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- True love requires great risk,
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so I'm willing
to take that leap of faith.
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- Five couples...
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- Nice to meet you.
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- Searching to find love...
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- How are you?
- Hi.
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- Took a brave leap of faith
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and got married at first sight.
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[cheers and applause]
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[dramatic music]
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Lindsey and Mark.
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- I'm ride-or-die.
- Yeah.
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- And I'm so loyal.
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I'll hide the body for you, boo.
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I've never met a stranger
I didn't like,
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so I hope
that he could keep up with me.
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[bleep] you.
[bleep] you.
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[bleep] you.
You, you're cool.
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- Yeah, yeah. Yeah.
- I'm out.
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- Jasmina and Michael.
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- My schedule is so crazy.
I'm up at 4:00.
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- 4:00?
- Yeah, 4:00.
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♪ ♪
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Yeah.
- Every day?
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- Monday through Friday.
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♪ ♪
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- Katina and Olajuwon.
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- What are you intentions
for my daughter?
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- I think Katrina is--
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- Katina.
- Katina.
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Sorry, sorry.
Katina.
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Katina.
My wife's name is Katina.
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- Noi and Steve.
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- I'm currently in between jobs.
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- Wow.
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Steve is unemployed right now.
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It sounds like it's temporary,
but we'll see.
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- Alyssa and Chris.
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- There's, like, been some
things that have been said
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that just
don't sit right with me.
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♪ ♪
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- I don't know what this is,
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but I had
a really good day today.
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I'm sorry if I did anything.
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What do you want to do?
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- Oh!
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- These couples
were total strangers
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just a few hours ago.
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Both: Two, three.
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- And now they will spend
their first night together
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as husband and wife.
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- This is not the way
that I expected this to go.
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This whole day has been about
making her feel comfortable,
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so I have no idea.
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I don't know how
the next 24 hours is gonna go.
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I don't have any idea
what's going on right now.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ Oh, baby ♪
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- And tonight, before they
leave for their honeymoons...
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- Hey, you.
- How are you?
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- Each spouse
will meet individually
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with their new family
and friends
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in order to get to know
who they just married.
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- She said that she doesn't
think we're compatible.
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- Maybe it'll just take time.
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- I'm--I don't wanna be rude,
but it's superficial.
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- How soon are you
thinking about kids?
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- Um--
- If you're gonna have a baby,
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you have to have a job first.
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♪ ♪
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- I'm not a bad-looking dude,
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I don't struggle with the women.
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So I want to try something new.
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- Getting married is
a final decision.
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- You think I'm [bleep],
call me out, bro.
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♪ ♪
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- We're off to Puerto Rico
for our honeymoon.
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- What happened?
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- What?
Do you want to fight me?
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- It's not true.
- I am, at this point--
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- And I'm not gonna stand here
on camera
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if he's gonna say that.
- I--
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- He just called me
a [bleep] liar.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ It's all or nothing ♪
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- This is
"Married at First Sight."
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- ♪ There's no other way ♪
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♪ ♪
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♪ It's all or nothing ♪
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[funky music]
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[cheers and applause]
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- ♪ I want it all ♪
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♪ Your body, body, body ♪
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- We just got married.
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This is Mrs. Morency.
- Yes, it is.
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- I think we look damn good
together, if you ask me.
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- ♪ Don't you know
you give me that feeling ♪
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♪ I can't describe it, baby,
that feeling ♪
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- Honey, how do you feel
being a married woman?
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- I feel like I got a good man.
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- All right.
She got a good man.
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That's good.
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- I got married at first sight,
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and I got everything
I ever wanted.
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I think he's very handsome.
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I'd love to see what he
looks like under that jacket.
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You know, like,
do we have a dad bod?
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I wanna see
what we're dealing with here.
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I'm ready to jump
into the deep end.
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[fabric rustling]
I'm ready for the honeymoon.
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[huffs]
- Ooh!
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- That's what you have
to look forward to.
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- I can't wait.
You're so ready.
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- [laughs]
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[cheers and applause]
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- ♪ One in a million ♪
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- We just got married.
- Got married.
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- And we just had
a great celebration
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with both of our families.
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- [gasps]
Can we jump in the bed?
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- Yeah.
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- ♪ We got
a one-in-a-million ♪
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♪ Kind of love, yeah ♪
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♪ ♪
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- Is it feeling more real
to you?
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- I mean, we're in the...
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- The honeymoon suite.
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- Honeymoon suite at this point.
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- Yeah.
A bed of roses too.
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♪ ♪
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- It feels crazy.
Oh, my God.
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I can't believe
I'm somebody's wife.
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I have to consult
with another person
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about my whereabouts, and--
[laughs]
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[cork pops]
Ooh!
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- Ooh!
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- Our couples met
just mere hours ago
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and are still
practically strangers.
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However, they are
legally married,
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so whatever they want
to do tonight is up to them.
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- ♪ Tonight
we're gonna feel good ♪
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- Ready?
- Yeah.
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- Breathe. Ooh.
- Mm-hmm.
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Thank you.
- No problem.
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My pleasure.
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- I'm not nervous if we're
gonna be intimate or not.
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He seems like someone
who can be patient.
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I feel like he'll just
let me take the lead.
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[laughs]
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[laughs]
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♪ ♪
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- [laughs]
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[sensual music]
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- I am absolutely ready
to let go of my playboy days,
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so that's why I got married
at first sight.
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When I was in college,
I used to run around,
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do whatever what I want,
play with whoever I wanted to,
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didn't care about
anybody's feelings except mine.
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I was very selfish,
but I'm excited
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to move forward with my wife
and look into the future
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and not look back anymore.
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A new chapter of life.
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♪ ♪
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I'm happy I met you, for real.
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And I hope that this is longer
than just the process.
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- Well, it will be.
We're married.
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You're like,
"Yeah, but, you know."
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- Right, but you might
take off on a brother.
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- No, I don't think so.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ Make tonight,
make tonight ♪
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- I think it was
kind of interesting
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that both our moms
weren't here today.
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- [sighs]
My mom is so complicated.
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She's not nice to me at all.
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As an adult, I've drawn
a lot of boundaries on her
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but always left the door open,
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and I really wanted her
to come to the wedding.
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- Mm-hmm.
- And she actually
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didn't tell me
she wasn't gonna come.
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She sent an email to somebody,
saying,
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"I'm probably not gonna come
to the wedding,"
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and talked really badly
about me in the email.
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And I was like,
"Just don't come."
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- I'm sorry.
- "That's fine.
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Don't come at all."
- Does that bother you?
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- Um, she's kind of a mess.
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I don't feel like hiding
anything from my husband.
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I love a man with good values
and a strong heart,
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so I'm excited to get to know
the heart behind the man.
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What's going on
with your mom, Rose?
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- So my mom, she's just--
When she retired,
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she kind of, like,
stopped dressing up.
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She started wearing nightgowns
all the time,
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and she wouldn't
leave the house.
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And then when my dad died,
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she just wouldn't want to
get up to go to the bathroom.
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- She has severe depression.
- Yeah. Yeah, yeah.
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- Did she get help?
- Um,
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she wants it,
and then she rejects it.
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- That's--you need help.
- Yeah.
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That was, like,
my only, like, worry
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about, like,
how my wife would react
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to, like, my mom's situation.
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I think the more
we find out about each other,
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the--the more comfortable
it seems.
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And we talked about Mom,
and she wants to help,
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so I couldn't have asked
for a better end
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to the first day of my new life.
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You want to get ready for bed?
- Uh-huh. I do.
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- All right.
You wanna get out of the dress?
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- I do.
- Okay.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ Whoa-oh, yeah ♪
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♪ Whoa-oh ♪
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- All right.
- I want it all.
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- Got everything?
- Brush my teeth.
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Wash my face.
- Yeah.
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You want me to help you
bring that in there?
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You got it?
- I got it.
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- Okay.
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- I really love
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his vulnerability
and his honesty,
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which I think
has been very clear
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that those are things
I value highly.
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And I look forward
to getting to know him more.
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I usually sleep naked.
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Maybe once I'm
comfortable enough with him,
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I'll go back to the nude.
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But for now, it's PJs.
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- ♪ Make me want
to fly to the sky ♪
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- Gotta get all
that bad juju out.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Ooh, it's cold in here.
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That ain't gonna fly.
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[quirky music]
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[water trickling]
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Before he catches.
[thermostat ticking]
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[laughs]
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Put that right to 80.
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- Tonight begins the rest
of my life with Lindsey.
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Is the heat on?
It just got real hot in here.
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Ugh.
- [chuckles]
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- So let the story begin.
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Here we go.
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- It is very toasty in here.
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[laughter]
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- ♪ Write a song for me,
I want to be the one ♪
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- Okay. Thank you.
- You're very welcome.
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- ♪ The one
who makes you feel ♪
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♪ ♪
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- Do you mind helping me
zip down, please?
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- Of course.
- Thank you.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ Make you want
to stay forever ♪
256
00:09:12,876 --> 00:09:16,555
♪ Nothing
I can't get you through ♪
257
00:09:16,714 --> 00:09:19,391
- I wanted to me married
at first sight because
258
00:09:19,550 --> 00:09:21,560
my current dating life
wasn't fulfilling me,
259
00:09:21,644 --> 00:09:24,554
so I decided to get the life
that I always wanted,
260
00:09:24,647 --> 00:09:26,806
which is wife, kids,
and a family.
261
00:09:26,899 --> 00:09:29,234
I'm seeing signs that she
can be the woman that I want,
262
00:09:29,318 --> 00:09:32,571
but I do understand that
we don't know each other,
263
00:09:32,730 --> 00:09:35,907
so I'm trying
not to let the positivity
264
00:09:35,992 --> 00:09:40,820
overshadow the fact that we
still have so much ways to go.
265
00:09:40,904 --> 00:09:45,000
Best-case scenario,
we talk and we click
266
00:09:45,159 --> 00:09:48,661
and it just reiterates
the feeling of--
267
00:09:48,746 --> 00:09:50,839
That we made the right decision.
268
00:09:50,923 --> 00:09:54,175
- Knock, knock.
[laughter]
269
00:09:54,335 --> 00:09:56,002
- Let's move all these away.
270
00:09:56,095 --> 00:09:58,087
What side do you want?
271
00:09:58,180 --> 00:10:00,098
- The middle.
- Okay.
272
00:10:00,257 --> 00:10:03,518
♪ ♪
273
00:10:03,677 --> 00:10:06,021
[both sigh]
- [chuckles]
274
00:10:06,180 --> 00:10:07,606
- When we got to the reception,
275
00:10:07,690 --> 00:10:08,857
your stepfather pulled me aside
and we had a conversation.
276
00:10:09,016 --> 00:10:12,027
It was just like, "Don't
let her boss you around."
277
00:10:12,111 --> 00:10:13,570
- Oh, my God!
278
00:10:15,606 --> 00:10:16,531
- Of course.
279
00:10:20,036 --> 00:10:22,120
[laughter]
280
00:10:22,279 --> 00:10:23,613
- Yeah.
281
00:10:23,706 --> 00:10:24,956
- Of course. Yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
282
00:10:26,617 --> 00:10:27,542
- Of course.
283
00:10:28,628 --> 00:10:30,462
[laughter]
284
00:10:30,546 --> 00:10:32,872
- Do not listen to that man.
[laughter]
285
00:10:32,965 --> 00:10:34,123
- I mean, I'm not gonna
say yes to everything.
286
00:10:34,208 --> 00:10:35,541
- He thinks I'm so bossy.
287
00:10:35,626 --> 00:10:37,719
- Are you?
- I'm not bossy.
288
00:10:37,878 --> 00:10:41,556
I just dated one guy who
didn't want to argue with me.
289
00:10:41,641 --> 00:10:42,641
- Yeah, you won't gonna have
that problem with me.
290
00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:45,477
♪ ♪
291
00:10:45,636 --> 00:10:47,896
- ♪ We got it all
right here ♪
292
00:10:48,055 --> 00:10:50,148
♪ We got the world tonight ♪
293
00:10:50,307 --> 00:10:53,068
♪ ♪
294
00:10:53,227 --> 00:10:55,061
- Will you be mine?
295
00:10:55,154 --> 00:10:56,562
[laughter]
296
00:10:56,647 --> 00:10:57,980
- Should we do this ring?
- Yeah.
297
00:10:58,074 --> 00:10:59,232
Put a rock on that finger.
298
00:10:59,316 --> 00:11:00,325
- Oh, my God.
It matches my wedding dress.
299
00:11:00,484 --> 00:11:02,568
- Yes.
- Perfect.
300
00:11:02,653 --> 00:11:03,986
I love it.
Thank you.
301
00:11:04,071 --> 00:11:06,081
- ♪ We got it all
right here ♪
302
00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:09,742
♪ We got the world tonight ♪
303
00:11:09,827 --> 00:11:11,077
- She said yes.
- It's so cute.
304
00:11:11,161 --> 00:11:12,837
Whoo!
[laughter]
305
00:11:12,996 --> 00:11:18,835
♪ ♪
306
00:11:18,928 --> 00:11:24,757
It's really weird that
I am taking my makeup off
307
00:11:24,850 --> 00:11:30,346
and going to sleep with
my husband that I just met,
308
00:11:30,431 --> 00:11:33,608
who's never seen me
without makeup.
309
00:11:33,767 --> 00:11:39,105
Um, I'm hoping that my husband
is going to accept me as I am
310
00:11:39,189 --> 00:11:41,616
since he already married me.
311
00:11:41,775 --> 00:11:44,610
[pensive music]
312
00:11:44,695 --> 00:11:47,280
♪ ♪
313
00:11:47,373 --> 00:11:47,706
- Come on in.
314
00:11:47,865 --> 00:11:50,959
Whoa.
315
00:11:51,043 --> 00:11:52,452
I'm very attracted to my wife.
316
00:11:52,545 --> 00:11:54,045
I might have overheard
317
00:11:54,204 --> 00:11:55,538
the fact that you may want
to cuddle tonight,
318
00:11:55,631 --> 00:11:59,634
which, if you're open--
- I mean, only if you want to.
319
00:11:59,793 --> 00:12:02,220
- You know what?
Get over here.
320
00:12:02,304 --> 00:12:03,972
I'm not too nervous
about intimacy
321
00:12:04,056 --> 00:12:05,381
and how things are gonna go.
322
00:12:05,474 --> 00:12:07,642
In my wildest dreams,
we would have sex tonight.
323
00:12:07,801 --> 00:12:09,811
And it's crossed my mind,
324
00:12:09,895 --> 00:12:13,055
but, you know, by all means,
no pressure for that.
325
00:12:13,149 --> 00:12:14,640
- ♪ You got me, baby ♪
326
00:12:14,734 --> 00:12:17,727
♪ Baby, just trust
I'm the only me ♪
327
00:12:17,820 --> 00:12:19,729
♪ And I'm all you need ♪
328
00:12:19,813 --> 00:12:26,703
♪ ♪
329
00:12:28,655 --> 00:12:31,574
[tense music]
330
00:12:31,658 --> 00:12:33,409
♪ ♪
331
00:12:33,494 --> 00:12:34,994
- I don't know what's going on.
332
00:12:35,078 --> 00:12:38,331
She doesn't want to sleep in
the same room as me tonight.
333
00:12:38,415 --> 00:12:40,249
This is as out of left field
as it gets.
334
00:12:40,334 --> 00:12:44,670
♪ ♪
335
00:12:44,755 --> 00:12:46,264
She said that there's some
things that didn't sit right
336
00:12:46,423 --> 00:12:47,432
with her.
337
00:12:47,591 --> 00:12:49,768
♪ ♪
338
00:12:49,852 --> 00:12:51,436
I said, "What?
Did I do anything?"
339
00:12:51,595 --> 00:12:52,937
And she said,
"Let's not talk about it."
340
00:12:53,096 --> 00:12:56,098
♪ ♪
341
00:12:56,183 --> 00:12:58,184
I have no idea.
342
00:12:58,277 --> 00:13:00,186
I had a really good day today.
I have no idea.
343
00:13:00,270 --> 00:13:07,118
♪ ♪
344
00:13:12,950 --> 00:13:15,451
Do you want to talk off-camera?
- [speaking indistinctly]
345
00:13:15,544 --> 00:13:18,287
Oh, not tonight.
It's--it's so late.
346
00:13:18,380 --> 00:13:21,707
I feel uncomfortable
at this moment
347
00:13:21,801 --> 00:13:26,546
just from some things
that were, like, said to me.
348
00:13:26,639 --> 00:13:28,047
- Said to you by who?
349
00:13:28,131 --> 00:13:29,966
- I just--I really don't want
to get into it right now.
350
00:13:30,050 --> 00:13:34,136
Just, like, wait
until we can sleep on it
351
00:13:34,230 --> 00:13:36,305
and, like, get clear heads
352
00:13:36,390 --> 00:13:38,566
and, like,
have a little time ourselves.
353
00:13:38,725 --> 00:13:40,568
- Okay.
- Okay.
354
00:13:40,727 --> 00:13:43,563
[dramatic music]
355
00:13:43,647 --> 00:13:46,732
♪ ♪
356
00:13:46,817 --> 00:13:49,402
- I wanted to get married
at first sight
357
00:13:49,486 --> 00:13:51,070
to find my person,
358
00:13:51,154 --> 00:13:52,405
to find the person
that I'm gonna be with
359
00:13:52,489 --> 00:13:54,323
for the rest of my life.
360
00:13:54,416 --> 00:13:56,576
This is not
how I expected it to go.
361
00:13:56,660 --> 00:13:58,169
There's a reason
that the experts said
362
00:13:58,328 --> 00:14:02,090
that we'd be a good fit,
so I trust the process.
363
00:14:02,249 --> 00:14:05,167
I want to make this work.
364
00:14:05,252 --> 00:14:06,752
♪ ♪
365
00:14:06,837 --> 00:14:10,014
- ♪ Better that I let you
hurt me ♪
366
00:14:10,173 --> 00:14:12,517
♪ ♪
367
00:14:12,601 --> 00:14:15,603
- I have no idea
what I did or said.
368
00:14:15,688 --> 00:14:19,691
- ♪ Far from your potential
anyways ♪
369
00:14:19,850 --> 00:14:21,693
♪ ♪
370
00:14:21,852 --> 00:14:24,362
- Maybe my friend
said something.
371
00:14:24,446 --> 00:14:26,856
- ♪ You were trying
to hurt me ♪
372
00:14:26,940 --> 00:14:28,616
♪ ♪
373
00:14:28,775 --> 00:14:30,359
- I don't know.
374
00:14:30,444 --> 00:14:32,945
- ♪ You can
believe your lies ♪
375
00:14:33,038 --> 00:14:36,207
♪ But clearly
you had no value in me ♪
376
00:14:36,292 --> 00:14:38,626
- I wish I was with somebody
377
00:14:38,711 --> 00:14:40,202
who wanted to spend
the wedding night with me,
378
00:14:40,296 --> 00:14:42,872
getting to know each other.
379
00:14:42,956 --> 00:14:44,465
This is not the way
that I expected this to go.
380
00:14:44,550 --> 00:14:47,468
This whole day has been about
making her feel comfortable,
381
00:14:47,628 --> 00:14:49,721
so I have no idea.
382
00:14:49,805 --> 00:14:53,391
I don't know how
the next 24 hours is gonna go.
383
00:14:53,550 --> 00:14:55,468
I don't have any idea
what's going on right now.
384
00:14:55,552 --> 00:14:57,896
♪ ♪
385
00:14:57,980 --> 00:15:01,223
- ♪ I need to run away ♪
386
00:15:01,308 --> 00:15:02,817
♪ ♪
387
00:15:06,906 --> 00:15:08,489
- ♪ It's the best
feeling ever ♪
388
00:15:08,574 --> 00:15:09,482
♪ To have you in my life ♪
389
00:15:09,566 --> 00:15:11,659
♪ It's the best feeling ever ♪
390
00:15:11,744 --> 00:15:13,653
♪ To have you by my side ♪
391
00:15:13,737 --> 00:15:17,490
♪ It's the best feeling ever
to have you in my life ♪
392
00:15:17,574 --> 00:15:21,586
♪ It's the best feeling ever
to have you by my side, yeah ♪
393
00:15:21,745 --> 00:15:26,082
- The first morning,
waking up Mr. and Mrs. MTS.
394
00:15:26,166 --> 00:15:28,176
- Yeah, Mark the Shark.
- Mark the Shark.
395
00:15:28,335 --> 00:15:30,586
- Here I am.
[laughter]
396
00:15:30,671 --> 00:15:33,255
- It was nice to wake up,
like, holding each other
397
00:15:33,340 --> 00:15:37,593
and it felt like we've been
doing this for weeks and weeks.
398
00:15:37,686 --> 00:15:38,678
- Good morning.
- Good morning.
399
00:15:38,762 --> 00:15:41,764
- We woke up yesterday single,
400
00:15:41,857 --> 00:15:46,519
and now we're married.
- We are married.
401
00:15:46,603 --> 00:15:49,280
- Less than 24 hours ago,
402
00:15:49,365 --> 00:15:51,616
our couples were
complete strangers.
403
00:15:51,700 --> 00:15:54,443
- Now they are legally married.
404
00:15:54,536 --> 00:15:56,112
And this is their first morning
405
00:15:56,205 --> 00:15:59,290
waking up as husbands and wives.
406
00:15:59,375 --> 00:16:00,708
- It's a good feeling,
waking up to a beautiful woman.
407
00:16:00,867 --> 00:16:04,620
Who wouldn't be excited
waking up to that? [laughs]
408
00:16:04,705 --> 00:16:07,298
We established last night, I
need to work on my cuddle game.
409
00:16:07,383 --> 00:16:08,958
[laughs]
- Yeah.
410
00:16:09,042 --> 00:16:11,210
I'ma give him time
to get it together.
411
00:16:11,303 --> 00:16:14,213
[upbeat music]
412
00:16:14,306 --> 00:16:15,381
- Good morning.
413
00:16:15,465 --> 00:16:18,718
- [chuckles] Morning.
- Good morning.
414
00:16:18,811 --> 00:16:22,146
How'd you sleep?
415
00:16:22,231 --> 00:16:25,558
- Felt like I wanted to sleep
longer, 'cause I'm tired.
416
00:16:25,642 --> 00:16:27,226
- Did I snore last night?
417
00:16:27,310 --> 00:16:29,570
- Honestly, I was so tired,
418
00:16:29,655 --> 00:16:31,230
I didn't hear anything.
- You didn't even hear it.
419
00:16:31,314 --> 00:16:32,732
- You probably did.
420
00:16:32,816 --> 00:16:36,235
Waking up next to my husband
this morning feels great.
421
00:16:36,319 --> 00:16:38,738
We thought we were gonna, like,
stay up all night talking,
422
00:16:38,822 --> 00:16:40,415
but we were just super tired
from the party
423
00:16:40,499 --> 00:16:42,250
that we just went right to bed.
424
00:16:42,334 --> 00:16:43,409
You want me
to just take the tray,
425
00:16:43,493 --> 00:16:44,994
help you out a bit?
426
00:16:45,087 --> 00:16:46,495
- Nah, I got it. Yeah.
- Okay.
427
00:16:46,580 --> 00:16:49,090
I think we're still
getting comfortable
428
00:16:49,249 --> 00:16:50,416
being around each other,
429
00:16:50,500 --> 00:16:53,094
but we really haven't had
a moment to ourself
430
00:16:53,253 --> 00:16:54,920
to really take in
what just happened.
431
00:16:55,005 --> 00:16:56,589
♪ ♪
432
00:16:56,673 --> 00:16:58,674
- [sighs]
- That's nasty.
433
00:16:58,759 --> 00:17:01,177
- What?
- [chuckles]
434
00:17:01,270 --> 00:17:02,603
This is not
how you drink your coffee.
435
00:17:02,688 --> 00:17:04,522
- You don't like black coffee?
- No.
436
00:17:04,606 --> 00:17:05,606
- Not at all?
437
00:17:05,691 --> 00:17:08,026
What I like most
about my wife so far is,
438
00:17:08,110 --> 00:17:09,777
she's down to earth,
she's not hard to talk to.
439
00:17:09,862 --> 00:17:11,854
I like that
everything feels natural.
440
00:17:11,938 --> 00:17:13,364
Do you even know
what my last name is?
441
00:17:13,449 --> 00:17:14,449
Or your last name?
442
00:17:14,608 --> 00:17:17,109
- Morency.
- Morency.
443
00:17:17,202 --> 00:17:20,362
Both: Jasmina Morency.
444
00:17:20,456 --> 00:17:21,614
- That's cute.
- Yeah.
445
00:17:21,698 --> 00:17:22,957
- That's real cute.
446
00:17:23,042 --> 00:17:26,377
What if I wanted you
to take my last name, though?
447
00:17:26,536 --> 00:17:27,953
- Huh?
[laughter]
448
00:17:28,038 --> 00:17:30,706
Man, why are you creating
something that's not a problem?
449
00:17:30,799 --> 00:17:31,799
You wanted to take my last name.
450
00:17:31,958 --> 00:17:34,710
- Yeah, I heard you.
- Okay.
451
00:17:34,795 --> 00:17:37,638
♪ ♪
452
00:17:37,723 --> 00:17:38,890
- How'd you sleep last night?
453
00:17:38,974 --> 00:17:40,808
Did it feel like laying
next to a stranger?
454
00:17:40,893 --> 00:17:41,726
- No.
- No?
455
00:17:41,885 --> 00:17:43,302
- Did it feel like that for you?
456
00:17:43,395 --> 00:17:45,146
- No.
It was pretty cozy.
457
00:17:45,305 --> 00:17:47,231
I felt like--
I felt super comfortable
458
00:17:47,390 --> 00:17:50,318
laying next to you
and just holding you.
459
00:17:50,477 --> 00:17:52,153
Waking up with Lindsey,
460
00:17:52,237 --> 00:17:54,647
it was great to just lay
next to her and hold her.
461
00:17:54,740 --> 00:17:56,407
This is something I've wanted
for a while,
462
00:17:56,492 --> 00:17:57,825
just to wake up on a Sunday
463
00:17:57,984 --> 00:17:59,735
and have breakfast with my wife.
464
00:17:59,828 --> 00:18:02,330
This is great.
I could get used to this.
465
00:18:02,414 --> 00:18:04,248
- Mmm.
- Good?
466
00:18:04,333 --> 00:18:05,491
[utensils clatter]
467
00:18:05,575 --> 00:18:07,585
♪ ♪
468
00:18:07,669 --> 00:18:11,506
- So... 37.
- Yeah.
469
00:18:11,590 --> 00:18:13,424
- Why'd you decide
to jump into this?
470
00:18:13,509 --> 00:18:15,510
- I think because I've always
been ready for this.
471
00:18:15,594 --> 00:18:17,678
I've always known what I want,
472
00:18:17,763 --> 00:18:20,098
so it was just a matter of
when was she gonna show up.
473
00:18:20,182 --> 00:18:22,591
And you showed up, so...
[chuckles]
474
00:18:22,676 --> 00:18:23,759
And just finding out
how much we have in common,
475
00:18:23,852 --> 00:18:27,263
it's like, wow, wow, wow, wow.
476
00:18:27,347 --> 00:18:28,940
♪ ♪
477
00:18:29,024 --> 00:18:30,349
How about you?
478
00:18:30,433 --> 00:18:32,527
- I think that I'm a giver,
479
00:18:32,611 --> 00:18:34,695
and I've been
with a lot of takers.
480
00:18:34,855 --> 00:18:35,688
- Yeah.
- Honestly,
481
00:18:35,772 --> 00:18:37,189
loser after loser after loser.
482
00:18:37,274 --> 00:18:41,443
Like... so many jabronis.
483
00:18:41,528 --> 00:18:42,870
♪ ♪
484
00:18:42,955 --> 00:18:44,196
I don't know about everybody
else's husbands and wives.
485
00:18:44,289 --> 00:18:47,533
I really wish them well,
but, like, I don't know.
486
00:18:47,626 --> 00:18:50,119
I feel like I got the prize.
487
00:18:50,212 --> 00:18:52,130
Do you ever drink matcha?
- No.
488
00:18:52,214 --> 00:18:53,372
- Tastes like grass.
You want some?
489
00:18:53,456 --> 00:18:55,040
- It looks like avocado juice.
490
00:18:55,134 --> 00:18:56,384
- I feel really lucky.
491
00:18:56,543 --> 00:18:58,544
I'm not really selling it,
but it tastes like grass.
492
00:18:58,628 --> 00:18:59,628
- Yeah?
- I like it, though.
493
00:18:59,713 --> 00:19:01,139
[chuckles]
494
00:19:01,298 --> 00:19:02,473
[music winds down]
495
00:19:02,558 --> 00:19:05,726
- Yeah, it definitely
tastes like the ground.
496
00:19:05,811 --> 00:19:06,886
You know what?
You enjoy that.
497
00:19:06,979 --> 00:19:08,804
- I think him and I will laugh
498
00:19:08,897 --> 00:19:10,890
for the rest of our lives
together.
499
00:19:10,983 --> 00:19:13,392
I have no doubt that
we're gonna be a success.
500
00:19:13,476 --> 00:19:14,894
[laughs]
501
00:19:14,978 --> 00:19:19,398
♪ ♪
502
00:19:19,482 --> 00:19:22,076
- Good morning.
- Morning.
503
00:19:22,161 --> 00:19:25,663
- How'd you sleep?
- Um, good.
504
00:19:25,822 --> 00:19:28,166
How did you sleep?
- Not that long.
505
00:19:28,325 --> 00:19:30,659
But it was comfortable.
- Yeah.
506
00:19:30,744 --> 00:19:34,413
Today I wake up,
and I am a married woman.
507
00:19:34,497 --> 00:19:36,090
And I now have a husband.
508
00:19:36,175 --> 00:19:38,500
He's really comfortable
to be around,
509
00:19:38,585 --> 00:19:42,755
and his presence
makes me feel at ease.
510
00:19:42,839 --> 00:19:44,432
- At your service.
- [gasps]
511
00:19:44,516 --> 00:19:46,675
Cute!
512
00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:49,428
As strange as it is
to marry a stranger
513
00:19:49,512 --> 00:19:51,522
and go to bed with a stranger,
514
00:19:51,681 --> 00:19:53,441
by the time we woke up,
I mean, I felt,
515
00:19:53,525 --> 00:19:54,525
like, really comfortable
with him,
516
00:19:54,610 --> 00:19:56,611
like we've been together
for a long time.
517
00:19:56,770 --> 00:19:58,270
Were you nervous at all
518
00:19:58,363 --> 00:20:01,774
about, like,
us spending a night together?
519
00:20:01,858 --> 00:20:03,943
- I mean, at different times
over the past month or two.
520
00:20:04,027 --> 00:20:06,612
- You were nervous?
- It's just,
521
00:20:06,696 --> 00:20:08,781
okay, who is this person
gonna be, you know?
522
00:20:08,874 --> 00:20:10,875
How is this gonna go?
523
00:20:11,034 --> 00:20:13,544
Once I did meet you,
I think my nerves--
524
00:20:13,629 --> 00:20:15,037
Whatever was
going on internally,
525
00:20:15,130 --> 00:20:16,372
I kind of just got put at ease
526
00:20:16,465 --> 00:20:18,624
once I did spend
a little time with you.
527
00:20:18,717 --> 00:20:22,711
- Mm-hmm. I'm glad that
we got to cuddle last night.
528
00:20:22,804 --> 00:20:24,305
That was cute.
- Yeah.
529
00:20:24,464 --> 00:20:26,307
I think it was interesting,
530
00:20:26,391 --> 00:20:28,217
considering
we just met that day,
531
00:20:28,301 --> 00:20:30,311
it did feel kind of natural
and comfortable
532
00:20:30,395 --> 00:20:32,647
to be cuddling with you.
- Mm-hmm.
533
00:20:32,806 --> 00:20:34,556
- There's definitely a lot
of chemistry between us.
534
00:20:34,641 --> 00:20:36,558
This is something
that I've always wanted.
535
00:20:36,643 --> 00:20:40,488
♪ ♪
536
00:20:40,647 --> 00:20:42,740
But we didn't have sex.
537
00:20:42,899 --> 00:20:46,160
[music winds down]
538
00:20:46,245 --> 00:20:48,746
Yeah, there was no sex
last night.
539
00:20:48,905 --> 00:20:50,656
I think,
if everything goes well,
540
00:20:50,740 --> 00:20:52,241
it will eventually get
to that point.
541
00:20:52,325 --> 00:20:55,169
♪ ♪
542
00:20:55,328 --> 00:20:58,580
So I heard you got a dog.
- Oh, yeah.
543
00:20:58,665 --> 00:21:00,332
His name is Sushi.
He's a shih tzu.
544
00:21:00,417 --> 00:21:01,834
He's a little bit of a diva.
545
00:21:01,927 --> 00:21:03,836
He sleeps with me in my bed.
546
00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:05,004
- Oh, really?
That spot's kind of taken?
547
00:21:05,097 --> 00:21:09,183
- Yeah, so you guys
may have to duke it out.
548
00:21:09,342 --> 00:21:11,435
- Gotcha.
- You're not afraid of dogs?
549
00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:12,678
You like dogs?
- No, I like dogs.
550
00:21:12,762 --> 00:21:14,096
- Okay, great. Whew!
551
00:21:14,189 --> 00:21:15,681
I was, like, nervous about that.
552
00:21:15,765 --> 00:21:17,349
I'm so excited for them to meet
553
00:21:17,442 --> 00:21:19,443
so that I can get a glimpse
of how he would be
554
00:21:19,602 --> 00:21:23,272
as a dogfather
or maybe a father in general.
555
00:21:23,365 --> 00:21:24,606
[chuckles]
556
00:21:24,691 --> 00:21:27,109
♪ ♪
557
00:21:27,193 --> 00:21:30,446
- How do you feel
now that you're a married man?
558
00:21:30,530 --> 00:21:32,540
You slept with your ring on?
- Yes. Feels good.
559
00:21:32,699 --> 00:21:34,950
I don't even think it can come
off my knuckle if I wanted to.
560
00:21:35,035 --> 00:21:38,203
- Good. Don't take it off.
[laughter]
561
00:21:38,297 --> 00:21:40,131
- That's good, you don't got
stinky morning breath.
562
00:21:40,215 --> 00:21:41,790
[laughter]
563
00:21:41,875 --> 00:21:43,551
I woke up today,
first time with my wife.
564
00:21:43,710 --> 00:21:45,377
It felt amazing.
It felt great.
565
00:21:45,470 --> 00:21:46,470
And her breath didn't stink.
566
00:21:46,555 --> 00:21:47,972
That's what I was worried about.
567
00:21:48,056 --> 00:21:49,140
I was like, yo, I hope
she don't got stinky breath.
568
00:21:49,224 --> 00:21:50,224
That'd turn me off.
569
00:21:50,383 --> 00:21:52,226
She smelled good,
like she did last night.
570
00:21:52,311 --> 00:21:53,477
You still got a smile
on your face
571
00:21:53,636 --> 00:21:55,730
after my struggling of cuddling?
572
00:21:55,889 --> 00:21:57,890
[laughs]
- Yeah, I do.
573
00:21:57,974 --> 00:21:59,900
I still can't believe
I have a husband.
574
00:21:59,985 --> 00:22:01,402
This is definitely surreal.
575
00:22:01,486 --> 00:22:03,312
I feel like
I'm living in a dream.
576
00:22:03,405 --> 00:22:04,980
The only thing is,
he's not a cuddler.
577
00:22:05,065 --> 00:22:06,324
But that's okay.
I am.
578
00:22:06,408 --> 00:22:07,992
But I feel like over time,
579
00:22:08,151 --> 00:22:10,569
that's just something
that we can work on.
580
00:22:10,653 --> 00:22:12,321
Last night, you said, "Oh, like,
581
00:22:12,405 --> 00:22:14,248
I used
to not treat women that good."
582
00:22:14,407 --> 00:22:16,584
Like, what would you
define as, like--
583
00:22:16,668 --> 00:22:17,668
- I guess you could say
a cheater,
584
00:22:17,753 --> 00:22:19,170
but you really
can't say that either
585
00:22:19,329 --> 00:22:21,330
because I never put a title
on anything.
586
00:22:21,414 --> 00:22:23,665
- Okay.
You just had multiple girls.
587
00:22:23,750 --> 00:22:25,426
- Yeah, I guess
you could say it like that.
588
00:22:25,510 --> 00:22:28,420
I mean--
- That's what it is.
589
00:22:28,505 --> 00:22:30,422
- Yeah, I was having fun,
the time of my life.
590
00:22:30,507 --> 00:22:32,091
I was in college.
I was young.
591
00:22:32,175 --> 00:22:33,592
- You were doing your thing.
I hear you.
592
00:22:33,676 --> 00:22:36,345
- Yeah.
You know, so...
593
00:22:36,438 --> 00:22:38,522
So is there any secrets
I should know?
594
00:22:38,607 --> 00:22:40,766
- My friends would describe me
as a party girl.
595
00:22:40,850 --> 00:22:43,519
Like, I'm the fun one, so,
like, I'll drag you out with me
596
00:22:43,603 --> 00:22:45,363
and then I'll be out
till 5:00 in the morning.
597
00:22:45,447 --> 00:22:48,115
- All right, so there's
no, like, meet, go home.
598
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:51,452
- I've had, like--
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
599
00:22:51,536 --> 00:22:53,204
- I've had a [bleep] buddy
before.
600
00:22:53,288 --> 00:22:54,538
- Yeah, of course.
601
00:22:54,623 --> 00:22:57,291
[laughter]
602
00:22:57,450 --> 00:22:58,793
I got to know these things,
you know what I'm saying?
603
00:22:58,877 --> 00:23:00,294
- And if I was, it's too late.
You already married me.
604
00:23:00,379 --> 00:23:02,129
- No, I know,
but it's good to know.
605
00:23:02,288 --> 00:23:03,714
Like, I mean, I have a past,
606
00:23:03,799 --> 00:23:05,541
so I can't judge you
on anything you have done.
607
00:23:05,625 --> 00:23:07,543
- Mm-hmm.
608
00:23:07,627 --> 00:23:08,794
♪ ♪
609
00:23:08,878 --> 00:23:11,463
- ♪ Every time
I think it through ♪
610
00:23:11,556 --> 00:23:13,799
♪ I know there's nothing
that I wouldn't do ♪
611
00:23:13,892 --> 00:23:16,051
- Yesterday was mostly great,
612
00:23:16,144 --> 00:23:18,887
and then it really wasn't.
613
00:23:18,972 --> 00:23:20,481
♪ ♪
614
00:23:20,565 --> 00:23:22,391
- I just, like, don't feel--
615
00:23:22,484 --> 00:23:24,810
Don't feel good
about what's transpired.
616
00:23:24,894 --> 00:23:26,570
Um...
617
00:23:26,729 --> 00:23:28,397
yeah, I'm just
a little bit disappointed.
618
00:23:28,481 --> 00:23:30,324
- She said, "Yeah, sure,
I'll sit down and talk
619
00:23:30,409 --> 00:23:31,650
without cameras."
620
00:23:31,743 --> 00:23:35,913
So we sat down last night
at 2:30 in the morning,
621
00:23:36,072 --> 00:23:40,000
and she told me
that we just didn't vibe.
622
00:23:40,085 --> 00:23:42,995
I feel blindsided.
623
00:23:43,079 --> 00:23:44,088
It's not what I signed up for.
624
00:23:44,247 --> 00:23:46,915
It's not
what I expected to happen.
625
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:48,250
I don't know what--what's
gonna happen at this point.
626
00:23:48,334 --> 00:23:52,588
We're getting ready to talk
over coffee.
627
00:23:52,681 --> 00:23:54,181
But I don't know.
We could be done,
628
00:23:54,266 --> 00:23:58,427
all of 18 hours
after the wedding.
629
00:23:58,511 --> 00:23:59,511
♪ ♪
630
00:23:59,604 --> 00:24:00,438
Hey.
- Hi.
631
00:24:00,522 --> 00:24:01,522
- Good morning.
How are you?
632
00:24:01,606 --> 00:24:02,848
- I'm good. How are you?
- I'm good.
633
00:24:02,941 --> 00:24:04,442
Tired but good.
634
00:24:04,526 --> 00:24:05,943
- Yes, I'm very tired.
635
00:24:13,201 --> 00:24:14,276
- I'm glad
we get a chance to talk.
636
00:24:14,360 --> 00:24:15,953
- Mm-hmm.
637
00:24:16,037 --> 00:24:18,030
- How you feeling?
638
00:24:18,114 --> 00:24:21,292
- Um, I don't feel well.
[chuckles awkwardly]
639
00:24:21,451 --> 00:24:22,793
I didn't sleep much.
640
00:24:22,878 --> 00:24:25,963
Um...
- I'm in the same boat.
641
00:24:26,047 --> 00:24:29,791
I'm worried that
you're checked out completely,
642
00:24:29,876 --> 00:24:31,126
so that's
what I'm feeling right now.
643
00:24:31,211 --> 00:24:33,378
- Okay.
644
00:24:33,472 --> 00:24:34,889
It seems like
645
00:24:35,048 --> 00:24:38,717
you feel like I wasn't in this
for the right reasons maybe.
646
00:24:38,810 --> 00:24:40,394
- Do you think that,
at the end of the day,
647
00:24:40,553 --> 00:24:42,062
we're not that compatible?
648
00:24:42,147 --> 00:24:43,639
- I think
there are certain things
649
00:24:43,732 --> 00:24:45,483
that I feel are important.
650
00:24:45,642 --> 00:24:48,393
I think both physical
appearance and personality
651
00:24:48,487 --> 00:24:50,571
are super important
in relationships.
652
00:24:50,730 --> 00:24:52,814
If I turned the corner
and he had snaggle teeth,
653
00:24:52,908 --> 00:24:55,484
I would have to say,
"This was fun."
654
00:24:55,568 --> 00:24:58,487
I do feel like we're
two very different people.
655
00:24:58,580 --> 00:25:01,740
I think there's a lot of things
that we don't have in common.
656
00:25:01,824 --> 00:25:03,918
I think our hobbies
are extremely different.
657
00:25:04,002 --> 00:25:07,505
I think that the way
we would live our everyday life
658
00:25:07,589 --> 00:25:09,757
is very different.
659
00:25:09,841 --> 00:25:12,593
- If he ever comes off
as condescending,
660
00:25:12,677 --> 00:25:15,095
he's saying, "I can
teach this person something,"
661
00:25:15,180 --> 00:25:17,598
and help you become
a better person.
662
00:25:17,682 --> 00:25:19,600
- Have you, at this point,
663
00:25:19,684 --> 00:25:21,677
decided that
this isn't gonna work?
664
00:25:21,761 --> 00:25:25,097
- I still want us to try
to have a good experience,
665
00:25:25,181 --> 00:25:26,765
no matter, like, what happens,
666
00:25:26,849 --> 00:25:28,275
but just in general,
667
00:25:28,360 --> 00:25:34,106
I'm a person that takes things,
like, at a very slow pace.
668
00:25:34,190 --> 00:25:36,033
- Whatever the pace is that
makes you feel comfortable,
669
00:25:36,117 --> 00:25:38,443
and me, that's the pace
that I want to go at.
670
00:25:38,528 --> 00:25:40,195
How does that make you feel?
671
00:25:40,288 --> 00:25:41,455
Is that something
you still want to do?
672
00:25:41,614 --> 00:25:42,948
[pensive music]
673
00:25:43,041 --> 00:25:44,041
- In my opinion,
674
00:25:44,125 --> 00:25:47,628
we get as far
as we can get through,
675
00:25:47,712 --> 00:25:49,121
no matter what the outcome is,
676
00:25:49,205 --> 00:25:53,133
like, I still want us to try
to have a good experience,
677
00:25:53,218 --> 00:25:57,638
like, just see what happens.
678
00:25:57,797 --> 00:25:59,557
The next eight weeks are
679
00:25:59,716 --> 00:26:03,051
for trying to see
if, like, this would work.
680
00:26:03,136 --> 00:26:05,887
I don't know what hope I have,
honestly.
681
00:26:05,972 --> 00:26:09,525
♪ ♪
682
00:26:13,730 --> 00:26:15,906
- ♪ Kiss me,
kiss me ♪
683
00:26:15,991 --> 00:26:19,159
♪ Send ripples
down my spine ♪
684
00:26:19,319 --> 00:26:20,152
- How you doing?
Good to see you.
685
00:26:20,245 --> 00:26:21,328
- Nice to see you.
- Likewise.
686
00:26:21,487 --> 00:26:22,571
- Thanks for coming.
687
00:26:22,655 --> 00:26:24,156
- We've asked each spouse
688
00:26:24,249 --> 00:26:26,491
to sit down
with their in-laws and friends
689
00:26:26,585 --> 00:26:29,420
to get some insight
on who they just married
690
00:26:29,504 --> 00:26:31,663
before they go
on their honeymoon.
691
00:26:31,756 --> 00:26:35,751
- I'm actually on my way
to go meet with Mike's sisters.
692
00:26:35,835 --> 00:26:37,261
- Sister.
- [chuckles]
693
00:26:37,420 --> 00:26:39,504
I wanted to see
where their head is at,
694
00:26:39,589 --> 00:26:41,506
how they felt about me,
695
00:26:41,591 --> 00:26:43,601
you know,
what their concerns were.
696
00:26:43,685 --> 00:26:45,093
I can't wait to talk to them
697
00:26:45,178 --> 00:26:46,770
and see
just what they really think.
698
00:26:46,929 --> 00:26:49,598
- So how was your night?
- It was so much fun.
699
00:26:49,691 --> 00:26:51,525
- Yeah?
- It was so beautiful.
700
00:26:51,610 --> 00:26:53,602
I can't believe
I was, like, freaking out.
701
00:26:53,695 --> 00:26:55,362
And as soon
as I put my dress on,
702
00:26:55,521 --> 00:26:57,272
I just lost it,
703
00:26:57,357 --> 00:26:58,440
and I was just--
I could not stop crying.
704
00:26:58,524 --> 00:27:01,360
- Your dress was everything.
- Thank you.
705
00:27:01,453 --> 00:27:03,787
I thought everybody in my
family did not like my dress.
706
00:27:03,872 --> 00:27:04,955
- That's crazy. It was so lit.
- That's funny.
707
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,199
It was so dope.
- They said it was extra.
708
00:27:07,292 --> 00:27:08,533
But, like, I'm extra.
709
00:27:08,627 --> 00:27:10,461
[laughter]
710
00:27:10,545 --> 00:27:12,621
- But anyways, did you guys...
711
00:27:12,714 --> 00:27:14,206
you know--
- Consummate your marriage?
712
00:27:14,299 --> 00:27:17,125
[laughter]
713
00:27:17,210 --> 00:27:18,293
- No, we did not.
714
00:27:18,378 --> 00:27:19,136
- I don't think--
He would never do that.
715
00:27:19,295 --> 00:27:20,888
- I didn't think
he would either.
716
00:27:20,972 --> 00:27:22,214
- No, he's such a gentleman.
- A gentleman.
717
00:27:22,307 --> 00:27:23,474
- He wouldn't have.
- He's such a gentleman.
718
00:27:23,633 --> 00:27:25,726
But we, like,
talked so much this morning
719
00:27:25,885 --> 00:27:27,469
when we were, like, waking up.
720
00:27:27,553 --> 00:27:29,638
And I was like,
oh, this is so nice.
721
00:27:29,731 --> 00:27:32,224
- And he's very,
like, loving like that.
722
00:27:32,308 --> 00:27:33,809
- Yeah.
- So that's why we say,
723
00:27:33,902 --> 00:27:35,894
be nice to him, be nice to him.
724
00:27:35,978 --> 00:27:37,646
Even if he's a little--
I know, even if he gets
725
00:27:37,730 --> 00:27:40,741
a little difficult, like,
just be nice to him, please.
726
00:27:40,825 --> 00:27:41,825
You're patient, so...
727
00:27:41,910 --> 00:27:44,319
- How is he
when he's, like, angry?
728
00:27:44,412 --> 00:27:47,155
- He'll walk off and then
calm down and come back.
729
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:49,408
Michael always, like,
assumes the worst.
730
00:27:49,501 --> 00:27:50,909
He doesn't expect the worst,
but he always assumes it first
731
00:27:51,002 --> 00:27:53,662
so that he doesn't, like,
732
00:27:53,746 --> 00:27:56,581
I don't know, overanticipate
the outcome of something.
733
00:27:56,675 --> 00:27:58,258
So he's always like, "Okay,
it's not gonna go well,"
734
00:27:58,343 --> 00:27:59,167
just so he's not disappointed.
735
00:27:59,260 --> 00:28:02,421
- I do think it's a red flag
736
00:28:02,514 --> 00:28:04,506
that he thinks the worst
of every situation.
737
00:28:04,599 --> 00:28:07,509
I'm worried
it might hold us back
738
00:28:07,593 --> 00:28:09,353
from really getting
to know each other.
739
00:28:09,512 --> 00:28:11,939
My relationships have all
been long-distance.
740
00:28:12,098 --> 00:28:13,774
[dramatic music]
741
00:28:13,858 --> 00:28:15,934
So I've actually
never dated someone
742
00:28:16,027 --> 00:28:18,195
in the same state as me.
743
00:28:18,354 --> 00:28:20,105
♪ ♪
744
00:28:20,198 --> 00:28:24,192
- So what are your hopes for
the two of you moving forward?
745
00:28:24,277 --> 00:28:26,453
- I hope that we continue
to be honest with each other
746
00:28:26,538 --> 00:28:28,947
and, like, wake up every day
747
00:28:29,031 --> 00:28:31,208
willing to work
for the marriage.
748
00:28:31,367 --> 00:28:32,367
I really just hope
for longevity.
749
00:28:32,460 --> 00:28:34,369
Like, I want to be
with, you know, him
750
00:28:34,454 --> 00:28:35,537
for the rest of my life
751
00:28:35,621 --> 00:28:37,631
and, like, work, you know,
for the marriage
752
00:28:37,716 --> 00:28:41,051
and have kids, like, you know.
753
00:28:41,210 --> 00:28:42,794
- Kids.
754
00:28:42,887 --> 00:28:44,129
- I really want this to work.
755
00:28:44,213 --> 00:28:47,224
- We're happy to know
that you're all in, girl.
756
00:28:47,383 --> 00:28:48,550
- And we love you already.
- We love you already.
757
00:28:48,643 --> 00:28:49,560
- Stop it.
I love you guys too.
758
00:28:49,644 --> 00:28:50,644
- And you guys
are gonna make it.
759
00:28:50,803 --> 00:28:53,472
[hopeful music]
760
00:28:53,565 --> 00:28:54,890
- How you doing?
761
00:28:54,974 --> 00:28:56,233
- Feeling good.
- Yeah?
762
00:28:56,392 --> 00:28:58,485
- Feeling good, it's my first
day as a married man.
763
00:28:58,644 --> 00:28:59,737
- Ooh, I like it.
764
00:28:59,896 --> 00:29:01,480
- So what do you guys think
of last night?
765
00:29:01,564 --> 00:29:03,231
What are your--
What are your thoughts?
766
00:29:03,316 --> 00:29:05,159
- I can speak for myself.
767
00:29:05,243 --> 00:29:09,246
I am feeling slightly
more comfortable in the process
768
00:29:09,405 --> 00:29:11,582
than I was
when she told me she was
769
00:29:11,666 --> 00:29:13,158
getting married in two weeks.
- Okay.
770
00:29:13,242 --> 00:29:15,586
- But I'm always
gonna be cautious.
771
00:29:15,745 --> 00:29:18,922
Jasmina has seen an example
of a marriage
772
00:29:19,081 --> 00:29:21,500
that is successful
and one that has failed.
773
00:29:21,593 --> 00:29:25,921
She was young when she,
you know, experienced divorce.
774
00:29:26,014 --> 00:29:28,507
What examples do you have
for marriage?
775
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:29,349
- It's a great question.
776
00:29:29,509 --> 00:29:31,602
So I don't have any examples
777
00:29:31,686 --> 00:29:33,270
of, like, a successful marriage.
778
00:29:33,429 --> 00:29:35,773
My mother and my father
were never together,
779
00:29:35,857 --> 00:29:37,024
so I've never even had, like,
780
00:29:37,108 --> 00:29:40,360
a great male role model
in my life
781
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:41,520
outside of, like, my brother.
782
00:29:41,613 --> 00:29:43,855
But I have five sisters.
783
00:29:43,940 --> 00:29:45,783
I was raised by my mom.
784
00:29:45,942 --> 00:29:47,618
I was raised with
my grandmother and my aunts.
785
00:29:47,777 --> 00:29:49,361
They all taught me
how to be a protector,
786
00:29:49,454 --> 00:29:50,779
how to care for a woman--
787
00:29:50,872 --> 00:29:52,781
Not specifically
how to be a husband,
788
00:29:52,865 --> 00:29:55,116
but I think all the same rules
and tools still apply.
789
00:29:55,210 --> 00:29:58,620
- Wow, that's concerning,
and it's--
790
00:29:58,713 --> 00:30:00,705
- [laughs]
- No, I'm--
791
00:30:00,790 --> 00:30:02,883
- Yeah, I understand that.
- It's concerning, and it's--
792
00:30:03,042 --> 00:30:06,628
It's exciting because
you have an image in your mind
793
00:30:06,712 --> 00:30:08,055
of what a good marriage
looks like.
794
00:30:08,139 --> 00:30:09,640
- Right.
795
00:30:09,799 --> 00:30:11,141
- But not seeing it in motion...
796
00:30:11,300 --> 00:30:12,309
- Yeah.
797
00:30:12,393 --> 00:30:14,645
- Sometimes you get lost
in expectations
798
00:30:14,729 --> 00:30:15,896
as to what a wife is
or what a marriage should be.
799
00:30:15,980 --> 00:30:18,557
- Right.
800
00:30:18,650 --> 00:30:21,226
You have any other concerns
with her marrying a stranger?
801
00:30:21,310 --> 00:30:23,070
- To be honest,
it's always been her safety.
802
00:30:23,229 --> 00:30:24,813
[tense music]
803
00:30:24,897 --> 00:30:26,990
My mother-in-law is terrified.
804
00:30:27,075 --> 00:30:28,400
I can just see it in her face.
805
00:30:28,484 --> 00:30:30,235
I can see it in her eyes,
which I understand.
806
00:30:30,319 --> 00:30:33,238
She's handing her daughter off
to a complete stranger.
807
00:30:33,322 --> 00:30:34,998
I know it's gonna
take some time,
808
00:30:35,157 --> 00:30:37,242
but I wanna prove to her
that I am a good guy.
809
00:30:37,326 --> 00:30:39,837
- I don't know
anything about you
810
00:30:39,996 --> 00:30:42,414
other than what
we're seeing, and--
811
00:30:42,498 --> 00:30:44,508
And I don't wanna be rude,
but it's superficial.
812
00:30:44,667 --> 00:30:48,503
♪ ♪
813
00:30:48,588 --> 00:30:51,923
[mellow music]
814
00:30:52,016 --> 00:30:53,425
- Did you guys have fun?
815
00:30:53,509 --> 00:30:55,427
- We had a lot of fun.
- Yep, lot of fun.
816
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:58,939
- Yeah? My parents just, like,
loved you guys so much.
817
00:30:59,098 --> 00:31:01,024
- Well, that's good to hear.
- Yeah.
818
00:31:01,109 --> 00:31:02,851
There's a lot of nerves attached
819
00:31:02,935 --> 00:31:04,853
to this meeting
with Steve's parents.
820
00:31:04,937 --> 00:31:07,022
They'll probably have
a lot of questions for me.
821
00:31:07,106 --> 00:31:08,857
I just hope it goes well.
822
00:31:08,941 --> 00:31:10,617
I know how much his parents
mean to him,
823
00:31:10,776 --> 00:31:14,454
so it's important that they
accept and embrace me as well.
824
00:31:14,614 --> 00:31:16,373
- It's an unusual situation,
825
00:31:16,532 --> 00:31:17,708
so we have some questions
to ask.
826
00:31:17,867 --> 00:31:19,960
- Yeah.
No, I think this one's mine.
827
00:31:20,119 --> 00:31:22,621
- I noticed the things that
you wore during the wedding.
828
00:31:22,714 --> 00:31:23,705
[cheers and applause]
829
00:31:23,789 --> 00:31:24,789
- Ah!
- Wow!
830
00:31:24,883 --> 00:31:26,207
- [laughs]
831
00:31:26,301 --> 00:31:29,553
- I liked that.
And Steven likes that.
832
00:31:29,712 --> 00:31:31,630
- When I asked him
to wear the pha biang,
833
00:31:31,714 --> 00:31:33,390
which is, like, the sash
that I had on him,
834
00:31:33,549 --> 00:31:34,466
like, he was so excited
about it, and I'm like,
835
00:31:34,550 --> 00:31:35,809
oh, my gosh, like,
that just, like,
836
00:31:35,968 --> 00:31:39,137
made my heart melt because
it just meant a lot to me.
837
00:31:39,230 --> 00:31:40,814
[sentimental music]
838
00:31:40,973 --> 00:31:42,733
He just embraced it right away.
839
00:31:42,817 --> 00:31:44,484
- I'm so glad.
840
00:31:44,569 --> 00:31:47,487
- He just seems--yeah,
just really perfect so far.
841
00:31:47,647 --> 00:31:48,647
- And I get the feeling that
842
00:31:48,731 --> 00:31:50,398
he feels the same way
about you too.
843
00:31:50,491 --> 00:31:52,326
- You do?
- Yeah, the look on his face.
844
00:31:52,485 --> 00:31:54,411
- [laughs] He's hard to read.
845
00:31:54,570 --> 00:31:55,829
- He's hard to read.
846
00:31:55,988 --> 00:31:57,581
- I think he's happy.
I don't know.
847
00:31:57,740 --> 00:31:59,499
- But you know what?
You just have to ask him.
848
00:31:59,659 --> 00:32:01,242
Ask him anything.
He'll just tell you.
849
00:32:01,327 --> 00:32:04,162
- Yeah, he's wonderful.
850
00:32:04,246 --> 00:32:06,840
♪ ♪
851
00:32:06,925 --> 00:32:09,259
- So I was thinking that when
you get into the situation,
852
00:32:09,344 --> 00:32:12,087
you obviously want the other
person to have a job.
853
00:32:12,171 --> 00:32:15,423
[quirky music]
854
00:32:15,508 --> 00:32:16,925
- Um...
855
00:32:17,018 --> 00:32:19,269
- Steven's--
He's like a vagabond.
856
00:32:19,428 --> 00:32:20,512
- Yeah?
857
00:32:20,596 --> 00:32:21,104
- He really just wants
to travel.
858
00:32:21,263 --> 00:32:23,181
♪ ♪
859
00:32:23,274 --> 00:32:26,184
What do you think?
860
00:32:26,268 --> 00:32:28,436
- It's definitely something
that is a little concerning,
861
00:32:28,521 --> 00:32:31,782
so I'm hoping that, you know,
he'll have some sort of plan.
862
00:32:31,941 --> 00:32:33,942
But that's something
we haven't discussed yet,
863
00:32:34,035 --> 00:32:36,945
but I'm sure we'll be
on the same page.
864
00:32:37,038 --> 00:32:39,206
- My main concern is, you know,
865
00:32:39,365 --> 00:32:41,366
what if it doesn't work out?
866
00:32:41,459 --> 00:32:45,462
- I would be devastated
if it didn't work out.
867
00:32:45,621 --> 00:32:46,538
We're just, like,
in such a good place right now.
868
00:32:46,631 --> 00:32:49,040
It's just hard for me
to imagine.
869
00:32:49,125 --> 00:32:52,552
♪ ♪
870
00:32:52,712 --> 00:32:54,212
- Hi.
- Hello.
871
00:32:54,296 --> 00:32:55,714
- I'm Sriracha.
- You look great, Sriracha.
872
00:32:55,807 --> 00:32:57,140
- Oh, thank you.
873
00:32:57,225 --> 00:32:59,226
I'm Noi's other sister.
[laughs]
874
00:32:59,310 --> 00:33:01,720
I'm actually Noi's
younger brother, Michael.
875
00:33:01,804 --> 00:33:04,222
I got dressed up today
to meet Steve
876
00:33:04,306 --> 00:33:06,566
'cause I kinda wanted to see
and gauge his reaction.
877
00:33:06,726 --> 00:33:07,734
This is Sriracha.
878
00:33:07,819 --> 00:33:10,979
Sriracha is my other half-ish.
879
00:33:11,072 --> 00:33:12,823
Same person, whatever, but yeah.
880
00:33:12,982 --> 00:33:14,232
- Your alter ego.
- But I go by Sriracha.
881
00:33:14,316 --> 00:33:15,984
Not my alter ego, though,
'cause, like, this is me.
882
00:33:16,068 --> 00:33:17,569
- Okay. [laughs]
- Hello. Whatever. Yeah.
883
00:33:17,653 --> 00:33:19,246
- Where did the same Sriracha
come from?
884
00:33:19,405 --> 00:33:20,822
- She's spicy.
- She's spicy.
885
00:33:20,915 --> 00:33:22,332
- [laughs] That's a key factor.
- Yes.
886
00:33:22,417 --> 00:33:24,084
- I'm excited
and a little nervous
887
00:33:24,243 --> 00:33:26,169
to meet with Noi's family.
888
00:33:26,328 --> 00:33:28,922
Noi's brother is gonna
challenge me a little bit.
889
00:33:29,081 --> 00:33:30,924
- So what's gonna happen
tonight?
890
00:33:31,009 --> 00:33:32,917
- Tonight?
- Yeah.
891
00:33:33,002 --> 00:33:33,844
- We just met, man.
892
00:33:33,928 --> 00:33:35,253
I don't expect anything tonight.
893
00:33:35,337 --> 00:33:39,007
And I think we're just gonna
have some conversations.
894
00:33:39,091 --> 00:33:41,509
Hopefully when he is no longer
concerned about who I am,
895
00:33:41,602 --> 00:33:43,520
he'll open up to me
a little bit more.
896
00:33:43,604 --> 00:33:44,688
- So question.
897
00:33:44,847 --> 00:33:47,515
Why did you travel?
Did you find yourself?
898
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:49,851
Did you eat, love, pray?
That [bleep]?
899
00:33:49,944 --> 00:33:51,186
- It wasn't about
finding myself.
900
00:33:51,270 --> 00:33:52,779
It was about reconnecting
with myself
901
00:33:52,864 --> 00:33:55,115
so that I can be refreshed
for whatever I do next.
902
00:33:55,274 --> 00:33:57,859
- I heard that you are doing
mostly freelance right now.
903
00:33:57,943 --> 00:34:00,287
So are you considering
something more stable?
904
00:34:00,446 --> 00:34:02,614
- That is another conversation.
905
00:34:02,698 --> 00:34:05,042
I think right now with how
crazy everything is for us...
906
00:34:05,201 --> 00:34:06,376
- Yeah.
907
00:34:06,461 --> 00:34:08,953
- Doing freelance work
is a lot better for me.
908
00:34:09,038 --> 00:34:10,297
- How soon are you thinking
about kids?
909
00:34:10,381 --> 00:34:13,291
- Um--
- I mean, you're 38.
910
00:34:13,384 --> 00:34:15,052
- I'm 38, and that's
a big factor for me, you know?
911
00:34:15,211 --> 00:34:16,961
- Yeah.
912
00:34:17,055 --> 00:34:18,388
- You know, I'm not--it's not
something I wanna rush.
913
00:34:18,473 --> 00:34:22,383
- What are your plans
to be financially responsible
914
00:34:22,468 --> 00:34:24,302
for your future children?
915
00:34:24,386 --> 00:34:25,645
- You know, different people
have different expectations
916
00:34:25,805 --> 00:34:27,064
for what they want out of life.
917
00:34:27,223 --> 00:34:28,815
♪ ♪
918
00:34:28,974 --> 00:34:30,067
- What do you want out of life?
919
00:34:30,226 --> 00:34:32,227
♪ ♪
920
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:34,821
- I want grandkid.
- Wants a baby.
921
00:34:34,980 --> 00:34:36,481
- If you gonna have a baby,
922
00:34:36,574 --> 00:34:38,149
you have to have a job first.
923
00:34:38,234 --> 00:34:45,165
♪ ♪
924
00:34:47,159 --> 00:34:48,502
- So how did last night go?
925
00:34:48,661 --> 00:34:49,828
- It went well.
- Yeah?
926
00:34:49,921 --> 00:34:51,171
- Time got away from us.
927
00:34:51,330 --> 00:34:52,997
He's like, "You're not gonna
like what time it is."
928
00:34:53,091 --> 00:34:54,007
He's like, "3:45."
929
00:34:54,092 --> 00:34:55,592
I'm like,
"No, I do not like that."
930
00:34:55,676 --> 00:34:56,918
[laughter]
931
00:34:57,002 --> 00:34:59,012
Mark is really selfless
in the way he cares
932
00:34:59,171 --> 00:35:01,005
for his friends and family,
933
00:35:01,099 --> 00:35:03,850
so this'll be a great
opportunity for me--
934
00:35:04,009 --> 00:35:05,435
Finding out how I can show him
935
00:35:05,594 --> 00:35:07,512
that same type of care
and appreciation,
936
00:35:07,605 --> 00:35:11,024
like, what Mark needs that Mark
doesn't know he needs.
937
00:35:11,109 --> 00:35:12,934
He was telling me
the stuff he eats,
938
00:35:13,027 --> 00:35:15,270
and I was like,
"Dude, preservatives."
939
00:35:15,354 --> 00:35:17,188
- We're so glad you're here.
940
00:35:17,281 --> 00:35:18,690
- I was like, you're eating...
- And you're married to him.
941
00:35:18,774 --> 00:35:20,700
- He packed a suitcase
of Goldfish, guys.
942
00:35:20,860 --> 00:35:22,536
- I was telling him last night,
943
00:35:22,620 --> 00:35:24,195
"Mark the Shark, MTS.
944
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:25,956
That chapter might
be closing now."
945
00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:27,365
- No, no.
I'm Mrs. MTS.
946
00:35:27,449 --> 00:35:28,950
[laughter]
I already took it on.
947
00:35:29,043 --> 00:35:30,710
- You can take the name,
but I mean, like,
948
00:35:30,795 --> 00:35:31,870
you know, open up.
949
00:35:31,963 --> 00:35:33,872
- You'll have to just get him
950
00:35:33,956 --> 00:35:35,715
to break his guard down
and just have some fun.
951
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:37,041
- That one's me.
952
00:35:37,135 --> 00:35:39,386
- One of his best qualities
is definitely, like,
953
00:35:39,470 --> 00:35:41,379
that he does wear his heart
on his sleeve.
954
00:35:41,463 --> 00:35:44,057
He trusts everybody almost,
like, to a fault.
955
00:35:44,216 --> 00:35:47,051
And, like, you know, we were
really hoping that, like,
956
00:35:47,136 --> 00:35:49,980
he'd be paired with somebody
who would look out for him.
957
00:35:50,139 --> 00:35:51,222
- Yeah.
958
00:35:51,315 --> 00:35:53,150
- When you turned the corner
though yesterday
959
00:35:53,234 --> 00:35:55,643
for the ceremony
and you saw him up there,
960
00:35:55,728 --> 00:35:57,228
were you nervous?
961
00:35:57,321 --> 00:35:58,396
- No.
962
00:35:58,489 --> 00:36:00,073
Like, I literally
was calm as a cucumber.
963
00:36:00,232 --> 00:36:01,232
There was a part of me
where I saw him,
964
00:36:01,317 --> 00:36:02,984
I was like, "Okay."
965
00:36:03,077 --> 00:36:06,580
I am excited to finally
be with somebody
966
00:36:06,739 --> 00:36:10,074
who's emotionally available,
emotionally intelligent--
967
00:36:10,159 --> 00:36:11,326
Not the same things.
968
00:36:11,410 --> 00:36:13,003
But I also think he would
absolutely defend me
969
00:36:13,087 --> 00:36:14,421
or stand by me, and...
- Yeah.
970
00:36:14,580 --> 00:36:16,164
- Like, ride or die.
971
00:36:16,257 --> 00:36:18,750
I also think that
he's really intuitive
972
00:36:18,843 --> 00:36:21,178
and really caring.
973
00:36:21,337 --> 00:36:23,096
- Do you think he's gonna
have a hard time,
974
00:36:23,181 --> 00:36:24,756
like, traveling?
975
00:36:24,849 --> 00:36:25,924
- 'Cause it seems like
you've been everywhere,
976
00:36:26,008 --> 00:36:27,100
you've done so many things.
977
00:36:27,259 --> 00:36:29,344
- This morning, he goes,
"Where have you been?"
978
00:36:29,437 --> 00:36:31,512
And I go,
"Oh, hold out your hands."
979
00:36:31,606 --> 00:36:34,024
And I started listing it,
and he's like,
980
00:36:34,183 --> 00:36:34,941
"Is there anywhere
you haven't been?"
981
00:36:35,100 --> 00:36:36,443
I'm like, "Not yet."
982
00:36:36,602 --> 00:36:41,189
- So you think they got
the perfect match for you guys?
983
00:36:41,282 --> 00:36:42,941
- I do, yeah.
I think it'll work out.
984
00:36:43,034 --> 00:36:44,192
- That's awesome.
985
00:36:44,276 --> 00:36:46,620
- Any advice for, like,
the mom situation?
986
00:36:46,704 --> 00:36:48,371
How I could be supportive
for him?
987
00:36:48,530 --> 00:36:50,290
- I mean, his biggest thing
is definitely that--
988
00:36:50,374 --> 00:36:51,616
Just that she's safe.
989
00:36:51,700 --> 00:36:52,784
I don't think he feels like
he needs to, like,
990
00:36:52,877 --> 00:36:54,628
be living with her
and taking care of her.
991
00:36:54,712 --> 00:36:58,039
He wants to just know that
she's safe and that she's okay.
992
00:36:58,132 --> 00:36:59,207
- I was a hospice nurse...
- Yeah.
993
00:36:59,291 --> 00:37:01,051
- For a long time, so, like,
994
00:37:01,135 --> 00:37:04,054
I'm very familiar with
delicate family situations.
995
00:37:04,213 --> 00:37:05,546
- Yeah.
996
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:08,800
You know, I'm really happy
that Lindsey is who she is.
997
00:37:08,884 --> 00:37:11,728
First impressions--
She is totally fun.
998
00:37:11,887 --> 00:37:14,055
Caring.
999
00:37:14,139 --> 00:37:15,390
She seems like
an amazing person.
1000
00:37:15,483 --> 00:37:16,474
I think you're gonna
fit in great.
1001
00:37:16,558 --> 00:37:17,651
You're gonna be part
of the family.
1002
00:37:17,810 --> 00:37:19,069
- You're so sweet.
[laughter]
1003
00:37:19,153 --> 00:37:20,570
He told me you'd be
the hardest on me,
1004
00:37:20,655 --> 00:37:21,396
but you're really a softy.
1005
00:37:21,489 --> 00:37:22,489
- [laughs]
1006
00:37:22,648 --> 00:37:24,574
- She's got this personality
1007
00:37:24,659 --> 00:37:26,484
that could, like,
knock a thousand people over.
1008
00:37:26,568 --> 00:37:27,652
- Yeah.
1009
00:37:27,745 --> 00:37:29,746
- So I think that's exactly
what he needs.
1010
00:37:29,905 --> 00:37:31,823
It's kind of like
the yin and yang relationship.
1011
00:37:31,907 --> 00:37:33,741
They're gonna have
a good, equal balance.
1012
00:37:33,826 --> 00:37:35,576
- I'm easily excitable,
so that makes sense.
1013
00:37:35,670 --> 00:37:39,089
- Lindsey's gonna push
the boundaries for him,
1014
00:37:39,173 --> 00:37:41,249
which might make him
a little uncomfortable
1015
00:37:41,333 --> 00:37:42,917
but in such a good way.
1016
00:37:43,010 --> 00:37:44,585
- Anybody want some cats?
- [laughs]
1017
00:37:44,670 --> 00:37:47,088
- Two cats was pushing it,
not three.
1018
00:37:47,172 --> 00:37:48,756
Not five.
Oh, my God.
1019
00:37:48,849 --> 00:37:50,341
- If that's
your biggest challenge
1020
00:37:50,426 --> 00:37:52,010
is to figure out
what to do with your cats,
1021
00:37:52,103 --> 00:37:53,511
I'd say you're off
to a pretty good start.
1022
00:37:53,595 --> 00:37:54,762
- You're gonna come
to the housewarming
1023
00:37:54,847 --> 00:37:56,264
when we have a housewarming?
- Sure.
1024
00:37:56,357 --> 00:37:57,598
- Take a cat when you leave.
[laughter]
1025
00:37:57,692 --> 00:37:59,943
- Everyone gets a cat.
- That's our free gift.
1026
00:38:00,027 --> 00:38:01,269
Everybody come,
and you get a cat.
1027
00:38:01,353 --> 00:38:02,362
- Yay!
- You get a cat.
1028
00:38:02,521 --> 00:38:05,773
You get a cat!
[laughs]
1029
00:38:05,858 --> 00:38:06,858
- I think it's time, right?
1030
00:38:06,942 --> 00:38:09,777
- Yeah. [laughs]
- Yeah. So we have a--
1031
00:38:09,862 --> 00:38:11,621
A Lindsey survival kit.
1032
00:38:11,780 --> 00:38:12,789
- Oh.
- [laughs]
1033
00:38:12,873 --> 00:38:14,032
[laughter]
1034
00:38:14,116 --> 00:38:16,876
- You need one of those chairs
and a whip.
1035
00:38:17,036 --> 00:38:18,286
- Lindsey survival kit?
1036
00:38:18,370 --> 00:38:21,548
- I'll let you go ahead
and take a peek in there.
1037
00:38:21,632 --> 00:38:23,967
- I appreciate you guys
thinking of me and doing this.
1038
00:38:24,051 --> 00:38:26,052
This is something that you said
that I have to keep with me...
1039
00:38:26,137 --> 00:38:26,961
- Yes.
Both: At all times.
1040
00:38:27,054 --> 00:38:30,140
- Because it's--
For emergencies.
1041
00:38:30,299 --> 00:38:31,799
- And this particular type
is what she loves?
1042
00:38:31,892 --> 00:38:32,892
- And no matter what
she's upset about,
1043
00:38:32,977 --> 00:38:34,060
just say, "You want a snack?"
1044
00:38:34,145 --> 00:38:35,145
- This is great.
1045
00:38:35,304 --> 00:38:37,063
- She'll let you know
when she's angry,
1046
00:38:37,222 --> 00:38:38,648
but try not to get there.
1047
00:38:38,807 --> 00:38:41,735
- This is probably the greatest
thing in such a short time.
1048
00:38:41,894 --> 00:38:44,145
This is definitely something...
1049
00:38:44,229 --> 00:38:45,396
- Yes.
- I totally...
1050
00:38:45,481 --> 00:38:46,397
- No.
1051
00:38:46,482 --> 00:38:48,241
- Yes!
[laughter]
1052
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:49,901
- No!
- [laughs] Yes!
1053
00:38:49,994 --> 00:38:51,402
- She needs to hear that word
more often.
1054
00:38:51,495 --> 00:38:52,662
- This is perfect.
1055
00:38:52,821 --> 00:38:53,738
Thank you. I love this.
- Yeah.
1056
00:38:53,831 --> 00:38:56,249
Well, that's my biggest fear
for you,
1057
00:38:56,408 --> 00:38:59,252
that you're so willing
to do anything and everything
1058
00:38:59,337 --> 00:39:01,004
and treat her like a princess,
1059
00:39:01,163 --> 00:39:03,331
but she also needs someone
to say no.
1060
00:39:03,424 --> 00:39:04,582
- When she goes off
the deep end,
1061
00:39:04,675 --> 00:39:06,092
you just gotta figure out
how to rein her in.
1062
00:39:06,177 --> 00:39:07,344
- Mm-hmm, yeah.
- It really--yeah.
1063
00:39:07,428 --> 00:39:09,512
- Because when she gets off
the deep end...
1064
00:39:09,671 --> 00:39:10,597
- Yeah.
1065
00:39:10,756 --> 00:39:12,766
- You gotta be a lion tamer.
1066
00:39:12,850 --> 00:39:14,092
I wasn't kidding
when I said that.
1067
00:39:14,176 --> 00:39:15,176
- Yeah.
1068
00:39:15,269 --> 00:39:17,011
- Her tongue sometimes
can be vicious.
1069
00:39:17,096 --> 00:39:18,355
[tense music]
1070
00:39:18,514 --> 00:39:22,600
And I told her she needs
to really watch her words.
1071
00:39:22,684 --> 00:39:23,526
Be on her good side.
1072
00:39:23,611 --> 00:39:25,945
- ♪ You're playing with fire ♪
1073
00:39:26,105 --> 00:39:28,865
♪ You're gonna get burned ♪
1074
00:39:32,861 --> 00:39:36,289
- ♪ When I feel your body,
I know, yeah ♪
1075
00:39:36,374 --> 00:39:38,375
♪ Way more than a little ♪
1076
00:39:38,459 --> 00:39:41,127
♪ Baby, you fill me up ♪
1077
00:39:41,286 --> 00:39:43,129
- This morning,
I'm having brunch
1078
00:39:43,214 --> 00:39:45,382
with Alyssa's mom and Taylor.
1079
00:39:45,466 --> 00:39:48,292
I don't know if she's talked
to them about
1080
00:39:48,386 --> 00:39:50,294
everything that
sort of unfolded yesterday
1081
00:39:50,379 --> 00:39:51,221
and into last night.
1082
00:39:51,380 --> 00:39:53,381
I get yesterday was a whirlwind,
1083
00:39:53,474 --> 00:39:55,466
but I wanna get
another perspective
1084
00:39:55,551 --> 00:39:57,301
from the people
that are closest to her
1085
00:39:57,386 --> 00:40:00,888
and whether this truly is
1086
00:40:00,973 --> 00:40:01,806
a "just take it slow,"
1087
00:40:01,899 --> 00:40:04,976
or if this is "she's done,"
1088
00:40:05,060 --> 00:40:07,812
because I'm thinking
Alyssa may be done.
1089
00:40:07,905 --> 00:40:10,490
- How was your night?
1090
00:40:10,574 --> 00:40:13,234
- It was long.
1091
00:40:13,318 --> 00:40:15,653
[sighs]
It got a little interesting.
1092
00:40:15,746 --> 00:40:16,996
- Hmm.
1093
00:40:17,156 --> 00:40:20,408
- Um, she said...
1094
00:40:20,501 --> 00:40:22,919
that she had some concerns
1095
00:40:23,003 --> 00:40:25,505
that she doesn't think
we're compatible.
1096
00:40:25,664 --> 00:40:29,509
[dramatic music]
1097
00:40:29,593 --> 00:40:31,928
Like, she just wants
to be friends.
1098
00:40:32,087 --> 00:40:34,755
♪ ♪
1099
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:36,841
- Which may be
the start of something,
1100
00:40:36,934 --> 00:40:40,094
because I think you're great.
1101
00:40:40,179 --> 00:40:43,022
I think you've got
a wonderful heart,
1102
00:40:43,182 --> 00:40:47,351
and maybe it'll just take time.
1103
00:40:47,445 --> 00:40:49,270
- Yeah.
1104
00:40:49,363 --> 00:40:51,948
- She's always been
very particular with guys,
1105
00:40:52,107 --> 00:40:53,867
and so I think she's being
a little rash.
1106
00:40:53,951 --> 00:40:55,943
And I think the honeymoon's
gonna actually be good
1107
00:40:56,028 --> 00:40:57,695
so you guys can kind of--
1108
00:40:57,788 --> 00:40:59,780
Even if it is just friends
at first, just kind of, like--
1109
00:40:59,865 --> 00:41:00,707
- Yeah.
- But that's
1110
00:41:00,791 --> 00:41:01,875
how relationships start.
1111
00:41:01,959 --> 00:41:03,543
- You guys don't know
each other at all.
1112
00:41:03,627 --> 00:41:05,870
- I hope that's gonna be
a chance
1113
00:41:05,963 --> 00:41:08,798
to connect and see
what a great guy you are.
1114
00:41:08,957 --> 00:41:10,467
♪ ♪
1115
00:41:10,626 --> 00:41:13,628
Alyssa needs
someone like Chris, I think.
1116
00:41:13,712 --> 00:41:16,380
He seems like
such a wonderful person,
1117
00:41:16,465 --> 00:41:19,634
and I think that's
why they were matched,
1118
00:41:19,718 --> 00:41:21,060
because they're
a little different,
1119
00:41:21,220 --> 00:41:24,063
and he could definitely
center her,
1120
00:41:24,223 --> 00:41:26,232
and that's
exactly what she needs,
1121
00:41:26,391 --> 00:41:28,401
so I'm still hopeful.
1122
00:41:28,486 --> 00:41:31,479
I do think there's hope.
1123
00:41:31,572 --> 00:41:34,232
- If she says,
"I'm 1% into this,"
1124
00:41:34,316 --> 00:41:35,158
I'm all in.
1125
00:41:35,317 --> 00:41:36,743
That's--at whatever pace.
- Yeah.
1126
00:41:36,902 --> 00:41:38,328
- But if she says...
- Yeah.
1127
00:41:38,412 --> 00:41:40,905
- Zero, that's different, right?
1128
00:41:40,998 --> 00:41:45,251
- ♪ What's keeping me
from loving you ♪
1129
00:41:45,410 --> 00:41:47,253
♪ Yeah, yeah ♪
1130
00:41:47,412 --> 00:41:50,423
- So you probably have
a ton of questions for us, huh?
1131
00:41:50,508 --> 00:41:52,008
[laughs]
1132
00:41:52,167 --> 00:41:59,182
♪ ♪
1133
00:41:59,925 --> 00:42:02,176
- I don't even know
where you start. [laughs]
1134
00:42:02,269 --> 00:42:04,771
- What made you think
this was your right path?
1135
00:42:04,855 --> 00:42:07,857
- I mean, yeah, I think
it's a really hard decision.
1136
00:42:08,016 --> 00:42:10,443
Things just, like, brought me
to this place,
1137
00:42:10,602 --> 00:42:12,695
and I didn't know anything,
1138
00:42:12,854 --> 00:42:14,772
but I'm like, okay,
the worst that can happen
1139
00:42:14,856 --> 00:42:16,783
is, it's not right.
1140
00:42:16,867 --> 00:42:17,858
So I'm like, you know,
1141
00:42:17,943 --> 00:42:19,443
if that's the worst
that can happen,
1142
00:42:19,528 --> 00:42:22,113
then why wouldn't you have
an opportunity
1143
00:42:22,197 --> 00:42:23,531
to be matched with somebody
1144
00:42:23,615 --> 00:42:25,116
that could potentially be
the right person, you know?
1145
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:26,125
- Right.
1146
00:42:26,210 --> 00:42:27,368
- From what I can see,
1147
00:42:27,452 --> 00:42:28,452
it looks like the match--
1148
00:42:28,537 --> 00:42:30,964
Did a pretty good job
at the match.
1149
00:42:31,048 --> 00:42:32,373
Yeah.
1150
00:42:32,457 --> 00:42:34,801
♪ ♪
1151
00:42:34,885 --> 00:42:37,720
- I do feel like I'm
a very, like, open person.
1152
00:42:37,805 --> 00:42:40,723
I don't think I'm, like,
a very private person.
1153
00:42:40,882 --> 00:42:44,644
But I don't feel comfortable
talking about last night,
1154
00:42:44,803 --> 00:42:46,053
like, with his family.
1155
00:42:46,146 --> 00:42:49,816
Like, it's, like--it's weird,
and I don't like it.
1156
00:42:49,900 --> 00:42:51,818
So what do you guys all like
to do with Chris
1157
00:42:51,977 --> 00:42:53,903
on your free time?
1158
00:42:53,988 --> 00:42:56,397
- Well, we don't get
too, too much time with him,
1159
00:42:56,481 --> 00:42:58,482
'cause he's so busy working
and stuff.
1160
00:42:58,567 --> 00:42:59,900
- Real estate never sleeps.
1161
00:42:59,985 --> 00:43:03,654
Anyone that's immersed
in their work in real estate,
1162
00:43:03,747 --> 00:43:06,324
more often than not,
they're on their phones 24-7,
1163
00:43:06,408 --> 00:43:07,825
and mostly, they're looking
for new properties,
1164
00:43:07,909 --> 00:43:09,586
they're talking to clients.
1165
00:43:09,745 --> 00:43:12,005
You tend to kind of be...
not a back seat--
1166
00:43:12,089 --> 00:43:13,172
You're not secondary.
1167
00:43:13,332 --> 00:43:16,009
It's just, they're so driven
and motivated
1168
00:43:16,168 --> 00:43:18,252
that you kind of need
to grasp that
1169
00:43:18,345 --> 00:43:20,254
and appreciate it
and know it's...
1170
00:43:20,339 --> 00:43:21,756
it's a good quality,
not a bad quality,
1171
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:23,266
which is kind of hard to do
in the beginning.
1172
00:43:23,350 --> 00:43:24,684
- [laughs]
1173
00:43:24,768 --> 00:43:26,344
I mean, Rick told me
1174
00:43:26,428 --> 00:43:27,845
that I would come second
to work.
1175
00:43:27,938 --> 00:43:29,013
[laughs]
1176
00:43:29,097 --> 00:43:31,849
I mean, that's crazy.
1177
00:43:31,942 --> 00:43:34,193
I don't think Chris has, like,
a work-life balance.
1178
00:43:34,353 --> 00:43:35,278
Work isn't life,
1179
00:43:35,362 --> 00:43:39,273
and if you're looking
for a wife,
1180
00:43:39,358 --> 00:43:43,786
which he said he is,
like, that cannot be your life.
1181
00:43:43,945 --> 00:43:50,793
♪ ♪
1182
00:43:53,205 --> 00:43:54,714
- Hi!
- Hey.
1183
00:43:54,798 --> 00:43:56,957
- How are you?
- How are you?
1184
00:43:57,042 --> 00:43:58,542
- You're looking
mighty chipper today.
1185
00:43:58,627 --> 00:43:59,218
- Yeah, yeah.
Great day.
1186
00:43:59,303 --> 00:44:01,212
- How was that night?
1187
00:44:01,305 --> 00:44:02,639
- It was good.
It was good.
1188
00:44:02,723 --> 00:44:04,298
She said I need to work
on my cuddling game, though.
1189
00:44:04,391 --> 00:44:06,309
- Oh, okay.
- It's not strong?
1190
00:44:06,468 --> 00:44:08,061
- No, no.
I'm not used to it yet.
1191
00:44:08,220 --> 00:44:09,395
- Yeah.
- It's been years
1192
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:10,638
since I actually, like,
cuddled with a woman,
1193
00:44:10,722 --> 00:44:11,972
to be real with you, so...
1194
00:44:12,057 --> 00:44:12,982
- So since y'all didn't cuddle,
1195
00:44:13,067 --> 00:44:14,901
I'm assuming
y'all didn't... cuddle?
1196
00:44:14,985 --> 00:44:16,736
- Mm-mm, mm-mm.
1197
00:44:16,820 --> 00:44:18,813
She has nice lips, though.
We had a little make-out.
1198
00:44:18,897 --> 00:44:20,147
It was cool. It was cool.
- Okay, okay.
1199
00:44:20,232 --> 00:44:21,732
Okay.
- I mean, it was cool.
1200
00:44:21,817 --> 00:44:23,576
The vibe is there.
It's not that we didn't--
1201
00:44:23,661 --> 00:44:25,495
I think me and her just trying
to get on a mental--
1202
00:44:25,579 --> 00:44:27,413
I really wanna know her,
know her.
1203
00:44:27,572 --> 00:44:28,656
- How are you feeling today?
1204
00:44:28,740 --> 00:44:30,241
- So far, I feel as though
1205
00:44:30,325 --> 00:44:32,168
I've made the right decision
doing this,
1206
00:44:32,327 --> 00:44:34,245
and I feel as though
he's, like, genuine
1207
00:44:34,338 --> 00:44:36,330
that he really, really wants
to be a husband,
1208
00:44:36,415 --> 00:44:38,749
but he told me, "Yeah,
I used to not, you know,
1209
00:44:38,842 --> 00:44:41,260
treat women that nice,"
when he was, like, dating.
1210
00:44:41,345 --> 00:44:42,095
- Oh.
Well, at least he told you.
1211
00:44:42,254 --> 00:44:44,180
That's good.
- I know.
1212
00:44:44,339 --> 00:44:46,006
- Communication is great.
- It is, it is.
1213
00:44:46,100 --> 00:44:47,091
But do you feel like he's, like,
1214
00:44:47,175 --> 00:44:49,602
really ready
to just be committed
1215
00:44:49,687 --> 00:44:51,011
to one woman?
1216
00:44:51,105 --> 00:44:52,271
- Yeah.
I mean, I think
1217
00:44:52,431 --> 00:44:54,181
he's going into this
very--very open
1218
00:44:54,274 --> 00:44:57,435
and really wanting a wife
and a family.
1219
00:44:57,519 --> 00:44:58,528
- Mm.
- You know?
1220
00:44:58,687 --> 00:45:01,355
So I think this is
a perfect opportunity
1221
00:45:01,448 --> 00:45:03,607
for me to give you
a few little gifts.
1222
00:45:03,701 --> 00:45:05,618
So if you wanna open those...
- Thank you.
1223
00:45:05,703 --> 00:45:07,203
- And I can explain them,
and I'm gonna take
1224
00:45:07,287 --> 00:45:09,864
a few bites to eat,
'cause I gotta go to work.
1225
00:45:09,948 --> 00:45:11,290
- Okay.
1226
00:45:11,450 --> 00:45:16,036
- So I'm turning over my role
as his cheerleader to you,
1227
00:45:16,130 --> 00:45:18,381
and hopefully you'll wear it...
1228
00:45:18,465 --> 00:45:19,632
- I'm gonna wear this
on our honeymoon.
1229
00:45:19,717 --> 00:45:21,467
- And it will mean
something to you.
1230
00:45:21,552 --> 00:45:23,469
[laughs]
- "You make me smile."
1231
00:45:23,554 --> 00:45:25,388
He does make me smile.
1232
00:45:25,547 --> 00:45:27,306
- I was his cheerleader
on the sidelines,
1233
00:45:27,391 --> 00:45:30,301
so I'm gonna give that role
to his wife now.
1234
00:45:30,385 --> 00:45:31,302
- I will take good care of him.
1235
00:45:31,386 --> 00:45:33,646
No worries.
He's in good hands.
1236
00:45:33,731 --> 00:45:35,148
[laughs]
1237
00:45:35,307 --> 00:45:37,141
- This is...
not a typical scenario.
1238
00:45:37,225 --> 00:45:41,645
It's not the kind of method
1239
00:45:41,739 --> 00:45:43,147
that you need at all,
1240
00:45:43,231 --> 00:45:45,658
so there has to be something
1241
00:45:45,817 --> 00:45:47,151
you want out of this process,
right?
1242
00:45:47,244 --> 00:45:49,245
- Absolutely.
Absolutely.
1243
00:45:49,329 --> 00:45:51,822
- It's either you really
believe in the process,
1244
00:45:51,915 --> 00:45:55,168
you believe that somebody
can do a better job
1245
00:45:55,327 --> 00:45:57,411
at finding a match for you...
- Right.
1246
00:45:57,496 --> 00:45:59,497
- Or you have ulterior motives.
1247
00:45:59,581 --> 00:46:00,673
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
No, I, um--
1248
00:46:00,758 --> 00:46:02,425
I'm here for the right reasons.
1249
00:46:02,509 --> 00:46:04,927
And I feel like she's been
around enough [bleep]...
1250
00:46:05,086 --> 00:46:05,920
- Oh, yeah.
1251
00:46:06,004 --> 00:46:07,254
- She'll be able to call it out
1252
00:46:07,347 --> 00:46:08,422
if that is what it is, you know?
1253
00:46:08,507 --> 00:46:10,016
- Yeah.
- I'm not a bad-looking dude.
1254
00:46:10,175 --> 00:46:12,852
I don't struggle
with the women category.
1255
00:46:12,936 --> 00:46:14,595
So I wanna try something new.
1256
00:46:14,688 --> 00:46:15,188
- Trying something new is, like,
1257
00:46:15,272 --> 00:46:17,932
a minor change.
1258
00:46:18,016 --> 00:46:18,941
Right?
- Right, right, right.
1259
00:46:19,100 --> 00:46:21,769
- Getting married
is a final decision.
1260
00:46:21,853 --> 00:46:23,270
When you say "till death
do us part..."
1261
00:46:23,363 --> 00:46:24,522
- Right.
- You know what I'm saying?
1262
00:46:24,615 --> 00:46:25,865
- Get what you're saying,
'cause you're saying
1263
00:46:25,949 --> 00:46:26,783
like, you're not--
You're making it sound like--
1264
00:46:26,867 --> 00:46:27,775
- It's the gravity, right.
1265
00:46:27,868 --> 00:46:28,609
It's about gravity, seriousness.
1266
00:46:28,702 --> 00:46:30,286
- I get what you're saying.
1267
00:46:30,445 --> 00:46:31,788
♪ ♪
1268
00:46:31,947 --> 00:46:35,792
- I really did have an issue
with his [bleep] answers.
1269
00:46:35,876 --> 00:46:38,711
It raises questions
about what his intentions are
1270
00:46:38,796 --> 00:46:41,205
and whether or not he's just
on this for attention.
1271
00:46:41,289 --> 00:46:42,548
That's it.
'Cause he just seems like
1272
00:46:42,633 --> 00:46:44,708
he's doing it
'cause he wants to blow up.
1273
00:46:44,793 --> 00:46:45,718
- There's--you guys
are her protectors.
1274
00:46:45,803 --> 00:46:47,294
Call me out.
You think I'm [bleep],
1275
00:46:47,379 --> 00:46:48,295
call me out, bro.
1276
00:46:48,380 --> 00:46:51,891
♪ ♪
1277
00:46:55,813 --> 00:46:56,804
- ♪ It's time to be strong ♪
1278
00:46:56,888 --> 00:46:58,481
♪ ♪
1279
00:46:58,565 --> 00:47:02,151
♪ It's time to fight
for what you want ♪
1280
00:47:02,236 --> 00:47:05,822
- So I just met
her sisters and her mom.
1281
00:47:05,981 --> 00:47:08,232
I still have a lot
of winning over to do.
1282
00:47:08,325 --> 00:47:10,409
They aren't sold 100%.
1283
00:47:10,569 --> 00:47:12,078
And she met my sisters.
1284
00:47:12,162 --> 00:47:14,163
- And they are sold.
Okay?
1285
00:47:14,322 --> 00:47:15,573
- No, they're not.
- They are sold.
1286
00:47:15,657 --> 00:47:18,325
They was like, "Yeah, sis.
We are all for this."
1287
00:47:18,410 --> 00:47:21,420
- ♪ There's nothing
like living in the moment ♪
1288
00:47:21,505 --> 00:47:25,916
♪ There's nothing
like living in the moment ♪
1289
00:47:26,009 --> 00:47:27,084
- How was your brunch?
1290
00:47:27,168 --> 00:47:29,253
- It was good.
Your friends are so nice.
1291
00:47:29,337 --> 00:47:31,589
They were like,
"He needs a little zhuzhing.
1292
00:47:31,673 --> 00:47:33,599
He, like, wants to explore.
He wants to be adventurous."
1293
00:47:33,758 --> 00:47:35,009
I'm like, "Got it."
1294
00:47:35,102 --> 00:47:36,927
What are the stupid,
concerning things my dad said?
1295
00:47:37,012 --> 00:47:38,521
Because he does love to say
some crazy stuff.
1296
00:47:38,605 --> 00:47:42,024
- Oh, yeah, your dad was like,
"Gotta be able to reel her in."
1297
00:47:42,183 --> 00:47:43,183
♪ ♪
1298
00:47:43,277 --> 00:47:45,027
- Your friends gave me
a survival kit.
1299
00:47:45,186 --> 00:47:47,688
They were like, "Listen,
whenever, you know,
1300
00:47:47,781 --> 00:47:49,615
she gets out of line."
- No, no.
1301
00:47:49,700 --> 00:47:50,950
- You know what?
I like that.
1302
00:47:51,034 --> 00:47:52,192
- I thought that was
the best gift.
1303
00:47:52,286 --> 00:47:54,453
- That's so neutral.
Do I get to use it too?
1304
00:47:54,613 --> 00:47:57,031
- No, no, no!
1305
00:47:57,124 --> 00:47:58,949
- [laughs] It's gonna be great.
1306
00:47:59,042 --> 00:48:01,869
- No.
[laughter]
1307
00:48:01,962 --> 00:48:04,955
- ♪ I know
we're just friends ♪
1308
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:06,457
♪ But I think it's time
to cross that line ♪
1309
00:48:06,550 --> 00:48:08,134
- What's going on?
1310
00:48:08,218 --> 00:48:10,044
Oh, yeah.
- Good to see you.
1311
00:48:10,137 --> 00:48:11,545
- I made it.
- You made it?
1312
00:48:11,630 --> 00:48:12,972
- Came out alive.
1313
00:48:13,056 --> 00:48:14,974
- How was it?
1314
00:48:15,058 --> 00:48:17,885
- It was great, but Sriracha
kind of came at me hard,
1315
00:48:17,969 --> 00:48:19,219
not as hard as she could've.
1316
00:48:19,304 --> 00:48:21,221
- Sriracha keeps it real.
1317
00:48:21,306 --> 00:48:22,815
- What about you?
I mean, I'd imagine
1318
00:48:22,974 --> 00:48:24,475
my family came at you some way.
1319
00:48:24,559 --> 00:48:26,393
I mean, was it
a different approach or...
1320
00:48:26,486 --> 00:48:29,897
- Yeah, so your dad
kind of brought up
1321
00:48:29,981 --> 00:48:31,649
that you're kind of, like,
in between jobs,
1322
00:48:31,742 --> 00:48:33,400
you're not currently working.
1323
00:48:33,485 --> 00:48:39,248
So, like, what is your plan
with, like, work and...
1324
00:48:39,407 --> 00:48:42,168
- Um...
1325
00:48:42,252 --> 00:48:44,078
I think we need to have
some conversations
1326
00:48:44,171 --> 00:48:45,829
about where we're headed,
what we want,
1327
00:48:45,923 --> 00:48:48,582
and where we're gonna be
1328
00:48:48,675 --> 00:48:51,344
before, you know,
making a decision
1329
00:48:51,503 --> 00:48:53,429
about if and where I wanna
commit to a full-time job.
1330
00:48:53,588 --> 00:48:55,598
♪ ♪
1331
00:48:55,757 --> 00:48:57,600
- I'm pretty serious
about having children,
1332
00:48:57,684 --> 00:49:00,511
and I need to have a partner
that's financially stable,
1333
00:49:00,595 --> 00:49:02,680
so I just need to know,
you know,
1334
00:49:02,773 --> 00:49:03,606
how he's gonna show up for me
in that way.
1335
00:49:03,765 --> 00:49:05,441
- We have a lot to talk about.
1336
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:06,525
- Yeah.
1337
00:49:08,269 --> 00:49:11,197
♪ ♪
1338
00:49:11,356 --> 00:49:14,108
- ♪ When we gonna do this ♪
1339
00:49:14,201 --> 00:49:15,609
♪ You like me,
I like you ♪
1340
00:49:15,702 --> 00:49:16,944
♪ When we gonna do this ♪
1341
00:49:17,028 --> 00:49:17,954
♪ ♪
1342
00:49:18,113 --> 00:49:19,872
- I met with Cheryl.
1343
00:49:19,957 --> 00:49:22,282
She gave me the shirts
1344
00:49:22,367 --> 00:49:23,960
and the hat she used to wear
at your football games.
1345
00:49:24,044 --> 00:49:25,628
- That's fire.
1346
00:49:25,712 --> 00:49:27,046
- Did you learn anything helpful
1347
00:49:27,130 --> 00:49:28,706
from meeting with my friends?
1348
00:49:28,790 --> 00:49:32,134
- Um, no, not really helpful.
- [laughs]
1349
00:49:32,219 --> 00:49:34,128
- Kara, she was--
She was welcoming.
1350
00:49:34,221 --> 00:49:35,879
She was welcoming,
and then Jelani
1351
00:49:35,973 --> 00:49:37,047
was questioning like,
1352
00:49:37,132 --> 00:49:38,799
"Are you here
for the right reasons?"
1353
00:49:38,883 --> 00:49:40,134
- Mm-hmm.
1354
00:49:40,218 --> 00:49:41,385
He's kind of like my protector.
1355
00:49:41,478 --> 00:49:42,970
Like, I take his advice.
1356
00:49:43,054 --> 00:49:44,313
His advice really matters to me
1357
00:49:44,398 --> 00:49:46,565
because he's a good judge
of character.
1358
00:49:46,650 --> 00:49:48,642
- I can't say.
I don't think his judge of--
1359
00:49:48,727 --> 00:49:49,977
I don't know.
I don't know him enough.
1360
00:49:50,061 --> 00:49:50,987
I don't think it is, though.
1361
00:49:51,146 --> 00:49:52,980
Everything I say to him,
he questions.
1362
00:49:53,064 --> 00:49:54,740
He was asking me, like,
1363
00:49:54,899 --> 00:49:56,409
"Why are you really here?"
1364
00:49:56,493 --> 00:49:58,152
In his head, he already has
his own image.
1365
00:49:58,245 --> 00:49:59,903
- Mm-hmm.
- I gotta stand my ground.
1366
00:49:59,988 --> 00:50:01,488
I'm like, "Bro, this is it."
1367
00:50:01,573 --> 00:50:03,157
- So it is important that I hear
1368
00:50:03,250 --> 00:50:05,501
my friends' opinions
of my husband.
1369
00:50:05,660 --> 00:50:08,337
If they're seeing a red flag
that I'm not seeing,
1370
00:50:08,422 --> 00:50:10,506
I want to just take it,
put it in my pocket,
1371
00:50:10,665 --> 00:50:12,499
because we just met each other.
1372
00:50:12,584 --> 00:50:15,085
Like, maybe I'm blinded.
I don't know.
1373
00:50:15,170 --> 00:50:17,171
- He has--you know,
he's got his own opinion.
1374
00:50:17,255 --> 00:50:19,181
- Mm-hmm.
- I told you from the beginning
1375
00:50:19,266 --> 00:50:20,516
I don't try to convince
no grown man.
1376
00:50:20,675 --> 00:50:22,935
If you don't rock with me,
that's what it is.
1377
00:50:23,020 --> 00:50:23,352
It's what it is.
1378
00:50:23,511 --> 00:50:27,440
♪ ♪
1379
00:50:27,524 --> 00:50:28,691
- ♪ Good ♪
1380
00:50:28,850 --> 00:50:30,851
♪ Whistle as I'm walking
these days ♪
1381
00:50:30,944 --> 00:50:33,279
♪ Blowing the gray clouds
away ♪
1382
00:50:33,363 --> 00:50:35,865
♪ Nothing but blue skies now ♪
1383
00:50:35,949 --> 00:50:37,033
♪ And this all great ♪
1384
00:50:37,117 --> 00:50:38,868
- Wow, we got
a little gift basket here.
1385
00:50:38,952 --> 00:50:40,536
- Oh!
- What is that?
1386
00:50:40,695 --> 00:50:42,621
- Ooh-la-la.
1387
00:50:42,781 --> 00:50:44,782
- Oh, my gosh!
This is so cute.
1388
00:50:44,875 --> 00:50:47,201
- We've surprised each couple
with gift baskets
1389
00:50:47,285 --> 00:50:49,620
to celebrate their marriage...
1390
00:50:49,704 --> 00:50:51,964
- "Congrats, newlyweds.
We are so happy
1391
00:50:52,049 --> 00:50:53,874
you two have finally met
each other."
1392
00:50:53,958 --> 00:50:56,293
- "The honeymoon is a chance
to discover one another
1393
00:50:56,386 --> 00:50:59,055
without distraction
of your everyday lives."
1394
00:50:59,214 --> 00:51:00,964
- "Take this time to discover
your new spouse.
1395
00:51:01,049 --> 00:51:04,384
Here's to love, marriage,
commitment, and a lot of fun."
1396
00:51:04,469 --> 00:51:06,220
- But, more importantly,
to let them know
1397
00:51:06,313 --> 00:51:08,230
where they'll be spending
their honeymoon.
1398
00:51:08,389 --> 00:51:12,318
- "We are sending you
to San Juan, Puerto Rico."
1399
00:51:12,402 --> 00:51:14,311
[laughs] Whoo!
1400
00:51:14,404 --> 00:51:16,072
- Puerto Rico! Oh!
1401
00:51:16,231 --> 00:51:17,397
Puerto Rico!
1402
00:51:17,482 --> 00:51:18,232
- [laughs] Let's calm down.
1403
00:51:18,325 --> 00:51:19,817
- Too much?
I'm too excited?
1404
00:51:19,910 --> 00:51:21,068
- Puerto Rico!
1405
00:51:21,152 --> 00:51:22,069
You know how to do salsa?
1406
00:51:22,162 --> 00:51:23,496
Bachata?
You know how to do a little?
1407
00:51:23,655 --> 00:51:25,906
- Have you ever been?
- Never.
1408
00:51:25,990 --> 00:51:27,324
- It's wonderful.
- Yeah?
1409
00:51:27,408 --> 00:51:28,659
We're going to Puerto Rico!
1410
00:51:28,752 --> 00:51:30,002
I've never been there.
1411
00:51:30,087 --> 00:51:31,921
And she has, so this is great.
1412
00:51:32,005 --> 00:51:33,589
- It's really one
of my favorite places.
1413
00:51:33,673 --> 00:51:34,581
I've been there...
1414
00:51:34,666 --> 00:51:36,008
- We're gonna get awesome color.
1415
00:51:36,167 --> 00:51:38,585
- Maybe a dozen times.
No, maybe, like, seven times.
1416
00:51:38,678 --> 00:51:41,097
- Do they have burgers
in Puerto Rico?
1417
00:51:41,256 --> 00:51:42,848
- You're not eating
a burger in Puerto Rico.
1418
00:51:43,007 --> 00:51:44,433
Do you like calamari?
- Mm-mm.
1419
00:51:44,592 --> 00:51:47,019
- Oysters?
- No.
1420
00:51:47,104 --> 00:51:48,521
- Wait, what do you eat?
1421
00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:50,764
- Clearly, Goldfish.
1422
00:51:50,849 --> 00:51:52,599
- You'll expand your palate.
1423
00:51:52,684 --> 00:51:54,193
- I think it's gonna be wild
1424
00:51:54,352 --> 00:51:56,854
because I don't speak
the language,
1425
00:51:56,947 --> 00:51:58,105
and Lindsey does.
1426
00:51:58,189 --> 00:51:59,940
She's very adventurous.
1427
00:52:00,024 --> 00:52:01,525
She knows what she's doing.
I have no clue.
1428
00:52:01,609 --> 00:52:03,035
- It gets cold on the plane.
1429
00:52:03,194 --> 00:52:03,694
- So should I go sweatpants?
1430
00:52:03,778 --> 00:52:05,621
- No.
- No.
1431
00:52:05,780 --> 00:52:07,289
- Sweatpants aren't worn
outside of the house, bud.
1432
00:52:07,374 --> 00:52:09,959
- Okay. Oh.
- [laughs]
1433
00:52:10,118 --> 00:52:11,285
- So I'm gonna be honest.
What is this for?
1434
00:52:11,369 --> 00:52:12,452
I have no clue.
- [gasps]
1435
00:52:12,537 --> 00:52:13,420
- What is this?
1436
00:52:14,631 --> 00:52:15,965
- Oh.
- Okay.
1437
00:52:16,049 --> 00:52:18,041
[laughter]
1438
00:52:18,135 --> 00:52:19,626
- We are going to Puerto Rico.
1439
00:52:19,711 --> 00:52:21,211
I'm so excited.
1440
00:52:21,296 --> 00:52:22,721
I've never been to Puerto Rico.
1441
00:52:22,881 --> 00:52:24,131
I've never been out the--
1442
00:52:24,215 --> 00:52:25,391
Well, it's not out the country.
1443
00:52:25,475 --> 00:52:27,143
But you're still in the country.
1444
00:52:27,302 --> 00:52:30,896
Um, I've never been
that far from home, though.
1445
00:52:30,981 --> 00:52:32,273
It should be exciting.
1446
00:52:35,402 --> 00:52:36,643
[laughter]
1447
00:52:36,728 --> 00:52:38,478
- ♪ Arriba ♪
1448
00:52:38,572 --> 00:52:39,572
- Matching hats.
- Oh, my God, cute!
1449
00:52:39,656 --> 00:52:42,399
Oh, my God, this is adorable.
1450
00:52:42,492 --> 00:52:44,401
- Deck of cards, maybe? Yeah.
1451
00:52:44,494 --> 00:52:46,078
- Cute. [laughs]
1452
00:52:46,237 --> 00:52:47,571
- Everything's cute with Noi.
1453
00:52:47,655 --> 00:52:48,998
- Cute!
1454
00:52:49,082 --> 00:52:51,083
- [laughs]
1455
00:52:51,242 --> 00:52:53,002
So this thing is new to me.
1456
00:52:53,161 --> 00:52:55,504
- Oh, that's, like,
a complicated dress for women.
1457
00:52:55,663 --> 00:52:57,423
- I'm not quite sure
how to fold it.
1458
00:52:57,507 --> 00:53:00,417
- This is a bathing suit.
[laughs]
1459
00:53:00,501 --> 00:53:03,012
This is a sarong that goes
around the bathing suit.
1460
00:53:03,096 --> 00:53:04,671
- Okay.
- So you tie it like this.
1461
00:53:04,756 --> 00:53:07,591
- Like that?
- Yeah.
1462
00:53:07,684 --> 00:53:09,268
Cute!
1463
00:53:09,352 --> 00:53:11,353
- [sighs] I hope I brought
enough clothes.
1464
00:53:11,512 --> 00:53:13,272
♪ ♪
1465
00:53:13,356 --> 00:53:15,107
- Ready for the beaches?
- I am.
1466
00:53:15,266 --> 00:53:16,683
I'm ready for the pool.
1467
00:53:16,776 --> 00:53:17,860
I'm ready to have
a couple drinks.
1468
00:53:18,019 --> 00:53:19,353
- Me too.
1469
00:53:19,446 --> 00:53:20,279
- What do you like to wear
when you go to the airport?
1470
00:53:20,438 --> 00:53:22,698
- I'm all sweatpants.
- Okay.
1471
00:53:22,857 --> 00:53:23,607
- Are we gonna go to, like,
a little dance spot?
1472
00:53:23,700 --> 00:53:24,783
- Yeah, we can.
1473
00:53:24,868 --> 00:53:27,203
- Do you know how to do,
um, bachata?
1474
00:53:27,362 --> 00:53:29,121
- No.
- Oh, man.
1475
00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:31,290
Do you wanna see--like, try?
1476
00:53:31,449 --> 00:53:32,541
- [laughs]
- Come, come.
1477
00:53:32,626 --> 00:53:34,201
I'm not that good either.
It's okay.
1478
00:53:34,285 --> 00:53:35,202
- I have two left feet.
1479
00:53:35,295 --> 00:53:36,286
- When we got up--
That's all right.
1480
00:53:36,379 --> 00:53:37,213
You go--and when you got
heels on too.
1481
00:53:37,297 --> 00:53:38,881
- Oh, my God.
- Come close.
1482
00:53:38,965 --> 00:53:40,457
- Okay.
- And all you gonna do
1483
00:53:40,550 --> 00:53:42,801
is literally one, two,
1484
00:53:42,961 --> 00:53:45,054
come take one step.
- Okay.
1485
00:53:45,138 --> 00:53:46,546
- I think our honeymoon's
gonna be sexy.
1486
00:53:46,640 --> 00:53:49,466
I think it's gonna get
real hot, steamy.
1487
00:53:49,550 --> 00:53:50,476
Pop the hip.
1488
00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:51,551
- This hip?
- Yep.
1489
00:53:51,636 --> 00:53:52,469
Pop the other hip.
Boop.
1490
00:53:52,553 --> 00:53:54,313
Boom and then boom.
1491
00:53:54,397 --> 00:53:55,231
- [laughs] Do I think
1492
00:53:55,390 --> 00:53:56,807
we will have sex
on the honeymoon?
1493
00:53:56,891 --> 00:53:59,068
- Mm, mm.
1494
00:53:59,227 --> 00:54:00,319
♪ ♪
1495
00:54:00,403 --> 00:54:01,153
I don't know.
1496
00:54:01,312 --> 00:54:03,405
We're gonna plead the Fifth.
1497
00:54:03,564 --> 00:54:06,650
[laughs]
1498
00:54:06,743 --> 00:54:07,576
- Oh, we have a gift.
1499
00:54:07,735 --> 00:54:09,662
♪ ♪
1500
00:54:09,746 --> 00:54:11,405
[laughs]
1501
00:54:11,498 --> 00:54:12,831
All right.
1502
00:54:12,916 --> 00:54:13,999
This is awesome.
1503
00:54:14,158 --> 00:54:16,576
At brunch, Taylor told me
1504
00:54:16,670 --> 00:54:18,078
that this is
sort of classic Alyssa.
1505
00:54:18,162 --> 00:54:20,589
Just give her time.
I'm perfectly fine with that.
1506
00:54:20,674 --> 00:54:22,508
My plan coming into this process
1507
00:54:22,667 --> 00:54:23,750
is decades-long, right?
1508
00:54:23,843 --> 00:54:26,753
I'm looking
for a lifelong marriage.
1509
00:54:26,838 --> 00:54:27,846
I'm very excited.
1510
00:54:27,931 --> 00:54:29,014
I've always wanted to go
to Puerto Rico.
1511
00:54:29,099 --> 00:54:30,182
- Yeah, I've never been there.
1512
00:54:30,341 --> 00:54:31,433
- One of my best friends
is from Puerto Rico.
1513
00:54:31,592 --> 00:54:32,009
Maybe he'll meet us there.
- Oh, that's cool.
1514
00:54:32,102 --> 00:54:32,768
- So for me,
1515
00:54:32,852 --> 00:54:35,012
on a scale of one to ten,
1516
00:54:35,096 --> 00:54:36,513
if a ten is married for 50 years
1517
00:54:36,606 --> 00:54:38,932
and a one is molasses,
1518
00:54:39,025 --> 00:54:40,776
I'm fine with a one through ten.
1519
00:54:40,860 --> 00:54:44,604
But I'm not convinced
that she's not at a zero.
1520
00:54:44,698 --> 00:54:46,782
I know that we've talked
a little bit about, like,
1521
00:54:46,866 --> 00:54:48,692
what we want to do,
how we wanna move forward,
1522
00:54:48,785 --> 00:54:52,037
right, with this.
1523
00:54:52,196 --> 00:54:55,782
How are you feeling about going
on a trip like this with me
1524
00:54:55,867 --> 00:54:57,960
and with everybody else too?
1525
00:54:58,119 --> 00:55:00,203
- Um...
1526
00:55:00,288 --> 00:55:03,040
I think I'm ready to go
on a trip
1527
00:55:03,124 --> 00:55:05,709
and, like, see
the other couples.
1528
00:55:05,793 --> 00:55:08,295
♪ ♪
1529
00:55:08,379 --> 00:55:10,547
We'll get to spend, you know,
like, hopefully,
1530
00:55:10,631 --> 00:55:12,725
some time with them.
1531
00:55:12,809 --> 00:55:14,384
- You know, I'm open and want
1532
00:55:14,477 --> 00:55:17,721
to just, like, remove
1533
00:55:17,814 --> 00:55:20,724
a lot of stuff around us
1534
00:55:20,817 --> 00:55:23,393
and just hang out.
1535
00:55:23,486 --> 00:55:24,486
That work for you?
1536
00:55:24,645 --> 00:55:26,155
- Sure does.
1537
00:55:26,314 --> 00:55:30,150
♪ ♪
1538
00:55:30,243 --> 00:55:31,651
- It'd be nice
to kind of explore too,
1539
00:55:31,736 --> 00:55:33,078
see what's local, whether it be
1540
00:55:33,163 --> 00:55:34,830
with the shopping--
- I'm not a big explorer
1541
00:55:34,989 --> 00:55:38,158
on vacation.
1542
00:55:38,251 --> 00:55:40,160
- We could go, like,
shopping downtown.
1543
00:55:40,253 --> 00:55:41,420
- Uh...
- Game for that?
1544
00:55:41,504 --> 00:55:43,756
- I like the beach.
- All right, beach it is.
1545
00:55:43,915 --> 00:55:45,665
That's fine with me.
1546
00:55:45,750 --> 00:55:47,501
- It's been such
a short amount of time,
1547
00:55:47,585 --> 00:55:50,003
and he just, like, rubs me
the wrong way.
1548
00:55:50,088 --> 00:55:51,588
♪ ♪
1549
00:55:51,681 --> 00:55:54,016
He's trying--
1550
00:55:54,100 --> 00:55:56,343
Trying to yes me to death.
1551
00:55:56,427 --> 00:55:58,678
He's like, "Oh, yeah,
maybe, like, shopping"
1552
00:55:58,772 --> 00:56:00,606
or this or that, and I was like,
1553
00:56:00,690 --> 00:56:02,107
"Like, I'm good just, like,
sitting at the beach,"
1554
00:56:02,266 --> 00:56:03,517
and he's like,
"Okay, yeah, me too."
1555
00:56:03,610 --> 00:56:04,777
- This is perfect,
'cause I know we're gonna spend
1556
00:56:04,936 --> 00:56:06,945
the entire time on the beach,
right?
1557
00:56:07,105 --> 00:56:08,447
- [laughs]
- That's the goal.
1558
00:56:08,531 --> 00:56:09,281
- Pretty much.
1559
00:56:09,366 --> 00:56:11,274
Well, you can go do things,
1560
00:56:11,368 --> 00:56:14,203
like, that you wanna do.
1561
00:56:14,287 --> 00:56:15,946
- All right, see you soon.
1562
00:56:16,030 --> 00:56:18,374
- Okay.
1563
00:56:18,533 --> 00:56:20,033
- So I am
1564
00:56:20,118 --> 00:56:21,877
getting ready to go
on the honeymoon.
1565
00:56:21,961 --> 00:56:24,454
Found out that we are going
to Puerto Rico,
1566
00:56:24,547 --> 00:56:27,383
um, and by "we,"
1567
00:56:27,467 --> 00:56:29,802
I mostly mean that Alyssa and I
1568
00:56:29,886 --> 00:56:33,046
will be in Puerto Rico
1569
00:56:33,139 --> 00:56:36,058
but not the way
that I would have wanted
1570
00:56:36,217 --> 00:56:37,551
to be in Puerto Rico
1571
00:56:37,644 --> 00:56:38,885
with the woman
that I'm married to,
1572
00:56:38,970 --> 00:56:41,304
which is... disappointing.
1573
00:56:41,389 --> 00:56:42,889
- ♪ You write your own story,
you write your own ♪
1574
00:56:42,974 --> 00:56:46,560
♪ 'Cause time
keeps ticking away ♪
1575
00:56:46,653 --> 00:56:49,563
- ♪ Ticktock, ticktock ♪
1576
00:56:49,647 --> 00:56:50,897
- It's frustrating.
It's disappointing.
1577
00:56:50,982 --> 00:56:51,982
It's not what I wanted.
1578
00:56:52,075 --> 00:56:55,160
I'm not sure
if she came into this
1579
00:56:55,319 --> 00:56:56,486
with the right intention,
1580
00:56:56,571 --> 00:56:58,080
because in this moment,
1581
00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:01,825
I feel like
she's already written me off.
1582
00:57:01,909 --> 00:57:05,162
We'll see what happens
in Puerto Rico,
1583
00:57:05,246 --> 00:57:08,257
but it's making it hard
1584
00:57:08,416 --> 00:57:10,667
to try.
1585
00:57:10,751 --> 00:57:13,595
- ♪ 'Cause time
keeps ticking away ♪
1586
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:20,018
♪ Ticktock, ticktock ♪
1587
00:57:20,103 --> 00:57:21,854
- ♪ Boy, boy, boy, boy, boy ♪
1588
00:57:21,938 --> 00:57:24,273
♪ Boy meets girl,
boy likes girl ♪
1589
00:57:24,357 --> 00:57:26,266
♪ And tries to get with girl ♪
1590
00:57:26,350 --> 00:57:27,443
♪ Boy kisses girl ♪
1591
00:57:27,527 --> 00:57:29,528
♪ And girl likes that ♪
1592
00:57:29,612 --> 00:57:30,020
- You all set?
1593
00:57:30,104 --> 00:57:32,364
Ah, no.
1594
00:57:32,449 --> 00:57:33,699
- One of us
gonna have to change.
1595
00:57:33,783 --> 00:57:34,533
- No, not gonna be--
- It's not me,
1596
00:57:34,617 --> 00:57:36,452
'cause I got dressed first.
1597
00:57:36,536 --> 00:57:37,944
We're not doing
rock, paper, scissors.
1598
00:57:38,037 --> 00:57:41,123
- ♪ This is how
the story begins ♪
1599
00:57:41,282 --> 00:57:43,542
- All right, you ready
to catch a flight?
1600
00:57:43,701 --> 00:57:45,785
Let's do it.
- Whoo!
1601
00:57:45,879 --> 00:57:46,962
- You just got good taste.
That's all.
1602
00:57:47,121 --> 00:57:49,131
- Stay outta my closet.
[laughter]
1603
00:57:49,215 --> 00:57:50,966
- Puerto Rico!
1604
00:57:51,125 --> 00:57:52,876
- [laughs]
- We're out of here, baby.
1605
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:55,128
- Adios.
1606
00:57:55,221 --> 00:57:56,713
- Hi!
- What's going on?
1607
00:57:56,797 --> 00:57:57,464
- What's good?
- Morning.
1608
00:57:57,548 --> 00:57:59,132
- Morning!
- Morning!
1609
00:57:59,217 --> 00:58:01,560
- On our way to the airport.
1610
00:58:01,719 --> 00:58:03,312
- On our way where?
1611
00:58:03,396 --> 00:58:06,973
- Puerto Rico!
- Whoo-hoo!
1612
00:58:07,058 --> 00:58:09,559
[upbeat music]
1613
00:58:09,652 --> 00:58:11,144
♪ ♪
1614
00:58:11,229 --> 00:58:14,147
- It's-- come down to my level.
1615
00:58:14,240 --> 00:58:17,826
- Just made it through security.
1616
00:58:17,911 --> 00:58:19,152
We have our bags packed,
ready to go.
1617
00:58:19,237 --> 00:58:22,072
- We're ready to go
on our honeymoon.
1618
00:58:22,156 --> 00:58:24,416
- We're off to Puerto Rico
for our honeymoon.
1619
00:58:24,501 --> 00:58:25,584
- I'm so excited.
I can't wait.
1620
00:58:25,668 --> 00:58:27,753
I want a piña colada
as soon as we land.
1621
00:58:27,837 --> 00:58:29,588
- I need a massage in the sun.
1622
00:58:29,672 --> 00:58:31,998
- Course you do.
1623
00:58:32,083 --> 00:58:33,917
- We're excited to relax.
1624
00:58:34,010 --> 00:58:35,010
Have some fun.
1625
00:58:35,094 --> 00:58:36,678
- Eat some food.
- Have some drinks.
1626
00:58:36,763 --> 00:58:38,430
- Activities.
- Lay on the beach.
1627
00:58:38,515 --> 00:58:40,265
- What are you
looking forward to most?
1628
00:58:40,424 --> 00:58:42,351
- Um, just exploring
1629
00:58:42,435 --> 00:58:43,343
the whole beach with you
1630
00:58:43,427 --> 00:58:47,272
and having a good time together.
1631
00:58:47,431 --> 00:58:48,515
First trip being married.
1632
00:58:48,599 --> 00:58:50,609
♪ ♪
1633
00:58:50,693 --> 00:58:51,935
- That was a mess.
We should redo that.
1634
00:58:52,028 --> 00:58:58,992
♪ ♪
1635
00:59:08,211 --> 00:59:10,870
- We just landed.
1636
00:59:10,955 --> 00:59:12,205
- In Puerto Rico!
1637
00:59:12,290 --> 00:59:13,465
- Ready to have some fun.
1638
00:59:13,550 --> 00:59:14,874
- Let's go get our bags.
1639
00:59:14,959 --> 00:59:15,884
Get drunk.
1640
00:59:15,969 --> 00:59:16,376
That means one drink.
1641
00:59:16,469 --> 00:59:18,637
- Have fun.
1642
00:59:18,721 --> 00:59:20,463
- Just landed
in sunny Puerto Rico.
1643
00:59:20,557 --> 00:59:22,224
I am...
1644
00:59:22,383 --> 00:59:25,051
excited to hang out
at the beach.
1645
00:59:25,144 --> 00:59:28,305
I think Alyssa
just walked right by me
1646
00:59:28,398 --> 00:59:29,472
through security.
1647
00:59:29,566 --> 00:59:33,902
♪ ♪
1648
00:59:35,980 --> 00:59:37,406
♪ ♪
1649
00:59:37,565 --> 00:59:38,732
- When we're leaving
the airport,
1650
00:59:38,816 --> 00:59:40,492
we're getting into a van,
1651
00:59:40,577 --> 00:59:42,411
and Lindsey and Mark
don't join us.
1652
00:59:42,495 --> 00:59:44,746
- So MTS and Mrs. MTS
1653
00:59:44,905 --> 00:59:46,906
are getting royal treatment
on this trip.
1654
00:59:46,991 --> 00:59:48,083
We have our own private bus.
1655
00:59:48,167 --> 00:59:49,376
- What happened?
1656
00:59:50,420 --> 00:59:51,328
- That's fine.
She should be upset.
1657
00:59:51,412 --> 00:59:53,580
- It's perfect.
It's perfect.
1658
00:59:53,664 --> 00:59:54,423
- Where's my hat?
1659
00:59:54,582 --> 00:59:56,842
- I think you're sitting on it.
1660
00:59:56,926 --> 00:59:58,168
- Did I lose it in the chaos?
1661
00:59:58,252 --> 01:00:00,003
- No, no, I think you have--
It's right there.
1662
01:00:00,087 --> 01:00:03,098
- So I'm already feeling
a sense of awkwardness
1663
01:00:03,257 --> 01:00:05,508
or uncomfortableness
between the couples.
1664
01:00:05,602 --> 01:00:07,102
- [laughs]
1665
01:00:07,186 --> 01:00:08,937
- She should be upset.
1666
01:00:09,096 --> 01:00:10,597
- She's trying to tell
people in this bus
1667
01:00:10,690 --> 01:00:12,349
what language to speak here.
1668
01:00:12,442 --> 01:00:13,609
We're all adults.
1669
01:00:13,693 --> 01:00:15,110
You wanna speak English,
you wanna speak Spanish,
1670
01:00:15,194 --> 01:00:16,353
you speak what you want.
1671
01:00:16,446 --> 01:00:17,613
Don't come over here
telling people what to do
1672
01:00:17,697 --> 01:00:19,364
'cause we're adults, man,
we don't play that.
1673
01:00:19,449 --> 01:00:21,116
Nobody's--
You're not nobody's mother.
1674
01:00:21,275 --> 01:00:23,109
Talk to your husband
if that's what you wanna do.
1675
01:00:23,194 --> 01:00:24,202
Don't talk to other couples
1676
01:00:24,287 --> 01:00:25,871
what language
we're gonna speak here.
1677
01:00:25,955 --> 01:00:28,206
Lindsey comes over
to me and my wife,
1678
01:00:28,291 --> 01:00:30,033
Katina, right before we get
off the plane,
1679
01:00:30,126 --> 01:00:33,045
and she says, "Olajuwon,
can you speak Spanish?"
1680
01:00:33,129 --> 01:00:34,621
And I said,
"I know a little bit.
1681
01:00:34,705 --> 01:00:36,456
I don't speak it fluent."
1682
01:00:36,540 --> 01:00:38,541
And I said, "When I get there,
I'ma speak English
1683
01:00:38,626 --> 01:00:40,460
because that's what
I'm comfortable with,"
1684
01:00:40,544 --> 01:00:41,795
and Lindsey made the remark
1685
01:00:41,888 --> 01:00:44,056
of, "Oh, well, you're in
the native land,"
1686
01:00:44,140 --> 01:00:45,382
or whatever it is,
1687
01:00:45,466 --> 01:00:46,725
and my response is,
1688
01:00:46,809 --> 01:00:48,977
"Lindsey, worry
about your husband.
1689
01:00:49,136 --> 01:00:51,304
Stop worrying
about me and my wife."
1690
01:00:51,389 --> 01:00:52,814
Don't--don't come near me
if you're gonna tell me
1691
01:00:52,899 --> 01:00:53,973
what language to speak.
That's it.
1692
01:00:54,067 --> 01:00:55,067
- And then when people
were walking away,
1693
01:00:55,151 --> 01:00:56,309
she's gonna say,
"I wanna fight him."
1694
01:00:56,394 --> 01:00:58,820
You not even Spanish, girl.
1695
01:00:58,905 --> 01:01:00,739
I don't care if you lived here
for eight months
1696
01:01:00,823 --> 01:01:03,325
or a year.
Like, you are not Spanish.
1697
01:01:03,409 --> 01:01:06,986
- Um, so we are
on a separate bus.
1698
01:01:07,071 --> 01:01:08,571
We had a little situation
1699
01:01:08,665 --> 01:01:09,989
at the airport,
1700
01:01:10,083 --> 01:01:12,834
but we are gonna work through it
1701
01:01:12,919 --> 01:01:14,327
tonight and this week,
1702
01:01:14,412 --> 01:01:16,838
and we're not gonna let
anything spoil our honeymoon.
1703
01:01:16,923 --> 01:01:18,674
- We just met.
1704
01:01:18,833 --> 01:01:22,678
Like, how is it
that in a couple of hours,
1705
01:01:22,837 --> 01:01:24,930
like, things like this
are happening?
1706
01:01:25,089 --> 01:01:26,172
- I--
- Keep her away from me.
1707
01:01:26,257 --> 01:01:27,349
I'm dead serious.
1708
01:01:27,433 --> 01:01:29,184
Keep her far away from me.
1709
01:01:29,268 --> 01:01:30,686
- This is a great start
to our vacation.
1710
01:01:30,845 --> 01:01:31,761
You know?
1711
01:01:31,854 --> 01:01:33,096
♪ ♪
1712
01:01:33,180 --> 01:01:36,108
Can't wait to see
how the rest of it plays out.
1713
01:01:36,192 --> 01:01:37,609
- And nothing's
gonna stop our sunshine.
1714
01:01:37,694 --> 01:01:38,935
Okay?
1715
01:01:39,019 --> 01:01:40,862
♪ ♪
1716
01:01:44,775 --> 01:01:47,694
[upbeat music]
1717
01:01:47,778 --> 01:01:52,866
♪ ♪
1718
01:01:53,960 --> 01:01:55,618
- You're not gonna say
nothing else, right?
1719
01:01:55,703 --> 01:01:57,120
- No, I'm good, I'm good,
I'm good, I'm good.
1720
01:01:57,204 --> 01:01:59,881
- My first time seeing you hot.
1721
01:01:59,966 --> 01:02:01,216
- Yeah, that's not even close.
1722
01:02:01,375 --> 01:02:03,209
- [laughs]
- For real, for real.
1723
01:02:03,302 --> 01:02:07,380
- On the plane,
Lindsey and my husband
1724
01:02:07,465 --> 01:02:08,890
had an exchange of words.
1725
01:02:09,049 --> 01:02:11,643
She literally was just like,
1726
01:02:11,802 --> 01:02:13,470
"I'm gonna keep irking you."
1727
01:02:13,554 --> 01:02:15,555
- Thank you so much.
- Thank you.
1728
01:02:15,648 --> 01:02:18,316
Lindsey, she just--
Is just a lot.
1729
01:02:18,476 --> 01:02:20,977
I'm usually a forgiving person,
1730
01:02:21,061 --> 01:02:22,896
but right now,
I don't really know about her.
1731
01:02:22,980 --> 01:02:25,899
[dramatic music]
1732
01:02:25,983 --> 01:02:30,245
♪ ♪
1733
01:02:30,404 --> 01:02:34,657
- So I just checked in
to the honeymoon suite.
1734
01:02:34,751 --> 01:02:37,994
I felt like I needed a second
1735
01:02:38,078 --> 01:02:40,663
to regroup.
1736
01:02:40,757 --> 01:02:44,083
I think we were all laughing
and joking on the plane
1737
01:02:44,168 --> 01:02:46,169
and one of the husbands
1738
01:02:46,253 --> 01:02:47,837
got a little aggressive with me
about fighting,
1739
01:02:47,922 --> 01:02:49,172
and I was like,
"What, you wanna fight me?"
1740
01:02:49,265 --> 01:02:51,007
Thinking we were joking,
1741
01:02:51,100 --> 01:02:52,509
and then he started posturing
1742
01:02:52,593 --> 01:02:53,769
and waiting for me
at the end of the line
1743
01:02:53,853 --> 01:02:55,428
and puffing his chest out
and raising his voice,
1744
01:02:55,521 --> 01:02:59,849
and it--and it
just really triggered me.
1745
01:02:59,934 --> 01:03:02,936
And it really brought me
to a place
1746
01:03:03,029 --> 01:03:04,780
where I didn't feel comfortable.
1747
01:03:04,939 --> 01:03:06,448
♪ ♪
1748
01:03:06,532 --> 01:03:11,277
And it really, like,
shook me at my core, so...
1749
01:03:11,370 --> 01:03:12,195
And I just needed a moment...
1750
01:03:12,288 --> 01:03:14,197
[inhales sharply]
1751
01:03:14,290 --> 01:03:18,126
To kind of, like, feel better,
1752
01:03:18,285 --> 01:03:21,538
but I have to say, I have
the best husband in the world.
1753
01:03:21,631 --> 01:03:24,633
I just love him so much.
1754
01:03:24,792 --> 01:03:28,053
He's so supportive
and caring and nurturing.
1755
01:03:28,137 --> 01:03:29,963
He said, "Go up to the room.
Take a shower.
1756
01:03:30,056 --> 01:03:32,131
I'll go see what happened,
talk to the people,"
1757
01:03:32,216 --> 01:03:35,644
and just kind of stood by me
1758
01:03:35,728 --> 01:03:37,729
and made me feel
safe and cared for,
1759
01:03:37,814 --> 01:03:40,732
and that's all I've ever wanted,
1760
01:03:40,891 --> 01:03:42,725
and I'm so grateful.
1761
01:03:42,810 --> 01:03:44,727
♪ ♪
1762
01:03:44,821 --> 01:03:48,490
[upbeat music]
1763
01:03:48,574 --> 01:03:49,991
- Wow.
Dang, look at this.
1764
01:03:50,076 --> 01:03:51,827
- Chris, you wanna hold hands?
- Look at the palm trees.
1765
01:03:51,986 --> 01:03:53,152
[laughs]
1766
01:03:53,237 --> 01:03:54,654
So it is the first day
1767
01:03:54,738 --> 01:03:56,665
in beautiful Puerto Rico,
1768
01:03:56,749 --> 01:03:58,834
and Alyssa's making it
really hard,
1769
01:03:58,993 --> 01:04:03,588
because she doesn't interact
with me at all.
1770
01:04:03,673 --> 01:04:04,339
- Oh, my God, it's so pretty.
1771
01:04:04,498 --> 01:04:06,749
- Whoo!
- We made it!
1772
01:04:06,843 --> 01:04:07,926
- Yay!
- Wow.
1773
01:04:08,085 --> 01:04:09,594
- My God, this is gorgeous.
1774
01:04:09,753 --> 01:04:10,753
I love this.
I love this.
1775
01:04:10,847 --> 01:04:12,597
- Hey, give me a kiss.
1776
01:04:12,682 --> 01:04:14,090
- Welcome to our honeymoon!
[laughs]
1777
01:04:14,183 --> 01:04:15,675
- We made it.
1778
01:04:15,768 --> 01:04:17,936
- I'm sure it's coming across
to the other couples as well.
1779
01:04:18,020 --> 01:04:19,846
I'm sure they're noticing it.
1780
01:04:19,930 --> 01:04:22,524
I think it's probably why
they tiptoe around us
1781
01:04:22,683 --> 01:04:24,025
and they don't ask us,
"Hey, what's going on?"
1782
01:04:24,184 --> 01:04:26,269
They don't ask us,
"Hey, what'd you guys do
1783
01:04:26,362 --> 01:04:28,864
the wedding night?"
because they're like--
1784
01:04:28,948 --> 01:04:31,524
They know that
they're not like us.
1785
01:04:31,617 --> 01:04:33,618
- [laughs]
- It's so pretty.
1786
01:04:33,777 --> 01:04:35,704
- I've spent time with Chris.
1787
01:04:35,788 --> 01:04:36,946
We've had great conversations.
1788
01:04:37,039 --> 01:04:39,040
He's a great guy.
1789
01:04:39,125 --> 01:04:40,950
But I haven't really seen
much interaction
1790
01:04:41,043 --> 01:04:42,535
with him and his wife.
I'm not exactly sure
1791
01:04:42,620 --> 01:04:43,712
what the disconnect is.
1792
01:04:43,871 --> 01:04:46,381
But it's obviously awkward,
a little tense.
1793
01:04:46,465 --> 01:04:48,717
- I'm so happy to be here.
1794
01:04:48,801 --> 01:04:50,126
- We're only missing one thing,
1795
01:04:50,210 --> 01:04:52,378
and that's alcohol.
1796
01:04:52,471 --> 01:04:53,463
- Here we go.
There it is.
1797
01:04:53,556 --> 01:04:55,798
- Yeah!
- Hey.
1798
01:04:55,892 --> 01:05:00,720
- Lindsey and Mark
are not joining us for drinks.
1799
01:05:00,804 --> 01:05:03,565
Things were very heated
when we were on the plane,
1800
01:05:03,724 --> 01:05:05,483
and so I do think
that everybody needs
1801
01:05:05,568 --> 01:05:06,651
a little bit of space.
1802
01:05:06,736 --> 01:05:08,320
I'm just happy
sitting on this couch
1803
01:05:08,479 --> 01:05:11,406
and sipping a piña colada,
1804
01:05:11,565 --> 01:05:14,159
because I don't have time
for none of that.
1805
01:05:14,243 --> 01:05:16,069
Like, I'm here for my honeymoon.
1806
01:05:16,153 --> 01:05:17,495
- So we had a disagreement.
1807
01:05:17,580 --> 01:05:19,497
We're not gonna let that
mess up our journey.
1808
01:05:19,582 --> 01:05:21,833
As much as we're getting
to know our spouses,
1809
01:05:21,992 --> 01:05:23,076
we're also getting to know
each other
1810
01:05:23,160 --> 01:05:24,911
as individuals.
1811
01:05:24,995 --> 01:05:27,672
We're a brotherhood,
a sisterhood, you know?
1812
01:05:29,342 --> 01:05:30,592
- This is beautiful.
- Hey, hey, hey.
1813
01:05:30,676 --> 01:05:32,177
Come on.
- Okay.
1814
01:05:32,261 --> 01:05:34,095
- It's for Puerto Rico,
all right?
1815
01:05:34,254 --> 01:05:36,264
- Okay, okay, okay.
- She's married to me.
1816
01:05:36,423 --> 01:05:38,591
- I respect it.
I respect that.
1817
01:05:38,684 --> 01:05:40,093
- We can't have
two different opinions, right?
1818
01:05:40,177 --> 01:05:41,844
No, I'm just kidding.
Just kidding.
1819
01:05:41,938 --> 01:05:42,845
- Hey.
- Mark.
1820
01:05:42,939 --> 01:05:44,263
- Mark the Shark.
- Mark the Shark.
1821
01:05:44,348 --> 01:05:46,107
- Hey!
- Sorry.
1822
01:05:46,192 --> 01:05:46,942
I apologize, brother.
- No, no, it's all right.
1823
01:05:47,026 --> 01:05:47,943
- Seriously, man, seriously.
1824
01:05:48,102 --> 01:05:49,769
- No, no, it's--
- You're a good man.
1825
01:05:49,853 --> 01:05:51,270
She--we're all learning
about each other.
1826
01:05:51,364 --> 01:05:52,939
I was just saying that we're
all learning about each other,
1827
01:05:53,032 --> 01:05:54,023
and things are gonna happen
like that.
1828
01:05:54,116 --> 01:05:55,283
- And that's what I told her.
1829
01:05:55,368 --> 01:05:56,368
I'm like, "Linds, like, there's
1830
01:05:56,527 --> 01:05:57,369
so many
different personalities here."
1831
01:05:57,528 --> 01:05:58,620
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
1832
01:05:58,704 --> 01:05:59,862
- And everyone has a past.
1833
01:05:59,956 --> 01:06:01,030
- Oh, we set you up, brother.
1834
01:06:01,115 --> 01:06:03,041
- Ah, thanks.
[laughter]
1835
01:06:03,125 --> 01:06:04,960
I told her--I'm like, "Linds,"
1836
01:06:05,119 --> 01:06:06,544
I'm like,
"you're always at a ten."
1837
01:06:06,629 --> 01:06:09,714
- Absolutely.
- "And everyone has buttons.
1838
01:06:09,799 --> 01:06:12,467
"You have buttons.
Olajuwon's got buttons.
1839
01:06:12,551 --> 01:06:14,043
"Chris might have buttons.
1840
01:06:14,136 --> 01:06:16,137
I doubt it, but Chris
might have buttons."
1841
01:06:16,296 --> 01:06:18,131
I wanna apologize
for what happened
1842
01:06:18,215 --> 01:06:20,967
on my team,
and I don't want you guys
1843
01:06:21,051 --> 01:06:22,802
to feel that
we all can't get along.
1844
01:06:22,895 --> 01:06:25,063
We wanna rise above this.
- Right.
1845
01:06:25,147 --> 01:06:28,316
- And we don't need tension
over little things, right?
1846
01:06:28,475 --> 01:06:29,726
- Right.
- And at the end of the day--
1847
01:06:29,810 --> 01:06:30,819
- So can we cheers?
1848
01:06:30,978 --> 01:06:31,894
Let's get together.
1849
01:06:31,979 --> 01:06:33,321
- To forgiveness.
- To forgiveness.
1850
01:06:33,406 --> 01:06:34,906
To moving on.
- To moving on.
1851
01:06:34,991 --> 01:06:36,315
- To being respectful
of everyone.
1852
01:06:36,400 --> 01:06:37,400
- To having fun in Puerto Rico.
1853
01:06:37,493 --> 01:06:38,735
- Coming back together, yeah.
- Cheers!
1854
01:06:38,828 --> 01:06:40,570
- Cheers, yes.
1855
01:06:40,654 --> 01:06:43,656
- To no more drama
and a good honeymoon.
1856
01:06:43,741 --> 01:06:45,250
- We need to move on,
and we can't let this
1857
01:06:45,334 --> 01:06:46,251
mess up our honeymoon.
1858
01:06:46,410 --> 01:06:47,585
I'm here for my wife.
1859
01:06:47,745 --> 01:06:48,837
We need to focus on each other
1860
01:06:48,996 --> 01:06:51,256
because this is a process
between us,
1861
01:06:51,415 --> 01:06:52,999
and I just want everybody
to be happy.
1862
01:06:53,083 --> 01:06:54,759
- If she apologizes to you,
1863
01:06:54,918 --> 01:06:55,927
would that mean something?
1864
01:06:56,012 --> 01:06:58,254
Would that change the dynamic?
1865
01:06:58,338 --> 01:07:00,765
♪ ♪
1866
01:07:00,850 --> 01:07:02,600
- I'm cool with it.
I don't need an apology.
1867
01:07:02,685 --> 01:07:04,010
Me and Mark the Shark
are head-on,
1868
01:07:04,094 --> 01:07:06,688
and I have nothing to worry,
you know.
1869
01:07:06,772 --> 01:07:09,599
- So I think, for me,
I have a lot of patience,
1870
01:07:09,692 --> 01:07:11,776
so if you see me mad,
1871
01:07:11,935 --> 01:07:13,361
it's kind of like, "Whoa, like,
1872
01:07:13,446 --> 01:07:15,280
you must really
be bothering her."
1873
01:07:15,364 --> 01:07:18,191
I'm gonna be super respectable,
of course.
1874
01:07:18,284 --> 01:07:21,194
I'll still be friendly,
surface level,
1875
01:07:21,278 --> 01:07:23,121
but I think that I just--
1876
01:07:23,205 --> 01:07:25,031
I can't be in a space with her
1877
01:07:25,115 --> 01:07:27,042
for a long period of time
1878
01:07:27,126 --> 01:07:31,037
'cause her personality
is just way too much for me.
1879
01:07:31,130 --> 01:07:33,465
- Of course
I'm a little worried.
1880
01:07:33,549 --> 01:07:36,209
You know, I still feel
like there could be tension
1881
01:07:36,302 --> 01:07:38,961
between my wife and, uh,
Katina and Olajuwon.
1882
01:07:39,055 --> 01:07:40,638
You know, it is what it is.
1883
01:07:40,798 --> 01:07:42,557
But we're here for a week,
1884
01:07:42,716 --> 01:07:44,642
so I'm hoping things may change.
1885
01:07:44,727 --> 01:07:46,227
We gotta work past this.
1886
01:07:46,312 --> 01:07:47,470
You know,
we're all here together.
1887
01:07:47,554 --> 01:07:50,565
♪ ♪
1888
01:07:54,403 --> 01:07:55,487
[upbeat music]
1889
01:07:55,571 --> 01:07:58,990
- ♪ Ooh ♪
1890
01:07:59,075 --> 01:08:00,733
♪ Take a chance with me ♪
1891
01:08:00,826 --> 01:08:02,902
[laughter]
1892
01:08:02,986 --> 01:08:06,414
- Don't hit your wife. [laughs]
1893
01:08:06,573 --> 01:08:07,082
[cork pops]
Ah!
1894
01:08:07,241 --> 01:08:10,743
- Cheers.
- Cheers.
1895
01:08:10,828 --> 01:08:12,328
♪ ♪
1896
01:08:12,412 --> 01:08:13,004
Thank you...
1897
01:08:13,089 --> 01:08:15,590
husband.
1898
01:08:15,749 --> 01:08:16,841
- No problem, wife.
1899
01:08:16,926 --> 01:08:18,259
- Aw.
1900
01:08:18,418 --> 01:08:20,837
- My wife. [laughs]
1901
01:08:20,930 --> 01:08:22,004
Every time I say it,
1902
01:08:22,089 --> 01:08:23,515
there's a bit
of a reality check,
1903
01:08:23,674 --> 01:08:24,924
making me realize that yes,
1904
01:08:25,008 --> 01:08:25,591
I did just get married,
1905
01:08:25,676 --> 01:08:27,519
and we are together.
1906
01:08:27,603 --> 01:08:30,429
- It's so beautiful out here.
1907
01:08:30,514 --> 01:08:31,180
- You scared to go
close to the edge?
1908
01:08:31,265 --> 01:08:34,016
- Yeah, a little bit.
1909
01:08:34,110 --> 01:08:35,527
Um...
1910
01:08:35,686 --> 01:08:36,519
- Hey, come on over here.
1911
01:08:36,603 --> 01:08:40,273
- Oh, okay.
1912
01:08:40,357 --> 01:08:42,358
Oh, we're up really high.
1913
01:08:42,442 --> 01:08:43,693
- Come here.
1914
01:08:43,777 --> 01:08:44,869
Can you look straight down?
1915
01:08:44,954 --> 01:08:46,445
Does that scare you?
- No, I don't want to.
1916
01:08:46,530 --> 01:08:47,780
- We have a building under us.
Okay.
1917
01:08:47,865 --> 01:08:49,532
- You're used to looking down.
You're really tall.
1918
01:08:49,625 --> 01:08:50,792
I'm not!
1919
01:08:50,951 --> 01:08:52,535
- This is what my life is like
every day, okay?
1920
01:08:52,628 --> 01:08:55,538
- I'm afraid of heights.
1921
01:08:55,622 --> 01:08:57,123
- I got you.
1922
01:08:57,216 --> 01:08:59,292
- I'm glad
I was matched with you.
1923
01:08:59,376 --> 01:09:00,635
- Yeah, me too.
1924
01:09:00,719 --> 01:09:02,795
- We've only known each other
for two days,
1925
01:09:02,888 --> 01:09:04,881
but I do feel
like I'm developing
1926
01:09:04,965 --> 01:09:06,641
really strong feelings
for Steve.
1927
01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:08,476
There's chemistry,
1928
01:09:08,561 --> 01:09:10,895
and it seems really effortless.
1929
01:09:11,054 --> 01:09:12,313
- This is pretty incredible.
1930
01:09:12,398 --> 01:09:16,484
- But I still have
a lot to learn about him,
1931
01:09:16,643 --> 01:09:18,811
so I'm anxious to see
how this trip will go.
1932
01:09:18,904 --> 01:09:20,396
What do you wanna do first?
1933
01:09:20,489 --> 01:09:22,991
- Parasailing has always been
on my list.
1934
01:09:23,150 --> 01:09:25,743
It's just something
that I haven't done before.
1935
01:09:25,828 --> 01:09:27,737
Otherwise, I'd definitely be
down for some jet skiing
1936
01:09:27,830 --> 01:09:29,989
or ziplining.
1937
01:09:30,073 --> 01:09:31,657
What about you?
1938
01:09:31,742 --> 01:09:33,459
- Um...
1939
01:09:34,753 --> 01:09:36,913
[laughter]
1940
01:09:37,006 --> 01:09:43,261
♪ ♪
1941
01:09:43,345 --> 01:09:45,338
- Hey!
1942
01:09:45,422 --> 01:09:46,514
♪ ♪
1943
01:09:46,673 --> 01:09:47,757
- Thank you.
1944
01:09:47,850 --> 01:09:48,925
♪ ♪
1945
01:09:49,009 --> 01:09:51,019
- Wanna say something?
1946
01:09:51,103 --> 01:09:53,438
- Let's cheers to our honeymoon,
1947
01:09:53,597 --> 01:09:55,264
to getting to know each other
on a different level,
1948
01:09:55,349 --> 01:09:58,517
and making memories.
1949
01:09:58,611 --> 01:10:00,937
- Cheers.
- Clink, clink, clink.
1950
01:10:01,030 --> 01:10:03,606
♪ ♪
1951
01:10:03,690 --> 01:10:04,690
- Mmm!
1952
01:10:04,775 --> 01:10:08,778
[peacock calling]
1953
01:10:08,871 --> 01:10:10,446
You hear that?
1954
01:10:10,530 --> 01:10:13,032
- [laughs] Was that a bird?
What was that?
1955
01:10:13,125 --> 01:10:14,116
- I thought I was tripping.
1956
01:10:14,201 --> 01:10:15,952
I'm like...
1957
01:10:16,045 --> 01:10:17,879
Puerto Rico birds.
1958
01:10:18,038 --> 01:10:20,039
- They're different.
1959
01:10:20,123 --> 01:10:21,290
♪ ♪
1960
01:10:21,375 --> 01:10:22,800
- What do you think
about the trip so far?
1961
01:10:22,960 --> 01:10:24,052
- So far, so good.
1962
01:10:24,136 --> 01:10:25,878
I mean, it was nice to meet
all the couples.
1963
01:10:25,971 --> 01:10:29,057
- Mm-hmm.
- But of course, we got...
1964
01:10:29,216 --> 01:10:30,558
off to a rocky start
1965
01:10:30,643 --> 01:10:32,393
with, like, O and Lindsey.
1966
01:10:32,552 --> 01:10:35,730
We just met,
so we kind of have to assume
1967
01:10:35,814 --> 01:10:36,731
there's gonna be conflict,
1968
01:10:36,890 --> 01:10:37,890
but I think the way
we resolved it
1969
01:10:37,983 --> 01:10:39,809
in the end--
- I don't agree with that.
1970
01:10:39,893 --> 01:10:42,070
- What do you mean?
- I don't think that
1971
01:10:42,154 --> 01:10:44,572
there's gonna be conflict
'cause we all just met.
1972
01:10:44,657 --> 01:10:45,731
I think if people just respect
each other's boundaries,
1973
01:10:45,816 --> 01:10:46,741
then that's it.
1974
01:10:46,825 --> 01:10:48,901
- But when you first
meet somebody,
1975
01:10:48,994 --> 01:10:50,495
you don't know their boundaries.
1976
01:10:50,579 --> 01:10:51,913
Right?
You're still learning mine.
1977
01:10:52,072 --> 01:10:52,997
- True.
- And I'm still learning yours,
1978
01:10:53,082 --> 01:10:53,748
so there might be a situation
1979
01:10:53,907 --> 01:10:55,333
where I might do something
1980
01:10:55,417 --> 01:10:58,253
based on what I think is okay,
1981
01:10:58,412 --> 01:10:59,921
and you can tell me, "Yo, Mike,
that's not cool."
1982
01:11:00,080 --> 01:11:01,747
- Mm-hmm.
- But there's gonna be conflict
1983
01:11:01,840 --> 01:11:03,258
in me trying to figure that out,
1984
01:11:03,417 --> 01:11:05,009
'cause we don't know each other.
1985
01:11:05,094 --> 01:11:08,930
- Like you said, we can agree
to disagree.
1986
01:11:09,014 --> 01:11:09,839
- So you think, in our marriage,
1987
01:11:09,923 --> 01:11:10,840
we're not gonna have conflict?
1988
01:11:10,933 --> 01:11:12,350
- I'm not thinking
about conflict.
1989
01:11:12,434 --> 01:11:13,768
If I was to wake up every day
1990
01:11:13,852 --> 01:11:15,019
and think that in this marriage,
1991
01:11:15,104 --> 01:11:16,178
there would be conflict,
that would just be me
1992
01:11:16,263 --> 01:11:17,605
inviting negativity
and just thinking,
1993
01:11:17,764 --> 01:11:19,023
"When is
the conflict gonna start?"
1994
01:11:19,108 --> 01:11:20,692
I'd rather just live
in the moment.
1995
01:11:20,776 --> 01:11:22,360
The type of person that I am,
1996
01:11:22,444 --> 01:11:23,945
I'm thinking positive.
1997
01:11:24,104 --> 01:11:25,855
I'm thinking the best
out of the situation.
1998
01:11:25,939 --> 01:11:27,532
I am not going to go into a room
1999
01:11:27,691 --> 01:11:29,275
with five people and say,
2000
01:11:29,359 --> 01:11:31,277
"I don't know these people.
There is just--
2001
01:11:31,361 --> 01:11:32,695
There might be conflict."
2002
01:11:32,779 --> 01:11:34,539
That's just not my mindset.
2003
01:11:34,698 --> 01:11:36,532
I am very shocked that
2004
01:11:36,625 --> 01:11:38,451
Mike and I are having
our first disagreement so soon.
2005
01:11:38,535 --> 01:11:40,703
You know, his sisters
did mention
2006
01:11:40,787 --> 01:11:43,965
that he likes to think
the worst in situations,
2007
01:11:44,049 --> 01:11:46,709
and I do think that,
you know, in the future,
2008
01:11:46,802 --> 01:11:47,960
it could be a problem.
2009
01:11:48,045 --> 01:11:49,887
♪ ♪
2010
01:11:50,047 --> 01:11:51,472
I'm gonna shower.
2011
01:11:51,631 --> 01:11:52,965
- This discussion
and this conflict
2012
01:11:53,050 --> 01:11:54,058
is not shocking.
2013
01:11:54,143 --> 01:11:55,810
I'm a realist.
2014
01:11:55,969 --> 01:11:58,396
I assumed
we were gonna have conflict.
2015
01:11:58,555 --> 01:12:00,139
I assumed that we were going
2016
01:12:00,232 --> 01:12:01,566
to have some type
of disagreement.
2017
01:12:01,650 --> 01:12:03,151
I mean, I did ask the experts
2018
01:12:03,310 --> 01:12:04,977
for someone
that can challenge me,
2019
01:12:05,070 --> 01:12:07,572
and I have it
right in front of me right now,
2020
01:12:07,656 --> 01:12:09,565
so it's kind of time
for me to really assess,
2021
01:12:09,649 --> 01:12:11,067
is this really what I want?
2022
01:12:11,160 --> 01:12:14,912
♪ ♪
2023
01:12:18,834 --> 01:12:20,659
[upbeat music]
2024
01:12:20,753 --> 01:12:23,004
- ♪ I just wanna have
your love ♪
2025
01:12:23,163 --> 01:12:26,174
♪ That's all I need,
all I need ♪
2026
01:12:26,333 --> 01:12:27,833
- Hey! How are you?
2027
01:12:27,918 --> 01:12:29,010
Oh.
2028
01:12:29,094 --> 01:12:31,512
- I've been married
for two days,
2029
01:12:31,597 --> 01:12:33,264
it's the first day
of my honeymoon,
2030
01:12:33,349 --> 01:12:35,183
and, like, the journey here
2031
01:12:35,267 --> 01:12:36,425
was half the battle,
2032
01:12:36,518 --> 01:12:39,345
so just taking it
one moment at a time.
2033
01:12:39,429 --> 01:12:40,346
♪ ♪
2034
01:12:40,430 --> 01:12:40,930
How was drinks?
2035
01:12:41,023 --> 01:12:43,349
- Uh, it was good.
2036
01:12:43,442 --> 01:12:45,526
We, uh--they really wanted
to make sure
2037
01:12:45,611 --> 01:12:48,279
that you, O, and Katina
were good,
2038
01:12:48,438 --> 01:12:51,366
and O does want to let you know
2039
01:12:51,525 --> 01:12:53,451
that he wants you
to feel comfortable around him.
2040
01:12:53,535 --> 01:12:54,535
- That's nice of him.
- And--yeah.
2041
01:12:54,620 --> 01:12:56,112
And he's like,
"I wanna talk to her.
2042
01:12:56,196 --> 01:12:57,288
"I wanna, like, hug it out.
2043
01:12:57,373 --> 01:12:59,624
Like, I wanna, like,
make sure she's good."
2044
01:12:59,783 --> 01:13:01,959
Two people hit a nerve,
2045
01:13:02,044 --> 01:13:03,628
and we're all new.
2046
01:13:03,787 --> 01:13:05,788
We just gotta, like, be careful
2047
01:13:05,872 --> 01:13:07,131
if we provoke anyone
2048
01:13:07,290 --> 01:13:08,290
or we have conversation
2049
01:13:08,384 --> 01:13:10,543
with people we don't know
well enough yet.
2050
01:13:10,627 --> 01:13:15,723
♪ ♪
2051
01:13:15,808 --> 01:13:16,882
I always have your back.
2052
01:13:16,967 --> 01:13:18,559
- I know.
2053
01:13:18,644 --> 01:13:20,636
- I'm just glad you're okay.
- I am, thank you.
2054
01:13:20,720 --> 01:13:22,814
I just have learned
2055
01:13:22,898 --> 01:13:25,891
that when somebody
makes me feel that way,
2056
01:13:25,976 --> 01:13:27,059
I should probably
just take a second.
2057
01:13:27,144 --> 01:13:29,395
- Yeah. There's nothing wrong
with that.
2058
01:13:29,479 --> 01:13:31,647
Having me in your life
is gonna be helpful to you
2059
01:13:31,731 --> 01:13:32,573
to work through
these situations.
2060
01:13:32,732 --> 01:13:33,825
- I'm sure.
2061
01:13:33,909 --> 01:13:34,992
You're gonna help me
with a lot of things.
2062
01:13:35,077 --> 01:13:36,327
- A lot of things.
2063
01:13:36,412 --> 01:13:39,247
- I like how kind
and caring you are
2064
01:13:39,406 --> 01:13:42,741
to, like, everybody
in every situation.
2065
01:13:42,826 --> 01:13:45,586
I mean, Mark's everything
I could ever ask for
2066
01:13:45,671 --> 01:13:49,507
and more, so I'm really grateful
2067
01:13:49,591 --> 01:13:50,591
for the experts.
2068
01:13:50,676 --> 01:13:52,176
I feel like you guys
have matched me
2069
01:13:52,261 --> 01:13:55,012
with, you know,
the perfect person
2070
01:13:55,097 --> 01:13:56,589
that I'm supposed to be with.
2071
01:13:56,673 --> 01:13:59,851
I feel Mark's support
consistently.
2072
01:14:00,010 --> 01:14:02,678
I love his positivity.
2073
01:14:02,762 --> 01:14:04,355
I think I already love him,
2074
01:14:04,514 --> 01:14:06,682
and that sounds crazy,
2075
01:14:06,766 --> 01:14:09,193
but we do seem like
we're both crazy.
2076
01:14:09,278 --> 01:14:11,028
[laughs]
2077
01:14:11,188 --> 01:14:12,688
- Stuck with me.
- Yeah.
2078
01:14:12,772 --> 01:14:13,856
- Forever.
- That's true.
2079
01:14:13,940 --> 01:14:15,867
Forever.
2080
01:14:15,951 --> 01:14:18,027
- You and the cats.
Team Litter Box.
2081
01:14:18,111 --> 01:14:20,779
- Ah, 'cause we're the [bleep].
2082
01:14:20,864 --> 01:14:23,616
- 'Cause we're the [bleep].
[laughter]
2083
01:14:23,700 --> 01:14:30,631
♪ ♪
2084
01:14:36,722 --> 01:14:39,298
- This feels awkward.
2085
01:14:39,382 --> 01:14:40,641
♪ ♪
2086
01:14:40,726 --> 01:14:42,393
I want to be happy
2087
01:14:42,478 --> 01:14:44,637
that we're on this honeymoon
2088
01:14:44,721 --> 01:14:47,640
because it is a dream of mine
to be married
2089
01:14:47,724 --> 01:14:48,891
and spend the rest of my life
with somebody,
2090
01:14:48,975 --> 01:14:51,152
but I'm stuck not knowing
2091
01:14:51,311 --> 01:14:53,571
if I should be trying
or not trying
2092
01:14:53,655 --> 01:14:55,323
in an effort
to try to make it work.
2093
01:14:55,407 --> 01:14:57,492
- Gorgeous.
2094
01:14:57,576 --> 01:14:59,068
Super pretty.
2095
01:14:59,161 --> 01:15:01,078
- It's gorgeous.
2096
01:15:01,163 --> 01:15:04,073
But do you wanna stay
in it, here?
2097
01:15:04,157 --> 01:15:07,335
♪ ♪
2098
01:15:07,419 --> 01:15:09,328
- I don't think
I feel comfortable
2099
01:15:09,412 --> 01:15:10,755
staying in the same room
with somebody,
2100
01:15:10,839 --> 01:15:13,508
like, that I don't know
very well.
2101
01:15:13,592 --> 01:15:16,669
- [laughs] Like, what?
2102
01:15:16,753 --> 01:15:17,836
♪ ♪
2103
01:15:17,921 --> 01:15:21,590
It's, I mean,
a ridiculous notion.
2104
01:15:21,675 --> 01:15:23,175
♪ ♪
2105
01:15:23,260 --> 01:15:26,262
We spent a total
of 40 minutes together,
2106
01:15:26,346 --> 01:15:27,355
and then you told me that
2107
01:15:27,439 --> 01:15:28,681
you didn't wanna stay
in the same room.
2108
01:15:28,774 --> 01:15:30,599
You told me that we
couldn't talk about it then.
2109
01:15:30,692 --> 01:15:31,767
I had to get the microphones
and cameras away
2110
01:15:31,851 --> 01:15:33,769
so that we could talk about it
at all.
2111
01:15:33,853 --> 01:15:36,447
I think that you've tapped out.
2112
01:15:36,532 --> 01:15:37,949
What frustrates me
2113
01:15:38,033 --> 01:15:39,867
is that there was never a point
2114
01:15:39,952 --> 01:15:41,694
in this process
where you've put in an effort.
2115
01:15:41,787 --> 01:15:43,120
I think you went into this
2116
01:15:43,280 --> 01:15:45,447
expecting the perfect person...
2117
01:15:45,532 --> 01:15:47,283
- I--no, I don't expect
the perfect person.
2118
01:15:47,376 --> 01:15:48,617
- And when you got somebody
that wasn't...
2119
01:15:48,702 --> 01:15:50,461
- No.
- You said, "I'm done.
2120
01:15:50,546 --> 01:15:51,787
I'm not even gonna take
any steps to learn something."
2121
01:15:51,880 --> 01:15:53,956
- Okay, but I'm telling you
that's not the case.
2122
01:15:54,049 --> 01:15:56,208
You know, I feel gypped,
2123
01:15:56,301 --> 01:15:59,804
you feel gypped,
and this sucks for both of us.
2124
01:15:59,888 --> 01:16:01,889
There has been nothing
but problems
2125
01:16:01,974 --> 01:16:04,800
from almost the second
that we met,
2126
01:16:04,893 --> 01:16:07,478
and there has been
nothing but differences
2127
01:16:07,563 --> 01:16:09,138
in our core values, beliefs,
everyday life,
2128
01:16:09,222 --> 01:16:11,816
personalities, and hobbies.
2129
01:16:11,900 --> 01:16:13,985
There's been nothing
but differences
2130
01:16:14,069 --> 01:16:15,903
in every way, shape, and form
2131
01:16:16,062 --> 01:16:18,906
in just, like, literally
every single thing
2132
01:16:18,991 --> 01:16:19,907
and just there's--
2133
01:16:20,066 --> 01:16:21,409
- All these things
keep happening,
2134
01:16:21,493 --> 01:16:22,901
and you're telling me that you
really gave this a chance?
2135
01:16:22,986 --> 01:16:25,070
- Yeah.
2136
01:16:25,155 --> 01:16:26,488
Do you think I'm lying?
2137
01:16:26,582 --> 01:16:27,832
[tense music]
2138
01:16:27,916 --> 01:16:29,241
- [sighs] Yeah.
2139
01:16:29,326 --> 01:16:31,160
♪ ♪
2140
01:16:31,244 --> 01:16:33,078
There was never
a point in this process
2141
01:16:33,163 --> 01:16:34,413
where you put in an effort.
2142
01:16:34,506 --> 01:16:35,748
I am at this--
- That's not true,
2143
01:16:35,832 --> 01:16:37,916
and I'm not gonna stand here
on camera
2144
01:16:38,010 --> 01:16:39,835
if he's gonna say that.
Mm-mm.
2145
01:16:39,919 --> 01:16:41,754
He just called me
a [bleep] liar.
2146
01:16:41,838 --> 01:16:45,933
♪ ♪
2147
01:16:49,846 --> 01:16:52,189
[dramatic music]
2148
01:16:52,274 --> 01:16:54,183
- I'm a nice person.
Just, like, be nice to me.
2149
01:16:54,267 --> 01:16:55,943
Like, why would you
just call me a liar?
2150
01:16:56,028 --> 01:16:58,613
You don't believe
that I don't feel comfortable
2151
01:16:58,697 --> 01:17:01,440
sleeping over with somebody
that I don't know?
2152
01:17:01,524 --> 01:17:03,442
And you said,
"Yeah, I think you're lying."
2153
01:17:03,526 --> 01:17:06,111
Every single time I say, okay,
2154
01:17:06,204 --> 01:17:07,872
I'm over this one thing
that I saw
2155
01:17:07,956 --> 01:17:09,198
or that I found out
or that I heard,
2156
01:17:09,282 --> 01:17:11,867
another thing happens.
2157
01:17:11,951 --> 01:17:14,462
Like, I find out
that you're saying something
2158
01:17:14,546 --> 01:17:16,964
to my family and my best friend,
2159
01:17:17,049 --> 01:17:18,799
it's not being respectful.
2160
01:17:18,884 --> 01:17:23,629
- She said
that she had some concerns,
2161
01:17:23,713 --> 01:17:25,056
that she doesn't think
we're compatible.
2162
01:17:25,140 --> 01:17:26,965
Like, she just wants
to be friends.
2163
01:17:27,050 --> 01:17:27,883
♪ ♪
2164
01:17:27,967 --> 01:17:29,727
- I would never do that to you,
2165
01:17:29,886 --> 01:17:30,219
and I didn't do that to you.
2166
01:17:30,303 --> 01:17:33,481
♪ ♪
2167
01:17:33,565 --> 01:17:35,557
- I wasn't gonna lie
to your mother and Taylor.
2168
01:17:35,651 --> 01:17:37,234
- But it's not lying.
2169
01:17:37,394 --> 01:17:38,894
- If they say,
"Hey, how's it going?"
2170
01:17:38,987 --> 01:17:40,896
How would I respond
to, "Hey, how's it going?
2171
01:17:40,980 --> 01:17:42,073
How was your wedding night?"
2172
01:17:42,232 --> 01:17:43,899
- Right, and you can say,
2173
01:17:43,992 --> 01:17:45,576
you know, it wasn't the best.
2174
01:17:45,735 --> 01:17:46,735
You're saying something
2175
01:17:46,820 --> 01:17:48,329
that was supposed
to be confidential.
2176
01:17:48,413 --> 01:17:51,407
I mean, this situation
isn't fun,
2177
01:17:51,500 --> 01:17:52,917
and it's not good.
2178
01:17:53,076 --> 01:17:55,419
Dude, we're not compatible.
2179
01:17:55,504 --> 01:17:57,088
- Will you--
- I don't wanna argue anymore.
2180
01:17:57,172 --> 01:17:59,423
Why don't we just stop and say
2181
01:17:59,508 --> 01:18:01,583
this isn't going to work
2182
01:18:01,677 --> 01:18:03,836
and be respectful?
2183
01:18:03,920 --> 01:18:06,013
- I do think, on paper,
2184
01:18:06,172 --> 01:18:07,423
we were compatible,
2185
01:18:07,516 --> 01:18:09,433
but I was paired with somebody
2186
01:18:09,518 --> 01:18:11,343
who it felt like had
zero interest in trying.
2187
01:18:11,428 --> 01:18:14,179
- I don't know
what's gonna happen this week.
2188
01:18:14,272 --> 01:18:16,348
I hope that you can be
respectful of me.
2189
01:18:16,433 --> 01:18:17,683
I really, really, hope,
2190
01:18:17,776 --> 01:18:19,694
because that is what
I give to you
2191
01:18:19,778 --> 01:18:21,520
and that's all that I want back.
2192
01:18:21,604 --> 01:18:23,856
It's gonna take time
for me to build--
2193
01:18:23,940 --> 01:18:27,443
Build back up to a place
where I think I can trust you
2194
01:18:27,536 --> 01:18:31,205
and where I hope that we
could sit in a conversation
2195
01:18:31,289 --> 01:18:34,291
and not have
disrespect involved.
2196
01:18:34,376 --> 01:18:36,627
- Okay, um...
2197
01:18:36,712 --> 01:18:38,963
at this point, I don't mind
going to another room,
2198
01:18:39,047 --> 01:18:41,540
give you space,
and go from there.
2199
01:18:41,624 --> 01:18:46,962
♪ ♪
2200
01:18:47,055 --> 01:18:49,882
I don't believe
that I disrespect Alyssa.
2201
01:18:49,966 --> 01:18:52,050
I think she may
be gaslighting me.
2202
01:18:52,144 --> 01:18:55,730
- ♪ What is,
what is the truth ♪
2203
01:18:55,889 --> 01:18:57,231
♪ ♪
2204
01:18:57,315 --> 01:18:58,974
- It's a pretty [bleep] feeling
2205
01:18:59,058 --> 01:19:01,143
to come into this process,
2206
01:19:01,236 --> 01:19:04,062
have somebody go through
an actual wedding with you,
2207
01:19:04,147 --> 01:19:05,489
and then at this point,
we've spent
2208
01:19:05,574 --> 01:19:08,400
not a whole lot of time
getting to know each other,
2209
01:19:08,485 --> 01:19:11,236
and she's already
written me off.
2210
01:19:11,321 --> 01:19:14,573
I'm frustrated.
2211
01:19:14,657 --> 01:19:15,741
I'm really frustrated.
2212
01:19:15,825 --> 01:19:20,421
♪ ♪
2213
01:19:20,580 --> 01:19:22,256
I'm still fighting with myself
2214
01:19:22,340 --> 01:19:24,249
over whether or not
any part of me
2215
01:19:24,334 --> 01:19:26,585
wants to still try to save
this marriage.
2216
01:19:26,669 --> 01:19:29,096
♪ ♪
2217
01:19:29,181 --> 01:19:30,923
- ♪ Got me spinning ♪
2218
01:19:31,007 --> 01:19:33,675
♪ Around and round ♪
2219
01:19:33,769 --> 01:19:35,436
♪ Flying through the air ♪
2220
01:19:35,595 --> 01:19:38,939
- How do you feel
like the day went?
2221
01:19:39,098 --> 01:19:42,443
- Rather than
the little incident we had
2222
01:19:42,602 --> 01:19:46,697
with Mark and Lindsey,
I think it was great.
2223
01:19:46,856 --> 01:19:48,690
But I do appreciate you
stepping up.
2224
01:19:48,784 --> 01:19:50,609
It was good to know
that my wife has my back
2225
01:19:50,693 --> 01:19:52,286
right off the jump.
- Mm-hmm.
2226
01:19:52,445 --> 01:19:54,112
- 'Cause I'ma have your back
no matter what.
2227
01:19:54,197 --> 01:19:56,207
You're like
a little mini Chihuahua
2228
01:19:56,291 --> 01:19:57,541
that you just don't
wanna play with.
2229
01:19:57,626 --> 01:19:58,951
That's what I feel like.
2230
01:19:59,044 --> 01:20:00,377
It felt good to know that,
you know, the love's real.
2231
01:20:00,462 --> 01:20:03,205
- I guess the reason why
I kinda, like, snapped on her
2232
01:20:03,289 --> 01:20:06,550
is because I don't like when
females bully other people.
2233
01:20:06,635 --> 01:20:09,970
Like, I think that on the low,
she's shady.
2234
01:20:10,055 --> 01:20:11,797
- Let's look past that
'cause we're not here for that.
2235
01:20:11,890 --> 01:20:12,973
- Okay.
- You dwell in that--
2236
01:20:13,132 --> 01:20:13,966
- I'm not dwelling.
2237
01:20:14,059 --> 01:20:15,217
- No, I'm saying.
I'm just saying.
2238
01:20:15,310 --> 01:20:17,061
If you do dwell in that,
when you're near her,
2239
01:20:17,145 --> 01:20:18,720
you're already
gonna be irritated,
2240
01:20:18,805 --> 01:20:19,980
so when she does something,
2241
01:20:20,139 --> 01:20:21,482
you're gonna just
go right at it.
2242
01:20:21,641 --> 01:20:24,068
This is about
Olajuwon and Katina
2243
01:20:24,152 --> 01:20:25,820
and their love for each other.
2244
01:20:25,979 --> 01:20:26,979
- Mm-hmm.
2245
01:20:27,063 --> 01:20:27,896
- And that's what we need
to focus on.
2246
01:20:27,989 --> 01:20:29,398
- Mm-hmm.
- And I think me and you
2247
01:20:29,491 --> 01:20:32,150
are gonna just get closer,
maybe we could break the wall.
2248
01:20:32,235 --> 01:20:33,819
- You think I have a wall?
2249
01:20:33,912 --> 01:20:35,246
- I think you ain't being, like,
2250
01:20:35,405 --> 01:20:37,155
all the way open with your boy.
2251
01:20:37,240 --> 01:20:39,083
♪ ♪
2252
01:20:39,242 --> 01:20:41,252
- Damn, you putting
pressure on me.
2253
01:20:41,411 --> 01:20:42,578
I'm not a stone wall.
2254
01:20:42,662 --> 01:20:44,755
I know that it's okay
for me to open up,
2255
01:20:44,914 --> 01:20:46,507
be vulnerable.
2256
01:20:46,666 --> 01:20:50,085
But it just takes me some time
to get there.
2257
01:20:50,169 --> 01:20:51,670
Like, we just met.
2258
01:20:51,754 --> 01:20:53,597
[laughs]
Um, but yeah.
2259
01:20:53,682 --> 01:20:56,851
On the honeymoon,
I definitely want us
2260
01:20:57,010 --> 01:20:59,761
to just get closer
and build our bond
2261
01:20:59,846 --> 01:21:01,939
so I could, like, trust him
2262
01:21:02,098 --> 01:21:03,599
and be vulnerable with him.
2263
01:21:03,692 --> 01:21:10,447
♪ ♪
2264
01:21:11,524 --> 01:21:13,033
- So why is it so scary
for you to be vulnerable?
2265
01:21:13,118 --> 01:21:15,277
- I think I'm just scared
of, like, being disappointed.
2266
01:21:15,361 --> 01:21:16,620
- You think I'ma disappoint you?
2267
01:21:16,705 --> 01:21:18,697
- I don't know.
People are people.
2268
01:21:18,781 --> 01:21:20,624
- Yeah, but there's not--
2269
01:21:20,709 --> 01:21:22,793
There's--people are people,
but I'm your husband.
2270
01:21:22,952 --> 01:21:24,295
- I know, but--
- That's different.
2271
01:21:24,379 --> 01:21:26,121
- I--I understand
you're my husband,
2272
01:21:26,205 --> 01:21:27,956
but still.
- You can't be scared.
2273
01:21:28,049 --> 01:21:31,135
- It's just like, I still
can't help being cautious.
2274
01:21:31,219 --> 01:21:34,630
I used to have, like,
a lot of "rope" for people.
2275
01:21:34,714 --> 01:21:37,474
So what that means is, like,
I would give, like,
2276
01:21:37,634 --> 01:21:40,811
a lot of like, chances, then
I would kinda, like, get burnt.
2277
01:21:40,896 --> 01:21:42,220
It's not that I'm not hopeful
2278
01:21:42,314 --> 01:21:44,148
and I don't give things chances.
2279
01:21:44,232 --> 01:21:45,983
It's just, I'm more on guard.
2280
01:21:46,067 --> 01:21:48,810
- Don't let what people--
How they mistreated you...
2281
01:21:48,904 --> 01:21:49,653
- Mm-hmm.
2282
01:21:49,738 --> 01:21:51,739
- Dictate our future because
2283
01:21:51,823 --> 01:21:54,232
this man, who's your husband,
will cherish you.
2284
01:21:54,317 --> 01:21:55,567
- Mm-hmm.
2285
01:21:55,652 --> 01:21:56,994
- And maybe you're scared
because I told you that
2286
01:21:57,078 --> 01:21:58,070
that's who I used to be.
2287
01:21:58,154 --> 01:21:59,905
I would never try
to manipulate you.
2288
01:21:59,989 --> 01:22:00,831
You're my wife.
2289
01:22:00,990 --> 01:22:02,666
- Mm-hmm.
- Wife, wife, wife.
2290
01:22:02,751 --> 01:22:06,828
Please don't think
or misunderstood that--
2291
01:22:06,913 --> 01:22:08,330
How I treated women in the past,
2292
01:22:08,414 --> 01:22:10,749
like, this is nothing like that.
2293
01:22:10,833 --> 01:22:13,677
- I could tell that when
he talks about his past,
2294
01:22:13,836 --> 01:22:15,587
he's--it's not a proud moment
for him,
2295
01:22:15,680 --> 01:22:17,923
but, like, realistically,
2296
01:22:18,007 --> 01:22:19,516
people can't change overnight,
2297
01:22:19,601 --> 01:22:23,095
so it is a thought
that I can get hurt
2298
01:22:23,179 --> 01:22:25,347
if and when my feelings
start to get deeper.
2299
01:22:25,431 --> 01:22:27,015
- I believe that we could
do this forever
2300
01:22:27,100 --> 01:22:28,776
if we just really have faith
2301
01:22:28,935 --> 01:22:31,445
and we put everything
and our heart into this.
2302
01:22:31,529 --> 01:22:33,364
You know what I'm saying?
- Mm-hmm. I don't know.
2303
01:22:33,523 --> 01:22:36,608
I just am good with moving
with, like, caution sometimes.
2304
01:22:36,693 --> 01:22:41,446
♪ ♪
2305
01:22:41,531 --> 01:22:42,539
- Whoo!
2306
01:22:42,699 --> 01:22:44,792
- ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh ♪
2307
01:22:44,876 --> 01:22:47,035
- Next time on
"Married at First Sight"...
2308
01:22:47,128 --> 01:22:48,879
- ♪ Hey ♪
2309
01:22:48,964 --> 01:22:50,372
- Off he goes.
2310
01:22:50,456 --> 01:22:50,789
- Whoo.
- [laughs]
2311
01:22:50,873 --> 01:22:52,716
♪ ♪
2312
01:22:52,875 --> 01:22:53,801
- ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh ♪
2313
01:22:53,885 --> 01:22:55,719
- I feel like
I'm falling in love.
2314
01:22:55,804 --> 01:22:57,304
- Like, I love him.
He's the one, that's it.
2315
01:22:57,389 --> 01:22:59,131
- You love him?
[bleep].
2316
01:22:59,215 --> 01:23:01,216
- You offer me another woman,
why would I not?
2317
01:23:01,300 --> 01:23:02,226
[music winds down]
2318
01:23:02,385 --> 01:23:03,885
- Don't bring that stuff
over here.
2319
01:23:03,970 --> 01:23:05,229
It's not happening.
2320
01:23:05,313 --> 01:23:07,723
- I didn't know the true
consequences of my actions.
2321
01:23:07,807 --> 01:23:09,975
- It's like,
you're already putting doubt.
2322
01:23:10,059 --> 01:23:12,903
- You want me to apologize
to you how you want me to.
2323
01:23:13,062 --> 01:23:15,147
I'm not going to do that.
2324
01:23:15,240 --> 01:23:17,399
- You are very here,
which is saying something.
2325
01:23:17,483 --> 01:23:18,984
Just--no matter what.
2326
01:23:19,077 --> 01:23:20,652
- So are you in or are you out?
There's no in between for me.
2327
01:23:20,737 --> 01:23:23,247
Why would we have consummated
our marriage?
2328
01:23:23,406 --> 01:23:25,741
Like, come on, dude.
You're so stupid.
2329
01:23:25,834 --> 01:23:28,076
- When you get liquored, don't
cast that on other people.
2330
01:23:28,161 --> 01:23:29,327
You're way too old for that.
2331
01:23:29,412 --> 01:23:31,338
- That's really rude.
- 'Cause you're rude.
2332
01:23:31,423 --> 01:23:32,831
- That's not okay.
2333
01:23:32,915 --> 01:23:34,082
- It's [bleep] raining.
2334
01:23:34,167 --> 01:23:35,592
I don't wanna [bleep]
go swimming with him.
2335
01:23:35,752 --> 01:23:37,586
Like, I--I'm not happy.
2336
01:23:37,679 --> 01:23:39,680
♪ ♪