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- Being single feels so lonely.
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- I want something
that's gonna last a lifetime.
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- I'm ready for love.
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- I truly believe
this is my destiny.
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- Hoo!
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- The nation's
most controversial experiment
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Is back...
- Oh, [bleep].
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- For season 13.
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- I'm so excited!
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- And this time,
we've headed to houston.
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- I will do whatever it takes
to find the right man.
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- We've selected ten singles
to walk down the aisle
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And marry a complete stranger.
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- I'm insane for doing this.
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- This is
a legally binding marriage,
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And there's only one way out.
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And that's divorce.
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- You got it.
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- The risks could not
be greater,
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And the stakes
could not be higher.
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- Physically, I hope he's hot.
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And I mean, like, really hot.
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[dramatic music]
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- We the experts use science
and insight from past seasons
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To match five couples who will
marry a complete stranger.
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- You're getting married
in two weeks.
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- Oh, god, let's go.
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- Stop! Stop!
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- In two weeks, dog,
you gonna be married.
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- Oh, my god.
- In two weeks, man!
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- You are going
to have a husband!
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- Oh, if you could only feel
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How fast my heart
is racing right now.
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- That is awesome.
I can't wait.
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I'm excited. I'm so excited.
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- Oh, my god!
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- That's crazy!
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- No. [laughs]
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- [laughing] no!
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- In two weeks,
you're gonna be married.
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- What? No!
[laughter]
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- Yay, we're here.
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- And tonight,
our singles will search
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For the perfect
wedding looks...
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- Oh!
- Nice!
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- Celebrate at bachelor
and bachelorette parties...
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- Whoo!
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- And then one couple
will walk down the aisle
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And finally meet
their stranger spouse.
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- It's happening.
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- Please stand.
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- My dreams of being a husband
and father, they start now.
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- This is definitely
a surreal a dream come true.
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- For the first time
in my life,
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My destiny is not
in my own hands.
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- All right, we're doing this.
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- This could be
an utter disaster.
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- I'm shaking. I'm scared.
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- My heart is racing
a little bit.
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- Is she gonna
be attracted to me?
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- Oh, my god.
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♪ ♪
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- I know him.
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Oh, my god, it's johnny.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- This is
"married at first sight."
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- ♪ there's no other way ♪
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♪ ♪
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♪ it's all or nothing ♪
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- ♪ I've been waiting for days
like this to come ♪
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♪ where I can give you
everything you want ♪
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- Now that our ten singles have
learned the exciting news
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About being matched
to wed a stranger in two weeks,
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It's time to tell
their family and friends.
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- Hey, guys!
- Hey!
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- Lucy, kim, hey!
- Hey.
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- As this is not the typical
way to get married,
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This news could be exciting
for some
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And shocking for others.
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- ♪ baby, you can
have it all ♪
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- The first couple
is myrla and gil.
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They don't know
each other now,
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But in just two weeks,
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They're gonna be meeting
at the altar.
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We feel they are a great match
because of their
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Similar upbringing
and cultural connection.
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We believe they'll balance
each other out perfectly.
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- Hey, so reason why I brought
y'all boys here today
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Is to let y'all boys know...
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- Uh-oh.
- [laughs]
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- Ah, crazy idea coming in.
Sound crazy.
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- [laughs]
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Is that I'm engaged.
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- Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
What?
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- I'll be getting married
at the end of this month.
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- Are you serious?
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- When we see the ring
and who--
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- Let's see the picture,
yeah, everything.
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- So...I don't even know her.
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- Oh, whoa.
- Oh!
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- Yeah.
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- Somebody else
picked your wife.
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- Somebody else picked my wife.
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♪ ♪
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When I tell women
I'm a firefighter,
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It seems to go over
pretty well.
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[laughs]
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In the past, I've dated
some very good women.
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They see me as a selfless
person and a caring person,
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But they haven't been
the wifey material
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That I envisioned for myself.
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♪ ♪
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I'm still single
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Because finding the right girl
that I can relate to
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In different aspects of my life
has been very challenging.
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My job can be very demanding
at times
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Not only physically
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But the mental hardship
that I see.
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So being married at first
sight would be great
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For me specifically
because, you know,
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Having a wife to come to
after a 24-hour shift
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Would be amazing.
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I'm in search
of that '90s r&b-type love.
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♪ ♪
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And what I mean by that
is very passionate, very real,
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And very just straightforward.
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- ♪ they ain't gettin' money ♪
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♪ they ain't spendin'
what we spendin', huh ♪
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- I am a full-blooded
colombian.
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I love being colombian
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Mainly because of the food,
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The people, and the music.
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♪ ♪
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I love to salsa dance.
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It's something that's huge
in colombia,
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Especially
where I'm from in cali.
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You know, I'm no professional,
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But I've been dancing it
since I was a kid,
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And I hope to bring it
into my marriage.
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♪ ♪
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I am somebody that
doesn't trust everybody
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But is looking
to trust someone,
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Somebody that I can
feel safe to talk to.
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And that's something
that goes back
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To my childhood experience.
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When I was younger, my dad
was killed in a home invasion.
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Two guys break into the house,
not knowing that he was there,
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And a bullet struck him.
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This happened when I was
around 14 years of age.
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♪ ♪
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And so after that happened,
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It took a while, obviously,
to start trusting strangers.
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So thinking about marrying
a stranger
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Is insane.
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♪ ♪
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But, you know,
I feel like love kind of
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Is the queen
on the chessboard,
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The most important piece,
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And I love the phrase
"leap of faith."
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So if this stranger ends up
being the love of my life,
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Then why wouldn't I
take that leap?
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- You ready for this?
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'cause you going
from one gear to the next.
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Like, it's no more dating,
no more...
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- Yeah.
- I would say short answer
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Is yes, I am ready for it.
- It's a whole gear switch.
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- I'm really shocked.
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I never expected
any of this from gil.
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He's a good-looking dude.
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Ladies follow him
all the time.
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He doesn't need all this.
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And I don't even know
if this is a joke.
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I'm trying to see whether
all this is act.
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I think he's joking.
It's a prank.
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Honestly.
I don't believe it.
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- What about when you see
this person
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And you feel like,
"okay,
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"I'm not really attracted
to this person
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Or I'm not really into
this person"?
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Like, this ain't tinder.
Like, you can just swipe right.
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- 'cause, gil, we know...
- Are you gonna say, "I don't"?
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[laughter]
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- Honestly, that's a question
I've asked myself too.
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But then I also got
to think of it as,
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What about if she's not
attracted to me?
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- Yeah.
- Right?
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- Whoo!
- [laughs]
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- Gil has just revealed
to his friends
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That he's going to be marrying
a complete stranger
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In just two weeks.
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Now it's myrla's turn.
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♪ ♪
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- Finally.
- I know, yeah!
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- Hey, myrla!
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- Fashionably late.
- Hey, guys!
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- It's about time.
- Oh, you look so cute, girl.
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- I'm excited. Thank you.
Y'all look good.
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I'm really nervous and anxious
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'cause I'm about
to tell my friends,
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And I know they're gonna have,
like, 1,000 questions.
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Y'all hungry?
All: Yes.
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- We've been waiting on you
for, like, way too long.
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- But I'm just really excited
to be able
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To get it off my chest,
and I'm reminding myself,
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I prayed for this.
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You know,
I trust the experts to identify
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And find me a person
who is perfectly matched to me.
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And so I think that's given me
a lot of hope and confidence
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That this is gonna work out.
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I know I've been telling
you guys about something
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That I've been thinking
about doing,
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And I am going to be
getting married at first sight
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In two weeks.
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- Oh, my goodness!
- What?
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- That's super exciting!
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- Oh, my gosh.
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- Two weeks, y'all.
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♪ ♪
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I'm a little bougie.
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It's just who I am
as a person.
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So, like, my husband
has to be okay with it
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'cause that's likely
not to change.
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I want to be married
at first sight
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Because I'm tired of having
to interview men and ask them,
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"I'm ready to get married.
I'm ready to have a family.
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Are you ready? No?
Okay, next."
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♪ ♪
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Being single is lonely.
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I love doing things,
and I don't like being
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A third wheel anymore.
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Typically, I'm in the selfies,
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I'm like,
"third wheeling, y'all."
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You know,
"busting on this date, y'all."
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It's just--it's overwhelming,
it's exhausting,
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Which is why I do
a lot of self-care.
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I love doing facials.
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I have my little
morning routine.
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I put on my serums.
I put on my moisturizers.
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I wear my sunblock.
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I always wear matching
outfits to the gym.
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You have to look good
to feel good.
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And so for me, you know,
get my lashes done every week,
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That is probably, like,
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The number one addiction
that I've had.
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Post my little
fresh lash Friday every week.
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Do a little botox because
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I want to look like jlo
when I'm 50.
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- ♪ just another
broken heart ♪
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- You know, as a child,
I didn't have the privilege
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To do all those things.
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Growing up poor was tough.
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We moved around a lot,
five or six homes.
254
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I remember being
kicked out of one spot
255
00:09:24,973 --> 00:09:27,123
And, like, we had all our
things on the back of a trailer
256
00:09:27,142 --> 00:09:29,125
And it was, like, we're gonna
spend the rest of the day
257
00:09:29,144 --> 00:09:30,627
Looking for a home to live.
258
00:09:30,645 --> 00:09:33,129
And I don't want to ever
have to experience that again.
259
00:09:33,148 --> 00:09:37,467
- ♪ it's nothing that
I haven't seen before ♪
260
00:09:37,485 --> 00:09:40,470
- I love my life, but I think
there's a missing part.
261
00:09:40,488 --> 00:09:41,805
When you experience life
by yourself,
262
00:09:41,823 --> 00:09:43,064
It's beautiful, it's amazing.
263
00:09:43,083 --> 00:09:44,974
But when you experience life
with someone else,
264
00:09:44,993 --> 00:09:47,493
Like, you have someone
to look at and laugh with,
265
00:09:47,646 --> 00:09:50,237
That's really what
I've always dreamed of having
266
00:09:50,257 --> 00:09:51,664
Since I was a child.
267
00:09:51,817 --> 00:09:54,575
I'm just waiting for them
to come and knock on my door.
268
00:09:54,595 --> 00:09:58,079
Hasn't happened yet.
[laughs]
269
00:09:58,098 --> 00:10:00,081
- So what does he do?
270
00:10:00,100 --> 00:10:02,416
- All I know is
that I have, like,
271
00:10:02,436 --> 00:10:04,752
A very short list of
requirements that I asked for.
272
00:10:04,771 --> 00:10:05,937
- Okay.
What are the requirements?
273
00:10:06,089 --> 00:10:07,421
- What's the short list?
What's the short list?
274
00:10:07,441 --> 00:10:09,256
- A man who believes in faith,
275
00:10:09,276 --> 00:10:11,334
Tall, dark,
handsome and bearded,
276
00:10:11,353 --> 00:10:14,261
Someone who is able to enjoy
the same lifestyle
277
00:10:14,281 --> 00:10:16,097
That I like to enjoy.
278
00:10:16,116 --> 00:10:17,282
- What if he's cheap?
279
00:10:17,433 --> 00:10:19,175
- No, we can't go with
someone cheap, y'all.
280
00:10:19,194 --> 00:10:21,102
- It's about what you need,
not what you want.
281
00:10:21,121 --> 00:10:22,528
- But maybe you need
somebody cheap
282
00:10:22,681 --> 00:10:24,180
'cause you're high-maintenance.
That'll balance you out.
283
00:10:24,199 --> 00:10:25,940
- So I need someone
to let me not go shopping?
284
00:10:25,959 --> 00:10:29,686
- Yeah.
- There's compromise.
285
00:10:29,704 --> 00:10:32,021
- I'm pretty good
at compromise, right, elisha?
286
00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:33,206
- Mm-mm, no.
287
00:10:33,282 --> 00:10:34,782
- Mr. Brown, I'm pretty good
at compromise.
288
00:10:34,801 --> 00:10:39,028
Remember, we worked together?
- Nope. I'm not in that.
289
00:10:39,047 --> 00:10:40,864
- Picky. Picky.
- You keep--picky. Yeah.
290
00:10:40,882 --> 00:10:43,032
You keep your things--
like, all your things
291
00:10:43,051 --> 00:10:45,034
Need to be a certain way,
how you roll your day,
292
00:10:45,053 --> 00:10:46,627
How you do your face, like--
293
00:10:46,647 --> 00:10:47,720
- He has to have hair.
294
00:10:47,873 --> 00:10:49,873
He has to have a beard,
no bald head.
295
00:10:49,891 --> 00:10:52,208
♪ ♪
296
00:10:52,227 --> 00:10:53,543
- [laughs]
297
00:10:53,561 --> 00:10:55,378
- So if he's bald, that's a no?
- I don't know.
298
00:10:55,397 --> 00:10:57,714
I think I would be
so distracted by a bald head.
299
00:10:57,732 --> 00:10:59,048
♪ ♪
300
00:10:59,067 --> 00:10:59,991
- I'm conflicted.
301
00:11:00,143 --> 00:11:02,643
If I'm honest,
I know that marriage
302
00:11:02,663 --> 00:11:04,829
Is something
that myrla wants,
303
00:11:04,906 --> 00:11:06,723
But at times,
she can require a lot.
304
00:11:06,741 --> 00:11:10,393
And if, you know,
a man doesn't meet that mold,
305
00:11:10,412 --> 00:11:12,245
I fear for him.
306
00:11:12,397 --> 00:11:14,822
- I want to be able
to live the lifestyle
307
00:11:14,841 --> 00:11:16,566
That I currently live.
308
00:11:16,584 --> 00:11:19,326
So if I have to shift
my lifestyle,
309
00:11:19,346 --> 00:11:20,661
That would be a problem.
310
00:11:20,681 --> 00:11:22,906
- [laughs]
- damn.
311
00:11:22,924 --> 00:11:26,576
♪ ♪
312
00:11:26,594 --> 00:11:28,745
- Myrla and gil
are going to be successful
313
00:11:28,763 --> 00:11:30,580
Because they both know
who they are
314
00:11:30,598 --> 00:11:33,007
And their traits
will complement one another.
315
00:11:33,026 --> 00:11:36,269
We feel that gil
has the kind of sensitivity
316
00:11:36,421 --> 00:11:39,013
And understanding
that myrla needs.
317
00:11:39,032 --> 00:11:42,850
They both came from a very
impoverished background
318
00:11:42,869 --> 00:11:44,110
And worked their way up.
319
00:11:44,262 --> 00:11:46,705
Now, even though myrla
had indicated
320
00:11:46,781 --> 00:11:50,099
That she was not interested
in a bald man,
321
00:11:50,118 --> 00:11:51,451
Gil is bald.
322
00:11:51,603 --> 00:11:53,194
But we believe
that that's a part
323
00:11:53,213 --> 00:11:54,938
Of her being superficial.
324
00:11:54,956 --> 00:11:57,774
Gil is laid-back and easygoing
325
00:11:57,792 --> 00:11:59,776
But calls it like he sees it.
326
00:11:59,794 --> 00:12:03,613
Myrla can be a bit of a diva
at times but has a big heart.
327
00:12:03,631 --> 00:12:06,449
She'll appreciate gil's
ability to go with the flow
328
00:12:06,468 --> 00:12:08,952
And get her
out of her comfort zone.
329
00:12:08,970 --> 00:12:12,455
If they are both willing
to see the good in each other,
330
00:12:12,474 --> 00:12:14,715
They could have something
that could be lifelong.
331
00:12:14,735 --> 00:12:17,051
- ♪ tell me, do you want me ♪
332
00:12:17,070 --> 00:12:19,629
♪ 'cause I'm looking
for somebody to love ♪
333
00:12:19,647 --> 00:12:22,966
- Our second couple
is michaela and zack.
334
00:12:22,984 --> 00:12:25,969
Michaela is looking
for a renaissance man,
335
00:12:25,987 --> 00:12:27,637
Someone who can keep up
with her
336
00:12:27,655 --> 00:12:30,139
Both emotionally
and intellectually.
337
00:12:30,158 --> 00:12:31,808
We matched her with zack,
338
00:12:31,826 --> 00:12:35,311
Who is smart, successful,
and creative.
339
00:12:35,330 --> 00:12:36,237
♪ ♪
340
00:12:36,256 --> 00:12:40,316
- Zachary, what's up?
341
00:12:40,335 --> 00:12:41,818
- I'm nervous to tell
my parents I'm getting married
342
00:12:41,836 --> 00:12:44,654
To a stranger in two weeks
because this is
343
00:12:44,672 --> 00:12:46,413
A very untraditional way
of getting married,
344
00:12:46,433 --> 00:12:49,325
And, you know, that's not what
they envisioned for their son.
345
00:12:49,344 --> 00:12:51,936
And it makes me worried
because their opinion
346
00:12:52,013 --> 00:12:55,331
And their thoughts on what I do
in life definitely matters.
347
00:12:55,350 --> 00:12:59,335
So I'm just nervous
as to what they're gonna say.
348
00:12:59,354 --> 00:13:02,505
So you know how, like, I've
been talking to the experts
349
00:13:02,524 --> 00:13:04,507
For, like, the last two months
about, you know,
350
00:13:04,526 --> 00:13:07,343
Them, potentially finding me,
you know, the one?
351
00:13:07,362 --> 00:13:10,847
- Yeah. What prompted you
to even consider this?
352
00:13:10,865 --> 00:13:12,290
♪ ♪
353
00:13:12,441 --> 00:13:14,017
- I've never been in love,
354
00:13:14,035 --> 00:13:16,686
And I would love to be
with someone completely
355
00:13:16,704 --> 00:13:19,355
And to have, like, someone
I could share my life with.
356
00:13:19,374 --> 00:13:22,191
Like, it's a once-in-a-lifetime
opportunity.
357
00:13:22,210 --> 00:13:25,211
- Well, marriage is more
than just love.
358
00:13:25,363 --> 00:13:27,363
Love doesn't--
is not everything.
359
00:13:27,382 --> 00:13:30,033
You gotta be committed
to it every day.
360
00:13:30,051 --> 00:13:33,369
- ♪ let's appreciate
I been on my way ♪
361
00:13:33,388 --> 00:13:35,647
- I'm tired
of playing piano for no one.
362
00:13:35,723 --> 00:13:38,708
I would love to be able
to play something for my wife.
363
00:13:38,726 --> 00:13:41,544
As I've gotten older,
I feel like I've been getting
364
00:13:41,563 --> 00:13:43,880
Further and further away
from my ultimate goal,
365
00:13:43,898 --> 00:13:45,548
Which is to have
a beautiful wife and kids.
366
00:13:45,567 --> 00:13:47,050
And so, you know,
if you would have said,
367
00:13:47,068 --> 00:13:49,143
"zack, you have to do 1,000
push-ups to meet your wife,"
368
00:13:49,162 --> 00:13:50,903
Or, "zack, you have to run
1,000 miles to meet your wife,"
369
00:13:51,056 --> 00:13:52,722
Or, "zack, you have
to talk to three experts
370
00:13:52,740 --> 00:13:55,391
And find your wife,"
I'm gonna do it,
371
00:13:55,410 --> 00:13:57,560
Because I've wanted this
all my life,
372
00:13:57,579 --> 00:14:00,396
But I just haven't
found the one.
373
00:14:00,415 --> 00:14:02,732
My parents have been
married for 28 years.
374
00:14:02,750 --> 00:14:04,734
My brother's getting
married soon,
375
00:14:04,752 --> 00:14:07,161
And my other brother
has a long-term relationship.
376
00:14:07,180 --> 00:14:08,162
And I'm the odd man out.
377
00:14:08,181 --> 00:14:09,347
I'm the only one
that's single.
378
00:14:09,498 --> 00:14:12,575
So that makes me feel
very, very alone.
379
00:14:12,594 --> 00:14:14,577
That's why I want
to get married so bad.
380
00:14:14,596 --> 00:14:16,521
That's why
I want to find the one.
381
00:14:16,672 --> 00:14:19,916
[soft piano music playing]
382
00:14:19,934 --> 00:14:22,676
It's not that I've had a
problem finding girls to date.
383
00:14:22,696 --> 00:14:24,754
It's just me, like,
you know,
384
00:14:24,772 --> 00:14:27,590
Having this ideal person
in my head,
385
00:14:27,609 --> 00:14:29,200
But, you know, no one
has ever lived up
386
00:14:29,277 --> 00:14:30,760
To those expectations.
387
00:14:30,778 --> 00:14:34,097
My longest relationship
was actually only nine months.
388
00:14:34,115 --> 00:14:35,932
I've definitely
never been in love,
389
00:14:35,950 --> 00:14:38,543
But this is something I want,
and I'm gonna give it my all.
390
00:14:38,620 --> 00:14:40,436
- ♪ yeah, I know you feel it ♪
391
00:14:40,455 --> 00:14:43,289
- I feel like love is what's
gonna make me complete.
392
00:14:43,441 --> 00:14:44,941
[upbeat music]
393
00:14:44,959 --> 00:14:46,050
I have one image in my head.
394
00:14:46,202 --> 00:14:48,611
It's where I come home
from work
395
00:14:48,630 --> 00:14:53,116
And I see my beautiful wife
playing with our kids.
396
00:14:53,134 --> 00:14:54,784
I'm definitely ready
to fall in love
397
00:14:54,802 --> 00:14:56,953
For the first and last time.
398
00:14:56,971 --> 00:15:00,123
- Zack, it is crazy
on a whole--
399
00:15:00,141 --> 00:15:02,049
You know, on a whole level.
400
00:15:02,068 --> 00:15:05,294
You might find that person,
but it's like,
401
00:15:05,313 --> 00:15:07,130
It's a little bit...
[whistle]
402
00:15:07,148 --> 00:15:09,799
- I mean, I appreciate you guys
just for, like,
403
00:15:09,817 --> 00:15:11,075
Even being here now,
404
00:15:11,152 --> 00:15:13,394
'cause I'm actually
getting married
405
00:15:13,413 --> 00:15:14,895
In two weeks.
406
00:15:14,915 --> 00:15:17,140
- No!
- Yeah. Yeah, yeah.
407
00:15:17,158 --> 00:15:19,400
- You know for sure that you're
getting [bleep] married?
408
00:15:19,419 --> 00:15:21,477
- What?
- Yes. Yeah.
409
00:15:21,496 --> 00:15:22,662
- No.
- Yeah.
410
00:15:22,738 --> 00:15:24,405
- You already know this?
- No, he's cappin'.
411
00:15:24,424 --> 00:15:25,648
- There's no what-ifs.
I'm actually, like--
412
00:15:25,667 --> 00:15:27,500
I'm actually getting married
in two weeks.
413
00:15:27,652 --> 00:15:29,576
- Well, wait, wait, wait, wait!
- Oh, my goodness!
414
00:15:29,596 --> 00:15:32,579
- You know for sure?
- Yeah, 100%.
415
00:15:32,599 --> 00:15:35,582
Honestly, like, one thing
that I've started to realize
416
00:15:35,602 --> 00:15:37,084
Is that
I'm ready to be a husband.
417
00:15:37,103 --> 00:15:40,012
- [scoffs]
no, no, there's no--no.
418
00:15:40,165 --> 00:15:41,998
- He can't be.
- Yeah, how you gonna know
419
00:15:42,016 --> 00:15:43,257
How to be a husband
if you never been a husband?
420
00:15:43,276 --> 00:15:45,168
[dramatic music]
421
00:15:45,186 --> 00:15:47,186
- What?
422
00:15:47,338 --> 00:15:49,430
What are you
talking about, zack?
423
00:15:49,449 --> 00:15:51,340
- Bleep.
- He said in two weeks.
424
00:15:51,359 --> 00:15:55,011
I said, "two?"
- yeah, that's, like, insane.
425
00:15:55,029 --> 00:15:56,846
♪ ♪
426
00:15:56,864 --> 00:15:57,938
You know how--ma, you know
how you always say
427
00:15:57,958 --> 00:16:00,124
That, you know,
no woman has ever been--
428
00:16:00,201 --> 00:16:02,109
No, no woman is really good
for your children,
429
00:16:02,128 --> 00:16:03,277
Which I understand
why you say that.
430
00:16:03,296 --> 00:16:05,021
But do you really
believe that, though, ma?
431
00:16:05,039 --> 00:16:06,022
- [exhales heavily]
432
00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:09,450
♪ ♪
433
00:16:09,469 --> 00:16:13,454
- ♪ hold my hand ♪
434
00:16:13,473 --> 00:16:15,031
- Damn, I can't.
435
00:16:15,049 --> 00:16:16,623
♪ ♪
436
00:16:16,643 --> 00:16:18,534
- You know much I love you
437
00:16:18,553 --> 00:16:20,536
And I want only the best
for you.
438
00:16:20,555 --> 00:16:22,463
♪ ♪
439
00:16:22,482 --> 00:16:28,544
But I don't want any random
girl for my son, so...
440
00:16:28,563 --> 00:16:32,381
- ♪ you're the whole world
to me ♪
441
00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:38,721
♪ I can see you
shining brightly ♪
442
00:16:38,740 --> 00:16:40,164
♪ ♪
443
00:16:44,337 --> 00:16:46,153
[upbeat music]
444
00:16:46,172 --> 00:16:49,007
♪ ♪
445
00:16:49,158 --> 00:16:52,068
- We matched five couples
to be married at first sight.
446
00:16:52,086 --> 00:16:55,346
Our second couple
is michaela and zack.
447
00:16:55,498 --> 00:16:57,240
Zack has just revealed
to his family
448
00:16:57,258 --> 00:16:59,684
That he's getting married
to a stranger.
449
00:16:59,835 --> 00:17:02,520
Now it's michaela's turn.
450
00:17:02,671 --> 00:17:06,024
- I'm excited to surprise
my family with the news
451
00:17:06,175 --> 00:17:09,252
That in two weeks,
I am going to be a wife.
452
00:17:09,270 --> 00:17:13,031
But I guess I'm just nervous
because I'm the baby sister.
453
00:17:13,107 --> 00:17:16,200
And so I just wonder,
are they going to be able
454
00:17:16,277 --> 00:17:18,277
To handle this?
455
00:17:18,429 --> 00:17:20,354
In the midst of everything,
work and all,
456
00:17:20,373 --> 00:17:23,949
You guys know that I have been
trying to find my mate.
457
00:17:24,102 --> 00:17:27,453
So what have you guys
thought about that?
458
00:17:27,605 --> 00:17:29,772
- Initially nervous,
459
00:17:29,791 --> 00:17:31,440
Because how do you marry
somebody you don't know?
460
00:17:31,459 --> 00:17:33,384
- You just need someone
that's understanding
461
00:17:33,461 --> 00:17:36,279
Because you can be
very stubborn.
462
00:17:36,297 --> 00:17:37,463
- Oh, don't act like
you don't know.
463
00:17:37,615 --> 00:17:39,891
- Oh, don't do it.
Don't you do it.
464
00:17:40,042 --> 00:17:41,726
- You are so stubborn.
465
00:17:41,803 --> 00:17:43,561
- We not gonna act
like we shocked.
466
00:17:43,638 --> 00:17:45,121
- ♪ baby, I just might ♪
467
00:17:45,139 --> 00:17:46,731
- Why am I still single?
468
00:17:46,882 --> 00:17:48,900
Well, for the most part,
it's not my fault.
469
00:17:48,976 --> 00:17:51,903
So that's good.
470
00:17:51,979 --> 00:17:54,072
I am a realtor.
471
00:17:54,223 --> 00:17:56,741
So in real estate,
I help people move
472
00:17:56,892 --> 00:17:58,892
Into the next stage
of their life.
473
00:17:58,912 --> 00:18:01,320
And I want to do that too.
474
00:18:01,472 --> 00:18:03,139
I know, but we're going
this way.
475
00:18:03,157 --> 00:18:05,157
♪ ♪
476
00:18:05,310 --> 00:18:07,643
So to be married
at first sight
477
00:18:07,662 --> 00:18:09,754
Allows me the opportunity
478
00:18:09,905 --> 00:18:12,924
To hand it over
to somebody else
479
00:18:13,075 --> 00:18:15,334
To find my person.
480
00:18:15,486 --> 00:18:17,428
And then that's it.
I'm married.
481
00:18:17,580 --> 00:18:19,931
[giggles] I'm married.
482
00:18:20,007 --> 00:18:24,493
I went from being real single
to being real married.
483
00:18:24,512 --> 00:18:25,770
♪ ♪
484
00:18:25,921 --> 00:18:27,179
In my younger age,
485
00:18:27,332 --> 00:18:30,015
I took advantage
of being young and energetic.
486
00:18:30,168 --> 00:18:32,518
I was a little bit
more shallow,
487
00:18:32,670 --> 00:18:35,113
And I put weight on really,
488
00:18:35,264 --> 00:18:38,341
In hindsight, stupid things,
but I didn't know any better.
489
00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:41,602
- ♪ I'm the broken shadow
on your sun ♪
490
00:18:41,621 --> 00:18:43,604
- And I realized,
at the end of the day,
491
00:18:43,623 --> 00:18:47,458
We all grow old, ugly,
and sometimes broke.
492
00:18:47,610 --> 00:18:50,186
So what does that look like?
493
00:18:50,204 --> 00:18:51,854
♪ ♪
494
00:18:51,873 --> 00:18:55,875
Growing up for me
was not an easy thing.
495
00:18:56,027 --> 00:18:58,636
I was homeless at one point.
496
00:18:58,787 --> 00:19:02,473
Obviously, you don't see that
in young everyday faces,
497
00:19:02,550 --> 00:19:05,034
And a lot of the dudes who I
date who I expressed that to,
498
00:19:05,052 --> 00:19:07,628
They're like,
"ooh, you're so refined."
499
00:19:07,647 --> 00:19:12,483
So? People from the hood
can be refined. [laughs]
500
00:19:12,635 --> 00:19:15,060
But growing up
was particularly rough,
501
00:19:15,213 --> 00:19:17,822
And if I hadn't been kept
on the right path,
502
00:19:17,973 --> 00:19:20,383
My life could have turned out
so much different.
503
00:19:20,401 --> 00:19:21,567
♪ ♪
504
00:19:21,719 --> 00:19:25,329
My father,
absolutely amazing person.
505
00:19:25,406 --> 00:19:28,557
He is who created
who I am today.
506
00:19:28,576 --> 00:19:30,835
He was killed
by a drunk driver,
507
00:19:30,986 --> 00:19:34,338
And losing him was
a heavy impact on my life.
508
00:19:34,415 --> 00:19:40,178
He was one of those people who
was an amazing example of love.
509
00:19:40,329 --> 00:19:43,514
My hood flew off of my car
while I was driving one time,
510
00:19:43,666 --> 00:19:45,090
And I called him,
middle of the day.
511
00:19:45,243 --> 00:19:46,184
"hey"--he was at work.
512
00:19:46,335 --> 00:19:48,352
"daddy, my hood
flew off of my car."
513
00:19:48,504 --> 00:19:51,338
He stopped what he was doing
and came and saved me.
514
00:19:51,357 --> 00:19:53,249
[sniffles]
and that's what I want.
515
00:19:53,267 --> 00:19:55,359
That's the kind of love
that I want.
516
00:19:55,511 --> 00:19:59,030
- ♪ had my ups and down,
been thrown some curves ♪
517
00:19:59,181 --> 00:20:02,091
- I give everything a shot.
Let's see what happens.
518
00:20:02,109 --> 00:20:05,870
Like, maybe I'll get it.
Like, I do love love.
519
00:20:06,021 --> 00:20:10,541
I have seen love.
I have evidence of love.
520
00:20:10,618 --> 00:20:11,692
- ♪ oh-oh ♪
521
00:20:11,711 --> 00:20:14,879
- And if I can get that,
I want that love.
522
00:20:15,030 --> 00:20:17,790
Love is love, and I love love.
523
00:20:17,942 --> 00:20:20,384
It's beautiful. It really is.
524
00:20:20,536 --> 00:20:22,778
- There are some things
you will need to adjust
525
00:20:22,797 --> 00:20:26,557
In order to be a successful
mate to someone
526
00:20:26,709 --> 00:20:27,950
In any type of relationship.
527
00:20:27,969 --> 00:20:29,560
And I think, in the past,
528
00:20:29,712 --> 00:20:32,638
You just decided it was
just gonna be that way.
529
00:20:32,790 --> 00:20:35,958
- And that is something
that I will need to work on,
530
00:20:35,977 --> 00:20:39,128
Because in two weeks,
I am getting married.
531
00:20:39,146 --> 00:20:42,907
- What? [laughs]
I knew it. I knew it.
532
00:20:43,058 --> 00:20:44,075
- Are you serious?
533
00:20:44,226 --> 00:20:46,469
- They have found me a match,
534
00:20:46,487 --> 00:20:49,080
And I will be getting
married in two weeks.
535
00:20:49,231 --> 00:20:51,082
- Oh, my god.
536
00:20:51,233 --> 00:20:56,754
[laughter]
537
00:20:56,905 --> 00:20:58,905
- I feel good.
538
00:20:58,925 --> 00:21:01,984
- Ey!
539
00:21:02,003 --> 00:21:03,652
There you go.
There you go.
540
00:21:03,654 --> 00:21:05,654
- The first thought
when michaela said
541
00:21:05,673 --> 00:21:08,432
She was getting married was...
542
00:21:08,584 --> 00:21:11,660
- "oh, [bleep]."
- that's right.
543
00:21:11,679 --> 00:21:13,496
- I mean, if we're being
honest, "oh, [bleep]."
544
00:21:13,514 --> 00:21:15,439
- If we're being honest, yeah,
"oh, [bleep]."
545
00:21:15,591 --> 00:21:18,442
She has a wedding date
but no husband to put it to.
546
00:21:18,594 --> 00:21:21,003
- [screams]
- I mean, she has a husband,
547
00:21:21,022 --> 00:21:22,505
But she doesn't know
who he is.
548
00:21:22,523 --> 00:21:24,006
- I got a secret husband.
549
00:21:24,025 --> 00:21:25,783
- So we don't meet him
till the day of?
550
00:21:25,934 --> 00:21:28,101
- Nah, sissy.
- Really?
551
00:21:28,121 --> 00:21:30,288
- You trust the experts
to do this for you?
552
00:21:30,439 --> 00:21:32,939
- You guys know
I've never been in love.
553
00:21:32,959 --> 00:21:36,460
So this is michaela saying,
"my life is in your hands,
554
00:21:36,537 --> 00:21:39,946
My future is in your hands,
and we 'bout to do this."
555
00:21:39,966 --> 00:21:46,378
♪ ♪
556
00:21:46,531 --> 00:21:48,213
- We matched zack and michaela
557
00:21:48,366 --> 00:21:49,623
Because we believe
that they are
558
00:21:49,642 --> 00:21:54,478
A great example of what
each other is looking for.
559
00:21:54,630 --> 00:21:58,316
Michaela needs someone
who can be patient with her,
560
00:21:58,467 --> 00:22:00,484
Because by her own admission,
561
00:22:00,636 --> 00:22:02,486
She sometimes can go
off the rails.
562
00:22:02,638 --> 00:22:05,230
I believe zack has that kind
of steadiness
563
00:22:05,383 --> 00:22:07,808
That she needs in her life.
564
00:22:07,827 --> 00:22:12,163
Michaela is so exciting
and so full of joy,
565
00:22:12,314 --> 00:22:13,831
And zack needs that.
566
00:22:13,982 --> 00:22:16,225
I believe that commitment
has been the thing
567
00:22:16,243 --> 00:22:18,577
That's been missing
out of their love life.
568
00:22:18,729 --> 00:22:21,005
And if they can just see
each other's best sides,
569
00:22:21,156 --> 00:22:24,066
They have a chance to make this
an incredible marriage.
570
00:22:24,085 --> 00:22:25,659
♪ ♪
571
00:22:25,678 --> 00:22:27,345
- ♪ hey, you ♪
- ♪ hello ♪
572
00:22:27,496 --> 00:22:29,347
- ♪ yeah, so happy that you
made it here ♪
573
00:22:29,498 --> 00:22:30,514
♪ got a lot I want to share ♪
574
00:22:30,666 --> 00:22:33,409
- Our third couple
is bao and johnny.
575
00:22:33,427 --> 00:22:36,503
Bao and johnny
were a natural match.
576
00:22:36,522 --> 00:22:40,191
They are both ambitious,
sharp-witted intellectuals,
577
00:22:40,342 --> 00:22:44,028
And their devotion to family
will create a strong bond.
578
00:22:44,179 --> 00:22:46,680
- How's it going?
- Ck. How you doing, man?
579
00:22:46,699 --> 00:22:48,366
- Doing well.
- Welcome, welcome.
580
00:22:48,517 --> 00:22:50,868
Going from dating a lot
and not getting married
581
00:22:51,019 --> 00:22:53,186
To going to not dating at all
and getting married,
582
00:22:53,206 --> 00:22:55,706
I'm nervous about what they're
gonna think when I tell them
583
00:22:55,858 --> 00:22:57,116
I'm making this huge leap.
584
00:22:57,268 --> 00:22:58,376
- Hey, guys!
- Hey!
585
00:22:58,527 --> 00:22:59,935
- Lucy, kim, hey!
- Hey.
586
00:22:59,954 --> 00:23:01,879
- I think that's gonna
blow their mind.
587
00:23:02,030 --> 00:23:03,772
It blows my mind, for sure.
588
00:23:03,774 --> 00:23:05,958
I feel a little hug here,
elbow, elbow bump.
589
00:23:06,110 --> 00:23:08,110
- Hi.
- Oh, yeah.
590
00:23:08,129 --> 00:23:10,721
- How are you guys doing?
- Thanks for coming.
591
00:23:10,873 --> 00:23:15,226
So I am trying to find a wife.
592
00:23:15,377 --> 00:23:16,468
- You're always trying
to find a wife.
593
00:23:16,621 --> 00:23:20,398
- Yeah, you've been trying
for, like, years.
594
00:23:20,549 --> 00:23:23,792
- I've been interviewing
with relationship experts
595
00:23:23,811 --> 00:23:25,069
To match me with someone,
596
00:23:25,220 --> 00:23:28,797
And the first time I would
meet her is at the altar.
597
00:23:28,816 --> 00:23:29,965
And to be honest,
that kind of scares me.
598
00:23:29,984 --> 00:23:32,243
♪ ♪
599
00:23:32,394 --> 00:23:34,745
But I am gonna get married
in two weeks.
600
00:23:34,897 --> 00:23:37,564
- [gasps] what?
- [laughs]
601
00:23:37,583 --> 00:23:38,916
- Like, for real?
602
00:23:39,067 --> 00:23:40,751
Cheers!
- Cheers.
603
00:23:40,903 --> 00:23:42,920
- What? No, for sure?
604
00:23:43,071 --> 00:23:44,922
- This is happening.
- Oh, my god!
605
00:23:45,073 --> 00:23:48,092
- Oh, my god. Here.
- Thank you so much.
606
00:23:48,243 --> 00:23:49,593
- Oh, snap,
- oh, my god.
607
00:23:49,745 --> 00:23:50,986
- J-lam getting married!
608
00:23:51,005 --> 00:23:53,246
- I know.
609
00:23:53,266 --> 00:23:54,657
- I think my friends
and family
610
00:23:54,675 --> 00:23:56,434
Would probably say
that I'm still single
611
00:23:56,585 --> 00:23:59,937
Because I'm too picky
and borderline ocd.
612
00:24:00,088 --> 00:24:02,606
I love it when everything
is neat, orderly.
613
00:24:02,683 --> 00:24:04,500
I mean,
I'm attracted to hygiene.
614
00:24:04,518 --> 00:24:05,834
♪ ♪
615
00:24:05,853 --> 00:24:08,428
That is the one thing
I'm very conscious of is
616
00:24:08,448 --> 00:24:12,675
Kind of tracking a germ
and how it might be dirty.
617
00:24:12,693 --> 00:24:14,118
♪ ♪
618
00:24:14,269 --> 00:24:16,361
I've been effectively
without a girlfriend
619
00:24:16,514 --> 00:24:18,456
For seven years now.
620
00:24:18,607 --> 00:24:20,458
I've done the dating
in person,
621
00:24:20,534 --> 00:24:22,534
Dating through people
introducing me to people,
622
00:24:22,687 --> 00:24:23,944
And I've been on dating apps
623
00:24:23,963 --> 00:24:26,021
For probably since
the inception of dating apps.
624
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:28,023
♪ ♪
625
00:24:28,042 --> 00:24:30,709
Basically, I need to always be
in control of a situation,
626
00:24:30,861 --> 00:24:33,471
And I prefer to find people
that are way more into me
627
00:24:33,622 --> 00:24:35,197
Than I am into them.
628
00:24:35,199 --> 00:24:37,032
I like girls
that make the first move.
629
00:24:37,051 --> 00:24:38,476
I like the girls to say
630
00:24:38,627 --> 00:24:40,978
That they love me first
before I say it,
631
00:24:41,055 --> 00:24:43,889
Because there's a fear that
I might become vulnerable
632
00:24:44,041 --> 00:24:46,542
And exposed to someone
and they may hurt my feelings.
633
00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:48,986
So I think control
has been a big,
634
00:24:49,137 --> 00:24:52,472
Big story of my relationships
and why I'm here today.
635
00:24:52,492 --> 00:24:53,824
♪ ♪
636
00:24:53,976 --> 00:24:55,826
[speaking native language]
- hello.
637
00:24:55,978 --> 00:24:57,828
- Spending time with family
is very important to me
638
00:24:57,980 --> 00:25:01,890
Because I think that's
the foundation of who I am.
639
00:25:01,892 --> 00:25:04,168
When I was young,
my parents divorced,
640
00:25:04,245 --> 00:25:07,004
And eventually, my dad
moved away to california.
641
00:25:07,155 --> 00:25:09,732
I kind of have this love-hate
relationship with him,
642
00:25:09,750 --> 00:25:13,827
But his opinion still matters
to me because he is my father.
643
00:25:13,846 --> 00:25:16,680
My mom, being a single mom,
two kids,
644
00:25:16,832 --> 00:25:20,684
We had a lot of kind of
community in the family.
645
00:25:20,836 --> 00:25:22,853
I was raised by my aunts
and my uncles.
646
00:25:23,005 --> 00:25:24,188
I grew up with my cousins,
647
00:25:24,265 --> 00:25:25,523
Like, as if they were
my second siblings.
648
00:25:25,674 --> 00:25:27,858
And the thing
that I can't wait to do
649
00:25:28,010 --> 00:25:31,436
Is to bring my wife
into my friends and family,
650
00:25:31,589 --> 00:25:35,199
Because it would just
complete the circle.
651
00:25:35,276 --> 00:25:36,700
- ♪ want to let it go ♪
652
00:25:36,852 --> 00:25:38,369
- Every night when
I'm getting ready for bed
653
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:40,946
And I'm in my bathroom,
I've got two sinks,
654
00:25:41,098 --> 00:25:42,781
And I really only use one.
655
00:25:42,933 --> 00:25:45,042
The other one's
completely bare,
656
00:25:45,193 --> 00:25:47,102
But as I'm brushing my teeth,
I look over there,
657
00:25:47,121 --> 00:25:49,046
And I kind of just have
this fantasy
658
00:25:49,197 --> 00:25:51,882
Of my wife over there
brushing her teeth with me,
659
00:25:52,034 --> 00:25:54,960
Giggling, kind of making faces
at each other.
660
00:25:55,112 --> 00:25:56,887
And I would really love that.
661
00:25:57,039 --> 00:25:58,280
I kind of think about it
all the time.
662
00:25:58,299 --> 00:26:01,374
- ♪ you got me thinking
about you all day ♪
663
00:26:01,394 --> 00:26:03,561
- And so for the first time
in my life,
664
00:26:03,712 --> 00:26:07,565
I am relinquishing control
to a set of experts.
665
00:26:07,716 --> 00:26:09,458
It's frightening. It is--
666
00:26:09,476 --> 00:26:11,068
This is the scariest thing
I've ever done,
667
00:26:11,145 --> 00:26:15,072
And I don't know how it's
gonna go, to be honest.
668
00:26:15,223 --> 00:26:18,801
But I really want to start
that chapter of my life now.
669
00:26:18,819 --> 00:26:20,911
- I don't think I've seen you
smile this big
670
00:26:21,063 --> 00:26:22,321
In, like, forever.
- I know.
671
00:26:22,473 --> 00:26:25,641
- I'm really excited
about finally having someone.
672
00:26:25,659 --> 00:26:27,659
I've lived by myself
for a really long time,
673
00:26:27,812 --> 00:26:29,753
And I haven't been able
to, like,
674
00:26:29,905 --> 00:26:31,814
Watch shows on tv together.
675
00:26:31,832 --> 00:26:33,239
If I'm laughing
about something,
676
00:26:33,259 --> 00:26:36,151
I kind of just laugh to myself,
which is kind of sad.
677
00:26:36,170 --> 00:26:37,928
And I feel good about it.
678
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:39,504
- Yeah.
- I mean,
679
00:26:39,657 --> 00:26:41,915
As good as I can feel.
680
00:26:41,934 --> 00:26:44,751
- I think johnny definitely
is a good catch,
681
00:26:44,770 --> 00:26:46,995
And I'm definitely
feeling excited for him.
682
00:26:47,014 --> 00:26:49,607
But I think the biggest
challenge for johnny
683
00:26:49,758 --> 00:26:52,109
Is to learn to just let go.
684
00:26:52,186 --> 00:26:54,002
He's used to doing
his own thing
685
00:26:54,021 --> 00:26:55,337
And being his own person.
686
00:26:55,356 --> 00:26:56,855
He's super independent.
687
00:26:57,007 --> 00:26:58,006
So he's gonna have to learn
688
00:26:58,025 --> 00:26:59,766
To share his life
with somebody else.
689
00:26:59,785 --> 00:27:02,286
- Now, what if she's more
of a control freak than you?
690
00:27:02,437 --> 00:27:04,955
[laughter]
691
00:27:05,107 --> 00:27:07,458
Sorry, I should have waited--
- is that possible?
692
00:27:07,534 --> 00:27:08,851
- Maybe.
- Maybe.
693
00:27:08,869 --> 00:27:11,536
- I have met people
who are worse than you are.
694
00:27:11,689 --> 00:27:13,631
- I think I could
adjust to that.
695
00:27:13,707 --> 00:27:15,691
Maybe.
- Mm.
696
00:27:15,693 --> 00:27:17,042
- I mean, this is definitely
my first step,
697
00:27:17,194 --> 00:27:21,121
Giving up control on who I date
or who I marry, even,
698
00:27:21,140 --> 00:27:23,382
'cause to me, marriage has
always been, like, a huge--
699
00:27:23,534 --> 00:27:24,642
It's a final thing.
700
00:27:24,793 --> 00:27:26,810
And you guys know
my background.
701
00:27:26,962 --> 00:27:28,537
My parents were divorced
at an early age
702
00:27:28,555 --> 00:27:29,888
And they never remarried.
703
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:32,207
So I want to make sure
that I work on it.
704
00:27:32,226 --> 00:27:33,651
- Are your mom and dad
going to your wedding?
705
00:27:33,802 --> 00:27:37,655
- [sighs]
that's a tough question.
706
00:27:37,806 --> 00:27:39,823
My mom, definitely,
she's coming.
707
00:27:39,975 --> 00:27:44,569
But my dad, my dad's
a little more closed-minded
708
00:27:44,722 --> 00:27:45,996
About this stuff.
709
00:27:46,148 --> 00:27:48,557
And he has a certain picture
710
00:27:48,575 --> 00:27:50,167
Or feeling
of what marriage should be
711
00:27:50,318 --> 00:27:52,836
And what courtship should be
and the kind of girl
712
00:27:52,988 --> 00:27:55,564
That I should be looking for.
713
00:27:55,582 --> 00:27:56,748
And if I were to tell him
714
00:27:56,901 --> 00:28:00,344
That I'm getting married
without ever seeing her,
715
00:28:00,495 --> 00:28:02,905
He would flip and he would
call me day and night
716
00:28:02,923 --> 00:28:05,999
Until I say I'm not--
I'm backing out of this.
717
00:28:06,018 --> 00:28:09,520
♪ ♪
718
00:28:09,671 --> 00:28:10,688
- So he doesn't know?
719
00:28:10,839 --> 00:28:12,022
- I haven't told him
anything about this.
720
00:28:12,174 --> 00:28:14,358
- So when are gonna tell him?
721
00:28:14,435 --> 00:28:15,751
- Are you gonna tell him?
- Yeah.
722
00:28:15,769 --> 00:28:17,343
- Um...
723
00:28:17,363 --> 00:28:19,697
♪ ♪
724
00:28:24,094 --> 00:28:25,110
[upbeat music]
725
00:28:25,262 --> 00:28:26,111
- ♪ it's time to go up,
so let's go ♪
726
00:28:26,263 --> 00:28:27,095
♪ yeah, yeah, yeah ♪
727
00:28:27,114 --> 00:28:28,597
♪ we going up, up, up ♪
728
00:28:28,615 --> 00:28:32,117
- Our third couple is
bao and johnny.
729
00:28:32,269 --> 00:28:34,044
Johnny has just revealed
to his friends
730
00:28:34,196 --> 00:28:36,121
That he's getting married
to a stranger.
731
00:28:36,273 --> 00:28:38,123
Now it's bao's turn.
732
00:28:38,275 --> 00:28:39,532
- Hello.
733
00:28:39,552 --> 00:28:41,552
♪ ♪
734
00:28:41,628 --> 00:28:45,297
I am super anxious
about telling my brothers
735
00:28:45,449 --> 00:28:47,799
The big news
that I'm getting married.
736
00:28:47,952 --> 00:28:50,969
I didn't sleep all night,
thinking about this.
737
00:28:51,121 --> 00:28:52,621
They mean the world to me,
738
00:28:52,639 --> 00:28:55,232
And I'm afraid if I don't have
the approval of my family,
739
00:28:55,309 --> 00:28:57,884
I'm not sure that
I can really do this.
740
00:28:57,903 --> 00:29:01,221
Thank you guys
for coming here for brunch.
741
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:03,482
I wanted to talk to you guys
about something.
742
00:29:03,634 --> 00:29:04,891
I actually brought
you guys here
743
00:29:04,910 --> 00:29:06,651
'cause something
happened yesterday.
744
00:29:06,804 --> 00:29:08,320
[dramatic music]
745
00:29:08,472 --> 00:29:14,585
Dr. Pepper actually
ambushed me, and...
746
00:29:14,736 --> 00:29:17,570
The experts
have found a match for me.
747
00:29:17,590 --> 00:29:21,091
♪ ♪
748
00:29:21,168 --> 00:29:22,834
- ♪ hey, yeah ♪
749
00:29:22,987 --> 00:29:25,429
- My parents are always
giving me a hard time
750
00:29:25,506 --> 00:29:29,341
That I'm 35 years old
and I'm still single.
751
00:29:29,493 --> 00:29:30,492
- ♪ hey ♪
752
00:29:30,511 --> 00:29:31,751
- They want to see
grandchildren,
753
00:29:31,771 --> 00:29:36,181
But it's quite tricky
finding the right person.
754
00:29:36,333 --> 00:29:39,684
[laughs]
755
00:29:39,837 --> 00:29:41,594
I am so awkward.
756
00:29:41,614 --> 00:29:43,614
♪ ♪
757
00:29:43,690 --> 00:29:46,432
One little quirk about me
is that I use
758
00:29:46,452 --> 00:29:48,844
Excel spreadsheets
for everything,
759
00:29:48,862 --> 00:29:52,681
For making bread,
760
00:29:52,683 --> 00:29:54,958
Making a travel packing list,
761
00:29:55,110 --> 00:29:57,536
And even for big
life decisions.
762
00:29:57,688 --> 00:30:00,188
Most recently, I did a weighted
pros and cons list
763
00:30:00,207 --> 00:30:04,359
To determine the value
of a relationship.
764
00:30:04,378 --> 00:30:06,211
- ♪ let's do it,
let's do it right ♪
765
00:30:06,363 --> 00:30:09,807
- And that's because I know
myself and I know my worth.
766
00:30:09,883 --> 00:30:11,958
I've gone on
many good first dates,
767
00:30:11,977 --> 00:30:15,795
But I left it as that
because I'm always thinking,
768
00:30:15,815 --> 00:30:18,649
"what if there's someone else
that's a better fit?"
769
00:30:18,725 --> 00:30:20,225
♪ ♪
770
00:30:20,377 --> 00:30:21,893
My childhood was tough.
771
00:30:22,046 --> 00:30:24,321
When I went to school
for the first time,
772
00:30:24,472 --> 00:30:27,065
I didn't know
a single word of english.
773
00:30:27,217 --> 00:30:30,810
And it was a challenge because
you get made fun of a lot.
774
00:30:30,830 --> 00:30:31,903
♪ ♪
775
00:30:32,056 --> 00:30:34,498
And we grew up very poor.
776
00:30:34,575 --> 00:30:36,834
We lived
in a dilapidated trailer.
777
00:30:36,910 --> 00:30:40,062
I remember going
to the school bus.
778
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:43,415
And when we got back
from school,
779
00:30:43,567 --> 00:30:47,177
I would walk past my house
'cause I would not want
780
00:30:47,254 --> 00:30:49,087
The school kids
to know where I lived.
781
00:30:49,239 --> 00:30:50,755
There was a lot of shame.
782
00:30:50,908 --> 00:30:52,407
The environment
is so important
783
00:30:52,409 --> 00:30:54,834
And integral
to your happiness.
784
00:30:54,854 --> 00:30:57,020
Like, that was
a really dark time.
785
00:30:57,097 --> 00:30:59,931
- ♪ nothing's gonna
stop me now ♪
786
00:31:00,084 --> 00:31:01,766
- Sometimes, you know,
787
00:31:01,919 --> 00:31:05,270
I think about when something
wonderful happens in my life,
788
00:31:05,422 --> 00:31:06,697
You know,
I get that promotion,
789
00:31:06,848 --> 00:31:09,774
Or my mom's biopsy result came
and it was negative,
790
00:31:09,927 --> 00:31:11,943
These wonderful things,
and sometimes sad,
791
00:31:12,096 --> 00:31:13,871
Heartbreaking things
in my life,
792
00:31:13,947 --> 00:31:15,780
And at those moments,
I feel lonely.
793
00:31:15,933 --> 00:31:18,116
- ♪ I know I can make it ♪
794
00:31:18,268 --> 00:31:19,618
- I want to be married
at first sight
795
00:31:19,770 --> 00:31:22,954
Because I want my person
so badly
796
00:31:23,107 --> 00:31:25,048
That I'm willing
to put my all into it.
797
00:31:25,125 --> 00:31:26,458
I just need help.
798
00:31:26,610 --> 00:31:29,461
And so this is the biggest
risk I've ever taken,
799
00:31:29,613 --> 00:31:32,631
But I know that with big risk
800
00:31:32,783 --> 00:31:34,799
Potentially come big rewards.
801
00:31:34,952 --> 00:31:37,135
The reward might very well be
802
00:31:37,287 --> 00:31:39,045
That I find the love
of my life.
803
00:31:39,064 --> 00:31:41,973
♪ ♪
804
00:31:42,126 --> 00:31:45,644
- Wow, you can finally
pawn her off.
805
00:31:45,796 --> 00:31:47,220
- That's somebody
else's problem.
806
00:31:47,239 --> 00:31:48,647
- I know.
807
00:31:48,799 --> 00:31:51,483
[laughter]
- dang it.
808
00:31:51,635 --> 00:31:52,743
- I'm happy for her.
809
00:31:52,894 --> 00:31:55,820
I'm happy for her,
and I applause her courage.
810
00:31:55,973 --> 00:31:58,823
Being the only daughter
in a conservative family,
811
00:31:58,976 --> 00:32:02,477
She had to try really hard
to break out on her own.
812
00:32:02,496 --> 00:32:03,995
And all these risk-taking,
813
00:32:04,148 --> 00:32:06,498
It's just part of this journey
to get to where she is today.
814
00:32:06,650 --> 00:32:08,759
So I think
she'll handle it fine.
815
00:32:08,835 --> 00:32:14,914
- What kind of advice would you
give my future husband?
816
00:32:14,934 --> 00:32:20,162
- I would say
that he should be flexible,
817
00:32:20,180 --> 00:32:23,756
Because I know sometimes that
you're a little bit particular.
818
00:32:23,776 --> 00:32:27,427
- You can be very intense
and even difficult at times,
819
00:32:27,446 --> 00:32:29,279
But your future husband
just needs
820
00:32:29,431 --> 00:32:31,022
To have a little patience,
821
00:32:31,175 --> 00:32:34,284
And he can see all the good
things that you have to offer.
822
00:32:34,361 --> 00:32:36,528
- 'cause I'm a catch!
- No, I mean, you have
823
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:38,363
A lot of good values too,
you know?
824
00:32:38,515 --> 00:32:39,681
- Yeah, I do.
825
00:32:39,700 --> 00:32:43,126
- You know, you can be
hardheaded and stubborn,
826
00:32:43,278 --> 00:32:45,445
But you're also smart
and reasonable.
827
00:32:45,464 --> 00:32:48,373
- I'm hoping that they have
matched me with someone
828
00:32:48,525 --> 00:32:52,302
That is more flexible than me.
829
00:32:52,454 --> 00:32:54,879
We'll see.
830
00:32:55,032 --> 00:32:56,289
I'm so nervous.
831
00:32:56,308 --> 00:32:59,384
♪ ♪
832
00:32:59,536 --> 00:33:02,646
- We matched bao and johnny
because we believe
833
00:33:02,723 --> 00:33:06,891
That they can fill in the gaps
where the other one lacks.
834
00:33:07,044 --> 00:33:10,988
Bao is incredibly smart,
she's very progressive,
835
00:33:11,139 --> 00:33:14,474
And she can be
a great asset to johnny
836
00:33:14,493 --> 00:33:16,901
By giving him the stability
that he needs.
837
00:33:17,054 --> 00:33:21,481
Johnny is fun, he's outgoing,
he's mr. Life of the party,
838
00:33:21,500 --> 00:33:25,836
But he needs somebody to
sort of make him accountable.
839
00:33:25,912 --> 00:33:27,245
I believe bao is that person.
840
00:33:27,397 --> 00:33:29,840
They're both so picky,
841
00:33:29,916 --> 00:33:32,584
They're both so particular
about things,
842
00:33:32,736 --> 00:33:35,086
But I believe that they're
going to complement each other
843
00:33:35,239 --> 00:33:36,921
If they're both willing
to work together,
844
00:33:37,074 --> 00:33:40,258
As married people should,
and we think that this can be
845
00:33:40,410 --> 00:33:43,836
The beginning of a beautiful
and lifelong marriage.
846
00:33:43,856 --> 00:33:48,525
♪ ♪
847
00:33:48,602 --> 00:33:53,104
- ♪ I, I, I-I,
I-I-I-I'm gonna ♪
848
00:33:53,257 --> 00:33:56,682
- Our fourth couple
is brett and ryan.
849
00:33:56,702 --> 00:33:59,778
We've matched ryan with brett
because we feel that ryan
850
00:33:59,930 --> 00:34:03,782
Will love brett's romantic
and bubbly personality
851
00:34:03,934 --> 00:34:06,192
And she will be drawn
to his sense of adventure.
852
00:34:06,211 --> 00:34:07,693
♪ ♪
853
00:34:07,771 --> 00:34:10,121
- It's fun watching you cook.
- Yeah, this is a change.
854
00:34:10,274 --> 00:34:11,289
- Treat.
855
00:34:11,441 --> 00:34:13,717
- This is very untraditional.
856
00:34:13,794 --> 00:34:16,961
Oh!
[laughter]
857
00:34:17,114 --> 00:34:19,205
- That's the ryan I know.
858
00:34:19,224 --> 00:34:23,301
♪ ♪
859
00:34:23,453 --> 00:34:26,971
- I've dated an obscene amount
in this city.
860
00:34:27,124 --> 00:34:28,473
It's exhausting.
861
00:34:28,625 --> 00:34:30,567
I've spent a lot, a lot
of time
862
00:34:30,718 --> 00:34:33,570
And resources and effort
into dating.
863
00:34:33,721 --> 00:34:36,481
I'd say I've dated 50-plus
864
00:34:36,633 --> 00:34:39,150
In the last three
or four years
865
00:34:39,303 --> 00:34:41,060
And not just houston.
866
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:42,579
I've joked that there are
some small towns
867
00:34:42,730 --> 00:34:44,081
That I'm not allowed
to go back to
868
00:34:44,157 --> 00:34:46,658
Because of people
that I've dated.
869
00:34:46,810 --> 00:34:49,160
But those days are over,
870
00:34:49,313 --> 00:34:51,421
Because I'd say
around 18 months ago,
871
00:34:51,498 --> 00:34:54,257
I lost my best friend,
so you have no choice
872
00:34:54,409 --> 00:34:57,001
But to see life differently
after stuff like that happens.
873
00:34:57,154 --> 00:34:59,262
It makes you value your time
874
00:34:59,339 --> 00:35:00,839
With the people
that really matter,
875
00:35:00,915 --> 00:35:05,677
And it's not fun just running
around like I was doing.
876
00:35:05,829 --> 00:35:07,162
But through all
the casual dating,
877
00:35:07,180 --> 00:35:09,940
I was still looking
for the right woman for me.
878
00:35:10,016 --> 00:35:11,775
I was looking for my wife,
879
00:35:11,852 --> 00:35:14,611
But I'm not gonna just
settle with anything.
880
00:35:14,762 --> 00:35:17,021
I want something great,
someone to laugh with,
881
00:35:17,174 --> 00:35:20,859
Somebody to cry with, somebody
to just do everything with.
882
00:35:21,011 --> 00:35:22,953
And I'm ready to do
whatever it takes
883
00:35:23,029 --> 00:35:25,363
To get to the next step
in my life.
884
00:35:25,515 --> 00:35:28,199
I grew up in a very small town
in the country,
885
00:35:28,352 --> 00:35:29,626
Running around
on four-wheelers
886
00:35:29,777 --> 00:35:31,536
And going to the river
and fishing,
887
00:35:31,688 --> 00:35:35,023
And I helped my cousin
with pigs and stuff like that.
888
00:35:35,041 --> 00:35:37,617
And I really love
anything outdoors, in general.
889
00:35:37,636 --> 00:35:39,452
♪ ♪
890
00:35:39,471 --> 00:35:43,381
But I would consider myself
a kind of romantic guy.
891
00:35:43,533 --> 00:35:46,201
Yeah, I just bake pies and cry
watching "the notebook."
892
00:35:46,219 --> 00:35:47,719
I love the movie
"the notebook."
893
00:35:47,871 --> 00:35:50,388
And I hate that I'm saying
this to you, but I do.
894
00:35:50,540 --> 00:35:52,557
Because I mean,
if it makes sense,
895
00:35:52,709 --> 00:35:54,542
Like, the pain
of the happiness,
896
00:35:54,544 --> 00:35:56,728
Like, them clearly
wanting it so bad
897
00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:59,214
And it not being able
to happen,
898
00:35:59,216 --> 00:36:00,991
And then it does happen.
899
00:36:01,067 --> 00:36:03,735
And that's honestly
what I want.
900
00:36:03,887 --> 00:36:05,737
So I'm taking
this leap of faith
901
00:36:05,889 --> 00:36:08,072
Because there's no reward
902
00:36:08,225 --> 00:36:12,076
Greater than finding
that person for me right now.
903
00:36:12,229 --> 00:36:13,170
- Yeah, this is new.
904
00:36:13,321 --> 00:36:16,322
Ryan and I lived together
for three years,
905
00:36:16,341 --> 00:36:19,342
And I usually was the one
doing the cooking.
906
00:36:19,494 --> 00:36:22,161
So this is nice.
- You had somebody to cook for.
907
00:36:22,181 --> 00:36:25,182
- Yeah, cooking for yourself
isn't very fun.
908
00:36:25,333 --> 00:36:27,592
- I'm very nervous about
telling my family
909
00:36:27,744 --> 00:36:30,745
That I'm getting married
in two weeks,
910
00:36:30,764 --> 00:36:32,263
'cause it's definitely
not something
911
00:36:32,340 --> 00:36:35,859
That they would ever see me
doing in a million years.
912
00:36:36,010 --> 00:36:38,102
I'm much more worried
about telling my sister
913
00:36:38,255 --> 00:36:39,604
Than my parents
914
00:36:39,756 --> 00:36:42,607
Because the fact that
she is so opinionated,
915
00:36:42,759 --> 00:36:46,094
And sometimes my parents go
with her strong opinion.
916
00:36:46,096 --> 00:36:48,263
And I'm hoping
that's not the case.
917
00:36:48,265 --> 00:36:50,114
So coming here
for dinner tonight,
918
00:36:50,267 --> 00:36:52,116
Y'all kind of knew
I've been trying
919
00:36:52,269 --> 00:36:53,785
To get married at first sight
920
00:36:53,937 --> 00:36:56,771
And it's getting pretty serious
and pretty crazy.
921
00:36:56,790 --> 00:37:00,458
I can admit that.
922
00:37:00,610 --> 00:37:03,628
- You ready?
923
00:37:03,780 --> 00:37:05,129
- I have no choice to be ready.
924
00:37:05,282 --> 00:37:06,297
And I hope y'all
are ready as well,
925
00:37:06,450 --> 00:37:07,465
'cause it's happening
926
00:37:07,542 --> 00:37:09,726
And I'm getting married
in two weeks.
927
00:37:09,877 --> 00:37:12,062
- Oh, god.
928
00:37:12,213 --> 00:37:13,713
- [laughs]
look at mom's face.
929
00:37:13,732 --> 00:37:15,139
- What?
930
00:37:15,292 --> 00:37:16,066
- Ooh.
931
00:37:16,217 --> 00:37:18,718
- Ryan!
- Lord, lord.
932
00:37:18,737 --> 00:37:20,386
♪ ♪
933
00:37:20,405 --> 00:37:21,721
I don't know, man.
934
00:37:21,740 --> 00:37:23,406
♪ ♪
935
00:37:23,558 --> 00:37:26,576
Just seems, like,
so unorthodox.
936
00:37:26,728 --> 00:37:28,653
I could never imagine me
marrying somebody
937
00:37:28,805 --> 00:37:29,895
I never met.
938
00:37:29,915 --> 00:37:31,823
♪ ♪
939
00:37:31,975 --> 00:37:33,808
- Wow, I just have no words.
940
00:37:33,810 --> 00:37:34,918
- I think they're most shocked
941
00:37:35,069 --> 00:37:38,496
Because I think
they already gave up on you.
942
00:37:38,648 --> 00:37:40,665
Ryan has dated a lot of women.
943
00:37:40,817 --> 00:37:43,835
We used to call them
flavor of the weeks.
944
00:37:43,987 --> 00:37:45,670
And then as he's gotten older,
945
00:37:45,822 --> 00:37:47,839
They've become more flavor
of the months.
946
00:37:47,991 --> 00:37:49,841
Nothing has worked out yet.
947
00:37:49,993 --> 00:37:51,434
So we're hoping
to find a woman
948
00:37:51,511 --> 00:37:54,604
To be his flavor
for the rest of his life.
949
00:37:54,681 --> 00:37:56,998
- I'm hoping for the best and--
950
00:37:57,017 --> 00:37:59,258
- I mean, you fall in love
easy.
951
00:37:59,278 --> 00:38:01,352
- Oh, I can absolutely
fall in love in eight weeks.
952
00:38:01,505 --> 00:38:03,354
That's not a--
- yeah, eight weeks--
953
00:38:03,507 --> 00:38:06,116
He's fallen in love
in 24 hours,
954
00:38:06,267 --> 00:38:09,119
So eight weeks is nothing.
955
00:38:09,270 --> 00:38:12,271
- Wow.
How could you--
956
00:38:12,291 --> 00:38:15,033
- Why can't my children
be normal?
957
00:38:15,185 --> 00:38:18,628
- Yeah, why can't you just
be a normal son?
958
00:38:18,780 --> 00:38:21,447
- You don't think I'm normal?
- No, I don't--
959
00:38:21,466 --> 00:38:24,634
I don't think you're normal
doing something like this.
960
00:38:24,711 --> 00:38:26,711
- [sighs]
961
00:38:26,863 --> 00:38:29,622
- Hope you know
what you're getting into.
962
00:38:29,641 --> 00:38:34,811
♪ ♪
963
00:38:39,801 --> 00:38:42,727
- ♪ I've been waiting
for days like this to come ♪
964
00:38:42,879 --> 00:38:46,230
- Our fourth couple
is brett and ryan.
965
00:38:46,383 --> 00:38:48,066
Ryan has just revealed
to his family
966
00:38:48,218 --> 00:38:51,402
That he's going to be
getting married to a stranger.
967
00:38:51,555 --> 00:38:52,554
- Hey, girl.
- Hi!
968
00:38:52,572 --> 00:38:55,056
- Now it's brett's turn.
- Hi, guys.
969
00:38:55,075 --> 00:38:56,908
- Hey, lady.
- Come on in, girl.
970
00:38:57,060 --> 00:38:59,819
- Thanks for having me.
I miss you.
971
00:38:59,838 --> 00:39:01,654
- I know!
972
00:39:01,673 --> 00:39:04,566
- I'm so excited to be telling
my friends my big secret
973
00:39:04,584 --> 00:39:09,495
Because I know that they want
to see me happy so bad
974
00:39:09,514 --> 00:39:12,665
And they have been with me
through, like, all the ups
975
00:39:12,684 --> 00:39:15,259
And downs that anybody
could ever go through.
976
00:39:15,412 --> 00:39:18,930
And it's also killing me
to have been keeping a secret
977
00:39:19,082 --> 00:39:21,841
Because we literally
tell each other everything.
978
00:39:21,860 --> 00:39:25,770
You guys, I am so happy
we can get together
979
00:39:25,922 --> 00:39:27,105
'cause, you know, like,
980
00:39:27,257 --> 00:39:30,516
Husbands abound
and kids and my job, so...
981
00:39:30,535 --> 00:39:32,035
- That's what girls' nights
are for.
982
00:39:32,112 --> 00:39:36,188
- I know. So I have a question
for you guys.
983
00:39:36,208 --> 00:39:38,858
- What?
984
00:39:38,877 --> 00:39:42,286
- What are you doing
in two weeks?
985
00:39:42,439 --> 00:39:44,622
- Sitting here with you.
- What's happening?
986
00:39:44,774 --> 00:39:45,882
- Unless...
987
00:39:45,959 --> 00:39:47,291
♪ ♪
988
00:39:47,444 --> 00:39:48,793
- I'm getting married
in two weeks.
989
00:39:48,945 --> 00:39:50,387
[cup bangs table sharply]
990
00:39:50,538 --> 00:39:52,296
[laughter]
991
00:39:52,449 --> 00:39:54,391
- Are you serious?
- Yes.
992
00:39:54,542 --> 00:39:55,967
- Yay!
- They found you a match?
993
00:39:56,119 --> 00:39:57,543
- They found me a match.
- Oh, my god.
994
00:39:57,562 --> 00:39:58,453
- Stop.
- Yay!
995
00:39:58,471 --> 00:40:00,138
- I know.
- Are you excited?
996
00:40:00,290 --> 00:40:02,381
- I'm really excited.
- We're excited.
997
00:40:02,401 --> 00:40:04,809
- No, this is amazing.
This is so exciting.
998
00:40:04,961 --> 00:40:08,296
- ♪ I was trying
not to scare you ♪
999
00:40:08,314 --> 00:40:11,908
- I didn't expect to see
myself still single at 33.
1000
00:40:12,059 --> 00:40:13,301
Over here.
1001
00:40:13,303 --> 00:40:16,746
I'm not dating.
I am not talking to anybody.
1002
00:40:16,823 --> 00:40:19,807
There's not a man
I can text a cute picture to
1003
00:40:19,826 --> 00:40:22,660
To, like, flirt with.
There's nothing.
1004
00:40:22,812 --> 00:40:24,662
The last time
I was intimate with anybody
1005
00:40:24,814 --> 00:40:26,497
Was over two years ago.
1006
00:40:26,650 --> 00:40:28,741
That includes kissing.
1007
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:31,744
I know.
1008
00:40:31,763 --> 00:40:33,430
I'm crying too.
1009
00:40:33,581 --> 00:40:36,099
- ♪ I just want to sleep
all day ♪
1010
00:40:36,176 --> 00:40:38,584
- I think the reason that
I've been single for so long
1011
00:40:38,603 --> 00:40:42,439
Is because I tend to prefer
quality over quantity.
1012
00:40:42,515 --> 00:40:46,851
So I do really value,
like, getting to know somebody
1013
00:40:47,003 --> 00:40:49,837
Really deeply,
and that takes a lot of time.
1014
00:40:49,856 --> 00:40:53,191
I feel like I've always
been committed,
1015
00:40:53,343 --> 00:40:55,860
But I don't feel like I've
ever had commitment in return.
1016
00:40:56,012 --> 00:41:00,364
So that does make you
feel unwanted.
1017
00:41:00,517 --> 00:41:03,034
Seeing my parents' marriage,
they spend a lot
1018
00:41:03,186 --> 00:41:06,111
Of time together and they like
to do the same things.
1019
00:41:06,131 --> 00:41:10,374
And all of these years later,
like, enjoying each other
1020
00:41:10,527 --> 00:41:11,876
And doing stuff
that they don't want to do
1021
00:41:12,028 --> 00:41:12,785
For the other person.
1022
00:41:12,804 --> 00:41:14,195
Like, my dad's watching golf,
1023
00:41:14,214 --> 00:41:15,621
You think my mom wants
to sit there and watch golf?
1024
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:18,700
No, but she does because
they're spending time together,
1025
00:41:18,718 --> 00:41:19,701
You know what I mean?
1026
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:21,385
And so I just had always
grown up
1027
00:41:21,538 --> 00:41:23,980
Wanting the same thing.
1028
00:41:24,057 --> 00:41:25,648
I know that I can have it.
That's the thing.
1029
00:41:25,725 --> 00:41:30,487
I know that I can have it.
I just need help finding him.
1030
00:41:30,563 --> 00:41:31,971
♪ ♪
1031
00:41:31,990 --> 00:41:33,881
- ♪ you, me ♪
1032
00:41:33,900 --> 00:41:36,159
♪ are sweet and sour ♪
1033
00:41:36,236 --> 00:41:39,570
- I've been told men find me
intimidating, not all men,
1034
00:41:39,723 --> 00:41:42,223
But I've definitely had that
comment said to me before.
1035
00:41:42,225 --> 00:41:45,560
I think people think scorpios
are low-key a little crazy.
1036
00:41:45,578 --> 00:41:47,245
Depends on what crazy is
to you,
1037
00:41:47,397 --> 00:41:50,489
But I am definitely
a little crazy.
1038
00:41:50,509 --> 00:41:53,084
- You're definitely, like,
a fairy-tale...
1039
00:41:53,236 --> 00:41:54,752
- I know.
- Hopeless romantic.
1040
00:41:54,904 --> 00:41:56,087
I mean, just, like,
"the notebook,"
1041
00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:58,330
The novels,
like, you read so much.
1042
00:41:58,350 --> 00:42:01,351
And I think, in your mind,
there's just gonna be, like,
1043
00:42:01,502 --> 00:42:04,095
This fairy-tale
prince charming.
1044
00:42:04,247 --> 00:42:07,431
I think that's what you have
envisioned in your mind.
1045
00:42:07,584 --> 00:42:10,843
But he is a stranger.
You're gonna have to mesh.
1046
00:42:10,862 --> 00:42:12,177
♪ ♪
1047
00:42:12,197 --> 00:42:15,106
- Brett is the biggest dreamer
on the planet.
1048
00:42:15,258 --> 00:42:20,203
She always tries to look at
the positive side of something.
1049
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,446
She's very understanding.
She's very patient.
1050
00:42:22,599 --> 00:42:26,209
And it concerns me for her
to get married to a stranger
1051
00:42:26,286 --> 00:42:28,545
Because if this ends
in divorce,
1052
00:42:28,621 --> 00:42:30,195
I think she's gonna
be heartbroken.
1053
00:42:30,215 --> 00:42:31,714
♪ ♪
1054
00:42:31,866 --> 00:42:34,959
Marriage in general is not all
happy and wonderful every day.
1055
00:42:35,111 --> 00:42:36,386
So, like, the days
that you hate him,
1056
00:42:36,537 --> 00:42:39,055
You still have to choose
to be with him.
1057
00:42:39,206 --> 00:42:44,285
- I feel like for how long
I've wanted
1058
00:42:44,304 --> 00:42:46,637
Not just marriage,
of course, but, like,
1059
00:42:46,790 --> 00:42:48,398
Just, like, the opportunity
1060
00:42:48,549 --> 00:42:51,642
To be able to do that
and have the same thing
1061
00:42:51,795 --> 00:42:53,385
In return.
- Yeah.
1062
00:42:53,405 --> 00:42:56,464
- You know,
they're not choosing me.
1063
00:42:56,482 --> 00:43:00,484
So I mean, of course
I think about that.
1064
00:43:00,637 --> 00:43:02,320
- You need that to be
reciprocated back.
1065
00:43:02,472 --> 00:43:03,654
- Yeah.
- You deserve that.
1066
00:43:03,807 --> 00:43:04,655
- That's the thing.
1067
00:43:04,808 --> 00:43:09,252
It's a risk,
and it does scare me
1068
00:43:09,403 --> 00:43:11,329
Because I mean,
there's a huge potential
1069
00:43:11,481 --> 00:43:13,423
That I could get
my heart broken.
1070
00:43:13,499 --> 00:43:19,170
♪ ♪
1071
00:43:19,322 --> 00:43:21,931
- Brett and ryan both have
a sensitive spirit
1072
00:43:22,083 --> 00:43:24,434
That's been searching
for its counterpart.
1073
00:43:24,585 --> 00:43:27,178
We think they will feel
a natural connection
1074
00:43:27,330 --> 00:43:30,181
Right off the bat
and sparks will fly.
1075
00:43:30,333 --> 00:43:33,610
Ryan has been an athletic guy
his whole life.
1076
00:43:33,761 --> 00:43:35,853
Brett is a coach of volleyball
and softball
1077
00:43:36,005 --> 00:43:38,356
And has a sporty
and competitive nature
1078
00:43:38,508 --> 00:43:40,191
Ryan is gonna love.
1079
00:43:40,343 --> 00:43:43,936
And their common values will
make for instant chemistry.
1080
00:43:43,955 --> 00:43:45,104
♪ ♪
1081
00:43:45,123 --> 00:43:46,864
- ♪ ooh, ooh ♪
1082
00:43:47,016 --> 00:43:48,273
♪ ooh, ooh ♪
1083
00:43:48,293 --> 00:43:49,459
♪ ♪
1084
00:43:49,535 --> 00:43:50,776
♪ ooh ♪
1085
00:43:50,795 --> 00:43:52,036
♪ ♪
1086
00:43:52,188 --> 00:43:55,539
- And the fifth couple
is rachel and jose.
1087
00:43:55,692 --> 00:43:58,042
Rachel and jose, I believe,
1088
00:43:58,194 --> 00:43:59,543
Are meant to be together.
1089
00:43:59,696 --> 00:44:02,955
They both want this so badly.
1090
00:44:02,974 --> 00:44:05,308
Jose has achieved
so much in his life
1091
00:44:05,385 --> 00:44:07,310
And wants a true partner
who will help him
1092
00:44:07,387 --> 00:44:09,370
Continue to climb that ladder.
1093
00:44:09,372 --> 00:44:12,649
And we feel that rachel's
sweet and determined nature
1094
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:17,654
Will fit the mold of the wife
jose has been searching for.
1095
00:44:17,805 --> 00:44:20,323
- So y'all know I've been
talking with the experts
1096
00:44:20,474 --> 00:44:22,992
And just trying to find a match
with someone,
1097
00:44:23,069 --> 00:44:28,831
And y'all do know it's gonna be
with a complete stranger.
1098
00:44:28,908 --> 00:44:30,667
- Yeah.
- Why do you make that face?
1099
00:44:30,818 --> 00:44:32,410
[laughter]
1100
00:44:32,562 --> 00:44:34,412
I'm really nervous.
I'm about to break the news
1101
00:44:34,564 --> 00:44:36,989
To my mom and my best friend.
1102
00:44:37,008 --> 00:44:38,157
Oh, thank you.
1103
00:44:38,176 --> 00:44:40,176
Even though I seek
my mom's approval,
1104
00:44:40,253 --> 00:44:42,586
I'm really curious
as to what my best friend,
1105
00:44:42,739 --> 00:44:44,163
Lirice, is gonna say.
1106
00:44:44,182 --> 00:44:46,757
She's so blunt, and I know
she's gonna give me
1107
00:44:46,910 --> 00:44:48,592
The hard, cold truth.
1108
00:44:48,745 --> 00:44:50,169
- [inhales sharply]
1109
00:44:50,188 --> 00:44:55,692
I think you're
absolutely insane to do this.
1110
00:44:55,768 --> 00:44:58,343
- It's crazy, but this--
you know, that's rachel.
1111
00:44:58,363 --> 00:44:59,754
You know, it's--
1112
00:44:59,756 --> 00:45:03,591
- I feel more confident
and secure of who I am
1113
00:45:03,593 --> 00:45:05,702
Than I've ever felt before.
1114
00:45:05,778 --> 00:45:09,021
- ♪ like shooting stars
and silent nights ♪
1115
00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:11,615
♪ I wonder what's out there ♪
1116
00:45:11,768 --> 00:45:14,026
- Over the past nine months,
1117
00:45:14,045 --> 00:45:16,787
I've taken really good care
of myself,
1118
00:45:16,940 --> 00:45:19,957
And I've lost
a little over 35 pounds.
1119
00:45:20,109 --> 00:45:23,127
Even though
I feel better health-wise,
1120
00:45:23,279 --> 00:45:25,796
I feel better energy-wise,
1121
00:45:25,949 --> 00:45:30,226
I just feel so completely
by myself, and it's hard.
1122
00:45:30,377 --> 00:45:33,454
- ♪ and I've been reaching
for the sky ♪
1123
00:45:33,456 --> 00:45:36,791
- In the group of my college
friends, I am the single girl.
1124
00:45:36,809 --> 00:45:39,293
Everyone's with someone,
and I'm like,
1125
00:45:39,295 --> 00:45:41,220
"so I went
on a horrible date."
1126
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:43,481
Like, though that's what
I have to contribute.
1127
00:45:43,633 --> 00:45:45,149
- ♪ my heart is screaming ♪
1128
00:45:45,301 --> 00:45:48,319
- And so it does get
kind of lonely.
1129
00:45:48,471 --> 00:45:51,322
The little that I cook,
it's usually for two,
1130
00:45:51,474 --> 00:45:53,657
So I just have to save
everything
1131
00:45:53,810 --> 00:45:55,826
And eat the same thing
the next day.
1132
00:45:55,979 --> 00:45:59,422
But sometimes the stuff
I make is good
1133
00:45:59,499 --> 00:46:02,592
And I'm like, "there's
no one here to try it."
1134
00:46:02,668 --> 00:46:05,669
- ♪ no ideas,
don't know what I'll do ♪
1135
00:46:05,822 --> 00:46:09,414
- My last relationship ended
six months ago.
1136
00:46:09,434 --> 00:46:12,009
We were long-distance,
but because of the pandemic,
1137
00:46:12,161 --> 00:46:14,678
We decided
to quarantine together.
1138
00:46:14,831 --> 00:46:17,940
So it really felt like
we were playing house.
1139
00:46:18,017 --> 00:46:21,260
Unfortunately,
after nine months, I found out
1140
00:46:21,279 --> 00:46:25,931
He was being unfaithful to me,
and I ended things.
1141
00:46:25,950 --> 00:46:30,027
- ♪ I didn't know
there was a hollow ♪
1142
00:46:30,179 --> 00:46:33,289
- As much as that crushed me,
it did make me realize
1143
00:46:33,366 --> 00:46:36,867
Being in a relationship,
having that love there--
1144
00:46:37,020 --> 00:46:38,110
I like doing this,
1145
00:46:38,129 --> 00:46:41,280
I like doing these things
for someone.
1146
00:46:41,299 --> 00:46:43,132
But now I want to give
all of that to someone
1147
00:46:43,284 --> 00:46:45,450
That actually deserves it.
1148
00:46:45,470 --> 00:46:47,878
- ♪ not giving up,
I'm gonna conquer ♪
1149
00:46:48,031 --> 00:46:50,622
- I know being married
at first sight
1150
00:46:50,642 --> 00:46:52,550
Is an extreme jump
from dating,
1151
00:46:52,702 --> 00:46:54,885
But I want to do this so badly
1152
00:46:55,038 --> 00:46:58,481
Because I just have a pattern
of dating the wrong guys
1153
00:46:58,632 --> 00:47:00,817
And I'm ready
to break that cycle.
1154
00:47:00,968 --> 00:47:02,726
- ♪ don't want to be ♪
1155
00:47:02,879 --> 00:47:04,228
- In my past relationships,
1156
00:47:04,380 --> 00:47:07,990
I have been accommodating,
insecure,
1157
00:47:08,142 --> 00:47:11,643
And just molding myself
to the man I'm with.
1158
00:47:11,663 --> 00:47:13,478
- ♪ not giving up,
I'm gonna conquer ♪
1159
00:47:13,498 --> 00:47:16,740
- But I learned a lot about
myself this past year.
1160
00:47:16,893 --> 00:47:21,245
I'm my true self, I'm strong,
I'm confident, I'm free,
1161
00:47:21,397 --> 00:47:25,157
And I'm ready to find someone
who is deserving of me,
1162
00:47:25,176 --> 00:47:27,418
Who I can continue
to grow with
1163
00:47:27,570 --> 00:47:30,254
For the rest of our lives.
1164
00:47:30,406 --> 00:47:33,741
- I think, honestly,
you're ready now.
1165
00:47:33,759 --> 00:47:36,853
I think, in the past,
you've kind of been not ready.
1166
00:47:37,004 --> 00:47:38,913
- I definitely feel ready.
1167
00:47:38,931 --> 00:47:40,264
I feel like maybe this is,
like,
1168
00:47:40,416 --> 00:47:43,675
The right step in trying to,
you know, find someone.
1169
00:47:43,695 --> 00:47:45,753
♪ ♪
1170
00:47:45,771 --> 00:47:49,848
It's happening.
It is happening.
1171
00:47:49,868 --> 00:47:53,518
I'm gonna get married
in two weeks. [laughs]
1172
00:47:53,538 --> 00:47:56,688
- I cannot believe that you're
actually gonna do this.
1173
00:47:56,708 --> 00:47:58,616
♪ ♪
1174
00:47:58,768 --> 00:48:00,951
So, like, this person
has to like you,
1175
00:48:01,104 --> 00:48:04,288
Like, first time meeting
at the altar.
1176
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:05,715
- No.
1177
00:48:05,791 --> 00:48:07,699
- I mean, have you thought
about that? Like--
1178
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:10,461
♪ ♪
1179
00:48:10,613 --> 00:48:12,446
- I haven't.
Again, I just feel like--
1180
00:48:12,448 --> 00:48:13,631
- "oh, I don't like
how she smells,"
1181
00:48:13,783 --> 00:48:14,798
Or whatever, like--
1182
00:48:14,951 --> 00:48:17,468
- You told me
1183
00:48:17,620 --> 00:48:19,303
The absolute worst
that could happen.
1184
00:48:19,455 --> 00:48:21,380
- Yeah, he hates you.
1185
00:48:21,399 --> 00:48:22,732
♪ ♪
1186
00:48:22,808 --> 00:48:24,475
The moment he lays eyes on you,
1187
00:48:24,627 --> 00:48:27,219
He sees you, he's repulsed,
he still goes through with it,
1188
00:48:27,238 --> 00:48:30,389
And then you're gonna live
with this person.
1189
00:48:30,408 --> 00:48:35,653
♪ ♪
1190
00:48:35,805 --> 00:48:37,471
- I am gonna live
with this person.
1191
00:48:37,490 --> 00:48:40,082
So, like, those are some things
I'm concerned about.
1192
00:48:40,159 --> 00:48:42,251
Like, if I leave my makeup
all over the counter,
1193
00:48:42,328 --> 00:48:46,330
Like, is that gonna just
drive him insane?
1194
00:48:46,482 --> 00:48:48,332
- Here's the thing.
1195
00:48:48,484 --> 00:48:50,259
If you feel like something's
not working,
1196
00:48:50,411 --> 00:48:52,094
Like, be very completely
honest,
1197
00:48:52,246 --> 00:48:54,672
Because I feel like you
try to not say things
1198
00:48:54,824 --> 00:48:56,248
That are going on in your life.
1199
00:48:56,267 --> 00:49:00,102
You're too accommodating.
That's your problem.
1200
00:49:00,254 --> 00:49:02,012
You go along
with what guys want to do.
1201
00:49:02,165 --> 00:49:05,516
You really don't speak up, and
you're married to this person.
1202
00:49:05,668 --> 00:49:08,169
- 'cause you keep everything
inside, inside, inside
1203
00:49:08,187 --> 00:49:10,688
Until one day, you just...
1204
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:13,023
- ♪ out of my, out of my ♪
1205
00:49:13,176 --> 00:49:15,100
- That's my concern.
1206
00:49:15,119 --> 00:49:16,369
♪ ♪
1207
00:49:20,683 --> 00:49:22,366
[upbeat music]
1208
00:49:22,518 --> 00:49:25,519
- Our fifth couple
is rachel and jose.
1209
00:49:25,538 --> 00:49:29,039
Rachel has just revealed
to her mom and best friend
1210
00:49:29,192 --> 00:49:31,041
That she's getting married
to a stranger.
1211
00:49:31,194 --> 00:49:32,969
Now it's jose's turn.
1212
00:49:33,045 --> 00:49:34,303
- Thank you, sir.
- Thank you.
1213
00:49:34,380 --> 00:49:35,713
- I'm most nervous tonight
1214
00:49:35,865 --> 00:49:39,717
About telling my friends
and family this big news.
1215
00:49:39,869 --> 00:49:42,311
They have no idea that I'm
getting married in two weeks.
1216
00:49:42,463 --> 00:49:44,146
- Well, that looks like
a lot of fish.
1217
00:49:44,223 --> 00:49:46,056
- Mm-hmm.
- It looks awesome.
1218
00:49:46,209 --> 00:49:49,134
- And it is a huge bombshell
in regards to the time frame
1219
00:49:49,153 --> 00:49:52,321
In which this is happening,
and it's overwhelming.
1220
00:49:52,398 --> 00:49:54,548
So I hope that my family's
support can help
1221
00:49:54,567 --> 00:49:55,733
Calm some of my nerves.
1222
00:49:55,885 --> 00:50:00,738
Well, as some of y'all
well know,
1223
00:50:00,890 --> 00:50:01,998
I've been single
for a long time.
1224
00:50:02,149 --> 00:50:05,576
So I thought about being
married at first sight.
1225
00:50:05,728 --> 00:50:08,729
Yes, it's something that's
outside of the norm and--
1226
00:50:08,748 --> 00:50:11,582
- Yeah, I definitely thought
this was a crazy thing.
1227
00:50:11,734 --> 00:50:14,343
- Well, this is the opportunity
to meet that special someone
1228
00:50:14,495 --> 00:50:15,678
That I don't know
that it's even
1229
00:50:15,755 --> 00:50:16,904
In the deck of cards for me.
1230
00:50:16,906 --> 00:50:19,849
So I hope y'all
can be on board too...
1231
00:50:19,925 --> 00:50:24,336
♪ ♪
1232
00:50:24,355 --> 00:50:25,929
Because I'm getting married
in two weeks.
1233
00:50:26,082 --> 00:50:27,857
- What?
- Really?
1234
00:50:28,008 --> 00:50:30,526
- What?
- Yes, yes, yes, yes.
1235
00:50:30,603 --> 00:50:33,103
- I thought that it was
never gonna happen.
1236
00:50:33,256 --> 00:50:35,939
- I thought so too.
You're not the only one.
1237
00:50:36,092 --> 00:50:38,350
In my 35 years on this earth,
1238
00:50:38,369 --> 00:50:40,944
I feel very proud of all
that I have accomplished.
1239
00:50:41,097 --> 00:50:44,114
- ♪ what you waiting for,
get up and take it ♪
1240
00:50:44,267 --> 00:50:45,541
- I graduated college.
1241
00:50:45,618 --> 00:50:47,284
Got accepted
to a master's program.
1242
00:50:47,436 --> 00:50:48,860
Have an incredible job.
1243
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:51,121
I'm a flight mission
specialist for nasa.
1244
00:50:51,274 --> 00:50:53,532
Bought and paid for two homes,
1245
00:50:53,551 --> 00:50:55,959
Paid off my truck,
all my student loans.
1246
00:50:56,112 --> 00:50:57,461
So at this point, I mean,
1247
00:50:57,538 --> 00:51:00,614
I feel that I have everything
that I could ever want,
1248
00:51:00,633 --> 00:51:02,874
Just missing one piece.
1249
00:51:02,894 --> 00:51:04,060
And that's a wife.
1250
00:51:04,136 --> 00:51:06,120
- ♪ oh, oh, oh ♪
1251
00:51:06,122 --> 00:51:10,140
- I think I'm still single
because I'm a perfectionist
1252
00:51:10,293 --> 00:51:13,903
And I haven't met anyone
that is kind of on my level.
1253
00:51:14,054 --> 00:51:15,813
I hold myself
to a high standard,
1254
00:51:15,965 --> 00:51:18,741
And I'm looking for a wife
that's ideally perfect.
1255
00:51:18,818 --> 00:51:21,468
- ♪ I know we'll overcome ♪
1256
00:51:21,470 --> 00:51:23,654
I keep a nice and tidy home.
1257
00:51:23,806 --> 00:51:25,581
I'm very routine,
very structured.
1258
00:51:25,658 --> 00:51:29,326
I'm very picky in kinda
how I like things done.
1259
00:51:29,478 --> 00:51:31,495
I totally get there's 1,000
ways to skin a cat,
1260
00:51:31,647 --> 00:51:33,664
But I like things
done a certain way.
1261
00:51:33,816 --> 00:51:35,332
- ♪ show everyone, I know ♪
1262
00:51:35,484 --> 00:51:37,426
It's just one of these things
where a lot of these women
1263
00:51:37,578 --> 00:51:41,171
Nowadays,
they may or may not want
1264
00:51:41,324 --> 00:51:45,175
To partake in half of the work,
and they may want something
1265
00:51:45,328 --> 00:51:47,678
Just kind of given to them
on a silver, you know, platter.
1266
00:51:47,830 --> 00:51:50,422
And that's not
what I'm looking for.
1267
00:51:50,441 --> 00:51:52,441
♪ ♪
1268
00:51:52,518 --> 00:51:53,925
I want to be married
at first sight
1269
00:51:53,945 --> 00:51:58,522
Because I'm willing to admit
when I need some help.
1270
00:51:58,674 --> 00:52:00,524
And clearly I was doing
something wrong,
1271
00:52:00,676 --> 00:52:03,360
And it's almost like
I don't know where to look,
1272
00:52:03,512 --> 00:52:05,621
Where to find these women.
1273
00:52:05,698 --> 00:52:07,181
Of course, you can go
to a grocery store, I guess,
1274
00:52:07,199 --> 00:52:08,866
And look for oranges,
and you possibly may find her.
1275
00:52:09,018 --> 00:52:11,185
You see that in movies.
That never happens to me.
1276
00:52:11,203 --> 00:52:13,203
So I'm like, "I guess
I gotta go get oranges again,
1277
00:52:13,356 --> 00:52:15,780
And we'll see what happens."
1278
00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:20,527
- ♪ believed anything
I couldn't see ♪
1279
00:52:20,546 --> 00:52:22,638
- You know, for me, marriage
is something that's sacred.
1280
00:52:22,789 --> 00:52:26,550
So worst-case scenario
for me would be divorce
1281
00:52:26,702 --> 00:52:29,386
Because I would feel,
you know,
1282
00:52:29,538 --> 00:52:31,647
A little bit like a failure.
1283
00:52:31,724 --> 00:52:33,724
- ♪ I just keep moving
my feet ♪
1284
00:52:33,876 --> 00:52:35,467
- When I was 18,
my parents got a divorce
1285
00:52:35,486 --> 00:52:37,895
Because my father
wasn't being faithful.
1286
00:52:38,047 --> 00:52:40,063
Seeing that unfold
and how it changed our lives
1287
00:52:40,216 --> 00:52:41,064
Was very difficult.
1288
00:52:41,217 --> 00:52:42,324
So in a marriage,
1289
00:52:42,401 --> 00:52:45,661
Something I need to have
is absolute trust.
1290
00:52:45,812 --> 00:52:48,313
- ♪ I know the future's ours ♪
1291
00:52:48,332 --> 00:52:50,073
- In my career,
in the industry I work in,
1292
00:52:50,226 --> 00:52:51,650
We assess risks.
1293
00:52:51,669 --> 00:52:53,502
So I think, for me, I've
already outweighed the risks,
1294
00:52:53,579 --> 00:52:56,246
And it's either gonna be
a fairy tale,
1295
00:52:56,399 --> 00:52:58,415
Or it could be unfortunately
a train wreck.
1296
00:52:58,567 --> 00:53:00,250
And I've assessed that
and I understand
1297
00:53:00,403 --> 00:53:04,755
And I'm 110% committed.
1298
00:53:04,907 --> 00:53:06,089
I mean, at the end of the day,
1299
00:53:06,242 --> 00:53:07,925
If I'm gonna be married
to someone,
1300
00:53:08,077 --> 00:53:11,762
I want to at least know
that she's somewhat educated
1301
00:53:11,914 --> 00:53:13,597
And she's classy
and she's sporty
1302
00:53:13,749 --> 00:53:14,598
And things like that.
1303
00:53:14,750 --> 00:53:16,250
That's not a long list.
1304
00:53:17,086 --> 00:53:18,819
- I mean, I don't want her to,
you know...
1305
00:53:22,107 --> 00:53:23,941
- For sure.
- Yes.
1306
00:53:24,093 --> 00:53:28,520
- So what are your experiences
and what advice do you have?
1307
00:53:28,539 --> 00:53:29,930
- Well, I mean, you know,
obviously,
1308
00:53:29,932 --> 00:53:31,207
Everybody says communication.
1309
00:53:31,283 --> 00:53:32,691
- Sure.
- Yes.
1310
00:53:32,710 --> 00:53:34,785
- Yeah, that's one thing that,
you know, unfortunately,
1311
00:53:34,937 --> 00:53:37,955
I hope that she's not someone
that doesn't communicate
1312
00:53:38,107 --> 00:53:40,457
As much as I would like her to,
because again--
1313
00:53:40,609 --> 00:53:41,550
- But you talk too much.
1314
00:53:41,702 --> 00:53:42,960
How the hell is she gonna
get a word in?
1315
00:53:43,112 --> 00:53:46,947
- Hey, hey, I--no, I don't
talk--I don't talk a lot.
1316
00:53:46,966 --> 00:53:48,949
I don't talk a lot.
I listen--
1317
00:53:48,968 --> 00:53:51,802
No, I listen more than I talk,
but I do love talking.
1318
00:53:51,954 --> 00:53:53,062
You're right,
I do love talking.
1319
00:53:53,213 --> 00:53:55,456
- She ain't gonna freakin'
be able to say boo.
1320
00:53:55,474 --> 00:53:58,216
[laughter]
- we will talk together.
1321
00:53:58,236 --> 00:54:01,478
How about that? I'll become a
better listener and not talker.
1322
00:54:01,630 --> 00:54:03,739
How about that?
- Cha-ching!
1323
00:54:03,816 --> 00:54:06,408
- Yeah, I'm officially off
the market, so it feels good.
1324
00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:08,485
And hopefully, we can be
each other's soul mate.
1325
00:54:08,637 --> 00:54:09,912
So we'll see what happens...
1326
00:54:12,641 --> 00:54:14,232
[laughter]
1327
00:54:14,252 --> 00:54:17,661
♪ ♪
1328
00:54:17,813 --> 00:54:20,256
- We feel rachel and jose
are a great match
1329
00:54:20,407 --> 00:54:22,316
Because they will have
something
1330
00:54:22,318 --> 00:54:23,500
That will be enviable.
1331
00:54:23,652 --> 00:54:25,910
Rachel's worked
incredibly hard
1332
00:54:25,930 --> 00:54:29,339
To be the strong and confident
woman she is today,
1333
00:54:29,492 --> 00:54:32,101
Both physically and mentally.
1334
00:54:32,177 --> 00:54:35,253
We feel she will be
a great match for jose
1335
00:54:35,273 --> 00:54:37,514
Because he's ready
to take on the world
1336
00:54:37,666 --> 00:54:39,608
With his wife at his side.
1337
00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:42,260
Rachel will be
not only supportive
1338
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:45,114
But can challenge jose
where he needs it.
1339
00:54:45,190 --> 00:54:47,524
They may not be
on the exact same page
1340
00:54:47,676 --> 00:54:49,693
When it comes to chores
and spending,
1341
00:54:49,845 --> 00:54:52,195
But they're going
to even each other out nicely.
1342
00:54:52,348 --> 00:54:53,622
With a little compromise,
1343
00:54:53,699 --> 00:54:55,849
They're going to have
a great marriage.
1344
00:54:55,868 --> 00:54:58,535
- ♪ this love, don't run away
from this love ♪
1345
00:54:58,687 --> 00:55:01,279
♪ don't run away
from this love ♪
1346
00:55:01,299 --> 00:55:03,373
♪ don't, don't,
don't run away ♪
1347
00:55:03,526 --> 00:55:05,042
♪ don't run away
from this love ♪
1348
00:55:05,194 --> 00:55:06,877
♪ don't run away
from this love ♪
1349
00:55:07,029 --> 00:55:08,119
[line ringing]
1350
00:55:08,139 --> 00:55:11,198
♪ don't, don't,
don't run away ♪
1351
00:55:11,216 --> 00:55:13,958
- I've been hesitant
to call my dad just because
1352
00:55:13,978 --> 00:55:16,461
I didn't want the additional
stress of letting him know
1353
00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:17,721
And then letting him
stress me out
1354
00:55:17,873 --> 00:55:20,649
Over the next two weeks
before I get married.
1355
00:55:20,801 --> 00:55:21,984
Hey, baba.
1356
00:55:22,135 --> 00:55:24,803
But he's still my dad,
and I want him involved.
1357
00:55:24,822 --> 00:55:28,231
I want him to tell me it's okay
and he'll support me.
1358
00:55:28,384 --> 00:55:30,400
I want him to open his arms
and accept her too.
1359
00:55:30,553 --> 00:55:34,163
So yeah, it's just
important to me.
1360
00:55:34,314 --> 00:55:37,291
[speaking native language]
1361
00:55:54,852 --> 00:56:01,857
♪ ♪
1362
00:56:29,445 --> 00:56:34,297
I don't know I'm just, like,
sad, disappointed,
1363
00:56:34,450 --> 00:56:37,542
A little angry.
1364
00:56:37,561 --> 00:56:39,210
[sighs]
1365
00:56:39,230 --> 00:56:41,972
♪ ♪
1366
00:56:42,124 --> 00:56:44,549
Ah!
1367
00:56:44,568 --> 00:56:46,885
[sighs]
1368
00:56:46,904 --> 00:56:48,462
Okay.
1369
00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:50,631
He sounded pretty upset
on the phone.
1370
00:56:50,633 --> 00:56:51,556
He sounded furious,
1371
00:56:51,575 --> 00:56:53,634
According to him
and what he thinks
1372
00:56:53,652 --> 00:56:57,304
Is right and wrong
and safe or dangerous.
1373
00:56:57,322 --> 00:56:59,806
He used the word "dangerous"
over and over and over.
1374
00:56:59,825 --> 00:57:01,825
This is not something
he approves of.
1375
00:57:01,977 --> 00:57:03,310
He made it very, very clear.
1376
00:57:03,328 --> 00:57:05,495
And now for me to--
after I've already told him
1377
00:57:05,648 --> 00:57:10,575
And he says, "don't do it,"
I mean, what happens there?
1378
00:57:10,594 --> 00:57:11,927
[sighs]
1379
00:57:12,078 --> 00:57:14,838
I just want people that have
my best interest for me
1380
00:57:14,990 --> 00:57:18,583
To support me
and what I'm doing, and...
1381
00:57:18,602 --> 00:57:19,918
[sighs]
1382
00:57:19,937 --> 00:57:24,164
♪ ♪
1383
00:57:24,183 --> 00:57:26,833
I just don't need this
right now.
1384
00:57:26,835 --> 00:57:29,352
It's just too much.
1385
00:57:29,505 --> 00:57:32,263
But I do want
his approval on this.
1386
00:57:32,283 --> 00:57:33,523
♪ ♪
1387
00:57:33,676 --> 00:57:36,026
I have a lot to think about.
1388
00:57:36,178 --> 00:57:37,619
I have a lot
to think about.
1389
00:57:37,696 --> 00:57:40,271
♪ ♪
1390
00:57:40,291 --> 00:57:40,789
[sighs]
1391
00:57:45,187 --> 00:57:46,128
[upbeat music]
1392
00:57:46,279 --> 00:57:48,964
- ♪ nothing's gonna
stop me now ♪
1393
00:57:49,041 --> 00:57:52,968
♪ 'cause I'm back
and I'm ready to go ♪
1394
00:57:53,045 --> 00:57:55,804
- Our ten singles
are days away from taking
1395
00:57:55,881 --> 00:57:58,532
The biggest risks
of their lives,
1396
00:57:58,550 --> 00:58:00,959
But they won't be
doing it alone.
1397
00:58:00,978 --> 00:58:02,460
- Hi.
- Hi.
1398
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:03,979
- I'm rachel.
- Nice to meet you, rachel.
1399
00:58:04,056 --> 00:58:06,648
I'm myrla.
- Oh, my gosh, I'm so excited.
1400
00:58:06,725 --> 00:58:08,984
- Today the soon-to-be
brides...
1401
00:58:09,061 --> 00:58:10,652
- My name's johnny.
What's your name?
1402
00:58:10,729 --> 00:58:12,154
Jose? Nice to meet you.
- Pleased to meet you.
1403
00:58:12,231 --> 00:58:15,215
- And soon-to-be grooms
will be getting together
1404
00:58:15,217 --> 00:58:19,477
Separately to meet each other
for the very first time.
1405
00:58:19,497 --> 00:58:20,662
- Hi. I'm bao.
1406
00:58:20,739 --> 00:58:22,723
- Bao, nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you.
1407
00:58:22,725 --> 00:58:24,224
- I'm brett.
- Brett.
1408
00:58:24,243 --> 00:58:26,502
- These are not
typical marriages,
1409
00:58:26,578 --> 00:58:29,171
And our hope is that
these men and women
1410
00:58:29,248 --> 00:58:31,673
Will be able to encourage
and support each other
1411
00:58:31,825 --> 00:58:34,843
During this crazy new chapter
of their lives.
1412
00:58:34,920 --> 00:58:36,253
- I think we're doing shots
around.
1413
00:58:36,405 --> 00:58:38,071
- Are we?
Yeah, I'll drink whatever
1414
00:58:38,073 --> 00:58:39,181
As long it's not jaeger.
1415
00:58:39,258 --> 00:58:40,849
[laughter]
1416
00:58:41,001 --> 00:58:42,759
- Hanging out
with the other grooms,
1417
00:58:42,911 --> 00:58:45,245
I'm curious to see
who else is crazy enough
1418
00:58:45,247 --> 00:58:47,189
To do the exact same thing
I'm doing
1419
00:58:47,266 --> 00:58:51,527
And what series of unfortunate
events has led them
1420
00:58:51,678 --> 00:58:53,177
To be in the same position.
1421
00:58:53,197 --> 00:58:54,755
I have all this anxiety
1422
00:58:54,773 --> 00:58:58,258
About what's about to happen,
and to be able to share that
1423
00:58:58,260 --> 00:58:59,609
With somebody that's going
through the exact same thing,
1424
00:58:59,762 --> 00:59:00,927
That's something
I'm gonna lean on.
1425
00:59:00,946 --> 00:59:02,538
- Okay, so how old
is everybody?
1426
00:59:02,614 --> 00:59:03,764
- I'm 35.
- 35?
1427
00:59:03,766 --> 00:59:05,874
- I'm 35. I'm glad
I'm not the old man.
1428
00:59:05,951 --> 00:59:07,434
- What? I thought I was
gonna be the old man.
1429
00:59:07,452 --> 00:59:09,360
I'm 35.
- You're 35?
1430
00:59:09,380 --> 00:59:12,548
- That's crazy. Same.
- I'm 27.
1431
00:59:12,624 --> 00:59:15,717
- Wait, wait, wait, what?
Wait, wait, wait, wait.
1432
00:59:15,794 --> 00:59:17,219
- So you're the kid!
1433
00:59:17,296 --> 00:59:18,720
Let's get this man a sippy cup.
1434
00:59:18,872 --> 00:59:20,705
[laughter]
1435
00:59:20,724 --> 00:59:21,706
- We're all doing this.
1436
00:59:21,725 --> 00:59:23,392
- Oh, yes.
- Very soon.
1437
00:59:23,468 --> 00:59:24,726
[laughter]
1438
00:59:24,803 --> 00:59:27,287
- This is completely
not like me to do.
1439
00:59:27,289 --> 00:59:28,730
I'm very risk-averse.
1440
00:59:28,882 --> 00:59:30,381
So, you know,
1441
00:59:30,459 --> 00:59:34,236
And I've lived a very planned
and calculated kind of life.
1442
00:59:34,313 --> 00:59:39,074
And so it's taken me really
outside of my comfort zone
1443
00:59:39,225 --> 00:59:41,225
To be a part of this process.
1444
00:59:41,245 --> 00:59:44,580
I'm very much introverted.
1445
00:59:44,656 --> 00:59:46,582
- You're an introvert.
I'm an ambivert,
1446
00:59:46,658 --> 00:59:48,417
Which I think is a good balance
'cause I can do both.
1447
00:59:48,493 --> 00:59:50,252
And I also don't have
a lot of friends.
1448
00:59:50,329 --> 00:59:51,920
I don't make friends easily
at this age anymore.
1449
00:59:51,997 --> 00:59:54,256
- Yeah.
1450
00:59:54,333 --> 00:59:57,593
- What are your must-haves?
What must you have in a woman?
1451
00:59:57,669 --> 00:59:59,595
- So, like, one of the things
I said,
1452
00:59:59,671 --> 01:00:00,821
"I just want to make sure
she has
1453
01:00:00,823 --> 01:00:03,340
Less than 1,000 followers
on instagram."
1454
01:00:03,492 --> 01:00:04,674
- See, that's a good point,
man.
1455
01:00:04,751 --> 01:00:06,935
So, like, my--yo, I get that.
- No ig models.
1456
01:00:07,087 --> 01:00:09,329
[indistinct chatter]
1457
01:00:09,348 --> 01:00:11,440
- Hey, real quick,
I said the exact same.
1458
01:00:11,516 --> 01:00:12,682
I was like,
"I don't want no ig"--yes.
1459
01:00:12,835 --> 01:00:14,776
- Nothing against them.
- Yeah, yeah, right.
1460
01:00:14,853 --> 01:00:16,778
- But they're just too
into themselves.
1461
01:00:16,855 --> 01:00:19,281
I need somebody
that's more centered.
1462
01:00:19,358 --> 01:00:20,932
- Personality-wise,
1463
01:00:20,951 --> 01:00:22,767
To be honest,
this sounds terrible, right?
1464
01:00:22,786 --> 01:00:26,288
But I want somebody
that's kind of clingy.
1465
01:00:26,365 --> 01:00:29,440
[laughter]
- it's levels to clinginess.
1466
01:00:29,460 --> 01:00:33,520
You know, you got little psycho
is worst-case-scenario clingy.
1467
01:00:33,522 --> 01:00:34,688
But then you got
somebody that just--
1468
01:00:34,706 --> 01:00:35,964
- Gil, you know what?
I might even be okay
1469
01:00:36,041 --> 01:00:38,616
With psycho,
as long as she's psycho for me.
1470
01:00:38,636 --> 01:00:40,802
- I definitely want somebody
that's clingy,
1471
01:00:40,879 --> 01:00:42,971
But if we were to rate it
from a one to a five,
1472
01:00:43,048 --> 01:00:44,306
I want, like, a two.
1473
01:00:44,383 --> 01:00:46,808
Johnny maybe wants, like,
a four or a five,
1474
01:00:46,885 --> 01:00:48,977
So he might like
a little drama.
1475
01:00:49,054 --> 01:00:50,479
I feel like he would do better
1476
01:00:50,555 --> 01:00:52,648
With somebody that has
a little more spice to it.
1477
01:00:52,724 --> 01:00:55,208
So a little more red sauce
than green sauce.
1478
01:00:55,210 --> 01:00:57,319
[laughs]
1479
01:00:57,396 --> 01:01:00,155
- Yeah, so for me,
so I had kind of
1480
01:01:00,232 --> 01:01:02,324
An unfortunate laundry list.
1481
01:01:02,401 --> 01:01:04,217
I was like, "I want her
to be simple, classy,
1482
01:01:04,219 --> 01:01:06,720
"humble, no ig models,
1483
01:01:06,738 --> 01:01:09,981
You know, active, work out,
be a little bit thick."
1484
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:12,242
- Sounds kind of picky, though.
Are you a picky guy?
1485
01:01:12,394 --> 01:01:13,669
What's your laundry list,
though?
1486
01:01:13,745 --> 01:01:16,672
Let's just reel off,
like, ten of them.
1487
01:01:16,748 --> 01:01:17,839
- So okay--
1488
01:01:17,991 --> 01:01:19,490
- 'cause I feel like
I'm kind of like you.
1489
01:01:19,568 --> 01:01:21,510
I have, like, a checklist of
things that I want in a girl.
1490
01:01:21,586 --> 01:01:23,512
- You know, I want her
to be educated.
1491
01:01:23,588 --> 01:01:26,515
I want teamwork. I want
consistent communication.
1492
01:01:26,591 --> 01:01:28,909
'cause, you know,
I don't know what I don't know.
1493
01:01:28,927 --> 01:01:31,019
So if you don't tell me
you like green eggs and ham,
1494
01:01:31,096 --> 01:01:32,688
How the hell am I gonna know
1495
01:01:32,839 --> 01:01:34,338
That that's what you like
to do the small--
1496
01:01:34,358 --> 01:01:36,692
'cause I'm a man about detailed
little, small things, right?
1497
01:01:36,768 --> 01:01:39,695
- For me, like, quarantine
got the best of me,
1498
01:01:39,771 --> 01:01:41,755
And I gained so much weight.
1499
01:01:41,773 --> 01:01:43,089
- Girl, who you telling?
[laughter]
1500
01:01:43,108 --> 01:01:44,182
- None of my pants fit.
1501
01:01:44,259 --> 01:01:45,926
I had to buy all new clothes
for this.
1502
01:01:45,928 --> 01:01:47,277
- But then it's like,
1503
01:01:47,429 --> 01:01:49,429
I just had gotten out of
a relationship and everything,
1504
01:01:49,448 --> 01:01:51,206
So I, you know, took time
1505
01:01:51,283 --> 01:01:53,208
To kind of put myself
back together.
1506
01:01:53,285 --> 01:01:55,026
Now I'm, like, so confident
and happy and everything.
1507
01:01:55,045 --> 01:01:56,436
- Oh, I feel the same.
- Yeah.
1508
01:01:56,438 --> 01:01:59,530
- But bringing someone else in,
the risk would be
1509
01:01:59,550 --> 01:02:02,366
What if they deteriorate
my confidence again?
1510
01:02:02,386 --> 01:02:03,885
- Oh, I said the same thing
the other day.
1511
01:02:04,037 --> 01:02:05,721
- Like, what if
they completely break me?
1512
01:02:05,872 --> 01:02:08,539
It was like, am I gonna be
able to like, you know...
1513
01:02:08,559 --> 01:02:10,450
- Yes, you will.
- Get myself together again?
1514
01:02:10,469 --> 01:02:11,952
- Yes, you will.
You'll be fine.
1515
01:02:11,970 --> 01:02:13,453
- I think that's
the biggest risk.
1516
01:02:13,472 --> 01:02:18,066
Like, I'm basically signing up
to put it all on the table,
1517
01:02:18,143 --> 01:02:19,960
Like, good and bad.
1518
01:02:19,962 --> 01:02:22,070
And then what if I do
all of that
1519
01:02:22,222 --> 01:02:24,740
And he's, like, not into that?
1520
01:02:24,816 --> 01:02:28,301
You're like, "cool. Great."
1521
01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:29,486
- Ryan, what about you?
1522
01:02:29,562 --> 01:02:30,579
What'd you tell the experts
that you wanted?
1523
01:02:30,655 --> 01:02:31,913
- I really just told them,
I was like,
1524
01:02:31,990 --> 01:02:33,915
"I just want a good human.
I want a good person."
1525
01:02:33,992 --> 01:02:37,085
I need--she's gonna have to be
a confident person.
1526
01:02:37,162 --> 01:02:39,145
I mean, I've dated a ton,
and I'm gonna have to tell her
1527
01:02:39,164 --> 01:02:40,663
A lot of stuff.
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
1528
01:02:40,816 --> 01:02:43,925
- I feel like ryan's got kind
of, like, a jaded look to him,
1529
01:02:44,002 --> 01:02:45,427
Like he's been through [bleep].
1530
01:02:45,504 --> 01:02:47,654
He seems like he has traveled,
1531
01:02:47,672 --> 01:02:51,933
Like, a very, very long path
to get to where we are today
1532
01:02:52,010 --> 01:02:54,102
And he's just ready
for that end.
1533
01:02:54,179 --> 01:02:55,937
Just think of, like,
a weary traveler
1534
01:02:56,014 --> 01:02:58,756
Just ready to find his inn
for the night.
1535
01:02:58,776 --> 01:03:00,108
[laughs]
1536
01:03:00,185 --> 01:03:01,684
- I need to thank pastor cal
1537
01:03:01,837 --> 01:03:04,279
For making me delete
those apps.
1538
01:03:04,356 --> 01:03:05,947
- Do y'all have, like, any,
1539
01:03:06,024 --> 01:03:10,010
Like, really serious
deal breakers like, "no!"
1540
01:03:10,028 --> 01:03:11,344
- Someone who's aggressive,
controlling.
1541
01:03:11,346 --> 01:03:12,362
- Oh, that too, yeah.
1542
01:03:12,438 --> 01:03:14,456
- I don't like being told
what to do.
1543
01:03:14,533 --> 01:03:16,349
- If he doesn't want kids
and he smokes.
1544
01:03:16,351 --> 01:03:17,292
- Oh.
- Love that.
1545
01:03:17,369 --> 01:03:18,293
- Yeah, kids, yes.
1546
01:03:18,444 --> 01:03:19,869
- Yeah, doesn't want kids,
for sure.
1547
01:03:19,946 --> 01:03:23,799
I think, for me, income-wise,
like, I enjoy doing things
1548
01:03:23,875 --> 01:03:25,133
And, like, a certain lifestyle.
1549
01:03:25,285 --> 01:03:27,527
So I would want to make sure
that they can afford to,
1550
01:03:27,546 --> 01:03:29,879
Because I'm not gonna
change my lifestyle, you know?
1551
01:03:30,032 --> 01:03:31,047
I'm not gonna stop
taking trips.
1552
01:03:31,199 --> 01:03:33,475
I'm not gonna stop,
you know, shopping.
1553
01:03:33,552 --> 01:03:34,810
- Like, that's not gonna stop.
- Absolutely,
1554
01:03:34,886 --> 01:03:36,478
It's not gonna end.
1555
01:03:36,629 --> 01:03:38,647
- My worst-case scenario
is that
1556
01:03:38,723 --> 01:03:39,815
The person I'm matched with
1557
01:03:39,966 --> 01:03:43,985
Is so over-the-top obnoxious,
class clown,
1558
01:03:44,062 --> 01:03:47,213
Someone that's just all about
themselves and egocentric
1559
01:03:47,215 --> 01:03:49,157
And it's just always
"me, me, me,"
1560
01:03:49,234 --> 01:03:52,552
Because that will bring out
the ugly side of me
1561
01:03:52,554 --> 01:03:54,663
That I don't want to come out.
1562
01:03:54,739 --> 01:03:56,556
- Stop it!
1563
01:03:56,558 --> 01:04:00,836
I think bao is probably
one of the nicest,
1564
01:04:00,912 --> 01:04:03,897
Sweetest women
that I have ever met,
1565
01:04:03,915 --> 01:04:06,341
But I feel like she has
1566
01:04:06,492 --> 01:04:09,327
An undercover spicy side
to her.
1567
01:04:09,346 --> 01:04:10,679
A woman of little words,
1568
01:04:10,755 --> 01:04:12,013
But the words
that she does say
1569
01:04:12,090 --> 01:04:13,515
Are very powerful.
1570
01:04:13,592 --> 01:04:16,017
She really needs somebody
1571
01:04:16,094 --> 01:04:20,689
That is willing to concede
wearing the pants.
1572
01:04:20,765 --> 01:04:22,524
- What are you guys
most worried about?
1573
01:04:22,601 --> 01:04:25,026
So I can tell you
what I'm most worried about.
1574
01:04:25,103 --> 01:04:27,420
My longest relationship
was nine months.
1575
01:04:27,439 --> 01:04:29,030
- What?
- Nine months?
1576
01:04:29,107 --> 01:04:30,532
- Yeah, I know.
The other two after that
1577
01:04:30,609 --> 01:04:32,367
Was, like, two months
and three months.
1578
01:04:32,444 --> 01:04:34,260
- That's a fling.
- I know. I know, right?
1579
01:04:34,279 --> 01:04:37,038
- I barely have, like,
a couple dates in two months.
1580
01:04:37,115 --> 01:04:39,766
- Yeah. So, like, I personally
have never been in love.
1581
01:04:39,784 --> 01:04:42,544
What is that feeling like?
I just really do not know.
1582
01:04:42,621 --> 01:04:45,363
- Whenever I get to the point
where I care more about
1583
01:04:45,382 --> 01:04:48,441
Their time, their--
just them being happy
1584
01:04:48,443 --> 01:04:50,368
Over me,
my time and me being happy,
1585
01:04:50,387 --> 01:04:52,870
That's when I feel like,
"okay, you got me."
1586
01:04:52,890 --> 01:04:55,891
- For me when I was in love,
I can be 100% vulnerable
1587
01:04:55,967 --> 01:04:57,208
With them.
1588
01:04:57,285 --> 01:04:59,394
- That's a good point, man.
- I wasn't scared
1589
01:04:59,471 --> 01:05:01,454
To tell them anything.
- Right.
1590
01:05:01,473 --> 01:05:02,380
- I think respect,
like, for me,
1591
01:05:02,399 --> 01:05:04,232
It's like
the cornerstone of love.
1592
01:05:04,309 --> 01:05:07,460
Once I respect somebody, like,
they've earned my respect,
1593
01:05:07,479 --> 01:05:10,405
That's when I know I have the
capacity to love this person.
1594
01:05:10,482 --> 01:05:11,814
- That's it, that's it.
- That's what I'm hoping for.
1595
01:05:11,967 --> 01:05:13,575
- Please!
- That's it, that's it.
1596
01:05:13,652 --> 01:05:16,077
- Who's going to go in
for the kiss at the altar?
1597
01:05:16,154 --> 01:05:18,413
- Not me.
- No?
1598
01:05:18,564 --> 01:05:20,807
- No? I want it.
1599
01:05:20,809 --> 01:05:23,919
- I'm just gonna put my face out
there and see what he does.
1600
01:05:23,995 --> 01:05:25,086
- I'm going.
- You going in?
1601
01:05:25,163 --> 01:05:26,254
- Oh, I'm going. I'm going.
1602
01:05:26,406 --> 01:05:28,906
If he's not a troll,
yeah, I'm kissing him.
1603
01:05:28,926 --> 01:05:30,074
- Yeah, yeah.
1604
01:05:30,152 --> 01:05:33,577
- Well, I'm not.
I'm gonna take it slow.
1605
01:05:33,597 --> 01:05:35,764
I'm gonna take it slow,
I'm not.
1606
01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:39,750
- I get the impression
that myrla is more rigid
1607
01:05:39,770 --> 01:05:43,663
Than the rest of the ladies,
and is very reserved.
1608
01:05:43,665 --> 01:05:45,440
She is more guarded.
1609
01:05:45,517 --> 01:05:47,609
And I hope that
she's matched with someone
1610
01:05:47,686 --> 01:05:49,502
Who's very patient.
1611
01:05:49,521 --> 01:05:51,780
- I want to kiss.
Yeah, this is a stranger,
1612
01:05:51,856 --> 01:05:53,281
But I'm marrying this stranger.
1613
01:05:53,358 --> 01:05:56,509
So tongue, give me all of it,
right?
1614
01:05:56,511 --> 01:05:58,178
- See, I-I respect that, man.
1615
01:05:58,180 --> 01:05:59,603
- I'm very affectionate.
1616
01:05:59,623 --> 01:06:02,958
So for sure, if we could start
off with a bang, why not?
1617
01:06:03,034 --> 01:06:05,126
[laughter]
1618
01:06:05,203 --> 01:06:07,295
Should we get another shot?
1619
01:06:07,372 --> 01:06:10,131
- Whoa!
- We got no chill gil over here.
1620
01:06:10,208 --> 01:06:14,970
- So when was the last time
you guys were with someone?
1621
01:06:16,698 --> 01:06:18,306
Like, with them?
1622
01:06:18,383 --> 01:06:21,309
♪ ♪
1623
01:06:21,461 --> 01:06:24,813
With them
in the biblical sense.
1624
01:06:24,889 --> 01:06:27,148
You know what I mean?
- I just was like, "hmm!"
1625
01:06:27,225 --> 01:06:30,819
- I'm not, like, that ashamed
to answer it.
1626
01:06:30,895 --> 01:06:32,320
I mean, but it's been
over two years.
1627
01:06:32,397 --> 01:06:34,881
- [gasps]
1628
01:06:34,883 --> 01:06:36,491
- [mouthing]
-and that's just because
1629
01:06:36,568 --> 01:06:38,326
Of the relationship factor.
1630
01:06:38,403 --> 01:06:39,828
If I'm not in
a relationship with you,
1631
01:06:39,904 --> 01:06:41,904
So if I've been single,
it's not happening.
1632
01:06:42,057 --> 01:06:43,389
- Yeah.
- You know what I mean?
1633
01:06:43,391 --> 01:06:45,500
So hopefully,
that's not an issue.
1634
01:06:45,577 --> 01:06:46,909
I think people
would understand that.
1635
01:06:46,986 --> 01:06:48,561
I think maybe a guy
would be like, "that's good."
1636
01:06:48,563 --> 01:06:50,488
- Yes, I think so too.
1637
01:06:50,507 --> 01:06:52,507
- And if they don't, well,
then they're not the one.
1638
01:06:52,584 --> 01:06:53,657
- Yeah.
1639
01:06:53,735 --> 01:06:55,343
- And it also ensures
you're clean.
1640
01:06:55,420 --> 01:06:56,827
[laughter]
1641
01:06:56,847 --> 01:06:58,513
- Exactly, yeah.
1642
01:06:58,590 --> 01:07:00,664
- Yeah, mine was a little bit
more recent than that.
1643
01:07:00,684 --> 01:07:03,426
And when I told him that
I got matched, then he was like,
1644
01:07:03,578 --> 01:07:05,020
"wait, are you kidding me?"
I was like,
1645
01:07:05,096 --> 01:07:08,189
"no, I'm engaged now.
Sorry. I'm engaged. Bye."
1646
01:07:08,266 --> 01:07:08,690
[laughter]
1647
01:07:12,863 --> 01:07:13,419
♪ ♪
1648
01:07:13,438 --> 01:07:14,696
- ♪ I, I ♪
1649
01:07:14,773 --> 01:07:16,364
♪ ♪
1650
01:07:16,441 --> 01:07:18,533
♪ I, I ♪
1651
01:07:18,610 --> 01:07:20,610
- Yay, we're here.
1652
01:07:20,762 --> 01:07:23,187
- With just a little
over a week
1653
01:07:23,206 --> 01:07:26,541
Before our ten singles
marry complete strangers,
1654
01:07:26,618 --> 01:07:29,102
It's time to get
their wedding attire locked in.
1655
01:07:29,120 --> 01:07:31,604
They say you never get
a second chance
1656
01:07:31,606 --> 01:07:33,214
To make a first impression.
1657
01:07:33,291 --> 01:07:35,441
And when you're getting married
at first sight,
1658
01:07:35,443 --> 01:07:38,720
That comes with
a lot of pressure.
1659
01:07:41,391 --> 01:07:43,058
- Oh, my gosh, y'all see
this back on this one?
1660
01:07:43,134 --> 01:07:45,226
[laughter, chatter]
1661
01:07:45,378 --> 01:07:48,563
- Missus gonna throw
a party in the back!
1662
01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:50,732
[laughter]
1663
01:07:50,809 --> 01:07:52,400
I am getting married
in nine days.
1664
01:07:52,477 --> 01:07:56,053
This is the biggest milestone
in our family
1665
01:07:56,073 --> 01:07:57,906
Since my father's passing.
1666
01:07:57,982 --> 01:07:59,723
And the idea that I would
1667
01:07:59,743 --> 01:08:03,244
Let somebody I don't know
have all of me emotionally,
1668
01:08:03,321 --> 01:08:06,472
I'm starting to feel like,
"oh, my gosh, [bleep] is wild.
1669
01:08:06,474 --> 01:08:08,899
It's crazy. No, ugh."
1670
01:08:08,919 --> 01:08:10,418
[laughs]
1671
01:08:10,495 --> 01:08:13,571
What am I doing?
[laughing]
1672
01:08:13,590 --> 01:08:16,149
This is gonna be the dress
that he sees me in, y'all.
1673
01:08:16,151 --> 01:08:17,317
Like, how crazy is that?
1674
01:08:17,319 --> 01:08:19,410
- He's gonna see you
and be like, "yes!"
1675
01:08:19,429 --> 01:08:22,430
- Yeah, that's it.
Hopefully, I'm like "yes!" too.
1676
01:08:22,507 --> 01:08:23,932
[laughter]
1677
01:08:28,012 --> 01:08:29,771
- Welcome to al's formal wear.
1678
01:08:29,848 --> 01:08:31,664
- All right.
- Let's get my boy right.
1679
01:08:31,683 --> 01:08:33,591
- Who's getting married?
- I am. I am.
1680
01:08:33,610 --> 01:08:35,777
- This man right here.
- What do you have in mind?
1681
01:08:35,854 --> 01:08:38,446
- Definitely something blue.
1682
01:08:38,523 --> 01:08:41,098
I'm more so on the side
of conservative.
1683
01:08:41,118 --> 01:08:42,283
Not as flashy.
1684
01:08:42,360 --> 01:08:43,767
I never been to a wedding,
1685
01:08:43,787 --> 01:08:47,271
So my wedding will be
the first wedding that I go to.
1686
01:08:47,290 --> 01:08:50,441
It's crazy, you know
what I mean? Like, damn!
1687
01:08:50,460 --> 01:08:53,128
But, you know, a lot
of my friends are single.
1688
01:08:53,204 --> 01:08:54,963
No one's even close
to getting married,
1689
01:08:55,039 --> 01:08:56,297
And my brother is engaged.
1690
01:08:56,374 --> 01:08:59,467
But I just never been--
I haven't been invited.
1691
01:08:59,544 --> 01:09:02,195
So it's really cool to kind of
go through this experience.
1692
01:09:02,213 --> 01:09:04,697
I'm not mad at this.
I like it.
1693
01:09:04,716 --> 01:09:07,308
- That the dark blue
is pretty nice.
1694
01:09:07,385 --> 01:09:09,869
- Definitely feeling
those nerves because
1695
01:09:09,888 --> 01:09:11,295
I've never been in love,
1696
01:09:11,373 --> 01:09:13,314
And once you make a first
impression with someone,
1697
01:09:13,391 --> 01:09:15,150
It's kind of hard
to change that.
1698
01:09:15,226 --> 01:09:16,484
So if I'm gonna
be marrying someone
1699
01:09:16,561 --> 01:09:18,135
That I have never met before,
1700
01:09:18,213 --> 01:09:21,489
A tux that represents me is
what I'm really looking for.
1701
01:09:21,566 --> 01:09:23,158
- Are you feeling
pretty nervous, man?
1702
01:09:23,309 --> 01:09:25,326
- Yeah, I'm very nervous, man.
1703
01:09:25,403 --> 01:09:27,720
- I know, you ain't never
met this girl before.
1704
01:09:27,739 --> 01:09:29,164
So you gotta be
a little nervous.
1705
01:09:29,240 --> 01:09:32,392
- I can't even process, like,
the wedding day right now.
1706
01:09:32,394 --> 01:09:34,227
- Are you ready, though?
1707
01:09:34,229 --> 01:09:35,895
Are you ready
to get married, bro?
1708
01:09:35,914 --> 01:09:37,839
- Yeah, I'm very ready,
actually.
1709
01:09:37,990 --> 01:09:40,008
You guys know, like,
I wanted to get married at 25.
1710
01:09:40,084 --> 01:09:43,511
That was my goal, like, 25,
but obviously didn't work out.
1711
01:09:43,588 --> 01:09:46,973
So whatever I do to get there,
I'm going to do it.
1712
01:09:48,852 --> 01:09:50,351
- Aww!
- Ohh!
1713
01:09:50,428 --> 01:09:52,353
- Right up there
in the pedestal.
1714
01:09:52,430 --> 01:09:56,024
- As she should be.
Put her where she belongs.
1715
01:09:56,100 --> 01:09:57,750
- This is pretty.
- This is all good.
1716
01:09:57,752 --> 01:09:58,860
- Oh, you look like
a bloom baby.
1717
01:09:59,011 --> 01:10:01,362
You are blooming.
- You are a princess bride!
1718
01:10:01,439 --> 01:10:02,864
- You're blooming!
1719
01:10:03,015 --> 01:10:05,258
- Ooh, the back.
Oh, my gosh.
1720
01:10:05,260 --> 01:10:06,517
- Let's see the--bam!
1721
01:10:06,536 --> 01:10:09,095
Ooh! Oh, baby!
1722
01:10:09,113 --> 01:10:11,764
- Oh, gosh!
- You are a present in that.
1723
01:10:12,116 --> 01:10:13,433
- ♪ I've seen it all ♪
1724
01:10:13,435 --> 01:10:15,435
- It's just surreal, like...
1725
01:10:15,453 --> 01:10:17,770
I'm gonna be
somebody's wife.
1726
01:10:19,031 --> 01:10:21,883
I hope my husband is slender,
kind of basketball-build.
1727
01:10:21,960 --> 01:10:26,054
I would like for him to have
a deeper voice, bigger hands.
1728
01:10:26,130 --> 01:10:27,722
I hope that he thinks
I'm beautiful, like,
1729
01:10:27,799 --> 01:10:29,557
"okay" you know?
1730
01:10:32,062 --> 01:10:35,230
- Aw!
- Ohh!
1731
01:10:35,306 --> 01:10:37,139
[laughter]
1732
01:10:37,292 --> 01:10:40,902
- Okay.
- Oh, I love that body.
1733
01:10:40,979 --> 01:10:42,237
- Her face.
- Her face.
1734
01:10:42,388 --> 01:10:44,297
- Yeah, it's gorgeous on you.
- [groans]
1735
01:10:44,299 --> 01:10:45,965
- How are you feeling in that?
1736
01:10:45,967 --> 01:10:48,243
- I feel beautiful.
- Yes, indeed.
1737
01:10:48,319 --> 01:10:50,653
- ♪ look me in the eye ♪
1738
01:10:50,805 --> 01:10:51,729
- All right, michaela,
I'm gonna have you
1739
01:10:51,748 --> 01:10:53,806
Close your eyes.
1740
01:10:53,808 --> 01:10:55,250
It's your wedding day,
1741
01:10:55,326 --> 01:10:57,752
You're getting ready
to walk down the aisle,
1742
01:10:57,829 --> 01:11:02,148
You're gonna meet your husband
for the very first time.
1743
01:11:03,260 --> 01:11:04,759
All right, michaela,
whenever you're ready, go ahead
1744
01:11:04,836 --> 01:11:06,076
And open your eyes.
1745
01:11:06,096 --> 01:11:07,578
- ♪ I know ♪
1746
01:11:07,597 --> 01:11:10,581
♪ we're gonna
give it all love now ♪
1747
01:11:10,600 --> 01:11:14,936
♪ we're gonna take it up
to the sky ♪
1748
01:11:15,087 --> 01:11:16,938
- Oh, my gosh, this is
gorgeous.
1749
01:11:17,015 --> 01:11:19,107
I feel beautiful.
1750
01:11:19,183 --> 01:11:22,593
I feel like myself,
which is good.
1751
01:11:22,612 --> 01:11:27,115
But I'm emotional
as I see myself in this dress
1752
01:11:27,191 --> 01:11:29,117
Because I know
1753
01:11:29,193 --> 01:11:32,620
That my father won't be able
to walk me down the aisle.
1754
01:11:32,697 --> 01:11:35,515
♪ ♪
1755
01:11:35,517 --> 01:11:38,293
[sighs and exhales]
- wow.
1756
01:11:38,369 --> 01:11:40,795
You complement that dress.
- Yes, absolutely.
1757
01:11:40,872 --> 01:11:42,112
Love it.
- It's beautiful.
1758
01:11:42,132 --> 01:11:43,947
- It's gorgeous.
1759
01:11:43,967 --> 01:11:45,207
Michaela, she's my baby.
1760
01:11:45,284 --> 01:11:47,802
So to see her in that,
it just is overwhelming.
1761
01:11:47,879 --> 01:11:50,863
- This dress
is absolutely stunning.
1762
01:11:50,882 --> 01:11:53,308
- You know going into something
like this, adventure like this
1763
01:11:53,384 --> 01:11:57,979
Not knowing who's gonna be
at the end of the walkway--
1764
01:11:58,056 --> 01:12:00,815
She's very bold.
1765
01:12:00,892 --> 01:12:03,376
But she's committed,
and she has a good heart.
1766
01:12:03,394 --> 01:12:06,154
So I support her 1,001%.
1767
01:12:06,305 --> 01:12:09,324
- Oh, my gosh.
1768
01:12:10,568 --> 01:12:13,661
This morning, I felt like,
you know, and this is a lot,
1769
01:12:13,738 --> 01:12:16,313
Like, I don't know
if I'm strong enough for this.
1770
01:12:16,333 --> 01:12:19,983
But let me tell you,
if I were not meant to do this,
1771
01:12:20,003 --> 01:12:22,653
Daddy and grandma thelma
would not have let me do it.
1772
01:12:22,672 --> 01:12:24,397
- 100%.
- There was something
1773
01:12:24,399 --> 01:12:27,066
That they saw
that they were like,
1774
01:12:27,085 --> 01:12:29,177
"nah, she needs this."
- yeah.
1775
01:12:29,253 --> 01:12:31,346
- My father and my grandmother,
1776
01:12:31,422 --> 01:12:33,072
They died within months
of each other.
1777
01:12:33,074 --> 01:12:34,849
My dad was killed
by a drunk driver,
1778
01:12:34,926 --> 01:12:38,077
My grandma
died of a broken heart.
1779
01:12:38,096 --> 01:12:39,854
And those were my people.
1780
01:12:39,931 --> 01:12:42,190
So going through this process,
1781
01:12:42,266 --> 01:12:44,100
I know that
they're still around,
1782
01:12:44,252 --> 01:12:46,361
And that if this
wasn't something
1783
01:12:46,437 --> 01:12:48,345
That I needed to experience,
1784
01:12:48,365 --> 01:12:50,423
I know they wouldn't
never let me do this.
1785
01:12:50,441 --> 01:12:51,515
I know that for a fact.
1786
01:12:51,593 --> 01:12:53,534
I hope that I do
fall in love with him,
1787
01:12:53,611 --> 01:12:57,263
And I really hope that
I'm capable of letting him in
1788
01:12:57,265 --> 01:13:01,542
And not shutting him out and
being able to express myself.
1789
01:13:01,619 --> 01:13:03,119
- I just want to reiterate,
1790
01:13:03,271 --> 01:13:04,453
It's not gonna happen
overnight.
1791
01:13:04,530 --> 01:13:06,864
I still struggle to open up
and be vulnerable.
1792
01:13:06,883 --> 01:13:09,458
So give yourself some leeway.
Give yourself some slack, okay?
1793
01:13:09,611 --> 01:13:12,612
- It's not gonna be easy.
Take your time.
1794
01:13:12,614 --> 01:13:14,555
Don't rush.
What you rushing for?
1795
01:13:16,375 --> 01:13:18,951
- Okay, okay.
1796
01:13:18,953 --> 01:13:20,395
- Okay, okay. Hey, it's real.
Let's do it.
1797
01:13:20,471 --> 01:13:23,789
- Yes, sir!
- [humming]
1798
01:13:23,791 --> 01:13:25,066
[laughter]
- that's crazy, though.
1799
01:13:25,143 --> 01:13:26,734
- Yes, sir!
1800
01:13:26,886 --> 01:13:28,218
- I like this.
I like the style.
1801
01:13:28,238 --> 01:13:29,795
I like the vest.
1802
01:13:29,797 --> 01:13:33,074
- I'm trying to picture her
next to you in the dress, man.
1803
01:13:33,151 --> 01:13:34,650
I'm trying to see how it looks.
1804
01:13:34,727 --> 01:13:36,911
- Yeah, like, meeting her and
then, like, saying the vows,
1805
01:13:36,988 --> 01:13:38,638
Like, to me,
that is the scariest part
1806
01:13:38,640 --> 01:13:40,748
Of this whole process.
1807
01:13:40,825 --> 01:13:41,916
I just hope that I fit her,
1808
01:13:42,067 --> 01:13:43,325
You know,
her standards, you know?
1809
01:13:43,478 --> 01:13:44,977
- You're a free man, man.
- I know.
1810
01:13:44,979 --> 01:13:47,755
But like, you know,
everything I do in life,
1811
01:13:47,832 --> 01:13:49,239
I always think
it's not good enough.
1812
01:13:49,259 --> 01:13:50,499
So that's why
I'm kind of thinking about,
1813
01:13:50,576 --> 01:13:51,834
You know, what if I'm not
good enough for her?
1814
01:13:51,911 --> 01:13:54,244
I mean, I know it's not
the best mindset to have,
1815
01:13:54,264 --> 01:13:56,597
But I'm just nervous about,
like, the attraction,
1816
01:13:56,674 --> 01:13:58,824
You know, because that is real.
1817
01:13:58,843 --> 01:14:01,160
And so if she's not attracted
to me when she first sees me,
1818
01:14:01,179 --> 01:14:02,937
Then I do think
it will be a challenge.
1819
01:14:03,014 --> 01:14:04,997
People have their preferences
and, you know,
1820
01:14:04,999 --> 01:14:06,274
What they're used to.
1821
01:14:06,350 --> 01:14:08,443
What if I'm not, you know,
the height that she wants
1822
01:14:08,519 --> 01:14:10,836
Or the body build she wants
or the skin color she wants?
1823
01:14:10,838 --> 01:14:13,189
It's just the honest truth.
1824
01:14:13,341 --> 01:14:14,782
She may not be attracted
to me,
1825
01:14:14,934 --> 01:14:16,784
And that would be
heartbreaking if she isn't.
1826
01:14:17,954 --> 01:14:19,845
- What if you come down
the aisle and you see him,
1827
01:14:19,864 --> 01:14:20,913
And you're like, "ugh!"
1828
01:14:22,200 --> 01:14:23,624
- Oh, [bleep].
- We've been thinking about
1829
01:14:23,701 --> 01:14:26,294
The other way, but
what if it happens that way?
1830
01:14:27,538 --> 01:14:29,797
- Can you run in that dress?
- Yes, ma'am.
1831
01:14:29,874 --> 01:14:30,965
I can run anything.
I'm squirrelly.
1832
01:14:31,042 --> 01:14:32,800
- You can run in anything.
1833
01:14:32,877 --> 01:14:34,969
♪ ♪
1834
01:14:39,291 --> 01:14:43,369
- ♪ whoa ♪
1835
01:14:43,387 --> 01:14:46,105
♪ ♪
1836
01:14:47,150 --> 01:14:50,543
- Oh, boy, this is a lot.
Oh.
1837
01:14:50,561 --> 01:14:52,320
- Bao, what do you
envision yourself in
1838
01:14:52,396 --> 01:14:54,714
And what style do you prefer?
- Very simple.
1839
01:14:54,732 --> 01:14:56,382
I'm just realizing
how meaningful it is
1840
01:14:56,400 --> 01:14:59,735
To go wedding dress shopping
with the people I love.
1841
01:14:59,887 --> 01:15:01,329
And in a way,
it's like getting married.
1842
01:15:01,405 --> 01:15:03,647
You know, you're picking
the right one,
1843
01:15:03,666 --> 01:15:05,725
You're committing to it.
1844
01:15:05,743 --> 01:15:08,151
You're making a statement
and announcing it to the world.
1845
01:15:08,171 --> 01:15:11,321
A part of me kind of just
feels like I would be happy
1846
01:15:11,341 --> 01:15:13,566
In a white power suit.
1847
01:15:13,568 --> 01:15:15,067
- We're not running
for congress,
1848
01:15:15,069 --> 01:15:16,569
So we're not doing that.
1849
01:15:16,587 --> 01:15:17,995
- I do want to impress him,
1850
01:15:18,014 --> 01:15:19,755
But I want to feel like
it's me.
1851
01:15:19,907 --> 01:15:21,516
I want to look beautiful
on my wedding day.
1852
01:15:21,592 --> 01:15:23,100
- So no yoga pants.
1853
01:15:24,912 --> 01:15:27,188
- Okay, maybe no yoga pants.
No fanny pack?
1854
01:15:27,265 --> 01:15:30,173
- No.
- [laughs]
1855
01:15:31,435 --> 01:15:33,419
- What did you have in mind?
- I kind of like these.
1856
01:15:33,437 --> 01:15:34,845
[laughter]
1857
01:15:34,864 --> 01:15:37,031
- That's some bold patterns
there, johnny.
1858
01:15:37,182 --> 01:15:38,348
- Yeah, this looks kind
of cool.
1859
01:15:38,368 --> 01:15:40,593
I really thought about it
long and hard.
1860
01:15:40,611 --> 01:15:42,762
And despite
my dad's disapproval,
1861
01:15:42,780 --> 01:15:44,021
I'm still committed
to making this happen.
1862
01:15:44,040 --> 01:15:46,356
I have to make peace with it
because I have
1863
01:15:46,376 --> 01:15:48,191
Too much other stuff
that I need to prepare for.
1864
01:15:48,211 --> 01:15:49,693
And going in to get
tux-fitted today
1865
01:15:49,712 --> 01:15:51,862
Kind of brings me back
on the right track.
1866
01:15:51,881 --> 01:15:53,789
- I don't know, man.
- I'll find your size.
1867
01:15:53,941 --> 01:15:56,776
- Looking like
hugh hefner there.
1868
01:15:56,794 --> 01:16:00,279
- Red in asian culture
is a lucky color.
1869
01:16:00,298 --> 01:16:02,782
And if I can control
the color of my suit
1870
01:16:02,800 --> 01:16:04,617
To bring some luck
into the situation,
1871
01:16:04,635 --> 01:16:07,119
I'm gonna do it because
I'm just tired of dating,
1872
01:16:07,138 --> 01:16:08,563
And I don't want to date
anymore.
1873
01:16:09,807 --> 01:16:12,549
- ♪ here comes the bride ♪
1874
01:16:12,569 --> 01:16:14,960
♪ all dressed in... ♪
1875
01:16:14,979 --> 01:16:17,220
- You don't sound too happy.
1876
01:16:17,240 --> 01:16:19,131
- I think it's, um...
1877
01:16:19,133 --> 01:16:21,467
I feel like this
is a timeless look.
1878
01:16:21,485 --> 01:16:22,726
I don't know why,
1879
01:16:22,745 --> 01:16:24,227
But I'm thinking marilyn monroe
for some reason,
1880
01:16:24,247 --> 01:16:25,971
But with less blossom.
1881
01:16:25,990 --> 01:16:27,139
And asian.
1882
01:16:27,141 --> 01:16:29,809
- Sure.
- I do like the swish of this.
1883
01:16:29,827 --> 01:16:33,254
- Are there pockets?
- No, I wish there were--
1884
01:16:33,331 --> 01:16:34,814
[screaming]
1885
01:16:34,832 --> 01:16:38,150
- Okay, this one's good.
- My gosh.
1886
01:16:38,169 --> 01:16:41,821
- Oh, my god, I love it.
God, and they're deep pockets.
1887
01:16:41,839 --> 01:16:45,082
I could stash all kinds
of food in here.
1888
01:16:45,101 --> 01:16:46,659
I'm like, "okay."
- yeah, sure.
1889
01:16:46,677 --> 01:16:48,994
- Nothing greasy, just...
1890
01:16:49,013 --> 01:16:49,937
- Okay.
1891
01:16:51,849 --> 01:16:53,833
- Aw, wow!
-Oh, man!
1892
01:16:53,851 --> 01:16:55,443
[chatter]
1893
01:16:55,594 --> 01:16:57,169
- Is that the last suit
you'll ever wear?
1894
01:16:57,188 --> 01:16:59,596
- Might be. I do like
this contrast right here.
1895
01:16:59,616 --> 01:17:01,006
And maybe a different
color of bow
1896
01:17:01,025 --> 01:17:03,266
But I mean,
I like this jacket a lot.
1897
01:17:03,286 --> 01:17:05,861
- You're getting some gold.
- Take a look.
1898
01:17:06,013 --> 01:17:08,364
- Now, which one, you know,
which one screams, like,
1899
01:17:08,516 --> 01:17:11,125
"I want to bang johnny"?
[laughter]
1900
01:17:13,612 --> 01:17:14,945
I'm just really excited.
1901
01:17:14,964 --> 01:17:17,022
I can't wait to see like
what her personality is like.
1902
01:17:17,024 --> 01:17:18,524
Is she quirky like me,
1903
01:17:18,542 --> 01:17:20,784
Is she witty,
or is she really serious
1904
01:17:20,803 --> 01:17:22,194
I need to like soften her up
a little bit?
1905
01:17:22,213 --> 01:17:24,196
Is she really career-oriented
1906
01:17:24,215 --> 01:17:26,623
Or is she more of, like,
a dreamer?
1907
01:17:26,643 --> 01:17:29,793
[exhales] so many questions,
and I'm like,
1908
01:17:29,812 --> 01:17:33,539
Just excited to meet somebody
that has the same values,
1909
01:17:33,557 --> 01:17:35,632
Same goals,
same place in life,
1910
01:17:35,652 --> 01:17:37,209
And wants to be with me.
1911
01:17:37,228 --> 01:17:39,136
Like, she's committed
to this as much as I have.
1912
01:17:39,155 --> 01:17:41,304
And that's the thing
that excites me the most
1913
01:17:41,324 --> 01:17:44,733
Is that we have that baseline
of commitment to one another.
1914
01:17:44,886 --> 01:17:47,219
I mean, I don't expect this
to be easy.
1915
01:17:47,238 --> 01:17:49,163
I don't expect this
to be like a walk in the park.
1916
01:17:49,240 --> 01:17:50,814
- You know, growing up
in the family that we did,
1917
01:17:50,833 --> 01:17:53,726
We aren't very good
at expressing ourselves.
1918
01:17:53,744 --> 01:17:56,337
We just have to be not afraid
to show ourselves, right?
1919
01:17:56,414 --> 01:17:57,897
I mean, she's your wife,
she's the person
1920
01:17:57,915 --> 01:17:59,732
You're gonna spend
the rest of your life with.
1921
01:17:59,750 --> 01:18:03,402
And I think that if you do that
you know, it's gonna be good.
1922
01:18:03,421 --> 01:18:06,830
- Man, I can't believe, like,
him saying that,
1923
01:18:06,849 --> 01:18:09,074
It plucks, like,
a little heartstring
1924
01:18:09,093 --> 01:18:11,911
Because I wasn't hugged
as a child,
1925
01:18:11,929 --> 01:18:16,023
Because my mom never told me
she loved me, you know?
1926
01:18:16,100 --> 01:18:19,919
And holy [bleep], I think
that's where I get that from.
1927
01:18:19,937 --> 01:18:22,846
I just want to see that
she really wants to be with me,
1928
01:18:22,865 --> 01:18:25,591
She's happy with
what I look like and excited
1929
01:18:25,609 --> 01:18:29,094
To go get married and go
through this journey with me.
1930
01:18:29,113 --> 01:18:30,763
- Mom, did you ever think--
1931
01:18:30,781 --> 01:18:32,522
You ever think this--
- I got shocked
1932
01:18:32,542 --> 01:18:34,691
When she told me.
1933
01:18:34,711 --> 01:18:37,102
I said, "what? Really?"
1934
01:18:37,121 --> 01:18:38,528
She pretty.
1935
01:18:38,548 --> 01:18:39,696
Why she have to
do it like that?
1936
01:18:39,716 --> 01:18:41,774
- It's okay, it's okay.
1937
01:18:41,792 --> 01:18:43,442
She's pretty,
but she's picky.
1938
01:18:43,461 --> 01:18:44,777
- She's very picky.
1939
01:18:44,795 --> 01:18:46,111
- She's very picky.
- Yeah.
1940
01:18:46,130 --> 01:18:48,556
- I feel like she's gonna
have, like, 100 questions
1941
01:18:48,707 --> 01:18:49,965
On her wedding night.
1942
01:18:50,117 --> 01:18:53,285
- Probably gonna set up a table
with a...You know,
1943
01:18:53,304 --> 01:18:54,954
Like, interrogation.
1944
01:18:54,972 --> 01:18:56,379
[laughter]
1945
01:18:56,399 --> 01:18:58,290
- Here I come.
1946
01:18:58,309 --> 01:19:00,292
- Oh!
- Ooh.
1947
01:19:00,311 --> 01:19:01,961
Look at that gown.
1948
01:19:01,979 --> 01:19:04,888
- It's just like the other
dress, but [indistinct].
1949
01:19:04,907 --> 01:19:07,224
- I think it's very beautiful.
1950
01:19:07,243 --> 01:19:08,391
I think I like the train
on this one
1951
01:19:08,411 --> 01:19:09,318
More than the other one.
1952
01:19:09,470 --> 01:19:11,912
- Yeah.
- No, yeah, it's better.
1953
01:19:11,989 --> 01:19:16,475
When I see my daughter
wear the wedding dress,
1954
01:19:16,494 --> 01:19:21,738
I feel very hopeful
and very nervous.
1955
01:19:21,758 --> 01:19:25,760
With her husband, I still
a little concern about that.
1956
01:19:25,836 --> 01:19:28,745
So I just wish
and prays for her.
1957
01:19:28,765 --> 01:19:31,081
And I hope
they be very happy.
1958
01:19:31,100 --> 01:19:32,933
- I think this more
complements you well.
1959
01:19:33,085 --> 01:19:34,176
- It's not too blingy,
1960
01:19:34,328 --> 01:19:37,271
And it has just enough
like elegance to it.
1961
01:19:37,422 --> 01:19:39,164
- Yeah.
- It's kind of ethereal.
1962
01:19:39,183 --> 01:19:41,758
- Like, if this one had
pockets, it would be so nice.
1963
01:19:41,778 --> 01:19:42,835
Like--
- no.
1964
01:19:42,837 --> 01:19:44,837
- Oh, shoot!
- Wait, does it?
1965
01:19:44,855 --> 01:19:49,432
[screaming]
[laughter]
1966
01:19:49,452 --> 01:19:52,511
But it's lace. We're gonna see
what you have in your pockets.
1967
01:19:52,530 --> 01:19:54,013
- Yeah, you can't put--
1968
01:19:54,031 --> 01:19:56,348
- You cannot put
anything in there.
1969
01:19:56,367 --> 01:19:58,684
- Oh, my gosh,
it can't get better than this.
1970
01:19:58,702 --> 01:20:00,795
This is the dress.
1971
01:20:00,871 --> 01:20:02,688
- ♪ we try and cage a bird ♪
1972
01:20:02,690 --> 01:20:04,857
- This dress is not
what I expected,
1973
01:20:04,875 --> 01:20:08,527
But I'm surprised at how
beautiful I feel in this dress.
1974
01:20:08,529 --> 01:20:10,620
Oh, I look so pretty.
1975
01:20:10,640 --> 01:20:14,716
I'm not a camera-ready person
1976
01:20:14,869 --> 01:20:18,537
That cares about dresses,
normally,
1977
01:20:18,556 --> 01:20:21,649
But I'm doing this because
I'm putting my all into it.
1978
01:20:21,725 --> 01:20:24,043
And anything I set my mind
to doing, I do it
1979
01:20:24,061 --> 01:20:26,211
To the fullest of my ability.
1980
01:20:26,230 --> 01:20:27,988
And now that he's my husband,
1981
01:20:28,065 --> 01:20:30,640
I have that expectation
of him too.
1982
01:20:30,660 --> 01:20:34,644
And it might be a tall order,
but it is what it is.
1983
01:20:34,664 --> 01:20:36,221
I look great.
1984
01:20:36,240 --> 01:20:37,647
My gosh.
And I'm blushing.
1985
01:20:37,667 --> 01:20:39,816
Like, naturally blushing.
1986
01:20:39,836 --> 01:20:43,153
I hope he's handsome,
'cause this is hot.
1987
01:20:43,172 --> 01:20:47,324
Like, I need him to look
handsome next to me, right?
1988
01:20:47,343 --> 01:20:49,343
I hope he's handsome.
1989
01:20:53,516 --> 01:20:56,183
♪ ♪
1990
01:20:56,260 --> 01:20:58,519
- ♪ just give me one,
one, two, three more shots ♪
1991
01:20:58,596 --> 01:21:00,670
♪ I need another,
that's my song ♪
1992
01:21:00,690 --> 01:21:03,691
♪ so fill it up
I fill my cup up, baby ♪
1993
01:21:03,767 --> 01:21:05,601
- You guys excited?
- Oh, excited, brother.
1994
01:21:05,753 --> 01:21:06,919
- Very excited.
- Excited, man.
1995
01:21:06,937 --> 01:21:08,420
That's a great look
right there.
1996
01:21:08,439 --> 01:21:09,922
I like that.
That's kind of cool.
1997
01:21:09,940 --> 01:21:14,201
♪ ♪
1998
01:21:14,278 --> 01:21:16,370
- Tonight,
before their big day,
1999
01:21:16,447 --> 01:21:19,039
Our couples will have one
last chance to get together
2000
01:21:19,191 --> 01:21:22,877
And celebrate leaving
their single life behind.
2001
01:21:22,953 --> 01:21:25,287
- Whoo!
2002
01:21:26,457 --> 01:21:28,716
In a few days,
our couples will enter into
2003
01:21:28,792 --> 01:21:31,552
Legally binding-marriages
to complete strangers.
2004
01:21:31,629 --> 01:21:33,888
- I will tell you I want to do
a shot, but I don't know.
2005
01:21:34,039 --> 01:21:36,281
- Yeah, go for it.
Come on.
2006
01:21:36,300 --> 01:21:38,058
- You can't even bring that up.
2007
01:21:38,135 --> 01:21:39,134
- I know. I was like,
I don't want to take it.
2008
01:21:39,286 --> 01:21:40,469
- Come on, man.
2009
01:21:40,621 --> 01:21:41,544
- I see that you're
the influencer. Okay, okay.
2010
01:21:41,564 --> 01:21:42,804
- He said yes?
2011
01:21:42,957 --> 01:21:44,732
- I'm down. Let's do it,
let's do it, let's do it.
2012
01:21:44,808 --> 01:21:47,568
- I'm hoping to have so much
fun with the fellas.
2013
01:21:47,645 --> 01:21:50,295
I'm just excited to see them
let loose a little bit
2014
01:21:50,297 --> 01:21:53,148
Before we take that plunge,
2015
01:21:53,300 --> 01:21:56,744
And hopefully meet
the love of our life.
2016
01:21:56,895 --> 01:22:00,139
- This place is interesting.
- This is out of my realm.
2017
01:22:00,157 --> 01:22:01,582
- Yeah, yeah, me too, I mean...
2018
01:22:01,659 --> 01:22:04,143
- I might get in there
and do something.
2019
01:22:04,161 --> 01:22:06,754
I mean, I'll move,
but it won't be right.
2020
01:22:06,830 --> 01:22:09,089
Not at all.
- I'm catching good vibes here.
2021
01:22:09,166 --> 01:22:10,983
- ♪ you don't want to scrub,
you don't really want a mob ♪
2022
01:22:11,001 --> 01:22:11,908
♪ you don't want to
know your eyes ♪
2023
01:22:11,928 --> 01:22:13,318
♪ when it comes to the best ♪
2024
01:22:13,337 --> 01:22:14,595
♪ you ain't never tried,
you ain't never tried ♪
2025
01:22:14,746 --> 01:22:15,988
♪ you ain't never ride
to survive overtime ♪
2026
01:22:15,990 --> 01:22:17,322
♪ with the best ♪
2027
01:22:17,341 --> 01:22:18,915
♪ I've been doing this
y'all my whole life ♪
2028
01:22:18,935 --> 01:22:20,509
♪ I've been doing
this y'all my whole life ♪
2029
01:22:20,661 --> 01:22:21,936
♪ I've been doing this
y'all my whole life ♪
2030
01:22:22,012 --> 01:22:23,753
- Yes! Yes!
2031
01:22:23,773 --> 01:22:25,330
- Yeah, work it!
2032
01:22:25,349 --> 01:22:28,108
- See, I'm afraid if I drop it,
it's gonna split my dress.
2033
01:22:28,185 --> 01:22:30,169
- I need a drink.
2034
01:22:30,187 --> 01:22:32,337
- It's just not my ambience
I'm into.
2035
01:22:32,339 --> 01:22:34,339
- Yes.
- You know?
2036
01:22:34,341 --> 01:22:36,766
- If she's the person
2037
01:22:36,786 --> 01:22:40,362
That the experts,
you know, put me for me...
2038
01:22:40,514 --> 01:22:43,015
- Is she calm? What she like?
- She the life of the party.
2039
01:22:43,017 --> 01:22:44,516
♪ ♪
2040
01:22:44,535 --> 01:22:47,294
- You gotta dance.
- I don't want to dance.
2041
01:22:47,371 --> 01:22:50,798
- Oh, my god, look at them.
2042
01:22:53,302 --> 01:22:57,787
- Myrla is to herself,
and she's closed off.
2043
01:22:57,807 --> 01:23:00,866
So, yeah, in this process--
in this kind of process?
2044
01:23:00,868 --> 01:23:02,217
You gotta open the [bleep] up.
2045
01:23:02,369 --> 01:23:04,478
- So how are you feeling?
- I feel excited.
2046
01:23:04,555 --> 01:23:06,221
- How are you liking
the bachelorette?
2047
01:23:06,373 --> 01:23:08,540
- It's okay.
- Yeah.
2048
01:23:08,559 --> 01:23:11,485
- I'm not really a bachelorette
person, though. You know that.
2049
01:23:11,636 --> 01:23:14,213
- Well,
you've never been married.
2050
01:23:14,215 --> 01:23:16,473
So this is not your bag?
2051
01:23:16,492 --> 01:23:18,717
♪ ♪
2052
01:23:18,736 --> 01:23:21,220
- No. Like, I just want
to get married.
2053
01:23:21,238 --> 01:23:24,665
I just want to be past all this
and just, like, be married.
2054
01:23:24,742 --> 01:23:26,892
Then life starts.
Both: Yeah.
2055
01:23:26,894 --> 01:23:29,169
♪ ♪
2056
01:23:29,246 --> 01:23:34,508
- ♪ I said the good times
comin' along ♪
2057
01:23:34,659 --> 01:23:37,236
♪ oh, goodbye trouble ♪
2058
01:23:37,254 --> 01:23:39,179
♪ good times comin' ♪
2059
01:23:39,331 --> 01:23:41,240
♪ good times
comin' ♪
2060
01:23:41,242 --> 01:23:42,349
- I'll do what you do.
2061
01:23:42,426 --> 01:23:43,833
Okay, go.
2062
01:23:43,853 --> 01:23:45,744
♪ ♪
2063
01:23:45,763 --> 01:23:47,429
Just like that.
2064
01:23:47,581 --> 01:23:49,481
- Oh, my god.
2065
01:23:52,436 --> 01:23:54,695
- ♪ baby when you move
like that ♪
2066
01:23:54,846 --> 01:23:57,105
♪ she ain't looking
for love or romance ♪
2067
01:23:57,258 --> 01:23:58,423
- I'm learning.
2068
01:23:58,425 --> 01:24:01,035
- Gil is a party animal.
2069
01:24:01,111 --> 01:24:03,037
Whoever he gets matched with,
2070
01:24:03,113 --> 01:24:04,830
I hope she has the same energy
as he does.
2071
01:24:08,210 --> 01:24:09,526
- Okay, I'm done.
2072
01:24:09,545 --> 01:24:12,362
I would definitely perform
for my wife like this.
2073
01:24:12,381 --> 01:24:15,382
If that's what she's into,
if that's what she wants,
2074
01:24:15,534 --> 01:24:17,885
Or even if that's
what she doesn't want
2075
01:24:17,961 --> 01:24:20,220
But she doesn't know
that she wants,
2076
01:24:20,297 --> 01:24:22,389
That's definitely something
I would do for her.
2077
01:24:22,466 --> 01:24:23,724
- Hell, yeah.
- Come on.
2078
01:24:26,303 --> 01:24:27,786
[screaming]
2079
01:24:27,788 --> 01:24:30,213
- Oh, my god.
- Yeah, bao!
2080
01:24:30,232 --> 01:24:32,066
- Oh, my god.
2081
01:24:33,552 --> 01:24:35,127
Oh, my god!
2082
01:24:35,145 --> 01:24:38,388
- I think that bao
is the kind of person
2083
01:24:38,407 --> 01:24:43,726
Who will say she's reserved,
but secretly, is not.
2084
01:24:43,746 --> 01:24:47,414
Once you open her up,
she is fun as [bleep] yeah.
2085
01:24:47,491 --> 01:24:49,583
- Whoo!
2086
01:24:49,660 --> 01:24:53,145
[laughter]
2087
01:24:53,147 --> 01:24:56,256
- I mean, I'm hoping that we
have sparks right off the bat.
2088
01:24:56,408 --> 01:24:57,925
I think the first thing
I'm gonna want to find out
2089
01:24:58,076 --> 01:25:00,910
When we walk up is that
I want to see on her face
2090
01:25:00,930 --> 01:25:04,005
That she is happy to see me,
she's excited,
2091
01:25:04,158 --> 01:25:06,158
And, like, if she walks up
to me and she's just like,
2092
01:25:06,160 --> 01:25:10,253
"aw, okay, this guy."
2093
01:25:10,272 --> 01:25:11,830
Unfortunately...
2094
01:25:11,849 --> 01:25:14,257
- She turns around and walk
down the aisle the other way?
2095
01:25:14,276 --> 01:25:18,112
- Yeah, she starts crying
in a bad way. Happy tears?
2096
01:25:18,188 --> 01:25:19,780
[bell dings]
2097
01:25:19,857 --> 01:25:22,765
- You're a little picky, which
is what I love about you,
2098
01:25:22,785 --> 01:25:24,785
And that's why your standards
are so high.
2099
01:25:24,862 --> 01:25:26,269
What do you think
your husband's doing right now?
2100
01:25:26,288 --> 01:25:28,271
♪ ♪
2101
01:25:28,290 --> 01:25:30,624
- I would love to think
that he's at nasa.
2102
01:25:30,701 --> 01:25:32,017
- Yeah, studying.
- You know, I hope...
2103
01:25:32,035 --> 01:25:33,852
- Reading books?
- Yeah.
2104
01:25:33,854 --> 01:25:35,278
- And definitely
watching cat videos.
2105
01:25:35,297 --> 01:25:36,797
- Oh, I hope so.
2106
01:25:36,874 --> 01:25:40,617
- Are you ready to spend
the rest of your life
2107
01:25:40,636 --> 01:25:43,028
With somebody,
a complete stranger at that?
2108
01:25:43,030 --> 01:25:45,639
- I'm totally ready.
I'm over dating.
2109
01:25:45,790 --> 01:25:48,200
I'm ready to be with one person
for the rest of my life.
2110
01:25:48,218 --> 01:25:49,643
- Ready to replace me
on the twerk team?
2111
01:25:49,794 --> 01:25:51,145
[laughter]
2112
01:25:51,221 --> 01:25:53,555
- I hope he can twerk.
Oh, my goodness.
2113
01:25:53,707 --> 01:25:58,652
♪ ♪
2114
01:25:58,729 --> 01:26:00,729
The fun we're having right now,
like, I hope
2115
01:26:00,881 --> 01:26:02,805
I can have that kind of fun
with my husband.
2116
01:26:02,825 --> 01:26:04,324
- Hopefully, he's gonna be
your best friend.
2117
01:26:04,401 --> 01:26:06,309
- This is the person
that you're gonna spend
2118
01:26:06,328 --> 01:26:08,403
The rest of your life with?
- Absolutely.
2119
01:26:08,555 --> 01:26:09,997
- It's a great night, man.
- A fun night.
2120
01:26:10,073 --> 01:26:11,072
- We got some dancers
in the group.
2121
01:26:11,149 --> 01:26:13,333
- He danced
until his pants tore.
2122
01:26:13,410 --> 01:26:14,726
He's got a little rip
in his pants.
2123
01:26:14,745 --> 01:26:16,003
- I'm still looking for it.
- Yeah.
2124
01:26:16,079 --> 01:26:17,838
- I knew in this scenario
that I'd be,
2125
01:26:17,915 --> 01:26:19,231
Like, more reserved,
2126
01:26:19,249 --> 01:26:21,508
As much as I'd love
to tear my pants up.
2127
01:26:21,585 --> 01:26:24,011
- What are you guys most
nervous about in terms of,
2128
01:26:24,087 --> 01:26:25,345
You know, after the wedding?
2129
01:26:25,422 --> 01:26:26,571
- Think it's the intimacy.
2130
01:26:26,573 --> 01:26:28,164
- But I'm looking more forward
2131
01:26:28,184 --> 01:26:29,850
To the conversation,
like, after the wedding.
2132
01:26:29,927 --> 01:26:31,576
You're gonna meet her
in that first sit-down,
2133
01:26:31,595 --> 01:26:33,078
In that first conversation
and like
2134
01:26:33,080 --> 01:26:34,521
What's your first question
gonna be?
2135
01:26:34,598 --> 01:26:35,522
It's like, I don't know what
my first question's gonna be.
2136
01:26:35,674 --> 01:26:36,690
- So I will say this.
2137
01:26:36,767 --> 01:26:38,692
Here's what I have done
to combat, well,
2138
01:26:38,769 --> 01:26:40,194
I wouldn't say combat that.
2139
01:26:40,270 --> 01:26:41,586
I'll say, like, bridge the gap.
2140
01:26:41,588 --> 01:26:43,922
So I wrote every
single question now
2141
01:26:43,941 --> 01:26:45,199
That I have thought of.
2142
01:26:45,275 --> 01:26:46,533
[laughter]
right?
2143
01:26:46,685 --> 01:26:47,759
- Kinda funny, yeah.
2144
01:26:47,761 --> 01:26:49,185
- How many questions
you got so far?
2145
01:26:49,205 --> 01:26:52,539
- So it may be teasy,
it may be me crazy,
2146
01:26:52,616 --> 01:26:54,433
But I wrote everything down.
2147
01:26:54,451 --> 01:26:56,435
So there's 256 questions.
2148
01:26:56,437 --> 01:26:58,937
- Oh!
- I already did it.
2149
01:26:58,956 --> 01:27:00,714
I already did it.
I already did it.
2150
01:27:00,791 --> 01:27:03,108
- I think jose needs a wife
that's gonna be like
2151
01:27:03,110 --> 01:27:06,386
Affectionate and lets him know
2152
01:27:06,463 --> 01:27:10,799
That he's appreciated
because he is unique.
2153
01:27:10,951 --> 01:27:13,560
He's like a pokémon,
like unique pokémon over here.
2154
01:27:13,637 --> 01:27:15,729
A rare pokémon,
and he needs somebody
2155
01:27:15,806 --> 01:27:20,734
That is looking for that rare,
like, perfect fit for me.
2156
01:27:20,811 --> 01:27:23,128
If I was a chick,
I'd be into jose.
2157
01:27:23,130 --> 01:27:24,296
- When do you guys
think you'll cry?
2158
01:27:24,298 --> 01:27:25,797
I personally think
I'm gonna cry when I--
2159
01:27:25,816 --> 01:27:27,466
- I'm gonna cry during
my speeches, 100%.
2160
01:27:27,468 --> 01:27:29,576
- Do you guys have--
- no question.
2161
01:27:29,653 --> 01:27:30,652
- I just--
2162
01:27:30,729 --> 01:27:32,804
- I don't think I'ma cry
not one time
2163
01:27:32,806 --> 01:27:33,914
During this whole thing.
2164
01:27:33,991 --> 01:27:35,082
[laughter]
2165
01:27:35,233 --> 01:27:36,750
Look, if her vows--
2166
01:27:36,901 --> 01:27:38,827
Her vows gotta be, like,
made by--
2167
01:27:38,979 --> 01:27:40,587
Mother teresa...
2168
01:27:40,664 --> 01:27:43,590
Might have to write
her vows for me to cry.
2169
01:27:43,667 --> 01:27:45,650
- I practice my vows, practice
my vows every day, man.
2170
01:27:45,652 --> 01:27:47,594
- Me crying?
You got it memorized?
2171
01:27:47,671 --> 01:27:50,079
- I've had multiple goals
in life, but my main goal
2172
01:27:50,099 --> 01:27:52,099
Has always been to have
a beautiful wife and kids.
2173
01:27:52,250 --> 01:27:54,326
And so now I have
the opportunity to have that.
2174
01:27:54,328 --> 01:27:56,103
And so...I want this.
2175
01:27:56,179 --> 01:27:59,164
♪ ♪
2176
01:27:59,182 --> 01:28:01,275
- She's getting really into it.
2177
01:28:01,351 --> 01:28:03,335
♪ ♪
2178
01:28:03,353 --> 01:28:05,112
Really into it.
2179
01:28:05,188 --> 01:28:06,838
- ♪ you let the money talk ♪
2180
01:28:06,857 --> 01:28:09,674
- Oh, baby, she's eating
this up right now.
2181
01:28:09,693 --> 01:28:11,118
- ♪ making commas on a check ♪
2182
01:28:11,194 --> 01:28:12,452
- No, ma'am.
2183
01:28:12,529 --> 01:28:14,195
- ♪ I just let
that money talk ♪
2184
01:28:14,348 --> 01:28:17,124
- Here you go.
2185
01:28:17,200 --> 01:28:18,959
[laughter]
2186
01:28:19,036 --> 01:28:20,852
- No, you take all.
I'll take that.
2187
01:28:20,871 --> 01:28:23,021
- ♪ talk, talk,
got a lotta zeroes ♪
2188
01:28:23,040 --> 01:28:24,298
- I'll take that.
2189
01:28:24,374 --> 01:28:25,690
- Michaela!
2190
01:28:25,692 --> 01:28:27,192
- Turn around and twerk.
2191
01:28:27,194 --> 01:28:28,135
- Oh, you havea great ass.
- I don't knowhow to do that.
2192
01:28:28,211 --> 01:28:29,194
- [laughing]
2193
01:28:29,212 --> 01:28:31,196
- You should do it!
- No, girl.
2194
01:28:31,198 --> 01:28:33,640
No, ma'am.
- Here's another.
2195
01:28:33,717 --> 01:28:36,459
- Lookit, though.
- I'm sorry, it was fun.
2196
01:28:36,478 --> 01:28:38,437
- Oh, my god!
2197
01:28:40,891 --> 01:28:42,374
- No comment.
2198
01:28:42,376 --> 01:28:43,892
- I didn't ask for this!
2199
01:28:44,044 --> 01:28:45,986
- I underestimated bao.
2200
01:28:46,063 --> 01:28:48,488
- How does bao still have money
but I don't?
2201
01:28:51,902 --> 01:28:54,069
[laughter]
2202
01:28:54,830 --> 01:28:56,388
- My advice for
my michaela's husband
2203
01:28:56,406 --> 01:28:58,832
Would be to, like,
hold on to your seat.
2204
01:28:58,983 --> 01:29:01,893
I think she's going to bring,
like, a flair and an energy
2205
01:29:01,912 --> 01:29:04,171
That he might not
have had before.
2206
01:29:04,247 --> 01:29:06,340
- Whoo!
2207
01:29:06,491 --> 01:29:08,008
[laughing]
2208
01:29:08,085 --> 01:29:09,584
This is what I like!
2209
01:29:09,736 --> 01:29:11,511
- Michaela's
putting us to shame.
2210
01:29:11,588 --> 01:29:14,181
- Whoo! Yes!
2211
01:29:14,257 --> 01:29:15,423
- She's so fun.
2212
01:29:15,576 --> 01:29:18,518
- I feel like, now
that I've met the women,
2213
01:29:18,670 --> 01:29:20,854
That I was authentically me.
2214
01:29:21,005 --> 01:29:23,190
And I don't know why
I got a match.
2215
01:29:23,341 --> 01:29:25,525
I don't.
I honestly don't.
2216
01:29:25,677 --> 01:29:28,862
And I contribute a lot of it
to the way I was raised
2217
01:29:28,939 --> 01:29:31,031
And my siblings
and my parents and all that.
2218
01:29:31,108 --> 01:29:35,035
It's like, wow, I'm very--
it makes me even more curious
2219
01:29:35,112 --> 01:29:38,538
To learn who my spouse is
'cause I don't think I am
2220
01:29:38,615 --> 01:29:41,858
Like any of the women
who were matched with me.
2221
01:29:41,877 --> 01:29:44,211
I really don't.
Yeah, I'm feeling so good.
2222
01:29:44,287 --> 01:29:46,938
- You ready to get married?
- I am ready to get married.
2223
01:29:46,957 --> 01:29:48,790
My man gotta be damn good.
2224
01:29:48,942 --> 01:29:52,386
I hope he's tall, beautiful,
kind, ambitious.
2225
01:29:52,462 --> 01:29:54,704
Like, he's just the [bleep].
2226
01:29:54,723 --> 01:29:57,282
- And what's your manifestation
on like...
2227
01:29:57,300 --> 01:29:59,726
- Oh, I would love for him
to have it strong,
2228
01:29:59,803 --> 01:30:02,044
But he has to be
able to work it.
2229
01:30:02,064 --> 01:30:04,064
You don't want a big [bleep]
and he, like,
2230
01:30:04,141 --> 01:30:05,715
Rams like a rabbit.
That sucks.
2231
01:30:05,734 --> 01:30:07,401
Uh...Ow.
2232
01:30:07,477 --> 01:30:08,960
- Are you gonna smash
the first night?
2233
01:30:08,979 --> 01:30:10,295
What are you expecting?
2234
01:30:10,313 --> 01:30:12,388
If you don't like him,
what are you gonna do?
2235
01:30:12,408 --> 01:30:14,724
- So honeymoon night.
Well, y'all know me.
2236
01:30:14,743 --> 01:30:18,245
If he's attractive,
and if I'm liking him,
2237
01:30:18,396 --> 01:30:19,579
If he's handsome
but we done spent
2238
01:30:19,731 --> 01:30:23,232
12 [bleep] hours together,
if we have good rapport,
2239
01:30:23,252 --> 01:30:26,494
I am not opposed to
smashing the first time.
2240
01:30:26,647 --> 01:30:30,482
[hysterical laughter]
2241
01:30:30,484 --> 01:30:32,426
- Don't get pregnant.
2242
01:30:37,007 --> 01:30:38,598
- ♪ I can never get
you off my ♪
2243
01:30:38,675 --> 01:30:41,826
♪ my my mind ♪
2244
01:30:41,828 --> 01:30:44,938
- With only one day remaining
before our spouses-to-be
2245
01:30:45,015 --> 01:30:47,107
Say "I do" to a complete
stranger,
2246
01:30:47,258 --> 01:30:51,686
Nerves are heightened, and
pressure continues to build.
2247
01:30:52,781 --> 01:30:55,615
These will be legally-binding
marriages
2248
01:30:55,692 --> 01:30:57,600
And not something
for any of these individuals
2249
01:30:57,619 --> 01:30:59,360
To take lightly.
2250
01:30:59,513 --> 01:31:01,955
- ♪ tick tick tock,
tick tock tock ♪
2251
01:31:02,106 --> 01:31:04,349
♪ time waits for nobody
nobody ♪
2252
01:31:04,367 --> 01:31:05,959
[phone line ringing]
♪ time keeps ticking away ♪
2253
01:31:06,036 --> 01:31:08,186
- Hey
- hey, kim. How's it going?
2254
01:31:08,188 --> 01:31:09,854
- Good. How are you?
2255
01:31:09,873 --> 01:31:11,465
How are you feeling?
You're about to get married.
2256
01:31:11,541 --> 01:31:14,283
- I'm feeling kind of nervous
about it.
2257
01:31:14,303 --> 01:31:17,028
This is probably the biggest
risk I've ever taken.
2258
01:31:17,047 --> 01:31:19,598
And...
- Huge risk.
2259
01:31:20,717 --> 01:31:22,976
- My normal level of
confidence
2260
01:31:23,053 --> 01:31:25,036
Is not where
it should be right now.
2261
01:31:25,038 --> 01:31:26,980
Nothing is in control.
2262
01:31:27,057 --> 01:31:32,152
And for a guy that plans every
little aspect out in his life
2263
01:31:32,229 --> 01:31:35,155
And having a big question mark
over what's gonna happen
2264
01:31:35,232 --> 01:31:37,716
The next few months,
that's very scary.
2265
01:31:37,734 --> 01:31:39,826
I mean, I definitely am
going into this wedding day
2266
01:31:39,903 --> 01:31:41,495
With a lot of insecurities.
2267
01:31:41,646 --> 01:31:44,222
And one of the things
I'm kind of ashamed of is
2268
01:31:44,241 --> 01:31:46,074
I kind of prefer
the needy girls,
2269
01:31:46,226 --> 01:31:48,668
The girls that are clingy,
like, stage five clingers.
2270
01:31:48,820 --> 01:31:51,171
Like, it gives me comfort.
2271
01:31:51,322 --> 01:31:55,342
And when do I tell her
that that's what I want
2272
01:31:55,418 --> 01:31:58,753
And that's what I need?
I don't want to scare her off.
2273
01:31:58,905 --> 01:32:02,349
- I definitely think that
you should take the time
2274
01:32:02,425 --> 01:32:04,743
To really think about
why is it
2275
01:32:04,761 --> 01:32:06,520
That you like
the stage five clingers.
2276
01:32:06,596 --> 01:32:09,356
Like, I think I would think
about why do you feel
2277
01:32:09,432 --> 01:32:10,765
The need to get--
why you want somebody
2278
01:32:10,842 --> 01:32:14,510
To have all that attention
on you all the time?
2279
01:32:14,530 --> 01:32:17,272
- Every relationship
that I start, I always make it
2280
01:32:17,424 --> 01:32:21,426
To where I make sure the girl
is really into me first.
2281
01:32:21,444 --> 01:32:23,703
Coming from a family
where there wasn't a lot of
2282
01:32:23,855 --> 01:32:26,873
'I love yous' to be thrown
around, not a lot of hugs,
2283
01:32:26,950 --> 01:32:29,601
I do feel like
I've overcompensated for that
2284
01:32:29,603 --> 01:32:31,378
In looking for that
in relationships.
2285
01:32:31,454 --> 01:32:33,438
I look for someone
that's hyper-affectionate.
2286
01:32:33,456 --> 01:32:35,273
And I see it in other people,
2287
01:32:35,275 --> 01:32:36,716
And I want to feel
that warmth.
2288
01:32:36,868 --> 01:32:39,052
I want to feel that for the
person that I'm married to.
2289
01:32:43,708 --> 01:32:45,225
- How do you feel
about tomorrow?
2290
01:32:45,376 --> 01:32:48,562
- It's weird. You know, like,
I haven't met this guy.
2291
01:32:48,638 --> 01:32:51,565
I don't know how he looks.
I don't know his background.
2292
01:32:51,641 --> 01:32:52,957
I don't know anything
about this guy
2293
01:32:52,976 --> 01:32:54,401
Other than that he's a
human
2294
01:32:54,477 --> 01:32:55,627
And he probably
won't have a micro penis
2295
01:32:55,629 --> 01:32:57,237
Because I mentioned it
as a dealbreaker.
2296
01:32:57,314 --> 01:32:59,072
[chuckling]
2297
01:32:59,223 --> 01:33:03,802
I've been living with van
for a number of years now,
2298
01:33:03,820 --> 01:33:05,136
And he knows me well.
2299
01:33:05,138 --> 01:33:07,914
So I really need him
to give me some insight
2300
01:33:08,066 --> 01:33:10,975
Because I'm nervous to meet
a man I've never met before.
2301
01:33:10,994 --> 01:33:12,644
I mean,
it's a complete unknown,
2302
01:33:12,662 --> 01:33:14,421
And that is unnerving,
2303
01:33:14,497 --> 01:33:16,089
Because there's so much
I don't have control over.
2304
01:33:16,166 --> 01:33:19,984
- What if he has, like,
a really overwhelming libido?
2305
01:33:20,003 --> 01:33:22,262
- There's gonna be
a compromise.
2306
01:33:22,339 --> 01:33:25,432
- He's just like, "I need it,
like, every day." yeah.
2307
01:33:25,508 --> 01:33:29,269
- Mmm. But he's got a hand.
[laughter]
2308
01:33:29,346 --> 01:33:32,439
In some weird way,
I trust the experts.
2309
01:33:32,515 --> 01:33:36,334
Naturally, I'm optimistic, but
I'm cynical, and I'm skeptical.
2310
01:33:36,353 --> 01:33:37,685
- Yeah.
2311
01:33:37,838 --> 01:33:39,095
- I don't know
how his family is.
2312
01:33:39,114 --> 01:33:42,340
And what if he has
a different background?
2313
01:33:42,342 --> 01:33:45,101
Like, you know, my family,
you know,
2314
01:33:45,120 --> 01:33:48,847
We came from great adversity,
and there is
2315
01:33:48,865 --> 01:33:52,533
Some insecurity there
with my parents and my family.
2316
01:33:52,686 --> 01:33:54,519
- But I mean, do you think
he'll under--
2317
01:33:54,537 --> 01:33:56,129
- No, that's the thing.
2318
01:33:56,206 --> 01:33:58,798
Unless he has, like,
a real immigrant background,
2319
01:33:58,875 --> 01:34:02,861
I cannot imagine that he will
understand how that feels.
2320
01:34:02,863 --> 01:34:04,804
When you talk about
refugee poor,
2321
01:34:04,881 --> 01:34:07,641
That's like you came here
with absolutely nothing.
2322
01:34:07,717 --> 01:34:11,961
Most of the people I've dated
don't know that I grew up
2323
01:34:11,980 --> 01:34:15,223
In a 50-plus year-old
dilapidated trailer.
2324
01:34:15,375 --> 01:34:20,153
And for most of my life,
it was a big source of shame.
2325
01:34:21,898 --> 01:34:25,325
It's gonna take some time
to be open about my upbringing.
2326
01:34:25,476 --> 01:34:28,903
Like, I want to be sure that
there will be somebody there,
2327
01:34:29,055 --> 01:34:31,406
In the long haul,
who's gonna be with me,
2328
01:34:31,558 --> 01:34:33,057
That I can grow old with.
2329
01:34:33,076 --> 01:34:35,001
There is some insecurity there
2330
01:34:35,078 --> 01:34:36,503
Because the last thing
I would want
2331
01:34:36,579 --> 01:34:39,230
Would be like for his family
to look down on my family
2332
01:34:39,249 --> 01:34:42,008
Because of our
very humble beginnings.
2333
01:34:42,085 --> 01:34:44,569
I mean, at this point,
I don't know my husband,
2334
01:34:44,587 --> 01:34:48,181
And that is quite scary.
2335
01:34:49,685 --> 01:34:51,743
I do think I do read up
into things
2336
01:34:51,745 --> 01:34:53,687
Sometimes more than I should,
2337
01:34:53,763 --> 01:34:56,356
But it's something
that's so important to me.
2338
01:34:56,433 --> 01:34:59,918
Like, my family is small,
they're all I have.
2339
01:34:59,936 --> 01:35:03,196
- ♪ one two three four ♪
2340
01:35:03,347 --> 01:35:06,925
♪ I'm countin' every second
till you open my door like ♪
2341
01:35:06,927 --> 01:35:09,369
♪ one two three four... ♪
2342
01:35:09,446 --> 01:35:12,872
- T-minus 24 hours
until I finally get to say,
2343
01:35:13,024 --> 01:35:14,541
"good night, husband."
2344
01:35:14,617 --> 01:35:18,286
- So I'm really hoping
that my husband is tall,
2345
01:35:18,438 --> 01:35:21,864
Dark and handsome, and
everything that I asked for,
2346
01:35:21,883 --> 01:35:23,624
Because if not,
I'm not going to be happy.
2347
01:35:23,777 --> 01:35:25,719
- Man, this is really
happening.
2348
01:35:25,870 --> 01:35:29,723
The day I've thought about,
the day I've dreamt about.
2349
01:35:29,874 --> 01:35:34,786
- I can't freakin' wait to meet
this man and his family,
2350
01:35:34,804 --> 01:35:39,123
And, you know, like, just
ask him a million questions
2351
01:35:39,142 --> 01:35:41,735
And just pick his brain
2352
01:35:41,811 --> 01:35:44,237
And just even see
what it looks like, you know?
2353
01:35:44,314 --> 01:35:47,574
So the curiosity is about
to kill the cat,
2354
01:35:47,650 --> 01:35:49,225
Like, I need to know.
[laughs]
2355
01:35:49,302 --> 01:35:52,394
- To my future wife, you know,
I know you're probably nervous
2356
01:35:52,414 --> 01:35:55,248
And worried about tomorrow,
but just know
2357
01:35:55,325 --> 01:35:57,083
That I feel the same thing,
and I got your back.
2358
01:35:57,160 --> 01:35:58,418
We got this.
2359
01:35:58,495 --> 01:36:02,814
- This is it. Tomorrow is
the start of my new life.
2360
01:36:02,832 --> 01:36:06,075
That means that michaela
is off the market.
2361
01:36:06,094 --> 01:36:08,261
This is insane, but I'm ready
for this challenge.
2362
01:36:08,338 --> 01:36:09,429
I really am.
2363
01:36:09,580 --> 01:36:11,765
- Yes, I have nerves
and sometimes I don't,
2364
01:36:11,841 --> 01:36:14,826
Sometimes it comes and goes
and I'm super calm,
2365
01:36:14,828 --> 01:36:16,436
Calm before the storm,
if you will.
2366
01:36:16,513 --> 01:36:19,421
And then there's other times
where I'm kind of nervous,
2367
01:36:19,441 --> 01:36:20,273
Like, right now.
2368
01:36:20,350 --> 01:36:22,776
- Like, my life is completely
2369
01:36:22,927 --> 01:36:26,780
Going to change
in basically a second.
2370
01:36:26,931 --> 01:36:31,509
And the first thing I'm gonna
have to tell my husband is,
2371
01:36:31,511 --> 01:36:35,013
"hi. My name is rachel."
2372
01:36:35,015 --> 01:36:39,017
I want to smile
and just be happy,
2373
01:36:39,019 --> 01:36:41,961
But I think my emotions are
just gonna get the best of me
2374
01:36:42,038 --> 01:36:43,521
And I'm so scared,
2375
01:36:43,540 --> 01:36:46,299
I'm just going to be crying
the whole time.
2376
01:36:46,376 --> 01:36:51,362
- Good night, and I hope
you hug whatever pillow
2377
01:36:51,364 --> 01:36:53,455
Or body pillow that you've got
2378
01:36:53,475 --> 01:36:55,033
One last time.
2379
01:36:55,035 --> 01:36:57,035
Give him
one last nice tight squeeze
2380
01:36:57,053 --> 01:36:58,812
And then kiss him goodbye
2381
01:36:58,888 --> 01:37:02,223
'cause I'm coming
for his spot tomorrow.
2382
01:37:02,375 --> 01:37:04,651
Good night.
- ♪ so everywhere you go ♪
2383
01:37:04,727 --> 01:37:05,819
- That's all for me.
2384
01:37:10,383 --> 01:37:11,324
- ♪ let's go take a walk ♪
2385
01:37:11,475 --> 01:37:12,900
♪ I don't know why it's like ♪
2386
01:37:13,053 --> 01:37:15,161
♪ I want to feel the vibe ♪
2387
01:37:15,313 --> 01:37:17,388
♪ are you ready or not ♪
2388
01:37:17,407 --> 01:37:20,500
All: Hey!
- It's your wedding day.
2389
01:37:20,651 --> 01:37:25,672
- Oh, snap! It's going down!
2390
01:37:25,823 --> 01:37:27,340
- Today is the wedding day.
2391
01:37:27,491 --> 01:37:29,250
- Let's get up, boy!
2392
01:37:29,402 --> 01:37:32,070
[overlapping shouting]
2393
01:37:32,072 --> 01:37:36,349
- Good morning.
It's my wedding day today.
2394
01:37:36,500 --> 01:37:37,666
Let that sink in a little bit.
2395
01:37:37,744 --> 01:37:40,687
- Oh, my god.
I just want to fast forward.
2396
01:37:40,838 --> 01:37:43,356
Like, I'm just ready
to be married.
2397
01:37:43,507 --> 01:37:45,525
I'm ready to meet my husband.
2398
01:37:45,676 --> 01:37:50,346
- I am probably the most
annoying and hopeless romantic
2399
01:37:50,365 --> 01:37:51,513
That there is.
2400
01:37:51,533 --> 01:37:53,774
And so hopefully,
I can keep it together.
2401
01:37:53,927 --> 01:37:55,927
- It's time to get married.
2402
01:37:55,929 --> 01:37:58,262
- You nervous?
- I am. It hit me, for sure.
2403
01:37:58,281 --> 01:37:59,931
- For our five couples,
2404
01:37:59,949 --> 01:38:02,450
This is the biggest
day of their lives.
2405
01:38:02,602 --> 01:38:04,878
They are risking it all
for love
2406
01:38:04,954 --> 01:38:06,771
As they prepare to say,
"I do"
2407
01:38:06,789 --> 01:38:08,456
To a complete stranger.
2408
01:38:08,608 --> 01:38:11,384
The first couple to get
married at first sight
2409
01:38:11,535 --> 01:38:13,277
Is bao and johnny.
2410
01:38:13,296 --> 01:38:17,891
- I'm here in my bedroom
at the intercontinental.
2411
01:38:17,967 --> 01:38:20,560
I'm waking up on my
wedding day.
2412
01:38:20,711 --> 01:38:25,456
- Today represents the first
day of the rest of my life.
2413
01:38:25,475 --> 01:38:29,143
- I am excited.
I'm nervous. I'm anxious.
2414
01:38:29,295 --> 01:38:31,479
- There are a lot of things
I'm looking forward
2415
01:38:31,631 --> 01:38:33,131
To know about my wife,
2416
01:38:33,149 --> 01:38:34,890
But the top two things
have got to be
2417
01:38:34,910 --> 01:38:36,467
That she loves her family,
2418
01:38:36,486 --> 01:38:38,653
Gets along with them,
and is looking forward
2419
01:38:38,805 --> 01:38:40,805
To building one with me,
2420
01:38:40,823 --> 01:38:43,249
And that she thinks
I look damn good.
2421
01:38:43,401 --> 01:38:44,733
Really, those two things
2422
01:38:44,753 --> 01:38:47,662
Will make this day
a fairy tale come true.
2423
01:38:47,814 --> 01:38:54,427
- I'm gonna see him very soon.
So please, let him be nerdy.
2424
01:38:56,097 --> 01:38:57,672
- Hey.
- Surprise!
2425
01:38:57,824 --> 01:38:59,599
How's the getting ready
process?
2426
01:38:59,676 --> 01:39:01,509
Are you excited
or more scared?
2427
01:39:01,661 --> 01:39:03,085
'cause I'm honestly a little
more scared for you.
2428
01:39:03,104 --> 01:39:04,938
- I'm not scared.
2429
01:39:05,014 --> 01:39:07,106
I'm more excited,
2430
01:39:07,258 --> 01:39:09,850
But it's also kind of
all these mixed emotions.
2431
01:39:11,187 --> 01:39:15,281
Oh, my god, I'm getting married
to a complete stranger!
2432
01:39:15,433 --> 01:39:17,617
I didn't really sleep
much last night.
2433
01:39:17,768 --> 01:39:20,695
I stayed up.
I snacked on all the snacks.
2434
01:39:20,847 --> 01:39:22,513
I feel a little bit bad
about it.
2435
01:39:22,515 --> 01:39:24,182
Estimated, it's probably
over 1,000 calories
2436
01:39:24,200 --> 01:39:25,959
Consumed in one sitting.
2437
01:39:27,778 --> 01:39:29,295
There's all these questions
2438
01:39:29,447 --> 01:39:32,190
And all these, no, there's not
enough answers right now.
2439
01:39:32,208 --> 01:39:34,133
It's just all in my head.
2440
01:39:34,285 --> 01:39:38,304
The things I'm most worried
about are more like, okay,
2441
01:39:38,456 --> 01:39:40,306
Is it gonna be good
for my mom and dad,
2442
01:39:40,458 --> 01:39:42,216
Is it gonna be good
for my family,
2443
01:39:42,368 --> 01:39:43,810
Is it gonna be good for me?
2444
01:39:43,961 --> 01:39:45,720
Like, is my husband
going to be the right match
2445
01:39:45,872 --> 01:39:47,538
And the right person for me?
2446
01:39:47,540 --> 01:39:48,815
Like, those things.
- But you don't have
2447
01:39:48,966 --> 01:39:50,466
The answer to any of that.
That's what I'm saying,
2448
01:39:50,485 --> 01:39:51,800
Like let it go.
2449
01:39:51,820 --> 01:39:54,378
You know, like, take the stick
out of your ass.
2450
01:39:54,397 --> 01:39:57,381
Don't be such a control freak.
2451
01:39:57,400 --> 01:39:59,383
- Yeah.
2452
01:39:59,402 --> 01:40:01,828
- ♪ my destiny is nothing ♪
2453
01:40:01,979 --> 01:40:03,997
♪ live quick,
level off my game ♪
2454
01:40:04,148 --> 01:40:06,390
- Wow, look at the size.
- Oh...
2455
01:40:06,409 --> 01:40:09,410
- This is nice!
- Look at this view.
2456
01:40:09,562 --> 01:40:12,079
Where you gonna spend
your last hours as a bachelor.
2457
01:40:12,232 --> 01:40:14,674
- Today is my wedding day!
[laughs]
2458
01:40:14,825 --> 01:40:19,495
It's been a long time coming,
and I hope today is magical.
2459
01:40:19,514 --> 01:40:22,015
It's like a fairy tale,
a dream come true.
2460
01:40:22,166 --> 01:40:23,683
I really appreciate
y'all being here
2461
01:40:23,834 --> 01:40:24,851
To support me on my big day.
2462
01:40:25,002 --> 01:40:27,186
I'm gonna be leaning on
y'all a lot today
2463
01:40:27,338 --> 01:40:29,522
'cause I'm extremely nervous.
2464
01:40:29,673 --> 01:40:31,524
I've never done anything
even remotely close to this.
2465
01:40:31,675 --> 01:40:36,863
For somebody that's, like,
risk-averse like I am
2466
01:40:37,014 --> 01:40:40,274
And, like, a control freak
like I am, for me to do this,
2467
01:40:40,426 --> 01:40:44,370
I just got to the point
in my life where love is first.
2468
01:40:44,522 --> 01:40:45,854
I need to find that,
2469
01:40:45,874 --> 01:40:47,932
I need to see
if it's in the cards for me.
2470
01:40:47,950 --> 01:40:51,544
And I'm ready now to make that
commitment and make that leap.
2471
01:40:51,695 --> 01:40:53,212
I hope I'm not the jittery one
2472
01:40:53,364 --> 01:40:56,440
When I'm over there
and standing my tux.
2473
01:40:56,459 --> 01:41:00,386
♪ ♪
2474
01:41:21,392 --> 01:41:23,651
- I am absolutely worried
that my personality
2475
01:41:23,803 --> 01:41:25,636
May clash with
my future spouse.
2476
01:41:25,655 --> 01:41:27,972
I might be shy at first,
2477
01:41:27,990 --> 01:41:29,398
But I know I have
a strong personality.
2478
01:41:29,417 --> 01:41:32,310
I'm very opinionated,
and I'm a straight shooter.
2479
01:41:32,312 --> 01:41:35,646
So it doesn't always
rub well with men.
2480
01:41:35,665 --> 01:41:39,092
This is definitely the biggest
risk that I've taken in my life.
2481
01:41:51,088 --> 01:41:58,778
♪ ♪
2482
01:41:58,929 --> 01:42:01,930
- Oh, looking good.
2483
01:42:01,950 --> 01:42:04,450
[cheering]
- very nice.
2484
01:42:04,602 --> 01:42:07,194
- Looking good, man.
2485
01:42:07,347 --> 01:42:10,014
- I've kind of held out this
long from finding somebody
2486
01:42:10,032 --> 01:42:11,958
That I want to get married to
2487
01:42:12,034 --> 01:42:14,127
Because I just don't wanna get
married to the wrong person.
2488
01:42:14,278 --> 01:42:17,630
For the first time in my life,
things are beyond my control.
2489
01:42:17,781 --> 01:42:20,800
It's frightening,
and it all culminates
2490
01:42:20,951 --> 01:42:23,952
To this one moment
when we first meet.
2491
01:42:23,972 --> 01:42:26,806
Is this gonna take off,
or is it gonna fail to launch?
2492
01:42:26,883 --> 01:42:28,307
Everything's happening
very fast.
2493
01:42:28,459 --> 01:42:29,976
- Have the butterflies
settled yet?
2494
01:42:30,127 --> 01:42:31,869
- Not yet.
2495
01:42:31,888 --> 01:42:33,053
♪ ♪
2496
01:42:33,206 --> 01:42:36,465
- ♪ I'm singing about you ♪
2497
01:42:36,484 --> 01:42:40,319
♪ ooh, there ain't nobody
but the two of us ♪
2498
01:42:40,471 --> 01:42:43,047
- Aw, wow!
2499
01:42:43,065 --> 01:42:45,491
- Beautiful.
- Yeah.
2500
01:42:45,643 --> 01:42:46,993
- Thank you. Yeah.
2501
01:42:47,144 --> 01:42:49,144
My ideal life with my spouse
2502
01:42:49,164 --> 01:42:52,907
Would be one
where we complete each other.
2503
01:42:53,059 --> 01:42:55,501
I have high expectations
for myself and my partner.
2504
01:42:55,653 --> 01:42:59,988
But if I end up spending
my 50th wedding anniversary
2505
01:43:00,008 --> 01:43:03,250
With the husband I meet today,
that would be
2506
01:43:03,403 --> 01:43:08,422
The most radical love story
you could possibly write.
2507
01:43:08,574 --> 01:43:10,758
- It's been a long journey
for you,
2508
01:43:10,910 --> 01:43:13,427
And we're all here for you.
2509
01:43:13,579 --> 01:43:16,856
- Congratulations, baoy.
- Thank you. Cheers.
2510
01:43:17,007 --> 01:43:19,583
- Cheers.
- Cheers. Cheers.
2511
01:43:19,602 --> 01:43:21,252
♪ ♪
2512
01:43:21,270 --> 01:43:26,365
- Delivery.
- Oh, my god...
2513
01:43:28,444 --> 01:43:30,761
- Hubby!
- Hubby! Oh, man.
2514
01:43:30,780 --> 01:43:33,097
- Look at that handwriting.
- Whoa!
2515
01:43:33,115 --> 01:43:34,765
- Oh! Oh, what is this?
2516
01:43:34,767 --> 01:43:36,600
- Ooh, it's two gifts.
- I have two gifts.
2517
01:43:36,619 --> 01:43:38,436
- All right, let's see.
2518
01:43:38,454 --> 01:43:40,104
♪ ♪
2519
01:43:40,122 --> 01:43:42,773
- "with sympathy."
[laughter]
2520
01:43:42,792 --> 01:43:44,959
She has a sense of humor.
2521
01:43:45,111 --> 01:43:46,719
This is totally something
I would do.
2522
01:43:46,870 --> 01:43:49,555
- "to my wife,
your husband-to-be.
2523
01:43:49,707 --> 01:43:51,724
- All right. How do you feel
about his handwriting?
2524
01:43:51,875 --> 01:43:54,785
- Okay. So far
it's legible and in caps.
2525
01:43:54,787 --> 01:43:57,063
I would do that.
Oh, my god, he wrote a lot.
2526
01:43:57,214 --> 01:44:00,624
- Oh, no.
- Oh, no, you saw what I wrote!
2527
01:44:00,643 --> 01:44:02,793
- "dear husband,
I inhaled a cheeseburger
2528
01:44:02,812 --> 01:44:05,312
"while writing this note.
2529
01:44:05,465 --> 01:44:08,241
"I can't wait
to meet you very soon.
2530
01:44:08,392 --> 01:44:11,744
See you at the altar,
your wife."
2531
01:44:11,895 --> 01:44:13,637
And it says,
"may you find comfort
2532
01:44:13,656 --> 01:44:15,081
And support
from those around you..."
2533
01:44:15,232 --> 01:44:16,807
[laughter]
2534
01:44:16,826 --> 01:44:19,085
...During this difficult time."
2535
01:44:19,236 --> 01:44:21,087
She is a quirky individual
2536
01:44:21,238 --> 01:44:23,497
Because if she's able
to laugh at herself,
2537
01:44:23,649 --> 01:44:25,983
She's able to laugh
at the situation.
2538
01:44:26,002 --> 01:44:28,410
Groom's day-of survival kit.
Alcohol, mints,
2539
01:44:28,429 --> 01:44:29,503
And a ring pop.
2540
01:44:29,655 --> 01:44:30,930
- She has a sense of humor.
2541
01:44:31,081 --> 01:44:32,823
- She does. I'm a fan.
2542
01:44:32,825 --> 01:44:34,825
I love a girl that's able
to do that,
2543
01:44:34,844 --> 01:44:38,512
Kind of poke fun at herself,
make light of the situation,
2544
01:44:38,664 --> 01:44:39,680
'cause that's what I do.
2545
01:44:39,832 --> 01:44:42,775
What in the world are these?
2546
01:44:42,926 --> 01:44:44,184
- I think she's wild.
2547
01:44:44,337 --> 01:44:48,281
- All right, I'm gonna do it.
I'm gonna wear them.
2548
01:44:48,432 --> 01:44:51,342
- "I hope you have
your passport ready.
2549
01:44:51,360 --> 01:44:53,452
"we're going to see
the world together.
2550
01:44:53,604 --> 01:44:59,125
"and I wrapped the gifts
using a home and away jersey
2551
01:44:59,276 --> 01:45:01,777
'cause I hope
you're into sports."
2552
01:45:01,796 --> 01:45:02,703
What?
2553
01:45:02,855 --> 01:45:04,797
- Oh, no.
- Oh, no.
2554
01:45:04,948 --> 01:45:08,467
Oh, no, I'm not into sports
and don't want to be matched
2555
01:45:08,544 --> 01:45:10,619
With anybody that's
into sports.
2556
01:45:10,638 --> 01:45:13,306
- Go on.
- "I can't wait to see you.
2557
01:45:13,382 --> 01:45:15,975
"I've been dreaming of this
moment for my whole life,
2558
01:45:16,126 --> 01:45:18,144
And I hope you have too,
hubby."
2559
01:45:18,295 --> 01:45:20,980
Okay, so we'll see.
2560
01:45:21,131 --> 01:45:23,707
- Let's look at the present.
- I hope he's not a bro.
2561
01:45:23,726 --> 01:45:26,544
I don't have the patience
for this right now.
2562
01:45:26,562 --> 01:45:29,563
No. Oh, no,
it's definitely a jersey.
2563
01:45:29,715 --> 01:45:34,660
- Oh, no.
- Oh, god.
2564
01:45:34,737 --> 01:45:37,496
God, I hope he's not the kind
of guy that would, like,
2565
01:45:37,648 --> 01:45:40,166
Buy me power tools
for our anniversary gift
2566
01:45:40,317 --> 01:45:41,834
Or some [bleep].
2567
01:45:41,985 --> 01:45:44,337
Oh, my god,
he doesn't know how to wrap.
2568
01:45:44,488 --> 01:45:46,063
- No, you don't need to
peel it all off.
2569
01:45:46,065 --> 01:45:49,675
- Holy moly.
The lack of detail is painful.
2570
01:45:49,827 --> 01:45:53,346
- "I married a stranger."
- oh, god.
2571
01:45:53,497 --> 01:45:55,072
We're gonna
have to fix that
2572
01:45:55,091 --> 01:45:57,666
Because
we would not hang it up.
2573
01:45:57,685 --> 01:46:00,744
- What's in the other one?
- Okay, let's see.
2574
01:46:00,763 --> 01:46:03,080
What is this?
- Oh, it's another jersey.
2575
01:46:03,099 --> 01:46:07,175
- Oh, my god,
he's a big sports fan.
2576
01:46:07,195 --> 01:46:11,530
Guys!
I wanted a nerd, not a bro.
2577
01:46:14,351 --> 01:46:15,275
[johnny exhales]
2578
01:46:15,428 --> 01:46:16,927
- It's all about you.
- All right.
2579
01:46:16,946 --> 01:46:18,371
- It's your day, man.
- My day. It's my day.
2580
01:46:18,522 --> 01:46:19,763
- You got this?
- You're doing all right.
2581
01:46:19,782 --> 01:46:21,207
- Get the jitters out,
just kinda...
2582
01:46:21,358 --> 01:46:24,935
[rhythmic breathing]
2583
01:46:24,937 --> 01:46:26,712
Wedding day.
Let's go. Let's go. Let's go.
2584
01:46:26,864 --> 01:46:28,288
- Let's go.
2585
01:46:28,441 --> 01:46:29,715
You ready?
You got this.
2586
01:46:29,867 --> 01:46:32,051
- I'm ready. Let's go.
Yeah, let's go.
2587
01:46:32,128 --> 01:46:35,446
[dramatic music]
2588
01:46:35,464 --> 01:46:41,727
♪ ♪
2589
01:46:46,067 --> 01:46:48,401
[sighs]
whoo!
2590
01:46:48,552 --> 01:46:51,295
There's something coursing
through my veins right now.
2591
01:46:51,313 --> 01:46:54,407
It's excitement, nervousness,
2592
01:46:54,558 --> 01:46:55,908
Nervous, excitement.
2593
01:46:56,059 --> 01:46:59,470
And I'm right now
just really full of hope.
2594
01:46:59,488 --> 01:47:02,581
I hope she's everything
that I dreamed of,
2595
01:47:02,733 --> 01:47:04,491
And I hope
she's as nervous as I am,
2596
01:47:04,644 --> 01:47:06,310
But I'm so excited
to see her
2597
01:47:06,328 --> 01:47:08,479
And meet her
for the first time.
2598
01:47:08,497 --> 01:47:10,923
I wonder if I'm ready
to say my vows.
2599
01:47:11,074 --> 01:47:12,316
Oh!
2600
01:47:12,334 --> 01:47:16,595
♪ ♪
2601
01:47:16,747 --> 01:47:18,338
- You okay?
2602
01:47:18,491 --> 01:47:21,767
- I mean, I work with some of
the most brilliant minds
2603
01:47:21,919 --> 01:47:24,103
In cancer research.
2604
01:47:24,254 --> 01:47:27,773
I don't know a single one
that's a huge sports fan
2605
01:47:27,925 --> 01:47:34,763
Enough to give their unknown
bride sports gifts.
2606
01:47:34,782 --> 01:47:36,282
That says a lot.
2607
01:47:36,358 --> 01:47:38,117
I'm not feeling good
about this.
2608
01:47:38,268 --> 01:47:40,953
My biggest fear right now
2609
01:47:41,104 --> 01:47:43,847
Is that the man standing
at the altar is not the one.
2610
01:47:43,866 --> 01:47:46,125
I've dated people
that are sports fans
2611
01:47:46,276 --> 01:47:48,127
And it did not work out.
2612
01:47:48,278 --> 01:47:51,130
- Don't be worried. Don't
think about that too much.
2613
01:47:51,281 --> 01:47:54,358
It's okay.
- Yeah.
2614
01:47:54,376 --> 01:47:57,136
♪ ♪
2615
01:47:57,287 --> 01:47:58,862
- This is it.
I'm getting married,
2616
01:47:58,881 --> 01:48:01,640
And to a stranger,
of all things.
2617
01:48:01,792 --> 01:48:04,810
The worst thing
that can happen today
2618
01:48:04,962 --> 01:48:06,537
Is I'm standing there
at the altar
2619
01:48:06,555 --> 01:48:08,463
And she never shows up.
2620
01:48:08,483 --> 01:48:11,542
[dramatic music]
2621
01:48:11,560 --> 01:48:13,486
♪ ♪
2622
01:48:21,812 --> 01:48:24,312
- I mean, if I'm having
all these thoughts
2623
01:48:24,332 --> 01:48:27,148
Race through my head,
what if she's feeling that
2624
01:48:27,168 --> 01:48:29,910
On a higher level
and she decides, like,
2625
01:48:30,062 --> 01:48:32,730
"today, I can't go
through with this"?
2626
01:48:32,748 --> 01:48:39,678
♪ ♪
2627
01:48:41,849 --> 01:48:43,907
- Where is she?
2628
01:48:43,926 --> 01:48:46,352
♪ ♪
2629
01:48:50,750 --> 01:48:51,690
[dramatic music]
2630
01:48:51,767 --> 01:48:55,194
♪ ♪
2631
01:48:55,345 --> 01:48:57,254
- Where? Where is she?
2632
01:48:57,273 --> 01:48:59,757
♪ ♪
2633
01:48:59,775 --> 01:49:02,760
Is she coming?
[laughs]
2634
01:49:02,778 --> 01:49:04,036
♪ ♪
2635
01:49:04,187 --> 01:49:07,447
- This is my wedding.
It is my day, it is my life.
2636
01:49:07,600 --> 01:49:11,710
I would have much
rather his gift be books.
2637
01:49:13,196 --> 01:49:15,773
This is a big red flag for me.
2638
01:49:15,791 --> 01:49:18,717
♪ ♪
2639
01:49:18,869 --> 01:49:22,054
I'll just do this,
2640
01:49:22,205 --> 01:49:26,207
But I cannot hide
my utter disappointment.
2641
01:49:26,227 --> 01:49:28,727
♪ ♪
2642
01:49:30,213 --> 01:49:32,289
I'm literally about
to go walk down the aisle
2643
01:49:32,308 --> 01:49:34,066
To this big sports fan,
2644
01:49:34,143 --> 01:49:37,903
And I've never had success
with big sports fans.
2645
01:49:39,240 --> 01:49:42,466
So that is quite scary.
2646
01:49:42,484 --> 01:49:43,801
♪ ♪
2647
01:49:43,819 --> 01:49:46,078
But he was picked
for some reason.
2648
01:49:47,990 --> 01:49:52,142
So I have to take
a huge risk on love,
2649
01:49:52,144 --> 01:49:57,256
And I hope that the risk
pays out dividends.
2650
01:49:57,407 --> 01:50:00,259
All right, we're doing this.
2651
01:50:00,410 --> 01:50:02,319
- My adrenaline's pumping,
2652
01:50:02,338 --> 01:50:04,430
And my heart
is thumping out of my chest.
2653
01:50:04,581 --> 01:50:07,600
I'm gonna meet my wife
for the first time,
2654
01:50:07,751 --> 01:50:09,827
And I have no control
over who she is.
2655
01:50:09,845 --> 01:50:11,920
♪ ♪
2656
01:50:11,939 --> 01:50:14,106
What am I doing?
2657
01:50:17,336 --> 01:50:19,445
- This is crazy.
2658
01:50:19,596 --> 01:50:23,340
[intense music escalates]
2659
01:50:23,359 --> 01:50:25,618
♪ ♪
2660
01:50:28,271 --> 01:50:32,015
[uplifting music]
2661
01:50:32,034 --> 01:50:35,461
♪ ♪
2662
01:50:35,612 --> 01:50:37,129
- I know him.
2663
01:50:38,540 --> 01:50:40,799
I think he knows me.
[music warps, slows]
2664
01:50:40,951 --> 01:50:44,136
Oh, my god, it's johnny!
2665
01:50:44,287 --> 01:50:46,472
Oh, [bleep]!
2666
01:50:46,623 --> 01:50:49,700
[laughter]
2667
01:50:49,718 --> 01:50:52,811
Oh, my god!
[both laughing]
2668
01:50:54,464 --> 01:50:56,390
You're all red, johnny.
2669
01:50:56,542 --> 01:50:58,967
- I am.
[laughter]
2670
01:50:58,986 --> 01:51:00,486
Oh, my goodness.
2671
01:51:01,805 --> 01:51:02,821
Oh, my god.
2672
01:51:02,973 --> 01:51:05,157
Out of the entire world
of possibilities
2673
01:51:05,308 --> 01:51:07,326
That I thought
might happen today,
2674
01:51:07,477 --> 01:51:11,330
This is like pluto.
[laughs]
2675
01:51:11,481 --> 01:51:12,831
Oh, my god.
2676
01:51:12,983 --> 01:51:14,833
- Oh, my god.
2677
01:51:14,910 --> 01:51:15,893
I never in a million years
2678
01:51:15,911 --> 01:51:17,670
Would have
thought it would be you.
2679
01:51:17,746 --> 01:51:19,797
- No?
- No.
2680
01:51:21,825 --> 01:51:23,842
- Everyone, please be seated.
2681
01:51:23,994 --> 01:51:26,236
[bao laughs]
2682
01:51:26,255 --> 01:51:28,847
- Oh, my god.
- Here we go.
2683
01:51:30,092 --> 01:51:34,019
- Oh, my god. Okay.
All right.
2684
01:51:34,171 --> 01:51:36,914
[laughing] hi.
[laughter]
2685
01:51:36,932 --> 01:51:39,024
- Haven't seen you
in a really long time.
2686
01:51:39,176 --> 01:51:42,252
- I know.
Aaah!
2687
01:51:42,271 --> 01:51:43,587
Okay.
- You look beautiful,
2688
01:51:43,605 --> 01:51:45,272
By the way.
- You look very handsome.
2689
01:51:45,424 --> 01:51:47,182
- Thank you.
2690
01:51:47,201 --> 01:51:52,371
- Bao, meet for the very
first time here, johnny.
2691
01:51:52,522 --> 01:51:54,355
[laughter]
- hello again.
2692
01:51:54,375 --> 01:51:56,375
- Hi.
- Hi.
2693
01:51:56,452 --> 01:51:59,878
[exhales heavily]
2694
01:52:00,030 --> 01:52:04,216
- You're about to enter into
a legally-binding marriage
2695
01:52:04,367 --> 01:52:06,793
With a person
standing across from you,
2696
01:52:06,946 --> 01:52:09,722
Whom you've only just met,
again, today.
2697
01:52:09,873 --> 01:52:11,890
[laughter]
2698
01:52:12,042 --> 01:52:13,892
Johnny?
- Yes.
2699
01:52:14,044 --> 01:52:16,787
- Bao's friends and family
would like you to know
2700
01:52:16,789 --> 01:52:21,124
That she is a very special
and unique woman.
2701
01:52:21,143 --> 01:52:24,236
Even though she will come off
a little strong,
2702
01:52:24,387 --> 01:52:27,814
Can be critical at times,
and is very meticulous,
2703
01:52:27,967 --> 01:52:29,742
She means well.
2704
01:52:29,893 --> 01:52:31,910
Just a little tip.
2705
01:52:32,062 --> 01:52:35,080
If she's ever mad
or not in a good mood,
2706
01:52:35,232 --> 01:52:36,749
A little backstreet boys
2707
01:52:36,900 --> 01:52:39,418
Can go a long way.
- Hey.
2708
01:52:39,569 --> 01:52:44,089
- Bonus points if you can sing
and dance to it too.
2709
01:52:44,241 --> 01:52:45,999
- Oh, dancing, I don't know.
2710
01:52:46,151 --> 01:52:49,152
- And lastly, it's very
important for you to know
2711
01:52:49,171 --> 01:52:52,264
How much bao values her family.
2712
01:52:52,415 --> 01:52:54,324
We wish you the best.
2713
01:52:54,343 --> 01:52:58,270
And with some compassion
and patience, we hope
2714
01:52:58,421 --> 01:53:02,274
You will be part of her family
for years to come.
2715
01:53:02,425 --> 01:53:05,093
- Bao?
- Uh-huh.
2716
01:53:05,112 --> 01:53:08,947
- Johnny's friends and family
would like you to know
2717
01:53:09,099 --> 01:53:14,194
That he is like an ocean full
of life, depth, and insight.
2718
01:53:14,346 --> 01:53:18,290
So we challenge you
to be open-minded and unafraid
2719
01:53:18,441 --> 01:53:22,294
To share your views with him
even if they differ from his.
2720
01:53:22,445 --> 01:53:26,799
He comes from a large extended
family that is very close.
2721
01:53:26,950 --> 01:53:30,360
Finally, don't be afraid
to lean on johnny
2722
01:53:30,362 --> 01:53:32,805
For the emotional support
that you may need,
2723
01:53:32,881 --> 01:53:37,701
Because ultimately,
you will be the ray of sunshine
2724
01:53:37,719 --> 01:53:39,703
That brightens his day.
2725
01:53:39,721 --> 01:53:44,799
- Oh, that's so sweet.
- Thanks guys.
2726
01:53:44,819 --> 01:53:47,986
- Johnny and bao, you have each
written your own vows.
2727
01:53:48,138 --> 01:53:49,988
- Oh, boy.
- Johnny.
2728
01:53:50,140 --> 01:53:51,156
- You can go first.
2729
01:53:51,233 --> 01:53:53,992
- Please recite your vows
to bao.
2730
01:53:54,144 --> 01:53:56,903
- I've gotta go through all
the revisions over here.
2731
01:53:57,056 --> 01:54:00,073
[bao laughs]
2732
01:54:00,225 --> 01:54:03,560
To my wife, bao,
I met you only minutes
2733
01:54:03,579 --> 01:54:05,838
Plus many many years ago.
2734
01:54:05,989 --> 01:54:08,006
[laughter]
but by simply being here,
2735
01:54:08,158 --> 01:54:09,675
Standing across
from each other today
2736
01:54:09,826 --> 01:54:11,418
In front of our family
and friends,
2737
01:54:11,570 --> 01:54:13,345
I get the feeling we already
have a few things in common.
2738
01:54:13,496 --> 01:54:15,514
Most importantly,
we're both at a stage in life
2739
01:54:15,591 --> 01:54:17,574
That we're willing
to risk it all
2740
01:54:17,593 --> 01:54:19,518
To find our spouse,
or better half,
2741
01:54:19,669 --> 01:54:21,353
Our first and forever date.
2742
01:54:21,504 --> 01:54:23,188
I will work every day
2743
01:54:23,340 --> 01:54:24,764
To prove to you the risk
was well worth the reward.
2744
01:54:24,917 --> 01:54:26,433
I promise to keep
our conversations
2745
01:54:26,585 --> 01:54:29,361
Full of witty observations,
bad puns, and inside jokes.
2746
01:54:29,512 --> 01:54:31,088
- Yes!
- I vow to patiently
2747
01:54:31,106 --> 01:54:33,198
Listen to you and lift you up
when you're down
2748
01:54:33,350 --> 01:54:36,535
And be mr. Glass-half-full
on days that feel half empty.
2749
01:54:36,686 --> 01:54:39,596
I hereby give you a coupon for
an endless supply of affection.
2750
01:54:39,615 --> 01:54:42,541
I'll snuggle you
when you're cold
2751
01:54:42,692 --> 01:54:44,543
And then roll back to my side
if it gets too hot.
2752
01:54:44,694 --> 01:54:46,603
I promise that throughout
our journey together,
2753
01:54:46,605 --> 01:54:49,106
I'm going to respect you,
honor our marriage
2754
01:54:49,124 --> 01:54:51,717
And give my whole heart
to being the husband
2755
01:54:51,868 --> 01:54:53,110
You want and deserve.
2756
01:54:53,128 --> 01:54:56,221
I'm all yours.
- Oh, so sweet.
2757
01:54:56,373 --> 01:54:59,892
- Bao, please recite
your vows to johnny.
2758
01:55:01,544 --> 01:55:04,621
- I wrote a poem.
- Oh, I like poems.
2759
01:55:04,640 --> 01:55:07,566
- It's titled, we will.
2760
01:55:07,717 --> 01:55:12,070
Dear johnny, we finally meet.
2761
01:55:12,222 --> 01:55:14,722
You're in for a treat.
2762
01:55:14,742 --> 01:55:19,319
The path that led us here,
I must confess,
2763
01:55:19,471 --> 01:55:24,082
Can hardly be described
as perfect or fun.
2764
01:55:24,159 --> 01:55:26,476
We braved
so many grueling tests,
2765
01:55:26,495 --> 01:55:30,313
And today we know
it's worth it and done.
2766
01:55:30,332 --> 01:55:34,651
We will celebrate the fancy
and the cheesy.
2767
01:55:34,653 --> 01:55:38,155
Laughing and dancing
in a world of our own,
2768
01:55:38,157 --> 01:55:41,324
And care for one another
in times less easy,
2769
01:55:41,343 --> 01:55:45,845
Returning always to our space
we call home.
2770
01:55:45,998 --> 01:55:50,943
We will travel
while we're nimble and spry,
2771
01:55:51,094 --> 01:55:55,113
Or sit hand-in-hand
and watch paint dry,
2772
01:55:55,265 --> 01:56:00,118
Just content in knowing
that our love is growing
2773
01:56:00,195 --> 01:56:05,791
With the rise and the fall,
together, through it all.
2774
01:56:05,942 --> 01:56:10,295
We have each other today,
and hopefully, always,
2775
01:56:10,447 --> 01:56:16,969
I can say I found my one
and only, no longer lonely.
2776
01:56:17,120 --> 01:56:20,697
- Thank you.
2777
01:56:20,716 --> 01:56:25,143
- Johnny, take bao's hand
and repeat after me.
2778
01:56:25,295 --> 01:56:28,555
- Oh, my god!
- Oh, your hand's cold.
2779
01:56:28,707 --> 01:56:31,057
- With this ring,
I wed you, bao.
2780
01:56:31,210 --> 01:56:33,151
- With this ring, I wed you,
bao.
2781
01:56:33,303 --> 01:56:36,488
- For today, for tomorrow,
and for all the years to come.
2782
01:56:36,639 --> 01:56:40,325
- For today, for tomorrow, and
for all the days to come.
2783
01:56:40,477 --> 01:56:41,885
- It fits.
2784
01:56:41,903 --> 01:56:44,830
- Bao, take johnny's hand
and repeat after me.
2785
01:56:44,981 --> 01:56:48,149
- It's this hand, right? Okay.
- That's the one.
2786
01:56:48,168 --> 01:56:52,170
- With this ring,
I wed you, johnny.
2787
01:56:52,322 --> 01:56:54,506
- With this ring,
I wed you, johnny,
2788
01:56:54,657 --> 01:56:58,010
For today and tomorrow
and all the years to come.
2789
01:56:58,161 --> 01:56:59,736
You're stuck with me.
2790
01:56:59,738 --> 01:57:02,922
- And now with the authority
vested in me,
2791
01:57:03,075 --> 01:57:07,352
I pronounce you
husband and wife.
2792
01:57:07,504 --> 01:57:11,097
Johnny,
you may kiss your bride.
2793
01:57:11,250 --> 01:57:13,859
[laughter]
- may I?
2794
01:57:14,010 --> 01:57:17,696
[cheers and applause]
2795
01:57:17,847 --> 01:57:22,592
- ♪ all the pressure and all
the pain gone in a heartbeat ♪
2796
01:57:22,611 --> 01:57:29,708
♪ ♪
2797
01:57:34,122 --> 01:57:36,548
- It's gonna work.
I think it's gonna work. Yeah.
2798
01:57:36,699 --> 01:57:40,034
- Ladies and gentlemen,
it is my pleasure to introduce,
2799
01:57:40,054 --> 01:57:42,946
For the first time,
in the state of texas,
2800
01:57:42,948 --> 01:57:49,227
As husband and wife,
bao huong and johnny.
2801
01:57:49,379 --> 01:57:53,881
[cheers and applause]
2802
01:57:53,901 --> 01:57:57,961
♪ ♪
2803
01:57:57,979 --> 01:58:00,739
- I have so many questions.
- I know, me too!
2804
01:58:00,890 --> 01:58:06,803
[cheers and applause continue]
2805
01:58:06,822 --> 01:58:13,877
♪ ♪
2806
01:58:17,907 --> 01:58:19,482
- Done. Locked down.
2807
01:58:19,501 --> 01:58:22,152
♪ ♪
2808
01:58:22,170 --> 01:58:24,763
This is wild.
[laughs]
2809
01:58:29,177 --> 01:58:30,268
[cheers and applause]
2810
01:58:30,345 --> 01:58:31,937
- Bao and johnny
are the first couple
2811
01:58:32,013 --> 01:58:34,272
To get married at first sight.
2812
01:58:35,851 --> 01:58:37,925
Now they will take
their wedding photos
2813
01:58:37,945 --> 01:58:39,502
With family and friends.
2814
01:58:39,521 --> 01:58:43,949
Even though bao and johnny's
paths crossed many years ago,
2815
01:58:44,025 --> 01:58:46,284
Taking photos in front
of their loved ones
2816
01:58:46,361 --> 01:58:48,769
May still feel
a little awkward.
2817
01:58:48,789 --> 01:58:51,348
But our hope is that
these photos will be something
2818
01:58:51,366 --> 01:58:53,625
They can cherish
for a lifetime.
2819
01:58:53,702 --> 01:58:55,293
Oh, you're good.
2820
01:58:55,370 --> 01:58:56,628
♪ ♪
2821
01:58:56,779 --> 01:59:00,373
- All right, everybody
looking this way.
2822
01:59:01,710 --> 01:59:05,786
- ♪ I'll take you by my side
every day and every night ♪
2823
01:59:05,806 --> 01:59:10,976
- Bao is my wife?
Wow, this...This is crazy.
2824
01:59:11,052 --> 01:59:13,219
I mean, she's gorgeous,
beautiful, hot, sexy,
2825
01:59:13,372 --> 01:59:15,147
Everything I've been
looking for, like,
2826
01:59:15,223 --> 01:59:17,315
And, you know,
I was so nervous.
2827
01:59:17,392 --> 01:59:20,152
But when I saw bao,
all those jitters went away
2828
01:59:20,228 --> 01:59:23,989
Because I knew who she was
when we were in college.
2829
01:59:24,065 --> 01:59:26,324
Bao and I were both presidents
of student organizations
2830
01:59:26,401 --> 01:59:27,808
At the same time.
2831
01:59:27,828 --> 01:59:30,387
She was the president of
vietnamese students association
2832
01:59:30,389 --> 01:59:33,056
At u of h,
and I was the president
2833
01:59:33,074 --> 01:59:35,333
Of vietnamese students
association at ut.
2834
01:59:35,410 --> 01:59:37,169
So we did cross-events.
I met her.
2835
01:59:37,245 --> 01:59:38,395
It was kinda like
2836
01:59:38,397 --> 01:59:39,820
A president-meets-president
thing.
2837
01:59:39,898 --> 01:59:42,732
And I thought she was
very bubbly and very energetic,
2838
01:59:42,751 --> 01:59:45,844
But at the time, I wasn't even
looking for anything serious.
2839
01:59:45,921 --> 01:59:47,161
What should I do
with my hands?
2840
01:59:47,181 --> 01:59:49,181
- I don't know what to do
with my hands either.
2841
01:59:49,257 --> 01:59:50,740
- You hold her hand.
- Oh, we're holding hands?
2842
01:59:50,742 --> 01:59:52,409
[overlapping chatter]
2843
01:59:52,427 --> 01:59:54,411
Oh, we gonna
hold it like that?
2844
01:59:54,429 --> 01:59:56,855
- Beautiful.
- Whoo!
2845
01:59:57,006 --> 01:59:59,006
- Hold our hands together.
- Like that?
2846
01:59:59,026 --> 02:00:02,861
- ♪ let's get deep
in this tonight ♪
2847
02:00:02,938 --> 02:00:05,255
- I'm gonna get bride
and groom shots at this time.
2848
02:00:05,257 --> 02:00:07,032
- Oh, these are
the intimate ones.
2849
02:00:08,443 --> 02:00:09,868
[bao giggling]
2850
02:00:13,098 --> 02:00:15,265
- Two and three.
2851
02:00:15,283 --> 02:00:20,119
♪ ♪
2852
02:00:20,272 --> 02:00:22,714
Come in a little bit.
There you go. There you go.
2853
02:00:22,865 --> 02:00:25,717
- Oh, what do I do
with this hand?
2854
02:00:25,794 --> 02:00:29,221
- Grab my ass.
[laughter]
2855
02:00:29,297 --> 02:00:33,391
[light music]
2856
02:00:33,543 --> 02:00:35,393
- Okay, all right.
- All right.
2857
02:00:35,470 --> 02:00:38,563
If he's okay with grabbing
your waist, then it's fine.
2858
02:00:38,715 --> 02:00:41,291
- Like, here or here?
- I don't know.
2859
02:00:41,309 --> 02:00:43,235
Yeah, wherever
you feel comfortable.
2860
02:00:43,311 --> 02:00:45,237
- Okay.
2861
02:00:45,388 --> 02:00:49,724
- It's overwhelming to be
taking pictures with johnny
2862
02:00:49,743 --> 02:00:51,576
As my husband.
2863
02:00:51,653 --> 02:00:54,304
In college,
he had a reputation of being
2864
02:00:54,322 --> 02:00:57,140
A little bit of a playboy.
2865
02:00:57,142 --> 02:01:00,067
And you know, like,
I can see why.
2866
02:01:00,087 --> 02:01:01,586
He is suave.
2867
02:01:01,663 --> 02:01:04,981
Like, he's handsome, he's
well-dressed and put together
2868
02:01:04,983 --> 02:01:07,817
And he has a way with words,
and a lot of ladies like that.
2869
02:01:07,836 --> 02:01:09,335
- ♪ let's go play ♪
2870
02:01:09,488 --> 02:01:10,929
- What a day.
2871
02:01:11,006 --> 02:01:14,599
- Oh, man, we have so much
to talk about. It's crazy.
2872
02:01:15,844 --> 02:01:18,270
- I have no idea what
she's thinking right now,
2873
02:01:18,346 --> 02:01:20,497
But I'm really excited
to see if there is,
2874
02:01:20,515 --> 02:01:22,107
Like, a romantic
connection there.
2875
02:01:22,183 --> 02:01:26,278
One, two, three.
- Yay, good job.
2876
02:01:28,023 --> 02:01:29,281
- I just have so many
questions.
2877
02:01:29,357 --> 02:01:31,174
- I know.
2878
02:01:31,192 --> 02:01:32,951
- I think we'll probably
have all night
2879
02:01:33,028 --> 02:01:35,528
To talk about this,
but cheers to us.
2880
02:01:35,680 --> 02:01:38,123
- Cheers.
- Reunited.
2881
02:01:38,199 --> 02:01:41,626
♪ ♪
2882
02:01:41,778 --> 02:01:43,944
It's good.
2883
02:01:43,964 --> 02:01:46,798
- Oh, my god.
2884
02:01:50,453 --> 02:01:52,470
- I'm not gonna lie.
2885
02:01:52,547 --> 02:01:54,973
This is awkward for me,
because I already know you.
2886
02:01:55,050 --> 02:01:57,200
But at the same time,
I'm kind of put at ease because
2887
02:01:57,218 --> 02:01:59,035
Both: I know you.
2888
02:01:59,037 --> 02:02:01,538
- Right?
In a way, it's kind of cool.
2889
02:02:01,540 --> 02:02:03,815
- And I know
you're a good person.
2890
02:02:03,892 --> 02:02:05,650
And from at least
our past interactions
2891
02:02:05,727 --> 02:02:09,546
From ten years ago,
you seem like me, actually.
2892
02:02:09,548 --> 02:02:11,381
You're a lot like me.
2893
02:02:11,399 --> 02:02:14,159
- Yeah. I can totally see
already why we were matched.
2894
02:02:14,235 --> 02:02:17,220
Like, as soon as I saw you,
part of me was like,
2895
02:02:17,238 --> 02:02:18,997
"this is insane.
This is crazy."
2896
02:02:19,074 --> 02:02:21,391
But a part of me was like,
"oh, my god,
2897
02:02:21,393 --> 02:02:23,393
It kind of makes sense,
in a way."
2898
02:02:23,411 --> 02:02:26,229
Johnny actually has many
layers.
2899
02:02:26,247 --> 02:02:28,731
And yes, he does like sports,
2900
02:02:28,733 --> 02:02:31,734
But he can dig deep
when need be.
2901
02:02:31,736 --> 02:02:33,178
I know that much of him.
2902
02:02:33,254 --> 02:02:35,013
- At least we haven't dated.
2903
02:02:35,164 --> 02:02:36,330
- Well, I made sure
2904
02:02:36,408 --> 02:02:38,408
That that wasn't gonna
be the case for me,
2905
02:02:38,410 --> 02:02:43,079
'cause I gave them--I sent them
a long list of exclusions.
2906
02:02:43,098 --> 02:02:44,581
Like, names to exclude.
2907
02:02:44,599 --> 02:02:46,006
- That's like an
insurance policy.
2908
02:02:46,084 --> 02:02:48,193
- Please do not match me
with any of my exes or people
2909
02:02:48,344 --> 02:02:50,086
I've worked with
in the community.
2910
02:02:50,088 --> 02:02:51,529
But you weren't on that list.
2911
02:02:51,606 --> 02:02:56,368
- That's funny. And do you think
that's a good or bad thing?
2912
02:02:59,039 --> 02:03:00,538
- I'm feeling like this
is actually
2913
02:03:00,690 --> 02:03:02,098
A good thing, in some way.
2914
02:03:02,117 --> 02:03:04,692
- I think like,
2915
02:03:04,711 --> 02:03:05,877
We probably have
a lot in common
2916
02:03:06,028 --> 02:03:07,879
Just from your poetry vows.
2917
02:03:07,956 --> 02:03:09,196
It seems like
we have a lot in common.
2918
02:03:09,216 --> 02:03:10,364
- Your vows too.
2919
02:03:10,384 --> 02:03:12,442
-It's just that
I've never even thought
2920
02:03:12,460 --> 02:03:13,885
That we would date
and now we're married.
2921
02:03:14,036 --> 02:03:15,945
[laughter]
2922
02:03:15,964 --> 02:03:17,555
Back when we were
in college together
2923
02:03:17,632 --> 02:03:19,224
I never even thought
about dating her.
2924
02:03:19,300 --> 02:03:22,060
If I'm being honest with
myself, I am very picky.
2925
02:03:22,137 --> 02:03:23,728
In the past,
I did have a checklist
2926
02:03:23,805 --> 02:03:25,138
That I was trying to check off
2927
02:03:25,290 --> 02:03:28,233
And I wanted 100% of it,
but bao's so interesting,
2928
02:03:28,309 --> 02:03:31,069
Down-to-earth,
and we have so much in common.
2929
02:03:31,146 --> 02:03:33,405
I just want to find out
how much more we have in common.
2930
02:03:33,481 --> 02:03:36,074
Were you ever on, like,
dating apps and stuff?
2931
02:03:36,225 --> 02:03:38,651
- I have.
- You swiped left on me?
2932
02:03:38,803 --> 02:03:41,971
- No, I don't.
I never swiped left on you.
2933
02:03:41,990 --> 02:03:44,974
I kept you
in the list of maybes.
2934
02:03:44,993 --> 02:03:48,661
You've always been in the list
of maybes on all of the apps.
2935
02:03:48,813 --> 02:03:51,423
- I am so honored. Wow.
2936
02:03:51,574 --> 02:03:53,149
- 'cause it's just like,
you know,
2937
02:03:53,168 --> 02:03:56,428
Like, when you know somebody,
you feel bad about swiping left
2938
02:03:56,579 --> 02:03:59,431
So then I'm just gonna
leave them in the, like--
2939
02:03:59,507 --> 02:04:00,932
- You could have saved us
a lot of time
2940
02:04:01,083 --> 02:04:04,436
Just by sending me a like.
2941
02:04:04,512 --> 02:04:09,256
So I do have a plan
for something after this,
2942
02:04:09,276 --> 02:04:11,834
Something my family
does at every wedding.
2943
02:04:11,853 --> 02:04:15,930
We have done, at some point,
a tea ceremony.
2944
02:04:15,949 --> 02:04:17,840
And I would love to continue
that tradition
2945
02:04:17,859 --> 02:04:19,175
With our marriage
2946
02:04:19,177 --> 02:04:22,011
And see if we can present
some tea to the family
2947
02:04:22,013 --> 02:04:23,846
And get their blessings.
2948
02:04:23,848 --> 02:04:24,956
- That's what you wanted
to tell me?
2949
02:04:25,033 --> 02:04:25,940
- I want to do that.
2950
02:04:25,959 --> 02:04:27,274
- Oh, okay.
- Can you do that?
2951
02:04:27,352 --> 02:04:30,462
- Oh, yeah. Actually,
what I wanted to tell you
2952
02:04:30,538 --> 02:04:32,964
Is that I insisted
on a tea ceremony.
2953
02:04:33,041 --> 02:04:36,693
- Hey. Okay.
2954
02:04:36,711 --> 02:04:38,970
This day has been
a fairy tale come true.
2955
02:04:39,121 --> 02:04:40,972
I just met the woman
I'm gonna spend
2956
02:04:41,123 --> 02:04:42,307
The rest of my life with.
2957
02:04:42,458 --> 02:04:44,367
Even though we're not
technically strangers,
2958
02:04:44,385 --> 02:04:46,144
This feels like destiny.
2959
02:04:46,221 --> 02:04:49,205
And it just blows my mind that,
2960
02:04:49,224 --> 02:04:52,484
Yeah, I mean, she's the one that
would have made sense all along.
2961
02:04:52,560 --> 02:04:56,229
We're totally compatible.
- Yeah, I think so.
2962
02:04:56,381 --> 02:05:01,400
- ♪ and after all
is said and done ♪
2963
02:05:01,553 --> 02:05:06,164
♪ you'll always be
the only one ♪
2964
02:05:06,241 --> 02:05:08,741
- Next time on
"married at first sight"...
2965
02:05:08,893 --> 02:05:11,503
- [exhales] I would
love to fall in love with
2966
02:05:11,579 --> 02:05:13,671
This man who's gonna be at
the other end of that aisle.
2967
02:05:13,823 --> 02:05:15,340
- [bleep] I can't!
2968
02:05:15,416 --> 02:05:16,899
♪ ♪
2969
02:05:16,918 --> 02:05:18,343
- I've always wanted to have
a family,
2970
02:05:18,419 --> 02:05:20,920
Someone who I can
build traditions with
2971
02:05:21,072 --> 02:05:22,905
Because I didn't have
that growing up.
2972
02:05:22,924 --> 02:05:25,517
- I haven't kissed a boy
in over two years,
2973
02:05:25,593 --> 02:05:27,852
So bring me to him.
2974
02:05:27,929 --> 02:05:29,687
♪ ♪
2975
02:05:29,839 --> 02:05:30,763
- Breathe.
2976
02:05:30,915 --> 02:05:33,191
- Please stand.
2977
02:05:33,268 --> 02:05:34,692
- We're doin' it.
2978
02:05:34,769 --> 02:05:37,177
- I'm anxious. I'm nervous.
I'm shaking.
2979
02:05:37,197 --> 02:05:39,697
- My heart is racing
a little bit. I'm nervous.
2980
02:05:39,774 --> 02:05:40,865
- You actually picked
red and gold?
2981
02:05:41,017 --> 02:05:44,369
- I said wine and rose gold.
- Oh, my god.
2982
02:05:45,521 --> 02:05:49,599
- I'm very, very scared.
- It's time, let's go.
2983
02:05:49,617 --> 02:05:52,118
[intense music]
2984
02:05:52,270 --> 02:05:54,712
- I truly, truly
can't wait any longer.
2985
02:05:56,216 --> 02:05:58,216
Today's gonna affect
the rest of my life.