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- Tonight,
the "Married At First Sight"
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Houston reunion continues.
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The entire cast has returned
to talk about
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what really happened
during their time on the show.
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- I made an agreement
with my wife
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that we would talk
about things off camera first.
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- And catch us up
on what has happened
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since the cameras went away.
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- I sold everything
that I owned.
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- Last time,
on part one of the reunion,
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we caught up
with several couples.
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There were some
shocking revelations
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that we didn't see coming.
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- I met someone
and exchanged numbers.
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- We did break up.
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- What?
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- Myrla decided she didn't want
to be with me anymore.
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- And some deep issues
that still need to be resolved.
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- I was just feeling
so exhausted
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from the constant bickering.
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- We are just not
for each other.
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- I was blindsided.
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- I completely got played.
- What?
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- Tonight, we'll meet
with our last remaining couple
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as they revisit the past.
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- I did feel like a broken man.
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- I think it's mean
and unwarranted.
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- Who are you, really?
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- And contemplate their future.
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- Are you back dating yet?
- I am.
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- I found my happiness.
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- Plus, the experts
will be joining me...
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- Jose, I've seen some anger
in you that needs
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to be professionally addressed.
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- I didn't shed one teardrop
this whole experience,
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and I can't even
control myself right now.
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- Nothing is off limits.
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- I believe you made
rash decisions based on fear.
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- Does this marriage
have a shot?
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- Do you understand why Johnny
would call you fake?
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- We'll pick up right
where we left off.
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- The only way to really
make sense of this
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is to have her come out here
because right now I feel like
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she's one of
the great pathological liars.
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- It's actually pretty
insane [bleep] she was saying.
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- I'm going in there.
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- And the fact she wanted this,
so this is what she got, so...
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- As the
"Married at First Sight"
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Houston reunion continues.
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This is the "Married at
First Sight" Houston reunion.
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- ♪ There's no other way ♪
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♪ It's all or nothing ♪
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- Okay.
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Zack, let me ask you this,
let me ask you this.
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On your one month anniversary
that night,
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were you intimate with Michaela?
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- No! Hell, no. No!
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- And he said that
he would deny it.
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- I got you, man, like,
I wasn't kissing her before,
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and I'm not kissing her after
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so I'm not going to kiss
on our one month anniversary.
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- On your one-month anniversary
you didn't even kiss her?
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- No.
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- See? He said that he was
going to deny it.
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He's lying, right there.
Another lie.
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- The only way to really
make sense of this
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is to have her come out here,
because right now I feel like
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she's one of
the great pathological liars.
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- It's actually pretty insane
[bleep] she was saying.
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- Let's clear it all up.
- No, I'm tired of this.
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Like, I'm done.
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- If he wants to call me out
on my lies
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he can do it to my face.
- It's so insane.
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That [bleep] like--
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Obviously you're not
thinking straight.
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- I'm going in there.
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- And in fact, she wanted this,
so this is what she got, so...
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[dramatic music]
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It's on her.
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- Let's unpack this.
- Everything I said was true.
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If you really want
to talk to Michaela,
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you can have my number.
You can unblock me.
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- Zack, I really do wish
the best for you. I mean--
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- Michaela, how you doing?
- Okay, first of all--
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See, stop--
See, this is--no, no, no.
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Stop, stop, stop, stop, stop.
Because she had time alone,
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so now you got to give me
my time alone.
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I'm not participating in this
[bleep] anymore.
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- No, no. Zack.
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Hold on for one--
Hold up--hold on, listen.
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- Hey guys, come on, I'm not
even going to entertain it.
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- This is high school [bleep]
I don't have time for.
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- Couldn't you tell her that?
- We can do this off camera.
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The cameras can please leave,
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because I don't want this
to be a scene.
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This is not fair to me.
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I wanted this
to be cool and chill,
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but you couldn't do that
so now it's my turn to talk.
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- Please.
Thank you. Damn.
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- Okay, Zack, hey,
I'ma give you your time.
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I'm going to give you your time.
Let's move on.
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Did Michaela, after Decision
Day, move in with you?
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- Hell no.
So that's not what happened.
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- Did she stay with you?
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- Let me tell you what happened
there, after Decision Day.
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We got into it because
of how Decision Day went
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and so we're walking
in the street.
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We get in an argument,
and she's kind of like
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yelling at me.
In this moment, I'm done.
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I'm not even trying to be
friends with you after this.
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I'm done, okay?
So we drive back in her car.
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I'm driving
because she's kind of tipsy.
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And she's like
"Let me get out the car.
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I'm getting out
the car now."
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Like, she hits her, like, door
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and so she breaks the window
in her car
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and then she tells me that she--
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Something happened at work,
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so I am not going to abandon
Michaela in this moment.
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So I say, cool, stay with me.
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End of this week,
we're going to part ways.
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And so we got intimate
during those four days.
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- Wait, wait, so you felt like,
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"If I have sex with her,
it'll help her."
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- No, no, I felt like
I was just--
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I kept rejecting her
and it felt like--
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I felt bad,
I didn't know what to do.
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That's what happened.
- Do you feel like--
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And can you understand where
she could have been confused?
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- No.
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- Where she was sitting
at the table saying I love you
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and you say
flowery things to her--
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You don't think it doesn't
register with her--
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- Nah, you misinterpreted--
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- She sits there and says
I love you?
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- I don't believe Michaela
when she says that. I don't.
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I really don't to this day
believe that she loves me.
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I don't understand that,
but I'm not leading her on.
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I'm not saying these things
that like makes it clear
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this is going to work
because at the same time,
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I'm getting scolded
by Dr. Pepper
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about like-- what'd she say?
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Forecasting the future.
Like, I would say,
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"this is probably not
going to work out."
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But now you're telling me
I'm leading her on?
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- I mean, Zack, let's be honest.
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You said glowing things
about her.
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- Outside of my mom,
you are the most amazing woman
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that I know.
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I actually see today
as a beginning for us.
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The beginning of something
new and something better.
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I'm willing to see
where this goes.
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- You said she was a great woman
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and that you were in this
relationship to make it work.
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- True!
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- And also, Michaela says
you played her.
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- That's so funny, dog.
I don't know what that means.
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Like, what did you mean,
play her?
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- That you played
on her feelings.
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That you played on her feelings
knowing that, you know,
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she was in love or at least
in very heavy like with you--
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- So I played her, to get what?
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To do what?
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Michaela,
what are you talking about?
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Text me what you mean by that
'cause it makes no sense to me.
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- Ask him if all that--
If I can come in.
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- Why can't y'all be cordial now
and just sit out there then,
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if you want to be cordial?
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- No I was--oh, my God,
I was so happy to do that,
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but then hearing
what she was saying, she said
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that I was the only one
that didn't want the cameras on
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so I can act a different way
when the cameras are off.
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- 'Cause he can't--
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- I'm not going to get
in no argument with her on TV.
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I'm tired of it.
Like, I'm done.
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- Okay.
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- But what you're saying
is she is--
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Those are--
She is fabricating this story.
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- Yeah, like, it was insane.
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- And so you didn't tell her,
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don't talk about
y'all being intimate.
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- No!
How does that make any sense?
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Like, make it make sense to me.
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- Basically you're saying
you don't trust her reaction.
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- Yeah, no, I definitely don't.
No, I don't.
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I just don't want to have
anymore trivial,
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childish conversations
about who said what,
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who did what, what happened
to this, who said this.
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I can't do that anymore, Kevin.
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And in fact she wanted this,
so this is what she got.
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- We 100% asked her.
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We said hey,
you need to sit down with Zack
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and y'all need to sit down
like cordial adults.
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- And that time has passed when
I heard what she was saying.
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- But did you agree to the plan
that she would talk,
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you would talk, and then y'all
would talk together?
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- I came in this really happy
to sit next to her,
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talk about it, laugh at clips,
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and that could not happen,
so no.
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- Okay.
All right, let's move on.
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How long before
you will date again?
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- I don't know.
Hopefully soon, man.
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Like, I want to.
Like, you know, I love love.
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I want to find, you know,
that perfect person
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but I'm just focused
on me right now.
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I don't know about
the marriage thing anymore.
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- Oh, Zackary.
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- Wait a minute,
this soured you on marriage?
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- Yes, it definitely--
- Zack!
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- I don't know because
I still want the marriage,
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but I'm questioning it now.
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I definitely want kids so
no matter what, I'm having kids.
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- Listen, I wish that
you and Michaela
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could have had a chance to talk
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but I feel like you did
in a way communicate.
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- Yeah.
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- And that, you know, you've had
a chance to say your piece.
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- Yeah.
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- And the healthiest thing
you can do now is move on
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and I feel like
she's moved on too.
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Has she moved on?
- Yeah, I think she's moved on.
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I hope she's moved on.
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You know, Michaela,
you're looking nice.
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You know, I do not think
you're a bad person.
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I really never thought
you were a bad person.
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I just thought that
we just didn't work together.
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I know it's going to be tough
to watch this [bleep],
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and I will always be here
for you, like, I mean that.
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Like, I will always
be here for you.
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If you call me if you need
something, I got you.
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- Listen, Zack.
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I really do wish the best
for you, man,
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- I appreciate that.
- And I can understand.
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This process can be tough,
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because people don't realize
it's legal, it's binding.
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It's the real deal.
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You're married to someone,
so listen,
243
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I commend you
for going through the process,
244
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wish you the best going forward,
all right?
245
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- All right. Thanks, Kevin.
- Take care, man.
246
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All right, we'll see you
in a little while.
247
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Now, let's just keep
this train moving.
248
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I don't think anyone could have
predicted the trajectory
249
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this next couple took
when they became man and wife.
250
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A step forward was always
followed by ten steps backward.
251
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Bao and Johnny,
how are you doing?
252
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Good to see you.
253
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- Good to see you.
- Good to see you, Kevin.
254
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- I think I speak
for the audience when I say
255
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that it was a shock
256
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and a disappointment
that things didn't work out.
257
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You seemed like a perfect match.
258
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Bao, would you agree with that?
259
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- I don't agree with that.
- No, why not?
260
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- I mean, there are some
fundamental differences.
261
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A lot of similarities
but also a lot of differences.
262
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I feel like in some ways
we were very similar in ways
263
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that were not complementary,
so that's how I feel.
264
00:09:10,374 --> 00:09:12,458
- Do you think there was
no way that over time,
265
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it could have gotten better?
266
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- Well, during the time
of the experiment, I don't feel
267
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that we both understood
each other well enough.
268
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- Johnny, you said
ahead of this experience,
269
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you could never have
envisioned a marriage
270
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that would have so many
ups and downs.
271
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Were you surprised
by the ups and downs?
272
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- I was.
273
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I was very surprised by how
many ups and downs we had.
274
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I guess I've always had
this very ideal image
275
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of what marriage would be.
276
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I came in hoping for that,
277
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and I think my expectations
were unrealistic.
278
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- Bao, how are you doing now?
279
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- I'm good now.
280
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I mean, it's done, right,
and I'm happy.
281
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- Are you happy because
you're out of your marriage?
282
00:09:47,503 --> 00:09:49,504
- Some part of it, yeah.
Honestly.
283
00:09:49,589 --> 00:09:50,839
- Johnny, how are you doing now?
284
00:09:50,998 --> 00:09:52,415
- I'm doing good.
285
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It's kind of like
I've left this marriage
286
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maybe with a divorce,
287
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but with a good group of people
that I really care about
288
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and I enjoy hanging out with.
289
00:10:00,349 --> 00:10:02,017
- Have you guys
had any interactions
290
00:10:02,176 --> 00:10:03,268
in the last few months?
291
00:10:03,427 --> 00:10:05,845
- I've seen her at these
mutual kind of events
292
00:10:05,938 --> 00:10:06,846
that we go to.
293
00:10:06,930 --> 00:10:09,098
So when the whole cast meets up,
294
00:10:09,183 --> 00:10:11,017
I'll see her, but otherwise no.
295
00:10:11,101 --> 00:10:13,194
- Mm-mm.
- Okay, look.
296
00:10:13,354 --> 00:10:14,771
I know it was a bumpy ride,
297
00:10:14,855 --> 00:10:16,939
but there were
some positive moments.
298
00:10:17,033 --> 00:10:18,775
What good memories
do you have, Bao?
299
00:10:18,859 --> 00:10:21,861
- Oh, there's a lot
of good memories.
300
00:10:21,945 --> 00:10:23,863
Our wedding was beautiful.
301
00:10:23,947 --> 00:10:24,947
Still to this day,
302
00:10:25,041 --> 00:10:26,958
one of the happiest days
of my life.
303
00:10:27,043 --> 00:10:31,371
Our first month anniversary
was so much fun.
304
00:10:31,455 --> 00:10:33,381
I feel like there were
a lot of great memories.
305
00:10:33,466 --> 00:10:35,124
- Johnny, how about you?
306
00:10:35,209 --> 00:10:37,636
- Yeah, we had so many
good moments.
307
00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:39,128
You know, like, we'd be given
homework assignments
308
00:10:39,213 --> 00:10:41,139
from the experts,
and those were super fun.
309
00:10:41,223 --> 00:10:43,216
And for some reason
it always seemed like it came
310
00:10:43,300 --> 00:10:45,226
at the best possible moment,
311
00:10:45,311 --> 00:10:46,561
where we were like
on our way down
312
00:10:46,646 --> 00:10:49,305
and it was like a pick-me-up.
313
00:10:49,398 --> 00:10:50,815
And those moments
I'll never forget.
314
00:10:50,900 --> 00:10:52,484
- It's funny you mention
the homework assignments,
315
00:10:52,568 --> 00:10:55,320
because one of the fun moments
between you two
316
00:10:55,479 --> 00:10:58,481
was the sexy dice game
assigned by Dr. Viviana.
317
00:10:58,574 --> 00:11:00,909
Bao, you got the nurse's outfit
and all.
318
00:11:00,993 --> 00:11:02,077
[laughter]
You guys had fun.
319
00:11:02,236 --> 00:11:03,569
- It was fun. That was fun.
320
00:11:03,663 --> 00:11:06,572
- What we didn't see is how far
the roleplaying went.
321
00:11:06,657 --> 00:11:08,416
I want y'all to watch.
- Oh, God.
322
00:11:08,501 --> 00:11:10,585
Hello, Johnny and Bao.
323
00:11:10,670 --> 00:11:12,578
You are receiving this basket
324
00:11:12,663 --> 00:11:14,839
because I want you
to have fun together.
325
00:11:14,998 --> 00:11:15,998
Dr. Viviana.
326
00:11:16,092 --> 00:11:17,842
- All right.
- Oh, I'm so excited.
327
00:11:18,001 --> 00:11:20,178
♪ ♪
328
00:11:20,262 --> 00:11:21,763
[laughter]
329
00:11:21,922 --> 00:11:24,599
- How's it look?
Hey, it fits.
330
00:11:24,758 --> 00:11:26,184
All right, well, I'm here.
331
00:11:26,268 --> 00:11:28,094
- I've never seen a more
handsome patient.
332
00:11:28,187 --> 00:11:30,855
- What would you do if you were
giving me a physical exam?
333
00:11:31,014 --> 00:11:32,440
- Hmm.
334
00:11:32,599 --> 00:11:33,933
I'd bend you over.
- Do it.
335
00:11:34,026 --> 00:11:37,529
- So is this where the tension
is, in your lower back?
336
00:11:37,688 --> 00:11:38,771
- Maybe.
337
00:11:38,864 --> 00:11:40,865
- Bear with me, patient.
338
00:11:41,024 --> 00:11:42,358
Oh, no.
339
00:11:42,451 --> 00:11:44,953
Your heart rate
seems to be elevated.
340
00:11:45,112 --> 00:11:46,112
[sultry music]
341
00:11:46,205 --> 00:11:47,539
- Yes?
- Mm-hmm.
342
00:11:47,623 --> 00:11:50,375
- [groans]
343
00:11:50,534 --> 00:11:53,044
This is my favorite part of you
right here.
344
00:11:53,129 --> 00:11:54,787
- [laughs]
345
00:11:54,872 --> 00:11:56,038
- I like grabbing onto this
right here.
346
00:11:56,123 --> 00:11:57,632
- Right here? Right here?
- About right here.
347
00:11:57,717 --> 00:11:59,792
- This thing right here,
the rump?
348
00:11:59,885 --> 00:12:03,880
I like when you grab it, too.
You should grab it more.
349
00:12:03,973 --> 00:12:06,966
I feel like this exercise
was much needed.
350
00:12:07,050 --> 00:12:08,634
- Cheers.
- Cheers.
351
00:12:08,719 --> 00:12:11,304
- That was a great massage.
352
00:12:11,388 --> 00:12:12,647
- Maybe later I can
remove these pants.
353
00:12:12,732 --> 00:12:14,899
[laughs]
354
00:12:19,313 --> 00:12:22,648
Nutso.
- Wow.
355
00:12:22,742 --> 00:12:24,650
- You two looked like
you were having a lot of fun,
356
00:12:24,735 --> 00:12:25,485
and you enjoyed yourself.
357
00:12:25,578 --> 00:12:26,986
- Yes, that was a great night.
358
00:12:27,070 --> 00:12:31,374
I remember afterwards, dude,
that was good times.
359
00:12:34,003 --> 00:12:35,411
Stop you guys r
360
00:12:35,496 --> 00:12:36,755
- Welcome back to the "Married
at First Sight" reunion.
361
00:12:36,839 --> 00:12:38,581
I'm here with Johnny and Bao.
Lots more to cover.
362
00:12:38,674 --> 00:12:40,249
I just want to pick up
where we left off
363
00:12:40,334 --> 00:12:42,093
because there's so much
to discuss.
364
00:12:42,178 --> 00:12:44,929
So, Bao, when did things
go south for you?
365
00:12:45,088 --> 00:12:47,682
- That's honestly very hard
for me to pinpoint,
366
00:12:47,767 --> 00:12:49,768
because I do feel like
I wanted it to work.
367
00:12:49,927 --> 00:12:51,352
I mean, I was like,
"This needs to work.
368
00:12:51,437 --> 00:12:53,021
This has to work."
I mean, I just don't know
369
00:12:53,105 --> 00:12:56,682
exactly when it fell off
for me, but it did.
370
00:12:56,767 --> 00:12:58,684
- But was there a time
you felt unprotected,
371
00:12:58,769 --> 00:13:00,445
or you felt like--
- Oh, from the beginning,
372
00:13:00,604 --> 00:13:02,614
I felt like
I was being judged early on.
373
00:13:02,698 --> 00:13:04,532
I definitely felt
way more anxious
374
00:13:04,617 --> 00:13:06,701
than I normally am
in a secure relationship.
375
00:13:06,786 --> 00:13:09,704
But I figured, you know,
you might have some obstacles,
376
00:13:09,789 --> 00:13:11,531
but that doesn't mean
like a few obstacles
377
00:13:11,624 --> 00:13:14,793
is going to ruin your marriage
if you don't let it.
378
00:13:14,877 --> 00:13:16,878
- Johnny, when did it
go south for you?
379
00:13:16,962 --> 00:13:19,714
- I don't know. I don't know.
380
00:13:19,799 --> 00:13:23,551
I think it might have been
around, right before we talked
381
00:13:23,636 --> 00:13:27,138
to Dr. Pepper
and Pastor Cal, separately.
382
00:13:27,223 --> 00:13:28,973
Because I remember I went
into that conversation
383
00:13:29,058 --> 00:13:30,216
wanting to tell Dr. Pepper
384
00:13:30,309 --> 00:13:32,969
like,
"I'm done."
385
00:13:33,053 --> 00:13:36,472
And then she changed my mind and
then we had that conversation
386
00:13:36,557 --> 00:13:38,975
at the coffee shop
where you came in,
387
00:13:39,068 --> 00:13:41,152
and I felt like your tone
was more,
388
00:13:41,237 --> 00:13:42,478
like, you had talked
to Pastor Cal.
389
00:13:42,571 --> 00:13:45,323
And you guys were
not optimistic, I guess.
390
00:13:45,482 --> 00:13:47,149
And that didn't sit well
with me for a while.
391
00:13:47,234 --> 00:13:48,576
So I remember
I didn't sleep that night.
392
00:13:48,661 --> 00:13:50,328
I think that was the point where
393
00:13:50,412 --> 00:13:51,996
I felt like
we couldn't turn back.
394
00:13:52,081 --> 00:13:53,406
- We're going to take a look
real quick
395
00:13:53,490 --> 00:13:55,500
at some of the tougher times
in your relationship.
396
00:13:55,659 --> 00:13:56,909
Watch this.
397
00:13:56,994 --> 00:13:59,170
- So like controlling,
manipulative, calculating,
398
00:13:59,329 --> 00:14:00,913
like, I don't want that
in a wife.
399
00:14:00,998 --> 00:14:02,999
[sighs]
400
00:14:03,083 --> 00:14:05,084
- His 100% is different
from my 100%.
401
00:14:05,177 --> 00:14:06,419
That should be okay.
402
00:14:06,503 --> 00:14:09,013
- [screams]
- He asked me to put 100% in.
403
00:14:09,098 --> 00:14:10,423
- [bleep]!
404
00:14:10,507 --> 00:14:12,508
♪ ♪
405
00:14:12,593 --> 00:14:14,644
- What's wrong?
406
00:14:18,348 --> 00:14:19,265
- Me too.
407
00:14:19,349 --> 00:14:20,525
♪ ♪
408
00:14:21,685 --> 00:14:28,024
♪ ♪
409
00:14:28,108 --> 00:14:29,284
This is insane.
This is incredible.
410
00:14:29,368 --> 00:14:31,110
- Why are you blowing up?
- This is incredible.
411
00:14:31,203 --> 00:14:32,787
- Why are you blowing up?
We're just talking.
412
00:14:32,872 --> 00:14:34,789
- Hold on, hold on, hold on.
- We're just talking.
413
00:14:34,948 --> 00:14:37,125
- I want to say so many things.
414
00:14:37,209 --> 00:14:39,294
- Then say them, please,
415
00:14:39,378 --> 00:14:40,962
so I can understand
what you're thinking.
416
00:14:41,046 --> 00:14:43,047
- Look.
Look, Bao.
417
00:14:43,132 --> 00:14:45,291
- Because I don't right now.
- Oh, God.
418
00:14:45,375 --> 00:14:46,876
♪ ♪
419
00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:48,461
- What did you want
to say, Johnny?
420
00:14:48,545 --> 00:14:51,139
♪ ♪
421
00:14:51,223 --> 00:14:53,808
- There are so many things
that I would love to say.
422
00:14:53,893 --> 00:14:55,134
[laughs]
423
00:14:55,218 --> 00:14:56,969
♪ ♪
424
00:14:57,054 --> 00:14:59,898
One thing I'll say
during the entire process,
425
00:15:00,057 --> 00:15:03,059
this social experiment,
this marriage, journey,
426
00:15:03,143 --> 00:15:04,319
whatever you want to call it,
427
00:15:04,403 --> 00:15:07,906
is that I felt like
I could not speak my mind.
428
00:15:07,990 --> 00:15:09,490
- Why not?
429
00:15:09,650 --> 00:15:11,743
- Because very early on, I made
an agreement with my wife
430
00:15:11,827 --> 00:15:16,155
that we would talk
about things off-camera first.
431
00:15:16,239 --> 00:15:17,415
♪ ♪
432
00:15:17,499 --> 00:15:22,328
Bao very early told me
she had social anxiety.
433
00:15:22,412 --> 00:15:24,672
And so we ended up having a lot
of conversations off-camera.
434
00:15:24,831 --> 00:15:28,167
And we had a lot of moments
in our relationship off-camera.
435
00:15:28,260 --> 00:15:30,595
I, really, looking back, wished
that we had not done that.
436
00:15:30,679 --> 00:15:32,672
Because...
437
00:15:32,765 --> 00:15:35,007
♪ ♪
438
00:15:35,092 --> 00:15:37,343
There's so much missing.
[chuckles]
439
00:15:37,436 --> 00:15:39,345
- Like what, Johnny?
I mean, give us some insight.
440
00:15:39,429 --> 00:15:42,098
♪ ♪
441
00:15:42,182 --> 00:15:44,684
- Say it.
Whatever it is on your mind.
442
00:15:44,768 --> 00:15:46,611
♪ ♪
443
00:15:46,695 --> 00:15:48,196
What were we talking
about off-camera
444
00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:50,523
that was so different?
445
00:15:50,607 --> 00:15:51,941
♪ ♪
446
00:15:52,025 --> 00:15:53,526
I'll volunteer something.
447
00:15:53,619 --> 00:15:55,036
♪ ♪
448
00:15:55,120 --> 00:16:00,700
I didn't want to talk about
our sex life with the world.
449
00:16:00,793 --> 00:16:03,035
I wanted to be sure
that we were on the same page
450
00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:04,620
about how much we share
about our sex life,
451
00:16:04,705 --> 00:16:10,376
because I am worried about how
that comes off with my family.
452
00:16:10,460 --> 00:16:13,546
I mean, I care about my career,
and I'll admit,
453
00:16:13,630 --> 00:16:15,214
I'll own up to that.
454
00:16:15,298 --> 00:16:17,216
Like, I do care about that
but I don't think
455
00:16:17,300 --> 00:16:22,230
that's wrong or like calculating
or like duplicitous of me.
456
00:16:22,389 --> 00:16:25,725
I still wouldn't want to air
all of my laundry out there
457
00:16:25,809 --> 00:16:28,394
to everybody because
I feel like that's something
458
00:16:28,487 --> 00:16:32,565
we should keep
in our relationship as private.
459
00:16:32,658 --> 00:16:37,319
- Did you hide when you
consummated your marriage?
460
00:16:37,413 --> 00:16:39,998
- Yeah, we did.
That's the honest truth.
461
00:16:40,082 --> 00:16:42,408
We did. I wanted us to be
on the same page
462
00:16:42,492 --> 00:16:45,503
about when we would come out
about our sex life,
463
00:16:45,662 --> 00:16:47,588
and I wasn't ready.
I just wasn't ready.
464
00:16:47,673 --> 00:16:48,673
- Her perspective is one way.
465
00:16:48,757 --> 00:16:49,757
My perspective
is a different way.
466
00:16:49,842 --> 00:16:52,343
This is just my opinion.
467
00:16:52,502 --> 00:16:53,586
I think she needs
to present herself
468
00:16:53,670 --> 00:16:57,673
a certain way
to make herself look good.
469
00:16:57,758 --> 00:16:59,100
- Like what? Give examples.
470
00:16:59,259 --> 00:17:00,760
Because I feel like
471
00:17:00,844 --> 00:17:03,262
if that were 100% true
what you're saying,
472
00:17:03,346 --> 00:17:05,606
I wouldn't open up about
deep vulnerabilities,
473
00:17:05,691 --> 00:17:08,192
like I had opened up with you,
474
00:17:08,277 --> 00:17:10,445
and then I felt judged
for those things.
475
00:17:10,604 --> 00:17:12,363
- By me?
- Yeah.
476
00:17:12,448 --> 00:17:14,615
- That's not my intent.
- Bao, do you understand
477
00:17:14,775 --> 00:17:18,444
why Johnny would call you fake,
478
00:17:18,528 --> 00:17:21,873
or at least toss
that characterization on you?
479
00:17:21,957 --> 00:17:24,283
- No, I don't.
480
00:17:24,367 --> 00:17:26,786
I mean, I think
it's mean and unwarranted.
481
00:17:26,879 --> 00:17:29,789
♪ ♪
482
00:17:29,882 --> 00:17:31,966
- Have you ever planned
a conversation for the show?
483
00:17:32,051 --> 00:17:34,376
- No!
484
00:17:34,461 --> 00:17:37,472
When you say
"planned a conversation,"
485
00:17:37,556 --> 00:17:39,140
like when you plan to go
into a serious talk?
486
00:17:39,224 --> 00:17:40,549
Yes, I will plan those things,
487
00:17:40,642 --> 00:17:42,226
because those are serious talks.
488
00:17:42,311 --> 00:17:44,470
Do you not?
- I don't.
489
00:17:44,554 --> 00:17:45,813
- You just wing
every single talk
490
00:17:45,972 --> 00:17:49,642
we have that's serious,
that needs to be considered?
491
00:17:49,726 --> 00:17:51,152
But I don't think that
that makes me fake.
492
00:17:51,311 --> 00:17:54,146
- I signed up for this being
very comfortable with who I am,
493
00:17:54,239 --> 00:17:55,981
and being very comfortable
with being filmed.
494
00:17:56,066 --> 00:17:59,318
I wanted my--
I wanted our entire love story
495
00:17:59,411 --> 00:18:01,487
to be captured,
and what ended up happening
496
00:18:01,571 --> 00:18:03,748
was a lot of things
ended up off camera
497
00:18:03,832 --> 00:18:06,250
because I did bend to you.
498
00:18:06,409 --> 00:18:08,077
Like, you told me
you had social anxiety,
499
00:18:08,161 --> 00:18:09,411
and you didn't want to have
500
00:18:09,496 --> 00:18:11,255
all these intimate moments
on camera.
501
00:18:11,340 --> 00:18:12,423
And I did that.
What ends up happening
502
00:18:12,582 --> 00:18:16,344
is that so much of our story
is not there.
503
00:18:16,428 --> 00:18:18,170
- I'm protective of my family.
504
00:18:18,255 --> 00:18:19,672
My family didn't
want to be filmed.
505
00:18:19,756 --> 00:18:22,600
So it's like, okay, let's meet
with them, reassure them,
506
00:18:22,684 --> 00:18:23,768
talk with them,
and then have them
507
00:18:23,927 --> 00:18:26,104
feel comfortable
about what we can talk about
508
00:18:26,188 --> 00:18:28,689
and what is off limits,
and I think it's fair.
509
00:18:28,774 --> 00:18:29,941
- Johnny, what's so bad
about that? I'm trying to--
510
00:18:30,025 --> 00:18:31,692
- I mean,
what's fake about that?
511
00:18:31,777 --> 00:18:32,935
- I think to me is just the--
512
00:18:33,019 --> 00:18:34,862
Kind of my approach
when I came into here,
513
00:18:35,021 --> 00:18:37,606
I came into this process
getting married at first sight
514
00:18:37,691 --> 00:18:39,117
just very comfortable
with who I am.
515
00:18:39,201 --> 00:18:40,952
Like, I don't need
to pre-plan anything
516
00:18:41,036 --> 00:18:42,870
and I know
it didn't work for her.
517
00:18:42,955 --> 00:18:45,456
But I think the only time
I really got the real Bao,
518
00:18:45,541 --> 00:18:46,958
is every time
I caught her off-guard.
519
00:18:47,117 --> 00:18:48,784
Yeah, trust was lost
in this relationship
520
00:18:48,869 --> 00:18:50,870
just because seeing someone
521
00:18:50,954 --> 00:18:53,289
that's so worried about
how they come off,
522
00:18:53,373 --> 00:18:55,958
I just sometimes wonder like,
what are you putting on for me?
523
00:18:56,051 --> 00:18:57,135
What are you hiding from me?
524
00:18:57,219 --> 00:18:59,303
- Bao, what were you hiding
from Johnny?
525
00:18:59,388 --> 00:19:01,547
- I wasn't hiding
anything from you.
526
00:19:01,631 --> 00:19:04,308
And I've clearly explained,
like, yeah.
527
00:19:04,393 --> 00:19:05,726
I'm different
in different groups
528
00:19:05,886 --> 00:19:07,219
because of different interests.
529
00:19:07,312 --> 00:19:09,805
I am a certain way
with my professional life.
530
00:19:09,898 --> 00:19:11,399
I'm different with friends that,
you know,
531
00:19:11,483 --> 00:19:13,151
have an interest in politics.
532
00:19:13,310 --> 00:19:14,977
These are all different angles
of who I am.
533
00:19:15,061 --> 00:19:16,312
I'm multifaceted.
534
00:19:16,396 --> 00:19:18,573
That doesn't mean
that I'm different with people.
535
00:19:18,732 --> 00:19:20,408
- Right, and I'm not saying
conversations are different
536
00:19:20,492 --> 00:19:22,067
with different groups.
537
00:19:22,161 --> 00:19:24,236
I'm saying more like
your personality, who you are.
538
00:19:24,321 --> 00:19:26,747
One of the conversations
we had early on was that
539
00:19:26,832 --> 00:19:29,408
I just really wanted you to be
just like genuine with me.
540
00:19:29,501 --> 00:19:32,494
And I trusted in that.
I trusted this process.
541
00:19:32,579 --> 00:19:34,255
I trusted that
we were both being open.
542
00:19:34,339 --> 00:19:36,749
Towards the middle of it,
I didn't feel that anymore.
543
00:19:36,833 --> 00:19:38,918
♪ ♪
544
00:19:39,002 --> 00:19:40,428
It just felt like
you were playing the victim
545
00:19:40,512 --> 00:19:43,347
and pointing the blame at me.
546
00:19:47,427 --> 00:19:49,261
- Welcome back to the
"Married at First Sight" - Hold
547
00:19:49,354 --> 00:19:50,763
Houston reunion.
548
00:19:50,856 --> 00:19:52,014
I'm here talking with Johnny
and Bao, lots more to cover.
549
00:19:52,107 --> 00:19:54,516
Johnny, you've also said
you felt manipulated.
550
00:19:54,610 --> 00:19:55,693
What did you mean by that?
551
00:19:55,777 --> 00:19:57,195
- There were so many times
that I felt like
552
00:19:57,279 --> 00:19:58,362
I couldn't speak freely,
553
00:19:58,521 --> 00:20:00,272
because I had yet to consult
with my wife.
554
00:20:00,357 --> 00:20:02,358
I felt like Bao had isolated me.
555
00:20:02,442 --> 00:20:03,784
I was drowning.
556
00:20:03,944 --> 00:20:07,696
And I was going down this path
where I was just eventually
557
00:20:07,781 --> 00:20:11,450
just going to lose who
I felt like I was as a person.
558
00:20:11,543 --> 00:20:14,536
- God, I don't want to have
to rehash this.
559
00:20:14,621 --> 00:20:17,465
The irony of it is like,
that was not my intention.
560
00:20:17,549 --> 00:20:19,550
Obviously my hope was that
we would come together.
561
00:20:19,635 --> 00:20:21,802
It was about being together,
not putting you on an island.
562
00:20:21,887 --> 00:20:25,047
That was never my intention,
and it did make me feel
563
00:20:25,131 --> 00:20:26,966
like you wanted
to put yourself on that island.
564
00:20:27,059 --> 00:20:30,728
- Decision day comes.
You are clearly unhappy.
565
00:20:30,812 --> 00:20:32,063
You say you're drowning,
566
00:20:32,222 --> 00:20:34,565
and yet you decided
to stay married?
567
00:20:34,724 --> 00:20:36,308
Why?
568
00:20:36,393 --> 00:20:38,394
- Last two weeks
of our marriage,
569
00:20:38,487 --> 00:20:40,729
I did not stay at the apartment.
570
00:20:40,814 --> 00:20:42,240
I was breaking down.
I was breaking down.
571
00:20:42,324 --> 00:20:43,732
It succeeded.
572
00:20:43,817 --> 00:20:45,826
Whatever Bao was doing to me,
it worked,
573
00:20:45,911 --> 00:20:47,486
because I did feel like
a broken man.
574
00:20:47,570 --> 00:20:48,996
- Wow.
575
00:20:49,155 --> 00:20:50,665
You're making it sound like
I intentionally broke you down.
576
00:20:50,749 --> 00:20:53,251
That's--ugh.
- Let me continue.
577
00:20:53,410 --> 00:20:55,920
Bao made it very clear
that if I said no,
578
00:20:56,004 --> 00:20:57,255
that's the end of it.
579
00:20:57,339 --> 00:21:00,916
To me, I kind of was
this proponent of no, as in,
580
00:21:01,001 --> 00:21:03,335
"this didn't work for me,
but who knows?"
581
00:21:03,428 --> 00:21:05,930
But because Bao made it
very clear that a no
582
00:21:06,014 --> 00:21:09,850
on Decision Day for her meant
"we are done done," I said yes.
583
00:21:10,010 --> 00:21:13,521
And what if Bao outside of all
this is no longer like insecure,
584
00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:14,689
she doesn't have to think
585
00:21:14,848 --> 00:21:16,774
about how people
are going to perceive her.
586
00:21:16,858 --> 00:21:19,443
Sometimes people deal with
insecurity by putting on a mask
587
00:21:19,528 --> 00:21:22,021
and then you want to present
yourself a very specific way.
588
00:21:22,114 --> 00:21:25,616
As soon as the cameras are gone
and we no longer
589
00:21:25,775 --> 00:21:27,443
have any interviews,
who are you, really?
590
00:21:27,527 --> 00:21:29,445
[tense music]
591
00:21:29,529 --> 00:21:31,038
- Have you ever considered
that maybe the person
592
00:21:31,123 --> 00:21:33,782
that does care about
how they come off,
593
00:21:33,867 --> 00:21:36,377
you know, to their family
and friends and coworkers
594
00:21:36,536 --> 00:21:37,286
is also the real me?
595
00:21:37,370 --> 00:21:39,705
Like, I do care about that.
596
00:21:39,798 --> 00:21:42,124
And I own up to it.
That is what I care about.
597
00:21:42,208 --> 00:21:45,136
That's me. The reality is,
you've got all of me.
598
00:21:45,295 --> 00:21:46,712
You just didn't like
what you got.
599
00:21:46,805 --> 00:21:48,881
♪ ♪
600
00:21:48,965 --> 00:21:50,632
- The chemistry's either there,
or it's not,
601
00:21:50,726 --> 00:21:52,310
and you can easily move on.
602
00:21:52,469 --> 00:21:55,646
Here, I saw early on
that it wasn't there,
603
00:21:55,805 --> 00:21:57,806
but because
we were married, try.
604
00:21:57,891 --> 00:22:00,559
It's just this feeling
of warmth and like affection.
605
00:22:00,652 --> 00:22:02,144
I wanted to feel like
I was hugged by my wife.
606
00:22:02,237 --> 00:22:04,155
I just didn't get that warmth.
607
00:22:04,314 --> 00:22:06,407
- I was making
a concerted effort,
608
00:22:06,566 --> 00:22:07,825
and I felt like it showed
609
00:22:07,984 --> 00:22:09,660
throughout the journey
that I was trying.
610
00:22:09,745 --> 00:22:11,904
- I know you feel like it.
- Mm-hmm.
611
00:22:11,988 --> 00:22:13,664
- But if I'm voicing a concern,
612
00:22:13,749 --> 00:22:16,492
why wouldn't you just
acknowledge what I'm saying?
613
00:22:16,576 --> 00:22:18,911
- Just never good enough.
614
00:22:18,995 --> 00:22:21,255
- All right, let's switch gears.
615
00:22:21,414 --> 00:22:24,166
Bao, how have things changed
for you since Decision Day?
616
00:22:24,250 --> 00:22:27,762
- I'm back in my house, getting
back into the groove of things.
617
00:22:27,846 --> 00:22:30,923
I'm feeling good.
I'm happier now, honestly.
618
00:22:31,016 --> 00:22:33,425
- Has being married to Johnny
given you any insight
619
00:22:33,510 --> 00:22:35,928
on what you look for
in your next partner?
620
00:22:36,012 --> 00:22:37,438
- It's given me insight into me
621
00:22:37,597 --> 00:22:41,776
because I just do feel like
I was surprisingly patient.
622
00:22:41,860 --> 00:22:43,444
There were a lot of times
in this marriage
623
00:22:43,528 --> 00:22:45,613
that I surprise myself
in doing things
624
00:22:45,697 --> 00:22:48,449
that I didn't think that
I would be brave enough to do.
625
00:22:48,608 --> 00:22:52,611
I feel like coming out of this
that I have a lot to give.
626
00:22:52,695 --> 00:22:57,208
I'm still ready to be married.
I'm still ready for my person.
627
00:22:57,292 --> 00:22:59,043
- Johnny, how about you?
628
00:22:59,202 --> 00:23:00,953
What's been going on
since Decision Day?
629
00:23:01,046 --> 00:23:03,798
- Since Decision Day,
I felt like I had a lot
630
00:23:03,882 --> 00:23:05,716
of negative feelings
about the process.
631
00:23:05,875 --> 00:23:07,718
And I started doing
relationship therapy.
632
00:23:07,877 --> 00:23:10,295
I think I'm on
my sixth session now.
633
00:23:10,389 --> 00:23:11,380
That's why it was hard
to talk about it today
634
00:23:11,464 --> 00:23:13,715
because I felt like
I had gotten--
635
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:15,217
I'd already aired it out,
636
00:23:15,301 --> 00:23:16,894
and I didn't want
to talk about it again.
637
00:23:17,053 --> 00:23:18,637
- But I think it's good
that you--
638
00:23:18,721 --> 00:23:21,399
Bao was able to hear
these things from you,
639
00:23:21,558 --> 00:23:22,808
and so that you could
clear the air,
640
00:23:22,901 --> 00:23:26,487
and get that off your chest.
Are you back dating yet?
641
00:23:26,646 --> 00:23:27,896
- I am.
- Yeah.
642
00:23:27,981 --> 00:23:31,316
- Yeah. I've been dating
someone for about a month.
643
00:23:31,410 --> 00:23:33,494
The woman I'm dating now,
she's very affectionate.
644
00:23:33,578 --> 00:23:35,162
- Bao, what do you think
of Johnny dating?
645
00:23:35,321 --> 00:23:37,081
- I'm happy to hear that.
646
00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:38,666
- Have you begun to date yet?
- Me?
647
00:23:38,825 --> 00:23:39,241
- Mm-hmm.
- Yeah.
648
00:23:39,325 --> 00:23:41,326
- You have?
649
00:23:41,420 --> 00:23:42,661
- But I'm not going to talk
too much about it.
650
00:23:42,754 --> 00:23:46,832
Ultimately,
I will find my happiness, so...
651
00:23:46,925 --> 00:23:48,676
- And by the way, Johnny,
I meant to ask you this,
652
00:23:48,835 --> 00:23:50,094
and almost forgot.
653
00:23:50,178 --> 00:23:53,088
Could you be dating someone
who we might all know?
654
00:23:53,173 --> 00:23:54,506
- [laughs]
655
00:23:54,591 --> 00:23:56,341
♪ ♪
656
00:23:56,426 --> 00:23:57,926
No.
657
00:23:58,011 --> 00:24:00,187
- Yeah, there were rumors that
you were dating a cast member.
658
00:24:00,272 --> 00:24:02,431
- [laughs] No.
659
00:24:02,515 --> 00:24:05,109
Yeah, I've heard some rumors,
but that's not it.
660
00:24:05,193 --> 00:24:07,611
- You spent a lot of time with
Myrla and so a lot of people
661
00:24:07,696 --> 00:24:11,365
were speculating that you two
might be seeing each other.
662
00:24:11,450 --> 00:24:15,027
Look at Bao smile.
You heard those rumors?
663
00:24:15,111 --> 00:24:16,871
- I think everybody
has heard the rumors.
664
00:24:17,030 --> 00:24:20,207
There's a lot of rumors
just kind of swirling around.
665
00:24:20,292 --> 00:24:23,043
- So you do like her.
- I love Myrla.
666
00:24:23,128 --> 00:24:24,879
I think if we had been
matched on the show,
667
00:24:24,963 --> 00:24:26,288
it would have been
a really fun experiment
668
00:24:26,372 --> 00:24:29,458
to see kind of like
how we bended to one another.
669
00:24:29,542 --> 00:24:30,551
Because I hang out with her
670
00:24:30,710 --> 00:24:32,553
the most of probably
anyone in the cast,
671
00:24:32,712 --> 00:24:36,807
and I don't find anything
that I couldn't accommodate to.
672
00:24:36,892 --> 00:24:38,550
- I love this-- seeing you guys
673
00:24:38,643 --> 00:24:41,395
reaching a, you know,
a place of mutual understanding.
674
00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:43,222
- As long as Johnny's happy,
I'm happy.
675
00:24:43,306 --> 00:24:44,482
I'm honestly--I'm not--
676
00:24:44,641 --> 00:24:47,476
I mean,
our marriage is dissolved.
677
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:50,988
And, I mean, Johnny,
I still think he's a great guy.
678
00:24:51,072 --> 00:24:52,814
- I want to echo that.
679
00:24:52,899 --> 00:24:54,241
I think Bao is a great catch
for the right guy.
680
00:24:54,326 --> 00:24:59,413
I'm just not that guy,
and she's also not the girl.
681
00:24:59,498 --> 00:25:00,989
You know, like, kind of--
- Right.
682
00:25:01,074 --> 00:25:03,584
- It's just kind of a mismatch,
and it's okay.
683
00:25:03,743 --> 00:25:06,170
Somebody told me like, the
Australian version of this show,
684
00:25:06,254 --> 00:25:09,831
they do a little spouse swap
at some point during the show,
685
00:25:09,925 --> 00:25:12,417
and I remember
during our filming
686
00:25:12,511 --> 00:25:14,595
when I started seeing
like, things go south,
687
00:25:14,679 --> 00:25:16,088
I was like, man,
what if we just did that?
688
00:25:16,172 --> 00:25:17,589
- I heard, and I was like, dude,
689
00:25:17,682 --> 00:25:21,760
did my husband just like propose
trading me off like cattle?
690
00:25:21,853 --> 00:25:24,438
Like, this is not like
"The Handmaid's Tale" --
691
00:25:24,523 --> 00:25:27,441
- You were willing to trade
Bao for Myrla.
692
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:29,685
- [laughs]
- During--
693
00:25:29,778 --> 00:25:31,436
This is uncharted territory.
694
00:25:31,530 --> 00:25:33,021
- Go ahead.
Do it during filming. Go ahead.
695
00:25:33,106 --> 00:25:34,356
Go ahead. We're here now.
- It's okay, I mean--
696
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:35,699
- We're here now.
697
00:25:35,784 --> 00:25:38,953
Who would have been a better
match in the entire cast
698
00:25:39,112 --> 00:25:41,455
if you just broke the cast down
and you mixed them up?
699
00:25:41,614 --> 00:25:44,866
- I think Brett and Gil
would have been a good match.
700
00:25:44,951 --> 00:25:46,627
- Hmm, I think I would
second that actually.
701
00:25:46,786 --> 00:25:48,128
- Okay.
Yeah.
702
00:25:48,213 --> 00:25:49,621
Jose and Rachel seemed great.
- Mm-hmm.
703
00:25:49,706 --> 00:25:51,048
- I would keep them the same.
704
00:25:51,207 --> 00:25:52,967
Yeah, I think
you and Ryan probably,
705
00:25:53,126 --> 00:25:54,885
y'all both like to bake.
706
00:25:55,044 --> 00:25:56,712
Y'all had a good time
skeet shooting.
707
00:25:56,796 --> 00:25:58,964
I wouldn't have minded Myrla.
Like, Myrla was cool.
708
00:25:59,048 --> 00:26:00,474
- And who would you be
matched with, Johnny?
709
00:26:00,559 --> 00:26:02,393
- I think probably Myrla.
- Myrla, mm-hmm.
710
00:26:02,477 --> 00:26:04,061
- I can get along with Rachel
too, come to think of it.
711
00:26:04,220 --> 00:26:05,479
- Bao, how about you,
if you mixed
712
00:26:05,564 --> 00:26:07,898
and matched the cast up,
who would you put together?
713
00:26:08,057 --> 00:26:09,567
- I mean, a part of me
is kind of like,
714
00:26:09,726 --> 00:26:11,393
me and Zack
wouldn't be bad either.
715
00:26:11,486 --> 00:26:13,478
- Who knows.
- I got to say this.
716
00:26:13,563 --> 00:26:14,905
I was really rooting
for you guys
717
00:26:15,064 --> 00:26:17,575
to work out and now that--
- We were too!
718
00:26:17,734 --> 00:26:20,235
- I wish--yeah.
Right, we all were.
719
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:23,330
I really do wish you the best
in your future relationships.
720
00:26:23,415 --> 00:26:26,083
- Thank you.
- And I think that, you know,
721
00:26:26,242 --> 00:26:27,743
life's holding something
out there for you,
722
00:26:27,827 --> 00:26:30,588
so Johnny and Bao,
you both deserve to be happy,
723
00:26:30,672 --> 00:26:32,164
so thank you
for being here tonight
724
00:26:32,248 --> 00:26:33,582
and sharing everything with us.
725
00:26:33,675 --> 00:26:34,258
- Thank you.
- Thanks, Kevin.
726
00:26:38,597 --> 00:26:39,847
- Hello, we're back and continuing
on - When we come back from break
727
00:26:40,006 --> 00:26:41,348
with the "Married at First
Sight" Houston reunion.
728
00:26:41,507 --> 00:26:42,841
Now, we've already heard
from all the men
729
00:26:42,925 --> 00:26:45,093
so it's only fair that we hear
from the women's side
730
00:26:45,186 --> 00:26:46,687
of what went down in Houston.
731
00:26:46,846 --> 00:26:48,522
Ladies, how are you doing?
732
00:26:48,681 --> 00:26:50,691
All: Good.
- I feel like this
733
00:26:50,775 --> 00:26:52,693
is "Married at First Sight"
the Christmas special.
734
00:26:52,777 --> 00:26:54,445
- Yeah, it is.
- We delivered.
735
00:26:54,604 --> 00:26:55,863
- Yes.
736
00:26:56,022 --> 00:26:58,449
- You did deliver, indeed.
- And to all a good night.
737
00:26:58,608 --> 00:27:01,193
- This group really likes
each other, don't they?
738
00:27:01,277 --> 00:27:02,953
- I know from the bachelorette--
739
00:27:03,038 --> 00:27:03,787
- I was like, "Oh."
- [laughs]
740
00:27:03,872 --> 00:27:06,457
- This is like strong women,
741
00:27:06,616 --> 00:27:09,034
know what they want
kind of thing, you know?
742
00:27:09,118 --> 00:27:10,711
And I was like,
oh, this is a good group.
743
00:27:10,795 --> 00:27:13,464
- Will you stay connected?
- Yeah.
744
00:27:13,623 --> 00:27:15,549
- I mean, it's a bond--
You can't--
745
00:27:15,708 --> 00:27:17,801
It's not something that you can
just be like "Okay, in, out."
746
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,471
- Ladies, you had a lot
of fun times together,
747
00:27:20,630 --> 00:27:21,555
but let's go back
to the bachelorette party,
748
00:27:21,714 --> 00:27:25,976
and Michaela was in it.
749
00:27:26,061 --> 00:27:27,061
- ♪ Get up! Come on ♪
750
00:27:27,220 --> 00:27:30,064
[hip-hop music playing]
751
00:27:30,223 --> 00:27:32,232
- Oh, wow, what what what?
752
00:27:32,392 --> 00:27:32,900
- That's one of the girls.
753
00:27:32,984 --> 00:27:35,235
- What?
[laughs]
754
00:27:35,395 --> 00:27:36,478
- Oh, she really doing it.
755
00:27:36,562 --> 00:27:38,063
- Yeah, she's really into it
over there.
756
00:27:38,156 --> 00:27:39,323
[laughter]
757
00:27:39,482 --> 00:27:40,399
- Get ready.
758
00:27:40,483 --> 00:27:42,567
- She showcased her dance moves.
759
00:27:42,661 --> 00:27:44,495
She was a little frisky.
Bao, what did you think
760
00:27:44,654 --> 00:27:46,497
of Michaela's dance moves
that night?
761
00:27:46,656 --> 00:27:49,241
- Michaela was just having
the time of her life,
762
00:27:49,334 --> 00:27:51,168
and I salute her for it.
763
00:27:51,327 --> 00:27:53,921
I mean, I can learn
a thing or two from her.
764
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:55,664
She's got some real moves.
765
00:27:55,748 --> 00:27:57,165
- Michaela, you were having
a good time, weren't you?
766
00:27:57,250 --> 00:27:59,843
- I was having an amazing time,
so much fun.
767
00:28:00,002 --> 00:28:01,920
I was getting married.
It's a party.
768
00:28:02,004 --> 00:28:03,180
The winter storm is coming,
769
00:28:03,339 --> 00:28:03,922
so why not live it up
while we can?
770
00:28:04,015 --> 00:28:07,267
[laughs]
It was fun.
771
00:28:07,427 --> 00:28:10,938
- Brett, by the way, what are
the odds that you were the one
772
00:28:11,097 --> 00:28:13,691
who hadn't dated
or been intimate
773
00:28:13,775 --> 00:28:16,101
with someone in two years--
- Yes, we know. Two years.
774
00:28:16,194 --> 00:28:18,862
- Two years! [laughs]
But you were the only one
775
00:28:19,021 --> 00:28:20,522
who didn't consummate
your marriage.
776
00:28:20,606 --> 00:28:22,691
- That's right.
777
00:28:22,784 --> 00:28:25,694
- Are you surprised by that now?
778
00:28:25,787 --> 00:28:28,205
- Yes and no.
It's all about emotions for me,
779
00:28:28,364 --> 00:28:31,041
so that's why the two-year
thing happens, you know?
780
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:33,961
If you're not filling up
my emotional tank,
781
00:28:34,120 --> 00:28:35,620
you don't get anything from me.
782
00:28:35,714 --> 00:28:37,464
- Brett--and by the way,
783
00:28:37,623 --> 00:28:39,541
I sense you're really tired
of hearing two years, right?
784
00:28:39,625 --> 00:28:40,542
- Yeah.
785
00:28:40,635 --> 00:28:41,543
- You're like,
please, y'all, stop.
786
00:28:41,636 --> 00:28:43,470
- I did it to myself.
It's fine.
787
00:28:43,629 --> 00:28:46,214
But one of those years
was COVID, okay?
788
00:28:46,307 --> 00:28:47,808
- Oh, good point.
[laughter]
789
00:28:47,967 --> 00:28:49,885
I swear, this is the last time
I'm asking about this.
790
00:28:49,969 --> 00:28:53,981
Is there a fear of intimacy--
- Oh, God, no.
791
00:28:54,140 --> 00:28:54,973
- Or has it been a while that--
792
00:28:55,057 --> 00:28:56,975
- No. No fear, no fear.
793
00:28:57,068 --> 00:28:59,644
I do not fear any type
of intimacy, emotional,
794
00:28:59,738 --> 00:29:01,480
physical, none of it.
795
00:29:01,573 --> 00:29:04,232
100% fine with all that.
796
00:29:04,317 --> 00:29:05,993
- Was it tough to watch Brett
going through
797
00:29:06,152 --> 00:29:07,745
this struggle and the process--
798
00:29:07,904 --> 00:29:09,329
Michaela, I see
you're shaking your head--
799
00:29:09,489 --> 00:29:10,664
Going through these hard times?
800
00:29:13,251 --> 00:29:15,327
- [laughs]
- And I can readily admit that.
801
00:29:15,420 --> 00:29:17,671
I don't think that
I should be shy about that.
802
00:29:17,830 --> 00:29:19,831
I felt like he was way
more invested
803
00:29:19,924 --> 00:29:22,334
in Zack and I's relationship
than he was in his own.
804
00:29:22,427 --> 00:29:24,011
It was [bleep] weird.
805
00:29:24,170 --> 00:29:28,924
And it's like if you would, you
know, invest that concentration
806
00:29:29,008 --> 00:29:32,427
and those thoughts and that
emotion into your own marriage,
807
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:34,179
maybe it would have survived.
808
00:29:34,272 --> 00:29:36,097
- Mm. Michaela, you have
never sat on a feeling,
809
00:29:36,191 --> 00:29:37,357
and that's what
I love about you.
810
00:29:37,442 --> 00:29:39,276
- Boom. [laughs]
- That's right. That's right.
811
00:29:39,435 --> 00:29:42,187
- On the sleeve, baby.
- Yeah, that's true.
812
00:29:42,271 --> 00:29:43,781
- All right.
Let's switch gears.
813
00:29:43,865 --> 00:29:47,618
Bao, I loved how midway through
the season, you went from fun,
814
00:29:47,777 --> 00:29:49,536
happy, like I'm giddy,
a little nerdy Bao
815
00:29:49,695 --> 00:29:52,456
to like straight CEO mode.
- [laughs]
816
00:29:52,540 --> 00:29:53,448
For it to be a no,
817
00:29:53,533 --> 00:29:55,292
I really don't think emotionally
818
00:29:55,376 --> 00:29:56,701
I can come back from that.
819
00:29:56,795 --> 00:29:59,871
If it's a yes and it ends up
being a no later, fine.
820
00:29:59,964 --> 00:30:02,299
But a yes to me is like,
"All right, it might be
821
00:30:02,458 --> 00:30:04,042
"[bleep] right now,
but we can work on it
822
00:30:04,126 --> 00:30:06,887
"and I see potential in this
823
00:30:06,971 --> 00:30:08,213
and let's just see
where it goes."
824
00:30:08,306 --> 00:30:12,050
I reflect on the possibility
that I might say yes
825
00:30:12,134 --> 00:30:14,478
and Johnny says no
and that's it for me.
826
00:30:14,637 --> 00:30:17,231
For me, a no is like,
"I'm done with this."
827
00:30:17,390 --> 00:30:20,892
- All of a sudden when Bao
was talking, it was business.
828
00:30:20,977 --> 00:30:22,736
- We call her President Bao.
829
00:30:22,821 --> 00:30:25,146
- Yeah,
right before Decision Day,
830
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,741
she was like, "This is it."
[laughs]
831
00:30:27,900 --> 00:30:29,484
- Once I've made my decision...
832
00:30:29,577 --> 00:30:31,662
- Did you make
a spreadsheet for that?
833
00:30:31,746 --> 00:30:33,321
- No, I didn't.
- You didn't?
834
00:30:33,406 --> 00:30:35,323
- Pros and cons list?
- I didn't. I didn't.
835
00:30:35,416 --> 00:30:37,084
- You didn't make
a pros and cons list?
836
00:30:37,243 --> 00:30:38,410
- Not for this one.
- Come on, Bao.
837
00:30:38,494 --> 00:30:39,911
- I did not.
- All right.
838
00:30:39,996 --> 00:30:42,256
- She's got to be lying.
[laughter]
839
00:30:42,415 --> 00:30:43,757
- I swear I didn't.
840
00:30:43,842 --> 00:30:44,925
- Got to be.
- Let's change topics.
841
00:30:45,084 --> 00:30:47,761
I just found out tonight
that Rachel and Jose
842
00:30:47,846 --> 00:30:50,422
had broken up
after Decision Day.
843
00:30:50,515 --> 00:30:54,259
I'm sure you ladies have been
kept in the loop about this.
844
00:30:54,343 --> 00:30:56,177
Rachel, do they know the update?
845
00:30:56,262 --> 00:30:57,855
[tense music]
846
00:30:58,014 --> 00:30:59,681
- We are, like,
officially together
847
00:30:59,774 --> 00:31:02,017
working towards keeping
the marriage.
848
00:31:02,101 --> 00:31:05,020
And now, like, we're not
going to get divorced.
849
00:31:05,104 --> 00:31:07,022
We're going to really try
and make this work.
850
00:31:07,115 --> 00:31:09,190
- This is new information to me.
851
00:31:09,275 --> 00:31:10,942
[laughter]
- New information to me, too.
852
00:31:11,035 --> 00:31:14,454
- Rachel, why keep this
on the DL, though?
853
00:31:14,539 --> 00:31:17,624
- It's hard because
I was very like,
854
00:31:17,709 --> 00:31:19,626
"It's not working,
he did this, this, this, this."
855
00:31:19,785 --> 00:31:22,212
And now I'm like,
"Oh, it might work."
856
00:31:22,371 --> 00:31:23,705
And it's embarrassing
to be like back and forth.
857
00:31:23,798 --> 00:31:25,290
- We're mad at him
and we're like...
858
00:31:25,383 --> 00:31:28,877
- Yeah, and I want us all
to be able to hang out
859
00:31:28,970 --> 00:31:30,971
and when you see
Jose and I together,
860
00:31:31,055 --> 00:31:31,796
it's like, "Aww,"
instead of, "God."
861
00:31:31,890 --> 00:31:35,225
[laughter]
You know?
862
00:31:35,384 --> 00:31:37,477
- I definitely have
to work through that.
863
00:31:37,637 --> 00:31:39,638
- So it's a beautiful thing
that you were able to admit
864
00:31:39,722 --> 00:31:41,481
"I'm still hurt by that,
I don't like that,
865
00:31:41,641 --> 00:31:44,735
but I like you, so we will work
through this together."
866
00:31:44,894 --> 00:31:45,894
- And as long
as you're happy, so...
867
00:31:45,978 --> 00:31:47,404
- Yeah, and as long
as you are happy.
868
00:31:47,563 --> 00:31:48,739
Absolutely.
869
00:31:48,823 --> 00:31:50,565
- Guys, let's talk about
another big shocker.
870
00:31:50,658 --> 00:31:52,159
And I think the biggest shocker
for me
871
00:31:52,318 --> 00:31:54,486
was that Myrla and Gil
had broken up.
872
00:31:54,570 --> 00:31:56,237
- I don't think
it was a shocker to me.
873
00:31:56,331 --> 00:31:58,498
- No, it was a--
Listen, it was a shocker.
874
00:31:58,583 --> 00:32:01,501
Ladies, when you heard the news,
what did you think?
875
00:32:01,661 --> 00:32:04,338
- I thought you guys were happy
and then I find out later
876
00:32:04,497 --> 00:32:06,748
and it took me by surprise.
877
00:32:06,841 --> 00:32:08,333
I didn't expect it at all.
878
00:32:08,417 --> 00:32:09,834
- Rachel, did you know?
879
00:32:09,928 --> 00:32:12,012
- We're the ones that said yes,
you know, on Decision Day,
880
00:32:12,096 --> 00:32:16,091
and decided to take that
next step with our partners.
881
00:32:16,175 --> 00:32:19,686
And then she tells me and I'm
completely shocked, you know?
882
00:32:19,845 --> 00:32:23,106
But she does tell me her side
of the story and I'm like,
883
00:32:23,265 --> 00:32:25,266
"Yeah, that makes sense,"
and we had a lot of stuff
884
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:27,361
in common of what
we were struggling with.
885
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:29,529
- I don't think that he brought
out the best in me because--
886
00:32:29,689 --> 00:32:31,114
And that's how I truly knew.
887
00:32:31,273 --> 00:32:32,783
You don't call me
high maintenance all the time,
888
00:32:32,942 --> 00:32:34,952
you don't, you know,
call me a diva.
889
00:32:35,036 --> 00:32:37,696
If you like nice things, great,
and I just want to be
890
00:32:37,789 --> 00:32:41,282
with somebody who
doesn't make that a big deal.
891
00:32:41,376 --> 00:32:42,951
- Myrla, let me
just tell you something.
892
00:32:43,035 --> 00:32:44,369
My family makes fun of me
893
00:32:44,462 --> 00:32:47,288
all the time because
I like really nice things.
894
00:32:47,382 --> 00:32:48,966
And there's no shame
in that game.
895
00:32:49,050 --> 00:32:50,875
It's all right.
It's all good.
896
00:32:50,969 --> 00:32:53,628
All right, I have a special
treat for all of y'all.
897
00:32:53,721 --> 00:32:57,474
You know, we put
a little package together
898
00:32:57,558 --> 00:33:01,386
of Myrla and her moments.
- Yes!
899
00:33:01,479 --> 00:33:03,730
- I wouldn't call it "bougie,"
I'd just call it
900
00:33:03,815 --> 00:33:05,223
Myrla being Myrla.
Check this out.
901
00:33:05,307 --> 00:33:08,151
- Myrla being Myrla.
- Myrla being Myrla.
902
00:33:08,310 --> 00:33:10,979
- Myrla being Myrla.
And we love it.
903
00:33:11,063 --> 00:33:14,816
- I know what I like.
And what I don't like.
904
00:33:14,909 --> 00:33:16,901
Y'all know that by now, shoot.
905
00:33:16,995 --> 00:33:19,988
I don't like sparkly stuff.
I don't want foundation.
906
00:33:20,072 --> 00:33:22,157
I'm pretty sure I'ma take it off
if it looks like that.
907
00:33:22,241 --> 00:33:23,491
[quirky music]
908
00:33:23,584 --> 00:33:24,501
Oh, I don't like that one.
909
00:33:24,585 --> 00:33:26,828
I look like I have
a double chin.
910
00:33:26,912 --> 00:33:27,912
- Is that good?
911
00:33:27,997 --> 00:33:29,172
- I think it's sticking
to my face.
912
00:33:29,331 --> 00:33:30,999
I don't think that
I look fashionable, but okay.
913
00:33:31,092 --> 00:33:32,509
- I'm sure you do. I like it.
914
00:33:32,668 --> 00:33:34,836
- I prefer the Presidential
Suite we were in over there.
915
00:33:34,929 --> 00:33:36,513
My pool is better
than that pool.
916
00:33:36,672 --> 00:33:38,590
- Nice view, though.
917
00:33:38,674 --> 00:33:40,934
- In the dark.
I'm a little diva.
918
00:33:41,093 --> 00:33:43,854
[upbeat electronic music]
919
00:33:44,013 --> 00:33:47,682
♪ ♪
920
00:33:47,767 --> 00:33:49,601
- How many purses do you need,
first of all?
921
00:33:49,694 --> 00:33:52,520
- There is no such thing as how
many purses a women needs.
922
00:33:52,613 --> 00:33:53,855
I don't have a budget for it.
923
00:33:53,948 --> 00:33:57,525
- It's just whatever
the card approves.
924
00:33:57,618 --> 00:33:58,702
- My card approves--
- Everything.
925
00:33:58,786 --> 00:33:59,861
- A whole lot.
926
00:33:59,954 --> 00:34:01,872
I like fancy drinks.
This is ice cream?
927
00:34:01,956 --> 00:34:03,698
- Gelato.
- Vegan?
928
00:34:03,791 --> 00:34:06,117
- Maybe?
- I don't do dairy.
929
00:34:06,210 --> 00:34:08,128
I like new apartments.
930
00:34:08,287 --> 00:34:10,130
- You like everything new.
931
00:34:10,289 --> 00:34:12,215
- It's okay to be bougie.
932
00:34:12,374 --> 00:34:13,708
- You love yourself.
933
00:34:13,801 --> 00:34:15,218
- Who doesn't love themselves?
934
00:34:15,303 --> 00:34:16,470
- I'm just saying.
935
00:34:16,629 --> 00:34:19,130
- She's a very unique princess.
936
00:34:19,223 --> 00:34:20,799
- [laughs]
937
00:34:20,892 --> 00:34:22,133
- You didn't choose to be
like this, it chose you.
938
00:34:22,226 --> 00:34:24,135
- I didn't choose to be
like this, life chose me.
939
00:34:24,228 --> 00:34:25,729
[laughter]
940
00:34:25,888 --> 00:34:27,472
- Oh, yeah.
941
00:34:27,565 --> 00:34:29,399
[laughter]
942
00:34:29,558 --> 00:34:30,725
- Oh.
943
00:34:30,810 --> 00:34:33,561
- I feel so special.
- [indistinct], we think.
944
00:34:33,654 --> 00:34:36,573
- She is unapologetically
herself.
945
00:34:36,657 --> 00:34:39,317
And that is something
that I strive to do in my life.
946
00:34:39,410 --> 00:34:40,985
That is part of the reason
why I did this show
947
00:34:41,079 --> 00:34:43,822
because you can't hide
from who you are with this.
948
00:34:43,906 --> 00:34:45,999
And show or no show,
this is who she is.
949
00:34:46,084 --> 00:34:48,585
And two,
she might like nice things,
950
00:34:48,669 --> 00:34:51,079
but she would give you
the clothes off of her back
951
00:34:51,163 --> 00:34:53,006
in a heartbeat,
no matter how much it costs.
952
00:34:53,091 --> 00:34:55,250
She's awesome.
953
00:34:55,334 --> 00:34:56,593
- If she works for it
and she can afford it
954
00:34:56,677 --> 00:34:59,921
and she wants to spend
her money that way, blow it.
955
00:35:00,005 --> 00:35:02,849
Like, 'cause you--it's yours.
You work for it, you earn it.
956
00:35:02,934 --> 00:35:04,935
- I agree. I agree.
- But it's also not who I am.
957
00:35:05,019 --> 00:35:06,853
So like, I don't--
958
00:35:06,938 --> 00:35:10,607
I don't care about,
"I need to have these shoes."
959
00:35:10,691 --> 00:35:12,183
If I like the shoes and
they're pretty, I'll buy them.
960
00:35:12,276 --> 00:35:14,444
- Now, but that still
doesn't mean you're not
961
00:35:14,603 --> 00:35:16,771
a little bit of a diva now.
- Yeah, but I mean,
962
00:35:16,856 --> 00:35:18,523
that's not the only thing
that brings me joy.
963
00:35:18,616 --> 00:35:19,858
That is not who I am.
964
00:35:19,942 --> 00:35:21,860
- Those are nice boots though.
- I know, right?
965
00:35:21,944 --> 00:35:23,444
- Fire.
- That's on fire.
966
00:35:23,538 --> 00:35:25,956
- Fire.
- Those boots are everything.
967
00:35:26,115 --> 00:35:27,866
- Ladies, this has been
so much fun.
968
00:35:27,950 --> 00:35:29,376
We're going to see you
a little bit later
969
00:35:29,460 --> 00:35:32,453
when you are joined
by all the gentlemen.
970
00:35:32,547 --> 00:35:34,798
- We're going to be good.
- I make no promises.
971
00:35:38,970 --> 00:35:40,137
- We're back with the "Married at
First Sight" oing to take a quick break.
972
00:35:40,221 --> 00:35:41,471
Houston Reunion.
I'm your host, Kevin Frazier.
973
00:35:41,556 --> 00:35:42,806
All right,
let's give a big welcome
974
00:35:42,965 --> 00:35:44,724
to three of the most
important people on the show.
975
00:35:44,809 --> 00:35:46,467
I mean, the ones who make it
all possible, the experts,
976
00:35:46,561 --> 00:35:49,479
Dr. Pepper, Pastor Cal,
and Dr. Viviana.
977
00:35:49,638 --> 00:35:51,973
First of all,
it's great to see you all.
978
00:35:52,057 --> 00:35:52,891
How are you doing?
- Great.
979
00:35:52,975 --> 00:35:54,809
- Great.
Awesome, man. Awesome.
980
00:35:54,894 --> 00:35:57,070
- I have lots of questions,
so can we hop right in?
981
00:35:57,155 --> 00:35:58,405
Both: Let's do it.
982
00:35:58,564 --> 00:36:01,816
- First of all, this season
was a roller coaster.
983
00:36:01,909 --> 00:36:03,410
One day the couples are happy,
984
00:36:03,494 --> 00:36:05,245
the next day they're
at each other's throats.
985
00:36:05,329 --> 00:36:08,323
Did it surprise you
at how up and down things were?
986
00:36:08,416 --> 00:36:10,825
- Yes, it surprised me.
It shocked me.
987
00:36:10,918 --> 00:36:12,335
When we matched these couples,
988
00:36:12,420 --> 00:36:16,664
I think we probably felt
the best about these couples
989
00:36:16,749 --> 00:36:20,084
and these matches going into
them than possibly ever before.
990
00:36:20,169 --> 00:36:22,429
And this season proved to us
that, goodness,
991
00:36:22,588 --> 00:36:25,256
we can only do so much.
992
00:36:25,341 --> 00:36:26,516
- Dr. Pepper,
I want to ask you,
993
00:36:26,601 --> 00:36:29,344
which couple surprised you
the most?
994
00:36:29,428 --> 00:36:30,687
- Oh, this is a tough choice
995
00:36:30,846 --> 00:36:34,682
because there were
so many surprises.
996
00:36:34,775 --> 00:36:36,860
I thought Bao and Johnny
were going to be,
997
00:36:36,944 --> 00:36:40,864
you know, the best couple ever,
so that surprised me.
998
00:36:40,948 --> 00:36:44,701
I thought Gil and Myrla would
go off into the sunset forever.
999
00:36:44,860 --> 00:36:48,947
It was really bad surprises,
not good surprises.
1000
00:36:49,031 --> 00:36:50,040
- Yeah.
1001
00:36:50,199 --> 00:36:51,625
- All right.
Let's get into these couples
1002
00:36:51,784 --> 00:36:54,127
and let's start with the real
roller coaster of the season,
1003
00:36:54,286 --> 00:36:56,120
Zack and Michaela.
1004
00:36:56,214 --> 00:36:57,205
- We had high hopes.
1005
00:36:57,289 --> 00:37:00,041
Had they been open
with each other
1006
00:37:00,125 --> 00:37:04,221
and talked about their fears,
talked about their hesitations
1007
00:37:04,305 --> 00:37:05,805
and not just flew off
the handle,
1008
00:37:05,890 --> 00:37:08,800
they had a real shot
at this thing.
1009
00:37:08,893 --> 00:37:11,978
- But Michaela's reactions
seemed to be a problem.
1010
00:37:12,063 --> 00:37:14,305
- Yeah.
Yeah, yeah, then there's that.
1011
00:37:14,398 --> 00:37:17,725
[laughter]
1012
00:37:17,810 --> 00:37:19,894
Yeah, Michaela--Michaela--
1013
00:37:19,979 --> 00:37:21,404
[quirky music]
1014
00:37:21,563 --> 00:37:22,814
- You got to take
the glasses off. Go ahead.
1015
00:37:22,907 --> 00:37:24,148
[laughter]
1016
00:37:24,242 --> 00:37:27,077
- Michaela, I think
she was ready for marriage,
1017
00:37:27,161 --> 00:37:30,154
but I believe this process
was just really a lot for her.
1018
00:37:30,248 --> 00:37:33,408
- I think Cal's right.
I think Zack's reaction
1019
00:37:33,501 --> 00:37:35,418
was horror as opposed to helper.
1020
00:37:35,577 --> 00:37:38,421
He could have been
a better supporter
1021
00:37:38,580 --> 00:37:41,007
and therefore she probably
would have been,
1022
00:37:41,166 --> 00:37:43,001
you know, less explosive.
1023
00:37:43,094 --> 00:37:46,012
I wish she would learn that.
I think she deserved it.
1024
00:37:46,171 --> 00:37:47,088
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
1025
00:37:47,172 --> 00:37:49,173
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Agreed, agreed.
1026
00:37:49,258 --> 00:37:51,259
All right. Let's move on
to Brett and Ryan.
1027
00:37:51,343 --> 00:37:52,844
- Oh, boy.
1028
00:37:52,928 --> 00:37:56,022
- Y'all knew that Brett
wasn't Ryan's type.
1029
00:37:56,181 --> 00:37:57,932
Dr. Pepper, explain.
1030
00:37:58,025 --> 00:37:59,609
- Well, one of the things we say
1031
00:37:59,694 --> 00:38:02,028
is that somebody has always
been dating their type
1032
00:38:02,113 --> 00:38:03,613
and it never works--
- And he dated a lot.
1033
00:38:03,698 --> 00:38:04,605
- And he dated a lot.
1034
00:38:04,699 --> 00:38:07,117
- A lot.
- And it's not working.
1035
00:38:07,201 --> 00:38:10,287
Let's get out of that silo
and into a different one.
1036
00:38:10,371 --> 00:38:12,205
- The biggest challenge,
I believe,
1037
00:38:12,364 --> 00:38:14,708
is to get people to understand
that you're not dating anymore
1038
00:38:14,867 --> 00:38:16,868
where, "I don't like you,
I don't like the way you look,
1039
00:38:16,952 --> 00:38:18,286
I don't like your hair,
whatever, whatever."
1040
00:38:18,370 --> 00:38:19,879
That's the dating mentality.
1041
00:38:20,039 --> 00:38:22,299
- Right.
- This is your spouse.
1042
00:38:22,458 --> 00:38:24,208
I don't think
they were at that point.
1043
00:38:24,293 --> 00:38:26,886
- All right. Let's move
onto Myrla and Gil.
1044
00:38:27,046 --> 00:38:30,140
What do you think happened
and were you shocked by this?
1045
00:38:30,299 --> 00:38:33,560
- Yeah. I think we were
all very shocked.
1046
00:38:33,644 --> 00:38:37,638
I loved how their love story
was playing out.
1047
00:38:37,723 --> 00:38:40,892
How the beginning of their love
story was, you know, slow burn.
1048
00:38:40,985 --> 00:38:43,486
They just seemed like
they were on the same page.
1049
00:38:43,571 --> 00:38:45,563
- It's still a mystery.
- Yeah.
1050
00:38:45,656 --> 00:38:48,816
It does feel like this
was going the right direction
1051
00:38:48,909 --> 00:38:50,910
and had potential
like none other.
1052
00:38:51,070 --> 00:38:52,996
- Yeah.
- 100%.
1053
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:56,082
She's telling me
in multiple visits,
1054
00:38:56,241 --> 00:38:58,076
you know, it's the best thing
that ever happened to her.
1055
00:38:58,160 --> 00:38:59,827
- I think that
what you're seeing
1056
00:38:59,920 --> 00:39:03,506
is complete and absolute fear.
1057
00:39:03,591 --> 00:39:04,582
- Fear?
- Yes.
1058
00:39:04,666 --> 00:39:06,760
Some people
are afraid of success.
1059
00:39:06,844 --> 00:39:07,844
And when a person is living
in that kind of fear,
1060
00:39:08,003 --> 00:39:11,348
they tend to pick apart
every challenge,
1061
00:39:11,432 --> 00:39:13,767
every issue
that comes upon them,
1062
00:39:13,851 --> 00:39:16,344
they magnify it, they make
mountains out of mole hills.
1063
00:39:16,428 --> 00:39:18,346
I think that's what--
I think she's scared.
1064
00:39:18,439 --> 00:39:19,430
- I am really looking forward
1065
00:39:19,523 --> 00:39:22,433
to when you guys
sit down with these two.
1066
00:39:22,526 --> 00:39:24,435
But I do want to show you
something kind of funny.
1067
00:39:24,528 --> 00:39:26,112
This is an extended clip
1068
00:39:26,197 --> 00:39:28,523
of Dr. Pepper
sitting down with Myrla
1069
00:39:28,616 --> 00:39:30,441
and she's a little
intoxicated, y'all.
1070
00:39:30,534 --> 00:39:32,276
Take a watch.
1071
00:39:32,361 --> 00:39:34,612
- Oh, I expected you
to come from that way.
1072
00:39:34,696 --> 00:39:36,447
- Oh, it's a long walk.
1073
00:39:36,532 --> 00:39:38,950
- Yeah, I know, I think it's--
Oh, well, hi.
1074
00:39:39,043 --> 00:39:40,535
[laughter]
1075
00:39:40,619 --> 00:39:44,956
- Oh, another day
in happy town here, guys.
1076
00:39:45,049 --> 00:39:47,458
That is the mood right now.
Need I say more?
1077
00:39:47,543 --> 00:39:51,304
♪ ♪
1078
00:39:51,389 --> 00:39:54,557
- You're very smiley, Myrla.
- [laughs]
1079
00:39:54,716 --> 00:39:58,469
My husband has said
that he's going to get ready
1080
00:39:58,554 --> 00:40:01,231
for hot boy summer.
I was like--
1081
00:40:01,315 --> 00:40:03,891
- A what summer?
- A hot boy summer.
1082
00:40:03,976 --> 00:40:06,227
- What is a hot boy summer?
- I don't know.
1083
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:09,406
Apparently men get hot
for the summer.
1084
00:40:09,490 --> 00:40:11,157
It's supposed to be
a girl thing.
1085
00:40:11,316 --> 00:40:12,733
Hot girl summer.
- Okay.
1086
00:40:12,827 --> 00:40:15,987
- [stammering]
You know, I expressed--
1087
00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:17,997
I expressed that it's
a public space and it's safe
1088
00:40:18,157 --> 00:40:19,740
and we can leave whenever.
1089
00:40:19,834 --> 00:40:22,827
So we already agreed upon, um...
1090
00:40:22,911 --> 00:40:24,829
♪ ♪
1091
00:40:24,922 --> 00:40:26,840
What do you call him?
1092
00:40:26,999 --> 00:40:28,499
- Myrla.
- [laughs]
1093
00:40:28,584 --> 00:40:31,085
- Now, I know
you have been out partying
1094
00:40:31,178 --> 00:40:32,336
with your friends
before you came here.
1095
00:40:32,421 --> 00:40:33,754
- I know.
1096
00:40:33,839 --> 00:40:37,091
- And I want you to know
that you're not sober yet.
1097
00:40:37,176 --> 00:40:38,268
- I know.
- I mean, really.
1098
00:40:38,427 --> 00:40:40,520
[laughs]
1099
00:40:40,679 --> 00:40:42,096
- Wow.
- Wow, right?
1100
00:40:42,189 --> 00:40:45,933
Dr. Pepper, you know what a
hot girl summer is though right?
1101
00:40:46,026 --> 00:40:47,518
- [stammering] Well, I--no.
1102
00:40:47,611 --> 00:40:49,353
[laughter]
1103
00:40:49,447 --> 00:40:50,864
- She's always ready.
1104
00:40:51,023 --> 00:40:51,698
- You weren't trying to fake it
for a second, weren't you?
1105
00:40:51,782 --> 00:40:53,783
- She stays ready.
1106
00:40:53,868 --> 00:40:55,193
She doesn't need
to know about that.
1107
00:40:55,286 --> 00:40:56,444
- I hear you.
1108
00:40:56,537 --> 00:40:58,037
What were your thoughts
after that meeting?
1109
00:40:58,122 --> 00:41:00,540
- It's a huge disrespect
to come into
1110
00:41:00,624 --> 00:41:03,877
a serious interaction
dead drunk.
1111
00:41:04,036 --> 00:41:05,628
So I was kind of offended.
1112
00:41:05,787 --> 00:41:09,290
Secondly, trying to figure out
why she did that.
1113
00:41:09,383 --> 00:41:10,967
I mean, you don't have, like,
1114
00:41:11,126 --> 00:41:12,302
a bunch of drinks
by accident, right?
1115
00:41:12,461 --> 00:41:13,878
- Right.
1116
00:41:13,971 --> 00:41:15,630
- Not when--before there's
something important.
1117
00:41:15,714 --> 00:41:18,466
So in some ways,
it takes me back to the thing
1118
00:41:18,550 --> 00:41:21,060
that Cal said about her
being terrified and scared,
1119
00:41:21,145 --> 00:41:22,896
but it was difficult.
- Yeah.
1120
00:41:22,980 --> 00:41:25,139
There is so much more to unpack
when you talk to them.
1121
00:41:25,232 --> 00:41:27,391
So I can't wait
for that conversation.
1122
00:41:27,476 --> 00:41:29,319
Let's move onto Johnny and Bao.
1123
00:41:29,403 --> 00:41:32,489
Viviana, after going through
the whole matchmaking process
1124
00:41:32,648 --> 00:41:35,399
and seeing how picky Bao was,
were you surprised
1125
00:41:35,493 --> 00:41:38,319
at how low maintenance she was
when she got married?
1126
00:41:38,412 --> 00:41:40,497
- Bao does seem to be a kind of
1127
00:41:40,656 --> 00:41:43,074
go-with-the-flow person
on the outside,
1128
00:41:43,158 --> 00:41:44,834
which I think puts people
at ease around her,
1129
00:41:44,919 --> 00:41:45,919
but under the surface,
1130
00:41:46,078 --> 00:41:50,665
I think she has
an underlying anxiety,
1131
00:41:50,749 --> 00:41:54,335
so to say, that
she's constantly calculating
1132
00:41:54,419 --> 00:41:57,505
how she can make sure
that things go her way
1133
00:41:57,598 --> 00:41:59,098
or are favorable
to what she wants.
1134
00:41:59,258 --> 00:42:01,008
Everybody does that.
1135
00:42:01,093 --> 00:42:04,679
She just has systems in place
to make sure it happens.
1136
00:42:04,763 --> 00:42:05,772
- We don't agree on this.
1137
00:42:05,931 --> 00:42:06,856
- [laughs]
- No.
1138
00:42:07,015 --> 00:42:08,942
- And you know
I respect you highly,
1139
00:42:09,101 --> 00:42:12,612
but what you're saying is sort
of like a little manipulative.
1140
00:42:12,696 --> 00:42:15,198
- I think we're all kind
of manipulative to an extent.
1141
00:42:15,282 --> 00:42:17,283
- I don't get that from her.
- Cal, breaking news.
1142
00:42:17,368 --> 00:42:19,452
That's what Johnny said
about her.
1143
00:42:19,611 --> 00:42:21,955
- I know, and I hear that.
1144
00:42:22,114 --> 00:42:23,540
She's very logical,
1145
00:42:23,699 --> 00:42:25,291
and she simply wants
to think things out.
1146
00:42:25,450 --> 00:42:28,211
I think that Johnny was
1147
00:42:28,370 --> 00:42:30,538
in a lot of ways
a little over the top.
1148
00:42:30,622 --> 00:42:34,375
- Decision Day, Johnny comes in
and after, you know,
1149
00:42:34,459 --> 00:42:37,303
complaining about Bao
and staying away from Bao,
1150
00:42:37,388 --> 00:42:39,463
he says,
"Yes, I want to stay married."
1151
00:42:39,548 --> 00:42:42,308
- Exactly.
- What was that?
1152
00:42:42,467 --> 00:42:46,387
- So I think a yes on Decision
Day from Johnny was saying,
1153
00:42:46,471 --> 00:42:51,058
"What if? What if I'm able
to see the other side?
1154
00:42:51,143 --> 00:42:53,144
"What if I'm able to get
a better full picture
1155
00:42:53,228 --> 00:42:55,238
of who she is?"
A more consistent picture
1156
00:42:55,322 --> 00:42:58,741
of who she is according
to Johnny after Decision Day.
1157
00:42:58,900 --> 00:43:00,067
I think that that's
what a yes means.
1158
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:04,238
- All right. Let's move on
to Rachel and Jose.
1159
00:43:04,323 --> 00:43:06,749
Dr. Pepper, what are
your thoughts on this couple
1160
00:43:06,834 --> 00:43:09,827
and now the fact that they're
trying to get back together?
1161
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:11,829
- This is a couple with a lot
going for them,
1162
00:43:11,913 --> 00:43:14,081
so I understand why
they want to keep trying.
1163
00:43:14,166 --> 00:43:19,012
But Jose has huge anger
that he needs to work on,
1164
00:43:19,171 --> 00:43:21,505
and he's very controlling.
1165
00:43:21,599 --> 00:43:25,176
And I don't think he understands
the extent of it.
1166
00:43:25,269 --> 00:43:27,845
- Right. He went to bed
after he locked her out.
1167
00:43:27,938 --> 00:43:30,514
- It's scary.
And I think she has every right
1168
00:43:30,599 --> 00:43:33,184
to be hesitant
about a man who would do that.
1169
00:43:33,268 --> 00:43:34,777
- Mm-hmm.
- Pepper nailed it.
1170
00:43:34,936 --> 00:43:37,280
He does have
controlling tendencies.
1171
00:43:37,364 --> 00:43:38,865
And as a therapist, I know
that control is all about
1172
00:43:39,024 --> 00:43:42,118
really decreasing anxiety.
1173
00:43:42,277 --> 00:43:44,287
Deal with the anxiety first,
people.
1174
00:43:44,446 --> 00:43:46,539
Don't try to put her
in a little cage.
1175
00:43:46,698 --> 00:43:47,790
It's not going to work,
1176
00:43:47,949 --> 00:43:50,117
especially not with
somebody like Rachel.
1177
00:43:50,202 --> 00:43:51,786
So that will have to change.
1178
00:43:51,879 --> 00:43:53,371
- This is a learning experience
for him.
1179
00:43:53,455 --> 00:43:55,465
He's going to have to step up
to the plate,
1180
00:43:55,549 --> 00:43:57,958
and he's got to doubly
prove to her
1181
00:43:58,043 --> 00:44:00,637
that he's the man
that she needs in her life.
1182
00:44:03,223 --> 00:44:04,724
Rkall or noth ♪
1183
00:44:04,808 --> 00:44:06,801
- Welcome back to "Married at
First Sight" Houston Reunion.
1184
00:44:06,885 --> 00:44:08,302
I'm Kevin Frazier
and I'm here with Dr. Pepper,
1185
00:44:08,387 --> 00:44:11,064
Pastor Cal, and Dr. Viviana.
1186
00:44:11,148 --> 00:44:13,566
Now, since Decision Day,
Rachel and Jose
1187
00:44:13,651 --> 00:44:16,060
have had a lot of issues
with their marriage.
1188
00:44:16,153 --> 00:44:18,312
But there's still hope
that they can make it
1189
00:44:18,405 --> 00:44:21,315
and find their happy ending.
1190
00:44:21,408 --> 00:44:23,484
Rachel and Jose, come on out.
1191
00:44:23,568 --> 00:44:25,328
[upbeat music]
1192
00:44:25,412 --> 00:44:26,663
- Hi.
- Hi there.
1193
00:44:26,822 --> 00:44:28,155
- Yay, I'm so excited
to see you.
1194
00:44:28,240 --> 00:44:29,248
- Nice to see you, too.
1195
00:44:29,333 --> 00:44:30,667
- Good to see you.
You guys look great.
1196
00:44:30,826 --> 00:44:33,419
- Thank you.
Thank you, thank you.
1197
00:44:33,504 --> 00:44:35,913
- Experts, we want to give you
one chance
1198
00:44:36,006 --> 00:44:38,174
to speak with this couple
and help them through
1199
00:44:38,258 --> 00:44:40,593
some of the difficulties
that are going on right now.
1200
00:44:40,752 --> 00:44:44,505
- Well, I guess first thing
is where is this relationship?
1201
00:44:44,589 --> 00:44:45,756
What's happening?
1202
00:44:45,841 --> 00:44:48,434
- First off, I got to
give kudos to Pastor Cal
1203
00:44:48,519 --> 00:44:50,428
because marriage
is not for punks, and--
1204
00:44:50,512 --> 00:44:53,764
[laughter]
And marriage is tough.
1205
00:44:53,857 --> 00:44:56,183
This is the hardest thing
I've ever had to do
1206
00:44:56,268 --> 00:45:00,029
and, you know, we've had
highs of highs, lows of lows.
1207
00:45:00,114 --> 00:45:03,357
- Once the experiment was over,
we hit another road block.
1208
00:45:03,442 --> 00:45:04,534
That one was kind of rough.
1209
00:45:04,693 --> 00:45:07,528
- Tell us about it.
- Moving into his house.
1210
00:45:07,612 --> 00:45:11,874
That readjustment, kind of
starting all over again.
1211
00:45:11,959 --> 00:45:13,868
Because now this is
the real world
1212
00:45:13,952 --> 00:45:17,204
and all we're doing is arguing
over little things,
1213
00:45:17,289 --> 00:45:20,133
so I'm thinking, ooh, like,
1214
00:45:20,217 --> 00:45:23,544
is this really
what it's going to be like?
1215
00:45:23,637 --> 00:45:25,888
I said I can't be in this house.
1216
00:45:25,973 --> 00:45:30,309
And so, yeah, we did separate.
We didn't talk for a while.
1217
00:45:30,394 --> 00:45:31,802
- Were you done
with the relationship
1218
00:45:31,887 --> 00:45:33,637
when you moved out?
- Mm-hmm.
1219
00:45:33,731 --> 00:45:37,316
I thought, "No, like, this is
too much for me and I--"
1220
00:45:37,401 --> 00:45:39,143
Yeah, I left.
1221
00:45:39,236 --> 00:45:41,061
- What changed?
1222
00:45:41,146 --> 00:45:43,314
At what point did you guys
start talking again?
1223
00:45:43,407 --> 00:45:45,649
- What changed is me actually
putting in the work
1224
00:45:45,734 --> 00:45:48,494
and doing everything I needed to
1225
00:45:48,579 --> 00:45:50,079
for the success of the marriage.
1226
00:45:50,238 --> 00:45:51,822
Let's talk, let's have
these conversations.
1227
00:45:51,907 --> 00:45:55,159
And it was a lot of work
that I put in for sure
1228
00:45:55,243 --> 00:45:56,410
because this is what I wanted
1229
00:45:56,495 --> 00:45:58,838
and it's reassuring that,
you know, she agrees
1230
00:45:58,922 --> 00:46:03,926
and she kind of feels
the same as well.
1231
00:46:04,085 --> 00:46:05,094
So I think that was
a turning point.
1232
00:46:05,179 --> 00:46:08,339
- What were the things
that you needed
1233
00:46:08,423 --> 00:46:11,759
to come back into this marriage
1234
00:46:11,843 --> 00:46:15,271
or still need that needed
understanding and change?
1235
00:46:15,430 --> 00:46:17,932
- The arguing about
how we'd argue.
1236
00:46:18,025 --> 00:46:21,352
Our problems were very simple.
1237
00:46:21,445 --> 00:46:24,614
Easy--like the finance,
all that can be solved
1238
00:46:24,698 --> 00:46:25,948
because it's compromise,
1239
00:46:26,107 --> 00:46:30,027
but it's being
passive-aggressive,
1240
00:46:30,111 --> 00:46:33,197
holding things in,
letting things linger.
1241
00:46:33,290 --> 00:46:36,033
We both have tendencies
to do those kind of things.
1242
00:46:36,117 --> 00:46:38,118
- Being mean.
- Being mean.
1243
00:46:38,212 --> 00:46:40,538
- Being mean.
We saw it.
1244
00:46:40,631 --> 00:46:41,964
It was there.
1245
00:46:42,123 --> 00:46:46,969
- And so when that kind of
started to resurface again,
1246
00:46:47,054 --> 00:46:48,796
I was kind of like,
1247
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:50,890
"Is he going to change?
Is he going to work on this?
1248
00:46:51,049 --> 00:46:54,143
Am I doing something wrong and
I don't know what I'm doing?"
1249
00:46:54,302 --> 00:46:56,637
You know, it just got--
It got difficult,
1250
00:46:56,721 --> 00:46:59,390
so I thought the best thing
for me and my happiness
1251
00:46:59,483 --> 00:47:02,059
and everything is
to get out of that situation.
1252
00:47:02,143 --> 00:47:03,986
♪ ♪
1253
00:47:04,145 --> 00:47:05,488
- I think you're a great guy,
Jose.
1254
00:47:05,572 --> 00:47:06,906
We wouldn't have
picked you otherwise
1255
00:47:06,990 --> 00:47:08,399
and I think you're a really
a good couple.
1256
00:47:08,483 --> 00:47:11,744
But I've seen some anger in you
1257
00:47:11,829 --> 00:47:13,654
that needs to be
professional addressed.
1258
00:47:13,738 --> 00:47:15,239
- Sure. Mm-hmm.
1259
00:47:15,332 --> 00:47:17,667
- Where it comes from,
how you recognize it,
1260
00:47:17,826 --> 00:47:20,253
how you avoid it,
how you handle it,
1261
00:47:20,412 --> 00:47:24,590
so that she can know that that
anger that she has experienced
1262
00:47:24,675 --> 00:47:27,760
isn't going to resurface
or it's going to be manageable
1263
00:47:27,845 --> 00:47:29,512
because you're going
to understand it more
1264
00:47:29,596 --> 00:47:31,755
and she's going to understand
where it comes from.
1265
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:35,268
And so, my wish for you
is to address that.
1266
00:47:35,352 --> 00:47:36,343
- It's valuable, man.
- Yep, exactly.
1267
00:47:36,436 --> 00:47:39,772
- Because you can
be very domineering.
1268
00:47:39,931 --> 00:47:43,017
Is that safe to say?
1269
00:47:43,110 --> 00:47:45,352
- Sure.
- Hey, come on.
1270
00:47:45,445 --> 00:47:47,113
- No, I agree. I agree.
Yes, sir.
1271
00:47:47,197 --> 00:47:48,606
- Yeah, yeah, so--
1272
00:47:48,699 --> 00:47:51,701
And do you feel like
sometimes he talks at you?
1273
00:47:51,860 --> 00:47:54,704
- Yes, uh-huh.
Yeah, I've told you.
1274
00:47:54,863 --> 00:47:56,956
- Where do you think
he's coming from?
1275
00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:58,875
- So I know the intention is,
"I want to help you out,"
1276
00:47:58,959 --> 00:48:02,453
but it's the tone or--
1277
00:48:02,546 --> 00:48:05,715
You know, it has a little
condescending tone to it
1278
00:48:05,874 --> 00:48:08,709
and I don't take well to that,
you know.
1279
00:48:08,793 --> 00:48:12,129
And so, now I've explained it
and he's kind of--
1280
00:48:12,222 --> 00:48:15,382
He said I hear it, I know
what you're talking about,
1281
00:48:15,467 --> 00:48:19,219
and so he has softened up a lot,
because I still want that help,
1282
00:48:19,313 --> 00:48:22,139
but I don't want to feel like...
1283
00:48:22,232 --> 00:48:24,475
- Like you're his child.
- Like I'm just helpless.
1284
00:48:24,559 --> 00:48:25,318
Yeah.
1285
00:48:25,402 --> 00:48:27,728
- I know the house was an issue.
1286
00:48:27,812 --> 00:48:29,572
Are you going to move back
in that house?
1287
00:48:29,656 --> 00:48:32,983
- Gradually, you know, if it
starts to feel like our home,
1288
00:48:33,076 --> 00:48:37,413
I'm very open to moving back in,
but not tomorrow.
1289
00:48:37,497 --> 00:48:39,081
I like the house.
It's spacious.
1290
00:48:39,240 --> 00:48:41,241
It had enough space
for my things.
1291
00:48:41,326 --> 00:48:43,336
I would like, you know,
1292
00:48:43,420 --> 00:48:46,088
later on, it would be nice
to purchase a home together.
1293
00:48:46,247 --> 00:48:47,831
- But you're both on
the same page,
1294
00:48:47,925 --> 00:48:48,925
is that you're working
towards the marriage.
1295
00:48:49,084 --> 00:48:52,336
I mean, are you going
to get a divorce
1296
00:48:52,420 --> 00:48:53,512
or are you going
to stay married?
1297
00:48:53,672 --> 00:48:55,839
What--have you finished
1298
00:48:55,924 --> 00:48:58,601
putting a frame
around this relationship?
1299
00:48:58,685 --> 00:48:59,760
- We are taking it slow.
1300
00:48:59,844 --> 00:49:02,262
Like, we're only seeing
each other twice
1301
00:49:02,347 --> 00:49:04,431
or maybe three times a week
1302
00:49:04,516 --> 00:49:06,359
and spending the night
maybe once a week.
1303
00:49:06,443 --> 00:49:08,936
So I definitely want
to increase that.
1304
00:49:09,020 --> 00:49:12,523
Like, I now feel like
I really know him.
1305
00:49:12,616 --> 00:49:14,951
The stronger we are,
the closer we'll become to like,
1306
00:49:15,110 --> 00:49:17,945
"Oh, for sure,
we are here to be married,
1307
00:49:18,038 --> 00:49:20,614
you know, for a long time."
1308
00:49:20,699 --> 00:49:25,369
- I admire what you guys
are doing because you said
1309
00:49:25,462 --> 00:49:29,456
that you had shut it down,
it's over, I'm done.
1310
00:49:29,549 --> 00:49:31,542
And we've talked
to a lot of people
1311
00:49:31,626 --> 00:49:32,710
who have not recovered
from that,
1312
00:49:32,794 --> 00:49:34,211
who will not recover from that.
1313
00:49:34,304 --> 00:49:37,381
But if you say
I'm committed to this person,
1314
00:49:37,474 --> 00:49:39,883
irrespective of whether or not
I feel it right now,
1315
00:49:39,977 --> 00:49:43,396
I'm going to do the actions
of being committed
1316
00:49:43,480 --> 00:49:45,898
and the feelings will come back
and that's what you did.
1317
00:49:46,057 --> 00:49:48,734
And this is what I hope most--
A lot of people will learn,
1318
00:49:48,893 --> 00:49:51,904
that if there are times
that you don't feel committed,
1319
00:49:51,989 --> 00:49:53,480
"I don't feel good
about him right now.
1320
00:49:53,573 --> 00:49:54,573
"I don't like him right now.
1321
00:49:54,733 --> 00:49:56,734
"I can't stand him.
I can't stand her.
1322
00:49:56,827 --> 00:49:59,069
But I'm going to stay in this
and work through it."
1323
00:49:59,154 --> 00:50:02,573
The feelings will return.
- Mm-hmm.
1324
00:50:02,657 --> 00:50:04,166
- And that--you're
a shining example of that.
1325
00:50:04,325 --> 00:50:05,334
I just want to give you
kudos for that.
1326
00:50:05,419 --> 00:50:07,253
I mean, it's awesome.
1327
00:50:07,337 --> 00:50:09,755
- All right, experts.
Before Rachel and Jose go,
1328
00:50:09,914 --> 00:50:12,082
what do you think?
1329
00:50:12,167 --> 00:50:12,916
Does this marriage have a shot?
1330
00:50:13,010 --> 00:50:15,335
♪ ♪
1331
00:50:15,420 --> 00:50:18,597
- Absolutely. I think with
ongoing professional help,
1332
00:50:18,757 --> 00:50:22,259
just to really get y'all over
these humps, it will be great.
1333
00:50:22,352 --> 00:50:24,595
- I've always thought
this was a great marriage
1334
00:50:24,679 --> 00:50:27,773
with some real things
that had to be fixed,
1335
00:50:27,932 --> 00:50:30,851
so I do believe that you are
committed enough to fix them
1336
00:50:30,935 --> 00:50:33,687
and really go on from there
to a great marriage.
1337
00:50:33,772 --> 00:50:35,022
- You guys are destined
to be together.
1338
00:50:35,115 --> 00:50:38,367
And the fact that you recovered,
I mean, says volumes
1339
00:50:38,526 --> 00:50:40,444
about your commitment
to each other.
1340
00:50:40,528 --> 00:50:43,363
Don't depend on how you feel.
Depend on what you know, okay?
1341
00:50:43,448 --> 00:50:45,875
You've made a commitment.
Depend on the commitment.
1342
00:50:45,959 --> 00:50:47,293
- That's good to hear.
1343
00:50:47,452 --> 00:50:48,869
- No, you're going to make it.
You're going to make it.
1344
00:50:48,953 --> 00:50:50,046
- Thank you, thank you.
1345
00:50:50,130 --> 00:50:53,040
- As always,
great advice from the experts.
1346
00:50:53,124 --> 00:50:55,217
Rachel and Jose, thank you
so much for joining us
1347
00:50:55,302 --> 00:50:56,469
and I wish you well
1348
00:50:56,628 --> 00:50:58,295
as you continue to work
on your relationship.
1349
00:50:58,379 --> 00:50:59,722
- Thanks, Kevin.
- Thank you.
1350
00:50:59,881 --> 00:51:00,881
- Thanks, experts.
Thanks. Thanks, guys.
1351
00:51:00,974 --> 00:51:02,216
- Love you guys.
- Bye, guys.
1352
00:51:02,300 --> 00:51:03,217
- Take care.
1353
00:51:03,310 --> 00:51:04,894
- We have to take a quick break,
1354
00:51:04,978 --> 00:51:06,470
but when we come back,
we'll bring
1355
00:51:06,563 --> 00:51:08,898
Myrla and Gil out here
to meet with the experts,
1356
00:51:08,982 --> 00:51:10,808
and maybe they can help
guide them
1357
00:51:10,892 --> 00:51:12,651
to a possible future together.
1358
00:51:12,811 --> 00:51:14,361
We'll see. Don't go away.
1359
00:51:18,483 --> 00:51:19,992
- We're back. I'm Kevin Frazier
and you're watching
1360
00:51:20,077 --> 00:51:22,161
the "Married at First Sight"
Houston Reunion.
1361
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:23,821
Now it is time for the experts
to talk to another couple
1362
00:51:23,905 --> 00:51:25,831
who has called it quits
since Decision Day
1363
00:51:25,916 --> 00:51:28,075
and see if they could help them
figure out what went wrong
1364
00:51:28,159 --> 00:51:30,077
and if there's any chance
that maybe,
1365
00:51:30,161 --> 00:51:34,414
just maybe they could still
have a future together.
1366
00:51:34,499 --> 00:51:36,083
Myrla and Gil, come on out.
1367
00:51:36,167 --> 00:51:38,511
[upbeat music]
1368
00:51:38,595 --> 00:51:41,764
- Hello. Hi.
- Hi.
1369
00:51:41,848 --> 00:51:43,924
- Hey, y'all.
- What's up, Kevin?
1370
00:51:44,008 --> 00:51:45,592
- Now, we brought out
Myrla and Gil
1371
00:51:45,677 --> 00:51:48,679
to get some more answers
to what happened
1372
00:51:48,763 --> 00:51:50,356
and why they split.
1373
00:51:50,515 --> 00:51:51,941
I think we're all shocked
1374
00:51:52,025 --> 00:51:54,110
and I think the experts want
to get to the bottom of this.
1375
00:51:54,269 --> 00:51:56,278
Dr. Pepper,
I'm going to start with you.
1376
00:51:56,437 --> 00:52:00,366
- Myrla, I am confused
because I've been with you
1377
00:52:00,525 --> 00:52:04,787
several times where you gave me
very powerful expressions
1378
00:52:04,871 --> 00:52:07,456
of I would say
love and attachment.
1379
00:52:07,541 --> 00:52:10,868
So we have a clip
that I want to show you,
1380
00:52:10,961 --> 00:52:14,630
and then I want to ask you
some questions after that.
1381
00:52:14,714 --> 00:52:17,374
- Do you feel grateful
that he's in your life?
1382
00:52:17,467 --> 00:52:19,218
- I do.
1383
00:52:19,377 --> 00:52:23,139
Like above and beyond
what I even expected was, like,
1384
00:52:23,223 --> 00:52:26,967
you pray for things,
but you don't think that--
1385
00:52:27,051 --> 00:52:30,479
You know, you never really think
that these things will happen.
1386
00:52:30,564 --> 00:52:32,148
Like, who he says he is
is what he's shown me,
1387
00:52:32,232 --> 00:52:34,892
and for me,
it's the small things.
1388
00:52:34,976 --> 00:52:37,644
Like, he makes the bed.
1389
00:52:37,729 --> 00:52:40,898
That to me is like
a key to my heart.
1390
00:52:40,991 --> 00:52:43,901
Like, he doesn't have
to do that, you know?
1391
00:52:43,994 --> 00:52:47,413
It's like, it's two minutes.
It takes two minutes to do it.
1392
00:52:47,497 --> 00:52:50,991
But for me, that's meaningful.
1393
00:52:51,084 --> 00:52:54,503
He buys me flowers every week.
1394
00:52:54,662 --> 00:52:57,756
- He sounds romantic.
Very romantic.
1395
00:52:57,841 --> 00:53:00,342
- For me, that's consistency.
1396
00:53:00,427 --> 00:53:02,753
He opens the door for me
everywhere we go.
1397
00:53:02,837 --> 00:53:04,671
It doesn't matter
if I'm driving or he's driving.
1398
00:53:04,756 --> 00:53:08,425
For me, that is consistency.
1399
00:53:08,509 --> 00:53:11,103
[emotional music]
1400
00:53:11,188 --> 00:53:13,430
- Are you okay?
1401
00:53:13,523 --> 00:53:14,932
- I don't blame you
for tearing up from that.
1402
00:53:15,025 --> 00:53:16,600
It's powerful.
1403
00:53:16,693 --> 00:53:18,352
♪ ♪
1404
00:53:18,436 --> 00:53:20,520
- What are you feeling, Gil?
1405
00:53:20,605 --> 00:53:22,189
- [clears throat]
1406
00:53:22,273 --> 00:53:25,284
I was blindsided with the--
1407
00:53:25,368 --> 00:53:28,946
With how everything went down.
1408
00:53:29,039 --> 00:53:33,042
Obviously, she felt a certain
way and I never knew it.
1409
00:53:33,201 --> 00:53:37,454
I didn't know it
until it was actually over.
1410
00:53:37,538 --> 00:53:40,549
I feel like it was
a little unfair to me
1411
00:53:40,634 --> 00:53:42,459
because...
1412
00:53:42,543 --> 00:53:49,391
♪ ♪
1413
00:53:50,894 --> 00:53:53,812
It was obviously something
that we could have--
1414
00:53:53,897 --> 00:53:55,397
Look, man, I don't want to be
1415
00:53:55,482 --> 00:53:56,982
with somebody that
doesn't want to be with me.
1416
00:53:57,067 --> 00:53:58,058
I completely understand that.
1417
00:53:58,142 --> 00:53:59,485
I'm perfectly fine
with rejection.
1418
00:53:59,569 --> 00:54:00,819
I've been through it.
1419
00:54:00,904 --> 00:54:04,573
I just wish that my wife
1420
00:54:04,658 --> 00:54:07,076
would obviously tell me,
you know,
1421
00:54:07,235 --> 00:54:10,162
if she had any type
of reservations against me.
1422
00:54:10,321 --> 00:54:13,916
You know, "Hey, I like you, but,
mm, I'm not really feeling you."
1423
00:54:14,075 --> 00:54:16,001
Okay, cool.
1424
00:54:16,086 --> 00:54:20,163
But what I got was, I'm in it.
1425
00:54:20,248 --> 00:54:24,501
And so, obviously,
dove head first.
1426
00:54:24,585 --> 00:54:25,761
♪ ♪
1427
00:54:25,845 --> 00:54:29,431
And, you know, to get what I got
and how I got it,
1428
00:54:29,516 --> 00:54:31,183
it was hurtful, and then,
obviously seeing that,
1429
00:54:31,268 --> 00:54:34,261
it's just, whew, man.
1430
00:54:34,345 --> 00:54:37,931
I didn't shed one tear
throughout this whole experience
1431
00:54:38,024 --> 00:54:41,026
and I can't even
control myself right now.
1432
00:54:41,111 --> 00:54:42,528
It's...
- Mm.
1433
00:54:42,612 --> 00:54:43,937
- It's--
1434
00:54:44,022 --> 00:54:45,948
- Myrla, what do you think
about what he's saying?
1435
00:54:46,107 --> 00:54:49,026
- I was honest with you
from the front.
1436
00:54:49,110 --> 00:54:50,610
Did I feel
the instant chemistry?
1437
00:54:50,695 --> 00:54:52,696
No, and I was also honest
about that.
1438
00:54:52,780 --> 00:54:56,125
Like, it took me longer
and my attraction
1439
00:54:56,209 --> 00:54:58,377
and all those things grew.
1440
00:54:58,461 --> 00:55:00,546
I was truly happy.
1441
00:55:00,705 --> 00:55:03,465
Like, you make me happy
throughout the whole process.
1442
00:55:03,624 --> 00:55:07,794
But there were things that
happened and I can't--
1443
00:55:07,887 --> 00:55:09,463
Like, you know,
can I tell you, like,
1444
00:55:09,547 --> 00:55:11,048
on this day, this happened.
1445
00:55:11,141 --> 00:55:12,299
When I felt those feelings,
like, something's off,
1446
00:55:12,383 --> 00:55:16,228
it doesn't feel
the way I feel love,
1447
00:55:16,313 --> 00:55:19,639
and I had to communicate that
to you when I felt it.
1448
00:55:19,733 --> 00:55:21,233
And that's when I told you
those things
1449
00:55:21,392 --> 00:55:22,642
when I felt those things.
1450
00:55:22,727 --> 00:55:24,653
- Myrla, it doesn't all add up.
1451
00:55:24,738 --> 00:55:26,396
Because it wasn't just
that one time we were there.
1452
00:55:26,489 --> 00:55:30,409
It was also the time
when I came to your apartment
1453
00:55:30,568 --> 00:55:31,818
and you two were snuggling
1454
00:55:31,911 --> 00:55:34,571
and giving each other
strong feelings, et cetera.
1455
00:55:34,664 --> 00:55:37,991
And I want to know how
that all just suddenly flips.
1456
00:55:38,076 --> 00:55:40,660
I want to know if it really
had to do with the money.
1457
00:55:40,745 --> 00:55:42,829
I want to know what happened
1458
00:55:42,914 --> 00:55:45,174
because all of us
were flabbergasted,
1459
00:55:45,333 --> 00:55:48,761
not to mention your husband,
so I want specifics
1460
00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:51,430
'cause you need to give us
really what made that flip,
1461
00:55:51,514 --> 00:55:52,923
not just some amorphous feeling.
1462
00:55:53,007 --> 00:55:55,008
- For me,
it's not just finances.
1463
00:55:55,093 --> 00:55:56,343
We talked about finances.
1464
00:55:56,427 --> 00:55:58,020
Finances were an issue
from day one.
1465
00:55:58,104 --> 00:55:59,605
I mean, we had
those conversations,
1466
00:55:59,689 --> 00:56:00,773
we talked about savings.
1467
00:56:00,932 --> 00:56:02,766
So those are things
that we were working on.
1468
00:56:02,859 --> 00:56:04,434
We talked about the differences
in financial drive.
1469
00:56:04,519 --> 00:56:08,021
I mean, that, you know, he--that
doesn't drive him, that's okay.
1470
00:56:08,106 --> 00:56:10,699
But for me, there were things
that occurred after Decision Day
1471
00:56:10,858 --> 00:56:15,287
where I didn't feel that
I could feel safe with him
1472
00:56:15,372 --> 00:56:17,956
to make financial decisions
for us in our future.
1473
00:56:18,041 --> 00:56:21,701
[tense music]
1474
00:56:21,786 --> 00:56:24,213
- You were terrified,
and as a result,
1475
00:56:24,297 --> 00:56:27,966
I believe you made
rash decisions based on fear
1476
00:56:28,126 --> 00:56:29,459
and not based on logic,
1477
00:56:29,544 --> 00:56:34,297
not based on what
your relationship actually was.
1478
00:56:34,382 --> 00:56:38,644
There's no logical reason
for you to have a relationship
1479
00:56:38,803 --> 00:56:42,722
where things are going great,
you both are feeling awesome,
1480
00:56:42,807 --> 00:56:46,143
you're saying I can be with you
forever, et cetera, et cetera,
1481
00:56:46,236 --> 00:56:49,071
and then because I don't feel
financially secure,
1482
00:56:49,155 --> 00:56:51,064
this is not going to work.
1483
00:56:51,157 --> 00:56:53,575
I'm going to be straight
with you.
1484
00:56:53,660 --> 00:56:56,653
When I met my wife, I was broke.
1485
00:56:56,746 --> 00:56:58,664
♪ ♪
1486
00:56:58,823 --> 00:57:00,574
But a wife looks at her husband
1487
00:57:00,658 --> 00:57:03,827
and starts seeing what
they can build together, okay?
1488
00:57:03,911 --> 00:57:07,080
You didn't stay in it
long enough to see that.
1489
00:57:07,165 --> 00:57:08,165
You understand what I'm saying?
1490
00:57:08,249 --> 00:57:09,341
- I understand,
and I think for me,
1491
00:57:09,426 --> 00:57:11,251
had it just been the finances,
1492
00:57:11,344 --> 00:57:13,170
like, that's something
we can work on.
1493
00:57:13,254 --> 00:57:15,764
But for me it was
the combination of finances,
1494
00:57:15,923 --> 00:57:17,516
things that we both
valued together,
1495
00:57:17,675 --> 00:57:19,518
attraction and chemistry.
1496
00:57:19,602 --> 00:57:21,103
I was not happy.
1497
00:57:21,187 --> 00:57:23,188
So should I just stay in here
because he's so happy with me,
1498
00:57:23,273 --> 00:57:24,606
but I'm not happy
1499
00:57:24,691 --> 00:57:26,099
and I can't give him
the full love that he deserves?
1500
00:57:26,184 --> 00:57:27,109
- You keep saying
happy, happy, happy.
1501
00:57:27,193 --> 00:57:28,610
- I know,
I don't want to say happy,
1502
00:57:28,769 --> 00:57:29,778
I want to say like--
- Here's the thing.
1503
00:57:29,937 --> 00:57:31,855
Happiness is not the goal
of your marriage.
1504
00:57:31,948 --> 00:57:34,950
Happiness is a by-product
of two people coming together
1505
00:57:35,034 --> 00:57:38,028
making a decision to work
towards whatever goal
1506
00:57:38,112 --> 00:57:40,372
they want to work towards,
and reaching those goals
1507
00:57:40,531 --> 00:57:44,201
is what makes them happy.
1508
00:57:44,294 --> 00:57:46,036
You know, I know it feels like
we're beating you up,
1509
00:57:46,120 --> 00:57:49,131
but I believe that, Myrla,
as much as I like you,
1510
00:57:49,215 --> 00:57:52,459
I think you're setting
a precedent for failure
1511
00:57:52,552 --> 00:57:55,721
if you continue
to judge relationships
1512
00:57:55,805 --> 00:57:58,390
by momentary feelings.
1513
00:57:58,549 --> 00:57:59,641
- We're not trying to put
1514
00:57:59,726 --> 00:58:00,976
Humpty Dumpty back together
again right now.
1515
00:58:01,060 --> 00:58:02,052
- No, no, no.
1516
00:58:02,136 --> 00:58:03,470
- No, of course not,
I know that.
1517
00:58:03,554 --> 00:58:06,640
- We understand that,
but I think you should take it
1518
00:58:06,724 --> 00:58:07,900
very seriously for your future.
1519
00:58:08,059 --> 00:58:12,321
If you're starting to feel
these kinds of emotions,
1520
00:58:12,405 --> 00:58:14,656
talk about it with your partner.
1521
00:58:14,741 --> 00:58:16,983
Try to work through
with your partner.
1522
00:58:17,076 --> 00:58:20,162
No one deserves
to be blindsided,
1523
00:58:20,246 --> 00:58:23,999
and that's part of, to me,
the tragedy of this.
1524
00:58:24,083 --> 00:58:26,335
I would love for you,
for your future
1525
00:58:26,494 --> 00:58:29,412
to really figure out
some of these feelings
1526
00:58:29,497 --> 00:58:32,341
you have about money
and safety and trust,
1527
00:58:32,500 --> 00:58:35,001
because I think
they're undermining you
1528
00:58:35,094 --> 00:58:37,679
in ways they do not have to.
1529
00:58:37,838 --> 00:58:39,348
- You know, I think that
if I had asked you
1530
00:58:39,432 --> 00:58:41,758
at the very beginning
of this process
1531
00:58:41,842 --> 00:58:44,853
what would be the criteria
that would have to be present
1532
00:58:45,012 --> 00:58:47,689
for you to divorce
your new husband,
1533
00:58:47,774 --> 00:58:50,016
I don't think it's present here.
1534
00:58:50,101 --> 00:58:52,519
And I feel like
you need to dig into that
1535
00:58:52,603 --> 00:58:55,280
and figure out
really what happened.
1536
00:58:55,439 --> 00:58:58,951
Why would you say no to the
potential that was grown here?
1537
00:58:59,035 --> 00:59:02,696
So that's where I'm thinking
you might have to recalibrate
1538
00:59:02,789 --> 00:59:04,873
whether marriage is for you.
1539
00:59:04,958 --> 00:59:07,117
- Yeah, marriage may not be
for you. Do you think?
1540
00:59:07,201 --> 00:59:09,628
- I mean, I don't know.
I'll have to think about.
1541
00:59:09,787 --> 00:59:12,214
- And Gil, man, listen,
1542
00:59:12,298 --> 00:59:15,292
don't ever
allow your past baggage
1543
00:59:15,376 --> 00:59:17,627
to determine
your future success.
1544
00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:18,637
- And I get that.
1545
00:59:18,796 --> 00:59:19,713
- You understand what
I'm saying?
1546
00:59:19,797 --> 00:59:21,047
- And I completely
understand that,
1547
00:59:21,140 --> 00:59:22,215
it's just one of those things
1548
00:59:22,308 --> 00:59:24,643
that's just easier said
than done, right?
1549
00:59:24,727 --> 00:59:25,727
- Of course it is.
1550
00:59:25,812 --> 00:59:27,804
- I would hope
you would take from this
1551
00:59:27,888 --> 00:59:29,889
that you have a great capacity
for love,
1552
00:59:29,974 --> 00:59:32,150
great capacity
to be a great husband,
1553
00:59:32,235 --> 00:59:35,228
and that you should feel sure
and better of yourself,
1554
00:59:35,313 --> 00:59:37,155
because I think
what you've shown to me
1555
00:59:37,315 --> 00:59:39,324
is a great future as a husband.
1556
00:59:39,409 --> 00:59:41,735
- Absolutely, and Gil,
I'm going to tell you this.
1557
00:59:41,819 --> 00:59:42,744
Bruh,
you're going to be all right.
1558
00:59:42,829 --> 00:59:46,331
- More than all right.
- Trust me.
1559
00:59:46,416 --> 00:59:47,907
You're going to be all right.
1560
00:59:47,992 --> 00:59:49,501
Myrla and Gil,
thanks for being here.
1561
00:59:49,660 --> 00:59:50,919
We appreciate you,
1562
00:59:51,004 --> 00:59:53,005
and we thank you for
sitting down with the experts.
1563
00:59:53,089 --> 00:59:54,506
- Thank you for having us.
- Thank you guys.
1564
00:59:54,665 --> 00:59:56,666
- All right.
Take care, y'all.
1565
00:59:56,751 --> 00:59:58,168
♪ ♪
1566
00:59:58,252 --> 00:59:59,761
Wow, that was a lot.
1567
00:59:59,846 --> 01:00:01,597
It was emotional.
My heart breaks for Gil.
1568
01:00:01,681 --> 01:00:04,516
I could see that
it got to y'all too.
1569
01:00:04,601 --> 01:00:06,926
- Absolutely.
1570
01:00:07,011 --> 01:00:09,688
- Pastor Cal, Dr. Pepper
and Dr. Viviana,
1571
01:00:09,772 --> 01:00:11,607
another fantastic job by you,
1572
01:00:11,766 --> 01:00:13,275
so thank you again
for what you've done,
1573
01:00:13,359 --> 01:00:14,934
and thanks for talking
to these couples.
1574
01:00:15,019 --> 01:00:15,611
- Thank you.
- Thank you.
1575
01:00:19,866 --> 01:00:21,024
- Welcome back to the "Married
At First Sight" - on. We have to t
1576
01:00:21,117 --> 01:00:22,275
Houston Reunion.
1577
01:00:22,360 --> 01:00:23,535
Now this is exciting
because I'm joined now
1578
01:00:23,694 --> 01:00:26,112
by the entire Houston cast.
1579
01:00:26,197 --> 01:00:27,623
Hey, guys.
- We made it.
1580
01:00:27,707 --> 01:00:29,875
- How is it to all
be back together?
1581
01:00:30,034 --> 01:00:31,627
- Good.
- Feels good.
1582
01:00:31,786 --> 01:00:34,129
- Let me ask you,
who misses filming?
1583
01:00:35,956 --> 01:00:36,798
- What?
- Johnny.
1584
01:00:36,883 --> 01:00:38,708
- Johnny does.
- I miss filming.
1585
01:00:38,793 --> 01:00:40,469
- You miss filming?
- Yeah, when we hang out,
1586
01:00:40,553 --> 01:00:42,971
I always say like,
can somebody diary cam this?
1587
01:00:43,130 --> 01:00:45,715
- Yeah, it's true.
- That's true.
1588
01:00:45,800 --> 01:00:48,635
- I just want to ask you about
the fun of this experience,
1589
01:00:48,728 --> 01:00:50,053
and what are the positive things
1590
01:00:50,137 --> 01:00:52,064
you will take away
from this experience.
1591
01:00:52,223 --> 01:00:54,650
Zack, I want to start with you.
1592
01:00:54,809 --> 01:00:56,735
- I would say the most
positive thing I took away
1593
01:00:56,819 --> 01:00:59,237
from this experience
was just meeting these people.
1594
01:00:59,397 --> 01:01:01,406
A great group of women and men,
1595
01:01:01,565 --> 01:01:04,159
and I really feel like they're
going to be lifelong friends.
1596
01:01:04,318 --> 01:01:05,661
- This is the first time
you and Michaela
1597
01:01:05,820 --> 01:01:07,654
have had a chance
to be on the stage.
1598
01:01:07,738 --> 01:01:08,830
Michaela, why can't I just have
him sit in that other chair?
1599
01:01:08,989 --> 01:01:11,408
- I don't want him next to me.
No.
1600
01:01:11,492 --> 01:01:11,908
- Because you're saying
all these things,
1601
01:01:12,001 --> 01:01:14,169
and it's like...
1602
01:01:14,328 --> 01:01:15,745
- Mm-mm.
1603
01:01:15,830 --> 01:01:17,422
- How was that?
- Come on, Kevin.
1604
01:01:17,581 --> 01:01:20,592
[tense music]
1605
01:01:20,751 --> 01:01:22,344
Uh, I'm indifferent.
1606
01:01:22,503 --> 01:01:23,753
♪ ♪
1607
01:01:23,838 --> 01:01:27,006
- Yeah?
- Yeah.
1608
01:01:27,100 --> 01:01:29,518
- Michaela, how about you?
- I'm fine.
1609
01:01:29,677 --> 01:01:36,525
♪ ♪
1610
01:01:38,436 --> 01:01:40,779
- All right. Let's move on.
1611
01:01:40,863 --> 01:01:42,105
You guys all are great sports
about social media,
1612
01:01:42,189 --> 01:01:46,276
but is there anybody surprised
by the reaction?
1613
01:01:46,369 --> 01:01:49,696
- I like chirping back, so...
- We all know that, Ryan.
1614
01:01:49,780 --> 01:01:50,956
- I typically--
1615
01:01:51,040 --> 01:01:52,958
If I see something
that I think is kind of funny,
1616
01:01:53,042 --> 01:01:55,043
like not in a good light for me,
1617
01:01:55,128 --> 01:01:57,129
I'll just be like yeah,
like, just mess with them.
1618
01:01:57,213 --> 01:02:00,123
Be like, yeah, same.
Because I don't know,
1619
01:02:00,216 --> 01:02:04,377
I kind of like to poke
the agitators a little bit.
1620
01:02:04,470 --> 01:02:05,462
- And they're usually shocked
1621
01:02:05,546 --> 01:02:06,713
when you answer back,
aren't they?
1622
01:02:06,806 --> 01:02:08,724
- Yeah they are,
and typically they don't think
1623
01:02:08,883 --> 01:02:11,393
it's actually me doing it,
which is even better.
1624
01:02:11,477 --> 01:02:14,730
So I continue to do it
and go under the radar.
1625
01:02:14,814 --> 01:02:17,474
- It's amazing how many people
care about my showering habits.
1626
01:02:17,558 --> 01:02:19,559
- Yes.
[laughter]
1627
01:02:19,643 --> 01:02:21,728
- I'm unhygienic to them.
1628
01:02:21,821 --> 01:02:24,489
- Got one right here.
- [laughs]
1629
01:02:24,648 --> 01:02:26,241
- Honey.
[laughs]
1630
01:02:26,325 --> 01:02:29,244
- I swear I shower, guys.
I swear.
1631
01:02:29,328 --> 01:02:31,654
On a daily basis, I swear.
1632
01:02:31,748 --> 01:02:33,907
- Now she runs into people and
she tells them to smell her.
1633
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:38,495
- Smell me, smell me, I swear.
I'm clean.
1634
01:02:38,588 --> 01:02:42,415
- Gil, how are your DMs,
'cause the ladies have been
1635
01:02:42,508 --> 01:02:46,085
a little excited
about you on this show.
1636
01:02:46,170 --> 01:02:47,337
- Ladies love cool Gil.
1637
01:02:47,430 --> 01:02:49,347
- [laughs]
- Um...
1638
01:02:49,432 --> 01:02:52,592
[stammering]
It's--it's full.
1639
01:02:52,676 --> 01:02:54,594
[upbeat music]
1640
01:02:54,687 --> 01:02:56,772
I've been getting
a lot of messages.
1641
01:02:56,931 --> 01:02:59,182
It's funny because
I got a nice mixture.
1642
01:02:59,275 --> 01:03:01,693
I mean, obviously it was
a lot of women in my DMs,
1643
01:03:01,778 --> 01:03:04,780
but I've been getting a lot
of guys in my DMs as well.
1644
01:03:04,864 --> 01:03:05,947
- What?
- Wait, what?
1645
01:03:06,032 --> 01:03:07,774
[laughter]
1646
01:03:07,867 --> 01:03:09,701
- It's not what you think.
1647
01:03:09,786 --> 01:03:11,536
You know, it's not like guys
are trying to hit on me.
1648
01:03:11,695 --> 01:03:12,946
These are all heterosexual guys
1649
01:03:13,030 --> 01:03:15,281
that watch the show
with their wives,
1650
01:03:15,366 --> 01:03:18,043
and they're just like
congratulating me,
1651
01:03:18,127 --> 01:03:19,628
and, you know,
1652
01:03:19,712 --> 01:03:21,454
getting love
from all these people,
1653
01:03:21,547 --> 01:03:23,548
these random people
on social media,
1654
01:03:23,707 --> 01:03:26,376
I mean, it's good.
It's cool.
1655
01:03:26,460 --> 01:03:27,627
- But, Gil, come on.
1656
01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:29,546
Tell me the craziest thing
in your DM.
1657
01:03:29,639 --> 01:03:31,640
Give me one good one.
1658
01:03:31,724 --> 01:03:33,550
- The craziest--
1659
01:03:33,634 --> 01:03:36,386
Oh, okay,
so I have one young lady.
1660
01:03:36,470 --> 01:03:38,221
♪ ♪
1661
01:03:38,305 --> 01:03:41,558
She's definitely a fan.
1662
01:03:41,642 --> 01:03:42,818
She, um...
[laughter]
1663
01:03:42,902 --> 01:03:45,070
- [bleep].
1664
01:03:45,229 --> 01:03:46,229
- Tell us more.
1665
01:03:46,313 --> 01:03:47,989
♪ ♪
1666
01:03:48,074 --> 01:03:50,575
- Every week,
1667
01:03:50,660 --> 01:03:53,745
it's maybe about
anywhere from 10 to 12 posts
1668
01:03:53,904 --> 01:03:56,739
on her live story about myself,
1669
01:03:56,824 --> 01:04:00,669
and she's like,
I'm only a flight away.
1670
01:04:00,828 --> 01:04:03,922
Let me know
if it doesn't work out.
1671
01:04:04,006 --> 01:04:08,167
You know, we're meant to be.
She's not the one for you.
1672
01:04:08,261 --> 01:04:12,922
I'm here for you,
and it's a weekly thing.
1673
01:04:13,007 --> 01:04:16,926
Every Wednesday,
8:30 to 9:00 p.m. it's there.
1674
01:04:17,019 --> 01:04:19,855
- That is real dedication.
- Yeah, that's dedication.
1675
01:04:20,014 --> 01:04:21,773
- That is real dedication.
- I like her already.
1676
01:04:21,932 --> 01:04:23,191
- Oh, boy.
- We all like her.
1677
01:04:23,276 --> 01:04:26,686
- Jose, a lot of people
are questioning your type.
1678
01:04:26,770 --> 01:04:28,271
[tense music]
1679
01:04:28,355 --> 01:04:31,107
Do you want to straighten
that out?
1680
01:04:31,200 --> 01:04:35,528
- Yeah, I think it's funny
that there's millions of people
1681
01:04:35,621 --> 01:04:38,698
that think that I am
on the wrong show,
1682
01:04:38,782 --> 01:04:41,784
and I'm attracted
to the wrong person.
1683
01:04:41,878 --> 01:04:44,296
And I'm like, for me,
I'm just like, I don't get it,
1684
01:04:44,380 --> 01:04:47,215
but, you know, I know that,
you know, we're happy,
1685
01:04:47,374 --> 01:04:49,292
and this is my wife,
and we're good.
1686
01:04:49,376 --> 01:04:50,543
- It's okay, Jose,
I don't get it either.
1687
01:04:50,636 --> 01:04:52,378
- I really don't.
- I have a really good gaydar
1688
01:04:52,471 --> 01:04:53,889
and it does not go off with you.
1689
01:04:54,048 --> 01:04:55,548
- Everyone's going to have
an opinion
1690
01:04:55,633 --> 01:04:56,558
but you can't read into it,
1691
01:04:56,642 --> 01:04:58,301
especially if you know
who you are.
1692
01:04:58,394 --> 01:04:59,728
I mean, it's just
one of those things where,
1693
01:04:59,812 --> 01:05:02,898
and I think it's funny,
but it is what it is.
1694
01:05:02,982 --> 01:05:04,474
- Since filming ended,
some of you
1695
01:05:04,567 --> 01:05:06,476
are playing on
a volleyball team together.
1696
01:05:06,560 --> 01:05:08,978
♪ ♪
1697
01:05:09,071 --> 01:05:10,071
- [grunts]
1698
01:05:10,156 --> 01:05:12,815
- Slammed it in their face,
baby.
1699
01:05:12,900 --> 01:05:15,318
- Can you tell us
who was playing on the team
1700
01:05:15,411 --> 01:05:16,986
and who was hanging out?
1701
01:05:17,071 --> 01:05:18,237
- During filming we had
a volleyball scene,
1702
01:05:18,331 --> 01:05:21,157
it was Zack, Brett,
Myrla and I on a team,
1703
01:05:21,241 --> 01:05:23,418
and we like kicked
these guys' asses.
1704
01:05:23,502 --> 01:05:25,411
[laughter]
1705
01:05:25,496 --> 01:05:28,247
And during that time,
we're like, this is so much fun.
1706
01:05:28,332 --> 01:05:30,750
We should do it again after the
show--after filming's done,
1707
01:05:30,834 --> 01:05:32,085
so I signed up
for a team for a week.
1708
01:05:32,169 --> 01:05:35,004
- What was our team name?
1709
01:05:35,089 --> 01:05:36,673
- It was Premarital Sets.
1710
01:05:36,766 --> 01:05:39,175
[laughs]
1711
01:05:39,268 --> 01:05:40,602
Came up with that one.
1712
01:05:40,761 --> 01:05:41,761
- So witty.
1713
01:05:41,854 --> 01:05:43,188
- Who's gone on trips,
who's hung out,
1714
01:05:43,272 --> 01:05:46,599
who's had a chance to kick it?
1715
01:05:46,684 --> 01:05:49,361
- Us. We went to Chicago.
1716
01:05:49,445 --> 01:05:50,946
- Well, first we went
to Cancun together.
1717
01:05:51,030 --> 01:05:52,364
- Yeah, we went to Cancun.
1718
01:05:52,448 --> 01:05:54,199
- Myrla and Johnny?
- Uh...
1719
01:05:55,359 --> 01:05:57,944
That sounds weird.
[laughter]
1720
01:05:58,037 --> 01:05:58,945
- No, no,
let me straighten it out.
1721
01:05:59,038 --> 01:06:01,957
Johnny and Myrla.
Okay, go ahead.
1722
01:06:02,041 --> 01:06:03,625
- I was going to be there
for a wedding anyway,
1723
01:06:03,709 --> 01:06:05,543
and she was going
with her coworker.
1724
01:06:05,628 --> 01:06:07,036
- For my birthday.
- Yeah, for her birthday,
1725
01:06:07,121 --> 01:06:09,872
and just happened to be
at the same place, same time.
1726
01:06:09,957 --> 01:06:11,040
- So you had a chance
to hang out in Cancun.
1727
01:06:11,125 --> 01:06:13,960
♪ ♪
1728
01:06:14,044 --> 01:06:16,045
And, Myrla, you and Johnny
are just BFFs.
1729
01:06:16,130 --> 01:06:18,556
♪ ♪
1730
01:06:18,716 --> 01:06:20,141
- What? What is the shrug?
1731
01:06:20,226 --> 01:06:22,978
[laughter]
1732
01:06:23,062 --> 01:06:25,313
- Wait, whoa, Johnny.
What does that mean, Johnny?
1733
01:06:25,472 --> 01:06:26,723
- We're about to have
a conversation
1734
01:06:26,807 --> 01:06:27,148
after this, Johnny.
1735
01:06:27,307 --> 01:06:30,568
♪ ♪
1736
01:06:34,565 --> 01:06:35,657
Now [quirky music]
1737
01:06:35,741 --> 01:06:38,484
- Myrla, you and Johnny
are just BFFs now?
1738
01:06:38,569 --> 01:06:41,571
♪ ♪
1739
01:06:41,664 --> 01:06:43,406
- Wait, whoa, Johnny.
- What is that shrug?
1740
01:06:43,499 --> 01:06:44,833
- What are you?
1741
01:06:44,992 --> 01:06:47,002
- We do hang out a lot,
because I feel like I get Myrla,
1742
01:06:47,161 --> 01:06:48,253
she gets me,
I kind of talk her down
1743
01:06:48,337 --> 01:06:52,999
when she's being
a little too much of a diva.
1744
01:06:53,092 --> 01:06:54,509
- He doesn't do that, though.
1745
01:06:54,668 --> 01:06:55,752
We have a good time.
We're besties.
1746
01:06:55,845 --> 01:06:58,087
♪ ♪
1747
01:06:58,172 --> 01:07:01,340
- Gil, what do you think
of the friendship now?
1748
01:07:01,425 --> 01:07:04,019
- You know, I absolutely
don't think nothing of it.
1749
01:07:04,103 --> 01:07:05,937
- Yeah.
- No comment.
1750
01:07:06,022 --> 01:07:08,356
- Okay, all right.
I hear you on that.
1751
01:07:08,441 --> 01:07:09,932
Let's keep moving,
and then Rachel,
1752
01:07:10,017 --> 01:07:11,934
let's talk about you and Jose.
1753
01:07:12,028 --> 01:07:13,686
- Okay.
1754
01:07:13,771 --> 01:07:16,114
- When that moment happened
on the roof
1755
01:07:16,273 --> 01:07:19,358
and Rachel called you Johnny,
you didn't realize at that time
1756
01:07:19,443 --> 01:07:21,611
she was just listing off
the cast members, did you?
1757
01:07:21,704 --> 01:07:24,039
♪ ♪
1758
01:07:24,123 --> 01:07:25,615
- No, absolutely not.
1759
01:07:25,699 --> 01:07:27,867
It was one of those things
where it was kind of impulsive.
1760
01:07:27,951 --> 01:07:29,377
Because I'm thinking all right,
we're already a couple of weeks
1761
01:07:29,536 --> 01:07:31,463
in, like, you should know
my name by now.
1762
01:07:31,622 --> 01:07:32,714
Slip of the tongue.
1763
01:07:32,873 --> 01:07:33,965
- It was just a slip
of the tongue.
1764
01:07:34,050 --> 01:07:35,124
- That's right.
1765
01:07:35,209 --> 01:07:36,885
- Jose, do you fully trust
Rachel now?
1766
01:07:36,969 --> 01:07:39,712
- I do. Without a doubt.
1767
01:07:39,805 --> 01:07:41,130
- I want to ask all of y'all.
1768
01:07:41,215 --> 01:07:43,216
Do you feel like Jose
has grown from his mistakes?
1769
01:07:43,309 --> 01:07:44,809
- Abso-freaking-lutely.
- I do.
1770
01:07:44,968 --> 01:07:46,052
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
1771
01:07:46,136 --> 01:07:47,887
- The way I know that is
because of Rachel,
1772
01:07:47,971 --> 01:07:51,483
because if he didn't learn
from that experience,
1773
01:07:51,642 --> 01:07:52,984
she wouldn't be sitting
next to him holding his hand.
1774
01:07:53,069 --> 01:07:55,737
- We do a lot of stuff
together still,
1775
01:07:55,821 --> 01:07:58,147
and it went from previously
I would ask Jose to do something
1776
01:07:58,240 --> 01:07:59,574
and he'd be like yeah,
I'll get Rachel to go.
1777
01:07:59,658 --> 01:08:03,820
Now it's, yeah, I'll ask Rachel
if she wants to go.
1778
01:08:03,913 --> 01:08:06,664
I'm like, okay,
boy's growing a little bit.
1779
01:08:06,749 --> 01:08:09,000
- All right, let's talk
about the couple's retreat.
1780
01:08:09,085 --> 01:08:10,085
- Damn it.
- [bleep]damn Michaela, you [indistinct].
1781
01:08:10,169 --> 01:08:11,244
- A lot of fun
at the couple's retreat,
1782
01:08:11,328 --> 01:08:12,662
- Let's get into it.
Let's get into it.
1783
01:08:12,746 --> 01:08:16,091
- But a tropical storm hit
in night two,
1784
01:08:16,250 --> 01:08:17,759
a lot of high winds
came through.
1785
01:08:17,918 --> 01:08:20,503
Hurricane came,
let's take a look.
1786
01:08:20,596 --> 01:08:22,013
- [sighs]
1787
01:08:22,098 --> 01:08:25,350
- I don't like
how you make me feel,
1788
01:08:25,509 --> 01:08:27,260
or like, who I'm becoming.
1789
01:08:27,344 --> 01:08:29,178
I'm like, I don't like myself
right now.
1790
01:08:29,271 --> 01:08:31,347
I have to trust my gut
and my heart and my mind.
1791
01:08:31,440 --> 01:08:33,432
I have to remove myself
from this situation.
1792
01:08:33,517 --> 01:08:35,518
- I don't want you to drive out
in the countryside.
1793
01:08:35,611 --> 01:08:36,778
It's not safe.
1794
01:08:36,862 --> 01:08:38,020
- Please, I'm just
trying to leave.
1795
01:08:38,105 --> 01:08:39,689
Now you're making it harder
for me to drive.
1796
01:08:39,782 --> 01:08:40,773
- Go to sleep!
- See, now you pushing on me.
1797
01:08:40,866 --> 01:08:42,117
- Go to [bleep].
- Holy [bleep] Michaela.
1798
01:08:42,201 --> 01:08:43,609
- So you tire yourself--
1799
01:08:43,702 --> 01:08:44,777
- This is like too much, dude,
1800
01:08:44,862 --> 01:08:46,621
This is like too much.
Come on! [bleep].
1801
01:08:46,705 --> 01:08:48,865
Thank you. Damn.
1802
01:08:48,958 --> 01:08:50,625
- There he goes.
1803
01:08:50,784 --> 01:08:53,211
- [bleep] Not that serious, yo.
- I don't [bleep] care. - [bleep].
1804
01:08:53,370 --> 01:08:55,547
- Not that serious.
- You look like a [bleep] dumb-ass.
1805
01:08:55,631 --> 01:08:56,873
Leaving here.
1806
01:08:56,957 --> 01:08:58,040
At 11 o'clock at night.
1807
01:08:58,125 --> 01:08:59,542
- Is there anything
I can do to, like--
1808
01:08:59,626 --> 01:09:00,802
Can I just leave?
I'm begging.
1809
01:09:00,886 --> 01:09:04,055
[stammering] Can you just
let me leave, please?
1810
01:09:04,140 --> 01:09:05,631
I can drive back, guys.
I promise you.
1811
01:09:05,724 --> 01:09:07,800
Please let me leave.
I'm not mad.
1812
01:09:07,885 --> 01:09:08,726
I'm going to be very happy
on the way home.
1813
01:09:08,811 --> 01:09:10,970
Just let me--thank you.
Damn.
1814
01:09:11,054 --> 01:09:12,814
I will text you guys
immediately when I get home.
1815
01:09:12,898 --> 01:09:14,649
[indistinct chatter]
1816
01:09:14,808 --> 01:09:16,392
- You're going to ride
back with him?
1817
01:09:16,485 --> 01:09:18,486
Get in the [bleep] car with him.
- I will. I will.
1818
01:09:18,571 --> 01:09:20,572
- Get in. Then get in.
- Okay.
1819
01:09:20,656 --> 01:09:22,574
- Get in right now.
He's getting in the car.
1820
01:09:22,658 --> 01:09:24,576
Ryan, if you're saying
it's not helping,
1821
01:09:24,735 --> 01:09:27,412
then get in the car with him,
because he's [bleep] leaving.
1822
01:09:27,496 --> 01:09:30,665
- There's nothing we can do
to make him not leave.
1823
01:09:30,749 --> 01:09:32,074
He's a [bleep] adult.
1824
01:09:32,159 --> 01:09:34,493
Like, what are we supposed
to do? Lay under the car?
1825
01:09:34,578 --> 01:09:37,413
[dramatic music]
1826
01:09:37,506 --> 01:09:40,333
♪ ♪
1827
01:09:40,417 --> 01:09:41,593
- Oh.
Oh, my--
1828
01:09:41,677 --> 01:09:43,085
- [snickering]
1829
01:09:43,179 --> 01:09:45,171
♪ ♪
1830
01:09:45,255 --> 01:09:47,098
- There's a reason he's leaving
and that's [bleep]--
1831
01:09:47,257 --> 01:09:50,101
[objects clattering]
1832
01:09:50,260 --> 01:09:52,261
- Get out! Get out!
1833
01:09:52,354 --> 01:09:54,680
[glass shatters]
1834
01:09:54,765 --> 01:09:56,149
[bleep]!
Get out!
1835
01:09:57,693 --> 01:09:59,110
- Your thoughts, Michaela,
looking back on that now.
1836
01:09:59,269 --> 01:10:02,939
- Looking back on that,
it really is a mirror, right?
1837
01:10:03,032 --> 01:10:04,357
Obviously it's not something
that I'm proud of,
1838
01:10:04,441 --> 01:10:07,443
but it is something
I can look back and laugh at.
1839
01:10:07,527 --> 01:10:08,277
And be like, damn,
I did do that,
1840
01:10:08,362 --> 01:10:11,122
and what I did was not okay.
1841
01:10:11,281 --> 01:10:16,452
And I need to learn how to calm
the [bleep] down, honestly.
1842
01:10:16,536 --> 01:10:19,964
I remember in the moment
when I saw that back out
1843
01:10:20,123 --> 01:10:23,125
and literally leave, I had
an overwhelming sense of fear,
1844
01:10:23,219 --> 01:10:28,214
distress, anxiety,
and it all just bubbled up.
1845
01:10:28,307 --> 01:10:30,642
And so me knocking stuff over
1846
01:10:30,801 --> 01:10:33,636
and going into the bedroom
and needing a moment to myself
1847
01:10:33,729 --> 01:10:36,222
was all of that expressing
itself in a physical form.
1848
01:10:36,306 --> 01:10:38,650
Now I would never hurt
anybody physically, right?
1849
01:10:38,734 --> 01:10:40,151
If I wanted to do something
physical, I would have,
1850
01:10:40,236 --> 01:10:44,647
but it was a,
"I am [bleep] panicking."
1851
01:10:44,740 --> 01:10:47,233
Automatically,
my mind goes to my dad, right?
1852
01:10:47,317 --> 01:10:50,578
He was in the middle
of the night upset driving,
1853
01:10:50,737 --> 01:10:52,163
got hit by
a [bleep] drunk driver,
1854
01:10:52,248 --> 01:10:56,334
and I was asking him please just
wait until the morning time.
1855
01:10:56,493 --> 01:10:59,337
I will leave you alone,
I won't come near you, I get it.
1856
01:10:59,421 --> 01:11:01,247
You don't want to be near me,
that's cool,
1857
01:11:01,340 --> 01:11:02,507
but can you just wait, man.
1858
01:11:02,591 --> 01:11:04,926
Like, that was my issue,
and every time I see him
1859
01:11:05,010 --> 01:11:08,263
and every time I think back
to that moment I get emotional
1860
01:11:08,347 --> 01:11:11,266
because that hurt me,
and Zack does not regret it.
1861
01:11:11,350 --> 01:11:14,018
To date, he probably still
doesn't give a [bleep] about it,
1862
01:11:14,103 --> 01:11:16,437
and it's hurtful,
1863
01:11:16,596 --> 01:11:18,514
and it's mean,
and it's vindictive.
1864
01:11:18,607 --> 01:11:22,610
♪ ♪
1865
01:11:22,769 --> 01:11:25,104
- Look, man,
I was very clear why I left.
1866
01:11:25,197 --> 01:11:27,782
I'm a grown man.
I'm not an idiot.
1867
01:11:27,866 --> 01:11:29,200
I would not put
my life in danger.
1868
01:11:29,285 --> 01:11:31,527
I would not do something stupid.
1869
01:11:31,611 --> 01:11:32,954
I was fine to drive home.
1870
01:11:33,113 --> 01:11:34,447
I'm sorry that you want
to rationalize it
1871
01:11:34,531 --> 01:11:37,450
that me driving off made you
do what you want to do,
1872
01:11:37,534 --> 01:11:38,868
but that was not for you,
1873
01:11:38,952 --> 01:11:41,629
I did that for me.
That was for me.
1874
01:11:41,714 --> 01:11:43,464
I was done
and I wanted to leave,
1875
01:11:43,549 --> 01:11:44,632
and that's what I did,
1876
01:11:44,717 --> 01:11:46,125
and I don't understand
what the issue is.
1877
01:11:46,218 --> 01:11:48,377
- I literally just expressed
how I felt in that situation
1878
01:11:48,470 --> 01:11:51,472
and I asked if he acknowledged
that feeling.
1879
01:11:51,631 --> 01:11:53,799
He don't give a [bleep].
He doesn't care.
1880
01:11:53,884 --> 01:11:55,476
You don't care.
And you never cared about me.
1881
01:11:55,635 --> 01:11:56,802
- Michaela, hold on,
let him answer.
1882
01:11:56,895 --> 01:11:58,730
- I'm so sorry that it hurt you.
1883
01:11:58,814 --> 01:12:00,473
- He don't mean that [bleep].
Shut up.
1884
01:12:00,566 --> 01:12:01,891
- Michaela, you got to not--
1885
01:12:01,975 --> 01:12:03,735
- I'm sorry, because
he's being pressured into it.
1886
01:12:03,819 --> 01:12:05,478
Look at him smiling.
He does not mean that apology.
1887
01:12:05,562 --> 01:12:07,155
- No, no, but Michaela,
you have to let him answer.
1888
01:12:07,314 --> 01:12:09,824
He is trying
to apologize right now.
1889
01:12:09,908 --> 01:12:11,743
- Why? He lies a lot.
1890
01:12:11,827 --> 01:12:13,578
- You have to give him a chance.
1891
01:12:13,662 --> 01:12:14,987
Let him apologize.
1892
01:12:15,080 --> 01:12:17,323
Hold on, hold on for a second.
1893
01:12:17,407 --> 01:12:19,075
Go ahead, Zack.
1894
01:12:19,168 --> 01:12:20,242
- No comment.
1895
01:12:20,336 --> 01:12:22,078
♪ ♪
1896
01:12:22,171 --> 01:12:24,255
- But do you want to finish
what you were saying?
1897
01:12:24,340 --> 01:12:25,247
- No.
1898
01:12:25,341 --> 01:12:26,499
♪ ♪
1899
01:12:26,583 --> 01:12:27,925
- You see?
1900
01:12:28,085 --> 01:12:30,002
Anybody who really wants
to apologize for their actions
1901
01:12:30,095 --> 01:12:32,430
is going to say it regardless.
1902
01:12:32,589 --> 01:12:34,682
- No, I think he was trying
to apologize to you, Michaela.
1903
01:12:34,767 --> 01:12:36,100
- I don't think so.
1904
01:12:36,259 --> 01:12:38,344
- I don't think he was drive--
- I don't think so at all.
1905
01:12:38,428 --> 01:12:41,105
- I want everybody to heal.
I want everybody to heal.
1906
01:12:41,264 --> 01:12:43,608
Zack, are you sure?
1907
01:12:43,692 --> 01:12:45,101
Is there anything
you want to say, or--
1908
01:12:45,185 --> 01:12:46,602
- I'm done, I'm done, I'm done.
1909
01:12:46,695 --> 01:12:48,529
- Okay.
1910
01:12:56,789 --> 01:12:59,448
Okay, let's move on.
1911
01:12:59,541 --> 01:13:01,700
Now that this is over
and most of you are single,
1912
01:13:01,785 --> 01:13:05,704
who do you think may have been
better suited to...
1913
01:13:05,789 --> 01:13:08,049
- Well, here we go.
- Or matched with someone else?
1914
01:13:08,208 --> 01:13:09,467
- I knew this question
was coming.
1915
01:13:09,626 --> 01:13:10,709
- I'ma to head out,
1916
01:13:10,794 --> 01:13:12,795
I'm not feeling
too good right now, so...
1917
01:13:12,888 --> 01:13:19,894
♪ ♪
1918
01:13:22,231 --> 01:13:29,237
♪ ♪
1919
01:13:35,577 --> 01:13:37,403
[sighs]
1920
01:13:37,487 --> 01:13:39,488
[door opens]
1921
01:13:39,581 --> 01:13:42,074
♪ ♪
1922
01:13:42,159 --> 01:13:43,084
- Good job.
1923
01:13:46,088 --> 01:13:48,747
- Kevin, he didn't like
that question.
1924
01:13:48,832 --> 01:13:50,666
Maybe, I don't know.
- Johnny, back off.
1925
01:13:50,750 --> 01:13:54,336
♪ ♪
1926
01:13:54,430 --> 01:13:57,598
- To go through this and know
that I'm divorced now...
1927
01:14:00,352 --> 01:14:03,271
You know, for me, it's [bleep],
and that's why I have to leave.
1928
01:14:03,430 --> 01:14:05,431
A long time ago,
I tried to tell myself
1929
01:14:05,515 --> 01:14:09,444
I'm going to be a very positive
and very optimistic person,
1930
01:14:09,528 --> 01:14:12,113
and all I want to do is
bring joy and smiles to people.
1931
01:14:12,197 --> 01:14:15,608
I cannot do that today
1932
01:14:15,701 --> 01:14:20,371
because my energy was so crappy.
1933
01:14:20,530 --> 01:14:22,457
I was feeling so negative.
1934
01:14:22,616 --> 01:14:23,291
- I mean,
that's going to be a minute.
1935
01:14:23,375 --> 01:14:25,293
We should keep going.
1936
01:14:25,377 --> 01:14:27,870
- No, we can't keep going.
1937
01:14:27,963 --> 01:14:29,964
♪ ♪
1938
01:14:30,048 --> 01:14:33,542
- People are so nonchalant
about this because they know,
1939
01:14:33,635 --> 01:14:35,878
ah, if it don't work out
just get divorced, whatever.
1940
01:14:35,962 --> 01:14:38,297
I didn't go into this like,
for that.
1941
01:14:38,381 --> 01:14:41,225
I want a spouse, I want
a monogamous relationship
1942
01:14:41,384 --> 01:14:45,304
with one person that we can grow
and build a life together.
1943
01:14:45,388 --> 01:14:48,307
This isn't conducive for me.
1944
01:14:48,400 --> 01:14:50,318
And it pisses me the hell off,
1945
01:14:50,477 --> 01:14:52,895
and that's why
I can't be in that--
1946
01:14:52,979 --> 01:14:54,396
I can't sit in there anymore.
1947
01:14:54,481 --> 01:14:56,574
- It hurts.
It really does.
1948
01:14:56,733 --> 01:14:59,660
- Well, Jose and Rachel would
definitely be with each other.
1949
01:14:59,819 --> 01:15:01,570
- Hey, if things
don't work out, Jose.
1950
01:15:01,663 --> 01:15:02,997
- [laughs]
1951
01:15:05,334 --> 01:15:06,575
- I don't.
1952
01:15:06,660 --> 01:15:07,910
- I don't, I'm done.
- Okay.
1953
01:15:08,003 --> 01:15:09,411
- I'm out.
1954
01:15:09,505 --> 01:15:11,339
♪ ♪
1955
01:15:11,423 --> 01:15:13,841
I just can't wait
to get back home.
1956
01:15:13,926 --> 01:15:15,343
[bleep] done with
all this [bleep].
1957
01:15:19,089 --> 01:15:21,015
- We are back, and this is
1958
01:15:21,099 --> 01:15:22,683
the "Married At First Sight"
Houston Reunion, season 13.
1959
01:15:22,842 --> 01:15:25,019
Hey, guys, Gil and Michaela
have decided
1960
01:15:25,103 --> 01:15:27,021
not to continue
with the reunion.
1961
01:15:27,180 --> 01:15:29,357
You could see
how distraught Gil was
1962
01:15:29,441 --> 01:15:34,019
and how frustrated Michaela was,
and we wish them both the best.
1963
01:15:34,112 --> 01:15:35,854
I think those are
two great people
1964
01:15:35,939 --> 01:15:37,865
who will one day find love.
1965
01:15:37,950 --> 01:15:39,450
Meanwhile,
we're going to continue.
1966
01:15:39,535 --> 01:15:41,369
Listen, I know that this evening
1967
01:15:41,528 --> 01:15:42,453
there have been
some tough moments,
1968
01:15:42,538 --> 01:15:44,697
but there were also
some fun moments
1969
01:15:44,781 --> 01:15:46,040
during your season together,
1970
01:15:46,199 --> 01:15:47,875
and so let's just pause
for a second
1971
01:15:48,034 --> 01:15:50,294
and watch some of these
hilarious moments
1972
01:15:50,379 --> 01:15:52,955
and never before seen footage
from this past season.
1973
01:15:53,048 --> 01:15:55,550
[laughter]
1974
01:15:55,634 --> 01:15:58,302
- Whoa!
- Oh, my God.
1975
01:15:58,387 --> 01:15:59,628
- My stuff would be hanging out.
1976
01:15:59,721 --> 01:16:00,796
[laughter]
1977
01:16:00,880 --> 01:16:01,806
- Spray it in your mouth.
1978
01:16:01,890 --> 01:16:03,307
[quirky music]
1979
01:16:03,466 --> 01:16:05,301
- Do you consent
to being milked?
1980
01:16:05,394 --> 01:16:07,553
[laughter]
1981
01:16:07,637 --> 01:16:09,388
- [squeals]
1982
01:16:09,472 --> 01:16:11,065
- I think with this group
of people,
1983
01:16:11,149 --> 01:16:12,391
it's always a good time.
1984
01:16:12,475 --> 01:16:13,726
- You ready to get naked?
1985
01:16:13,819 --> 01:16:14,986
- It looks like something kinky.
1986
01:16:15,145 --> 01:16:17,238
- Sex machine, obviously.
1987
01:16:17,397 --> 01:16:19,148
- What?
- Maybe it is a sex machine.
1988
01:16:19,241 --> 01:16:21,817
[laughter]
1989
01:16:21,901 --> 01:16:23,411
- We had some crazy times, too.
1990
01:16:23,495 --> 01:16:25,237
- [screams]
- No, no, no, no, no!
1991
01:16:25,330 --> 01:16:27,156
Stop, stop.
Baby, it's okay.
1992
01:16:27,240 --> 01:16:29,166
- [screams] Is he peeing on me?
1993
01:16:29,326 --> 01:16:31,577
[laughter]
- Oh!
1994
01:16:31,670 --> 01:16:33,245
- Did he pee on me?
- No.
1995
01:16:33,330 --> 01:16:35,164
- Oh, sorry.
[laughter]
1996
01:16:35,248 --> 01:16:42,096
♪ ♪
1997
01:16:44,516 --> 01:16:46,684
- Oh, my God.
1998
01:16:46,768 --> 01:16:48,677
- I remember seeing this.
- I remember that.
1999
01:16:48,762 --> 01:16:50,512
♪ ♪
2000
01:16:50,606 --> 01:16:55,026
- These guys are party animals
and I'm for it.
2001
01:16:55,185 --> 01:16:57,528
- Yay!
- Oh, God.
2002
01:16:57,613 --> 01:16:59,188
- Go marriage!
2003
01:16:59,272 --> 01:17:00,114
All: Aww.
2004
01:17:00,273 --> 01:17:01,782
- We did have some good moments.
2005
01:17:01,867 --> 01:17:03,701
- Can we get a copy?
- That was great, I liked it.
2006
01:17:03,785 --> 01:17:05,027
- I love that.
2007
01:17:05,111 --> 01:17:06,787
- Listen, it is almost time
to say goodnight,
2008
01:17:06,946 --> 01:17:09,457
but first I want to show
everyone an exclusive peak
2009
01:17:09,616 --> 01:17:11,867
of season 14
of "Married At First Sight,"
2010
01:17:11,960 --> 01:17:14,795
which is currently being filmed
right now in Boston.
2011
01:17:14,954 --> 01:17:17,048
- I can't believe we're back
in Boston.
2012
01:17:17,207 --> 01:17:18,207
Let's rock and roll.
2013
01:17:18,300 --> 01:17:19,708
- This one shouldn't have
shown up at all.
2014
01:17:19,793 --> 01:17:23,137
- When I hear picky,
I think, oh, [bleep].
2015
01:17:23,221 --> 01:17:24,713
- He's the reason we do
this show.
2016
01:17:24,798 --> 01:17:25,964
- Let's do it.
- Let's do this.
2017
01:17:26,049 --> 01:17:28,217
- Every date that I go on,
I go into it like,
2018
01:17:28,310 --> 01:17:29,894
this could be the one,
he could be my husband.
2019
01:17:29,978 --> 01:17:32,063
This could be the start
of our fairy tale.
2020
01:17:32,147 --> 01:17:33,806
- I want the peanut butter
to my jelly.
2021
01:17:33,890 --> 01:17:34,815
No, no, I'm peanut butter.
2022
01:17:34,900 --> 01:17:36,141
I want the jelly
to my peanut butter.
2023
01:17:36,226 --> 01:17:39,153
- Every person you talk to,
they will tell you
2024
01:17:39,312 --> 01:17:42,990
Noi loves being in love.
She loves so hard.
2025
01:17:43,149 --> 01:17:45,317
- I ultimately do want
a life partner
2026
01:17:45,402 --> 01:17:46,985
that's magical.
2027
01:17:47,079 --> 01:17:48,245
- I just want to be picked up
2028
01:17:48,330 --> 01:17:49,997
and hugged and loved
and cherished
2029
01:17:50,082 --> 01:17:52,908
and cared for and protected,
and I want to do the same.
2030
01:17:53,001 --> 01:17:55,336
- Are you looking for the
Michelle to your Barack?
2031
01:17:55,495 --> 01:17:56,662
- Everybody's looking
for Michelle.
2032
01:17:56,746 --> 01:17:58,089
- [laughing] Everybody's looking
for Michelle.
2033
01:17:58,173 --> 01:18:01,592
- I want a wife, I want kids,
I want to have a family.
2034
01:18:01,751 --> 01:18:04,345
- I think I'm worthy of it,
I think I'm deserving of it.
2035
01:18:04,504 --> 01:18:07,005
- I cannot imagine any guy
seeing her
2036
01:18:07,099 --> 01:18:09,517
and not saying oh, thank God.
2037
01:18:09,601 --> 01:18:11,352
- We hit the jackpot
with this one.
2038
01:18:11,436 --> 01:18:14,012
- This guy's going to make
somebody an incredible husband.
2039
01:18:14,106 --> 01:18:16,432
- We have found you a husband,
2040
01:18:16,525 --> 01:18:19,860
and two weeks from now,
you are getting married.
2041
01:18:20,019 --> 01:18:21,186
- In two weeks,
you're getting married.
2042
01:18:21,271 --> 01:18:23,030
- I'm so happy, I'm blessed.
2043
01:18:23,115 --> 01:18:24,281
- Oh, my God.
2044
01:18:24,441 --> 01:18:27,451
- You're getting married.
He's getting married!
2045
01:18:27,536 --> 01:18:30,863
[all cheering]
2046
01:18:30,947 --> 01:18:32,456
- I don't have any doubts
2047
01:18:32,541 --> 01:18:35,617
that this won't be
a great love story.
2048
01:18:35,702 --> 01:18:38,287
- I've always dreamed
of my wedding day.
2049
01:18:38,371 --> 01:18:40,214
- I do want us
to be together forever.
2050
01:18:40,298 --> 01:18:41,215
[cheers and applause]
2051
01:18:41,299 --> 01:18:43,041
- Today's going to be exciting,
2052
01:18:43,126 --> 01:18:44,635
it's going to be electric,
2053
01:18:44,720 --> 01:18:46,721
I'm finally going to meet
the love of my life.
2054
01:18:46,805 --> 01:18:49,473
- Listen,
I want to thank you all
2055
01:18:49,558 --> 01:18:51,892
for coming on
"Married At First Sight,"
2056
01:18:51,977 --> 01:18:53,728
and this journey
you've gone through.
2057
01:18:53,887 --> 01:18:56,731
It has been a wild season
in Houston.
2058
01:18:56,815 --> 01:18:58,390
I really do wish you all
the best,
2059
01:18:58,475 --> 01:19:00,893
and I hope you do find love.
2060
01:19:00,977 --> 01:19:03,562
Jose and Rachel, we're rooting
for you, all right?
2061
01:19:03,655 --> 01:19:04,897
- Absolutely.
- Yes, yes.
2062
01:19:04,981 --> 01:19:06,732
- Thanks, guys, and take care.
- Thanks, Kevin.
2063
01:19:06,825 --> 01:19:08,484
- Thank you.
- Thanks, Kevin.
2064
01:19:08,577 --> 01:19:10,152
- You know, this season
is not quite over yet.
2065
01:19:10,236 --> 01:19:11,912
Where Are They Now is coming up.
2066
01:19:12,071 --> 01:19:13,822
This special episode
will take us back to Houston
2067
01:19:13,915 --> 01:19:17,334
where we will get to see
how everyone has been living
2068
01:19:17,494 --> 01:19:18,660
since Decision Day.
2069
01:19:18,754 --> 01:19:19,828
Thank you for watching.
Take care, everybody.
2070
01:19:19,921 --> 01:19:23,916
- Next time on
Where Are They Now...
2071
01:19:24,000 --> 01:19:28,095
we'll catch-up
with the entire Houston cast.
2072
01:19:28,180 --> 01:19:29,171
- Pretty good, though.
2073
01:19:29,264 --> 01:19:30,756
- Yeah, right.
- Ooh, someone's scared.
2074
01:19:30,849 --> 01:19:32,850
- It's been a roller coaster.
2075
01:19:33,009 --> 01:19:36,011
I don't want to, like, have
any communication with her.
2076
01:19:36,104 --> 01:19:37,188
- Sunblock me, Johnny.
2077
01:19:37,272 --> 01:19:39,690
- To see how their lives
have changed
2078
01:19:39,775 --> 01:19:43,519
since the cameras went away
after Decision Day.
2079
01:19:43,612 --> 01:19:46,864
- Since I've gotten to know you,
I've grown very fond of you.
2080
01:19:46,948 --> 01:19:50,951
- I don't want to kick it
with Ryan.
2081
01:19:51,110 --> 01:19:52,945
- I think you came in
at the exact moment
2082
01:19:53,029 --> 01:19:54,121
I needed to talk to someone.
2083
01:19:54,206 --> 01:19:56,448
- So are we seeing
a disappearance
2084
01:19:56,541 --> 01:19:59,043
of Hurricane K?
- [laughs]
2085
01:19:59,202 --> 01:20:01,879
- Believe it or not, I was
thinking about getting a dog.
2086
01:20:01,963 --> 01:20:04,298
- Oh, little baby.
2087
01:20:04,457 --> 01:20:06,124
- I think life is all about
taking risks,
2088
01:20:06,209 --> 01:20:08,052
and I think this is
a risk worth taking.
2089
01:20:08,136 --> 01:20:09,720
- Looks like you're going
on a date.
2090
01:20:09,879 --> 01:20:12,631
- Cheers.
- Cheers.
2091
01:20:12,715 --> 01:20:15,884
- I just know that it can't
stay like this forever.
2092
01:20:15,969 --> 01:20:18,053
- It is time
to let this baby go.
2093
01:20:18,137 --> 01:20:19,638
♪ ♪
2094
01:20:19,722 --> 01:20:23,392
all: Cheers.
2095
01:20:23,476 --> 01:20:24,485
♪ ♪