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- Whew!
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Taking a huge leap of faith.
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I'm finally going
to marry a stranger.
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- Oh, [bleep].
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I've been dreaming about
this moment for my whole life.
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- Please stand.
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Two and a half weeks ago,
ten singles
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Took a bold leap of faith
in order to find love.
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- Hi.
[laughs]
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- They married
as complete strangers.
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- You may kiss your bride.
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[cheers and applause]
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- I took a leap of faith,
and I can't wait
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To grow together
with this person.
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[upbeat music]
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- Congratulations again.
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- Last time, our couples
took another step closer
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As they spent time with
their friends and families.
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- Cheers!
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- Brett and ryan.
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- But I definitely
want to know more
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Regarding, like, his feelings
for me specifically.
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- Yeah.
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- There's a place
that we need to get past
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From, like,
friend to relationship...
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- Yeah.
- Marriage-wise.
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- ♪ here's where I'm spinning
out my innermost thoughts ♪
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- Bao and johnny.
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- I feel like,
for the first time,
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We're kind of looking out
into the horizon,
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And it seems
like it's no waves.
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You know, it looks smooth.
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- ♪ can I get you beside me
to be with me now? ♪
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- Rachel and jose.
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- In a perfect world,
you bring two individuals
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That have
two accounts together.
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You're now married.
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You have one account.
You know, that's it.
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- He's kind of making me feel
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A little nervous
about our future.
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[dramatic music]
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- Myrla and gil.
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- She does tend to move
at a slow pace,
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But I think
what she's feeling is,
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"why would I engage in this
if I don't believe
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That it won't last
past the eight weeks?"
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♪ ♪
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- Michaela and zack.
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- For me, personally,
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It's bigger
than a communication thing.
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And then what took me
to the next level
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And over the top was
you canceling the housewarming.
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- I'm not trying to cry now.
I didn't know that.
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- I feel horrible right now.
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And I can't fake it.
I'm sorry.
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♪ ♪
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- And tonight,
just five and a half weeks
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Until decision day...
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- ♪ is it for real? ♪
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- Thanks for helping me.
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- Our couples explore
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Exactly what it will take
to fall in love.
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- Aww.
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- We are definitely falling
a little bit closer in love
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As each and every
single day progresses.
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- I could not have built
this man better myself.
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- Aww, that's so sweet.
- He's so phenomenal.
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- I am lucky you're my husband.
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- We're both here
to find love forever.
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- I'm starting to feel
some warm and tingly feelings.
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What's gonna
make you fall in love?
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- [sighs]
I really don't know.
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♪ ♪
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- You act like--
as if I come out,
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And I come in,
and I just snapped at you.
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But what doesn't happen
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Is zack doesn't say
what the cause was.
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That's a problem.
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- Did it ever cross your mind,
"he probably wouldn't like it"?
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I know this girl
ain't for real right now.
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- I went out girls night.
Alcohol was involved.
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Ran into someone
that I knew from my past.
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- Okay.
- And it happened.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- This is
"married at first sight."
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- ♪ there's a world awaiting ♪
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♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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[upbeat music]
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- ♪ step into my world ♪
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♪ ♪
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♪ and you'll see ♪
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♪ it may look easy,
but it's not for the weak ♪
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♪ ♪
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- Good morning
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From the cuero-feria household.
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- Feria-cuero.
- Whatever.
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- Our five couples have
been married to each other
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For nearly two weeks
and are now fully immersed
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In married life,
for better or worse.
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- Ooh, no!
- And we're cooking breakfast.
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- What did I make
that's very important?
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- She made us coffee.
- Coffee.
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- Between work,
family, and friends,
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Juggling it all
with a brand new spouse
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Can be a lot to get used to.
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- Here you go, dear.
- Thank you.
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- Here, take those blueberries
over there too.
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- For most couples,
love is already the glue
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That holds them together
as they navigate
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Through the challenges
that might come their way.
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But for our couples,
the process of growing
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And nurturing
that critical connection
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Begins now.
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♪ ♪
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- Keep talking
about on honeymoon,
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How we were gonna play,
like, connect 4
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And play bags or cornhole.
We never got to.
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- I didn't want to do that
to you, but...
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- Well, I didn't want to do
that to you either, but...
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- You're about to learn.
- Now's the time.
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I definitely am feeling
some warm and tingly feelings.
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There's a romantic
dream element
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To the situation for me.
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Welcome to game day.
The game tournament.
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I am excited
for our intimacy to progress.
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Ryan and I have figured out
pretty much from day one
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That we're both,
like, competitive freaks,
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So this could be the catalyst
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To bringing us
closer together.
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Every time you don't mess up
and you pull a thing out
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And you get it on the top,
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I have a card for you to pick
that you're gonna read.
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- Okay.
- Are you ready?
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- Yep.
- I'm gonna go first.
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- Go nuts.
- Okay, I'm gonna go first.
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♪ ♪
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Okay, so you have
to pick one of these.
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- But you don't have to do it?
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- No, I don't
'cause I made them.
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- Okay.
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- All of these cards are things
that I like about you.
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- Come on, jose.
- [laughs]
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- There's way
too many things in there.
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Unapologetically yourself.
That's very factual.
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- Yep.
- That's a good start.
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- That's you.
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♪ ♪
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- How driven/work-minded
you are.
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♪ ♪
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You always hold my hand.
- Yeah.
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♪ ♪
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- You're not afraid
to speak your mind.
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♪ ♪
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How open-minded
you've been towards me
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And our match in this process.
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♪ ♪
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God, I'm a douchebag.
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[chuckles]
- no!
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- It's incredibly frustrating
not feeling
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Those sparks at this point.
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I'm still waiting for it.
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How levelheaded you are
and calm.
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I have to be levelheaded
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'cause you're
duh-duh-duh-duh-duh.
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I want it,
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But I'm used to falling
in love incredibly fast.
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- You fall in love easy.
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- I can absolutely fall in love
in eight weeks.
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That's not a--
- yeah, eight weeks?
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He's fallen in love
in 24 hours,
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So eight weeks is nothing.
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- So I don't want
to build her up
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With words and reciprocation
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If I don't know right now
where my head's at,
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And that sucks
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Because I want this
to work more than anything.
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[soft dramatic music]
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Yes, sir!
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♪ ♪
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[upbeat music]
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- ♪ tok, tok, tok,
like the ticking of a clock ♪
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♪ I could go around,
go around ♪
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♪ and we can get it kicking ♪
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[knocking on door]
[dog barks]
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- Hi, hype.
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- Hype, go sit.
Shoo, shoo.
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There you go.
- What a good dog.
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- Yeah.
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- You had your
housewarming here, right?
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- I did.
- How was it?
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- It was a lot of fun.
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So this is what
I really needed to know.
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How is jose in, like, social--
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- Social settings?
- You know what I mean?
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- 'cause you guys have not been
in social settings before
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Other than the wedding.
- Yeah.
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Two friends that weren't
at the wedding that came.
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- Oh.
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- She's my closest--
one of my closest friends,
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And she has
a good read on people.
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You know what I mean?
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So her opinion
does matter to me.
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- It does matter to you.
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- And so we super clicked.
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Her boyfriend's like,
"man, rachel, like,
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You got a good dude"
and everything.
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I was like, "oh, good."
like, I like hearing that.
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Like, I know
I have a great guy,
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But it just feels nice
to hear it.
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- Reassuring.
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- And so, with that,
I was like, we're good.
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Like, he is...
- That's who he is.
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- The well-rounded person
that I wanted to be with.
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I wanted someone social.
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I want someone just kind,
and just a gentleman.
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- That's awesome.
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- Yeah, we're just, like,
in a really good spot, so...
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- Same for us.
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And then gil's at work today
all day, so it's like
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I'm by myself all day.
- Your ring.
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- 'cause, you know,
we go the gym.
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- Uh-huh.
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- And then, like,
it's uncomfortable
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When you wear it
and, you know,
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You don't want to scratch it.
- Uh-huh.
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- And he bought, like--
- wow!
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- On amazon.
So it's, like, really--
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- So he gave you a ring?
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- He gave me a plastic ring.
That is so romantic.
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- That's romantic, myrla.
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That's sweet.
- That's not romantic.
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- Yes, it is.
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Gil is doing the little things
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That maybe she might
not expect to be romantic,
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But they are, you know?
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And I think she thinks so too,
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But I don't know
why she's not admitting
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That it is a really nice
gesture from her husband.
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[laughter]
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We're married women now.
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Yeah, it feels good.
I really like your ring.
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- I told my husband
that I want a cartier one...
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And he said yes.
- Was he half asleep?
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Did he just finish
a 24-hour shift?
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- No, we had dinner--
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[laughter]
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ how do we stop
the rain from falling? ♪
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♪ ♪
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♪ and when do we admit
that we're just pretending? ♪
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♪ ♪
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♪ we don't do
a lot of things ♪
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♪ that we used to ♪
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♪ we've changed,
we've changed ♪
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♪ ♪
257
00:09:26,625 --> 00:09:28,641
- Hey, hey.
- 'sup?
258
00:09:28,794 --> 00:09:29,626
This is my first time
seeing michaela
259
00:09:29,644 --> 00:09:31,570
Since the housewarming.
260
00:09:31,797 --> 00:09:34,388
Right now, we're kind of
in a rocky spot.
261
00:09:34,408 --> 00:09:37,984
I feel like I have to tiptoe
around our relationship
262
00:09:38,136 --> 00:09:39,986
Just because every time
we have a problem,
263
00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:41,913
She tends to blow up.
264
00:09:42,065 --> 00:09:43,731
- I took all my [bleep]
and I left
265
00:09:43,750 --> 00:09:47,477
Just because of what you did.
You never came back.
266
00:09:47,570 --> 00:09:48,903
- I came back here
at, like, 9:15.
267
00:09:48,997 --> 00:09:50,496
You were gone.
- [bleep].
268
00:09:50,591 --> 00:09:52,498
Nope, I was not gone at 9:15.
You are [bleep] lying.
269
00:09:52,651 --> 00:09:53,925
- Okay, okay, okay, okay.
270
00:09:54,077 --> 00:09:56,094
- You are [bleep]
[bleep] lying.
271
00:09:56,245 --> 00:09:57,762
- We had a conversation
on the phone,
272
00:09:57,989 --> 00:09:59,505
And I thought
that conversation went well,
273
00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:02,917
And then she texted me, like,
an hour later saying, like,
274
00:10:02,936 --> 00:10:04,269
"I'm not doing
the housewarming.
275
00:10:04,496 --> 00:10:06,162
My friends are not coming.
I'm not doing it."
276
00:10:06,181 --> 00:10:08,665
That's not how I handle stuff.
Are you staying here tonight?
277
00:10:08,758 --> 00:10:10,275
- Yes.
- I honestly don't want to.
278
00:10:10,426 --> 00:10:12,277
Like, I'm not--
- okay, and that's fine.
279
00:10:12,504 --> 00:10:14,261
- I can't fake it,
and I'm sorry.
280
00:10:14,356 --> 00:10:17,115
[soft dramatic music]
281
00:10:17,342 --> 00:10:18,766
♪ ♪
282
00:10:18,860 --> 00:10:20,601
After the housewarming,
you know,
283
00:10:20,695 --> 00:10:22,695
I told her that I'm
going back to my apartment.
284
00:10:22,848 --> 00:10:24,697
And the next day,
I called michaela
285
00:10:24,850 --> 00:10:27,867
To talk about, you know,
like, how I was feeling.
286
00:10:28,019 --> 00:10:30,111
But, you know,
I get a text message from her
287
00:10:30,130 --> 00:10:31,630
Just kind of being childish.
288
00:10:31,857 --> 00:10:33,798
She texted me,
"if you want to talk to me,
289
00:10:33,950 --> 00:10:36,134
Use this number.
Text preferable."
290
00:10:36,285 --> 00:10:38,044
Inferring that
I can't call her anymore.
291
00:10:38,138 --> 00:10:41,139
And to be honest,
I'm very frustrated,
292
00:10:41,366 --> 00:10:43,032
And I want her to know
exactly how I'm feeling.
293
00:10:43,051 --> 00:10:47,128
♪ ♪
294
00:10:47,147 --> 00:10:49,130
I feel like
the main difference between us
295
00:10:49,224 --> 00:10:50,707
Is the way we communicate,
and, like,
296
00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:52,466
Understanding of one another.
- Mm-hmm.
297
00:10:52,486 --> 00:10:53,726
- Which you would agree, right?
- I would agree, yes.
298
00:10:53,820 --> 00:10:56,045
- All right, cool.
So from my perspective,
299
00:10:56,064 --> 00:10:57,881
It feels like
I'm sitting under a tree
300
00:10:57,899 --> 00:11:00,566
Reading a book of my love life.
301
00:11:00,719 --> 00:11:02,719
I got to the chapter of
I took the chance
302
00:11:02,812 --> 00:11:04,162
To be married at first sight,
303
00:11:04,313 --> 00:11:05,738
And I'm very excited
to read this book.
304
00:11:05,891 --> 00:11:07,481
Then a bee comes along.
305
00:11:07,501 --> 00:11:08,667
I'm like, "okay, get away, bee.
Get away."
306
00:11:08,818 --> 00:11:10,226
The bee goes away.
307
00:11:10,319 --> 00:11:12,153
I'm like, "hm,
should I leave this tree?
308
00:11:12,172 --> 00:11:13,654
"'cause I don't like bees.
But [bleep] it.
309
00:11:13,674 --> 00:11:15,231
"I'ma stay right here
and keep reading this book.
310
00:11:15,324 --> 00:11:17,676
I love this book.
I want to see where it ends."
311
00:11:17,827 --> 00:11:19,569
Then another bee comes along.
Same situation.
312
00:11:19,587 --> 00:11:20,904
I'm like, "okay, [bleep] it,
313
00:11:20,997 --> 00:11:22,422
"I'm gonna continue
to read this book,
314
00:11:22,516 --> 00:11:24,349
Because I really want to see
where this book takes me."
315
00:11:24,576 --> 00:11:26,351
And then the third bee
comes along and stings me.
316
00:11:26,578 --> 00:11:29,020
And so now I'm like,
"well, [bleep], it's time
317
00:11:29,172 --> 00:11:30,096
"for me to get the [bleep] out
from this tree,
318
00:11:30,248 --> 00:11:32,506
"because I want
to read this book,
319
00:11:32,526 --> 00:11:34,584
"and I swear I'm trying to,
under this tree,
320
00:11:34,677 --> 00:11:36,027
But, like,
the bees won't let me."
321
00:11:36,254 --> 00:11:37,195
♪ ♪
322
00:11:39,682 --> 00:11:41,515
And so to translate that
to our situation,
323
00:11:41,609 --> 00:11:43,593
The bees is the way you handle,
324
00:11:43,686 --> 00:11:45,111
Like, situations--
like, conflict.
325
00:11:45,205 --> 00:11:49,374
There's been three instances
that have been the exact same.
326
00:11:49,601 --> 00:11:52,452
- And for each one,
there's always been a cause.
327
00:11:52,604 --> 00:11:54,212
And what has--
who has caused it?
328
00:11:54,439 --> 00:11:55,621
You act like--
as if I come out and I come in
329
00:11:55,774 --> 00:11:57,106
And I just snapped at you...
330
00:11:57,200 --> 00:11:58,699
- Okay.
- For no reason.
331
00:11:58,719 --> 00:12:01,202
I acknowledge that I did
all of these things,
332
00:12:01,296 --> 00:12:03,963
But what doesn't happen is zack
doesn't say what the cause was.
333
00:12:04,115 --> 00:12:05,448
- Michaela--
- that's a problem.
334
00:12:05,467 --> 00:12:09,302
♪ ♪
335
00:12:09,454 --> 00:12:10,970
You keep getting stung
under this tree.
336
00:12:11,122 --> 00:12:12,713
Where is the hive?
Figure that out.
337
00:12:12,733 --> 00:12:14,807
'cause they're coming for you,
338
00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:16,960
So obviously
something's going on
339
00:12:16,978 --> 00:12:19,053
If they keep
coming back to you.
340
00:12:19,147 --> 00:12:21,981
Figure what that is,
not just,
341
00:12:22,133 --> 00:12:23,983
"now, I done got stung,
and now I gotta go."
342
00:12:24,135 --> 00:12:25,744
♪ ♪
343
00:12:25,895 --> 00:12:29,563
You do realize, a,
this is a new relationship.
344
00:12:29,583 --> 00:12:32,083
We don't know each other.
We're learning each other.
345
00:12:32,310 --> 00:12:34,477
- But my thing is, like,
michaela, like you said,
346
00:12:34,570 --> 00:12:36,329
Like, you know,
it's a new relationship,
347
00:12:36,481 --> 00:12:38,906
But, like,
that's a [bleep] excuse.
348
00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:40,483
'cause this is--
I'm not--this is not--
349
00:12:40,576 --> 00:12:42,594
This is bigger
than a relationship.
350
00:12:42,745 --> 00:12:44,245
This is
a fundamental difference
351
00:12:44,264 --> 00:12:45,913
On how we handle conflict.
We could be best friends.
352
00:12:45,932 --> 00:12:46,931
We could be
brothers and sisters.
353
00:12:47,083 --> 00:12:48,157
We could be
boyfriend, girlfriend.
354
00:12:48,251 --> 00:12:49,583
We could be married,
which we are.
355
00:12:49,603 --> 00:12:52,178
This is how we handle conflict.
We are who we are.
356
00:12:52,272 --> 00:12:55,498
And what I'm saying is there's
a fundamental difference
357
00:12:55,591 --> 00:12:59,185
On how we handle conflict,
and...That--
358
00:12:59,337 --> 00:13:01,170
♪ ♪
359
00:13:01,189 --> 00:13:02,855
I don't know, honestly,
if I can ever get over that.
360
00:13:03,008 --> 00:13:04,407
♪ ♪
361
00:13:06,361 --> 00:13:09,195
[dramatic music]
362
00:13:09,347 --> 00:13:10,955
Us not being able
363
00:13:11,107 --> 00:13:12,698
To communicate effectively
definitely hurts me.
364
00:13:12,851 --> 00:13:14,517
Like,
I'm definitely heartbroken
365
00:13:14,536 --> 00:13:16,019
Because I came into this
process hoping to find the one
366
00:13:16,112 --> 00:13:17,611
Because I wanted this
all my life.
367
00:13:17,705 --> 00:13:20,023
I'm kind of sad that,
you know, this may not be,
368
00:13:20,116 --> 00:13:22,116
Like,
what I wanted it to be.
369
00:13:22,135 --> 00:13:23,968
I'm not happy
about where we are.
370
00:13:24,195 --> 00:13:25,953
So do you have
any comments, questions,
371
00:13:25,972 --> 00:13:28,306
Or concerns about how I feel,
or, like, anything?
372
00:13:28,533 --> 00:13:32,143
♪ ♪
373
00:13:36,650 --> 00:13:37,874
- It's, like, "damn,
374
00:13:37,967 --> 00:13:38,966
Like, why won't
this [bleep] work?"
375
00:13:39,060 --> 00:13:39,876
And then, like,
to have this, like,
376
00:13:39,894 --> 00:13:40,985
All be happening right now,
377
00:13:41,212 --> 00:13:42,821
It's very--
it's very disheartening.
378
00:13:43,048 --> 00:13:47,733
♪ ♪
379
00:13:47,828 --> 00:13:49,385
- I agree with you.
- So you agree with me.
380
00:13:49,404 --> 00:13:50,161
- I do.
381
00:13:52,390 --> 00:13:53,647
- And so the question is,
382
00:13:53,667 --> 00:13:55,408
Like, how can we fix it
going forward?
383
00:13:55,560 --> 00:13:57,410
Because I don't know
what I'm doing wrong.
384
00:13:57,562 --> 00:13:59,987
So, actually, can you tell me
what I could be doing better,
385
00:14:00,081 --> 00:14:02,915
Or what I'm doing wrong,
or, like, what I can work on?
386
00:14:03,009 --> 00:14:06,085
'cause I don't know
what I'm doing wrong.
387
00:14:06,179 --> 00:14:07,595
- You can talk to me.
388
00:14:09,407 --> 00:14:13,426
♪ ♪
389
00:14:13,578 --> 00:14:15,745
That's what I need.
390
00:14:15,838 --> 00:14:16,929
Getting married
at first sight,
391
00:14:17,082 --> 00:14:18,581
I wanted, you know,
392
00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:21,434
To find someone
who will be my forever.
393
00:14:21,586 --> 00:14:24,529
Zack is somebody
who I would love
394
00:14:24,756 --> 00:14:27,757
To have a future with,
and I want this to work,
395
00:14:27,775 --> 00:14:31,777
But I can't knowingly jump
back in with both feet
396
00:14:31,930 --> 00:14:34,447
As I did before
knowing that if I cause
397
00:14:34,599 --> 00:14:36,857
Any kind of infraction,
minor or major,
398
00:14:36,877 --> 00:14:40,712
That it may be a "I don't know.
399
00:14:40,863 --> 00:14:42,213
I don't know about her"
for him.
400
00:14:42,365 --> 00:14:45,032
I can't do that
because, I mean,
401
00:14:45,051 --> 00:14:47,777
While I want to be married
once and forever,
402
00:14:47,795 --> 00:14:51,464
I also have to know
that my spouse has my back.
403
00:14:51,616 --> 00:14:52,798
- Do you think
we'll get back
404
00:14:52,893 --> 00:14:54,309
To where we were?
- I'm taking it day-by-day.
405
00:14:57,455 --> 00:14:58,479
- Do you want to get back
to where we were?
406
00:15:00,233 --> 00:15:04,569
- It's just dependent
on what happens.
407
00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:08,072
My fear is, is that,
even in these coming weeks
408
00:15:08,224 --> 00:15:09,741
That we get through
409
00:15:09,968 --> 00:15:12,726
And we get back
to where we were,
410
00:15:12,746 --> 00:15:14,820
Then things come up against us,
411
00:15:14,915 --> 00:15:16,247
That we'll meet--
412
00:15:16,474 --> 00:15:19,250
Will be met
with the same result.
413
00:15:19,402 --> 00:15:23,980
- I'm willing to try everything
in my power to make this work.
414
00:15:23,998 --> 00:15:26,073
So that's gonna be,
you know, self-reflection.
415
00:15:26,092 --> 00:15:27,833
That's gonna be
communicating more.
416
00:15:27,928 --> 00:15:30,153
You know, that's going
to be just, you know,
417
00:15:30,171 --> 00:15:35,174
Doing what you need me to do
to give you, like,
418
00:15:35,326 --> 00:15:37,084
The comfort you need to be able
to want to make this work.
419
00:15:37,103 --> 00:15:40,329
I mean, that's what I am
saying to you.
420
00:15:40,348 --> 00:15:43,107
[tender acoustic music]
421
00:15:43,334 --> 00:15:45,001
♪ ♪
422
00:15:45,019 --> 00:15:49,614
- I am willing to...
Think before I act,
423
00:15:49,765 --> 00:15:53,693
To verbalize what I need
424
00:15:53,787 --> 00:15:55,119
And just say it
425
00:15:55,346 --> 00:15:57,530
Instead of internalizing
my emotions,
426
00:15:57,682 --> 00:16:01,626
And to hear you out,
427
00:16:01,777 --> 00:16:03,853
And to really try
to understand
428
00:16:03,871 --> 00:16:05,612
And follow up
and make sure I understood
429
00:16:05,707 --> 00:16:07,114
What you're saying to me.
430
00:16:07,208 --> 00:16:10,693
- Mm-hmm.
You promise?
431
00:16:10,786 --> 00:16:14,046
- Mm-hmm.
- All right, cool, same.
432
00:16:14,199 --> 00:16:17,717
- ♪ everything
will be all right ♪
433
00:16:17,811 --> 00:16:20,645
[upbeat music]
434
00:16:20,872 --> 00:16:22,480
♪ ♪
435
00:16:22,631 --> 00:16:26,726
[electronic music]
436
00:16:26,878 --> 00:16:28,544
- ♪ side to side ♪
437
00:16:28,563 --> 00:16:30,713
♪ from the ceiling
to the ground ♪
438
00:16:30,806 --> 00:16:32,882
♪ it's like you're shouting ♪
439
00:16:32,900 --> 00:16:35,493
- Look at us, cooking
our first meal together.
440
00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:36,569
- [chuckles]
441
00:16:36,663 --> 00:16:38,404
♪ ♪
442
00:16:38,556 --> 00:16:40,147
I want to make sure
443
00:16:40,166 --> 00:16:42,816
That this meal
goes off perfectly.
444
00:16:42,836 --> 00:16:44,669
I want everything
to be right.
445
00:16:44,896 --> 00:16:46,320
That, and then
we're gonna drizzle
446
00:16:46,414 --> 00:16:48,506
The avocado stuff on top.
447
00:16:48,733 --> 00:16:51,083
I know, I know.
I'm ridiculous.
448
00:16:51,177 --> 00:16:53,327
I am very aware
that johnny doesn't care,
449
00:16:53,346 --> 00:16:55,238
And he would be okay
with eating dog food,
450
00:16:55,256 --> 00:16:57,757
But it's not okay to me
451
00:16:57,909 --> 00:16:59,500
To eat dog food
on my first time
452
00:16:59,519 --> 00:17:01,427
To show him, like, I can cook.
453
00:17:01,579 --> 00:17:03,354
I can take care of you,
454
00:17:03,581 --> 00:17:05,598
But I can also
do it very well.
455
00:17:05,750 --> 00:17:08,026
I want him to appreciate that.
456
00:17:10,755 --> 00:17:13,589
Thanks for helping me.
457
00:17:13,608 --> 00:17:15,033
You make a good sous chef.
458
00:17:17,186 --> 00:17:19,111
- Well,
let's see how it tastes.
459
00:17:19,264 --> 00:17:21,539
- All right.
Fingers crossed.
460
00:17:24,619 --> 00:17:27,436
[drumroll]
461
00:17:27,455 --> 00:17:31,774
- Yeah.
Heck, yeah.
462
00:17:31,793 --> 00:17:35,369
- So I think we're doing
decently well right now,
463
00:17:35,388 --> 00:17:38,798
But the other night,
you said that you were starting
464
00:17:38,950 --> 00:17:41,284
To seemingly have doubt,
465
00:17:41,302 --> 00:17:43,043
And you weren't sure
if you were ready.
466
00:17:43,137 --> 00:17:44,711
[soft dramatic music]
467
00:17:44,731 --> 00:17:46,138
How are you feeling
today about it?
468
00:17:46,232 --> 00:17:48,291
♪ ♪
469
00:17:48,309 --> 00:17:50,976
- I guess I never expected it
to be this hard.
470
00:17:51,071 --> 00:17:54,072
♪ ♪
471
00:17:54,223 --> 00:17:57,149
I thought we were gonna be
really smooth sailing
472
00:17:57,302 --> 00:17:58,317
Until we hit a hardship.
473
00:17:58,411 --> 00:18:00,078
♪ ♪
474
00:18:00,305 --> 00:18:01,987
I didn't expect it
to come so fast.
475
00:18:02,082 --> 00:18:05,416
♪ ♪
476
00:18:05,568 --> 00:18:06,751
And so
when we encountered it...
477
00:18:06,978 --> 00:18:10,404
♪ ♪
478
00:18:10,423 --> 00:18:11,664
It scared me.
479
00:18:11,758 --> 00:18:14,074
♪ ♪
480
00:18:14,094 --> 00:18:16,485
I've never had to be afraid
of something so early
481
00:18:16,504 --> 00:18:20,673
Where I'm not in love
with somebody, you know,
482
00:18:20,825 --> 00:18:23,101
And I'm having to fight for it.
483
00:18:23,328 --> 00:18:27,271
♪ ♪
484
00:18:27,498 --> 00:18:31,258
- I was all-in from day one.
Like, all-in.
485
00:18:31,277 --> 00:18:32,944
I told you I bought
into the marriage.
486
00:18:33,171 --> 00:18:34,761
♪ ♪
487
00:18:34,781 --> 00:18:36,172
And when I said that,
I meant it.
488
00:18:36,190 --> 00:18:38,174
I still do.
489
00:18:38,192 --> 00:18:39,842
I--
490
00:18:39,861 --> 00:18:41,935
- Do you think
I'm not looking at it that way?
491
00:18:41,955 --> 00:18:43,287
- I don't know.
Because I feel like--
492
00:18:43,439 --> 00:18:45,014
- You could ask me.
493
00:18:45,032 --> 00:18:47,183
- No, I mean, I feel like
you waver a little bit.
494
00:18:47,201 --> 00:18:50,294
Like, I can see
when you're shutting out.
495
00:18:50,521 --> 00:18:52,688
♪ ♪
496
00:18:52,707 --> 00:18:55,133
- Do you know everything
there is to know about me?
497
00:18:55,284 --> 00:18:56,783
- No.
- Do you know my heart?
498
00:18:56,803 --> 00:18:59,378
- No.
I never said I did.
499
00:18:59,472 --> 00:19:01,455
♪ ♪
500
00:19:01,474 --> 00:19:02,548
But I can see
when you're deflated.
501
00:19:02,642 --> 00:19:04,367
♪ ♪
502
00:19:04,385 --> 00:19:06,293
- Does deflated mean
I'm running away?
503
00:19:06,312 --> 00:19:08,037
Like, I've decided
I'm running away?
504
00:19:08,130 --> 00:19:11,223
- Sometimes I can't tell.
- Ask me.
505
00:19:11,376 --> 00:19:14,801
- I do try to talk to you,
but...
506
00:19:14,821 --> 00:19:17,713
- Do you?
- You get really hotheaded.
507
00:19:17,732 --> 00:19:24,912
♪ ♪
508
00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:28,724
- I wish you would just
ask me more questions.
509
00:19:28,743 --> 00:19:31,560
Like...
510
00:19:31,579 --> 00:19:33,820
To understand
how I feel in a moment,
511
00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:36,065
Just ask me, like, "how are you
feeling right now?"
512
00:19:36,083 --> 00:19:37,175
Literally,
that's all you have to ask me.
513
00:19:37,326 --> 00:19:38,567
- How are you
feeling right now?
514
00:19:38,586 --> 00:19:39,493
- I feel like you're
being kind of judgy
515
00:19:39,587 --> 00:19:41,345
About me, you know?
516
00:19:41,572 --> 00:19:42,663
I feel like
you're making assumptions
517
00:19:42,682 --> 00:19:43,756
About what you
think is happening...
518
00:19:43,850 --> 00:19:45,424
- Mm-hmm.
519
00:19:45,576 --> 00:19:46,592
- Based on what you think
you know about me,
520
00:19:46,744 --> 00:19:48,019
But we barely know each other.
521
00:19:48,246 --> 00:19:49,595
- You've literally told me
you wanted
522
00:19:49,689 --> 00:19:51,838
To duck and run after arguing.
- I have before.
523
00:19:51,933 --> 00:19:53,191
That's right.
I have before.
524
00:19:53,418 --> 00:19:55,434
I said, "if this was
a dating scenario"...
525
00:19:55,528 --> 00:19:57,528
♪ ♪
526
00:19:57,755 --> 00:19:59,255
"this is where
we would end things."
527
00:19:59,348 --> 00:20:01,106
- But why do you need
to say that?
528
00:20:01,201 --> 00:20:02,942
- Because I'm telling you
exactly how I feel,
529
00:20:03,036 --> 00:20:04,944
So you understand,
like, where my head is at.
530
00:20:05,038 --> 00:20:06,612
At this exact moment,
531
00:20:06,764 --> 00:20:07,947
I want you to know
exactly how I'm feeling.
532
00:20:08,041 --> 00:20:09,523
Take it how you want.
533
00:20:09,617 --> 00:20:11,024
- Does it make me feel good?
534
00:20:11,118 --> 00:20:12,877
[bleep] no.
It does not.
535
00:20:13,104 --> 00:20:15,271
♪ ♪
536
00:20:15,289 --> 00:20:16,697
- I thought
we were just gonna have
537
00:20:16,716 --> 00:20:18,290
A great conversation
and great night,
538
00:20:18,384 --> 00:20:20,867
But, of course, we ended up
having the same arguments
539
00:20:20,962 --> 00:20:22,445
Over and over and over,
540
00:20:22,463 --> 00:20:25,448
And I don't know
what our disconnect is here.
541
00:20:25,466 --> 00:20:28,375
Bao does fit a lot
of the things I'm looking for,
542
00:20:28,394 --> 00:20:31,136
But there are a lot
of red flags,
543
00:20:31,289 --> 00:20:33,064
And so I think that's why
544
00:20:33,291 --> 00:20:34,306
I'm having
so much difficulty...
545
00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:37,401
♪ ♪
546
00:20:37,553 --> 00:20:39,295
Putting us together
547
00:20:39,388 --> 00:20:41,072
And having it be,
like, a rosy picture--
548
00:20:41,299 --> 00:20:45,651
Is because I know
those things exist,
549
00:20:45,745 --> 00:20:47,136
And I typically
would not settle for that.
550
00:20:47,154 --> 00:20:50,731
♪ ♪
551
00:20:50,750 --> 00:20:54,827
I want to be emotionally...
Connected.
552
00:20:54,921 --> 00:20:57,830
After the wedding day
and our first day of honeymoon,
553
00:20:57,924 --> 00:20:59,498
Like, I didn't feel
the initial, like, spark.
554
00:20:59,592 --> 00:21:03,168
♪ ♪
555
00:21:03,321 --> 00:21:06,005
But I'm looking for it.
556
00:21:06,099 --> 00:21:08,991
I'm looking for that to kindle
into something like a fire.
557
00:21:09,010 --> 00:21:11,660
♪ ♪
558
00:21:11,754 --> 00:21:14,830
And I still believe
that can happen.
559
00:21:14,849 --> 00:21:17,333
♪ ♪
560
00:21:17,351 --> 00:21:20,427
- ♪ wish I could
write a song ♪
561
00:21:20,521 --> 00:21:23,281
♪ to love a little better ♪
562
00:21:23,432 --> 00:21:24,189
- And that's where I'm at.
563
00:21:24,284 --> 00:21:26,525
♪ ♪
564
00:21:26,619 --> 00:21:30,270
I'm just gonna be here
every day till I find it.
565
00:21:30,290 --> 00:21:36,352
- ♪ is this even real love? ♪
566
00:21:36,370 --> 00:21:38,629
♪ ooh, ooh ♪
567
00:21:43,694 --> 00:21:45,469
- ♪ you are there
when I sound the sirens ♪
568
00:21:45,696 --> 00:21:48,864
♪ you are there
when I need your love ♪
569
00:21:48,883 --> 00:21:51,867
- Getting legally married
to a complete stranger
570
00:21:51,886 --> 00:21:53,811
Is a unique experience
that requires
571
00:21:54,038 --> 00:21:55,646
A different approach
to building
572
00:21:55,873 --> 00:21:58,131
A traditional foundation
for love.
573
00:21:58,225 --> 00:22:01,152
This means that our couples
need to find unique ways
574
00:22:01,303 --> 00:22:03,212
To create feelings.
575
00:22:03,230 --> 00:22:04,880
They're not just floating
out there somewhere.
576
00:22:04,973 --> 00:22:06,973
They're created by action.
577
00:22:07,068 --> 00:22:10,310
Sometimes you have to come out
of your normal behavior
578
00:22:10,330 --> 00:22:12,404
And do those things
that are gonna create feelings
579
00:22:12,498 --> 00:22:15,391
Because often, our feelings
follow our actions
580
00:22:15,409 --> 00:22:17,226
And not the other way around.
581
00:22:17,244 --> 00:22:20,004
For some, that will be easier
than for others,
582
00:22:20,155 --> 00:22:22,673
But it is imperative
to find that depth
583
00:22:22,825 --> 00:22:24,733
In their relationship
584
00:22:24,752 --> 00:22:27,086
If their marriage stands
a chance of being successful.
585
00:22:27,180 --> 00:22:28,921
- So...
586
00:22:29,073 --> 00:22:31,574
[soft dramatic music]
587
00:22:31,592 --> 00:22:34,093
I was noticing
that mine was like this,
588
00:22:34,245 --> 00:22:35,911
All nice and pretty.
589
00:22:36,004 --> 00:22:37,413
And when you
left yours up there,
590
00:22:37,431 --> 00:22:39,415
It was like this.
- [gasps]
591
00:22:39,433 --> 00:22:40,916
- No.
- No!
592
00:22:41,009 --> 00:22:42,360
- We're gonna do it real.
- No!
593
00:22:42,587 --> 00:22:45,696
- We're gonna do it real.
- How dare you?
594
00:22:45,848 --> 00:22:47,773
- How do you not just squeeze
from the bottom up?
595
00:22:47,867 --> 00:22:49,516
It's not that difficult.
596
00:22:49,535 --> 00:22:51,369
- 'cause I'm secretly
a sociopath.
597
00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:55,188
- Yeah, I--
- [laughs]
598
00:22:55,208 --> 00:22:56,265
- You want
any blueberries or anything?
599
00:22:56,358 --> 00:22:57,708
'cause I'm about
to crush these.
600
00:22:57,935 --> 00:23:00,603
- No, I got them for you.
- How's your head?
601
00:23:00,696 --> 00:23:02,287
- Not good.
- Not good?
602
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:05,049
- No.
Can dogs have blueberries?
603
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:06,775
- Oh, yeah,
they can have blueberries.
604
00:23:06,869 --> 00:23:08,535
- Does he heat it?
- He just licks it.
605
00:23:08,554 --> 00:23:10,446
- He's licking it.
Good job.
606
00:23:10,464 --> 00:23:12,965
[upbeat music]
607
00:23:13,117 --> 00:23:14,633
- Do you like my purse?
608
00:23:14,785 --> 00:23:15,709
- How many purses do you need,
first of all?
609
00:23:15,728 --> 00:23:17,561
How many do you need?
610
00:23:17,713 --> 00:23:19,788
- There is no such thing as
how many purses a woman needs.
611
00:23:19,807 --> 00:23:23,049
- How many do you need,
and how many do you want?
612
00:23:23,069 --> 00:23:25,978
- I need plenty.
- Okay, that is insane.
613
00:23:26,130 --> 00:23:27,129
- [chuckles]
614
00:23:27,148 --> 00:23:28,221
♪ ♪
615
00:23:28,315 --> 00:23:30,132
- So nice up here.
616
00:23:30,225 --> 00:23:31,300
- I think
we really needed this.
617
00:23:31,318 --> 00:23:32,484
- Yeah, we did.
618
00:23:32,578 --> 00:23:33,819
[wind whooshing]
619
00:23:33,913 --> 00:23:36,655
♪ ♪
620
00:23:36,807 --> 00:23:38,974
- ♪ I love way it feels ♪
621
00:23:39,067 --> 00:23:42,327
♪ it's magic, it's magic ♪
622
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:44,997
- We're here.
- Hey, guys.
623
00:23:45,149 --> 00:23:46,665
How are y'all?
- Hi!
624
00:23:46,817 --> 00:23:47,591
How are you?
- How are you?
625
00:23:47,743 --> 00:23:48,759
- Hey, good.
- Hi.
626
00:23:48,986 --> 00:23:49,927
- So you must be rachel.
- Yes, I am.
627
00:23:50,154 --> 00:23:51,077
- Yes, we spoke
a lot on the phone.
628
00:23:51,097 --> 00:23:52,504
- Yes, hi.
- I'm other rachel.
629
00:23:52,598 --> 00:23:54,932
So any idea what we're doing?
- I don't know.
630
00:23:55,159 --> 00:23:56,341
Driving in,
it looked like, you know,
631
00:23:56,494 --> 00:23:58,343
We were skeet shooting
or possibly, like,
632
00:23:58,496 --> 00:24:00,086
Horseback riding or something,
so I don't know.
633
00:24:00,106 --> 00:24:01,830
- No, we're gonna do something
a little bit more zen.
634
00:24:01,924 --> 00:24:03,499
We're gonna do
some goat yoga...
635
00:24:03,592 --> 00:24:05,109
- Okay.
- Houston-style today.
636
00:24:05,260 --> 00:24:08,170
And your lovely bride here
did ask for all baby goats,
637
00:24:08,189 --> 00:24:09,280
So everything here is...
- Oh, wonderful.
638
00:24:09,431 --> 00:24:10,764
- Two weeks and under.
- I'm so excited.
639
00:24:10,783 --> 00:24:12,508
- Oh!
- Oh my god!
640
00:24:12,526 --> 00:24:13,692
- So you have to be
very, very gentle with them.
641
00:24:13,844 --> 00:24:15,453
- I will.
642
00:24:15,604 --> 00:24:16,620
- But if you want to come on
and get your goat on,
643
00:24:16,847 --> 00:24:17,680
Let's do this.
- Yes, I'm so excited!
644
00:24:17,773 --> 00:24:19,031
- Yeah, let's do it, awesome.
645
00:24:19,125 --> 00:24:21,850
- Experiences are what
means the most to me.
646
00:24:21,869 --> 00:24:22,960
[upbeat music]
647
00:24:23,187 --> 00:24:25,521
Oh, my god!
648
00:24:25,539 --> 00:24:28,524
This is exactly
what I had envisioned
649
00:24:28,542 --> 00:24:30,025
Marriage would look like.
650
00:24:30,118 --> 00:24:31,376
These are the little moments
651
00:24:31,471 --> 00:24:34,546
That I really look forward to
with my husband.
652
00:24:34,699 --> 00:24:37,290
- So we're gonna get down
into a nice child's pose.
653
00:24:37,384 --> 00:24:38,701
It's not a lot of weight,
654
00:24:38,794 --> 00:24:39,643
Like our big goats,
but maybe it'll...
655
00:24:39,795 --> 00:24:41,220
- Ooh, interesting.
656
00:24:41,372 --> 00:24:42,646
- Help you fall further
into that posture.
657
00:24:42,798 --> 00:24:44,297
[goats bleating]
658
00:24:44,317 --> 00:24:47,392
- Nice.
- Aww.
659
00:24:47,545 --> 00:24:48,652
- Very good.
660
00:24:48,879 --> 00:24:50,229
When you're ready,
inhaling it up.
661
00:24:50,323 --> 00:24:51,897
Let's walk those hands
towards the right side.
662
00:24:51,991 --> 00:24:53,991
♪ ♪
663
00:24:54,142 --> 00:24:56,552
Five deep breaths.
664
00:24:56,645 --> 00:24:59,479
And I'll put some goats
on your backs.
665
00:24:59,499 --> 00:25:01,499
This is
their first day of work,
666
00:25:01,650 --> 00:25:04,059
So they're still in training.
- Okay.
667
00:25:04,152 --> 00:25:05,652
- That's right, little babies.
668
00:25:05,671 --> 00:25:08,080
- They kind of give you,
like, a weird back massage.
669
00:25:08,174 --> 00:25:09,990
- [laughs]
670
00:25:10,009 --> 00:25:11,567
- And then they'll jump
from, like, person to person.
671
00:25:11,585 --> 00:25:13,085
♪ ♪
672
00:25:13,237 --> 00:25:14,086
- Aww.
673
00:25:14,180 --> 00:25:15,513
♪ ♪
674
00:25:15,664 --> 00:25:17,906
- ♪ I don't know ♪
675
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,592
♪ how you do
what you do to me ♪
676
00:25:20,686 --> 00:25:22,186
- [laughs]
677
00:25:22,413 --> 00:25:24,688
It's crazy
how I've never been able
678
00:25:24,915 --> 00:25:27,266
To feel this comfortable
and close
679
00:25:27,360 --> 00:25:29,693
To someone in such
a short amount of time.
680
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:33,438
Oh, that was so awesome.
- Very good, guys.
681
00:25:33,533 --> 00:25:35,941
♪ ♪
682
00:25:36,035 --> 00:25:38,427
- Thanks for having
an open mind, you know?
683
00:25:38,445 --> 00:25:40,095
These are definitely--like,
684
00:25:40,114 --> 00:25:41,521
This is one of those things
where you don't forget.
685
00:25:41,615 --> 00:25:43,098
- Right.
This is--
686
00:25:43,117 --> 00:25:44,208
- Like, "remember when
we were with the goats?"
687
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:45,692
- Yes, this is something
688
00:25:45,711 --> 00:25:47,436
That we will definitely
always remember.
689
00:25:47,454 --> 00:25:49,046
- You know I'm all about,
like, the memories.
690
00:25:49,273 --> 00:25:52,124
And I mean,
look how precious they are.
691
00:25:52,218 --> 00:25:54,960
- They're so cute.
This one's so well-behaved.
692
00:25:55,054 --> 00:25:56,945
♪ ♪
693
00:25:57,039 --> 00:25:58,556
Little man trying
to go to sleep.
694
00:25:58,707 --> 00:26:00,799
It's kind of cool.
695
00:26:00,951 --> 00:26:03,543
- ♪ you got me, you got me,
you got me, you got me ♪
696
00:26:03,563 --> 00:26:05,563
- You know,
I'm getting that little,
697
00:26:05,714 --> 00:26:08,566
Like, dad vibes here.
698
00:26:08,717 --> 00:26:10,475
- You know, we are definitely
falling a little bit closer
699
00:26:10,570 --> 00:26:12,811
In love as each and every
single day progresses.
700
00:26:12,905 --> 00:26:14,980
There's still so much
to learn about each other,
701
00:26:15,132 --> 00:26:17,390
And we definitely
have some disagreements,
702
00:26:17,484 --> 00:26:19,392
But, you know, all I want to do
is spend time with my wife.
703
00:26:19,412 --> 00:26:21,637
I want him to pass out.
Like, just knock out, man.
704
00:26:21,655 --> 00:26:22,988
- Whichever goat
goes to sleep first...
705
00:26:23,140 --> 00:26:24,489
- Oh, yeah?
706
00:26:24,642 --> 00:26:26,141
- That's who's
gonna be in charge
707
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:27,067
Of putting the kids to sleep.
- Oh, my, this one's--
708
00:26:27,161 --> 00:26:28,902
- The real kids to sleep.
709
00:26:28,921 --> 00:26:30,979
Jose's gonna make
an excellent father,
710
00:26:30,998 --> 00:26:33,924
And just seeing him
holding the goats, oh, like,
711
00:26:34,076 --> 00:26:36,576
My heart was melting.
712
00:26:36,596 --> 00:26:38,929
And I can definitely
see myself
713
00:26:39,081 --> 00:26:40,172
Falling in love with jose.
714
00:26:40,324 --> 00:26:47,062
♪ ♪
715
00:26:48,941 --> 00:26:50,349
- How do you like--
716
00:26:50,501 --> 00:26:52,276
- You don't want your beans
in a little bowl?
717
00:26:52,427 --> 00:26:54,928
- No, I want them on the side.
- Just like that?
718
00:26:55,022 --> 00:26:56,763
- Yeah.
- Okay.
719
00:26:56,782 --> 00:26:58,616
- Traditionally,
first comes love,
720
00:26:58,767 --> 00:27:00,843
And then comes marriage.
721
00:27:00,861 --> 00:27:03,454
But for our couples
who met at the altar
722
00:27:03,681 --> 00:27:06,181
As strangers,
they're still navigating
723
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,684
Through a lot
of first experiences together,
724
00:27:08,702 --> 00:27:11,629
And love may be slower to grow.
725
00:27:11,856 --> 00:27:13,522
Honestly,
if you want this feeling
726
00:27:13,540 --> 00:27:15,299
To just pop out of nothing,
727
00:27:15,450 --> 00:27:17,526
It really is
unlikely to happen,
728
00:27:17,619 --> 00:27:19,970
But if you
do romantic things,
729
00:27:20,122 --> 00:27:22,789
If you talk from your heart,
if you tell this person things
730
00:27:22,808 --> 00:27:24,867
You haven't told anyone else,
731
00:27:24,885 --> 00:27:27,794
Then you have a hope
of creating those feelings,
732
00:27:27,888 --> 00:27:30,038
As opposed to waiting that they
drop out of the sky somehow.
733
00:27:30,057 --> 00:27:31,649
♪ ♪
734
00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:34,300
- We have a messenger.
It says, "gil and myrla."
735
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:35,819
Why didn't they put
my name first?
736
00:27:35,971 --> 00:27:37,303
- What?
- [laughs]
737
00:27:37,323 --> 00:27:38,489
- Hold on, so let me
get some water first.
738
00:27:38,716 --> 00:27:40,048
- What is it though?
- I don't know yet.
739
00:27:40,142 --> 00:27:41,383
- Who's it from?
- I don't know.
740
00:27:41,402 --> 00:27:42,660
Maybe it's from the experts.
741
00:27:42,887 --> 00:27:45,053
- Oh, yeah.
- It does say "experts."
742
00:27:45,072 --> 00:27:47,906
- So to help them explore
the potential for love,
743
00:27:48,058 --> 00:27:51,001
We've given them
some deeper topics to discuss.
744
00:27:51,228 --> 00:27:52,670
- Okay.
- See, you wanted questions.
745
00:27:52,821 --> 00:27:53,820
Now I have questions
to ask you.
746
00:27:53,914 --> 00:27:55,397
- I did want questions.
747
00:27:55,416 --> 00:27:57,232
- What it's going
to take for you to fall in love
748
00:27:57,325 --> 00:27:59,251
With your new spouse
in the real world.
749
00:27:59,345 --> 00:28:00,678
- Wowzers.
750
00:28:00,829 --> 00:28:02,087
- Yeah, I'll start.
751
00:28:02,239 --> 00:28:04,239
How about every time
you ask a question,
752
00:28:04,258 --> 00:28:06,684
You take a sip.
- Okay.
753
00:28:06,835 --> 00:28:08,185
- Have you been
in love before?
754
00:28:11,023 --> 00:28:13,265
- Yes.
Have you?
755
00:28:13,417 --> 00:28:14,858
- I have.
756
00:28:15,085 --> 00:28:16,485
What do you think it takes
for you to fall in love?
757
00:28:17,697 --> 00:28:18,529
- Hm.
758
00:28:20,866 --> 00:28:24,609
A lot, I would want
to feel that the person
759
00:28:24,762 --> 00:28:27,446
That I'm falling in love with
is 100% open
760
00:28:27,598 --> 00:28:30,449
And honest with me,
and that we both accept
761
00:28:30,601 --> 00:28:32,601
Each other
with all of our flaws.
762
00:28:32,694 --> 00:28:34,694
Like, I'm thinking
unconditional love.
763
00:28:34,714 --> 00:28:35,879
- At the same time,
there's gotta be
764
00:28:36,031 --> 00:28:39,049
That emotional attachment,
765
00:28:39,201 --> 00:28:41,552
The chemistry, the sparks,
766
00:28:41,779 --> 00:28:47,299
The can't wait
to turn off the lights part.
767
00:28:47,393 --> 00:28:50,018
I'm hoping that's what
we are working towards.
768
00:28:52,639 --> 00:28:54,189
- I feel we'll get there.
769
00:28:55,793 --> 00:28:58,643
Like, how we're going about
romance right now, intimacy,
770
00:28:58,796 --> 00:29:00,796
Makes me feel like
I'm back to middle school.
771
00:29:00,814 --> 00:29:03,315
[laughs]
- great.
772
00:29:03,467 --> 00:29:05,075
Middle school is where
I learned about sex.
773
00:29:05,227 --> 00:29:06,651
My parents never gave me
the birds and the bees talk.
774
00:29:06,804 --> 00:29:09,304
- What?
So how did you learn about sex?
775
00:29:09,397 --> 00:29:11,306
- Uh, through hentai.
- [gasps]
776
00:29:11,325 --> 00:29:14,493
- [laughs]
- no [bleep]!
777
00:29:14,645 --> 00:29:16,420
That's how
you learned about sex?
778
00:29:18,424 --> 00:29:20,665
- [laughs]
779
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,485
It's cartoon porn,
but I mean, back in the day,
780
00:29:23,504 --> 00:29:25,153
When I was a teenager,
that was all I had.
781
00:29:25,172 --> 00:29:26,412
Yeah.
[laughs]
782
00:29:26,432 --> 00:29:27,580
I had
a pervy group of friends.
783
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:28,507
I don't even know
how they got it.
784
00:29:28,601 --> 00:29:29,600
[laughter]
785
00:29:32,420 --> 00:29:33,678
'cause if it does, I'm down
for anything at this point.
786
00:29:33,831 --> 00:29:35,680
- No, no.
787
00:29:35,833 --> 00:29:38,850
- I really love
how he learned about sex.
788
00:29:39,003 --> 00:29:40,778
He's freaking adorable.
789
00:29:41,005 --> 00:29:44,189
I married
the most dorky guy ever.
790
00:29:44,341 --> 00:29:46,283
Sometimes I'm just, like,
so [bleep] annoyed
791
00:29:46,434 --> 00:29:48,268
How cute he can be,
792
00:29:48,287 --> 00:29:49,953
And that he
brings this out in me.
793
00:29:50,105 --> 00:29:51,789
At the same time,
794
00:29:51,940 --> 00:29:54,366
I'm, like, actually
really enjoying it, I suppose.
795
00:29:54,460 --> 00:29:55,793
- I'm gonna take a big gulp
before I ask you this.
796
00:29:58,464 --> 00:29:59,688
All right.
797
00:29:59,781 --> 00:30:01,206
What will it take
to fall in love,
798
00:30:01,358 --> 00:30:03,041
And what do you need from me
799
00:30:03,193 --> 00:30:06,119
Before you would be able
to fall in love with me?
800
00:30:06,138 --> 00:30:09,031
[tender piano music]
801
00:30:09,049 --> 00:30:13,310
♪ ♪
802
00:30:13,537 --> 00:30:14,886
- I want to find
more common ground.
803
00:30:14,980 --> 00:30:16,705
We have our differences,
804
00:30:16,723 --> 00:30:19,483
But I think we both
could benefit from giving
805
00:30:19,710 --> 00:30:21,543
And learning
to find that common ground,
806
00:30:21,562 --> 00:30:24,229
And I feel like us
being on the same page more
807
00:30:24,381 --> 00:30:27,399
Will help a lot
towards me falling in love.
808
00:30:27,551 --> 00:30:29,976
- Okay.
- It's what I want.
809
00:30:29,995 --> 00:30:33,405
I am lucky you're my husband.
810
00:30:33,557 --> 00:30:39,670
♪ ♪
811
00:30:39,821 --> 00:30:41,730
What are you thinking?
812
00:30:41,823 --> 00:30:43,489
- You gotta stop
saying [bleep] like that.
813
00:30:43,509 --> 00:30:46,418
- Why?
'cause it gets you in here?
814
00:30:46,570 --> 00:30:48,070
- Yeah.
815
00:30:48,088 --> 00:30:49,346
You want to kill
this champagne and go to bed?
816
00:30:52,593 --> 00:30:55,427
[upbeat music]
817
00:30:55,579 --> 00:30:57,079
♪ ♪
818
00:30:57,097 --> 00:30:58,838
- [laughs]
819
00:30:58,932 --> 00:31:00,506
- Let's go.
- Okay.
820
00:31:00,526 --> 00:31:04,010
- ♪ is it true ♪
821
00:31:04,029 --> 00:31:06,104
♪ come on,
show me what you can do ♪
822
00:31:06,256 --> 00:31:10,258
♪ show me what you can do ♪
823
00:31:10,277 --> 00:31:11,927
- We're gonna have
to take off these mics.
824
00:31:11,945 --> 00:31:12,870
- Ah, damn it.
825
00:31:17,451 --> 00:31:18,283
- ♪ we're going
in slow motion ♪
826
00:31:18,435 --> 00:31:19,543
♪ spiraling we go ♪
827
00:31:19,770 --> 00:31:20,936
- You ready for
this conversation?
828
00:31:20,954 --> 00:31:22,195
- Yeah.
829
00:31:22,289 --> 00:31:24,530
- Have you been in love before?
830
00:31:24,625 --> 00:31:27,275
- Well, I mean, my answer
has always been I think so,
831
00:31:27,369 --> 00:31:31,054
But who knows?
- You think so.
832
00:31:31,281 --> 00:31:33,281
- I'm pretty confident
I was twice.
833
00:31:33,300 --> 00:31:35,634
- Twice.
- Twice.
834
00:31:35,786 --> 00:31:37,811
- Yeah, twice for me also,
but I'm certain.
835
00:31:39,790 --> 00:31:40,805
- So since you were
so certain...
836
00:31:40,900 --> 00:31:42,215
- Mm-hmm.
837
00:31:42,234 --> 00:31:43,901
- That you were in love...
- Yeah.
838
00:31:44,128 --> 00:31:47,812
- What does it take
to get to that point?
839
00:31:47,907 --> 00:31:50,556
- Um...
840
00:31:50,576 --> 00:31:53,076
I think for me
to fall in love,
841
00:31:53,303 --> 00:31:55,913
I have to feel,
like, reciprocation.
842
00:31:56,064 --> 00:31:58,490
Like, I want to feel like
I'm not there by myself,
843
00:31:58,642 --> 00:32:00,659
Or, like, it's mutual.
844
00:32:00,811 --> 00:32:02,568
The more mutual it is,
845
00:32:02,588 --> 00:32:03,921
Like, the more
I'm ready to just, like,
846
00:32:04,072 --> 00:32:06,072
Open up and give it all.
- Yeah.
847
00:32:06,091 --> 00:32:07,925
- So I think
that's a huge part of it.
848
00:32:08,152 --> 00:32:11,411
And, for me, like,
I'm definitely starting
849
00:32:11,505 --> 00:32:16,158
To, like, feel feelings
that I want to feel for you.
850
00:32:16,176 --> 00:32:19,344
[soft dramatic music]
851
00:32:19,496 --> 00:32:22,272
I think I just want to just
know more about how you feel.
852
00:32:22,499 --> 00:32:25,517
♪ ♪
853
00:32:25,669 --> 00:32:27,686
- I think we're still
on the right path,
854
00:32:27,838 --> 00:32:30,447
But I just don't think
855
00:32:30,674 --> 00:32:33,951
That we're there yet,
emotionally, physically.
856
00:32:36,847 --> 00:32:38,771
- Um, so with that being said,
857
00:32:38,791 --> 00:32:40,457
What's gonna make you
fall in love?
858
00:32:40,684 --> 00:32:42,033
♪ ♪
859
00:32:42,127 --> 00:32:44,035
- [sighs]
860
00:32:44,188 --> 00:32:46,779
I really don't know
'cause I'm still waiting
861
00:32:46,873 --> 00:32:50,192
To feel things that are--
862
00:32:50,210 --> 00:32:53,044
I mean, slower than
I might have anticipated.
863
00:32:53,138 --> 00:32:55,530
♪ ♪
864
00:32:55,549 --> 00:32:58,624
But I will say that,
in my past relationships,
865
00:32:58,719 --> 00:32:59,810
I waited too long.
866
00:33:00,037 --> 00:33:02,537
♪ ♪
867
00:33:02,630 --> 00:33:04,539
Like, I feel like
the other person
868
00:33:04,632 --> 00:33:06,558
Maybe was
more invested initially
869
00:33:06,710 --> 00:33:09,486
In most circumstances with me,
870
00:33:09,637 --> 00:33:12,155
And then I came around,
like, too late at the end.
871
00:33:12,307 --> 00:33:14,716
- So by the time
you came around
872
00:33:14,735 --> 00:33:17,327
To the feeling part, like,
873
00:33:17,554 --> 00:33:19,496
They, like,
ran out of patience?
874
00:33:19,647 --> 00:33:22,833
- I think that's definitely
been the case before.
875
00:33:23,060 --> 00:33:24,409
♪ ♪
876
00:33:24,561 --> 00:33:27,504
- The fact that
he was in a situation
877
00:33:27,655 --> 00:33:30,415
Where he, you know,
didn't open up soon enough,
878
00:33:30,509 --> 00:33:34,903
It definitely concerns me
because it is gonna take him
879
00:33:34,921 --> 00:33:36,738
A lot more time
than maybe I thought,
880
00:33:36,831 --> 00:33:39,090
And I have a lot of patience,
but I'm not waiting forever.
881
00:33:39,184 --> 00:33:41,593
♪ ♪
882
00:33:41,745 --> 00:33:43,353
- It might have had a chance,
883
00:33:43,580 --> 00:33:46,097
But it was just
the timing thing.
884
00:33:46,191 --> 00:33:47,766
- Mm.
885
00:33:47,860 --> 00:33:50,769
♪ ♪
886
00:33:50,863 --> 00:33:52,087
[upbeat music]
887
00:33:52,180 --> 00:33:54,197
- ♪ yeah, I know you feel it ♪
888
00:33:54,424 --> 00:33:56,199
♪ yeah,
I know you feel it ♪
889
00:33:56,426 --> 00:33:58,368
♪ ♪
890
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:01,446
♪ never felt this way before ♪
891
00:34:01,540 --> 00:34:03,540
- Do we answer
all these questions right now?
892
00:34:03,691 --> 00:34:06,025
- Yeah, we can do it.
- Have you been in love before?
893
00:34:06,045 --> 00:34:07,878
Yes.
- Yes.
894
00:34:08,029 --> 00:34:10,438
How did you know
you were in love?
895
00:34:10,457 --> 00:34:13,441
- For me, you want to be
with someone every day.
896
00:34:13,535 --> 00:34:15,293
You want to experience life
with them.
897
00:34:15,445 --> 00:34:17,128
You think of having
a family with them.
898
00:34:17,222 --> 00:34:19,222
- I want to say, kind of,
like, no matter what they do,
899
00:34:19,374 --> 00:34:22,634
Like, you're there for them,
but not blindly, obviously.
900
00:34:22,786 --> 00:34:24,061
- Yeah, not anything.
901
00:34:24,288 --> 00:34:26,212
- Not anything.
It's not blind love.
902
00:34:26,306 --> 00:34:27,972
It's--you know, it's, you know,
the right type of love,
903
00:34:28,125 --> 00:34:28,973
I guess you could say.
904
00:34:29,126 --> 00:34:31,217
[tender acoustic music]
905
00:34:31,311 --> 00:34:32,552
- What do you need from me
906
00:34:32,571 --> 00:34:34,554
Before you would be able
to fall in love?
907
00:34:34,573 --> 00:34:36,556
I think I need you
to be actionable.
908
00:34:36,650 --> 00:34:38,241
Like, I think I've shared this
with you all the time.
909
00:34:38,468 --> 00:34:39,559
Like, you can say
certain things,
910
00:34:39,653 --> 00:34:41,244
But unless I see it,
911
00:34:41,471 --> 00:34:43,305
That's what has
more meaning for me.
912
00:34:43,323 --> 00:34:45,323
Like, you say you love
chocolate chip cookies.
913
00:34:45,475 --> 00:34:48,067
I know for a fact you do
914
00:34:48,087 --> 00:34:50,495
'cause you eat
those things every day,
915
00:34:50,647 --> 00:34:52,664
And you just bought
two more dozen today.
916
00:34:52,816 --> 00:34:54,740
I'm starting to get
a little concerned.
917
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:56,093
- About my
chocolate chip cookies?
918
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:57,594
- Let's talk about this.
- I will--
919
00:34:57,821 --> 00:34:59,321
- I love
chocolate chip cookies too,
920
00:34:59,414 --> 00:35:00,430
But I like the keto ones,
and you--
921
00:35:00,582 --> 00:35:02,099
- Yeah, you like
the fake stuff.
922
00:35:02,326 --> 00:35:03,658
- I will make
healthier versions
923
00:35:03,677 --> 00:35:05,009
Of chocolate chip cookies.
924
00:35:05,104 --> 00:35:05,994
- You'll make
fake chocolate chip cookies.
925
00:35:06,012 --> 00:35:07,771
- I don't call them fake.
926
00:35:07,922 --> 00:35:09,180
- They shouldn't even be called
chocolate chip cookies.
927
00:35:09,333 --> 00:35:10,273
- I call them healthy.
They're really good.
928
00:35:10,500 --> 00:35:12,000
- They should just
be called cookies.
929
00:35:12,018 --> 00:35:13,276
- I'm gonna make some,
and you can try them,
930
00:35:13,428 --> 00:35:14,444
And you can tell me
whether or not they're good.
931
00:35:14,671 --> 00:35:15,687
- I feel like that's
a trademark infringement
932
00:35:15,839 --> 00:35:16,838
By calling them
chocolate chip cookies.
933
00:35:16,857 --> 00:35:18,356
- I know you will
not like my version,
934
00:35:18,508 --> 00:35:19,357
But you can still try them.
- I'll try it.
935
00:35:19,451 --> 00:35:21,192
- I know you will.
936
00:35:21,286 --> 00:35:23,194
[upbeat music]
937
00:35:23,288 --> 00:35:25,605
Do you think you are beginning
to fall in love?
938
00:35:25,699 --> 00:35:28,366
[soft dramatic music]
939
00:35:28,460 --> 00:35:30,293
♪ ♪
940
00:35:30,445 --> 00:35:31,962
I don't know how
I feel about that
941
00:35:32,189 --> 00:35:34,706
Because I feel
like loving someone
942
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:36,524
Is a choice that I make,
and I have to actively
943
00:35:36,618 --> 00:35:38,784
Make that choice
to, like, love someone.
944
00:35:38,804 --> 00:35:40,303
- Isn't everything
in life a choice?
945
00:35:40,530 --> 00:35:41,805
- Everything in life
is a choice,
946
00:35:42,032 --> 00:35:42,881
But you know
some people are like,
947
00:35:43,033 --> 00:35:44,549
"oh, my god, I fell in love."
948
00:35:44,643 --> 00:35:46,384
Like, "you fell in love,
or you decided to fall in love?
949
00:35:46,478 --> 00:35:48,553
Like, you actually chose
to love this person."
950
00:35:48,705 --> 00:35:49,980
- Okay, that's what you mean.
951
00:35:50,131 --> 00:35:51,873
- That's what I mean.
- Okay.
952
00:35:51,892 --> 00:35:53,650
- I try to make sure
that I'm levelheaded
953
00:35:53,877 --> 00:35:55,134
And not just leading
through my heart,
954
00:35:55,154 --> 00:35:56,227
And making sure
that it makes sense
955
00:35:56,380 --> 00:35:57,803
Because I don't really think
956
00:35:57,823 --> 00:35:59,472
That you can ever
fully know someone.
957
00:35:59,566 --> 00:36:01,641
I honestly don't know
how long it's gonna take me
958
00:36:01,660 --> 00:36:04,552
To be able to make
that decision about love.
959
00:36:04,646 --> 00:36:05,996
- What's the question again?
960
00:36:06,147 --> 00:36:07,739
- Do you think you are
beginning to fall in love?
961
00:36:07,891 --> 00:36:08,890
- Mm.
962
00:36:08,909 --> 00:36:10,909
♪ ♪
963
00:36:11,061 --> 00:36:14,078
I think I'm on the route to.
964
00:36:14,231 --> 00:36:15,897
My coordinates are straight.
965
00:36:15,916 --> 00:36:18,750
Like, I'm going
the right direction towards it.
966
00:36:18,902 --> 00:36:21,011
I don't know how far
or close I am to it,
967
00:36:21,238 --> 00:36:24,848
But I feel like
living together 24-7
968
00:36:25,075 --> 00:36:26,683
That's either gonna
make or break it
969
00:36:26,834 --> 00:36:27,926
Personally, eventually.
- Tired of seeing me?
970
00:36:28,078 --> 00:36:29,835
- No, absolutely not.
971
00:36:29,855 --> 00:36:34,933
- ♪ don't you know
you give me that feeling ♪
972
00:36:35,027 --> 00:36:37,027
♪ give me that feeling,
give me that feeling ♪
973
00:36:37,178 --> 00:36:38,678
♪ give me that feeling ♪
974
00:36:38,772 --> 00:36:40,255
- So what do you think
975
00:36:40,273 --> 00:36:44,534
It's gonna take
for you to fall in love?
976
00:36:44,686 --> 00:36:47,429
- I might need a little bit
more understanding.
977
00:36:47,447 --> 00:36:48,947
- Okay.
978
00:36:49,041 --> 00:36:50,932
- Maybe a little bit
more listening to me.
979
00:36:50,951 --> 00:36:53,192
- Mm-hmm, I admit,
I'm a guy, so, I mean,
980
00:36:53,212 --> 00:36:54,860
I'm not saying--
okay, that's a cop-out,
981
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:57,363
But, I mean,
I used to listen very well
982
00:36:57,382 --> 00:36:58,548
Until I got married.
Now, I'm like--
983
00:36:58,700 --> 00:37:02,702
- [laughs]
you used to listen.
984
00:37:02,796 --> 00:37:04,203
You used to work out.
- I used to do all this stuff.
985
00:37:04,223 --> 00:37:06,297
- You used to do
intermittent fasting.
986
00:37:06,391 --> 00:37:08,283
- Then I'm like--I got married.
I'm, like, "whatever."
987
00:37:08,301 --> 00:37:09,968
- Have I just ruined your life?
Oh, my god.
988
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:11,619
- Well, no, it's not ruining.
989
00:37:11,713 --> 00:37:13,730
It's taking me
to a different level
990
00:37:13,881 --> 00:37:15,306
That I haven't been at.
- Change.
991
00:37:15,459 --> 00:37:16,808
- So, yes,
definitely a change for sure.
992
00:37:16,902 --> 00:37:18,626
♪ ♪
993
00:37:18,720 --> 00:37:21,721
- So what can you
actively be doing
994
00:37:21,740 --> 00:37:24,908
To fall in love
in this relationship?
995
00:37:25,059 --> 00:37:26,985
- I mean, I think--
and not to toot my own horn,
996
00:37:27,137 --> 00:37:28,411
But I think everything
I'm already doing.
997
00:37:28,563 --> 00:37:31,397
I mean, yes, it's only
been two weeks, but, again,
998
00:37:31,416 --> 00:37:32,732
Things that I'm picking up on--
999
00:37:32,751 --> 00:37:34,233
The positives,
and what you like--
1000
00:37:34,327 --> 00:37:35,752
Clearly, I'm gonna do those.
1001
00:37:35,903 --> 00:37:39,147
So I'm gonna show you
by "listening" as well,
1002
00:37:39,165 --> 00:37:42,259
Which I gotta be more--
1003
00:37:42,410 --> 00:37:45,670
- I definitely think there's
some communication issues.
1004
00:37:45,764 --> 00:37:48,339
Like, you ask a question,
and he's just thinking about
1005
00:37:48,492 --> 00:37:51,175
The next thing he's gonna say
instead of listening to me.
1006
00:37:51,270 --> 00:37:53,678
I gotta make sure
he's giving me eye contact.
1007
00:37:53,772 --> 00:37:55,663
I gotta make sure
he's not looking at his phone.
1008
00:37:55,757 --> 00:37:57,665
I just--
I have strategies for it.
1009
00:37:57,684 --> 00:37:59,109
Okay, I was about to say.
1010
00:37:59,260 --> 00:38:01,594
- I'm gonna start
listening more.
1011
00:38:01,613 --> 00:38:04,172
- That's fine.
- I will. I will. I will.
1012
00:38:04,190 --> 00:38:05,598
- I will--
1013
00:38:05,617 --> 00:38:07,117
- Okay, so that's not,
like, my forte,
1014
00:38:07,344 --> 00:38:08,526
And that's not
what I really, like--
1015
00:38:08,620 --> 00:38:10,120
- And that's okay.
- But I'm gonna get there.
1016
00:38:10,347 --> 00:38:11,621
- As long
as you're acknowledging
1017
00:38:11,848 --> 00:38:13,031
And you work on it...
- I'm trying.
1018
00:38:13,183 --> 00:38:14,440
- That's all I can ask for.
That's okay.
1019
00:38:14,459 --> 00:38:16,034
- Maybe you tell me twice.
How about that?
1020
00:38:16,186 --> 00:38:18,611
- Listen?
- No, not to listen.
1021
00:38:18,630 --> 00:38:19,963
You tell me whatever
you want me to do twice.
1022
00:38:20,114 --> 00:38:21,464
- Do?
- Yeah.
1023
00:38:21,691 --> 00:38:22,966
- I just need you to listen.
- Okay.
1024
00:38:23,193 --> 00:38:24,526
So maybe you
say "listen" twice then.
1025
00:38:24,544 --> 00:38:25,951
♪ ♪
1026
00:38:25,971 --> 00:38:27,137
I'm gonna try.
1027
00:38:27,288 --> 00:38:28,471
I see that I talk
a [bleep] ton,
1028
00:38:28,698 --> 00:38:29,789
And I need to listen
a little more.
1029
00:38:29,883 --> 00:38:31,549
- And I love that.
And--I do.
1030
00:38:31,643 --> 00:38:32,976
- And so that's why
I'm like, "okay, cool."
1031
00:38:33,127 --> 00:38:34,369
- You can talk my ear off,
and I won't complain.
1032
00:38:34,387 --> 00:38:36,371
I tell you right now
I will not complain.
1033
00:38:36,464 --> 00:38:37,872
- I need that
in writing though.
1034
00:38:37,891 --> 00:38:39,541
- You can get that in writing.
- And probably in blood.
1035
00:38:39,559 --> 00:38:41,484
- But you have to listen too.
- I'm trying!
1036
00:38:41,636 --> 00:38:42,560
- That's all I ask for.
- It's a work-in-progress.
1037
00:38:42,654 --> 00:38:43,561
I'm working on it.
1038
00:38:43,655 --> 00:38:45,730
[quirky music]
1039
00:38:45,882 --> 00:38:47,473
I think I struggle
with listening
1040
00:38:47,492 --> 00:38:51,644
Only because, again, like, I--
I mean, I hear you,
1041
00:38:51,663 --> 00:38:54,146
And I don't want to--
I mean, it's not a cop-out,
1042
00:38:54,166 --> 00:38:55,907
But I think,
as a man, like, you know,
1043
00:38:56,059 --> 00:38:58,984
Kind of--I don't know.
1044
00:38:59,004 --> 00:39:02,154
We listen, but we don't hear.
1045
00:39:02,174 --> 00:39:03,898
So I hear you,
but I'm not listening,
1046
00:39:03,917 --> 00:39:05,324
Because I'm maybe
doing something else.
1047
00:39:05,418 --> 00:39:07,010
I think I may want to talk
1048
00:39:07,161 --> 00:39:09,161
A little bit more
than I listen.
1049
00:39:09,181 --> 00:39:12,849
So have you
ever been in love before?
1050
00:39:13,076 --> 00:39:17,912
- Yes, or so I thought,
but it was a feeling
1051
00:39:17,931 --> 00:39:20,598
I had never felt before.
It was an intense feeling.
1052
00:39:20,750 --> 00:39:22,341
- Sometimes you can say
you're in love,
1053
00:39:22,361 --> 00:39:23,935
But the actions
don't support that.
1054
00:39:24,087 --> 00:39:25,695
- Yeah.
Oh, yeah.
1055
00:39:25,847 --> 00:39:27,605
- You know, and I think,
for me, if I've ever been
1056
00:39:27,699 --> 00:39:30,925
In love before,
I don't--I wouldn't say yes.
1057
00:39:31,018 --> 00:39:32,777
- You've never
been in love before?
1058
00:39:32,929 --> 00:39:35,096
- It's been a strong like.
It's been a very strong like.
1059
00:39:35,115 --> 00:39:37,207
But I--it just--
I mean, I don't know.
1060
00:39:37,358 --> 00:39:38,616
It's like they say,
1061
00:39:38,768 --> 00:39:40,043
You know--
like, when you know, you know.
1062
00:39:40,194 --> 00:39:41,603
- Yeah.
And you didn't feel that.
1063
00:39:41,696 --> 00:39:42,954
- It just wasn't there for me.
- Yeah.
1064
00:39:43,106 --> 00:39:44,105
- I mean, it was great and all.
1065
00:39:44,198 --> 00:39:45,940
It was
a wonderful relationship,
1066
00:39:45,959 --> 00:39:47,291
But, unfortunately,
I couldn't get past
1067
00:39:47,444 --> 00:39:49,535
The fact that she had kids.
1068
00:39:49,554 --> 00:39:51,388
For me, unfortunately,
I did not want to be inserted.
1069
00:39:51,539 --> 00:39:53,114
I want everything my own
1070
00:39:53,207 --> 00:39:56,375
From the very beginning,
scratch, and--no.
1071
00:39:56,395 --> 00:39:58,119
- So how long were
y'all together?
1072
00:39:58,138 --> 00:39:59,637
- It was more than,
like, four years.
1073
00:39:59,731 --> 00:40:02,290
♪ ♪
1074
00:40:02,383 --> 00:40:04,067
- Years?
And you strongly liked them?
1075
00:40:04,218 --> 00:40:05,309
- But it--yes, but--yes.
1076
00:40:05,404 --> 00:40:07,311
♪ ♪
1077
00:40:07,406 --> 00:40:08,571
You know, it was
a very, very, very strong like
1078
00:40:08,798 --> 00:40:10,073
Because we did
everything together,
1079
00:40:10,224 --> 00:40:12,057
And it was so badass,
and, you know, we had fun,
1080
00:40:12,077 --> 00:40:14,819
But I just--I could not
see myself married to her,
1081
00:40:14,913 --> 00:40:17,396
Unfortunately,
but, yeah, so that was that.
1082
00:40:17,490 --> 00:40:20,975
- I'm shocked that jose
says he's never been in love.
1083
00:40:20,994 --> 00:40:23,978
He's been in relationships
that have lasted years,
1084
00:40:24,071 --> 00:40:27,498
So I just can't imagine,
you know,
1085
00:40:27,651 --> 00:40:29,241
How long is it gonna take jose
1086
00:40:29,261 --> 00:40:31,335
To actually
fall in love with me?
1087
00:40:31,430 --> 00:40:32,837
♪ ♪
1088
00:40:32,931 --> 00:40:34,989
- So what do you--
1089
00:40:35,008 --> 00:40:37,659
- Four years,
really strong liking somebody.
1090
00:40:37,677 --> 00:40:39,327
- Yeah.
Yes.
1091
00:40:39,345 --> 00:40:42,272
♪ ♪
1092
00:40:46,853 --> 00:40:48,778
- Every time I look at you ♪
1093
00:40:48,930 --> 00:40:50,188
♪ my heart flutters ♪
1094
00:40:50,340 --> 00:40:51,448
- This is perfect.
1095
00:40:51,599 --> 00:40:52,782
- What do you mean
it's perfect?
1096
00:40:53,009 --> 00:40:54,175
- Like, just, like, the whole--
- the place?
1097
00:40:54,194 --> 00:40:54,859
- Yeah, the place.
Have you been here before?
1098
00:40:54,953 --> 00:40:56,010
- This place is awesome.
1099
00:40:56,103 --> 00:40:57,011
No, I've never
even heard of it.
1100
00:40:57,030 --> 00:40:58,012
I haven't come to midtown in...
1101
00:40:58,031 --> 00:40:59,772
- Yeah.
- A very long time.
1102
00:40:59,791 --> 00:41:02,033
But this is
absolutely phenomenal.
1103
00:41:02,185 --> 00:41:04,018
- Last night,
michaela and I made up,
1104
00:41:04,037 --> 00:41:05,277
And tonight, we just want
to get out of the house,
1105
00:41:05,371 --> 00:41:06,704
And I think
a change of scenery
1106
00:41:06,798 --> 00:41:08,539
Would definitely do us good.
1107
00:41:08,692 --> 00:41:11,192
- [bleep] give me a headache.
I don't like sweet drinks.
1108
00:41:11,211 --> 00:41:12,785
We talked about this.
Like, I'm a--
1109
00:41:12,804 --> 00:41:16,455
- Yeah, I hate sweet drinks.
- I'm a whiskey/bourbon girl.
1110
00:41:16,475 --> 00:41:17,865
- I'm gonna take it slow still,
1111
00:41:17,959 --> 00:41:19,792
And I want to make sure
that we do this right,
1112
00:41:19,811 --> 00:41:21,794
Because I want to get back
to where we were,
1113
00:41:21,813 --> 00:41:25,223
And I think going on dates
often helps us build, you know,
1114
00:41:25,375 --> 00:41:28,300
Our connection and helps us
set that foundation
1115
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:31,729
That we can expand on.
1116
00:41:31,881 --> 00:41:33,639
Okay, so
I guess the first question
1117
00:41:33,658 --> 00:41:35,307
Is "have you
been in love before?"
1118
00:41:35,327 --> 00:41:36,734
- No.
1119
00:41:36,886 --> 00:41:38,720
- No?
I have not either.
1120
00:41:38,738 --> 00:41:39,812
- Have you been in love? Okay.
- No, I have not been in love.
1121
00:41:39,906 --> 00:41:40,997
Why haven't you
been in love before?
1122
00:41:41,148 --> 00:41:43,057
- Um... [chuckles]
1123
00:41:43,076 --> 00:41:46,561
I think it's because
the relationships
1124
00:41:46,654 --> 00:41:48,746
Where I thought
it could go somewhere
1125
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:52,008
Ended for some kind of
genuine significant reason.
1126
00:41:52,159 --> 00:41:54,919
- Mm-hmm.
- And that reason was...
1127
00:41:55,071 --> 00:41:56,921
- Wait, so, you could
have fallen in love?
1128
00:41:57,015 --> 00:41:58,589
- I think so.
1129
00:41:58,742 --> 00:41:59,665
Yeah, I think I could have
fallen in love twice.
1130
00:41:59,684 --> 00:42:01,518
- Interesting.
- Yeah, but--
1131
00:42:01,745 --> 00:42:04,354
- Because of the distance?
Because they didn't live here?
1132
00:42:04,505 --> 00:42:06,505
- Because of
life circumstances.
1133
00:42:06,525 --> 00:42:08,525
- Interesting,
so I'm jealous
1134
00:42:08,676 --> 00:42:10,768
Because I've actually never
thought I could be in love
1135
00:42:10,862 --> 00:42:13,254
With any of the women
I've ever talked to,
1136
00:42:13,273 --> 00:42:15,439
And it's because,
like, I have this--
1137
00:42:15,592 --> 00:42:19,427
Or I had this ideal of,
like, you know, my future wife,
1138
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:22,521
And, you know, my the one.
1139
00:42:22,615 --> 00:42:25,783
And, you know,
if someone didn't meet--
1140
00:42:25,935 --> 00:42:27,602
Or check all those boxes,
then, like, I knew
1141
00:42:27,620 --> 00:42:28,953
It wouldn't--
it wasn't gonna work out.
1142
00:42:29,105 --> 00:42:30,104
Since then, I've definitely,
1143
00:42:30,197 --> 00:42:31,455
Like, stopped thinking
like that
1144
00:42:31,608 --> 00:42:33,274
Because it's not beneficial
to anyone involved.
1145
00:42:33,367 --> 00:42:35,610
But, you know--
- what was on that checklist?
1146
00:42:35,628 --> 00:42:37,295
[soft dramatic music]
1147
00:42:37,447 --> 00:42:38,446
- You know, looks, like,
was up there for me.
1148
00:42:38,464 --> 00:42:39,797
- Mm-hmm.
1149
00:42:39,949 --> 00:42:41,057
- So, if I
wasn't attracted to her,
1150
00:42:41,284 --> 00:42:43,042
Then it was
never gonna work out.
1151
00:42:43,061 --> 00:42:46,637
Someone who's, like, ambitious
and, you know, intelligent.
1152
00:42:46,790 --> 00:42:49,381
Can she be adaptable
to different people?
1153
00:42:49,401 --> 00:42:51,401
Trust--like, if I think
there's no, like--
1154
00:42:51,628 --> 00:42:53,978
If I think she
is dishonest or not loyal,
1155
00:42:54,130 --> 00:42:55,738
Then, like, that's also,
1156
00:42:55,965 --> 00:42:59,558
Like, you know,
a box she needs to check.
1157
00:42:59,578 --> 00:43:02,486
You know, the way, like,
people handle conflict, right?
1158
00:43:02,639 --> 00:43:06,231
You know, is she,
like, mature in the way
1159
00:43:06,251 --> 00:43:08,142
She handles [bleep],
or is she not?
1160
00:43:08,161 --> 00:43:10,420
♪ ♪
1161
00:43:10,571 --> 00:43:12,237
So, like, I think,
when I fall in love,
1162
00:43:12,332 --> 00:43:13,739
That woman would check
all those boxes,
1163
00:43:13,758 --> 00:43:15,074
You know what I mean?
1164
00:43:15,168 --> 00:43:16,909
- I'm listening
to the checklist,
1165
00:43:16,928 --> 00:43:19,262
And it seems kind of stringent
for me, and I'm like, "eh."
1166
00:43:19,413 --> 00:43:22,657
You know, do I really feel
comfortable in my own sense,
1167
00:43:22,750 --> 00:43:26,085
To say, "okay,
I think I can do,
1168
00:43:26,104 --> 00:43:27,586
"you know,
one, two, and three.
1169
00:43:27,606 --> 00:43:28,830
"I don't know
about four and five.
1170
00:43:28,848 --> 00:43:30,665
I don't know about that."
1171
00:43:30,758 --> 00:43:32,424
So--but I think it was
a very good understanding
1172
00:43:32,444 --> 00:43:34,426
To see how he thinks,
1173
00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:37,021
How he, you know,
process things,
1174
00:43:37,173 --> 00:43:40,599
And whether or not
I fit into that "tetris,"
1175
00:43:40,693 --> 00:43:41,409
But we'll see.
1176
00:43:43,847 --> 00:43:47,957
- Okay, so, do you think you
are beginning to fall in love?
1177
00:43:52,613 --> 00:43:54,038
- [chuckles]
1178
00:43:54,132 --> 00:43:56,858
That's a--yeah,
that's a intense question.
1179
00:43:56,876 --> 00:44:00,285
I think,
a couple of weeks ago, I was.
1180
00:44:00,380 --> 00:44:01,863
And so I was like,
1181
00:44:01,956 --> 00:44:03,455
"well, what is this feeling
that I'm feeling?"
1182
00:44:03,475 --> 00:44:04,807
Right?
1183
00:44:05,034 --> 00:44:06,458
"let me figure out
what this is.
1184
00:44:06,478 --> 00:44:10,037
What does it mean?"
so then I was.
1185
00:44:10,056 --> 00:44:11,038
- Mm-hmm.
1186
00:44:11,057 --> 00:44:12,798
♪ ♪
1187
00:44:12,892 --> 00:44:14,392
- What about you?
- Oh, but--hold up.
1188
00:44:14,486 --> 00:44:16,210
You said then you were,
but what about now though?
1189
00:44:16,229 --> 00:44:18,137
♪ ♪
1190
00:44:18,231 --> 00:44:20,548
- Now, to be 100% honest...
1191
00:44:20,641 --> 00:44:22,733
- Yeah.
- I am guarded.
1192
00:44:22,827 --> 00:44:24,719
- Why are you guarded?
1193
00:44:24,737 --> 00:44:26,721
- Uh, because of just
the past couple of days.
1194
00:44:26,739 --> 00:44:27,997
- Mm-hmm.
1195
00:44:28,224 --> 00:44:29,073
- And I'm not going back
to, like...
1196
00:44:29,167 --> 00:44:30,391
- Mm-hmm.
- Talk about that.
1197
00:44:30,410 --> 00:44:31,834
- Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
1198
00:44:31,986 --> 00:44:34,729
- But it just--it did
help me take a step back,
1199
00:44:34,747 --> 00:44:36,321
And then it's
let me just actually see
1200
00:44:36,341 --> 00:44:38,841
If this is a truly viable
relationship for my future.
1201
00:44:39,068 --> 00:44:40,659
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
1202
00:44:40,753 --> 00:44:44,071
- But I honestly do believe
we're gonna get back to--
1203
00:44:44,165 --> 00:44:45,406
We're gonna work on it
together.
1204
00:44:45,425 --> 00:44:46,498
- Mm-hmm.
1205
00:44:46,592 --> 00:44:48,576
[tender music]
1206
00:44:48,594 --> 00:44:51,187
I think, for me, personally,
you know,
1207
00:44:51,338 --> 00:44:53,672
I don't know if I'm
beginning to fall in love,
1208
00:44:53,692 --> 00:44:55,507
But, [bleep], I hope
this is the beginning.
1209
00:44:55,527 --> 00:44:56,842
You know what I mean?
1210
00:44:56,936 --> 00:44:58,436
When I lose interest,
like, it's gone,
1211
00:44:58,588 --> 00:45:00,087
And I have never been able
to get back from, like, that.
1212
00:45:00,106 --> 00:45:01,364
- Mm-hmm.
1213
00:45:01,515 --> 00:45:02,532
- But maybe
with this situation,
1214
00:45:02,683 --> 00:45:04,200
I may look back at it
and say...
1215
00:45:08,097 --> 00:45:09,205
So you know how I said,
like, I want to work...
1216
00:45:09,432 --> 00:45:10,689
- Mm-hmm.
- To get back to where we were?
1217
00:45:10,709 --> 00:45:11,949
Like, this is
what I mean by that.
1218
00:45:12,101 --> 00:45:13,100
Like, doing stuff like this.
1219
00:45:13,119 --> 00:45:15,027
♪ ♪
1220
00:45:15,121 --> 00:45:16,212
You know,
how I'm feeling tonight
1221
00:45:16,439 --> 00:45:17,772
And how tonight went
is exactly
1222
00:45:17,865 --> 00:45:20,274
What I wanted to happen
to get us back on track.
1223
00:45:20,367 --> 00:45:22,201
I think
we're on the right path.
1224
00:45:22,220 --> 00:45:23,961
I'm into michaela.
I want this to work.
1225
00:45:24,113 --> 00:45:26,130
And so I want
to continue moving forward.
1226
00:45:26,282 --> 00:45:28,391
I want to keep having nights
like these, days like these,
1227
00:45:28,618 --> 00:45:31,710
To kind of get us to, you know,
to fall in love, right?
1228
00:45:31,804 --> 00:45:33,212
To being happily married.
1229
00:45:33,306 --> 00:45:35,806
So with everything
that has happened,
1230
00:45:35,900 --> 00:45:37,975
I'm actually happy,
you know, where we are,
1231
00:45:38,127 --> 00:45:41,462
And, you know,
I wasn't feeling too happy,
1232
00:45:41,555 --> 00:45:43,814
You know, a couple days ago,
1233
00:45:43,908 --> 00:45:46,391
But I think right now,
like, I'm definitely, like--
1234
00:45:46,486 --> 00:45:47,910
I can definitely see
a path forward.
1235
00:45:48,137 --> 00:45:50,471
I can say that.
- This is good.
1236
00:45:50,490 --> 00:45:53,491
Like, today's good.
- Yeah.
1237
00:45:53,643 --> 00:45:55,476
I'm happy.
I'm happy as [bleep].
1238
00:45:55,569 --> 00:45:58,070
- ♪ you know that you're
quite the catch ♪
1239
00:45:58,089 --> 00:46:01,482
♪ you know that you're
much more than that ♪
1240
00:46:01,501 --> 00:46:03,408
♪ ♪
1241
00:46:03,503 --> 00:46:06,504
[upbeat music]
1242
00:46:06,656 --> 00:46:09,581
- I'm feeling optimistic.
1243
00:46:09,601 --> 00:46:12,101
As you can see,
1244
00:46:12,328 --> 00:46:15,679
The pillow barricade
1245
00:46:15,832 --> 00:46:18,775
Has disappeared between us.
1246
00:46:19,002 --> 00:46:20,610
I am now big spoon.
1247
00:46:20,837 --> 00:46:22,761
♪ ♪
1248
00:46:22,781 --> 00:46:27,525
He still has pillows in front.
1249
00:46:27,619 --> 00:46:31,603
But magically,
1250
00:46:31,623 --> 00:46:34,682
The pillows
dividing us disappeared.
1251
00:46:34,775 --> 00:46:38,461
So I feel this is progress
1252
00:46:38,688 --> 00:46:40,588
In our relationship.
1253
00:46:42,283 --> 00:46:46,544
I'm worming my way
into his heart...
1254
00:46:46,638 --> 00:46:48,029
Like a parasite.
1255
00:46:48,047 --> 00:46:51,532
♪ ♪
1256
00:46:51,551 --> 00:46:53,200
I told you I would do it.
1257
00:46:53,219 --> 00:46:55,394
♪ ♪
1258
00:47:00,134 --> 00:47:01,466
- ♪ you know
just what I like ♪
1259
00:47:01,486 --> 00:47:03,152
♪ you make it feel all right ♪
1260
00:47:03,304 --> 00:47:05,212
♪ you knock it out of sight ♪
1261
00:47:05,231 --> 00:47:06,989
- All of our couples
got married at first sight
1262
00:47:07,141 --> 00:47:10,401
To find the person they could
build a lifelong bond with
1263
00:47:10,553 --> 00:47:11,994
And ultimately fall in love.
1264
00:47:12,221 --> 00:47:15,981
- Babe, hey.
- Hi, I brought food.
1265
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:18,150
- But in order
to create that feeling,
1266
00:47:18,169 --> 00:47:20,744
They must be willing
to become completely vulnerable
1267
00:47:20,897 --> 00:47:22,079
With their spouses.
1268
00:47:22,231 --> 00:47:23,840
- How are you?
- I want to try.
1269
00:47:23,991 --> 00:47:26,750
- So we're encouraging
every one of our couples
1270
00:47:26,903 --> 00:47:29,070
To plan special dates
for each other.
1271
00:47:29,088 --> 00:47:31,013
It's our hope that this
will ignite that spark
1272
00:47:31,165 --> 00:47:34,517
That will ultimately lead
to love and a forever marriage.
1273
00:47:34,744 --> 00:47:37,002
- I was working on
a little something for us.
1274
00:47:37,021 --> 00:47:38,746
What is one thing
that you don't have,
1275
00:47:38,764 --> 00:47:40,414
That you always wanted?
1276
00:47:40,507 --> 00:47:42,099
- One thing
that I don't have...
1277
00:47:42,193 --> 00:47:44,585
- Yeah, think about it.
- That I've always wanted.
1278
00:47:44,604 --> 00:47:46,921
- Always.
- A porsche.
1279
00:47:47,014 --> 00:47:48,606
- A porsche!
Okay, close.
1280
00:47:48,758 --> 00:47:50,349
- Just kidding.
I got the husband, check.
1281
00:47:50,368 --> 00:47:52,259
- Let's go--aww.
1282
00:47:52,353 --> 00:47:53,202
All right,
so I'll help you out.
1283
00:47:53,354 --> 00:47:54,871
- Oh, it's--
1284
00:47:55,022 --> 00:47:57,540
- So one thing you've
always wanted is coasters.
1285
00:47:57,767 --> 00:48:00,042
- Oh, my god,
we desperately need coasters.
1286
00:48:00,269 --> 00:48:01,711
- So check this out.
This is so cool, I think.
1287
00:48:01,938 --> 00:48:03,546
So, these are,
like, scrabble pieces.
1288
00:48:03,697 --> 00:48:04,529
We'll create little...
- Okay.
1289
00:48:04,624 --> 00:48:06,698
- Like, words or whatever.
1290
00:48:06,718 --> 00:48:08,459
The experts' cards got me
kind of thinking, as well,
1291
00:48:08,611 --> 00:48:10,461
In regards to, like, love
1292
00:48:10,555 --> 00:48:12,704
And, you know, where we're at,
and I was like, "okay,
1293
00:48:12,798 --> 00:48:14,206
This would be kind of cool
that we could do together."
1294
00:48:14,225 --> 00:48:15,633
- I would have never
thought of this.
1295
00:48:15,785 --> 00:48:17,968
I would have just
moseyed on down to target
1296
00:48:18,121 --> 00:48:19,620
And bought coasters.
[laughs]
1297
00:48:19,639 --> 00:48:26,402
♪ ♪
1298
00:48:28,389 --> 00:48:30,131
- "hubby and wifey."
I love it.
1299
00:48:30,224 --> 00:48:32,149
- Okay, so,
I hate to bring it up.
1300
00:48:32,243 --> 00:48:34,318
- Mm-hmm.
1301
00:48:34,470 --> 00:48:35,912
- The whole, like, you've never
been in love thing was like,
1302
00:48:36,063 --> 00:48:37,821
"oh, interesting."
1303
00:48:37,916 --> 00:48:39,749
Was there anything I said
that you were like, "huh"?
1304
00:48:39,900 --> 00:48:43,144
- Yeah.
Catamaran, honeymoon.
1305
00:48:43,162 --> 00:48:45,663
♪ ♪
1306
00:48:45,757 --> 00:48:48,174
- Never have I ever...
1307
00:48:49,260 --> 00:48:50,575
- Oh!
1308
00:48:50,670 --> 00:48:53,988
- Damn, I married a cheater.
1309
00:48:54,006 --> 00:48:55,580
So you've cheated before.
1310
00:48:55,675 --> 00:48:59,101
- Oh.
Yeah, I have.
1311
00:49:02,774 --> 00:49:04,589
I was kind of like, "huh,
he hasn't asked about it."
1312
00:49:04,684 --> 00:49:06,000
I was like, "oh, well, I'm
not gonna tell him about it."
1313
00:49:06,093 --> 00:49:07,426
- Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Mm-hmm.
1314
00:49:07,445 --> 00:49:10,187
- So...
- Yeah, that's tonight, yep.
1315
00:49:10,281 --> 00:49:12,615
- It was with
my eight-year relationship.
1316
00:49:12,766 --> 00:49:15,284
It happened on year two.
- Okay.
1317
00:49:15,436 --> 00:49:18,603
- I went out, girls night.
Alcohol was involved.
1318
00:49:18,623 --> 00:49:21,457
Ran into someone
that I knew from my past.
1319
00:49:21,684 --> 00:49:23,033
- Okay.
- And it happened, you know?
1320
00:49:23,127 --> 00:49:24,201
- Okay.
1321
00:49:24,353 --> 00:49:25,703
- And the very next day,
1322
00:49:25,855 --> 00:49:27,688
I had to tell my boyfriend
what happened.
1323
00:49:27,781 --> 00:49:29,023
Of course, upset,
and we broke up.
1324
00:49:29,041 --> 00:49:30,615
- And you were with him
for eight years.
1325
00:49:30,635 --> 00:49:32,117
- Well, this happened
on year two...
1326
00:49:32,136 --> 00:49:33,877
- Oh, okay.
- And it continued, so...
1327
00:49:33,972 --> 00:49:35,379
- Oh, so he still,
like, forgave you then.
1328
00:49:35,531 --> 00:49:37,198
- Thankfully, I was forgiven.
1329
00:49:37,216 --> 00:49:38,474
[soft dramatic music]
1330
00:49:38,625 --> 00:49:40,959
Since then,
I learned very well.
1331
00:49:40,979 --> 00:49:43,721
Do not put yourself
in situations
1332
00:49:43,815 --> 00:49:45,706
That could lead to that.
1333
00:49:45,725 --> 00:49:47,316
- So, you know,
it's funny you say that
1334
00:49:47,543 --> 00:49:49,151
Because my brother-in-law
always put it best to me.
1335
00:49:49,378 --> 00:49:51,395
"if you go
to the barbershop enough,
1336
00:49:51,547 --> 00:49:53,547
You're gonna get a haircut."
1337
00:49:53,566 --> 00:49:55,232
Meaning if you put yourself
in those types of situations...
1338
00:49:55,326 --> 00:49:57,051
- Yeah.
1339
00:49:57,069 --> 00:49:58,995
- Unfortunately, sometimes,
those things will happen.
1340
00:50:01,057 --> 00:50:03,648
As we get closer
to saying "I love you"
1341
00:50:03,743 --> 00:50:06,985
And talking about it,
for me, before I can get there,
1342
00:50:07,005 --> 00:50:09,413
I need to know that,
hey, am I gonna get cheated on?
1343
00:50:09,565 --> 00:50:10,731
I hate to say this,
1344
00:50:10,750 --> 00:50:12,824
But once a cheater,
always a cheater.
1345
00:50:12,844 --> 00:50:14,176
But she's
a different woman now,
1346
00:50:14,328 --> 00:50:16,237
I'm hoping.
1347
00:50:16,255 --> 00:50:18,922
And I can tell you that
if it happened to me,
1348
00:50:19,075 --> 00:50:22,760
And my wife cheated on me,
that I would not forgive her.
1349
00:50:22,854 --> 00:50:26,838
So let me ask you
a tough, hot seat question.
1350
00:50:26,858 --> 00:50:28,098
- Okay.
- Okay, so now we're married.
1351
00:50:28,192 --> 00:50:29,841
- Uh-huh.
1352
00:50:29,861 --> 00:50:31,435
- You have cheated before
in the past unfortunately.
1353
00:50:31,529 --> 00:50:33,420
- Uh-huh.
1354
00:50:33,439 --> 00:50:36,032
- How can I be comfortable
with this girls night
1355
00:50:36,259 --> 00:50:38,108
That you're maybe
gonna have one day?
1356
00:50:38,202 --> 00:50:40,018
- Like, the bachelorette party?
- Something.
1357
00:50:40,112 --> 00:50:41,520
And know that, hey, you know
what, my wife's going out.
1358
00:50:41,539 --> 00:50:42,872
She's gonna have a good time,
1359
00:50:43,099 --> 00:50:45,190
But I don't have
to worry about this.
1360
00:50:45,209 --> 00:50:47,768
- You honestly
will just have to trust me.
1361
00:50:47,861 --> 00:50:49,787
- ♪ shadows in the dark ♪
1362
00:50:49,939 --> 00:50:51,881
♪ how did it get this far? ♪
1363
00:50:52,108 --> 00:50:56,110
♪ ♪
1364
00:50:56,128 --> 00:50:58,128
- ♪ I didn't know,
I didn't know ♪
1365
00:50:58,281 --> 00:51:01,039
♪ what you wanted ♪
1366
00:51:01,059 --> 00:51:02,558
- I can tell
you've been eating
1367
00:51:02,709 --> 00:51:04,134
Chocolate chip cookies,
husband.
1368
00:51:04,287 --> 00:51:06,562
- You can tell what?
1369
00:51:06,789 --> 00:51:07,971
- You've been eating
chocolate chip cookies.
1370
00:51:08,124 --> 00:51:09,065
- How can you tell?
1371
00:51:09,292 --> 00:51:12,793
- The bag looks
a little emptier.
1372
00:51:12,812 --> 00:51:14,219
- Yes, I've been eating
chocolate chip cookies
1373
00:51:14,238 --> 00:51:17,147
'cause they're in there
to be eaten.
1374
00:51:17,241 --> 00:51:20,392
And they taste so, so good.
- [whispers inaudibly]
1375
00:51:20,411 --> 00:51:24,729
- You gonna eat all of that?
- I think so.
1376
00:51:24,749 --> 00:51:27,899
You see, the love
for mac and cheese is deep
1377
00:51:27,919 --> 00:51:30,753
Just like
your chocolate chip cookies.
1378
00:51:30,980 --> 00:51:32,496
- Well,
that's a deep love, then.
1379
00:51:32,590 --> 00:51:34,665
[chuckles]
1380
00:51:34,817 --> 00:51:36,408
I got married at first sight
1381
00:51:36,427 --> 00:51:38,594
To fall in love
and find that person
1382
00:51:38,821 --> 00:51:40,504
I want to spend
the rest of my life with,
1383
00:51:40,656 --> 00:51:42,765
And I think that we're moving
in the right direction.
1384
00:51:42,916 --> 00:51:45,250
You ready?
- I was born ready.
1385
00:51:45,344 --> 00:51:48,846
- Oh, big talk.
1386
00:51:48,998 --> 00:51:51,014
But my wife believes a person
1387
00:51:51,167 --> 00:51:53,258
Chooses to fall in love
with somebody.
1388
00:51:53,277 --> 00:51:55,778
They don't
just magically fall in love.
1389
00:51:55,929 --> 00:51:59,340
And so it's one of those things
where I don't believe
1390
00:51:59,358 --> 00:52:02,267
That she has made
that decision yet,
1391
00:52:02,286 --> 00:52:04,603
So I want my actions
to show her that, you know,
1392
00:52:04,622 --> 00:52:06,363
I'm in this for the long haul,
1393
00:52:06,515 --> 00:52:08,124
And I'm willing to do
whatever it takes.
1394
00:52:10,186 --> 00:52:12,128
So before we go to bed,
1395
00:52:12,279 --> 00:52:13,778
How about
I give you a foot rub?
1396
00:52:13,873 --> 00:52:15,780
- Okay.
- Yeah?
1397
00:52:15,875 --> 00:52:17,374
You cool with that?
- Sure.
1398
00:52:17,526 --> 00:52:18,801
- Why are you laughing?
1399
00:52:20,863 --> 00:52:24,140
- Because you're weird.
That's why.
1400
00:52:24,291 --> 00:52:27,959
- Well, I will warn you,
my hands are, like, magic.
1401
00:52:27,979 --> 00:52:30,980
So you ready
for this romantic gesture?
1402
00:52:31,131 --> 00:52:32,222
- Sure thing, boss.
1403
00:52:32,316 --> 00:52:35,209
[upbeat music]
1404
00:52:35,227 --> 00:52:39,321
♪ ♪
1405
00:52:39,473 --> 00:52:41,231
- What type of pressure
you like on your feet?
1406
00:52:41,325 --> 00:52:42,974
♪ ♪
1407
00:52:42,994 --> 00:52:44,660
- I don't know.
Like, normal pressure.
1408
00:52:44,887 --> 00:52:47,496
- ♪ you can put
a weight on me ♪
1409
00:52:47,648 --> 00:52:49,740
♪ I'll carry your love, girl ♪
1410
00:52:49,834 --> 00:52:51,000
♪ ♪
1411
00:52:51,151 --> 00:52:52,576
♪ whenever you feel low down ♪
1412
00:52:52,670 --> 00:52:54,503
♪ ♪
1413
00:52:54,655 --> 00:52:56,413
♪ when you're feeling heavy ♪
1414
00:52:56,565 --> 00:52:58,841
- How's this feel?
Good?
1415
00:52:58,992 --> 00:53:00,751
- I think, for me, it feels
a lot better when I'm just,
1416
00:53:00,845 --> 00:53:04,087
Like, tired, you know?
Like, if my feet hurt.
1417
00:53:04,240 --> 00:53:05,589
- Does your feet hurt
right now?
1418
00:53:05,683 --> 00:53:06,998
- No.
- Okay.
1419
00:53:07,018 --> 00:53:07,925
- 'cause, you know,
I work from home.
1420
00:53:08,077 --> 00:53:10,019
[laughs]
1421
00:53:11,931 --> 00:53:14,506
If I had to rate
my husband's foot massage,
1422
00:53:14,525 --> 00:53:16,841
I would say
it's like a five-ish.
1423
00:53:16,861 --> 00:53:19,086
Okay, that's a little hard.
- Is it?
1424
00:53:19,104 --> 00:53:20,103
- Yeah.
- All right.
1425
00:53:20,198 --> 00:53:22,423
♪ ♪
1426
00:53:22,441 --> 00:53:23,848
- There's definitely
room for improvement
1427
00:53:23,868 --> 00:53:25,684
When it comes
to foot massages,
1428
00:53:25,703 --> 00:53:28,111
But not to the extent
that I will say no.
1429
00:53:28,206 --> 00:53:30,280
♪ ♪
1430
00:53:30,374 --> 00:53:32,524
I would say that you're
okay at massaging.
1431
00:53:32,543 --> 00:53:34,268
- Ah!
1432
00:53:34,286 --> 00:53:36,620
[laughter]
1433
00:53:36,714 --> 00:53:39,048
When it comes down
to romance with my wife,
1434
00:53:39,275 --> 00:53:41,442
She's a very hard woman
to please.
1435
00:53:41,460 --> 00:53:42,718
I'm okay?
1436
00:53:42,945 --> 00:53:44,386
- When you learn
the pressure points--
1437
00:53:44,613 --> 00:53:45,295
- Oh, you want
the pressure points.
1438
00:53:45,389 --> 00:53:46,889
- Yeah.
1439
00:53:47,116 --> 00:53:48,873
- You want me to make you
kind of, like, melt?
1440
00:53:48,968 --> 00:53:50,375
- That would be lovely.
1441
00:53:50,394 --> 00:53:53,395
- I bet you would.
I want her to feel loved.
1442
00:53:53,622 --> 00:53:55,456
But she's very particular
about things,
1443
00:53:55,474 --> 00:53:57,399
So for me
to come up with something
1444
00:53:57,551 --> 00:54:00,477
That she actually loves,
it's almost impossible.
1445
00:54:00,571 --> 00:54:02,738
♪ ♪
1446
00:54:02,965 --> 00:54:09,319
But I'm definitely
not gonna give up.
1447
00:54:09,413 --> 00:54:10,637
[upbeat music]
1448
00:54:10,656 --> 00:54:12,139
♪ ♪
1449
00:54:12,232 --> 00:54:14,416
- ♪ you're my kind of people ♪
1450
00:54:14,643 --> 00:54:16,901
- Your phone's, like,
blinking or whatever.
1451
00:54:16,921 --> 00:54:18,996
[phone chimes]
- what's that?
1452
00:54:19,090 --> 00:54:20,981
- So, jose...
1453
00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:22,574
- ♪ my kind of people ♪
1454
00:54:22,668 --> 00:54:24,318
- Jose says, "hey, guys."
1455
00:54:24,336 --> 00:54:27,763
- Has invited all of us
to a barbecue.
1456
00:54:27,914 --> 00:54:29,840
- Did you know
that the barbecue
1457
00:54:29,992 --> 00:54:31,675
Was at his house?
- Oh, he's gonna love it.
1458
00:54:31,827 --> 00:54:35,938
- Listen, he's going to be
living his best life.
1459
00:54:36,089 --> 00:54:37,331
- "zack will be there,"
he says.
1460
00:54:37,424 --> 00:54:39,500
"omg, yay.
So excited."
1461
00:54:39,518 --> 00:54:40,759
- So that means
everybody's gonna be there.
1462
00:54:40,853 --> 00:54:42,761
I like when we're all together.
1463
00:54:42,780 --> 00:54:44,521
- I'll finally meet michaela.
1464
00:54:44,673 --> 00:54:46,356
- It'll be our first time
all hanging out together.
1465
00:54:46,450 --> 00:54:47,932
I always forget about that.
- We still got 24 hours.
1466
00:54:48,027 --> 00:54:50,193
She could leave twice
in that span.
1467
00:54:50,288 --> 00:54:53,605
- Ryan, be positive.
- I hope she's there.
1468
00:54:53,624 --> 00:54:56,016
- She will be.
- [chuckles]
1469
00:54:56,035 --> 00:54:58,794
♪ ♪
1470
00:54:58,945 --> 00:55:01,538
- ♪ I still want to ♪
1471
00:55:01,632 --> 00:55:04,191
♪ make this last forever ♪
1472
00:55:04,209 --> 00:55:05,876
♪ ♪
1473
00:55:06,028 --> 00:55:07,194
- Hey.
1474
00:55:07,212 --> 00:55:08,787
♪ ♪
1475
00:55:08,806 --> 00:55:10,547
- Hi, hubby.
- Hey.
1476
00:55:10,641 --> 00:55:12,533
♪ ♪
1477
00:55:12,626 --> 00:55:14,201
- I have a surprise for you.
1478
00:55:14,219 --> 00:55:16,703
- You do?
1479
00:55:16,797 --> 00:55:18,705
- We have some beers...
- Hey.
1480
00:55:18,799 --> 00:55:21,132
- We're gonna try.
- All right.
1481
00:55:21,152 --> 00:55:22,876
- I think if we drink this all
1482
00:55:22,895 --> 00:55:24,061
Before dinner comes,
we might be drunk.
1483
00:55:24,155 --> 00:55:25,896
- I don't know
1484
00:55:26,048 --> 00:55:27,064
If I could handle
even, like, two of these.
1485
00:55:27,158 --> 00:55:29,658
- But we will try.
- Okay.
1486
00:55:31,812 --> 00:55:33,220
- So I'll give you
a little tour
1487
00:55:33,238 --> 00:55:35,664
Of the things to come.
So there's that.
1488
00:55:35,891 --> 00:55:39,226
Fried chicken will be coming
in a few minutes.
1489
00:55:39,244 --> 00:55:40,485
- Okay.
1490
00:55:40,504 --> 00:55:42,079
- We also have...
1491
00:55:42,173 --> 00:55:44,231
♪ ♪
1492
00:55:44,324 --> 00:55:46,175
- What is that?
- We have darts.
1493
00:55:46,402 --> 00:55:47,901
- Okay.
1494
00:55:47,994 --> 00:55:50,420
- [laughs]
- with guns.
1495
00:55:50,514 --> 00:55:52,739
- You said you like darts.
- I do like darts.
1496
00:55:52,833 --> 00:55:54,332
- So--
- this feels dangerous.
1497
00:55:54,352 --> 00:55:55,517
- It makes me feel pretty good
1498
00:55:55,744 --> 00:55:57,260
To put all this together
for johnny.
1499
00:55:57,355 --> 00:55:59,262
♪ ♪
1500
00:55:59,415 --> 00:56:01,264
I know that he's looking
for sparks on the day-to-day,
1501
00:56:01,359 --> 00:56:04,526
So I decided to surprise him
1502
00:56:04,753 --> 00:56:06,253
With a little bar
and game night.
1503
00:56:06,271 --> 00:56:08,864
♪ ♪
1504
00:56:09,091 --> 00:56:10,181
Thanks for bringing
the bar home.
1505
00:56:10,275 --> 00:56:11,700
- You're welcome.
1506
00:56:11,927 --> 00:56:14,261
- This is my kind of
Friday night, for real.
1507
00:56:14,279 --> 00:56:15,520
- I'm glad you like it.
1508
00:56:15,614 --> 00:56:16,763
- Like, I couldn't ask
for much more.
1509
00:56:16,782 --> 00:56:18,765
- Mm-hmm.
1510
00:56:18,784 --> 00:56:20,709
This night is really important
for my marriage with bao
1511
00:56:20,861 --> 00:56:22,711
Because this is the first time
she's planned something
1512
00:56:22,938 --> 00:56:25,547
On her own that shows me
how well she knows me.
1513
00:56:25,699 --> 00:56:29,109
And bao has chosen
three things I love,
1514
00:56:29,128 --> 00:56:33,037
Which is fried chicken,
beer, and bar games.
1515
00:56:33,132 --> 00:56:36,058
So she hit three
for three on this one.
1516
00:56:36,285 --> 00:56:39,043
- I'm getting a little happy.
Not gonna lie.
1517
00:56:39,138 --> 00:56:40,303
- Yeah?
- A little bit.
1518
00:56:40,456 --> 00:56:41,288
- I like happy bao.
1519
00:56:41,381 --> 00:56:43,473
[laughter]
1520
00:56:43,567 --> 00:56:45,626
- Happy bao is dangerous bao.
It's no good.
1521
00:56:45,644 --> 00:56:47,144
♪ ♪
1522
00:56:47,238 --> 00:56:49,888
No good comes from happy bao.
1523
00:56:49,907 --> 00:56:51,556
- I don't know.
Were you happy last night?
1524
00:56:51,575 --> 00:56:52,408
- Yes.
1525
00:56:54,912 --> 00:56:58,989
Johnny and I may or may not
have consummated the marriage.
1526
00:56:59,141 --> 00:57:01,992
May or may not have.
1527
00:57:02,144 --> 00:57:04,978
[surf rock music]
1528
00:57:04,997 --> 00:57:06,813
All I can say right now
1529
00:57:06,832 --> 00:57:08,315
Is we're both
really, really happy.
1530
00:57:08,408 --> 00:57:09,316
[chuckles]
1531
00:57:09,334 --> 00:57:11,835
♪ ♪
1532
00:57:11,929 --> 00:57:13,762
- Yeah, it was--
[pops lips]
1533
00:57:13,989 --> 00:57:17,157
♪ ♪
1534
00:57:17,176 --> 00:57:20,661
- Really, really happy.
1535
00:57:20,679 --> 00:57:21,437
- I think we should make
a little wager.
1536
00:57:21,664 --> 00:57:23,346
- Okay.
1537
00:57:23,499 --> 00:57:26,925
- If I win,
we do whatever I want to do
1538
00:57:27,019 --> 00:57:29,260
In the bedroom tonight.
1539
00:57:29,354 --> 00:57:31,596
[quirky music]
1540
00:57:31,615 --> 00:57:34,675
But if I don't beat you,
we do whatever you want to do.
1541
00:57:34,693 --> 00:57:38,120
♪ ♪
1542
00:57:38,347 --> 00:57:39,529
- Okay.
1543
00:57:39,682 --> 00:57:41,290
- Deal?
- Deal.
1544
00:57:41,517 --> 00:57:42,708
- Okay.
1545
00:57:46,205 --> 00:57:48,705
[upbeat music]
1546
00:57:48,799 --> 00:57:52,209
- I gotta warn you...
1547
00:57:52,361 --> 00:57:54,361
I play on playstation,
like, some shooting games.
1548
00:57:54,454 --> 00:57:56,863
[laughter]
1549
00:57:56,957 --> 00:58:00,142
- Hang on, hang on, hang on.
1550
00:58:00,293 --> 00:58:02,794
You're just--you're not
talking yourself up, are you?
1551
00:58:02,813 --> 00:58:03,812
Oh, [bleep].
- Hey.
1552
00:58:06,150 --> 00:58:08,984
- [bleep] damn it.
- Well, that's a three.
1553
00:58:09,211 --> 00:58:10,210
- Okay.
1554
00:58:10,229 --> 00:58:11,302
[energetic rock music]
1555
00:58:11,322 --> 00:58:13,897
- No pressure.
Ooh.
1556
00:58:13,991 --> 00:58:14,881
That's a two.
1557
00:58:14,900 --> 00:58:17,976
♪ ♪
1558
00:58:17,995 --> 00:58:19,052
Oh, god.
1559
00:58:19,145 --> 00:58:20,554
[laughter]
1560
00:58:20,572 --> 00:58:25,483
♪ ♪
1561
00:58:25,503 --> 00:58:26,985
- [gasps]
- [laughs]
1562
00:58:27,004 --> 00:58:28,152
Do one of these.
1563
00:58:28,172 --> 00:58:31,565
- Is this proper stance?
Like--
1564
00:58:31,583 --> 00:58:33,734
- No, I think
this is proper stance.
1565
00:58:33,752 --> 00:58:36,086
- Like in the movies?
Yeah.
1566
00:58:36,180 --> 00:58:37,904
- ♪ dangerous ♪
1567
00:58:37,923 --> 00:58:40,741
♪ ♪
1568
00:58:40,759 --> 00:58:42,166
Oh, like--oh,
we're gonna be badass?
1569
00:58:42,186 --> 00:58:43,243
Okay.
1570
00:58:43,262 --> 00:58:44,928
♪ ♪
1571
00:58:45,022 --> 00:58:48,023
- ♪ I gotta go now,
let it flow now ♪
1572
00:58:48,250 --> 00:58:50,359
♪ inside my super hot machine
I get the glow now ♪
1573
00:58:50,510 --> 00:58:51,676
- [screams]
1574
00:58:51,770 --> 00:58:53,270
- This is the most fun
1575
00:58:53,422 --> 00:58:55,272
That I've had
in this marriage so far,
1576
00:58:55,424 --> 00:58:58,441
And I really feel like,
if we can keep this up,
1577
00:58:58,594 --> 00:59:01,853
We'll be on the path
of falling in love.
1578
00:59:01,872 --> 00:59:05,098
In order for you to win,
you have to hit red or better.
1579
00:59:05,117 --> 00:59:07,709
[soft dramatic music]
1580
00:59:07,936 --> 00:59:09,711
- Ah!
- [laughs]
1581
00:59:09,938 --> 00:59:11,195
♪ ♪
1582
00:59:11,215 --> 00:59:14,532
- No!
1583
00:59:14,552 --> 00:59:17,627
- Guess we're gonna do
what I want in bed tonight.
1584
00:59:17,780 --> 00:59:20,222
- I don't want
to play video games in bed.
1585
00:59:20,449 --> 00:59:22,182
♪ ♪
1586
00:59:27,231 --> 00:59:29,790
- ♪ it's like you found
a new way to love me ♪
1587
00:59:29,808 --> 00:59:31,458
♪ ooh, ooh ♪
1588
00:59:31,476 --> 00:59:33,460
- Hubby, do you realize
this is the first time
1589
00:59:33,478 --> 00:59:36,071
We're all gonna get together
since the honeymoon,
1590
00:59:36,298 --> 00:59:39,633
And it'll finally be,
like, all of us?
1591
00:59:39,651 --> 00:59:41,076
- That's why I'm so excited.
- Yeah.
1592
00:59:41,227 --> 00:59:42,803
- 'cause everybody
gets together.
1593
00:59:42,821 --> 00:59:45,229
- Today, we're having
all the couples over
1594
00:59:45,249 --> 00:59:50,419
To jose's house to have
our possibly annual barbecue.
1595
00:59:50,570 --> 00:59:53,146
Hi!
- Hi!
1596
00:59:53,165 --> 00:59:54,423
- It's just crazy to think
1597
00:59:54,650 --> 00:59:57,150
That I'm hosting
as a married woman
1598
00:59:57,243 --> 01:00:00,337
With my husband.
It's crazy.
1599
01:00:00,431 --> 01:00:03,081
But I absolutely
can see myself living here,
1600
01:00:03,100 --> 01:00:04,007
You know, in the future.
1601
01:00:04,159 --> 01:00:05,100
♪ ♪
1602
01:00:05,327 --> 01:00:06,935
- Hello!
1603
01:00:07,162 --> 01:00:09,771
- So I do not
come to barbecues.
1604
01:00:09,923 --> 01:00:11,589
I think I've been
to one barbecue in three years
1605
01:00:11,683 --> 01:00:12,774
That I've been in houston.
1606
01:00:13,001 --> 01:00:14,610
I don't like
going to people's homes.
1607
01:00:14,837 --> 01:00:16,278
I'm just,
like, not extroverted,
1608
01:00:16,429 --> 01:00:20,357
But very excited to see
all five couples together,
1609
01:00:20,509 --> 01:00:22,451
But at the end of the day,
I will not be coming back
1610
01:00:22,602 --> 01:00:24,694
To their house
in the middle of nowhere.
1611
01:00:24,847 --> 01:00:27,939
♪ ♪
1612
01:00:28,033 --> 01:00:29,774
- Hey!
What's up, man?
1613
01:00:29,868 --> 01:00:31,793
- Michaela and zack had
a little bit of an incident,
1614
01:00:31,945 --> 01:00:33,629
So we didn't really get
to, you know, talk with them,
1615
01:00:33,780 --> 01:00:35,464
Interact with them,
but everyone's all here today,
1616
01:00:35,615 --> 01:00:36,798
And it's gonna be great.
1617
01:00:36,950 --> 01:00:37,966
How's the food?
Is the food good?
1618
01:00:38,118 --> 01:00:39,192
- Thank you so much
for having us.
1619
01:00:39,211 --> 01:00:40,193
These burgers are fire.
- Are they?
1620
01:00:40,286 --> 01:00:41,452
- Yeah.
- All right, awesome.
1621
01:00:41,472 --> 01:00:42,638
- Thank you for hosting.
- Yeah, absolutely.
1622
01:00:42,789 --> 01:00:44,139
- Thank you for having us.
1623
01:00:44,290 --> 01:00:46,475
- So let me ask
y'all a question.
1624
01:00:46,626 --> 01:00:49,978
I believe
I'm gonna fall in love.
1625
01:00:50,205 --> 01:00:53,540
My wife believes
falling in love is a choice.
1626
01:00:53,558 --> 01:00:58,302
So what can your spouse do
to make you eventually
1627
01:00:58,397 --> 01:01:00,213
Fall in love with them?
1628
01:01:00,232 --> 01:01:03,733
Have you ever been in love?
What do y'all think?
1629
01:01:03,827 --> 01:01:06,386
- The love card couldn't have
come at a better time.
1630
01:01:06,405 --> 01:01:09,055
It felt like, right when
it showed up at the door,
1631
01:01:09,149 --> 01:01:10,740
We needed to talk
about this stuff.
1632
01:01:10,893 --> 01:01:12,650
- Mm-hmm.
1633
01:01:12,744 --> 01:01:14,169
- And it ended up being one of
the most beautiful moments
1634
01:01:14,320 --> 01:01:18,006
Of our marriage so far.
- Oh, wow, nice.
1635
01:01:18,233 --> 01:01:20,233
- Sparks flew for sure.
- [chuckles]
1636
01:01:20,252 --> 01:01:22,160
- Sparks that I felt like
we hadn't really had
1637
01:01:22,179 --> 01:01:23,737
Since the wedding night.
1638
01:01:23,830 --> 01:01:25,906
Like, it'd been a while.
- Yeah.
1639
01:01:25,999 --> 01:01:27,182
- And, for us,
it kind of, like,
1640
01:01:27,333 --> 01:01:29,759
Rekindled a little flame,
and it was very nice.
1641
01:01:29,912 --> 01:01:30,668
- That's perfect.
That's awesome.
1642
01:01:30,688 --> 01:01:32,579
- Wow.
1643
01:01:32,597 --> 01:01:35,081
- So, gil, have you gotten
your first kiss yet or no?
1644
01:01:35,100 --> 01:01:36,917
- Aww, come on.
- So...
1645
01:01:37,010 --> 01:01:39,586
- How dare you?
- Short answer is no.
1646
01:01:39,604 --> 01:01:42,030
- Yeah.
- Long answer is no.
1647
01:01:42,182 --> 01:01:43,699
[laughter]
1648
01:01:43,850 --> 01:01:45,701
So, all around, no.
1649
01:01:45,852 --> 01:01:50,539
Nah, but the affection has
increased since we've spoken.
1650
01:01:50,766 --> 01:01:52,023
Like--you know,
like, the cuddling,
1651
01:01:52,042 --> 01:01:53,616
Just the hugging.
1652
01:01:53,769 --> 01:01:55,711
You know, I was able
to touch her shoulder.
1653
01:01:55,862 --> 01:01:57,437
[laughter]
1654
01:01:57,530 --> 01:02:00,364
- All right!
A little bit of something.
1655
01:02:00,459 --> 01:02:02,884
- Shoulder action, y'all.
1656
01:02:03,036 --> 01:02:04,110
- Get a room.
1657
01:02:04,129 --> 01:02:06,888
[laughter]
1658
01:02:08,784 --> 01:02:10,726
- Being around
the other couples
1659
01:02:10,877 --> 01:02:15,138
Does make me feel like
me and ryan might be behind.
1660
01:02:15,290 --> 01:02:17,065
I try not to compare.
1661
01:02:17,292 --> 01:02:19,309
Everybody's relationship
is different,
1662
01:02:19,403 --> 01:02:21,127
And I don't think
anyone else's progress
1663
01:02:21,146 --> 01:02:23,129
Has any bearing on my own.
1664
01:02:23,148 --> 01:02:27,984
To me, it seems obvious
that the others are having
1665
01:02:28,136 --> 01:02:31,580
A lot more intimacy
and communication.
1666
01:02:31,731 --> 01:02:33,306
Like, that's
pretty obvious to me.
1667
01:02:33,325 --> 01:02:35,475
- Has anyone dropped
the, like, "love" word,
1668
01:02:35,568 --> 01:02:38,311
Like, "I love you" yet?
- No.
1669
01:02:38,330 --> 01:02:40,071
- Okay, so if we had to put
money on the first couple
1670
01:02:40,090 --> 01:02:41,239
To say "I love you,"
who would it--
1671
01:02:41,333 --> 01:02:42,048
Who would that couple be?
1672
01:02:43,835 --> 01:02:45,151
Johnny and bao.
- Yep.
1673
01:02:45,245 --> 01:02:47,245
- Hey.
- Okay, let me up that.
1674
01:02:47,264 --> 01:02:50,248
Let's not only say the couple,
but who in that couple.
1675
01:02:50,342 --> 01:02:51,508
- Okay.
- Ooh, okay.
1676
01:02:51,660 --> 01:02:54,770
- So I would say myrla.
- [gasps]
1677
01:02:54,921 --> 01:02:59,107
- My vote is jose.
- Facts, facts.
1678
01:02:59,334 --> 01:03:00,776
- Johnny and bao,
who do y'all think?
1679
01:03:01,003 --> 01:03:03,670
- I think I'ma go
with gil actually.
1680
01:03:03,763 --> 01:03:05,113
- You gonna go with me?
Okay.
1681
01:03:05,340 --> 01:03:07,265
- As soon as he feels it,
he's gonna say it.
1682
01:03:07,284 --> 01:03:08,617
- I'm gonna go with bao.
1683
01:03:08,844 --> 01:03:11,177
I figure she has
some kind of formula
1684
01:03:11,271 --> 01:03:12,603
Or spreadsheet
that's gonna lead her--
1685
01:03:12,623 --> 01:03:14,122
- Ooh, I love it.
1686
01:03:16,276 --> 01:03:17,517
- Okay, I'm gonna say you.
1687
01:03:17,536 --> 01:03:20,370
- Me?
- Oh!
1688
01:03:20,522 --> 01:03:23,690
She put it on her own husband!
I like it!
1689
01:03:23,708 --> 01:03:25,375
[laughter]
1690
01:03:25,527 --> 01:03:27,210
- I gotta go with johnny
for the sake of time.
1691
01:03:27,362 --> 01:03:28,695
Let's go with my man.
Go with my man johnny.
1692
01:03:28,713 --> 01:03:29,805
- No pressure.
- No pressure.
1693
01:03:30,032 --> 01:03:32,365
- No pressure, johnny.
No pressure.
1694
01:03:32,384 --> 01:03:34,217
- No pressure at all, honey.
No pressure at all.
1695
01:03:34,369 --> 01:03:35,644
- Yeah, I think it's johnny.
1696
01:03:35,795 --> 01:03:36,978
[laughter]
1697
01:03:37,130 --> 01:03:39,372
- Dang, everybody.
1698
01:03:39,391 --> 01:03:40,982
[laughter]
1699
01:03:41,134 --> 01:03:42,484
- It's kind of flattering,
I think.
1700
01:03:42,711 --> 01:03:45,395
I do not drop
the "l" bomb lightly,
1701
01:03:45,489 --> 01:03:47,881
But I feel optimistic
that bao and I's relationship
1702
01:03:47,899 --> 01:03:49,825
Has turned a corner,
and it's on the right track.
1703
01:03:50,052 --> 01:03:51,718
[laughs]
1704
01:03:51,736 --> 01:03:53,829
- Y'all want
to go get some refills?
1705
01:03:53,980 --> 01:03:54,979
- Yeah, yeah.
1706
01:03:55,073 --> 01:03:56,906
- Oh.
- Yeah.
1707
01:03:57,000 --> 01:04:02,745
♪ ♪
1708
01:04:02,840 --> 01:04:05,748
- Cheers to falling in love
sooner than later.
1709
01:04:05,843 --> 01:04:08,234
[laughter]
1710
01:04:08,328 --> 01:04:10,494
- Your room is so big.
- I know.
1711
01:04:10,514 --> 01:04:11,179
- I know.
This is actually really nice.
1712
01:04:11,331 --> 01:04:12,922
- It's roomy.
1713
01:04:13,016 --> 01:04:14,999
- How are you guys feeling
about your marriages
1714
01:04:15,018 --> 01:04:17,001
Three weeks in now?
- Everything's great.
1715
01:04:17,020 --> 01:04:18,687
Like, you know,
but, just like everyone,
1716
01:04:18,914 --> 01:04:20,747
We have our little,
like, down moments,
1717
01:04:20,765 --> 01:04:23,266
So, if you noticed,
jose talks a lot.
1718
01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:24,508
- [laughs]
1719
01:04:24,603 --> 01:04:25,861
- It all kind of started,
1720
01:04:26,088 --> 01:04:27,362
I guess, you know,
for me, what I wanted
1721
01:04:27,513 --> 01:04:29,272
Was just someone
that I connect with,
1722
01:04:29,366 --> 01:04:31,758
Had the, you know,
commonalities and similarities.
1723
01:04:31,851 --> 01:04:33,351
We enjoy doing
the same things together,
1724
01:04:33,445 --> 01:04:35,095
And it kind of builds us.
1725
01:04:35,188 --> 01:04:36,872
You know, this is
such a short process.
1726
01:04:37,023 --> 01:04:38,689
It's not a marathon.
1727
01:04:38,709 --> 01:04:39,949
Rather, it's a sprint now,
you know what I'm saying?
1728
01:04:40,043 --> 01:04:42,210
So I think it's just
kind of finding the things
1729
01:04:42,362 --> 01:04:44,120
That we both enjoy.
1730
01:04:44,272 --> 01:04:45,547
Even if it was, like,
baseball games, right?
1731
01:04:45,698 --> 01:04:47,123
So she's, like,
a huge sports fan.
1732
01:04:47,275 --> 01:04:49,442
If I don't know that you
like green eggs and ham,
1733
01:04:49,461 --> 01:04:51,869
How the hell am I gonna know
that that's what you want
1734
01:04:51,889 --> 01:04:52,795
For breakfast
every single morning, right?
1735
01:04:52,948 --> 01:04:54,372
♪ ♪
1736
01:04:54,391 --> 01:04:56,057
- That's something
he struggles with--
1737
01:04:56,209 --> 01:04:59,895
Is listening, and it's caused,
like, little issues.
1738
01:05:00,046 --> 01:05:01,804
But overall,
everything's pretty great.
1739
01:05:01,957 --> 01:05:03,064
- Yeah.
- You know?
1740
01:05:03,216 --> 01:05:04,882
I'm really happy.
He's such a gentleman.
1741
01:05:04,902 --> 01:05:06,401
You know,
he treats me so well,
1742
01:05:06,628 --> 01:05:08,811
And I do feel like
that love word is, like,
1743
01:05:08,964 --> 01:05:10,313
On the tip of my tongue.
- Aww.
1744
01:05:10,407 --> 01:05:13,466
- But I keep--like,
"just wait, just wait."
1745
01:05:13,485 --> 01:05:15,226
But I think of
what pastor cal says.
1746
01:05:15,245 --> 01:05:17,913
Like, "if you feel it,
just, like, say it."
1747
01:05:18,140 --> 01:05:20,823
So it's coming soon,
I think, yeah.
1748
01:05:20,976 --> 01:05:21,658
- That's good.
I'm so happy for you guys.
1749
01:05:21,810 --> 01:05:23,084
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
1750
01:05:23,311 --> 01:05:24,419
- You can see it too.
- Aww, thanks.
1751
01:05:24,570 --> 01:05:25,754
- The two of you--
it's so obvious.
1752
01:05:25,981 --> 01:05:26,980
- Yeah, I know.
Y'all are just glowing.
1753
01:05:27,073 --> 01:05:29,499
- Like, oh, my god,
they need to stop.
1754
01:05:29,651 --> 01:05:32,594
Rachel and jose
are just too much sometimes,
1755
01:05:32,821 --> 01:05:35,764
I swear to god.
I've nicknamed them rosé.
1756
01:05:35,991 --> 01:05:38,158
Every time I see them,
it's just, like,
1757
01:05:38,176 --> 01:05:41,177
Mwah, mwah, mwah, mwah.
And I'm like, "oh, rosé."
1758
01:05:41,329 --> 01:05:43,772
♪ ♪
1759
01:05:43,923 --> 01:05:46,015
- [laughs]
1760
01:05:46,168 --> 01:05:49,185
Love them.
Love that rosé.
1761
01:05:49,337 --> 01:05:53,523
- So zack and I
went in so hard and so fast.
1762
01:05:53,675 --> 01:05:55,266
Like, when I tell you it was,
1763
01:05:55,285 --> 01:05:57,953
Like, almost love
at first sight
1764
01:05:58,180 --> 01:05:59,621
'cause it was just like,
"oh, my gosh."
1765
01:05:59,848 --> 01:06:02,791
Like, it was an insane
kind of feeling.
1766
01:06:03,018 --> 01:06:04,459
- The first week,
we were really fine.
1767
01:06:04,610 --> 01:06:05,685
Like, you know, I kept saying,
like, y'all can move
1768
01:06:05,778 --> 01:06:07,370
Decision day up to today.
- Damn!
1769
01:06:07,464 --> 01:06:08,779
- You know what I mean?
Like--but it's just, like--
1770
01:06:08,799 --> 01:06:09,965
- I wasn't ready for that.
- No, but--
1771
01:06:10,192 --> 01:06:11,024
- Boy, you would
have been in trouble.
1772
01:06:11,117 --> 01:06:12,041
- I know, I know.
But see--
1773
01:06:12,194 --> 01:06:13,802
- But with that same intensity,
1774
01:06:13,953 --> 01:06:16,287
When we hit a low...
1775
01:06:16,306 --> 01:06:17,639
- Ooh.
- Yeah.
1776
01:06:17,866 --> 01:06:19,290
- 'cause, you know,
it's kind of, like,
1777
01:06:19,309 --> 01:06:20,642
Those rose-colored glasses
get snatched off your face,
1778
01:06:20,869 --> 01:06:22,385
And now, you know,
we're both kind of like,
1779
01:06:22,479 --> 01:06:23,645
"okay, let's figure this out.
We can get there.
1780
01:06:23,796 --> 01:06:24,980
We can get there."
1781
01:06:25,207 --> 01:06:26,464
And it's like,
we're both learning
1782
01:06:26,483 --> 01:06:28,725
How to be married
1783
01:06:28,877 --> 01:06:30,059
'cause we
really like each other,
1784
01:06:30,212 --> 01:06:31,561
And we really want
to be married.
1785
01:06:31,655 --> 01:06:33,822
It's hard.
1786
01:06:34,049 --> 01:06:35,898
I said it then,
and I'll say it now.
1787
01:06:35,993 --> 01:06:37,808
I could not have built
this man better myself.
1788
01:06:37,902 --> 01:06:39,719
- Aww, that's so sweet.
1789
01:06:39,738 --> 01:06:42,388
- He's so phenomenal.
He really is.
1790
01:06:42,407 --> 01:06:43,832
- She's an amazing woman.
I will always say this.
1791
01:06:44,059 --> 01:06:46,909
It's just the one thing
that I've said repeatedly
1792
01:06:47,004 --> 01:06:49,320
Is a red flag for me is the--
you know, the blowups,
1793
01:06:49,339 --> 01:06:51,172
And the kind of--you know,
the kneejerk reactions.
1794
01:06:51,324 --> 01:06:52,323
But I'm still hopeful.
1795
01:06:52,417 --> 01:06:53,991
- Do you think--
- yeah.
1796
01:06:54,085 --> 01:06:56,069
- What will happen will happen,
and it will all work out.
1797
01:06:56,087 --> 01:06:58,013
- We definitely had our
ups and downs for sure too.
1798
01:06:58,164 --> 01:07:02,183
So it's been intense for me
and johnny because we realized
1799
01:07:02,410 --> 01:07:04,168
How much we didn't know
about each other.
1800
01:07:04,262 --> 01:07:06,929
And so some of those things,
it's like, we're so similar
1801
01:07:07,082 --> 01:07:09,098
In ways that can be
kind of conflict-y.
1802
01:07:09,192 --> 01:07:11,251
- Yeah.
1803
01:07:11,269 --> 01:07:14,029
- Because both of us can be
very dominant in relationships.
1804
01:07:14,180 --> 01:07:15,255
- There's all these,
like, small things
1805
01:07:15,273 --> 01:07:16,439
That we don't match on,
1806
01:07:16,591 --> 01:07:17,940
But we match on,
like, core values.
1807
01:07:18,093 --> 01:07:19,776
- Yeah.
1808
01:07:19,870 --> 01:07:24,522
- And I'm very much like--
if 97% is good, 3% is bad,
1809
01:07:24,541 --> 01:07:26,207
I focus and nitpick
the [bleep] out of the three.
1810
01:07:26,359 --> 01:07:27,709
- I'm the same way.
1811
01:07:27,936 --> 01:07:29,102
- 'cause I feel like
we've all--you know,
1812
01:07:29,195 --> 01:07:30,453
We've all been dating...
- Yeah.
1813
01:07:30,547 --> 01:07:32,047
- And we haven't settled
1814
01:07:32,274 --> 01:07:33,289
Until this point--
up to this point.
1815
01:07:33,383 --> 01:07:34,774
Why should we settle?
1816
01:07:34,867 --> 01:07:36,793
And I'm looking
for everything, right?
1817
01:07:36,945 --> 01:07:39,054
And I started feeling like...
1818
01:07:39,205 --> 01:07:41,964
Like I'm the problem,
1819
01:07:42,117 --> 01:07:44,726
And the past four
or five days have been good.
1820
01:07:44,877 --> 01:07:46,061
Like, really good.
1821
01:07:46,212 --> 01:07:47,303
It feels like
we turned a corner.
1822
01:07:47,455 --> 01:07:48,712
- You seem like
you're in a better place.
1823
01:07:48,732 --> 01:07:50,214
- I know, and I'm hoping
that we build on it.
1824
01:07:50,233 --> 01:07:51,457
Just keep having
more good days.
1825
01:07:51,551 --> 01:07:53,551
- We had a tough conversation,
1826
01:07:53,570 --> 01:07:55,962
And a lot of things that I've
been holding in came out,
1827
01:07:56,055 --> 01:07:57,739
And they needed to come out.
1828
01:07:57,890 --> 01:08:01,801
Told her about my past
1829
01:08:01,894 --> 01:08:03,745
And that maybe sometimes I did
1830
01:08:03,896 --> 01:08:05,988
Previously wait too long
to get into that.
1831
01:08:06,083 --> 01:08:07,990
I told her that I was
kind of feeling those doubts.
1832
01:08:08,143 --> 01:08:09,809
- Mm-hmm.
1833
01:08:09,828 --> 01:08:11,419
- This is just such--
this is 100% a feeling.
1834
01:08:11,571 --> 01:08:13,237
- Yeah, yeah.
1835
01:08:13,331 --> 01:08:14,255
- And you gotta have that spark
that I need to feel...
1836
01:08:14,407 --> 01:08:15,648
- Yeah, yeah.
1837
01:08:15,741 --> 01:08:16,816
- And that's what
I'm waiting on.
1838
01:08:16,909 --> 01:08:18,668
- I don't know
what he likes about me.
1839
01:08:18,762 --> 01:08:20,653
I don't know anything.
I don't even know if he does.
1840
01:08:20,746 --> 01:08:22,097
- Have you asked him that?
- Yep.
1841
01:08:22,324 --> 01:08:23,823
He said
he's waiting for a feeling
1842
01:08:23,842 --> 01:08:26,083
That he doesn't have.
- Ugh.
1843
01:08:26,103 --> 01:08:28,269
- What do you think
that feeling is?
1844
01:08:28,421 --> 01:08:32,832
- Butterflies or something.
- That's--
1845
01:08:32,851 --> 01:08:35,017
[chuckles]
- why is--
1846
01:08:35,170 --> 01:08:36,760
- Why can't that be a thing?
1847
01:08:36,780 --> 01:08:39,689
Like, why can't you just be
enthralled with your wife,
1848
01:08:39,841 --> 01:08:42,433
And--I don't know.
- Yeah.
1849
01:08:42,527 --> 01:08:44,193
- But I just don't know that
I would ever get to that point.
1850
01:08:44,287 --> 01:08:47,455
And is that good enough?
I don't want good enough.
1851
01:08:47,607 --> 01:08:50,867
- With this situation,
this is not regular dating,
1852
01:08:50,961 --> 01:08:52,627
So I think there's
a huge element where you do
1853
01:08:52,778 --> 01:08:56,464
Have to make a decision that
I'm gonna try to get there.
1854
01:08:56,616 --> 01:08:57,799
- Mm-hmm.
- Right.
1855
01:08:57,950 --> 01:08:59,709
- You can't just sit back
and just expect.
1856
01:08:59,803 --> 01:09:01,136
You can't sit back
and just wait for a feeling.
1857
01:09:01,363 --> 01:09:02,695
- Right.
1858
01:09:02,714 --> 01:09:03,954
- You have to
actually do things...
1859
01:09:03,974 --> 01:09:05,140
- Right.
- To create those feelings.
1860
01:09:05,291 --> 01:09:06,215
- And that's what
you need to tell him.
1861
01:09:06,309 --> 01:09:07,475
That's exactly--
1862
01:09:07,627 --> 01:09:08,701
- Did you tell him
that part though?
1863
01:09:08,720 --> 01:09:09,886
- Everything you telling us
right now
1864
01:09:10,038 --> 01:09:10,979
Is exactly what you need
to be telling him.
1865
01:09:11,130 --> 01:09:12,205
- It's easier to tell
my friends.
1866
01:09:12,298 --> 01:09:13,706
- What are you gonna do
going forward?
1867
01:09:13,799 --> 01:09:15,466
Like, are you still gonna--
1868
01:09:15,485 --> 01:09:16,559
- We're gonna have to have
more conversations about it.
1869
01:09:16,653 --> 01:09:18,319
- Yeah.
1870
01:09:18,471 --> 01:09:20,046
- 'cause you need to know,
are you wasting your time
1871
01:09:20,139 --> 01:09:21,047
Putting in the effort,
or are you not?
1872
01:09:21,065 --> 01:09:22,715
- Right, right.
1873
01:09:22,734 --> 01:09:24,325
- Because if this feeling--
"what if I don't get
1874
01:09:24,477 --> 01:09:25,067
This feeling
for two years from now?"
1875
01:09:25,220 --> 01:09:26,736
- Right.
1876
01:09:26,830 --> 01:09:28,070
- Like, who in the hell
is waiting that long?
1877
01:09:28,165 --> 01:09:29,330
- Right, right.
- Let's expedite this feeling.
1878
01:09:29,482 --> 01:09:30,223
- Right.
- You know what I'm saying?
1879
01:09:30,241 --> 01:09:31,557
♪ ♪
1880
01:09:31,651 --> 01:09:36,654
- ♪ is this going anywhere? ♪
1881
01:09:36,673 --> 01:09:38,006
♪ I'm still
walking in the dark ♪
1882
01:09:42,754 --> 01:09:45,905
- ♪ all my life
has led to this ♪
1883
01:09:45,924 --> 01:09:48,499
- So this morning,
it's really awkward
1884
01:09:48,593 --> 01:09:50,743
Because last night,
1885
01:09:50,836 --> 01:09:52,854
We're on the couch
watching tv,
1886
01:09:53,081 --> 01:09:55,023
And it just felt
like the right moment,
1887
01:09:55,174 --> 01:09:57,099
And I said it.
1888
01:09:57,252 --> 01:09:59,194
I said those
three little words.
1889
01:09:59,345 --> 01:10:01,029
And he didn't say it back.
1890
01:10:01,256 --> 01:10:03,865
And now I'm just like,
"I don't know what to do."
1891
01:10:04,092 --> 01:10:05,849
I'm just kidding.
I did say "I love you,"
1892
01:10:05,869 --> 01:10:07,869
And he said it back
like I knew he would,
1893
01:10:08,020 --> 01:10:09,704
So we're good.
- But no.
1894
01:10:09,855 --> 01:10:12,782
It wasn't instant.
It was not instant.
1895
01:10:12,934 --> 01:10:14,709
It took a hot, little minute.
1896
01:10:14,860 --> 01:10:16,694
- I grabbed a knife,
and I was like, "say it back."
1897
01:10:16,788 --> 01:10:18,955
- She did.
She did.
1898
01:10:19,049 --> 01:10:22,442
She grabbed a knife--
1899
01:10:22,460 --> 01:10:23,885
- A machete.
1900
01:10:24,112 --> 01:10:25,278
- Yeah, well,
it was like a butter knife,
1901
01:10:25,296 --> 01:10:26,946
But it was still a knife.
1902
01:10:27,039 --> 01:10:28,706
I felt my life was threatened,
1903
01:10:28,725 --> 01:10:31,467
So I did tell her back
that I loved her.
1904
01:10:31,561 --> 01:10:33,394
- I woke up this morning,
and I still love him,
1905
01:10:33,546 --> 01:10:35,121
So that's a good sign.
1906
01:10:35,214 --> 01:10:36,806
- That is a great sign.
- Yeah.
1907
01:10:36,900 --> 01:10:38,140
- And I love her too.
1908
01:10:38,235 --> 01:10:40,810
- Aww.
Aww.
1909
01:10:40,962 --> 01:10:42,720
- ♪ I'm never giving up ♪
1910
01:10:42,814 --> 01:10:45,723
♪ and I'm never going down ♪
1911
01:10:45,742 --> 01:10:48,225
♪ I'm up on top, never stop ♪
1912
01:10:48,319 --> 01:10:52,062
♪ I'ma keep this crown ♪
1913
01:10:52,156 --> 01:10:54,323
- Hello.
- Hello, hello.
1914
01:10:54,476 --> 01:10:55,975
- What's up?
How you doing?
1915
01:10:55,994 --> 01:10:58,586
- I'm good.
How are you?
1916
01:10:58,738 --> 01:11:01,923
- Good, what's up?
- Nothing much.
1917
01:11:02,074 --> 01:11:03,165
How was your work?
Are you sweaty?
1918
01:11:03,318 --> 01:11:05,409
- I know.
You know, it's fine.
1919
01:11:05,503 --> 01:11:10,098
So today I think it would
be fun for us to cook together
1920
01:11:10,325 --> 01:11:11,915
'cause both of us,
you know, eat out a lot.
1921
01:11:12,010 --> 01:11:13,326
So tonight, on zoom,
1922
01:11:13,344 --> 01:11:14,844
We're gonna
hang out with a chef...
1923
01:11:14,996 --> 01:11:16,329
- Okay.
1924
01:11:16,422 --> 01:11:17,272
- Who's gonna walk us
through a meal.
1925
01:11:17,499 --> 01:11:18,848
- Real talk?
- Yeah, yeah, seriously.
1926
01:11:19,000 --> 01:11:21,501
So we're gonna do,
like, a shrimp scampi.
1927
01:11:21,519 --> 01:11:22,685
- Ooh, I love shrimp scampi.
- Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
1928
01:11:22,837 --> 01:11:25,113
So I got
some ingredients here.
1929
01:11:25,340 --> 01:11:27,523
I find myself enjoying time
with my wife
1930
01:11:27,675 --> 01:11:29,784
When we're doing things,
you know, active things,
1931
01:11:29,935 --> 01:11:30,843
'cause I feel like
that lets us
1932
01:11:30,936 --> 01:11:32,436
Know more about each other,
1933
01:11:32,455 --> 01:11:35,623
And so, I feel good.
I think we're in a good space.
1934
01:11:37,276 --> 01:11:38,701
- Nice to meet you, kevin.
1935
01:11:38,853 --> 01:11:39,777
- So we're cooking
shrimp scampi today.
1936
01:11:39,871 --> 01:11:40,703
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
1937
01:11:40,797 --> 01:11:42,130
- Okay, cool.
1938
01:11:42,357 --> 01:11:42,964
- So how much
cooking experience
1939
01:11:43,115 --> 01:11:45,691
Do you guys have?
1940
01:11:45,785 --> 01:11:48,544
- Um...
- Not much experience at all.
1941
01:11:48,696 --> 01:11:50,212
[soft dramatic music]
1942
01:11:50,365 --> 01:11:51,639
So what's the first step?
1943
01:11:54,869 --> 01:11:56,385
- Yeah.
- We got one pot.
1944
01:11:56,538 --> 01:11:57,870
- Okay, okay, okay, okay.
1945
01:11:57,889 --> 01:11:59,038
- We can do that.
1946
01:11:59,057 --> 01:12:00,373
♪ ♪
1947
01:12:00,466 --> 01:12:01,983
I filled it with water,
but I'm not sure
1948
01:12:02,134 --> 01:12:03,943
If I filled it
with too much water.
1949
01:12:06,881 --> 01:12:07,655
- Yeah.
1950
01:12:09,975 --> 01:12:11,659
- Yeah, yeah, she did.
1951
01:12:17,000 --> 01:12:19,149
- You can do prep work.
You said you wanted--
1952
01:12:19,169 --> 01:12:20,317
- You do the prep work.
Nah, you do the prep work.
1953
01:12:20,337 --> 01:12:21,151
- Nah, nah, nah,
it's too much pressure.
1954
01:12:21,171 --> 01:12:22,728
- Why?
- You do it.
1955
01:12:22,747 --> 01:12:23,821
- Nah, you do prep work.
- Okay, I'll do prep work.
1956
01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:24,822
I'll do prep work.
1957
01:12:24,841 --> 01:12:26,632
[upbeat music]
1958
01:12:29,904 --> 01:12:32,513
- Well, that would be the hope.
1959
01:12:32,665 --> 01:12:34,423
Apparently, I'm terrible
at boiling water.
1960
01:12:34,576 --> 01:12:35,350
Who knew
you can [bleep] it up?
1961
01:12:35,577 --> 01:12:36,425
[laughs]
1962
01:12:36,578 --> 01:12:38,911
♪ ♪
1963
01:12:38,930 --> 01:12:40,246
And then the seasoning,
1964
01:12:40,339 --> 01:12:42,190
How much do I--
how much do we do there?
1965
01:12:48,848 --> 01:12:50,439
- I trust whatever
you want to do.
1966
01:12:50,592 --> 01:12:53,275
[soft dramatic music]
1967
01:12:53,428 --> 01:12:59,540
♪ ♪
1968
01:12:59,767 --> 01:13:01,024
I'm learning
more about michaela,
1969
01:13:01,119 --> 01:13:03,044
And, specifically,
1970
01:13:03,195 --> 01:13:07,340
I learned that my wife
is not the best seasoner.
1971
01:13:08,126 --> 01:13:09,458
You can keep at it, okay.
1972
01:13:09,552 --> 01:13:10,292
- I mean, I have to crush it.
- Get it, get it.
1973
01:13:10,387 --> 01:13:11,886
- It's not that much.
1974
01:13:12,113 --> 01:13:13,462
- Nah, nah, nah, go on,
get it, get it, get it.
1975
01:13:13,615 --> 01:13:15,131
I saw the way she was pouring
the seasoning
1976
01:13:15,283 --> 01:13:16,724
Into the pot, into the pan,
1977
01:13:16,951 --> 01:13:19,042
And it was
kind of heavy-handed.
1978
01:13:19,062 --> 01:13:21,229
This does definitely tell me
that maybe, going forward,
1979
01:13:21,380 --> 01:13:22,713
I should probably
handle the seasoning,
1980
01:13:22,732 --> 01:13:25,141
Or at least we can work
on our seasoning together.
1981
01:13:25,293 --> 01:13:27,960
Hey, this cajun--
this is cajun shrimp scampi.
1982
01:13:27,979 --> 01:13:29,462
[bleep], like--
1983
01:13:29,480 --> 01:13:31,964
[upbeat music]
1984
01:13:32,057 --> 01:13:33,799
Okay, you want to taste this?
1985
01:13:33,818 --> 01:13:35,893
- This is our first meal
that we've ever cooked before.
1986
01:13:35,987 --> 01:13:37,470
- You want me to give a speech?
- I can give a speech.
1987
01:13:37,488 --> 01:13:38,395
- You give a speech.
- Okay.
1988
01:13:38,415 --> 01:13:41,641
- Make it quick.
I'm hungry.
1989
01:13:41,659 --> 01:13:42,566
[chuckles]
okay, all right, go ahead.
1990
01:13:42,585 --> 01:13:44,660
- Bruh.
- [laughs]
1991
01:13:44,754 --> 01:13:48,147
- So I see how we operate
in the kitchen together,
1992
01:13:48,240 --> 01:13:50,499
Our strengths
and our weaknesses
1993
01:13:50,593 --> 01:13:55,096
On both ends, but I'm
really excited to eat this.
1994
01:13:55,323 --> 01:13:56,431
- I agreed.
Like, this is definitely fun.
1995
01:13:56,582 --> 01:13:57,990
And I see how
you season things,
1996
01:13:58,009 --> 01:13:59,249
So I think we need
to work on that, for sure.
1997
01:13:59,269 --> 01:14:00,843
That's one of your weaknesses.
1998
01:14:00,937 --> 01:14:03,086
- ♪ why you hiding out
in plain sight? ♪
1999
01:14:03,106 --> 01:14:04,513
- [laughs]
no.
2000
01:14:04,666 --> 01:14:05,773
- ♪ in plain sight ♪
2001
01:14:06,000 --> 01:14:08,167
- The future
is looking brighter.
2002
01:14:08,186 --> 01:14:11,003
The end goal of this
is that we stay married, right?
2003
01:14:11,096 --> 01:14:15,283
I will say
every day is a step,
2004
01:14:15,434 --> 01:14:16,951
But the steps
that we are taking
2005
01:14:17,102 --> 01:14:18,844
Are very, very good.
2006
01:14:18,863 --> 01:14:20,788
So I think this is very good.
2007
01:14:20,940 --> 01:14:22,364
This is very good
for our relationship.
2008
01:14:22,459 --> 01:14:24,942
♪ ♪
2009
01:14:24,961 --> 01:14:27,110
- This is actually very spicy.
- [chuckles]
2010
01:14:27,130 --> 01:14:28,278
- You laughing,
but, like, it's like,
2011
01:14:28,372 --> 01:14:29,705
What the hell I'm eating?
2012
01:14:29,857 --> 01:14:31,373
- Bro, and I literally
do not taste that spice.
2013
01:14:31,526 --> 01:14:32,633
I don't know
what you're tasting.
2014
01:14:32,860 --> 01:14:34,135
- Michaela.
2015
01:14:34,362 --> 01:14:35,953
- I swear to god,
I'm not there with you.
2016
01:14:35,972 --> 01:14:37,805
- How do you
not taste the spiciness?
2017
01:14:38,032 --> 01:14:40,475
- So, I don't taste
the spicy--I don't--
2018
01:14:40,626 --> 01:14:42,143
[laughter]
2019
01:14:42,294 --> 01:14:43,311
- I don't--
[laughs]
2020
01:14:43,462 --> 01:14:45,480
[laughter]
2021
01:14:45,631 --> 01:14:47,815
- Oh, yeah, yeah, bet.
Yeah, yeah, you don't taste it.
2022
01:14:47,967 --> 01:14:49,208
I get you.
Yeah, for sure, for sure.
2023
01:14:49,227 --> 01:14:52,061
[quirky music]
2024
01:14:52,155 --> 01:14:53,470
♪ ♪
2025
01:14:53,490 --> 01:14:54,822
- First of all,
2026
01:14:54,974 --> 01:14:56,382
Water doesn't help
with spiciness.
2027
01:14:56,475 --> 01:14:59,309
You drink some milk.
- I hate milk, no.
2028
01:14:59,329 --> 01:15:00,402
[upbeat music]
2029
01:15:00,555 --> 01:15:01,645
- ♪ set the city on fire ♪
2030
01:15:01,739 --> 01:15:04,056
♪ light it up, up ♪
2031
01:15:04,075 --> 01:15:07,059
♪ set the city on fire,
light it all up ♪
2032
01:15:07,078 --> 01:15:10,396
♪ ♪
2033
01:15:10,414 --> 01:15:11,914
- Hi.
What is this?
2034
01:15:12,066 --> 01:15:14,400
- Got a date night for you.
2035
01:15:14,493 --> 01:15:17,160
- Aw, awesome.
What did you get up to?
2036
01:15:17,180 --> 01:15:18,829
[gasps]
- come on.
2037
01:15:18,923 --> 01:15:21,757
- Sweet.
- This is yours.
2038
01:15:21,909 --> 01:15:23,926
♪ ♪
2039
01:15:24,020 --> 01:15:25,353
[laughter]
2040
01:15:25,504 --> 01:15:26,912
- Awesome.
2041
01:15:26,931 --> 01:15:30,507
- The reason why
we're doing a art night,
2042
01:15:30,527 --> 01:15:33,769
There has been
a occurrence in our past
2043
01:15:33,921 --> 01:15:35,530
That I feel like
I need to rectify.
2044
01:15:35,681 --> 01:15:37,514
- Do you not remember?
2045
01:15:37,534 --> 01:15:40,426
I know I still have--
I still have it on my phone.
2046
01:15:40,444 --> 01:15:42,537
"there's a new museum
of fine arts."
2047
01:15:42,764 --> 01:15:44,705
And then I said,
"I have dual membership,
2048
01:15:44,932 --> 01:15:46,432
"but have trouble
finding people interested
2049
01:15:46,525 --> 01:15:48,042
In going to these things,
so I went solo."
2050
01:15:48,193 --> 01:15:49,769
- I would totally go.
2051
01:15:49,787 --> 01:15:52,195
- And you said,
"ha ha, I'd come with you."
2052
01:15:52,215 --> 01:15:54,790
And then you ghosted me.
There's no response after that.
2053
01:15:54,942 --> 01:15:56,609
- There is no way
that is accurate.
2054
01:15:56,627 --> 01:15:58,778
- You did not message me.
2055
01:15:58,871 --> 01:16:00,946
- It's something
I'm not proud of,
2056
01:16:00,965 --> 01:16:04,116
And so, tonight,
I would love to create
2057
01:16:04,209 --> 01:16:07,453
Our own little
art exhibit here.
2058
01:16:07,471 --> 01:16:10,472
- I'm very surprised
and pleased
2059
01:16:10,567 --> 01:16:13,067
Johnny came through
with a redemption date.
2060
01:16:13,294 --> 01:16:14,235
- I feel like this will help
the creativity flow.
2061
01:16:14,462 --> 01:16:16,312
- I think so.
- Cheers to being artists.
2062
01:16:16,406 --> 01:16:18,480
- It's crazy.
2063
01:16:18,633 --> 01:16:22,392
Like, I'm married
to my longstanding crush,
2064
01:16:22,486 --> 01:16:24,653
Actually, who ghosted me.
2065
01:16:24,747 --> 01:16:28,474
♪ ♪
2066
01:16:28,492 --> 01:16:30,476
- So far, I think
we're matching pretty well.
2067
01:16:30,494 --> 01:16:31,660
- We're matching.
2068
01:16:31,813 --> 01:16:35,256
♪ ♪
2069
01:16:35,483 --> 01:16:38,926
You started the sun.
- My sun is fatter.
2070
01:16:39,153 --> 01:16:41,320
- Are you channeling
your bob ross?
2071
01:16:41,413 --> 01:16:44,432
- Yeah.
- Oh, no, this is black.
2072
01:16:44,583 --> 01:16:47,009
You got me distracted, and I
dipped into the black instead.
2073
01:16:47,161 --> 01:16:48,677
[laughs]
2074
01:16:48,830 --> 01:16:50,512
- That's okay.
It doesn't have to be perfect.
2075
01:16:50,607 --> 01:16:53,566
- This is gonna be too dark.
This is too dark.
2076
01:16:56,003 --> 01:16:57,094
Hmm.
2077
01:16:57,188 --> 01:16:58,687
[soft dramatic music]
2078
01:16:58,781 --> 01:17:01,357
More sand.
2079
01:17:01,509 --> 01:17:03,859
- Ugh.
2080
01:17:04,011 --> 01:17:05,453
Like, "bao, please relax."
2081
01:17:05,604 --> 01:17:10,124
Just...
I don't know.
2082
01:17:10,275 --> 01:17:13,610
Got the lights flickering,
got the prosecco flowing,
2083
01:17:13,704 --> 01:17:16,355
And it's discouraging when we
have an opportunity like this.
2084
01:17:16,374 --> 01:17:17,690
I made a liquor run earlier.
2085
01:17:17,708 --> 01:17:19,634
There's extra bottles
of champagne.
2086
01:17:19,861 --> 01:17:21,877
- Let me just try
to figure this out, yeah.
2087
01:17:22,029 --> 01:17:23,545
♪ ♪
2088
01:17:23,640 --> 01:17:26,215
- She is still focused
on painting it right.
2089
01:17:26,367 --> 01:17:27,549
♪ ♪
2090
01:17:27,702 --> 01:17:30,202
- Sad gray.
Mm.
2091
01:17:30,221 --> 01:17:32,705
♪ ♪
2092
01:17:32,798 --> 01:17:35,057
- And we're not doing
any flirtation.
2093
01:17:35,209 --> 01:17:36,892
There's no tension being built.
2094
01:17:37,044 --> 01:17:38,711
I'm just gonna wing it.
2095
01:17:38,729 --> 01:17:41,138
- No, don't do that.
Oh, no.
2096
01:17:41,157 --> 01:17:43,807
- It has been winged.
- Yours is too high.
2097
01:17:43,826 --> 01:17:47,403
- It just feels very...
Task-oriented.
2098
01:17:47,555 --> 01:17:48,829
♪ ♪
2099
01:17:48,981 --> 01:17:50,647
Strictly business.
2100
01:17:50,741 --> 01:17:55,318
- Oh, shoot, oh, shoot.
I need to get mine higher up.
2101
01:17:55,338 --> 01:17:57,487
Oh, no, it's too high.
2102
01:17:57,581 --> 01:17:58,914
- There's beauty
in imperfection.
2103
01:17:59,066 --> 01:18:00,065
- No, there is not!
2104
01:18:00,084 --> 01:18:01,750
♪ ♪
2105
01:18:01,844 --> 01:18:04,570
- It's the same old bao.
2106
01:18:04,588 --> 01:18:08,908
But after
two successful nights,
2107
01:18:08,926 --> 01:18:12,594
And romance coming
from both of them,
2108
01:18:12,689 --> 01:18:15,356
Intimacy in the bedroom,
2109
01:18:15,507 --> 01:18:18,751
Fireworks,
I'm gonna give it my all
2110
01:18:18,844 --> 01:18:22,530
Because anything
feels possible.
2111
01:18:22,757 --> 01:18:24,514
- I've never done
anything like this.
2112
01:18:24,534 --> 01:18:26,091
That is so cool.
2113
01:18:26,110 --> 01:18:28,369
- How's it look?
- Not bad.
2114
01:18:28,520 --> 01:18:30,871
We made a masterpiece.
2115
01:18:31,023 --> 01:18:34,858
Just ignore that there's,
like, a little mess up there.
2116
01:18:34,877 --> 01:18:39,880
[tender music]
2117
01:18:40,107 --> 01:18:43,609
♪ ♪
2118
01:18:43,627 --> 01:18:45,886
- ♪ I want to run ♪
2119
01:18:46,113 --> 01:18:48,130
- Aw.
2120
01:18:48,282 --> 01:18:49,949
- Cute.
2121
01:18:49,967 --> 01:18:52,209
- The pink one matches my coat.
- I like it.
2122
01:18:52,303 --> 01:18:54,119
So you've been here before?
2123
01:18:54,138 --> 01:18:55,804
- The first time
that I came here
2124
01:18:55,898 --> 01:18:59,734
Was because this blogger
that I follow posted her,
2125
01:18:59,961 --> 01:19:01,402
Like, taking a little selfie
with a drink
2126
01:19:01,629 --> 01:19:03,979
Called chanel number 6,
and I was like,
2127
01:19:04,073 --> 01:19:05,481
"oh, my god, I have to go there
and have that drink."
2128
01:19:05,575 --> 01:19:07,074
- Just 'cause of the name.
- Just 'cause of the drink.
2129
01:19:07,226 --> 01:19:08,743
- If it had a different name,
would you get it?
2130
01:19:08,970 --> 01:19:10,411
- No.
2131
01:19:10,638 --> 01:19:11,804
- If it was called, like--
- I like fancy drinks.
2132
01:19:11,897 --> 01:19:13,080
- Was it--
- I like pretty drinks.
2133
01:19:13,307 --> 01:19:14,749
- What about if it was
the same drink, but it was
2134
01:19:14,900 --> 01:19:18,160
Called knockoff number 4?
- No.
2135
01:19:18,254 --> 01:19:19,661
- Man, you know how good that
drink sounds--the knockoff?
2136
01:19:19,756 --> 01:19:20,829
- Have you--?
No.
2137
01:19:20,923 --> 01:19:22,498
- "let me get two knockoffs."
2138
01:19:22,592 --> 01:19:24,741
- Who would--nobody would
even name a drink knockoff,
2139
01:19:24,761 --> 01:19:26,594
First of all, husband.
2140
01:19:28,839 --> 01:19:31,173
Before I was married
at first sight,
2141
01:19:31,267 --> 01:19:35,252
I always envisioned bringing
my husband to a spot like this
2142
01:19:35,346 --> 01:19:37,271
Because I love to dress up,
2143
01:19:37,498 --> 01:19:39,348
And it's a really nice spot
to come out
2144
01:19:39,442 --> 01:19:41,108
And, like, look cute together.
2145
01:19:41,335 --> 01:19:43,669
♪ ♪
2146
01:19:43,762 --> 01:19:45,020
Wait, you have
to do a boomerang.
2147
01:19:45,172 --> 01:19:46,614
- What is the--
you and these boomerangs.
2148
01:19:46,841 --> 01:19:49,174
- I love boomerangs.
We're gonna do it like this.
2149
01:19:49,268 --> 01:19:51,786
We're gonna cheers
our dinner date.
2150
01:19:52,013 --> 01:19:53,695
- I'm all about cheering,
but this boomerang stuff.
2151
01:19:53,790 --> 01:19:55,514
- But you have to smile
'cause you're gonna come out.
2152
01:19:55,533 --> 01:19:57,625
I just want
to have a companion
2153
01:19:57,852 --> 01:20:00,202
To explore the city with
and enjoy the city with,
2154
01:20:00,296 --> 01:20:03,113
So I feel really good.
2155
01:20:03,207 --> 01:20:05,357
So you would come
to a spot like this?
2156
01:20:05,376 --> 01:20:06,859
Like, if I want
to have dinner somewhere,
2157
01:20:06,952 --> 01:20:08,803
We could come
to spots like this.
2158
01:20:08,954 --> 01:20:11,046
- Yes.
Just depends on--
2159
01:20:11,198 --> 01:20:12,531
- Why is it such a slow yes?
2160
01:20:12,624 --> 01:20:14,124
- Because it depends
on how often.
2161
01:20:14,143 --> 01:20:16,051
I like the spot,
2162
01:20:16,145 --> 01:20:19,146
But this is
way too bougie for my tastes.
2163
01:20:19,373 --> 01:20:20,873
- Really?
- Yeah.
2164
01:20:20,891 --> 01:20:22,224
Like, I'm not
a big fan of eating out.
2165
01:20:22,376 --> 01:20:25,820
♪ ♪
2166
01:20:26,047 --> 01:20:26,895
- You're not gonna take
your wife on dates?
2167
01:20:27,048 --> 01:20:28,230
♪ ♪
2168
01:20:28,324 --> 01:20:29,639
Like, brunch.
2169
01:20:29,659 --> 01:20:32,827
I love to do brunch
on the weekends.
2170
01:20:33,054 --> 01:20:34,811
- So you want to go
to brunch every week,
2171
01:20:34,831 --> 01:20:37,480
And you want
to have a dinner date...
2172
01:20:37,500 --> 01:20:38,648
- Twice a month.
2173
01:20:38,742 --> 01:20:42,152
- Twice a month.
That's a lot.
2174
01:20:42,246 --> 01:20:44,246
[soft dramatic music]
2175
01:20:44,398 --> 01:20:46,340
- Remember there was a question
that the experts gave us.
2176
01:20:46,567 --> 01:20:48,325
- Yes.
2177
01:20:48,344 --> 01:20:49,418
- I think it's like,
"what do you need for your--"
2178
01:20:49,570 --> 01:20:51,236
- Significant other,
your spouse?
2179
01:20:51,255 --> 01:20:53,663
- What do I need from you to,
like--to make the choice
2180
01:20:53,757 --> 01:20:55,741
To, like, love someone?
2181
01:20:55,834 --> 01:20:57,576
So, for me, I would definitely
2182
01:20:57,669 --> 01:20:59,854
Want you to be
my brunch husband.
2183
01:21:00,081 --> 01:21:01,338
♪ ♪
2184
01:21:01,432 --> 01:21:03,673
- Your brunch husband?
- Yes.
2185
01:21:03,767 --> 01:21:06,009
For me, that's what I want.
2186
01:21:06,103 --> 01:21:08,420
- My quality time is different.
2187
01:21:08,439 --> 01:21:11,365
It's not about going out
to dinners and stuff.
2188
01:21:11,592 --> 01:21:13,683
Like, I'm okay with going
out here and there,
2189
01:21:13,777 --> 01:21:15,444
But I'd rather cook my food.
2190
01:21:15,596 --> 01:21:17,687
♪ ♪
2191
01:21:17,781 --> 01:21:19,598
Why did you pick
this restaurant?
2192
01:21:19,617 --> 01:21:23,118
♪ ♪
2193
01:21:23,212 --> 01:21:26,046
- 'cause I had been here once,
and they had a pretty drink.
2194
01:21:26,273 --> 01:21:29,032
- Did you think--
did it ever cross your mind
2195
01:21:29,126 --> 01:21:30,459
"he probably wouldn't like it"?
2196
01:21:30,611 --> 01:21:34,371
♪ ♪
2197
01:21:34,390 --> 01:21:37,374
Because, for me to keep going
2198
01:21:37,393 --> 01:21:39,301
In the path that we're going,
2199
01:21:39,395 --> 01:21:41,286
I need consistency
2200
01:21:41,380 --> 01:21:45,232
And just feeling wanted...
2201
01:21:45,459 --> 01:21:46,734
♪ ♪
2202
01:21:46,961 --> 01:21:49,294
Not feeling like
you just want to be married
2203
01:21:49,388 --> 01:21:50,738
Because of the thought
of being married.
2204
01:21:50,965 --> 01:21:52,222
♪ ♪
2205
01:21:52,241 --> 01:21:55,317
We're aiming for love.
2206
01:21:55,469 --> 01:21:57,152
You know, like, I don't want
2207
01:21:57,304 --> 01:21:58,746
To just be another--
2208
01:21:58,897 --> 01:22:00,563
If I was
just a silhouette here,
2209
01:22:00,658 --> 01:22:02,491
I don't want you
to just be happy
2210
01:22:02,643 --> 01:22:03,992
Just 'cause you
got a ring on your finger
2211
01:22:04,145 --> 01:22:05,310
And that silhouette
has a ring on their finger.
2212
01:22:05,329 --> 01:22:07,237
♪ ♪
2213
01:22:07,331 --> 01:22:08,905
I want to know--
I want to feel wanted.
2214
01:22:08,925 --> 01:22:10,649
That's basically what I want.
2215
01:22:10,668 --> 01:22:13,502
♪ ♪
2216
01:22:13,596 --> 01:22:15,095
I don't want my wife
2217
01:22:15,322 --> 01:22:18,674
To just want to be married
to any brunch partner.
2218
01:22:18,826 --> 01:22:20,676
I want to know
that she really,
2219
01:22:20,828 --> 01:22:22,919
Truly wants to be with me
because of who I am.
2220
01:22:23,013 --> 01:22:25,681
Right now, I'm a little unsure.
2221
01:22:25,833 --> 01:22:26,923
I mean, if this is
what you really want,
2222
01:22:26,943 --> 01:22:28,091
Then show me this is
what you really want.
2223
01:22:28,185 --> 01:22:30,945
[dramatic music]
2224
01:22:31,172 --> 01:22:33,447
♪ ♪
2225
01:22:33,674 --> 01:22:36,116
- I really want you
to have brunch with me.
2226
01:22:36,343 --> 01:22:42,181
♪ ♪
2227
01:22:42,199 --> 01:22:44,124
[upbeat music]
2228
01:22:44,276 --> 01:22:45,867
- [laughs]
2229
01:22:45,962 --> 01:22:47,777
- Next time
on "married at first sight"...
2230
01:22:47,797 --> 01:22:49,688
- Oh, heck yeah!
2231
01:22:49,707 --> 01:22:52,691
- With only five weeks left
until decision day,
2232
01:22:52,784 --> 01:22:54,209
Our couples find
that their trust
2233
01:22:54,361 --> 01:22:56,136
And boundaries
are being pushed to the test.
2234
01:22:56,288 --> 01:22:57,379
- You should just be like,
2235
01:22:57,531 --> 01:22:59,214
"no, I'm not
gonna divorce her."
2236
01:22:59,308 --> 01:23:01,883
- No, I still feel like
I will ask for the divorce.
2237
01:23:01,978 --> 01:23:03,535
[dramatic music]
2238
01:23:03,554 --> 01:23:05,204
- What are you thinking
over there?
2239
01:23:05,297 --> 01:23:06,705
- There's something not there.
2240
01:23:06,724 --> 01:23:08,649
♪ ♪
2241
01:23:08,876 --> 01:23:09,799
- I'm tired of that.
2242
01:23:09,893 --> 01:23:12,211
Stop, stop.
I can't--[bleep].
2243
01:23:12,229 --> 01:23:13,636
♪ ♪
2244
01:23:13,656 --> 01:23:15,881
- I did want to tell you
about my infidelity.
2245
01:23:15,899 --> 01:23:18,158
♪ ♪
2246
01:23:18,385 --> 01:23:21,737
- Rachel, uh, calls me
by another man's name.
2247
01:23:21,831 --> 01:23:24,406
- I cannot be your wife.
2248
01:23:24,500 --> 01:23:26,834
To getting locked out!
2249
01:23:26,985 --> 01:23:29,077
I do not love him anymore.
2250
01:23:29,230 --> 01:23:31,922
♪ ♪