1 00:00:02,652 --> 00:00:03,744 - Oh, my gosh. I'm getting married. 2 00:00:03,896 --> 00:00:04,911 - I'm ready? Let's go. Let's go. 3 00:00:05,064 --> 00:00:06,005 - To a complete stranger. 4 00:00:06,156 --> 00:00:06,897 - I'm doing it. - Let's do it. 5 00:00:06,915 --> 00:00:07,898 - Please stand. 6 00:00:07,916 --> 00:00:09,750 [dramatic music] 7 00:00:09,844 --> 00:00:12,069 - One week ago, ten singles took a brave leap of faith 8 00:00:12,087 --> 00:00:13,754 In order to find love. 9 00:00:13,906 --> 00:00:15,180 - Nice to meet you. - Nice to meet you. 10 00:00:15,407 --> 00:00:17,683 - They married as complete strangers. 11 00:00:17,834 --> 00:00:19,593 - You may kiss your bride. 12 00:00:19,687 --> 00:00:22,095 [cheers and applause] 13 00:00:22,189 --> 00:00:23,413 - I'm feeling great. 14 00:00:23,432 --> 00:00:24,839 I'm--I'm a married man. 15 00:00:24,933 --> 00:00:25,840 - Whoa! - [squeals] 16 00:00:25,934 --> 00:00:27,434 - Last time, our couples 17 00:00:27,528 --> 00:00:29,361 Were honeymooning in the florida keys. 18 00:00:29,588 --> 00:00:31,088 All: Cheers. 19 00:00:31,181 --> 00:00:32,531 - ♪ yeah, I was on the fringes ♪ 20 00:00:34,426 --> 00:00:35,701 - Ooh! 21 00:00:35,928 --> 00:00:37,536 - You asked for chocolate chip cookies. 22 00:00:37,687 --> 00:00:39,521 - That is amazing! 23 00:00:39,615 --> 00:00:41,189 I haven't had a kiss yet, 24 00:00:41,208 --> 00:00:43,450 But it's one of those things where her actions 25 00:00:43,544 --> 00:00:46,027 Are finally going behind the things that she says. 26 00:00:46,047 --> 00:00:47,546 - ♪ I was a fool in love ♪ 27 00:00:50,217 --> 00:00:51,291 - What's up, man? How you doing? 28 00:00:51,385 --> 00:00:53,052 - Good. How you feeling? 29 00:00:53,203 --> 00:00:54,386 - I feel a little bit better. - Yeah? 30 00:00:54,538 --> 00:00:55,554 - Missing michaela, but, you know. 31 00:00:55,781 --> 00:00:57,297 - Oh, good. 32 00:00:57,449 --> 00:00:59,283 - I came back to texas yesterday morning 33 00:00:59,301 --> 00:01:00,726 And it sucks, but I understand. 34 00:01:00,877 --> 00:01:03,470 You know, health and safety first, 35 00:01:03,622 --> 00:01:04,396 But I do miss him. 36 00:01:04,623 --> 00:01:07,566 ♪ ♪ 37 00:01:10,296 --> 00:01:11,719 - I don't like it. I don't like it. 38 00:01:11,814 --> 00:01:13,388 - Look, look, look, look. - I can't. I don't like it. 39 00:01:13,407 --> 00:01:15,390 - Turn. - I don't like it. 40 00:01:15,409 --> 00:01:17,743 I'm sure the manatee is the nicest manatee 41 00:01:17,970 --> 00:01:21,062 That ever swam the world, but I don't want to look at it. 42 00:01:21,156 --> 00:01:23,565 - She's been a trooper through it, and hopefully, 43 00:01:23,659 --> 00:01:25,475 She continues to be open about that 44 00:01:25,569 --> 00:01:28,328 'cause I have a lot more crazy [bleep] 45 00:01:28,422 --> 00:01:29,904 That she's probably not gonna want to do. 46 00:01:29,924 --> 00:01:31,673 - ♪ was not, it was a push and pull ♪ 47 00:01:34,169 --> 00:01:36,987 - If physical intimacy doesn't begin months from now, 48 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:38,839 I would think there's a problem. 49 00:01:38,933 --> 00:01:41,675 - Again, as I told you, I have to have boxes checked. 50 00:01:41,769 --> 00:01:44,586 If I don't have boxes checked, it's not happening. 51 00:01:44,605 --> 00:01:45,771 - ♪ self ♪ 52 00:01:49,110 --> 00:01:51,944 - Showering every single day was not my top priority. 53 00:01:52,171 --> 00:01:53,837 - Is that so hard? Like, just rinse off? 54 00:01:53,930 --> 00:01:56,615 As I'm finding we have differences, 55 00:01:56,842 --> 00:01:59,767 They're very important differences to me. 56 00:01:59,787 --> 00:02:01,787 [eerie tone] 57 00:02:02,014 --> 00:02:03,680 ♪ ♪ 58 00:02:03,699 --> 00:02:06,183 - Tonight, the honeymoon is over 59 00:02:06,276 --> 00:02:09,611 And reality is about to set in. 60 00:02:09,630 --> 00:02:11,296 Are you happy? 61 00:02:11,523 --> 00:02:13,023 - I am. 62 00:02:13,116 --> 00:02:15,359 - You don't feel that way about her yet? 63 00:02:15,452 --> 00:02:16,301 - Not yet. 64 00:02:16,528 --> 00:02:19,287 ♪ ♪ 65 00:02:19,306 --> 00:02:21,640 - Have you guys consummated your marriage? 66 00:02:21,867 --> 00:02:24,217 - Well, to be honest, it's a slight fear of mine 67 00:02:24,311 --> 00:02:27,128 Because if you do it too soon, 68 00:02:27,222 --> 00:02:29,464 It could blur your judgment 69 00:02:29,558 --> 00:02:31,725 Because the passion and all that can kind of take over. 70 00:02:31,877 --> 00:02:33,393 ♪ ♪ 71 00:02:33,545 --> 00:02:35,136 - After everything that happened, 72 00:02:35,156 --> 00:02:37,381 I'm conflicted about us. 73 00:02:37,474 --> 00:02:41,142 I plan on going home after this. 74 00:02:41,162 --> 00:02:44,721 I need to just reset my mind and actually be alone. 75 00:02:44,740 --> 00:02:46,498 ♪ ♪ 76 00:02:46,650 --> 00:02:49,242 - Tell me a little bit about your intimate life. 77 00:02:49,395 --> 00:02:51,170 - Um... 78 00:02:51,397 --> 00:02:54,322 - No energy? No sexual chemistry? 79 00:02:54,341 --> 00:02:56,400 - No. 80 00:02:56,418 --> 00:02:58,418 - I took all my [bleep] and I left. 81 00:02:58,512 --> 00:03:00,512 That's because of what you did. - You were gone. 82 00:03:00,664 --> 00:03:02,255 Like--you--I have to te--you were gone. 83 00:03:02,408 --> 00:03:04,090 - [bleep]-- no, I was not gone. 84 00:03:04,243 --> 00:03:05,517 You a [bleep] liar. 85 00:03:05,744 --> 00:03:07,427 ♪ ♪ 86 00:03:07,521 --> 00:03:09,262 - ♪ it's all or nothing ♪ 87 00:03:09,415 --> 00:03:11,673 - This is "married at first sight." 88 00:03:11,692 --> 00:03:13,358 - ♪ there's no other way ♪ 89 00:03:13,585 --> 00:03:15,194 ♪ ♪ 90 00:03:15,345 --> 00:03:17,154 ♪ it's all or nothing ♪ 91 00:03:19,942 --> 00:03:21,700 [lively music] 92 00:03:21,851 --> 00:03:23,685 - ♪ hey ♪ 93 00:03:23,779 --> 00:03:26,038 ♪ yeah, oh ♪ 94 00:03:26,189 --> 00:03:27,931 - I couldn't be any-- any more happier, 95 00:03:27,950 --> 00:03:31,210 And that means that I got the spitting image of me. 96 00:03:31,437 --> 00:03:32,619 And I would date me, of course. Clearly. 97 00:03:32,713 --> 00:03:34,955 [laughter] 98 00:03:35,107 --> 00:03:36,531 - I'm so excited. - Yeah, me too. 99 00:03:36,625 --> 00:03:37,457 - We're gonna live together. 100 00:03:37,609 --> 00:03:40,344 - [snoring] 101 00:03:45,226 --> 00:03:47,392 - [laughs] 102 00:03:47,619 --> 00:03:51,288 ♪ ♪ 103 00:03:51,381 --> 00:03:54,624 - We landed. - We landed. First trip. 104 00:03:54,718 --> 00:03:57,310 She's only missing her hat, but sorry. 105 00:03:57,404 --> 00:03:58,553 We'll take care of that later. 106 00:03:58,572 --> 00:04:00,146 - We made it back to houston. 107 00:04:00,299 --> 00:04:02,315 - I'm kind of sad, but I'm happy to be back home. 108 00:04:02,468 --> 00:04:04,559 - Much, much easier flight for her. 109 00:04:04,653 --> 00:04:08,080 I'm less--less bruised this landing-- 110 00:04:08,231 --> 00:04:10,415 - Stop. I'm sorry. - Than the last one. 111 00:04:10,567 --> 00:04:14,160 We are about to go check out the new apartment. 112 00:04:14,255 --> 00:04:15,829 - I'm actually really excited to move in. 113 00:04:15,923 --> 00:04:18,148 I think it's gonna be-- I think it's gonna be good. 114 00:04:18,166 --> 00:04:21,334 - Not scared. - So no, I'm not scared. 115 00:04:21,487 --> 00:04:28,249 ♪ ♪ 116 00:04:28,269 --> 00:04:30,844 - Home sweet home. 117 00:04:30,996 --> 00:04:32,329 - Let's check this out. - I got it all. 118 00:04:32,347 --> 00:04:33,847 - I'm so excited. - Okay. 119 00:04:33,999 --> 00:04:35,590 ♪ ♪ 120 00:04:35,609 --> 00:04:37,851 - See the houston skyline. It's just so beautiful. 121 00:04:37,945 --> 00:04:39,927 - This is awesome. 122 00:04:40,022 --> 00:04:42,430 - Oh, dang. - This is once. 123 00:04:42,449 --> 00:04:45,509 - Our couples met and married only seven days ago. 124 00:04:45,527 --> 00:04:48,178 - Check this out! 125 00:04:48,271 --> 00:04:50,271 Hey, you got this kitchen that you wanted. 126 00:04:50,291 --> 00:04:53,107 - And now, they're back from the honeymoon 127 00:04:53,127 --> 00:04:55,794 And will begin living together as husband and wife. 128 00:04:56,021 --> 00:04:58,021 - There's lots of closets. This is good. 129 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:00,040 This is good. We're off to a good start. 130 00:05:00,192 --> 00:05:03,043 - We provide each couple with a neutral apartment 131 00:05:03,137 --> 00:05:07,139 To live in at the same complex because we want them to feel 132 00:05:07,290 --> 00:05:10,124 Like they're entering this marriage on equal footing. 133 00:05:10,144 --> 00:05:13,294 - Ooh, man! This is a very nice bathroom. 134 00:05:13,388 --> 00:05:15,889 - Soon, our couples will realize 135 00:05:16,041 --> 00:05:18,892 That the honeymoon is literally over. 136 00:05:19,044 --> 00:05:20,635 - Look, a mop and a broom. Perfect. 137 00:05:20,729 --> 00:05:21,987 - Do you sweep? 138 00:05:22,138 --> 00:05:24,230 - Oh, absolutely. You know I do. 139 00:05:24,325 --> 00:05:27,308 - And this first night together in their new shared home 140 00:05:27,328 --> 00:05:30,720 Is truly the beginning of the rest of their lives. 141 00:05:30,739 --> 00:05:34,666 ♪ ♪ 142 00:05:34,818 --> 00:05:38,152 - Aw, it's our little home. - Love it. 143 00:05:38,246 --> 00:05:40,005 - Oh, my god, it's so cute. 144 00:05:40,232 --> 00:05:42,156 So nice. 145 00:05:42,176 --> 00:05:45,677 For the drinks and everything, dishwasher. 146 00:05:45,829 --> 00:05:47,921 You had said you don't believe in dishwashers. 147 00:05:48,015 --> 00:05:49,239 - I don't. - I do. 148 00:05:49,332 --> 00:05:50,423 - I mean, 'cause I--I do it myself, 149 00:05:50,576 --> 00:05:52,242 So, I mean, I really don't. 150 00:05:52,335 --> 00:05:54,244 - Moving in together, I would hope 151 00:05:54,262 --> 00:05:57,672 That it will be two lives merging together. 152 00:05:57,691 --> 00:06:02,361 I know my husband thinks I'm perfect or near perfect, 153 00:06:02,588 --> 00:06:05,346 But I definitely have those little bad habits 154 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:08,608 That might rub him the wrong way, so. 155 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:12,537 I think I'm gonna... 156 00:06:12,689 --> 00:06:14,614 Go to the gym at 5:00 in the morning. 157 00:06:14,766 --> 00:06:16,766 ♪ ♪ 158 00:06:16,860 --> 00:06:18,526 - So how many alarms would you set? 159 00:06:18,545 --> 00:06:21,938 - So normally, I set about four alarms in the morning, 160 00:06:21,957 --> 00:06:23,531 So it would be depending what time-- 161 00:06:23,550 --> 00:06:24,774 - How many minutes apart are they? 162 00:06:24,868 --> 00:06:26,459 Let me ask you that. - 15. 163 00:06:26,612 --> 00:06:28,445 ♪ ♪ 164 00:06:28,538 --> 00:06:29,888 - So the first one will go off at 4:00, 165 00:06:30,115 --> 00:06:32,949 4:15, 4:30. 166 00:06:32,968 --> 00:06:34,393 - And 5:00. - 4:45. 167 00:06:34,620 --> 00:06:36,119 And then, finally, when you get the last one, 168 00:06:36,138 --> 00:06:37,396 You know that it's time to get up and go? 169 00:06:37,623 --> 00:06:39,046 - It's like I really gotta go. - Why you do that? 170 00:06:39,141 --> 00:06:40,457 Why don't you set one-- 171 00:06:40,550 --> 00:06:42,142 - 'cause I'm so scared of not waking up. 172 00:06:42,294 --> 00:06:44,385 ♪ ♪ 173 00:06:44,405 --> 00:06:45,553 - I'm really not looking forward 174 00:06:45,572 --> 00:06:47,313 To all of them going off tomorrow. 175 00:06:47,466 --> 00:06:50,075 This is now about to really hit home 176 00:06:50,226 --> 00:06:52,411 In regards to normalcy as a married couple. 177 00:06:52,562 --> 00:06:54,061 - I think you're just gonna have 178 00:06:54,156 --> 00:06:56,248 To suffer through my alarms. 179 00:06:56,475 --> 00:07:03,255 ♪ ♪ 180 00:07:03,406 --> 00:07:06,499 - Let me put this in here first. 181 00:07:06,652 --> 00:07:07,759 It feels great knowing that 182 00:07:07,986 --> 00:07:09,410 This is our first apartment together. 183 00:07:09,430 --> 00:07:11,488 You know, this is like why I wanted to get married, 184 00:07:11,581 --> 00:07:13,414 You know, making memories with my wife. 185 00:07:13,434 --> 00:07:15,917 And this is a big one. 186 00:07:15,936 --> 00:07:17,160 - I'm gonna be like a limp person. 187 00:07:17,253 --> 00:07:19,604 - [wheezes] I needed this. 188 00:07:19,831 --> 00:07:21,756 Carrying her over the threshold in our first home 189 00:07:21,775 --> 00:07:22,941 Is like the christening. 190 00:07:23,092 --> 00:07:24,091 - I thought that was really corny 191 00:07:24,111 --> 00:07:26,352 The first time, so it's corny. 192 00:07:26,505 --> 00:07:28,338 Sorry, guys, for all the romantic wives out there 193 00:07:28,356 --> 00:07:29,856 Who think that's beautiful. 194 00:07:30,008 --> 00:07:32,451 - And now, you're here, princess. 195 00:07:32,602 --> 00:07:34,286 I did it our wedding night 196 00:07:34,437 --> 00:07:37,605 And I had to do it in our first home together. 197 00:07:37,624 --> 00:07:40,942 Even if we move from this place into another home, 198 00:07:41,036 --> 00:07:43,369 I'ma have to do it there too. It's gonna be a tradition. 199 00:07:43,464 --> 00:07:46,447 - I still think that's just, like, a little awkward to do. 200 00:07:46,467 --> 00:07:48,800 But overall, it's a sweet gesture. 201 00:07:48,952 --> 00:07:51,786 - Stainless steel. - I like the colors. 202 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:53,454 A double oven. - Backsplash. 203 00:07:53,548 --> 00:07:55,699 Nice little wine cooler there. - This is pretty. 204 00:07:55,792 --> 00:07:57,550 It's very nice. I like it. 205 00:07:57,703 --> 00:08:00,386 - I feel like it's up to your standards. 206 00:08:00,481 --> 00:08:01,963 - Most definitely. 207 00:08:01,982 --> 00:08:06,318 - I could do with much less, but I like it. 208 00:08:06,469 --> 00:08:08,803 My wife's a princess. We all know it. 209 00:08:08,897 --> 00:08:10,471 She knows it. I know it. 210 00:08:10,565 --> 00:08:14,234 So it's a huge relief that myrla likes our new apartment. 211 00:08:14,386 --> 00:08:16,644 That's one less battle I have to take with her. 212 00:08:16,663 --> 00:08:20,240 [gasps] is that the master? This is dope. 213 00:08:20,392 --> 00:08:21,741 - This bed is really tiny. Is this a queen? 214 00:08:21,893 --> 00:08:24,151 ♪ ♪ 215 00:08:24,171 --> 00:08:27,247 - Is this where the magic happens? 216 00:08:27,341 --> 00:08:30,066 - No, husband, this is not where the magic's gonna happen. 217 00:08:30,159 --> 00:08:31,659 We're still strangers. Slow down. 218 00:08:31,753 --> 00:08:33,178 Can I sleep on that side? 219 00:08:33,329 --> 00:08:34,738 - You can take this whole bed for all I care. 220 00:08:34,831 --> 00:08:37,182 [laughter] 221 00:08:37,409 --> 00:08:39,425 - Lovely. 222 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:41,427 - This is your world. 223 00:08:41,522 --> 00:08:44,672 I'm just here, princess. 224 00:08:44,766 --> 00:08:46,191 - I appreciate that. 225 00:08:46,418 --> 00:08:52,697 ♪ ♪ 226 00:08:52,924 --> 00:08:57,184 - Oh, yeah, this is awesome. - [squeals] 227 00:08:57,204 --> 00:08:59,371 - This is gonna be awesome. - Oh, wow. 228 00:08:59,598 --> 00:09:00,539 - Right on the corner. We can see way more. 229 00:09:00,766 --> 00:09:02,615 - Me too. 230 00:09:02,709 --> 00:09:04,284 - Being married is something that I've been looking for 231 00:09:04,378 --> 00:09:06,027 For a long time now. 232 00:09:06,046 --> 00:09:09,697 I'm used to coming home to an empty house, 233 00:09:09,716 --> 00:09:14,294 And now I feel very fortunate to be married to brett. 234 00:09:14,446 --> 00:09:16,629 It's a good feeling that somebody cares 235 00:09:16,723 --> 00:09:20,133 And is genuinely interested in how your day goes, 236 00:09:20,285 --> 00:09:22,135 And we're gonna make a lot of cool memories here. 237 00:09:22,229 --> 00:09:23,636 I'm excited for it. 238 00:09:23,730 --> 00:09:25,046 When do you wanna start bringing stuff in? 239 00:09:25,140 --> 00:09:26,398 - I don't know. - Tomorrow? 240 00:09:26,549 --> 00:09:29,234 - Mm-hmm. And I'm trying to figure out, 241 00:09:29,461 --> 00:09:30,977 Like, how much to bring. - Two months' worth. 242 00:09:31,071 --> 00:09:33,479 - Yeah. Oh, man. 243 00:09:33,574 --> 00:09:36,149 The toiletries alone. 244 00:09:36,243 --> 00:09:38,301 - Necessities. 245 00:09:38,394 --> 00:09:40,987 Only necessities, please. - Mm-hmm. 246 00:09:41,139 --> 00:09:42,472 When I think about living with ryan, 247 00:09:42,490 --> 00:09:44,307 I definitely have some anxiety. 248 00:09:44,326 --> 00:09:47,419 On the honeymoon, we had naps, pools, champagne. 249 00:09:47,646 --> 00:09:50,830 So when you get home, it's just--it's real. 250 00:09:50,924 --> 00:09:55,168 You know, it's real-life work ryan, real-life work brett. 251 00:09:55,262 --> 00:09:57,987 And I'm used to unwinding when I get home from work. 252 00:09:58,006 --> 00:10:00,581 I'm used to talking on the phone with my friends 253 00:10:00,675 --> 00:10:02,675 Or going to the gym when I want. 254 00:10:02,769 --> 00:10:04,344 Like maybe I want to go to the gym at 10:00. 255 00:10:04,496 --> 00:10:05,845 I'ma have to basically consider him now 256 00:10:05,997 --> 00:10:08,014 With everything that I do. 257 00:10:08,108 --> 00:10:10,609 What are your thoughts on if the dogs don't get along? 258 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:13,094 - I mean, your dog's had a full life. 259 00:10:13,113 --> 00:10:16,781 He's had 11 years. - Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. 260 00:10:16,933 --> 00:10:20,677 - No, I mean, us, on the other hand, 261 00:10:20,770 --> 00:10:23,513 What if you start snipping at me? 262 00:10:23,531 --> 00:10:25,031 - I don't think that's gonna happen. 263 00:10:25,183 --> 00:10:30,036 ♪ ♪ 264 00:10:30,188 --> 00:10:33,356 - We already have something here for you. 265 00:10:33,375 --> 00:10:35,282 - This place is gorgeous. I can definitely live here. 266 00:10:35,302 --> 00:10:38,361 - Oh, there's no ice machine. 267 00:10:38,380 --> 00:10:42,198 Not a fan of electric cooktops. 268 00:10:42,217 --> 00:10:44,534 Does this vent out? No, it doesn't. 269 00:10:44,627 --> 00:10:45,977 - You're doing, like, a home inspection 270 00:10:46,129 --> 00:10:47,053 Or something right now. - Oh, yes. 271 00:10:47,147 --> 00:10:48,647 This is so important. 272 00:10:48,798 --> 00:10:51,875 - This place is great, but I feel like sometimes 273 00:10:51,893 --> 00:10:54,135 She takes the fun out of things. 274 00:10:54,154 --> 00:10:55,654 [grunts] 275 00:10:55,881 --> 00:10:57,471 - Very nice. 276 00:10:57,491 --> 00:10:59,991 There's definitely enough pillows for you. 277 00:11:00,218 --> 00:11:02,494 Okay. 278 00:11:02,645 --> 00:11:05,388 - Let me see. If I do this, this. 279 00:11:05,407 --> 00:11:07,557 - Here we go. You're ruining my bed already. 280 00:11:07,575 --> 00:11:09,726 - And this. - Knew this would happen. 281 00:11:09,744 --> 00:11:12,671 - See, this is all I need right here, this much space. 282 00:11:12,822 --> 00:11:15,674 - We'll just, um, reenact our honeymoon. 283 00:11:15,901 --> 00:11:17,509 Here we go. 284 00:11:17,660 --> 00:11:21,754 I think this was exactly what I experienced every night. 285 00:11:21,848 --> 00:11:24,165 - All right, do you have any nerves about living together? 286 00:11:24,184 --> 00:11:25,575 - Absolutely. 287 00:11:25,668 --> 00:11:27,852 I have a feeling you're very particular. 288 00:11:28,079 --> 00:11:29,746 - I mean, I had one-- literally just one thing 289 00:11:29,839 --> 00:11:32,006 That I needed my housemate to do. 290 00:11:32,025 --> 00:11:33,674 If, you know, if we're sleeping together, 291 00:11:33,768 --> 00:11:34,751 Is just the showering thing. 292 00:11:34,844 --> 00:11:36,436 - Yes. - That's really it. 293 00:11:36,530 --> 00:11:39,939 - It's pretty intense, the "must shower before bed" thing. 294 00:11:40,091 --> 00:11:41,366 Um, I-- - I prefer. 295 00:11:41,517 --> 00:11:43,109 I prefer the shower before bed. - Okay, okay. 296 00:11:43,261 --> 00:11:46,187 Because I'm gonna say, I'm not gonna do that. 297 00:11:46,206 --> 00:11:48,448 I know it's your preference. That is not my preference. 298 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:49,541 - Okay. 299 00:11:49,768 --> 00:11:52,359 ♪ ♪ 300 00:11:52,454 --> 00:11:54,862 Um, I did sign up for this, 301 00:11:54,956 --> 00:11:58,608 But I'm having some major concerns and some doubts. 302 00:11:58,626 --> 00:12:01,202 It seems like right now, whenever we start talking, 303 00:12:01,221 --> 00:12:04,205 We are on the verge of having an argument. 304 00:12:04,299 --> 00:12:06,449 And I want to be real 305 00:12:06,468 --> 00:12:09,877 And I want to make sure she's not blindsided 306 00:12:09,896 --> 00:12:11,730 By how I feel. 307 00:12:11,957 --> 00:12:13,214 ♪ ♪ 308 00:12:13,233 --> 00:12:14,548 I mean, this is nice and all, 309 00:12:14,642 --> 00:12:18,127 But I plan on going home after this. 310 00:12:18,146 --> 00:12:23,649 ♪ ♪ 311 00:12:23,744 --> 00:12:25,802 Maybe after dinner, you know, for a couple of days, 312 00:12:25,895 --> 00:12:28,654 Get a break from this whole thing. 313 00:12:28,749 --> 00:12:31,249 I feel like our honeymoon was really fun and exciting, 314 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:33,084 But it's also draining just 'cause 315 00:12:33,311 --> 00:12:36,145 It was an emotional roller coaster for me. 316 00:12:36,239 --> 00:12:37,330 - I know you're not trying to make fun, 317 00:12:37,424 --> 00:12:39,999 But it actually really hurts. 318 00:12:40,093 --> 00:12:42,502 - And every time you work out, don't bring it into the bed. 319 00:12:42,654 --> 00:12:44,337 - I don't want to do that. What if I'm lazy 320 00:12:44,489 --> 00:12:46,322 And I just want to crash-- - then take a shower! 321 00:12:46,415 --> 00:12:49,601 If you're not 100% here, this is never gonna work. 322 00:12:49,828 --> 00:12:51,844 ♪ ♪ 323 00:12:51,997 --> 00:12:54,588 I--I want to be completely transparent with you. 324 00:12:54,682 --> 00:12:56,182 After everything that happened, 325 00:12:56,276 --> 00:12:59,093 I'm conflicted about us, 326 00:12:59,112 --> 00:13:01,337 Like, and I need to figure out all the differences 327 00:13:01,356 --> 00:13:04,023 That came up between us, like, how do I really feel about 'em 328 00:13:04,117 --> 00:13:06,767 Because... [sighs] 329 00:13:06,787 --> 00:13:10,029 I'm not sure. 330 00:13:10,123 --> 00:13:13,291 - Yeah, so that's where I--I would have some concern. 331 00:13:13,442 --> 00:13:16,294 If you need space for that long in a marriage, 332 00:13:16,521 --> 00:13:18,871 It does make me question if you're in it, 333 00:13:19,024 --> 00:13:20,540 Like, if you're really committed. 334 00:13:20,692 --> 00:13:22,525 ♪ ♪ 335 00:13:22,544 --> 00:13:24,302 I'm feeling mixed emotions right now. 336 00:13:24,453 --> 00:13:26,195 A little bit disappointed. 337 00:13:26,214 --> 00:13:27,955 If he's not willing to put in the effort 338 00:13:28,049 --> 00:13:30,124 And he's willing to duck and run, 339 00:13:30,218 --> 00:13:32,035 I'm not gonna stop him. 340 00:13:32,053 --> 00:13:34,312 I hope you aren't setting a precedent 341 00:13:34,539 --> 00:13:36,797 That whenever you feel like it's too much, 342 00:13:36,891 --> 00:13:38,817 You're just gonna step away and just--and just walk 343 00:13:39,044 --> 00:13:40,652 Out of our home that we created, you know? 344 00:13:40,879 --> 00:13:43,713 ♪ ♪ 345 00:13:43,731 --> 00:13:48,551 - I need to just reset my mind and actually be alone. 346 00:13:48,570 --> 00:13:50,978 - Yep, that's fine. That is perfectly fine. 347 00:13:50,997 --> 00:13:54,407 - ♪ I gave you my heart ♪ 348 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:56,059 ♪ ♪ 349 00:13:56,152 --> 00:13:59,486 ♪ I gave you my soul ♪ 350 00:13:59,581 --> 00:14:03,007 ♪ and you threw it all ♪ 351 00:14:03,159 --> 00:14:04,843 ♪ away ♪ 352 00:14:09,257 --> 00:14:11,332 - ♪ are you ready? Are you ready? ♪ 353 00:14:11,351 --> 00:14:13,743 ♪ are you ready? Are you ready? ♪ 354 00:14:13,836 --> 00:14:17,413 - Mm, first morning we're experiencing 355 00:14:17,506 --> 00:14:20,583 With new--new everythings. 356 00:14:20,602 --> 00:14:25,254 - It was great, except for one thing--my alarms. 357 00:14:25,273 --> 00:14:27,014 - Oh, they're already pissing me off. 358 00:14:27,033 --> 00:14:28,867 I couldn't sleep. 359 00:14:29,094 --> 00:14:31,185 - The first days that our couples spend together 360 00:14:31,204 --> 00:14:34,205 In their new shared apartments are extremely important. 361 00:14:34,432 --> 00:14:38,101 - It's 5:35, and I already have to leave. 362 00:14:38,119 --> 00:14:39,602 - Goodbye. 363 00:14:39,621 --> 00:14:41,713 ♪ ♪ 364 00:14:41,940 --> 00:14:43,381 - They will start learning how each other functions 365 00:14:43,532 --> 00:14:44,883 In the real world. 366 00:14:45,034 --> 00:14:46,700 - Morning. 367 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:49,112 - Finally got some sleep after a super, super long day. 368 00:14:49,130 --> 00:14:50,204 - Yeah. 369 00:14:50,298 --> 00:14:52,465 - Now we get to make it 370 00:14:52,559 --> 00:14:53,707 More of a home. 371 00:14:53,801 --> 00:14:55,118 [alarm blares] uh-oh. 372 00:14:55,136 --> 00:14:57,120 - Oh. - All the alarms. 373 00:14:57,138 --> 00:15:00,123 - That means we gotta go. - Okay, bye. 374 00:15:00,141 --> 00:15:01,958 - Spouses who don't move in together, 375 00:15:02,051 --> 00:15:04,127 Either by circumstance or choice, 376 00:15:04,220 --> 00:15:06,312 Are losing valuable time with one another. 377 00:15:06,406 --> 00:15:08,131 - Leaving this resort. 378 00:15:08,149 --> 00:15:11,058 I can't tell you how [bleep] happy I am. 379 00:15:11,077 --> 00:15:13,411 No disrespect. It's just hard to be in the same room 380 00:15:13,638 --> 00:15:16,748 For five days without your wife, 381 00:15:16,899 --> 00:15:19,233 But I'm definitely on my way home. 382 00:15:19,252 --> 00:15:21,085 Thank you, jesus. 383 00:15:21,237 --> 00:15:24,738 - Today, I am going to start packing 384 00:15:24,758 --> 00:15:27,574 And get ready for our move-in. 385 00:15:27,594 --> 00:15:31,078 I started last night. Me and nova did. 386 00:15:31,172 --> 00:15:33,264 Getting ready to move into our neutral apartment with zachary 387 00:15:33,491 --> 00:15:34,840 'cause I really do miss him and it sucks 388 00:15:34,993 --> 00:15:38,678 That we've been away for this long, so okay. 389 00:15:38,772 --> 00:15:41,164 - The sooner the couples face their futures together, 390 00:15:41,257 --> 00:15:42,423 The better their chances will be 391 00:15:42,442 --> 00:15:44,167 Of having successful marriages. 392 00:15:44,185 --> 00:15:46,002 ♪ ♪ 393 00:15:46,095 --> 00:15:50,173 - Putting on my war paint. Prepare for battle. 394 00:15:50,191 --> 00:15:53,100 Good. All right. All right. 395 00:15:53,119 --> 00:15:55,119 - For these next couple days, 396 00:15:55,346 --> 00:15:58,347 While I'm away from my wife, I just need a reset. 397 00:15:58,441 --> 00:16:01,608 Lately, it's feeling like I'm finding all the ways 398 00:16:01,628 --> 00:16:03,202 That we're--we're-- we're different. 399 00:16:03,354 --> 00:16:06,447 Are these differences gonna keep us 400 00:16:06,466 --> 00:16:09,375 From having a successful marriage? 401 00:16:09,527 --> 00:16:12,695 Can we get past 'em? 402 00:16:12,714 --> 00:16:15,640 I mean--I mean, I hope so. 403 00:16:15,867 --> 00:16:18,125 They always told me marriage is not easy. 404 00:16:18,144 --> 00:16:23,147 I am barely married for a week, 405 00:16:23,374 --> 00:16:25,041 And I agree. 406 00:16:25,059 --> 00:16:27,485 ♪ ♪ 407 00:16:27,636 --> 00:16:30,062 What the hell? 408 00:16:30,215 --> 00:16:32,657 ♪ ♪ 409 00:16:32,808 --> 00:16:36,068 - ♪ ooh, ooh ♪ 410 00:16:36,221 --> 00:16:38,237 ♪ ♪ 411 00:16:38,331 --> 00:16:39,497 [doorbell rings] 412 00:16:39,648 --> 00:16:41,499 ♪ oh ♪ 413 00:16:41,650 --> 00:16:44,151 - Our couples have been married for one week, 414 00:16:44,170 --> 00:16:46,671 And now it's time to get a closer look 415 00:16:46,898 --> 00:16:49,490 At how their spouse lived before they were married. 416 00:16:49,509 --> 00:16:51,843 - Welcome to my humble abode. 417 00:16:52,070 --> 00:16:54,420 - As they pack up their personal belongings 418 00:16:54,572 --> 00:16:56,830 To bring to their new shared apartments, 419 00:16:56,850 --> 00:16:59,666 This will be the first time our husbands and wives 420 00:16:59,761 --> 00:17:02,687 See their spouses' homes. 421 00:17:02,838 --> 00:17:04,689 - What's the password? - Show me all the things. 422 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:06,691 I want to see everything. - Welcome. 423 00:17:06,842 --> 00:17:10,344 - And there are bound to be a few revelations. 424 00:17:10,363 --> 00:17:12,846 - I wanna snoop. I want to see everything. 425 00:17:12,866 --> 00:17:14,032 - How are ya? - I'm already 426 00:17:14,183 --> 00:17:16,259 Checking things out. Laundry room-- 427 00:17:16,352 --> 00:17:18,094 - Feel free. Feel free. 428 00:17:18,112 --> 00:17:19,428 - I'll stay out of the laundry room. 429 00:17:19,447 --> 00:17:21,355 First time at brett's apartment. 430 00:17:21,449 --> 00:17:24,267 I think you can tell a lot by how a person lives 431 00:17:24,285 --> 00:17:26,860 And digging into their decor and pictures 432 00:17:26,954 --> 00:17:28,788 And artwork and books. 433 00:17:28,940 --> 00:17:30,439 And I like the color. 434 00:17:30,533 --> 00:17:33,626 I--I probably need some-- some color in my life. 435 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:35,795 - Baxter, who is that? 436 00:17:35,889 --> 00:17:38,038 - "I have no clue, mom." 437 00:17:38,058 --> 00:17:40,116 - You have a dad. You're his new dad. 438 00:17:40,134 --> 00:17:41,951 - [grunts] 439 00:17:41,969 --> 00:17:43,227 Show me the place. Show me the place. 440 00:17:43,379 --> 00:17:45,045 - Okay! - Show me baxter's room. 441 00:17:45,139 --> 00:17:46,305 - This is his whole room. 442 00:17:46,457 --> 00:17:48,291 - Whoa. That was athletic. Parkour. 443 00:17:48,384 --> 00:17:49,975 - I told you. - Extreme parkour. 444 00:17:50,070 --> 00:17:51,218 Parkour, parkour. 445 00:17:51,237 --> 00:17:52,978 Baxter is great. 446 00:17:53,073 --> 00:17:55,298 High energy for an older dog. I didn't expect that. 447 00:17:55,316 --> 00:17:57,408 - He's always excited all the time. 448 00:17:57,635 --> 00:17:59,819 - For over a year now, maisey has really been 449 00:17:59,971 --> 00:18:01,412 The only constant in my life, 450 00:18:01,564 --> 00:18:03,823 So now I have another constant coming in. 451 00:18:03,975 --> 00:18:05,232 That'll be awesome to have. 452 00:18:05,326 --> 00:18:08,144 So I think we'll be good. 453 00:18:08,162 --> 00:18:11,255 - And then, this is my bedroom. - Uh-oh. 454 00:18:11,482 --> 00:18:13,740 - Ta-da. - It's very--very calming. 455 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:15,668 - Everyone always says that. - This-- 456 00:18:15,762 --> 00:18:17,595 - I'm glad. - It is. 457 00:18:17,746 --> 00:18:20,656 I haven't lived with a significant other in 15 years, 458 00:18:20,675 --> 00:18:22,508 So it's--it's been a long time for me 459 00:18:22,602 --> 00:18:26,996 To--to share personal space, a bathroom, closets. 460 00:18:27,089 --> 00:18:29,999 But I like that she does add her touch to things 461 00:18:30,017 --> 00:18:31,350 And it--it looks good. 462 00:18:31,502 --> 00:18:33,018 It makes me feel better about 463 00:18:33,171 --> 00:18:36,430 Spending my life living with brett. 464 00:18:36,449 --> 00:18:39,600 Baxter, you gotta come with us. - He is. 465 00:18:39,694 --> 00:18:41,360 - Parkouring everywhere. - Everywhere. 466 00:18:41,512 --> 00:18:43,863 Oh, got him! Tricked ya. 467 00:18:43,957 --> 00:18:45,348 - Going to a new home, and you don't even know it. 468 00:18:45,366 --> 00:18:46,532 - I know. 469 00:18:46,684 --> 00:18:47,774 - I'm very interested to see 470 00:18:47,869 --> 00:18:48,942 How him and maisey get along. 471 00:18:49,036 --> 00:18:50,628 - It's a lot of pressure. 472 00:18:50,855 --> 00:18:52,130 - Basically to sniff some butts. 473 00:18:52,281 --> 00:18:53,522 [laughter] 474 00:18:53,541 --> 00:19:00,471 ♪ ♪ 475 00:19:01,215 --> 00:19:04,124 - Hi. - Hey. 476 00:19:04,218 --> 00:19:07,720 - So happy to see you. - I know, right? 477 00:19:07,814 --> 00:19:09,555 So-- - oh, I'm so excited! 478 00:19:09,707 --> 00:19:11,874 It's just crazy to believe that a week ago, 479 00:19:11,893 --> 00:19:13,818 I was just a single gal living by herself, 480 00:19:14,045 --> 00:19:16,821 And now I'm visiting my husband's house-- 481 00:19:16,972 --> 00:19:20,474 Possibly my new home, because that's what jose wants. 482 00:19:20,493 --> 00:19:21,808 Okay. - I put a lot of time 483 00:19:21,828 --> 00:19:23,219 And effort into it 'cause I was like-- 484 00:19:23,237 --> 00:19:25,905 - Nothing scary so far. - Of course not. 485 00:19:25,999 --> 00:19:27,999 - Is this the office? 486 00:19:28,226 --> 00:19:31,335 But I feel like I'm not quite there yet. 487 00:19:31,487 --> 00:19:33,896 So I am a little worried because 488 00:19:33,915 --> 00:19:35,898 I want it to feel like our home 489 00:19:35,917 --> 00:19:38,492 And not that I'm just moving into his house. 490 00:19:38,586 --> 00:19:40,069 - This is my bedroom. 491 00:19:40,087 --> 00:19:42,013 - [gasps] it's big. 492 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:45,516 - And then, this is my nice, big sectional leather couch. 493 00:19:45,743 --> 00:19:47,410 Is your couch better than this? - I mean-- 494 00:19:47,503 --> 00:19:49,094 - And so--so the corners, like, recline, 495 00:19:49,189 --> 00:19:51,580 So this one pops out. 496 00:19:51,599 --> 00:19:53,006 - Okay. 497 00:19:53,100 --> 00:19:55,251 - And it goes back too. 498 00:19:55,269 --> 00:19:56,694 It's nice, right? - It's really nice-- 499 00:19:56,921 --> 00:19:58,512 - And then, of course, you know, interior lights, 500 00:19:58,531 --> 00:20:00,031 And then, so the high ceilings. 501 00:20:00,182 --> 00:20:01,273 I put my big christmas tree here. 502 00:20:01,426 --> 00:20:02,258 - Yeah. - It's a 12-footer, 503 00:20:02,276 --> 00:20:03,367 And it's just-- it looks-- 504 00:20:03,519 --> 00:20:05,018 Especially overlooking the windows. 505 00:20:05,038 --> 00:20:07,020 Of course, I want a two-story. - Mm-hmm. 506 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:08,522 - I want a pool table upstairs. 507 00:20:08,541 --> 00:20:10,208 I want a swimming pool in the back. 508 00:20:10,435 --> 00:20:11,858 You know, I think my mother gave it to me 509 00:20:11,878 --> 00:20:13,878 'cause I think it was, like, a sewing thing, and she... 510 00:20:14,029 --> 00:20:15,955 Take a quick look at that. Let me go grab a box real quick 511 00:20:16,107 --> 00:20:16,863 So we can-- - oh, okay. 512 00:20:16,958 --> 00:20:19,199 [dramatic musical sting] 513 00:20:19,219 --> 00:20:22,111 Oh, no. The budget board. 514 00:20:22,129 --> 00:20:25,948 ♪ ♪ 515 00:20:25,967 --> 00:20:27,558 - Okay. 516 00:20:27,785 --> 00:20:29,042 I know that you told me as well, 517 00:20:29,062 --> 00:20:31,062 You--you have something like that. 518 00:20:31,289 --> 00:20:34,139 - Well, no, I don't have something like that. 519 00:20:34,292 --> 00:20:35,791 - It's similar, right? - No. 520 00:20:35,810 --> 00:20:38,294 [dramatic musical sting] 521 00:20:38,312 --> 00:20:40,721 - Um... 522 00:20:40,815 --> 00:20:42,298 - I just have a calendar. 523 00:20:42,316 --> 00:20:43,799 I don't write anything about my money. 524 00:20:43,818 --> 00:20:45,634 - Okay. 525 00:20:45,653 --> 00:20:47,820 [slowly] you want 526 00:20:47,914 --> 00:20:50,397 To get to something like this, 527 00:20:50,491 --> 00:20:53,233 And I'm gonna help you. 528 00:20:53,253 --> 00:20:55,569 - He is very strict on his budget 529 00:20:55,588 --> 00:20:58,422 And I don't know if I could fit, 530 00:20:58,574 --> 00:21:02,485 You know, in a box like that when it comes to finances. 531 00:21:02,503 --> 00:21:04,153 We work hard. 532 00:21:04,171 --> 00:21:06,005 We should enjoy things sometimes. 533 00:21:06,099 --> 00:21:08,599 And, yeah, splurging a little now and then 534 00:21:08,751 --> 00:21:10,342 Isn't such a big deal. 535 00:21:10,495 --> 00:21:16,274 ♪ ♪ 536 00:21:20,763 --> 00:21:22,280 - ♪ this is my world ♪ 537 00:21:22,507 --> 00:21:24,673 ♪ ♪ 538 00:21:24,692 --> 00:21:26,767 ♪ this is my world ♪ 539 00:21:26,786 --> 00:21:29,178 - Welcome to my humble abode. 540 00:21:29,196 --> 00:21:32,181 - Okay. 541 00:21:32,199 --> 00:21:33,849 Looks good. I like it. 542 00:21:33,942 --> 00:21:35,017 All right. Let's see what we got there. 543 00:21:35,110 --> 00:21:36,443 [laughter] 544 00:21:36,462 --> 00:21:38,612 Oh, let's see the decorations. 545 00:21:38,631 --> 00:21:41,299 I likey. I likey. 546 00:21:41,526 --> 00:21:44,451 A week ago, I didn't know who myrla feria was. 547 00:21:44,545 --> 00:21:47,379 Now, she's my wife, and I'm excited 548 00:21:47,473 --> 00:21:51,142 To see everything that entails a diva's apartment. 549 00:21:51,369 --> 00:21:54,219 I expect 24-karat gold everything, 550 00:21:54,372 --> 00:21:56,221 Diamond everything, 551 00:21:56,374 --> 00:21:58,816 You know, just glitz and glam all over. 552 00:21:58,967 --> 00:22:00,726 All right. Here we go. 553 00:22:00,878 --> 00:22:02,636 - This is my humble abode, in the bedroom. 554 00:22:02,730 --> 00:22:04,971 - Look at that king size. 555 00:22:04,991 --> 00:22:06,065 This is awesome. 556 00:22:06,159 --> 00:22:08,141 Tell me about these pictures. 557 00:22:08,161 --> 00:22:11,311 [all vocalizing] 558 00:22:11,331 --> 00:22:12,905 - These are my trips. 559 00:22:12,999 --> 00:22:15,333 I like to take pictures of the trips that I go on. 560 00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:17,818 - And I liked that you-- memory is not good enough. 561 00:22:17,912 --> 00:22:20,896 You gotta make sure you see yourself. 562 00:22:20,989 --> 00:22:22,731 - ♪ she's a certified painting ♪ 563 00:22:22,750 --> 00:22:24,416 ♪ this girl is magical ♪ 564 00:22:24,510 --> 00:22:26,677 ♪ ♪ 565 00:22:26,829 --> 00:22:28,346 - You love yourself. I told you. 566 00:22:28,573 --> 00:22:30,330 - Who doesn't love-- who doesn't love themselves? 567 00:22:30,424 --> 00:22:31,757 - I'm just saying. 568 00:22:31,851 --> 00:22:33,909 - ♪ this girl is magical ♪ 569 00:22:34,002 --> 00:22:35,260 - Well, let's show you the closet. 570 00:22:35,413 --> 00:22:37,429 - All right. 571 00:22:37,582 --> 00:22:39,005 Ooh. - This is my closet. 572 00:22:39,025 --> 00:22:40,766 My small closet. 573 00:22:40,918 --> 00:22:42,585 [singing in italian] 574 00:22:42,603 --> 00:22:49,450 ♪ ♪ 575 00:22:52,113 --> 00:22:54,205 - Jesus, you got a boatload of clothes. 576 00:22:54,432 --> 00:22:56,040 Golly! 577 00:22:56,267 --> 00:22:57,783 Like-- 578 00:22:57,935 --> 00:22:59,435 - I think it's really nice. 579 00:22:59,453 --> 00:23:03,288 - Louie vuitton. Marciano. Gucci. 580 00:23:03,441 --> 00:23:04,882 What do these typically run? 581 00:23:05,033 --> 00:23:06,959 - Like the classic styles are, like, $600. 582 00:23:07,053 --> 00:23:09,294 - ♪ oh, my god ♪ 583 00:23:09,389 --> 00:23:11,630 - What's the most expensive pair you have in here? 584 00:23:11,782 --> 00:23:13,949 - Like a thousand dollars. - What these run you? 585 00:23:13,968 --> 00:23:15,226 'cause I know louis' expensive. 586 00:23:15,453 --> 00:23:17,302 - I think they were like 800 or 900. 587 00:23:17,455 --> 00:23:19,897 - [blows raspberry] 588 00:23:20,124 --> 00:23:23,976 How often do you buy a pair of these? 589 00:23:24,070 --> 00:23:26,145 Like, how many times a year would you say you buy 590 00:23:26,297 --> 00:23:29,556 A pair of designer-- like louis vuittons, louis? 591 00:23:29,575 --> 00:23:31,634 - Like I'll buy, like, two or three pairs. 592 00:23:31,727 --> 00:23:33,485 - And you'll be done for the year? 593 00:23:33,638 --> 00:23:35,729 - I probably go, like, two to three times a year. 594 00:23:35,748 --> 00:23:38,249 - Golly! 595 00:23:38,476 --> 00:23:41,143 You know, being a firefighter, I am not bougie, 596 00:23:41,162 --> 00:23:45,648 So I was a little amazed about how much she spends in a year. 597 00:23:45,741 --> 00:23:47,816 I want to put my money towards real estate 598 00:23:47,835 --> 00:23:49,927 Or things that's gonna be a little more lucrative 599 00:23:50,078 --> 00:23:51,320 For what I envision in my future. 600 00:23:51,338 --> 00:23:53,597 How much would you say, 601 00:23:53,824 --> 00:23:55,916 If you had to put insurance on your closet? 602 00:23:56,010 --> 00:23:57,676 - Like 15. 10 or 15. - Okay. 603 00:23:57,828 --> 00:23:59,678 Now that we're married, she has to understand 604 00:23:59,830 --> 00:24:03,332 That we come first before clothes and shoes 605 00:24:03,350 --> 00:24:04,758 And all those material things. 606 00:24:04,777 --> 00:24:07,519 So is she gonna continue to shop how she did 607 00:24:07,613 --> 00:24:10,355 When she was single, or are things going to change? 608 00:24:10,450 --> 00:24:12,675 - I don't keep count of how much I spend on shoes. 609 00:24:12,693 --> 00:24:14,843 ♪ ♪ 610 00:24:14,862 --> 00:24:18,013 - ♪ it's all about that money, money, money ♪ 611 00:24:18,032 --> 00:24:19,364 - Must be nice. 612 00:24:19,459 --> 00:24:24,277 ♪ ♪ 613 00:24:24,297 --> 00:24:26,205 - ♪ I never really know ♪ 614 00:24:26,299 --> 00:24:28,299 ♪ ♪ 615 00:24:28,450 --> 00:24:30,542 ♪ which way this is gonna go ♪ 616 00:24:30,636 --> 00:24:33,119 ♪ ♪ 617 00:24:33,214 --> 00:24:34,972 [line trilling] 618 00:24:35,123 --> 00:24:36,548 - Hello? - Hello. 619 00:24:36,701 --> 00:24:38,959 Hey, so I'm outside. 620 00:24:39,053 --> 00:24:41,704 Maybe you can bring maisey outside, 621 00:24:41,722 --> 00:24:44,315 That way I don't have to bring baxter inside 622 00:24:44,542 --> 00:24:47,985 To, like, be all up in her territory for the first time? 623 00:24:48,136 --> 00:24:49,320 - All right. I'll bring her. - Okay. 624 00:24:49,471 --> 00:24:50,395 - Bye. - Bye. 625 00:24:50,490 --> 00:24:52,231 ♪ ♪ 626 00:24:52,325 --> 00:24:54,140 Oh, the puppy! 627 00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:56,327 She's so fluffy. 628 00:24:56,478 --> 00:25:00,480 Hello. Hi. 629 00:25:00,574 --> 00:25:01,999 - She's like, "why am I on a leash?" 630 00:25:02,150 --> 00:25:04,059 This is exactly why you're on a leash. 631 00:25:04,152 --> 00:25:07,229 No, come here. Sit down. 632 00:25:07,248 --> 00:25:10,566 - Maisey is like a giant fluffy puppy. 633 00:25:10,584 --> 00:25:12,343 She's the cutest. 634 00:25:12,570 --> 00:25:14,512 I'm a huge dog lover/ animal lover, 635 00:25:14,739 --> 00:25:17,756 So my mind is just kind of, like, spinning 636 00:25:17,908 --> 00:25:19,908 With, like, what's gonna happen if they don't get along 637 00:25:19,927 --> 00:25:22,427 And what are we going to do? [sighs] 638 00:25:22,580 --> 00:25:24,504 He's like, "what is going on out there?" 639 00:25:24,524 --> 00:25:26,023 Look at his face. 640 00:25:26,250 --> 00:25:28,008 [baxter growls] [sinister tone] 641 00:25:28,027 --> 00:25:29,601 - Baxter is ready to go nuts. 642 00:25:29,754 --> 00:25:32,863 - Mm-mm-mm. - Only one way to find out. 643 00:25:33,015 --> 00:25:34,014 - Come on. 644 00:25:34,033 --> 00:25:35,274 - What is that? 645 00:25:35,368 --> 00:25:37,926 What is that? 646 00:25:38,020 --> 00:25:40,779 - Okay, okay, okay. It's okay. 647 00:25:40,931 --> 00:25:42,281 - "come play with me." 648 00:25:42,433 --> 00:25:44,433 Y'all are good. Y'all are good. 649 00:25:44,451 --> 00:25:45,543 - Kisses. 650 00:25:45,694 --> 00:25:48,270 - ♪ call it puppy love ♪ 651 00:25:48,289 --> 00:25:50,548 ♪ ♪ 652 00:25:50,699 --> 00:25:51,698 ♪ call it puppy love ♪ 653 00:25:51,717 --> 00:25:52,716 - They're gonna be fine. 654 00:25:52,868 --> 00:25:54,610 [baxter barks] - oh, no. 655 00:25:54,703 --> 00:25:56,945 [baxter growling] baxter, stop. 656 00:25:56,964 --> 00:25:58,630 ♪ ♪ 657 00:25:58,783 --> 00:26:01,041 - Uh-oh. 658 00:26:01,135 --> 00:26:02,560 - It's okay. No, no, no. 659 00:26:02,787 --> 00:26:03,619 He's like, "I'm done with this." 660 00:26:03,712 --> 00:26:06,046 Come here. 661 00:26:06,065 --> 00:26:08,957 Baxter, stop. 662 00:26:09,051 --> 00:26:12,961 I mean, the tails are wagging. Is that normal? 663 00:26:12,980 --> 00:26:14,905 - I think they'll probably be better off the leash, I think. 664 00:26:15,132 --> 00:26:17,466 - You think? I'm worried, though. 665 00:26:17,484 --> 00:26:21,227 ♪ ♪ 666 00:26:21,322 --> 00:26:24,248 - Brett is incredibly stressed with the dogs right now 667 00:26:24,399 --> 00:26:26,975 And I need her to just relax about things sometimes. 668 00:26:27,069 --> 00:26:29,311 She's high-strung about certain things, 669 00:26:29,330 --> 00:26:32,256 Whether it be the flying, or the kayaking, and now the dogs. 670 00:26:32,483 --> 00:26:34,908 ♪ ♪ 671 00:26:35,002 --> 00:26:36,427 - I don't know. 672 00:26:36,654 --> 00:26:38,745 - Just sometimes you just have to relax 673 00:26:38,764 --> 00:26:40,431 And not overthink everything. 674 00:26:40,658 --> 00:26:42,082 - All right. I'll put him in the car. 675 00:26:42,101 --> 00:26:43,325 - Yeah, put him in. - Okay. 676 00:26:43,418 --> 00:26:45,251 - They'll revisit very soon. 677 00:26:45,346 --> 00:26:46,770 - Come here. [baxter snarls] 678 00:26:46,997 --> 00:26:48,513 Why? Why? 679 00:26:48,608 --> 00:26:49,832 - ♪ yeah ♪ 680 00:26:49,850 --> 00:26:53,185 ♪ ♪ 681 00:26:53,337 --> 00:26:55,003 - Ta-da. 682 00:26:55,022 --> 00:26:57,615 ♪ ♪ 683 00:26:57,766 --> 00:26:59,675 - It smells wonderful. - It smells good. 684 00:26:59,768 --> 00:27:01,101 I love candles. You're a candle guy too. 685 00:27:01,195 --> 00:27:03,695 - I see that. I am--I am a candle guy. 686 00:27:03,848 --> 00:27:07,015 - I really am looking forward to him just seeing 687 00:27:07,109 --> 00:27:08,867 All the travels I've had. 688 00:27:09,019 --> 00:27:11,870 I want him to see what my sense of style is 689 00:27:12,022 --> 00:27:16,116 And see that I am a very organized and tidy person. 690 00:27:16,135 --> 00:27:17,526 - So, yeah, you know-- 691 00:27:17,619 --> 00:27:20,471 - You know what happened here? - Whoa. 692 00:27:20,698 --> 00:27:22,547 - Called an ice storm. - What's all this clutter? 693 00:27:22,700 --> 00:27:24,533 Damn near tripped on myself walking in. 694 00:27:24,551 --> 00:27:27,035 There was five empty water jugs 695 00:27:27,129 --> 00:27:28,812 That greeted me at the front door, 696 00:27:28,964 --> 00:27:30,797 So there may be some hoarding tendencies that were there. 697 00:27:30,891 --> 00:27:32,391 Like I would have discarded with them, 698 00:27:32,543 --> 00:27:35,802 She just kinda kept them hanging around, so. 699 00:27:35,821 --> 00:27:39,139 How many bags do you have? - I have no idea. 700 00:27:39,233 --> 00:27:40,974 - [sighs] - so-- 701 00:27:41,068 --> 00:27:42,551 - I can't be too mad. 702 00:27:42,569 --> 00:27:44,903 I mean, it's not, like, overly crazy. 703 00:27:45,055 --> 00:27:46,738 - It's not crazy stuff, right? - But it is. 704 00:27:46,891 --> 00:27:48,740 Meh. 705 00:27:48,834 --> 00:27:50,668 - So here's the desk. 706 00:27:50,819 --> 00:27:54,563 So all these little pencils are actually places I've traveled. 707 00:27:54,656 --> 00:27:55,747 - Wait, what are we gonna do with this 708 00:27:55,900 --> 00:27:57,582 In the next two years? 709 00:27:57,735 --> 00:27:59,234 You're gonna keep all of 'em? - I can't have my own desk? 710 00:27:59,253 --> 00:28:02,996 ♪ ♪ 711 00:28:03,015 --> 00:28:05,182 - I mean, we could. Yeah. - With my pencils? 712 00:28:05,409 --> 00:28:06,575 - Um... 713 00:28:06,593 --> 00:28:07,851 Come on, like, you don't need-- 714 00:28:08,003 --> 00:28:09,578 You don't need 50 pencils. 715 00:28:09,671 --> 00:28:11,188 I know they probably mean something to her, 716 00:28:11,339 --> 00:28:13,598 But a lot--lot of pencils. 717 00:28:13,693 --> 00:28:15,008 - So this is my little globe. 718 00:28:15,102 --> 00:28:16,585 - Oh, interesting. 719 00:28:16,678 --> 00:28:19,087 - I write a place that I would like to go visit, 720 00:28:19,106 --> 00:28:21,181 And then, I'm like, oh, we're going to japan. 721 00:28:21,275 --> 00:28:23,775 - That's--okay. - Uh-huh. 722 00:28:23,869 --> 00:28:26,870 - Can you be that spontaneous? - Yeah, no. 723 00:28:27,022 --> 00:28:28,855 - Oh. [forced laughter] 724 00:28:28,874 --> 00:28:31,266 - She likes to travel. I get that. 725 00:28:31,285 --> 00:28:33,285 You know, I didn't know that it was to that extreme. 726 00:28:33,437 --> 00:28:34,603 It's a lot of money. 727 00:28:34,621 --> 00:28:41,701 ♪ ♪ 728 00:28:41,795 --> 00:28:45,038 - Come on. - Come on. 729 00:28:45,057 --> 00:28:47,874 This is my home. - Ooh. Hello, home. 730 00:28:47,893 --> 00:28:49,117 - There's not a lot down here. 731 00:28:49,211 --> 00:28:51,620 It's an--there's an empty bedroom. 732 00:28:51,638 --> 00:28:53,121 We can go upstairs, and that's where things 733 00:28:53,140 --> 00:28:54,623 Actually start happening. 734 00:28:54,641 --> 00:28:55,882 My sister got me that for christmas, 735 00:28:55,901 --> 00:28:56,975 I felt like-- - oh, my gosh. 736 00:28:57,127 --> 00:28:58,810 - I had--I had to put it up. 737 00:28:58,904 --> 00:29:00,571 ♪ ♪ 738 00:29:00,798 --> 00:29:03,799 A lot less color. - Very much so. 739 00:29:03,817 --> 00:29:05,650 I mean, the house is gorgeous. 740 00:29:05,745 --> 00:29:07,302 I can definitely see myself living here, yeah, 741 00:29:07,395 --> 00:29:09,654 But definitely a man lives here, 742 00:29:09,807 --> 00:29:11,306 Which is what I expected. 743 00:29:11,325 --> 00:29:12,975 There's probably, like, 744 00:29:13,068 --> 00:29:15,068 12 different shades of brown in the house. 745 00:29:15,162 --> 00:29:17,646 [laughs softly] 746 00:29:17,664 --> 00:29:19,498 We can--we can work on it. It's fine. 747 00:29:19,650 --> 00:29:21,258 Lots of space for one young man. 748 00:29:21,409 --> 00:29:22,834 - You wanna go up? - Yeah, let's go up. 749 00:29:22,987 --> 00:29:24,669 - You lead the way. 750 00:29:24,822 --> 00:29:26,488 - Come follow me. Let me show you my house. 751 00:29:26,581 --> 00:29:28,599 - Maisey, come on. Maisey. 752 00:29:28,826 --> 00:29:31,343 Okay, later. 753 00:29:31,495 --> 00:29:32,995 Ignore the deer. That's probably not your-- 754 00:29:33,013 --> 00:29:34,605 - Ooh! Scared me. 755 00:29:34,832 --> 00:29:36,498 - But I usually-- I usually dress him up. 756 00:29:36,517 --> 00:29:38,275 - Oh, my god. I can't. 757 00:29:38,426 --> 00:29:42,354 Um, surprise deer head in the bedroom. 758 00:29:42,506 --> 00:29:45,007 Not shocked, but not a fan. 759 00:29:45,100 --> 00:29:46,432 Did you kill him? - Yeah, I did. 760 00:29:46,452 --> 00:29:47,451 - You did? - Yeah. 761 00:29:47,678 --> 00:29:50,028 ♪ ♪ 762 00:29:50,122 --> 00:29:52,272 Why would I have a random deer on the wall 763 00:29:52,366 --> 00:29:53,865 That I didn't shoot? - I don't know. 764 00:29:54,018 --> 00:29:55,517 I don't shoot stuff. 765 00:29:55,610 --> 00:29:58,353 - No. No, I shot the deer. 766 00:29:58,446 --> 00:30:00,631 - You're very attached to this? Are you keeping this forever? 767 00:30:00,782 --> 00:30:02,299 - No, it can go in, like, the garage or something. 768 00:30:02,450 --> 00:30:03,859 - Perfect. 769 00:30:03,877 --> 00:30:05,803 - Wherever baxter's timeout area is 770 00:30:06,030 --> 00:30:08,213 For snipping at my dog, that's where that thing can go. 771 00:30:08,365 --> 00:30:10,215 - Don't put baxter up there on the wall. 772 00:30:10,367 --> 00:30:12,458 - [chuckles] 773 00:30:12,553 --> 00:30:13,977 [baxter whimpers] 774 00:30:19,043 --> 00:30:20,800 ♪ ♪ 775 00:30:20,894 --> 00:30:22,778 - Here's my lovely abode! 776 00:30:24,472 --> 00:30:26,214 - It certainly is not. 777 00:30:26,233 --> 00:30:27,899 Ooh, lord. 778 00:30:27,993 --> 00:30:30,494 - What's up, buddy? - There's water on the floor. 779 00:30:30,645 --> 00:30:32,663 That means he does slobber. - It's probably just water. 780 00:30:32,814 --> 00:30:34,164 Hype, hey. 781 00:30:34,316 --> 00:30:35,481 - I smell dog. 782 00:30:35,501 --> 00:30:38,335 - [barks orders] 783 00:30:38,486 --> 00:30:39,819 See, he's trained? 784 00:30:39,839 --> 00:30:42,064 Please. Thank you. 785 00:30:42,157 --> 00:30:45,175 - I was imagining a smaller dog. 786 00:30:45,402 --> 00:30:47,827 This is my first time meeting my husband's dog 787 00:30:47,921 --> 00:30:50,088 Because I have no choice. 788 00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:51,590 - But he's chilled. He's chill. 789 00:30:51,742 --> 00:30:53,575 He likes people. He was just gonna come say hi. 790 00:30:53,594 --> 00:30:55,018 - I don't want to have a dog. 791 00:30:55,170 --> 00:30:57,579 I'm just not really excited about having slobber, 792 00:30:57,598 --> 00:30:59,915 Hair, and smell of a dog in my apartment. 793 00:30:59,933 --> 00:31:01,674 [dramatic music] 794 00:31:01,768 --> 00:31:04,486 But I do want to be married, so I have to compromise. 795 00:31:08,108 --> 00:31:09,091 [hype whimpers] 796 00:31:09,109 --> 00:31:10,258 - Damn it. 797 00:31:10,277 --> 00:31:11,760 [clock ticking] 798 00:31:11,853 --> 00:31:12,928 - [in slow-motion] hype. 799 00:31:12,946 --> 00:31:15,113 Hype. Hype. Hype. 800 00:31:15,207 --> 00:31:16,540 ♪ ♪ 801 00:31:16,691 --> 00:31:17,949 - Hype. [ding] 802 00:31:18,102 --> 00:31:20,210 Took a minute. I think? 803 00:31:20,362 --> 00:31:23,288 - All right. Well, while we're here--where you going? 804 00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:25,198 Come say hi to hype. - I did. 805 00:31:25,292 --> 00:31:27,217 - What you say? - I said hi. 806 00:31:27,444 --> 00:31:29,202 - Give him your hand. Put your hand out. 807 00:31:29,221 --> 00:31:31,388 - But he smells. - Put your hand out. 808 00:31:31,615 --> 00:31:34,116 You don't wash your-- no, not your finger. 809 00:31:34,209 --> 00:31:36,284 What are you doing? Hype, sit. 810 00:31:36,303 --> 00:31:38,120 Come here. 811 00:31:38,138 --> 00:31:40,564 - Hype is excited. - [grunts] 812 00:31:40,791 --> 00:31:41,899 - My hand's gonna smell like a dog. 813 00:31:42,050 --> 00:31:45,127 - Oh, my gosh! She's gonna smell. 814 00:31:45,220 --> 00:31:46,737 We have soap and water for that. 815 00:31:46,888 --> 00:31:48,797 - Good. - He gets weekly baths. 816 00:31:48,815 --> 00:31:50,315 - We won't be able to smell him in the apartment. 817 00:31:50,409 --> 00:31:51,909 - No. All right? 818 00:31:52,060 --> 00:31:54,152 He just wanted to say hi. - [laughs] 819 00:31:54,304 --> 00:31:56,413 - It's okay. I--I love my dog. 820 00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:58,081 You gotta love him if you're gonna love me. 821 00:31:58,308 --> 00:31:59,474 - Oh, you're gonna smell like a smelly dog. 822 00:31:59,493 --> 00:32:00,900 [kisses loudly] 823 00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:03,569 Oh, my gosh. You kiss him? 824 00:32:03,664 --> 00:32:04,646 - No, he kisses me. 825 00:32:04,665 --> 00:32:07,149 [music stops] 826 00:32:07,167 --> 00:32:09,426 Not on the lips, though. I don't do that. 827 00:32:09,653 --> 00:32:11,411 - My husband is a dog kisser, y'all. 828 00:32:11,430 --> 00:32:15,157 It's--you don't kiss dogs. That's just ew. 829 00:32:15,175 --> 00:32:16,341 [kisses loudly] 830 00:32:16,493 --> 00:32:17,601 Oh, my gosh. 831 00:32:17,752 --> 00:32:19,177 That's gross. 832 00:32:19,329 --> 00:32:22,088 It's gonna push the kiss coming a lot further. 833 00:32:22,182 --> 00:32:24,666 - I actually have a painting of my dad I didn't show you. 834 00:32:24,685 --> 00:32:26,518 So this is my dad. Yeah, I look like him, right? 835 00:32:26,670 --> 00:32:29,020 Funny story about this picture. 836 00:32:29,173 --> 00:32:32,932 So he had nelson mandela, martin luther king, 837 00:32:33,026 --> 00:32:35,010 Malcolm x pictures, 838 00:32:35,028 --> 00:32:38,104 And then his picture up there, like, on the side. 839 00:32:38,123 --> 00:32:40,365 And he would tell everybody that would come to the house, 840 00:32:40,459 --> 00:32:42,275 He was like, "those are the four greatest men 841 00:32:42,294 --> 00:32:43,943 Of history--in history." 842 00:32:43,963 --> 00:32:46,188 And so, like, that was his running joke. 843 00:32:46,281 --> 00:32:47,539 So he's, like, kinda like you. 844 00:32:47,691 --> 00:32:51,376 This--so-- - he's kinda like me? 845 00:32:51,470 --> 00:32:54,029 - Because he got himself posted up at his house. 846 00:32:54,122 --> 00:32:56,381 - ♪ when sparks, sparks fly ♪ 847 00:32:56,475 --> 00:32:58,049 - So he had-- 848 00:32:58,202 --> 00:32:59,476 - Maybe your dad wanted you to find someone 849 00:32:59,703 --> 00:33:01,553 Who would bring out those attributes. 850 00:33:01,705 --> 00:33:04,481 - ♪ when the sparks, sparks fly ♪ 851 00:33:04,708 --> 00:33:06,132 - There was a reason why we were matched. 852 00:33:06,151 --> 00:33:07,300 - ♪ sparks fly ♪ 853 00:33:07,319 --> 00:33:09,060 - My princess. 854 00:33:09,213 --> 00:33:11,730 - ♪ when the sparks, sparks fly ♪ 855 00:33:11,882 --> 00:33:18,662 ♪ ♪ 856 00:33:23,818 --> 00:33:24,984 - Even though some of our couples 857 00:33:25,004 --> 00:33:27,170 Want to spend all their time together, 858 00:33:27,397 --> 00:33:29,064 It doesn't always work for everyone. 859 00:33:29,157 --> 00:33:30,841 - More wine? - Yes, please. 860 00:33:31,068 --> 00:33:33,752 - You might be needing it. - Yes, please. 861 00:33:33,846 --> 00:33:37,405 - For some, maintaining a form of independence 862 00:33:37,499 --> 00:33:39,832 Or stepping away to get some perspective 863 00:33:39,926 --> 00:33:41,910 Is part of their process. 864 00:33:41,928 --> 00:33:44,837 - New arrivals. 865 00:33:44,857 --> 00:33:46,172 - What? Oh, you're talking about-- 866 00:33:46,191 --> 00:33:48,174 - David yurman. - Oh, my god. 867 00:33:48,193 --> 00:33:51,511 - Our couples have to do what works for them as long 868 00:33:51,605 --> 00:33:54,422 As they're still communicating openly with their partner. 869 00:33:54,516 --> 00:33:58,535 - Lots of gray. Beauty is in the gray. 870 00:33:58,762 --> 00:34:01,279 I haven't seen my husband since last night, 871 00:34:01,373 --> 00:34:04,766 And I'm a little bit nervous about seeing him. 872 00:34:04,785 --> 00:34:07,878 I get the sense that johnny has less experience 873 00:34:08,029 --> 00:34:11,289 And that I might be the more emotionally mature one 874 00:34:11,441 --> 00:34:13,441 In the relationship. 875 00:34:13,460 --> 00:34:17,112 But I'm trying really hard to not be discouraged 876 00:34:17,205 --> 00:34:20,223 Because johnny has potential. 877 00:34:20,450 --> 00:34:22,801 I believe he wants this to work, 878 00:34:22,895 --> 00:34:26,212 But doesn't know whether he's able to commit. 879 00:34:26,306 --> 00:34:28,899 I think if you really want it, you just make it happen. 880 00:34:29,050 --> 00:34:30,642 - Honey, I'm home. 881 00:34:30,736 --> 00:34:32,627 ♪ ♪ 882 00:34:32,646 --> 00:34:34,404 I brought some thai food. 883 00:34:34,556 --> 00:34:36,298 - Food's here. - Yeah. 884 00:34:36,316 --> 00:34:37,890 ♪ ♪ 885 00:34:37,984 --> 00:34:39,892 You up for it? - Yeah. Why not? 886 00:34:39,912 --> 00:34:41,486 It smells good. 887 00:34:41,638 --> 00:34:43,321 - Gonna destroy the cork there. 888 00:34:43,473 --> 00:34:45,248 ♪ ♪ 889 00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:46,491 - You know what kind of red it is? 890 00:34:46,643 --> 00:34:48,476 ♪ ♪ 891 00:34:48,570 --> 00:34:51,070 - Give it a taste. Maybe you can tell. 892 00:34:51,090 --> 00:34:52,831 - I don't know. It smells like red wine. 893 00:34:52,925 --> 00:34:55,759 [dramatic musical sting] with a hint of cork. 894 00:34:55,910 --> 00:34:58,670 - For me, the distance that we had apart was necessary 895 00:34:58,822 --> 00:35:01,323 And really therapeutic. 896 00:35:01,416 --> 00:35:02,841 And it made me reassess how I-- 897 00:35:02,993 --> 00:35:04,993 How I reacted to certain things. 898 00:35:05,011 --> 00:35:07,512 And I'm coming into this with a fresh perspective. 899 00:35:07,606 --> 00:35:10,089 Well, to our new place and our first dinner together. 900 00:35:10,109 --> 00:35:12,275 - Why not? Cheers. - Cheers. 901 00:35:12,502 --> 00:35:14,427 - Second dinner. - Oh, yeah. Second dinner. 902 00:35:14,521 --> 00:35:15,670 That's right. - Mm-hmm. 903 00:35:15,763 --> 00:35:17,597 - It's really communication. 904 00:35:17,616 --> 00:35:19,616 And one of the things that I think the experts did well 905 00:35:19,767 --> 00:35:21,767 Is matching me with somebody that's a good communicator. 906 00:35:21,787 --> 00:35:23,102 She knows how she feels about things 907 00:35:23,122 --> 00:35:25,180 And she's not shy about communicating. 908 00:35:25,198 --> 00:35:26,790 ♪ ♪ 909 00:35:30,537 --> 00:35:33,296 I think the last time we were sitting here in this apartment, 910 00:35:33,448 --> 00:35:34,539 I was feeling kind of overwhelmed 911 00:35:34,691 --> 00:35:37,116 With, like, the relationship. 912 00:35:37,136 --> 00:35:40,286 We would get in disagreements, but then 913 00:35:40,305 --> 00:35:41,696 No time to, like, process it, 914 00:35:41,789 --> 00:35:45,049 No time to resolve those things. 915 00:35:45,202 --> 00:35:48,461 - Mm-hmm. - And now, it just-- 916 00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:49,888 Some things don't matter to me 917 00:35:49,982 --> 00:35:51,982 As much as I thought they did in the moment. 918 00:35:52,133 --> 00:35:55,210 And some things are worth, like, compromising on, right? 919 00:35:55,228 --> 00:35:56,486 - [clears throat] 920 00:35:56,713 --> 00:35:58,137 Some of this, I think just kind of-- 921 00:35:58,157 --> 00:36:01,992 Because this is so accelerated, things just surface 922 00:36:02,143 --> 00:36:05,811 That wouldn't normally surface so quickly, I think. 923 00:36:05,831 --> 00:36:08,165 - And that's a lot of what I reflected on. 924 00:36:08,316 --> 00:36:11,409 In a normal relationship, by date two or three, 925 00:36:11,561 --> 00:36:13,152 If we had that many arguments, 926 00:36:13,172 --> 00:36:16,339 I would have already said, we are not meant to date. 927 00:36:16,566 --> 00:36:18,583 [laughs] 928 00:36:18,735 --> 00:36:22,420 But because experts matched us for a reason, 929 00:36:22,514 --> 00:36:25,907 I feel like, at some point over the next two months, 930 00:36:25,926 --> 00:36:29,411 We're gonna grow to find out we have so much in common 931 00:36:29,429 --> 00:36:32,838 And that we do actually complement one another. 932 00:36:32,858 --> 00:36:34,357 - Mm-hmm. I agree. 933 00:36:34,584 --> 00:36:36,175 As long as you're here and present with me 934 00:36:36,195 --> 00:36:37,752 And you're committed in this relationship, 935 00:36:37,845 --> 00:36:40,346 I'm here, you know? - Right. 936 00:36:40,365 --> 00:36:43,683 And that's what I'm focused on, is just here and this. 937 00:36:43,702 --> 00:36:45,093 This isn't something you just walk away from. 938 00:36:45,111 --> 00:36:46,536 [chuckles] 939 00:36:48,448 --> 00:36:51,708 [soft laughter] 940 00:36:51,859 --> 00:36:54,711 All right. I'm gonna go get ready. 941 00:36:54,862 --> 00:36:56,621 For the first time, 942 00:36:56,773 --> 00:36:59,865 I have encountered hardship very early in a relationship 943 00:36:59,960 --> 00:37:02,535 And I'm not backing down. 944 00:37:02,554 --> 00:37:04,537 I'm facing it. 945 00:37:04,631 --> 00:37:06,281 I clean my tongue and I also clean the roof of my mouth. 946 00:37:06,299 --> 00:37:08,466 - Oh, I do too. 947 00:37:08,618 --> 00:37:11,286 - I've always had this fantasy of my wife over there 948 00:37:11,379 --> 00:37:13,455 Brushing her teeth with me. 949 00:37:13,473 --> 00:37:16,549 So I'm really excited to see what she is like 950 00:37:16,568 --> 00:37:18,309 As a potential lifetime partner. 951 00:37:18,462 --> 00:37:20,070 ♪ ♪ 952 00:37:20,297 --> 00:37:21,571 Primarily your stuff is in this one. 953 00:37:21,723 --> 00:37:25,467 This is kind of like your bedroom, 954 00:37:25,485 --> 00:37:27,744 Or do you want to make it our bedroom? 955 00:37:27,971 --> 00:37:30,321 - Oh, the question you're trying to ask is, 956 00:37:30,474 --> 00:37:32,824 Are we going to share this bed? - Yeah. 957 00:37:32,918 --> 00:37:34,400 - I'd like to. 958 00:37:34,419 --> 00:37:38,329 If you want to. 959 00:37:38,482 --> 00:37:39,814 - I do. 960 00:37:39,833 --> 00:37:41,499 ♪ ♪ 961 00:37:41,593 --> 00:37:43,927 - I think, in a way, this is our opportunity 962 00:37:44,154 --> 00:37:47,005 To try to do things differently. 963 00:37:47,099 --> 00:37:49,099 - Hey. - Hey. 964 00:37:49,250 --> 00:37:51,843 We're kind of learning the way each of us think. 965 00:37:51,995 --> 00:37:55,497 We have a real opportunity here 966 00:37:55,515 --> 00:37:59,276 To have the most incredible love story. 967 00:37:59,503 --> 00:38:02,612 And what are the odds that the two of us 968 00:38:02,764 --> 00:38:06,341 Would get married, matched by experts? 969 00:38:06,359 --> 00:38:09,694 - ♪ take my words right from my mouth ♪ 970 00:38:09,846 --> 00:38:13,348 ♪ kiss me, love me, shout it out ♪ 971 00:38:13,441 --> 00:38:14,532 - Let's see where it takes us. 972 00:38:14,626 --> 00:38:15,850 - Yeah. 973 00:38:15,869 --> 00:38:17,535 ♪ ♪ 974 00:38:17,687 --> 00:38:21,372 - ♪ kiss me, love me, shout it out ♪ 975 00:38:21,525 --> 00:38:24,134 ♪ let me be your only girl ♪ 976 00:38:24,361 --> 00:38:25,635 ♪ your only girl ♪ - [giggles] 977 00:38:30,458 --> 00:38:31,641 - ♪ it's all because of you ♪ 978 00:38:31,793 --> 00:38:33,977 ♪ I'm trying ♪ 979 00:38:34,204 --> 00:38:35,478 ♪ I promised you that I would come through ♪ 980 00:38:35,630 --> 00:38:37,814 ♪ I know it's overdue ♪ 981 00:38:37,965 --> 00:38:39,557 ♪ keep fighting ♪ 982 00:38:39,709 --> 00:38:42,226 ♪ ♪ 983 00:38:42,321 --> 00:38:44,045 - I told michaela that I'm still testing positive 984 00:38:44,064 --> 00:38:45,488 For covid, even though I'm negative, 985 00:38:45,715 --> 00:38:47,048 Because I want to surprise her this morning. 986 00:38:47,067 --> 00:38:48,550 So I got some flowers, 987 00:38:48,643 --> 00:38:50,160 And I can't wait to see her reaction. 988 00:38:50,311 --> 00:38:52,662 [knocks on door] I really feel bad 989 00:38:52,814 --> 00:38:53,979 That we haven't been able to see each other. 990 00:38:53,999 --> 00:38:58,076 [upbeat music] 991 00:38:58,228 --> 00:39:00,152 - [bleep] you. [laughter] 992 00:39:00,246 --> 00:39:02,988 - Hi, wife. What's up? 993 00:39:03,008 --> 00:39:05,917 Hi. Oh, my goodness. I missed you so much. 994 00:39:06,069 --> 00:39:07,402 [laughter] - oh, my god. 995 00:39:07,495 --> 00:39:10,254 Are you serious? - Yeah! 996 00:39:10,407 --> 00:39:13,257 - You knew this was gonna be thing! 997 00:39:13,410 --> 00:39:15,018 - Hold on. This is for you. 998 00:39:15,169 --> 00:39:17,354 Watch your hands. There's a lot of thorns and stuff. 999 00:39:17,581 --> 00:39:19,764 - I can't believe this is happening. 1000 00:39:19,858 --> 00:39:20,932 You smell good. 1001 00:39:21,026 --> 00:39:23,008 Being apart sucked. 1002 00:39:23,028 --> 00:39:28,013 And it's been a hard lesson to learn 1003 00:39:28,108 --> 00:39:30,367 About him wanting to protect me from--from covid, 1004 00:39:30,518 --> 00:39:31,517 From being harmed. 1005 00:39:31,611 --> 00:39:34,204 I'm so excited to see you. 1006 00:39:34,431 --> 00:39:36,873 We haven't had a lot of time to really, like, 1007 00:39:37,100 --> 00:39:39,100 See into each other and see our daily habits 1008 00:39:39,119 --> 00:39:40,860 And all that, so that makes me nervous. 1009 00:39:40,954 --> 00:39:42,437 But I'm super excited 1010 00:39:42,455 --> 00:39:45,364 To begin spending some quality time with zack. 1011 00:39:45,384 --> 00:39:47,609 - Hi, nova. - Nova, meet your daddy. 1012 00:39:47,627 --> 00:39:49,777 - Hi. I like her a lot. 1013 00:39:49,871 --> 00:39:51,279 - Sure, because you're gonna be with her 1014 00:39:51,372 --> 00:39:53,448 For the next 10, 12 years. 1015 00:39:53,466 --> 00:39:55,040 Isn't that right, bear cub? 1016 00:39:55,060 --> 00:39:58,136 - ♪ what I really need is you ♪ 1017 00:39:58,288 --> 00:39:59,545 - Let me show you the rest. 1018 00:39:59,639 --> 00:40:01,806 Let's see. What else? 1019 00:40:01,900 --> 00:40:03,808 - Oh, you got--you did the-- oh, this is our picture. 1020 00:40:03,902 --> 00:40:05,643 Wow. Oh, my goodness. 1021 00:40:05,795 --> 00:40:08,479 - Yeah. - This is so pretty. 1022 00:40:08,632 --> 00:40:09,906 - That's for you. - For me? 1023 00:40:10,133 --> 00:40:12,242 Aww. 1024 00:40:12,393 --> 00:40:14,969 Aw, this is so sweet. 1025 00:40:15,062 --> 00:40:17,080 - That was supposed to be our one-week. 1026 00:40:17,307 --> 00:40:20,141 - Dang, I got a one-week. "to my husband. 1027 00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:22,310 "still think you're hot. Still love your smile. 1028 00:40:22,328 --> 00:40:24,421 "still need your hugs. Still craving your kiss. 1029 00:40:24,648 --> 00:40:25,997 "still love when you touch me that way. 1030 00:40:26,149 --> 00:40:28,091 "I'm so glad I'm married to you. 1031 00:40:28,242 --> 00:40:30,668 Happy one-week anniversary. Love, your wife, michaela." 1032 00:40:30,762 --> 00:40:32,762 Aw, thank you. 1033 00:40:32,914 --> 00:40:35,098 We have a lot to do to make up for our honeymoon, 1034 00:40:35,249 --> 00:40:37,583 And it feels really good hugging her and kissing her. 1035 00:40:37,602 --> 00:40:39,010 Thank you, thank you. - You're welcome. 1036 00:40:39,162 --> 00:40:41,012 - Babe. Aw, that's so sweet. 1037 00:40:41,164 --> 00:40:43,440 And, you know, looking forward to doing a little bit more 1038 00:40:43,591 --> 00:40:45,591 Of that, you know, when the cameras aren't around. 1039 00:40:45,685 --> 00:40:46,609 I don't deserve all this stuff. 1040 00:40:46,761 --> 00:40:47,835 - No, you don't. 1041 00:40:47,854 --> 00:40:51,005 [laughter] 1042 00:40:51,024 --> 00:40:52,431 ♪ ♪ 1043 00:40:52,451 --> 00:40:54,859 - ♪ can we talk about us? ♪ 1044 00:40:54,953 --> 00:40:57,436 ♪ can we talk about us? ♪ 1045 00:40:57,456 --> 00:41:00,198 - Let me put this up before... 1046 00:41:00,350 --> 00:41:01,532 Both: Pastor cal gets here. 1047 00:41:01,685 --> 00:41:05,036 - I'm super, super excited. 1048 00:41:05,130 --> 00:41:07,279 - Now that our couples have returned from their honeymoons 1049 00:41:07,299 --> 00:41:09,207 And are settling into life together, 1050 00:41:09,359 --> 00:41:11,025 It's time to check in on them. 1051 00:41:11,044 --> 00:41:12,210 [knocks on door] - ooh! 1052 00:41:12,304 --> 00:41:14,028 - I think he's here. 1053 00:41:14,047 --> 00:41:16,047 Hey. How are you? - What's up, my man? 1054 00:41:16,199 --> 00:41:17,790 - Good to see you. You all right? 1055 00:41:17,809 --> 00:41:19,367 - What's up, buddy? - Good to see you. 1056 00:41:19,385 --> 00:41:21,961 - We're going to have to accelerate the pace 1057 00:41:21,980 --> 00:41:24,129 At which these couples are getting to know each other. 1058 00:41:24,224 --> 00:41:26,040 You guys are married and-- 1059 00:41:26,133 --> 00:41:27,984 - Happily married. - Yes, yes. 1060 00:41:28,211 --> 00:41:30,469 - "happily"? Oh, happily married and home. 1061 00:41:30,489 --> 00:41:32,322 - Very happy to say that. - Yes, sir. 1062 00:41:32,549 --> 00:41:34,657 Yes, it's been a-- it's been really, really good. 1063 00:41:34,809 --> 00:41:36,809 - We need to dig deeper into important issues 1064 00:41:36,903 --> 00:41:39,387 Like children, finances, 1065 00:41:39,405 --> 00:41:42,073 Roles, responsibilities, and intimacy. 1066 00:41:42,225 --> 00:41:44,559 Because in just seven weeks, 1067 00:41:44,652 --> 00:41:46,151 Our couples are going to have to decide 1068 00:41:46,171 --> 00:41:49,506 Whether they want to stay married or get a divorce. 1069 00:41:49,657 --> 00:41:52,750 - What's up, married people? - Yes! 1070 00:41:52,844 --> 00:41:54,511 - Pray tell. - A lot. 1071 00:41:54,662 --> 00:41:56,254 It just feels like we've been together so long. 1072 00:41:56,406 --> 00:41:58,422 It was an immediate connection. 1073 00:41:58,517 --> 00:41:59,665 Like-- - that's very cool. 1074 00:41:59,684 --> 00:42:01,409 - I can't wipe the smile off my face. 1075 00:42:01,427 --> 00:42:04,595 Like, I just want to be happy, be with someone, 1076 00:42:04,748 --> 00:42:07,582 And I'm so--I'm so grateful. 1077 00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:09,192 - Yeah. I'm sure he is too. - Very. 1078 00:42:09,419 --> 00:42:11,861 - Look at that cheshire cat smile he has. 1079 00:42:12,013 --> 00:42:13,588 Yeah. [laughter] 1080 00:42:13,606 --> 00:42:17,516 - This feeling is why I got married at first sight. 1081 00:42:17,536 --> 00:42:19,369 I knew exactly what I want and what I didn't want. 1082 00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:23,931 And, um, didn't expect I would get that much more. 1083 00:42:23,950 --> 00:42:26,025 - You married up. - I did, I did, I did. 1084 00:42:26,044 --> 00:42:28,044 - See, I think I did. - Yes. 1085 00:42:28,195 --> 00:42:29,954 That's pretty cool. 1086 00:42:30,106 --> 00:42:32,048 So I know you guys have started off 1087 00:42:32,199 --> 00:42:34,625 And you've--you've jumped right into deep conversations. 1088 00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:36,535 Do you foresee anything? 1089 00:42:36,555 --> 00:42:38,129 You know, "we have to be careful about this. 1090 00:42:38,281 --> 00:42:41,391 We have to watch out for this"? 1091 00:42:41,542 --> 00:42:44,710 - Um, the biggest thing for me, it's, okay, we're now married. 1092 00:42:44,804 --> 00:42:48,064 Financially, we're no longer in these two separate accounts. 1093 00:42:48,215 --> 00:42:49,624 We're gonna have this joint account. 1094 00:42:49,642 --> 00:42:51,568 - And I was concerned, you know, like, 1095 00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:54,219 Well, he really wants to be very tight with the money. 1096 00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:56,297 And here I am trying to go to europe, 1097 00:42:56,390 --> 00:42:59,801 But I'm like, I want to do it with you. 1098 00:42:59,819 --> 00:43:02,579 So you're ready to go to europe next month? 1099 00:43:02,806 --> 00:43:04,229 - You've already done it, so I think that-- 1100 00:43:04,249 --> 00:43:05,582 - But I wanna do it with my husband. 1101 00:43:05,809 --> 00:43:07,992 - I know. I think your car has seen better days. 1102 00:43:08,144 --> 00:43:09,811 So what's more important: 1103 00:43:09,829 --> 00:43:11,904 Your car that you need that's gonna take you to work 1104 00:43:11,923 --> 00:43:13,072 Each and every single day-- - yeah. 1105 00:43:13,166 --> 00:43:14,665 - Or $3,000-europe trips? 1106 00:43:14,818 --> 00:43:16,167 - That car still works to me. 1107 00:43:16,319 --> 00:43:18,152 It can hold off another year. 1108 00:43:18,171 --> 00:43:20,171 ♪ ♪ 1109 00:43:20,323 --> 00:43:23,007 - You know, again, marriage, and then we may need a car, 1110 00:43:23,159 --> 00:43:25,159 And then, okay, we're gonna buy another house together. 1111 00:43:25,178 --> 00:43:27,845 So all I'm seeing is, okay, these are, like, expenses 1112 00:43:27,997 --> 00:43:30,832 Where we could probably forego a trip to europe a year... 1113 00:43:30,850 --> 00:43:33,425 Or two. 1114 00:43:33,519 --> 00:43:35,761 - You think so much, man. 1115 00:43:35,855 --> 00:43:38,263 You know, I know you're good with schematics and whiteboards 1116 00:43:38,283 --> 00:43:40,432 And all this, but I look at the two of you 1117 00:43:40,452 --> 00:43:42,601 And I say, you're like the science here 1118 00:43:42,695 --> 00:43:45,437 And you're the art, okay? 1119 00:43:45,457 --> 00:43:47,606 - I like that. - Because she's like, 1120 00:43:47,626 --> 00:43:49,684 "but I want to travel. I want to have fun." 1121 00:43:49,777 --> 00:43:52,295 And you're like, "okay, but let's wait a minute. 1122 00:43:52,446 --> 00:43:53,537 Here's our budget." 1123 00:43:53,690 --> 00:43:56,132 However, this is who she is. 1124 00:43:56,359 --> 00:43:58,209 She's gonna bring your life fun. 1125 00:43:58,361 --> 00:43:59,969 She's gonna bring you enjoyment. 1126 00:44:00,196 --> 00:44:03,714 You cannot snuff that. You can't. 1127 00:44:03,867 --> 00:44:05,791 - Well, and then this is-- - don't kennel me. 1128 00:44:05,810 --> 00:44:07,143 - So this is kinda-- yeah, this is-- 1129 00:44:07,294 --> 00:44:09,128 No, no. Not at all. 1130 00:44:09,147 --> 00:44:10,480 - You're gonna have to let her 1131 00:44:10,707 --> 00:44:12,482 Push you out of your comfort zone occasionally. 1132 00:44:12,633 --> 00:44:16,227 But understand that his planning is only for the best. 1133 00:44:16,321 --> 00:44:17,895 - Oh, absolutely. 1134 00:44:17,989 --> 00:44:19,881 - You know, and--and-- - I understand that. 1135 00:44:19,899 --> 00:44:21,732 - And she wants to create experiences, 1136 00:44:21,885 --> 00:44:24,385 So sometimes you gotta just learn to balance that thing. 1137 00:44:24,404 --> 00:44:26,554 ♪ ♪ 1138 00:44:26,572 --> 00:44:29,314 So, one--one thing that I also wanted to ask you is, 1139 00:44:29,409 --> 00:44:30,649 What level of affection 1140 00:44:30,669 --> 00:44:32,502 Are you experiencing at this point? 1141 00:44:32,729 --> 00:44:34,395 Have you guys consummated your marriage? 1142 00:44:34,414 --> 00:44:39,158 ♪ ♪ 1143 00:44:39,252 --> 00:44:41,736 - Of course. - Yeah. 1144 00:44:41,754 --> 00:44:43,662 - That's awesome. Awesome! 1145 00:44:43,682 --> 00:44:44,514 - Yay! Definitely - I love it! 1146 00:44:44,665 --> 00:44:46,240 [laughter] 1147 00:44:46,333 --> 00:44:48,167 I'm glad you guys decided, 1148 00:44:48,186 --> 00:44:49,686 "you know, what? We're married." 1149 00:44:49,913 --> 00:44:51,170 - Yeah. - Yeah. 1150 00:44:51,189 --> 00:44:53,022 - "let's just be married," you know? 1151 00:44:53,174 --> 00:44:55,858 And--and just, you know, just allow it organically 1152 00:44:56,010 --> 00:44:57,935 To develop. 1153 00:44:58,087 --> 00:44:59,437 - I will be honest. 1154 00:44:59,589 --> 00:45:01,605 It's good, but it's a slight fear of mine 1155 00:45:01,758 --> 00:45:04,442 Because if you do it too soon, 1156 00:45:04,594 --> 00:45:06,703 It could blur your judgment 1157 00:45:06,854 --> 00:45:09,354 'cause the passion and all that can kind of take over. 1158 00:45:09,374 --> 00:45:11,541 And it's scary because you're like, 1159 00:45:11,692 --> 00:45:13,876 "could this really happen this fast, this easy?" 1160 00:45:14,103 --> 00:45:15,861 It feels very easy." 1161 00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:17,605 - Don't put on the brakes. - Yeah. 1162 00:45:17,623 --> 00:45:20,383 - Because remember, you were matched, 1163 00:45:20,610 --> 00:45:22,701 So you should get together and it spark. 1164 00:45:22,721 --> 00:45:24,387 It should happen that way. - Okay. 1165 00:45:24,614 --> 00:45:26,447 - I mean, you want to have some brake pads. 1166 00:45:26,466 --> 00:45:28,132 - Right. - Yeah. Yeah. 1167 00:45:28,284 --> 00:45:31,060 - Okay? Because we don't want no surprises. 1168 00:45:31,212 --> 00:45:32,729 - Of course, of course. - But don't put on the brakes. 1169 00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:33,730 - Right. - Yeah. 1170 00:45:33,881 --> 00:45:35,047 - ♪ don't stop ♪ 1171 00:45:35,066 --> 00:45:37,458 ♪ only you know what I want ♪ 1172 00:45:37,477 --> 00:45:37,650 ♪ coming like more, more, more ♪ 1173 00:45:42,389 --> 00:45:43,631 - ♪ I don't mind, mind, mind ♪ 1174 00:45:43,724 --> 00:45:44,890 ♪ what you find, find, find ♪ 1175 00:45:44,984 --> 00:45:46,409 - All right. Here we are. 1176 00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:47,818 - It smells good. Smells clean. 1177 00:45:47,912 --> 00:45:49,579 - It does smell clean. 1178 00:45:49,806 --> 00:45:51,396 - Hi, bella. This is your new place. 1179 00:45:51,416 --> 00:45:53,824 - This is it, our home together. 1180 00:45:53,918 --> 00:45:56,568 And I'm super excited. Our babies get to meet now. 1181 00:45:56,588 --> 00:45:59,830 I'm a little nervous about how bella and nova 1182 00:45:59,983 --> 00:46:01,924 Will interact with each other 1183 00:46:02,151 --> 00:46:03,985 Only because they're two big dogs 1184 00:46:04,003 --> 00:46:06,487 And they're in a new environment, both of them. 1185 00:46:06,506 --> 00:46:07,746 ♪ ♪ 1186 00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:09,581 Are you ready, nova? 1187 00:46:09,675 --> 00:46:13,661 But I'm super excited to see the new family dynamic. 1188 00:46:13,754 --> 00:46:15,104 [bella growls] - bella, it's okay. 1189 00:46:15,256 --> 00:46:17,348 It's okay, it's okay. Just say hi. Say hi, say hi. 1190 00:46:17,442 --> 00:46:19,517 - Say hi. 1191 00:46:19,669 --> 00:46:23,020 Good girl. Good girl. 1192 00:46:23,114 --> 00:46:25,506 [upbeat music] 1193 00:46:25,525 --> 00:46:26,857 Say hi. 1194 00:46:26,951 --> 00:46:28,509 [laughter] 1195 00:46:28,528 --> 00:46:30,511 ♪ ♪ 1196 00:46:30,604 --> 00:46:31,788 - How did you think it was gonna go? 1197 00:46:31,939 --> 00:46:33,456 - I don't know. - I felt like 1198 00:46:33,607 --> 00:46:35,291 You thought the worst, yo. Why? - I did. I was nervous. 1199 00:46:35,518 --> 00:46:38,185 I thought nova was gonna be a bully. 1200 00:46:38,204 --> 00:46:40,612 I mean, she still kinda is a bully, but-- 1201 00:46:40,632 --> 00:46:43,691 She keep pinning nova by her neck. 1202 00:46:43,709 --> 00:46:45,784 This is my first time moving in with a man. 1203 00:46:45,804 --> 00:46:48,954 We're both not necessarily the most experienced 1204 00:46:49,048 --> 00:46:50,473 In relationships, 1205 00:46:50,624 --> 00:46:52,791 So we need to learn how to live as a family 1206 00:46:52,811 --> 00:46:55,386 Versus as, like, two single adults. 1207 00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:57,054 ♪ ♪ 1208 00:46:57,206 --> 00:46:59,056 - So what time do you typically go to bed? 1209 00:46:59,150 --> 00:47:02,209 - Um, whenever I want. 1210 00:47:02,303 --> 00:47:04,320 - Yeah, but you-- but you sleep at 9:00. 1211 00:47:04,471 --> 00:47:06,397 - It depends. 1212 00:47:06,549 --> 00:47:09,567 If I got the dog walker to come for nova, 1213 00:47:09,661 --> 00:47:13,145 Otherwise nova's gonna get me up right about 8:00. 1214 00:47:13,164 --> 00:47:14,664 - You know, I think we'll get along great. 1215 00:47:14,815 --> 00:47:16,223 I mean, I don't know. I just feel like it's-- 1216 00:47:16,317 --> 00:47:18,075 It's been pretty easy so far. 1217 00:47:18,169 --> 00:47:21,228 - How do you think our first night will go living together? 1218 00:47:21,322 --> 00:47:22,746 - I don't know. I don't know. 1219 00:47:22,841 --> 00:47:24,732 Are you the type--are you the type to, like, storm off? 1220 00:47:24,750 --> 00:47:26,158 Like, okay, let's say we get in a fight. 1221 00:47:26,177 --> 00:47:27,844 You're like, "okay, I'm going home tonight"? 1222 00:47:28,071 --> 00:47:29,494 Like what are you-- - I would--no, I think 1223 00:47:29,589 --> 00:47:31,572 That's abandoning people, and that's just [bleep] up. 1224 00:47:31,591 --> 00:47:33,182 So I'm not the type to be like, "I'm leaving," 1225 00:47:33,334 --> 00:47:35,852 And, like, actually leave 'cause I think that's-- 1226 00:47:36,003 --> 00:47:38,429 That's actually abusive, to do that to somebody and leave 1227 00:47:38,581 --> 00:47:40,431 And ignore their phone calls and all that kind of stuff. 1228 00:47:40,583 --> 00:47:42,249 - I agree. Yeah. - It's emotionally abusive. 1229 00:47:42,268 --> 00:47:43,934 - I agree with that. Yeah. - So I don't do that. 1230 00:47:44,087 --> 00:47:45,603 - I've always said, I'm looking forward to our first fight. 1231 00:47:45,697 --> 00:47:46,921 - Really? 1232 00:47:46,939 --> 00:47:49,090 ♪ ♪ 1233 00:47:49,108 --> 00:47:52,776 - ♪ I'm full of desire ♪ 1234 00:47:52,871 --> 00:47:54,853 ♪ ♪ 1235 00:47:54,873 --> 00:47:56,947 ♪ you know exactly what I like ♪ 1236 00:47:57,100 --> 00:48:00,101 ♪ your eyes, babe, full of fire ♪ 1237 00:48:00,119 --> 00:48:03,546 ♪ ♪ 1238 00:48:03,773 --> 00:48:05,623 - Bao and I are not always on the same page, 1239 00:48:05,775 --> 00:48:07,625 But things are going well right now. 1240 00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:09,627 The thing I'm most excited about is to kind of see 1241 00:48:09,721 --> 00:48:12,054 The little details of, like, how she lives 1242 00:48:12,206 --> 00:48:14,298 So I can see what to expect as we live together. 1243 00:48:14,450 --> 00:48:15,950 - [chuckles] - hi. 1244 00:48:15,968 --> 00:48:18,728 - Okay, I guess I have to give you a tour, huh? 1245 00:48:18,955 --> 00:48:21,063 - Yes, please. Let's see the kitchen. 1246 00:48:21,290 --> 00:48:22,565 - Kitchen, kitchen, kitchen, kitchen, 1247 00:48:22,716 --> 00:48:24,716 Kitchen, kitchen, kitchen. Okay. 1248 00:48:24,810 --> 00:48:26,810 - I feel like if I were to live here, you'd be cooking 1249 00:48:26,905 --> 00:48:28,629 And I'd be, like, washing dishes or something 1250 00:48:28,648 --> 00:48:31,390 And have, like, a game on or friends hanging out. 1251 00:48:31,484 --> 00:48:33,242 - "a game on." mm-hmm. 1252 00:48:33,469 --> 00:48:35,077 Those are all my family pictures. 1253 00:48:35,229 --> 00:48:37,154 - You used to really be into, like, bangs, huh? 1254 00:48:37,306 --> 00:48:40,065 - Uh-huh. [laughter] 1255 00:48:40,159 --> 00:48:43,327 - Hey, your bidet. - Yes! 1256 00:48:43,421 --> 00:48:46,422 - That's cool. 1257 00:48:46,573 --> 00:48:48,816 - Got all the toilet paper. You can wipe your butt with, 1258 00:48:48,909 --> 00:48:52,153 Like, the little, you know, butt wipes. 1259 00:48:52,171 --> 00:48:54,155 And--and a bidet so, like, 1260 00:48:54,248 --> 00:48:56,157 You can't get cleaner than this. 1261 00:48:56,175 --> 00:48:59,677 This is my closet. I have bunch of shoes. 1262 00:48:59,771 --> 00:49:01,270 - Yeah. I like that you have multiples of the same 1263 00:49:01,422 --> 00:49:02,939 'cause I'm like that. 1264 00:49:03,090 --> 00:49:05,499 There is a lot of stuff, more stuff than I'm used to, 1265 00:49:05,592 --> 00:49:07,501 But I think it makes the--her house 1266 00:49:07,594 --> 00:49:09,019 Kind of warm and inviting. 1267 00:49:09,113 --> 00:49:11,280 ♪ ♪ 1268 00:49:11,507 --> 00:49:13,007 This is not my style, but I like it. 1269 00:49:13,025 --> 00:49:14,508 I mean, I could see myself living here. 1270 00:49:14,527 --> 00:49:15,934 Hey, you keep a really clean home. I like it. 1271 00:49:16,028 --> 00:49:17,695 - I try. - I am impressed. 1272 00:49:17,789 --> 00:49:19,288 - Well, I'm looking forward to seeing your place. 1273 00:49:19,515 --> 00:49:22,032 ♪ ♪ 1274 00:49:22,185 --> 00:49:23,867 - Take a deep breath. - [inhales deeply] 1275 00:49:23,962 --> 00:49:25,536 - Welcome. 1276 00:49:25,688 --> 00:49:27,129 This is my living room. 1277 00:49:27,281 --> 00:49:28,947 - Very nice. 1278 00:49:29,041 --> 00:49:31,133 It's so spacious. 1279 00:49:31,285 --> 00:49:33,118 I see yellow is the accent here. 1280 00:49:33,137 --> 00:49:35,546 - Yellow is the one. Before, there was no yellow, so. 1281 00:49:35,698 --> 00:49:37,381 - Even your disinfecting wipes are yellow. 1282 00:49:37,475 --> 00:49:39,033 - Yeah. 1283 00:49:39,051 --> 00:49:40,810 - It does seem like johnny's house 1284 00:49:40,961 --> 00:49:42,703 Definitely needs to be spruced up a little, 1285 00:49:42,796 --> 00:49:44,371 Have a little woman's touch. 1286 00:49:44,465 --> 00:49:46,482 I think he needs some help. 1287 00:49:46,633 --> 00:49:48,726 I'm happy to help. 1288 00:49:48,878 --> 00:49:50,878 - My closet. - Oh, my god! 1289 00:49:50,896 --> 00:49:55,140 You have the exact same shirt how many times? 1290 00:49:55,159 --> 00:49:57,885 - It was on sale. Just this color, though. 1291 00:49:57,978 --> 00:50:00,070 - Oh, you do have a bidet! - I do. 1292 00:50:00,223 --> 00:50:02,999 - We both have bidets. 1293 00:50:03,150 --> 00:50:05,059 This is so, so weird. - Only on this one, though. 1294 00:50:05,077 --> 00:50:07,077 I don't want other people using my bidet. 1295 00:50:07,230 --> 00:50:09,246 - Hmm. 1296 00:50:09,398 --> 00:50:11,656 I know we both have our differences, 1297 00:50:11,676 --> 00:50:13,751 But we have so much in common. 1298 00:50:13,903 --> 00:50:15,569 When I look at it, 1299 00:50:15,588 --> 00:50:17,680 There is so much alignment between johnny and I. 1300 00:50:17,907 --> 00:50:19,757 ♪ ♪ 1301 00:50:19,909 --> 00:50:21,183 Are these lightsabers? 1302 00:50:21,410 --> 00:50:23,835 - They are lightsabers, but yeah. 1303 00:50:23,929 --> 00:50:25,187 I'm gonna have one of these. 1304 00:50:25,339 --> 00:50:28,190 [laughter] 1305 00:50:28,417 --> 00:50:30,267 ♪ ♪ 1306 00:50:30,361 --> 00:50:32,010 You wanna--you wanna lightsaber duel a little bit? 1307 00:50:32,104 --> 00:50:33,029 Like-- - all right. Give it! 1308 00:50:33,256 --> 00:50:36,181 ♪ ♪ 1309 00:50:36,275 --> 00:50:39,035 [imitates swooshing] 1310 00:50:39,262 --> 00:50:41,095 ♪ ♪ 1311 00:50:41,113 --> 00:50:42,263 - [grunts] 1312 00:50:42,281 --> 00:50:45,933 ♪ ♪ 1313 00:50:45,951 --> 00:50:49,194 - What I really like about johnny is that 1314 00:50:49,288 --> 00:50:51,438 I can be my quirky self 1315 00:50:51,532 --> 00:50:53,698 And he can be his quirky self. 1316 00:50:53,718 --> 00:50:55,943 And that gives me hope, you know? 1317 00:50:55,961 --> 00:50:58,888 - Man, you hit pretty hard, actually. 1318 00:50:59,039 --> 00:51:00,114 [both grunt] 1319 00:51:00,132 --> 00:51:03,133 [laughter] 1320 00:51:03,227 --> 00:51:07,638 ♪ ♪ 1321 00:51:07,790 --> 00:51:09,899 - Hey. - Hi! 1322 00:51:10,126 --> 00:51:11,292 - Oh, my goodness. Look at you guys. 1323 00:51:11,385 --> 00:51:12,976 You guys are like a little family. 1324 00:51:13,071 --> 00:51:14,478 - We are. 1325 00:51:14,630 --> 00:51:16,054 We got a big and little. - Hi. 1326 00:51:16,074 --> 00:51:17,798 Hey, gorgeous. 1327 00:51:17,817 --> 00:51:19,316 Oh, my gosh. I'm gonna take one of 'em. 1328 00:51:19,468 --> 00:51:20,892 - Take that one. Take the little one, please. 1329 00:51:20,912 --> 00:51:23,654 - Take the little one? - Yes. 1330 00:51:23,806 --> 00:51:25,472 - So how are you guys? 1331 00:51:25,566 --> 00:51:26,990 - We're good. - Good. 1332 00:51:27,085 --> 00:51:28,900 - Well, you guys look good together, though. 1333 00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:30,252 - Oh, thanks. 1334 00:51:30,404 --> 00:51:31,420 - So tell me a little bit about-- 1335 00:51:31,572 --> 00:51:33,163 About how things have been so far. 1336 00:51:33,316 --> 00:51:35,424 I mean, you're married. 1337 00:51:35,576 --> 00:51:38,652 I know you had expectations when you came into this, 1338 00:51:38,671 --> 00:51:41,246 But now it's kind of like, this is the reality. 1339 00:51:41,340 --> 00:51:43,173 - Yeah. - Mm-hmm. 1340 00:51:43,267 --> 00:51:45,935 - So what--how-- how are you feeling about it? 1341 00:51:46,162 --> 00:51:47,770 - What I've been telling anybody that asks me, 1342 00:51:47,921 --> 00:51:49,939 I'm like, "honestly, she's like one of the coolest people 1343 00:51:50,166 --> 00:51:51,941 I've ever met." like, she's--she's awesome. 1344 00:51:52,092 --> 00:51:54,759 Like I could hang out with this girl in any scenario. 1345 00:51:54,854 --> 00:51:56,337 - Look at you. Yes. 1346 00:51:56,430 --> 00:51:57,671 - It's my first time hearing that. 1347 00:51:57,690 --> 00:51:59,189 It's great. - It's just--it's just easy. 1348 00:51:59,283 --> 00:52:02,100 We take each other's banter extremely well, 1349 00:52:02,194 --> 00:52:03,768 Which I was worried about. 1350 00:52:03,788 --> 00:52:06,288 - He has a very dry sense of humor. 1351 00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,365 Like, we definitely, like, jab at each other a lot. 1352 00:52:08,517 --> 00:52:10,017 - Right. - It's like 1353 00:52:10,035 --> 00:52:12,870 Third graders flirting. - Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1354 00:52:12,964 --> 00:52:15,856 But, like, I feel like you have, like, a really soft side. 1355 00:52:15,875 --> 00:52:19,026 And he just, like, takes care of everybody around him. 1356 00:52:19,119 --> 00:52:20,194 - How does that make you feel? 1357 00:52:20,287 --> 00:52:23,197 - It makes me feel like I can relax. 1358 00:52:23,290 --> 00:52:24,698 I don't always have to be in charge. 1359 00:52:24,717 --> 00:52:26,625 I don't always have to be strong all the time. 1360 00:52:26,644 --> 00:52:28,552 - Right. 1361 00:52:28,646 --> 00:52:30,554 - Obviously, we don't know everything about each other 1362 00:52:30,648 --> 00:52:33,207 And it is still very new, but I trust him a lot. 1363 00:52:33,300 --> 00:52:35,651 - I love that. I love that. 1364 00:52:35,802 --> 00:52:39,563 Is ryan anything like the type of guy you dated? 1365 00:52:39,715 --> 00:52:42,307 - No, not at all. [laughter] 1366 00:52:42,326 --> 00:52:43,901 - So you had a traumatic experience 1367 00:52:44,053 --> 00:52:45,219 At my house yesterday. 1368 00:52:45,237 --> 00:52:47,905 [sinister tones] 1369 00:52:47,999 --> 00:52:50,724 - Oh, my god. 1370 00:52:50,743 --> 00:52:54,319 He had a deer head on the wall, and, you know, 1371 00:52:54,338 --> 00:52:58,065 Like, not a fan. 1372 00:52:58,083 --> 00:52:59,416 - I like being outdoors. I like doing-- 1373 00:52:59,568 --> 00:53:01,159 - Yeah. - Stuff like that. 1374 00:53:01,253 --> 00:53:05,589 And I don't know that she shares that as much as I do, 1375 00:53:05,683 --> 00:53:08,333 But we're just still gonna do some country things. 1376 00:53:08,352 --> 00:53:09,576 Yeah. 1377 00:53:09,595 --> 00:53:10,761 [laughter] 1378 00:53:10,855 --> 00:53:12,746 - Um... 1379 00:53:12,765 --> 00:53:14,523 - All right, girl. Soon, you're gonna be roping cattle. 1380 00:53:14,750 --> 00:53:15,916 - Good lord. 1381 00:53:15,935 --> 00:53:17,676 ♪ ♪ 1382 00:53:17,695 --> 00:53:21,772 Outdoors, boots, country music. 1383 00:53:21,924 --> 00:53:23,273 At the end of the day, 1384 00:53:23,367 --> 00:53:25,350 I think those things don't really matter 1385 00:53:25,369 --> 00:53:27,594 'cause heart and soul is what matters the most. 1386 00:53:27,613 --> 00:53:29,613 But I definitely don't feel like I fit in 1387 00:53:29,765 --> 00:53:32,691 With that lifestyle. 1388 00:53:32,710 --> 00:53:34,376 - But differences are not always bad 1389 00:53:34,528 --> 00:53:36,861 Because quite often, you learn from each other. 1390 00:53:36,881 --> 00:53:39,289 - Yeah. - What I love about you guys 1391 00:53:39,383 --> 00:53:41,533 Already is that you're showing affection to each other. 1392 00:53:41,552 --> 00:53:42,776 Was that easy? 1393 00:53:42,795 --> 00:53:44,553 - I think it was. - Yes. 1394 00:53:44,780 --> 00:53:48,799 - It hasn't gotten crazy. It's been natural-- 1395 00:53:48,951 --> 00:53:50,284 - "hasn't gotten crazy." what does that mean? 1396 00:53:50,302 --> 00:53:52,636 - I mean... 1397 00:53:52,788 --> 00:53:55,397 We've--haven't rushed into--into things. 1398 00:53:55,549 --> 00:53:56,974 - Correct. 1399 00:53:57,126 --> 00:53:58,792 - But we--we've always been touchy, and-- 1400 00:53:58,811 --> 00:54:00,569 - Mm-hmm. 1401 00:54:00,721 --> 00:54:01,812 - But you guys have not had sex? 1402 00:54:01,906 --> 00:54:04,631 ♪ ♪ 1403 00:54:04,650 --> 00:54:05,741 Both: No. 1404 00:54:05,968 --> 00:54:07,484 ♪ ♪ 1405 00:54:07,578 --> 00:54:09,578 - And look, my thing is, 1406 00:54:09,730 --> 00:54:12,230 It has nothing to do with whether or not you do. 1407 00:54:12,250 --> 00:54:13,490 It's about whether you're comfortable 1408 00:54:13,584 --> 00:54:14,992 With your progression. 1409 00:54:15,086 --> 00:54:17,419 And I think it's so important if one of you 1410 00:54:17,646 --> 00:54:19,088 Is not comfortable and the other one 1411 00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:22,649 Is--is comfortable, then that's--that's a problem 1412 00:54:22,668 --> 00:54:25,669 'cause it really can screw your relationship up. 1413 00:54:25,821 --> 00:54:27,337 So are you--are you happy 1414 00:54:27,490 --> 00:54:29,006 With your level of intimacy at this point? 1415 00:54:29,100 --> 00:54:31,600 ♪ ♪ 1416 00:54:35,940 --> 00:54:37,422 - So are you happy 1417 00:54:37,441 --> 00:54:38,332 With your level of intimacy at this point? 1418 00:54:38,350 --> 00:54:39,942 ♪ ♪ 1419 00:54:40,169 --> 00:54:42,611 - I am. 1420 00:54:42,838 --> 00:54:44,613 - It has been slower than maybe I would have anticipated. 1421 00:54:47,693 --> 00:54:50,935 But it's growing, and yeah. 1422 00:54:51,030 --> 00:54:52,955 I'm--I'm a fan. 1423 00:54:53,182 --> 00:54:54,957 ♪ ♪ 1424 00:54:55,184 --> 00:54:58,352 - How quickly advancing are your feelings for each other 1425 00:54:58,445 --> 00:55:00,854 At this point? Why are you smiling? 1426 00:55:00,947 --> 00:55:02,131 - 'cause we haven't talked about that. 1427 00:55:02,282 --> 00:55:03,966 - You have not? - Mm-mm. 1428 00:55:04,193 --> 00:55:06,302 - You haven't talked about how you feel about each other? 1429 00:55:06,529 --> 00:55:07,711 - No. - Well, let's talk about it. 1430 00:55:07,805 --> 00:55:10,197 - We haven't. 1431 00:55:10,290 --> 00:55:11,956 - How do you feel about him? 1432 00:55:11,976 --> 00:55:13,458 - I have a crush on him. 1433 00:55:13,477 --> 00:55:15,202 I have a crush on you. 1434 00:55:15,220 --> 00:55:19,373 ♪ ♪ 1435 00:55:19,391 --> 00:55:21,041 - Are you blushing right now? - Yeah. 1436 00:55:21,060 --> 00:55:23,710 - Yes, she is. She really is. 1437 00:55:23,804 --> 00:55:25,562 - That's how I am, like, on the inside. 1438 00:55:25,714 --> 00:55:28,991 I just probably haven't been 1439 00:55:29,142 --> 00:55:32,494 Expressing that verbally as much as I want to, actually. 1440 00:55:32,721 --> 00:55:35,497 ♪ ♪ 1441 00:55:35,649 --> 00:55:38,241 - What about you, ryan? Are you in like? 1442 00:55:38,336 --> 00:55:40,077 ♪ ♪ 1443 00:55:40,229 --> 00:55:43,822 - Yeah, and I--and I think we can get past that. 1444 00:55:43,916 --> 00:55:45,732 And I do think we can get past that. 1445 00:55:45,826 --> 00:55:47,067 - You can see it. - Yeah. 1446 00:55:47,086 --> 00:55:49,160 - Me too. 1447 00:55:49,180 --> 00:55:50,679 - Okay, define for me what you just said. 1448 00:55:50,831 --> 00:55:52,831 You think you do get past, what? 1449 00:55:52,850 --> 00:55:55,333 - He can see past the liking. 1450 00:55:55,353 --> 00:55:58,336 Like, we can get to the other thing. 1451 00:55:58,356 --> 00:56:00,522 - What is the other thing? - You know, love. 1452 00:56:00,749 --> 00:56:02,082 ♪ ♪ 1453 00:56:02,101 --> 00:56:04,860 - That thing. - That thing. 1454 00:56:05,011 --> 00:56:06,920 - You've been in love before. How did you know? 1455 00:56:06,939 --> 00:56:09,180 - I--I think so. - Okay. 1456 00:56:09,274 --> 00:56:11,425 What does-- what does it feel like? 1457 00:56:11,518 --> 00:56:14,185 - It's just a feeling that I get, that I just-- 1458 00:56:14,279 --> 00:56:17,598 That I value them more than me. 1459 00:56:17,616 --> 00:56:19,600 - You don't feel that way about her yet? 1460 00:56:19,618 --> 00:56:21,602 ♪ ♪ 1461 00:56:21,695 --> 00:56:22,953 - Not yet. 1462 00:56:23,047 --> 00:56:25,439 ♪ ♪ 1463 00:56:25,457 --> 00:56:28,458 And I have no problem being open about that. 1464 00:56:28,552 --> 00:56:34,448 ♪ ♪ 1465 00:56:34,466 --> 00:56:37,300 I just want to make sure we're on the same page 1466 00:56:37,395 --> 00:56:39,228 As far as--as that goes. 1467 00:56:39,455 --> 00:56:46,193 ♪ ♪ 1468 00:56:53,652 --> 00:56:55,485 - ♪ it's a new day ♪ 1469 00:56:55,579 --> 00:56:57,562 ♪ I'm up early ♪ 1470 00:56:57,656 --> 00:56:59,806 - Good morning. 1471 00:56:59,825 --> 00:57:02,142 - What's up? [laughter] 1472 00:57:02,161 --> 00:57:05,069 Aw, man. - The apartment's really sunny. 1473 00:57:05,089 --> 00:57:07,423 I'm not used to this. 1474 00:57:07,574 --> 00:57:11,743 - Her toothpaste, my toothpaste. 1475 00:57:11,762 --> 00:57:14,245 I don't know. Differences. 1476 00:57:14,265 --> 00:57:16,673 - Look how much I love maisey. 1477 00:57:16,767 --> 00:57:18,917 ♪ ♪ 1478 00:57:18,936 --> 00:57:21,419 I love, like, getting a husband and a dog. 1479 00:57:21,439 --> 00:57:23,346 I wanted another dog. Yeah! 1480 00:57:23,499 --> 00:57:25,858 [maisey chomps] ow. Puppies still bite. 1481 00:57:53,879 --> 00:57:55,453 I woke up this morning, 1482 00:57:55,547 --> 00:57:58,365 And zack is not here. 1483 00:57:58,383 --> 00:58:01,310 He left the apartment without informing me of anything. 1484 00:58:01,537 --> 00:58:04,721 ♪ ♪ 1485 00:58:04,873 --> 00:58:08,225 No text messages to my phone, no phone calls, 1486 00:58:08,319 --> 00:58:10,319 No sticky note on the door. 1487 00:58:10,546 --> 00:58:11,728 Nothing. 1488 00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:13,489 He didn't answer my phone call, 1489 00:58:13,716 --> 00:58:15,640 Answer my text message, respond to me. 1490 00:58:15,734 --> 00:58:17,884 And so, I'm out. 1491 00:58:17,903 --> 00:58:20,237 [dramatic musical sting] 1492 00:58:20,389 --> 00:58:21,238 [door slams] 1493 00:58:21,332 --> 00:58:22,998 ♪ ♪ 1494 00:58:23,225 --> 00:58:25,408 [knocks on door] - what's up, brother? 1495 00:58:25,561 --> 00:58:27,652 - Good to see you. - Hello. Good to see you too. 1496 00:58:27,671 --> 00:58:29,896 - Wow, you're married. 1497 00:58:29,915 --> 00:58:32,082 This is awesome. - Yes, it is. 1498 00:58:32,234 --> 00:58:34,158 - Aw, and who's this guy? - This is hype. 1499 00:58:34,253 --> 00:58:36,419 - This is the dog that I didn't want, 1500 00:58:36,572 --> 00:58:39,740 But he didn't listen to me. - All right. 1501 00:58:39,758 --> 00:58:41,908 - Me and my wife, we like to kid. 1502 00:58:41,927 --> 00:58:43,760 We like to joke around with each other 1503 00:58:43,912 --> 00:58:45,595 Because we like to keep everything fun, 1504 00:58:45,748 --> 00:58:48,098 But there's obviously a few things that we-- 1505 00:58:48,250 --> 00:58:50,675 We do still need to hit on and discuss. 1506 00:58:50,694 --> 00:58:52,027 Hype, come here. 1507 00:58:52,178 --> 00:58:53,603 - He says, "I have a new friend." 1508 00:58:53,697 --> 00:58:56,698 - I am excited to meet with pastor cal today. 1509 00:58:56,925 --> 00:58:59,350 I'm very anxious to hear what he has to say 1510 00:58:59,444 --> 00:59:01,853 And just ready to hear his advice 1511 00:59:01,947 --> 00:59:04,264 So we can have a successful marriage. 1512 00:59:04,357 --> 00:59:06,357 - First of all, I'm-- I'm excited for you guys. 1513 00:59:06,377 --> 00:59:07,784 You know, we matched you guys 1514 00:59:07,878 --> 00:59:09,286 'cause we thought you would be good together. 1515 00:59:09,380 --> 00:59:11,772 You'd make a great pair, but-- 1516 00:59:11,865 --> 00:59:14,124 - We believe that. - Good, good, good. 1517 00:59:14,276 --> 00:59:15,867 That's what I want to hear. - We do believe it. 1518 00:59:15,886 --> 00:59:18,278 - That's exactly what I want to hear. 1519 00:59:18,297 --> 00:59:21,873 Now let me just dive into how you progressing because, 1520 00:59:21,967 --> 00:59:24,284 At the end of the day, we want you to be successful. 1521 00:59:24,377 --> 00:59:26,136 - Right. - She's very extravagant. 1522 00:59:26,288 --> 00:59:27,120 She likes to spend. 1523 00:59:27,139 --> 00:59:28,789 ♪ ♪ 1524 00:59:28,882 --> 00:59:30,807 - Correct. - So tell me, 1525 00:59:30,901 --> 00:59:32,717 How much have you guys talked about money? 1526 00:59:32,736 --> 00:59:35,312 - We have, but I don't think we've gone, like, really deep. 1527 00:59:35,406 --> 00:59:38,240 - Um, closet is about... 1528 00:59:38,467 --> 00:59:40,576 A hefty price there. 1529 00:59:40,727 --> 00:59:42,060 - How hefty? 1530 00:59:42,079 --> 00:59:43,486 - If I had to guess-- 1531 00:59:43,581 --> 00:59:45,563 - Sure, guess. 1532 00:59:45,657 --> 00:59:50,644 - About $70,000 worth of merchandise in her closet. 1533 00:59:50,662 --> 00:59:53,237 - Is that--is that-- is that ballpark? 1534 00:59:53,257 --> 00:59:54,331 - No. 1535 00:59:54,425 --> 00:59:56,316 ♪ ♪ 1536 00:59:56,335 --> 00:59:57,593 - How many red bottoms you got in there? 1537 00:59:57,744 --> 00:59:58,835 - Thank you. How many red bottoms 1538 00:59:58,987 --> 01:00:00,429 You got in there? - I don't know. 1539 01:00:00,656 --> 01:00:01,504 - Okay, there you go. - Like 10. 1540 01:00:01,599 --> 01:00:02,598 - There you go. - Like 10. 1541 01:00:02,825 --> 01:00:04,415 - Okay. Enough said. 1542 01:00:04,435 --> 01:00:06,250 Enough said. And so-- 1543 01:00:06,345 --> 01:00:07,844 - But you don't know how many-- 1544 01:00:07,938 --> 01:00:09,754 - I'm gonna go with his estimate because you already-- 1545 01:00:09,773 --> 01:00:11,756 You already disqualified yourself. 1546 01:00:11,775 --> 01:00:15,168 So how do you feel, gil? How do you feel about that? 1547 01:00:15,187 --> 01:00:18,839 - I--I think-- I think that's too much. 1548 01:00:18,932 --> 01:00:21,950 We had a conversation last night about, 1549 01:00:22,177 --> 01:00:24,268 Would you shop less? 1550 01:00:24,288 --> 01:00:26,121 - No. - She said-- 1551 01:00:26,348 --> 01:00:28,365 - I mean-- - no. 1552 01:00:28,517 --> 01:00:32,035 - I basically said no because I wanted a specific example. 1553 01:00:32,187 --> 01:00:36,022 So, like, what would be the reason to, like, shop less? 1554 01:00:36,041 --> 01:00:37,633 - To divert money elsewhere. - Exactly. 1555 01:00:37,784 --> 01:00:39,801 - But if I'm already diverting money right now, 1556 01:00:40,028 --> 01:00:44,973 Like, what's an extra $1,000 of shopping gonna do--hurt? 1557 01:00:45,125 --> 01:00:47,050 - That's exactly--that's-- - like, I'm already 1558 01:00:47,202 --> 01:00:48,551 Saving, though. - Ladies and gentlemen. 1559 01:00:48,704 --> 01:00:50,036 - But let's look at the principles. 1560 01:00:50,055 --> 01:00:51,554 - That's what I'm saying. I already saved. 1561 01:00:51,649 --> 01:00:53,206 - Okay, fine. So now, we gotta transition 1562 01:00:53,225 --> 01:00:56,893 From single activities to married activities. 1563 01:00:56,987 --> 01:00:58,728 ♪ ♪ 1564 01:00:58,881 --> 01:01:01,064 These are things that you all-- you all are going 1565 01:01:01,216 --> 01:01:03,474 To have to start conferring with each other on. 1566 01:01:03,494 --> 01:01:06,069 I mean, irrespective of the price. 1567 01:01:06,221 --> 01:01:07,478 Okay, I mean, you don't have to tell him 1568 01:01:07,572 --> 01:01:09,814 You're going to buy a $100-, $150-, 1569 01:01:09,833 --> 01:01:11,816 But when you're talking about thousands of dollars, 1570 01:01:11,835 --> 01:01:13,669 These are marriage decisions. 1571 01:01:13,896 --> 01:01:15,395 ♪ ♪ 1572 01:01:15,414 --> 01:01:18,732 Tell me a little bit about your intimate life. 1573 01:01:18,750 --> 01:01:19,900 - Um... 1574 01:01:19,918 --> 01:01:21,659 ♪ ♪ 1575 01:01:21,679 --> 01:01:24,087 So recently, it's been 1576 01:01:24,239 --> 01:01:27,665 A little more intimacy when it comes down 1577 01:01:27,685 --> 01:01:29,500 To just, like, just like this type of stuff. 1578 01:01:29,594 --> 01:01:31,353 - Like just touching? - Just touching. 1579 01:01:31,504 --> 01:01:34,523 Or, like, cuddling when we go-- before we go to sleep, 1580 01:01:34,674 --> 01:01:36,674 For when we fall asleep together and stuff like that. 1581 01:01:36,694 --> 01:01:39,343 But that's the hype. That's the peak. 1582 01:01:39,363 --> 01:01:41,438 That's the climax right there. 1583 01:01:41,590 --> 01:01:43,181 - That is not a climax, my man. [laughter] 1584 01:01:43,275 --> 01:01:45,850 - That is--I'm telling you, it's a low-budget film. 1585 01:01:45,944 --> 01:01:47,444 - I'm sorry. - It's a low-budget film. 1586 01:01:47,538 --> 01:01:48,595 - That's not the goal. 1587 01:01:48,613 --> 01:01:50,613 ♪ ♪ 1588 01:01:50,766 --> 01:01:51,781 Has there been a kiss? 1589 01:01:51,934 --> 01:01:54,525 - No. Cheek. 1590 01:01:54,545 --> 01:01:57,361 - And I know at the wedding, she cheeked you. 1591 01:01:57,381 --> 01:02:00,215 - And she's been cheeking me. 1592 01:02:00,442 --> 01:02:02,959 - I mean, I'm looking and, yeah, I'm seeing the touching. 1593 01:02:03,111 --> 01:02:05,036 Are you this way in private also off-camera? 1594 01:02:05,055 --> 01:02:07,964 - Yes, yes. It's just the kissing. 1595 01:02:08,116 --> 01:02:10,800 There's no kissing but, like, we're touchy all the time. 1596 01:02:10,894 --> 01:02:12,285 - And there's no energy? 1597 01:02:12,304 --> 01:02:15,638 No sexual chemistry? No-- 1598 01:02:15,791 --> 01:02:17,640 - For me, there is. 1599 01:02:17,735 --> 01:02:19,550 ♪ ♪ 1600 01:02:19,570 --> 01:02:21,903 I don't--I can't speak for her. 1601 01:02:22,130 --> 01:02:25,465 I'm gonna guess there is also, but it's-- 1602 01:02:25,484 --> 01:02:26,908 - [exasperated] you shouldn't have to guess. 1603 01:02:27,135 --> 01:02:30,487 ♪ ♪ 1604 01:02:30,581 --> 01:02:32,414 Do you guys want to have sex? 1605 01:02:32,641 --> 01:02:35,709 ♪ ♪ 1606 01:02:40,482 --> 01:02:42,315 - Do you guys want to have sex? 1607 01:02:42,334 --> 01:02:48,096 ♪ ♪ 1608 01:02:48,248 --> 01:02:50,748 - Eventually, yes. 1609 01:02:50,768 --> 01:02:52,325 - Yes. - Okay. 1610 01:02:52,418 --> 01:02:54,844 - Just yes for me. - Okay, okay. Just-- 1611 01:02:54,997 --> 01:02:56,513 Screw the "eventually." just yes. 1612 01:02:56,665 --> 01:02:58,665 ♪ ♪ 1613 01:02:58,758 --> 01:02:59,924 What do you feel like you need from him 1614 01:03:00,018 --> 01:03:00,850 To feel more comfortable? 1615 01:03:01,003 --> 01:03:02,944 ♪ ♪ 1616 01:03:03,096 --> 01:03:05,447 - I think I need to get to know you just more. 1617 01:03:05,598 --> 01:03:07,507 - I think it all goes back to intimacy. 1618 01:03:07,526 --> 01:03:08,950 I could be--I could go two, three months. 1619 01:03:09,177 --> 01:03:10,527 I can go this whole experience not having sex 1620 01:03:10,679 --> 01:03:11,694 And be perfectly fine with that. 1621 01:03:11,789 --> 01:03:13,179 That's not the issue. 1622 01:03:13,198 --> 01:03:16,016 When I say intimacy, I say--I mean kiss. 1623 01:03:16,034 --> 01:03:18,293 So the fact that that hasn't happened-- 1624 01:03:18,444 --> 01:03:19,519 - Why is kissing such a problem? 1625 01:03:19,538 --> 01:03:20,687 I'm sorry to interrupt you. 1626 01:03:20,705 --> 01:03:21,946 - I mean, for me, it's very intimate. 1627 01:03:21,965 --> 01:03:23,540 - But--but a peck on the lips? 1628 01:03:23,692 --> 01:03:25,133 ♪ ♪ 1629 01:03:25,285 --> 01:03:27,193 Is that outside of your comfort zone? 1630 01:03:27,287 --> 01:03:28,695 - It is-- - a lip peck? 1631 01:03:28,713 --> 01:03:31,031 - It is outside of my comfort zone right now. 1632 01:03:31,049 --> 01:03:36,311 ♪ ♪ 1633 01:03:36,538 --> 01:03:38,480 - What I hear is, "this is how I always been." 1634 01:03:38,707 --> 01:03:39,981 That's what I hear. 1635 01:03:40,208 --> 01:03:42,042 - But for me, it's more like, it's gonna come. 1636 01:03:42,135 --> 01:03:44,561 Just my comfort. Like, I'll get there 1637 01:03:44,713 --> 01:03:46,212 Just like I get there with everything else. 1638 01:03:46,306 --> 01:03:47,471 This just takes me a little longer. 1639 01:03:47,566 --> 01:03:49,324 I care about how I feel 1640 01:03:49,551 --> 01:03:51,384 And the pace that I feel comfortable going at. 1641 01:03:51,403 --> 01:03:53,570 And so, it always makes me feel like, 1642 01:03:53,722 --> 01:03:55,388 Oh, people are trying to put pressure on us. 1643 01:03:55,407 --> 01:03:57,833 People try--so I have to just remind myself, 1644 01:03:58,060 --> 01:03:59,909 Ignore the voices. Just focus on how you feel 1645 01:04:00,062 --> 01:04:02,170 In your marriage with your husband. 1646 01:04:02,322 --> 01:04:04,155 - ♪ show me you will ♪ 1647 01:04:04,174 --> 01:04:06,824 ♪ I wanna give it to you ♪ 1648 01:04:06,844 --> 01:04:08,510 - I understand. I just want her to be comfortable. 1649 01:04:08,661 --> 01:04:10,253 - Yeah. - You know, I don't want 1650 01:04:10,347 --> 01:04:12,589 To push it, you know, but I asked her straight up. 1651 01:04:12,683 --> 01:04:14,741 I was like, "do you think you could go from now 1652 01:04:14,759 --> 01:04:17,853 "until decision day without a kiss? 1653 01:04:18,004 --> 01:04:19,596 Without giving me a kiss?" 1654 01:04:19,690 --> 01:04:21,690 She said, "probably." 1655 01:04:21,917 --> 01:04:23,583 ♪ ♪ 1656 01:04:23,602 --> 01:04:25,585 And I said, "okay, well, just know, 1657 01:04:25,604 --> 01:04:27,845 "I'ma be 100% real with you, 1658 01:04:27,865 --> 01:04:30,866 If that happens, I am going to ask for a divorce." 1659 01:04:31,093 --> 01:04:33,034 ♪ ♪ 1660 01:04:33,261 --> 01:04:35,261 - Wow. 1661 01:04:35,355 --> 01:04:37,521 - The fact that you will say it, 1662 01:04:37,541 --> 01:04:40,691 But won't show me, knowing that I'm like-- 1663 01:04:40,711 --> 01:04:44,120 I do want to be with you, but if you're not kissing me, 1664 01:04:44,272 --> 01:04:46,439 Do you really want to be with me? 1665 01:04:46,532 --> 01:04:48,775 - ♪ you know I've thought about it, baby ♪ 1666 01:04:48,793 --> 01:04:50,886 ♪ ♪ 1667 01:04:51,037 --> 01:04:52,795 ♪ you know you drive me crazy ♪ 1668 01:04:52,948 --> 01:04:59,636 ♪ ♪ 1669 01:04:59,730 --> 01:05:01,897 - Do you want a beer? - I'm good. Thanks. 1670 01:05:02,048 --> 01:05:03,139 You okay? Everything good? 1671 01:05:03,233 --> 01:05:04,641 Like-- - I'm fine. 1672 01:05:04,793 --> 01:05:06,643 - You sure? - Yeah. 1673 01:05:06,795 --> 01:05:07,810 - Okay. 1674 01:05:07,963 --> 01:05:12,482 ♪ ♪ 1675 01:05:12,576 --> 01:05:15,135 - I'm back in the apartment with zack 1676 01:05:15,153 --> 01:05:17,078 Because we have a meeting with pastor cal. 1677 01:05:17,230 --> 01:05:20,231 I'm pretty upset zack did not communicate with me 1678 01:05:20,325 --> 01:05:21,808 That he left or anything, 1679 01:05:21,826 --> 01:05:24,252 So it's frustrating for him to say, 1680 01:05:24,479 --> 01:05:26,421 "are you okay?" when you know I'm not okay. 1681 01:05:26,648 --> 01:05:28,665 ♪ ♪ 1682 01:05:28,817 --> 01:05:30,483 - Michaela. 1683 01:05:30,576 --> 01:05:31,909 - You really wanna know what's wrong? 1684 01:05:31,929 --> 01:05:33,411 - Yeah, yeah. It's fine. - Okay. 1685 01:05:33,505 --> 01:05:35,488 So this morning, I wake up-- - mm-hmm. 1686 01:05:35,507 --> 01:05:36,823 - I don't have my husband next to me. 1687 01:05:36,841 --> 01:05:38,341 And there's no bella, there's no zack. 1688 01:05:38,435 --> 01:05:40,084 They're gone. 1689 01:05:40,103 --> 01:05:43,587 You told me, "I'ma get her to bed, 1690 01:05:43,607 --> 01:05:47,000 And then after she's asleep, I'ma come to the bed." 1691 01:05:47,093 --> 01:05:48,944 That's the last thing I heard from you. 1692 01:05:49,171 --> 01:05:51,112 And so, when I woke up in the early morning 1693 01:05:51,264 --> 01:05:53,264 And my husband wasn't next to me 1694 01:05:53,358 --> 01:05:55,266 After eight days of being apart-- 1695 01:05:55,285 --> 01:05:56,952 - The reason why I didn't sleep in the same bed as you 1696 01:05:57,179 --> 01:05:58,620 Is because I fell asleep-- I fell asleep. 1697 01:05:58,847 --> 01:06:00,530 Like, I just fell asleep. I was very tired. 1698 01:06:00,624 --> 01:06:02,532 I didn't mean to--I wait for her to fall asleep, 1699 01:06:02,626 --> 01:06:03,941 I fell asleep same time. 1700 01:06:03,961 --> 01:06:06,777 Didn't wake up until 7:00 a.M. 1701 01:06:06,871 --> 01:06:10,948 When I woke up, I had to take bella to the daycare. 1702 01:06:10,968 --> 01:06:12,375 - But you never communicated that. 1703 01:06:12,527 --> 01:06:14,618 - I understand why you're mad, and I'm sorry, 1704 01:06:14,638 --> 01:06:16,972 But there was a reason behind 1705 01:06:17,199 --> 01:06:19,882 Why I didn't wake you up, why I left. 1706 01:06:19,977 --> 01:06:21,810 So I just want you to know it wasn't on purpose, okay? 1707 01:06:21,961 --> 01:06:23,536 - It felt like it was intentional. 1708 01:06:23,555 --> 01:06:25,371 - What was intentional? - All of it! 1709 01:06:25,390 --> 01:06:27,465 [dramatic musical sting] 1710 01:06:27,559 --> 01:06:29,150 And I also don't see 1711 01:06:29,377 --> 01:06:30,877 Why you couldn't send a simple text message. 1712 01:06:30,970 --> 01:06:32,821 A text message isn't waking somebody up. 1713 01:06:32,972 --> 01:06:34,214 It's just saying, "hey, I left." 1714 01:06:34,232 --> 01:06:38,401 ♪ ♪ 1715 01:06:38,553 --> 01:06:39,886 - You think I, like, did this on purpose? 1716 01:06:39,979 --> 01:06:41,888 Like I--why do you think I did that? 1717 01:06:41,906 --> 01:06:44,315 - I think you made decisions on your own, 1718 01:06:44,334 --> 01:06:45,834 And you're good at that, 1719 01:06:46,061 --> 01:06:48,503 And I find that both endearing and irritating. 1720 01:06:48,654 --> 01:06:49,838 - I told you-- - because I think 1721 01:06:50,065 --> 01:06:53,491 You make decisions, and you just make them. 1722 01:06:53,585 --> 01:06:55,418 - You don't make decisions too? Everybody makes decisions 1723 01:06:55,570 --> 01:06:56,736 In life. - I do. I do. 1724 01:06:56,829 --> 01:06:58,404 But it's like-- god damn, zachary. 1725 01:06:58,498 --> 01:07:01,165 Like, I'm in there waiting on you. 1726 01:07:01,259 --> 01:07:02,851 What am I supposed to think? 1727 01:07:03,078 --> 01:07:04,352 - So you thought I was gonna be gone forever? 1728 01:07:04,504 --> 01:07:05,854 Like what you thought-- - no. 1729 01:07:06,005 --> 01:07:08,081 I didn't think you were gonna be gone forever. 1730 01:07:08,174 --> 01:07:10,525 You give me such limited information 1731 01:07:10,752 --> 01:07:13,010 That it's like, well, okay. - Okay. Hold on. 1732 01:07:13,030 --> 01:07:14,921 - Well, if you're gonna act in an independent way, 1733 01:07:15,014 --> 01:07:16,698 Then so should I. - All right. Hold on. 1734 01:07:16,849 --> 01:07:18,591 Is that why you left today? - Yes! 1735 01:07:18,610 --> 01:07:20,093 - Okay. You know what's funny, though? 1736 01:07:20,111 --> 01:07:21,703 'cause, you know, we actually talked about, 1737 01:07:21,854 --> 01:07:23,596 Like, how we would handle, like, the situation, 1738 01:07:23,689 --> 01:07:25,040 Like, who would leave. - It's not funny. 1739 01:07:25,191 --> 01:07:27,876 It's not funny. - It's funny as [bleep] to me. 1740 01:07:28,103 --> 01:07:31,287 The rash decision to just leave the apartment 1741 01:07:31,439 --> 01:07:35,625 Because of something so simple as I left without saying bye, 1742 01:07:35,777 --> 01:07:37,052 This is a red flag 1743 01:07:37,279 --> 01:07:38,611 Because I've dealt with this in the past 1744 01:07:38,704 --> 01:07:40,889 And I hate this type of behavior. 1745 01:07:41,116 --> 01:07:42,390 And it hasn't worked out for me in the past, 1746 01:07:42,617 --> 01:07:44,284 And I don't know if it's gonna work out for me now. 1747 01:07:44,302 --> 01:07:46,043 - I took all my [bleep] and I left. 1748 01:07:46,137 --> 01:07:47,620 That's because of what you did. 1749 01:07:47,639 --> 01:07:51,566 You never came back! You never came back! 1750 01:07:51,793 --> 01:07:53,960 - I came back here at, like, 9:15. You were gone. 1751 01:07:54,053 --> 01:07:55,386 Like, you--I have to te--you were gone. 1752 01:07:55,480 --> 01:07:56,813 You said. - [bleep] nope. 1753 01:07:56,965 --> 01:07:59,315 I was not gone at 9:15. You a [bleep] liar. 1754 01:07:59,409 --> 01:08:01,576 - Okay, okay, okay. - You a [bleep] liar. 1755 01:08:01,803 --> 01:08:05,413 ♪ ♪ 1756 01:08:05,640 --> 01:08:07,640 - Unfortunately, I think I've reached my limit of-- 1757 01:08:07,733 --> 01:08:09,492 About talking about this 'cause I have to move on. 1758 01:08:09,644 --> 01:08:11,644 I can't--like, I can no longer talk about this situation. 1759 01:08:11,737 --> 01:08:12,829 - Is there a resolve here? 1760 01:08:12,981 --> 01:08:14,756 - Um... 1761 01:08:14,907 --> 01:08:16,073 [knocks on door] 1762 01:08:16,093 --> 01:08:17,483 [bleep]. 1763 01:08:17,502 --> 01:08:19,094 ♪ ♪ 1764 01:08:19,321 --> 01:08:21,596 [door opens] 1765 01:08:21,747 --> 01:08:23,489 What's up, man. How you doing? 1766 01:08:23,508 --> 01:08:25,082 We have a visitor, michaela. 1767 01:08:25,102 --> 01:08:25,934 [eerie tone] 1768 01:08:32,758 --> 01:08:34,684 - ♪ it's all or nothing ♪ 1769 01:08:34,778 --> 01:08:38,004 - ♪ how do we stop the rain from falling? ♪ 1770 01:08:38,022 --> 01:08:40,506 ♪ ♪ 1771 01:08:40,525 --> 01:08:41,950 - I can no longer talk about this situation. 1772 01:08:42,101 --> 01:08:43,284 - Is there a resolve here? 1773 01:08:43,511 --> 01:08:45,120 - Um... 1774 01:08:45,271 --> 01:08:46,529 [knocks on door] 1775 01:08:46,623 --> 01:08:47,789 [bleep]. 1776 01:08:48,016 --> 01:08:51,793 ♪ ♪ 1777 01:08:51,944 --> 01:08:53,019 What's up, man. How you doing? 1778 01:08:53,037 --> 01:08:54,354 - What's up, big guy? - How you doing? 1779 01:08:54,447 --> 01:08:55,296 - How you doing? - Good. 1780 01:08:55,523 --> 01:08:57,373 ♪ ♪ 1781 01:08:57,525 --> 01:08:58,541 We have a visitor, michaela. 1782 01:08:58,635 --> 01:09:00,284 - Yes, we do. 1783 01:09:00,303 --> 01:09:01,694 - All right. Good to see you guys. 1784 01:09:01,713 --> 01:09:03,029 - You too, you too, you too. 1785 01:09:03,122 --> 01:09:05,198 You guys are married. - Yeah, I know. 1786 01:09:05,291 --> 01:09:07,124 - All right, all right, all right. 1787 01:09:07,144 --> 01:09:08,384 I want to talk to you. 1788 01:09:08,536 --> 01:09:10,219 I just came to see you, to visit. 1789 01:09:10,372 --> 01:09:11,646 That's all. - Uh-huh. 1790 01:09:18,396 --> 01:09:19,904 - You guys are sitting so far apart. 1791 01:09:23,551 --> 01:09:25,660 - We just had, like, a little--a little argument. 1792 01:09:25,811 --> 01:09:27,720 Our first little argument. 1793 01:09:27,813 --> 01:09:28,830 - Our first real argument. 1794 01:09:28,981 --> 01:09:30,314 - Yeah, our first real argument. 1795 01:09:30,333 --> 01:09:32,625 - Welcome to marriage, okay? - Yeah, yeah. 1796 01:09:36,173 --> 01:09:39,732 - I've noticed that you guys have matched me with a man 1797 01:09:39,751 --> 01:09:43,252 Who is as challenging, dynamic, and strong-- 1798 01:09:43,346 --> 01:09:44,179 As me. - As you. 1799 01:09:44,406 --> 01:09:47,089 - [chuckles] 1800 01:09:47,242 --> 01:09:49,592 Like-- - absolutely. 1801 01:09:49,686 --> 01:09:51,411 - You know, our little argument changes nothing about 1802 01:09:51,429 --> 01:09:52,687 How I feel about you, right? 1803 01:09:52,914 --> 01:09:54,355 Like, I still think you're an amazing woman. 1804 01:09:54,507 --> 01:09:56,173 I think you're the most caring and loving girl 1805 01:09:56,267 --> 01:09:59,343 I've been around, and so, it... 1806 01:09:59,437 --> 01:10:00,528 It's just a little bump in the road. 1807 01:10:00,755 --> 01:10:02,530 ♪ ♪ 1808 01:10:02,757 --> 01:10:04,032 And I don't like you making that face. 1809 01:10:04,183 --> 01:10:06,092 See-- - I'm--I'm looking at that too. 1810 01:10:06,185 --> 01:10:08,945 - See, now it's gonna be really difficult. 1811 01:10:09,097 --> 01:10:10,521 Okay, so-- - sorry. 1812 01:10:10,540 --> 01:10:12,022 - No. But hold on. No, no, no. 1813 01:10:12,116 --> 01:10:13,208 No, I want you to stop for a second. 1814 01:10:13,435 --> 01:10:14,784 Inter--interpret what that's all about. 1815 01:10:14,878 --> 01:10:16,694 What's the squint for? 1816 01:10:16,713 --> 01:10:18,379 - There is a guard. I'm sorry. 1817 01:10:18,531 --> 01:10:20,364 - Mm-hmm. - There is a guard up. 1818 01:10:20,383 --> 01:10:21,791 So when you say these things, like, they-- 1819 01:10:21,885 --> 01:10:24,552 Yeah, they sound good, but... 1820 01:10:24,704 --> 01:10:25,962 - Okay, hold up, hold up, hold up. 1821 01:10:26,114 --> 01:10:27,889 I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 1822 01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:29,465 From my perspective, I literally-- 1823 01:10:29,617 --> 01:10:32,042 All I did was fall asleep with my dog accidentally. 1824 01:10:32,062 --> 01:10:33,728 The next morning, I took her to the daycare, 1825 01:10:33,955 --> 01:10:35,638 And I showed up to the apartment two hours later. 1826 01:10:35,732 --> 01:10:37,065 Like, what have I done 1827 01:10:37,216 --> 01:10:38,975 That shows you that I'm not telling the truth? 1828 01:10:39,069 --> 01:10:41,236 Like, that's what I don't like, because I've been honest 1829 01:10:41,463 --> 01:10:43,646 In this whole process from day [bleep] one, 1830 01:10:43,740 --> 01:10:45,631 And I'm not lying now. 1831 01:10:45,725 --> 01:10:46,983 I've never seen that squint you did. 1832 01:10:47,135 --> 01:10:48,409 We've had a lot of conversations, 1833 01:10:48,636 --> 01:10:50,060 A lot of deep conversations on- and off-camera, 1834 01:10:50,154 --> 01:10:51,395 And I've never seen that. 1835 01:10:51,489 --> 01:10:53,081 - What did that mean to you? 1836 01:10:53,308 --> 01:10:54,582 - It just means, like, you don't believe me 1837 01:10:54,809 --> 01:10:56,567 And I'm not being genuine or something like that. 1838 01:10:56,661 --> 01:10:57,660 Like, even the way you're acting now. 1839 01:10:57,812 --> 01:11:00,162 ♪ ♪ 1840 01:11:00,315 --> 01:11:01,981 - Yeah. Well, I want you to-- I want you to let him know 1841 01:11:02,000 --> 01:11:03,332 Why you--what-- what you're feeling 1842 01:11:03,485 --> 01:11:04,926 And why you're responding that way. 1843 01:11:07,931 --> 01:11:10,656 - [voice cracks] I'm nervous. 1844 01:11:10,675 --> 01:11:13,268 And I don't let my guard down. - Right. 1845 01:11:13,495 --> 01:11:16,662 - And I want to believe you. I want to trust you. 1846 01:11:16,756 --> 01:11:18,347 You are absolutely a phenomenal person. 1847 01:11:18,441 --> 01:11:20,500 You're a phenomenal man. 1848 01:11:20,518 --> 01:11:23,444 And I pray that what I believe you are is true 1849 01:11:23,671 --> 01:11:25,947 And that I can be with you for the rest of my life. 1850 01:11:26,098 --> 01:11:27,340 But that makes me nervous! 1851 01:11:27,358 --> 01:11:29,099 - [softly] why? 1852 01:11:29,119 --> 01:11:31,101 - The safety and security of it. 1853 01:11:31,195 --> 01:11:33,513 If--if--when my dad died, 1854 01:11:33,531 --> 01:11:35,531 I had to pretty much protect myself. 1855 01:11:35,683 --> 01:11:38,776 Like, my dad always had my back. 1856 01:11:38,870 --> 01:11:42,964 Now I have a husband and I have to put my vulnerability in him. 1857 01:11:43,191 --> 01:11:47,302 And so, the idea of allowing myself to be 1858 01:11:47,529 --> 01:11:51,622 Watched over and led by another man is--is scary. 1859 01:11:51,716 --> 01:11:53,957 - Okay, I understand that. And--and-- 1860 01:11:54,052 --> 01:11:55,125 See? Okay, see? I can't-- 1861 01:11:55,219 --> 01:11:57,036 - Zack, zack, zack, zack, zack. 1862 01:11:57,055 --> 01:11:58,313 Look at me. Zack, look at me. 1863 01:11:58,540 --> 01:11:59,555 Okay. No, I hear you, but just-- 1864 01:11:59,649 --> 01:12:00,631 - I'm sorry. - No, no, no. 1865 01:12:00,650 --> 01:12:02,041 I'm--I'm going to intervene here 1866 01:12:02,060 --> 01:12:03,634 'cause I want you to hear me. - I tried. 1867 01:12:03,728 --> 01:12:05,378 - No, no, no, no. No, no, no. 1868 01:12:05,471 --> 01:12:06,487 But I want you to hear me. - All right. 1869 01:12:06,639 --> 01:12:07,989 - Now I want you to hear me, okay? 1870 01:12:08,216 --> 01:12:09,473 'cause I want you-- I want--I want you guys 1871 01:12:09,567 --> 01:12:11,734 To see what happened, okay? 1872 01:12:11,886 --> 01:12:15,888 I motioned to him and asked him to close the gap. 1873 01:12:15,907 --> 01:12:20,317 Now you sort of jokingly, but not jokingly, 1874 01:12:20,337 --> 01:12:21,669 You recoiled. 1875 01:12:21,821 --> 01:12:24,397 And that is again saying to him, 1876 01:12:24,490 --> 01:12:26,174 "oh, she still doesn't trust me." 1877 01:12:26,325 --> 01:12:27,675 - If I'm, like, genuinely trying 1878 01:12:27,827 --> 01:12:29,677 To, like, you know, be closer to you 1879 01:12:29,829 --> 01:12:31,495 And you don't want it, like, it's gonna be okay. 1880 01:12:31,514 --> 01:12:33,089 I'll just-- I'll take a step back. 1881 01:12:33,183 --> 01:12:35,074 And I'm okay with that. I want to give you your space. 1882 01:12:35,093 --> 01:12:36,759 I want you to be comfortable, like, and that's okay. 1883 01:12:36,911 --> 01:12:38,186 - That's--but I disagree with that. 1884 01:12:38,413 --> 01:12:39,854 I think that's complete bs. I think you want him 1885 01:12:40,005 --> 01:12:41,597 To touch you. - I do. 1886 01:12:41,691 --> 01:12:43,583 - You want him, but--but-- - now the moment has passed 1887 01:12:43,676 --> 01:12:44,675 And I'm physically checked. - No. 1888 01:12:44,694 --> 01:12:46,009 Zack, the moment never passes. 1889 01:12:46,104 --> 01:12:47,436 No, no, no, no. No, no, no, no, no. 1890 01:12:47,589 --> 01:12:49,513 Nope, nope, nope. This is marriage. 1891 01:12:49,607 --> 01:12:51,348 This is marriage. 1892 01:12:51,368 --> 01:12:53,201 This is where we push through the difficult times 1893 01:12:53,428 --> 01:12:55,778 And the difficult crap for reconciliation. 1894 01:12:55,930 --> 01:12:58,614 She wants your closeness, 1895 01:12:58,766 --> 01:13:02,618 But it's difficult for her to receive it. 1896 01:13:02,770 --> 01:13:04,270 Did you hear what she said a moment ago? 1897 01:13:04,363 --> 01:13:08,124 Her dad was her protector. 1898 01:13:08,276 --> 01:13:11,460 When someone loses someone who's like that, 1899 01:13:11,554 --> 01:13:14,389 It's crushing. 1900 01:13:14,616 --> 01:13:17,466 Am I right? 1901 01:13:17,619 --> 01:13:21,454 You felt abandoned when your dad passed, 1902 01:13:21,547 --> 01:13:24,790 And you felt abandoned ever since. 1903 01:13:24,809 --> 01:13:27,643 - My dad's gone forever. He was a good man. 1904 01:13:27,795 --> 01:13:29,645 - Mm-hmm. 1905 01:13:29,797 --> 01:13:30,905 I know. 1906 01:13:31,132 --> 01:13:38,061 ♪ ♪ 1907 01:13:38,156 --> 01:13:39,080 - It's okay. Come here. 1908 01:13:39,307 --> 01:13:43,066 ♪ ♪ 1909 01:13:43,086 --> 01:13:45,311 - Let him--let him be there for you, okay? 1910 01:13:45,329 --> 01:13:52,093 ♪ ♪ 1911 01:13:54,931 --> 01:13:57,506 It's okay. Listen. 1912 01:13:57,600 --> 01:14:02,603 You leaving the house without her knowing it, 1913 01:14:02,830 --> 01:14:05,773 You see how that could have stirred up something 1914 01:14:05,925 --> 01:14:09,092 As far as, "where's my protector?" 1915 01:14:09,187 --> 01:14:11,446 Can you--can you hold his hand? 1916 01:14:11,673 --> 01:14:14,782 ♪ ♪ 1917 01:14:15,009 --> 01:14:16,358 Good. 1918 01:14:16,511 --> 01:14:20,362 - I can't imagine how you feel, honestly. 1919 01:14:20,457 --> 01:14:23,866 It's--it's like--I know it's a traumatic experience 1920 01:14:24,018 --> 01:14:27,203 And I really can't relate, but I promise you, like, 1921 01:14:27,297 --> 01:14:29,038 You know, I have your back, whatever you need. 1922 01:14:29,190 --> 01:14:31,524 Like, I'll be there for you, 1923 01:14:31,542 --> 01:14:34,802 Whatever, like, it takes to make you feel more comfortable. 1924 01:14:34,954 --> 01:14:36,545 - That's a lot of responsibility 1925 01:14:36,698 --> 01:14:38,698 For you to take on. 1926 01:14:38,791 --> 01:14:40,199 I don't feel like you need 1927 01:14:40,292 --> 01:14:41,792 To, like, take this, like, burden on. 1928 01:14:41,811 --> 01:14:43,552 - I don't feel like-- I don't need to do [bleep]. 1929 01:14:43,705 --> 01:14:45,204 I don't--but I want to. 1930 01:14:45,223 --> 01:14:47,148 - Here's the thing. Here's the thing. 1931 01:14:47,375 --> 01:14:49,208 Don't worry about the responsibility. 1932 01:14:49,227 --> 01:14:51,152 The man is saying--he sitting here right in your face, 1933 01:14:51,379 --> 01:14:52,653 Telling you, "it's not too much for me." 1934 01:14:52,880 --> 01:14:55,047 Why are you telling him it is too much? 1935 01:14:55,066 --> 01:14:56,899 Why--why--why are you convinced that it is? 1936 01:14:56,993 --> 01:15:00,143 Let him do that, okay? 1937 01:15:00,238 --> 01:15:02,813 This is why you wanted to be married. 1938 01:15:02,832 --> 01:15:04,815 To have this kind of support. 1939 01:15:04,834 --> 01:15:08,151 Doggone it, you got it right here. 1940 01:15:08,171 --> 01:15:09,562 Stop pushing it away. 1941 01:15:09,580 --> 01:15:11,564 ♪ ♪ 1942 01:15:11,582 --> 01:15:15,251 You both have to work out your own baggage. 1943 01:15:15,403 --> 01:15:18,495 You guys have an incredible amount of potential 1944 01:15:18,515 --> 01:15:21,516 To be just an awesome couple. 1945 01:15:21,743 --> 01:15:24,927 - ♪ not sure if you know much about me ♪ 1946 01:15:25,021 --> 01:15:28,189 ♪ is that what you wanted? Makes it easy ♪ 1947 01:15:28,416 --> 01:15:30,416 - I don't want you to derail this early on. 1948 01:15:30,509 --> 01:15:32,752 - ♪ I want to be the one for you ♪ 1949 01:15:32,770 --> 01:15:36,105 ♪ will you let me through since it's up to you? ♪ 1950 01:15:36,257 --> 01:15:43,445 ♪ ♪ 1951 01:15:44,265 --> 01:15:47,024 - Pastor cal! - Johnny, my man. 1952 01:15:47,118 --> 01:15:49,377 So, you're married. 1953 01:15:49,604 --> 01:15:50,545 First of all, let's go back to the wedding. 1954 01:15:50,772 --> 01:15:52,529 How was it? 1955 01:15:52,623 --> 01:15:54,623 - The ceremony was amazing. 1956 01:15:54,717 --> 01:15:57,552 - I heard! And I heard also that you guys had met before. 1957 01:15:57,703 --> 01:15:59,779 - We have. - I had a crush on you, 1958 01:15:59,872 --> 01:16:01,722 I shared, like forever, you know? 1959 01:16:01,874 --> 01:16:03,373 And--and you just never noticed me 1960 01:16:03,393 --> 01:16:05,542 'cause I wasn't miss popular. 1961 01:16:05,562 --> 01:16:07,377 - Oh, my god. - I was the nerdy bookworm. 1962 01:16:07,397 --> 01:16:09,121 - Wow. 1963 01:16:09,214 --> 01:16:10,714 - I was not even on his radar. 1964 01:16:10,733 --> 01:16:12,049 - Okay. Okay. 1965 01:16:12,143 --> 01:16:14,235 - Oh, my god. - Yeah, I know johnny. 1966 01:16:14,462 --> 01:16:15,736 I know you're feeling kind of bad now. 1967 01:16:15,963 --> 01:16:18,221 But let's continue. - We're married now. 1968 01:16:18,241 --> 01:16:19,982 You're stuck with me. - I know. 1969 01:16:20,076 --> 01:16:22,134 Let's continue. 1970 01:16:22,153 --> 01:16:24,820 You guys have had some-- some early challenges already. 1971 01:16:24,972 --> 01:16:26,655 And I know. I've talked to you individually, 1972 01:16:26,808 --> 01:16:28,899 And you've shared with me some of the challenges you've had. 1973 01:16:28,993 --> 01:16:31,143 But for every challenge you've had, 1974 01:16:31,162 --> 01:16:34,404 I believe that a lot of them arise out of--out of fear 1975 01:16:34,498 --> 01:16:39,260 And out of--out of this-- 1976 01:16:39,487 --> 01:16:42,763 Just not feeling as though you've been accepted. 1977 01:16:42,915 --> 01:16:46,158 You guys had any deep conversations? 1978 01:16:46,251 --> 01:16:47,918 - Something that I didn't expect to happen 1979 01:16:48,012 --> 01:16:49,511 During honeymoon was 1980 01:16:49,606 --> 01:16:51,755 Instead of having really surface-level conversations, 1981 01:16:51,849 --> 01:16:53,682 We dove straight to the deep end. 1982 01:16:53,776 --> 01:16:55,184 And that's why we've also had, 1983 01:16:55,336 --> 01:16:56,669 You know, our handful of arguments. 1984 01:16:56,687 --> 01:16:58,337 There's no way you could go that deep 1985 01:16:58,430 --> 01:17:00,522 Without arguing about some things. 1986 01:17:00,675 --> 01:17:02,283 ♪ ♪ 1987 01:17:02,510 --> 01:17:04,844 - Tell me what-- what are we talking about? 1988 01:17:04,862 --> 01:17:07,847 - Something that I am insecure about is 1989 01:17:07,865 --> 01:17:11,367 That I sometimes snore. 1990 01:17:11,519 --> 01:17:13,535 And, you know, he-- he dismissed it immediately 1991 01:17:13,630 --> 01:17:15,371 After I brought it up. 1992 01:17:15,465 --> 01:17:18,799 He was acting like I was being overly sensitive 1993 01:17:19,026 --> 01:17:21,193 And making a bigger deal of it than it is. 1994 01:17:21,212 --> 01:17:23,620 But, you know, when you made fun of a vulnerability, 1995 01:17:23,640 --> 01:17:27,032 That made me feel less attractive. 1996 01:17:27,126 --> 01:17:31,294 I feel like sometimes that you're rejecting me. 1997 01:17:31,314 --> 01:17:34,707 I feel I have to initiate all of the physical touch. 1998 01:17:34,725 --> 01:17:36,484 Just trying to get any kind of affection. 1999 01:17:36,711 --> 01:17:37,985 ♪ ♪ 2000 01:17:38,137 --> 01:17:40,488 - But I feel like I do initiate. 2001 01:17:40,715 --> 01:17:42,990 - Okay, let me stop right here. 2002 01:17:43,217 --> 01:17:46,385 If she feels as though you're not initiating, 2003 01:17:46,404 --> 01:17:47,662 It makes no difference what you feel. 2004 01:17:47,889 --> 01:17:49,330 - Yeah. 2005 01:17:49,557 --> 01:17:51,223 - You know, I want you to hear what she's saying. 2006 01:17:51,316 --> 01:17:52,833 She said she doesn't feel attractive. 2007 01:17:53,060 --> 01:17:54,727 She doesn't feel like you're initiating it. 2008 01:17:54,820 --> 01:17:57,579 And I want--I want to know that if you aren't, which is fine, 2009 01:17:57,732 --> 01:17:59,322 And if you're not attracted, 2010 01:17:59,417 --> 01:18:01,842 Now's the time to find out why. 2011 01:18:02,069 --> 01:18:08,808 ♪ ♪ 2012 01:18:11,579 --> 01:18:12,745 - [sighs] 2013 01:18:12,763 --> 01:18:15,022 ♪ ♪ 2014 01:18:15,174 --> 01:18:17,841 - Yeah. Okay. 'cause you're--you're struggling. 2015 01:18:17,935 --> 01:18:20,085 You're struggling, and I know-- and I know you're struggling 2016 01:18:20,179 --> 01:18:21,603 'cause you don't want to say anything 2017 01:18:21,756 --> 01:18:23,105 That's gonna hurt her feelings. - Yeah. 2018 01:18:23,257 --> 01:18:27,776 - Okay, but if there is something, do you want to know? 2019 01:18:27,929 --> 01:18:30,371 Do you want to know that? - I do wanna know that. 2020 01:18:30,522 --> 01:18:32,114 - [laughs] 2021 01:18:32,266 --> 01:18:34,875 ♪ ♪ 2022 01:18:39,215 --> 01:18:41,790 [dramatic music] 2023 01:18:41,884 --> 01:18:43,275 - I want you to hear what she's saying. 2024 01:18:43,368 --> 01:18:45,127 She said she doesn't feel like you're attracted. 2025 01:18:45,279 --> 01:18:46,962 And you're not attracted, now's the time to find out why. 2026 01:18:47,056 --> 01:18:48,964 ♪ ♪ 2027 01:18:49,116 --> 01:18:51,559 Do you want to know that? - I do wanna know that. 2028 01:18:51,710 --> 01:18:53,285 - [laughs] 2029 01:18:53,304 --> 01:18:59,975 ♪ ♪ 2030 01:19:00,127 --> 01:19:03,128 - When you get happy and excited, 2031 01:19:03,222 --> 01:19:05,889 It feels like you get very giddy, 2032 01:19:05,983 --> 01:19:08,968 Almost like a little kid. 2033 01:19:08,986 --> 01:19:10,469 ♪ ♪ 2034 01:19:10,488 --> 01:19:12,154 I personally don't find it attractive. 2035 01:19:12,306 --> 01:19:13,806 Here we are. 2036 01:19:13,824 --> 01:19:15,808 Mimosas. - Yes, bubbles! 2037 01:19:15,826 --> 01:19:18,310 Get in here, get in here. Stabilize me. 2038 01:19:18,329 --> 01:19:19,979 - [sighs] 2039 01:19:19,997 --> 01:19:23,665 ♪ ♪ 2040 01:19:23,818 --> 01:19:25,760 - [giggles] 2041 01:19:25,911 --> 01:19:27,094 - I think it's 'cause I'm trying to be, 2042 01:19:27,246 --> 01:19:29,505 Like, physically intimate. 2043 01:19:29,657 --> 01:19:33,250 Like, I want that to grow, and when you do that, 2044 01:19:33,269 --> 01:19:34,660 It turns me off. 2045 01:19:34,678 --> 01:19:38,347 ♪ ♪ 2046 01:19:38,499 --> 01:19:41,091 And actually, a lot of your advances towards me 2047 01:19:41,110 --> 01:19:44,169 Are also very-- 2048 01:19:44,263 --> 01:19:45,838 - Kiddy. - In that line. 2049 01:19:45,931 --> 01:19:47,448 Like, you'll come up to me and kind of be like, 2050 01:19:47,599 --> 01:19:50,359 Look up to me with like-- like, "ready for a kiss." 2051 01:19:50,453 --> 01:19:52,602 ♪ ♪ 2052 01:19:52,696 --> 01:19:54,680 And I'm like... 2053 01:19:54,698 --> 01:19:57,440 And I kiss you, but it's not, like, hot. 2054 01:19:57,460 --> 01:19:59,943 It's not spicy. It doesn't get me going, you know? 2055 01:20:00,037 --> 01:20:02,037 And so, I'll kiss you, but it's really a friendly kiss. 2056 01:20:02,189 --> 01:20:04,632 - Yeah, it is. Hmm. 2057 01:20:04,783 --> 01:20:06,050 - How is what he's saying making you feel? 2058 01:20:08,045 --> 01:20:10,546 [dramatic musical sting] 2059 01:20:10,698 --> 01:20:13,382 - Not attractive at all. 2060 01:20:13,534 --> 01:20:15,142 - I know. - He's comparing me to a child. 2061 01:20:15,369 --> 01:20:17,036 - And I didn't--that's why I didn't want to say it. 2062 01:20:17,054 --> 01:20:18,295 - It's--it's okay, johnny. It's okay. 2063 01:20:18,389 --> 01:20:20,130 This is what marriage is. 2064 01:20:20,224 --> 01:20:21,798 We talk about these issues, 2065 01:20:21,818 --> 01:20:24,710 And we either adjust or we accept, 2066 01:20:24,803 --> 01:20:27,546 But we don't break and run. 2067 01:20:27,565 --> 01:20:30,157 So that's--that's what we're doing now, okay? 2068 01:20:30,309 --> 01:20:34,219 So don't--don't--don't worry about saying how you feel. 2069 01:20:34,313 --> 01:20:36,221 And I want you to take how he's saying 2070 01:20:36,315 --> 01:20:38,223 As simply how he's feeling. 2071 01:20:38,317 --> 01:20:41,393 - Yeah, but you know, it does make me feel like 2072 01:20:41,412 --> 01:20:43,653 A part of me--it makes me feel like I can't be myself, 2073 01:20:43,747 --> 01:20:46,173 That in my moments of joy-- 2074 01:20:46,325 --> 01:20:48,825 And most people don't see that side of me, 2075 01:20:48,845 --> 01:20:52,179 When I'm just giddy, and that's how I express that. 2076 01:20:52,406 --> 01:20:54,573 And I only do that with a romantic partner. 2077 01:20:54,592 --> 01:20:56,592 ♪ ♪ 2078 01:20:56,686 --> 01:21:00,003 I feel like, in a way, he's disgusted by my joy 2079 01:21:00,022 --> 01:21:01,413 Or the way that I express joy. 2080 01:21:01,506 --> 01:21:02,672 - Here's what I don't want you to do. 2081 01:21:02,692 --> 01:21:04,416 I don't want you to get into your head, okay? 2082 01:21:04,509 --> 01:21:06,026 With this, okay? - Okay. 2083 01:21:06,253 --> 01:21:09,088 - Because there's nothing wrong with how you express joy. 2084 01:21:09,181 --> 01:21:11,090 And there's nothing wrong with just laughing with, 2085 01:21:11,108 --> 01:21:12,366 You know, with abandon. 2086 01:21:12,517 --> 01:21:16,019 I'm going to challenge you to be giddy. 2087 01:21:16,113 --> 01:21:18,021 Stay with me. Stay with me. 2088 01:21:18,115 --> 01:21:21,934 Instead of looking at it as a negative, 2089 01:21:22,027 --> 01:21:25,787 Understand, this is your grown wife. 2090 01:21:25,940 --> 01:21:29,532 She's a grown woman, in every sense of the word. 2091 01:21:29,627 --> 01:21:32,277 And so, I want you to put all this in--in context, you know? 2092 01:21:32,296 --> 01:21:34,446 And I--and I--I'm not picking on you johnny, 2093 01:21:34,539 --> 01:21:36,298 'cause you know you my dude. 2094 01:21:36,392 --> 01:21:38,041 You know that, but I, 2095 01:21:38,060 --> 01:21:40,469 You know, I'm gonna come straight with you, okay? 2096 01:21:40,563 --> 01:21:43,230 This is not bao's issue. - It is not. I agree. 2097 01:21:43,382 --> 01:21:46,458 - This is johnny's issue, okay? - It's my thing. 2098 01:21:46,477 --> 01:21:48,794 - Even though I want her to appreciate the fact 2099 01:21:48,812 --> 01:21:50,571 That you will open enough to share it-- 2100 01:21:50,798 --> 01:21:53,482 - I do. - Okay? 2101 01:21:53,634 --> 01:21:56,559 But I--I don't want you to diminish who you are 2102 01:21:56,579 --> 01:22:01,490 Because there's nothing bad about who you are, okay? 2103 01:22:01,584 --> 01:22:04,977 And I will bet that the more open and honest you are, 2104 01:22:04,995 --> 01:22:06,995 And the more you deal with your issues, 2105 01:22:07,148 --> 01:22:09,164 The more you're going to find yourselves 2106 01:22:09,316 --> 01:22:11,592 Growing in some serious, 2107 01:22:11,819 --> 01:22:13,318 Intense affections to one another. 2108 01:22:13,337 --> 01:22:15,095 - ♪ I put my hands up ♪ 2109 01:22:15,247 --> 01:22:17,247 ♪ I put my hands down ♪ 2110 01:22:17,266 --> 01:22:18,748 - The only hindrance to the success 2111 01:22:18,842 --> 01:22:20,993 Of your relationship is you. 2112 01:22:21,086 --> 01:22:23,604 - ♪ everything just seems so heavy now ♪ 2113 01:22:23,831 --> 01:22:25,255 - You guys are it. You can make it succeed, 2114 01:22:25,274 --> 01:22:26,682 Or you can make it fail. 2115 01:22:26,776 --> 01:22:29,426 - ♪ I choose ♪ 2116 01:22:29,520 --> 01:22:31,837 ♪ to love you ♪ 2117 01:22:31,855 --> 01:22:37,176 ♪ ♪ 2118 01:22:37,269 --> 01:22:39,620 - Congratulations, and to great health. 2119 01:22:39,771 --> 01:22:41,771 - Next time on "married at first sight"... 2120 01:22:41,865 --> 01:22:44,625 - Yeah, baby! Ow! All: Cheers. 2121 01:22:44,776 --> 01:22:46,201 - Being with someone all the time, 2122 01:22:46,353 --> 01:22:48,537 It does accelerate the feelings. 2123 01:22:48,689 --> 01:22:51,039 - Like, I'm scared I'm gonna be restricted. 2124 01:22:51,133 --> 01:22:53,542 He's scared I'm just gonna, like, blow all this money. 2125 01:22:53,636 --> 01:22:56,786 And I think he needs to let loose a little bit 2126 01:22:56,806 --> 01:22:58,121 On his finances. - Right, so that's-- 2127 01:22:58,215 --> 01:22:59,622 That's the thing. You gotta make sure 2128 01:22:59,642 --> 01:23:02,292 That he's not controlling it 110%. 2129 01:23:02,311 --> 01:23:04,144 - Define it for me. - "extra." look it up. 2130 01:23:04,371 --> 01:23:06,205 You want me to give you an urban dictionary of "extra"? 2131 01:23:06,298 --> 01:23:07,964 Too much. - Like too much of what? 2132 01:23:07,984 --> 01:23:09,725 - Everything. 2133 01:23:09,877 --> 01:23:11,134 - So at what point, though, are you like, 2134 01:23:11,153 --> 01:23:12,561 "okay, this is..." - I don't know. 2135 01:23:12,655 --> 01:23:14,379 - "I can't do this anymore," you know what I mean?" 2136 01:23:14,398 --> 01:23:15,823 'cause you're gonna reach that point. 2137 01:23:15,974 --> 01:23:17,399 - Sorry I made you feel that way. 2138 01:23:17,551 --> 01:23:19,051 It's very disappointing for me to hear. 2139 01:23:19,144 --> 01:23:20,494 - What's wrong? Are you all right? 2140 01:23:20,721 --> 01:23:21,737 Dude, we're gonna put our heads together. 2141 01:23:21,889 --> 01:23:24,164 You're good. 2142 01:23:24,391 --> 01:23:27,075 - Now she's just a [bleep]. [laughs maniacally] 2143 01:23:27,169 --> 01:23:28,393 Because I'm a [bleep]. 2144 01:23:28,412 --> 01:23:31,580 ♪ ♪ 2145 01:23:31,674 --> 01:23:33,582 - I feel horrible right now. - I didn't know that! 2146 01:23:33,676 --> 01:23:35,917 And I'm not trying to cry now. I didn't know that. 2147 01:23:36,012 --> 01:23:37,469 ♪ ♪