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- Breathe.
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It's very risky
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To get married at first sight.
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[dramatic music]
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- Three days ago...
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- Hi, husband!
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- Ten singles took
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A brave leap of faith
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In order to find love.
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- Nice to meet you,
my soon to be wife.
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- They married
as complete strangers.
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- You may kiss your bride.
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[cheers and applause]
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♪ ♪
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- I am finally married.
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- [squeals]
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We're going
to the florida keys.
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I've never been.
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- ♪ I'll take you higher ♪
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- Last time, our five couples
left for their honeymoon.
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- Oh.
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- Florida.
- We are here.
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- Rachel and jose.
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- I don't know
that there's anything
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I wouldn't do with you.
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- You would go skydiving?
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- Um, I'd jump out
a plane for you, yes.
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- Aw, that's so sweet.
- I mean--
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- Every single point that I had
in regards to a checklist,
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She hits every single thing.
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I don't know if I'd take
a bullet for you, but...
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- ♪ I'll take you higher ♪
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- Bao and johnny.
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- Some of the kisses
that we've had
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Have signaled a lot to me
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In a positive light...
- Okay.
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- About how you might be
as a lover.
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[both laugh]
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- Brett and ryan.
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- You survived the flight.
- If I was by myself, though,
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It would've been way worse.
- Yeah, you were freaking out.
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Probably made a child cry.
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Brett is terrified of flying.
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I mean, if somebody acted
like that on a plane
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In a dating scenario,
I would've definitely
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Never been on a plane
with them again
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'cause I probably wouldn't
be dating 'em anymore.
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♪ ♪
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- Myrla and gil.
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- I think I'm very easy
to please.
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- Hm? Excuse me?
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I'm--hey, okay.
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- Are you saying
I'm high maintenance?
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- Absolutely.
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♪ ♪
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- Michaela and zack.
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- Oh, babe.
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This actually is,
like, super sweet.
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- ♪ oh ♪
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♪ who are you, who are you ♪
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- This is cool, huh?
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- I love it, I love it.
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- And tonight,
our couples are honeymooning
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At the beautiful
isla bella beach resort...
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- I feel like
I'm going to throw up.
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- And are continuing
to grow closer.
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- Five times.
- Five.
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♪ ♪
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- I think the more time
that I spend with you,
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The more that
I feel attracted to you.
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♪ ♪
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- So I woke up this morning
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By myself.
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- I would have kissed you
on the lips.
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- I am not like that
on day one with people.
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- Do you see that
ever happening?
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♪ ♪
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- I just want you
to know where I'm at.
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I really like you.
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I'm not really sure
how you feel about me.
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♪ ♪
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- I'm leaving my honeymoon,
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I'm leaving my husband,
and that [bleep] sucks.
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- ♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- This is
"married at first sight."
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- ♪ there's no other way ♪
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♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- ♪ it's a new day,
I'm up early ♪
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♪ just like the sun,
I'll be rising up ♪
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♪ like the sun
I'll be rising up ♪
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- Morning.
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- Oh, good morning
from honeymoon morning one.
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- We sent our newlyweds to
honeymoon in the florida keys.
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- Five times.
- Five.
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♪ ♪
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[laughs]
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- And though they've
only known each other
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For three days,
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It's important for them
to look forward
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To what their lives
are going to look like
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As husbands and wives.
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- How'd you sleep?
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- I slept good.
- Yeah?
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- I think you were snoring
and you were, like,
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Talking in your sleep.
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- You sure you
weren't dreaming?
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- And, like, I rolled--no.
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- It felt like
you was fighting.
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- For real?
- Because--
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- Shut--you're lying.
[both laughing]
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♪ ♪
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- How are you?
How'd you sleep?
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- I slept great.
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- With your wife?
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- With my gorgeous wife, yes.
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I feel like a married man.
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I feel like
a happy married man.
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- Aw.
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- Waking up next to
this wife of mine,
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I just have this euphoric
feeling about everything.
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It's just so great,
so natural.
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Exactly what I imagined
about being married to my wife.
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- I mean, last night,
I knocked out
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And I was
completely comfortable.
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- Our connection is there
because of the fact
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That we both already
know each other that well
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And each and every
single day is just--
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It's building and it's just--
it's incredible.
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- The last couple days,
we've just found out
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How similar we are,
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But I think we might need
to start trying to see
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How are we different?
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- Okay, so I can tell you
one thing off top.
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So you like your coffee,
like, straight black.
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- Uh-huh.
- I need creamer in my coffee.
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No, wait, coffee in my creamer.
However--
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- Yeah.
- So I drink mine so that way--
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I mean, and they're little--
they're little small things,
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But I know for a fact that you
like black coffee, so...
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- Yeah.
- That's why like, this morning
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I made my coffee, yes,
but then I also made yours
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And I know that you like it
just like that, so...
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- Well, okay,
so I could say this.
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Last night with the whole
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Brushing of the teeth thing.
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- I really wish--
can I brush your teeth?
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No? [laughs]
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- Unless you wanna get hit
with a toothbrush.
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- No.
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- You know,
I've noticed, too, you like
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Giving me food in my mouth.
- Uh-huh, uh-huh.
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[cheers and applause]
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♪ ♪
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- I'm not a little kid.
Like, don't feed me.
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- No, and that's
perfect though.
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- Don't brush my teeth.
Don't, you know, like--
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I guess the little independent
side of me comes out.
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- For me, on our wedding day,
like, we said vows,
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And so in that, I said that
I wanted to be your provider,
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I mean, and as your husband,
I want to make sure
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You're taken care of,
and so for me,
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That's just a way
of showing you
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That I wanna take care of you.
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- Immediately,
I feel conflicted.
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You would think
that's a dream come true
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For your husband to want that.
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But as someone who truly
values her independence,
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I feel a little bit of,
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"well, what's gonna be
my role in this marriage?"
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When I was really young,
my dad, he gave me,
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I think, which was
the best advice ever.
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He goes, "if you're
ever married, and say
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"you're a housewife or
something, you never know,
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One day he can wake up
and say 'I'm--I'm out.'"
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And I'm left out on the street
without an education,
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Without a job,
without anything.
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So he goes,
"before you get married,
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"you better make sure
you have your career
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"in case
that were to ever happen,
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You're not out on the street."
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I've never been
in a relationship with someone
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That's been so attentive
and has that provider feeling.
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It's always, like,
two independent people.
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And I see myself
as a very independent person,
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So it is an adjustment.
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- As a man, of course,
I want to take care of her.
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I just hope
that she lets me in
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And the trade-off is there.
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- I want you to feel like you
are providing and everything,
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But I want to put
my contribution
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Into this marriage as well.
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- ♪ I won't compromise ♪
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♪ keep my eyes
on greater heights ♪
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♪ do you wanna go with me? ♪
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[upbeat music]
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♪ ♪
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- We're both not
morning people.
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- You sleep okay though?
- I did.
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How about you?
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- I think I slept like a log
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Maybe seven hours out of
the total time I was sleeping,
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But I felt like we--we had
some visitors last night.
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[quirky music]
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Some small animals,
like, in our room.
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They were making noise
and, you know, so I woke up.
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I wanted to make sure
we were safe.
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But it was actually
just some snoring.
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- Damn it!
- [laughs]
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- You need to stop! You need--
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I have been told
that on occasion, I snore,
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And I have no control
over that.
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That is a personal
insecurity of mine.
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- Normally, snoring--
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Yeah, I'm a pretty
light sleeper.
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But I'm--
I'm getting used to it.
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Plus I have these headphones
on the side.
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I threw them on.
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- Did you really?
- Yeah.
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- Damn it, damn it.
- I threw 'em on.
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- This is what I do
when I travel with,
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You know, noisy...
- Animals?
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- Bedfellows.
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- Know what?
You need to stop right now.
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For the sake
of this relationship.
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- Okay, okay, all right.
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Are you still appreciating
this guy in the middle of us
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Or do you think maybe
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Tomorrow night we can
move him a little bit?
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- Well, maybe for your own good
we should have him here
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Because he muffles
the animals for you.
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- I mean, not really.
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It's like, you know, down here.
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- Shh!
[both laugh]
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- I am somebody
that really values sleep,
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And the snoring does bother me.
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But now that we're married,
I think this is gonna be
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One of those things
I have to get used to.
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I'm wondering how much
we should eat because,
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I don't know about you,
but we have a pool day, and...
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I haven't really
been working out
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So I'm a little nervous.
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- It's been a long time
since I remember
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The last time I've been seen
in a bathing suit.
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Something you should know.
- Okay.
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- Um, I collect bathing suits.
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- Like, you have way more
than you ever wear?
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- Yeah, probably 90% of them
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Have never seen
the light of day.
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[laughing]
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- What? What?
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That seems very unlike--
unlike you.
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- Okay, here's the thing.
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When I used to exercise more,
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I was confident more
in my body and...
255
00:09:45,477 --> 00:09:46,826
I like the way I look
in a bathing suit,
256
00:09:46,978 --> 00:09:50,480
But I don't wanna
show it off to the world.
257
00:09:50,498 --> 00:09:52,090
So like, it's almost like
258
00:09:52,317 --> 00:09:55,260
Practical lingerie for me.
Is that weird?
259
00:09:55,411 --> 00:09:56,669
- Are you wearing these
bathing suits at home
260
00:09:56,822 --> 00:09:58,746
And walking around in them?
- Sometimes.
261
00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:00,765
- What?
- Is that weird?
262
00:10:00,992 --> 00:10:03,084
- That is kind of weird.
- [laughing] okay.
263
00:10:03,103 --> 00:10:04,936
But you know, it's like,
lingerie,
264
00:10:05,163 --> 00:10:06,329
If you were to wear it
and walk around,
265
00:10:06,348 --> 00:10:07,439
Most people would just be like,
266
00:10:07,590 --> 00:10:09,090
"oh, that's fine,
she's confident.
267
00:10:09,184 --> 00:10:11,167
You know,
she embraces her sexuality."
268
00:10:11,186 --> 00:10:12,335
But I walk around in a bathing
suit and that's weird?
269
00:10:12,354 --> 00:10:13,837
Like, for me, it's like,
I'm walking around
270
00:10:13,930 --> 00:10:15,004
In a bathing suit,
and if I need to,
271
00:10:15,098 --> 00:10:17,115
I can jump in a pool
and I'm fine.
272
00:10:17,342 --> 00:10:19,008
I'm not going to jump
in a pool in a, like,
273
00:10:19,102 --> 00:10:20,677
Little baby doll
or something, you know?
274
00:10:20,695 --> 00:10:22,103
- Do you have
a pool at home though?
275
00:10:22,122 --> 00:10:26,124
- No, but I'm just saying,
hypothetically.
276
00:10:26,275 --> 00:10:27,200
- I don't know if you--you
probably haven't even see me
277
00:10:27,352 --> 00:10:28,534
Shirtless yet, but--
278
00:10:28,687 --> 00:10:30,128
- I think
I snuck a peek earlier.
279
00:10:30,355 --> 00:10:31,445
♪ ♪
280
00:10:31,539 --> 00:10:33,523
- I'm kind of scrawny.
I work out a little bit,
281
00:10:33,616 --> 00:10:34,691
But I don't even
really lift weights.
282
00:10:34,709 --> 00:10:36,951
- You're really lean,
but I dig that.
283
00:10:37,045 --> 00:10:38,211
- Yeah? Is that your body type?
284
00:10:38,305 --> 00:10:40,363
- Mm-hmm.
- Perfect.
285
00:10:40,382 --> 00:10:41,789
I've always looked
in the mirror
286
00:10:41,808 --> 00:10:42,641
And I've always thought
that I look like michael cera.
287
00:10:42,868 --> 00:10:45,201
[laughs]
288
00:10:45,294 --> 00:10:47,294
He's, like, just
a scrawny, awkward kid.
289
00:10:47,389 --> 00:10:49,147
But for her to tell me, like,
290
00:10:49,298 --> 00:10:51,040
"actually I think your body
is super attractive,"
291
00:10:51,059 --> 00:10:53,818
That affirmation does wonders
because now it feels like
292
00:10:54,045 --> 00:10:55,395
The physical attraction
isn't a one-way street.
293
00:10:55,547 --> 00:10:59,473
- The experts asked me, like,
what do I find attractive?
294
00:10:59,493 --> 00:11:01,234
And an example
of a celebrity or something
295
00:11:01,386 --> 00:11:01,734
And I said conan o'brien.
296
00:11:01,828 --> 00:11:05,330
- Conan?
297
00:11:05,481 --> 00:11:07,314
But me--conan and I
don't look anything alike.
298
00:11:07,409 --> 00:11:10,335
- No, you don't, but I like how
299
00:11:10,486 --> 00:11:13,413
He owns his, like, lankiness,
his awkwardness
300
00:11:13,507 --> 00:11:16,657
And it's part of his humor,
and honestly,
301
00:11:16,677 --> 00:11:17,583
He's my hall pass.
302
00:11:17,678 --> 00:11:19,493
I'm just gonna
tell you that now.
303
00:11:19,587 --> 00:11:20,586
- I like conan so much that
304
00:11:20,739 --> 00:11:22,405
I'd be okay with that.
- Oh, really?
305
00:11:22,424 --> 00:11:23,740
- He doesn't have to be
a hall pass.
306
00:11:23,833 --> 00:11:24,665
- You can share your wife?
- Go for it.
307
00:11:24,759 --> 00:11:27,018
- Yes, yes!
- If I can watch.
308
00:11:27,245 --> 00:11:28,244
- Oh.
309
00:11:28,263 --> 00:11:30,271
[both laughing]
310
00:11:35,754 --> 00:11:41,700
♪ ♪
311
00:11:41,927 --> 00:11:44,110
- All right,
breakfast is here.
312
00:11:44,262 --> 00:11:45,519
So we'll have breakfast in here
313
00:11:45,539 --> 00:11:47,354
'cause it's
a little humid outside.
314
00:11:47,374 --> 00:11:50,600
- It's the first day
of our honeymoon,
315
00:11:50,618 --> 00:11:51,692
And waking up to him
feels like--
316
00:11:51,712 --> 00:11:54,771
I can't say it's, like,
in a routine,
317
00:11:54,789 --> 00:11:56,272
But it feels pretty good.
318
00:11:56,291 --> 00:11:57,531
Like this is nice.
Not too shabby.
319
00:11:57,551 --> 00:11:59,217
Actually, it is
a little too shabby for myrla,
320
00:11:59,368 --> 00:12:01,386
But just don't include
that part.
321
00:12:03,131 --> 00:12:04,614
That's it?
322
00:12:04,632 --> 00:12:05,372
- What?
323
00:12:05,392 --> 00:12:09,135
- There's no protein here.
324
00:12:09,287 --> 00:12:10,562
- What we got? Fruits.
325
00:12:10,789 --> 00:12:13,139
- This big croissant
is breakfast?
326
00:12:13,233 --> 00:12:14,715
This is coffee?
327
00:12:14,809 --> 00:12:15,883
There's no milk though.
328
00:12:15,902 --> 00:12:16,901
- This not milk?
329
00:12:17,053 --> 00:12:19,128
- I don't know
what kind of milk it is.
330
00:12:19,147 --> 00:12:23,074
♪ ♪
331
00:12:23,226 --> 00:12:26,060
Wanna taste it and tell me
what kind of milk it is?
332
00:12:26,154 --> 00:12:27,078
- I wouldn't know.
333
00:12:27,305 --> 00:12:28,821
- You don't know
the difference between
334
00:12:28,974 --> 00:12:30,248
Almond milk and regular milk?
335
00:12:31,567 --> 00:12:33,918
- I think that's regular milk.
336
00:12:34,145 --> 00:12:36,237
- Yeah, we need
some almond milk.
337
00:12:36,256 --> 00:12:37,571
- My wife is very particular.
338
00:12:37,591 --> 00:12:40,817
- Good morning, ma'am.
I asked for some
339
00:12:40,835 --> 00:12:42,177
Frothed almond milk
with my breakfast.
340
00:12:44,580 --> 00:12:46,506
- I'm definitely
taking mental notes
341
00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:50,009
On the things that my wife
likes and doesn't like.
342
00:12:50,161 --> 00:12:51,494
The "doesn't like" list
is much longer
343
00:12:51,513 --> 00:12:54,255
Than the "likes" list.
344
00:12:54,274 --> 00:12:57,683
It's something I just gotta
work with day by day.
345
00:12:57,778 --> 00:12:58,835
All right.
346
00:12:58,928 --> 00:13:01,095
- This is, like,
the biggest croissant
347
00:13:01,189 --> 00:13:02,263
I've ever seen in my life.
348
00:13:02,282 --> 00:13:05,099
- I like croissants.
[laughs]
349
00:13:05,118 --> 00:13:06,201
What do you think
about your first day here?
350
00:13:09,030 --> 00:13:11,197
- Do you see that grass
with no beach?
351
00:13:11,349 --> 00:13:12,606
- The marsh?
- Marsh.
352
00:13:12,700 --> 00:13:14,793
- I saw the marsh.
353
00:13:15,020 --> 00:13:16,944
- So this does not feel
like a honeymoon.
354
00:13:17,038 --> 00:13:20,114
A honeymoon to me would
be, like, a beachfront resort,
355
00:13:20,133 --> 00:13:22,859
Not the senior citizen center
in florida.
356
00:13:22,952 --> 00:13:24,135
- You got all worlds
over there.
357
00:13:24,287 --> 00:13:25,970
You got the beach,
you got the--
358
00:13:26,197 --> 00:13:27,547
The little marsh jungle.
- That's not a beach.
359
00:13:27,699 --> 00:13:30,124
That's not a beach.
360
00:13:30,143 --> 00:13:31,868
- You know what you don't like.
361
00:13:31,886 --> 00:13:33,219
We just gotta enjoy it
for what it is.
362
00:13:33,313 --> 00:13:36,147
♪ ♪
363
00:13:36,299 --> 00:13:37,816
All right, well,
364
00:13:38,043 --> 00:13:40,318
I'm gonna go get ready.
- Okay.
365
00:13:40,469 --> 00:13:44,213
- I'm learning that my wife
has a very strong personality.
366
00:13:44,232 --> 00:13:47,066
She's a very nice person
and good-hearted,
367
00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:52,163
But she's not going to change
who she is for anybody.
368
00:13:52,315 --> 00:13:54,740
It makes me feel like that's
somebody that I can trust
369
00:13:54,893 --> 00:13:57,226
Because I know she's not fake.
370
00:13:57,320 --> 00:14:00,079
So on a scale of one to ten,
371
00:14:00,173 --> 00:14:01,339
How would you rate
372
00:14:01,490 --> 00:14:03,842
How happy you are?
373
00:14:03,993 --> 00:14:05,993
- That's a really
good question.
374
00:14:06,087 --> 00:14:09,922
I would say like an eight.
375
00:14:10,016 --> 00:14:12,851
You know, you have this idea
of what it's going to be.
376
00:14:13,002 --> 00:14:14,077
You know,
it's not exactly what--
377
00:14:14,170 --> 00:14:15,186
- Not all glitz and glamour?
378
00:14:15,413 --> 00:14:16,337
- You don't know
what it's gonna be.
379
00:14:16,431 --> 00:14:17,763
Yes, it's not
all glitz and glamour.
380
00:14:17,916 --> 00:14:19,265
- And of course, we all know--
381
00:14:19,417 --> 00:14:20,525
- We all know that I'm a little
bit of glitz and glamour.
382
00:14:20,676 --> 00:14:22,861
- You need glitz and glamour.
Yeah, for sure.
383
00:14:23,088 --> 00:14:24,845
- I don't think I need
glitz and glamour.
384
00:14:24,939 --> 00:14:27,198
- You don't think so?
- It's just a little different.
385
00:14:27,350 --> 00:14:28,758
- Okay, so, for me--
386
00:14:28,776 --> 00:14:30,426
- Of course, ten.
387
00:14:30,519 --> 00:14:32,929
- No, it's not ten.
Come on, man.
388
00:14:32,947 --> 00:14:34,447
- Well, I mean, every--
I'm just waiting for the day
389
00:14:34,541 --> 00:14:37,100
Where you're like,
"everything's not perfect."
390
00:14:37,193 --> 00:14:39,285
You complain
about nothing, like--
391
00:14:39,379 --> 00:14:41,379
- Because there's nothing
to complain about.
392
00:14:41,606 --> 00:14:43,030
- There's no one
that's just content with
393
00:14:43,049 --> 00:14:43,773
Every single thing, every day.
394
00:14:43,791 --> 00:14:46,885
- I mean, I'm content.
395
00:14:47,112 --> 00:14:50,054
I'm more excited
about just the marriage.
396
00:14:50,281 --> 00:14:51,890
- Okay.
- I'm so focused on trying
397
00:14:52,041 --> 00:14:53,391
To, like,
get to know you better.
398
00:14:53,618 --> 00:14:55,968
- But wouldn't it be nicer
to get to know me
399
00:14:56,121 --> 00:14:57,228
If we were laying on the beach?
400
00:14:57,455 --> 00:14:59,397
- No.
401
00:14:59,624 --> 00:15:01,882
- I think if you put him
in the desert,
402
00:15:01,902 --> 00:15:04,051
He'd probably be happy
with the view.
403
00:15:04,070 --> 00:15:06,053
That is where we are different.
404
00:15:06,072 --> 00:15:07,647
I'm a whiner.
405
00:15:07,741 --> 00:15:09,465
Yes, I whine.
406
00:15:09,484 --> 00:15:11,910
And it's a good thing
to know that
407
00:15:12,061 --> 00:15:14,245
He's such a laid-back person
and easygoing.
408
00:15:14,472 --> 00:15:15,062
Hopefully,
we don't see him explode
409
00:15:15,156 --> 00:15:16,730
At some point throughout.
410
00:15:16,824 --> 00:15:20,476
- I'm sure if it was like
a red carpet out to the beach.
411
00:15:20,569 --> 00:15:22,311
- No, I don't even need
a red carpet.
412
00:15:22,405 --> 00:15:24,238
- You need it a certain way.
413
00:15:24,257 --> 00:15:24,905
- I don't need it
a certain way though.
414
00:15:24,999 --> 00:15:27,166
I just want the beach.
415
00:15:27,260 --> 00:15:29,093
- Let's say it's a perfect
white sandy beach
416
00:15:29,245 --> 00:15:30,336
Exactly like you want it.
- Lovely. Nothing to complain--
417
00:15:30,430 --> 00:15:33,839
- You wouldn't say anything
about this place?
418
00:15:33,992 --> 00:15:35,600
- I surely would.
- Exactly.
419
00:15:35,751 --> 00:15:38,661
- You're making it seem like
I'm the debbie downer.
420
00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:42,941
- Well, the thing--
okay, you're not a karen.
421
00:15:43,168 --> 00:15:45,518
- Oh, how dare you.
- I said you're not.
422
00:15:45,670 --> 00:15:49,280
- It should not even be in the
same sentence though, like--
423
00:15:49,432 --> 00:15:50,782
- As long as you don't take it
that far, we good.
424
00:15:53,286 --> 00:15:55,602
- ♪ things are looking up,
no turning back ♪
425
00:15:55,622 --> 00:15:57,530
♪ this road's going one way ♪
426
00:15:57,682 --> 00:16:01,867
♪ I'm on the right track ♪
427
00:16:02,020 --> 00:16:04,187
- Finally got some sleep.
- I know.
428
00:16:04,205 --> 00:16:06,022
I feel like you got a new wife.
There was one lady yesterday
429
00:16:06,115 --> 00:16:07,523
And you got a new one today
430
00:16:07,542 --> 00:16:09,467
'cause I feel like
a million bucks today.
431
00:16:09,618 --> 00:16:10,468
- I'm very excited
about having a chill day,
432
00:16:10,619 --> 00:16:13,212
Which was
not the case yesterday.
433
00:16:13,306 --> 00:16:16,032
I learned that she's
not great with airplanes.
434
00:16:16,050 --> 00:16:17,883
And so that was
kind of concerning to me.
435
00:16:18,036 --> 00:16:19,035
But waking up this morning,
436
00:16:19,053 --> 00:16:22,205
I'm trying to let it go
and move on.
437
00:16:22,223 --> 00:16:23,889
So what's the plans today?
438
00:16:23,984 --> 00:16:26,484
- I think we definitely
need to hit the pool.
439
00:16:26,711 --> 00:16:27,634
I need you to slather me
in sunscreen.
440
00:16:27,729 --> 00:16:31,380
- Might take more than me.
441
00:16:31,399 --> 00:16:33,899
It's going to be a lot...
442
00:16:33,994 --> 00:16:35,384
Lot of sunscreen.
443
00:16:35,403 --> 00:16:37,161
- Everybody needs to pitch in?
- Yeah.
444
00:16:37,388 --> 00:16:39,905
- That's a big perk
of having a husband.
445
00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:41,574
I got someone
to put sunscreen on me now.
446
00:16:41,668 --> 00:16:43,409
- Massive win for you.
447
00:16:43,503 --> 00:16:45,911
- I'm winning all day.
448
00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:48,731
So I'm excited to have
our first dinner, like,
449
00:16:48,750 --> 00:16:50,750
As a couple.
- Married, married couple.
450
00:16:50,844 --> 00:16:54,253
It's like our first date, but
it's our first married date.
451
00:16:54,347 --> 00:16:56,756
- When was your last first date
and what was it?
452
00:16:56,908 --> 00:16:58,424
- My last first date was
453
00:16:58,576 --> 00:16:59,166
Probably two years ago.
- Yeah.
454
00:16:59,185 --> 00:17:01,001
- And it was at a bar.
455
00:17:01,021 --> 00:17:02,411
- Sounds like
an awesome first date.
456
00:17:02,430 --> 00:17:04,263
- You know?
I feel like that's usually
457
00:17:04,415 --> 00:17:05,523
What my first dates are like.
458
00:17:05,674 --> 00:17:09,009
- Sorry they didn't work out.
- You're welcome.
459
00:17:09,029 --> 00:17:10,511
- He maybe shouldn't
have taken you to a bar.
460
00:17:10,530 --> 00:17:13,031
- Where would you take me
on a first date?
461
00:17:13,182 --> 00:17:15,366
- So we would go to my
restaurant spot of choice.
462
00:17:15,518 --> 00:17:17,184
There.
- Okay.
463
00:17:17,203 --> 00:17:17,851
- They would make you
believe that I'm important,
464
00:17:17,871 --> 00:17:20,596
Even though I'm not.
465
00:17:20,615 --> 00:17:21,614
And then you'd decide
if I was a cocky [bleep]
466
00:17:21,766 --> 00:17:24,283
And we get a second date.
467
00:17:24,435 --> 00:17:25,359
I think I'd get a second date.
468
00:17:25,453 --> 00:17:26,711
- You do?
- Uh-huh.
469
00:17:28,106 --> 00:17:31,031
Maybe.
- [laughs]
470
00:17:31,051 --> 00:17:32,275
I think when
you're a new couple,
471
00:17:32,368 --> 00:17:34,218
Like, even if you're dating
and you're just
472
00:17:34,445 --> 00:17:36,387
Out in the regular world,
there's kinda like
473
00:17:36,614 --> 00:17:39,039
This, like, defining date
that you have
474
00:17:39,059 --> 00:17:41,133
Where you go home
and you're like,
475
00:17:41,286 --> 00:17:42,451
"I really, really like them."
476
00:17:42,545 --> 00:17:45,454
Time to get ready?
Okay, let's go.
477
00:17:45,473 --> 00:17:48,307
And so I'm looking forward
to that feeling and just
478
00:17:48,459 --> 00:17:51,069
Definitely looking forward
to a breakthrough conversation
479
00:17:51,296 --> 00:17:52,962
About, like,
who we are as people
480
00:17:52,980 --> 00:17:54,463
And what our hearts
really want
481
00:17:54,482 --> 00:17:56,390
And what we think
about each other
482
00:17:56,409 --> 00:17:57,575
Without joking and
without playing it lightly.
483
00:17:57,802 --> 00:18:00,394
You know, actually
really discuss it
484
00:18:00,413 --> 00:18:01,895
'cause we haven't
really done that yet.
485
00:18:01,915 --> 00:18:04,749
[upbeat music]
486
00:18:04,976 --> 00:18:06,233
♪ ♪
487
00:18:06,252 --> 00:18:07,643
- Gonna have a ring tan.
First time ever.
488
00:18:07,736 --> 00:18:10,146
- There's a lot of firsts.
489
00:18:10,164 --> 00:18:12,239
- Never had a wifey bag
or a ring tan.
490
00:18:12,333 --> 00:18:14,408
- Or a wife.
- Or a wife.
491
00:18:14,502 --> 00:18:17,095
- Marrying a complete stranger
is a unique experience
492
00:18:17,246 --> 00:18:19,263
That few people
ever go through.
493
00:18:19,490 --> 00:18:21,657
- Hi!
- Hey, welcome to our pool.
494
00:18:21,676 --> 00:18:23,250
- Ah, is this your
personal pool here?
495
00:18:23,269 --> 00:18:24,660
- We'll share.
496
00:18:24,753 --> 00:18:26,512
- So it's important
for our couples
497
00:18:26,606 --> 00:18:28,272
To build a support system
with each other
498
00:18:28,424 --> 00:18:29,756
And discuss their experiences
as newlyweds.
499
00:18:29,776 --> 00:18:31,851
It can be helpful
to lean on each other
500
00:18:31,945 --> 00:18:34,695
In these early stages
of their marriages.
501
00:18:35,764 --> 00:18:38,098
- Hey, hey, hey.
- We got another.
502
00:18:38,118 --> 00:18:39,784
- What's happening?
Y'all having a party?
503
00:18:39,935 --> 00:18:41,953
What up, bro?
- Absolutely, man.
504
00:18:42,180 --> 00:18:43,012
- What's happening?
How you been?
505
00:18:43,030 --> 00:18:43,955
- I'm good, man.
Good to see you.
506
00:18:44,182 --> 00:18:45,531
- Hey, what's happening?
- How are you?
507
00:18:45,625 --> 00:18:46,866
- Good, who we got here?
508
00:18:47,018 --> 00:18:48,275
Hey.
- This is brett.
509
00:18:48,294 --> 00:18:49,610
- I'm brett.
- Gil, nice to meet you.
510
00:18:49,629 --> 00:18:50,686
- Gil, nice to meet you.
- Brett.
511
00:18:50,779 --> 00:18:52,463
- And then this
is my wife, rachel.
512
00:18:52,690 --> 00:18:54,114
- Hi.
- Rachel, nice to meet you.
513
00:18:54,208 --> 00:18:55,782
My wife is doing
some work stuff.
514
00:18:55,802 --> 00:18:58,970
- Who is your wife?
We might know her.
515
00:18:59,197 --> 00:19:01,288
- Yeah.
- My wife is named myrla.
516
00:19:01,307 --> 00:19:03,215
- Myrla.
- Myrla!
517
00:19:03,368 --> 00:19:04,700
- We know her.
- Yes, yes.
518
00:19:04,793 --> 00:19:06,293
- You got a giant smile
on your face.
519
00:19:06,312 --> 00:19:07,478
- That's what I was gonna say.
520
00:19:07,705 --> 00:19:08,795
- Yeah,
the little kool-aid smile.
521
00:19:08,890 --> 00:19:10,206
- So it looks like
everything's great, right?
522
00:19:10,299 --> 00:19:12,041
How do you--how you--
- yeah, everything is cool.
523
00:19:12,134 --> 00:19:13,300
We're getting along
pretty well.
524
00:19:13,394 --> 00:19:14,635
We just taking it slow.
525
00:19:14,729 --> 00:19:15,486
- Yeah.
- We're good.
526
00:19:15,638 --> 00:19:17,062
What's--what's up with y'all?
527
00:19:17,215 --> 00:19:18,489
- As far as, like,
taking it slow
528
00:19:18,716 --> 00:19:21,066
And feeling each other out,
I feel like
529
00:19:21,219 --> 00:19:22,493
At least that's how I operate.
530
00:19:22,645 --> 00:19:24,311
- We're still splitting
bathrooms at this point.
531
00:19:24,330 --> 00:19:25,571
- Definitely splitting
the bathroom.
532
00:19:25,723 --> 00:19:27,665
- Well, that's a must because,
533
00:19:27,816 --> 00:19:30,668
Like myrla, she has, like,
tons of stuff and I'm like...
534
00:19:30,895 --> 00:19:32,503
- I went in there
to brush my teeth this morning.
535
00:19:32,655 --> 00:19:34,505
I was like, "nope."
536
00:19:34,657 --> 00:19:35,840
- My expectations
were exceeded.
537
00:19:36,067 --> 00:19:38,659
- Okay.
- Like, and I had expectations.
538
00:19:38,678 --> 00:19:41,570
I was like, "I know exactly
what I want to happen."
539
00:19:41,589 --> 00:19:42,922
And it's been, like,
through the roof.
540
00:19:43,016 --> 00:19:45,666
I was like, "oh, my god."
- that's funny because
541
00:19:45,685 --> 00:19:47,760
My man over here
had a laundry list...
542
00:19:47,912 --> 00:19:50,429
- Right, right, that's right.
- Of expectations as well.
543
00:19:50,581 --> 00:19:52,581
- I want her to be
simple, classy, humble,
544
00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:54,692
No ig model.
545
00:19:54,843 --> 00:19:57,177
You know, active, work out,
be a little bit fit.
546
00:19:57,197 --> 00:19:59,438
- Sounds kind of picky though.
547
00:19:59,590 --> 00:20:01,848
- So the fact that y'all both
had, like, these long lists
548
00:20:01,868 --> 00:20:03,776
And it's worked out?
- It's crazy, bro.
549
00:20:03,870 --> 00:20:06,520
- That's rare.
550
00:20:06,539 --> 00:20:08,188
- Hi!
- Hello.
551
00:20:08,282 --> 00:20:09,932
- What's up?
- Hey, what's up?
552
00:20:09,951 --> 00:20:11,617
- This is my wife, bao.
553
00:20:11,711 --> 00:20:13,619
- Bao, nice to meet you.
554
00:20:13,713 --> 00:20:15,120
- Me and johnny, you know,
we already have
555
00:20:15,215 --> 00:20:16,605
Somewhat of a bromance
going on, right, so...
556
00:20:16,699 --> 00:20:18,290
What's up, man? You all right?
557
00:20:18,384 --> 00:20:20,459
Great dude, and it's my hope
that the experts
558
00:20:20,611 --> 00:20:21,777
Have hopefully matched someone
that's right for him.
559
00:20:21,796 --> 00:20:24,780
- Cheers.
- Cheers. Salud.
560
00:20:24,799 --> 00:20:26,057
- Super excited
to get to know them
561
00:20:26,284 --> 00:20:27,783
On a different level and just,
you know, have some fun.
562
00:20:27,802 --> 00:20:29,060
- I'm glad y'all made it.
563
00:20:29,287 --> 00:20:32,212
- I feel like we're
definitely missing some people.
564
00:20:32,232 --> 00:20:34,139
- Where's zack?
Where's our fifth?
565
00:20:34,234 --> 00:20:35,307
- I haven't seen him
since I've been here.
566
00:20:35,401 --> 00:20:37,884
- So it must be
zack and michaela then,
567
00:20:37,904 --> 00:20:41,221
The only two left.
- Yeah, I've only saw zack once
568
00:20:41,315 --> 00:20:42,055
Since this whole thing.
569
00:20:42,149 --> 00:20:44,316
- So nobody knows anything.
570
00:20:44,410 --> 00:20:45,743
[dramatic music]
571
00:20:45,970 --> 00:20:47,803
Like are they--
are they together?
572
00:20:47,822 --> 00:20:50,081
♪ ♪
573
00:20:54,645 --> 00:20:59,164
♪ ♪
574
00:20:59,317 --> 00:21:01,408
- So zack and I decided
575
00:21:01,427 --> 00:21:07,080
To sleep in separate bedrooms
576
00:21:07,174 --> 00:21:10,175
Because he's really
not feeling well.
577
00:21:10,270 --> 00:21:13,938
And so I woke up this morning
578
00:21:14,089 --> 00:21:14,830
By myself.
579
00:21:14,923 --> 00:21:18,684
- Still laying in the bed.
580
00:21:18,836 --> 00:21:21,445
I'm just--I feel really bad.
581
00:21:21,672 --> 00:21:24,690
I feel really sick,
really exhausted, tired.
582
00:21:24,784 --> 00:21:27,118
I have, like, chills.
583
00:21:27,345 --> 00:21:29,453
So I really think
I have a fever.
584
00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:32,197
I also haven't really
eaten or slept a lot
585
00:21:32,292 --> 00:21:35,017
In the last five days,
586
00:21:35,036 --> 00:21:37,944
So that could also
play a part in it.
587
00:21:37,964 --> 00:21:40,189
I'm just, you know, exhausted.
588
00:21:40,207 --> 00:21:42,358
♪ ♪
589
00:21:42,376 --> 00:21:44,693
[upbeat music]
590
00:21:44,712 --> 00:21:48,197
- So any first kisses already?
Any--
591
00:21:48,290 --> 00:21:49,473
- We had two first kisses
at the altar.
592
00:21:49,700 --> 00:21:50,791
- We did.
- Yeah?
593
00:21:50,885 --> 00:21:52,034
- Yeah.
- Okay.
594
00:21:52,053 --> 00:21:53,035
- We haven't kissed yet.
We're not there.
595
00:21:53,054 --> 00:21:54,795
No, just kidding.
596
00:21:54,814 --> 00:21:57,982
- I love rachel and jose.
They're really fun.
597
00:21:58,133 --> 00:21:59,892
You can tell that they
know how to have a good time
598
00:22:00,044 --> 00:22:01,485
And really outgoing.
599
00:22:01,712 --> 00:22:03,487
- I can't keep my hands
off this woman, like...
600
00:22:03,714 --> 00:22:05,656
- Oh, yeah, I know.
- Oh, they proved it.
601
00:22:05,883 --> 00:22:07,900
- They're very affectionate.
- Yeah, they are.
602
00:22:08,052 --> 00:22:11,554
- ♪ you make me go ooh,
ooh, ooh, ahh ♪
603
00:22:11,572 --> 00:22:12,979
♪ ♪
604
00:22:12,999 --> 00:22:14,406
- Good for them, though.
605
00:22:14,559 --> 00:22:16,000
- Yeah.
606
00:22:16,151 --> 00:22:18,151
- I think we're on one million.
I don't know.
607
00:22:18,245 --> 00:22:19,986
- Okay, that's cool.
608
00:22:20,081 --> 00:22:21,505
Did y'all kiss?
609
00:22:21,657 --> 00:22:22,731
- At the altar we did.
- We kissed at the altar.
610
00:22:22,750 --> 00:22:25,009
- And we've kissed
many a time since.
611
00:22:25,236 --> 00:22:26,735
- Okay, let's define kiss.
[laughter]
612
00:22:26,829 --> 00:22:30,239
I'm talking, like,
tonsil hockey type.
613
00:22:30,332 --> 00:22:32,074
- Ooh!
- You know what I mean?
614
00:22:32,093 --> 00:22:34,259
Like I'm talking about
novella-type kissing.
615
00:22:34,412 --> 00:22:35,186
- Yeah.
- You know what I mean?
616
00:22:35,337 --> 00:22:37,021
- I'm gonna say hard yes
for them.
617
00:22:37,248 --> 00:22:39,190
- Oh, definite hard yes
for them.
618
00:22:39,341 --> 00:22:41,359
- Absolutely, all my chips
in for them.
619
00:22:41,510 --> 00:22:43,586
- We're on that team as well.
- Okay, cool, cool.
620
00:22:43,604 --> 00:22:45,011
Y'all there?
- Yeah, I need, like, a visual.
621
00:22:45,106 --> 00:22:46,088
Can y'all, like, reenact?
622
00:22:46,107 --> 00:22:47,031
- Yeah.
- They will.
623
00:22:47,182 --> 00:22:49,182
- I mean, we will. Like...
624
00:22:49,202 --> 00:22:50,442
- He's already wetting
his lips over here.
625
00:22:50,536 --> 00:22:51,702
[all speaking at once]
626
00:22:51,929 --> 00:22:54,020
- It's easy.
627
00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:55,373
- Oh, there we go.
- Oh, yeah!
628
00:22:55,524 --> 00:22:56,374
- That's
what we're talking about.
629
00:22:56,525 --> 00:22:59,101
- Oh, my god.
630
00:22:59,194 --> 00:23:00,026
- That's what
we're talking about.
631
00:23:00,121 --> 00:23:02,046
- Yes.
- Oh, yes.
632
00:23:02,273 --> 00:23:03,122
- Okay.
633
00:23:03,216 --> 00:23:04,030
- What about you guys?
634
00:23:04,125 --> 00:23:05,958
- We actually haven't kissed.
635
00:23:06,110 --> 00:23:07,718
♪ ♪
636
00:23:07,945 --> 00:23:10,370
- Really?
637
00:23:10,390 --> 00:23:11,055
- Just cheek.
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
638
00:23:11,206 --> 00:23:13,282
- I specifically remember
639
00:23:13,300 --> 00:23:15,618
Her saying
when we were talking about
640
00:23:15,711 --> 00:23:17,210
If we wanted to kiss
at the altar,
641
00:23:17,230 --> 00:23:19,212
Her saying, "oh, no, not me."
642
00:23:19,232 --> 00:23:20,398
- Myrla, yeah.
643
00:23:20,625 --> 00:23:23,383
She--she knew it was
gonna be a cheek, yeah.
644
00:23:23,477 --> 00:23:27,405
- So she can be particular.
645
00:23:27,632 --> 00:23:30,649
- In my situation,
if I was with someone
646
00:23:30,743 --> 00:23:32,301
That I'm having
a very strong connection with,
647
00:23:32,394 --> 00:23:35,913
That I'm attracted to and
I haven't shared a kiss with,
648
00:23:36,140 --> 00:23:39,308
I would be
extremely disappointed
649
00:23:39,326 --> 00:23:42,311
And kind of start to feel
a slight sense of rejection.
650
00:23:42,329 --> 00:23:43,236
- Yo, what do you mean by
651
00:23:43,330 --> 00:23:45,589
Your wife
is a particular person?
652
00:23:45,741 --> 00:23:48,259
- So she likes
the finer things in life,
653
00:23:48,486 --> 00:23:50,744
Which I don't knock it.
It is what it is.
654
00:23:50,763 --> 00:23:52,263
But she's--you know,
like this place.
655
00:23:52,490 --> 00:23:53,656
What do y'all think
about this place?
656
00:23:53,749 --> 00:23:54,581
- I like this place a lot.
- I love it.
657
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,249
- Okay.
- I think it's nice.
658
00:23:56,343 --> 00:23:58,602
- Okay, that's what I said.
659
00:23:58,829 --> 00:24:02,088
If she was here, and I'm not
putting words in her mouth,
660
00:24:02,183 --> 00:24:03,666
This is a retirement home.
661
00:24:03,759 --> 00:24:04,683
This is an old folks home,
right?
662
00:24:04,777 --> 00:24:07,686
So that's what I mean.
663
00:24:07,838 --> 00:24:09,429
Like, she's particular
about certain things,
664
00:24:09,449 --> 00:24:10,339
And she's very vocal about it.
665
00:24:10,357 --> 00:24:11,857
Like, I might be opinionated,
666
00:24:11,951 --> 00:24:13,859
But I handle things
a little differently.
667
00:24:14,011 --> 00:24:16,361
You know,
she'll throw her little tantrum
668
00:24:16,514 --> 00:24:17,938
If she gets cranky
because she didn't eat
669
00:24:18,032 --> 00:24:20,182
Or she didn't sleep.
670
00:24:20,275 --> 00:24:22,126
And for me,
I treat it like a toddler.
671
00:24:22,277 --> 00:24:25,688
[laughter]
672
00:24:25,781 --> 00:24:27,706
You know, they gonna tire
themself out eventually.
673
00:24:27,858 --> 00:24:30,025
So I just wait it out and
then--or feed her
674
00:24:30,044 --> 00:24:31,877
And then we good.
675
00:24:32,029 --> 00:24:35,956
- I need her to come
down here right now.
676
00:24:36,050 --> 00:24:38,217
- As I'm hearing the tantrums
thing, I'm kinda like,
677
00:24:38,311 --> 00:24:39,885
"mm, okay, that's something
that seems a little private."
678
00:24:40,037 --> 00:24:43,129
- Kinda feel like
if myrla found out
679
00:24:43,149 --> 00:24:44,707
Some of the things
that he said
680
00:24:44,725 --> 00:24:45,966
And phrased in the way
that he said it
681
00:24:46,060 --> 00:24:47,318
That she'd probably have
some choice words for him.
682
00:24:48,062 --> 00:24:50,470
- Outside of the kissing,
683
00:24:50,564 --> 00:24:52,881
Has there been any intimacy?
684
00:24:52,975 --> 00:24:56,068
- [laughs]
685
00:24:56,162 --> 00:25:00,998
- Um, I mean, I think the
chemistry is great between us
686
00:25:01,225 --> 00:25:04,226
And it's just--I don't think
there's a timetable for it.
687
00:25:04,319 --> 00:25:06,152
I think it'll happen
when it happens.
688
00:25:06,172 --> 00:25:07,654
- I mean, I second that,
you know.
689
00:25:07,748 --> 00:25:09,173
It's--it's so early.
690
00:25:09,324 --> 00:25:10,232
At least for me,
to be comfortable
691
00:25:10,325 --> 00:25:12,735
To go down that road,
it's like,
692
00:25:12,753 --> 00:25:15,087
I want to have
an emotional connection.
693
00:25:15,181 --> 00:25:17,681
And for me, that's never
happened in three days.
694
00:25:17,908 --> 00:25:19,183
- I don't believe
in love at first sight.
695
00:25:19,410 --> 00:25:20,333
I feel like that's
more like lust at first sight.
696
00:25:20,353 --> 00:25:22,578
You can like somebody...
- It's lust.
697
00:25:22,671 --> 00:25:24,504
- But you not
gonna love somebody.
698
00:25:24,524 --> 00:25:27,191
- I can confirm you can get
married at first sight though.
699
00:25:27,418 --> 00:25:28,600
- Yeah, married at first sight
can happen.
700
00:25:28,753 --> 00:25:30,343
- You cannot be in love
at first sight.
701
00:25:30,363 --> 00:25:31,845
- Yeah.
- Right.
702
00:25:31,939 --> 00:25:34,347
- But on that note for us,
it's not--
703
00:25:34,441 --> 00:25:36,108
We didn't marry at first sight.
704
00:25:36,260 --> 00:25:38,277
♪ ♪
705
00:25:38,429 --> 00:25:40,929
We've known each other
for years.
706
00:25:41,023 --> 00:25:44,041
So when we saw each other
at the altar,
707
00:25:44,192 --> 00:25:48,270
It was just a jaw-drop moment.
Like, "I know him."
708
00:25:48,363 --> 00:25:49,696
- Hold on. Wait.
- That is not fair.
709
00:25:49,715 --> 00:25:50,789
- Why did you not start
with that?
710
00:25:50,941 --> 00:25:52,550
- Buried the lede here,
you know?
711
00:25:52,701 --> 00:25:54,443
- Oh, my god!
- Hold on, go back!
712
00:25:54,461 --> 00:25:56,445
- I met bao
while we were in college.
713
00:25:56,538 --> 00:25:57,279
We were running
student organizations
714
00:25:57,298 --> 00:25:59,390
At two different colleges.
715
00:25:59,617 --> 00:26:02,451
We did some
cross-collaboration events.
716
00:26:02,544 --> 00:26:04,136
- Whoa! That is crazy.
- What?
717
00:26:04,230 --> 00:26:06,622
- I knew her.
718
00:26:06,715 --> 00:26:08,791
- So apparently we went on a--
I think it was a "friend date."
719
00:26:08,884 --> 00:26:09,958
I could not tell 'cause he was
flirty, but then I didn't know.
720
00:26:09,977 --> 00:26:12,144
He didn't call me back.
721
00:26:12,238 --> 00:26:14,238
So I messaged him. I was like,
722
00:26:14,389 --> 00:26:16,298
"hey, the museum of fine arts
has this awesome exhibit.
723
00:26:16,391 --> 00:26:17,482
"I just need someone
to go with me.
724
00:26:17,635 --> 00:26:19,651
I hate going solo
to these things."
725
00:26:19,804 --> 00:26:21,394
Nothing, silence.
- Johnny, you did crickets?
726
00:26:21,414 --> 00:26:23,138
[all speaking at once]
727
00:26:23,231 --> 00:26:25,082
- Ghosted.
728
00:26:25,309 --> 00:26:27,643
- I am, like,
jaw on the floor.
729
00:26:27,736 --> 00:26:28,811
Like, I think
I just caught, like,
730
00:26:28,904 --> 00:26:29,995
A bunch of flies in my mouth.
I cannot--
731
00:26:30,089 --> 00:26:33,649
I can't believe that
they knew each other.
732
00:26:33,667 --> 00:26:34,483
- I love that
he was the reason
733
00:26:34,501 --> 00:26:36,318
That they didn't progress.
734
00:26:36,337 --> 00:26:37,094
So now I feel like
she has control.
735
00:26:37,245 --> 00:26:39,004
- Ooh, yeah.
- And he's gonna
736
00:26:39,098 --> 00:26:42,507
Have to pay for that,
I think, eventually.
737
00:26:42,602 --> 00:26:44,660
- That's a good point.
738
00:26:44,753 --> 00:26:47,104
- Feel like we already
have, like, this basis.
739
00:26:47,331 --> 00:26:48,254
We're not strangers.
740
00:26:48,349 --> 00:26:49,331
We kinda know a little bit--
741
00:26:49,424 --> 00:26:50,590
A little bit about each other,
742
00:26:50,684 --> 00:26:53,259
But we don't know each other as
743
00:26:53,354 --> 00:26:54,778
Husband and wife, as lovers.
744
00:26:54,930 --> 00:26:56,505
- Plus, it's been so long.
- Yeah.
745
00:26:56,523 --> 00:26:58,006
- I'm sure you've changed
since then.
746
00:26:58,100 --> 00:26:59,007
- We've changed,
and on top of that,
747
00:26:59,026 --> 00:27:01,677
We were never romantic.
748
00:27:01,770 --> 00:27:03,120
You know, like we went on a--
749
00:27:03,347 --> 00:27:04,788
What felt like
it was a friend date.
750
00:27:04,940 --> 00:27:05,939
It might've turned
into something else
751
00:27:06,033 --> 00:27:07,532
If she told me,
like, she was into me,
752
00:27:07,627 --> 00:27:08,533
But she didn't tell me that.
- Well, maybe if someone
753
00:27:08,628 --> 00:27:10,294
Gave me clearer signals.
754
00:27:10,521 --> 00:27:11,370
- Maybe if you went
to the museum, johnny.
755
00:27:11,522 --> 00:27:12,354
- Maybe if you didn't
ghost her.
756
00:27:12,373 --> 00:27:13,631
- Oh, no. Oh, no. Oh, no.
757
00:27:13,782 --> 00:27:15,858
- That's just the difference
between men and women.
758
00:27:15,951 --> 00:27:17,117
You need to clearly say
"I like you."
759
00:27:17,136 --> 00:27:18,952
- Yeah, if she
had just told me.
760
00:27:19,046 --> 00:27:22,881
- I can't do that.
[laughter]
761
00:27:22,975 --> 00:27:25,142
- So obviously communication's
something we're working on.
762
00:27:25,293 --> 00:27:27,552
[laughter]
763
00:27:27,647 --> 00:27:28,628
- Let's get in the pool.
764
00:27:28,722 --> 00:27:30,389
- I am sweating.
- I'm melting.
765
00:27:30,483 --> 00:27:31,631
- Let's do it.
766
00:27:31,725 --> 00:27:35,635
[upbeat music]
767
00:27:35,729 --> 00:27:37,154
- Being in my bathing suit
768
00:27:37,381 --> 00:27:39,823
For the first time
around anybody,
769
00:27:40,050 --> 00:27:43,327
I typically have some
insecurities with that.
770
00:27:43,554 --> 00:27:44,477
So I kind of picked, like,
my favorite bathing suit
771
00:27:44,497 --> 00:27:45,287
To start with.
772
00:27:46,573 --> 00:27:47,814
- Whoo!
773
00:27:47,833 --> 00:27:49,574
Ryan's in really good shape,
774
00:27:49,727 --> 00:27:51,835
So I want him to think that I
look good in my bathing suit.
775
00:27:52,062 --> 00:27:54,897
Oh, baby!
776
00:27:54,990 --> 00:27:57,566
- What are you doing?
[laughter]
777
00:27:57,584 --> 00:28:00,402
♪ ♪
778
00:28:00,421 --> 00:28:02,404
- Can you spread it for me?
- Yeah.
779
00:28:02,423 --> 00:28:05,182
- Ooh. Whoa, whoa, whoa.
All right, all right.
780
00:28:05,409 --> 00:28:08,835
My wife, you know,
she's got a great figure.
781
00:28:08,854 --> 00:28:11,079
Whoa.
782
00:28:11,098 --> 00:28:14,082
I have to, like, kind of
focus on what she's saying
783
00:28:14,101 --> 00:28:16,193
Because I am just looking
at that ass.
784
00:28:16,344 --> 00:28:16,935
- [laughs]
785
00:28:17,087 --> 00:28:19,087
I think you got it.
786
00:28:19,181 --> 00:28:22,441
- And she has got a great ass.
787
00:28:22,593 --> 00:28:25,427
♪ ♪
788
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,037
- So this is myrla's
stunt double.
789
00:28:27,264 --> 00:28:29,948
She is coming in for her
while she's not here.
790
00:28:30,100 --> 00:28:32,284
She's her stand-in.
791
00:28:32,436 --> 00:28:34,937
She was very sociable.
792
00:28:34,955 --> 00:28:36,955
She was tossed around
a little bit,
793
00:28:37,107 --> 00:28:38,106
But she has enjoyed herself.
794
00:28:38,125 --> 00:28:39,942
We all going through
the same thing,
795
00:28:40,035 --> 00:28:41,868
So to know that we have
somebody to confide in
796
00:28:41,887 --> 00:28:43,111
If things do get
a little rough.
797
00:28:43,205 --> 00:28:44,446
- Like, I'm having
a really good time.
798
00:28:44,539 --> 00:28:46,631
- Me, too.
- Exactly, exactly.
799
00:28:46,784 --> 00:28:47,540
- My wife's high maintenance.
It's cool.
800
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:49,618
But she's having a great time.
801
00:28:49,711 --> 00:28:51,228
[laughter]
802
00:28:55,401 --> 00:29:00,053
♪ ♪
803
00:29:00,072 --> 00:29:03,056
- So I just found out
I tested positive for covid.
804
00:29:03,075 --> 00:29:05,133
Michaela's negative,
which I'm happy about,
805
00:29:05,227 --> 00:29:09,562
But she's obviously
not excited.
806
00:29:09,582 --> 00:29:11,990
- I'm so annoyed, zachary.
- I know, I know.
807
00:29:12,142 --> 00:29:13,917
But listen, I did not--
I did not plan this.
808
00:29:14,069 --> 00:29:15,477
I did not want this.
This is not my--
809
00:29:15,570 --> 00:29:17,921
- Are you [bleep] kidding me?
810
00:29:18,148 --> 00:29:19,256
Do you know how many
outfits and swimsuits
811
00:29:19,483 --> 00:29:20,332
And everything else
that I had for you?
812
00:29:20,426 --> 00:29:23,819
- I know, I know.
813
00:29:23,837 --> 00:29:25,170
I personally, like,
I'm not going to be by you.
814
00:29:25,322 --> 00:29:27,580
I mentally
cannot be next to you.
815
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:29,266
I just--
816
00:29:29,493 --> 00:29:31,435
- I'm sorry, I know
but I'd rather you not--
817
00:29:31,586 --> 00:29:33,419
- I know, but I'd rather you be
on your honeymoon by yourself
818
00:29:33,514 --> 00:29:35,439
Than you have covid.
819
00:29:39,612 --> 00:29:41,853
I am married now
and I can't even have my man
820
00:29:41,947 --> 00:29:42,929
On my honeymoon.
821
00:29:43,023 --> 00:29:45,098
This is [bleep] up.
822
00:29:45,117 --> 00:29:48,601
I don't want
to leave my husband alone.
823
00:29:48,695 --> 00:29:50,270
Like, I'm not just here
824
00:29:50,289 --> 00:29:52,848
To have a good time
my lonesome.
825
00:29:52,941 --> 00:29:53,791
I'm here because
I want a husband,
826
00:29:53,942 --> 00:29:55,183
I want a relationship,
827
00:29:55,202 --> 00:29:58,111
And I wanted to live
the rest of my living days
828
00:29:58,130 --> 00:30:01,873
With a man
who wants to do it with me.
829
00:30:02,026 --> 00:30:04,376
♪ ♪
830
00:30:04,470 --> 00:30:07,212
[lively music]
831
00:30:07,306 --> 00:30:15,145
♪ ♪
832
00:30:15,297 --> 00:30:15,704
- Surprise,
we're going fishing.
833
00:30:15,797 --> 00:30:17,297
- No, what?
834
00:30:17,316 --> 00:30:19,799
- Yes.
- No.
835
00:30:19,819 --> 00:30:21,134
Oh my god, really?
836
00:30:21,153 --> 00:30:22,711
- Yes.
- Is this the boat or what?
837
00:30:22,729 --> 00:30:24,971
- This is it, yes.
[laughs]
838
00:30:24,990 --> 00:30:26,472
- Ah! That's amazing.
839
00:30:26,567 --> 00:30:29,159
I'm just super excited.
840
00:30:29,311 --> 00:30:31,403
I couldn't be any more happy
and just so pleased with--
841
00:30:31,497 --> 00:30:34,056
With her gesture and
what she wanted to do for me.
842
00:30:34,074 --> 00:30:35,240
Hopefully, fingers crossed,
843
00:30:35,392 --> 00:30:37,167
I get my catch of the day.
- Yes.
844
00:30:37,319 --> 00:30:38,910
- And then my catch
of the lifetime.
845
00:30:39,063 --> 00:30:40,671
- Stop.
846
00:30:40,822 --> 00:30:42,989
- I hope this is what I can
expect in the future.
847
00:30:43,008 --> 00:30:45,067
- I mean, so even though
it's my first time,
848
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:47,752
Like, I wanna catch
my own fish.
849
00:30:47,847 --> 00:30:50,589
- I want you to catch
your own fish, hell yeah.
850
00:30:50,741 --> 00:30:52,015
- I don't want
to be those, like,
851
00:30:52,167 --> 00:30:53,241
"america's funniest
home videos."
852
00:30:53,260 --> 00:30:55,410
- No, you're not.
853
00:30:55,503 --> 00:30:58,763
- I'm not trying
to be that person.
854
00:30:58,916 --> 00:31:00,340
Oh, my god, how exciting!
855
00:31:00,434 --> 00:31:02,767
- Love it, ready to go fishing?
856
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:05,011
- Yessir, baby, let's roll.
Let's roll!
857
00:31:05,030 --> 00:31:09,107
I'm so excited
that you chose to do this
858
00:31:09,259 --> 00:31:10,926
Because I truly
love and respect the fact
859
00:31:10,944 --> 00:31:11,851
That you already
know this much about me.
860
00:31:11,945 --> 00:31:13,686
- Jose has to go fishing
this trip.
861
00:31:13,780 --> 00:31:16,781
That's why I want you to
continue sharing what you like
862
00:31:16,934 --> 00:31:17,782
So I can pick up on things.
863
00:31:17,877 --> 00:31:20,043
So I'm like,
"okay, he likes this."
864
00:31:20,195 --> 00:31:22,212
So it gives me ideas.
865
00:31:22,439 --> 00:31:23,939
- I mean, this to me,
speaks volumes.
866
00:31:24,032 --> 00:31:25,883
Like, I love it.
- I'm so excited.
867
00:31:26,034 --> 00:31:27,718
- ♪ this could be
the start of something ♪
868
00:31:27,869 --> 00:31:32,297
- Full throttle!
Full throttle, I'm ready.
869
00:31:32,449 --> 00:31:35,875
This is cool, huh?
- I love it, I love it.
870
00:31:35,969 --> 00:31:37,394
You're so amazing.
871
00:31:37,545 --> 00:31:40,046
Whoo-whee!
872
00:31:40,140 --> 00:31:40,972
- ♪ we're tripping on life ♪
873
00:31:41,066 --> 00:31:42,399
- We're out here
deep sea fishing.
874
00:31:42,626 --> 00:31:44,067
Look at that,
you can't see, like,
875
00:31:44,219 --> 00:31:46,311
No land for miles.
876
00:31:46,405 --> 00:31:48,721
Look at that.
877
00:31:48,741 --> 00:31:49,907
- I always thought,
like, fishing,
878
00:31:50,134 --> 00:31:50,966
You were just
sitting in the boat
879
00:31:50,984 --> 00:31:52,058
And it's just, like, boring.
880
00:31:52,152 --> 00:31:52,968
- No, bae, no.
- Because you're
881
00:31:53,061 --> 00:31:54,986
Just, like, waiting.
- No.
882
00:31:55,139 --> 00:31:56,821
- Like I don't even know
how fishing works.
883
00:31:56,974 --> 00:31:58,081
- Right.
- It's something I'm gonna
884
00:31:58,308 --> 00:31:59,232
Be able to do
completely by myself?
885
00:31:59,251 --> 00:32:00,809
- And I'll help you
and show you.
886
00:32:00,827 --> 00:32:02,235
We're gonna get through it.
887
00:32:02,254 --> 00:32:04,146
We'll do whatever you--
whatever you want.
888
00:32:04,164 --> 00:32:05,589
- Actually, I wanna see--
889
00:32:05,740 --> 00:32:07,482
I wanna see if I can catch
one of those fishes.
890
00:32:07,575 --> 00:32:10,168
- I'll pop it right now.
Do you want to?
891
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:11,670
Do you want to do that?
- I don't know.
892
00:32:11,822 --> 00:32:13,579
I want to, but after trying,
893
00:32:13,599 --> 00:32:18,268
No, I don't know
how you just grab a fish.
894
00:32:18,495 --> 00:32:20,586
Oh, my god.
895
00:32:20,606 --> 00:32:25,776
Oh, my god, how do you
just grab a fish?
896
00:32:26,003 --> 00:32:29,020
Jose is an extremely
attentive husband.
897
00:32:29,173 --> 00:32:31,281
He wants to take care of me,
898
00:32:31,433 --> 00:32:34,934
And I have this pride in
wanting to take care of myself.
899
00:32:35,028 --> 00:32:37,788
But in this case, because
I've never done it before,
900
00:32:37,939 --> 00:32:39,698
I'm open
to accepting his help.
901
00:32:39,792 --> 00:32:41,458
It feels good.
902
00:32:41,609 --> 00:32:45,187
I want to grab one.
- Come on, baby.
903
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:46,204
- I got it, I got it!
- Yeah!
904
00:32:46,298 --> 00:32:48,465
- I got it, I got it!
- Okay, okay.
905
00:32:48,616 --> 00:32:52,118
- Oh, no, sorry.
906
00:32:52,137 --> 00:32:54,029
- Ready? Just,
like, throw the whole thing.
907
00:32:54,047 --> 00:32:56,031
Ready? Go.
908
00:32:56,124 --> 00:32:57,290
Beautiful.
- That was horrible.
909
00:32:57,309 --> 00:32:58,867
- Once it hits up top.
910
00:32:58,885 --> 00:33:01,219
For me, this means the world.
911
00:33:01,371 --> 00:33:04,389
- Oh, I got a fish!
912
00:33:04,483 --> 00:33:06,208
- Everything that
I'd asked for, it's all there.
913
00:33:06,226 --> 00:33:08,301
We're communicating.
Love and affection is there.
914
00:33:08,395 --> 00:33:09,987
The teamwork is there.
915
00:33:10,138 --> 00:33:13,048
- Oh, my god,
how insane is that?
916
00:33:13,066 --> 00:33:14,899
- It's exactly
what I thought and envisioned
917
00:33:15,052 --> 00:33:16,051
What a marriage would be like.
918
00:33:16,069 --> 00:33:18,144
And that's--that's what I love.
919
00:33:18,163 --> 00:33:20,146
- Oh, my god.
920
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:20,739
Touch it?
- Yeah.
921
00:33:20,891 --> 00:33:22,741
- Gnarly teeth.
922
00:33:22,893 --> 00:33:24,150
- Do you see the teeth?
923
00:33:24,169 --> 00:33:26,486
Look at the teeth on that.
- Oh, gross.
924
00:33:26,505 --> 00:33:28,913
- My wife's amazing.
Great surprise.
925
00:33:29,066 --> 00:33:31,082
- That was so cool.
926
00:33:31,235 --> 00:33:32,234
Oh, my god.
927
00:33:32,327 --> 00:33:34,011
- Couldn't be any happier.
- I'm glad.
928
00:33:34,238 --> 00:33:37,422
- Love it, love it, love it!
- I'm so glad.
929
00:33:37,516 --> 00:33:39,407
- I love it!
930
00:33:39,426 --> 00:33:42,686
[upbeat music]
931
00:33:42,913 --> 00:33:46,765
- ♪ I'ma put you
under my spell ♪
932
00:33:46,917 --> 00:33:50,343
♪ I'ma put you
under my spell, baby ♪
933
00:33:50,362 --> 00:33:52,345
- Even though our couples
are married
934
00:33:52,439 --> 00:33:53,438
And on their honeymoon,
935
00:33:53,590 --> 00:33:54,698
They are still
practically strangers.
936
00:33:54,849 --> 00:33:56,682
Our couples
need to use this time
937
00:33:56,777 --> 00:33:59,094
To get to know the person
that they have just vowed
938
00:33:59,112 --> 00:34:03,040
To spend the rest
of their life with.
939
00:34:03,191 --> 00:34:03,782
- Actually, you're not gonna
have a view of the sunset.
940
00:34:03,876 --> 00:34:06,543
- It's okay.
- Okay.
941
00:34:06,694 --> 00:34:08,620
- I like having the sun
on my back than on top of me.
942
00:34:08,772 --> 00:34:12,198
- I have the sun on my face.
943
00:34:12,217 --> 00:34:13,608
Okay, so tell me the tea.
- All right.
944
00:34:13,701 --> 00:34:16,278
So here's the tea.
I get there.
945
00:34:16,296 --> 00:34:18,871
I bring up, you know,
has anybody kissed yet?
946
00:34:18,891 --> 00:34:20,298
Jose and rachel are like,
"yeah, we kissed."
947
00:34:20,450 --> 00:34:21,224
You know, like, they were
948
00:34:21,451 --> 00:34:24,469
Tonguing each other and--
one time.
949
00:34:24,563 --> 00:34:26,045
I don't wanna say they were,
like, tonguing each other
950
00:34:26,065 --> 00:34:26,955
The whole time but like--
- oh, my god.
951
00:34:27,048 --> 00:34:28,732
I can't wait to have girl talk.
952
00:34:28,883 --> 00:34:30,067
- They demonstrated
953
00:34:30,218 --> 00:34:32,127
How they're
all over each other.
954
00:34:32,145 --> 00:34:36,631
Brett and ryan, they spoke
on how they've kissed.
955
00:34:36,650 --> 00:34:39,576
It started off at the altar and
it hasn't stopped since then.
956
00:34:39,803 --> 00:34:42,320
Bao and johnny,
they said the same thing.
957
00:34:42,472 --> 00:34:44,306
They--they've kissed.
They liked each other.
958
00:34:44,324 --> 00:34:48,493
And then they asked me, um,
959
00:34:48,587 --> 00:34:50,420
And I told them about, like,
I just been, you know,
960
00:34:50,572 --> 00:34:54,907
Like, tonguing your cheeks
and...
961
00:34:54,927 --> 00:34:56,426
- No.
962
00:34:56,653 --> 00:34:58,595
We gotta watch
the facials, you know?
963
00:34:58,822 --> 00:35:01,156
- I told them our situation
and how we feel.
964
00:35:01,174 --> 00:35:03,433
- And they're like,
"oh, that sounds lovely."
965
00:35:03,660 --> 00:35:05,827
- No, of course,
they didn't say that.
966
00:35:05,846 --> 00:35:07,587
Thank you.
967
00:35:07,606 --> 00:35:09,255
Obviously, they're looking
at it, like,
968
00:35:09,349 --> 00:35:10,590
I mean, I know what guys think.
969
00:35:10,609 --> 00:35:12,334
"uh, okay,
so she's not kissed him
970
00:35:12,352 --> 00:35:13,593
'cause she don't like him."
971
00:35:13,612 --> 00:35:15,612
- It's complete strangers
though, like,
972
00:35:15,763 --> 00:35:17,021
You okay with
kissing a complete--
973
00:35:17,174 --> 00:35:18,115
You don't know this person.
974
00:35:18,266 --> 00:35:19,932
- Yeah.
- Okay.
975
00:35:19,952 --> 00:35:20,933
- I'm okay with that.
976
00:35:21,027 --> 00:35:23,027
- But you're a dude, so...
977
00:35:23,180 --> 00:35:24,195
Dudes will kiss
anybody even if--
978
00:35:24,348 --> 00:35:25,530
- And then on top of that--
979
00:35:25,682 --> 00:35:26,957
- Even if they're ugly,
you'll kiss them.
980
00:35:27,108 --> 00:35:29,200
- Come on, now.
- Some guys will.
981
00:35:29,353 --> 00:35:32,278
- I'm only gonna kiss somebody
I'm actually attracted to.
982
00:35:32,297 --> 00:35:33,446
- Just checking.
983
00:35:33,465 --> 00:35:36,466
- And then on top of that,
we're married.
984
00:35:36,618 --> 00:35:38,117
So yes, we're strangers, but--
- yes, we're married
985
00:35:38,137 --> 00:35:40,119
But we're strangers.
- See?
986
00:35:40,139 --> 00:35:41,471
That's the way you think of it.
That's your opinion.
987
00:35:41,698 --> 00:35:44,141
And that's fine.
And I've always said
988
00:35:44,368 --> 00:35:45,383
You're entitled
to your own opinion.
989
00:35:45,477 --> 00:35:46,810
But my opinion is that
990
00:35:47,037 --> 00:35:50,939
I would have kissed you
on the lips.
991
00:35:52,726 --> 00:35:55,152
- I've never kissed anyone
992
00:35:55,379 --> 00:35:56,611
On the first, second,
or third date.
993
00:35:57,972 --> 00:36:01,716
- We are the last couple
that have not kissed yet.
994
00:36:01,735 --> 00:36:04,977
Kissing for me is--is big.
995
00:36:04,997 --> 00:36:06,738
Physical touch for me is big
996
00:36:06,832 --> 00:36:09,982
So if I feel like it's
the time, but she doesn't,
997
00:36:10,002 --> 00:36:12,060
Then we need
to clear some things up.
998
00:36:12,078 --> 00:36:14,171
Because you can say
that you like somebody
999
00:36:14,398 --> 00:36:14,504
But until you actually
show it...
1000
00:36:18,251 --> 00:36:19,676
How many serious relationships
you said you've been in?
1001
00:36:19,827 --> 00:36:23,905
- One, two, three, four.
1002
00:36:23,924 --> 00:36:27,184
- Four serious relationships.
Got you.
1003
00:36:27,411 --> 00:36:28,576
What have you learned
from those four?
1004
00:36:28,670 --> 00:36:30,002
Like the most recent one,
I guess you could say?
1005
00:36:30,096 --> 00:36:33,356
- I've learned that I'm very
solidified in what I want.
1006
00:36:33,508 --> 00:36:34,265
Something that's
important for me,
1007
00:36:34,418 --> 00:36:36,267
Definitely in a relationship,
1008
00:36:36,361 --> 00:36:39,103
Is, like, I want someone
who can spend time with me.
1009
00:36:39,256 --> 00:36:41,180
I want someone
who can do things with me.
1010
00:36:41,274 --> 00:36:42,866
I want someone who is reliable.
1011
00:36:43,017 --> 00:36:45,685
You know,
who you feel safe with.
1012
00:36:45,704 --> 00:36:47,762
- Okay, so quality time
is huge for you.
1013
00:36:47,781 --> 00:36:49,614
- Yeah, like
one of the things
1014
00:36:49,766 --> 00:36:52,283
That I, like, have always been
in a relationship is like,
1015
00:36:52,436 --> 00:36:55,361
I am like a--I'm--
I'm just a touchy person.
1016
00:36:55,380 --> 00:36:58,215
- Do you believe
you've been touchy with me?
1017
00:36:58,366 --> 00:37:00,291
- I am not like that
1018
00:37:00,444 --> 00:37:02,293
On day one with people.
1019
00:37:02,446 --> 00:37:03,795
It doesn't matter if I'm dating
1020
00:37:03,947 --> 00:37:05,705
Or, like, if I just met you
as, like, a friend.
1021
00:37:05,724 --> 00:37:08,633
For me, that comes with time.
1022
00:37:08,785 --> 00:37:10,227
- Do you see that
ever happening?
1023
00:37:12,789 --> 00:37:14,289
- For me, it's gonna take time.
1024
00:37:14,307 --> 00:37:17,642
Like, it has taken time
for me in the past.
1025
00:37:17,736 --> 00:37:19,978
I think gil, my husband,
is a handsome man,
1026
00:37:20,072 --> 00:37:22,239
But I think for me,
1027
00:37:22,390 --> 00:37:25,467
Personality, heart, and soul
are what are attractive to me.
1028
00:37:25,485 --> 00:37:27,802
I wanna make sure that we
are building the foundation
1029
00:37:27,895 --> 00:37:30,655
Of, like, trust, friendship.
1030
00:37:30,749 --> 00:37:32,565
Like really getting to know
each other deeply.
1031
00:37:32,584 --> 00:37:34,809
And for me,
that's much more important
1032
00:37:34,828 --> 00:37:38,922
Than jumping into, like,
the intimacy component of it.
1033
00:37:39,073 --> 00:37:41,483
- So how do you feel loved
1034
00:37:41,501 --> 00:37:44,319
Outside from quality time?
1035
00:37:44,337 --> 00:37:46,671
- Gifts.
- I love the honesty.
1036
00:37:46,765 --> 00:37:48,431
See, this is--this is--
- I have to be honest.
1037
00:37:48,583 --> 00:37:50,600
- This--this needs
to get changed.
1038
00:37:50,752 --> 00:37:53,586
This is not--
not working at all.
1039
00:37:53,605 --> 00:37:54,938
- I just need to make sure
if I gotta, like,
1040
00:37:55,165 --> 00:37:57,849
Pull out the credit card
for it to be considered a gift.
1041
00:37:58,001 --> 00:38:01,185
If I was to get you,
like, a cartier bracelet,
1042
00:38:01,338 --> 00:38:03,671
Compared--compared--
- well, do--do elaborate.
1043
00:38:03,690 --> 00:38:05,115
[both laughing]
1044
00:38:05,266 --> 00:38:07,099
You got my attention.
1045
00:38:07,193 --> 00:38:09,193
- Compared to, like,
1046
00:38:09,346 --> 00:38:10,028
I don't know, like a quilt.
1047
00:38:10,180 --> 00:38:13,014
- Quilt? Am I 85 years old?
1048
00:38:13,033 --> 00:38:17,443
- What if I stitched it?
I did it. I knitted it.
1049
00:38:17,462 --> 00:38:19,445
- Boo, you give me a quilt,
I'ma be like,
1050
00:38:19,464 --> 00:38:21,372
"check."
1051
00:38:21,525 --> 00:38:23,425
♪ ♪
1052
00:38:28,365 --> 00:38:32,291
♪ ♪
1053
00:38:32,311 --> 00:38:33,793
- You ready?
- Born ready.
1054
00:38:33,812 --> 00:38:35,628
- All right, let's go.
1055
00:38:35,647 --> 00:38:38,222
Got a little surprise for you.
1056
00:38:38,317 --> 00:38:39,965
- Like, a quilt surprise
1057
00:38:39,985 --> 00:38:42,060
Or, like, a cartier surprise?
1058
00:38:42,212 --> 00:38:43,987
- I mean, it could be both.
1059
00:38:44,214 --> 00:38:46,714
- 'cause I could always go...
[laughing]
1060
00:38:46,733 --> 00:38:49,659
- It could be both,
it could be both.
1061
00:38:49,886 --> 00:38:51,661
- Ooh, okay.
1062
00:38:51,888 --> 00:38:55,314
- ♪ I've been waiting
for days like this to come ♪
1063
00:38:55,334 --> 00:38:57,408
- Very pretty!
1064
00:38:57,502 --> 00:39:00,728
- ♪ where I can give you
everything you want ♪
1065
00:39:00,747 --> 00:39:02,246
- Look at that. What are those?
1066
00:39:02,399 --> 00:39:05,491
- Macarons!
- Yes!
1067
00:39:05,510 --> 00:39:06,509
Look at that.
1068
00:39:10,407 --> 00:39:10,905
- This is a surprise,
I would say.
1069
00:39:10,924 --> 00:39:13,016
- Right, right?
1070
00:39:13,167 --> 00:39:17,412
Anytime myrla
is impressed with anything,
1071
00:39:17,430 --> 00:39:19,689
It's an exciting,
joyful event.
1072
00:39:19,841 --> 00:39:21,841
[cork pops]
1073
00:39:21,860 --> 00:39:23,008
It takes a lot to impress her.
1074
00:39:23,103 --> 00:39:26,421
So anytime
she's happy or content
1075
00:39:26,514 --> 00:39:28,531
About the small things,
it's a win.
1076
00:39:28,758 --> 00:39:30,349
♪ ♪
1077
00:39:30,443 --> 00:39:31,259
- Very thoughtful.
1078
00:39:31,352 --> 00:39:33,536
And I'm--I'm having this one.
1079
00:39:33,688 --> 00:39:35,705
- I'm having this red--
this red one.
1080
00:39:35,857 --> 00:39:37,448
See how that goes.
- Probably red's really good.
1081
00:39:37,601 --> 00:39:40,435
- Oh.
1082
00:39:40,453 --> 00:39:42,937
It's just a fancy cookie.
1083
00:39:42,956 --> 00:39:44,789
Just give me an old-fashioned
chocolate chip cookie.
1084
00:39:44,883 --> 00:39:48,718
- It's a fancy, like,
the texture of it and like--
1085
00:39:48,945 --> 00:39:50,128
- It's you.
It's a bougie cookie.
1086
00:39:50,222 --> 00:39:55,058
This is a great representation
on what you like
1087
00:39:55,209 --> 00:39:58,353
Compared to me, old-fashioned
chocolate chip cookies.
1088
00:40:01,641 --> 00:40:02,715
- We agree to disagree.
1089
00:40:02,809 --> 00:40:04,976
- That's fine,
and that's perfectly fine.
1090
00:40:05,070 --> 00:40:07,478
But that's why we are
two different people.
1091
00:40:07,631 --> 00:40:08,479
- Oh, it looks like
you like them though.
1092
00:40:08,632 --> 00:40:09,889
- It's good.
1093
00:40:09,983 --> 00:40:12,409
- So you're
a little bougie yourself.
1094
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,153
My husband and I are
very playful with each other.
1095
00:40:15,247 --> 00:40:17,580
- Just 'cause I like 'em
don't mean I'm bougie.
1096
00:40:17,732 --> 00:40:20,399
- "I don't like macarons."
1097
00:40:20,419 --> 00:40:25,480
We love to banter.
He loves to make fun of me.
1098
00:40:25,498 --> 00:40:27,832
- Do you believe
you're high maintenance?
1099
00:40:27,926 --> 00:40:29,092
- No, I don't think
I'm high maintenance.
1100
00:40:29,243 --> 00:40:30,668
- Okay, so then I
can't go by what you saying.
1101
00:40:30,762 --> 00:40:32,095
- I like nice things.
1102
00:40:32,246 --> 00:40:33,004
- 'cause if you don't believe
you're high maintenance,
1103
00:40:33,098 --> 00:40:35,339
Ain't no way.
1104
00:40:35,434 --> 00:40:37,008
Ain't no way.
1105
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:38,751
There's nothing wrong
with that.
1106
00:40:38,845 --> 00:40:40,586
- Hopefully,
it's an affectionate
1107
00:40:40,605 --> 00:40:41,754
Making fun of me
1108
00:40:41,773 --> 00:40:45,424
Because I'm so unique
and interesting.
1109
00:40:45,518 --> 00:40:47,185
I know what I like
1110
00:40:47,337 --> 00:40:49,595
And what I don't like.
1111
00:40:49,614 --> 00:40:51,614
Y'all know that by now, shoot.
1112
00:40:51,841 --> 00:40:53,616
So we've talked
about my relationships.
1113
00:40:53,768 --> 00:40:56,010
I think for some women,
not all,
1114
00:40:56,029 --> 00:40:59,363
It is much harder for us
to find a man
1115
00:40:59,458 --> 00:41:01,458
Who is willing to commit
and wants marriage and kids.
1116
00:41:01,685 --> 00:41:03,518
That's my opinion,
I think that.
1117
00:41:03,536 --> 00:41:06,779
But a 35-year-old single dude,
who's, you know,
1118
00:41:06,873 --> 00:41:07,947
I think you're successful.
- Correct.
1119
00:41:08,041 --> 00:41:10,449
- I will assume
that you're successful.
1120
00:41:10,469 --> 00:41:12,043
- I'm content.
1121
00:41:12,195 --> 00:41:13,470
- You have your [bleep]
together, I would assume.
1122
00:41:13,697 --> 00:41:15,305
- Correct. No kids.
1123
00:41:15,456 --> 00:41:16,531
- No kids.
1124
00:41:16,549 --> 00:41:17,381
But you're telling me
there's no women
1125
00:41:17,476 --> 00:41:19,383
That have wanted
to get married?
1126
00:41:19,536 --> 00:41:22,795
- I don't believe
I've found the right one.
1127
00:41:22,889 --> 00:41:25,039
- How many relationships
have you had?
1128
00:41:25,132 --> 00:41:28,559
- So for me,
my definition of serious
1129
00:41:28,653 --> 00:41:30,653
Is, like, six months or more.
1130
00:41:30,805 --> 00:41:33,323
- Okay.
- So I would say four.
1131
00:41:33,550 --> 00:41:36,493
Two of them were about
a year and a half.
1132
00:41:36,644 --> 00:41:38,828
And the other two
was one was six months
1133
00:41:39,055 --> 00:41:40,980
And the other one's
about eight months.
1134
00:41:41,074 --> 00:41:43,057
- So the last
couple of relationships,
1135
00:41:43,076 --> 00:41:44,834
Like, you just didn't
see it going anywhere?
1136
00:41:44,986 --> 00:41:46,836
- No, so the last serious
relationship I was in
1137
00:41:46,988 --> 00:41:49,005
Was six years ago.
1138
00:41:49,156 --> 00:41:49,580
- So you haven't been
in a serious relationship
1139
00:41:49,733 --> 00:41:51,132
In six years?
1140
00:41:52,844 --> 00:41:54,677
- I have not.
1141
00:41:54,904 --> 00:41:57,255
♪ ♪
1142
00:41:57,349 --> 00:42:01,684
So since six years,
I would say it's been flings.
1143
00:42:01,911 --> 00:42:04,771
♪ ♪
1144
00:42:07,934 --> 00:42:10,918
[upbeat music]
1145
00:42:10,937 --> 00:42:14,447
♪ ♪
1146
00:42:19,186 --> 00:42:21,520
- I'll just be easygoing.
- No minivan.
1147
00:42:21,540 --> 00:42:23,765
[phone ringing]
1148
00:42:23,858 --> 00:42:26,951
It's michaela, oh, my gosh.
1149
00:42:27,103 --> 00:42:28,378
Hi.
1150
00:42:28,529 --> 00:42:30,621
- Hey.
- Hey, y'all.
1151
00:42:30,715 --> 00:42:31,381
- How are you?
- This is my husband, jose.
1152
00:42:31,532 --> 00:42:34,108
- Hi, nice to meet you.
1153
00:42:34,127 --> 00:42:35,293
- Where are you?
We missed you yesterday.
1154
00:42:35,445 --> 00:42:39,947
- Um, so zack
wasn't feeling very well
1155
00:42:39,966 --> 00:42:42,133
And we all went to go get
covid tested.
1156
00:42:42,285 --> 00:42:45,136
Um, he came back positive.
1157
00:42:45,288 --> 00:42:48,731
- Oh, wow.
- Oh, no.
1158
00:42:55,315 --> 00:42:58,132
- Oh, no.
1159
00:42:58,151 --> 00:43:01,494
[dramatic music]
1160
00:43:06,251 --> 00:43:08,668
- How do you feel?
1161
00:43:10,830 --> 00:43:12,313
- Yeah, I would feel sad too.
- Aw.
1162
00:43:12,406 --> 00:43:14,757
I'm so sorry to hear that.
1163
00:43:17,095 --> 00:43:20,004
- Yeah, I'd be dying right now.
1164
00:43:20,098 --> 00:43:22,156
- Yeah, I really,
really don't like it.
1165
00:43:22,249 --> 00:43:24,750
But he doesn't want
to get me sick.
1166
00:43:24,769 --> 00:43:26,327
He wants to protect his wife.
1167
00:43:26,346 --> 00:43:27,345
Me on the other hand,
I'm all emotional.
1168
00:43:27,439 --> 00:43:29,997
Like, "nah, you can stay
in this room
1169
00:43:30,016 --> 00:43:31,515
"and we can do nothing
together.
1170
00:43:31,610 --> 00:43:32,834
Like, just sit over there."
1171
00:43:32,852 --> 00:43:35,094
- Yeah, six feet apart.
1172
00:43:35,188 --> 00:43:36,613
- Exactly, six feet apart!
1173
00:43:36,764 --> 00:43:38,263
- Honestly,
I'm inseparable right now.
1174
00:43:38,283 --> 00:43:40,842
You know how you make bedsheets
1175
00:43:40,860 --> 00:43:42,526
To throw over the window
to climb down?
1176
00:43:42,621 --> 00:43:43,786
I'd be, like, trying to sneak
1177
00:43:44,013 --> 00:43:45,104
Back into his room
or something.
1178
00:43:45,123 --> 00:43:46,364
- No, she would.
1179
00:43:46,516 --> 00:43:48,107
- I will find a way
1180
00:43:48,126 --> 00:43:50,627
To see my husband
and not get covid.
1181
00:43:50,778 --> 00:43:52,629
- [laughs]
1182
00:43:52,856 --> 00:43:54,613
- I completely relate
with michaela
1183
00:43:54,707 --> 00:43:57,191
As wanting to stay
with your husband.
1184
00:43:57,210 --> 00:44:00,194
We just got married
and we just took these vows
1185
00:44:00,213 --> 00:44:02,363
That we would remain together
through sickness and in health.
1186
00:44:02,382 --> 00:44:05,124
And I mean, this was
one of those situations
1187
00:44:05,143 --> 00:44:07,143
Where you could
kind of show that.
1188
00:44:07,370 --> 00:44:11,055
However, it is a very
complicated situation
1189
00:44:11,207 --> 00:44:13,966
And we don't really know
about this disease
1190
00:44:14,060 --> 00:44:15,985
And how it will affect someone.
1191
00:44:16,137 --> 00:44:18,229
So, I mean, I don't think
there's any right answer
1192
00:44:18,381 --> 00:44:20,381
On how to handle it.
1193
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:23,826
It sucks missing out
on the honeymoon,
1194
00:44:24,053 --> 00:44:26,070
But I'm sure y'all
will figure out a way
1195
00:44:26,164 --> 00:44:27,905
To kind of have
another mini-honeymoon maybe
1196
00:44:27,999 --> 00:44:29,891
Back in houston.
1197
00:44:29,909 --> 00:44:31,150
But I see the big smile
on your face
1198
00:44:31,244 --> 00:44:34,653
When you talk about him,
so that makes me so happy.
1199
00:44:34,673 --> 00:44:35,988
Thank you for letting us know.
1200
00:44:36,007 --> 00:44:37,248
- Yeah, thank you so much
for keeping us updated.
1201
00:44:37,342 --> 00:44:39,825
- Thank you for picking up.
1202
00:44:39,844 --> 00:44:41,068
- Bye, girl.
- Safe travels.
1203
00:44:41,087 --> 00:44:41,919
Be safe, take care.
- Bye, be safe.
1204
00:44:42,013 --> 00:44:43,012
- Bye.
1205
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:45,256
♪ ♪
1206
00:44:45,408 --> 00:44:49,018
- Oh, man. That sucks.
1207
00:44:49,170 --> 00:44:51,245
Honestly,
I feel like it's, like,
1208
00:44:51,338 --> 00:44:53,839
Super crucial to be together.
- Oh, absolutely.
1209
00:44:53,933 --> 00:44:57,009
- Right? If we were separated
for that amount of time, like,
1210
00:44:57,028 --> 00:45:00,087
I don't know, I think
the strong connection would,
1211
00:45:00,106 --> 00:45:01,422
I don't know, start getting
lost, and that's scary.
1212
00:45:01,441 --> 00:45:06,369
♪ ♪
1213
00:45:11,267 --> 00:45:12,934
- ♪ I miss you
when you're gone ♪
1214
00:45:13,027 --> 00:45:14,359
♪ and even when
you're with me ♪
1215
00:45:14,379 --> 00:45:17,714
- I definitely feel sick,
look sick,
1216
00:45:17,865 --> 00:45:20,199
Look tired, and exhausted.
1217
00:45:20,218 --> 00:45:21,108
It's kinda hard to walk.
1218
00:45:21,127 --> 00:45:22,276
I still have my sense of smell
1219
00:45:22,295 --> 00:45:23,535
And taste so that's good.
1220
00:45:23,629 --> 00:45:27,631
- I'm sad, I'm irritated.
1221
00:45:27,784 --> 00:45:29,392
I'm--
1222
00:45:31,062 --> 00:45:34,063
I'm overwhelmed.
1223
00:45:34,215 --> 00:45:36,399
- You know, I'm going to think
about how to make it up to her.
1224
00:45:36,550 --> 00:45:39,902
- It's, you know--[bleep] covid
and [bleep] all that.
1225
00:45:40,054 --> 00:45:41,812
Like, I want to be
with my husband.
1226
00:45:41,965 --> 00:45:43,481
- Yes, it's unfortunate.
1227
00:45:43,633 --> 00:45:45,483
Hopefully, she doesn't resent
me for the rest of her life.
1228
00:45:45,577 --> 00:45:48,411
♪ ♪
1229
00:45:48,638 --> 00:45:51,973
- ♪ I miss you
when you're gone ♪
1230
00:45:52,066 --> 00:45:53,583
♪ and even when
you're with me ♪
1231
00:45:53,810 --> 00:45:58,145
♪ 'cause it feels like
something's wrong ♪
1232
00:45:58,164 --> 00:46:00,089
- ♪ let's make some waves ♪
1233
00:46:00,316 --> 00:46:02,241
♪ ♪
1234
00:46:02,260 --> 00:46:03,818
♪ and misbehave ♪
1235
00:46:03,836 --> 00:46:05,503
- Oh, yeah.
- Got a little sun today.
1236
00:46:05,655 --> 00:46:06,411
- You look really red
right now.
1237
00:46:06,506 --> 00:46:08,839
- You're red too.
1238
00:46:08,992 --> 00:46:10,658
- Do I?
- Yeah.
1239
00:46:10,751 --> 00:46:11,826
- You definitely got burned.
1240
00:46:11,919 --> 00:46:14,011
- It's gonna tan, I promise.
You'll see.
1241
00:46:14,105 --> 00:46:16,272
♪ ♪
1242
00:46:16,423 --> 00:46:18,274
- Oh, yeah.
1243
00:46:18,425 --> 00:46:21,277
- Oh, yeah.
1244
00:46:21,428 --> 00:46:24,263
You take notes.
- I kinda am.
1245
00:46:24,282 --> 00:46:27,266
Definitely gonna have to do
some massages.
1246
00:46:27,285 --> 00:46:30,435
So far, we just get along
really effortlessly,
1247
00:46:30,455 --> 00:46:32,604
But I feel like maybe I need
to rock the boat a little more
1248
00:46:32,624 --> 00:46:36,275
Because we haven't discussed
intimate topics that are,
1249
00:46:36,294 --> 00:46:37,627
You know, a little bit
less surface level.
1250
00:46:39,780 --> 00:46:41,446
If you had your way, like,
1251
00:46:41,466 --> 00:46:43,800
When would you want
to have kids?
1252
00:46:44,027 --> 00:46:46,360
- If I had my way,
I'd want 'em, like, now.
1253
00:46:46,379 --> 00:46:50,289
♪ ♪
1254
00:46:50,308 --> 00:46:53,125
- I kind of always knew,
or at least from a young age,
1255
00:46:53,219 --> 00:46:55,144
I knew I wanted to be a mom
or I wanted to have kids.
1256
00:46:55,371 --> 00:46:57,388
But then the relationships
that I was in
1257
00:46:57,540 --> 00:46:59,631
Didn't work out
and then you're single.
1258
00:46:59,651 --> 00:47:02,726
And it's like when
you're in your 30s, I was like,
1259
00:47:02,879 --> 00:47:06,564
"well, how bad do I want them?"
and like, "why do I want them?"
1260
00:47:06,716 --> 00:47:08,157
You know?
- Yeah.
1261
00:47:09,994 --> 00:47:11,994
So change of subject.
1262
00:47:12,221 --> 00:47:13,237
♪ ♪
1263
00:47:13,331 --> 00:47:14,080
[music stops]
1264
00:47:15,667 --> 00:47:18,650
I feel like we've been slowly
1265
00:47:18,670 --> 00:47:22,079
Getting more and more
comfortable with each other
1266
00:47:22,231 --> 00:47:24,248
As far as intimacy.
1267
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:27,084
If we keep continuing
the rate that we're going,
1268
00:47:27,236 --> 00:47:30,346
I mean, we're gonna get there
sooner than later.
1269
00:47:30,497 --> 00:47:31,347
- It's just,
I think there's like
1270
00:47:31,574 --> 00:47:32,923
A time and place for it,
obviously.
1271
00:47:33,017 --> 00:47:36,427
And before applying for this,
1272
00:47:36,579 --> 00:47:39,522
I was not really dating
or seeing anybody.
1273
00:47:39,673 --> 00:47:42,358
So for me,
1274
00:47:42,509 --> 00:47:46,028
It's been a while.
1275
00:47:46,180 --> 00:47:47,679
The last time
I was intimate with anybody
1276
00:47:47,773 --> 00:47:48,939
Was over two years ago.
1277
00:47:49,033 --> 00:47:53,277
So I am excited
for our intimacy to progress.
1278
00:47:53,371 --> 00:47:56,097
That being said, I am happy
with where it is right now
1279
00:47:56,190 --> 00:47:59,024
Because I want
to take things slow.
1280
00:47:59,118 --> 00:48:00,784
And I want to make sure
1281
00:48:00,937 --> 00:48:01,711
That the feelings are there
1282
00:48:01,938 --> 00:48:06,865
Before anything
physical happens.
1283
00:48:06,959 --> 00:48:09,276
- I am always, like,
touching you and caressing you.
1284
00:48:09,370 --> 00:48:11,036
Like, I am a super
affectionate person, and...
1285
00:48:11,055 --> 00:48:12,463
- Yes, you are.
1286
00:48:12,615 --> 00:48:15,966
- If it does continue on
to that, I mean...
1287
00:48:16,060 --> 00:48:17,468
♪ ♪
1288
00:48:17,620 --> 00:48:19,803
I know it's
a difficult subject,
1289
00:48:19,898 --> 00:48:22,732
But I am a very sexual person.
1290
00:48:22,959 --> 00:48:24,642
♪ ♪
1291
00:48:24,736 --> 00:48:26,810
- Yeah.
1292
00:48:26,905 --> 00:48:29,572
♪ ♪
1293
00:48:30,557 --> 00:48:34,059
- ♪ lips on my lips ♪
1294
00:48:34,078 --> 00:48:36,728
♪ it sounds a little like
a blast of a rocket ship ♪
1295
00:48:36,822 --> 00:48:38,806
♪ you take my breath away ♪
1296
00:48:38,824 --> 00:48:41,250
♪ well, how could
such a little kiss ♪
1297
00:48:41,402 --> 00:48:43,753
♪ make me such a little kid? ♪
1298
00:48:43,980 --> 00:48:45,312
- Jose, my man.
- Oh, what's up, brother?
1299
00:48:45,406 --> 00:48:46,405
What's going on?
You all right, man?
1300
00:48:46,499 --> 00:48:47,739
- Yeah, I'm good.
- Good, man.
1301
00:48:47,759 --> 00:48:49,258
Good to see you, man.
1302
00:48:49,485 --> 00:48:50,742
- Hey, sorry to pull you
away from your wife--
1303
00:48:50,762 --> 00:48:51,761
- Nah, brother, all good, man.
- On your honeymoon.
1304
00:48:51,912 --> 00:48:52,987
- All good, man.
- But I was wondering
1305
00:48:53,005 --> 00:48:54,488
If you could help me out
with something.
1306
00:48:54,507 --> 00:48:56,432
I'm trying to plan something
special for my wife here.
1307
00:48:56,659 --> 00:48:58,250
I wanna have, like,
a surprise dinner for her
1308
00:48:58,269 --> 00:49:00,436
On the beach,
something romantic.
1309
00:49:00,587 --> 00:49:02,163
- That's gonna be nice.
That's gonna be really smooth.
1310
00:49:02,181 --> 00:49:03,439
I think she's going to love it.
1311
00:49:03,666 --> 00:49:06,591
- So maybe if I could find her
something to wear there.
1312
00:49:06,611 --> 00:49:09,170
- You wanna get her, like,
a dress, or what do you...
1313
00:49:09,263 --> 00:49:11,113
- This is all foreign
to me, man.
1314
00:49:11,265 --> 00:49:12,448
- All right, I mean it has
all these nice colors in it.
1315
00:49:12,599 --> 00:49:13,691
It does--it's seashells
and, like, other stuff.
1316
00:49:13,843 --> 00:49:16,268
What do you think though?
- Yeah.
1317
00:49:16,287 --> 00:49:17,361
- I would say yes.
- I'm not good at
1318
00:49:17,513 --> 00:49:19,104
Shopping for women.
I brought you here
1319
00:49:19,123 --> 00:49:20,456
'cause you're like mr. Romance.
1320
00:49:20,683 --> 00:49:22,274
- Oh, man.
- You're mr. Romance.
1321
00:49:22,368 --> 00:49:24,443
You know exactly what--
what it is.
1322
00:49:24,462 --> 00:49:26,128
I singled jose out today
1323
00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:29,039
Because he is the guy
I'm trying to be.
1324
00:49:29,133 --> 00:49:30,449
I mean, something like
this material, maybe?
1325
00:49:30,468 --> 00:49:32,451
- Okay, okay.
1326
00:49:32,470 --> 00:49:33,861
- All right, let's--
let's see what they got, man.
1327
00:49:33,879 --> 00:49:37,122
I mean, within the first
two minutes of meeting jose,
1328
00:49:37,216 --> 00:49:39,291
He was open and honest,
1329
00:49:39,310 --> 00:49:41,202
And that's something
I really need to work on.
1330
00:49:41,220 --> 00:49:42,703
Actually, I'm attracted
to girls that are like that,
1331
00:49:42,722 --> 00:49:44,463
That are very open
and honest with me.
1332
00:49:44,482 --> 00:49:46,040
And they tell me that
they like me so I can be like
1333
00:49:46,058 --> 00:49:47,891
Go home,
think about it, and say,
1334
00:49:47,986 --> 00:49:49,226
"yeah, you know what?
She really likes me.
1335
00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:50,635
I think I like her too."
1336
00:49:50,655 --> 00:49:51,821
You've probably done this
a million times, right?
1337
00:49:51,972 --> 00:49:53,547
- Oh, no, no,
but I'm a man of detail
1338
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:54,657
So I do the little things.
1339
00:49:54,808 --> 00:49:56,492
So this is nice
that you're doing this
1340
00:49:56,643 --> 00:49:57,234
'cause she's gonna love it.
- I appreciate it.
1341
00:49:57,328 --> 00:49:58,402
- Absolutely, man.
1342
00:49:58,554 --> 00:50:00,571
- I got that one
in the back of my head.
1343
00:50:00,665 --> 00:50:01,980
Let's go take a look
at the guy's clothes.
1344
00:50:02,074 --> 00:50:03,574
- Okay, cool, yeah,
let's go check them out, man.
1345
00:50:03,726 --> 00:50:06,076
- I want like a collared
shirt that's linen.
1346
00:50:06,170 --> 00:50:07,152
Really light, breezy.
1347
00:50:07,171 --> 00:50:08,412
I was thinking of, like,
1348
00:50:08,564 --> 00:50:09,488
Something real clean
and simple.
1349
00:50:09,582 --> 00:50:10,155
- Yeah, man.
So you're going to wear--
1350
00:50:10,174 --> 00:50:11,899
Is it white pants?
1351
00:50:11,917 --> 00:50:13,917
- I have some khakis.
That's about it.
1352
00:50:14,012 --> 00:50:15,085
- Something like this, maybe.
1353
00:50:15,179 --> 00:50:16,512
So nothing at all crazy
like this, right?
1354
00:50:16,663 --> 00:50:20,182
Nothing too flashy, right?
1355
00:50:20,409 --> 00:50:21,091
- This looks beachy, right?
- Yeah, man.
1356
00:50:21,244 --> 00:50:22,409
- That's what I'm going for.
1357
00:50:22,503 --> 00:50:23,502
- Depending on if we go
with that dress or not
1358
00:50:23,596 --> 00:50:24,745
Something that, you know.
1359
00:50:24,764 --> 00:50:26,430
Think it had blue in it,
had pink in it.
1360
00:50:26,524 --> 00:50:27,765
So I think it'll really
all mesh together.
1361
00:50:27,917 --> 00:50:29,859
- We got blue, we got pink.
1362
00:50:30,086 --> 00:50:31,027
Which one says like,
1363
00:50:31,254 --> 00:50:34,438
"after this dinner,
let's get romantic."
1364
00:50:34,532 --> 00:50:36,257
- I think they both do, man.
- They both do.
1365
00:50:36,350 --> 00:50:38,534
- It's all right here, man.
1366
00:50:38,761 --> 00:50:40,427
Whatever your heart says, bro.
Just boom.
1367
00:50:40,521 --> 00:50:43,021
- I need to learn that
from you.
1368
00:50:43,115 --> 00:50:45,374
- So have you already gotten
a little bit of insight
1369
00:50:45,526 --> 00:50:47,526
As far as what
she may be feeling, like,
1370
00:50:47,545 --> 00:50:49,528
Towards you in regards
to, like, the marriage and...
1371
00:50:49,547 --> 00:50:51,288
- Like, bao and I, I feel like
1372
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:53,049
We already kinda
know each other...
1373
00:50:53,276 --> 00:50:54,291
- Right.
- Which is kind of bizarre.
1374
00:50:54,443 --> 00:50:56,218
- That's awesome, isn't it?
1375
00:50:56,445 --> 00:50:57,369
- But I don't know
how she feels about me
1376
00:50:57,388 --> 00:50:58,220
Romantically yet.
1377
00:50:58,447 --> 00:50:59,463
- Okay.
1378
00:50:59,557 --> 00:51:00,539
- And so I think tonight
1379
00:51:00,558 --> 00:51:02,207
If I can make it
a romantic dinner,
1380
00:51:02,226 --> 00:51:03,542
I just wanna lay it out there
1381
00:51:03,561 --> 00:51:05,043
And tell her that--
how I'm feeling.
1382
00:51:05,063 --> 00:51:06,378
- Well, unfortunately,
1383
00:51:06,397 --> 00:51:07,546
Sometimes you gotta
be vulnerable.
1384
00:51:07,565 --> 00:51:08,789
You gotta put yourself
out there and say,
1385
00:51:08,808 --> 00:51:13,294
"hey, I'm willing
to receive some news
1386
00:51:13,387 --> 00:51:15,220
That we feel the same way."
1387
00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:16,630
Or guess what.
1388
00:51:16,723 --> 00:51:18,148
She may not be into me
just yet.
1389
00:51:18,242 --> 00:51:19,742
♪ ♪
1390
00:51:19,969 --> 00:51:23,579
- My biggest fear is that
I do put myself out there
1391
00:51:23,806 --> 00:51:25,564
And I tell her everything
that I'm feeling
1392
00:51:25,658 --> 00:51:26,974
And she's not there yet.
1393
00:51:26,992 --> 00:51:29,977
[dramatic music]
1394
00:51:29,995 --> 00:51:33,071
♪ ♪
1395
00:51:33,165 --> 00:51:35,999
[relaxed music]
1396
00:51:36,094 --> 00:51:40,429
♪ ♪
1397
00:51:40,581 --> 00:51:46,251
- So today, we are about
to embark on a journey.
1398
00:51:46,345 --> 00:51:48,662
- We're going fishing.
- No.
1399
00:51:48,681 --> 00:51:50,589
Ugh, heck no,
we're not going fishing.
1400
00:51:50,683 --> 00:51:53,016
That's boring.
That's not a journey.
1401
00:51:53,169 --> 00:51:55,277
We are going to get
on jet skis,
1402
00:51:55,504 --> 00:51:59,448
But they're going
to take us to a location,
1403
00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:00,674
Kind of like--
- like a beach?
1404
00:52:00,767 --> 00:52:01,099
- Feels like a movie, right?
1405
00:52:01,119 --> 00:52:04,120
♪ ♪
1406
00:52:04,347 --> 00:52:04,936
Up there.
1407
00:52:05,030 --> 00:52:08,106
- Parasailing?
- No.
1408
00:52:08,126 --> 00:52:11,352
On a seaplane.
1409
00:52:11,445 --> 00:52:12,536
- What do you--
- on a plane.
1410
00:52:12,630 --> 00:52:14,964
- One of those planes
that lands in the water?
1411
00:52:15,115 --> 00:52:16,465
- Yeah, exactly.
- Got it.
1412
00:52:16,692 --> 00:52:18,450
- Yeah.
- Hope it's a very smooth ride.
1413
00:52:18,469 --> 00:52:21,712
I get motion sickness.
1414
00:52:21,864 --> 00:52:23,121
- What happens when you get
motion sickness?
1415
00:52:23,215 --> 00:52:25,624
- I just feel like death.
Like, you feel, like, sick.
1416
00:52:25,643 --> 00:52:27,868
- Oh, it just feels bad.
- You feel terrible.
1417
00:52:27,887 --> 00:52:30,204
- I have a surprise
for my wife.
1418
00:52:30,297 --> 00:52:31,054
I know she doesn't
like surprises,
1419
00:52:31,149 --> 00:52:33,465
But I was like, "what the heck?
1420
00:52:33,484 --> 00:52:34,391
Let's try it and see."
1421
00:52:34,485 --> 00:52:36,986
But this is like
pulling teeth,
1422
00:52:37,137 --> 00:52:40,639
'cause she is making
everything so difficult,
1423
00:52:40,658 --> 00:52:41,806
And it's like, "hey, relax."
1424
00:52:41,901 --> 00:52:43,993
She needs to trust that
1425
00:52:44,144 --> 00:52:46,069
I wouldn't put her
in a bad situation.
1426
00:52:46,222 --> 00:52:48,739
Are you gonna do it?
1427
00:52:48,891 --> 00:52:49,981
Or are you gonna be like,
"you know what?
1428
00:52:50,075 --> 00:52:51,500
I'll just watch you from here"?
1429
00:52:51,727 --> 00:52:55,337
♪ ♪
1430
00:52:59,844 --> 00:53:02,069
- Are you gonna do it?
1431
00:53:02,087 --> 00:53:02,994
Or are you going to be like,
"you know what?
1432
00:53:03,088 --> 00:53:04,588
I'll just watch you from here"?
1433
00:53:04,740 --> 00:53:05,997
- So he planned
this surprise for me,
1434
00:53:06,091 --> 00:53:07,574
And I'm not happy.
1435
00:53:07,668 --> 00:53:09,000
If you have motion sickness
1436
00:53:09,020 --> 00:53:09,927
Or you get motion--
it's, like, miserable.
1437
00:53:10,021 --> 00:53:13,764
♪ ♪
1438
00:53:13,858 --> 00:53:16,099
However, I can see that
this is what he wants to do.
1439
00:53:16,194 --> 00:53:19,195
♪ ♪
1440
00:53:20,031 --> 00:53:22,756
- You'll try it!
1441
00:53:22,775 --> 00:53:24,925
I love it.
1442
00:53:25,018 --> 00:53:26,944
- ♪ na, na, na, na, ay ♪
1443
00:53:27,096 --> 00:53:29,354
♪ na, na, na, na, ay, ay ♪
1444
00:53:29,448 --> 00:53:31,615
♪ na, na, na, na, ay ♪
1445
00:53:31,767 --> 00:53:33,767
♪ na, na, na, na, ay, ay ♪
1446
00:53:33,786 --> 00:53:36,453
♪ na, na, na, na, ay ♪
1447
00:53:36,605 --> 00:53:38,439
♪ na, na, na, na, ay, ay ♪
1448
00:53:38,457 --> 00:53:40,624
♪ na, na, na, na, ay ♪
1449
00:53:40,776 --> 00:53:42,276
♪ na, na, na, na, ay, ay ♪
1450
00:53:42,294 --> 00:53:44,887
- Is this a bumpy ride?
1451
00:53:45,114 --> 00:53:46,705
- It's gonna be bumpy
taking off.
1452
00:53:46,724 --> 00:53:48,390
We're gonna be taking off,
we're gonna be circling
1453
00:53:48,617 --> 00:53:50,041
A couple times,
and coming back in to land.
1454
00:53:50,061 --> 00:53:51,876
So it's not gonna be a long
ride but should be kinda fun.
1455
00:53:51,896 --> 00:53:54,805
[upbeat music]
1456
00:53:54,899 --> 00:53:58,292
♪ ♪
1457
00:53:58,310 --> 00:54:00,794
- Oh, my god,
this is gonna be terrible.
1458
00:54:00,813 --> 00:54:01,144
Like, I already know it.
1459
00:54:01,297 --> 00:54:05,132
♪ ♪
1460
00:54:05,150 --> 00:54:05,983
I feel like
I'm going to throw up.
1461
00:54:06,077 --> 00:54:09,411
♪ ♪
1462
00:54:12,583 --> 00:54:14,416
- Oh, no? Okay.
1463
00:54:14,568 --> 00:54:15,826
We'll make it a little gentle
for you; how's that?
1464
00:54:15,978 --> 00:54:17,902
- If it was something that
she was doing by herself,
1465
00:54:17,997 --> 00:54:20,163
She would absolutely not do it.
1466
00:54:20,258 --> 00:54:21,740
But the fact that I'm there
and I want to do it,
1467
00:54:21,759 --> 00:54:25,819
You know, she's going out on
a limb and doing it for us.
1468
00:54:25,838 --> 00:54:26,679
And I appreciate that.
1469
00:54:29,825 --> 00:54:32,159
- ♪ in the moment,
make it last ♪
1470
00:54:32,177 --> 00:54:36,772
♪ heart beat fast,
I can feel it ♪
1471
00:54:36,923 --> 00:54:39,850
♪ I can feel it ♪
1472
00:54:39,944 --> 00:54:43,003
♪ here it comes ♪
1473
00:54:43,022 --> 00:54:44,004
♪ loud as thunder ♪
1474
00:54:44,097 --> 00:54:45,506
♪ we're having fun now ♪
1475
00:54:45,524 --> 00:54:50,101
♪ come on,
oh, it's happening now ♪
1476
00:54:50,121 --> 00:54:52,604
♪ I can feel it
deep inside of me ♪
1477
00:54:52,623 --> 00:54:55,457
- I don't feel good.
- Okay.
1478
00:54:55,609 --> 00:54:58,035
In the back, there's
some of these things here.
1479
00:54:58,187 --> 00:54:59,444
There's a little blue envelope.
1480
00:54:59,463 --> 00:55:03,465
In the blue envelope,
there's a white plastic bag.
1481
00:55:06,211 --> 00:55:09,305
- We're landing now.
1482
00:55:10,641 --> 00:55:11,640
- That was fun.
1483
00:55:14,870 --> 00:55:16,870
- It was terrible.
I felt like throwing up.
1484
00:55:16,963 --> 00:55:19,222
I do hope he's taking notes
1485
00:55:19,375 --> 00:55:21,483
For what types of activities
I would and would not enjoy.
1486
00:55:28,734 --> 00:55:30,159
- Well, you gotta fly
back home.
1487
00:55:32,330 --> 00:55:35,238
[upbeat music]
1488
00:55:35,333 --> 00:55:39,226
♪ ♪
1489
00:55:39,244 --> 00:55:40,227
- I actually have
a surprise for you.
1490
00:55:40,245 --> 00:55:42,245
- What?
1491
00:55:42,340 --> 00:55:44,414
No, you don't.
1492
00:55:44,567 --> 00:55:46,324
- I have something
in store for us tonight.
1493
00:55:46,344 --> 00:55:48,919
- What do you in store for us?
1494
00:55:49,071 --> 00:55:51,071
- And it starts with
1495
00:55:51,164 --> 00:55:53,331
A little bit
of a costume change.
1496
00:55:53,351 --> 00:55:57,019
- What?
Wait, are we matching?
1497
00:55:57,170 --> 00:55:58,687
- Uh, kinda.
1498
00:55:58,914 --> 00:56:00,356
So I got this little
linen shirt for you.
1499
00:56:00,583 --> 00:56:02,916
- Nice.
1500
00:56:02,935 --> 00:56:04,860
Is it 'cause I need to be
more colorful?
1501
00:56:05,087 --> 00:56:05,919
Oh, my god.
1502
00:56:05,938 --> 00:56:08,438
You knew my size
was a double xl.
1503
00:56:08,532 --> 00:56:11,608
- That's the smallest they had.
- How did you know?
1504
00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:12,259
You know me so well.
1505
00:56:12,277 --> 00:56:15,204
[quirky music]
1506
00:56:15,431 --> 00:56:17,539
You even forgot to
take off the price tag.
1507
00:56:17,691 --> 00:56:19,541
- Oh, god.
1508
00:56:19,693 --> 00:56:21,602
Yeah, yeah, we'll do that.
- You paid full price?
1509
00:56:21,695 --> 00:56:23,695
Why would you pay full price?
1510
00:56:23,714 --> 00:56:25,606
This is a little disappointing.
1511
00:56:25,624 --> 00:56:28,275
- Sorry.
Let's pretend I got it on sale.
1512
00:56:28,293 --> 00:56:29,292
- Okay.
- Here you go.
1513
00:56:29,445 --> 00:56:31,387
Typically in relationships,
1514
00:56:31,614 --> 00:56:35,115
I'm not the first person
to make, like, a
1515
00:56:35,134 --> 00:56:36,617
Big gesture of romance.
1516
00:56:36,635 --> 00:56:38,543
And there's been kind of
some questionable times
1517
00:56:38,562 --> 00:56:40,545
I feel like,
ever since the wedding,
1518
00:56:40,639 --> 00:56:41,730
Sometimes it feels hot,
1519
00:56:41,882 --> 00:56:42,789
Sometimes it feels cold.
1520
00:56:42,883 --> 00:56:43,957
Sometimes it feels friendly,
1521
00:56:44,050 --> 00:56:45,216
Sometimes it feels romantic.
1522
00:56:45,236 --> 00:56:46,627
Ready to go?
- Yeah, yeah, yeah, definitely.
1523
00:56:46,720 --> 00:56:50,572
- But she's my wife,
and we're on our honeymoon.
1524
00:56:50,799 --> 00:56:53,558
I want these next few days
to start
1525
00:56:53,652 --> 00:56:55,819
At a certain place.
1526
00:56:55,971 --> 00:57:00,732
And that is with me telling her
I unequivocally like her.
1527
00:57:00,826 --> 00:57:03,660
And I'm a little nervous
1528
00:57:03,754 --> 00:57:05,421
Because I don't know
how she's going to take it.
1529
00:57:05,648 --> 00:57:09,091
♪ ♪
1530
00:57:09,242 --> 00:57:13,170
- ♪ don't come around here
with eyes like that ♪
1531
00:57:13,322 --> 00:57:14,321
♪ don't show a little fear ♪
1532
00:57:14,414 --> 00:57:15,413
♪ I'm not okay with that ♪
1533
00:57:15,507 --> 00:57:19,509
- Where are we? Oh, my god.
1534
00:57:19,662 --> 00:57:20,269
Oh.
1535
00:57:20,420 --> 00:57:22,496
- ♪ look in my eyes ♪
1536
00:57:22,514 --> 00:57:26,683
♪ don't let them see you,
don't let them see you cry ♪
1537
00:57:26,835 --> 00:57:28,927
♪ don't let them hear you ♪
1538
00:57:28,946 --> 00:57:31,930
- What do you think?
- Oh, my god.
1539
00:57:31,949 --> 00:57:34,616
I can't believe
you planned all this.
1540
00:57:34,768 --> 00:57:36,618
- Yeah, have a seat.
1541
00:57:36,770 --> 00:57:39,121
- Oh, my gosh.
1542
00:57:39,272 --> 00:57:41,848
This is beautiful.
1543
00:57:41,867 --> 00:57:43,850
No one has ever done anything
like this for me before.
1544
00:57:43,869 --> 00:57:45,461
- No?
- No.
1545
00:57:48,040 --> 00:57:49,280
I've never gotten
a picnic before actually.
1546
00:57:49,374 --> 00:57:51,525
Not even a picnic.
1547
00:57:51,543 --> 00:57:54,470
This is--this is just
above and beyond.
1548
00:57:54,697 --> 00:57:56,196
Really.
1549
00:57:56,289 --> 00:57:57,473
- Would you like some wine?
1550
00:57:57,624 --> 00:57:59,308
- Oh, I've always wanted
a little picnic basket.
1551
00:57:59,459 --> 00:58:02,052
[soft music]
1552
00:58:02,204 --> 00:58:04,371
Oh, my. Did you remember
1553
00:58:04,464 --> 00:58:06,873
That I'm a big fan
of white wines?
1554
00:58:06,967 --> 00:58:08,299
- I just remember
you like prosecco.
1555
00:58:08,319 --> 00:58:11,895
- Yes.
- 'cause you're a fan of...
1556
00:58:12,047 --> 00:58:13,489
- Yes, bubbles.
- Mimosas.
1557
00:58:16,327 --> 00:58:18,327
- Cheers to us.
1558
00:58:18,554 --> 00:58:20,829
- To us and to not
holding anything back.
1559
00:58:21,056 --> 00:58:21,330
- Cheers.
1560
00:58:21,557 --> 00:58:27,227
♪ ♪
1561
00:58:27,246 --> 00:58:30,747
- I normally would never
do something like this,
1562
00:58:30,841 --> 00:58:34,510
But what I wanted to
also tell you today was...
1563
00:58:41,352 --> 00:58:43,426
- What are you trying
to tell me?
1564
00:58:43,521 --> 00:58:45,746
- Just everything I've
learned about you so far.
1565
00:58:45,764 --> 00:58:48,248
- Mm-hmm.
1566
00:58:48,267 --> 00:58:51,676
- And what I know from--
about you from the past.
1567
00:58:51,695 --> 00:58:54,087
I know we're married,
but, you know,
1568
00:58:54,180 --> 00:58:56,606
Like, love isn't guaranteed.
1569
00:58:56,759 --> 00:59:00,110
And I just want you to know
where I'm at
1570
00:59:00,204 --> 00:59:03,205
Which is that...
1571
00:59:03,432 --> 00:59:07,025
♪ ♪
1572
00:59:07,119 --> 00:59:11,438
I really like you.
1573
00:59:11,531 --> 00:59:15,108
And normally,
I'm not the kind of guy
1574
00:59:15,201 --> 00:59:17,277
That would say that upfront
1575
00:59:17,296 --> 00:59:19,555
Because I'm afraid of
what I don't know,
1576
00:59:19,706 --> 00:59:22,224
Which is I'm not really sure
how you feel about me.
1577
00:59:23,543 --> 00:59:25,543
But even four days in,
1578
00:59:25,637 --> 00:59:29,398
I really do feel like
I can make this work with you.
1579
00:59:29,625 --> 00:59:32,067
And I'm starting to grow
real feelings for you.
1580
00:59:33,904 --> 00:59:36,797
[tense music]
1581
00:59:36,815 --> 00:59:40,391
♪ ♪
1582
00:59:40,485 --> 00:59:42,135
You can tell me that you don't.
1583
00:59:42,154 --> 00:59:43,895
It's okay.
1584
00:59:43,914 --> 00:59:47,991
We can just enjoy the picnic
and you know, tonight.
1585
00:59:48,085 --> 00:59:52,588
♪ ♪
1586
00:59:57,502 --> 00:59:58,668
- I really do feel like
1587
00:59:58,821 --> 01:00:00,503
I can make this work with you
1588
01:00:00,598 --> 01:00:03,932
And I'm starting to grow
real feelings for you.
1589
01:00:06,161 --> 01:00:10,922
And you can tell me
that you don't, that's okay.
1590
01:00:10,941 --> 01:00:15,335
We can just enjoy the picnic
and, you know, tonight.
1591
01:00:15,354 --> 01:00:19,281
♪ ♪
1592
01:00:25,864 --> 01:00:27,605
- The feelings are mutual.
1593
01:00:27,699 --> 01:00:29,774
- Yeah?
- Yes.
1594
01:00:29,793 --> 01:00:33,629
[bright music]
1595
01:00:33,780 --> 01:00:34,946
- Whoo-hoo!
1596
01:00:34,965 --> 01:00:37,132
[both laughing]
1597
01:00:37,359 --> 01:00:39,526
♪ ♪
1598
01:00:39,619 --> 01:00:42,787
Wow, really?
- Yes, yes.
1599
01:00:42,881 --> 01:00:45,548
- Well, I--sometimes I get
different feelings from you.
1600
01:00:45,701 --> 01:00:47,125
- Really?
- Yeah.
1601
01:00:47,144 --> 01:00:49,645
Kinda like sometimes it's hot,
sometimes it's cold.
1602
01:00:49,872 --> 01:00:51,538
- Really?
- Yeah, sometimes it's awkward,
1603
01:00:51,631 --> 01:00:52,964
Sometimes it feels romantic.
1604
01:00:52,983 --> 01:00:54,374
- Well, I think the awkward
is the fact that
1605
01:00:54,393 --> 01:00:57,653
We literally have just
known each other intimately
1606
01:00:57,804 --> 01:00:59,379
For just a few days.
1607
01:00:59,398 --> 01:01:01,548
♪ ♪
1608
01:01:01,566 --> 01:01:03,566
- I understand.
- But I definitely feel like
1609
01:01:03,719 --> 01:01:06,995
What we are building right now
1610
01:01:07,222 --> 01:01:11,074
Is stronger than
what I feel I've had
1611
01:01:11,226 --> 01:01:14,744
In much longer relationships.
1612
01:01:14,838 --> 01:01:16,897
♪ ♪
1613
01:01:16,915 --> 01:01:18,173
- I really appreciate
you saying that because
1614
01:01:18,324 --> 01:01:21,735
I've never had this type
of start to a relationship.
1615
01:01:21,753 --> 01:01:23,570
- I don't think there's
many people that can say
1616
01:01:23,588 --> 01:01:24,996
They had this kind of start
to a relationship.
1617
01:01:25,015 --> 01:01:27,015
- Well, I mean, honestly,
I think that's part of why
1618
01:01:27,167 --> 01:01:28,758
This has gotten
to such a good--
1619
01:01:28,911 --> 01:01:30,835
Such a good start because
1620
01:01:30,854 --> 01:01:33,188
In most relationships,
I go in without commitment.
1621
01:01:33,339 --> 01:01:36,099
I gotta admit that--
1622
01:01:36,193 --> 01:01:38,418
I didn't know when I was
gonna tell you this,
1623
01:01:38,437 --> 01:01:40,362
But I have been on
over a hundred first dates.
1624
01:01:44,868 --> 01:01:47,610
And anytime
I came across something
1625
01:01:47,705 --> 01:01:51,707
That I thought wouldn't work,
I would run,
1626
01:01:51,858 --> 01:01:54,100
Because I wasn't committed
to her and I knew that
1627
01:01:54,194 --> 01:01:55,860
I could just hop back on
to a dating app
1628
01:01:55,954 --> 01:01:58,863
And find another match.
1629
01:01:58,882 --> 01:02:00,623
- I feel for him
that he's had to be
1630
01:02:00,776 --> 01:02:03,701
On a hundred first dates
before meeting me.
1631
01:02:03,721 --> 01:02:06,463
Actually, we probably had met
1632
01:02:06,615 --> 01:02:07,464
Before the hundred first dates.
1633
01:02:07,616 --> 01:02:11,801
So if he had
just not ghosted me,
1634
01:02:11,895 --> 01:02:13,395
He could have saved himself
a lot of first dates.
1635
01:02:13,622 --> 01:02:14,563
Hmm.
1636
01:02:14,714 --> 01:02:17,733
- But in this case,
1637
01:02:17,884 --> 01:02:20,126
I might find something
that scares me about you.
1638
01:02:20,220 --> 01:02:21,219
- And you will.
You will find things.
1639
01:02:21,238 --> 01:02:23,646
- Yeah.
- You can bet on that.
1640
01:02:23,799 --> 01:02:26,241
I don't want to self-sabotage.
1641
01:02:26,468 --> 01:02:29,911
I have, in my past,
a tendency to do that.
1642
01:02:30,063 --> 01:02:31,413
I mean well.
1643
01:02:31,640 --> 01:02:34,324
It might not always
come off well.
1644
01:02:34,476 --> 01:02:36,400
- Okay, I'm not running.
1645
01:02:36,495 --> 01:02:37,568
That's--that's it.
1646
01:02:37,588 --> 01:02:42,165
I hope to come out of this
knowing that
1647
01:02:42,259 --> 01:02:44,651
We made the right decision
in getting married.
1648
01:02:44,669 --> 01:02:48,838
♪ ♪
1649
01:02:48,932 --> 01:02:51,841
[upbeat music]
1650
01:02:51,935 --> 01:02:55,103
♪ ♪
1651
01:02:55,255 --> 01:03:00,667
- ♪ you changed, you changed ♪
1652
01:03:00,685 --> 01:03:04,279
♪ you changed my heart ♪
1653
01:03:04,506 --> 01:03:06,856
♪ ♪
1654
01:03:07,009 --> 01:03:10,026
- I just wanna toast
real quick just to...
1655
01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:12,178
Not only the marriage
that we have right now
1656
01:03:12,197 --> 01:03:14,939
But just the chemistry
and connection.
1657
01:03:14,958 --> 01:03:18,184
Like, it's so wonderful.
Like, it's amazing.
1658
01:03:18,203 --> 01:03:19,294
Yeah and so, I mean--
- cheers to the experts.
1659
01:03:19,521 --> 01:03:22,964
- Cheers to--to such
an amazing match
1660
01:03:23,191 --> 01:03:24,040
And the rest
of our honeymoon trip.
1661
01:03:24,134 --> 01:03:27,360
♪ ♪
1662
01:03:27,379 --> 01:03:30,472
So when we go back to houston
and we start living together,
1663
01:03:30,699 --> 01:03:31,548
Have you thought about
what that would be like?
1664
01:03:31,642 --> 01:03:34,551
'cause you've never
had a husband
1665
01:03:34,645 --> 01:03:36,719
And the--have you lived
with anyone before?
1666
01:03:36,814 --> 01:03:40,131
- I have lived with someone,
and it never...
1667
01:03:40,225 --> 01:03:41,483
Goes well. [laughs]
1668
01:03:43,654 --> 01:03:44,878
- The only reason
I asked is because,
1669
01:03:44,896 --> 01:03:46,396
Yes, I do have a house
and I thought about
1670
01:03:46,490 --> 01:03:48,898
"okay, well, you know,
1671
01:03:49,051 --> 01:03:50,233
Would she live here with me?"
1672
01:03:50,327 --> 01:03:51,217
Because I would want for us
to live, you know,
1673
01:03:51,311 --> 01:03:55,163
Possibly on my side of town.
1674
01:03:58,168 --> 01:03:59,167
- I don't know.
I mean, thinking about it,
1675
01:03:59,394 --> 01:04:01,319
It makes my heart race
a little bit
1676
01:04:01,338 --> 01:04:05,656
Because it is
moving to your house,
1677
01:04:05,750 --> 01:04:08,510
And I'm just scared to feel
1678
01:04:08,737 --> 01:04:10,679
Like it's not gonna
be our house.
1679
01:04:10,830 --> 01:04:13,073
It's always going to be me
living in your house
1680
01:04:13,166 --> 01:04:15,075
And I feel
that pressure of, like,
1681
01:04:15,168 --> 01:04:17,168
How am I gonna pull my weight
1682
01:04:17,262 --> 01:04:19,746
So it doesn't look like
you're just maintaining me.
1683
01:04:19,764 --> 01:04:22,340
I just never envisioned
myself like that.
1684
01:04:22,434 --> 01:04:25,026
- Well, first off,
1685
01:04:25,178 --> 01:04:28,254
You know, I would say, I want
you to always want to feel
1686
01:04:28,273 --> 01:04:30,866
Like what's mine is yours
1687
01:04:31,093 --> 01:04:35,203
And what's yours
is mine or whatever.
1688
01:04:35,430 --> 01:04:37,038
- Of course.
- No, but I want you to know
1689
01:04:37,190 --> 01:04:40,283
That now that we are not
on the single life terms.
1690
01:04:40,377 --> 01:04:42,435
What we're like--
we're a married couple now.
1691
01:04:42,454 --> 01:04:45,696
You know, she didn't want
to just hop into the marriage
1692
01:04:45,790 --> 01:04:49,626
And into the home.
1693
01:04:49,778 --> 01:04:51,794
It's disappointing
because I want her
1694
01:04:51,889 --> 01:04:54,614
To kind of release the reins
and let me, as a man,
1695
01:04:54,633 --> 01:04:56,282
Be the provider
and take care of us.
1696
01:04:56,301 --> 01:04:59,227
♪ ♪
1697
01:04:59,454 --> 01:05:01,712
For me, I think,
you know, my five-ten year,
1698
01:05:01,732 --> 01:05:03,123
I want a two-story home.
I want a pool.
1699
01:05:03,216 --> 01:05:04,382
I want a pool table upstairs.
1700
01:05:04,476 --> 01:05:06,234
I want to be able to have
everything that I need
1701
01:05:06,461 --> 01:05:07,903
At the house.
That's where I'm coming from.
1702
01:05:08,130 --> 01:05:10,146
- Again, like,
I'm trying to pull my weight
1703
01:05:10,240 --> 01:05:11,798
As evenly as possible--
- you will, you will.
1704
01:05:11,891 --> 01:05:12,815
- So I wouldn't be wanting
1705
01:05:12,910 --> 01:05:16,227
To be in a situation
I can't afford.
1706
01:05:16,321 --> 01:05:18,747
- And that's why I want you to
understand that this is for us.
1707
01:05:18,898 --> 01:05:20,323
Like, this is not just mine.
You're now my wife.
1708
01:05:20,417 --> 01:05:22,825
Like, I want to share this
with you, like...
1709
01:05:22,920 --> 01:05:24,669
♪ ♪
1710
01:05:29,668 --> 01:05:33,595
♪ ♪
1711
01:05:33,822 --> 01:05:35,338
- Ooh.
1712
01:05:35,432 --> 01:05:37,674
- This is incredible.
- Yeah, it is. Wow.
1713
01:05:37,768 --> 01:05:40,101
I'm really excited about this.
1714
01:05:40,253 --> 01:05:41,269
- So thoughts on the guys.
1715
01:05:41,496 --> 01:05:41,752
You got to meet
the guys finally.
1716
01:05:41,772 --> 01:05:43,754
- I did.
1717
01:05:43,774 --> 01:05:45,756
Man, I feel like everyone
has such good personalities,
1718
01:05:45,850 --> 01:05:48,518
So it's just all
different kind of vibes,
1719
01:05:48,612 --> 01:05:51,262
But I don't know, I think
I probably clicked quickly
1720
01:05:51,281 --> 01:05:53,782
With gil
compared to the other ones.
1721
01:05:53,933 --> 01:05:54,950
- He's just so--
he's such an open dude.
1722
01:05:55,177 --> 01:05:58,194
- Yes, I can see him
and myrla together.
1723
01:05:58,346 --> 01:06:00,455
- He's the type of guy that
can make it work with anybody,
1724
01:06:00,682 --> 01:06:02,865
I feel like though.
- Yeah, I see that.
1725
01:06:03,018 --> 01:06:05,185
Do you feel like
you could do that?
1726
01:06:05,203 --> 01:06:08,612
- No, that's an easy no for me.
1727
01:06:08,707 --> 01:06:10,540
- For it to be our first,
like, romantic dinner
1728
01:06:10,634 --> 01:06:12,450
Together one-on-one,
1729
01:06:12,469 --> 01:06:14,285
It's kind of an environment
that I really enjoy
1730
01:06:14,304 --> 01:06:16,879
Because I feel like the quiet
1731
01:06:17,032 --> 01:06:19,808
And the closeness
and the one-on-one feeling
1732
01:06:20,035 --> 01:06:22,811
Kind of, like,
leads to discussions
1733
01:06:22,962 --> 01:06:25,296
Of a serious nature
and, like, kind of, you know,
1734
01:06:25,315 --> 01:06:26,964
Bring out certain sides of him
1735
01:06:26,984 --> 01:06:28,966
And pull him out of his shell.
1736
01:06:28,986 --> 01:06:34,897
And for me, that's what aids
in romantic feelings.
1737
01:06:35,050 --> 01:06:35,715
What is, like, a thing
that would make you, like,
1738
01:06:35,734 --> 01:06:37,141
Be like, "no, I can't?"
1739
01:06:37,160 --> 01:06:39,552
Like, "I can't make it work
with this girl."
1740
01:06:39,571 --> 01:06:41,571
- I think the thing that I said
1741
01:06:41,665 --> 01:06:44,315
That would be the biggest
deal-breaker for me,
1742
01:06:44,409 --> 01:06:46,334
I want babies.
- Mm.
1743
01:06:46,561 --> 01:06:48,169
♪ ♪
1744
01:06:48,396 --> 01:06:50,730
- Not like "at this table"
babies, but--
1745
01:06:50,749 --> 01:06:52,507
- I'm like, you wanna--
1746
01:06:52,658 --> 01:06:53,566
Do you wanna make one?
- Yeah.
1747
01:06:53,585 --> 01:06:55,993
- Oh, my god.
Babies, plural.
1748
01:06:56,013 --> 01:06:59,422
- 2.75 babies.
1749
01:06:59,516 --> 01:07:00,240
I gotta have a boy and a girl.
1750
01:07:00,258 --> 01:07:02,666
That's why I say 2.75.
1751
01:07:02,686 --> 01:07:05,169
Ideally, I want boy, boy, girl.
1752
01:07:05,263 --> 01:07:06,429
That would be my dream.
1753
01:07:06,523 --> 01:07:08,690
If I get some twins in there,
that would be--
1754
01:07:08,917 --> 01:07:10,750
That would be
the dream actually.
1755
01:07:10,843 --> 01:07:13,344
- That's a no--that's
a non-negotiable for you?
1756
01:07:13,363 --> 01:07:15,363
- Non-negotiable.
1757
01:07:15,515 --> 01:07:17,757
- For me, though,
when I started thinking about
1758
01:07:17,850 --> 01:07:18,941
Like, you know,
I've been single for a while,
1759
01:07:19,036 --> 01:07:20,201
So I'm like, "okay,
if you want to have kids,
1760
01:07:20,428 --> 01:07:23,096
"like, maybe you need
to start thinking about
1761
01:07:23,189 --> 01:07:25,689
If you want to freeze your eggs
or like what you want to do."
1762
01:07:25,709 --> 01:07:28,451
So what I kind of discovered
about myself is, like,
1763
01:07:28,545 --> 01:07:31,104
I don't want to just be a mom.
1764
01:07:31,122 --> 01:07:34,457
Like, I never wanted to be
a single woman with a kid.
1765
01:07:34,551 --> 01:07:37,794
What I actually genuinely want
is to have a family.
1766
01:07:37,946 --> 01:07:39,796
If you said you absolutely
don't want to have them,
1767
01:07:39,948 --> 01:07:42,390
I think I would be okay,
1768
01:07:42,542 --> 01:07:44,300
But saying
you want to have them,
1769
01:07:44,452 --> 01:07:46,227
Then I'm on board for that.
1770
01:07:46,379 --> 01:07:49,956
- The family and kids thing
is a big thing to me,
1771
01:07:49,974 --> 01:07:51,457
And she said beforehand
she was content with that
1772
01:07:51,476 --> 01:07:53,126
Not being in her life,
1773
01:07:53,144 --> 01:07:55,553
And that would have been
concerning to me.
1774
01:07:55,572 --> 01:07:57,814
Now hearing her opinion on it
and where she stands
1775
01:07:57,908 --> 01:08:00,967
With the family part,
I feel good about it.
1776
01:08:01,060 --> 01:08:03,803
- Very intense
first date convo.
1777
01:08:03,896 --> 01:08:05,138
That's the weird thing, right?
- Yeah.
1778
01:08:05,156 --> 01:08:06,472
- 'cause we're married.
I feel like, you know,
1779
01:08:06,491 --> 01:08:10,085
I definitely--I definitely see
like, good things,
1780
01:08:10,236 --> 01:08:12,420
And you've been amazing
this whole time, so...
1781
01:08:12,647 --> 01:08:13,904
- You're falling in like
with me right now?
1782
01:08:13,998 --> 01:08:14,905
- Right, exactly.
1783
01:08:14,925 --> 01:08:17,074
With you and me,
1784
01:08:17,094 --> 01:08:19,743
It's really early,
but I feel like
1785
01:08:19,838 --> 01:08:22,672
The more time
that I spend with you,
1786
01:08:22,824 --> 01:08:23,990
The more that I feel
1787
01:08:24,008 --> 01:08:25,082
Attracted to you.
1788
01:08:25,102 --> 01:08:27,160
- I'm listening.
1789
01:08:27,178 --> 01:08:29,753
- For me, attraction
is something that
1790
01:08:29,848 --> 01:08:31,255
Grows with time
1791
01:08:31,274 --> 01:08:34,000
Because I need, like,
a personal, emotional feeling.
1792
01:08:34,018 --> 01:08:36,169
- Yeah.
1793
01:08:36,187 --> 01:08:40,506
♪ ♪
1794
01:08:40,525 --> 01:08:42,859
- Right?
So like, in my mind at least,
1795
01:08:43,011 --> 01:08:45,436
In my girl mind, I'm like,
"am I moving too slow?
1796
01:08:45,455 --> 01:08:46,179
Like, for you?"
1797
01:08:46,197 --> 01:08:48,957
- Yeah, I'm definitely
1798
01:08:49,108 --> 01:08:52,018
Growing more
and more attracted,
1799
01:08:52,111 --> 01:08:53,962
Like, every day
as we learn more things,
1800
01:08:54,113 --> 01:08:55,112
And it's way more
than a physical thing.
1801
01:08:55,132 --> 01:08:57,206
And I can't wait for--
1802
01:08:57,300 --> 01:09:00,451
To see where we're at
three days from now.
1803
01:09:00,470 --> 01:09:01,636
- Three days.
1804
01:09:01,787 --> 01:09:04,864
These are big conversations
for three days.
1805
01:09:04,883 --> 01:09:09,385
♪ ♪
1806
01:09:09,479 --> 01:09:13,982
- ♪ if this is love,
then I feel it for you ♪
1807
01:09:14,209 --> 01:09:18,969
♪ and if this is love,
then I'll stay in it too ♪
1808
01:09:18,989 --> 01:09:22,899
♪ baby 'cause if this
is what it feels to be ♪
1809
01:09:23,051 --> 01:09:25,326
♪ catching feels, baby ♪
- aww.
1810
01:09:25,553 --> 01:09:27,069
- So I got us
a little something.
1811
01:09:27,222 --> 01:09:28,221
- This looks good.
- Desert and--
1812
01:09:28,314 --> 01:09:28,571
- You know I have
a sweet tooth.
1813
01:09:28,723 --> 01:09:30,481
- Aww.
1814
01:09:30,575 --> 01:09:31,148
I hope you enjoy.
I hope you like it.
1815
01:09:31,168 --> 01:09:34,485
It's tiramisu.
1816
01:09:34,579 --> 01:09:35,670
Try it.
- Let's eat.
1817
01:09:35,821 --> 01:09:36,671
I like tiramisu, you know?
1818
01:09:38,900 --> 01:09:41,751
- I want to be fed.
1819
01:09:41,903 --> 01:09:42,902
How about that?
- That's pulling rachel
1820
01:09:42,995 --> 01:09:44,662
Out of her comfort zone--
- that is right.
1821
01:09:44,681 --> 01:09:45,680
I like big bites too.
1822
01:09:45,831 --> 01:09:47,515
I like big bites.
- That's big right?
1823
01:09:47,667 --> 01:09:48,999
- From my wife.
Yes, that's good.
1824
01:09:49,093 --> 01:09:51,077
I'll take that.
1825
01:09:51,170 --> 01:09:53,337
Mm-mm.
- Oh, that wasn't that bad.
1826
01:09:53,431 --> 01:09:54,838
I could feed you.
1827
01:09:54,933 --> 01:09:56,507
Okay.
- Excuse you?
1828
01:09:56,601 --> 01:09:58,084
- 'cause I'm just like,
1829
01:09:58,102 --> 01:10:00,010
"oh, my god,
now I'm someone's mother."
1830
01:10:00,030 --> 01:10:03,013
[laughs]
- no, you're my wife.
1831
01:10:03,107 --> 01:10:04,924
It's cool.
I know that eventually,
1832
01:10:04,943 --> 01:10:07,535
I mean, she'll come around.
She'll let me feed her.
1833
01:10:07,687 --> 01:10:10,430
So I want a dog.
I don't have pets.
1834
01:10:10,448 --> 01:10:12,189
You--
- aww.
1835
01:10:12,209 --> 01:10:14,617
I'm down to get a dog.
- So I kind of want like a--
1836
01:10:14,769 --> 01:10:17,027
Like, I foresee a boxer.
1837
01:10:17,047 --> 01:10:19,047
One, 'cause when they're like
little baby puppies
1838
01:10:19,198 --> 01:10:20,623
They're so cute
and even when they get bigger--
1839
01:10:20,775 --> 01:10:21,607
- They're adorable.
- There's so loyal,
1840
01:10:21,626 --> 01:10:22,625
So family oriented like--
1841
01:10:22,777 --> 01:10:24,368
- I could totally see us
having a dog.
1842
01:10:24,387 --> 01:10:26,629
- I would love that.
- So that's...
1843
01:10:26,781 --> 01:10:27,871
- So let's--let's--
1844
01:10:27,966 --> 01:10:28,706
- Dog before kids
to kind of practice?
1845
01:10:28,725 --> 01:10:29,949
- Absolutely.
1846
01:10:29,968 --> 01:10:32,618
Dog before kids.
Yes, absolutely.
1847
01:10:32,712 --> 01:10:34,729
Like, just in the short
period of time here--
1848
01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:35,897
So you're--you're like me.
1849
01:10:36,124 --> 01:10:37,790
You're very detailed
and you're all about,
1850
01:10:37,809 --> 01:10:40,217
You know, little things and so
I think that you'd make,
1851
01:10:40,237 --> 01:10:42,720
You know, an amazing mother
if we ever get to that point,
1852
01:10:42,739 --> 01:10:45,573
And I think
that it's inevitable.
1853
01:10:45,725 --> 01:10:47,633
- So the most special thing
about tonight
1854
01:10:47,652 --> 01:10:51,804
Is being able to have
some serious discussions.
1855
01:10:51,823 --> 01:10:53,063
It's things
I've always thought of
1856
01:10:53,157 --> 01:10:54,582
In previous relationships
1857
01:10:54,734 --> 01:10:56,900
But never had the guts
to bring up.
1858
01:10:56,920 --> 01:10:58,661
When we're talking about kids
1859
01:10:58,813 --> 01:11:00,480
And moving into
each other's houses--
1860
01:11:00,498 --> 01:11:03,091
Just makes me feel great
1861
01:11:03,242 --> 01:11:05,835
That someone's there,
ready for me
1862
01:11:05,987 --> 01:11:07,428
To be the mother
of their children.
1863
01:11:07,655 --> 01:11:10,598
I know you're gonna
make a great father.
1864
01:11:10,825 --> 01:11:11,915
- I hope.
1865
01:11:12,010 --> 01:11:14,269
- Like, I totally see it.
1866
01:11:14,420 --> 01:11:16,162
I think we're good.
We would make a good team.
1867
01:11:16,180 --> 01:11:18,940
- Absolutely, absolutely.
1868
01:11:19,167 --> 01:11:23,503
- ♪ you and me
just as we've always been ♪
1869
01:11:23,521 --> 01:11:27,023
[upbeat music]
1870
01:11:27,175 --> 01:11:29,675
- Okay, I'm gonna change.
- Okay.
1871
01:11:29,694 --> 01:11:31,694
Myrla is bougie.
1872
01:11:31,846 --> 01:11:33,103
We know this.
She's high maintenance.
1873
01:11:33,123 --> 01:11:37,016
Even when it comes down
to doing her face routine.
1874
01:11:37,035 --> 01:11:39,294
- ♪ it's all about me,
all about me ♪
1875
01:11:39,521 --> 01:11:42,446
- It's a regimen
that doesn't skip a beat.
1876
01:11:42,540 --> 01:11:46,950
It's just, like, 80 steps,
and it takes forever.
1877
01:11:46,970 --> 01:11:49,721
But luckily,
I'm a patient person.
1878
01:11:50,865 --> 01:11:51,531
Do you like riddles?
1879
01:11:51,549 --> 01:11:56,311
- Uh, I want to say no.
1880
01:11:56,538 --> 01:11:58,387
- [chuckles]
sounds about right.
1881
01:11:58,540 --> 01:12:00,798
Me and my wife, myrla,
1882
01:12:00,892 --> 01:12:03,376
We love to joke around
with each other.
1883
01:12:03,394 --> 01:12:05,987
We're bonding
more and more every day
1884
01:12:06,138 --> 01:12:09,565
And so--and I wish,
I hope, she wants to kiss me.
1885
01:12:09,717 --> 01:12:10,950
I'm just waiting to see now.
1886
01:12:12,662 --> 01:12:14,053
Are you tired?
1887
01:12:14,146 --> 01:12:15,571
- I mean, it is my bedtime.
1888
01:12:15,665 --> 01:12:18,074
- Are you ready to go to bed?
1889
01:12:18,226 --> 01:12:20,168
- I promise you, like,
my eyes are like--
1890
01:12:20,319 --> 01:12:21,577
You know when your eyes feel
like a little heavy?
1891
01:12:21,671 --> 01:12:25,898
- You getting some
weighted eyelashes there?
1892
01:12:25,991 --> 01:12:27,249
- First of all--
- [laughs]
1893
01:12:27,344 --> 01:12:31,346
- My lashes are not weighted.
1894
01:12:31,573 --> 01:12:35,683
I cannot wait
to get my lash fill.
1895
01:12:35,835 --> 01:12:37,668
I'm not trying to be out here
looking like spongebob.
1896
01:12:37,687 --> 01:12:39,187
- I don't even know
what that means.
1897
01:12:39,414 --> 01:12:40,913
- You don't know
what spongebob looks like?
1898
01:12:40,932 --> 01:12:43,265
- Not lash-wise.
- He has three lashes.
1899
01:12:43,418 --> 01:12:45,193
- I didn't know that.
1900
01:12:47,513 --> 01:12:48,863
Do you naturally have
three lashes on your eyes?
1901
01:12:49,014 --> 01:12:51,090
- No.
- Okay.
1902
01:12:51,183 --> 01:12:52,592
- But if I don't
go get my fill,
1903
01:12:52,685 --> 01:12:56,612
Eventually, I'm going to have
three lashes sticking out.
1904
01:12:56,764 --> 01:12:58,264
- Girl, turn your light off.
1905
01:12:58,357 --> 01:12:59,523
- You're saying goodnight?
1906
01:12:59,542 --> 01:13:01,525
You're saying
"be quiet and go to sleep"?
1907
01:13:01,619 --> 01:13:04,361
- That's how I know you sleepy.
You talking nonsense.
1908
01:13:04,381 --> 01:13:06,439
- Goodnight, husband.
1909
01:13:06,457 --> 01:13:09,384
- Just another night, no kiss.
1910
01:13:09,535 --> 01:13:12,035
I never expected
when I got married
1911
01:13:12,130 --> 01:13:14,872
That I wouldn't
have a kiss by now.
1912
01:13:14,966 --> 01:13:16,641
Ay, dios mio.
1913
01:13:22,732 --> 01:13:24,640
- ♪ you're on my mind,
on my mind ♪
1914
01:13:24,792 --> 01:13:26,459
♪ on my mind, oh ♪
1915
01:13:26,477 --> 01:13:31,647
- Okay, so I've made it back
to houston safely.
1916
01:13:31,799 --> 01:13:32,798
I got a ride to the airport,
1917
01:13:32,892 --> 01:13:37,078
Got on the plane,
the plane was delayed.
1918
01:13:37,229 --> 01:13:38,395
I don't have my luggage
'cause that was delayed.
1919
01:13:38,415 --> 01:13:40,973
It was, like, doing all of it
1920
01:13:40,992 --> 01:13:43,142
While knowing, like,
I'm leaving my honeymoon,
1921
01:13:43,161 --> 01:13:45,736
I'm leaving my husband,
and that [bleep] sucks.
1922
01:13:45,830 --> 01:13:50,240
Like, it sucks so hard.
1923
01:13:50,260 --> 01:13:51,717
And I miss him.
1924
01:13:53,154 --> 01:13:54,912
- Looking forward to--
to getting back to her
1925
01:13:54,931 --> 01:13:57,156
And sleeping next to michaela.
1926
01:13:57,175 --> 01:13:59,082
It's kind of weird,
even though I just met her,
1927
01:13:59,102 --> 01:14:00,993
But I definitely
miss her a lot.
1928
01:14:01,012 --> 01:14:01,661
I'm tired of being alone.
1929
01:14:01,679 --> 01:14:03,438
I miss her so much.
1930
01:14:03,589 --> 01:14:08,167
I really do.
1931
01:14:08,186 --> 01:14:09,852
- Do you want to try this?
- Yeah.
1932
01:14:09,946 --> 01:14:11,170
- You said you've never
been in a hammock.
1933
01:14:11,189 --> 01:14:12,838
- I've never been
in a hammock before.
1934
01:14:12,932 --> 01:14:14,507
- Oh, boy.
- Here, let me hold.
1935
01:14:14,600 --> 01:14:17,785
- This is gonna
end up in a wet,
1936
01:14:17,937 --> 01:14:19,287
Shirt-ruined disaster.
1937
01:14:19,438 --> 01:14:21,438
Oh.
- You did it.
1938
01:14:21,458 --> 01:14:24,200
There it goes!
- This is not gonna work.
1939
01:14:24,294 --> 01:14:25,943
I'm gonna have to, like,
move while you're getting--
1940
01:14:25,962 --> 01:14:27,110
- You're just gonna
have to shift.
1941
01:14:27,130 --> 01:14:29,021
You're gonna have to
hold this too.
1942
01:14:29,114 --> 01:14:31,874
- This is so bad.
- Okay, hold on.
1943
01:14:32,026 --> 01:14:35,878
- Sit on it and
I'm going to counterbalance,
1944
01:14:35,972 --> 01:14:38,121
Spilling wine.
1945
01:14:38,141 --> 01:14:40,975
Okay, hold on,
come on, come on.
1946
01:14:41,126 --> 01:14:44,645
Little more. Oh...
1947
01:14:44,872 --> 01:14:46,722
We might not move.
We're gonna be scared to move.
1948
01:14:46,874 --> 01:14:47,723
Just sleep here tonight.
- Wait, wait, wait.
1949
01:14:47,817 --> 01:14:48,465
- You got it.
1950
01:14:48,485 --> 01:14:49,317
- Okay.
- Wow.
1951
01:14:49,544 --> 01:14:51,711
- Woo-hoo.
- Wow.
1952
01:14:51,729 --> 01:14:53,729
That might've been
the most difficult thing
1953
01:14:53,881 --> 01:14:58,400
About this whole
marriage so far.
1954
01:14:58,553 --> 01:15:01,162
We brought up
a lot of serious things:
1955
01:15:01,313 --> 01:15:03,405
Kids, sex, intimacy.
1956
01:15:03,500 --> 01:15:06,559
The intimacy and sex part,
she's just--
1957
01:15:06,577 --> 01:15:13,415
She hasn't had
the dating experience
1958
01:15:13,510 --> 01:15:15,568
That I've had,
so it--it means more to her,
1959
01:15:15,586 --> 01:15:18,679
In some aspects
than it does to me.
1960
01:15:18,831 --> 01:15:20,330
I'm definitely
understanding of
1961
01:15:20,424 --> 01:15:24,760
And very willing to wait
1962
01:15:24,854 --> 01:15:26,595
But I mean, we are married.
1963
01:15:26,748 --> 01:15:29,098
- I wanted to tell you
thank you,
1964
01:15:29,192 --> 01:15:33,102
For just being cool and, like,
rolling with the punches
1965
01:15:33,254 --> 01:15:34,587
'cause I know we're both
1966
01:15:34,605 --> 01:15:36,589
Definitely, like, a little bit
out of our element
1967
01:15:36,607 --> 01:15:39,534
Just as far as
this whole experience
1968
01:15:39,761 --> 01:15:41,018
And getting married.
1969
01:15:41,112 --> 01:15:42,111
I know that was, like,
a big moment.
1970
01:15:42,263 --> 01:15:44,038
- Just a little
out of our element?
1971
01:15:44,265 --> 01:15:46,282
- Yeah, like, a lot
out of her element.
1972
01:15:46,376 --> 01:15:48,601
And I feel like you've been
taking it all in stride.
1973
01:15:48,619 --> 01:15:51,120
And I think you're doing
your best and so am I.
1974
01:15:51,272 --> 01:15:54,440
So I feel like
it hasn't been that long, but,
1975
01:15:54,533 --> 01:15:57,109
Like, I want to be around you.
- Yeah.
1976
01:15:57,202 --> 01:15:59,387
I truly am here
for the right reasons.
1977
01:15:59,614 --> 01:16:03,132
I truly am thankful
that I was matched with you.
1978
01:16:03,284 --> 01:16:04,225
I'm happy where we are.
1979
01:16:04,376 --> 01:16:08,045
I'm happy
the direction we're trending.
1980
01:16:08,064 --> 01:16:11,640
I feel really good about it
and that I'm trusting it
1981
01:16:11,793 --> 01:16:15,403
And I have every intention
of following through with it.
1982
01:16:15,630 --> 01:16:17,646
And just, I want to make sure
that you feel that
1983
01:16:17,799 --> 01:16:22,076
And it's not just words
and we're not just--
1984
01:16:22,303 --> 01:16:24,970
- Yeah.
All: Going through the motions.
1985
01:16:24,989 --> 01:16:27,156
- [speaking indistinctly]
- [laughing]
1986
01:16:27,250 --> 01:16:28,474
- I needed that.
1987
01:16:28,492 --> 01:16:30,585
♪ ♪
1988
01:16:30,812 --> 01:16:32,161
Here we go.
1989
01:16:32,255 --> 01:16:33,379
That was good.
1990
01:16:35,483 --> 01:16:39,318
- ♪ can you see
the lights burning on? ♪
1991
01:16:39,337 --> 01:16:43,431
♪ can you feel
the rhythms beginning? ♪
1992
01:16:43,658 --> 01:16:48,177
♪ can you feel the earth
starting to move ♪
1993
01:16:48,329 --> 01:16:50,087
- We're still on for tomorrow--
- I know, it's gonna be--
1994
01:16:50,181 --> 01:16:51,497
- And the day after tomorrow.
- It's gonna be great.
1995
01:16:51,590 --> 01:16:55,276
- Just before we go to bed,
I have to bring it up.
1996
01:16:55,503 --> 01:16:58,595
I know I think like
after all these, like,
1997
01:16:58,615 --> 01:17:02,450
Intense conversations, I'm
like, "let's have one more."
1998
01:17:02,601 --> 01:17:04,526
And it's just--
it's been my biggest concern.
1999
01:17:04,679 --> 01:17:07,179
And it's just like--
2000
01:17:07,198 --> 01:17:09,624
It's just our financial habits.
- Okay.
2001
01:17:09,851 --> 01:17:13,352
- How you're able to save
and you have your homes
2002
01:17:13,371 --> 01:17:16,038
And just, like,
you just know a lot.
2003
01:17:16,132 --> 01:17:18,707
Like, I saw you in your app
checking investments,
2004
01:17:18,860 --> 01:17:20,968
And I'm like, "oh, my god."
2005
01:17:21,195 --> 01:17:23,638
Me, like, I have
a savings account.
2006
01:17:23,865 --> 01:17:26,456
Like, does it grow?
2007
01:17:26,476 --> 01:17:27,716
No.
- Yeah.
2008
01:17:27,869 --> 01:17:31,128
- Sometimes I feel like
I do spend recklessly.
2009
01:17:31,147 --> 01:17:33,296
I really wanted
to go to europe,
2010
01:17:33,391 --> 01:17:34,890
And I was like, "I don't care."
2011
01:17:34,984 --> 01:17:38,043
Like, got a credit card,
2012
01:17:38,137 --> 01:17:40,062
You know, used it
to go to europe,
2013
01:17:40,214 --> 01:17:40,804
But I just wanted
to let you know
2014
01:17:40,823 --> 01:17:45,475
That it is a problem,
2015
01:17:45,495 --> 01:17:50,222
And I'm just like, "oh, my god,
I need to grow up."
2016
01:17:50,241 --> 01:17:52,408
- It does raise
a couple of flags
2017
01:17:52,560 --> 01:17:54,393
Because if we're gonna
get to a point
2018
01:17:54,486 --> 01:17:55,561
Where we're going
to have babies and do
2019
01:17:55,579 --> 01:17:56,987
All this other stuff
that we've kind of
2020
01:17:57,006 --> 01:17:58,564
Already, you know,
talked about,
2021
01:17:58,582 --> 01:17:59,823
We're definitely gonna
have to get, you know,
2022
01:17:59,842 --> 01:18:02,251
Some boundaries
and get some things in check.
2023
01:18:02,403 --> 01:18:04,403
So just talk to me
about what do you think
2024
01:18:04,422 --> 01:18:07,406
Your responsibilities
might be or--
2025
01:18:07,425 --> 01:18:09,666
- Well, just financially,
living together
2026
01:18:09,760 --> 01:18:12,002
When it comes to groceries,
when it comes to bills,
2027
01:18:12,021 --> 01:18:13,095
I feel like it should be 50-50.
2028
01:18:13,247 --> 01:18:15,247
Like, we're sharing
all of this stuff.
2029
01:18:15,266 --> 01:18:16,598
♪ ♪
2030
01:18:16,751 --> 01:18:18,767
- So moving forward,
2031
01:18:18,920 --> 01:18:22,087
Are you okay with me
controlling the finances?
2032
01:18:22,181 --> 01:18:23,531
Or how do you see it?
What do you want?
2033
01:18:23,682 --> 01:18:25,090
- Like controlling my finances?
- No, no, no.
2034
01:18:25,184 --> 01:18:29,278
In regards to joint, dual?
2035
01:18:29,430 --> 01:18:31,597
- I would like to have
my separate account
2036
01:18:31,615 --> 01:18:33,356
And then we can have
a joint account
2037
01:18:33,376 --> 01:18:37,102
That is for our joint expenses.
2038
01:18:37,196 --> 01:18:38,620
- For me,
from a male perspective,
2039
01:18:38,773 --> 01:18:41,106
Head of the household,
2040
01:18:41,125 --> 01:18:43,943
Big picture
is we both have joints.
2041
01:18:43,961 --> 01:18:44,960
Boom, right?
- Mm-hmm.
2042
01:18:45,112 --> 01:18:47,037
- Let me take
what I need from there
2043
01:18:47,056 --> 01:18:49,782
Then everything that's left,
you can pull from there.
2044
01:18:49,800 --> 01:18:52,117
- I'm honestly shocked.
2045
01:18:52,136 --> 01:18:56,713
I didn't think
people still did that.
2046
01:18:56,733 --> 01:19:00,550
And it kinda feels like
he's giving me an allowance.
2047
01:19:00,570 --> 01:19:03,553
And I don't want an allowance.
2048
01:19:03,573 --> 01:19:05,314
- That's what I'm thinking.
Like, I'm good with that.
2049
01:19:05,408 --> 01:19:08,075
- Oh, [bleep].
2050
01:19:08,302 --> 01:19:10,486
[bleep], [bleep], um,
I'ma sleep on that.
2051
01:19:10,580 --> 01:19:13,472
[dramatic music]
2052
01:19:13,491 --> 01:19:16,642
♪ ♪
2053
01:19:16,660 --> 01:19:19,979
- ♪ we go together
like peaches and cream ♪
2054
01:19:19,997 --> 01:19:21,404
- It's been a long day.
2055
01:19:21,424 --> 01:19:23,240
- I'm ready to go to sleep.
How about you?
2056
01:19:23,259 --> 01:19:25,317
- Yeah, me too.
2057
01:19:25,410 --> 01:19:26,151
After the date,
I'm feeling like
2058
01:19:26,170 --> 01:19:28,504
I'm floating in the clouds
2059
01:19:28,598 --> 01:19:33,083
Because I got confirmation
from bao that she likes me too.
2060
01:19:33,177 --> 01:19:34,751
So hopefully, she'll feel
more comfortable with me
2061
01:19:34,845 --> 01:19:36,996
The rest of the week.
2062
01:19:37,089 --> 01:19:37,997
And we'll do a lot
more smooching
2063
01:19:38,090 --> 01:19:40,349
And a little less talking.
2064
01:19:40,501 --> 01:19:41,776
I want to pursue
this intimacy with her.
2065
01:19:41,927 --> 01:19:45,337
I feel like if she likes me
and I like her,
2066
01:19:45,356 --> 01:19:46,839
We're on our honeymoon,
2067
01:19:46,857 --> 01:19:50,359
Can we maybe go from kissing
to maybe making out?
2068
01:19:50,511 --> 01:19:51,702
- Hey.
2069
01:19:52,680 --> 01:19:54,179
- Thank you.
2070
01:19:54,198 --> 01:19:56,181
- I want to
grab her close to me
2071
01:19:56,275 --> 01:19:58,684
And maybe not
stick my tongue down her throat
2072
01:19:58,777 --> 01:19:59,627
But, like,
at least put my tongue
2073
01:19:59,854 --> 01:20:01,921
Somewhere in
and around her mouth.
2074
01:20:03,299 --> 01:20:06,133
- We gonna put the pillow fort
in between us again?
2075
01:20:06,360 --> 01:20:09,303
- I was maybe hoping we can
get a little closer tonight
2076
01:20:09,454 --> 01:20:09,786
If that's okay with you.
2077
01:20:09,806 --> 01:20:12,197
- Yeah?
2078
01:20:12,216 --> 01:20:14,216
I thought you needed
the pillow fort
2079
01:20:14,368 --> 01:20:15,717
'cause you're used
to sleeping that way.
2080
01:20:15,812 --> 01:20:18,887
- But if you're willing
to take that spot.
2081
01:20:19,040 --> 01:20:22,132
- Okay.
2082
01:20:22,151 --> 01:20:23,709
Thank you so much
for that surprise.
2083
01:20:23,802 --> 01:20:26,045
- I'm glad you enjoyed it.
2084
01:20:26,063 --> 01:20:27,729
- It meant a lot to me.
2085
01:20:27,882 --> 01:20:30,399
- I hope we have many,
many more surprises.
2086
01:20:30,551 --> 01:20:33,160
- I have a feeling we will.
2087
01:20:33,312 --> 01:20:36,555
Um, I wanted to...
2088
01:20:36,574 --> 01:20:38,481
Share a thought I've had.
2089
01:20:38,501 --> 01:20:40,726
- Okay.
- Just kind of how I feel.
2090
01:20:40,744 --> 01:20:43,228
♪ ♪
2091
01:20:43,247 --> 01:20:45,172
It's a little bit
of a personal insecurity.
2092
01:20:46,992 --> 01:20:49,568
The animals that you mentioned
that are coming
2093
01:20:49,661 --> 01:20:51,737
In the middle of the night or--
- right.
2094
01:20:51,755 --> 01:20:57,167
- I--it's something
that I have always been
2095
01:20:57,186 --> 01:20:59,244
Very conscious of
2096
01:20:59,263 --> 01:21:01,597
Because I know it's not
an attractive thing.
2097
01:21:01,749 --> 01:21:03,190
- I mean, but it's natural.
2098
01:21:03,417 --> 01:21:04,174
I feel like
it's nothing to be ashamed of
2099
01:21:04,193 --> 01:21:07,252
Because so many people snore.
2100
01:21:07,271 --> 01:21:10,439
- I, for a long time,
participated in a camp.
2101
01:21:10,591 --> 01:21:13,442
It was a leadership camp
where I was a volunteer.
2102
01:21:13,594 --> 01:21:15,852
The volunteers get split
into cabins at the camp.
2103
01:21:15,872 --> 01:21:19,356
On many years
that I volunteered,
2104
01:21:19,375 --> 01:21:20,023
I would not sleep.
2105
01:21:20,117 --> 01:21:22,618
I would stay up at night
2106
01:21:22,770 --> 01:21:24,603
'cause I was afraid
2107
01:21:24,622 --> 01:21:27,272
That they would hear me
2108
01:21:27,291 --> 01:21:29,108
Because it's embarrassing.
2109
01:21:29,126 --> 01:21:31,276
- I know, but it's you.
2110
01:21:31,295 --> 01:21:32,111
I mean, it's natural.
It's--it's you.
2111
01:21:32,129 --> 01:21:34,279
It's a part of who you are.
2112
01:21:34,298 --> 01:21:36,706
♪ ♪
2113
01:21:36,800 --> 01:21:39,209
But I understand.
I get it, I get it.
2114
01:21:39,228 --> 01:21:40,636
There's just
some things you just--
2115
01:21:40,788 --> 01:21:42,712
- I just, like--I know you're
not trying to make fun,
2116
01:21:42,732 --> 01:21:43,972
But it--it actually
really hurts.
2117
01:21:44,125 --> 01:21:46,383
♪ ♪
2118
01:21:46,402 --> 01:21:47,809
- Every time I get in
a flow of a certain moment,
2119
01:21:47,962 --> 01:21:49,978
Bao hits me with a curveball.
2120
01:21:50,072 --> 01:21:52,131
I'm trying to open myself up
and be romantic,
2121
01:21:52,224 --> 01:21:54,057
And then she takes it off
on a tangent.
2122
01:21:54,076 --> 01:21:56,468
I hope it's not a red flag.
2123
01:21:56,487 --> 01:21:58,654
♪ ♪
2124
01:21:58,806 --> 01:22:00,397
I do poke fun at you because
2125
01:22:00,416 --> 01:22:01,248
It's, like, an endearing thing.
2126
01:22:01,400 --> 01:22:03,066
Like, if I don't
make fun of you,
2127
01:22:03,085 --> 01:22:04,326
It's 'cause
I don't care about you.
2128
01:22:04,478 --> 01:22:05,586
- Okay.
2129
01:22:05,813 --> 01:22:07,237
- But now that you
brought it up,
2130
01:22:07,256 --> 01:22:08,981
I know,
and I won't do it again.
2131
01:22:08,999 --> 01:22:11,908
- The thing is,
if it does bother you a lot
2132
01:22:11,928 --> 01:22:14,820
And you--and you
bring it up enough,
2133
01:22:14,838 --> 01:22:17,097
I just feel like I need
to be in a different bed.
2134
01:22:17,324 --> 01:22:19,007
- Wow.
2135
01:22:19,160 --> 01:22:22,511
♪ ♪
2136
01:22:22,663 --> 01:22:24,496
- ♪ quit tearing us apart ♪
2137
01:22:24,515 --> 01:22:28,258
♪ tearing us apart,
tearing us apart ♪
2138
01:22:28,277 --> 01:22:30,002
♪ quit tearing us apart ♪
2139
01:22:30,020 --> 01:22:34,022
♪ ♪
2140
01:22:35,100 --> 01:22:37,509
- Next time on
"married at first sight"...
2141
01:22:37,528 --> 01:22:39,528
- ♪ there's nothing
we can't do ♪
2142
01:22:39,680 --> 01:22:40,270
- How lucky are we?
2143
01:22:40,289 --> 01:22:42,105
- We are the luckiest.
2144
01:22:42,124 --> 01:22:43,624
- Ooh!
2145
01:22:43,851 --> 01:22:45,459
- You asked for
chocolate chip cookies.
2146
01:22:45,610 --> 01:22:47,294
- That is amazing.
2147
01:22:47,446 --> 01:22:50,189
- Jose and rachel's
relationship is spicy.
2148
01:22:50,282 --> 01:22:51,465
It is hot.
2149
01:22:51,616 --> 01:22:52,800
- Big question is,
2150
01:22:52,951 --> 01:22:56,862
Has anyone
consummated the marriage?
2151
01:22:56,880 --> 01:22:59,807
- The fact that we have
different opinions,
2152
01:22:59,958 --> 01:23:03,126
To me, it is a big deal.
2153
01:23:03,145 --> 01:23:05,037
- I don't want a dog
'cause I don't wanna walk them.
2154
01:23:05,055 --> 01:23:07,873
- That doesn't sit well
with me at all.
2155
01:23:07,966 --> 01:23:09,541
That's just gonna
make it harder for me
2156
01:23:09,560 --> 01:23:11,468
To even wanna
get to know you further.
2157
01:23:11,562 --> 01:23:13,395
[dramatic music]
2158
01:23:13,489 --> 01:23:16,398
- Showering every single day
was not my top priority.
2159
01:23:16,550 --> 01:23:17,992
- Is that so hard?
Like, just rinse off?
2160
01:23:18,143 --> 01:23:21,553
- This is not the way
I imagined our honeymoon.
2161
01:23:21,572 --> 01:23:24,556
- If I don't have boxes
checked, it's not happening.
2162
01:23:24,575 --> 01:23:26,316
♪ ♪
2163
01:23:26,410 --> 01:23:29,319
- This is usually the point
where I start thinking,
2164
01:23:29,338 --> 01:23:30,395
"is this for me?"
2165
01:23:30,414 --> 01:23:35,092
♪ ♪