1 00:00:02,794 --> 00:00:04,087 - Previously, on "The Real Housewives of Potomac"... 2 00:00:06,589 --> 00:00:10,427 - Austin! [cheering] 3 00:00:10,468 --> 00:00:14,973 - Miracle, wrong way. Wrong way, Miracle. 4 00:00:15,015 --> 00:00:16,224 - This is a triple 20 moment. 5 00:00:20,395 --> 00:00:22,313 - I wanna talk about PAVE. 6 00:00:22,355 --> 00:00:24,357 I have been with PAVE for many, many years. 7 00:00:24,399 --> 00:00:27,944 PAVE is an organization which empowers victims 8 00:00:27,986 --> 00:00:29,070 who have been raped. 9 00:00:30,488 --> 00:00:32,866 - Taking the Power Back. - That's great. 10 00:00:32,907 --> 00:00:34,534 - My mom is in the hospital. 11 00:00:34,576 --> 00:00:37,746 Mom-mom, how long-- how long is the procedure? 12 00:00:40,623 --> 00:00:42,042 - Where did all the hatred come from? 13 00:00:42,083 --> 00:00:43,293 - I know, that's what-- - The hatred came from 14 00:00:43,335 --> 00:00:45,712 her sister communicating that I'm a clout chaser, 15 00:00:45,754 --> 00:00:47,881 I'm, um, I'm jealous of you, 16 00:00:47,922 --> 00:00:49,382 everything under the sun. 17 00:00:49,424 --> 00:00:51,009 - Nneka kept on saying, "Your mom says she's gonna 18 00:00:51,051 --> 00:00:52,218 put my name on the shrine. 19 00:00:52,260 --> 00:00:54,637 She's gonna do this. She's gonna do that." 20 00:00:54,679 --> 00:00:56,056 - The attorney that handled our sale... 21 00:00:56,097 --> 00:00:57,307 - Yeah. 22 00:00:57,349 --> 00:00:59,059 - He basically stole money from us. 23 00:00:59,100 --> 00:01:01,311 I know, I know. - What? 24 00:01:01,353 --> 00:01:02,937 - Shortly after that, he killed himself. 25 00:01:02,979 --> 00:01:04,481 [groans] 26 00:01:04,522 --> 00:01:08,026 - None of us should use social media 27 00:01:08,068 --> 00:01:10,320 to weaponize against each other. 28 00:01:10,362 --> 00:01:13,156 - Okay, but it's okay to weaponize sh-- 29 00:01:13,198 --> 00:01:15,408 against me and my husband. 30 00:01:15,450 --> 00:01:17,619 The line is always moving! 31 00:01:20,121 --> 00:01:22,207 - I'm no angel but give me some grace, 32 00:01:22,248 --> 00:01:25,168 and you'll learn to adore me. 33 00:01:25,210 --> 00:01:26,961 - You don't have to dig for gold 34 00:01:27,003 --> 00:01:29,255 when you shine this bright. 35 00:01:29,297 --> 00:01:31,591 - I just took a DNA test, and it turns out, 36 00:01:31,633 --> 00:01:34,177 I 100% don't care. 37 00:01:34,219 --> 00:01:39,099 - When they go low, * I just hit high notes * 38 00:01:39,140 --> 00:01:41,768 - If you're gonna test this professor, 39 00:01:41,810 --> 00:01:43,645 be prepared to fail. 40 00:01:43,687 --> 00:01:46,106 - Nigeria raised me, L.A. made me, 41 00:01:46,147 --> 00:01:48,441 and Potomac will remember me. 42 00:01:48,483 --> 00:01:50,944 - It doesn't matter the size of our home. 43 00:01:50,985 --> 00:01:53,363 I'm always the queen of this castle. 44 00:01:53,405 --> 00:01:54,948 - I don't ride the fence, honey. 45 00:01:54,989 --> 00:01:58,201 I am the fence. You ride me. 46 00:01:59,494 --> 00:02:06,126 ** 47 00:02:06,167 --> 00:02:07,627 - Welcome back from your freaking trip 48 00:02:07,669 --> 00:02:09,504 to Austin, Texas wit' your girls. 49 00:02:09,546 --> 00:02:11,256 We were eating cereal for dinner, you know. 50 00:02:11,297 --> 00:02:12,507 - No, you chose to eat cereal for dinner. 51 00:02:12,549 --> 00:02:13,758 - We were eatin' cereal for dinner. 52 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:14,801 - I was about to say, now you're exaggerating. 53 00:02:14,843 --> 00:02:16,469 - I-I-- Mm-hmm... 54 00:02:18,179 --> 00:02:19,556 - Some interesting things happened 55 00:02:19,597 --> 00:02:20,807 in, um, Texas. 56 00:02:22,100 --> 00:02:23,143 - I had a great time. 57 00:02:23,184 --> 00:02:24,894 - I had a great time. - Yes. 58 00:02:24,936 --> 00:02:26,896 I mean... - Robyn did not. 59 00:02:26,938 --> 00:02:28,398 So, she stood up. 60 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:30,984 Everybody is sittin' down. She stood up. 61 00:02:31,026 --> 00:02:32,986 [laughing] - Had her arms out. 62 00:02:33,028 --> 00:02:34,654 Her arms were open. - Yes. 63 00:02:34,696 --> 00:02:37,323 - I'm here, I'm here. Hold me accountable. 64 00:02:37,365 --> 00:02:38,992 [laughing] - That's what she was doing. 65 00:02:39,034 --> 00:02:41,202 - Yes. [laughing] 66 00:02:42,454 --> 00:02:43,580 - Oh, okay, it's a little-- 67 00:02:43,621 --> 00:02:44,998 still a little nippy out here, huh? 68 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:46,291 - Yeah, I got a blanket. 69 00:02:46,332 --> 00:02:48,126 You wanna go sit under the gazebo? 70 00:02:48,168 --> 00:02:49,711 - Okay-- Oh, you do have a blanket out here. 71 00:02:49,753 --> 00:02:52,339 - Hello. Yes, Lord. 72 00:02:52,380 --> 00:02:55,550 'cause I didn't know it was gonna be this cold out. 73 00:02:55,592 --> 00:02:56,926 [sighs] 74 00:02:56,968 --> 00:02:58,887 I know you and I always put a smile on everything, 75 00:02:58,928 --> 00:03:03,516 but when I got my results from my cardiologist, 76 00:03:03,558 --> 00:03:05,185 you dropped the ball. 77 00:03:05,226 --> 00:03:07,645 I know you're a super busy man, okay? 78 00:03:07,687 --> 00:03:10,315 But when I ring the phone, and you're like, 79 00:03:10,357 --> 00:03:12,484 "What you need, what you want? Uh..." 80 00:03:12,525 --> 00:03:14,235 Like-like, you're so busy. 81 00:03:14,277 --> 00:03:16,613 - Timing is everything. - Timing my ass! 82 00:03:16,654 --> 00:03:18,531 I should be the priority, making sure I'm okay. 83 00:03:18,573 --> 00:03:20,533 - I took your call even though I was in the bathroom. 84 00:03:20,575 --> 00:03:21,743 - No excuse in the world, though, do you see that? 85 00:03:21,785 --> 00:03:23,244 - I was finishing up. I was running late. 86 00:03:23,286 --> 00:03:24,537 I'm getting out the house. 87 00:03:24,579 --> 00:03:26,081 I, you know-- - You took my call, 88 00:03:26,122 --> 00:03:30,043 but it was a very, uh, insensitive reaction you gave, 89 00:03:30,085 --> 00:03:31,378 response. - Well, I'm just-- 90 00:03:31,419 --> 00:03:33,213 - You were, like, rushing me off the phone, babe, 91 00:03:33,254 --> 00:03:34,381 and it really hurt. 92 00:03:34,422 --> 00:03:35,715 - I would have taken nobody else's call. 93 00:03:35,757 --> 00:03:37,384 Please forgive me, baby. - Mm-hmm. 94 00:03:37,425 --> 00:03:38,885 Thank you. - Sorry. 95 00:03:38,927 --> 00:03:42,430 - But I wanted to say to you that the 5% plaque buildup, 96 00:03:42,472 --> 00:03:43,890 you can't do anything about it. 97 00:03:43,932 --> 00:03:46,559 I can prevent it from, you know, getting worse, 98 00:03:46,601 --> 00:03:47,894 and I'm doing that. - Mm-hmm. 99 00:03:47,936 --> 00:03:50,063 And I'm happy to hear that the results say 100 00:03:50,105 --> 00:03:51,773 that it's not that much. 101 00:03:51,815 --> 00:03:55,610 - My heart condition, thank God, is not serious. 102 00:03:55,652 --> 00:03:57,904 So, diet is great. Exercise is great. 103 00:03:57,946 --> 00:03:59,364 I do all of that. 104 00:03:59,406 --> 00:04:01,241 And just being vigilant about my health 105 00:04:01,282 --> 00:04:03,910 will stop any more buildup. 106 00:04:03,952 --> 00:04:07,205 I have 5%... 107 00:04:07,247 --> 00:04:10,834 of calcium in my carotid arteries. 108 00:04:10,875 --> 00:04:13,253 I'm constantly working for the good, you know. 109 00:04:13,294 --> 00:04:14,671 - Mm-hmm. - So, I want us to get back 110 00:04:14,713 --> 00:04:17,841 to the good, too, and so I'm working with PAVE, again. 111 00:04:17,882 --> 00:04:20,593 I hope everyone is on a good sheet of music 112 00:04:20,635 --> 00:04:22,554 'cause I want good energy around me. 113 00:04:22,595 --> 00:04:24,639 I have been with PAVE for many, many years, 114 00:04:24,681 --> 00:04:27,559 so calling on my girlfriends to lend a helping hand. 115 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:29,644 I am having a luncheon, and I would love 116 00:04:29,686 --> 00:04:31,771 all of you to come, for PAVE. 117 00:04:31,813 --> 00:04:35,233 I would like one of your gently used business outfits 118 00:04:35,275 --> 00:04:36,693 that you don't wear anymore. 119 00:04:36,735 --> 00:04:38,361 This is what I know the girls for. 120 00:04:38,403 --> 00:04:39,779 We will help each other, 121 00:04:39,821 --> 00:04:41,239 and we will help our community. 122 00:04:41,281 --> 00:04:42,615 - I hope you have a magic wand. 123 00:04:42,657 --> 00:04:44,075 - Why? 124 00:04:44,117 --> 00:04:45,243 - So that you could make them-- - Make the girls behave? 125 00:04:45,285 --> 00:04:47,037 [laughing] 126 00:04:49,831 --> 00:04:59,799 ** 127 00:04:59,841 --> 00:05:01,718 - Are you excited? - You got that fast walk going on. 128 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:04,220 [laughing] 129 00:05:04,262 --> 00:05:05,972 Here, let me get the door. 130 00:05:06,014 --> 00:05:09,142 - Thanks, baby. 131 00:05:09,184 --> 00:05:10,310 - In here? - Hi. 132 00:05:10,352 --> 00:05:11,519 - Hi. 133 00:05:11,561 --> 00:05:12,562 - Welcome, welcome, welcome. 134 00:05:12,604 --> 00:05:13,688 - Hey, girl. - Hey, Shannon. 135 00:05:13,730 --> 00:05:14,647 - It's so good to see you. - Hi. 136 00:05:14,689 --> 00:05:16,107 Nice to see you, again, yes. 137 00:05:16,149 --> 00:05:17,317 - You look good, as always. - How are you doing, dear? 138 00:05:17,359 --> 00:05:18,443 - How are you? - Good. 139 00:05:18,485 --> 00:05:19,569 - Yes. Welcome. Welcome. - I can't wait. 140 00:05:19,611 --> 00:05:20,695 This is exciting. - This is so cute. Okay. 141 00:05:20,737 --> 00:05:22,155 - Are we doing beans and franks today 142 00:05:22,197 --> 00:05:23,365 'cause that's my specialty? - No. 143 00:05:23,406 --> 00:05:24,866 Today, we're gonna do something exciting. 144 00:05:24,908 --> 00:05:26,409 We're gonna do pasta. - Oh, cool. Okay. 145 00:05:26,451 --> 00:05:27,827 - Romantic-- isn't this romantic? 146 00:05:27,869 --> 00:05:29,329 - Yes, yes. 147 00:05:29,371 --> 00:05:29,996 - You know, you did tell me the other day when I cooked, 148 00:05:30,038 --> 00:05:31,623 it turns you on. 149 00:05:31,664 --> 00:05:33,750 - So, we do have, uh, friends coming. 150 00:05:33,792 --> 00:05:35,794 I just thought it would be something fun for us to do. 151 00:05:35,835 --> 00:05:38,171 You know, like, couples getting together 152 00:05:38,213 --> 00:05:40,799 and learning new things. 153 00:05:40,840 --> 00:05:43,677 I'm not sure if Robyn cooks, but we're going to find out. 154 00:05:43,718 --> 00:05:45,679 - Okay. - Gonna find out today. 155 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:46,846 - You gonna call 'em right now? 156 00:05:46,888 --> 00:05:48,598 - I am, real quick. - Oh, my God. 157 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:51,559 - What's up, baby? How you doin'? 158 00:05:51,601 --> 00:05:53,186 Well, I-I reached out to Wes. 159 00:05:53,228 --> 00:05:55,355 Tell Wes h-help me out, coach. 160 00:05:55,397 --> 00:05:57,399 They have an assistant coach position open. 161 00:05:57,440 --> 00:05:59,484 Yeah. 162 00:05:59,526 --> 00:06:00,944 Coach, please, I'm gonna call you in an hour. 163 00:06:00,985 --> 00:06:02,070 Coach, please ask him. 164 00:06:02,112 --> 00:06:04,531 I need you to reach out to Piper for me. 165 00:06:04,572 --> 00:06:05,907 All right, thank you, and I'll call you back. 166 00:06:05,949 --> 00:06:07,617 Let 'em know. 167 00:06:07,659 --> 00:06:10,370 All right. - What did he say about Wes? 168 00:06:10,412 --> 00:06:12,122 - Just talking to Wes. You ready? 169 00:06:12,163 --> 00:06:16,042 - You know, Juan's job search is not really producing 170 00:06:16,084 --> 00:06:18,378 any, you know, jobs. 171 00:06:18,420 --> 00:06:20,547 So, you know, we're a little stuck, 172 00:06:20,588 --> 00:06:23,049 but everything is gonna be okay. 173 00:06:23,091 --> 00:06:24,426 This nice. - This is-- wow. 174 00:06:24,467 --> 00:06:28,346 - Oh, all right. [laughing] 175 00:06:28,388 --> 00:06:29,556 We're just walking, enjoying. 176 00:06:29,597 --> 00:06:31,349 - Hey. - Hi. 177 00:06:31,391 --> 00:06:32,809 - What's up, Juan? - What's up, G? 178 00:06:32,851 --> 00:06:34,644 - So pretty, always. - You, too. 179 00:06:34,686 --> 00:06:36,312 - Cute, cute, cute, pink, pink, pink. 180 00:06:36,354 --> 00:06:37,355 - G, I'm good, baby. How you doin'? 181 00:06:37,397 --> 00:06:38,606 - All right. You're looking good. 182 00:06:38,648 --> 00:06:39,899 - You, as well. - Hey, Robyn, how you doin'? 183 00:06:39,941 --> 00:06:41,109 - Hey, Gordon, how are you? - Hi. How are you? 184 00:06:41,151 --> 00:06:42,110 - I'm doing well. Thanks. - Good seeing you. 185 00:06:42,152 --> 00:06:43,403 - Good to see you. - Me, too. 186 00:06:43,445 --> 00:06:44,654 - Oh, what are we making? 187 00:06:44,696 --> 00:06:46,281 - Okay, so, welcome. 188 00:06:46,322 --> 00:06:47,574 - Hi. I'm sorry. - This is Chef Frankie. 189 00:06:47,615 --> 00:06:49,701 - Hi, Chef Frankie. I'm Robyn. - Do you cook? 190 00:06:49,743 --> 00:06:51,661 - Yeah, I do. - All right. 191 00:06:51,703 --> 00:06:53,163 - Oh, these are our aprons? 192 00:06:53,204 --> 00:06:54,414 - Yeah, so, we have aprons. 193 00:06:54,456 --> 00:06:56,624 I have, uh, some chef hats for the guys. 194 00:06:59,502 --> 00:07:00,754 - Who idea was this? 195 00:07:00,795 --> 00:07:02,630 - So, Gordon has started to cook more. 196 00:07:02,672 --> 00:07:04,090 - See? - Yes. 197 00:07:04,132 --> 00:07:05,550 - Because we used to have someone prepare meals for us, 198 00:07:05,592 --> 00:07:07,010 like, during the week. - Yeah, yeah. 199 00:07:07,052 --> 00:07:08,053 - Oh, what is happening? 200 00:07:08,094 --> 00:07:09,095 - And we no longer have our nanny. 201 00:07:09,137 --> 00:07:10,055 - Okay. 202 00:07:10,096 --> 00:07:10,930 - So we no longer have our chef. 203 00:07:10,972 --> 00:07:11,848 - Oh. 204 00:07:11,890 --> 00:07:13,475 - Okay, so, today, of course, 205 00:07:13,516 --> 00:07:17,312 we're going to do a creamy scampi pasta. 206 00:07:17,354 --> 00:07:19,189 We're going to begin to make our dough. 207 00:07:19,230 --> 00:07:20,774 So, let's get two cups of flour 208 00:07:20,815 --> 00:07:22,400 in the center of our table. 209 00:07:22,442 --> 00:07:24,778 - All right. - Right in the center. 210 00:07:24,819 --> 00:07:28,448 - We're gonna, uh, make a circle in the center. 211 00:07:28,490 --> 00:07:29,991 - Like so? - So, yeah, there we go. 212 00:07:30,033 --> 00:07:31,201 - Looks familiar. 213 00:07:31,242 --> 00:07:32,952 - We're gonna put three eggs in there, okay? 214 00:07:32,994 --> 00:07:34,329 - Whoo. - Oh! 215 00:07:34,371 --> 00:07:35,288 - That's gonna run over. It's not big enough, is it? 216 00:07:35,330 --> 00:07:36,122 - Good job, Robyn. - Oh, sh--. 217 00:07:36,164 --> 00:07:37,290 - Should we make a big hole? 218 00:07:37,332 --> 00:07:38,333 - You gotta make your hole a little bigger. 219 00:07:38,375 --> 00:07:39,793 [laughing] - Oh, and I don't cook. 220 00:07:39,834 --> 00:07:41,503 I had it going right in the center. 221 00:07:41,544 --> 00:07:44,464 Wow. - Oh! Oh! 222 00:07:44,506 --> 00:07:46,132 Look it. Oh, no! 223 00:07:46,174 --> 00:07:48,426 Oh, no. [laughing] 224 00:07:48,468 --> 00:07:50,553 - We kinda had to fix ours again. 225 00:07:50,595 --> 00:07:51,971 - Oh, well, then that's-- see that? 226 00:07:52,013 --> 00:07:54,474 - I mean, I think we can rule out Juan's next job 227 00:07:54,516 --> 00:07:57,477 being a chef. Like, that's... 228 00:07:57,519 --> 00:07:59,479 not even a chance. 229 00:07:59,521 --> 00:08:01,147 - So, what we're gonna do, is start kneading. 230 00:08:01,189 --> 00:08:02,357 - Am I doing this right? 231 00:08:02,399 --> 00:08:04,234 - And-and this can be a together process, 232 00:08:04,275 --> 00:08:05,819 so let's get those hands touching. 233 00:08:05,860 --> 00:08:07,570 - Come on, babe. Let's knead. 234 00:08:07,612 --> 00:08:08,988 - Come on. 235 00:08:09,030 --> 00:08:11,783 - I realize that cooking is actually very therapeutic, 236 00:08:11,825 --> 00:08:14,077 and it also brings us together, 237 00:08:14,119 --> 00:08:15,870 and so I think it's a good idea to, like, 238 00:08:15,912 --> 00:08:18,123 introduce that to Robyn and Juan 239 00:08:18,164 --> 00:08:20,709 because they clearly were having some issues. 240 00:08:20,750 --> 00:08:22,168 - We gotta mix this up. Let's go. 241 00:08:22,210 --> 00:08:23,253 - Yeah. [sighs] 242 00:08:23,294 --> 00:08:25,005 - Come on. Mix it. - Oh, okay. 243 00:08:26,423 --> 00:08:28,174 That's so crazy, I've had y'all here this whole time, 244 00:08:28,216 --> 00:08:29,342 and I haven't talked to you 245 00:08:29,384 --> 00:08:31,261 about the franchise that I'm opening up. 246 00:08:31,302 --> 00:08:32,804 - So, you sent me the link and I forwarded it to him. 247 00:08:32,846 --> 00:08:34,514 - Yes. Oh, good. Okay. 248 00:08:34,556 --> 00:08:35,890 Browsing it, you feel good about it? 249 00:08:35,932 --> 00:08:37,100 - Yeah. 250 00:08:37,142 --> 00:08:40,020 - Glo 30 is a membership based facial studio, 251 00:08:40,061 --> 00:08:43,857 and I've actually been a client for over ten years, 252 00:08:43,898 --> 00:08:45,483 and when I heard the news that they were 253 00:08:45,525 --> 00:08:47,360 franchising their business, 254 00:08:47,402 --> 00:08:49,487 I immediately texted the owner 255 00:08:49,529 --> 00:08:51,364 and said, "I want in." 256 00:08:51,406 --> 00:08:52,699 - To really succeed in this model, 257 00:08:52,741 --> 00:08:54,200 you have to understand to give the customer 258 00:08:54,242 --> 00:08:55,285 and the consumer more. 259 00:08:55,326 --> 00:08:56,703 - Mm-hmm, right. 260 00:08:56,745 --> 00:08:58,621 You know, Juan losing his job, 261 00:08:58,663 --> 00:09:01,666 it just puts more importance 262 00:09:01,708 --> 00:09:04,836 on diversifying our portfolio 263 00:09:04,878 --> 00:09:07,088 because you just never know 264 00:09:07,130 --> 00:09:09,716 when something is going to be taken away from you. 265 00:09:09,758 --> 00:09:13,094 It-it-it's not the reason why I wanna open a Glo 30, 266 00:09:13,136 --> 00:09:15,263 but this is a smart thing to do. 267 00:09:15,305 --> 00:09:17,766 - The concept is great. The numbers look great. 268 00:09:17,807 --> 00:09:20,393 I can see why there's such a high return. 269 00:09:20,435 --> 00:09:22,270 - Hearing from you guys saying, like, you know, 270 00:09:22,312 --> 00:09:24,939 everything looks good makes me feel even better 271 00:09:24,981 --> 00:09:26,691 because this is scary for me. 272 00:09:26,733 --> 00:09:29,736 - It should be. 273 00:09:29,778 --> 00:09:33,281 - Okay, so, once we continuously knead, 274 00:09:33,323 --> 00:09:36,659 you'll start to see that it's gonna start to mold, 275 00:09:36,701 --> 00:09:38,703 and we're going for a ball. - Oh. 276 00:09:38,745 --> 00:09:40,872 - So, start squeezing together now. 277 00:09:40,914 --> 00:09:42,707 - How did you like the food in Austin? 278 00:09:42,749 --> 00:09:43,875 - I liked it. - Yeah? 279 00:09:43,917 --> 00:09:45,418 - I think they have a good food scene. 280 00:09:45,460 --> 00:09:46,628 - Yeah. 281 00:09:46,670 --> 00:09:48,296 - Overall, how was the, uh, Austin trip? 282 00:09:48,338 --> 00:09:49,839 - So, I honestly haven't told him everything. 283 00:09:49,881 --> 00:09:51,424 Have you told Juan? 284 00:09:51,466 --> 00:09:53,593 - See, Juan doesn't really like, um-- 285 00:09:53,635 --> 00:09:54,719 - Know what's going on. 286 00:09:54,761 --> 00:09:55,970 - He doesn't understand female drama. 287 00:09:56,012 --> 00:09:56,846 - Yeah. 288 00:09:56,888 --> 00:09:58,264 - Anyway, go ahead, Mia. 289 00:09:58,306 --> 00:10:00,100 - So, anyways, so, on the way to chickensh--, 290 00:10:00,141 --> 00:10:03,812 I said, "Girl, story sounds crazy. 291 00:10:03,853 --> 00:10:05,730 Like batsh-- crazy. 292 00:10:10,151 --> 00:10:12,862 "Can you tell me what the hell happened? 293 00:10:12,904 --> 00:10:14,114 - What is there to tell? 294 00:10:14,155 --> 00:10:15,532 - I-I-I heard, like, everybody else's version. 295 00:10:15,573 --> 00:10:16,741 - I'm sure you already heard about it, 296 00:10:16,783 --> 00:10:18,076 read about it, and whatever. 297 00:10:18,118 --> 00:10:19,619 - So, did you really put your credit card down? 298 00:10:19,661 --> 00:10:23,790 ** 299 00:10:34,134 --> 00:10:34,384 ** 300 00:10:39,055 --> 00:10:41,141 - So, did you really put your credit card down? 301 00:10:42,350 --> 00:10:43,935 - No, I paid for the room. - You did? 302 00:10:43,977 --> 00:10:45,645 - My credit card was down. She got me. 303 00:10:45,687 --> 00:10:49,816 Like, it's-- uh, she-she, uh, 304 00:10:49,858 --> 00:10:51,484 went to casino, she said, 305 00:10:51,526 --> 00:10:53,486 and someone stole her purse, 306 00:10:53,528 --> 00:10:54,821 so she didn't have a wallet. 307 00:10:54,863 --> 00:10:56,322 So, she cried about she didn't have a room, 308 00:10:56,364 --> 00:10:57,866 no one to pay for the room. - That's a thing, casinos... 309 00:10:57,907 --> 00:10:59,701 - She couldn't get money sent from Canada, 310 00:10:59,743 --> 00:11:02,495 so I put my-- I put my card down, 311 00:11:02,537 --> 00:11:03,913 so I paid for the room. - 'Cause you can do that-- 312 00:11:03,955 --> 00:11:05,999 'cause you can do that over the phone. 313 00:11:06,041 --> 00:11:08,793 Right? You did that? 314 00:11:08,835 --> 00:11:10,837 - No. - Or, no, you went. 315 00:11:10,879 --> 00:11:13,381 - I went to the hotel. 316 00:11:13,423 --> 00:11:15,008 [sighs] 317 00:11:15,050 --> 00:11:17,218 - Okay. So, next time... 318 00:11:17,260 --> 00:11:19,387 - I don't need a next time. - Okay. 319 00:11:19,429 --> 00:11:21,139 We-we just-just for the-- - I'm a grown man. 320 00:11:21,181 --> 00:11:22,766 I made a mistake. - For the record... 321 00:11:22,807 --> 00:11:24,517 - I own it. - Okay, well, good. 322 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:25,977 Well, I'm glad we're there. 323 00:11:26,019 --> 00:11:29,189 I just wanted to understand the dynamic, 324 00:11:29,230 --> 00:11:31,107 and his story matches Robyn's. 325 00:11:31,149 --> 00:11:33,109 So, they definitely practiced that one. 326 00:11:33,151 --> 00:11:35,028 You're rolling real hard over there. 327 00:11:35,070 --> 00:11:39,616 - Y'all-y'all don't fluster me at all. 328 00:11:39,657 --> 00:11:40,909 - All right. You ready to roll? 329 00:11:40,950 --> 00:11:43,161 While he's turning, someone has to hold 330 00:11:43,203 --> 00:11:45,288 and grab from the other end, okay? 331 00:11:45,330 --> 00:11:47,082 You'll see it begin to come out. 332 00:11:47,123 --> 00:11:49,042 - Okay, hold on. All right, move. 333 00:11:49,084 --> 00:11:51,586 - Do you do this every time that you make pasta? 334 00:11:51,628 --> 00:11:54,255 - Yeah, this is prep. Ooh. 335 00:11:54,297 --> 00:11:56,174 - Cool. That does look good. 336 00:11:56,216 --> 00:11:59,594 - By the way, I did open up to Robyn 337 00:11:59,636 --> 00:12:02,889 and told her about what happened with our attorney. 338 00:12:02,931 --> 00:12:05,350 I just felt like, out of all our friends, 339 00:12:05,392 --> 00:12:06,976 I felt like she would be the only that would, like, 340 00:12:07,018 --> 00:12:08,770 understand and-- - Mm-hmm. 341 00:12:08,812 --> 00:12:09,854 - We experienced somethin' similar. 342 00:12:09,896 --> 00:12:11,022 I don't know if you know that but... 343 00:12:11,064 --> 00:12:12,107 - Okay. Yeah, I heard some. 344 00:12:12,148 --> 00:12:13,441 I don't know a lot of the details, 345 00:12:13,483 --> 00:12:14,776 but I heard some things. Yeah, sure. 346 00:12:14,818 --> 00:12:15,985 - Yeah, yeah. 347 00:12:16,027 --> 00:12:17,278 - But my thing, I immediately go to, like, 348 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:19,739 his-his child and his wife that he left behind, 349 00:12:19,781 --> 00:12:22,409 and I had a hard time. - Mm-hmm. 350 00:12:22,450 --> 00:12:23,827 - I'm sorry, guys. 351 00:12:23,868 --> 00:12:26,079 - I do think that there could have been 352 00:12:26,121 --> 00:12:29,624 a different approach that we could have potentially made 353 00:12:29,666 --> 00:12:34,671 that could have prevented, uh, such a drastic end. 354 00:12:34,713 --> 00:12:38,383 - Pour it in there? - You can pour it in. Yeah. 355 00:12:38,425 --> 00:12:42,929 - It is causing a lot of tension inside of our marriage, um, 356 00:12:42,971 --> 00:12:46,599 but yeah. You know, we'll figure it out. 357 00:12:48,309 --> 00:12:50,979 - Cheers. - All right, G. 358 00:12:51,021 --> 00:12:53,106 Cheers, buddy. - Cheers. 359 00:12:53,148 --> 00:12:54,649 Happy pasta to you. - Yes. 360 00:12:54,691 --> 00:12:56,526 - We literally broke bread. 361 00:12:56,568 --> 00:12:57,610 - Oh, wow. - Good? 362 00:12:57,652 --> 00:12:58,570 - We did this thing. It's delicious. 363 00:12:58,611 --> 00:12:59,904 - Oh. 364 00:12:59,946 --> 00:13:01,072 - What are you doing later tonight? 365 00:13:01,114 --> 00:13:02,782 - Huh? - You cooking for us? 366 00:13:02,824 --> 00:13:04,242 [laughing] 367 00:13:04,284 --> 00:13:10,582 ** 368 00:13:10,623 --> 00:13:13,084 - Jordan, you want a snack? - Oh, no, I'm good. 369 00:13:13,126 --> 00:13:15,795 - You're too big for a snack any darn way. 370 00:13:15,837 --> 00:13:18,131 Jordan, is your major film? 371 00:13:18,173 --> 00:13:22,010 - Uh, theater with a focus on acting 372 00:13:22,052 --> 00:13:23,970 but basically the same, potato-potato. 373 00:13:24,012 --> 00:13:26,431 - Not potato-potato. [laughing] 374 00:13:26,473 --> 00:13:27,265 Um, all right, guys. I'll be back. 375 00:13:27,307 --> 00:13:29,225 I'm gonna talk to grandma. 376 00:13:29,267 --> 00:13:32,979 Hey, mom, how are you? - I'm good. How are you? 377 00:13:33,021 --> 00:13:37,359 - I'm good. Are you feeling better? 378 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:40,278 Since you got back from the hospital? 379 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:43,490 - Oh, just recuperating. - Mm-hmm. 380 00:13:43,531 --> 00:13:48,078 - It was an elective that I did. I wasn't sick. 381 00:13:48,119 --> 00:13:50,455 It was something I chose to do. 382 00:13:50,497 --> 00:13:51,706 - When you were just in the hospital 383 00:13:51,748 --> 00:13:52,832 while I was in Austin, 384 00:13:52,874 --> 00:13:54,125 it was an elective thing you did? 385 00:13:54,167 --> 00:13:55,126 - No, it was-- - Okay, that's what I'm saying, 386 00:13:55,168 --> 00:13:56,211 like, oh. - No, no, no. 387 00:13:56,252 --> 00:14:00,256 I did an elective surgery. - Okay. 388 00:14:00,298 --> 00:14:04,344 - Had some complications from the elective that I did. 389 00:14:04,386 --> 00:14:07,555 - Okay. I'm glad you're better. - Yeah, I'm-I'm better. 390 00:14:07,597 --> 00:14:10,850 - Okay, um, this whole thing has been happening 391 00:14:10,892 --> 00:14:15,021 between myself and this girl, Nneka. 392 00:14:15,063 --> 00:14:17,065 - What's her name? - Nneka. 393 00:14:17,107 --> 00:14:20,318 - Okay. - You know, Lebe. 394 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:23,446 - Lebe, uh, Lebe, that's-- - Lebe, okay. 395 00:14:23,488 --> 00:14:25,365 - Yeah, Ivy's friend, yes. - Yes. 396 00:14:25,407 --> 00:14:29,202 Nneka is saying that you called Lebe, 397 00:14:29,244 --> 00:14:32,872 and you said something along the lines of, um, 398 00:14:32,914 --> 00:14:37,168 a shrine. - Hmm. 399 00:14:37,210 --> 00:14:39,087 - Why are you drinking? 400 00:14:39,129 --> 00:14:42,257 - I had to take a sip because this is hilarious. 401 00:14:42,298 --> 00:14:44,551 - And when I talked to Ivy, she had explained to me 402 00:14:44,592 --> 00:14:49,472 that her and Lebe had a falling out. 403 00:14:49,514 --> 00:14:51,933 - Mm-hmm. - Oh, so, you-- okay. 404 00:14:51,975 --> 00:14:53,935 - Her and Lebe had a falling out. 405 00:14:53,977 --> 00:14:55,186 - Okay. 406 00:14:55,228 --> 00:14:59,315 - And you know I take Lebe as-as my daughter. 407 00:14:59,357 --> 00:15:02,527 The way she latches onto us, some people think 408 00:15:02,569 --> 00:15:04,529 she's one of my daughters. - Mm-hmm. Right. 409 00:15:04,571 --> 00:15:06,448 - So, I called Lebe. - Okay. 410 00:15:06,489 --> 00:15:10,577 - Because I wanted to make sure they realize 411 00:15:10,618 --> 00:15:16,166 it's very hard to find a friend, very easy to make an enemy. 412 00:15:19,085 --> 00:15:23,631 Okay, so, that's why I called Lebe. 413 00:15:23,673 --> 00:15:24,632 - Okay. 414 00:15:24,674 --> 00:15:26,426 - I don't know this other person. 415 00:15:26,468 --> 00:15:28,428 What's her name? - Nneka. 416 00:15:28,470 --> 00:15:29,387 - Okay. 417 00:15:29,429 --> 00:15:30,722 - She said that, during the call-- 418 00:15:30,764 --> 00:15:31,973 - Mm-hmm. 419 00:15:32,015 --> 00:15:35,518 - You had mentioned something about a shrine. 420 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:38,772 - The only shrine I know is Saint Jude's shrine 421 00:15:38,813 --> 00:15:41,232 in downtown Baltimore. 422 00:15:42,776 --> 00:15:45,987 I feel sorry for her. I've never met the girl. 423 00:15:46,029 --> 00:15:47,572 If I meet her, you know what I'll do. 424 00:15:47,614 --> 00:15:50,408 - What you gonna do? - I'll pray for her. 425 00:15:50,450 --> 00:15:51,868 - Oh, Lord, don't do that. 426 00:15:51,910 --> 00:15:55,830 Then she's gonna say that you done put somethin' on her. 427 00:15:55,872 --> 00:15:57,457 - Coming up next... 428 00:15:57,499 --> 00:16:00,794 - Wait, let's call Jason. Let's say hi. 429 00:16:00,835 --> 00:16:03,129 - Please. - Hey. 430 00:16:03,171 --> 00:16:06,675 - Hey. - Oh, God. Hi, Jase. 431 00:16:13,348 --> 00:16:19,312 ** 432 00:16:24,067 --> 00:16:25,527 - Okay, let's see here. We gotta-- 433 00:16:25,568 --> 00:16:27,362 - Like, can we get here? Like, it's taking forever. 434 00:16:27,404 --> 00:16:29,114 - At this point, I mean, we done seen 435 00:16:29,155 --> 00:16:31,074 about 18 cornfields. 436 00:16:31,116 --> 00:16:34,953 Whew, all right, Grace. How you feelin'? 437 00:16:34,994 --> 00:16:38,206 - Good. I'm ready to leave, 438 00:16:38,248 --> 00:16:41,960 pack the bags, say goodbye. 439 00:16:42,002 --> 00:16:44,546 - Okay, you said that just a wee bit too fast. 440 00:16:44,587 --> 00:16:46,881 - I mean, it's time. - It is. 441 00:16:46,923 --> 00:16:48,091 I guess so. Yes, it is time, 442 00:16:48,133 --> 00:16:49,551 and I'm very happy for you. 443 00:16:49,592 --> 00:16:54,139 There's a couple things that I wanna make sure you do 444 00:16:54,180 --> 00:16:56,516 before you go to college. - Okay. 445 00:16:56,558 --> 00:16:58,768 - Grace is spreading her wings and flying. 446 00:16:58,810 --> 00:17:01,479 She's off to college, and I want her 447 00:17:01,521 --> 00:17:03,773 to feel confident in every way. 448 00:17:03,815 --> 00:17:06,234 So, yes, we're gonna take a self-defense class. 449 00:17:06,276 --> 00:17:07,777 We might even take two, three, or four. 450 00:17:07,819 --> 00:17:09,279 Do you feel like, if somebody rolled up on you now, 451 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:10,822 you have a couple of karate moves 452 00:17:10,864 --> 00:17:12,115 that you could give 'em. 453 00:17:12,157 --> 00:17:14,367 - Yeah, I-I-I've had self-defense before. So... 454 00:17:14,409 --> 00:17:15,493 - You took a self-defense class? 455 00:17:15,535 --> 00:17:17,412 - No, I just know how to protect myself. 456 00:17:17,454 --> 00:17:19,748 You can just kick them in the balls and run. 457 00:17:19,789 --> 00:17:22,292 - Yes, ball kicking is necessary. 458 00:17:22,334 --> 00:17:24,461 - Right. - Karate chopping the balls. 459 00:17:24,502 --> 00:17:26,087 No, no, no, kicking the balls. 460 00:17:26,129 --> 00:17:28,590 You don't wanna touch the balls. 461 00:17:28,631 --> 00:17:30,925 [laughing] 462 00:17:30,967 --> 00:17:32,594 - Never that. 463 00:17:32,635 --> 00:17:36,222 ** 464 00:17:36,264 --> 00:17:39,184 - All right. Let's get it. 465 00:17:39,225 --> 00:17:43,772 Whew, it's about to go down. 466 00:17:43,813 --> 00:17:45,065 - Hey, guys, welcome to Poolesville Self Defense. 467 00:17:45,106 --> 00:17:46,232 - Hi. Thank you. 468 00:17:46,274 --> 00:17:47,359 - Hi. - Come on in. 469 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:50,779 - Oh, wow, this is nice. 470 00:17:50,820 --> 00:17:52,280 - Whenever you guys are ready, we're gonna get started. 471 00:17:52,322 --> 00:17:54,449 You guys are welcome to come up here. 472 00:17:54,491 --> 00:17:55,950 I'm Coach Mark. Nice to meet you guys. 473 00:17:55,992 --> 00:17:57,285 - Okay, very nice to meet you. 474 00:17:57,327 --> 00:17:59,079 - The agenda for today, what we're gonna cover, 475 00:17:59,120 --> 00:18:01,456 is managing threats, okay? 476 00:18:01,498 --> 00:18:03,416 So, we're gonna give you some tools and techniques. 477 00:18:03,458 --> 00:18:04,793 So, you guys are gonna be paired up 478 00:18:04,834 --> 00:18:06,503 and work with each other to do that. 479 00:18:06,544 --> 00:18:07,504 How does that sound? - Good. 480 00:18:07,545 --> 00:18:09,798 - All right, great. - Oh, jeez. 481 00:18:09,839 --> 00:18:11,841 - I'm coming in, closing off space, 482 00:18:11,883 --> 00:18:13,134 and I grab her. 483 00:18:13,176 --> 00:18:15,428 I'm trying to grab her, pull her into my van. 484 00:18:15,470 --> 00:18:19,724 So, Leigh actually wants to take a small step in. 485 00:18:19,766 --> 00:18:22,352 She'll close the distance, and all she's gonna do, 486 00:18:22,394 --> 00:18:26,106 is drive this elbow up and cannot hold onto that. 487 00:18:26,147 --> 00:18:28,608 So, let's get with our partners. Let's just do that real quick. 488 00:18:28,650 --> 00:18:30,485 - Okay, I got it. I got it. Okay. 489 00:18:30,527 --> 00:18:32,278 Come with me. Come with me. Oh, that's good, Grace. 490 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:33,238 - Yeah. - Okay, let's do it again. 491 00:18:33,279 --> 00:18:34,572 - Did that feel good? - Yeah. 492 00:18:34,614 --> 00:18:35,573 Come with me. Come with me. 493 00:18:35,615 --> 00:18:38,076 [laughing] Very good. 494 00:18:38,118 --> 00:18:39,577 - You thought. Now, your turn. 495 00:18:39,619 --> 00:18:41,996 - Okay, you gotta grab two hands. 496 00:18:42,038 --> 00:18:44,290 - Two hands. So, you're gonna come on top. 497 00:18:44,332 --> 00:18:45,750 Grab your own fist. - Okay. 498 00:18:45,792 --> 00:18:47,168 - All right. Now, come in. 499 00:18:47,210 --> 00:18:48,211 Elbow straight up. 500 00:18:48,253 --> 00:18:48,878 You holding on as tight as you can? 501 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:50,296 - No. - Oh. 502 00:18:50,338 --> 00:18:53,967 - Ooh, uh-oh. 503 00:18:57,595 --> 00:19:01,391 - Maybe, like, a deer. [laughing] 504 00:19:01,433 --> 00:19:02,726 Thanks, guys. 505 00:19:02,767 --> 00:19:03,893 - You don't think I can knock down a human being. 506 00:19:03,935 --> 00:19:05,186 - If there's-- you didn't knock down me. 507 00:19:05,228 --> 00:19:07,647 [laughing] 508 00:19:07,689 --> 00:19:10,900 - Grace, you're up. - Okay, wanna give it a shot? 509 00:19:10,942 --> 00:19:13,445 - Okay, what-- yeah. - Just throw me over. 510 00:19:13,486 --> 00:19:14,821 Okay. - Oh, God. 511 00:19:14,863 --> 00:19:17,449 - It's okay. I'm not gonna die. - Come on, Grace. 512 00:19:17,490 --> 00:19:19,451 - You got it, all confidence. You got it. 513 00:19:19,492 --> 00:19:21,077 [cheers and applause] 514 00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:25,290 Yes. That was good. 515 00:19:25,331 --> 00:19:28,293 - That's awesome. 516 00:19:28,335 --> 00:19:30,795 - All right. 517 00:19:30,837 --> 00:19:32,380 - Okay, I'm throwing you, or you're throwing me? 518 00:19:32,422 --> 00:19:34,049 - You're throwing me. - Jesus Christ. 519 00:19:34,090 --> 00:19:35,258 - Okay? - Okay. 520 00:19:35,300 --> 00:19:36,718 - So, drop your base. Get your hips down. 521 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:37,761 Get the hips under mine. - Get your hips underneath him. 522 00:19:37,802 --> 00:19:40,889 Yes, yes, yes. [laughing] 523 00:19:40,930 --> 00:19:41,890 - Come on. 524 00:19:41,931 --> 00:19:44,726 - Mom, you're not supposed to fall. 525 00:19:44,768 --> 00:19:46,561 - We have open gym now for the next hour or so. 526 00:19:46,603 --> 00:19:48,813 So, feel free to keep working out. 527 00:19:48,855 --> 00:19:51,816 - Okay, we need to stretch. Did you like that? 528 00:19:51,858 --> 00:19:54,235 - Yeah. - I feel like I'm weak. 529 00:19:54,277 --> 00:19:56,112 - You are. - Like, I don't have any-- 530 00:19:56,154 --> 00:19:57,405 - They would get you. 531 00:19:57,447 --> 00:20:01,409 - I 100% feel like you're ready and prepared. 532 00:20:01,451 --> 00:20:03,870 - Yeah, I told you. - To go to college. 533 00:20:03,912 --> 00:20:05,038 - Yeah. 534 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:08,083 - But it is, like, ripping my heart out. 535 00:20:08,124 --> 00:20:11,252 You're the firstborn, so I'm gonna have a hard time. 536 00:20:11,294 --> 00:20:13,004 - Yeah. 537 00:20:13,046 --> 00:20:16,925 ** 538 00:20:16,966 --> 00:20:18,677 - I don't want you to get confused 539 00:20:18,718 --> 00:20:20,345 if you see me cry or get upset. 540 00:20:20,387 --> 00:20:22,263 I am super happy for you. - Thank you. 541 00:20:22,305 --> 00:20:26,685 - But, like, 18 years, it was just me and you, boo, 542 00:20:26,726 --> 00:20:28,603 and them other girls. - Yeah. 543 00:20:28,645 --> 00:20:29,604 - You know, them other girls in the house. 544 00:20:29,646 --> 00:20:32,482 - Yeah. [laughing] 545 00:20:32,524 --> 00:20:33,525 - All right. What's gonna happen with 546 00:20:33,566 --> 00:20:34,859 the whole dating scene down there? 547 00:20:34,901 --> 00:20:36,194 Do you plan on-- 548 00:20:36,236 --> 00:20:37,445 - I don't wanna be in a relationship, right now. 549 00:20:37,487 --> 00:20:38,571 - Okay, great, that's the plan. 550 00:20:38,613 --> 00:20:41,616 Just have some friends. Chill out... 551 00:20:41,658 --> 00:20:44,327 kinda like me and Jason. - Please. 552 00:20:44,369 --> 00:20:47,330 [laughing] 553 00:20:47,372 --> 00:20:50,291 - Wait, let's call Jason. Let's say hi. 554 00:20:50,333 --> 00:20:51,668 Hey. - Hey. 555 00:20:51,710 --> 00:20:55,588 - Ahh! The braids. 556 00:20:55,630 --> 00:20:57,924 - Oh, God. Hi, Jase. 557 00:20:57,966 --> 00:20:59,801 - The braids are looking good, very nice. 558 00:20:59,843 --> 00:21:03,763 Okay, so, Grace was body slamming people. 559 00:21:05,974 --> 00:21:07,976 - Oh, she's ready for school. - Right. 560 00:21:08,018 --> 00:21:09,602 [laughing] 561 00:21:09,644 --> 00:21:11,354 Okay, Bethesda needs to see your face. 562 00:21:11,396 --> 00:21:13,398 More importantly, I need to see your face. 563 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:15,775 - Let's, uh, let's make somethin' work. 564 00:21:15,817 --> 00:21:17,902 - Jason lives in New York. I live here. 565 00:21:17,944 --> 00:21:20,238 Though we make the effort, it's, you know, 566 00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:21,823 it might be a couple of weeks before we see each other. 567 00:21:21,865 --> 00:21:23,783 Once all the girls are gone, 568 00:21:23,825 --> 00:21:25,702 I won't have nothin' to do but go see Jason. 569 00:21:25,744 --> 00:21:27,537 So, he's gonna be sick of me. 570 00:21:27,579 --> 00:21:28,913 He's gonna be like, "Gizelle, go back home." 571 00:21:28,955 --> 00:21:30,373 [laughing] 572 00:21:30,415 --> 00:21:32,000 All right. I'll call you later. 573 00:21:32,042 --> 00:21:33,668 - All right, sounds good. Enjoy class. 574 00:21:33,710 --> 00:21:36,671 - Okay, bye. - Oh, God. 575 00:21:36,713 --> 00:21:38,131 - All right. I'm gonna put on my shoes. 576 00:21:38,173 --> 00:21:40,425 We gotta get outta here. - Yeah, 'cause your feet stink. 577 00:21:40,467 --> 00:21:42,635 - My feet do not stink. 578 00:21:42,677 --> 00:21:46,639 My feet do not-- ahh! [laughing] 579 00:21:46,681 --> 00:21:49,351 Okay. - That was defense. 580 00:21:49,392 --> 00:21:52,020 - Leave my vagina alone. [laughing] 581 00:21:52,062 --> 00:21:53,646 - Coming up next... 582 00:21:53,688 --> 00:21:57,233 - So, I went to the doctor. 583 00:21:57,275 --> 00:22:00,695 I have, like, two lumps. 584 00:22:00,737 --> 00:22:03,698 It rocked me. 585 00:22:08,495 --> 00:22:19,089 ** 586 00:22:19,130 --> 00:22:22,342 [humming] 587 00:22:22,384 --> 00:22:24,344 - Hey, hon. - Hey, mom. 588 00:22:24,386 --> 00:22:25,929 What you doin'? 589 00:22:25,970 --> 00:22:28,014 - I'm sitting here at my office. 590 00:22:28,056 --> 00:22:29,766 - Okay. 591 00:22:29,808 --> 00:22:31,643 - What you-- what are you up to? 592 00:22:31,685 --> 00:22:34,521 - I am, um-- 593 00:22:34,562 --> 00:22:37,816 I'm about to go and meet up with Nneka. 594 00:22:37,857 --> 00:22:40,360 - Nneka? Who is that? She is your-your friend? 595 00:22:40,402 --> 00:22:43,279 - Yeah, she's-- yeah, she came with us to Austin. 596 00:22:43,321 --> 00:22:45,615 So, you know... 597 00:22:45,657 --> 00:22:47,951 she got baptized a little bit, I think. 598 00:22:47,992 --> 00:22:50,495 - Oh, she was baptized? - 'Cause she was [indistinct]. 599 00:22:50,537 --> 00:22:51,413 Yeah. - Okay. 600 00:22:51,454 --> 00:22:52,747 - So, yeah, I'm doing good. 601 00:22:52,789 --> 00:22:58,128 Yeah, but, I, um, so, I went to the doctor 602 00:22:58,169 --> 00:23:01,631 'cause, you know, I had my first mammogram and-- 603 00:23:01,673 --> 00:23:03,466 - Right, okay. How-how did that go? 604 00:23:03,508 --> 00:23:04,718 That went okay? 605 00:23:04,759 --> 00:23:08,555 - So, they read my imaging while I was there, 606 00:23:08,596 --> 00:23:13,143 and I had, like, two lumps. 607 00:23:16,146 --> 00:23:19,649 - I just-- it-it was-- it, like, it rocked me. 608 00:23:19,691 --> 00:23:21,401 - Okay, okay. Mm-hmm. 609 00:23:21,443 --> 00:23:25,822 - She read the report and said that it does appear 610 00:23:25,864 --> 00:23:27,574 to just be a lymph node. - Mm-hmm. 611 00:23:27,615 --> 00:23:30,160 - But I just don't feel good about it. 612 00:23:30,201 --> 00:23:33,163 - Um, stop overthinking things. 613 00:23:33,204 --> 00:23:36,791 Well, they-they need to do further testing. 614 00:23:36,833 --> 00:23:38,668 - Yeah, the doctor said, "Oh, well, 615 00:23:38,710 --> 00:23:40,503 "we'll just keep monitoring it." 616 00:23:40,545 --> 00:23:44,257 - Mm-hmm. - And for me, 617 00:23:44,299 --> 00:23:47,135 why would I want to keep monitoring something 618 00:23:47,177 --> 00:23:50,764 that, God forbid, could become cancer one day 619 00:23:50,805 --> 00:23:54,309 when we can do something about it, right now?6 620 00:23:54,351 --> 00:23:55,393 - Mm-hmm. Well, I-I agree. 621 00:23:55,435 --> 00:23:56,728 I totally agree with you. 622 00:23:56,770 --> 00:24:01,524 - I'm a woman who has a history of breast cancer 623 00:24:01,566 --> 00:24:04,944 in my family, so I'm probably more diligent about it. 624 00:24:04,986 --> 00:24:07,238 So, I'm-I'm terrified. 625 00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:09,866 I just don't-- 626 00:24:09,908 --> 00:24:11,743 I don't feel comfortable just leaving it. 627 00:24:11,785 --> 00:24:14,079 - Stop overthinking and just, you know, 628 00:24:14,120 --> 00:24:17,290 have them just retest. - Yeah. 629 00:24:17,332 --> 00:24:31,846 ** 630 00:24:35,433 --> 00:24:37,727 Hello, hello. - Hey. 631 00:24:37,769 --> 00:24:39,771 - How are you? - Good. Nice to see you. 632 00:24:39,813 --> 00:24:41,106 - Come on, Bondo. 633 00:24:41,147 --> 00:24:42,524 - Yes, baby, gotta get the length, honey. 634 00:24:42,565 --> 00:24:44,734 - Yes, I love it. 635 00:24:44,776 --> 00:24:46,236 - I love that we're both wearing bright colors. 636 00:24:46,277 --> 00:24:48,488 - Yes. Hi. - Hi. 637 00:24:48,530 --> 00:24:50,240 Are you ladies ready to order? 638 00:24:50,281 --> 00:24:51,741 - Yes. - Um, yes. 639 00:24:51,783 --> 00:24:52,992 - Okay. - I'm a tequila girl. 640 00:24:53,034 --> 00:24:54,244 - Lady Voodoo is really good. 641 00:24:54,285 --> 00:24:55,829 It's like a blood orange margarita, 642 00:24:55,870 --> 00:24:57,622 but it's in a martini glass. 643 00:24:57,664 --> 00:24:58,748 - Ooh, let's do that. - I got you. 644 00:24:58,790 --> 00:25:01,418 - And then the macaroni and cheese. 645 00:25:01,459 --> 00:25:03,211 - And then for you? 646 00:25:03,253 --> 00:25:05,547 - A lemon drop and then the lamb chops. 647 00:25:05,588 --> 00:25:06,798 - Okay. - Thank you. 648 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:07,882 - No problem. - Yes. 649 00:25:07,924 --> 00:25:08,925 - The food here is really good so... 650 00:25:08,967 --> 00:25:10,427 - You've been here before? - I have. 651 00:25:10,468 --> 00:25:12,220 - Chris has wanted to come in here for a long time. So... 652 00:25:12,262 --> 00:25:13,763 - So you came without him. - I did. 653 00:25:13,805 --> 00:25:15,056 Well, you-you invited me. So, I said, 654 00:25:15,098 --> 00:25:17,017 "Let me-- let me and see. Let me try the food." 655 00:25:17,058 --> 00:25:18,268 - Yes. - I don't turn down food. 656 00:25:18,309 --> 00:25:19,728 [laughing] 657 00:25:19,769 --> 00:25:22,772 So, yes, have you recovered from the Austin of it all? 658 00:25:22,814 --> 00:25:24,274 I'm not. - You're not? 659 00:25:24,315 --> 00:25:26,026 I mean, you went through a lot. - I'm tired. 660 00:25:26,067 --> 00:25:28,236 - I think it's, like, frustrating to see two people, 661 00:25:28,278 --> 00:25:30,613 like, caring about each other and then not connecting, right? 662 00:25:30,655 --> 00:25:31,823 - Yeah. You mean me and Robyn? 663 00:25:31,865 --> 00:25:33,074 - Yeah, you're just not connecting, right? 664 00:25:33,116 --> 00:25:34,617 - Yeah, yeah. - Make sure which-which brawl. 665 00:25:34,659 --> 00:25:35,994 You and Robyn, that one, 666 00:25:36,036 --> 00:25:37,412 there's love there. - Yes, right. There's so many. 667 00:25:37,454 --> 00:25:39,789 Yeah. - But you guys have to work that out. 668 00:25:39,831 --> 00:25:41,291 - Well, yeah, we'll see. 669 00:25:41,332 --> 00:25:42,876 It can be a little fiery. - Mm-hmm. 670 00:25:42,917 --> 00:25:45,795 - Which you can identify with. 671 00:25:45,837 --> 00:25:47,297 - Girl, I have some honest moments. 672 00:25:47,339 --> 00:25:48,798 You know I never shy away from the truth 673 00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:50,216 and keeping it real. - Yes, yes. 674 00:25:50,258 --> 00:25:52,010 - It was never my intention to have that conversation 675 00:25:52,052 --> 00:25:53,470 with her in a group setting. 676 00:25:53,511 --> 00:25:55,972 - I never called her. - Let me clear that sh-- up. 677 00:25:56,014 --> 00:25:57,057 - So, clear it the (BLEEP) up. - Your sister-- 678 00:25:57,098 --> 00:25:58,099 I'm clearing it up, bitch! 679 00:25:58,141 --> 00:25:59,267 What the (BLEEP) you talking about? 680 00:25:59,309 --> 00:26:00,769 - Oh! Wow, wow, wow, woman. - Oh, bitch? 681 00:26:00,810 --> 00:26:02,479 - You called her a bitch. - I did. 682 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:03,730 - Yes. - So, do you think 683 00:26:03,772 --> 00:26:05,106 me calling her a bitch justifies her saying-- 684 00:26:05,148 --> 00:26:07,400 alleging that I'm a L.A. crackhead? 685 00:26:07,442 --> 00:26:11,321 - The crackhead came after a lot of things were said. 686 00:26:11,363 --> 00:26:13,823 If every time somebody says something crazy to you, 687 00:26:13,865 --> 00:26:17,327 your inclination is to call them a bitch... 688 00:26:17,369 --> 00:26:19,079 Shady bitch moment. 689 00:26:19,120 --> 00:26:20,330 Both of you have really been, like, 690 00:26:20,372 --> 00:26:21,915 kept-ass bitches. - You don't even-- 691 00:26:21,956 --> 00:26:23,708 - I shoulda kept my good eye 692 00:26:23,750 --> 00:26:26,252 on that bulbous-ass forehead bitch. 693 00:26:26,294 --> 00:26:29,047 So, for me to really feel 694 00:26:29,089 --> 00:26:33,551 like we can move forward independent of Wendy, 695 00:26:33,593 --> 00:26:36,429 I need to feel like there's hope for you all 696 00:26:36,471 --> 00:26:38,473 to have a conversation. 697 00:26:38,515 --> 00:26:41,393 - I don't know how there can be a resolution, 698 00:26:41,434 --> 00:26:43,353 but, I mean, at the end of the day, 699 00:26:43,395 --> 00:26:44,729 I didn't want this to be about Wendy. 700 00:26:44,771 --> 00:26:46,439 Like, I really do wanna get to know you. 701 00:26:46,481 --> 00:26:47,774 - Yeah. 702 00:26:47,816 --> 00:26:49,359 - And I hope that that's not an obstacle for you 703 00:26:49,401 --> 00:26:50,694 because I don't wanna put you in an uncomfortable situation, 704 00:26:50,735 --> 00:26:52,362 you know, 'cause that's not my intention for you. 705 00:26:52,404 --> 00:26:53,613 - Are you all finished with your-- 706 00:26:53,655 --> 00:26:55,573 - Um, I am. Thank you so much. 707 00:26:55,615 --> 00:26:57,200 If Wendy was not in the equation, 708 00:26:57,242 --> 00:26:59,035 Candiace and I would have a full-fledged friendship, 709 00:26:59,077 --> 00:27:01,413 but I understand, right now, our friendship is gonna have 710 00:27:01,454 --> 00:27:02,914 to be on her terms. 711 00:27:02,956 --> 00:27:04,541 I do wanna see if we can move forward, 712 00:27:04,582 --> 00:27:07,752 and I really wanna see if we can cultivate a relationship. 713 00:27:07,794 --> 00:27:09,379 Any-who, my dear, how has everything been? 714 00:27:09,421 --> 00:27:11,506 I know you have a big show coming up. 715 00:27:11,548 --> 00:27:15,301 So, how is that gonna work with your embryos? 716 00:27:15,343 --> 00:27:17,929 - I thought I was pregnant the other day. 717 00:27:17,971 --> 00:27:18,972 I literally feel like-- - You better not be one 718 00:27:19,014 --> 00:27:20,306 of those ones crying wolf every-- 719 00:27:20,348 --> 00:27:22,225 every month. - Two weeks ago, yes. 720 00:27:22,267 --> 00:27:24,185 - I'm not there yet with the IVF. 721 00:27:24,227 --> 00:27:27,105 - So, you've been trying. - Yeah, seven months, 722 00:27:27,147 --> 00:27:30,567 which is a long time. - Oh, yeah. 723 00:27:30,608 --> 00:27:31,568 It can take time. 724 00:27:31,609 --> 00:27:33,403 You gotta, like, relax 725 00:27:33,445 --> 00:27:35,238 and just be out here doing it everywhere. 726 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:36,239 - No, I'm-I'm definitely stressed. 727 00:27:36,281 --> 00:27:37,490 I have a lot of things going on. 728 00:27:37,532 --> 00:27:38,700 So... - Yeah. 729 00:27:38,742 --> 00:27:42,829 I didn't realize how parallel our lives were, 730 00:27:42,871 --> 00:27:47,625 but I feel like I have to kinda walk on eggshells a bit 731 00:27:47,667 --> 00:27:49,377 with my friendship with Nneka 732 00:27:49,419 --> 00:27:52,172 because I don't want Wendy to be offended 733 00:27:52,213 --> 00:27:54,341 or feel like I'm undermining her. 734 00:27:54,382 --> 00:27:57,886 - As far as me and her-- - Yes, yes. 735 00:27:57,927 --> 00:28:00,597 - Please don't talk about me. 736 00:28:00,638 --> 00:28:02,140 - Well, you know, Karen's event is tomorrow. 737 00:28:02,182 --> 00:28:03,683 - Tomorrow should be interesting. 738 00:28:03,725 --> 00:28:05,727 - It should, everyone together since Austin. 739 00:28:05,769 --> 00:28:07,270 - Yeah. 740 00:28:07,312 --> 00:28:09,272 - Hopefully, long hugs and love. 741 00:28:09,314 --> 00:28:11,691 - Let's-let's hope. - Right. 742 00:28:11,733 --> 00:28:13,651 [laughing] 743 00:28:14,694 --> 00:28:15,737 - Coming up next... 744 00:28:15,779 --> 00:28:18,573 * An angel pried * 745 00:28:18,615 --> 00:28:22,327 * apart a wound that I had tried to hide * 746 00:28:22,369 --> 00:28:25,372 ** 747 00:28:25,413 --> 00:28:27,749 [deep breathing] 748 00:28:38,426 --> 00:28:40,804 ** 749 00:28:45,141 --> 00:28:46,309 - Babe? - Yes. 750 00:28:46,351 --> 00:28:48,520 - Do you mind pouring me a green smoothie? 751 00:28:48,561 --> 00:28:50,980 - All right, babe. 752 00:28:51,022 --> 00:28:52,232 - Thanks, baby. 753 00:28:52,273 --> 00:28:55,443 - Lou, can I get you anything? - No, thank you. 754 00:28:55,485 --> 00:28:56,778 - What do you have going on today? 755 00:28:56,820 --> 00:29:00,073 - I am going to Karen's event. 756 00:29:00,115 --> 00:29:01,658 It's an organization named PAVE, 757 00:29:01,700 --> 00:29:05,412 and it basically just supports victims of rape. 758 00:29:06,204 --> 00:29:09,541 So, I'm gonna just, you know. 759 00:29:09,582 --> 00:29:12,961 - Yeah, I think it's a-a very good, worthy cause. 760 00:29:13,003 --> 00:29:15,296 Um... - Mm-hmm. 761 00:29:15,338 --> 00:29:17,632 I haven't decided what I'm wearing 762 00:29:17,674 --> 00:29:20,468 because I've been so anxiety driven. 763 00:29:20,510 --> 00:29:22,220 - It's kinda what I was sitting here thinking about. 764 00:29:22,262 --> 00:29:25,056 - Mm-hmm. - But I certainly understand. 765 00:29:25,098 --> 00:29:27,517 - Yeah. 766 00:29:27,559 --> 00:29:29,894 I am definitely erring on the side 767 00:29:29,936 --> 00:29:32,647 of I should probably sit this one out. 768 00:29:32,689 --> 00:29:36,026 I know that this is a sensitive topic for me 769 00:29:36,067 --> 00:29:38,069 because of unresolved trauma. 770 00:29:38,111 --> 00:29:39,863 I've hidden behind it for so long. 771 00:29:39,904 --> 00:29:43,241 Like, no one knows that story, and I just, you know, 772 00:29:43,283 --> 00:29:48,913 I'm not prepared to be vocal about this, right now. 773 00:29:48,955 --> 00:29:50,165 I do have my reservations, 774 00:29:50,206 --> 00:29:51,833 but I'm not gonna really dig into-- 775 00:29:51,875 --> 00:29:54,919 dig deep into that. - Yeah. 776 00:29:54,961 --> 00:29:56,671 - Ooh, yes, I'm coming together. 777 00:29:56,713 --> 00:30:05,180 ** 778 00:30:05,221 --> 00:30:07,098 - Hi, Robin. - Hi. How are you? 779 00:30:07,140 --> 00:30:08,433 - I am fantastic. 780 00:30:08,475 --> 00:30:09,768 - Are you ready to for today? Angela is here. 781 00:30:09,809 --> 00:30:12,312 - I'm so-- Angela, here we are, again. 782 00:30:12,354 --> 00:30:15,273 - It's so good to see you. - Great to see you. 783 00:30:16,316 --> 00:30:17,901 - Karen, take a look. - This is beautiful. 784 00:30:17,942 --> 00:30:19,152 - Is it everything you wanted? The menus just got printed out. 785 00:30:19,194 --> 00:30:22,197 - It's everything I wanted. I love the space. 786 00:30:22,238 --> 00:30:25,283 - Hi. Hi, hi, hi. - Gizelle. 787 00:30:25,325 --> 00:30:27,952 - This is nice, Karen. - Thank you. 788 00:30:27,994 --> 00:30:29,662 - How are you? Your hair looks great. 789 00:30:29,704 --> 00:30:30,997 Hi. - Thank you. 790 00:30:31,039 --> 00:30:32,290 Uh, Angela, this is Gizelle. - We've met before. 791 00:30:32,332 --> 00:30:33,625 - Hi. We did. Yes, ma'am. Nice to see you. 792 00:30:33,667 --> 00:30:35,126 - Yeah, six years ago. Good to see you again. 793 00:30:35,168 --> 00:30:36,378 - Thanks so much for being here. 794 00:30:36,419 --> 00:30:37,629 - Hey, Robin, how are you? - Hi. How are you? 795 00:30:37,671 --> 00:30:38,505 Nice to see you. - Haven't seen you in a minute 796 00:30:38,546 --> 00:30:39,839 - Yeah. Um-- - Oh, over here. 797 00:30:39,881 --> 00:30:42,050 - Well, may I take your donation? - Yes, yes. 798 00:30:42,092 --> 00:30:44,302 - And, oh, you-you did it. Thank you. 799 00:30:44,344 --> 00:30:45,762 I feel like it's more than I asked for. 800 00:30:45,804 --> 00:30:47,389 Thank you so much, Gizelle. - Yes, for sure. 801 00:30:47,430 --> 00:30:48,640 - One thing I know about Gizelle, 802 00:30:48,682 --> 00:30:51,184 she will always support me, as-as I will her. 803 00:30:51,226 --> 00:30:52,894 You're gonna have differences as friends. 804 00:30:52,936 --> 00:30:55,814 You're gonna scratch hard, but you don't cut each other 805 00:30:55,855 --> 00:30:56,856 to the bone. 806 00:30:56,898 --> 00:30:58,274 I believe, Gizelle. - Yes, uh-huh. 807 00:30:58,316 --> 00:30:59,943 - And I know we're-we're coming off of Texas. 808 00:30:59,984 --> 00:31:01,528 Let us pray, Father God, 809 00:31:01,569 --> 00:31:02,904 everyone is on their best behavior 810 00:31:02,946 --> 00:31:04,447 because I don't wanna have to kick their ass out. 811 00:31:04,489 --> 00:31:06,241 In Jesus' name, amen. - In the name of Jesus. 812 00:31:06,282 --> 00:31:07,409 - Amen. - Amen. 813 00:31:07,450 --> 00:31:09,035 - Gizelle, what are you doing and why? 814 00:31:09,077 --> 00:31:10,370 - Robyn and I would like to talk to you. 815 00:31:10,412 --> 00:31:11,621 We don't wanna talk to you in front of your guests. 816 00:31:11,663 --> 00:31:12,831 - It's not gonna happen. - We have a situation. 817 00:31:12,872 --> 00:31:14,666 - Security? Security? 818 00:31:14,708 --> 00:31:16,334 - Amen. - You think I'm joking. 819 00:31:16,376 --> 00:31:18,003 - When Karen has an event about PAVE, 820 00:31:18,044 --> 00:31:19,879 she-she take it very seriously. 821 00:31:19,921 --> 00:31:22,215 So, these ladies better get along 822 00:31:22,257 --> 00:31:24,300 because the grande dame is not having it, okay? 823 00:31:24,342 --> 00:31:26,302 She might to have kick some people out, 824 00:31:26,344 --> 00:31:28,388 and she will be doing it real quick and fast. 825 00:31:28,430 --> 00:31:32,976 So, I hope everyone can get along. 826 00:31:33,018 --> 00:31:35,395 - Matt, oh, my gosh. 827 00:31:35,437 --> 00:31:37,605 Muah. All right. Thank you. 828 00:31:37,647 --> 00:31:39,107 Well, you know, you can sit anywhere you want. 829 00:31:39,149 --> 00:31:40,817 Robin and I are here. 830 00:31:41,818 --> 00:31:43,903 Hi, sweetheart. - Hi. You look beautiful. 831 00:31:43,945 --> 00:31:45,572 Love this purple. - Thank you. 832 00:31:45,613 --> 00:31:46,948 Thank you for coming. - How are you? 833 00:31:46,990 --> 00:31:48,158 You're very welcome. - Thank you for your donation. 834 00:31:48,199 --> 00:31:49,200 - Absolutely. 835 00:31:49,242 --> 00:31:51,077 ** 836 00:31:51,119 --> 00:31:53,580 - You look amazing. - Mia! 837 00:31:53,621 --> 00:31:56,541 Good to see you. Aww. - Oh, my God, yes, beautiful. 838 00:31:56,583 --> 00:31:59,878 I love this purple suit. - Oh, girl. Power, right? 839 00:31:59,919 --> 00:32:01,171 - I love. Yes. 840 00:32:01,212 --> 00:32:02,881 How are you, baby? - So, blue, how do you feel? 841 00:32:02,922 --> 00:32:04,591 - Yes. 842 00:32:04,632 --> 00:32:05,717 I feel good. 843 00:32:05,759 --> 00:32:07,969 - Now that we're back from El Texaco. 844 00:32:08,011 --> 00:32:09,512 - Girl, I had to recover. - Yes. 845 00:32:09,554 --> 00:32:11,514 - It took me three days. - Yes. 846 00:32:11,556 --> 00:32:14,309 - Hi. Hi, babes. Hello. - Ashley, hi. 847 00:32:14,351 --> 00:32:15,935 - Hi. Sorry if I'm a little late. 848 00:32:15,977 --> 00:32:17,062 - Hi. - Hi. 849 00:32:17,103 --> 00:32:18,021 Are there assigned seats? - Have a seat. 850 00:32:18,063 --> 00:32:19,189 - Okay. 851 00:32:19,230 --> 00:32:20,398 Where should I put my goodies? 852 00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:21,608 - Right here, darling. - Okay. 853 00:32:21,649 --> 00:32:23,068 - Ashley, thank you so much. - Of course. 854 00:32:23,109 --> 00:32:26,404 ** 855 00:32:26,446 --> 00:32:28,740 - Robyn Dixon is here. 856 00:32:28,782 --> 00:32:29,866 Thank you, Robyn. No, I'm messing with you. 857 00:32:29,908 --> 00:32:32,118 - Hi. Hi. - Thank you for your donation. 858 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:33,661 - Look at you. Love this purple. 859 00:32:33,703 --> 00:32:35,121 - I appreciate it. Thank you. - It's beautiful. 860 00:32:35,163 --> 00:32:36,414 - Thank you. 861 00:32:36,456 --> 00:32:39,918 Grab a seat, Robyn, wherever you would like. 862 00:32:39,959 --> 00:32:41,044 - Hi. - Hi. 863 00:32:41,086 --> 00:32:42,462 I'm just gonna sneak over. - Hi, Nneka. 864 00:32:42,504 --> 00:32:43,588 - Hello, everyone. How we doing? - Karen, you look great. 865 00:32:44,714 --> 00:32:47,509 - Thank you. Thank you for your donation. 866 00:32:47,550 --> 00:32:49,552 - For you, my darling. - Absolutely. 867 00:32:49,594 --> 00:32:51,930 Have a seat, darling. - Hello, beautiful ladies. 868 00:32:51,971 --> 00:32:54,516 Hello. Hi. 869 00:32:54,557 --> 00:32:57,644 - Wendy, thank you, darling. I appreciate you. 870 00:32:57,686 --> 00:32:59,270 - Of course. 871 00:32:59,312 --> 00:33:04,651 ** 872 00:33:04,693 --> 00:33:06,695 - Hi. 873 00:33:06,736 --> 00:33:08,071 Hi. How are you? 874 00:33:08,113 --> 00:33:08,988 Nice to see you. 875 00:33:09,030 --> 00:33:10,490 Hi. Muah. 876 00:33:10,532 --> 00:33:12,784 Are we putting donations down here? 877 00:33:12,826 --> 00:33:15,495 - There is one thing I know about these women. 878 00:33:15,537 --> 00:33:16,996 They're gonna show up. 879 00:33:17,038 --> 00:33:18,289 I knew I could count on them. 880 00:33:18,331 --> 00:33:20,125 So, I'm very proud that everyone has put down 881 00:33:20,166 --> 00:33:23,294 their personal issues for this year's PAVE event, 882 00:33:23,336 --> 00:33:24,587 and that's a beautiful thing. 883 00:33:24,629 --> 00:33:27,298 - Thank you so much. Um... 884 00:33:27,340 --> 00:33:30,218 - Ladies, may I have your attention, please? 885 00:33:30,260 --> 00:33:32,470 I want to thank each and every one of you 886 00:33:32,512 --> 00:33:35,807 for taking time out of your busy day. 887 00:33:35,849 --> 00:33:39,102 Um, many of you know I believe in 888 00:33:39,144 --> 00:33:41,146 empowering women and lifting women, 889 00:33:41,187 --> 00:33:44,149 especially survivors of assault. 890 00:33:44,190 --> 00:33:45,692 So, six years ago, 891 00:33:45,734 --> 00:33:48,445 I was sworn in as Ambassador to PAVE, 892 00:33:48,486 --> 00:33:52,198 alongside President Biden, 893 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,325 lending my voice to shattering the silence 894 00:33:54,367 --> 00:33:56,411 against sexual assault. 895 00:33:56,453 --> 00:33:58,830 Today, I'm lending my voice, again, to PAVE 896 00:33:58,872 --> 00:34:00,248 to sound an alarm. 897 00:34:00,290 --> 00:34:03,001 I am asking you to open your heart. 898 00:34:03,043 --> 00:34:05,003 This is a call to arms. 899 00:34:05,045 --> 00:34:06,046 Triple 20 makes me think, 900 00:34:06,087 --> 00:34:07,672 What type of legacy am I leaving? 901 00:34:07,714 --> 00:34:11,509 And this PAVE event, it's a legacy of empowerment, 902 00:34:11,551 --> 00:34:13,845 and I have a responsibility to do it great 903 00:34:13,887 --> 00:34:15,847 because greatness was done before me. 904 00:34:15,889 --> 00:34:17,182 So, here we are. 905 00:34:17,223 --> 00:34:19,684 Please welcome Angela Rose, the Founder of PAVE. 906 00:34:19,726 --> 00:34:23,438 [cheers and applause] 907 00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:24,814 - Thank you so much, Karen. 908 00:34:24,856 --> 00:34:26,775 And thank you, all of you, for being here. 909 00:34:26,816 --> 00:34:29,194 It just inspires me to be in a room 910 00:34:29,235 --> 00:34:31,613 full of girl bosses and power women. 911 00:34:31,654 --> 00:34:34,616 We are here shattering the silence of sexual assault. 912 00:34:34,657 --> 00:34:37,327 I am gonna introduce our next speaker, Ella Wild. 913 00:34:37,369 --> 00:34:38,578 Come on up, Ella. 914 00:34:38,620 --> 00:34:42,874 [cheers and applause] 915 00:34:42,916 --> 00:34:44,918 - Thank you, Karen, and thank you, Angela, 916 00:34:44,959 --> 00:34:46,878 and thank you, everyone, for being here. 917 00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:48,088 I'm a survivor. 918 00:34:48,129 --> 00:34:51,966 I found music to be, for me, 919 00:34:52,008 --> 00:34:55,053 the best way to process things that happened to me. 920 00:34:55,095 --> 00:34:56,471 So, this is "Favorite Doll." 921 00:34:59,265 --> 00:35:04,979 ** 922 00:35:05,021 --> 00:35:08,775 * My favorite doll is in a well * 923 00:35:11,695 --> 00:35:15,407 * How she got there I can't tell * 924 00:35:15,448 --> 00:35:18,535 * For if I tell I'll go to hell * 925 00:35:18,576 --> 00:35:20,912 * Can someone break this spell * 926 00:35:20,954 --> 00:35:26,126 ** 927 00:35:26,167 --> 00:35:28,753 - I had an experience when I was a teenager. 928 00:35:28,795 --> 00:35:30,755 I was unable to give consent. 929 00:35:30,797 --> 00:35:35,552 At the time, I didn't really realize what-- 930 00:35:35,593 --> 00:35:38,138 the severity of what had happened. 931 00:35:38,179 --> 00:35:41,850 - I didn't even realize that what had happened to me 932 00:35:41,891 --> 00:35:48,773 was what it was until, like, years later. 933 00:35:48,815 --> 00:35:52,777 - I have friends who are victims of sexual assault, 934 00:35:52,819 --> 00:35:55,113 and it's not something that you ever get over. 935 00:35:55,155 --> 00:35:59,409 - To hear that sexual assault is so prevalent, 936 00:35:59,451 --> 00:36:00,702 it's disturbing. 937 00:36:00,744 --> 00:36:03,121 So, I really need to give my kids 938 00:36:03,163 --> 00:36:04,748 all the information possible 939 00:36:04,789 --> 00:36:06,624 to make sure that they're safe. 940 00:36:06,666 --> 00:36:08,668 - It's very triggering for me 941 00:36:08,710 --> 00:36:11,421 because of my own experiences that I had 942 00:36:11,463 --> 00:36:12,881 at the hands of a family member, 943 00:36:12,922 --> 00:36:16,343 and the saddest thing is to know that it's happening now. 944 00:36:16,384 --> 00:36:18,011 It's so prevalent. 945 00:36:18,053 --> 00:36:19,846 It is heartbreaking. 946 00:36:19,888 --> 00:36:22,390 - At the end of the day, we have a lot in common. 947 00:36:22,432 --> 00:36:25,935 It does not surprise me that in this very, very room, 948 00:36:25,977 --> 00:36:27,979 we have women who have been sexually assaulted, 949 00:36:28,021 --> 00:36:29,731 and thank God they feel safe enough 950 00:36:29,773 --> 00:36:31,483 to share their truth. 951 00:36:31,524 --> 00:36:33,818 * Then a light * 952 00:36:33,860 --> 00:36:36,571 * Flashed deep inside * 953 00:36:36,613 --> 00:36:39,616 * Revealing pain * 954 00:36:39,657 --> 00:36:41,701 * That I denied * 955 00:36:43,620 --> 00:36:49,125 * 100 days ago an angel pried * 956 00:36:49,167 --> 00:36:53,838 * Apart a wound that I had tried to hide * 957 00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:55,924 ** 958 00:36:55,965 --> 00:36:58,885 [deep breathing] 959 00:37:12,691 --> 00:37:18,571 * 100 days ago an angel pried * 960 00:37:18,613 --> 00:37:23,159 * Apart a wound that I had tried to hide * 961 00:37:23,201 --> 00:37:28,415 * I closed my eyes the heavens cried * 962 00:37:28,456 --> 00:37:31,334 [deep breathing] 963 00:37:36,923 --> 00:37:38,550 - Oh, Mia, you can do it. You can do it. 964 00:37:38,591 --> 00:37:40,844 You got this. You got this. 965 00:37:40,885 --> 00:37:45,181 * My favorite doll is in a well * 966 00:37:48,059 --> 00:37:51,771 - Mia? - I'm okay. I'm okay. 967 00:37:51,813 --> 00:37:54,107 - Oh, are you sure? - Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm done. 968 00:37:54,149 --> 00:37:56,776 - All right. - Let me just-- I'm fine. 969 00:37:56,818 --> 00:37:59,738 I stopped-- I just needed a second. 970 00:37:59,779 --> 00:38:01,322 - I'm sorry, babe. 971 00:38:09,497 --> 00:38:12,042 - Yeah. It's something that I-I battle with a lot. 972 00:38:13,668 --> 00:38:15,503 - Really? - Yes, yeah. 973 00:38:15,545 --> 00:38:17,672 This-this whole, what we're doing, 974 00:38:17,714 --> 00:38:18,923 is triggering. 975 00:38:18,965 --> 00:38:21,301 It's my coping mechanism to get the (BLEEP) out 976 00:38:21,343 --> 00:38:22,469 when sh-- is uncomfortable. 977 00:38:22,510 --> 00:38:23,803 You know what I mean? - Yes, yes. 978 00:38:23,845 --> 00:38:26,014 - And unfortunately, that day, 979 00:38:26,056 --> 00:38:28,058 I couldn't get out, you know? - Oh, yeah. 980 00:38:28,099 --> 00:38:30,060 - And it's just like, Mia, why didn't you just leave? 981 00:38:30,101 --> 00:38:31,102 - I know. - Why didn't you just-- 982 00:38:31,144 --> 00:38:34,356 like just why did you put yourself 983 00:38:34,397 --> 00:38:36,775 in that situation? Like, why? 984 00:38:36,816 --> 00:38:39,027 And you know what's ----ed up, 985 00:38:39,069 --> 00:38:41,613 is that I know this is why I take sh-- out on Jacqueline, 986 00:38:41,654 --> 00:38:43,198 because she left me there. 987 00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,992 - Jacqueline left you there when it happened? 988 00:38:46,034 --> 00:38:48,661 - And I know I'm a-- I'm a ----ed up friend to her 989 00:38:48,703 --> 00:38:52,082 because of it, and it's not fair to her. 990 00:38:52,123 --> 00:38:54,292 She didn't know that was gonna happen to me. 991 00:38:54,334 --> 00:38:58,505 She trusted her boyfriend to-- and she trusted him. 992 00:38:58,546 --> 00:38:59,798 You know, I get it. - Mm-hmm. 993 00:38:59,839 --> 00:39:01,716 - And when she came back the next day, 994 00:39:01,758 --> 00:39:03,093 she was so scared. 995 00:39:03,134 --> 00:39:06,971 She's like, "Mia, what happened to you?" 996 00:39:07,013 --> 00:39:09,140 Because Jacqueline did leave me that night 997 00:39:09,182 --> 00:39:11,101 and because of the sequence of events 998 00:39:11,142 --> 00:39:13,019 that happened after she left, 999 00:39:13,061 --> 00:39:16,523 I think over the years I've wanted to forgive her. 1000 00:39:16,564 --> 00:39:19,984 Jacqueline and I have been friends since we were 15. 1001 00:39:20,026 --> 00:39:23,571 When I look back, I probably have always been 1002 00:39:23,613 --> 00:39:27,742 a little meaner to her because of it. 1003 00:39:27,784 --> 00:39:29,869 - We're working through it, and it's a process. 1004 00:39:29,911 --> 00:39:31,413 Having a conversation another day 1005 00:39:31,454 --> 00:39:32,706 because right now-- - Well, then shut up. 1006 00:39:32,747 --> 00:39:33,790 - We can't do it. I need to move. 1007 00:39:33,832 --> 00:39:34,874 I'm sorry. - I've had my share 1008 00:39:34,916 --> 00:39:35,667 of difficult times-- - I can't sit 1009 00:39:35,709 --> 00:39:36,710 next to this bitch. 1010 00:39:36,751 --> 00:39:38,253 - And that doesn't make it right. 1011 00:39:38,294 --> 00:39:40,922 It's just an emotional thing that I think a lot of people do. 1012 00:39:40,964 --> 00:39:43,967 We don't even realize it until we look back and see it. 1013 00:39:44,009 --> 00:39:45,593 - Well, thank you for sharing that with me. 1014 00:39:45,635 --> 00:39:48,054 - Girl, of course. We're gonna be okay. 1015 00:39:48,096 --> 00:39:54,102 * My favorite doll * 1016 00:39:54,144 --> 00:39:59,941 [applause] 1017 00:39:59,983 --> 00:40:01,401 Thank you. - Thank you, baby. 1018 00:40:01,443 --> 00:40:02,986 - Thank you. - Wow. 1019 00:40:03,028 --> 00:40:04,446 - Thank you so much. [muffled voice] 1020 00:40:04,487 --> 00:40:06,239 - That was beautiful. - That was amazing. 1021 00:40:06,281 --> 00:40:07,574 - Thank you. 1022 00:40:07,615 --> 00:40:10,910 - Um, it's a very powerful luncheon 1023 00:40:10,952 --> 00:40:13,079 because I'm with very powerful women. 1024 00:40:13,121 --> 00:40:15,206 It is a call to arms. 1025 00:40:15,248 --> 00:40:21,212 Um, it is a moment that I know you all feel. 1026 00:40:21,254 --> 00:40:24,758 ** And on that note, we're gonna have some sweets 1027 00:40:24,799 --> 00:40:27,135 and wrap our day up. 1028 00:40:27,177 --> 00:40:28,803 But if you don't mind coming forward, 1029 00:40:28,845 --> 00:40:31,848 and let's try and gather around the PAVE sign, 1030 00:40:31,890 --> 00:40:33,641 so we can get a group picture of this event. 1031 00:40:33,683 --> 00:40:35,101 I would really appreciate it. 1032 00:40:35,143 --> 00:40:36,603 Thank you. 1033 00:40:36,644 --> 00:40:38,772 Come on, ladies. 1034 00:40:38,813 --> 00:40:40,398 - What happened to you? What happened? 1035 00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:42,609 - No, I'm fine. I just had a-- I needed a moment. 1036 00:40:42,650 --> 00:40:43,777 I needed a second. - Yes, okay. 1037 00:40:43,818 --> 00:40:44,736 - Yes, to get away. - Oh, yes. 1038 00:40:44,778 --> 00:40:46,196 - She did what? - Just needed, 1039 00:40:46,237 --> 00:40:48,198 you know, to get away. - Yeah. 1040 00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:49,282 - Thank you. 1041 00:40:49,324 --> 00:40:50,325 - Can I talk to you-- - Yes, ma'am. 1042 00:40:50,367 --> 00:40:51,451 - For a second? - Yeah, of course. 1043 00:40:51,493 --> 00:40:53,953 - Um, so, Grace is leaving in a month-- 1044 00:40:53,995 --> 00:40:55,288 - Okay. - To go to college. 1045 00:40:55,330 --> 00:40:56,998 So, what could be, like, things 1046 00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:58,458 that she needs to look out for? 1047 00:40:58,500 --> 00:41:00,168 Should she even walk to class by herself? 1048 00:41:00,210 --> 00:41:01,586 - Isn't that-- isn't that terrible 1049 00:41:01,628 --> 00:41:03,296 that we even have to think about these things, right? 1050 00:41:03,338 --> 00:41:04,214 - Yeah. 1051 00:41:04,255 --> 00:41:05,090 - But I-I don't want people 1052 00:41:05,131 --> 00:41:06,424 to live their lives in fear. 1053 00:41:06,466 --> 00:41:08,301 We are given a God-given gut instinct for a reason, 1054 00:41:08,343 --> 00:41:11,596 but women are taught to, like, be people pleasers 1055 00:41:11,638 --> 00:41:12,722 and things like that. 1056 00:41:12,764 --> 00:41:14,307 So, telling her to honor that feeling, 1057 00:41:14,349 --> 00:41:16,226 that if she feels something is wrong... 1058 00:41:16,267 --> 00:41:18,937 - Okay. - ...to listen to that and honor it. 1059 00:41:18,978 --> 00:41:21,064 - It's heavy. It's intense, 1060 00:41:21,106 --> 00:41:23,525 but it's conversations that need to happen. 1061 00:41:23,566 --> 00:41:24,901 - Can I give you a hug? - But thank you. I appreciate you. 1062 00:41:24,943 --> 00:41:26,319 - Thank you for your support so much. 1063 00:41:26,361 --> 00:41:27,487 - Absolutely. - And I'm here for you, 1064 00:41:27,529 --> 00:41:28,405 definitely. - Thank you. 1065 00:41:28,446 --> 00:41:29,989 You know, I have three girls. 1066 00:41:30,031 --> 00:41:33,827 I don't-I don't want them to be another statistic. 1067 00:41:33,868 --> 00:41:35,829 - Okay, everybody. 1068 00:41:35,870 --> 00:41:37,455 - Kudos to the grande dame. 1069 00:41:37,497 --> 00:41:38,623 This is actually something 1070 00:41:38,665 --> 00:41:41,042 that she has stood behind and championed, 1071 00:41:41,084 --> 00:41:45,880 and it's great that I have all of this information. 1072 00:41:45,922 --> 00:41:47,340 [laughing] - Yes, Matt. 1073 00:41:47,382 --> 00:41:49,843 - Yeah. - Get the angle. - Yes. 1074 00:41:49,884 --> 00:41:52,095 The PAVE event was very successful. 1075 00:41:52,137 --> 00:41:54,681 In fact, much more successful than I thought it would be 1076 00:41:54,723 --> 00:41:58,184 because I was able to provide a safe place for my friends. 1077 00:41:58,226 --> 00:42:00,311 And then to sound the horn and the alarm, 1078 00:42:00,353 --> 00:42:03,523 that was very important. So, this was a huge success. 1079 00:42:03,565 --> 00:42:04,691 Thank you, ladies. 1080 00:42:04,733 --> 00:42:06,651 [cheers and applause] 1081 00:42:06,693 --> 00:42:08,403 - High five. 1082 00:42:12,699 --> 00:42:15,577 - Next time, on "The Real Housewives of Potomac." 1083 00:42:15,618 --> 00:42:16,870 - Did you want to visit? 1084 00:42:16,911 --> 00:42:18,246 - The tea is, probably not really. 1085 00:42:18,288 --> 00:42:20,123 [gasps] Let me tell you. 1086 00:42:20,165 --> 00:42:22,375 I was sobbing, snorting, crying, all of it, 1087 00:42:22,417 --> 00:42:24,544 and then I got there, and it just-- 1088 00:42:24,586 --> 00:42:25,545 you're your own person. 1089 00:42:25,587 --> 00:42:26,880 - I saw Jacqueline the other day. 1090 00:42:26,921 --> 00:42:28,173 - Did you? How is she doing? - I did. 1091 00:42:28,214 --> 00:42:30,133 She actually cried. - Oh, God. 1092 00:42:30,175 --> 00:42:32,344 - I think that you knew 1093 00:42:32,385 --> 00:42:34,262 what Gizelle was planning to do. 1094 00:42:34,304 --> 00:42:35,347 - No. 1095 00:42:35,388 --> 00:42:36,389 - Birds of a feather flock together. 1096 00:42:36,431 --> 00:42:38,058 - If that's what you really feel, 1097 00:42:38,099 --> 00:42:39,768 then I don't even know why we're sitting here. 1098 00:42:39,809 --> 00:42:41,353 **