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- I'm taking
a huge leap of faith.
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I'm finally going
to marry a stranger.
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- Oh [bleep].
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I've been dreaming
about this moment
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For my whole life.
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- You don't understand,
like, how much I wanted this.
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I've never been in love,
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But I'm ready to be
in love with this woman.
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- Please stand.
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[dramatic music]
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- Just four days ago,
ten singles
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Put their faith in the experts
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In order to find love.
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- Hi. [laughs]
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- They married
as complete strangers.
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- You may kiss your bride.
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[cheers and applause]
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♪ ♪
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- I am married.
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[upbeat music]
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- Last time, they began
their honeymoons together.
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♪ ♪
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Brett and ryan.
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- I truly am here
for the right reasons.
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I truly am thankful
that I was matched with you.
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♪ ♪
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- Here we go.
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♪ ♪
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- Rachel and jose.
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- Hopefully, fingers crossed,
I get my catch of the day.
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- Yes.
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- And then my catch
of a lifetime.
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- Stop.
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- I hope this is what
I can expect in the future.
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- When it comes to groceries,
when it comes to bills,
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I feel like it should be 50/50.
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- Let me take everything
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That we need
financially for the month.
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Then everything that's left,
you can pull from there.
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[dramatic music]
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- I don't want an allowance.
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[upbeat music]
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- Bao and johnny.
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- I feel like it's nothing
to be ashamed of
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Because so many people snore.
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- I know you're
not trying to make fun,
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But it actually really hurts.
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I just feel like I need
to be in a different bed.
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- Wow.
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[dramatic music]
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- Myrla and gil.
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- I'm just a touchy person.
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- Do you believe
you've been touchy with me?
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- I am not like that
on day one with people.
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That comes with time.
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- Do you see
that ever happening?
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♪ ♪
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- Michaela and zack.
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- So I just found out
I tested positive for covid.
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Michaela's negative,
which I'm happy about
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But she's
obviously not excited.
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- I am married now,
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And I can't even have my man
on my honeymoon.
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This is [bleep] up.
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We also made the decision
that it would be best
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That I go back to houston.
- No.
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♪ ♪
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- Whoo!
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- ♪ I can never ♪
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♪ get you off
my, my, my mind ♪
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- Tonight, our couples
enjoy the final few days
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Of their honeymoon
in this tropical paradise.
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- No one is luckier than us.
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- Before they have to return
to the real world.
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- Ooh.
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- You asked
for chocolate chip cookies.
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- That is amazing.
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- Never have I ever...
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[dramatic music]
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- Damn, I married a cheater.
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I definitely think
cheaters are very selfish.
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- I don't want a dog 'cause
I don't want to walk them.
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- That doesn't sit well
with me at all.
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That's just gonna
make it harder for me
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To even want to get
to know you further.
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♪ ♪
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- If I don't have
boxes checked,
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It's not happening.
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♪ ♪
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- Showering every single day
was not my top priority.
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- Is that so hard?
Like, just rinse off.
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We have differences.
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They're very important
differences to me.
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This is usually the point
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Where I start thinking,
is this for me?
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♪ ♪
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[upbeat music]
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- ♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- This is
"married at first sight."
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- ♪ there's no other way ♪
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♪ ♪
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♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- ♪ tell me
that you're vibing ♪
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♪ we gonna make it far ♪
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♪ ♪
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- Morning.
- Morning.
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- Status update,
the pillow fort is still here.
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♪ ♪
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It's okay.
Whatever makes my hubby happy.
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- While most of our couples
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Have started to create
a strong and unique bond...
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- Good morning.
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- Not the light.
- Not the light?
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♪ ♪
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- Good morning.
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- We hope that they can use
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These last few days
of the honeymoon
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To learn more about each other
and look forward
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To what their lives together
in houston might bring.
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- My wife
doesn't give a [bleep].
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- [laughs]
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- Said, "I don't have to get
ready for morning diary cam."
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No [bleep].
- Clearly don't care.
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- Because in
just over seven weeks,
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Our couples are going
to have to decide
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Whether they want
to stay married
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Or get a divorce.
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[soft music]
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ it's never gonna feel
like home again ♪
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♪ feels like home to me ♪
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♪ ♪
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♪ this is holding us up ♪
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- This is not the way
I imagined our honeymoon.
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♪ ♪
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Initially
I was thinking about,
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You know, just us hanging out,
drinking mimosas,
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Going dancing,
exploring new activities,
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Just getting to know
each other,
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But that's not gonna happen.
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I feel horrible
not only because I have covid
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But because I feel like
I let michaela down.
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It's not a good way
to start off your marriage.
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- ♪ secretly finding
I feel ♪
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- I came back to texas
yesterday morning,
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And it sucks,
but I understand,
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You know,
health and safety first,
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But I do miss him, and I know
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That we'll have
plenty of time,
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And he said--he was like,
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"short time sacrifice
for a long-time paradise."
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And I'm like, "I like
your positive thinking."
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[laughs]
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♪ ♪
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- Over the last couple days,
I was sad to kind of wake up
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Without michaela
'cause I really missed her,
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So my plan
for the rest of the honeymoon
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Is just to get rest,
drink water,
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And get back home
as healthy as possible
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So we can make up
the days that we missed.
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I really can't wait for us
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To, you know,
begin our lives together.
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♪ ♪
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[upbeat music]
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- ♪ it's the feeling
that you give me ♪
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♪ every time
that you are with me ♪
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- How'd you sleep?
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- I promise you did
talk in your sleep again.
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- What?
- Like, you were loud.
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If these weren't
silent proof walls,
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I'm sure the neighbors
heard you.
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- Look,
if there's no evidence--
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- But you talked in your sleep.
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I was wide awake this time.
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There's no confusion.
- Nobody ever told me that
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And I sleep around
a lot of people.
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♪ ♪
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Last time I talked
in my sleep I was--
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- Maybe you were
saying all the things
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That you didn't want to say.
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[laughter]
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- Like what?
- I don't know.
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- I'm, like, cursing you out
while I'm sleeping?
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[laughter]
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You know, before we went
to sleep last night,
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I was thinking about
what we talked about
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At the wedding table.
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- What did we talk about?
- The last names.
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- What are
your expectations around,
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Like, changing my last name?
Like...
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- When it comes
down to that,
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I'm pretty traditional
about it.
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Like, I feel like you should
change your last name.
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How do you feel about it?
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[soft dramatic music]
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- I feel like
I like myrla feria.
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♪ ♪
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- And I feel like
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You should take
your husband's last name.
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♪ ♪
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- But I like feria.
- All right.
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You're mexican,
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So you should be--
you should relate to this.
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I mean, in columbia,
we have some people
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With last names like this.
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What about if you put
myrla feria de cuero?
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- Myrla esther feria de cuero.
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I don't think that I'm, like,
that aspect of a mexican.
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That's just really long to me.
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Like, what would
people call me?
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♪ ♪
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- Come on now.
What?
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[laughs]
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- I don't know anyone
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In, like, my immediate family
who's done that.
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- I imagined
when I got married
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That compromise
would be easy-peasy,
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But the topic
of changing the last name
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Was one type of compromise
I hadn't thought about.
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- Because I love "feria"
in remembrance of my father.
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- See,
when you put it like that,
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You make me out
to be, like, the bad guy
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If I'm like,
"I don't want you..."
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I don't appreciate
how you're doing that
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Because obviously--
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- Well, but that is the--
that is the reason.
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- 'cause of that?
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- [sighs]
that's tough.
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That's tough.
Come on, man.
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You can't put somebody
in that type of situation.
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We can talk about it some more
and come up with a compromise.
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- To be continued.
- Yes, for sure.
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[upbeat music]
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♪ ♪
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- All right.
- Coffee.
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- Let's start with that.
- Yes.
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- So we need a little pep, huh?
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- I do.
- Cheers.
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- Cheers to
another great morning.
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- And a exciting day.
- Mh-hmm, and marriage.
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[chuckles]
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So last night,
I know I opened up to you
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About a concern,
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And I really appreciate
that you really listened.
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I'm hoping that you understand
where I'm coming from
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Even if it's not a problem
you have personally.
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[dramatic music]
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It's hard.
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As a woman, people don't
expect you to snore.
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And while I've been told
that it's cute,
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It's not cute,
especially if you've lived
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A life
of being bullied about it.
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- So when you first
brought it up,
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I was--I thought
you were kidding.
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I thought it was
an overreaction.
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The scary thing was like,
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Are we gonna have arguments
about stuff like this?
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- Petty things to you?
- Yeah.
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- I know.
I could tell.
261
00:09:25,974 --> 00:09:29,401
♪ ♪
262
00:09:29,628 --> 00:09:31,461
- I think we deal
with things differently
263
00:09:31,554 --> 00:09:35,148
On what we have,
like, insecurities about.
264
00:09:35,300 --> 00:09:37,224
- I'm hoping
that you understand
265
00:09:37,244 --> 00:09:40,486
Where I'm coming from.
- Mm-hmm.
266
00:09:40,639 --> 00:09:43,081
If bao and I were only dating
and not married,
267
00:09:43,308 --> 00:09:45,308
I think this would have been
a red flag to me.
268
00:09:45,327 --> 00:09:47,401
It would have probably
gotten me
269
00:09:47,495 --> 00:09:48,828
Back onto the dating apps.
270
00:09:48,922 --> 00:09:51,147
At this point,
I have no other dating apps.
271
00:09:51,166 --> 00:09:53,166
[chuckles]
I have zero other options.
272
00:09:53,260 --> 00:09:55,001
I'm married to her.
I think this is good.
273
00:09:55,095 --> 00:09:57,262
It's putting me in a really
uncomfortable situation
274
00:09:57,489 --> 00:10:00,247
Where my gut instinct
is saying, "run,"
275
00:10:00,267 --> 00:10:04,994
But this ring is telling me,
"no man, stick around.
276
00:10:05,013 --> 00:10:06,253
Figure it out."
277
00:10:06,348 --> 00:10:07,997
So far...
- Mm-hmm.
278
00:10:08,091 --> 00:10:10,758
- What level do you feel
like we are at?
279
00:10:10,777 --> 00:10:12,168
- On a scale?
280
00:10:12,261 --> 00:10:13,695
- Yeah, maybe.
Something like that.
281
00:10:16,265 --> 00:10:18,691
- I take things
pretty slow emotionally.
282
00:10:18,844 --> 00:10:22,103
In my past relationships,
283
00:10:22,197 --> 00:10:24,197
The physical intimacy
happened first
284
00:10:24,291 --> 00:10:27,533
And the emotional intimacy
took longer for me to build.
285
00:10:27,628 --> 00:10:29,869
- I see.
286
00:10:29,963 --> 00:10:33,039
Why do you think it was
that way in the past?
287
00:10:33,191 --> 00:10:36,784
- I think, for me,
physical intimacy is easy.
288
00:10:36,803 --> 00:10:39,120
Attraction
and physical attraction
289
00:10:39,214 --> 00:10:41,197
And sexual attraction
comes quickly.
290
00:10:41,290 --> 00:10:42,474
I mean, I think
you're very handsome.
291
00:10:42,625 --> 00:10:44,200
I'm very attracted to you,
292
00:10:44,293 --> 00:10:45,977
And so upon
first looking at you--
293
00:10:46,129 --> 00:10:47,646
And this is before
when we first met--
294
00:10:47,797 --> 00:10:49,038
I've had a crush on you
for a long time.
295
00:10:49,057 --> 00:10:50,056
[upbeat music]
296
00:10:50,208 --> 00:10:51,650
- You never told me.
297
00:10:51,877 --> 00:10:53,652
- 'cause I'm a coward.
[chuckles]
298
00:10:53,803 --> 00:10:54,969
- And maybe
I'm a coward for this,
299
00:10:54,988 --> 00:10:56,379
But if you had made
the first move back then
300
00:10:56,472 --> 00:10:57,897
And told me that you liked me,
301
00:10:58,049 --> 00:11:00,141
I would have told you
that I liked you too.
302
00:11:00,235 --> 00:11:02,902
- Oh, my god.
Is that just--
303
00:11:02,996 --> 00:11:05,163
- It's just wild, like,
how everything's turned out.
304
00:11:05,390 --> 00:11:06,814
Where do you think we would be
if we had?
305
00:11:06,908 --> 00:11:08,574
Just kind of
picturing hypothetically.
306
00:11:08,669 --> 00:11:10,243
- Oh.
307
00:11:10,395 --> 00:11:11,670
- You think we'd have
a couple kids by now?
308
00:11:11,897 --> 00:11:15,156
♪ ♪
309
00:11:15,175 --> 00:11:16,582
- Maybe.
310
00:11:16,735 --> 00:11:18,468
[music slows, stops]
311
00:11:26,761 --> 00:11:29,579
♪ don't be afraid ♪
312
00:11:29,672 --> 00:11:31,189
♪ 'cause they always say ♪
313
00:11:31,340 --> 00:11:34,859
♪ let go of your fears ♪
314
00:11:35,086 --> 00:11:36,677
♪ follow all
the things you love ♪
315
00:11:36,697 --> 00:11:38,421
- Good morning.
- Mm, morning.
316
00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:42,108
[upbeat music]
317
00:11:42,260 --> 00:11:44,610
It's just crazy to believe
that a couple of days ago
318
00:11:44,705 --> 00:11:47,021
I was just a single gal
living by herself,
319
00:11:47,115 --> 00:11:48,540
But now I'm waking up
320
00:11:48,691 --> 00:11:50,375
Feeling like
a truly married woman.
321
00:11:50,526 --> 00:11:53,269
Oh, my god.
- How'd you sleep?
322
00:11:53,288 --> 00:11:56,530
- Oh, I slept good.
I slept like a baby.
323
00:11:56,550 --> 00:11:58,365
- So I kind of planned
for us to--
324
00:11:58,385 --> 00:12:00,944
- You planned something?
Ooh.
325
00:12:00,962 --> 00:12:02,779
[chuckles]
- stop it.
326
00:12:02,872 --> 00:12:05,782
You know I have plans.
Yes.
327
00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:08,393
So I kind of made some plans
and some arrangements for us...
328
00:12:10,138 --> 00:12:11,545
- Bike ride?
329
00:12:11,565 --> 00:12:12,731
- So I'm really
looking forward to it.
330
00:12:12,882 --> 00:12:14,958
- I have a tiny
little confession.
331
00:12:14,976 --> 00:12:16,901
- Oh, okay.
332
00:12:17,128 --> 00:12:20,071
- I may or may not
be able to ride a bike.
333
00:12:20,223 --> 00:12:21,388
- What?
- [laughs]
334
00:12:21,408 --> 00:12:22,966
- You don't know
how to ride a bicycle?
335
00:12:23,059 --> 00:12:24,984
My wife needs training wheels.
336
00:12:25,136 --> 00:12:26,745
♪ ♪
337
00:12:26,972 --> 00:12:29,563
She don't know
how to ride a bicycle.
338
00:12:29,657 --> 00:12:31,641
What the hell?
Oh, man.
339
00:12:31,734 --> 00:12:33,567
- But is bike riding
your thing?
340
00:12:33,587 --> 00:12:35,569
Can you teach someone
to ride a bike?
341
00:12:35,663 --> 00:12:36,996
- Not to toot my own horn,
but I can definitely teach you
342
00:12:37,148 --> 00:12:38,648
How to ride a bike.
343
00:12:38,666 --> 00:12:40,759
So in a store one time,
I put roller blades on,
344
00:12:40,986 --> 00:12:42,151
And I taught myself
how to roller blade
345
00:12:42,170 --> 00:12:43,410
In, like, five min--well,
within five minutes
346
00:12:43,505 --> 00:12:45,096
That I was in that store.
347
00:12:45,323 --> 00:12:47,507
And I say all that to say,
I pick up so many things
348
00:12:47,659 --> 00:12:48,916
So quickly.
It's gonna be great.
349
00:12:48,935 --> 00:12:50,417
It's gonna be
very adventurous.
350
00:12:50,437 --> 00:12:52,103
- I mean, it'll be fun
because obviously
351
00:12:52,330 --> 00:12:54,163
I want to learn
how to ride a bike.
352
00:12:54,182 --> 00:12:55,106
I mean, this is perfect.
I can just say--
353
00:12:55,258 --> 00:12:56,423
- You gonna learn today.
354
00:12:56,443 --> 00:12:57,850
- I can say, like,
355
00:12:57,944 --> 00:12:59,352
"I learned how to ride
a bike on my honeymoon."
356
00:12:59,446 --> 00:13:02,280
- Yes, my husband taught me
how to ride a bicycle.
357
00:13:02,507 --> 00:13:04,357
- My husband taught me
how to ride a bike.
358
00:13:04,451 --> 00:13:06,359
- This is gonna be great.
I'm looking forward to it.
359
00:13:06,453 --> 00:13:11,080
- Me too, but first I have
this list of questions.
360
00:13:12,700 --> 00:13:14,292
Let's talk about, like,
361
00:13:14,519 --> 00:13:16,185
What are just things
you really want
362
00:13:16,204 --> 00:13:18,296
To do before we have kids?
363
00:13:20,616 --> 00:13:24,027
Just us two.
- Describe it to me.
364
00:13:24,045 --> 00:13:28,381
- So my dream, dream trip
right now is switzerland,
365
00:13:28,475 --> 00:13:33,036
And we can go, like,
hang-gliding, speed boat,
366
00:13:33,129 --> 00:13:36,039
And so that is my dream trip.
367
00:13:36,057 --> 00:13:37,965
- I think the biggest thing
that just comes to mind
368
00:13:38,059 --> 00:13:39,609
Is it's a lot of money.
369
00:13:42,063 --> 00:13:45,064
[soft dramatic music]
370
00:13:45,158 --> 00:13:47,308
I still want us to continue
to learn and grow
371
00:13:47,327 --> 00:13:50,662
And travel together,
but then again,
372
00:13:50,889 --> 00:13:53,239
If we want to have kids,
we want to do that
373
00:13:53,333 --> 00:13:57,577
In a state where, okay,
we're gonna prep for kids.
374
00:13:57,729 --> 00:14:00,839
I would say trips
to, like, vegas or new york
375
00:14:01,066 --> 00:14:02,748
Where it would be
a little bit less.
376
00:14:02,901 --> 00:14:05,510
♪ ♪
377
00:14:05,737 --> 00:14:07,679
- I was someone
that took a trip every month,
378
00:14:07,906 --> 00:14:10,256
And I took a big trip
every two years,
379
00:14:10,350 --> 00:14:12,666
And to hear him say
that might not happen,
380
00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:15,502
I'm struggling with that idea.
381
00:14:15,597 --> 00:14:18,672
I definitely think this might
be one of those situations
382
00:14:18,692 --> 00:14:21,100
Where we do have
to find a happy medium.
383
00:14:21,194 --> 00:14:23,361
I think we still have
a conversation pending
384
00:14:23,512 --> 00:14:25,271
When it comes
to joint accounts.
385
00:14:25,423 --> 00:14:30,851
♪ ♪
386
00:14:30,871 --> 00:14:32,945
[upbeat music]
387
00:14:33,098 --> 00:14:34,597
- ♪ it's just
the things that you do ♪
388
00:14:34,616 --> 00:14:36,708
♪ ♪
389
00:14:36,935 --> 00:14:38,768
♪ they make me
go kind of crazy ♪
390
00:14:38,786 --> 00:14:43,030
♪ ♪
391
00:14:43,049 --> 00:14:45,199
- Ooh.
392
00:14:45,293 --> 00:14:47,960
- I'm not going to say this is
your last meal before kayaking
393
00:14:48,054 --> 00:14:49,962
Or your last meal in general
'cause I know how scared
394
00:14:50,115 --> 00:14:52,298
You are about kayaking,
but in case it is...
395
00:14:52,450 --> 00:14:54,967
- Oh, my god, shut up.
My last meal in general.
396
00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:58,730
I have an irrational fear
of everything
397
00:14:58,957 --> 00:15:01,382
That's in the water,
but I'm gonna try
398
00:15:01,401 --> 00:15:05,069
To be a trouper
and do my best
399
00:15:05,221 --> 00:15:08,555
And try to enjoy it.
400
00:15:08,575 --> 00:15:10,224
- I pray that we
don't see a shark fin
401
00:15:10,243 --> 00:15:11,392
'cause then you will
lose your [bleep].
402
00:15:11,486 --> 00:15:13,394
[soft dramatic music]
403
00:15:13,413 --> 00:15:14,728
And then I'ma lose my [bleep]
404
00:15:14,748 --> 00:15:17,564
'cause I'ma be
as scared as you.
405
00:15:17,659 --> 00:15:20,401
- Well, I know you think this,
that I'm scared of everything.
406
00:15:20,420 --> 00:15:21,753
- Yet you married a stranger.
407
00:15:21,904 --> 00:15:25,239
- I know.
Apparently not scared of that.
408
00:15:25,258 --> 00:15:29,652
- So if we encounter
a very vicious manatee
409
00:15:29,671 --> 00:15:34,340
Or a nice shark,
what are you gonna do?
410
00:15:34,492 --> 00:15:36,826
What can I do?
What do you want to happen?
411
00:15:36,844 --> 00:15:37,769
♪ ♪
412
00:15:39,773 --> 00:15:41,272
- I don't really know
if I have, like,
413
00:15:41,499 --> 00:15:42,923
A lot of--
I just want to face my fears.
414
00:15:42,943 --> 00:15:44,758
I don't, like,
typically feel that way,
415
00:15:44,778 --> 00:15:46,502
But if this is something
that we're gonna do,
416
00:15:46,595 --> 00:15:49,855
Then I feel like I can do it
417
00:15:50,008 --> 00:15:51,950
Because we're
doing it together.
418
00:15:52,101 --> 00:15:53,693
You know what I mean?
419
00:15:53,845 --> 00:15:56,103
You can pretty much convince me
that everything's fine.
420
00:15:56,122 --> 00:15:59,290
If you just--if you're calm,
I feel like I'll be calm.
421
00:15:59,517 --> 00:16:01,684
I know for a fact,
if anything goes wrong
422
00:16:01,703 --> 00:16:03,127
That he'll have my back
423
00:16:03,279 --> 00:16:05,204
Because he's
already proven that to me.
424
00:16:05,298 --> 00:16:07,114
You know, it makes me feel,
like, a little bad
425
00:16:07,208 --> 00:16:09,525
That I'm like, "oh, I'm scared
of this on this plane,
426
00:16:09,618 --> 00:16:11,194
And I'm scared
of this situation."
427
00:16:11,212 --> 00:16:13,863
But he's kind of taking it
in stride, I think.
428
00:16:13,956 --> 00:16:16,474
- If we get there
and it's--I know
429
00:16:16,625 --> 00:16:17,642
You're gonna try
to get through it,
430
00:16:17,793 --> 00:16:20,870
But if you--
if your fear comes up
431
00:16:20,963 --> 00:16:22,371
And you do kind of lock up,
432
00:16:22,390 --> 00:16:23,815
Then we'll just--
we'll get out of there.
433
00:16:23,966 --> 00:16:28,728
It's--we can go see manatees
from a bridge or something.
434
00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:30,471
- Okay.
435
00:16:30,490 --> 00:16:32,715
- We can go pick flowers
or something.
436
00:16:32,734 --> 00:16:34,325
- [laughs]
437
00:16:34,552 --> 00:16:37,644
- Something incredibly safe
and on land.
438
00:16:37,664 --> 00:16:40,999
- He's like, "I'm so glad
I have the most fun wife ever.
439
00:16:41,150 --> 00:16:43,650
She's so adventurous
and amazing."
440
00:16:43,670 --> 00:16:45,895
- How did I get so lucky?
- How did you get so lucky?
441
00:16:45,988 --> 00:16:49,398
- ♪ all the way to love ♪
442
00:16:49,492 --> 00:16:51,083
- ♪ did I say too much? ♪
443
00:16:51,236 --> 00:16:53,419
♪ or did I say too little? ♪
444
00:16:53,571 --> 00:16:55,829
- I think the last time
I was in a hammock
445
00:16:55,923 --> 00:16:57,831
Was probably by myself.
446
00:16:57,851 --> 00:16:59,350
I don't think I've shared
a hammock with anyone before.
447
00:16:59,502 --> 00:17:00,852
- Oh, do you want me to,
448
00:17:01,003 --> 00:17:02,336
You know,
go to that hammock over there?
449
00:17:02,355 --> 00:17:04,263
- Yeah, there's
plenty of options.
450
00:17:04,415 --> 00:17:05,672
♪ ♪
451
00:17:05,767 --> 00:17:07,025
I'm kidding, come here.
452
00:17:07,176 --> 00:17:08,084
- You know,
if I let go this one,
453
00:17:08,102 --> 00:17:09,510
You're gonna fall over.
454
00:17:09,529 --> 00:17:11,587
- Get in here, get in here.
Stabilize me.
455
00:17:11,606 --> 00:17:12,938
- [sighs]
456
00:17:13,091 --> 00:17:14,348
♪ ♪
457
00:17:14,367 --> 00:17:17,109
- We made it, yay.
458
00:17:17,203 --> 00:17:19,019
- I'm the kind of guy
that immediately wants
459
00:17:19,039 --> 00:17:21,688
To resolve the conflict
so we can move on,
460
00:17:21,783 --> 00:17:24,934
And so this morning I was not
completely open and honest
461
00:17:25,027 --> 00:17:26,360
With bao
about how I'm feeling,
462
00:17:26,379 --> 00:17:29,363
And it makes me feel guilty
463
00:17:29,382 --> 00:17:31,532
Because if I'm expecting her
to put herself out there,
464
00:17:31,551 --> 00:17:32,958
I also have to reciprocate,
465
00:17:33,053 --> 00:17:35,536
And I actually even need
to be proactive about it.
466
00:17:35,630 --> 00:17:38,056
It seems like sometimes we're--
when we're in the moment
467
00:17:38,207 --> 00:17:40,725
Of, you know,
just being the two of us,
468
00:17:40,876 --> 00:17:44,787
You're not 100%,
you know, in the moment
469
00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:47,214
And instead,
you are thinking
470
00:17:47,233 --> 00:17:48,882
About something
that happened in the past,
471
00:17:48,976 --> 00:17:50,735
Or you're worrying about some
kind of detail in the present
472
00:17:50,886 --> 00:17:52,904
That's not kind of
where I'm at,
473
00:17:53,131 --> 00:17:54,964
So that's something I felt
from last night.
474
00:17:54,982 --> 00:17:56,557
[soft dramatic music]
475
00:17:56,651 --> 00:17:59,468
And I don't want to lie to you.
476
00:17:59,562 --> 00:18:00,486
I had a little bit of, like,
477
00:18:00,638 --> 00:18:03,489
A fight or flight
kind of moment...
478
00:18:03,641 --> 00:18:05,324
♪ ♪
479
00:18:05,476 --> 00:18:07,993
And I started having doubts...
480
00:18:08,146 --> 00:18:09,328
- I could tell.
- About us.
481
00:18:09,422 --> 00:18:11,405
- Mm-hmm.
482
00:18:11,424 --> 00:18:14,317
- I don't want to scare you,
but this is usually the point
483
00:18:14,335 --> 00:18:17,169
Where I start thinking,
"is this for me?"
484
00:18:17,322 --> 00:18:21,933
♪ ♪
485
00:18:22,084 --> 00:18:24,769
- Mm-hmm. I saw it.
486
00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:25,770
I saw it in your eyes.
487
00:18:27,832 --> 00:18:30,108
And, for me,
it was very disappointing too
488
00:18:30,259 --> 00:18:31,442
Because I felt judged.
489
00:18:35,523 --> 00:18:39,024
This is all new for me,
490
00:18:39,177 --> 00:18:43,195
And, I mean,
I'm trying so hard,
491
00:18:43,348 --> 00:18:45,531
And I don't know that it shows.
492
00:18:45,683 --> 00:18:48,868
♪ ♪
493
00:18:49,020 --> 00:18:51,187
I have a tendency
to overthink things,
494
00:18:51,205 --> 00:18:53,706
And sometimes
that can get me in trouble.
495
00:18:53,858 --> 00:18:56,116
In the past, it has.
496
00:18:56,210 --> 00:18:59,953
The one thing about johnny
that does make me feel assured
497
00:19:00,047 --> 00:19:02,974
That maybe this won't be
a problem in our relationship
498
00:19:03,201 --> 00:19:06,051
Is that he is
very straightforward.
499
00:19:06,146 --> 00:19:08,554
If he's bothered by something,
he tells me,
500
00:19:08,706 --> 00:19:11,223
And I think
that helps me a lot.
501
00:19:11,376 --> 00:19:12,725
♪ ♪
502
00:19:12,819 --> 00:19:14,986
It really does.
503
00:19:15,213 --> 00:19:17,897
- This honeymoon
is, like, our first chance
504
00:19:18,049 --> 00:19:20,641
At getting off
on the right foot.
505
00:19:20,660 --> 00:19:23,477
That's the whole reason
I planned the romantic dinner
506
00:19:23,496 --> 00:19:25,237
'cause I felt like that was
our first real night together,
507
00:19:25,390 --> 00:19:27,814
So I'm just asking,
like, just for this week,
508
00:19:27,834 --> 00:19:30,668
While we're still out here
and it's just the two of us,
509
00:19:30,819 --> 00:19:33,579
Like, can we
focus on each other
510
00:19:33,731 --> 00:19:37,082
And really get
the strongest possible start?
511
00:19:37,235 --> 00:19:42,013
♪ ♪
512
00:19:48,429 --> 00:19:51,505
- ♪ sometimes a day
feels like one long week ♪
513
00:19:51,599 --> 00:19:53,674
♪ that's why it's good to have
a friend like me around ♪
514
00:19:53,693 --> 00:19:56,435
- In any new marriage,
it's very important
515
00:19:56,529 --> 00:19:59,438
For these spouses to step out
of their comfort zone,
516
00:19:59,590 --> 00:20:01,590
To learn
new activities together,
517
00:20:01,609 --> 00:20:03,201
To share each other's hobbies,
518
00:20:03,352 --> 00:20:05,928
Because it's another way of
finding out about each other.
519
00:20:05,947 --> 00:20:13,118
♪ ♪
520
00:20:13,788 --> 00:20:18,216
- Here we are.
Here are the bicycles.
521
00:20:18,443 --> 00:20:20,218
- I'm not that great
at riding a bicycle,
522
00:20:20,369 --> 00:20:22,611
And I'm just so insecure of
asking him for help on things
523
00:20:22,705 --> 00:20:24,447
I don't know how to do.
Okay.
524
00:20:24,465 --> 00:20:26,873
- Which side should I get on?
Here, I'll just hold it.
525
00:20:26,893 --> 00:20:28,617
- Now I'm in a marriage
with someone
526
00:20:28,636 --> 00:20:30,453
That wants to take care of me.
527
00:20:30,471 --> 00:20:33,806
I think I hit the jackpot,
and I have to accept it.
528
00:20:33,958 --> 00:20:35,733
[laughs]
529
00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:38,461
You go first 'cause
I don't want you to see me.
530
00:20:38,479 --> 00:20:41,313
- No, I want you to go first
'cause if I take off
531
00:20:41,466 --> 00:20:43,574
And then something happens...
- Okay, aw, man.
532
00:20:43,726 --> 00:20:44,909
Ugh, okay, rachel.
You can do this.
533
00:20:45,060 --> 00:20:46,077
- Wait, do you want me
to walk you down?
534
00:20:46,228 --> 00:20:48,061
- No, no, no, no.
Hold on.
535
00:20:48,081 --> 00:20:49,655
We're just
gonna see what happens.
536
00:20:49,807 --> 00:20:52,566
- Okay.
- And that's that.
537
00:20:52,585 --> 00:20:53,993
- Wait, wait,
maybe I just--yeah, yeah.
538
00:20:54,087 --> 00:20:55,753
Maybe I just put mine,
and then I just walk you down
539
00:20:55,904 --> 00:20:58,981
Until you're comfortable.
- [laughs]
540
00:20:59,074 --> 00:21:00,483
- Are you good?
- Okay, okay.
541
00:21:00,576 --> 00:21:01,908
See, I'm doing it.
- Okay, go.
542
00:21:01,928 --> 00:21:03,486
- I'm doing it.
I'm doing it.
543
00:21:03,504 --> 00:21:06,079
- You are doing it.
- But I don't know how to stop.
544
00:21:06,099 --> 00:21:07,914
Okay.
- You are doing it.
545
00:21:07,934 --> 00:21:08,933
I'm so proud of you.
- Okay, it's fine.
546
00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:10,659
- It's fine.
547
00:21:10,678 --> 00:21:12,011
It's just the stopping
that's weird.
548
00:21:12,105 --> 00:21:13,512
So now...
549
00:21:13,664 --> 00:21:14,421
- Okay, so
if you want to stop...
550
00:21:14,515 --> 00:21:15,831
- What's the plan?
551
00:21:15,850 --> 00:21:16,832
- All you have to do
is just go back
552
00:21:16,925 --> 00:21:18,276
Just a little bit and then--
553
00:21:18,503 --> 00:21:19,852
- Brake?
- Yes, and the brakes will--
554
00:21:20,004 --> 00:21:21,946
- Okay, all right.
- Yeah.
555
00:21:22,173 --> 00:21:23,339
- I guess you go,
and I'll follow you.
556
00:21:23,357 --> 00:21:24,523
- You want me to?
- Yeah.
557
00:21:24,617 --> 00:21:25,616
- Okay.
558
00:21:25,768 --> 00:21:27,676
- [screams]
okay.
559
00:21:27,695 --> 00:21:31,847
- ♪ it's a good life
to enjoy yourself, yeah ♪
560
00:21:31,940 --> 00:21:33,516
- You okay?
- I think so.
561
00:21:33,534 --> 00:21:35,960
- You're doing wonderful.
562
00:21:36,111 --> 00:21:38,037
- Just the starting
and the stopping
563
00:21:38,189 --> 00:21:40,706
And the turning.
[bleep].
564
00:21:40,858 --> 00:21:43,450
- Almost.
- Okay, bad corner.
565
00:21:43,469 --> 00:21:45,118
Oh, no, there's too much
going on here.
566
00:21:45,212 --> 00:21:46,971
I can't turn.
[screams]
567
00:21:47,122 --> 00:21:49,140
Okay, I feel better.
- Doing great.
568
00:21:49,367 --> 00:21:50,641
I was kind of freaking out
for a second.
569
00:21:50,868 --> 00:21:52,310
Oh, my god.
Are you frustrated with me?
570
00:21:52,537 --> 00:21:54,961
- No, not at all.
You're doing great.
571
00:21:54,981 --> 00:21:56,555
- Look, one hand.
572
00:21:56,707 --> 00:21:59,650
- Stop it.
Stop it.
573
00:21:59,877 --> 00:22:03,546
You did it.
- Okay, that's not that bad.
574
00:22:03,564 --> 00:22:05,564
- All these little things
that we've done
575
00:22:05,716 --> 00:22:07,399
Kind of lead up to the reason
576
00:22:07,493 --> 00:22:09,142
Why I wanted
to get married at first sight,
577
00:22:09,162 --> 00:22:12,721
Which was I wanted to do
little things with my wife.
578
00:22:12,740 --> 00:22:15,315
It's little things
that'll bring our marriage
579
00:22:15,335 --> 00:22:17,226
That much closer,
and I think it could get
580
00:22:17,319 --> 00:22:19,170
To that love state
very, very soon.
581
00:22:19,321 --> 00:22:20,729
So how do you feel?
582
00:22:20,748 --> 00:22:22,489
- I feel good.
I feel proud.
583
00:22:22,508 --> 00:22:25,067
And, again, it's you just,
like, boosting my confidence
584
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:26,344
Instead of shutting me down.
585
00:22:26,495 --> 00:22:28,754
Again, I hate comparing
because, like,
586
00:22:28,848 --> 00:22:31,015
You're not supposed
to talk about exes or whatever,
587
00:22:31,166 --> 00:22:35,019
But just in the last one,
it was just, like, a continuum
588
00:22:35,170 --> 00:22:37,580
Of just breaking me down
589
00:22:37,673 --> 00:22:39,190
And just making me feel bad
590
00:22:39,341 --> 00:22:41,359
About things I can't do,
things I can't control.
591
00:22:41,586 --> 00:22:43,861
But this whole bike experience
just proves
592
00:22:44,088 --> 00:22:46,179
How patient you can be with me.
Thank you.
593
00:22:46,199 --> 00:22:48,757
Thank you so much,
you know, for that.
594
00:22:48,851 --> 00:22:50,776
And I'm just like,
"yes, this is where
595
00:22:50,928 --> 00:22:52,185
I need to be.
This is where we need to be."
596
00:22:52,205 --> 00:22:53,596
- Yep.
597
00:22:53,689 --> 00:22:55,614
- Like I'm so glad
we're married.
598
00:22:55,766 --> 00:22:58,617
I just see this--it just keeps
getting better and better.
599
00:22:58,769 --> 00:22:59,710
- I think the same.
- I have no complaints.
600
00:22:59,937 --> 00:23:01,361
- I think the same.
I feel the same.
601
00:23:01,455 --> 00:23:03,956
- You're so far! [laughs]
602
00:23:04,108 --> 00:23:06,199
- I'm so glad that we
could do it together,
603
00:23:06,219 --> 00:23:08,552
And I'm so glad that you feel
that I supported you.
604
00:23:08,704 --> 00:23:10,537
That's what I want to still
continue to keep being able
605
00:23:10,556 --> 00:23:12,131
To provide you each
and every single day.
606
00:23:12,283 --> 00:23:13,874
- I definitely think we're
headed in the right direction.
607
00:23:13,968 --> 00:23:15,300
- I think so too.
- You know.
608
00:23:15,395 --> 00:23:18,396
I'm still like,
"we have to live together."
609
00:23:18,547 --> 00:23:20,881
You know, once work
comes into play,
610
00:23:20,900 --> 00:23:24,309
And just I have a lot of pride
in my independence.
611
00:23:24,462 --> 00:23:25,477
That term...
612
00:23:25,571 --> 00:23:27,071
[speaks spanish]
613
00:23:27,222 --> 00:23:29,222
Like, makes me cringe.
614
00:23:29,242 --> 00:23:31,409
You know,
I have to bring it back.
615
00:23:31,636 --> 00:23:33,059
I can't stop thinking
about, you know,
616
00:23:33,154 --> 00:23:35,413
That last little bit of
conversation we had last night.
617
00:23:35,564 --> 00:23:38,231
- Big picture is
we both have joints.
618
00:23:38,325 --> 00:23:39,750
Boom, right?
- Mm-hmm.
619
00:23:39,902 --> 00:23:41,477
- And then let me take
620
00:23:41,570 --> 00:23:42,811
Everything that we
need financially
621
00:23:42,830 --> 00:23:45,238
For the month,
whether that be rent,
622
00:23:45,258 --> 00:23:47,758
Mortgage, insurance,
car insurance, whatever.
623
00:23:47,985 --> 00:23:49,760
Boom, let me take
what I need from there.
624
00:23:49,912 --> 00:23:52,004
Then everything that's left,
you can pull from it.
625
00:23:52,156 --> 00:23:53,989
[soft dramatic music]
626
00:23:54,008 --> 00:23:56,825
- I'm gonna have to say
I don't think I agree
627
00:23:56,844 --> 00:23:58,494
With having the one account
628
00:23:58,512 --> 00:24:01,272
And then it trickling down
into our individual's.
629
00:24:04,277 --> 00:24:07,445
I want to completely be like,
"here's my paycheck."
630
00:24:07,596 --> 00:24:10,263
But I'm like, "oh my god."
631
00:24:10,283 --> 00:24:12,675
But you just seem
so on top of it.
632
00:24:12,768 --> 00:24:15,010
- I've worked tremendously hard
and I did everything that I did
633
00:24:15,103 --> 00:24:17,346
So that way,
when I got married,
634
00:24:17,364 --> 00:24:20,273
I could say, "look,
we're in a wonderful position."
635
00:24:20,293 --> 00:24:24,353
In fact, I have an excellent
near perfect credit score.
636
00:24:24,371 --> 00:24:26,130
It's--
- oh, my god.
637
00:24:26,357 --> 00:24:28,448
- Yeah, it's up there.
Do you want to know?
638
00:24:28,468 --> 00:24:30,192
- I mean,
it's awfully intimidating.
639
00:24:30,285 --> 00:24:32,377
- My credit score
is right at 815.
640
00:24:32,530 --> 00:24:35,864
♪ ♪
641
00:24:35,883 --> 00:24:38,625
- So having this beautiful,
amazing credit score
642
00:24:38,644 --> 00:24:41,370
And having, like, basically
all your [bleep] together,
643
00:24:41,388 --> 00:24:44,464
Did you specifically request
someone that, like,
644
00:24:44,484 --> 00:24:45,891
Also has
their [bleep] together?
645
00:24:45,985 --> 00:24:47,634
♪ ♪
646
00:24:47,653 --> 00:24:49,636
- I--in so many words,
647
00:24:49,655 --> 00:24:51,230
I wanted someone
that was on my level.
648
00:24:51,382 --> 00:24:54,717
♪ ♪
649
00:24:54,735 --> 00:24:57,569
[upbeat music]
650
00:24:57,663 --> 00:25:00,480
♪ ♪
651
00:25:00,500 --> 00:25:04,317
- This is gonna be interesting.
- This is d day for you.
652
00:25:04,337 --> 00:25:05,836
- If I can make it through...
- You'll make it through.
653
00:25:05,988 --> 00:25:07,153
- We can do anything.
654
00:25:07,248 --> 00:25:08,672
- You will make it through
655
00:25:08,899 --> 00:25:09,748
As long as you get me
past these pelicans.
656
00:25:09,900 --> 00:25:11,658
- I got you.
657
00:25:11,677 --> 00:25:15,161
This is not my element,
but I want to be a good sport,
658
00:25:15,256 --> 00:25:17,740
And I also don't want ryan
to think, like, I'm a girl
659
00:25:17,758 --> 00:25:19,016
In a bubble
that can't do anything.
660
00:25:19,243 --> 00:25:21,001
[laughs]
661
00:25:21,020 --> 00:25:23,078
- I'll stand and make sure
you don't fall in real fast.
662
00:25:23,171 --> 00:25:24,688
Look how--being brave already.
663
00:25:26,859 --> 00:25:28,584
- Okay.
664
00:25:28,602 --> 00:25:32,363
- You feel good?
- Yeah, I'm not scared anymore.
665
00:25:32,514 --> 00:25:33,939
- Ready to go
conquer the ocean?
666
00:25:34,091 --> 00:25:35,591
- Yeah.
667
00:25:35,684 --> 00:25:36,683
- ♪ I don't care where we go ♪
668
00:25:36,777 --> 00:25:38,685
♪ as long as I'm with you ♪
669
00:25:38,779 --> 00:25:41,764
♪ you can leave a way,
as long as I'm with you ♪
670
00:25:41,782 --> 00:25:44,190
♪ all of my days are good ♪
671
00:25:44,285 --> 00:25:46,192
♪ as long as I'm with you ♪
672
00:25:46,212 --> 00:25:50,289
♪ I feel so special,
as long as I'm with you ♪
673
00:25:50,441 --> 00:25:52,608
- Look at me.
I'm doing it.
674
00:25:52,701 --> 00:25:54,885
- You're moving.
- I'm doing it.
675
00:25:55,037 --> 00:25:56,278
- Manatee.
676
00:25:56,297 --> 00:25:58,463
[dramatic music]
677
00:25:58,616 --> 00:26:01,374
That's a big sucker.
- Oh.
678
00:26:01,394 --> 00:26:03,302
- This thing is massive.
679
00:26:03,454 --> 00:26:05,954
♪ ♪
680
00:26:05,973 --> 00:26:07,456
- I don't like it.
- Dude, he's right under you.
681
00:26:07,549 --> 00:26:08,807
- I don't like it.
I don't like it.
682
00:26:08,901 --> 00:26:10,568
♪ ♪
683
00:26:16,075 --> 00:26:17,816
I'm sure the manatee
is the nicest manatee
684
00:26:17,968 --> 00:26:20,652
That ever swam the world,
but I don't want to look at it.
685
00:26:20,746 --> 00:26:22,896
If I feel it,
686
00:26:22,915 --> 00:26:23,730
Like, touch my kayak,
I'm gonna freak out.
687
00:26:23,749 --> 00:26:26,750
- This thing is massive.
688
00:26:26,977 --> 00:26:29,828
♪ ♪
689
00:26:29,980 --> 00:26:31,647
I want you to at least,
like, look at it.
690
00:26:31,665 --> 00:26:32,831
- I looked at it.
691
00:26:32,983 --> 00:26:34,983
♪ ♪
692
00:26:35,002 --> 00:26:35,926
- You were doing so well.
693
00:26:36,153 --> 00:26:37,653
♪ ♪
694
00:26:37,671 --> 00:26:39,154
- Not a fan, not a fan.
- It's right by you.
695
00:26:39,173 --> 00:26:40,322
Look down.
- I can't.
696
00:26:40,341 --> 00:26:41,657
- Look.
697
00:26:41,675 --> 00:26:42,600
- I can see it
in my peripheral vision.
698
00:26:42,827 --> 00:26:45,010
♪ ♪
699
00:26:45,104 --> 00:26:46,270
- We'll have to work on that.
700
00:26:46,497 --> 00:26:48,088
♪ ♪
701
00:26:48,182 --> 00:26:49,681
Bye, mr. Manatee.
702
00:26:49,775 --> 00:26:52,334
Scoot it.
- [laughs]
703
00:26:52,427 --> 00:26:55,504
- Come on.
Now we get to race.
704
00:26:55,522 --> 00:26:56,855
- Okay.
705
00:26:57,007 --> 00:26:58,449
- Brett is definitely
706
00:26:58,676 --> 00:27:02,453
Not a water sports,
flying, outdoors girl.
707
00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:04,029
- Where are we racing to?
I gotta turn around.
708
00:27:04,181 --> 00:27:06,682
- Well, turn your butt around.
- I'm trying.
709
00:27:06,775 --> 00:27:08,517
- I thought
it would be an issue,
710
00:27:08,535 --> 00:27:10,794
But she's been
a trouper through it,
711
00:27:10,946 --> 00:27:13,947
And hopefully she continues
to be open about that
712
00:27:14,041 --> 00:27:16,875
'cause I have
a lot more crazy [bleep]
713
00:27:16,969 --> 00:27:18,302
That she's probably
not going to want to do.
714
00:27:18,529 --> 00:27:20,045
[laughs]
715
00:27:20,139 --> 00:27:23,641
So loser cooks the first meal
after move-ins.
716
00:27:23,868 --> 00:27:25,476
- Okay.
- You better start paddling.
717
00:27:25,703 --> 00:27:27,052
♪ ♪
718
00:27:27,146 --> 00:27:28,553
- Where are we going to?
719
00:27:28,706 --> 00:27:29,721
- Just till it gets shallow
over there.
720
00:27:29,874 --> 00:27:31,464
♪ ♪
721
00:27:31,484 --> 00:27:32,650
- I don't know
how far we're going.
722
00:27:32,877 --> 00:27:35,635
- To the devil bird.
Yeah, I see you, pelican.
723
00:27:35,729 --> 00:27:37,045
- Uh-oh, we're gonna crash.
724
00:27:37,064 --> 00:27:40,324
- Coming in hot.
I just want that dinner.
725
00:27:40,551 --> 00:27:43,402
- ♪ we're gonna get
our kicks tonight ♪
726
00:27:43,554 --> 00:27:46,146
♪ it doesn't matter
where we are ♪
727
00:27:46,165 --> 00:27:50,058
♪ we're gonna play
under the light ♪
728
00:27:50,077 --> 00:27:52,911
- Oh, no!
No!
729
00:27:53,005 --> 00:27:55,339
I'm gonna fall out.
Damn it.
730
00:27:55,566 --> 00:27:57,174
[laughs]
731
00:27:57,401 --> 00:28:00,419
- Photo finish.
- I feel very safe with brian.
732
00:28:00,571 --> 00:28:02,179
I think I need somebody
733
00:28:02,406 --> 00:28:05,182
To bring me
out of my comfort zone.
734
00:28:05,333 --> 00:28:07,075
Now, there might be
a point where I have to,
735
00:28:07,094 --> 00:28:09,502
Like, put my foot down,
but I'm glad that I did it.
736
00:28:09,596 --> 00:28:11,337
Who won?
- It was a tie.
737
00:28:11,432 --> 00:28:13,098
- Sweet.
- Means we both have to cook.
738
00:28:13,192 --> 00:28:16,418
Maybe not a cheesecake yet.
We're not at that point.
739
00:28:16,511 --> 00:28:17,844
- Haven't earned
the cheesecake yet.
740
00:28:17,863 --> 00:28:20,605
- Yeah.
- That's okay, eventually.
741
00:28:20,758 --> 00:28:27,687
♪ ♪
742
00:28:27,781 --> 00:28:29,206
- This feels
pretty dangerous.
743
00:28:29,433 --> 00:28:31,099
- Uh-oh.
744
00:28:31,193 --> 00:28:33,285
I'm trying not to worry
about it.
745
00:28:33,437 --> 00:28:36,880
♪ ♪
746
00:28:37,107 --> 00:28:39,608
Johnny shared with me
that he has concerns about us,
747
00:28:39,701 --> 00:28:42,110
And he asked me
to try to please live
748
00:28:42,204 --> 00:28:44,112
In the moment with him,
and I am trying.
749
00:28:44,131 --> 00:28:46,949
- You nervous?
- No.
750
00:28:46,967 --> 00:28:49,059
It's important for me to know
751
00:28:49,286 --> 00:28:51,562
How johnny communicates
about our relationship,
752
00:28:51,789 --> 00:28:55,958
And I'm very grateful
that johnny was so open
753
00:28:55,976 --> 00:28:58,026
And frank with me
this morning.
754
00:28:59,646 --> 00:29:02,481
[dramatic music]
755
00:29:02,633 --> 00:29:04,575
♪ ♪
756
00:29:04,802 --> 00:29:06,318
I can't believe
we're gonna do this.
757
00:29:06,470 --> 00:29:07,319
- Yeah.
758
00:29:07,471 --> 00:29:08,804
♪ ♪
759
00:29:08,897 --> 00:29:11,306
- Oh, gosh.
Oh, I'm feeling it.
760
00:29:11,399 --> 00:29:13,141
- Y'all are crazy.
I wouldn't do this.
761
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:15,327
- Get out of here!
- [laughs]
762
00:29:15,479 --> 00:29:17,646
All right.
- Maybe.
763
00:29:17,664 --> 00:29:19,831
- We're getting lifted.
Oh, my gosh.
764
00:29:19,925 --> 00:29:22,075
[screams]
- oh, god!
765
00:29:22,094 --> 00:29:23,927
- Oh--oh, no.
Oh, my god!
766
00:29:24,079 --> 00:29:28,581
- Whoa!
- Oh, my god!
767
00:29:28,601 --> 00:29:32,828
- Whoo!
- [laughs]
768
00:29:32,921 --> 00:29:34,830
Holy [bleep].
- I feel like I'm flying.
769
00:29:34,848 --> 00:29:36,589
- We are flying.
Oh, wow.
770
00:29:36,609 --> 00:29:39,668
- Whoa!
- Oh, wow!
771
00:29:39,761 --> 00:29:43,522
Oh, it's getting really high.
- This is nuts.
772
00:29:43,674 --> 00:29:45,674
♪ ♪
773
00:29:45,692 --> 00:29:47,267
- This is the highest
that we've...
774
00:29:47,286 --> 00:29:48,285
- Kissed?
- Ever kissed before.
775
00:29:48,436 --> 00:29:52,289
- I know.
[laughs]
776
00:29:52,516 --> 00:29:55,942
- How crazy high up we are.
- [sighs]
777
00:29:55,961 --> 00:30:01,614
- This is insane.
- [laughs]
778
00:30:01,708 --> 00:30:04,876
Bao is living in the moment,
and it makes me feel like
779
00:30:04,970 --> 00:30:07,638
She is present here
thinking about nothing
780
00:30:07,865 --> 00:30:10,623
But spending time with me,
being out in the ocean there.
781
00:30:10,643 --> 00:30:13,143
It really is just us.
- How lucky are we?
782
00:30:13,370 --> 00:30:16,721
- We're the luckiest.
No one is luckier than us.
783
00:30:16,874 --> 00:30:18,798
Landing.
- Oh, yes.
784
00:30:18,818 --> 00:30:20,375
- Landing sequence initiated.
785
00:30:20,394 --> 00:30:21,893
- This is
the most amazing experience.
786
00:30:21,987 --> 00:30:23,545
- Here we go.
787
00:30:23,564 --> 00:30:25,305
[upbeat music]
788
00:30:25,399 --> 00:30:28,050
- Oh.
- Yay, we did it!
789
00:30:28,068 --> 00:30:31,495
We did it, ah!
- We survived.
790
00:30:33,740 --> 00:30:35,223
♪ ♪
791
00:30:35,242 --> 00:30:35,999
- That was awesome.
- Yeah.
792
00:30:36,226 --> 00:30:37,576
- This is the best.
793
00:30:37,670 --> 00:30:41,396
I feel that there couldn't
have been a better person
794
00:30:41,489 --> 00:30:44,007
To go up in the air with
than johnny,
795
00:30:44,234 --> 00:30:48,086
And I am so happy
we got to do this together
796
00:30:48,238 --> 00:30:49,680
As a married couple.
797
00:30:49,831 --> 00:30:51,907
Off to our next adventure?
798
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:53,909
- Yes.
Let's chill right here.
799
00:30:53,927 --> 00:30:56,186
- Yeah.
800
00:30:56,413 --> 00:30:58,689
Well, wasn't that fun?
- That was incredible.
801
00:30:58,916 --> 00:31:00,415
- That was kind of
a wild ride, wasn't it?
802
00:31:00,434 --> 00:31:02,508
- Just being up that high
803
00:31:02,603 --> 00:31:06,254
And seeing everything for
miles, it seemed, was great.
804
00:31:06,273 --> 00:31:08,031
Were you scared at all?
805
00:31:08,258 --> 00:31:09,867
- I didn't feel scared,
honestly.
806
00:31:12,872 --> 00:31:16,689
- So speaking of fears,
I feel like doing this today,
807
00:31:16,783 --> 00:31:19,267
Like, this risky thing with you
808
00:31:19,286 --> 00:31:22,212
And it being a success,
809
00:31:22,364 --> 00:31:24,530
I feel like we can tackle
a lot of other things
810
00:31:24,550 --> 00:31:25,883
That we fear.
811
00:31:26,110 --> 00:31:29,219
♪ ♪
812
00:31:29,371 --> 00:31:31,780
One thing that I've been
thinking about is at the end
813
00:31:31,873 --> 00:31:33,891
Of this honeymoon,
we move in together.
814
00:31:37,121 --> 00:31:40,138
I haven't lived with anyone
for eight years now.
815
00:31:40,232 --> 00:31:41,790
It's just been me.
816
00:31:41,808 --> 00:31:43,883
My rules, my way.
817
00:31:43,977 --> 00:31:45,402
And I got to say,
818
00:31:45,553 --> 00:31:47,571
I'm a little bit particular
about how I like things.
819
00:31:47,798 --> 00:31:49,131
- Right.
820
00:31:49,224 --> 00:31:52,134
- But is your neat
the same as my neat?
821
00:31:52,152 --> 00:31:54,227
- I'm getting
the sense that your neat
822
00:31:54,246 --> 00:31:55,820
Might be a little different
than my neat.
823
00:31:55,973 --> 00:31:58,140
[soft dramatic music]
824
00:31:58,158 --> 00:32:00,659
And that might be a little bit
of a challenge for both of us
825
00:32:00,753 --> 00:32:02,753
And a big adjustment.
826
00:32:02,904 --> 00:32:07,332
I am also very particular
about certain things.
827
00:32:07,484 --> 00:32:10,260
♪ ♪
828
00:32:10,487 --> 00:32:13,079
- When I come home,
I never have to worry about,
829
00:32:13,098 --> 00:32:15,824
Do I have to put things
in a certain place
830
00:32:15,917 --> 00:32:18,677
Or do I need to act
a certain way?
831
00:32:18,771 --> 00:32:20,845
Do I need to hold in my farts?
832
00:32:20,998 --> 00:32:22,606
♪ ♪
833
00:32:22,833 --> 00:32:25,108
There's so much that I
don't have to worry about,
834
00:32:25,260 --> 00:32:27,778
And I love that freedom
and flexibility.
835
00:32:28,005 --> 00:32:31,189
But now we're married,
and it might be a lot.
836
00:32:31,341 --> 00:32:34,843
My fear is that we fight
on some of that stuff.
837
00:32:34,861 --> 00:32:36,845
♪ ♪
838
00:32:36,938 --> 00:32:39,864
- I can imagine
it being a challenge.
839
00:32:40,017 --> 00:32:42,684
At least we both
don't want shoes in the house.
840
00:32:42,777 --> 00:32:46,188
- Yeah, oh, it's a no-brainer.
- Okay, good, we're good there.
841
00:32:46,206 --> 00:32:49,299
I'm sure there's little quirks
about living with one another
842
00:32:49,526 --> 00:32:52,877
That we'll find
and make adjustments for.
843
00:32:53,030 --> 00:32:54,287
♪ ♪
844
00:32:54,381 --> 00:32:56,381
- Find out.
- Very soon.
845
00:32:56,533 --> 00:32:58,366
♪ ♪
846
00:32:58,385 --> 00:33:01,386
[upbeat music]
847
00:33:01,538 --> 00:33:08,652
♪ ♪
848
00:33:08,879 --> 00:33:10,803
- This is very, like...
- Looks different.
849
00:33:10,823 --> 00:33:12,897
- Honeymoon vibes, right?
- Looks different.
850
00:33:12,992 --> 00:33:14,232
- Hey.
- The sun's setting.
851
00:33:14,384 --> 00:33:15,993
- What's happening?
852
00:33:16,220 --> 00:33:18,811
- Look how perfect this looks.
- Yes--these guys.
853
00:33:18,905 --> 00:33:20,330
- Hi!
- Yes!
854
00:33:20,482 --> 00:33:23,500
- What's happening?
- Look at you.
855
00:33:23,727 --> 00:33:25,243
- You good?
- Good to see you, man.
856
00:33:25,395 --> 00:33:27,153
- Hi, stranger.
- Oh, and we're matching.
857
00:33:27,172 --> 00:33:29,840
- I know.
- Good to see you.
858
00:33:30,067 --> 00:33:31,583
- And that sunset.
- What is up?
859
00:33:31,677 --> 00:33:33,235
- Hey.
- Hey, guys.
860
00:33:33,253 --> 00:33:34,569
- Oh!
- What is up?
861
00:33:34,588 --> 00:33:35,920
- Yeah.
- Get us something already.
862
00:33:36,073 --> 00:33:37,514
Well, we're headed out.
863
00:33:37,665 --> 00:33:39,241
- I hope y'all aren't hungry!
- What's up, johnny?
864
00:33:39,334 --> 00:33:40,575
- Hey, bro.
- You all right?
865
00:33:40,668 --> 00:33:42,927
- Yeah.
- You look so pretty.
866
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:45,597
- It feels like
we're in, like,
867
00:33:45,691 --> 00:33:50,585
A sorority fraternity together
because we're the only ones
868
00:33:50,678 --> 00:33:53,363
That can really
truly understand how this is.
869
00:33:53,515 --> 00:33:54,847
- Well, cheers, everybody.
- Cheers!
870
00:33:54,941 --> 00:33:56,591
- I know, cheers.
- Cheers.
871
00:33:56,684 --> 00:33:59,261
- Here's to--I mean,
nights together.
872
00:33:59,279 --> 00:34:00,537
- Yes, yes, yes, yes.
- Yes.
873
00:34:00,688 --> 00:34:02,706
- Everybody.
- I got you, guys.
874
00:34:02,933 --> 00:34:04,207
- Hey, guys,
hold on real quick--hold up.
875
00:34:04,434 --> 00:34:05,525
- Oh, that's true.
We're missing a couple.
876
00:34:05,544 --> 00:34:07,527
- What's that?
- Hey, zack, what up, baby?
877
00:34:07,546 --> 00:34:09,379
- Aww!
- Zack!
878
00:34:09,606 --> 00:34:11,715
- Couldn't even put a shirt on.
- I know!
879
00:34:11,942 --> 00:34:13,458
- Zack, you couldn't put
a damn shirt on, bro?
880
00:34:13,610 --> 00:34:14,718
- I know.
- What's up?
881
00:34:17,539 --> 00:34:19,056
- Oh, are you?
882
00:34:19,207 --> 00:34:21,058
How are you holding up?
How do you feel?
883
00:34:34,073 --> 00:34:36,055
- Of course not.
884
00:34:36,075 --> 00:34:37,465
- Yeah.
- Aww.
885
00:34:37,559 --> 00:34:39,576
She ain't missing much.
No, I'm kidding.
886
00:34:39,803 --> 00:34:41,328
- [chuckles]
887
00:34:45,475 --> 00:34:46,374
- Right.
888
00:34:48,829 --> 00:34:50,478
- Sure.
Absolutely.
889
00:34:50,572 --> 00:34:52,647
You know, rest up.
Get your meds in.
890
00:34:52,666 --> 00:34:54,591
Do what you gotta do.
We'll see you back in houston.
891
00:34:54,818 --> 00:34:55,984
I appreciate the phone call.
- Yeah, feel better.
892
00:34:56,077 --> 00:34:56,985
- All right, brother,
take care, man.
893
00:34:57,078 --> 00:34:58,077
- Bye!
- All right, bro.
894
00:34:58,097 --> 00:34:58,837
- Dude's in there working out.
895
00:34:58,931 --> 00:35:00,672
[laughter]
896
00:35:00,824 --> 00:35:01,990
- That is
a tough situation though.
897
00:35:02,008 --> 00:35:03,325
- Oh, I know.
- That's really tough.
898
00:35:03,418 --> 00:35:06,770
- Yeah, because,
I mean, honeymoon is big.
899
00:35:06,997 --> 00:35:09,347
It's big, especially
when we just got married.
900
00:35:09,441 --> 00:35:11,257
- Honestly, like confessing
and what we found out earlier
901
00:35:11,351 --> 00:35:12,684
Is michaela said, you know,
902
00:35:12,836 --> 00:35:13,835
Sometimes when
they're separated,
903
00:35:13,928 --> 00:35:15,670
Like, she misses him...
- Aww.
904
00:35:15,689 --> 00:35:16,762
- And it's only been
a couple of days.
905
00:35:16,857 --> 00:35:17,763
And I'm like...
- Yeah.
906
00:35:17,858 --> 00:35:19,007
- You know, think about it.
907
00:35:19,100 --> 00:35:19,932
If you were
in that same situation
908
00:35:19,952 --> 00:35:21,526
And she was in one state
909
00:35:21,620 --> 00:35:22,602
And you're in the other state
and, you know, it's so--
910
00:35:22,696 --> 00:35:24,028
- I'd be worried.
911
00:35:24,123 --> 00:35:25,530
Like, I'd want to take care
of him or like--
912
00:35:25,624 --> 00:35:26,848
- Yeah.
- Right.
913
00:35:26,941 --> 00:35:28,516
And so it hits
my "romeo and juliet"--
914
00:35:28,610 --> 00:35:30,776
Baby, hey, ride or die, baby.
We're both going.
915
00:35:30,796 --> 00:35:32,370
- Ride or die.
- You know what I'm saying?
916
00:35:32,522 --> 00:35:33,446
You know,
it's a difficult decision
917
00:35:33,540 --> 00:35:35,707
In itself, but, you know,
918
00:35:35,859 --> 00:35:37,467
I would hope that rachel
would want to stay there
919
00:35:37,694 --> 00:35:39,469
With me to support me
through the whole process,
920
00:35:39,696 --> 00:35:41,379
Whether we could see each other
or not because,
921
00:35:41,531 --> 00:35:43,640
You know, again,
when you get married,
922
00:35:43,867 --> 00:35:46,643
You are basically giving
your commitment to your spouse
923
00:35:46,794 --> 00:35:50,814
Through sickness and in health
and until death do us part.
924
00:35:50,965 --> 00:35:52,482
[chuckles]
925
00:35:52,634 --> 00:35:54,317
- Have you ever
had dinner on a beach?
926
00:35:54,544 --> 00:35:57,320
- Last night.
- Not in the last 12 hours.
927
00:35:57,472 --> 00:35:58,730
- Have you ever had
a group dinner on a beach?
928
00:35:58,824 --> 00:35:59,898
- No.
- Okay.
929
00:35:59,992 --> 00:36:00,824
- First one.
- I've never had
930
00:36:00,975 --> 00:36:02,308
A group dinner on a beach.
931
00:36:02,402 --> 00:36:04,719
- Definitely a first for me.
932
00:36:04,812 --> 00:36:06,830
- So what have y'all learned
about each other--
933
00:36:07,057 --> 00:36:08,665
Newer things that y'all
learned about each other?
934
00:36:08,892 --> 00:36:10,575
- I'm finding there are
so many similarities
935
00:36:10,669 --> 00:36:11,893
Between the two of us,
936
00:36:11,986 --> 00:36:13,653
But there are
definitely differences.
937
00:36:13,672 --> 00:36:15,397
- We're big on communication.
938
00:36:15,415 --> 00:36:17,156
I think we've figured out
very early on that the thing
939
00:36:17,250 --> 00:36:19,009
That we have very in common
940
00:36:19,236 --> 00:36:20,919
Is that we're both
really good communicators,
941
00:36:21,013 --> 00:36:22,253
And as soon as I felt
like something was off,
942
00:36:22,347 --> 00:36:23,755
I brought it up.
943
00:36:23,907 --> 00:36:25,256
Anytime, she feels
like something is off,
944
00:36:25,350 --> 00:36:27,166
She brought it up.
945
00:36:27,186 --> 00:36:28,268
We had our first disagreement
last night.
946
00:36:29,913 --> 00:36:32,247
It was rough,
and then we slept on it,
947
00:36:32,265 --> 00:36:34,691
Woke up, came out here,
948
00:36:34,918 --> 00:36:37,252
Talked about it--
I told her exactly how I feel--
949
00:36:37,345 --> 00:36:39,754
And I feel like
we got to a better place
950
00:36:39,773 --> 00:36:41,756
Because we're both just kind of
951
00:36:41,849 --> 00:36:43,591
Being open
and communicative about it.
952
00:36:43,610 --> 00:36:45,702
- I'm not gonna
speak for everybody.
953
00:36:45,853 --> 00:36:48,112
I appreciate
y'all sharing that with us
954
00:36:48,265 --> 00:36:49,873
Because that's helpful
for all of us to know
955
00:36:50,024 --> 00:36:51,041
That you can have
those discussions,
956
00:36:51,268 --> 00:36:53,376
Whether--they're gonna
be difficult,
957
00:36:53,603 --> 00:36:54,619
But you have to have them,
and it sounds like...
958
00:36:54,713 --> 00:36:55,937
- Right.
959
00:36:55,956 --> 00:36:57,714
- It helps y'all,
960
00:36:57,941 --> 00:36:58,882
And it's gonna
help all of us at some point.
961
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:01,776
- What is
the hardest conversation
962
00:37:01,869 --> 00:37:03,845
Everyone here has had so far?
963
00:37:05,224 --> 00:37:09,133
- What I sort of look at
as one of my flaws is, like,
964
00:37:09,228 --> 00:37:12,303
I don't think I do well
at asking a lot of questions.
965
00:37:12,397 --> 00:37:14,472
- Sure.
- Just in general.
966
00:37:14,624 --> 00:37:15,807
So there are a lot
of conversations
967
00:37:15,901 --> 00:37:17,234
That we haven't had yet.
968
00:37:17,385 --> 00:37:18,309
I mean, we haven't
talked about money.
969
00:37:18,462 --> 00:37:20,144
We haven't talked
about last names.
970
00:37:20,297 --> 00:37:23,073
We haven't talked about
living arrangements.
971
00:37:23,224 --> 00:37:26,243
We haven't talked about, like,
a lot of stuff, a lot of stuff.
972
00:37:26,394 --> 00:37:30,154
To me, with the timeline,
to me, it feels normal
973
00:37:30,307 --> 00:37:32,490
To not have
those conversations so soon.
974
00:37:32,642 --> 00:37:34,567
- We're about the same
when it comes down
975
00:37:34,586 --> 00:37:36,569
To most of this stuff.
976
00:37:36,588 --> 00:37:39,071
Like, we have touched things
about living arrangements.
977
00:37:39,165 --> 00:37:40,573
That was the easy conversation.
978
00:37:40,667 --> 00:37:41,816
- We talk
about relationships.
979
00:37:41,909 --> 00:37:43,093
- We talked
about relationships.
980
00:37:43,244 --> 00:37:44,427
We haven't talked
about finance.
981
00:37:44,579 --> 00:37:46,321
I'm sure that's gonna be
a tough conversation...
982
00:37:46,339 --> 00:37:47,079
- Ooh!
- Because princess over here.
983
00:37:47,173 --> 00:37:48,323
- Y'all, buckle up.
984
00:37:48,416 --> 00:37:49,415
[laughter]
985
00:37:49,434 --> 00:37:50,934
- Buckle up.
- Hey.
986
00:37:51,161 --> 00:37:53,252
Hey!
Here we go.
987
00:37:53,272 --> 00:37:55,497
- Text me after.
I wanna know how that goes.
988
00:37:55,515 --> 00:37:57,274
- So we'll see.
989
00:37:57,501 --> 00:37:59,501
- What if it turns out
at a very basic level
990
00:37:59,594 --> 00:38:00,926
When you touch
these deep subjects,
991
00:38:01,021 --> 00:38:03,688
Y'all are on opposite ends?
992
00:38:03,782 --> 00:38:05,448
Are you afraid of that?
Afraid of what happens then?
993
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:06,616
- It goes back to what...
- Yes.
994
00:38:06,768 --> 00:38:08,693
- Y'all both were saying,
communication.
995
00:38:08,787 --> 00:38:10,361
One thing I was asked from
one of our friends is, like,
996
00:38:10,455 --> 00:38:11,846
What about if she's--
997
00:38:11,939 --> 00:38:13,623
Hypothetically,
I'm a democrat
998
00:38:13,850 --> 00:38:15,292
And she's a republican?
Would that be an issue?
999
00:38:15,519 --> 00:38:16,518
- Oh, no, sir.
- No, I know you're not, but--
1000
00:38:16,611 --> 00:38:18,128
[laughter]
1001
00:38:18,279 --> 00:38:20,038
- Let's say...
- I don't even like that.
1002
00:38:20,132 --> 00:38:21,689
- Let's say if she was,
would that'd be a dealbreaker?
1003
00:38:21,708 --> 00:38:23,282
I said, absolutely not.
1004
00:38:23,302 --> 00:38:25,376
- With the reverse, it would
be a dealbreaker for me.
1005
00:38:25,529 --> 00:38:26,694
- For me, it wouldn't be.
- For me, it would.
1006
00:38:26,788 --> 00:38:29,030
- For me, it wouldn't be.
I got you.
1007
00:38:29,123 --> 00:38:31,215
- Can we get the check going?
- Check please.
1008
00:38:31,368 --> 00:38:33,201
Divorce check.
- [laughs]
1009
00:38:33,294 --> 00:38:34,293
- But for me,
it wouldn't be an issue
1010
00:38:34,313 --> 00:38:37,314
Because that doesn't--for me,
1011
00:38:37,465 --> 00:38:39,149
That doesn't matter
in a relationship.
1012
00:38:39,376 --> 00:38:40,483
That's not gonna control--
that's not gonna--
1013
00:38:40,635 --> 00:38:42,319
How I feel about a person,
1014
00:38:42,470 --> 00:38:45,380
I'm not going to
let that bother me.
1015
00:38:45,398 --> 00:38:47,215
- Disagree.
Disagree.
1016
00:38:47,233 --> 00:38:48,550
[soft dramatic music]
1017
00:38:48,568 --> 00:38:50,476
- Politics shouldn't
divide a house.
1018
00:38:50,495 --> 00:38:51,977
That's one of those things
where you find...
1019
00:38:51,997 --> 00:38:53,905
- I disagree.
- You find a common ground.
1020
00:38:53,999 --> 00:38:56,057
And you go from there.
1021
00:38:56,076 --> 00:38:57,149
- Okay.
1022
00:38:57,169 --> 00:38:59,744
- But my reasoning behind this
1023
00:38:59,896 --> 00:39:03,565
Is if I'm in a field
in my career
1024
00:39:03,658 --> 00:39:07,902
That this person
makes my career blossom
1025
00:39:07,921 --> 00:39:10,180
Because this person
is passing laws
1026
00:39:10,331 --> 00:39:13,683
And things of that nature
that's helping me out,
1027
00:39:13,835 --> 00:39:17,020
Then I'm going to side
with this person,
1028
00:39:17,171 --> 00:39:21,024
Not because of who he is
but because of the policies
1029
00:39:21,175 --> 00:39:24,102
That he in places
for my career.
1030
00:39:24,196 --> 00:39:27,422
- Ryan and I definitely have
different political views.
1031
00:39:27,515 --> 00:39:30,425
I've been very strong-minded
1032
00:39:30,443 --> 00:39:34,612
About political leanings,
1033
00:39:34,764 --> 00:39:37,432
And the things that I know
about ryan and his background,
1034
00:39:37,450 --> 00:39:40,025
I am afraid that it's
1035
00:39:40,045 --> 00:39:42,286
A potential problem
for our marriage.
1036
00:39:42,439 --> 00:39:44,272
♪ ♪
1037
00:39:44,290 --> 00:39:46,049
- If they care that much
on one way or the other,
1038
00:39:46,276 --> 00:39:47,217
They're not for me.
1039
00:39:47,444 --> 00:39:48,218
♪ ♪
1040
00:39:53,058 --> 00:39:55,133
- That's a dealbreaker for me.
1041
00:39:55,227 --> 00:39:57,209
- But when it's your spouse,
is a little different.
1042
00:39:57,229 --> 00:39:59,396
Friends, I'm like,
if you give me a good reason...
1043
00:39:59,623 --> 00:40:00,622
- I get rid of my friends
who vote for that though.
1044
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:01,789
- And you can explain it,
1045
00:40:01,808 --> 00:40:03,733
I could be accepting,
but your spouse?
1046
00:40:03,885 --> 00:40:06,552
- To me, that's petty.
- I am a logical person.
1047
00:40:06,571 --> 00:40:09,239
I understand that,
especially in texas,
1048
00:40:09,390 --> 00:40:12,483
There's a lot of factors that
go into political decisions,
1049
00:40:12,636 --> 00:40:14,411
But I still don't like it,
1050
00:40:14,638 --> 00:40:16,228
And if we were
boyfriend and girlfriend,
1051
00:40:16,248 --> 00:40:19,307
And, you know, we went
on a few really good dates,
1052
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:22,977
And then I found out that,
you know,
1053
00:40:22,996 --> 00:40:25,813
This is a topic
that we don't agree on,
1054
00:40:25,907 --> 00:40:30,260
It would probably
end it for me.
1055
00:40:30,411 --> 00:40:32,336
- You know, we're much older,
so we--hopefully,
1056
00:40:32,489 --> 00:40:34,172
You're not voting
just emotionally.
1057
00:40:34,266 --> 00:40:35,840
You also voting because,
1058
00:40:35,934 --> 00:40:38,326
You know, of where
you're trying to go in life
1059
00:40:38,419 --> 00:40:40,344
And who's
gonna help you prosper
1060
00:40:40,439 --> 00:40:41,512
In life at the end of the day.
1061
00:40:41,606 --> 00:40:43,514
- Not me.
People in general.
1062
00:40:43,608 --> 00:40:45,166
It's not just about the self.
1063
00:40:45,185 --> 00:40:46,609
[soft dramatic music]
1064
00:40:46,761 --> 00:40:47,610
- It's tough.
1065
00:40:47,837 --> 00:40:51,448
♪ ♪
1066
00:40:51,675 --> 00:40:52,449
- Any who...
1067
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:54,284
[laughter]
1068
00:40:54,435 --> 00:40:56,177
- I'll still drink it, but...
- I got a question.
1069
00:40:56,196 --> 00:40:57,770
So I want to make sure
before we--I ask
1070
00:40:57,864 --> 00:40:59,271
This question of everybody,
1071
00:40:59,291 --> 00:41:00,515
I want to make sure
everybody's got a drink.
1072
00:41:00,533 --> 00:41:02,274
Gets a little sip.
- Is it that serious?
1073
00:41:02,294 --> 00:41:03,943
'cause I've already had,
like, a good dose...
1074
00:41:03,962 --> 00:41:05,203
- Sounds like he's gonna toast.
- Of adrenaline right now.
1075
00:41:05,355 --> 00:41:06,521
- Yeah, not a toast,
not a toast.
1076
00:41:06,614 --> 00:41:08,447
- Oh, no, it's a hard question.
Uh-oh.
1077
00:41:08,467 --> 00:41:10,191
- Oh, it's a question.
I thought we were toasting.
1078
00:41:10,210 --> 00:41:13,261
- Big question is has anyone
consummated the marriage?
1079
00:41:15,532 --> 00:41:21,478
♪ ♪
1080
00:41:21,705 --> 00:41:23,480
- I think everybody's
a no from my--
1081
00:41:23,631 --> 00:41:25,965
- For us, it might look like,
oh, yeah, they're getting down.
1082
00:41:26,059 --> 00:41:27,633
- Absolutely.
- Yeah.
1083
00:41:27,652 --> 00:41:30,061
- Jose and rachel's
relationship is spicy.
1084
00:41:30,155 --> 00:41:31,229
[romantic music]
1085
00:41:31,381 --> 00:41:34,215
It is hot.
1086
00:41:34,234 --> 00:41:36,159
- Just sitting next to
jose and rachel, like...
1087
00:41:36,386 --> 00:41:39,311
♪ ♪
1088
00:41:39,331 --> 00:41:41,498
You can feel it.
Like, it's radiating on me.
1089
00:41:41,725 --> 00:41:43,891
♪ ♪
1090
00:41:43,910 --> 00:41:46,669
Like, jose, like,
save that for in your room.
1091
00:41:46,896 --> 00:41:48,505
♪ ♪
1092
00:41:48,732 --> 00:41:51,323
- Wanna say if I saw
what's going on here within,
1093
00:41:51,343 --> 00:41:53,492
I'd be like, "oh, for sure.
They're getting down."
1094
00:41:53,512 --> 00:41:56,012
But, I mean, I'm someone
1095
00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:58,589
That thinks with their heart
and their head.
1096
00:41:58,683 --> 00:42:01,092
My heart, I will tell you
right now, I totally feel it.
1097
00:42:01,186 --> 00:42:02,668
Like, I feel like
1098
00:42:02,687 --> 00:42:04,336
Even though it's only been
a couple of days,
1099
00:42:04,430 --> 00:42:07,172
It feels like
we've been together--
1100
00:42:07,192 --> 00:42:09,767
Like, oh my god, who talks
about finances, you know?
1101
00:42:09,861 --> 00:42:12,028
- And babies.
- Like in three days and stuff.
1102
00:42:12,179 --> 00:42:14,105
You know,
like, we've already, like,
1103
00:42:14,257 --> 00:42:15,681
Visualized this life together.
- We're married, you know?
1104
00:42:15,700 --> 00:42:17,425
- Of course, you would think
about, you know,
1105
00:42:17,518 --> 00:42:18,943
The physical aspect of it,
1106
00:42:19,095 --> 00:42:21,854
But I need to know
what it is living with him
1107
00:42:21,948 --> 00:42:23,598
And what our day-to-day lives--
1108
00:42:23,616 --> 00:42:24,932
You know, this is honeymoon.
1109
00:42:24,951 --> 00:42:26,267
Of course, it's gonna seem,
1110
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:27,602
Like, all romantic
and everything.
1111
00:42:27,620 --> 00:42:29,287
- Puppies and rainbows.
- And it's easy to--
1112
00:42:29,381 --> 00:42:30,788
- Puppies and rainbows.
- It only gets better.
1113
00:42:30,940 --> 00:42:32,607
- I am very surprised
jose and rachel
1114
00:42:32,700 --> 00:42:34,609
Have not consummated
the marriage.
1115
00:42:34,627 --> 00:42:36,386
I honestly don't believe it,
1116
00:42:36,613 --> 00:42:39,038
But I have to take
his word for it
1117
00:42:39,057 --> 00:42:42,892
'cause that's what he said,
so I'm gonna go with that.
1118
00:42:43,119 --> 00:42:44,543
- So is it safe to assume
it's a no over here?
1119
00:42:44,637 --> 00:42:47,063
- No.
- Okay, okay.
1120
00:42:47,214 --> 00:42:48,623
- Well, like,
what we said before.
1121
00:42:48,641 --> 00:42:50,124
We're pacing everything out.
1122
00:42:50,143 --> 00:42:52,143
No, we haven't consummated
the marriage.
1123
00:42:52,295 --> 00:42:54,295
Right now,
it doesn't define us.
1124
00:42:54,388 --> 00:42:56,055
You know,
we like where we're at.
1125
00:42:56,149 --> 00:42:57,315
- Think that's very reasonable.
1126
00:42:57,467 --> 00:42:59,725
- And, for me, like,
the emotional connection,
1127
00:42:59,819 --> 00:43:03,580
It's much more important to me
to have and, like, the trust.
1128
00:43:03,807 --> 00:43:04,806
- Mm-hmm.
1129
00:43:04,899 --> 00:43:05,915
- I need to have those things
1130
00:43:06,142 --> 00:43:07,250
Before I let
everything else play out.
1131
00:43:07,401 --> 00:43:08,326
- Yeah.
- Right.
1132
00:43:08,478 --> 00:43:11,070
- It's like, to expect me
1133
00:43:11,164 --> 00:43:14,832
To have that type of feeling
1134
00:43:14,984 --> 00:43:19,837
So soon
is so unrealistic for me.
1135
00:43:19,931 --> 00:43:22,824
I don't want to move too fast
and then be like, "oh, well,
1136
00:43:22,917 --> 00:43:24,934
"we shouldn't have done that
because, you know,
1137
00:43:25,086 --> 00:43:26,603
"there's still
so much on the table
1138
00:43:26,754 --> 00:43:29,272
That we need to learn."
I do think it's important.
1139
00:43:29,499 --> 00:43:33,109
And I do think that
it can help your connection
1140
00:43:33,260 --> 00:43:35,169
And help you get
to a certain spot...
1141
00:43:35,188 --> 00:43:36,854
- Absolutely, yep.
- But we're not there yet.
1142
00:43:37,006 --> 00:43:39,449
- But it's not all bad.
1143
00:43:39,676 --> 00:43:42,193
- You asked the question,
but you didn't answer it.
1144
00:43:42,345 --> 00:43:44,679
- Uh...
- You sure did.
1145
00:43:44,772 --> 00:43:47,624
- Bao's gonna take that one.
- [laughs]
1146
00:43:47,775 --> 00:43:50,034
- For us,
our emotional intimacy
1147
00:43:50,128 --> 00:43:51,853
Has really grown.
1148
00:43:51,946 --> 00:43:54,297
Even the sexual intimacy
has really grown,
1149
00:43:54,524 --> 00:43:56,966
And there's definitely
tension there,
1150
00:43:57,193 --> 00:43:59,861
But we're taking it
every day at a time,
1151
00:43:59,954 --> 00:44:01,804
And I think
when it naturally happens,
1152
00:44:01,956 --> 00:44:04,715
It naturally happens,
and I wouldn't judge anyone
1153
00:44:04,868 --> 00:44:06,142
Because I think everyone's
on a different timeline.
1154
00:44:06,293 --> 00:44:07,626
- Absolutely.
1155
00:44:07,720 --> 00:44:09,312
- Who do y'all think
1156
00:44:09,539 --> 00:44:11,463
Is gonna be the first couple
to consummate?
1157
00:44:11,557 --> 00:44:14,133
- Bao and johnny.
- Ooh, ooh.
1158
00:44:14,152 --> 00:44:15,068
- Why do you say that?
1159
00:44:17,138 --> 00:44:19,213
- I don't know.
I just like...
1160
00:44:19,232 --> 00:44:20,715
- I feel like
it's gonna be...
1161
00:44:20,808 --> 00:44:21,991
- I see bao, and I
thought bao would--
1162
00:44:22,143 --> 00:44:23,401
- Jose and rachel.
1163
00:44:23,553 --> 00:44:24,661
- I don't know.
I want to win that bet.
1164
00:44:24,812 --> 00:44:26,663
[laughter]
1165
00:44:26,814 --> 00:44:28,831
- So my initial instinct
is you.
1166
00:44:29,058 --> 00:44:29,982
- Uh-huh.
- Yeah.
1167
00:44:30,001 --> 00:44:32,894
- But, like, my head says you.
1168
00:44:32,987 --> 00:44:35,062
- Okay.
- I think it's johnny and bao.
1169
00:44:35,081 --> 00:44:36,397
- What couple do you think
is gonna consummate first?
1170
00:44:36,490 --> 00:44:38,841
- Ryan's like, "me."
he says, "me."
1171
00:44:38,993 --> 00:44:41,752
- No, I would never say that.
Not in front of her.
1172
00:44:41,846 --> 00:44:43,513
No, I wouldn't say that.
1173
00:44:43,740 --> 00:44:46,574
My vote is gonna be
on the guy that's not here.
1174
00:44:46,667 --> 00:44:48,242
He's gonna go
through all this stuff,
1175
00:44:48,335 --> 00:44:49,744
And I think
it's gonna make them--
1176
00:44:49,837 --> 00:44:51,595
- Oh, because of the virus.
- Wow.
1177
00:44:51,690 --> 00:44:53,338
- Hello, dark horse?
- That's a wild card.
1178
00:44:53,433 --> 00:44:55,007
- Yes.
- There's the wild card.
1179
00:44:55,101 --> 00:44:56,918
- Definitely the wild card.
- That's the wild card.
1180
00:44:56,936 --> 00:44:57,694
[upbeat music]
1181
00:44:57,921 --> 00:44:58,861
[laughter]
1182
00:45:04,761 --> 00:45:06,369
- Give me feelings, babe ♪
1183
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:08,930
♪ give me that feeling ♪
1184
00:45:09,023 --> 00:45:10,189
♪ I bet you feel this, baby ♪
1185
00:45:10,283 --> 00:45:12,357
- [laughs]
aww.
1186
00:45:12,377 --> 00:45:13,617
- So, yeah, I had something--
1187
00:45:13,770 --> 00:45:14,618
- Can I take
my sandals off now?
1188
00:45:14,771 --> 00:45:16,028
- Why?
1189
00:45:16,047 --> 00:45:17,696
- 'cause I don't
like the sand in my--
1190
00:45:17,790 --> 00:45:19,290
- All right, take 'em off.
1191
00:45:19,384 --> 00:45:21,442
♪ ♪
1192
00:45:21,461 --> 00:45:22,793
You wanna put them in here?
1193
00:45:22,946 --> 00:45:25,629
- No, 'cause they have sand.
- Ah, smart.
1194
00:45:25,782 --> 00:45:31,118
♪ ♪
1195
00:45:31,137 --> 00:45:32,453
- It's too hot.
1196
00:45:32,546 --> 00:45:34,731
So, like, when I go
on vacation trips,
1197
00:45:34,882 --> 00:45:36,791
I'm under
a very covered umbrella...
1198
00:45:36,809 --> 00:45:39,126
- Okay.
- For, like, the peak hours.
1199
00:45:39,145 --> 00:45:41,295
- Hey, guys.
How are we doing?
1200
00:45:41,388 --> 00:45:42,721
- Hi.
- Hey, what's up, boss?
1201
00:45:42,741 --> 00:45:43,798
- Got some vanilla
and chocolate ice cream
1202
00:45:43,816 --> 00:45:45,224
For you guys.
- Awesome.
1203
00:45:45,243 --> 00:45:48,911
- It has to be melted by now.
- Thank you.
1204
00:45:50,415 --> 00:45:53,583
- Actually, I want some water.
But is this ice cream?
1205
00:45:53,734 --> 00:45:56,586
- Gelato?
- Vegan?
1206
00:45:56,737 --> 00:46:00,147
- Maybe.
- What do you mean, "maybe"?
1207
00:46:00,241 --> 00:46:02,241
- Try it.
- Well, I don't know.
1208
00:46:02,335 --> 00:46:05,577
- It is.
Golly, [bleep].
1209
00:46:05,671 --> 00:46:07,246
- I don't do dairy.
1210
00:46:07,265 --> 00:46:09,599
- I planned something
for my wife,
1211
00:46:09,750 --> 00:46:11,601
But even if
it's a thoughtful gift,
1212
00:46:11,752 --> 00:46:13,936
I have to make sure
1213
00:46:14,088 --> 00:46:16,831
It's a thoughtful gift
in her mind.
1214
00:46:16,849 --> 00:46:18,666
Not in my mind.
1215
00:46:18,684 --> 00:46:20,943
- Oh, yeah, I did say yesterday
that I like gelato.
1216
00:46:21,095 --> 00:46:23,854
Thank you.
- Oh, you're welcome.
1217
00:46:23,948 --> 00:46:27,933
- It's very chocolatey.
A little too chocolatey.
1218
00:46:28,027 --> 00:46:29,510
[soft dramatic music]
1219
00:46:29,603 --> 00:46:31,529
- Let's take it back
a few years.
1220
00:46:31,681 --> 00:46:34,957
When did this--
how did you become you?
1221
00:46:35,109 --> 00:46:37,276
- Fabulous, kind hearted--
1222
00:46:37,295 --> 00:46:38,628
- However you wanna--
whatever...
1223
00:46:38,779 --> 00:46:40,279
- Is that what you mean?
1224
00:46:40,298 --> 00:46:41,522
- Adjective you want to use
to describe yourself?
1225
00:46:41,541 --> 00:46:42,690
- Is that what
you're talking about?
1226
00:46:42,708 --> 00:46:45,117
- How was your childhood?
- I grew up poor.
1227
00:46:45,136 --> 00:46:46,544
- And when you say you're poor,
what do you mean by--
1228
00:46:46,638 --> 00:46:47,695
Like--not what do you mean.
I know what poor means.
1229
00:46:47,713 --> 00:46:49,213
- For me--
1230
00:46:49,307 --> 00:46:50,789
- But like, give me an example
of being poor.
1231
00:46:50,809 --> 00:46:53,534
- For me, being poor--
- you say dirt poor.
1232
00:46:53,553 --> 00:46:55,812
- The first home
that I recall growing up
1233
00:46:55,963 --> 00:46:58,797
Was, like,
a tiny, little one room--
1234
00:46:58,891 --> 00:47:00,983
- Shack.
- Well, I would--
1235
00:47:01,135 --> 00:47:02,893
It's not a shack, but yes
with, like, a tin roof,.
1236
00:47:03,046 --> 00:47:04,487
- Okay.
1237
00:47:04,714 --> 00:47:06,063
- And like two doors
and like four--
1238
00:47:06,157 --> 00:47:08,732
Like that was the room
where like three, four, five
1239
00:47:08,885 --> 00:47:11,810
Of us lived in,
like, 300-square-foot space.
1240
00:47:11,904 --> 00:47:14,572
That was my earliest memory
of my first home growing up.
1241
00:47:14,666 --> 00:47:16,073
- Okay.
1242
00:47:16,225 --> 00:47:16,833
- Which is, you know,
my drive for life.
1243
00:47:16,984 --> 00:47:18,167
- Yeah, yeah.
1244
00:47:18,319 --> 00:47:20,061
- Like I went from here,
and I want to get
1245
00:47:20,079 --> 00:47:22,580
To so much more for my kids.
- I got you, okay cool.
1246
00:47:22,732 --> 00:47:25,733
- Did you grow up poor?
- Yeah.
1247
00:47:25,751 --> 00:47:27,677
- Like dirt poor?
1248
00:47:27,828 --> 00:47:29,846
- Well, we were poor,
1249
00:47:30,073 --> 00:47:31,663
But we were--
we had everything we needed.
1250
00:47:31,683 --> 00:47:33,349
- Yeah, I was poor,
but I always had food.
1251
00:47:33,500 --> 00:47:35,910
- Yeah, exactly.
Like I didn't feel it as a kid.
1252
00:47:36,003 --> 00:47:37,261
- Yeah.
- You know what I mean?
1253
00:47:37,413 --> 00:47:38,354
I probably didn't get
the latest and greatest,
1254
00:47:38,505 --> 00:47:39,856
But I had what I wanted.
1255
00:47:40,083 --> 00:47:42,083
- I did feel it
'cause I wanted to go shopping,
1256
00:47:42,101 --> 00:47:43,084
But I couldn't.
1257
00:47:43,102 --> 00:47:44,527
[upbeat music]
1258
00:47:44,754 --> 00:47:47,755
- Oh, so this little--
this little diva...
1259
00:47:47,773 --> 00:47:49,532
♪ ♪
1260
00:47:49,759 --> 00:47:51,275
Has been around since...
- I do like the word diva.
1261
00:47:51,427 --> 00:47:53,018
- A kid.
1262
00:47:53,037 --> 00:47:54,428
- Yeah, I mean,
when I was growing up,
1263
00:47:54,521 --> 00:47:55,779
I wanted to do
all those things,
1264
00:47:55,932 --> 00:47:57,540
But I just couldn't afford it.
- Okay, okay.
1265
00:47:57,691 --> 00:47:59,524
So you was born with this.
1266
00:47:59,544 --> 00:48:00,935
You didn't choose
to be like this.
1267
00:48:00,953 --> 00:48:01,936
- I didn't chose
to be like this.
1268
00:48:02,029 --> 00:48:03,045
- It chose you.
- Life chose me.
1269
00:48:03,197 --> 00:48:05,789
- Okay.
That is very interesting.
1270
00:48:05,884 --> 00:48:07,866
♪ ♪
1271
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:09,368
I'm more and more intrigued
because I want to get
1272
00:48:09,387 --> 00:48:10,945
To the root
of who she really is,
1273
00:48:10,963 --> 00:48:12,796
And her telling me this,
1274
00:48:12,949 --> 00:48:14,390
That's just gonna help me
better understand
1275
00:48:14,617 --> 00:48:16,300
Why she does
the things she does.
1276
00:48:16,452 --> 00:48:18,877
♪ ♪
1277
00:48:18,897 --> 00:48:21,713
How many siblings do you have?
- We're four altogether.
1278
00:48:21,807 --> 00:48:23,140
- Grew up as an only child
even though I have siblings.
1279
00:48:23,234 --> 00:48:24,458
- Interesting.
1280
00:48:24,551 --> 00:48:25,902
- I was raised
as an only child,
1281
00:48:26,129 --> 00:48:29,146
So I want a big family
because of that.
1282
00:48:29,298 --> 00:48:31,148
- A big family?
- I want a huge family.
1283
00:48:31,300 --> 00:48:33,634
I don't want, like--
- not gonna happen.
1284
00:48:33,653 --> 00:48:34,969
- I want, like,
eight or seven kids.
1285
00:48:34,987 --> 00:48:37,079
[laughter]
1286
00:48:37,306 --> 00:48:40,750
- Divorce check, please.
- [chuckles]
1287
00:48:40,977 --> 00:48:44,253
I want, like,
two vans full of kids.
1288
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:47,423
That's what I want.
- Sir, not gonna happen.
1289
00:48:47,574 --> 00:48:49,574
- I'm not saying you got
to have eight or seven,
1290
00:48:49,669 --> 00:48:51,485
Like, naturally, right?
1291
00:48:51,504 --> 00:48:54,004
So you can have one or two.
We can adopt...
1292
00:48:54,157 --> 00:48:55,598
- I--I'm not--
- a few more.
1293
00:48:55,825 --> 00:48:56,674
- No.
1294
00:48:56,826 --> 00:49:00,269
♪ ♪
1295
00:49:00,496 --> 00:49:02,254
- Possibly.
1296
00:49:02,273 --> 00:49:04,014
- I'm not really
open to adoption.
1297
00:49:04,167 --> 00:49:05,683
- You're not open to adoption?
1298
00:49:05,835 --> 00:49:07,276
♪ ♪
1299
00:49:07,428 --> 00:49:09,094
That sounds so evil.
1300
00:49:09,113 --> 00:49:10,688
- Why is it evil?
1301
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:13,007
- All those kids out there
that need a loving home.
1302
00:49:13,025 --> 00:49:15,618
[soft dramatic music]
1303
00:49:15,769 --> 00:49:18,012
- The only way I think
I would be open to adoption
1304
00:49:18,105 --> 00:49:22,533
Is we have absolutely exhausted
all other aspects of fertility.
1305
00:49:22,627 --> 00:49:24,368
♪ ♪
1306
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:26,353
But I also want my kids
to, like, enjoy life
1307
00:49:26,372 --> 00:49:27,354
And I want to be able to afford
1308
00:49:27,448 --> 00:49:28,372
All the things
that I never had.
1309
00:49:28,466 --> 00:49:31,542
♪ ♪
1310
00:49:31,694 --> 00:49:34,378
That's gonna be
pretty difficult.
1311
00:49:34,530 --> 00:49:35,471
- What, eight kids?
1312
00:49:37,033 --> 00:49:40,367
- What do you call it?
Are you a trust fund baby?
1313
00:49:40,386 --> 00:49:43,220
- No, I'm absolutely not--
- oh, okay, so you're not.
1314
00:49:43,314 --> 00:49:44,221
So we're not doing it.
1315
00:49:44,373 --> 00:49:45,797
♪ ♪
1316
00:49:45,817 --> 00:49:47,466
- ♪ shots fired ♪
1317
00:49:47,485 --> 00:49:48,633
♪ doot, doot,
doot, doot, doot ♪
1318
00:49:48,653 --> 00:49:50,060
♪ shots fired ♪
1319
00:49:50,154 --> 00:49:51,562
♪ boom ♪
1320
00:49:51,714 --> 00:49:54,548
♪ ♪
1321
00:49:54,567 --> 00:49:56,550
[upbeat music]
1322
00:49:56,569 --> 00:49:58,569
- ♪ I lost my keys,
I spent all my money ♪
1323
00:49:58,663 --> 00:50:00,997
♪ ♪
1324
00:50:01,148 --> 00:50:05,001
- We are here on our last day
of our honeymoon.
1325
00:50:05,228 --> 00:50:06,985
I believe
we're about to go on a boat.
1326
00:50:07,079 --> 00:50:08,729
- ♪ I believe in love ♪
1327
00:50:08,748 --> 00:50:10,172
- We're gonna go on a boat.
1328
00:50:10,324 --> 00:50:11,915
- ♪ going to the ship ♪
1329
00:50:12,068 --> 00:50:14,343
♪ ♪
1330
00:50:14,495 --> 00:50:16,086
- I'm a little worried about
getting seasick here.
1331
00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:18,514
- Guys, it's us.
This it.
1332
00:50:18,741 --> 00:50:19,664
This it right here.
- What a barge.
1333
00:50:19,759 --> 00:50:21,517
- Nice.
- Nice.
1334
00:50:21,668 --> 00:50:23,260
- I'm not gonna sit
on the sun side.
1335
00:50:23,354 --> 00:50:25,095
I wanna sit over here.
1336
00:50:25,189 --> 00:50:27,005
♪ ♪
1337
00:50:27,025 --> 00:50:28,357
- Anybody ready for one?
1338
00:50:28,509 --> 00:50:29,508
- Yeah, yeah, yeah,
I'll take one.
1339
00:50:29,527 --> 00:50:31,193
- Let's do it.
1340
00:50:31,420 --> 00:50:32,511
- Yeah, I'm done with--
- don't throw it.
1341
00:50:32,530 --> 00:50:33,937
- I was about to.
1342
00:50:34,032 --> 00:50:37,682
♪ ♪
1343
00:50:37,777 --> 00:50:39,184
Let's do a drinking game.
1344
00:50:39,278 --> 00:50:41,203
- Never have I ever.
1345
00:50:41,430 --> 00:50:43,614
- Never have I ever been
excited to play this game.
1346
00:50:43,708 --> 00:50:46,208
- [laughs]
1347
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:47,543
- All right,
so I'll start it off.
1348
00:50:47,770 --> 00:50:50,120
Never have I ever
been scuba diving.
1349
00:50:50,273 --> 00:50:52,381
- Hey, we got a scuba diver.
- All right.
1350
00:50:52,533 --> 00:50:53,883
- And you have
to drink too, right?
1351
00:50:54,034 --> 00:50:55,276
- No.
- You don't?
1352
00:50:55,294 --> 00:50:56,777
- If you've done it, you drink.
1353
00:50:56,796 --> 00:50:58,796
- The goal is to not drink.
It's a stupid rule, but--
1354
00:50:58,890 --> 00:50:59,947
- Yeah.
1355
00:50:59,965 --> 00:51:01,557
♪ ♪
1356
00:51:01,784 --> 00:51:07,121
- So let's see.
Never have I ever rock climbed.
1357
00:51:07,214 --> 00:51:08,305
- Like the pretend
or a real one?
1358
00:51:08,399 --> 00:51:09,881
- Both.
1359
00:51:09,901 --> 00:51:12,068
- Ryan just steady
drinking over here.
1360
00:51:12,295 --> 00:51:13,736
- Yeah, I know.
- All right, let's see.
1361
00:51:13,887 --> 00:51:15,129
Let's see.
1362
00:51:15,222 --> 00:51:17,798
Never have I ever
been streaking.
1363
00:51:17,817 --> 00:51:19,650
♪ ♪
1364
00:51:19,802 --> 00:51:24,305
- Oh, what?
- I'm not surprised.
1365
00:51:24,323 --> 00:51:25,973
- And I got lost--I got lost
1366
00:51:26,066 --> 00:51:27,583
While doing it,
so that was fun.
1367
00:51:27,734 --> 00:51:30,160
- That's awesome.
- I'm gonna need another beer.
1368
00:51:30,254 --> 00:51:32,329
[laughter]
1369
00:51:32,481 --> 00:51:34,423
- There's always
that one person.
1370
00:51:34,575 --> 00:51:36,834
I would have never thought
it was ryan.
1371
00:51:36,928 --> 00:51:41,746
And the fact that he has
been streaking is hilarious.
1372
00:51:41,766 --> 00:51:43,507
- I have one.
I have one.
1373
00:51:43,659 --> 00:51:46,343
- All right, let's go.
- Go ahead, brett.
1374
00:51:46,495 --> 00:51:49,179
- Never have I ever
had a one-night stand.
1375
00:51:49,332 --> 00:51:50,180
- Oh.
1376
00:51:50,333 --> 00:51:53,000
♪ ♪
1377
00:51:53,018 --> 00:51:54,518
- God damn it.
- [laughs]
1378
00:51:54,670 --> 00:51:56,670
- Hm.
- Did bao just--
1379
00:51:56,689 --> 00:51:59,006
- Wait, wait.
- Did bao just drink?
1380
00:51:59,024 --> 00:52:01,859
- Real quick.
You've had a one-night stand?
1381
00:52:02,011 --> 00:52:04,954
- Long time ago,
long time ago, long time ago.
1382
00:52:05,105 --> 00:52:06,605
- She said he ghosted her.
1383
00:52:06,624 --> 00:52:07,957
- All right.
That's a good one.
1384
00:52:08,108 --> 00:52:10,126
- Yeah.
- I have one.
1385
00:52:10,277 --> 00:52:11,460
- All right.
- Never have I ever...
1386
00:52:13,205 --> 00:52:15,464
[soft dramatic music]
1387
00:52:19,712 --> 00:52:21,119
- I know.
Drink up.
1388
00:52:21,139 --> 00:52:22,029
They don't know that.
1389
00:52:22,047 --> 00:52:25,624
♪ ♪
1390
00:52:25,643 --> 00:52:27,476
- Oh.
- Uh-huh.
1391
00:52:27,628 --> 00:52:29,203
- Damn, I married a cheater.
Damn.
1392
00:52:29,221 --> 00:52:30,721
[laughter]
1393
00:52:30,815 --> 00:52:33,390
If I hear my wife saying
that she has cheated before,
1394
00:52:33,542 --> 00:52:35,484
For me,
it's kind of a surprise
1395
00:52:35,636 --> 00:52:37,878
'cause I definitely think
cheaters are very selfish.
1396
00:52:37,897 --> 00:52:40,564
My dad did cheat on my mother,
and so, for me,
1397
00:52:40,716 --> 00:52:44,385
It's one of these things where
I am totally against it.
1398
00:52:44,478 --> 00:52:47,070
I mean,
why put someone through that?
1399
00:52:47,223 --> 00:52:49,223
- No one's perfect.
- I was young and dumb.
1400
00:52:49,241 --> 00:52:50,574
- That's true.
No, that's true.
1401
00:52:50,668 --> 00:52:51,558
- We all make mistakes,
and we grow from them.
1402
00:52:51,577 --> 00:52:52,576
- I was very young and dumb.
1403
00:52:52,728 --> 00:52:55,913
♪ ♪
1404
00:52:56,007 --> 00:52:57,673
- All righty, couples.
1405
00:52:57,900 --> 00:52:58,657
We have paddle boards
for you guys
1406
00:52:58,751 --> 00:53:00,083
If you guys wanna--
1407
00:53:00,178 --> 00:53:01,326
- Paddle boards.
- Take out the paddle boards?
1408
00:53:01,420 --> 00:53:02,753
- Yeah.
- Okay.
1409
00:53:02,847 --> 00:53:04,588
- I need to know
what's in the water out here.
1410
00:53:04,740 --> 00:53:06,182
♪ ♪
1411
00:53:06,333 --> 00:53:08,759
- Sharks.
- Oh, man.
1412
00:53:08,911 --> 00:53:10,186
- Okay.
1413
00:53:12,748 --> 00:53:13,914
♪ ♪
1414
00:53:13,933 --> 00:53:15,582
[chuckles]
1415
00:53:15,601 --> 00:53:18,752
[upbeat music]
1416
00:53:18,771 --> 00:53:20,196
- Use that one 'cause
it's already in the water?
1417
00:53:20,423 --> 00:53:22,439
Well, I'ma get on there too,
so screw it.
1418
00:53:22,591 --> 00:53:25,259
- Ryan's gonna be out there
like, "yes, I'm in nature."
1419
00:53:25,277 --> 00:53:27,519
- He's in his element.
- Yeah, oh yeah.
1420
00:53:27,538 --> 00:53:31,615
- Princesa, aren't you
paddle boarding?
1421
00:53:31,709 --> 00:53:34,284
I've never done it, so I'm
definitely gonna do it.
1422
00:53:34,437 --> 00:53:36,286
- No, because it's
kind of cold.
1423
00:53:36,439 --> 00:53:37,529
- Once you get on it,
it's easy.
1424
00:53:37,623 --> 00:53:39,548
- Falling off.
- Okay.
1425
00:53:39,700 --> 00:53:41,291
- All right, who next?
1426
00:53:41,444 --> 00:53:42,609
♪ ♪
1427
00:53:42,628 --> 00:53:46,947
- He's a natural.
Look at him.
1428
00:53:46,966 --> 00:53:49,040
- Ryan is impressive
on that paddle board.
1429
00:53:49,060 --> 00:53:50,709
He made it look effortless.
1430
00:53:50,728 --> 00:53:51,802
- He's like
a seasoned professional.
1431
00:53:51,954 --> 00:53:53,712
- Mm-hmm.
1432
00:53:53,806 --> 00:53:54,955
- Have you gone before?
Have you paddle boarded before?
1433
00:53:55,048 --> 00:53:56,047
- Never.
- Me either. This is too--
1434
00:53:56,141 --> 00:53:57,124
- I'm probably gonna fall over.
1435
00:53:57,142 --> 00:53:58,792
- Yeah, me too.
1436
00:53:58,811 --> 00:54:00,310
One of the things
I really like
1437
00:54:00,463 --> 00:54:01,979
About my husband
is that he's adventurous.
1438
00:54:02,131 --> 00:54:03,739
Are you doing the paddle board?
I'm gonna try it.
1439
00:54:03,966 --> 00:54:05,816
I've never done it.
I want to try it.
1440
00:54:05,968 --> 00:54:08,135
- All right, here we go.
- Yay.
1441
00:54:08,153 --> 00:54:11,396
We both are so excited
to do this together,
1442
00:54:11,415 --> 00:54:14,475
And I am ready
to conquer my fears
1443
00:54:14,493 --> 00:54:17,311
And I feel confident doing it
with my husband.
1444
00:54:17,329 --> 00:54:18,587
♪ ♪
1445
00:54:18,739 --> 00:54:21,148
- Look at boa.
- Whoa!
1446
00:54:21,166 --> 00:54:22,332
- Yeah, bao!
1447
00:54:22,485 --> 00:54:24,318
♪ ♪
1448
00:54:24,336 --> 00:54:26,411
- Yeah!
- There you go.
1449
00:54:26,430 --> 00:54:28,097
- You want to go
or you want johnny to go?
1450
00:54:28,324 --> 00:54:29,823
Johnny, you wanna go?
- Just drop.
1451
00:54:29,916 --> 00:54:33,269
Just drop, buddy.
- [laughs]
1452
00:54:33,420 --> 00:54:36,497
- Yeah.
- Don't lose the paddleboard.
1453
00:54:36,590 --> 00:54:39,500
- There you go.
Nice, johnny.
1454
00:54:39,518 --> 00:54:41,610
♪ ♪
1455
00:54:41,762 --> 00:54:43,445
- You're doing great!
- Look at them!
1456
00:54:43,672 --> 00:54:45,856
Yeah!
- You're doing great, guys!
1457
00:54:45,950 --> 00:54:47,341
I love it!
1458
00:54:47,359 --> 00:54:51,028
♪ ♪
1459
00:54:51,180 --> 00:54:53,363
- Oh.
- Just get in the water.
1460
00:54:53,516 --> 00:54:56,458
♪ ♪
1461
00:54:56,610 --> 00:54:58,352
- He's, like, out there.
1462
00:54:58,370 --> 00:55:00,296
- Johnny,
you're going the wrong way.
1463
00:55:00,447 --> 00:55:01,797
- Yeah, correct?
1464
00:55:02,024 --> 00:55:04,191
- I don't think johnny
knows how to turn.
1465
00:55:04,209 --> 00:55:07,878
[dramatic music]
1466
00:55:07,972 --> 00:55:09,880
Somebody should have
taught johnny how to turn.
1467
00:55:10,032 --> 00:55:14,368
♪ ♪
1468
00:55:14,461 --> 00:55:16,053
- Grab the board!
It floats!
1469
00:55:16,147 --> 00:55:17,980
♪ ♪
1470
00:55:18,131 --> 00:55:20,131
- Swim!
Paddle!
1471
00:55:20,151 --> 00:55:21,875
Swim this way.
- What's up?
1472
00:55:21,894 --> 00:55:23,210
- Like this!
1473
00:55:23,303 --> 00:55:24,945
- I'll go get him.
I just need a board.
1474
00:55:26,490 --> 00:55:27,823
- Johnny!
1475
00:55:28,050 --> 00:55:28,973
- I'm trying
to get bao in the boat
1476
00:55:28,993 --> 00:55:30,551
To go save johnny.
1477
00:55:30,569 --> 00:55:32,143
- Yeah.
I'm panicking.
1478
00:55:32,163 --> 00:55:36,498
We're so far away from johnny.
We're in open water.
1479
00:55:36,725 --> 00:55:38,058
- Is that boat
going towards johnny?
1480
00:55:38,077 --> 00:55:44,673
♪ ♪
1481
00:55:50,664 --> 00:55:52,255
- Grab the board!
It floats!
1482
00:55:52,350 --> 00:55:55,333
♪ ♪
1483
00:55:55,427 --> 00:55:57,928
Okay, paddle!
Swim this way!
1484
00:55:58,022 --> 00:55:59,504
Like this!
1485
00:55:59,523 --> 00:56:01,264
- I'll go get him.
I just need a board.
1486
00:56:01,359 --> 00:56:03,359
♪ ♪
1487
00:56:03,586 --> 00:56:05,009
- I'm trying to get bao
in the boat
1488
00:56:05,029 --> 00:56:06,420
To go save johnny.
- Yeah.
1489
00:56:06,438 --> 00:56:09,531
♪ ♪
1490
00:56:09,758 --> 00:56:10,941
- Is that boat
going towards johnny?
1491
00:56:11,035 --> 00:56:17,706
♪ ♪
1492
00:56:25,031 --> 00:56:25,956
- He make it on the raft?
- He's coming?
1493
00:56:26,050 --> 00:56:27,958
[upbeat music]
1494
00:56:28,052 --> 00:56:29,793
Come on, hubby!
1495
00:56:29,887 --> 00:56:33,555
♪ ♪
1496
00:56:33,707 --> 00:56:35,132
You can do it!
1497
00:56:35,226 --> 00:56:37,226
♪ ♪
1498
00:56:37,377 --> 00:56:38,802
Bao, he's gonna need
a massage later.
1499
00:56:38,896 --> 00:56:40,120
[laughter]
1500
00:56:40,213 --> 00:56:42,623
- Slow and steady
wins the race.
1501
00:56:42,641 --> 00:56:44,958
- In times of crisis,
I kind of, like, you know,
1502
00:56:44,977 --> 00:56:47,236
Get out of my own head like,
1503
00:56:47,387 --> 00:56:48,979
"all right,
this is what you need to do."
1504
00:56:49,131 --> 00:56:50,739
Figured out that the reason
why I wasn't turning
1505
00:56:50,891 --> 00:56:52,149
Was I wasn't
getting enough traction.
1506
00:56:52,301 --> 00:56:53,558
I need to get lower
so I could put more
1507
00:56:53,652 --> 00:56:55,302
Of the oar in there.
1508
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:57,246
- He's working really hard.
1509
00:56:57,397 --> 00:56:58,414
He's gonna come back
and be exhausted
1510
00:56:58,565 --> 00:57:00,565
For the entire day.
He made it!
1511
00:57:00,659 --> 00:57:02,976
- Whoo!
- Whoo-hoo!
1512
00:57:02,995 --> 00:57:04,068
♪ ♪
1513
00:57:04,088 --> 00:57:05,662
- Wow.
1514
00:57:05,756 --> 00:57:06,922
Hey.
- Yay!
1515
00:57:07,149 --> 00:57:10,092
- How you feel, buddy?
- I survived!
1516
00:57:10,243 --> 00:57:12,076
- These kind of moments
do really shake you up
1517
00:57:12,096 --> 00:57:14,838
And you realize how important
a person is to you.
1518
00:57:14,990 --> 00:57:17,933
I mean,
I do not need life flight
1519
00:57:18,084 --> 00:57:21,419
Coming out to save my husband
from his honeymoon.
1520
00:57:21,439 --> 00:57:23,664
- It turns out the water's
just like carrying me out.
1521
00:57:23,682 --> 00:57:24,773
I get farther and farther away.
1522
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:25,682
I can't make
the thing turn around.
1523
00:57:25,776 --> 00:57:27,425
- So I got to ask you,
1524
00:57:27,519 --> 00:57:28,669
Will you ever do that
ever again in your entire life?
1525
00:57:28,762 --> 00:57:29,761
- Yeah, I'm good.
- Okay, you--
1526
00:57:29,780 --> 00:57:31,171
- Aww.
- Aww.
1527
00:57:31,190 --> 00:57:32,931
- One and done.
1528
00:57:32,950 --> 00:57:35,692
- Never have I ever
been lost at sea.
1529
00:57:35,786 --> 00:57:37,953
Drink.
- Drink.
1530
00:57:38,104 --> 00:57:39,346
[laughter]
1531
00:57:39,364 --> 00:57:41,198
♪ ♪
1532
00:57:41,350 --> 00:57:43,684
- ♪ get ready
'cause you know some girls ♪
1533
00:57:43,777 --> 00:57:45,127
♪ know how to have some fun ♪
1534
00:57:45,278 --> 00:57:47,688
♪ but you know some girls do ♪
1535
00:57:47,781 --> 00:57:49,856
♪ you know some girls do ♪
1536
00:57:49,875 --> 00:57:51,467
- To life, y'all.
1537
00:57:51,618 --> 00:57:54,878
- I sincerely
am so appreciative
1538
00:57:55,030 --> 00:57:57,214
That I've met you ladies.
- Uh-huh.
1539
00:57:57,308 --> 00:57:58,974
- When I met everyone,
and I was just so proud
1540
00:57:59,201 --> 00:58:00,701
How we're all,
like, super independent.
1541
00:58:00,719 --> 00:58:02,126
Has that changed?
1542
00:58:02,146 --> 00:58:03,553
'cause I know
it's kind of changed for me
1543
00:58:03,706 --> 00:58:04,796
Of, like, having someone,
1544
00:58:04,815 --> 00:58:07,799
Like, want to do
all these things for you?
1545
00:58:07,818 --> 00:58:11,302
And I feel like I kind of have
to put my pride to the side
1546
00:58:11,322 --> 00:58:14,564
A little bit and like let him
be--take that man role.
1547
00:58:14,717 --> 00:58:16,140
- For me,
like, I've always been,
1548
00:58:16,235 --> 00:58:17,993
Like, the caretaker.
1549
00:58:18,220 --> 00:58:19,736
And if I get coffee,
I bring him coffee,
1550
00:58:19,888 --> 00:58:22,664
But, like,
he doesn't let me do anything,
1551
00:58:22,816 --> 00:58:26,059
So I feel like I don't know
what my role is anymore.
1552
00:58:26,078 --> 00:58:27,336
You know what I mean?
- I feel the same way.
1553
00:58:27,563 --> 00:58:28,670
- It's uncomfortable.
- Uncomfortable.
1554
00:58:28,822 --> 00:58:30,005
I don't know.
1555
00:58:30,232 --> 00:58:30,914
- It's uncomfortable.
It's weird.
1556
00:58:31,066 --> 00:58:32,733
- I'm okay with it.
1557
00:58:32,751 --> 00:58:34,659
- Myrla's, like,
living the good life.
1558
00:58:34,753 --> 00:58:36,586
- Living the good life, y'all.
It's also a honeymoon though.
1559
00:58:36,739 --> 00:58:37,996
Like, when you go back home,
1560
00:58:38,015 --> 00:58:39,923
You can go back
to doing those things.
1561
00:58:40,017 --> 00:58:41,499
You know, like, you don't
have to make breakfast here.
1562
00:58:41,519 --> 00:58:44,335
Like, you don't have
to serve someone coffee.
1563
00:58:44,429 --> 00:58:47,414
Like, it's just--it's easy
to just fall into that but,
1564
00:58:47,432 --> 00:58:50,267
You know, we'll figure it out
when we get home.
1565
00:58:50,419 --> 00:58:51,768
- We might've actually
discounted our husbands
1566
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:53,344
Because we're probably pickier.
1567
00:58:53,438 --> 00:58:55,864
You go on the dating app,
you want someone 6 foot tall.
1568
00:58:56,016 --> 00:58:57,849
You want someone
taller and handsome.
1569
00:58:57,868 --> 00:59:00,761
You have these criteria that
maybe weren't really necessary
1570
00:59:00,854 --> 00:59:03,780
For cultivating
a long-lasting marriage.
1571
00:59:03,932 --> 00:59:06,099
And then you meet this man
at the altar, and you're like,
1572
00:59:06,192 --> 00:59:07,376
"yeah,
he didn't check all those,
1573
00:59:07,527 --> 00:59:08,952
"you know,
prior superficial boxes,
1574
00:59:09,104 --> 00:59:09,936
But he's checking
a lot of the deeper boxes."
1575
00:59:09,955 --> 00:59:11,529
- Deeper.
1576
00:59:11,549 --> 00:59:13,790
- Well, it forces you
to look for the good
1577
00:59:13,942 --> 00:59:15,125
In the situation
because it's very permanent.
1578
00:59:15,219 --> 00:59:16,610
- Absolutely.
1579
00:59:16,703 --> 00:59:17,627
- Whereas when you go
on a bumble date,
1580
00:59:17,780 --> 00:59:19,279
You're like, "nope."
- yeah.
1581
00:59:19,298 --> 00:59:20,447
- You're like, "hate his jeans.
Gotta go." you know?
1582
00:59:20,540 --> 00:59:22,465
- Hate his jean?
That could be me.
1583
00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:25,802
- Or just like,
you know, I'm not outdoorsy.
1584
00:59:25,954 --> 00:59:29,547
Don't listen to country music.
I'm not from a small town.
1585
00:59:29,567 --> 00:59:32,550
I think our political leanings
are also different,
1586
00:59:32,570 --> 00:59:37,647
So for them to be adamant
enough to put us together,
1587
00:59:37,741 --> 00:59:41,134
You know, it's gotta be
something else much deeper.
1588
00:59:41,153 --> 00:59:43,245
- That's pretty deep though.
- Real deep.
1589
00:59:43,396 --> 00:59:45,229
- ♪ but you
don't see a reason ♪
1590
00:59:45,249 --> 00:59:48,158
♪ I'm your
one million reasons ♪
1591
00:59:48,252 --> 00:59:55,090
♪ ♪
1592
00:59:58,745 --> 01:00:03,506
- It's been a long day.
- Yeah.
1593
01:00:03,659 --> 01:00:07,160
- Are you sore from today?
- No, not yet.
1594
01:00:07,179 --> 01:00:08,920
I think it usually happens
the next day.
1595
01:00:08,939 --> 01:00:11,607
I got to get a workout
on one arm.
1596
01:00:11,758 --> 01:00:14,517
- [laughs]
1597
01:00:14,670 --> 01:00:16,837
- So in the short time that
we've stayed at this resort
1598
01:00:16,855 --> 01:00:18,355
Together on our honeymoon,
1599
01:00:18,449 --> 01:00:20,115
Do you think we've been
living well together?
1600
01:00:20,266 --> 01:00:24,194
- I think we're great
travel companions thus far.
1601
01:00:24,346 --> 01:00:26,529
- Yeah.
1602
01:00:26,624 --> 01:00:29,516
How do you--how do you
feel about our next step,
1603
01:00:29,534 --> 01:00:31,960
Which is moving in together?
1604
01:00:32,112 --> 01:00:33,703
- I'm very nervous.
1605
01:00:33,856 --> 01:00:38,541
- Does me not having a roommate
1606
01:00:38,694 --> 01:00:41,027
Or living
with a romantic partner
1607
01:00:41,121 --> 01:00:42,529
For the past seven,
eight years,
1608
01:00:42,622 --> 01:00:44,789
Does that worry you?
- Yes.
1609
01:00:44,808 --> 01:00:46,624
- Yeah.
Why?
1610
01:00:46,644 --> 01:00:50,036
- And it's because we are--
we're older now.
1611
01:00:50,055 --> 01:00:53,315
And as you age,
you become less flexible.
1612
01:00:53,466 --> 01:00:58,728
You harden, and I know
I have, and I see areas
1613
01:00:58,881 --> 01:01:02,473
Where I can do better,
and I'm working on it.
1614
01:01:02,493 --> 01:01:06,386
But I mean, I don't know you
yet well enough.
1615
01:01:06,405 --> 01:01:07,721
- You haven't lived with me.
1616
01:01:07,814 --> 01:01:09,164
- No.
- That's a big part.
1617
01:01:09,391 --> 01:01:11,482
- And you learn a lot there.
That's huge.
1618
01:01:11,576 --> 01:01:14,485
We've learned a lot here sure,
but it's a different thing
1619
01:01:14,505 --> 01:01:17,564
When we're living together
and the routines sink in.
1620
01:01:17,582 --> 01:01:21,418
But my fear is that I sense
1621
01:01:21,570 --> 01:01:23,586
That you probably don't like
some things
1622
01:01:23,681 --> 01:01:27,407
You're seeing
as of me as a travel companion.
1623
01:01:27,426 --> 01:01:30,852
For example, I know you
shower a few times a day.
1624
01:01:32,356 --> 01:01:36,692
Honestly, I have actually
gone--I've seen weeks
1625
01:01:36,843 --> 01:01:39,677
Where I've showered
that many times in a week.
1626
01:01:39,771 --> 01:01:41,345
[soft dramatic music]
1627
01:01:41,365 --> 01:01:44,700
I mean, most of the time
I shower once a day,
1628
01:01:44,851 --> 01:01:48,019
But there have been times
in my life where I was just sad
1629
01:01:48,038 --> 01:01:50,113
Or for some reason
something happened
1630
01:01:50,207 --> 01:01:53,934
And showering every single day
was not my top priority,
1631
01:01:54,027 --> 01:01:55,769
And I just wanted
to lay in bed.
1632
01:01:55,787 --> 01:01:59,363
There are times
when I'm so tired, I come home,
1633
01:01:59,383 --> 01:02:00,607
Whatever I'm wearing,
1634
01:02:00,625 --> 01:02:03,109
I will sometimes
just get in bed that way
1635
01:02:03,128 --> 01:02:04,386
And not even brush my teeth
and not even floss.
1636
01:02:04,537 --> 01:02:06,112
It happens.
- Right.
1637
01:02:06,131 --> 01:02:08,206
- But I don't see, like,
that happening for you.
1638
01:02:08,225 --> 01:02:09,891
- No, it I mean, it definitely
does happen for me.
1639
01:02:10,043 --> 01:02:11,284
- I don't want you
to be disgusted.
1640
01:02:11,303 --> 01:02:13,211
Like, "she is disgusting."
1641
01:02:13,305 --> 01:02:15,230
- Definitely don't assume that.
It's just a preference.
1642
01:02:15,381 --> 01:02:16,790
I'm expressing to you
that this is my preference.
1643
01:02:16,883 --> 01:02:18,458
I would love it
if you're clean.
1644
01:02:18,551 --> 01:02:19,976
- No, I love that
you're like that,
1645
01:02:20,070 --> 01:02:24,722
But I--that's--that
will take some adjusting for me
1646
01:02:24,742 --> 01:02:27,317
To be anywhere near like that.
1647
01:02:27,411 --> 01:02:28,985
Like, I don't think
I'll ever get to the point
1648
01:02:29,137 --> 01:02:30,303
Of showering three times a day.
1649
01:02:30,322 --> 01:02:31,304
- I'm not saying
that's a requirement.
1650
01:02:31,323 --> 01:02:32,973
- Okay.
1651
01:02:32,991 --> 01:02:34,641
- I'm basically saying
every time you work out
1652
01:02:34,659 --> 01:02:36,643
Or you're sweating,
don't bring it into the bed.
1653
01:02:36,736 --> 01:02:38,161
- Okay.
- 'cause that's dirty.
1654
01:02:38,255 --> 01:02:39,570
And then we'll have to change
our sheets every day.
1655
01:02:39,664 --> 01:02:40,647
- Okay, how about this?
1656
01:02:40,740 --> 01:02:42,499
If I'm so lazy
after working out
1657
01:02:42,651 --> 01:02:44,834
And I don't
feel like showering,
1658
01:02:44,987 --> 01:02:46,744
Are you okay
if I just sleep on the couch
1659
01:02:46,838 --> 01:02:48,321
'cause I'm okay with that.
1660
01:02:48,414 --> 01:02:49,247
Like, if I just want
to pass out,
1661
01:02:49,341 --> 01:02:51,415
And I'm like, "I'm tired,"
1662
01:02:51,510 --> 01:02:52,842
But I don't--I'm too lazy
1663
01:02:52,995 --> 01:02:54,844
To get up and lift
a finger or do anything.
1664
01:02:54,997 --> 01:02:56,921
- I think
you can sleep in the bed,
1665
01:02:56,940 --> 01:02:59,349
But change the sheets.
You take care of the sheets.
1666
01:02:59,501 --> 01:03:00,850
- But I don't
want to do that.
1667
01:03:01,003 --> 01:03:02,110
What if I'm lazy
and I just want to crash--
1668
01:03:02,262 --> 01:03:03,779
- Then take a shower.
1669
01:03:03,930 --> 01:03:05,614
Is that so hard?
Like just rinse off?
1670
01:03:05,841 --> 01:03:09,526
As I'm finding,
we have differences,
1671
01:03:09,678 --> 01:03:13,013
They're very important
differences to me.
1672
01:03:13,031 --> 01:03:15,698
And it makes me
really nervous again.
1673
01:03:15,793 --> 01:03:16,625
You know, like,
these are definitely things
1674
01:03:16,776 --> 01:03:18,109
I would have uncovered
1675
01:03:18,128 --> 01:03:20,278
In the first
couple months of dating.
1676
01:03:20,297 --> 01:03:24,448
And if I'm being 100% honest,
I would've walked away.
1677
01:03:24,468 --> 01:03:26,134
I'm not going to say
this is every day.
1678
01:03:26,286 --> 01:03:28,119
I'm not going to say
it's every week,
1679
01:03:28,213 --> 01:03:31,047
But, like, from time to time,
just let me just have my space
1680
01:03:31,141 --> 01:03:33,700
And crash on couch
and just be my dirty self.
1681
01:03:33,718 --> 01:03:39,481
♪ ♪
1682
01:03:45,547 --> 01:03:46,655
♪ ♪
1683
01:03:46,806 --> 01:03:48,565
- He's at this corner one.
1684
01:03:48,717 --> 01:03:50,383
Zack!
1685
01:03:50,402 --> 01:03:52,661
- Oh, my gosh, you're yelling.
- Yo!
1686
01:03:52,812 --> 01:03:54,663
- Yo, yo, man!
- What's happening?
1687
01:03:54,814 --> 01:03:55,831
- What's up, man?
How you doing?
1688
01:03:55,982 --> 01:03:57,815
- Good.
How you feeling?
1689
01:03:57,835 --> 01:03:59,576
- I feel a little bit better.
- Yeah?
1690
01:03:59,728 --> 01:04:00,818
- Missing michaela
but, you know.
1691
01:04:00,838 --> 01:04:02,228
- I bet.
1692
01:04:02,322 --> 01:04:03,913
- Hi.
- I'm feeling better, man.
1693
01:04:04,066 --> 01:04:05,565
Like, I'm almost at 100%,
1694
01:04:05,658 --> 01:04:08,326
But it's more so,
like, mentally for me.
1695
01:04:08,420 --> 01:04:11,404
You know, just being here,
like, in this room by myself.
1696
01:04:11,423 --> 01:04:13,181
- I know.
It has to be horrible, man.
1697
01:04:13,333 --> 01:04:14,999
- It's pretty tough.
1698
01:04:15,018 --> 01:04:16,351
- I definitely feel
like I miss out
1699
01:04:16,502 --> 01:04:17,927
A little bit
on the honeymoon,
1700
01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:19,913
But, you know,
honestly, I didn't go
1701
01:04:19,931 --> 01:04:21,264
Into this
to go on a honeymoon.
1702
01:04:21,416 --> 01:04:22,691
I went on this
meet my wife,
1703
01:04:22,918 --> 01:04:24,434
And I've done that
with michaela.
1704
01:04:24,586 --> 01:04:25,193
So my plan
for the rest of the honeymoon
1705
01:04:25,345 --> 01:04:27,103
Is just to get rest
1706
01:04:27,255 --> 01:04:28,922
And get back home
as healthy as possible
1707
01:04:28,940 --> 01:04:30,940
And then hopefully be able
to see michaela soon.
1708
01:04:31,093 --> 01:04:33,034
♪ ♪
1709
01:04:33,261 --> 01:04:35,853
- Do you feel yourself yet?
- I'm almost there.
1710
01:04:35,873 --> 01:04:38,522
I feel like once I get back
to houston and, like,
1711
01:04:38,542 --> 01:04:41,284
Have a day, you know,
1712
01:04:41,436 --> 01:04:44,528
With michaela
like kind of back to normal,
1713
01:04:44,548 --> 01:04:46,364
I think I'll be fine but...
- Okay.
1714
01:04:46,383 --> 01:04:47,774
If you need something,
you know,
1715
01:04:47,792 --> 01:04:51,444
I'll gladly roll it over
or, you know.
1716
01:04:51,463 --> 01:04:53,204
- Johnny and ryan
actually came by last night.
1717
01:04:53,223 --> 01:04:54,964
Like, threw up
some beers to me.
1718
01:04:55,117 --> 01:04:56,540
- Okay.
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
1719
01:04:56,560 --> 01:04:58,301
- That's what's up.
That's what's up.
1720
01:04:58,453 --> 01:05:00,286
So you turning up
in there by yourself, huh?
1721
01:05:00,305 --> 01:05:01,730
- I'm trying to,
but it's kind of hard.
1722
01:05:01,881 --> 01:05:03,289
- Party of one.
Okay.
1723
01:05:03,308 --> 01:05:04,807
- Yeah, for real.
1724
01:05:04,902 --> 01:05:06,309
- Glad to know you have
a support mechanism,
1725
01:05:06,461 --> 01:05:08,645
You know, it's here, right?
1726
01:05:08,797 --> 01:05:11,631
- So I can't wait till
you're back to 100%
1727
01:05:11,650 --> 01:05:16,745
And we can be, you know,
closer than 30 feet apart,
1728
01:05:16,972 --> 01:05:19,414
You know, so we can really
get this thing going.
1729
01:05:19,641 --> 01:05:21,082
- Yeah, I know.
I know, I know, I know.
1730
01:05:21,234 --> 01:05:22,659
- If you need some more beers,
give us a holler.
1731
01:05:22,753 --> 01:05:24,827
- Thank y'all.
1732
01:05:24,980 --> 01:05:27,589
♪ ♪
1733
01:05:27,740 --> 01:05:29,499
- ♪ it's all about you ♪
1734
01:05:29,651 --> 01:05:32,485
♪ it's a kiss,
it's a kiss of love, love ♪
1735
01:05:32,578 --> 01:05:34,745
♪ 'cause I've got puppy love ♪
1736
01:05:34,765 --> 01:05:37,265
- I kind of just wanted to do
something a little,
1737
01:05:37,417 --> 01:05:39,325
You know, a little bit special,
and as I pop this open.
1738
01:05:39,344 --> 01:05:40,994
- Do you want me to open it?
1739
01:05:41,012 --> 01:05:43,997
You know, I catered,
and I know how to open bottles.
1740
01:05:44,090 --> 01:05:45,348
- Okay, so you're a pro then.
1741
01:05:45,442 --> 01:05:47,108
As you supporter,
as your provider, as your man,
1742
01:05:47,260 --> 01:05:48,592
I think I'ma try to do it.
1743
01:05:48,612 --> 01:05:50,520
- Why can't I do it?
- You want to?
1744
01:05:50,672 --> 01:05:52,188
- Yes, I want to do it.
- Okay.
1745
01:05:52,340 --> 01:05:55,842
- Okay, thank you
for letting me do something
1746
01:05:55,860 --> 01:05:57,601
And you were
kind of doing it wrong.
1747
01:05:57,696 --> 01:05:58,954
- Oh, was I?
- Yeah.
1748
01:05:59,105 --> 01:06:01,623
Okay, that's why
I let my wife do it.
1749
01:06:01,774 --> 01:06:06,277
I'm just learning to pull back
just a little bit and allow her
1750
01:06:06,296 --> 01:06:07,629
To be the independent woman
that she really wants to.
1751
01:06:07,856 --> 01:06:09,130
I know you're pouring it
for yourself,
1752
01:06:09,282 --> 01:06:11,282
But I would be
pouring it for you.
1753
01:06:11,301 --> 01:06:13,359
The fact that I was matched
with someone that's very,
1754
01:06:13,378 --> 01:06:16,029
You know, classy,
simple, humble, educated,
1755
01:06:16,047 --> 01:06:17,864
But you know,
clearly takes care of herself,
1756
01:06:17,957 --> 01:06:20,033
And works out,
and so she does make me
1757
01:06:20,126 --> 01:06:21,551
Want to be the best man
that I can be.
1758
01:06:21,645 --> 01:06:24,037
- Something I noticed
just with the other couples
1759
01:06:24,130 --> 01:06:25,981
That bao and johnny brought up
1760
01:06:26,208 --> 01:06:28,632
That they've already
talked about, like, intimacy
1761
01:06:28,652 --> 01:06:30,560
And when they
were talking about intimacy,
1762
01:06:30,712 --> 01:06:32,228
It was, like,
the physical part.
1763
01:06:32,322 --> 01:06:35,898
And that's probably the one
thing we haven't talked about.
1764
01:06:35,993 --> 01:06:38,809
I think it might be
a little elephant in the room.
1765
01:06:38,903 --> 01:06:41,571
[soft dramatic music]
1766
01:06:41,665 --> 01:06:46,392
♪ ♪
1767
01:06:46,411 --> 01:06:48,077
We obviously show affection
towards each other.
1768
01:06:48,171 --> 01:06:50,897
We're giving kisses and hugs
all the time, you know?
1769
01:06:50,915 --> 01:06:54,917
So I'm very hopeful that,
when it comes to that time,
1770
01:06:55,070 --> 01:06:56,660
You know,
that it will be very easy
1771
01:06:56,680 --> 01:06:58,329
Just because
everything else is very easy.
1772
01:06:58,348 --> 01:07:03,243
- Right.
- However, it is quite scary.
1773
01:07:03,261 --> 01:07:08,097
Intimidating just because maybe
that's the area we don't click.
1774
01:07:08,191 --> 01:07:11,008
♪ ♪
1775
01:07:11,028 --> 01:07:13,269
Like, how important
is it to you?
1776
01:07:13,421 --> 01:07:14,845
♪ ♪
1777
01:07:14,865 --> 01:07:16,773
- For me intimacy,
1778
01:07:16,925 --> 01:07:18,424
It's very,
very, very important.
1779
01:07:18,443 --> 01:07:20,443
- And I agree with you.
1780
01:07:20,595 --> 01:07:21,928
♪ ♪
1781
01:07:22,021 --> 01:07:24,931
We've just evolved
so much and so fast
1782
01:07:24,949 --> 01:07:27,525
That I definitely feel
that emotional connection,
1783
01:07:27,544 --> 01:07:30,378
But if physical intimacy
doesn't begin months from now,
1784
01:07:30,530 --> 01:07:32,121
I would think
there's a problem.
1785
01:07:32,274 --> 01:07:34,549
♪ ♪
1786
01:07:34,700 --> 01:07:36,051
- But you have
to get the communicat--
1787
01:07:36,278 --> 01:07:38,369
You have to get
other things down first
1788
01:07:38,388 --> 01:07:40,221
Before you even
start talking about sex.
1789
01:07:40,373 --> 01:07:41,705
If you jump into sex first
1790
01:07:41,725 --> 01:07:43,725
Before you have
everything else,
1791
01:07:43,876 --> 01:07:45,560
I think you're
looking at it wrong.
1792
01:07:45,711 --> 01:07:48,379
- I feel like we have
this strong connection,
1793
01:07:48,398 --> 01:07:51,215
And if this strong connection
continues on
1794
01:07:51,234 --> 01:07:52,734
Into finally living together,
1795
01:07:52,885 --> 01:07:55,403
Yet we don't
consummate the marriage,
1796
01:07:55,555 --> 01:07:57,555
I would definitely
be concerned.
1797
01:07:57,574 --> 01:08:00,057
- Again, as I told you,
I have to have box checked.
1798
01:08:00,077 --> 01:08:03,227
If I don't have boxes checked,
it's not happening.
1799
01:08:03,246 --> 01:08:06,155
[upbeat music]
1800
01:08:06,308 --> 01:08:09,584
♪ ♪
1801
01:08:09,735 --> 01:08:13,496
- ♪ this is one for the ages ♪
1802
01:08:13,648 --> 01:08:17,166
♪ we're slowly drifting
into temptation ♪
1803
01:08:17,319 --> 01:08:20,077
♪ ♪
1804
01:08:20,171 --> 01:08:22,155
- Hey.
- Hey.
1805
01:08:22,248 --> 01:08:24,582
- Look what I got.
- [gasps]
1806
01:08:24,676 --> 01:08:26,417
- This looks good.
1807
01:08:26,436 --> 01:08:28,770
Oh, my gosh.
We even have a dessert.
1808
01:08:28,997 --> 01:08:30,754
- How nice.
This is quite the spread.
1809
01:08:30,774 --> 01:08:31,755
- Doesn't that
look really good?
1810
01:08:31,850 --> 01:08:33,274
- It looks amazing.
1811
01:08:33,501 --> 01:08:36,336
- My honeymoon
has been a roller coaster,
1812
01:08:36,429 --> 01:08:38,171
And there have been
a lot of ups,
1813
01:08:38,189 --> 01:08:40,356
But there've definitely been
a lot of downs too,
1814
01:08:40,450 --> 01:08:43,451
But we have grown from it
and, hopefully,
1815
01:08:43,678 --> 01:08:45,345
This will be just
a small road bump
1816
01:08:45,363 --> 01:08:47,029
In the entire journey
that we have ahead of us.
1817
01:08:47,182 --> 01:08:49,031
♪ ♪
1818
01:08:49,126 --> 01:08:51,033
- This is good.
1819
01:08:51,186 --> 01:08:56,131
- So I talked to my dad today
for the first time
1820
01:08:56,282 --> 01:08:58,616
Since we got married.
1821
01:08:58,710 --> 01:09:00,193
- So how did--like 'cause
1822
01:09:00,286 --> 01:09:01,636
He would--
he didn't even attend.
1823
01:09:03,548 --> 01:09:05,289
- He didn't.
- I'm sorry.
1824
01:09:05,383 --> 01:09:08,034
I just--I mean, share whatever
you feel comfortable sharing.
1825
01:09:08,052 --> 01:09:12,038
- Yeah, it's crazy
because the call started with,
1826
01:09:12,131 --> 01:09:14,149
You know, "are you married?"
1827
01:09:14,376 --> 01:09:16,133
Just in case
I didn't go through with it.
1828
01:09:16,153 --> 01:09:17,485
Right?
- Yeah.
1829
01:09:17,637 --> 01:09:21,047
- And he goes,
one, is she asian?
1830
01:09:21,140 --> 01:09:23,658
That was his first question.
1831
01:09:23,885 --> 01:09:24,993
And I said, "yes, dad,
she's asian."
1832
01:09:25,144 --> 01:09:28,812
And he's like, "great."
[laughs]
1833
01:09:28,832 --> 01:09:30,981
And the more
I described you to him,
1834
01:09:31,001 --> 01:09:33,817
The more he felt--
he said the word--
1835
01:09:33,837 --> 01:09:35,244
This word in chinese,
this phrase called,
1836
01:09:35,397 --> 01:09:36,913
He says...
[speaks chinese dialect]
1837
01:09:37,065 --> 01:09:39,156
Which means--
if you translate it literally,
1838
01:09:39,250 --> 01:09:41,158
It means "release heart,"
1839
01:09:41,178 --> 01:09:43,178
Which just means relieved.
He felt relieved.
1840
01:09:43,405 --> 01:09:45,162
- Aww.
1841
01:09:45,182 --> 01:09:46,997
- This whole time he thought
that I was going into this
1842
01:09:47,017 --> 01:09:48,741
As like a mistake.
1843
01:09:48,760 --> 01:09:50,760
You know,
who would marry a stranger?
1844
01:09:50,912 --> 01:09:52,353
- Yeah.
1845
01:09:52,505 --> 01:09:53,671
- And at the very end
of the call, he told me
1846
01:09:53,765 --> 01:09:57,417
That he is happy for me
1847
01:09:57,510 --> 01:09:59,861
For the first time in months.
1848
01:10:00,012 --> 01:10:02,605
- I'm getting goosebumps.
Look, look, my hairs.
1849
01:10:02,757 --> 01:10:04,032
- Me too.
1850
01:10:04,259 --> 01:10:05,608
- My hairs, [bleep], like,
they're standing.
1851
01:10:05,760 --> 01:10:09,687
- My dad is, like, the last
holdout of my entire family.
1852
01:10:09,781 --> 01:10:11,447
[soft dramatic music]
1853
01:10:11,541 --> 01:10:12,765
Prior to the wedding,
I'd kind of already
1854
01:10:12,784 --> 01:10:13,857
Come to terms with him
just not being happy
1855
01:10:13,952 --> 01:10:15,693
With this entire thing,
1856
01:10:15,787 --> 01:10:18,862
And I bet I would have to move
forward without his approval,
1857
01:10:18,882 --> 01:10:23,109
And to get it after the fact
during my honeymoon,
1858
01:10:23,127 --> 01:10:25,628
This has given me the hope
I need for the future.
1859
01:10:25,722 --> 01:10:27,388
♪ ♪
1860
01:10:27,540 --> 01:10:29,131
This whole time up
until this point,
1861
01:10:29,284 --> 01:10:31,117
I felt like this was
gonna be the specter that
1862
01:10:31,135 --> 01:10:33,210
Kind of just looms over me.
- Yeah.
1863
01:10:33,230 --> 01:10:35,121
- And for him
to just say those words
1864
01:10:35,139 --> 01:10:38,399
At the very end of the call,
and the words were--
1865
01:10:38,551 --> 01:10:41,143
It's literally.
[speaks chinese dialect]
1866
01:10:41,296 --> 01:10:42,812
"I'm happy for you."
1867
01:10:42,964 --> 01:10:45,147
- Oh, my gosh.
I'm so happy.
1868
01:10:45,242 --> 01:10:48,968
♪ ♪
1869
01:10:48,987 --> 01:10:50,152
- [chuckles]
1870
01:10:50,305 --> 01:10:55,992
♪ ♪
1871
01:10:56,086 --> 01:10:57,418
- [laughs]
1872
01:11:05,837 --> 01:11:09,913
- ♪ you got me floating,
it's emotion ♪
1873
01:11:09,933 --> 01:11:12,842
[upbeat music]
1874
01:11:12,994 --> 01:11:14,752
♪ ♪
1875
01:11:14,771 --> 01:11:17,438
- So it is our
last night of our honeymoon,
1876
01:11:17,590 --> 01:11:20,758
And I decided to do
something nice for my husband.
1877
01:11:20,777 --> 01:11:22,277
And you'll see that he loves
chocolate chip cookies,
1878
01:11:22,428 --> 01:11:24,612
And so I hope
he will appreciate
1879
01:11:24,839 --> 01:11:27,340
Two, three dozen
chocolate chip cookies
1880
01:11:27,358 --> 01:11:31,619
Because he is very patient
with me all the time.
1881
01:11:31,771 --> 01:11:33,937
- Darling.
1882
01:11:34,032 --> 01:11:34,747
- It can be darling.
1883
01:11:36,609 --> 01:11:39,201
- Princess.
Ooh.
1884
01:11:39,354 --> 01:11:41,687
- You asked
for chocolate chip cookies.
1885
01:11:41,781 --> 01:11:43,965
- [laughs]
that's awesome.
1886
01:11:44,116 --> 01:11:46,450
- I got you
a chocolate chip cookie.
1887
01:11:46,469 --> 01:11:48,694
It's the size of my face.
- That is awesome.
1888
01:11:48,713 --> 01:11:53,049
That is amazing.
I love it.
1889
01:11:53,201 --> 01:11:54,809
- You said you wanted
chocolate chip cookies
1890
01:11:54,960 --> 01:11:56,627
And you could eat a bunch.
- I've been dying for it.
1891
01:11:56,646 --> 01:12:00,890
That's like flowers for me.
I'ma put it like this.
1892
01:12:01,042 --> 01:12:03,985
You giving me cookies,
especially like this,
1893
01:12:04,136 --> 01:12:08,064
With this,
that's almost foreplay.
1894
01:12:08,158 --> 01:12:09,565
♪ ♪
1895
01:12:09,717 --> 01:12:10,992
That's getting close
to foreplay for me.
1896
01:12:11,143 --> 01:12:12,885
Seriously.
1897
01:12:12,978 --> 01:12:14,737
I haven't had a kiss yet,
1898
01:12:14,831 --> 01:12:16,998
But it's one of those things
where her actions
1899
01:12:17,149 --> 01:12:19,559
Are finally pouring behind
the things that she says.
1900
01:12:19,577 --> 01:12:22,745
And the fact that she's
paying attention to that
1901
01:12:22,839 --> 01:12:25,731
And gave me a platter
of chocolate chip cookies,
1902
01:12:25,750 --> 01:12:29,735
You know, reiterates to me
that she does want this.
1903
01:12:29,754 --> 01:12:33,072
Possibly that kiss might be
coming sooner than later.
1904
01:12:33,091 --> 01:12:36,351
This is our last night.
I had a great time.
1905
01:12:36,578 --> 01:12:40,079
I felt like this place
is gorgeous,
1906
01:12:40,098 --> 01:12:42,357
And so I'm happy.
1907
01:12:42,508 --> 01:12:45,008
- I feel like less
of strangers now on this day
1908
01:12:45,028 --> 01:12:47,587
Than we did obviously day one.
1909
01:12:47,605 --> 01:12:51,199
- I can tell that you're
a little more comfortable.
1910
01:12:51,350 --> 01:12:54,017
You're kind of
opening up slowly.
1911
01:12:54,037 --> 01:12:56,371
I mean, even if you're
just cracking open that door,
1912
01:12:56,598 --> 01:12:58,873
I can see light
coming through that door.
1913
01:12:59,100 --> 01:13:02,284
It's not shut,
but I wish we had more time
1914
01:13:02,437 --> 01:13:04,379
To do this here
'cause, you know,
1915
01:13:04,606 --> 01:13:06,622
We get back
to our regular lives.
1916
01:13:06,774 --> 01:13:08,624
- I think I'm actually excited
to go back home.
1917
01:13:08,776 --> 01:13:10,276
- To get back
into your routine?
1918
01:13:10,294 --> 01:13:12,053
- Not me.
Just like us.
1919
01:13:12,280 --> 01:13:14,113
Like, create a home,
you know, like for me,
1920
01:13:14,132 --> 01:13:15,390
The home is important
'cause that's where you--
1921
01:13:15,617 --> 01:13:16,891
That's where we're
going to be every day.
1922
01:13:17,118 --> 01:13:19,727
- I am personally
interested in seeing
1923
01:13:19,879 --> 01:13:23,881
How you interact
with hype, my dog.
1924
01:13:23,975 --> 01:13:26,792
[soft dramatic music]
1925
01:13:26,811 --> 01:13:28,236
♪ ♪
1926
01:13:28,387 --> 01:13:30,053
- I'm not taking him
out for walks
1927
01:13:30,148 --> 01:13:31,906
Or like pooping and stuff.
1928
01:13:32,057 --> 01:13:33,908
You'll do--
you'll do that, right?
1929
01:13:34,059 --> 01:13:37,895
I've had hype
since he was six weeks old,
1930
01:13:37,989 --> 01:13:41,249
And, you know,
he's part of me.
1931
01:13:41,476 --> 01:13:43,400
So you know,
hearing that she's
1932
01:13:43,420 --> 01:13:46,587
Not willing to do something
as small as walk my dog,
1933
01:13:46,739 --> 01:13:48,998
It's a little disappointing,
and it's something
1934
01:13:49,150 --> 01:13:51,834
That we definitely need
to talk more about
1935
01:13:51,928 --> 01:13:54,912
'cause I would hate for that
to ruin something
1936
01:13:54,931 --> 01:13:57,080
That we believe
that could be special.
1937
01:13:57,100 --> 01:14:00,584
I do work 24 hours
two days out of the week.
1938
01:14:00,603 --> 01:14:02,678
- So then who watches your dog
when you're not there?
1939
01:14:02,830 --> 01:14:04,830
- I have a dog walker
that usually walks him
1940
01:14:04,849 --> 01:14:06,757
In my apartments.
1941
01:14:06,851 --> 01:14:10,111
I don't know if she's gonna
come to my--our apartment.
1942
01:14:10,262 --> 01:14:13,406
- We can find a new dog walker.
Dog walkers exist.
1943
01:14:16,619 --> 01:14:22,105
That's a waste of money
is what it gets down to.
1944
01:14:22,200 --> 01:14:25,534
For me, that's a complete waste
of money having a dog walker
1945
01:14:25,687 --> 01:14:28,204
Come and walk my dog
twice a day
1946
01:14:28,298 --> 01:14:32,525
When there's clearly
an abled body that can do it.
1947
01:14:32,618 --> 01:14:34,694
- I don't think
it's a waste of money.
1948
01:14:34,712 --> 01:14:37,287
♪ ♪
1949
01:14:37,307 --> 01:14:39,456
- I'm not saying you're
going to be a doggy daycare.
1950
01:14:39,476 --> 01:14:40,958
You acting like
I want you out there--
1951
01:14:40,977 --> 01:14:42,368
- I'm not, I'm not.
I'm not saying no.
1952
01:14:42,386 --> 01:14:43,385
That's not what I'm saying.
1953
01:14:43,538 --> 01:14:44,887
- I'm literally saying just--
1954
01:14:44,981 --> 01:14:45,980
- But for me, that's,
like, the basic things.
1955
01:14:46,131 --> 01:14:47,315
Like, I don't want a dog
1956
01:14:47,466 --> 01:14:48,465
'cause I don't want
to walk them,
1957
01:14:48,485 --> 01:14:49,650
And I have
to take care a dog now.
1958
01:14:49,877 --> 01:14:51,727
Responsibility
is being forced on me.
1959
01:14:51,879 --> 01:14:55,548
♪ ♪
1960
01:14:55,566 --> 01:14:57,474
- That doesn't sit well
with me at all.
1961
01:14:57,494 --> 01:14:58,976
That's just going
to make it harder for me
1962
01:14:58,995 --> 01:15:01,237
To even want to
get to know you further.
1963
01:15:01,389 --> 01:15:07,243
♪ ♪
1964
01:15:07,337 --> 01:15:10,229
[upbeat music]
1965
01:15:10,248 --> 01:15:12,155
♪ ♪
1966
01:15:12,175 --> 01:15:15,568
- So cheers to continuing
to get to know each other.
1967
01:15:15,661 --> 01:15:20,406
And also to all the love notes
1968
01:15:20,424 --> 01:15:21,999
I'm going to write you.
- Maybe babies.
1969
01:15:22,093 --> 01:15:24,260
- And maybe babies.
1970
01:15:24,412 --> 01:15:27,079
Our honeymoon
is coming to a close,
1971
01:15:27,172 --> 01:15:29,673
And I wish
I had a few more days.
1972
01:15:29,767 --> 01:15:32,676
I mean, I think that we've been
making a lot of good progress.
1973
01:15:32,695 --> 01:15:37,439
And I understand
that we have differences.
1974
01:15:37,534 --> 01:15:38,758
But for all the differences
that we have,
1975
01:15:38,776 --> 01:15:40,368
I see a lot of similarities.
1976
01:15:40,519 --> 01:15:43,095
You know,
I think every conversation
1977
01:15:43,114 --> 01:15:44,855
That we have,
it makes me feel
1978
01:15:44,949 --> 01:15:46,949
Like I know him more,
1979
01:15:47,043 --> 01:15:50,694
And, for me,
like having a really good grip
1980
01:15:50,713 --> 01:15:53,105
On knowing who he is
1981
01:15:53,124 --> 01:15:55,032
Is the thing
that makes me like him.
1982
01:15:55,126 --> 01:15:56,175
We're gonna live together.
1983
01:15:58,279 --> 01:15:59,870
- That's what I was told.
- I know.
1984
01:15:59,964 --> 01:16:00,963
- I didn't have much say in it.
1985
01:16:01,115 --> 01:16:03,465
- [chuckles]
- [chuckles]
1986
01:16:03,618 --> 01:16:07,636
- He left me no choice.
- Nope.
1987
01:16:07,789 --> 01:16:10,565
- He said this is your wife.
This is where you're living.
1988
01:16:10,792 --> 01:16:13,642
And I just said, "okay"
and smiled.
1989
01:16:13,736 --> 01:16:16,219
- I feel like our habits
aren't that different, right?
1990
01:16:16,239 --> 01:16:18,239
- We'll see.
- Right.
1991
01:16:18,390 --> 01:16:19,982
But I mean so far.
1992
01:16:20,076 --> 01:16:23,485
- I'm taking your word for it
on the bathroom stuff.
1993
01:16:23,638 --> 01:16:25,580
How about making beds
every day?
1994
01:16:25,731 --> 01:16:28,231
- No, I never make my bed.
- Okay, I can live with that.
1995
01:16:28,251 --> 01:16:30,418
I'm like a throw
the comforter back over.
1996
01:16:30,645 --> 01:16:32,253
- I'm gonna be gone before you.
- Yeah.
1997
01:16:32,404 --> 01:16:33,829
- So you'd have
to make it anyway.
1998
01:16:33,923 --> 01:16:35,497
- Now I regret
bringing this up immediately.
1999
01:16:35,650 --> 01:16:36,924
- [chuckles]
2000
01:16:39,078 --> 01:16:41,912
- I've been thinking about
2001
01:16:41,931 --> 01:16:43,505
The dinner
the other night with everybody.
2002
01:16:43,658 --> 01:16:45,658
- Yeah.
2003
01:16:45,676 --> 01:16:48,844
- I know I tensed up when that
topic got brought up, politics.
2004
01:16:48,996 --> 01:16:52,898
I felt like, you know,
it got a little...
2005
01:16:55,761 --> 01:16:57,260
Passionate,
I guess is the word.
2006
01:16:57,355 --> 01:16:58,613
- Yeah.
- You know?
2007
01:16:58,840 --> 01:17:00,097
- Like I said before,
I didn't have
2008
01:17:00,116 --> 01:17:03,600
Many strong feelings,
2009
01:17:03,620 --> 01:17:06,195
Like, politically,
up until recent events.
2010
01:17:06,347 --> 01:17:08,789
You know, I've been more
involved much more lately.
2011
01:17:09,016 --> 01:17:10,366
- Well, I'm glad
you brought it up again.
2012
01:17:10,518 --> 01:17:11,867
- Yeah.
2013
01:17:12,019 --> 01:17:13,519
- 'cause obviously
it's something
2014
01:17:13,537 --> 01:17:15,020
That you've been thinking
about since then.
2015
01:17:15,039 --> 01:17:17,022
- Yeah, it just like came
kind of into my mind
2016
01:17:17,116 --> 01:17:19,282
As we're talking about, like,
2017
01:17:19,302 --> 01:17:21,210
Making babies
and moving in together.
2018
01:17:21,362 --> 01:17:24,546
Like to me, I mean, the fact
2019
01:17:24,699 --> 01:17:27,308
That we have different opinions
2020
01:17:27,535 --> 01:17:30,536
As far as left, right,
in the middle.
2021
01:17:30,554 --> 01:17:32,629
You know, I voted this.
You voted that, whatever.
2022
01:17:32,723 --> 01:17:34,056
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
2023
01:17:34,150 --> 01:17:35,541
- And you know,
the industry that you're in
2024
01:17:35,634 --> 01:17:36,892
And the industry that I'm in--
2025
01:17:37,044 --> 01:17:38,560
- 'cause we're voting
for different things.
2026
01:17:38,655 --> 01:17:41,138
I'm seeing that this is
a lingering thing for her,
2027
01:17:41,157 --> 01:17:43,974
But this is really a non-issue
2028
01:17:43,993 --> 01:17:46,661
Whatsoever in my mind.
2029
01:17:46,812 --> 01:17:49,664
- I understand that, you know,
fiscal conservatism,
2030
01:17:49,815 --> 01:17:52,241
But societal issues
and the things
2031
01:17:52,335 --> 01:17:54,243
That are going on in the world
to me, it is a big deal.
2032
01:17:54,337 --> 01:17:57,246
♪ ♪
2033
01:17:57,398 --> 01:18:00,323
- ♪ where there's smoke,
there's fire ♪
2034
01:18:00,343 --> 01:18:01,417
♪ I should
have seen it coming ♪
2035
01:18:01,511 --> 01:18:02,009
♪ ♪
2036
01:18:07,517 --> 01:18:09,833
- ♪ let me step ♪
2037
01:18:09,852 --> 01:18:13,170
♪ into your life ♪
2038
01:18:13,189 --> 01:18:14,689
- Gorgeous.
Look at that.
2039
01:18:14,916 --> 01:18:16,749
- I'm actually
a little lazy this morning.
2040
01:18:16,842 --> 01:18:18,100
- You should just let me pack.
2041
01:18:18,194 --> 01:18:20,177
- I'm trying to tell you,
it was packed and then--
2042
01:18:20,196 --> 01:18:22,679
- You can leave that pelican.
- No.
2043
01:18:22,773 --> 01:18:24,865
- Our newlyweds have spent
the last few days in paradise
2044
01:18:25,092 --> 01:18:27,109
Getting to know
their stranger spouses.
2045
01:18:27,203 --> 01:18:29,352
♪ ♪
2046
01:18:29,447 --> 01:18:31,354
- Morning.
- Morning.
2047
01:18:31,449 --> 01:18:33,190
- Oh, breakfast in bed.
2048
01:18:33,284 --> 01:18:34,524
- And now it's time
2049
01:18:34,544 --> 01:18:37,027
For our couples
to head back to houston.
2050
01:18:37,046 --> 01:18:38,604
- I can't believe this is
the last day of our honeymoon.
2051
01:18:38,697 --> 01:18:40,272
- I mean,
everything's been lovely.
2052
01:18:40,291 --> 01:18:42,124
- I know.
2053
01:18:42,218 --> 01:18:44,201
- Hopefully, they're ready
to deal with the stressors
2054
01:18:44,220 --> 01:18:46,612
Of the real world
and the serious challenges
2055
01:18:46,630 --> 01:18:48,280
They're gonna have to overcome
2056
01:18:48,299 --> 01:18:50,057
If they're gonna be
a successful couple.
2057
01:18:50,209 --> 01:18:51,450
- It's the last day.
2058
01:18:51,543 --> 01:18:52,634
Are you excited
to go back home?
2059
01:18:52,787 --> 01:18:54,044
- I am excited to go back home.
2060
01:18:54,063 --> 01:18:55,637
- What are you gonna do?
2061
01:18:55,790 --> 01:18:57,547
'cause you only work
two days out of a week.
2062
01:18:57,567 --> 01:18:59,400
- Well, I don't look
at it like that,
2063
01:18:59,627 --> 01:19:02,478
But I'm going to be
knitting you that quilt.
2064
01:19:02,572 --> 01:19:04,387
[chuckles]
2065
01:19:04,407 --> 01:19:05,573
- I told you never
to bring that quilt.
2066
01:19:05,724 --> 01:19:08,576
- [laughs]
2067
01:19:08,727 --> 01:19:10,060
No, I'm gonna be
doing my thing.
2068
01:19:10,079 --> 01:19:11,394
I'll be running errands.
2069
01:19:11,489 --> 01:19:12,729
- When you say errands,
2070
01:19:12,749 --> 01:19:14,306
It's just like
I have zero errands.
2071
01:19:14,399 --> 01:19:15,416
- That's a beautiful life
of yours
2072
01:19:15,567 --> 01:19:16,751
That don't have errands,
2073
01:19:16,902 --> 01:19:17,752
But other people
have errands, you know?
2074
01:19:17,979 --> 01:19:19,253
- Like what?
2075
01:19:19,404 --> 01:19:21,404
- What you pay people
to do, I do.
2076
01:19:21,424 --> 01:19:24,425
My wife is very particular.
2077
01:19:24,576 --> 01:19:27,410
She is someone that will not
be forced to do anything
2078
01:19:27,430 --> 01:19:29,079
That she does not want to do,
2079
01:19:29,098 --> 01:19:31,432
So now that we're
moving in together,
2080
01:19:31,583 --> 01:19:33,601
I'm interested to see
how she handles it.
2081
01:19:35,420 --> 01:19:38,939
So does it feel, like, surreal
going back home with a husband?
2082
01:19:39,091 --> 01:19:40,757
- No, it's not surreal.
- No?
2083
01:19:40,777 --> 01:19:43,944
It's a little surreal for me.
I go back and forth.
2084
01:19:44,171 --> 01:19:47,097
Like, at times I feel
like I'm in a movie.
2085
01:19:47,191 --> 01:19:48,932
- Really?
- Yeah.
2086
01:19:48,951 --> 01:19:50,618
- It definitely does not feel
like I'm in a movie.
2087
01:19:50,845 --> 01:19:52,787
- [chuckles]
2088
01:19:54,773 --> 01:19:55,956
- I'm not saying it feels like
2089
01:19:56,183 --> 01:19:57,440
I'm in a romcom
or something like that.
2090
01:19:57,460 --> 01:19:58,793
- No, definitely not.
2091
01:19:59,020 --> 01:20:00,294
- No, but I'm saying
like, you know,
2092
01:20:00,521 --> 01:20:03,038
Knowing I'm flying back
with my wife
2093
01:20:03,190 --> 01:20:05,874
From our honeymoon, you know,
2094
01:20:05,968 --> 01:20:08,210
And now we're about
to experience a life together,
2095
01:20:08,362 --> 01:20:10,195
Living together,
I feel it's gonna be easy.
2096
01:20:10,214 --> 01:20:13,623
♪ ♪
2097
01:20:13,643 --> 01:20:15,367
- I don't think marriage
is really easy,
2098
01:20:15,460 --> 01:20:16,143
At least from what I've heard.
2099
01:20:18,372 --> 01:20:19,721
- So when we
get back to houston,
2100
01:20:19,816 --> 01:20:22,632
I'm so looking forward
to us living together.
2101
01:20:22,726 --> 01:20:25,969
I'm very curious to kind of see
where you're you live.
2102
01:20:26,063 --> 01:20:28,380
Would you consider yourself
a minimalist when it comes to--
2103
01:20:28,399 --> 01:20:29,731
- I think so.
- Okay.
2104
01:20:29,884 --> 01:20:32,067
- I'm naturally not.
2105
01:20:32,161 --> 01:20:34,829
♪ ♪
2106
01:20:35,056 --> 01:20:37,331
I think I have
little hoarding tendencies.
2107
01:20:37,558 --> 01:20:39,166
- Okay.
- But I'm--I'm aware of it.
2108
01:20:39,393 --> 01:20:41,410
I'm aware of it
so that's what I need you
2109
01:20:41,562 --> 01:20:44,746
To--here I am asking for help.
2110
01:20:44,841 --> 01:20:48,843
- The single jose didn't have
a woman that had
2111
01:20:48,994 --> 01:20:50,678
Half her stuff
all on my counters,
2112
01:20:50,905 --> 01:20:51,995
And all this other--
so it's going to be--
2113
01:20:52,014 --> 01:20:53,347
It's definitely
gonna be a game changer.
2114
01:20:53,498 --> 01:20:54,756
This is
gonna be interesting.
2115
01:20:54,909 --> 01:20:56,758
- This is gonna be
real interesting, I know.
2116
01:20:56,853 --> 01:20:58,668
- That's okay.
2117
01:20:58,688 --> 01:21:00,521
I think right now I just focus
on her in the marriage,
2118
01:21:00,672 --> 01:21:03,248
Not all her stuff
all over my stuff.
2119
01:21:03,267 --> 01:21:06,527
- I do have the tendency
to have clutter.
2120
01:21:06,754 --> 01:21:09,254
- Yeah, it's gonna be
everywhere so...
2121
01:21:09,273 --> 01:21:12,107
- Reality is about to hit.
The honeymoon is over.
2122
01:21:12,259 --> 01:21:14,184
♪ ♪
2123
01:21:14,278 --> 01:21:15,928
- Last morning here, huh?
2124
01:21:16,021 --> 01:21:20,115
- Yeah, it's been a wild week.
2125
01:21:20,209 --> 01:21:21,876
[tender music]
2126
01:21:22,027 --> 01:21:23,544
Bao and I are not
always on the same page.
2127
01:21:23,695 --> 01:21:25,454
We kind of interact
with the world
2128
01:21:25,606 --> 01:21:27,548
In a different way,
2129
01:21:27,699 --> 01:21:29,717
But now that we are getting
ready to live with each other,
2130
01:21:29,868 --> 01:21:33,053
I think the challenge for me
is to get in her head
2131
01:21:33,280 --> 01:21:34,796
And see things
from her point of view.
2132
01:21:34,949 --> 01:21:36,373
♪ ♪
2133
01:21:36,467 --> 01:21:38,467
- How do you feel about us
2134
01:21:38,619 --> 01:21:40,895
Leaving and going back
to our normal lives?
2135
01:21:41,122 --> 01:21:42,471
- I think it'll be
a nice dose of reality.
2136
01:21:42,565 --> 01:21:44,139
- Yeah.
2137
01:21:44,233 --> 01:21:45,733
- And when we get back,
I think it's gonna be
2138
01:21:45,884 --> 01:21:47,976
A little different.
A lot different.
2139
01:21:48,129 --> 01:21:50,479
- Yeah, I'm looking forward
to seeing it.
2140
01:21:50,573 --> 01:21:52,389
What is in store?
2141
01:21:52,408 --> 01:21:53,982
- Yeah.
- Ready?
2142
01:21:54,135 --> 01:21:55,801
- Ready.
2143
01:21:55,819 --> 01:21:58,654
- You want a to-go cookie?
- I'm okay on the sugar.
2144
01:21:58,748 --> 01:21:59,972
- Okay.
2145
01:21:59,990 --> 01:22:00,656
- You got two.
I got two.
2146
01:22:00,750 --> 01:22:03,733
♪ ♪
2147
01:22:03,827 --> 01:22:05,811
- Come on.
- Come on.
2148
01:22:05,829 --> 01:22:07,087
- Ready?
- Ready.
2149
01:22:11,001 --> 01:22:12,985
- Okay, let's go.
2150
01:22:13,003 --> 01:22:14,670
- Ready or not.
2151
01:22:14,822 --> 01:22:16,338
- Back to the real world.
2152
01:22:16,490 --> 01:22:19,992
♪ ♪
2153
01:22:20,010 --> 01:22:21,677
- Oh, dang.
- This is nice.
2154
01:22:21,771 --> 01:22:23,920
- Next time on
"married at first sight"...
2155
01:22:23,940 --> 01:22:25,088
- Home sweet home.
2156
01:22:25,182 --> 01:22:26,756
- Moving in together,
2157
01:22:26,850 --> 01:22:30,093
I would hope that it will be
two lives merging together.
2158
01:22:30,112 --> 01:22:31,837
[knocks]
2159
01:22:31,855 --> 01:22:33,672
[upbeat music]
2160
01:22:33,765 --> 01:22:36,525
- [bleep] you.
- [laughs]
2161
01:22:36,619 --> 01:22:37,859
Hi, wife.
What's up?
2162
01:22:37,954 --> 01:22:40,529
Hi!
Oh, get in here!
2163
01:22:40,623 --> 01:22:43,031
- How do you feel about him?
- I have a crush on you.
2164
01:22:43,125 --> 01:22:45,684
♪ ♪
2165
01:22:45,703 --> 01:22:47,536
- You kiss him?
2166
01:22:47,688 --> 01:22:50,022
- Well, we haven't kissed,
so I need somebody to kiss me.
2167
01:22:50,040 --> 01:22:51,190
[dramatic music]
2168
01:22:51,283 --> 01:22:53,192
- Let's shower
before bed thing,
2169
01:22:53,285 --> 01:22:55,544
I'm not gonna do that.
- Okay.
2170
01:22:55,696 --> 01:22:58,973
I want to be real and I want to
make sure she's not blindsided.
2171
01:22:59,124 --> 01:23:02,034
After everything that happened,
I'm conflicted about us.
2172
01:23:02,127 --> 01:23:04,870
I plan on going home
after this.
2173
01:23:04,888 --> 01:23:07,206
♪ ♪
2174
01:23:07,224 --> 01:23:08,798
- I will be 100% real with you.
2175
01:23:08,818 --> 01:23:10,651
If that happens,
2176
01:23:10,878 --> 01:23:12,377
I am going
to ask for the divorce.
2177
01:23:12,396 --> 01:23:13,803
♪ ♪
2178
01:23:13,823 --> 01:23:16,657
- Wow.
2179
01:23:16,808 --> 01:23:18,492
- You never came back.
2180
01:23:18,643 --> 01:23:19,994
- I came back here
at, like, 9:15.
2181
01:23:20,145 --> 01:23:21,737
- You a [bleep] liar.
2182
01:23:21,889 --> 01:23:27,334
♪ ♪