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- Oh, God, I thought
we were gonna have more time.
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True love requires great risk,
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so I'm willing to take
that leap of faith.
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- Just four days ago,
ten singles
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put their faith in the experts
in order to find love.
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- You are beautiful.
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- They married as
complete strangers.
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[cheers and applause]
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- Your girl is officially
off the market.
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- ♪ In my mind, made it up ♪
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- Last time, they began
their honeymoons together.
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[cork pops]
- [yelps]
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♪ Someday ♪
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- Noi and Steve.
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- I'd fallen in love once
in my whole life
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and I feel like
it's happening again.
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- ♪ In my mind, yeah ♪
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- Katina and Olajuwon.
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- I promise to be
the best husband.
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I promise to be
honest and truthful.
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God brought us to this.
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- He'll get us through this.
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Both: Amen.
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This is everything
that I dreamed of!
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♪ ♪
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- Alyssa and Chris.
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- I really do think
you're just a cool person.
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- I just want to come off
as united
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'cause, like,
no matter the way we feel,
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the experts
just didn't do this right.
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- Jasmina and Michael.
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- If I'm being honest,
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I expect you
to talk to me respectfully.
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- It's never, like, intentional
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for me to sound, like,
abrasive or aggressive.
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So it is something
I'm working on.
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- I appreciate you
for saying that.
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I just have to believe
what you say
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until I see differently.
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[dramatic music]
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- Lindsey and Mark.
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- I don't want to get
too, too lovey-dovey
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because we literally just met,
and there's so many things
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that are going on and
it has to flow organically.
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- Why would we have
consummated our marriage?
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Like, come on dude,
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you're so stupid.
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Ugh.
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♪ Oh, live a little louder ♪
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♪ Oh, laugh a little longer ♪
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- Tonight, our couples
enjoy the final few days
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of their honeymoon
in this tropical paradise.
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- Doing a little exploring
here in old San Juan.
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- Before they have to return
to the real world.
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- I feel like
it's about to get real.
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- Just relax,
the horse knows, it--
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It's been trained, dude.
- Okay.
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- If the horse
wanted to throw you,
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it would've threw you
all the way back there.
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- Ooh, you're about
to piss me off.
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- I won't stop living my life
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because my wife
isn't comfortable.
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- I don't really like this, so--
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I don't like where
this is going.
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I'm a good person
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and if I don't come off
that way on this show,
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I'm gonna be [bleep] pissed.
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- I think you should
just cut your loss.
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- I am either all in
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or all out.
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- You wanna talk to him?
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- No, I do not
want to talk to him.
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I hate him.
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- ♪ It's all or nothing ♪
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- This is
"Married at First Sight."
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- ♪ There's no other way ♪
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♪ It's all or nothing ♪
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- ♪ Look in my cloudy eyes ♪
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♪ I never wake up on time ♪
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- Morning!
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- Morning,
good morning, good morning!
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- He actually woke up
with me today.
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He didn't go to the gym.
- Nope.
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[clears throat]
I figured it would be important
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to have my wife wake up
with me beside her
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instead of me walking back into
the room sweaty, so...
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- Good morning.
- Good morning.
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- We are outside
enjoying this view.
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- Our five couples
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are now on day five
of their honeymoon,
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and while some of the newlyweds
have started creating
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immediate and powerful
connections,
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others have hit a few
bumps in the road.
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- Alyssa has been distant,
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hasn't talked to me,
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doesn't approach me at all
off-camera to talk to me.
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She wants me to act "husbandly"
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and is doing everything she can
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to get out of being a wife.
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- So it's another day
in paradise.
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Hopefully today is a good day
and we can all enjoy it.
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And yeah.
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Trying to keep my head up.
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Trying to "stay in the game."
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[chuckles]
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I guess they would say.
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It's not easy, but, you know,
I'm still here
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and I think that says a lot.
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- But our hope is that
the couples can use
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these final few days
of their honeymoon
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to further discover who the
person they married really is.
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- Morning.
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- We are headed out today
to see a waterfall.
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Just the two of us.
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- Yeah, I'm excited
to just hang out with you
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and check out more of San Juan.
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- We're gonna go
horseback riding today
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so I'm excited to do that.
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- Can't wait to see
if she can ride a real horse.
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- Okay, bye.
- [laughs]
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ We're breaking waves ♪
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♪ Shooting stars ♪
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♪ We live for glory,
not forever ♪
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♪ I'm reaching out ♪
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♪ As where we are ♪
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♪ Our hearts
beat beatin' together ♪
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- It's been a long couple days.
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- [whispers] I know.
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I'm hungry.
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- I know, I'm starving,
I got a good setup for us.
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- Okay, let's do it.
- Okay.
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- Last night, we had a fight.
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I had all these ideas and hopes,
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but boy, did it go to [bleep]
towards the end.
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I don't want to get
too, too lovey-dovey
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because we literally just met
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and it has to flow organically.
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- Mm-hmm.
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- I had a plan for this
romantic dinner
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and I let her know
where I was during the dinner.
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And, you know,
she didn't react too well.
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- I can slow back,
but I pull way back.
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- Mm-hmm.
- Way--all the way back.
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- But an hour later,
we talked about it.
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- The purpose of
a romantic dinner
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is to make me feel loved
and cared for.
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And that didn't make
me feel cared for.
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[contemplative music]
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- Like, I committed
a sin tonight.
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I'm sorry.
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We have an incredible core,
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which is obvious 'cause we have
so many things in common.
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I was trying to do the best
I can with this whole thing.
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We can start fresh tomorrow
on a better slate.
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So do you wanna
go upstairs together?
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- Well, yeah, unless you wanna
sleep down here in the lobby.
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- No, clearly.
- [chuckles]
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- We squashed the topics
of the dinner
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and we bounced back
and we're laughing again.
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- It's this way, dude.
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- I was going there.
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- [laughs]
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Hi, how are you?
- How are you?
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- Come on in.
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Intimacy is about, like,
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having a fight and
moving past it.
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I honestly think
the communication
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between Mark and I is great.
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We're still learning
each other, you know,
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but I think that
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we can talk through any
situation, really, together.
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- You know what we should do?
- What?
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- We should say a prayer.
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- Oh, I like that.
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- All right.
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Dear God,
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thank you for
bringing us together
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in a way that we never
thought was possible.
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Let's enjoy this wonderful meal
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that you provided for us.
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Thank you for everyone
who supports us back home
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or who's here with us
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and get us through the rest of
the honeymoon
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safe and sound. Amen.
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[serene music]
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- That was nice, thank you.
- Yeah.
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Are you religious?
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I know we just prayed, but--
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I appreciate you doing that.
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Are you into going to church,
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something you wanted to do
in the future with kids?
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- So I grew up Greek Orthodox,
super traditional.
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Like, four and a half hour
services
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where they speak
in Greek most of it.
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- Wow.
- And there's a lot of
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the traditions in Greek
Orthodox culture that I like.
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Like Holy Week, we talked
about in Greek Orthodox--
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Easter.
So I would definitely want
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our children to celebrate that
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'cause I think it's more
of a cultural celebration
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as well as a religious one.
- Mm-hmm.
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I'm okay with any church
as long as
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it's the right community.
- Right.
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- I really wanna bring
my kids up in a church
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or at least give them
the fundamentals.
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But I think as soon
as our kids are old enough
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to express themselves,
if they say,
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"Mom and Dad,
I don't want to go,"
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then we should respect that.
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- Okay, how many kids?
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- Okay, so I can't do three.
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Pretty firmly not three.
- Okay.
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- I'll be honest with you,
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I feel like whatever God
gives us.
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I don't want one,
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I want at least two,
I could do four.
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I don't know how I wanna bir--
- You could do one,
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maybe two, definitely
not three, could do four--
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So we're skipping
three no matter what.
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- Yeah,
no matter what, no three.
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- So we're gonna have
a lot of kids in our future?
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- I always wanted
to have a big family.
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What about you?
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- I mean, whatever I can afford
and whatever God gives me.
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You don't get to say,
"I want to have twins."
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- That would be--oh, dude,
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let's make a pact.
- Okay.
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If we have twins, we're done.
One and done.
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That would be [bleep]-ing gold!
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- Okay.
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[country music]
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♪ ♪
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- Hi!
- How are you doing?
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- Hi.
- This is Sales,
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we got Champagne over here.
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- Champagne!
- Ooh, I like that name.
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- Which one of the two
of these horses is calmer?
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- He is following me, he's calm.
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- He's calm.
- I'm gonna put you on him
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because this one likes
to go in the front
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so he will follow this one.
- Okay.
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- Me and her
are both from the city.
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We don't ride horses.
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We only got traffic and cars.
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So we figured
it's our honeymoon,
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we're gonna try just
new events in our lives
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and make more memories together.
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- I can't believe
I'm on a horse right now.
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- [chuckles]
- I do not like--
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Oh, no, I like you.
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Just kidding, I like you.
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- Oh, Champagne,
where you going--
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I mean, Sales, where you going?
- [chuckles]
255
00:09:16,973 --> 00:09:18,047
- Sales,
command your horse to walk.
256
00:09:18,140 --> 00:09:19,132
- Oh, [bleep].
- Okay, come on, Sales.
257
00:09:19,225 --> 00:09:20,141
- Command him to walk.
258
00:09:20,301 --> 00:09:22,051
- Just do the tap-tap?
- Yes.
259
00:09:22,136 --> 00:09:23,886
- Can we go slow?
260
00:09:23,980 --> 00:09:25,564
- Hiyah!
- There we go, see, you got it.
261
00:09:25,648 --> 00:09:27,307
- Good job, horse.
- Don't get my confidence up
262
00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:29,559
'cause he be start running--
He might start running.
263
00:09:29,652 --> 00:09:31,811
- I am nervous
about riding a horse
264
00:09:31,895 --> 00:09:33,572
just because
I've never ridden one before
265
00:09:33,656 --> 00:09:35,398
and I already
don't like animals.
266
00:09:35,491 --> 00:09:37,317
Some people
aren't animal people.
267
00:09:37,410 --> 00:09:38,243
Sorry, PETA.
268
00:09:38,327 --> 00:09:40,078
[chuckles]
269
00:09:40,237 --> 00:09:41,237
How do I slow him down?
- Good girl.
270
00:09:41,330 --> 00:09:42,572
- Pull him back.
- Pull.
271
00:09:42,665 --> 00:09:44,416
- Also, Sales,
remember that Champagne
272
00:09:44,500 --> 00:09:46,659
will go at your speed.
- Slow, slow, slow, slow.
273
00:09:46,744 --> 00:09:47,744
- Good girl.
- I don't feel comfortable.
274
00:09:47,828 --> 00:09:49,004
- Good job.
- Slow.
275
00:09:49,163 --> 00:09:50,747
- I know, slow.
- Slow.
276
00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:52,924
- Slow--hey, slow.
- Go slow, babe.
277
00:09:53,009 --> 00:09:54,926
- This is the--this is
the slowest this horse goes.
278
00:09:55,011 --> 00:09:56,845
- How do you stop it?
- Pull, she's--listen--
279
00:09:56,929 --> 00:09:58,346
Listen to what she's saying.
- Oh, I can't.
280
00:09:58,505 --> 00:10:00,265
- Pull.
- Okay.
281
00:10:00,424 --> 00:10:02,183
- Come on. [clicks tongue]
- Okay, stop--
282
00:10:02,268 --> 00:10:03,602
- Slow, slow.
- I need to stop.
283
00:10:03,686 --> 00:10:05,937
Ooh, I don't like it.
- Just go slow.
284
00:10:06,022 --> 00:10:07,856
- The way that
his personality is,
285
00:10:08,015 --> 00:10:10,266
he just jumps in
and does things.
286
00:10:10,359 --> 00:10:12,777
But me, I'm more, like,
cautious.
287
00:10:12,936 --> 00:10:14,446
- You ain't gonna mess it up,
come on.
288
00:10:14,605 --> 00:10:16,114
You want this, come on.
- Ugh, I'm shaking.
289
00:10:16,273 --> 00:10:17,616
I feel like since I've met him,
290
00:10:17,775 --> 00:10:19,784
I've been stepping out
of my comfort zone
291
00:10:19,943 --> 00:10:23,363
and I just need him to just
take down his energy for me
292
00:10:23,447 --> 00:10:25,615
and just go slower.
293
00:10:25,699 --> 00:10:27,617
- Just relax, the horse knows.
It--it's been trained.
294
00:10:27,710 --> 00:10:29,127
You're not
the first person to ride it,
295
00:10:29,286 --> 00:10:30,295
you're not gonna be the last,
it's okay.
296
00:10:30,379 --> 00:10:31,713
- Okay.
- If the horse
297
00:10:31,797 --> 00:10:32,955
wanted to throw you,
it would've threw you
298
00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:34,207
all the way back there.
- Don't say that.
299
00:10:34,291 --> 00:10:36,542
- I'm saying have confidence
in yourself.
300
00:10:36,627 --> 00:10:37,636
She was taking a little bit
301
00:10:37,795 --> 00:10:39,545
of the positive energy
out of me,
302
00:10:39,630 --> 00:10:42,131
but I don't want
to lose my life experience
303
00:10:42,216 --> 00:10:44,550
because somebody else feels like
304
00:10:44,635 --> 00:10:46,552
they don't want to give it
a full chance.
305
00:10:46,637 --> 00:10:48,480
I am an adventurous person.
306
00:10:48,564 --> 00:10:50,556
And I only could be with
a person who's adventurous.
307
00:10:50,650 --> 00:10:52,642
I didn't get into a marriage
just to smile and say,
308
00:10:52,735 --> 00:10:53,568
"We're married
and we have kids."
309
00:10:53,653 --> 00:10:55,403
I won't stop living my life
310
00:10:55,488 --> 00:10:57,906
because my wife
isn't comfortable.
311
00:10:58,065 --> 00:11:00,075
- Sometimes you just have
to be more patient with me.
312
00:11:00,234 --> 00:11:03,069
- Oh. Gotta have some faith.
313
00:11:03,162 --> 00:11:04,737
We'll be good, though.
314
00:11:04,830 --> 00:11:06,906
- Ah-ah-ah!
- Oh, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa!
315
00:11:06,990 --> 00:11:08,157
I didn't tell you that.
316
00:11:08,242 --> 00:11:09,918
- It's just, like, not relaxing.
317
00:11:10,077 --> 00:11:12,578
Ah-ah, Champagne!
318
00:11:12,663 --> 00:11:14,163
It's because
you're not in front.
319
00:11:14,248 --> 00:11:16,132
[tense music]
320
00:11:19,503 --> 00:11:20,336
Ah-ah-ah!
321
00:11:20,429 --> 00:11:22,263
Slow down.
322
00:11:22,348 --> 00:11:23,840
Chill, stop, like,
323
00:11:23,933 --> 00:11:25,425
I'm not--you're gonna see a--
324
00:11:25,509 --> 00:11:28,436
Ooh, you're about
to piss me off.
325
00:11:28,521 --> 00:11:29,604
It's not funny.
- [laughs]
326
00:11:29,689 --> 00:11:32,273
- It's not funny at all.
327
00:11:32,433 --> 00:11:33,850
- Yo, you're so dramatic.
328
00:11:33,934 --> 00:11:35,101
The horse ain't doing nothing.
- Because I'm scared,
329
00:11:35,194 --> 00:11:36,444
it doesn't matter.
330
00:11:36,603 --> 00:11:38,446
But sometimes
you have to come down
331
00:11:38,531 --> 00:11:40,699
to, like, my level.
- We're just regular walking.
332
00:11:40,783 --> 00:11:44,619
- Stop pushing me and just
listen to me in this moment.
333
00:11:44,704 --> 00:11:46,538
- Ooh.
334
00:11:46,697 --> 00:11:47,872
Have a seat.
335
00:11:48,031 --> 00:11:49,457
[both sigh]
336
00:11:53,787 --> 00:11:55,872
- How'd you feel
about Champagne?
337
00:11:55,965 --> 00:11:58,124
- I mean,
I'm glad that I did it.
338
00:11:58,208 --> 00:12:01,386
But it was, you know,
I mean, I was nervous.
339
00:12:01,470 --> 00:12:02,887
- I noticed
when you're uncomfortable,
340
00:12:03,046 --> 00:12:04,472
you just wanna stop.
341
00:12:04,557 --> 00:12:06,141
But as long as I keep
pushing you and pushing you,
342
00:12:06,300 --> 00:12:08,143
you'll complain about it.
Do you get what I'm saying?
343
00:12:08,302 --> 00:12:11,312
- But that's also my nerves.
344
00:12:11,397 --> 00:12:13,222
- Right, right.
- When people are nervous,
345
00:12:13,307 --> 00:12:14,566
they express themselves
differently.
346
00:12:14,650 --> 00:12:16,735
- But you were so uncomfortable,
347
00:12:16,819 --> 00:12:18,895
you couldn't even
get down the controls
348
00:12:18,988 --> 00:12:20,405
because before we even
got on the horse,
349
00:12:20,564 --> 00:12:22,315
all you're thinking is,
"Oh, my God,
350
00:12:22,399 --> 00:12:23,408
I'm about to do this horse,
I'm about to do this horse."
351
00:12:23,492 --> 00:12:25,160
You was already dwelling
in something
352
00:12:25,319 --> 00:12:26,652
that was becoming so beautiful.
353
00:12:26,737 --> 00:12:27,912
You know what I'm saying?
- Mm-hmm.
354
00:12:28,071 --> 00:12:29,247
- I've seen the buildup,
that's why when you
355
00:12:29,331 --> 00:12:30,749
got on it, you're like,
"I don't wanna do this."
356
00:12:30,908 --> 00:12:32,083
I'm like, before you even got
on the horse,
357
00:12:32,168 --> 00:12:33,409
you was already--
Your mind was already
358
00:12:33,502 --> 00:12:34,660
telling yourself
you didn't like it.
359
00:12:34,754 --> 00:12:36,254
- Yeah, I want you to push me,
360
00:12:36,413 --> 00:12:38,673
but I want you to know,
in some situations,
361
00:12:38,832 --> 00:12:41,760
if I'm telling you I'm really
uncomfortable, then--
362
00:12:41,844 --> 00:12:43,336
- I mean--
- I want you to know
363
00:12:43,429 --> 00:12:44,512
when to not--
364
00:12:44,597 --> 00:12:46,181
When to do it and when to not
365
00:12:46,265 --> 00:12:47,840
'cause my nerves get really bad.
366
00:12:47,925 --> 00:12:49,434
And I don't know,
you'll have to learn, like,
367
00:12:49,518 --> 00:12:51,603
okay, like, "She really
doesn't want to do this.
368
00:12:51,687 --> 00:12:53,188
- I would never
put you through anything
369
00:12:53,272 --> 00:12:56,357
I think you can't get through.
370
00:12:56,442 --> 00:12:58,777
- I see that
you're just trying to,
371
00:12:58,936 --> 00:13:01,362
you know, like,
help me override my fear.
372
00:13:01,447 --> 00:13:02,947
- Right.
- But in the moment,
373
00:13:03,106 --> 00:13:04,941
I was like, "I wanna
punch him in his face."
374
00:13:05,034 --> 00:13:07,619
- [laughs]
375
00:13:07,778 --> 00:13:09,278
So funny.
376
00:13:09,371 --> 00:13:11,113
I'm always gonna push you.
377
00:13:11,207 --> 00:13:13,082
For real,
I'm always gonna push you.
378
00:13:17,454 --> 00:13:21,874
♪ ♪
379
00:13:21,959 --> 00:13:24,469
- In any marriage,
it's important to agree
380
00:13:24,553 --> 00:13:27,129
on a shared comfort zone
as spouses,
381
00:13:27,214 --> 00:13:29,966
but the process of demarcating
the boundaries of the zone
382
00:13:30,050 --> 00:13:31,559
can present challenges,
383
00:13:31,718 --> 00:13:32,969
so it's essential to be aware
384
00:13:33,062 --> 00:13:34,979
of each other's needs and fears
385
00:13:35,138 --> 00:13:36,889
when enjoying new activities
together.
386
00:13:36,982 --> 00:13:38,817
♪ ♪
387
00:13:38,976 --> 00:13:40,142
- ♪ I've been
working like crazy ♪
388
00:13:40,236 --> 00:13:41,978
♪ With everything really ♪
389
00:13:42,062 --> 00:13:45,323
♪ All I can say is
I want to get away with you ♪
390
00:13:45,407 --> 00:13:47,483
♪ Oh, with you ♪
391
00:13:47,568 --> 00:13:49,828
♪ ♪
392
00:13:49,912 --> 00:13:50,820
- Rapids.
- That looks dangerous.
393
00:13:50,904 --> 00:13:53,414
[laughing]
394
00:13:53,499 --> 00:13:55,333
- Nah, you got this.
- I hope it's shallow.
395
00:13:55,417 --> 00:13:56,659
This looks calm.
396
00:13:56,752 --> 00:13:58,253
That's not even water, is it?
397
00:13:58,337 --> 00:13:59,838
That's a puddle.
398
00:13:59,997 --> 00:14:01,339
- We might be able
to work our way in here.
399
00:14:01,498 --> 00:14:03,258
It's a bit, like,
busy over there,
400
00:14:03,342 --> 00:14:05,176
but if we can
get over that tree,
401
00:14:05,335 --> 00:14:07,587
we can go
for a little swim in that pool.
402
00:14:07,680 --> 00:14:09,589
- So we're gonna go rock
climbing and tree climbing,
403
00:14:09,673 --> 00:14:11,432
and then we're gonna go
into the water?
404
00:14:11,592 --> 00:14:13,768
- In an ideal world,
405
00:14:13,927 --> 00:14:17,513
I'd like to go on all types
of adventures with my wife.
406
00:14:17,598 --> 00:14:20,182
Are you okay with that?
- Um, I guess so.
407
00:14:20,267 --> 00:14:21,183
- You sure?
- Yeah.
408
00:14:21,277 --> 00:14:22,193
- I got you. I'll make sure
409
00:14:22,278 --> 00:14:23,853
you get in there safely.
- Okay.
410
00:14:23,937 --> 00:14:26,522
- I like to explore
landscapes, national parks,
411
00:14:26,615 --> 00:14:27,866
so it would be great
to have someone
412
00:14:28,025 --> 00:14:29,609
be excited to do
those types of things.
413
00:14:29,693 --> 00:14:31,536
- I hope you're a good swimmer.
414
00:14:31,620 --> 00:14:34,530
- I won't let you fall
down the rapids, I promise.
415
00:14:34,615 --> 00:14:37,375
I'm excited that we're diving
headfirst into an adventure,
416
00:14:37,534 --> 00:14:38,784
but it's a little disappointing
417
00:14:38,878 --> 00:14:42,872
that she's a bit nervous
about the situation.
418
00:14:42,956 --> 00:14:43,798
- Oh my God, it's slippery!
419
00:14:43,883 --> 00:14:45,383
[laughs]
420
00:14:48,545 --> 00:14:49,462
[yelps]
421
00:14:49,555 --> 00:14:50,463
[laughter]
422
00:14:50,556 --> 00:14:51,464
I'm dying!
423
00:14:51,557 --> 00:14:53,299
[laughter]
424
00:14:53,392 --> 00:14:54,467
It's really cold.
425
00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:55,468
[yelps]
426
00:14:55,561 --> 00:14:58,220
[laughter]
427
00:14:58,305 --> 00:15:00,064
- You're good.
So what do you think?
428
00:15:00,223 --> 00:15:01,649
You wanna try
to learn how to float?
429
00:15:01,808 --> 00:15:03,651
- Right here?
- Yeah.
430
00:15:03,736 --> 00:15:07,563
- Um, I guess so.
- [laughs]
431
00:15:07,648 --> 00:15:09,482
Tell you what, turn this way
432
00:15:09,575 --> 00:15:11,233
so that way it will be
pulling you backwards.
433
00:15:11,318 --> 00:15:12,577
And I'm gonna hold your back
434
00:15:12,736 --> 00:15:13,578
and I just want you
to lean back,
435
00:15:13,662 --> 00:15:15,330
take a deep breath,
436
00:15:15,414 --> 00:15:16,748
and when you feel comfortable,
437
00:15:16,832 --> 00:15:18,407
put your head back in
438
00:15:18,500 --> 00:15:20,576
so that your ears
start touching the water
439
00:15:20,669 --> 00:15:21,911
and put your feet straight.
440
00:15:21,995 --> 00:15:23,504
- Okay.
- All right, ready?
441
00:15:23,589 --> 00:15:25,414
So I'm gonna hold you
tight here.
442
00:15:25,499 --> 00:15:27,008
And now just lean back.
443
00:15:27,092 --> 00:15:28,501
- Okay.
- You can hold onto me first.
444
00:15:28,594 --> 00:15:29,919
- Okay.
445
00:15:30,003 --> 00:15:33,181
- Now put your feet up.
446
00:15:33,265 --> 00:15:34,515
- [giggles]
- Now, let go of my arm--
447
00:15:34,675 --> 00:15:35,850
Let go of my neck.
448
00:15:35,935 --> 00:15:36,926
I got you, I got you.
449
00:15:37,010 --> 00:15:38,853
- Okay.
450
00:15:38,938 --> 00:15:40,355
Now what? [laughs]
451
00:15:40,439 --> 00:15:42,774
- Now slowly put your head
back, take a deep breath.
452
00:15:42,858 --> 00:15:44,692
You can put your ears
into the water.
453
00:15:44,777 --> 00:15:48,020
- Okay. It's cold.
454
00:15:48,105 --> 00:15:49,355
Okay.
455
00:15:49,439 --> 00:15:50,940
- Ready, now put your--
Put your ears in.
456
00:15:51,033 --> 00:15:52,525
- Okay, give me a count.
- Yeah.
457
00:15:52,609 --> 00:15:53,701
- Okay.
458
00:15:53,786 --> 00:15:56,454
- One, two, three.
459
00:15:56,613 --> 00:15:57,789
- Why am I putting
my ears in the water?
460
00:15:57,873 --> 00:15:58,957
- Just do it, just put
your head into the water.
461
00:15:59,116 --> 00:16:00,199
- Oh, okay.
462
00:16:00,283 --> 00:16:01,125
[shrieks]
463
00:16:08,634 --> 00:16:10,635
[laughs]
464
00:16:10,719 --> 00:16:12,211
- It was
just a little frightening.
465
00:16:12,295 --> 00:16:13,546
- Yeah, it was bad timing
466
00:16:13,630 --> 00:16:15,131
on the fish's part.
- This was bad timing.
467
00:16:15,215 --> 00:16:16,557
- I do not feel safe right now!
468
00:16:16,642 --> 00:16:17,725
- Sorry.
469
00:16:17,810 --> 00:16:20,144
We're gonna--ah!
- [shrieks]
470
00:16:20,303 --> 00:16:21,637
But I realized they
weren't gonna stop biting me
471
00:16:21,722 --> 00:16:23,723
so I just, you know, let it go.
472
00:16:23,816 --> 00:16:26,559
You did good, all right?
473
00:16:26,652 --> 00:16:27,986
Come here.
474
00:16:28,070 --> 00:16:29,645
[heartwarming music]
475
00:16:29,730 --> 00:16:32,064
- My head is all over the place.
476
00:16:32,157 --> 00:16:35,067
I'm super anxious,
but at the same time,
477
00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:38,070
he makes me feel safe
and secure with him.
478
00:16:38,155 --> 00:16:39,822
He would do anything, I think,
479
00:16:39,906 --> 00:16:42,834
to make me feel safe and loved.
480
00:16:42,993 --> 00:16:44,252
[Tom Bromley's
"Holy Water" playing]
481
00:16:44,411 --> 00:16:49,090
- ♪ Oh, holy water ♪
482
00:16:49,249 --> 00:16:54,429
♪ Wash over me ♪
483
00:16:54,513 --> 00:16:59,434
♪ Oh, holy water ♪
484
00:16:59,593 --> 00:17:01,352
♪ I'm on my knees ♪
485
00:17:01,437 --> 00:17:04,522
♪ My knees, my knees ♪
486
00:17:04,606 --> 00:17:06,932
♪ Oh, holy water ♪
487
00:17:07,017 --> 00:17:09,694
- I know she was a bit reluctant
488
00:17:09,853 --> 00:17:11,612
and I think she still
has some fears,
489
00:17:11,697 --> 00:17:13,105
but it ended up
being really fun.
490
00:17:13,198 --> 00:17:15,357
It was great seeing Noi
looking so excited.
491
00:17:15,442 --> 00:17:17,368
Really makes me feel like
I have a special wife
492
00:17:17,527 --> 00:17:19,695
and makes me feel
connected with her.
493
00:17:19,780 --> 00:17:21,789
- ♪ Quench my thirst ♪
494
00:17:21,948 --> 00:17:23,374
- I had a blast, how about you?
495
00:17:23,459 --> 00:17:25,284
- It was really fun.
496
00:17:25,368 --> 00:17:27,712
Like, I don't know,
it was just a fun time.
497
00:17:27,796 --> 00:17:28,871
I'm glad that we did it.
498
00:17:28,955 --> 00:17:30,715
♪ ♪
499
00:17:30,874 --> 00:17:33,042
- Happy honeymoon.
- First time in a rainforest!
500
00:17:33,126 --> 00:17:34,385
- That's right.
- And first marriage
501
00:17:34,470 --> 00:17:35,720
and first husband.
502
00:17:35,804 --> 00:17:37,296
- [chuckles]
- A lot of firsts.
503
00:17:37,380 --> 00:17:39,140
♪ ♪
504
00:17:39,299 --> 00:17:44,395
- ♪ Oh, holy water ♪
505
00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:47,389
[upbeat rock music]
506
00:17:47,474 --> 00:17:49,567
♪ ♪
507
00:17:49,651 --> 00:17:51,486
- ♪ Be cool ♪
508
00:17:51,645 --> 00:17:53,896
♪ And on the ready ♪
509
00:17:53,989 --> 00:17:57,900
♪ Are you ready for me? ♪
510
00:17:57,984 --> 00:18:00,411
♪ Yeah ♪
511
00:18:01,997 --> 00:18:03,072
- We're gonna need that.
512
00:18:03,165 --> 00:18:04,573
- No, it missed.
- [laughs]
513
00:18:04,666 --> 00:18:05,833
- The other experts and I
514
00:18:05,918 --> 00:18:07,660
have been monitoring
the situation
515
00:18:07,744 --> 00:18:09,921
with Chris and Alyssa closely,
516
00:18:10,005 --> 00:18:13,174
in hopes of seeing some new
and positive developments.
517
00:18:13,333 --> 00:18:16,594
However, when Alyssa began
turning down Chris's offer
518
00:18:16,753 --> 00:18:18,513
to participate
in activities together,
519
00:18:18,597 --> 00:18:20,256
we decided it was time
to reinforce
520
00:18:20,340 --> 00:18:21,933
the structure of the process
521
00:18:22,017 --> 00:18:24,185
and set up an easy
and fun activity
522
00:18:24,344 --> 00:18:25,761
for them to connect over.
523
00:18:25,846 --> 00:18:27,438
- All right, ready?
- Yeah, you wanna play tennis?
524
00:18:27,523 --> 00:18:29,181
- I guess so.
525
00:18:29,274 --> 00:18:30,766
- I know that Alyssa
526
00:18:30,851 --> 00:18:32,860
might not be super keen
on playing tennis,
527
00:18:32,945 --> 00:18:36,105
but I hope that
my wife recognizes
528
00:18:36,198 --> 00:18:37,690
that I am, in fact, trying.
529
00:18:37,783 --> 00:18:39,033
Careful with the ankles.
530
00:18:39,118 --> 00:18:40,943
I don't know if that's
regulation footwear.
531
00:18:41,036 --> 00:18:43,445
I'm very driven to find success
532
00:18:43,530 --> 00:18:45,123
in all aspects of my life.
533
00:18:45,207 --> 00:18:48,126
So I am ready to do
534
00:18:48,285 --> 00:18:50,286
whatever it takes
to make it work,
535
00:18:50,379 --> 00:18:52,121
even if it ultimately doesn't.
536
00:18:52,205 --> 00:18:54,874
And I'm hoping the fact
that she showed up
537
00:18:54,967 --> 00:18:57,960
means that she is still
making an effort.
538
00:18:58,053 --> 00:18:59,137
You gonna take it easy on me?
539
00:18:59,296 --> 00:19:01,222
You've beat me at
everything else so far.
540
00:19:01,381 --> 00:19:02,306
- You snooze, you lose.
541
00:19:02,391 --> 00:19:05,217
[upbeat bass music]
542
00:19:05,310 --> 00:19:06,477
♪ ♪
543
00:19:06,562 --> 00:19:08,220
- There we go.
544
00:19:08,305 --> 00:19:11,399
♪ ♪
545
00:19:11,483 --> 00:19:15,895
- ♪ Let me introduce myself ♪
546
00:19:15,979 --> 00:19:17,313
♪ Introduce myself ♪
547
00:19:17,397 --> 00:19:18,731
♪ I'm feelin' pretty ♪
548
00:19:18,815 --> 00:19:21,409
♪ Let me introduce myself ♪
549
00:19:21,493 --> 00:19:23,244
- More than one.
550
00:19:23,328 --> 00:19:24,987
It's--it was a trap
the whole time.
551
00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:26,739
- I'm taking my shoes off
so I don't trip.
552
00:19:26,832 --> 00:19:27,915
- Oh, here we go.
553
00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:29,325
I feel like
it's about to get real.
554
00:19:29,409 --> 00:19:30,751
[bleep], oh, there it is.
555
00:19:30,836 --> 00:19:32,920
- ♪ Let me introduce myself ♪
556
00:19:33,079 --> 00:19:34,839
- We'll call that 15-Love.
557
00:19:34,923 --> 00:19:37,008
On paper,
I think she's a great fit.
558
00:19:37,167 --> 00:19:39,427
I think we're very compatible
in our activities.
559
00:19:39,586 --> 00:19:41,003
She genuinely is, like,
560
00:19:41,087 --> 00:19:43,839
a fun-loving,
enjoyable person to be around.
561
00:19:43,924 --> 00:19:45,766
You having fun?
562
00:19:45,851 --> 00:19:47,760
- It's a little bit hot out,
but you know.
563
00:19:47,844 --> 00:19:49,595
- All right,
wanna just hang out?
564
00:19:49,688 --> 00:19:52,431
Chill, talk a little?
565
00:19:52,515 --> 00:19:54,859
- Sure.
566
00:19:54,943 --> 00:19:57,653
I'm trying to be optimistic
in the situation that I'm in.
567
00:19:59,105 --> 00:20:04,526
I put in so much hard work
to be ready for this.
568
00:20:04,611 --> 00:20:07,705
You know,
I think I do my very best
569
00:20:07,864 --> 00:20:11,042
and I will continue
to do that and try.
570
00:20:16,039 --> 00:20:18,707
- Um, I know that
one of the things
571
00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:20,292
that I wanted to talk about
572
00:20:20,385 --> 00:20:23,295
is what happened, sort of,
after the honeymoon.
573
00:20:23,380 --> 00:20:26,224
- Okay.
574
00:20:26,308 --> 00:20:28,559
- Normally, I know that
we'd be expected to move into
575
00:20:28,644 --> 00:20:30,561
an apartment together.
- Mm-hmm.
576
00:20:30,646 --> 00:20:33,222
- What are
your thoughts on that?
577
00:20:33,306 --> 00:20:35,650
- Um, I don't--
578
00:20:35,734 --> 00:20:36,817
I don't feel comfortable
579
00:20:36,902 --> 00:20:38,143
moving into
an apartment together.
580
00:20:38,228 --> 00:20:39,737
- Okay.
581
00:20:41,982 --> 00:20:45,818
- What are your thoughts?
582
00:20:45,902 --> 00:20:49,154
- I get it.
583
00:20:49,248 --> 00:20:53,575
I want you to do
what you're comfortable with.
584
00:20:53,660 --> 00:20:57,255
So, when I think of sort of,
585
00:20:57,339 --> 00:20:59,164
what I had committed to
early in the process,
586
00:20:59,258 --> 00:21:03,752
it included moving--
- I wanna stop for one second.
587
00:21:03,837 --> 00:21:05,429
I already don't like
where this conversation's
588
00:21:05,588 --> 00:21:08,173
going with, like,
"I was committed,"
589
00:21:08,258 --> 00:21:11,510
insinuating that I'm not,
so, yeah.
590
00:21:11,594 --> 00:21:13,604
- Okay.
591
00:21:15,691 --> 00:21:19,101
- I know that with everyone else
592
00:21:19,185 --> 00:21:21,270
living, like, in the apartments
together and stuff,
593
00:21:21,354 --> 00:21:23,022
they're gonna be, like,
doing things together
594
00:21:23,106 --> 00:21:25,274
and filming together, and, like,
595
00:21:25,367 --> 00:21:28,527
all that kind of stuff.
And I think...
596
00:21:28,611 --> 00:21:30,371
I'm not gonna speak for you,
597
00:21:30,455 --> 00:21:32,957
but, like, I feel,
598
00:21:33,116 --> 00:21:35,209
like, robbed kind of
the whole experience
599
00:21:35,294 --> 00:21:36,952
that, like,
we were supposed to have.
600
00:21:37,037 --> 00:21:39,955
[tense music]
601
00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:44,460
And I don't feel like it's fair
602
00:21:44,544 --> 00:21:49,390
to, like, not be able
to live there.
603
00:21:49,474 --> 00:21:51,392
- I definitely want
to move into that apartment,
604
00:21:51,476 --> 00:21:53,644
but I also know that
I want to do it with my wife.
605
00:21:53,729 --> 00:21:55,813
Um, whether we're madly in love,
606
00:21:55,972 --> 00:21:57,898
or barely friends
trying to make it work,
607
00:21:58,058 --> 00:22:00,392
we're expected to move in.
608
00:22:00,477 --> 00:22:01,569
I think she has to
sort of figure out
609
00:22:01,728 --> 00:22:03,062
what she's comfortable doing,
610
00:22:03,146 --> 00:22:05,406
but I know that's what I want.
611
00:22:05,490 --> 00:22:08,075
- I guess I don't think
you're understanding my point
612
00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:11,245
is that, um...
613
00:22:11,330 --> 00:22:14,415
We both want to live
in this apartment,
614
00:22:14,499 --> 00:22:17,168
and just because we don't
want to live there together,
615
00:22:17,252 --> 00:22:20,921
it seems like you've made
a decision without me
616
00:22:21,006 --> 00:22:23,174
that you are moving in
and I'm not.
617
00:22:23,258 --> 00:22:24,249
- No, you can move in
if you want.
618
00:22:24,343 --> 00:22:26,010
[dramatic music]
619
00:22:26,169 --> 00:22:28,337
- I know, but--
But this is what I--
620
00:22:28,421 --> 00:22:29,513
- That's on the table,
if you want to move in,
621
00:22:29,598 --> 00:22:31,182
I'm fine with that.
622
00:22:31,266 --> 00:22:33,100
- Right, but that's, like, not--
623
00:22:33,185 --> 00:22:35,019
- I know you're not
comfortable with that.
624
00:22:35,178 --> 00:22:37,346
It sounds like
you're in a tough spot
625
00:22:37,430 --> 00:22:39,098
and have a decision to make.
626
00:22:39,182 --> 00:22:40,766
Unless--unless I'm told--
- Okay, I mean, I don't--
627
00:22:40,850 --> 00:22:42,360
I don't really like this, so--
628
00:22:42,519 --> 00:22:45,687
I don't like where--
Where this is going.
629
00:22:45,772 --> 00:22:47,281
So I'm gonna walk away
for a second.
630
00:22:47,366 --> 00:22:50,275
[tense music]
631
00:22:50,360 --> 00:22:52,945
♪ ♪
632
00:22:53,029 --> 00:22:54,780
- Yeah, just, he doesn't stop.
633
00:22:54,873 --> 00:22:56,615
He was like, "seems like
you have a decision to make."
634
00:22:56,699 --> 00:22:58,042
Like, why do you
have to do that?
635
00:23:03,540 --> 00:23:05,466
- Well, I mean, it's--
It's multiple things.
636
00:23:05,550 --> 00:23:08,043
Like, I love the other girls
and, like,
637
00:23:08,128 --> 00:23:09,711
I want to be
a part of it with them.
638
00:23:09,805 --> 00:23:11,797
- Yeah.
- And so, like,
639
00:23:11,881 --> 00:23:13,882
if they all are like,
last minute, like,
640
00:23:13,967 --> 00:23:16,519
"Oh, want to come over?"
Like, I can't just come over.
641
00:23:22,567 --> 00:23:26,570
- Like, why is that fair
that I get to not live there
642
00:23:26,655 --> 00:23:29,990
because I don't want
to live with you
643
00:23:30,075 --> 00:23:31,158
because we're not compatible?
644
00:23:31,243 --> 00:23:32,243
Why is that fair?
645
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:40,409
- I think that
from the beginning,
646
00:23:40,493 --> 00:23:43,078
I have always done
what I thought she wanted,
647
00:23:43,163 --> 00:23:44,496
but I don't know that
648
00:23:44,589 --> 00:23:47,166
me doing what I think is
reasonable for both of us
649
00:23:47,250 --> 00:23:50,252
is in line with what
she is expecting of me,
650
00:23:50,336 --> 00:23:52,421
which, to me, comes off
as a little selfish.
651
00:23:52,505 --> 00:23:56,258
- Like, if you can't be kind,
then don't talk to me.
652
00:23:56,351 --> 00:24:00,729
- ♪ I was a fool in love ♪
653
00:24:02,348 --> 00:24:04,108
- Ugh, look at his
hand gestures right now.
654
00:24:04,267 --> 00:24:06,444
Even that is, like,
it's aggressive.
655
00:24:08,530 --> 00:24:10,698
- No, like,
he's, like, pointing--
656
00:24:10,857 --> 00:24:13,025
Like, it's just like, ugh.
657
00:24:13,109 --> 00:24:15,286
- I feel like I've had to be
really patient
658
00:24:15,370 --> 00:24:18,363
and I have felt
all of the emotions.
659
00:24:18,448 --> 00:24:21,283
I started with excited
about the process,
660
00:24:21,376 --> 00:24:22,868
and then nervous,
and then anxious.
661
00:24:22,952 --> 00:24:24,953
Then I got married
and I was elated,
662
00:24:25,046 --> 00:24:26,955
and then I was very confused
663
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:29,124
when I couldn't figure out
what was going on
664
00:24:29,209 --> 00:24:30,968
and she wouldn't tell me.
665
00:24:31,052 --> 00:24:33,128
Now I'm frustrated.
666
00:24:33,221 --> 00:24:36,223
- [bleep],
when is enough enough?
667
00:24:36,308 --> 00:24:37,799
- I think we're
in a unique situation
668
00:24:37,884 --> 00:24:39,226
and I genuinely don't know
how we're gonna handle it.
669
00:24:39,311 --> 00:24:45,057
- ♪ I was a fool in love ♪
670
00:24:45,150 --> 00:24:47,309
♪ But I was not ♪
671
00:24:47,402 --> 00:24:50,154
♪ I wasn't what she wanted. ♪
672
00:24:50,238 --> 00:24:54,399
♪ And it
chopped me to pieces. ♪
673
00:24:54,484 --> 00:24:55,826
♪ ♪
674
00:25:00,582 --> 00:25:02,574
♪ Then dropped me to pieces ♪
675
00:25:02,659 --> 00:25:05,410
♪ Can't tell if this
is real or not ♪
676
00:25:05,495 --> 00:25:08,005
♪ But I sure
wanna figure it out ♪
677
00:25:08,089 --> 00:25:09,498
- I feel so bad for my husband
678
00:25:09,582 --> 00:25:13,418
because he is currently
being browbeaten
679
00:25:13,503 --> 00:25:16,255
by his landlord/mother figure.
680
00:25:16,348 --> 00:25:18,098
[phone ringing]
681
00:25:18,258 --> 00:25:23,428
She has been relentlessly
calling and messaging him
682
00:25:23,513 --> 00:25:25,347
on our honeymoon.
683
00:25:25,431 --> 00:25:27,015
I'm not talking about
once or twice a day,
684
00:25:27,100 --> 00:25:28,776
I'm talking about
four, five times a day.
685
00:25:28,860 --> 00:25:32,613
- Okay, okay.
686
00:25:32,697 --> 00:25:36,275
- Stating that he needs
to contact her immediately.
687
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:38,536
[phone ringing]
- Okay.
688
00:25:38,620 --> 00:25:40,538
All right.
689
00:25:40,622 --> 00:25:43,541
- And he is busy with me
trying to get to know me.
690
00:25:44,951 --> 00:25:45,867
- Good night.
691
00:25:45,952 --> 00:25:47,035
[phone ringing]
692
00:25:47,120 --> 00:25:48,036
- Really?
693
00:25:48,121 --> 00:25:49,964
- All right.
694
00:25:50,048 --> 00:25:51,790
- Oh, my God.
695
00:25:51,874 --> 00:25:54,134
And she is non-stop.
696
00:25:54,219 --> 00:25:58,055
She is just always stepping in
and it is distracting.
697
00:25:58,214 --> 00:26:00,048
This person who's been
a confidant
698
00:26:00,133 --> 00:26:01,141
and somebody he trusted in
699
00:26:01,226 --> 00:26:03,051
is just really letting him down.
700
00:26:03,144 --> 00:26:05,804
And it is getting
to his best self.
701
00:26:05,897 --> 00:26:08,232
[groans]
702
00:26:09,150 --> 00:26:10,559
- ♪ We got each other ♪
703
00:26:10,643 --> 00:26:12,728
♪ And that's a fact ♪
704
00:26:12,812 --> 00:26:14,646
♪ We'll stick together ♪
705
00:26:14,731 --> 00:26:16,231
♪ We made a pact ♪
706
00:26:16,324 --> 00:26:18,150
- Daylight--ooh,
it's getting hot!
707
00:26:18,243 --> 00:26:19,743
- I know.
708
00:26:19,902 --> 00:26:21,820
I personally enjoy
getting together
709
00:26:21,913 --> 00:26:23,581
with the other couples
710
00:26:23,665 --> 00:26:25,916
because, one, I don't got
no beef with none of them.
711
00:26:26,075 --> 00:26:28,493
So I know that I'm always
gonna joke around
712
00:26:28,578 --> 00:26:29,911
and laugh with them.
713
00:26:29,996 --> 00:26:31,913
Katina and O are the couple that
714
00:26:31,998 --> 00:26:33,674
we both feel closest to.
715
00:26:33,758 --> 00:26:36,001
So it is nice to also get, like,
716
00:26:36,085 --> 00:26:37,502
a little double date with them
717
00:26:37,587 --> 00:26:39,838
and catch up
to see how they're doing.
718
00:26:39,922 --> 00:26:41,256
- I just wanna
get in this water.
719
00:26:41,349 --> 00:26:42,924
- Yeah, I wanna get in this.
720
00:26:43,018 --> 00:26:44,509
- Do you think there's fish?
721
00:26:44,594 --> 00:26:46,604
- Do I think--
Yeah, I know there's fish.
722
00:26:46,688 --> 00:26:48,772
- [laughter]
723
00:26:48,857 --> 00:26:50,107
Sorry, sorry.
724
00:26:50,191 --> 00:26:51,266
- No, I meant, like,
on the edge.
725
00:26:51,351 --> 00:26:52,109
- It's full of [bleep].
726
00:26:52,268 --> 00:26:53,352
- Up close.
727
00:26:53,436 --> 00:26:54,528
- A lot of [bleep]
in this water.
728
00:26:54,613 --> 00:26:56,438
- Don't--
Don't try to play, my friend.
729
00:26:56,531 --> 00:26:57,773
Don't try to play, my friend!
730
00:26:57,857 --> 00:26:59,024
- You see how
he treats me sometimes?
731
00:26:59,108 --> 00:27:01,368
- I understood.
- [laughs]
732
00:27:02,779 --> 00:27:04,371
- Did you guys expect
to connect this fast
733
00:27:04,456 --> 00:27:05,706
in such a short amount of time?
734
00:27:05,790 --> 00:27:07,124
- No.
- No.
735
00:27:07,283 --> 00:27:09,701
- Mm-mm, I didn't.
I'm actually surprised.
736
00:27:09,794 --> 00:27:12,046
Like, it feels like
I've known him for a long time.
737
00:27:12,130 --> 00:27:14,039
So I think that makes it
easier for me.
738
00:27:14,132 --> 00:27:15,707
Are you guys seeing why
you're--why you're matched?
739
00:27:15,792 --> 00:27:16,958
- Yeah, I was about to ask that.
740
00:27:17,043 --> 00:27:18,126
That's so crazy.
- Why you were matched?
741
00:27:18,211 --> 00:27:20,545
Anything, like,
similarities or anything?
742
00:27:20,639 --> 00:27:22,881
- Yeah, we definitely have
a lot of things in common.
743
00:27:22,974 --> 00:27:24,383
- I think you guys look
great together, anyways.
744
00:27:24,476 --> 00:27:25,884
- I like you guys together.
- Yo, for real.
745
00:27:25,968 --> 00:27:27,219
Such a sexy couple.
- Thank you.
746
00:27:27,312 --> 00:27:29,137
- You guys look nice.
- For real, for real.
747
00:27:29,230 --> 00:27:30,481
- Yeah, I can definitely see
748
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:32,808
why the experts
paired us together
749
00:27:32,901 --> 00:27:34,652
because we have
a lot of similarities.
750
00:27:34,811 --> 00:27:36,978
Our beliefs,
what we want in the marriage,
751
00:27:37,072 --> 00:27:38,647
what we want from a partner.
752
00:27:38,740 --> 00:27:40,407
So even, like,
the first day I was like,
753
00:27:40,492 --> 00:27:42,493
"It's not even
some things in common,
754
00:27:42,652 --> 00:27:45,237
it's, like,
all things in common."
755
00:27:45,330 --> 00:27:47,748
So I could definitely
see why they did that.
756
00:27:47,832 --> 00:27:49,833
- I think personality wise,
I think we're both, like,
757
00:27:49,918 --> 00:27:51,168
very, like, opinionated.
758
00:27:51,327 --> 00:27:52,327
- Mm.
759
00:27:52,412 --> 00:27:55,914
- Very, like, um,
760
00:27:56,007 --> 00:27:57,257
we speak with conviction
761
00:27:57,342 --> 00:27:59,593
when we feel like--
We believe something.
762
00:27:59,678 --> 00:28:01,261
So I feel like, in that regard,
763
00:28:01,421 --> 00:28:02,513
we're kind of the same as well.
764
00:28:02,672 --> 00:28:03,847
- Mm-hmm.
- You get what I'm saying?
765
00:28:04,006 --> 00:28:06,091
- Do you find, like,
it's a challenge
766
00:28:06,184 --> 00:28:09,344
with you guys are both
opinion--opinionated?
767
00:28:09,429 --> 00:28:11,930
- I don't know.
I feel like I'm able,
768
00:28:12,014 --> 00:28:13,524
sometimes, to see both sides,
769
00:28:13,683 --> 00:28:16,351
and sometimes
he's just like, "Nah.
770
00:28:16,436 --> 00:28:19,196
- [laughter]
- "Like, this is how it is,
771
00:28:19,355 --> 00:28:20,447
this is what you did,"
type of thing,
772
00:28:20,532 --> 00:28:23,024
and I'm like, "no, not even."
773
00:28:23,109 --> 00:28:25,035
- That's funny 'cause I think--
I could think
774
00:28:25,194 --> 00:28:27,121
the same about you.
- I'm sure you can.
775
00:28:27,205 --> 00:28:28,280
- I think we're the same
in that regard.
776
00:28:28,373 --> 00:28:30,457
- Jasmina and Mike,
777
00:28:30,542 --> 00:28:31,875
at least they know, you know,
778
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:34,369
why they were matched
and their similarities.
779
00:28:34,454 --> 00:28:36,130
But, you know,
she just married a stranger
780
00:28:36,214 --> 00:28:38,132
so, um, it's just
gonna take time.
781
00:28:38,216 --> 00:28:39,875
And it's just, like, you know,
782
00:28:39,959 --> 00:28:42,136
focusing on not trying
to get your point across,
783
00:28:42,220 --> 00:28:44,471
but just, like, being
understanding to each other,
784
00:28:44,556 --> 00:28:46,974
even if you have
opposite point of views.
785
00:28:47,133 --> 00:28:48,383
- I like to push my wife.
786
00:28:48,468 --> 00:28:49,309
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- Like, I really do.
787
00:28:49,469 --> 00:28:50,644
She knows it, too.
788
00:28:50,729 --> 00:28:51,812
I told her, I was like,
"I don't know
789
00:28:51,896 --> 00:28:53,221
how you gonna live
like this forever."
790
00:28:53,306 --> 00:28:54,565
[laughter]
Like, we're riding the horse
791
00:28:54,649 --> 00:28:56,308
and my horse
is going kinda fast.
792
00:28:56,392 --> 00:28:58,152
But, like, I want to have,
like, that thrill
793
00:28:58,236 --> 00:28:59,486
so I can remember it too.
- Yup.
794
00:28:59,571 --> 00:29:01,655
- But at one point,
after we went, like--
795
00:29:01,814 --> 00:29:03,240
Shoot, we went--probably went
two miles with the horse,
796
00:29:03,399 --> 00:29:04,566
and then when
we were coming back,
797
00:29:04,659 --> 00:29:05,993
I could tell
she was at her peak.
798
00:29:06,152 --> 00:29:08,162
Like, "Yo, I'm not--
I'm not effing around no more."
799
00:29:08,246 --> 00:29:10,164
Like, "slow down, or I'ma hit--
800
00:29:10,248 --> 00:29:11,406
I'ma take care of you
when I get off this horse."
801
00:29:11,499 --> 00:29:13,167
- [laughs]
- And, like, I like that,
802
00:29:13,251 --> 00:29:14,585
you know, and--
803
00:29:14,744 --> 00:29:15,911
And then I slowed down,
you know?
804
00:29:15,995 --> 00:29:17,329
You can--you just feel it,
the energy.
805
00:29:17,422 --> 00:29:18,747
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- You'll feel the energy.
806
00:29:18,831 --> 00:29:20,007
- You definitely
want to, like, push her
807
00:29:20,091 --> 00:29:21,500
out of her comfort zone,
but you don't wanna
808
00:29:21,584 --> 00:29:23,084
push her too much.
- Yeah, to scare her,
809
00:29:23,169 --> 00:29:24,678
like, "I can't rock
with him anymore."
810
00:29:24,763 --> 00:29:26,087
Yeah, yeah, exactly, exactly.
- Right, right, right.
811
00:29:26,172 --> 00:29:27,931
- Like, "He's not listening
to me" kind of thing.
812
00:29:28,090 --> 00:29:30,267
- O is high energy,
O is aggressive,
813
00:29:30,351 --> 00:29:31,259
O is an alpha male.
814
00:29:31,352 --> 00:29:32,844
That intensity, he's gonna
815
00:29:32,937 --> 00:29:34,846
put into his marriage
to push his wife.
816
00:29:34,931 --> 00:29:36,264
So of course, it can be a pro
817
00:29:36,357 --> 00:29:37,941
because you're pushing
your spouse,
818
00:29:38,026 --> 00:29:40,194
but also, if he doesn't,
you know, reel it in,
819
00:29:40,353 --> 00:29:42,029
that can also be a con,
820
00:29:42,188 --> 00:29:44,281
so I can understand the
friction that they're having,
821
00:29:44,365 --> 00:29:45,866
but O is someone that
822
00:29:45,950 --> 00:29:48,109
I know he knows
how to self-correct.
823
00:29:48,194 --> 00:29:50,788
So hopefully before
it gets to be too much,
824
00:29:50,872 --> 00:29:51,780
he's gonna fix it.
825
00:29:51,864 --> 00:29:54,041
♪ ♪
826
00:29:54,125 --> 00:29:57,702
- ♪ Shows up out of nowhere ♪
827
00:29:57,796 --> 00:30:01,706
♪ And it lifts
you out of the dark ♪
828
00:30:01,791 --> 00:30:05,803
♪ It shines a light on
what you've always known ♪
829
00:30:05,962 --> 00:30:08,055
♪ And it gives you
the strength ♪
830
00:30:08,214 --> 00:30:09,631
♪ Right when it gets hard ♪
831
00:30:09,724 --> 00:30:11,216
♪ Oh, it's the spark ♪
832
00:30:11,300 --> 00:30:13,227
- Hey, I'm Lindsey Mayer.
833
00:30:13,311 --> 00:30:15,136
This is Mark Mayer.
- Yeah.
834
00:30:15,221 --> 00:30:17,231
- And we're just gonna get
a little rub down today.
835
00:30:17,390 --> 00:30:18,807
I just love a massage,
836
00:30:18,900 --> 00:30:21,151
but I can see in Mark's head
837
00:30:21,310 --> 00:30:22,402
that all the stuff
from his landlord
838
00:30:22,562 --> 00:30:23,812
is still bothering him.
839
00:30:23,896 --> 00:30:25,981
- Oh, my God,
I'm so looking forward to this.
840
00:30:26,065 --> 00:30:27,741
I have a lot going on.
841
00:30:27,900 --> 00:30:29,660
I have a lot of stuff
I'm dealing with back home.
842
00:30:29,819 --> 00:30:31,152
There was, like,
a bedbug situation
843
00:30:31,237 --> 00:30:33,488
in my whole apartment
so it's kind of a mess.
844
00:30:33,581 --> 00:30:34,823
Probably, like, a stress level
845
00:30:34,916 --> 00:30:36,408
of, like, eight--eight, nine.
846
00:30:36,501 --> 00:30:39,086
So glad I planned
this massage today.
847
00:30:39,170 --> 00:30:42,080
[relaxing music]
848
00:30:42,173 --> 00:30:49,012
♪ ♪
849
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:55,093
Oh, my God.
850
00:30:55,186 --> 00:31:02,183
♪ ♪
851
00:31:02,277 --> 00:31:03,101
[glasses clink]
Cheers.
852
00:31:03,194 --> 00:31:05,779
- Cheers.
853
00:31:06,939 --> 00:31:09,533
Oh, it's so good.
854
00:31:09,617 --> 00:31:11,526
Do you feel better?
855
00:31:11,619 --> 00:31:14,454
[exhales] You're dealing with
856
00:31:14,614 --> 00:31:15,864
a unique situation
857
00:31:15,957 --> 00:31:18,116
where your landlord
is also your--
858
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:20,544
Was, like, your mother figure
and a good friend of yours.
859
00:31:20,628 --> 00:31:21,879
- A good friend.
860
00:31:22,038 --> 00:31:23,547
You know,
she looked at me like--
861
00:31:23,706 --> 00:31:26,466
I think she looks at me
like a son, but I get--
862
00:31:26,551 --> 00:31:29,052
I get her position,
but I was just shocked by it.
863
00:31:29,211 --> 00:31:31,296
- How dare you change his lease
864
00:31:31,380 --> 00:31:33,056
in the middle of the honeymoon
865
00:31:33,215 --> 00:31:36,051
and send it to us and say,
"New lease, no cats."
866
00:31:36,144 --> 00:31:38,303
You knew he had three cats.
867
00:31:38,396 --> 00:31:40,889
You're gonna evict him
while we're on our honeymoon?
868
00:31:40,982 --> 00:31:42,566
Can I tell you?
- Sure.
869
00:31:42,725 --> 00:31:44,225
- I'm a little bit
of a mama bear.
870
00:31:44,310 --> 00:31:45,986
- Okay.
- I don't like what I've seen.
871
00:31:46,145 --> 00:31:47,312
- Okay.
- Mm.
872
00:31:47,396 --> 00:31:48,897
She knows he's with me.
873
00:31:48,981 --> 00:31:50,649
She knows we're getting
to go--know each other.
874
00:31:50,742 --> 00:31:51,909
Shame on you.
875
00:31:52,068 --> 00:31:53,327
I'm so mad.
876
00:31:53,411 --> 00:31:55,913
I think that is so classless.
877
00:31:56,072 --> 00:31:57,247
You don't ever have
to go back there again.
878
00:31:57,406 --> 00:31:58,740
- Okay.
879
00:31:58,824 --> 00:31:59,908
- You'll never have to
deal with that again.
880
00:31:59,992 --> 00:32:02,911
You can just move
your stuff into my house.
881
00:32:02,995 --> 00:32:06,164
- I had no clue who Lindsey was
a week ago today.
882
00:32:06,248 --> 00:32:08,166
[laughs]
883
00:32:08,259 --> 00:32:11,261
And in a week...
884
00:32:11,346 --> 00:32:12,763
in less than a week,
885
00:32:12,847 --> 00:32:14,673
I'm married,
886
00:32:14,757 --> 00:32:18,176
I've consummated my marriage,
887
00:32:18,260 --> 00:32:20,437
we're talking about five cats,
888
00:32:20,596 --> 00:32:23,014
a situation with
some bugs in the apartment,
889
00:32:23,099 --> 00:32:24,691
moving in together.
890
00:32:24,776 --> 00:32:28,436
I mean, I feel like
I'm in another world.
891
00:32:28,529 --> 00:32:30,864
- Take Monday off.
- Okay.
892
00:32:30,949 --> 00:32:32,273
- I already have my cats
at our new house.
893
00:32:32,358 --> 00:32:33,617
- Okay.
894
00:32:33,776 --> 00:32:35,777
- We go down to your apartment.
- Yeah.
895
00:32:35,870 --> 00:32:36,787
- Show me it for the first time,
896
00:32:36,946 --> 00:32:37,788
we get you
the [bleep] out of there.
897
00:32:37,872 --> 00:32:39,539
- Okay.
- Try to get somebody
898
00:32:39,699 --> 00:32:40,865
to take care of the bedbugs
899
00:32:40,959 --> 00:32:43,710
and just take the things
900
00:32:43,795 --> 00:32:45,954
that matter to you.
- Okay.
901
00:32:46,047 --> 00:32:46,880
- Put all that stuff
in my house.
902
00:32:46,965 --> 00:32:48,048
- Okay.
- And then we'll go
903
00:32:48,132 --> 00:32:49,883
- to our new apartment.
- Okay.
904
00:32:49,968 --> 00:32:51,126
And the cats?
- And our cats can go there,
905
00:32:51,210 --> 00:32:52,210
all five of them.
906
00:32:52,294 --> 00:32:54,054
- To the new place?
- Yes.
907
00:32:54,138 --> 00:32:55,547
- Okay.
- We can give it a trial run.
908
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:56,798
- A trial run.
909
00:32:56,882 --> 00:32:58,216
I think it's--
910
00:32:58,300 --> 00:33:00,227
It's incredible
that she's so easygoing
911
00:33:00,386 --> 00:33:02,887
on this process for me.
912
00:33:02,981 --> 00:33:05,056
It's very refreshing
that she's like that,
913
00:33:05,149 --> 00:33:07,475
but it doesn't shake the fact
that I'm going through it.
914
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:10,729
So she's my wife, but they're--
They're my responsibilities,
915
00:33:10,813 --> 00:33:14,482
like, it just--it feels weird
916
00:33:14,567 --> 00:33:16,576
to have somebody
just do something for me.
917
00:33:16,661 --> 00:33:18,987
It's--it's very
unordinary for me.
918
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:20,739
Even though we're married,
919
00:33:20,823 --> 00:33:23,992
it would take time
for that to feel okay.
920
00:33:24,076 --> 00:33:25,660
- My whole life has
been an eruption, mainly,
921
00:33:25,745 --> 00:33:27,912
so I'm ready
to help you with yours.
922
00:33:27,997 --> 00:33:30,674
[upbeat synth music]
923
00:33:34,670 --> 00:33:35,137
♪ ♪
924
00:33:37,423 --> 00:33:41,184
♪ This is the last time
you tell me to calm down ♪
925
00:33:41,269 --> 00:33:45,022
♪ The last time
you call me crazy ♪
926
00:33:45,181 --> 00:33:48,933
♪ This is the last time
we go round and round ♪
927
00:33:49,018 --> 00:33:53,354
♪ All the spinning
makes me dizzy ♪
928
00:33:53,439 --> 00:33:54,281
♪ I think
I had enough of you ♪
929
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:58,693
[phone dial tone]
930
00:33:58,778 --> 00:34:00,945
- Hey, how are you?
How's married life?
931
00:34:01,030 --> 00:34:05,459
- It's not what I expected.
932
00:34:05,543 --> 00:34:08,545
So things haven't gone
the way I would've expected.
933
00:34:08,704 --> 00:34:11,372
- Oh?
- Yeah.
934
00:34:11,457 --> 00:34:15,627
She has some
sort of concerns about us
935
00:34:15,711 --> 00:34:16,887
and she doesn't wanna--
- Okay.
936
00:34:16,971 --> 00:34:18,213
- Talk about them.
937
00:34:18,297 --> 00:34:20,548
She's walked out
of a lot of conversations
938
00:34:20,633 --> 00:34:23,301
and gets really defensive
939
00:34:23,394 --> 00:34:26,054
about any time
that I basically will express
940
00:34:26,138 --> 00:34:27,981
any version of
"you didn't give it a chance."
941
00:34:28,066 --> 00:34:30,067
- I'm just sick of it, like--
942
00:34:30,151 --> 00:34:32,486
Like, I'm stuck in
a terrible situation
943
00:34:32,645 --> 00:34:34,237
that's absolutely miserable
944
00:34:34,322 --> 00:34:37,157
and I could be portrayed
in a very poor light here.
945
00:34:37,316 --> 00:34:40,660
And I'm sick of [bleep] crying.
946
00:34:40,745 --> 00:34:42,329
And I'm sick of being positive
947
00:34:42,413 --> 00:34:44,072
and trying to have a good day.
948
00:34:44,156 --> 00:34:45,665
And I'm sick of being
the good person
949
00:34:45,750 --> 00:34:47,334
and taking the high road
950
00:34:47,493 --> 00:34:49,419
when everyone's
just [bleep] on me.
951
00:34:51,580 --> 00:34:53,665
- And I asked, basically,
the crew,
952
00:34:53,749 --> 00:34:56,593
"Hey, if you want
to ask her to talk to me,
953
00:34:56,677 --> 00:34:58,095
like, in private,
I'm happy to do that."
954
00:35:01,006 --> 00:35:03,174
- No, I do not want
to talk to him.
955
00:35:03,259 --> 00:35:04,425
I hate him.
956
00:35:04,519 --> 00:35:06,186
He's a [bleep] ass[bleep].
957
00:35:06,345 --> 00:35:10,014
He's disrespectful, and rude,
and he's doing me dirty.
958
00:35:10,099 --> 00:35:12,275
And it's [bleep] disgusting
959
00:35:12,434 --> 00:35:14,519
that a man is
treating a woman like that
960
00:35:14,603 --> 00:35:16,071
who's been
nothing but nice to him.
961
00:35:18,691 --> 00:35:19,616
- And it's essentially that
962
00:35:19,775 --> 00:35:21,693
she doesn't think
we're compatible.
963
00:35:21,786 --> 00:35:24,612
She feels robbed because
964
00:35:24,697 --> 00:35:26,447
she didn't get
the person she wanted.
965
00:35:26,541 --> 00:35:28,283
- He comes off as this good guy.
966
00:35:28,367 --> 00:35:29,626
Well, guess what?
967
00:35:29,785 --> 00:35:32,796
He's a [bleep] car salesman
who sells houses.
968
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:35,456
Why does he think he can
move into the apartment
969
00:35:35,541 --> 00:35:37,801
and I don't get to move
into the apartment?
970
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:40,387
Why can't I hang out
with my girls?
971
00:35:40,546 --> 00:35:41,930
Why don't I get to be there?
972
00:35:45,309 --> 00:35:48,720
- She--she doesn't know if
she got the person she wanted
973
00:35:48,804 --> 00:35:49,729
because she doesn't even--
974
00:35:51,974 --> 00:35:56,153
- Yeah, nobody gets the person
that they 100% want
975
00:35:56,312 --> 00:35:57,904
'cause that person
doesn't exist.
976
00:35:57,989 --> 00:35:59,230
- You know, it's funny, too,
'cause when we were
977
00:35:59,323 --> 00:36:00,815
talking to her mom,
978
00:36:00,900 --> 00:36:02,984
and Mom was telling her about
979
00:36:03,068 --> 00:36:04,986
how you are very down to earth,
980
00:36:05,070 --> 00:36:06,997
and you don't raise your voice,
981
00:36:07,156 --> 00:36:09,157
and you're able
to have conversations.
982
00:36:09,241 --> 00:36:12,252
And her mom was saying that
that's exactly what she needs
983
00:36:12,411 --> 00:36:14,087
because she flies
off the handle,
984
00:36:14,172 --> 00:36:15,839
and she cries all the time,
985
00:36:15,923 --> 00:36:18,917
and she needs someone that's
gonna bring her down to earth.
986
00:36:19,001 --> 00:36:24,097
- That's the same message
I got from Mom and Dad,
987
00:36:24,256 --> 00:36:25,590
and from her bridesmaids,
988
00:36:25,674 --> 00:36:27,851
like, "We think
you're perfect for her.
989
00:36:27,935 --> 00:36:29,352
She needs a guy like you."
990
00:36:29,437 --> 00:36:31,771
- The only time
I'm happy here is if--
991
00:36:31,931 --> 00:36:35,767
If I'm with one of the girls,
or I'm sitting by myself.
992
00:36:35,851 --> 00:36:38,853
I'm not being portrayed
in a good light
993
00:36:38,938 --> 00:36:40,864
and my mom is very upset.
994
00:36:41,023 --> 00:36:44,108
She's mad because she thinks
I'm not being nice to Chris.
995
00:36:44,193 --> 00:36:45,860
And I am being nice to him.
996
00:36:45,945 --> 00:36:47,362
I'm a good person
997
00:36:47,455 --> 00:36:49,280
and if I don't come off
that way on this show,
998
00:36:49,365 --> 00:36:52,116
I'm gonna be [bleep] pissed.
999
00:36:52,210 --> 00:36:54,619
- At the end of the day,
it is a show about marriage.
1000
00:36:54,703 --> 00:36:55,795
The show's called
"Married at First Sight,"
1001
00:36:55,955 --> 00:36:57,288
not "Single at First Sight."
1002
00:36:57,381 --> 00:36:58,456
'Cause if you're not a couple,
you're not a couple,
1003
00:36:58,540 --> 00:36:59,466
you're done.
1004
00:36:59,550 --> 00:37:01,384
- Like, I feel like
1005
00:37:01,543 --> 00:37:05,138
if she's already
dug her feet in this far
1006
00:37:05,223 --> 00:37:09,050
and is not willing
to meet you halfway
1007
00:37:09,134 --> 00:37:12,646
or even have a conversation
for crying out loud,
1008
00:37:12,730 --> 00:37:16,724
I think you should
just cut your loss.
1009
00:37:16,809 --> 00:37:20,144
- Yeah, and I think I'm just
about at that point so...
1010
00:37:20,238 --> 00:37:22,322
- ♪ Was a long hard day ♪
1011
00:37:22,406 --> 00:37:23,982
- I don't care
about other people,
1012
00:37:24,066 --> 00:37:26,734
it's the way I feel.
1013
00:37:26,819 --> 00:37:28,495
I'm not being dramatic.
1014
00:37:28,579 --> 00:37:30,405
What the [bleep] is happening?
1015
00:37:30,489 --> 00:37:32,657
I feel like I am handling
this better
1016
00:37:32,741 --> 00:37:34,584
than probably anyone
in this group would.
1017
00:37:50,351 --> 00:37:53,103
- ♪ But I can't hide ♪
1018
00:37:53,187 --> 00:37:55,179
♪ Whoa ♪
1019
00:37:55,273 --> 00:37:56,764
♪ ♪
1020
00:37:56,849 --> 00:37:59,267
♪ And I won't hide ♪
1021
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:02,103
♪ Whoa ♪
1022
00:38:02,187 --> 00:38:04,781
♪ ♪
1023
00:38:04,865 --> 00:38:06,700
♪ My evil ways ♪
1024
00:38:12,281 --> 00:38:13,873
♪ ♪
1025
00:38:14,033 --> 00:38:16,376
- ♪ I know you like ♪
1026
00:38:16,535 --> 00:38:18,202
♪ What you see ♪
1027
00:38:18,287 --> 00:38:20,288
- Good morning, everyone.
- Good morning.
1028
00:38:20,372 --> 00:38:22,457
- We are just waking up
1029
00:38:22,541 --> 00:38:24,042
and we're getting ready
for our day
1030
00:38:24,135 --> 00:38:28,138
and we can just enjoy
some fun in the sun.
1031
00:38:28,297 --> 00:38:29,556
But yeah,
I'm looking forward to it.
1032
00:38:29,715 --> 00:38:30,640
- You look like you're ready
1033
00:38:30,799 --> 00:38:31,891
to go by the water.
- [chuckles]
1034
00:38:32,051 --> 00:38:33,893
- Rise and shine.
1035
00:38:33,978 --> 00:38:35,553
- Rise and shine, here we go.
1036
00:38:35,646 --> 00:38:37,305
- We're about to go
meet our buddy, Chris,
1037
00:38:37,389 --> 00:38:39,724
to have a little--
Actually, I hope there's food.
1038
00:38:39,817 --> 00:38:41,401
- I hope there's food.
There's usually always food.
1039
00:38:41,485 --> 00:38:45,488
- Well,
we gotta keep you healthy.
1040
00:38:45,573 --> 00:38:48,232
- We gotta keep me safe,
I gotta live to be 100.
1041
00:38:48,326 --> 00:38:49,909
- Just be happy that I'm only
talking about the things
1042
00:38:49,994 --> 00:38:51,995
you put in your body,
not on your body.
1043
00:38:52,079 --> 00:38:53,988
I haven't even begun
to talk about clean beauty
1044
00:38:54,073 --> 00:38:55,573
and household products.
1045
00:38:55,657 --> 00:38:57,083
- Oh, my God.
- [chuckles]
1046
00:38:57,168 --> 00:38:59,836
- I can't wait for that chapter
to begin next week.
1047
00:38:59,995 --> 00:39:00,837
Oh!
1048
00:39:02,414 --> 00:39:04,007
- ♪ I click my fingers ♪
1049
00:39:04,091 --> 00:39:05,833
♪ You close your eyes ♪
1050
00:39:05,918 --> 00:39:09,512
♪ We find
a happier place inside ♪
1051
00:39:09,597 --> 00:39:11,422
♪ And all the seasons ♪
1052
00:39:11,507 --> 00:39:13,341
♪ They pass you by ♪
1053
00:39:13,434 --> 00:39:14,684
♪ 'Cause you're
not listening ♪
1054
00:39:14,769 --> 00:39:17,011
♪ Not listening right ♪
1055
00:39:17,104 --> 00:39:18,438
- Oh, hello.
- Oh, hello.
1056
00:39:18,522 --> 00:39:19,522
- How are you?
- How are you?
1057
00:39:19,607 --> 00:39:21,524
- Doing well.
- Good to see you.
1058
00:39:21,609 --> 00:39:23,267
- Hi!
- Oh, hey girl.
1059
00:39:23,352 --> 00:39:24,936
- Oh, hey!
- You look so relaxed.
1060
00:39:25,029 --> 00:39:26,604
- I know, you look cute.
- I brought you water.
1061
00:39:26,688 --> 00:39:27,605
- I thought I heard your voices.
1062
00:39:27,689 --> 00:39:29,107
- Hey, girl, hey.
- Hi, how are ya?
1063
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:30,784
Did you just "hey, girl" me?
- Yeah, I did.
1064
00:39:30,868 --> 00:39:32,535
- Thank you.
- I'll sit on this side.
1065
00:39:32,694 --> 00:39:34,612
- This one?
- Yeah, I'll sit right here.
1066
00:39:34,705 --> 00:39:37,540
- Where am I sitting?
I wanna sit right here.
1067
00:39:37,699 --> 00:39:39,784
How are you, my friend?
- Yeah, how are you?
1068
00:39:39,868 --> 00:39:40,785
- I'm doing.
- Yeah?
1069
00:39:40,869 --> 00:39:42,295
- Yeah?
- I'm doing.
1070
00:39:42,380 --> 00:39:43,963
- You look like you're in
a significantly better place
1071
00:39:44,048 --> 00:39:45,882
today than you were
the first day I met you.
1072
00:39:45,966 --> 00:39:47,384
- The--the first couple of days.
1073
00:39:47,468 --> 00:39:49,043
- Yeah.
- Uh...
1074
00:39:49,128 --> 00:39:52,222
Yeah, it's, um,
1075
00:39:52,306 --> 00:39:54,182
it's not where I thought I'd be.
1076
00:39:55,551 --> 00:39:56,551
- Like, what have--
What have you been thinking
1077
00:39:56,635 --> 00:39:58,895
these past couple of days
being here?
1078
00:39:58,979 --> 00:40:01,639
- Yeah, I mean,
I think it's definitely hard.
1079
00:40:01,732 --> 00:40:03,558
You know, like, I'm so happy
for everyone,
1080
00:40:03,651 --> 00:40:04,984
like, that everyone's happy.
1081
00:40:05,069 --> 00:40:06,811
But, like, it's definitely hard
1082
00:40:06,895 --> 00:40:08,655
to, like, be around it
1083
00:40:08,739 --> 00:40:12,158
and like, know that,
like, I don't have that.
1084
00:40:14,245 --> 00:40:15,578
- What happened?
1085
00:40:15,737 --> 00:40:17,580
- Wedding is great.
At least I think it's great.
1086
00:40:17,665 --> 00:40:19,240
- Okay, no arguments?
1087
00:40:19,324 --> 00:40:22,243
- No, not during the wedding,
no disagreements.
1088
00:40:22,327 --> 00:40:23,411
But then late that night,
1089
00:40:23,495 --> 00:40:26,747
she eventually comes out
and says, um,
1090
00:40:26,832 --> 00:40:28,499
"I have some concerns."
1091
00:40:28,584 --> 00:40:31,928
And I said,
"Well, like, what happened?
1092
00:40:32,012 --> 00:40:33,504
Can I clarify anything?"
1093
00:40:33,589 --> 00:40:34,755
And she said,
"Well, it's been a long day,
1094
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:35,840
we're both really tired."
1095
00:40:35,924 --> 00:40:37,267
So the next morning,
1096
00:40:37,426 --> 00:40:38,852
we sit down
and I'm trying to figure out,
1097
00:40:39,011 --> 00:40:42,605
do I have to fix something,
change something, adjust?
1098
00:40:42,764 --> 00:40:45,525
But she's basically like,
"Nope, we're not--
1099
00:40:45,609 --> 00:40:47,435
"I just don't think
we're compatible,
1100
00:40:47,519 --> 00:40:49,020
there are too many
values differences."
1101
00:40:49,113 --> 00:40:51,189
- The next morning?
- Literally the next morning.
1102
00:40:51,282 --> 00:40:54,942
We've literally never had more
than a super--
1103
00:40:55,035 --> 00:40:57,203
Like, "What's your last name?"
- Right.
1104
00:40:57,288 --> 00:40:58,538
- "What do you do for work?"
- Yeah.
1105
00:40:58,622 --> 00:40:59,947
- These are
the conversations you--
1106
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:01,449
Remember your
first conversation?
1107
00:41:01,533 --> 00:41:04,127
- Uh-huh.
- Yeah, I'm just so confused.
1108
00:41:04,286 --> 00:41:07,046
- Obviously,
neither Chris or I, like,
1109
00:41:07,131 --> 00:41:09,466
thought this was
gonna be our situation.
1110
00:41:09,550 --> 00:41:11,718
I think what's tough
1111
00:41:11,877 --> 00:41:15,379
is I'm not blaming him,
1112
00:41:15,473 --> 00:41:20,310
but I feel like he's, like,
blaming me kind of, and
1113
00:41:20,469 --> 00:41:22,553
that's, like,
so upsetting to me.
1114
00:41:22,646 --> 00:41:24,230
- It sounds like she didn't
even give you a chance.
1115
00:41:24,315 --> 00:41:25,815
Like, she had this vision
in her head
1116
00:41:25,974 --> 00:41:27,391
and when she saw you
at the end of the aisle,
1117
00:41:27,476 --> 00:41:29,986
you didn't fit that vision,
physically,
1118
00:41:30,070 --> 00:41:31,646
and she instantly wrote you off.
1119
00:41:31,739 --> 00:41:33,823
- And she's never
said anything physical
1120
00:41:33,908 --> 00:41:35,650
either direction so I've
never heard her say like--
1121
00:41:35,734 --> 00:41:36,576
- 'Cause you're
a good looking dude.
1122
00:41:36,660 --> 00:41:37,827
- Yeah!
- I appreciate that.
1123
00:41:37,986 --> 00:41:38,995
- You're a stud.
- She's never been like,
1124
00:41:39,079 --> 00:41:40,163
"No, no, no, you're attractive--
1125
00:41:40,322 --> 00:41:42,081
- Simmer down.
- "But other stuff."
1126
00:41:42,166 --> 00:41:43,741
But she's also never been like,
1127
00:41:43,825 --> 00:41:45,076
"Oh, no, no, no, you're a good
guy, I'm just not attract--"
1128
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:46,160
She's never said either,
1129
00:41:46,253 --> 00:41:48,246
so that I honestly don't know.
1130
00:41:48,339 --> 00:41:49,672
If it's that,
1131
00:41:49,757 --> 00:41:53,084
maybe she's trying
to just not say that, but...
1132
00:41:53,168 --> 00:41:54,585
- You know, I came into this
1133
00:41:54,670 --> 00:41:55,920
and put in all the same efforts
1134
00:41:56,013 --> 00:41:59,173
as everyone else, right?
1135
00:41:59,258 --> 00:42:00,508
- So you feel like
you've done everything
1136
00:42:00,592 --> 00:42:02,352
to try to make it work?
1137
00:42:02,511 --> 00:42:04,521
- Well, I mean,
here's the thing.
1138
00:42:04,605 --> 00:42:07,431
Did I--did I come into this
to find a husband?
1139
00:42:07,516 --> 00:42:09,025
100%.
1140
00:42:09,109 --> 00:42:10,351
That wedding night,
1141
00:42:10,435 --> 00:42:12,353
I started talking
to friends of his, right?
1142
00:42:12,437 --> 00:42:14,355
And family of his,
they were telling me, right?
1143
00:42:14,448 --> 00:42:16,607
Like,
all these things about him.
1144
00:42:16,700 --> 00:42:20,027
And unfortunately,
a lot of those things were--
1145
00:42:20,112 --> 00:42:23,039
Were things that, like,
didn't sit well with me.
1146
00:42:25,876 --> 00:42:27,285
- Even though, yes,
you heard it from
1147
00:42:27,369 --> 00:42:28,786
his family and stuff,
1148
00:42:28,879 --> 00:42:30,463
sometimes you have to
get to know someone--
1149
00:42:30,622 --> 00:42:32,966
- Mm-hmm.
- You know, before.
1150
00:42:33,050 --> 00:42:36,294
So I think probably
a slip up on your end
1151
00:42:36,378 --> 00:42:39,630
was taking everything that
they were saying for face value
1152
00:42:39,715 --> 00:42:41,224
and already putting that
1153
00:42:41,383 --> 00:42:43,226
and making a decision
in your mind,
1154
00:42:43,385 --> 00:42:45,311
instead of just taking
what they were saying
1155
00:42:45,470 --> 00:42:47,313
and put it in your pocket.
1156
00:42:47,398 --> 00:42:49,140
And then when he did do that,
be like,
1157
00:42:49,224 --> 00:42:50,975
"Oh, his family did
tell me about this."
1158
00:42:51,059 --> 00:42:53,477
- Yes, I understand
where you're coming from
1159
00:42:53,562 --> 00:42:56,823
and no matter how I feel
about what happened,
1160
00:42:56,907 --> 00:42:59,742
I, you know,
am doing my best to be
1161
00:42:59,827 --> 00:43:02,078
respectful and honest.
1162
00:43:02,237 --> 00:43:04,488
And I do feel like
I'm doing that.
1163
00:43:04,582 --> 00:43:06,991
♪ ♪
1164
00:43:07,084 --> 00:43:09,744
- It's a shame because
1165
00:43:09,828 --> 00:43:12,830
you're probably
exactly what she needs.
1166
00:43:12,914 --> 00:43:13,998
- You're saying--
- Exactly
1167
00:43:14,082 --> 00:43:15,425
what she's gonna want.
1168
00:43:15,509 --> 00:43:17,585
And the shame is she can't
get out of her own way
1169
00:43:17,669 --> 00:43:19,920
and in ten years,
she's gonna look back and go,
1170
00:43:20,014 --> 00:43:22,515
"[bleep] damn,
he was a great guy.
1171
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:24,425
"He was patient,
he would love me
1172
00:43:24,518 --> 00:43:26,010
"the way I needed to be loved.
1173
00:43:26,094 --> 00:43:27,178
"He would've done anything,
1174
00:43:27,262 --> 00:43:28,354
"and I threw him away--
- Yeah.
1175
00:43:28,439 --> 00:43:30,681
- Before I even
gave him a chance."
1176
00:43:30,774 --> 00:43:34,185
- I have to give you, like,
lots and lots of credit.
1177
00:43:34,269 --> 00:43:35,862
Like, never in my life...
1178
00:43:36,021 --> 00:43:37,188
- [bleep]ing stand up man.
1179
00:43:37,272 --> 00:43:40,283
- Could I just be,
like, calm about this.
1180
00:43:40,442 --> 00:43:41,868
I mean, I guess, like,
the wedding,
1181
00:43:41,952 --> 00:43:43,694
I would give her the--
I'd be confused and be like,
1182
00:43:43,779 --> 00:43:45,038
"This is--this is weird."
1183
00:43:45,122 --> 00:43:47,373
Every day
I'd be a little more, like,
1184
00:43:47,532 --> 00:43:48,541
"I can only have so much."
1185
00:43:48,626 --> 00:43:49,709
And at some point, I'd be like,
1186
00:43:49,868 --> 00:43:51,369
"You don't make any sense."
1187
00:43:51,462 --> 00:43:53,287
Chris is just being
a bigger man in this
1188
00:43:53,380 --> 00:43:55,465
than I think
a lot of us could be.
1189
00:43:55,624 --> 00:43:57,375
I think a lot of us
could be a bigger person,
1190
00:43:57,459 --> 00:43:59,636
but at some point,
we would have to be like,
1191
00:43:59,720 --> 00:44:00,720
"What are you doing?"
1192
00:44:00,804 --> 00:44:01,971
It doesn't make sense to me.
1193
00:44:02,130 --> 00:44:03,381
- Like, it's like you pick up a
book
1194
00:44:03,465 --> 00:44:04,882
and you're like,
"Mm, I don't like the cover,
1195
00:44:04,966 --> 00:44:06,142
I'm not gonna read it."
- Yeah.
1196
00:44:06,301 --> 00:44:07,968
- It's literally
a book by its cover.
1197
00:44:08,053 --> 00:44:09,470
- When you signed up,
what were you thinking?
1198
00:44:09,554 --> 00:44:11,064
I'm curious.
1199
00:44:11,148 --> 00:44:13,974
Did you think it was gonna be
a magical dream guy?
1200
00:44:14,059 --> 00:44:15,059
It wasn't.
1201
00:44:15,143 --> 00:44:17,153
It was gonna be a lot of things
1202
00:44:17,237 --> 00:44:18,896
that make sense for a marriage.
1203
00:44:18,989 --> 00:44:20,740
But I just feel bad that
1204
00:44:20,824 --> 00:44:23,150
she's really
not giving it a chance.
1205
00:44:23,235 --> 00:44:24,568
- Do you think maybe
one of the reasons
1206
00:44:24,653 --> 00:44:25,662
he might be blaming you,
1207
00:44:25,746 --> 00:44:27,154
if that's how you feel--
- Yeah.
1208
00:44:27,247 --> 00:44:29,407
- Because he's unclear as to
1209
00:44:29,500 --> 00:44:33,753
why you probably threw in
the towel so quickly?
1210
00:44:33,837 --> 00:44:36,247
- Yeah, I mean, we've had
many conversations
1211
00:44:36,331 --> 00:44:39,092
where I've explained to him
1212
00:44:39,176 --> 00:44:42,002
why I don't feel like
we're a match.
1213
00:44:42,096 --> 00:44:44,764
- Okay, my personal opinion,
1214
00:44:44,848 --> 00:44:46,090
and you can correct me
if I'm wrong.
1215
00:44:46,183 --> 00:44:47,842
I think you're not physically
attracted to him
1216
00:44:47,926 --> 00:44:49,185
and I don't think
there's anything wrong
1217
00:44:49,269 --> 00:44:50,344
with that.
- Yeah.
1218
00:44:50,437 --> 00:44:52,179
- Some people
might say it's vain.
1219
00:44:52,272 --> 00:44:55,024
I don't--nobody's you, you know?
1220
00:44:55,109 --> 00:44:59,103
- When I saw him, did I feel,
like, that, like, physically
1221
00:44:59,196 --> 00:45:01,605
wasn't what I would
normally be attracted to?
1222
00:45:01,690 --> 00:45:02,699
Yes.
1223
00:45:02,783 --> 00:45:05,702
Did I feel like what I asked for
1224
00:45:05,861 --> 00:45:08,112
in the experts was given to me?
No.
1225
00:45:08,205 --> 00:45:10,948
Like, I would've rather
them told me, like,
1226
00:45:11,032 --> 00:45:13,367
"We don't think
we have a match for you,"
1227
00:45:13,452 --> 00:45:15,786
than match me with somebody
that doesn't align,
1228
00:45:15,879 --> 00:45:17,964
like, with me.
1229
00:45:18,123 --> 00:45:19,215
- Those are your reasons.
1230
00:45:19,374 --> 00:45:21,375
I think you just need
to tell him
1231
00:45:21,460 --> 00:45:24,220
straightforward and bluntly,
this is what it is,
1232
00:45:24,304 --> 00:45:27,724
because it could be that maybe
you think that you told him,
1233
00:45:27,808 --> 00:45:30,226
and maybe 'cause you don't want
to hurt his feelings,
1234
00:45:30,310 --> 00:45:31,811
you probably
beat around the bush
1235
00:45:31,895 --> 00:45:34,897
and so that's why he's like,
"She didn't tell me."
1236
00:45:36,224 --> 00:45:39,152
- In my honest opinion, I do
think that
1237
00:45:39,311 --> 00:45:43,239
Alyssa was done from day one
so it doesn't seem like
1238
00:45:43,398 --> 00:45:45,491
there really was a chance
that she gave him.
1239
00:45:45,576 --> 00:45:47,067
My heart definitely
feels for Chris
1240
00:45:47,152 --> 00:45:50,738
because I know
he really wants this.
1241
00:45:50,822 --> 00:45:53,166
- This is why I'm frustrated
more than anything.
1242
00:45:53,250 --> 00:45:54,917
I think that we are compatible.
1243
00:45:55,002 --> 00:45:56,994
I wanted somebody driven
1244
00:45:57,087 --> 00:45:58,838
because the qualities that
come with that in a person,
1245
00:45:58,997 --> 00:46:01,758
the drive, the ambition,
I find incredibly attractive.
1246
00:46:05,420 --> 00:46:06,512
- We're going home tomorrow.
1247
00:46:06,597 --> 00:46:08,923
What is gonna happen tomorrow
1248
00:46:09,007 --> 00:46:12,185
in your marriage?
1249
00:46:12,269 --> 00:46:14,353
- I--
1250
00:46:14,438 --> 00:46:16,096
I can only control what I do,
1251
00:46:16,181 --> 00:46:18,349
I can try as hard as I can,
I can give my all,
1252
00:46:18,433 --> 00:46:19,683
I know what I have to give,
1253
00:46:19,768 --> 00:46:20,684
I know what my weaknesses are,
1254
00:46:20,769 --> 00:46:23,362
I can only control what I do.
1255
00:46:23,522 --> 00:46:25,189
- At some point like, dude,
like, you've gotta, like,
1256
00:46:25,273 --> 00:46:26,616
put it in the past.
1257
00:46:26,775 --> 00:46:28,951
I feel bad for him,
but he needs to let go.
1258
00:46:36,701 --> 00:46:39,203
E rush ♪
1259
00:46:39,287 --> 00:46:44,291
♪ The way it's meant to be ♪
1260
00:46:44,376 --> 00:46:47,887
- Doing a little exploring
here in old San Juan.
1261
00:46:48,046 --> 00:46:50,473
- ♪ I see you in my dreams ♪
1262
00:47:09,401 --> 00:47:11,402
- ♪ Feel the rush ♪
1263
00:47:11,486 --> 00:47:13,404
♪ The way it's meant to be ♪
1264
00:47:13,488 --> 00:47:14,831
Pa, pa, pa!
1265
00:47:14,915 --> 00:47:15,832
Pow, pow, pow!
1266
00:47:15,916 --> 00:47:17,074
Both: Too, too, too!
1267
00:47:17,167 --> 00:47:19,410
[giggling]
1268
00:47:19,494 --> 00:47:23,330
- ♪ I see you in my dreams ♪
1269
00:47:23,415 --> 00:47:28,002
♪ ♪
1270
00:47:28,086 --> 00:47:30,921
[upbeat music]
1271
00:47:31,014 --> 00:47:36,978
♪ ♪
1272
00:47:38,939 --> 00:47:40,347
- Look what we see!
1273
00:47:40,432 --> 00:47:42,108
- I got her--
I got her surrounded by water.
1274
00:47:42,192 --> 00:47:43,526
Look at this.
- Look at this water.
1275
00:47:43,685 --> 00:47:46,028
- Surrounded by water here.
- Beautiful.
1276
00:47:47,606 --> 00:47:49,365
- It's so pretty.
1277
00:47:50,609 --> 00:47:53,444
[upbeat pop music]
1278
00:47:53,528 --> 00:47:55,696
♪ ♪
1279
00:47:55,780 --> 00:47:57,206
- Hmm, somebody carved
their initials in there.
1280
00:47:57,291 --> 00:47:59,125
- That's nice.
1281
00:47:59,209 --> 00:48:01,335
Would it be corny
to do the same thing?
1282
00:48:02,704 --> 00:48:05,205
- I don't know if it will work.
1283
00:48:05,290 --> 00:48:06,457
- At the beginning
of the honeymoon,
1284
00:48:06,541 --> 00:48:08,467
we weren't seeing eye to eye.
1285
00:48:08,627 --> 00:48:10,794
It wasn't a lot of fun.
There wasn't a lot of laughter.
1286
00:48:10,879 --> 00:48:13,213
We've had more
difficult conversations
1287
00:48:13,298 --> 00:48:15,716
and awkward conversations
than light-hearted fun.
1288
00:48:15,809 --> 00:48:17,810
So today,
start of a new beginning,
1289
00:48:17,895 --> 00:48:19,720
I'm hoping that
this will, you know,
1290
00:48:19,804 --> 00:48:21,981
clear the air a little bit
and we can just focus on
1291
00:48:22,140 --> 00:48:24,233
having fun together.
1292
00:48:25,736 --> 00:48:27,895
So how are you feeling
about being near the water?
1293
00:48:27,979 --> 00:48:29,155
- [chuckles]
1294
00:48:29,314 --> 00:48:30,406
The water is pretty.
1295
00:48:30,490 --> 00:48:33,659
I don't mind
being near the water.
1296
00:48:33,744 --> 00:48:37,738
- Yeah.
- It's just going in.
1297
00:48:37,822 --> 00:48:39,657
My mood is definitely off
1298
00:48:39,750 --> 00:48:41,241
and it's just because
1299
00:48:41,335 --> 00:48:42,576
communication is definitely
1300
00:48:42,669 --> 00:48:44,828
something we need to work on.
1301
00:48:44,913 --> 00:48:47,164
And I feel in this moment
that he's being very aggressive
1302
00:48:47,248 --> 00:48:50,343
with his words.
I don't appreciate his tone.
1303
00:48:50,427 --> 00:48:53,754
It's disrespectful,
it's rude, it's loud.
1304
00:48:53,838 --> 00:48:58,017
I don't tolerate disrespect.
At all.
1305
00:48:58,101 --> 00:48:59,426
Why would I want to be
with somebody
1306
00:48:59,519 --> 00:49:01,520
that doesn't know how to have
1307
00:49:01,605 --> 00:49:03,773
a civil conversation?
1308
00:49:03,857 --> 00:49:06,275
But you can't swim, so--
1309
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:07,935
- I probably swim
better than you.
1310
00:49:08,019 --> 00:49:10,613
- But I'm trying not to
let it affect these memories
1311
00:49:10,772 --> 00:49:13,023
that we're making
and affect our honeymoon.
1312
00:49:13,108 --> 00:49:14,858
I just wanna feel comfortable
around him
1313
00:49:14,943 --> 00:49:16,118
and I know that
the more I get to know him,
1314
00:49:16,203 --> 00:49:17,444
the rest will follow.
1315
00:49:17,529 --> 00:49:18,529
- [clears throat]
1316
00:49:18,613 --> 00:49:20,206
I was on the school bus
1317
00:49:20,365 --> 00:49:21,949
and I was sitting down,
1318
00:49:22,033 --> 00:49:24,877
and some big bully,
like fourth or fifth grader.
1319
00:49:24,962 --> 00:49:27,121
He sees me, he's like,
"You're in my seat."
1320
00:49:27,214 --> 00:49:29,131
I'm like, "Okay," so I got up.
1321
00:49:29,290 --> 00:49:31,458
I'm six years old,
I'm probably like,
1322
00:49:31,551 --> 00:49:33,377
three foot nine, I don't know.
1323
00:49:33,461 --> 00:49:36,046
And I get up out of the seat.
1324
00:49:36,139 --> 00:49:37,881
I sit in another seat.
1325
00:49:37,966 --> 00:49:39,642
He goes, "That's my seat too."
1326
00:49:39,726 --> 00:49:41,385
I'm just like--
I'm like, "Oh, okay."
1327
00:49:41,478 --> 00:49:42,812
- Oh, my God...
1328
00:49:42,896 --> 00:49:44,388
- Then he just started
pummeling...
1329
00:49:44,472 --> 00:49:46,065
- Beating on you,
a sixth grader?
1330
00:49:46,149 --> 00:49:48,308
- Yeah, it was sad, man.
- You okay?
1331
00:49:48,402 --> 00:49:51,311
- I mean, I still
got some trauma from it.
1332
00:49:51,405 --> 00:49:53,239
Can I have a hug or something?
1333
00:49:53,398 --> 00:49:55,491
- It's okay.
- Um...
1334
00:50:01,665 --> 00:50:04,742
Trying to see if I can
carve our name into here.
1335
00:50:04,826 --> 00:50:06,419
It's not gonna work, is it?
- You're gonna be that guy?
1336
00:50:06,578 --> 00:50:09,755
- I am gonna be that guy,
I'm gonna be that corny dude.
1337
00:50:09,914 --> 00:50:12,666
That--that kinda like a J?
1338
00:50:12,751 --> 00:50:15,169
- Look like that's
the best it's gonna get.
1339
00:50:15,253 --> 00:50:16,262
There you go, that's better.
1340
00:50:16,346 --> 00:50:18,005
- Ah, [bleep].
1341
00:50:18,089 --> 00:50:20,090
- [chuckles]
1342
00:50:20,183 --> 00:50:22,018
It's the thought that counts.
- Well, the J's there.
1343
00:50:22,102 --> 00:50:23,436
- It's the thought that counts.
- The thought that counts.
1344
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:25,771
- I appreciate it.
1345
00:50:25,856 --> 00:50:27,598
All right.
- All right, I give up.
1346
00:50:27,682 --> 00:50:30,192
- Yeah, we're just
gonna let it go.
1347
00:50:30,277 --> 00:50:32,603
Just ruined a pretty rock.
1348
00:50:32,696 --> 00:50:34,605
[laughing]
1349
00:50:34,689 --> 00:50:36,106
- You want to get in the water?
1350
00:50:36,191 --> 00:50:38,701
♪ ♪
1351
00:50:38,785 --> 00:50:40,360
- I'll--I'll try it out.
1352
00:50:40,445 --> 00:50:41,779
- Getting out
of our comfort zone today.
1353
00:50:41,863 --> 00:50:43,781
- Don't splash me...
- I won't, I promise.
1354
00:50:43,865 --> 00:50:45,699
- Push me, and we're all good.
1355
00:50:45,784 --> 00:50:49,295
- ♪ It's a good time
to enjoy yourself ♪
1356
00:50:49,379 --> 00:50:51,538
- Ah! It's cold!
1357
00:50:51,623 --> 00:50:54,374
♪ ♪
1358
00:50:54,468 --> 00:50:55,709
- ♪ Get up and get at it ♪
1359
00:50:55,794 --> 00:50:57,961
- I'm surprised
Jasmina's actually
1360
00:50:58,046 --> 00:50:59,296
willing to get into the water.
1361
00:50:59,380 --> 00:51:00,723
It's making me feel good,
1362
00:51:00,807 --> 00:51:02,466
it's making me
feel like she's ready to do
1363
00:51:02,550 --> 00:51:03,893
something different,
she's ready to be
1364
00:51:04,052 --> 00:51:06,645
uncomfortable,
and she's having fun.
1365
00:51:06,805 --> 00:51:07,980
This is the first time
1366
00:51:08,065 --> 00:51:09,732
I'm seeing Jasmina smile
1367
00:51:09,816 --> 00:51:11,650
since our wedding day.
1368
00:51:11,735 --> 00:51:13,060
- Wow, lay down.
- You wanna sit down?
1369
00:51:13,144 --> 00:51:15,821
- No, not at all--lay down.
1370
00:51:15,980 --> 00:51:17,648
We just had to have fun.
1371
00:51:17,732 --> 00:51:20,150
You know, let loose
and be open because
1372
00:51:20,235 --> 00:51:22,486
that's the whole point
of all of this.
1373
00:51:22,570 --> 00:51:24,488
But I still have it
in the back of my mind
1374
00:51:24,572 --> 00:51:27,908
that I'm not sure
if I will get there,
1375
00:51:27,992 --> 00:51:30,494
but I'm still open to it
and I'm definitely trying.
1376
00:51:30,578 --> 00:51:32,746
♪ ♪
1377
00:51:32,831 --> 00:51:36,842
- ♪ It's a good day
to enjoy yourself ♪
1378
00:51:36,927 --> 00:51:38,677
- I know I always complain.
I'm always gonna like it,
1379
00:51:38,762 --> 00:51:42,765
but I have to complain
about it first to be dramatic.
1380
00:51:42,849 --> 00:51:44,266
But in the end,
it's all worth it.
1381
00:51:47,011 --> 00:51:49,105
- You're starving? All right,
let's go get something to eat.
1382
00:51:54,686 --> 00:51:57,029
Overflowing ♪
1383
00:51:57,188 --> 00:52:00,032
♪ We're just getting going ♪
1384
00:52:00,117 --> 00:52:02,535
- It's the last day
of our honeymoon.
1385
00:52:02,619 --> 00:52:04,370
Mark and I are gonna have
dinner with all the couples
1386
00:52:04,529 --> 00:52:07,781
and I'm feeling cautious.
1387
00:52:07,866 --> 00:52:10,701
I feel like I'm kinda being put
in an unpredictable environment
1388
00:52:10,794 --> 00:52:13,620
with a lot of personalities
during a high stress time.
1389
00:52:13,705 --> 00:52:15,464
Who knows what to expect
with these people?
1390
00:52:17,300 --> 00:52:18,375
- Oh, there he is!
There's a team!
1391
00:52:18,468 --> 00:52:20,553
- Hey, look at you guys.
1392
00:52:20,637 --> 00:52:24,306
- ♪ Live it up,
raise your cup ♪
1393
00:52:24,391 --> 00:52:27,134
♪ We'll keep dancin'
till the sun is coming up ♪
1394
00:52:27,218 --> 00:52:28,561
- Nice of you to roll up.
1395
00:52:28,645 --> 00:52:30,813
- ♪ Live it up,
can't get enough ♪
1396
00:52:30,972 --> 00:52:32,731
- You need to get
style tips from him.
1397
00:52:32,891 --> 00:52:34,567
- Everyone looks so nice today.
- What'd you get for a drink?
1398
00:52:34,651 --> 00:52:36,318
What'd you get for a drink?
- Um, sauvignon blanc.
1399
00:52:36,403 --> 00:52:39,146
- ♪ Live it up,
wanna go crazy ♪
1400
00:52:39,230 --> 00:52:40,564
- She took off the heels.
That was smart.
1401
00:52:40,657 --> 00:52:43,659
- I know, I'm like,
this isn't gonna work for me.
1402
00:52:43,743 --> 00:52:45,244
- Are we the last?
- I think so, yeah.
1403
00:52:45,328 --> 00:52:46,820
- Look at those two beauties.
- Hi, guys.
1404
00:52:46,913 --> 00:52:48,405
- They look like Easter delight.
1405
00:52:48,498 --> 00:52:49,582
- They really do.
1406
00:52:49,666 --> 00:52:51,074
- ♪ Live it up ♪
1407
00:52:51,159 --> 00:52:54,244
- I'm excited
to touch base with everyone,
1408
00:52:54,337 --> 00:52:56,505
see how everyone's doing
and progressing as a couple.
1409
00:52:56,590 --> 00:52:57,915
- You guys want
to get a bite to eat?
1410
00:52:58,008 --> 00:52:59,675
- Ooh, yes, I'm starving.
- All right, let's go.
1411
00:52:59,759 --> 00:53:01,844
- I'm just hoping for the best
and hoping we'll have fun,
1412
00:53:01,928 --> 00:53:03,429
but there's been tension
1413
00:53:03,513 --> 00:53:04,680
since the beginning
of this honeymoon.
1414
00:53:04,764 --> 00:53:06,924
But hopefully,
1415
00:53:07,008 --> 00:53:09,518
I mean, I think that's all been
squashed at this point.
1416
00:53:09,677 --> 00:53:12,938
- Look at this
nice family style table.
1417
00:53:13,023 --> 00:53:15,098
What a nice view.
1418
00:53:15,192 --> 00:53:16,609
- Are you guys excited
to get back to the real world?
1419
00:53:16,693 --> 00:53:18,435
- I am. I miss my job.
1420
00:53:18,519 --> 00:53:20,446
I miss, just, my every day,
like, routine.
1421
00:53:20,605 --> 00:53:21,780
- Girl, what do you do?
1422
00:53:21,865 --> 00:53:23,199
I was trying to think about
that last night.
1423
00:53:23,283 --> 00:53:25,275
- Teach toddlers.
- Wow.
1424
00:53:25,368 --> 00:53:27,361
- That's right.
I was like, I can't remember.
1425
00:53:27,454 --> 00:53:28,528
- You definitely
gotta have some babies.
1426
00:53:28,622 --> 00:53:29,872
- You're gonna be fine, girl.
1427
00:53:30,031 --> 00:53:31,207
- If we had to guess
which couple's gonna
1428
00:53:31,291 --> 00:53:32,282
have kids first,
who would we guess?
1429
00:53:32,375 --> 00:53:33,450
[laughing]
1430
00:53:33,534 --> 00:53:36,370
- Them two?
- For sure.
1431
00:53:36,454 --> 00:53:38,372
- I think it's either you guys
on purpose or them by accident.
1432
00:53:38,456 --> 00:53:39,381
- I agree--
1433
00:53:39,466 --> 00:53:41,800
I agree. I 100% agree!
1434
00:53:41,885 --> 00:53:43,627
- Does everybody
want kids in general?
1435
00:53:43,711 --> 00:53:45,879
- Yeah, well, I do.
- How many?
1436
00:53:45,972 --> 00:53:47,047
- Raise your hand
if you want kids.
1437
00:53:47,131 --> 00:53:48,641
- I would like three--
- But, like, one.
1438
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:51,134
- I would settle for two,
1439
00:53:51,228 --> 00:53:53,804
the third could be the bonus,
but two at least.
1440
00:53:53,897 --> 00:53:55,973
- So two and a possible.
1441
00:53:56,066 --> 00:53:57,149
- So how many kids do you want?
You said two?
1442
00:53:57,234 --> 00:53:58,725
- Three.
1443
00:53:58,810 --> 00:53:59,985
- I heard someone over
there say two and a maybe,
1444
00:54:00,070 --> 00:54:01,403
right, I kinda like that,
like that's--
1445
00:54:01,488 --> 00:54:03,239
- Two and a possible.
- Two and a possible, yeah.
1446
00:54:03,398 --> 00:54:04,740
- Three--three, no,
we're having three.
1447
00:54:04,824 --> 00:54:09,152
- So--so Noi--Noi is dead set
on three.
1448
00:54:09,246 --> 00:54:10,496
- I don't think you guys
will know whether or not you
1449
00:54:10,655 --> 00:54:12,248
want to have a third
until you have the first two.
1450
00:54:12,332 --> 00:54:13,666
- Yeah.
- You're gonna--
1451
00:54:13,750 --> 00:54:15,334
[laughs]
1452
00:54:15,418 --> 00:54:16,910
- I didn't really want
to have kids at all
1453
00:54:17,003 --> 00:54:20,589
until the last few years.
I was very like,
1454
00:54:20,748 --> 00:54:22,341
don't want to get married,
don't have kids,
1455
00:54:22,425 --> 00:54:24,426
just gonna live, and have fun,
1456
00:54:24,585 --> 00:54:27,504
and travel,
and do whatever I want.
1457
00:54:27,597 --> 00:54:29,848
But I realized,
maybe five years ago or so,
1458
00:54:29,933 --> 00:54:32,592
that once the rest of my life
started to fall into place,
1459
00:54:32,686 --> 00:54:35,595
my career, my mental health,
1460
00:54:35,680 --> 00:54:37,931
my confidence, like,
everything fell into place,
1461
00:54:38,024 --> 00:54:39,608
that I realized that I think,
1462
00:54:39,767 --> 00:54:41,852
now I feel comfortable
having a kid.
1463
00:54:41,936 --> 00:54:43,028
- You're gonna be
a great dad one day, Chris.
1464
00:54:43,187 --> 00:54:44,688
- Thank you.
- Yeah, you will.
1465
00:54:44,772 --> 00:54:46,189
- Great husband and great dad.
You got some good values.
1466
00:54:46,274 --> 00:54:47,616
- You think you could babysit
my third kid just in case?
1467
00:54:47,701 --> 00:54:50,527
[laughter]
1468
00:54:50,620 --> 00:54:52,612
- Has anyone had any, like,
bumps in your marriage
1469
00:54:52,697 --> 00:54:53,956
that you, like,
had to, like, work through?
1470
00:54:54,115 --> 00:54:55,291
Whether it was,
like, communication
1471
00:54:55,450 --> 00:54:57,626
or just anything
throughout this week?
1472
00:55:03,374 --> 00:55:06,460
- We've been having an issue
with my communication style.
1473
00:55:06,544 --> 00:55:08,387
Because if I'm telling my wife,
1474
00:55:08,471 --> 00:55:10,139
what you're doing is hurting me,
1475
00:55:10,298 --> 00:55:11,965
there's a way to deliver
that message
1476
00:55:12,058 --> 00:55:14,310
that doesn't sound so--
- Harsh.
1477
00:55:14,469 --> 00:55:15,227
- Just aggressive,
you know what I mean?
1478
00:55:15,312 --> 00:55:17,396
So I'm still learning
1479
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:20,557
how to convey messages in a way
that's beneficial,
1480
00:55:20,641 --> 00:55:22,067
and doesn't create
a bigger issue
1481
00:55:22,152 --> 00:55:23,485
because of how I said something.
1482
00:55:23,570 --> 00:55:24,903
- Self-awareness is key.
1483
00:55:24,988 --> 00:55:27,564
So the fact that you know
and you said that,
1484
00:55:27,657 --> 00:55:29,149
that is step one.
1485
00:55:29,233 --> 00:55:31,744
'Cause some people,
they can't even acknowledge it.
1486
00:55:31,828 --> 00:55:33,153
Or they'll be like,
"What are you talking about?"
1487
00:55:33,246 --> 00:55:34,830
And that creates
a bigger problem.
1488
00:55:34,989 --> 00:55:36,573
- And even the effort too,
you know?
1489
00:55:36,666 --> 00:55:38,167
Like, if you're actively
trying, you might not always
1490
00:55:38,251 --> 00:55:39,409
get the words right,
but it's like,
1491
00:55:39,494 --> 00:55:41,587
I'm doing my best here,
you know?
1492
00:55:41,746 --> 00:55:43,005
- I learned that I gotta--
1493
00:55:43,089 --> 00:55:45,758
It's not just "I,"
there's a "we."
1494
00:55:45,842 --> 00:55:48,510
And I can't keep pushing
my wife to the limit
1495
00:55:48,595 --> 00:55:52,506
on every excursion and
everything I do in my life.
1496
00:55:52,590 --> 00:55:55,092
I'm just a energized person,
1497
00:55:55,176 --> 00:55:57,269
but not everybody's like that
1498
00:55:57,354 --> 00:55:59,355
and I have to learn
to have more patience
1499
00:55:59,439 --> 00:56:01,023
and hear what
she's saying until--
1500
00:56:01,107 --> 00:56:04,684
Before she starts getting real
serious, trying to check me.
1501
00:56:04,769 --> 00:56:05,852
Even though--
It's good, it's cool.
1502
00:56:05,945 --> 00:56:08,021
But I need that in my life.
1503
00:56:08,106 --> 00:56:10,440
I would roll over somebody
if they were just passive.
1504
00:56:10,525 --> 00:56:12,943
So I'm very thankful.
- You sure would 'cause...
1505
00:56:13,027 --> 00:56:15,037
whoo!
1506
00:56:15,121 --> 00:56:16,696
[laughter]
1507
00:56:16,790 --> 00:56:19,866
I like it.
- Love you so much.
1508
00:56:19,951 --> 00:56:21,368
- O and Katina,
1509
00:56:21,452 --> 00:56:23,453
even though they communicate
on different levels,
1510
00:56:23,538 --> 00:56:25,455
they balance each other out.
1511
00:56:25,540 --> 00:56:26,623
You know,
sometimes he can be a lot.
1512
00:56:26,707 --> 00:56:28,050
She'll reel him in.
1513
00:56:28,134 --> 00:56:30,219
Sometimes she can be dramatic,
he'll reel her in.
1514
00:56:30,303 --> 00:56:32,212
I think it's a very
great balance,
1515
00:56:32,296 --> 00:56:35,057
- Steve expresses himself
very differently from me.
1516
00:56:35,216 --> 00:56:36,800
He's very analytical,
he's very logical,
1517
00:56:36,893 --> 00:56:38,143
he's a realist.
1518
00:56:38,228 --> 00:56:40,229
So for me,
I had to recognize that, like,
1519
00:56:40,313 --> 00:56:41,805
just because he's not
1520
00:56:41,889 --> 00:56:43,899
reflecting what I'm saying
to him right away,
1521
00:56:44,058 --> 00:56:46,059
it doesn't mean
that he's not feeling it.
1522
00:56:46,144 --> 00:56:48,237
- We had a tough conversation
when she was asking me
1523
00:56:48,321 --> 00:56:50,814
how I felt, but I was like,
"You know how I feel.
1524
00:56:50,907 --> 00:56:53,409
You know, between how I look
at you, how I touch you."
1525
00:56:53,493 --> 00:56:54,827
We cuddle a lot.
1526
00:56:54,911 --> 00:56:57,904
We embrace, we hug,
you know, we hold hands.
1527
00:56:57,989 --> 00:56:59,573
And for me, that's one of--
1528
00:56:59,666 --> 00:57:00,824
You know, that's one of the ways
1529
00:57:00,908 --> 00:57:03,085
that I communicate
how I feel, for sure.
1530
00:57:03,244 --> 00:57:04,995
How--you know,
the way we interact.
1531
00:57:05,079 --> 00:57:06,755
So I think that
was reassuring for her,
1532
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:09,499
even though I couldn't give her
the verbal affirmation
1533
00:57:09,584 --> 00:57:12,428
she was looking for,
but I'm learning to do that.
1534
00:57:12,512 --> 00:57:14,421
- I think for me,
it's just, like,
1535
00:57:14,514 --> 00:57:16,173
allowing my wife to help me
1536
00:57:16,266 --> 00:57:18,934
in things that I'm used
to doing for myself.
1537
00:57:19,093 --> 00:57:20,677
And I've never had,
like, a situation
1538
00:57:20,761 --> 00:57:23,021
where I had so much support
out the gate.
1539
00:57:23,106 --> 00:57:25,015
All: Aw!
1540
00:57:25,099 --> 00:57:26,433
- You look like a happy--
1541
00:57:26,526 --> 00:57:28,777
I knew I'd seen
a glow on you earlier.
1542
00:57:28,936 --> 00:57:30,353
- Look at Lindsey getting red!
Look at her!
1543
00:57:30,447 --> 00:57:31,938
[cheering]
1544
00:57:32,031 --> 00:57:33,615
- It's a sunburn!
It's a sunburn.
1545
00:57:33,700 --> 00:57:36,368
- It's a sunburn.
- And the passion.
1546
00:57:36,453 --> 00:57:37,619
- What about you guys?
1547
00:57:37,778 --> 00:57:38,954
- Anything?
1548
00:57:42,208 --> 00:57:43,366
- Don't look at me.
[laughter]
1549
00:57:43,460 --> 00:57:45,043
- Yeah, yeah, your turn.
1550
00:57:45,203 --> 00:57:49,882
- Yeah, we're good.
1551
00:57:50,041 --> 00:57:52,050
- Uh, oh, I think we know that
we're not in the same place
1552
00:57:52,135 --> 00:57:53,460
that you guys all are
1553
00:57:53,553 --> 00:57:58,223
so we've certainly had bumps.
1554
00:57:58,308 --> 00:58:01,059
- I think we're taking it
day by day
1555
00:58:01,144 --> 00:58:02,478
as it comes at us
1556
00:58:02,562 --> 00:58:05,397
and, you know, we're both
still sitting here so...
1557
00:58:05,482 --> 00:58:06,732
- That's great.
1558
00:58:06,816 --> 00:58:08,141
- I think that
says everything, right?
1559
00:58:08,226 --> 00:58:10,152
- We're still
figuring out the plan.
1560
00:58:11,812 --> 00:58:14,731
Alyssa and I don't talk
outside of
1561
00:58:14,815 --> 00:58:17,734
when we are doing
an activity together.
1562
00:58:17,818 --> 00:58:19,912
And I'm trying
to push as hard as I can,
1563
00:58:19,996 --> 00:58:21,747
while giving her
the space to grow
1564
00:58:21,831 --> 00:58:23,490
because everybody
has always told me
1565
00:58:23,574 --> 00:58:25,659
that she moves incredibly
slowly.
1566
00:58:25,752 --> 00:58:27,169
But if I'm not in this at all,
1567
00:58:27,328 --> 00:58:28,495
then I'm done
and I want to move on,
1568
00:58:28,588 --> 00:58:29,838
and I want her to say out loud
1569
00:58:29,923 --> 00:58:32,082
on camera to everybody
that we are done.
1570
00:58:32,166 --> 00:58:34,334
- ♪ I can't move mountains ♪
1571
00:58:34,427 --> 00:58:36,169
- So it sounds
like everyone else
1572
00:58:36,254 --> 00:58:38,255
is gonna be moving in together,
1573
00:58:38,339 --> 00:58:40,840
and sharing an apartment,
and continuing on this journey.
1574
00:58:40,934 --> 00:58:42,759
So I'm just curious, you know,
1575
00:58:42,843 --> 00:58:46,271
what your plans are for that?
1576
00:58:46,356 --> 00:58:51,610
- So we haven't had a chance
to talk about it yet,
1577
00:58:51,694 --> 00:58:56,198
but my thought was that you
could move into the apartment
1578
00:58:56,282 --> 00:58:58,283
for the first half
1579
00:58:58,368 --> 00:59:01,111
and then I could move in
in the second half.
1580
00:59:01,204 --> 00:59:03,196
Because I know we both
want to be a part of it
1581
00:59:03,281 --> 00:59:05,624
'cause I know I love you all
so much
1582
00:59:05,783 --> 00:59:11,463
and just because it didn't
work out in a romantic sense,
1583
00:59:11,548 --> 00:59:13,882
that doesn't mean that
1584
00:59:14,041 --> 00:59:16,385
we shouldn't be able to
participate
1585
00:59:16,469 --> 00:59:18,878
when we're both
still sitting here and
1586
00:59:18,963 --> 00:59:22,382
want to do that, in my opinion.
1587
00:59:22,466 --> 00:59:25,477
[tense music]
1588
00:59:25,562 --> 00:59:31,149
- I had not heard that strategy.
1589
00:59:31,234 --> 00:59:33,193
That's not something
I'm interested in.
1590
00:59:35,813 --> 00:59:38,231
I love all of you.
1591
00:59:38,324 --> 00:59:41,493
I didn't come here for you guys.
1592
00:59:41,578 --> 00:59:46,415
I am either all in or all out.
1593
00:59:46,499 --> 00:59:48,908
- ♪ You turned your back,
I pick it up ♪
1594
00:59:48,993 --> 00:59:50,577
♪ You shot me back ♪
1595
00:59:50,661 --> 00:59:53,422
♪ You saw alarm fires ♪
1596
00:59:53,506 --> 00:59:56,833
♪ We saw alarm fires ♪
1597
00:59:56,917 --> 01:00:00,012
♪ ♪
1598
01:00:04,017 --> 01:00:06,426
- So my thought was that
1599
01:00:06,519 --> 01:00:08,437
you could move into
the apartment
1600
01:00:08,521 --> 01:00:10,355
for the first half
1601
01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:12,608
and then I could move in
in the second half.
1602
01:00:12,692 --> 01:00:18,438
- I had not heard that strategy.
1603
01:00:18,531 --> 01:00:21,033
That's not something
I'm interested in.
1604
01:00:21,117 --> 01:00:22,451
I love all of you.
1605
01:00:22,535 --> 01:00:23,860
I didn't come here for you guys.
1606
01:00:23,953 --> 01:00:28,707
I am either all in or all out.
1607
01:00:30,034 --> 01:00:32,035
I'm not looking
to split time with you
1608
01:00:32,119 --> 01:00:36,122
like [bleep] divorced parents.
1609
01:00:36,207 --> 01:00:38,541
The notion that we would
share this experience
1610
01:00:38,635 --> 01:00:40,218
like divorced parents,
1611
01:00:40,303 --> 01:00:41,878
deciding which weekend days
1612
01:00:41,962 --> 01:00:43,055
we were going to spend
with our children,
1613
01:00:43,214 --> 01:00:45,140
our children being
the other couples,
1614
01:00:45,299 --> 01:00:46,800
is absurd.
1615
01:00:46,884 --> 01:00:49,636
We're not picking weekends.
This isn't a draft.
1616
01:00:49,729 --> 01:00:51,563
At this point,
I believe she is continuing
1617
01:00:51,648 --> 01:00:52,972
through this process because
1618
01:00:53,066 --> 01:00:54,641
she wants to live in
the apartment building,
1619
01:00:54,725 --> 01:00:56,985
not because of anything
having anything to do
1620
01:00:57,070 --> 01:00:58,561
with our marriage.
1621
01:00:58,655 --> 01:01:00,563
My drive
1622
01:01:00,648 --> 01:01:03,483
is to find the person I'm gonna
spend the rest of my life with.
1623
01:01:03,567 --> 01:01:08,163
And if somebody wants to move
exceptionally slowly,
1624
01:01:08,322 --> 01:01:09,656
that's fine with me,
1625
01:01:09,749 --> 01:01:12,826
because my plan
was a "rest of my life" plan.
1626
01:01:12,910 --> 01:01:15,078
I have time.
1627
01:01:15,171 --> 01:01:19,091
But I can't take those steps,
1628
01:01:19,250 --> 01:01:24,003
I can't keep
putting myself out there,
1629
01:01:24,088 --> 01:01:28,925
unless I get
something that's not zero back.
1630
01:01:29,018 --> 01:01:30,268
- I like that.
1631
01:01:33,597 --> 01:01:36,441
- Him saying I'm not trying
isn't true.
1632
01:01:36,526 --> 01:01:39,436
For him not
to want to compromise,
1633
01:01:39,529 --> 01:01:41,613
you know, when I'm trying
to think of solutions
1634
01:01:41,698 --> 01:01:43,523
to these problems
that we're having,
1635
01:01:43,616 --> 01:01:46,276
and he doesn't want
to entertain them,
1636
01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:47,619
you know,
that's disappointing to me
1637
01:01:47,778 --> 01:01:50,864
because Chris seems to be
1638
01:01:50,948 --> 01:01:54,367
trying actively
to make me look bad.
1639
01:01:54,452 --> 01:01:57,796
And it won't happen
because I'm not a bad person
1640
01:01:57,880 --> 01:02:01,216
and I'm a really
[bleep] good person.
1641
01:02:01,300 --> 01:02:03,209
- I know how I handle it
1642
01:02:03,294 --> 01:02:06,972
is going to be based on
what you want to do.
1643
01:02:07,056 --> 01:02:10,809
And if you are all out,
then so am I.
1644
01:02:10,968 --> 01:02:15,230
If you are even 1% in,
then I'm all in.
1645
01:02:18,484 --> 01:02:22,487
- Um, it's been
a tough journey for me
1646
01:02:22,572 --> 01:02:24,990
and, you know,
I know it's a tough journey
1647
01:02:25,074 --> 01:02:27,492
for you also,
and I'm not saying it's not,
1648
01:02:27,577 --> 01:02:29,161
I just don't
want to speak for you.
1649
01:02:29,245 --> 01:02:34,249
Um, and I just--
I want everyone to remember,
1650
01:02:34,333 --> 01:02:36,075
including us, that,
1651
01:02:36,160 --> 01:02:38,920
like, it's not my fault
that this happened.
1652
01:02:39,079 --> 01:02:42,007
And, um, please don't do that,
Lindsey, while I'm talking.
1653
01:02:42,166 --> 01:02:45,010
- I'm not doing anything.
1654
01:02:46,846 --> 01:02:48,421
- I just want everyone
to remember that, like,
1655
01:02:48,506 --> 01:02:51,591
I came in this
with the best intentions,
1656
01:02:51,675 --> 01:02:53,676
as everyone else did,
and put in all the work
1657
01:02:53,761 --> 01:02:55,178
like everyone else did.
1658
01:02:55,262 --> 01:02:57,347
I feel happy
that I can say that,
1659
01:02:57,431 --> 01:02:59,349
but just know that it hurts
1660
01:02:59,433 --> 01:03:03,111
that this happened
this way for me.
1661
01:03:03,196 --> 01:03:06,198
- Everything that
Alyssa says out of her mouth
1662
01:03:06,357 --> 01:03:09,442
is so ingenuine and fake.
1663
01:03:09,535 --> 01:03:11,953
All I can do is
stare at a palm tree
1664
01:03:12,038 --> 01:03:14,206
or sand in the distance 'cause
I don't have a poker face
1665
01:03:14,365 --> 01:03:17,450
and I just want
to call bull[bleep].
1666
01:03:17,535 --> 01:03:21,963
- [voice breaking]
This hasn't been easy for me.
1667
01:03:22,048 --> 01:03:24,090
And, um...
1668
01:03:27,211 --> 01:03:30,547
- It's okay--it's okay.
1669
01:03:30,631 --> 01:03:34,634
- We understand. It's okay.
1670
01:03:34,718 --> 01:03:38,555
- All talk aside,
I just need to know
1671
01:03:38,639 --> 01:03:41,474
if you are all out.
1672
01:03:41,559 --> 01:03:42,901
That's it.
1673
01:03:42,985 --> 01:03:46,571
It's the only question I have.
1674
01:03:46,656 --> 01:03:48,648
- Do you understand
what he's saying to you?
1675
01:03:48,732 --> 01:03:51,243
- Mm-hmm, but I think
it's not a conversation...
1676
01:03:51,327 --> 01:03:53,486
- In front of everybody,
yeah, exactly.
1677
01:03:53,571 --> 01:03:55,238
- Never is.
1678
01:03:55,331 --> 01:03:57,415
- Well, I think you have to
also respect her decision
1679
01:03:57,500 --> 01:03:58,658
if she doesn't want
to talk about
1680
01:03:58,742 --> 01:04:00,001
personal things
in front of people.
1681
01:04:00,086 --> 01:04:02,504
- Yeah, that's what it is.
- So if--
1682
01:04:02,663 --> 01:04:04,747
You guys do owe each other
a conversation.
1683
01:04:04,841 --> 01:04:06,499
- Absolutely, you do.
- Which I think should have,
1684
01:04:06,592 --> 01:04:08,167
you know,
I know you have questions
1685
01:04:08,252 --> 01:04:09,752
that you want answered.
1686
01:04:09,846 --> 01:04:12,264
And I had a conversation
with Alyssa earlier
1687
01:04:12,348 --> 01:04:13,840
and she's willing
to sit down with you
1688
01:04:13,933 --> 01:04:15,934
and answer every question
that you have.
1689
01:04:16,018 --> 01:04:18,177
And I feel like once you guys
have that conversation,
1690
01:04:18,262 --> 01:04:20,188
you would know how to move
going forward.
1691
01:04:20,273 --> 01:04:22,357
But I also do agree
that it's not our business.
1692
01:04:22,441 --> 01:04:24,517
And that you don't need to
speak about it in front of us.
1693
01:04:24,602 --> 01:04:25,944
- Yeah.
1694
01:04:26,028 --> 01:04:28,104
- I put myself
in Chris's shoes--
1695
01:04:28,188 --> 01:04:29,698
My whole honeymoon,
I haven't had an answer.
1696
01:04:29,782 --> 01:04:31,032
Oh, well, you know,
1697
01:04:31,191 --> 01:04:32,609
there's things
that I can't talk about,
1698
01:04:32,702 --> 01:04:34,360
and this and that--
Those are excuses.
1699
01:04:34,445 --> 01:04:36,446
I feel so bad for the man.
1700
01:04:36,530 --> 01:04:40,458
His heart is so big, though,
that he's hoping for that 1%
1701
01:04:40,618 --> 01:04:42,785
so he could give his 100 still.
1702
01:04:42,870 --> 01:04:44,713
- Either someone's trying
or they're not.
1703
01:04:44,872 --> 01:04:47,290
- I know, but that's
not fair to say, though,
1704
01:04:47,374 --> 01:04:48,958
'cause I'm still sitting here
with everyone,
1705
01:04:49,043 --> 01:04:51,044
including you next to me.
1706
01:04:51,128 --> 01:04:52,879
And so you can't say
that I'm not trying
1707
01:04:52,963 --> 01:04:54,714
because I'm still here.
1708
01:04:54,798 --> 01:04:58,384
And I had many chances
to leave, and I didn't.
1709
01:04:58,469 --> 01:04:59,811
- Okay.
1710
01:04:59,896 --> 01:05:04,232
Does that mean
that you're trying to decide
1711
01:05:04,317 --> 01:05:06,559
whether or not to try?
1712
01:05:06,652 --> 01:05:08,561
- Well, I think I've said it,
1713
01:05:08,654 --> 01:05:10,739
that I'm not gonna talk
about that right now.
1714
01:05:10,823 --> 01:05:12,908
And I think
I would appreciate it
1715
01:05:12,992 --> 01:05:15,902
if you could respect that
'cause we're in a huge group.
1716
01:05:15,986 --> 01:05:18,404
And like I said,
that's not something I can just
1717
01:05:18,489 --> 01:05:23,251
sit here and say, like,
yes or no to right now.
1718
01:05:23,336 --> 01:05:24,827
- I mean, you could've
flown out yesterday,
1719
01:05:24,921 --> 01:05:27,330
but what is Boston's
temperature right now
1720
01:05:27,414 --> 01:05:29,666
60 degrees?
We're in 90 degrees,
1721
01:05:29,759 --> 01:05:31,176
so let's be real.
1722
01:05:31,260 --> 01:05:33,261
That was a bull[bleep] answer,
1723
01:05:33,346 --> 01:05:35,838
but if it makes her feel good
to go to sleep at night
1724
01:05:35,932 --> 01:05:38,016
that she thinks she has given
even half the effort,
1725
01:05:38,100 --> 01:05:40,435
or a quarter,
or even a piece of what--
1726
01:05:40,519 --> 01:05:43,772
I can't talk other couples,
but what I've done for my wife
1727
01:05:43,856 --> 01:05:45,273
to make her smile,
1728
01:05:45,432 --> 01:05:47,525
she's out her mind.
1729
01:05:49,946 --> 01:05:51,947
- Just because
this isn't working out
1730
01:05:52,031 --> 01:05:54,357
like we both wanted it to,
1731
01:05:54,441 --> 01:05:58,286
doesn't mean
that I'm not trying.
1732
01:05:58,371 --> 01:06:01,280
And to me that says a lot.
1733
01:06:01,374 --> 01:06:03,375
- I don't know
what's going on with Alyssa.
1734
01:06:03,459 --> 01:06:04,534
I don't even think Alyssa knows
1735
01:06:04,618 --> 01:06:05,868
what's going on with Alyssa.
1736
01:06:05,962 --> 01:06:07,462
She keeps making it about her
1737
01:06:07,621 --> 01:06:10,215
and how she got robbed,
but like, what about him?
1738
01:06:10,374 --> 01:06:11,883
Alyssa's not giving Chris
a chance
1739
01:06:12,042 --> 01:06:13,626
and he really got robbed.
1740
01:06:13,711 --> 01:06:16,546
He got the shortest end
of the stick, chick.
1741
01:06:16,639 --> 01:06:19,641
- You okay, Chris. Yeah?
1742
01:06:19,725 --> 01:06:21,551
- I still don't know
1743
01:06:21,635 --> 01:06:24,145
if I'm supposed to be moving on.
1744
01:06:24,230 --> 01:06:27,565
A lack of an answer
means, to me,
1745
01:06:27,725 --> 01:06:31,060
that I can't bet my house
on the idea
1746
01:06:31,145 --> 01:06:32,904
that you are out of it.
1747
01:06:32,989 --> 01:06:35,490
So by not knowing, the only way
1748
01:06:35,574 --> 01:06:39,995
I can feel good about it myself
is to continue to try.
1749
01:06:40,154 --> 01:06:43,081
You picture a lot of different
scenarios coming into this.
1750
01:06:45,325 --> 01:06:47,085
Well, this wasn't one of them.
1751
01:06:47,169 --> 01:06:48,745
- It's a very unfortunate
situation.
1752
01:06:48,829 --> 01:06:50,163
- It is.
1753
01:06:50,256 --> 01:06:51,673
- ♪ Take it easy,
take it easy ♪
1754
01:06:51,832 --> 01:06:55,176
♪ Don't let me, let me,
let me, let me down ♪
1755
01:06:55,261 --> 01:06:56,928
♪ In the middle,
in the middle ♪
1756
01:06:57,013 --> 01:06:57,971
♪ Don't let ♪
1757
01:07:01,767 --> 01:07:04,352
- ♪ Take a snapshot ♪
1758
01:07:04,437 --> 01:07:08,273
♪ This tonight ♪
1759
01:07:08,432 --> 01:07:10,433
- How are you feeling, babe?
1760
01:07:10,517 --> 01:07:14,779
- I'm just proud of you because
I think during the dinner,
1761
01:07:14,938 --> 01:07:16,522
some of the conversations
1762
01:07:16,615 --> 01:07:18,608
between Chris and Alyssa
were tough.
1763
01:07:18,692 --> 01:07:20,118
And I'm so proud that
you didn't jump in
1764
01:07:20,202 --> 01:07:21,611
when she said your name.
1765
01:07:21,704 --> 01:07:24,447
- Like, it's not my fault
that this happened.
1766
01:07:24,531 --> 01:07:27,950
And, um--please don't do that,
Lindsey, while I'm talking.
1767
01:07:28,035 --> 01:07:30,286
- I'm not doing anything.
- Okay.
1768
01:07:30,370 --> 01:07:32,464
- 'Cause at the end of the day,
like, this is us.
1769
01:07:32,623 --> 01:07:35,467
So if you say something
that I feel I would never say,
1770
01:07:35,551 --> 01:07:37,960
it affects me if you say it
because we're a team.
1771
01:07:38,045 --> 01:07:39,387
So I was glad that
you didn't say anything
1772
01:07:39,546 --> 01:07:41,464
and you just
kind of were silent.
1773
01:07:41,548 --> 01:07:43,216
I was like, that's great,
that's perfect.
1774
01:07:43,309 --> 01:07:46,302
- I don't have a poker face,
1775
01:07:46,395 --> 01:07:48,146
so I channeled all that
strength into this hand...
1776
01:07:50,483 --> 01:07:51,816
She's making one
of the biggest mistakes
1777
01:07:51,901 --> 01:07:53,226
of her life.
- Yep.
1778
01:07:53,310 --> 01:07:56,229
[tender music]
1779
01:07:56,313 --> 01:07:58,564
♪ ♪
1780
01:07:58,657 --> 01:07:59,824
- What did you
think of the dinner?
1781
01:07:59,983 --> 01:08:01,242
- It was great.
1782
01:08:01,401 --> 01:08:03,653
I'm so happy that we
all could have sat down
1783
01:08:03,746 --> 01:08:05,497
at the table,
put all the drama to the side,
1784
01:08:05,581 --> 01:08:08,333
and really vented out
how we felt.
1785
01:08:08,417 --> 01:08:11,410
- But I'm also glad
that Alyssa and Chris
1786
01:08:11,495 --> 01:08:13,246
spoke about it
in front of everybody.
1787
01:08:13,330 --> 01:08:15,081
And I know that wasn't
easy for them
1788
01:08:15,165 --> 01:08:16,833
to have that conversation.
1789
01:08:16,926 --> 01:08:18,668
- Man, with Chris
pouring his heart out
1790
01:08:18,752 --> 01:08:20,845
to everybody at the table,
yo, that [bleep]
1791
01:08:20,930 --> 01:08:22,255
was powerful.
1792
01:08:22,348 --> 01:08:23,765
That [bleep] was one of the
1793
01:08:23,924 --> 01:08:25,266
most powerful things
I saw in real life.
1794
01:08:25,351 --> 01:08:28,594
- I can't keep putting
myself out there unless
1795
01:08:28,679 --> 01:08:32,273
I get something
that's not zero back.
1796
01:08:32,432 --> 01:08:34,692
- Listen to what
he's saying to you.
1797
01:08:34,777 --> 01:08:36,769
Listen! Stop just thinking
with your eyes.
1798
01:08:36,854 --> 01:08:38,104
Listen!
1799
01:08:38,188 --> 01:08:39,689
This is what you wanted.
You want love?
1800
01:08:39,773 --> 01:08:42,525
That's what love is,
somebody sacrificing,
1801
01:08:42,618 --> 01:08:46,195
putting his life on the line,
embarrassing himself
1802
01:08:46,280 --> 01:08:49,124
in front of everybody,
just to make you
1803
01:08:49,208 --> 01:08:51,292
happy to know
where his heart is!
1804
01:08:51,377 --> 01:08:53,545
How can you not feel
for the man?
1805
01:08:53,704 --> 01:08:55,538
I just--dude,
my heart hit the floor
1806
01:08:55,622 --> 01:08:58,049
and came back in my chest, dude.
1807
01:08:58,208 --> 01:08:59,884
I love that it was said
in front of everybody because
1808
01:08:59,969 --> 01:09:01,553
not everybody can
get out of their marriage.
1809
01:09:01,637 --> 01:09:03,221
Step back.
They already said
1810
01:09:03,305 --> 01:09:04,222
what they had to say.
1811
01:09:04,306 --> 01:09:05,640
They already came to agreement
1812
01:09:05,799 --> 01:09:06,883
that they will have
their own discussion
1813
01:09:06,967 --> 01:09:07,800
when time is right.
1814
01:09:07,885 --> 01:09:09,644
- Mm-hmm.
1815
01:09:09,728 --> 01:09:12,564
- ♪ Think you know,
but you don't know ♪
1816
01:09:12,648 --> 01:09:15,141
♪ Just passing judgment ♪
1817
01:09:15,225 --> 01:09:17,059
♪ ♪
1818
01:09:17,144 --> 01:09:20,146
♪ You only see
just what I show ♪
1819
01:09:20,239 --> 01:09:22,323
♪ Check
your assumptions ♪
1820
01:09:22,408 --> 01:09:25,493
- I didn't know
that you were thinking
1821
01:09:25,578 --> 01:09:28,821
about basically
sharing the apartment,
1822
01:09:28,914 --> 01:09:32,241
sort of,
one month versus another.
1823
01:09:32,334 --> 01:09:36,495
Why do you think that that
is the best solution for us?
1824
01:09:36,589 --> 01:09:38,423
- Well, it's not about it
being the best solution.
1825
01:09:38,507 --> 01:09:41,000
I just know
that I want to be part
1826
01:09:41,084 --> 01:09:43,428
of this experience
and this experiment.
1827
01:09:43,512 --> 01:09:46,014
So for me,
I want to be able to move
1828
01:09:46,173 --> 01:09:48,183
into that apartment
for that experience
1829
01:09:48,342 --> 01:09:52,678
and to participate
with the group.
1830
01:09:52,763 --> 01:09:54,439
♪ ♪
1831
01:09:54,598 --> 01:09:59,611
And I think that experience is
very important for both of us.
1832
01:09:59,770 --> 01:10:02,780
- I am either
in this to be married
1833
01:10:02,865 --> 01:10:06,359
for the rest of my life,
or I am out.
1834
01:10:06,443 --> 01:10:08,778
The last couple of days,
Alyssa is starting
1835
01:10:08,862 --> 01:10:10,613
to use
the word "experience."
1836
01:10:10,697 --> 01:10:14,367
And I think that is a strong
indicator of her motives.
1837
01:10:14,451 --> 01:10:17,203
She wants to enjoy
the experience
1838
01:10:17,287 --> 01:10:19,205
but doesn't want
to go through the process.
1839
01:10:19,289 --> 01:10:22,375
I think the language
tells the story.
1840
01:10:22,459 --> 01:10:24,302
♪ ♪
1841
01:10:24,386 --> 01:10:27,964
Can I ask you a few questions
about your thoughts
1842
01:10:28,057 --> 01:10:31,550
coming into the whole thing,
like, pre-ever meeting me?
1843
01:10:31,635 --> 01:10:33,052
- Sure.
1844
01:10:33,136 --> 01:10:35,721
♪ ♪
1845
01:10:35,806 --> 01:10:38,140
- Do you feel like,
coming into this process,
1846
01:10:38,225 --> 01:10:40,643
you were prepared to adjust
1847
01:10:40,727 --> 01:10:42,561
for somebody who wasn't perfect?
1848
01:10:42,655 --> 01:10:44,563
- Yeah, I can definitely--
1849
01:10:44,657 --> 01:10:48,076
I never thought that they were
going to match me with somebody
1850
01:10:48,160 --> 01:10:51,654
that was 1,000% perfect,
but I think there's a lot
1851
01:10:51,747 --> 01:10:56,251
of differences that two
people wouldn't change on.
1852
01:10:56,410 --> 01:10:58,336
- Have you brought
any of those up to me,
1853
01:10:58,420 --> 01:10:59,829
in your opinion,
and asked me whether or not
1854
01:10:59,922 --> 01:11:01,089
I'd be willing
to change any of those things?
1855
01:11:01,248 --> 01:11:02,415
- Yeah, there's
definitely things that,
1856
01:11:02,499 --> 01:11:03,925
you know,
we've talked about and been
1857
01:11:04,009 --> 01:11:06,010
brought up on differences
and things like that.
1858
01:11:06,169 --> 01:11:08,429
- Like what?
- Um...
1859
01:11:08,588 --> 01:11:12,100
♪ ♪
1860
01:11:13,269 --> 01:11:15,436
Um...
1861
01:11:16,513 --> 01:11:17,847
♪ ♪
1862
01:11:17,940 --> 01:11:22,610
Right now, mentally,
I am not able to sit here
1863
01:11:22,695 --> 01:11:25,196
and have this conversation
that you want to have,
1864
01:11:25,281 --> 01:11:30,118
but I am going to have
that conversation with you.
1865
01:11:32,454 --> 01:11:38,459
♪ ♪
1866
01:11:38,618 --> 01:11:41,379
- When do you think we'll
finally have that conversation?
1867
01:11:41,463 --> 01:11:43,205
- Well, I mean,
we leave tomorrow,
1868
01:11:43,299 --> 01:11:47,543
so probably, um, I don't know,
next week, I assume.
1869
01:11:47,636 --> 01:11:48,886
♪ ♪
1870
01:11:49,046 --> 01:11:50,722
- She has yet again said
1871
01:11:50,881 --> 01:11:52,223
she will answer the question
1872
01:11:52,308 --> 01:11:53,474
about whether or not
she's in this,
1873
01:11:53,633 --> 01:11:54,475
but she will not do it
in front of people
1874
01:11:54,634 --> 01:11:56,552
and she
will not do it on camera.
1875
01:11:56,645 --> 01:11:58,730
The problem is, she will
not do it off camera either.
1876
01:12:00,807 --> 01:12:04,319
When did you quit on it, tap
out, say "Not gonna happen?"
1877
01:12:04,478 --> 01:12:07,396
- Well, I'm not quitting,
because I'm here right now so--
1878
01:12:07,481 --> 01:12:08,647
- On the experiment,
1879
01:12:08,741 --> 01:12:09,982
the other people,
and the other couples.
1880
01:12:10,067 --> 01:12:11,743
But I'm talking about me.
1881
01:12:11,827 --> 01:12:13,819
- And I'm telling you
that I had a chance
1882
01:12:13,904 --> 01:12:17,415
to leave yesterday,
and I did not go.
1883
01:12:17,499 --> 01:12:19,250
- Are you saying that there's
still a potential for this?
1884
01:12:19,409 --> 01:12:20,910
- Okay, I--I think
1885
01:12:21,003 --> 01:12:23,338
I made it very clear,
as did everyone else
1886
01:12:23,497 --> 01:12:26,758
at the dinner table tonight,
that that is something that
1887
01:12:26,917 --> 01:12:31,170
I'm not willing to just sit
here and give you an answer for
1888
01:12:31,254 --> 01:12:33,264
because that
wouldn't be fair to me.
1889
01:12:33,423 --> 01:12:36,175
I understand
that you're frustrated,
1890
01:12:36,259 --> 01:12:38,094
but, like, I'm also frustrated.
1891
01:12:38,178 --> 01:12:41,013
And I think you need
to remember that we're both
1892
01:12:41,098 --> 01:12:43,441
in the same situation
right now, right?
1893
01:12:43,525 --> 01:12:45,267
- I don't think we're
both in the same situation.
1894
01:12:45,352 --> 01:12:46,685
Um...
- [scoffs]
1895
01:12:46,770 --> 01:12:48,771
♪ ♪
1896
01:12:48,864 --> 01:12:51,115
- [sighs]
1897
01:12:51,200 --> 01:12:55,277
If this doesn't have
any chance whatsoever,
1898
01:12:55,362 --> 01:12:58,539
I would much
rather hear that you
1899
01:12:58,624 --> 01:13:00,541
genuinely think
we're not compatible,
1900
01:13:00,700 --> 01:13:03,044
and therefore have
no interest in trying.
1901
01:13:03,203 --> 01:13:04,537
And then,
if you want the apartment
1902
01:13:04,621 --> 01:13:06,789
for two months,
knock yourself out.
1903
01:13:06,882 --> 01:13:09,967
♪ ♪
1904
01:13:10,052 --> 01:13:11,719
I'm in this
because I was looking
1905
01:13:11,878 --> 01:13:13,054
for someone to spend
the rest of my life with.
1906
01:13:13,213 --> 01:13:14,880
- Correct, as was I.
1907
01:13:14,965 --> 01:13:18,968
- Fair, and therefore,
I'm going to act accordingly.
1908
01:13:19,052 --> 01:13:21,229
Unless you can tell me
1909
01:13:21,388 --> 01:13:23,305
that there's
any sliver of a chance--
1910
01:13:23,399 --> 01:13:25,224
- But I'm going
to stop you 'cause I'm not
1911
01:13:25,317 --> 01:13:26,725
going to tell
you that right now.
1912
01:13:26,810 --> 01:13:28,319
- If you are not going
to tell me that
1913
01:13:28,404 --> 01:13:30,980
after the amount of time
that we've spent together--
1914
01:13:31,073 --> 01:13:34,316
- I have already told you,
and it's not fair or respectful
1915
01:13:34,401 --> 01:13:36,986
that you keep asking me
the same thing when I'm telling
1916
01:13:37,079 --> 01:13:40,415
you I cannot sit here and tell
you that answer right now.
1917
01:13:40,574 --> 01:13:44,502
And I don't like it when you
continuously try to poke me.
1918
01:13:44,661 --> 01:13:48,423
And I am at a place right now
where you are making me upset.
1919
01:13:48,507 --> 01:13:51,843
And so what's gonna happen is--
I don't like how
1920
01:13:51,927 --> 01:13:54,086
you're speaking to me,
I don't like the way
1921
01:13:54,171 --> 01:13:56,088
you are portraying
this conversation,
1922
01:13:56,181 --> 01:13:57,339
I don't like the way you
portrayed it
1923
01:13:57,424 --> 01:13:58,424
at the dinner table.
1924
01:13:58,508 --> 01:14:00,676
It's actually disgusting to me,
1925
01:14:00,760 --> 01:14:03,345
and so I'm going to get up,
1926
01:14:03,430 --> 01:14:05,773
and I'm going to be
done with this conversation
1927
01:14:05,932 --> 01:14:09,018
for tonight because I don't
like the way you talk to me.
1928
01:14:09,111 --> 01:14:10,019
♪ ♪
1929
01:14:10,103 --> 01:14:11,946
- I don't know...
1930
01:14:12,105 --> 01:14:13,698
♪ ♪
1931
01:14:13,782 --> 01:14:18,277
No, I know that she
has no interest in this.
1932
01:14:18,361 --> 01:14:21,780
I know confidently that
she has no interest in this.
1933
01:14:21,865 --> 01:14:23,541
And if you want to go through
this process because you
1934
01:14:23,700 --> 01:14:25,626
have friends here, you want
to go through this process
1935
01:14:25,711 --> 01:14:27,119
because you enjoy
the experience,
1936
01:14:27,204 --> 01:14:28,546
if you want to go through
this process because you get
1937
01:14:28,630 --> 01:14:30,372
to live in a building
with a bunch of your friends,
1938
01:14:30,466 --> 01:14:32,625
I'm telling you
what I think is the truth.
1939
01:14:32,709 --> 01:14:33,968
- I already told you that I had
a chance to leave yesterday.
1940
01:14:34,052 --> 01:14:35,294
- Sure, you had the chance
to fly
1941
01:14:35,387 --> 01:14:37,221
away from Puerto Rico, whatever.
1942
01:14:37,306 --> 01:14:40,132
I think you create
a false dichotomy
1943
01:14:40,217 --> 01:14:42,384
that we're in a situation
1944
01:14:42,469 --> 01:14:44,729
whereby you somehow didn't know
1945
01:14:44,813 --> 01:14:46,647
what you were getting into
and are now in a position
1946
01:14:46,806 --> 01:14:48,733
where you have
to make a decision.
1947
01:14:48,817 --> 01:14:51,560
- I did know what I was getting
into, and this isn't fair.
1948
01:14:51,653 --> 01:14:54,897
And this is why I have
a very hard time being calm
1949
01:14:54,981 --> 01:14:58,734
and having
an adult conversation:
1950
01:14:58,818 --> 01:14:59,994
because I always feel
1951
01:15:00,078 --> 01:15:02,163
like it goes to the same place.
1952
01:15:10,422 --> 01:15:13,174
- I'm in a position where,
1953
01:15:13,333 --> 01:15:17,086
while on camera
and in many situations,
1954
01:15:17,170 --> 01:15:19,430
she has said that she needs
1955
01:15:19,515 --> 01:15:21,090
more time to make a decision.
1956
01:15:21,174 --> 01:15:23,684
I believe that she
is still here,
1957
01:15:23,769 --> 01:15:25,853
not for the right reasons.
1958
01:15:25,938 --> 01:15:28,597
- Okay,
and that's why I'm telling you
1959
01:15:28,690 --> 01:15:30,441
that that's not fair.
1960
01:15:30,526 --> 01:15:32,109
And I'm not
going to stand for that.
1961
01:15:32,269 --> 01:15:35,696
I'm here for the right reasons,
and that is not okay.
1962
01:15:35,781 --> 01:15:38,449
This is my character,
and this is the person that I'm
1963
01:15:38,534 --> 01:15:41,110
going to be shown as,
and that's not okay
1964
01:15:41,194 --> 01:15:42,954
because I'm a really
[bleep] good person.
1965
01:15:43,038 --> 01:15:45,281
And I came here
with the right intentions.
1966
01:15:45,365 --> 01:15:47,199
And if I didn't
have the right intentions,
1967
01:15:47,292 --> 01:15:49,544
then I wouldn't have gone
through this process.
1968
01:15:49,628 --> 01:15:53,038
I would never, ever,
in a million [bleep] years
1969
01:15:53,123 --> 01:15:56,634
let my family and friends
be subjected to this
1970
01:15:56,793 --> 01:15:59,128
if I wasn't here
for the right reasons.
1971
01:15:59,212 --> 01:16:01,806
So I will not stand here
and have someone try
1972
01:16:01,890 --> 01:16:05,726
to assassinate my character
and say that I'm not here
1973
01:16:05,885 --> 01:16:08,387
for the right reasons,
because that isn't fair.
1974
01:16:08,471 --> 01:16:12,141
- Not a single person
has said "keep going."
1975
01:16:12,225 --> 01:16:14,560
- That is--that is it.
Thank you so much.
1976
01:16:14,644 --> 01:16:16,979
♪ ♪
1977
01:16:17,063 --> 01:16:21,576
- I wish that she would say
how she really feels
1978
01:16:21,735 --> 01:16:25,821
and take the consequences
of those feelings and opinions.
1979
01:16:25,914 --> 01:16:31,335
♪ ♪
1980
01:16:35,507 --> 01:16:38,926
♪ This is our day,
I'm finding my way ♪
1981
01:16:39,085 --> 01:16:41,670
♪ Shine like a star,
I'm finding my way ♪
1982
01:16:41,755 --> 01:16:42,755
♪ ♪
1983
01:16:42,848 --> 01:16:46,008
- Good morning.
- How'd you sl
1984
01:16:46,101 --> 01:16:47,393
- Good.
How did you sleep?
1985
01:16:49,763 --> 01:16:52,440
- I don't want to go.
- [laughs]
1986
01:16:52,524 --> 01:16:53,941
- Most of our couples
have enjoyed
1987
01:16:54,100 --> 01:16:56,435
the last few days
in a Caribbean paradise
1988
01:16:56,519 --> 01:16:58,103
getting acquainted
with their new spouses.
1989
01:16:58,188 --> 01:16:59,688
♪ ♪
1990
01:16:59,773 --> 01:17:02,441
- Oh, it's so bright.
- Oh.
1991
01:17:02,525 --> 01:17:05,194
- Good morning.
I'm gonna miss the weather.
1992
01:17:05,278 --> 01:17:06,787
- Yeah.
1993
01:17:06,872 --> 01:17:08,113
- And probably the piña coladas.
1994
01:17:08,198 --> 01:17:09,782
♪ ♪
1995
01:17:09,866 --> 01:17:11,700
- But now it's time
for our newlyweds
1996
01:17:11,785 --> 01:17:13,035
to head back to Boston.
1997
01:17:13,119 --> 01:17:14,453
- Cheese!
1998
01:17:14,537 --> 01:17:16,955
I feel like Steve
and I connected so well
1999
01:17:17,040 --> 01:17:18,791
and we learned
so much about each other,
2000
01:17:18,884 --> 01:17:21,710
so I'm sad to be leaving
San Juan,
2001
01:17:21,795 --> 01:17:24,296
but I'm excited to start
2002
01:17:24,381 --> 01:17:27,216
our new journey together
as a wedded couple
2003
01:17:27,300 --> 01:17:28,643
that survived our honeymoon.
2004
01:17:28,727 --> 01:17:30,719
[chuckles]
2005
01:17:30,804 --> 01:17:32,647
- Their return
to the real world comes
2006
01:17:32,806 --> 01:17:34,640
with a new set of stressors
and challenges
2007
01:17:34,724 --> 01:17:36,317
that they'll need to conquer
2008
01:17:36,476 --> 01:17:38,986
if they want to build
a successful marriage.
2009
01:17:39,145 --> 01:17:41,313
- What do you have
on your walls at home?
2010
01:17:41,398 --> 01:17:43,232
- I have a lot of quotes.
2011
01:17:43,325 --> 01:17:45,326
- Oh no, you're not--
2012
01:17:45,410 --> 01:17:46,661
Are you kidding me?
2013
01:17:46,745 --> 01:17:48,404
- Like,
not like a lot, but like--
2014
01:17:48,488 --> 01:17:49,664
- Did you hear me at
the wedding when I said,
2015
01:17:49,823 --> 01:17:51,165
"Are you a
'live, laugh, love' sign
2016
01:17:51,249 --> 01:17:52,750
kind of guy,
because I hope not"?
2017
01:17:52,834 --> 01:17:54,502
- I don't even know
what that is.
2018
01:17:54,661 --> 01:17:57,004
- Like, that means like
there's always the moms
2019
01:17:57,089 --> 01:17:58,255
who go to HomeGoods
or something,
2020
01:17:58,340 --> 01:17:59,581
and they buy these signs
that say...
2021
01:17:59,666 --> 01:18:01,083
- Oh, no, no, no.
- "Be positive,
2022
01:18:01,167 --> 01:18:03,669
hang in there, love, family."
2023
01:18:03,753 --> 01:18:06,430
- No, I don't have, like,
a Hallmark store my kitchen.
2024
01:18:06,515 --> 01:18:07,765
- That's what
I'm concerned about.
2025
01:18:07,924 --> 01:18:09,266
The honeymoon's over,
2026
01:18:09,351 --> 01:18:11,176
and I can't wait
to get back home,
2027
01:18:11,261 --> 01:18:13,262
where it's just going
to be my husband and I,
2028
01:18:13,346 --> 01:18:16,265
and we can focus on ourselves
and our goals and our future,
2029
01:18:16,349 --> 01:18:18,016
because that's
what I'm here for.
2030
01:18:18,101 --> 01:18:20,152
- I think normalcy
will be good for us.
2031
01:18:23,532 --> 01:18:25,441
- You're not
going back and having
2032
01:18:25,534 --> 01:18:27,618
an easy 48 hours.
2033
01:18:27,777 --> 01:18:29,445
Let's just be very clear.
2034
01:18:29,529 --> 01:18:31,622
I want to get my husband
2035
01:18:31,707 --> 01:18:34,375
out of his crappy
landlord situation.
2036
01:18:34,459 --> 01:18:35,617
I said to him,
"The universe is telling you
2037
01:18:35,702 --> 01:18:37,202
"to get the hell out of there.
2038
01:18:37,287 --> 01:18:40,214
You're coming with me,
sans bedbugs."
2039
01:18:40,373 --> 01:18:43,208
We're gonna remove
that stress from our life,
2040
01:18:43,301 --> 01:18:45,636
and I'm looking forward
to, like,
2041
01:18:45,721 --> 01:18:51,383
TV nights and him
cooking me burgers.
2042
01:18:51,468 --> 01:18:52,893
- I think we can get
through Monday.
2043
01:18:53,052 --> 01:18:55,387
I think it'll just be
a tiring 48 hours.
2044
01:18:55,480 --> 01:18:57,222
- Good thing you
have such a great wife.
2045
01:18:57,307 --> 01:19:01,059
[both laugh]
2046
01:19:01,153 --> 01:19:02,486
- Are you
nervous about anything?
2047
01:19:04,147 --> 01:19:06,657
Going home?
2048
01:19:06,742 --> 01:19:10,661
- I am nervous that, like,
maybe we start living together
2049
01:19:10,746 --> 01:19:12,413
and then that's
when we see, like,
2050
01:19:12,497 --> 01:19:14,081
"Okay, I don't like that."
2051
01:19:14,166 --> 01:19:16,825
But I feel like
we get along fine,
2052
01:19:16,910 --> 01:19:18,502
that that won't be the case.
2053
01:19:18,587 --> 01:19:21,213
But, yes, that is in my mind.
2054
01:19:22,999 --> 01:19:25,926
He has a very strong mind,
and he's opinionated,
2055
01:19:26,011 --> 01:19:29,346
and he doesn't care what
you say or what people think.
2056
01:19:29,431 --> 01:19:32,349
So best-case scenario
is that we move in together,
2057
01:19:32,434 --> 01:19:35,269
we get along
and have zero arguments.
2058
01:19:35,428 --> 01:19:37,938
Worst-case scenario is that we
move in together
2059
01:19:38,097 --> 01:19:41,025
and he feels like I'm not
the one for him
2060
01:19:41,109 --> 01:19:43,602
and I feel like
he's not the one for me.
2061
01:19:43,695 --> 01:19:45,446
- I'm 90--
2062
01:19:45,530 --> 01:19:49,107
Like 98% that we'll
be smooth when we go back.
2063
01:19:49,192 --> 01:19:52,778
But there's a little 2%
that's like--it worries me.
2064
01:19:52,862 --> 01:19:55,039
♪ ♪
2065
01:19:55,123 --> 01:19:57,124
People get distracted,
and they change, and all that.
2066
01:19:57,209 --> 01:19:58,784
I don't think you will.
- Mm-hmm.
2067
01:19:58,877 --> 01:20:00,869
- I just hope that we don't let
little [bleep]
2068
01:20:00,954 --> 01:20:02,213
like that impact us.
2069
01:20:02,297 --> 01:20:03,547
- Yeah, that's what
I was gonna say.
2070
01:20:03,632 --> 01:20:04,715
- When you're tired
at the end of the day,
2071
01:20:04,800 --> 01:20:06,291
still put effort
into this marriage.
2072
01:20:06,376 --> 01:20:07,626
- That's what I
was gonna say to you.
2073
01:20:07,710 --> 01:20:09,136
♪ ♪
2074
01:20:09,221 --> 01:20:12,056
Don't forget the conversations
that we've had here
2075
01:20:12,140 --> 01:20:14,883
about being patient
with each other.
2076
01:20:14,976 --> 01:20:16,385
- We'll be okay.
2077
01:20:16,469 --> 01:20:17,553
I love you.
You know.
2078
01:20:17,637 --> 01:20:20,305
I want you to know that.
2079
01:20:20,398 --> 01:20:23,141
- What is that?
- What the hell is this?
2080
01:20:23,235 --> 01:20:25,152
- Is that fish?
- Open yours.
2081
01:20:25,237 --> 01:20:28,063
- Oh, that's mine.
2082
01:20:28,147 --> 01:20:30,399
- Why--why is this my plate?
2083
01:20:30,483 --> 01:20:33,828
- We have had, like,
our ups and downs so far
2084
01:20:33,912 --> 01:20:35,153
on this honeymoon.
2085
01:20:35,238 --> 01:20:37,072
Every couple has
their differences.
2086
01:20:37,156 --> 01:20:39,908
I don't expect us to always
agree on things as long as,
2087
01:20:39,993 --> 01:20:42,670
you know, we're respecting
each other's differences.
2088
01:20:42,754 --> 01:20:45,172
But the most important thing
is communication.
2089
01:20:45,331 --> 01:20:47,416
Communication is
definitely something that we
2090
01:20:47,500 --> 01:20:50,094
still need to work on
in this marriage.
2091
01:20:51,504 --> 01:20:53,264
- My alarm goes off at 4:00.
2092
01:20:53,423 --> 01:20:55,933
Will that be an issue?
Would it help?
2093
01:20:56,092 --> 01:20:57,685
- That's funny?
2094
01:20:57,769 --> 01:20:59,511
- I'm just asking you, is
that gonna be an issue or what?
2095
01:20:59,596 --> 01:21:00,771
- Not--
2096
01:21:00,856 --> 01:21:01,930
Do you have that
alarm clock that go,
2097
01:21:02,023 --> 01:21:04,016
ehhh--ehhh--ehhh?
2098
01:21:04,100 --> 01:21:05,017
- Yeah.
2099
01:21:05,101 --> 01:21:07,695
♪ ♪
2100
01:21:07,854 --> 01:21:10,364
- Bye, Puerto Rico.
2101
01:21:10,448 --> 01:21:12,190
Vámonos!
- Take it easy, San Juan.
2102
01:21:12,275 --> 01:21:14,359
- I mean, we started
our marriage like this.
2103
01:21:14,444 --> 01:21:17,946
We have to end
the honeymoon like this.
2104
01:21:18,031 --> 01:21:20,282
- Say goodbye
to your little rose petals.
2105
01:21:20,375 --> 01:21:21,458
- Bye!
2106
01:21:21,543 --> 01:21:23,035
- I'm so sad.
2107
01:21:23,119 --> 01:21:24,962
- Ha, I'm so sad!
- I am!
2108
01:21:25,046 --> 01:21:26,130
That was so cute.
2109
01:21:26,214 --> 01:21:27,381
- Ready?
2110
01:21:27,540 --> 01:21:29,300
- Back to Boston,
leaving paradise,
2111
01:21:29,459 --> 01:21:32,377
back to reality, ugh...
2112
01:21:32,462 --> 01:21:33,712
- Okay.
2113
01:21:33,796 --> 01:21:37,716
♪ ♪
2114
01:21:37,800 --> 01:21:39,727
- If I could describe
my marriage in one word,
2115
01:21:39,811 --> 01:21:41,219
I would say it's a mess.
2116
01:21:41,304 --> 01:21:48,226
♪ ♪
2117
01:21:49,479 --> 01:21:51,730
- If I could send a message
to Alyssa right now,
2118
01:21:51,814 --> 01:21:55,576
it would be that,
while she might not think
2119
01:21:55,660 --> 01:21:57,578
that the experts gave her
what she was looking for,
2120
01:21:57,662 --> 01:21:59,237
I think that they gave me
what I was looking for.
2121
01:21:59,322 --> 01:22:01,081
♪ ♪
2122
01:22:01,166 --> 01:22:05,160
- I think working on this
is a very hard thing to do.
2123
01:22:05,244 --> 01:22:09,915
- I did everything
I could to make it work
2124
01:22:10,008 --> 01:22:11,750
in the ways that I can control.
2125
01:22:11,834 --> 01:22:13,344
♪ ♪
2126
01:22:13,428 --> 01:22:15,930
- ♪ Hold my head above
the surface ♪
2127
01:22:16,014 --> 01:22:17,848
♪ Keep breathin' ♪
2128
01:22:17,933 --> 01:22:20,092
- I don't know what
is supposed to happen with us.
2129
01:22:20,176 --> 01:22:22,928
Like, this isn't my fault.
2130
01:22:23,012 --> 01:22:24,855
I've put in a lot of time
2131
01:22:25,014 --> 01:22:27,182
and effort and work to be here.
2132
01:22:27,266 --> 01:22:29,526
I know I'm a good person.
2133
01:22:29,686 --> 01:22:31,186
And if you don't like me,
then that's your loss.
2134
01:22:31,270 --> 01:22:35,941
♪ ♪
2135
01:22:36,025 --> 01:22:38,610
- Next time
on "Married at First Sight"...
2136
01:22:38,695 --> 01:22:41,613
- This is home.
- Oh my gosh, it's so cute!
2137
01:22:41,698 --> 01:22:42,864
There's a part of me
that's nervous
2138
01:22:42,949 --> 01:22:46,284
about living with
someone that I barely know.
2139
01:22:46,369 --> 01:22:47,452
- Have you ever lived
with a woman?
2140
01:22:47,537 --> 01:22:50,714
- No, never.
2141
01:22:50,799 --> 01:22:52,708
- I didn't know
you had a girl roommate.
2142
01:22:52,792 --> 01:22:54,543
- Yeah.
2143
01:22:54,636 --> 01:22:56,136
- I'm annoyed with Mike.
2144
01:22:56,295 --> 01:22:57,888
This is the first time
that I'm hearing
2145
01:22:57,973 --> 01:23:00,557
about him having
a female roommate.
2146
01:23:00,642 --> 01:23:02,559
- They got all
the pots and pans and stuff.
2147
01:23:02,719 --> 01:23:04,720
- Man, so you
really got no excuse.
2148
01:23:04,804 --> 01:23:06,138
When you going shopping?
2149
01:23:06,222 --> 01:23:08,056
- He's made it very clear
that he wants
2150
01:23:08,149 --> 01:23:11,735
home-cooked meals,
consistently, every single day.
2151
01:23:11,820 --> 01:23:13,812
- Mark's life has
pretty much blown up,
2152
01:23:13,896 --> 01:23:16,064
hanging on by a thread,
if I'm being honest.
2153
01:23:16,149 --> 01:23:17,825
I'm having a really
hard time with you, Mark.
2154
01:23:17,909 --> 01:23:20,661
I feel like I'm getting
two different versions of you.
2155
01:23:20,820 --> 01:23:22,663
- I mean,
it just scares me a little bit.
2156
01:23:22,822 --> 01:23:25,157
Like, I don't want my kids
to worry about money.
2157
01:23:25,241 --> 01:23:27,167
- You've been aggressive,
you've been yelling,
2158
01:23:27,326 --> 01:23:28,827
and I'm trying not
to get to that point.
2159
01:23:28,920 --> 01:23:31,422
- She has no interest
in being married to me.
2160
01:23:31,506 --> 01:23:33,331
- So are you
saying you want a divorce?
2161
01:23:33,416 --> 01:23:37,344
♪ ♪
2162
01:23:37,429 --> 01:23:38,345
- [pops lips]
2163
01:23:39,255 --> 01:23:42,016
♪ ♪