1 00:00:02,208 --> 00:00:04,083 - Ten singles met and married 2 00:00:04,167 --> 00:00:05,792 complete strangers at the altar. 3 00:00:05,875 --> 00:00:07,750 [cheers and applause] 4 00:00:07,833 --> 00:00:09,417 [upbeat music] 5 00:00:09,500 --> 00:00:12,167 Last time, while our newest newlyweds celebrated 6 00:00:12,208 --> 00:00:14,333 their honeymoon, our other couples 7 00:00:14,417 --> 00:00:17,208 faced tough questions about their marriages. 8 00:00:17,292 --> 00:00:19,500 Becca and Austin. 9 00:00:19,583 --> 00:00:22,000 - I don't want to, like, push things too far 10 00:00:22,125 --> 00:00:23,625 if he's not feeling comfortable, 11 00:00:23,708 --> 00:00:25,333 but I want to move forward with him sexually 12 00:00:25,375 --> 00:00:26,958 because I want-- that's what I just want to do. 13 00:00:27,042 --> 00:00:28,000 ♪ 14 00:00:28,042 --> 00:00:30,458 - Clare and Cameron. 15 00:00:30,542 --> 00:00:33,542 - I'm feeling good, but after Cameron's surgery, 16 00:00:33,625 --> 00:00:35,167 it's just like I don't want to be, like, 17 00:00:35,208 --> 00:00:37,000 happy-go-lucky, cheery when, like, 18 00:00:37,083 --> 00:00:38,833 he's having a very hard time. 19 00:00:38,875 --> 00:00:41,042 - Emily and Brennan. 20 00:00:41,125 --> 00:00:43,417 - It's like I do want to, like, see 21 00:00:43,500 --> 00:00:46,042 if we're able to save the marriage. 22 00:00:46,125 --> 00:00:49,042 - Personally, I think you should run for the hills. 23 00:00:49,125 --> 00:00:51,250 - Chloe and Michael. 24 00:00:51,333 --> 00:00:54,875 - I think you--you deserve to feel comfortable 25 00:00:54,958 --> 00:00:56,500 with prioritizing yourself. 26 00:00:56,542 --> 00:00:58,792 Trust that I trust you. 27 00:00:58,875 --> 00:01:00,333 - I believe Michael. 28 00:01:00,458 --> 00:01:02,542 I've just never heard those words before. 29 00:01:02,625 --> 00:01:04,583 [chuckles] Please stop. 30 00:01:04,667 --> 00:01:06,375 Can we stop? 31 00:01:06,458 --> 00:01:07,792 ♪ 32 00:01:07,875 --> 00:01:09,125 - And tonight... 33 00:01:09,208 --> 00:01:11,042 - Ready to rock? - Yes. 34 00:01:11,125 --> 00:01:13,125 - ♪ So I keep moving 35 00:01:13,250 --> 00:01:17,042 ♪ Looking out for something I believe ♪ 36 00:01:17,167 --> 00:01:20,083 - It's a couples retreat unlike any other 37 00:01:20,208 --> 00:01:22,042 in "Married at First Sight" history. 38 00:01:22,125 --> 00:01:23,750 - I could use some luck of the Irish. 39 00:01:23,875 --> 00:01:25,667 - You could use some luck, and I could get lucky. 40 00:01:25,708 --> 00:01:28,333 - Maybe this is where you seal the deal. 41 00:01:28,458 --> 00:01:29,542 - Come here. 42 00:01:29,625 --> 00:01:33,000 ♪ 43 00:01:33,083 --> 00:01:34,458 - I really don't know what happened. 44 00:01:34,542 --> 00:01:36,583 He just rolled out of bed and went. 45 00:01:36,667 --> 00:01:38,333 [tense music] 46 00:01:38,417 --> 00:01:41,125 - I'm might start borrowing your accessories. 47 00:01:41,208 --> 00:01:43,417 - What you've given me is a man 48 00:01:43,542 --> 00:01:45,625 that I would have never chosen for myself. 49 00:01:45,708 --> 00:01:48,167 ♪ 50 00:01:48,250 --> 00:01:50,250 - Honestly, Lauren, I am glad you're here. 51 00:01:50,333 --> 00:01:51,750 I'm glad you showed up. 52 00:01:51,833 --> 00:01:53,917 - It just feels weird, I guess. 53 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:55,500 - I feel awkward. - Yeah. 54 00:01:55,583 --> 00:01:56,917 Like, I don't know what I would gain 55 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:59,333 out of a conversation with him. 56 00:01:59,375 --> 00:02:02,167 ♪ 57 00:02:02,250 --> 00:02:04,125 - Is she all right? - [bleep]. 58 00:02:04,208 --> 00:02:06,500 - I think we need to get her out of here 59 00:02:06,583 --> 00:02:08,833 and get an ambulance because she's bleeding a lot. 60 00:02:08,917 --> 00:02:14,500 ♪ 61 00:02:14,583 --> 00:02:17,083 - It's OK. 62 00:02:17,167 --> 00:02:19,292 - ♪ It's all or nothing 63 00:02:19,375 --> 00:02:21,833 - This is "Married at First Sight." 64 00:02:21,917 --> 00:02:24,875 - ♪ There's no other way 65 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:27,417 ♪ It's all or nothing 66 00:02:27,542 --> 00:02:30,417 [upbeat music] 67 00:02:30,542 --> 00:02:37,333 ♪ 68 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:43,125 - Get up. 69 00:02:44,708 --> 00:02:46,625 [laughs] 70 00:02:46,708 --> 00:02:48,375 - You knew I was-- - Good morning! 71 00:02:48,458 --> 00:02:49,708 - You knew I was out. 72 00:02:49,792 --> 00:02:52,417 That's why you did that. 73 00:02:52,542 --> 00:02:54,250 - I'm not gonna be awake alone. - You knew I was out. 74 00:02:54,333 --> 00:02:56,583 - Mm. - Did you sleep good? 75 00:02:56,667 --> 00:02:57,833 - Oh, yeah. 76 00:02:57,958 --> 00:02:58,958 - How good? - Really good. 77 00:02:59,042 --> 00:03:00,292 - Best ever? 78 00:03:00,375 --> 00:03:02,000 - Best on this trip. - Good. 79 00:03:02,042 --> 00:03:03,375 - I'm sure that has some-- 80 00:03:03,458 --> 00:03:04,875 I didn't even realize that it snowed last night. 81 00:03:04,958 --> 00:03:07,583 - Oh, look at all that snow. 82 00:03:07,667 --> 00:03:09,083 Beautiful. 83 00:03:09,167 --> 00:03:11,167 - I feel like you slept well last night, too. 84 00:03:11,208 --> 00:03:13,042 - I slept like a champion. - Good. 85 00:03:13,125 --> 00:03:14,708 Do you feel more at ease... - I do. 86 00:03:14,792 --> 00:03:16,167 - This morning after-- 87 00:03:16,250 --> 00:03:18,458 I mean, I know that those conversations aren't easy. 88 00:03:18,542 --> 00:03:20,250 - No. 89 00:03:20,375 --> 00:03:23,708 They aren't, but you just handled it so well. 90 00:03:23,792 --> 00:03:26,625 I feel so much better. 91 00:03:26,708 --> 00:03:29,083 And I think, you know, bawling my eyes out 92 00:03:29,167 --> 00:03:30,500 helped to sleep too. 93 00:03:30,583 --> 00:03:32,000 It's amazing what... - I mean-- 94 00:03:32,042 --> 00:03:33,333 - A good release will do, huh? 95 00:03:33,417 --> 00:03:34,875 - I'd like to think there was a-- 96 00:03:34,958 --> 00:03:38,042 like, a therapeutic element to it. 97 00:03:38,125 --> 00:03:39,667 I think last night was good insight. 98 00:03:39,750 --> 00:03:42,667 I mean, it's a good model for us that, you know, 99 00:03:42,792 --> 00:03:45,667 you took the initiative of taking that leap of faith 100 00:03:45,792 --> 00:03:48,917 and, like, you know, telling me how you felt 101 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:53,042 and not having a real indicator of how I could potentially 102 00:03:53,125 --> 00:03:54,708 react because we haven't, you know, 103 00:03:54,708 --> 00:03:56,667 touched on too many things like that. 104 00:03:56,708 --> 00:03:59,083 So, you know, eventually I'll be at a point 105 00:03:59,167 --> 00:04:01,083 when I'll want to share something, 106 00:04:01,167 --> 00:04:02,792 and I'll have that level of uncertainty. 107 00:04:02,875 --> 00:04:06,417 So, selfishly, I kind of have that reference point 108 00:04:06,417 --> 00:04:08,333 to kind of lean on. 109 00:04:08,375 --> 00:04:10,375 So I hope you felt that too. 110 00:04:10,500 --> 00:04:13,292 - You made me cry, jeez. - But for the record... 111 00:04:13,375 --> 00:04:14,292 - You're like, "Let me just say all the right things 112 00:04:14,375 --> 00:04:15,667 that you want to hear." 113 00:04:15,750 --> 00:04:17,333 - For the record, it was a good cry, right? 114 00:04:17,417 --> 00:04:18,833 - No, it was a really good cry. 115 00:04:18,958 --> 00:04:20,417 I was like, "He's not supposed to say this. 116 00:04:20,542 --> 00:04:22,083 This is supposed to be our first fight." 117 00:04:22,167 --> 00:04:24,292 - You were gearing up for battle? 118 00:04:24,375 --> 00:04:26,250 - I was like, "Put the armor on, 119 00:04:26,333 --> 00:04:29,000 here we go, onto the battlefield." 120 00:04:29,083 --> 00:04:30,500 But it's just hard because it's not-- 121 00:04:30,542 --> 00:04:32,667 it has absolutely nothing to do with you. 122 00:04:32,708 --> 00:04:35,500 I think that we just have a lot of settling to do, 123 00:04:35,583 --> 00:04:37,167 and I just appreciate your patience. 124 00:04:37,250 --> 00:04:38,833 I'll settle in. It's gonna be great. 125 00:04:38,875 --> 00:04:40,500 I think once we get to our new place today, 126 00:04:40,583 --> 00:04:44,125 I'm gonna feel like, "All right, we did it," 127 00:04:44,208 --> 00:04:45,500 you know? - I think so too. 128 00:04:45,583 --> 00:04:49,667 I think, in full transparency, I feel like 129 00:04:49,708 --> 00:04:51,417 I might lean on you a little bit 130 00:04:51,500 --> 00:04:53,292 when we transition to our new space, 131 00:04:53,375 --> 00:04:55,292 especially since, you know, I've only lived 132 00:04:55,375 --> 00:04:57,333 in one spot since I've been in Denver. 133 00:04:57,417 --> 00:04:59,833 It might be more challenging for me, 134 00:04:59,875 --> 00:05:03,458 being in the new space, but I think any of the challenges 135 00:05:03,542 --> 00:05:06,292 I have will just be, like, just my aversion 136 00:05:06,375 --> 00:05:09,375 to switching my living spaces, you know? 137 00:05:09,458 --> 00:05:11,292 Both of us have acknowledged 138 00:05:11,375 --> 00:05:13,167 that we've been independent for quite some time. 139 00:05:13,250 --> 00:05:15,792 So I think we know that there's 140 00:05:15,792 --> 00:05:17,208 just gonna be a challenge being able 141 00:05:17,333 --> 00:05:19,167 to have our comfort zones 142 00:05:19,208 --> 00:05:20,833 and trying to craft a life together. 143 00:05:20,917 --> 00:05:22,125 That's gonna take a lot. 144 00:05:22,208 --> 00:05:24,125 - It's gonna be a little bit-- 145 00:05:24,208 --> 00:05:25,750 a little nerve-racking, I think, at first, 146 00:05:25,875 --> 00:05:28,333 just the feeling of not being at home. 147 00:05:28,458 --> 00:05:31,583 - Despite areas that we may be different 148 00:05:31,708 --> 00:05:34,167 or see things differently, 149 00:05:34,250 --> 00:05:35,917 ultimately, I'm really looking forward 150 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:38,333 to just, you know, bringing our lives together 151 00:05:38,417 --> 00:05:40,500 and continuing to work on this every day. 152 00:05:40,625 --> 00:05:41,958 - And so I think it's gonna be a little like... 153 00:05:42,042 --> 00:05:43,792 [gasps] 154 00:05:43,875 --> 00:05:45,125 - It's gonna be a minute until we make it our home. 155 00:05:45,208 --> 00:05:46,167 - Yeah. 156 00:05:46,250 --> 00:05:50,958 ♪ 157 00:05:51,042 --> 00:05:54,750 - ♪ I'm going up to the top where the sun shines ♪ 158 00:05:54,833 --> 00:05:58,333 ♪ I'm taking off, leaving everything behind ♪ 159 00:05:58,417 --> 00:06:02,125 ♪ I'm moving out to a place with a good view ♪ 160 00:06:02,208 --> 00:06:04,500 - I got the speaker. 161 00:06:04,542 --> 00:06:05,750 - I brought mine too. - Oh, you did? 162 00:06:05,875 --> 00:06:07,250 - Yeah. 163 00:06:07,333 --> 00:06:08,958 - Thought you just wanted to use mine. 164 00:06:09,042 --> 00:06:12,333 - Mm. Now we have two. 165 00:06:12,417 --> 00:06:15,833 I hear it's a big house, so maybe we'll need both. 166 00:06:15,917 --> 00:06:19,042 What are you hoping for for this weekend, 167 00:06:19,125 --> 00:06:22,375 for couples retreat? 168 00:06:22,375 --> 00:06:25,375 - Hopefully this is a relaxing enough vacation, 169 00:06:25,458 --> 00:06:28,167 or even if it isn't, we can just escape 170 00:06:28,167 --> 00:06:33,917 to hopefully our big, faraway bedroom 171 00:06:34,042 --> 00:06:35,875 and just do whatever we want. 172 00:06:35,958 --> 00:06:37,583 - Whoa. - Whoa. 173 00:06:37,667 --> 00:06:39,208 - What are you talking about? 174 00:06:39,292 --> 00:06:41,042 - I think we should work on the stuff 175 00:06:41,125 --> 00:06:44,167 that, like, Dr. Pia kind of talked to us about 176 00:06:44,208 --> 00:06:46,875 and, you know, like, make out a lot 177 00:06:46,958 --> 00:06:49,125 and, like, do things in the bedroom. 178 00:06:49,208 --> 00:06:50,583 [quirky music] 179 00:06:50,667 --> 00:06:52,542 - Like this? - Like that. 180 00:06:52,625 --> 00:06:54,458 We're gonna have dance parties in the bedroom. 181 00:06:54,458 --> 00:06:55,833 - Oh, you think this is me dancing? 182 00:06:55,917 --> 00:06:57,167 - I hope that's you dancing. - This is how I have sex. 183 00:06:57,250 --> 00:07:00,917 [laughter] 184 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:02,667 - Oh, boy. - Oh, boy. 185 00:07:02,750 --> 00:07:05,833 - Maybe we won't, I don't know. [laughter] 186 00:07:05,917 --> 00:07:08,458 - I would love to work on those things with you. 187 00:07:08,542 --> 00:07:10,667 - Yeah? - Yeah, that makes me excited. 188 00:07:12,875 --> 00:07:15,792 [upbeat music] 189 00:07:15,875 --> 00:07:19,917 ♪ 190 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:24,333 - I am getting ready to head to the couples retreat 191 00:07:24,417 --> 00:07:26,375 that I don't want to call a couples retreat 192 00:07:26,458 --> 00:07:28,667 because obviously, I'm not in a couple, 193 00:07:28,792 --> 00:07:33,167 which feels sad and strange. 194 00:07:33,208 --> 00:07:36,167 But at the same time, you know, 195 00:07:36,250 --> 00:07:38,125 I'm bummed Cameron can't be there. 196 00:07:38,208 --> 00:07:39,875 I know everyone else is, too, 197 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:42,500 but I'm happy that he's prioritizing his health. 198 00:07:42,542 --> 00:07:44,500 That's the number one thing right now. 199 00:07:44,625 --> 00:07:47,417 And so I just want him to focus on getting better 200 00:07:47,500 --> 00:07:49,042 and taking care of himself. 201 00:07:49,167 --> 00:07:52,833 So I'm just gonna try and embrace, you know, 202 00:07:52,917 --> 00:07:55,500 the retreat and have fun with the other girls 203 00:07:55,667 --> 00:07:58,417 and just relax and let loose a little bit. 204 00:07:58,500 --> 00:07:59,958 That's what we're gonna do. 205 00:08:00,042 --> 00:08:02,875 ♪ 206 00:08:02,958 --> 00:08:05,083 ♪ I see it in your eyes, too little, too late ♪ 207 00:08:05,208 --> 00:08:07,292 ♪ A flicker of light has gone up in flames ♪ 208 00:08:07,375 --> 00:08:08,667 ♪ You cut me deep 209 00:08:08,667 --> 00:08:10,500 ♪ Hurts me like hell 210 00:08:10,583 --> 00:08:13,542 ♪ Now give me the sound of your silence ♪ 211 00:08:13,625 --> 00:08:16,542 ♪ Who's gonna save me? 212 00:08:16,625 --> 00:08:20,208 ♪ Gonna save you? 213 00:08:20,292 --> 00:08:25,125 ♪ Who's gonna save, who's gonna save you? ♪ 214 00:08:25,208 --> 00:08:27,042 - Ready to rock? - Yep. 215 00:08:27,167 --> 00:08:28,333 - All right. 216 00:08:28,375 --> 00:08:30,833 - Did I overpack? For sure did. 217 00:08:30,917 --> 00:08:35,542 Going into couples retreat, I'm kind of... 218 00:08:35,625 --> 00:08:37,708 feeling blah about Brennan. 219 00:08:37,792 --> 00:08:40,167 Like, I'm just kind of like, "This is what it is." 220 00:08:40,250 --> 00:08:43,875 This weekend, like, I'm really ready to just focus less on us 221 00:08:43,958 --> 00:08:46,750 and just more about all of us being together 222 00:08:46,833 --> 00:08:48,583 and having this opportunity 223 00:08:48,708 --> 00:08:51,750 to all be trapped in a house together 224 00:08:51,875 --> 00:08:54,500 and all kind of have, like, a last hurrah 225 00:08:54,583 --> 00:08:56,667 before Decision Day. 226 00:08:56,750 --> 00:08:58,833 - All right, should we do it? - Yeah. 227 00:08:58,917 --> 00:09:02,708 Do you think you can get, like, two of these bags, please? 228 00:09:02,792 --> 00:09:04,458 - I can take-- we only need one trip. 229 00:09:04,542 --> 00:09:05,875 I got it. - Thank you. 230 00:09:05,958 --> 00:09:07,667 - I got two hands. Look at this. 231 00:09:07,750 --> 00:09:09,708 - Oh, OK, well, I don't think I can do it all. 232 00:09:09,792 --> 00:09:12,042 ♪ 233 00:09:12,125 --> 00:09:14,500 I mean, I'm still hoping Brennan realizes 234 00:09:14,583 --> 00:09:17,167 that there's been no real effort on his end, 235 00:09:17,250 --> 00:09:19,292 therefore, he should maybe, like, put in 236 00:09:19,375 --> 00:09:21,833 any sort of initiative. 237 00:09:21,958 --> 00:09:24,792 But I'm not keeping my hopes up. 238 00:09:24,875 --> 00:09:25,833 ♪ 239 00:09:25,917 --> 00:09:27,875 OK. 240 00:09:27,958 --> 00:09:34,458 ♪ 241 00:09:34,542 --> 00:09:36,458 - I know they're not coming till later, 242 00:09:36,542 --> 00:09:38,500 but I'm most excited to see Mike and Chloe. 243 00:09:38,583 --> 00:09:40,292 - Mm. 244 00:09:40,375 --> 00:09:41,792 - I want to know what Chloe's like. 245 00:09:41,875 --> 00:09:44,458 I'm very curious on how everything's going 246 00:09:44,542 --> 00:09:47,000 and how the wedding was and just, like, 247 00:09:47,042 --> 00:09:48,833 see what she's like in-person, you know? 248 00:09:48,958 --> 00:09:50,375 - Yeah. 249 00:09:50,375 --> 00:09:52,000 - What are you most excited for? 250 00:09:52,083 --> 00:09:54,333 - You know, [bleep]. 251 00:09:54,417 --> 00:09:56,125 - Besides that? 252 00:09:56,208 --> 00:09:59,167 - I'm excited to spend time with all of our people. 253 00:09:59,250 --> 00:10:03,583 - I wonder how many rooms they have set up for us. 254 00:10:03,708 --> 00:10:05,875 Is this, like, a big, old house with, 255 00:10:05,875 --> 00:10:08,000 like, bunk beds and stuff? 256 00:10:08,042 --> 00:10:09,292 - Bunks beds? 257 00:10:09,375 --> 00:10:10,083 You and I get put in a bunk bed? 258 00:10:10,167 --> 00:10:12,833 - [laughs] 259 00:10:12,875 --> 00:10:15,458 - ♪ Color so appealing 260 00:10:15,542 --> 00:10:17,000 ♪ Shimmer, shine all evening 261 00:10:17,083 --> 00:10:19,083 ♪ 262 00:10:19,208 --> 00:10:20,750 - Nice Friday road trip. 263 00:10:20,833 --> 00:10:24,000 The gang's all back together again. 264 00:10:24,083 --> 00:10:26,167 Whoo-hoo. 265 00:10:26,208 --> 00:10:29,792 I think Orion and Chloe 266 00:10:29,875 --> 00:10:32,167 aren't gonna be there till Sunday. 267 00:10:32,250 --> 00:10:34,167 - [laughs] - I think. 268 00:10:34,208 --> 00:10:37,208 - You mean Mike and Chloe? - Oh, wait, yeah. 269 00:10:37,333 --> 00:10:41,042 I told Becca just to, like, pick the best room. 270 00:10:41,042 --> 00:10:43,250 - I wonder why they're not coming till Sunday. 271 00:10:43,375 --> 00:10:45,875 - I don't--they might be on their honeymoon still. 272 00:10:45,958 --> 00:10:49,000 That'll be fun, just us four, some time to hang. 273 00:10:49,042 --> 00:10:51,083 ♪ 274 00:10:51,167 --> 00:10:54,042 You should have texted him and seen how the honeymoon was. 275 00:10:54,125 --> 00:10:56,333 - Oh, something tells me we're gonna find out. 276 00:10:56,458 --> 00:10:58,792 - I'm sure it was lovely. 277 00:10:58,875 --> 00:11:00,792 - I'm sure it was drama-free. 278 00:11:00,875 --> 00:11:03,125 - I mean, should [bleep] be. 279 00:11:05,625 --> 00:11:08,708 - Drama-free until it's not. 280 00:11:11,500 --> 00:11:14,042 Soak it up while you can. 281 00:11:14,125 --> 00:11:15,792 - I think Emily and I are on the same page 282 00:11:15,875 --> 00:11:17,375 of what we're trying to get out of couples retreat, 283 00:11:17,458 --> 00:11:20,833 which is to have fun and spending time with friends. 284 00:11:20,875 --> 00:11:23,125 It's making me feel a lot more comfortable. 285 00:11:23,208 --> 00:11:25,167 You know, the pressure and everything didn't work for us, 286 00:11:25,250 --> 00:11:27,167 so we want to be in a non-pressure environment 287 00:11:27,250 --> 00:11:29,750 where we can just focus on having fun. 288 00:11:29,875 --> 00:11:31,833 It's just nice that we can all be there together 289 00:11:31,917 --> 00:11:33,750 and build new memories together. 290 00:11:33,875 --> 00:11:37,167 - Another good level of adventure for us. 291 00:11:37,208 --> 00:11:38,667 ♪ 292 00:11:38,667 --> 00:11:41,042 - Awesome. We love adventuring. 293 00:11:41,125 --> 00:11:42,542 - We do. 294 00:11:42,625 --> 00:11:46,292 ♪ 295 00:11:46,375 --> 00:11:47,458 - Oh, wow. 296 00:11:47,542 --> 00:11:49,958 ♪ 297 00:11:50,042 --> 00:11:53,708 - They got--they got our initials here and everything. 298 00:11:53,792 --> 00:11:55,000 We have a good amount of space. 299 00:11:55,083 --> 00:11:57,375 - I know. It's beautiful. 300 00:11:57,458 --> 00:11:58,958 Like, I feel like I'm at home. 301 00:11:59,042 --> 00:12:00,875 - So this fits--this fits your aesthetic, right? 302 00:12:00,958 --> 00:12:03,000 - This looks like my home. 303 00:12:03,042 --> 00:12:05,042 Oh, we can see Forrest Field. That's fun. 304 00:12:05,125 --> 00:12:06,667 ♪ 305 00:12:06,708 --> 00:12:07,875 - Bedroom? - Yeah. 306 00:12:07,958 --> 00:12:10,167 - Bedroom. - I'll follow you. 307 00:12:10,250 --> 00:12:12,708 - I'm feeling great, moving here in our apartment. 308 00:12:12,792 --> 00:12:14,958 I mean, I loved the honeymoon, 309 00:12:15,042 --> 00:12:16,792 but it wasn't real life, right? 310 00:12:16,792 --> 00:12:19,708 I'm really glad to be in real life. 311 00:12:19,792 --> 00:12:21,208 I know there's gonna be challenges, 312 00:12:21,292 --> 00:12:23,833 so I don't want to understate that. 313 00:12:23,917 --> 00:12:25,833 We're gonna start to learn what each other's 314 00:12:25,917 --> 00:12:28,125 comfort zones are, and I think the challenge will be 315 00:12:28,208 --> 00:12:30,750 to just continually adjust to that. 316 00:12:30,833 --> 00:12:32,292 I've never actually had, like, a dual-- 317 00:12:32,375 --> 00:12:34,375 dual sink action. - Yeah, this is helpful. 318 00:12:34,500 --> 00:12:35,917 - We kind of designate home base 319 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:38,958 for each one of us. - You know, I am not choosy. 320 00:12:39,042 --> 00:12:42,458 So is one speaking to you louder than the other? 321 00:12:42,542 --> 00:12:44,333 - I feel like just based on 322 00:12:44,375 --> 00:12:47,000 what I've seen from our respective skincare routines, 323 00:12:47,083 --> 00:12:49,333 you would probably benefit from having this. 324 00:12:49,417 --> 00:12:50,708 - I like your style. 325 00:12:50,792 --> 00:12:52,208 - So maybe you here. - OK. 326 00:12:52,333 --> 00:12:53,500 - And I can kind of-- 327 00:12:53,542 --> 00:12:55,667 I can make this action work. 328 00:12:55,708 --> 00:12:56,667 Are you ready for what I consider 329 00:12:56,750 --> 00:12:58,583 the most important part? - Mm-hmm. 330 00:12:58,667 --> 00:13:01,292 - It's closet space. - Oh. 331 00:13:01,375 --> 00:13:02,792 - All right. 332 00:13:02,875 --> 00:13:05,667 I am hoping that this is a walk-in closet. 333 00:13:05,708 --> 00:13:08,750 ♪ 334 00:13:08,875 --> 00:13:11,000 OK, so we got boom, boom, and then-- 335 00:13:11,125 --> 00:13:14,500 and this clearly is one, also. 336 00:13:14,583 --> 00:13:16,375 - Guess what? - Mm? 337 00:13:16,458 --> 00:13:19,000 - You gave me the sink choice. 338 00:13:19,083 --> 00:13:21,042 I'm gonna give you the closet choice. 339 00:13:21,125 --> 00:13:22,792 - OK. - Welcome home, Michael. 340 00:13:22,875 --> 00:13:25,125 - Thank you. - Welcome home. 341 00:13:25,208 --> 00:13:26,958 - Don't get me wrong, I'd have taken 342 00:13:27,042 --> 00:13:28,958 the small closet. I'd have made it work. 343 00:13:29,042 --> 00:13:31,000 I mean, the fact that Chloe proactively 344 00:13:31,083 --> 00:13:34,000 offered the walk-in closet to me, that tells me again 345 00:13:34,083 --> 00:13:36,125 just how selfless she is. 346 00:13:36,208 --> 00:13:39,375 So I know we're both very considerate people, 347 00:13:39,458 --> 00:13:41,500 and I think, you know, leaning on that 348 00:13:41,583 --> 00:13:44,208 will really help us transition to living together. 349 00:13:44,292 --> 00:13:46,833 But I'm sure there'll be some challenges. 350 00:13:46,875 --> 00:13:48,625 So this--this-- 351 00:13:48,708 --> 00:13:50,750 this very much fits my style. 352 00:13:50,875 --> 00:13:53,375 - Yeah, this place is beautiful. 353 00:13:53,375 --> 00:13:55,708 - If you had to add one thing to the living room, 354 00:13:55,792 --> 00:13:57,333 what would it be? 355 00:13:57,458 --> 00:14:00,750 - Um... 356 00:14:00,875 --> 00:14:02,833 I don't think I'd add anything to the living room. 357 00:14:02,917 --> 00:14:04,875 I love it just the way it is. 358 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:06,292 I'm gonna be honest, everything up to this point 359 00:14:06,375 --> 00:14:08,125 has just kind of felt like a fantasy. 360 00:14:08,208 --> 00:14:11,000 It hasn't felt, like, real. 361 00:14:11,042 --> 00:14:13,500 And then now, we're getting ready to go 362 00:14:13,542 --> 00:14:15,833 to our apartments tomorrow and pack up our stuff, 363 00:14:15,917 --> 00:14:19,375 and it's all starting to hit home. 364 00:14:19,458 --> 00:14:22,000 Is there something that you see that's missing? 365 00:14:22,083 --> 00:14:23,750 - I wouldn't say missing, 366 00:14:23,833 --> 00:14:25,667 but all the canvas art that I have at my place, 367 00:14:25,750 --> 00:14:27,000 I use, like, Velcro. 368 00:14:27,042 --> 00:14:29,583 The canvas art that I have gives it, like, 369 00:14:29,667 --> 00:14:31,375 just little splashes of color. 370 00:14:31,458 --> 00:14:33,458 So, like, if I were to put them anywhere, 371 00:14:33,542 --> 00:14:35,292 I'd, like, put them where this wall is at, for example. 372 00:14:35,375 --> 00:14:36,708 - OK. 373 00:14:36,792 --> 00:14:38,333 - And I have another one, which is 374 00:14:38,417 --> 00:14:41,208 that Francisco Goya painting where 375 00:14:41,208 --> 00:14:43,458 Saturn is eating his son. 376 00:14:43,542 --> 00:14:45,417 It's from that allegory. 377 00:14:45,542 --> 00:14:47,000 - Grim. 378 00:14:47,083 --> 00:14:48,750 - It is, you know, but it-- it adds a nice 379 00:14:48,833 --> 00:14:50,292 touch to that particular wall. 380 00:14:50,375 --> 00:14:52,708 I don't think I would bring that one here. 381 00:14:52,792 --> 00:14:55,125 And then another one, a friend painted for me. 382 00:14:55,208 --> 00:14:57,625 It's really colorful, so maybe-- 383 00:14:57,708 --> 00:14:58,875 - Yeah. 384 00:14:58,875 --> 00:15:02,000 - --maybe that one as well. 385 00:15:02,083 --> 00:15:03,542 I mean, yeah, other than that-- 386 00:15:03,625 --> 00:15:05,917 - I feel like we're set. 387 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:10,333 - I think as much as I enjoyed our honeymoon, 388 00:15:10,375 --> 00:15:14,000 this morning, I was excited to kind of get back 389 00:15:14,125 --> 00:15:16,083 into the real world, and this is now 390 00:15:16,167 --> 00:15:18,750 our first real world moment. 391 00:15:18,833 --> 00:15:20,792 I feel like I have everything I need. 392 00:15:20,875 --> 00:15:21,792 How about you? 393 00:15:21,875 --> 00:15:23,875 - Yeah. 394 00:15:23,958 --> 00:15:26,083 I am an introvert by nature. 395 00:15:26,167 --> 00:15:28,000 Ordinarily after a trip, I would have gone back 396 00:15:28,083 --> 00:15:30,167 to my apartment, and I would have spent the evening 397 00:15:30,292 --> 00:15:33,333 just kind of decompressing. 398 00:15:33,375 --> 00:15:35,125 And that is not-- 399 00:15:35,208 --> 00:15:36,833 not gonna happen tonight. 400 00:15:36,958 --> 00:15:38,500 So instead, we're gonna decompress together. 401 00:15:38,583 --> 00:15:45,000 [upbeat music] 402 00:15:45,042 --> 00:15:48,500 - I'm looking forward to our first relaxing evening. 403 00:15:48,583 --> 00:15:49,833 - Yeah. 404 00:15:49,875 --> 00:15:51,500 ♪ 405 00:15:55,625 --> 00:15:57,250 - ♪ I do whatever I wanna 406 00:15:57,250 --> 00:15:58,750 ♪ Call the shots, not taking orders ♪ 407 00:15:58,833 --> 00:16:00,542 - Yeah, it's a nice little area. 408 00:16:00,625 --> 00:16:01,917 - Yeah. 409 00:16:02,042 --> 00:16:03,542 - There's some horses living there. 410 00:16:03,625 --> 00:16:06,042 ♪ 411 00:16:06,167 --> 00:16:07,833 All right, park here. 412 00:16:07,875 --> 00:16:09,667 ♪ 413 00:16:09,792 --> 00:16:12,500 - Go on in and check it out. 414 00:16:12,625 --> 00:16:14,042 - I'll pull that out for you. 415 00:16:14,042 --> 00:16:16,000 - Aw. Thanks, sweetie. 416 00:16:16,083 --> 00:16:18,292 - I'll take both these up at the same time. 417 00:16:18,375 --> 00:16:19,917 - I believe in you. - Oh, they're really heavy. 418 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:21,667 - Oh, my strong man. 419 00:16:23,375 --> 00:16:25,708 - Ugh. - Wow. 420 00:16:25,792 --> 00:16:27,583 Look at this. - Look at this. 421 00:16:27,708 --> 00:16:29,000 - Oh, my God, I thought that was a real animal for a second. 422 00:16:29,083 --> 00:16:32,167 Holy [bleep] in a hand basket. 423 00:16:32,208 --> 00:16:33,750 Look at this. - Wow. 424 00:16:33,875 --> 00:16:35,125 - Look it. 425 00:16:35,208 --> 00:16:37,667 It's Danny and Gwen's cousins. - Aw. 426 00:16:37,708 --> 00:16:39,708 Yo, this place is insane. 427 00:16:39,792 --> 00:16:42,375 - Let's check this out. 428 00:16:42,500 --> 00:16:43,375 - Very nice. 429 00:16:43,458 --> 00:16:45,500 - Pool table. - Cards, pool. 430 00:16:45,542 --> 00:16:49,167 - Oh! - Holy [bleep]. 431 00:16:49,208 --> 00:16:53,000 That's one of the best Broncos of all time, 432 00:16:53,083 --> 00:16:54,667 and this is his house, apparently. 433 00:16:54,792 --> 00:16:56,125 - The house belongs 434 00:16:56,208 --> 00:17:01,167 to a sports star. 435 00:17:01,292 --> 00:17:04,458 - That's insane. - I wish I cared. 436 00:17:04,542 --> 00:17:06,167 - Thanks for being excited for me. 437 00:17:06,250 --> 00:17:09,000 - I--no, I'm so excited for you. 438 00:17:09,083 --> 00:17:13,583 Throwing that old pigskin around. 439 00:17:13,708 --> 00:17:15,917 Just touchdown. 440 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:18,667 Defense. 441 00:17:18,708 --> 00:17:20,333 Offense. 442 00:17:20,417 --> 00:17:23,083 [quirky music] 443 00:17:23,167 --> 00:17:24,917 [chuckles] Is that right? 444 00:17:25,042 --> 00:17:27,667 - I'm sleeping in his bed. I'm doing it. 445 00:17:28,583 --> 00:17:30,375 - Oh. 446 00:17:30,458 --> 00:17:32,125 - All right, let's do this. 447 00:17:32,208 --> 00:17:34,000 - I like the bathroom in this one more, 448 00:17:34,083 --> 00:17:36,250 but I like the bedroom of the other room more. 449 00:17:36,333 --> 00:17:41,833 - I agree, but I think this one offers the most seclusion. 450 00:17:41,917 --> 00:17:45,000 - OK. It has been decided. 451 00:17:45,042 --> 00:17:47,875 [upbeat music] 452 00:17:47,958 --> 00:17:50,208 - Hello? - Hello? 453 00:17:50,292 --> 00:17:53,792 - Whoa, look at this. - Whoa. 454 00:17:53,875 --> 00:17:55,750 - Whoa. Holy-- 455 00:17:55,833 --> 00:17:57,125 - Whoa, that's so cool. 456 00:17:57,208 --> 00:17:59,208 Whoa. - Whoa. 457 00:17:59,333 --> 00:18:01,333 - I'm gonna park it in here for now. 458 00:18:01,417 --> 00:18:03,542 - Good with separate rooms? - Yeah. 459 00:18:03,625 --> 00:18:07,750 I'm not surprised he took the friend approach 460 00:18:07,833 --> 00:18:11,667 and said we need separate rooms. 461 00:18:11,750 --> 00:18:13,833 Becca? 462 00:18:13,917 --> 00:18:16,083 - Oh, I hear voices. 463 00:18:16,167 --> 00:18:18,125 - It smells like bacon in here. 464 00:18:18,208 --> 00:18:20,167 - Wow. - Ooh! 465 00:18:20,250 --> 00:18:22,667 - I'm not keeping my hopes up 466 00:18:22,708 --> 00:18:25,458 because of the lack of effort to date. 467 00:18:25,542 --> 00:18:28,500 The more I stay hopeful, the more I get disappointed. 468 00:18:28,542 --> 00:18:30,333 - So this is your house, and then 469 00:18:30,375 --> 00:18:31,292 we'll take that other house? 470 00:18:31,375 --> 00:18:32,792 - Just wait. - Oh, OK. 471 00:18:32,875 --> 00:18:34,708 - Just wait until you see the basement in all of these. 472 00:18:34,708 --> 00:18:36,792 - I got to show you around. - Yeah, dude. 473 00:18:36,875 --> 00:18:39,000 - Oh, sick. 474 00:18:39,083 --> 00:18:40,333 Oh, look at that. That's cool. 475 00:18:40,375 --> 00:18:42,250 - This is such a dude space. 476 00:18:42,333 --> 00:18:43,833 I'm like, "We're never gonna see them again." 477 00:18:43,875 --> 00:18:46,917 - No. They're gone. 478 00:18:47,042 --> 00:18:48,333 Well, I'm excited to have you next to me. 479 00:18:48,458 --> 00:18:49,833 - Same. 480 00:18:49,958 --> 00:18:51,458 - Brennan just said separate rooms. 481 00:18:51,542 --> 00:18:53,417 So I was like, "Aye, aye, captain. 482 00:18:53,542 --> 00:18:54,833 "I'm gonna go find where Becca is 483 00:18:54,875 --> 00:18:56,542 and go sleep with her. 484 00:18:56,667 --> 00:18:57,875 - So you're just want to sleep in the bed with me and Austin? 485 00:18:57,958 --> 00:18:59,750 - Get me drunk, who knows? - There's also a tub. 486 00:18:59,833 --> 00:19:01,167 So you can just sleep in the tub, if you'd like. 487 00:19:01,250 --> 00:19:02,792 - Uh-huh. 488 00:19:02,875 --> 00:19:03,917 - Bro, imagine the parties here. 489 00:19:04,042 --> 00:19:06,292 - Oh, I can't even. 490 00:19:06,375 --> 00:19:08,375 - I'm really-- - You're festive in green. 491 00:19:08,458 --> 00:19:10,583 - I know. I did wear green. 492 00:19:10,667 --> 00:19:12,458 - I could use some luck of the Irish. 493 00:19:12,542 --> 00:19:14,542 - Yeah, you could use some luck. 494 00:19:14,625 --> 00:19:16,417 You could use some luck, and I could get lucky. 495 00:19:16,500 --> 00:19:20,167 - Yeah. "Luck," word of the weekend. 496 00:19:20,250 --> 00:19:22,083 - Got the poker chips. Dude, we got to smoke cigars. 497 00:19:22,167 --> 00:19:23,667 - We got poker chips. 498 00:19:23,750 --> 00:19:25,208 - Maybe it'll happen here. 499 00:19:25,292 --> 00:19:27,625 Maybe this is where you seal the deal. 500 00:19:27,708 --> 00:19:29,542 - We're gonna give it our-- our damnedest. 501 00:19:29,667 --> 00:19:31,333 - Damnedest. 502 00:19:31,417 --> 00:19:33,917 - ♪ No, never gonna stop 503 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:36,042 ♪ Uh, uh 504 00:19:36,125 --> 00:19:39,250 ♪ In the shadow, yeah, I shine ♪ 505 00:19:39,250 --> 00:19:40,333 ♪ They keep getting in my way ♪ 506 00:19:40,417 --> 00:19:42,042 ♪ Well, I ain't gonna let 'em ♪ 507 00:19:42,042 --> 00:19:45,125 - It's a little strange showing up to couples retreat, 508 00:19:45,208 --> 00:19:48,125 but I'm excited to see all the couples again, 509 00:19:48,208 --> 00:19:49,875 spend some time with them. 510 00:19:49,875 --> 00:19:51,958 The only nerves I have going into this weekend 511 00:19:52,042 --> 00:19:56,167 is just how receptive Lauren will be to conversations. 512 00:19:56,208 --> 00:19:58,375 We have not spoken since the wedding, 513 00:19:58,458 --> 00:20:01,375 for no other reason than, you know, 514 00:20:01,458 --> 00:20:03,292 I really don't know how to open the conversation. 515 00:20:03,375 --> 00:20:06,000 But my intention for this retreat 516 00:20:06,083 --> 00:20:07,667 is wanting to smooth things over, 517 00:20:07,750 --> 00:20:10,250 wanting to try and build a bridge, 518 00:20:10,333 --> 00:20:11,625 just wanting to talk to Lauren. 519 00:20:11,708 --> 00:20:13,000 - I forgot my hangover-- 520 00:20:13,042 --> 00:20:14,250 - What? - Orion! 521 00:20:14,333 --> 00:20:16,458 - What's up? - There he is. 522 00:20:16,542 --> 00:20:18,125 - How's it going? - Hey, Orion. 523 00:20:18,208 --> 00:20:19,542 - We've been waiting for you for so long. 524 00:20:19,667 --> 00:20:20,958 - I brought some beers. - Thank you. 525 00:20:21,042 --> 00:20:22,292 I'll take those. 526 00:20:22,375 --> 00:20:23,833 - You look fantastic. - I do? 527 00:20:23,875 --> 00:20:26,167 - I like your stache. - Yeah, it's nicely shaved. 528 00:20:26,292 --> 00:20:29,167 What's up, man? How are you? 529 00:20:29,250 --> 00:20:30,750 - Orion, how was your drive? 530 00:20:30,875 --> 00:20:32,542 - It was pretty long, actually. 531 00:20:32,625 --> 00:20:34,500 There was more traffic than I thought there would be. 532 00:20:34,542 --> 00:20:35,625 - Glad you're here. - Yeah. 533 00:20:35,708 --> 00:20:37,250 - Yeah. - I'm glad to be here. 534 00:20:37,375 --> 00:20:38,958 - Do a little cheers to you coming. 535 00:20:39,042 --> 00:20:40,458 - Thank you, guys, so much for... 536 00:20:40,542 --> 00:20:42,292 - You need to see this house. It's literally insane. 537 00:20:42,375 --> 00:20:43,958 - Inviting me, yeah. 538 00:20:44,042 --> 00:20:45,500 - Yeah, I mean, I had so much fun 539 00:20:45,542 --> 00:20:47,583 with you and Lauren and all of us together at the wedding. 540 00:20:47,667 --> 00:20:48,958 - Mm-hmm. 541 00:20:49,042 --> 00:20:51,167 - Nothing but, like, good things, 542 00:20:51,292 --> 00:20:54,167 at least I saw, which was so, like, great to see. 543 00:20:54,250 --> 00:20:56,375 So I'm assuming you guys-- nothing dramatic 544 00:20:56,458 --> 00:20:58,042 has happened since then, and we're carrying that 545 00:20:58,125 --> 00:20:59,875 into this weekend? - Yeah. 546 00:20:59,958 --> 00:21:01,792 You know, that's the hope. 547 00:21:01,875 --> 00:21:03,125 I mean, I've got all my fingers crossed. 548 00:21:03,208 --> 00:21:04,333 - OK. 549 00:21:04,417 --> 00:21:06,000 - But no, I mean, the wedding was 550 00:21:06,083 --> 00:21:08,000 actually the first time Lauren and I had actually spoken. 551 00:21:08,042 --> 00:21:09,500 - Oh. - Because-- 552 00:21:09,542 --> 00:21:11,500 - You would never have known that. 553 00:21:11,625 --> 00:21:14,042 - Yeah, we show-- we were able to show 554 00:21:14,125 --> 00:21:15,833 civilities to one another. 555 00:21:15,875 --> 00:21:17,833 You know, we were able to talk about things, 556 00:21:17,917 --> 00:21:21,292 not at such a intense level, but to acknowledge things, 557 00:21:21,375 --> 00:21:23,292 which felt nice. 558 00:21:23,375 --> 00:21:25,333 I'm really just hoping that, you know, 559 00:21:25,375 --> 00:21:27,292 how it was at the wedding is how it will be 560 00:21:27,375 --> 00:21:29,958 through the rest of it. - Yeah. 561 00:21:30,042 --> 00:21:33,333 - Positive vibes only. - Mm-hmm. 562 00:21:33,375 --> 00:21:35,042 - Do you know anything about this place yet? 563 00:21:35,125 --> 00:21:37,542 - Nope. - Arcade, [bleep] Skee-Ball. 564 00:21:37,625 --> 00:21:39,042 - You guys want to check out the arcade spot? 565 00:21:39,125 --> 00:21:41,542 - Let's go! - Yes! 566 00:21:41,625 --> 00:21:44,208 - ♪ If I ride, we all right 567 00:21:44,292 --> 00:21:45,958 ♪ Yeah, we coming outside 568 00:21:46,042 --> 00:21:49,000 ♪ Gotta always sacrifice for the team win, team win ♪ 569 00:21:49,042 --> 00:21:51,583 ♪ Team win, team win 570 00:21:51,667 --> 00:21:53,750 - You know, I was a little bit apprehensive 571 00:21:53,833 --> 00:21:57,000 to come to the retreat because Cameron 572 00:21:57,042 --> 00:22:00,042 and I are not together, 573 00:22:00,167 --> 00:22:02,167 and I feel bad about having fun 574 00:22:02,250 --> 00:22:04,750 while he's recovering from his surgery. 575 00:22:04,875 --> 00:22:07,292 Hello? - Hello, hello. 576 00:22:07,375 --> 00:22:09,167 - Is that Clare? - This is so nice. 577 00:22:09,208 --> 00:22:11,000 - Hello. - This is so nice. 578 00:22:11,167 --> 00:22:12,583 - Yeah, you should go find the boys. 579 00:22:12,667 --> 00:22:13,833 They're on a tour right now. - Are they? 580 00:22:13,917 --> 00:22:15,708 Hello, hello. 581 00:22:15,833 --> 00:22:18,125 But then I took a step back and was like, "You know what? 582 00:22:18,208 --> 00:22:19,792 "No, this is an opportunity for me 583 00:22:19,875 --> 00:22:21,958 "to just be around the other couples 584 00:22:22,042 --> 00:22:24,292 and let loose, have some fun 585 00:22:24,375 --> 00:22:25,708 with all of them. - How are you? 586 00:22:25,833 --> 00:22:27,000 - Hello. 587 00:22:27,083 --> 00:22:27,875 I saw your green machine out there. 588 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:29,292 - Oh, yeah? 589 00:22:29,375 --> 00:22:30,333 - And I'm like, "Orion is in the house." 590 00:22:30,417 --> 00:22:32,833 - What's up, Clare? - Hello. 591 00:22:32,875 --> 00:22:35,625 ♪ 592 00:22:35,708 --> 00:22:38,000 - ♪ I say, "Hold me in your pocket" ♪ 593 00:22:38,125 --> 00:22:39,458 - Oh, yeah. 594 00:22:39,542 --> 00:22:40,958 - Oh, you're just getting my ass. 595 00:22:41,042 --> 00:22:42,542 ♪ 596 00:22:42,667 --> 00:22:43,958 - Oh, I'm not even-- - Yeah, it is March Madness. 597 00:22:44,042 --> 00:22:46,750 Guys? 598 00:22:46,833 --> 00:22:49,708 Guys, should we go get ready for dinner? 599 00:22:49,792 --> 00:22:51,167 - We should go get ready for dinner. 600 00:22:51,250 --> 00:22:52,958 - Yeah, let's do it. - Sounds good. 601 00:22:53,042 --> 00:22:55,708 - Nice ass. - Sports. 602 00:22:55,792 --> 00:22:56,875 - Sports. - I am legit playing. 603 00:22:57,042 --> 00:22:58,500 - Yeah, me too. 604 00:22:58,583 --> 00:23:01,667 - I can do that all day. - Whoo-whee! 605 00:23:01,750 --> 00:23:04,500 ♪ 606 00:23:04,583 --> 00:23:07,542 - ♪ I'm gonna get loud again 607 00:23:07,625 --> 00:23:10,042 ♪ And I'm gonna go party with my friends ♪ 608 00:23:10,125 --> 00:23:11,750 ♪ 'Cause it's not the end 609 00:23:11,833 --> 00:23:13,917 ♪ It's just the start, the beginning ♪ 610 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:15,167 - My green top. 611 00:23:15,250 --> 00:23:17,208 - Oh, love it. 612 00:23:17,333 --> 00:23:20,000 Mwah, perfecto. 613 00:23:20,083 --> 00:23:21,917 - All right, I think it's time. 614 00:23:22,042 --> 00:23:24,042 ♪ 615 00:23:24,125 --> 00:23:25,875 - Yeah, single file. 616 00:23:25,958 --> 00:23:27,917 Love it. 617 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:29,542 - ♪ The night is never gonna end ♪ 618 00:23:29,625 --> 00:23:31,333 - Where should we sit? 619 00:23:31,458 --> 00:23:33,667 - Ooh. - OK. 620 00:23:33,750 --> 00:23:35,000 - Yeah, I don't know where to sit. 621 00:23:35,042 --> 00:23:36,417 I'll sit on the other side. 622 00:23:36,500 --> 00:23:37,625 I'll sit across from you guys. - OK. 623 00:23:37,708 --> 00:23:39,000 - OK. 624 00:23:39,083 --> 00:23:41,458 - I'll sit next to you, Clare. - Love that. 625 00:23:41,542 --> 00:23:42,958 I like that everyone calls me Clare, not Claire. 626 00:23:43,042 --> 00:23:45,000 [laughter] 627 00:23:45,083 --> 00:23:46,417 This is so fun. 628 00:23:46,500 --> 00:23:47,625 - Is Lauren coming or anyone know? 629 00:23:47,708 --> 00:23:48,625 - Yeah, she'll be here soon. 630 00:23:48,708 --> 00:23:51,042 - She's on her way. 631 00:23:51,125 --> 00:23:52,583 - Cheers, everyone. - Cheers. 632 00:23:52,667 --> 00:23:54,000 - Cheers. - Cheers. 633 00:23:57,042 --> 00:24:00,083 - This is cute. 634 00:24:00,208 --> 00:24:03,917 Since the wedding, Orion and I have not spoken. 635 00:24:03,917 --> 00:24:05,917 Just disappointing. 636 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,333 Based upon what he told me at Mike's wedding, 637 00:24:08,417 --> 00:24:10,667 he let me know he wanted to be friends. 638 00:24:10,792 --> 00:24:13,125 But friendship requires effort. 639 00:24:13,208 --> 00:24:14,667 - Hey. - Hey, guys. 640 00:24:14,750 --> 00:24:16,917 - Lauren! - Come on in. 641 00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:18,833 - Welcome. 642 00:24:18,958 --> 00:24:22,250 - It is very exhausting hearing him say 643 00:24:22,333 --> 00:24:25,000 that he wants to initiate contact 644 00:24:25,042 --> 00:24:27,000 and he wants to have a friendship, 645 00:24:27,042 --> 00:24:30,042 and then there's absolutely no follow through. 646 00:24:30,042 --> 00:24:34,042 So I'm hoping for some bonding with the wives. 647 00:24:34,042 --> 00:24:35,333 - Lauren, would you like some wine? 648 00:24:35,375 --> 00:24:36,417 - Yes, please. 649 00:24:36,542 --> 00:24:38,625 - Oh, is that your glass? 650 00:24:38,708 --> 00:24:40,958 - I like the glasses that have, like, the finger imprints. 651 00:24:41,042 --> 00:24:42,000 - Yeah. - Yeah, me too. 652 00:24:42,083 --> 00:24:43,375 - Those are cool. 653 00:24:43,542 --> 00:24:45,167 - I'm not really looking for anything 654 00:24:45,208 --> 00:24:47,292 from Orion or with Orion. 655 00:24:47,375 --> 00:24:53,833 ♪ 656 00:24:58,000 --> 00:24:59,125 [upbeat music] 657 00:24:59,208 --> 00:25:00,708 ♪ 658 00:25:00,792 --> 00:25:02,375 - Family dinner. - Family dinner. 659 00:25:02,458 --> 00:25:04,833 - Hi. - We're just the cutest. 660 00:25:04,875 --> 00:25:06,458 - Can we cheers again now that Lauren is here? 661 00:25:06,542 --> 00:25:07,542 - Cheers. - Cheers. 662 00:25:07,625 --> 00:25:11,042 - Cheers again, again, again. 663 00:25:11,125 --> 00:25:13,583 - Yeah. - Cheers. 664 00:25:13,708 --> 00:25:15,667 - Like, it's gonna be fun. 665 00:25:15,750 --> 00:25:17,208 It's--we're gonna have a lot of fun together. 666 00:25:17,292 --> 00:25:18,333 - Yeah. 667 00:25:18,458 --> 00:25:19,667 - We have massages tomorrow. 668 00:25:19,750 --> 00:25:20,875 - Yeah, a massage. - Ooh, nice. 669 00:25:20,958 --> 00:25:21,792 - I'm so jealous. 670 00:25:21,875 --> 00:25:23,500 - I got a massage earlier today, 671 00:25:23,625 --> 00:25:24,500 and it felt really good. - You did? 672 00:25:24,583 --> 00:25:25,500 - Yeah. - Good for you. 673 00:25:25,583 --> 00:25:27,000 - Self care, baby. 674 00:25:27,083 --> 00:25:28,917 - So what is anyone else looking forward to? 675 00:25:28,917 --> 00:25:30,458 - Should I just, like, brag about me being a good friend 676 00:25:30,542 --> 00:25:32,000 and I booked us ATV? 677 00:25:32,083 --> 00:25:33,625 - Who, all of us? 678 00:25:33,708 --> 00:25:35,375 - No, like, for Brennan and I. - Oh. 679 00:25:35,458 --> 00:25:36,917 - Sorry. 680 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:38,667 I thought it would be fun because we've done 681 00:25:38,708 --> 00:25:40,750 all the elements. We did water. We did snow. 682 00:25:40,875 --> 00:25:43,125 So now we'll do cold and sun and vroom-vroom. 683 00:25:43,208 --> 00:25:44,750 - Keep rubbing it in. 684 00:25:44,833 --> 00:25:47,667 - I hope you both crash and get serious road rash. 685 00:25:47,750 --> 00:25:50,083 - I mean, please don't because we know my track record. 686 00:25:50,167 --> 00:25:52,375 [laughter] 687 00:25:52,458 --> 00:25:54,542 ♪ 688 00:25:54,625 --> 00:25:56,792 - Obviously, couples retreat is looking 689 00:25:56,875 --> 00:25:58,958 a little different these days. 690 00:25:59,042 --> 00:26:01,917 You know, take out the couples. And I think this retreat is-- 691 00:26:02,042 --> 00:26:06,750 this retreat is--is good for, like, you know, self-growth, 692 00:26:06,875 --> 00:26:10,625 but obviously, the reality of the situation 693 00:26:10,708 --> 00:26:12,917 is it's not how I expected, which is OK. 694 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:15,833 But now I'm just gonna, like, take this time to, 695 00:26:15,875 --> 00:26:17,833 you know, grow. - Me too. 696 00:26:17,917 --> 00:26:19,125 - Yeah. 697 00:26:19,208 --> 00:26:20,958 - And this--I mean, we had a conversation, 698 00:26:21,042 --> 00:26:24,958 but I feel like in the spirit of healing, I decided to come. 699 00:26:25,042 --> 00:26:27,375 I was a little not hesitant, but I just 700 00:26:27,375 --> 00:26:32,125 didn't know what value I could get from a couples retreat, 701 00:26:32,208 --> 00:26:35,083 just because, as I said to Clare a few days ago, 702 00:26:35,208 --> 00:26:37,333 I feel like a couples retreat is more so to, like, 703 00:26:37,417 --> 00:26:39,333 strengthen the bond between couples 704 00:26:39,375 --> 00:26:40,917 and, like, be around other couples 705 00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:43,000 who have that same goal in mind. 706 00:26:43,125 --> 00:26:44,667 And with that not being my goal, 707 00:26:44,750 --> 00:26:46,167 I, like, went back and forth about, 708 00:26:46,208 --> 00:26:47,708 like, coming and not coming, 709 00:26:47,792 --> 00:26:49,542 and that's when I landed on coming. 710 00:26:49,625 --> 00:26:51,000 So I'm really looking to just kind of 711 00:26:51,083 --> 00:26:55,500 Zen out on this retreat and just stay grounded. 712 00:26:55,583 --> 00:26:57,750 I've had a really good month, and I feel like 713 00:26:57,750 --> 00:26:59,292 I just want to continue on that path. 714 00:26:59,375 --> 00:27:01,250 - I think it's really cool that both of you two 715 00:27:01,375 --> 00:27:04,250 are here, first of all. Like, really, that's huge. 716 00:27:04,333 --> 00:27:06,833 - I came for you. - [laughs] 717 00:27:06,917 --> 00:27:08,750 Yeah, no, but-- but I mean for yourselves, 718 00:27:08,833 --> 00:27:10,167 but the fact that you came for you. 719 00:27:10,208 --> 00:27:12,917 - Mm-hmm. - That's what's cool to me. 720 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:15,833 - I guess to add to that, I know that Lauren and I 721 00:27:15,875 --> 00:27:18,667 aren't at the same level as other couples, 722 00:27:18,750 --> 00:27:21,125 other people, 723 00:27:21,208 --> 00:27:23,583 but, you know, with that being said, you know, 724 00:27:23,708 --> 00:27:26,583 ultimately, yeah, I feel very proud about 725 00:27:26,667 --> 00:27:28,792 where we both are at. 726 00:27:28,875 --> 00:27:32,333 But I--I am looking to really kind of 727 00:27:32,375 --> 00:27:34,958 just turn the page on everything that's happened. 728 00:27:34,958 --> 00:27:36,458 - Mm-hmm. 729 00:27:36,542 --> 00:27:38,167 - And honestly, really try and open up 730 00:27:38,208 --> 00:27:40,917 a different narrative. 731 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:42,833 - I don't want to have a conversation with him 732 00:27:42,875 --> 00:27:44,583 because I'm just tired of getting my hopes up 733 00:27:44,708 --> 00:27:46,792 with conversations with Orion. 734 00:27:46,875 --> 00:27:49,167 When he brings things up in group settings, 735 00:27:49,250 --> 00:27:52,542 it doesn't seem authentic. It doesn't seem real. 736 00:27:52,625 --> 00:27:54,625 It feels like it's more to save face 737 00:27:54,708 --> 00:27:57,667 in front of our friends. 738 00:27:57,708 --> 00:27:59,667 [tense music] 739 00:27:59,708 --> 00:28:01,625 - Honestly, Lauren, I am glad you're here. 740 00:28:01,708 --> 00:28:02,833 I'm glad you showed up. 741 00:28:02,917 --> 00:28:04,542 It makes me feel better in a way 742 00:28:04,625 --> 00:28:06,625 that I don't really know how to explain, 743 00:28:06,708 --> 00:28:08,333 but I'm happy you're here. 744 00:28:08,375 --> 00:28:09,542 - Glad to be seen. 745 00:28:09,625 --> 00:28:14,500 ♪ 746 00:28:14,625 --> 00:28:17,500 [soft pop music] 747 00:28:17,583 --> 00:28:23,417 ♪ 748 00:28:40,625 --> 00:28:42,458 - Austin! 749 00:28:42,542 --> 00:28:45,167 - ♪ Thought you were the type who gets to have a life ♪ 750 00:28:45,167 --> 00:28:48,333 - Come here, little goatie. - Are these, like, clappers? 751 00:28:48,375 --> 00:28:51,833 - ♪ You might want to rush, but I will take my time ♪ 752 00:28:51,958 --> 00:28:53,208 ♪ And when I give it to you 753 00:28:53,292 --> 00:28:55,583 - Ah! - Is this you happy baby-ing? 754 00:28:55,667 --> 00:28:57,000 - Isn't that happy baby? 755 00:28:57,083 --> 00:28:59,750 - Yeah, but with the comforter, it's a bit much. 756 00:28:59,833 --> 00:29:03,542 It looked like happy tent baby, happy baby in tent. 757 00:29:03,667 --> 00:29:04,833 - I love you. Good night. 758 00:29:04,917 --> 00:29:06,417 - Love you. Good night. 759 00:29:06,542 --> 00:29:08,625 ♪ 760 00:29:08,625 --> 00:29:09,375 - All right. - Yeah. 761 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:13,500 - OK. 762 00:29:13,542 --> 00:29:14,750 - Come here. 763 00:29:14,875 --> 00:29:15,625 - I must. - I don't know why, but OK. 764 00:29:15,708 --> 00:29:17,167 ♪ 765 00:29:17,208 --> 00:29:20,625 - ♪ Tonight, tonight, tonight ♪ 766 00:29:20,708 --> 00:29:23,542 ♪ 767 00:29:23,625 --> 00:29:25,458 - I really don't know what happened. 768 00:29:25,542 --> 00:29:27,625 He just rolled out of bed and went. 769 00:29:27,708 --> 00:29:30,583 [dramatic pop music] 770 00:29:30,708 --> 00:29:32,000 ♪ 771 00:29:32,042 --> 00:29:34,667 He had said, "So just so you know, 772 00:29:34,792 --> 00:29:37,875 "I'm gonna go sleep in the big bedroom, 773 00:29:37,875 --> 00:29:39,667 and you can come if you want." 774 00:29:39,708 --> 00:29:42,333 ♪ 775 00:29:42,417 --> 00:29:47,875 And I still was like, "Well, like, you know, 776 00:29:47,958 --> 00:29:50,917 are we gonna do something?" 777 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:56,500 - ♪ You will not hold me down ♪ 778 00:29:56,583 --> 00:29:58,833 - And he just stood in the doorway 779 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,500 and was like, "I don't know, I don't know." 780 00:30:01,542 --> 00:30:03,917 He was just drunk and-- 781 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:05,958 but it didn't feel very inviting. 782 00:30:06,042 --> 00:30:07,833 It didn't feel like he was coming up behind me, 783 00:30:07,917 --> 00:30:09,833 kissing my neck, being like, "Hey, babe, 784 00:30:09,875 --> 00:30:11,167 like, let's go spend the night in this other room." 785 00:30:11,250 --> 00:30:14,708 Like, you know, just the typical ways 786 00:30:14,833 --> 00:30:16,667 that feel welcoming. 787 00:30:16,750 --> 00:30:18,667 ♪ 788 00:30:18,708 --> 00:30:20,292 It's really disappointing, for sure. 789 00:30:25,542 --> 00:30:26,708 [upbeat music] 790 00:30:26,792 --> 00:30:28,958 - ♪ I will fall asleep 791 00:30:29,042 --> 00:30:31,125 ♪ Now I'm caught in a dream 792 00:30:31,208 --> 00:30:34,833 ♪ Now, come on, come on, let's make it ours ♪ 793 00:30:34,917 --> 00:30:37,458 ♪ Come on, come on, let's make it ours ♪ 794 00:30:37,542 --> 00:30:41,083 ♪ 795 00:30:41,208 --> 00:30:43,667 - It might be garbage. - Aw. 796 00:30:43,750 --> 00:30:47,583 - But it's your morning routine, right? 797 00:30:47,667 --> 00:30:51,167 - Oh, that's very sweet. 798 00:30:51,167 --> 00:30:54,125 - But like I said, it might be garbage. 799 00:30:54,208 --> 00:30:56,083 - It's the thought that counts. - Thank you. 800 00:30:56,167 --> 00:30:57,958 I don't make too much coffee, so... 801 00:30:58,042 --> 00:31:01,375 - That's really sweet. Thank you. 802 00:31:01,458 --> 00:31:03,583 - Did you get-- did you get your sleep in? 803 00:31:03,667 --> 00:31:06,000 - I actually really did. 804 00:31:06,125 --> 00:31:08,958 I was very tired. - Oh, I know. 805 00:31:09,042 --> 00:31:11,292 But I feel like you got to at least touch 806 00:31:11,375 --> 00:31:12,792 your normal routine because you were in bed 807 00:31:12,875 --> 00:31:14,708 pretty early last night. 808 00:31:14,792 --> 00:31:19,042 - 7:45, if my clock serves me right. 809 00:31:19,125 --> 00:31:21,375 - And you barely beat the sun. 810 00:31:21,458 --> 00:31:22,833 You barely beat it. 811 00:31:22,917 --> 00:31:25,958 - I was probably a little bit of a dark cloud 812 00:31:26,042 --> 00:31:28,833 moving into our space yesterday because I was just-- 813 00:31:28,917 --> 00:31:31,958 just--just overwhelmed a lot by everything 814 00:31:32,042 --> 00:31:33,833 and getting in here. 815 00:31:33,875 --> 00:31:35,667 As I warned you, getting in here 816 00:31:35,708 --> 00:31:37,667 was gonna be a lot for me emotionally. 817 00:31:37,708 --> 00:31:41,875 And--and it was, and I think I needed a good night's rest. 818 00:31:41,958 --> 00:31:43,917 And that's what I got, 819 00:31:44,042 --> 00:31:47,500 and now I'm feeling really happy 820 00:31:47,542 --> 00:31:49,708 and peaceful and hopeful 821 00:31:49,792 --> 00:31:51,292 and all the other good things, so... 822 00:31:51,375 --> 00:31:53,458 - Well, good, I mean, I hope you're not too hard on yourself 823 00:31:53,542 --> 00:31:55,167 about the overwhelming nature of everything. 824 00:31:55,333 --> 00:31:56,958 I mean, I know-- 825 00:31:57,042 --> 00:31:59,417 I know I might look like Iron Man. 826 00:31:59,500 --> 00:32:01,542 [laughter] 827 00:32:01,625 --> 00:32:03,500 Little Tony Stark action. 828 00:32:03,542 --> 00:32:06,458 But I mean, I feel the overwhelming nature of it too. 829 00:32:06,542 --> 00:32:08,417 I think we just kind of-- we have different ways 830 00:32:08,500 --> 00:32:09,917 of expressing it. 831 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:12,708 - You always manage to make me feel 832 00:32:12,875 --> 00:32:15,917 really happy and safe and calm, 833 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:18,083 and you just do nice, thoughtful things. 834 00:32:18,208 --> 00:32:20,375 It was the most considerate thing 835 00:32:20,458 --> 00:32:22,167 you could have done is letting me go to sleep 836 00:32:22,250 --> 00:32:24,667 and then waking me up with coffee. 837 00:32:24,792 --> 00:32:26,583 That's a whole husband right there. 838 00:32:26,667 --> 00:32:29,583 I don't think there could be a better match 839 00:32:29,667 --> 00:32:32,208 in this process than Michael. 840 00:32:32,292 --> 00:32:35,458 He is feeling all the emotions I'm feeling. 841 00:32:35,542 --> 00:32:37,708 I know he is because he's human, and he has to be. 842 00:32:37,833 --> 00:32:39,833 And yet, at the same time, he's saying, 843 00:32:39,917 --> 00:32:44,458 "Chloe needs me to be the rock of stability in this moment." 844 00:32:44,542 --> 00:32:48,958 I've just never had someone be so thoughtful and attentive 845 00:32:49,042 --> 00:32:52,833 and just making sure that I'm happy. 846 00:32:52,875 --> 00:32:54,667 He just has been a really wonderful 847 00:32:54,792 --> 00:32:56,208 support system so far. 848 00:32:56,292 --> 00:32:58,208 I'm excited to see your apartment. 849 00:32:58,292 --> 00:32:59,958 - Well, I'm excited to show it to you. 850 00:33:00,042 --> 00:33:02,000 I'm excited to see your living space too. 851 00:33:02,125 --> 00:33:04,625 I am just gonna warn you that, especially given 852 00:33:04,708 --> 00:33:07,208 your minimalist approach, my-- 853 00:33:07,292 --> 00:33:11,792 my--my closet might just seem like a lot. 854 00:33:11,875 --> 00:33:15,000 I mean, a lot of shoe boxes in there, too. 855 00:33:15,083 --> 00:33:17,708 - I'm just excited to see it. - It's not the most-- 856 00:33:17,833 --> 00:33:18,958 I mean, it's organized, but it could 857 00:33:19,042 --> 00:33:20,500 definitely be more organized. 858 00:33:20,583 --> 00:33:23,458 So you know, I would just say just brace-- 859 00:33:23,542 --> 00:33:25,625 brace for a little impact in there, that's all. 860 00:33:25,708 --> 00:33:29,542 ♪ 861 00:33:29,625 --> 00:33:33,417 - ♪ I try to blame time when it wants to blame you ♪ 862 00:33:33,542 --> 00:33:35,333 ♪ I'm so damn sick 863 00:33:35,375 --> 00:33:38,792 ♪ Hearing God's plan is the closest to true ♪ 864 00:33:38,875 --> 00:33:43,875 ♪ I needed to go through this to learn a lesson too ♪ 865 00:33:43,958 --> 00:33:46,083 - I haven't played basketball in a minute. 866 00:33:46,167 --> 00:33:47,583 - Me neither, so it should be fun. 867 00:33:47,667 --> 00:33:48,667 - It's been a long time. 868 00:33:48,750 --> 00:33:51,417 - I know, right? 869 00:33:51,500 --> 00:33:54,208 - I played basketball. Yeah, I'm short, but man. 870 00:33:54,292 --> 00:33:56,000 ♪ 871 00:33:56,083 --> 00:33:57,875 - OK, handles. 872 00:33:57,958 --> 00:34:00,875 ♪ 873 00:34:00,958 --> 00:34:03,750 - Rebound. 874 00:34:03,833 --> 00:34:04,833 - I feel like it's always good 875 00:34:04,917 --> 00:34:05,875 when we get together as a group. 876 00:34:05,958 --> 00:34:07,708 - Yeah. 877 00:34:07,792 --> 00:34:09,500 Ooh, that was close. 878 00:34:09,542 --> 00:34:12,417 I was apprehensive about coming because it's like, 879 00:34:12,500 --> 00:34:14,167 this is weird that I'm by myself. 880 00:34:14,292 --> 00:34:16,875 - Yeah. - But now it's just like, 881 00:34:16,958 --> 00:34:19,750 I kind of am enjoying it, you know? 882 00:34:19,833 --> 00:34:21,375 Like, it's very healing and freeing. 883 00:34:21,458 --> 00:34:23,167 Because I think if I didn't come, 884 00:34:23,250 --> 00:34:24,292 I would either be, like, you know, 885 00:34:24,375 --> 00:34:25,750 just sitting at the apartment... 886 00:34:25,833 --> 00:34:27,042 - Yeah. - As opposed to, like, 887 00:34:27,042 --> 00:34:28,583 being with people who I can talk to. 888 00:34:28,667 --> 00:34:30,333 You know what I mean? 889 00:34:30,375 --> 00:34:31,500 So it's just, like, good to feel supported right now. 890 00:34:31,583 --> 00:34:32,875 - That's good. 891 00:34:32,958 --> 00:34:34,333 I'm really glad you're in that space. 892 00:34:34,375 --> 00:34:35,500 - I mean, it-- it changes every single day. 893 00:34:35,583 --> 00:34:37,583 - Yeah. 894 00:34:37,667 --> 00:34:39,625 - It's like, I do want to have a conversation with Cameron, 895 00:34:39,708 --> 00:34:42,333 but at the same time, like, I think he really-- 896 00:34:42,417 --> 00:34:45,083 when he goes through stuff, he likes to do it alone. 897 00:34:45,208 --> 00:34:47,167 But I'm someone who's like, "No, I want to be here," 898 00:34:47,250 --> 00:34:50,250 You know? And I'm kind of pushing that, and it's like-- 899 00:34:50,333 --> 00:34:51,417 - How do you think he feels about that? 900 00:34:51,500 --> 00:34:53,250 - I don't know. 901 00:34:53,333 --> 00:34:55,000 Like, I'm not--like, I just try and check in as much-- 902 00:34:55,125 --> 00:34:56,458 because that's just who I am as a person, 903 00:34:56,542 --> 00:34:58,458 and I think he wants distance right now, 904 00:34:58,542 --> 00:35:00,125 which makes me feel sad because I'm, like, 905 00:35:00,208 --> 00:35:01,667 taking it personal when I shouldn't. 906 00:35:01,750 --> 00:35:03,083 - No. 907 00:35:03,167 --> 00:35:04,625 - It's literally him going through it. 908 00:35:04,708 --> 00:35:06,292 So I'm not gonna take it personally anymore. 909 00:35:06,375 --> 00:35:08,417 It just feels like, "Wow, I wish he did kind of, 910 00:35:08,542 --> 00:35:10,333 you know, lean on me maybe a little more," 911 00:35:10,417 --> 00:35:13,083 but I realize we're not all the same in that, 912 00:35:13,167 --> 00:35:14,917 and he--he just wants to process by himself. 913 00:35:15,042 --> 00:35:16,042 - Yeah. - You know? 914 00:35:16,125 --> 00:35:17,833 But it's just--it's normal. 915 00:35:17,833 --> 00:35:19,458 It's a normal feeling. 916 00:35:19,542 --> 00:35:21,167 - And I think it's normal that we're just, 917 00:35:21,250 --> 00:35:25,667 like, feeling all the feelings, too, and not being like, 918 00:35:25,708 --> 00:35:27,500 "No, everything's perfect, everything's perfect," 919 00:35:27,542 --> 00:35:29,042 because everything's not perfect. 920 00:35:29,167 --> 00:35:30,833 - No, no, exactly. 921 00:35:30,917 --> 00:35:33,208 But it's good that we can talk about that, you know? 922 00:35:33,333 --> 00:35:36,583 [soft dramatic music] 923 00:35:36,667 --> 00:35:39,125 - Maybe our marriages and partnerships 924 00:35:39,208 --> 00:35:41,917 didn't go the way we thought they would... 925 00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:43,458 - Right. - Coming into this, 926 00:35:43,542 --> 00:35:45,792 but we can still take a lot of growth out of this. 927 00:35:45,875 --> 00:35:48,125 - Yes. - I still feel like-- 928 00:35:48,125 --> 00:35:50,333 I still feel good about, like, being here. 929 00:35:50,417 --> 00:35:52,000 - Yeah, it's good energy. 930 00:35:52,042 --> 00:35:53,833 - It still just feels weird, I guess. 931 00:35:53,875 --> 00:35:55,292 - I feel that. - Yeah. 932 00:35:55,417 --> 00:35:56,917 - Well, and I-- and you and I are 933 00:35:57,000 --> 00:36:00,708 in different situations where, like, Cameron's not here and-- 934 00:36:00,708 --> 00:36:02,500 - Yeah, and y'all are on good terms, I feel like. 935 00:36:02,583 --> 00:36:04,833 - We are. We are on good terms. 936 00:36:04,875 --> 00:36:07,292 - And I feel like Orion and I aren't on bad terms. 937 00:36:07,375 --> 00:36:08,375 - Yeah, how does that feel for you? 938 00:36:08,500 --> 00:36:10,250 - We're just not on any terms. 939 00:36:10,375 --> 00:36:11,917 That's why it's weird when he says stuff. 940 00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:13,667 I feel like he's, like, addressing me 941 00:36:13,708 --> 00:36:16,250 in front of all of you all, like, "Oh, yeah, like, 942 00:36:16,333 --> 00:36:18,292 I'm so happy you're here, Lauren, blah, blah, blah." 943 00:36:18,375 --> 00:36:20,167 - That makes you feel weird. I see that. 944 00:36:20,250 --> 00:36:22,375 - It's like, "Who said that?" - I agree. 945 00:36:22,458 --> 00:36:24,375 Like, when he talks, it's to the group. 946 00:36:24,458 --> 00:36:27,250 Like, it just feels weird-- weird energy there. 947 00:36:27,333 --> 00:36:28,667 And I feel it, too, so I can't imagine 948 00:36:28,750 --> 00:36:30,208 how you're feeling. 949 00:36:30,333 --> 00:36:32,708 Has he ever pulled you aside and been like, "Hey, Lauren, 950 00:36:32,792 --> 00:36:35,000 "like, how are you doing? 951 00:36:35,083 --> 00:36:37,042 How are you feeling about this experience," you know? 952 00:36:37,125 --> 00:36:38,500 - No. 953 00:36:38,542 --> 00:36:41,667 Yeah, I-- I'm on that fence 954 00:36:41,750 --> 00:36:45,583 of do Orion and I need to talk about anything? 955 00:36:45,667 --> 00:36:48,583 Would it be worth anything? - Yeah. 956 00:36:48,667 --> 00:36:50,458 - I feel like any time I do try to talk, 957 00:36:50,542 --> 00:36:52,750 like, I leave more confused. - And that's not good for you. 958 00:36:52,833 --> 00:36:54,500 - I don't get clarity. 959 00:36:54,583 --> 00:36:59,042 I still have this lingering feeling 960 00:36:59,125 --> 00:37:00,875 of tension between us, and I don't know 961 00:37:00,958 --> 00:37:02,542 if that's ever gonna dissipate, 962 00:37:02,667 --> 00:37:04,917 and so at this point, I almost feel like 963 00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:06,708 it's a lost cause... - OK. 964 00:37:06,792 --> 00:37:10,708 - Because I'm not interested in a friendship. 965 00:37:10,833 --> 00:37:13,000 Because at this point, like, I don't know what I would gain 966 00:37:13,083 --> 00:37:15,208 out of a conversation with him. - Yeah. 967 00:37:15,208 --> 00:37:16,583 ♪ 968 00:37:20,667 --> 00:37:22,458 - ♪ Nothing's gonna stop me 969 00:37:22,542 --> 00:37:24,833 ♪ Ooh, yeah, ooh, yeah 970 00:37:24,875 --> 00:37:26,458 ♪ 971 00:37:26,542 --> 00:37:28,500 - You ready? - I am. 972 00:37:28,542 --> 00:37:30,208 Show me. 973 00:37:30,333 --> 00:37:32,417 - Welcome to my home. 974 00:37:32,500 --> 00:37:34,667 - This is cute. - [laughs] 975 00:37:34,708 --> 00:37:37,125 - You have a fireplace? - I have a fireplace. 976 00:37:37,208 --> 00:37:38,667 - Is it a real one? 977 00:37:38,792 --> 00:37:40,667 Like, well, I mean, do you actually use it? 978 00:37:40,750 --> 00:37:42,292 - Yeah, I do in the winter because it actually 979 00:37:42,375 --> 00:37:43,833 puts off a ton of heat... - I'm jealous. 980 00:37:43,917 --> 00:37:45,583 - Which is nice. 981 00:37:45,667 --> 00:37:47,708 - You have a trunk, like, for your coffee table? 982 00:37:47,792 --> 00:37:50,250 - So that's actually my grandpa's old Army trunk 983 00:37:50,333 --> 00:37:53,875 from World War II, and I refurbished the whole thing. 984 00:37:53,958 --> 00:37:55,583 It was just all black. 985 00:37:55,667 --> 00:37:57,333 - Oh, so, like, you painted these, like, 986 00:37:57,458 --> 00:37:59,167 yellow details on it and everything? 987 00:37:59,250 --> 00:38:02,750 - I refurbished the wood and put it all together. 988 00:38:02,833 --> 00:38:04,167 - I think you should bring this back to our place. 989 00:38:04,292 --> 00:38:05,292 - Is that what you'd like in the apartment? 990 00:38:05,375 --> 00:38:06,667 - Yeah, the gold pineapple. 991 00:38:06,750 --> 00:38:09,833 - I love a gold pineapple. I love my pineapple. 992 00:38:09,875 --> 00:38:10,833 - I think you should bring the pink globe. 993 00:38:10,875 --> 00:38:12,750 - Hot-pink globe. 994 00:38:12,833 --> 00:38:17,667 I feel like a hot-pink and gold globe feels very right. 995 00:38:17,750 --> 00:38:20,667 - You actually have more decorative accents 996 00:38:20,750 --> 00:38:23,708 here than I thought you would, with these. 997 00:38:23,833 --> 00:38:25,417 - Yes. - Your vases. 998 00:38:25,542 --> 00:38:27,417 - Love some pink flowers. 999 00:38:27,500 --> 00:38:29,958 - Your plant, your fake the funk plants here. 1000 00:38:30,042 --> 00:38:33,708 You have throw pillows. You have a historical trunk. 1001 00:38:33,833 --> 00:38:36,542 So you--you kind of undersold your-- 1002 00:38:36,625 --> 00:38:39,667 your decorative touches. - My minimalism. 1003 00:38:39,750 --> 00:38:41,500 - Because she's really championed this kind of 1004 00:38:41,583 --> 00:38:43,083 minimalist approach, so I thought 1005 00:38:43,167 --> 00:38:45,167 it was gonna be, like, sterile. 1006 00:38:45,250 --> 00:38:49,167 But Chloe might be a closet maximalist. 1007 00:38:49,208 --> 00:38:50,500 Like, she does have, like, little pockets 1008 00:38:50,583 --> 00:38:52,667 of flavor with the family heirloom 1009 00:38:52,750 --> 00:38:55,500 for a coffee table, and so I'm actually pretty impressed. 1010 00:38:55,500 --> 00:38:57,750 - It's a little messy. 1011 00:38:57,833 --> 00:38:59,792 - What I do really enjoy about seeing her place 1012 00:38:59,875 --> 00:39:02,375 is it just gives me a better understanding of, 1013 00:39:02,500 --> 00:39:04,458 like, what her normal life looks like, 1014 00:39:04,542 --> 00:39:06,542 and I think that will provide a lot of insight 1015 00:39:06,625 --> 00:39:08,542 as to what it will be like to live together. 1016 00:39:08,625 --> 00:39:10,083 I mean, I don't consider it messy 1017 00:39:10,167 --> 00:39:11,542 at all, but I feel like our-- 1018 00:39:11,667 --> 00:39:14,708 our closet spirits are in the same realm. 1019 00:39:14,792 --> 00:39:16,375 - Right. - They're in the same realm. 1020 00:39:16,458 --> 00:39:17,708 - I like the sound of it. 1021 00:39:17,792 --> 00:39:19,125 I'm gonna take that... - OK. 1022 00:39:19,208 --> 00:39:20,458 - And that. 1023 00:39:20,542 --> 00:39:22,667 I'll throw that in. - OK. 1024 00:39:22,750 --> 00:39:24,750 - Ah. - I see the Peloton action. 1025 00:39:24,875 --> 00:39:26,917 - The Peloton with my boxing gloves. 1026 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:28,333 - Look at that. 1027 00:39:28,375 --> 00:39:30,292 You just--was this a setup? 1028 00:39:30,375 --> 00:39:32,458 You're just trying to go after my heart, huh? 1029 00:39:32,542 --> 00:39:35,667 I thought you didn't really mess around with boxing. 1030 00:39:35,667 --> 00:39:39,333 - Yeah, so I was a part of a boxing fitness class. 1031 00:39:39,375 --> 00:39:41,250 - OK. Did you like it? 1032 00:39:41,333 --> 00:39:42,667 - I did like it. 1033 00:39:42,708 --> 00:39:44,875 My form could use a little work. 1034 00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:47,083 It's not something that you just pick up, you know, 1035 00:39:47,167 --> 00:39:48,292 immediately. You got to work on it. 1036 00:39:48,375 --> 00:39:49,750 - I learned that the hard way. 1037 00:39:49,833 --> 00:39:51,417 - Yeah, so my form could use a little work, 1038 00:39:51,500 --> 00:39:53,875 but yeah, I enjoyed it. It's a great workout. 1039 00:39:53,958 --> 00:39:57,000 I did not have a chance to get my duvet onto my comforter. 1040 00:39:57,083 --> 00:39:58,708 I could use your help. - Uh-huh. 1041 00:39:58,833 --> 00:40:01,458 - Just know that if I... - I feel like I need to get-- 1042 00:40:01,583 --> 00:40:02,917 I feel like I need to get undressed for this. 1043 00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:07,333 - If I don't come back out, it's because 1044 00:40:07,417 --> 00:40:12,000 I have gone into cardiac arrest. 1045 00:40:12,125 --> 00:40:13,833 - Oh, my. 1046 00:40:13,958 --> 00:40:16,083 There is an insane side of me that just wants to, like, 1047 00:40:16,167 --> 00:40:18,042 pull it over like that. 1048 00:40:18,167 --> 00:40:21,208 I want to, like, push you in it and, like, tie it. 1049 00:40:21,292 --> 00:40:24,583 - That's not kink. That's murder. 1050 00:40:24,708 --> 00:40:26,667 - I think it's important that you see how insane 1051 00:40:26,833 --> 00:40:28,583 this looks from my perspective. 1052 00:40:28,667 --> 00:40:32,250 - I've yet to find an easier way to do it. 1053 00:40:32,333 --> 00:40:34,000 - I just feel like I'm spectating, 1054 00:40:34,042 --> 00:40:36,250 which I'm perfectly fine with, to be honest with you. 1055 00:40:36,375 --> 00:40:39,000 - Now I'm just gonna come out. 1056 00:40:39,083 --> 00:40:40,875 ♪ 1057 00:40:40,958 --> 00:40:42,250 - Uh-huh. 1058 00:40:42,333 --> 00:40:44,000 - So thank you for your support. 1059 00:40:44,042 --> 00:40:45,958 - After experiencing that little mating dance 1060 00:40:46,042 --> 00:40:48,083 you did there with the duvet, I feel like I need a cigarette 1061 00:40:48,208 --> 00:40:50,042 after watching that. 1062 00:40:50,167 --> 00:40:52,333 - Oh, God. 1063 00:40:52,417 --> 00:40:54,708 The last thing that I thought... 1064 00:40:54,792 --> 00:40:58,833 [laughter] Was gonna turn Michael on 1065 00:40:58,958 --> 00:41:02,292 was me going into my duvet. [laughs] 1066 00:41:02,375 --> 00:41:04,708 That was funny, OK. 1067 00:41:04,833 --> 00:41:07,292 A little freaky, apparently. 1068 00:41:07,375 --> 00:41:10,375 OK, so what-- anything a little bit? 1069 00:41:10,375 --> 00:41:12,125 - I like these accessories you have. 1070 00:41:12,208 --> 00:41:15,208 I have a pearl necklace. - Do you? 1071 00:41:15,292 --> 00:41:16,333 - Can I try this on? 1072 00:41:16,375 --> 00:41:19,333 - I would be honored. 1073 00:41:19,375 --> 00:41:21,750 - You said that. You can't take that back. 1074 00:41:21,875 --> 00:41:24,750 [quirky music] 1075 00:41:24,875 --> 00:41:25,875 ♪ 1076 00:41:25,958 --> 00:41:27,458 Maybe I can just put it over my head. 1077 00:41:27,542 --> 00:41:28,750 - You need my help? - Yeah, please. 1078 00:41:28,833 --> 00:41:31,333 - Ordinarily, before I was a married woman, 1079 00:41:31,417 --> 00:41:33,833 never romantically entertained a man 1080 00:41:33,917 --> 00:41:36,167 that leans into his feminine side. 1081 00:41:36,208 --> 00:41:38,833 I'm definitely not sure how I feel about it yet. 1082 00:41:38,917 --> 00:41:41,625 I'm taking it one day at a time. 1083 00:41:41,708 --> 00:41:44,375 One day at a time. One day at a time. 1084 00:41:44,458 --> 00:41:46,000 That's me, taking it one day at a time. 1085 00:41:46,083 --> 00:41:48,458 - You know how you like wearing my clothes? 1086 00:41:48,542 --> 00:41:50,333 I might have to start borrowing your accessories. 1087 00:41:50,417 --> 00:41:52,083 - Yeah? 1088 00:41:52,167 --> 00:41:53,542 - Is this big one supposed to go in the middle, 1089 00:41:53,667 --> 00:41:54,583 or is it supposed to be off to the side? 1090 00:41:54,667 --> 00:41:55,875 - Just like that. - All right. 1091 00:41:55,958 --> 00:41:56,917 - Just like that. That feels right. 1092 00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:58,042 - It does. 1093 00:41:58,125 --> 00:41:59,833 - No, trust me, I know it feels right. 1094 00:41:59,917 --> 00:42:01,375 - OK. 1095 00:42:01,500 --> 00:42:02,833 I'm excited to see your apartment. 1096 00:42:02,917 --> 00:42:05,000 ♪ 1097 00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:08,375 - ♪ I got everything that I could want ♪ 1098 00:42:08,458 --> 00:42:11,333 ♪ I'm blessed 1099 00:42:11,458 --> 00:42:13,958 - Oh, I hear the pitter-patter. 1100 00:42:14,042 --> 00:42:17,917 - Hello. - Come on. 1101 00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,333 You have to--you have to greet her appropriately. 1102 00:42:20,417 --> 00:42:21,667 Let me show you how. 1103 00:42:21,750 --> 00:42:23,625 Anytime I--if I'm gone for a long time, 1104 00:42:23,708 --> 00:42:28,333 I make sure I get down here and just let her love me, huh? 1105 00:42:28,375 --> 00:42:31,083 I know. I know. 1106 00:42:31,167 --> 00:42:32,542 I know, baby. 1107 00:42:32,625 --> 00:42:34,417 And then that's-- that's Franklin. 1108 00:42:34,417 --> 00:42:36,458 He likes it right under his chin. 1109 00:42:36,542 --> 00:42:38,750 - Hi, babies. Hi, sweetheart. 1110 00:42:38,833 --> 00:42:41,583 Hello, darling. Oh, my goodness. 1111 00:42:41,708 --> 00:42:44,208 I have two precious little pups 1112 00:42:44,292 --> 00:42:48,458 who are staying with my cousins until we settle in. 1113 00:42:48,542 --> 00:42:52,417 And so my heart is bursting with love over Michael's pets. 1114 00:42:52,500 --> 00:42:54,542 I am so excited. 1115 00:42:54,667 --> 00:42:58,000 Oh, I can't wait to get them over to the new place 1116 00:42:58,042 --> 00:43:00,625 and just cuddle them all the time. 1117 00:43:00,708 --> 00:43:03,417 - So in homage to my childhood, an arcade. 1118 00:43:03,500 --> 00:43:05,333 It forces me to take breaks, you know? 1119 00:43:05,417 --> 00:43:07,500 - I like it. I like it. 1120 00:43:07,542 --> 00:43:10,333 - And my workstation is right over here. 1121 00:43:10,375 --> 00:43:13,583 ♪ 1122 00:43:13,667 --> 00:43:16,542 Bed, dresser. 1123 00:43:16,625 --> 00:43:18,708 - You're very organized. - I try to be. 1124 00:43:18,792 --> 00:43:20,667 OK, are you ready to see the closet? 1125 00:43:20,792 --> 00:43:23,458 - Oh. Are we ready, Melo? 1126 00:43:23,542 --> 00:43:25,333 - Are you ready? 1127 00:43:25,458 --> 00:43:26,375 - We're as ready as we're gonna be. 1128 00:43:26,458 --> 00:43:28,167 Open it up. 1129 00:43:28,208 --> 00:43:30,500 - So... - Holy smokes. 1130 00:43:30,542 --> 00:43:33,167 - I try to have some method to my madness. 1131 00:43:33,250 --> 00:43:35,583 So these are, like, sweater tops, right, like, 1132 00:43:35,667 --> 00:43:37,042 sweatshirts, hoodies. 1133 00:43:37,167 --> 00:43:39,542 All my suiting is here. 1134 00:43:39,625 --> 00:43:42,250 Then various, like, button-downs 1135 00:43:42,375 --> 00:43:46,333 are here, different trousers, and then all of this 1136 00:43:46,375 --> 00:43:48,083 would be denim. - OK. 1137 00:43:48,167 --> 00:43:50,250 His closet is not nearly as overwhelming 1138 00:43:50,333 --> 00:43:52,000 as I was expecting it to be. 1139 00:43:52,083 --> 00:43:55,792 I felt like I was about to walk into a Gucci store 1140 00:43:55,875 --> 00:43:58,875 and be overwhelmed by the size and the lighting. 1141 00:43:58,958 --> 00:44:02,000 - I do have an overflow top closet. 1142 00:44:02,042 --> 00:44:03,500 - No. 1143 00:44:03,542 --> 00:44:05,500 - So this would be just additional-- 1144 00:44:05,625 --> 00:44:08,042 - OK. - I mean, I'll probably-- 1145 00:44:08,125 --> 00:44:10,958 I definitely do want to bring some additional coats 1146 00:44:10,958 --> 00:44:12,125 because I want to see you wear them. 1147 00:44:12,208 --> 00:44:14,625 - OK. 1148 00:44:14,708 --> 00:44:16,958 - The pink puffer. - Oh, my gosh. 1149 00:44:17,042 --> 00:44:18,750 - I have to bring the pink. - What is happening? 1150 00:44:18,875 --> 00:44:20,583 - And you have to wear the pink puffer. 1151 00:44:20,667 --> 00:44:22,208 - All right, let me have that jacket. 1152 00:44:22,375 --> 00:44:23,958 - I got it. I got it. 1153 00:44:24,042 --> 00:44:27,750 - I feel like this was just always in my future. 1154 00:44:27,875 --> 00:44:29,500 We just didn't know it. Our paths hadn't crossed yet. 1155 00:44:29,583 --> 00:44:31,083 - Mm-hmm. 1156 00:44:31,167 --> 00:44:33,000 I think Chloe is really vibing with my [bleep], 1157 00:44:33,083 --> 00:44:36,125 you know, especially the coats, like, the way-- 1158 00:44:36,208 --> 00:44:37,917 I didn't even think about, like, throwing on, like, 1159 00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:40,000 the long ecru coat and then throwing 1160 00:44:40,042 --> 00:44:44,292 the pink microsuede, like, puffer jacket over it. 1161 00:44:44,292 --> 00:44:47,000 - I'm feeling great. 1162 00:44:47,083 --> 00:44:50,208 - She's been very, like, accepting and open 1163 00:44:50,292 --> 00:44:52,167 of just, like, different things I like to wear. 1164 00:44:52,250 --> 00:44:53,833 See, it reminds me, actually, of, like, 1165 00:44:53,958 --> 00:44:55,833 what a samurai would wear because it's shorts, 1166 00:44:55,958 --> 00:44:58,125 but you see how it has a flap in the front 1167 00:44:58,208 --> 00:44:59,875 and a flap in the back? 1168 00:44:59,958 --> 00:45:01,875 - It's a full-blown skirt. 1169 00:45:01,958 --> 00:45:04,208 - So that's what it is. - OK. 1170 00:45:04,292 --> 00:45:05,875 - In fairness, they're also super comfortable. 1171 00:45:05,958 --> 00:45:08,417 See? See how comfortable? 1172 00:45:08,500 --> 00:45:12,000 - So you've got more than one? Wow. 1173 00:45:12,042 --> 00:45:13,833 We're doing it. We're doing it. 1174 00:45:13,875 --> 00:45:15,833 I never, in a million years, 1175 00:45:15,917 --> 00:45:17,708 imagined that I would be married to a man 1176 00:45:17,833 --> 00:45:20,167 that owns more skirts than I do. 1177 00:45:20,250 --> 00:45:22,542 Just takes it to the next level. 1178 00:45:22,625 --> 00:45:25,875 ♪ 1179 00:45:25,958 --> 00:45:27,417 Yeah. 1180 00:45:27,500 --> 00:45:30,000 - I'm just hearing you say "Yeah." 1181 00:45:30,083 --> 00:45:31,417 ♪ 1182 00:45:31,500 --> 00:45:33,042 - Your dad wears skirts. 1183 00:45:33,125 --> 00:45:35,208 ♪ 1184 00:45:39,417 --> 00:45:42,333 - ♪ The beat won't stop 1185 00:45:42,417 --> 00:45:45,292 ♪ The beat won't stop 1186 00:45:45,375 --> 00:45:49,000 - All right, let's do this. 1187 00:45:49,167 --> 00:45:50,458 - Hi, guys. How are you doing? 1188 00:45:50,542 --> 00:45:51,833 - Hi. - How are you? 1189 00:45:51,875 --> 00:45:53,875 Good. Are we here for the escape package? 1190 00:45:53,958 --> 00:45:56,417 - Yeah, we are. - Sure thing. 1191 00:45:56,542 --> 00:45:57,792 - We're here to escape. 1192 00:45:57,875 --> 00:46:00,792 - I'm gonna take you back to this room. 1193 00:46:00,875 --> 00:46:03,542 - I'm feeling better this morning. 1194 00:46:03,625 --> 00:46:07,000 I felt defeated and rejected 1195 00:46:07,083 --> 00:46:09,875 when he ended up spending the night in another room, 1196 00:46:09,958 --> 00:46:11,708 but he did apologize. 1197 00:46:11,833 --> 00:46:14,583 I accepted Austin's apology, 1198 00:46:14,708 --> 00:46:16,917 and I am still hopeful to have 1199 00:46:16,917 --> 00:46:20,708 our first uninterrupted night 1200 00:46:20,792 --> 00:46:22,458 together on couples retreat. 1201 00:46:22,542 --> 00:46:23,917 ♪ 1202 00:46:24,042 --> 00:46:25,167 Wow. 1203 00:46:25,292 --> 00:46:26,333 - Oh. - Hello. 1204 00:46:26,417 --> 00:46:27,667 - Hi. 1205 00:46:27,708 --> 00:46:28,375 - Welcome to the [indistinct speech] 1206 00:46:28,500 --> 00:46:29,500 [laughter] 1207 00:46:29,583 --> 00:46:31,208 Are you ready? - Ready. 1208 00:46:31,333 --> 00:46:32,333 - All right, cool. 1209 00:46:32,417 --> 00:46:33,667 Is this your first beating? 1210 00:46:33,750 --> 00:46:35,000 - This is my first anything. 1211 00:46:35,083 --> 00:46:36,708 - OK, great. Well, welcome. 1212 00:46:36,792 --> 00:46:37,708 It's nice and hot in there. 1213 00:46:37,792 --> 00:46:38,833 I warmed it up for you. 1214 00:46:38,958 --> 00:46:40,333 - Can I have one of those hats? 1215 00:46:40,375 --> 00:46:42,042 - You're gonna have one of these hats. 1216 00:46:42,125 --> 00:46:43,542 You can take one of these hats right here. 1217 00:46:43,625 --> 00:46:45,417 - What does the hat do? 1218 00:46:45,542 --> 00:46:47,292 - The hat helps accumulate the heat up at the top of the head, 1219 00:46:47,375 --> 00:46:49,458 so you're not overheating in your head. 1220 00:46:49,542 --> 00:46:51,500 - Wow, OK. 1221 00:46:51,583 --> 00:46:52,667 - All right, sure, yeah, yeah. 1222 00:46:52,792 --> 00:46:53,375 - Put one of these fancy hats on. 1223 00:46:53,458 --> 00:46:55,167 - OK. 1224 00:46:55,208 --> 00:46:57,000 - We're gonna go in there, first warm up a little bit, 1225 00:46:57,125 --> 00:46:59,000 get you nice and sweaty, get the room nice and hot. 1226 00:46:59,083 --> 00:47:00,583 - OK. 1227 00:47:00,667 --> 00:47:02,375 - And we're gonna start the beatings. 1228 00:47:02,458 --> 00:47:03,750 We will beat you very good. 1229 00:47:03,750 --> 00:47:05,500 - [laughs] - All right? 1230 00:47:05,583 --> 00:47:06,667 - All right, sweet. 1231 00:47:06,792 --> 00:47:08,083 - Let's get in. After you. 1232 00:47:08,208 --> 00:47:10,333 - Thank you. - You want to expose-- 1233 00:47:10,417 --> 00:47:11,292 - This is bananas. 1234 00:47:11,375 --> 00:47:12,708 - Yeah. 1235 00:47:12,792 --> 00:47:14,000 You want to expose as much skin as possible, 1236 00:47:14,042 --> 00:47:15,375 so go ahead and take off the robes. 1237 00:47:15,500 --> 00:47:18,167 - Ah, this is insane. 1238 00:47:18,208 --> 00:47:19,750 ♪ 1239 00:47:19,875 --> 00:47:21,500 Oh, this is really hot. 1240 00:47:21,625 --> 00:47:23,333 - What's happening? 1241 00:47:23,375 --> 00:47:25,250 - Ready? 1242 00:47:25,375 --> 00:47:27,667 - Yes. 1243 00:47:27,833 --> 00:47:30,000 - It's kind of leading. - Yeah. 1244 00:47:30,083 --> 00:47:33,083 - That one's exfoliating. 1245 00:47:33,167 --> 00:47:36,000 - I was expecting a couple's massage 1246 00:47:36,042 --> 00:47:39,542 just at your typical American spa, 1247 00:47:39,667 --> 00:47:42,042 so this is different. Ah! 1248 00:47:42,125 --> 00:47:43,792 - Whew! 1249 00:47:43,875 --> 00:47:45,458 ♪ 1250 00:47:45,542 --> 00:47:47,208 - Ah! 1251 00:47:47,292 --> 00:47:49,000 But it was surprisingly relaxing. 1252 00:47:49,083 --> 00:47:50,458 Ah! 1253 00:47:50,542 --> 00:47:52,000 It's an ice cube. 1254 00:47:52,083 --> 00:47:53,250 - You're not gonna be able to go step by step. 1255 00:47:53,375 --> 00:47:54,375 - Watch me. 1256 00:47:54,458 --> 00:47:56,500 - She is. She is. 1257 00:47:56,583 --> 00:47:58,458 - Ah, I'm scared! My nipples! 1258 00:47:58,542 --> 00:48:01,333 Holy [bleep]. 1259 00:48:01,375 --> 00:48:03,542 It probably didn't look relaxing, but it was relaxing. 1260 00:48:03,625 --> 00:48:08,375 - ♪ I found you alone in a crowded room ♪ 1261 00:48:08,458 --> 00:48:11,000 - The boob is out. 1262 00:48:11,042 --> 00:48:13,333 - I think a spa day is a great couple's activity. 1263 00:48:13,417 --> 00:48:16,833 Just, like, any activity that bonds you is amazing, 1264 00:48:16,917 --> 00:48:19,583 and massages are bonding. 1265 00:48:19,708 --> 00:48:22,250 ♪ 1266 00:48:22,375 --> 00:48:24,375 - So how was that for you? - That was great. 1267 00:48:24,458 --> 00:48:27,167 - Yeah? - I was hesitant at first. 1268 00:48:27,208 --> 00:48:30,458 - I think you did great. - Thank you. 1269 00:48:30,542 --> 00:48:32,417 - You took the beating. 1270 00:48:32,500 --> 00:48:35,417 You got in the cold tub. 1271 00:48:35,500 --> 00:48:39,333 You almost did the bucket dump. - Uh-huh. 1272 00:48:39,417 --> 00:48:41,833 [tender music] 1273 00:48:41,917 --> 00:48:44,000 I've never seen you look sexier, 1274 00:48:44,125 --> 00:48:47,083 so definitely feeling intimate. 1275 00:48:47,208 --> 00:48:48,583 Does this feel intimate for you? 1276 00:48:48,708 --> 00:48:50,583 - Very. 1277 00:48:50,667 --> 00:48:51,667 I'm really enjoying it. 1278 00:48:51,792 --> 00:48:53,042 - Thanks. 1279 00:48:53,167 --> 00:48:55,083 Happy to hear that. - Yeah. 1280 00:48:55,208 --> 00:49:00,125 Like, I know we have our ups and downs, 1281 00:49:00,208 --> 00:49:04,167 and we kind of know what the issues are. 1282 00:49:04,292 --> 00:49:06,708 And, like, I think we're-- 1283 00:49:06,833 --> 00:49:09,875 I hope you feel the same way that, like, 1284 00:49:09,875 --> 00:49:11,917 we're working on it, and things are, like, 1285 00:49:12,042 --> 00:49:14,125 getting better. - Yeah, definitely. 1286 00:49:14,250 --> 00:49:16,333 I know any relationship, any marriage, 1287 00:49:16,375 --> 00:49:18,917 has its trials and tribulations. 1288 00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:20,667 And we're feeling that, but... 1289 00:49:20,750 --> 00:49:22,417 - Yeah. 1290 00:49:22,500 --> 00:49:25,500 - The whole point is to push through 1291 00:49:25,583 --> 00:49:28,292 and figure it out together, and that's what we're doing. 1292 00:49:28,375 --> 00:49:29,833 - Yeah. 1293 00:49:29,958 --> 00:49:31,167 - That's what we will continue to do. 1294 00:49:31,208 --> 00:49:32,375 - Yeah. 1295 00:49:32,458 --> 00:49:33,792 - I'm glad that you're on that train. 1296 00:49:33,875 --> 00:49:35,875 - I'm on it. 1297 00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:39,000 - That means that we can get massages all the time. 1298 00:49:39,083 --> 00:49:42,042 Cheers to marriage, happiness and... 1299 00:49:42,167 --> 00:49:43,542 - Health, wealth. 1300 00:49:43,667 --> 00:49:45,833 - A lifetime of massages 1301 00:49:45,958 --> 00:49:49,833 every day from here on out together. 1302 00:49:49,875 --> 00:49:54,125 - ♪ You changed my heart 1303 00:49:54,208 --> 00:49:56,250 ♪ You changed, you changed 1304 00:49:56,250 --> 00:49:58,750 The hat is just so sexy. - [laughs] 1305 00:49:58,750 --> 00:50:00,542 Good. I'm wearing it tonight. 1306 00:50:04,625 --> 00:50:05,708 [upbeat music] 1307 00:50:05,792 --> 00:50:07,500 ♪ 1308 00:50:07,500 --> 00:50:10,500 - I definitely feel, like, an extra level of comfort 1309 00:50:10,500 --> 00:50:12,250 talking with Pastor Cal. 1310 00:50:12,375 --> 00:50:15,000 He's just--he's so charismatic and just so welcoming. 1311 00:50:15,125 --> 00:50:16,833 So I'm looking forward to seeing him. 1312 00:50:16,875 --> 00:50:18,500 - It's gonna be good. 1313 00:50:18,583 --> 00:50:20,292 - Right after, like, we get to get ready for the retreat 1314 00:50:20,375 --> 00:50:21,458 and everything. 1315 00:50:21,542 --> 00:50:22,917 Like, I feel like this is a good-- 1316 00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:24,458 this is a good start to our weekend. 1317 00:50:24,583 --> 00:50:25,667 - Pastor Cal is gonna set the tone for the weekend. 1318 00:50:25,750 --> 00:50:27,167 - That's true. 1319 00:50:27,250 --> 00:50:28,167 I'm gonna ask a huge question right now 1320 00:50:28,250 --> 00:50:29,708 that I'm trying to grapple with. 1321 00:50:29,792 --> 00:50:32,000 When are you gonna allow me to borrow those earrings? 1322 00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:34,875 Just one. I don't think I'll wear both. 1323 00:50:34,875 --> 00:50:37,000 Just one. - You know what? 1324 00:50:37,083 --> 00:50:39,000 As soon as Pastor Cal leaves-- 1325 00:50:39,042 --> 00:50:40,583 - Oh, no, you get them for today. 1326 00:50:40,667 --> 00:50:42,958 No, they're yours-- they're yours today. 1327 00:50:43,042 --> 00:50:44,000 - Yeah. - You know, I'm just-- 1328 00:50:44,125 --> 00:50:45,292 I'm future planning. 1329 00:50:45,375 --> 00:50:46,458 - Yeah. - Future planning. 1330 00:50:46,542 --> 00:50:48,958 - Yeah. - I'm planting that seed now. 1331 00:50:49,042 --> 00:50:50,750 - Yeah. - Do you feel packed? 1332 00:50:50,875 --> 00:50:52,333 - I feel packed. 1333 00:50:52,375 --> 00:50:53,875 I'm gonna need to throw a few-- 1334 00:50:54,000 --> 00:50:55,333 oh. - Oh. 1335 00:50:55,375 --> 00:50:57,792 Visitor time. - Knock-knock. 1336 00:50:57,917 --> 00:50:59,917 - Really, our first visitor. 1337 00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:01,667 Technically, our first visitor. 1338 00:51:01,708 --> 00:51:04,250 - Hey. 1339 00:51:04,333 --> 00:51:06,167 - It's awesome to see you. - What's up, buddy? 1340 00:51:06,292 --> 00:51:08,000 How you doing? - Doing well. 1341 00:51:08,125 --> 00:51:10,375 - Hi, gorgeous. How are you? 1342 00:51:10,458 --> 00:51:11,958 - So good. 1343 00:51:12,042 --> 00:51:13,250 How are you? - Thank you. 1344 00:51:13,375 --> 00:51:15,417 That was a great hug. - I know. 1345 00:51:15,500 --> 00:51:17,250 I need to step up my hug game. 1346 00:51:17,333 --> 00:51:19,750 I need to step up my hug game. - No, man. 1347 00:51:19,833 --> 00:51:21,042 No, you're good, you're good. 1348 00:51:21,125 --> 00:51:22,792 Aw, it's good to see you guys. 1349 00:51:22,792 --> 00:51:24,042 - We're so happy to have you. 1350 00:51:24,125 --> 00:51:25,375 - Welcome to our humble abode here. 1351 00:51:25,500 --> 00:51:26,292 - Let's talk. 1352 00:51:26,375 --> 00:51:29,458 Let's sit down. What a view. 1353 00:51:29,542 --> 00:51:32,083 - I know. Isn't it beautiful? 1354 00:51:32,167 --> 00:51:34,958 - You guys, first of all, you look great together. 1355 00:51:35,042 --> 00:51:37,167 - Thank you. - You do. 1356 00:51:37,208 --> 00:51:38,667 You look like--you look like someone matched you. 1357 00:51:38,792 --> 00:51:40,333 I mean-- - Weird, huh? 1358 00:51:40,458 --> 00:51:41,750 - Oh, wait. 1359 00:51:41,833 --> 00:51:44,167 But no, really, you guys look great together. 1360 00:51:44,250 --> 00:51:48,875 So glad that we had a chance to do better, OK, because-- 1361 00:51:48,958 --> 00:51:50,333 and I think we did do better. 1362 00:51:50,375 --> 00:51:53,833 - Oh, 100%. There's no doubt. There's no doubt. 1363 00:51:53,875 --> 00:51:57,833 - There's a certain kind of maturity that I see here. 1364 00:51:57,917 --> 00:51:59,417 - Yeah. 1365 00:51:59,500 --> 00:52:01,667 I don't know if two years ago, 1366 00:52:01,750 --> 00:52:05,333 I would have had the mental, 1367 00:52:05,417 --> 00:52:07,500 emotional, and physical strength 1368 00:52:07,625 --> 00:52:11,542 to be a part of marrying a stranger and-- 1369 00:52:11,625 --> 00:52:14,250 - Or this kind of stranger. - This stranger. 1370 00:52:14,333 --> 00:52:15,833 - Especially this kind of stranger. 1371 00:52:15,917 --> 00:52:17,375 - This man is wearing my jewelry. 1372 00:52:17,458 --> 00:52:18,833 I don't know if you caught on to that. 1373 00:52:18,875 --> 00:52:21,000 - Are you serious? - We--we-- 1374 00:52:21,083 --> 00:52:23,125 we are fully leaning into it. 1375 00:52:23,208 --> 00:52:24,458 Like, she-- on our honeymoon, 1376 00:52:24,542 --> 00:52:26,333 she was wearing, like, some of my sweaters 1377 00:52:26,417 --> 00:52:28,500 and, like, my flannel. And then when we-- 1378 00:52:28,625 --> 00:52:30,083 - Look, I get that. 1379 00:52:30,167 --> 00:52:31,333 My wife wears my shirts. - Sure. 1380 00:52:31,417 --> 00:52:32,458 - OK? 1381 00:52:32,542 --> 00:52:34,458 But I don't wear her earrings. 1382 00:52:34,542 --> 00:52:36,000 - He's been eyeing the earrings that are in my ears right now. 1383 00:52:36,083 --> 00:52:38,000 He's ready to put them in, just one of them. 1384 00:52:38,125 --> 00:52:40,458 - You know what? You know, OK-- 1385 00:52:40,542 --> 00:52:43,333 OK, what are your feelings about-- 1386 00:52:43,417 --> 00:52:46,375 about this very unorthodox human 1387 00:52:46,458 --> 00:52:48,458 that we've matched you with? 1388 00:52:48,542 --> 00:52:50,042 - I'm not used to a man wearing my earrings. 1389 00:52:50,167 --> 00:52:52,375 - [laughs] 1390 00:52:52,458 --> 00:52:53,958 By the way, don't be PC with me. 1391 00:52:54,042 --> 00:52:56,708 Is that--is that OK with you? 1392 00:52:56,792 --> 00:52:59,458 - It's--it's--it's-- 1393 00:52:59,542 --> 00:53:00,917 - Because if you don't want him to wear your earrings, 1394 00:53:01,042 --> 00:53:02,125 it's OK. - It is OK. 1395 00:53:02,208 --> 00:53:03,500 You can say no. 1396 00:53:03,583 --> 00:53:05,208 - It's not that it's my earrings. 1397 00:53:05,292 --> 00:53:06,875 It's not that it's my pearl necklace. 1398 00:53:06,958 --> 00:53:10,583 It is just he is vastly different 1399 00:53:10,708 --> 00:53:13,250 from any other man that I've ever been 1400 00:53:13,333 --> 00:53:15,542 in a relationship with, dated, 1401 00:53:15,625 --> 00:53:17,333 really interacted with romantically 1402 00:53:17,417 --> 00:53:21,000 in any way, shape, and form, truthfully. 1403 00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:23,208 And so, a man that leans so heavily 1404 00:53:23,292 --> 00:53:25,667 into his feminine side is just new territory 1405 00:53:25,750 --> 00:53:29,208 for me to navigate. And, ah, you know, it's-- 1406 00:53:29,333 --> 00:53:33,708 I think in anything that you're not expecting, 1407 00:53:33,792 --> 00:53:35,375 it just takes time. 1408 00:53:35,458 --> 00:53:36,708 - Now you had mentioned-- you used the word "feminine." 1409 00:53:36,792 --> 00:53:38,500 - Mm-hmm. 1410 00:53:38,583 --> 00:53:40,083 - And you admit that you have a feminine side 1411 00:53:40,167 --> 00:53:41,292 and a masculine side. - Oh, for sure. 1412 00:53:41,375 --> 00:53:42,417 - Yeah. You know, isn't it-- 1413 00:53:42,500 --> 00:53:44,333 isn't it kind of interesting 1414 00:53:44,417 --> 00:53:48,083 and a little sad, actually, that traits that involve 1415 00:53:48,167 --> 00:53:50,500 nurturing, that involve sensitivity, 1416 00:53:50,542 --> 00:53:53,000 care, that they're referred to as feminine? 1417 00:53:53,042 --> 00:53:54,833 - For sure. 1418 00:53:54,875 --> 00:53:59,167 - He's a very unique persona here, you know, 1419 00:53:59,250 --> 00:54:01,792 which I-- I appreciate, you know? 1420 00:54:01,875 --> 00:54:03,333 But I want to-- 1421 00:54:03,375 --> 00:54:05,250 I'm not married to him, you know? 1422 00:54:05,333 --> 00:54:08,917 I want to know, how are you reconciling that? 1423 00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:11,917 - My norm has not worked for me. 1424 00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:14,625 What you've given me is a man 1425 00:54:14,708 --> 00:54:17,417 that I would have never chosen for myself, truthfully. 1426 00:54:17,500 --> 00:54:19,417 So this is not-- we are not two people 1427 00:54:19,500 --> 00:54:21,375 coming together saying, "Yep, I would have 1428 00:54:21,458 --> 00:54:23,167 picked you out in a bar". - Right, right, right. 1429 00:54:23,250 --> 00:54:25,375 - And-- and truthfully, I-- 1430 00:54:25,375 --> 00:54:28,083 I asked for that man that had the heart of gold. 1431 00:54:28,167 --> 00:54:30,208 That's the man that you gave me. 1432 00:54:30,208 --> 00:54:33,583 I value his authentic self 1433 00:54:33,667 --> 00:54:35,583 more than I value whether or not 1434 00:54:35,708 --> 00:54:38,750 we're walking into a restaurant, 1435 00:54:38,833 --> 00:54:41,958 and people are like, "What is going on over there?" 1436 00:54:42,042 --> 00:54:44,333 There are all of these elements 1437 00:54:44,375 --> 00:54:47,042 that I've always wanted. 1438 00:54:47,125 --> 00:54:50,917 And if someone a little more feminine 1439 00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:54,667 than what I've always gone for is where I'm gonna find it, 1440 00:54:54,750 --> 00:54:56,458 we're gonna give it our best shot. 1441 00:54:56,542 --> 00:54:59,458 And we're gonna see where we land. 1442 00:54:59,542 --> 00:55:02,542 - As long as there's a mutual comfort, 1443 00:55:02,625 --> 00:55:06,542 a mutual respect, and value for who you are, 1444 00:55:06,625 --> 00:55:08,583 then that's a good foundation. 1445 00:55:08,667 --> 00:55:11,000 Now is that--is your understanding of each other 1446 00:55:11,083 --> 00:55:12,542 and your acceptance of each other, 1447 00:55:12,625 --> 00:55:14,833 is that bringing on any emotional connection? 1448 00:55:14,875 --> 00:55:17,333 - I think our emotional connection is building 1449 00:55:17,417 --> 00:55:18,917 every single day, and really, 1450 00:55:19,000 --> 00:55:20,458 I think we've gained some really positive momentum. 1451 00:55:20,542 --> 00:55:22,000 - Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 1452 00:55:22,042 --> 00:55:23,458 You would agree with that? 1453 00:55:23,542 --> 00:55:25,833 - We have, you know, a strong level of comfort 1454 00:55:25,875 --> 00:55:29,583 that I think is a good sign of, like, the emotional connection 1455 00:55:29,667 --> 00:55:31,500 that we're building and kind of, like, 1456 00:55:31,583 --> 00:55:33,667 the recognition of, like, what we value 1457 00:55:33,792 --> 00:55:37,250 and what we need to cultivate. - There's no awkwardness there? 1458 00:55:37,375 --> 00:55:39,167 - Yeah, and I'm actually-- that's actually 1459 00:55:39,292 --> 00:55:40,833 what I was gonna jump into. 1460 00:55:40,917 --> 00:55:43,375 Like, we haven't mystified, like, being comfortable 1461 00:55:43,458 --> 00:55:45,167 around each other, right? 1462 00:55:45,250 --> 00:55:46,375 - But I want you to want each other. 1463 00:55:46,375 --> 00:55:47,625 - For sure. Of course, I do. 1464 00:55:47,708 --> 00:55:50,333 Like, I-- I recognize that, you know? 1465 00:55:50,417 --> 00:55:52,375 - That's what a mature relationship-- 1466 00:55:52,458 --> 00:55:54,000 - I just put you out there. - Yeah, you did. 1467 00:55:54,042 --> 00:55:55,375 - Are you OK with that? 1468 00:55:55,500 --> 00:55:57,333 - Are you OK with that, though, that he says, 1469 00:55:57,417 --> 00:56:00,000 you know, he looks at you, and he's like, "Oh, yeah"? 1470 00:56:00,083 --> 00:56:01,667 - I would be-- 1471 00:56:01,792 --> 00:56:03,833 I think we would be having a very different conversation 1472 00:56:03,875 --> 00:56:06,000 if he didn't. 1473 00:56:06,083 --> 00:56:09,167 If he wasn't like, "Let me get a piece of my wife..." 1474 00:56:09,208 --> 00:56:10,833 - Right. 1475 00:56:10,875 --> 00:56:12,167 - You know, like, well-- 1476 00:56:12,333 --> 00:56:13,500 - You'd have a problem. - Pack it up. 1477 00:56:13,583 --> 00:56:15,333 - Right, no. - We gotta go. 1478 00:56:15,375 --> 00:56:17,000 - Exactly. No, I like that. 1479 00:56:17,083 --> 00:56:18,667 No, no, really. 1480 00:56:18,750 --> 00:56:19,875 And--but you guys have discussed that? 1481 00:56:19,958 --> 00:56:21,333 - Mm. - Mm-hmm. 1482 00:56:21,375 --> 00:56:23,792 - In about 5,000 different ways. 1483 00:56:23,875 --> 00:56:26,208 So you've--you've brought us to this place where 1484 00:56:26,292 --> 00:56:28,792 we're very directly saying to one another, 1485 00:56:28,875 --> 00:56:30,833 here's where we're at. - Good. 1486 00:56:30,917 --> 00:56:32,208 - Yeah. 1487 00:56:32,292 --> 00:56:34,250 - So I want you to want each other 1488 00:56:34,333 --> 00:56:36,417 and to desire each other, even if you're 1489 00:56:36,500 --> 00:56:40,083 not acting on those desires. 1490 00:56:40,167 --> 00:56:43,000 - I'm in a point in my life where, of course, 1491 00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:45,792 there's physical elements of intimacy that I enjoy. 1492 00:56:45,875 --> 00:56:48,542 But in the hierarchy of things, 1493 00:56:48,625 --> 00:56:51,250 what really brings true satisfaction, 1494 00:56:51,333 --> 00:56:53,250 in my opinion, from an intimate standpoint 1495 00:56:53,375 --> 00:56:55,125 is when you have that emotional element 1496 00:56:55,208 --> 00:56:56,708 that's wrapped into that. 1497 00:56:56,708 --> 00:56:58,833 I don't think there's a hindrance, per se, 1498 00:56:58,875 --> 00:57:01,333 but I think it's incumbent upon us 1499 00:57:01,375 --> 00:57:04,417 to develop and continue to develop and foster 1500 00:57:04,542 --> 00:57:06,042 that emotional connection. 1501 00:57:06,125 --> 00:57:07,333 - How do you feel? 1502 00:57:07,417 --> 00:57:08,667 - Yeah, it's-- it's been important 1503 00:57:08,708 --> 00:57:10,000 to me from moment one. 1504 00:57:10,042 --> 00:57:12,333 So for me-- 1505 00:57:12,375 --> 00:57:13,958 - Physical-- I mean emotional intimacy? 1506 00:57:14,042 --> 00:57:16,333 - Having emotional-- having an emotional connection 1507 00:57:16,375 --> 00:57:18,333 prior to physical intimacy. - Mm-hmm. 1508 00:57:18,417 --> 00:57:19,792 - Yeah, we know all these things 1509 00:57:19,875 --> 00:57:21,458 about each other, but I'm not-- 1510 00:57:21,542 --> 00:57:23,250 we're not there emotionally yet. 1511 00:57:23,333 --> 00:57:24,667 We're not-- we're not experiencing 1512 00:57:24,708 --> 00:57:26,000 what I need to experience. 1513 00:57:26,042 --> 00:57:28,583 - Give yourselves permission to be married. 1514 00:57:28,667 --> 00:57:30,417 What I hear a lot of people saying, 1515 00:57:30,542 --> 00:57:31,667 "Well, we're still strangers. We're still strangers." 1516 00:57:31,708 --> 00:57:33,250 Eh, you're not. - No, we're not. 1517 00:57:33,375 --> 00:57:34,542 - We are not strangers. 1518 00:57:34,625 --> 00:57:35,417 - We are definitely not strangers. 1519 00:57:35,542 --> 00:57:36,708 - You're not. 1520 00:57:36,833 --> 00:57:38,042 - We are quite far from strangers. 1521 00:57:38,125 --> 00:57:39,708 - Yeah, you're not strangers. 1522 00:57:39,708 --> 00:57:41,333 Let me tell you, you have permission to have sex. 1523 00:57:41,458 --> 00:57:42,917 - Yeah. 1524 00:57:43,042 --> 00:57:45,500 - Sometimes it doesn't click that we're married. 1525 00:57:45,542 --> 00:57:48,750 - We are married. - Yeah, and that it's OK. 1526 00:57:48,875 --> 00:57:50,833 You know, it's OK to show emotion. 1527 00:57:50,875 --> 00:57:52,708 It's OK to show affection. It's OK. 1528 00:57:52,792 --> 00:57:54,208 You don't have to pump the brakes. 1529 00:57:54,292 --> 00:57:56,083 - Yeah. - Yeah. 1530 00:57:56,083 --> 00:57:58,208 ♪ 1531 00:57:58,208 --> 00:57:59,583 - ♪ Do it for the... ♪ 1532 00:58:03,375 --> 00:58:05,375 [upbeat music] 1533 00:58:05,375 --> 00:58:07,667 ♪ 1534 00:58:07,750 --> 00:58:08,667 - I'm so excited for this. 1535 00:58:08,750 --> 00:58:10,958 Brennan and I are ATVing. 1536 00:58:11,042 --> 00:58:15,750 We do like to do, like, fun, more thrilling stuff. 1537 00:58:15,833 --> 00:58:17,875 So I thought this would be a fun thing to do. 1538 00:58:17,958 --> 00:58:20,042 I am only for positive vibes this weekend. 1539 00:58:20,167 --> 00:58:23,333 Maybe some more, like, living on the edge vibes. 1540 00:58:23,417 --> 00:58:25,083 ♪ 1541 00:58:25,167 --> 00:58:27,542 Just good vibes. 1542 00:58:29,833 --> 00:58:36,667 ♪ 1543 00:58:38,167 --> 00:58:41,208 - ♪ I feel like I've been fighting ♪ 1544 00:58:41,333 --> 00:58:44,375 ♪ Oh, is how I feel about you ♪ 1545 00:58:44,458 --> 00:58:47,000 ♪ Just like a bolt of lightning ♪ 1546 00:58:47,083 --> 00:58:49,125 - At this point, Emily and I are just, 1547 00:58:49,208 --> 00:58:51,792 you know, working on the friendship aspect 1548 00:58:51,875 --> 00:58:54,583 of our relationship, and we haven't gotten to do 1549 00:58:54,667 --> 00:58:55,583 a fun adventure in a while. 1550 00:59:04,708 --> 00:59:06,875 - I'm just looking forward to going out there, 1551 00:59:06,958 --> 00:59:09,625 get some fresh air, and do some more adventuring together. 1552 00:59:14,625 --> 00:59:17,167 - Whoo! Let's do this [bleep]. 1553 00:59:17,208 --> 00:59:18,042 ♪ 1554 00:59:20,250 --> 00:59:24,167 ♪ 1555 00:59:24,208 --> 00:59:27,417 - Yeah, buddy! 1556 00:59:27,500 --> 00:59:29,750 - ♪ I gave you all my love 1557 00:59:29,833 --> 00:59:31,792 ♪ You wanted more and more 1558 00:59:31,875 --> 00:59:34,958 ♪ 1559 00:59:35,042 --> 00:59:37,083 ♪ I tried to keep the peace 1560 00:59:37,167 --> 00:59:39,333 ♪ You wanted war, war 1561 00:59:39,375 --> 00:59:40,792 ♪ 1562 00:59:40,875 --> 00:59:42,750 ♪ You never let me in 1563 00:59:42,833 --> 00:59:44,333 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah 1564 00:59:44,417 --> 00:59:46,542 ♪ You only play to win 1565 00:59:46,625 --> 00:59:48,208 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah 1566 00:59:48,292 --> 00:59:50,208 ♪ You're like a tornado 1567 00:59:50,292 --> 00:59:53,333 ♪ Hate the way you say 1568 00:59:53,375 --> 01:00:00,292 ♪ 1569 01:00:05,958 --> 01:00:08,083 - Is she all right? - [bleep]. 1570 01:00:10,583 --> 01:00:11,500 - Can you call 911? 1571 01:00:11,583 --> 01:00:13,167 - Oh, [bleep]. 1572 01:00:13,250 --> 01:00:16,167 [tense music] 1573 01:00:16,250 --> 01:00:20,792 ♪ 1574 01:00:20,792 --> 01:00:21,792 - Yeah, guys, we got lots of blood. 1575 01:00:21,875 --> 01:00:23,625 She's cut her head open. 1576 01:00:29,583 --> 01:00:31,417 - You're OK. 1577 01:00:31,500 --> 01:00:32,667 - I think we need to get her out of here 1578 01:00:32,708 --> 01:00:35,667 and get an ambulance. She's bleeding a lot. 1579 01:00:35,750 --> 01:00:38,417 - That's a lot of blood, guys. 1580 01:00:38,542 --> 01:00:40,417 - Excuse me. 1581 01:00:40,417 --> 01:00:41,333 All right, are you guys good to stay 1582 01:00:41,417 --> 01:00:42,625 with her right now? 1583 01:00:42,708 --> 01:00:43,833 - Yeah, guys, we got lots of blood. 1584 01:00:43,958 --> 01:00:46,000 - [bleep]. 1585 01:00:46,042 --> 01:00:49,833 ♪ 1586 01:00:49,958 --> 01:00:51,750 - I want to you sit right here. 1587 01:00:51,875 --> 01:00:53,833 I got 911 on their way. 1588 01:00:53,917 --> 01:01:00,667 ♪ 1589 01:01:00,708 --> 01:01:02,125 This is them. 1590 01:01:02,208 --> 01:01:04,208 ♪ 1591 01:01:04,375 --> 01:01:06,333 Right through there. 1592 01:01:06,417 --> 01:01:11,167 ♪ 1593 01:01:11,208 --> 01:01:13,583 - You're OK. 1594 01:01:13,667 --> 01:01:15,292 You're OK. 1595 01:01:15,375 --> 01:01:20,250 ♪ 1596 01:01:20,375 --> 01:01:21,833 - Let me see. 1597 01:01:21,875 --> 01:01:25,000 Do you know where you are right now? 1598 01:01:25,083 --> 01:01:30,292 ♪ 1599 01:01:30,375 --> 01:01:31,917 - Em, you OK? 1600 01:01:32,042 --> 01:01:34,000 - [bleep]. 1601 01:01:34,083 --> 01:01:37,792 ♪ 1602 01:01:37,792 --> 01:01:39,375 It's [bleep] bad. 1603 01:01:39,458 --> 01:01:46,333 ♪ 1604 01:01:48,833 --> 01:01:51,792 [sirens blaring] 1605 01:01:54,542 --> 01:01:56,333 [upbeat music] 1606 01:01:56,417 --> 01:01:57,833 - Hi, everybody. 1607 01:01:57,917 --> 01:02:00,000 - Next time on "Married at First Sight." 1608 01:02:00,083 --> 01:02:02,500 ♪ 1609 01:02:02,583 --> 01:02:04,417 - ♪ Shake it, shake it 1610 01:02:04,500 --> 01:02:06,167 ♪ Shake it from head to toe 1611 01:02:06,208 --> 01:02:08,000 ♪ Shake it, shake it 1612 01:02:08,042 --> 01:02:09,917 ♪ Give it your heart and soul ♪ 1613 01:02:10,042 --> 01:02:12,042 - That's your mans. - Wow. 1614 01:02:12,125 --> 01:02:13,542 Like, my husband is crushing it. 1615 01:02:13,667 --> 01:02:16,667 - What? - It's a total turn-on. 1616 01:02:16,750 --> 01:02:19,250 - I would really like to build a bridge 1617 01:02:19,333 --> 01:02:22,667 because I am missing our connection. 1618 01:02:22,750 --> 01:02:25,917 - This is some bull[bleep]. 1619 01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:29,000 - It doesn't feel good to, like, have to beg to be wanted. 1620 01:02:29,083 --> 01:02:31,708 - I was hoping tonight would end on a good note, 1621 01:02:31,792 --> 01:02:33,625 and now I feel like that's not happening. 1622 01:02:33,708 --> 01:02:36,625 [tense music] 1623 01:02:36,708 --> 01:02:39,042 ♪ 1624 01:02:39,125 --> 01:02:42,000 - I'm just praying and hoping everything is OK, 1625 01:02:42,083 --> 01:02:45,042 but I'm here. In sickness and in health. 1626 01:02:45,125 --> 01:02:47,042 ♪