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- Today, I'm getting married.
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- Three days ago,
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ten singles took
a brave leap of faith
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in order to find love.
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- Nice to meet you.
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- Same here.
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- They married as
complete strangers.
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[cheers and applause]
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- I think she's beautiful.
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I think this is gonna be
a great success.
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♪ ♪
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♪ Puerto Rico ♪
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- Last time, our five couples
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left for their honeymoon,
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and things got off
to a rocky start.
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- We had a little situation.
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- People were walking away,
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she's gonna say,
"I wanna fight you now."
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- I just have learned
that when somebody
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makes me feel that way,
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I should probably
just take a second.
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- Having me in your life
is gonna be helpful
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to you to work through
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these situations.
- I'm sure.
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♪ ♪
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- So why is it so scary
for you to be vulnerable?
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- I still can't help
being cautious.
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- Don't let the people--how
they mistreated you...
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- Mm.
- Dictate our future, because
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this man, who's your husband,
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will cherish you.
- Mm-hmm.
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- ♪ I've been workin'
on the island ♪
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[cork pops]
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- [yelps]
- [chuckling]
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- I do feel like I'm developing
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really strong feelings
for Steve.
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Ah, we're up really high.
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- I gotcha.
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- We just met, so we kinda just
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have to assume
there's gonna be conflict.
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- I think good people
just respect
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each other's boundaries,
and that's it.
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- But when
you first meet somebody,
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you don't know their boundaries.
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- We can agree to disagree.
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[dramatic sting]
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- Think you went into this
expecting
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the perfect person.
- I--no, I don't
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expect the perfect person.
- And when you got
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somebody that wasn't--
- No,
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there's been nothing
but differences
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in our values and our beliefs.
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- There was never a point
in this process
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where you put in an effort.
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I am at this--
- That's not true.
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- I am at this point--
- And I'm not gonna
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stand here on camera
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if he's gonna say that, mm-mm.
- I--
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- He just called me
a [bleep] liar.
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[dramatic sting]
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ Move, move,
pick up your shoes ♪
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- And tonight,
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our couples continue
to grow closer.
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- Like, I love him.
He's the one, that's it.
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- Oh, my God, you love him?
- You love him?
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- And now I have found my queen.
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I deleted my Instagram
today for you.
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- Mm-hmm.
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- I went and saw a psychic,
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and she said to me,
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"I feel very strongly that
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"you're gonna meet
your soulmate,
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and he has
an eagle tattoo."
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- [laughs]
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- If you--
- I know if I offered you,
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but--
- If you offered me
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another woman, why would I not?
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- It's not happening.
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- I think it just kills me
that you're, like,
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already putting doubt on us.
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- "I'm sorry you felt that way"
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isn't really an apology, though.
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- Well, you want me to apologize
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to you how you want me to.
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I'm not going to do that.
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- I don't want to [bleep] go
swimming with him.
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Like, I'm--I'm not happy!
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- Feel free to step out.
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- Okay, I will.
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[sighs]
- Come on, dude.
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You're so stupid.
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- You play victim so much.
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You're manipulative.
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- That's really rude.
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- I don't care
if it's rude or not.
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I'm telling you because
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you're rude.
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[dramatic sting]
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- ♪ It's all or nothing ♪
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- This is
"Married At First Sight."
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- ♪ There's no other way ♪
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♪ It's all or nothing ♪
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♪ ♪
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♪ ♪
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- Just waking up.
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Looking forward to, uh,
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doing some activities today.
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- Get some more sleep in.
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- It's morning time,
and this man
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went to the gym and
came back to lay down.
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I woke up, he wasn't here again,
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but it's his ritual,
so I guess it's okay.
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- Here we are, husband and wife.
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We've had one day
in our honeymoon so far.
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A little bumpy,
but today's a new day.
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- Even though our couples
have only known each other
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for three days,
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it's important
for them to look forward
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to what
their new lives will look like
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as husband and wife,
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which may be easier
for some than others.
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- You know,
I never really thought
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that my--I guess my honeymoon
would be like this.
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I definitely didn't think that
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I would be laying in a bed
alone, for example.
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So it's definitely not
what I expected.
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- It sucks waking up
without the person
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that I thought I was gonna
wake up with today.
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But, you know, I'm
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still being optimistic
and trying to look
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for the light
at the end of the tunnel.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ Never tell me why
the ocean is alive ♪
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♪ We're runnin'
through the sand ♪
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♪ We threw away our plans ♪
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♪ So nothin' left to do,
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♪ There's nothing left
to prove, prove, prove ♪
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- What's wrong?
- Gimme your arm.
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It's uncomfortable.
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- Oh, you're biting me, though.
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- Yeah.
- You hungry?
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- [inhales]
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Always.
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You want some Goldfish?
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- No, I don't want any Goldfish.
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I had that before bed.
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- Have you ever eaten
a bowl of Goldfish
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with milk like cereal?
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♪ ♪
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- I do it plain.
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- Dry?
- Yeah, yeah.
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Because it gets soggy,
and it gets really gross.
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- I'm sorry
that someone hurt you.
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I will fix it.
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[chuckles]
- No one hurt me.
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It's just, it gets soggy.
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- I think our chemistry
is kinda undeniable.
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Pink bathrobe?
- Nope, this isn't my--
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This isn't my color.
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- I think you're
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definitely doing yourself
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a disservice.
You'd look great in pink.
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I have no complaints.
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[chuckles]
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[laughs]
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[high-pitched] You're gonna
make me answer that?
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[laughing]
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A lady never kisses and tells.
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Can't do it, can't do it.
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[laughs]
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- Wow.
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- I know.
- [laughs]
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- Have you ever had
a piña colada?
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- I had one yesterday.
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- Did you?
- Yeah.
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- We're gonna go make some
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piña coladas today.
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- Well, that sounds
like it's gonna be fun.
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- Yeah.
- I have a great idea.
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I think that's--I think
we should
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definitely explore a drink.
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I think that's fun to do,
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I think
we just shouldn't have several
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in a fast period of time.
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♪ ♪
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[both exhale]
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- [chuckles]
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- We don't want any repeats
of Day One, that's all.
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- [chuckling]
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- No, seriously.
- She should be upset.
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- She was trying to tell
people in this bus
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what language to speak in.
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We're all adults.
You wanna speak English,
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you wanna speak Spanish,
you speak what you want.
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- Yeah.
- Don't come over here
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telling people what to do,
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'cause we're adults
and we don't play that.
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- I honestly think it was more
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that, like, I was really tired.
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♪ ♪
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And I think that
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with, like, not on
much--not enough food
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or water and--
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And your personality
just took it.
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But I don't want that to be
a repeat.
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I don't want, like--
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- For your sake,
I don't wanna do that.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ No, I'm not just anybody ♪
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♪ I'm here to catch a ball ♪
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♪ Nothing can stop me ♪
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- Hey, here's your breakfast.
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- Thank you.
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♪ ♪
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- I'm gonna--I'm gonna
try to get you to drink coffee
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at some point on this trip.
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Just put it on--
- I drink coffee.
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I just don't drink
your kind of coffee.
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♪ ♪
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- Still no?
- [sighs]
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- I'ma get it right.
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I'ma get it right.
How 'bout you tell me,
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how do you like your coffee,
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and then next time,
I'll get it right?
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- I like caramel iced coffee
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with some cream and some sugar.
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- Caramel iced coffee,
cream and sugar, okay.
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♪ ♪
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How'd you sleep last night?
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- I slept good.
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- Yeah?
- What about you?
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You were knocked out so early.
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- Yeah.
- I left you and went
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to go explore.
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[chuckles]
- Yeah, but then
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you came in bed.
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And I was just up just thinking.
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Thinking about a lot.
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♪ ♪
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- Like what?
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- Um...
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You know, we had that
little argument yesterday.
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Wasn't really that big,
but it was a little tiff.
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♪ ♪
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And even before that,
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I felt like since the wedding,
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there's been some type
of distance between us.
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♪ ♪
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I--what--you do feel like
I'm one-sided in thinking that?
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- I definitely do.
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♪ ♪
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- I would've liked
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for us to have made
a little more progress
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in our connection.
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And I feel like
part of the reason why
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we probably aren't as connected
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as I would like us to be
is because
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I'm not
the most talkative person.
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And I'm just afraid
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of not putting 100% into this.
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- Okay.
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I do think that he's
definitely overthinking.
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And like, as soon as
he woke up, that was, like,
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the first thing,
you know, on his mind.
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And if Mike continues
267
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to get inside of his head when
it comes to things like that,
268
00:08:47,610 --> 00:08:49,269
in the end, he will be the one
269
00:08:49,353 --> 00:08:51,354
that will ruin
this whole experience
270
00:08:51,438 --> 00:08:53,189
if he continues
to think like that.
271
00:08:53,282 --> 00:08:55,858
I also can't keep
getting out of my head
272
00:08:55,943 --> 00:08:58,444
what your sisters said about
you just thinking of the worst.
273
00:08:58,529 --> 00:08:59,612
- Michael always, like,
274
00:08:59,705 --> 00:09:01,114
assumes the worst.
275
00:09:01,207 --> 00:09:02,874
He doesn't expect worse,
he always assumes it first.
276
00:09:02,959 --> 00:09:04,709
So he's always like,
"Okay, this is not
277
00:09:04,794 --> 00:09:06,369
gonna go well," just so
he's not disappointed.
278
00:09:06,453 --> 00:09:07,879
- Okay.
279
00:09:09,382 --> 00:09:10,549
It's like,
280
00:09:10,708 --> 00:09:13,385
how can you come
to that conclusion after
281
00:09:13,469 --> 00:09:15,387
a couple of hours
of being on a honeymoon?
282
00:09:15,546 --> 00:09:18,306
- Because this is
a very unique situation, right?
283
00:09:18,465 --> 00:09:19,465
- Mm-hmm.
- And I don't wanna
284
00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:20,717
mess this up.
285
00:09:20,810 --> 00:09:21,968
- Yeah.
- So maybe I am overthinking,
286
00:09:22,052 --> 00:09:23,311
for sure, but like,
287
00:09:23,396 --> 00:09:24,729
this is serious.
288
00:09:24,814 --> 00:09:26,639
I got a ring on my finger.
289
00:09:26,732 --> 00:09:30,977
So I feel like I have to make
the conscious decision
290
00:09:31,070 --> 00:09:33,738
every little moment I get
to try to get to know you.
291
00:09:33,823 --> 00:09:35,574
It's crucial.
292
00:09:35,733 --> 00:09:39,652
- Okay.
- So yes, I am overthinking.
293
00:09:39,737 --> 00:09:41,246
Yes, maybe I am being
a little negative,
294
00:09:41,405 --> 00:09:43,248
but--but it's just because
I don't wanna ruin this.
295
00:09:45,418 --> 00:09:47,493
- But you're gonna ruin it
if you keep overthinking it.
296
00:09:47,578 --> 00:09:54,509
♪ ♪
297
00:10:02,176 --> 00:10:05,270
♪ ♪
298
00:10:05,429 --> 00:10:08,014
- I hoped that I would be
spending my first morning
299
00:10:08,107 --> 00:10:10,099
with my husband.
300
00:10:10,192 --> 00:10:12,602
But unfortunately,
that's--that's not the case.
301
00:10:12,686 --> 00:10:16,606
♪ ♪
302
00:10:16,690 --> 00:10:18,608
This is the cards
that I've been dealt.
303
00:10:18,692 --> 00:10:21,202
And I really hope
that Chris and I
304
00:10:21,287 --> 00:10:23,622
can figure out where
this is gonna take us.
305
00:10:23,781 --> 00:10:25,948
♪ ♪
306
00:10:26,033 --> 00:10:29,044
But I definitely sit here
and wonder
307
00:10:29,203 --> 00:10:32,121
why this happened to me
and how this happened to me.
308
00:10:32,206 --> 00:10:34,049
And like, why me?
309
00:10:34,133 --> 00:10:36,468
[wind blowing]
310
00:10:36,627 --> 00:10:40,138
♪ ♪
311
00:10:40,222 --> 00:10:42,382
- Waking up
alone on the honeymoon,
312
00:10:42,466 --> 00:10:45,134
it's not the way
I wanted it to be.
313
00:10:45,219 --> 00:10:48,888
♪ ♪
314
00:10:48,972 --> 00:10:51,974
I think that Alyssa believes
that I'm disrespecting her.
315
00:10:52,068 --> 00:10:54,560
But I think that she
views disagreement
316
00:10:54,645 --> 00:10:56,479
often as disrespect.
317
00:10:56,563 --> 00:10:58,490
I expected to have
incompatibilities.
318
00:10:58,649 --> 00:10:59,741
I just didn't expect them
to come
319
00:10:59,825 --> 00:11:01,651
the very first day right away.
320
00:11:01,735 --> 00:11:02,911
I want to be married,
321
00:11:03,070 --> 00:11:05,321
I want to have a wife,
322
00:11:05,406 --> 00:11:07,749
because I want that next-level
relationship that you only get
323
00:11:07,908 --> 00:11:09,409
by putting in that kind of work.
324
00:11:09,493 --> 00:11:11,002
So I'm hoping that
325
00:11:11,087 --> 00:11:12,161
maybe she hasn't gotten
the full picture
326
00:11:12,246 --> 00:11:14,163
of how I feel about things.
327
00:11:14,248 --> 00:11:16,341
But I haven't given up hope yet.
328
00:11:16,500 --> 00:11:19,427
I'm not happy, but I still
think that there's a chance.
329
00:11:23,599 --> 00:11:26,101
- ♪ I just wanna be
next to you ♪
330
00:11:26,185 --> 00:11:28,353
♪ Baby, can I get
next to you ♪
331
00:11:28,512 --> 00:11:30,021
♪ I just wanna be
next to you ♪
332
00:11:30,180 --> 00:11:31,690
♪ Baby, can I get
next to you ♪
333
00:11:33,183 --> 00:11:34,767
- Almost there, what about you?
334
00:11:34,852 --> 00:11:35,768
- Yeah.
335
00:11:35,861 --> 00:11:37,353
♪ ♪
336
00:11:37,446 --> 00:11:39,522
It is nice waking up
with my husband.
337
00:11:39,606 --> 00:11:42,191
- Get over here, wifey.
338
00:11:42,276 --> 00:11:43,943
- We connected right away,
339
00:11:44,027 --> 00:11:46,863
so it doesn't actually
feel that strange,
340
00:11:46,947 --> 00:11:49,532
which is boggling my mind.
341
00:11:49,616 --> 00:11:51,960
But we're still
getting to know each other.
342
00:11:52,119 --> 00:11:53,545
Even though we feel really
comfortable around each other,
343
00:11:53,704 --> 00:11:54,704
we just--
344
00:11:54,788 --> 00:11:56,539
Yeah, there's still so much
345
00:11:56,623 --> 00:11:58,791
to still do with each other.
346
00:11:58,876 --> 00:12:00,719
[giggles]
347
00:12:00,803 --> 00:12:02,462
- I can lip kiss
without brushing teeth.
348
00:12:02,555 --> 00:12:03,463
That's about it.
349
00:12:03,556 --> 00:12:05,047
No tongue action.
350
00:12:05,132 --> 00:12:06,808
[chuckles]
- Okay, thanks
351
00:12:06,967 --> 00:12:09,310
for the FYI.
[giggles]
352
00:12:09,395 --> 00:12:12,981
We didn't have sex yet,
but I wouldn't be surprised
353
00:12:13,065 --> 00:12:15,141
if that happens
sooner than later.
354
00:12:15,234 --> 00:12:16,642
[giggles]
355
00:12:16,727 --> 00:12:18,394
♪ ♪
356
00:12:18,479 --> 00:12:19,654
- This is nice.
357
00:12:19,813 --> 00:12:20,897
I've been traveling
358
00:12:20,981 --> 00:12:22,315
so much, cooking my own food
359
00:12:22,399 --> 00:12:23,649
or having to go get it.
360
00:12:23,734 --> 00:12:24,984
- Mm-hmm.
- Lucky to get it
361
00:12:25,077 --> 00:12:26,494
brought to me.
362
00:12:26,579 --> 00:12:28,738
- And now you're on
your honeymoon
363
00:12:28,822 --> 00:12:31,082
with your wife, and we get
364
00:12:31,167 --> 00:12:33,075
to go to the ocean today,
hopefully.
365
00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:34,753
♪ ♪
366
00:12:34,837 --> 00:12:36,671
- One thing that I really love
367
00:12:36,756 --> 00:12:38,581
is to find a campground
on the ocean.
368
00:12:38,665 --> 00:12:40,416
- Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
369
00:12:40,501 --> 00:12:43,169
- You wake up out of your tent,
and you're just already there.
370
00:12:43,253 --> 00:12:45,171
- I don't like to camp.
371
00:12:45,255 --> 00:12:48,349
♪ ♪
372
00:12:48,434 --> 00:12:51,344
I don't really enjoy, like,
being out
373
00:12:51,437 --> 00:12:54,180
on a campground.
374
00:12:54,264 --> 00:12:56,432
♪ ♪
375
00:12:56,517 --> 00:12:58,851
- What don't you like about it?
376
00:12:58,936 --> 00:13:03,782
- I just like having, like,
a shower, like, a bathroom.
377
00:13:03,941 --> 00:13:05,525
- They have those
at campgrounds sometimes,
378
00:13:05,609 --> 00:13:07,869
you know.
- I know, but, like,
379
00:13:07,953 --> 00:13:09,695
it's not the same thing.
380
00:13:09,789 --> 00:13:11,364
♪ ♪
381
00:13:11,448 --> 00:13:13,875
- I do go on these adventures,
382
00:13:13,959 --> 00:13:16,619
and it's definitely
a big part of who I am
383
00:13:16,703 --> 00:13:20,373
and something that I've always
wanted to share with my wife.
384
00:13:20,457 --> 00:13:23,543
- I just don't like
being outside sleeping.
385
00:13:23,627 --> 00:13:26,295
♪ ♪
386
00:13:26,388 --> 00:13:27,722
- I still think we should camp
387
00:13:27,807 --> 00:13:29,382
on the ocean one day.
388
00:13:29,466 --> 00:13:31,717
- As long as it's inside.
389
00:13:31,811 --> 00:13:34,729
♪ ♪
390
00:13:34,888 --> 00:13:37,139
- ♪ Come on, everybody ♪
391
00:13:37,224 --> 00:13:40,652
♪ Scream if you
wanna go faster ♪
392
00:13:40,811 --> 00:13:42,320
♪ We're going
on my spaceship ♪
393
00:13:42,404 --> 00:13:44,897
♪ Heading to the moon ♪
394
00:13:44,982 --> 00:13:46,232
♪ ♪
395
00:13:46,325 --> 00:13:47,408
- Morning.
396
00:13:47,493 --> 00:13:48,734
- 'Sup, beautiful?
397
00:13:48,828 --> 00:13:49,994
Waking up next
398
00:13:50,079 --> 00:13:51,571
to my wife
is always a beautiful thing.
399
00:13:51,664 --> 00:13:53,665
You know, she--she smiles
right when she sees me.
400
00:13:53,749 --> 00:13:55,491
I--I think
she naturally does that.
401
00:13:55,576 --> 00:13:56,918
She doesn't even realize it.
402
00:13:57,002 --> 00:13:59,087
And she smiles every time
she opens her eyes
403
00:13:59,246 --> 00:14:00,162
when she looks at me.
404
00:14:00,256 --> 00:14:01,497
I think it's--she's enjoying
405
00:14:01,590 --> 00:14:03,424
our moment of just waking up.
406
00:14:03,584 --> 00:14:05,927
I think she's trying to cherish
this whole honeymoon,
407
00:14:06,011 --> 00:14:08,680
even little key details,
and I love that, I truly do.
408
00:14:10,349 --> 00:14:13,768
To--did I do better to--last
night with, um, cuddling?
409
00:14:13,927 --> 00:14:15,595
- Hell no.
- [laughs]
410
00:14:15,688 --> 00:14:16,938
- [laughs]
411
00:14:17,097 --> 00:14:19,190
- I'm trying, I'm trying.
412
00:14:19,349 --> 00:14:21,851
- But it's okay.
You're a work in progress.
413
00:14:21,935 --> 00:14:23,027
- Tell me what I need to do.
414
00:14:23,186 --> 00:14:24,270
- Um...
- Tell me what I need to do
415
00:14:24,354 --> 00:14:25,780
to get my cuddling game up,
416
00:14:25,865 --> 00:14:29,450
'cause last night, I thought
I did a phenomenal job.
417
00:14:29,535 --> 00:14:31,611
I thought--I swear
I was touching you.
418
00:14:31,704 --> 00:14:33,446
- No, you didn't.
- I didn't touch you at all?
419
00:14:33,530 --> 00:14:34,873
- You rolled over.
- Really?
420
00:14:35,032 --> 00:14:35,957
Wow.
421
00:14:36,116 --> 00:14:36,958
I gotta work on it.
422
00:14:37,042 --> 00:14:38,034
- Just like--
423
00:14:38,127 --> 00:14:39,043
Or, you know what, maybe we
424
00:14:39,128 --> 00:14:40,044
should do, like, you know,
425
00:14:40,129 --> 00:14:42,038
big spoon, little spoon.
426
00:14:42,131 --> 00:14:44,790
Like, I roll over
and you're behind me?
427
00:14:44,875 --> 00:14:46,042
- But I feel like I'm too big.
428
00:14:46,126 --> 00:14:47,552
It's all right,
get some practice, right?
429
00:14:47,711 --> 00:14:49,220
- Like that--yeah,
see, this will be good
430
00:14:49,305 --> 00:14:50,630
and you
can fall asleep like this.
431
00:14:50,714 --> 00:14:52,140
- Your body's so hot, though.
432
00:14:52,224 --> 00:14:53,633
- No, it's not.
433
00:14:53,717 --> 00:14:56,060
- I feel like a--
- You just sweat so much.
434
00:14:56,219 --> 00:14:57,470
- It's what I'm saying,
so, like--
435
00:14:57,554 --> 00:14:58,563
- Yeah, we can't cuddle
until we figure out
436
00:14:58,647 --> 00:15:00,148
this sweating problem.
437
00:15:00,232 --> 00:15:02,475
I don't wanna wake up
and you're dripping.
438
00:15:02,559 --> 00:15:03,976
You know,
I can't take the sweat.
439
00:15:04,069 --> 00:15:05,061
- [laughs]
440
00:15:05,154 --> 00:15:06,646
- I can't.
It's so much.
441
00:15:06,739 --> 00:15:07,989
- It's like one of those things
that just look good
442
00:15:08,073 --> 00:15:10,658
until you have it.
443
00:15:10,743 --> 00:15:11,734
- You know how
444
00:15:11,818 --> 00:15:12,660
sweaty you get?
445
00:15:12,745 --> 00:15:13,828
- No.
446
00:15:13,913 --> 00:15:15,413
[laughs]
447
00:15:15,497 --> 00:15:16,748
- Honestly,
448
00:15:16,832 --> 00:15:17,665
right now, I give up.
449
00:15:17,750 --> 00:15:19,083
[laughs]
450
00:15:19,242 --> 00:15:20,001
- Might be the nerves,
though, 'cause
451
00:15:20,085 --> 00:15:21,252
you know, sleeping
452
00:15:21,337 --> 00:15:22,420
next to a beautiful woman.
453
00:15:22,504 --> 00:15:24,413
- It's not that.
454
00:15:24,498 --> 00:15:26,174
[laughter]
455
00:15:26,258 --> 00:15:27,416
- No?
- No.
456
00:15:27,501 --> 00:15:28,593
He needs to go
457
00:15:28,752 --> 00:15:30,094
to the doctors
and see if they could
458
00:15:30,179 --> 00:15:31,754
give him Botox injections
under his arms
459
00:15:31,847 --> 00:15:34,098
and see if that will
help him out,
460
00:15:34,183 --> 00:15:37,176
'cause I can't be waking up
to a soaked left side
461
00:15:37,269 --> 00:15:39,270
of the bed.
462
00:15:39,355 --> 00:15:40,521
Don't make that face.
I'm serious!
463
00:15:40,606 --> 00:15:42,181
[laughs]
464
00:15:42,274 --> 00:15:44,934
♪ ♪
465
00:15:45,018 --> 00:15:47,362
- ♪ Summer afternoon ♪
466
00:15:47,446 --> 00:15:50,356
♪ Yeah, I wanna stand up
when you move ♪
467
00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:53,025
- Even though our couples are
newlyweds on their honeymoon,
468
00:15:53,110 --> 00:15:55,277
they still
barely know one another.
469
00:15:55,362 --> 00:15:56,195
- Keep goin', you got it.
[cork pops]
470
00:15:56,279 --> 00:15:57,121
- [squeals]
471
00:15:57,206 --> 00:15:58,623
[laughter]
472
00:15:58,782 --> 00:16:00,366
- So unlike
traditional honeymooners,
473
00:16:00,450 --> 00:16:02,368
who are already in love
and use this time
474
00:16:02,452 --> 00:16:04,370
to grow even more intimate
with each other,
475
00:16:04,463 --> 00:16:06,798
our couples must use this time
to get to know
476
00:16:06,882 --> 00:16:08,633
this brand-new person
477
00:16:08,792 --> 00:16:10,468
that they have legally committed
478
00:16:10,552 --> 00:16:12,136
to spend
the rest of their life with.
479
00:16:13,555 --> 00:16:14,639
- I know you're a snack-a-holic,
480
00:16:14,798 --> 00:16:15,965
so I don't want you
getting hungry.
481
00:16:16,049 --> 00:16:17,633
- Thank you.
482
00:16:17,718 --> 00:16:20,636
I haven't had a boring day
with my wife yet.
483
00:16:20,721 --> 00:16:22,981
I don't know if that
would be incredible,
484
00:16:23,140 --> 00:16:24,890
or if that would be
really boring.
485
00:16:24,975 --> 00:16:26,067
♪ ♪
486
00:16:26,226 --> 00:16:27,402
- That's very good.
487
00:16:27,561 --> 00:16:28,894
I love it.
- Wow.
488
00:16:28,988 --> 00:16:30,229
- I'm also partial
to the lime and the coconut.
489
00:16:30,313 --> 00:16:33,157
- Yeah?
- Yeah, that's good.
490
00:16:33,242 --> 00:16:34,659
- But she definitely
brings the excitement
491
00:16:34,818 --> 00:16:35,985
when I really,
really want it there.
492
00:16:36,078 --> 00:16:37,737
- What do you think?
- It's good.
493
00:16:37,821 --> 00:16:39,414
It's bet--better than I thought.
494
00:16:39,498 --> 00:16:40,573
- Yeah?
- I'm not a big pineapple guy.
495
00:16:40,657 --> 00:16:41,916
- Okay.
496
00:16:42,001 --> 00:16:43,075
- I like coconut--
- [high-pitched shriek]
497
00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:44,577
What?
498
00:16:44,670 --> 00:16:45,837
What happened?
499
00:16:45,921 --> 00:16:47,246
It went up your nose?
500
00:16:47,330 --> 00:16:48,330
- No, I got a brain freeze.
- Brain freeze?
501
00:16:48,424 --> 00:16:49,582
- Oh, put your tongue
to your palate.
502
00:16:49,675 --> 00:16:51,667
♪ ♪
503
00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:52,677
Tongue--tongue to your palate.
504
00:16:52,761 --> 00:16:54,095
- [strained] It's there.
- Okay.
505
00:16:54,179 --> 00:16:55,096
Is it working?
506
00:16:55,255 --> 00:16:56,422
- [strained] Mm-mm!
507
00:16:56,506 --> 00:16:57,673
- I guess not.
- You get--oh, no,
508
00:16:57,758 --> 00:16:59,175
you do it a different way?
- [groans]
509
00:16:59,259 --> 00:17:00,601
- You got this.
510
00:17:00,686 --> 00:17:02,261
- It's a long one.
511
00:17:02,354 --> 00:17:03,262
Oh, that hurt.
512
00:17:03,346 --> 00:17:04,605
[laughs]
513
00:17:04,690 --> 00:17:07,349
- So you make the piña colada.
- Okay.
514
00:17:07,434 --> 00:17:08,350
I got this.
515
00:17:08,435 --> 00:17:09,861
[rock music]
516
00:17:10,020 --> 00:17:11,353
Okay.
517
00:17:11,438 --> 00:17:12,530
- All right, bartender.
518
00:17:12,689 --> 00:17:13,698
- This good?
519
00:17:13,782 --> 00:17:14,866
- I'm ready.
- Okay.
520
00:17:16,443 --> 00:17:18,619
- ♪ Bright lights,
crowded nights ♪
521
00:17:18,704 --> 00:17:21,622
♪ She's done this before
by the look in her eye ♪
522
00:17:21,707 --> 00:17:24,033
♪ Livin' for the thrill,
she said you better ♪
523
00:17:24,117 --> 00:17:26,452
♪ Face your fears ♪
524
00:17:26,536 --> 00:17:28,120
♪ ♪
525
00:17:28,205 --> 00:17:29,789
♪ He loves the adrenaline ♪
526
00:17:29,873 --> 00:17:31,966
♪ ♪
527
00:17:32,051 --> 00:17:35,044
- I love that Mark
can loosen up and have fun,
528
00:17:35,128 --> 00:17:36,545
you know?
529
00:17:36,630 --> 00:17:38,297
But I gotta class 'him up
a little bit.
530
00:17:38,390 --> 00:17:39,807
Listen, Vinny.
531
00:17:39,892 --> 00:17:40,966
Vinny the Guido.
532
00:17:41,051 --> 00:17:42,301
[laughs]
533
00:17:42,385 --> 00:17:43,636
♪ ♪
534
00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:45,888
- Cheers.
535
00:17:45,972 --> 00:17:47,223
- Salud.
536
00:17:47,307 --> 00:17:48,483
- Oh.
- I think that was
537
00:17:48,567 --> 00:17:49,475
the best one, I'm sorry.
- That was the one.
538
00:17:49,568 --> 00:17:51,486
[laughter]
539
00:17:51,570 --> 00:17:52,737
- I can make
540
00:17:52,821 --> 00:17:54,489
a piña colada.
541
00:17:54,573 --> 00:17:56,398
Boom.
542
00:17:56,492 --> 00:17:57,658
I should've been a bartender.
543
00:17:57,818 --> 00:17:58,818
I would've had more fun--
544
00:17:58,902 --> 00:18:00,402
- I don't date bartenders.
- No?
545
00:18:00,487 --> 00:18:02,238
So, tell me
546
00:18:02,331 --> 00:18:04,415
a little bit about
your dating history.
547
00:18:04,574 --> 00:18:05,908
- Buckle up.
548
00:18:05,992 --> 00:18:06,834
- Buckle up, okay.
- We're gonna take you
549
00:18:06,993 --> 00:18:08,169
on a roller coaster.
- Okay.
550
00:18:08,328 --> 00:18:09,837
- I have...
- Yeah.
551
00:18:09,922 --> 00:18:11,831
- Dated almost every
engineer in the book, it seems.
552
00:18:11,915 --> 00:18:13,749
- Yeah?
- My dad, after
553
00:18:13,834 --> 00:18:15,584
my last breakup, was like,
"Can you stay away
554
00:18:15,669 --> 00:18:16,919
from the engineers?"
- Yeah.
555
00:18:17,003 --> 00:18:18,513
- "You've gone through
them all at this point."
556
00:18:18,597 --> 00:18:20,840
- I hope I can live up
to these engineers,
557
00:18:20,924 --> 00:18:23,101
'cause I feel like--
- Um, well,
558
00:18:23,185 --> 00:18:24,435
I'm not with any of them now.
- I know, I know.
559
00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:25,678
Oh, wow.
- They're just cheaters
560
00:18:25,762 --> 00:18:26,938
and liars and stealers.
561
00:18:27,022 --> 00:18:28,097
- Oh, wow.
562
00:18:28,181 --> 00:18:29,398
- What about you?
563
00:18:30,851 --> 00:18:32,944
- I dated in high school,
I dated in college,
564
00:18:33,028 --> 00:18:34,603
but nothing ever really clicked.
565
00:18:34,688 --> 00:18:36,355
And it wasn't 'till
I graduated college
566
00:18:36,439 --> 00:18:38,116
I met my first love.
567
00:18:38,275 --> 00:18:40,276
Intimacy was good,
but then there was
568
00:18:40,369 --> 00:18:42,444
a lot of emotional side to her
569
00:18:42,529 --> 00:18:44,446
that came out a lot
when she drank.
570
00:18:44,531 --> 00:18:46,448
♪ ♪
571
00:18:46,533 --> 00:18:47,449
And it went
572
00:18:47,543 --> 00:18:48,868
from, "I'm in love with you"
573
00:18:48,961 --> 00:18:50,119
to "I love you,"
574
00:18:50,203 --> 00:18:51,462
"I'm not in love with you."
575
00:18:53,715 --> 00:18:57,301
One person I dated a year ago,
which was the first time
576
00:18:57,460 --> 00:18:59,554
during COVID
that I connected with someone,
577
00:18:59,713 --> 00:19:02,047
and she had a boyfriend
578
00:19:02,132 --> 00:19:04,133
give her, like, give her
[bleep] pretty much
579
00:19:04,217 --> 00:19:06,051
when she found out
she was pregnant with him.
580
00:19:06,145 --> 00:19:10,222
And I was like,
"Wow, like, that's horrible."
581
00:19:10,315 --> 00:19:11,983
I can't wrap my head
around these situations
582
00:19:12,142 --> 00:19:13,985
and how guys could
treat women that way.
583
00:19:14,144 --> 00:19:16,312
- It sounds like you're
a people pleaser,
584
00:19:16,396 --> 00:19:17,405
and that you worry about
everybody else
585
00:19:17,564 --> 00:19:18,731
except yourself sometimes.
586
00:19:18,815 --> 00:19:20,408
- Well, I--
- Like, I know you take care
587
00:19:20,567 --> 00:19:22,243
of your grandma and your mom.
- Yeah, I think I'm used to--
588
00:19:22,327 --> 00:19:23,911
I'm used to--well,
I think that's been
589
00:19:23,996 --> 00:19:25,329
the nature of the people
I've met.
590
00:19:25,414 --> 00:19:26,822
I feel like they had such tough
591
00:19:26,907 --> 00:19:28,407
past relationships that
592
00:19:28,491 --> 00:19:30,743
I was a breath of fresh air
593
00:19:30,827 --> 00:19:32,920
when it comes to
emotional stability for them.
594
00:19:33,079 --> 00:19:34,672
- I'm learning that Mark
595
00:19:34,756 --> 00:19:35,923
just has this innate
596
00:19:36,008 --> 00:19:38,000
drive to take care of people,
597
00:19:38,093 --> 00:19:39,919
and it's really admirable,
598
00:19:40,003 --> 00:19:41,587
and I think he's got a lot
599
00:19:41,671 --> 00:19:43,923
of honor and integrity.
600
00:19:44,007 --> 00:19:46,175
But it does make me think
that there's been times
601
00:19:46,259 --> 00:19:49,020
in Mark's life where
he hasn't put himself first.
602
00:19:49,179 --> 00:19:51,189
I love that you're--
Like, you're just
603
00:19:51,273 --> 00:19:52,848
stand-up and genuine.
- Oh, yeah.
604
00:19:52,941 --> 00:19:55,267
- And so I can see
how the heart in you
605
00:19:55,352 --> 00:19:57,528
would give to people
who aren't worthy of it.
606
00:19:57,613 --> 00:19:59,447
I want to make sure
that he's honoring himself
607
00:19:59,606 --> 00:20:01,616
and his needs with me.
608
00:20:01,775 --> 00:20:03,701
And I wanna love and care
for him and help support him
609
00:20:03,860 --> 00:20:05,703
in his role,
610
00:20:05,787 --> 00:20:07,947
versus the role
he wants to be for me,
611
00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:09,790
because he's not
612
00:20:09,875 --> 00:20:11,709
gonna be who I want him to be
unless he's
613
00:20:11,793 --> 00:20:13,377
who he's happy being
and comfortable.
614
00:20:14,463 --> 00:20:15,796
- You're processing
a lot right now.
615
00:20:15,956 --> 00:20:17,873
It's a lot.
- Mm-hmm.
616
00:20:17,958 --> 00:20:20,626
♪ ♪
617
00:20:20,710 --> 00:20:22,386
I'm still trying
to figure you out.
618
00:20:22,545 --> 00:20:24,046
And what I do know
about you, I like.
619
00:20:24,130 --> 00:20:25,556
- Yeah, you're like glowing.
620
00:20:25,641 --> 00:20:26,807
- Yeah?
- Yeah.
621
00:20:26,967 --> 00:20:28,392
- Think it's my, like, sleeves.
622
00:20:28,477 --> 00:20:30,478
- Probably.
[laughter]
623
00:20:30,562 --> 00:20:34,315
- ♪ Trying to find
the answer to ♪
624
00:20:34,399 --> 00:20:36,234
♪ Trying to find
the answer to ♪
625
00:20:42,399 --> 00:20:43,241
- ♪ Can't tell if this is
love or not ♪
626
00:20:43,325 --> 00:20:44,242
- Here we are.
627
00:20:44,401 --> 00:20:45,567
- Cute.
628
00:20:45,661 --> 00:20:47,078
- ♪ I sure wanna
figure it out ♪
629
00:20:47,237 --> 00:20:48,579
♪ Can't tell if this
is real or not ♪
630
00:20:48,664 --> 00:20:51,415
- Are you gonna steer clear
of all those dairy--
631
00:20:51,574 --> 00:20:53,075
I know you mentioned lactose.
- [chuckles]
632
00:20:53,159 --> 00:20:55,920
- Is it worth
the sacrifice for you?
633
00:20:56,079 --> 00:20:57,663
- Let's just wait
'till we're married
634
00:20:57,747 --> 00:20:59,164
for a little bit longer.
635
00:20:59,258 --> 00:21:00,332
- Before you start
to get into the cheese.
636
00:21:00,425 --> 00:21:01,676
[laughter]
637
00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:04,336
- I feel like we are definitely
638
00:21:04,429 --> 00:21:07,348
emotionally bonded
at this point, chemistry-wise.
639
00:21:07,432 --> 00:21:10,101
I mean, I feel attracted to him.
640
00:21:10,260 --> 00:21:11,844
I feel comfortable,
like, holding his hand
641
00:21:11,928 --> 00:21:14,522
and hugging him
and kissing him already.
642
00:21:14,606 --> 00:21:17,182
So I just feel really lucky that
643
00:21:17,267 --> 00:21:19,360
we're hitting it off so well.
644
00:21:19,519 --> 00:21:21,946
- I know this has been crazy.
This is day three for us.
645
00:21:22,030 --> 00:21:23,439
It's hard to keep track nowadays
646
00:21:23,523 --> 00:21:25,107
'cause everything's happening
so fast.
647
00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:26,867
And that's kind of the point,
you know?
648
00:21:26,952 --> 00:21:29,120
Things are progressing fast
for us,
649
00:21:29,204 --> 00:21:33,115
and we had a great start,
we had a great wedding.
650
00:21:33,199 --> 00:21:35,617
We've had a lot of laughs
and a lot of good times.
651
00:21:35,702 --> 00:21:38,296
Even last night,
when I--when you asked me,
652
00:21:38,455 --> 00:21:40,122
you just said,
"Hey, are you going to bed?"
653
00:21:40,215 --> 00:21:41,623
And I just did a quick face.
654
00:21:41,717 --> 00:21:43,542
- [laughs]
- And I said--
655
00:21:43,626 --> 00:21:46,378
In my head, I was thinking I
have--I have another meeting
656
00:21:46,463 --> 00:21:48,055
to attend to before I go to bed.
657
00:21:48,214 --> 00:21:49,298
And you said...
658
00:21:49,391 --> 00:21:50,466
- You just gave, like,
a poop face,
659
00:21:50,559 --> 00:21:51,884
like, you know?
[laughter]
660
00:21:51,977 --> 00:21:52,977
I'm just like, "Do you
661
00:21:53,061 --> 00:21:53,969
need to poop?"
662
00:21:54,054 --> 00:21:55,229
[laughter]
663
00:21:55,388 --> 00:21:56,555
- Everyone's always
664
00:21:56,639 --> 00:21:57,732
concerned,
"What if you don't get along,
665
00:21:57,816 --> 00:21:59,558
what if this or that,
what if that?"
666
00:21:59,642 --> 00:22:01,485
I was like, "What if I have
to poop for the first time?"
667
00:22:01,570 --> 00:22:02,478
- That's what I'm--
668
00:22:02,562 --> 00:22:03,896
[laughter]
669
00:22:03,989 --> 00:22:06,073
Like, I'm not nervous
about him, but I'm like,
670
00:22:06,158 --> 00:22:09,485
"Wh--wh--when do I
poop in this marriage?"
671
00:22:09,569 --> 00:22:11,829
[laughter]
672
00:22:11,988 --> 00:22:13,572
In any normal circumstance,
we would still be
673
00:22:13,656 --> 00:22:15,916
trying to hide all these, um...
674
00:22:17,502 --> 00:22:18,744
- Natural human things
that we have to do?
675
00:22:18,828 --> 00:22:19,920
- Natural human things
that we have to do
676
00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:22,331
but don't like to discuss.
677
00:22:22,415 --> 00:22:27,178
So I was like, "Well,
he is now my husband.
678
00:22:27,337 --> 00:22:29,347
"We can laugh about
this because we still
679
00:22:29,506 --> 00:22:31,340
"are getting to know
each other, and you know,
680
00:22:31,433 --> 00:22:33,759
"we have to be comfortable
681
00:22:33,852 --> 00:22:34,852
having these discussions
with each other," so...
682
00:22:34,936 --> 00:22:35,936
- For sure.
683
00:22:36,096 --> 00:22:38,022
Well, the good news is,
684
00:22:38,106 --> 00:22:40,265
you know, I believe at this
point, my schedule is cleared.
685
00:22:40,350 --> 00:22:41,850
I don't think I have any more
meetings for the day, so...
686
00:22:41,935 --> 00:22:43,185
[laughter]
687
00:22:43,269 --> 00:22:45,270
- I feel so comfortable
with Steve,
688
00:22:45,355 --> 00:22:46,947
it's kind of eerie.
689
00:22:47,032 --> 00:22:49,274
I can honestly say
that I've never
690
00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:53,529
dated anyone where I felt
691
00:22:53,613 --> 00:22:55,447
this connected
to them this early on.
692
00:22:55,540 --> 00:22:58,784
♪ ♪
693
00:22:58,868 --> 00:23:02,204
I feel like I'm falling in love
694
00:23:02,297 --> 00:23:03,622
in, like, the craziest way.
695
00:23:03,706 --> 00:23:04,873
Get some sunscreen.
696
00:23:04,966 --> 00:23:06,959
- Yeah, a little sunscreen
going.
697
00:23:07,052 --> 00:23:09,294
- I definitely think
that it's happening.
698
00:23:09,388 --> 00:23:11,972
♪ ♪
699
00:23:12,132 --> 00:23:12,973
Where is Steve?
700
00:23:13,133 --> 00:23:14,058
Oh.
[giggles]
701
00:23:15,727 --> 00:23:16,969
- Okay.
702
00:23:17,062 --> 00:23:21,232
♪ ♪
703
00:23:21,316 --> 00:23:23,392
- What's up?
704
00:23:23,485 --> 00:23:25,403
- Hi.
- What's going on?
705
00:23:25,487 --> 00:23:27,479
- Nothing, I just wanted
to sit down and talk to you.
706
00:23:27,564 --> 00:23:30,065
Um...
707
00:23:30,150 --> 00:23:31,492
[clears throat]
708
00:23:31,576 --> 00:23:33,735
So, we were talking back there,
709
00:23:33,820 --> 00:23:35,237
and they're asking me, like,
a bunch of questions
710
00:23:35,321 --> 00:23:39,074
and, like, how I felt
about you and everything.
711
00:23:39,167 --> 00:23:41,085
And one of the questions was,
712
00:23:41,169 --> 00:23:43,421
"Do you feel like you're
falling in love with Steve?"
713
00:23:43,505 --> 00:23:46,248
And I said that I feel
like it's slowly happening.
714
00:23:46,332 --> 00:23:48,509
♪ ♪
715
00:23:49,594 --> 00:23:51,753
♪ ♪
716
00:23:51,847 --> 00:23:53,172
Well, that's nice to hear.
717
00:23:53,265 --> 00:23:55,174
♪ ♪
718
00:23:55,267 --> 00:23:57,176
I think
719
00:23:57,269 --> 00:23:58,844
we both agree that we have
strong feelings for each other
720
00:23:58,928 --> 00:24:00,020
at this point in time.
721
00:24:00,105 --> 00:24:02,606
We cuddle a lot,
we talk, we giggle.
722
00:24:02,691 --> 00:24:06,110
- Well, I have strong
feelings for you, too, I guess.
723
00:24:06,194 --> 00:24:07,352
- Oh, you guess?
- Yeah.
724
00:24:07,446 --> 00:24:09,947
- [chuckling]
725
00:24:10,106 --> 00:24:11,782
I don't want you to be
offended by the fact
726
00:24:11,941 --> 00:24:13,033
that I have
strong feelings for you.
727
00:24:13,118 --> 00:24:14,443
It's day three.
728
00:24:14,527 --> 00:24:15,786
Why don't you go ask some
of the other couples
729
00:24:15,871 --> 00:24:18,038
if anyone said they had
strong feelings for them?
730
00:24:18,198 --> 00:24:20,115
I'm sure some of them have,
731
00:24:20,208 --> 00:24:22,293
but that's a lot, okay?
It's three days.
732
00:24:22,377 --> 00:24:23,461
Three days.
733
00:24:23,545 --> 00:24:26,955
- ♪ Come a little closer now ♪
734
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:33,295
♪ ♪
735
00:24:33,379 --> 00:24:34,546
- ♪ I know your life ♪
736
00:24:34,639 --> 00:24:36,298
- So.
- You ready?
737
00:24:36,391 --> 00:24:37,382
- 'Course.
- Or am I ready?
738
00:24:37,467 --> 00:24:38,717
- Yeah, you--how do you ask me
739
00:24:38,801 --> 00:24:39,977
like I don't do this?
740
00:24:40,136 --> 00:24:41,553
- I'd rather go to the pool,
but I'm
741
00:24:41,638 --> 00:24:43,981
at the gym with my husband.
742
00:24:44,065 --> 00:24:45,816
What'd I sign up for?
743
00:24:45,975 --> 00:24:47,476
[chuckling]
744
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:48,903
I want to incorporate
his life with mine,
745
00:24:49,062 --> 00:24:51,813
just like I would want him to
do the same thing with me.
746
00:24:51,898 --> 00:24:53,982
But I'm still trying
to guard myself
747
00:24:54,067 --> 00:24:54,992
'cause it's only been a few days
748
00:24:55,076 --> 00:24:56,818
of our marriage.
749
00:24:56,903 --> 00:24:58,153
And something could switch where
750
00:24:58,246 --> 00:24:59,821
maybe he doesn't like me.
751
00:24:59,906 --> 00:25:02,833
So I'm not ready to, like,
let myself go
752
00:25:02,918 --> 00:25:04,993
and be in la-la land.
753
00:25:05,078 --> 00:25:06,662
- This is gonna be tough.
I'm not gonna lie to you.
754
00:25:06,746 --> 00:25:08,756
- Okay.
755
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:10,582
- ♪ Yeah ♪
756
00:25:10,667 --> 00:25:11,667
- I'm gonna go with this.
757
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:12,843
- ♪ I feel like a CEO ♪
758
00:25:13,002 --> 00:25:14,169
- Three.
759
00:25:14,254 --> 00:25:16,088
Here we go, baby.
760
00:25:16,181 --> 00:25:17,339
Come down.
761
00:25:17,423 --> 00:25:18,682
- ♪ I feel like a CEO ♪
762
00:25:18,841 --> 00:25:19,925
- Go all the way up?
- No, no, all the way down,
763
00:25:20,009 --> 00:25:20,926
come a little lower.
764
00:25:21,010 --> 00:25:23,270
Time to turn it up.
765
00:25:23,429 --> 00:25:24,263
Put your hands right here.
766
00:25:24,347 --> 00:25:25,264
Boom.
767
00:25:25,357 --> 00:25:28,108
Kick your feet up, no!
768
00:25:28,193 --> 00:25:30,269
You know how to do a burpee.
Stop it.
769
00:25:30,353 --> 00:25:32,688
Nope.
770
00:25:32,772 --> 00:25:34,189
Be comfortable.
771
00:25:34,274 --> 00:25:35,941
- Okay.
- High energy.
772
00:25:36,025 --> 00:25:37,192
Stop laughing, get real.
773
00:25:37,285 --> 00:25:38,452
This is--this is my element,
774
00:25:38,611 --> 00:25:39,695
I want you to respect this.
775
00:25:39,779 --> 00:25:41,280
- Calm down.
776
00:25:41,373 --> 00:25:42,873
[laughs]
777
00:25:42,958 --> 00:25:44,199
I'm like,
"Where'd this come from?"
778
00:25:44,292 --> 00:25:45,367
I feel like this is
too much weight.
779
00:25:45,451 --> 00:25:47,127
- Okay, so put your leg
on the floor.
780
00:25:47,212 --> 00:25:49,288
And what you're gonna do
is here,
781
00:25:49,381 --> 00:25:51,123
and you're gonna pass it.
I'ma pass it to you.
782
00:25:51,207 --> 00:25:53,792
Don't--you drop this, it's over.
783
00:25:53,876 --> 00:25:54,876
I'm taking the ring off.
784
00:25:54,961 --> 00:25:56,470
♪ ♪
785
00:25:56,555 --> 00:25:57,963
Don't drop me.
Squeeze your abs
786
00:25:58,047 --> 00:25:59,723
while you're doing it, squeeze.
787
00:25:59,808 --> 00:26:00,891
Hold your arms straight.
Your arms
788
00:26:01,050 --> 00:26:02,050
should be straight
the whole time.
789
00:26:02,143 --> 00:26:03,727
You don't gotta go so slow.
790
00:26:03,812 --> 00:26:05,637
Okay, boom.
791
00:26:05,722 --> 00:26:07,055
Hold your hands out.
- Yes.
792
00:26:07,140 --> 00:26:08,640
- Stop giving up.
There's no more of that.
793
00:26:08,725 --> 00:26:10,067
For real.
- Okay.
794
00:26:10,226 --> 00:26:11,235
- Smile,
795
00:26:11,319 --> 00:26:12,561
smile, enjoy it.
796
00:26:12,645 --> 00:26:13,904
Think about everything
that bothers you.
797
00:26:14,063 --> 00:26:15,656
♪ ♪
798
00:26:15,740 --> 00:26:17,983
Now--
- I don't like those.
799
00:26:18,067 --> 00:26:19,493
- Working out is not about
what you like.
800
00:26:19,578 --> 00:26:21,403
It's about what
makes you look good,
801
00:26:21,487 --> 00:26:23,322
what helps you,
and what improves you.
802
00:26:23,415 --> 00:26:25,824
- Olajuwon--
He has a strong personality.
803
00:26:25,908 --> 00:26:26,908
- I know you'll like this one.
804
00:26:26,993 --> 00:26:28,076
- If I would've dated
805
00:26:28,169 --> 00:26:30,170
someone like him in my 20s,
806
00:26:30,330 --> 00:26:33,424
I would've cried, so it could
be a little bit of an issue.
807
00:26:33,583 --> 00:26:40,589
♪ ♪
808
00:26:40,849 --> 00:26:43,601
- ♪ I set out ♪
809
00:26:43,685 --> 00:26:46,437
♪ On a mission just
to find where you are ♪
810
00:26:46,521 --> 00:26:49,348
- It's become apparent
over the last few days
811
00:26:49,441 --> 00:26:51,859
since the wedding
that the more I push or try
812
00:26:52,018 --> 00:26:55,362
to help or ask questions,
the more Alyssa resists.
813
00:26:55,447 --> 00:26:56,855
And I think having an activity
814
00:26:56,939 --> 00:26:58,949
to keep us
sort of distracted and not
815
00:26:59,034 --> 00:27:01,035
have to really get into
sort of any awkwardness
816
00:27:01,194 --> 00:27:03,287
makes it a little easier for us
to keep it light-hearted.
817
00:27:03,446 --> 00:27:06,865
So my goal is that we're
sharing the experience
818
00:27:06,949 --> 00:27:08,876
and that hopefully,
819
00:27:09,035 --> 00:27:11,620
it makes just kind of hanging
out with her a lot of fun.
820
00:27:11,704 --> 00:27:12,713
Hi.
- Good morning.
821
00:27:12,797 --> 00:27:13,955
- Good morning.
How are you?
822
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:15,290
- This looks fun!
- I'm really excited.
823
00:27:15,383 --> 00:27:16,467
Have you ever been
paddleboarding?
824
00:27:16,626 --> 00:27:17,459
- Yeah, paddleboarding's
super fun.
825
00:27:17,543 --> 00:27:18,877
- I never have.
826
00:27:18,961 --> 00:27:19,970
- Should we do it?
- Yeah.
827
00:27:20,129 --> 00:27:20,962
- All right.
- I pulled every--I think
828
00:27:21,047 --> 00:27:21,963
we're good.
- Okay.
829
00:27:22,048 --> 00:27:23,557
- I pulled everything out.
830
00:27:23,642 --> 00:27:24,892
- Just by
everything that's happened,
831
00:27:24,976 --> 00:27:26,810
I'm trying
to be the bigger person.
832
00:27:26,895 --> 00:27:29,063
Off he goes!
833
00:27:29,222 --> 00:27:30,055
So we don't have to have
834
00:27:30,148 --> 00:27:32,149
drama and negativity.
835
00:27:32,233 --> 00:27:33,817
Like, I don't want that.
836
00:27:33,976 --> 00:27:38,238
♪ ♪
837
00:27:38,323 --> 00:27:39,398
- All right.
838
00:27:39,482 --> 00:27:42,159
I'm doing it.
Here we go.
839
00:27:42,243 --> 00:27:44,828
I'm a quick learner.
840
00:27:44,987 --> 00:27:46,163
- Are you gonna try
and stand up?
841
00:27:46,247 --> 00:27:47,164
- Oh, yeah.
842
00:27:47,323 --> 00:27:50,075
Oh, yeah.
843
00:27:50,168 --> 00:27:52,002
♪ ♪
844
00:27:55,757 --> 00:27:59,251
- [laughs]
845
00:27:59,335 --> 00:28:00,836
So at first, on the paddleboard,
846
00:28:00,929 --> 00:28:02,429
it's hard to stay balanced.
847
00:28:03,673 --> 00:28:04,923
Oh!
848
00:28:05,007 --> 00:28:06,258
But in my defense,
849
00:28:06,342 --> 00:28:08,093
I've never been paddleboarding
in my life.
850
00:28:08,186 --> 00:28:09,428
♪ ♪
851
00:28:09,521 --> 00:28:12,940
- [laughs]
852
00:28:13,024 --> 00:28:14,274
How many times?
853
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:15,526
- I'm trying.
854
00:28:15,685 --> 00:28:18,112
♪ ♪
855
00:28:18,196 --> 00:28:19,104
- Come on, now.
856
00:28:19,197 --> 00:28:21,106
We don't have all day!
857
00:28:21,190 --> 00:28:23,200
- Anybody can stand up, but not
858
00:28:23,284 --> 00:28:24,451
everybody can recover.
859
00:28:24,536 --> 00:28:26,286
- And not everyone can balance.
- [laughs]
860
00:28:26,446 --> 00:28:28,455
- I am staying dry.
861
00:28:28,614 --> 00:28:30,040
And Chris is...
862
00:28:31,701 --> 00:28:32,626
Falling in the water.
863
00:28:32,785 --> 00:28:34,294
And it's actually pretty funny.
864
00:28:34,379 --> 00:28:35,379
[laughs]
865
00:28:35,463 --> 00:28:36,621
- You'll be giving lessons
866
00:28:36,715 --> 00:28:37,881
by the end of the day.
867
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:39,541
Spending today with Alyssa
is good.
868
00:28:39,625 --> 00:28:43,128
We are just getting
to a comfortable place
869
00:28:43,221 --> 00:28:44,880
where we can just
hang out, and I think
870
00:28:44,973 --> 00:28:46,807
she genuinely is, like,
a fun-loving,
871
00:28:46,891 --> 00:28:48,892
enjoyable person to be around.
872
00:28:49,051 --> 00:28:50,394
♪ ♪
873
00:28:52,221 --> 00:28:53,981
You didn't fall--you
didn't go in at all.
874
00:28:54,065 --> 00:28:55,399
- No, I don't fall.
- That's--that's all the fun.
875
00:28:57,226 --> 00:28:59,394
This is much--this is more
your speed, right,
876
00:28:59,487 --> 00:29:02,322
just hanging out?
- Yeah.
877
00:29:02,482 --> 00:29:03,657
- I don't hate this.
878
00:29:03,742 --> 00:29:05,909
[waves churning]
879
00:29:08,747 --> 00:29:12,332
Um...
880
00:29:12,417 --> 00:29:15,085
I don't think I did
a great job...
881
00:29:18,414 --> 00:29:21,666
Of doing all I could
882
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:23,343
to get you to understand
that I really do think
883
00:29:23,503 --> 00:29:24,678
you're just a cool person.
884
00:29:24,763 --> 00:29:27,339
- Well, thank you.
I appreciate that.
885
00:29:27,423 --> 00:29:29,174
- And I'm sorry for that.
886
00:29:29,258 --> 00:29:30,100
- I just want to come off
887
00:29:30,185 --> 00:29:31,593
as united,
888
00:29:31,686 --> 00:29:35,096
'cause, like, no matter
the way we feel,
889
00:29:35,181 --> 00:29:37,599
the experts
just didn't do this right.
890
00:29:37,683 --> 00:29:40,101
♪ ♪
891
00:29:40,195 --> 00:29:42,270
And that's, like,
what I'm upset about,
892
00:29:42,355 --> 00:29:44,439
'cause, like, I went
and saw a psychic.
893
00:29:44,524 --> 00:29:46,525
- [laughs]
894
00:29:46,618 --> 00:29:48,443
♪ ♪
895
00:29:48,536 --> 00:29:51,112
Was this, like, uh,
just for fun,
896
00:29:51,197 --> 00:29:53,123
"let's go see what happens,"
or is this like--
897
00:29:53,208 --> 00:29:56,293
- She's pinpointed
and touched on so many things
898
00:29:56,377 --> 00:29:58,036
that, like, are true...
- Yep.
899
00:29:58,129 --> 00:29:59,621
- Or that have happened.
900
00:29:59,705 --> 00:30:02,040
She said very specific things,
like, about
901
00:30:02,124 --> 00:30:03,708
features and looks and, like,
902
00:30:03,793 --> 00:30:04,802
all these things.
- Okay.
903
00:30:04,886 --> 00:30:06,553
- And she said to me,
904
00:30:06,712 --> 00:30:08,129
"I feel very strongly that
905
00:30:08,214 --> 00:30:10,474
you're gonna meet
your soulmate," and--
906
00:30:10,633 --> 00:30:12,893
- What did she say
he was gonna look like?
907
00:30:14,637 --> 00:30:17,147
- She said he had
very pretty eyes...
908
00:30:17,306 --> 00:30:19,474
♪ ♪
909
00:30:19,567 --> 00:30:21,142
And he has an eagle tattoo.
910
00:30:21,227 --> 00:30:25,897
- [laughs]
911
00:30:25,982 --> 00:30:28,242
The method by which she
decides to pick her soulmates
912
00:30:28,326 --> 00:30:29,818
is up to her.
913
00:30:29,902 --> 00:30:31,745
But it's not something
that I subscribe to, so I put
914
00:30:31,830 --> 00:30:32,913
no value in it from the start.
915
00:30:33,072 --> 00:30:35,833
Beautiful bird, but not
916
00:30:35,917 --> 00:30:38,076
a tattoo that I'm looking
to get anytime soon.
917
00:30:38,169 --> 00:30:40,504
♪ ♪
918
00:30:44,342 --> 00:30:49,680
♪ ♪
919
00:30:51,516 --> 00:30:52,924
- Ooh.
920
00:30:53,017 --> 00:30:53,851
- You know.
- Ooh.
921
00:30:53,935 --> 00:30:55,018
- [laughs]
922
00:30:55,177 --> 00:30:56,436
- All right.
923
00:30:56,596 --> 00:30:57,938
- It's only been
a couple of days
924
00:30:58,097 --> 00:30:59,097
since we've been married,
925
00:30:59,181 --> 00:31:00,524
but just this morning,
926
00:31:00,683 --> 00:31:02,609
Mike--he's saying
we haven't really
927
00:31:02,694 --> 00:31:04,102
learned much about each other.
928
00:31:04,186 --> 00:31:07,022
And that kind of made me,
you know, go, hmm.
929
00:31:07,106 --> 00:31:09,190
♪ ♪
930
00:31:09,275 --> 00:31:10,701
I do think that
931
00:31:10,860 --> 00:31:13,278
Mike overthinking things
and being in his head
932
00:31:13,371 --> 00:31:16,114
will bring negativity into
what we're working on building.
933
00:31:16,207 --> 00:31:19,293
So I feel like the sooner
we have a deeper, you know,
934
00:31:19,377 --> 00:31:20,627
bond and a deeper connection,
935
00:31:20,786 --> 00:31:22,537
the better it would be.
936
00:31:22,630 --> 00:31:24,965
I did wanna ask you, like,
937
00:31:25,049 --> 00:31:27,042
piggybacking off of the
conversation we had earlier.
938
00:31:27,126 --> 00:31:28,543
- Yeah.
939
00:31:28,628 --> 00:31:30,045
- You know, I mentioned
940
00:31:30,138 --> 00:31:31,546
the comment that
your sisters made.
941
00:31:31,631 --> 00:31:34,141
I don't wanna
keep bringing it up, but like,
942
00:31:34,300 --> 00:31:37,385
was that a problem in your last
relationship or why it ended?
943
00:31:37,470 --> 00:31:39,313
- I mean,
I've been single for a while.
944
00:31:39,472 --> 00:31:42,474
And part of the reason
why I was single
945
00:31:42,558 --> 00:31:44,484
was because I felt like I wasn't
946
00:31:44,569 --> 00:31:48,155
putting 100% effort
into all those relationships,
947
00:31:48,314 --> 00:31:49,731
people that I was dating.
948
00:31:49,824 --> 00:31:51,399
- Okay.
- So I guess that was
949
00:31:51,484 --> 00:31:53,160
part of the reason why
I was overthinking so much
950
00:31:53,244 --> 00:31:54,819
that I didn't wanna make the
same mistake,
951
00:31:54,904 --> 00:31:56,830
you know?
952
00:31:56,989 --> 00:32:00,241
- So now you--you haven't been
in a relationship in a while,
953
00:32:00,326 --> 00:32:02,169
and you think--
954
00:32:02,253 --> 00:32:04,421
Now you're able to put
100% in when
955
00:32:04,505 --> 00:32:05,997
you've been single
all this time?
956
00:32:06,090 --> 00:32:08,008
- I'm trying to make sure that
957
00:32:08,167 --> 00:32:11,920
the person that I'm with knows
that I'm trying to put 100% in.
958
00:32:12,004 --> 00:32:13,847
So if there's ever a time
where I feel like
959
00:32:14,006 --> 00:32:18,018
it could be seen that I'm not,
I kind of get nervous.
960
00:32:18,102 --> 00:32:19,019
- Okay.
- You get what I'm saying?
961
00:32:19,103 --> 00:32:20,604
- I see, yeah.
962
00:32:20,763 --> 00:32:22,097
- So I guess it is overthinking,
963
00:32:22,181 --> 00:32:23,357
but it's trying to make sure
964
00:32:23,441 --> 00:32:24,691
that I don't make
the same mistakes.
965
00:32:24,776 --> 00:32:27,694
- So what would you say
made you start
966
00:32:27,779 --> 00:32:29,354
to, like, overthink situations?
967
00:32:29,438 --> 00:32:31,365
Like, did something happen,
did you go through something
968
00:32:31,524 --> 00:32:33,191
to make you become that person?
969
00:32:33,275 --> 00:32:36,286
- Yeah, I think I've--I've
had a lot of loss in my past.
970
00:32:36,371 --> 00:32:37,946
I lost my brother at a young age
971
00:32:38,030 --> 00:32:39,948
when I was six.
972
00:32:40,032 --> 00:32:41,950
First time I seen death
that up close.
973
00:32:42,043 --> 00:32:43,284
Like, I seen him
pass away in front of me.
974
00:32:43,369 --> 00:32:45,045
- I'm sorry.
975
00:32:45,129 --> 00:32:48,456
- Right after that,
my father passed.
976
00:32:48,549 --> 00:32:51,626
My mother passed,
my grandmother passed.
977
00:32:51,719 --> 00:32:53,303
I had friends
that--that have passed,
978
00:32:53,462 --> 00:32:57,307
and I think it kinda just
makes you see the world
979
00:32:57,392 --> 00:33:00,301
in a way where it's like
something bad is gonna happen.
980
00:33:00,386 --> 00:33:03,972
♪ ♪
981
00:33:04,056 --> 00:33:05,056
You know?
- I get that.
982
00:33:05,141 --> 00:33:06,066
I think it's two different ways.
983
00:33:06,150 --> 00:33:08,143
Some people would
984
00:33:08,227 --> 00:33:10,320
see the world
in a bad way like that.
985
00:33:10,405 --> 00:33:13,064
But then some people would also
say because there are
986
00:33:13,149 --> 00:33:14,491
things like that are happening,
987
00:33:14,575 --> 00:33:16,818
that they would
want to live life
988
00:33:16,902 --> 00:33:19,821
every day with, like,
no regrets type of thing?
989
00:33:19,905 --> 00:33:21,331
- Yeah.
990
00:33:21,490 --> 00:33:23,324
- But I understand
that you've lost
991
00:33:23,409 --> 00:33:25,827
a bunch of people around you
where it's just
992
00:33:25,911 --> 00:33:27,746
made you think the opposite.
- Yeah.
993
00:33:27,830 --> 00:33:30,007
Don't get me wrong,
I'm a happy person,
994
00:33:30,091 --> 00:33:32,259
but I think it's probably
just a coping mechanism.
995
00:33:32,343 --> 00:33:34,502
I think
I tend to think the worst.
996
00:33:34,587 --> 00:33:37,431
So if the worst happens,
I'm not as hurt by it.
997
00:33:37,515 --> 00:33:39,266
I think the loss that
I've experienced in my life
998
00:33:39,350 --> 00:33:42,019
has made it difficult
for me to open up
999
00:33:42,103 --> 00:33:45,847
and be vulnerable and
really let somebody else in.
1000
00:33:45,940 --> 00:33:47,599
I've always been somebody
that's, like,
1001
00:33:47,692 --> 00:33:50,444
pretty much like a lone wolf,
and I like to process things
1002
00:33:50,603 --> 00:33:52,696
on my own and go things--go
through things on my own.
1003
00:33:52,780 --> 00:33:54,022
And I think
1004
00:33:54,106 --> 00:33:55,356
after years and years and years
1005
00:33:55,450 --> 00:33:58,193
of doing that, that just
becomes who you are,
1006
00:33:58,277 --> 00:34:00,612
it becomes your shell.
1007
00:34:00,705 --> 00:34:04,791
And I think that's been, like,
a block in my relationships.
1008
00:34:04,950 --> 00:34:07,035
Does my overthinking
make you nervous?
1009
00:34:07,119 --> 00:34:08,286
- It does.
1010
00:34:08,370 --> 00:34:09,537
- Why?
1011
00:34:09,630 --> 00:34:11,298
- I just don't think
it's a good thing,
1012
00:34:11,382 --> 00:34:12,466
especially in a relationship.
1013
00:34:12,550 --> 00:34:14,292
It's just taking you out
of being
1014
00:34:14,376 --> 00:34:15,376
in the moment with me.
1015
00:34:15,461 --> 00:34:17,128
It's just taking you from
1016
00:34:17,213 --> 00:34:19,547
good things happening because
you're just gonna think about,
1017
00:34:19,632 --> 00:34:21,141
"Well, when
is the bad gonna come?"
1018
00:34:21,225 --> 00:34:22,550
And that's just...
- Yeah.
1019
00:34:22,635 --> 00:34:25,220
- Will ultimately, like,
hold us back.
1020
00:34:25,304 --> 00:34:32,194
♪ ♪
1021
00:34:36,908 --> 00:34:38,658
- We're going
in the front today.
1022
00:34:39,735 --> 00:34:41,078
- All right.
1023
00:34:41,162 --> 00:34:42,904
- All the way back?
- All the way in the back.
1024
00:34:42,997 --> 00:34:44,823
- I told the guys that
I don't need Lindsey
1025
00:34:44,916 --> 00:34:46,157
to apologize.
1026
00:34:46,242 --> 00:34:47,659
- If she apologizes to you,
1027
00:34:47,743 --> 00:34:49,160
does that mean something?
1028
00:34:49,253 --> 00:34:51,421
Does that change the dynamic?
1029
00:34:54,092 --> 00:34:55,842
- I'm cool with it.
I don't need an apology.
1030
00:34:56,001 --> 00:34:58,002
But I have a DM
1031
00:34:58,087 --> 00:35:00,755
on Instagram from Lindsey
apologizing from her behavior.
1032
00:35:00,848 --> 00:35:03,591
So I'm not gonna try
to dwell on it
1033
00:35:03,684 --> 00:35:05,185
because she's not important
to me
1034
00:35:05,269 --> 00:35:07,270
and my marriage
and my wife and I,
1035
00:35:07,355 --> 00:35:10,014
so I'm--I'm gonna let Mark
handle what he has to do.
1036
00:35:10,099 --> 00:35:11,516
That's his problem.
1037
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:13,184
- Okay, where are we going?
1038
00:35:13,277 --> 00:35:14,602
All: On a boat!
1039
00:35:14,687 --> 00:35:17,030
- Whoo!
1040
00:35:17,189 --> 00:35:18,865
- There are very few people
out there
1041
00:35:18,950 --> 00:35:20,951
who have married
a complete stranger.
1042
00:35:21,110 --> 00:35:22,443
- Ooh, it's so cute!
1043
00:35:22,528 --> 00:35:23,528
- Whoo!
1044
00:35:23,621 --> 00:35:24,871
- So we've arranged
1045
00:35:25,030 --> 00:35:26,614
for them to take a ride together
1046
00:35:26,707 --> 00:35:29,126
on a Casteel tourist catamaran.
1047
00:35:29,285 --> 00:35:30,618
- I got you.
1048
00:35:30,703 --> 00:35:31,953
Oh, it's a lot bigger
than I first thought.
1049
00:35:32,037 --> 00:35:33,380
- So it's important
for our couples
1050
00:35:33,539 --> 00:35:34,622
to build a support system
1051
00:35:34,707 --> 00:35:37,384
with each other
who are literally
1052
00:35:37,543 --> 00:35:39,210
in the same boat that they are.
1053
00:35:39,295 --> 00:35:40,712
- Guys, buenas tardes!
1054
00:35:40,805 --> 00:35:41,713
You guys ready to go?
1055
00:35:41,797 --> 00:35:43,131
All: Yes!
1056
00:35:43,215 --> 00:35:44,391
- Phew, vámonos.
1057
00:35:44,550 --> 00:35:46,134
Both: Vámonos.
1058
00:35:46,218 --> 00:35:50,805
♪ ♪
1059
00:35:50,890 --> 00:35:53,316
- Puerto Rico lalalala!
1060
00:35:53,401 --> 00:35:54,734
- Our first boat trip.
1061
00:35:54,819 --> 00:35:56,561
- Yay!
1062
00:35:56,645 --> 00:35:57,562
- Did you guys learn about,
1063
00:35:57,655 --> 00:35:58,738
like, a lot of things
1064
00:35:58,898 --> 00:35:59,739
about each other while you
1065
00:35:59,899 --> 00:36:02,150
was doing your activities?
1066
00:36:02,234 --> 00:36:03,326
- We did this picnic,
and it's just
1067
00:36:03,485 --> 00:36:05,570
a great opportunity
to finally catch up.
1068
00:36:05,663 --> 00:36:08,248
- We just talked about our,
like, past relationships.
1069
00:36:08,332 --> 00:36:10,083
- Same.
- Oh, that's dope.
1070
00:36:10,168 --> 00:36:11,326
Getting deep, getting deep.
- Yeah.
1071
00:36:11,410 --> 00:36:12,252
- We pretty much did
the same thing,
1072
00:36:12,411 --> 00:36:13,253
where we just spoke about
1073
00:36:13,412 --> 00:36:15,005
our past relationships as well.
1074
00:36:16,999 --> 00:36:19,000
- Has anybody
consummated their marriage?
1075
00:36:19,084 --> 00:36:20,177
♪ ♪
1076
00:36:22,838 --> 00:36:24,264
- Getting in their business.
1077
00:36:24,348 --> 00:36:25,765
- Might as well
throw it out there.
1078
00:36:25,850 --> 00:36:27,017
- Shark?
- Mark?
1079
00:36:27,101 --> 00:36:28,685
[laughter]
1080
00:36:28,844 --> 00:36:29,769
- Definitely has.
- That laugh says it all.
1081
00:36:29,929 --> 00:36:30,845
- Yes, definitely have.
1082
00:36:30,930 --> 00:36:32,096
[laughter]
1083
00:36:32,181 --> 00:36:33,356
Next.
We got our answer; next.
1084
00:36:34,859 --> 00:36:36,184
- You see that smile?
- Look at her.
1085
00:36:36,268 --> 00:36:37,852
- I'll leave it to my wife.
- She's so happy!
1086
00:36:37,937 --> 00:36:38,770
- [yelling]
- I've never seen Lindsey
1087
00:36:38,854 --> 00:36:39,863
turn red!
- I'm so happy!
1088
00:36:39,947 --> 00:36:41,364
- I'll let my wife answer.
1089
00:36:41,523 --> 00:36:42,282
- I've never seen her
at a loss for words,
1090
00:36:42,441 --> 00:36:43,358
huh, Lindsey?
- Yeah!
1091
00:36:43,451 --> 00:36:44,618
[laughter]
1092
00:36:44,777 --> 00:36:45,860
- What about you?
1093
00:36:45,953 --> 00:36:47,111
- Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah,
1094
00:36:47,196 --> 00:36:48,363
no, I haven't got there.
[laughter]
1095
00:36:48,456 --> 00:36:49,614
- That's why he asked.
He's like,
1096
00:36:49,698 --> 00:36:51,199
"Mine's a hard no."
1097
00:36:51,292 --> 00:36:52,533
[laughter]
- Yeah, nope, nope.
1098
00:36:52,618 --> 00:36:54,294
- So?
- It's your turn.
1099
00:36:54,378 --> 00:36:56,204
- Well, we haven't--
We haven't yet.
1100
00:36:56,288 --> 00:36:57,956
I mean, it's only been,
what, three days
1101
00:36:58,040 --> 00:36:59,299
since we got married?
1102
00:36:59,458 --> 00:37:01,709
- I'm just someone
that wants to have
1103
00:37:01,794 --> 00:37:03,711
an emotional connection
with somebody first.
1104
00:37:03,796 --> 00:37:05,555
- Yeah.
- I'm usually someone who's
1105
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:07,048
pretty open
with whatever happens,
1106
00:37:07,132 --> 00:37:08,892
but now it's me and my wife.
1107
00:37:08,976 --> 00:37:10,977
And I'll definitely
wanna respect her boundaries.
1108
00:37:11,136 --> 00:37:12,395
- Absolutely.
- Mm-hmm.
1109
00:37:12,554 --> 00:37:13,888
- And she asked that
we keep whatever happens
1110
00:37:13,973 --> 00:37:15,139
between me and her, so...
1111
00:37:15,224 --> 00:37:16,975
- That's cool.
- Very respectful.
1112
00:37:17,068 --> 00:37:18,401
- What about you guys?
1113
00:37:18,486 --> 00:37:20,487
- I think everybody
at this point probably has
1114
00:37:20,571 --> 00:37:22,814
figured it out
that Alyssa and I--
1115
00:37:22,898 --> 00:37:23,898
We haven't had sex.
1116
00:37:23,983 --> 00:37:25,149
[laughter]
1117
00:37:25,234 --> 00:37:26,576
♪ ♪
1118
00:37:26,661 --> 00:37:27,994
- I see the island!
1119
00:37:28,153 --> 00:37:29,404
- Oh, I think it's that--
- Coming up?
1120
00:37:29,488 --> 00:37:30,997
- Oh, my God, that water.
1121
00:37:31,082 --> 00:37:32,490
- Look at how blue it is!
- Yeah, look it.
1122
00:37:32,574 --> 00:37:33,750
- Yeah, it's like--
- Yeah, right here, look.
1123
00:37:33,909 --> 00:37:35,001
- Can't wait
to go in this water.
1124
00:37:35,086 --> 00:37:36,494
- God, me too.
- I can't wait, too.
1125
00:37:36,578 --> 00:37:39,080
Last one in the water's
a rotten egg.
1126
00:37:39,164 --> 00:37:40,882
♪ ♪
1127
00:37:45,429 --> 00:37:46,513
- Oh, Lindsey!
1128
00:37:46,597 --> 00:37:50,591
- ♪ Summer, yeah, ah, ah ♪
1129
00:37:50,685 --> 00:37:53,094
♪ We're gonna live
until forever ♪
1130
00:37:53,178 --> 00:37:57,098
♪ ♪
1131
00:37:57,182 --> 00:37:59,693
- Look at the boys, look.
1132
00:37:59,777 --> 00:38:01,269
- They're so cute.
1133
00:38:01,353 --> 00:38:03,113
- They look like they're
having so much fun
1134
00:38:03,197 --> 00:38:05,198
around that surfboard.
1135
00:38:05,283 --> 00:38:07,025
- So how was
everybody's first night?
1136
00:38:07,109 --> 00:38:08,609
- It was really good.
1137
00:38:08,694 --> 00:38:09,694
It's weird.
Like, we're just so comfortable
1138
00:38:09,787 --> 00:38:11,037
around each other.
- Yeah.
1139
00:38:11,122 --> 00:38:12,363
- No, you guys really are.
I see it, yeah.
1140
00:38:12,448 --> 00:38:13,531
- And it's like really eerie
1141
00:38:13,615 --> 00:38:15,125
'cause I'm like--I'm, like,
1142
00:38:15,209 --> 00:38:17,544
slowly falling in love with him.
1143
00:38:17,703 --> 00:38:18,786
Like, I feel it happening.
1144
00:38:18,879 --> 00:38:20,297
- Aww.
- And I said that to him,
1145
00:38:20,381 --> 00:38:21,372
and he didn't
1146
00:38:21,465 --> 00:38:23,633
immediately say that.
1147
00:38:23,792 --> 00:38:25,793
He said, "Thank you,
like, for telling me that."
1148
00:38:25,878 --> 00:38:27,211
♪ ♪
1149
00:38:27,305 --> 00:38:28,296
- I got a--
1150
00:38:28,389 --> 00:38:29,630
I got hit with a hard one today.
1151
00:38:29,715 --> 00:38:30,890
- What?
1152
00:38:31,050 --> 00:38:32,633
- She basically said that
1153
00:38:32,718 --> 00:38:35,636
she could see herself
falling in love with me.
1154
00:38:35,721 --> 00:38:37,397
♪ ♪
1155
00:38:37,556 --> 00:38:39,149
- Steve.
- Does that scare you?
1156
00:38:39,233 --> 00:38:42,393
- So it does scare me.
I mean, the wedding was just
1157
00:38:42,478 --> 00:38:43,486
a few days ago.
- Yeah.
1158
00:38:43,645 --> 00:38:45,229
- And we're moving
at a rapid pace.
1159
00:38:45,323 --> 00:38:46,647
- Did you express--did you say
1160
00:38:46,732 --> 00:38:47,982
anything about how you felt,
though?
1161
00:38:48,075 --> 00:38:49,400
- I let her know.
I told her that I'm glad
1162
00:38:49,493 --> 00:38:50,744
that she expressed it,
1163
00:38:50,828 --> 00:38:52,162
but I'm not there yet, you know?
1164
00:38:52,246 --> 00:38:53,404
- Right.
- So
1165
00:38:53,489 --> 00:38:54,739
she may have been
kind of looking
1166
00:38:54,823 --> 00:38:55,915
at me sideways, like...
1167
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:57,417
- Mm-hmm.
- That's-- "Is that enough,"
1168
00:38:57,501 --> 00:38:58,493
you know?
- Right.
1169
00:38:58,577 --> 00:38:59,911
- It was definitely, like,
1170
00:38:59,995 --> 00:39:00,828
a first challenge of like,
"Whoa, okay,"
1171
00:39:00,921 --> 00:39:03,173
you know, so...
- Right.
1172
00:39:03,257 --> 00:39:04,507
- I got a question for you.
It's something I'm--
1173
00:39:04,666 --> 00:39:06,834
I'm battling with.
Like, how do you guys
1174
00:39:06,919 --> 00:39:08,511
find that balance between
going with the flow
1175
00:39:08,670 --> 00:39:10,421
and not putting
too much pressure so fast?
1176
00:39:10,506 --> 00:39:11,672
'Cause I feel like I'm
not going with the flow.
1177
00:39:11,757 --> 00:39:13,174
- Okay.
1178
00:39:13,258 --> 00:39:14,601
- So I'm creating things that
aren't even there.
1179
00:39:14,685 --> 00:39:15,935
- Creating things that aren't--
- And then it's like,
1180
00:39:16,020 --> 00:39:17,270
"Wait,
this wasn't even an issue."
1181
00:39:17,355 --> 00:39:18,262
And now you made it an issue.
1182
00:39:18,347 --> 00:39:19,680
- You overthought it, okay.
1183
00:39:19,765 --> 00:39:21,182
- When you feel that
you are going too forward,
1184
00:39:21,266 --> 00:39:22,600
that's when you fall back
a little bit.
1185
00:39:22,684 --> 00:39:23,943
Like, if you're thinking,
1186
00:39:24,028 --> 00:39:25,353
"All right,
what I'm bringing here
1187
00:39:25,437 --> 00:39:26,854
is creating something,
all right, let me just--"
1188
00:39:26,939 --> 00:39:28,189
- And then you pull
back a little bit?
1189
00:39:28,273 --> 00:39:29,440
- Yeah, and maybe wait for her
to make
1190
00:39:29,525 --> 00:39:30,775
the next big--big--
1191
00:39:30,859 --> 00:39:31,692
- Jump.
- Move in conversation,
1192
00:39:31,777 --> 00:39:32,777
you know? Yeah.
1193
00:39:32,861 --> 00:39:33,778
- What about you, O?
1194
00:39:33,862 --> 00:39:34,779
Like, how is it--how is it?
1195
00:39:34,863 --> 00:39:35,863
Are you, you know--
1196
00:39:35,948 --> 00:39:36,948
Anything like this going on?
1197
00:39:37,032 --> 00:39:38,533
- You know
what's actually funny?
1198
00:39:38,617 --> 00:39:40,118
My wife thinks that
we just went to the gym
1199
00:39:40,202 --> 00:39:41,119
to just go to the gym.
1200
00:39:41,203 --> 00:39:43,213
I purposely pushed her
1201
00:39:43,372 --> 00:39:44,798
for her to speak up.
1202
00:39:44,957 --> 00:39:46,374
Like, I--I do an exercise
1203
00:39:46,458 --> 00:39:47,708
I knew would bother me,
1204
00:39:47,793 --> 00:39:49,803
and she spoke up about it.
1205
00:39:49,887 --> 00:39:51,554
Like,
"Hey, this is bothering me."
1206
00:39:51,713 --> 00:39:53,139
And I love that, like,
honestly, honestly.
1207
00:39:53,224 --> 00:39:55,642
I wanna make sure
that this is real.
1208
00:39:55,726 --> 00:39:58,061
You know,
don't try to just be passive
1209
00:39:58,145 --> 00:40:00,980
and just be, like, "Oh,
lovey-dovey" because we're
1210
00:40:01,065 --> 00:40:02,390
in heaven on Earth.
- Paradise, yeah.
1211
00:40:02,474 --> 00:40:03,975
- You want this to be
a lifelong commitment?
1212
00:40:04,068 --> 00:40:06,569
Don't just flow with it.
1213
00:40:06,654 --> 00:40:08,196
- How about you, Alyssa?
What was your first night like?
1214
00:40:09,824 --> 00:40:11,241
- I mean, I don't think
we need to talk about it.
1215
00:40:11,325 --> 00:40:12,316
I think, you know,
1216
00:40:12,401 --> 00:40:14,152
we've come to a good place.
1217
00:40:14,245 --> 00:40:18,156
And I think we're, you know,
ready to move forward,
1218
00:40:18,240 --> 00:40:20,333
and, you know,
do our best in the situation
1219
00:40:20,418 --> 00:40:22,001
that we were given.
- Mm-hmm.
1220
00:40:22,086 --> 00:40:24,087
- So you guys are gonna
move into, not--
1221
00:40:24,171 --> 00:40:25,255
Sorry, I'm just wondering,
like...
1222
00:40:27,416 --> 00:40:28,416
♪ ♪
1223
00:40:28,500 --> 00:40:29,342
- Honestly,
1224
00:40:29,501 --> 00:40:31,010
we're peas and carrots.
1225
00:40:31,095 --> 00:40:33,254
- Peas and carrots.
- Yeah, I have no complaints.
1226
00:40:33,338 --> 00:40:34,848
I think he's probably
my perfect match.
1227
00:40:34,932 --> 00:40:37,175
We balance
each other really well.
1228
00:40:37,259 --> 00:40:39,602
Like, I would've never picked
him up at a bar, picked him.
1229
00:40:39,687 --> 00:40:40,511
But he's the perfect man for me.
1230
00:40:40,596 --> 00:40:41,929
- Aww.
1231
00:40:42,014 --> 00:40:43,181
- It's like, I love him.
He's the one. That's it.
1232
00:40:43,265 --> 00:40:43,940
- Oh, my God, you love him?
- You love him?
1233
00:40:44,099 --> 00:40:45,933
- Oh, wow.
- Aww!
1234
00:40:46,018 --> 00:40:47,852
- No, girl,
I gotta keep some secrets.
1235
00:40:47,936 --> 00:40:49,195
[laughter]
Come on, please.
1236
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:50,864
- It's been really interesting
1237
00:40:50,948 --> 00:40:53,533
because the wedding was a lot.
1238
00:40:53,617 --> 00:40:55,359
And then we have the airplane.
1239
00:40:55,444 --> 00:40:56,360
And like, okay, now
1240
00:40:56,454 --> 00:40:57,537
I'm taking a step back
1241
00:40:57,696 --> 00:40:58,955
'cause this is not what I like.
1242
00:40:59,114 --> 00:41:00,457
It kind of pulled me
back for a second 'cause
1243
00:41:00,541 --> 00:41:01,958
there was nothing really
that I felt triggered it.
1244
00:41:02,042 --> 00:41:04,035
But as--as a friend said,
"You gotta--you gotta
1245
00:41:04,128 --> 00:41:05,369
reel her in."
1246
00:41:05,463 --> 00:41:07,464
I'm like, "I'll reel you in
once or twice,
1247
00:41:07,548 --> 00:41:08,873
but at some point,
you gotta stop doing that."
1248
00:41:08,957 --> 00:41:10,124
- Mark, do you think
1249
00:41:10,209 --> 00:41:13,127
her energy will--will
tire you out?
1250
00:41:13,212 --> 00:41:14,971
♪ ♪
1251
00:41:15,055 --> 00:41:16,047
- It's a lot for me.
1252
00:41:16,140 --> 00:41:17,557
- Hmm, Mark "the Shark."
1253
00:41:17,716 --> 00:41:19,050
- Yeah.
- [chuckles]
1254
00:41:19,143 --> 00:41:20,051
- It sounds like it's
almost to the point
1255
00:41:20,135 --> 00:41:21,144
for you that it sounds like
1256
00:41:21,303 --> 00:41:22,470
a deal breaker, right, if it--
- It's--
1257
00:41:22,563 --> 00:41:24,138
- If this continues
to happen, then it's like,
1258
00:41:24,223 --> 00:41:25,732
"Okay, this isn't
gonna be okay with me."
1259
00:41:25,816 --> 00:41:27,567
- I told her,
I told her, "It's difficult
1260
00:41:27,726 --> 00:41:31,729
for me in situations that feel
okay with us when you do that."
1261
00:41:31,822 --> 00:41:33,656
- Right.
1262
00:41:33,815 --> 00:41:35,492
- And if you can't respect
that, then maybe you can
1263
00:41:35,651 --> 00:41:37,485
just remember that next time
something comes up.
1264
00:41:37,569 --> 00:41:39,078
♪ ♪
1265
00:41:39,163 --> 00:41:40,821
- Well, I'm glad
that you came back,
1266
00:41:40,906 --> 00:41:43,324
and, like, I'm glad that
we're able to, like--
1267
00:41:43,417 --> 00:41:45,251
- Just need a moment.
- Yeah.
1268
00:41:45,336 --> 00:41:46,753
And I think
we all needed a moment.
1269
00:41:46,837 --> 00:41:48,579
- Yeah, no,
I was just triggered.
1270
00:41:48,664 --> 00:41:51,415
I had been in a relationship
with somebody.
1271
00:41:51,509 --> 00:41:53,343
He literally, like,
lost his mind after drinking.
1272
00:41:53,427 --> 00:41:55,086
And so there was just
1273
00:41:55,170 --> 00:41:56,846
a moment where I was kind of
brought back into that place.
1274
00:41:57,005 --> 00:41:58,839
That was just a me thing,
me and my history,
1275
00:41:58,924 --> 00:42:00,925
so I just needed to take
a second and be like,
1276
00:42:01,018 --> 00:42:03,177
"That was a long time ago, and
that's not today," you know?
1277
00:42:03,262 --> 00:42:04,345
- So you know you triggered
1278
00:42:04,438 --> 00:42:06,097
that moment for yourself, right?
1279
00:42:06,190 --> 00:42:07,515
So--
- Him and I had--well,
1280
00:42:07,608 --> 00:42:08,942
first of all, there's
three sides of the truth.
1281
00:42:09,101 --> 00:42:10,351
Yours, mine, and the truth.
Him and I
1282
00:42:10,435 --> 00:42:11,861
had a conversation last night.
- Yours, mine,
1283
00:42:11,946 --> 00:42:13,437
and the truth, or your
perception and the truth?
1284
00:42:13,522 --> 00:42:14,772
- That's what I'm saying.
- And mine, yours,
1285
00:42:14,865 --> 00:42:15,865
mine, and the truth.
- Yours, mine, and the truth.
1286
00:42:17,109 --> 00:42:18,276
♪ ♪
1287
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:19,360
- So...
1288
00:42:19,444 --> 00:42:20,370
I need to calm down 'cause--
1289
00:42:20,454 --> 00:42:21,454
- Yeah, why don't we come over--
1290
00:42:21,539 --> 00:42:22,539
- I would've
talked to you gladly.
1291
00:42:22,623 --> 00:42:24,365
- I need a second.
1292
00:42:24,458 --> 00:42:27,618
Me and Olajuwon--we had
our own conversation
1293
00:42:27,703 --> 00:42:30,121
where he's just like, "Okay,
like, don't say anything.
1294
00:42:30,214 --> 00:42:31,798
Let's just drop it."
1295
00:42:31,882 --> 00:42:33,841
But I can't--I can't sit here
and listen to this.
1296
00:42:37,713 --> 00:42:39,380
I was not anticipating
1297
00:42:39,464 --> 00:42:41,382
anything dramatic
happening today.
1298
00:42:41,475 --> 00:42:43,884
And I've tried
to take his advice.
1299
00:42:43,969 --> 00:42:45,395
But now I'm gonna move with how
1300
00:42:45,554 --> 00:42:47,480
I handle situations.
1301
00:42:47,565 --> 00:42:49,315
Okay, so I know you spoke
to my husband.
1302
00:42:49,474 --> 00:42:50,725
I'm not like him.
1303
00:42:50,818 --> 00:42:52,727
You were just saying
on the plane
1304
00:42:52,811 --> 00:42:55,146
you were tr--"I was triggered
because
1305
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:56,239
of what happened to me."
1306
00:42:56,398 --> 00:42:57,565
I don't care
what happened to you
1307
00:42:57,649 --> 00:42:59,150
when you were two,
three, four years old.
1308
00:42:59,234 --> 00:43:00,660
You are 35 years old.
1309
00:43:00,744 --> 00:43:02,737
Seek the healthy means
to get over it,
1310
00:43:02,821 --> 00:43:04,488
and no, when you get liquor,
don't pass that
1311
00:43:04,582 --> 00:43:05,656
on other people.
1312
00:43:05,741 --> 00:43:07,074
You're way too old for that.
1313
00:43:07,159 --> 00:43:08,835
Secondly,
1314
00:43:08,919 --> 00:43:10,828
maybe he wouldn't have
had that reaction
1315
00:43:10,912 --> 00:43:12,913
if you didn't keep jabbing.
1316
00:43:12,998 --> 00:43:15,008
It's like you poke people.
You're a--
1317
00:43:15,092 --> 00:43:16,175
You're like,
"I'm not touching you."
1318
00:43:16,260 --> 00:43:17,176
You're, like, five years old.
1319
00:43:17,336 --> 00:43:19,670
And then
when you get a reaction,
1320
00:43:19,763 --> 00:43:22,506
you play victim so much.
You're manipulative.
1321
00:43:22,591 --> 00:43:23,850
- That's really rude.
1322
00:43:23,934 --> 00:43:24,851
- I don't care
if it's rude or not.
1323
00:43:25,010 --> 00:43:25,926
I'm telling you because
1324
00:43:26,011 --> 00:43:27,186
you're rude.
1325
00:43:27,346 --> 00:43:29,180
I think you have
kindness in you,
1326
00:43:29,264 --> 00:43:31,015
but I think you do a lot
1327
00:43:31,099 --> 00:43:33,768
of sneaky,
weird stuff on the side.
1328
00:43:33,852 --> 00:43:35,111
- Yeah, well, I guess
I don't talk--
1329
00:43:35,270 --> 00:43:36,187
- And I don't care,
and I'm not listening to this.
1330
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:37,530
- I guess when it shows,
1331
00:43:37,615 --> 00:43:39,198
he only gets to see
the true me, but--
1332
00:43:39,358 --> 00:43:40,524
- I don't care
about the show, girl.
1333
00:43:40,609 --> 00:43:41,701
I'm living it in the moment.
1334
00:43:46,114 --> 00:43:47,915
♪ ♪
1335
00:43:51,462 --> 00:43:53,212
That was rude.
1336
00:43:57,217 --> 00:43:58,709
- I don't like that.
1337
00:43:58,802 --> 00:44:00,294
I'm not here to build
friendships, I'm here--
1338
00:44:00,387 --> 00:44:01,796
- For your husband.
- Exactly,
1339
00:44:01,889 --> 00:44:03,222
and that's what
I wanna focus on.
1340
00:44:03,307 --> 00:44:05,216
- I just felt I was triggered
and I needed
1341
00:44:05,300 --> 00:44:06,884
a moment to regroup myself.
1342
00:44:06,977 --> 00:44:08,394
- But she's not coming
at you 'cause you needed
1343
00:44:08,553 --> 00:44:09,979
a moment to regroup.
1344
00:44:10,138 --> 00:44:11,389
She's trying
to get you to understand
1345
00:44:11,473 --> 00:44:12,482
that you cause that
1346
00:44:12,566 --> 00:44:14,058
for you to be triggered.
1347
00:44:14,142 --> 00:44:17,070
Like, you could've
stopped, but you didn't.
1348
00:44:17,154 --> 00:44:18,237
- I don't wanna
talk about it anymore.
1349
00:44:18,397 --> 00:44:19,980
I need to go on a walk.
1350
00:44:20,065 --> 00:44:21,324
- I love you.
I think you're a great person.
1351
00:44:21,408 --> 00:44:22,992
You always check in on me.
1352
00:44:23,077 --> 00:44:25,495
But I do think, you know,
some people probably think
1353
00:44:25,579 --> 00:44:27,246
it's just too much.
1354
00:44:27,331 --> 00:44:29,490
Some people can take,
you know, you being
1355
00:44:29,574 --> 00:44:31,992
always on 100,
and some people can't.
1356
00:44:32,086 --> 00:44:34,003
But you're not a bad person,
1357
00:44:34,088 --> 00:44:35,246
I don't want you to think that
you're a bad person.
1358
00:44:35,330 --> 00:44:36,673
- Yet I'm hearing that I am.
1359
00:44:38,342 --> 00:44:39,592
I got a little upset
1360
00:44:39,677 --> 00:44:42,336
on the boat when Katina made
comments to me
1361
00:44:42,421 --> 00:44:44,505
about, like, in-valuing
1362
00:44:44,589 --> 00:44:48,843
my experience because
I think that's unfair.
1363
00:44:48,927 --> 00:44:50,678
I think it's really important
1364
00:44:50,771 --> 00:44:53,272
that we remember
being vulnerable
1365
00:44:53,432 --> 00:44:57,193
and open is a sign of strength
and awareness and courage.
1366
00:44:57,352 --> 00:44:59,854
And you should never
judge somebody
1367
00:44:59,947 --> 00:45:01,698
for their truth
and their experience.
1368
00:45:04,192 --> 00:45:05,952
- Let's go.
1369
00:45:06,111 --> 00:45:09,455
- ♪ Come sail away with me ♪
1370
00:45:09,614 --> 00:45:12,450
♪ We'll be all right ♪
1371
00:45:12,534 --> 00:45:16,713
♪ You seeing when we leave ♪
1372
00:45:16,797 --> 00:45:19,623
♪ I won't forget you ♪
1373
00:45:19,717 --> 00:45:21,884
I'm just thinking about
everything she said to me
1374
00:45:21,969 --> 00:45:24,053
and how she said it,
her delivery.
1375
00:45:24,138 --> 00:45:25,963
- That's why I always say,
like, "What you say
1376
00:45:26,047 --> 00:45:27,056
"and how you say
in your delivery
1377
00:45:27,215 --> 00:45:28,391
is gonna affect everyone
differently."
1378
00:45:29,977 --> 00:45:31,051
- I'm just--just upset
at the way she talked to me.
1379
00:45:31,145 --> 00:45:32,311
- Right, right, right,
so you're upset
1380
00:45:32,471 --> 00:45:33,479
the way she talked to you.
1381
00:45:33,564 --> 00:45:34,397
We have to just figure out
a plan.
1382
00:45:38,485 --> 00:45:39,986
I want Lindsey to walk away
1383
00:45:40,145 --> 00:45:42,739
from things that we don't need
to get into as a couple.
1384
00:45:47,235 --> 00:45:49,662
For her, it's--I feel it's
harder to do that
1385
00:45:49,747 --> 00:45:51,739
because she wants to just
get across a good point.
1386
00:45:51,823 --> 00:45:53,908
But sometimes, that point
1387
00:45:53,992 --> 00:45:57,420
starts a--a fiasco things.
1388
00:46:01,917 --> 00:46:03,509
And at the end of the day,
the house is on fire,
1389
00:46:03,594 --> 00:46:04,844
don't throw gasoline.
1390
00:46:05,003 --> 00:46:06,345
Put water or just
1391
00:46:06,430 --> 00:46:07,171
walk away from it.
It's not your house,
1392
00:46:07,264 --> 00:46:08,255
Walk away!
1393
00:46:08,340 --> 00:46:09,757
Let it burn.
1394
00:46:09,850 --> 00:46:11,100
Long as there's no people
in there.
1395
00:46:11,185 --> 00:46:12,435
- Play a game right now.
1396
00:46:12,519 --> 00:46:13,770
- "Never have I ever"?
1397
00:46:13,929 --> 00:46:15,179
- Wait, are you
putting up ten fingers?
1398
00:46:15,263 --> 00:46:16,689
- Five.
- Five?
1399
00:46:16,774 --> 00:46:18,682
- Never have I ever...
- Let's do it.
1400
00:46:18,767 --> 00:46:19,859
- All right,
we started doing it.
1401
00:46:19,943 --> 00:46:21,527
- Been outside
of the U.S. and Canada?
1402
00:46:21,612 --> 00:46:22,779
- U.S. Canada.
- If you--if you have
1403
00:46:22,863 --> 00:46:24,363
been outside the US and Canada,
1404
00:46:24,448 --> 00:46:25,782
put a finger down.
- Put a finger down.
1405
00:46:25,941 --> 00:46:27,700
- Never have I ever
murdered someone.
1406
00:46:27,785 --> 00:46:29,276
- Wha--oh, oh!
1407
00:46:29,361 --> 00:46:30,620
- I'ma keep my hands up.
- Aww.
1408
00:46:30,704 --> 00:46:33,039
- Never have I ever
been arrested.
1409
00:46:33,198 --> 00:46:34,290
- What?
- Arrested.
1410
00:46:34,449 --> 00:46:35,366
- Oh!
- You were arrested, Jasmina?
1411
00:46:35,459 --> 00:46:37,117
- [gasps]
1412
00:46:37,202 --> 00:46:38,786
- My--first of all,
my record is clean.
1413
00:46:38,879 --> 00:46:40,296
I did my community service.
1414
00:46:40,380 --> 00:46:41,881
- [laughter]
- It was
1415
00:46:41,965 --> 00:46:43,207
in high school,
and it was just like
1416
00:46:43,291 --> 00:46:45,968
a big fight, and a couple
of us got arrested.
1417
00:46:46,127 --> 00:46:47,211
- Did you win, though?
- Did you win?
1418
00:46:47,304 --> 00:46:48,963
- I did.
- Yay!
1419
00:46:49,047 --> 00:46:50,640
- All right, Noi.
1420
00:46:52,551 --> 00:46:55,394
- Never have I ever
gone skinny dipping.
1421
00:46:55,479 --> 00:46:56,554
- Sluts.
1422
00:46:56,647 --> 00:46:58,889
[laughter]
1423
00:46:58,974 --> 00:47:01,141
- Never have I ever
cheated on someone.
1424
00:47:01,235 --> 00:47:03,227
- If you haven't,
you put a finger down.
1425
00:47:03,311 --> 00:47:04,562
- If you cheated on them,
put a finger down.
1426
00:47:04,646 --> 00:47:06,322
- If you cheated on them,
put a finger down.
1427
00:47:06,406 --> 00:47:07,648
- There's eight max.
- I'm out.
1428
00:47:07,732 --> 00:47:08,741
- You never cheated on anyone?
- No.
1429
00:47:08,826 --> 00:47:10,326
- Nah.
- At all?
1430
00:47:10,485 --> 00:47:11,819
- No!
1431
00:47:11,903 --> 00:47:12,829
- So Steve
1432
00:47:12,913 --> 00:47:14,831
puts down his finger,
1433
00:47:14,915 --> 00:47:17,750
and I look over at him,
and I'm like,
1434
00:47:17,835 --> 00:47:20,244
"Okay, we're gonna talk
about this later."
1435
00:47:20,328 --> 00:47:23,914
I just would have liked
1436
00:47:24,007 --> 00:47:26,000
to learn that information
about my husband
1437
00:47:26,084 --> 00:47:27,593
maybe in private or never.
1438
00:47:27,752 --> 00:47:28,928
Not a good start, like,
1439
00:47:29,012 --> 00:47:30,513
to anyone's honeymoon,
I don't think.
1440
00:47:30,597 --> 00:47:32,849
- Never have I ever
had a threesome.
1441
00:47:34,676 --> 00:47:36,010
- You had one?
- Wait, wait, no, I didn't.
1442
00:47:36,094 --> 00:47:37,761
[laughter]
1443
00:47:37,846 --> 00:47:39,013
- I'm glad you got that
out of the way.
1444
00:47:39,097 --> 00:47:40,681
- And he said it.
1445
00:47:40,765 --> 00:47:41,849
- Who's next?
- All right, one more qu--
1446
00:47:41,942 --> 00:47:44,184
I can't think of anything.
- I cannot.
1447
00:47:44,269 --> 00:47:45,603
- It's the last one.
Come on, come on!
1448
00:47:45,696 --> 00:47:47,488
Go ahead, who's gonna ask
a good question--Mark?
1449
00:47:49,283 --> 00:47:50,941
There's nothing you guys wonder?
1450
00:47:51,026 --> 00:47:52,368
Like, what your spouse has done.
1451
00:47:52,452 --> 00:47:53,452
You re--this is the time to ask.
1452
00:47:53,537 --> 00:47:54,778
- Why don't you just ask it?
Go ahead.
1453
00:47:54,863 --> 00:47:55,946
- Yeah, you wanna...
- Yeah, go ahead, ask it.
1454
00:47:56,031 --> 00:47:57,790
- What're you thinking?
- Have you ever
1455
00:47:57,949 --> 00:48:00,126
slept with somebody in the
same, like, the same family,
1456
00:48:00,210 --> 00:48:01,201
like they, like you slept--
- What?
1457
00:48:01,286 --> 00:48:02,620
- That's messed--
1458
00:48:02,704 --> 00:48:04,204
- Like the same sister,
mother, daughter?
1459
00:48:04,298 --> 00:48:05,548
- Has anybody has ever messed
1460
00:48:05,632 --> 00:48:07,124
with a woman or a man
1461
00:48:07,217 --> 00:48:08,542
and then messed with, like,
their family after that,
1462
00:48:08,635 --> 00:48:09,543
like, their cousin?
- Never.
1463
00:48:09,628 --> 00:48:10,887
- No.
- No.
1464
00:48:10,971 --> 00:48:11,888
- So what're you do on
Mother's--
1465
00:48:11,972 --> 00:48:13,297
- Who'd you mess with?
1466
00:48:13,381 --> 00:48:14,557
Did you do two sisters?
- What did you do?
1467
00:48:14,716 --> 00:48:15,466
- I messed with
a mom and her daughter.
1468
00:48:15,550 --> 00:48:16,467
- Oh.
1469
00:48:16,551 --> 00:48:22,556
♪ ♪
1470
00:48:22,641 --> 00:48:24,066
- Together at the same time?
1471
00:48:24,151 --> 00:48:25,568
- No, but I picked them
both up at the train station,
1472
00:48:25,652 --> 00:48:26,819
and they both knew.
1473
00:48:26,904 --> 00:48:28,395
- Huh.
- That's disturbing.
1474
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:29,563
- That's why I left them.
- That's really weird.
1475
00:48:29,648 --> 00:48:30,648
- First of all,
1476
00:48:30,732 --> 00:48:32,232
hold on.
That's not disturbing.
1477
00:48:32,317 --> 00:48:33,400
That's actually
a beautiful experience.
1478
00:48:33,485 --> 00:48:35,077
[laughter]
1479
00:48:35,162 --> 00:48:36,162
- Did you know
they were related?
1480
00:48:36,246 --> 00:48:37,496
- Of course I did.
1481
00:48:37,581 --> 00:48:38,989
- Oh, okay, all right.
- Did you give 'em--
1482
00:48:39,082 --> 00:48:40,491
- 'Course I did, 'course I did.
- Cool, cool, cool.
1483
00:48:40,584 --> 00:48:41,584
Absolutely, later--
- That was the old him, guys.
1484
00:48:41,668 --> 00:48:43,085
I just wanna clarify that.
1485
00:48:43,244 --> 00:48:44,754
- Yes, I got a ring
on my finger.
1486
00:48:46,423 --> 00:48:47,498
- Holy [bleep].
1487
00:48:47,582 --> 00:48:48,758
Everyone's face is like...
1488
00:48:50,594 --> 00:48:52,345
- It was a great experience,
though, you know?
1489
00:48:52,429 --> 00:48:54,254
- Like, how--what do you mean?
1490
00:48:54,348 --> 00:48:55,422
How the [bleep] did this happen?
1491
00:48:55,515 --> 00:48:56,757
Was it both of them together?
1492
00:48:56,850 --> 00:48:57,925
Was it both of them separate?
1493
00:48:58,018 --> 00:49:00,594
Did you know?
Did you not know?
1494
00:49:00,679 --> 00:49:01,512
- I don't doubt it.
- I'm glad it was
1495
00:49:01,605 --> 00:49:02,855
great for you.
1496
00:49:02,940 --> 00:49:05,107
- Sounds like
a great learning experience.
1497
00:49:05,192 --> 00:49:08,435
- It is never okay with me,
but for other people,
1498
00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:11,105
if they both agree to it, then,
um, yeah, that's their life.
1499
00:49:11,198 --> 00:49:12,272
- Moving on.
- Would you--
1500
00:49:12,357 --> 00:49:13,607
Now you guys are married,
1501
00:49:13,692 --> 00:49:16,527
if your spouse has asked you
1502
00:49:16,611 --> 00:49:18,112
to have a threesome,
would you jump in it?
1503
00:49:18,196 --> 00:49:23,617
♪ ♪
1504
00:49:23,702 --> 00:49:25,461
- Is anyone okay with it?
1505
00:49:25,545 --> 00:49:27,213
Is it off the table
for everybody?
1506
00:49:27,372 --> 00:49:28,631
- 100%.
- Yeah.
1507
00:49:28,790 --> 00:49:29,966
- It's off the table.
- Off the table.
1508
00:49:30,050 --> 00:49:31,041
- It's off the table.
1509
00:49:31,126 --> 00:49:32,126
- It's off the table, I guess.
1510
00:49:32,210 --> 00:49:33,210
I mean, it takes two, right?
1511
00:49:33,294 --> 00:49:34,378
- What do you mean, you guess?
1512
00:49:34,462 --> 00:49:36,472
♪ ♪
1513
00:49:36,556 --> 00:49:37,965
No, mm-mm.
1514
00:49:38,049 --> 00:49:40,643
I'm just over
his wild Isaac stories.
1515
00:49:40,727 --> 00:49:42,052
Don't bring
that stuff over here.
1516
00:49:42,137 --> 00:49:43,804
It's not happening.
1517
00:49:43,897 --> 00:49:45,731
- If you offered me...
- I guess.
1518
00:49:45,890 --> 00:49:47,558
- I know if I offered you--
- If you--if you offered me
1519
00:49:47,642 --> 00:49:48,651
another woman, why would I not?
1520
00:49:50,487 --> 00:49:51,979
My sexual, like, life,
I--I love--
1521
00:49:52,063 --> 00:49:53,656
- Well, we all know that,
but it's not happening.
1522
00:49:53,815 --> 00:49:55,149
- Whatever you're cool with,
I'm cool with.
1523
00:49:55,242 --> 00:49:56,409
But if you have offered that,
1524
00:49:56,568 --> 00:49:57,985
why would I deny it?
1525
00:49:58,069 --> 00:50:03,791
♪ ♪
1526
00:50:11,842 --> 00:50:14,168
♪ All I wanna do is spend ♪
1527
00:50:14,261 --> 00:50:16,420
♪ A little time
alone with you ♪
1528
00:50:16,513 --> 00:50:18,931
♪ ♪
1529
00:50:19,016 --> 00:50:21,091
- So how are you feeling about
1530
00:50:21,184 --> 00:50:22,601
the honeymoon so far?
1531
00:50:22,686 --> 00:50:24,020
- Been having a lot of fun.
- Mm-hmm.
1532
00:50:24,179 --> 00:50:27,264
- You know, from our picnic
to the catamaran.
1533
00:50:27,348 --> 00:50:28,190
I know we might have had a bit
1534
00:50:28,275 --> 00:50:29,349
of a different experience there,
1535
00:50:29,434 --> 00:50:31,193
but I had a great time.
1536
00:50:31,278 --> 00:50:35,364
And now we're here, and--and
things are progressing fast,
1537
00:50:35,449 --> 00:50:38,108
and--just in general, I mean,
1538
00:50:38,201 --> 00:50:40,286
our intimacy level has
moved pretty fast, right?
1539
00:50:40,370 --> 00:50:41,704
- Yeah.
- When you think about it.
1540
00:50:41,863 --> 00:50:44,281
We're really
connected in that way.
1541
00:50:44,365 --> 00:50:47,367
- I mean, physically,
like chemistry-wise,
1542
00:50:47,461 --> 00:50:48,952
I feel like we're on track.
1543
00:50:49,046 --> 00:50:51,205
I mean, I did--I was
a little bit surprised
1544
00:50:51,298 --> 00:50:53,040
that that came
so natural for us.
1545
00:50:53,124 --> 00:50:56,293
Emotional connection,
I don't know.
1546
00:50:56,386 --> 00:50:59,963
I think with my heart,
and, like, if I feel
1547
00:51:00,057 --> 00:51:02,224
strongly for someone,
I'm just going to tell them.
1548
00:51:02,309 --> 00:51:04,226
You know, I'm not gonna
think about it that hard.
1549
00:51:07,639 --> 00:51:09,473
- After we talked about
1550
00:51:09,557 --> 00:51:11,391
our feelings for each other,
1551
00:51:11,476 --> 00:51:14,236
I felt like you were unhappy
or that you
1552
00:51:14,321 --> 00:51:16,572
felt like I wasn't
giving enough.
1553
00:51:16,731 --> 00:51:18,315
- You mean,
when I told you that I think
1554
00:51:18,399 --> 00:51:20,234
that I'm slowly falling
in love with you?
1555
00:51:20,318 --> 00:51:21,902
- Yeah, like, you said that...
- Yeah.
1556
00:51:21,995 --> 00:51:23,570
- And I told you how I felt.
1557
00:51:23,655 --> 00:51:26,156
- I think I was a little
taken aback because I just
1558
00:51:26,241 --> 00:51:27,833
was, like, "That's not really
1559
00:51:27,918 --> 00:51:30,994
what I wanted to hear," I guess.
1560
00:51:31,088 --> 00:51:33,172
- Based on three days
together and how well
1561
00:51:33,256 --> 00:51:35,833
we communicate
and how good things feel,
1562
00:51:35,926 --> 00:51:37,593
I think we have the potential
for that, for sure.
1563
00:51:37,752 --> 00:51:40,170
♪ ♪
1564
00:51:40,255 --> 00:51:42,506
But I do wanna honor the--myself
1565
00:51:42,599 --> 00:51:45,509
and give it the time that I
need to say "absolutely."
1566
00:51:45,593 --> 00:51:47,177
I can't say that until I know.
1567
00:51:47,270 --> 00:51:48,854
♪ ♪
1568
00:51:49,013 --> 00:51:50,940
We haven't gotten even
to the point of comfort level
1569
00:51:51,024 --> 00:51:53,359
of, "Hey, this is me raw
1570
00:51:53,518 --> 00:51:55,769
and everything about me
that you should know before,"
1571
00:51:55,854 --> 00:51:58,197
you know,
so--so that you know me fully.
1572
00:51:58,281 --> 00:52:01,775
[wind blowing]
1573
00:52:01,860 --> 00:52:02,868
- I guess it's something that
we have to, like,
1574
00:52:03,027 --> 00:52:04,203
think about, too.
1575
00:52:04,287 --> 00:52:07,364
Like, you know,
like what do we need
1576
00:52:07,448 --> 00:52:09,449
to know about each other that
could potentially be an issue?
1577
00:52:09,534 --> 00:52:10,450
[chuckles]
1578
00:52:10,535 --> 00:52:12,870
♪ ♪
1579
00:52:12,963 --> 00:52:16,298
Well, I've, like, cheated
on a partner like--
1580
00:52:16,383 --> 00:52:17,374
- Whoa, whoa, whoa.
1581
00:52:17,458 --> 00:52:18,792
You gave me a side eye
1582
00:52:18,877 --> 00:52:19,793
when I put a finger down.
1583
00:52:19,878 --> 00:52:21,053
Did you put a finger down?
1584
00:52:21,138 --> 00:52:22,296
I put a finger down.
- I think I did
1585
00:52:22,389 --> 00:52:23,714
put a finger down, yeah.
- Okay.
1586
00:52:23,807 --> 00:52:26,725
- And I was shocked
to hear that about you.
1587
00:52:26,810 --> 00:52:28,561
For whatever reason,
I thought you were this angel.
1588
00:52:28,645 --> 00:52:30,387
- You were like, "No,
I'm the only cheater here."
1589
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:31,722
- Yeah, I'm like--
1590
00:52:31,806 --> 00:52:32,648
- "How could you--how
could my husband?"
1591
00:52:32,732 --> 00:52:33,816
- "You?"
- [laughs]
1592
00:52:33,900 --> 00:52:34,817
- You're supposed to be perfect!
1593
00:52:34,901 --> 00:52:37,153
[chuckling]
1594
00:52:37,237 --> 00:52:39,155
- So why don't you tell me
the circumstances about that?
1595
00:52:39,314 --> 00:52:42,649
- I think I must've been,
like, 18 or 19.
1596
00:52:42,734 --> 00:52:45,819
And I think I was, like,
too afraid to acknowledge
1597
00:52:45,904 --> 00:52:48,581
that I wasn't happy
in the relationship.
1598
00:52:48,740 --> 00:52:51,333
And so it happened,
1599
00:52:51,418 --> 00:52:54,336
and, like, I'm not proud of it.
1600
00:52:54,495 --> 00:52:58,081
Just seeing how my actions
affected someone else
1601
00:52:58,175 --> 00:53:01,760
on such a deep level was just
so heartbreaking for me
1602
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:04,504
even to see that play out.
1603
00:53:04,589 --> 00:53:06,590
And like, I still think
about it to this day.
1604
00:53:06,683 --> 00:53:08,258
You know, like,
I can't believe I did that.
1605
00:53:08,351 --> 00:53:10,769
- Yeah, I mean, I've been
in the same position
1606
00:53:10,854 --> 00:53:12,346
around the same age as well.
- Mm-hmm.
1607
00:53:12,430 --> 00:53:13,939
- I cheated
on my first girlfriend.
1608
00:53:14,024 --> 00:53:15,349
You know, it was
a long-term relationship.
1609
00:53:15,442 --> 00:53:16,859
- Mm-hmm.
- She found out.
1610
00:53:16,943 --> 00:53:18,110
She was really hurt,
1611
00:53:18,195 --> 00:53:20,029
really upset by it,
and, you know,
1612
00:53:20,113 --> 00:53:22,615
it was one of those situations
where I didn't know
1613
00:53:22,699 --> 00:53:24,366
the true consequences
of my actions.
1614
00:53:24,525 --> 00:53:26,035
After that,
it was just like, "All right,
1615
00:53:26,194 --> 00:53:27,620
"from here on out,
that conversation
1616
00:53:27,704 --> 00:53:29,029
needs to be had," you know.
- Mm-hmm.
1617
00:53:29,122 --> 00:53:30,539
- Whether it's a breakup
or a break,
1618
00:53:30,698 --> 00:53:32,699
or it's just,
you owe that person
1619
00:53:32,784 --> 00:53:34,201
that much respect, right?
1620
00:53:34,294 --> 00:53:35,878
But yeah, so I--I, you know.
1621
00:53:36,037 --> 00:53:36,962
That's something
I completely understand.
1622
00:53:37,047 --> 00:53:38,464
At a young age--
1623
00:53:38,548 --> 00:53:39,623
I mean,
if you were telling me yeah,
1624
00:53:39,707 --> 00:53:40,624
you're still--if you're still
1625
00:53:40,708 --> 00:53:42,134
out at 30s, in your 30s,
1626
00:53:42,219 --> 00:53:43,469
and you're still cheating,
then yeah,
1627
00:53:43,628 --> 00:53:44,553
that might be an issue.
1628
00:53:44,712 --> 00:53:45,888
- That's a different story.
- Right.
1629
00:53:46,047 --> 00:53:47,381
- And that's a pattern
as opposed to somebody
1630
00:53:47,465 --> 00:53:48,799
who can learn and grow.
1631
00:53:48,883 --> 00:53:51,635
But yeah,
I don't view it as a red flag.
1632
00:53:51,728 --> 00:53:54,313
If what you're saying
is true and you grew from it,
1633
00:53:54,397 --> 00:53:55,722
you're a better person from it.
1634
00:53:55,807 --> 00:53:57,975
♪ ♪
1635
00:53:58,068 --> 00:53:59,652
- Yeah, I think I did.
1636
00:53:59,811 --> 00:54:01,153
- You think you did?
1637
00:54:01,238 --> 00:54:03,405
- I mean, I did.
Sorry, I did.
1638
00:54:03,490 --> 00:54:05,074
[chuckling]
1639
00:54:05,817 --> 00:54:07,326
♪ ♪
1640
00:54:08,820 --> 00:54:14,992
- ♪ What is,
what is the truth ♪
1641
00:54:15,085 --> 00:54:17,419
♪ ♪
1642
00:54:17,504 --> 00:54:19,246
- This morning, Michael and I
1643
00:54:19,330 --> 00:54:21,423
are having breakfast
on the balcony.
1644
00:54:21,508 --> 00:54:24,760
And he says,
1645
00:54:24,919 --> 00:54:27,096
yesterday on the catamaran,
when we were having
1646
00:54:27,255 --> 00:54:29,256
a group discussion
on whether or not
1647
00:54:29,349 --> 00:54:31,600
we consummated our marriage,
1648
00:54:31,685 --> 00:54:35,688
I cut him off as he
was explaining we didn't yet.
1649
00:54:35,772 --> 00:54:37,856
- Has anybody
consummated their marriage?
1650
00:54:37,941 --> 00:54:39,692
- Well,
we haven't--we haven't yet.
1651
00:54:39,776 --> 00:54:40,943
I mean, it's only been, what,
1652
00:54:41,102 --> 00:54:42,861
three days since we got married?
1653
00:54:42,946 --> 00:54:45,188
- I'm just someone
that wants to have
1654
00:54:45,282 --> 00:54:47,190
an emotional connection
with somebody first.
1655
00:54:47,284 --> 00:54:48,275
- Yeah.
1656
00:54:48,368 --> 00:54:52,204
He is telling me that I did.
1657
00:54:52,363 --> 00:54:53,872
He was there.
1658
00:54:53,957 --> 00:54:55,532
And if he said that
this happened,
1659
00:54:55,625 --> 00:54:59,211
then that happened,
and that I needed to apologize.
1660
00:54:59,296 --> 00:55:02,881
- ♪ Your lie which makes
no sense to me at all ♪
1661
00:55:02,966 --> 00:55:07,127
- I'm not going to apologize
if I feel in my heart
1662
00:55:07,211 --> 00:55:08,378
that I did not do that.
1663
00:55:08,471 --> 00:55:10,213
♪ ♪
1664
00:55:10,307 --> 00:55:12,224
I can only apologize
for how something
1665
00:55:12,383 --> 00:55:15,311
has made you feel, and
he's not trying to hear it.
1666
00:55:15,470 --> 00:55:16,645
And I feel in this moment
that he's being
1667
00:55:16,804 --> 00:55:18,397
very aggressive with his words.
1668
00:55:18,556 --> 00:55:20,649
I don't appreciate his tone.
1669
00:55:20,734 --> 00:55:21,808
It's disrespectful.
1670
00:55:21,893 --> 00:55:23,485
It's rude.
It's loud.
1671
00:55:23,570 --> 00:55:25,812
I'm--very annoying.
1672
00:55:25,905 --> 00:55:28,648
I'm very upset.
I'm very hurt.
1673
00:55:28,733 --> 00:55:31,910
I'm very just
with every [bleep] thing.
1674
00:55:31,995 --> 00:55:36,415
I don't tolerate disrespect
at all.
1675
00:55:36,574 --> 00:55:38,825
Why would I want to be with
somebody that doesn't know
1676
00:55:38,918 --> 00:55:41,495
how to have
a civil conversation?
1677
00:55:41,579 --> 00:55:43,088
♪ ♪
1678
00:55:43,173 --> 00:55:46,500
That is not how you
start off a relationship.
1679
00:55:46,593 --> 00:55:47,760
So I don't know
what's gonna happen
1680
00:55:47,844 --> 00:55:49,252
moving forward.
1681
00:55:49,346 --> 00:55:50,670
All I know right now is,
I'm not feeling him.
1682
00:55:50,764 --> 00:55:52,598
I don't wanna be
in this marriage.
1683
00:55:52,682 --> 00:55:54,758
I don't even wanna be
in the same room
1684
00:55:54,842 --> 00:55:55,926
with this man, honestly.
1685
00:55:56,019 --> 00:55:59,438
♪ ♪
1686
00:56:04,602 --> 00:56:07,529
[upbeat music]
1687
00:56:07,688 --> 00:56:10,366
♪ ♪
1688
00:56:10,450 --> 00:56:12,034
- I'm hungry.
1689
00:56:13,277 --> 00:56:15,195
Ooh, thank you.
1690
00:56:15,279 --> 00:56:16,455
- Ladies first.
1691
00:56:16,539 --> 00:56:17,948
- Ooh!
1692
00:56:18,041 --> 00:56:19,282
Thank you.
1693
00:56:19,376 --> 00:56:20,459
- Wow.
1694
00:56:20,543 --> 00:56:22,119
[both exhale]
1695
00:56:22,212 --> 00:56:23,120
- How are you feeling?
1696
00:56:23,204 --> 00:56:24,546
- Good, good, good.
1697
00:56:24,705 --> 00:56:26,123
So how you feel about today
and everything?
1698
00:56:26,207 --> 00:56:28,041
- Today was fun overall.
1699
00:56:28,126 --> 00:56:29,459
But I haven't really
gotten a chance
1700
00:56:29,544 --> 00:56:32,129
to speak to you about yesterday.
1701
00:56:32,213 --> 00:56:33,547
Me and you had a conversation,
you told me
1702
00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:34,723
you wanting me to stay out
1703
00:56:34,808 --> 00:56:37,217
of what had happened on,
you know,
1704
00:56:37,310 --> 00:56:38,894
the plane and everything.
- Right.
1705
00:56:39,053 --> 00:56:41,480
- On the boat when you
are out in the water,
1706
00:56:41,564 --> 00:56:42,731
Lindsey, she was just,
1707
00:56:42,890 --> 00:56:44,891
like,
saying how she was triggered.
1708
00:56:44,984 --> 00:56:46,726
And I wasn't gonna say anything.
1709
00:56:46,820 --> 00:56:48,654
- Right.
- But the only reason why I did
1710
00:56:48,738 --> 00:56:50,564
is because she brought it up
in front of me
1711
00:56:50,648 --> 00:56:52,566
and made it seem like--
- She's the victim.
1712
00:56:52,659 --> 00:56:54,734
- Exactly,
and that was my issue.
1713
00:56:54,828 --> 00:56:57,246
- Her own husband
came up and apologized
1714
00:56:57,405 --> 00:56:59,156
because Lindsey was
drinking on the plane.
1715
00:56:59,240 --> 00:57:01,241
And he didn't know
how to control her, so
1716
00:57:01,334 --> 00:57:02,835
let's not give her energy.
1717
00:57:02,994 --> 00:57:06,163
This is about our marriage,
and let's move forward.
1718
00:57:06,256 --> 00:57:07,664
Hearing that my wife
1719
00:57:07,748 --> 00:57:09,833
was defending me again
without me there,
1720
00:57:09,917 --> 00:57:11,260
she was doing that [bleep]
from her heart
1721
00:57:11,419 --> 00:57:13,670
and she wasn't doing it
just to impress me
1722
00:57:13,763 --> 00:57:15,672
meant everything, that means
I married the right woman.
1723
00:57:15,765 --> 00:57:17,182
That's exactly what it means.
1724
00:57:17,267 --> 00:57:19,101
- On the boat, we were playing
"never have I ever,"
1725
00:57:19,185 --> 00:57:22,012
and I learned, you know,
a couple of your stories.
1726
00:57:22,105 --> 00:57:23,513
- [muffled] What stories?
- Yeah, Isaac stories.
1727
00:57:23,598 --> 00:57:24,773
- Oh, yeah.
1728
00:57:24,932 --> 00:57:27,017
Isaac was
an immature version of me
1729
00:57:27,101 --> 00:57:29,102
who just ran around
and did what he wanted.
1730
00:57:29,187 --> 00:57:31,447
♪ ♪
1731
00:57:31,606 --> 00:57:33,356
- Okay.
1732
00:57:33,450 --> 00:57:35,192
- I don't really wanna
go that deep into that,
1733
00:57:35,276 --> 00:57:36,785
because that's another point--
- Okay, so that's like--okay.
1734
00:57:38,121 --> 00:57:39,037
But I mean, it didn't
1735
00:57:39,197 --> 00:57:40,622
really bother me.
1736
00:57:42,033 --> 00:57:43,792
- So it didn't bother you
1737
00:57:43,951 --> 00:57:46,044
that right in front
of everybody, I was like,
1738
00:57:46,129 --> 00:57:47,954
"Absolutely, if my wife wanted
to have a threesome,
1739
00:57:48,039 --> 00:57:49,623
I would do it"?
1740
00:57:49,707 --> 00:57:51,467
♪ ♪
1741
00:57:51,551 --> 00:57:53,969
- No, it didn't bother me.
1742
00:57:54,053 --> 00:57:56,472
It didn't bother me--
I mean, that's your truth--
1743
00:57:56,556 --> 00:57:58,056
But I also don't like
to share...
1744
00:57:58,216 --> 00:57:59,641
- I see, I see.
1745
00:57:59,726 --> 00:58:00,893
- My husband.
- I know.
1746
00:58:01,052 --> 00:58:02,385
- So--and also when you
1747
00:58:02,479 --> 00:58:03,729
do that in a marriage,
1748
00:58:03,888 --> 00:58:05,388
like, I'm not--no, uh-uh.
1749
00:58:05,473 --> 00:58:06,648
- Things get sloppy.
1750
00:58:06,733 --> 00:58:08,066
Things can get sloppy.
- Yeah.
1751
00:58:08,151 --> 00:58:09,809
- More like that--no, no.
- Why would I wanna invite
1752
00:58:09,903 --> 00:58:11,320
somebody else into my man?
- I am fine
1753
00:58:11,404 --> 00:58:12,979
with no other woman.
- Okay, cool.
1754
00:58:13,064 --> 00:58:14,481
I believe that
1755
00:58:14,574 --> 00:58:17,326
my husband likes
to brush past Isaac because
1756
00:58:17,410 --> 00:58:18,818
he just wants
to leave that in the past
1757
00:58:18,903 --> 00:58:20,820
and he feels like it has
nothing to do
1758
00:58:20,905 --> 00:58:22,331
with who he currently is.
1759
00:58:22,490 --> 00:58:23,832
And it has nothing
to do with our future
1760
00:58:23,991 --> 00:58:26,502
because he's told me,
like, "I'm a new person,
1761
00:58:26,586 --> 00:58:28,754
you get
a brand-new version of me."
1762
00:58:28,913 --> 00:58:30,080
But then also I'm like,
1763
00:58:30,164 --> 00:58:31,507
"You say this now,
1764
00:58:31,666 --> 00:58:32,674
but are you gonna say
that tomorrow?"
1765
00:58:32,833 --> 00:58:34,176
♪ ♪
1766
00:58:34,335 --> 00:58:35,427
- I don't have two rings on
because
1767
00:58:35,586 --> 00:58:36,920
I'm playing with two women.
1768
00:58:37,013 --> 00:58:38,922
I only got one ring on
'cause I only have one wife.
1769
00:58:39,006 --> 00:58:41,258
So let me reassure you that
1770
00:58:41,342 --> 00:58:42,425
you are everything.
1771
00:58:42,519 --> 00:58:43,602
You are my other half.
1772
00:58:43,761 --> 00:58:45,521
It's so easy to talk to you.
1773
00:58:45,605 --> 00:58:46,930
Like bo--I thought
1774
00:58:47,014 --> 00:58:49,599
me being vulnerable would,
like, be hard.
1775
00:58:49,692 --> 00:58:51,101
It's so easy.
1776
00:58:51,185 --> 00:58:53,270
I realize I have never
been so vulnerable
1777
00:58:53,363 --> 00:58:55,021
because I was never
with the right person.
1778
00:58:55,114 --> 00:58:57,691
And now I have found my queen,
so
1779
00:58:57,784 --> 00:58:59,609
I deleted my Instagram today
for you.
1780
00:58:59,694 --> 00:59:01,537
- Mm-hmm.
- To show my commitment
1781
00:59:01,696 --> 00:59:02,704
and my lust for you.
1782
00:59:02,789 --> 00:59:04,447
- [chuckles]
- I don't want you
1783
00:59:04,532 --> 00:59:06,616
to get caught up with lust.
1784
00:59:06,709 --> 00:59:08,201
I want you to know that
I'm the right guy for you.
1785
00:59:08,286 --> 00:59:09,286
You know what I'm saying?
1786
00:59:09,379 --> 00:59:10,453
And it's crazy because
1787
00:59:10,547 --> 00:59:11,538
there's no sex in the picture.
1788
00:59:11,622 --> 00:59:12,548
- I know.
- We haven't even
1789
00:59:12,632 --> 00:59:14,216
talked about sex.
- I'm your wife,
1790
00:59:14,375 --> 00:59:17,460
so obviously, like,
at one point in time,
1791
00:59:17,545 --> 00:59:18,628
you obviously wanna be intimate.
1792
00:59:18,721 --> 00:59:20,222
But one thing that I was
1793
00:59:20,306 --> 00:59:22,558
praying for hours is like,
"I hope he is a man
1794
00:59:22,717 --> 00:59:24,393
who knows
how to control his body."
1795
00:59:24,552 --> 00:59:27,137
- What made me not wanna
just "don't be physical"
1796
00:59:27,221 --> 00:59:29,556
is because my whole life,
my past--
1797
00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:31,984
- Was physical?
- Was just physical,
1798
00:59:32,143 --> 00:59:34,394
and I know that dies fast,
1799
00:59:34,478 --> 00:59:36,062
and you bring so much joy
1800
00:59:36,147 --> 00:59:37,823
without even the sexual part,
you know what I mean?
1801
00:59:37,907 --> 00:59:39,908
It's still fresh,
and I don't want her
1802
00:59:40,067 --> 00:59:42,569
to feel like I just
got to know you to have sex
1803
00:59:42,662 --> 00:59:43,820
because we have
a ring on our finger.
1804
00:59:43,904 --> 00:59:45,163
Like, I really wanna
know my wife
1805
00:59:45,248 --> 00:59:46,489
in and out mentally.
1806
00:59:46,583 --> 00:59:47,499
So like, I could
1807
00:59:47,658 --> 00:59:48,750
look at her and be like, "Yo,
1808
00:59:48,909 --> 00:59:50,335
something's wrong
with my wife."
1809
00:59:50,494 --> 00:59:51,837
Like, I wanna be able
to read her body language.
1810
00:59:51,996 --> 00:59:52,912
I wanna know that.
I want her to know how I feel.
1811
00:59:52,997 --> 00:59:54,581
That's where magic happens.
1812
00:59:54,674 --> 00:59:56,916
I know that when we
get to that level,
1813
00:59:57,010 --> 00:59:59,511
I know our attraction's
only gonna rise.
1814
00:59:59,670 --> 01:00:01,430
And we'll get more, like,
1815
01:00:01,514 --> 01:00:03,265
obsessive with each other,
you know?
1816
01:00:03,349 --> 01:00:04,850
That is passion.
1817
01:00:05,009 --> 01:00:06,760
That's unity, that's love.
1818
01:00:06,844 --> 01:00:08,511
I only can imagine
how I'm gonna feel
1819
01:00:08,605 --> 01:00:10,013
when I fall in love with you.
1820
01:00:10,097 --> 01:00:12,190
♪ ♪
1821
01:00:12,350 --> 01:00:16,111
- ♪ It's a good day, whoa ♪
1822
01:00:16,195 --> 01:00:19,522
♪ It's a good morning, whoa ♪
1823
01:00:19,616 --> 01:00:20,532
♪ Got the sun ♪
1824
01:00:20,691 --> 01:00:23,535
♪ On my face, whoa ♪
1825
01:00:23,694 --> 01:00:25,203
♪ It's a beautiful morning ♪
1826
01:00:25,288 --> 01:00:26,613
- Hey, how are you?
Good morning.
1827
01:00:26,706 --> 01:00:28,698
- I'm good, how are you?
- Good.
1828
01:00:28,783 --> 01:00:30,200
- So we are about
1829
01:00:30,293 --> 01:00:32,202
to go snuba-ing.
1830
01:00:32,286 --> 01:00:34,630
It's like snorkel plus scuba
1831
01:00:34,714 --> 01:00:36,048
out in the bay
right at the resort.
1832
01:00:36,132 --> 01:00:37,707
It gives me sort of a chance
1833
01:00:37,792 --> 01:00:38,967
to do an activity
that I'm excited about doing
1834
01:00:39,126 --> 01:00:40,719
with her.
1835
01:00:40,878 --> 01:00:42,804
And it just gives us a chance
1836
01:00:42,963 --> 01:00:44,806
to, at the very least,
be close enough
1837
01:00:44,965 --> 01:00:46,800
that we can talk to each other.
1838
01:00:46,884 --> 01:00:47,893
But the last thing
I wanna do is push
1839
01:00:47,977 --> 01:00:49,394
and make it worse at this point.
1840
01:00:49,479 --> 01:00:51,137
I've heard it called
snuba diving,
1841
01:00:51,230 --> 01:00:54,566
like snorkeling
mixed with scuba diving,
1842
01:00:54,725 --> 01:00:56,485
where you put the dome over.
1843
01:00:56,569 --> 01:00:58,070
It's something
I've never done before.
1844
01:00:58,229 --> 01:00:59,571
It's a little freaky, but...
1845
01:00:59,730 --> 01:01:00,739
- So I'll watch you do it.
1846
01:01:00,823 --> 01:01:01,907
- Yeah, okay.
1847
01:01:02,066 --> 01:01:03,158
- From the shore.
1848
01:01:03,242 --> 01:01:04,493
- [chuckles]
- And you can tell me
1849
01:01:04,652 --> 01:01:05,902
about it after.
- You don't like doing that?
1850
01:01:05,995 --> 01:01:07,237
- No.
- Okay.
1851
01:01:07,321 --> 01:01:08,321
- You'll have fun doing it.
1852
01:01:08,406 --> 01:01:09,572
[chuckles]
- I'm sure I will.
1853
01:01:09,657 --> 01:01:10,916
I'll tell you all about it.
1854
01:01:12,827 --> 01:01:14,077
It does look like it's clearing
up if you wanna go out now.
1855
01:01:14,161 --> 01:01:15,578
- Yeah.
1856
01:01:15,663 --> 01:01:18,340
Yeah, we can grab
our stuff and then head out.
1857
01:01:18,424 --> 01:01:19,341
- Okay, wanna do that?
- Let's go.
1858
01:01:19,500 --> 01:01:20,342
- Cool.
1859
01:01:20,501 --> 01:01:27,349
♪ ♪
1860
01:01:33,606 --> 01:01:35,524
I look like a superhero,
like an awkward--
1861
01:01:35,683 --> 01:01:37,100
- I don't even understand
what's about to happen.
1862
01:01:37,193 --> 01:01:38,685
- An awkward watery superhero.
1863
01:01:38,778 --> 01:01:42,021
They gotta weigh me down
so I don't float.
1864
01:01:42,106 --> 01:01:43,865
They asked much I weighed...
1865
01:01:44,024 --> 01:01:45,442
- Did you tell them?
- So I got the right amount.
1866
01:01:45,526 --> 01:01:46,868
Yeah, but I lied,
so I might float.
1867
01:01:47,027 --> 01:01:49,705
[both laugh]
1868
01:01:49,789 --> 01:01:51,039
- I do think this is
the first time
1869
01:01:51,198 --> 01:01:52,615
I've seen Chris
with his shirt off.
1870
01:01:52,700 --> 01:01:58,121
♪ ♪
1871
01:01:58,205 --> 01:01:59,372
I don't wanna hurt
1872
01:01:59,465 --> 01:02:02,292
anyone's feelings,
and so, you know,
1873
01:02:02,376 --> 01:02:03,969
I'm very careful about,
like, the words
1874
01:02:04,128 --> 01:02:06,304
that I use, but I don't think
1875
01:02:06,464 --> 01:02:07,723
Chris is my type physically,
1876
01:02:07,807 --> 01:02:09,299
and I think
that that's okay to say.
1877
01:02:09,383 --> 01:02:15,063
♪ ♪
1878
01:02:15,148 --> 01:02:19,976
- ♪ So I'd let you go,
but I feel like leaving ♪
1879
01:02:20,069 --> 01:02:25,231
♪ Just pull me out
of this deep water ♪
1880
01:02:25,324 --> 01:02:29,911
♪ Yearning
for some resolution ♪
1881
01:02:29,996 --> 01:02:32,572
♪ Whoa ♪
1882
01:02:32,656 --> 01:02:33,907
- I don't wanna scuba dive.
1883
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:36,418
I don't wanna sink
on the bottom floor.
1884
01:02:36,577 --> 01:02:38,420
Like...
1885
01:02:38,504 --> 01:02:39,996
the paddleboard, and that's
like the only other thing.
1886
01:02:40,080 --> 01:02:41,089
- Yeah.
1887
01:02:44,844 --> 01:02:45,835
- I don't know, like,
leave here?
1888
01:02:45,928 --> 01:02:47,596
[laughs]
1889
01:02:47,755 --> 01:02:50,256
- ♪ You're all that I want
but I feel I'm sinking ♪
1890
01:02:50,341 --> 01:02:51,341
- Snuba diving
1891
01:02:51,434 --> 01:02:52,842
is a lot of fun.
1892
01:02:52,935 --> 01:02:55,520
There's fish,
a million different colors.
1893
01:02:55,679 --> 01:02:56,855
It's beautiful down there.
1894
01:02:57,014 --> 01:02:58,523
But at the same time,
1895
01:02:58,682 --> 01:03:01,026
I did not anticipate doing
any of these activities
1896
01:03:01,185 --> 01:03:02,527
on my honeymoon all by myself.
1897
01:03:05,448 --> 01:03:07,032
- What happened?
1898
01:03:07,191 --> 01:03:08,274
- I called her, and I was like,
1899
01:03:08,359 --> 01:03:09,451
"I don't wanna go
swimming with him."
1900
01:03:09,535 --> 01:03:11,110
I was like,
"That's not an activity,
1901
01:03:11,195 --> 01:03:12,612
and I don't feel
comfortable doing it."
1902
01:03:12,705 --> 01:03:14,122
Like,
paddleboarding is different.
1903
01:03:14,281 --> 01:03:15,448
- Yeah.
- Like, it's an activity.
1904
01:03:15,533 --> 01:03:17,042
I don't have to be next to him.
1905
01:03:17,201 --> 01:03:18,877
Like, that's different.
1906
01:03:19,036 --> 01:03:20,870
And she was like,
"Who cares, Alyssa?
1907
01:03:20,963 --> 01:03:22,205
"Just--like, just do it.
1908
01:03:22,298 --> 01:03:23,706
Like, who cares?"
1909
01:03:23,791 --> 01:03:25,967
And she's like,
keeps saying to me, like,
1910
01:03:26,052 --> 01:03:27,961
"You don't wanna come off
a certain way on TV."
1911
01:03:28,054 --> 01:03:29,546
I'm like, "I have literally been
1912
01:03:29,630 --> 01:03:32,215
the nicest person
to literally everyone,"
1913
01:03:32,299 --> 01:03:33,892
and she's like,
"You're being difficult."
1914
01:03:34,051 --> 01:03:35,969
Everyone else has someone else.
1915
01:03:36,053 --> 01:03:37,813
Everyone else,
whether they're getting along
1916
01:03:37,897 --> 01:03:40,816
perfectly or not,
is having a good time.
1917
01:03:40,975 --> 01:03:43,485
And I'm stuck here.
Like, it's [bleep] raining.
1918
01:03:43,644 --> 01:03:45,395
I don't wanna [bleep] go
swimming with him.
1919
01:03:45,479 --> 01:03:47,155
Like, I'm--I'm not happy!
1920
01:03:47,240 --> 01:03:48,448
[sniffles]
1921
01:03:50,326 --> 01:03:51,401
Hey, can you tell him
1922
01:03:51,485 --> 01:03:53,152
not to come over here right now?
1923
01:03:53,237 --> 01:03:54,830
- Okay.
- I don't like him.
1924
01:03:54,989 --> 01:03:57,323
♪ ♪
1925
01:03:57,408 --> 01:03:59,167
- ♪ You're just a problem ♪
1926
01:03:59,252 --> 01:04:00,743
♪ Every time you come around ♪
1927
01:04:00,837 --> 01:04:02,003
♪ You're just a problem ♪
1928
01:04:02,162 --> 01:04:03,296
♪ ♪
1929
01:04:07,426 --> 01:04:08,501
- ♪ Loving you is a fantasy ♪
1930
01:04:08,586 --> 01:04:10,679
♪ Joined to you
like it's gravity ♪
1931
01:04:10,838 --> 01:04:13,089
♪ Beautiful as a melody,
like hoo ♪
1932
01:04:13,173 --> 01:04:14,599
- You like the water now?
1933
01:04:14,684 --> 01:04:16,593
- Yeah, I like it
a little bit more.
1934
01:04:16,677 --> 01:04:17,769
I still can't swim, though.
1935
01:04:17,854 --> 01:04:19,679
- You feel more comfortable
in it?
1936
01:04:19,763 --> 01:04:20,939
- Yeah.
1937
01:04:21,023 --> 01:04:22,515
- A little bit?
- Yeah, a little bit.
1938
01:04:22,608 --> 01:04:23,516
- I'm not
really convinced, but...
1939
01:04:23,601 --> 01:04:24,609
[laughter]
1940
01:04:24,768 --> 01:04:26,352
I'm really excited
about this because
1941
01:04:26,437 --> 01:04:27,770
it's our first time in the pool
1942
01:04:27,855 --> 01:04:29,105
with almost no clothes on,
1943
01:04:29,198 --> 01:04:30,532
and Noi looks so hot,
1944
01:04:30,691 --> 01:04:33,785
so I'm just
really attracted to my wife.
1945
01:04:33,870 --> 01:04:36,204
- ♪ I don't ever wanna leave ♪
1946
01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:42,285
- Do you like kissing me?
1947
01:04:42,369 --> 01:04:43,536
- I do.
1948
01:04:43,621 --> 01:04:47,874
- On a scale of one to 100.
1949
01:04:47,958 --> 01:04:49,459
- One to 100?
- Mm-hmm.
1950
01:04:49,552 --> 01:04:51,044
- A lot closer to 100
1951
01:04:51,137 --> 01:04:53,054
when it's just me and you.
1952
01:04:53,139 --> 01:04:55,974
When the cameras are around,
mid-50s.
1953
01:04:56,058 --> 01:04:57,058
I feel like you just kinda...
1954
01:04:57,217 --> 01:04:58,051
- [giggles]
1955
01:04:58,144 --> 01:05:01,313
- [laughs]
1956
01:05:01,397 --> 01:05:03,222
- Yeah, I feel you.
- All right, yeah.
1957
01:05:03,307 --> 01:05:04,482
Definitely wanna make sure
1958
01:05:04,642 --> 01:05:05,725
you're comfortable, though,
you know?
1959
01:05:05,809 --> 01:05:07,402
- I am.
1960
01:05:07,561 --> 01:05:08,653
I'm, like,
super comfortable around you.
1961
01:05:08,812 --> 01:05:10,063
It's, like, really weird.
1962
01:05:10,147 --> 01:05:11,147
- [sniffles]
1963
01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:12,065
- Are you crying?
1964
01:05:12,149 --> 01:05:13,316
[giggles]
1965
01:05:13,409 --> 01:05:14,409
- You--you said--
1966
01:05:14,493 --> 01:05:15,985
- Is that a tear drop?
1967
01:05:16,078 --> 01:05:17,495
- It's not, I'm just--
1968
01:05:17,655 --> 01:05:19,322
I just got, yeah, a bug flew
directly into my eyeball.
1969
01:05:19,406 --> 01:05:20,916
- I'm like,
"Aww, you like me that much?"
1970
01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:21,908
That's so sweet.
1971
01:05:21,992 --> 01:05:23,168
It's really nice
1972
01:05:23,252 --> 01:05:26,496
having this moment
with my husband
1973
01:05:26,589 --> 01:05:27,830
in paradise.
1974
01:05:27,915 --> 01:05:28,757
♪ ♪
1975
01:05:31,168 --> 01:05:32,418
- I do.
1976
01:05:32,503 --> 01:05:34,587
- How much
on a scale from one to 100?
1977
01:05:34,672 --> 01:05:36,589
- It has to be
one to 100 every time?
1978
01:05:36,674 --> 01:05:38,841
- Gimme a number.
1979
01:05:38,935 --> 01:05:40,510
- It's between 50
1980
01:05:40,594 --> 01:05:41,770
and 100.
1981
01:05:41,854 --> 01:05:43,730
[both laugh]
1982
01:05:45,274 --> 01:05:47,517
- That's like
the least romantic thing
1983
01:05:47,601 --> 01:05:49,861
I've ever heard in my life.
1984
01:05:49,946 --> 01:05:52,030
I feel so lucky
and grateful because
1985
01:05:52,189 --> 01:05:54,366
I'd fallen in love once
1986
01:05:54,450 --> 01:05:56,859
my whole life.
1987
01:05:56,944 --> 01:05:59,454
And I'd gotten to a point
in my life where I accepted,
1988
01:05:59,613 --> 01:06:01,957
like, "Well, maybe I'm
not gonna fall in love again."
1989
01:06:02,041 --> 01:06:04,042
But maybe that was it,
and I was grateful enough
1990
01:06:04,201 --> 01:06:05,785
to have that opportunity.
1991
01:06:05,869 --> 01:06:07,620
- I said I like you a lot.
1992
01:06:07,713 --> 01:06:10,039
I'm just supposed
to love you to 100...
1993
01:06:10,132 --> 01:06:11,716
- Yeah, right away.
- Right off the gate?
1994
01:06:11,801 --> 01:06:13,042
- 'Cause that's how
marriage works.
1995
01:06:13,127 --> 01:06:15,053
I think I'm
overwhelmed with emotions
1996
01:06:15,137 --> 01:06:20,725
because I feel like
it's happening again,
1997
01:06:20,810 --> 01:06:24,470
and I just feel
so grateful that,
1998
01:06:24,563 --> 01:06:26,889
you know, I get a second chance.
1999
01:06:26,974 --> 01:06:30,986
And, like, Steve is that for me.
2000
01:06:31,145 --> 01:06:35,740
But he doesn't know that yet,
but, um...
2001
01:06:35,825 --> 01:06:37,817
Yeah, I get to have that
with him.
2002
01:06:37,901 --> 01:06:40,486
♪ ♪
2003
01:06:40,579 --> 01:06:43,248
Well, I'm glad you
at least admitted...
2004
01:06:46,669 --> 01:06:50,505
- Yeah, it's a start, right?
- Hmm.
2005
01:06:50,664 --> 01:06:53,082
- ♪ Don't go, don't go,
don't go, don't go ♪
2006
01:06:53,167 --> 01:06:55,084
♪ Stay close, stay close ♪
2007
01:06:55,177 --> 01:06:58,504
♪ I don't wanna wake up
if I'm not next to you, boy ♪
2008
01:06:58,589 --> 01:07:00,590
♪ So pull through, boy ♪
2009
01:07:00,674 --> 01:07:04,269
♪ Baby, we could take a chance
and try something new ♪
2010
01:07:04,353 --> 01:07:06,021
♪ Brand new ♪
2011
01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:12,277
- ♪ I call you ♪
2012
01:07:12,361 --> 01:07:16,105
♪ Listen above the noise ♪
2013
01:07:16,190 --> 01:07:18,274
♪ ♪
2014
01:07:18,358 --> 01:07:19,784
♪ But there's not ♪
2015
01:07:19,943 --> 01:07:23,613
♪ A lot to say when ♪
2016
01:07:23,697 --> 01:07:26,207
♪ There's no compromise ♪
2017
01:07:27,951 --> 01:07:29,869
- We got off to
a rocky start this morning,
2018
01:07:29,953 --> 01:07:32,130
so I'm hoping this dinner
will kinda ease
2019
01:07:32,289 --> 01:07:34,040
some of the tension that
we've been having so far.
2020
01:07:34,124 --> 01:07:36,626
Because who doesn't like
a romantic dinner
2021
01:07:36,719 --> 01:07:38,219
by the water?
2022
01:07:38,378 --> 01:07:41,297
My wife looks beautiful.
It should be perfect.
2023
01:07:41,381 --> 01:07:42,974
Do you have any expectations
2024
01:07:43,133 --> 01:07:45,143
for me as your husband?
2025
01:07:47,387 --> 01:07:50,065
- If I'm being honest, I expect
you to talk to me respectfully.
2026
01:07:51,484 --> 01:07:53,485
'Cause you know, this morning...
2027
01:07:53,569 --> 01:07:55,820
You said, when we were
on the boat,
2028
01:07:55,905 --> 01:07:58,239
and we were talking about,
you know,
2029
01:07:58,324 --> 01:08:01,076
if we had been sexual yet,
2030
01:08:01,235 --> 01:08:03,828
and you said no,
and I cut you off.
2031
01:08:03,987 --> 01:08:07,832
And you were just so adamant
about it, like, "Yes, you did."
2032
01:08:07,917 --> 01:08:09,417
You know, "I was there"
type of thing,
2033
01:08:09,502 --> 01:08:10,493
but it's also, like,
2034
01:08:10,577 --> 01:08:11,419
I don't remember saying that,
2035
01:08:11,504 --> 01:08:13,338
and I was also there.
2036
01:08:13,422 --> 01:08:14,914
And you felt like
2037
01:08:14,998 --> 01:08:17,592
I needed to apologize for it,
and when I said,
2038
01:08:17,751 --> 01:08:20,419
"Well, sorry you felt that way,"
2039
01:08:20,513 --> 01:08:22,755
you said that wasn't an apology.
2040
01:08:22,840 --> 01:08:24,516
♪ ♪
2041
01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:26,425
- Because "I'm sorry
you felt that way"
2042
01:08:26,519 --> 01:08:28,103
isn't really an apology, though.
2043
01:08:28,262 --> 01:08:31,848
It's more of like--it's more
of like, "It is what it is,"
2044
01:08:31,932 --> 01:08:33,599
like, type of--type of thing.
2045
01:08:33,684 --> 01:08:36,361
You know what I--that's not
an apology to me.
2046
01:08:36,445 --> 01:08:38,771
- I'm not going to apologize.
2047
01:08:38,856 --> 01:08:41,366
I'm not gonna say,
"Oh, I'm sorry I cut you off"
2048
01:08:41,450 --> 01:08:42,951
'cause I don't feel
I cut you off.
2049
01:08:43,035 --> 01:08:45,111
But I will say I'm sorry
that you feel that way.
2050
01:08:45,195 --> 01:08:46,538
♪ ♪
2051
01:08:46,622 --> 01:08:48,531
- So if the tables were turned--
2052
01:08:48,615 --> 01:08:49,958
- And you said "I'm
sorry you felt that way"?
2053
01:08:50,042 --> 01:08:50,959
- And I'm saying this--and
I said at you "I'm sorry
2054
01:08:51,118 --> 01:08:52,210
you feel that way,"
2055
01:08:52,294 --> 01:08:53,786
you would be like, "Oh, okay."
2056
01:08:53,871 --> 01:08:54,879
- Yes, 'cause people do that.
- And--but--right,
2057
01:08:55,038 --> 01:08:56,047
but do we just let it go, like,
2058
01:08:56,206 --> 01:08:57,298
"Okay, well, it is what it is"?
2059
01:08:57,457 --> 01:08:59,041
- I would've been fine
with that.
2060
01:08:59,126 --> 01:09:01,136
- Okay, we're just different
in that regard.
2061
01:09:01,220 --> 01:09:02,461
- No, we're not different.
- No, we're different.
2062
01:09:02,546 --> 01:09:04,630
- What--what I--what I
said is something that
2063
01:09:04,715 --> 01:09:06,465
people say if they feel
like they didn't think--
2064
01:09:06,559 --> 01:09:07,884
- I'm not talking about people--
2065
01:09:07,977 --> 01:09:09,310
- You want me to say it
with X, Y, and Z--
2066
01:09:09,395 --> 01:09:10,395
- You're not married to people.
- Okay, well,
2067
01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:11,888
you want me to apologize to you
2068
01:09:11,972 --> 01:09:13,064
how you want me to.
2069
01:09:13,223 --> 01:09:14,974
I'm not going to do that.
2070
01:09:15,058 --> 01:09:16,317
♪ ♪
2071
01:09:20,480 --> 01:09:21,072
- Well, I'm not sure
what else to say about this
2072
01:09:21,157 --> 01:09:22,073
'cause I feel like we're
2073
01:09:22,158 --> 01:09:24,242
talking in circles.
- Mm-hmm.
2074
01:09:24,326 --> 01:09:25,818
- We're gonna have to agree
to disagree on this one.
2075
01:09:25,903 --> 01:09:27,745
♪ ♪
2076
01:09:27,905 --> 01:09:29,238
- I don't remember
2077
01:09:29,331 --> 01:09:30,489
cutting him off.
2078
01:09:30,583 --> 01:09:31,741
I don't feel like I cut him off.
2079
01:09:31,834 --> 01:09:33,835
♪ ♪
2080
01:09:33,919 --> 01:09:35,661
- In my head, when I was there,
I thought she cut me off.
2081
01:09:35,746 --> 01:09:36,913
♪ ♪
2082
01:09:36,997 --> 01:09:40,091
What're you thinking?
2083
01:09:40,176 --> 01:09:42,251
- That I want
some more to drink.
2084
01:09:42,344 --> 01:09:43,595
♪ ♪
2085
01:09:43,679 --> 01:09:45,180
- I'll say this.
2086
01:09:45,264 --> 01:09:47,515
Going forward, something happens
2087
01:09:47,600 --> 01:09:49,008
like this again,
2088
01:09:49,092 --> 01:09:50,927
and however you say sorry,
2089
01:09:51,011 --> 01:09:52,428
it's how it should be accepted.
2090
01:09:52,512 --> 01:09:54,355
So I accept your apology.
2091
01:09:57,017 --> 01:09:58,526
Why're you look--why that face?
- [chuckles]
2092
01:09:58,611 --> 01:10:00,853
- Why that face?
2093
01:10:00,938 --> 01:10:02,197
- Oh, my God.
- I just agreed with you.
2094
01:10:02,281 --> 01:10:03,856
- 'Cause did you really
accept it, or you're just
2095
01:10:03,941 --> 01:10:05,116
saying that 'cause
you don't wanna go to bed?
2096
01:10:05,201 --> 01:10:06,609
- No, I
ju--I genuinely accept it.
2097
01:10:06,702 --> 01:10:07,869
Because really,
2098
01:10:08,028 --> 01:10:09,528
really in your heart
don't believe
2099
01:10:09,613 --> 01:10:12,865
you did what I'm saying
you did, then okay.
2100
01:10:12,950 --> 01:10:14,617
We can only really have
a real conversation
2101
01:10:14,710 --> 01:10:16,786
if it happens again
and I point it out immediately.
2102
01:10:16,879 --> 01:10:20,706
♪ ♪
2103
01:10:20,791 --> 01:10:22,717
- But I think
your--your delivery...
2104
01:10:22,801 --> 01:10:25,553
- Yeah.
- And the aggressiveness
2105
01:10:25,638 --> 01:10:27,055
to it and...
2106
01:10:27,139 --> 01:10:29,057
- Yeah.
- Just, like, basically
2107
01:10:29,141 --> 01:10:31,217
telling me how I should
apologize to someone...
2108
01:10:31,301 --> 01:10:32,977
♪ ♪
2109
01:10:33,062 --> 01:10:34,220
That just, like,
threw me off guard,
2110
01:10:34,304 --> 01:10:35,563
and I was just, like, no.
2111
01:10:35,722 --> 01:10:37,723
♪ ♪
2112
01:10:37,816 --> 01:10:39,642
- I do apologize for that.
2113
01:10:39,726 --> 01:10:41,310
That's something I'm working on.
2114
01:10:41,395 --> 01:10:42,478
It's an issue that, like,
2115
01:10:42,562 --> 01:10:44,313
you know, my sister's told me,
2116
01:10:44,406 --> 01:10:45,823
my friends have told me,
2117
01:10:45,983 --> 01:10:47,492
past relationships.
2118
01:10:47,651 --> 01:10:50,903
It's never, like, intentional
for me to sound, like,
2119
01:10:50,988 --> 01:10:54,073
abrasive or aggressive
or condescending
2120
01:10:54,157 --> 01:10:56,826
or like I don't care,
but I understand
2121
01:10:56,910 --> 01:10:59,254
that it--how it can
come across like that.
2122
01:10:59,338 --> 01:11:01,664
So it is
something I'm working on.
2123
01:11:01,757 --> 01:11:04,175
And, uh...
2124
01:11:04,260 --> 01:11:06,669
that's something
I'll make sure to, like,
2125
01:11:06,762 --> 01:11:10,339
nip in the bud immediately
when we get back to Boston.
2126
01:11:10,432 --> 01:11:15,436
♪ ♪
2127
01:11:15,521 --> 01:11:17,105
- I appreciate you
for saying that.
2128
01:11:17,264 --> 01:11:20,942
♪ ♪
2129
01:11:21,101 --> 01:11:23,936
- You're truly not bothered
by it anymore?
2130
01:11:24,021 --> 01:11:25,947
- No, I do--I didn't say
I'm not bothered by it.
2131
01:11:26,106 --> 01:11:27,690
I just have to believe
what you say
2132
01:11:27,774 --> 01:11:29,775
until I see differently.
2133
01:11:29,860 --> 01:11:30,693
- Yeah.
- And that's
2134
01:11:30,786 --> 01:11:32,453
another conversation.
2135
01:11:32,612 --> 01:11:39,460
♪ ♪
2136
01:11:45,542 --> 01:11:46,801
- It's really pretty.
2137
01:11:46,885 --> 01:11:47,877
- It's very pretty.
2138
01:11:47,970 --> 01:11:50,629
♪ ♪
2139
01:11:50,723 --> 01:11:52,381
It's also a nice, calm night.
2140
01:11:52,474 --> 01:11:55,310
- [sighs]
2141
01:11:55,394 --> 01:11:57,303
I can see your stress.
2142
01:11:57,387 --> 01:11:59,647
- It's just so much here.
2143
01:12:01,900 --> 01:12:04,810
I think--thought--I think, like,
2144
01:12:04,903 --> 01:12:06,654
the wedding was, like, a shock
2145
01:12:06,739 --> 01:12:10,325
and just so many highs,
and I was like, "Okay,
2146
01:12:10,484 --> 01:12:14,487
"I--I love
the interesting things we have,
2147
01:12:14,571 --> 01:12:17,332
like, the core things.
They're just so spot on."
2148
01:12:17,491 --> 01:12:19,992
Those little things
you geek out about,
2149
01:12:20,077 --> 01:12:22,745
the little odds that you have
that you don't get with people.
2150
01:12:22,829 --> 01:12:25,006
And then we jump right
into the honeymoon,
2151
01:12:25,090 --> 01:12:27,917
and we have so many things
that are conflicting
2152
01:12:28,001 --> 01:12:31,003
with trying to get
to know someone, I guess.
2153
01:12:31,088 --> 01:12:33,264
- What do you mean
so many conflicting things?
2154
01:12:33,349 --> 01:12:36,100
- Girls attacking you,
fights on the plane.
2155
01:12:36,185 --> 01:12:38,603
Like, you were in two
situations that affected us
2156
01:12:38,687 --> 01:12:40,688
just trying to get to
know each other in the flow.
2157
01:12:40,773 --> 01:12:43,941
I feel like we're going
so high at times and it's like,
2158
01:12:44,026 --> 01:12:46,944
"Holy [bleep],
like, this is a lot."
2159
01:12:47,029 --> 01:12:49,605
- Mm-hmm.
- It's like I can't breathe.
2160
01:12:49,689 --> 01:12:51,866
I'm just trying to digest it.
2161
01:12:51,950 --> 01:12:54,777
I love the fact that
2162
01:12:54,870 --> 01:12:57,455
you wanna take care of me
in so many places.
2163
01:12:57,539 --> 01:12:59,949
But I wanna still take the time
to get to know you
2164
01:13:00,033 --> 01:13:02,368
in the process and not
rush so many things
2165
01:13:02,461 --> 01:13:04,796
that we can do down the road.
2166
01:13:04,880 --> 01:13:06,214
- Like what?
- I don't know.
2167
01:13:06,373 --> 01:13:07,548
Just--just there's
so many things.
2168
01:13:07,707 --> 01:13:08,707
Like, I know you have my back
on everything,
2169
01:13:08,801 --> 01:13:10,468
which is great.
- Mm-hmm.
2170
01:13:10,552 --> 01:13:14,130
- But I want to, like,
go slow in the process, like--
2171
01:13:14,214 --> 01:13:15,297
- Like don't marry a stranger?
2172
01:13:15,382 --> 01:13:16,549
[chuckles]
- Well--
2173
01:13:16,633 --> 01:13:19,227
Well, it's just like...
2174
01:13:19,311 --> 01:13:20,386
I don't know, like,
2175
01:13:20,479 --> 01:13:22,730
it's an accelerated process.
2176
01:13:22,889 --> 01:13:25,733
But if I feel like
it's getting--
2177
01:13:25,892 --> 01:13:27,977
If things are getting
too accelerated,
2178
01:13:28,061 --> 01:13:31,147
then it won't flow organically.
2179
01:13:31,231 --> 01:13:33,324
So I want it
to flow organically.
2180
01:13:33,409 --> 01:13:35,326
So I want us--I want us to just
2181
01:13:35,485 --> 01:13:38,571
go slow on things and not,
2182
01:13:38,664 --> 01:13:40,915
like, rush a lot of things.
2183
01:13:42,584 --> 01:13:43,742
We--
- Why?
2184
01:13:43,827 --> 01:13:45,661
- Well,
2185
01:13:45,745 --> 01:13:47,672
we just met, so I feel like
2186
01:13:47,756 --> 01:13:49,841
going slow and steady
wins the race
2187
01:13:50,000 --> 01:13:52,510
than going fast, fast,
fast, fast, fast, fast, fast.
2188
01:13:52,594 --> 01:13:55,004
So that's all.
2189
01:13:55,097 --> 01:13:59,767
♪ ♪
2190
01:13:59,852 --> 01:14:02,428
- What are you asking for?
2191
01:14:02,521 --> 01:14:04,263
- Just that we go
slow and steady.
2192
01:14:04,347 --> 01:14:06,765
That's all.
2193
01:14:06,850 --> 01:14:08,860
I don't wanna get too,
too lovey-dovey
2194
01:14:09,019 --> 01:14:10,853
because we literally just met,
and there's so many things
2195
01:14:10,946 --> 01:14:12,688
that are going on,
and it has to flow organically.
2196
01:14:12,781 --> 01:14:14,857
- Mm-hmm.
2197
01:14:14,950 --> 01:14:16,609
- So that's all.
2198
01:14:16,693 --> 01:14:20,621
♪ ♪
2199
01:14:20,706 --> 01:14:24,033
All these different things are
affecting my mood right now.
2200
01:14:24,117 --> 01:14:26,368
And I just want us to go slow
so that we
2201
01:14:26,453 --> 01:14:28,871
build on this momentum
of us together.
2202
01:14:28,955 --> 01:14:30,372
So I want you to know that
2203
01:14:30,457 --> 01:14:32,633
so you don't think
"He's not into me."
2204
01:14:32,792 --> 01:14:34,719
I am.
I just don't wanna go
2205
01:14:34,878 --> 01:14:37,138
crazy lovey-dovey
2206
01:14:37,222 --> 01:14:40,308
when everything around us,
sometimes, is chaotic.
2207
01:14:41,551 --> 01:14:43,385
What are you thinking about?
2208
01:14:43,479 --> 01:14:45,062
♪ ♪
2209
01:14:45,222 --> 01:14:46,889
- Yeah, I'm just trying
to think of what I want to say
2210
01:14:46,973 --> 01:14:49,225
and how I wanna say it.
- Okay.
2211
01:14:49,309 --> 01:14:52,478
You seem, like, annoyed.
2212
01:14:52,562 --> 01:14:55,406
- It's just a little confusing
for me to hear you say, like,
2213
01:14:55,565 --> 01:14:57,316
"Oh, I wanna take it slower"
when you're the first one
2214
01:14:57,409 --> 01:14:58,817
who wanted to jump
all in, you know?
2215
01:14:58,902 --> 01:15:02,497
And like, okay, so
are you in, or are you out?
2216
01:15:02,656 --> 01:15:05,333
I can slow back,
but I pull way back.
2217
01:15:05,417 --> 01:15:06,834
Way--all the way back.
2218
01:15:06,993 --> 01:15:08,753
♪ ♪
2219
01:15:08,837 --> 01:15:10,496
There's no in between for me.
2220
01:15:10,580 --> 01:15:13,249
♪ ♪
2221
01:15:13,342 --> 01:15:14,592
- So you--
2222
01:15:14,676 --> 01:15:16,752
You can't, like,
bring it down a notch.
2223
01:15:16,836 --> 01:15:18,587
It's either all in or, like--
2224
01:15:18,672 --> 01:15:20,756
- If you want me to be less,
2225
01:15:20,840 --> 01:15:23,184
then you need to stop [bleep]
up and clogging the toilets
2226
01:15:23,268 --> 01:15:24,268
and farting in bed.
2227
01:15:24,427 --> 01:15:26,095
Like, you want to be less,
2228
01:15:26,179 --> 01:15:28,097
let's stop that, okay?
2229
01:15:28,181 --> 01:15:29,098
You want a little romance,
and you want it
2230
01:15:29,191 --> 01:15:30,599
to be, like, slow, like,
2231
01:15:30,684 --> 01:15:33,352
I don't need to see that.
2232
01:15:33,445 --> 01:15:34,770
- Okay.
- You know what I mean?
2233
01:15:34,854 --> 01:15:38,115
Like, you're giving me
a full frontal you.
2234
01:15:38,275 --> 01:15:41,035
Chewing with your mouth open,
fart with the door open.
2235
01:15:41,194 --> 01:15:43,120
Like, if you're telling me
you wanna get to know
2236
01:15:43,205 --> 01:15:44,947
each other less and slow down,
2237
01:15:45,031 --> 01:15:48,200
then take that note
for yourself as well.
2238
01:15:48,285 --> 01:15:51,128
Like, I'm matching you
in a lot of cases.
2239
01:15:51,213 --> 01:15:52,713
- A lot of things
are matching me,
2240
01:15:52,798 --> 01:15:55,049
but you are very here
with just saying something,
2241
01:15:55,133 --> 01:15:56,217
just no matter what!
2242
01:15:58,887 --> 01:16:00,713
- I'm just, like,
frustrated and mad.
2243
01:16:00,797 --> 01:16:03,224
Like, why would you plan
a romantic dinner with me
2244
01:16:03,383 --> 01:16:04,892
and then say,
"I want to pull back?"
2245
01:16:05,051 --> 01:16:07,803
Why would we have
consummated our marriage?
2246
01:16:07,896 --> 01:16:09,722
Like, come on, dude.
You're so stupid.
2247
01:16:09,806 --> 01:16:11,223
If this is your idea
of a romantic dinner,
2248
01:16:11,316 --> 01:16:13,234
never plan one again for me.
2249
01:16:13,393 --> 01:16:14,310
Ever.
2250
01:16:14,403 --> 01:16:16,812
Are we done yet?
2251
01:16:16,905 --> 01:16:18,906
'Cause this is zero romance,
and I'm ready for bed.
2252
01:16:19,065 --> 01:16:20,983
♪ ♪
2253
01:16:21,076 --> 01:16:22,243
- Okay.
2254
01:16:24,663 --> 01:16:26,322
- [groans]
2255
01:16:26,415 --> 01:16:27,489
[bleep]
2256
01:16:27,583 --> 01:16:29,834
♪ ♪
2257
01:16:33,997 --> 01:16:34,755
[tense electronic music]
2258
01:16:34,914 --> 01:16:40,419
♪ ♪
2259
01:16:40,503 --> 01:16:42,179
- My whole purpose tonight
2260
01:16:42,264 --> 01:16:45,090
of this meal was to just let
her know, like, where I'm at.
2261
01:16:45,175 --> 01:16:48,185
And the fact that I think
2262
01:16:48,270 --> 01:16:52,848
we can have something amazing
because of our core.
2263
01:16:52,941 --> 01:16:54,942
But there are a lot
of things that have happened.
2264
01:16:55,101 --> 01:16:56,435
[laughs]
I mean, some of these things,
2265
01:16:56,519 --> 01:16:58,020
I see them, like,
2266
01:16:58,104 --> 01:16:59,447
"Wow, I didn't see
that coming',"
2267
01:16:59,606 --> 01:17:01,523
or "Wow, I thought
that was gonna
2268
01:17:01,617 --> 01:17:02,941
work out well."
2269
01:17:03,026 --> 01:17:03,942
As long as I'm
2270
01:17:04,036 --> 01:17:05,944
who I am, it's all I can do.
2271
01:17:06,038 --> 01:17:08,113
Do you wanna talk
about what's going on?
2272
01:17:08,206 --> 01:17:10,124
- No, I don't wanna talk
to you right now.
2273
01:17:10,283 --> 01:17:11,617
- Okay.
2274
01:17:11,701 --> 01:17:13,285
- Thanks
for the great romantic night.
2275
01:17:13,370 --> 01:17:16,130
♪ ♪
2276
01:17:16,289 --> 01:17:17,632
- All right.
2277
01:17:17,791 --> 01:17:23,796
♪ ♪
2278
01:17:23,880 --> 01:17:25,222
- Nope, I don't wanna
2279
01:17:25,307 --> 01:17:27,049
talk to you right now.
I'm furious.
2280
01:17:27,133 --> 01:17:29,226
You literally have said
2281
01:17:29,311 --> 01:17:31,136
all day, "This is great,
2282
01:17:31,221 --> 01:17:32,471
my wife's so great,
you're so great."
2283
01:17:32,564 --> 01:17:33,889
- You are.
- And then you sat there
2284
01:17:33,973 --> 01:17:34,982
tonight and said to me,
2285
01:17:35,141 --> 01:17:36,642
"You know,
we should just go slower."
2286
01:17:36,735 --> 01:17:38,060
We can start right back at zero.
2287
01:17:38,144 --> 01:17:39,228
My name
is Lindsey George Willis.
2288
01:17:39,321 --> 01:17:40,646
Nice to meet you.
2289
01:17:40,730 --> 01:17:41,814
If you would like
to take me out on a date,
2290
01:17:41,907 --> 01:17:43,399
give me a call and ask me out.
2291
01:17:43,483 --> 01:17:44,408
- That's how you
wanna handle that?
2292
01:17:44,567 --> 01:17:47,653
- I mean, honestly, kind of.
2293
01:17:47,737 --> 01:17:50,748
You just said to me,
"You know what?
2294
01:17:50,832 --> 01:17:52,917
I don't wanna be
all lovey-dovey."
2295
01:17:53,001 --> 01:17:54,660
Okay, no prob.
2296
01:17:54,744 --> 01:17:55,503
Gotcha.
2297
01:17:55,662 --> 01:17:58,255
Easy breezy.
2298
01:17:58,340 --> 01:17:59,840
- I said I wanted to go slower
2299
01:17:59,999 --> 01:18:02,009
because as the days go on,
so many things
2300
01:18:02,094 --> 01:18:03,427
are going on in my head
about everything
2301
01:18:03,512 --> 01:18:05,179
that's going on around us.
- Okay.
2302
01:18:06,506 --> 01:18:08,265
- During this time,
I'm trying to enjoy
2303
01:18:08,425 --> 01:18:10,518
every minute I can with you
without letting other things
2304
01:18:10,677 --> 01:18:13,011
in--or going
around us affect it.
2305
01:18:13,105 --> 01:18:15,097
- Is that what you think
happened tonight?
2306
01:18:15,181 --> 01:18:18,192
♪ ♪
2307
01:18:18,351 --> 01:18:21,353
Do you feel as though what
you did tonight at our dinner
2308
01:18:21,446 --> 01:18:23,021
led for a romantic dinner?
2309
01:18:23,106 --> 01:18:25,449
- I think I tried to plan
a romantic dinner
2310
01:18:25,608 --> 01:18:26,951
for you, and I think that--
2311
01:18:27,035 --> 01:18:28,035
- What, what?
2312
01:18:28,120 --> 01:18:29,194
What part?
2313
01:18:29,279 --> 01:18:30,362
What part's the romantic?
2314
01:18:30,455 --> 01:18:31,530
What part's the laugh?
- I'm not gonna--
2315
01:18:31,614 --> 01:18:32,948
I'm not gonna make you
happy right now,
2316
01:18:33,041 --> 01:18:33,949
so I'm gonna walk away
and just take a moment.
2317
01:18:34,042 --> 01:18:34,950
- I'm gonna step out.
2318
01:18:35,034 --> 01:18:36,702
- Okay.
2319
01:18:36,786 --> 01:18:38,871
What are you doing?
- I'm just gonna take a moment.
2320
01:18:38,955 --> 01:18:40,131
I'm just annoyed.
2321
01:18:40,290 --> 01:18:41,957
None of this feels good.
2322
01:18:42,050 --> 01:18:44,218
- But I said, like, "Normally
how I deal with things,
2323
01:18:44,377 --> 01:18:47,129
I--I handle it, I get--I know
you have my back."
2324
01:18:47,213 --> 01:18:49,807
♪ ♪
2325
01:18:49,966 --> 01:18:51,308
- You could've done better.
2326
01:18:51,393 --> 01:18:53,385
You really screwed up
on that one, buddy.
2327
01:18:53,470 --> 01:18:55,387
That's not--there's
no there--for me,
2328
01:18:55,472 --> 01:18:56,647
there's no other way around it.
2329
01:18:56,732 --> 01:18:58,149
Feel free to step out.
2330
01:18:58,308 --> 01:19:00,234
- Okay, I will.
2331
01:19:00,393 --> 01:19:02,653
[sighs]
2332
01:19:02,738 --> 01:19:05,072
- How do you not know better,
you stupid idiot?
2333
01:19:05,231 --> 01:19:07,232
♪ ♪
2334
01:19:07,317 --> 01:19:09,744
[lock clicking]
2335
01:19:09,903 --> 01:19:12,496
♪ ♪
2336
01:19:12,655 --> 01:19:14,915
- [vocalizing]
2337
01:19:15,074 --> 01:19:18,994
♪ ♪
2338
01:19:19,087 --> 01:19:21,672
♪ Ooh, baby,
looking like a dream ♪
2339
01:19:21,831 --> 01:19:23,999
♪ All I see is you and me ♪
2340
01:19:24,092 --> 01:19:26,177
- Aww!
2341
01:19:26,336 --> 01:19:29,421
- So there is no more KG.
It's KD.
2342
01:19:29,506 --> 01:19:32,933
I want you to know
that this is real.
2343
01:19:33,092 --> 01:19:36,187
Katina Dickerson.
2344
01:19:36,271 --> 01:19:38,096
She's my other half.
She's my guardian angel.
2345
01:19:38,190 --> 01:19:40,432
I feel like God has
brought her to me,
2346
01:19:40,517 --> 01:19:42,610
and, um, she deserves it,
she truly does.
2347
01:19:42,769 --> 01:19:45,362
I--I know other people
failed her in her life,
2348
01:19:45,447 --> 01:19:48,023
and I want her to know
that I won't drop the ball.
2349
01:19:48,107 --> 01:19:51,535
- ♪ Ooh, baby,
looking like a dream ♪
2350
01:19:51,694 --> 01:19:54,622
♪ All I see is you with me ♪
2351
01:19:54,781 --> 01:19:56,448
I don't know where you've
been my whole life,
2352
01:19:56,541 --> 01:19:57,708
but I'm filled with joy
'cause you're
2353
01:19:57,793 --> 01:19:59,376
standing here in front of me.
2354
01:19:59,536 --> 01:20:00,452
- [chuckles]
- I promise to be
2355
01:20:00,537 --> 01:20:02,788
the best husband.
2356
01:20:02,881 --> 01:20:05,382
I promise
to be honest and truthful.
2357
01:20:05,467 --> 01:20:07,051
And I promise to protect you.
2358
01:20:07,210 --> 01:20:10,128
- This is so beautiful.
2359
01:20:10,213 --> 01:20:12,714
- God brought us to this.
2360
01:20:12,799 --> 01:20:13,974
- He'll get us through this.
2361
01:20:14,133 --> 01:20:14,975
Both: Amen.
2362
01:20:15,134 --> 01:20:16,310
[chuckling]
2363
01:20:16,394 --> 01:20:18,896
- ♪ Drifting into temptation ♪
2364
01:20:18,980 --> 01:20:21,398
- This is beyond a fairy tale.
This is a dream come true.
2365
01:20:21,558 --> 01:20:22,483
- ♪ Sea of love, I see why ♪
2366
01:20:22,642 --> 01:20:23,642
[cork pops]
2367
01:20:23,726 --> 01:20:25,143
A man is only as strong
2368
01:20:25,228 --> 01:20:27,571
as the woman that stands
beside him, and I hope
2369
01:20:27,730 --> 01:20:29,481
this truly is a lifetime.
2370
01:20:29,566 --> 01:20:33,994
- ♪ Moment, don't it feel
like we're floatin' ♪
2371
01:20:34,079 --> 01:20:37,072
♪ On oceans, coasting ♪
2372
01:20:37,165 --> 01:20:39,491
She's my queen, and I will
never let anybody hurt her.
2373
01:20:39,576 --> 01:20:41,159
I truly mean what I say.
2374
01:20:41,244 --> 01:20:42,419
And I'm--I'm not
2375
01:20:42,579 --> 01:20:44,922
going anywhere.
2376
01:20:45,081 --> 01:20:46,173
Get your heels off.
2377
01:20:46,332 --> 01:20:47,249
♪ ♪
2378
01:20:47,342 --> 01:20:48,342
- Wow, I haven't
2379
01:20:48,426 --> 01:20:50,586
felt this feeling
in, like, so long.
2380
01:20:50,670 --> 01:20:54,598
- I'm gonna take care
of you every single day.
2381
01:20:54,683 --> 01:20:56,008
And I truly mean that forever.
2382
01:20:56,092 --> 01:20:59,261
♪ ♪
2383
01:20:59,345 --> 01:21:00,679
- To me, he's sweet.
2384
01:21:00,772 --> 01:21:02,356
To other people,
he might be sour.
2385
01:21:02,440 --> 01:21:03,599
But to me,
2386
01:21:03,692 --> 01:21:05,776
he's so nice and kind to me,
2387
01:21:05,935 --> 01:21:08,028
and he treats me very nice.
2388
01:21:08,187 --> 01:21:11,115
I think you have to be
the sweetest, like,
2389
01:21:11,274 --> 01:21:13,367
thoughtful, aggressive...
2390
01:21:13,526 --> 01:21:15,694
[both laugh]
2391
01:21:15,787 --> 01:21:19,281
- Man I've ever, like,
come across.
2392
01:21:19,374 --> 01:21:21,867
Mm, give me a hug.
2393
01:21:21,951 --> 01:21:24,369
♪ ♪
2394
01:21:24,454 --> 01:21:26,705
And I feel like I finally--
2395
01:21:26,798 --> 01:21:28,382
In my heart, like, I'm at peace.
2396
01:21:28,541 --> 01:21:32,628
Like, I found the person
that is meant for me.
2397
01:21:32,712 --> 01:21:33,888
I feel like I'm falling in love.
2398
01:21:33,972 --> 01:21:35,222
[chuckles]
2399
01:21:35,381 --> 01:21:36,465
Shh!
2400
01:21:36,558 --> 01:21:37,799
You know how you told me
2401
01:21:37,884 --> 01:21:39,393
you were, like, "Oh, if I could
2402
01:21:39,477 --> 01:21:42,229
go back ten years, and..."
2403
01:21:42,314 --> 01:21:43,814
- Mm-hmm.
- I feel the same way.
2404
01:21:43,899 --> 01:21:45,816
If it led me
to this moment with you,
2405
01:21:45,901 --> 01:21:47,234
I would do it all again.
2406
01:21:47,319 --> 01:21:49,153
- When we look at each other,
we know
2407
01:21:49,312 --> 01:21:50,404
that's just us.
2408
01:21:50,488 --> 01:21:52,239
We have beautiful,
2409
01:21:52,324 --> 01:21:54,241
and I'm proud to say,
Black love.
2410
01:21:56,328 --> 01:21:59,071
- This is everything
that I dreamed of!
2411
01:21:59,155 --> 01:22:00,155
Wish that every
2412
01:22:00,248 --> 01:22:01,665
woman out there can feel
2413
01:22:01,824 --> 01:22:04,660
what I'm feeling right now.
2414
01:22:04,753 --> 01:22:06,587
I just feel happy.
2415
01:22:06,746 --> 01:22:08,580
♪ ♪
2416
01:22:08,665 --> 01:22:09,998
I'm not in love yet, but...
2417
01:22:10,091 --> 01:22:12,250
[chuckles]
2418
01:22:12,335 --> 01:22:15,846
But this def--this
definitely helped.
2419
01:22:15,931 --> 01:22:17,422
It got me crying on camera,
mm-mm.
2420
01:22:17,515 --> 01:22:18,840
[chuckles]
2421
01:22:18,925 --> 01:22:20,926
- When the cameras
and everything's gone,
2422
01:22:21,019 --> 01:22:23,428
I'm still gonna be beside you.
2423
01:22:23,521 --> 01:22:25,356
And I hope
you'll stay beside me.
2424
01:22:25,515 --> 01:22:27,265
- You really about to cry?
2425
01:22:27,350 --> 01:22:29,026
- No, I'm good.
- [giggles]
2426
01:22:29,110 --> 01:22:30,778
- Damn, I'm
about to fall in love.
2427
01:22:30,862 --> 01:22:32,029
- [laughs]
2428
01:22:32,113 --> 01:22:33,438
Your boy gotcha.
2429
01:22:33,531 --> 01:22:37,117
♪ Tell me what
I stand to lose ♪
2430
01:22:39,946 --> 01:22:41,446
♪ ♪
2431
01:22:41,539 --> 01:22:43,198
- Next time on
"Married at First Sight"...
2432
01:22:43,291 --> 01:22:45,534
♪ So everybody put
your hands together ♪
2433
01:22:45,618 --> 01:22:47,294
- Happy honeymoon.
- First time in a rainforest!
2434
01:22:47,453 --> 01:22:49,713
- This is the first time
I'm seeing Jasmina
2435
01:22:49,872 --> 01:22:51,873
smile since our wedding day.
2436
01:22:51,967 --> 01:22:53,884
- There we go!
2437
01:22:53,969 --> 01:22:55,627
On paper,
I think she's a great fit.
2438
01:22:55,720 --> 01:22:56,887
- If the horse
wanted to throw you,
2439
01:22:57,046 --> 01:22:58,138
it would've threw you
all the way back there.
2440
01:22:58,223 --> 01:22:59,631
- Ooh, you're about
to piss me off.
2441
01:22:59,716 --> 01:23:00,882
- I won't stop
2442
01:23:00,976 --> 01:23:02,559
living my life because
2443
01:23:02,719 --> 01:23:04,219
my wife isn't comfortable.
2444
01:23:04,312 --> 01:23:06,638
- So things haven't gone
the way I would've expected.
2445
01:23:06,731 --> 01:23:09,808
- I hate him,
he's a [bleep] [bleep].
2446
01:23:09,892 --> 01:23:12,227
Like, it's not my fault
that this happened.
2447
01:23:12,320 --> 01:23:13,237
Please don't do that, Lindsey,
2448
01:23:13,321 --> 01:23:14,571
while I'm talking.
2449
01:23:14,656 --> 01:23:15,731
- I'm so mad.
2450
01:23:15,815 --> 01:23:17,065
I think that is so
2451
01:23:17,158 --> 01:23:18,242
classless.
2452
01:23:18,401 --> 01:23:19,827
- This hasn't been easy for me,
2453
01:23:19,911 --> 01:23:21,319
and, um...
2454
01:23:21,404 --> 01:23:22,997
- All talk aside,
2455
01:23:23,156 --> 01:23:24,906
I just need to know
2456
01:23:24,991 --> 01:23:26,241
if you are all out.
2457
01:23:26,334 --> 01:23:28,002
- Chris seems to be
2458
01:23:28,161 --> 01:23:30,912
trying actively
to make me look bad.
2459
01:23:31,006 --> 01:23:34,174
That's not okay because I'm
a really [bleep] good person.
2460
01:23:34,333 --> 01:23:36,635
♪ ♪