1 00:00:02,125 --> 00:00:04,292 [cheers and applause] 2 00:00:04,375 --> 00:00:07,583 - Four newlywed couples took a daring leap of faith 3 00:00:07,708 --> 00:00:09,042 to find love. 4 00:00:09,125 --> 00:00:10,917 They married complete strangers. 5 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:12,292 [cheers and applause] 6 00:00:12,375 --> 00:00:14,625 [upbeat music] 7 00:00:14,708 --> 00:00:16,833 Last time, the honeymoon had concluded, 8 00:00:16,875 --> 00:00:20,167 and the couples settled into married life back in Denver. 9 00:00:20,250 --> 00:00:22,042 ♪ 10 00:00:22,125 --> 00:00:24,083 Becca and Austin. 11 00:00:24,208 --> 00:00:26,458 Can you see love in the future? 12 00:00:26,542 --> 00:00:30,208 - I already have told him that, like, I love him as a person. 13 00:00:30,333 --> 00:00:31,958 - Yeah. No, I feel the same way. 14 00:00:32,042 --> 00:00:34,167 - I think you guys have planted the seeds, 15 00:00:34,292 --> 00:00:36,333 and you're already growing in love. 16 00:00:36,417 --> 00:00:37,333 - Sure. 17 00:00:37,417 --> 00:00:38,250 ♪ 18 00:00:38,333 --> 00:00:40,667 - Clare and Cameron. 19 00:00:40,792 --> 00:00:44,500 - I feel that religion does not prepare my children adequately 20 00:00:44,583 --> 00:00:46,333 for the world that they're facing. 21 00:00:46,375 --> 00:00:48,250 - Don't agree, but I do respect it. 22 00:00:48,250 --> 00:00:50,375 - We're still finding out that there's a lot 23 00:00:50,458 --> 00:00:51,917 we don't know about each other. 24 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:53,625 - But I think you guys have come a long way. 25 00:00:53,708 --> 00:00:55,208 You know? - I think so, too. 26 00:00:55,292 --> 00:00:56,875 ♪ 27 00:00:56,958 --> 00:00:59,000 - Emily and Brennan. 28 00:00:59,042 --> 00:01:00,333 - I just need you to tell me 29 00:01:00,417 --> 00:01:02,500 if you're physically attracted to me or not. 30 00:01:02,583 --> 00:01:03,958 - I just can't. 31 00:01:04,042 --> 00:01:05,500 - So you just answered that question 32 00:01:05,583 --> 00:01:07,417 by, like, not answering the question. 33 00:01:07,500 --> 00:01:09,167 [voice breaking] I know, like, this isn't a reflection on me, 34 00:01:09,208 --> 00:01:12,000 but it still, like, just sucks to, like, deal with. 35 00:01:12,083 --> 00:01:13,583 - I'm still willing to try. 36 00:01:13,667 --> 00:01:15,625 - Lauren and Orion. 37 00:01:15,708 --> 00:01:19,500 - I want to follow through with wanting a divorce. 38 00:01:19,583 --> 00:01:20,792 ♪ 39 00:01:20,875 --> 00:01:24,333 - Lauren, do you want a divorce? 40 00:01:24,375 --> 00:01:26,000 - It doesn't matter what I want. 41 00:01:26,083 --> 00:01:29,000 [dramatic music] 42 00:01:29,125 --> 00:01:36,125 ♪ 43 00:01:38,167 --> 00:01:39,833 - ♪ You wanted the one you wanna say... ♪ 44 00:01:39,917 --> 00:01:41,500 - And tonight... 45 00:01:41,583 --> 00:01:44,583 our couples will get to see their friends and family 46 00:01:44,667 --> 00:01:47,042 for the first time since the wedding. 47 00:01:47,125 --> 00:01:50,333 - [surfer voice] Oh, dude! This is totally rad. 48 00:01:50,458 --> 00:01:51,500 [chuckles] 49 00:01:51,583 --> 00:01:53,667 - She's hands down the smartest girl 50 00:01:53,667 --> 00:01:56,583 I've ever been lucky enough to be in a relationship with. 51 00:01:56,583 --> 00:01:59,833 - I'm a bit, like, worried and upset. 52 00:01:59,917 --> 00:02:01,500 ♪ 53 00:02:01,542 --> 00:02:03,208 - Do whatever it is that you need. 54 00:02:03,333 --> 00:02:04,458 - I don't need anything. 55 00:02:04,542 --> 00:02:06,333 ♪ 56 00:02:06,417 --> 00:02:09,167 - I'm, like, ready to, like, bend on that, 57 00:02:09,208 --> 00:02:11,833 and I think that he-- I don't know if he is yet. 58 00:02:11,917 --> 00:02:13,333 ♪ 59 00:02:13,417 --> 00:02:15,208 - Don't sit here and act like you understand. 60 00:02:15,333 --> 00:02:17,417 - I do [bleep] understand. - I'm not making excuses. 61 00:02:17,500 --> 00:02:19,167 Okay, so you're just coming at me out of woodwork-- 62 00:02:19,250 --> 00:02:20,667 - I haven't said anything. 63 00:02:20,750 --> 00:02:23,167 I've been asking you questions, right? 64 00:02:23,250 --> 00:02:24,542 - Uh-huh. - Who are you? 65 00:02:24,667 --> 00:02:26,375 Why are you here? 66 00:02:26,458 --> 00:02:28,833 - I'm, like--I don't know-- lost, actually. 67 00:02:28,917 --> 00:02:32,000 ♪ 68 00:02:32,042 --> 00:02:33,208 [upbeat music] 69 00:02:33,292 --> 00:02:34,625 - ♪ It's all or nothing 70 00:02:34,708 --> 00:02:37,292 - This is "Married at First Sight." 71 00:02:37,375 --> 00:02:38,958 - ♪ There's no other way 72 00:02:39,083 --> 00:02:40,333 ♪ 73 00:02:40,375 --> 00:02:42,708 ♪ It's all or nothing 74 00:02:42,792 --> 00:02:45,333 ♪ 75 00:02:45,375 --> 00:02:48,333 - ♪ It's what it feels like when you're sitting ♪ 76 00:02:48,333 --> 00:02:49,625 ♪ On top of the world 77 00:02:49,708 --> 00:02:51,042 ♪ 78 00:02:51,167 --> 00:02:52,875 - Happy birthday. You hungry? 79 00:02:52,958 --> 00:02:54,292 - Yeah. 80 00:02:54,375 --> 00:02:56,500 - You still feeling like lying in bed? 81 00:02:56,625 --> 00:02:59,125 - Yeah. - Nice. Do you have a book? 82 00:02:59,125 --> 00:03:00,542 - Yeah. - All right. 83 00:03:00,625 --> 00:03:02,875 What if I made you breakfast in bed? 84 00:03:02,958 --> 00:03:04,000 - Yeah. 85 00:03:04,042 --> 00:03:05,500 - All right. 86 00:03:05,583 --> 00:03:07,792 Let's do this. - No, you do this. 87 00:03:07,875 --> 00:03:08,875 Now, look. 88 00:03:08,875 --> 00:03:10,750 ♪ 89 00:03:10,875 --> 00:03:13,292 You go, honey. - [chuckles] 90 00:03:13,375 --> 00:03:15,792 Okay. - I pay you in kisses? 91 00:03:15,875 --> 00:03:17,708 ♪ 92 00:03:17,792 --> 00:03:19,583 - Boop. Make it quick. 93 00:03:19,667 --> 00:03:20,792 Boop. Okay. 94 00:03:20,875 --> 00:03:22,500 ♪ 95 00:03:22,625 --> 00:03:24,542 - After our conversation with Pastor Cal, you know, 96 00:03:24,625 --> 00:03:27,500 he urged us not to wait and to go in 97 00:03:27,542 --> 00:03:30,167 as soon as possible, so I decided to move in 98 00:03:30,250 --> 00:03:32,333 with Emily tomorrow. 99 00:03:32,458 --> 00:03:35,292 - TGIF--so happy today is Friday. 100 00:03:35,375 --> 00:03:37,167 Ready for the weekend. 101 00:03:37,208 --> 00:03:39,000 Ready to move in tomorrow. 102 00:03:39,042 --> 00:03:40,875 I have so much to do, 103 00:03:40,958 --> 00:03:43,000 I feel like, in order to do that. 104 00:03:43,042 --> 00:03:44,583 But I'm really excited. 105 00:03:44,667 --> 00:03:46,750 - And then we have our housewarming party, so... 106 00:03:46,833 --> 00:03:48,750 It's gonna be with all of our friends. 107 00:03:48,833 --> 00:03:51,208 So we're very excited about that and excited to show them 108 00:03:51,292 --> 00:03:53,125 the apartment, so it should be a good time. 109 00:03:53,208 --> 00:03:55,708 ♪ 110 00:03:55,708 --> 00:03:57,458 - You need to get in here, Cameron. 111 00:03:57,542 --> 00:03:58,625 - No. 112 00:03:58,625 --> 00:04:00,542 - You know, Cameron and I-- 113 00:04:00,625 --> 00:04:03,917 it's very easy and very natural living with one another. 114 00:04:04,042 --> 00:04:06,125 Are you sure you don't need, like, to brush your teeth 115 00:04:06,208 --> 00:04:08,375 or wash your face or any of that? 116 00:04:08,500 --> 00:04:09,917 - I do very little in the morning, 117 00:04:10,042 --> 00:04:11,333 to be honest with you. 118 00:04:11,417 --> 00:04:12,917 - Yeah, I've noticed you're a night shower. 119 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:15,167 I'm a night--or I'm a morning shower kind of gal. 120 00:04:15,250 --> 00:04:18,125 - Yep. - Which works out for us. 121 00:04:18,208 --> 00:04:20,292 I think the more time we spend together, 122 00:04:20,375 --> 00:04:21,792 the more comfortable we'll feel with one another. 123 00:04:21,875 --> 00:04:24,125 And so, for me, that's, like, a foundation 124 00:04:24,208 --> 00:04:26,042 for attraction to grow. 125 00:04:26,042 --> 00:04:27,458 - You want some coffee? 126 00:04:27,542 --> 00:04:30,083 - Okay, that'd be nice. 127 00:04:30,208 --> 00:04:37,000 ♪ 128 00:04:40,708 --> 00:04:42,167 - Hello. 129 00:04:42,208 --> 00:04:43,542 - Hey. 130 00:04:43,667 --> 00:04:45,667 - Ah, I'm so happy we're doing this. 131 00:04:45,708 --> 00:04:47,875 - It's been a while. - I know. 132 00:04:48,042 --> 00:04:50,000 This place is cute. 133 00:04:50,083 --> 00:04:52,417 So how are you? - I'm good. 134 00:04:52,500 --> 00:04:54,208 Yeah, I haven't seen you in a while. 135 00:04:54,292 --> 00:04:56,792 I need all the catch-up. 136 00:04:56,875 --> 00:04:58,167 - The wedding was amazing. 137 00:04:58,292 --> 00:05:00,167 It was pretty clear from the beginning 138 00:05:00,208 --> 00:05:02,250 that, like, we just have a lot in common. 139 00:05:02,333 --> 00:05:03,833 And, like, I really believe it's there. 140 00:05:03,917 --> 00:05:05,750 Like, we have everything going for us, 141 00:05:05,875 --> 00:05:07,792 like, the most important stuff, like, the values. 142 00:05:07,875 --> 00:05:09,375 Like, we're just, like, crazy aligned. 143 00:05:09,500 --> 00:05:11,042 - That's awesome. 144 00:05:11,125 --> 00:05:13,083 - And, like, he definitely was, like, very into me, 145 00:05:13,208 --> 00:05:15,708 like, the first night and, like, told me he felt it. 146 00:05:15,833 --> 00:05:17,500 But then, like, I was kind of feeling 147 00:05:17,583 --> 00:05:19,542 towards the end of the honeymoon, 148 00:05:19,625 --> 00:05:21,375 things kind of took a turn, where, like, I was starting 149 00:05:21,458 --> 00:05:23,417 to like him more. 150 00:05:23,500 --> 00:05:25,500 - And he wasn't, like, reciprocating? 151 00:05:25,583 --> 00:05:27,333 ♪ 152 00:05:27,417 --> 00:05:30,333 - It seemed like communication was a big issue for him. 153 00:05:30,417 --> 00:05:32,792 He has trouble opening up in general. 154 00:05:32,875 --> 00:05:35,500 It kept feeling like... 155 00:05:35,625 --> 00:05:37,500 I was, like, carrying the conversation. 156 00:05:37,583 --> 00:05:38,833 - Yeah. 157 00:05:38,917 --> 00:05:40,875 - He just doesn't really open up a lot on camera. 158 00:05:40,958 --> 00:05:43,250 I know he hates it, but I'm, like, to some extent, like-- 159 00:05:43,250 --> 00:05:44,875 - You signed up for this and... 160 00:05:44,958 --> 00:05:48,042 - Yeah, and, like, just got to, like, just work on opening up. 161 00:05:48,042 --> 00:05:49,333 ♪ 162 00:05:49,417 --> 00:05:51,292 - And you think he does care. 163 00:05:51,375 --> 00:05:54,250 It's just more, like, being-- 164 00:05:54,333 --> 00:05:56,583 kind of hashing out all these personal details 165 00:05:56,667 --> 00:05:59,000 and your guys' relationship on camera. 166 00:05:59,042 --> 00:06:00,917 - Yeah, I'm kind of like, you signed up for this, 167 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:02,792 but I was giving him the benefit of the doubt. 168 00:06:02,875 --> 00:06:04,833 But I was starting to get upset-- 169 00:06:04,917 --> 00:06:07,250 like, you should be doing a little bit better 170 00:06:07,333 --> 00:06:09,000 on behalf of, like, me and us, you know? 171 00:06:09,125 --> 00:06:11,333 - Yeah. 172 00:06:11,417 --> 00:06:13,208 I think, too, you and I are similar 173 00:06:13,292 --> 00:06:17,000 with, like, wanting answers and reasonings immediately. 174 00:06:17,042 --> 00:06:20,667 And I think just being patient with giving him a space 175 00:06:20,708 --> 00:06:23,667 to communicate in whatever capacity 176 00:06:23,792 --> 00:06:26,208 and really, like, think through feelings and... 177 00:06:26,292 --> 00:06:27,958 - Yeah. 178 00:06:28,042 --> 00:06:30,000 So I think moving in, in general, is going to help. 179 00:06:30,042 --> 00:06:31,542 - Yeah. 180 00:06:31,667 --> 00:06:33,500 - I do really think something's there, 181 00:06:33,583 --> 00:06:36,125 but I just need to see, like, some effort. 182 00:06:36,208 --> 00:06:37,833 - I think just-- 183 00:06:37,875 --> 00:06:39,708 - Relationships are hard. - Relationships are so hard. 184 00:06:39,792 --> 00:06:40,875 Yeah. 185 00:06:40,958 --> 00:06:42,833 - I learned that through you, too. 186 00:06:42,875 --> 00:06:44,958 Because, like, I waited this long for a relationship. 187 00:06:45,042 --> 00:06:48,375 Like, I really want to give him the benefit of the doubt, 188 00:06:48,458 --> 00:06:49,667 and, like, this is the benefit of the doubt. 189 00:06:49,750 --> 00:06:51,542 - Yeah. 190 00:06:51,625 --> 00:06:55,542 - I'm just hoping next week is little bit lighter emotionally. 191 00:06:55,542 --> 00:06:59,292 - ♪ Oh, oh, yeah, hustle for this ♪ 192 00:06:59,375 --> 00:07:02,000 ♪ 193 00:07:02,042 --> 00:07:04,083 - ♪ Forever and ever 194 00:07:04,167 --> 00:07:05,292 ♪ Forever 195 00:07:05,375 --> 00:07:09,458 ♪ 196 00:07:09,542 --> 00:07:11,958 - Okay, so I'm about to go visit Cameron at work. 197 00:07:12,042 --> 00:07:14,500 I'm going to bring him a little surprise food, 198 00:07:14,583 --> 00:07:16,583 hopefully brighten his day, 199 00:07:16,667 --> 00:07:18,500 bring a little sunshine to his workday. 200 00:07:18,583 --> 00:07:20,000 I know nothing about bikes, 201 00:07:20,083 --> 00:07:22,125 so I think this will be a lot of learning for me. 202 00:07:22,208 --> 00:07:23,500 And I know he's very-- 203 00:07:23,583 --> 00:07:24,833 probably very willing to give me 204 00:07:24,958 --> 00:07:26,875 a little lesson on all of the things 205 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:28,042 that go on in his shop. 206 00:07:28,208 --> 00:07:29,833 - ♪ Yeah 207 00:07:29,917 --> 00:07:32,167 - ♪ I got everything that I could want ♪ 208 00:07:32,250 --> 00:07:34,333 ♪ I'm blessed 209 00:07:34,458 --> 00:07:36,000 - Hello. 210 00:07:36,042 --> 00:07:37,500 I brought you a little sammy. - Thank you. 211 00:07:37,583 --> 00:07:39,292 - I know you said you're not that hungry, 212 00:07:39,375 --> 00:07:41,000 but I ate the other half, and it's bomb. 213 00:07:41,042 --> 00:07:42,250 - It's probably fair. 214 00:07:42,333 --> 00:07:44,000 - Look at you in your lab jacket. 215 00:07:44,083 --> 00:07:45,542 - Yes. - He's doing the-- 216 00:07:45,625 --> 00:07:47,625 Wow, that's, like, official. 217 00:07:47,708 --> 00:07:49,250 - Yeah, the resin kind of drips everywhere. 218 00:07:49,333 --> 00:07:50,542 - I love this. 219 00:07:50,667 --> 00:07:52,375 This is where you chill? 220 00:07:52,500 --> 00:07:54,750 - Well, this is where some of the work is done, 221 00:07:54,833 --> 00:07:57,000 but the real work is done in the back. 222 00:07:57,083 --> 00:07:58,000 - Okay. 223 00:07:58,083 --> 00:08:03,667 ♪ 224 00:08:03,708 --> 00:08:06,375 - So all the bikes you see need to be fixed, 225 00:08:06,458 --> 00:08:07,708 except for the ones that are ready for pickup, 226 00:08:07,792 --> 00:08:08,875 which are out front. - Right. 227 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:10,625 - Does that make sense? - I see. I see. 228 00:08:10,708 --> 00:08:13,333 So you do this all day? Do you ever get bored? 229 00:08:13,417 --> 00:08:14,958 - I mean, the nice thing about repairs 230 00:08:15,042 --> 00:08:16,667 is every repair is different. - Right. 231 00:08:16,708 --> 00:08:18,458 - But it's like being a surgeon 232 00:08:18,542 --> 00:08:20,000 and saying, like, well, you know, 233 00:08:20,083 --> 00:08:22,667 is every surgery the same? 234 00:08:22,750 --> 00:08:26,875 Both of my degrees specialize in carbon fiber. 235 00:08:26,958 --> 00:08:30,667 I'm now probably one of maybe five experts 236 00:08:30,750 --> 00:08:32,042 in the country... 237 00:08:32,167 --> 00:08:33,667 - Which is--that's rare. 238 00:08:33,708 --> 00:08:36,042 That's wild. - Of carbon fiber in bicycles 239 00:08:36,125 --> 00:08:38,667 and particularly failures in bicycles. 240 00:08:38,750 --> 00:08:40,333 - Mm-hmm. So you're good at it, 241 00:08:40,375 --> 00:08:41,875 but are you passionate about it? 242 00:08:41,958 --> 00:08:43,625 - I am absolutely passionate about it. 243 00:08:43,708 --> 00:08:44,917 - mm-hmm. - And I'm good at it. 244 00:08:45,042 --> 00:08:46,083 Absolutely. - Wow. 245 00:08:46,167 --> 00:08:48,417 - Like, like this-- I mean, this is what 246 00:08:48,500 --> 00:08:50,500 I very much enjoy. 247 00:08:50,583 --> 00:08:52,250 - Well, I think this is amazing 248 00:08:52,333 --> 00:08:53,625 that you're able to run a business. 249 00:08:53,708 --> 00:08:55,250 I think that takes a lot. 250 00:08:55,333 --> 00:08:59,542 And so the fact that you're able to do it is amazing. 251 00:08:59,625 --> 00:09:01,708 - Yeah. I have a little project for us. 252 00:09:01,792 --> 00:09:03,292 Well... - Oh, no. 253 00:09:03,375 --> 00:09:05,500 - It's actually a big project because-- 254 00:09:05,583 --> 00:09:07,792 - Oh, do you trust me? - Well, we'll do it together. 255 00:09:07,875 --> 00:09:09,208 - Oh, Lord. - Okay. 256 00:09:09,292 --> 00:09:10,708 Here's some safety glasses. 257 00:09:10,833 --> 00:09:12,583 - I don't know if you trust me with these tools. 258 00:09:12,708 --> 00:09:14,000 - Maybe you want to put your bag down. 259 00:09:14,083 --> 00:09:15,500 - All right, what are we doing exactly? 260 00:09:15,583 --> 00:09:17,167 - We're gonna work on this bike. 261 00:09:17,250 --> 00:09:20,000 - [laughs] No. Okay. 262 00:09:20,083 --> 00:09:25,167 ♪ 263 00:09:25,250 --> 00:09:26,542 Oh, interesting. Okay. 264 00:09:26,625 --> 00:09:28,208 - Here's two pairs of gloves. - Thank you. 265 00:09:28,375 --> 00:09:30,083 ♪ 266 00:09:30,208 --> 00:09:33,458 How do we look? - You look very official. 267 00:09:33,542 --> 00:09:35,167 - Thanks. Let's do it. 268 00:09:35,250 --> 00:09:36,208 - Okay. - Okay. 269 00:09:36,292 --> 00:09:38,000 - You're gonna undo this. 270 00:09:38,083 --> 00:09:39,042 - This? - Yeah. 271 00:09:39,125 --> 00:09:41,083 Yep, so you can just pull from there. 272 00:09:41,167 --> 00:09:43,792 - Jeez. Boom. - Yeah. 273 00:09:43,875 --> 00:09:45,917 Perfect. Put these to the side. - All right. 274 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:48,167 That was cool. - I will need your help. 275 00:09:48,292 --> 00:09:49,417 You're gonna pull up. - Yeah. 276 00:09:49,542 --> 00:09:51,125 - Okay. There we go. Stop, stop, stop. 277 00:09:51,208 --> 00:09:52,708 - [grunts] Push? 278 00:09:52,792 --> 00:09:54,833 - Okay, we got it. - Boom. 279 00:09:54,875 --> 00:09:57,000 Nice. [object clatters] 280 00:09:57,042 --> 00:09:58,833 I'm seeing him on a whole new level. 281 00:09:58,875 --> 00:10:00,500 It's an attractive trait 282 00:10:00,625 --> 00:10:02,167 to be seeing someone do something that they love. 283 00:10:02,292 --> 00:10:05,167 And so I really am hopeful that the more time 284 00:10:05,208 --> 00:10:08,292 we spend together, the more it could increase the attraction. 285 00:10:08,375 --> 00:10:11,000 - Hold this right here. - Yep, yep, I can do that. 286 00:10:11,083 --> 00:10:12,500 Sure thing, boss. 287 00:10:12,542 --> 00:10:13,750 ♪ 288 00:10:13,833 --> 00:10:16,375 - All right, you're fixing for a raise. 289 00:10:16,458 --> 00:10:18,542 - [laughs] 290 00:10:18,667 --> 00:10:20,417 This is very cool. 291 00:10:20,542 --> 00:10:22,375 ♪ 292 00:10:22,500 --> 00:10:26,500 - ♪ More than a thousand times ♪ 293 00:10:26,500 --> 00:10:28,375 ♪ I've dreamed about this day ♪ 294 00:10:28,375 --> 00:10:31,208 ♪ Lord knows I pay my dues 295 00:10:31,292 --> 00:10:33,250 - We have a lot of surprises in store, 296 00:10:33,375 --> 00:10:35,875 maybe, I don't know if that's true or not. 297 00:10:35,958 --> 00:10:38,042 But... [laughs] - [laughing] Just tell me. 298 00:10:38,125 --> 00:10:39,375 - Hi, guys. 299 00:10:39,458 --> 00:10:42,542 all: Hi. 300 00:10:42,625 --> 00:10:45,458 - It is my birthday. 301 00:10:45,542 --> 00:10:47,667 - Hi. Congratulations. 302 00:10:47,708 --> 00:10:49,417 - I can't believe that I'm 32 and married, 303 00:10:49,500 --> 00:10:52,000 because 31 was spent single. 304 00:10:52,083 --> 00:10:53,667 [chuckles] 305 00:10:53,750 --> 00:10:55,667 - How is living together? 306 00:10:55,792 --> 00:10:57,375 - I feel like living together is great. 307 00:10:57,458 --> 00:10:58,708 I like it. 308 00:10:58,792 --> 00:11:00,417 - Like, how is the communication? 309 00:11:00,542 --> 00:11:01,583 Because I know when I moved in with my-- 310 00:11:01,708 --> 00:11:04,500 there was a disconnect there. [laughter] 311 00:11:04,583 --> 00:11:06,417 - He's very good at communicating. 312 00:11:06,500 --> 00:11:07,792 - Really? 313 00:11:07,875 --> 00:11:09,375 - I mean, the bar is low for men. 314 00:11:09,458 --> 00:11:11,042 No offense to all men. 315 00:11:11,125 --> 00:11:12,667 - Are you having, like, deep conversations. 316 00:11:12,792 --> 00:11:13,917 Are you talking about kids? 317 00:11:14,042 --> 00:11:15,375 Are you talking about things like that? 318 00:11:15,500 --> 00:11:16,417 both: Yeah. - Okay. 319 00:11:16,542 --> 00:11:17,583 - All of it. - Done. 320 00:11:17,708 --> 00:11:18,875 - Same page? - Yeah. 321 00:11:18,958 --> 00:11:20,667 - For the most part, yeah. - Good. 322 00:11:20,792 --> 00:11:22,625 - We differ on religion... - Okay. 323 00:11:22,708 --> 00:11:25,292 - But, like, it isn't, like, a glaring negative. 324 00:11:25,375 --> 00:11:27,833 It's just, like, an obstacle that neither of us-- 325 00:11:27,958 --> 00:11:31,167 - Anticipated. - Yeah, yeah. Yeah. 326 00:11:31,250 --> 00:11:33,917 - But, like, we're working through that. 327 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:35,333 - Working on it. Both: Yeah. 328 00:11:35,458 --> 00:11:36,708 - Sweet. 329 00:11:36,792 --> 00:11:38,333 - I've got the yellow fin tuna tonight. 330 00:11:38,417 --> 00:11:39,708 - Thank you. - Thank you. 331 00:11:39,708 --> 00:11:41,667 - So, like, the whole thing about religion-- 332 00:11:41,708 --> 00:11:43,833 Pastor Cal came over to our place, 333 00:11:43,917 --> 00:11:45,833 and, kind of, like, opened our eyes 334 00:11:45,958 --> 00:11:47,542 to, like, new ways. 335 00:11:47,542 --> 00:11:49,083 Probably opened my eyes more than her. 336 00:11:49,167 --> 00:11:51,333 Her eyes are already just big and open anyway. 337 00:11:51,417 --> 00:11:52,667 [laughter] So... 338 00:11:52,750 --> 00:11:54,167 - Big open eyes. 339 00:11:54,250 --> 00:11:56,333 - But, like, everything else lines up. 340 00:11:56,417 --> 00:11:59,917 So it's like, okay, if this is, like, the one thing 341 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:01,500 that, like, we have to navigate through, 342 00:12:01,583 --> 00:12:03,917 then, like, I feel lucky. - Yeah. 343 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:05,125 - Yeah. - That's amazing. 344 00:12:05,208 --> 00:12:06,958 - Yeah. 345 00:12:07,042 --> 00:12:08,333 - All right, you guys, well, I'm gonna ask the question... 346 00:12:08,458 --> 00:12:10,125 - Oh, no. 347 00:12:10,208 --> 00:12:12,750 - That we're all just begging to know--how's the sex life? 348 00:12:12,833 --> 00:12:14,500 You guys getting it in on the reg here? 349 00:12:14,542 --> 00:12:15,667 - No. - No? 350 00:12:15,792 --> 00:12:18,375 Sorry. Had to ask. 351 00:12:18,458 --> 00:12:20,792 Not very politically correct. 352 00:12:20,875 --> 00:12:22,458 - I'm the slow one. - You are? 353 00:12:22,542 --> 00:12:23,750 - I am the slow one. - Oh, good. 354 00:12:23,875 --> 00:12:25,292 - This is very unlike me, 355 00:12:25,375 --> 00:12:27,708 but I've been, like, taking his lead on things. 356 00:12:27,792 --> 00:12:29,833 But, yeah, I'm totally fine with it. 357 00:12:29,958 --> 00:12:31,417 - Sorry, I need another drink. 358 00:12:31,500 --> 00:12:34,167 So is there anything I can get for everyone while I'm up? 359 00:12:34,208 --> 00:12:35,542 - I'm good. Thank you for asking. 360 00:12:35,625 --> 00:12:36,625 - All set, Austin. Thank you. 361 00:12:36,708 --> 00:12:38,167 Right as his food comes. 362 00:12:38,208 --> 00:12:40,542 - Well, you'll love this. - Thank you. 363 00:12:40,708 --> 00:12:41,917 - Um... 364 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:43,708 I [bleep] love him. 365 00:12:43,792 --> 00:12:45,958 - Aw. - He's fantastic. 366 00:12:46,042 --> 00:12:48,833 Oh, my God, he's talkative. He's inquisitive. He's smart. 367 00:12:48,958 --> 00:12:51,042 I think we can let the whole Jesus thing, you know-- 368 00:12:51,125 --> 00:12:52,500 I think we can deal with it, right? 369 00:12:52,583 --> 00:12:54,292 [laughter] - We are... 370 00:12:54,375 --> 00:12:55,667 Yeah, it's definitely-- 371 00:12:55,750 --> 00:12:56,875 - And it seems to be working. - Yeah. 372 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:58,500 - Like, I think it's opening you up, 373 00:12:58,542 --> 00:12:59,750 and it's opening him a lot. 374 00:12:59,833 --> 00:13:01,375 I mean, and that's, like, all you-- 375 00:13:01,500 --> 00:13:02,917 In any relationship, I think that's all you want, 376 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:04,625 is, like, more openness. 377 00:13:04,625 --> 00:13:05,833 More acceptance of the fact 378 00:13:05,917 --> 00:13:08,125 that you're, like, getting that is huge. 379 00:13:08,208 --> 00:13:09,167 - Yeah. 380 00:13:09,292 --> 00:13:10,958 - Is it feeling, like, really romantic? 381 00:13:11,042 --> 00:13:13,042 Like, are you falling in love? 382 00:13:13,125 --> 00:13:16,208 - I wouldn't say we're falling in love yet. 383 00:13:16,333 --> 00:13:18,167 - Okay. - But... 384 00:13:18,208 --> 00:13:20,500 - Do you say "I love you"? - No. 385 00:13:20,583 --> 00:13:21,708 ♪ 386 00:13:21,792 --> 00:13:24,167 - Before he comes back, 387 00:13:24,167 --> 00:13:26,417 how do you really feel about not having sex with him? 388 00:13:26,542 --> 00:13:28,708 - [chuckles] 389 00:13:28,833 --> 00:13:30,417 He's the first guy that I've been with, like, 390 00:13:30,500 --> 00:13:33,167 as an adult that, like, doesn't just want to jump 391 00:13:33,292 --> 00:13:34,875 to that right away. 392 00:13:34,958 --> 00:13:37,042 First, I was like, oh, my God, he's not attracted to me. 393 00:13:37,125 --> 00:13:38,500 Or, like, there's something wrong. 394 00:13:38,583 --> 00:13:40,167 - Yeah. 395 00:13:40,208 --> 00:13:43,042 - But, like, I think he needs time, but I'm ready. 396 00:13:43,167 --> 00:13:45,458 Like, I think it's just up to him. 397 00:13:45,542 --> 00:13:47,542 - ♪ Yeah, it's been too long 398 00:13:52,250 --> 00:13:55,333 - ♪ I just wanna do something that I ain't never did ♪ 399 00:13:55,375 --> 00:13:57,125 ♪ I just might 400 00:13:57,208 --> 00:13:59,375 - This is the last day I'm moving stuff 401 00:13:59,458 --> 00:14:01,125 for a really long time. 402 00:14:01,208 --> 00:14:04,042 ♪ 403 00:14:04,125 --> 00:14:06,458 - It's great. - Yeah, I love it. 404 00:14:06,542 --> 00:14:10,000 After the events of this week, 405 00:14:10,042 --> 00:14:12,083 I think it's just really important for us both 406 00:14:12,167 --> 00:14:14,292 to, like, be able to, like, move on, 407 00:14:14,375 --> 00:14:16,542 and, like, set this best up for success. 408 00:14:16,625 --> 00:14:18,958 ♪ 409 00:14:19,042 --> 00:14:21,417 Oh, my God, all my folding. - Sorry. 410 00:14:21,500 --> 00:14:25,000 And this is all kitchen stuff? - Yeah. 411 00:14:25,042 --> 00:14:27,375 I felt like this was, like, moderate. 412 00:14:27,458 --> 00:14:29,250 Like, I've done worse. 413 00:14:29,333 --> 00:14:31,417 - [chuckles] 414 00:14:31,542 --> 00:14:32,500 ♪ 415 00:14:32,542 --> 00:14:34,333 [sighs] 416 00:14:34,375 --> 00:14:37,625 ♪ 417 00:14:37,708 --> 00:14:39,333 - Okay. 418 00:14:39,375 --> 00:14:41,500 ♪ 419 00:14:41,583 --> 00:14:44,917 - And there's more. Wow. 420 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:47,167 - I told you I had, like, seven of everything. 421 00:14:47,250 --> 00:14:48,458 ♪ 422 00:14:48,542 --> 00:14:50,292 - Holy [bleep]. 423 00:14:50,375 --> 00:14:54,458 - I just think that I just have way more stuff than he does. 424 00:14:54,542 --> 00:14:56,958 - Holy [bleep]. 425 00:14:57,042 --> 00:14:59,083 Now I think I understand where all your money goes. 426 00:14:59,167 --> 00:15:01,417 Nope. Not doing it. Nope. 427 00:15:01,500 --> 00:15:03,167 Nope, nope, nope. 428 00:15:03,250 --> 00:15:05,333 - [whispering] Definitely stressing him out a little bit. 429 00:15:05,417 --> 00:15:06,333 ♪ 430 00:15:06,375 --> 00:15:08,042 - All right. 431 00:15:08,125 --> 00:15:10,500 She brought about 18 things of stuff, and I had about 2. 432 00:15:10,542 --> 00:15:12,292 ♪ 433 00:15:12,375 --> 00:15:14,833 And it's just really overwhelming 434 00:15:14,875 --> 00:15:16,625 because I've been on a slower pace. 435 00:15:16,708 --> 00:15:19,500 Can I have this little section? - Yeah, that's all you. 436 00:15:19,542 --> 00:15:21,833 - But I'm really hopeful that, you know, 437 00:15:21,917 --> 00:15:24,250 living together now helps us get closer. 438 00:15:24,333 --> 00:15:26,667 You know, I set a goal for myself 439 00:15:26,708 --> 00:15:28,750 that I would never be divorced, 440 00:15:28,875 --> 00:15:30,750 and I don't really know what else to do. 441 00:15:30,833 --> 00:15:34,125 So this is, you know, a big step for us. 442 00:15:34,208 --> 00:15:35,458 ♪ 443 00:15:35,542 --> 00:15:38,167 We got to figure out our new morning routine. 444 00:15:38,250 --> 00:15:40,250 - You shower at 7:15. That's all you. 445 00:15:40,333 --> 00:15:41,958 - And it's usually a pretty quick shower 446 00:15:42,042 --> 00:15:43,708 unless I have some processing to do, then it's... 447 00:15:43,833 --> 00:15:45,083 - You take long showers, actually, but-- 448 00:15:45,167 --> 00:15:47,833 - It can go pretty long. - I love that for you. 449 00:15:47,875 --> 00:15:50,208 Yeah. Yeah. 450 00:15:50,292 --> 00:15:52,375 I never put together in Mexico, 451 00:15:52,500 --> 00:15:54,625 like, he was doing a lot of processing. 452 00:15:54,708 --> 00:15:57,000 I just was like, wow, this guy takes extremely long showers. 453 00:15:57,042 --> 00:15:59,833 But I'm like, ooh, should I be concerned 454 00:15:59,875 --> 00:16:01,250 when you're taking longer showers? 455 00:16:01,333 --> 00:16:03,167 I'm happy you decided to move in today. 456 00:16:03,250 --> 00:16:04,667 - How do you think it's gonna be? 457 00:16:04,708 --> 00:16:07,000 I mean, we've never, like, lived with someone before. 458 00:16:07,083 --> 00:16:09,250 - I think it'll be fine. - Yeah. 459 00:16:09,250 --> 00:16:11,750 - But if you get annoyed, want to give me, like, a warning? 460 00:16:11,833 --> 00:16:14,708 Like, when you're taking longer showers versus shorter ones? 461 00:16:14,792 --> 00:16:17,042 [laughter] 462 00:16:17,167 --> 00:16:19,250 - ♪ Just going through the motions ♪ 463 00:16:19,333 --> 00:16:21,917 ♪ Pretending it was all golden ♪ 464 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:25,000 ♪ We both know it was broken 465 00:16:25,083 --> 00:16:27,625 ♪ No repair, no repair 466 00:16:27,708 --> 00:16:29,333 - Hey, hey, what's up, man? - How's it going? 467 00:16:29,458 --> 00:16:30,917 ♪ 468 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:32,917 - [muffled speech] - How you been? 469 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:35,167 - Hey, guys. - Hey, girl, hey. 470 00:16:35,250 --> 00:16:36,042 ♪ 471 00:16:36,125 --> 00:16:39,083 So how you doing? 472 00:16:39,167 --> 00:16:40,792 - Can I sip my water first? 473 00:16:40,875 --> 00:16:43,167 - That's cool. - Sure. Let's do it. 474 00:16:43,292 --> 00:16:45,125 I wish it was whiskey or something, but... 475 00:16:45,208 --> 00:16:48,833 [giggles] Too early for whiskey. 476 00:16:48,958 --> 00:16:50,375 - You know, I've been better. 477 00:16:50,458 --> 00:16:52,708 - Oh, man. 478 00:16:52,792 --> 00:16:54,208 Well... 479 00:16:54,292 --> 00:16:56,083 - How's everything kind of been going? 480 00:16:56,167 --> 00:16:57,583 I know it's kind of been rough. 481 00:16:57,667 --> 00:17:00,000 - Yeah, I mean, because now I'm divorced. 482 00:17:00,083 --> 00:17:02,250 - Yeah. - [chuckles] 483 00:17:02,333 --> 00:17:05,250 Yeah, it feels strange. 484 00:17:05,333 --> 00:17:08,500 But, you know, I told her, and, you know, 485 00:17:08,583 --> 00:17:10,500 kind of what I have been saying is, you know, 486 00:17:10,583 --> 00:17:12,625 losing the romantic interest, you know, 487 00:17:12,708 --> 00:17:15,458 I feel like it would be really unfair to continue on 488 00:17:15,542 --> 00:17:17,167 being one foot in, one foot out. 489 00:17:17,292 --> 00:17:18,208 ♪ 490 00:17:18,292 --> 00:17:20,500 - How's the family doing? 491 00:17:20,500 --> 00:17:23,292 Like, what are they thinking about it? 492 00:17:23,375 --> 00:17:27,000 - So, you know, I told my mom, my sister, about, you know, 493 00:17:27,042 --> 00:17:29,000 the kind of things that have transpired. 494 00:17:29,083 --> 00:17:32,375 And, I mean, honestly, they were just 495 00:17:32,500 --> 00:17:35,875 more disappointed in the fact that I didn't get 496 00:17:35,958 --> 00:17:38,333 what I wanted out of this process. 497 00:17:38,417 --> 00:17:40,875 - Right, a wife. - A wife, yeah. 498 00:17:40,958 --> 00:17:43,667 - Getting a divorce wasn't really my choice, 499 00:17:43,750 --> 00:17:47,833 but I definitely support him in his decision. 500 00:17:47,875 --> 00:17:52,542 - How do you feel about, you know, where you are right now? 501 00:17:52,667 --> 00:17:54,167 - I feel like I've been through, like, all 502 00:17:54,250 --> 00:17:56,042 the emotions at this point. 503 00:17:56,125 --> 00:17:59,042 You know, my favorite form of defense is humor. 504 00:17:59,125 --> 00:18:00,875 So I feel like I definitely attacked it 505 00:18:00,958 --> 00:18:02,875 with a lot of humor. 506 00:18:02,958 --> 00:18:06,000 Then I was angry. Then I was sad. 507 00:18:06,042 --> 00:18:08,167 Then I was mad again. 508 00:18:08,250 --> 00:18:12,292 And then I was like, okay, let me sit in these emotions, 509 00:18:12,292 --> 00:18:14,625 because one thing I know is that anger 510 00:18:14,708 --> 00:18:16,167 is very surface level. 511 00:18:16,250 --> 00:18:19,042 So I wanted to just feel all the feelings, 512 00:18:19,167 --> 00:18:20,958 and it was very uncomfortable. 513 00:18:21,042 --> 00:18:24,500 And I think what I feel the most is just... 514 00:18:24,583 --> 00:18:27,833 a lot of pain and a lot of resentment. 515 00:18:27,875 --> 00:18:30,833 - So do you see yourself... 516 00:18:30,917 --> 00:18:33,458 like, even being on the lookout 517 00:18:33,542 --> 00:18:37,208 or being open to meeting somebody else? 518 00:18:37,292 --> 00:18:39,833 - Honestly, not right now. - Yeah. 519 00:18:39,917 --> 00:18:42,000 - Not right now. You know, because-- 520 00:18:42,125 --> 00:18:44,375 - It's kind of killed it for you, huh? 521 00:18:44,458 --> 00:18:46,375 - I wouldn't say it killed it for me. 522 00:18:46,458 --> 00:18:50,375 There was just a lot of genuine feelings for Lauren, you know. 523 00:18:50,375 --> 00:18:52,167 Like, at the start... - Oh, I see. 524 00:18:52,250 --> 00:18:54,625 - You know, kind of taking off with everything. 525 00:18:54,708 --> 00:18:58,500 So, no, I can't really see myself jumping into anything 526 00:18:58,542 --> 00:19:00,833 super fast or right away... 527 00:19:00,917 --> 00:19:02,292 ♪ 528 00:19:02,375 --> 00:19:04,125 Just because-- I don't know, man. 529 00:19:04,125 --> 00:19:06,333 This is--this hurts, so... - yeah. 530 00:19:06,458 --> 00:19:08,875 - So I'm trying to, like, take the lessons from this, 531 00:19:08,958 --> 00:19:10,708 I guess. 532 00:19:10,792 --> 00:19:13,958 I understand why it didn't work out, but you know me-- 533 00:19:13,958 --> 00:19:15,833 I'm always like, it can work out, though. 534 00:19:15,875 --> 00:19:17,542 Like, it can work out. 535 00:19:17,625 --> 00:19:19,875 And it just sucks to know that I didn't have a partner 536 00:19:19,958 --> 00:19:21,875 who was like, it can work out. 537 00:19:21,958 --> 00:19:23,250 He was, like, more so caught up 538 00:19:23,333 --> 00:19:25,333 on the ways it wasn't working out, 539 00:19:25,458 --> 00:19:28,125 instead of, like, trying to come back to this 540 00:19:28,208 --> 00:19:29,417 in a way that it could. 541 00:19:29,542 --> 00:19:31,042 - Look, effort is a two-way street. 542 00:19:31,125 --> 00:19:32,542 - Mm-hmm. 543 00:19:32,625 --> 00:19:36,292 - If one person is doing all the work, 544 00:19:36,375 --> 00:19:38,333 then nothing's really gonna get done. 545 00:19:38,375 --> 00:19:41,292 - You can't control how other people receive you. 546 00:19:41,375 --> 00:19:44,708 You can just offer them the opportunity 547 00:19:44,833 --> 00:19:47,583 to love you and care for you. 548 00:19:47,667 --> 00:19:50,875 But you can't, you know, control how they do that. 549 00:19:50,958 --> 00:19:55,042 If there's not forgiveness and willingness in a marriage, 550 00:19:55,125 --> 00:19:56,500 then that [bleep]'s not gonna work. 551 00:19:56,583 --> 00:19:58,000 ♪ 552 00:19:58,083 --> 00:20:01,833 - Them affirming me that I didn't fail in this marriage, 553 00:20:01,917 --> 00:20:04,333 for me, it helps me not take all of this so personal. 554 00:20:04,375 --> 00:20:06,750 It helps me be able to move on from this. 555 00:20:06,833 --> 00:20:09,375 - At the end of the day, you still a bad bitch. 556 00:20:09,458 --> 00:20:11,750 You still have got money. 557 00:20:11,833 --> 00:20:13,542 You still going to be fly, go on trips, 558 00:20:13,625 --> 00:20:15,333 and do everything that Lauren does. 559 00:20:15,417 --> 00:20:18,000 It doesn't even matter what he's going to say. 560 00:20:18,083 --> 00:20:20,167 It's not you. It's for sure him. 561 00:20:20,292 --> 00:20:22,125 And let him know that it's him. 562 00:20:22,208 --> 00:20:23,417 And hopefully it's the last time 563 00:20:23,500 --> 00:20:25,375 you see his mother[bleep] ass. 564 00:20:25,458 --> 00:20:26,292 ♪ 565 00:20:30,167 --> 00:20:31,208 - ♪ What we gonna buy today? 566 00:20:31,208 --> 00:20:32,333 ♪ What we gonna buy today? 567 00:20:32,458 --> 00:20:34,292 ♪ I'm trying to ball, let's hit the mall ♪ 568 00:20:34,375 --> 00:20:35,792 ♪ Maybe I'll buy the place 569 00:20:35,875 --> 00:20:37,458 - Wow, this store is, like, so fun, 570 00:20:37,542 --> 00:20:39,667 I could just have myself a time here. 571 00:20:39,750 --> 00:20:41,417 - Wow. 572 00:20:41,500 --> 00:20:44,792 - So let's focus and think about what we want our theme 573 00:20:44,875 --> 00:20:47,542 for our housewarming party tomorrow to be. 574 00:20:47,625 --> 00:20:50,833 - Okay. So we could do wigs. 575 00:20:50,917 --> 00:20:53,000 We could do-- - Wigs? 576 00:20:53,042 --> 00:20:54,500 - Yeah. 577 00:20:54,583 --> 00:20:56,042 - Um... - I like the idea. 578 00:20:56,125 --> 00:20:57,708 - Okay. I feel like it's different. 579 00:20:57,792 --> 00:20:59,208 - Yeah. 580 00:20:59,292 --> 00:21:00,750 - I feel like I'm gonna channel my inner Becca 581 00:21:00,875 --> 00:21:01,875 with some pink hair. 582 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:03,458 - [grunts] 583 00:21:03,542 --> 00:21:04,583 ♪ 584 00:21:04,667 --> 00:21:05,750 Transformation. 585 00:21:05,833 --> 00:21:08,250 - You look like a Smurf-- a cute Smurf. 586 00:21:08,333 --> 00:21:11,167 Do you feel like that is-- - Probably not, no. 587 00:21:11,208 --> 00:21:14,208 - I look Gothic as [bleep]. This is a huge change for me. 588 00:21:14,292 --> 00:21:16,333 - You always wanted to be a redhead. 589 00:21:16,417 --> 00:21:19,458 I don't know. I kind of feel like myself. 590 00:21:19,542 --> 00:21:20,792 No? 591 00:21:20,875 --> 00:21:22,500 - I think this fun party is exactly what we need 592 00:21:22,583 --> 00:21:24,167 'cause it was a big week. 593 00:21:24,208 --> 00:21:26,500 We moved in, like, we're moving forward 594 00:21:26,625 --> 00:21:28,792 and, like, on from everything that happened this week. 595 00:21:28,875 --> 00:21:32,083 And so I'm just, like, very, like, optimistic and hopeful 596 00:21:32,167 --> 00:21:33,542 about tomorrow. 597 00:21:33,625 --> 00:21:35,625 I feel like you look good as a blonde. 598 00:21:35,708 --> 00:21:37,625 - [laughs] This is majestic. [both laughing] 599 00:21:37,708 --> 00:21:39,167 It just feels natural. I don't know. 600 00:21:39,208 --> 00:21:40,833 - Oh, my God. 601 00:21:40,875 --> 00:21:42,833 The fact he decided to do something like this 602 00:21:42,917 --> 00:21:46,833 says that he is gonna try and he cares enough about me 603 00:21:46,875 --> 00:21:48,375 to, like, have some fun, 604 00:21:48,500 --> 00:21:51,958 and, like, I'm so ready to, like, put this week behind us. 605 00:21:52,042 --> 00:21:53,917 - That's a good one. I like it. 606 00:21:54,042 --> 00:21:55,667 - It's very red. Okay. 607 00:21:55,708 --> 00:21:57,625 I feel like we're setting the tone for our own party. 608 00:21:57,708 --> 00:21:59,292 - I know. - It's gonna be so funny 609 00:21:59,417 --> 00:22:01,208 having serious conversations in these. 610 00:22:01,333 --> 00:22:03,250 - Yeah, I think I'm gonna take mine off. 611 00:22:03,375 --> 00:22:04,792 I was just thinking about that. - No. 612 00:22:04,875 --> 00:22:06,917 Once the wig is on tomorrow, you can't take the wig off. 613 00:22:07,042 --> 00:22:08,708 - You think? - 100%. 614 00:22:08,708 --> 00:22:10,500 I feel like this is gonna, like, loosen the vibe. 615 00:22:10,583 --> 00:22:11,917 - Yeah. 616 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,500 - And I just think it's gonna make the week better 617 00:22:14,583 --> 00:22:17,667 and just allow us to, like, move on. 618 00:22:17,708 --> 00:22:20,458 - I'm just happy I decided that I wanted to move in. 619 00:22:20,542 --> 00:22:22,583 Too much time apart is not good. 620 00:22:22,667 --> 00:22:24,417 - Now I understand, like, why they pressed you 621 00:22:24,500 --> 00:22:25,958 to move in right away. 622 00:22:26,042 --> 00:22:29,167 I think, I was, like, okay with it initially. 623 00:22:29,292 --> 00:22:30,792 But, like, after Pastor Cal 624 00:22:30,875 --> 00:22:33,000 and realizing, like, we have time, but we don't. 625 00:22:33,042 --> 00:22:34,292 - Yeah. - Like, this... 626 00:22:34,375 --> 00:22:36,417 is, like, gonna make a big difference. 627 00:22:36,500 --> 00:22:39,250 - I'm just glad you trusted me to figure it out. 628 00:22:39,375 --> 00:22:40,542 So... - Progress. 629 00:22:40,625 --> 00:22:41,750 - Yeah. 630 00:22:41,833 --> 00:22:43,500 - That really did mean a lot to me 631 00:22:43,583 --> 00:22:45,750 and that you want to do a wig party, too. 632 00:22:45,833 --> 00:22:48,167 Just going all-in. - Going all-in. 633 00:22:48,250 --> 00:22:50,667 ♪ 634 00:22:50,750 --> 00:22:52,667 - ♪ There ain't nothing to it ♪ 635 00:22:52,708 --> 00:22:56,375 ♪ Celebrate your life now that it's yours ♪ 636 00:22:56,500 --> 00:22:58,500 - Ooh. Uh-oh. [device squeaks] 637 00:22:58,583 --> 00:23:01,667 We are having friends over... 638 00:23:01,750 --> 00:23:04,375 We cannot drink anything that is in a cup. 639 00:23:04,375 --> 00:23:05,625 It should be a lot of fun. 640 00:23:05,750 --> 00:23:07,250 Cameron's just getting the food, 641 00:23:07,250 --> 00:23:09,208 and I'm just kind of setting up the place, 642 00:23:09,292 --> 00:23:11,500 getting it clean before everybody comes over. 643 00:23:11,667 --> 00:23:14,708 [air hisses, music distorts and fades] 644 00:23:14,792 --> 00:23:16,000 [laughs] 645 00:23:16,042 --> 00:23:19,042 ♪ 646 00:23:19,125 --> 00:23:20,875 - What you looking at? 647 00:23:20,875 --> 00:23:23,333 - I'm trying to show you my charcuterie board. 648 00:23:23,458 --> 00:23:24,792 - It's cute. 649 00:23:24,792 --> 00:23:27,042 - All right. Is this, like, the wing it? 650 00:23:27,167 --> 00:23:29,500 Just go down and see what they have, or do we need a list? 651 00:23:29,542 --> 00:23:31,125 - Well, let's get, like-- 652 00:23:31,208 --> 00:23:33,292 - We need jams, crackers, apples. 653 00:23:33,375 --> 00:23:34,750 ♪ 654 00:23:34,833 --> 00:23:36,458 - Are you making the charcuterie board? 655 00:23:36,542 --> 00:23:37,792 - I thought we were. 656 00:23:37,875 --> 00:23:39,542 I thought this was a teammate situation. 657 00:23:39,625 --> 00:23:41,375 - No, I actually would love to see 658 00:23:41,458 --> 00:23:43,167 what your charcuterie board would look like. 659 00:23:43,208 --> 00:23:44,667 ♪ 660 00:23:44,708 --> 00:23:46,625 - ♪ Don't think you're ready for me ♪ 661 00:23:46,708 --> 00:23:48,708 ♪ 662 00:23:48,833 --> 00:23:52,625 - [surfer voice] Oh, dude! This is totally rad. 663 00:23:52,708 --> 00:23:55,167 [chuckles] - [laughing] 664 00:23:55,292 --> 00:23:58,042 Are my bangs too low? Are they okay? 665 00:23:58,125 --> 00:23:59,667 This is so gnarly. 666 00:23:59,708 --> 00:24:01,833 I feel like I can go [bleep] ride a wave. 667 00:24:01,917 --> 00:24:05,500 - Ew, I hate this accent. [laughter] 668 00:24:05,583 --> 00:24:07,667 - [normal voice] I think I'm gonna take the wig off now. 669 00:24:07,750 --> 00:24:10,250 So, if, like, something happens, just let me know. 670 00:24:10,333 --> 00:24:11,583 Oh, sh--how long was I out? 671 00:24:11,667 --> 00:24:12,875 What just happened? - I feel like-- 672 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:14,083 - I just, like, blacked out the last ten minutes. 673 00:24:14,208 --> 00:24:16,292 What happened? 674 00:24:16,375 --> 00:24:19,333 - Jimmy happened. - Really? Who's Jimmy? 675 00:24:19,375 --> 00:24:21,167 - [chuckles] We love riding the wave. 676 00:24:21,250 --> 00:24:22,917 - Dope. 677 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:25,250 - I'm excited for us just to, like, have fun 678 00:24:25,333 --> 00:24:26,833 and just bring our friends all together. 679 00:24:26,917 --> 00:24:29,167 We got some glow sticks, yo-yos, some tiny hands. 680 00:24:29,292 --> 00:24:32,000 Says a lot that he let me get tiny hands for $1.50 apiece 681 00:24:32,042 --> 00:24:33,667 on a tight budget. 682 00:24:33,708 --> 00:24:36,167 - I literally look like Simba. I don't know if I can... 683 00:24:36,208 --> 00:24:38,583 - And I think we really both deserve some fun tonight. 684 00:24:38,708 --> 00:24:40,167 So, yeah, I'm really hoping this is, like, a good, 685 00:24:40,292 --> 00:24:41,958 relaxing, fun atmosphere. 686 00:24:42,042 --> 00:24:43,333 ♪ 687 00:24:43,375 --> 00:24:44,833 - All right, let's see Veronica be born. 688 00:24:44,875 --> 00:24:47,208 Does she have an accent or what? 689 00:24:47,333 --> 00:24:50,208 - So, yeah, when you greet them as Jimmy, I'll be like... 690 00:24:50,292 --> 00:24:51,833 [British accent] Hello, I'm Veronica. 691 00:24:51,875 --> 00:24:53,458 - Oh, that's good. - How are you today? 692 00:24:53,542 --> 00:24:54,792 - That works. 693 00:24:54,875 --> 00:24:57,250 - Welcome to our party. - Ah. 694 00:24:57,333 --> 00:25:00,667 - Please go pick a wig and drink a lot. 695 00:25:00,750 --> 00:25:04,667 Tiny hands are encouraged. - [laughs] 696 00:25:04,792 --> 00:25:06,500 I like it. That works. - [normal voice] Yeah. 697 00:25:06,542 --> 00:25:08,208 - Veronica and Jimmy. 698 00:25:08,292 --> 00:25:10,542 ♪ 699 00:25:10,625 --> 00:25:11,875 - Honey, I'm home. 700 00:25:11,958 --> 00:25:13,958 [door closes] - With the food or no? 701 00:25:17,083 --> 00:25:19,500 If I had known that this wasn't covered, 702 00:25:19,542 --> 00:25:21,042 I would have done it. 703 00:25:21,042 --> 00:25:23,667 - We're gonna have food. We're in Downtown Denver. 704 00:25:23,750 --> 00:25:26,125 - Yeah, but why--but do we-- 705 00:25:26,208 --> 00:25:29,583 This is very last-minute. It's stressing me out. 706 00:25:29,667 --> 00:25:32,625 That was your one job, Cameron, one job. 707 00:25:32,708 --> 00:25:35,083 Yeah, that is. - It's going to go everywhere. 708 00:25:35,208 --> 00:25:36,917 - It's fine. [laughs] 709 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,875 - One of these pops, you'll see these 710 00:25:39,958 --> 00:25:42,208 for the rest of our lives. - Just don't pop them. 711 00:25:42,292 --> 00:25:44,625 - But they're going to pop. That's what balloons do. 712 00:25:44,708 --> 00:25:46,667 - If this is a bigger concern to you than the fact 713 00:25:46,750 --> 00:25:48,958 that we don't have food, then I don't know what to tell you. 714 00:25:49,042 --> 00:25:51,667 ♪ 715 00:25:51,833 --> 00:25:53,542 - I'm gonna go change. - All right. 716 00:25:53,625 --> 00:25:55,333 - Okay? - Cool. 717 00:25:55,417 --> 00:25:57,125 - So good luck with the balloons. 718 00:25:57,208 --> 00:25:59,833 [air whooshes] 719 00:25:59,917 --> 00:26:03,542 Me having not arrived with any food 720 00:26:03,667 --> 00:26:06,375 has probably added to Clare's stress levels. 721 00:26:06,458 --> 00:26:08,792 But I'm doing my best, 722 00:26:08,875 --> 00:26:11,458 and I hope that it doesn't ruin the night. 723 00:26:11,542 --> 00:26:12,708 ♪ 724 00:26:12,708 --> 00:26:15,708 So there's an empanada place. 725 00:26:15,833 --> 00:26:17,333 - Yeah, so do you want to do that? 726 00:26:17,417 --> 00:26:19,000 I mean-- - I mean, that's what I'll do. 727 00:26:19,083 --> 00:26:21,125 I mean, it's a place where there's, like, pre-- 728 00:26:21,208 --> 00:26:22,458 ♪ 729 00:26:22,542 --> 00:26:24,167 - [laughs] 730 00:26:24,250 --> 00:26:26,583 - Where there's pre-made food. 731 00:26:26,667 --> 00:26:28,417 - Uh-huh. 732 00:26:28,500 --> 00:26:30,167 - And we can pick up a variety of stuff. 733 00:26:30,292 --> 00:26:34,083 - So we have two hours till the guests arrive. 734 00:26:34,167 --> 00:26:36,667 So what is our plan? 735 00:26:36,792 --> 00:26:39,542 I think we should order ahead and just have it ready. 736 00:26:39,625 --> 00:26:42,500 - I can, but it will just be older food 737 00:26:42,583 --> 00:26:44,583 as opposed to fresher food. - Okay. 738 00:26:44,667 --> 00:26:45,958 What is your anything but the cup? 739 00:26:46,042 --> 00:26:47,333 - Uh-- 740 00:26:47,417 --> 00:26:48,792 - You didn't bring your own thing? 741 00:26:48,875 --> 00:26:49,833 - Well, I was supposed to bring... 742 00:26:49,958 --> 00:26:51,958 - Cameron. - Folgers, you know, big-- 743 00:26:52,042 --> 00:26:53,750 - Well, then figure something out here. 744 00:26:53,875 --> 00:26:55,667 - Yep. I'm gonna find something. 745 00:26:55,750 --> 00:26:57,000 - How unprepared are you? 746 00:26:57,042 --> 00:26:58,292 Sorry, but, truly, I didn't think 747 00:26:58,375 --> 00:27:00,000 that you were this unprepared. 748 00:27:00,083 --> 00:27:01,500 - [sighs] I know. 749 00:27:01,583 --> 00:27:03,167 I'm just the best husband, aren't I? 750 00:27:03,250 --> 00:27:04,625 ♪ 751 00:27:04,708 --> 00:27:07,083 - It's a pretty simple duty. 752 00:27:07,208 --> 00:27:10,625 And I know--so you said, like, T-Lo's not coming. 753 00:27:10,708 --> 00:27:13,375 Like, so why? 754 00:27:13,458 --> 00:27:15,292 Did he just say he didn't want to come? 755 00:27:15,375 --> 00:27:16,833 - I had a couple friends coming... 756 00:27:16,875 --> 00:27:18,625 - Mm-hmm. - But they're just tied up, 757 00:27:18,708 --> 00:27:21,125 getting ready for their trip, so they can't make it. 758 00:27:21,208 --> 00:27:23,583 And I bet your friends are more fun than mine, anyway. 759 00:27:23,708 --> 00:27:25,792 So it probably works out. - I don't know about that. 760 00:27:25,875 --> 00:27:28,000 They are pretty fun. They are pretty fun. 761 00:27:28,042 --> 00:27:29,583 ♪ 762 00:27:29,667 --> 00:27:31,833 - I'm gonna order the food. - Okay. 763 00:27:31,917 --> 00:27:33,958 ♪ 764 00:27:34,042 --> 00:27:35,417 - Oh, f... 765 00:27:35,500 --> 00:27:36,833 [object clatters] 766 00:27:36,875 --> 00:27:39,042 - What happened? What did you do? 767 00:27:39,125 --> 00:27:41,500 - This doesn't let you select a time, so... 768 00:27:41,542 --> 00:27:43,625 - Oh, it doesn't? - Nope. 769 00:27:43,708 --> 00:27:46,875 I'm picking them up in 15 minutes apparently. 770 00:27:46,958 --> 00:27:48,917 - Well, then why don't you wait to order it, then? 771 00:27:49,042 --> 00:27:51,375 - Well-- - Or you already put it in? 772 00:27:51,500 --> 00:27:53,042 - [scoffs] Yeah. 773 00:27:55,125 --> 00:27:57,000 Clare is... 774 00:27:57,083 --> 00:27:59,083 she's seeming quite stressed, 775 00:27:59,208 --> 00:28:02,167 and I don't think it's about food. 776 00:28:02,250 --> 00:28:05,167 I'm thinking it's got maybe something to do 777 00:28:05,208 --> 00:28:07,708 with her being nervous about me meeting her friends, 778 00:28:07,792 --> 00:28:09,292 maybe something like that. 779 00:28:09,375 --> 00:28:10,708 ♪ 780 00:28:10,792 --> 00:28:12,792 - I mean, I always like to be prepared. 781 00:28:12,875 --> 00:28:14,500 And so the fact that we aren't right now, 782 00:28:14,542 --> 00:28:16,167 a little stressed about it. 783 00:28:16,208 --> 00:28:18,792 ♪ 784 00:28:22,708 --> 00:28:25,042 - ♪ There's nothing better than us ♪ 785 00:28:25,042 --> 00:28:28,458 ♪ 786 00:28:28,542 --> 00:28:29,708 - There we go. 787 00:28:29,833 --> 00:28:31,667 Do you want to cut the cheese on that? 788 00:28:31,708 --> 00:28:33,417 - Sure. - These too? 789 00:28:33,500 --> 00:28:36,333 Some of them might just, like, crumble, and that's fine. 790 00:28:36,417 --> 00:28:38,917 You know what I'm saying? - I know what you're saying. 791 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:40,708 - You get what I'm putting down? 792 00:28:40,792 --> 00:28:42,292 - I smell what you're stepping in. 793 00:28:42,375 --> 00:28:44,083 [knock at door] 794 00:28:48,375 --> 00:28:50,292 - Hello. - Hello, friend. 795 00:28:50,375 --> 00:28:52,333 - I come bearing gifts... - Oh, look at all these-- 796 00:28:52,375 --> 00:28:53,833 - And merriment. 797 00:28:53,917 --> 00:28:55,417 - I'm surprised it didn't break. 798 00:28:55,542 --> 00:28:56,542 - Me too, actually. - Yeah. 799 00:28:56,625 --> 00:28:58,167 - Derik. both: Hi. 800 00:28:58,208 --> 00:28:59,833 - How are you? - Good. How are you? 801 00:28:59,917 --> 00:29:02,333 - Look what Derik brought us. - Wow. 802 00:29:02,375 --> 00:29:03,875 - This place is sweet. 803 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:05,333 [knock at door] - More friends. 804 00:29:05,417 --> 00:29:06,667 - Derik. - Hi. 805 00:29:06,708 --> 00:29:08,667 - Hello. - This is Gina. 806 00:29:08,750 --> 00:29:10,167 - Hi. - I just washed my hands. 807 00:29:10,208 --> 00:29:11,500 They're wet. - Yeah, he's nice. 808 00:29:11,625 --> 00:29:12,750 - Lauren. - Nice to meet you. I'm Derik. 809 00:29:12,875 --> 00:29:14,208 - Ooh. So cute. So this is the spot? 810 00:29:14,292 --> 00:29:15,833 - Oh, yeah, this is it. Yep, yep. 811 00:29:15,958 --> 00:29:17,667 - What do we got here, Becca? 812 00:29:17,708 --> 00:29:19,500 - We got a spread. We got some cheese. 813 00:29:19,625 --> 00:29:21,458 We got some chocolate. We got some meat. 814 00:29:21,542 --> 00:29:22,833 - Nuts. - We got some nuts. 815 00:29:22,958 --> 00:29:24,458 - Chocolate. - We got some-- 816 00:29:24,542 --> 00:29:27,500 They're garlic herb cashews, which are quite divine. 817 00:29:27,583 --> 00:29:29,333 - Yum. Okay. 818 00:29:29,375 --> 00:29:31,167 - I'm excited for our first party. 819 00:29:31,292 --> 00:29:33,875 I think our friends will get along. I think... 820 00:29:33,958 --> 00:29:36,042 Our friends at the wedding got along great. 821 00:29:36,042 --> 00:29:37,250 ♪ 822 00:29:37,375 --> 00:29:40,125 So I'm sure the same will happen tonight. 823 00:29:40,208 --> 00:29:42,000 - Do you want to watch me grill a hot dog? 824 00:29:42,083 --> 00:29:44,333 - We would love to watch you grill hot dogs. 825 00:29:44,375 --> 00:29:46,375 - Fantastic. This is gonna be a lot of fun. 826 00:29:46,458 --> 00:29:48,583 - Like, the importance that our friends play 827 00:29:48,667 --> 00:29:50,958 in our life is so similar. 828 00:29:51,042 --> 00:29:53,042 And to, like, have that connection 829 00:29:53,125 --> 00:29:54,833 and prioritize our friends-- 830 00:29:54,875 --> 00:29:57,000 like, to have that both from each of us is awesome. 831 00:29:57,042 --> 00:30:00,000 - [mouth full] Let's go. [both giggling] 832 00:30:00,042 --> 00:30:03,000 ♪ 833 00:30:03,125 --> 00:30:06,208 As some of her closest friends, 834 00:30:06,208 --> 00:30:08,000 what do I need to know about her? 835 00:30:08,042 --> 00:30:09,917 What about her ex-boyfriends? What are they like? 836 00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:11,750 What do I need to avoid to not become one? 837 00:30:11,833 --> 00:30:13,208 - Ah... - That's a great question. 838 00:30:13,292 --> 00:30:15,667 Definitely, like, open communication, 839 00:30:15,792 --> 00:30:17,208 'cause I think she's had issues before 840 00:30:17,292 --> 00:30:19,875 where she just really wants to, like-- 841 00:30:19,958 --> 00:30:21,500 if you're having an issue-- 842 00:30:21,583 --> 00:30:22,917 discuss it right away. - Yeah. 843 00:30:23,042 --> 00:30:24,875 - And I think some issues she's had in the past were 844 00:30:24,875 --> 00:30:26,875 her previous partners weren't willing to, like, 845 00:30:26,958 --> 00:30:28,667 talk through those issues. 846 00:30:28,750 --> 00:30:30,542 Then she kind of just bottles it up, 847 00:30:30,625 --> 00:30:32,458 and it, like, kind of eats at her. 848 00:30:32,542 --> 00:30:34,000 ♪ 849 00:30:34,042 --> 00:30:35,500 - Well, thanks for coming. - Yeah. 850 00:30:35,583 --> 00:30:37,208 I'll say this about Austin. 851 00:30:37,292 --> 00:30:39,292 He can be a tough nut to crack sometimes. 852 00:30:39,375 --> 00:30:41,083 - Mm. Mm-hmm. - How has that been going? 853 00:30:41,167 --> 00:30:42,542 [chuckles] - I think, like-- 854 00:30:42,667 --> 00:30:44,083 It's funny to hear that, 855 00:30:44,167 --> 00:30:46,583 because, like, he's been really open. 856 00:30:46,708 --> 00:30:49,208 I think it's good so far. 857 00:30:49,292 --> 00:30:51,333 We're building, like, a really solid friendship, 858 00:30:51,458 --> 00:30:54,833 and, obviously, we also think the other person's cute, 859 00:30:54,875 --> 00:30:57,000 which also doesn't hurt. - [laughs] 860 00:30:57,083 --> 00:30:58,833 - You know what a good friend he is. 861 00:30:58,917 --> 00:31:00,375 You don't know about his make-out abilities, 862 00:31:00,458 --> 00:31:02,500 but I can tell you that both are great. 863 00:31:02,542 --> 00:31:04,750 [laughs] - Cool. 864 00:31:04,833 --> 00:31:06,708 Good to know. I was really curious, actually. 865 00:31:06,833 --> 00:31:08,500 - I know. - [laughing] 866 00:31:08,583 --> 00:31:10,667 - I knew that was one of the things you wanted to ask me. 867 00:31:10,750 --> 00:31:13,292 - I mean, I am curious-- is there anything that, like, 868 00:31:13,375 --> 00:31:15,375 you haven't gotten from him, err...? 869 00:31:15,458 --> 00:31:17,250 - Well, I think... 870 00:31:17,333 --> 00:31:19,500 I think that there are times when he'll say, 871 00:31:19,583 --> 00:31:21,750 but, like, very eloquently, I'm not ready to talk 872 00:31:21,833 --> 00:31:23,208 about that just yet. 873 00:31:23,292 --> 00:31:24,708 But, like, give me a few days, 874 00:31:24,833 --> 00:31:27,000 and, like, let's circle back to this. 875 00:31:27,083 --> 00:31:28,667 And we do... - Interesting. 876 00:31:28,750 --> 00:31:30,167 - And he's ready, and he's there. 877 00:31:30,292 --> 00:31:32,083 - I was always hoping for the best, 878 00:31:32,167 --> 00:31:34,083 and I've been, like, really blown away, actually... 879 00:31:34,167 --> 00:31:36,125 - Yeah. - In terms of you as a person, 880 00:31:36,125 --> 00:31:38,250 in terms of how well you guys seem to get along. 881 00:31:38,333 --> 00:31:40,917 You know, I really value my relationship, 882 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:42,667 and I see a lot of the things that I really like 883 00:31:42,792 --> 00:31:44,750 out of my relationship with my wife that, like, you guys have. 884 00:31:44,833 --> 00:31:47,375 Just, like, a lot of the same things that you've been saying 885 00:31:47,500 --> 00:31:49,458 are the things that I remember telling, like, my friends 886 00:31:49,542 --> 00:31:51,042 when I first met her-- just be, like, it's so easy. 887 00:31:51,167 --> 00:31:52,875 We're really like the same person. 888 00:31:52,958 --> 00:31:54,167 We care about the same things. 889 00:31:54,292 --> 00:31:55,833 And it's been really cool to watch. 890 00:31:55,958 --> 00:31:57,500 Yeah, from the outside anyway. - Yeah, thank you. 891 00:31:57,542 --> 00:32:00,125 I mean, it's been awesome to meet his people 892 00:32:00,208 --> 00:32:01,417 because, like, it validates-- 893 00:32:01,500 --> 00:32:02,750 Like, I'm over here 894 00:32:02,833 --> 00:32:04,500 just thinking, like, he's this great guy. 895 00:32:04,500 --> 00:32:05,917 Like, this is so great. 896 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:07,500 How did I get so lucky? Like, all of these things. 897 00:32:07,542 --> 00:32:09,667 And then, like, there's like that moment where you're like, 898 00:32:09,708 --> 00:32:11,500 is he, like, actually a con artist? 899 00:32:11,542 --> 00:32:12,958 And then I meet his friends. 900 00:32:13,042 --> 00:32:15,042 - I said this at your wedding. - Mm-hmm. 901 00:32:15,167 --> 00:32:17,333 I was like, she's very lucky. - Yeah. 902 00:32:17,375 --> 00:32:19,292 - [laughs] And I mean that. - Yeah. Yeah. 903 00:32:19,375 --> 00:32:20,625 - [laughs] - I think I'm very lucky, too. 904 00:32:20,708 --> 00:32:21,958 - Yeah. - For sure. 905 00:32:21,958 --> 00:32:24,333 - She seemed very excited about you. 906 00:32:24,375 --> 00:32:26,000 - Yeah. - And, like, she chose 907 00:32:26,083 --> 00:32:27,875 this process because it was all-in, 908 00:32:27,958 --> 00:32:29,917 and why not go for it? So I'm, like... 909 00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:31,958 - That was. like, my mentality as well. 910 00:32:32,042 --> 00:32:33,583 - Yeah. - I mean, it is very all-in. 911 00:32:33,667 --> 00:32:34,917 You just, like, go straight in, and you're, like, 912 00:32:35,042 --> 00:32:36,542 all of a sudden married. 913 00:32:36,542 --> 00:32:38,833 Like, so many issues, like, don't even have a chance 914 00:32:38,917 --> 00:32:40,333 to, like, present themselves. - Yeah. 915 00:32:40,417 --> 00:32:42,500 - Like, as you guys know, and, like, 916 00:32:42,583 --> 00:32:45,000 our religion and faith doesn't really, like, line up. 917 00:32:45,083 --> 00:32:46,792 - Mm-hmm. - But, like, that is a hurdle 918 00:32:46,875 --> 00:32:50,250 that, like, will take time to jump over. 919 00:32:50,333 --> 00:32:52,375 - I'm sure you know that Austin is Christian. 920 00:32:52,500 --> 00:32:54,042 I don't know how many conversations 921 00:32:54,167 --> 00:32:55,708 you've had with him about that. 922 00:32:55,792 --> 00:32:57,833 But I think, so far, that's been our biggest difference. 923 00:32:57,875 --> 00:32:59,417 - Yeah. 924 00:32:59,542 --> 00:33:03,333 You know, that is an interesting aspect of all this, 925 00:33:03,375 --> 00:33:06,333 because, you know, I've known him for, like, 14 years, 926 00:33:06,417 --> 00:33:09,125 and it's rarely come up with us. 927 00:33:09,208 --> 00:33:11,708 So, like, I consider myself an atheist, 928 00:33:11,708 --> 00:33:13,583 you know, and he's still one of my best friends. 929 00:33:13,667 --> 00:33:15,250 - Right. 930 00:33:15,333 --> 00:33:17,125 - It's strange for me because I've really only heard 931 00:33:17,208 --> 00:33:19,000 this come up recently... - Mm-hmm. 932 00:33:19,167 --> 00:33:20,542 - When he's been really, I guess, coming up 933 00:33:20,625 --> 00:33:22,417 with the fact that, like, what does his religion mean 934 00:33:22,500 --> 00:33:23,875 around marriage specifically? - Mm-hmm. 935 00:33:23,958 --> 00:33:25,583 - Like, to me at least anyway, 936 00:33:25,667 --> 00:33:28,375 it doesn't really seem like a way that he makes choices, 937 00:33:28,500 --> 00:33:30,083 you know what I mean? - Yeah, yeah. 938 00:33:30,208 --> 00:33:31,458 - It's just been, like, this belief system 939 00:33:31,542 --> 00:33:33,083 that is there but doesn't, like-- 940 00:33:33,167 --> 00:33:34,708 isn't a primary driver of his life. 941 00:33:34,792 --> 00:33:36,333 - Right. 942 00:33:36,417 --> 00:33:38,042 - We're still getting to know one another as a person. 943 00:33:38,042 --> 00:33:39,708 - Yes, for sure. 944 00:33:39,792 --> 00:33:41,875 - And then we'll figure out, like, the big, big issues. 945 00:33:41,958 --> 00:33:43,833 - Yeah. - So... 946 00:33:43,917 --> 00:33:46,292 - I think I'm more okay with it now, like, 947 00:33:46,375 --> 00:33:47,958 seeing the person that he is. 948 00:33:48,042 --> 00:33:49,792 And, like, obviously, one of the bigger issues 949 00:33:49,792 --> 00:33:52,667 that I have with religion is when it infiltrates, 950 00:33:52,708 --> 00:33:55,958 like, how they treat and see other people in a negative way. 951 00:33:56,042 --> 00:33:58,167 And Austin isn't that way. 952 00:33:58,250 --> 00:34:02,583 And so I think I'm, like, ready to, like, bend on that. 953 00:34:02,667 --> 00:34:04,583 And I think that he-- 954 00:34:04,667 --> 00:34:07,292 I don't know if he is yet or will be. 955 00:34:07,375 --> 00:34:09,208 [chuckles] 956 00:34:09,292 --> 00:34:10,500 ♪ 957 00:34:10,583 --> 00:34:13,750 - ♪ Watch out, I'm coming through ♪ 958 00:34:13,833 --> 00:34:16,167 ♪ Stacking up a W 959 00:34:16,208 --> 00:34:17,833 - Cheers. - Cheers. 960 00:34:17,875 --> 00:34:19,792 To our first party. - Yeah. 961 00:34:19,875 --> 00:34:21,667 [knock at door] 962 00:34:21,708 --> 00:34:23,333 Ooh. - Whoo. 963 00:34:23,417 --> 00:34:24,792 Yes! 964 00:34:24,875 --> 00:34:27,292 ♪ 965 00:34:27,375 --> 00:34:29,875 Do you want to open the door? - Sure. 966 00:34:29,958 --> 00:34:32,792 all: Hello. 967 00:34:32,875 --> 00:34:34,875 - What's going on? - Hey. 968 00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:36,958 - Wow, you're so tan. 969 00:34:37,042 --> 00:34:38,875 - Hi, I'm Kiara. - Brennan. Nice to meet you. 970 00:34:38,958 --> 00:34:40,917 - Nice to meet you. Oh, my God. 971 00:34:41,042 --> 00:34:43,125 - Brennan. Nice to meet you. - Alex. 972 00:34:43,208 --> 00:34:45,500 - Welcome in, girls. 973 00:34:45,542 --> 00:34:48,125 - It's perfect. - I love the tiny hands. 974 00:34:48,208 --> 00:34:50,250 Tiny hands are my favorite thing. 975 00:34:50,333 --> 00:34:52,083 - All her. - Was this Emily? 976 00:34:52,167 --> 00:34:54,833 - What do you guys want? Wine, seltzer, vodka, Coke-- 977 00:34:54,875 --> 00:34:58,250 - Vodka sounds good for me. - I wish we got one tiny hand. 978 00:34:58,333 --> 00:35:01,583 That was my bad. - No, this is hilarious. 979 00:35:01,667 --> 00:35:02,958 - Thank you. 980 00:35:03,042 --> 00:35:04,917 ♪ 981 00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,500 all: Cheers. - Thank you guys for coming. 982 00:35:07,583 --> 00:35:09,167 - Thanks for having us. - Thanks for having us. 983 00:35:09,208 --> 00:35:10,542 - Isn't this place nice? - Mm-hmm. 984 00:35:10,667 --> 00:35:12,000 - I brought 2 things. - Hundreds of pounds-- 985 00:35:12,083 --> 00:35:13,167 - She brought 18 things. - His face was like-- 986 00:35:13,333 --> 00:35:14,875 I didn't tell him that-- 987 00:35:14,958 --> 00:35:16,333 - How come you only brought 2 things? 988 00:35:16,375 --> 00:35:18,000 - Because that's what we needed. 989 00:35:18,125 --> 00:35:20,125 [chuckling] And she brought 18 other things. 990 00:35:20,208 --> 00:35:21,833 - How was the move-in? - It was fun. 991 00:35:21,917 --> 00:35:25,583 I moved in my stuff from downstairs, mostly by myself. 992 00:35:25,667 --> 00:35:27,083 - That's so nice of you. 993 00:35:27,167 --> 00:35:28,792 - It must've been a pain lugging it all up. 994 00:35:28,875 --> 00:35:31,625 - Yeah, and with a bad wrist-- I was just on a mission. 995 00:35:31,708 --> 00:35:33,000 ♪ 996 00:35:33,042 --> 00:35:34,333 [knock at door] 997 00:35:34,375 --> 00:35:35,833 ♪ 998 00:35:35,917 --> 00:35:37,333 - There they are. - Hello. 999 00:35:37,375 --> 00:35:39,458 - There they are. You guys remember Emily. 1000 00:35:39,542 --> 00:35:41,333 What up? - Thank you, thank you. 1001 00:35:41,417 --> 00:35:42,875 - Did you guys notice the wig selection? 1002 00:35:42,958 --> 00:35:43,917 - I did. - Nice to meet you. 1003 00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:45,250 Chris. - Hi, I'm Kiara. 1004 00:35:45,333 --> 00:35:46,667 - Alex, Kiara. - Nice to meet you. 1005 00:35:46,708 --> 00:35:48,333 - Kiara? - Kiara, yes. 1006 00:35:48,458 --> 00:35:50,167 - So these are both, like, some of my closest friends. 1007 00:35:50,208 --> 00:35:51,875 And then, yeah, they're my closest friends. 1008 00:35:51,958 --> 00:35:53,417 - So they were at the wedding, so that's the difference. 1009 00:35:53,542 --> 00:35:54,833 - Yeah. - You guys were not. 1010 00:35:54,917 --> 00:35:56,292 - We haven't met. Yeah. - Mm-hmm. 1011 00:35:56,375 --> 00:35:58,167 - So you might have guessed, it is a wig party. 1012 00:35:58,250 --> 00:35:59,542 - Everyone create your own persona. 1013 00:35:59,667 --> 00:36:01,667 - What? Wait. Why? - This is, like... 1014 00:36:01,750 --> 00:36:04,333 - 'Cause it'll be funny, Alex. We're having fun, Alex. 1015 00:36:04,417 --> 00:36:05,792 This is fun. - All right. 1016 00:36:05,875 --> 00:36:08,167 - All right. How we doing? - I feel attacked. 1017 00:36:08,250 --> 00:36:10,083 [laughter] 1018 00:36:10,167 --> 00:36:12,708 - Your wig already fits you perfectly. 1019 00:36:12,792 --> 00:36:14,750 - I've got a really average-size head, 1020 00:36:14,833 --> 00:36:16,333 so things tend to fit. 1021 00:36:16,417 --> 00:36:18,333 - I look like I'm coming out of my mother's womb. 1022 00:36:18,417 --> 00:36:20,667 - [chuckles] I am reborn. - Yeah. 1023 00:36:20,750 --> 00:36:23,167 - Mullet boys right here-- Joe Dirt style. 1024 00:36:23,250 --> 00:36:25,500 - Okay, yeah, unfortunately, I'll be wearing the pink. 1025 00:36:25,625 --> 00:36:28,083 - [laughing] This is truly not acceptable. 1026 00:36:28,167 --> 00:36:29,542 - I have no words. 1027 00:36:29,625 --> 00:36:31,708 - I feel like I am in drag right now. 1028 00:36:31,792 --> 00:36:33,042 - Oh, you guys look great. 1029 00:36:33,042 --> 00:36:34,500 [surfer voice] Love it. So sick. 1030 00:36:34,583 --> 00:36:35,792 I'm Jimmy. 1031 00:36:35,875 --> 00:36:37,583 If anyone wants to ride a wave, just let me know, 1032 00:36:37,708 --> 00:36:39,375 because I want to get a [bleep] wave. 1033 00:36:39,500 --> 00:36:41,042 - I think you should try this one. 1034 00:36:41,125 --> 00:36:43,583 - I honestly think I have to because I can't see anything. 1035 00:36:43,667 --> 00:36:45,167 - Do I keep this on? - Oh, my God. 1036 00:36:45,250 --> 00:36:46,458 - The pink's cute. - Very fun, guys. 1037 00:36:46,542 --> 00:36:47,833 - I thought I looked genuinely good in them. 1038 00:36:47,917 --> 00:36:49,208 - The pink is good. 1039 00:36:49,333 --> 00:36:51,208 - Emily is one of our best friends, 1040 00:36:51,292 --> 00:36:54,500 and Emily is, like, 100% in. 1041 00:36:54,625 --> 00:36:57,667 Like, her whole self has been thrown into this. 1042 00:36:57,750 --> 00:36:59,833 I think my biggest concern would be-- 1043 00:36:59,917 --> 00:37:03,375 he's, like, not willing to, like, give it his all. 1044 00:37:03,458 --> 00:37:04,750 ♪ 1045 00:37:04,833 --> 00:37:07,208 - Wow, Brennan. - [laughs] 1046 00:37:07,208 --> 00:37:10,333 - Neither of us have met you... - Yes. 1047 00:37:10,417 --> 00:37:12,167 - Till this moment. - [normal voice] Yeah. 1048 00:37:12,250 --> 00:37:14,833 It's true, and now you're seeing my alternate form 1049 00:37:14,917 --> 00:37:16,542 and everything already. - Yeah, your alter ego. 1050 00:37:16,625 --> 00:37:18,667 - Day one. - No, we just want Brennan. 1051 00:37:18,750 --> 00:37:21,667 - Well, it's kind of hard when Jimmy's pressing. 1052 00:37:21,750 --> 00:37:24,292 - Let's just put Jimmy to the side for a sec. 1053 00:37:24,375 --> 00:37:26,458 - Eh, okay, I'll try. - All right. 1054 00:37:26,542 --> 00:37:28,750 - Ooh, I feel like this is an interrogation session. 1055 00:37:28,875 --> 00:37:31,625 - Yeah, this is very homey, like a job interview. 1056 00:37:31,708 --> 00:37:33,958 - I feel very pressured right now. 1057 00:37:34,042 --> 00:37:36,417 - How is the pressure from everything else, though? 1058 00:37:36,500 --> 00:37:38,333 - Uh... - Is that good? 1059 00:37:38,417 --> 00:37:40,292 - It definitely has, like, hit this week. 1060 00:37:40,375 --> 00:37:42,208 I mean, I didn't have any reservations, really, 1061 00:37:42,208 --> 00:37:44,167 until this week, 1062 00:37:44,250 --> 00:37:47,292 but part of me does question, like, 1063 00:37:47,292 --> 00:37:49,583 is he ready for this sort of commitment? 1064 00:37:49,708 --> 00:37:51,583 ♪ 1065 00:37:51,667 --> 00:37:53,708 - Tell us about you, Brennan. 1066 00:37:53,833 --> 00:37:56,458 What made you... 1067 00:37:56,542 --> 00:37:58,083 do the thing? - Yeah. 1068 00:37:58,167 --> 00:38:00,375 So I was find myself, like, going on, like, a lot of dates 1069 00:38:00,458 --> 00:38:02,792 and just wasn't going anywhere, you know. 1070 00:38:02,875 --> 00:38:05,958 I always just felt like there was something missing, and-- 1071 00:38:06,042 --> 00:38:08,500 - What was missing? - A partner to do it all with. 1072 00:38:08,542 --> 00:38:11,542 Like, I was living my life and wasn't doing it with anyone. 1073 00:38:11,625 --> 00:38:13,667 And that's why I wanted to do this. 1074 00:38:13,750 --> 00:38:15,708 - What I will say, like, about Emily, like, 1075 00:38:15,833 --> 00:38:17,625 she is super supportive. 1076 00:38:17,708 --> 00:38:20,375 She's kind of like a backbone. 1077 00:38:20,458 --> 00:38:22,042 Like, I feel like she's being 1078 00:38:22,125 --> 00:38:23,667 a backbone for you. - Mm-hmm. 1079 00:38:23,750 --> 00:38:26,167 - And I don't know much about you... 1080 00:38:26,292 --> 00:38:27,792 - Yeah. - Or heard much about you 1081 00:38:27,875 --> 00:38:30,167 that, like, you're being a backbone for her. 1082 00:38:30,292 --> 00:38:31,667 - Right. - Do you know what I mean? 1083 00:38:31,750 --> 00:38:34,583 Like, how do you plan on doing that? 1084 00:38:34,667 --> 00:38:36,625 - Yeah, I feel like I'm a very supportive person, 1085 00:38:36,708 --> 00:38:38,917 like, where I give more than I receive, 1086 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,292 but I don't really expect that. 1087 00:38:41,375 --> 00:38:43,125 You know, I give 'cause I want to give. 1088 00:38:43,208 --> 00:38:45,792 So I definitely, you know, plan on doing that for her as well. 1089 00:38:45,875 --> 00:38:47,500 ♪ 1090 00:38:47,542 --> 00:38:51,917 - Like, you say you're more giving than you receive. 1091 00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:53,917 But you... 1092 00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:57,417 Did you help her move all her [bleep] upstairs? 1093 00:38:57,500 --> 00:38:59,750 [scoffs] I would expect my partner to-- 1094 00:38:59,833 --> 00:39:01,958 - You got to understand like what this is, though. 1095 00:39:02,042 --> 00:39:04,333 I mean, like... 1096 00:39:04,375 --> 00:39:06,500 If this was real life, I should 100% help her move. 1097 00:39:06,542 --> 00:39:07,833 - This is real life, though. - We would be-- 1098 00:39:07,875 --> 00:39:09,167 ♪ 1099 00:39:09,250 --> 00:39:10,167 - Holy [bleep]. 1100 00:39:10,250 --> 00:39:12,000 ♪ 1101 00:39:12,083 --> 00:39:15,833 - Like, I think maybe you're failing to understand, 1102 00:39:15,917 --> 00:39:17,042 this is real life. 1103 00:39:17,125 --> 00:39:20,000 Like, you guys got married, right? 1104 00:39:20,042 --> 00:39:23,208 - Mm-hmm. - And I'm... 1105 00:39:23,292 --> 00:39:24,875 ♪ 1106 00:39:24,958 --> 00:39:27,917 A bit, like, worried and upset, to be honest. 1107 00:39:28,042 --> 00:39:29,667 - Why? 1108 00:39:29,667 --> 00:39:31,583 - I just think that she deserves a world, 1109 00:39:31,667 --> 00:39:35,042 and I'm not so sure... - Mm-hmm. 1110 00:39:35,125 --> 00:39:38,542 - That you're giving that to her. 1111 00:39:38,625 --> 00:39:40,583 ♪ 1112 00:39:40,708 --> 00:39:42,333 - Yeah, I feel like there's an instance 1113 00:39:42,375 --> 00:39:43,792 that you're talking about. 1114 00:39:43,875 --> 00:39:45,833 - Dude, I don't want to call you out, but, also, like, 1115 00:39:45,917 --> 00:39:48,708 her just taking everything out of the oven 1116 00:39:48,875 --> 00:39:50,167 and preparing it. 1117 00:39:50,250 --> 00:39:51,500 - Do you need help, Emily? - Me? 1118 00:39:51,583 --> 00:39:53,292 - Do you need help? - No. 1119 00:39:53,375 --> 00:39:55,083 - She has an extra hand. [chuckles] 1120 00:39:55,208 --> 00:39:56,833 Clap for her. 1121 00:39:56,917 --> 00:39:58,958 ♪ 1122 00:39:58,958 --> 00:40:00,667 - And I'm like, hey, do you need help? 1123 00:40:00,750 --> 00:40:04,042 I almost was, like, looking at you when I said that. 1124 00:40:04,125 --> 00:40:06,500 - Wait, I pulled everything out of the oven. 1125 00:40:06,583 --> 00:40:09,208 - What are those? - Churros and mini wieners. 1126 00:40:09,333 --> 00:40:11,250 - Yum. - What was the second thing? 1127 00:40:11,333 --> 00:40:12,667 - Mini wieners? - Oh. 1128 00:40:12,750 --> 00:40:14,167 - And put it all on platters and-- 1129 00:40:14,208 --> 00:40:15,375 - I didn't put it on the platters, 1130 00:40:15,458 --> 00:40:16,833 but I took it all out of the oven. 1131 00:40:16,917 --> 00:40:18,833 - Excellent. You took it out of the oven, but-- 1132 00:40:18,917 --> 00:40:20,667 - So you're saying because you put it on the platters, 1133 00:40:20,750 --> 00:40:22,333 that's a whole different-- - Yeah. I feel-- 1134 00:40:22,417 --> 00:40:23,958 - I think it's like a partnership. 1135 00:40:24,042 --> 00:40:25,833 - Because I pulled it out, but I didn't put it on a platter, 1136 00:40:25,875 --> 00:40:27,750 that you're coming at me for that? 1137 00:40:27,833 --> 00:40:29,625 - I feel like you're getting, like, kind of like stuck in, 1138 00:40:29,708 --> 00:40:33,167 like, the, you know, like the details of random scenarios, 1139 00:40:33,208 --> 00:40:35,792 but at the end of the day-- 1140 00:40:35,875 --> 00:40:38,417 - I'm, like, at a loss, actually. 1141 00:40:38,500 --> 00:40:40,083 - Like, you-- - Wait, no, no. 1142 00:40:40,083 --> 00:40:41,792 So all the, like-- 1143 00:40:41,875 --> 00:40:44,750 So all the setup, everything you didn't see doesn't apply? 1144 00:40:44,833 --> 00:40:46,292 The only thing that you're concerned about 1145 00:40:46,417 --> 00:40:47,833 is that I didn't-- 1146 00:40:47,875 --> 00:40:49,500 - No, that's not the only thing I'm concerned about. 1147 00:40:49,542 --> 00:40:50,958 I'm making an example. - Okay. 1148 00:40:51,042 --> 00:40:53,750 - I'm making an example of her plating everything, 1149 00:40:53,833 --> 00:40:55,292 and you just standing there. 1150 00:40:55,375 --> 00:40:57,167 Like, that's my point. 1151 00:40:57,292 --> 00:40:58,583 - I'm just saying, like-- - No, no. 1152 00:40:58,667 --> 00:41:00,042 It seems like you're coming at me and not asking, 1153 00:41:00,208 --> 00:41:01,667 did you help her set up-- 1154 00:41:01,750 --> 00:41:03,417 - Listen, like, that's one of my best friends. 1155 00:41:03,542 --> 00:41:05,167 - I get that. - Of course, I'm gonna-- 1156 00:41:05,250 --> 00:41:06,583 - But it seems like you're attacking 1157 00:41:06,667 --> 00:41:08,417 rather than trying to understand and get to know. 1158 00:41:08,417 --> 00:41:10,125 - No, I am fully trying to understand... 1159 00:41:10,208 --> 00:41:11,958 - Okay. - Why did you do this? 1160 00:41:12,042 --> 00:41:14,333 ♪ 1161 00:41:14,417 --> 00:41:16,208 Listen, at the end of the day, 1162 00:41:16,292 --> 00:41:19,167 I know this whole-- 1163 00:41:19,208 --> 00:41:21,708 like, it's a lot more 1164 00:41:21,792 --> 00:41:24,042 that goes on in the background, obviously. 1165 00:41:24,125 --> 00:41:25,375 - Yeah. 1166 00:41:25,458 --> 00:41:27,708 - But, to me, like, let's be serious. 1167 00:41:27,833 --> 00:41:31,333 Like, why have you decided to get married at first sight? 1168 00:41:31,417 --> 00:41:32,667 I'm not sure-- 1169 00:41:32,750 --> 00:41:33,875 - I'm gonna answer your question. 1170 00:41:33,958 --> 00:41:35,833 I'm trying to understand the attack, though. 1171 00:41:35,917 --> 00:41:38,042 Is it that that's, like, making you feel like you have 1172 00:41:38,167 --> 00:41:40,375 to ask me, like, my integrity of why I'm doing the show? 1173 00:41:40,458 --> 00:41:41,625 - No, you don't like filming. - No, no, no. 1174 00:41:41,708 --> 00:41:43,458 - You've made miserable to film. 1175 00:41:43,542 --> 00:41:44,875 - [laughs] Miserable to film? - No, no, no, no. 1176 00:41:44,958 --> 00:41:46,708 - You have. - No, no, no. Hold on. 1177 00:41:46,792 --> 00:41:48,792 - That's what she told you? No, no. I'm just get-- 1178 00:41:48,875 --> 00:41:51,792 - Man, so angry. Let's all relax for a second. 1179 00:41:51,875 --> 00:41:53,875 - I've met you guys for an hour, 1180 00:41:53,958 --> 00:41:55,792 and you guys are coming at me like it's nobody's business. 1181 00:41:55,875 --> 00:41:57,375 - Excuse me. Okay, listen. - No, no, no, no. 1182 00:41:57,500 --> 00:41:58,958 Let's take a deep breath, because Emily told you 1183 00:41:59,042 --> 00:42:00,750 some [bleep], and you guys came in hot. 1184 00:42:00,833 --> 00:42:02,625 - Emily didn't tell me [bleep]. - Okay. 1185 00:42:02,708 --> 00:42:04,333 So you're just coming at me out of the woodwork? 1186 00:42:04,375 --> 00:42:05,542 - I haven't said anything. 1187 00:42:05,625 --> 00:42:07,208 I've been asking you questions, right? 1188 00:42:07,333 --> 00:42:08,458 - Uh-huh. Mm-hmm. 1189 00:42:08,542 --> 00:42:10,083 - So the question is-- 1190 00:42:10,167 --> 00:42:12,417 You're married to one of my best friends. 1191 00:42:12,542 --> 00:42:14,083 - Yeah. - So who are-- 1192 00:42:14,167 --> 00:42:17,125 Like, in my mind, it's like, who are you? 1193 00:42:17,208 --> 00:42:18,917 Why are you here? 1194 00:42:19,042 --> 00:42:20,750 ♪ 1195 00:42:20,833 --> 00:42:22,875 And you can't give that to me. 1196 00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:24,625 - [scoffs] 1197 00:42:28,833 --> 00:42:29,833 What answer are you looking for? 1198 00:42:29,958 --> 00:42:31,542 I'm just curious. - I'm sorry, what? 1199 00:42:31,625 --> 00:42:33,583 - What answer are you looking for? 1200 00:42:33,667 --> 00:42:35,500 Because I told you I'm here 1201 00:42:35,542 --> 00:42:37,083 because I felt like something was missing. 1202 00:42:37,208 --> 00:42:39,375 And I'm here because I want a romantic partner 1203 00:42:39,458 --> 00:42:41,083 that I can do life with. - Perfect. 1204 00:42:41,167 --> 00:42:44,542 - But do you think, like, you're emotionally ready 1205 00:42:44,625 --> 00:42:46,833 to, like, have those conversations 1206 00:42:46,917 --> 00:42:50,167 and open up, like, fully and like, let your guard down? 1207 00:42:50,208 --> 00:42:51,833 - I think so. 1208 00:42:51,875 --> 00:42:54,792 And I feel like I've done, like, a decent job at it. 1209 00:42:54,875 --> 00:42:57,458 I know she wants me to be more emotional and open up more, 1210 00:42:57,542 --> 00:42:58,875 so I'm trying. 1211 00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:00,792 I feel like we made a lot of progress. 1212 00:43:00,875 --> 00:43:02,833 I'm not perfect, and, you know, I can't be everything 1213 00:43:02,875 --> 00:43:05,167 she wants day one, but, you know, hopefully 1214 00:43:05,208 --> 00:43:06,750 one day we'll get there. 1215 00:43:06,833 --> 00:43:09,417 - I do think, like, you have good intentions. 1216 00:43:09,500 --> 00:43:13,000 I just am not sure that you... 1217 00:43:13,125 --> 00:43:15,958 like, have the emotional capacity. 1218 00:43:16,042 --> 00:43:17,917 Like, I've dated guys like that. 1219 00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:19,083 - So should I just quit now? Is that what you're saying? 1220 00:43:19,208 --> 00:43:20,417 both: No. 1221 00:43:20,500 --> 00:43:22,000 - It's not there, should I just quit? 1222 00:43:22,083 --> 00:43:23,792 - No. What? That's not what I'm saying at all. 1223 00:43:23,875 --> 00:43:25,625 To me, there's no hostility coming at you. 1224 00:43:25,708 --> 00:43:27,292 It's just genuinely, like, being concerned 1225 00:43:27,375 --> 00:43:29,042 for, like, a good friend. 1226 00:43:29,042 --> 00:43:32,000 And your reactions 1227 00:43:32,125 --> 00:43:36,167 are, like, wild to me, in my opinion. 1228 00:43:36,250 --> 00:43:37,875 ♪ 1229 00:43:37,958 --> 00:43:40,250 Like, you knew that you were gonna get married 1230 00:43:40,375 --> 00:43:41,667 and be with someone. 1231 00:43:41,750 --> 00:43:43,333 You were gonna move in with them, 1232 00:43:43,417 --> 00:43:44,875 and it was gonna be, like, intensive. 1233 00:43:44,958 --> 00:43:47,167 Like, it's super intense. It's not, like, all fun-- 1234 00:43:47,250 --> 00:43:50,292 - I'm still here. - Yeah. 1235 00:43:50,375 --> 00:43:52,125 - I mean, see, you don't think that's an attack, 1236 00:43:52,208 --> 00:43:53,875 but it's, like, those are digging words. 1237 00:43:53,958 --> 00:43:55,667 Like, I'm literally sitting in front of you, 1238 00:43:55,792 --> 00:43:57,833 like, just taking hits for what--Like, why? 1239 00:43:57,917 --> 00:43:59,375 - Listen, I wasn't-- 1240 00:43:59,500 --> 00:44:01,500 - I'm here trying to make a relationship with my girl. 1241 00:44:01,542 --> 00:44:02,917 - Brennan, listen. - See? Like... 1242 00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:04,542 [chuckles] And then you go back, and you're like-- 1243 00:44:04,625 --> 00:44:06,708 You know, like, don't sit here and act like you understand. 1244 00:44:06,792 --> 00:44:08,333 I'm not making excuses. 1245 00:44:08,375 --> 00:44:10,750 - Well, I do [bleep] understand that you have signed up 1246 00:44:10,833 --> 00:44:12,875 for something, and you are now married 1247 00:44:12,958 --> 00:44:13,917 to one of our best friends. 1248 00:44:14,042 --> 00:44:15,458 And that's where we're coming at. 1249 00:44:15,542 --> 00:44:17,958 - I don't know you, so... 1250 00:44:18,042 --> 00:44:20,083 - You're right, you don't know me. 1251 00:44:20,167 --> 00:44:22,958 And, like, that's exactly why we're here, to get to know you. 1252 00:44:23,042 --> 00:44:25,875 And it feels like you're being resistant to that. 1253 00:44:25,958 --> 00:44:29,083 - [chuckles] - And you're, like--that's my-- 1254 00:44:29,167 --> 00:44:31,750 - I am, because you're saying these, like, big words 1255 00:44:31,833 --> 00:44:33,167 when you know me for 20 minutes. 1256 00:44:33,250 --> 00:44:34,792 - You're right. I don't know you that well. 1257 00:44:34,875 --> 00:44:36,583 But to me, it's like-- 1258 00:44:36,708 --> 00:44:38,417 - But we are trying to get to know you. 1259 00:44:38,417 --> 00:44:39,833 - Yeah. - Like, this is my opinion. 1260 00:44:39,917 --> 00:44:42,125 You can hate me for it, but it's like, 1261 00:44:42,208 --> 00:44:44,667 resistance is what I, like, feel. 1262 00:44:44,792 --> 00:44:46,667 - It's like emotionally guarded. 1263 00:44:46,708 --> 00:44:47,875 - I'm trying. 1264 00:44:47,958 --> 00:44:50,500 - And you just seem super resistant. 1265 00:44:50,583 --> 00:44:52,625 - To what? - To everything. 1266 00:44:52,708 --> 00:44:53,875 - Everything, okay. 1267 00:44:53,958 --> 00:44:55,542 - It's not attacking you. 1268 00:44:55,625 --> 00:44:59,167 It's just, like, dude, like, I'm concerned. 1269 00:44:59,208 --> 00:45:02,083 ♪ 1270 00:45:02,167 --> 00:45:05,292 - ♪ So come, come and live this moment ♪ 1271 00:45:05,375 --> 00:45:07,583 ♪ Like it's all we got 1272 00:45:07,583 --> 00:45:08,917 ♪ Cheers to that 1273 00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:11,833 - Did you warm up the food? - What do you mean? 1274 00:45:11,917 --> 00:45:14,375 - Did you warm up the food in the oven? 1275 00:45:14,458 --> 00:45:16,625 - I mean, the oven is warm. - No, you didn't. 1276 00:45:16,708 --> 00:45:18,167 It's okay. 1277 00:45:18,250 --> 00:45:20,167 - The oven is at-- Put your hand in there. 1278 00:45:20,250 --> 00:45:22,083 [oven door opens] The food's not-- 1279 00:45:22,167 --> 00:45:23,833 - Yeah, it's cold. [chuckles] That's okay. 1280 00:45:23,875 --> 00:45:25,667 We'll just put this on to-- 1281 00:45:25,792 --> 00:45:27,542 - The oven was just on, like, 20 minutes ago. 1282 00:45:27,708 --> 00:45:29,583 [oven beeping] - Oh. 1283 00:45:29,708 --> 00:45:31,833 - I think it's pretty dry. 1284 00:45:31,958 --> 00:45:33,542 - Oh, is that why you-- Oh, okay. 1285 00:45:33,667 --> 00:45:36,667 - I mean, I took a look at it, and it looks several days old. 1286 00:45:36,708 --> 00:45:38,667 - [laughs] Oh, no. 1287 00:45:38,708 --> 00:45:40,542 Hey, guys, welcome to our housewarming party. 1288 00:45:40,625 --> 00:45:41,917 The food is five hours old. 1289 00:45:42,042 --> 00:45:45,583 - I mean, look at the nachos. They are-- 1290 00:45:45,708 --> 00:45:47,083 - You're right, and that was my bad. 1291 00:45:47,167 --> 00:45:49,042 We should have waited to get the food, 1292 00:45:49,167 --> 00:45:51,750 because I was so wanting to prepare ahead that I was like, 1293 00:45:51,833 --> 00:45:53,458 yeah, let's get it now. 1294 00:45:53,458 --> 00:45:56,875 And like in reality, you know, it's five hours old. 1295 00:45:56,958 --> 00:45:59,000 But I'm still gonna eat it because I'm hungry. 1296 00:45:59,042 --> 00:46:00,833 Are you gonna eat? - I'm gonna have some. 1297 00:46:00,875 --> 00:46:04,125 [knock at door] 1298 00:46:04,208 --> 00:46:05,042 - Yoo-hoo. 1299 00:46:05,125 --> 00:46:06,500 - Hi. 1300 00:46:06,625 --> 00:46:08,250 - Hey, how are you?. - Good to see you. 1301 00:46:08,250 --> 00:46:09,500 I'm good. How are you? 1302 00:46:09,625 --> 00:46:11,000 - Look at you, you brought your pot. 1303 00:46:11,042 --> 00:46:12,500 - Mm-hmm. - Oh, we love that. 1304 00:46:12,542 --> 00:46:13,917 - Do not drink out of a cup. 1305 00:46:14,042 --> 00:46:15,958 - Okay, so, Amy... - Nice to meet you. 1306 00:46:16,042 --> 00:46:17,917 - This is my husband, Cameron. - Hey, nice to meet you. 1307 00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:19,833 - [laughs] - Amy? 1308 00:46:19,833 --> 00:46:21,750 - Yeah. Yeah. - Yeah. Got it. 1309 00:46:21,833 --> 00:46:24,000 - Yeah, we got treats, we got yummies. 1310 00:46:24,083 --> 00:46:25,708 - Yeah, we got plenty of food. - This is beautiful. 1311 00:46:25,708 --> 00:46:27,042 - Look at my drink. 1312 00:46:27,208 --> 00:46:29,167 - [laughs] - It was a frozen marg, 1313 00:46:29,250 --> 00:46:31,167 and now it just looks like water, which is sad. 1314 00:46:31,208 --> 00:46:34,042 - Put it on the stove? - Yeah. That's what he said. 1315 00:46:34,125 --> 00:46:36,000 My friends are, like, everything to me. 1316 00:46:36,083 --> 00:46:38,708 And so I really hope that my friends like Cameron. 1317 00:46:38,792 --> 00:46:40,667 That would ease my anxiety a lot. 1318 00:46:40,708 --> 00:46:43,375 I think I would just be, like, more open. 1319 00:46:43,458 --> 00:46:45,792 I was like, I'm a little scared that I'm gonna be in a room 1320 00:46:45,875 --> 00:46:47,333 with three therapists. 1321 00:46:47,375 --> 00:46:48,917 He's like, normally, that would not settle-- 1322 00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:50,292 well, he didn't say scared. - Oh, yeah. 1323 00:46:50,375 --> 00:46:52,000 - But he said-- - This will be fun. 1324 00:46:52,042 --> 00:46:53,667 - Yeah. He said--he was like, most people wouldn't be 1325 00:46:53,708 --> 00:46:55,917 comfortable with that. 1326 00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:58,083 - I'm completely comfortable. 1327 00:46:58,167 --> 00:47:00,667 - [laughs] 1328 00:47:00,750 --> 00:47:02,167 ♪ 1329 00:47:02,208 --> 00:47:04,000 - Distant. both: Distant? 1330 00:47:04,042 --> 00:47:05,833 - Yeah. both: Yeah. 1331 00:47:05,917 --> 00:47:07,708 - Does he know you're on this? - No. 1332 00:47:07,708 --> 00:47:09,625 - [gasps] - Really? 1333 00:47:09,625 --> 00:47:13,500 - What would you like to tell a man who's on his deathbed? 1334 00:47:13,583 --> 00:47:15,000 - Oh. 1335 00:47:15,042 --> 00:47:17,000 - Is that a conversation that you want to have? 1336 00:47:17,083 --> 00:47:19,250 - Oh, wow, okay, first of all, did not realize 1337 00:47:19,375 --> 00:47:20,542 either of those things. 1338 00:47:20,625 --> 00:47:21,917 I didn't know you didn't tell him, 1339 00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:23,333 and I didn't know that he was sick, so I'm sorry. 1340 00:47:23,417 --> 00:47:25,667 - Very sick. - I'm very sorry to hear that. 1341 00:47:25,708 --> 00:47:27,333 That's really heavy stuff. 1342 00:47:27,417 --> 00:47:30,292 [dramatic music] 1343 00:47:34,708 --> 00:47:36,375 ♪ 1344 00:47:36,458 --> 00:47:39,208 Well, what would he think if he knew? 1345 00:47:40,875 --> 00:47:42,417 - I don't know, honestly. 1346 00:47:42,500 --> 00:47:43,833 - Really? - Yeah. 1347 00:47:43,917 --> 00:47:45,958 - Okay, we don't have to go there. 1348 00:47:45,958 --> 00:47:48,500 It's really strange to me that he's bringing up 1349 00:47:48,583 --> 00:47:52,333 really heavy things in public 1350 00:47:52,417 --> 00:47:54,333 or, you know, in front of people, 1351 00:47:54,417 --> 00:47:56,500 when he won't even do that with me 1352 00:47:56,583 --> 00:47:58,250 in private. 1353 00:47:58,333 --> 00:48:00,500 I'm just really confused, honestly. 1354 00:48:00,625 --> 00:48:03,792 I feel like he doesn't trust me enough to just, like... 1355 00:48:03,875 --> 00:48:05,958 tell me, and that's weird to me. 1356 00:48:06,042 --> 00:48:07,417 I don't know. 1357 00:48:07,500 --> 00:48:09,042 We are married. - Mm-hmm. 1358 00:48:09,125 --> 00:48:10,583 - And I think it's true, like, that most people 1359 00:48:10,708 --> 00:48:12,625 wouldn't be comfortable. [doorbell rings] 1360 00:48:12,708 --> 00:48:14,958 - I had something-- - Ah. 1361 00:48:17,125 --> 00:48:19,542 - [chuckles] My sister. - [grunting] You're late. 1362 00:48:19,667 --> 00:48:21,000 Where your cup? 1363 00:48:21,083 --> 00:48:23,083 - Oh, we have brought two, actually. 1364 00:48:23,167 --> 00:48:25,292 - Wait. Guys, those are literally actually cups. 1365 00:48:25,375 --> 00:48:28,833 - No, they're deli containers. - [laughs] Hello, hello, hello. 1366 00:48:28,917 --> 00:48:30,708 - Hi, congratulations. - Thank you. 1367 00:48:30,833 --> 00:48:32,292 - Yeah, congratulations. 1368 00:48:32,375 --> 00:48:33,833 - You guys are about to meet my husband. 1369 00:48:33,875 --> 00:48:35,333 - There he is. 1370 00:48:35,375 --> 00:48:37,042 - And also, you'll check out the new place. 1371 00:48:37,125 --> 00:48:38,667 - Hey, girl. - Hi. 1372 00:48:38,708 --> 00:48:40,167 - Yo, what's up? 1373 00:48:40,250 --> 00:48:41,833 - I'm Ross. Great to meet you. - How are you? 1374 00:48:41,917 --> 00:48:43,625 - I'm good. How are you doing? - Cameron. 1375 00:48:43,708 --> 00:48:45,083 - Cameron. Rob. Nice to meet you. 1376 00:48:45,167 --> 00:48:47,167 - I'm gonna get you guys a margarita. 1377 00:48:47,208 --> 00:48:48,375 Do you guys want a strawberry marg? 1378 00:48:48,458 --> 00:48:49,958 - Sure. 1379 00:48:50,042 --> 00:48:51,292 - 'Cause that's the only flavor we got. 1380 00:48:51,375 --> 00:48:53,292 - Okay. Well, no, we don't. - Oh, okay. I'm sorry. 1381 00:48:53,375 --> 00:48:54,667 - Cameron. We have-- - I'm sorry. 1382 00:48:54,708 --> 00:48:56,583 - Strike one. [laughter] 1383 00:48:56,667 --> 00:48:58,167 - No, no, no, no, no. 1384 00:48:58,250 --> 00:49:00,917 We're on the secondhand strikes at this point. 1385 00:49:01,042 --> 00:49:02,417 - Oh. - Yeah, don't you worry. 1386 00:49:02,542 --> 00:49:04,500 - Okay, so sorry. Sorry to interrupt, but-- 1387 00:49:04,542 --> 00:49:07,500 [blender whirring] 1388 00:49:07,583 --> 00:49:10,208 ♪ 1389 00:49:10,292 --> 00:49:14,917 Okay, cheers to this new home, my new husband-- 1390 00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:17,708 wild to stay still-- and to friends. 1391 00:49:17,792 --> 00:49:20,458 all: Cheers. 1392 00:49:20,542 --> 00:49:22,333 - Can you pass me a plate? - Absolutely. 1393 00:49:22,417 --> 00:49:24,750 - Thanks, gorge. - Absolutely. [laughs] 1394 00:49:24,833 --> 00:49:27,000 - How's it going? 1395 00:49:27,083 --> 00:49:29,000 - Marriage has been a wild ride. 1396 00:49:29,042 --> 00:49:30,833 It's been-- 1397 00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:33,333 [laughs] I've felt literally every single emotion 1398 00:49:33,417 --> 00:49:35,292 that I could possibly feel, and it's like-- 1399 00:49:35,292 --> 00:49:37,292 - Do I have to, like, pull out the feelings wheel, and-- 1400 00:49:37,375 --> 00:49:38,875 - Yeah, that feelings wheel, exactly. 1401 00:49:38,958 --> 00:49:40,417 - And how is that for you, Cam? 1402 00:49:40,542 --> 00:49:44,333 How do you handle Clare's emotions, numerous as they are? 1403 00:49:44,375 --> 00:49:46,667 - [laughs] Hey. 1404 00:49:46,750 --> 00:49:48,417 - I think-- I think pretty well. 1405 00:49:48,500 --> 00:49:52,250 I mean, I give her the whole standoffish... 1406 00:49:52,375 --> 00:49:54,167 and then I come back later and say sorry. 1407 00:49:54,292 --> 00:49:56,958 You know, it kind of just works out, right? 1408 00:49:57,042 --> 00:49:59,208 - Pretty healthy, I would say. 1409 00:49:59,333 --> 00:50:03,167 - I mean, 'cause if I engage, it just, you know... 1410 00:50:03,292 --> 00:50:05,167 - But Clare's always right, is what you're saying. 1411 00:50:05,208 --> 00:50:06,667 - Yeah. Isn't that correct, though? 1412 00:50:06,750 --> 00:50:08,042 - I'm not gonna disagree with that. 1413 00:50:08,125 --> 00:50:09,208 - Exactly. 1414 00:50:09,292 --> 00:50:11,000 - I'm not gonna disagree with that. 1415 00:50:11,042 --> 00:50:12,958 - What made you want to do this whole process? 1416 00:50:13,042 --> 00:50:14,667 - Good question. 1417 00:50:14,708 --> 00:50:17,333 - I mean, I... 1418 00:50:17,417 --> 00:50:20,000 I've always wanted to be married. 1419 00:50:20,042 --> 00:50:21,542 - Mm-hmm. - I was single. 1420 00:50:21,625 --> 00:50:24,958 I didn't have any, like, immediate relationship baggage 1421 00:50:25,042 --> 00:50:26,583 that I was, like, worried about, you know, 1422 00:50:26,667 --> 00:50:29,625 bringing into a marriage or anything like that. 1423 00:50:29,708 --> 00:50:32,375 And I was financially stable. 1424 00:50:32,458 --> 00:50:34,292 I just looked at all the things, 1425 00:50:34,375 --> 00:50:36,167 and I was like, I think it's the right time 1426 00:50:36,208 --> 00:50:39,542 in my life for this commitment of marriage. 1427 00:50:39,625 --> 00:50:42,708 And there was nothing that said no... 1428 00:50:42,708 --> 00:50:44,917 - Mm-hmm. - So, you know... 1429 00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:47,000 And I'm an adventurous kind of person, and-- 1430 00:50:47,083 --> 00:50:48,792 - Do you regret it? 1431 00:50:48,875 --> 00:50:51,125 ♪ 1432 00:50:51,208 --> 00:50:53,083 - [chuckles] 1433 00:50:53,167 --> 00:50:55,208 - I would say, um... 1434 00:50:55,292 --> 00:50:57,833 I will never get married at first sight again, 1435 00:50:57,917 --> 00:51:00,583 but I'm very happy I did this time. 1436 00:51:00,667 --> 00:51:01,958 - Oh, good answer. 1437 00:51:02,042 --> 00:51:03,417 - Right, because marriage is for life. 1438 00:51:03,500 --> 00:51:05,375 - What does your family think of it? 1439 00:51:05,458 --> 00:51:08,167 - Well, the family that know about it, 1440 00:51:08,208 --> 00:51:09,833 they are very supportive. - Oh. 1441 00:51:09,917 --> 00:51:11,708 We've learned a lot tonight. - Mm-hmm. 1442 00:51:11,833 --> 00:51:13,333 - And we're learning even more. 1443 00:51:13,417 --> 00:51:15,333 - Clare's friends are all therapists. 1444 00:51:15,375 --> 00:51:20,208 So I know that they will psychoanalyze me. 1445 00:51:20,333 --> 00:51:23,917 But it's very helpful to get advice outside of my bubble 1446 00:51:24,042 --> 00:51:25,958 and just, you know, hear their thoughts 1447 00:51:26,042 --> 00:51:27,667 on what we're going through. 1448 00:51:27,750 --> 00:51:29,833 - So how have things been? 1449 00:51:29,917 --> 00:51:33,750 - Uh...bumpy. - Bumpy. 1450 00:51:33,833 --> 00:51:35,542 - I'd say is fair, yeah. 1451 00:51:35,625 --> 00:51:37,292 Um... 1452 00:51:37,292 --> 00:51:40,458 but, um, I mean, I think every day I spend with Clare, 1453 00:51:40,542 --> 00:51:42,208 I get deeper and deeper feelings for her, 1454 00:51:42,292 --> 00:51:44,417 because I really do like her. 1455 00:51:44,500 --> 00:51:46,208 She's hands down 1456 00:51:46,208 --> 00:51:48,333 the smartest girl I've ever been lucky enough 1457 00:51:48,417 --> 00:51:50,125 to be in a relationship with. 1458 00:51:50,208 --> 00:51:52,167 - There are several things that I really enjoy. 1459 00:51:52,208 --> 00:51:55,000 He's, you know, very smart, as you can pick up on. 1460 00:51:55,083 --> 00:51:56,833 - Mm-hmm. - He's very educated. 1461 00:51:56,958 --> 00:51:58,667 I respect him so much as a person, 1462 00:51:58,750 --> 00:52:03,125 and I know he respects me, but sometimes I wonder, like, 1463 00:52:03,250 --> 00:52:04,833 is it enough? - Mm-hmm. 1464 00:52:04,875 --> 00:52:08,667 - Like, is this enough to make a lifelong marriage? 1465 00:52:08,708 --> 00:52:11,208 - Right now it's, like, super-weird feelings 1466 00:52:11,292 --> 00:52:16,083 because I feel like I'm maybe bearing more 1467 00:52:16,167 --> 00:52:19,125 of the emotional struggle in this moment, 1468 00:52:19,208 --> 00:52:21,958 just, like. really kind of feeling like I'm sinking 1469 00:52:22,042 --> 00:52:23,500 versus swimming. 1470 00:52:23,542 --> 00:52:24,375 ♪ 1471 00:52:28,250 --> 00:52:29,708 - Um... - Like, what do you mean? 1472 00:52:29,708 --> 00:52:30,542 Like, what happened? 1473 00:52:30,917 --> 00:52:34,250 - So, I mean, just to kind of say what's on my mind-- 1474 00:52:34,333 --> 00:52:39,500 the topic of religion came up. 1475 00:52:39,583 --> 00:52:43,708 And I am open to having a partner of any religion. 1476 00:52:43,708 --> 00:52:46,833 But just--I would never want to raise my children religious. 1477 00:52:46,917 --> 00:52:48,375 - Right. 1478 00:52:48,458 --> 00:52:50,167 - Clare, obviously, feels differently about that. 1479 00:52:50,208 --> 00:52:52,417 - He is very anti-religion. 1480 00:52:52,500 --> 00:52:55,667 Thinks like, if we were to raise our kids religious, 1481 00:52:55,750 --> 00:52:58,333 it would completely, like, brainwash them. 1482 00:52:58,417 --> 00:53:00,333 - Mm-hmm. - And I just don't see it 1483 00:53:00,333 --> 00:53:02,667 that way just because I have had personal experiences 1484 00:53:02,750 --> 00:53:04,167 with my own faith. 1485 00:53:04,250 --> 00:53:05,917 - I think all you can do is just be as open 1486 00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:07,333 as you possibly can. - Totally. 1487 00:53:07,458 --> 00:53:10,125 - Try to let go of some of the stress. 1488 00:53:10,125 --> 00:53:11,292 - Yeah. - And as far as the kids thing, 1489 00:53:11,375 --> 00:53:13,042 it's like, in most situations, 1490 00:53:13,125 --> 00:53:15,000 there's a compromise that can be made. 1491 00:53:15,083 --> 00:53:17,000 But that's a tough one to compromise on. 1492 00:53:17,125 --> 00:53:18,417 - What do you do? 1493 00:53:18,500 --> 00:53:20,667 - You know, I don't think you and Clare 1494 00:53:20,750 --> 00:53:22,500 need to say right now that there's no way 1495 00:53:22,583 --> 00:53:24,208 that you could make that work. 1496 00:53:24,292 --> 00:53:26,667 Not every--Relationship isn't always honeymoon phase, 1497 00:53:26,750 --> 00:53:28,375 love, love, love, everything is great. 1498 00:53:28,458 --> 00:53:29,792 It takes a lot of effort. 1499 00:53:29,875 --> 00:53:31,750 It can be really daunting to try and find 1500 00:53:31,875 --> 00:53:33,667 some middle ground on. 1501 00:53:33,750 --> 00:53:36,208 But, you know, keep exploring, like, your romantic connection 1502 00:53:36,333 --> 00:53:37,917 and, like, maybe, like, what brought you 1503 00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:39,208 to this experience. - Yeah. 1504 00:53:39,333 --> 00:53:41,417 - Like, this already was something 1505 00:53:41,500 --> 00:53:43,875 that you wouldn't normally do. 1506 00:53:43,958 --> 00:53:45,917 So really, like, lean into that. 1507 00:53:46,042 --> 00:53:47,917 Like, just see where that leads you, 1508 00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:50,083 and I think both of you would surprise each other 1509 00:53:50,167 --> 00:53:51,333 with where you go. 1510 00:53:51,458 --> 00:53:53,333 - Cameron's interesting. 1511 00:53:53,375 --> 00:53:55,167 You know, it's great to get to know him. 1512 00:53:55,292 --> 00:53:56,625 He's a lot of fun. 1513 00:53:56,708 --> 00:53:58,333 I feel like he-- 1514 00:53:58,458 --> 00:54:01,500 he has a lot of really valid and important feelings 1515 00:54:01,542 --> 00:54:03,333 and things to say, but it doesn't feel 1516 00:54:03,375 --> 00:54:05,250 like he always knows how to say them. 1517 00:54:05,333 --> 00:54:06,667 And just knowing Clare, you know, 1518 00:54:06,792 --> 00:54:09,542 I do wonder how that's gonna work out for them. 1519 00:54:09,542 --> 00:54:11,792 - We just have, like, very different 1520 00:54:11,875 --> 00:54:13,833 foundational backgrounds. 1521 00:54:13,875 --> 00:54:15,792 When he brought up his dad... - Mm-hmm. 1522 00:54:15,875 --> 00:54:18,417 - The way that he just, like, ripped that 1523 00:54:18,500 --> 00:54:21,250 out of, like, nowhere, like, I would have liked to have 1524 00:54:21,375 --> 00:54:23,125 that conversation without you there 1525 00:54:23,208 --> 00:54:25,167 so that we could actually talk about it 1526 00:54:25,250 --> 00:54:26,667 instead of being in, like, a social setting 1527 00:54:26,792 --> 00:54:28,333 where it's like, we're eating cookies, 1528 00:54:28,417 --> 00:54:29,542 and all of a sudden, you say, 1529 00:54:29,625 --> 00:54:31,417 my dad is, like, on his deathbed. 1530 00:54:31,500 --> 00:54:32,833 Like, that really threw me for a loop. 1531 00:54:32,958 --> 00:54:34,333 I was like, whoa. - Me too. 1532 00:54:34,417 --> 00:54:36,000 - As you know, like, family is very important. 1533 00:54:36,083 --> 00:54:37,583 - Yeah. - And so for me 1534 00:54:37,667 --> 00:54:40,292 to be with someone where it seems like his family 1535 00:54:40,375 --> 00:54:44,167 is not as maybe involved... - Mm-hmm. 1536 00:54:44,250 --> 00:54:45,833 - I just have a hard time with that. 1537 00:54:45,917 --> 00:54:47,000 - Yeah. 1538 00:54:47,083 --> 00:54:49,333 ♪ 1539 00:54:49,417 --> 00:54:51,500 - ♪ Do it for the love of me 1540 00:54:51,542 --> 00:54:53,250 ♪ Whoa, oh, oh, oh, oh 1541 00:54:53,333 --> 00:54:55,167 - ♪ Hey - ♪ Whoa, oh 1542 00:54:55,250 --> 00:54:57,292 - I love when our friends hang out. 1543 00:54:57,375 --> 00:54:58,542 - Yeah? - I'd like to do it more often. 1544 00:54:58,667 --> 00:54:59,792 - You think they all liked each other? 1545 00:54:59,875 --> 00:55:01,125 - Yeah. 1546 00:55:01,208 --> 00:55:02,208 - You think they want to hang out more? 1547 00:55:02,292 --> 00:55:03,083 - Yeah. - With each other? 1548 00:55:03,208 --> 00:55:04,167 - Yeah. - And us? 1549 00:55:04,250 --> 00:55:05,625 - Yeah. - Nice. Me too. 1550 00:55:05,708 --> 00:55:07,750 - You think so, too? - I think so, too. 1551 00:55:07,833 --> 00:55:09,667 - I think that means we're good people. 1552 00:55:09,708 --> 00:55:11,125 - Does it mean we're good people? 1553 00:55:11,208 --> 00:55:12,667 - Yeah. 1554 00:55:12,750 --> 00:55:14,333 - Or does it just mean we carry good company? 1555 00:55:14,458 --> 00:55:16,417 And what does that mean for our relationship? 1556 00:55:16,500 --> 00:55:18,667 - Ah, this is a lot over pizza, but-- 1557 00:55:18,708 --> 00:55:20,333 [both chuckle] 1558 00:55:20,375 --> 00:55:22,583 I think it means good things for our relationship. 1559 00:55:22,667 --> 00:55:25,333 I think to know that we have, like, a good community 1560 00:55:25,417 --> 00:55:27,333 behind us--and I told Derik it's almost like having, 1561 00:55:27,417 --> 00:55:29,000 like, references for each other, 1562 00:55:29,042 --> 00:55:31,208 where it's like, I know that you're a good person, 1563 00:55:31,292 --> 00:55:33,792 and if other people have been in your life for that long, 1564 00:55:33,875 --> 00:55:36,333 like, obviously, I can do it, too. 1565 00:55:36,458 --> 00:55:39,167 [both laughing] That sounded bad. 1566 00:55:39,208 --> 00:55:41,042 Like, if they've put up with it... 1567 00:55:41,125 --> 00:55:43,292 - [chuckles] I guess you can, too. 1568 00:55:43,375 --> 00:55:45,042 You are married to it now, so... 1569 00:55:45,167 --> 00:55:46,417 - Mm-hmm. I think I-- 1570 00:55:46,500 --> 00:55:49,083 I also just really enjoy your friends, 1571 00:55:49,167 --> 00:55:51,917 which is always nice, because, like, in past relationships 1572 00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:54,292 when I have to go hang out with their friends, I'm like... 1573 00:55:54,375 --> 00:55:56,167 [groans] - Oh, really? 1574 00:55:56,167 --> 00:55:57,667 - Yeah. - That sucks. 1575 00:55:57,708 --> 00:55:59,875 - Well, good for you. You have good friends. 1576 00:55:59,958 --> 00:56:01,250 - I do have good friends. 1577 00:56:01,375 --> 00:56:02,750 - Derik said that religion in the past 1578 00:56:02,833 --> 00:56:04,667 hasn't really been an issue for Austin. 1579 00:56:04,750 --> 00:56:06,208 It could be that Austin's maybe just growing stronger 1580 00:56:06,292 --> 00:56:08,458 in his faith right now. 1581 00:56:08,542 --> 00:56:11,542 I'm not sure exactly what that means, 1582 00:56:11,625 --> 00:56:13,292 but I just don't want to push. 1583 00:56:13,375 --> 00:56:14,833 I don't want to push too hard. 1584 00:56:14,875 --> 00:56:18,542 But, more importantly, I just want to get intimacy 1585 00:56:18,542 --> 00:56:21,292 to work and try to get us to a place 1586 00:56:21,375 --> 00:56:23,792 where we both feel connected. 1587 00:56:23,875 --> 00:56:26,083 I think what's next for us is just having fun, 1588 00:56:26,167 --> 00:56:29,333 because I think that's where our intimacy will come from. 1589 00:56:29,417 --> 00:56:31,208 ♪ 1590 00:56:31,292 --> 00:56:34,167 - Well, that was fun. - [muffled] I agree. 1591 00:56:34,250 --> 00:56:36,333 - [laughs] - We'll do it again. 1592 00:56:36,375 --> 00:56:37,667 - I would totally it that. 1593 00:56:37,708 --> 00:56:39,292 both: We should do it again. 1594 00:56:39,375 --> 00:56:41,125 - Yep. - Tomorrow. 1595 00:56:41,208 --> 00:56:42,250 - No. 1596 00:56:42,333 --> 00:56:43,833 - The next day. 1597 00:56:43,917 --> 00:56:45,250 - S-sure. 1598 00:56:45,375 --> 00:56:46,792 ♪ 1599 00:56:46,875 --> 00:56:48,958 Probably should've opened up. There we go. 1600 00:56:49,042 --> 00:56:51,042 ♪ 1601 00:56:55,042 --> 00:56:56,875 [smooth music] 1602 00:56:56,875 --> 00:56:58,917 ♪ 1603 00:56:59,042 --> 00:57:01,250 - I feel like I needed that. Did you have fun? 1604 00:57:01,333 --> 00:57:03,250 - Yeah. I like your friends a lot. 1605 00:57:03,375 --> 00:57:04,833 They're all very smart. 1606 00:57:04,917 --> 00:57:06,792 You had a good time? 1607 00:57:06,875 --> 00:57:09,875 - Well, okay, I feel like there are some things 1608 00:57:09,958 --> 00:57:13,542 that you say, like-- that you said in that group 1609 00:57:13,667 --> 00:57:15,333 that we haven't discussed, you and I. 1610 00:57:15,458 --> 00:57:17,458 - Yeah. 1611 00:57:17,542 --> 00:57:19,833 - So, like, that to me took me by surprise, honestly, 1612 00:57:19,958 --> 00:57:20,833 some of the information. 1613 00:57:20,958 --> 00:57:23,167 I'm just taken aback a little bit. 1614 00:57:23,208 --> 00:57:24,333 - Okay. 1615 00:57:24,417 --> 00:57:25,875 - I just wanted to let you know. 1616 00:57:25,958 --> 00:57:27,875 ♪ 1617 00:57:27,958 --> 00:57:29,667 - Okay. 1618 00:57:29,708 --> 00:57:31,625 - So... 1619 00:57:31,708 --> 00:57:33,167 - Well, she asked, so I told her. 1620 00:57:33,292 --> 00:57:37,125 - No, I know, but, I mean, I have asked about your past. 1621 00:57:37,208 --> 00:57:38,542 - Do your parents know, though? 1622 00:57:38,625 --> 00:57:39,708 - About this? - Yes. 1623 00:57:39,833 --> 00:57:41,667 - Yeah, so the plan is... - Uh-huh. 1624 00:57:41,708 --> 00:57:43,500 - Is that we go back, 1625 00:57:43,542 --> 00:57:45,917 and we have a second wedding in New Zealand. 1626 00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:47,250 - I love that. So they can be there. 1627 00:57:47,333 --> 00:57:48,667 - If you want, yeah. 1628 00:57:48,708 --> 00:57:51,542 - So I don't know, that just kind of-- 1629 00:57:51,625 --> 00:57:53,875 I was like, wow, we've not had that conversation, 1630 00:57:53,958 --> 00:57:56,042 so I'm surprised he's bringing it up at this time 1631 00:57:56,167 --> 00:57:57,917 and this moment. 1632 00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:01,125 - I tend to open up more in a relationship, 1633 00:58:01,208 --> 00:58:04,875 but right now I feel like I'm stuck between a rock 1634 00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:06,208 and a hard place. 1635 00:58:06,333 --> 00:58:08,667 I have feelings for her. I do like her. 1636 00:58:08,750 --> 00:58:12,750 But there's no real expression of feelings towards me. 1637 00:58:12,833 --> 00:58:15,875 There's no chance of intimacy. 1638 00:58:15,958 --> 00:58:19,875 It's very difficult to build a relationship, 1639 00:58:19,958 --> 00:58:23,333 a marriage with someone, given the circumstances. 1640 00:58:23,458 --> 00:58:25,792 - I'll just sit here... 1641 00:58:25,875 --> 00:58:27,500 do whatever it is that you need. 1642 00:58:27,542 --> 00:58:29,250 - I don't need anything. 1643 00:58:29,375 --> 00:58:30,667 - I just feel like you don't want to put the mental energy 1644 00:58:30,750 --> 00:58:32,208 into it right now. 1645 00:58:32,292 --> 00:58:33,667 And I'm understanding of that, so... 1646 00:58:33,750 --> 00:58:35,000 - Yeah, definitely. - That's fair. 1647 00:58:35,125 --> 00:58:41,333 ♪ 1648 00:58:41,375 --> 00:58:45,167 [upbeat music] 1649 00:58:45,167 --> 00:58:46,167 - I love your friends. 1650 00:58:46,208 --> 00:58:47,708 - Yeah. - I don't know. 1651 00:58:47,833 --> 00:58:49,500 I feel like they definitely really understand you, 1652 00:58:49,542 --> 00:58:51,167 which was good to hear. 1653 00:58:51,250 --> 00:58:53,667 - Mm-hmm. - And then my friends... 1654 00:58:53,708 --> 00:58:56,500 - It did not go as well, I will say. 1655 00:58:56,625 --> 00:58:58,583 I think, like, your friends 1656 00:58:58,667 --> 00:59:00,625 pretty much, like, came at me unfairly. 1657 00:59:00,708 --> 00:59:04,792 They questioned my drive, 1658 00:59:04,875 --> 00:59:08,667 so I obviously defended myself, 1659 00:59:08,792 --> 00:59:10,875 and they didn't like that very much. 1660 00:59:10,958 --> 00:59:12,917 They called it being defensive. 1661 00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:15,000 And I think there's a huge difference 1662 00:59:15,042 --> 00:59:17,625 between being defensive and standing up for yourself. 1663 00:59:17,708 --> 00:59:20,792 And I just wasn't gonna let them attack me 1664 00:59:20,875 --> 00:59:22,750 and, like, come at my character 1665 00:59:22,833 --> 00:59:24,708 without me standing up for myself. 1666 00:59:24,792 --> 00:59:26,667 - Yeah, and, like, I would hope you'd say that. 1667 00:59:26,708 --> 00:59:28,083 And, like, I'm sorry, they did that, 1668 00:59:28,167 --> 00:59:29,917 but I will say, like, on the flip side, 1669 00:59:30,042 --> 00:59:32,042 like, I think at the end of the day, they're just, like-- 1670 00:59:32,042 --> 00:59:33,375 they care about me. 1671 00:59:33,500 --> 00:59:35,708 But even though I wasn't there, 1672 00:59:35,792 --> 00:59:37,417 like, I don't think that's, like, fair 1673 00:59:37,500 --> 00:59:38,917 that you got treated that way. 1674 00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:41,625 I wouldn't want your friends to treat me like that. 1675 00:59:41,708 --> 00:59:44,083 I do think, like, my friends are a reflection of me. 1676 00:59:44,167 --> 00:59:47,333 So I really think it's because they care. 1677 00:59:47,375 --> 00:59:49,042 - Yeah. 1678 00:59:49,167 --> 00:59:52,917 - And so, if that came off in a bad way to you, I'm sorry. 1679 00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:54,792 - You have nothing to apologize for. 1680 00:59:54,875 --> 00:59:56,000 ♪ 1681 00:59:56,083 --> 00:59:57,833 Tonight I was just hoping for no drama, 1682 00:59:57,917 --> 01:00:00,000 and that was not the case, unfortunately. 1683 01:00:00,083 --> 01:00:02,000 But I think, you know, what I was doing 1684 01:00:02,042 --> 01:00:04,417 was standing up for myself and my marriage. 1685 01:00:04,500 --> 01:00:06,958 I just--I hope our next interaction, 1686 01:00:07,042 --> 01:00:09,167 they come from more of a, you know, 1687 01:00:09,250 --> 01:00:11,833 trying to understand, rather than, you know, 1688 01:00:11,917 --> 01:00:14,500 this is it, and this is my judgment on you. 1689 01:00:14,625 --> 01:00:16,875 The reality is, Emily was very supportive, 1690 01:00:16,958 --> 01:00:18,625 and I give her a lot of credit 1691 01:00:18,708 --> 01:00:21,083 for how she's acted in this type of moment. 1692 01:00:21,208 --> 01:00:25,083 So I appreciated her having my back in that situation. 1693 01:00:25,167 --> 01:00:27,583 All we can do is go up from here, right? 1694 01:00:27,667 --> 01:00:29,250 - We just... 1695 01:00:29,375 --> 01:00:31,292 - Growth trajectory. 1696 01:00:31,375 --> 01:00:34,542 - ♪ I waited 1697 01:00:34,625 --> 01:00:38,333 ♪ And I waited for so long 1698 01:00:38,417 --> 01:00:41,792 ♪ 1699 01:00:41,875 --> 01:00:44,917 - Hi, friends! - Look who it is. 1700 01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:47,042 - Next time on "Married at First Sight"... 1701 01:00:47,167 --> 01:00:49,792 - I am head over heels... - Don't make me cry. 1702 01:00:49,875 --> 01:00:52,083 Don't do it. [chuckles] 1703 01:00:52,167 --> 01:00:54,708 - Our couples examine just what it will take 1704 01:00:54,792 --> 01:00:56,167 to fall in love. 1705 01:00:56,250 --> 01:00:57,500 - You pegged me. - Yes. 1706 01:00:57,542 --> 01:00:59,000 - Let's make this sexual. 1707 01:00:59,083 --> 01:01:01,292 Let's create sexual tension in this nonsexual game. 1708 01:01:01,375 --> 01:01:02,833 - [chuckles] 1709 01:01:02,875 --> 01:01:04,708 - I'm talking to her, though. - Yeah, I know. 1710 01:01:04,833 --> 01:01:06,000 - Let -me talk to her. - Yeah, I get you. 1711 01:01:06,042 --> 01:01:08,333 - Okay, so let me talk to her. - So... 1712 01:01:08,417 --> 01:01:09,500 - Brennan, I'm talking to Emily. 1713 01:01:09,583 --> 01:01:10,792 Thank you. - Yeah, I'm just helping. 1714 01:01:10,875 --> 01:01:12,833 - She doesn't need your help, though. 1715 01:01:12,917 --> 01:01:14,375 ♪ 1716 01:01:14,458 --> 01:01:17,333 - I still need time to, like, work through certain things 1717 01:01:17,417 --> 01:01:19,292 that, like, could like, really tear us apart. 1718 01:01:19,375 --> 01:01:20,667 ♪ 1719 01:01:20,750 --> 01:01:22,167 - [crying] It's really hard. 1720 01:01:22,250 --> 01:01:23,750 - Do you see a future with me? - Well, you're not-- 1721 01:01:23,875 --> 01:01:25,333 Let me finish. - Do you see a future with me? 1722 01:01:25,417 --> 01:01:26,792 - Cutting me off really does piss me off--I'm sorry. 1723 01:01:26,875 --> 01:01:27,833 - Is there an answer? 1724 01:01:27,917 --> 01:01:30,125 ♪ 1725 01:01:30,208 --> 01:01:32,417 - Okay, do you see why I'm getting frustrated? 1726 01:01:32,500 --> 01:01:35,500 - I don't understand why it just got so serious so fast. 1727 01:01:35,583 --> 01:01:37,083 ♪ 1728 01:01:37,167 --> 01:01:38,833 - [crying] For you to say that I failed this marriage 1729 01:01:38,958 --> 01:01:40,875 and I failed you, when all I've been doing 1730 01:01:40,875 --> 01:01:43,000 is assuring you that you haven't failed... 1731 01:01:43,083 --> 01:01:44,583 ♪ 1732 01:01:44,667 --> 01:01:47,542 [sighs, sobbing] 1733 01:01:47,625 --> 01:01:51,208 ♪