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- Four weeks ago,
ten individuals
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took a daring leap of faith
in order to find love.
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They married
as complete strangers.
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And in only four weeks,
they will have to decide
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whether they want to stay
married or get divorced.
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- ♪ We could be lovers
for the night ♪
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- Last time,
the remaining couples
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tested each other's trust
and intimacy.
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- Hell, no!
- Put it right here.
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- ♪ We could be lovers
for the night ♪
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- Katina and Olajuwon.
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- What are you doin', yo?
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My wife and I have not
had sex in our marriage,
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but today I've seen
the tension break from her.
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- [laughs]
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- Jasmina and Michael.
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- See if you can
hear her heartbeat.
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- I care for her.
I want to build
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a really strong connection,
a strong bond,
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so, hoping that, you know,
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moving forward,
we can build that trust.
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- ♪ We could be lovers
for the night ♪
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- Noi and Steve.
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- Some of my fears is not
surviving as a married couple.
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- My biggest concern
at this point,
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in this marriage,
is the expectation
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that Noi has for me
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and that it
doesn't work out between us.
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- Lindsey and Mark.
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- Is there anything that
you think we need to work on?
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- I need to be wooed,
and that you gotta earn me.
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I need to feel like
you are invested in me.
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That would be all
the difference for me,
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between saying "yes"
and "no" on Decision Day.
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- ♪ You got me, babe ♪
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♪ Baby, just trust
I'm the O-N-E ♪
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- Tonight, the remaining couples
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celebrate their one month
anniversary
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as husband and wife.
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- Charmed, I'm sure.
[laughter]
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- Oh, my God, we're going out
into the water now
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with a ton of sushi.
I love my life.
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[laughter]
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- I'll always protect you.
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- I really like this.
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This is probably the best thing
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somebody's ever done for me.
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- Big picture,
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how are you feeling?
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- I'm not in love with her.
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- We need to have
some type of plan
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about, like, what are you
gonna do for work?
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What are our expectations
around money?
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- First four weeks was a waste.
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- I'd die for this bitch,
but this bitch is like,
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"I don't [bleep] know
what just happened."
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- You are married!
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- Get this [bleep] mic off me,
I'm dead ass.
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You're gonna see
the real Katina.
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Get this [bleep] off of me.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ It's all or nothing ♪
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- This is
"Married at First Sight."
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- ♪ There's no other way ♪
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♪ It's all or nothing ♪
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- ♪ Get your act together ♪
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♪ Don't go back home
until you're done ♪
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♪ The day, the week,
the month ♪
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- Good morning.
- Morning.
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- I didn't even know you was up.
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- I know, I was trying
to surprise you with breakfast.
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- You did, I smelt it.
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That's why I woke up.
You know I'm like a bear.
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I'm like a bear.
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I like to hibernate
until I smell food.
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- Okay, we're ready!
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Why are you dressed up?
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- This is dressed up?
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Listen, that outfit's
perfect for you.
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- No, no, they're gonna
look at you and look at me
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and be like,
"Why he with that basic bitch?"
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There she is. There she is.
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- With the couples reaching
their one month anniversary,
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it's the perfect time
to celebrate
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and reflect back
on the past four weeks
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as husband and wife.
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♪ ♪
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- Your other two cats
are the best.
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- They probably hear that,
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that's probably
why they're pissed.
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Such a good cat.
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- See what I mean? Evil!
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- The path hasn't been easy,
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and they still have
a long road to go,
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but we hope that looking back
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will remind them of
the commitment they made,
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not only to themselves,
but to each other.
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- Is this yours?
- Yeah.
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- Is this yours too?
Were you gonna drink these?
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I noticed that you
forget about stuff
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so I have to bring it up
to the front.
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- That sounds like
a good system to me.
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- Now is the time
for them to focus
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on what they need
in their relationship
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in order to feel good
about Decision Day,
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and whether they stay married
or get a divorce.
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- Teamwork makes the dream work!
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- ♪ I got my mind
in another place ♪
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♪ And I can't help but catch
feelings with my lovely face ♪
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♪ Them others ain't got
nothing on my love to hate ♪
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♪ All-star in the game of love
that we play, yeah ♪
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- ♪ And all those
pretty faces ♪
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♪ And foreign places ♪
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♪ Don't mean a thing ♪
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♪ 'Cause baby girl,
you're my dream ♪
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♪ And if I had it all ♪
- ♪ Had it all ♪
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- Free throw from the corner,
no jump.
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- ♪ 'Cause you're the one
I choose ♪
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♪ And there ain't
no one like you ♪
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- ♪ There's none like you ♪
- ♪ Like you ♪
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- ♪ There's none like you ♪
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- Let's go get some shade.
- All right.
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I feel like after
one month of marriage,
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I didn't expect it to be perfect
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or to have no issues between us.
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We have been doing
a pretty good job,
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but I wanted
to meet up with Jeff today.
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He's been married
for around ten years now,
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so I'm hoping that
he gives great advice
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for what I can change and adjust
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to be a better husband.
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- So one month with a stranger.
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So how's living together going?
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- Initially,
she was like, "Oh, it's cool,
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"it's okay that you--
That you're not currently
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full-time employed."
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But now,
she was so swamped and tired
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with work and honeymoon,
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and, you know, we got back
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and she's expecting me
to do a lot, you know?
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I'll just make some breakfast,
bring it over to her.
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Take the dog out, you know,
do everything I need to do,
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and then I'll go start on what--
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- So domestic of you, man.
- Yeah, right?
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Is this my new role?
Like, am I doing everything
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from here on out, you know?
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Other than that, the other--
The other issue we had...
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she was-- she was cooking pasta.
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It was the first meal
she cooked for me.
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It was kinda getting soggy,
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so I just said, "Hey, you know,
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do you mind, um,
checking on my pasta?"
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So I thought I was saying it
in a good way,
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and then she just
got really upset by that.
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She shut down on me, she's like,
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"No, I'm done cooking."
I was like, "Oh, [bleep]."
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Yeah, I'm like, all right,
I'll give you a little time.
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But, I think she leans on
her friends a lot.
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Like, I think she shuts down,
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talks it out with her friend...
- Yeah.
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- And then I think they--
- Come up with a solution?
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- Yeah. It's like, man, like,
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you couldn't even
talk to me first?
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You know, like, you want
to talk to everybody but me?
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- I mean, this is a tough time
for both of you guys.
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You know, you're getting
to know each other, you know?
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And there's a lot
of communication
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that needs to happen right now.
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I would assume
now more than ever.
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But also, at the same time,
you shouldn't have to be
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walking on eggshells.
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I think that the fights
that they've had
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are just part of getting
to know each other.
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But that comes with time,
I think.
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What you want to do,
is you want to--
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If an issue does come up,
you address the smallest thing
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that you can change.
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Because if you start
going at, you know,
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"You do this,
you're never gonna do this",
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you talk in those types
of languages,
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then, you know, the whole
thing's not gonna work.
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So try to handle it
in a microcosm.
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What's the smallest thing
that you're willing to face?
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- Yeah, and I think, um, I
think baby steps
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is the right approach.
- Yeah.
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- Because when I first
talked to her
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about, you know, "Hey, let's
just resolve it right away,"
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she had this look
on her face, like,
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"You expect me to change
that much?"
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- It's hard, man.
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It's hard to get out of a habit.
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It's hard to cha--
It's hard to change.
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- Our first month together
has been pretty challenging.
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Lots of ups and a few downs.
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But as long as we keep on
working through our problems,
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and keep on getting back
to this great energy
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and chemistry
we have between us,
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I think we'll do just fine.
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Yeah, yeah, I think, um,
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so I think that's--that's
the biggest thing for me.
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We don't want to have an issue
when celebrating
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our one month anniversary.
- Of course.
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- So I think from here on out,
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like, you know,
to be very cautious
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if anything does come up.
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Like, "Hey,
we can deal with this in,
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you know, two or three days."
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- Hopefully,
you get some kisses.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ If the weight of all
the world becomes too much ♪
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♪ I know your hands
will pick me up ♪
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- Work has advised me to
come back when filming's over.
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I'm currently looking
for other opportunities
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in the Boston area.
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I'm gonna break the news
to Lindsey tonight.
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I hope that she's understanding.
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I know that she hasn't been
a big supporter of this job,
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for the fact that
it's a little far
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and she doesn't really love
the hours or the pay.
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I hope it doesn't cause
any tension
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or any fights between us,
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and we'll see what happens.
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- So, darling, what's your plan
for the next few weeks?
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- I need to find work,
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so I'm just seeing
if I can land something
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that is in the fitness
industry and Monday to Friday.
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I have to kinda see
what's out there
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and see what's available
right now.
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- I'd rather have you take time
and find the right job
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that makes you happy,
and feel fulfilled,
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and has good hours,
then break your back
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just trying to
have a job to have a job.
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- I couldn't sit still
that long and just do nothing.
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I need to--
I need to be working.
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- You can work on
getting to know me
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in this marriage.
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If we're gonna have kids, and
a family, and all that stuff,
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the idea of you
having a week to yourself
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with nobody bothering you
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is probably never gonna happen.
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So you should enjoy it
while you can.
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- Yeah, but kids
is so far from now.
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It's not on my head.
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Everything has
shifted in my life,
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and everything
has happened so fast.
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And it's all
nothing I can control.
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So what I want to do
is what I want to do,
250
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and that's try
to get back to work.
251
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That's what I want to do.
252
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- So what I'm hearing
from you is,
253
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there's too much going on.
254
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I can't worry about you,
Lindsey,
255
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I can't worry about kids,
Lindsey,
256
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I can't worry about marriage,
Lindsey.
257
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I just gotta worry about my job,
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my house and my situation.
259
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I think Mark is just overwhelmed
260
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with his life at the moment.
261
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I think...
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he doesn't have time
to feel something right now.
263
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And I don't think
Mark's ever had a partner
264
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be there for him
during hard times.
265
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And that's very much
a part of who I am.
266
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But at a certain point,
I just want
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to be appreciated and validated.
268
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All your plans are your plans
269
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that have to do with Mark
and Mark only.
270
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Like, are we doing this
together?
271
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Or are you just worried
about you and your job?
272
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'Cause I can't just be the one
trying to make this work.
273
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That doesn't work for me.
274
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[dramatic music]
275
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♪ ♪
276
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♪ ♪
277
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- ♪ I'm knocking 'em dead ♪
- ♪ Uh-huh ♪
278
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- ♪ With every stride I take ♪
279
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♪ Damn, I look good ♪
280
00:11:10,820 --> 00:11:14,397
- It is so hot today.
- It's so hot today, why?
281
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So muggy. How are you?
- I'm good!
282
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I haven't seen you since, like,
283
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before I left for vacation.
- I know.
284
00:11:20,088 --> 00:11:22,071
Was it for the housewarming
285
00:11:22,090 --> 00:11:23,406
when I last saw you?
- That's right.
286
00:11:23,499 --> 00:11:24,574
- I think that was
the last time.
287
00:11:24,667 --> 00:11:25,850
- Yeah, yeah, yeah,
that's right.
288
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I had so much fun.
Yeah, it was such a fun time.
289
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I still think about all
the food that you guys made.
290
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- Aww.
291
00:11:31,191 --> 00:11:32,339
- Thank you so much.
- You're very welcome, ladies.
292
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- Thank you so much.
- Yeah.
293
00:11:34,177 --> 00:11:36,602
- So, like, one month in,
how do you feel?
294
00:11:36,755 --> 00:11:38,588
- [sighs]
It's crazy, like, I was just--
295
00:11:38,681 --> 00:11:40,699
- Give me the good,
the bad, the ugly.
296
00:11:40,850 --> 00:11:43,684
- Yeah, I mean,
it's been pretty good.
297
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I would say, like,
if I had to measure it,
298
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I would say it's like 80% great?
299
00:11:50,193 --> 00:11:52,952
And then there's like, 20%
where I'm like, ugh.
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♪ ♪
301
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- Do you wanna talk
about the good stuff?
302
00:11:57,050 --> 00:11:58,550
Or do you wanna talk
about that part?
303
00:11:58,701 --> 00:12:00,385
- I can--well, let's talk
about more good stuff.
304
00:12:00,536 --> 00:12:02,220
- Okay, we'll talk about
good stuff, let's sandwich it.
305
00:12:02,447 --> 00:12:05,056
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Um, he's very sweet.
306
00:12:05,208 --> 00:12:07,800
Like, after he told me
that he loved me, like,
307
00:12:07,953 --> 00:12:10,395
he literally tells me that
all the time.
308
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Like all day, every day.
- That's really nice.
309
00:12:13,124 --> 00:12:14,640
- Um, I feel like
he really does understand me
310
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like, on a soul level.
311
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Like, that's really special
and you know,
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that's not something that you
find every day in a partner.
313
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- Right.
314
00:12:22,968 --> 00:12:24,300
- He'll get frustrated
when we're in the middle
315
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of an argument, but like,
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he's always the one to kinda
fix all of our issues.
317
00:12:28,823 --> 00:12:29,973
Like he's the first one
to be like,
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"Yeah, I just don't want
us to..."
319
00:12:31,585 --> 00:12:32,825
- Right.
320
00:12:32,978 --> 00:12:34,085
- "You know,
be mad about this tomorrow.
321
00:12:34,312 --> 00:12:36,312
So like, you know, like,
I'm sorry for whatever."
322
00:12:36,331 --> 00:12:38,664
And then we move on.
- Yeah.
323
00:12:38,817 --> 00:12:42,409
Thank you.
- You're very welcome.
324
00:12:42,429 --> 00:12:43,744
- Thank you so much.
- Yep.
325
00:12:43,764 --> 00:12:46,580
- So what's that 20%?
326
00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:49,267
Like, I know that you and I
have discussed, like,
327
00:12:49,418 --> 00:12:51,344
his job situation.
328
00:12:51,438 --> 00:12:53,179
Any updates there?
329
00:12:53,331 --> 00:12:55,999
- Not really. It's hard now.
330
00:12:56,092 --> 00:12:57,166
I'm like, "Okay,
this is my husband."
331
00:12:57,185 --> 00:12:58,334
- Yeah.
332
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- We're building
a life together.
333
00:12:59,337 --> 00:13:00,427
- Right.
334
00:13:00,522 --> 00:13:02,447
- But I have to encourage him
to like,
335
00:13:02,674 --> 00:13:05,283
figure his stuff out,
be more ambitious.
336
00:13:05,434 --> 00:13:07,360
Like, do this--
Like, if you're not doing this
337
00:13:07,454 --> 00:13:08,528
for you at least do it for me.
338
00:13:08,622 --> 00:13:10,455
- Right.
- You know?
339
00:13:10,682 --> 00:13:13,032
I don't want to be the sole
breadwinner in my marriage.
340
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Like, I didn't--
Never wanted that.
341
00:13:14,702 --> 00:13:16,777
- Yeah.
- I want an equal partner...
342
00:13:16,871 --> 00:13:18,021
- Right.
- Who can, like,
343
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bring what I can bring
to the table.
344
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I think that's fair.
345
00:13:21,802 --> 00:13:23,134
- Well, based on, like, this,
346
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like, let's say nothing changes.
347
00:13:24,787 --> 00:13:26,045
Like, if you had
to make a decision today,
348
00:13:26,197 --> 00:13:27,972
like, what would it be?
349
00:13:28,199 --> 00:13:29,790
- Like...
350
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I love him but, you know,
like, love isn't everything.
351
00:13:32,479 --> 00:13:34,871
- I agree.
[both laughing]
352
00:13:34,964 --> 00:13:36,981
- I mean.
- Like, I know you and I
353
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are both, like,
very big romantics.
354
00:13:39,044 --> 00:13:41,969
But I guess I would also
just be a little wary
355
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to not fall for the idea
of what he could be
356
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as opposed to like, what he is.
357
00:13:47,719 --> 00:13:49,402
- Yeah.
358
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I know for a fact,
359
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if we don't address
these issues, like,
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we're just doomed to fail.
361
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[dramatic music]
362
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♪ ♪
363
00:14:00,732 --> 00:14:03,174
[moody rock music]
364
00:14:03,326 --> 00:14:09,496
- ♪ How can I regret it
when it feels this good? ♪
365
00:14:09,591 --> 00:14:11,683
♪ Can't ever deny it ♪
366
00:14:11,910 --> 00:14:13,759
- It smells so good in here.
- Yeah.
367
00:14:13,912 --> 00:14:15,261
- You haven't been here, right?
- I've never been here.
368
00:14:15,355 --> 00:14:16,762
- I love this place.
369
00:14:16,857 --> 00:14:19,858
[quiet upbeat music]
370
00:14:20,009 --> 00:14:21,601
- I have to get a gift
for Lindsey
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00:14:21,753 --> 00:14:23,361
because it's our one month
this weekend.
372
00:14:23,512 --> 00:14:25,512
- Oh, yeah!
It's about that time.
373
00:14:25,532 --> 00:14:27,440
- It's about that time, yeah.
374
00:14:27,534 --> 00:14:29,926
Going into this weekend,
I won't worry about work.
375
00:14:29,944 --> 00:14:31,277
I'm gonna focus on us
376
00:14:31,371 --> 00:14:33,204
and pick out some different
gifts for Lindsey.
377
00:14:33,356 --> 00:14:34,706
I invited Chris down to help me
378
00:14:34,857 --> 00:14:36,616
pick out some things
that might make sense.
379
00:14:36,768 --> 00:14:38,451
He always puts me
in a good mood because
380
00:14:38,603 --> 00:14:40,361
he was like,
one of the first guys I met
381
00:14:40,455 --> 00:14:42,121
and someone I connected with.
382
00:14:42,273 --> 00:14:43,548
It was like, you have, like,
your best friend in first grade
383
00:14:43,775 --> 00:14:45,532
and you're like,
"What do you wanna do today?"
384
00:14:45,627 --> 00:14:46,959
- Have you considered
matching wolves?
385
00:14:47,053 --> 00:14:48,869
[wolves howling]
386
00:14:48,963 --> 00:14:50,796
- I mean, if there was
two cats that were like that.
387
00:14:50,891 --> 00:14:53,132
- [laughs]
388
00:14:53,226 --> 00:14:56,210
- This store reminds me
almost of Lindsey's apartment.
389
00:14:56,229 --> 00:14:57,303
- These are my plants.
390
00:14:57,455 --> 00:14:58,471
Would you like
to meet my plants?
391
00:14:58,565 --> 00:15:00,623
Jim, Michael, Fran.
392
00:15:00,716 --> 00:15:03,626
She has new growth coming in.
393
00:15:03,719 --> 00:15:06,145
- Lindsey would be like...
394
00:15:06,297 --> 00:15:07,647
"I want the whole store."
395
00:15:07,799 --> 00:15:09,132
Yeah, see,
these things are cool.
396
00:15:09,225 --> 00:15:11,743
- Eco terrariums?
- Yeah, yeah, uh-huh.
397
00:15:11,894 --> 00:15:13,727
- You do an eco terrarium...
- Yep?
398
00:15:13,747 --> 00:15:15,488
- You could pick some of these
stones that are small enough
399
00:15:15,582 --> 00:15:17,081
to put in...
- Oh.
400
00:15:17,308 --> 00:15:19,325
- And say, "Right, I got you
this plant, you can hang it.
401
00:15:19,419 --> 00:15:21,811
And here's a couple of stones,
here's what they represent."
402
00:15:21,904 --> 00:15:23,588
- Got it.
- "The Kambaba Jasper
403
00:15:23,739 --> 00:15:26,424
promotes healing of the heart
and a peaceful energy."
404
00:15:26,651 --> 00:15:29,427
- That's a good one.
- This one increases libido.
405
00:15:29,578 --> 00:15:32,004
- No, she's fine. She's--
- [laughs]
406
00:15:32,098 --> 00:15:33,247
- She's always--
407
00:15:33,266 --> 00:15:34,432
- You sure?
- Yeah, yeah.
408
00:15:34,659 --> 00:15:37,009
- Bumblebee Jasper
helps make decisions.
409
00:15:37,103 --> 00:15:38,494
- So good.
410
00:15:38,513 --> 00:15:39,512
- One of these
for Decision Day, perhaps.
411
00:15:39,606 --> 00:15:41,013
- [chuckles] Yeah.
412
00:15:41,107 --> 00:15:42,999
See, this is why I needed
to meet up with you.
413
00:15:43,017 --> 00:15:44,850
- [laughs]
I'm here to help, buddy.
414
00:15:44,945 --> 00:15:47,670
- I hope that all these
little things I got today
415
00:15:47,763 --> 00:15:50,523
show her that I appreciate
who she is,
416
00:15:50,617 --> 00:15:52,858
and that she's listened to,
she's valued, because
417
00:15:52,953 --> 00:15:54,343
these are all the things
that she's been expressing
418
00:15:54,362 --> 00:15:55,845
that she doesn't feel.
419
00:15:55,863 --> 00:15:57,956
I want to do something
that's important to her.
420
00:15:58,107 --> 00:15:59,624
- So we're a month in.
- Yeah.
421
00:15:59,775 --> 00:16:01,942
- Big picture,
how are you feeling?
422
00:16:02,036 --> 00:16:04,945
- I mean, it's--it's really an
interesting situation with her.
423
00:16:04,965 --> 00:16:06,522
- The last time I saw you guys
is when we went bowling.
424
00:16:06,541 --> 00:16:08,967
- You literally watched
this woman act like a child
425
00:16:09,194 --> 00:16:10,693
and roll her eyes
and guffaw at me.
426
00:16:10,712 --> 00:16:11,861
- And then you had to jump in
and say,
427
00:16:11,954 --> 00:16:12,878
"What are you rolling
your eyes for?"
428
00:16:13,031 --> 00:16:13,805
Makes me feel uncomfortable
429
00:16:13,956 --> 00:16:15,139
when you do that.
Don't do that.
430
00:16:15,291 --> 00:16:16,474
- I don't like to brush
things under the rug.
431
00:16:16,625 --> 00:16:17,883
I like direct--
- Okay, well, this is a team,
432
00:16:18,036 --> 00:16:21,295
and if you can't get that,
this isn't gonna work.
433
00:16:21,314 --> 00:16:22,705
We went home.
434
00:16:22,724 --> 00:16:25,316
Um, we didn't argue,
we went to bed.
435
00:16:25,543 --> 00:16:27,468
The next day,
it was a little awkward still.
436
00:16:27,562 --> 00:16:29,712
And I kinda just realized
it was just a lot of stuff,
437
00:16:29,731 --> 00:16:33,140
I think in her past that was
causing her to feel ways.
438
00:16:33,234 --> 00:16:35,159
And then she was like,
"I'm sorry for
439
00:16:35,311 --> 00:16:36,719
how I made you feel."
That was like the first time
440
00:16:36,812 --> 00:16:38,237
I heard her say, like,
"I'm sorry,"
441
00:16:38,331 --> 00:16:40,723
and I was like, "Wow."
'Cause coming from bowling,
442
00:16:40,742 --> 00:16:42,000
we weren't breaking through.
443
00:16:42,227 --> 00:16:44,651
- She was defensive
and sort of justifying.
444
00:16:44,746 --> 00:16:46,896
- I'm not in love with her.
445
00:16:46,914 --> 00:16:48,822
And she has expressed that
she's not in love with me.
446
00:16:48,842 --> 00:16:51,158
I'm like, I'm still here because
447
00:16:51,252 --> 00:16:52,735
there's still
a lot of time with you
448
00:16:52,828 --> 00:16:54,828
to see if things
can change for me.
449
00:16:54,848 --> 00:16:57,740
But like, I'm like,
if anything, Lindsey,
450
00:16:57,833 --> 00:17:00,000
you have said on text,
and you have said
451
00:17:00,020 --> 00:17:02,245
at the bowling night,
"I'm done."
452
00:17:02,263 --> 00:17:04,355
I've never said to her,
"I'm done."
453
00:17:04,507 --> 00:17:06,749
If I said to her once,
"I'm done",
454
00:17:06,842 --> 00:17:08,342
she would shut down.
- You can't--
455
00:17:08,361 --> 00:17:10,194
- She would be like,
"You can't go back from that."
456
00:17:10,346 --> 00:17:12,922
So it's really tough.
- Yeah.
457
00:17:13,015 --> 00:17:14,423
How are you feeling about,
emotionally,
458
00:17:14,442 --> 00:17:15,682
going into the weekend?
459
00:17:15,702 --> 00:17:17,426
- I want to show Lindsey
a good time
460
00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:19,871
and make her feel
just really appreciated.
461
00:17:20,022 --> 00:17:21,855
I don't want to turn up
the dial beyond that,
462
00:17:21,875 --> 00:17:24,191
because I can't say things
that I'm not there yet.
463
00:17:24,210 --> 00:17:27,103
- You're not there yet.
- And I can't put aspirations
464
00:17:27,121 --> 00:17:28,454
into her about things
that are gonna happen
465
00:17:28,548 --> 00:17:29,881
when I'm not sure.
466
00:17:30,032 --> 00:17:31,549
I'm not ready to tell Lindsey
that I love her
467
00:17:31,776 --> 00:17:32,884
or that I'm in love
with her because of
468
00:17:33,111 --> 00:17:34,868
how we do have
ups and down days.
469
00:17:34,888 --> 00:17:36,370
There are things about Lindsey
470
00:17:36,389 --> 00:17:39,223
that I could possibly overlook
if I get to a place,
471
00:17:39,450 --> 00:17:42,468
and that's her knee-jerk
to just get negative
472
00:17:42,562 --> 00:17:44,470
and throw a jab, but only time
is gonna be able to tell
473
00:17:44,622 --> 00:17:45,471
if I can get there.
474
00:17:45,623 --> 00:17:46,898
Gotta be true to me,
475
00:17:47,125 --> 00:17:48,958
and being true to me
is being true to her,
476
00:17:49,051 --> 00:17:51,127
and hopefully she respects that.
477
00:17:51,145 --> 00:17:53,646
- I think that's the best
you can do.
478
00:17:53,798 --> 00:17:57,983
♪ ♪
479
00:17:58,136 --> 00:18:01,895
- ♪ My darling,
take my word for it ♪
480
00:18:01,915 --> 00:18:06,250
♪ You've come too far
to let me down ♪
481
00:18:06,477 --> 00:18:10,254
♪ Don't you worry,
it'll work its way out ♪
482
00:18:10,481 --> 00:18:12,315
- Hey, friend.
Oh, you look cute.
483
00:18:12,333 --> 00:18:15,093
- Oh, you look cute too!
Where you been?
484
00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:18,321
- What am I wearing?
- No, I said where you been?
485
00:18:18,339 --> 00:18:19,822
- Oh, I thought you said
"What you in."
486
00:18:19,841 --> 00:18:22,082
I'm like, "Girl, clothes."
[laughing]
487
00:18:22,102 --> 00:18:24,176
Imani has known me
since we were kids.
488
00:18:24,329 --> 00:18:26,178
We've been friends since I was--
489
00:18:26,331 --> 00:18:27,754
Since we were ten years old.
490
00:18:27,849 --> 00:18:30,608
So she's seen me in, like,
every aspect of my life.
491
00:18:30,759 --> 00:18:32,668
And she always
gives great advice.
492
00:18:32,761 --> 00:18:34,503
I miss you, it's been a while.
493
00:18:34,522 --> 00:18:35,596
I haven't seen you
since the wedding.
494
00:18:35,690 --> 00:18:37,189
- How's married life?
495
00:18:37,342 --> 00:18:39,692
- Married life is
definitely an adjustment.
496
00:18:39,844 --> 00:18:41,119
We had like, differences.
497
00:18:41,270 --> 00:18:43,362
He was getting like,
more so frustrated with me
498
00:18:43,456 --> 00:18:46,198
'cause he felt like I wasn't
being vulnerable with him.
499
00:18:46,351 --> 00:18:49,368
At first I felt like I just
needed to, like, guard myself.
500
00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:51,963
- Why you think
you're being so guarded?
501
00:18:52,190 --> 00:18:55,191
- 'Cause nobody
wants to be hurt, girl.
502
00:18:55,284 --> 00:18:56,801
- But like,
you married a stranger.
503
00:18:57,028 --> 00:18:59,119
So it's kinda like,
yeah, be cautious,
504
00:18:59,139 --> 00:19:02,047
but why not go all the way?
505
00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:03,699
- In the past, you know,
I've been, like, hurt
506
00:19:03,792 --> 00:19:06,218
when I've given people,
like, my all,
507
00:19:06,312 --> 00:19:07,812
with the wrong people,
508
00:19:07,963 --> 00:19:09,796
and I think
that I didn't realize
509
00:19:09,891 --> 00:19:11,816
how much, like, it affected me.
510
00:19:12,043 --> 00:19:15,044
I'm still taking it
one day at a time.
511
00:19:15,137 --> 00:19:17,304
But I definitely feel
comfortable
512
00:19:17,323 --> 00:19:18,990
with opening up to him now.
513
00:19:19,217 --> 00:19:20,900
He's more of, like,
a safe place for me,
514
00:19:21,052 --> 00:19:22,643
where I can be vulnerable
515
00:19:22,662 --> 00:19:25,070
to like letting
my feelings grow with him.
516
00:19:25,165 --> 00:19:27,072
- I don't know. I feel like
if you're really in this,
517
00:19:27,225 --> 00:19:29,000
which I believe you are,
518
00:19:29,227 --> 00:19:30,984
then your heart's
already committed to it.
519
00:19:31,004 --> 00:19:32,819
Stay true to what
you're feeling on the inside.
520
00:19:32,914 --> 00:19:35,339
But this is something you've
never experienced before,
521
00:19:35,566 --> 00:19:38,751
so you definitely need
to take in all factors
522
00:19:38,845 --> 00:19:41,846
so you can accurately
feel what you need to feel.
523
00:19:42,073 --> 00:19:43,514
- Yeah.
524
00:19:43,741 --> 00:19:45,832
- Feel what's in your heart.
Go that way.
525
00:19:45,852 --> 00:19:48,911
- That's some good advice,
I'm gonna take that in.
526
00:19:49,004 --> 00:19:51,355
Gotta move with my heart now.
527
00:19:51,582 --> 00:19:54,266
- How has the romance
department been?
528
00:19:54,419 --> 00:19:57,753
- Um, romance...
[chuckles]
529
00:19:57,772 --> 00:20:00,439
We're definitely
attracted to each other.
530
00:20:00,533 --> 00:20:01,682
He be kissing my neck.
531
00:20:01,776 --> 00:20:03,517
We have like, PDA, all of that.
532
00:20:03,536 --> 00:20:07,872
I be wanting
to put my legs on him.
533
00:20:08,023 --> 00:20:11,116
But we haven't--we haven't
consummated our married yet.
534
00:20:11,269 --> 00:20:13,285
Me and Olajuwon
are not having sex yet,
535
00:20:13,438 --> 00:20:16,029
because we want to build
an emotional connection.
536
00:20:16,123 --> 00:20:17,623
Granted, me and my man,
537
00:20:17,717 --> 00:20:19,550
we are attracted to each
other, don't get it confused.
538
00:20:19,777 --> 00:20:21,961
[laughs]
539
00:20:22,113 --> 00:20:24,296
The minute it happens, don't
worry, I'll send you a text.
540
00:20:24,449 --> 00:20:25,631
You'll be the first to know.
541
00:20:25,725 --> 00:20:28,059
And I'll put--I'll put
one through five stars.
542
00:20:28,210 --> 00:20:31,545
[laughter]
543
00:20:31,639 --> 00:20:34,473
[upbeat music]
544
00:20:34,625 --> 00:20:41,489
♪ ♪
545
00:20:42,575 --> 00:20:45,301
- Welcome to the crib.
546
00:20:45,394 --> 00:20:47,394
- What's up, buddy?
- Say hello to my new son.
547
00:20:47,413 --> 00:20:49,247
- What's up? He's so calm.
- I know.
548
00:20:49,398 --> 00:20:50,915
- What's his name?
- Mr. Feeny.
549
00:20:51,142 --> 00:20:52,641
- Mr. Feeny.
550
00:20:52,735 --> 00:20:54,493
- Who would think I have a dog
to take care of?
551
00:20:54,587 --> 00:20:56,087
- Right?
552
00:20:57,832 --> 00:20:58,998
How's the married life, yo?
553
00:20:59,150 --> 00:21:00,591
- [chuckles]
554
00:21:00,818 --> 00:21:03,502
Married life has been
a huge roller-coaster.
555
00:21:03,596 --> 00:21:07,506
Big, steep, fast.
556
00:21:07,658 --> 00:21:08,991
- A roller-coaster?
- A roller-coaster.
557
00:21:09,084 --> 00:21:11,084
The last time you seen
me and Jas,
558
00:21:11,178 --> 00:21:12,937
we were, like, super happy,
559
00:21:13,164 --> 00:21:15,773
the reception was super fire,
good energy.
560
00:21:15,924 --> 00:21:18,609
Then we got, like,
a very fast, rude awakening,
561
00:21:18,836 --> 00:21:20,594
that this is not
gonna be easy at all.
562
00:21:20,688 --> 00:21:22,429
- Yeah, yeah.
- This is yours.
563
00:21:22,523 --> 00:21:25,098
- Thank you.
- You're welcome.
564
00:21:25,118 --> 00:21:28,786
So we've had, like, a lot
of ups and downs, arguing,
565
00:21:29,013 --> 00:21:30,195
a lot of trying
to figure out each other.
566
00:21:30,348 --> 00:21:31,789
- Mm-hmm.
- A lot of trying to figure out
567
00:21:32,016 --> 00:21:33,516
how to communicate
with each other,
568
00:21:33,609 --> 00:21:35,626
finding out what
each other's needs are,
569
00:21:35,853 --> 00:21:38,963
and we had, like,
a huge, huge breakthrough.
570
00:21:39,190 --> 00:21:40,965
- Hmm.
- One of our issues was I felt
571
00:21:41,192 --> 00:21:42,374
like she wasn't being
vulnerable with me at all.
572
00:21:42,527 --> 00:21:43,968
- Yeah.
- And she said,
573
00:21:44,195 --> 00:21:46,045
"I'm purposely not being
vulnerable with you."
574
00:21:46,197 --> 00:21:47,305
- Huh, okay.
575
00:21:47,532 --> 00:21:49,214
- Because she felt like
my effort level
576
00:21:49,367 --> 00:21:51,291
wasn't there enough.
577
00:21:51,385 --> 00:21:54,370
- I don't feel that you
578
00:21:54,388 --> 00:21:57,873
honestly care, sometimes,
for the marriage.
579
00:21:57,966 --> 00:21:59,800
So I would definitely say
I'm holding back
580
00:21:59,819 --> 00:22:02,545
being 100% vulnerable.
581
00:22:02,638 --> 00:22:03,896
- So she felt, that, like,
582
00:22:04,048 --> 00:22:05,639
"Why be vulnerable
if you're not trying?"
583
00:22:05,658 --> 00:22:07,066
- Right.
584
00:22:07,218 --> 00:22:08,809
Which was funny,
'cause to me, I'm thinking
585
00:22:08,828 --> 00:22:11,996
I was doing--
Putting a lot of effort in.
586
00:22:12,223 --> 00:22:14,981
I changed my schedule for Feeny,
587
00:22:15,001 --> 00:22:16,667
I was doing things
to let her know
588
00:22:16,894 --> 00:22:19,078
I was paying attention
to her likes and dislikes,
589
00:22:19,172 --> 00:22:20,487
but none of those were
connecting with her.
590
00:22:20,581 --> 00:22:22,915
- Right.
- But here I am, just pissed.
591
00:22:23,067 --> 00:22:24,416
Like, "she doesn't see
the effort that I'm doing,
592
00:22:24,569 --> 00:22:25,843
she must not care."
593
00:22:26,070 --> 00:22:27,419
Like, I was starting
to like shut down, you feel?
594
00:22:27,572 --> 00:22:28,846
- Mm-hmm.
595
00:22:29,073 --> 00:22:30,848
- But after that conversation,
I realized, like,
596
00:22:31,075 --> 00:22:33,500
I need to understand
what she needs,
597
00:22:33,594 --> 00:22:35,761
not what I feel like she needs.
598
00:22:35,913 --> 00:22:38,597
Like I was doing what I thought
what a husband should do.
599
00:22:38,749 --> 00:22:40,265
But it's not specifically
what Jasmina wants.
600
00:22:40,418 --> 00:22:42,008
- Jasmina needs?
- Exactly.
601
00:22:42,103 --> 00:22:44,420
- But you didn't know what it
is that she really needs--
602
00:22:44,438 --> 00:22:45,512
- If you're not talking to her.
- Yeah.
603
00:22:45,531 --> 00:22:47,106
- You're never gonna
find that out.
604
00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:49,015
I'm looking forward to seeing
some different sides of her.
605
00:22:49,110 --> 00:22:51,184
I feel like there's so much
more that I don't know.
606
00:22:51,204 --> 00:22:53,353
That's the exciting part, right?
607
00:22:53,447 --> 00:22:54,446
That's the exciting part
of this,
608
00:22:54,599 --> 00:22:56,356
like really peeling back
the onion.
609
00:22:56,450 --> 00:22:58,450
There"s a lot of great things
about her that I really admire.
610
00:22:58,544 --> 00:23:00,694
Just her--her presence
when she walks in the room.
611
00:23:00,713 --> 00:23:02,938
Not even just how beautiful
she is, just like,
612
00:23:02,957 --> 00:23:05,216
her presence of just her aura
when she walks into the room.
613
00:23:05,367 --> 00:23:07,534
Feel like commands attention.
I love that.
614
00:23:07,628 --> 00:23:11,614
I can see how being with her
would only help me grow.
615
00:23:11,707 --> 00:23:13,616
Because anytime I'm slipping,
616
00:23:13,709 --> 00:23:15,284
she's probably
going to let me know ASAP
617
00:23:15,377 --> 00:23:16,710
and that's what I need.
- Right.
618
00:23:16,729 --> 00:23:18,637
- She has all the qualities
that I'm looking for.
619
00:23:18,789 --> 00:23:20,714
- It feels good
to catch up with Mike,
620
00:23:20,808 --> 00:23:22,566
see that he's in
the right space.
621
00:23:22,793 --> 00:23:25,144
Feel like he's really
stepping up to the plate
622
00:23:25,238 --> 00:23:27,980
and trying to do what's right
to put a smile on her face.
623
00:23:28,074 --> 00:23:32,484
So I hope she notices things
like that, appreciates it.
624
00:23:32,637 --> 00:23:35,988
- Now we're coming up on
our one month anniversary.
625
00:23:36,140 --> 00:23:38,082
- Oh, yeah? What's the plan?
626
00:23:38,309 --> 00:23:40,734
- The plan is we going
super, super romantic.
627
00:23:40,753 --> 00:23:42,402
She's seen some romantic Mike,
628
00:23:42,422 --> 00:23:44,997
but she hasn't seen
really, really romantic Mike.
629
00:23:45,091 --> 00:23:48,834
But, if there's no connect...
630
00:23:48,986 --> 00:23:51,929
I got nothin' else.
631
00:23:56,343 --> 00:23:59,828
♪ I like the way it feels ♪
632
00:23:59,922 --> 00:24:03,441
♪ When waking up to you ♪
633
00:24:03,592 --> 00:24:05,517
- Good morning.
- Good morning.
634
00:24:05,670 --> 00:24:07,853
- Happy anniversary.
- Happy anniversary.
635
00:24:08,005 --> 00:24:09,855
It's our one month anniversary.
636
00:24:09,949 --> 00:24:13,025
We're still happily married.
- ♪ It's magic ♪
637
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:15,602
- See? Proof.
638
00:24:15,621 --> 00:24:18,030
- Anything exciting
planned today?
639
00:24:18,182 --> 00:24:20,683
- All kinds of surprises.
640
00:24:20,776 --> 00:24:22,701
I think you're gonna have fun.
641
00:24:22,853 --> 00:24:24,945
- A month anniversary
is a major achievement
642
00:24:25,039 --> 00:24:26,522
for our newlywed couples.
643
00:24:26,540 --> 00:24:27,856
- Wait, there's a note here.
644
00:24:27,875 --> 00:24:29,950
"Hello, Katina and Olajuwon.
645
00:24:30,044 --> 00:24:33,028
"Congratulations on making it
to your one month anniversary.
646
00:24:33,121 --> 00:24:34,305
"We wish you the very best,
647
00:24:34,532 --> 00:24:36,198
"we can't wait
until our next visit.
648
00:24:36,217 --> 00:24:38,050
"But in the meantime,
please enjoy your anniversary.
649
00:24:38,144 --> 00:24:39,477
The Experts."
650
00:24:39,704 --> 00:24:42,963
Look at this plaque.
This is so beautiful.
651
00:24:42,982 --> 00:24:44,556
- They have overcome
ups and downs
652
00:24:44,709 --> 00:24:46,466
that have strengthened
their relationships.
653
00:24:46,486 --> 00:24:49,044
- That definitely
has to be carrot cake.
654
00:24:49,063 --> 00:24:50,879
- Yep, it's carrot cake.
- That's carrot cake.
655
00:24:50,898 --> 00:24:53,215
- This is a significant
milestone for our couples,
656
00:24:53,308 --> 00:24:54,975
and it should be celebrated.
657
00:24:54,994 --> 00:24:56,568
[cheerful music]
658
00:24:56,662 --> 00:25:03,149
- [vocalizing]
659
00:25:03,169 --> 00:25:08,397
♪ Baby, don't you know
what you mean to me? ♪
660
00:25:08,490 --> 00:25:11,734
♪ Yeah, you're so mean to me ♪
661
00:25:11,752 --> 00:25:16,421
♪ But I keep coming back
for more ♪
662
00:25:16,574 --> 00:25:17,848
♪ ♪
663
00:25:22,747 --> 00:25:25,264
Oh, my God,
your hands are so cold.
664
00:25:25,416 --> 00:25:27,082
- Our one month anniversary
665
00:25:27,101 --> 00:25:29,418
is so important for me
and Jasmina to celebrate
666
00:25:29,436 --> 00:25:32,938
because we both,
at times during this marriage,
667
00:25:33,090 --> 00:25:34,606
were very checked out.
668
00:25:34,700 --> 00:25:38,260
So I want to reignite
the spark that we both felt
669
00:25:38,279 --> 00:25:40,371
during our wedding ceremony.
670
00:25:40,522 --> 00:25:43,932
Because we were at our height
on that day.
671
00:25:44,026 --> 00:25:45,951
We both wanted a life partner,
672
00:25:46,045 --> 00:25:48,028
we both wanted to share
our lives with somebody,
673
00:25:48,122 --> 00:25:50,105
we both wanted a family,
674
00:25:50,198 --> 00:25:51,382
and I think we need to have
675
00:25:51,609 --> 00:25:53,533
all those thoughts top of mind
every day
676
00:25:53,553 --> 00:25:56,612
as we go through the four weeks
that we have left.
677
00:25:56,705 --> 00:25:58,389
- Should I close my eyes?
- Yes.
678
00:26:01,635 --> 00:26:03,285
- [chuckles]
- All right.
679
00:26:03,304 --> 00:26:06,305
- Why are your hands so cold?
- You can open them now.
680
00:26:06,399 --> 00:26:09,474
- Oh, my God!
681
00:26:09,569 --> 00:26:12,628
It's so cute!
682
00:26:12,646 --> 00:26:15,889
Oh, my God.
683
00:26:15,908 --> 00:26:17,966
It's so beautiful.
684
00:26:18,060 --> 00:26:21,579
- You like it?
- I love it.
685
00:26:21,730 --> 00:26:24,656
Aww, you're gonna make me cry.
Now I'm emotional.
686
00:26:24,809 --> 00:26:26,158
It's just so beautiful
687
00:26:26,310 --> 00:26:28,644
and I can tell he put
so much thought into it,
688
00:26:28,662 --> 00:26:31,237
and he knows that I'm a sucker
for a presentation.
689
00:26:31,257 --> 00:26:34,983
And it just looks like
I did it, so,
690
00:26:35,002 --> 00:26:37,243
it's just really beautiful.
691
00:26:37,338 --> 00:26:38,262
- See this picture?
692
00:26:38,413 --> 00:26:41,173
- Oh, my God.
693
00:26:41,267 --> 00:26:45,177
Wow, we look good, huh?
- Right? Look at that.
694
00:26:45,271 --> 00:26:46,437
- Oh, my God.
695
00:26:46,588 --> 00:26:47,830
- You remember posing
for this picture?
696
00:26:47,848 --> 00:26:49,014
- Yeah, you tried to
put your hand on my booty.
697
00:26:49,166 --> 00:26:51,166
- [chuckles]
No, no--yeah, I was.
698
00:26:51,185 --> 00:26:52,610
- [laughs]
699
00:26:52,761 --> 00:26:54,928
- You called me out
every time, too.
700
00:26:54,947 --> 00:26:57,673
- Oh, my God, it's so pretty!
701
00:26:57,691 --> 00:27:02,344
- Let's sit down.
- Okay.
702
00:27:02,437 --> 00:27:06,365
[quietly]
We need some Kleenex in here.
703
00:27:06,517 --> 00:27:08,684
Okay, with the black and white.
704
00:27:08,777 --> 00:27:10,035
- That's just the first
picture, too.
705
00:27:10,187 --> 00:27:11,186
- [chuckles]
706
00:27:11,279 --> 00:27:13,856
"What did we get into?"
- Right.
707
00:27:13,874 --> 00:27:15,949
- Looking back on
our wedding album,
708
00:27:15,968 --> 00:27:18,135
I'm just thinking
of that day in particular,
709
00:27:18,362 --> 00:27:21,046
and just how much fun
we had on that day.
710
00:27:21,198 --> 00:27:23,289
How much we liked each other.
711
00:27:23,309 --> 00:27:26,551
Oh, wow.
- Oh.
712
00:27:26,704 --> 00:27:28,646
You look like you giving me
a wet one there.
713
00:27:28,873 --> 00:27:31,890
- I like, I squeezed--
I grabbed you, too.
714
00:27:31,984 --> 00:27:33,558
- It was such
a beautiful day in general,
715
00:27:33,711 --> 00:27:34,726
and it just makes me,
716
00:27:34,879 --> 00:27:37,303
you know, really wish that we--
717
00:27:37,323 --> 00:27:39,715
It was like that the past month,
718
00:27:39,733 --> 00:27:43,160
and even though it wasn't,
we're in a really great place.
719
00:27:43,311 --> 00:27:47,147
So I just hope that, you know,
we continue on in this space
720
00:27:47,241 --> 00:27:50,225
and just build a deeper bond
and a deeper connection.
721
00:27:50,244 --> 00:27:51,651
So I'm very excited to see
722
00:27:51,671 --> 00:27:53,578
what he has planned
for us today.
723
00:27:53,731 --> 00:27:56,507
- [chuckles]
724
00:27:56,734 --> 00:27:59,993
What's that?
725
00:28:00,012 --> 00:28:01,845
- We got our vows, here.
726
00:28:01,997 --> 00:28:04,589
[sentimental music]
727
00:28:04,684 --> 00:28:06,425
- Oh, wow.
728
00:28:06,519 --> 00:28:10,078
I promise to always make you
feel wanted and valued,
729
00:28:10,097 --> 00:28:12,856
but most importantly, heard.
730
00:28:13,008 --> 00:28:14,433
And lastly,
I promise to remember
731
00:28:14,585 --> 00:28:16,509
that you are human just like me.
732
00:28:16,529 --> 00:28:18,529
- I promise to be vulnerable,
733
00:28:18,756 --> 00:28:20,756
to allow you to learn
all aspects of me.
734
00:28:20,774 --> 00:28:22,591
The good, the bad, the ugly,
735
00:28:22,684 --> 00:28:24,350
and I hope you can accept them
736
00:28:24,370 --> 00:28:27,520
as I vow to accept
all aspects of you.
737
00:28:27,540 --> 00:28:32,935
- We gotta hang that up, too.
- Yeah.
738
00:28:32,953 --> 00:28:35,028
So of course, right,
when we wrote those vows,
739
00:28:35,122 --> 00:28:36,621
we were strangers, right?
740
00:28:36,774 --> 00:28:40,292
So the plan is for us
to write our vows now,
741
00:28:40,386 --> 00:28:42,444
and later tonight, we'll recite
them to each other.
742
00:28:42,463 --> 00:28:44,796
- Okay.
743
00:28:44,949 --> 00:28:46,631
- It's very, very important
744
00:28:46,784 --> 00:28:50,543
for us to re-write our vows.
745
00:28:50,563 --> 00:28:52,062
I'm really, really excited
about that.
746
00:28:52,214 --> 00:28:54,790
I think it's gonna reignite
the spark that we both felt
747
00:28:54,883 --> 00:28:56,808
during our wedding ceremony.
748
00:28:56,961 --> 00:29:00,237
I'm hoping this will be
a fresh start for us,
749
00:29:00,388 --> 00:29:02,147
and I'm just looking forward
to the future
750
00:29:02,299 --> 00:29:04,816
and just continuing
this hot streak that we have
751
00:29:04,969 --> 00:29:06,301
and really building
that strong connection
752
00:29:06,394 --> 00:29:08,061
that we both are looking for.
753
00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:11,490
Surprises aren't over yet.
The day has just begun.
754
00:29:11,642 --> 00:29:14,142
At the moment,
let's toast to new beginnings.
755
00:29:14,161 --> 00:29:15,310
- Mm-hmm.
756
00:29:15,403 --> 00:29:17,496
- Let's toast to starting fresh
757
00:29:17,590 --> 00:29:20,257
with our new vows,
and getting the spark back.
758
00:29:20,408 --> 00:29:22,667
- Cheers. Clink.
759
00:29:22,820 --> 00:29:25,411
♪ ♪
760
00:29:25,431 --> 00:29:31,602
- ♪ I was in the right place,
at the right time ♪
761
00:29:31,753 --> 00:29:33,829
- Today,
we're officially celebrating
762
00:29:33,847 --> 00:29:36,422
our one month anniversary.
- Yes, yes, yes.
763
00:29:36,442 --> 00:29:38,424
- He has no idea
what we're doing.
764
00:29:38,444 --> 00:29:40,110
Hopefully--hopefully,
you like it.
765
00:29:40,337 --> 00:29:41,779
I think you'll like it.
- I have no clue.
766
00:29:41,930 --> 00:29:43,280
She said it's something
I've never tried, so.
767
00:29:43,507 --> 00:29:45,340
It's like some--
Some Italy [bleep].
768
00:29:45,359 --> 00:29:46,933
- Yeah!
769
00:29:46,952 --> 00:29:49,011
You've never done it before?
- No, I've never done it.
770
00:29:49,029 --> 00:29:50,120
- Usually people are like,
771
00:29:50,347 --> 00:29:51,530
"Oh, the guy
should be planning."
772
00:29:51,682 --> 00:29:53,682
But like, for me,
I don't care about that.
773
00:29:53,700 --> 00:29:55,626
Like, I would rather
take it into my own hands
774
00:29:55,777 --> 00:29:57,610
and do something
that I want to do.
775
00:29:57,704 --> 00:29:59,129
This is our first anniversary.
776
00:29:59,281 --> 00:30:01,114
Like, you can handle
the one year.
777
00:30:01,133 --> 00:30:02,615
[laughs]
778
00:30:02,635 --> 00:30:03,875
- Right in over here.
779
00:30:04,028 --> 00:30:06,211
- I'm excited
because my wife Katina,
780
00:30:06,305 --> 00:30:08,864
she has planned my first
experience of a "gond-u-la".
781
00:30:08,957 --> 00:30:10,123
I don't know if
I'm saying that right,
782
00:30:10,142 --> 00:30:11,791
but I'ma roll with it.
783
00:30:11,811 --> 00:30:13,126
This is so romantic.
784
00:30:13,145 --> 00:30:16,555
I can't express how
romantic "gond-u-la" is.
785
00:30:16,649 --> 00:30:19,057
Ooh, the cushions are nice
for the butt cheeks.
786
00:30:19,151 --> 00:30:20,484
[both chuckling]
787
00:30:20,711 --> 00:30:22,544
This means so much
because some way,
788
00:30:22,563 --> 00:30:24,637
she always figures out
how can she bring
789
00:30:24,657 --> 00:30:27,491
her turn-up world
to my relaxed world,
790
00:30:27,642 --> 00:30:28,900
and put them into one.
791
00:30:29,053 --> 00:30:31,887
To our anniversary.
- To our anniversary.
792
00:30:31,905 --> 00:30:34,480
- It's so special
because it's so romantic.
793
00:30:34,500 --> 00:30:37,392
And it's--I'm lost for words.
794
00:30:37,485 --> 00:30:40,078
- You know why I picked this?
795
00:30:40,230 --> 00:30:42,064
- No.
- You've been saying like,
796
00:30:42,082 --> 00:30:43,340
"I want to travel,
I want to travel."
797
00:30:43,491 --> 00:30:45,400
I've been to Italy before.
798
00:30:45,419 --> 00:30:47,235
This was something
that I did there.
799
00:30:47,254 --> 00:30:50,072
So it makes it feel like
we're away from home.
800
00:30:50,165 --> 00:30:51,089
- ♪ They call it falling ♪
801
00:30:51,241 --> 00:30:54,334
♪ But it feels like flying ♪
802
00:30:54,353 --> 00:30:56,094
♪ Hard and fast ♪
803
00:30:56,246 --> 00:30:59,748
♪ No fear of dying ♪
804
00:30:59,766 --> 00:31:03,509
♪ Your heart could break and
still you won't slow down ♪
805
00:31:03,529 --> 00:31:05,937
♪ Till you hit that high ♪
806
00:31:06,031 --> 00:31:10,183
♪ Ain't it more like
crashing in love? ♪
807
00:31:10,277 --> 00:31:12,352
♪ Crashing in love ♪
808
00:31:12,371 --> 00:31:13,686
- This is amazing.
809
00:31:13,706 --> 00:31:15,614
I gotta step it up
for real for real.
810
00:31:15,708 --> 00:31:17,782
- I told you I'm good when
it comes to these things.
811
00:31:17,935 --> 00:31:19,710
- I'll say the last,
you know, week or so,
812
00:31:19,861 --> 00:31:22,954
you really been showing
who Katina is.
813
00:31:23,107 --> 00:31:25,048
I love that we had
a bounce back.
814
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:26,458
I was scared for a second,
815
00:31:26,610 --> 00:31:27,776
that we wasn't gonna
have that bounce back.
816
00:31:27,794 --> 00:31:29,294
- I wasn't scared,
I'm like, "He's trippin'."
817
00:31:29,388 --> 00:31:31,947
[both laughing]
818
00:31:31,965 --> 00:31:34,707
- You know you can get a honey.
- But overall, like
819
00:31:34,727 --> 00:31:37,786
I am happy and I feel like
if there were no issues
820
00:31:37,804 --> 00:31:39,788
or problems, I don't think
I would have liked--
821
00:31:39,806 --> 00:31:41,381
- Wanna be in this.
- Yeah.
822
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:43,808
- My wife and I
are growing emotionally.
823
00:31:43,961 --> 00:31:46,128
And, you know, even physically.
824
00:31:46,146 --> 00:31:48,146
I really feel like she's
starting to understand me.
825
00:31:48,298 --> 00:31:50,890
If you had to ask me
on a scale of one to ten,
826
00:31:50,910 --> 00:31:53,135
I think we're at like a 8.5,
maybe a 9.
827
00:31:53,153 --> 00:31:54,653
We're really high right now.
828
00:31:54,747 --> 00:31:57,305
It's cool that we both
can balance each other.
829
00:31:57,399 --> 00:31:58,823
We've been learning a lot
from each other.
830
00:31:58,918 --> 00:32:01,159
Like, I learned to talk
with you and not at you.
831
00:32:01,253 --> 00:32:04,237
This process has made me
understand my wife.
832
00:32:04,256 --> 00:32:06,982
I love it, and I hope one day
833
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:08,574
I'll be able to say
I love my wife.
834
00:32:08,669 --> 00:32:10,410
I really like this.
835
00:32:10,504 --> 00:32:12,671
This is probably the best thing
somebody has ever done for me.
836
00:32:12,823 --> 00:32:14,489
If you'd have asked me,
I don't even know this is
837
00:32:14,508 --> 00:32:16,992
called again, my fault--
- Gondola--gondula ride.
838
00:32:17,085 --> 00:32:18,510
- "Gonjulo" ride.
- Gondula.
839
00:32:18,604 --> 00:32:19,828
- "Gonjula" ride.
840
00:32:19,846 --> 00:32:21,163
- Ganja's something different,
Olajuwon.
841
00:32:21,181 --> 00:32:22,514
- Huh?
- Ganja's something different.
842
00:32:22,666 --> 00:32:24,757
- Yep, I know.
[laughter]
843
00:32:24,777 --> 00:32:25,442
I definitely know.
844
00:32:29,931 --> 00:32:33,675
♪ Jump on the highway, crank
the radio ♪
845
00:32:33,694 --> 00:32:35,452
♪ ♪
846
00:32:35,603 --> 00:32:38,196
♪ Dial's spinning
to find my rock and roll ♪
847
00:32:38,290 --> 00:32:40,198
- I'm excited to see
what you have in store.
848
00:32:40,292 --> 00:32:42,960
Is this a combination of things
for you and for I?
849
00:32:43,111 --> 00:32:45,778
- No, this is all for you.
850
00:32:45,872 --> 00:32:47,297
- Really?
- Yeah.
851
00:32:47,449 --> 00:32:48,781
- Oh, wow.
852
00:32:48,801 --> 00:32:50,875
This morning,
Mark packed the car
853
00:32:51,028 --> 00:32:53,028
and told me he had
a special surprise planned
854
00:32:53,046 --> 00:32:54,972
for our "month-versary."
855
00:32:55,199 --> 00:32:57,290
I have no idea
what that plan is,
856
00:32:57,309 --> 00:32:59,884
so I'm curious to see
what he has in store for me.
857
00:32:59,979 --> 00:33:01,478
I'm so excited.
858
00:33:02,873 --> 00:33:03,814
I just wanna know where we are.
859
00:33:03,965 --> 00:33:04,889
- No, you can't
know where we are.
860
00:33:05,042 --> 00:33:05,816
That's the whole--
- Why?
861
00:33:05,967 --> 00:33:07,542
- 'Cause you can't.
862
00:33:07,561 --> 00:33:08,877
Stop touching--
863
00:33:08,895 --> 00:33:10,395
I'm gonna break your fingers
in a second.
864
00:33:10,547 --> 00:33:12,138
- Oh!
865
00:33:12,157 --> 00:33:13,548
I feel great that Mark is trying
866
00:33:13,641 --> 00:33:14,899
to do something kind for me.
867
00:33:14,994 --> 00:33:16,568
But what really matters
to me is when somebody
868
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:17,902
pays attention, you know?
869
00:33:18,055 --> 00:33:21,389
I want to feel appreciated
and cared for.
870
00:33:21,408 --> 00:33:24,334
So I'm hoping Mark
can do that on this trip.
871
00:33:30,734 --> 00:33:33,659
- Where we're going,
we don't need roads.
872
00:33:33,754 --> 00:33:35,403
- Is this a legit spot?
873
00:33:35,422 --> 00:33:37,163
This ain't some hippy
sound bath [bleep], is it?
874
00:33:37,182 --> 00:33:38,181
- No.
875
00:33:38,333 --> 00:33:39,850
- So where are we going?
876
00:33:40,001 --> 00:33:42,168
- A really interesting campsite.
877
00:33:42,262 --> 00:33:44,929
- Okay.
- We got a fire pit,
878
00:33:45,024 --> 00:33:46,857
we're gonna have s'mores.
- Ooh, I love s'mores.
879
00:33:47,084 --> 00:33:49,026
- I got this
whole thing just for you.
880
00:33:50,604 --> 00:33:52,678
- This is so cute.
- Yeah.
881
00:33:52,773 --> 00:33:53,864
It's important to me that
882
00:33:54,091 --> 00:33:55,681
Lindsey feels appreciated
this weekend
883
00:33:55,701 --> 00:33:59,110
because of how she feels
about the marriage.
884
00:33:59,204 --> 00:34:03,206
And that I want her
to have a peaceful time.
885
00:34:03,358 --> 00:34:06,768
Like have at least one day
where it's all about you.
886
00:34:06,787 --> 00:34:08,879
- I'm excited.
- We have no internet.
887
00:34:09,030 --> 00:34:11,273
- I love it.
888
00:34:11,366 --> 00:34:13,699
- All right,
let's go for a walk.
889
00:34:13,794 --> 00:34:15,385
- Oh, nice, a grill.
890
00:34:15,612 --> 00:34:16,945
- We're gonna have dinner
over here.
891
00:34:17,038 --> 00:34:18,722
- Oh, we can make a pizza
out of the oven!
892
00:34:18,873 --> 00:34:20,724
- Yeah, yeah.
- Oh, I love that.
893
00:34:20,875 --> 00:34:22,559
Mark's not a camper,
894
00:34:22,786 --> 00:34:25,136
so this is such
a beautiful compromise
895
00:34:25,230 --> 00:34:29,399
and it's got all
the bells and whistles to boot.
896
00:34:29,551 --> 00:34:32,736
This is exactly how I'd want
to spend my anniversary.
897
00:34:32,887 --> 00:34:34,554
- And then over here,
898
00:34:34,573 --> 00:34:36,406
we're gonna have snacks in here.
899
00:34:38,911 --> 00:34:40,202
- Oh, very nice.
900
00:34:42,397 --> 00:34:44,081
I really like this.
901
00:34:44,232 --> 00:34:45,916
Thank you.
- Yeah.
902
00:34:47,811 --> 00:34:49,569
There's another surprise
after dinner.
903
00:34:49,588 --> 00:34:51,162
- It's quiet.
904
00:34:51,256 --> 00:34:54,316
There's a lot of like,
nature sounds, which I like.
905
00:34:54,334 --> 00:34:57,260
And I feel so comfortable
here right now.
906
00:34:59,247 --> 00:35:01,598
- Building a house?
- Kinda.
907
00:35:01,825 --> 00:35:05,585
I just am in love
with this location.
908
00:35:05,604 --> 00:35:10,273
- Look at this fire!
Oh, this is great.
909
00:35:10,425 --> 00:35:12,943
- What's the most time you've
ever spent out in the woods?
910
00:35:13,094 --> 00:35:15,170
- This.
- What?
911
00:35:15,188 --> 00:35:16,780
No!
- Yeah.
912
00:35:16,931 --> 00:35:20,742
- Really? This is--
- [blows loudly]
913
00:35:24,105 --> 00:35:25,680
- What do you
doin' that for, hon?
914
00:35:25,699 --> 00:35:28,700
- Trying to get a little air
in there, you know?
915
00:35:28,794 --> 00:35:32,020
- [laughs]
916
00:35:32,113 --> 00:35:35,632
- [blows loudly]
It's getting a little--
917
00:35:35,859 --> 00:35:38,543
It's getting a little
more intense.
918
00:35:38,637 --> 00:35:42,305
- Stop blowing on the fire!
- It makes it bigger!
919
00:35:42,532 --> 00:35:46,810
- The whole time...
[blows loudly]
920
00:35:49,723 --> 00:35:52,465
I had no idea he had
that type of lung capacity.
921
00:35:52,559 --> 00:35:54,876
- You really feel the heat now.
922
00:35:54,969 --> 00:35:58,137
- Oh, you better believe it.
[laughter]
923
00:35:58,231 --> 00:36:01,065
[uplifting music]
924
00:36:01,218 --> 00:36:06,830
♪ ♪
925
00:36:06,981 --> 00:36:08,573
- Just walk normally.
I got you.
926
00:36:08,725 --> 00:36:12,485
Bam, bam, bam, bam.
927
00:36:12,504 --> 00:36:14,820
- It got dark!
928
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:16,155
- What do you mean it got dark?
Your eyes are closed.
929
00:36:16,249 --> 00:36:18,066
- Yeah, it got darker.
- Oh.
930
00:36:18,084 --> 00:36:21,586
♪ ♪
931
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:24,756
- Open your eyes.
932
00:36:24,908 --> 00:36:26,424
- Oh!
933
00:36:26,576 --> 00:36:29,427
Oh, this is where
we got married!
934
00:36:29,579 --> 00:36:31,855
♪ ♪
935
00:36:32,006 --> 00:36:34,916
This is so nice.
936
00:36:34,935 --> 00:36:36,918
- ♪ Together we stand ♪
937
00:36:36,937 --> 00:36:38,844
♪ It's how we survive ♪
938
00:36:38,939 --> 00:36:40,513
♪ Carry the weight ♪
939
00:36:40,532 --> 00:36:42,607
♪ Keep the spirit alive ♪
940
00:36:42,759 --> 00:36:44,275
♪ So don't close your eyes ♪
941
00:36:44,428 --> 00:36:46,870
♪ It's a wonderful life ♪
942
00:36:47,097 --> 00:36:51,616
♪ And the world is ours
tonight ♪
943
00:36:51,768 --> 00:36:52,934
- Surprised?
- I am.
944
00:36:52,953 --> 00:36:54,285
- Happy?
- I'm very happy,
945
00:36:54,438 --> 00:36:56,213
I really wasn't expecting this.
946
00:36:58,275 --> 00:37:00,550
God, it looks so different.
- I know.
947
00:37:00,702 --> 00:37:01,885
When you walked up,
you were crying.
948
00:37:02,036 --> 00:37:03,611
- And your breath
was taken away.
949
00:37:03,705 --> 00:37:05,222
- Oh, yeah, okay, you right.
950
00:37:05,449 --> 00:37:08,633
- ♪ The pieces
fit together right ♪
951
00:37:08,785 --> 00:37:11,135
♪ 'Cause you are ♪
- Wow.
952
00:37:11,288 --> 00:37:13,897
- ♪ The better part of me ♪
953
00:37:14,124 --> 00:37:17,642
- So the plan is
to recite our vows.
954
00:37:17,794 --> 00:37:19,477
Thinking we'll recite them here.
955
00:37:19,629 --> 00:37:21,479
We're gonna do our first dance,
956
00:37:21,631 --> 00:37:22,739
we're gonna eat a meal together,
957
00:37:22,966 --> 00:37:25,575
just to recreate
the spark that we had
958
00:37:25,727 --> 00:37:26,559
on our wedding day.
959
00:37:26,578 --> 00:37:28,411
- Aww.
960
00:37:28,563 --> 00:37:30,413
- Because we're
in such a good place,
961
00:37:30,565 --> 00:37:34,142
I'm hoping this will take us
to the next, next level.
962
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:36,494
- This is very beautiful.
It's a beautiful thought.
963
00:37:36,646 --> 00:37:38,313
[cork pops]
964
00:37:38,331 --> 00:37:40,832
[glasses clink]
Cheers.
965
00:37:40,984 --> 00:37:43,151
- Will you go first?
You were first last time.
966
00:37:43,244 --> 00:37:44,168
- You want me to go first again?
967
00:37:44,321 --> 00:37:46,671
- Mm-hmm.
968
00:37:46,765 --> 00:37:49,674
[gentle music]
969
00:37:49,826 --> 00:37:52,010
♪ ♪
970
00:37:52,104 --> 00:37:53,678
[exhales]
971
00:37:53,772 --> 00:37:56,773
- I was not this comfortable
at the altar last time.
972
00:37:56,924 --> 00:37:58,275
- From this day forward,
973
00:37:58,426 --> 00:38:02,337
I promise to give you 100%
in everything I do.
974
00:38:02,430 --> 00:38:04,172
I vow to stop fighting with you,
975
00:38:04,190 --> 00:38:05,598
and fight for us.
976
00:38:05,692 --> 00:38:08,285
I promise to trust you in life,
977
00:38:08,436 --> 00:38:10,620
and even in the kitchen
when you cook.
978
00:38:10,847 --> 00:38:13,348
- You sure you can keep
that promise right there?
979
00:38:13,366 --> 00:38:15,292
- And I dead ass promise
to make you feel heard.
980
00:38:15,519 --> 00:38:17,276
[chuckling]
981
00:38:17,296 --> 00:38:19,687
I vow to accept you
unconditionally.
982
00:38:19,781 --> 00:38:23,541
I also vow to not cut you off.
983
00:38:23,693 --> 00:38:26,544
I promise that the safe space
I will create
984
00:38:26,638 --> 00:38:29,288
will create a beautiful life
for us as well.
985
00:38:29,382 --> 00:38:30,974
I promise to light up your life
986
00:38:31,201 --> 00:38:32,642
like the candles you do
every night.
987
00:38:32,794 --> 00:38:35,203
- Oh, I like that.
988
00:38:35,296 --> 00:38:37,539
That was really nice.
- [laughs]
989
00:38:37,557 --> 00:38:38,798
- [exhales]
990
00:38:38,892 --> 00:38:40,650
[clears throat]
- [chuckles]
991
00:38:40,877 --> 00:38:44,136
- 30 days ago,
we met as strangers.
992
00:38:44,156 --> 00:38:47,065
Marriage for us has been
a roller-coaster.
993
00:38:47,159 --> 00:38:50,476
A very fast, very scary,
994
00:38:50,495 --> 00:38:52,311
very uncomfortable
roller-coaster,
995
00:38:52,405 --> 00:38:55,056
but the beauty of it, that
neither of us has gotten off.
996
00:38:55,149 --> 00:38:57,667
We're still on this ride
together.
997
00:38:57,819 --> 00:39:01,171
I promise to give you
my 110% effort every day.
998
00:39:01,398 --> 00:39:04,082
I promise to talk with you
and not at you.
999
00:39:04,176 --> 00:39:06,826
But most importantly,
I vow to treat every day
1000
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:08,753
like Decision Day.
1001
00:39:08,847 --> 00:39:10,347
- That was beautiful.
1002
00:39:10,498 --> 00:39:12,164
- Saying my new vows to Jasmina
1003
00:39:12,258 --> 00:39:13,999
feels a lot more special
1004
00:39:14,019 --> 00:39:16,594
because she's not a stranger.
1005
00:39:16,746 --> 00:39:19,171
I'm looking in her eyes,
and I feel like I know her
1006
00:39:19,265 --> 00:39:21,358
and I know what she needs.
1007
00:39:21,585 --> 00:39:23,342
And it feels
a little more important
1008
00:39:23,362 --> 00:39:25,678
than the first time
I said my vows to her.
1009
00:39:26,606 --> 00:39:29,348
Cue the music.
[romantic cello music]
1010
00:39:29,368 --> 00:39:31,534
♪ ♪
1011
00:39:31,761 --> 00:39:35,521
- Charmed, I'm sure.
[both laughing]
1012
00:39:35,540 --> 00:39:37,949
- The dance feels a lot less
awkward 'cause I'm not
1013
00:39:38,101 --> 00:39:39,376
holding a stranger,
I'm holding my wife.
1014
00:39:39,527 --> 00:39:41,452
I feel like
I'm falling for Jasmina.
1015
00:39:41,546 --> 00:39:44,105
♪ ♪
1016
00:39:44,124 --> 00:39:46,124
When was the last time
you slow danced like this?
1017
00:39:46,276 --> 00:39:48,200
- About a month ago.
1018
00:39:48,294 --> 00:39:49,627
- My actions right now
1019
00:39:49,721 --> 00:39:52,037
show that I'm willing
to put effort in.
1020
00:39:52,057 --> 00:39:54,057
There was a time
where I felt like
1021
00:39:54,208 --> 00:39:57,135
in this marriage, I was doing
things out of obligation.
1022
00:39:57,287 --> 00:39:59,229
But now, I am willing
to put the work in
1023
00:39:59,380 --> 00:40:01,806
to really find that
really strong connection
1024
00:40:01,958 --> 00:40:04,901
and strong bond that
we're both looking for.
1025
00:40:05,052 --> 00:40:07,720
- I am shocked
1026
00:40:07,739 --> 00:40:11,724
that he has really recreated
our wedding day.
1027
00:40:11,818 --> 00:40:14,411
We speak so much about how
that was like the best day
1028
00:40:14,638 --> 00:40:16,913
for the both of us,
and so for him to
1029
00:40:17,064 --> 00:40:19,416
want to relive those moments
really does mean a lot to me.
1030
00:40:19,643 --> 00:40:22,143
- ♪ We've seen it all,
we've had to fall ♪
1031
00:40:22,162 --> 00:40:25,496
- ♪ And through it all,
you're beside me ♪
1032
00:40:25,649 --> 00:40:29,241
♪ Through ups and downs,
you stick around ♪
1033
00:40:29,335 --> 00:40:31,386
♪ Yeah, you were beside me ♪
1034
00:40:35,267 --> 00:40:38,159
♪ Doesn't it feel good to
be young and in love ♪
1035
00:40:38,178 --> 00:40:39,510
♪ Young and in love ♪
1036
00:40:39,604 --> 00:40:41,329
- So I know you said
you've only been in Boston
1037
00:40:41,347 --> 00:40:42,605
for like a year and a half.
1038
00:40:42,832 --> 00:40:44,499
- [chuckles] Yeah.
- Maybe almost two years now.
1039
00:40:44,592 --> 00:40:46,184
So I figured I'd take you
into the city
1040
00:40:46,336 --> 00:40:48,503
so we can get the full
experience, you know?
1041
00:40:48,521 --> 00:40:51,597
- Yeah!
1042
00:40:51,691 --> 00:40:53,191
Right here?
- Uh-huh.
1043
00:40:53,343 --> 00:40:55,618
♪ ♪
1044
00:40:55,845 --> 00:40:57,528
- So it looks like
you got me something.
1045
00:40:57,681 --> 00:40:59,122
- [chuckles] Looks like
you got me something too.
1046
00:40:59,349 --> 00:41:00,698
- I did.
1047
00:41:00,850 --> 00:41:02,350
- I'm like more curious
to see what you got me.
1048
00:41:02,368 --> 00:41:03,776
- Oh, yeah?
- Yeah.
1049
00:41:03,795 --> 00:41:06,204
- Our first month together
has been
1050
00:41:06,356 --> 00:41:08,206
a lot of great memories,
1051
00:41:08,358 --> 00:41:09,707
but also pretty challenging.
1052
00:41:09,859 --> 00:41:12,969
But I do think each time
we do come back together
1053
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:14,712
after a challenging issue,
1054
00:41:14,864 --> 00:41:16,531
that it does grow stronger.
1055
00:41:16,549 --> 00:41:18,123
So I think as long as
we keep on working through
1056
00:41:18,143 --> 00:41:19,884
our problems and keep on
getting back
1057
00:41:19,978 --> 00:41:22,036
to this great chemistry
we have between us,
1058
00:41:22,129 --> 00:41:23,462
I think we'll do just fine.
1059
00:41:23,556 --> 00:41:25,130
- This is a picture.
1060
00:41:25,225 --> 00:41:26,983
It's a box.
[chuckles]
1061
00:41:27,134 --> 00:41:29,894
[soft upbeat music]
1062
00:41:29,988 --> 00:41:33,047
♪ ♪
1063
00:41:33,066 --> 00:41:35,808
It's a leopard print something?
1064
00:41:35,902 --> 00:41:37,994
[giggles]
What is this?
1065
00:41:39,739 --> 00:41:40,788
[both laughing]
1066
00:41:44,336 --> 00:41:45,835
This is so cute!
1067
00:41:46,062 --> 00:41:49,580
I think Sushi will love this.
Thank you.
1068
00:41:49,674 --> 00:41:51,323
It's adorable, actually.
1069
00:41:51,343 --> 00:41:53,584
And then there's more
leopard print?
1070
00:41:53,737 --> 00:41:54,844
- Yeah.
1071
00:41:54,996 --> 00:41:56,328
- Very cute.
I like leopard print.
1072
00:41:56,348 --> 00:41:57,830
- Not sure if it's--
Oh, it is your style?
1073
00:41:57,924 --> 00:41:59,516
I looked in your closet,
I didn't see any leopard print.
1074
00:41:59,743 --> 00:42:03,427
- Cute!
So me and Sushi can match.
1075
00:42:03,580 --> 00:42:06,839
- And I did order another--
Another button down,
1076
00:42:06,858 --> 00:42:08,525
so one day we can all
do a family picture.
1077
00:42:08,752 --> 00:42:10,918
- Aww, cute!
- In our leopard print.
1078
00:42:10,937 --> 00:42:13,938
[both laughing]
1079
00:42:14,090 --> 00:42:16,440
- So I think my husband's
pretty wonderful.
1080
00:42:16,593 --> 00:42:18,943
I could tell that
he took a lot of time
1081
00:42:19,095 --> 00:42:20,428
picking out the gifts.
1082
00:42:20,446 --> 00:42:22,539
I thought it was
very sentimental and sweet.
1083
00:42:22,766 --> 00:42:25,767
But before Decision Day,
I would really like it
1084
00:42:25,860 --> 00:42:28,027
if Steve and I could have
1085
00:42:28,046 --> 00:42:29,546
a really good productive
conversation
1086
00:42:29,697 --> 00:42:30,955
about our finances.
1087
00:42:31,107 --> 00:42:33,791
I would like him
to work towards a goal
1088
00:42:33,885 --> 00:42:37,628
so that, you know,
we can stay together forever.
1089
00:42:37,781 --> 00:42:39,297
♪ ♪
1090
00:42:39,391 --> 00:42:41,224
That's so cute.
1091
00:42:41,375 --> 00:42:43,467
Thank you.
- Happy anniversary.
1092
00:42:43,562 --> 00:42:44,969
- Happy one month.
Okay, do you wanna open yours?
1093
00:42:45,121 --> 00:42:45,895
- Sure.
1094
00:42:49,642 --> 00:42:51,884
You got the 20?
1095
00:42:51,978 --> 00:42:53,552
- Remember...
- The square!
1096
00:42:53,572 --> 00:42:57,131
- When and were going
back and forth about buying
1097
00:42:57,150 --> 00:42:58,741
the different sized
Polaroid cameras?
1098
00:42:58,893 --> 00:43:00,076
- Yes.
- And I was like,
1099
00:43:00,303 --> 00:43:01,894
"Wow, he's really, like,
torn up about this.
1100
00:43:01,913 --> 00:43:04,472
So I wanted you to have
the square one too
1101
00:43:04,490 --> 00:43:05,898
because you were really
excited about that.
1102
00:43:05,917 --> 00:43:08,400
- Wow.
1103
00:43:08,494 --> 00:43:09,919
- Oh, it's working!
1104
00:43:10,071 --> 00:43:11,570
Let's take one right now!
- Looks like it's working.
1105
00:43:11,664 --> 00:43:13,331
Hang on one second.
1106
00:43:13,425 --> 00:43:16,075
- Cheese.
1107
00:43:16,094 --> 00:43:18,052
Happy anniversary!
1108
00:43:19,656 --> 00:43:22,599
[upbeat pop music]
1109
00:43:22,826 --> 00:43:26,603
- ♪ This could turn
into something ♪
1110
00:43:26,830 --> 00:43:28,996
- So do you like
where things are right now?
1111
00:43:29,015 --> 00:43:30,255
- I really--
- Thank you.
1112
00:43:30,275 --> 00:43:31,941
- Thank you.
I mean, you're welcome.
1113
00:43:32,093 --> 00:43:34,836
I really, really like
where things are right now.
1114
00:43:34,854 --> 00:43:37,355
We're talking more.
I actually want to talk to you.
1115
00:43:37,507 --> 00:43:39,264
I get excited.
I wanna know how your day is,
1116
00:43:39,359 --> 00:43:41,175
I want to hear about work.
1117
00:43:41,194 --> 00:43:43,177
Just things that I wasn't
actively doing before,
1118
00:43:43,196 --> 00:43:45,270
I genuinely, genuinely care.
1119
00:43:45,365 --> 00:43:47,181
Because I realized, even with
those little conversations
1120
00:43:47,274 --> 00:43:49,775
that we have,
I learn more about you.
1121
00:43:49,869 --> 00:43:52,019
So, I really--I really like
where things are right now.
1122
00:43:52,113 --> 00:43:53,445
- I agree, I think we definitely
1123
00:43:53,539 --> 00:43:54,780
found our rhythm for sure.
1124
00:43:54,874 --> 00:43:56,281
I mean, it does suck that
1125
00:43:56,301 --> 00:43:59,135
the first four weeks
was a waste, in a sense,
1126
00:43:59,286 --> 00:44:00,303
because when we should have been
1127
00:44:00,530 --> 00:44:02,472
focused on our marriage,
we weren't.
1128
00:44:02,623 --> 00:44:04,790
- Because we went through
all of that that first month,
1129
00:44:04,809 --> 00:44:06,792
I feel like
we're better equipped
1130
00:44:06,886 --> 00:44:08,627
to handle issues going forward.
1131
00:44:08,647 --> 00:44:11,555
I guess that's why I don't
see it as a complete waste.
1132
00:44:11,708 --> 00:44:13,224
- Yeah.
1133
00:44:13,318 --> 00:44:17,561
- I think the biggest thing
that I've learned
1134
00:44:17,714 --> 00:44:19,989
over the last week,
1135
00:44:20,141 --> 00:44:24,068
you really, really are willing
to fight for this.
1136
00:44:24,162 --> 00:44:25,495
You could have just been like,
"You know what?
1137
00:44:25,646 --> 00:44:27,889
"I'm not dealing with this.
This guy is a lost cause.
1138
00:44:27,982 --> 00:44:29,891
He's not putting
any effort in."
1139
00:44:29,984 --> 00:44:31,225
You could have just walked away.
1140
00:44:31,244 --> 00:44:33,169
But you cared enough to say,
"You know what?
1141
00:44:33,396 --> 00:44:35,897
I'm gonna fight for this,"
and like, that showed me
1142
00:44:35,915 --> 00:44:39,066
that you really, really care
about this marriage
1143
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:40,751
and really want this to work.
1144
00:44:40,904 --> 00:44:42,327
- I appreciate you saying that,
1145
00:44:42,422 --> 00:44:47,850
because I didn't feel that
you could feel that for me.
1146
00:44:48,077 --> 00:44:49,744
Over the past week,
Michael and I have
1147
00:44:49,837 --> 00:44:50,928
definitely gotten closer.
1148
00:44:51,022 --> 00:44:52,171
He is listening
1149
00:44:52,190 --> 00:44:54,932
and if, you know, he continues
1150
00:44:55,084 --> 00:44:57,251
to make me feel like
I mean something to him,
1151
00:44:57,344 --> 00:44:59,678
I can see myself
falling for Michael.
1152
00:44:59,698 --> 00:45:02,773
Because I really do want to
say "yes" on Decision Day.
1153
00:45:02,926 --> 00:45:05,535
And so I'm really praying that
1154
00:45:05,762 --> 00:45:07,945
we continue to have nights
like this,
1155
00:45:08,097 --> 00:45:11,040
to see if we can get there
romantically.
1156
00:45:11,192 --> 00:45:13,601
- I really was like, if she's
fighting this hard for this,
1157
00:45:13,619 --> 00:45:16,120
I need to give my 110%.
1158
00:45:16,272 --> 00:45:18,881
- Well, look at both of us.
- Look at us.
1159
00:45:19,108 --> 00:45:21,959
Smiling, genuinely smiling.
- I know.
1160
00:45:22,111 --> 00:45:24,703
- If you would have
asked me two weeks ago,
1161
00:45:24,723 --> 00:45:26,389
"What's gonna happen
on Decision Day?"
1162
00:45:26,616 --> 00:45:27,949
There were--
At times where I'm just like,
1163
00:45:27,967 --> 00:45:30,542
I can't even imagine
how we both would say "yes."
1164
00:45:30,562 --> 00:45:32,211
I couldn't--I couldn't
even fathom it.
1165
00:45:32,230 --> 00:45:34,713
But going forward,
we're not gonna harp on
1166
00:45:34,807 --> 00:45:37,141
the last four weeks.
1167
00:45:37,293 --> 00:45:40,644
- It's definitely
the start of a new chapter.
1168
00:45:40,797 --> 00:45:43,555
It's only up from here.
- ♪ Gonna fall for you ♪
1169
00:45:43,649 --> 00:45:46,558
♪ I get carried away ♪
1170
00:45:46,652 --> 00:45:49,487
[playful upbeat music]
1171
00:45:49,639 --> 00:45:50,562
♪ ♪
1172
00:45:50,656 --> 00:45:52,323
- Pizza for you.
- Yeah?
1173
00:45:52,417 --> 00:45:56,811
♪ ♪
1174
00:45:56,829 --> 00:45:59,571
This is gonna be so good.
1175
00:45:59,591 --> 00:46:00,998
- There's a learning curve
for us
1176
00:46:01,092 --> 00:46:04,652
because it's very hard
to move floppy dough.
1177
00:46:04,670 --> 00:46:06,988
- Ah!
- We're losing it.
1178
00:46:07,006 --> 00:46:12,159
One, two, three, go!
- No, no, easy, easy, easy.
1179
00:46:12,178 --> 00:46:14,662
- A couple rocky times and some
flimsy crust,
1180
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:16,439
but the pie was still good.
1181
00:46:16,590 --> 00:46:19,091
- How is it?
- Awesome.
1182
00:46:19,110 --> 00:46:22,503
Maybe it's a metaphor
for our marriage.
1183
00:46:22,596 --> 00:46:24,522
- I have some surprises.
- Okay.
1184
00:46:24,616 --> 00:46:28,785
- So I wanted to do
something special for you.
1185
00:46:28,936 --> 00:46:30,845
Something that will let
you know that I paid attention.
1186
00:46:30,863 --> 00:46:33,456
And just to let you know
that I appreciate you.
1187
00:46:33,607 --> 00:46:36,017
- Thank you.
- So I hope you enjoy.
1188
00:46:36,035 --> 00:46:38,185
- Okay.
1189
00:46:38,204 --> 00:46:39,537
What we got here?
1190
00:46:39,631 --> 00:46:41,798
It's a plant.
1191
00:46:41,949 --> 00:46:43,448
It's o pretty.
1192
00:46:43,468 --> 00:46:45,709
We should hang this
in our bathroom.
1193
00:46:45,862 --> 00:46:46,952
- It has
a little crystal inside.
1194
00:46:47,046 --> 00:46:48,362
- I know, I love it.
1195
00:46:48,455 --> 00:46:49,955
Thank you.
- You're welcome.
1196
00:46:50,049 --> 00:46:53,200
So it's several stones with
specific meanings I picked.
1197
00:46:53,294 --> 00:46:56,537
- All right, so,
"Bumblebee Jasper.
1198
00:46:56,556 --> 00:46:58,815
"Helps accept change,
increases self-esteem
1199
00:46:58,966 --> 00:47:00,966
and helps make decisions."
1200
00:47:01,060 --> 00:47:02,819
"Snakeskin Jasper.
1201
00:47:03,046 --> 00:47:07,973
Protective, calming,
guards against negativity."
1202
00:47:07,992 --> 00:47:10,326
"Crazy Lace Agate.
1203
00:47:10,553 --> 00:47:14,388
The laughter stone.
Wards off the evil eye."
1204
00:47:14,407 --> 00:47:15,556
- I mean, I saw "laughter,"
1205
00:47:15,575 --> 00:47:17,058
I was like,
"I have to get that one."
1206
00:47:17,076 --> 00:47:18,576
- I love the terrarium.
1207
00:47:18,728 --> 00:47:20,578
I've always wanted one,
never bought one.
1208
00:47:20,672 --> 00:47:23,080
And the stones because I know
he's a meaningful guy,
1209
00:47:23,232 --> 00:47:24,415
so he picked them
with intention.
1210
00:47:24,509 --> 00:47:25,824
Thank you.
1211
00:47:25,844 --> 00:47:27,585
I really like these.
These are really cool.
1212
00:47:27,679 --> 00:47:29,011
There's some of these stones
that I've never seen.
1213
00:47:31,182 --> 00:47:33,683
- Did you think like,
two weeks ago,
1214
00:47:33,910 --> 00:47:36,001
you would be happy
to be doing this?
1215
00:47:36,095 --> 00:47:37,836
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
1216
00:47:37,856 --> 00:47:39,413
- I felt like
there was a moment there
1217
00:47:39,432 --> 00:47:42,859
where we just kind
of shifted our gears.
1218
00:47:43,010 --> 00:47:44,418
And understood
that what somebody--
1219
00:47:44,437 --> 00:47:46,345
Like, I can hear what you
have to say
1220
00:47:46,439 --> 00:47:48,923
without trying to defend it
or rationalize it at first.
1221
00:47:49,016 --> 00:47:51,367
What about you? Same question.
1222
00:47:51,594 --> 00:47:55,763
- I think that as time
went on each week,
1223
00:47:55,856 --> 00:47:58,207
I tried more and more to like,
1224
00:47:58,359 --> 00:48:00,359
just learn how you tick.
1225
00:48:00,453 --> 00:48:02,361
Because I felt like
1226
00:48:02,455 --> 00:48:04,605
communication was always tough.
1227
00:48:04,624 --> 00:48:07,383
I think that as each week went,
1228
00:48:07,534 --> 00:48:10,202
I got to know you more,
and got to understand you more,
1229
00:48:10,221 --> 00:48:11,888
and got comfortable with you.
1230
00:48:12,115 --> 00:48:15,707
To a point where now like,
we don't really argue,
1231
00:48:15,801 --> 00:48:18,135
we more or less laugh and joke.
1232
00:48:18,287 --> 00:48:21,789
- The gifts he's given me
and the place he's taken me,
1233
00:48:21,807 --> 00:48:25,793
this is 100% Lindsey
through and through.
1234
00:48:25,811 --> 00:48:27,645
I know that means he's heard me,
1235
00:48:27,797 --> 00:48:30,555
and that he's trying
to give me affection
1236
00:48:30,650 --> 00:48:32,466
in the way he knows how.
1237
00:48:32,485 --> 00:48:33,817
I think it's very thoughtful.
1238
00:48:33,970 --> 00:48:39,081
♪ ♪
1239
00:48:39,308 --> 00:48:40,824
- This was a good getaway.
- It was.
1240
00:48:40,919 --> 00:48:41,992
- I did a good job?
1241
00:48:42,145 --> 00:48:43,735
- You did a great job.
Thank you.
1242
00:48:43,755 --> 00:48:45,046
- ♪ You got me floating
in slow motion ♪
1243
00:48:50,261 --> 00:48:52,762
♪ We're having the
time of our lives ♪
1244
00:48:52,989 --> 00:48:55,823
♪ We're having
the time of our lives ♪
1245
00:48:55,841 --> 00:48:58,267
♪ Flying like rockets ♪
1246
00:48:58,419 --> 00:49:00,419
- Hey, hey.
- Hi.
1247
00:49:00,438 --> 00:49:01,753
- ♪ We're having
the time of our lives ♪
1248
00:49:01,773 --> 00:49:04,273
♪ We're having
the time of our lives ♪
1249
00:49:04,425 --> 00:49:06,275
- What a cute idea.
- Here we go.
1250
00:49:06,502 --> 00:49:08,444
- Oh, my God, we're going out
into the water now
1251
00:49:08,671 --> 00:49:10,762
with a ton of sushi.
I love my life.
1252
00:49:10,782 --> 00:49:13,598
[both laughing]
1253
00:49:13,618 --> 00:49:15,618
I'm really excited
and, like, surprised
1254
00:49:15,769 --> 00:49:17,361
that Steve set this all up
for us.
1255
00:49:17,513 --> 00:49:18,603
- Cheers.
- Cheers.
1256
00:49:18,698 --> 00:49:22,458
- To one month of wedded bliss.
1257
00:49:22,609 --> 00:49:25,686
- ♪ One night could change
my life forever ♪
1258
00:49:25,705 --> 00:49:28,022
- It's so good.
- Yeah.
1259
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:30,633
We should probably swap sides.
1260
00:49:30,784 --> 00:49:32,026
- Yeah, we were, like, crossing.
1261
00:49:32,044 --> 00:49:33,285
- Yeah.
1262
00:49:33,304 --> 00:49:36,138
- I think it is
the most creative,
1263
00:49:36,290 --> 00:49:38,140
adorable date idea
1264
00:49:38,292 --> 00:49:42,052
to celebrate
our one month anniversary.
1265
00:49:42,205 --> 00:49:44,313
- ♪ We were like two kids ♪
1266
00:49:44,465 --> 00:49:48,651
♪ In the shadow
of the moonlight ♪
1267
00:49:48,878 --> 00:49:52,304
♪ Surrounded by the city,
we fell ♪
1268
00:49:52,323 --> 00:49:55,157
- So up here,
they have these two boats
1269
00:49:55,309 --> 00:49:56,641
that are kind of
always docked here.
1270
00:49:56,661 --> 00:49:58,327
This is where they,
you know, the--
1271
00:49:58,554 --> 00:49:59,737
You heard of
the Boston Tea Party?
1272
00:49:59,889 --> 00:50:01,238
- Mm-hmm.
1273
00:50:01,390 --> 00:50:02,665
- When they were fighting
taxation, this is where
1274
00:50:02,816 --> 00:50:06,151
all they--they dumped the tea
into the Boston Harbor.
1275
00:50:06,245 --> 00:50:09,897
And then here, you can get
ice cream from the Hood milk.
1276
00:50:09,990 --> 00:50:11,841
And then
there's the Children's Museum.
1277
00:50:11,992 --> 00:50:14,902
So, who knows, maybe in a few
years, we'll come back here.
1278
00:50:14,995 --> 00:50:16,070
- [laughs] To get ice cream.
1279
00:50:16,088 --> 00:50:18,514
[both laughing]
1280
00:50:18,665 --> 00:50:21,666
So isn't it crazy that we've
been together for a month now?
1281
00:50:21,686 --> 00:50:24,578
Doesn't it feel like
a couple years? [laughs]
1282
00:50:24,671 --> 00:50:26,338
- Three or four
or five months, yeah.
1283
00:50:26,357 --> 00:50:27,672
It doesn't feel
like one month at all.
1284
00:50:27,692 --> 00:50:29,583
So it's like,
good to know that--
1285
00:50:29,602 --> 00:50:31,435
That it is.
1286
00:50:31,587 --> 00:50:33,696
- I think it feels longer,
'cause we've hit so many
1287
00:50:33,923 --> 00:50:35,589
like, big,
like, relationship landmarks,
1288
00:50:35,682 --> 00:50:40,110
like, meeting the family,
living together.
1289
00:50:40,263 --> 00:50:43,188
- Getting married,
it's like a big one too.
1290
00:50:43,207 --> 00:50:45,432
- Getting married,
that whole thing.
1291
00:50:45,526 --> 00:50:47,768
I mean, those are all big steps.
1292
00:50:47,787 --> 00:50:49,286
So I think it just forced us
1293
00:50:49,438 --> 00:50:52,197
to get close really fast,
you know?
1294
00:50:52,216 --> 00:50:54,199
- And to work through
a lot of things really fast.
1295
00:50:54,293 --> 00:50:56,277
You know, like--
- Yeah.
1296
00:50:56,295 --> 00:50:58,612
- When I was talking
to friends, they're like,
1297
00:50:58,631 --> 00:51:00,798
these types of fights would
come like several months,
1298
00:51:00,892 --> 00:51:02,725
or you know, at least
a month into a relationship.
1299
00:51:02,876 --> 00:51:04,635
But because
we are together so much,
1300
00:51:04,729 --> 00:51:07,304
it's like, well, not only
are they coming up,
1301
00:51:07,456 --> 00:51:09,290
but we have to deal with them
1302
00:51:09,383 --> 00:51:11,141
because we're not going home.
1303
00:51:11,235 --> 00:51:13,569
You know what I mean?
Like, we're in the same place
1304
00:51:13,720 --> 00:51:15,145
so it's like, all right, well,
we better work through this.
1305
00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:16,739
[laughing]
1306
00:51:16,966 --> 00:51:18,908
- The stakes are
a little bit higher with us,
1307
00:51:19,059 --> 00:51:20,984
you know, like,
we can't just walk away.
1308
00:51:21,079 --> 00:51:22,894
Even though, okay, I did,
that one time, whatever.
1309
00:51:22,914 --> 00:51:24,080
But like, you know,
we can't do that.
1310
00:51:24,231 --> 00:51:28,659
[laughing]
1311
00:51:28,753 --> 00:51:30,327
- Yeah, well, yeah,
you can't walk away for long,
1312
00:51:30,421 --> 00:51:31,570
put it that way.
1313
00:51:31,589 --> 00:51:33,814
So when we talk about,
1314
00:51:33,907 --> 00:51:35,316
you know, what's happened so far
1315
00:51:35,409 --> 00:51:37,242
in expectation versus reality,
1316
00:51:37,336 --> 00:51:38,819
I guess, do you feel like
1317
00:51:38,912 --> 00:51:40,821
it's the picture you--you had?
1318
00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:43,674
Or do you feel like
it's different?
1319
00:51:43,768 --> 00:51:47,328
- Um, it's a lot harder
than I thought it would be.
1320
00:51:47,346 --> 00:51:50,331
But it's like, a lot more
rewarding at the same time.
1321
00:51:50,424 --> 00:51:51,849
I knew that the experts
would find me
1322
00:51:51,943 --> 00:51:53,442
someone who was nice,
1323
00:51:53,594 --> 00:51:55,686
and met the criteria
that I wanted,
1324
00:51:55,838 --> 00:51:57,929
but I didn't know
it could be like, this good.
1325
00:51:57,949 --> 00:51:59,782
Like, that still
shocks me even now,
1326
00:52:00,009 --> 00:52:00,950
where I'm like,
I didn't think that
1327
00:52:01,101 --> 00:52:02,192
they would actually find someone
1328
00:52:02,345 --> 00:52:04,695
who's like, my match
in like, every way.
1329
00:52:04,789 --> 00:52:07,289
- Yeah, I mean, you were
the best case scenario.
1330
00:52:07,516 --> 00:52:10,626
- One month in this process
is a huge milestone
1331
00:52:10,777 --> 00:52:13,704
because it marks
the halfway point
1332
00:52:13,856 --> 00:52:16,373
of heading to Decision Day.
1333
00:52:16,525 --> 00:52:19,618
So, um, it's forcing us
1334
00:52:19,637 --> 00:52:22,696
to really think
seriously about, you know,
1335
00:52:22,715 --> 00:52:24,456
the future of our marriage,
1336
00:52:24,475 --> 00:52:28,552
and how we'd like to
make our marriage successful.
1337
00:52:28,704 --> 00:52:30,813
So when you think about it
in that timeline,
1338
00:52:30,964 --> 00:52:33,798
it's pretty crazy,
because within another month,
1339
00:52:33,893 --> 00:52:36,877
I mean, we'll have to make
that decision to stay married,
1340
00:52:36,896 --> 00:52:38,988
so it's kind of a big deal.
1341
00:52:39,139 --> 00:52:40,547
- What would help you
in terms of
1342
00:52:40,641 --> 00:52:41,882
this next month that we're on,
1343
00:52:41,901 --> 00:52:43,308
our second month together?
1344
00:52:43,327 --> 00:52:48,238
- I think, like, we need to
have some type of plan
1345
00:52:48,332 --> 00:52:49,981
about like, what's next?
1346
00:52:50,001 --> 00:52:52,001
Like, what are you
gonna do for work?
1347
00:52:52,152 --> 00:52:55,245
Like, what are our expectations
around money?
1348
00:52:55,398 --> 00:52:58,990
I think those are all big topics
1349
00:52:59,084 --> 00:53:00,676
that we need to address
1350
00:53:00,827 --> 00:53:03,495
before making
the final decision.
1351
00:53:03,514 --> 00:53:05,848
I just know that like, if we
don't have those discussions,
1352
00:53:05,999 --> 00:53:09,593
like we're setting ourselves up
to just fail.
1353
00:53:09,745 --> 00:53:13,004
♪ ♪
1354
00:53:13,024 --> 00:53:15,524
- But you have noticed me
make an effort
1355
00:53:15,751 --> 00:53:17,008
to have those
discussions, right?
1356
00:53:17,028 --> 00:53:18,602
[tense music]
1357
00:53:18,754 --> 00:53:19,862
- I think several times--
- Yeah.
1358
00:53:20,089 --> 00:53:21,363
- I know you've been
crazy busy with work.
1359
00:53:21,515 --> 00:53:22,923
I completely get that,
1360
00:53:22,942 --> 00:53:24,516
but I've been doing my best
to make that happen.
1361
00:53:24,610 --> 00:53:27,185
Because for me, you know,
I'm trying to find a solution,
1362
00:53:27,205 --> 00:53:28,853
I'm trying to work
through the problem.
1363
00:53:28,873 --> 00:53:30,039
I'm doing my best.
1364
00:53:30,190 --> 00:53:31,356
You know,
we can't expect each other
1365
00:53:31,450 --> 00:53:32,691
to change overnight,
1366
00:53:32,710 --> 00:53:34,618
but we can expect
each other to try.
1367
00:53:34,770 --> 00:53:37,938
♪ ♪
1368
00:53:37,957 --> 00:53:39,048
- Okay.
1369
00:53:43,554 --> 00:53:45,295
- ♪ You're all that I want
tonight ♪
1370
00:53:45,389 --> 00:53:47,389
♪ I wanna run ♪
1371
00:53:47,541 --> 00:53:51,543
♪ Just kissin' you
is all I want tonight ♪
1372
00:53:51,562 --> 00:53:55,046
- How do you think dinner went?
- Amazing.
1373
00:53:55,066 --> 00:53:57,124
I can't believe you did that.
1374
00:53:57,142 --> 00:53:58,383
- You feeling me right now,
aren't you?
1375
00:53:58,402 --> 00:53:59,977
- Oh, my God.
- You feeling me right now.
1376
00:54:00,129 --> 00:54:02,053
- A little bit.
- A little bit, I can tell.
1377
00:54:02,147 --> 00:54:03,888
We got to continue the ceremony
1378
00:54:03,908 --> 00:54:06,483
with one of my favorite parts.
- [chuckles]
1379
00:54:06,635 --> 00:54:09,728
- Same cake that we had
for the wedding day.
1380
00:54:09,747 --> 00:54:11,413
- You couldn't
put that cake down.
1381
00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:12,806
- Nope.
1382
00:54:12,899 --> 00:54:14,566
- Our one month anniversary
1383
00:54:14,660 --> 00:54:16,159
was really an amazing day.
1384
00:54:16,312 --> 00:54:18,069
He definitely went
above and beyond
1385
00:54:18,089 --> 00:54:20,481
recreating our wedding day.
1386
00:54:20,574 --> 00:54:21,740
- So much easier
than the first one.
1387
00:54:21,759 --> 00:54:22,925
- It's not...
1388
00:54:24,911 --> 00:54:26,911
[laughter]
1389
00:54:26,931 --> 00:54:29,840
It makes me look at
our situation differently.
1390
00:54:29,934 --> 00:54:32,159
Mm, that's really sweet.
1391
00:54:32,252 --> 00:54:34,344
- Wanna go to bed?
- Sure, sure, sure.
1392
00:54:34,497 --> 00:54:35,846
Makes me feel that
1393
00:54:35,998 --> 00:54:37,606
he really wants to change
1394
00:54:37,758 --> 00:54:39,441
and, you know, wants us
to change and be better.
1395
00:54:39,668 --> 00:54:41,518
♪ ♪
1396
00:54:41,670 --> 00:54:43,094
I'm glad we made it to one month
1397
00:54:43,188 --> 00:54:44,338
without killing each other.
1398
00:54:44,356 --> 00:54:46,173
♪ ♪
1399
00:54:46,191 --> 00:54:47,599
[gasps]
1400
00:54:47,693 --> 00:54:50,177
- Put this on your side table.
- Wow.
1401
00:54:50,195 --> 00:54:52,529
This candle.
- Uh-huh. Uh-huh.
1402
00:54:52,623 --> 00:54:54,939
- [laughs]
1403
00:54:54,959 --> 00:54:56,700
- You said we'd light it
when things are going good.
1404
00:54:56,794 --> 00:54:59,686
- Wow.
1405
00:54:59,705 --> 00:55:01,705
Oh, man, a month.
1406
00:55:01,857 --> 00:55:03,465
- Sound so excited.
1407
00:55:03,617 --> 00:55:05,859
- No, it was like,
"Oh, man, a month!"
1408
00:55:05,878 --> 00:55:08,286
[both laughing]
1409
00:55:08,306 --> 00:55:10,973
- Do you feel like
reliving the wedding day,
1410
00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:15,052
reliving the ceremony,
uh, brought us any closer?
1411
00:55:15,204 --> 00:55:17,204
- 100%.
1412
00:55:17,297 --> 00:55:21,299
It definitely
reminded me of that day
1413
00:55:21,319 --> 00:55:23,226
and how happy I was that day.
1414
00:55:23,321 --> 00:55:27,881
And, you know, what I thought
our future would look like.
1415
00:55:27,974 --> 00:55:29,825
And to have those
memories brought back
1416
00:55:30,052 --> 00:55:33,236
and those feelings,
it was very, very nice.
1417
00:55:33,389 --> 00:55:36,907
Because I wasn't really sure
if I could feel that way again.
1418
00:55:37,059 --> 00:55:41,319
You know, and I really hope
that this feeling continues,
1419
00:55:41,339 --> 00:55:44,322
but I'm happy with where
we're at and where it's going.
1420
00:55:44,342 --> 00:55:46,917
Today was like, the highlight.
1421
00:55:47,069 --> 00:55:48,902
♪ ♪
1422
00:55:48,921 --> 00:55:50,404
What's next?
- What?
1423
00:55:50,422 --> 00:55:51,513
- Huh?
- What's next?
1424
00:55:51,665 --> 00:55:53,757
- [laughs]
1425
00:55:53,909 --> 00:55:55,684
- ♪ Feeling like a fool
in love again ♪
1426
00:55:55,911 --> 00:56:01,431
♪ ♪
1427
00:56:01,584 --> 00:56:04,676
- ♪ You still take
my breath away ♪
1428
00:56:04,770 --> 00:56:07,363
♪ With nothing but a smile ♪
1429
00:56:07,514 --> 00:56:10,032
♪ And every time I kiss you ♪
1430
00:56:10,183 --> 00:56:12,776
♪ It feels like
the first time ♪
1431
00:56:12,870 --> 00:56:15,019
♪ Who knew at the start ♪
1432
00:56:15,114 --> 00:56:16,780
♪ Just dancing in the dark ♪
1433
00:56:16,874 --> 00:56:18,599
- Say how you feel.
1434
00:56:18,692 --> 00:56:20,525
- I feel--I feel happy.
I feel like--
1435
00:56:20,619 --> 00:56:22,269
I don't know how to explain
the way my heart feels,
1436
00:56:22,287 --> 00:56:23,695
but I still feel happy
that I'm with you.
1437
00:56:23,714 --> 00:56:25,363
- Me too. Yeah, I feel great.
1438
00:56:25,457 --> 00:56:28,609
- You add to my joy.
1439
00:56:28,627 --> 00:56:31,612
I think we'll be okay
in the long run.
1440
00:56:31,630 --> 00:56:33,705
- We have been through so much.
1441
00:56:33,799 --> 00:56:35,632
We have been through
thick and thin.
1442
00:56:35,784 --> 00:56:37,117
But today was successful.
1443
00:56:37,136 --> 00:56:39,395
It was really good,
it was really nice.
1444
00:56:39,622 --> 00:56:41,638
I feel so blessed to be with
a woman in your life
1445
00:56:41,790 --> 00:56:43,715
that, you know, changed you.
1446
00:56:43,734 --> 00:56:45,792
I think the man that
sits with you on the couch now
1447
00:56:45,886 --> 00:56:49,238
is a great man,
and he's becoming that
1448
00:56:49,465 --> 00:56:51,648
because his wife calls out his
errors
1449
00:56:51,742 --> 00:56:54,468
without even doing it,
just being who you are.
1450
00:56:54,561 --> 00:56:56,136
I always point
the finger so fast,
1451
00:56:56,155 --> 00:56:58,229
but I won't point
the finger no more.
1452
00:56:58,249 --> 00:57:00,416
I will ask myself,
"What can I do better?"
1453
00:57:00,567 --> 00:57:04,144
I--seriously, Katina,
you are an amazing woman,
1454
00:57:04,237 --> 00:57:06,571
I enjoy every moment with you.
1455
00:57:06,590 --> 00:57:07,664
Even cooking.
1456
00:57:07,816 --> 00:57:09,499
It might not be the best,
1457
00:57:09,593 --> 00:57:11,001
but you know what?
1458
00:57:11,095 --> 00:57:12,428
That's something that
we look at and we laugh at.
1459
00:57:12,655 --> 00:57:14,154
- Mm-hmm.
1460
00:57:14,247 --> 00:57:15,839
- I wouldn't change you, Katina.
1461
00:57:15,991 --> 00:57:18,416
I wouldn't get
to change you for any moment.
1462
00:57:18,510 --> 00:57:20,677
In my heart, I feel like
we have reached another level
1463
00:57:20,829 --> 00:57:22,587
because I'm feeling you now.
1464
00:57:22,606 --> 00:57:24,181
I'm feeling you.
1465
00:57:24,333 --> 00:57:26,183
There's a difference from
liking you and I'm feeling you.
1466
00:57:26,335 --> 00:57:28,426
For real.
1467
00:57:28,446 --> 00:57:29,778
- Let's go to bed.
1468
00:57:30,005 --> 00:57:30,854
[groans]
1469
00:57:30,948 --> 00:57:32,948
- I'm ready, baby.
1470
00:57:33,175 --> 00:57:36,860
- It was nice for him
to say that he is feeling me.
1471
00:57:36,954 --> 00:57:39,437
It made me feel happy.
1472
00:57:39,531 --> 00:57:40,956
I kinda already knew that,
1473
00:57:41,107 --> 00:57:43,459
but I feel like he needed
to tell himself that.
1474
00:57:43,686 --> 00:57:45,368
[chuckles]
1475
00:57:45,521 --> 00:57:47,278
But it made me feel good
1476
00:57:47,372 --> 00:57:49,631
knowing that he can acknowledge
1477
00:57:49,858 --> 00:57:51,875
that he's not an easy person
to deal with.
1478
00:57:51,969 --> 00:57:53,877
I'ma have to sleep in
your pajamas again.
1479
00:57:53,971 --> 00:57:55,362
You know I'm all out.
- Do you want shorts
1480
00:57:55,455 --> 00:57:56,638
or do you want sweats?
- Shorts.
1481
00:57:56,865 --> 00:57:58,640
- Well, here goes this.
- Thanks.
1482
00:57:58,792 --> 00:58:00,717
- And I got you something else
I know you want.
1483
00:58:00,869 --> 00:58:01,885
Put this on.
1484
00:58:01,979 --> 00:58:03,628
- Thanks.
- [laughs]
1485
00:58:03,647 --> 00:58:04,963
- I'm gonna look like you now.
1486
00:58:05,057 --> 00:58:06,056
- You're gonna look like me.
1487
00:58:06,150 --> 00:58:07,649
- Okay, let me change.
1488
00:58:07,876 --> 00:58:08,967
- All right,
do your thing, baby.
1489
00:58:08,986 --> 00:58:10,635
Man...
1490
00:58:10,654 --> 00:58:12,562
[groans]
1491
00:58:12,656 --> 00:58:14,548
- [laughs]
1492
00:58:14,566 --> 00:58:15,657
- What you laughing at?
1493
00:58:20,146 --> 00:58:21,238
- Hey, what happened
to the stuff
1494
00:58:21,390 --> 00:58:22,915
that Dr. Viviana gave us?
1495
00:58:27,246 --> 00:58:28,504
- Are you trying
to use the handcuffs?
1496
00:58:30,399 --> 00:58:32,065
- You gonna handcuff me
to the bed for no reason?
1497
00:58:32,158 --> 00:58:33,342
- [laughs]
1498
00:58:34,586 --> 00:58:36,303
Okay, I'm coming.
- Okay.
1499
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:42,851
- Nope, I want...
1500
00:58:43,078 --> 00:58:45,837
- [sighs]
1501
00:58:45,931 --> 00:58:47,414
- Looking like a b-ball player.
1502
00:58:47,432 --> 00:58:49,766
[both laughing]
1503
00:58:49,918 --> 00:58:52,085
Always wanted an athletic woman.
1504
00:58:52,104 --> 00:58:53,587
- I feel like, honestly,
1505
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:54,512
there were times
that I was worried.
1506
00:58:54,606 --> 00:58:56,089
I'm like, "Oh, my gosh,
1507
00:58:56,182 --> 00:58:57,440
we're not gonna be able
to make it."
1508
00:58:57,593 --> 00:59:00,260
But this anniversary
definitely makes me
1509
00:59:00,353 --> 00:59:02,371
look forward
to future anniversaries.
1510
00:59:02,598 --> 00:59:05,356
I feel like our marriage
is on a good path.
1511
00:59:05,376 --> 00:59:07,859
We are, you know, still
getting to know each other
1512
00:59:07,878 --> 00:59:10,045
but our relationship
is definitely growing.
1513
00:59:10,196 --> 00:59:13,123
And I'm just excited to see
what this next few weeks
1514
00:59:13,217 --> 00:59:14,608
has in store for us.
1515
00:59:14,626 --> 00:59:16,218
I'm very grateful
1516
00:59:16,369 --> 00:59:18,387
that my love story
1517
00:59:18,614 --> 00:59:22,057
isn't filled of negativity
but positivity.
1518
00:59:22,208 --> 00:59:25,376
I have hope that there will be
more anniversaries to come.
1519
00:59:25,396 --> 00:59:26,544
I just love--
1520
00:59:26,638 --> 00:59:27,729
Oh, not love. Whoa.
1521
00:59:27,956 --> 00:59:30,457
I just like
1522
00:59:30,550 --> 00:59:32,626
being with my husband.
[chuckles]
1523
00:59:32,644 --> 00:59:35,386
- ♪ You can have every bit
that's left of me ♪
1524
00:59:35,406 --> 00:59:36,697
- Happy one month, baby.
1525
00:59:38,892 --> 00:59:41,559
- I know you tired.
- I'm tired. You see my eyes?
1526
00:59:41,579 --> 00:59:42,744
- All right, let's get ready.
1527
00:59:42,971 --> 00:59:44,988
♪ ♪
1528
00:59:45,082 --> 00:59:47,231
Come on.
- [sighs]
1529
00:59:47,251 --> 00:59:49,976
- Come on, I already know how
you want to get down, yeah.
1530
00:59:49,995 --> 00:59:51,211
- ♪ Remedy ♪
1531
00:59:55,241 --> 00:59:58,318
♪ All of this time you went
♪
1532
00:59:58,337 --> 01:00:00,320
♪ I've been searching ♪
1533
01:00:00,339 --> 01:00:03,490
♪ Who would have thought
you'd be the one ♪
1534
01:00:03,508 --> 01:00:05,601
- We gotta go in the teepee.
I got a surprise for you there.
1535
01:00:05,828 --> 01:00:08,011
- Okay.
- Careful, watch your step.
1536
01:00:08,163 --> 01:00:10,664
♪ ♪
1537
01:00:10,682 --> 01:00:11,832
- Oh, nice.
1538
01:00:11,850 --> 01:00:15,352
- There's a basket for us.
1539
01:00:15,446 --> 01:00:17,520
- Oh, how cute.
1540
01:00:17,615 --> 01:00:19,339
♪ ♪
1541
01:00:19,358 --> 01:00:21,508
I love this.
1542
01:00:21,526 --> 01:00:22,784
Our vows.
1543
01:00:22,936 --> 01:00:24,936
[sentimental music]
1544
01:00:24,955 --> 01:00:27,456
This is so pretty.
1545
01:00:27,607 --> 01:00:30,033
- What's in the book?
1546
01:00:30,185 --> 01:00:33,111
♪ ♪
1547
01:00:33,130 --> 01:00:34,704
- These look like
our wedding photos.
1548
01:00:34,798 --> 01:00:37,615
♪ ♪
1549
01:00:37,709 --> 01:00:39,209
- That's a great photo.
1550
01:00:39,361 --> 01:00:40,861
- Look how handsome you look.
1551
01:00:40,879 --> 01:00:42,379
- Lean your head
on his shoulder for me.
1552
01:00:42,473 --> 01:00:43,972
Oh, my goodness.
1553
01:00:44,124 --> 01:00:46,199
- You look good.
That's a cool photo.
1554
01:00:46,292 --> 01:00:47,643
- So that's my first look at you
1555
01:00:47,794 --> 01:00:48,977
and that's your first look
at me.
1556
01:00:49,204 --> 01:00:50,704
That's exactly
when I first saw you.
1557
01:00:50,722 --> 01:00:53,315
[both laughing]
1558
01:00:53,466 --> 01:00:56,393
No, it was like,
"Okay, here we go."
1559
01:00:56,487 --> 01:00:58,545
I like this one.
1560
01:00:58,563 --> 01:01:00,547
I didn't even know you then.
1561
01:01:00,565 --> 01:01:02,215
- Look up at each other for me.
1562
01:01:02,234 --> 01:01:03,717
Now look at me.
1563
01:01:03,735 --> 01:01:06,662
♪ ♪
1564
01:01:06,813 --> 01:01:08,722
- We had so much fun
on the dance floor that night.
1565
01:01:08,740 --> 01:01:12,058
Look at you.
- [chuckles]
1566
01:01:12,077 --> 01:01:13,743
♪ ♪
1567
01:01:13,896 --> 01:01:15,987
- I'm gonna dim the lights.
1568
01:01:16,006 --> 01:01:18,156
- Bring it, baby.
1569
01:01:18,250 --> 01:01:20,417
[uplifting music]
1570
01:01:20,569 --> 01:01:21,918
[cheering]
1571
01:01:22,070 --> 01:01:23,920
- Congratulations, Mark.
- Thank you, thank you.
1572
01:01:24,014 --> 01:01:25,997
- You look good.
1573
01:01:26,016 --> 01:01:28,332
- [exhales]
- [chuckles]
1574
01:01:28,352 --> 01:01:34,856
- ♪ I believe ♪
1575
01:01:35,083 --> 01:01:37,008
- Hi, I'm Lindsey.
- Nice to meet you, I'm Mark.
1576
01:01:37,027 --> 01:01:38,268
- What's your name--
What's your last name?
1577
01:01:38,420 --> 01:01:40,195
- Maher.
- Oh, nice, an easy one.
1578
01:01:40,346 --> 01:01:41,530
I was hoping for that!
1579
01:01:41,757 --> 01:01:42,772
Yes!
1580
01:01:42,866 --> 01:01:44,774
[both chuckling]
1581
01:01:44,927 --> 01:01:46,201
- So, Mark and Lindsey,
I'd like you to
1582
01:01:46,428 --> 01:01:47,777
officially meet each other
for the very first time.
1583
01:01:47,930 --> 01:01:49,262
- Hey, nice to meet you.
- Hey, nice to meet you.
1584
01:01:49,281 --> 01:01:50,780
- Let's hold hands.
We'll figure it out eventually.
1585
01:01:50,933 --> 01:01:52,615
- We'll figure it out.
[laughter]
1586
01:01:52,768 --> 01:01:54,692
- I had this rush of memories.
1587
01:01:54,712 --> 01:01:56,603
We were just enjoying each other
1588
01:01:56,621 --> 01:01:59,956
and that's one of the things
I loved most about our wedding.
1589
01:02:00,108 --> 01:02:01,550
♪ ♪
1590
01:02:01,777 --> 01:02:03,719
God, that dress
was something, huh?
1591
01:02:03,946 --> 01:02:06,129
Oof.
1592
01:02:06,223 --> 01:02:08,223
"Dear future husband.
1593
01:02:08,450 --> 01:02:11,226
"As your wife,
I vow to honor, respect,
1594
01:02:11,377 --> 01:02:13,136
"care for, and love you.
1595
01:02:13,288 --> 01:02:15,397
"I vow to bring fun, adventures,
1596
01:02:15,624 --> 01:02:17,791
"joy, and excitement
to your life,
1597
01:02:17,809 --> 01:02:21,385
"to remain loyal, kind,
and caring with your heart.
1598
01:02:21,405 --> 01:02:24,072
"To make our family
and lives together a priority
1599
01:02:24,224 --> 01:02:26,408
and to always
choose you first."
1600
01:02:26,635 --> 01:02:28,726
- Watching it's like,
"Wow, like, look at us
1601
01:02:28,820 --> 01:02:30,487
as like, young kids."
1602
01:02:30,581 --> 01:02:32,748
And how we--how we've kind
of grown over this time
1603
01:02:32,975 --> 01:02:35,066
and how we've gone through
ups and downs.
1604
01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:37,401
And knowing who Lindsey is now
and watching that moment
1605
01:02:37,421 --> 01:02:39,813
and watching that day,
it's like,
1606
01:02:39,831 --> 01:02:42,665
it's nice to watch her
in such a happy place.
1607
01:02:42,760 --> 01:02:45,594
"I promise that I will always
protect you no matter what.
1608
01:02:45,821 --> 01:02:47,654
I will always be
your anchor in life."
1609
01:02:47,672 --> 01:02:49,765
- By the authority
vested upon me,
1610
01:02:49,992 --> 01:02:52,842
I now pronounce
that you are married.
1611
01:02:52,995 --> 01:02:54,677
Mark, you may kiss Lindsey.
1612
01:02:54,772 --> 01:02:56,179
♪ ♪
1613
01:02:56,273 --> 01:02:58,589
[cheering]
1614
01:02:58,609 --> 01:03:02,426
- ♪ And live right now,
right now ♪
1615
01:03:02,521 --> 01:03:04,738
♪ And live right now ♪
1616
01:03:05,616 --> 01:03:07,190
- That's cute.
1617
01:03:07,284 --> 01:03:09,767
- That was cool.
1618
01:03:09,861 --> 01:03:11,453
- It was very sweet.
1619
01:03:11,604 --> 01:03:13,938
What are you thinking
looking back now?
1620
01:03:13,957 --> 01:03:16,699
- Just kind of like,
surreal, like emotional.
1621
01:03:16,852 --> 01:03:18,609
- Yeah.
1622
01:03:18,703 --> 01:03:20,611
Tears of sadness
or tears of joy?
1623
01:03:20,631 --> 01:03:22,113
[both chuckling]
1624
01:03:22,132 --> 01:03:24,207
- Lindsey's grown to be
like a best friend
1625
01:03:24,301 --> 01:03:27,877
and grown to be
somebody that I care about
1626
01:03:28,030 --> 01:03:30,046
and somebody that
I always want to protect
1627
01:03:30,140 --> 01:03:31,973
from bad things.
1628
01:03:32,200 --> 01:03:34,217
And she's--
She's a really good person.
1629
01:03:34,311 --> 01:03:37,628
♪ ♪
1630
01:03:37,648 --> 01:03:40,798
- What's going on?
1631
01:03:40,818 --> 01:03:44,820
- I just feel bad
for all the fights we had.
1632
01:03:44,971 --> 01:03:48,306
Nice to see you, like,
so happy in that video.
1633
01:03:48,325 --> 01:03:50,717
I think of like,
the four weeks and, like,
1634
01:03:50,735 --> 01:03:53,069
just all the tough times
that happened.
1635
01:03:53,221 --> 01:03:55,071
♪ ♪
1636
01:03:55,165 --> 01:03:57,740
I think about
1637
01:03:57,893 --> 01:04:01,837
all you've told me
about your life.
1638
01:04:02,064 --> 01:04:07,083
I think about
all the pain you had.
1639
01:04:07,177 --> 01:04:11,254
And how it hurts to know
that you had that much pain.
1640
01:04:11,406 --> 01:04:14,498
It just hits home so much
1641
01:04:14,518 --> 01:04:17,018
when I say that
1642
01:04:17,170 --> 01:04:19,929
I'll always protect you.
1643
01:04:20,082 --> 01:04:23,933
And...
[sniffles]
1644
01:04:24,027 --> 01:04:28,438
When I see you happy
it's like you're really happy.
1645
01:04:28,590 --> 01:04:31,107
Because you're like...
[sniffles]
1646
01:04:31,259 --> 01:04:36,779
Such a sweet person.
1647
01:04:36,932 --> 01:04:38,932
- I've seen Mark
get emotional a few times
1648
01:04:38,950 --> 01:04:41,025
already in our relationship.
1649
01:04:41,119 --> 01:04:43,953
It was just nice to see
Mark take a step back tonight.
1650
01:04:44,047 --> 01:04:46,548
I think he's probably
feeling some regret.
1651
01:04:46,699 --> 01:04:50,218
For him to look at the video
today and be like, "Oh, wow."
1652
01:04:50,445 --> 01:04:54,614
I think it gave him
some perspective.
1653
01:04:54,633 --> 01:04:57,541
I think it gave him some
perspective that
1654
01:04:57,636 --> 01:04:59,786
he can give a little grace
1655
01:04:59,804 --> 01:05:01,855
when it comes to us
and where we're at.
1656
01:05:04,142 --> 01:05:07,885
I kind of got
really burnt out with you,
1657
01:05:07,905 --> 01:05:10,313
you know, that day
you came back from work
1658
01:05:10,465 --> 01:05:13,299
and I felt
like that was a shift.
1659
01:05:13,393 --> 01:05:14,892
That was really tough for me.
1660
01:05:14,912 --> 01:05:19,489
I literally have
no idea what's happened.
1661
01:05:19,583 --> 01:05:21,824
And I really think it had
a lot more to do with
1662
01:05:21,977 --> 01:05:24,144
like, everything
going on with you.
1663
01:05:24,237 --> 01:05:26,663
- Yeah, so many things
were shaken up.
1664
01:05:26,815 --> 01:05:28,665
- It was just a big week,
you know.
1665
01:05:28,817 --> 01:05:31,575
- Work is such a...
1666
01:05:31,670 --> 01:05:34,337
an important thing now.
1667
01:05:34,431 --> 01:05:40,510
♪ ♪
1668
01:05:40,604 --> 01:05:45,848
I'm gonna try to be
more open-minded with you.
1669
01:05:46,001 --> 01:05:49,444
[sniffling]
1670
01:05:49,595 --> 01:05:52,355
And all the changes.
1671
01:05:52,449 --> 01:05:54,841
So far, this week
has been pretty good.
1672
01:05:54,934 --> 01:05:57,026
You know, we've gotten closer,
1673
01:05:57,179 --> 01:06:00,288
and where we want
to both live and work
1674
01:06:00,440 --> 01:06:02,273
is gonna really come
into play how--
1675
01:06:02,292 --> 01:06:04,442
How the rest of the marriage
turns out for us
1676
01:06:04,461 --> 01:06:07,203
and, uh, I think we're both open
1677
01:06:07,355 --> 01:06:09,372
to conversations
no matter what they are.
1678
01:06:09,466 --> 01:06:12,283
So I think we've grown
1679
01:06:12,302 --> 01:06:16,787
to a point of comfortability
with each other on trust.
1680
01:06:16,807 --> 01:06:18,956
Hopefully, we figure things out.
1681
01:06:18,976 --> 01:06:22,535
- ♪ Climb until the sunrise ♪
1682
01:06:22,628 --> 01:06:25,205
- ♪ We gon' have a good time ♪
1683
01:06:25,298 --> 01:06:26,815
- ♪ So much we could do ♪
1684
01:06:31,488 --> 01:06:34,805
♪ ♪
1685
01:06:34,825 --> 01:06:37,066
[train rattles]
1686
01:06:37,219 --> 01:06:40,811
♪ ♪
1687
01:06:40,831 --> 01:06:43,556
- Our couples are more than
halfway to Decision Day,
1688
01:06:43,575 --> 01:06:46,559
but they're all on different
paths with their marriages.
1689
01:06:46,652 --> 01:06:48,670
- You look sharp.
- I like your outfit.
1690
01:06:48,897 --> 01:06:50,396
- This is my "I don't want
to wear anything" dress.
1691
01:06:50,415 --> 01:06:53,082
- So it's important for them
to meet with each other
1692
01:06:53,235 --> 01:06:55,752
to not only discuss
how far they've come
1693
01:06:55,904 --> 01:06:58,513
but also to offer
support and advice
1694
01:06:58,664 --> 01:06:59,906
to those who need it.
1695
01:06:59,924 --> 01:07:01,241
- What you think?
1696
01:07:01,334 --> 01:07:02,925
Let me see.
- Looks good.
1697
01:07:03,020 --> 01:07:06,170
- Damn, that's one hell
of a wife I got there.
1698
01:07:06,264 --> 01:07:08,172
- Because in just four weeks,
1699
01:07:08,191 --> 01:07:10,583
our couples are going
to have to decide
1700
01:07:10,602 --> 01:07:13,603
whether they want to stay
married or get a divorce.
1701
01:07:13,755 --> 01:07:15,179
- I'm hoping that everybody
is in a space
1702
01:07:15,198 --> 01:07:16,698
where there's like, no drama.
1703
01:07:16,849 --> 01:07:19,159
- Put my new crystals in.
Definitely bringing that one.
1704
01:07:20,686 --> 01:07:22,428
- You can never have enough.
1705
01:07:22,447 --> 01:07:23,872
- I really want to hear like,
what the other couples
1706
01:07:24,023 --> 01:07:25,281
did for their one month.
1707
01:07:25,433 --> 01:07:26,616
Also, I'm a little bored,
1708
01:07:26,768 --> 01:07:28,359
I wonder if there's
some tea to listen to.
1709
01:07:28,378 --> 01:07:30,103
"Any drama?
What ya'll going through?"
1710
01:07:30,121 --> 01:07:31,546
[both laugh]
1711
01:07:31,773 --> 01:07:33,030
- All right,
let's get out of here.
1712
01:07:33,050 --> 01:07:34,791
Skit, skat, skedaddle.
1713
01:07:34,885 --> 01:07:36,551
- Are you ready to rumble?
- Yeah, let's do it.
1714
01:07:36,778 --> 01:07:39,554
- Looking like
a sexy cotton candy.
1715
01:07:39,705 --> 01:07:41,372
- It's a celebration.
1716
01:07:41,391 --> 01:07:43,283
- Let's do this.
1717
01:07:43,301 --> 01:07:45,560
[lively music]
1718
01:07:45,787 --> 01:07:49,046
- ♪ Everybody
has a story to tell ♪
1719
01:07:49,066 --> 01:07:52,308
♪ Everybody has a story
to tell ♪
1720
01:07:52,402 --> 01:07:55,886
♪ We been through hell,
we been through hell ♪
1721
01:07:55,906 --> 01:07:58,573
♪ Everybody
has a story to tell ♪
1722
01:07:58,724 --> 01:08:00,149
- Cheers to our one month.
1723
01:08:00,302 --> 01:08:01,150
[cheering]
- We made it.
1724
01:08:01,303 --> 01:08:02,744
Congratulations, everybody.
1725
01:08:02,971 --> 01:08:04,746
- We made it
without killing each other.
1726
01:08:04,897 --> 01:08:05,988
- We're still all married.
1727
01:08:06,141 --> 01:08:09,325
[all shouting and laughing]
1728
01:08:09,477 --> 01:08:13,404
♪ ♪
1729
01:08:13,498 --> 01:08:14,664
- After you, madame.
1730
01:08:14,758 --> 01:08:17,150
♪ ♪
1731
01:08:17,168 --> 01:08:18,760
- Happy one month, everyone.
1732
01:08:18,911 --> 01:08:20,261
- Everybody's smiling.
1733
01:08:20,413 --> 01:08:23,005
- Yeah, I know.
- Look at that.
1734
01:08:23,100 --> 01:08:25,600
- How's everyone feeling
about--about their partner?
1735
01:08:25,751 --> 01:08:28,919
You guys falling more in love,
falling in like with them?
1736
01:08:28,939 --> 01:08:31,998
Still getting to know them?
- Yeah, Mark.
1737
01:08:32,016 --> 01:08:34,091
[laughter]
1738
01:08:34,111 --> 01:08:35,777
- I was kinda asking
the group first.
1739
01:08:35,928 --> 01:08:38,171
[laughter]
1740
01:08:38,189 --> 01:08:39,781
- The third day,
we were on a bus
1741
01:08:40,008 --> 01:08:41,116
and I was like,
"I just love you."
1742
01:08:41,343 --> 01:08:43,601
And he was like, "Already!"
[gasps]
1743
01:08:43,620 --> 01:08:46,362
And I was like, "Yeah, man,
I'm just gonna love you.
1744
01:08:46,456 --> 01:08:48,865
I'm gonna support you
and be there for you 100%."
1745
01:08:49,017 --> 01:08:50,366
And he was like, "Uh.."
1746
01:08:50,460 --> 01:08:51,793
[laughter]
1747
01:08:51,944 --> 01:08:53,777
- Stop, stop, stop.
1748
01:08:53,797 --> 01:08:55,855
I'm not a two-year-old,
I'm a man.
1749
01:08:55,874 --> 01:08:57,540
[laughter]
1750
01:08:57,634 --> 01:09:00,784
- Eh...
[laughter]
1751
01:09:00,804 --> 01:09:04,364
- Um, for me,
1752
01:09:04,382 --> 01:09:07,884
I, you know, had puppy love
for you right away.
1753
01:09:07,978 --> 01:09:10,794
Um, but I think
we're definitely at the stage
1754
01:09:10,889 --> 01:09:14,557
where, you know,
like, hindsight,
1755
01:09:14,709 --> 01:09:17,059
I'm in love with you but I also
love you, and like you.
1756
01:09:17,212 --> 01:09:18,653
- All three?
- You got all three!
1757
01:09:18,804 --> 01:09:19,729
- I do, yeah!
1758
01:09:19,881 --> 01:09:23,065
- Grand slam!
- Dream level!
1759
01:09:23,218 --> 01:09:25,401
- It sounded like,
love, in love,
1760
01:09:25,495 --> 01:09:27,053
and then like is even more
than the other two.
1761
01:09:27,071 --> 01:09:28,997
[laughter]
1762
01:09:29,148 --> 01:09:30,390
- Love is a big word.
1763
01:09:30,408 --> 01:09:31,908
Does it go with any actions?
1764
01:09:32,060 --> 01:09:34,502
♪ ♪
1765
01:09:34,729 --> 01:09:36,746
- Yes,
we consummated our marriage.
1766
01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:38,414
- There you go.
1767
01:09:38,508 --> 01:09:40,733
[all chuckling]
1768
01:09:40,826 --> 01:09:42,235
- Are you enjoying yourselves?
1769
01:09:42,253 --> 01:09:44,995
[laughter]
1770
01:09:45,015 --> 01:09:48,499
- I didn't expect
marriage to be easy
1771
01:09:48,518 --> 01:09:51,352
but we definitely
didn't expect...
1772
01:09:51,504 --> 01:09:53,262
expect it to be hard
like day two.
1773
01:09:53,415 --> 01:09:54,522
- Yeah.
1774
01:09:54,674 --> 01:09:57,917
- You know, so, there were times
1775
01:09:57,936 --> 01:09:59,527
where like, I was on
one page and he wasn't,
1776
01:09:59,754 --> 01:10:02,588
and then he was on
one page and I wasn't.
1777
01:10:02,607 --> 01:10:04,848
We just had to have
a really honest conversation
1778
01:10:04,943 --> 01:10:07,610
with ourselves about like what
we really want out of this.
1779
01:10:07,762 --> 01:10:10,354
Now we both like,
made a promise that, you know,
1780
01:10:10,448 --> 01:10:12,615
every day, we're gonna treat it
like it's Decision Day.
1781
01:10:12,767 --> 01:10:14,692
- Ooh.
- And give it 100%.
1782
01:10:14,711 --> 01:10:16,102
- Aww.
- Wow, that's fire.
1783
01:10:16,195 --> 01:10:18,104
- That's dope.
- That is fire.
1784
01:10:18,197 --> 01:10:20,197
- This isn't an easy process.
1785
01:10:20,217 --> 01:10:22,792
I mean, I know we've had
some tough weeks.
1786
01:10:22,944 --> 01:10:25,294
I would say, for us,
it's just a lot about like,
1787
01:10:25,388 --> 01:10:29,224
we need to focus on what's
our current life look like
1788
01:10:29,451 --> 01:10:31,968
outside of this, once this
is over in four weeks.
1789
01:10:32,120 --> 01:10:34,136
And I think if we can align
in a healthy way,
1790
01:10:34,231 --> 01:10:36,213
that makes it easier
to go into a Decision Day
1791
01:10:36,233 --> 01:10:38,624
on the same page, but
we have to kinda fine tune that
1792
01:10:38,718 --> 01:10:40,401
and just get on the same page
1793
01:10:40,628 --> 01:10:42,812
about some things, like,
post-Decision Day.
1794
01:10:42,964 --> 01:10:45,222
Like work,
and living situations,
1795
01:10:45,242 --> 01:10:47,817
and what's, you know,
negotiable,
1796
01:10:47,911 --> 01:10:49,560
what's not negotiable?
1797
01:10:49,579 --> 01:10:50,820
- What were you going to say,
Lindsey?
1798
01:10:50,972 --> 01:10:54,249
- I think for me...
1799
01:10:54,400 --> 01:10:57,085
I've been all in
since like, day one.
1800
01:10:57,236 --> 01:11:01,647
But Mark has been, uh,
1801
01:11:01,741 --> 01:11:04,742
giving me a lot of whiplash.
1802
01:11:04,761 --> 01:11:06,928
Like,
"Oh, you're all in, you're not,
1803
01:11:07,079 --> 01:11:08,078
you were, you aren't."
1804
01:11:08,172 --> 01:11:10,323
I very much felt that way
1805
01:11:10,416 --> 01:11:13,676
in like, week two and three.
1806
01:11:13,828 --> 01:11:15,603
I think for me,
for Decision Day,
1807
01:11:15,755 --> 01:11:20,758
I would need to see commitment
and like, consistency from him.
1808
01:11:20,852 --> 01:11:23,111
But like, I love this man,
1809
01:11:23,262 --> 01:11:25,113
I love everything about him.
- I don't think he likes
1810
01:11:25,264 --> 01:11:26,263
when you touch
the back of his head like that.
1811
01:11:26,357 --> 01:11:28,007
- I love it, I love it!
1812
01:11:28,100 --> 01:11:30,100
- Every time you do it
he's just like...
1813
01:11:30,120 --> 01:11:32,287
- He's afraid of me.
I like it too.
1814
01:11:32,514 --> 01:11:35,456
- Seems like Lindsey's
a lot more forward.
1815
01:11:35,683 --> 01:11:37,366
And a lot more, if there's
an issue, she wants to
1816
01:11:37,519 --> 01:11:39,519
say it immediately and
just get in front of it.
1817
01:11:39,537 --> 01:11:41,629
With Mark, I think Mark
is a little more like me,
1818
01:11:41,781 --> 01:11:43,447
which is a little more reserved.
1819
01:11:43,466 --> 01:11:45,800
- Sometimes I feel like
he can't communicate with me,
1820
01:11:46,027 --> 01:11:47,710
then we kind of go
back and forth in a way.
1821
01:11:47,804 --> 01:11:50,379
- You know, we all have
a problem with communication
1822
01:11:50,473 --> 01:11:52,807
but we all know that,
1823
01:11:53,034 --> 01:11:54,550
which is the first step,
is acknowledging it,
1824
01:11:54,702 --> 01:11:56,886
and we're all working to fix it.
1825
01:11:57,038 --> 01:11:59,814
- Me and Jasmina
have made a lot of progress.
1826
01:11:59,965 --> 01:12:02,558
When you guys last seen us
and things weren't really
1827
01:12:02,652 --> 01:12:03,876
clicking at all.
1828
01:12:03,969 --> 01:12:04,802
And right now we're at a place
1829
01:12:04,896 --> 01:12:06,879
where we're both
really positive,
1830
01:12:06,898 --> 01:12:09,382
on the same page.
1831
01:12:09,400 --> 01:12:11,233
Excited for the future
and where things can go.
1832
01:12:11,386 --> 01:12:14,570
But we still have a lot of work
to do in the next four weeks
1833
01:12:14,664 --> 01:12:18,315
in terms of having a little
more deeper conversation
1834
01:12:18,409 --> 01:12:21,911
about what life would look like
if we do stay married.
1835
01:12:22,063 --> 01:12:23,987
- Yeah, I agree with
everything he said.
1836
01:12:24,007 --> 01:12:29,159
But it's also
hoping that we do that
1837
01:12:29,179 --> 01:12:31,237
so romance can also
play a part in it,
1838
01:12:31,330 --> 01:12:33,422
because I'm also not--
Not there,
1839
01:12:33,575 --> 01:12:35,499
you know,
with my feelings for him.
1840
01:12:35,518 --> 01:12:38,686
And I can't picture myself
saying "yes" on Decision Day
1841
01:12:38,913 --> 01:12:40,429
if I don't have feelings
for someone
1842
01:12:40,582 --> 01:12:42,264
or feel anything romantically.
1843
01:12:42,417 --> 01:12:45,434
And so if we're continuing
being consistent
1844
01:12:45,528 --> 01:12:47,695
and remembering, you know,
why we started this
1845
01:12:47,922 --> 01:12:50,773
and giving 100%,
I know that that will come.
1846
01:12:50,867 --> 01:12:53,350
But it's just all about being--
- Consistent.
1847
01:12:53,370 --> 01:12:57,597
- Yeah, consistent
and intentional with every day.
1848
01:12:57,690 --> 01:12:59,707
- For me,
when we have our issues,
1849
01:12:59,934 --> 01:13:01,283
we have two different
approaches.
1850
01:13:01,436 --> 01:13:04,027
She wants the space
to collect her thoughts
1851
01:13:04,122 --> 01:13:05,287
and suppress her emotions
1852
01:13:05,440 --> 01:13:06,606
so she doesn't lash out at me
1853
01:13:06,624 --> 01:13:08,532
and handle it and come back
1854
01:13:08,551 --> 01:13:10,960
and be able to say it
in a different way.
1855
01:13:11,054 --> 01:13:14,130
But for me, I feel like
that gives the opportunity
1856
01:13:14,282 --> 01:13:15,965
for our problems to grow
and fester
1857
01:13:16,117 --> 01:13:17,633
and maybe even get worse.
1858
01:13:17,785 --> 01:13:19,894
So I think there needs
to be a middle ground
1859
01:13:20,045 --> 01:13:21,621
met on both our parts.
1860
01:13:21,639 --> 01:13:23,973
I need to give her more
space that she needs
1861
01:13:24,067 --> 01:13:25,808
and she needs to help us
1862
01:13:25,902 --> 01:13:29,570
get to a solution faster,
which is what I need.
1863
01:13:29,722 --> 01:13:31,572
- But I feel like,
you know, we...
1864
01:13:31,724 --> 01:13:32,740
- We're trying. It's just,
1865
01:13:32,967 --> 01:13:34,150
it's, you know,
we're doing our best
1866
01:13:34,302 --> 01:13:36,636
and we're gonna work
through that for sure.
1867
01:13:36,654 --> 01:13:38,061
We have a great foundation,
1868
01:13:38,081 --> 01:13:39,655
we're still ironing out
the issues.
1869
01:13:39,807 --> 01:13:41,231
It's still really hard at times.
1870
01:13:41,251 --> 01:13:42,900
But it's like,
1871
01:13:42,994 --> 01:13:46,754
if we end up staying committed,
going through with this,
1872
01:13:46,981 --> 01:13:48,981
we could, you know,
have this life
1873
01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:51,259
that we can both build
and imagine together.
1874
01:13:51,486 --> 01:13:53,261
It's so exciting to think
about like,
1875
01:13:53,488 --> 01:13:55,154
"Hey, like,
we can actually do this."
1876
01:13:55,173 --> 01:13:57,823
Like, we can actually see,
like, the endpoint
1877
01:13:57,917 --> 01:14:02,678
and start planning for kids.
1878
01:14:02,830 --> 01:14:03,846
- Ya'll planning kids right now?
1879
01:14:03,998 --> 01:14:05,331
- We're talking...
[laughs]
1880
01:14:05,349 --> 01:14:06,666
- I'm about to have
a niece or a nephew?
1881
01:14:06,684 --> 01:14:10,093
[laughter]
1882
01:14:10,113 --> 01:14:12,505
- Um, for me,
it's about consistency too.
1883
01:14:12,598 --> 01:14:14,115
Not to piggyback off of anybody,
1884
01:14:14,266 --> 01:14:17,677
but I was gonna say that.
[chuckles]
1885
01:14:17,770 --> 01:14:18,786
I feel like we get along good.
1886
01:14:18,938 --> 01:14:21,197
I feel like our foundation
is solid.
1887
01:14:21,291 --> 01:14:23,199
I feel like you turned over
a new leaf with like,
1888
01:14:23,351 --> 01:14:25,776
being like, a calm Olajuwon
and everything
1889
01:14:25,870 --> 01:14:27,870
and me being Katina.
1890
01:14:28,022 --> 01:14:30,631
So, um, for me,
it's just being consistent.
1891
01:14:30,783 --> 01:14:32,449
And then also like,
1892
01:14:32,469 --> 01:14:37,046
if we can see each other past
this in each other's lives.
1893
01:14:37,140 --> 01:14:40,308
♪ ♪
1894
01:14:40,459 --> 01:14:42,310
- Um...
[chuckles]
1895
01:14:42,461 --> 01:14:44,812
I feel like...
1896
01:14:44,964 --> 01:14:48,316
me and Katina have great
chemistry, great chemistry.
1897
01:14:48,467 --> 01:14:54,805
But I question is the
chemistry marriage chemistry...
1898
01:14:54,824 --> 01:14:57,066
or is it friendship chemistry?
1899
01:14:57,218 --> 01:15:01,144
Um, I go off of what I see.
1900
01:15:01,164 --> 01:15:02,497
But if we're gonna be honest,
1901
01:15:02,648 --> 01:15:03,572
there's something
I noticed today
1902
01:15:03,725 --> 01:15:07,393
on my way here that bothers me.
1903
01:15:07,411 --> 01:15:10,654
It makes me question is
this marriage somewhat real?
1904
01:15:10,673 --> 01:15:13,899
[dramatic music]
1905
01:15:13,918 --> 01:15:15,676
- I have no idea.
1906
01:15:15,903 --> 01:15:17,086
I'm lost,
just like everybody else.
1907
01:15:17,180 --> 01:15:19,255
No idea.
1908
01:15:19,407 --> 01:15:22,141
♪ ♪
1909
01:15:26,748 --> 01:15:33,653
♪
1910
01:15:35,773 --> 01:15:37,031
- If we're gonna be honest,
1911
01:15:37,258 --> 01:15:38,515
there's something I noticed
today on my way here
1912
01:15:38,535 --> 01:15:41,277
that bothers me.
1913
01:15:41,371 --> 01:15:45,614
It makes me question is
this marriage somewhat real?
1914
01:15:45,767 --> 01:15:47,708
♪ ♪
1915
01:15:47,860 --> 01:15:50,211
On the bus ride over
to the dinner,
1916
01:15:50,362 --> 01:15:52,788
I borrowed Katina's phone,
and I skimmed through it,
1917
01:15:52,882 --> 01:15:55,532
and I saw something
that really upset me.
1918
01:15:55,552 --> 01:15:56,717
I tried to put it off, you know,
1919
01:15:56,944 --> 01:15:58,035
just try to ride the night out,
1920
01:15:58,054 --> 01:15:59,536
but I just couldn't
do that anymore.
1921
01:15:59,630 --> 01:16:02,464
I had to speak my mind.
1922
01:16:02,559 --> 01:16:03,783
If you want me to bring it up,
I'll bring it up
1923
01:16:03,876 --> 01:16:05,208
right to this table right now.
1924
01:16:05,228 --> 01:16:07,878
[tense music]
1925
01:16:07,897 --> 01:16:09,305
Do you want me to say it?
I will say it.
1926
01:16:09,399 --> 01:16:10,639
- No, 'cause I don't know
what you're talking about.
1927
01:16:10,733 --> 01:16:12,625
- Okay, okay.
1928
01:16:12,643 --> 01:16:13,734
- I have no idea.
1929
01:16:13,886 --> 01:16:15,570
I'm lost,
just like everybody else.
1930
01:16:15,721 --> 01:16:18,297
No idea. From one minute,
we're kissing at the table
1931
01:16:18,316 --> 01:16:19,740
and then the next minute,
1932
01:16:19,892 --> 01:16:21,701
it's like Jekyll and Hyde.
No idea.
1933
01:16:25,081 --> 01:16:26,639
- It's up in the air.
1934
01:16:26,657 --> 01:16:27,748
Never had a solid answer,
1935
01:16:27,975 --> 01:16:30,159
but I'll have a solid answer
by today.
1936
01:16:30,253 --> 01:16:31,994
- I mean, I don't know
what he's talking about,
1937
01:16:32,088 --> 01:16:34,922
so it's a conversation
we'll have later in private.
1938
01:16:36,818 --> 01:16:37,833
- I would have
brought it to you before
1939
01:16:37,985 --> 01:16:40,336
but I noticed it
on our way here.
1940
01:16:40,488 --> 01:16:41,762
I've been holding it in but--
1941
01:16:41,914 --> 01:16:43,914
- But you brought it
to everybody now
1942
01:16:43,933 --> 01:16:46,508
without addressing it
to me in private.
1943
01:16:46,603 --> 01:16:48,510
- But if we're gonna be honest,
like I told you,
1944
01:16:48,605 --> 01:16:50,179
I'll be truthful and honest,
on my vows so--
1945
01:16:50,273 --> 01:16:52,014
- But there's a difference
between being honest
1946
01:16:52,166 --> 01:16:54,275
and you're--
You're insinuating something
1947
01:16:54,426 --> 01:16:56,001
in front of everybody.
1948
01:16:56,095 --> 01:16:57,761
That's not being honest to me.
1949
01:16:57,780 --> 01:16:59,447
Like you're--you're throwing
something
1950
01:16:59,598 --> 01:17:01,340
in a flame
and I don't even know--
1951
01:17:01,359 --> 01:17:02,766
You--you understand
what he just did?
1952
01:17:02,785 --> 01:17:05,010
- Yeah, I 100% hear--
1953
01:17:05,029 --> 01:17:06,603
I'm talking with you,
I'm not talking at you.
1954
01:17:06,623 --> 01:17:07,771
There's a point where
1955
01:17:07,790 --> 01:17:09,348
I promised to be honest with you
1956
01:17:09,367 --> 01:17:10,699
but there's a point
where I promised myself
1957
01:17:10,852 --> 01:17:12,034
I gotta be honest with myself.
1958
01:17:12,128 --> 01:17:14,277
- But how you being honest
when you just said
1959
01:17:14,297 --> 01:17:16,613
"There is something here
and I noticed on the way here."
1960
01:17:16,707 --> 01:17:19,191
You didn't even wait until
after this to bring it to me.
1961
01:17:19,210 --> 01:17:22,378
- Because I don't have
to engage in what--what it is.
1962
01:17:22,530 --> 01:17:26,123
I could just address it so you
know your husband's not okay,
1963
01:17:26,217 --> 01:17:28,550
and I got to figure out what
the problem is with my husband.
1964
01:17:28,645 --> 01:17:30,961
Whatever it is, when I
explain it, you're my wife.
1965
01:17:30,980 --> 01:17:32,721
This shouldn't
even be a conversation.
1966
01:17:32,815 --> 01:17:35,132
- I hear you, O,
because you and I are so alike,
1967
01:17:35,151 --> 01:17:36,967
and I know that you're
ride or die for this bitch,
1968
01:17:37,061 --> 01:17:38,635
but this bitch is like,
1969
01:17:38,655 --> 01:17:40,212
"I don't [bleep] know
what just happened.
1970
01:17:40,231 --> 01:17:41,730
I thought we were on
the same page."
1971
01:17:41,883 --> 01:17:43,899
- No, 100%, 100%, I hear that.
1972
01:17:44,051 --> 01:17:45,326
But it's--it's at the point
where it's like
1973
01:17:45,477 --> 01:17:46,661
a spit in your face.
1974
01:17:46,888 --> 01:17:48,478
So it's something
that I'm not okay with.
1975
01:17:48,572 --> 01:17:50,055
I'm being dead serious.
1976
01:17:50,074 --> 01:17:51,740
So it's really something
I don't want to address
1977
01:17:51,834 --> 01:17:53,150
because if I address it
right here on camera,
1978
01:17:53,244 --> 01:17:54,502
it could get ugly.
1979
01:17:54,729 --> 01:17:57,062
It really could,
and it'll make her look bad.
1980
01:17:57,081 --> 01:17:59,398
So I'm not gonna do that.
I'ma talk to you one on one.
1981
01:17:59,417 --> 01:18:01,342
- But the way you said it,
especially her not knowing
1982
01:18:01,493 --> 01:18:03,252
just put her in this awkward
place
1983
01:18:03,346 --> 01:18:04,845
in front of all of us.
1984
01:18:04,997 --> 01:18:07,164
'Cause we're like,
what are you talking about?
1985
01:18:07,183 --> 01:18:08,999
- 'Cause two seconds ago
we were just fine
1986
01:18:09,093 --> 01:18:11,185
and we were holding hands.
1987
01:18:11,412 --> 01:18:13,336
- She just didn't
like the delivery of it
1988
01:18:13,431 --> 01:18:15,856
and the unknown about it.
1989
01:18:16,008 --> 01:18:17,766
- I think it's
a private conversation.
1990
01:18:17,919 --> 01:18:19,026
- Yeah.
1991
01:18:19,178 --> 01:18:22,029
- I'm ready to leave.
1992
01:18:22,256 --> 01:18:24,273
- I honestly have no idea
what just happened
1993
01:18:24,425 --> 01:18:26,701
with Katina and O.
1994
01:18:26,852 --> 01:18:28,944
- I get both sides.
I understand.
1995
01:18:29,038 --> 01:18:31,430
I understand O feeling like
he has something on his chest
1996
01:18:31,449 --> 01:18:33,207
that he needed to just get off.
1997
01:18:33,434 --> 01:18:35,710
I also understand
Katina feeling like
1998
01:18:35,861 --> 01:18:37,269
there's a time
and place for that.
1999
01:18:37,288 --> 01:18:39,288
- I don't know
what could be going on.
2000
01:18:39,440 --> 01:18:41,031
I couldn't really
understand what was happen--
2001
01:18:41,050 --> 01:18:42,291
What had happened.
2002
01:18:42,385 --> 01:18:45,052
But I hope that
whatever does come from it,
2003
01:18:45,204 --> 01:18:48,205
that they both come
to a healthy place
2004
01:18:48,224 --> 01:18:50,966
and can resolve it in a way
that works for each them
2005
01:18:51,118 --> 01:18:52,801
as individuals
and as a married couple.
2006
01:18:52,895 --> 01:18:55,229
- We all had a pretty great
time on the bus ride over
2007
01:18:55,380 --> 01:18:56,622
so it seemed like it
was something that
2008
01:18:56,640 --> 01:18:58,733
he had noticed
and just kinda sat with.
2009
01:18:58,884 --> 01:19:01,293
- I feel like, you know,
it was a little bit
2010
01:19:01,312 --> 01:19:05,464
of an unfair situation
to put her in the hot seat
2011
01:19:05,483 --> 01:19:08,892
and I feel like
she was kind of cornered.
2012
01:19:08,911 --> 01:19:13,806
- ♪ We all eat lies
when our hearts are hungry ♪
2013
01:19:13,824 --> 01:19:18,994
♪ And we all drink shame
when I saw his break ♪
2014
01:19:19,146 --> 01:19:25,092
♪ I said lie, lie, lie,
one more time to me ♪
2015
01:19:25,319 --> 01:19:30,823
♪ He said I'll be here
until the end ♪
2016
01:19:30,841 --> 01:19:37,104
♪ ♪
2017
01:19:37,331 --> 01:19:39,106
- Let me see
your phone real quick.
2018
01:19:42,111 --> 01:19:43,352
- Why?
2019
01:19:43,446 --> 01:19:45,279
- Let me see it.
2020
01:19:51,846 --> 01:19:54,196
Why do you have that?
- This is old.
2021
01:19:54,348 --> 01:19:55,605
- It doesn't matter.
Why do you have that?
2022
01:19:55,625 --> 01:19:57,792
- I don't have a profile.
This is old.
2023
01:19:58,019 --> 01:20:00,443
There was
a dating app in my phone.
2024
01:20:00,538 --> 01:20:03,446
That app has probably
been there for a couple years.
2025
01:20:03,466 --> 01:20:08,118
I literally forgot
that it was even there.
2026
01:20:08,137 --> 01:20:10,453
- What if I had that?
How would you feel?
2027
01:20:10,473 --> 01:20:12,865
- I would ask you about it,
but this is old.
2028
01:20:12,883 --> 01:20:14,958
- The fact that it's
still there on your phone
2029
01:20:14,977 --> 01:20:17,703
and you still keep it there,
it's spitting in my face
2030
01:20:17,721 --> 01:20:19,538
because that [bleep] was
the first thing I deleted.
2031
01:20:19,557 --> 01:20:20,556
- But I--
- Hold on, hold on, hold on.
2032
01:20:20,650 --> 01:20:22,207
All I hear is excuses.
2033
01:20:22,226 --> 01:20:24,560
- It's not excuses--
- They are excuses.
2034
01:20:24,712 --> 01:20:26,562
If it's on your phone,
it's an excuse because
2035
01:20:26,714 --> 01:20:28,230
what you're gonna say of
why it's on your phone
2036
01:20:28,382 --> 01:20:30,157
is an excuse of why it's there.
2037
01:20:30,309 --> 01:20:33,235
You are married!
2038
01:20:33,387 --> 01:20:35,387
Wait, wait.
If your friend was married,
2039
01:20:35,406 --> 01:20:36,980
and they told you
"I have this on the phone,"
2040
01:20:36,999 --> 01:20:38,057
would you think
that's [bleep] up?
2041
01:20:38,075 --> 01:20:39,667
Answer it.
- Of course--
2042
01:20:39,894 --> 01:20:41,393
- Okay, so that's all
you have to--
2043
01:20:41,486 --> 01:20:43,003
So that's all
you have to hear, Katina.
2044
01:20:43,155 --> 01:20:44,580
If I had this on my phone,
2045
01:20:44,674 --> 01:20:46,489
would you think
it's [bleep] up for Olajuwon?
2046
01:20:46,509 --> 01:20:48,917
Even if it's not used, would
you think it's [bleep] up?
2047
01:20:49,070 --> 01:20:51,070
- I would ask you--
If you were to tell me,
2048
01:20:51,088 --> 01:20:52,662
if I brought it to your
attention, and you're like,
2049
01:20:52,756 --> 01:20:55,257
"I forgot I had it there"
and you don't have an account.
2050
01:20:55,409 --> 01:20:58,427
I'm not gonna--I'm not gonna be
to the level that you're on.
2051
01:20:58,579 --> 01:20:59,745
- You're finding the what ifs,
could've, would've.
2052
01:20:59,838 --> 01:21:00,762
- I'm not.
You're not listening to me--
2053
01:21:00,915 --> 01:21:02,005
- Katina,
you are in a stranger--
2054
01:21:02,099 --> 01:21:03,582
You are a stranger.
2055
01:21:03,675 --> 01:21:06,418
I have to put in my 100% faith
2056
01:21:06,437 --> 01:21:08,863
into a woman I do not know.
2057
01:21:09,014 --> 01:21:12,274
And I am putting my heart
into this woman.
2058
01:21:12,426 --> 01:21:16,019
I deleted every single [bleep]
thing that makes you question
2059
01:21:16,038 --> 01:21:19,281
who I am as a person.
2060
01:21:19,375 --> 01:21:20,708
You can roll your eyes.
That's all I need to see--
2061
01:21:20,859 --> 01:21:23,285
- I'm rolling my eyes
because you're yelling at me.
2062
01:21:23,379 --> 01:21:25,695
- But it's okay, it's okay.
So we don't need to talk.
2063
01:21:25,789 --> 01:21:28,440
Then we don't need to talk.
Then we don't need to talk.
2064
01:21:28,459 --> 01:21:30,050
Yo, let's wrap this up,
let's wrap this up.
2065
01:21:30,277 --> 01:21:31,719
There's no more niceties,
seriously.
2066
01:21:31,870 --> 01:21:33,295
I tried to explain it.
2067
01:21:33,389 --> 01:21:34,704
- I'm listening to you
2068
01:21:34,724 --> 01:21:36,448
but you're not listening
to what I'm saying.
2069
01:21:36,467 --> 01:21:38,225
- I put too much in this
2070
01:21:38,377 --> 01:21:40,227
to see old [bleep] on your phone
2071
01:21:40,379 --> 01:21:44,047
'cause it's not on my phone,
so give me the same respect.
2072
01:21:44,141 --> 01:21:46,308
I hear you, I hear you.
- Get this [bleep] mic off me.
2073
01:21:46,402 --> 01:21:48,477
I'm dead ass, or you're
gonna see the real Katina.
2074
01:21:48,571 --> 01:21:49,904
Get that [bleep] off me.
2075
01:21:50,055 --> 01:21:51,554
I swear to God.
Get this [bleep]--
2076
01:21:51,574 --> 01:21:53,223
Filming is done for the night.
2077
01:21:53,242 --> 01:21:58,078
I'm done. Thank you.
Get this off me.
2078
01:21:58,305 --> 01:21:59,396
- It makes me question
her character
2079
01:21:59,490 --> 01:22:00,897
because you're married.
2080
01:22:00,991 --> 01:22:03,083
And if you're married, you
shouldn't be on dating apps.
2081
01:22:03,235 --> 01:22:05,419
It's just simple,
just common sense.
2082
01:22:07,314 --> 01:22:09,815
- I don't like to use
the word "divorce"
2083
01:22:09,833 --> 01:22:13,152
but you look--you're asking
experts to find your love
2084
01:22:13,170 --> 01:22:14,762
then get off the apps.
That doesn't make sense.
2085
01:22:14,989 --> 01:22:16,672
You want to be out there
looking for yourself
2086
01:22:16,766 --> 01:22:18,824
then you don't need to be on
"Married at First Sight."
2087
01:22:18,842 --> 01:22:21,827
[tense music]
2088
01:22:21,845 --> 01:22:28,776
♪ ♪
2089
01:22:39,789 --> 01:22:41,956
- Next time
on "Married at First Sight."
2090
01:22:42,107 --> 01:22:44,850
- Why are you holding on?
- Just my protection.
2091
01:22:44,943 --> 01:22:47,294
- Where am I going?
- Brake.
2092
01:22:47,521 --> 01:22:49,855
- [laughing]
2093
01:22:49,948 --> 01:22:52,115
[corn husk rips]
- It's sweet corn season.
2094
01:22:52,209 --> 01:22:54,284
In fact, it's so sweet...
2095
01:22:54,378 --> 01:22:55,527
- No, no, I'm good.
2096
01:22:55,546 --> 01:22:57,287
- [laughs]
2097
01:22:57,306 --> 01:22:58,697
- We'll keep on
splitting Sushi duties
2098
01:22:58,716 --> 01:23:00,199
and we'll both split
the bathroom duties.
2099
01:23:00,292 --> 01:23:02,551
Perfect. Pleasure
doing business with you.
2100
01:23:02,645 --> 01:23:05,204
You're not sold?
2101
01:23:05,222 --> 01:23:07,314
- I don't think
that's the right play here.
2102
01:23:10,211 --> 01:23:12,820
- I'm a real person
with real feelings.
2103
01:23:12,971 --> 01:23:15,230
- It's been a month and I don't
have feelings for him.
2104
01:23:15,324 --> 01:23:16,806
♪ ♪
2105
01:23:16,826 --> 01:23:18,550
- I think right now I'm like,
2106
01:23:18,569 --> 01:23:21,236
me saying "yes" on Decision Day
is not gonna happen.
2107
01:23:21,388 --> 01:23:22,387
♪ ♪
2108
01:23:22,481 --> 01:23:24,072
- Anytime we have a conversation
2109
01:23:24,225 --> 01:23:25,315
about the honeymoon--
- Stop, stop, stop.
2110
01:23:25,334 --> 01:23:27,001
You don't have to like,
grip me like that.
2111
01:23:27,228 --> 01:23:28,393
- I'm done.
2112
01:23:28,412 --> 01:23:30,229
♪ ♪
2113
01:23:30,247 --> 01:23:31,672
[door slams]