 00:10:15,355 But there's been a hundred moving forwards with her. 273 00:10:15,431 --> 00:10:16,856 And within 24 hours, it's like-- 274 00:10:16,933 --> 00:10:19,108 This is the moving forward. This is the moving forward. 275 00:10:19,119 --> 00:10:20,601 Okay, let's hope. Okay. 276 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:24,113 So she's saying she's an optimist, and she feels like-- 277 00:10:24,124 --> 00:10:27,408 Like there's always the chance for a path forward, 278 00:10:27,485 --> 00:10:30,745 but not if you keep mentioning the past. 279 00:10:30,822 --> 00:10:33,623 I'm trying to figure out how are we gonna change this? 280 00:10:33,634 --> 00:10:36,134 - Stop talking about the past. - But you said that before. 281 00:10:36,211 --> 00:10:38,419 So I just wanna see, like, if it's the real deal here. 282 00:10:38,496 --> 00:10:40,421 Like, this is the real deal. 'Cause I will put my hand in. 283 00:10:40,498 --> 00:10:45,301 And I will hug you, and I will say, let's do this, babe. 284 00:10:45,312 --> 00:10:47,428 - Let's have a reset... - Okay. 285 00:10:47,505 --> 00:10:48,647 - ...from now on. - Let's hug. Okay, let's hug. 286 00:10:48,723 --> 00:10:50,139 [ laughs ] I-- 287 00:10:50,150 --> 00:10:51,265 Well, I didn't know about the hugging part. 288 00:10:51,342 --> 00:10:53,267 - I mean, let's do it. - [ laughs ] 289 00:10:53,344 --> 00:10:55,603 - Okay. Okay? - Okay. 290 00:10:55,680 --> 00:10:58,657 Okay. 291 00:10:58,733 --> 00:11:00,817 I don't know about COVID restrictions there, 292 00:11:00,827 --> 00:11:02,610 but I appreciate it got done. 293 00:11:02,687 --> 00:11:03,778 We all get negative COVID tested. 294 00:11:03,855 --> 00:11:05,446 - Okay, good. Okay, good. - We just did. 295 00:11:05,523 --> 00:11:07,657 Okay, all right, we're gonna take a break. 296 00:11:07,668 --> 00:11:10,001 - Oh, my God. - Bridge is not burnt. 297 00:11:10,078 --> 00:11:13,663 - I'm so tired. - We'll be right back. 298 00:11:13,674 --> 00:11:15,456 Coming up next... 299 00:11:15,533 --> 00:11:19,010 A video was making its rounds about your husband Bryan 300 00:11:19,087 --> 00:11:20,503 at a club with another woman. 301 00:11:20,514 --> 00:11:23,056 ♪♪♪ 302 00:11:27,687 --> 00:11:29,512 "It'll be fun," you said. 303 00:11:29,523 --> 00:11:32,306 "You'll make new friends," you said. [ laughs ] 304 00:11:32,383 --> 00:11:33,566 [ laughs ] 305 00:11:35,270 --> 00:11:37,362 If I get COVID after hugging you, it's okay. 306 00:11:37,439 --> 00:11:40,606 - Yeah. I'll take those chances. - After all we've been through. 307 00:11:40,683 --> 00:11:43,535 We'll all be COVID girls. 308 00:11:43,611 --> 00:11:44,777 D'Andra, I'm gonna put this back on. 309 00:11:44,854 --> 00:11:46,279 Yes, thank you very much. Appreciate it. 310 00:11:46,355 --> 00:11:47,372 Okay, guys, hold the talking. 311 00:11:47,449 --> 00:11:49,449 Still waiting to bring us back in. 312 00:11:49,525 --> 00:11:52,535 4, 3, 2... 313 00:11:52,546 --> 00:11:54,203 We are back on the veranda 314 00:11:54,214 --> 00:11:56,548 with the Lone Star ladies of Dallas. 315 00:11:56,624 --> 00:11:58,383 I'm Andy Cohen. 316 00:11:58,460 --> 00:12:01,219 The Dallas Housewives certainly have a way with words. 317 00:12:01,296 --> 00:12:03,796 Which way those words are going? Well, that's another story. 318 00:12:03,873 --> 00:12:07,675 So let's just Astroglide into this, 319 00:12:07,752 --> 00:12:10,895 and you can see their best blunders for themselves. 320 00:12:10,972 --> 00:12:14,557 Tiffany's having all of us meet her for "dimsam." 321 00:12:14,568 --> 00:12:16,559 - How do you say it? - "Dimsam"? 322 00:12:16,570 --> 00:12:18,236 Isn't it "dimsam"? 323 00:12:18,313 --> 00:12:19,812 It's maybe more "suh" on the end. I don't know. 324 00:12:19,889 --> 00:12:20,905 "Dimsam"? 325 00:12:20,982 --> 00:12:22,741 You're saying "sum" kinda weird. 326 00:12:22,817 --> 00:12:24,150 "Dimsam"? 327 00:12:24,227 --> 00:12:27,403 I didn't have my typhoon shot updated. 328 00:12:27,414 --> 00:12:29,322 - Typhoon? - Typhoon? What is it called? 329 00:12:29,398 --> 00:12:32,584 - Typhoid. [ laughs ] - Typhoid! 330 00:12:32,660 --> 00:12:34,419 Typhoon shot. [ laughs ] 331 00:12:34,496 --> 00:12:36,412 Oh, my God! 332 00:12:36,423 --> 00:12:38,673 After my little "shenan-digas" I did last night... 333 00:12:39,742 --> 00:12:42,877 "Shenan-digas"? How do you say those? Shenan--what? 334 00:12:42,954 --> 00:12:44,921 - [ laughing ] - "Shenan-digas"? 335 00:12:44,931 --> 00:12:47,432 Shenanigans. 336 00:12:47,509 --> 00:12:48,600 - Aw! - Too-doo! 337 00:12:48,676 --> 00:12:50,426 They're all clean today. 338 00:12:50,437 --> 00:12:53,179 Too-doo? What does "too-doo" mean? 339 00:12:53,256 --> 00:12:54,272 - It means "Ta-da!" - "Ta-da." 340 00:12:54,349 --> 00:12:55,348 [ laughs ] 341 00:12:55,424 --> 00:12:57,391 ♪ Too-doo ♪ 342 00:12:57,468 --> 00:13:00,895 It raised a flag to me with the Astrogliding thing. 343 00:13:00,972 --> 00:13:02,280 What is Astrogliding? 344 00:13:02,357 --> 00:13:04,357 Leaving your body and-- and your soul. 345 00:13:04,433 --> 00:13:06,192 That's astral projection. That's not Astrogliding. 346 00:13:06,269 --> 00:13:08,286 - Well... - Astroglide is what you use 347 00:13:08,363 --> 00:13:12,240 when you have sex. - I use that during sex as well. 348 00:13:12,316 --> 00:13:15,243 The Leaning Tower of Pisa. 349 00:13:15,319 --> 00:13:16,294 [ buzzer ] 350 00:13:16,371 --> 00:13:18,287 - Probably the Pyramids. - [ laughs ] 351 00:13:18,298 --> 00:13:20,289 - Noah's ark. - [ buzzer ] 352 00:13:20,300 --> 00:13:21,966 [ buzzer ] 353 00:13:22,043 --> 00:13:23,301 [ bell dings ] 354 00:13:23,378 --> 00:13:24,469 - Canada, maybe. - [ buzzer ] 355 00:13:24,546 --> 00:13:26,805 - The Great Wall of China. - [ bell dings ] 356 00:13:26,881 --> 00:13:27,964 - Bigfoot's number 7, right? - [ buzzer ] 357 00:13:27,974 --> 00:13:30,475 Yeah. Did I do 7? 358 00:13:30,552 --> 00:13:32,802 Well, use the 9 commandments. I think we... 359 00:13:32,813 --> 00:13:33,886 9? Now I wanna know which one you got rid of. 360 00:13:33,963 --> 00:13:35,805 Kary, what are the 9 commandments? 361 00:13:35,816 --> 00:13:38,316 The do not lie, don't sleep with a neighbor. 362 00:13:38,393 --> 00:13:40,318 [ laughter ] 363 00:13:40,395 --> 00:13:42,487 Uh, do not, uh, masturbate. 364 00:13:42,564 --> 00:13:44,397 - Aah! - That is not-- 365 00:13:44,473 --> 00:13:45,824 That is not... 366 00:13:45,900 --> 00:13:47,817 Then we're all going to hell, I guarantee you. 367 00:13:47,828 --> 00:13:49,569 [ laughter ] 368 00:13:49,645 --> 00:13:52,822 Oh, my God. So why do you think Canada 369 00:13:52,833 --> 00:13:54,740 is one of the 7 wonders of the world? 370 00:13:54,817 --> 00:13:57,326 - I like it there. - [ laughter ] 371 00:13:57,337 --> 00:13:58,494 You like it there? 372 00:13:58,505 --> 00:13:59,838 - Yeah. - That was hard. 373 00:13:59,914 --> 00:14:02,290 - You got two and a half. - Yeah. 374 00:14:02,366 --> 00:14:05,844 Bigfoot, of course, is not one of the 7 wonders 375 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:08,421 of the world or the new world. 376 00:14:08,497 --> 00:14:11,007 Um, Kameron, have you gotten your typhoon shot this year? 377 00:14:11,017 --> 00:14:12,633 Actually, now-- 378 00:14:12,710 --> 00:14:14,427 Did you get a hurricane shot instead? 379 00:14:14,503 --> 00:14:18,356 You know, I actually due for my typhoid shot still. I am. 380 00:14:18,433 --> 00:14:20,766 Kary, I may not be able to name all the commandments, 381 00:14:20,843 --> 00:14:25,363 but I do know there's 10 and not 9. 382 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:28,482 Sleeping with your neighbor? Is that one of them? 383 00:14:28,559 --> 00:14:29,367 [ laughter ] 384 00:14:29,444 --> 00:14:31,536 No, no, not sleeping. 385 00:14:31,613 --> 00:14:34,539 Like, not sleeping with that neighbor, right? 386 00:14:34,616 --> 00:14:35,990 - Right. - Oh, my gosh. 387 00:14:36,067 --> 00:14:38,376 [ laughter ] 388 00:14:38,453 --> 00:14:40,879 Kameron, a traditional Chinese meal 389 00:14:40,955 --> 00:14:44,624 made up of all kinds of dumplings is called what? 390 00:14:44,700 --> 00:14:46,551 Um..."dimsam." 391 00:14:46,628 --> 00:14:48,878 Did I say it right? 392 00:14:48,889 --> 00:14:50,388 - No? - Close. Close. 393 00:14:50,465 --> 00:14:51,890 Okay. How do you say it? Please tell me. 394 00:14:51,966 --> 00:14:53,892 Dim... sum. 395 00:14:53,968 --> 00:14:55,301 Dim... sum. 396 00:14:55,378 --> 00:14:56,552 Like, do I pronounce it like s-o-m-e? 397 00:14:56,563 --> 00:14:57,970 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - Like "Dim some"? 398 00:14:58,047 --> 00:15:01,307 - Okay. Perfect. I know now. - Or s-u-m. 399 00:15:01,384 --> 00:15:02,350 - Okay. - Sum. 400 00:15:02,426 --> 00:15:04,736 - Sum. I know now. - Yeah. 401 00:15:04,812 --> 00:15:07,647 D'Andra and Stephanie, the official Astroglide 402 00:15:07,723 --> 00:15:09,023 Twitter feed gave you both a shout out 403 00:15:09,100 --> 00:15:10,575 after that episode aired. Did you know that? 404 00:15:10,652 --> 00:15:11,910 - Really? That's so exciting! - Oh, my God. Love it. 405 00:15:11,986 --> 00:15:14,862 Free Astroglide for life for you both. 406 00:15:14,939 --> 00:15:16,572 D'Andra private messaged them, "Where is my free Astroglide?" 407 00:15:16,583 --> 00:15:18,324 - Yes. - D'Andra, it seems like 408 00:15:18,401 --> 00:15:19,575 you were the only one 409 00:15:19,586 --> 00:15:21,911 that thought Captain Brandi was funny. 410 00:15:21,922 --> 00:15:24,756 Everyone else kinda thought it was creepy and annoying. 411 00:15:24,832 --> 00:15:27,425 - How do you feel about that? - D'Andra, what is that? 412 00:15:27,502 --> 00:15:30,002 This is a cruise director co-host. 413 00:15:30,079 --> 00:15:31,337 Captain Brandi. 414 00:15:31,414 --> 00:15:34,048 I kind of have a weird sense of humor. 415 00:15:34,125 --> 00:15:37,426 [ laughter ] 416 00:15:37,437 --> 00:15:40,721 Well, D'Andra's season of self-discovery with a shaman 417 00:15:40,798 --> 00:15:44,684 had her circling the universe on wings of pure light. 418 00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:48,062 But when estranged stepfamily reached out to her, 419 00:15:48,139 --> 00:15:52,617 she was forced to confront a dark truth about her past 420 00:15:52,694 --> 00:15:54,619 and her own last name. Watch this. 421 00:15:54,696 --> 00:15:57,455 I decided to take a couple of spiritual journeys. 422 00:15:57,532 --> 00:15:59,123 I started to see a shaman. 423 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:02,451 I have no idea what a shaman is. 424 00:16:02,462 --> 00:16:04,787 Like, I think of a magical wizard. 425 00:16:04,798 --> 00:16:06,956 [ laughs ] 426 00:16:06,967 --> 00:16:09,417 [ New Age music playing ] 427 00:16:09,493 --> 00:16:12,128 I'm Christian. I've been raised a Christian my whole life. 428 00:16:12,138 --> 00:16:16,132 Going to see a shaman is not something that is allowed 429 00:16:16,142 --> 00:16:17,633 in the Christian religion. 430 00:16:17,644 --> 00:16:20,478 When my father committed suicide, 431 00:16:20,555 --> 00:16:23,597 there was a big, um, fight over the family estate. 432 00:16:23,674 --> 00:16:24,890 [ bird cries ] 433 00:16:24,967 --> 00:16:26,475 WOMEN: ♪ Circling the universe ♪ 434 00:16:26,486 --> 00:16:29,770 DARRIN: ♪ On wings of pure light ♪ 435 00:16:29,847 --> 00:16:33,992 I'm skeptical about this whole thing because I'm a Christian. 436 00:16:34,068 --> 00:16:35,827 That means I believe in Jesus. 437 00:16:35,903 --> 00:16:38,913 I believe that when you meditate... 438 00:16:40,691 --> 00:16:41,741 I do, too. 439 00:16:41,817 --> 00:16:43,668 Let me get this straight, Brandi. 440 00:16:43,745 --> 00:16:47,079 You see ghosts, yet my shaman is not okay. 441 00:16:47,156 --> 00:16:49,749 Brandi, you're acting like a cafeteria Christian. 442 00:16:49,825 --> 00:16:51,792 You can pick the blue Jell-O and the meatloaf. 443 00:16:51,869 --> 00:16:53,553 That's bullsh--, D'Andra. 444 00:17:03,189 --> 00:17:04,731 No! 445 00:17:06,693 --> 00:17:07,734 No! 446 00:17:09,863 --> 00:17:11,604 Go [bleep] yourselves. 447 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:14,190 Take your ----ing mask with you, you ----ing bitch. 448 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:16,200 How many girls do you know can work at the White House? 449 00:17:16,277 --> 00:17:18,527 How many do you know can work for the President of Saks? 450 00:17:18,538 --> 00:17:20,204 D'Andra's accomplished a lot 451 00:17:20,281 --> 00:17:21,781 because her last name was Simmons. 452 00:17:21,857 --> 00:17:23,875 I may not ever get a relationship with my brother 453 00:17:23,951 --> 00:17:25,376 and my stepmother again. 454 00:17:25,453 --> 00:17:30,539 I don't want you to ever look back and have any regrets. 455 00:17:30,550 --> 00:17:34,668 D'Andra, the time has come for you to lead us in 456 00:17:34,745 --> 00:17:37,546 "We all fly like eagles on wings of pure light." 457 00:17:37,557 --> 00:17:40,725 ♪ We all fly like eagles ♪ 458 00:17:40,802 --> 00:17:43,511 ♪ On wings of pure light ♪ 459 00:17:43,587 --> 00:17:45,721 ♪ Oh, witchi chai yo ♪ 460 00:17:45,732 --> 00:17:47,515 ♪ Oh, witchi chai ♪ 461 00:17:47,591 --> 00:17:49,517 ♪ Oh, witchi chai yo ♪ 462 00:17:49,593 --> 00:17:50,851 - And that's really good. - [ laughs ] 463 00:17:50,928 --> 00:17:52,019 - You're a really good singer. - Something about 464 00:17:52,096 --> 00:17:53,562 circling the universe. It's something. 465 00:17:53,573 --> 00:17:54,563 I think it's something. I think there's something. 466 00:17:54,574 --> 00:17:55,907 - Remember this one? - Yes. 467 00:17:55,983 --> 00:17:57,858 I wanna talk about Darrin, your shaman. 468 00:17:57,935 --> 00:18:01,862 - Was he your hairdresser first? - [ laughter ] 469 00:18:01,939 --> 00:18:03,864 I knew Darrin for 25 years. 470 00:18:03,941 --> 00:18:06,158 He did my hair and makeup for different photo shoots 471 00:18:06,235 --> 00:18:07,701 that I did when I was a model years ago. 472 00:18:07,778 --> 00:18:10,996 Did Darrin do anybody else's hair here? 473 00:18:11,073 --> 00:18:12,748 Uh-huh, for, like, three years. 474 00:18:12,759 --> 00:18:14,150 Wow. 475 00:18:14,152 --> 00:18:16,594 He's actually very, very talented at extensions. 476 00:18:16,671 --> 00:18:18,754 Were you disappointed he changed careers? 477 00:18:18,765 --> 00:18:20,080 No, I think he still does hair. 478 00:18:20,158 --> 00:18:21,173 - He still does hair. - Oh, he still does hair. 479 00:18:21,250 --> 00:18:23,008 Yeah, I think hair's like his main job, 480 00:18:23,085 --> 00:18:25,928 and then shaman is like part-time. 481 00:18:25,939 --> 00:18:26,846 You don't make a lot of money being a shaman. 482 00:18:26,922 --> 00:18:28,773 - Right. - [ laughter ] 483 00:18:28,850 --> 00:18:31,275 Brandi, Courtney from Vancouver, Canada, 484 00:18:31,352 --> 00:18:33,945 said, "You're so hypocritical. How can you believe that ghosts 485 00:18:34,021 --> 00:18:39,283 talk to you but think a shaman goes against Christianity?" 486 00:18:39,360 --> 00:18:45,123 ♪♪♪ 487 00:18:47,851 --> 00:18:50,202 Brandi, Courtney from Vancouver, Canada, 488 00:18:50,279 --> 00:18:52,964 said, "You're so hypocritical. How can you believe that ghosts 489 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:57,718 talk to you but think a shaman goes against Christianity?" 490 00:18:58,805 --> 00:19:00,972 It was a little bit uncomfortable. 491 00:19:01,048 --> 00:19:02,214 I mean, we were saying all of these things 492 00:19:02,291 --> 00:19:04,049 that I have no idea what they mean. 493 00:19:04,126 --> 00:19:06,218 He didn't tell us what they meant. 494 00:19:06,295 --> 00:19:08,146 We were just, you know, chanting these weird things, 495 00:19:08,222 --> 00:19:11,315 and for all I knew, we were, you know, doing witchcraft. 496 00:19:11,392 --> 00:19:13,151 - I had no idea. - I, in my mind, 497 00:19:13,227 --> 00:19:14,727 am okay with it because I know that 498 00:19:14,803 --> 00:19:16,729 what I was doing was meditation. 499 00:19:16,805 --> 00:19:19,323 I will do anything if it will help me, heal me, 500 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:21,325 make me a better person, make me feel better. 501 00:19:21,402 --> 00:19:25,329 Brandi, Nicole from Dallas said, "You think seeing a shaman 502 00:19:25,406 --> 00:19:27,948 "goes against your Christian beliefs, 503 00:19:28,025 --> 00:19:31,118 "but is waving a giant dildo at Kameron 504 00:19:31,195 --> 00:19:33,287 something Jesus would approve of?" 505 00:19:33,364 --> 00:19:36,749 No, Brandi. No, no, no. I don't participate in this. 506 00:19:36,825 --> 00:19:37,917 [ laughs ] 507 00:19:37,993 --> 00:19:40,169 This is like a level that I will do. 508 00:19:40,180 --> 00:19:42,087 [ laughter ] 509 00:19:42,164 --> 00:19:44,924 I think Jesus would think it's real funny. [ laughs ] 510 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:46,091 [ laughs ] 511 00:19:46,168 --> 00:19:47,968 Kameron, what do you think? 512 00:19:48,045 --> 00:19:49,854 Um, well, I really choose 513 00:19:49,931 --> 00:19:51,689 to accept all religions and all beliefs. 514 00:19:51,766 --> 00:19:53,933 Brandi, I think you should be a buffet Christian 515 00:19:54,009 --> 00:19:55,860 over a cafeteria Christian because that way... 516 00:19:55,937 --> 00:19:57,269 - Thanks, girl. Thanks, girl. - ...you could have a little bit 517 00:19:57,346 --> 00:20:00,698 of everything on your plate, and I love buffets. 518 00:20:00,775 --> 00:20:02,700 Well, the cafeteria is kind of a buffet. 519 00:20:02,777 --> 00:20:05,110 Okay, I wanna switch gears 520 00:20:05,187 --> 00:20:06,820 because the whole drama with your stepfamily 521 00:20:06,897 --> 00:20:10,783 over your dad's inheritance is really Shakespearean. 522 00:20:10,859 --> 00:20:13,702 - Mm-hmm. - Your father died by suicide. 523 00:20:13,713 --> 00:20:16,038 - Yes. - Your mom remarried. 524 00:20:16,049 --> 00:20:17,831 My mother remarried when I was 6 years old. 525 00:20:17,908 --> 00:20:21,710 Oh, okay. Did you really grow up with Glenn Simmons 526 00:20:21,721 --> 00:20:23,221 as your father figure? 527 00:20:23,297 --> 00:20:27,391 Glenn basically took me in and raised me 528 00:20:27,468 --> 00:20:29,718 because he was the one parent 529 00:20:29,729 --> 00:20:31,729 that was the most parental of all of them. 530 00:20:31,806 --> 00:20:33,889 [ voice breaking ] He would roll my hair at night. 531 00:20:33,900 --> 00:20:35,307 He would make sure when I was sick 532 00:20:35,384 --> 00:20:37,142 that I would go to the doctor. He would take me to-- 533 00:20:37,219 --> 00:20:39,228 you know, I was very ill as a child. 534 00:20:39,239 --> 00:20:41,397 I was always in the hospital 'cause I couldn't breathe, 535 00:20:41,407 --> 00:20:43,148 and I had severe asthma, 536 00:20:43,225 --> 00:20:46,318 so Glenn would stay up all night with me and hug me 537 00:20:46,395 --> 00:20:47,636 and rock me and make sure that I was okay 538 00:20:47,638 --> 00:20:49,822 or go to the doctor with me or the hospital, 539 00:20:49,898 --> 00:20:51,407 and then he would go and--and have a board meeting. 540 00:20:51,417 --> 00:20:52,750 Wow. 541 00:20:52,827 --> 00:20:54,085 I mean, he was always there for me. 542 00:20:54,161 --> 00:20:56,754 And how old were you when you changed your name? 543 00:20:56,831 --> 00:20:59,090 It was like 18 or 20. So the day I turned that age 544 00:20:59,166 --> 00:21:01,259 is when I went, and he had to go with me, 545 00:21:01,335 --> 00:21:03,210 and he said, "Are you sure you wanna do this?" 546 00:21:03,287 --> 00:21:05,096 I said, "Yes, I do." My mother had been kind of 547 00:21:05,172 --> 00:21:07,840 really trying to push me for years to do it, 548 00:21:07,916 --> 00:21:09,174 and I felt like I didn't wanna hurt my dad. 549 00:21:09,251 --> 00:21:11,176 But at the time, it was just because of the fact 550 00:21:11,253 --> 00:21:13,762 that, you know, I thought I was doing the right thing. 551 00:21:13,773 --> 00:21:17,016 I didn't think it was-- it wasn't opportunistic. 552 00:21:17,092 --> 00:21:20,278 Your mom is saying now that it was opportunistic. 553 00:21:20,354 --> 00:21:23,022 Why, then, was she pushing you to do it then? 554 00:21:23,098 --> 00:21:25,899 That's where the mystery lies, 555 00:21:25,976 --> 00:21:27,776 is because I've had several conversations. 556 00:21:27,787 --> 00:21:29,862 "Why would you say that? Why would you embarrass me?" 557 00:21:29,938 --> 00:21:31,455 I don't even know anything about that story. 558 00:21:31,532 --> 00:21:34,742 The story I know is the story I'm telling you. 559 00:21:34,818 --> 00:21:36,201 And she is steadfast that that's her story. 560 00:21:36,278 --> 00:21:37,786 - Does she have a point-- - But I'm telling you, 561 00:21:37,797 --> 00:21:41,248 I was too young to have the ability to discern 562 00:21:41,325 --> 00:21:42,300 whether Simmons would take me farther 563 00:21:42,376 --> 00:21:43,876 or Callaway would take me farther. 564 00:21:43,952 --> 00:21:46,304 Well, I mean, 18 to 20 isn't too young to figure out 565 00:21:46,380 --> 00:21:48,297 that your stepdad is a billionaire 566 00:21:48,308 --> 00:21:49,548 and with an influential last name-- 567 00:21:49,625 --> 00:21:51,383 Well, he wasn't a billionaire, first of all. 568 00:21:51,460 --> 00:21:53,385 But honestly, I'm telling you, Andy, 569 00:21:53,462 --> 00:21:55,220 I did not think of it that way. 570 00:21:55,297 --> 00:21:56,805 I mean, you are Dee Simmons' daughter. 571 00:21:56,816 --> 00:21:59,058 Yes, I am, but that doesn't make me exactly like her 572 00:21:59,134 --> 00:22:00,934 in every single way. - Okay. 573 00:22:01,011 --> 00:22:02,811 I think there's always been a rumor 574 00:22:02,822 --> 00:22:05,981 that people have always thought D'Andra took on the name, 575 00:22:05,992 --> 00:22:07,550 you know, to benefit her, 576 00:22:07,552 --> 00:22:11,236 but I think all her true friends know that's 100% not true. 577 00:22:11,313 --> 00:22:14,948 If you saw her stand up at Glenn's funeral 578 00:22:15,025 --> 00:22:16,158 and watched her make that tribute, 579 00:22:16,169 --> 00:22:18,994 like, everyone was in tears. 580 00:22:19,005 --> 00:22:20,496 I mean, it was the most beautiful thing I've ever heard. 581 00:22:20,506 --> 00:22:24,917 Your father-- he had a lot of money, too. 582 00:22:24,993 --> 00:22:26,927 Probably more than my stepfather. 583 00:22:28,997 --> 00:22:31,515 And that's the inheritance. So my father's part was, 584 00:22:31,592 --> 00:22:33,133 "I'm not going to pay child support, 585 00:22:33,210 --> 00:22:36,187 so my daughter would get the rest of the inheritance." 586 00:22:36,263 --> 00:22:37,429 - All of it. - Are we talking 587 00:22:37,506 --> 00:22:39,306 about $10 million, $5 million? 588 00:22:39,383 --> 00:22:41,517 Over a lifetime, a lot more than that. 589 00:22:41,527 --> 00:22:43,361 20? 30? 590 00:22:43,437 --> 00:22:46,197 - 40? - A lot more than that. 591 00:22:46,273 --> 00:22:47,439 - Okay. - Yeah. 592 00:22:47,516 --> 00:22:48,941 So it was oil and gas, 593 00:22:49,017 --> 00:22:49,858 and my grandfather had built wells 594 00:22:49,869 --> 00:22:51,026 and all that kind of thing. 595 00:22:51,037 --> 00:22:53,028 So what happened was my stepmother 596 00:22:53,039 --> 00:22:56,824 and on behalf of my brother, wanted all of it for them, 597 00:22:56,900 --> 00:22:58,233 and I said, "Well, this isn't fair, 598 00:22:58,235 --> 00:23:00,869 'cause my blood grandparents had built this part, 599 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:02,454 and they wanted me to have something. 600 00:23:02,531 --> 00:23:04,039 They came from dirt-poor nothing. 601 00:23:04,050 --> 00:23:06,217 - Yeah. - And at the end of the day, 602 00:23:06,293 --> 00:23:08,219 I split it down the middle with my brother, 603 00:23:08,295 --> 00:23:10,295 gave him half of everything. - Wow. 604 00:23:10,372 --> 00:23:13,465 Now after that, he wanted to sell part of his inheritance. 605 00:23:13,542 --> 00:23:15,509 I bought it, because why is it gonna go 606 00:23:15,586 --> 00:23:17,043 to some other family member? 607 00:23:17,121 --> 00:23:19,471 So he owns a quarter now, and I have three-quarters of it. 608 00:23:19,548 --> 00:23:22,850 Wow. How is your relationship with Mama Dee today? 609 00:23:22,926 --> 00:23:25,569 Great. The biggest regret I have this year... 610 00:23:25,646 --> 00:23:27,563 [ voice breaking ] is what I said on camera to her. 611 00:23:27,573 --> 00:23:29,648 That was horrible. I should never say that to my mother. 612 00:23:29,725 --> 00:23:31,400 - At Tiffany's party. - Mm-hmm. 613 00:23:31,411 --> 00:23:33,193 Go [bleep] yourself. 614 00:23:33,270 --> 00:23:35,830 Take your ----ing mask with you, you ----ing bitch. 615 00:23:39,067 --> 00:23:41,201 - I should never have done that. - Aw. 616 00:23:41,278 --> 00:23:43,421 Never, ever have done that. 617 00:23:43,497 --> 00:23:46,915 D'Andra, we all say things we don't mean, 618 00:23:46,926 --> 00:23:49,001 and she knows how much you love her. 619 00:23:49,077 --> 00:23:51,378 We've had that volatile relationship, and, um, 620 00:23:51,455 --> 00:23:54,089 every year it seems to me we move a little bit further. 621 00:23:54,100 --> 00:23:55,883 We have some progress, and then we have to step back, 622 00:23:55,959 --> 00:23:57,426 and that was really... 623 00:23:57,437 --> 00:23:58,927 - You're only human. - ...embarrassing. 624 00:23:58,938 --> 00:24:00,429 - And you reacted. - It was humiliating 625 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:01,847 and horrible for her, and I just-- 626 00:24:01,924 --> 00:24:04,057 I-I should never have done that to my mother, ever. 627 00:24:04,134 --> 00:24:05,609 - I know. - And I'm so sorry. 628 00:24:05,686 --> 00:24:07,611 It's so unfair that I did it on national television. 629 00:24:07,688 --> 00:24:09,938 - She knows. - But I-I made a big mistake, 630 00:24:09,949 --> 00:24:12,399 but I hope people can forgive me for that. 631 00:24:12,476 --> 00:24:13,451 - Has she forgiven you? - Mm-hmm. 632 00:24:13,527 --> 00:24:15,360 Well, that's the most important thing. 633 00:24:15,437 --> 00:24:16,770 My husband was horrified. 634 00:24:16,847 --> 00:24:18,697 He would never talk to his mother like that, ever. 635 00:24:18,774 --> 00:24:20,574 I'm glad you two are good, though. 636 00:24:20,651 --> 00:24:21,909 ♪♪♪ 637 00:24:21,985 --> 00:24:23,285 We're gonna be right back. 638 00:24:23,296 --> 00:24:25,245 ♪♪♪ 639 00:24:25,322 --> 00:24:26,630 Coming up next... 640 00:24:26,707 --> 00:24:31,302 You brought a blow-up doll with a large phallic object. 641 00:24:31,378 --> 00:24:34,630 We talked about fart and poop and butt sex. 642 00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:38,225 What part of you were not being yourself? 643 00:24:43,798 --> 00:24:46,767 Welcome back to "The Real Housewives of Dallas" Reunion. 644 00:24:46,843 --> 00:24:48,152 I am Andy Cohen. 645 00:24:48,229 --> 00:24:49,603 [ baby crying in distance ] 646 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:51,655 And here's the baby. Hi, baby. 647 00:24:51,732 --> 00:24:52,990 Oh, sweet baby. 648 00:24:53,067 --> 00:24:55,326 Wow, it's our first baby at a reunion. 649 00:24:55,402 --> 00:24:57,995 - [ chuckles ] - [ crying continues ] 650 00:24:58,072 --> 00:24:59,238 You know, Brandi, you've had quite a year. 651 00:24:59,314 --> 00:25:04,668 Very high highs and very low lows. 652 00:25:04,745 --> 00:25:07,746 First of all, you had an unexpected pregnancy. 653 00:25:07,823 --> 00:25:09,790 Tell me about the timeline of this 654 00:25:09,866 --> 00:25:12,167 because the whole time we were filming, 655 00:25:12,178 --> 00:25:14,178 you were actually pregnant? 656 00:25:14,255 --> 00:25:15,754 We started filming, 657 00:25:15,831 --> 00:25:18,298 and I was probably maybe two weeks pregnant, 658 00:25:18,375 --> 00:25:21,093 and, um, by the time I found out I was pregnant, 659 00:25:21,169 --> 00:25:24,471 I was out of my first trimester, so yeah. 660 00:25:24,548 --> 00:25:26,265 And how did you find out? 661 00:25:26,341 --> 00:25:29,142 First of all, years ago, I was told that 662 00:25:29,219 --> 00:25:30,644 I was premenopausal, 663 00:25:30,721 --> 00:25:32,688 and the chances are, like, .0 something. 664 00:25:32,698 --> 00:25:34,198 So it's kind of a little bit of a miracle, 665 00:25:34,275 --> 00:25:36,534 but how I found out is really funny. 666 00:25:36,610 --> 00:25:38,536 I was due for my annual, 667 00:25:38,612 --> 00:25:40,362 so right after filming, I went in, 668 00:25:40,373 --> 00:25:43,657 and you pee in a cup, and she came in and she told me 669 00:25:43,734 --> 00:25:46,535 that, um, she was like, "Well, you came back po-- 670 00:25:46,546 --> 00:25:48,212 um, that you're pregnant. 671 00:25:48,289 --> 00:25:50,664 So then she does a scan on my stomach, 672 00:25:50,741 --> 00:25:54,459 and I see a baby on the screen, 673 00:25:54,536 --> 00:25:56,503 and I completely have a panic attack, 674 00:25:56,580 --> 00:25:59,723 and my doctor is, like, "Brandi, this is amazing. 675 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:01,341 This is a miracle." 676 00:26:01,418 --> 00:26:03,051 She was like, "But I have to ask, 677 00:26:03,062 --> 00:26:05,345 is this not Bryan's?" And I was like, "What? No. 678 00:26:05,422 --> 00:26:07,514 This is Bryan's," um, and she was like, 679 00:26:07,591 --> 00:26:10,851 "Okay, I was just making sure 'cause you seem upset about it, 680 00:26:10,927 --> 00:26:12,352 and I'm like, "Well, I just haven't been 681 00:26:12,429 --> 00:26:14,855 taking care of myself. I've been drinking." 682 00:26:14,931 --> 00:26:17,649 And I should point out Brilynn is in perfectly great health. 683 00:26:17,726 --> 00:26:18,576 - She is. - Yeah. 684 00:26:18,652 --> 00:26:20,077 She's beautiful. She's perfect. 685 00:26:20,154 --> 00:26:21,737 And we did a ton of testing as well. 686 00:26:21,747 --> 00:26:26,083 So you have that happen, and then your mother-in-law 687 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:29,077 was killed in a tragic car accident, 688 00:26:29,088 --> 00:26:32,331 and your daughter Brinkley was in the car. 689 00:26:32,407 --> 00:26:36,209 - Yes. Um-- - What happened there? 690 00:26:36,286 --> 00:26:38,545 They went out to see, um, my sister-in-law's kids, 691 00:26:38,622 --> 00:26:39,504 and they were leaving her neighborhood, 692 00:26:39,581 --> 00:26:44,509 and they were hit by 18-wheeler 693 00:26:44,586 --> 00:26:46,103 and they were drug, and the car flipped, 694 00:26:46,180 --> 00:26:47,846 and then the truck-- the 18-wheeler 695 00:26:47,923 --> 00:26:51,767 fell on top of them and-- and completely smushed the car. 696 00:26:51,777 --> 00:26:58,398 And she died, um, from what we know, on impact. 697 00:26:58,475 --> 00:27:02,194 [ voice breaking ] And Brinkley by the grace of God, made it, 698 00:27:02,270 --> 00:27:04,905 and--and it's crazy, 'cause she, um, 699 00:27:04,981 --> 00:27:07,458 she's perfect, and she had some broken-- 700 00:27:07,534 --> 00:27:09,910 some broken bones and a little bit of scratches, 701 00:27:09,986 --> 00:27:14,748 but, um, and they don't even know how she survived. 702 00:27:14,825 --> 00:27:18,302 Um...but she did. 703 00:27:18,379 --> 00:27:19,294 Wow. 704 00:27:19,305 --> 00:27:21,805 Oh, my God. I'm so sorry. 705 00:27:21,882 --> 00:27:25,476 - So sorry for your loss. - Oh, thank you. 706 00:27:29,649 --> 00:27:33,484 As if that wasn't enough, a video was making its rounds 707 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:37,604 on social media and in the press about your husband Bryan. 708 00:27:37,681 --> 00:27:40,774 Um, shows him at a club with another woman. 709 00:27:40,851 --> 00:27:43,944 How have you been since that video came out? 710 00:27:44,020 --> 00:27:47,823 Um... [ sighs ] 711 00:27:47,833 --> 00:27:51,326 You know, I'm--I'm disappointed that I-- 712 00:27:51,337 --> 00:27:53,453 I'm aware of when that happened 713 00:27:53,530 --> 00:27:57,165 Um, it was in Las Vegas during, um, 714 00:27:57,176 --> 00:27:59,501 a dual bachelor- bachelorette party 715 00:27:59,512 --> 00:28:01,628 for my sister and brother-in-law. 716 00:28:01,705 --> 00:28:03,338 How long ago was the video from? 717 00:28:03,349 --> 00:28:08,635 It was 2018. 718 00:28:08,712 --> 00:28:13,306 But, yeah, extremely disappointed, and, um... 719 00:28:13,383 --> 00:28:15,317 [ voice breaking ] And I... 720 00:28:21,534 --> 00:28:23,450 [ sniffles ] 721 00:28:24,895 --> 00:28:27,362 Sorry. 722 00:28:27,373 --> 00:28:29,832 What's your thinking about staying with him? 723 00:28:31,785 --> 00:28:35,212 I'll tell you that, you know, this was cr-- 724 00:28:35,289 --> 00:28:38,457 the craziest year and my darkest hour. 725 00:28:38,533 --> 00:28:42,720 That man was there for me and is there for me, 726 00:28:42,796 --> 00:28:47,340 so I feel like I would be really a piece of sh-- 727 00:28:47,417 --> 00:28:51,562 if I didn't, you know, be there for him. 728 00:28:51,638 --> 00:28:54,222 'Cause he's hurting, too, right now. 729 00:28:54,233 --> 00:28:56,850 How have you two been dealing with this together? 730 00:28:56,927 --> 00:28:58,894 You and Bryan. 731 00:28:58,904 --> 00:29:01,480 I wanna protect my children, 732 00:29:01,556 --> 00:29:04,357 and... [ sniffles ] I... 733 00:29:04,434 --> 00:29:13,241 I hate that a fan sent that video to my-- 734 00:29:13,252 --> 00:29:17,421 my daughter's Instagram that is private, 735 00:29:17,498 --> 00:29:21,300 and she saw it. 736 00:29:23,578 --> 00:29:24,786 [ sniffles ] 737 00:29:24,788 --> 00:29:27,380 Because as much as, like, I can be angry 738 00:29:27,457 --> 00:29:29,591 and stuff, like, that's-- that's her dad, 739 00:29:29,602 --> 00:29:33,762 and I just feel like it's just-- 740 00:29:33,773 --> 00:29:35,606 it's just not okay. 741 00:29:35,682 --> 00:29:37,775 Hmm. 742 00:29:37,851 --> 00:29:40,769 Oh, God. I'm so sorry. 743 00:29:40,780 --> 00:29:42,896 Brandi, you know we're here for you. 744 00:29:42,973 --> 00:29:44,272 I love you. 745 00:29:44,283 --> 00:29:48,401 I love you. I'm here for you, too. 746 00:29:48,478 --> 00:29:51,404 [ sniffles ] 747 00:29:51,481 --> 00:29:52,906 Stephanie, when that video came out, 748 00:29:52,983 --> 00:29:55,700 and I know you and Travis... - Yeah. 749 00:29:55,777 --> 00:29:56,910 ...are obviously great friends with them 750 00:29:56,987 --> 00:29:57,911 and also great friends with Bryan. 751 00:29:57,988 --> 00:30:00,297 Did it make you mad at Bryan? 752 00:30:00,374 --> 00:30:02,541 Yeah, I have not talked to Bryan about it, 753 00:30:02,617 --> 00:30:03,917 but I am angry at him. 754 00:30:03,994 --> 00:30:06,419 This girl is literally like family to me, 755 00:30:06,496 --> 00:30:07,921 and I love her so much, 756 00:30:07,998 --> 00:30:10,474 and--and she's been through so much, 757 00:30:10,551 --> 00:30:12,425 I was honestly terrified 758 00:30:12,502 --> 00:30:13,635 that she was gonna do something to herself. 759 00:30:13,646 --> 00:30:16,480 So I had, um, a good friend of mine 760 00:30:16,557 --> 00:30:19,599 and then a therapist that Brandi and I both have used. 761 00:30:19,676 --> 00:30:22,602 And, um, my good friend walks in first. 762 00:30:22,679 --> 00:30:23,728 'Cause I'm like, "You have to go see her 763 00:30:23,805 --> 00:30:25,322 because I can't get ahold of her," 764 00:30:25,399 --> 00:30:26,824 because every one of us pretty much was traveling, 765 00:30:26,900 --> 00:30:28,567 and it was spring break, and then he said 766 00:30:28,643 --> 00:30:30,494 he walked in the baby's room. It was pitch black, 767 00:30:30,571 --> 00:30:34,665 and she's sitting in the corner, like, just holding her baby 768 00:30:34,741 --> 00:30:36,834 and bawling, and it just broke my heart. 769 00:30:36,910 --> 00:30:39,452 Like, absolutely broke my heart. 770 00:30:39,529 --> 00:30:42,339 Mm-hmm. 771 00:30:42,416 --> 00:30:44,791 I think this video has been put out there. 772 00:30:44,868 --> 00:30:46,960 I think someone did it intentionally 773 00:30:47,037 --> 00:30:50,338 to try to hurt me once again, and, um, 774 00:30:50,349 --> 00:30:52,674 and they were successful. 775 00:30:52,685 --> 00:30:54,843 Who would do that? 776 00:30:54,854 --> 00:30:57,062 I think we all know. 777 00:30:58,673 --> 00:30:59,982 I don't know that I... 778 00:31:02,361 --> 00:31:03,602 Um... 779 00:31:03,678 --> 00:31:05,854 Do you know? 780 00:31:05,865 --> 00:31:10,868 ♪♪♪ 781 00:31:10,944 --> 00:31:12,652 Coming up next... 782 00:31:12,729 --> 00:31:14,654 I think you might be getting a nose bleed. 783 00:31:14,731 --> 00:31:15,706 - [ sniffles ] - You do, honey. 784 00:31:15,782 --> 00:31:17,490 - You have a nosebleed. - Oh! Oh! 785 00:31:17,567 --> 00:31:19,710 Well, that's not cute at all. 786 00:31:24,941 --> 00:31:26,499 This video has been put out there. 787 00:31:26,576 --> 00:31:28,043 Who would do that? 788 00:31:28,053 --> 00:31:30,629 I think we all know. 789 00:31:30,705 --> 00:31:32,672 - Do you know? - Mm-hmm. 790 00:31:32,749 --> 00:31:33,949 Who? 791 00:31:33,951 --> 00:31:36,560 Um, I'm assuming she's referring to LeeAnne. 792 00:31:36,637 --> 00:31:39,804 - Yeah. - I mean, it's the same M-- 793 00:31:39,881 --> 00:31:42,015 Modus Operandi, I mean, over and over again. 794 00:31:42,092 --> 00:31:44,735 She keeps things for years and then releases them 795 00:31:44,811 --> 00:31:46,728 when it's appropriate, she thinks, 796 00:31:46,739 --> 00:31:49,147 to backlash at the person or harass someone 797 00:31:49,224 --> 00:31:51,483 or to make somebody feel horrible about themselves 798 00:31:51,559 --> 00:31:52,910 and shameful, and it's just-- it's awful behavior. 799 00:31:52,986 --> 00:31:54,244 - Yeah, it's horrible. - It's horrible. 800 00:31:54,321 --> 00:31:56,488 And then she does it, like, a-- like, I felt like 801 00:31:56,564 --> 00:31:57,915 it was definitely very intentional. 802 00:31:57,991 --> 00:32:01,076 It was done on a Tuesday, the day our show comes out, 803 00:32:01,086 --> 00:32:02,753 a few hours before. - Mm-hmm. 804 00:32:02,829 --> 00:32:06,089 So it's a day where there's a lot of eyes on the show, 805 00:32:06,166 --> 00:32:10,085 and then it comes out, and... just like... 806 00:32:10,095 --> 00:32:12,763 it's just sad. - That's your friend. 807 00:32:12,839 --> 00:32:14,765 Do you think she did it? 808 00:32:14,841 --> 00:32:19,761 I honestly--I-I don't think she would ever put it out, 809 00:32:19,772 --> 00:32:21,763 but maybe someone she knows would do it. 810 00:32:21,774 --> 00:32:23,098 So she's no longer on the show, 811 00:32:23,108 --> 00:32:25,100 but she's still very much a part of... 812 00:32:25,110 --> 00:32:26,851 - She was very angry. - Oh, yeah, very angry, 813 00:32:26,928 --> 00:32:28,019 because Brandi is allowed to be on the show, 814 00:32:28,096 --> 00:32:29,780 and she's not on the show any longer. 815 00:32:31,307 --> 00:32:35,777 Uh...I wanna move on to another video. 816 00:32:35,788 --> 00:32:37,788 About three and a half years ago, 817 00:32:37,864 --> 00:32:41,199 I made a video and posted it on my Instagram Story. 818 00:32:41,276 --> 00:32:46,913 The video was of me making fun of my squinty eyes. 819 00:32:46,990 --> 00:32:50,625 Brandi, Jay from Dallas said, "At the season 4 reunion, 820 00:32:50,636 --> 00:32:52,544 "you pulled a chair out in the middle of the room 821 00:32:52,620 --> 00:32:54,963 "and demanded LeeAnne be held accountable 822 00:32:54,974 --> 00:32:56,223 for her hateful remarks." 823 00:32:57,810 --> 00:33:00,051 Where are you going? 824 00:33:00,128 --> 00:33:02,062 I think LeeAnne needs to sit her ass right here. 825 00:33:04,057 --> 00:33:05,807 Go for it, sister. 826 00:33:05,818 --> 00:33:09,486 Now that you're in the same situation, 827 00:33:09,563 --> 00:33:11,213 can a chair be pulled out for you? 828 00:33:11,215 --> 00:33:14,607 If I was there, I was planning on pulling out my own chair. 829 00:33:14,684 --> 00:33:16,151 So yes. 830 00:33:16,161 --> 00:33:18,111 Tiffany, Giana from Roswell, New Mexico, said, 831 00:33:18,188 --> 00:33:19,654 "It seemed like you left Brandi off the hook 832 00:33:19,665 --> 00:33:21,656 "for the video pretty fast. 833 00:33:21,667 --> 00:33:23,742 "Do you think you would've been so forgiving 834 00:33:23,818 --> 00:33:25,577 if it wasn't for being on the show with her?" 835 00:33:25,653 --> 00:33:31,833 I never thought that Brandi put that out there to hurt anyone. 836 00:33:31,844 --> 00:33:34,177 It was a mistake, and she has recognized that mistake 837 00:33:34,254 --> 00:33:38,840 and apologized over and over again. 838 00:33:38,851 --> 00:33:41,092 It's like what else can she do? 839 00:33:41,169 --> 00:33:42,844 So you do not think Brandi is a racist. 840 00:33:42,855 --> 00:33:46,306 I have never thought that Brandi was a racist. 841 00:33:46,382 --> 00:33:48,692 I don't know what else to say to you, Brandi. 842 00:33:48,769 --> 00:33:52,312 Like, I never thought you were a racist. 843 00:33:52,388 --> 00:33:56,199 No, I don't think that you would think that I am. 844 00:33:56,276 --> 00:33:58,193 I mean, I... 845 00:33:58,203 --> 00:34:02,197 - [ baby crying in distance ] - I, um... 846 00:34:02,207 --> 00:34:03,707 I mean, that whole thing, like- 847 00:34:03,784 --> 00:34:05,617 Hearing Brilynn crying in the background. 848 00:34:05,693 --> 00:34:06,868 She's hungry. [ chuckles ] 849 00:34:06,879 --> 00:34:08,703 Brandi, Katie from Brooklyn said, 850 00:34:08,714 --> 00:34:12,332 "I'm sorry that you were suicidal over being canceled, 851 00:34:12,408 --> 00:34:14,217 "but you spent the entire season playing the victim 852 00:34:14,294 --> 00:34:17,045 "and trying to make everyone feel sorry for you 853 00:34:17,056 --> 00:34:19,214 "instead of making Tiffany feel welcome and accepted. 854 00:34:19,224 --> 00:34:22,225 Do you still think that was the best way to handle this?" 855 00:34:22,302 --> 00:34:24,135 I mean, to be honest, like, 856 00:34:24,212 --> 00:34:25,729 I thought I was amazing to Tiffany. 857 00:34:25,806 --> 00:34:27,289 As a matter of fact, I was the one who took her 858 00:34:27,291 --> 00:34:30,391 to the hospital when she got sick at her birthday. 859 00:34:30,402 --> 00:34:33,394 I feel like I went over and beyond 860 00:34:33,405 --> 00:34:35,730 to be friends with her. 861 00:34:35,741 --> 00:34:37,649 Do you agree? 862 00:34:37,725 --> 00:34:40,744 No. I mean, I don't think 863 00:34:40,821 --> 00:34:42,403 Brandi deserves everything that's come her way, 864 00:34:42,414 --> 00:34:46,407 but I also don't think that she was very welcoming. 865 00:34:46,418 --> 00:34:48,409 I didn't understand what you meant when you said 866 00:34:48,420 --> 00:34:50,745 you couldn't be yourself around her. 867 00:34:50,756 --> 00:34:52,872 I feel like sometimes I'm very guarded 868 00:34:52,949 --> 00:34:54,249 when it comes to our relationship 869 00:34:54,259 --> 00:34:55,592 because of the video. 870 00:34:55,669 --> 00:34:57,710 I wish you wouldn't think so ill of me. 871 00:34:57,787 --> 00:34:59,254 I wanna be myself in front of you. 872 00:34:59,264 --> 00:35:00,764 - I don't wanna not be me. - So do I. 873 00:35:00,841 --> 00:35:04,217 And it seemed like a lot that you were dumping on her lap. 874 00:35:04,294 --> 00:35:08,346 What I felt, you know, with all of the sayings that she would d 875 00:35:08,423 --> 00:35:11,182 and the impersonations, and, like, she would say, 876 00:35:11,259 --> 00:35:13,101 "I love you long time" or "take a photo." 877 00:35:13,112 --> 00:35:14,769 What made you jump in the pool? 878 00:35:14,780 --> 00:35:16,771 - I love you long time. - The pool is like a hot tub. 879 00:35:16,782 --> 00:35:19,440 But not tonight. 880 00:35:19,451 --> 00:35:21,118 Those were the things that you felt uncomfortable 881 00:35:21,194 --> 00:35:24,279 because you didn't know whether to laugh or--or-- 882 00:35:24,289 --> 00:35:26,114 I didn't know whether to laugh-- 883 00:35:26,125 --> 00:35:27,866 And that was my point, is being comfortable. 884 00:35:27,942 --> 00:35:29,951 'Cause normally, you know, Brandi a long time ago 885 00:35:29,962 --> 00:35:33,246 would have been, like, joined in on, you know, 886 00:35:33,323 --> 00:35:34,798 the impersonation and doing all that, 887 00:35:34,875 --> 00:35:38,135 and then that's why I felt like I just couldn't be myself. 888 00:35:38,211 --> 00:35:40,712 I mean, I don't know what part of you felt like 889 00:35:40,788 --> 00:35:42,639 you weren't being yourself 890 00:35:42,716 --> 00:35:44,307 'cause you brought a blow-up doll 891 00:35:44,384 --> 00:35:48,428 with the large phallic object. 892 00:35:48,504 --> 00:35:50,305 You made silly noises. 893 00:35:50,315 --> 00:35:54,100 We talked about fart and poop and butt sex and... 894 00:35:54,177 --> 00:35:56,394 - She seemed like-- - Like, what part of you 895 00:35:56,471 --> 00:36:01,324 were not being yourself, and if I said something 896 00:36:01,401 --> 00:36:03,160 that made you uncomfortable, 897 00:36:03,236 --> 00:36:06,946 why did you not pull me aside and be like, "Hey, girl, 898 00:36:07,023 --> 00:36:09,449 "when you say this, I don't know how to respond. 899 00:36:09,525 --> 00:36:11,993 Like, how would you like for me to deal with that?" 900 00:36:12,004 --> 00:36:14,838 instead of basically accosting me 901 00:36:14,915 --> 00:36:16,080 in the middle of a dinner 902 00:36:16,157 --> 00:36:19,751 in front of everybody and blindsiding me. 903 00:36:19,827 --> 00:36:21,836 I could have addressed it, obviously, a lot better. 904 00:36:21,847 --> 00:36:27,350 Um, I handled it poorly. I did not explain myself well. 905 00:36:27,427 --> 00:36:31,012 Um, and, you know, and I'm human, 906 00:36:31,023 --> 00:36:32,430 and I made a mistake. 907 00:36:32,507 --> 00:36:35,016 The biggest regret I have-- 908 00:36:35,027 --> 00:36:37,018 one of the biggest regrets beside my mother, 909 00:36:37,029 --> 00:36:39,270 is not saying something at that dinner, 910 00:36:39,347 --> 00:36:41,439 because I should have said something when Brandi said, 911 00:36:41,516 --> 00:36:43,816 "I feel uncomfortable," and I just sat there 912 00:36:43,893 --> 00:36:46,194 like a lump, and I really feel horrible about it. 913 00:36:46,205 --> 00:36:48,988 I told her that, because nobody had your back. 914 00:36:49,065 --> 00:36:50,782 I should have said something, but it's my biggest-- 915 00:36:50,858 --> 00:36:52,209 one of my biggest regrets. 916 00:36:52,285 --> 00:36:53,493 - Kary, you were a victim... - Yeah. 917 00:36:53,569 --> 00:36:56,162 ...of LeeAnne's comments last season. 918 00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:59,716 Do you regret not sticking up for Tiffany more? 919 00:36:59,793 --> 00:37:02,052 Yeah, 1,000%. Tiffany, I'm sorry. 920 00:37:02,128 --> 00:37:05,380 I definitely know that it was all on Brandi. 921 00:37:05,390 --> 00:37:06,965 It didn't have anything to do with you 922 00:37:07,041 --> 00:37:10,227 and that you should have never felt uncomfortable. 923 00:37:10,303 --> 00:37:13,304 I think we all probably missed a huge opportunity to learn 924 00:37:13,381 --> 00:37:16,224 to sit down with Tiffany and explain to us 925 00:37:16,235 --> 00:37:18,393 her experience, what we can learn from that, 926 00:37:18,403 --> 00:37:20,520 what knowledge we can glean from that. 927 00:37:20,596 --> 00:37:22,397 We didn't do that. We let her down, 928 00:37:22,407 --> 00:37:25,358 and we let, I think, everyone down by not doing that. 929 00:37:25,435 --> 00:37:26,901 I think we should have asked a lot of these questions 930 00:37:26,912 --> 00:37:28,078 instead of expecting her to tell us. 931 00:37:28,154 --> 00:37:30,905 That was what we did wrong. 932 00:37:30,916 --> 00:37:34,242 Brandi, do you have any final thoughts on this topic? 933 00:37:34,253 --> 00:37:37,245 I think that this whole thing was very teachable, 934 00:37:37,256 --> 00:37:39,998 and if we all give each other a little bit more grace 935 00:37:40,074 --> 00:37:42,417 and, um, empathy, 936 00:37:42,427 --> 00:37:44,585 and learn from each other, we can all grow. 937 00:37:44,596 --> 00:37:45,920 ♪♪♪ 938 00:37:45,931 --> 00:37:47,931 Okay, we're gonna come right back 939 00:37:48,008 --> 00:37:49,882 with some final thoughts after this. 940 00:37:49,959 --> 00:37:54,271 ♪♪♪ 941 00:37:59,611 --> 00:38:02,437 of season 5 of "The Real Housewives of Dallas." 942 00:38:02,447 --> 00:38:04,439 Ladies, to wrap things up tonight, 943 00:38:04,449 --> 00:38:07,900 I'd love each of you to tell me one thing you wish 944 00:38:07,977 --> 00:38:11,070 you had never said or done this season 945 00:38:11,147 --> 00:38:12,905 and one thing that you wish 946 00:38:12,982 --> 00:38:17,201 you had said or done this season. 947 00:38:17,278 --> 00:38:19,537 Who would like to go first? 948 00:38:19,614 --> 00:38:21,464 - I'll go first. - Okay, great. 949 00:38:21,541 --> 00:38:25,293 I mean, I don't think I can pic one thing I wish I had done. 950 00:38:25,304 --> 00:38:27,462 - [ laughs ] - It's a long list? 951 00:38:27,472 --> 00:38:30,465 I mean, it's a long list, Andy. No, I mean, honestly, 952 00:38:30,475 --> 00:38:35,386 the one thing I wish I had done is to have taken a closer look 953 00:38:35,463 --> 00:38:38,481 at my issues and communicated more when I'm hurting 954 00:38:38,558 --> 00:38:42,477 and what is going on, 'cause I never want to be the person 955 00:38:42,487 --> 00:38:46,898 I was this season, and I hope everybody sees my heart 956 00:38:46,974 --> 00:38:50,109 and--and forgives me. - Brandi? 957 00:38:50,186 --> 00:38:54,572 I probably wish that I-I did no go into J.R.'s bedroom. 958 00:38:54,649 --> 00:38:56,157 That's not like me to disrespect 959 00:38:56,168 --> 00:39:00,244 someone else's property, much less a historic site. 960 00:39:00,321 --> 00:39:01,954 [ chuckles ] 961 00:39:02,031 --> 00:39:04,624 Um, and then the one thing that I wish I would have done 962 00:39:04,700 --> 00:39:06,501 is taken a pregnancy test. 963 00:39:06,511 --> 00:39:08,920 [ laughter ] 964 00:39:08,996 --> 00:39:11,514 That's so true. You're so right. 965 00:39:11,591 --> 00:39:13,424 - Oh, my God. - You're so right. 966 00:39:13,501 --> 00:39:16,427 - D'Andra? - I definitely wish that I had 967 00:39:16,504 --> 00:39:19,347 not spoken to my mother the way I did when I got mad at her. 968 00:39:19,358 --> 00:39:22,100 That was a big, big misstep for me. 969 00:39:22,176 --> 00:39:26,029 And I wish, because I brought Tiffany on, 970 00:39:26,106 --> 00:39:29,532 and she's my friend, that I would've instigated 971 00:39:29,609 --> 00:39:31,368 conversations that we didn't have. 972 00:39:31,444 --> 00:39:32,610 I feel like that was a huge misstep for me, 973 00:39:32,687 --> 00:39:35,279 and it's my onus and my responsibility, 974 00:39:35,356 --> 00:39:37,115 and I'm sorry, 'cause I think it would've been better 975 00:39:37,191 --> 00:39:39,042 if we all would have had those conversations, 976 00:39:39,119 --> 00:39:40,543 and I could have instigated those. 977 00:39:40,620 --> 00:39:43,213 And I didn't do it, and that was a big misstep for me, too. 978 00:39:43,289 --> 00:39:45,215 Steph? 979 00:39:45,291 --> 00:39:46,958 Well, I really think I hurt Tiffany's feelings 980 00:39:47,034 --> 00:39:49,460 with the closet thing, so I wish I would have never said that 981 00:39:49,537 --> 00:39:51,388 because I know that hurt you. 982 00:39:51,464 --> 00:39:53,631 I would never bring people into my closet 983 00:39:53,708 --> 00:39:57,468 and brag about all my stuff and try to show off. 984 00:39:57,545 --> 00:39:58,586 - Look, look, look. - Plum, yeah. 985 00:39:58,588 --> 00:40:00,555 - Yeah, I wanna see. - It's French. 986 00:40:00,565 --> 00:40:01,564 I just think it's obnoxious. 987 00:40:01,641 --> 00:40:03,141 One thing I wish I did do 988 00:40:03,217 --> 00:40:06,069 is I see you over here feeling very alone, 989 00:40:06,146 --> 00:40:08,238 and I'm sorry if you went through the season 990 00:40:08,314 --> 00:40:11,574 not feeling supported. 991 00:40:11,651 --> 00:40:13,243 Reaction to that? 992 00:40:13,319 --> 00:40:15,412 [ voice breaking ] Thank you. Um... 993 00:40:15,488 --> 00:40:17,363 Why are you so emotional? 994 00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:18,990 Did Stephanie just make you emotional? 995 00:40:19,066 --> 00:40:25,538 Yeah. Um...and I-I did feel alone a lot of...the season. 996 00:40:25,615 --> 00:40:30,260 One thing that I wish I didn't do... [ scoffs ] 997 00:40:30,336 --> 00:40:33,430 um, was put crickets in all y'all's food 998 00:40:33,506 --> 00:40:37,550 and make Brandi sick and try so hard 999 00:40:37,627 --> 00:40:40,270 and be so pushy with Kameron with the chicken feet. 1000 00:40:40,346 --> 00:40:43,273 Like, when I watched it, I was like, oh, so cringey. 1001 00:40:43,349 --> 00:40:45,108 I was, like, trying to be funny. 1002 00:40:45,185 --> 00:40:46,609 What do you wish you had done? 1003 00:40:46,686 --> 00:40:49,612 You know, I really feel like when I started getting close 1004 00:40:49,689 --> 00:40:51,689 to a lot of the girls was when Kary threw me 1005 00:40:51,766 --> 00:40:53,232 that amazing party, 1006 00:40:53,309 --> 00:40:55,276 and I sort of started to let my walls down. 1007 00:40:55,287 --> 00:40:59,280 I feel like after that, I don't know. 1008 00:40:59,291 --> 00:41:01,741 Like, we--we gelled better. 1009 00:41:01,817 --> 00:41:05,786 I wish I could've had that moment 1010 00:41:05,797 --> 00:41:08,372 when we all, you know, group-hugged 1011 00:41:08,449 --> 00:41:10,633 before the snakes came out, like, earlier, 1012 00:41:10,710 --> 00:41:13,303 because then it wouldn't have been so awful 1013 00:41:13,379 --> 00:41:14,804 the first half of the season. 1014 00:41:14,881 --> 00:41:16,473 Ooh, I think--I think you might be getting a nosebleed. 1015 00:41:16,549 --> 00:41:17,715 Oh, you do, honey. You have a nosebleed. 1016 00:41:17,792 --> 00:41:19,383 - Oh! Oh! Um... - Which is another first. 1017 00:41:19,460 --> 00:41:21,427 - Tiffany, here. - D'Andra has one. 1018 00:41:21,504 --> 00:41:25,264 Oh, my God. Well, that's not cute at all. 1019 00:41:25,341 --> 00:41:27,317 - [ laughs ] - Oh, my God. 1020 00:41:27,393 --> 00:41:28,485 Wipe your lip right there. 1021 00:41:28,561 --> 00:41:29,560 I don't think you can look ugly Tiffany. 1022 00:41:29,637 --> 00:41:31,562 Oh, my God. We need-- Oh, my God. 1023 00:41:31,639 --> 00:41:32,563 Definitely making a moment now. 1024 00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:34,106 There you go. Okay, you're good. 1025 00:41:34,183 --> 00:41:35,274 There I go, trying too hard again. 1026 00:41:35,351 --> 00:41:36,776 - There you go. - Oh, my God. 1027 00:41:36,852 --> 00:41:39,162 No, you're good. 1028 00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:40,488 - It's still bleeding? - No, you're good. 1029 00:41:40,499 --> 00:41:41,781 - Oh. - You're all good. 1030 00:41:41,857 --> 00:41:44,501 You're all good. You look fresh as a daisy. 1031 00:41:44,577 --> 00:41:45,451 Oh, I'm sure I look great right now. 1032 00:41:45,528 --> 00:41:47,578 Yeah, you do. And you, Kam? 1033 00:41:47,655 --> 00:41:52,175 Um...well, I wish I never offended you, Tiffany. 1034 00:41:52,252 --> 00:41:53,676 [ voice breaking ] Never in a million years 1035 00:41:53,753 --> 00:41:55,670 would I ever try to offend you. 1036 00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:58,631 Bottom of my heart, I'm not like that, 1037 00:41:58,708 --> 00:42:00,800 and I really want you to know, like, I never, ever 1038 00:42:00,876 --> 00:42:04,729 wanted to offend you, and I'm so sorry. I really am. 1039 00:42:07,767 --> 00:42:10,360 - I really am. - [ whispers ] Thank you. 1040 00:42:10,436 --> 00:42:12,186 And something that you wish you had done? 1041 00:42:12,197 --> 00:42:16,816 I wish I would've asked you more questions 1042 00:42:16,892 --> 00:42:19,694 so I could understand, and I didn't. 1043 00:42:19,704 --> 00:42:22,154 I feel like an idiot. I didn't. 1044 00:42:22,231 --> 00:42:27,377 Okay. Well, we do have a final toast. Pickle shots. 1045 00:42:27,453 --> 00:42:29,495 - Oh, yay! - Which is what you drank 1046 00:42:29,572 --> 00:42:31,714 at the bar in Austin. - It's so good. 1047 00:42:31,791 --> 00:42:33,541 They delivered them all the way to our room. 1048 00:42:33,552 --> 00:42:35,126 - Are you serious? - Wow! 1049 00:42:35,202 --> 00:42:36,386 They got the pickle shots, too. 1050 00:42:36,462 --> 00:42:38,504 I am so sad I'm not there with everyone. 1051 00:42:38,581 --> 00:42:40,131 I'm so sad. 1052 00:42:40,207 --> 00:42:42,633 Tiffany, can you remind us how to say "cheers" in Chinese? 1053 00:42:42,710 --> 00:42:44,885 - Oh, gosh. [ laughs ] - Because I would like to learn. 1054 00:42:44,896 --> 00:42:46,637 Ganbei. 1055 00:42:46,714 --> 00:42:48,231 - Ganbei. - Ganbei. 1056 00:42:48,308 --> 00:42:49,849 - Ganbei. - Ganbei! 1057 00:42:49,925 --> 00:42:51,225 - Ganbei. - Ganbei. 1058 00:42:51,236 --> 00:42:52,143 - Ganbei. - Ganbei. 1059 00:42:52,219 --> 00:42:53,628 - Cheers. - Ganbei. 1060 00:42:53,630 --> 00:42:55,405 - Cheers, Kary. Cheers, Brandi. - Thank you, ladies. 1061 00:42:55,481 --> 00:42:56,814 ♪♪♪ 1062 00:42:56,891 --> 00:43:00,243 Oh, that's real. It's good. [ laughs ] 1063 00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:01,861 - Oh, my Lord. - That is disgusting. 1064 00:43:01,937 --> 00:43:03,413 Just tastes like a bunch of pickles. 1065 00:43:03,489 --> 00:43:05,248 - Ooh. - I don't see any alcohol 1066 00:43:05,325 --> 00:43:06,699 in that one in any form. - Yeah, right? Exactly. 1067 00:43:06,776 --> 00:43:10,328 You're gonna get an IV drip tonight of alcohol. 1068 00:43:10,404 --> 00:43:11,421 [ laughs ]