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- Breathe.
It's very risky
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To get married at first sight.
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- All right, we're doing this.
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I am ready
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For the love of my life.
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- Please stand.
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Four weeks ago...
- Hi, husband!
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- Ten individuals took
a courageous leap of faith
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In order to find love.
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- Nice to meet you,
my soon-to-be wife.
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- They married as
complete strangers.
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- You may kiss your bride.
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[cheers and applause]
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- I'm excited that
I'm officially married.
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- ♪ think of all the times ♪
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- Last time, they tested
each other to their limits
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And discovered
just how far they can go.
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- Oh, my god!
- [laughs]
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- Bao and johnny.
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- ♪ one more time
that I need you ♪
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- I am just feeling
all-around happy right now.
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- This is where
I'm supposed to kiss.
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- ♪ that I ain't leaving ♪
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- Myrla and gil.
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- I did want to share
that I got my first kiss.
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- Hey, man.
- Hey!
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We should drink to that!
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- Oh, oh!
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- You initiated it?
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- I had to.
That was, like, the thing.
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He's like,
"I'm not even gonna try."
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- That's so cute.
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- Brett and ryan.
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- You feel the same?
You feel better?
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You feel--
- I feel better.
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- I mean, about you and me.
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- Yeah, I mean,
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I definitely feel better.
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- Michaela and zack.
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- Do you honestly see
our future together?
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- I can't see it.
Like, a future, it is doubtful.
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[dramatic music]
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But I am holding out hope.
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♪ ♪
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- Rachel and jose.
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- So I go out,
lock the apartment door.
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Apparently, I lock her out.
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She's like,
"I want to get a divorce."
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- I feel my husband
doesn't even care for me.
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[glass shatters]
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I do not love him anymore.
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[glass shatters]
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- Mm!
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- Tonight they celebrate
their one-month anniversary
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As husband and wife.
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- Let's do this, let's do this.
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- In only four weeks,
they will have
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To make a major decision:
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To stay married
or get a divorce.
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- It hasn't felt forced.
It feels--it feels right.
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And when things feel right,
everything else is, like, easy.
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- I think we're moving forward.
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- No, I disagree.
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Like, I want somebody
who sees a future with me.
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I want to be wanted.
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- Darling, how you doing?
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- I mean, not great.
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I am going through
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A uniquely hard time.
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- The way you talk to me,
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The way you raised your voice,
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Is this my husband's
personality?
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- I'm learning that
johnny needs me
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To initiate more--
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Essentially romance my husband.
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- Bao, stop
what you are saying.
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There is a lot I want to say.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- This is
"married at first sight."
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- ♪ there's no other way ♪
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♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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[tense music]
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♪ ♪
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- I don't even know
how to even talk to you.
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- I know, same here.
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You know, it's crazy
to think that, you know,
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We had three impeccable weeks,
and then now
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It's to a point
where we're not on
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Really much speaking terms.
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Hadn't really
returned my texts
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Or anything like that.
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I don't think that there may be
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A future in this, I don't know.
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♪ ♪
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- I just still don't feel like
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I have the apology
that I deserve.
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♪ ♪
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I was locked out
of the apartment,
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And you just didn't seem sorry.
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- It wasn't intentional.
I didn't do it out of spite,
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Because I'm like,
"oh, okay, well, this is
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What I'm gonna do."
I was out of habit.
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You know every night,
before we go to sleep,
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I lock the doors.
I will get up--
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If even we're in a deep sleep,
get up to go lock the doors
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And make sure that
everything is locked.
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I'm sorry for
locking the top lock,
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But it wasn't on purpose.
I didn't mean to do it.
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- This is my point.
You say "I'm sorry,"
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And then you lead it
with, like,
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Excuses of why you locked,
instead of being like,
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"I'm truly, deeply sorry.
I should have done better.
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"I should have immediately
blew up your phone
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When I realized I locked"--
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Like, that's what
I'm expecting,
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And I'm just not getting that.
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- I don't know
what you want from me.
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I'm telling you I'm sorry.
Like, it'll never happen again.
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And you're just saying, "oh,
well, it's not good enough."
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It's like, okay?
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- The thing is,
I thought I was doing
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Everything I had to do,
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And I still got
treated that way.
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The way you
spoke to me that night,
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Then getting locked out.
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Okay, it was an accident,
I get it. For your protection.
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But then how you acted
about it the next day,
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You just seemed to not care.
And I was like,
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"man, I'm here, like,
willing to move,
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"willing to do all this stuff
for this person,
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And this person
doesn't even care for me."
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- How do--how do you think
I don't care for you?
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What did I text you today?
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The text verbatim says, "I know
that you want a divorce,
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"and you probably don't care
about this whole text,
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But I miss you and I love you."
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- You know what I didn't see
in that text?
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- What?
- An apology!
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The apology
I've been expecting.
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I will move forward when I feel
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I get the sorry
that I deserve.
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Because your wife
was locked out
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Of her own apartment
at 1:00 in the morning.
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- I get it, we keep harping
on the same thing. I get it.
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Are you ever gonna get over it?
Ever?
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♪ ♪
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Like, [bleep], I [bleep] up.
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Okay, so what the [bleep]
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Do you want me to do?
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Like, I can't do
anything about it.
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I can't go back in time
and change it.
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I'm so--
- see, it's like--
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It's like you're mad.
- I'm so sorry.
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- You're mad that
you locked me out.
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- Everything that comes out
of your mouth is,
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"okay, well,
you locked me out."
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- [bleep], like--
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- I'm still upset, clearly.
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- I just can't have someone
talk to me
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The way you talk to me.
Now I'm thinking,
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"is this
my husband's personality?
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Is that him?"
- mm-hmm.
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- "like, is that something
I'm gonna have to deal with
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Again and again and again?"
- mm-hmm, mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
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- Those are personality,
deep, core issues.
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I'm saying, can that be fixed?
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♪ ♪
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- Those can be fixed.
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When I'm upset
and I'm bothered,
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I now know
to communicate to you
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"I do not want to talk
about this right now,
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But we'll talk
about it later," right?
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- Mm-hmm.
- Is that how you would like
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That to be presented?
- Mm-hmm.
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- Perfect. So moving forward,
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You know that my words cut
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And I do not like to talk
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About a certain situation
right then and there.
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I don't like to address it.
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♪ ♪
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And so for me, to combat that
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Is to hold off, to cool down,
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And then to address it
at a later time.
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I mean, I--I mean,
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I have improvements
I need to make.
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I see that, okay,
I need to work on--
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Like, I need to work
on my listening.
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I need to work on that.
I need to be more caring.
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I need to send more texts,
more phone calls.
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Like, like,
I'm gonna see this through.
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Like, I'm gonna
do anything I can.
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So, um...
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You know, okay,
I'm not perfect.
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Like, okay, I [bleep] up.
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Like, I'm trying to tell you
that I'm sorry.
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I'm sorry for what I did.
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It happened once.
I'm gonna fix it.
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We're gonna move forward
from it. I'm just--
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♪ ♪
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- Thank you. I think that was
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A very sincere apology, yeah.
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I really do appreciate that.
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That--I now feel better.
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And I do.
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I finally get the apology
I thought I deserved.
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And I'm finally getting,
you know,
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The jose that I thought
I knew back.
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Normally,
in a regular relationship,
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I've never given someone
a second chance like this.
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- ♪ I'll stay ♪
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- But we're married.
We're on the same team.
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We have to fight
for the marriage.
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And I can't
predict the future.
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Will he charm me and sweep me
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Off of my feet? We shall see.
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- ♪ come what may ♪
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- ♪ my, my, summer day ♪
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♪ gonna dance, gonna play ♪
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♪ and it feels like,
feels like ♪
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♪ I want you, you ♪
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- Ooh!
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- ♪ put a smile on my face
and it feels like ♪
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♪ it feels like
you want me too ♪
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- Can I still shake it, though?
- No.
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- It just feels like
you have to, though.
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- That's a myth.
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- Hey, michaela, hi.
I've never seen this outfit.
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It's kind of cute, I like it.
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- Pull your--pull your side
over, and then we'll just
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Put this on top or something,
I don't know.
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- With the couples
about to reach
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Their one-month anniversary,
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They only have four more weeks
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Until that
all-important decision day.
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Now is the time to dig in
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To find out what they
really need to know
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In order to feel good
about making the decision
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To stay married
or get divorced.
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- I don't do well
with limp hands.
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It's gotta be, like,
secure and comfy.
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- Really?
- You can put it here,
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You can put it here,
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You can put it here.
You can put it,
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Really, anywhere.
- But that's not cuddling.
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[upbeat music]
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- ♪ oh, oh, oh, oh ♪
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♪ yeah, yeah, yeah, whoa ♪
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- I can smell the food.
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- I made the biggest
freaking omelet.
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- You're gonna have to--
you're gonna have to "fwoop"!
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♪ ♪
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Look how--look at you!
Look at this!
254
00:09:40,747 --> 00:09:43,990
Thank you.
- You're welcome.
255
00:09:44,142 --> 00:09:45,809
- Did you sleep good?
- Yeah, I feel good today.
256
00:09:45,827 --> 00:09:48,328
- What's on the books today?
257
00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:51,314
- Um, I have something for you.
258
00:09:51,407 --> 00:09:52,591
A little bit of
problem-solving.
259
00:09:52,742 --> 00:09:54,742
- Oh, no, pressure.
260
00:09:54,761 --> 00:09:57,153
- I set up a little
scavenger hunt.
261
00:09:57,172 --> 00:09:59,580
- Uh-oh.
- You ready to begin?
262
00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:01,157
- I'm scared, but yes.
263
00:10:01,176 --> 00:10:03,509
- We're almost a month in,
264
00:10:03,604 --> 00:10:07,330
And not a lot has changed,
really, in my mind,
265
00:10:07,349 --> 00:10:09,274
But I know that I need to
266
00:10:09,425 --> 00:10:12,093
Put more effort into
trying to make this work.
267
00:10:12,112 --> 00:10:12,760
I don't want to go
back to dating.
268
00:10:12,854 --> 00:10:15,188
Those days are over.
269
00:10:15,340 --> 00:10:16,840
♪ ♪
270
00:10:16,858 --> 00:10:20,193
- Oh, come on.
- There's five of 'em.
271
00:10:20,287 --> 00:10:22,679
- "what do you have
at the table for every meal?"
272
00:10:22,697 --> 00:10:24,347
- It's not at this meal,
surprisingly.
273
00:10:24,366 --> 00:10:25,181
- My cup?
274
00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:27,441
"if you were my lost wallet,
275
00:10:27,535 --> 00:10:29,628
Where would you be?"
276
00:10:29,779 --> 00:10:33,690
Your lost wallet
would be by the bed.
277
00:10:33,708 --> 00:10:35,208
Killing it!
- [chuckles]
278
00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:37,193
- "your last chance to run"?
279
00:10:37,286 --> 00:10:38,452
- What is that referencing?
280
00:10:38,546 --> 00:10:39,954
- My shoes?
- There you go.
281
00:10:40,048 --> 00:10:41,306
- My shoes?
- Yeah.
282
00:10:41,457 --> 00:10:43,457
- You're clever.
283
00:10:43,477 --> 00:10:44,809
Aw, you're smart.
284
00:10:44,961 --> 00:10:48,204
"I don't work"--[laughs]
285
00:10:48,223 --> 00:10:50,815
Ryan, I know what this is,
you ding-dong!
286
00:10:50,967 --> 00:10:56,396
"I don't work, and I'm
currently at 78 degrees."
287
00:10:56,548 --> 00:10:58,214
- I had to go look and see
what the temperature was
288
00:10:58,233 --> 00:11:00,158
When I was writing the note.
289
00:11:00,309 --> 00:11:03,144
- "I don't work." [laughs]
290
00:11:03,163 --> 00:11:04,145
It's so shady.
291
00:11:04,164 --> 00:11:08,057
"they're always watching."
[laughs]
292
00:11:08,076 --> 00:11:09,409
You are so funny.
293
00:11:09,561 --> 00:11:11,077
- I even put
a note on top of it,
294
00:11:11,229 --> 00:11:12,729
'cause I knew it was gonna
tear it like that.
295
00:11:12,747 --> 00:11:14,414
♪ ♪
296
00:11:14,566 --> 00:11:15,915
Make sure you read the side
facing you first.
297
00:11:16,009 --> 00:11:17,250
- Okay.
298
00:11:17,402 --> 00:11:19,252
♪ ♪
299
00:11:19,346 --> 00:11:20,679
"thank you for being
the person that you are
300
00:11:20,830 --> 00:11:24,331
At all/most times."
301
00:11:24,351 --> 00:11:24,832
You're such a jerk.
"kind of kidding."
302
00:11:24,926 --> 00:11:27,076
Kind of kidding!
303
00:11:27,095 --> 00:11:28,761
"granted, it was advice
304
00:11:28,855 --> 00:11:31,338
"given by basically every human
that knows me.
305
00:11:31,358 --> 00:11:33,266
"I do require patience
above all else.
306
00:11:33,418 --> 00:11:35,251
"we're nearly four weeks
into this crazy journey,
307
00:11:35,270 --> 00:11:36,677
"and I can't wait to see
where it leads us.
308
00:11:36,697 --> 00:11:37,937
"stay positive and flip card.
309
00:11:38,089 --> 00:11:42,091
Go get"--ha! Heck yeah!
310
00:11:42,185 --> 00:11:44,685
You are so cute. That was fun.
311
00:11:44,779 --> 00:11:46,871
- I was worried you weren't
gonna be able to reach that.
312
00:11:47,023 --> 00:11:49,615
- He likes to write notes,
313
00:11:49,710 --> 00:11:51,451
And he's better at that
than verbalizing things.
314
00:11:51,603 --> 00:11:52,785
Aww.
- So maybe you can go
315
00:11:52,938 --> 00:11:56,606
Buy some things.
- Oh, I'm going.
316
00:11:56,699 --> 00:11:58,383
Money burns a hole
in my pocket.
317
00:11:58,610 --> 00:12:01,444
So, you know, I do like
ryan making an effort.
318
00:12:01,537 --> 00:12:02,628
It was really thoughtful.
319
00:12:02,723 --> 00:12:04,297
I feel, like,
320
00:12:04,449 --> 00:12:07,726
Definitely more optimistic
in a long time.
321
00:12:07,953 --> 00:12:11,637
But at the same time,
I hope and wish and pray
322
00:12:11,790 --> 00:12:13,881
That he would make
more of an effort
323
00:12:13,900 --> 00:12:17,718
When it comes
to sex and intimacy,
324
00:12:17,812 --> 00:12:18,886
'cause we're about a month in,
325
00:12:18,980 --> 00:12:22,240
And so far, we've only kissed.
326
00:12:22,391 --> 00:12:23,149
So I'm ready for it.
327
00:12:23,243 --> 00:12:26,244
You know, I feel--I feel ready.
328
00:12:26,395 --> 00:12:27,912
That was fun. A-plus.
329
00:12:28,139 --> 00:12:30,915
- ♪ so come on,
let your hair down ♪
330
00:12:31,067 --> 00:12:33,585
♪ and by the way, I think
we started something ♪
331
00:12:39,317 --> 00:12:40,425
- ♪ we go together
like peaches and cream ♪
332
00:12:40,576 --> 00:12:43,152
♪ oh, oh, oh, oh, ay ♪
333
00:12:43,246 --> 00:12:46,080
♪ low riding in your whip,
I'm the queen ♪
334
00:12:46,099 --> 00:12:47,915
- You excited?
335
00:12:48,009 --> 00:12:49,826
- I'm very excited.
- Yeah?
336
00:12:49,844 --> 00:12:52,495
- I've been wanting to do this
for a long, long time.
337
00:12:52,514 --> 00:12:54,755
Tonight we're going salsa
dancing with gil and myrla.
338
00:12:54,849 --> 00:12:55,923
I don't know why, though.
Like, I'm not even that good
339
00:12:55,942 --> 00:12:57,424
At salsa dancing.
- You don't think so?
340
00:12:57,519 --> 00:13:00,169
- No, I've just always
wanted to learn.
341
00:13:00,263 --> 00:13:01,671
I think it'll be
a cool interaction.
342
00:13:01,764 --> 00:13:03,172
I know gil and myrla
like to dance,
343
00:13:03,266 --> 00:13:03,948
And I know michaela and I
like to dance,
344
00:13:04,175 --> 00:13:05,525
So I think it should be good.
345
00:13:05,619 --> 00:13:08,435
You know, they're probably
gonna show us up, so we can't--
346
00:13:08,530 --> 00:13:11,105
- Well, I'm just gonna watch as
all three of you show me up.
347
00:13:11,124 --> 00:13:13,016
- Yeah, no, we can't look--
we can't look too crazy.
348
00:13:13,034 --> 00:13:14,017
So we gotta make sure
we mind our ps and qs.
349
00:13:14,035 --> 00:13:16,686
- You keep saying
this "we" word.
350
00:13:16,704 --> 00:13:19,947
- What, you're not--
you're not gonna dance with me?
351
00:13:20,041 --> 00:13:21,874
- We'll see how it goes.
352
00:13:22,027 --> 00:13:25,545
- ♪ we go together
like peaches and cream ♪
353
00:13:25,639 --> 00:13:28,473
[salsa music]
354
00:13:28,700 --> 00:13:29,790
♪ ♪
355
00:13:29,884 --> 00:13:32,035
- You're not even gonna
wait for your wife?
356
00:13:32,128 --> 00:13:33,294
- No, I was gonna
open the door.
357
00:13:33,313 --> 00:13:34,795
- Oh.
358
00:13:34,815 --> 00:13:36,147
- Tonight I'm taking my wife
359
00:13:36,374 --> 00:13:38,374
To salsa lessons.
360
00:13:38,467 --> 00:13:40,134
Salsa dancing is my passion.
361
00:13:40,153 --> 00:13:41,653
You know, it's something
that I hope
362
00:13:41,804 --> 00:13:43,396
To bring into my marriage.
363
00:13:43,548 --> 00:13:45,898
I want my wife to also enjoy
364
00:13:45,992 --> 00:13:47,066
Dancing with me.
365
00:13:47,218 --> 00:13:49,902
- I feel like
we're in an intervention.
366
00:13:49,996 --> 00:13:51,996
- And dancing salsa,
367
00:13:52,223 --> 00:13:54,165
You have to be compatible
with the person,
368
00:13:54,392 --> 00:13:56,742
Because people dance on
all type of different rhythms,
369
00:13:56,895 --> 00:13:57,727
All different counts.
370
00:13:57,745 --> 00:13:59,912
So now that we've been married
371
00:14:00,006 --> 00:14:01,155
For almost a month,
372
00:14:01,249 --> 00:14:02,006
It's time to put her moves
373
00:14:02,233 --> 00:14:04,158
To the test.
374
00:14:04,177 --> 00:14:06,327
- It's actually past
my bedtime, so--
375
00:14:06,346 --> 00:14:09,330
- Oh, my gosh.
376
00:14:09,349 --> 00:14:10,923
- I'm a little tired.
377
00:14:11,076 --> 00:14:12,851
- This is gonna be
just joyful with you.
378
00:14:13,002 --> 00:14:14,001
- I know, right?
- Hello, hello.
379
00:14:14,020 --> 00:14:16,170
- What up, what up,
what up, what up?
380
00:14:16,189 --> 00:14:16,579
- What's happening?
- How you doing?
381
00:14:16,672 --> 00:14:18,672
- Good.
382
00:14:18,766 --> 00:14:21,008
- How are you?
- How are you?
383
00:14:21,102 --> 00:14:22,176
- What up, what up,
what up, what up?
384
00:14:22,270 --> 00:14:23,269
- Y'all came ready for this.
385
00:14:23,363 --> 00:14:24,178
- How are you?
386
00:14:24,197 --> 00:14:25,697
- Good, how about yourself?
387
00:14:25,924 --> 00:14:26,865
- Good.
388
00:14:28,351 --> 00:14:29,350
- Have you guys
been here before?
389
00:14:29,444 --> 00:14:30,776
- Never.
- Never?
390
00:14:30,929 --> 00:14:32,036
But you guys
are expects, right?
391
00:14:32,188 --> 00:14:33,946
- I have rhythm.
392
00:14:34,099 --> 00:14:37,358
- She claims she has rhythm,
but I don't know.
393
00:14:37,452 --> 00:14:39,936
- Hey, how you doing?
- Hi.
394
00:14:39,954 --> 00:14:41,195
- Okay, I'm michael.
I'm glad you guys
395
00:14:41,289 --> 00:14:42,772
Have come in today.
396
00:14:42,790 --> 00:14:44,107
So actually,
I want to just go ahead
397
00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:45,441
And get us up
and start to learn
398
00:14:45,460 --> 00:14:47,201
Just the basics of salsa.
399
00:14:47,295 --> 00:14:48,887
I'm gonna have the ladies
kind of lined up right here
400
00:14:49,038 --> 00:14:49,888
And then the men
lined up with me.
401
00:14:50,039 --> 00:14:52,390
- Okay.
- I'll get out of the way
402
00:14:52,617 --> 00:14:54,133
So you can--
you can see each other.
403
00:14:54,285 --> 00:14:56,135
So five, six, seven.
404
00:14:56,287 --> 00:14:58,712
And one, two, three.
405
00:14:58,732 --> 00:15:01,065
Five, six, seven.
- Oh, I already messed up.
406
00:15:01,217 --> 00:15:02,901
[laughter]
407
00:15:03,128 --> 00:15:06,053
♪ ♪
408
00:15:06,147 --> 00:15:09,556
- Three. Five, six, seven.
409
00:15:09,576 --> 00:15:12,318
- You got it.
410
00:15:12,412 --> 00:15:15,138
- I got something.
411
00:15:15,156 --> 00:15:16,897
- Doing good.
- I told you I was good.
412
00:15:16,917 --> 00:15:18,324
- I don't know about all that.
413
00:15:18,476 --> 00:15:19,918
But you're doing good
right now.
414
00:15:20,069 --> 00:15:22,161
- Can't give me credit.
Can't give me credit.
415
00:15:22,313 --> 00:15:23,996
- Go back to
our regular basics.
416
00:15:24,090 --> 00:15:25,423
Forward and back.
417
00:15:25,650 --> 00:15:28,317
Good.
418
00:15:28,411 --> 00:15:29,335
All right, let's go ahead,
419
00:15:29,487 --> 00:15:31,095
And we're gonna try
to partner up.
420
00:15:31,322 --> 00:15:34,340
♪ ♪
421
00:15:34,434 --> 00:15:35,934
- You quit?
- Yep.
422
00:15:36,085 --> 00:15:39,178
[laughter]
- I'm good.
423
00:15:39,330 --> 00:15:41,180
- We'll get you back in,
we'll get you back in.
424
00:15:41,274 --> 00:15:45,276
It's not that hard.
- Mm-mm.
425
00:15:45,503 --> 00:15:47,186
- Seeing that she doesn't
want to participate
426
00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:49,672
Is not too surprising, because
427
00:15:49,691 --> 00:15:51,616
She goes hot to cold,
hot to cold all the time.
428
00:15:51,843 --> 00:15:54,860
It's very confusing.
429
00:15:55,013 --> 00:15:56,955
- You gonna make your husband
dance with the instructor?
430
00:15:57,182 --> 00:15:58,681
- I sure am.
431
00:15:58,700 --> 00:16:00,866
- Come on, man.
432
00:16:00,961 --> 00:16:03,019
- All right, we're gonna
have your right hand
433
00:16:03,112 --> 00:16:04,462
Kind of on her shoulder blade.
434
00:16:04,689 --> 00:16:06,539
And so this is gonna be
your dance front.
435
00:16:06,633 --> 00:16:08,191
Good. All right, so you've
done the salsa basic before.
436
00:16:08,284 --> 00:16:11,027
Kind of wanna make sure that
you understand what's going on.
437
00:16:11,045 --> 00:16:13,029
So just go ahead and step
forward with your left foot.
438
00:16:13,122 --> 00:16:16,474
One, two, three.
And back. Five, six.
439
00:16:16,701 --> 00:16:18,476
And a smaller step back.
Just step to the side.
440
00:16:18,627 --> 00:16:21,962
One, two, three.
Five, six, seven.
441
00:16:21,982 --> 00:16:23,389
- If I was in his situation
442
00:16:23,541 --> 00:16:26,633
And myrla, my wife--
443
00:16:26,728 --> 00:16:28,635
If wifey went and sat down,
444
00:16:28,730 --> 00:16:32,048
You know, I'd feel not wanted.
445
00:16:32,141 --> 00:16:33,825
I would feel like,
"okay, well,
446
00:16:34,052 --> 00:16:35,234
"if she doesn't want
to do this,
447
00:16:35,386 --> 00:16:37,644
"she's not gonna want
to do a lot of stuff.
448
00:16:37,664 --> 00:16:40,164
"she's not even compromising.
That shows me a lot.
449
00:16:40,316 --> 00:16:41,741
That shows me this is--
this is who my wife is."
450
00:16:41,835 --> 00:16:45,411
- How'd you like the class?
- It was fun.
451
00:16:45,505 --> 00:16:46,746
I had a good time!
452
00:16:46,898 --> 00:16:48,822
- Did you?
- I did!
453
00:16:48,916 --> 00:16:49,915
I had a great time!
- Okay, okay, but
454
00:16:50,068 --> 00:16:52,993
What will it take
for you to want to,
455
00:16:53,087 --> 00:16:54,403
Like, participate in that?
456
00:16:54,497 --> 00:16:55,921
What made you feel
so uncomfortable?
457
00:16:56,016 --> 00:16:57,331
Was it just the steps
or the movements or what?
458
00:16:57,425 --> 00:17:00,184
- Oh, I just didn't want
to do it, period that's it.
459
00:17:00,411 --> 00:17:02,020
- Because you didn't
like dancing, or you just--
460
00:17:02,247 --> 00:17:03,929
- No, I just didn't
want to do salsa dancing.
461
00:17:04,024 --> 00:17:05,915
There's nothing wrong with it.
It's just sometimes
462
00:17:06,008 --> 00:17:07,250
You just don't want
to do something.
463
00:17:07,343 --> 00:17:08,934
- So are you like that
about everything?
464
00:17:09,029 --> 00:17:13,031
[tense music]
465
00:17:13,182 --> 00:17:14,699
Like, let's say
he wants to do it.
466
00:17:14,926 --> 00:17:16,425
- Mm-hmm.
467
00:17:16,519 --> 00:17:18,185
- You won't try it
'cause he wants to?
468
00:17:18,279 --> 00:17:20,946
- I did.
- Okay, that's trying?
469
00:17:21,041 --> 00:17:24,600
- Is it not trying?
- Mm.
470
00:17:24,619 --> 00:17:26,952
- That's--mm--I don't know.
471
00:17:27,047 --> 00:17:28,788
It depends on who you ask.
- I think I got the basic steps
472
00:17:28,882 --> 00:17:30,623
And decided, "mm, no."
473
00:17:30,775 --> 00:17:32,884
- But you didn't try it
with him, though.
474
00:17:33,111 --> 00:17:35,278
You--you heard the steps,
and then when it was time
475
00:17:35,371 --> 00:17:36,537
For you to dance
with your husband,
476
00:17:36,556 --> 00:17:38,038
You was like, "nah, I'm out."
477
00:17:38,132 --> 00:17:39,390
You didn't even try
one step with him
478
00:17:39,542 --> 00:17:41,117
And then been like,
"okay, I'm out."
479
00:17:41,210 --> 00:17:42,451
At least one step.
- That is true.
480
00:17:42,470 --> 00:17:44,562
- Like, one and be like,
"okay, cool, I'm good."
481
00:17:44,789 --> 00:17:46,213
- I could have tried harder.
I didn't want to.
482
00:17:46,232 --> 00:17:48,124
- Okay, got you.
483
00:17:48,142 --> 00:17:51,051
♪ ♪
484
00:17:51,145 --> 00:17:54,388
So all right,
so if we compare
485
00:17:54,407 --> 00:17:57,075
This to our marriages,
486
00:17:57,226 --> 00:17:59,893
What do you think--
is it comparable
487
00:17:59,913 --> 00:18:02,471
How marriage is going for us?
488
00:18:02,490 --> 00:18:03,915
- Oh, it's just a stalemate.
489
00:18:04,066 --> 00:18:05,083
- Is it a stalemate right now?
- Yeah.
490
00:18:05,310 --> 00:18:06,900
♪ ♪
491
00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:08,494
- Okay.
- We're not really
492
00:18:08,588 --> 00:18:10,980
Moving anywhere in particular.
493
00:18:11,073 --> 00:18:12,590
- I--I think
we're moving forward.
494
00:18:12,817 --> 00:18:15,318
You don't think so?
- No, I disagree.
495
00:18:15,411 --> 00:18:16,094
I think we're moving backward.
496
00:18:16,321 --> 00:18:18,429
- Backward?
- Yeah, yeah.
497
00:18:18,656 --> 00:18:20,339
♪ ♪
498
00:18:20,491 --> 00:18:23,101
- Can you elaborate?
499
00:18:23,328 --> 00:18:24,268
I'm kind of curious.
500
00:18:24,495 --> 00:18:26,345
I want to understand
why you think that.
501
00:18:26,497 --> 00:18:29,165
- I think I thought
we were moving forward.
502
00:18:29,183 --> 00:18:30,757
You know, I was trying,
and I was like,
503
00:18:30,777 --> 00:18:33,336
"I'm committed, and, you know,
504
00:18:33,429 --> 00:18:35,446
Regardless, like,
we're gonna do this."
505
00:18:35,598 --> 00:18:39,117
And there's only so much
that a person can bear,
506
00:18:39,344 --> 00:18:40,618
Like, hearing certain words
come at you.
507
00:18:40,845 --> 00:18:43,696
♪ ♪
508
00:18:43,848 --> 00:18:45,289
- You're referring
to when I said, like,
509
00:18:45,441 --> 00:18:47,032
"I don't see the light
at the end of the tunnel,
510
00:18:47,127 --> 00:18:48,108
I don't see how this is
gonna work out long-term,"
511
00:18:48,202 --> 00:18:50,369
Like, those?
- Do you honestly
512
00:18:50,463 --> 00:18:52,204
See our future together?
513
00:18:52,357 --> 00:18:54,448
- Right now, I can't see it.
514
00:18:54,542 --> 00:18:56,525
Like, a future, it is doubtful.
515
00:18:56,619 --> 00:18:59,953
But I am holding out hope.
516
00:18:59,973 --> 00:19:04,367
- Like, I want somebody
who sees a future with me,
517
00:19:04,385 --> 00:19:07,203
Who sees being with me
as long-term.
518
00:19:07,296 --> 00:19:10,314
Like, I want that.
I want to be wanted.
519
00:19:10,541 --> 00:19:11,891
And I'm not feeling that
with my husband.
520
00:19:12,043 --> 00:19:14,152
♪ ♪
521
00:19:19,826 --> 00:19:21,384
- Like, I want somebody
who sees a future with me,
522
00:19:21,402 --> 00:19:24,220
Who sees being with me
as long-term.
523
00:19:24,238 --> 00:19:26,055
Like, I want that.
I want to be wanted.
524
00:19:26,073 --> 00:19:27,573
- Mm-hmm.
525
00:19:27,725 --> 00:19:28,982
- And I'm not feeling that
with my husband.
526
00:19:29,002 --> 00:19:32,170
[tense music]
527
00:19:32,397 --> 00:19:34,230
- I understand
how you feel that way,
528
00:19:34,248 --> 00:19:36,081
And I respect that,
but I just want you to know
529
00:19:36,176 --> 00:19:37,675
I didn't think I would
have strong feelings
530
00:19:37,826 --> 00:19:39,902
For someone I didn't know
within a week, and I did.
531
00:19:39,995 --> 00:19:41,570
And just because
I can't see a future
532
00:19:41,664 --> 00:19:42,513
Doesn't mean I won't someday.
533
00:19:42,665 --> 00:19:44,682
I understand
what you're saying.
534
00:19:44,833 --> 00:19:46,350
Like, of course,
I don't want to be
535
00:19:46,502 --> 00:19:48,077
With someone who says,
"I don't see a future."
536
00:19:48,170 --> 00:19:50,913
But just understand
what I'm saying.
537
00:19:51,006 --> 00:19:53,082
You know what I mean?
- I'm confused.
538
00:19:53,100 --> 00:19:54,767
I'm sorry.
539
00:19:54,919 --> 00:19:57,862
I'm confused, I'm confused.
540
00:19:58,089 --> 00:20:00,013
I wanted to be married
at first sight so badly
541
00:20:00,033 --> 00:20:02,591
Because I want to be wanted.
542
00:20:02,610 --> 00:20:05,036
I want to be with someone
543
00:20:05,187 --> 00:20:08,689
Who sees a future with me,
who wants to be with me,
544
00:20:08,708 --> 00:20:10,950
Who wants to be with me
long-term and build with me,
545
00:20:11,102 --> 00:20:13,044
Who thinks I can
be better and do better,
546
00:20:13,195 --> 00:20:14,787
And who loves me for me.
547
00:20:14,881 --> 00:20:17,456
- I get both of y'all.
I see what he's saying.
548
00:20:17,550 --> 00:20:20,793
What he's saying is,
he's telling you, yeah, look,
549
00:20:20,887 --> 00:20:22,869
He doesn't see a future,
but that doesn't mean
550
00:20:22,889 --> 00:20:24,555
There can't be a future.
- Yeah, exactly.
551
00:20:24,782 --> 00:20:25,890
- That's what
he's basically saying.
552
00:20:26,041 --> 00:20:27,558
But I also
completely understand
553
00:20:27,785 --> 00:20:29,118
Where you're coming from,
'cause like,
554
00:20:29,136 --> 00:20:29,952
"well, you give up.
Why am I trying?"
555
00:20:30,045 --> 00:20:33,289
But honestly, that's marriage.
556
00:20:33,307 --> 00:20:36,141
We're different, like,
we're very much different.
557
00:20:36,294 --> 00:20:38,644
But the one thing
that we're very similar in
558
00:20:38,738 --> 00:20:39,812
Is our marriage goals,
559
00:20:39,964 --> 00:20:42,798
The fact that we want
to be together.
560
00:20:42,817 --> 00:20:45,134
It's do you want to be
with this person first?
561
00:20:45,152 --> 00:20:46,744
You gotta ask yourself
that question.
562
00:20:46,895 --> 00:20:48,988
And if you do, then okay,
then slowly but surely,
563
00:20:49,082 --> 00:20:52,324
Everything else
will start falling in line.
564
00:20:52,477 --> 00:20:57,329
- ♪ I'm alive, I'm alive,
I'm alive ♪
565
00:20:57,482 --> 00:21:02,927
♪ life on the other side ♪
566
00:21:03,078 --> 00:21:09,675
- ♪ all your dreams
and all your fears ♪
567
00:21:09,827 --> 00:21:13,178
♪ you think
those worlds collide ♪
568
00:21:13,273 --> 00:21:15,180
- Hello?
- Hey.
569
00:21:15,333 --> 00:21:17,108
- Hey, darling, how you doing?
570
00:21:17,259 --> 00:21:18,667
- I mean, not great.
571
00:21:18,686 --> 00:21:21,445
When I got home,
there were just, like,
572
00:21:21,672 --> 00:21:23,522
Two huge piles of vomit,
like, on the floor.
573
00:21:23,616 --> 00:21:25,616
[soft music]
574
00:21:28,288 --> 00:21:30,195
And it was all bile.
Like, there was nothing in it.
575
00:21:30,348 --> 00:21:33,015
So I called the vet,
and they were like,
576
00:21:33,034 --> 00:21:35,200
"is he acting different?
You know, is he eating?"
577
00:21:35,295 --> 00:21:36,627
And they're asking all
the questions where I'm like,
578
00:21:36,854 --> 00:21:38,111
"oh, crap."
579
00:21:38,131 --> 00:21:42,875
- ♪ oh, I don't wanna know ♪
580
00:21:43,027 --> 00:21:45,878
- So they didn't have any
appointments, so I took him
581
00:21:45,972 --> 00:21:48,213
To this emergency vet.
It took a really long time.
582
00:21:48,366 --> 00:21:50,866
And then she calls me back
and says
583
00:21:50,885 --> 00:21:53,719
That basically he's in
severe kidney failure.
584
00:21:53,813 --> 00:21:55,128
- That's crazy.
585
00:21:55,148 --> 00:21:58,983
- And so they want to
hospitalize him overnight,
586
00:21:59,134 --> 00:22:02,061
And basically,
it's, like, 50/50.
587
00:22:02,155 --> 00:22:05,990
Like, maybe he gets better,
maybe he doesn't.
588
00:22:06,217 --> 00:22:07,900
- Oh, so you're not
sleeping tonight,
589
00:22:07,994 --> 00:22:09,827
And you're gonna be,
590
00:22:10,054 --> 00:22:12,479
Like, racked with worry.
- Yeah.
591
00:22:12,498 --> 00:22:15,407
He's either gonna get worse,
or he's gonna get better
592
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:17,726
Or stay the same, but it'll
probably be one or the other.
593
00:22:17,745 --> 00:22:19,728
So waiting game.
594
00:22:19,747 --> 00:22:24,583
And, um, just have
positive thoughts, you know.
595
00:22:24,677 --> 00:22:26,159
- Well, I love you.
Call me if you need anything.
596
00:22:26,179 --> 00:22:29,905
- Love you too. All right, bye.
597
00:22:29,924 --> 00:22:32,758
[sighs]
598
00:22:32,852 --> 00:22:35,427
♪ ♪
599
00:22:35,521 --> 00:22:38,356
[upbeat music]
600
00:22:38,583 --> 00:22:44,945
♪ ♪
601
00:22:48,851 --> 00:22:52,036
- So hell of a week.
602
00:22:52,263 --> 00:22:53,596
- Yeah.
603
00:22:53,689 --> 00:22:55,689
Quite, quite a week,
I will say.
604
00:22:55,708 --> 00:22:59,451
- These past couple days
have not been easy, for sure,
605
00:22:59,604 --> 00:23:02,880
Especially because, you know,
it's, like, my own actions.
606
00:23:03,107 --> 00:23:05,049
Like, my own actions
caused this whole thing.
607
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:06,700
I thought, before marriage,
like, I was doing--
608
00:23:06,794 --> 00:23:08,052
I was an excellent communicator
609
00:23:08,203 --> 00:23:09,202
And I listen perfectly.
- Yeah.
610
00:23:09,296 --> 00:23:11,722
- And then now,
throughout this process,
611
00:23:11,874 --> 00:23:12,890
I'm like, well,
"[bleep], I'm not
612
00:23:13,117 --> 00:23:14,783
"as great a communicator
as I thought I was,
613
00:23:14,802 --> 00:23:17,620
"and I damn sure don't listen
as good as I probably should,
614
00:23:17,713 --> 00:23:20,714
Especially to my wife."
so, you know,
615
00:23:20,808 --> 00:23:23,067
I failed at a couple things.
616
00:23:23,294 --> 00:23:27,312
And I can promise you
x, y, and z,
617
00:23:27,407 --> 00:23:29,131
But the actions have to
back up what I'm saying.
618
00:23:29,224 --> 00:23:29,815
Seeing is believing,
and I'm all about,
619
00:23:29,967 --> 00:23:31,742
You know, visualization.
620
00:23:31,969 --> 00:23:33,636
And so, um--
621
00:23:33,729 --> 00:23:36,247
So with that being said,
I, uh--
622
00:23:36,474 --> 00:23:40,325
I created these, um,
you know, for me.
623
00:23:40,478 --> 00:23:42,253
Right off top, first one is,
624
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:45,089
"I promise not to ever
lock the door, ever."
625
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:47,091
- That's a good one.
626
00:23:47,242 --> 00:23:49,427
- Second one is, "I promise
to always check on my wife,
627
00:23:49,578 --> 00:23:51,262
"morning, noon, and night,
just to make sure that,
628
00:23:51,489 --> 00:23:52,930
You know, you're safe.
And I care."
629
00:23:53,081 --> 00:23:53,597
- Yeah.
- Like, you're my wife.
630
00:23:53,749 --> 00:23:56,434
I want to.
631
00:23:56,661 --> 00:23:59,178
"I promise to
actively listen more.
632
00:23:59,272 --> 00:24:01,997
Stop what I'm doing
and make eye contact."
633
00:24:02,016 --> 00:24:03,015
"I promise to be
less controlling and let you be
634
00:24:03,109 --> 00:24:05,943
The independent woman
you are, always."
635
00:24:06,170 --> 00:24:07,686
And then lastly,
"I promise to handle
636
00:24:07,780 --> 00:24:12,524
My anger and temper
and aggression better."
637
00:24:12,677 --> 00:24:15,511
I know that was one that
638
00:24:15,529 --> 00:24:18,363
Really kind of
tipped the scales, and so
639
00:24:18,458 --> 00:24:20,349
I have to do a better job
of communicating that
640
00:24:20,442 --> 00:24:22,126
And hold myself accountable
641
00:24:22,277 --> 00:24:25,370
For everything that,
642
00:24:25,523 --> 00:24:28,040
Clearly, I put us through,
so...
643
00:24:28,192 --> 00:24:29,783
Coming into this marriage and
being married at first sight,
644
00:24:29,802 --> 00:24:33,137
I didn't think
that I had issues.
645
00:24:33,288 --> 00:24:34,213
I thought my communication
style was on point.
646
00:24:34,307 --> 00:24:36,715
I thought my listening
was on point.
647
00:24:36,809 --> 00:24:38,476
It's not until you actually
have to start really
648
00:24:38,703 --> 00:24:40,369
Putting them to work
with someone else,
649
00:24:40,462 --> 00:24:41,704
And I found out, you know,
650
00:24:41,797 --> 00:24:44,389
I wasn't too great at that.
651
00:24:44,484 --> 00:24:46,542
So these note cards
show her that, you know,
652
00:24:46,635 --> 00:24:49,044
I'm--I'm in it to win it.
653
00:24:49,063 --> 00:24:52,564
I'm not, you know,
just gonna just tell you
654
00:24:52,717 --> 00:24:54,399
Some [bleep] apology
655
00:24:54,494 --> 00:24:55,993
And just think you're
gonna be okay with it.
656
00:24:56,220 --> 00:24:57,495
Here's the action
I'm now taking.
657
00:24:57,646 --> 00:24:59,404
I mean, I'll do
whatever it takes
658
00:24:59,557 --> 00:25:01,073
To make this marriage work.
659
00:25:01,167 --> 00:25:03,334
- I'm very happy for this,
I'm very thankful.
660
00:25:03,561 --> 00:25:06,411
I appreciate it.
This is definitely
661
00:25:06,506 --> 00:25:07,746
A great start.
662
00:25:07,898 --> 00:25:10,415
I was kind of, like--
663
00:25:10,510 --> 00:25:14,678
Like, "how does anyone
get past this, you know?"
664
00:25:14,830 --> 00:25:19,091
And now I see that it is
possible to get past this.
665
00:25:19,243 --> 00:25:23,095
So yes, I see
this could work, you know?
666
00:25:23,247 --> 00:25:26,190
But it's my job now
to be very up-front.
667
00:25:26,417 --> 00:25:29,026
Any time I'm getting
some weird gut feeling,
668
00:25:29,253 --> 00:25:31,529
I need to let you know
right then and there,
669
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:34,347
And if it upsets
either one of us,
670
00:25:34,367 --> 00:25:35,924
Give each other time
or communicate
671
00:25:35,943 --> 00:25:39,352
Or whatever we need to do
and handle it
672
00:25:39,446 --> 00:25:42,281
In a very grown-up, mature way.
673
00:25:42,375 --> 00:25:44,116
- I would definitely
appreciate that, for sure,
674
00:25:44,268 --> 00:25:47,694
Because we know, okay,
675
00:25:47,788 --> 00:25:50,214
We hit this turbulence,
we hit these uncharted waters,
676
00:25:50,365 --> 00:25:51,957
And we see what it can do.
677
00:25:52,109 --> 00:25:53,867
It's a good point
for us to start
678
00:25:53,886 --> 00:25:56,962
Hopefully rebuilding
what, you know--
679
00:25:57,114 --> 00:25:58,538
The same feelings we had,
like, weeks ago
680
00:25:58,558 --> 00:26:00,449
When we were, like, cloud nine.
681
00:26:00,542 --> 00:26:01,617
You know, it's gonna take
a lot of work,
682
00:26:01,710 --> 00:26:03,877
But we'll definitely get there,
for sure.
683
00:26:03,896 --> 00:26:07,213
- Moving forward, this week,
now we gotta put actions
684
00:26:07,233 --> 00:26:10,142
Behind all of this
conversation, you know.
685
00:26:10,236 --> 00:26:13,887
And I really do think
we'll both be successful.
686
00:26:13,981 --> 00:26:16,407
This was just a bad three days.
687
00:26:16,558 --> 00:26:17,557
Like, that's insane.
688
00:26:17,577 --> 00:26:19,577
After, like,
an amazing three weeks,
689
00:26:19,804 --> 00:26:21,728
We had a bad
three days, you know.
690
00:26:21,747 --> 00:26:23,581
So I really am looking forward
691
00:26:23,808 --> 00:26:26,250
To where next week
will take us.
692
00:26:26,477 --> 00:26:29,812
- And I will definitely
do anything I can,
693
00:26:29,830 --> 00:26:31,589
Moving forward,
to prove that to you.
694
00:26:31,740 --> 00:26:34,741
I mean, there's nothing
I won't do for this marriage.
695
00:26:34,835 --> 00:26:37,319
You know, I'm in this.
I'm in this for the long haul.
696
00:26:37,338 --> 00:26:41,932
♪ ♪
697
00:26:42,084 --> 00:26:43,325
- Thank you.
698
00:26:43,344 --> 00:26:45,010
Like, our conversations
699
00:26:45,104 --> 00:26:48,105
Just get better and better,
I will say, so...
700
00:26:48,332 --> 00:26:50,182
♪ ♪
701
00:26:50,334 --> 00:26:54,002
Come on. Good talk, good talk.
702
00:26:54,021 --> 00:26:58,782
- ♪ that's what
love is the most ♪
703
00:27:03,939 --> 00:27:05,122
- ♪ you drive me crazy ♪
704
00:27:05,349 --> 00:27:07,941
♪ got me going in deep
lately ♪
705
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:08,517
- It feels like
you're braiding.
706
00:27:08,535 --> 00:27:10,519
- I think so.
707
00:27:10,612 --> 00:27:13,538
I'm doing a fantabulous job.
708
00:27:13,633 --> 00:27:16,116
It's like making eggs,
sunny over easy, right?
709
00:27:16,210 --> 00:27:18,360
- A month anniversary
may not be a typical milestone
710
00:27:18,379 --> 00:27:20,453
For most relationships.
711
00:27:20,473 --> 00:27:24,624
But these newlyweds
are far from typical.
712
00:27:24,644 --> 00:27:26,869
- Can't look at you
with a straight face anymore.
713
00:27:26,887 --> 00:27:30,205
- Especially when you're doing
like this right here.
714
00:27:30,224 --> 00:27:31,798
- [laughs]
715
00:27:31,817 --> 00:27:33,484
- So this one-month
anniversary
716
00:27:33,635 --> 00:27:34,710
Is an achievement.
717
00:27:34,728 --> 00:27:35,878
- There is another vowel.
718
00:27:35,896 --> 00:27:39,064
- Yeah, but what is--
what word has a u?
719
00:27:39,216 --> 00:27:40,716
- You're gonna be so pissed.
- Oh, "grow up."
720
00:27:40,734 --> 00:27:42,642
- [laughs]
721
00:27:42,662 --> 00:27:45,070
You were two legs away
from death.
722
00:27:45,164 --> 00:27:47,739
- At this point,
they only have four more weeks
723
00:27:47,833 --> 00:27:49,983
To decide whether they want
to stay married
724
00:27:50,002 --> 00:27:51,484
Or get a divorce.
725
00:27:51,504 --> 00:27:54,246
- ♪ too fab, too fly,
too funny ♪
726
00:27:54,340 --> 00:27:56,090
♪ too gas, too high,
yeah, we on it ♪
727
00:27:59,161 --> 00:28:01,595
- This is bao, my wife.
And my name's johnny.
728
00:28:03,574 --> 00:28:05,574
- [chuckles]
- we're jumping out of a plane.
729
00:28:05,592 --> 00:28:07,667
- I've never been
in a plane this small.
730
00:28:07,687 --> 00:28:09,002
- Never.
731
00:28:09,096 --> 00:28:10,078
- Right, here we go.
732
00:28:10,097 --> 00:28:11,079
- Oh, my god, oh, my god.
733
00:28:11,098 --> 00:28:11,747
- Yee-ha!
734
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,917
- [screams and laughs]
735
00:28:14,935 --> 00:28:17,177
- It is our
one-month anniversary,
736
00:28:17,196 --> 00:28:18,603
So we're celebrating
one month together
737
00:28:18,756 --> 00:28:20,923
By taking a big leap of faith.
738
00:28:21,016 --> 00:28:23,349
Showtime, aah!
- Aah!
739
00:28:23,369 --> 00:28:26,036
- All right, here we go!
- Oh, my god!
740
00:28:26,263 --> 00:28:27,763
Aah!
741
00:28:27,856 --> 00:28:29,707
- To me, skydiving's
more of, like,
742
00:28:29,934 --> 00:28:32,284
The risk far outweighs
the benefit.
743
00:28:32,378 --> 00:28:34,937
- Oh, my god, we're flying!
We're flying!
744
00:28:34,955 --> 00:28:36,288
- But I'm willing
to do it because
745
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:37,715
This is on bao's bucket list.
746
00:28:50,396 --> 00:28:54,456
- Oh, my god! Oh, my god!
Aah!
747
00:28:54,475 --> 00:28:57,884
I am starting to freak out
a little bit.
748
00:28:57,903 --> 00:28:59,644
But I'm excited.
749
00:28:59,797 --> 00:29:01,888
My family does not know
I'm doing this,
750
00:29:01,907 --> 00:29:03,574
Because they would not approve.
751
00:29:03,725 --> 00:29:05,725
So they will find out
afterwards
752
00:29:05,819 --> 00:29:08,728
And then they will kill me.
753
00:29:08,748 --> 00:29:10,989
- Let's do this. Let's do this.
754
00:29:11,083 --> 00:29:12,824
- ♪ let me see everybody
right now, jump ♪
755
00:29:12,977 --> 00:29:14,901
♪ in the air, just jump ♪
756
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:16,736
♪ touch the sky, just jump ♪
757
00:29:16,756 --> 00:29:17,421
♪ in the air, just jump ♪
758
00:29:17,648 --> 00:29:19,757
♪ touch the sky, just ♪
759
00:29:19,908 --> 00:29:22,408
- [screaming]
760
00:29:22,428 --> 00:29:24,319
- ♪ wave them hands around ♪
761
00:29:24,338 --> 00:29:26,171
♪ wave them hands
around, jump ♪
762
00:29:26,323 --> 00:29:27,765
♪ everybody jump around ♪
763
00:29:27,916 --> 00:29:31,326
[both screaming]
764
00:29:31,345 --> 00:29:34,846
[air whooshing]
765
00:29:34,940 --> 00:29:36,923
- Dope!
766
00:29:36,942 --> 00:29:39,777
- Oh, my god!
- Oh, my god!
767
00:29:39,928 --> 00:29:41,261
- ♪ let's go ♪
768
00:29:41,355 --> 00:29:43,263
- Oh, yeah!
- Safe.
769
00:29:43,282 --> 00:29:44,782
- Good [bleep].
Thanks, tony.
770
00:29:44,933 --> 00:29:47,767
- [screaming]
771
00:29:47,787 --> 00:29:50,012
[laughs]
772
00:29:50,030 --> 00:29:51,179
Aah!
773
00:29:51,273 --> 00:29:54,016
- Whoo!
- Oh, my god!
774
00:29:54,109 --> 00:29:55,441
- ♪ can't waste
another minute ♪
775
00:29:55,536 --> 00:30:00,038
♪ without a leap of faith ♪
776
00:30:00,190 --> 00:30:00,964
- There's been
so many actual moments
777
00:30:01,191 --> 00:30:02,782
That I've felt giddy
with johnny.
778
00:30:02,876 --> 00:30:04,468
When I think back,
779
00:30:04,695 --> 00:30:06,545
The first time for sure
was our wedding day.
780
00:30:06,639 --> 00:30:09,289
- ♪ my whole life
for someone just like you ♪
781
00:30:09,308 --> 00:30:11,141
- I know him.
782
00:30:11,293 --> 00:30:14,219
Oh, my god! [laughs]
783
00:30:14,313 --> 00:30:15,813
[soft music]
784
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:17,981
You're all red, johnny.
- I am.
785
00:30:18,133 --> 00:30:20,317
[laughter]
786
00:30:20,544 --> 00:30:23,045
- ♪ so if you're feeling
the same ♪
787
00:30:23,063 --> 00:30:24,546
♪ why don't we make
our move ♪
788
00:30:24,565 --> 00:30:27,473
- How was that?
789
00:30:27,493 --> 00:30:29,234
- We jumped out
of a plane together.
790
00:30:29,386 --> 00:30:31,403
And it was just magical,
it was just--
791
00:30:31,555 --> 00:30:33,330
It was everything I wanted.
792
00:30:33,557 --> 00:30:35,223
I don't know how else
I can describe
793
00:30:35,242 --> 00:30:38,151
How happy I am right now.
794
00:30:38,245 --> 00:30:39,578
- Where's my kiss?
- [laughs]
795
00:30:39,672 --> 00:30:42,731
[upbeat vocal music]
796
00:30:42,749 --> 00:30:48,512
♪ ♪
797
00:30:48,739 --> 00:30:52,908
- Welcome.
- [speaking indistinctly]
798
00:30:52,926 --> 00:30:56,244
- Today is our
one-month anniversary,
799
00:30:56,263 --> 00:30:58,430
And we are celebrating it
800
00:30:58,582 --> 00:30:59,505
Together in a very romantic
801
00:30:59,525 --> 00:31:01,600
But fun style.
802
00:31:01,694 --> 00:31:04,252
Before we go, you gotta--
you gotta trust me.
803
00:31:04,346 --> 00:31:04,936
I'ma blindfold you, all right?
804
00:31:05,089 --> 00:31:07,606
But the blindfold is--
805
00:31:07,758 --> 00:31:09,941
- Blindfolding isn't good when
your tummy hurts, but okay.
806
00:31:10,094 --> 00:31:10,775
- But it's all right.
807
00:31:10,870 --> 00:31:13,095
It won't mess up your lashes.
808
00:31:13,188 --> 00:31:14,187
- Oh, perfection.
- Is that good?
809
00:31:14,206 --> 00:31:15,539
- I think it's sticking
to my face.
810
00:31:15,766 --> 00:31:18,375
I don't think that
I look fashionable, but okay.
811
00:31:18,526 --> 00:31:19,877
- I'm sure you do.
812
00:31:20,028 --> 00:31:21,879
Come on, I got you.
813
00:31:22,106 --> 00:31:23,605
- I don't like not walking--
not seeing.
814
00:31:23,624 --> 00:31:25,290
- Don't worry, there's
nothing in front of you,
815
00:31:25,384 --> 00:31:27,050
So just walk normal.
- Are we gonna be in the sun?
816
00:31:27,202 --> 00:31:28,886
'cause I don't think
that I wore enough sunblock.
817
00:31:29,113 --> 00:31:30,387
- No, no, no, we're not
gonna be in the sun.
818
00:31:30,538 --> 00:31:34,299
I'ma stop you
right around here.
819
00:31:34,451 --> 00:31:35,133
You good?
- I'm good.
820
00:31:35,285 --> 00:31:36,801
- All right, so I'm about to
821
00:31:36,954 --> 00:31:38,120
Take off these glasses,
822
00:31:38,138 --> 00:31:40,380
And you're about to see
823
00:31:40,474 --> 00:31:42,474
What I have set up for us.
824
00:31:42,568 --> 00:31:45,477
There you go.
825
00:31:45,629 --> 00:31:47,387
- Oh, this is so pretty!
826
00:31:47,406 --> 00:31:49,722
- I know, right?
827
00:31:49,742 --> 00:31:50,632
- It is!
828
00:31:50,651 --> 00:31:53,226
Aww.
829
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:56,321
Wow, this is so beautiful.
830
00:31:56,473 --> 00:31:57,822
I'm literally speechless.
831
00:31:57,975 --> 00:31:59,583
I'm not a big wine drinker,
832
00:31:59,734 --> 00:32:01,810
But I've always wanted
to experience a winery,
833
00:32:01,828 --> 00:32:03,478
And I had told him this.
834
00:32:03,497 --> 00:32:04,755
So I thought that was
really thoughtful
835
00:32:04,906 --> 00:32:06,314
That he not only did that,
836
00:32:06,333 --> 00:32:08,650
But he did it, like, a little
above and beyond, like,
837
00:32:08,669 --> 00:32:10,669
Setting up a little picnic,
'cause I've told him
838
00:32:10,821 --> 00:32:12,912
About the picnic too, so I
thought that was really sweet.
839
00:32:13,006 --> 00:32:16,007
Good job, husband.
840
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,268
- Swirl it.
- I don't think we have to--
841
00:32:18,420 --> 00:32:21,179
- Let it breathe,
'cause apparently it got lungs.
842
00:32:21,273 --> 00:32:23,165
Smell it.
843
00:32:23,183 --> 00:32:25,834
And then...
844
00:32:25,927 --> 00:32:27,169
- Okay, it's not like
it's mouthwash.
845
00:32:27,187 --> 00:32:30,430
[laughter]
846
00:32:30,449 --> 00:32:32,115
- He said,
"swish it in your mouth."
847
00:32:32,267 --> 00:32:34,267
- "swirl it in your mouth,"
not like it's freaking--
848
00:32:34,286 --> 00:32:36,286
- It's like listerine,
like mouthwash.
849
00:32:36,438 --> 00:32:38,847
Same thing.
850
00:32:38,940 --> 00:32:41,850
So looking back at, you know--
851
00:32:41,868 --> 00:32:44,035
It's a month anniversary.
852
00:32:44,129 --> 00:32:47,947
How do you think--how do you
think we sit, currently?
853
00:32:47,967 --> 00:32:49,633
- I think we are
in a really good place.
854
00:32:49,784 --> 00:32:52,544
- Okay.
- Like, I don't think
855
00:32:52,696 --> 00:32:54,454
I've seen anything,
like, "hmm."
856
00:32:54,473 --> 00:32:56,364
Other than your snoring
and your cleaning.
857
00:32:56,383 --> 00:32:58,809
- Okay, I'm not gonna say
I haven't had any "hmm."
858
00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:01,294
I've had some "hmm."
859
00:33:01,313 --> 00:33:03,888
[tense music]
860
00:33:03,983 --> 00:33:05,874
Like, when I say, "we're gonna
do this, then that,"
861
00:33:05,892 --> 00:33:07,876
You're like, "mm,
no, I'd rather go do this,"
862
00:33:07,969 --> 00:33:10,545
Or, "why do we have
to do that?"
863
00:33:10,564 --> 00:33:12,731
And, like, when you're
close-minded about stuff,
864
00:33:12,825 --> 00:33:15,308
That kind of gets underneath
my skin a little bit.
865
00:33:15,327 --> 00:33:17,385
You take drama
to a whole nother level.
866
00:33:17,479 --> 00:33:20,071
- Don't you like that about me?
- No.
867
00:33:20,224 --> 00:33:22,315
It's like, I never had a child,
868
00:33:22,334 --> 00:33:24,242
But I'm assuming
that's like having a child.
869
00:33:24,394 --> 00:33:25,744
- You're comparing
your wife to a child?
870
00:33:25,838 --> 00:33:27,671
- At those moments? Yes.
871
00:33:27,898 --> 00:33:29,247
When you're throwing
them little tantrums
872
00:33:29,399 --> 00:33:30,582
And acting like that,
like a little brat,
873
00:33:30,676 --> 00:33:32,175
Yes, absolutely,
874
00:33:32,402 --> 00:33:34,236
I'm comparing you to a child.
[chuckles]
875
00:33:34,254 --> 00:33:36,071
We don't need that drama.
876
00:33:36,089 --> 00:33:38,164
- This is a very romantic
one-month anniversary.
877
00:33:38,258 --> 00:33:39,665
- I just want to tell you
878
00:33:39,685 --> 00:33:41,518
Where I'm sitting at
with everything,
879
00:33:41,745 --> 00:33:44,412
Where's my mindset,
but I choose--
880
00:33:44,431 --> 00:33:47,173
I do choose to be here.
881
00:33:47,267 --> 00:33:48,433
- What you see is what you get.
882
00:33:48,585 --> 00:33:52,270
- Take it or leave it.
- Take it or leave it.
883
00:33:52,422 --> 00:33:54,589
You survived the venus flytrap
for a month.
884
00:33:54,608 --> 00:33:56,867
- I survived the venus flytrap.
I haven't been--
885
00:33:57,094 --> 00:34:01,596
My head is still intact,
my limbs are still here,
886
00:34:01,615 --> 00:34:03,948
I have not been attacked.
887
00:34:04,101 --> 00:34:06,101
- We haven't had
an argument yet.
888
00:34:06,119 --> 00:34:08,694
I think we're growing
more comfortable.
889
00:34:08,714 --> 00:34:10,455
I don't even want
to say comfortable,
890
00:34:10,549 --> 00:34:12,274
'cause I feel like I've been
comfortable with you.
891
00:34:12,367 --> 00:34:14,217
You're so honest and direct.
892
00:34:14,369 --> 00:34:15,385
Like, it's always
felt comfortable
893
00:34:15,537 --> 00:34:16,720
Because you set that
from the beginning.
894
00:34:16,871 --> 00:34:20,039
- Yeah, it has.
It's felt like--
895
00:34:20,059 --> 00:34:22,634
It hasn't felt forced,
it feels right.
896
00:34:22,728 --> 00:34:26,045
I think a lot of it
has to do just how we--
897
00:34:26,065 --> 00:34:27,547
- Interact.
- Well, one, the fact--
898
00:34:27,566 --> 00:34:29,549
Our mindset coming into this.
899
00:34:29,568 --> 00:34:32,143
And two, the pace that we took.
900
00:34:32,296 --> 00:34:34,571
Because, you know,
things can start off hot,
901
00:34:34,722 --> 00:34:36,298
And those can be good.
902
00:34:36,316 --> 00:34:37,799
I've been in
those relationships where
903
00:34:37,892 --> 00:34:39,058
Things start off hot
and it's good,
904
00:34:39,152 --> 00:34:41,653
But then, you know, like,
905
00:34:41,747 --> 00:34:44,989
When everything settles,
it's like, "now what?"
906
00:34:45,142 --> 00:34:46,732
- I think this is where we are
907
00:34:46,752 --> 00:34:49,661
When everything settles.
- Yeah, 'cause we--exactly.
908
00:34:49,755 --> 00:34:51,496
- You know, everybody settles,
and you're like,
909
00:34:51,590 --> 00:34:53,315
"okay, this is a good place.
I feel good."
910
00:34:53,333 --> 00:34:54,424
- Yeah, we still--
- like, we can just stay home
911
00:34:54,576 --> 00:34:56,242
And watch tv,
or we can just do something.
912
00:34:56,336 --> 00:34:58,428
- Yeah, we still coasting.
913
00:34:58,580 --> 00:35:00,171
I like you.
914
00:35:00,324 --> 00:35:02,824
I'm having those good feelings
915
00:35:02,843 --> 00:35:04,184
When I think about you,
when I'm not around you.
916
00:35:06,605 --> 00:35:10,665
[soft music]
917
00:35:10,758 --> 00:35:13,335
- Those falling in love
feelings
918
00:35:13,353 --> 00:35:16,171
Are slowly approaching.
919
00:35:16,189 --> 00:35:19,783
- One month in, and I'm
so thankful, grateful, happy
920
00:35:19,934 --> 00:35:20,859
That I decided to get
married at first sight.
921
00:35:21,011 --> 00:35:24,121
He makes me laugh every day.
922
00:35:24,272 --> 00:35:26,681
He brings me joy.
923
00:35:26,774 --> 00:35:28,700
I love spending time with him.
924
00:35:28,852 --> 00:35:30,185
And the fact that he's just,
you know,
925
00:35:30,203 --> 00:35:30,943
Everything that
I wanted and more
926
00:35:30,963 --> 00:35:34,022
Is just a dream come true.
927
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:37,283
Who would've thunk it?
- Who would've thunk it?
928
00:35:37,377 --> 00:35:40,195
- ♪ I want you, I want you ♪
929
00:35:40,213 --> 00:35:43,031
♪ ♪
930
00:35:43,049 --> 00:35:46,368
[upbeat music]
931
00:35:46,386 --> 00:35:48,294
- ♪ we keep
walking on the edge ♪
932
00:35:48,313 --> 00:35:52,315
♪ like we're gonna live
forever, ever, ever, ay ♪
933
00:35:52,467 --> 00:35:54,800
- All right.
934
00:35:54,820 --> 00:35:56,486
I don't even know if I can eat.
935
00:35:56,638 --> 00:35:58,971
- Still in that
adrenaline rush?
936
00:35:59,065 --> 00:36:02,734
- I am. Are you?
- Yes, still.
937
00:36:02,886 --> 00:36:04,569
I can't believe we just
938
00:36:04,721 --> 00:36:06,721
Went skydiving together.
939
00:36:06,740 --> 00:36:10,500
- Were you worried at all?
- Um, yes.
940
00:36:10,652 --> 00:36:11,576
Oh, my gosh.
941
00:36:11,728 --> 00:36:15,580
How are you,
this halfway through?
942
00:36:15,732 --> 00:36:19,417
- At the halfway point.
- Yeah.
943
00:36:19,511 --> 00:36:21,736
- I think you--
I think it's well documented,
944
00:36:21,755 --> 00:36:25,407
Our differences in how
we're approaching marriage
945
00:36:25,425 --> 00:36:27,333
And the process and all that.
- Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
946
00:36:27,352 --> 00:36:31,913
- All I can say is that
I am 100% committed to you.
947
00:36:31,932 --> 00:36:33,356
We took an initial
leap of faith
948
00:36:33,583 --> 00:36:34,599
When we got married
a month ago.
949
00:36:34,751 --> 00:36:36,676
So far in this marriage,
950
00:36:36,770 --> 00:36:38,603
It feels like I've been waiting
for something to happen.
951
00:36:38,697 --> 00:36:42,515
And if we both commit
to just taking the leap
952
00:36:42,534 --> 00:36:44,367
And being uncomfortable
and doing things
953
00:36:44,519 --> 00:36:46,611
That we normally wouldn't do,
it's gonna happen.
954
00:36:46,705 --> 00:36:48,596
What I'm really looking for--
I mean, I feel like we do
955
00:36:48,615 --> 00:36:50,098
Have a lot of things
in common already.
956
00:36:50,191 --> 00:36:52,024
I know why we were matched.
957
00:36:52,118 --> 00:36:53,785
There are a lot of reasons that
958
00:36:53,879 --> 00:36:56,713
Would lead to
a very successful marriage.
959
00:36:56,940 --> 00:36:59,123
I feel like work
and everything else
960
00:36:59,276 --> 00:37:01,776
Is so planned already,
961
00:37:01,869 --> 00:37:03,278
In my marriage,
I want it to have
962
00:37:03,371 --> 00:37:04,537
A little bit of spontaneity.
963
00:37:04,556 --> 00:37:07,115
Like, if we can find a way to
964
00:37:07,208 --> 00:37:09,784
Really just cherish the moment
965
00:37:09,803 --> 00:37:12,954
And find little things that--
along the way
966
00:37:12,973 --> 00:37:14,213
That we never thought we
would've seen in one another.
967
00:37:14,233 --> 00:37:17,625
'cause, to me,
I think I've told you, for sex,
968
00:37:17,644 --> 00:37:19,644
Sex is this buildup
of the entire day,
969
00:37:19,796 --> 00:37:21,646
Where we're just, like,
back and forth, back and forth,
970
00:37:21,740 --> 00:37:23,465
Back and forth,
and it just gets to a point
971
00:37:23,483 --> 00:37:25,224
Where, when we finally
see each other at night,
972
00:37:25,244 --> 00:37:27,077
Come home from work,
it's like, "wow, I can't wait."
973
00:37:27,304 --> 00:37:29,729
When we have sex,
it's kind of like,
974
00:37:29,748 --> 00:37:31,414
There was no indication
that we're gonna have sex,
975
00:37:31,566 --> 00:37:35,568
But boom, we have sex.
976
00:37:35,587 --> 00:37:37,420
It just, to me, is, like,
the little moments
977
00:37:37,647 --> 00:37:39,163
Of building the tension...
- Mm-hmm.
978
00:37:39,316 --> 00:37:41,907
- And being flirty
and all these things.
979
00:37:41,927 --> 00:37:44,152
- Then touch me more,
touch me more!
980
00:37:44,170 --> 00:37:49,081
Touch me more, touch me more.
- It's all good.
981
00:37:49,101 --> 00:37:50,675
[tense music]
982
00:37:50,769 --> 00:37:52,677
[sighs]
983
00:37:52,829 --> 00:37:53,161
Bao doesn't get it.
984
00:37:53,179 --> 00:37:56,756
♪ ♪
985
00:37:56,775 --> 00:38:00,001
When you get happy and excited,
986
00:38:00,094 --> 00:38:02,762
It feels like
you get very giddy,
987
00:38:02,856 --> 00:38:05,615
Almost like a little kid.
988
00:38:05,842 --> 00:38:07,342
♪ ♪
989
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:09,268
I personally don't
find it attractive.
990
00:38:09,362 --> 00:38:12,196
- It was totally organic.
After we finished the shoot,
991
00:38:12,349 --> 00:38:14,365
I just ran for you,
and you went for it.
992
00:38:14,518 --> 00:38:16,851
Like, we just went for it.
It felt natural.
993
00:38:16,870 --> 00:38:18,703
- Mm-hmm.
994
00:38:18,797 --> 00:38:21,539
- It was awesome.
995
00:38:21,633 --> 00:38:24,968
- Yeah.
996
00:38:25,195 --> 00:38:26,636
So yeah, more of that.
More stuff like that.
997
00:38:26,788 --> 00:38:29,472
- I really--I mean, I really do
think it's because both of us
998
00:38:29,624 --> 00:38:32,700
Have, in a way, benefitted
from others initiating.
999
00:38:32,794 --> 00:38:34,369
But I see what you're saying.
1000
00:38:34,387 --> 00:38:36,629
And I do think it is
important, the journey.
1001
00:38:36,648 --> 00:38:37,797
There's moments when I'm like,
1002
00:38:37,816 --> 00:38:39,874
"maybe I need to be
just very blatant."
1003
00:38:39,893 --> 00:38:43,486
Like, "hey, I need
a hug right now," you know?
1004
00:38:43,638 --> 00:38:46,156
Like, when you were there,
listening to me about
1005
00:38:46,307 --> 00:38:48,307
What I shared
about my coworker
1006
00:38:48,401 --> 00:38:51,235
And some of the stuff
I've been going through at work
1007
00:38:51,388 --> 00:38:53,388
That's been stressing me out,
1008
00:38:53,406 --> 00:38:56,649
I, in that moment,
really wanted you to hug me.
1009
00:38:56,668 --> 00:38:57,241
[soft music]
1010
00:38:57,394 --> 00:39:00,486
Like, it was hard.
1011
00:39:00,505 --> 00:39:02,488
But I didn't--
1012
00:39:02,582 --> 00:39:04,399
I was afraid of being rejected,
1013
00:39:04,417 --> 00:39:06,417
So I didn't ask.
- Mm.
1014
00:39:06,570 --> 00:39:08,419
- So--
- the mood was right.
1015
00:39:08,513 --> 00:39:11,181
- I just didn't know,
and I should have--
1016
00:39:11,332 --> 00:39:13,257
Hindsight's 20/20--
1017
00:39:13,352 --> 00:39:17,412
Just asked you for that
physical, like, comfort.
1018
00:39:17,430 --> 00:39:20,357
I'll do better next time.
1019
00:39:20,508 --> 00:39:21,358
- It's all we can do.
1020
00:39:24,846 --> 00:39:27,271
Hmm.
- Everything else, for me,
1021
00:39:27,424 --> 00:39:28,180
Is coming organically.
1022
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:30,592
We're sharing, we're talking.
1023
00:39:30,685 --> 00:39:32,369
I'm trying to ask you
more questions.
1024
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:34,429
- So what do you--what do you
think we need to work on?
1025
00:39:34,522 --> 00:39:37,690
What's on the top
of the list here?
1026
00:39:37,784 --> 00:39:40,359
- More cuddles.
1027
00:39:40,379 --> 00:39:42,286
- What else? What else do you--
do you need from me?
1028
00:39:42,381 --> 00:39:44,789
[chuckles]
1029
00:39:44,941 --> 00:39:47,217
- You're not initiating
anything.
1030
00:39:47,368 --> 00:39:48,793
I'm getting nothing.
1031
00:39:48,945 --> 00:39:51,221
- Man, cuddles--
cuddles is hard.
1032
00:39:51,448 --> 00:39:52,889
We fall asleep
at different times.
1033
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:55,617
We're both very
hot-temperatured body people.
1034
00:39:55,635 --> 00:39:57,452
- Mm-hmm.
- So if we cuddle for, like,
1035
00:39:57,545 --> 00:40:00,045
Three minutes, I'm sweating.
1036
00:40:00,065 --> 00:40:02,457
You're really hot. [chuckles]
1037
00:40:02,475 --> 00:40:04,308
- Help me out, please.
1038
00:40:04,461 --> 00:40:06,644
Like, I'm willing to try.
1039
00:40:06,796 --> 00:40:09,406
I've tried and pushed
and stretched myself
1040
00:40:09,633 --> 00:40:11,724
In so many ways
throughout this process.
1041
00:40:11,818 --> 00:40:12,650
Give me something!
1042
00:40:12,802 --> 00:40:15,578
Please, throw me
a freaking bone!
1043
00:40:15,730 --> 00:40:18,081
- [chuckles]
1044
00:40:23,755 --> 00:40:27,924
- ♪ I don't want to keep
fighting what I want ♪
1045
00:40:28,075 --> 00:40:31,428
♪ 'cause you know I don't
like to hold my tongue ♪
1046
00:40:31,655 --> 00:40:35,098
- "the art of making music
is our passion"? Okay.
1047
00:40:35,249 --> 00:40:38,176
- We've been going through
a couple of things,
1048
00:40:38,270 --> 00:40:39,994
Just to name a few.
1049
00:40:40,013 --> 00:40:43,181
And I'm excited,
because we made it here.
1050
00:40:43,333 --> 00:40:45,424
- Oh, [bleep],
this is very nice.
1051
00:40:45,444 --> 00:40:46,334
- You like it?
- You planned this?
1052
00:40:46,352 --> 00:40:49,170
- Yeah.
- Oh, my goodness.
1053
00:40:49,189 --> 00:40:50,855
- Last night,
after salsa night,
1054
00:40:51,007 --> 00:40:52,431
We had a great conversation,
1055
00:40:52,451 --> 00:40:53,616
And he asked me what I wanted.
1056
00:40:53,843 --> 00:40:57,120
I told zack
that I wanted happy zack back.
1057
00:40:57,271 --> 00:40:58,288
- This is, like,
an actual studio.
1058
00:40:58,439 --> 00:40:59,697
- Yeah.
- Oh, [bleep].
1059
00:40:59,791 --> 00:41:00,606
- It's an actual studio.
1060
00:41:00,625 --> 00:41:03,534
[upbeat music]
1061
00:41:03,687 --> 00:41:10,692
♪ ♪
1062
00:41:10,710 --> 00:41:14,637
Zack is having so much fun.
1063
00:41:14,864 --> 00:41:16,881
I can tell,
I can see his eyes dancing.
1064
00:41:17,033 --> 00:41:18,641
♪ ♪
1065
00:41:18,793 --> 00:41:21,644
- Yay.
- Yay! [laughs]
1066
00:41:21,871 --> 00:41:23,538
- Thank you.
1067
00:41:23,556 --> 00:41:25,223
- I'm hoping that
this one-month
1068
00:41:25,317 --> 00:41:29,210
Really brings us back
to the beginning, essentially,
1069
00:41:29,229 --> 00:41:32,563
Because I'll do
everything it takes
1070
00:41:32,716 --> 00:41:33,639
To get happy zack back.
Happy anniversary.
1071
00:41:33,658 --> 00:41:36,159
- Happy anniversary. Thank you.
1072
00:41:36,386 --> 00:41:37,719
- 'cause happy zack
makes happy michaela
1073
00:41:37,812 --> 00:41:39,496
And makes us a happy unit.
1074
00:41:39,647 --> 00:41:40,722
- It's weird, though,
'cause, like, it seems like,
1075
00:41:40,815 --> 00:41:43,224
When we first met,
it was so long ago,
1076
00:41:43,243 --> 00:41:45,150
But it actually wasn't.
- It wasn't.
1077
00:41:45,170 --> 00:41:46,394
- I don't know
why it feels like that.
1078
00:41:46,487 --> 00:41:48,746
- It's literally last month.
- I know, but--
1079
00:41:48,898 --> 00:41:50,173
How do you feel about it?
1080
00:41:50,324 --> 00:41:52,658
- I think it's been
very dynamic.
1081
00:41:52,677 --> 00:41:56,921
It's been ups and downs
and, you know, all of that,
1082
00:41:57,073 --> 00:41:58,181
Round and round and, you know,
1083
00:41:58,408 --> 00:42:00,424
Happiness and anger
and all that kind of stuff.
1084
00:42:00,577 --> 00:42:02,260
It's actually been quite,
1085
00:42:02,354 --> 00:42:04,095
Like, just constant learning.
1086
00:42:04,247 --> 00:42:07,081
- Yeah.
1087
00:42:07,174 --> 00:42:08,432
What do you think
you've learned the most?
1088
00:42:08,527 --> 00:42:13,178
- Hmm.
1089
00:42:13,198 --> 00:42:16,015
How to stop getting
in my own way.
1090
00:42:16,109 --> 00:42:17,942
- Mm-hmm.
Self-sabotage?
1091
00:42:18,036 --> 00:42:20,519
- Yeah.
[laughter]
1092
00:42:20,539 --> 00:42:21,871
- You love you
some self-sabotage.
1093
00:42:22,023 --> 00:42:25,283
[laughter]
1094
00:42:25,435 --> 00:42:26,267
- Yeah, none of that's good.
1095
00:42:26,286 --> 00:42:28,044
- Yeah, yeah.
- Let me stop.
1096
00:42:28,195 --> 00:42:29,937
- Yeah, I feel that.
1097
00:42:29,956 --> 00:42:32,440
- Yeah, what about you?
1098
00:42:32,458 --> 00:42:34,609
- I have, like,
a set of ideals or beliefs,
1099
00:42:34,627 --> 00:42:36,277
And, like, now I'm starting
to question that.
1100
00:42:36,296 --> 00:42:38,613
And I feel like I've learned
to, like,
1101
00:42:38,706 --> 00:42:40,448
Think about other
people's perspectives...
1102
00:42:40,541 --> 00:42:42,450
- Mm-hmm.
- And points of view.
1103
00:42:42,468 --> 00:42:44,302
- Mm-hmm.
1104
00:42:44,454 --> 00:42:47,955
Yeah, and this has really,
like, taught me
1105
00:42:48,049 --> 00:42:51,050
To think about
the other person.
1106
00:42:51,069 --> 00:42:52,960
Like, being married
and being a wife
1107
00:42:53,054 --> 00:42:55,129
Is always on the forefront
of my mind.
1108
00:42:55,148 --> 00:42:56,981
- Mm-hmm.
1109
00:42:57,075 --> 00:42:59,058
- And I like it, I do.
1110
00:42:59,077 --> 00:43:00,635
- I love michaela's surprise.
1111
00:43:00,653 --> 00:43:02,078
I really can't believe
that she really
1112
00:43:02,305 --> 00:43:03,896
Put a lot of time
and effort into
1113
00:43:03,915 --> 00:43:05,415
Getting it set up just for me.
1114
00:43:05,566 --> 00:43:07,308
It's kind of--
it's kind of crazy.
1115
00:43:07,327 --> 00:43:09,085
Having known michaela
for a month now,
1116
00:43:09,236 --> 00:43:10,920
It just shows me
how much she cares about me
1117
00:43:11,147 --> 00:43:12,404
And how much she loves me,
honestly.
1118
00:43:12,424 --> 00:43:13,923
And I'm very thankful for her.
1119
00:43:14,150 --> 00:43:15,574
Okay, so having been
married for a month,
1120
00:43:15,668 --> 00:43:18,486
Like, what--
what are the negatives?
1121
00:43:18,504 --> 00:43:21,322
- I don't think there are
any negatives.
1122
00:43:21,415 --> 00:43:23,433
We are experiencing negatives.
- Mm-hmm.
1123
00:43:23,660 --> 00:43:25,159
- But I don't think
there are negatives
1124
00:43:25,178 --> 00:43:26,661
In being married to you.
Does that make sense?
1125
00:43:26,679 --> 00:43:27,662
- Yeah.
1126
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:31,833
I hate...
1127
00:43:31,851 --> 00:43:35,002
When you blast music
like it's 3:00 p.M.
1128
00:43:35,021 --> 00:43:37,355
At 12:30 a.M. I hate that.
1129
00:43:37,449 --> 00:43:39,173
I tell you, I'm like,
"michaela, yo, can you just,
1130
00:43:39,192 --> 00:43:40,950
Like, put that to volume two?"
like, I'm just chilling,
1131
00:43:41,102 --> 00:43:42,601
Trying to do work,
and you just, like, [bleep]
1132
00:43:42,621 --> 00:43:43,936
Blasting cardi b and [bleep].
1133
00:43:44,030 --> 00:43:45,604
Like, stop--like, stop.
1134
00:43:45,624 --> 00:43:48,958
Like, I hate that.
Like, I just hate that.
1135
00:43:49,185 --> 00:43:51,686
You legit act like
it's a day party, yo.
1136
00:43:51,704 --> 00:43:53,354
It's time to go to bed.
1137
00:43:53,373 --> 00:43:56,633
[laughter]
1138
00:43:56,860 --> 00:43:59,360
Honestly, I wouldn't change
anything that has happened.
1139
00:43:59,379 --> 00:44:01,362
♪ ♪
1140
00:44:01,381 --> 00:44:03,531
- I agree.
1141
00:44:03,549 --> 00:44:09,312
♪ ♪
1142
00:44:09,463 --> 00:44:12,315
- ♪ oh, oh, whoa ♪
1143
00:44:12,466 --> 00:44:15,634
♪ oh, oh, whoa ♪
1144
00:44:15,654 --> 00:44:18,655
- I am going through
a uniquely hard time,
1145
00:44:18,806 --> 00:44:23,642
Because I...
1146
00:44:23,736 --> 00:44:27,738
Had to put baxter down.
1147
00:44:27,832 --> 00:44:31,225
Get a belly rub.
1148
00:44:31,244 --> 00:44:31,834
Good boy.
1149
00:44:31,986 --> 00:44:34,896
Obviously, that was...
1150
00:44:34,914 --> 00:44:38,733
Incredibly hard for me.
1151
00:44:38,751 --> 00:44:41,085
Ryan, he was already gone,
like, to the gym,
1152
00:44:41,237 --> 00:44:43,662
But he let me know
that he's here for me,
1153
00:44:43,756 --> 00:44:45,573
Which, you know, is really nice
1154
00:44:45,591 --> 00:44:47,408
And really, really sweet.
1155
00:44:47,427 --> 00:44:50,169
- ♪ not giving up,
I'm gonna conquer ♪
1156
00:44:50,188 --> 00:44:54,415
♪ fighting someone
always harder ♪
1157
00:44:54,508 --> 00:44:58,177
- So right now,
I am trying to
1158
00:44:58,196 --> 00:45:00,530
Rush as quick
as humanly possible
1159
00:45:00,757 --> 00:45:04,425
To meet ryan
at the movie theater
1160
00:45:04,444 --> 00:45:07,261
For our one-month date.
1161
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:08,871
You know, I didn't want
to cancel our date.
1162
00:45:09,023 --> 00:45:10,856
I want to, you know,
1163
00:45:10,875 --> 00:45:13,859
Acknowledge and celebrate
ryan and I
1164
00:45:13,878 --> 00:45:17,288
Still being here after a month.
1165
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:20,624
He is important to me,
and I want to show him
1166
00:45:20,777 --> 00:45:24,053
That he's important to me by
1167
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:26,781
Still, you know,
going on our date.
1168
00:45:26,874 --> 00:45:31,619
- ♪ you got me shaking ♪
1169
00:45:31,637 --> 00:45:32,895
♪ you got me shaking ♪
1170
00:45:33,047 --> 00:45:34,230
- I'm excited for you to
1171
00:45:34,381 --> 00:45:35,473
See it for the first time.
1172
00:45:35,625 --> 00:45:36,715
You get, like, blankets
1173
00:45:36,809 --> 00:45:38,901
And all kind of stuff.
- Yay.
1174
00:45:39,053 --> 00:45:41,645
- ♪ you got me shaking ♪
1175
00:45:41,740 --> 00:45:43,631
- I'm gonna let you go first.
I want to see your reaction.
1176
00:45:43,724 --> 00:45:45,299
- Okay.
- You pick the--
1177
00:45:45,318 --> 00:45:47,318
I'm gonna judge you
on what seats you pick.
1178
00:45:47,470 --> 00:45:49,637
Brett means so much to me.
1179
00:45:49,655 --> 00:45:52,490
She's just so open
about who she is.
1180
00:45:52,642 --> 00:45:55,067
Like, she's such
a loving person.
1181
00:45:55,086 --> 00:45:57,828
And now that
we're one month in,
1182
00:45:57,981 --> 00:46:00,739
I have a special surprise
for brett at the theater,
1183
00:46:00,759 --> 00:46:02,650
And I just want to show her
that I really do care.
1184
00:46:02,668 --> 00:46:04,076
♪ ♪
1185
00:46:04,170 --> 00:46:06,578
Sorry you don't like my drink.
- Wow.
1186
00:46:06,598 --> 00:46:08,931
It's just so freaking gingery.
You want it like that.
1187
00:46:09,158 --> 00:46:12,417
- It's not ginger, it's pepper.
- What is that?
1188
00:46:12,437 --> 00:46:14,771
It's pepper?
- It's, like, an ancho pepper.
1189
00:46:14,998 --> 00:46:17,607
My pecan pie has
ancho chili peppers in it.
1190
00:46:17,758 --> 00:46:19,776
You haven't had that yet,
though.
1191
00:46:19,927 --> 00:46:23,780
Not to jump into...
1192
00:46:23,931 --> 00:46:26,282
Baxter talk,
but how do you feel?
1193
00:46:26,433 --> 00:46:30,511
- I think I feel "better"
in the sense that, like,
1194
00:46:30,530 --> 00:46:32,863
I've had more time
to, like, process.
1195
00:46:32,957 --> 00:46:36,775
- It's tough. I mean,
1196
00:46:36,869 --> 00:46:41,780
When my last dog
got sick, she was seven.
1197
00:46:41,874 --> 00:46:43,782
And I didn't get another dog
for, like, three years,
1198
00:46:43,876 --> 00:46:46,377
Just 'cause
it messed me up so bad,
1199
00:46:46,471 --> 00:46:48,304
Having to make that decision.
1200
00:46:48,455 --> 00:46:50,622
Since brett had to
make the decision on baxter
1201
00:46:50,642 --> 00:46:52,199
This morning,
1202
00:46:52,293 --> 00:46:54,218
I've only briefly gotten
to talk to her,
1203
00:46:54,370 --> 00:46:58,205
And I know she's hurting
more than she's showing.
1204
00:46:58,299 --> 00:47:01,317
Good?
- Mmm, mmm, mmm, mmm, mmm.
1205
00:47:01,468 --> 00:47:04,303
- I know that feeling, and
1206
00:47:04,322 --> 00:47:07,806
It sucks, 'cause I always
want to protect people
1207
00:47:07,900 --> 00:47:10,734
And especially my wife.
1208
00:47:10,887 --> 00:47:14,646
Like, it affects you.
1209
00:47:14,666 --> 00:47:16,148
I just know what
you're going through,
1210
00:47:16,167 --> 00:47:18,559
And I know how much--
how terrible it is.
1211
00:47:18,578 --> 00:47:19,727
- Yeah.
- I don't know that I would've
1212
00:47:19,820 --> 00:47:21,745
Been able to make tonight,
I'll be honest.
1213
00:47:21,898 --> 00:47:24,915
- Yeah.
- So I appreciate
1214
00:47:25,009 --> 00:47:28,569
You kind of
pulling it together for that.
1215
00:47:28,588 --> 00:47:31,347
- Yeah.
1216
00:47:31,498 --> 00:47:33,574
Yeah, I mean...
- It's a lot.
1217
00:47:33,593 --> 00:47:36,577
- Baxter is on my mind.
1218
00:47:36,596 --> 00:47:38,596
But yeah, I mean,
there's part of me that
1219
00:47:38,690 --> 00:47:42,583
I want to make sure that I,
you know, put on a good face,
1220
00:47:42,602 --> 00:47:44,919
And I'm not faking it,
by any means,
1221
00:47:45,012 --> 00:47:47,697
But, you know,
just showing you, like,
1222
00:47:47,924 --> 00:47:50,015
You know, I'm here.
1223
00:47:50,109 --> 00:47:51,425
'cause I want to.
1224
00:47:51,444 --> 00:47:53,685
♪ ♪
1225
00:47:53,779 --> 00:47:54,778
[cheery music playing]
1226
00:47:54,931 --> 00:47:56,097
I am so scared
to watch this right now.
1227
00:47:56,190 --> 00:47:58,374
I'm so scared.
I hate watching myself.
1228
00:47:58,525 --> 00:47:59,617
- I think our video's
about to--
1229
00:47:59,711 --> 00:48:00,434
- I'm so scared.
1230
00:48:00,527 --> 00:48:02,119
- About to show itself.
1231
00:48:02,213 --> 00:48:03,954
You've never seen yourself
on a movie screen before?
1232
00:48:04,048 --> 00:48:06,273
- No, n--[gasps]
1233
00:48:06,292 --> 00:48:08,626
- Please stand.
1234
00:48:08,778 --> 00:48:11,629
- Oh, here we come.
1235
00:48:11,781 --> 00:48:13,372
- I was legit sweating.
1236
00:48:13,391 --> 00:48:17,709
- ♪ you live
to feel the rain ♪
1237
00:48:17,729 --> 00:48:20,471
- Oh, we're here.
- Oh, my god.
1238
00:48:20,565 --> 00:48:22,473
[tender music]
1239
00:48:22,567 --> 00:48:25,884
Oh, thanks--okay.
1240
00:48:25,978 --> 00:48:27,811
My name's brett.
- My name's ryan.
1241
00:48:27,964 --> 00:48:29,463
- Ryan?
- Yes, ma'am.
1242
00:48:29,482 --> 00:48:30,889
- Nice to meet you.
- "yes, ma'am."
1243
00:48:30,909 --> 00:48:33,317
- "yes, ma'am."
- soon-to-be wife.
1244
00:48:33,411 --> 00:48:37,304
- Brett's family and friends
would like you to know
1245
00:48:37,323 --> 00:48:40,065
Brett is kind and generous
1246
00:48:40,159 --> 00:48:42,326
And goes above and beyond
1247
00:48:42,478 --> 00:48:45,813
For her family and her friends.
1248
00:48:45,831 --> 00:48:48,499
- Not a lie.
1249
00:48:48,651 --> 00:48:51,410
- The trick to brett's heart
1250
00:48:51,429 --> 00:48:53,837
Is to be present and honest.
1251
00:48:53,990 --> 00:48:55,823
♪ ♪
1252
00:48:55,841 --> 00:48:58,417
- To ryan. It feels like
we've been waiting
1253
00:48:58,436 --> 00:49:00,436
For this moment for so long.
1254
00:49:00,587 --> 00:49:02,772
I don't know what your heart
has endured in the past,
1255
00:49:02,923 --> 00:49:04,106
But I hope you'll
let me nurture it
1256
00:49:04,258 --> 00:49:06,183
And take care of it now.
1257
00:49:06,335 --> 00:49:08,669
♪ ♪
1258
00:49:08,688 --> 00:49:11,172
- I promise to be your
biggest fan and partner
1259
00:49:11,265 --> 00:49:13,765
With whatever life brings.
1260
00:49:13,859 --> 00:49:15,359
I promise faithfulness,
1261
00:49:15,511 --> 00:49:18,287
Respect,
patience, attentiveness,
1262
00:49:18,514 --> 00:49:20,698
And more laughs
than I can put into words.
1263
00:49:20,850 --> 00:49:23,275
♪ ♪
1264
00:49:23,369 --> 00:49:26,537
- I pronounce
that you are married.
1265
00:49:26,631 --> 00:49:29,873
[cheers and applause]
1266
00:49:30,026 --> 00:49:33,952
- ♪ oh, my love ♪
1267
00:49:33,972 --> 00:49:36,530
- It is my pleasure
to introduce,
1268
00:49:36,549 --> 00:49:39,717
For the first time
as husband and wife,
1269
00:49:39,811 --> 00:49:41,552
Ryan and brett.
1270
00:49:41,646 --> 00:49:43,871
[cheers and applause]
1271
00:49:43,889 --> 00:49:45,982
♪ ♪
1272
00:49:46,133 --> 00:49:50,486
- How do you feel?
1273
00:49:50,637 --> 00:49:53,489
- It was all literally a blur.
- A big blur, a huge blur.
1274
00:49:53,716 --> 00:49:56,308
- It's just crazy that
we--we had no idea
1275
00:49:56,327 --> 00:49:58,411
What was ahead of us then.
- I know.
1276
00:50:01,724 --> 00:50:02,314
- I mean,
to be able to see that,
1277
00:50:02,333 --> 00:50:06,393
That's a lot to process.
1278
00:50:06,412 --> 00:50:07,411
♪ ♪
1279
00:50:07,563 --> 00:50:09,988
Being able to see that
was tough.
1280
00:50:10,008 --> 00:50:12,657
It made me think about
how hopeful I was
1281
00:50:12,677 --> 00:50:15,827
And how in the moment
I was at that time,
1282
00:50:15,921 --> 00:50:20,908
And I came into it expecting
to meet my forever partner.
1283
00:50:20,926 --> 00:50:22,351
But it's making me
realize that,
1284
00:50:22,578 --> 00:50:25,579
While I was hopeful that these
feelings were gonna come,
1285
00:50:25,672 --> 00:50:28,599
But now we're a month in,
and--and
1286
00:50:28,693 --> 00:50:32,344
They're lesser now
than they were the first night.
1287
00:50:32,363 --> 00:50:33,921
Some days, it feels like
it's been a week.
1288
00:50:33,939 --> 00:50:35,531
Some days, it feels like
it's been a year.
1289
00:50:35,682 --> 00:50:37,591
- Yeah, stop it.
1290
00:50:37,610 --> 00:50:39,201
- I feel like maybe
I'm to blame for that,
1291
00:50:39,428 --> 00:50:42,429
And maybe I need
to put more effort in,
1292
00:50:42,448 --> 00:50:44,932
I need to reciprocate.
1293
00:50:44,950 --> 00:50:48,769
I'm not feeling like I did
when I was at the altar.
1294
00:50:48,862 --> 00:50:50,362
That's what makes this
so hard because
1295
00:50:50,381 --> 00:50:52,548
I don't want
to hurt her feelings.
1296
00:50:52,699 --> 00:50:56,277
I'm excited to, like, see
how the rest of it plays out.
1297
00:50:56,295 --> 00:50:57,961
- Yeah.
1298
00:50:58,114 --> 00:50:58,387
♪ ♪
1299
00:51:04,378 --> 00:51:07,288
- ♪ you're exactly what I like
and I want you in my head ♪
1300
00:51:07,306 --> 00:51:09,398
- Ooh, what do we have here?
1301
00:51:09,625 --> 00:51:12,217
- [chuckles]
1302
00:51:12,236 --> 00:51:15,129
- Somebody's trying
to be romantic
1303
00:51:15,147 --> 00:51:17,573
And burn down the place
at the same time.
1304
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:20,150
- Firefighter,
I just remembered.
1305
00:51:20,303 --> 00:51:22,152
My husband did, like,
a really sweet
1306
00:51:22,305 --> 00:51:23,637
Anniversary gift this morning,
1307
00:51:23,656 --> 00:51:27,991
And I decided
to do the same for him.
1308
00:51:28,144 --> 00:51:29,810
- Mm.
1309
00:51:29,903 --> 00:51:31,979
- Look at the chocolate-covered
strawberries.
1310
00:51:31,997 --> 00:51:32,996
I think my husband
was completely surprised.
1311
00:51:33,091 --> 00:51:35,816
I do not think
he had a single clue
1312
00:51:35,835 --> 00:51:37,742
That I was gonna do
anything for him today.
1313
00:51:37,762 --> 00:51:40,003
So I think my husband
is very touched
1314
00:51:40,098 --> 00:51:43,841
That I would do something this
sweet and romantic for him.
1315
00:51:43,935 --> 00:51:45,175
It's, like, a little blanket?
1316
00:51:45,269 --> 00:51:46,994
- No.
1317
00:51:47,012 --> 00:51:50,606
- You got us t-shirts?
That's so sweet.
1318
00:51:50,757 --> 00:51:53,000
"I am everything."
1319
00:51:53,018 --> 00:51:55,427
"I have everything I need."
1320
00:51:55,521 --> 00:51:58,856
That is so cute.
- You like that?
1321
00:51:59,008 --> 00:52:00,432
- Can I wear it now?
- You can if you want.
1322
00:52:00,526 --> 00:52:03,435
- This gift is like, yes.
1323
00:52:03,454 --> 00:52:05,028
It's so sweet.
1324
00:52:05,181 --> 00:52:06,938
Come, come.
- All right.
1325
00:52:06,958 --> 00:52:09,608
- Experts' gift.
- Experts' gift.
1326
00:52:09,627 --> 00:52:12,202
[soft music]
1327
00:52:12,296 --> 00:52:14,630
Ooh.
- It's our vows.
1328
00:52:14,781 --> 00:52:18,025
- "from this day forward,
I promise to be worth it.
1329
00:52:18,118 --> 00:52:19,193
"worth the time,
worth the trip,
1330
00:52:19,286 --> 00:52:22,045
Worth the energy,
worth the embarrassment."
1331
00:52:22,198 --> 00:52:23,973
You will always come first,
1332
00:52:24,124 --> 00:52:26,291
And of course, if you don't,
for whatever reason...
1333
00:52:26,310 --> 00:52:28,886
"I will buy you food
and some shoes."
1334
00:52:29,038 --> 00:52:31,814
- Today we become a family.
1335
00:52:31,965 --> 00:52:35,376
I promise to dedicate myself
to your happiness.
1336
00:52:35,394 --> 00:52:36,801
"I promise to listen
and learn from you
1337
00:52:36,821 --> 00:52:37,561
As we build a life together."
1338
00:52:37,713 --> 00:52:41,473
- You promise to listen.
1339
00:52:41,492 --> 00:52:43,233
You listen.
- You did, too, say that.
1340
00:52:43,386 --> 00:52:45,736
- You don't actively listen,
but you listen.
1341
00:52:45,888 --> 00:52:49,556
- But I listen.
- Yeah.
1342
00:52:49,575 --> 00:52:51,392
- I really appreciate
our vows,
1343
00:52:51,410 --> 00:52:54,152
Because they mean
something different now,
1344
00:52:54,172 --> 00:52:54,819
Because they have
meaning behind them.
1345
00:52:54,839 --> 00:52:57,231
Now we have actions
1346
00:52:57,249 --> 00:53:00,992
That are following
our vows together.
1347
00:53:01,012 --> 00:53:03,237
He continues to be consistent
in all the things
1348
00:53:03,255 --> 00:53:05,255
That I've seen in him
since day one.
1349
00:53:05,349 --> 00:53:07,016
And now we've been
living together for four weeks,
1350
00:53:07,243 --> 00:53:08,091
And we're so happy.
1351
00:53:08,186 --> 00:53:11,503
- I humbly give you
all that I am,
1352
00:53:11,597 --> 00:53:13,838
And I pray that you
take me as I am
1353
00:53:13,858 --> 00:53:15,840
And will teach me to love you.
1354
00:53:15,860 --> 00:53:17,768
I will be your willing pupil,
1355
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:18,602
Your devoted husband
1356
00:53:18,754 --> 00:53:21,530
As long as we shall live.
1357
00:53:21,682 --> 00:53:24,366
- I remember that part,
"I will be your wiling pupil."
1358
00:53:24,593 --> 00:53:27,611
- Out of everything,
you would remember that.
1359
00:53:27,763 --> 00:53:29,872
I'm not surprised
that's what you would get.
1360
00:53:30,099 --> 00:53:33,858
And I am learning, day by day.
[laughter]
1361
00:53:33,878 --> 00:53:37,271
- I figured I would be happy
and we would get along,
1362
00:53:37,289 --> 00:53:39,882
But I didn't think
it was gonna be this good.
1363
00:53:40,033 --> 00:53:42,125
Both: Ooh!
1364
00:53:42,278 --> 00:53:44,536
- That's some good pictures.
1365
00:53:44,555 --> 00:53:46,964
- These are some
really good pictures.
1366
00:53:47,116 --> 00:53:49,450
- I decided to get
married at first sight
1367
00:53:49,468 --> 00:53:51,785
So I can find
a wife like myrla,
1368
00:53:51,804 --> 00:53:53,804
Someone I can
1369
00:53:53,956 --> 00:53:55,956
Not only enjoy life with
1370
00:53:56,049 --> 00:53:59,142
But grow
a meaningful life with,
1371
00:53:59,295 --> 00:54:01,311
And there's no animosity,
1372
00:54:01,464 --> 00:54:02,646
There's no judging.
1373
00:54:02,798 --> 00:54:05,632
- Oh, I don't like that one.
1374
00:54:05,726 --> 00:54:07,968
I look like I have
a double chin.
1375
00:54:07,987 --> 00:54:08,893
- You look like you have
a double chin?
1376
00:54:08,988 --> 00:54:11,305
- I don't have one.
- Oh, okay.
1377
00:54:11,398 --> 00:54:12,823
- I look like I have one.
- Oh, you look like--
1378
00:54:12,975 --> 00:54:13,916
- It's all about the angle.
1379
00:54:14,143 --> 00:54:15,642
Yes.
- Oh, okay.
1380
00:54:15,736 --> 00:54:16,735
I can be myself,
she can be herself.
1381
00:54:16,754 --> 00:54:20,071
And it just reassures me that
1382
00:54:20,091 --> 00:54:21,906
My wife is the right
person for me.
1383
00:54:21,926 --> 00:54:23,834
- It feels good
to just go back and see.
1384
00:54:23,986 --> 00:54:25,002
Like, it's so cool.
1385
00:54:25,154 --> 00:54:26,003
I just think, because we were
1386
00:54:26,097 --> 00:54:27,988
In such different places then.
1387
00:54:28,007 --> 00:54:31,267
I know my family was, like,
beyond happy to, like--
1388
00:54:31,418 --> 00:54:32,493
- You're done.
1389
00:54:32,511 --> 00:54:35,920
"she's finally
somebody else's problem."
1390
00:54:35,940 --> 00:54:38,089
- My good ol' patient...
- "good luck."
1391
00:54:38,109 --> 00:54:40,000
- Willing pupil of a husband.
1392
00:54:40,093 --> 00:54:42,019
- They're like,
"he doesn't know
1393
00:54:42,113 --> 00:54:44,004
What he's getting into."
1394
00:54:44,023 --> 00:54:47,950
[laughter]
1395
00:54:48,101 --> 00:54:50,286
"poor soul."
- "he's in for a treat."
1396
00:54:50,437 --> 00:54:54,348
Look at you now, cheesin'.
1397
00:54:54,366 --> 00:54:56,867
♪ ♪
1398
00:54:56,961 --> 00:55:01,797
- So I got wifey one more gift
1399
00:55:01,948 --> 00:55:06,468
For our anniversary.
1400
00:55:06,695 --> 00:55:09,287
- Bye, bye.
1401
00:55:09,307 --> 00:55:11,807
Get that camera out of my face.
1402
00:55:12,034 --> 00:55:14,977
- This is the pooper scooper
she wanted.
1403
00:55:15,204 --> 00:55:18,221
It's small, sleek,
and very functionable.
1404
00:55:18,316 --> 00:55:21,224
- That is not small or sleek.
I'm gonna look like
1405
00:55:21,319 --> 00:55:23,043
An idiot walking out
on the street with that.
1406
00:55:23,062 --> 00:55:24,320
- You see what I have
to deal with?
1407
00:55:24,471 --> 00:55:27,472
But yeah, this is her gift.
So yeah.
1408
00:55:27,491 --> 00:55:28,899
- Thank you so much.
- Yeah, whatever.
1409
00:55:29,051 --> 00:55:30,308
- You're sweet.
- This is fake.
1410
00:55:30,328 --> 00:55:32,903
This ain't real,
this ain't real.
1411
00:55:32,997 --> 00:55:38,241
- ♪ on fire, hold me up ♪
1412
00:55:38,336 --> 00:55:39,668
- Good evening, welcome.
1413
00:55:39,820 --> 00:55:41,745
- How you doing?
- Good evening.
1414
00:55:41,839 --> 00:55:43,580
- Since our honeymoon got
ruined because I had covid,
1415
00:55:43,732 --> 00:55:45,248
I decided to take michaela
on a staycation.
1416
00:55:45,343 --> 00:55:47,492
I'm ready to try.
1417
00:55:47,586 --> 00:55:50,161
- Let's see what
you got planned, yeah.
1418
00:55:50,181 --> 00:55:51,329
- You know,
why not switch it up?
1419
00:55:51,349 --> 00:55:53,090
Maybe it could help us
maybe rekindle
1420
00:55:53,242 --> 00:55:56,259
What we had initially.
1421
00:55:56,354 --> 00:55:59,262
- Oh, look, it's a z
and a heart and an m!
1422
00:55:59,357 --> 00:56:01,415
- See, just like our wedding
and honeymoon.
1423
00:56:01,508 --> 00:56:04,418
- Ooh! You just kind of
hocked me on the bed.
1424
00:56:04,436 --> 00:56:05,602
- Oh, yeah, I did
throw you on the bed.
1425
00:56:05,696 --> 00:56:08,364
- [laughs]
- dang.
1426
00:56:08,591 --> 00:56:10,424
- And I just landed.
1427
00:56:10,442 --> 00:56:11,425
♪ ♪
1428
00:56:11,518 --> 00:56:14,444
[laughter]
1429
00:56:14,597 --> 00:56:16,113
♪ ♪
1430
00:56:16,265 --> 00:56:17,280
- This feels comfortable.
1431
00:56:17,375 --> 00:56:19,208
Want me to throw you
on the bed right now?
1432
00:56:19,359 --> 00:56:20,951
Wanna do it?
- Yeah, let's do it.
1433
00:56:21,045 --> 00:56:22,102
- Wait, with the dress on?
- Yeah, yeah, let's go.
1434
00:56:22,195 --> 00:56:24,213
- You sure?
- Come on, let's do it.
1435
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:26,048
I mean, don't, like,
throw me, throw me.
1436
00:56:26,199 --> 00:56:28,108
- You lighter now.
- Like--what you mean I'm--
1437
00:56:28,201 --> 00:56:31,128
Oh, 'cause I don't have--
[laughs]
1438
00:56:31,222 --> 00:56:33,555
- 'cause you had that
heavy-ass dress on last time.
1439
00:56:33,707 --> 00:56:35,949
It was pretty, though.
- Thank you.
1440
00:56:35,968 --> 00:56:37,451
[cork pops]
1441
00:56:37,544 --> 00:56:40,062
- All right, you do the toast.
- Okay.
1442
00:56:40,289 --> 00:56:43,140
When we first got started,
when we first met
1443
00:56:43,234 --> 00:56:44,566
One month ago,
1444
00:56:44,718 --> 00:56:47,051
I was just elated.
1445
00:56:47,071 --> 00:56:49,571
I was so excited,
I was glowing.
1446
00:56:49,798 --> 00:56:51,632
Nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you too.
1447
00:56:51,725 --> 00:56:52,983
- You're gorgeous.
- Oh, thank you.
1448
00:56:53,135 --> 00:56:56,245
You're gorgeous.
- [laughs]
1449
00:56:56,396 --> 00:56:59,063
- Your willingness to be,
like, open and patient
1450
00:56:59,158 --> 00:57:00,732
And to still be present
1451
00:57:00,751 --> 00:57:03,644
Even after everything
that has happened
1452
00:57:03,662 --> 00:57:04,736
And after everything I said,
1453
00:57:04,755 --> 00:57:06,588
'cause I know the stuff I say
1454
00:57:06,740 --> 00:57:07,998
Is not the best.
1455
00:57:08,150 --> 00:57:10,317
So, like, cheers to you because
1456
00:57:10,335 --> 00:57:12,410
If it weren't for you,
we would not be here.
1457
00:57:12,430 --> 00:57:14,430
Like, seriously.
1458
00:57:14,657 --> 00:57:15,246
I want you to understand,
like, how much,
1459
00:57:15,266 --> 00:57:16,765
Like, you mean to me.
1460
00:57:16,917 --> 00:57:20,251
Cheers.
- Cheers.
1461
00:57:20,271 --> 00:57:22,679
To hear that
he is appreciative
1462
00:57:22,831 --> 00:57:24,088
Makes me feel good.
1463
00:57:24,108 --> 00:57:26,275
I don't know
what being in love is.
1464
00:57:26,502 --> 00:57:28,518
I've never been in
that kind of place.
1465
00:57:28,612 --> 00:57:31,688
But there is a love there
to where I want to--
1466
00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:33,690
To try.
1467
00:57:33,784 --> 00:57:35,676
I want to keep trying.
1468
00:57:35,694 --> 00:57:37,678
♪ ♪
1469
00:57:37,696 --> 00:57:38,845
- I know you like bracelets,
you told me, yeah.
1470
00:57:38,864 --> 00:57:41,457
- [laughs]
1471
00:57:41,684 --> 00:57:44,776
- And then--
and then it says "2-19-21,"
1472
00:57:44,870 --> 00:57:46,945
So, you know, so the day--
1473
00:57:46,964 --> 00:57:49,280
Essentially the day, like,
our lives changed forever.
1474
00:57:49,300 --> 00:57:51,708
So--so yeah.
- My heart, be still.
1475
00:57:51,860 --> 00:57:53,043
- Yeah.
1476
00:57:53,195 --> 00:57:54,528
- Seeing where we started
1477
00:57:54,546 --> 00:57:57,380
And then now where we are,
it's kind of like, wow,
1478
00:57:57,475 --> 00:57:59,475
I know that we both
really want that.
1479
00:57:59,626 --> 00:58:01,051
- Look at you.
1480
00:58:01,203 --> 00:58:02,886
Oh, shoot. [laughs]
1481
00:58:02,980 --> 00:58:04,871
- I do love him.
1482
00:58:04,965 --> 00:58:06,130
It's an uncomfortable thing
for me to say,
1483
00:58:06,150 --> 00:58:09,376
But I've never done
anything like this.
1484
00:58:09,394 --> 00:58:12,546
But being that I am learning
and I'm growing
1485
00:58:12,564 --> 00:58:15,382
And I'm like,
"what is this that I'm doing?"
1486
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:18,401
I'm like, there has to be
something there,
1487
00:58:18,496 --> 00:58:20,220
And that's love.
1488
00:58:20,313 --> 00:58:22,814
I can't believe
this is happening to me.
1489
00:58:22,833 --> 00:58:23,999
- Want to go lay down?
- It's late.
1490
00:58:24,226 --> 00:58:25,726
- Okay, let's do it.
1491
00:58:25,744 --> 00:58:28,987
♪ ♪
1492
00:58:29,081 --> 00:58:30,897
This looks good on you.
1493
00:58:30,916 --> 00:58:33,416
- Thank you.
My husband got it for me.
1494
00:58:33,569 --> 00:58:35,660
- He's very--he has some taste.
1495
00:58:35,679 --> 00:58:37,754
- He does. He got me this too.
1496
00:58:37,906 --> 00:58:39,515
- That one too?
- Uh-huh.
1497
00:58:39,666 --> 00:58:41,183
- What?
- I know!
1498
00:58:41,334 --> 00:58:42,851
- Okay, dang.
1499
00:58:43,078 --> 00:58:44,002
- They seem to be coming
every 30 days too.
1500
00:58:44,096 --> 00:58:46,913
- Mm, let's not get used to it.
1501
00:58:47,007 --> 00:58:51,693
- [laughs]
- you know, month-iversary.
1502
00:58:51,845 --> 00:58:57,032
- ♪ if I'm gonna dream
then I'm gonna dream big ♪
1503
00:58:57,183 --> 00:58:58,925
- [laughs]
1504
00:58:58,944 --> 00:59:01,686
- ♪ it's my time
and I'm taking my shot ♪
1505
00:59:01,705 --> 00:59:02,946
♪ I'ma fight,
give it all that I got ♪
1506
00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:07,042
- [chuckles] okay, okay.
1507
00:59:07,269 --> 00:59:11,121
- [laughs]
they just keep [bleep] coming.
1508
00:59:11,273 --> 00:59:12,363
- It was a really good day.
1509
00:59:12,457 --> 00:59:14,608
- Yeah, it was amazing.
1510
00:59:14,701 --> 00:59:16,943
- I don't know about you,
but I am pooped.
1511
00:59:16,962 --> 00:59:17,961
So you want to go to sleep?
1512
00:59:18,113 --> 00:59:21,706
- I do.
- Okay.
1513
00:59:21,800 --> 00:59:23,041
Turn the lights off?
- Yeah.
1514
00:59:23,060 --> 00:59:27,229
- ♪ all you need
is love to take you ♪
1515
00:59:30,901 --> 00:59:35,720
- ♪ dream big, dream big ♪
1516
00:59:35,739 --> 00:59:40,576
- We got hungry, and so we
are now at a restaurant
1517
00:59:40,803 --> 00:59:43,303
That's open till 4:00 a.M.,
getting us some cajun food.
1518
00:59:43,322 --> 00:59:44,395
But our month-iversary
went awesome,
1519
00:59:44,415 --> 00:59:46,656
And this is how
we're wrapping it up.
1520
00:59:46,750 --> 00:59:48,232
- I agree. It was great.
1521
00:59:48,252 --> 00:59:50,002
A very, very,
very, very great day.
1522
00:59:56,427 --> 00:59:57,926
[upbeat music]
1523
00:59:58,078 --> 00:59:59,820
- ♪ yeah, oh ♪
1524
00:59:59,838 --> 01:00:00,654
- All right, you have to
stay there, okay?
1525
01:00:00,747 --> 01:00:02,823
- Stay here?
- Yeah, yeah.
1526
01:00:02,841 --> 01:00:05,416
Stay right there.
I'm gonna come get you.
1527
01:00:05,436 --> 01:00:07,752
- Jose has something
really special
1528
01:00:07,771 --> 01:00:09,846
For our one-month
anniversary planned,
1529
01:00:09,998 --> 01:00:11,940
And I have no clue what it is.
1530
01:00:12,092 --> 01:00:13,758
- No, we gotta go
this way, honey.
1531
01:00:13,852 --> 01:00:14,851
Okay, hold on,
let me get you. Wait.
1532
01:00:14,945 --> 01:00:17,354
- I'm blindfolded!
- I know!
1533
01:00:17,506 --> 01:00:18,596
That's the element of suspense.
1534
01:00:18,690 --> 01:00:21,858
All right, come on.
- It smells like grass.
1535
01:00:22,010 --> 01:00:23,952
- It does! It is grass, okay.
1536
01:00:24,104 --> 01:00:26,363
- A picnic?
- Close.
1537
01:00:26,457 --> 01:00:28,457
- In the hot-ass sun.
1538
01:00:28,608 --> 01:00:31,943
- It could be a picnic.
We're gonna change pavements.
1539
01:00:31,962 --> 01:00:33,444
- It's, like, sand?
- Maybe.
1540
01:00:33,464 --> 01:00:36,114
- Like, volleyball?
- Close.
1541
01:00:36,208 --> 01:00:37,524
- At the park?
- Close.
1542
01:00:37,542 --> 01:00:40,952
Okay, we're gonna change--
change more pavement.
1543
01:00:40,971 --> 01:00:42,304
- 'cause it was--oh,
back to grass.
1544
01:00:42,455 --> 01:00:44,881
- Uh-huh.
- Hmm.
1545
01:00:45,033 --> 01:00:46,549
- No--no cheating.
You can't cheat.
1546
01:00:46,702 --> 01:00:48,051
- What? I'm just feeling it
with my foot.
1547
01:00:48,203 --> 01:00:49,369
- Okay.
1548
01:00:49,388 --> 01:00:51,980
Whenever you want
to take your blindfold off,
1549
01:00:52,207 --> 01:00:54,040
You can take it off.
- I can take it off now?
1550
01:00:54,059 --> 01:00:56,726
Oh! Ah!
1551
01:00:56,820 --> 01:00:59,488
Aww. Oh, this is cool.
1552
01:00:59,639 --> 01:01:00,972
Oh, my god!
1553
01:01:01,066 --> 01:01:02,807
- So I wanted to bring you here
1554
01:01:02,826 --> 01:01:03,492
Because I know that, you know,
1555
01:01:03,643 --> 01:01:05,886
Early on, we talked about
1556
01:01:05,904 --> 01:01:07,904
Your passion for baseball
and the astros.
1557
01:01:08,056 --> 01:01:09,572
- Yeah.
1558
01:01:09,725 --> 01:01:10,999
I went to the world series
all by myself.
1559
01:01:11,226 --> 01:01:13,243
- What?
- Mm-hmm.
1560
01:01:13,337 --> 01:01:15,061
- You could've called me.
We could've went together.
1561
01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:16,487
- I know.
- And probably--
1562
01:01:16,507 --> 01:01:17,898
I could've proposed
on the jumbotron.
1563
01:01:17,991 --> 01:01:18,840
- That's my--
you know that's my dream?
1564
01:01:18,992 --> 01:01:20,842
- I'll do it
for our anniversary.
1565
01:01:21,069 --> 01:01:21,751
- Oh, my god!
- It would be nice
1566
01:01:21,845 --> 01:01:24,179
To have a nice little outing.
1567
01:01:24,330 --> 01:01:25,997
I set something up--
- and throw it, and pitch?
1568
01:01:26,016 --> 01:01:26,589
- Yes, of course.
- I see that.
1569
01:01:26,684 --> 01:01:29,743
That looks so cool.
1570
01:01:29,761 --> 01:01:31,912
I would have guessed
jose'd be creative
1571
01:01:32,005 --> 01:01:34,247
With coming up with
the one-month anniversary.
1572
01:01:34,266 --> 01:01:35,673
- I got this for you,
I hope it fits.
1573
01:01:35,693 --> 01:01:37,434
- Oh, and a glove.
- It's a little baby one.
1574
01:01:37,586 --> 01:01:39,085
- Look at how little it is.
1575
01:01:39,104 --> 01:01:41,012
But to really take
one of my interests,
1576
01:01:41,106 --> 01:01:42,605
Something I've always
wanted to do,
1577
01:01:42,758 --> 01:01:44,182
And actually make it
1578
01:01:44,201 --> 01:01:45,367
Into our one-month
anniversary
1579
01:01:45,518 --> 01:01:48,870
Just really shows
how thoughtful he is,
1580
01:01:49,022 --> 01:01:50,764
How romantic he is.
1581
01:01:50,782 --> 01:01:51,765
You want to check me out?
- I love it.
1582
01:01:51,858 --> 01:01:53,691
I love it.
1583
01:01:53,785 --> 01:01:55,359
- And just really caring
about how I feel
1584
01:01:55,379 --> 01:01:57,713
On our one-month anniversary.
1585
01:01:57,864 --> 01:01:59,773
Let's play.
1586
01:01:59,791 --> 01:02:01,883
- Good.
1587
01:02:02,035 --> 01:02:05,036
Oh, jeez.
- [laughs]
1588
01:02:05,130 --> 01:02:06,722
- It's all right.
1589
01:02:06,873 --> 01:02:08,114
Little high, there you go.
1590
01:02:08,133 --> 01:02:09,540
It's all right.
1591
01:02:09,634 --> 01:02:10,225
- I have a fear of balls.
1592
01:02:10,452 --> 01:02:13,061
In my face.
1593
01:02:13,213 --> 01:02:16,957
- Shut--my god, shut up.
1594
01:02:16,975 --> 01:02:18,216
- Don't be afraid. Of balls.
1595
01:02:18,235 --> 01:02:19,459
- That's right,
don't be afraid.
1596
01:02:19,552 --> 01:02:20,551
Step into it.
- In your face.
1597
01:02:20,571 --> 01:02:21,811
- That's right.
1598
01:02:21,905 --> 01:02:23,572
How's the glove feel?
1599
01:02:23,723 --> 01:02:26,649
- Perfect.
1600
01:02:26,802 --> 01:02:27,909
There we go.
- There you go, good catch.
1601
01:02:28,136 --> 01:02:29,302
Good catch.
1602
01:02:29,321 --> 01:02:32,080
♪ ♪
1603
01:02:32,232 --> 01:02:34,324
- It's crazy to think
that a couple days ago,
1604
01:02:34,476 --> 01:02:36,251
We were going through
some major issues.
1605
01:02:36,478 --> 01:02:39,570
I was having doubts
whether I loved my husband,
1606
01:02:39,664 --> 01:02:41,498
Even if I wanted
to be with my husband.
1607
01:02:41,650 --> 01:02:42,758
- I can say you look a lot--
1608
01:02:42,985 --> 01:02:44,501
A hell of a lot cuter
like that.
1609
01:02:44,653 --> 01:02:46,002
- Like this?
- Uh-huh.
1610
01:02:46,096 --> 01:02:46,820
You look sexy.
1611
01:02:46,838 --> 01:02:48,338
[chuckles] I love it.
1612
01:02:48,490 --> 01:02:51,174
- And now to be here
1613
01:02:51,326 --> 01:02:52,842
On our one-month anniversary
1614
01:02:52,995 --> 01:02:55,103
And just playing
and having a great time,
1615
01:02:55,330 --> 01:02:56,846
Fully in love
with my husband again,
1616
01:02:56,940 --> 01:02:58,681
It's--it feels great.
1617
01:02:58,776 --> 01:02:59,757
This is awesome.
1618
01:02:59,851 --> 01:03:04,428
- So did you ever
expect to be here?
1619
01:03:04,523 --> 01:03:06,689
- On a baseball field? No.
1620
01:03:06,784 --> 01:03:07,765
- Well, that too.
1621
01:03:07,859 --> 01:03:09,767
But as far as--
- in our marriage?
1622
01:03:09,861 --> 01:03:12,012
- Yes, through one month.
1623
01:03:12,105 --> 01:03:14,122
- No, I didn't know
what to expect in a month.
1624
01:03:14,349 --> 01:03:16,774
But I can say
I'm very happy where I am.
1625
01:03:16,794 --> 01:03:19,853
I mean, there are
definitely topics we still
1626
01:03:19,871 --> 01:03:23,965
Need to talk about
and discuss, but--
1627
01:03:24,117 --> 01:03:28,044
- But speaking of which,
1628
01:03:28,196 --> 01:03:28,804
The whole joint accounts, like,
1629
01:03:29,031 --> 01:03:31,047
Separate accounts and stuff,
1630
01:03:31,199 --> 01:03:32,974
Like, my one strategic plan
1631
01:03:33,201 --> 01:03:35,368
Of having one joint account
is not the best way?
1632
01:03:35,461 --> 01:03:38,629
Okay, cool, we can have
separate accounts. But--
1633
01:03:38,723 --> 01:03:40,540
- That's what I said--
kept suggesting.
1634
01:03:40,559 --> 01:03:41,724
- Oh, yeah.
1635
01:03:41,877 --> 01:03:43,652
Holy crap, like, I really don't
1636
01:03:43,879 --> 01:03:46,655
Listen as well as I thought.
- [chuckles]
1637
01:03:46,806 --> 01:03:50,216
- I need to pay more attention
to what you tell me.
1638
01:03:50,310 --> 01:03:51,551
And I'm open to it, so--
- yeah.
1639
01:03:51,644 --> 01:03:53,328
I mean, I would
appreciate that.
1640
01:03:53,555 --> 01:03:56,331
I would feel
more comfortable with that.
1641
01:03:56,482 --> 01:04:00,060
You know, like,
I know you're the finance guy,
1642
01:04:00,153 --> 01:04:02,579
But it's all
about compromising.
1643
01:04:02,673 --> 01:04:04,898
It took some crazy fight
1644
01:04:04,916 --> 01:04:07,250
To help bring
all those issues out,
1645
01:04:07,402 --> 01:04:09,344
And even with the bad, like,
1646
01:04:09,571 --> 01:04:11,329
I'm really glad it happened.
It's weird.
1647
01:04:11,423 --> 01:04:13,348
Like, no one would believe me,
but it brought out some issues
1648
01:04:13,575 --> 01:04:16,910
That I was having
in the beginning.
1649
01:04:16,928 --> 01:04:18,745
A lot of it with, like,
1650
01:04:18,838 --> 01:04:21,839
The decisions I felt like
I'm making in order to--
1651
01:04:21,859 --> 01:04:23,191
What, at the time,
1652
01:04:23,418 --> 01:04:25,602
Was to fit into your mold.
- Yep.
1653
01:04:25,754 --> 01:04:26,769
- And of course,
like, I wanted to.
1654
01:04:26,864 --> 01:04:28,421
Like, it was a marriage.
1655
01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:30,031
I knew I was gonna
have to make sacrifices.
1656
01:04:30,258 --> 01:04:31,849
But they all just
piled up on me.
1657
01:04:31,869 --> 01:04:33,443
- Right.
- And it freaked me out.
1658
01:04:33,537 --> 01:04:37,038
But now we stand here,
1659
01:04:37,190 --> 01:04:40,191
Me being able to talk about it
without any hesitation,
1660
01:04:40,210 --> 01:04:42,693
With me really,
really telling you
1661
01:04:42,713 --> 01:04:44,938
Exactly how I feel
about everything.
1662
01:04:44,956 --> 01:04:47,941
You know, I don't feel
any kind of pressure anymore.
1663
01:04:48,034 --> 01:04:50,460
I feel like you are listening
and you are open.
1664
01:04:50,554 --> 01:04:53,947
I feel great.
- I do too.
1665
01:04:53,965 --> 01:04:56,057
- Like, I feel great about
where we are.
1666
01:04:56,284 --> 01:04:57,617
Happy first month, you know.
- Happy first month.
1667
01:04:57,636 --> 01:04:59,953
Having rachel here with me,
I mean,
1668
01:05:00,046 --> 01:05:00,896
This is something
that I've always wanted.
1669
01:05:01,047 --> 01:05:03,398
I've always wanted
that teammate,
1670
01:05:03,549 --> 01:05:05,734
That person that would
want to do things with me.
1671
01:05:05,885 --> 01:05:07,460
It's surreal to think
that we went through
1672
01:05:07,479 --> 01:05:08,962
Everything that we
went through, and today
1673
01:05:08,980 --> 01:05:10,388
We're still
bonding and connecting
1674
01:05:10,407 --> 01:05:11,814
As we were
the day of our wedding.
1675
01:05:11,967 --> 01:05:12,908
And so, you know, for me,
1676
01:05:13,059 --> 01:05:15,969
This is exactly
what I wanted in a wife.
1677
01:05:15,987 --> 01:05:18,246
This is exactly what I wanted.
That's rachel.
1678
01:05:18,398 --> 01:05:20,490
- I can easily say where our
next month is gonna take us.
1679
01:05:20,642 --> 01:05:23,159
- Europe?
1680
01:05:23,253 --> 01:05:27,997
- No, like, saying yes,
that we want to...
1681
01:05:28,150 --> 01:05:30,091
Keep going with this.
And now really, really--
1682
01:05:30,243 --> 01:05:31,818
- Oh, I don't know about that.
I'm just kidding.
1683
01:05:31,836 --> 01:05:33,820
- Stop!
1684
01:05:33,913 --> 01:05:35,847
- ♪ have I felt
like this before ♪
1685
01:05:40,679 --> 01:05:42,328
[upbeat music]
1686
01:05:42,347 --> 01:05:44,013
- [singing indistinctly]
1687
01:05:44,166 --> 01:05:46,924
[knock at door]
- come in.
1688
01:05:47,018 --> 01:05:49,444
- Hello.
- Hey.
1689
01:05:49,671 --> 01:05:53,173
- Hello, hi.
1690
01:05:53,191 --> 01:05:54,524
- Hey, you guys did new art.
- We did this together.
1691
01:05:54,676 --> 01:05:55,951
- Aww.
1692
01:05:56,102 --> 01:05:58,269
- Kim, hey.
- Hey, how are you?
1693
01:05:58,288 --> 01:05:59,195
Don't laugh.
I know you're laughing at me.
1694
01:05:59,289 --> 01:06:01,623
It was a skiing accident,
you know.
1695
01:06:01,850 --> 01:06:03,199
- I came over to visit
my friend kim.
1696
01:06:03,351 --> 01:06:06,519
She recently tore her acl.
- How are you?
1697
01:06:06,612 --> 01:06:08,129
- Brought us some food.
- Oh, perfect.
1698
01:06:08,281 --> 01:06:09,355
- She probably
knows me the best
1699
01:06:09,449 --> 01:06:10,131
Out of anybody on this planet.
1700
01:06:10,358 --> 01:06:12,616
Her advice is always exactly
1701
01:06:12,636 --> 01:06:14,469
What I need to hear
at the right time.
1702
01:06:14,620 --> 01:06:17,864
And I just kind of need to
lean on her advice right now.
1703
01:06:17,882 --> 01:06:18,974
- You've been married
for, like, a month now, right?
1704
01:06:19,201 --> 01:06:20,976
- Yeah.
- How are things going, though,
1705
01:06:21,203 --> 01:06:24,370
With, like, just a connection?
Are you guys
1706
01:06:24,464 --> 01:06:26,222
Getting to know
each other a lot better?
1707
01:06:26,316 --> 01:06:29,392
I know you were concerned
about just chemistry.
1708
01:06:29,544 --> 01:06:31,377
- It feels like a lot of times,
1709
01:06:31,471 --> 01:06:33,229
When we're doing an activity,
1710
01:06:33,323 --> 01:06:35,490
She thinks about the end goal
of the activity
1711
01:06:35,717 --> 01:06:38,735
And treats it as a--
like a mission.
1712
01:06:38,887 --> 01:06:40,887
For example, we did painting,
1713
01:06:40,905 --> 01:06:42,831
And the--she's just focused on
painting the perfect picture.
1714
01:06:43,058 --> 01:06:46,334
Like, she even corrected
my painting
1715
01:06:46,561 --> 01:06:47,727
Because it didn't
line up perfectly.
1716
01:06:47,746 --> 01:06:49,412
I'm just gonna wing it.
1717
01:06:49,564 --> 01:06:52,081
- No, don't do that. Oh, no.
1718
01:06:52,234 --> 01:06:53,991
- It has been winged.
- Yours is too high.
1719
01:06:54,011 --> 01:06:57,253
- I was okay
with the imperfections.
1720
01:06:57,405 --> 01:06:59,014
I was more interested in...
1721
01:06:59,241 --> 01:07:00,907
- Just that interaction
together.
1722
01:07:00,925 --> 01:07:02,925
- The process, yeah.
Like, doing things together
1723
01:07:03,078 --> 01:07:05,428
And having the little playful
moments while we're painting.
1724
01:07:05,580 --> 01:07:09,524
But there isn't--
there wasn't any of that.
1725
01:07:09,675 --> 01:07:15,605
There's no flirtation.
There's no--I don't know.
1726
01:07:15,757 --> 01:07:18,441
- I think if johnny keeps
focusing on the negative things
1727
01:07:18,535 --> 01:07:20,684
About his marriage,
1728
01:07:20,704 --> 01:07:21,870
That is gonna cause him
to retreat
1729
01:07:22,021 --> 01:07:26,266
And not put 100%
into the marriage.
1730
01:07:26,284 --> 01:07:28,043
So what are some things
that you can do to help her,
1731
01:07:28,194 --> 01:07:31,287
You know, maybe have those--
- I think--I think it's to--
1732
01:07:31,439 --> 01:07:33,456
I need to initiate
more romance.
1733
01:07:33,608 --> 01:07:34,624
- That might help.
- But, like, part of me
1734
01:07:34,718 --> 01:07:37,535
Doesn't even--it feels like
when I have to--
1735
01:07:37,554 --> 01:07:38,386
When I'm forced
to do something,
1736
01:07:38,538 --> 01:07:40,371
It makes me want to do it less.
1737
01:07:40,390 --> 01:07:41,890
And actually,
it takes me out of it.
1738
01:07:42,117 --> 01:07:43,391
- Have y'all talked
to each other about this?
1739
01:07:43,618 --> 01:07:44,784
Have you talked
to her about this?
1740
01:07:44,803 --> 01:07:46,636
- This is just something
I thought about today.
1741
01:07:46,730 --> 01:07:47,896
♪ ♪
1742
01:07:48,123 --> 01:07:51,066
- How's it been
since the wedding?
1743
01:07:51,293 --> 01:07:54,143
- It's been pretty good,
it's been pretty good.
1744
01:07:54,237 --> 01:07:56,738
- Yeah?
1745
01:07:56,965 --> 01:07:58,798
- One of the things
that's a little odd
1746
01:07:58,817 --> 01:08:03,303
About the relationship is,
he doesn't initiate
1747
01:08:03,396 --> 01:08:05,413
Any kind of physical intimacy.
1748
01:08:05,640 --> 01:08:07,731
Even, like, cuddling,
he doesn't cuddle.
1749
01:08:07,826 --> 01:08:09,309
Like, I have to initiate.
1750
01:08:09,402 --> 01:08:10,401
I'm big spoon
all the darn time.
1751
01:08:10,420 --> 01:08:14,422
I've never been
little spoon, ever.
1752
01:08:14,574 --> 01:08:16,999
- As girls,
we tend to, like--
1753
01:08:17,094 --> 01:08:20,002
Like, when we get mad
and stuff like that,
1754
01:08:20,155 --> 01:08:24,657
We tend to not talk about it,
or maybe we wanted the guys
1755
01:08:24,676 --> 01:08:27,994
To sort of, like,
read our mind or something.
1756
01:08:28,012 --> 01:08:29,996
But sometimes
they can't do that, so, like,
1757
01:08:30,014 --> 01:08:33,424
You need to talk
about your differences.
1758
01:08:33,443 --> 01:08:34,776
Start from there.
1759
01:08:34,927 --> 01:08:36,594
Communication
is very important.
1760
01:08:36,613 --> 01:08:39,172
And then maybe
it will help that...
1761
01:08:39,190 --> 01:08:41,098
- Mm-hmm.
- To grow...
1762
01:08:41,192 --> 01:08:43,284
- Yeah.
- To get better.
1763
01:08:43,436 --> 01:08:44,193
- Okay.
- Mm-hmm.
1764
01:08:44,346 --> 01:08:46,604
- The problem for me is, like,
1765
01:08:46,623 --> 01:08:48,606
I'm not usually
a touchy-feely person.
1766
01:08:48,625 --> 01:08:50,274
I don't,
when in a relationship,
1767
01:08:50,293 --> 01:08:52,201
Don't like pda.
1768
01:08:52,295 --> 01:08:53,944
- He loves it.
1769
01:08:53,964 --> 01:08:56,873
And he tells me
that he's mostly
1770
01:08:56,967 --> 01:08:58,024
Drawn to women
that are more affectionate,
1771
01:08:58,117 --> 01:09:01,210
That initiate physical touch,
1772
01:09:01,304 --> 01:09:05,531
Because then it's easy for him
to respond and reciprocate.
1773
01:09:05,550 --> 01:09:05,974
- I'm trying to figure out
what she can give me
1774
01:09:06,125 --> 01:09:08,868
To make me--
1775
01:09:08,887 --> 01:09:10,628
- Okay, tell me a little bit
more about her.
1776
01:09:10,647 --> 01:09:12,796
Then maybe, you know,
we can try to brainstorm ideas
1777
01:09:12,891 --> 01:09:14,223
Of things to do, you know?
1778
01:09:14,376 --> 01:09:15,725
- She says she likes cooking.
1779
01:09:15,877 --> 01:09:18,044
- For me, I'm acts of service
1780
01:09:18,062 --> 01:09:21,230
And gifts.
1781
01:09:21,383 --> 01:09:23,216
And I combine those
by baking and cooking.
1782
01:09:23,309 --> 01:09:26,886
It's my way of showing this is
how I want to take care of you.
1783
01:09:26,905 --> 01:09:29,146
- How often do you cook?
Do you cook every day?
1784
01:09:29,166 --> 01:09:30,406
- Oh, man, no.
1785
01:09:30,558 --> 01:09:31,815
I wish I had more time to cook.
1786
01:09:31,835 --> 01:09:34,410
- We've cooked one time,
and we haven't cooked since.
1787
01:09:34,562 --> 01:09:36,913
- Maybe you make time for it.
1788
01:09:37,065 --> 01:09:39,399
Or, like, you know, you make
a little friendly move, like--
1789
01:09:39,492 --> 01:09:42,660
- What would that even entail?
1790
01:09:42,754 --> 01:09:44,904
- You could hold her hand.
1791
01:09:44,997 --> 01:09:47,665
Get a little closer to her.
What she--
1792
01:09:47,684 --> 01:09:48,850
It sounds like
what she's waiting for
1793
01:09:49,077 --> 01:09:49,909
Is for you to make
the move, right?
1794
01:09:50,002 --> 01:09:51,502
So just make the move.
- She is.
1795
01:09:51,596 --> 01:09:53,521
- You ain't shy. Make the move.
1796
01:09:53,673 --> 01:09:55,023
'cause maybe she needs that
reassurance from you.
1797
01:09:55,174 --> 01:09:58,084
You know?
- Yeah.
1798
01:09:58,102 --> 01:09:59,752
- 'cause you don't want to
walk away from this
1799
01:09:59,771 --> 01:10:01,604
And say, "I didn't try.
1800
01:10:01,698 --> 01:10:03,198
I didn't do everything
that I could," right?
1801
01:10:03,425 --> 01:10:04,866
- Mm-hmm.
- You want to make sure
1802
01:10:05,017 --> 01:10:06,759
That you're always doing
everything that you can
1803
01:10:06,778 --> 01:10:08,277
So that when you
make that final decision,
1804
01:10:08,430 --> 01:10:09,929
It's the right one, you know?
1805
01:10:09,948 --> 01:10:11,597
- It's just a challenge.
And if you can
1806
01:10:11,691 --> 01:10:13,783
Pass this challenge or test--
1807
01:10:13,877 --> 01:10:17,453
- Hopefully it'll be
smooth sailing after?
1808
01:10:17,605 --> 01:10:19,697
- I believe in that.
1809
01:10:19,791 --> 01:10:21,457
I can see that.
1810
01:10:21,609 --> 01:10:22,942
But it's gonna take some work,
1811
01:10:23,035 --> 01:10:26,054
And you can't just expect,
like, magic.
1812
01:10:26,281 --> 01:10:28,781
It's gonna take some time.
- Yeah.
1813
01:10:28,874 --> 01:10:31,375
- ♪ won't give up,
won't give up ♪
1814
01:10:31,394 --> 01:10:33,895
♪ won't give up
to find a better way ♪
1815
01:10:39,569 --> 01:10:40,977
- ♪ life is a hard ride,
yes, but that's okay ♪
1816
01:10:41,071 --> 01:10:42,144
[indistinct chatter]
1817
01:10:42,297 --> 01:10:45,406
- Thank you, brother.
1818
01:10:45,558 --> 01:10:48,726
- Our couples are more than
halfway to decision day,
1819
01:10:48,820 --> 01:10:52,062
But they're not all
on the same marital journey.
1820
01:10:52,156 --> 01:10:52,914
- [speaking indistinctly]
1821
01:10:53,065 --> 01:10:55,733
- Yes.
- I feel good. See?
1822
01:10:55,827 --> 01:10:57,310
- So it's important for them
to meet up with one another
1823
01:10:57,328 --> 01:11:00,830
To not only discuss
how far they've come
1824
01:11:00,982 --> 01:11:03,907
But also to offer
support and advice
1825
01:11:04,002 --> 01:11:05,409
To those who need it.
1826
01:11:05,428 --> 01:11:07,487
Because in just four weeks,
1827
01:11:07,580 --> 01:11:08,763
Our couples are going
to have to decide
1828
01:11:08,914 --> 01:11:12,008
Whether they want to stay
married or get a divorce.
1829
01:11:12,160 --> 01:11:13,676
- Who made this happen?
1830
01:11:13,828 --> 01:11:16,271
- ♪ can never be replaced ♪
1831
01:11:16,422 --> 01:11:18,514
[laughter]
1832
01:11:18,666 --> 01:11:20,275
- I got you a flower, actually.
- Wait, where did you get that?
1833
01:11:20,426 --> 01:11:23,336
It looks eerily familiar.
- Aww.
1834
01:11:23,429 --> 01:11:27,431
- Aww, johnny.
All: Aww.
1835
01:11:27,450 --> 01:11:29,342
- Aww, it must be nice
to have a flower.
1836
01:11:29,360 --> 01:11:31,844
- I can get you a flower.
1837
01:11:31,863 --> 01:11:33,437
If you want,
I can get you a flower.
1838
01:11:33,456 --> 01:11:34,605
- So let me ask
y'all something.
1839
01:11:34,624 --> 01:11:35,681
With the theme that's going on
1840
01:11:35,775 --> 01:11:39,460
And everybody feeling
all lovey-dovey,
1841
01:11:39,687 --> 01:11:42,855
Do y'all feel like y'all
are falling in love
1842
01:11:42,874 --> 01:11:45,449
Or falling in like
with your partner?
1843
01:11:45,468 --> 01:11:47,043
- I'll start.
1844
01:11:47,195 --> 01:11:49,529
So I think I could
definitely see myself
1845
01:11:49,547 --> 01:11:51,047
Getting to, like,
me loving michaela,
1846
01:11:51,199 --> 01:11:52,807
Just because of
how she is as a person.
1847
01:11:53,034 --> 01:11:54,550
She is literally
the most thoughtful person
1848
01:11:54,702 --> 01:11:55,959
I've ever met in my life, yeah.
1849
01:11:55,979 --> 01:11:58,037
I would literally do anything
for michaela, so...
1850
01:11:58,130 --> 01:11:59,705
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- Wow.
1851
01:11:59,799 --> 01:12:01,649
- I already love zack,
and I've told him that.
1852
01:12:01,876 --> 01:12:03,059
- Oh, my god.
[glasses clinking]
1853
01:12:03,153 --> 01:12:04,819
All: Aww.
- Oh, man.
1854
01:12:04,970 --> 01:12:07,213
[laughter]
1855
01:12:07,231 --> 01:12:08,972
- That's--yeah, that big.
That's huge.
1856
01:12:08,992 --> 01:12:11,050
- We've gone
through our conflicts.
1857
01:12:11,069 --> 01:12:12,976
But now we're past it,
and it's, like,
1858
01:12:13,071 --> 01:12:16,055
I do think that
they gave me my man,
1859
01:12:16,148 --> 01:12:18,891
Like, the man for me,
and mine--
1860
01:12:18,910 --> 01:12:21,911
To fit my personality
and I to fit his.
1861
01:12:22,005 --> 01:12:23,821
And I love that about you.
- Cheers to that.
1862
01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:25,989
- All right, all right.
- Good, good.
1863
01:12:26,084 --> 01:12:30,511
- Seeing michaela and zack in
a different note is awesome.
1864
01:12:30,663 --> 01:12:33,514
When we saw them salsa dancing,
it was--it was awkward.
1865
01:12:33,666 --> 01:12:34,349
But, you know, seeing
them today be like,
1866
01:12:34,500 --> 01:12:37,167
"you know what, I love you,"
1867
01:12:37,187 --> 01:12:39,002
You know, that's great to see.
1868
01:12:39,022 --> 01:12:40,746
- It feels refreshing to see
that they worked it out
1869
01:12:40,840 --> 01:12:42,582
And they talked about it,
and so I'm very happy
1870
01:12:42,600 --> 01:12:43,691
That they're in this place
right now.
1871
01:12:43,843 --> 01:12:44,600
- Jose and rachel?
1872
01:12:44,752 --> 01:12:46,268
- So right after the barbecue
1873
01:12:46,363 --> 01:12:49,680
Is when I decided to tell jose
1874
01:12:49,699 --> 01:12:50,865
That I loved him.
1875
01:12:51,016 --> 01:12:52,425
That night, we were just,
like, on the couch.
1876
01:12:52,443 --> 01:12:55,277
You know, we had such
a great time that day
1877
01:12:55,372 --> 01:12:58,114
And just felt like, "oh,
we hosted our first party,"
1878
01:12:58,208 --> 01:12:59,690
And it just felt comfortable,
1879
01:12:59,709 --> 01:13:01,542
And it was the right time
to say it.
1880
01:13:01,769 --> 01:13:04,879
And then, like,
fast-forward a week in,
1881
01:13:05,106 --> 01:13:07,957
Y'all know what happened.
We hit a low, you know?
1882
01:13:08,051 --> 01:13:08,791
And I thought it was gonna be
1883
01:13:08,885 --> 01:13:10,367
Really hard to get over it,
1884
01:13:10,387 --> 01:13:13,388
But immediately,
I fell back in love.
1885
01:13:13,539 --> 01:13:17,967
Like, I felt immediately safe
and comfortable and secure,
1886
01:13:18,119 --> 01:13:18,968
And I'm glad that happened.
1887
01:13:19,120 --> 01:13:20,561
And we're in
a really good spot.
1888
01:13:20,713 --> 01:13:22,121
- I was watching
him the whole time
1889
01:13:22,140 --> 01:13:23,547
You were talking,
and he was literally--
1890
01:13:23,641 --> 01:13:24,882
Like, what you just said,
1891
01:13:24,901 --> 01:13:26,959
I can tell how much
it means to him.
1892
01:13:26,978 --> 01:13:28,144
- Yeah, I can definitely say,
like,
1893
01:13:28,296 --> 01:13:29,462
We're totally in love,
1894
01:13:29,555 --> 01:13:30,312
And we're good.
[glass clinking]
1895
01:13:30,407 --> 01:13:33,149
- To your clink, yes, we will.
1896
01:13:33,301 --> 01:13:35,968
- Aww.
[laughter]
1897
01:13:35,987 --> 01:13:38,579
♪ ♪
1898
01:13:38,731 --> 01:13:42,250
- I'm judging, maybe,
other couples and comparing.
1899
01:13:42,477 --> 01:13:43,809
Which I don't want to compare
to any other couples,
1900
01:13:43,828 --> 01:13:46,737
But it's kind of a natural
thing to kind of compare
1901
01:13:46,756 --> 01:13:47,905
Our relationship with theirs,
1902
01:13:47,924 --> 01:13:51,575
And I probably should
stop doing that.
1903
01:13:51,594 --> 01:13:53,169
But it's tough.
1904
01:13:53,321 --> 01:13:55,746
I want to be in love
and have that family
1905
01:13:55,765 --> 01:13:59,842
That I've been wanting
for a long time now.
1906
01:13:59,994 --> 01:14:02,011
- Um, johnny, bao? Ryan?
1907
01:14:02,163 --> 01:14:03,771
Anybody want to take it?
Yes? No?
1908
01:14:03,923 --> 01:14:05,356
- I mean, I'll go.
1909
01:14:08,686 --> 01:14:11,762
I'm, uh--
1910
01:14:11,781 --> 01:14:15,024
I care a lot about this girl.
I really do.
1911
01:14:15,176 --> 01:14:17,693
I respect the hell out of her,
and I think the world of her,
1912
01:14:17,845 --> 01:14:20,513
And I genuinely care about her,
and I truly--I mean that.
1913
01:14:20,531 --> 01:14:21,939
- I know.
1914
01:14:22,033 --> 01:14:23,106
- But yeah, we've--we've--
1915
01:14:23,201 --> 01:14:25,126
We've had a lot of
ups and downs as well,
1916
01:14:25,277 --> 01:14:27,687
And we're still kind of
in limbo with everything.
1917
01:14:27,705 --> 01:14:33,192
And yeah, I feel like
I've been holding back a bit,
1918
01:14:33,285 --> 01:14:39,048
Because I don't want to--
I'm trying to be
1919
01:14:39,142 --> 01:14:40,624
Cognizant of, like,
her emotions and her feelings,
1920
01:14:40,718 --> 01:14:45,480
And I don't want to answer
whichever way that I'm feeling.
1921
01:14:45,707 --> 01:14:48,891
And that's--that's--
that's where I'm at.
1922
01:14:49,043 --> 01:14:52,394
- It's a struggle, you know?
1923
01:14:52,547 --> 01:14:55,047
I mean, all of you guys know
1924
01:14:55,140 --> 01:14:56,882
I'm kind of going through
a hard time right now.
1925
01:14:56,901 --> 01:14:58,551
- Mm-hmm.
1926
01:14:58,569 --> 01:15:00,995
- And, um,
1927
01:15:01,146 --> 01:15:03,998
I did want to take
the opportunity to say that,
1928
01:15:04,149 --> 01:15:06,984
Like, all of you guys
reaching out about my dog,
1929
01:15:07,003 --> 01:15:08,485
I just want to say
thank you for that.
1930
01:15:08,505 --> 01:15:11,230
So yeah, there's just a lot--
1931
01:15:11,323 --> 01:15:12,732
A lot going on
for me right now.
1932
01:15:12,750 --> 01:15:15,401
But I care about him a lot.
1933
01:15:15,494 --> 01:15:19,329
And I'm still hopeful too.
I am.
1934
01:15:19,349 --> 01:15:23,834
I mean, I see a lot of reasons
why we were matched.
1935
01:15:23,928 --> 01:15:25,427
I see a lot of good there.
1936
01:15:25,580 --> 01:15:27,429
My heart is gonna--
gonna always be open.
1937
01:15:27,582 --> 01:15:30,916
It's gonna always be open
1938
01:15:30,935 --> 01:15:34,177
For the hope that maybe
that will be enough.
1939
01:15:34,272 --> 01:15:36,255
- Yeah, best you can do.
- Absolutely.
1940
01:15:36,348 --> 01:15:37,773
- Exactly.
- I agree with that.
1941
01:15:37,867 --> 01:15:39,425
- You know, I feel for brett,
1942
01:15:39,443 --> 01:15:40,926
Because I know
she doesn't feel like
1943
01:15:40,945 --> 01:15:43,186
She's getting reciprocated
1944
01:15:43,206 --> 01:15:45,765
Everything that she's feeling,
it's tough.
1945
01:15:45,783 --> 01:15:48,267
I think it's just
gonna be a process with them,
1946
01:15:48,286 --> 01:15:49,935
But marriage is tough,
1947
01:15:49,954 --> 01:15:52,029
So they gotta take
one day at a time.
1948
01:15:52,048 --> 01:15:54,123
I'm 100% in like,
1949
01:15:54,217 --> 01:15:55,866
And I'm actually
1950
01:15:55,960 --> 01:15:58,277
Falling in love with her.
1951
01:15:58,296 --> 01:16:01,630
To say I'm in love,
I wouldn't say that,
1952
01:16:01,724 --> 01:16:04,225
But I'm definitely
falling in love with her.
1953
01:16:04,452 --> 01:16:07,469
Everything about her
is special, is unique.
1954
01:16:07,564 --> 01:16:11,232
She's a very unique princess.
1955
01:16:11,459 --> 01:16:13,142
- [chuckles]
1956
01:16:13,294 --> 01:16:15,144
- You know, my younger self
1957
01:16:15,238 --> 01:16:17,296
Probably wouldn't have
put up with my wife.
1958
01:16:17,389 --> 01:16:18,981
I would probably
have been like,
1959
01:16:19,133 --> 01:16:20,800
"you're way too much, I'm out."
1960
01:16:20,818 --> 01:16:23,986
I know what I want,
and what's more important
1961
01:16:24,138 --> 01:16:26,396
Is, you know,
trying to grow with somebody,
1962
01:16:26,490 --> 01:16:28,307
And because we want
the same thing,
1963
01:16:28,400 --> 01:16:29,975
It makes it
a little bit easier.
1964
01:16:29,994 --> 01:16:32,086
So I know--that's how
I know I'm in the road
1965
01:16:32,313 --> 01:16:33,921
Of falling in love
with her, so--
1966
01:16:34,073 --> 01:16:37,407
- "on the road,"
this dude's in love.
1967
01:16:37,427 --> 01:16:39,927
- Facts, [bleep].
- "on the road"?
1968
01:16:40,154 --> 01:16:44,323
- I made the choice
to love my husband.
1969
01:16:44,342 --> 01:16:46,100
So much good in his heart.
1970
01:16:46,251 --> 01:16:48,160
I think everything that
I imagined a husband would be,
1971
01:16:48,253 --> 01:16:50,830
He's just, like--like,
an extra step above that,
1972
01:16:50,848 --> 01:16:52,255
And I never thought
that would be possible.
1973
01:16:52,350 --> 01:16:55,943
And because of that, I feel
so special every single day.
1974
01:16:56,170 --> 01:16:57,686
I feel like a little princess
when I'm with him.
1975
01:16:57,839 --> 01:16:59,338
- My dude.
- Yeah.
1976
01:16:59,357 --> 01:17:00,689
- And so for that reason,
I think it's--
1977
01:17:00,842 --> 01:17:02,174
You know, it's a process.
1978
01:17:02,193 --> 01:17:04,009
Like, you make choices
to love someone,
1979
01:17:04,028 --> 01:17:07,363
And I think, over time,
we'll grow that love.
1980
01:17:07,515 --> 01:17:09,439
- Oh, yeah.
- Nice.
1981
01:17:09,459 --> 01:17:12,776
- Bao, you're up.
1982
01:17:12,870 --> 01:17:17,131
- I feel like I'm still
growing in like with johnny.
1983
01:17:17,358 --> 01:17:20,301
And I feel like
I really have been trying.
1984
01:17:20,452 --> 01:17:22,136
I'm giving it my all.
1985
01:17:22,363 --> 01:17:24,530
I meal prep, I cook,
I do gourmet meals, I bake,
1986
01:17:24,548 --> 01:17:26,790
I do all these things
in the house.
1987
01:17:26,809 --> 01:17:28,884
- Bao, stop
what you are saying.
1988
01:17:29,036 --> 01:17:30,627
That is absolutely not true.
1989
01:17:30,721 --> 01:17:33,314
You've cooked one time.
1990
01:17:33,541 --> 01:17:35,966
She plays the victim card
too much, I think.
1991
01:17:35,985 --> 01:17:37,318
- I'm learning
that johnny needs me
1992
01:17:37,469 --> 01:17:38,802
To initiate more--
1993
01:17:38,821 --> 01:17:43,565
Essentially romance my husband.
1994
01:17:43,660 --> 01:17:45,159
And something
1995
01:17:45,386 --> 01:17:46,719
I don't previously
have experience doing.
1996
01:17:46,737 --> 01:17:49,889
I've mostly benefited
in past relationships
1997
01:17:49,907 --> 01:17:52,057
Where I'm being courted.
And so this is really
1998
01:17:52,076 --> 01:17:55,986
A big step outside
of my comfort zone
1999
01:17:56,080 --> 01:17:58,822
To initiate a lot more.
2000
01:17:58,841 --> 01:18:02,343
But because I said
I am 100% committed,
2001
01:18:02,494 --> 01:18:04,178
I'm willing to try.
2002
01:18:04,329 --> 01:18:06,422
So I did promise him that.
2003
01:18:06,574 --> 01:18:07,664
- It's always her
that's trying too hard
2004
01:18:07,758 --> 01:18:10,000
And I'm not
trying hard enough.
2005
01:18:10,094 --> 01:18:11,911
It's always her changing.
2006
01:18:11,929 --> 01:18:14,079
- Johnny?
2007
01:18:14,098 --> 01:18:16,840
- I'm not ready.
I'm not ready for this.
2008
01:18:16,859 --> 01:18:19,009
There is a lot I want to say,
2009
01:18:19,103 --> 01:18:20,528
But I want to say it first
2010
01:18:20,755 --> 01:18:21,862
To my wife before I--
- oh, I feel that.
2011
01:18:22,014 --> 01:18:22,938
- Okay.
- Okay.
2012
01:18:23,032 --> 01:18:26,016
[tense music]
2013
01:18:26,035 --> 01:18:26,942
- You're all right, man.
- It's okay.
2014
01:18:27,036 --> 01:18:28,852
- Those flowers
aren't all right,
2015
01:18:28,871 --> 01:18:30,095
But you're gonna be all right.
2016
01:18:30,114 --> 01:18:31,455
♪ ♪
2017
01:18:36,287 --> 01:18:38,270
[tense music]
2018
01:18:38,289 --> 01:18:39,547
♪ ♪
2019
01:18:39,774 --> 01:18:40,622
- Johnny?
2020
01:18:40,775 --> 01:18:42,291
- There is a lot
I want to say,
2021
01:18:42,443 --> 01:18:45,368
But I want to say it first
to my wife before I--
2022
01:18:45,388 --> 01:18:46,295
- Oh, I feel that.
- Okay.
2023
01:18:46,389 --> 01:18:47,796
- I feel that.
2024
01:18:47,949 --> 01:18:52,893
♪ ♪
2025
01:18:53,045 --> 01:18:54,470
- You're all right, man.
- It's okay.
2026
01:18:54,622 --> 01:18:57,231
♪ ♪
2027
01:18:57,458 --> 01:18:59,475
- Those flowers
aren't all right,
2028
01:18:59,569 --> 01:19:00,642
But you're gonna be all right.
2029
01:19:00,795 --> 01:19:02,236
♪ ♪
2030
01:19:05,132 --> 01:19:07,800
- How do we order more wine?
- [chuckles]
2031
01:19:07,818 --> 01:19:09,651
- You been chugging that, zack?
- He wasn't.
2032
01:19:09,746 --> 01:19:10,803
He just started drinking
when they poured it.
2033
01:19:10,821 --> 01:19:13,489
- Oh, okay.
- Cling, cling, cling.
2034
01:19:13,583 --> 01:19:14,656
- You want to toast?
- Wait, where you going? Sit.
2035
01:19:14,751 --> 01:19:16,733
- Oh, I was gonna go
run to the restroom.
2036
01:19:16,753 --> 01:19:17,901
- Oh, you can.
2037
01:19:17,920 --> 01:19:19,812
- That's, like,
the third time, johnny.
2038
01:19:19,905 --> 01:19:21,088
- What's up with
your bladder, bro?
2039
01:19:21,240 --> 01:19:22,664
- Just drinking
a lot right now.
2040
01:19:22,817 --> 01:19:23,924
I'll be right back.
I'll be right back.
2041
01:19:24,151 --> 01:19:24,925
I'll be right back.
2042
01:19:25,152 --> 01:19:29,838
♪ ♪
2043
01:19:29,991 --> 01:19:32,007
- I'm a kind of person
that I look at the positives,
2044
01:19:32,159 --> 01:19:33,434
And I focus on that.
2045
01:19:33,585 --> 01:19:37,271
I'm willing to do whatever
it takes to make this work.
2046
01:19:37,498 --> 01:19:43,593
♪ ♪
2047
01:19:43,687 --> 01:19:45,279
- Every time I get in a flow,
bao hits me with a curveball.
2048
01:19:45,506 --> 01:19:47,506
It's always me
doing something wrong
2049
01:19:47,525 --> 01:19:50,618
And me that's being--expecting
too much, being too critical.
2050
01:19:50,769 --> 01:19:53,012
I feel like I'm caught
in her web of stuff.
2051
01:19:53,105 --> 01:19:54,513
I feel like
I'm being manipulated.
2052
01:19:54,532 --> 01:19:57,182
I feel like
I'm being played sometimes.
2053
01:19:57,276 --> 01:19:58,793
- You know, what are y'all
really experiencing?
2054
01:19:58,944 --> 01:19:59,794
What are y'all--
2055
01:20:01,446 --> 01:20:05,040
- I feel like bao and I
are experiencing
2056
01:20:05,134 --> 01:20:08,694
Two entirely different things.
- Oh, okay.
2057
01:20:08,712 --> 01:20:10,879
- I feel like bao
is not the person--
2058
01:20:10,973 --> 01:20:14,199
Like, in this group setting,
that's not her in private.
2059
01:20:14,218 --> 01:20:15,810
♪ ♪
2060
01:20:15,961 --> 01:20:17,369
I'm married to somebody
that is completely...
2061
01:20:17,388 --> 01:20:21,816
♪ ♪
2062
01:20:22,043 --> 01:20:23,150
She said in there...
- But--yeah.
2063
01:20:23,377 --> 01:20:26,636
- That she cooks
gourmet meals for us.
2064
01:20:26,656 --> 01:20:28,489
- That--no?
- No!
2065
01:20:28,640 --> 01:20:29,898
She hasn't!
That's a [bleep] lie!
2066
01:20:30,051 --> 01:20:33,052
♪ ♪
2067
01:20:33,070 --> 01:20:35,404
- I ate your caesar salad.
- It's all good.
2068
01:20:35,556 --> 01:20:37,239
Hi.
- Oh, good.
2069
01:20:37,333 --> 01:20:38,740
I keep telling you,
like, I like to cook,
2070
01:20:38,835 --> 01:20:40,650
Or I like to bake.
2071
01:20:40,670 --> 01:20:43,062
I want to show you, hey,
like these are things I can do.
2072
01:20:43,080 --> 01:20:45,230
♪ ♪
2073
01:20:45,249 --> 01:20:47,416
- I worked from home today,
and after I got done with work,
2074
01:20:47,510 --> 01:20:52,162
Bao came over, and I'm making
her some bachelor food.
2075
01:20:52,256 --> 01:20:55,074
First is frozen meatballs.
2076
01:20:55,092 --> 01:20:58,835
This is the magic ingredient.
It's jar of pesto sauce.
2077
01:20:58,929 --> 01:21:01,504
What do you think? What do
you think of your first bite?
2078
01:21:01,599 --> 01:21:02,915
- Most interesting.
2079
01:21:03,008 --> 01:21:05,842
- And the whole time,
like, I'm there next to her,
2080
01:21:05,936 --> 01:21:07,862
I'm just like,
"that's not true at all.
2081
01:21:08,013 --> 01:21:10,272
"like, why are you saying that?
That's not--that's not honest.
2082
01:21:10,366 --> 01:21:12,257
Why are you saying that?"
and I realize it's because
2083
01:21:12,351 --> 01:21:13,534
She's trying
to make herself look good.
2084
01:21:13,761 --> 01:21:16,612
♪ ♪
2085
01:21:16,706 --> 01:21:18,931
It's so, like, controlling,
manipulative, calculating.
2086
01:21:19,024 --> 01:21:20,599
Like, I don't want that
in a wife.
2087
01:21:20,618 --> 01:21:21,375
♪ ♪
2088
01:21:21,526 --> 01:21:23,936
- Man, it's okay.
You just--
2089
01:21:24,029 --> 01:21:25,195
- But she keeps
giving herself credit
2090
01:21:25,289 --> 01:21:26,714
For stuff that she hasn't done.
2091
01:21:26,865 --> 01:21:28,215
Like, stuff that she says
she's gonna do
2092
01:21:28,367 --> 01:21:29,942
But she hasn't
followed through on.
2093
01:21:29,960 --> 01:21:30,626
Like, I want a wife
that follows through
2094
01:21:30,778 --> 01:21:33,036
On what she commits to.
2095
01:21:33,055 --> 01:21:35,797
- I think--I think, honestly,
2096
01:21:35,950 --> 01:21:37,966
You just have to have
that tough conversation.
2097
01:21:38,119 --> 01:21:40,377
♪ ♪
2098
01:21:40,471 --> 01:21:42,563
I want y'all to be successful.
I want y'all to succeed.
2099
01:21:42,790 --> 01:21:44,547
I want y'all to be
that successful couple.
2100
01:21:44,567 --> 01:21:45,307
- I wanted it so bad.
2101
01:21:45,459 --> 01:21:52,464
♪ ♪
2102
01:21:52,557 --> 01:21:57,202
- Square peg, round hole.
And...
2103
01:22:00,141 --> 01:22:01,490
- It's just something
that's gonna be, like,
2104
01:22:01,584 --> 01:22:02,658
An uphill battle for me.
2105
01:22:02,810 --> 01:22:05,477
♪ ♪
2106
01:22:05,570 --> 01:22:07,904
- Are y'all leaving?
- Yeah.
2107
01:22:07,924 --> 01:22:09,590
- It was good seeing you.
- Bye.
2108
01:22:09,817 --> 01:22:12,334
- Sweetheart,
it was great seeing you.
2109
01:22:12,486 --> 01:22:15,412
- I think I just accept that
she just needs to be viewed
2110
01:22:15,431 --> 01:22:18,657
In a positive light.
She needs people to like her.
2111
01:22:18,676 --> 01:22:21,160
- ♪ I know
it's hard to breathe ♪
2112
01:22:21,178 --> 01:22:23,270
♪ with the pressure there ♪
2113
01:22:23,422 --> 01:22:27,608
- And she will do
whatever it takes to get that.
2114
01:22:27,759 --> 01:22:29,184
- ♪ I can't breathe ♪
2115
01:22:29,336 --> 01:22:32,171
♪ ♪
2116
01:22:32,189 --> 01:22:33,839
♪ I can't breathe ♪
2117
01:22:33,857 --> 01:22:36,024
- [sighs]
2118
01:22:36,118 --> 01:22:38,268
Bao, bao, bao.
2119
01:22:38,362 --> 01:22:39,511
What am I gonna do with bao?
2120
01:22:39,530 --> 01:22:42,289
- ♪ it's your step ♪
2121
01:22:42,516 --> 01:22:44,366
♪ you're just waiting
on pressure ♪
2122
01:22:44,518 --> 01:22:47,686
♪ ♪
2123
01:22:47,705 --> 01:22:50,613
♪ I can't breathe ♪
2124
01:22:50,708 --> 01:22:51,873
[dramatic music]
2125
01:22:51,968 --> 01:22:56,044
- Next time
on "married at first sight"...
2126
01:22:56,138 --> 01:22:57,454
With only four weeks left
until decision day,
2127
01:22:57,548 --> 01:22:59,956
Our couples get to look at
2128
01:23:00,050 --> 01:23:02,367
What the future holds
for them.
2129
01:23:02,386 --> 01:23:03,885
- Even though
we married at first sight,
2130
01:23:03,980 --> 01:23:06,221
I'm still loving you
all day and all night,
2131
01:23:06,373 --> 01:23:08,965
Always and
for the rest of my life.
2132
01:23:09,059 --> 01:23:11,560
- Did y'all, uh, consummate?
2133
01:23:11,654 --> 01:23:13,212
[laughter]
2134
01:23:13,230 --> 01:23:14,137
- Things are just different,
2135
01:23:14,231 --> 01:23:17,049
And everybody has
a breaking point.
2136
01:23:17,142 --> 01:23:18,550
- You could not
criticize me one bit,
2137
01:23:18,643 --> 01:23:21,144
'cause I would be,
like, out the door.
2138
01:23:21,163 --> 01:23:22,904
- Wow.
2139
01:23:23,057 --> 01:23:25,073
- When have you tried
in this relationship?
2140
01:23:25,226 --> 01:23:27,334
- I am consistently
thinking about you.
2141
01:23:27,486 --> 01:23:29,503
- You are not consistent
at all.
2142
01:23:29,654 --> 01:23:31,747
- I can tell when someone's
attention is divided.
2143
01:23:31,841 --> 01:23:32,898
- Is there someone else?
2144
01:23:32,916 --> 01:23:38,679
♪ ♪