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- The higher the hair,
the closer to jesus, honey.
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- I'm a nervous wreck.
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What if it does go right?
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What if it does go wrong?
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- There ain't no turning back.
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- 10 singles are about to meet
for the very first time.
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- Cheers to your
happily ever after.
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- Cheers!
- Clink, clink, clink, clink.
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- They will legally marry
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And commit their lives
to a complete stranger.
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- [laughs] look at her.
- Oh, my god!
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- Once the couples say I do...
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- You got this.
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- There's only one way out,
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And that's divorce.
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♪ ♪
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- The jitters are coming.
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- We're in nashville.
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- I prayed for this.
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- And this is
the most intense season
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Of "married at first sight"
yet.
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- This is not something
that you have to do.
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We can walk up outta here
right now.
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- We, the experts, use
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Rigorous interviews,
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Data collection,
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And social science
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To match five couples
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Who will be married
at first sight.
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- I'm actually getting married
in two weeks.
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- Nicole, stop it.
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- And tonight, our singles
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Will prepare
for their wedding...
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- Feelin' like a wifey.
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[laughter]
- ah!
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- Celebrate their bachelor
and bachelorette parties...
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- Look out! Whoo!
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- Prepare to walk
down the aisle...
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- He's waitin' on you, girl.
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He's already standing there
waiting on you.
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- To meet the spouse
they have never seen before.
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- Here we go.
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- My heart might jump
out of my chest.
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I'm putting myself
on the line.
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There's a lot at risk.
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What if things don't work out?
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[dramatic music]
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- My mind is just going
so many different ways.
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I'm scared as hell right now.
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♪ ♪
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- Disappointed.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- This is "married
at first sight."
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- ♪ there's no other way ♪
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♪ ♪
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♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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[upbeat country music]
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- ♪ don't feel no ♪
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♪ 'cause I've been down
so long ♪
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♪ maybe tomorrow ♪
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♪ I'll sing a sweeter song ♪
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- We use social science
to match 10 singles
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And reveal to them
that they'll be getting
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Legally married
in just two weeks.
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- Hello, ladies.
- Hi.
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- Hi, how are you?
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- Hello, mama.
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- Now it's time
to break the news
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To their family and friends.
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- ♪ I wish that they could all
be country girls ♪
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♪ because there ain't
nothing finer ♪
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♪ in the whole damn world ♪
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- The first couple
is kirsten and shaquille.
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- Thank y'all so much
for coming.
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- This is gorgeous.
I hope y'all love my setup.
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- My mom and my family
and friends are here.
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And with the close relationship
that me and my family have,
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They're gonna be very
protective about a man
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Coming into my life
out of nowhere, honestly.
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My mom has been
the biggest support system
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That I have in my life.
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She was a single mother.
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She had three children,
trying to always be strong.
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So I'm hoping
that she's going to be
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Supportive of this decision
that I'm making.
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♪ ♪
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You guys all know
that I wanna be married
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And I wanna have children.
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I mean, my parents are getting
a little older.
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I wanna have kids
so they can be around
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So I can call my mom
and tell her,
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"come pick up my child"
or whatever.
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So with that being said...
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[tense music]
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I'm getting married
in two weeks!
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- Oh, my gosh!
Both: What?
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- Congratulations.
- Thank you so much.
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Thank you.
[laughter]
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[upbeat music]
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- ♪ oh, go, never slow ♪
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♪ I got it going on ♪
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- Sometimes it bothers me
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If some people don't do things
my way.
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And sometimes
I have to let it go
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Because everything cannot
always be my way.
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But some things can.
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- ♪ it's all about me ♪
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♪ all about me ♪
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- I've been picky all my life.
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I've been picky about my food,
picky about my hair,
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Picky about the clothes
my mom used to buy me.
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Or my dad would get so upset
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Because I would literally
pick over supreme pizza
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Or pick over chicken wings.
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So not only do I pick over
my food and my clothes.
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I definitely pick over men too.
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Who has time to keep dating
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And talking
and not talking to people?
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So I'll allow the experts
to find me
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This man that I dream of.
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I think I have
a high standard for men
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Because of the standard
that I put on myself.
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I have a master's degree
in business education.
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And I also have
a bachelor's degree
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In health service
administration.
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And I'm a real estate agent.
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So I want someone
just as educated as I am,
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Just as good-looking as I am.
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♪ ♪
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Physically fit,
tall, handsome,
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Hardworking, well-dressed,
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Nice teeth, faith-based.
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I want him to come
to church with me.
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I want him to have a positive
mind-set, be ambitious,
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I mean,
because I'm all of that.
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[upbeat music]
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I just am allowing
this process to guide me.
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And I'm opening up my heart
and my mind
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To allow something good
to happen.
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♪ ♪
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It was kinda hard for me
when I see other people,
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You know, happy and married,
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Especially, like,
a lot of colleagues,
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A lot of family members.
- Can be tough.
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- [tearfully]
I'm like, "I want that."
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♪ ♪
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So yeah.
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- You will have love.
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You will be loved.
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You are worthy of love.
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And I know how I feel,
so I can only imagine
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How he'll feel
to get such a prize.
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Oh...
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[sighs]
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My hopes are that
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Love has found her.
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She's definitely very worthy
of it, has tons to give.
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Ball of fire.
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Has been since she's been
in this world.
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So I'm wishing that she gets
everything she's hoping for.
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[sighs]
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- Mm-hmm. [sniffles]
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♪ ♪
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- I'm hoping
for all great things.
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♪ ♪
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[upbeat country music]
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- I'm about to walk in
and tell my friends
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That I'm getting married
in two weeks.
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I'm really nervous.
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I've been acting weird lately,
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And they've been asking me,
like, "you okay?
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Like, you good?"
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And I think they gonna be like,
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"this is why
he was acting weird."
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I really don't know
what they're gonna say.
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And I don't know how they're
gonna feel about this journey.
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So we shall see how this goes.
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So, like,
I brought y'all here today
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To tell y'all
that I'm getting married.
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- [laughing]
- to who?
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It takes another person
to get married.
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- I am getting married
at first sight.
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[tense music]
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- What is happening?
- What is happening right now?
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[laughter]
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- ♪ uh, okay,
a man's gotta do ♪
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♪ what a man's gotta do ♪
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♪ I'ma suit up and show up ♪
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♪ baby, I'ma man up ♪
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- I think god has put me
on this planet to do a lot.
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Everything that I've done
in my life he's provided.
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But I had to go through
those trials and tribulations
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To understand that.
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- ♪ I tell her,
jump on a wave with me, yeah ♪
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♪ come get away with me,
yeah ♪
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- I was seven years old when I
was involved in a car accident.
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It was my entire family.
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My mother, my two sisters,
and my brother,
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We were all thrown
from the car.
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I woke up wrapped around
a barbed-wire fence.
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And that incident
changed my life forever.
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- ♪ can't steal my joy ♪
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♪ today I'm living the faith ♪
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- The doctor wouldn't allow me
to play sports
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From first grade all the way
up until eighth grade.
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So I had to focus my life
on something else.
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I focused my life on academics.
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I serve as executive director
of enrollment services
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At tennessee state university,
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And I'm currently getting
my doctorate.
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Being in higher education,
you work in institutions,
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And you may have to take a job
opportunity somewhere else.
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So dating has been
very challenging for me
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Simply because
I've always found myself
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In long-distance relationships.
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And coming home
and no one's there,
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It hits different.
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- ♪ hey, I do it like
no other ♪
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♪ do what I wanna ♪
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My life has always
just been busy.
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And you know,
with this opportunity,
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I'm being thrown in
the commitment first
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And adjust it later,
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And I'm psyched.
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Maybe this is what I need.
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[laughs]
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Maybe I need someone
to slip a ring on my finger
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To say, "hey,
you're in a marriage now.
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"hey, you're in
a relationship now.
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What are you gonna do?
Make it happen."
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♪ ♪
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- I can't believe you did this.
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- This is what I pray for.
Like--
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- You pray to marry
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Somebody you don't know?
- Yeah.
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- I've prayed on this
many times,
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And god has shown me
so many signs.
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Like, I don't think--
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It was never about coming
to nashville for the job.
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Honestly...
- Oh, my god.
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- You think it was about this?
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- I think it was about
honestly finding true love.
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- Are you ready?
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Like, forget day one.
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Forget day 10, 20.
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Year five, do you still--
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You ready to--
- yeah.
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I honestly, truly feel
like I'm ready.
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I'm really tired
of being alone.
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♪ ♪
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- Shaquille is looking
for a wife
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Who is as ambitious
and as passionate as he is,
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Who also shares
his faith in god.
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Meanwhile, kirsten has
high expectations
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For what she wants
in a husband.
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And driven and accomplished
shaquille
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Will certainly meet and exceed
those expectations.
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Additionally,
it's important to both of them
260
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That they marry
someone educated.
261
00:09:43,475 --> 00:09:45,475
Together,
kirsten and shaquille
262
00:09:45,568 --> 00:09:48,144
Will be the ultimate
power couple.
263
00:09:48,163 --> 00:09:50,647
[upbeat music]
264
00:09:50,665 --> 00:09:54,593
- The second couple
is domynique and mackinley.
265
00:09:54,820 --> 00:09:56,261
- I feel like I haven't
talked to you in so long.
266
00:09:56,412 --> 00:09:58,171
What's been new?
267
00:09:58,265 --> 00:10:00,340
- Well, you guys know
268
00:10:00,492 --> 00:10:02,158
That I have been going through
this process.
269
00:10:02,251 --> 00:10:03,509
- Correct.
270
00:10:03,604 --> 00:10:05,345
- So if I were to get married,
271
00:10:05,439 --> 00:10:07,105
Obviously, that means
272
00:10:07,256 --> 00:10:09,590
That I would have to,
more than likely,
273
00:10:09,684 --> 00:10:11,926
Limit my girls' night outs.
274
00:10:11,945 --> 00:10:14,020
- It's our time.
275
00:10:14,172 --> 00:10:15,855
Like, we have to have
designated girl time.
276
00:10:16,007 --> 00:10:18,450
Like, he has to
and he better allow you
277
00:10:18,601 --> 00:10:19,433
To have girls' nights out.
278
00:10:19,527 --> 00:10:21,010
- Period.
- If not,
279
00:10:21,029 --> 00:10:23,696
Then I'm gonna make you
divorce him.
280
00:10:23,790 --> 00:10:25,874
- I will definitely have to
check with my future husband.
281
00:10:27,202 --> 00:10:29,110
- Like, actually?
282
00:10:29,129 --> 00:10:30,854
Like, actually?
- Wait, what?
283
00:10:30,872 --> 00:10:32,355
- I'm getting married
in two weeks.
284
00:10:32,374 --> 00:10:36,134
[laughter]
- shut up!
285
00:10:36,285 --> 00:10:38,044
- Oh, my god!
286
00:10:38,138 --> 00:10:40,380
- No, like, tears in my eyes!
287
00:10:40,474 --> 00:10:43,883
[overlapping chatter]
288
00:10:44,035 --> 00:10:44,809
Shut the [bleep] up!
289
00:10:44,961 --> 00:10:47,053
- I swear.
290
00:10:47,147 --> 00:10:49,463
- You're gonna be a hot wife.
291
00:10:49,557 --> 00:10:52,967
- ♪ way, way down ♪
292
00:10:52,986 --> 00:10:55,728
♪ I wanna feel you deep ♪
293
00:10:55,881 --> 00:10:58,898
- I would describe myself
as an old soul.
294
00:10:59,050 --> 00:11:01,642
I'm more mature
than most people my age.
295
00:11:01,736 --> 00:11:04,053
I would like to say that I
probably get a lot of that
296
00:11:04,147 --> 00:11:06,906
From being single mom,
only child.
297
00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:09,575
- ♪ oh, no, it's not me ♪
298
00:11:09,670 --> 00:11:12,061
♪ it's somebody ♪
299
00:11:12,155 --> 00:11:13,838
♪ 'cause I got it
from my mama ♪
300
00:11:14,065 --> 00:11:17,417
♪ I got it from my mama,
yeah ♪
301
00:11:17,511 --> 00:11:20,086
- My mom's very independent,
like, strong woman.
302
00:11:20,180 --> 00:11:23,664
And watching her, like, work
to support me growing up,
303
00:11:23,758 --> 00:11:29,262
It just--it made me not want
her to have to worry about me.
304
00:11:29,414 --> 00:11:32,173
My mom is my best friend.
305
00:11:32,192 --> 00:11:35,193
We talk multiple times a day.
306
00:11:35,420 --> 00:11:38,421
I call my mom on my way
to work in the morning.
307
00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:40,256
If I get a lunch break,
308
00:11:40,275 --> 00:11:42,534
I call my mom
on my lunch break.
309
00:11:42,761 --> 00:11:45,186
I call her
when I'm on my way home.
310
00:11:45,205 --> 00:11:46,520
Hey, ma.
311
00:11:46,614 --> 00:11:48,598
- How's it going?
- Good.
312
00:11:48,616 --> 00:11:51,042
If you would like
to give some insight
313
00:11:51,269 --> 00:11:54,787
On how you felt
about the previous people
314
00:11:54,881 --> 00:11:56,940
That I have dated?
315
00:11:56,958 --> 00:11:59,776
- I feel like you were ready
for a relationship,
316
00:11:59,869 --> 00:12:01,720
But they completely weren't.
317
00:12:01,947 --> 00:12:04,630
I think you guys
would do better
318
00:12:04,725 --> 00:12:09,469
About picking a person for her
outside of her box.
319
00:12:09,563 --> 00:12:11,788
- I am here initially
320
00:12:11,881 --> 00:12:15,308
Because my mom did sign me up
for this.
321
00:12:15,460 --> 00:12:17,460
But ultimately,
I did make the decision
322
00:12:17,479 --> 00:12:19,812
That this is something that
I wanted to go through with.
323
00:12:19,965 --> 00:12:22,298
♪ ♪
324
00:12:22,317 --> 00:12:26,077
I just don't feel like
I have had the best luck.
325
00:12:26,304 --> 00:12:29,563
I don't feel like I have picked
the right people.
326
00:12:29,583 --> 00:12:32,066
It just seems like
there's a lack of commitment
327
00:12:32,085 --> 00:12:33,659
Or maybe fear of commitment.
328
00:12:33,812 --> 00:12:36,312
And so what better way
to avoid that
329
00:12:36,331 --> 00:12:38,147
Than to go into a process,
like,
330
00:12:38,166 --> 00:12:39,740
Knowing you're gonna
get married?
331
00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:42,076
- ♪ push it
right around the corner ♪
332
00:12:42,095 --> 00:12:44,487
- I am just looking
for, like, my full time,
333
00:12:44,506 --> 00:12:45,838
Permanent cuddle buddy.
334
00:12:45,932 --> 00:12:48,341
[laughs]
335
00:12:48,493 --> 00:12:50,918
- I am so happy for you
because I know that you deserve
336
00:12:51,012 --> 00:12:52,771
Somebody that also wants
to be married,
337
00:12:52,998 --> 00:12:54,755
Somebody that has, you know,
their life together,
338
00:12:54,775 --> 00:12:55,848
'cause you already do.
339
00:12:55,942 --> 00:12:57,166
- Adios, [bleep] boys.
340
00:12:57,260 --> 00:12:59,110
[laughter]
- adios, [bleep] boys!
341
00:12:59,262 --> 00:13:00,686
- I'll toast.
- Bye. Hasta luego.
342
00:13:00,839 --> 00:13:03,172
- Bye.
[laughter]
343
00:13:03,191 --> 00:13:06,284
Do you guys have any concerns
about me marrying a stranger?
344
00:13:06,435 --> 00:13:08,027
- I feel like you've done
worse things with a stranger.
345
00:13:08,121 --> 00:13:10,288
So...
- [laughing]
346
00:13:10,439 --> 00:13:10,914
[laughter]
347
00:13:15,278 --> 00:13:16,777
- ♪ love ain't far away ♪
348
00:13:16,797 --> 00:13:19,539
- We've matched five couples
to be married at first sight.
349
00:13:19,633 --> 00:13:23,026
The second couple
is domynique and mackinley.
350
00:13:23,044 --> 00:13:24,193
[upbeat country music]
351
00:13:24,212 --> 00:13:26,287
- ♪ maybe tomorrow ♪
352
00:13:26,381 --> 00:13:27,639
♪ I'll sing a sweeter song ♪
353
00:13:27,790 --> 00:13:29,699
♪ 'cause I'm moving on ♪
354
00:13:29,717 --> 00:13:30,624
♪ yeah, moving on ♪
355
00:13:30,718 --> 00:13:32,477
- That's a winner.
356
00:13:32,628 --> 00:13:34,461
- I moved down here
from flint, michigan,
357
00:13:34,556 --> 00:13:36,981
Four months ago to try to find
love in nashville.
358
00:13:37,133 --> 00:13:39,300
I'm currently staying
with the donnellys.
359
00:13:39,319 --> 00:13:40,877
I have known them
since I was in fifth grade.
360
00:13:40,970 --> 00:13:42,303
They're like a second family
to me.
361
00:13:42,322 --> 00:13:44,213
Oh, he has it.
362
00:13:44,307 --> 00:13:45,806
- It's a little difficult
coming in,
363
00:13:45,826 --> 00:13:48,326
Knowing if people will be on
board with what you're doing,
364
00:13:48,477 --> 00:13:50,829
Because marrying a stranger
is so unconventional.
365
00:13:50,980 --> 00:13:54,315
But having support is obviously
a big deal to me,
366
00:13:54,334 --> 00:13:57,560
And their stamp of approval
means the world to me.
367
00:13:57,579 --> 00:13:59,838
I couldn't be happier
to be here in nashville.
368
00:13:59,989 --> 00:14:01,172
And I'm so grateful
for you guys
369
00:14:01,324 --> 00:14:02,915
Allowing me to, you know,
stay here
370
00:14:03,009 --> 00:14:05,568
While I made this transition.
371
00:14:05,587 --> 00:14:06,827
- Well, you're like
our second son,
372
00:14:06,921 --> 00:14:08,179
Other than this kid.
- That's right.
373
00:14:08,331 --> 00:14:09,496
- I appreciate it.
374
00:14:09,591 --> 00:14:11,182
I plan to not be here
too much longer.
375
00:14:11,409 --> 00:14:13,242
♪ ♪
376
00:14:13,336 --> 00:14:15,019
I'm getting married
in two weeks.
377
00:14:15,171 --> 00:14:18,764
- You--
- hey, congratulations!
378
00:14:18,917 --> 00:14:21,250
I think I'm gonna cry.
[laughter]
379
00:14:21,269 --> 00:14:24,921
- ♪ la-da-da-da,
da-da-da-da-da ♪
380
00:14:24,939 --> 00:14:27,699
♪ oh, you drive me
out of line ♪
381
00:14:27,926 --> 00:14:29,425
- I would consider myself
a sleeper.
382
00:14:29,518 --> 00:14:32,095
I'm, like, introverted
and somewhat shy,
383
00:14:32,113 --> 00:14:34,188
And then after a week
of really getting to know me,
384
00:14:34,282 --> 00:14:37,191
I'm fun, outgoing, and sassy.
385
00:14:37,210 --> 00:14:39,043
[bleep] talker.
386
00:14:39,195 --> 00:14:41,195
I have an older brother
and sister.
387
00:14:41,289 --> 00:14:43,272
We're all
a little bit different.
388
00:14:43,291 --> 00:14:45,124
They both have their master's
and both very successful,
389
00:14:45,218 --> 00:14:47,368
And I dropped out of college
390
00:14:47,387 --> 00:14:50,613
And started my own business
in the cannabis industry.
391
00:14:50,632 --> 00:14:52,873
You know, I'm definitely
the dreamer and entrepreneur.
392
00:14:52,893 --> 00:14:55,118
[soft music]
393
00:14:55,211 --> 00:14:57,211
My parents have been married
for 45 years,
394
00:14:57,230 --> 00:14:59,230
And that's something
I aspire to have.
395
00:14:59,457 --> 00:15:01,399
I did think I had it
with my ex.
396
00:15:01,626 --> 00:15:03,459
We were together
for a couple years.
397
00:15:03,552 --> 00:15:05,904
And we were on the verge
of marriage
398
00:15:06,055 --> 00:15:07,572
And getting engaged
and all those things,
399
00:15:07,799 --> 00:15:09,574
And then I get a text
one day from her
400
00:15:09,725 --> 00:15:11,409
Of a picture of her
wearing a ring,
401
00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:13,803
And I'm like, "oh, nice.
This is the ring you want."
402
00:15:13,821 --> 00:15:15,396
She's like,
"no, I just got engaged."
403
00:15:15,415 --> 00:15:18,082
[somber music]
404
00:15:18,234 --> 00:15:20,067
So I was heartbroken
when all this happened.
405
00:15:20,086 --> 00:15:23,087
And you know, no one knows
how to act or what to do.
406
00:15:23,314 --> 00:15:24,756
♪ ♪
407
00:15:24,907 --> 00:15:26,332
[laughs tearfully]
408
00:15:26,484 --> 00:15:28,834
- ♪ Friday night
when I come home ♪
409
00:15:28,929 --> 00:15:30,486
Heartbreak's tough.
410
00:15:30,505 --> 00:15:31,988
You know,
it wasn't meant to be.
411
00:15:32,006 --> 00:15:34,081
So here I am now.
412
00:15:34,175 --> 00:15:36,159
And I think maybe
this is meant to be.
413
00:15:36,252 --> 00:15:37,251
- ♪ can't stop this feeling ♪
414
00:15:37,270 --> 00:15:39,178
♪ can't help what's real ♪
415
00:15:39,272 --> 00:15:41,347
♪ you made my little old heart
stand still ♪
416
00:15:41,499 --> 00:15:42,923
- I'm 34 years old.
417
00:15:43,017 --> 00:15:44,333
I'm looking for love.
418
00:15:44,352 --> 00:15:47,111
I'm ready to settle down.
419
00:15:47,263 --> 00:15:49,188
I strive to have
what my parents have
420
00:15:49,340 --> 00:15:51,265
And my brother has
and my sister has.
421
00:15:51,284 --> 00:15:52,283
And I'm tired of dating.
422
00:15:52,510 --> 00:15:53,618
I wanna get married.
423
00:15:53,769 --> 00:15:56,179
I want a long-term
life partner,
424
00:15:56,272 --> 00:15:58,439
Somebody to bring me
out of my shell.
425
00:15:58,458 --> 00:15:59,791
And I'm ready
to marry a stranger.
426
00:16:00,018 --> 00:16:02,109
♪ ♪
427
00:16:02,128 --> 00:16:04,020
- Are you nervous?
- I am nervous.
428
00:16:04,038 --> 00:16:06,447
I'm nervous that, like,
429
00:16:06,466 --> 00:16:08,874
I wanna be everything
she wants me to be.
430
00:16:08,969 --> 00:16:11,118
Like, I want--
I hope I'm as good-looking,
431
00:16:11,212 --> 00:16:13,137
As savvy, as educated--
432
00:16:13,289 --> 00:16:15,531
- You be who you are.
- Yeah.
433
00:16:15,550 --> 00:16:17,200
I want her to be happy,
and I hope--
434
00:16:17,218 --> 00:16:19,552
You know, I want
a long-lasting marriage.
435
00:16:19,704 --> 00:16:20,812
- Well, you already won.
436
00:16:20,963 --> 00:16:22,981
You want her to be happy.
- Yeah.
437
00:16:23,132 --> 00:16:24,298
- That's what marriage is.
438
00:16:24,317 --> 00:16:26,892
- Absolutely.
439
00:16:26,987 --> 00:16:29,545
- In high school,
they had this talent show.
440
00:16:29,564 --> 00:16:32,323
And mack, for his talent,
441
00:16:32,475 --> 00:16:35,901
Wrote a love poem to his
ex-girlfriend at the time.
442
00:16:36,054 --> 00:16:38,221
He poured his heart out
to everybody,
443
00:16:38,314 --> 00:16:39,497
You know, in the audience,
444
00:16:39,724 --> 00:16:41,390
Talking about their
relationship.
445
00:16:41,409 --> 00:16:44,485
I mean, when he falls,
he falls hard.
446
00:16:44,504 --> 00:16:45,819
- I wanna settle down.
447
00:16:45,839 --> 00:16:48,080
I wanna get married,
have a family.
448
00:16:48,174 --> 00:16:49,915
And I wanna find love.
449
00:16:50,010 --> 00:16:52,677
♪ ♪
450
00:16:52,828 --> 00:16:55,571
- Domynique and mackinley
are a great match
451
00:16:55,590 --> 00:16:57,998
Because they possess
similar attachment styles
452
00:16:58,018 --> 00:16:59,575
In relationships.
453
00:16:59,594 --> 00:17:01,427
While they each have
an understanding
454
00:17:01,579 --> 00:17:03,670
Of needing to be supportive,
involved,
455
00:17:03,690 --> 00:17:05,523
And caring with their partner,
456
00:17:05,750 --> 00:17:07,750
They like independence
and don't want
457
00:17:07,769 --> 00:17:09,919
A spouse who is overly needy.
458
00:17:10,012 --> 00:17:12,196
Additionally,
domynique is looking
459
00:17:12,348 --> 00:17:15,700
For an older and more
emotionally mature partner,
460
00:17:15,851 --> 00:17:17,869
Which she will find
in mackinley.
461
00:17:18,096 --> 00:17:20,538
And mackinley is looking
for an optimistic
462
00:17:20,689 --> 00:17:22,540
And outgoing partner
like domynique,
463
00:17:22,767 --> 00:17:24,267
Who can help bring him
out of his shell
464
00:17:24,285 --> 00:17:25,951
And expand his horizons.
465
00:17:26,046 --> 00:17:29,196
[country rock music]
466
00:17:29,215 --> 00:17:33,367
- The third couple
is nicole and chris.
467
00:17:33,386 --> 00:17:35,219
- So I just got
to the restaurant,
468
00:17:35,446 --> 00:17:37,204
Where I'm about to tell
a few of my friends
469
00:17:37,223 --> 00:17:39,782
That I'm getting married
at first sight in two weeks.
470
00:17:39,801 --> 00:17:42,543
Hello, everyone.
All: Hi.
471
00:17:42,637 --> 00:17:43,877
- Two of them don't even know
472
00:17:43,897 --> 00:17:45,879
That I've been going through
this process,
473
00:17:45,899 --> 00:17:48,474
So I think they're really gonna
be just, like, mind blown.
474
00:17:48,626 --> 00:17:52,128
I'm really nervous
because if they're not excited
475
00:17:52,221 --> 00:17:53,720
Or supportive,
then I think that's gonna
476
00:17:53,740 --> 00:17:55,981
Be really hard for me.
477
00:17:56,134 --> 00:17:57,575
- Oof.
478
00:17:57,726 --> 00:18:00,136
- So I've wrangled
to my support group
479
00:18:00,229 --> 00:18:02,413
Because, you know, jackie
and I are from new york,
480
00:18:02,565 --> 00:18:04,156
So she knows the new york
dating scene.
481
00:18:04,309 --> 00:18:07,476
And I thought this would be
better, and it has not been.
482
00:18:07,570 --> 00:18:10,737
Like, I wish I had met
the love of my life at 22
483
00:18:10,832 --> 00:18:12,739
And just had this done
and over with,
484
00:18:12,759 --> 00:18:14,908
But everything has happened
in my life for a reason.
485
00:18:14,928 --> 00:18:18,078
And I really believe
that now is the time,
486
00:18:18,098 --> 00:18:20,598
Because I'm actually getting
married in two weeks.
487
00:18:20,825 --> 00:18:23,768
♪ ♪
488
00:18:23,919 --> 00:18:26,329
- Nicole, stop it.
489
00:18:26,347 --> 00:18:29,423
[tense music]
490
00:18:29,442 --> 00:18:30,608
- Oh, my god.
491
00:18:30,759 --> 00:18:31,592
- I need more details.
- I know.
492
00:18:31,611 --> 00:18:32,852
- Who is this person?
493
00:18:33,004 --> 00:18:34,520
- Um, he's a stranger.
494
00:18:34,614 --> 00:18:36,339
- What?
495
00:18:36,432 --> 00:18:39,099
- I've been working with
"married at first sight,"
496
00:18:39,193 --> 00:18:41,026
With matchmakers,
expert matchmakers,
497
00:18:41,179 --> 00:18:42,453
Who have been
putting me through
498
00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:45,456
This rigorous
interview process.
499
00:18:45,683 --> 00:18:48,108
And they have found me
a husband.
500
00:18:48,128 --> 00:18:50,128
- Oh, my gosh.
501
00:18:50,279 --> 00:18:52,037
- I was not ready for you
to say you're getting married.
502
00:18:52,190 --> 00:18:53,297
- I'm getting married.
503
00:18:53,449 --> 00:18:56,134
Holy moly.
504
00:18:56,285 --> 00:18:58,361
- ♪ why you gotta be
such a basic bitch? ♪
505
00:18:58,379 --> 00:19:00,138
♪ ♪
506
00:19:00,365 --> 00:19:02,473
♪ who you gonna put
in the next heartbreak ♪
507
00:19:02,625 --> 00:19:04,550
- I'm a bitch that has
too big of a heart.
508
00:19:04,702 --> 00:19:07,127
Even when I'm super loving
and compassionate,
509
00:19:07,221 --> 00:19:09,372
There's always a side of sass,
because that's just who I am.
510
00:19:09,390 --> 00:19:10,706
I'm always serving it up.
511
00:19:10,725 --> 00:19:12,391
[upbeat music]
512
00:19:12,485 --> 00:19:14,318
I grew up in queens.
513
00:19:14,470 --> 00:19:16,303
I grew up with my brother,
my mom, and my dad
514
00:19:16,397 --> 00:19:18,381
Until they got divorced.
515
00:19:18,399 --> 00:19:20,807
My mom is full italian.
516
00:19:20,827 --> 00:19:22,976
She will tell you she's fbi,
full-blooded italian.
517
00:19:22,996 --> 00:19:24,311
That's her thing.
518
00:19:24,405 --> 00:19:25,721
And my dad is jewish.
519
00:19:25,740 --> 00:19:27,147
I might be half italian,
520
00:19:27,241 --> 00:19:29,316
But I have
the full italian blood.
521
00:19:29,410 --> 00:19:31,243
Whenever we're in a situation
that's upsetting,
522
00:19:31,396 --> 00:19:33,896
I'll say,
I'm about to go fbi on him.
523
00:19:33,915 --> 00:19:35,822
Doesn't come out that often,
but when it does,
524
00:19:35,917 --> 00:19:37,157
You might have to call
the real fbi.
525
00:19:37,251 --> 00:19:38,234
I'm just kidding.
526
00:19:38,252 --> 00:19:39,826
♪ ♪
527
00:19:39,846 --> 00:19:41,420
I have a dog named charlie,
528
00:19:41,572 --> 00:19:43,072
And he is not just a pet.
529
00:19:43,090 --> 00:19:44,665
He's my baby.
530
00:19:44,684 --> 00:19:46,575
He's a fellow libra like me.
531
00:19:46,594 --> 00:19:48,335
I do a lot of ridiculous things
for my dog.
532
00:19:48,354 --> 00:19:50,413
[playful music]
533
00:19:50,431 --> 00:19:52,839
I call it
piggy puppet theater.
534
00:19:52,934 --> 00:19:55,193
And we have a lot
of squeaky pig toys.
535
00:19:55,420 --> 00:19:57,344
♪ ♪
536
00:19:57,438 --> 00:19:59,179
So it'll be like,
"squeak, squeak.
537
00:19:59,199 --> 00:20:00,364
I went to the market today."
538
00:20:00,516 --> 00:20:01,924
And it'll be like,
"squeak, squeak,
539
00:20:01,943 --> 00:20:04,093
What did you get
at the market today?"
540
00:20:04,186 --> 00:20:06,186
"squeak, squeak, I got
some fruits and veggies."
541
00:20:06,206 --> 00:20:07,930
"squeak, squeak."
542
00:20:07,949 --> 00:20:09,598
And then he will take
the piggy
543
00:20:09,617 --> 00:20:11,191
That's resonating with him
the most in that moment,
544
00:20:11,211 --> 00:20:12,618
And then we'll play with it.
545
00:20:12,712 --> 00:20:14,103
So I have the dog,
546
00:20:14,196 --> 00:20:15,696
And I'm looking
for the husband.
547
00:20:15,790 --> 00:20:17,882
- ♪ baby, I'm a gold rush ♪
548
00:20:18,033 --> 00:20:19,959
♪ yeah, if you want
to be with me ♪
549
00:20:20,053 --> 00:20:21,944
♪ you better step it up ♪
550
00:20:21,963 --> 00:20:23,888
- I have not been successful
dating in nashville.
551
00:20:24,115 --> 00:20:26,373
I paint every single red flag
green.
552
00:20:26,392 --> 00:20:29,285
So if I'm in a relationship
that isn't going well
553
00:20:29,378 --> 00:20:30,636
Or just isn't right for me,
554
00:20:30,730 --> 00:20:32,955
Instead of acknowledging that
555
00:20:33,048 --> 00:20:35,307
And saying, "okay, thank you.
Let's try again,"
556
00:20:35,460 --> 00:20:37,718
I push too hard
to make it work.
557
00:20:37,812 --> 00:20:40,980
And then it doesn't work,
and I'm horribly disappointed
558
00:20:41,132 --> 00:20:43,557
Because I've given
everything I have.
559
00:20:43,576 --> 00:20:44,891
And that's definitely
a me thing,
560
00:20:44,911 --> 00:20:46,635
But it's also the guys
I'm picking.
561
00:20:46,654 --> 00:20:49,062
♪ ♪
562
00:20:49,082 --> 00:20:50,731
I know the end result I want.
563
00:20:50,825 --> 00:20:52,475
And dating the way I have
564
00:20:52,493 --> 00:20:53,993
Has not gotten me
to that end result.
565
00:20:54,087 --> 00:20:57,421
And I'm ready to be a wife.
566
00:20:57,573 --> 00:20:59,740
And I do have too much left
to give.
567
00:20:59,834 --> 00:21:01,650
I mean,
it's exploding out of me,
568
00:21:01,744 --> 00:21:03,094
Which I think is why
I'm so animated,
569
00:21:03,245 --> 00:21:04,320
Because there's just
so much love
570
00:21:04,413 --> 00:21:05,746
In this little, petite body
571
00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:07,265
That needs to come out.
572
00:21:07,416 --> 00:21:09,658
- ♪ yeah, let's take a ride ♪
573
00:21:09,677 --> 00:21:11,269
- I'm really looking forward
to the little things
574
00:21:11,420 --> 00:21:13,271
With my husband,
like having my husband there
575
00:21:13,498 --> 00:21:15,347
In the morning,
or we eat dinner together,
576
00:21:15,500 --> 00:21:17,833
Walk our dog--our dog, wow.
577
00:21:17,852 --> 00:21:20,185
We walk charlie together.
578
00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:23,188
I just said our dog.
I didn't even think.
579
00:21:23,341 --> 00:21:25,190
That just came
out of my mouth--wow.
580
00:21:25,285 --> 00:21:28,101
'cause I'm getting married...
581
00:21:28,121 --> 00:21:30,846
To charlie's dad.
582
00:21:30,939 --> 00:21:32,197
Wow, okay.
583
00:21:32,350 --> 00:21:34,350
Sorry. Ooh.
584
00:21:34,443 --> 00:21:35,609
- You've never met this guy?
585
00:21:35,628 --> 00:21:37,019
- I will not meet him
586
00:21:37,038 --> 00:21:38,354
Until we are officially
getting married.
587
00:21:38,372 --> 00:21:39,780
- And that doesn't make you
nervous at all?
588
00:21:39,874 --> 00:21:41,540
- Uh, of course
it makes me nervous.
589
00:21:41,692 --> 00:21:42,858
I mean, every day I wake up,
590
00:21:42,877 --> 00:21:44,376
I'm like, "what are you doing?"
591
00:21:44,470 --> 00:21:47,621
- Like, I wouldn't buy a car
without test driving it.
592
00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:49,640
Like, what if--I'm just saying.
593
00:21:49,792 --> 00:21:51,124
What if he, like--
594
00:21:51,218 --> 00:21:53,035
- Oh, he's not good in bed?
- Yeah.
595
00:21:53,054 --> 00:21:55,037
[laughs]
- I'm gonna have to teach him.
596
00:21:55,056 --> 00:21:56,797
- I'm so worried.
597
00:21:56,816 --> 00:21:58,965
- You know, do I want to? No.
598
00:21:58,985 --> 00:22:01,485
But that's not grounds
for divorce.
599
00:22:01,712 --> 00:22:03,379
♪ ♪
600
00:22:03,472 --> 00:22:04,897
This is a last resort for me
601
00:22:05,049 --> 00:22:06,231
Because I've tried
everything else,
602
00:22:06,326 --> 00:22:08,475
And it hasn't worked.
603
00:22:08,494 --> 00:22:10,494
And I feel hopeful about this.
604
00:22:10,646 --> 00:22:13,164
And I haven't felt hope
like this in such a long time.
605
00:22:13,391 --> 00:22:15,333
♪ ♪
606
00:22:19,672 --> 00:22:21,413
- ♪ come along ♪
607
00:22:21,507 --> 00:22:24,567
- We've matched five couples
to be married at first sight.
608
00:22:24,660 --> 00:22:27,494
The third couple
is nicole and chris.
609
00:22:27,513 --> 00:22:29,572
- ♪ come along ♪
610
00:22:29,590 --> 00:22:31,924
♪ for some supersonic
rock and roll ♪
611
00:22:32,076 --> 00:22:36,187
♪ ♪
612
00:22:36,338 --> 00:22:38,097
- Big part of why
I wanted you to meet me here--
613
00:22:38,191 --> 00:22:40,432
I have some big news.
614
00:22:40,585 --> 00:22:42,509
I'm getting--I'm engaged.
615
00:22:42,528 --> 00:22:43,752
I'm getting married
in two weeks.
616
00:22:43,771 --> 00:22:46,847
[tense music]
617
00:22:46,866 --> 00:22:48,107
- Are you serious?
618
00:22:48,259 --> 00:22:49,533
- Yeah, swear to god, dude.
619
00:22:49,685 --> 00:22:51,427
- Actually, you're engaged
620
00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:52,185
And getting married
in two weeks?
621
00:22:52,205 --> 00:22:53,704
- Yeah. Like,
622
00:22:53,931 --> 00:22:55,355
I've literally never even
lived with a girl before,
623
00:22:55,449 --> 00:22:56,932
Never been engaged.
624
00:22:56,951 --> 00:22:58,525
And now I'm just taking
that plunge,
625
00:22:58,619 --> 00:22:59,451
Taking that step.
626
00:22:59,604 --> 00:23:01,027
♪ ♪
627
00:23:01,047 --> 00:23:02,287
- ♪ good nights ♪
628
00:23:02,382 --> 00:23:04,197
♪ fellas by the fireside ♪
629
00:23:04,291 --> 00:23:06,217
♪ sippin' on that old line ♪
630
00:23:06,368 --> 00:23:08,277
♪ pour me up one more ♪
631
00:23:08,370 --> 00:23:10,295
- I've never been able
to be, like,
632
00:23:10,448 --> 00:23:11,780
That type of mean person.
633
00:23:11,799 --> 00:23:13,966
It's just not in my dna.
634
00:23:14,060 --> 00:23:15,893
They always say nice guys
finish last.
635
00:23:16,120 --> 00:23:18,229
In this experiment,
I hope I finish first.
636
00:23:18,456 --> 00:23:20,064
And I like to make
people laugh,
637
00:23:20,215 --> 00:23:22,458
So I like to be the comedic
relief when possible.
638
00:23:22,551 --> 00:23:24,735
I do like impersonations
and stuff.
639
00:23:24,962 --> 00:23:25,903
[as schwarzenegger]
"oh, get to the chopper!"
640
00:23:26,130 --> 00:23:28,297
"hey, do it now!
What are you waiting for?"
641
00:23:28,315 --> 00:23:29,632
[as stallone]
hey, what are you guys doing?
642
00:23:29,650 --> 00:23:31,575
I'm sylvester stallone.
What'd I do?
643
00:23:31,727 --> 00:23:33,411
[normal voice] they're
actually not that horrible.
644
00:23:33,562 --> 00:23:34,970
[laughs] so...
645
00:23:34,989 --> 00:23:38,323
[upbeat music]
646
00:23:38,418 --> 00:23:41,143
I'm very kind of, like,
a hopeless romantic.
647
00:23:41,162 --> 00:23:43,236
I do not believe
that chivalry's dead.
648
00:23:43,256 --> 00:23:45,423
- ♪ baby, give me those,
don't stop ♪
649
00:23:45,650 --> 00:23:47,258
- Walking on the side
of the street
650
00:23:47,485 --> 00:23:49,260
Closest to the cars
instead of her,
651
00:23:49,487 --> 00:23:52,171
Opening doors,
giving flowers for no reason.
652
00:23:52,323 --> 00:23:54,080
♪ ♪
653
00:23:54,175 --> 00:23:56,249
Like, I'm definitely selfless,
654
00:23:56,343 --> 00:23:58,327
And so I put people before me.
655
00:23:58,420 --> 00:24:00,587
And I think at times,
that can kinda burn me,
656
00:24:00,606 --> 00:24:02,589
And people take advantage
of that.
657
00:24:02,608 --> 00:24:04,016
- ♪ heart up on a sleeve ♪
658
00:24:04,110 --> 00:24:06,852
♪ wear my heart
up on a sleeve for you ♪
659
00:24:06,946 --> 00:24:08,446
- My heart has been broken,
660
00:24:08,673 --> 00:24:10,005
And it is a little tough
to say, but like,
661
00:24:10,098 --> 00:24:11,190
I'm the typical person
where literally
662
00:24:11,284 --> 00:24:12,783
All my friends are like,
663
00:24:12,935 --> 00:24:14,118
"I can't believe you haven't
found anybody yet.
664
00:24:14,269 --> 00:24:15,861
I can't believe
you're not with anybody yet."
665
00:24:16,013 --> 00:24:17,863
And I'm even kinda baffled
by myself.
666
00:24:18,015 --> 00:24:20,291
So I'm hoping that that's what
this experiment will bring
667
00:24:20,518 --> 00:24:23,109
Because I've been
absolutely horrible
668
00:24:23,204 --> 00:24:24,795
At picking my own partners.
669
00:24:24,947 --> 00:24:28,615
- ♪ oh, I don't wanna
lose myself again ♪
670
00:24:28,709 --> 00:24:30,468
- Divorce to me means failure.
671
00:24:30,695 --> 00:24:32,861
My parents were divorced
when I was very young.
672
00:24:32,955 --> 00:24:35,288
And so, like,
there is that fear.
673
00:24:35,382 --> 00:24:38,309
I want my forever person.
674
00:24:38,460 --> 00:24:41,145
So, like, hoping that,
you know, I can find someone
675
00:24:41,372 --> 00:24:43,706
Who's similar as me,
who's nice, a giver,
676
00:24:43,799 --> 00:24:47,392
Caring, and will, like,
put me before themselves
677
00:24:47,545 --> 00:24:49,394
Just as much as
I'll put them before myself.
678
00:24:49,547 --> 00:24:51,880
♪ ♪
679
00:24:51,899 --> 00:24:53,382
- You really are, like,
680
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:54,900
One of the nicest people
I've ever met.
681
00:24:55,052 --> 00:24:56,643
Do you ever feel
like sometimes girls think
682
00:24:56,662 --> 00:24:58,554
That you're too nice?
683
00:24:58,572 --> 00:25:00,164
- Dude, I mean,
684
00:25:00,315 --> 00:25:01,648
The nice guys finish last
thing,
685
00:25:01,742 --> 00:25:02,666
Everybody talks about that.
686
00:25:02,818 --> 00:25:04,317
Like, I get tired
of hearing it.
687
00:25:04,337 --> 00:25:07,412
And it's so much true,
but like--at times.
688
00:25:07,507 --> 00:25:09,340
But I'm like, "I'm not gonna
change who I am for anybody."
689
00:25:09,491 --> 00:25:11,083
I think she's at
a point in her life
690
00:25:11,177 --> 00:25:13,085
Where she's looking
for someone genuine and real.
691
00:25:13,237 --> 00:25:15,012
And so am I,
and it's one of those things
692
00:25:15,239 --> 00:25:17,089
That I feel like I'm gonna do
everything I can
693
00:25:17,183 --> 00:25:20,409
To, like, make her proud
that, like, I'm her husband.
694
00:25:20,427 --> 00:25:22,594
♪ ♪
695
00:25:22,688 --> 00:25:24,413
- Nicole and chris
are a natural match
696
00:25:24,431 --> 00:25:26,415
Because they're both
big-hearted
697
00:25:26,433 --> 00:25:28,692
And deeply committed
individuals
698
00:25:28,844 --> 00:25:30,510
Whose biggest fear in life
699
00:25:30,530 --> 00:25:33,197
Is that they will not find
their other half.
700
00:25:33,348 --> 00:25:35,758
Nicole has a history
of dating men
701
00:25:35,776 --> 00:25:37,593
Who treated her poorly,
702
00:25:37,611 --> 00:25:40,946
And nice guy chris will be
a safe space for nicole,
703
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:44,266
Providing her with the love
and support that she deserves.
704
00:25:44,285 --> 00:25:46,877
Meanwhile, chris
is dreaming of a marriage
705
00:25:47,104 --> 00:25:49,713
That's full of laughter
and goofiness,
706
00:25:49,940 --> 00:25:53,700
And quirky nicole never takes
herself too seriously.
707
00:25:53,794 --> 00:25:55,719
And with nicole and chris
708
00:25:55,946 --> 00:25:58,371
Equally obsessed
with their dog children,
709
00:25:58,391 --> 00:26:00,783
This pairing is sure to lead
to puppy love
710
00:26:00,801 --> 00:26:03,802
And a marriage
that lasts a lifetime.
711
00:26:03,896 --> 00:26:06,288
[soft music]
712
00:26:06,381 --> 00:26:10,459
- The fourth couple
is jasmine and airris.
713
00:26:10,477 --> 00:26:12,294
- I have not told
my family and friends
714
00:26:12,313 --> 00:26:13,462
That I'm about to get married.
715
00:26:13,555 --> 00:26:15,464
I think they're
gonna be shocked.
716
00:26:15,482 --> 00:26:17,149
Hopefully, everyone's
gonna be super supportive.
717
00:26:17,301 --> 00:26:18,909
But my cousin fallina,
718
00:26:19,136 --> 00:26:20,803
She's not gonna hide
how she's really feeling,
719
00:26:20,896 --> 00:26:22,562
So she's gonna keep it, like,
all the way real.
720
00:26:22,582 --> 00:26:24,748
So yeah, I'm pretty nervous.
721
00:26:24,975 --> 00:26:26,325
♪ ♪
722
00:26:26,419 --> 00:26:28,994
- So why are we here?
723
00:26:29,088 --> 00:26:31,237
- Uh, you probably think
724
00:26:31,257 --> 00:26:32,831
We celebrating my new job,
probably.
725
00:26:32,925 --> 00:26:34,166
But...
726
00:26:34,260 --> 00:26:36,576
[suspenseful music]
727
00:26:36,596 --> 00:26:38,503
You know, I've kinda been
going through the process,
728
00:26:38,656 --> 00:26:40,989
Getting married at first sight,
you know?
729
00:26:41,008 --> 00:26:43,325
Uh, well, two days ago,
730
00:26:43,418 --> 00:26:45,160
While I was at
the sneaker store,
731
00:26:45,179 --> 00:26:47,087
Like, they officially told me
they found me a match.
732
00:26:47,106 --> 00:26:48,421
They found me a wife.
733
00:26:48,515 --> 00:26:50,682
So I'm getting married
in two weeks.
734
00:26:50,835 --> 00:26:51,609
♪ ♪
735
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:52,943
[laughter]
736
00:26:53,170 --> 00:26:54,336
- To who?
737
00:26:54,355 --> 00:26:55,779
- I don't know her yet.
738
00:26:56,006 --> 00:26:57,097
- Wait, who--wait.
Wait, wait, wait. Wait.
739
00:26:57,191 --> 00:26:59,675
- Two weeks?
- Two weeks.
740
00:26:59,768 --> 00:27:00,934
- I don't know
how they found anybody.
741
00:27:01,028 --> 00:27:02,694
You're so picky.
[laughter]
742
00:27:02,788 --> 00:27:04,788
- I mean, I am picky,
but they know that, though.
743
00:27:05,015 --> 00:27:06,531
- They actually found you
somebody?
744
00:27:06,626 --> 00:27:08,108
- Yes, they found me a match.
745
00:27:08,127 --> 00:27:09,685
- They must've found you
over the last hour.
746
00:27:09,778 --> 00:27:11,019
[laughter]
747
00:27:11,113 --> 00:27:13,113
He was the last one
they picked.
748
00:27:13,207 --> 00:27:15,132
- ♪ I'ma do it right ♪
749
00:27:15,283 --> 00:27:18,193
♪ and I ain't never
turning back again ♪
750
00:27:18,212 --> 00:27:22,364
- The one time that I did make
myself emotionally available,
751
00:27:22,383 --> 00:27:24,549
It backfired on me,
and I got hurt.
752
00:27:24,644 --> 00:27:26,869
- ♪ making moves while
they try to steal my energy ♪
753
00:27:26,962 --> 00:27:28,720
- It happened to me
at, like, 28.
754
00:27:28,873 --> 00:27:31,148
Like, she just
kinda, like, ghosted me.
755
00:27:31,299 --> 00:27:33,317
And I've ghosted before,
but I've never been ghosted.
756
00:27:33,544 --> 00:27:35,727
So it was like
she pulled a me on me.
757
00:27:35,821 --> 00:27:38,397
My male ego was, like,
very, very fragile.
758
00:27:38,491 --> 00:27:41,400
So I literally spent, like,
almost the next decade
759
00:27:41,494 --> 00:27:43,810
Just having my guard up.
760
00:27:43,829 --> 00:27:45,904
- ♪ I'll go around the fire ♪
761
00:27:45,998 --> 00:27:49,408
- Marriage, it almost seems
like a fairy tale, right?
762
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:50,742
'cause it's, like,
something I didn't see,
763
00:27:50,836 --> 00:27:52,561
Like, tangibly in front of me.
764
00:27:52,579 --> 00:27:56,173
My mom, she had me
when she was 19.
765
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,917
Unfortunately, in '94,
my father was murdered.
766
00:27:59,069 --> 00:28:00,827
And I never even had,
like, a solid stepdad
767
00:28:00,921 --> 00:28:02,680
Or somebody that stuck around.
768
00:28:02,831 --> 00:28:06,183
So that has been, like, a void,
you know, that's been missing.
769
00:28:06,410 --> 00:28:07,910
- ♪ I get paid
for my good vibes ♪
770
00:28:08,003 --> 00:28:09,669
♪ but I've been upset ♪
771
00:28:09,689 --> 00:28:12,414
- For a while, I was looking
for the perfect person.
772
00:28:12,507 --> 00:28:14,266
And, like,
the older I've gotten,
773
00:28:14,418 --> 00:28:15,859
I've slowly come
to the realization
774
00:28:16,086 --> 00:28:18,921
That that perfect person
doesn't exist.
775
00:28:19,014 --> 00:28:20,939
I just had to, like,
take a long look
776
00:28:21,091 --> 00:28:22,348
In the mirror, you know?
777
00:28:22,368 --> 00:28:23,759
Like, I'm not perfect, right?
778
00:28:23,852 --> 00:28:25,761
So it sounds kinda crazy
when, like,
779
00:28:25,779 --> 00:28:27,687
You're looking
for the perfect person
780
00:28:27,707 --> 00:28:29,522
And you have all these flaws.
781
00:28:29,542 --> 00:28:32,617
- ♪ ooh ♪
782
00:28:32,712 --> 00:28:35,103
- When I met my ex's parents,
and I seen,
783
00:28:35,197 --> 00:28:37,105
Like, her dad being superman,
I was like,
784
00:28:37,124 --> 00:28:39,124
"wow, like,
this is what it could be.
785
00:28:39,276 --> 00:28:40,943
This is what it's
supposed to look like."
786
00:28:40,961 --> 00:28:43,111
I can only imagine, like,
what it would be like
787
00:28:43,205 --> 00:28:44,871
To have a family of my own.
788
00:28:44,890 --> 00:28:46,890
You know, I'm ready for that.
789
00:28:47,117 --> 00:28:49,618
And so, you know,
I'm trusting the experts.
790
00:28:49,636 --> 00:28:51,211
I'm looking forward
to seeing the person
791
00:28:51,305 --> 00:28:52,471
That they matched me with.
792
00:28:52,623 --> 00:28:55,215
- ♪ light my fire ♪
793
00:28:55,234 --> 00:28:57,459
- Hopefully, that's someone
who can, like, elevate me,
794
00:28:57,552 --> 00:28:58,718
Uplift me.
795
00:28:58,812 --> 00:29:00,571
I'm still a work in progress.
796
00:29:00,798 --> 00:29:02,631
And hopefully, you know,
she can join me
797
00:29:02,649 --> 00:29:04,408
In that journey of helping me
become better
798
00:29:04,635 --> 00:29:06,969
And to do this thing
called love,
799
00:29:06,987 --> 00:29:08,412
Be married at first sight.
800
00:29:08,639 --> 00:29:10,414
♪ ♪
801
00:29:10,565 --> 00:29:12,565
- I don't know.
This is a little over the top
802
00:29:12,659 --> 00:29:14,901
For someone who I feel like
803
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,904
You lack a lot of experiences
804
00:29:17,923 --> 00:29:19,423
In traditional--
805
00:29:19,650 --> 00:29:22,075
What we'll call
traditional relationships.
806
00:29:22,094 --> 00:29:24,428
You never shared a space
with anyone.
807
00:29:24,579 --> 00:29:27,839
He's never been in a truly
committed relationship.
808
00:29:27,933 --> 00:29:30,934
And, like, to just go from...
809
00:29:31,086 --> 00:29:32,844
Playing the field out here
810
00:29:32,938 --> 00:29:36,422
To be getting married
in two weeks with someone
811
00:29:36,442 --> 00:29:39,926
That you absolutely know
nothing about, like,
812
00:29:40,020 --> 00:29:42,428
You're planning to do this
for the rest of your life.
813
00:29:42,448 --> 00:29:46,358
Like, it just seems
really extreme to me.
814
00:29:46,452 --> 00:29:49,011
Airris should walk away now.
815
00:29:49,104 --> 00:29:50,788
I just don't personally think
that he's ready
816
00:29:50,939 --> 00:29:54,625
For everything that comes
with a marriage.
817
00:29:54,852 --> 00:29:58,186
I would like to see him,
like, really take the time
818
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:01,189
To get to know someone
and try, first,
819
00:30:01,283 --> 00:30:04,526
Commitment
through traditional dating,
820
00:30:04,545 --> 00:30:06,470
Versus just going
to the extreme.
821
00:30:06,621 --> 00:30:08,305
- I like dating.
822
00:30:08,456 --> 00:30:10,882
You know, I've had fun,
but it hasn't worked.
823
00:30:10,976 --> 00:30:13,811
It hasn't brought me, like,
ultimate fulfillment and joy.
824
00:30:14,038 --> 00:30:17,297
So maybe, like, this is my,
like, seismic shift
825
00:30:17,391 --> 00:30:20,800
That's happening, putting me
in this moment, right here,
826
00:30:20,894 --> 00:30:22,561
Right now, to meet my wife.
827
00:30:22,713 --> 00:30:24,304
♪ ♪
828
00:30:24,323 --> 00:30:26,323
- Don't do this.
829
00:30:26,550 --> 00:30:27,282
♪ ♪
830
00:30:34,482 --> 00:30:37,576
- The fourth couple
is jasmine and airris.
831
00:30:37,670 --> 00:30:40,504
- I'm just glad to have
everybody here today.
832
00:30:40,731 --> 00:30:41,839
And we gonna play some games
and have
833
00:30:42,066 --> 00:30:43,398
Our little typical
cousins' night.
834
00:30:43,417 --> 00:30:44,657
- Oh, let me go get the drinks.
835
00:30:44,677 --> 00:30:46,159
- Oh, I said
we need a shot, girl.
836
00:30:46,178 --> 00:30:48,904
- Okay, okay.
- While I pour a shot.
837
00:30:48,922 --> 00:30:51,740
I have been raised
with a extremely close family.
838
00:30:51,758 --> 00:30:53,909
We do everything together.
839
00:30:53,927 --> 00:30:55,686
We have our family trips.
840
00:30:55,837 --> 00:30:57,503
We have our family reunions
every single year.
841
00:30:57,598 --> 00:31:00,340
So it's super important to me
for them to support me.
842
00:31:00,434 --> 00:31:02,767
But my auntie pat,
843
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:05,604
She has had a lot to say about
my previous relationships.
844
00:31:05,698 --> 00:31:07,939
She's very direct,
very straightforward,
845
00:31:08,092 --> 00:31:09,515
And there's no question
about how she feels
846
00:31:09,535 --> 00:31:11,034
Or what she feels.
847
00:31:11,261 --> 00:31:13,595
So I'm a little nervous
at this point.
848
00:31:13,614 --> 00:31:15,205
- What games we finna play?
849
00:31:15,432 --> 00:31:16,932
- We're gonna play
never have I ever.
850
00:31:16,950 --> 00:31:19,951
- Oh, I came for karaoke,
not no never have I ever.
851
00:31:20,104 --> 00:31:22,045
- Well, we gonna play
never have I ever first,
852
00:31:22,197 --> 00:31:23,213
And then we'll do karaoke.
- Mm-hmm.
853
00:31:23,365 --> 00:31:24,289
- Okay.
- Okay.
854
00:31:24,441 --> 00:31:25,790
- All right.
855
00:31:25,885 --> 00:31:28,368
- Never have I ever...
856
00:31:28,387 --> 00:31:30,870
[suspenseful music]
857
00:31:30,964 --> 00:31:32,114
Married a stranger.
858
00:31:32,207 --> 00:31:34,516
[music winds down, stops]
859
00:31:36,954 --> 00:31:38,954
Because the experts told me
860
00:31:39,047 --> 00:31:40,288
That I'm getting married
at first sight.
861
00:31:40,382 --> 00:31:42,474
[all shrieking]
[laughter]
862
00:31:42,626 --> 00:31:43,792
- What?
863
00:31:43,810 --> 00:31:47,129
[laughter]
864
00:31:47,147 --> 00:31:49,297
- Yes!
- Congratulations!
865
00:31:49,391 --> 00:31:52,225
- Okay. All right, girl.
- Cheers.
866
00:31:52,244 --> 00:31:55,395
All: Clink, clink, clink,
clink, clink.
867
00:31:55,414 --> 00:31:58,231
- ♪ I'm the queen of hearts ♪
868
00:31:58,325 --> 00:32:01,493
♪ but don't call my bluff ♪
869
00:32:01,587 --> 00:32:04,254
- I'm a beauty queen
looking for my king.
870
00:32:04,406 --> 00:32:06,998
Yes, give me a black king,
for sure.
871
00:32:07,151 --> 00:32:08,833
♪ ♪
872
00:32:08,986 --> 00:32:10,410
I was miss virgin islands.
873
00:32:10,504 --> 00:32:11,929
I won miss tennessee.
874
00:32:12,156 --> 00:32:13,321
And then I went
to the national pageant,
875
00:32:13,340 --> 00:32:14,932
And I won the national titles.
876
00:32:15,159 --> 00:32:18,084
And then I won another
miss tennessee
877
00:32:18,103 --> 00:32:20,086
In the united states
of america's ms.,
878
00:32:20,180 --> 00:32:23,181
And I ended up winning united
states of america's ms. 2021.
879
00:32:23,275 --> 00:32:25,591
♪ ♪
880
00:32:25,611 --> 00:32:27,169
When I'm not
in the pageant world...
881
00:32:27,262 --> 00:32:29,171
- ♪ ra-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta ♪
882
00:32:29,189 --> 00:32:30,505
♪ we're feeling like this ♪
883
00:32:30,524 --> 00:32:32,023
- Cheerleading is my life.
884
00:32:32,117 --> 00:32:34,342
I coach six days a week.
885
00:32:34,361 --> 00:32:36,769
I coach 10 competitive teams.
886
00:32:36,789 --> 00:32:38,180
So cheerleading is, like,
my passion.
887
00:32:38,198 --> 00:32:39,698
It's my love.
888
00:32:39,850 --> 00:32:41,792
- ♪ I'm feeling like, whoa ♪
889
00:32:41,943 --> 00:32:44,369
- I feel like I'm in
a good space in life.
890
00:32:44,463 --> 00:32:47,447
And the only thing I'm truly
missing, in my opinion,
891
00:32:47,466 --> 00:32:49,858
Would be a husband
and children of my own.
892
00:32:49,951 --> 00:32:51,468
- ♪ I don't know what it is ♪
893
00:32:51,695 --> 00:32:53,286
♪ but I keep dreaming,
keep dreaming ♪
894
00:32:53,305 --> 00:32:54,879
- I wanna be married
at first sight
895
00:32:55,032 --> 00:32:57,032
Because I've just been
with too many men
896
00:32:57,050 --> 00:32:58,475
Who don't really know
what they want.
897
00:32:58,702 --> 00:33:00,811
So I wanna be with someone
who's committed,
898
00:33:01,038 --> 00:33:02,295
Ready to be a husband,
and you know,
899
00:33:02,314 --> 00:33:03,981
Wants to be married
just as much as I do.
900
00:33:04,132 --> 00:33:06,057
- ♪ ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh ♪
901
00:33:06,151 --> 00:33:10,470
- I feel like I'm single
because I can be stubborn
902
00:33:10,489 --> 00:33:13,565
And not put time aside
for, you know, my relationship.
903
00:33:13,717 --> 00:33:16,067
My family says the same thing,
like, "you're always working.
904
00:33:16,161 --> 00:33:17,828
You're always gone."
905
00:33:18,055 --> 00:33:19,571
But I'm definitely
a relationship girl.
906
00:33:19,723 --> 00:33:22,833
All my relationships
have been four, five years.
907
00:33:22,984 --> 00:33:25,393
I feel like we get
to the next step of,
908
00:33:25,487 --> 00:33:26,578
"okay, it's time
for engagement.
909
00:33:26,730 --> 00:33:28,063
It's time for marriage."
910
00:33:28,081 --> 00:33:30,248
But they would never, like,
basically man up.
911
00:33:30,342 --> 00:33:32,067
- ♪ I'm dreaming ♪
912
00:33:32,085 --> 00:33:34,511
♪ ♪
913
00:33:34,662 --> 00:33:36,162
- You're beautiful.
914
00:33:36,181 --> 00:33:37,514
You're talented.
915
00:33:37,665 --> 00:33:38,664
- That's a fact.
916
00:33:38,759 --> 00:33:40,833
- You make your own money.
917
00:33:40,853 --> 00:33:43,854
These guys that you've been
dating have been bull[bleep].
918
00:33:44,005 --> 00:33:46,414
And I wanna make sure
that you find that person
919
00:33:46,433 --> 00:33:48,174
That's gonna make you happy.
920
00:33:48,193 --> 00:33:49,509
You deserve to be happy.
- It's true.
921
00:33:49,528 --> 00:33:51,344
- And that's a fact.
That's a fact. You do.
922
00:33:51,363 --> 00:33:55,106
- So why these guys that you
have been with in the past
923
00:33:55,259 --> 00:33:59,703
Did not respect you enough
to see what you had to offer,
924
00:33:59,854 --> 00:34:01,854
[bleep] them!
925
00:34:01,948 --> 00:34:03,431
- Whoa!
- All right!
926
00:34:03,525 --> 00:34:06,043
That's what I'm talkin' about!
927
00:34:06,270 --> 00:34:10,105
- Jasmine and airris
are a solid match.
928
00:34:10,123 --> 00:34:13,383
Airris is looking
for a beautiful black queen,
929
00:34:13,610 --> 00:34:17,537
And pageant queen jasmine
is literally that.
930
00:34:17,556 --> 00:34:21,132
Meanwhile, this queen
is looking for her own king,
931
00:34:21,285 --> 00:34:24,377
And suave and thoughtful
airris fits the bill.
932
00:34:24,396 --> 00:34:26,971
Airris has done
a lot of self-healing
933
00:34:27,124 --> 00:34:29,974
And is ready to open his heart
to a woman like jasmine
934
00:34:30,127 --> 00:34:32,143
Who is accepting and devoted.
935
00:34:32,296 --> 00:34:34,220
So we're confident
that these two
936
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:36,798
Like-minded individuals
will come together
937
00:34:36,891 --> 00:34:39,651
To create
a long-lasting marriage.
938
00:34:39,745 --> 00:34:42,579
- ♪ jump in
and let's find a good time ♪
939
00:34:42,806 --> 00:34:45,490
♪ getting wound up,
so let's unwind ♪
940
00:34:45,642 --> 00:34:48,326
- The fifth couple
is gina and clint.
941
00:34:48,420 --> 00:34:49,753
- Super cute.
942
00:34:49,904 --> 00:34:52,405
- Looks so nice.
943
00:34:52,424 --> 00:34:53,739
Do you wanna just sit here?
- Yeah.
944
00:34:53,834 --> 00:34:56,334
- Yeah.
- Thank you.
945
00:34:56,428 --> 00:34:57,669
- Do you guys see anything
that you wanna try?
946
00:34:57,821 --> 00:34:59,003
- Yeah, the brownie.
It's coming.
947
00:34:59,156 --> 00:35:00,171
- I wanna try
some vegan cheese.
948
00:35:00,265 --> 00:35:02,006
- Pass me some salami.
949
00:35:02,101 --> 00:35:04,159
[laughter]
950
00:35:04,177 --> 00:35:05,827
- It's really weird because
951
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:07,420
There's champagne
coming around.
952
00:35:07,514 --> 00:35:13,184
So I feel like it's probably
a good reason to celebrate.
953
00:35:13,337 --> 00:35:14,836
- Oh, what's that mean?
954
00:35:14,855 --> 00:35:16,596
- That means...
955
00:35:16,615 --> 00:35:18,356
- What's it say on the front?
956
00:35:18,508 --> 00:35:20,175
"married at first sight."
957
00:35:20,193 --> 00:35:21,934
- That I do have a man.
- [gasps] you do?
958
00:35:21,954 --> 00:35:23,862
- And I'm getting married
in two weeks.
959
00:35:24,014 --> 00:35:25,363
- How do you know that?
960
00:35:25,457 --> 00:35:26,364
- They've already told me.
- I have goosebumps.
961
00:35:26,516 --> 00:35:27,607
[gasps]
- they did?
962
00:35:27,626 --> 00:35:29,275
You didn't tell me that!
Oh, my god!
963
00:35:29,294 --> 00:35:31,035
Give me a hug.
964
00:35:31,188 --> 00:35:32,945
Oh, I'm so excited.
965
00:35:33,039 --> 00:35:35,448
- ♪ oh, oh, oh, oh ♪
966
00:35:35,542 --> 00:35:39,210
♪ whoa, oh, oh, oh ♪
967
00:35:39,363 --> 00:35:43,122
- I think that my spontaneity
is definitely a blessing.
968
00:35:43,216 --> 00:35:46,959
I'm a firm believer that great
reward always comes with risk.
969
00:35:46,979 --> 00:35:49,295
- ♪ I'm gonna let
my hair down ♪
970
00:35:49,314 --> 00:35:54,058
- So I am a salon owner here
in town and a hairstylist.
971
00:35:54,211 --> 00:35:57,712
I now am in the process
of construction
972
00:35:57,731 --> 00:35:59,047
For a brick-and-mortar salon,
973
00:35:59,140 --> 00:36:00,973
And we should be
completing construction
974
00:36:00,993 --> 00:36:02,717
In about three months.
975
00:36:02,736 --> 00:36:05,495
I'm the type of person
that the world is your oyster.
976
00:36:05,647 --> 00:36:08,056
- ♪ the world is yours ♪
977
00:36:08,074 --> 00:36:10,892
- I booked a trip to Italy
literally the month
978
00:36:10,985 --> 00:36:12,911
Before I went,
which I would say
979
00:36:13,063 --> 00:36:15,154
Is pretty adventurous
and spontaneous.
980
00:36:15,174 --> 00:36:17,565
So I think that life's
super short.
981
00:36:17,659 --> 00:36:19,825
And so if you're not
spontaneous,
982
00:36:19,845 --> 00:36:21,494
There's a lot of things
that you could miss out on.
983
00:36:21,513 --> 00:36:23,996
So that's part of the reason
that I honestly decided
984
00:36:24,016 --> 00:36:25,423
To get married at first sight.
985
00:36:25,575 --> 00:36:28,167
♪ ♪
986
00:36:28,187 --> 00:36:31,170
I came from a family where
I grew up with a single mom.
987
00:36:31,264 --> 00:36:34,432
I had a dad that wasn't super,
super involved in my life.
988
00:36:34,584 --> 00:36:37,194
I didn't grow up
visually seeing
989
00:36:37,421 --> 00:36:40,255
A super successful
marriage work.
990
00:36:40,273 --> 00:36:42,014
My last relationship
was the first one
991
00:36:42,108 --> 00:36:44,350
That was really long term.
992
00:36:44,444 --> 00:36:46,761
He was definitely that person
that I thought was the one.
993
00:36:46,780 --> 00:36:49,039
It was the first relationship
I'd really been in
994
00:36:49,190 --> 00:36:51,766
That opened my eyes to the fact
that I could be a wife,
995
00:36:51,859 --> 00:36:53,877
And that I could be
a really good one.
996
00:36:54,028 --> 00:36:57,272
It was really just that our
lifestyles didn't align.
997
00:36:57,365 --> 00:36:59,365
I'm just really career driven,
998
00:36:59,384 --> 00:37:01,384
And I was working two jobs
at the time.
999
00:37:01,536 --> 00:37:03,294
And so we broke up.
1000
00:37:03,388 --> 00:37:05,055
He actually broke up with me
just on the sheer fact
1001
00:37:05,206 --> 00:37:06,872
That he wasn't happy.
1002
00:37:06,892 --> 00:37:09,226
- ♪ I will love you
to the end ♪
1003
00:37:09,453 --> 00:37:11,043
- I took a lot
of that heartbreak
1004
00:37:11,063 --> 00:37:13,288
And just started pouring it
into my business.
1005
00:37:13,306 --> 00:37:15,881
And so I've put
not even just relational goals,
1006
00:37:15,901 --> 00:37:19,143
But just a lot of goals
on the backburner.
1007
00:37:19,238 --> 00:37:22,221
I've been told that
I'm intimidating, I guess,
1008
00:37:22,315 --> 00:37:25,300
Just because I'm, like, a woman
that owns her own business.
1009
00:37:25,318 --> 00:37:27,410
- ♪ now I gotta rock,
then I'm gonna roll ♪
1010
00:37:27,562 --> 00:37:29,304
- I don't know
if that's considered
1011
00:37:29,322 --> 00:37:31,322
A fault in a relationship.
1012
00:37:31,416 --> 00:37:34,809
But yeah, I don't know,
these guys in nashville,
1013
00:37:34,828 --> 00:37:36,086
They are not ready to commit.
1014
00:37:36,313 --> 00:37:37,479
[laughs]
1015
00:37:37,572 --> 00:37:38,980
- ♪ green light, green light ♪
1016
00:37:39,073 --> 00:37:40,740
♪ yeah, give me
that green light ♪
1017
00:37:40,759 --> 00:37:44,002
- Wow, my daughter is
getting married in two weeks.
1018
00:37:44,154 --> 00:37:46,412
With this business coming,
this new business,
1019
00:37:46,431 --> 00:37:47,747
You're gonna put
all your time in it.
1020
00:37:47,766 --> 00:37:49,157
So are you gonna have time,
do you think?
1021
00:37:49,175 --> 00:37:50,916
I hope.
1022
00:37:50,936 --> 00:37:54,012
- I definitely think
it's necessary
1023
00:37:54,164 --> 00:37:57,089
For me to make time for it.
- Yes, it is.
1024
00:37:57,109 --> 00:37:58,516
- I don't even take the time
to realize
1025
00:37:58,668 --> 00:38:00,685
How much I do long for it
1026
00:38:00,837 --> 00:38:02,595
Until I'm around, like,
friends getting engaged
1027
00:38:02,614 --> 00:38:04,188
Or going to weddings,
and then I see those things,
1028
00:38:04,283 --> 00:38:07,175
And I'm like, "oh, wait,
like, I do want that."
1029
00:38:07,268 --> 00:38:08,267
- You want a partner for life?
- Yeah.
1030
00:38:08,361 --> 00:38:10,011
My forever person.
1031
00:38:10,030 --> 00:38:13,456
♪ ♪
1032
00:38:13,608 --> 00:38:17,943
- ♪ maybe it's your hand
that's on the wheel ♪
1033
00:38:17,963 --> 00:38:22,040
♪ maybe it comes
because you call it ♪
1034
00:38:22,134 --> 00:38:27,971
- I am about to drive over
to my buddy's house
1035
00:38:28,122 --> 00:38:32,475
And break the news that
I'm gonna be getting married.
1036
00:38:32,627 --> 00:38:36,629
And it's a little bit
frightening.
1037
00:38:36,648 --> 00:38:39,131
Somebody's gonna absolutely
freak out,
1038
00:38:39,151 --> 00:38:41,059
Run around, and throw things.
1039
00:38:41,153 --> 00:38:42,968
Who knows?
1040
00:38:42,988 --> 00:38:45,046
All right, gentlemen,
happy Sunday.
1041
00:38:45,139 --> 00:38:46,823
Cheers.
All: Happy Sunday.
1042
00:38:46,974 --> 00:38:48,066
- To my boys.
- Thank you so much.
1043
00:38:48,218 --> 00:38:49,717
- Thank you.
1044
00:38:49,811 --> 00:38:51,494
- So what's your next
travel adventure?
1045
00:38:51,646 --> 00:38:56,833
- Looking at maybe doing
a regatta up in switzerland,
1046
00:38:56,984 --> 00:38:58,818
But, you know,
things can change.
1047
00:38:58,837 --> 00:39:01,821
I've been kinda going
through this journey
1048
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:03,748
With "married at first sight,"
1049
00:39:03,900 --> 00:39:06,250
And I got a little bit
of an announcement.
1050
00:39:06,403 --> 00:39:09,587
- Oh, jeez.
1051
00:39:09,681 --> 00:39:12,182
- They found the person
that I will be marrying.
1052
00:39:12,333 --> 00:39:13,666
And I'm gonna be
getting married
1053
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:15,243
In about two weeks' time.
1054
00:39:15,261 --> 00:39:16,353
- What?
1055
00:39:16,504 --> 00:39:18,580
- Give me the top gun.
1056
00:39:18,598 --> 00:39:20,748
- Oh, wow! What?
- Are you kidding me?
1057
00:39:20,842 --> 00:39:22,025
- Oh, my god!
- Awesome, man.
1058
00:39:22,252 --> 00:39:23,918
- This is wild.
- Congratulations.
1059
00:39:24,011 --> 00:39:26,029
- ♪ it's accidental love ♪
1060
00:39:26,180 --> 00:39:27,922
♪ I can't believe it ♪
1061
00:39:27,941 --> 00:39:30,349
♪ didn't know
that I need it now ♪
1062
00:39:30,443 --> 00:39:33,203
- Captain clint. [laughs]
1063
00:39:33,354 --> 00:39:35,096
I'm the captain
of my own journey.
1064
00:39:35,115 --> 00:39:37,857
I quantify myself
as a professional life liver.
1065
00:39:37,876 --> 00:39:40,025
I really like exploring
new things,
1066
00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:42,528
New cultures, new foods.
1067
00:39:42,547 --> 00:39:43,771
I'm just an adventurer
at heart, really,
1068
00:39:43,790 --> 00:39:44,956
In all things, all matters.
1069
00:39:45,050 --> 00:39:47,108
♪ ♪
1070
00:39:47,127 --> 00:39:49,110
Sailing to me is a lifestyle.
1071
00:39:49,203 --> 00:39:51,946
I come from generations
of sailors.
1072
00:39:52,039 --> 00:39:54,707
My grandfathers
were commodores.
1073
00:39:54,801 --> 00:39:57,727
And racing was one of those
things that I really got into.
1074
00:39:57,954 --> 00:40:00,622
My mom, she was also
a sailing instructor.
1075
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:03,307
That's my dream,
to get my significant other
1076
00:40:03,402 --> 00:40:05,643
Out on the water
and just enjoy each other.
1077
00:40:05,795 --> 00:40:08,980
♪ ♪
1078
00:40:09,132 --> 00:40:11,482
I lived with somebody
for about four years.
1079
00:40:11,635 --> 00:40:13,484
It really proved to myself
1080
00:40:13,578 --> 00:40:15,912
That I was, you know,
able to be a family man
1081
00:40:16,139 --> 00:40:18,139
And could do
a long-term commitment.
1082
00:40:18,158 --> 00:40:20,642
But I think she had
this self-realization.
1083
00:40:20,660 --> 00:40:23,478
She was like,
"I think that, you know,
1084
00:40:23,571 --> 00:40:26,330
"I have been curtailing
who I am
1085
00:40:26,425 --> 00:40:28,816
To be the person that I think
you wanna be with."
1086
00:40:28,835 --> 00:40:30,593
♪ ♪
1087
00:40:30,820 --> 00:40:32,837
- ♪ that's how we do
around here ♪
1088
00:40:32,931 --> 00:40:35,323
♪ this is how we break through
around here ♪
1089
00:40:35,341 --> 00:40:37,158
- I've done a lot of things.
1090
00:40:37,177 --> 00:40:38,509
I've experienced
a lot of things.
1091
00:40:38,662 --> 00:40:40,419
A lot of--most people haven't.
1092
00:40:40,513 --> 00:40:43,681
I started flying planes
1093
00:40:43,833 --> 00:40:45,925
Because "top gun"
was my favorite movie
1094
00:40:45,944 --> 00:40:47,685
Growing up as a kid.
1095
00:40:47,837 --> 00:40:50,930
Regrettably, I am not
in the mile-high club.
1096
00:40:50,949 --> 00:40:53,508
- ♪ you could find a thing
or two around here ♪
1097
00:40:53,526 --> 00:40:55,693
- I've had a unique existence
on this earth,
1098
00:40:55,845 --> 00:40:57,954
But I feel like there's more.
1099
00:40:58,181 --> 00:40:59,956
And I think
that missing component
1100
00:41:00,183 --> 00:41:03,701
Is being married
and having that true love.
1101
00:41:03,795 --> 00:41:05,036
That's the apex.
1102
00:41:05,188 --> 00:41:06,704
That's the mount everest.
1103
00:41:06,856 --> 00:41:08,523
And I'm willing to go
through extreme measures
1104
00:41:08,541 --> 00:41:11,042
To find the right person,
to find the love of my life.
1105
00:41:11,136 --> 00:41:13,636
♪ ♪
1106
00:41:13,788 --> 00:41:16,364
- I mean, marrying somebody
that you've never met before
1107
00:41:16,382 --> 00:41:20,626
Is kinda crazy.
1108
00:41:20,720 --> 00:41:24,872
- Marrying somebody you think
you know is even kinda crazy.
1109
00:41:24,891 --> 00:41:28,042
- Well, one of my mantras
is embrace the crazy
1110
00:41:28,061 --> 00:41:29,210
Or embrace the different.
1111
00:41:29,303 --> 00:41:30,487
I mean,
I've only got one speed,
1112
00:41:30,638 --> 00:41:32,046
And it's full-throttle me.
1113
00:41:32,139 --> 00:41:33,990
I mean,
I'm just me all the time.
1114
00:41:34,217 --> 00:41:35,492
I mean,
I think you guys know that.
1115
00:41:35,643 --> 00:41:37,160
- That's pretty true.
1116
00:41:37,387 --> 00:41:38,553
I mean, you can reel it in
when you need to.
1117
00:41:38,646 --> 00:41:39,996
- In certain situations,
for sure.
1118
00:41:40,147 --> 00:41:41,831
But, I mean, ultimately,
1119
00:41:42,058 --> 00:41:43,666
You can't cage the tiger
for too long.
1120
00:41:43,818 --> 00:41:45,727
[laughter]
1121
00:41:45,745 --> 00:41:49,247
- Gina and clint both come
from humble beginnings
1122
00:41:49,341 --> 00:41:51,566
And have found great success
in their careers.
1123
00:41:51,584 --> 00:41:53,568
However, with all the success,
1124
00:41:53,586 --> 00:41:56,070
They're missing someone
to share it with.
1125
00:41:56,163 --> 00:41:58,740
Clint is looking for a wife
1126
00:41:58,758 --> 00:42:01,017
Who shares his hunger
for adventure,
1127
00:42:01,168 --> 00:42:02,668
Whether by sea or air,
1128
00:42:02,687 --> 00:42:05,021
And we know spontaneous gina
1129
00:42:05,248 --> 00:42:08,099
Will be his enthusiastic
yes girl.
1130
00:42:08,251 --> 00:42:10,193
And while in the past,
gina's been afraid
1131
00:42:10,344 --> 00:42:12,344
That men will be intimidated
by her financial
1132
00:42:12,364 --> 00:42:14,772
And career success,
we foresee clint
1133
00:42:14,866 --> 00:42:18,609
Will value her
and celebrate her successes.
1134
00:42:18,703 --> 00:42:22,430
- Am I crazy for even,
like, rolling the dice?
1135
00:42:22,448 --> 00:42:25,691
- Frankly, I'm a little bit
more scared for her.
1136
00:42:25,710 --> 00:42:27,544
[laughter]
- yeah.
1137
00:42:32,275 --> 00:42:34,458
- ♪ what about we,
what about us? ♪
1138
00:42:34,553 --> 00:42:36,719
♪ what about dancing
in the dust? ♪
1139
00:42:36,871 --> 00:42:38,888
♪ what about fireflies ♪
1140
00:42:39,115 --> 00:42:42,466
♪ and what about
old porch swings? ♪
1141
00:42:42,561 --> 00:42:45,953
- Our 10 singles
are less than two weeks away
1142
00:42:46,047 --> 00:42:48,139
From taking the biggest
risk of their lives,
1143
00:42:48,291 --> 00:42:50,124
But they won't be
doing it alone.
1144
00:42:50,217 --> 00:42:51,459
- Hey, man, how are you?
- Good.
1145
00:42:51,552 --> 00:42:52,476
How's it going?
- Doing well.
1146
00:42:52,629 --> 00:42:53,811
- Shaquille.
- Shaquille.
1147
00:42:53,963 --> 00:42:55,387
Mackinley.
- Mackinley, nice to meet you.
1148
00:42:55,407 --> 00:42:57,240
- How are you feeling?
1149
00:42:57,391 --> 00:42:59,909
- Honestly, I'm super excited.
- Me too.
1150
00:43:00,136 --> 00:43:01,986
- The soon-to-be brides
and grooms will be
1151
00:43:02,138 --> 00:43:04,138
Meeting each other
for the very first time.
1152
00:43:04,157 --> 00:43:05,656
- I think we're gonna have to
lean on each other a lot
1153
00:43:05,750 --> 00:43:06,749
'cause we're gonna
be going through the same
1154
00:43:06,901 --> 00:43:07,975
Experience together.
- There you go.
1155
00:43:08,069 --> 00:43:09,568
- Cheers, guys.
- Cheers, boys.
1156
00:43:09,662 --> 00:43:10,420
- We're in this together, boys.
1157
00:43:10,571 --> 00:43:12,313
- We are in this together.
1158
00:43:12,332 --> 00:43:13,906
♪ ♪
1159
00:43:13,925 --> 00:43:15,425
- Where are you
originally from?
1160
00:43:15,652 --> 00:43:17,668
- I'm actually from here.
I'm from nashville.
1161
00:43:17,821 --> 00:43:19,170
- Yeah.
- You're from here too?
1162
00:43:19,322 --> 00:43:21,080
- Yeah.
- I'm from memphis too.
1163
00:43:21,099 --> 00:43:22,673
I heard a little accent.
Where are you from?
1164
00:43:22,826 --> 00:43:24,508
- I'm from new york.
- I knew it.
1165
00:43:24,661 --> 00:43:27,252
- But I've been here two years,
so I say y'all a lot now.
1166
00:43:27,347 --> 00:43:29,439
So that makes me fit in, right?
1167
00:43:29,590 --> 00:43:31,423
- I can't wait to pick
you guys's brains
1168
00:43:31,443 --> 00:43:34,611
On, like, what makes you super
anxious during this process.
1169
00:43:34,838 --> 00:43:36,187
- I've never even lived
with a woman before.
1170
00:43:36,281 --> 00:43:38,172
So, like, that's brand-new
territory for me.
1171
00:43:38,191 --> 00:43:39,357
So...
- Dude, I'm in the same boat.
1172
00:43:39,451 --> 00:43:40,950
Never lived with a girl.
1173
00:43:41,177 --> 00:43:42,677
- With this opportunity,
I was like, "why not?
1174
00:43:42,770 --> 00:43:44,178
Like, what do you have
to lose?"
1175
00:43:44,197 --> 00:43:44,954
Like, I've been
going through hell.
1176
00:43:45,106 --> 00:43:46,623
[laughter]
1177
00:43:46,850 --> 00:43:47,940
- I'm 32 years old.
1178
00:43:47,959 --> 00:43:48,791
Today's actually my birthday.
1179
00:43:49,018 --> 00:43:50,960
All: Happy birthday!
1180
00:43:51,187 --> 00:43:52,203
- Thank you.
1181
00:43:52,297 --> 00:43:54,130
- I am 32.
- Okay.
1182
00:43:54,281 --> 00:43:55,614
And I'm not--
- I'm 32.
1183
00:43:55,708 --> 00:43:57,191
That's why I got so excited.
1184
00:43:57,210 --> 00:43:59,377
- I'll be 26 in August.
1185
00:43:59,471 --> 00:44:00,637
[laughter]
- okay.
1186
00:44:00,864 --> 00:44:02,046
♪ ♪
1187
00:44:02,140 --> 00:44:04,699
- Like, that is young.
1188
00:44:04,717 --> 00:44:06,717
At 25, I was not ready
for marriage.
1189
00:44:06,811 --> 00:44:09,704
So I wish her the best
1190
00:44:09,797 --> 00:44:11,481
And think she'll accomplish
her goals,
1191
00:44:11,708 --> 00:44:13,966
But I could not have done this
at 25.
1192
00:44:13,985 --> 00:44:15,893
- I'm 35,
so I'll be the mother.
1193
00:44:15,987 --> 00:44:19,138
[laughter]
1194
00:44:19,157 --> 00:44:20,990
- The pizza smells good.
- Yeah.
1195
00:44:21,217 --> 00:44:22,550
- Meeting you guys,
I feel like
1196
00:44:22,643 --> 00:44:26,145
It's like my anxiety went
from a 10 to a 2
1197
00:44:26,164 --> 00:44:28,072
'cause I'm like, "okay, cool."
1198
00:44:28,224 --> 00:44:30,057
Like, no one didn't, like,
turn me off, like, to be like,
1199
00:44:30,151 --> 00:44:31,167
"nah, I ain't gon'
mess with him."
1200
00:44:31,394 --> 00:44:32,576
Like, I think everybody's
really cool.
1201
00:44:32,671 --> 00:44:34,337
- I was told to dress
for beer and pizza,
1202
00:44:34,564 --> 00:44:36,172
And you've obviously
upped the pizza wear.
1203
00:44:36,323 --> 00:44:37,656
- I just feel like brunch.
1204
00:44:37,676 --> 00:44:39,083
Yeah.
- Yeah.
1205
00:44:39,177 --> 00:44:41,326
- My, like, alias name
was, like, dapper dillon.
1206
00:44:41,421 --> 00:44:43,179
Like, I'm always
gon', like, try to be,
1207
00:44:43,330 --> 00:44:44,588
Like, dapper,
even, like, walking
1208
00:44:44,741 --> 00:44:45,907
Up to work or whatever.
1209
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:47,074
- Next time I eat pizza,
I'm gonna be
1210
00:44:47,093 --> 00:44:47,925
Sport-coating it up, man.
1211
00:44:48,077 --> 00:44:49,334
- I mean, honestly,
1212
00:44:49,429 --> 00:44:50,428
Like, you look like
an outdoorsman.
1213
00:44:50,522 --> 00:44:52,246
- I'm a big outdoor guy,
1214
00:44:52,339 --> 00:44:53,597
But I mean anything outdoors,
man.
1215
00:44:53,692 --> 00:44:55,174
Like, I love surfing.
1216
00:44:55,268 --> 00:44:57,601
I love snowboarding and skiing.
1217
00:44:57,696 --> 00:44:59,253
And I sail here.
1218
00:44:59,346 --> 00:45:01,105
I sail all around
the world, really.
1219
00:45:01,199 --> 00:45:03,182
- My boy, he looked
like the brawny dude.
1220
00:45:03,276 --> 00:45:07,278
He had a big beard, like,
you know, full head of hair.
1221
00:45:07,430 --> 00:45:09,205
But he like the outdoors,
so I feel like his wife's gon'
1222
00:45:09,356 --> 00:45:11,207
Be outside, getting bit up
by mosquitoes and all that,
1223
00:45:11,358 --> 00:45:12,691
So I hope
that she's cool with that.
1224
00:45:12,711 --> 00:45:13,935
- I mean,
that's a big part of me.
1225
00:45:14,028 --> 00:45:15,211
So if she's like,
"nope, hate it.
1226
00:45:15,362 --> 00:45:16,045
"hate your friends.
Hate sailing.
1227
00:45:16,272 --> 00:45:17,696
Hate water."
1228
00:45:17,716 --> 00:45:19,440
I'm gonna be like,
"I don't know."
1229
00:45:19,459 --> 00:45:22,109
- So what are you guys
looking for then in a husband?
1230
00:45:22,128 --> 00:45:25,370
Like, what are you hoping
for at the end of the aisle?
1231
00:45:25,390 --> 00:45:28,540
- I'm honestly hoping
that he's handsome.
1232
00:45:28,634 --> 00:45:30,059
I'm hoping that he's genuine
1233
00:45:30,286 --> 00:45:32,803
And he's ready to go all in
with this process
1234
00:45:32,956 --> 00:45:34,046
And with this relationship.
1235
00:45:34,140 --> 00:45:35,380
Like, we're getting married,
1236
00:45:35,475 --> 00:45:38,292
So I hope that he's serious.
1237
00:45:38,385 --> 00:45:39,718
- My initial reaction
to kirsten,
1238
00:45:39,738 --> 00:45:40,795
She is absolutely stunning.
1239
00:45:40,813 --> 00:45:42,463
Like, she is beautiful.
1240
00:45:42,482 --> 00:45:43,965
She's confident.
1241
00:45:44,058 --> 00:45:45,299
And so kirsten
definitely needs
1242
00:45:45,318 --> 00:45:47,134
A confident man, for sure.
1243
00:45:47,153 --> 00:45:48,319
She needs someone
that can hold his own,
1244
00:45:48,471 --> 00:45:49,804
That has a little swag,
1245
00:45:49,822 --> 00:45:53,565
Someone that is able
to balance that out.
1246
00:45:53,585 --> 00:45:55,585
- How particular were you guys
when they asked you,
1247
00:45:55,812 --> 00:45:57,903
Like, I mean, you know,
"what's your type?"
1248
00:45:57,922 --> 00:45:59,497
- Obviously, you want
an attraction there,
1249
00:45:59,591 --> 00:46:00,572
And you want her to look good.
1250
00:46:00,666 --> 00:46:02,149
But give me, like, you know,
1251
00:46:02,168 --> 00:46:03,760
A solid seven that's funny,
and I'm--
1252
00:46:03,911 --> 00:46:06,504
- 7 out of 10?
I'm going a 10 out of 10.
1253
00:46:06,656 --> 00:46:07,989
- Obviously,
I wanna get a 10 out of 10,
1254
00:46:08,007 --> 00:46:09,915
But I'm just saying
as, you know, the woman I get--
1255
00:46:09,934 --> 00:46:12,435
- I said, like, you know,
athletic, hunger to do things,
1256
00:46:12,586 --> 00:46:13,919
Like, wanna get out there.
1257
00:46:13,938 --> 00:46:15,846
But I also like a girl
that's, like, goofy
1258
00:46:15,940 --> 00:46:17,940
And likes to joke around
and stuff like that.
1259
00:46:18,167 --> 00:46:21,519
- I need someone
who has a personality
1260
00:46:21,613 --> 00:46:23,613
And can match mine,
but can also keep me in check.
1261
00:46:23,764 --> 00:46:25,022
Someone who's not afraid
to be like,
1262
00:46:25,116 --> 00:46:26,431
"hey, calm down a little bit."
1263
00:46:26,526 --> 00:46:28,117
Also, can we eat while we talk?
1264
00:46:28,344 --> 00:46:31,012
Because I am starving.
- Yes, yes, yes.
1265
00:46:31,105 --> 00:46:32,771
- And I feel like
I can talk for hours.
1266
00:46:32,791 --> 00:46:35,850
So also, you know, you can
practice for my husband
1267
00:46:35,943 --> 00:46:37,609
And tell me
when I'm being too much.
1268
00:46:37,629 --> 00:46:39,778
I keep joking that I'm
gonna give him a safe word.
1269
00:46:39,872 --> 00:46:41,113
The safe word is pineapple,
1270
00:46:41,132 --> 00:46:42,114
And I'm drinking
something pineapple.
1271
00:46:42,208 --> 00:46:44,208
- Oh, that's a great safe word.
1272
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:46,877
- But if he feels like
I'm being too much
1273
00:46:47,030 --> 00:46:49,196
But doesn't wanna get into
a fight, he can just be like,
1274
00:46:49,215 --> 00:46:50,714
"pineapple,"
and I'll be like, "okay."
1275
00:46:50,809 --> 00:46:52,533
You need a little quiet time?
1276
00:46:52,626 --> 00:46:54,201
I'm gonna go take my dog out
for a walk
1277
00:46:54,220 --> 00:46:55,961
And let you simmer, so...
1278
00:46:55,980 --> 00:46:57,462
- [laughs] that pineapple word
1279
00:46:57,557 --> 00:46:59,649
Is gonna be said so many times.
1280
00:46:59,876 --> 00:47:01,967
[laughs]
1281
00:47:02,061 --> 00:47:03,653
- What are you looking for?
1282
00:47:03,804 --> 00:47:05,304
- I'm hoping that he definitely
has a sense of humor.
1283
00:47:05,398 --> 00:47:06,489
Like, I'm the type of person
1284
00:47:06,716 --> 00:47:08,899
That doesn't take life
too seriously.
1285
00:47:08,993 --> 00:47:11,385
So just that we're able
to adventure together.
1286
00:47:11,404 --> 00:47:12,978
Like, I love to travel.
1287
00:47:13,072 --> 00:47:16,390
- If she doesn't have a hunger
and a thirst for life...
1288
00:47:16,409 --> 00:47:18,650
- Yeah.
- It's just not gonna work.
1289
00:47:18,670 --> 00:47:20,744
- What if her thing
is, like, she's, like,
1290
00:47:20,839 --> 00:47:23,230
A partier or, like,
she lives in the club?
1291
00:47:23,324 --> 00:47:24,507
- Obviously,
I'm more introverted,
1292
00:47:24,658 --> 00:47:27,009
But I like being brought
out of my comfort zone.
1293
00:47:27,161 --> 00:47:29,403
I don't know,
there's compromise there.
1294
00:47:29,422 --> 00:47:33,240
- I do thoroughly enjoy
a good gno,
1295
00:47:33,259 --> 00:47:34,666
Girls' night out, you know?
- Mm-hmm.
1296
00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:36,260
- As you should.
- That's okay.
1297
00:47:36,412 --> 00:47:38,003
- I agree, you know?
1298
00:47:38,022 --> 00:47:40,523
I think the thing
I look forward to the most
1299
00:47:40,750 --> 00:47:43,918
Is, like, bachelorette parties,
birthday parties, like,
1300
00:47:43,936 --> 00:47:47,271
When I go out
with my girls, you know?
1301
00:47:47,365 --> 00:47:49,514
- When you're a wife, you need
to be at home, cooking,
1302
00:47:49,609 --> 00:47:51,775
Rubbing your man's feet,
catering to him,
1303
00:47:51,870 --> 00:47:53,260
Enjoying the marriage.
1304
00:47:53,354 --> 00:47:54,595
So if she's always
with her girls,
1305
00:47:54,688 --> 00:47:56,931
Then she might not have
a husband.
1306
00:47:56,949 --> 00:47:58,165
♪ ♪
1307
00:48:04,624 --> 00:48:05,956
- Like, I want kids.
1308
00:48:06,050 --> 00:48:07,291
That's at the top of my list.
1309
00:48:07,385 --> 00:48:08,792
I love being an uncle.
1310
00:48:08,887 --> 00:48:10,794
Definitely wanna be a father.
1311
00:48:10,947 --> 00:48:12,463
- My niece called me
last night.
1312
00:48:12,615 --> 00:48:16,450
She's like,
"hey, when you get married,
1313
00:48:16,469 --> 00:48:18,377
Can I come to your wedding?
'cause I wanna dance with you."
1314
00:48:18,396 --> 00:48:21,455
I was like,
"I wanna be like the father."
1315
00:48:21,548 --> 00:48:23,048
I wanna be like,
"this is my seed.
1316
00:48:23,067 --> 00:48:24,216
Like, this is my child."
1317
00:48:24,310 --> 00:48:26,569
- I want two to three kids.
1318
00:48:26,720 --> 00:48:29,238
I wish that I can have
a boy first and then a girl
1319
00:48:29,465 --> 00:48:30,907
And we can be done.
1320
00:48:31,134 --> 00:48:33,826
But I want two to three
children, for sure.
1321
00:48:35,655 --> 00:48:37,413
- I've had a lot of baby fever.
1322
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:39,657
So every time I want a kid,
I just get a dog.
1323
00:48:39,809 --> 00:48:40,917
I have four.
- Oh, no.
1324
00:48:41,068 --> 00:48:42,251
Oh, no, wait.
1325
00:48:42,403 --> 00:48:43,661
- Wait, what kind of dogs?
1326
00:48:43,813 --> 00:48:45,087
- You and the dogs--
1327
00:48:45,314 --> 00:48:46,664
- Do they all shed?
1328
00:48:46,816 --> 00:48:47,924
- I have two goldendoodles
and a poodle.
1329
00:48:48,075 --> 00:48:49,984
- Okay.
- My biological clock
1330
00:48:50,002 --> 00:48:53,262
Is ticking, so whatever
life can give me, you know?
1331
00:48:53,489 --> 00:48:55,765
- So when was the last time
you all had sex?
1332
00:48:55,916 --> 00:48:58,175
- For me, it's, like,
about a year ago.
1333
00:48:58,327 --> 00:48:59,936
♪ ♪
1334
00:49:00,087 --> 00:49:02,605
- Oh, god.
1335
00:49:02,832 --> 00:49:04,423
- The other guy
who ain't got it in in a year,
1336
00:49:04,442 --> 00:49:06,667
I'ma call him
40-year-old virgin.
1337
00:49:06,686 --> 00:49:08,277
Hopefully, like,
he still remembers
1338
00:49:08,429 --> 00:49:09,837
How to use the tools
in his tool belt
1339
00:49:09,930 --> 00:49:11,596
'cause his wife
might wanna be active.
1340
00:49:11,616 --> 00:49:13,190
- I'm not about, like,
the hookups anymore.
1341
00:49:13,284 --> 00:49:15,009
Like, the older I get, like,
I'm just not about that.
1342
00:49:15,102 --> 00:49:16,601
Does that make me
a little nervous?
1343
00:49:16,696 --> 00:49:17,954
Potentially,
'cause it's been a while.
1344
00:49:18,105 --> 00:49:19,455
And now on this,
she's gonna potentially
1345
00:49:19,682 --> 00:49:20,939
Talk on camera,
your performance.
1346
00:49:20,959 --> 00:49:22,683
Just like--so you just, like--
1347
00:49:22,776 --> 00:49:24,685
You know, it does,
it makes me nervous.
1348
00:49:24,704 --> 00:49:26,537
- What about, like, what
he's got going on down there?
1349
00:49:26,689 --> 00:49:27,855
Like, any thoughts?
1350
00:49:27,948 --> 00:49:29,707
- I was very clear with that.
1351
00:49:29,859 --> 00:49:31,208
They need to roll out the tape.
I mean, they asked me--
1352
00:49:31,302 --> 00:49:33,118
- Uh-uh.
- What?
1353
00:49:33,212 --> 00:49:34,637
They asked me my body type.
1354
00:49:34,788 --> 00:49:36,639
I'm like, "I'm curvy.
I look good.
1355
00:49:36,866 --> 00:49:39,700
So I need him to be,
like, 6 or 7 inches."
1356
00:49:39,793 --> 00:49:41,218
[laughter]
- and know how to use it.
1357
00:49:41,312 --> 00:49:42,812
- Know how to use it.
1358
00:49:43,039 --> 00:49:45,723
- What if you get, like,
a super quality guy,
1359
00:49:45,817 --> 00:49:48,651
You know, like, maybe not
all the way there, but, like,
1360
00:49:48,802 --> 00:49:50,060
He's got good mouth game?
- That's what I said.
1361
00:49:50,213 --> 00:49:51,988
That's what I said.
1362
00:49:52,215 --> 00:49:53,638
- He needs to compensate
for it in other ways.
1363
00:49:53,733 --> 00:49:55,157
- Absolutely, in other ways.
1364
00:49:55,384 --> 00:49:58,310
- I am fine to admit
that I have not had sex
1365
00:49:58,404 --> 00:50:00,404
Since I moved to nashville.
1366
00:50:00,556 --> 00:50:04,000
And I will say,
I wanna be in a relationship
1367
00:50:04,151 --> 00:50:06,836
Before I jump in sexually
with someone.
1368
00:50:07,063 --> 00:50:09,005
So I've been wound up
pretty tight.
1369
00:50:09,232 --> 00:50:10,006
- You're ready
for the honeymoon.
1370
00:50:10,233 --> 00:50:11,674
- I'm ready.
1371
00:50:11,901 --> 00:50:13,992
- Nicole is having sex
the first night, for sure.
1372
00:50:14,012 --> 00:50:15,736
It's happening.
It's going down.
1373
00:50:15,829 --> 00:50:16,995
I can't wait
to get the text message.
1374
00:50:17,089 --> 00:50:18,422
- What about you?
1375
00:50:18,516 --> 00:50:20,257
- About two weeks.
1376
00:50:20,409 --> 00:50:24,078
♪ ♪
1377
00:50:24,171 --> 00:50:25,504
I'm engaged now,
but two weeks ago,
1378
00:50:25,523 --> 00:50:27,356
I was a single man.
- No, it's fair.
1379
00:50:27,508 --> 00:50:30,509
- You know, I was doing
what some single men do.
1380
00:50:30,603 --> 00:50:32,253
- So was it before or after
1381
00:50:32,271 --> 00:50:33,696
You found out
you was gettin' married?
1382
00:50:33,847 --> 00:50:35,698
- It was before I found out
I was gettin' married.
1383
00:50:35,925 --> 00:50:38,534
- Like, the night before?
- Like, the night before.
1384
00:50:38,761 --> 00:50:41,262
- Oh, [bleep].
- Yeah, same boat.
1385
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:42,780
So I don't feel so bad.
1386
00:50:42,932 --> 00:50:44,615
[laughter]
I'm glad you went first.
1387
00:50:44,767 --> 00:50:47,101
- All right.
- Yeah, so, I mean,
1388
00:50:47,194 --> 00:50:49,861
Sex is--it's important to me.
1389
00:50:49,881 --> 00:50:51,455
- I got numbers
from some girls,
1390
00:50:51,607 --> 00:50:52,773
But I didn't pursue anything
1391
00:50:52,866 --> 00:50:54,216
Knowing that this
was around the corner.
1392
00:50:54,443 --> 00:50:56,034
I think I was kinda taking
those girls' feelings
1393
00:50:56,128 --> 00:50:57,611
Into account.
1394
00:50:57,630 --> 00:50:59,221
So it was very surprising
to hear
1395
00:50:59,373 --> 00:51:01,298
That two of the guys had sex
as little as two weeks ago
1396
00:51:01,450 --> 00:51:02,725
When they found out.
1397
00:51:02,952 --> 00:51:04,118
Is that out of your system now,
though?
1398
00:51:04,211 --> 00:51:05,469
You think you're ready
to settle down?
1399
00:51:05,563 --> 00:51:07,045
- Yeah. So ultimately,
1400
00:51:07,065 --> 00:51:08,898
I wanna find the right person.
1401
00:51:09,125 --> 00:51:11,458
So all this leads up
to finding the right person.
1402
00:51:11,477 --> 00:51:12,717
- I haven't gotten,
like, that--like,
1403
00:51:12,737 --> 00:51:14,128
As I've gotten older,
there's just more of
1404
00:51:14,146 --> 00:51:16,405
An emotional tie to sex
than, like--
1405
00:51:16,632 --> 00:51:18,223
- So when was the last time
you had sex?
1406
00:51:18,242 --> 00:51:20,651
- I've had sex--I'm like,
I feel bad saying,
1407
00:51:20,803 --> 00:51:21,985
Like, once this year,
but there's more to it
1408
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:23,487
Than just sex, so...
- Right.
1409
00:51:23,639 --> 00:51:25,897
- I have taken matters
into my own hands.
1410
00:51:25,991 --> 00:51:27,249
[laughter]
- she's like,
1411
00:51:27,401 --> 00:51:28,809
"I got toys."
- yeah.
1412
00:51:28,902 --> 00:51:31,087
No man is necessarily needed.
1413
00:51:31,314 --> 00:51:34,739
Like, I want you,
but I don't, like, need you.
1414
00:51:34,759 --> 00:51:36,650
There's a difference.
1415
00:51:36,743 --> 00:51:39,653
- What about, like,
the first night?
1416
00:51:39,672 --> 00:51:41,746
Like, I mean,
are you guys planning
1417
00:51:41,841 --> 00:51:44,491
To consummate the marriage?
1418
00:51:44,510 --> 00:51:46,769
- Typically,
back in my dating days,
1419
00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:48,996
It was like, you know,
we hook up the first day,
1420
00:51:49,014 --> 00:51:50,331
Probably not gonna be, like,
a lasting relationship.
1421
00:51:50,349 --> 00:51:51,923
- Right. Right.
1422
00:51:51,943 --> 00:51:53,183
- But then it's like
we go into this thing,
1423
00:51:53,336 --> 00:51:54,610
And it's a little bit
different.
1424
00:51:54,761 --> 00:51:56,595
You know,
we're getting married.
1425
00:51:56,689 --> 00:51:59,431
Obviously, there's a different
standard there, so...
1426
00:51:59,525 --> 00:52:02,176
- I'm optimistic enough
to know that it may happen.
1427
00:52:02,194 --> 00:52:03,861
But if it don't happen,
then I won't be mad.
1428
00:52:04,013 --> 00:52:05,621
Like, we got
a lifetime together.
1429
00:52:05,848 --> 00:52:07,848
- I'm gonna accept whatever
the first night.
1430
00:52:07,867 --> 00:52:10,775
Like, if this
is sleeping on the couch
1431
00:52:10,870 --> 00:52:13,629
And this is going three rounds,
1432
00:52:13,856 --> 00:52:17,115
Like, I'm like--I'm with it
all, you know, so...
1433
00:52:17,209 --> 00:52:18,634
- We're clicking
on all cylinders
1434
00:52:18,785 --> 00:52:20,619
And we're jiving
with each other
1435
00:52:20,638 --> 00:52:22,713
And just, like, we're finishing
each other's thoughts,
1436
00:52:22,807 --> 00:52:24,882
Like, it's game time.
1437
00:52:25,034 --> 00:52:26,533
- I don't really agree
with that,
1438
00:52:26,552 --> 00:52:28,385
Simply because
you just got married.
1439
00:52:28,479 --> 00:52:29,979
You just met each other
for the first time,
1440
00:52:30,206 --> 00:52:31,647
And you have sex?
What if it's good?
1441
00:52:31,874 --> 00:52:33,390
What if it's bad?
You never know.
1442
00:52:33,484 --> 00:52:34,799
I don't want that to be the
trajectory of my relationship,
1443
00:52:34,894 --> 00:52:36,543
Like, "hey, it wasn't so good."
1444
00:52:36,637 --> 00:52:38,821
You just become, like,
a nympho to having sex.
1445
00:52:39,048 --> 00:52:41,157
- I mean, I'm projecting
positivity, right?
1446
00:52:41,308 --> 00:52:42,807
And I'm putting that out
into the ether.
1447
00:52:42,827 --> 00:52:44,401
- You gotta manifest it.
1448
00:52:44,495 --> 00:52:45,886
- And so hopefully,
the universe says, "yup,
1449
00:52:45,905 --> 00:52:47,388
She's gonna be feeling
the same way."
1450
00:52:47,406 --> 00:52:48,998
I mean, it's gonna be
wedding night.
1451
00:52:49,149 --> 00:52:50,982
There's no rules for this.
1452
00:52:51,076 --> 00:52:52,409
- I'm bringing a board game.
1453
00:52:52,561 --> 00:52:54,244
- I'm gonna be too tired.
1454
00:52:54,397 --> 00:52:56,172
I go to bed very early.
1455
00:52:56,323 --> 00:52:58,248
And I will imagine that after
a day of getting married,
1456
00:52:58,401 --> 00:53:00,009
I'm gonna be like, "sir."
1457
00:53:00,236 --> 00:53:02,344
- I'm not saying
I won't make out with him.
1458
00:53:02,571 --> 00:53:04,755
It might not be some
other things in play,
1459
00:53:04,907 --> 00:53:06,182
But I'm not having sex.
1460
00:53:06,409 --> 00:53:08,759
- Cheers to having sex
with our brides.
1461
00:53:08,911 --> 00:53:10,644
♪ ♪
1462
00:53:15,026 --> 00:53:15,766
- ♪ it's my life
and I do it my way ♪
1463
00:53:15,918 --> 00:53:18,510
♪ my way, my way ♪
1464
00:53:18,604 --> 00:53:20,679
- Our singles are getting
married at first sight
1465
00:53:20,698 --> 00:53:22,364
In just eight days.
1466
00:53:22,516 --> 00:53:24,533
So shopping
for the wedding dresses
1467
00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:28,429
And tuxedos to wear on that day
is extremely important...
1468
00:53:28,447 --> 00:53:31,598
- Hello, ladies.
- Hi.
1469
00:53:31,692 --> 00:53:33,617
- Because they'll never get
another chance
1470
00:53:33,769 --> 00:53:35,269
To make a first impression.
1471
00:53:35,287 --> 00:53:38,047
- ♪ I want it all, all ♪
1472
00:53:38,274 --> 00:53:40,107
♪ I don't need
to talk about it ♪
1473
00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:42,867
♪ if I see it and I want it
that's all ♪
1474
00:53:42,887 --> 00:53:44,720
- Hello.
1475
00:53:44,871 --> 00:53:46,296
- Are you my bride?
- I am your bride.
1476
00:53:46,449 --> 00:53:47,281
- Nice to meet you.
1477
00:53:47,299 --> 00:53:48,891
- This is so beautiful.
1478
00:53:49,042 --> 00:53:50,041
- How do you feel?
- I'm so excited
1479
00:53:50,135 --> 00:53:51,543
About looking for a dress
1480
00:53:51,562 --> 00:53:52,786
And trying on
some dresses today.
1481
00:53:52,879 --> 00:53:54,563
- You are?
1482
00:53:54,790 --> 00:53:57,900
- This day is beyond important
to me.
1483
00:53:58,051 --> 00:54:00,978
I've dreamed about this day
for years.
1484
00:54:01,130 --> 00:54:04,314
And this is a risky task,
1485
00:54:04,467 --> 00:54:07,910
So I hope that this man is
everything that I dreamed of.
1486
00:54:08,137 --> 00:54:10,228
I definitely wanna try
this one on.
1487
00:54:10,248 --> 00:54:12,155
- Maybe you should just turn it
into a fashion show.
1488
00:54:12,308 --> 00:54:13,732
- It's so many good options.
1489
00:54:13,751 --> 00:54:15,309
I don't know.
1490
00:54:15,327 --> 00:54:17,311
It's gonna be a hard decision
to choose one.
1491
00:54:17,329 --> 00:54:21,924
♪ ♪
1492
00:54:22,075 --> 00:54:23,575
- Hi. How are you?
1493
00:54:23,669 --> 00:54:24,909
- Doing great.
- Candace.
1494
00:54:25,004 --> 00:54:26,578
- Shaquille.
Both: Nice to meet you.
1495
00:54:26,672 --> 00:54:28,913
- I'm nervous
because no matter what
1496
00:54:29,008 --> 00:54:30,933
You do in life,
you have one chance
1497
00:54:31,084 --> 00:54:33,160
To make a great
first impression.
1498
00:54:33,178 --> 00:54:35,178
This will be the first time
I'm meeting my wife,
1499
00:54:35,331 --> 00:54:37,681
First time me meeting
her family, her friends.
1500
00:54:37,775 --> 00:54:39,850
And everybody know me
as dapper dillon,
1501
00:54:40,002 --> 00:54:42,002
So I gotta make sure
when I walk down the aisle,
1502
00:54:42,021 --> 00:54:44,521
They'll be like,
"yeah, yeah, that's the guy."
1503
00:54:44,673 --> 00:54:46,282
I brought my mentees in.
1504
00:54:46,433 --> 00:54:47,783
They have a great
sense of style.
1505
00:54:48,010 --> 00:54:49,510
So they can help me
pick out something.
1506
00:54:49,603 --> 00:54:51,194
- He's like,
"look at me back here.
1507
00:54:51,347 --> 00:54:52,771
I mean, come on, the drip."
1508
00:54:52,865 --> 00:54:54,439
- I just moved here recently.
1509
00:54:54,458 --> 00:54:57,200
And I have no family
here in nashville.
1510
00:54:57,353 --> 00:55:00,354
However, at the institution
I work at, I mentor, you know,
1511
00:55:00,447 --> 00:55:02,205
A great group of students.
1512
00:55:02,358 --> 00:55:04,967
But these guys
are really like my sons.
1513
00:55:05,118 --> 00:55:07,194
Like, I approve so much
in their life,
1514
00:55:07,287 --> 00:55:08,637
Just making sure
they, you know,
1515
00:55:08,789 --> 00:55:10,881
Keep their grades up,
internships,
1516
00:55:11,033 --> 00:55:12,699
Job opportunities.
1517
00:55:12,793 --> 00:55:14,217
And this is a big step
in my life,
1518
00:55:14,370 --> 00:55:15,811
So I wanted to get
their approval
1519
00:55:15,962 --> 00:55:18,221
Of what I will be wearing
to my wedding.
1520
00:55:18,316 --> 00:55:19,982
♪ ♪
1521
00:55:20,209 --> 00:55:22,042
- ♪ pull up to the club
when you're vip ♪
1522
00:55:22,061 --> 00:55:23,986
♪ no fighting, all you gotta
do is bring I'd ♪
1523
00:55:24,213 --> 00:55:26,137
♪ know what you're talkin'
'bout like it's nobody ♪
1524
00:55:26,231 --> 00:55:28,398
- We see you. We see you.
1525
00:55:28,551 --> 00:55:30,384
- Mr. Dillon, don't kill me.
1526
00:55:30,477 --> 00:55:31,902
I'm bored.
1527
00:55:32,054 --> 00:55:33,645
- Yeah.
- Bored with this suit?
1528
00:55:33,664 --> 00:55:35,164
- Yeah, the suit.
1529
00:55:35,315 --> 00:55:37,482
- What about this that's
just like, "it's a no"?
1530
00:55:37,576 --> 00:55:39,168
- It's not like this is wrong,
but it's also nothing
1531
00:55:39,319 --> 00:55:40,819
Just that's gon' show you
right.
1532
00:55:40,838 --> 00:55:41,912
- Like you say, if someone's
seen it on a mannequin
1533
00:55:42,006 --> 00:55:44,840
And just put it on, you know?
1534
00:55:45,067 --> 00:55:49,252
- Honestly,
this doesn't give me dapper.
1535
00:55:49,347 --> 00:55:51,162
This just gives me prom.
1536
00:55:51,182 --> 00:55:53,090
Prom.
1537
00:55:53,242 --> 00:55:54,666
- Man, I see
where this is going.
1538
00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:56,927
You finna try on 15 more suits.
1539
00:55:57,079 --> 00:55:59,671
- And if it takes 20 suits,
I'm gon' try on 20 more suits.
1540
00:55:59,690 --> 00:56:02,358
I don't want it to get basic.
1541
00:56:02,585 --> 00:56:04,342
♪ ♪
1542
00:56:04,362 --> 00:56:06,253
- ♪ set the city on fire ♪
1543
00:56:06,271 --> 00:56:08,939
- Aww, she's so pretty.
1544
00:56:09,091 --> 00:56:11,091
Look at you.
1545
00:56:11,184 --> 00:56:12,517
- That is definitely
giving cinderella.
1546
00:56:12,536 --> 00:56:14,761
- Oh, my goodness.
That...
1547
00:56:14,855 --> 00:56:17,039
- ♪ light it up, up ♪
1548
00:56:17,266 --> 00:56:19,449
♪ ♪
1549
00:56:19,602 --> 00:56:20,784
- How are you feeling
right now?
1550
00:56:20,936 --> 00:56:22,878
- Mm.
1551
00:56:23,029 --> 00:56:25,455
- This is beautiful,
but this is not the dress.
1552
00:56:25,608 --> 00:56:28,533
Both: Okay.
- Back to the drawing board.
1553
00:56:28,552 --> 00:56:30,052
- When I was a little girl,
1554
00:56:30,203 --> 00:56:33,371
I dreamed
about getting married,
1555
00:56:33,465 --> 00:56:34,965
Having a beautiful dress,
1556
00:56:35,117 --> 00:56:37,208
Having my family
and friends there.
1557
00:56:37,302 --> 00:56:39,895
And now is a chance
for it to become a reality.
1558
00:56:40,122 --> 00:56:42,398
♪ ♪
1559
00:56:42,625 --> 00:56:44,215
- That's beautiful.
1560
00:56:44,309 --> 00:56:46,143
- This is the one
with the long train.
1561
00:56:46,237 --> 00:56:48,478
I know what I want,
1562
00:56:48,631 --> 00:56:51,481
And I definitely want
to impress my husband.
1563
00:56:51,575 --> 00:56:53,892
This is more plain.
- Yes.
1564
00:56:53,911 --> 00:56:55,393
- Like, I think it's beautiful,
1565
00:56:55,413 --> 00:56:56,637
But I don't think it's the one.
1566
00:56:56,655 --> 00:56:58,730
- It's not the one?
- Yeah.
1567
00:56:58,824 --> 00:57:01,566
I want him to say,
"oh, my gosh,
1568
00:57:01,585 --> 00:57:05,829
I am such a blessed man
to be here today."
1569
00:57:05,981 --> 00:57:07,906
- What do you think?
1570
00:57:07,925 --> 00:57:09,316
- I like it,
but I don't think
1571
00:57:09,409 --> 00:57:10,926
That I like the flowers
on the skirt.
1572
00:57:11,077 --> 00:57:12,911
Both: Okay.
1573
00:57:12,930 --> 00:57:15,246
- Let's keep it moving, shawty.
1574
00:57:15,340 --> 00:57:17,174
[upbeat music]
1575
00:57:17,268 --> 00:57:19,918
- ♪ oh, yeah,
yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪
1576
00:57:19,937 --> 00:57:21,419
- Oh, yeah, I like that.
1577
00:57:21,513 --> 00:57:23,588
- ♪ uh-huh, uh-huh ♪
1578
00:57:23,607 --> 00:57:24,589
- That's the one.
1579
00:57:24,608 --> 00:57:26,349
- It says dapper.
1580
00:57:26,502 --> 00:57:28,685
- It definitely says dapper.
1581
00:57:28,837 --> 00:57:31,338
And I love the peak collar,
1582
00:57:31,431 --> 00:57:33,449
Especially with, like,
the hunter green.
1583
00:57:33,676 --> 00:57:36,510
- And it's not like a green.
It's like...
1584
00:57:36,603 --> 00:57:39,196
All: [softly] green.
[laughter]
1585
00:57:39,348 --> 00:57:40,605
- I think this is it.
1586
00:57:40,624 --> 00:57:44,108
I think this is the look
that I'm going for.
1587
00:57:44,128 --> 00:57:47,779
Me wearing the suit's like,
"this moment is real."
1588
00:57:47,873 --> 00:57:51,541
I went from being single
to engaged
1589
00:57:51,694 --> 00:57:54,953
To now I will be a married man,
which is crazy.
1590
00:57:55,047 --> 00:57:57,030
But it's been very lonely.
1591
00:57:57,123 --> 00:58:00,124
I really want someone
to live this life with,
1592
00:58:00,219 --> 00:58:03,036
So I'm praying
that it all works out.
1593
00:58:03,129 --> 00:58:04,888
You never know where life
is going to take you,
1594
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:06,540
So I'm trusting the process.
1595
00:58:06,558 --> 00:58:08,633
And I'm believing that
everything is gonna work out.
1596
00:58:08,727 --> 00:58:10,152
- I hope she thinkin'
the same way.
1597
00:58:10,303 --> 00:58:12,654
[laughter]
1598
00:58:12,881 --> 00:58:14,973
- Me too.
1599
00:58:14,992 --> 00:58:17,809
[soft music]
1600
00:58:17,828 --> 00:58:20,904
- Oh, my god.
1601
00:58:21,056 --> 00:58:22,480
- ♪ I could tell
by looking at you ♪
1602
00:58:22,500 --> 00:58:25,408
♪ that you just my type,
so let's go ♪
1603
00:58:25,561 --> 00:58:26,651
- Oh, my goodness.
- What do y'all think?
1604
00:58:26,745 --> 00:58:28,395
- Oh, my goodness.
1605
00:58:28,413 --> 00:58:29,913
♪ ♪
1606
00:58:30,007 --> 00:58:32,991
- That is absolutely amazing.
1607
00:58:33,085 --> 00:58:35,511
- This is beautiful.
I'm feeling sexy.
1608
00:58:35,662 --> 00:58:36,586
- Yes.
- Mm-hmm.
1609
00:58:36,739 --> 00:58:37,846
- I'm feeling like a bride.
1610
00:58:38,073 --> 00:58:39,406
All: Yes.
1611
00:58:39,499 --> 00:58:40,574
- I'm feeling like a wifey.
1612
00:58:40,667 --> 00:58:43,426
[laughter]
- I'm loving it.
1613
00:58:43,579 --> 00:58:46,246
- This is pretty. I'm sold.
1614
00:58:46,339 --> 00:58:49,599
Oh, my god,
this is getting real!
1615
00:58:49,752 --> 00:58:52,510
I'm thinking about my husband
as I try on this dress.
1616
00:58:52,604 --> 00:58:54,512
I'm thinking about us saying
our vows to each other
1617
00:58:54,532 --> 00:58:56,532
On our wedding day.
1618
00:58:56,683 --> 00:59:00,110
And I hope that it's
everything that I dreamed of.
1619
00:59:00,262 --> 00:59:03,113
- This is totally
unconventional,
1620
00:59:03,207 --> 00:59:06,283
But that in no way means
it can't be everything
1621
00:59:06,435 --> 00:59:08,210
You have desired and needed.
1622
00:59:08,437 --> 00:59:11,362
- I can't believe
that I'm taking this risk
1623
00:59:11,382 --> 00:59:14,550
And, like, putting my trust
in other people.
1624
00:59:14,777 --> 00:59:17,886
So now things are really
starting to settle in.
1625
00:59:18,038 --> 00:59:21,131
Like, this is one
of the biggest decisions
1626
00:59:21,283 --> 00:59:22,224
In my life.
1627
00:59:22,375 --> 00:59:25,710
- ♪ oh, oh, oh ♪
1628
00:59:25,804 --> 00:59:27,229
♪ oh, oh, oh ♪
1629
00:59:31,718 --> 00:59:32,459
- ♪ so many beauties, y'all ♪
1630
00:59:32,552 --> 00:59:34,236
♪ he's a cute, y'all ♪
1631
00:59:34,463 --> 00:59:36,813
♪ it's been a while,
getting singles out ♪
1632
00:59:36,907 --> 00:59:38,407
♪ 'cause it's all
coming back to me ♪
1633
00:59:38,634 --> 00:59:40,150
- Tonight, on the eve
of their big day,
1634
00:59:40,302 --> 00:59:42,894
Our 10 singles will have
one last chance
1635
00:59:42,988 --> 00:59:44,729
To get together and celebrate
1636
00:59:44,748 --> 00:59:47,249
Before leaving
their single life for good.
1637
00:59:47,400 --> 00:59:50,735
- I'm engaged!
1638
00:59:50,829 --> 00:59:53,755
I'm getting married!
- Whoo!
1639
00:59:53,982 --> 00:59:55,924
- Because tomorrow,
our couples
1640
00:59:56,151 --> 00:59:58,501
Will enter into
legally binding marriages
1641
00:59:58,596 --> 01:00:00,578
With complete strangers.
1642
01:00:00,598 --> 01:00:02,598
- ♪ hands down, we the last ♪
1643
01:00:02,749 --> 01:00:04,341
♪ people in this whole town ♪
1644
01:00:04,493 --> 01:00:07,010
♪ ♪
1645
01:00:07,104 --> 01:00:09,587
- Nashville is the capital
of the bachelorette parties.
1646
01:00:09,607 --> 01:00:11,273
And I actually fell in love
with nashville
1647
01:00:11,500 --> 01:00:13,183
When I was here
for a bachelorette party.
1648
01:00:13,277 --> 01:00:14,926
And the fact that I am having
a bachelorette party
1649
01:00:14,945 --> 01:00:16,503
Because I'm getting married
at first sight--
1650
01:00:16,521 --> 01:00:18,262
Explosions in my brain.
1651
01:00:18,282 --> 01:00:19,840
This is amazing.
1652
01:00:19,858 --> 01:00:21,617
♪ ♪
1653
01:00:21,768 --> 01:00:23,935
- ♪ crazy, wild, wild ♪
1654
01:00:23,954 --> 01:00:26,696
- Oh, my goodness!
1655
01:00:26,790 --> 01:00:30,517
- Oh, whoo!
- Hey!
1656
01:00:30,535 --> 01:00:32,777
- I volunteer as tribute.
1657
01:00:32,796 --> 01:00:34,187
- ♪ ice on my wrist,
I'm drippin' ♪
1658
01:00:34,280 --> 01:00:35,947
♪ got champagne I'm sippin' ♪
1659
01:00:35,966 --> 01:00:37,782
♪ I walk and I strut through ♪
1660
01:00:37,876 --> 01:00:38,859
- Look at nicole!
1661
01:00:38,952 --> 01:00:40,284
[laughter]
1662
01:00:40,304 --> 01:00:41,119
- ♪ fools gold, you trippin' ♪
1663
01:00:41,138 --> 01:00:43,363
[cheers, laughter]
1664
01:00:43,456 --> 01:00:46,383
- Nicole, you know, I mean,
she is ready for a good time.
1665
01:00:46,477 --> 01:00:48,810
Like, I hope her husband's
ready just to get down
1666
01:00:48,962 --> 01:00:50,887
And have fun,
because homegirl's ready.
1667
01:00:51,039 --> 01:00:53,723
[upbeat country music]
1668
01:00:53,876 --> 01:00:57,227
- Ahh! Ahh!
1669
01:00:57,379 --> 01:00:58,561
♪ ♪
1670
01:00:58,714 --> 01:01:00,380
- I licked a stripper's abs.
1671
01:01:00,399 --> 01:01:04,475
But honestly, I'm not sorry,
because I'm still single.
1672
01:01:04,569 --> 01:01:05,643
- You can have all my money.
1673
01:01:05,737 --> 01:01:07,570
You can have everything I have.
1674
01:01:07,665 --> 01:01:10,148
I'm honestly shocked
that I've made it to 35 years
1675
01:01:10,242 --> 01:01:12,167
Without seeing a male stripper.
1676
01:01:12,394 --> 01:01:15,578
[cheers]
1677
01:01:15,731 --> 01:01:18,006
It was my first
male stripper experience,
1678
01:01:18,158 --> 01:01:19,582
And it did not disappoint.
1679
01:01:19,735 --> 01:01:23,236
I'm just, like,
hoping my husband
1680
01:01:23,329 --> 01:01:24,738
Can give the same energy,
you know?
1681
01:01:24,756 --> 01:01:29,759
♪ ♪
1682
01:01:29,853 --> 01:01:31,428
- Oh, all right, girl.
1683
01:01:31,580 --> 01:01:34,189
- There we go! Whoo!
1684
01:01:34,416 --> 01:01:35,840
- ♪ and the cops don't call
your mom ♪
1685
01:01:35,859 --> 01:01:38,768
♪ if you're fine,
I ain't listening ♪
1686
01:01:38,921 --> 01:01:40,678
♪ you can stop talking,
'cause these boots ♪
1687
01:01:40,698 --> 01:01:44,090
♪ were made for kickin' some ♪
1688
01:01:44,109 --> 01:01:45,942
- [as clint] hi, I'm clint.
I'm the nashville cowboy.
1689
01:01:46,036 --> 01:01:48,186
I'm here to find love.
1690
01:01:48,280 --> 01:01:49,946
I do think
clint's a ladies' man.
1691
01:01:50,040 --> 01:01:53,266
Like, the guy's got so much
energy, so much to give.
1692
01:01:53,285 --> 01:01:55,210
And he's very confident
in himself.
1693
01:01:55,361 --> 01:01:56,453
And I think
that's very important
1694
01:01:56,605 --> 01:01:58,880
And women find that sexy.
1695
01:01:59,032 --> 01:02:02,033
- Come on! Yeah!
1696
01:02:02,052 --> 01:02:03,610
- ♪ headin' to the city ♪
1697
01:02:03,628 --> 01:02:05,111
♪ what you think of that? ♪
1698
01:02:05,205 --> 01:02:06,871
♪ I'm gonna leave this town ♪
1699
01:02:06,965 --> 01:02:08,223
♪ but keep this hat ♪
1700
01:02:10,877 --> 01:02:12,227
- Which one would
be yours, though?
1701
01:02:12,378 --> 01:02:14,788
- Oh, probably the one
in the yellow, hopefully.
1702
01:02:14,806 --> 01:02:16,714
- Okay.
1703
01:02:16,734 --> 01:02:18,400
- I'm just hoping
they don't come over here.
1704
01:02:18,627 --> 01:02:21,069
♪ ♪
1705
01:02:21,296 --> 01:02:24,297
[cheers]
1706
01:02:24,316 --> 01:02:26,816
- Ow, ow! Damn!
1707
01:02:26,910 --> 01:02:28,410
- What y'all gon' do?
1708
01:02:28,561 --> 01:02:29,803
Which one is ours?
1709
01:02:29,896 --> 01:02:31,137
- I gotta take a body shot,
baby.
1710
01:02:31,231 --> 01:02:32,322
- Off of me?
- Off of you, baby.
1711
01:02:32,474 --> 01:02:33,731
- Okay.
1712
01:02:33,825 --> 01:02:35,158
If I had to nominate anyone
1713
01:02:35,252 --> 01:02:36,901
For spending too much time
with the strippers,
1714
01:02:36,995 --> 01:02:38,236
It would probably be myself.
1715
01:02:38,255 --> 01:02:39,421
[laughs]
1716
01:02:39,648 --> 01:02:40,997
[cheers]
1717
01:02:41,091 --> 01:02:42,999
- Yes!
1718
01:02:43,151 --> 01:02:45,761
- [indistinct singing
under cheers]
1719
01:02:45,988 --> 01:02:48,430
♪ ♪
1720
01:02:48,581 --> 01:02:50,915
- [laughs]
1721
01:02:50,934 --> 01:02:53,602
- This is cute, but I'm ready
to meet my husband.
1722
01:02:53,753 --> 01:02:56,438
I am definitely, like,
shy in the bedroom,
1723
01:02:56,665 --> 01:03:00,776
So the strippers--
wasn't my cup of tea.
1724
01:03:03,447 --> 01:03:04,946
- When are you gonna
consummate the marriage?
1725
01:03:05,173 --> 01:03:07,524
- I'm ready.
1726
01:03:07,676 --> 01:03:09,175
Dapper dillon ready.
1727
01:03:09,269 --> 01:03:10,010
- He ready!
[laughter]
1728
01:03:10,028 --> 01:03:11,694
Yeah, he's ready.
1729
01:03:11,789 --> 01:03:15,348
- But honestly, I think
it's, like, on the girl,
1730
01:03:15,367 --> 01:03:17,459
Like, when she's ready,
1731
01:03:17,686 --> 01:03:19,795
Because she may not have
the same feeling as you.
1732
01:03:20,022 --> 01:03:21,688
So I have to respect
her wishes because men,
1733
01:03:21,781 --> 01:03:23,965
We ready at any point in time.
1734
01:03:24,117 --> 01:03:26,709
I have to be respectful
enough to say,
1735
01:03:26,804 --> 01:03:28,862
Like, "this is a woman,
the mother of my children."
1736
01:03:28,880 --> 01:03:31,640
[all shrieking]
1737
01:03:31,867 --> 01:03:36,202
♪ ♪
1738
01:03:36,221 --> 01:03:37,979
- I think I'm going
to allow her
1739
01:03:38,206 --> 01:03:40,631
To make that initial decision
if that happens.
1740
01:03:40,725 --> 01:03:41,817
- Oh, let's talk
about the first night.
1741
01:03:42,044 --> 01:03:43,560
- Yes, let's talk
about that one, friend.
1742
01:03:43,712 --> 01:03:45,712
Are you gonna bust it
wide open?
1743
01:03:45,805 --> 01:03:47,471
- Ahh! And tell him
to break the back?
1744
01:03:47,566 --> 01:03:48,882
- And tell him
break your back.
1745
01:03:48,900 --> 01:03:50,141
- On the bed,
the floor, the shower.
1746
01:03:50,160 --> 01:03:52,994
- Ooh!
- The balcony. Ooh!
1747
01:03:53,221 --> 01:03:54,979
- What if he's dominant
in the bedroom?
1748
01:03:54,998 --> 01:03:56,389
- I like that.
1749
01:03:56,482 --> 01:03:57,481
Sometimes I like
to be the receiver.
1750
01:03:57,576 --> 01:03:58,816
- Okay.
- Give it all to me.
1751
01:03:58,836 --> 01:03:59,984
- Okay.
- [laughs]
1752
01:04:00,078 --> 01:04:02,337
[playful music]
1753
01:04:02,488 --> 01:04:03,839
- Everybody's in this
because they want it to work
1754
01:04:04,066 --> 01:04:06,416
Because, like, we've exhausted
all these options.
1755
01:04:06,510 --> 01:04:07,491
Nothing's working.
1756
01:04:07,511 --> 01:04:09,010
So, like, you want it to work.
1757
01:04:09,162 --> 01:04:10,328
The day I found out
that I was picked,
1758
01:04:10,422 --> 01:04:11,662
I deleted the apps.
1759
01:04:11,756 --> 01:04:13,089
And honestly, it felt good.
1760
01:04:13,183 --> 01:04:14,182
It did, because it was
one of those things
1761
01:04:14,409 --> 01:04:15,909
Where I'm like,
"we're in it now.
1762
01:04:15,927 --> 01:04:17,168
We're in it now."
1763
01:04:17,262 --> 01:04:18,336
- See, I put mine on snooze.
1764
01:04:18,355 --> 01:04:19,596
I ain't delete it.
1765
01:04:19,748 --> 01:04:21,356
It's asleep.
- Chris ready, man.
1766
01:04:21,507 --> 01:04:22,506
- He is ready.
1767
01:04:22,601 --> 01:04:23,933
- Chris is ready.
1768
01:04:24,027 --> 01:04:25,843
- He is ready.
1769
01:04:25,863 --> 01:04:28,179
I hope chris's wife
is ready to fall in love
1770
01:04:28,273 --> 01:04:30,106
Day one, 'cause he's ready.
1771
01:04:30,200 --> 01:04:33,276
If his wife is watching this,
like, you are very lucky.
1772
01:04:33,370 --> 01:04:34,761
Like, chris loves you already.
1773
01:04:34,854 --> 01:04:36,788
Chris ain't even met you,
and chris is in love.
1774
01:04:38,858 --> 01:04:40,876
- What are you nervous about?
What's keeping you--
1775
01:04:41,027 --> 01:04:44,771
- I'm nervous that I have
to make a marriage work.
1776
01:04:44,789 --> 01:04:46,272
So that's the craziest
concept to me.
1777
01:04:46,291 --> 01:04:47,440
- Well, that's the thing.
1778
01:04:47,459 --> 01:04:48,775
You don't have to make it work.
1779
01:04:48,868 --> 01:04:50,276
It might not work.
- It's working.
1780
01:04:50,370 --> 01:04:51,444
- When it's working.
- Yeah. But like--
1781
01:04:51,463 --> 01:04:52,779
- It's working.
1782
01:04:52,797 --> 01:04:54,280
He doesn't have a choice.
1783
01:04:54,299 --> 01:04:56,116
I will chain him to the chair
and say,
1784
01:04:56,134 --> 01:04:57,726
"you stay here on decision day.
1785
01:04:57,877 --> 01:04:59,543
"I'm gonna say you're sick
1786
01:04:59,563 --> 01:05:01,479
And you said
you wanna stay married."
1787
01:05:03,125 --> 01:05:06,142
- Y'all ready to settle jow--
down with just one vagina?
1788
01:05:06,294 --> 01:05:07,644
♪ ♪
1789
01:05:07,738 --> 01:05:10,463
- I feel like one vagina
forever can be fun.
1790
01:05:10,556 --> 01:05:12,649
Like, I can just
literally focus
1791
01:05:12,743 --> 01:05:15,652
On mastering this one vagina.
1792
01:05:15,746 --> 01:05:17,153
You know what I mean?
1793
01:05:17,247 --> 01:05:18,729
Like, if you like me to come in
from the left,
1794
01:05:18,749 --> 01:05:21,565
From the right, at 6:00,
1795
01:05:21,585 --> 01:05:23,901
Like, I will [bleep] master it.
[laughter]
1796
01:05:23,995 --> 01:05:26,813
Yeah, I'm ready for that.
1797
01:05:26,831 --> 01:05:28,164
- Same. You know,
1798
01:05:28,316 --> 01:05:30,833
I've had my fair share
of hookups
1799
01:05:30,928 --> 01:05:32,910
And plenty of beautiful women.
1800
01:05:32,930 --> 01:05:35,672
And I'm ready to settle down.
1801
01:05:35,766 --> 01:05:37,265
- I don't drink a lot,
so, like, all the girls
1802
01:05:37,417 --> 01:05:38,658
I, like, hang out with--
- I felt like you drank
1803
01:05:38,677 --> 01:05:39,917
A lot tonight.
- It's the most I've drank
1804
01:05:39,937 --> 01:05:41,661
Probably in, like, six months.
1805
01:05:41,754 --> 01:05:43,104
Not even kidding.
Not even kidding.
1806
01:05:43,256 --> 01:05:44,088
- Yeah. Yeah.
- Like, for real.
1807
01:05:44,107 --> 01:05:45,273
- If it makes you feel better,
1808
01:05:45,500 --> 01:05:46,849
I'm not, like,
a big shot person.
1809
01:05:46,944 --> 01:05:48,276
Like, I like, like, mix shots.
1810
01:05:48,503 --> 01:05:49,686
- Well, I can tell.
I can tell.
1811
01:05:49,780 --> 01:05:51,613
- Oh, I'm putting on
a brave face tonight.
1812
01:05:51,764 --> 01:05:52,839
- I struggled hard to get
that out of your tits.
1813
01:05:52,932 --> 01:05:54,190
I was like, "come on."
- [laughing]
1814
01:05:54,342 --> 01:05:56,192
"come on, omni.
Come on, you got this."
1815
01:05:56,344 --> 01:05:57,860
♪ ♪
1816
01:05:58,013 --> 01:06:00,180
- That's not her husband,
unless dr. Pepper
1817
01:06:00,273 --> 01:06:01,939
Is matching people
with strippers now.
1818
01:06:01,959 --> 01:06:05,126
- Actually, this is,
like, my "pocketbook."
1819
01:06:05,278 --> 01:06:07,854
Have you ever heard that term,
a "pocketbook"?
1820
01:06:07,947 --> 01:06:09,189
Yeah.
- If I had titties, be like,
1821
01:06:09,282 --> 01:06:12,116
"I got a b-cup over here.
I have a b-cup."
1822
01:06:12,135 --> 01:06:14,544
- See, look--yeah, we got
more than the b-cup over here.
1823
01:06:14,696 --> 01:06:16,196
♪ ♪
1824
01:06:16,214 --> 01:06:18,640
- Okay,
you're about to be a wife.
1825
01:06:18,867 --> 01:06:20,216
Don't. Don't do it.
1826
01:06:20,368 --> 01:06:22,368
Don't give him your number.
Don't do it.
1827
01:06:22,462 --> 01:06:24,479
- Wait.
Wait, you spilled tequila.
1828
01:06:24,630 --> 01:06:25,963
I forgot my vape
was down there.
1829
01:06:26,057 --> 01:06:27,816
[laughs]
- listen, girl.
1830
01:06:28,043 --> 01:06:28,817
I can give you
something else to suck on.
1831
01:06:29,044 --> 01:06:30,443
Oh, yeah!
1832
01:06:34,883 --> 01:06:37,325
- ♪ I'll never be
alone again ♪
1833
01:06:37,477 --> 01:06:39,310
- It's wedding day!
1834
01:06:39,404 --> 01:06:41,571
- Whoo! Wedding day!
- Whoo!
1835
01:06:41,723 --> 01:06:43,740
- For our couples,
the life-changing day
1836
01:06:43,834 --> 01:06:46,392
Is finally here.
1837
01:06:46,411 --> 01:06:49,562
- Heart stuff,
it's going on, you know?
1838
01:06:49,581 --> 01:06:52,732
It's--the nerves
are at an all-time high.
1839
01:06:52,825 --> 01:06:54,658
But I finally get to meet
my wife,
1840
01:06:54,753 --> 01:06:56,085
And I'm gonna be married.
1841
01:06:56,238 --> 01:06:58,571
Putting a ring on this. Yup.
1842
01:06:58,590 --> 01:07:00,256
- It honestly feels
like christmas morning.
1843
01:07:00,350 --> 01:07:02,909
It's crazy when you, like,
feel like santa's coming.
1844
01:07:03,002 --> 01:07:05,336
I feel, like,
an insane feeling.
1845
01:07:05,430 --> 01:07:09,582
- There's gonna be a mrs. Webb
here in several hours.
1846
01:07:09,601 --> 01:07:11,526
♪ ♪
1847
01:07:11,677 --> 01:07:13,677
That's something else.
1848
01:07:13,697 --> 01:07:15,363
- Just got to the room.
This is it.
1849
01:07:15,590 --> 01:07:19,425
- Yeah, yeah.
- No turning back.
1850
01:07:19,444 --> 01:07:22,871
I'm never gonna be the same
after today.
1851
01:07:23,022 --> 01:07:27,450
- This is the biggest leap
of faith of their lives...
1852
01:07:27,602 --> 01:07:29,602
- Couple more hours.
- Yup.
1853
01:07:29,621 --> 01:07:30,953
- You're really about to have
a ring on your finger, like...
1854
01:07:31,106 --> 01:07:31,788
- Yay.
- A whole wifey.
1855
01:07:31,882 --> 01:07:33,122
- Right, yeah.
1856
01:07:33,275 --> 01:07:34,607
- Goodbye to the streets.
1857
01:07:34,700 --> 01:07:36,459
[laughter]
1858
01:07:36,553 --> 01:07:40,780
- As they prepare to say I do
to a total stranger.
1859
01:07:40,873 --> 01:07:42,057
- Cheers to jas
getting married.
1860
01:07:42,284 --> 01:07:43,633
- Yay!
1861
01:07:43,785 --> 01:07:45,468
All: Clink, clink, clink,
clink, clink, clink.
1862
01:07:45,562 --> 01:07:47,136
- The first couple to get
married at first sight
1863
01:07:47,289 --> 01:07:49,713
Is kirsten and shaquille.
1864
01:07:49,808 --> 01:07:51,307
- Good morning!
1865
01:07:51,401 --> 01:07:53,234
- Get up, kirsten, girl!
1866
01:07:53,386 --> 01:07:54,718
- It is wedding day!
- Wedding day!
1867
01:07:54,813 --> 01:07:56,053
Get up! Get up!
1868
01:07:56,147 --> 01:07:58,222
It's time to be a wife!
1869
01:07:58,316 --> 01:08:00,558
- When I was a little girl,
I definitely imagined myself
1870
01:08:00,652 --> 01:08:02,468
Knowing a man forever
1871
01:08:02,562 --> 01:08:05,080
And then getting married
to him.
1872
01:08:05,231 --> 01:08:06,656
I never thought
that I would marry a stranger,
1873
01:08:06,750 --> 01:08:07,749
And here I am.
1874
01:08:07,900 --> 01:08:09,066
- Are you ready?
1875
01:08:09,160 --> 01:08:10,585
- I have no choice.
Today is the day.
1876
01:08:10,736 --> 01:08:12,145
- Today is the day.
1877
01:08:12,163 --> 01:08:13,922
- I'm really hoping too,
like, he's kind
1878
01:08:14,073 --> 01:08:16,649
And, like, he's a great man
and he knows how to, like,
1879
01:08:16,668 --> 01:08:19,243
Lead, you know,
and make me feel comfortable.
1880
01:08:19,262 --> 01:08:21,930
I am excited,
but I'm also nervous.
1881
01:08:22,157 --> 01:08:23,823
I mean, I know
it's the craziest thing,
1882
01:08:23,842 --> 01:08:26,826
But I'm very particular
and picky.
1883
01:08:26,845 --> 01:08:29,162
I have a very hard time
going out
1884
01:08:29,180 --> 01:08:32,165
Finding a black guy
that I'm attracted to.
1885
01:08:32,183 --> 01:08:35,835
So I put it all
in the experts' hands,
1886
01:08:35,854 --> 01:08:38,171
And just hoping
that the chemistry is there.
1887
01:08:38,189 --> 01:08:40,673
I hope that we're compatible
for each other.
1888
01:08:40,766 --> 01:08:44,010
And I pray
that I like him a lot.
1889
01:08:44,028 --> 01:08:46,179
I pray that
I'm attracted to him too.
1890
01:08:46,197 --> 01:08:47,697
Okay, I think I just need
just a little more.
1891
01:08:47,849 --> 01:08:49,015
- Or a lot.
- One more.
1892
01:08:49,033 --> 01:08:50,032
- Pour it up. Pour it up.
Pour it up.
1893
01:08:50,127 --> 01:08:51,275
- I don't wanna--
1894
01:08:51,294 --> 01:08:52,685
- You wanna drink it
from the bottle?
1895
01:08:52,778 --> 01:08:54,612
You need a keg stand,
like 2009?
1896
01:08:54,706 --> 01:08:56,189
- No! Ahh!
[laughter]
1897
01:08:56,282 --> 01:08:58,782
- Kirsten!
Take it to the head.
1898
01:08:58,802 --> 01:08:59,859
- Oh, my.
- Take it to the head.
1899
01:08:59,878 --> 01:09:00,951
♪ ♪
1900
01:09:00,971 --> 01:09:02,637
- Hey.
1901
01:09:02,788 --> 01:09:04,547
- What's going on?
1902
01:09:04,699 --> 01:09:05,715
- It's really nice.
1903
01:09:05,809 --> 01:09:07,976
Suits over here.
1904
01:09:08,127 --> 01:09:09,960
Today's the big day,
the wedding.
1905
01:09:09,980 --> 01:09:11,813
Really excited.
1906
01:09:12,040 --> 01:09:14,983
Like, this is the start
of a new journey.
1907
01:09:15,134 --> 01:09:18,711
- Oops. Ooh.
[laughter]
1908
01:09:18,730 --> 01:09:20,822
- I feel like becoming
somebody's husband
1909
01:09:21,049 --> 01:09:24,308
Is like me becoming a uncle
for the first time.
1910
01:09:24,327 --> 01:09:26,386
Like, my siblings had children,
1911
01:09:26,479 --> 01:09:28,721
And I was, like,
their proud uncle.
1912
01:09:28,740 --> 01:09:31,724
But now I'm, like, about
to be that proud husband.
1913
01:09:31,743 --> 01:09:33,893
Like, being optimistic,
I prayed,
1914
01:09:33,986 --> 01:09:35,912
Knowing what I wanted
out of life,
1915
01:09:36,064 --> 01:09:37,321
And it actually happened.
1916
01:09:37,340 --> 01:09:39,582
So, like, I planted the seeds.
1917
01:09:39,734 --> 01:09:42,159
Now I'm watching the fruit
of my labor grow.
1918
01:09:42,179 --> 01:09:44,921
And I'm ready.
1919
01:09:45,073 --> 01:09:47,924
I never imagined being here,
like, this quick.
1920
01:09:48,076 --> 01:09:49,909
- Yeah.
- And it's just--
1921
01:09:49,928 --> 01:09:52,595
It's been a lot
of moments by myself
1922
01:09:52,689 --> 01:09:55,339
Through this journey that
I had time to think about,
1923
01:09:55,358 --> 01:09:56,749
"am I doing the right thing?"
1924
01:09:56,842 --> 01:09:59,510
I finally came to terms
after I prayed
1925
01:09:59,604 --> 01:10:01,103
And got confirmation from god,
like, this is for me.
1926
01:10:01,256 --> 01:10:02,588
- Yeah.
- And no matter
1927
01:10:02,682 --> 01:10:06,259
How I got to this point,
I'm here.
1928
01:10:06,352 --> 01:10:08,852
- It's a big role,
but I have no doubt
1929
01:10:08,872 --> 01:10:12,432
That you will be
a good husband,
1930
01:10:12,450 --> 01:10:15,268
Eventually, a good father
in the near future.
1931
01:10:15,361 --> 01:10:17,212
Cheers to--cheers to shaq.
1932
01:10:17,363 --> 01:10:18,454
- To the dillons, man.
1933
01:10:18,606 --> 01:10:21,123
- To the dillons.
- To the dillons.
1934
01:10:21,276 --> 01:10:23,200
♪ ♪
1935
01:10:23,220 --> 01:10:24,610
- To the dillons.
Wow, that's crazy.
1936
01:10:24,629 --> 01:10:25,720
- Mm-hmm.
1937
01:10:25,871 --> 01:10:27,037
- My mom is not here.
1938
01:10:27,057 --> 01:10:28,223
I'm gonna have to give her
a call.
1939
01:10:28,450 --> 01:10:29,707
- She probably be gettin'
some beauty rest.
1940
01:10:29,726 --> 01:10:31,801
- She's probably
just turned up.
1941
01:10:31,953 --> 01:10:33,619
- You gon' give her a call now?
1942
01:10:33,638 --> 01:10:35,455
- Okay, let's give
miss vonda a call.
1943
01:10:35,473 --> 01:10:37,123
I'm sure she's probably
not with her--
1944
01:10:37,216 --> 01:10:39,292
- The person you
are calling
1945
01:10:39,310 --> 01:10:41,402
Cannot accept calls
at this time.
1946
01:10:41,554 --> 01:10:44,464
We're sorry for any
inconvenience this may cause.
1947
01:10:44,482 --> 01:10:45,815
[line beeping]
- a major inconvenience.
1948
01:10:45,967 --> 01:10:47,633
- Right.
1949
01:10:47,652 --> 01:10:48,818
- That's odd.
That's definitely not like her.
1950
01:10:48,912 --> 01:10:50,578
[tense music]
1951
01:10:50,730 --> 01:10:53,639
- My mom is so important
to me.
1952
01:10:53,658 --> 01:10:55,658
And I would really feel
heartbroken
1953
01:10:55,810 --> 01:10:57,810
If she misses the wedding.
1954
01:10:57,829 --> 01:11:00,421
I have so much to worry about
right now,
1955
01:11:00,573 --> 01:11:02,648
So there's no way that
she can miss my wedding day.
1956
01:11:02,667 --> 01:11:04,333
♪ ♪
1957
01:11:04,486 --> 01:11:05,818
- How you feeling, bro man?
1958
01:11:05,911 --> 01:11:07,745
- I said at the
beginning of this year
1959
01:11:07,839 --> 01:11:10,323
That this year's gonna be the
year of transition, you know,
1960
01:11:10,416 --> 01:11:11,824
Finishing up
my doctorate degree
1961
01:11:11,843 --> 01:11:14,102
And, you know, school
and moving to a new job,
1962
01:11:14,329 --> 01:11:17,497
New city,
and now, getting married.
1963
01:11:17,515 --> 01:11:19,832
Like, it's just
crazy that we here.
1964
01:11:19,851 --> 01:11:22,502
Y'all good?
- As long as you good, we good.
1965
01:11:22,595 --> 01:11:24,837
That's all that matters.
- But that's the thing.
1966
01:11:24,856 --> 01:11:27,523
I'm like,
"I don't know if I'm good."
1967
01:11:27,675 --> 01:11:30,359
I'm excited, but also,
I'm scared as hell right now.
1968
01:11:30,453 --> 01:11:32,862
Like, I'm nervous to say
1969
01:11:33,014 --> 01:11:34,622
I painted the perfect picture
1970
01:11:34,774 --> 01:11:38,518
Of what I ideally thought
the day would look like.
1971
01:11:38,536 --> 01:11:40,277
And what if it
don't look like that?
1972
01:11:40,371 --> 01:11:43,298
What if it do a whole 360
1973
01:11:43,525 --> 01:11:45,800
And it's everything
that you didn't imagine?
1974
01:11:46,027 --> 01:11:48,285
But that's my life motto.
Do what scare you.
1975
01:11:48,379 --> 01:11:51,364
So in this very moment, ah,
your boy gettin' married,
1976
01:11:51,382 --> 01:11:53,716
And I'm doing it scared,
but I'm doing it.
1977
01:11:53,810 --> 01:11:55,034
- You're definitely
on time today, right?
1978
01:11:55,127 --> 01:11:57,537
[laughter]
1979
01:11:57,555 --> 01:12:00,130
- Y'all know I have a problem
with time management.
1980
01:12:00,150 --> 01:12:02,132
I was up at 6:00 this morning.
1981
01:12:02,152 --> 01:12:03,300
I can't be late
to my own wedding.
1982
01:12:03,394 --> 01:12:05,469
[rock/pop music]
1983
01:12:05,488 --> 01:12:07,971
- ♪ bringin' hell like fools ♪
1984
01:12:07,991 --> 01:12:11,050
♪ where lipstick ain't new ♪
1985
01:12:11,143 --> 01:12:13,719
♪ it's a thing, it's a vibe ♪
1986
01:12:13,813 --> 01:12:16,164
♪ gonna give it all tonight ♪
1987
01:12:16,315 --> 01:12:17,481
- What do you
think you're gonna
1988
01:12:17,500 --> 01:12:18,741
Say when you get to the altar?
1989
01:12:18,893 --> 01:12:19,983
Like, are you gonna say,
"hi, I'm kirsten"?
1990
01:12:20,003 --> 01:12:22,411
- I'ma say, "good afternoon."
1991
01:12:22,505 --> 01:12:24,063
- You know, I didn't have to
think about any of this stuff.
1992
01:12:24,156 --> 01:12:25,414
- Right.
- You gotta think about
1993
01:12:25,567 --> 01:12:27,991
Everything--your name,
his name, his last name,
1994
01:12:28,011 --> 01:12:30,160
If you're gonna
kiss him or not.
1995
01:12:30,180 --> 01:12:32,071
What kind of kiss
is it going to be?
1996
01:12:32,164 --> 01:12:33,681
Is it gonna be a kiss on
the cheek, on the lips?
1997
01:12:33,833 --> 01:12:35,408
- It's definitely not
gonna be a tongue kiss.
1998
01:12:35,426 --> 01:12:37,076
- Yeah, don't let him do that.
- No.
1999
01:12:37,095 --> 01:12:39,002
- We don't know you like that.
- Mm-mm.
2000
01:12:39,097 --> 01:12:41,171
- Are there any non-negotiables
2001
01:12:41,191 --> 01:12:43,082
As far as his
physical appearance?
2002
01:12:43,101 --> 01:12:44,508
Like, when you come
down the aisle,
2003
01:12:44,602 --> 01:12:46,652
Anything that you can see and
immediately be like--no?
2004
01:12:49,607 --> 01:12:51,107
- What if he's bald?
What you gon' do about it?
2005
01:12:51,259 --> 01:12:53,517
- If he's bald, I mean--
2006
01:12:53,536 --> 01:12:56,704
- You gon' brush
his bald head, gurl?
2007
01:12:56,856 --> 01:13:00,208
- I like guys with low haircuts
and, like, a nice beard.
2008
01:13:00,359 --> 01:13:01,951
- What kinda beard?
- I don't know
2009
01:13:02,103 --> 01:13:03,294
If I wanna baldheaded head.
2010
01:13:06,049 --> 01:13:07,215
- So williams
gonna walk you down.
2011
01:13:07,442 --> 01:13:09,458
- Yeah. My dad called him
and told him that he was
2012
01:13:09,611 --> 01:13:11,052
Gonna have to walk me down.
2013
01:13:11,203 --> 01:13:13,462
- So he like passed it on
over to him--that's so sweet.
2014
01:13:13,556 --> 01:13:15,781
- He gave him the honor.
- Gave him--that's an honor.
2015
01:13:15,800 --> 01:13:18,375
- I'm disappointed
my dad's not here.
2016
01:13:18,469 --> 01:13:19,894
I am close to my dad.
2017
01:13:20,045 --> 01:13:22,230
Like, I'm his firstborn.
2018
01:13:22,457 --> 01:13:24,290
But he's
a strong-minded person
2019
01:13:24,308 --> 01:13:26,308
And didn't wanna
get covid tested.
2020
01:13:26,403 --> 01:13:27,793
And that's that.
2021
01:13:27,812 --> 01:13:30,463
♪ ♪
2022
01:13:30,556 --> 01:13:32,407
- Kirsten, did your mom
call you back?
2023
01:13:32,558 --> 01:13:34,725
- I don't know.
I don't know what she's doing.
2024
01:13:34,744 --> 01:13:37,136
This is my day.
2025
01:13:37,229 --> 01:13:40,973
Like, I need at least one of my
parents to be here, you know?
2026
01:13:40,992 --> 01:13:42,917
Because, like,
if his family's here,
2027
01:13:43,144 --> 01:13:45,903
He would probably be alarmed
like, "where's her family?"
2028
01:13:45,922 --> 01:13:48,981
Like, where's her mother
and father?
2029
01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:50,332
- It would almost
look like a red flag
2030
01:13:50,485 --> 01:13:52,409
If you don't have your
family supporting you.
2031
01:13:52,429 --> 01:13:54,077
- The person you are calling
2032
01:13:54,097 --> 01:13:55,763
Cannot accept calls
at this time.
2033
01:13:55,915 --> 01:13:58,507
We're sorry for any
inconvenience this may cause.
2034
01:13:58,601 --> 01:14:00,342
[beep beep beep]
2035
01:14:00,495 --> 01:14:02,161
- We need a explanation, lady.
2036
01:14:02,254 --> 01:14:04,346
- I just want her to answer
the phone,
2037
01:14:04,441 --> 01:14:06,256
'cause that's gonna
get my blood boiling.
2038
01:14:06,350 --> 01:14:07,942
[tense music]
2039
01:14:12,282 --> 01:14:13,522
[edgy music]
2040
01:14:13,675 --> 01:14:14,690
♪ ♪
2041
01:14:14,784 --> 01:14:16,175
[beep beep]
2042
01:14:16,268 --> 01:14:17,359
- It just hangs up
automatically.
2043
01:14:17,512 --> 01:14:18,844
That's odd.
- Yeah, that's odd.
2044
01:14:18,863 --> 01:14:21,104
- Come on, mom.
Jesus lord.
2045
01:14:21,199 --> 01:14:22,531
- She just run
a little late sometimes.
2046
01:14:22,625 --> 01:14:24,125
- This is a lot late.
It's my wedding day.
2047
01:14:24,352 --> 01:14:26,109
- If she misses,
I know that, like,
2048
01:14:26,129 --> 01:14:27,369
She won't hear the end of it,
2049
01:14:27,522 --> 01:14:28,796
For sure.
- Yeah.
2050
01:14:29,023 --> 01:14:31,190
♪ ♪
2051
01:14:31,209 --> 01:14:32,633
[knock on door]
2052
01:14:32,860 --> 01:14:35,136
♪ ♪
2053
01:14:35,363 --> 01:14:36,971
- Please be vonda.
Please be vonda.
2054
01:14:38,308 --> 01:14:41,809
Yay!
All: Whoo!
2055
01:14:41,961 --> 01:14:44,628
- You made it!
2056
01:14:44,722 --> 01:14:47,315
- Girl, where have you been?
2057
01:14:47,466 --> 01:14:48,724
- Oh, my god!
2058
01:14:48,818 --> 01:14:50,376
- Oh, my gosh.
2059
01:14:50,394 --> 01:14:51,393
- Hello, love.
- Hey.
2060
01:14:51,546 --> 01:14:53,879
All: Aww.
2061
01:14:53,973 --> 01:14:55,715
- I've been calling
you all morning.
2062
01:14:55,733 --> 01:14:57,641
I was getting a little
flustered and annoyed,
2063
01:14:57,735 --> 01:14:59,902
So I'm a little better now.
2064
01:15:00,054 --> 01:15:01,478
- Your hair looks fabulous.
- Thank you.
2065
01:15:01,572 --> 01:15:02,571
Jasmine is about to do it.
2066
01:15:02,665 --> 01:15:04,240
My mom's finally here.
2067
01:15:04,392 --> 01:15:06,726
She made it here safely.
2068
01:15:06,819 --> 01:15:08,169
That was just
all I needed to see
2069
01:15:08,396 --> 01:15:10,062
Was her face
and her here safely.
2070
01:15:10,081 --> 01:15:13,749
No matter how late she was
running, she showed up.
2071
01:15:13,901 --> 01:15:15,325
- So, shaq,
the time is ticking.
2072
01:15:15,419 --> 01:15:16,585
So how are you feeling now?
2073
01:15:16,679 --> 01:15:18,179
- I think in this very moment,
2074
01:15:18,330 --> 01:15:21,574
I can only be thankful
and grateful that I'm here.
2075
01:15:21,592 --> 01:15:23,851
I fought so many
silent battles
2076
01:15:24,003 --> 01:15:26,003
That I, like, really didn't
share with the world or,
2077
01:15:26,097 --> 01:15:28,356
You know, my family,
and I always been
2078
01:15:28,583 --> 01:15:30,358
Just trying to always
be the strong person.
2079
01:15:30,585 --> 01:15:32,434
- Yeah.
- And...I'm tearing up.
2080
01:15:32,587 --> 01:15:34,362
- It's okay. Get it out.
I mean, but that's why
2081
01:15:34,513 --> 01:15:35,588
We here, though,
that's why we here.
2082
01:15:35,606 --> 01:15:37,590
Get it out here,
versus holding it in,
2083
01:15:37,683 --> 01:15:39,441
Because you need the release.
2084
01:15:39,594 --> 01:15:41,536
- We got ya.
- Yeah.
2085
01:15:44,874 --> 01:15:45,948
- We all deal with
silent battles.
2086
01:15:46,042 --> 01:15:48,617
- Yep.
- All of us.
2087
01:15:48,711 --> 01:15:53,030
- But honestly, I'm happy,
like, I'm in this moment, um...
2088
01:15:53,124 --> 01:15:55,124
- And it shows.
2089
01:15:55,276 --> 01:15:56,458
- [sniffling]
- right, and we know this.
2090
01:15:56,611 --> 01:15:58,294
- Mm-hmm.
2091
01:15:58,446 --> 01:16:00,462
♪ ♪
2092
01:16:00,557 --> 01:16:03,373
- ♪ breathe ♪
2093
01:16:03,467 --> 01:16:04,976
♪ breathe in deep... ♪
2094
01:16:07,288 --> 01:16:08,896
- It's gon' be all right.
- Yeah.
2095
01:16:09,123 --> 01:16:10,547
- It's gon' be good.
2096
01:16:10,567 --> 01:16:13,901
- ♪ say what you mean... ♪
2097
01:16:14,053 --> 01:16:16,553
- This journey has just
been, like...
2098
01:16:16,573 --> 01:16:19,298
I prayed for this.
2099
01:16:19,391 --> 01:16:21,558
And it may not have
happened the way
2100
01:16:21,652 --> 01:16:23,393
Other people expected
it to happen,
2101
01:16:23,413 --> 01:16:26,563
But this is what I want.
2102
01:16:26,583 --> 01:16:29,232
For a while, it's just been,
like, just a lonely slope
2103
01:16:29,327 --> 01:16:31,068
That I just been going up.
2104
01:16:31,087 --> 01:16:33,921
And I think at this point
in my life, I needed someone.
2105
01:16:34,148 --> 01:16:36,406
I don't wanna feel
alone anymore.
2106
01:16:36,500 --> 01:16:39,151
But I'm scared.
2107
01:16:39,170 --> 01:16:41,837
My life is about to
change forever.
2108
01:16:41,989 --> 01:16:43,989
♪ ♪
2109
01:16:44,083 --> 01:16:46,267
I'm alone.
2110
01:16:46,418 --> 01:16:48,603
And I don't wanna continue
to live this life...
2111
01:16:50,106 --> 01:16:51,847
Alone.
2112
01:16:51,941 --> 01:16:55,167
I don't know what I would
do if it doesn't work out.
2113
01:16:55,260 --> 01:16:58,854
- ♪ don't ever know
what I'd do ♪
2114
01:16:58,948 --> 01:17:01,449
♪ so hold on ♪
2115
01:17:03,861 --> 01:17:05,602
[mellow music]
2116
01:17:05,622 --> 01:17:06,954
- You made an amazing choice.
2117
01:17:07,106 --> 01:17:09,123
- It's so pretty.
- I know, isn't it beautiful?
2118
01:17:09,350 --> 01:17:11,033
- When you see the hair
and the dress together,
2119
01:17:11,127 --> 01:17:13,127
It's everything.
2120
01:17:14,631 --> 01:17:16,188
- I'm ready to meet him.
2121
01:17:16,207 --> 01:17:17,706
I'm excited.
- Yeah.
2122
01:17:17,859 --> 01:17:20,860
♪ ♪
2123
01:17:20,878 --> 01:17:22,544
- I really hope that when
I walk down the aisle,
2124
01:17:22,697 --> 01:17:24,621
We meet eye to eye
2125
01:17:24,641 --> 01:17:26,307
And we really see it.
2126
01:17:26,458 --> 01:17:30,052
Like, at first sight,
we know that this was ordained.
2127
01:17:30,204 --> 01:17:32,705
This is our day.
Like, it's everything.
2128
01:17:32,723 --> 01:17:34,874
It's everything.
2129
01:17:34,967 --> 01:17:39,545
So after this, I'm gonna go get
a mint because I do need to do
2130
01:17:39,563 --> 01:17:41,063
A little breath check
so I can be nice and fresh
2131
01:17:41,215 --> 01:17:42,898
And smell good
and have a fresh breath,
2132
01:17:42,992 --> 01:17:45,642
Because I want my husband
to be able to kiss me
2133
01:17:45,662 --> 01:17:46,886
If I allow him to.
2134
01:17:46,979 --> 01:17:49,054
I'm ready.
2135
01:17:49,148 --> 01:17:51,481
I'm ready, I'm ready,
I'm ready.
2136
01:17:51,575 --> 01:17:54,243
This is gonna be
a wonderful day.
2137
01:17:54,337 --> 01:17:57,338
[lightly edgy music]
2138
01:17:57,565 --> 01:18:03,928
♪ ♪
2139
01:18:10,169 --> 01:18:11,911
- Come on, baby.
2140
01:18:12,004 --> 01:18:15,264
- [sniffling]
- it's gon' be all right.
2141
01:18:15,416 --> 01:18:17,099
It's gon' be all right.
- I love you. Ok?
2142
01:18:17,251 --> 01:18:18,025
- Love you.
2143
01:18:18,177 --> 01:18:18,934
- [sniffling]
2144
01:18:19,086 --> 01:18:20,602
- Okay.
2145
01:18:20,697 --> 01:18:22,938
It's gonna be all right.
2146
01:18:23,090 --> 01:18:25,758
You all right, baby?
2147
01:18:25,776 --> 01:18:29,261
- Oh...
- You sure?
2148
01:18:29,280 --> 01:18:32,448
- I'm good.
- Mm-hmm, okay.
2149
01:18:32,542 --> 01:18:35,768
[both murmuring]
2150
01:18:35,861 --> 01:18:38,787
It's gon' be all right.
Be strong.
2151
01:18:38,940 --> 01:18:41,790
- Oh, lord.
I didn't expect to see you.
2152
01:18:41,943 --> 01:18:43,959
- I know you didn't.
2153
01:18:44,111 --> 01:18:47,221
- Oh, I love you.
- I love you too, baby.
2154
01:18:47,372 --> 01:18:49,706
You surprised me.
- Ha ha. I know.
2155
01:18:49,800 --> 01:18:52,301
I surprised myself.
2156
01:18:52,453 --> 01:18:54,211
- I love you, baby.
2157
01:18:54,230 --> 01:18:56,731
And I'm so glad that
you're making your step.
2158
01:18:56,958 --> 01:19:00,142
Keep god first, everything
else will fall in place.
2159
01:19:00,236 --> 01:19:03,312
Everything else.
2160
01:19:03,406 --> 01:19:06,389
If it's for you, it's for you.
2161
01:19:06,409 --> 01:19:09,151
- All right,
I'll see you in there.
2162
01:19:09,303 --> 01:19:11,303
To actually see my
grandmother here today,
2163
01:19:11,322 --> 01:19:14,656
You know, someone who
have seen you since birth
2164
01:19:14,751 --> 01:19:17,251
And all of my graduations
and all of my award ceremonies
2165
01:19:17,478 --> 01:19:19,979
That I've been to,
just so many different
2166
01:19:19,997 --> 01:19:23,257
Life challenges, from the car
accident, to school, to work.
2167
01:19:23,408 --> 01:19:25,242
But this is a different...
2168
01:19:25,336 --> 01:19:27,319
This is a different
journey for us.
2169
01:19:27,338 --> 01:19:28,837
I'm just ready
for it to happen.
2170
01:19:28,990 --> 01:19:31,599
Oh, lord.
2171
01:19:31,750 --> 01:19:33,750
- It's turn-up time.
- Let's do it.
2172
01:19:33,770 --> 01:19:35,603
- It's wedding time.
1, 2, 3...
2173
01:19:35,754 --> 01:19:37,438
All: Classmates!
2174
01:19:37,589 --> 01:19:39,256
[laughter]
2175
01:19:39,275 --> 01:19:41,166
- Let's go, girl.
- Come on.
2176
01:19:41,185 --> 01:19:46,263
♪ ♪
2177
01:19:46,282 --> 01:19:48,340
- [whispering]
wow, you look good.
2178
01:19:48,433 --> 01:19:50,451
- We are down
to the minute, girl.
2179
01:19:50,678 --> 01:19:53,529
- I don't know how
this is gonna work out.
2180
01:19:53,623 --> 01:19:56,515
And my mind is just going
so many different ways
2181
01:19:56,534 --> 01:19:58,108
'cause it's the what ifs.
2182
01:19:58,202 --> 01:19:59,943
What if it does go right?
2183
01:20:00,037 --> 01:20:01,687
What if it does go wrong?
2184
01:20:01,780 --> 01:20:05,132
I'm just scared
as hell right now.
2185
01:20:12,975 --> 01:20:15,810
[suspenseful music]
2186
01:20:16,037 --> 01:20:21,232
♪ ♪
2187
01:20:24,469 --> 01:20:26,303
- Oh, my goodness.
2188
01:20:26,397 --> 01:20:28,881
- [whispering] this is real.
2189
01:20:28,899 --> 01:20:31,808
- Oh, my gosh.
- The final countdown.
2190
01:20:31,828 --> 01:20:33,661
- The jitters are coming back.
2191
01:20:33,888 --> 01:20:35,888
[giggling, chatter]
2192
01:20:35,906 --> 01:20:37,832
♪ ♪
2193
01:20:38,059 --> 01:20:40,075
- Hey.
2194
01:20:40,227 --> 01:20:42,336
♪ ♪
2195
01:20:42,487 --> 01:20:45,989
- Breathe in and out slowly.
Deep breaths.
2196
01:20:46,083 --> 01:20:47,508
He's waitin' on you girl.
2197
01:20:47,735 --> 01:20:48,676
He's already standing
there waiting for you.
2198
01:20:53,924 --> 01:20:56,425
What's the signal if
it's a yes, if it's a no?
2199
01:20:56,577 --> 01:20:58,686
Are we doing the eyebrows?
Are we doing--
2200
01:20:58,837 --> 01:20:59,687
- I'll possibly just go,
like...
2201
01:20:59,838 --> 01:21:00,855
- Crank it up.
- Yeah.
2202
01:21:01,082 --> 01:21:02,523
- Yes. Yes.
2203
01:21:02,674 --> 01:21:04,600
If he's a no, what's the--
2204
01:21:04,694 --> 01:21:06,101
- If he's a no, I'll be like--
2205
01:21:06,195 --> 01:21:07,586
- Yikes!
2206
01:21:07,679 --> 01:21:09,864
Yikes-a-roni.
- Just blink your eyes.
2207
01:21:10,091 --> 01:21:12,182
- Or I just may have him
kiss me on the cheek.
2208
01:21:12,276 --> 01:21:13,516
- Oh, gosh, please don't be
2209
01:21:13,611 --> 01:21:14,851
One of those.
- I know.
2210
01:21:14,945 --> 01:21:16,036
- Let that man kiss you
on the lips.
2211
01:21:16,263 --> 01:21:18,021
- Hmm.
2212
01:21:18,040 --> 01:21:19,598
Hopefully, he'll ask me
if he can kiss me,
2213
01:21:19,691 --> 01:21:21,208
Because that will
be kind of him
2214
01:21:21,435 --> 01:21:22,877
And that will make me
feel more comfortable.
2215
01:21:23,104 --> 01:21:24,770
I mean, we're just now
meeting at the altar,
2216
01:21:24,788 --> 01:21:27,530
So I will tell him, "yes,
you can kiss me,"
2217
01:21:27,550 --> 01:21:29,049
Or, "yes, on the cheek."
2218
01:21:30,794 --> 01:21:31,944
♪ ♪
2219
01:21:31,962 --> 01:21:34,630
- Breathe, sir.
2220
01:21:34,724 --> 01:21:37,449
- You got it, bestie.
2221
01:21:37,468 --> 01:21:39,042
See you out there.
See you as a wife.
2222
01:21:39,136 --> 01:21:40,636
- Love y'all too.
2223
01:21:40,788 --> 01:21:47,626
♪ ♪
2224
01:21:47,645 --> 01:21:49,570
Feeling a little scared.
2225
01:21:50,814 --> 01:21:53,132
And I'm hoping that
I can get through this.
2226
01:21:53,225 --> 01:21:54,633
And I hope
that he's everything
2227
01:21:54,726 --> 01:21:58,245
That I expected
and prayed for.
2228
01:21:58,472 --> 01:22:00,639
And I hope that the experts
did a good job
2229
01:22:00,658 --> 01:22:01,807
Picking out my husband.
2230
01:22:01,825 --> 01:22:03,809
- Please stand.
2231
01:22:03,827 --> 01:22:06,587
[dramatic music]
2232
01:22:06,814 --> 01:22:08,756
♪ ♪
2233
01:22:08,983 --> 01:22:11,592
- I am very particular
in what I like.
2234
01:22:11,743 --> 01:22:14,595
And if he's not the man
that I was expecting,
2235
01:22:14,746 --> 01:22:16,931
I'll be...
2236
01:22:17,082 --> 01:22:18,991
[sighs]
disappointed.
2237
01:22:19,009 --> 01:22:21,769
[intense, dramatic music]
2238
01:22:21,996 --> 01:22:25,940
♪ ♪
2239
01:22:28,778 --> 01:22:31,019
- Next time on
"married at first sight"...
2240
01:22:31,113 --> 01:22:33,930
- I'm so excited, I have
sweat dripping down my legs.
2241
01:22:34,024 --> 01:22:35,098
Like, that can't be normal.
2242
01:22:35,192 --> 01:22:36,842
- Game time, fellas.
2243
01:22:36,935 --> 01:22:38,768
About to marry
a complete stranger.
2244
01:22:38,788 --> 01:22:39,954
This [bleep] is nuts.
2245
01:22:40,105 --> 01:22:41,956
- Deep breath.
Take a deep breath.
2246
01:22:43,184 --> 01:22:44,683
- I'm putting
myself on the line.
2247
01:22:44,702 --> 01:22:45,960
There's a lot at risk.
2248
01:22:46,187 --> 01:22:49,188
- I vow to take you
as my lovely little wife.
2249
01:22:49,206 --> 01:22:51,190
I'm a little nervous,
to be honest.
2250
01:22:51,208 --> 01:22:52,132
The last thing you wanna do is
throw up on the bride, right?
2251
01:22:52,284 --> 01:22:53,801
That's horrible.
2252
01:22:53,952 --> 01:22:55,970
- I wanna stop thinking
about it and just do it.
2253
01:22:56,121 --> 01:23:00,032
I'm not using my one and
only marriage on a failure.
2254
01:23:00,050 --> 01:23:01,976
- This just does not
make any sense.
2255
01:23:02,203 --> 01:23:04,036
And this is not something
that you have to do.
2256
01:23:04,054 --> 01:23:05,980
We could walk up
outta here right now.
2257
01:23:06,207 --> 01:23:08,373
- A lot of thoughts are going
through my head, like,
2258
01:23:08,467 --> 01:23:11,376
"oh, [bleep], like,
this is real."
2259
01:23:11,395 --> 01:23:12,561
- Please stand.
2260
01:23:12,713 --> 01:23:15,230
♪ ♪
2261
01:23:15,324 --> 01:23:17,140
- Once I go through those
doors, I'm gonna know.
2262
01:23:17,234 --> 01:23:19,067
- Just deep breaths.
2263
01:23:19,161 --> 01:23:20,719
- Ready?
- Let's go.
2264
01:23:20,738 --> 01:23:22,496
- My heart might
jump out of my chest.
2265
01:23:22,723 --> 01:23:24,331
What if she doesn't get
along with my family?
2266
01:23:24,483 --> 01:23:26,333
What if she doesn't
get along with my friends?
2267
01:23:26,485 --> 01:23:27,984
What if we're not
attracted to each other?
2268
01:23:28,078 --> 01:23:29,503
- You may kiss your bride.
2269
01:23:32,066 --> 01:23:33,173
- Oh, oh...