1 00:00:03,236 --> 00:00:07,339 So maureen, tee tee and pep have a sit-down. 2 00:00:07,341 --> 00:00:09,241 [scoffs] baby. 3 00:00:09,243 --> 00:00:10,976 You have to have a talk with egypt. 4 00:00:10,978 --> 00:00:13,112 She can't have a talk with egypt because she -- 5 00:00:13,114 --> 00:00:14,580 I will. She won't. 6 00:00:14,582 --> 00:00:16,415 She won't. 7 00:00:16,417 --> 00:00:17,783 Surprise, surprise. 8 00:00:17,785 --> 00:00:20,753 I pulled up unannounced to mama's birthday. 9 00:00:20,755 --> 00:00:23,856 Eh, well, me and pep hashed things out, so it's cute. 10 00:00:23,858 --> 00:00:26,925 I don't even understand how me and sam had any drama. 11 00:00:26,927 --> 00:00:29,595 I'm there for egypt. I'm not there for him. 12 00:00:29,597 --> 00:00:31,864 Things between tee tee and egypt, 13 00:00:31,866 --> 00:00:34,400 however, hmm, not so cute. 14 00:00:34,402 --> 00:00:37,636 Hi, egypt. Hi, chris. 15 00:00:37,638 --> 00:00:39,738 Savannah is out here repping her brand good vibes, 16 00:00:39,740 --> 00:00:41,940 but not really repping it properly. 17 00:00:41,942 --> 00:00:43,475 What's going on, bitch? 18 00:00:43,477 --> 00:00:45,310 Did you catch a deuce in your (bleep) mouth, bitch? 19 00:00:45,312 --> 00:00:46,378 (bleep) 20 00:00:46,380 --> 00:00:49,481 -look out, bitch! -Bitch! 21 00:00:49,483 --> 00:00:50,983 I don't want you fighting. 22 00:00:50,985 --> 00:00:53,485 I don't fight. Whatever happens, happens. 23 00:00:53,487 --> 00:00:54,887 Oh, my god, y'all. 24 00:00:54,889 --> 00:00:57,423 Egypt and sam are still going, 25 00:00:57,425 --> 00:00:59,558 and they're still trying to get married. 26 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:01,193 My heart has just been growing for you, 27 00:01:01,195 --> 00:01:04,897 and I just have this urge to not want to leave your side. 28 00:01:04,899 --> 00:01:07,032 Sam: The feeling is definitely mutual. 29 00:01:07,034 --> 00:01:09,301 Sam is facing charges on this river of life 30 00:01:09,303 --> 00:01:12,504 that could completely overturn his canoe. 31 00:01:12,506 --> 00:01:16,241 Luckily, layzie wants to help him navigate those waters. 32 00:01:16,243 --> 00:01:18,877 So now, you got yourself in some trouble. 33 00:01:18,879 --> 00:01:21,680 Yes, sir. Time to clean that (bleep) up. 34 00:01:21,682 --> 00:01:24,583 The cast is going through a lot right now. 35 00:01:24,585 --> 00:01:27,786 Whew, big life changes ahead for everybody. 36 00:01:27,788 --> 00:01:37,563 ♪ 37 00:01:37,565 --> 00:01:39,231 so we really about to go find out 38 00:01:39,233 --> 00:01:40,799 about getting eggs freeze -- froze. 39 00:01:40,801 --> 00:01:43,168 I want to know how many eggs I actually have. 40 00:01:43,170 --> 00:01:45,771 Froze, freeze. I mean, I would like to know, 41 00:01:45,773 --> 00:01:48,207 but I don't want to, like, stress myself out. 42 00:01:48,209 --> 00:01:49,775 I don't know. It's just a lot... 43 00:01:49,777 --> 00:01:51,076 No, I want to know, how many eggs? 44 00:01:51,078 --> 00:01:53,011 ...Being a woman. What do I have? 45 00:01:53,013 --> 00:01:55,981 I don't know. Can they really tell you? 46 00:01:55,983 --> 00:01:57,716 We get more every month, don't we? 47 00:01:57,718 --> 00:01:58,951 That's why we have a period. 48 00:01:58,953 --> 00:02:00,752 No, no, no, they eventually go away. 49 00:02:00,754 --> 00:02:03,088 Is this the car? Hi. 50 00:02:03,090 --> 00:02:04,256 Why so dirty? 51 00:02:04,258 --> 00:02:07,359 I don't know. They need a car wash. 52 00:02:07,361 --> 00:02:10,162 Y'all do, oof. 53 00:02:10,164 --> 00:02:12,030 What are the chances of me really having a kid right now? 54 00:02:12,032 --> 00:02:15,400 So I'm, like, maybe I should put my eggs to the side and wait, 55 00:02:15,402 --> 00:02:17,703 just in case I don't wind up having them. 56 00:02:17,705 --> 00:02:19,004 Like, I'm just thinking about 57 00:02:19,006 --> 00:02:21,006 all of the outcomes and possibilities. 58 00:02:21,008 --> 00:02:22,975 Sj did ask me for a sibling, 59 00:02:22,977 --> 00:02:24,510 and I'm like, "dude, what are -- where --" 60 00:02:24,512 --> 00:02:27,446 I was like, "where do you want to me get the child from?" 61 00:02:29,817 --> 00:02:32,184 I'm like, "I'm not in a relationship, sj." 62 00:02:34,989 --> 00:02:36,522 he's like, "oh, okay, right. 63 00:02:36,524 --> 00:02:38,423 So we get married, and then we have a kid?" 64 00:02:38,425 --> 00:02:42,294 I'm like, "yeah, but I need the person to marry." 65 00:02:42,296 --> 00:02:44,897 so I was like, "I don't -- I don't know." 66 00:02:44,899 --> 00:02:46,398 so there's nobody on the radar? 67 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:49,101 No, the pickings are different out here. 68 00:02:49,103 --> 00:02:50,702 They are, and you in atlanta. 69 00:02:50,704 --> 00:02:53,405 I absolutely, wholeheartedly believe 70 00:02:53,407 --> 00:02:55,707 that angela will find mr. Right. 71 00:02:55,709 --> 00:02:57,576 It's all about the right timing, 72 00:02:57,578 --> 00:03:00,179 and I think that she just needs to relieve that pressure 73 00:03:00,181 --> 00:03:02,147 and that stress just a little bit. 74 00:03:02,149 --> 00:03:05,951 And if freezing her eggs helps, I am all for it. 75 00:03:05,953 --> 00:03:08,187 Are you actually putting yourself out there, though? 76 00:03:08,189 --> 00:03:09,588 Well, how much further can I put myself? 77 00:03:09,590 --> 00:03:10,956 I don't know. I'm not around you every day. 78 00:03:10,958 --> 00:03:12,391 I'm out there. I go out. I be around folks. 79 00:03:12,393 --> 00:03:13,959 I don't really go out like that, honestly. 80 00:03:13,961 --> 00:03:15,227 Well, it's not about being out. 81 00:03:15,229 --> 00:03:16,528 It's about being in the right spot 82 00:03:16,530 --> 00:03:17,930 and then also actually opening up. 83 00:03:17,932 --> 00:03:19,231 Like, you know, sometimes you can be, 84 00:03:19,233 --> 00:03:20,832 like, closed off, you know. 85 00:03:20,834 --> 00:03:24,503 If I don't like the person, it's, "peace, buenas noches." 86 00:03:24,505 --> 00:03:26,171 come on, now, with this stuff. 87 00:03:26,173 --> 00:03:27,706 When do I even have time? 88 00:03:27,708 --> 00:03:30,275 Mommy said she tried to hook you up with someone very nice. 89 00:03:30,277 --> 00:03:32,144 Oh, okay. She said -- 90 00:03:32,146 --> 00:03:33,745 she said he was the head 91 00:03:33,747 --> 00:03:35,380 of some big organization, you know. 92 00:03:35,382 --> 00:03:36,715 He was not. He was not. He was not. 93 00:03:36,717 --> 00:03:38,083 She was lying, or she didn't know? 94 00:03:38,085 --> 00:03:39,284 She didn't understand him. 95 00:03:39,286 --> 00:03:41,620 Mommy said he was a nice man. 96 00:03:41,622 --> 00:03:42,888 Mommy... 97 00:03:42,890 --> 00:03:44,957 Them people do not understand me 98 00:03:44,959 --> 00:03:47,092 or my life or any of it. Them people? 99 00:03:47,094 --> 00:03:48,560 Don't let me get mommy on the phone 100 00:03:48,562 --> 00:03:50,095 and say that you called them, them people. 101 00:03:50,097 --> 00:03:52,164 Not them, who she wants to put me with, them, 102 00:03:52,166 --> 00:03:53,365 them people are the people 103 00:03:53,367 --> 00:03:54,933 she's trying to put me on dates with. 104 00:03:54,935 --> 00:03:56,468 If I'm going to be with someone, 105 00:03:56,470 --> 00:03:59,037 they have to really just, like, make sense for my life, 106 00:03:59,039 --> 00:04:00,405 and I have to make sense for theirs. 107 00:04:00,407 --> 00:04:01,807 I want someone great, 108 00:04:01,809 --> 00:04:04,142 and I don't plan on settling for anything less. 109 00:04:04,144 --> 00:04:06,044 My son doesn't deserve someone less than that, 110 00:04:06,046 --> 00:04:07,212 and neither do I. 111 00:04:07,214 --> 00:04:09,047 I don't know, man. This is crazy. 112 00:04:09,049 --> 00:04:11,817 I still feel like young at heart, so, like, 113 00:04:11,819 --> 00:04:13,518 when we're going to do something like this, 114 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:14,753 it's just like... 115 00:04:14,755 --> 00:04:16,722 Yeah, we young, but we not. It's crazy. 116 00:04:16,724 --> 00:04:19,191 I used to think someone 34 was old, 117 00:04:19,193 --> 00:04:20,559 when I was young, oof. 118 00:04:20,561 --> 00:04:22,594 You gonna say that, you just hurt my heart. 119 00:04:22,596 --> 00:04:24,696 "when I was young," you don't remember being young? 120 00:04:24,698 --> 00:04:28,166 My age, the age I am, I definitely thought was old. 121 00:04:28,168 --> 00:04:30,068 Are we considered midlife? 122 00:04:30,070 --> 00:04:31,870 No, you're midlife. 35? 123 00:04:31,872 --> 00:04:34,106 That's not mid. 124 00:04:34,108 --> 00:04:35,173 50. 125 00:04:35,175 --> 00:04:36,441 That's not mid. 126 00:04:36,443 --> 00:04:39,044 Yes, it is, 50 out of 100. 127 00:04:39,046 --> 00:04:40,212 Ain't no telling. 128 00:04:40,214 --> 00:04:41,647 Yeah, I don't want to be messed up 129 00:04:41,649 --> 00:04:43,882 because I'm not dating and I can't have no kids. 130 00:04:43,884 --> 00:04:46,585 What if I'm 58 and want another kid? 131 00:04:46,587 --> 00:04:48,420 Why would you want to be a 60-year-old mother? 132 00:04:48,422 --> 00:04:49,755 Why not? 133 00:04:49,757 --> 00:04:51,023 You're saying you're gonna take 15 more years 134 00:04:51,025 --> 00:04:52,391 to get into a relationship? 135 00:04:52,393 --> 00:04:56,228 The way that these men are acting, I don't know. 136 00:04:56,230 --> 00:04:57,729 So I don't know. 137 00:04:57,731 --> 00:05:00,165 I know that this is, like, strictly appointment only. 138 00:05:00,167 --> 00:05:02,000 I looked up the doctor you're going to. 139 00:05:02,002 --> 00:05:03,468 Wait, so you're not going up with me, though? 140 00:05:03,470 --> 00:05:04,703 I'm not sure I'm allowed in. 141 00:05:04,705 --> 00:05:07,406 Like, that's how exclusive it is. 142 00:05:07,408 --> 00:05:08,740 What? 143 00:05:08,742 --> 00:05:10,142 So I'm gonna wait down here. 144 00:05:10,144 --> 00:05:11,476 You are not waiting in the car. 145 00:05:11,478 --> 00:05:12,844 I'm coming for support. 146 00:05:12,846 --> 00:05:14,646 So you don't plan on being upstairs with me? 147 00:05:14,648 --> 00:05:16,081 I can't. Why? 148 00:05:16,083 --> 00:05:18,383 Because it's a very exclusive doctor. 149 00:05:18,385 --> 00:05:19,751 Are you about to find out 150 00:05:19,753 --> 00:05:21,086 how many eggs you actually have? 151 00:05:21,088 --> 00:05:22,454 I don't know nothing. I'm just gonna find out, 152 00:05:22,456 --> 00:05:24,089 but I'll be right back, hopefully. 153 00:05:24,091 --> 00:05:25,757 Come back with good notes. You know how you do. 154 00:05:25,759 --> 00:05:27,759 You come back. You be like, "I don't know what he said." 155 00:05:27,761 --> 00:05:30,262 I hope I remember. Good luck. See what I mean? 156 00:05:30,264 --> 00:05:39,705 ♪ 157 00:05:39,707 --> 00:05:41,106 [door opens] 158 00:05:41,108 --> 00:05:42,541 what up? What up? What's going on? 159 00:05:42,543 --> 00:05:46,178 Got the ambiance going on. 160 00:05:48,315 --> 00:05:50,148 Man, I got... I'm in here big chilling. 161 00:05:50,150 --> 00:05:51,416 You know the drill, man. 162 00:05:51,418 --> 00:05:53,118 Chilling. So what you got going on? 163 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:54,619 I've been writing for egypt. 164 00:05:54,621 --> 00:05:56,655 You know, I've helped her mom with stuff. 165 00:05:56,657 --> 00:05:59,257 It's like I'm the pen behind it, and at this point, 166 00:05:59,259 --> 00:06:01,460 I'm like, "I want people to hear what I got." 167 00:06:01,462 --> 00:06:02,661 you know what I'm saying? 168 00:06:02,663 --> 00:06:04,096 Because I know I belong out there. 169 00:06:04,098 --> 00:06:06,465 I don't want to keep sitting years in the studio 170 00:06:06,467 --> 00:06:09,201 watching everybody get the crowd that belong to me. 171 00:06:09,203 --> 00:06:10,969 Well, that mean you just not a writer. 172 00:06:10,971 --> 00:06:12,871 You an artist. I love it. 173 00:06:12,873 --> 00:06:15,140 That stage, that's your own world. 174 00:06:15,142 --> 00:06:17,109 Let your music speak for you... 175 00:06:17,111 --> 00:06:18,377 Yes, sir. ...Not your actions. 176 00:06:18,379 --> 00:06:21,313 The trouble you got yourself into... 177 00:06:21,315 --> 00:06:22,581 Yup, it's true. 178 00:06:22,583 --> 00:06:24,783 ...You got to clean it all the way up. 179 00:06:24,785 --> 00:06:27,452 That's really my concern. 180 00:06:27,454 --> 00:06:28,920 What's going on with you, man? 181 00:06:28,922 --> 00:06:31,623 I know four felonies ain't no punk. 182 00:06:31,625 --> 00:06:33,325 I'm not sweating, man, 183 00:06:33,327 --> 00:06:36,361 'cause god knows what I did that day, 184 00:06:36,363 --> 00:06:38,630 and I know what I did that day. 185 00:06:38,632 --> 00:06:41,366 And I believe our justice system is smart enough 186 00:06:41,368 --> 00:06:42,868 to figure out what happened. 187 00:06:42,870 --> 00:06:45,704 Sam's attitude towards his arrest 188 00:06:45,706 --> 00:06:47,072 need a little adjustment. 189 00:06:47,074 --> 00:06:49,674 I really think he need to sit down and meditate 190 00:06:49,676 --> 00:06:53,945 on the detriment of what it is to be behind them bars. 191 00:06:53,947 --> 00:06:56,448 It's a serious, serious situation, 192 00:06:56,450 --> 00:06:58,850 and I just pray he's taking it that way. 193 00:06:58,852 --> 00:07:00,085 Egypt: Hey, hey, hey. 194 00:07:00,087 --> 00:07:01,486 What up? What up? What up? Hey, hey, hey. 195 00:07:01,488 --> 00:07:03,455 I was just finna ask about you. 196 00:07:05,426 --> 00:07:07,058 What's up, baby girl? How you doing? 197 00:07:07,060 --> 00:07:09,361 Alright. You can land right here, ya know. 198 00:07:09,363 --> 00:07:11,396 Right there is good. Can land there. Let me get you a chair. 199 00:07:12,766 --> 00:07:14,566 Sam: I got court approaching right now, 200 00:07:14,568 --> 00:07:18,036 and the best thing I can do is do what I can to support egypt 201 00:07:18,038 --> 00:07:19,805 in whatever ways possible. 202 00:07:19,807 --> 00:07:22,441 Honestly, I've been doing a lot of recording and writing, 203 00:07:22,443 --> 00:07:25,410 you know, just in case I do end up going to jail. 204 00:07:25,412 --> 00:07:28,480 But for the most part, I've been taking more time to teach egypt 205 00:07:28,482 --> 00:07:32,017 how to do it herself, so I think she should be alright. 206 00:07:32,019 --> 00:07:34,152 So you been working on something? 207 00:07:34,154 --> 00:07:36,321 Definitely been working, definitely been working. 208 00:07:36,323 --> 00:07:38,824 What about this guy right here? You worried? 209 00:07:38,826 --> 00:07:40,859 I'm worried, yeah. I'm so worried. 210 00:07:40,861 --> 00:07:43,495 Well, a family that pray together, stay together. 211 00:07:43,497 --> 00:07:45,297 Exactly. Keep him in the mix. 212 00:07:45,299 --> 00:07:47,432 You all keep doing what y'all doing. 213 00:07:47,434 --> 00:07:48,700 Yes, sir. Yes. 214 00:07:48,702 --> 00:07:50,268 I'll be here for you, man. I'm in there. 215 00:07:50,270 --> 00:07:51,336 Thank you. Yes, sir. 216 00:07:51,338 --> 00:07:52,637 I'm gonna be praying for you, too. 217 00:07:52,639 --> 00:07:53,839 Thank you. Both of y'all, I love y'all. 218 00:07:53,841 --> 00:07:54,906 Alright? Yeah, you too. 219 00:07:54,908 --> 00:07:56,775 -Alright. -What's up? 220 00:07:56,777 --> 00:08:00,111 Just been, you know, trying to not worry so much 221 00:08:00,113 --> 00:08:03,482 because when layzie asked me if I was worried, 222 00:08:03,484 --> 00:08:06,651 I had to be honest and... 'cause I am really worried. 223 00:08:06,653 --> 00:08:09,955 I definitely don't want to lose you. 224 00:08:09,957 --> 00:08:13,291 But, you know, if anything does go worse to worst, 225 00:08:13,293 --> 00:08:15,393 I'm gonna let you know that, you know, we -- 226 00:08:15,395 --> 00:08:18,597 we aren't a thing anymore. 227 00:08:18,599 --> 00:08:20,532 You can live your life and... Mnh-mnh. 228 00:08:20,534 --> 00:08:22,334 ...See who you got to see, do what you got to do, 229 00:08:22,336 --> 00:08:25,103 but I'm not gonna stop you from continuing forward. 230 00:08:25,105 --> 00:08:26,404 Stop. 231 00:08:26,406 --> 00:08:27,672 I'm telling you. You ain't telling me nothing. 232 00:08:27,674 --> 00:08:29,174 You don't got to tell me nothing 233 00:08:29,176 --> 00:08:31,743 because I'm still gonna be living my life. 234 00:08:31,745 --> 00:08:34,880 I had a life before we met. I know you did. 235 00:08:34,882 --> 00:08:37,516 Yeah, so I'm still gonna keep going. 236 00:08:37,518 --> 00:08:40,185 You need to focus on finishing your album. 237 00:08:40,187 --> 00:08:42,988 You need to focus on getting your music videos out. 238 00:08:42,990 --> 00:08:44,389 Don't worry about me. 239 00:08:44,391 --> 00:08:46,992 I will always worry about you because I love you. 240 00:08:46,994 --> 00:08:49,394 But you don't have to. And that won't change, so... 241 00:08:49,396 --> 00:08:51,997 You don't have to. I'm alright. 242 00:08:51,999 --> 00:08:53,298 I'm going to wait for you. 243 00:08:53,300 --> 00:08:54,699 We all say that 244 00:08:54,701 --> 00:08:57,536 till we're a couple years in to no sex, no attention. 245 00:08:57,538 --> 00:08:59,371 That does not matter. No booty rubs. 246 00:08:59,373 --> 00:09:01,573 Does not matter. Does not matter. 247 00:09:01,575 --> 00:09:02,741 Okay. 248 00:09:02,743 --> 00:09:05,510 I just pray that not to happen. 249 00:09:05,512 --> 00:09:06,611 Yeah. I love you. 250 00:09:06,613 --> 00:09:08,146 Love you more. I truly love you. 251 00:09:08,148 --> 00:09:09,915 But loving somebody, that's the thing. 252 00:09:09,917 --> 00:09:11,383 You want what's best for them 253 00:09:11,385 --> 00:09:14,185 even if it ain't with you is what's loving people. 254 00:09:14,187 --> 00:09:19,624 ♪ 255 00:09:19,626 --> 00:09:20,959 yeah, I'll let you go, 256 00:09:20,961 --> 00:09:23,562 but I'm still gonna be right there, still waiting. 257 00:09:23,564 --> 00:09:25,597 Egypt: The realities that I'm facing 258 00:09:25,599 --> 00:09:27,165 if sam goes away is just, 259 00:09:27,167 --> 00:09:28,700 I don't want to envision it at all, honestly, like... 260 00:09:28,702 --> 00:09:30,035 Let me translate. 261 00:09:30,037 --> 00:09:31,970 Yeah, you can translate for me. Go ahead. 262 00:09:31,972 --> 00:09:33,171 She's gonna have to cook her own food. 263 00:09:33,173 --> 00:09:34,773 Oh, my god. 264 00:09:34,775 --> 00:09:36,608 Yes, the food, the cooking, he does cook really good. 265 00:09:36,610 --> 00:09:38,376 I'll just be dealing with you not being there 266 00:09:38,378 --> 00:09:40,378 by my side every day and that will break my heart. 267 00:09:40,380 --> 00:09:42,380 I love you, 268 00:09:42,382 --> 00:09:44,783 and we're gonna make it work, okay? 269 00:09:44,785 --> 00:09:46,117 Love you, too. 270 00:09:50,324 --> 00:09:53,525 Trying to mince my words to make sure I don't hurt you. 271 00:09:53,527 --> 00:09:54,826 I am a grown woman, 272 00:09:54,828 --> 00:09:57,028 and I can take whatever you have to say. 273 00:09:57,030 --> 00:10:00,532 We are not on the same page as my mom, and as a mom, 274 00:10:00,534 --> 00:10:04,135 I felt like she put work before the family. 275 00:10:04,137 --> 00:10:05,470 Are you proposing to me? 276 00:10:12,479 --> 00:10:14,245 -Hi, angela. -Hello. 277 00:10:14,247 --> 00:10:15,580 How are you? How are you? 278 00:10:15,582 --> 00:10:16,748 It's so nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. 279 00:10:16,750 --> 00:10:17,949 How are you today? 280 00:10:17,951 --> 00:10:20,051 So how's -- how's everything going? 281 00:10:20,053 --> 00:10:23,622 I was curious as to what the process was 282 00:10:23,624 --> 00:10:26,024 for freezing my eggs because I'm not in a relationship. 283 00:10:26,026 --> 00:10:29,961 I mean, I'm 34, but I kind of want to see where I was, 284 00:10:29,963 --> 00:10:31,563 if you think I need to. 285 00:10:31,565 --> 00:10:32,897 Yeah, sure. 286 00:10:32,899 --> 00:10:34,232 I think, you know, it's such a beautiful thing, 287 00:10:34,234 --> 00:10:36,801 but time isn't on our side. 288 00:10:36,803 --> 00:10:39,537 We wonder the quantity of eggs 289 00:10:39,539 --> 00:10:41,840 compared to your age may be changing. 290 00:10:41,842 --> 00:10:42,941 Mm-hmm. 291 00:10:42,943 --> 00:10:44,476 We're gonna do an ultrasound today. 292 00:10:44,478 --> 00:10:46,344 Okay. And we'll take a peek, 293 00:10:46,346 --> 00:10:49,280 and then we'll regroup, talk about strategy. 294 00:10:49,282 --> 00:10:50,649 Okay. 295 00:10:50,651 --> 00:10:53,752 Dang, I guess I really am 34, and time is going. 296 00:10:53,754 --> 00:10:57,288 I am a little concerned with time. 297 00:10:58,325 --> 00:11:00,592 Dr. Alexander: I'll cover you. 298 00:11:00,594 --> 00:11:02,327 Cover. 299 00:11:05,032 --> 00:11:07,265 Okay, uterus looks great. 300 00:11:07,267 --> 00:11:09,234 Each of those has an egg. 301 00:11:09,236 --> 00:11:10,468 Okay. 302 00:11:10,470 --> 00:11:13,905 So you at least have 5 to 10 on that ovary. 303 00:11:13,907 --> 00:11:16,975 That's crazy. It looks fantastic, great. 304 00:11:16,977 --> 00:11:18,977 Cute outfit. 305 00:11:18,979 --> 00:11:20,211 Thanks, I know. 306 00:11:20,213 --> 00:11:22,380 Who wears this to the doctor to come check? 307 00:11:22,382 --> 00:11:24,149 My sister was like, "why are you wearing that?" 308 00:11:24,151 --> 00:11:25,750 I'm like, "why not?" 309 00:11:25,752 --> 00:11:28,620 I'm at a point in my life where I'm questioning what it will 310 00:11:28,622 --> 00:11:30,889 or won't be with a man or without one. 311 00:11:30,891 --> 00:11:32,991 I just realized, more than anything in life, 312 00:11:32,993 --> 00:11:34,793 I want peace, and I want to be happy. 313 00:11:34,795 --> 00:11:37,662 And if the relationship that I find doesn't breed that, 314 00:11:37,664 --> 00:11:39,864 then I really don't want it. 315 00:11:39,866 --> 00:11:43,802 So, like, based off of, like, what you seen, 316 00:11:43,804 --> 00:11:45,737 what does it look like? I don't know, like, what's... 317 00:11:45,739 --> 00:11:47,205 Yeah, your follicle count, 318 00:11:47,207 --> 00:11:49,741 which is part of the egg-supply level, 319 00:11:49,743 --> 00:11:52,177 looks really good. Uh-huh. 320 00:11:52,179 --> 00:11:54,746 You have more follicles than I was anticipating. 321 00:11:54,748 --> 00:11:57,282 That means I'm fertile? 322 00:11:57,284 --> 00:11:58,950 Like, yeah. 323 00:11:58,952 --> 00:12:00,185 And your uterus looks great. 324 00:12:00,187 --> 00:12:01,953 Well, that's a good start, right? 325 00:12:01,955 --> 00:12:03,188 Yeah, so... 326 00:12:03,190 --> 00:12:04,689 What would you suggest next steps being? 327 00:12:04,691 --> 00:12:06,791 I would check your hormone panel. 328 00:12:06,793 --> 00:12:08,960 Okay. And then once we get that back, 329 00:12:08,962 --> 00:12:10,095 then we would discuss 330 00:12:10,097 --> 00:12:11,863 whether you could wait a little bit 331 00:12:11,865 --> 00:12:14,132 or consider doing egg freezing sooner than later. 332 00:12:14,134 --> 00:12:16,334 So we got, like, another step? 333 00:12:16,336 --> 00:12:18,036 Yes. Okay. 334 00:12:18,038 --> 00:12:21,806 The medicines we use for -- for freezing eggs 335 00:12:21,808 --> 00:12:24,342 are called follicle-stimulating hormones. 336 00:12:24,344 --> 00:12:28,146 It's 3 shots a day for 10 days. 337 00:12:28,148 --> 00:12:29,214 Three shots a day? 338 00:12:29,216 --> 00:12:30,682 Like, I don't like shots. 339 00:12:30,684 --> 00:12:32,951 I'm like, "three shots a day?" 340 00:12:32,953 --> 00:12:35,920 and then, there's a 20-minute procedure 341 00:12:35,922 --> 00:12:37,522 called the egg retrieval. 342 00:12:37,524 --> 00:12:40,091 Does this hurt? It is under sedation, 343 00:12:40,093 --> 00:12:42,327 so it's like when you get wisdom teeth out 344 00:12:42,329 --> 00:12:44,896 or anything like that. Do you have -- so you don't put to sleep? 345 00:12:44,898 --> 00:12:47,198 Your...Through your vein. Okay. 346 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:51,035 And then later, we can put sperm inside the egg 347 00:12:51,037 --> 00:12:53,338 and grow the embryo. 348 00:12:53,340 --> 00:12:54,706 And if you want us to, 349 00:12:54,708 --> 00:12:56,941 we can check for chromosome problems. 350 00:12:56,943 --> 00:12:59,878 Oh. Do you have a donor in mind? 351 00:12:59,880 --> 00:13:01,746 No, that's why I was thinking about freezing eggs. 352 00:13:01,748 --> 00:13:03,515 I don't have a donor at all. 353 00:13:03,517 --> 00:13:04,816 Okay. 354 00:13:04,818 --> 00:13:07,685 It does take a lot of eggs to get a pregnancy 355 00:13:07,687 --> 00:13:09,354 because we can't predict 356 00:13:09,356 --> 00:13:11,489 the future partner's sperm quality. 357 00:13:11,491 --> 00:13:14,092 Oh, wow. And he's half my battle 358 00:13:14,094 --> 00:13:16,928 because we want the best quality sperm, too. 359 00:13:16,930 --> 00:13:19,998 Okay. About around, like, does this cost? 360 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:22,500 It's around $9,000 to $15,000 361 00:13:22,502 --> 00:13:26,237 depending on how many eggs we get in one harvest. 362 00:13:26,239 --> 00:13:29,340 Sometimes to have enough eggs for the future, 363 00:13:29,342 --> 00:13:31,876 some people have to do it twice. 364 00:13:31,878 --> 00:13:34,312 Two times? 365 00:13:34,314 --> 00:13:36,614 So could be 15 times 2? 366 00:13:36,616 --> 00:13:37,849 Sometimes. Okay. 367 00:13:37,851 --> 00:13:40,351 Yeah, that's the higher end, but, yeah. 368 00:13:40,353 --> 00:13:42,387 I got a lot to think about. Okay, lovely to meet you. 369 00:13:42,389 --> 00:13:44,389 Maybe possibly about dating more. 370 00:13:44,391 --> 00:13:46,524 [both laugh] 371 00:13:46,526 --> 00:13:47,592 ♪ you can roll your eyes ♪ 372 00:13:47,594 --> 00:13:49,127 ♪ stomp your feet ♪ 373 00:13:49,129 --> 00:13:51,062 ♪ but this that girl that you ain't gon' beat ♪ 374 00:13:51,064 --> 00:13:53,164 why the (bleep)? 375 00:13:53,166 --> 00:13:56,501 ♪ shut it down ♪ 376 00:13:56,503 --> 00:13:58,970 ♪ we shut it down ♪ 377 00:13:58,972 --> 00:14:00,905 [doorbell rings] 378 00:14:00,907 --> 00:14:04,609 [barking] savage, relax. 379 00:14:04,611 --> 00:14:06,144 Oh, hey, miss sexy! 380 00:14:06,146 --> 00:14:07,412 Your good vibes! 381 00:14:07,414 --> 00:14:08,913 Yes. Hey! 382 00:14:08,915 --> 00:14:10,748 What the (bleep) is up? 383 00:14:12,886 --> 00:14:14,886 I need to exude good vibes. 384 00:14:14,888 --> 00:14:16,054 Oh, yeah. Is that your dog? 385 00:14:16,056 --> 00:14:17,755 Yes, it's savage. 386 00:14:17,757 --> 00:14:20,425 Child, I don't have a wine with no corkscrew. 387 00:14:20,427 --> 00:14:21,626 How do I do that one? 388 00:14:21,628 --> 00:14:22,994 Why don't you have a wine opener? 389 00:14:22,996 --> 00:14:24,362 How do I open it with no corkscrew? 390 00:14:24,364 --> 00:14:26,965 You need a corkscrew. You don't have one? 391 00:14:26,967 --> 00:14:28,433 No, how are we gonna open it? 392 00:14:28,435 --> 00:14:31,436 Why don't you have a corkscrew in your house for wine? 393 00:14:31,438 --> 00:14:34,038 Because I get the wine that you just...[pop!] 394 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:36,174 you have something that says, "namaste," 395 00:14:36,176 --> 00:14:37,442 but you don't exude namaste? 396 00:14:37,444 --> 00:14:39,244 You know (bleep) you. 397 00:14:39,246 --> 00:14:40,912 I'm just saying. 398 00:14:40,914 --> 00:14:42,380 So what's up, bitch? How you feeling today? 399 00:14:42,382 --> 00:14:43,681 [sighs] 400 00:14:43,683 --> 00:14:46,484 I need to have a long conversation with you. 401 00:14:46,486 --> 00:14:49,153 I'm-a always have your back in public, 402 00:14:49,155 --> 00:14:50,488 but when we in private, 403 00:14:50,490 --> 00:14:52,156 I'm gonna have to tell you where you're wrong. 404 00:14:52,158 --> 00:14:55,860 Child, it's your opinions for me, but go off. 405 00:14:55,862 --> 00:15:00,331 So we just need to exude black excellence. 406 00:15:00,333 --> 00:15:02,000 I never want to put my hands on anybody. 407 00:15:02,002 --> 00:15:04,702 I'd rather use my words. I don't care. 408 00:15:04,704 --> 00:15:05,970 I get it. I could give two (bleep) 409 00:15:05,972 --> 00:15:08,740 I get it, but we have to grow out of that. 410 00:15:08,742 --> 00:15:11,409 Baby, I'm perfectly fine. You squared up on sakoya. 411 00:15:11,411 --> 00:15:12,777 You went and squared up on her. 412 00:15:12,779 --> 00:15:14,913 You didn't say, "do you have an issue with me?" 413 00:15:14,915 --> 00:15:16,681 you were like, "what's up?" 414 00:15:16,683 --> 00:15:18,082 girl, you wrong as hell. 415 00:15:18,084 --> 00:15:19,550 Go take care of your son or do something like that. 416 00:15:19,552 --> 00:15:22,120 Stop bringing my... Bitch, I swear to god! 417 00:15:22,122 --> 00:15:23,421 Don't bring my (bleep) son in nothing. 418 00:15:23,423 --> 00:15:25,223 Do you hear me? Do you (bleep) hear me? 419 00:15:25,225 --> 00:15:27,158 You're the one that brought your... 420 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:28,960 And you were swinging back and forth. 421 00:15:28,962 --> 00:15:30,728 I saw your hips moving because I was trying to move you out the way. 422 00:15:30,730 --> 00:15:34,332 Namaste. It is -- no, you have namaste, 423 00:15:34,334 --> 00:15:35,633 live life in your house and... 424 00:15:35,635 --> 00:15:36,834 (bleep) I do yoga. That's why. 425 00:15:36,836 --> 00:15:38,303 I live a carefree -- it's not working. 426 00:15:38,305 --> 00:15:39,404 It is working. It's not working. 427 00:15:39,406 --> 00:15:40,638 It is working. It's not working. 428 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:42,240 I don't do trigger in situations. 429 00:15:42,242 --> 00:15:44,575 It's not working. It works for me perfectly fine. 430 00:15:44,577 --> 00:15:47,145 I see savannah as a little sister. 431 00:15:47,147 --> 00:15:49,714 Sometimes it's hard to get through to them. 432 00:15:49,716 --> 00:15:51,015 I was her. 433 00:15:51,017 --> 00:15:54,052 I was that girl that was brought up by somebody 434 00:15:54,054 --> 00:15:57,221 that really wasn't there, and I just feel like she 435 00:15:57,223 --> 00:16:01,025 just has the anger more towards her dad than anybody else. 436 00:16:01,027 --> 00:16:04,896 She just needs to learn how to navigate that. 437 00:16:04,898 --> 00:16:07,565 I'm gonna take accountability as far as, yes, 438 00:16:07,567 --> 00:16:09,233 I need to work on my anger management, 439 00:16:09,235 --> 00:16:10,635 and I'm definitely gonna go sit down 440 00:16:10,637 --> 00:16:12,370 and talk to gloria about these things. 441 00:16:12,372 --> 00:16:13,805 She's really helped me a lot, like, 442 00:16:13,807 --> 00:16:15,840 with everything that's gone on, my dad, 443 00:16:15,842 --> 00:16:18,309 my mom, even, like, my family stuff. 444 00:16:18,311 --> 00:16:20,044 Dr. Gloria is my therapist. 445 00:16:20,046 --> 00:16:22,747 I've been working with her for, like, the last 4 or 5 months, 446 00:16:22,749 --> 00:16:27,085 and we've been just working on a lot. 447 00:16:27,087 --> 00:16:28,486 As a kid, I played basketball, 448 00:16:28,488 --> 00:16:30,355 and my mom was my basketball coach. 449 00:16:30,357 --> 00:16:33,624 And I remember, like, this little girl just kept talking. 450 00:16:33,626 --> 00:16:35,326 I'm like, "girl, like, shut up. Nobody cares." 451 00:16:35,328 --> 00:16:36,627 my mom thought I was talking to her 452 00:16:36,629 --> 00:16:38,463 and literally just punched me, like, 453 00:16:38,465 --> 00:16:39,731 in front of the whole team. 454 00:16:39,733 --> 00:16:41,799 I really want you to come to a place 455 00:16:41,801 --> 00:16:43,167 of learning how to forgive 456 00:16:43,169 --> 00:16:45,470 because the triggers come... Whew. 457 00:16:45,472 --> 00:16:47,472 ...Because "I can't forgive the past. 458 00:16:47,474 --> 00:16:48,940 So I come out swinging 459 00:16:48,942 --> 00:16:52,710 even when it may not even be as warranted." 460 00:16:52,712 --> 00:16:55,246 I'm a one-man mother (bleep) military. 461 00:16:55,248 --> 00:16:56,781 Right. Like, I'm cool by myself. 462 00:16:56,783 --> 00:16:59,717 Like, I walk like a one-man show. 463 00:16:59,719 --> 00:17:02,487 So she's trying to help me, like, "you know, it's cool 464 00:17:02,489 --> 00:17:04,055 to, you know, like, isolate yourself 465 00:17:04,057 --> 00:17:06,190 and be on your own and stuff like that, 466 00:17:06,192 --> 00:17:07,558 but sometimes you don't need to 467 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:09,327 just cut people off for the littlest thing." 468 00:17:09,329 --> 00:17:11,062 everybody has a right to feel a way about their feelings, 469 00:17:11,064 --> 00:17:13,231 but it's just all about how you express it. 470 00:17:13,233 --> 00:17:16,501 So I feel clarity. I feel good. 471 00:17:16,503 --> 00:17:18,936 I feel like I'm definitely not gonna, 472 00:17:18,938 --> 00:17:22,540 like, you know, react without thinking again. 473 00:17:22,542 --> 00:17:24,642 But like I said, everything is a learning lesson, 474 00:17:24,644 --> 00:17:27,078 so hopefully, I can learn from this (bleep) 475 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:29,047 and grow as a person. 476 00:17:34,354 --> 00:17:37,255 I'm in a great space, so I can welcome love. 477 00:17:37,257 --> 00:17:40,458 Just look, I need a man that got his stuff together. 478 00:17:40,460 --> 00:17:42,160 I just know I want to be married to you, 479 00:17:42,162 --> 00:17:44,228 and I don't want to wait any longer, 480 00:17:44,230 --> 00:17:45,830 but I really just want to elope. 481 00:17:56,242 --> 00:17:58,543 Hello? Tee tee: Hello? 482 00:17:58,545 --> 00:18:00,945 Hey, girl. Hi, how are you? 483 00:18:00,947 --> 00:18:03,181 I'm good, just walking, 484 00:18:03,183 --> 00:18:05,283 having some coffee with ava's dog. 485 00:18:05,285 --> 00:18:07,285 Oh, dog is a cutie. This is cupcake. 486 00:18:07,287 --> 00:18:09,053 How's laith? 487 00:18:09,055 --> 00:18:10,188 Oh, he is good. 488 00:18:10,190 --> 00:18:12,824 He's taking a nap at the moment. 489 00:18:12,826 --> 00:18:14,092 Lucky mom. But... 490 00:18:14,094 --> 00:18:15,693 Well, actually, should I say, "happy wife"? 491 00:18:15,695 --> 00:18:17,495 Yes. Look at you. 492 00:18:20,567 --> 00:18:22,667 Aw, thank you, thank you. 493 00:18:22,669 --> 00:18:24,869 Ooh, how does it feel? Good. 494 00:18:24,871 --> 00:18:26,637 I mean, I wish we had done, like, a honeymoon 495 00:18:26,639 --> 00:18:28,139 or something because we kind of, like, 496 00:18:28,141 --> 00:18:30,274 just left and then jumped right back into life, 497 00:18:30,276 --> 00:18:31,676 so we got to figure that out. 498 00:18:31,678 --> 00:18:34,212 100% need a honeymoon. Well, how was the wedding? 499 00:18:34,214 --> 00:18:36,481 I can't believe I fricking missed it. 500 00:18:36,483 --> 00:18:38,683 I know, but you had your tour. 501 00:18:38,685 --> 00:18:40,418 You couldn't, but it was... 502 00:18:40,420 --> 00:18:43,354 I mean, in the end, it turned out great. 503 00:18:43,356 --> 00:18:45,356 You know, I mean, there was weather issues. 504 00:18:45,358 --> 00:18:47,225 Oh. I had, like, this crazy burn 505 00:18:47,227 --> 00:18:49,227 I got on my face from, like, a facial. 506 00:18:49,229 --> 00:18:51,095 Girl, you ain't never supposed to get a facial 507 00:18:51,097 --> 00:18:52,797 right before a big event. 508 00:18:52,799 --> 00:18:54,098 Well, you -- your skin looks refreshed... 509 00:18:54,100 --> 00:18:55,399 It was... ...And beautiful now. 510 00:18:55,401 --> 00:18:57,034 But at the end of the day, 511 00:18:57,036 --> 00:18:59,871 was it, like, fantastical and magical, 512 00:18:59,873 --> 00:19:01,672 and did you get all the butterflies 513 00:19:01,674 --> 00:19:03,307 and all of that important stuff? 514 00:19:03,309 --> 00:19:04,942 At the end of the day, it was. 515 00:19:04,944 --> 00:19:07,778 It really, really was. 516 00:19:07,780 --> 00:19:09,147 Aw. What's new with you? 517 00:19:09,149 --> 00:19:12,250 Just life and just finished the "set it off" tour. 518 00:19:12,252 --> 00:19:15,887 You know, just auditioning and doing the business stuff, 519 00:19:15,889 --> 00:19:17,355 you know, same hustle. 520 00:19:17,357 --> 00:19:18,589 Yeah. Yeah. 521 00:19:18,591 --> 00:19:20,091 How's your family and stuff? 522 00:19:20,093 --> 00:19:23,528 We threw a party for my grandma down in florida, 523 00:19:23,530 --> 00:19:25,630 and so saw pep, which was interesting. 524 00:19:25,632 --> 00:19:28,132 Well, like, how was that? Was it awkward? 525 00:19:28,134 --> 00:19:29,667 I mean, obviously we're still family, right? 526 00:19:29,669 --> 00:19:30,902 So it's, like, semi-awkward 527 00:19:30,904 --> 00:19:33,037 because you want all the same routines 528 00:19:33,039 --> 00:19:34,472 and kiki and all this (bleep)... Right. 529 00:19:34,474 --> 00:19:35,907 ...Which you naturally do. Aw. 530 00:19:35,909 --> 00:19:37,375 But at the same time, I got to be like, 531 00:19:37,377 --> 00:19:38,843 "oh, right, I'm not talking to your ass." 532 00:19:38,845 --> 00:19:40,545 but see, once that family energy gets together, 533 00:19:40,547 --> 00:19:41,779 you can't even help it. 534 00:19:41,781 --> 00:19:43,347 It's, like, back like you never left. 535 00:19:43,349 --> 00:19:45,783 You know, as time goes on, I care less and less. 536 00:19:45,785 --> 00:19:47,785 Not that I'll, like, forget what has happened, 537 00:19:47,787 --> 00:19:51,455 but I really just... As long as people can admit 538 00:19:51,457 --> 00:19:54,058 to what they have done, then I'm fine. 539 00:19:54,060 --> 00:19:55,326 100% agree. 540 00:19:55,328 --> 00:19:56,727 You definitely deserve that. Yeah. 541 00:19:56,729 --> 00:19:58,429 And did you talk to egypt, too? 542 00:19:58,431 --> 00:20:01,232 No, she actually sent me a text message 543 00:20:01,234 --> 00:20:03,434 wanting to talk and just saying 544 00:20:03,436 --> 00:20:05,236 she wanted to put things behind and... 545 00:20:05,238 --> 00:20:06,771 Good. ...Et cetera, et cetera. 546 00:20:06,773 --> 00:20:08,839 I think my worry is a little bit with egypt 547 00:20:08,841 --> 00:20:10,474 and the why because, I mean, it doesn't seem 548 00:20:10,476 --> 00:20:12,176 like her situation has changed. 549 00:20:12,178 --> 00:20:15,713 Tee tee has made it clear in the gestures she's made, 550 00:20:15,715 --> 00:20:17,782 touching me while she talks. 551 00:20:17,784 --> 00:20:20,184 She wants your man. 552 00:20:20,186 --> 00:20:21,452 Sam says you in love with him. 553 00:20:21,454 --> 00:20:23,788 Are you in love with him? Wait, what? 554 00:20:25,792 --> 00:20:27,225 I can get why you have, like, 555 00:20:27,227 --> 00:20:29,026 apprehension about talking to her, 556 00:20:29,028 --> 00:20:32,997 but she's young, and she needs her family. 557 00:20:32,999 --> 00:20:35,266 I think you should definitely hear her out. 558 00:20:35,268 --> 00:20:39,136 Egypt sent me a text to say she doesn't hold malice. 559 00:20:39,138 --> 00:20:41,339 That's great. Oh, and that she forgives me. 560 00:20:41,341 --> 00:20:43,908 Good. I think I'm the one who needs to forgive you, 561 00:20:43,910 --> 00:20:47,111 but I won't be the one to say I won't hear people out. 562 00:20:47,113 --> 00:20:48,980 You know, she is still super young, 563 00:20:48,982 --> 00:20:50,248 and obviously, you know, 564 00:20:50,250 --> 00:20:52,250 people make mistakes and all of that stuff. 565 00:20:52,252 --> 00:20:53,818 You know, you've always been like a sister to her, 566 00:20:53,820 --> 00:20:57,622 and maybe her reaching out could be her also, like, 567 00:20:57,624 --> 00:20:58,923 looking for that change. 568 00:20:58,925 --> 00:21:00,458 I'm sure she's missing you. Yeah. 569 00:21:00,460 --> 00:21:03,661 And she probably needs you now more than ever, you know? 570 00:21:03,663 --> 00:21:05,896 Yeah. Family over everything. 571 00:21:05,898 --> 00:21:11,836 ♪ 572 00:21:11,838 --> 00:21:15,006 -what'd you make? -I made some burritos. 573 00:21:15,008 --> 00:21:16,774 Khalilah: I also did some vegan cupcakes. 574 00:21:16,776 --> 00:21:18,776 -Okay. -Let me try the vegan cupcakes. 575 00:21:18,778 --> 00:21:20,945 -Are the burritos vegan, too? -Everything is vegan. 576 00:21:20,947 --> 00:21:22,146 Holly, this was good. 577 00:21:22,148 --> 00:21:23,481 I'm trying not to eat the whole thing. 578 00:21:23,483 --> 00:21:24,882 -I'm getting out of here. -It looks good. 579 00:21:24,884 --> 00:21:26,851 Khalilah, she has been one 580 00:21:26,853 --> 00:21:28,252 behind the scenes for a long time. 581 00:21:28,254 --> 00:21:31,255 We've been friends. We've been partners. 582 00:21:31,257 --> 00:21:32,823 We work together. 583 00:21:32,825 --> 00:21:34,558 You know, I get on her nerves. 584 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:36,761 You look cute today. Thank you. 585 00:21:36,763 --> 00:21:38,829 You know, I'm about to go on a hot date. 586 00:21:38,831 --> 00:21:40,464 Okay. Psych. 587 00:21:40,466 --> 00:21:42,366 I'm like, "speaking of dates." 588 00:21:42,368 --> 00:21:43,734 where they at? 589 00:21:43,736 --> 00:21:45,469 How you meeting them? 590 00:21:45,471 --> 00:21:47,204 An app. An app? 591 00:21:47,206 --> 00:21:48,439 Hmm, what app? 592 00:21:48,441 --> 00:21:50,341 I'm joking. I can't find nobody out here. 593 00:21:50,343 --> 00:21:52,076 You got to be careful with these apps, too. 594 00:21:52,078 --> 00:21:53,844 Can I get a napkin, please, really quick? 595 00:21:53,846 --> 00:21:55,112 Whew, that was good. 596 00:21:55,114 --> 00:21:56,380 You know when food take you on a journey? 597 00:21:56,382 --> 00:21:58,049 Mm-hmm. That's all you like. 598 00:21:58,051 --> 00:21:59,116 I just came back. 599 00:21:59,118 --> 00:22:00,685 I was tasting all the different... 600 00:22:00,687 --> 00:22:02,253 You just be having snack attack all the time? 601 00:22:02,255 --> 00:22:03,521 I was, like, in a portal real quick. 602 00:22:03,523 --> 00:22:05,222 I'm back. Hold up. 603 00:22:05,224 --> 00:22:06,824 So you on apps now, huh? 604 00:22:06,826 --> 00:22:08,726 No, I was just joking. I'm not really on apps. 605 00:22:08,728 --> 00:22:11,228 I was...I don't know. 606 00:22:11,230 --> 00:22:12,630 I don't think I'm really gonna find someone. 607 00:22:12,632 --> 00:22:14,098 Actually, I don't think I'm out enough. 608 00:22:14,100 --> 00:22:16,233 I have to get more intentional about my dating. 609 00:22:16,235 --> 00:22:20,137 I go back and forth with the idea of having kids, 610 00:22:20,139 --> 00:22:22,206 not having kids. 611 00:22:22,208 --> 00:22:24,475 And so that's why the whole fertility thing for me 612 00:22:24,477 --> 00:22:25,609 was making sense. 613 00:22:25,611 --> 00:22:27,011 I'm kind of to the point, like, 614 00:22:27,013 --> 00:22:28,612 "let me just let it happen in god's timing." 615 00:22:28,614 --> 00:22:30,848 like, if I can have more kids, okay. 616 00:22:30,850 --> 00:22:32,316 If not... 617 00:22:32,318 --> 00:22:34,552 I used to say that also when I was your age. 618 00:22:34,554 --> 00:22:35,786 I was very career-focused. 619 00:22:35,788 --> 00:22:37,722 I feel like you are, too. Yeah. 620 00:22:37,724 --> 00:22:39,757 But I think the fertility thing is important 621 00:22:39,759 --> 00:22:43,027 because I wish I would've did it when I was your age. 622 00:22:43,029 --> 00:22:44,929 Really? Like, to put the eggs away? 623 00:22:44,931 --> 00:22:46,263 Yes. To put the eggs away. 624 00:22:46,265 --> 00:22:48,366 I wish I just had that extra insurance policy 625 00:22:48,368 --> 00:22:49,734 to take the pressure off. 626 00:22:49,736 --> 00:22:52,169 All it does is just give you options. 627 00:22:52,171 --> 00:22:53,838 I know it's quite a process, too, 628 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:55,806 after speaking with the fertility doctor. 629 00:22:55,808 --> 00:22:58,342 Then she was talking about sperm banks 630 00:22:58,344 --> 00:23:00,544 and how you can pick... Whew. 631 00:23:00,546 --> 00:23:03,581 ...Exactly how the genetics of the man. 632 00:23:03,583 --> 00:23:06,851 You think you would really do that, though? 633 00:23:06,853 --> 00:23:08,285 I don't know. I don't know. 634 00:23:08,287 --> 00:23:10,254 I don't know how I'll be thinking in the next 2 years. 635 00:23:10,256 --> 00:23:12,990 I mean, like, let's say everything goes as planned. 636 00:23:12,992 --> 00:23:16,093 All my businesses do well. Simmons beauty pops off. 637 00:23:16,095 --> 00:23:17,495 I get what I want out of everything, 638 00:23:17,497 --> 00:23:22,032 and I'm just this wildly success businesswoman, 639 00:23:22,034 --> 00:23:25,436 and I don't have a mate, maybe. 640 00:23:25,438 --> 00:23:27,037 I just. -- Know you so well, and I just... 641 00:23:27,039 --> 00:23:28,806 I don't see you doing that. I see you being like, "ew, 642 00:23:28,808 --> 00:23:30,408 somebody I don't know. What?" possibly. 643 00:23:30,410 --> 00:23:33,344 I know fertility treatments are a process, 644 00:23:33,346 --> 00:23:35,179 and I just personally don't know 645 00:23:35,181 --> 00:23:37,448 if I'm ready at this moment to do it. 646 00:23:37,450 --> 00:23:39,617 I just -- I just want to wait. 647 00:23:39,619 --> 00:23:40,851 And now you have sj, 648 00:23:40,853 --> 00:23:43,020 and I know he's asking for siblings. 649 00:23:43,022 --> 00:23:44,622 Oh, he's asked me a couple of times. 650 00:23:44,624 --> 00:23:48,092 He's -- he's also asking, like, when can he have, like, 651 00:23:48,094 --> 00:23:49,827 a physical father or, like... 652 00:23:49,829 --> 00:23:51,228 You know, like, he's at that age. 653 00:23:51,230 --> 00:23:52,663 Now, he's asking, "what happened to my dad?" 654 00:23:52,665 --> 00:23:55,232 and, like, it's real. You know what I'm saying? 655 00:23:55,234 --> 00:23:56,434 And it's just like... 656 00:23:56,436 --> 00:23:58,169 I'm just in a space where I'm like, 657 00:23:58,171 --> 00:24:00,938 "alright, god. Like, I'm here now. 658 00:24:00,940 --> 00:24:02,573 You know, I'm raising my son. 659 00:24:02,575 --> 00:24:05,309 I'm in the city I feel is best for him." 660 00:24:05,311 --> 00:24:06,811 and now these questions are coming up. 661 00:24:06,813 --> 00:24:08,412 I think because he's in school. 662 00:24:08,414 --> 00:24:09,914 You know, he's seen kids. 663 00:24:09,916 --> 00:24:11,515 You know, they probably talk about their mom and their dad. 664 00:24:11,517 --> 00:24:16,320 My son yearning to have a father figure around 665 00:24:16,322 --> 00:24:18,322 definitely bothers me, 666 00:24:18,324 --> 00:24:21,292 but I also know that as a protective mother, 667 00:24:21,294 --> 00:24:23,828 I have to give him the right situation. 668 00:24:23,830 --> 00:24:26,831 But in the meantime, like, I'll just give him the best life 669 00:24:26,833 --> 00:24:28,365 I possibly can give him. 670 00:24:28,367 --> 00:24:30,134 And I'm also kind of like, 671 00:24:30,136 --> 00:24:31,535 maybe I'm cool with just one, 672 00:24:31,537 --> 00:24:33,604 or maybe I'll meet someone with kids. 673 00:24:33,606 --> 00:24:34,939 Maybe I'll just have one more. 674 00:24:34,941 --> 00:24:38,275 I do, in my head, have a clock, like a timer. 675 00:24:38,277 --> 00:24:41,312 I don't think I want to have kids past 36 or 37, right, 676 00:24:41,314 --> 00:24:42,847 and I'm 34 now. 677 00:24:42,849 --> 00:24:44,915 And it's like, "yo, like, you're not even in a relationship, 678 00:24:44,917 --> 00:24:47,051 so, like, how's that gonna happen?" 679 00:24:47,053 --> 00:24:50,621 so you not meeting anybody on the plane, in travel? 680 00:24:50,623 --> 00:24:52,289 We all have masks on now. 681 00:24:52,291 --> 00:24:54,258 [laughs] this is true. 682 00:24:54,260 --> 00:24:55,993 You're like, "oh, I saw his eyes." 683 00:24:55,995 --> 00:24:58,629 only time I can see them is when they put down their mask to eat. 684 00:24:58,631 --> 00:25:00,064 That's true. 685 00:25:00,066 --> 00:25:01,499 Do you think you're looking in the wrong place, like...? 686 00:25:01,501 --> 00:25:03,167 I'm not about to be out in the club or bars. 687 00:25:03,169 --> 00:25:04,802 Mm-hmm. Or, like, I'm not out a lot, 688 00:25:04,804 --> 00:25:06,203 so, like, where we're gonna meet 689 00:25:06,205 --> 00:25:07,771 is either industry events 690 00:25:07,773 --> 00:25:09,907 or my random, like, things I do. 691 00:25:09,909 --> 00:25:12,076 Maybe you need, like, somebody in the tech space. 692 00:25:12,078 --> 00:25:13,978 As long as it makes sense, 693 00:25:13,980 --> 00:25:15,679 I don't care where you come from. 694 00:25:15,681 --> 00:25:16,847 I'm kind of not regular. 695 00:25:16,849 --> 00:25:18,616 I'm weird. You are. 696 00:25:18,618 --> 00:25:22,386 I'm not really in it to just date guys just for fun. 697 00:25:22,388 --> 00:25:23,787 You really got to come in ready 698 00:25:23,789 --> 00:25:25,756 for what my son and I bring to the table. 699 00:25:25,758 --> 00:25:27,057 Friend, I think you need a matchmaker because... 700 00:25:27,059 --> 00:25:28,692 Well, then we need to pay a matchmaker. 701 00:25:28,694 --> 00:25:30,728 Prequalified, go through your checklist. 702 00:25:30,730 --> 00:25:32,263 I would like that. 703 00:25:32,265 --> 00:25:34,131 I mean, I'm at a point where I feel like 704 00:25:34,133 --> 00:25:35,432 I've done a lot of healing. 705 00:25:35,434 --> 00:25:38,302 I'm in a great space, so I can welcome love. 706 00:25:38,304 --> 00:25:41,205 Just look, I need a man that got his stuff together. 707 00:25:45,478 --> 00:25:46,911 I felt betrayed as well. 708 00:25:46,913 --> 00:25:48,779 I thought you were always gonna be there for me. 709 00:25:48,781 --> 00:25:51,615 Tee tee has been blaming everything on sam 710 00:25:51,617 --> 00:25:53,417 and not taking any accountability. 711 00:25:53,419 --> 00:25:56,120 There's a lot of, I think, trust loss. 712 00:25:56,122 --> 00:25:57,521 Yeah, I do want be with you for life. 713 00:25:57,523 --> 00:25:59,623 But, egypt, 10 to 15 years? 714 00:25:59,625 --> 00:26:00,991 I know what I want. 715 00:26:06,432 --> 00:26:08,666 ♪ yeah, you got 'em, got 'em ♪ 716 00:26:08,668 --> 00:26:10,768 oh, honey, these are big. 717 00:26:10,770 --> 00:26:13,537 Are you locked in there? Hello? 718 00:26:13,539 --> 00:26:15,205 These are too big. Yeah, no. 719 00:26:15,207 --> 00:26:16,974 Excuse me. Yeah, they're big. 720 00:26:16,976 --> 00:26:18,142 Can I get -- can I get another size? 721 00:26:18,144 --> 00:26:19,910 Can I get, like, a large? 722 00:26:19,912 --> 00:26:21,312 Woman: Yeah, sure thing. 723 00:26:21,314 --> 00:26:22,880 Dang, she said, "let me give her an extra large. 724 00:26:22,882 --> 00:26:24,014 That ass is fat." 725 00:26:24,016 --> 00:26:26,584 I'm about to do a new drop. 726 00:26:26,586 --> 00:26:27,785 Thanks, babe. 727 00:26:27,787 --> 00:26:29,753 It's giving new drop, good vibe on the way. 728 00:26:29,755 --> 00:26:32,456 Yes, good vibe, good attitude. 729 00:26:32,458 --> 00:26:33,591 I already had a great attitude. 730 00:26:33,593 --> 00:26:34,992 That bitch was trying me. 731 00:26:34,994 --> 00:26:37,227 I -- I honestly feel bad, though, for how I responded 732 00:26:37,229 --> 00:26:38,963 because I know -- I know my therapist was like, 733 00:26:38,965 --> 00:26:41,231 "savannah, what the hell? You've been --" exactly. 734 00:26:41,233 --> 00:26:42,900 I've been working so, so, so, so, so, so, so, 735 00:26:42,902 --> 00:26:44,635 so, so hard on myself. 736 00:26:44,637 --> 00:26:45,970 She got caught me on a... Unless -- 737 00:26:45,972 --> 00:26:47,471 ...Short end of the stick that day. 738 00:26:47,473 --> 00:26:49,640 I have to stop wanting to make people 739 00:26:49,642 --> 00:26:51,075 take accountability for their actions. 740 00:26:51,077 --> 00:26:52,743 You can't make anybody do anything. 741 00:26:52,745 --> 00:26:54,545 You can only be accountable for your actions. 742 00:26:54,547 --> 00:26:56,947 It's hard navigating through this lifestyle that I live, 743 00:26:56,949 --> 00:26:59,216 but I'm slowly but surely learning. 744 00:26:59,218 --> 00:27:00,751 Everybody just holds theirself accountable. 745 00:27:00,753 --> 00:27:02,252 Yeah. 746 00:27:02,254 --> 00:27:04,154 And we all move on because at the end of the day, 747 00:27:04,156 --> 00:27:07,224 we can't fight each other. Child. 748 00:27:13,065 --> 00:27:14,798 ♪ and knowing when to hold on ♪ 749 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,800 ♪ it's about admitting when you simply got it all wrong ♪ 750 00:27:16,802 --> 00:27:19,670 ♪ it's about strength, all about forgiveness ♪ 751 00:27:19,672 --> 00:27:23,107 ♪ it's about your father saying, "what is your intentions?" ♪ 752 00:27:23,109 --> 00:27:24,575 [doorbell rings] 753 00:27:24,577 --> 00:27:29,780 ♪ 754 00:27:29,782 --> 00:27:31,115 hi. Hello. 755 00:27:31,117 --> 00:27:33,350 How are you? Good, happy new year. 756 00:27:33,352 --> 00:27:35,419 Happy new year. 757 00:27:35,421 --> 00:27:36,420 This is nice. 758 00:27:36,422 --> 00:27:38,122 Yes, welcome in. 759 00:27:38,124 --> 00:27:41,358 Thank you. This is a nice place. 760 00:27:41,360 --> 00:27:43,193 If you take a look on the right, 761 00:27:43,195 --> 00:27:46,263 you see a stairwell case. 762 00:27:46,265 --> 00:27:48,365 And you take a look, I got some wine 763 00:27:48,367 --> 00:27:49,333 'cause I know... 764 00:27:49,335 --> 00:27:50,434 Oh. ...You like your wine. 765 00:27:50,436 --> 00:27:51,902 I do like my wine. 766 00:27:51,904 --> 00:27:53,771 I haven't had any real conversation with egypt 767 00:27:53,773 --> 00:27:55,039 for two plus years. 768 00:27:55,041 --> 00:27:57,574 If something great happens, wonderful. 769 00:27:57,576 --> 00:27:59,677 I just don't believe it will. 770 00:27:59,679 --> 00:28:01,578 Congratulations on your wedding. 771 00:28:01,580 --> 00:28:02,846 Thank you. 772 00:28:02,848 --> 00:28:04,348 I'm sorry that I couldn't be there, 773 00:28:04,350 --> 00:28:06,216 but I'm glad that you still had a special day 774 00:28:06,218 --> 00:28:07,785 because I wouldn't want to come 775 00:28:07,787 --> 00:28:09,987 and make anything uncomfortable. 776 00:28:09,989 --> 00:28:11,321 Yeah. 777 00:28:11,323 --> 00:28:13,223 Egypt: There's, like, a little awkward tension, 778 00:28:13,225 --> 00:28:17,227 and I'm just hoping it goes as smooth as I want it to. 779 00:28:17,229 --> 00:28:19,329 How is laith and everything? 780 00:28:19,331 --> 00:28:20,664 Uh, he's good. 781 00:28:20,666 --> 00:28:21,899 That's good. I'm glad to hear that. 782 00:28:21,901 --> 00:28:23,167 Yes, thank you. 783 00:28:23,169 --> 00:28:25,169 I haven't met him, so... 784 00:28:27,173 --> 00:28:29,773 Egypt not meeting laith is unfortunate, 785 00:28:29,775 --> 00:28:32,876 but I definitely don't bring any negativity around my son. 786 00:28:32,878 --> 00:28:36,447 So until things are better, if they get there, 787 00:28:36,449 --> 00:28:38,415 it's just how it's gonna be. 788 00:28:38,417 --> 00:28:42,519 I just want to get back to where we originally were. 789 00:28:42,521 --> 00:28:43,887 Uh-huh. 790 00:28:43,889 --> 00:28:45,489 That's my goal for here in this conversation, 791 00:28:45,491 --> 00:28:47,758 which is why I'm glad you agreed to come 792 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:51,195 and meet up and see where it goes. 793 00:28:51,197 --> 00:28:53,797 Okay, well, I came. I'm here. 794 00:28:53,799 --> 00:28:55,432 But I really want to know where you're at, 795 00:28:55,434 --> 00:28:57,534 like, in your mindset because then 796 00:28:57,536 --> 00:29:00,204 we can move on and know what to do next. 797 00:29:00,206 --> 00:29:01,872 I think I am gonna get my wine, though, 798 00:29:01,874 --> 00:29:03,173 once we start it. Yeah. 799 00:29:03,175 --> 00:29:04,742 But I -- although I love your whispering angel, 800 00:29:04,744 --> 00:29:06,844 I'm gonna grab a re-- I brought a red in the car. 801 00:29:06,846 --> 00:29:09,179 Oh, it's okay. So let me just grab that. 802 00:29:09,181 --> 00:29:10,881 Okay, yeah, and then the glasses are right there. 803 00:29:10,883 --> 00:29:13,250 I'm probably just gonna fill mine with water and then... 804 00:29:13,252 --> 00:29:14,418 Okay. ...You come in. 805 00:29:14,420 --> 00:29:15,686 So you're not drinking? You... 806 00:29:15,688 --> 00:29:17,588 I've been honestly just taking a break. 807 00:29:17,590 --> 00:29:19,890 You know, I've just been trying to grind 808 00:29:19,892 --> 00:29:22,426 and focus on the things that really matter 809 00:29:22,428 --> 00:29:23,761 without any distractions. 810 00:29:23,763 --> 00:29:26,130 Since tee tee used to get along with sam, 811 00:29:26,132 --> 00:29:27,631 I feel like since it's happened once, 812 00:29:27,633 --> 00:29:29,433 it can definitely happen again. 813 00:29:29,435 --> 00:29:32,102 Hmm, so far, so good. 814 00:29:32,104 --> 00:29:35,672 So fingers crossed. 815 00:29:35,674 --> 00:29:38,909 Alright. Let's get back to this. 816 00:29:38,911 --> 00:29:40,577 I'm very appreciative 817 00:29:40,579 --> 00:29:41,879 that you were able to take the step 818 00:29:41,881 --> 00:29:43,447 to come and meet with me. 819 00:29:43,449 --> 00:29:45,048 I don't like not having closure. 820 00:29:45,050 --> 00:29:48,452 I need clarity, so how do we move forward from this? 821 00:29:48,454 --> 00:29:51,822 Because I -- I don't want this going on forever. 822 00:29:51,824 --> 00:29:53,657 I don't know. I think it'll take time, 823 00:29:53,659 --> 00:29:55,192 and we have to see if, you know, 824 00:29:55,194 --> 00:29:56,760 things have really changed. 825 00:29:56,762 --> 00:29:58,896 And it's gonna be difficult because... 826 00:29:58,898 --> 00:30:00,164 It takes us, though. 827 00:30:00,166 --> 00:30:02,933 We have to decide what's gonna be. 828 00:30:02,935 --> 00:30:05,235 Like, if I came in here with animosity and, like, 829 00:30:05,237 --> 00:30:08,071 just ready to, like, point fingers at whatever, 830 00:30:08,073 --> 00:30:09,506 we would've already been out the door. 831 00:30:09,508 --> 00:30:11,642 There's a lot of, I think, trust loss, you know. 832 00:30:11,644 --> 00:30:13,076 Yeah. 833 00:30:13,078 --> 00:30:15,179 So, you know, it doesn't just affect me. Mm-hmm. 834 00:30:15,181 --> 00:30:17,381 You know, it affects, you know, how my family... 835 00:30:17,383 --> 00:30:18,682 How shawn feels... Right. 836 00:30:18,684 --> 00:30:19,983 ...How -- what I want around laith 837 00:30:19,985 --> 00:30:21,318 and what I want in my life. 838 00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:23,687 And -- and it was like that with me, too. 839 00:30:23,689 --> 00:30:25,255 Like, I felt betrayed as well. 840 00:30:25,257 --> 00:30:27,090 I thought you were always gonna be there for me, 841 00:30:27,092 --> 00:30:28,492 and it was confusing 842 00:30:28,494 --> 00:30:30,160 because you were, like, probably thinking, 843 00:30:30,162 --> 00:30:31,862 "she's just choosing a guy over me." 844 00:30:31,864 --> 00:30:33,764 and it just really was not the case. 845 00:30:33,766 --> 00:30:36,900 I would never do that. 846 00:30:36,902 --> 00:30:38,769 There's just been on many occasions 847 00:30:38,771 --> 00:30:43,340 when tee tee has intentionally trying to sabotage 848 00:30:43,342 --> 00:30:45,375 what's been going on with me and sam. 849 00:30:45,377 --> 00:30:47,511 So the thing is, I need to try to do something 850 00:30:47,513 --> 00:30:50,113 to stop this proposal. Right. 851 00:30:50,115 --> 00:30:52,216 Maybe I just need to be, like, maneuvering behind the radar. 852 00:30:52,218 --> 00:30:53,617 You got to play his game. 853 00:30:53,619 --> 00:30:54,852 Egypt: So you're telling me that you just put in 854 00:30:54,854 --> 00:30:56,687 the wrong address right now? 855 00:30:56,689 --> 00:30:57,921 Is that what you're telling me? 856 00:30:57,923 --> 00:30:59,590 I called it from before to make sure. 857 00:30:59,592 --> 00:31:02,960 And to go to whiskey tango instead of whisky a go go? 858 00:31:02,962 --> 00:31:06,430 Like, this just -- this just happened to happen? 859 00:31:08,334 --> 00:31:11,835 Tee tee has been blaming everything on sam 860 00:31:11,837 --> 00:31:13,604 and not taking any accountability. 861 00:31:13,606 --> 00:31:17,140 I do want to be able to meet laith eventually. 862 00:31:17,142 --> 00:31:19,409 Like, he would have called me auntie, you know, 863 00:31:19,411 --> 00:31:22,179 back in another life, so... 864 00:31:22,181 --> 00:31:24,281 Mm-hmm. 865 00:31:24,283 --> 00:31:28,051 I just want peace, honestly, just happiness. 866 00:31:28,053 --> 00:31:29,720 I am willing to move forward with you 867 00:31:29,722 --> 00:31:31,154 and try and look at that relationship, 868 00:31:31,156 --> 00:31:34,791 and that's gonna take a lot of time. 869 00:31:34,793 --> 00:31:37,027 It's not just a switch with me, you know? 870 00:31:37,029 --> 00:31:38,862 Like, it's... Yeah, I know. I get that. 871 00:31:38,864 --> 00:31:40,364 This is hard because, you know, 872 00:31:40,366 --> 00:31:42,466 I'm not someone to mince words, but there is just so much. 873 00:31:42,468 --> 00:31:43,901 I can't -- and we -- but that's -- 874 00:31:43,903 --> 00:31:45,135 I can't get behind -- but that's literally -- 875 00:31:45,137 --> 00:31:46,536 I can't get behind some of this. 876 00:31:46,538 --> 00:31:48,705 But you got to think that's the -- our same -- 877 00:31:48,707 --> 00:31:50,474 we're in that same position on our end. 878 00:31:50,476 --> 00:31:54,211 There is a lot of things that you did that was like, "whoa." 879 00:31:54,213 --> 00:31:56,613 but I'm not gonna hold that in my heart 880 00:31:56,615 --> 00:31:57,781 because there's no point. 881 00:31:57,783 --> 00:32:00,350 I feel bad. I know you're hurting. 882 00:32:00,352 --> 00:32:03,387 I'm trying to mince my words to make sure I don't hurt you. 883 00:32:03,389 --> 00:32:04,821 No, just talk. 884 00:32:04,823 --> 00:32:06,523 But at the same time, something just happened and if -- 885 00:32:06,525 --> 00:32:08,091 you know, it's... 886 00:32:08,093 --> 00:32:11,495 I don't want you feeling like you can't express yourself 887 00:32:11,497 --> 00:32:14,031 wholeheartedly just 'cause you're afraid of hurting me. 888 00:32:14,033 --> 00:32:15,499 I -- I am a grown woman, 889 00:32:15,501 --> 00:32:18,101 and I can take whatever you have to say. 890 00:32:20,406 --> 00:32:21,972 Communication is literally gonna be 891 00:32:21,974 --> 00:32:24,274 our only savior right now. 892 00:32:24,276 --> 00:32:26,810 Oh, lord god. What about now? 893 00:32:26,812 --> 00:32:28,478 Let's talk about the present. 894 00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:30,113 What's been going on with you? 895 00:32:30,115 --> 00:32:32,549 I'm working a lot right now. 896 00:32:32,551 --> 00:32:33,750 Laith -- we're in the process 897 00:32:33,752 --> 00:32:36,186 of moving back out to california. 898 00:32:36,188 --> 00:32:38,155 Oh, nice. 899 00:32:38,157 --> 00:32:40,123 We moved out of my mom's for a couple of months. 900 00:32:40,125 --> 00:32:42,559 Now, we've been on our own. Things have been rough. 901 00:32:42,561 --> 00:32:45,195 I know you heard about, you know, sam's situation. 902 00:32:45,197 --> 00:32:47,064 He has a court case coming up. 903 00:32:47,066 --> 00:32:48,966 Well, I've heard different stories, so I didn't know what. 904 00:32:48,968 --> 00:32:52,636 Sam is possibly facing 10 to 15 years. 905 00:32:52,638 --> 00:32:54,604 It's been a lot. It's been a lot. 906 00:32:54,606 --> 00:32:56,006 This is someone you want to marry, 907 00:32:56,008 --> 00:32:59,009 but I think there needs to be a lot of, 908 00:32:59,011 --> 00:33:01,611 with anyone getting married, a lot of reflection. 909 00:33:01,613 --> 00:33:04,748 Sam is really not trying to, like, separate us 910 00:33:04,750 --> 00:33:06,283 or steal my shine. 911 00:33:06,285 --> 00:33:08,385 Like, he literally has not done anything wrong to me. 912 00:33:08,387 --> 00:33:10,687 He's made me the happiest girl. 913 00:33:10,689 --> 00:33:12,255 It's been a couple years now 914 00:33:12,257 --> 00:33:14,124 that I know I've been wanting to marry sam. 915 00:33:14,126 --> 00:33:16,793 It's just been in my heart that he's my best friend 916 00:33:16,795 --> 00:33:20,764 and that person that I can see myself with for eternity. 917 00:33:20,766 --> 00:33:23,433 He's proven himself to me, and that's all that matters. 918 00:33:23,435 --> 00:33:26,003 And I was just trying to just be around you guys 919 00:33:26,005 --> 00:33:28,572 so we could just be really one big happy family, 920 00:33:28,574 --> 00:33:29,806 not to sound like a cliché, 921 00:33:29,808 --> 00:33:31,908 but that's just what my dream was. 922 00:33:31,910 --> 00:33:34,778 And I just honestly feel like you were... 923 00:33:34,780 --> 00:33:37,514 You saw -- always saw a little girl in me, that little baby, 924 00:33:37,516 --> 00:33:39,282 and you were afraid of me growing up. 925 00:33:39,284 --> 00:33:40,751 But that's not why. I just don't like his personality. 926 00:33:40,753 --> 00:33:42,052 Yeah, and that's understandable. 927 00:33:42,054 --> 00:33:43,687 And that's like -- it has nothing -- 928 00:33:43,689 --> 00:33:45,255 and it clashes with yours, but other people love it. 929 00:33:45,257 --> 00:33:46,423 Like, it's not like everybody 930 00:33:46,425 --> 00:33:47,791 in the world actually hates this man. 931 00:33:47,793 --> 00:33:49,259 It's only the people, honestly, 932 00:33:49,261 --> 00:33:51,395 that you've talked to that's came back and... 933 00:33:51,397 --> 00:33:52,629 See, there we go. 934 00:33:52,631 --> 00:33:54,297 But it has -- but only in experience. 935 00:33:54,299 --> 00:33:56,833 I have not influenced people, and that is the thing. 936 00:33:56,835 --> 00:33:59,536 It is how the encounters that he has had with other people 937 00:33:59,538 --> 00:34:03,140 and how you've also reacted to people that make people hurt 938 00:34:03,142 --> 00:34:06,043 and make people not want to deal with you or him. 939 00:34:06,045 --> 00:34:09,646 Egypt can't seem to see that hers and her partner's actions 940 00:34:09,648 --> 00:34:13,450 could be the reason why they are treated a certain way. 941 00:34:13,452 --> 00:34:15,519 I think it's been easier to blame me 942 00:34:15,521 --> 00:34:18,989 and say I am the reason people dislike them, 943 00:34:18,991 --> 00:34:20,791 and that's why I've also far removed myself 944 00:34:20,793 --> 00:34:24,995 because I haven't been in the picture for the last two years. 945 00:34:24,997 --> 00:34:26,696 Look at what's happened. 946 00:34:26,698 --> 00:34:29,900 But we're here now trying to just move past it 947 00:34:29,902 --> 00:34:31,301 because, again, when we talk... 948 00:34:31,303 --> 00:34:32,569 But you still feel the same way, so I just... 949 00:34:32,571 --> 00:34:34,204 And you feel the same way. 950 00:34:34,206 --> 00:34:36,406 We both obviously have these similar emotions 951 00:34:36,408 --> 00:34:38,708 where you felt betrayed. I felt betrayed. 952 00:34:38,710 --> 00:34:40,777 And we didn't communicate enough to really understand 953 00:34:40,779 --> 00:34:44,214 why we felt the way we did and to figure out 954 00:34:44,216 --> 00:34:47,584 how to not make that happen anymore. 955 00:34:47,586 --> 00:34:49,119 So that's the thing. I don't think -- 956 00:34:49,121 --> 00:34:52,255 and I told your mom this when we had our conversation. 957 00:34:52,257 --> 00:34:53,790 In all of this, I truly blame her. 958 00:34:53,792 --> 00:34:56,426 I don't think she handled the situation right. 959 00:34:56,428 --> 00:34:59,196 I think she should have shut a lot of (blp) down 960 00:34:59,198 --> 00:35:00,597 that was happening. 961 00:35:00,599 --> 00:35:02,966 I had that actual same conversation with her. 962 00:35:02,968 --> 00:35:04,301 Yeah. 963 00:35:04,303 --> 00:35:07,003 I do know we do have a great relationship, just us. 964 00:35:07,005 --> 00:35:10,040 You know that already, when it's just us. 965 00:35:10,042 --> 00:35:12,442 We just have to move forward 966 00:35:12,444 --> 00:35:13,777 because he's gonna be my husband. 967 00:35:13,779 --> 00:35:14,845 Like, he's gonna be around. 968 00:35:14,847 --> 00:35:16,079 We'll see how things go. 969 00:35:16,081 --> 00:35:18,615 I mean, look, I'm not... 970 00:35:18,617 --> 00:35:20,117 If that's gonna be your husband, 971 00:35:20,119 --> 00:35:21,284 that's your husband, girl. 972 00:35:21,286 --> 00:35:24,488 So you do it. 973 00:35:24,490 --> 00:35:26,089 I don't know why egypt doesn't understand 974 00:35:26,091 --> 00:35:28,425 that it's her partner and not me, you know? 975 00:35:28,427 --> 00:35:32,295 I mean, this is what I'm saying about mindset, 976 00:35:32,297 --> 00:35:33,697 doesn't seem like it's changed, 977 00:35:33,699 --> 00:35:35,699 so I'm not sure how we're gonna move forward. 978 00:35:35,701 --> 00:35:37,000 This takes time. 979 00:35:37,002 --> 00:35:38,301 Yeah. 980 00:35:38,303 --> 00:35:39,970 I do believe this conversation 981 00:35:39,972 --> 00:35:42,272 was more productive than it's been. 982 00:35:42,274 --> 00:35:44,808 I really feel like we are getting closer 983 00:35:44,810 --> 00:35:48,378 to taking that step on moving on. 984 00:35:49,114 --> 00:35:51,014 I love you, and I'm reaching out now 985 00:35:51,016 --> 00:35:52,883 to let you know I am here anytime 986 00:35:52,885 --> 00:35:57,420 you are ready to fully move forward and see how it goes. 987 00:35:57,422 --> 00:35:59,122 Yeah. 988 00:36:04,730 --> 00:36:06,229 Got to give you bad news. 989 00:36:06,231 --> 00:36:08,165 Oh, you got bad news? I just talked to the attorney. 990 00:36:08,167 --> 00:36:10,500 He just got the surveillance footage. 991 00:36:19,011 --> 00:36:22,345 ♪ I'd rather be than with you right now ♪ 992 00:36:22,347 --> 00:36:25,015 -hi. -Hey. 993 00:36:25,017 --> 00:36:27,417 Oh, my god. 994 00:36:27,419 --> 00:36:29,519 What happened to your hair, dear? 995 00:36:29,521 --> 00:36:31,721 So I wanted to surprise you and just, you know. 996 00:36:31,723 --> 00:36:33,256 Get in a fight with a blow-dryer? 997 00:36:33,258 --> 00:36:35,292 Yeah. Mercedes: It's cute. 998 00:36:35,294 --> 00:36:36,626 Add a little length. Thank you. 999 00:36:36,628 --> 00:36:38,228 I love it. If she had some neon, like, 1000 00:36:38,230 --> 00:36:40,597 vans on and stuff and did one of these kicks... 1001 00:36:40,599 --> 00:36:42,432 Like '90s. No, '80s, bro. 1002 00:36:42,434 --> 00:36:44,334 Oh, '80s, I mean, just call me roxanne. 1003 00:36:44,336 --> 00:36:45,936 So how was the trip? 1004 00:36:45,938 --> 00:36:47,437 I had the talk with tee tee. 1005 00:36:47,439 --> 00:36:49,139 It went better than I expected. 1006 00:36:49,141 --> 00:36:50,273 What's better? 1007 00:36:50,275 --> 00:36:52,175 Better, like, nobody stormed off. 1008 00:36:52,177 --> 00:36:53,610 Nobody went away... 1009 00:36:53,612 --> 00:36:55,045 Who won? ...You know, walked off. 1010 00:36:55,047 --> 00:36:57,414 I wouldn't say this was a winning type of situation. 1011 00:36:57,416 --> 00:36:59,849 Who was more upset? That's the question. 1012 00:36:59,851 --> 00:37:02,352 It wasn't even like anybody got upset. 1013 00:37:02,354 --> 00:37:04,387 We were just having a mature conversation, 1014 00:37:04,389 --> 00:37:06,823 and I felt like I had to kind of drag it 1015 00:37:06,825 --> 00:37:08,725 out of her throughout the whole thing 1016 00:37:08,727 --> 00:37:10,627 'cause it just seemed like it was really hard for her. 1017 00:37:10,629 --> 00:37:13,096 But she still ended up saying her piece. 1018 00:37:13,098 --> 00:37:16,299 I said my piece and just handled it in a mature manner, 1019 00:37:16,301 --> 00:37:18,802 so that way, we can actually try to resolve 1020 00:37:18,804 --> 00:37:20,470 and get closer to moving on. 1021 00:37:20,472 --> 00:37:21,972 Well, that's good news. Yeah. 1022 00:37:21,974 --> 00:37:23,540 What did you guys talk about? 1023 00:37:23,542 --> 00:37:25,242 Sam told me a little bit, but I don't really... 1024 00:37:25,244 --> 00:37:28,445 Told her your cousin was, like, a snob. 1025 00:37:28,447 --> 00:37:29,679 Yeah. She's... 1026 00:37:29,681 --> 00:37:31,047 Okay, she's a very emotional person. 1027 00:37:31,049 --> 00:37:33,049 Me and her got into our first argument 1028 00:37:33,051 --> 00:37:34,251 just 'cause, you know, 1029 00:37:34,253 --> 00:37:35,518 sam came along, and she, like... 1030 00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:37,187 They had first got along really well. 1031 00:37:37,189 --> 00:37:38,855 She actually liked him, but some... 1032 00:37:38,857 --> 00:37:40,257 But along the lines, 1033 00:37:40,259 --> 00:37:43,627 just a lot of other people saying stuff. 1034 00:37:43,629 --> 00:37:44,861 My family can be -- 1035 00:37:44,863 --> 00:37:46,730 they hold a very high standard to people. 1036 00:37:46,732 --> 00:37:47,897 They really do. 1037 00:37:47,899 --> 00:37:49,232 I always was the baby of the family. 1038 00:37:49,234 --> 00:37:51,034 Mm-hmm. So everybody was very... 1039 00:37:51,036 --> 00:37:52,502 Overprotective. ...Overprotective, and I -- 1040 00:37:52,504 --> 00:37:54,204 I love that everyone has my back, 1041 00:37:54,206 --> 00:37:56,706 but can you have my back at the right time... 1042 00:37:56,708 --> 00:37:58,074 Right. ....Is what I asked. 1043 00:37:58,076 --> 00:37:59,576 Well, at least you got it off your chest, 1044 00:37:59,578 --> 00:38:01,511 so you can say that you've made an effort. 1045 00:38:01,513 --> 00:38:02,712 Yes, thank you. Good for you. 1046 00:38:02,714 --> 00:38:04,147 Well, you have some good news, 1047 00:38:04,149 --> 00:38:06,216 so, you know, I got to give you bad news. 1048 00:38:06,218 --> 00:38:07,751 Oh, you got bad news? What happened? 1049 00:38:07,753 --> 00:38:09,986 So bad news, bae. Really? 1050 00:38:09,988 --> 00:38:11,621 No, I just talked to the attorney and (bleep) 1051 00:38:11,623 --> 00:38:15,659 and basically he needs more time to get ready for the case, 1052 00:38:15,661 --> 00:38:19,629 so it's getting set back to a later date. 1053 00:38:19,631 --> 00:38:20,964 What? 1054 00:38:20,966 --> 00:38:23,633 Yeah, I thought it was gonna be over, but... 1055 00:38:26,738 --> 00:38:28,938 With sam's case constantly being delayed, 1056 00:38:28,940 --> 00:38:31,741 it just keeps us not in the knowing 1057 00:38:31,743 --> 00:38:33,576 of what's fully gonna happen. 1058 00:38:33,578 --> 00:38:34,878 But we know that no matter what, 1059 00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:36,613 we're still gonna keep living our life 1060 00:38:36,615 --> 00:38:42,285 and not letting these setbacks stop us from doing anything. 1061 00:38:42,287 --> 00:38:45,188 I -- it already got pushed back twice at this point. 1062 00:38:45,190 --> 00:38:47,691 Well, it's pushed back to a later date 1063 00:38:47,693 --> 00:38:49,059 because he needs to get ready. 1064 00:38:49,061 --> 00:38:51,161 He just got the surveillance footage. 1065 00:38:51,163 --> 00:38:52,862 They were talking more of, like, 1066 00:38:52,864 --> 00:38:55,265 a lesser prison time this time around, 1067 00:38:55,267 --> 00:38:59,002 but more of, like, I'm still gonna get a felony stuff. 1068 00:38:59,004 --> 00:39:01,805 So he wants to be more properly prepared 1069 00:39:01,807 --> 00:39:05,241 to try to get this knocked away. 1070 00:39:05,243 --> 00:39:06,843 I don't even know why there still has to be 1071 00:39:06,845 --> 00:39:08,878 talk of any prison time, but I really do like 1072 00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:10,380 that he's just trying to do his job and... 1073 00:39:10,382 --> 00:39:11,781 Yeah. 1074 00:39:11,783 --> 00:39:14,017 ...Make sure, like, look, like, he knows what's up, so... 1075 00:39:14,019 --> 00:39:15,652 I've been thinking about this, 1076 00:39:15,654 --> 00:39:18,088 and...And [sighs] 1077 00:39:18,090 --> 00:39:20,990 I honestly just don't want to wait anymore. 1078 00:39:20,992 --> 00:39:24,194 I feel like I just know I want to be married to you, 1079 00:39:24,196 --> 00:39:26,429 and I don't want to wait any longer. 1080 00:39:26,431 --> 00:39:29,866 I really just want to elope. 1081 00:39:29,868 --> 00:39:34,037 So are you proposing to me? 1082 00:39:34,039 --> 00:39:35,739 You already proposed to me 2 1/2 years ago, remember? 1083 00:39:35,741 --> 00:39:37,807 You guys have been engaged for a while now. 1084 00:39:37,809 --> 00:39:39,909 Hold up. This sounds like she's proposing to me. 1085 00:39:39,911 --> 00:39:42,145 No, you already did that part. Thank you very much. 1086 00:39:42,147 --> 00:39:44,247 You do understand, though, like, 1087 00:39:44,249 --> 00:39:47,650 I'm not trying to be knocking on glass to you 1088 00:39:47,652 --> 00:39:49,052 if I get in trouble. 1089 00:39:49,054 --> 00:39:51,388 Look, I'm an adult, and I've been thinking about this. 1090 00:39:51,390 --> 00:39:52,489 And I know what I want. 1091 00:39:52,491 --> 00:39:53,723 I know that I want to marry you. 1092 00:39:53,725 --> 00:39:55,158 I know that I love you. 1093 00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:56,593 I know you're my soul mate and my best friend, 1094 00:39:56,595 --> 00:39:59,329 and I would love to be a part of you guys' family. 1095 00:39:59,331 --> 00:40:02,499 You know that this leads me to having to have a conversation 1096 00:40:02,501 --> 00:40:04,601 with your dad and them... Yes. 1097 00:40:04,603 --> 00:40:07,804 ...And leads you to having to talk to your mother. Yes. 1098 00:40:07,806 --> 00:40:10,940 We are not on the same page as my mom at this point. 1099 00:40:10,942 --> 00:40:13,209 We move different than she does. 1100 00:40:13,211 --> 00:40:18,148 We move more like her dad more than we do her mom. 1101 00:40:18,150 --> 00:40:20,550 Her support has always been there, 1102 00:40:20,552 --> 00:40:24,154 but I feel like she didn't do anything to prevent 1103 00:40:24,156 --> 00:40:27,123 everything that's happening, and it made it to where... 1104 00:40:27,125 --> 00:40:28,458 It spiraled out of control. 1105 00:40:28,460 --> 00:40:30,326 ...It spiraled out of control, exactly. 1106 00:40:30,328 --> 00:40:31,928 And as a mom, I feel like 1107 00:40:31,930 --> 00:40:34,564 she put work before the family. 1108 00:40:34,566 --> 00:40:37,200 My family is not gonna come on no short-notice stuff, 1109 00:40:37,202 --> 00:40:39,068 so that means if we did something like that, 1110 00:40:39,070 --> 00:40:42,272 we would have to have a big ceremony regardless. 1111 00:40:42,274 --> 00:40:44,107 We should go tomorrow. I don't know, man. 1112 00:40:44,109 --> 00:40:45,475 I don't think we can do that. 1113 00:40:45,477 --> 00:40:46,876 Mercedes: I think that's a great idea. 1114 00:40:46,878 --> 00:40:48,344 It's two against one, so... 1115 00:40:48,346 --> 00:40:50,513 We wanted this big wedding and all this stuff. 1116 00:40:50,515 --> 00:40:53,049 And we'll get that. When time comes, we'll get that. 1117 00:40:53,051 --> 00:40:55,151 I'm not really sure how I feel about the whole 1118 00:40:55,153 --> 00:40:57,020 eloping under these circumstances. 1119 00:40:57,022 --> 00:40:59,155 I know I love egypt, and I know she loves me, 1120 00:40:59,157 --> 00:41:03,326 but I just kind of figured it would be different than this. 1121 00:41:03,328 --> 00:41:05,795 It's something to definitely talk about. 1122 00:41:05,797 --> 00:41:07,330 No, I really think we should do it. 1123 00:41:07,332 --> 00:41:09,098 I know I want to, so... Let me talk... 1124 00:41:09,100 --> 00:41:10,667 I can't drag you down the aisle. 1125 00:41:10,669 --> 00:41:12,035 Let me talk to your dad. 1126 00:41:12,037 --> 00:41:13,736 If your dad is supportive of the situation, 1127 00:41:13,738 --> 00:41:15,872 and he cosigns on that (bleep) then, yeah. 1128 00:41:15,874 --> 00:41:17,841 I mean, you already asked for his permission... 1129 00:41:17,843 --> 00:41:19,175 Still. 1130 00:41:19,177 --> 00:41:20,777 ...To take my hand in marriage. I feel like... 1131 00:41:20,779 --> 00:41:22,212 I think this is something that needs to be politicked. 1132 00:41:22,214 --> 00:41:23,746 No, he definitely needs to know, for sure. 1133 00:41:23,748 --> 00:41:25,181 ...You know, and see. I mean, I'm in. 1134 00:41:25,183 --> 00:41:26,816 You know I want to marry you. 1135 00:41:26,818 --> 00:41:29,285 I just don't want that idea of I'm trying to marry you 1136 00:41:29,287 --> 00:41:31,454 before I go to prison. That's selfish. 1137 00:41:31,456 --> 00:41:32,689 Well, it's my idea, so... 1138 00:41:32,691 --> 00:41:35,091 I'll talk to my parents. I'll talk to my mom. 1139 00:41:35,093 --> 00:41:36,359 You can talk to my dad. 1140 00:41:36,361 --> 00:41:37,894 Are you afraid they're gonna say no? 1141 00:41:37,896 --> 00:41:39,362 No, he knows I'm solid, but... Yeah, he... 1142 00:41:39,364 --> 00:41:40,897 Then what are you... Exactly. 1143 00:41:40,899 --> 00:41:42,632 He also understands the same logic I do about, 1144 00:41:42,634 --> 00:41:44,868 you know, nobody wants to be with anybody in prison. 1145 00:41:44,870 --> 00:41:46,236 I know I love you, and I know 1146 00:41:46,238 --> 00:41:48,638 I've been with you for four years now. 1147 00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:52,075 And when you proposed to me, I made that commitment to say, 1148 00:41:52,077 --> 00:41:53,276 "yeah, I do want to be with you for life." 1149 00:41:53,278 --> 00:41:55,845 but, egypt, 10 to 15 years? 1150 00:41:55,847 --> 00:41:57,514 Your cheeks might be wrinkly by then. 1151 00:41:57,516 --> 00:41:58,715 Shut the hell up. 1152 00:41:58,717 --> 00:41:59,983 And you're still gonna love them 1153 00:41:59,985 --> 00:42:01,551 even though that's not gonna happen. 1154 00:42:01,553 --> 00:42:03,353 Well, of course I will. I'll be fresh out 1155 00:42:03,355 --> 00:42:05,355 of having no ass in 10 to 15 years, you know? 1156 00:42:05,357 --> 00:42:07,257 No, I just don't want to wait anymore. 1157 00:42:07,259 --> 00:42:08,691 Like, I know what I want, 1158 00:42:08,693 --> 00:42:11,561 and I've been thinking about just us being married. 1159 00:42:11,563 --> 00:42:14,130 And I know you don't want us to get married 1160 00:42:14,132 --> 00:42:16,432 before we know what happens, 1161 00:42:16,434 --> 00:42:17,901 but things keep getting pushed back, 1162 00:42:17,903 --> 00:42:20,236 and I don't want to keep holding off 1163 00:42:20,238 --> 00:42:21,538 just 'cause of that. 1164 00:42:21,540 --> 00:42:22,972 I know I love you, and I know I want to marry you. 1165 00:42:22,974 --> 00:42:27,043 So I want to elope, and I want to elope now.