- Today, I'm getting married.
- Three days ago,
ten singles took a brave leap of faith
in order to find love.
- Nice to meet you.
- Same here.
- They married as complete strangers.
[cheers and applause]
- I think she's beautiful.
I think this is gonna be a great success.
♪ ♪
♪ Puerto Rico ♪
- Last time, our five couples
left for their honeymoon,
and things got off to a rocky start.
- We had a little situation.
- People were walking away,
she's gonna say, "I wanna fight you now."
- I just have learned that when somebody
makes me feel that way,
I should probably just take a second.
- Having me in your life is gonna be helpful
to you to work through
these situations. - I'm sure.
♪ ♪
- So why is it so scary for you to be vulnerable?
- I still can't help being cautious.
- Don't let the people--how they mistreated you...
- Mm. - Dictate our future, because
this man, who's your husband,
will cherish you. - Mm-hmm.
- ♪ I've been workin' on the island ♪
[cork pops]
- [yelps] - [chuckling]
- I do feel like I'm developing
really strong feelings for Steve.
Ah, we're up really high.
- I gotcha.
- We just met, so we kinda just
have to assume there's gonna be conflict.
- I think good people just respect
each other's boundaries, and that's it.
- But when you first meet somebody,
you don't know their boundaries.
- We can agree to disagree.
[dramatic sting]
- Think you went into this expecting
the perfect person. - I--no, I don't
expect the perfect person. - And when you got
somebody that wasn't-- - No,
there's been nothing but differences
in our values and our beliefs.
- There was never a point in this process
where you put in an effort.
I am at this-- - That's not true.
- I am at this point-- - And I'm not gonna
stand here on camera
if he's gonna say that, mm-mm. - I--
- He just called me a [bleep] liar.
[dramatic sting]
♪ ♪
- ♪ Move, move, pick up your shoes ♪
- And tonight,
our couples continue to grow closer.
- Like, I love him. He's the one, that's it.
- Oh, my God, you love him? - You love him?
- And now I have found my queen.
I deleted my Instagram today for you.
- Mm-hmm.
- I went and saw a psychic,
and she said to me,
"I feel very strongly that
"you're gonna meet your soulmate,
and he has an eagle tattoo."
- [laughs]
- If you-- - I know if I offered you,
but-- - If you offered me
another woman, why would I not?
- It's not happening.
- I think it just kills me that you're, like,
already putting doubt on us.
- "I'm sorry you felt that way"
isn't really an apology, though.
- Well, you want me to apologize
to you how you want me to.
I'm not going to do that.
- I don't want to [bleep] go swimming with him.
Like, I'm--I'm not happy!
- Feel free to step out.
- Okay, I will.
[sighs] - Come on, dude.
You're so stupid.
- You play victim so much.
You're manipulative.
- That's really rude.
- I don't care if it's rude or not.
I'm telling you because
you're rude.
[dramatic sting]
- ♪ It's all or nothing ♪
- This is "Married At First Sight."
- ♪ There's no other way ♪
♪ It's all or nothing ♪
♪ ♪
- Just waking up.
Looking forward to, uh,
doing some activities today.
- Get some more sleep in.
- It's morning time, and this man
went to the gym and came back to lay down.
I woke up, he wasn't here again,
but it's his ritual, so I guess it's okay.
- Here we are, husband and wife.
We've had one day in our honeymoon so far.
A little bumpy, but today's a new day.
- Even though our couples have only known each other
for three days,
it's important for them to look forward
to what their new lives will look like
as husband and wife,
which may be easier for some than others.
- You know, I never really thought
that my--I guess my honeymoon would be like this.
I definitely didn't think that
I would be laying in a bed alone, for example.
So it's definitely not what I expected.
- It sucks waking up without the person
that I thought I was gonna wake up with today.
But, you know, I'm
still being optimistic and trying to look
for the light at the end of the tunnel.
♪ ♪
- ♪ Never tell me why the ocean is alive ♪
♪ We're runnin' through the sand ♪
♪ We threw away our plans ♪
♪ So nothin' left to do,
♪ There's nothing left to prove, prove, prove ♪
- What's wrong? - Gimme your arm.
It's uncomfortable.
- Oh, you're biting me, though.
- Yeah. - You hungry?
- [inhales]
Always.
You want some Goldfish?
- No, I don't want any Goldfish.
I had that before bed.
- Have you ever eaten a bowl of Goldfish
with milk like cereal?
♪ ♪
- I do it plain.
- Dry? - Yeah, yeah.
Because it gets soggy, and it gets really gross.
- I'm sorry that someone hurt you.
I will fix it.
[chuckles] - No one hurt me.
It's just, it gets soggy.
- I think our chemistry is kinda undeniable.
Pink bathrobe? - Nope, this isn't my--
This isn't my color.
- I think you're
definitely doing yourself
a disservice. You'd look great in pink.
I have no complaints.
[chuckles]
[laughs]
[high-pitched] You're gonna make me answer that?
[laughing]
A lady never kisses and tells.
Can't do it, can't do it.
[laughs]
- Wow.
- I know. - [laughs]
- Have you ever had a piña colada?
- I had one yesterday.
- Did you? - Yeah.
- We're gonna go make some
piña coladas today.
- Well, that sounds like it's gonna be fun.
- Yeah. - I have a great idea.
I think that's--I think we should
definitely explore a drink.
I think that's fun to do,
I think we just shouldn't have several
in a fast period of time.
♪ ♪
[both exhale]
- [chuckles]
- We don't want any repeats of Day One, that's all.
- [chuckling]
- No, seriously. - She should be upset.
- She was trying to tell people in this bus
what language to speak in.
We're all adults. You wanna speak English,
you wanna speak Spanish, you speak what you want.
- Yeah. - Don't come over here
telling people what to do,
'cause we're adults and we don't play that.
- I honestly think it was more
that, like, I was really tired.
♪ ♪
And I think that
with, like, not on much--not enough food
or water and--
And your personality just took it.
But I don't want that to be a repeat.
I don't want, like--
- For your sake, I don't wanna do that.
♪ ♪
- ♪ No, I'm not just anybody ♪
♪ I'm here to catch a ball ♪
♪ Nothing can stop me ♪
- Hey, here's your breakfast.
- Thank you.
♪ ♪
- I'm gonna--I'm gonna try to get you to drink coffee
at some point on this trip.
Just put it on-- - I drink coffee.
I just don't drink your kind of coffee.
♪ ♪
- Still no? - [sighs]
- I'ma get it right.
I'ma get it right. How 'bout you tell me,
how do you like your coffee,
and then next time, I'll get it right?
- I like caramel iced coffee
with some cream and some sugar.
- Caramel iced coffee, cream and sugar, okay.
♪ ♪
How'd you sleep last night?
- I slept good.
- Yeah? - What about you?
You were knocked out so early.
- Yeah. - I left you and went
to go explore.
[chuckles] - Yeah, but then
you came in bed.
And I was just up just thinking.
Thinking about a lot.
♪ ♪
- Like what?
- Um...
You know, we had that little argument yesterday.
Wasn't really that big, but it was a little tiff.
♪ ♪
And even before that,
I felt like since the wedding,
there's been some type of distance between us.
♪ ♪
I--what--you do feel like I'm one-sided in thinking that?
- I definitely do.
♪ ♪
- I would've liked
for us to have made a little more progress
in our connection.
And I feel like part of the reason why
we probably aren't as connected
as I would like us to be is because
I'm not the most talkative person.
And I'm just afraid
of not putting 100% into this.
- Okay.
I do think that he's definitely overthinking.
And like, as soon as he woke up, that was, like,
the first thing, you know, on his mind.
And if Mike continues
to get inside of his head when it comes to things like that,
in the end, he will be the one
that will ruin this whole experience
if he continues to think like that.
I also can't keep getting out of my head
what your sisters said about you just thinking of the worst.
- Michael always, like,
assumes the worst.
He doesn't expect worse, he always assumes it first.
So he's always like, "Okay, this is not
gonna go well," just so he's not disappointed.
- Okay.
It's like,
how can you come to that conclusion after
a couple of hours of being on a honeymoon?
- Because this is a very unique situation, right?
- Mm-hmm. - And I don't wanna
mess this up.
- Yeah. - So maybe I am overthinking,
for sure, but like,
this is serious.
I got a ring on my finger.
So I feel like I have to make the conscious decision
every little moment I get to try to get to know you.
It's crucial.
- Okay. - So yes, I am overthinking.
Yes, maybe I am being a little negative,
but--but it's just because I don't wanna ruin this.
- But you're gonna ruin it if you keep overthinking it.
♪ ♪
- I hoped that I would be spending my first morning
with my husband.
But unfortunately, that's--that's not the case.
♪ ♪
This is the cards that I've been dealt.
And I really hope that Chris and I
can figure out where this is gonna take us.
♪ ♪
But I definitely sit here and wonder
why this happened to me and how this happened to me.
And like, why me?
[wind blowing]
♪ ♪
- Waking up alone on the honeymoon,
it's not the way I wanted it to be.
♪ ♪
I think that Alyssa believes that I'm disrespecting her.
But I think that she views disagreement
often as disrespect.
I expected to have incompatibilities.
I just didn't expect them to come
the very first day right away.
I want to be married,
I want to have a wife,
because I want that next-level relationship that you only get
by putting in that kind of work.
So I'm hoping that
maybe she hasn't gotten the full picture
of how I feel about things.
But I haven't given up hope yet.
I'm not happy, but I still think that there's a chance.
- ♪ I just wanna be next to you ♪
♪ Baby, can I get next to you ♪
♪ I just wanna be next to you ♪
♪ Baby, can I get next to you ♪
- Almost there, what about you?
- Yeah.
♪ ♪
It is nice waking up with my husband.
- Get over here, wifey.
- We connected right away,
so it doesn't actually feel that strange,
which is boggling my mind.
But we're still getting to know each other.
Even though we feel really comfortable around each other,
we just--
Yeah, there's still so much
to still do with each other.
[giggles]
- I can lip kiss without brushing teeth.
That's about it.
No tongue action.
[chuckles] - Okay, thanks
for the FYI. [giggles]
We didn't have sex yet, but I wouldn't be surprised
if that happens sooner than later.
[giggles]
♪ ♪
- This is nice.
I've been traveling
so much, cooking my own food
or having to go get it.
- Mm-hmm. - Lucky to get it
brought to me.
- And now you're on your honeymoon
with your wife, and we get
to go to the ocean today, hopefully.
♪ ♪
- One thing that I really love
is to find a campground on the ocean.
- Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
- You wake up out of your tent, and you're just already there.
- I don't like to camp.
♪ ♪
I don't really enjoy, like, being out
on a campground.
♪ ♪
- What don't you like about it?
- I just like having, like, a shower, like, a bathroom.
- They have those at campgrounds sometimes,
you know. - I know, but, like,
it's not the same thing.
♪ ♪
- I do go on these adventures,
and it's definitely a big part of who I am
and something that I've always wanted to share with my wife.
- I just don't like being outside sleeping.
♪ ♪
- I still think we should camp
on the ocean one day.
- As long as it's inside.
♪ ♪
- ♪ Come on, everybody ♪
♪ Scream if you wanna go faster ♪
♪ We're going on my spaceship ♪
♪ Heading to the moon ♪
♪ ♪
- Morning.
- 'Sup, beautiful?
Waking up next
to my wife is always a beautiful thing.
You know, she--she smiles right when she sees me.
I--I think she naturally does that.
She doesn't even realize it.
And she smiles every time she opens her eyes
when she looks at me.
I think it's--she's enjoying
our moment of just waking up.
I think she's trying to cherish this whole honeymoon,
even little key details, and I love that, I truly do.
To--did I do better to--last night with, um, cuddling?
- Hell no. - [laughs]
- I'm trying, I'm trying.
- But it's okay. You're a work in progress.
- Tell me what I need to do.
- Um... - Tell me what I need to do
to get my cuddling game up,
'cause last night, I thought I did a phenomenal job.
I thought--I swear I was touching you.
- No, you didn't. - I didn't touch you at all?
- You rolled over. - Really?
Wow.
I gotta work on it.
- Just like--
Or, you know what, maybe we
should do, like, you know,
big spoon, little spoon.
Like, I roll over and you're behind me?
- But I feel like I'm too big.
It's all right, get some practice, right?
- Like that--yeah, see, this will be good
and you can fall asleep like this.
- Your body's so hot, though.
- No, it's not.
- I feel like a-- - You just sweat so much.
- It's what I'm saying, so, like--
- Yeah, we can't cuddle until we figure out
this sweating problem.
I don't wanna wake up and you're dripping.
You know, I can't take the sweat.
- [laughs]
- I can't. It's so much.
- It's like one of those things that just look good
until you have it.
- You know how
sweaty you get?
- No.
[laughs]
- Honestly,
right now, I give up.
[laughs]
- Might be the nerves, though, 'cause
you know, sleeping
next to a beautiful woman.
- It's not that.
[laughter]
- No? - No.
He needs to go
to the doctors and see if they could
give him Botox injections under his arms
and see if that will help him out,
'cause I can't be waking up to a soaked left side
of the bed.
Don't make that face. I'm serious!
[laughs]
♪ ♪
- ♪ Summer afternoon ♪
♪ Yeah, I wanna stand up when you move ♪
- Even though our couples are newlyweds on their honeymoon,
they still barely know one another.
- Keep goin', you got it. [cork pops]
- [squeals]
[laughter]
- So unlike traditional honeymooners,
who are already in love and use this time
to grow even more intimate with each other,
our couples must use this time to get to know
this brand-new person
that they have legally committed
to spend the rest of their life with.
- I know you're a snack-a-holic,
so I don't want you getting hungry.
- Thank you.
I haven't had a boring day with my wife yet.
I don't know if that would be incredible,
or if that would be really boring.
♪ ♪
- That's very good.
I love it. - Wow.
- I'm also partial to the lime and the coconut.
- Yeah? - Yeah, that's good.
- But she definitely brings the excitement
when I really, really want it there.
- What do you think? - It's good.
It's bet--better than I thought.
- Yeah? - I'm not a big pineapple guy.
- Okay.
- I like coconut-- - [high-pitched shriek]
What?
What happened?
It went up your nose?
- No, I got a brain freeze. - Brain freeze?
- Oh, put your tongue to your palate.
♪ ♪
Tongue--tongue to your palate.
- [strained] It's there. - Okay.
Is it working?
- [strained] Mm-mm!
- I guess not. - You get--oh, no,
you do it a different way? - [groans]
- You got this.
- It's a long one.
Oh, that hurt.
[laughs]
- So you make the piña colada. - Okay.
I got this.
[rock music]
Okay.
- All right, bartender.
- This good?
- I'm ready. - Okay.
- ♪ Bright lights, crowded nights ♪
♪ She's done this before by the look in her eye ♪
♪ Livin' for the thrill, she said you better ♪
♪ Face your fears ♪
♪ ♪
♪ He loves the adrenaline ♪
♪ ♪
- I love that Mark can loosen up and have fun,
you know?
But I gotta class 'him up a little bit.
Listen, Vinny.
Vinny the Guido.
[laughs]
♪ ♪
- Cheers.
- Salud.
- Oh. - I think that was
the best one, I'm sorry. - That was the one.
[laughter]
- I can make
a piña colada.
Boom.
I should've been a bartender.
I would've had more fun--
- I don't date bartenders. - No?
So, tell me
a little bit about your dating history.
- Buckle up.
- Buckle up, okay. - We're gonna take you
on a roller coaster. - Okay.
- I have... - Yeah.
- Dated almost every engineer in the book, it seems.
- Yeah? - My dad, after
my last breakup, was like, "Can you stay away
from the engineers?" - Yeah.
- "You've gone through them all at this point."
- I hope I can live up to these engineers,
'cause I feel like-- - Um, well,
I'm not with any of them now. - I know, I know.
Oh, wow. - They're just cheaters
and liars and stealers.
- Oh, wow.
- What about you?
- I dated in high school, I dated in college,
but nothing ever really clicked.
And it wasn't 'till I graduated college
I met my first love.
Intimacy was good, but then there was
a lot of emotional side to her
that came out a lot when she drank.
♪ ♪
And it went
from, "I'm in love with you"
to "I love you,"
"I'm not in love with you."
One person I dated a year ago, which was the first time
during COVID that I connected with someone,
and she had a boyfriend
give her, like, give her [bleep] pretty much
when she found out she was pregnant with him.
And I was like, "Wow, like, that's horrible."
I can't wrap my head around these situations
and how guys could treat women that way.
- It sounds like you're a people pleaser,
and that you worry about everybody else
except yourself sometimes.
- Well, I-- - Like, I know you take care
of your grandma and your mom. - Yeah, I think I'm used to--
I'm used to--well, I think that's been
the nature of the people I've met.
I feel like they had such tough
past relationships that
I was a breath of fresh air
when it comes to emotional stability for them.
- I'm learning that Mark
just has this innate
drive to take care of people,
and it's really admirable,
and I think he's got a lot
of honor and integrity.
But it does make me think that there's been times
in Mark's life where he hasn't put himself first.
I love that you're-- Like, you're just
stand-up and genuine. - Oh, yeah.
- And so I can see how the heart in you
would give to people who aren't worthy of it.
I want to make sure that he's honoring himself
and his needs with me.
And I wanna love and care for him and help support him
in his role,
versus the role he wants to be for me,
because he's not
gonna be who I want him to be unless he's
who he's happy being and comfortable.
- You're processing a lot right now.
It's a lot. - Mm-hmm.
♪ ♪
I'm still trying to figure you out.
And what I do know about you, I like.
- Yeah, you're like glowing.
- Yeah? - Yeah.
- Think it's my, like, sleeves.
- Probably. [laughter]
- ♪ Trying to find the answer to ♪
♪ Trying to find the answer to ♪
- ♪ Can't tell if this is love or not ♪
- Here we are.
- Cute.
- ♪ I sure wanna figure it out ♪
♪ Can't tell if this is real or not ♪
- Are you gonna steer clear of all those dairy--
I know you mentioned lactose. - [chuckles]
- Is it worth the sacrifice for you?
- Let's just wait 'till we're married
for a little bit longer.
- Before you start to get into the cheese.
[laughter]
- I feel like we are definitely
emotionally bonded at this point, chemistry-wise.
I mean, I feel attracted to him.
I feel comfortable, like, holding his hand
and hugging him and kissing him already.
So I just feel really lucky that
we're hitting it off so well.
- I know this has been crazy. This is day three for us.
It's hard to keep track nowadays
'cause everything's happening so fast.
And that's kind of the point, you know?
Things are progressing fast for us,
and we had a great start, we had a great wedding.
We've had a lot of laughs and a lot of good times.
Even last night, when I--when you asked me,
you just said, "Hey, are you going to bed?"
And I just did a quick face.
- [laughs] - And I said--
In my head, I was thinking I have--I have another meeting
to attend to before I go to bed.
And you said...
- You just gave, like, a poop face,
like, you know? [laughter]
I'm just like, "Do you
need to poop?"
[laughter]
- Everyone's always
concerned, "What if you don't get along,
what if this or that, what if that?"
I was like, "What if I have to poop for the first time?"
- That's what I'm--
[laughter]
Like, I'm not nervous about him, but I'm like,
"Wh--wh--when do I poop in this marriage?"
[laughter]
In any normal circumstance, we would still be
trying to hide all these, um...
- Natural human things that we have to do?
- Natural human things that we have to do
but don't like to discuss.
So I was like, "Well, he is now my husband.
"We can laugh about this because we still
"are getting to know each other, and you know,
"we have to be comfortable
having these discussions with each other," so...
- For sure.
Well, the good news is,
you know, I believe at this point, my schedule is cleared.
I don't think I have any more meetings for the day, so...
[laughter]
- I feel so comfortable with Steve,
it's kind of eerie.
I can honestly say that I've never
dated anyone where I felt
this connected to them this early on.
♪ ♪
I feel like I'm falling in love
in, like, the craziest way.
Get some sunscreen.
- Yeah, a little sunscreen going.
- I definitely think that it's happening.
♪ ♪
Where is Steve?
Oh. [giggles]
- Okay.
♪ ♪
- What's up?
- Hi. - What's going on?
- Nothing, I just wanted to sit down and talk to you.
Um...
[clears throat]
So, we were talking back there,
and they're asking me, like, a bunch of questions
and, like, how I felt about you and everything.
And one of the questions was,
"Do you feel like you're falling in love with Steve?"
And I said that I feel like it's slowly happening.
♪ ♪
Well, that's nice to hear.
♪ ♪
I think
we both agree that we have strong feelings for each other
at this point in time.
We cuddle a lot, we talk, we giggle.
- Well, I have strong feelings for you, too, I guess.
- Oh, you guess? - Yeah.
- [chuckling]
I don't want you to be offended by the fact
that I have strong feelings for you.
It's day three.
Why don't you go ask some of the other couples
if anyone said they had strong feelings for them?
I'm sure some of them have,
but that's a lot, okay? It's three days.
Three days.
- ♪ Come a little closer now ♪
♪ ♪
- ♪ I know your life ♪
- So. - You ready?
- 'Course. - Or am I ready?
- Yeah, you--how do you ask me
like I don't do this?
- I'd rather go to the pool, but I'm
at the gym with my husband.
What'd I sign up for?
[chuckling]
I want to incorporate his life with mine,
just like I would want him to do the same thing with me.
But I'm still trying to guard myself
'cause it's only been a few days
of our marriage.
And something could switch where
maybe he doesn't like me.
So I'm not ready to, like, let myself go
and be in la-la land.
- This is gonna be tough. I'm not gonna lie to you.
- Okay.
- ♪ Yeah ♪
- I'm gonna go with this.
- ♪ I feel like a CEO ♪
- Three.
Here we go, baby.
Come down.
- ♪ I feel like a CEO ♪
- Go all the way up? - No, no, all the way down,
come a little lower.
Time to turn it up.
Put your hands right here.
Boom.
Kick your feet up, no!
You know how to do a burpee. Stop it.
Nope.
Be comfortable.
- Okay. - High energy.
Stop laughing, get real.
This is--this is my element,
I want you to respect this.
- Calm down.
[laughs]
I'm like, "Where'd this come from?"
I feel like this is too much weight.
- Okay, so put your leg on the floor.
And what you're gonna do is here,
and you're gonna pass it. I'ma pass it to you.
Don't--you drop this, it's over.
I'm taking the ring off.
♪ ♪
Don't drop me. Squeeze your abs
while you're doing it, squeeze.
Hold your arms straight. Your arms
should be straight the whole time.
You don't gotta go so slow.
Okay, boom.
Hold your hands out. - Yes.
- Stop giving up. There's no more of that.
For real. - Okay.
- Smile,
smile, enjoy it.
Think about everything that bothers you.
♪ ♪
Now-- - I don't like those.
- Working out is not about what you like.
It's about what makes you look good,
what helps you, and what improves you.
- Olajuwon-- He has a strong personality.
- I know you'll like this one.
- If I would've dated
someone like him in my 20s,
I would've cried, so it could be a little bit of an issue.
♪ ♪
- ♪ I set out ♪
♪ On a mission just to find where you are ♪
- It's become apparent over the last few days
since the wedding that the more I push or try
to help or ask questions, the more Alyssa resists.
And I think having an activity
to keep us sort of distracted and not
have to really get into sort of any awkwardness
makes it a little easier for us to keep it light-hearted.
So my goal is that we're sharing the experience
and that hopefully,
it makes just kind of hanging out with her a lot of fun.
Hi. - Good morning.
How are you?
- This looks fun! - I'm really excited.
Have you ever been paddleboarding?
- Yeah, paddleboarding's super fun.
- I never have.
- Should we do it? - Yeah.
- All right. - I pulled every--I think
we're good. - Okay.
- I pulled everything out.
- Just by everything that's happened,
I'm trying to be the bigger person.
Off he goes!
So we don't have to have
drama and negativity.
Like, I don't want that.
♪ ♪
- All right.
I'm doing it. Here we go.
I'm a quick learner.
- Are you gonna try and stand up?
- Oh, yeah.
Oh, yeah.
♪ ♪
- [laughs]
So at first, on the paddleboard,
it's hard to stay balanced.
Oh!
But in my defense,
I've never been paddleboarding in my life.
♪ ♪
- [laughs]
How many times?
- I'm trying.
♪ ♪
- Come on, now.
We don't have all day!
- Anybody can stand up, but not
everybody can recover.
- And not everyone can balance. - [laughs]
- I am staying dry.
And Chris is...
Falling in the water.
And it's actually pretty funny.
[laughs]
- You'll be giving lessons
by the end of the day.
Spending today with Alyssa is good.
We are just getting to a comfortable place
where we can just hang out, and I think
she genuinely is, like, a fun-loving,
enjoyable person to be around.
♪ ♪
You didn't fall--you didn't go in at all.
- No, I don't fall. - That's--that's all the fun.
This is much--this is more your speed, right,
just hanging out? - Yeah.
- I don't hate this.
[waves churning]
Um...
I don't think I did a great job...
Of doing all I could
to get you to understand that I really do think
you're just a cool person.
- Well, thank you. I appreciate that.
- And I'm sorry for that.
- I just want to come off
as united,
'cause, like, no matter the way we feel,
the experts just didn't do this right.
♪ ♪
And that's, like, what I'm upset about,
'cause, like, I went and saw a psychic.
- [laughs]
♪ ♪
Was this, like, uh, just for fun,
"let's go see what happens," or is this like--
- She's pinpointed and touched on so many things
that, like, are true... - Yep.
- Or that have happened.
She said very specific things, like, about
features and looks and, like,
all these things. - Okay.
- And she said to me,
"I feel very strongly that
you're gonna meet your soulmate," and--
- What did she say he was gonna look like?
- She said he had very pretty eyes...
♪ ♪
And he has an eagle tattoo.
- [laughs]
The method by which she decides to pick her soulmates
is up to her.
But it's not something that I subscribe to, so I put
no value in it from the start.
Beautiful bird, but not
a tattoo that I'm looking to get anytime soon.
♪ ♪
- Ooh.
- You know. - Ooh.
- [laughs]
- All right.
- It's only been a couple of days
since we've been married,
but just this morning,
Mike--he's saying we haven't really
learned much about each other.
And that kind of made me, you know, go, hmm.
♪ ♪
I do think that
Mike overthinking things and being in his head
will bring negativity into what we're working on building.
So I feel like the sooner we have a deeper, you know,
bond and a deeper connection,
the better it would be.
I did wanna ask you, like,
piggybacking off of the conversation we had earlier.
- Yeah.
- You know, I mentioned
the comment that your sisters made.
I don't wanna keep bringing it up, but like,
was that a problem in your last relationship or why it ended?
- I mean, I've been single for a while.
And part of the reason why I was single
was because I felt like I wasn't
putting 100% effort into all those relationships,
people that I was dating.
- Okay. - So I guess that was
part of the reason why I was overthinking so much
that I didn't wanna make the same mistake,
you know?
- So now you--you haven't been in a relationship in a while,
and you think--
Now you're able to put 100% in when
you've been single all this time?
- I'm trying to make sure that
the person that I'm with knows that I'm trying to put 100% in.
So if there's ever a time where I feel like
it could be seen that I'm not, I kind of get nervous.
- Okay. - You get what I'm saying?
- I see, yeah.
- So I guess it is overthinking,
but it's trying to make sure
that I don't make the same mistakes.
- So what would you say made you start
to, like, overthink situations?
Like, did something happen, did you go through something
to make you become that person?
- Yeah, I think I've--I've had a lot of loss in my past.
I lost my brother at a young age
when I was six.
First time I seen death that up close.
Like, I seen him pass away in front of me.
- I'm sorry.
- Right after that, my father passed.
My mother passed, my grandmother passed.
I had friends that--that have passed,
and I think it kinda just makes you see the world
in a way where it's like something bad is gonna happen.
♪ ♪
You know? - I get that.
I think it's two different ways.
Some people would
see the world in a bad way like that.
But then some people would also say because there are
things like that are happening,
that they would want to live life
every day with, like, no regrets type of thing?
- Yeah.
- But I understand that you've lost
a bunch of people around you where it's just
made you think the opposite. - Yeah.
Don't get me wrong, I'm a happy person,
but I think it's probably just a coping mechanism.
I think I tend to think the worst.
So if the worst happens, I'm not as hurt by it.
I think the loss that I've experienced in my life
has made it difficult for me to open up
and be vulnerable and really let somebody else in.
I've always been somebody that's, like,
pretty much like a lone wolf, and I like to process things
on my own and go things--go through things on my own.
And I think
after years and years and years
of doing that, that just becomes who you are,
it becomes your shell.
And I think that's been, like, a block in my relationships.
Does my overthinking make you nervous?
- It does.
- Why?
- I just don't think it's a good thing,
especially in a relationship.
It's just taking you out of being
in the moment with me.
It's just taking you from
good things happening because you're just gonna think about,
"Well, when is the bad gonna come?"
And that's just... - Yeah.
- Will ultimately, like, hold us back.
♪ ♪
- We're going in the front today.
- All right.
- All the way back? - All the way in the back.
- I told the guys that I don't need Lindsey
to apologize.
- If she apologizes to you,
does that mean something?
Does that change the dynamic?
- I'm cool with it. I don't need an apology.
But I have a DM
on Instagram from Lindsey apologizing from her behavior.
So I'm not gonna try to dwell on it
because she's not important to me
and my marriage and my wife and I,
so I'm--I'm gonna let Mark handle what he has to do.
That's his problem.
- Okay, where are we going?
All: On a boat!
- Whoo!
- There are very few people out there
who have married a complete stranger.
- Ooh, it's so cute!
- Whoo!
- So we've arranged
for them to take a ride together
on a Casteel tourist catamaran.
- I got you.
Oh, it's a lot bigger than I first thought.
- So it's important for our couples
to build a support system
with each other who are literally
in the same boat that they are.
- Guys, buenas tardes!
You guys ready to go?
All: Yes!
- Phew, vámonos.
Both: Vámonos.
♪ ♪
- Puerto Rico lalalala!
- Our first boat trip.
- Yay!
- Did you guys learn about,
like, a lot of things
about each other while you
was doing your activities?
- We did this picnic, and it's just
a great opportunity to finally catch up.
- We just talked about our, like, past relationships.
- Same. - Oh, that's dope.
Getting deep, getting deep. - Yeah.
- We pretty much did the same thing,
where we just spoke about
our past relationships as well.
- Has anybody consummated their marriage?
♪ ♪
- Getting in their business.
- Might as well throw it out there.
- Shark? - Mark?
[laughter]
- Definitely has. - That laugh says it all.
- Yes, definitely have.
[laughter]
Next. We got our answer; next.
- You see that smile? - Look at her.
- I'll leave it to my wife. - She's so happy!
- [yelling] - I've never seen Lindsey
turn red! - I'm so happy!
- I'll let my wife answer.
- I've never seen her at a loss for words,
huh, Lindsey? - Yeah!
[laughter]
- What about you?
- Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah,
no, I haven't got there. [laughter]
- That's why he asked. He's like,
"Mine's a hard no."
[laughter] - Yeah, nope, nope.
- So? - It's your turn.
- Well, we haven't-- We haven't yet.
I mean, it's only been, what, three days
since we got married?
- I'm just someone that wants to have
an emotional connection with somebody first.
- Yeah. - I'm usually someone who's
pretty open with whatever happens,
but now it's me and my wife.
And I'll definitely wanna respect her boundaries.
- Absolutely. - Mm-hmm.
- And she asked that we keep whatever happens
between me and her, so...
- That's cool. - Very respectful.
- What about you guys?
- I think everybody at this point probably has
figured it out that Alyssa and I--
We haven't had sex.
[laughter]
♪ ♪
- I see the island!
- Oh, I think it's that-- - Coming up?
- Oh, my God, that water.
- Look at how blue it is! - Yeah, look it.
- Yeah, it's like-- - Yeah, right here, look.
- Can't wait to go in this water.
- God, me too. - I can't wait, too.
Last one in the water's a rotten egg.
♪ ♪
- Oh, Lindsey!
- ♪ Summer, yeah, ah, ah ♪
♪ We're gonna live until forever ♪
♪ ♪
- Look at the boys, look.
- They're so cute.
- They look like they're having so much fun
around that surfboard.
- So how was everybody's first night?
- It was really good.
It's weird. Like, we're just so comfortable
around each other. - Yeah.
- No, you guys really are. I see it, yeah.
- And it's like really eerie
'cause I'm like--I'm, like,
slowly falling in love with him.
Like, I feel it happening.
- Aww. - And I said that to him,
and he didn't
immediately say that.
He said, "Thank you, like, for telling me that."
♪ ♪
- I got a--
I got hit with a hard one today.
- What?
- She basically said that
she could see herself falling in love with me.
♪ ♪
- Steve. - Does that scare you?
- So it does scare me. I mean, the wedding was just
a few days ago. - Yeah.
- And we're moving at a rapid pace.
- Did you express--did you say
anything about how you felt, though?
- I let her know. I told her that I'm glad
that she expressed it,
but I'm not there yet, you know?
- Right. - So
she may have been kind of looking
at me sideways, like...
- Mm-hmm. - That's-- "Is that enough,"
you know? - Right.
- It was definitely, like,
a first challenge of like, "Whoa, okay,"
you know, so... - Right.
- I got a question for you. It's something I'm--
I'm battling with. Like, how do you guys
find that balance between going with the flow
and not putting too much pressure so fast?
'Cause I feel like I'm not going with the flow.
- Okay.
- So I'm creating things that aren't even there.
- Creating things that aren't-- - And then it's like,
"Wait, this wasn't even an issue."
And now you made it an issue.
- You overthought it, okay.
- When you feel that you are going too forward,
that's when you fall back a little bit.
Like, if you're thinking,
"All right, what I'm bringing here
is creating something, all right, let me just--"
- And then you pull back a little bit?
- Yeah, and maybe wait for her to make
the next big--big--
- Jump. - Move in conversation,
you know? Yeah.
- What about you, O?
Like, how is it--how is it?
Are you, you know--
Anything like this going on?
- You know what's actually funny?
My wife thinks that we just went to the gym
to just go to the gym.
I purposely pushed her
for her to speak up.
Like, I--I do an exercise
I knew would bother me,
and she spoke up about it.
Like, "Hey, this is bothering me."
And I love that, like, honestly, honestly.
I wanna make sure that this is real.
You know, don't try to just be passive
and just be, like, "Oh, lovey-dovey" because we're
in heaven on Earth. - Paradise, yeah.
- You want this to be a lifelong commitment?
Don't just flow with it.
- How about you, Alyssa? What was your first night like?
- I mean, I don't think we need to talk about it.
I think, you know,
we've come to a good place.
And I think we're, you know, ready to move forward,
and, you know, do our best in the situation
that we were given. - Mm-hmm.
- So you guys are gonna move into, not--
Sorry, I'm just wondering, like...
♪ ♪
- Honestly,
we're peas and carrots.
- Peas and carrots. - Yeah, I have no complaints.
I think he's probably my perfect match.
We balance each other really well.
Like, I would've never picked him up at a bar, picked him.
But he's the perfect man for me.
- Aww.
- It's like, I love him. He's the one. That's it.
- Oh, my God, you love him? - You love him?
- Oh, wow. - Aww!
- No, girl, I gotta keep some secrets.
[laughter] Come on, please.
- It's been really interesting
because the wedding was a lot.
And then we have the airplane.
And like, okay, now
I'm taking a step back
'cause this is not what I like.
It kind of pulled me back for a second 'cause
there was nothing really that I felt triggered it.
But as--as a friend said, "You gotta--you gotta
reel her in."
I'm like, "I'll reel you in once or twice,
but at some point, you gotta stop doing that."
- Mark, do you think
her energy will--will tire you out?
♪ ♪
- It's a lot for me.
- Hmm, Mark "the Shark."
- Yeah. - [chuckles]
- It sounds like it's almost to the point
for you that it sounds like
a deal breaker, right, if it-- - It's--
- If this continues to happen, then it's like,
"Okay, this isn't gonna be okay with me."
- I told her, I told her, "It's difficult
for me in situations that feel okay with us when you do that."
- Right.
- And if you can't respect that, then maybe you can
just remember that next time something comes up.
♪ ♪
- Well, I'm glad that you came back,
and, like, I'm glad that we're able to, like--
- Just need a moment. - Yeah.
And I think we all needed a moment.
- Yeah, no, I was just triggered.
I had been in a relationship with somebody.
He literally, like, lost his mind after drinking.
And so there was just
a moment where I was kind of brought back into that place.
That was just a me thing, me and my history,
so I just needed to take a second and be like,
"That was a long time ago, and that's not today," you know?
- So you know you triggered
that moment for yourself, right?
So-- - Him and I had--well,
first of all, there's three sides of the truth.
Yours, mine, and the truth. Him and I
had a conversation last night. - Yours, mine,
and the truth, or your perception and the truth?
- That's what I'm saying. - And mine, yours,
mine, and the truth. - Yours, mine, and the truth.
♪ ♪
- So...
I need to calm down 'cause--
- Yeah, why don't we come over--
- I would've talked to you gladly.
- I need a second.
Me and Olajuwon--we had our own conversation
where he's just like, "Okay, like, don't say anything.
Let's just drop it."
But I can't--I can't sit here and listen to this.
I was not anticipating
anything dramatic happening today.
And I've tried to take his advice.
But now I'm gonna move with how
I handle situations.
Okay, so I know you spoke to my husband.
I'm not like him.
You were just saying on the plane
you were tr--"I was triggered because
of what happened to me."
I don't care what happened to you
when you were two, three, four years old.
You are 35 years old.
Seek the healthy means to get over it,
and no, when you get liquor, don't pass that
on other people.
You're way too old for that.
Secondly,
maybe he wouldn't have had that reaction
if you didn't keep jabbing.
It's like you poke people. You're a--
You're like, "I'm not touching you."
You're, like, five years old.
And then when you get a reaction,
you play victim so much. You're manipulative.
- That's really rude.
- I don't care if it's rude or not.
I'm telling you because
you're rude.
I think you have kindness in you,
but I think you do a lot
of sneaky, weird stuff on the side.
- Yeah, well, I guess I don't talk--
- And I don't care, and I'm not listening to this.
- I guess when it shows,
he only gets to see the true me, but--
- I don't care about the show, girl.
I'm living it in the moment.
♪ ♪
That was rude.
- I don't like that.
I'm not here to build friendships, I'm here--
- For your husband. - Exactly,
and that's what I wanna focus on.
- I just felt I was triggered and I needed
a moment to regroup myself.
- But she's not coming at you 'cause you needed
a moment to regroup.
She's trying to get you to understand
that you cause that
for you to be triggered.
Like, you could've stopped, but you didn't.
- I don't wanna talk about it anymore.
I need to go on a walk.
- I love you. I think you're a great person.
You always check in on me.
But I do think, you know, some people probably think
it's just too much.
Some people can take, you know, you being
always on 100, and some people can't.
But you're not a bad person,
I don't want you to think that you're a bad person.
- Yet I'm hearing that I am.
I got a little upset
on the boat when Katina made comments to me
about, like, in-valuing
my experience because I think that's unfair.
I think it's really important
that we remember being vulnerable
and open is a sign of strength and awareness and courage.
And you should never judge somebody
for their truth and their experience.
- Let's go.
- ♪ Come sail away with me ♪
♪ We'll be all right ♪
♪ You seeing when we leave ♪
♪ I won't forget you ♪
I'm just thinking about everything she said to me
and how she said it, her delivery.
- That's why I always say, like, "What you say
"and how you say in your delivery
is gonna affect everyone differently."
- I'm just--just upset at the way she talked to me.
- Right, right, right, so you're upset
the way she talked to you.
We have to just figure out a plan.
I want Lindsey to walk away
from things that we don't need to get into as a couple.
For her, it's--I feel it's harder to do that
because she wants to just get across a good point.
But sometimes, that point
starts a--a fiasco things.
And at the end of the day, the house is on fire,
don't throw gasoline.
Put water or just
walk away from it. It's not your house,
Walk away!
Let it burn.
Long as there's no people in there.
- Play a game right now.
- "Never have I ever"?
- Wait, are you putting up ten fingers?
- Five. - Five?
- Never have I ever... - Let's do it.
- All right, we started doing it.
- Been outside of the U.S. and Canada?
- U.S. Canada. - If you--if you have
been outside the US and Canada,
put a finger down. - Put a finger down.
- Never have I ever murdered someone.
- Wha--oh, oh!
- I'ma keep my hands up. - Aww.
- Never have I ever been arrested.
- What? - Arrested.
- Oh! - You were arrested, Jasmina?
- [gasps]
- My--first of all, my record is clean.
I did my community service.
- [laughter] - It was
in high school, and it was just like
a big fight, and a couple of us got arrested.
- Did you win, though? - Did you win?
- I did. - Yay!
- All right, Noi.
- Never have I ever gone skinny dipping.
- Sluts.
[laughter]
- Never have I ever cheated on someone.
- If you haven't, you put a finger down.
- If you cheated on them, put a finger down.
- There's eight max. - I'm out.
- You never cheated on anyone? - No.
- Nah. - At all?
- No!
- So Steve
puts down his finger,
and I look over at him, and I'm like,
"Okay, we're gonna talk about this later."
I just would have liked
to learn that information about my husband
maybe in private or never.
Not a good start, like,
to anyone's honeymoon, I don't think.
- Never have I ever had a threesome.
- You had one? - Wait, wait, no, I didn't.
[laughter]
- I'm glad you got that out of the way.
- And he said it.
- Who's next? - All right, one more qu--
I can't think of anything. - I cannot.
- It's the last one. Come on, come on!
Go ahead, who's gonna ask a good question--Mark?
There's nothing you guys wonder?
Like, what your spouse has done.
You re--this is the time to ask.
- Why don't you just ask it? Go ahead.
- Yeah, you wanna... - Yeah, go ahead, ask it.
- What're you thinking? - Have you ever
slept with somebody in the same, like, the same family,
like they, like you slept-- - What?
- That's messed--
- Like the same sister, mother, daughter?
- Has anybody has ever messed
with a woman or a man
and then messed with, like, their family after that,
like, their cousin? - Never.
- No. - No.
- So what're you do on Mother's--
- Who'd you mess with?
Did you do two sisters? - What did you do?
- I messed with a mom and her daughter.
- Oh.
♪ ♪
- Together at the same time?
- No, but I picked them both up at the train station,
and they both knew.
- Huh. - That's disturbing.
- That's why I left them. - That's really weird.
- First of all,
hold on. That's not disturbing.
That's actually a beautiful experience.
[laughter]
- Did you know they were related?
- Of course I did.
- Oh, okay, all right. - Did you give 'em--
- 'Course I did, 'course I did. - Cool, cool, cool.
Absolutely, later-- - That was the old him, guys.
I just wanna clarify that.
- Yes, I got a ring on my finger.
- Holy [bleep].
Everyone's face is like...
- It was a great experience, though, you know?
- Like, how--what do you mean?
How the [bleep] did this happen?
Was it both of them together?
Was it both of them separate?
Did you know? Did you not know?
- I don't doubt it. - I'm glad it was
great for you.
- Sounds like a great learning experience.
- It is never okay with me, but for other people,
if they both agree to it, then, um, yeah, that's their life.
- Moving on. - Would you--
Now you guys are married,
if your spouse has asked you
to have a threesome, would you jump in it?
♪ ♪
- Is anyone okay with it?
Is it off the table for everybody?
- 100%. - Yeah.
- It's off the table. - Off the table.
- It's off the table.
- It's off the table, I guess.
I mean, it takes two, right?
- What do you mean, you guess?
♪ ♪
No, mm-mm.
I'm just over his wild Isaac stories.
Don't bring that stuff over here.
It's not happening.
- If you offered me... - I guess.
- I know if I offered you-- - If you--if you offered me
another woman, why would I not?
My sexual, like, life, I--I love--
- Well, we all know that, but it's not happening.
- Whatever you're cool with, I'm cool with.
But if you have offered that,
why would I deny it?
♪ ♪
♪ All I wanna do is spend ♪
♪ A little time alone with you ♪
♪ ♪
- So how are you feeling about
the honeymoon so far?
- Been having a lot of fun. - Mm-hmm.
- You know, from our picnic to the catamaran.
I know we might have had a bit
of a different experience there,
but I had a great time.
And now we're here, and--and things are progressing fast,
and--just in general, I mean,
our intimacy level has moved pretty fast, right?
- Yeah. - When you think about it.
We're really connected in that way.
- I mean, physically, like chemistry-wise,
I feel like we're on track.
I mean, I did--I was a little bit surprised
that that came so natural for us.
Emotional connection, I don't know.
I think with my heart, and, like, if I feel
strongly for someone, I'm just going to tell them.
You know, I'm not gonna think about it that hard.
- After we talked about
our feelings for each other,
I felt like you were unhappy or that you
felt like I wasn't giving enough.
- You mean, when I told you that I think
that I'm slowly falling in love with you?
- Yeah, like, you said that... - Yeah.
- And I told you how I felt.
- I think I was a little taken aback because I just
was, like, "That's not really
what I wanted to hear," I guess.
- Based on three days together and how well
we communicate and how good things feel,
I think we have the potential for that, for sure.
♪ ♪
But I do wanna honor the--myself
and give it the time that I need to say "absolutely."
I can't say that until I know.
♪ ♪
We haven't gotten even to the point of comfort level
of, "Hey, this is me raw
and everything about me that you should know before,"
you know, so--so that you know me fully.
[wind blowing]
- I guess it's something that we have to, like,
think about, too.
Like, you know, like what do we need
to know about each other that could potentially be an issue?
[chuckles]
♪ ♪
Well, I've, like, cheated on a partner like--
- Whoa, whoa, whoa.
You gave me a side eye
when I put a finger down.
Did you put a finger down?
I put a finger down. - I think I did
put a finger down, yeah. - Okay.
- And I was shocked to hear that about you.
For whatever reason, I thought you were this angel.
- You were like, "No, I'm the only cheater here."
- Yeah, I'm like--
- "How could you--how could my husband?"
- "You?" - [laughs]
- You're supposed to be perfect!
[chuckling]
- So why don't you tell me the circumstances about that?
- I think I must've been, like, 18 or 19.
And I think I was, like, too afraid to acknowledge
that I wasn't happy in the relationship.
And so it happened,
and, like, I'm not proud of it.
Just seeing how my actions affected someone else
on such a deep level was just so heartbreaking for me
even to see that play out.
And like, I still think about it to this day.
You know, like, I can't believe I did that.
- Yeah, I mean, I've been in the same position
around the same age as well. - Mm-hmm.
- I cheated on my first girlfriend.
You know, it was a long-term relationship.
- Mm-hmm. - She found out.
She was really hurt,
really upset by it, and, you know,
it was one of those situations where I didn't know
the true consequences of my actions.
After that, it was just like, "All right,
"from here on out, that conversation
needs to be had," you know. - Mm-hmm.
- Whether it's a breakup or a break,
or it's just, you owe that person
that much respect, right?
But yeah, so I--I, you know.
That's something I completely understand.
At a young age--
I mean, if you were telling me yeah,
you're still--if you're still
out at 30s, in your 30s,
and you're still cheating, then yeah,
that might be an issue.
- That's a different story. - Right.
- And that's a pattern as opposed to somebody
who can learn and grow.
But yeah, I don't view it as a red flag.
If what you're saying is true and you grew from it,
you're a better person from it.
♪ ♪
- Yeah, I think I did.
- You think you did?
- I mean, I did. Sorry, I did.
[chuckling]
♪ ♪
- ♪ What is, what is the truth ♪
♪ ♪
- This morning, Michael and I
are having breakfast on the balcony.
And he says,
yesterday on the catamaran, when we were having
a group discussion on whether or not
we consummated our marriage,
I cut him off as he was explaining we didn't yet.
- Has anybody consummated their marriage?
- Well, we haven't--we haven't yet.
I mean, it's only been, what,
three days since we got married?
- I'm just someone that wants to have
an emotional connection with somebody first.
- Yeah.
He is telling me that I did.
He was there.
And if he said that this happened,
then that happened, and that I needed to apologize.
- ♪ Your lie which makes no sense to me at all ♪
- I'm not going to apologize if I feel in my heart
that I did not do that.
♪ ♪
I can only apologize for how something
has made you feel, and he's not trying to hear it.
And I feel in this moment that he's being
very aggressive with his words.
I don't appreciate his tone.
It's disrespectful.
It's rude. It's loud.
I'm--very annoying.
I'm very upset. I'm very hurt.
I'm very just with every [bleep] thing.
I don't tolerate disrespect at all.
Why would I want to be with somebody that doesn't know
how to have a civil conversation?
♪ ♪
That is not how you start off a relationship.
So I don't know what's gonna happen
moving forward.
All I know right now is, I'm not feeling him.
I don't wanna be in this marriage.
I don't even wanna be in the same room
with this man, honestly.
♪ ♪
[upbeat music]
♪ ♪
- I'm hungry.
Ooh, thank you.
- Ladies first.
- Ooh!
Thank you.
- Wow.
[both exhale]
- How are you feeling?
- Good, good, good.
So how you feel about today and everything?
- Today was fun overall.
But I haven't really gotten a chance
to speak to you about yesterday.
Me and you had a conversation, you told me
you wanting me to stay out
of what had happened on, you know,
the plane and everything. - Right.
- On the boat when you are out in the water,
Lindsey, she was just,
like, saying how she was triggered.
And I wasn't gonna say anything.
- Right. - But the only reason why I did
is because she brought it up in front of me
and made it seem like-- - She's the victim.
- Exactly, and that was my issue.
- Her own husband came up and apologized
because Lindsey was drinking on the plane.
And he didn't know how to control her, so
let's not give her energy.
This is about our marriage, and let's move forward.
Hearing that my wife
was defending me again without me there,
she was doing that [bleep] from her heart
and she wasn't doing it just to impress me
meant everything, that means I married the right woman.
That's exactly what it means.
- On the boat, we were playing "never have I ever,"
and I learned, you know, a couple of your stories.
- [muffled] What stories? - Yeah, Isaac stories.
- Oh, yeah.
Isaac was an immature version of me
who just ran around and did what he wanted.
♪ ♪
- Okay.
- I don't really wanna go that deep into that,
because that's another point-- - Okay, so that's like--okay.
But I mean, it didn't
really bother me.
- So it didn't bother you
that right in front of everybody, I was like,
"Absolutely, if my wife wanted to have a threesome,
I would do it"?
♪ ♪
- No, it didn't bother me.
It didn't bother me-- I mean, that's your truth--
But I also don't like to share...
- I see, I see.
- My husband. - I know.
- So--and also when you
do that in a marriage,
like, I'm not--no, uh-uh.
- Things get sloppy.
Things can get sloppy. - Yeah.
- More like that--no, no. - Why would I wanna invite
somebody else into my man? - I am fine
with no other woman. - Okay, cool.
I believe that
my husband likes to brush past Isaac because
he just wants to leave that in the past
and he feels like it has nothing to do
with who he currently is.
And it has nothing to do with our future
because he's told me, like, "I'm a new person,
you get a brand-new version of me."
But then also I'm like,
"You say this now,
but are you gonna say that tomorrow?"
♪ ♪
- I don't have two rings on because
I'm playing with two women.
I only got one ring on 'cause I only have one wife.
So let me reassure you that
you are everything.
You are my other half.
It's so easy to talk to you.
Like bo--I thought
me being vulnerable would, like, be hard.
It's so easy.
I realize I have never been so vulnerable
because I was never with the right person.
And now I have found my queen, so
I deleted my Instagram today for you.
- Mm-hmm. - To show my commitment
and my lust for you.
- [chuckles] - I don't want you
to get caught up with lust.
I want you to know that I'm the right guy for you.
You know what I'm saying?
And it's crazy because
there's no sex in the picture.
- I know. - We haven't even
talked about sex. - I'm your wife,
so obviously, like, at one point in time,
you obviously wanna be intimate.
But one thing that I was
praying for hours is like, "I hope he is a man
who knows how to control his body."
- What made me not wanna just "don't be physical"
is because my whole life, my past--
- Was physical? - Was just physical,
and I know that dies fast,
and you bring so much joy
without even the sexual part, you know what I mean?
It's still fresh, and I don't want her
to feel like I just got to know you to have sex
because we have a ring on our finger.
Like, I really wanna know my wife
in and out mentally.
So like, I could
look at her and be like, "Yo,
something's wrong with my wife."
Like, I wanna be able to read her body language.
I wanna know that. I want her to know how I feel.
That's where magic happens.
I know that when we get to that level,
I know our attraction's only gonna rise.
And we'll get more, like,
obsessive with each other, you know?
That is passion.
That's unity, that's love.
I only can imagine how I'm gonna feel
when I fall in love with you.
♪ ♪
- ♪ It's a good day, whoa ♪
♪ It's a good morning, whoa ♪
♪ Got the sun ♪
♪ On my face, whoa ♪
♪ It's a beautiful morning ♪
- Hey, how are you? Good morning.
- I'm good, how are you? - Good.
- So we are about
to go snuba-ing.
It's like snorkel plus scuba
out in the bay right at the resort.
It gives me sort of a chance
to do an activity that I'm excited about doing
with her.
And it just gives us a chance
to, at the very least, be close enough
that we can talk to each other.
But the last thing I wanna do is push
and make it worse at this point.
I've heard it called snuba diving,
like snorkeling mixed with scuba diving,
where you put the dome over.
It's something I've never done before.
It's a little freaky, but...
- So I'll watch you do it.
- Yeah, okay.
- From the shore.
- [chuckles] - And you can tell me
about it after. - You don't like doing that?
- No. - Okay.
- You'll have fun doing it.
[chuckles] - I'm sure I will.
I'll tell you all about it.
It does look like it's clearing up if you wanna go out now.
- Yeah.
Yeah, we can grab our stuff and then head out.
- Okay, wanna do that? - Let's go.
- Cool.
♪ ♪
I look like a superhero, like an awkward--
- I don't even understand what's about to happen.
- An awkward watery superhero.
They gotta weigh me down so I don't float.
They asked much I weighed...
- Did you tell them? - So I got the right amount.
Yeah, but I lied, so I might float.
[both laugh]
- I do think this is the first time
I've seen Chris with his shirt off.
♪ ♪
I don't wanna hurt
anyone's feelings, and so, you know,
I'm very careful about, like, the words
that I use, but I don't think
Chris is my type physically,
and I think that that's okay to say.
♪ ♪
- ♪ So I'd let you go, but I feel like leaving ♪
♪ Just pull me out of this deep water ♪
♪ Yearning for some resolution ♪
♪ Whoa ♪
- I don't wanna scuba dive.
I don't wanna sink on the bottom floor.
Like...
the paddleboard, and that's like the only other thing.
- Yeah.
- I don't know, like, leave here?
[laughs]
- ♪ You're all that I want but I feel I'm sinking ♪
- Snuba diving
is a lot of fun.
There's fish, a million different colors.
It's beautiful down there.
But at the same time,
I did not anticipate doing any of these activities
on my honeymoon all by myself.
- What happened?
- I called her, and I was like,
"I don't wanna go swimming with him."
I was like, "That's not an activity,
and I don't feel comfortable doing it."
Like, paddleboarding is different.
- Yeah. - Like, it's an activity.
I don't have to be next to him.
Like, that's different.
And she was like, "Who cares, Alyssa?
"Just--like, just do it.
Like, who cares?"
And she's like, keeps saying to me, like,
"You don't wanna come off a certain way on TV."
I'm like, "I have literally been
the nicest person to literally everyone,"
and she's like, "You're being difficult."
Everyone else has someone else.
Everyone else, whether they're getting along
perfectly or not, is having a good time.
And I'm stuck here. Like, it's [bleep] raining.
I don't wanna [bleep] go swimming with him.
Like, I'm--I'm not happy!
[sniffles]
Hey, can you tell him
not to come over here right now?
- Okay. - I don't like him.
♪ ♪
- ♪ You're just a problem ♪
♪ Every time you come around ♪
♪ You're just a problem ♪
♪ ♪
- ♪ Loving you is a fantasy ♪
♪ Joined to you like it's gravity ♪
♪ Beautiful as a melody, like hoo ♪
- You like the water now?
- Yeah, I like it a little bit more.
I still can't swim, though.
- You feel more comfortable in it?
- Yeah.
- A little bit? - Yeah, a little bit.
- I'm not really convinced, but...
[laughter]
I'm really excited about this because
it's our first time in the pool
with almost no clothes on,
and Noi looks so hot,
so I'm just really attracted to my wife.
- ♪ I don't ever wanna leave ♪
- Do you like kissing me?
- I do.
- On a scale of one to 100.
- One to 100? - Mm-hmm.
- A lot closer to 100
when it's just me and you.
When the cameras are around, mid-50s.
I feel like you just kinda...
- [giggles]
- [laughs]
- Yeah, I feel you. - All right, yeah.
Definitely wanna make sure
you're comfortable, though, you know?
- I am.
I'm, like, super comfortable around you.
It's, like, really weird.
- [sniffles]
- Are you crying?
[giggles]
- You--you said--
- Is that a tear drop?
- It's not, I'm just--
I just got, yeah, a bug flew directly into my eyeball.
- I'm like, "Aww, you like me that much?"
That's so sweet.
It's really nice
having this moment with my husband
in paradise.
♪ ♪
- I do.
- How much on a scale from one to 100?
- It has to be one to 100 every time?
- Gimme a number.
- It's between 50
and 100.
[both laugh]
- That's like the least romantic thing
I've ever heard in my life.
I feel so lucky and grateful because
I'd fallen in love once
my whole life.
And I'd gotten to a point in my life where I accepted,
like, "Well, maybe I'm not gonna fall in love again."
But maybe that was it, and I was grateful enough
to have that opportunity.
- I said I like you a lot.
I'm just supposed to love you to 100...
- Yeah, right away. - Right off the gate?
- 'Cause that's how marriage works.
I think I'm overwhelmed with emotions
because I feel like it's happening again,
and I just feel so grateful that,
you know, I get a second chance.
And, like, Steve is that for me.
But he doesn't know that yet, but, um...
Yeah, I get to have that with him.
♪ ♪
Well, I'm glad you at least admitted...
- Yeah, it's a start, right? - Hmm.
- ♪ Don't go, don't go, don't go, don't go ♪
♪ Stay close, stay close ♪
♪ I don't wanna wake up if I'm not next to you, boy ♪
♪ So pull through, boy ♪
♪ Baby, we could take a chance and try something new ♪
♪ Brand new ♪
- ♪ I call you ♪
♪ Listen above the noise ♪
♪ ♪
♪ But there's not ♪
♪ A lot to say when ♪
♪ There's no compromise ♪
- We got off to a rocky start this morning,
so I'm hoping this dinner will kinda ease
some of the tension that we've been having so far.
Because who doesn't like a romantic dinner
by the water?
My wife looks beautiful. It should be perfect.
Do you have any expectations
for me as your husband?
- If I'm being honest, I expect you to talk to me respectfully.
'Cause you know, this morning...
You said, when we were on the boat,
and we were talking about, you know,
if we had been sexual yet,
and you said no, and I cut you off.
And you were just so adamant about it, like, "Yes, you did."
You know, "I was there" type of thing,
but it's also, like,
I don't remember saying that,
and I was also there.
And you felt like
I needed to apologize for it, and when I said,
"Well, sorry you felt that way,"
you said that wasn't an apology.
♪ ♪
- Because "I'm sorry you felt that way"
isn't really an apology, though.
It's more of like--it's more of like, "It is what it is,"
like, type of--type of thing.
You know what I--that's not an apology to me.
- I'm not going to apologize.
I'm not gonna say, "Oh, I'm sorry I cut you off"
'cause I don't feel I cut you off.
But I will say I'm sorry that you feel that way.
♪ ♪
- So if the tables were turned--
- And you said "I'm sorry you felt that way"?
- And I'm saying this--and I said at you "I'm sorry
you feel that way,"
you would be like, "Oh, okay."
- Yes, 'cause people do that. - And--but--right,
but do we just let it go, like,
"Okay, well, it is what it is"?
- I would've been fine with that.
- Okay, we're just different in that regard.
- No, we're not different. - No, we're different.
- What--what I--what I said is something that
people say if they feel like they didn't think--
- I'm not talking about people--
- You want me to say it with X, Y, and Z--
- You're not married to people. - Okay, well,
you want me to apologize to you
how you want me to.
I'm not going to do that.
♪ ♪
- Well, I'm not sure what else to say about this
'cause I feel like we're
talking in circles. - Mm-hmm.
- We're gonna have to agree to disagree on this one.
♪ ♪
- I don't remember
cutting him off.
I don't feel like I cut him off.
♪ ♪
- In my head, when I was there, I thought she cut me off.
♪ ♪
What're you thinking?
- That I want some more to drink.
♪ ♪
- I'll say this.
Going forward, something happens
like this again,
and however you say sorry,
it's how it should be accepted.
So I accept your apology.
Why're you look--why that face? - [chuckles]
- Why that face?
- Oh, my God. - I just agreed with you.
- 'Cause did you really accept it, or you're just
saying that 'cause you don't wanna go to bed?
- No, I ju--I genuinely accept it.
Because really,
really in your heart don't believe
you did what I'm saying you did, then okay.
We can only really have a real conversation
if it happens again and I point it out immediately.
♪ ♪
- But I think your--your delivery...
- Yeah. - And the aggressiveness
to it and...
- Yeah. - Just, like, basically
telling me how I should apologize to someone...
♪ ♪
That just, like, threw me off guard,
and I was just, like, no.
♪ ♪
- I do apologize for that.
That's something I'm working on.
It's an issue that, like,
you know, my sister's told me,
my friends have told me,
past relationships.
It's never, like, intentional for me to sound, like,
abrasive or aggressive or condescending
or like I don't care, but I understand
that it--how it can come across like that.
So it is something I'm working on.
And, uh...
that's something I'll make sure to, like,
nip in the bud immediately when we get back to Boston.
♪ ♪
- I appreciate you for saying that.
♪ ♪
- You're truly not bothered by it anymore?
- No, I do--I didn't say I'm not bothered by it.
I just have to believe what you say
until I see differently.
- Yeah. - And that's
another conversation.
♪ ♪
- It's really pretty.
- It's very pretty.
♪ ♪
It's also a nice, calm night.
- [sighs]
I can see your stress.
- It's just so much here.
I think--thought--I think, like,
the wedding was, like, a shock
and just so many highs, and I was like, "Okay,
"I--I love the interesting things we have,
like, the core things. They're just so spot on."
Those little things you geek out about,
the little odds that you have that you don't get with people.
And then we jump right into the honeymoon,
and we have so many things that are conflicting
with trying to get to know someone, I guess.
- What do you mean so many conflicting things?
- Girls attacking you, fights on the plane.
Like, you were in two situations that affected us
just trying to get to know each other in the flow.
I feel like we're going so high at times and it's like,
"Holy [bleep], like, this is a lot."
- Mm-hmm. - It's like I can't breathe.
I'm just trying to digest it.
I love the fact that
you wanna take care of me in so many places.
But I wanna still take the time to get to know you
in the process and not rush so many things
that we can do down the road.
- Like what? - I don't know.
Just--just there's so many things.
Like, I know you have my back on everything,
which is great. - Mm-hmm.
- But I want to, like, go slow in the process, like--
- Like don't marry a stranger?
[chuckles] - Well--
Well, it's just like...
I don't know, like,
it's an accelerated process.
But if I feel like it's getting--
If things are getting too accelerated,
then it won't flow organically.
So I want it to flow organically.
So I want us--I want us to just
go slow on things and not,
like, rush a lot of things.
We-- - Why?
- Well,
we just met, so I feel like
going slow and steady wins the race
than going fast, fast, fast, fast, fast, fast, fast.
So that's all.
♪ ♪
- What are you asking for?
- Just that we go slow and steady.
That's all.
I don't wanna get too, too lovey-dovey
because we literally just met, and there's so many things
that are going on, and it has to flow organically.
- Mm-hmm.
- So that's all.
♪ ♪
All these different things are affecting my mood right now.
And I just want us to go slow so that we
build on this momentum of us together.
So I want you to know that
so you don't think "He's not into me."
I am. I just don't wanna go
crazy lovey-dovey
when everything around us, sometimes, is chaotic.
What are you thinking about?
♪ ♪
- Yeah, I'm just trying to think of what I want to say
and how I wanna say it. - Okay.
You seem, like, annoyed.
- It's just a little confusing for me to hear you say, like,
"Oh, I wanna take it slower" when you're the first one
who wanted to jump all in, you know?
And like, okay, so are you in, or are you out?
I can slow back, but I pull way back.
Way--all the way back.
♪ ♪
There's no in between for me.
♪ ♪
- So you--
You can't, like, bring it down a notch.
It's either all in or, like--
- If you want me to be less,
then you need to stop [bleep] up and clogging the toilets
and farting in bed.
Like, you want to be less,
let's stop that, okay?
You want a little romance, and you want it
to be, like, slow, like,
I don't need to see that.
- Okay. - You know what I mean?
Like, you're giving me a full frontal you.
Chewing with your mouth open, fart with the door open.
Like, if you're telling me you wanna get to know
each other less and slow down,
then take that note for yourself as well.
Like, I'm matching you in a lot of cases.
- A lot of things are matching me,
but you are very here with just saying something,
just no matter what!
- I'm just, like, frustrated and mad.
Like, why would you plan a romantic dinner with me
and then say, "I want to pull back?"
Why would we have consummated our marriage?
Like, come on, dude. You're so stupid.
If this is your idea of a romantic dinner,
never plan one again for me.
Ever.
Are we done yet?
'Cause this is zero romance, and I'm ready for bed.
♪ ♪
- Okay.
- [groans]
[bleep]
♪ ♪
[tense electronic music]
♪ ♪
- My whole purpose tonight
of this meal was to just let her know, like, where I'm at.
And the fact that I think
we can have something amazing because of our core.
But there are a lot of things that have happened.
[laughs] I mean, some of these things,
I see them, like,
"Wow, I didn't see that coming',"
or "Wow, I thought that was gonna
work out well."
As long as I'm
who I am, it's all I can do.
Do you wanna talk about what's going on?
- No, I don't wanna talk to you right now.
- Okay.
- Thanks for the great romantic night.
♪ ♪
- All right.
♪ ♪
- Nope, I don't wanna
talk to you right now. I'm furious.
You literally have said
all day, "This is great,
my wife's so great, you're so great."
- You are. - And then you sat there
tonight and said to me,
"You know, we should just go slower."
We can start right back at zero.
My name is Lindsey George Willis.
Nice to meet you.
If you would like to take me out on a date,
give me a call and ask me out.
- That's how you wanna handle that?
- I mean, honestly, kind of.
You just said to me, "You know what?
I don't wanna be all lovey-dovey."
Okay, no prob.
Gotcha.
Easy breezy.
- I said I wanted to go slower
because as the days go on, so many things
are going on in my head about everything
that's going on around us. - Okay.
- During this time, I'm trying to enjoy
every minute I can with you without letting other things
in--or going around us affect it.
- Is that what you think happened tonight?
♪ ♪
Do you feel as though what you did tonight at our dinner
led for a romantic dinner?
- I think I tried to plan a romantic dinner
for you, and I think that--
- What, what?
What part?
What part's the romantic?
What part's the laugh? - I'm not gonna--
I'm not gonna make you happy right now,
so I'm gonna walk away and just take a moment.
- I'm gonna step out.
- Okay.
What are you doing? - I'm just gonna take a moment.
I'm just annoyed.
None of this feels good.
- But I said, like, "Normally how I deal with things,
I--I handle it, I get--I know you have my back."
♪ ♪
- You could've done better.
You really screwed up on that one, buddy.
That's not--there's no there--for me,
there's no other way around it.
Feel free to step out.
- Okay, I will.
[sighs]
- How do you not know better, you stupid idiot?
♪ ♪
[lock clicking]
♪ ♪
- [vocalizing]
♪ ♪
♪ Ooh, baby, looking like a dream ♪
♪ All I see is you and me ♪
- Aww!
- So there is no more KG. It's KD.
I want you to know that this is real.
Katina Dickerson.
She's my other half. She's my guardian angel.
I feel like God has brought her to me,
and, um, she deserves it, she truly does.
I--I know other people failed her in her life,
and I want her to know that I won't drop the ball.
- ♪ Ooh, baby, looking like a dream ♪
♪ All I see is you with me ♪
I don't know where you've been my whole life,
but I'm filled with joy 'cause you're
standing here in front of me.
- [chuckles] - I promise to be
the best husband.
I promise to be honest and truthful.
And I promise to protect you.
- This is so beautiful.
- God brought us to this.
- He'll get us through this.
Both: Amen.
[chuckling]
- ♪ Drifting into temptation ♪
- This is beyond a fairy tale. This is a dream come true.
- ♪ Sea of love, I see why ♪
[cork pops]
A man is only as strong
as the woman that stands beside him, and I hope
this truly is a lifetime.
- ♪ Moment, don't it feel like we're floatin' ♪
♪ On oceans, coasting ♪
She's my queen, and I will never let anybody hurt her.
I truly mean what I say.
And I'm--I'm not
going anywhere.
Get your heels off.
♪ ♪
- Wow, I haven't
felt this feeling in, like, so long.
- I'm gonna take care of you every single day.
And I truly mean that forever.
♪ ♪
- To me, he's sweet.
To other people, he might be sour.
But to me,
he's so nice and kind to me,
and he treats me very nice.
I think you have to be the sweetest, like,
thoughtful, aggressive...
[both laugh]
- Man I've ever, like, come across.
Mm, give me a hug.
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And I feel like I finally--
In my heart, like, I'm at peace.
Like, I found the person that is meant for me.
I feel like I'm falling in love.
[chuckles]
Shh!
You know how you told me
you were, like, "Oh, if I could
go back ten years, and..."
- Mm-hmm. - I feel the same way.
If it led me to this moment with you,
I would do it all again.
- When we look at each other, we know
that's just us.
We have beautiful,
and I'm proud to say, Black love.
- This is everything that I dreamed of!
Wish that every
woman out there can feel
what I'm feeling right now.
I just feel happy.
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I'm not in love yet, but...
[chuckles]
But this def--this definitely helped.
It got me crying on camera, mm-mm.
[chuckles]
- When the cameras and everything's gone,
I'm still gonna be beside you.
And I hope you'll stay beside me.
- You really about to cry?
- No, I'm good. - [giggles]
- Damn, I'm about to fall in love.
- [laughs]
Your boy gotcha.
♪ Tell me what I stand to lose ♪
♪ ♪
- Next time on "Married at First Sight"...
♪ So everybody put your hands together ♪
- Happy honeymoon. - First time in a rainforest!
- This is the first time I'm seeing Jasmina
smile since our wedding day.
- There we go!
On paper, I think she's a great fit.
- If the horse wanted to throw you,
it would've threw you all the way back there.
- Ooh, you're about to piss me off.
- I won't stop
living my life because
my wife isn't comfortable.
- So things haven't gone the way I would've expected.
- I hate him, he's a [bleep] [bleep].
Like, it's not my fault that this happened.
Please don't do that, Lindsey,
while I'm talking.
- I'm so mad.
I think that is so
classless.
- This hasn't been easy for me,
and, um...
- All talk aside,
I just need to know
if you are all out.
- Chris seems to be
trying actively to make me look bad.
That's not okay because I'm a really [bleep] good person.
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