1
00:00:02,069 --> 00:00:03,318
- ♪ can the love we have... ♪
2
00:00:03,379 --> 00:00:05,062
- Nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you.
3
00:00:05,089 --> 00:00:07,523
- Ten singles took
a giant leap of faith
4
00:00:07,550 --> 00:00:09,049
To find love.
5
00:00:09,168 --> 00:00:11,977
They married
as complete strangers.
6
00:00:11,979 --> 00:00:13,554
- Whoo!
7
00:00:13,672 --> 00:00:16,148
- ♪ I'm like silk up
on your hip, babe ♪
8
00:00:16,150 --> 00:00:17,999
- Last time
most of our couples
9
00:00:18,019 --> 00:00:20,043
Moved into their new homes
together.
10
00:00:20,204 --> 00:00:22,412
♪ ♪
11
00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:25,340
You want to be seen
for more than just my value.
12
00:00:25,342 --> 00:00:26,800
- Yeah, you want to be desired.
- I want you to look at me--
13
00:00:26,919 --> 00:00:28,736
I mean, if it's natural
for you,
14
00:00:28,854 --> 00:00:30,845
Hold her hand,
or however you choose
15
00:00:30,906 --> 00:00:32,406
To have physical contact,
16
00:00:32,524 --> 00:00:34,833
The more attraction
is going to happen.
17
00:00:34,835 --> 00:00:37,286
- ♪ I'm like silk up
on your hip, babe ♪
18
00:00:37,404 --> 00:00:39,471
♪ ♪
19
00:00:39,473 --> 00:00:41,765
- We have been intimate
as of this week.
20
00:00:41,792 --> 00:00:43,250
- Yeah.
- Awesome.
21
00:00:43,368 --> 00:00:45,693
Awesome.
Did that bring you closer?
22
00:00:45,755 --> 00:00:46,861
- Yes.
- Yeah, it did.
23
00:00:46,922 --> 00:00:48,422
- It was almost like
in a movie.
24
00:00:48,540 --> 00:00:50,365
Like, we both just looked
at each other,
25
00:00:50,426 --> 00:00:52,276
And we were like...
- It's time.
26
00:00:52,303 --> 00:00:55,179
♪ ♪
27
00:00:55,339 --> 00:00:57,355
And do you want gina
to move in?
28
00:00:57,357 --> 00:01:00,859
- Yeah, I mean, I think
in order for us to grow,
29
00:01:00,861 --> 00:01:03,378
We have to have more exposure.
30
00:01:03,397 --> 00:01:05,622
- I'm just not there yet, and
I don't know how to explain it.
31
00:01:05,649 --> 00:01:07,682
- We'll take it day by day.
32
00:01:07,801 --> 00:01:08,792
- Yeah.
33
00:01:08,819 --> 00:01:11,219
♪ ♪
34
00:01:11,238 --> 00:01:14,114
- I don't typically express
how I feel.
35
00:01:14,233 --> 00:01:18,601
- So you're going to have to
provide a safe place for her,
36
00:01:18,603 --> 00:01:22,714
And that's going to require you
to blindly trust him.
37
00:01:22,716 --> 00:01:26,451
♪ ♪
38
00:01:26,570 --> 00:01:28,020
- I wanted marriage,
39
00:01:28,022 --> 00:01:30,238
But I didn't think
that I was gonna get someone
40
00:01:30,299 --> 00:01:31,815
That was a polar opposite
of me.
41
00:01:31,842 --> 00:01:33,275
- He is not a polar--
no, that is what you--
42
00:01:33,277 --> 00:01:34,860
- We had this conversation.
43
00:01:34,862 --> 00:01:36,119
- No, wait, he's not.
- We're in agreeance.
44
00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:37,654
- Well, then you guys lied.
45
00:01:37,681 --> 00:01:40,732
♪ ♪
46
00:01:40,734 --> 00:01:42,868
And tonight our couples
47
00:01:42,870 --> 00:01:45,479
Will get to see
their friends and family
48
00:01:45,597 --> 00:01:47,806
For the first time
since the wedding.
49
00:01:47,924 --> 00:01:49,983
- What's up?
- What's up, what's up?
50
00:01:50,102 --> 00:01:51,576
- We had a nice little
candlelight dinner.
51
00:01:51,578 --> 00:01:53,112
- How romantic
did the honeymoon get?
52
00:01:53,230 --> 00:01:54,905
- Did we have sex?
53
00:01:55,065 --> 00:01:57,699
- Communication is, bar none,
the best I've ever had.
54
00:01:57,818 --> 00:01:59,384
- You don't seem like
a fighter.
55
00:01:59,386 --> 00:02:00,828
- Mm-hmm.
56
00:02:00,946 --> 00:02:03,080
- How often can you really
say, like, no, really,
57
00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:05,090
What do you think?
Really, what do you think?
58
00:02:05,092 --> 00:02:07,008
- So is it like
a personality clash?
59
00:02:07,010 --> 00:02:09,002
- I didn't feel respected.
60
00:02:09,121 --> 00:02:11,021
She basically told me
I was a fake person.
61
00:02:11,048 --> 00:02:14,174
- My concern is that
I'm gonna be the one to--
62
00:02:14,293 --> 00:02:16,093
- You're gonna be the [bleep].
- I'm gonna be the [bleep].
63
00:02:16,253 --> 00:02:18,786
- I feel like no
wasn't an acceptable answer.
64
00:02:18,806 --> 00:02:21,181
And I am--
you know I'm very honest.
65
00:02:21,300 --> 00:02:22,699
[dramatic chords]
66
00:02:22,726 --> 00:02:25,460
- So do you want to be married?
67
00:02:25,521 --> 00:02:27,829
- You are going to
regret this.
68
00:02:27,857 --> 00:02:30,673
[dramatic music]
69
00:02:30,734 --> 00:02:32,517
- ♪ it's all or nothing... ♪
70
00:02:32,636 --> 00:02:34,853
- This is
"married at first sight."
71
00:02:34,971 --> 00:02:36,938
- ♪ there's no other way ♪
72
00:02:37,057 --> 00:02:38,715
♪ ♪
73
00:02:38,742 --> 00:02:40,775
♪ it's all or nothing ♪
74
00:02:40,894 --> 00:02:43,695
[tense music]
75
00:02:43,813 --> 00:02:46,373
♪ ♪
76
00:02:46,491 --> 00:02:48,783
- I feel like
we would be making
77
00:02:48,902 --> 00:02:51,386
A very...Quick decision
78
00:02:51,388 --> 00:02:53,172
To say, yeah, this is it.
79
00:02:53,290 --> 00:02:56,008
And as much as I feel terrible
80
00:02:56,126 --> 00:02:59,961
And like a giant loser...
81
00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:01,829
I still think we need
to take into account
82
00:03:01,891 --> 00:03:03,648
Your outlook on everything
83
00:03:03,767 --> 00:03:05,634
Before making,
like, a final decision.
84
00:03:05,752 --> 00:03:07,786
♪ ♪
85
00:03:07,788 --> 00:03:10,522
- Domynique,
what is your perspective?
86
00:03:10,641 --> 00:03:13,475
- Honestly, like,
I'm just kind of over it.
87
00:03:13,593 --> 00:03:15,068
♪ ♪
88
00:03:15,187 --> 00:03:17,321
- What does that mean,
"I'm over it"?
89
00:03:17,481 --> 00:03:19,156
I'm over this conversation?
90
00:03:19,316 --> 00:03:21,241
I'm over the marriage?
91
00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:22,659
What does that mean?
92
00:03:22,819 --> 00:03:26,238
[suspenseful music]
93
00:03:26,356 --> 00:03:28,415
- I'm over all of it, like...
94
00:03:28,533 --> 00:03:29,824
- What is "it"?
95
00:03:29,943 --> 00:03:31,159
♪ ♪
96
00:03:31,278 --> 00:03:33,361
"I'm over it"
could mean so many things.
97
00:03:33,422 --> 00:03:35,422
- I know.
- I need to know
98
00:03:35,540 --> 00:03:38,416
What you want right now,
domynique.
99
00:03:38,535 --> 00:03:43,405
♪ ♪
100
00:03:43,432 --> 00:03:45,407
- I would like a divorce.
101
00:03:45,409 --> 00:03:49,711
♪ ♪
102
00:03:49,772 --> 00:03:51,271
- Mac, how you feel
about that?
103
00:03:54,759 --> 00:03:57,194
- It's tough to hear.
104
00:04:00,657 --> 00:04:02,999
I can't...
105
00:04:03,001 --> 00:04:05,452
I don't know.
- Yeah.
106
00:04:05,570 --> 00:04:09,973
I suggest that if this
is your decision...
107
00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:10,974
♪ ♪
108
00:04:11,001 --> 00:04:14,052
That you take ample time...
109
00:04:14,054 --> 00:04:15,629
♪ ♪
110
00:04:15,747 --> 00:04:18,723
To explore life, to do whatever
the heck you want to do
111
00:04:18,725 --> 00:04:22,043
Before you choose to get into
another serious relationship.
112
00:04:22,162 --> 00:04:23,895
- Okay.
113
00:04:23,897 --> 00:04:26,106
- Maybe...Just maybe
114
00:04:26,108 --> 00:04:27,699
25 was too young.
115
00:04:27,701 --> 00:04:29,868
♪ ♪
116
00:04:29,870 --> 00:04:32,479
You think?
117
00:04:32,597 --> 00:04:34,998
- Honestly, I don't think so.
118
00:04:35,025 --> 00:04:36,666
- I'm not trying to be mean.
119
00:04:36,694 --> 00:04:39,569
I'm really not,
but I need you to understand
120
00:04:39,730 --> 00:04:41,654
That if you're going to be
in a relationship,
121
00:04:41,656 --> 00:04:44,132
In a marriage,
you got to fight for it.
122
00:04:44,134 --> 00:04:46,234
You don't quit.
123
00:04:46,353 --> 00:04:48,086
That takes time.
124
00:04:48,204 --> 00:04:50,905
That takes life.
That takes strength.
125
00:04:51,024 --> 00:04:53,408
That takes grit.
126
00:04:53,526 --> 00:04:57,078
For couples who get through
these hurdles like this,
127
00:04:57,197 --> 00:04:59,523
Eventually
they look behind them,
128
00:04:59,550 --> 00:05:02,009
And they say, "wow.
We made it through that."
129
00:05:02,127 --> 00:05:03,935
And before you know it,
they look behind,
130
00:05:03,937 --> 00:05:06,221
They see all these different
hurdles that they got over,
131
00:05:06,340 --> 00:05:08,089
But they're always
moving upward.
132
00:05:08,249 --> 00:05:09,507
What you're choosing to do
133
00:05:09,626 --> 00:05:11,101
Is to quit
after the first real bump.
134
00:05:11,261 --> 00:05:12,627
♪ ♪
135
00:05:12,688 --> 00:05:14,371
And it's not advisable.
136
00:05:14,398 --> 00:05:16,781
It's not what I want,
but it's not my marriage.
137
00:05:16,783 --> 00:05:19,543
♪ ♪
138
00:05:19,570 --> 00:05:20,802
All right.
139
00:05:20,863 --> 00:05:23,580
So your--
your marriage ends here.
140
00:05:23,582 --> 00:05:27,217
[marc robillard's "fall away"]
141
00:05:27,244 --> 00:05:29,461
- I'm disappointed,
to say the least.
142
00:05:29,463 --> 00:05:32,647
♪ ♪
143
00:05:32,708 --> 00:05:34,799
Let down and...
144
00:05:34,801 --> 00:05:36,393
♪ ♪
145
00:05:36,420 --> 00:05:37,635
Embarrassed.
146
00:05:37,637 --> 00:05:39,471
- I'm so sorry.
Like...
147
00:05:39,473 --> 00:05:41,048
♪ ♪
148
00:05:41,166 --> 00:05:43,157
But truly, like...
- You know what?
149
00:05:43,218 --> 00:05:44,734
- I am...
- I believe you.
150
00:05:44,762 --> 00:05:46,811
- So sorry, like...
- And so am I.
151
00:05:46,813 --> 00:05:53,685
♪ ♪
152
00:05:55,489 --> 00:05:57,556
[sniffles]
153
00:05:57,558 --> 00:06:00,208
♪ ♪
154
00:06:00,210 --> 00:06:02,402
[exhales deeply]
155
00:06:02,521 --> 00:06:04,329
[whispering] oh, gosh.
156
00:06:04,331 --> 00:06:07,607
- ♪ am I on time? ♪
157
00:06:07,725 --> 00:06:11,036
♪ have I got soul? ♪
158
00:06:11,154 --> 00:06:14,539
♪ arrest myself ♪
159
00:06:14,658 --> 00:06:18,568
♪ for being cold ♪
160
00:06:18,570 --> 00:06:20,770
♪ I'm runnin' blind... ♪
161
00:06:20,798 --> 00:06:22,530
- All right. See ya.
- Bye.
162
00:06:22,549 --> 00:06:25,250
- ♪ I can't control ♪
163
00:06:25,368 --> 00:06:28,686
♪ stealin' time ♪
164
00:06:28,688 --> 00:06:31,448
♪ from the ones
I've sold ♪
165
00:06:31,475 --> 00:06:32,782
- [sniffles]
166
00:06:32,810 --> 00:06:36,611
- ♪ fall away ♪
167
00:06:36,613 --> 00:06:39,748
♪ from me ♪
168
00:06:39,866 --> 00:06:43,935
♪ fall away ♪
169
00:06:44,053 --> 00:06:49,116
♪ ♪
170
00:06:49,234 --> 00:06:52,444
[upbeat music]
171
00:06:52,446 --> 00:06:54,395
- ♪ I just want to,
ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh ♪
172
00:06:54,415 --> 00:06:56,355
♪ feel ya... ♪
173
00:06:56,375 --> 00:06:57,924
- Beautiful morning
174
00:06:57,926 --> 00:06:59,543
In nashville.
175
00:06:59,703 --> 00:07:02,295
We are out with...
176
00:07:02,414 --> 00:07:04,105
Oh, she's peeing.
177
00:07:04,133 --> 00:07:06,374
We're out with duchy girl.
178
00:07:06,493 --> 00:07:08,334
- Doing her business.
- [laughs] doing--
179
00:07:08,453 --> 00:07:11,104
She's doing her business.
180
00:07:11,106 --> 00:07:13,640
- While one couple
has already decided
181
00:07:13,758 --> 00:07:16,067
To get a divorce,
our other four couples
182
00:07:16,069 --> 00:07:18,495
Are settling in
to married life.
183
00:07:18,522 --> 00:07:20,889
- I'm very grateful
for shaquille.
184
00:07:21,007 --> 00:07:23,333
He made sure I had
185
00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:25,502
Air compression
to get some air in my tires.
186
00:07:25,529 --> 00:07:27,487
And after that,
he can fix my tire
187
00:07:27,606 --> 00:07:31,007
And be my roadside assistance.
188
00:07:31,167 --> 00:07:33,009
[chuckles]
189
00:07:33,036 --> 00:07:34,919
- Making the transition
from single
190
00:07:34,921 --> 00:07:38,006
To married life
might be easy for some...
191
00:07:38,008 --> 00:07:40,425
But an uphill battle
for others.
192
00:07:40,427 --> 00:07:41,659
- Gina, how's marriage going?
193
00:07:41,778 --> 00:07:44,312
- We are gonna move in,
so we'll see
194
00:07:44,314 --> 00:07:46,264
If we both grow
and our relationship grows.
195
00:07:46,266 --> 00:07:47,357
Mm-mm-mm.
196
00:07:47,384 --> 00:07:48,600
- No matter where
197
00:07:48,602 --> 00:07:49,859
These marriages
currently stand,
198
00:07:49,887 --> 00:07:52,161
They're all going to have
to put in the work
199
00:07:52,222 --> 00:07:53,722
If they want them to last,
200
00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:55,256
Because in less than
six weeks,
201
00:07:55,416 --> 00:07:57,184
They will have to decide
202
00:07:57,302 --> 00:07:59,186
Whether they want
to stay married
203
00:07:59,304 --> 00:08:01,128
Or get a divorce.
204
00:08:01,190 --> 00:08:04,815
[upbeat music]
205
00:08:04,817 --> 00:08:07,694
- ♪ I think you got
the wrong number, baby ♪
206
00:08:07,812 --> 00:08:10,714
♪ who are you trying
to reach? ♪
207
00:08:10,741 --> 00:08:13,599
♪ I think you got
the wrong number, baby ♪
208
00:08:13,619 --> 00:08:15,627
♪ because it isn't me ♪
209
00:08:15,629 --> 00:08:17,220
♪ ♪
210
00:08:17,247 --> 00:08:18,780
- So, uh, I haven't seen you
211
00:08:18,898 --> 00:08:20,757
Since the old wedding day.
212
00:08:20,759 --> 00:08:23,168
- I know, man.
- Isn't that crazy?
213
00:08:23,286 --> 00:08:26,971
- So jamaica...Did you
get to do anything fun?
214
00:08:26,973 --> 00:08:29,899
- Yeah, we did
a hike to a waterfall.
215
00:08:29,927 --> 00:08:32,385
- How was she on the hike?
Is she outdoorsy?
216
00:08:32,504 --> 00:08:34,270
- She's never really done
anything outdoors.
217
00:08:34,272 --> 00:08:35,614
- Really?
- Yeah.
218
00:08:35,616 --> 00:08:38,099
She's, like, always focused
on her hair salon.
219
00:08:38,218 --> 00:08:39,618
- So she couldn't step out,
220
00:08:39,620 --> 00:08:41,302
And she was still thinking
about work
221
00:08:41,421 --> 00:08:43,096
While she's on vacation?
- Well, a lot, yeah, a lot.
222
00:08:43,214 --> 00:08:44,855
Andrew's one
of my best friends.
223
00:08:44,857 --> 00:08:46,574
I met him through
the sailing community,
224
00:08:46,576 --> 00:08:49,494
And I think he's got
good advice.
225
00:08:49,496 --> 00:08:51,630
He's been married.
He has a child.
226
00:08:51,632 --> 00:08:53,573
He's been in a lot
of relationships.
227
00:08:53,692 --> 00:08:55,408
He has more life experience
than I do.
228
00:08:55,527 --> 00:08:57,652
So everything andrew gives me
I'm gonna heed
229
00:08:57,770 --> 00:09:01,431
With, you know, a certain level
of, you know, openness
230
00:09:01,458 --> 00:09:03,750
And, you know, a keen ear
to what he's saying.
231
00:09:03,868 --> 00:09:07,178
[clears throat]
- so is it 24-7 or what?
232
00:09:07,180 --> 00:09:09,530
- Yeah. I mean,
we're married, so...
233
00:09:09,591 --> 00:09:11,091
Yeah, we've...
234
00:09:11,209 --> 00:09:13,334
Had some interesting times
in jamaica.
235
00:09:13,453 --> 00:09:14,852
- Mm-hmm.
236
00:09:14,854 --> 00:09:17,689
- Had some experiences,
good and bad.
237
00:09:17,691 --> 00:09:20,100
- Some challenges?
- Some challenges.
238
00:09:20,218 --> 00:09:23,919
- What kind of challenges?
Talk to me.
239
00:09:24,081 --> 00:09:26,623
- So we talked
to pastor cal,
240
00:09:26,650 --> 00:09:28,441
And so the
physical-attraction thing
241
00:09:28,560 --> 00:09:30,785
Has been a real barrier for us
'cause we're like--
242
00:09:30,787 --> 00:09:32,787
We look at each other,
and we're just like,
243
00:09:32,789 --> 00:09:35,356
We don't have any physical
gravitation to each other.
244
00:09:35,475 --> 00:09:36,950
You know, hands don't want
245
00:09:37,068 --> 00:09:38,802
To go seeking different areas.
- Sure.
246
00:09:38,829 --> 00:09:40,120
- And he's like, listen,
247
00:09:40,238 --> 00:09:41,638
If this is the problem
that you guys have,
248
00:09:41,665 --> 00:09:43,673
Like, I've seen way worse,
you know.
249
00:09:43,675 --> 00:09:47,268
It's like finding attraction
from the inside out, so...
250
00:09:47,270 --> 00:09:50,404
- You know, I just think back
to other situations
251
00:09:50,406 --> 00:09:52,573
Where people weren't initially
attracted to each other,
252
00:09:52,593 --> 00:09:54,726
And maybe attraction
is built over time.
253
00:09:54,728 --> 00:09:58,822
But that's always existed
in a very low-stress, you know,
254
00:09:58,849 --> 00:10:00,807
Friendship, social environment.
255
00:10:00,925 --> 00:10:04,019
There's no pressure, right?
It just happens.
256
00:10:04,137 --> 00:10:05,737
You start to see somebody
257
00:10:05,739 --> 00:10:07,831
Differently
than you saw them before.
258
00:10:07,858 --> 00:10:09,423
- Yeah.
259
00:10:09,584 --> 00:10:11,735
- But with this, there's just
so much on you, man.
260
00:10:11,895 --> 00:10:14,562
There's so much pressure to...
261
00:10:14,681 --> 00:10:16,823
Make it work,
do the right things.
262
00:10:16,941 --> 00:10:18,583
- I think we're in...
263
00:10:18,585 --> 00:10:20,844
We're in a better place
than we were
264
00:10:20,871 --> 00:10:22,996
Because we're not just focusing
on the physical thing.
265
00:10:23,114 --> 00:10:24,681
But it's...
266
00:10:24,708 --> 00:10:27,925
I think that's going to
still be a problem.
267
00:10:27,927 --> 00:10:30,444
Like, how do you get
over that hurdle?
268
00:10:30,446 --> 00:10:31,946
- Well--
- so, we'll see.
269
00:10:31,965 --> 00:10:35,191
- Certainly, people can
appear differently over time
270
00:10:35,218 --> 00:10:36,918
The more you get to know
about them,
271
00:10:37,036 --> 00:10:38,361
In good ways and bad ways.
272
00:10:38,388 --> 00:10:39,529
Right?
- Yeah.
273
00:10:39,556 --> 00:10:41,272
- The vibe I'm getting
from clint
274
00:10:41,274 --> 00:10:43,350
Is he's just being
very careful right now
275
00:10:43,468 --> 00:10:46,611
And he's focused
on the positive right now.
276
00:10:46,613 --> 00:10:48,096
I think both of them are,
277
00:10:48,214 --> 00:10:50,707
And that's kind of
what they need to do.
278
00:10:50,734 --> 00:10:52,859
I think, attraction aside,
279
00:10:52,977 --> 00:10:54,852
If two people want to grow
love together
280
00:10:54,971 --> 00:10:56,446
That they can do it.
281
00:10:56,606 --> 00:10:58,031
Have you met hank yet?
282
00:10:58,149 --> 00:11:00,200
- Oh, yeah.
He's a good dude.
283
00:11:00,318 --> 00:11:01,551
- Yeah? He likes you?
- Yeah.
284
00:11:01,578 --> 00:11:03,052
Yeah. We have
the same color hair,
285
00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:06,039
Which I'm like, you said you
don't like redheads,
286
00:11:06,157 --> 00:11:08,116
But you have a dog
that's completely draped
287
00:11:08,234 --> 00:11:09,967
In the same hair color as me.
- [laughs]
288
00:11:09,969 --> 00:11:13,287
♪ ♪
289
00:11:13,448 --> 00:11:17,475
[dynamic music]
290
00:11:17,477 --> 00:11:23,723
♪ ♪
291
00:11:23,842 --> 00:11:26,226
- Been a minute.
- So much to talk about.
292
00:11:26,344 --> 00:11:27,802
- Yes.
293
00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:29,229
Have you eaten here before?
294
00:11:29,347 --> 00:11:30,822
- Yeah, I have.
It's really good.
295
00:11:30,824 --> 00:11:33,491
- So what's been up?
296
00:11:33,493 --> 00:11:36,978
- So, you know,
the honeymoon...
297
00:11:37,096 --> 00:11:38,238
You know, went to jamaica.
298
00:11:38,356 --> 00:11:39,572
That was cool.
299
00:11:39,691 --> 00:11:41,666
Finally got to, like,
spend some time
300
00:11:41,668 --> 00:11:44,168
With the other couples.
301
00:11:44,170 --> 00:11:47,430
Our trip, it was cool,
but, like...
302
00:11:47,457 --> 00:11:49,490
I was trying to navigate
between,
303
00:11:49,609 --> 00:11:52,067
Like, her, like, really,
really being into me
304
00:11:52,129 --> 00:11:53,911
And me not there as of yet.
305
00:11:54,030 --> 00:11:56,231
You know, like, may be the
girl, but I'm just not there.
306
00:11:56,233 --> 00:11:57,590
Like, we on two different--
307
00:11:57,709 --> 00:12:00,260
- So, in other words,
you're not attracted to her.
308
00:12:02,881 --> 00:12:04,856
- I think she's
an attractive person,
309
00:12:04,858 --> 00:12:07,934
But just, like--
not like my normal type.
310
00:12:08,052 --> 00:12:11,696
- Yeah. Well, attraction ain't
only just, like, physical.
311
00:12:11,698 --> 00:12:13,765
- I feel like
I'm such a physical person
312
00:12:13,883 --> 00:12:16,251
That I have--
like, there's a wall up,
313
00:12:16,253 --> 00:12:19,595
Not even allowing, like,
the chemistry part to build,
314
00:12:19,656 --> 00:12:21,722
Which I don't feel
is fair to her.
315
00:12:21,783 --> 00:12:23,633
I don't know.
Like, she is a great person.
316
00:12:23,793 --> 00:12:24,817
She has a lot
of great qualities.
317
00:12:24,936 --> 00:12:26,527
- Yeah.
- If I wasn't in the room
318
00:12:26,646 --> 00:12:29,664
And people was talking crazy,
like she gonna check everybody,
319
00:12:29,783 --> 00:12:31,774
Or if I got, like, real sick
and needed help,
320
00:12:31,835 --> 00:12:34,051
Like, I know she would be,
like, right there by my side.
321
00:12:34,053 --> 00:12:35,720
And I've dated people
for, like, years.
322
00:12:35,722 --> 00:12:37,388
So I don't even know
if I can answer
323
00:12:37,390 --> 00:12:38,723
That same question about them.
324
00:12:38,725 --> 00:12:41,150
That should count
for something, and it does.
325
00:12:41,178 --> 00:12:44,153
- So what is it?
[laughs] you said a lot.
326
00:12:44,181 --> 00:12:47,323
But you ain't really,
like, have helped me
327
00:12:47,350 --> 00:12:49,993
Identify what it really is.
328
00:12:50,020 --> 00:12:52,829
That's the problem.
329
00:12:52,856 --> 00:12:54,147
- No, that's it.
Like, I'm...
330
00:12:54,265 --> 00:12:56,224
I just don't--
for me, there's like no...
331
00:12:56,342 --> 00:12:58,242
- So 'cause you not fondling
all over her...
332
00:12:58,244 --> 00:13:00,820
- Yeah. It's not like no
sexual attraction, like--
333
00:13:00,939 --> 00:13:02,930
- Oh, so y'all haven't had sex.
334
00:13:02,991 --> 00:13:05,149
- No. When we
lay down at night,
335
00:13:05,151 --> 00:13:07,418
I go straight to sleep.
336
00:13:07,420 --> 00:13:10,513
My sexual desire
just ain't there.
337
00:13:10,540 --> 00:13:11,998
And then pastor cal,
338
00:13:12,116 --> 00:13:14,108
He asks her, like,
"how do you feel about that?"
339
00:13:14,169 --> 00:13:16,244
- What she say?
340
00:13:16,362 --> 00:13:19,931
- She handle it like a lady
and very mature.
341
00:13:19,933 --> 00:13:21,691
She was like, you know,
what woman
342
00:13:21,718 --> 00:13:23,751
Wouldn't want her husband to,
like, rip their clothes off?
343
00:13:23,870 --> 00:13:25,269
Like, that's what you want.
344
00:13:25,271 --> 00:13:27,939
But I understand that
that's not where he is,
345
00:13:27,941 --> 00:13:31,275
But, you know, I'm hopeful
that it'll change.
346
00:13:31,277 --> 00:13:32,944
♪ ♪
347
00:13:32,946 --> 00:13:35,705
- [chuckles]
sounds very textbook.
348
00:13:35,732 --> 00:13:38,465
[sighs]
jasmine...
349
00:13:38,527 --> 00:13:40,710
Seems fake to me.
350
00:13:40,737 --> 00:13:43,120
You know,
like, just be a woman.
351
00:13:43,122 --> 00:13:45,031
Like, if that hurt you,
say it hurt you.
352
00:13:45,149 --> 00:13:46,791
Let this man know
that you're planning
353
00:13:46,793 --> 00:13:48,201
To spend the rest
of your life with
354
00:13:48,319 --> 00:13:50,936
That that bothers you that
he does not have the connection
355
00:13:50,956 --> 00:13:52,530
That you obviously have.
356
00:13:52,648 --> 00:13:54,465
- So we got a housewarming
coming up.
357
00:13:54,467 --> 00:13:56,876
Want to invite you.
- I'm not coming.
358
00:13:56,995 --> 00:14:00,229
[dramatic music]
359
00:14:00,257 --> 00:14:01,806
I don't want to be invested
360
00:14:01,808 --> 00:14:03,733
In something
that I see is obviously--
361
00:14:03,760 --> 00:14:06,219
That I saw before
y'all walked down the aisle--
362
00:14:06,337 --> 00:14:07,828
Is not going anywhere.
363
00:14:07,889 --> 00:14:09,371
It's like, it's no point.
364
00:14:09,532 --> 00:14:11,707
It just don't seem like
you that invested.
365
00:14:11,768 --> 00:14:13,576
♪ ♪
366
00:14:13,603 --> 00:14:14,986
- Guess I'm in my own head.
367
00:14:14,988 --> 00:14:16,654
- So do you want to be married?
368
00:14:16,656 --> 00:14:19,657
♪ ♪
369
00:14:19,659 --> 00:14:21,492
- I do want to be married.
- Okay.
370
00:14:21,494 --> 00:14:24,996
So be a husband
and have sex with your wife.
371
00:14:24,998 --> 00:14:26,906
- [laughs]
- I don't pretend
372
00:14:27,025 --> 00:14:29,500
To know everything.
[chuckles]
373
00:14:29,502 --> 00:14:32,670
But I told you
you shouldn't have got married.
374
00:14:32,672 --> 00:14:33,830
♪ ♪
375
00:14:33,990 --> 00:14:36,007
I mean, but you are married,
376
00:14:36,009 --> 00:14:38,233
So you got one of two choices.
377
00:14:38,295 --> 00:14:40,478
Like, you either gonna,
you know,
378
00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:43,089
Go home tonight
and work on that process
379
00:14:43,207 --> 00:14:45,666
Of getting connected
with your partner,
380
00:14:45,785 --> 00:14:48,945
Or you got to go and get up
out of here.
381
00:14:48,972 --> 00:14:51,172
[laughs]
like, just move on.
382
00:14:51,290 --> 00:14:53,600
Go ahead, don't waste
any more of your time.
383
00:14:53,718 --> 00:14:57,120
- ♪ this is what it takes,
yeah ♪
384
00:14:57,147 --> 00:14:59,972
♪ fight through the pain
and through dark ♪
385
00:15:00,091 --> 00:15:06,020
♪ never let it break ♪
386
00:15:06,097 --> 00:15:07,096
[upbeat music]
387
00:15:07,257 --> 00:15:13,377
♪ ♪
388
00:15:13,379 --> 00:15:15,038
- Oh, how cute.
- This is really cute.
389
00:15:15,198 --> 00:15:16,563
- I've never been here before.
390
00:15:16,625 --> 00:15:18,115
Okay, I already know
what I want.
391
00:15:18,234 --> 00:15:19,876
Good, good, good.
392
00:15:20,036 --> 00:15:21,628
- All right, girl, what's up?
393
00:15:21,746 --> 00:15:24,205
- You know, just
living the old married life.
394
00:15:24,323 --> 00:15:25,982
My rings are a little big,
395
00:15:26,009 --> 00:15:27,817
But I never want
to take them off, so...
396
00:15:27,844 --> 00:15:29,894
- You love them so much?
- I love them so much.
397
00:15:29,896 --> 00:15:32,579
- You love the rings so much?
- I love the rings so much.
398
00:15:32,641 --> 00:15:35,066
Yes, because they are
from my wonderful husband.
399
00:15:35,068 --> 00:15:36,717
- How is christopher?
400
00:15:36,836 --> 00:15:37,969
- Oh.
- Here we are.
401
00:15:38,087 --> 00:15:40,362
[continues indistinctly]
- ooh! Thank you.
402
00:15:40,364 --> 00:15:44,000
He's everything that women
specifically say they want.
403
00:15:44,027 --> 00:15:46,093
- But, like, in practice,
you're like, meh.
404
00:15:46,154 --> 00:15:47,578
- And then on dates,
405
00:15:47,580 --> 00:15:49,656
I would be like,
oh, my god, he's too nice.
406
00:15:49,774 --> 00:15:52,508
Like, he's never gonna be able
to, like, stand up to me
407
00:15:52,535 --> 00:15:54,010
Or take my feedback.
408
00:15:54,037 --> 00:15:56,170
But because
we're in an environment
409
00:15:56,172 --> 00:15:58,105
Where I don't have
the opportunity
410
00:15:58,166 --> 00:15:59,924
To give up on him?
- Yeah.
411
00:15:59,926 --> 00:16:01,742
- And I'm actually
getting to know him,
412
00:16:01,861 --> 00:16:03,411
I'm like, oh, my god,
all of these things
413
00:16:03,529 --> 00:16:05,946
That I would normally run from
are actually amazing qualities.
414
00:16:06,007 --> 00:16:08,174
And it's hard to take
compliments,
415
00:16:08,292 --> 00:16:11,360
I feel like, in general,
as a human female,
416
00:16:11,388 --> 00:16:13,454
But I'm definitely
not really good at it.
417
00:16:13,515 --> 00:16:15,456
So he compliments me
all the time,
418
00:16:15,517 --> 00:16:18,792
Which is amazing, because
I know how he feels about me.
419
00:16:18,853 --> 00:16:21,095
But it's inside my brain
that I'm like...
420
00:16:21,213 --> 00:16:23,264
- Why'd you say that?
- Do you really think that?
421
00:16:23,382 --> 00:16:25,299
Like, you know, are you just
trying to make me happy
422
00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:26,951
Because you think
I need to hear it?
423
00:16:26,953 --> 00:16:28,194
- Like, do you definitely
feel like it's genuine,
424
00:16:28,312 --> 00:16:29,470
Or is there any part of you
that's like,
425
00:16:29,531 --> 00:16:30,788
Is he putting it on
a little bit?
426
00:16:30,790 --> 00:16:34,792
- I think he is 100,000%
genuine at being himself,
427
00:16:34,794 --> 00:16:36,810
And I'm waiting
to find something wrong.
428
00:16:36,871 --> 00:16:38,663
- Right. Do you feel like that
a little bit,
429
00:16:38,781 --> 00:16:40,406
Like, you're waiting
for that other shoe to drop?
430
00:16:40,524 --> 00:16:41,874
- I'm waiting
for the other shoe to drop.
431
00:16:41,993 --> 00:16:43,226
And it will.
- It will.
432
00:16:43,253 --> 00:16:44,985
I mean, he's a human.
You're a human.
433
00:16:45,046 --> 00:16:46,470
You guys are gonna
get into spats,
434
00:16:46,472 --> 00:16:47,805
And things aren't gonna
always be, like,
435
00:16:47,807 --> 00:16:49,306
Peachy keen, jelly bean.
436
00:16:49,308 --> 00:16:51,050
But, like, if you're building
that nice foundation
437
00:16:51,169 --> 00:16:53,494
Where it's like you're giving
each other the space
438
00:16:53,555 --> 00:16:55,796
To, like, be who you are,
and, like, if he can understand
439
00:16:55,915 --> 00:16:57,740
Like, yeah, maybe I might
blow up and I need a minute.
440
00:16:57,767 --> 00:17:00,743
- My concern is that
I'm gonna be the one to...
441
00:17:00,770 --> 00:17:03,246
- You're gonna be the [bleep].
- I'm gonna be the [bleep].
442
00:17:03,273 --> 00:17:04,505
When are the issues
gonna come?
443
00:17:04,566 --> 00:17:06,507
What are they gonna be?
Is it gonna be my fault?
444
00:17:06,568 --> 00:17:08,584
Is there something
that I'm potentially doing
445
00:17:08,611 --> 00:17:11,045
Or will do
that will cause issues?
446
00:17:11,072 --> 00:17:13,514
So that's a lot
of where my brain is going.
447
00:17:13,575 --> 00:17:15,849
- I feel like that's a lot
of pressure to put on yourself.
448
00:17:15,910 --> 00:17:17,651
Like...
449
00:17:17,770 --> 00:17:20,187
- It's not intentional, but I--
- you're a wonderful person.
450
00:17:20,248 --> 00:17:24,751
It's not like you're gonna blow
this up like it's...
451
00:17:24,869 --> 00:17:26,419
- Well, tell my brain that.
452
00:17:26,537 --> 00:17:28,695
- [laughs]
- I mean, you know me.
453
00:17:28,757 --> 00:17:30,423
Normally, at this point,
I would run.
454
00:17:30,541 --> 00:17:31,865
- I feel like
you'd be ditching.
455
00:17:31,926 --> 00:17:34,018
- Yeah. I would be like, okay,
things are going well,
456
00:17:34,020 --> 00:17:36,203
And he's really nice,
and he makes me really happy.
457
00:17:36,264 --> 00:17:37,764
Like, what's wrong?
I got to go.
458
00:17:37,882 --> 00:17:39,949
- Yeah.
- I think it was always like...
459
00:17:39,976 --> 00:17:41,342
A defense mechanism.
460
00:17:41,460 --> 00:17:43,710
Like, if I'm with someone
who's actually a good guy,
461
00:17:43,772 --> 00:17:45,863
This might go somewhere,
and then I would have
462
00:17:45,865 --> 00:17:47,047
To make a commitment.
- Right.
463
00:17:47,108 --> 00:17:49,700
- But since I already
have made the commitment
464
00:17:49,702 --> 00:17:53,204
Before I even met him,
I was comfortable
465
00:17:53,206 --> 00:17:55,706
With the idea of being
in a committed relationship.
466
00:17:55,708 --> 00:17:57,891
So now that I know him,
I'm like, oh,
467
00:17:57,952 --> 00:18:00,060
I want you to be
all these things you are.
468
00:18:00,121 --> 00:18:01,470
- Right.
469
00:18:01,498 --> 00:18:03,139
Chris sounds great.
470
00:18:03,166 --> 00:18:04,882
I mean, we haven't spent a ton
of time together,
471
00:18:04,884 --> 00:18:06,125
So I feel like I still
need to totally
472
00:18:06,244 --> 00:18:08,219
Round out my own
opinion of him.
473
00:18:08,221 --> 00:18:10,479
But she's changing.
Like, she's more vulnerable.
474
00:18:10,507 --> 00:18:12,148
She's more open.
She wants this to work.
475
00:18:12,175 --> 00:18:14,875
- But if it
didn't turn out well,
476
00:18:14,994 --> 00:18:17,744
I think it would be
because of my actions.
477
00:18:17,806 --> 00:18:19,655
- Yeah.
- And I...
478
00:18:19,682 --> 00:18:21,415
I don't know what
that would be.
479
00:18:21,476 --> 00:18:23,734
It's not like I'm trying
to come up with reasons,
480
00:18:23,736 --> 00:18:26,312
But I'm so scared that--
- which is valid.
481
00:18:26,430 --> 00:18:28,088
Which is totally fine,
and I think it's nice
482
00:18:28,149 --> 00:18:29,740
To be very conscious
of people's feelings.
483
00:18:29,742 --> 00:18:31,408
But you also have to be
yourself.
484
00:18:31,410 --> 00:18:32,985
And, like, you can't not be
who you are to protect him.
485
00:18:33,104 --> 00:18:35,079
- Right.
486
00:18:35,081 --> 00:18:38,007
[upbeat music]
487
00:18:38,034 --> 00:18:39,450
♪ ♪
488
00:18:39,569 --> 00:18:41,068
- Come on.
489
00:18:41,228 --> 00:18:42,603
- Nope, it's fine.
490
00:18:42,664 --> 00:18:44,922
I got it, I got it.
491
00:18:44,924 --> 00:18:46,565
[scoffs]
492
00:18:46,584 --> 00:18:48,609
So many items.
493
00:18:48,670 --> 00:18:50,261
- Okay.
494
00:18:50,263 --> 00:18:52,663
- Right.
The caravan has arrived.
495
00:18:52,781 --> 00:18:54,632
- I'm feeling definitely
a little bit nervous
496
00:18:54,750 --> 00:18:56,092
Going into today.
497
00:18:56,252 --> 00:18:59,186
But pastor cal
did make some valid points
498
00:18:59,188 --> 00:19:02,698
In terms of, we might be
making a predetermined decision
499
00:19:02,725 --> 00:19:04,033
To not work on things
500
00:19:04,060 --> 00:19:05,959
If we didn't at least
give moving in a shot.
501
00:19:06,020 --> 00:19:07,845
Okay.
- All right.
502
00:19:07,963 --> 00:19:10,097
Well, I guess I'll start
putting my stuff
503
00:19:10,257 --> 00:19:11,749
In the other room.
504
00:19:11,751 --> 00:19:14,285
- Okay.
- Relegate myself there.
505
00:19:14,287 --> 00:19:17,363
- You can put your stuff...
- Until we get the all clear.
506
00:19:17,481 --> 00:19:19,991
- I have lived alone
for the good portion
507
00:19:20,109 --> 00:19:21,959
Of probably
the last four years,
508
00:19:21,961 --> 00:19:24,353
And so I just have
my normal routine,
509
00:19:24,414 --> 00:19:26,797
And bringing someone else in
510
00:19:26,915 --> 00:19:28,457
And feeling like
you're, like, accommodating
511
00:19:28,618 --> 00:19:30,984
Both of your routines,
it makes me a little nervous.
512
00:19:31,045 --> 00:19:33,946
But all I can do
is really just give my all
513
00:19:34,065 --> 00:19:36,007
To the journey.
514
00:19:36,125 --> 00:19:38,718
We're just taking
this next chapter
515
00:19:38,836 --> 00:19:40,636
And hopefully
creating a life together.
516
00:19:40,796 --> 00:19:43,389
♪ ♪
517
00:19:44,617 --> 00:19:46,225
Mmm!
518
00:19:46,344 --> 00:19:48,502
What do you think
about your new home, bud?
519
00:19:48,563 --> 00:19:50,170
- We got it all in.
520
00:19:50,190 --> 00:19:52,130
- I'm like,
"I'm not moving in."
521
00:19:52,150 --> 00:19:54,975
And then I, like, brought
double the amount of stuff.
522
00:19:55,094 --> 00:19:56,310
- Yeah.
- [giggles]
523
00:19:56,312 --> 00:19:57,995
I think we'll be okay.
- Mm-hmm.
524
00:19:57,997 --> 00:19:59,513
This is a big step.
525
00:19:59,574 --> 00:20:02,091
It's a very, very big step.
526
00:20:02,118 --> 00:20:04,017
And we're gonna
just take it day by day,
527
00:20:04,178 --> 00:20:05,745
See how things go.
528
00:20:05,863 --> 00:20:07,596
We've decided
that we're gonna be staying
529
00:20:07,624 --> 00:20:09,006
In separate bedrooms.
530
00:20:09,008 --> 00:20:10,599
We're not gonna rush anything,
531
00:20:10,627 --> 00:20:13,344
Just see what feels natural
and best to us.
532
00:20:13,346 --> 00:20:15,438
So I think
it'll work out great.
533
00:20:15,465 --> 00:20:22,345
♪ ♪
534
00:20:26,550 --> 00:20:28,025
- Hey.
535
00:20:28,027 --> 00:20:29,360
- Hey.
536
00:20:29,362 --> 00:20:30,953
- What's up?
537
00:20:31,113 --> 00:20:32,997
- I was doing
some last-minute work
538
00:20:32,999 --> 00:20:34,682
Before I get ready to be off.
539
00:20:34,842 --> 00:20:36,883
What are you up to?
540
00:20:36,945 --> 00:20:40,387
- I'll probably go do a little
more last-minute shopping
541
00:20:40,448 --> 00:20:41,797
Before our housewarming.
542
00:20:41,824 --> 00:20:43,598
I got to pick up
a few more decorations,
543
00:20:43,660 --> 00:20:47,211
Like balloons and wall décor.
- Mm-hmm.
544
00:20:47,213 --> 00:20:48,712
You know,
I want you to be comfortable.
545
00:20:48,714 --> 00:20:51,882
I want to be comfortable,
so, you know...
546
00:20:51,884 --> 00:20:55,719
Yesterday when we was making
the list, the guest list,
547
00:20:55,721 --> 00:20:58,389
You were, like, refusing
to write fall's name down.
548
00:20:58,391 --> 00:21:00,057
[tense music]
549
00:21:00,059 --> 00:21:02,985
- I have taylor
and titi pat coming.
550
00:21:03,012 --> 00:21:05,304
- Titi pat?
- [chuckles]
551
00:21:05,423 --> 00:21:07,323
- And you have...
552
00:21:07,350 --> 00:21:08,749
- Fallina.
553
00:21:08,810 --> 00:21:11,385
♪ ♪
554
00:21:11,503 --> 00:21:12,903
Write it.
F-a-l-I-n-a.
555
00:21:12,905 --> 00:21:14,571
- I don't need to know
how to spell it.
556
00:21:14,573 --> 00:21:15,922
- Mm.
557
00:21:15,984 --> 00:21:18,058
- Who do you have coming?
- Fallina and rizzy...
558
00:21:18,177 --> 00:21:20,060
- [sighs]
- aka wayne.
559
00:21:20,179 --> 00:21:21,670
- So I'm not gonna be
at the housewarming.
560
00:21:21,698 --> 00:21:22,780
♪ ♪
561
00:21:22,898 --> 00:21:24,189
I just feel like,
562
00:21:24,308 --> 00:21:26,583
With everything
being so fresh and new,
563
00:21:26,585 --> 00:21:28,602
She's just not, like,
564
00:21:28,621 --> 00:21:31,422
A person, like, that
I'm comfortable being around.
565
00:21:31,424 --> 00:21:35,092
In our last interaction,
with the words she said to me,
566
00:21:35,094 --> 00:21:36,943
She basically told me
I was a fake person.
567
00:21:37,005 --> 00:21:39,522
There's no point of
having anybody in my presence
568
00:21:39,549 --> 00:21:41,114
Who doesn't think,
like, I'm genuine.
569
00:21:41,134 --> 00:21:43,192
- Yeah, so I invited fall.
570
00:21:43,219 --> 00:21:44,693
♪ ♪
571
00:21:44,721 --> 00:21:47,196
And she said
she didn't want to come.
572
00:21:47,223 --> 00:21:49,181
♪ ♪
573
00:21:49,300 --> 00:21:50,866
- Good.
574
00:21:50,893 --> 00:21:54,445
So then it is obvious
that it's mutual, then.
575
00:21:54,447 --> 00:21:58,465
- Well, she's got, like,
a very strong personality,
576
00:21:58,526 --> 00:22:01,785
And she stands ten toes
on, like, what she believes in.
577
00:22:01,787 --> 00:22:03,745
So maybe if, like,
she asked you something
578
00:22:03,747 --> 00:22:05,939
And you don't answer how she
thinks it should be answered,
579
00:22:06,058 --> 00:22:07,716
It's "scripted."
580
00:22:07,744 --> 00:22:09,643
But it's just the way
you answered, you know?
581
00:22:09,704 --> 00:22:11,704
Like, versus--well,
she might just be like,
582
00:22:11,822 --> 00:22:13,980
"nah,
whoo-whoo-whoo-whoo-whoo,"
583
00:22:14,042 --> 00:22:16,592
But you're like,
you know, like, calculated.
584
00:22:16,594 --> 00:22:19,712
Like, you know,
so I don't think it's--
585
00:22:19,830 --> 00:22:21,638
- I don't think it's that deep.
- Yeah.
586
00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:24,324
- I just know with everything
being so fresh and new
587
00:22:24,385 --> 00:22:26,402
That I was just like,
I kind of don't want her there.
588
00:22:26,429 --> 00:22:29,138
♪ ♪
589
00:22:29,298 --> 00:22:31,982
- From the beginning, she
wasn't a fan of none of this,
590
00:22:31,984 --> 00:22:34,151
So I feel like, for her,
591
00:22:34,153 --> 00:22:36,278
Until she feels like
it's a real thing--
592
00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:38,230
Like, I mean, we're married,
but in her mind...
593
00:22:38,349 --> 00:22:39,490
- It's not real yet.
- She's like--yeah.
594
00:22:39,492 --> 00:22:40,733
So, when it--
595
00:22:40,851 --> 00:22:43,252
Who knows when that'll
become a reality to her?
596
00:22:43,279 --> 00:22:44,645
That's for her to figure out.
- Mm-hmm.
597
00:22:44,805 --> 00:22:46,163
- You know, who knows?
Like, a year from now,
598
00:22:46,165 --> 00:22:48,824
We might all be at
cousins' night laughing about,
599
00:22:48,984 --> 00:22:51,251
"remember you didn't want
to come to the housewarming?"
600
00:22:51,253 --> 00:22:52,569
You know, like...
- [chuckles] okay.
601
00:22:52,688 --> 00:22:53,762
[laughs]
602
00:22:53,790 --> 00:22:59,635
♪ ♪
603
00:22:59,637 --> 00:23:00,786
[electronic music]
604
00:23:00,904 --> 00:23:06,166
♪ ♪
605
00:23:06,285 --> 00:23:07,751
- Like, you,
you're not rushing.
606
00:23:07,870 --> 00:23:10,279
Like, we got a party to get--
we gonna be late
607
00:23:10,439 --> 00:23:12,515
To our own party.
- Party!
608
00:23:12,675 --> 00:23:14,775
Are you--I feel like
you're sweating me right now.
609
00:23:14,777 --> 00:23:15,851
- I am.
610
00:23:16,011 --> 00:23:18,028
♪ ♪
611
00:23:18,030 --> 00:23:20,364
- Okay, okay.
- Perfect.
612
00:23:20,366 --> 00:23:21,865
- This is a special day.
613
00:23:21,867 --> 00:23:23,442
- I mean, it looks like
when you plan a party,
614
00:23:23,561 --> 00:23:25,277
You go all out.
[chuckles]
615
00:23:25,396 --> 00:23:27,020
- Our newlyweds
are about to bring
616
00:23:27,139 --> 00:23:28,981
Their friends and families
together
617
00:23:29,099 --> 00:23:32,092
And host their very first
party as a married couple.
618
00:23:32,094 --> 00:23:33,852
- You gonna help me prep?
- Yeah, sure.
619
00:23:33,871 --> 00:23:35,579
♪ ♪
620
00:23:35,698 --> 00:23:37,156
You need me
to slice any of these?
621
00:23:37,274 --> 00:23:38,824
- Yeah, I was
just gonna dice some up,
622
00:23:38,942 --> 00:23:40,842
But, yeah,
if you want to do that...
623
00:23:41,003 --> 00:23:43,036
- Merging their two lives
into one
624
00:23:43,155 --> 00:23:44,980
Is a major first step,
625
00:23:45,007 --> 00:23:47,724
One that can often be hard
to navigate
626
00:23:47,726 --> 00:23:50,469
And is incredibly important
for the success
627
00:23:50,588 --> 00:23:52,913
And longevity of the marriage.
628
00:23:52,974 --> 00:23:55,808
[lively music]
629
00:23:55,926 --> 00:23:57,718
♪ ♪
630
00:23:57,836 --> 00:24:00,070
- So he's just gonna hang out
in the lamp.
631
00:24:00,072 --> 00:24:02,314
- Okay. We don't really
use that lamp anyways.
632
00:24:02,433 --> 00:24:04,257
- Where should
this little guy live?
633
00:24:04,318 --> 00:24:06,669
- What if we did him
in between the two pineapples?
634
00:24:06,696 --> 00:24:08,154
We did a pineapple,
flamingo, pineapple?
635
00:24:08,272 --> 00:24:10,247
- Oh, that's a good idea.
Look at that.
636
00:24:10,249 --> 00:24:12,450
That's such a good place
for him.
637
00:24:12,568 --> 00:24:14,918
- So it's getting very festive,
very tropical in here.
638
00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:16,320
My wife is awesome.
639
00:24:16,438 --> 00:24:17,738
She's doing
all the decorating,
640
00:24:17,856 --> 00:24:19,072
Running all over the place.
641
00:24:19,191 --> 00:24:21,091
It's a "let's flamingle" party.
It was her idea.
642
00:24:21,093 --> 00:24:22,367
- Do we have a theme?
643
00:24:22,486 --> 00:24:24,328
What if we did--hear me out.
- Okay.
644
00:24:24,446 --> 00:24:26,597
- We made it, like,
a "let's flamingle" party
645
00:24:26,599 --> 00:24:28,674
And had, like,
flamingos and...
646
00:24:28,792 --> 00:24:30,434
- I kind of get it.
- We're gonna mingle
647
00:24:30,436 --> 00:24:32,102
With flamingos
and our friends,
648
00:24:32,104 --> 00:24:33,345
Like you're
at a hawaiian beach.
649
00:24:33,464 --> 00:24:34,680
- I make a really good, like,
650
00:24:34,798 --> 00:24:36,590
Buffalo-chicken sandwich
kind of thing.
651
00:24:36,708 --> 00:24:38,124
- If we do, like,
a tropical theme,
652
00:24:38,186 --> 00:24:39,518
Then we'd have to change--
we can't have,
653
00:24:39,637 --> 00:24:41,945
Like, buffalo chicken
and flamingos.
654
00:24:41,947 --> 00:24:43,614
I just want it
to match the food.
655
00:24:43,616 --> 00:24:45,858
- Yeah, I know.
I agree.
656
00:24:45,976 --> 00:24:47,935
- Matching shirts.
657
00:24:48,095 --> 00:24:49,587
This could be funny.
- [chuckles] all right.
658
00:24:49,589 --> 00:24:51,246
- Do you want to wear this?
659
00:24:51,248 --> 00:24:52,490
- Yeah, I could wear that.
660
00:24:52,608 --> 00:24:54,942
- If you don't want to,
you don't have to.
661
00:24:55,060 --> 00:24:56,944
It won't hurt my feelings.
- [chuckles]
662
00:24:57,062 --> 00:24:58,887
It's fine. I can wear it.
It goes with the theme.
663
00:24:58,915 --> 00:25:00,313
- Do you like it?
664
00:25:00,333 --> 00:25:01,965
- Eh, it's
a little much, but...
665
00:25:01,967 --> 00:25:03,709
[chuckles]
it goes with the theme.
666
00:25:03,827 --> 00:25:06,637
- If you don't want to,
I won't pressure you.
667
00:25:06,639 --> 00:25:08,789
I'm not here.
You have to decide.
668
00:25:08,907 --> 00:25:10,566
- I mean, I personally
wouldn't pick that out.
669
00:25:10,593 --> 00:25:12,384
That's a little much for me.
I appreciate the thought.
670
00:25:12,503 --> 00:25:15,070
- But it's okay, you know?
We still have so much on theme.
671
00:25:15,097 --> 00:25:16,329
- Are you upset?
- No.
672
00:25:16,349 --> 00:25:17,497
- Okay.
I just want to make sure.
673
00:25:17,517 --> 00:25:19,074
- Yeah, and we want you
to be comfy
674
00:25:19,101 --> 00:25:20,467
In your own house
at your party,
675
00:25:20,586 --> 00:25:21,894
So these flamingos,
not invited.
676
00:25:22,012 --> 00:25:23,454
- Are you wearing
your flamingo shirt?
677
00:25:23,456 --> 00:25:25,046
- Well, no,
that would be ridiculous.
678
00:25:25,107 --> 00:25:27,583
- [chuckles]
679
00:25:27,610 --> 00:25:30,402
[gentle music]
680
00:25:30,521 --> 00:25:35,557
♪ ♪
681
00:25:35,718 --> 00:25:38,835
- Scoot that down
a little bit.
682
00:25:38,837 --> 00:25:40,687
The letters.
- I'm gonna fix all that.
683
00:25:40,748 --> 00:25:41,764
Tell me where you want them.
684
00:25:41,791 --> 00:25:43,474
[knock at door]
685
00:25:43,476 --> 00:25:45,217
- Oh, my goodness.
686
00:25:45,219 --> 00:25:47,010
Come in.
- Oh, hey.
687
00:25:47,012 --> 00:25:48,345
- Come in!
- Hey, guys!
688
00:25:48,347 --> 00:25:50,514
- Hey!
- Ooh!
689
00:25:50,516 --> 00:25:53,533
- Welcome to our place.
- Okay, design team.
690
00:25:53,594 --> 00:25:54,943
I like what I'm seeing.
- Do you see this?
691
00:25:54,971 --> 00:25:57,429
- Shaquille and I felt like
it was very important
692
00:25:57,548 --> 00:26:00,107
To start off
with a housewarming party
693
00:26:00,109 --> 00:26:01,767
With two married couples
694
00:26:01,885 --> 00:26:03,802
Because we both definitely
want some insight
695
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:05,895
And some guidance
and great advice
696
00:26:05,897 --> 00:26:08,640
From people who are married
and in love
697
00:26:08,759 --> 00:26:11,068
And have a great marriage
going on right now.
698
00:26:11,186 --> 00:26:12,978
- Would y'all like a drink,
you know?
699
00:26:13,096 --> 00:26:14,888
- I see y'all already done
settled in with the browns.
700
00:26:14,949 --> 00:26:17,283
- You know, just a little bit.
- Look at the wedding picture!
701
00:26:17,401 --> 00:26:19,276
- Oh, yeah.
- Aw!
702
00:26:19,394 --> 00:26:22,746
It's to die.
- It's to die.
703
00:26:22,865 --> 00:26:26,199
- Shaq, I feel like you look
like you grew up overnight.
704
00:26:26,318 --> 00:26:29,402
- I just grew up quick.
- Such a beautiful couple, man.
705
00:26:29,422 --> 00:26:31,722
- It's serving body.
- I know.
706
00:26:31,724 --> 00:26:34,057
I was like,
they would get me sitting down.
707
00:26:34,059 --> 00:26:35,542
[cork pops]
- the adventure begins.
708
00:26:35,661 --> 00:26:38,137
- Okay, pro.
- Never.
709
00:26:38,255 --> 00:26:40,047
- So what have you all
been up to?
710
00:26:40,165 --> 00:26:41,548
We've been up to a lot,
and I know y'all probably
711
00:26:41,667 --> 00:26:43,383
Got a lot of questions for us.
- A lot of questions.
712
00:26:43,502 --> 00:26:45,477
- So we gonna throw it back
on y'all.
713
00:26:45,596 --> 00:26:46,720
- What?
- What?
714
00:26:46,838 --> 00:26:48,314
Both:
How y'all been doing?
715
00:26:48,432 --> 00:26:49,906
- Oh, is that
what y'all trying to do?
716
00:26:49,908 --> 00:26:51,116
Both: How's the kids?
717
00:26:51,118 --> 00:26:53,460
- No, how have you guys
been doing?
718
00:26:53,487 --> 00:26:55,120
Our kids are wonderful.
719
00:26:55,122 --> 00:26:56,730
- We've been doing great.
- You've been doing good?
720
00:26:56,848 --> 00:26:58,431
Tell us about it.
How was the honeymoon?
721
00:26:58,492 --> 00:27:00,642
- The honeymoon was fun.
- It was really fun.
722
00:27:00,703 --> 00:27:03,236
- We went horseback riding.
We went and did the atvs.
723
00:27:03,355 --> 00:27:04,622
- The horseback riding
was really fun.
724
00:27:04,740 --> 00:27:06,106
- Yeah, it was very romantic.
725
00:27:06,167 --> 00:27:07,833
We had a nice,
little candlelight dinner.
726
00:27:07,951 --> 00:27:09,493
- How romantic
did the honeymoon get?
727
00:27:09,495 --> 00:27:12,095
All: Ooh!
- Yes!
728
00:27:12,097 --> 00:27:13,930
Tasha's going in for the kill.
I like that.
729
00:27:13,932 --> 00:27:15,190
- We haven't even
had champagne yet.
730
00:27:15,217 --> 00:27:16,841
- Wait, are we toasting?
- Listen.
731
00:27:16,961 --> 00:27:19,027
It didn't get hot and heated.
732
00:27:19,055 --> 00:27:21,338
- It didn't get spicy yet?
- We just had a good time.
733
00:27:21,456 --> 00:27:22,681
- We are asking you guys--
734
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,125
- Did we have sex in jamaica?
735
00:27:25,186 --> 00:27:27,427
- We did not--
- she said nothing was spicy.
736
00:27:27,546 --> 00:27:29,112
- I don't think
anyone used that.
737
00:27:29,114 --> 00:27:30,781
- You took it far, brother.
- Yeah, right?
738
00:27:30,783 --> 00:27:32,632
She didn't say "consummate."
739
00:27:32,652 --> 00:27:34,434
- We didn't consummate
our marriage.
740
00:27:34,553 --> 00:27:37,029
- There was no consummation?
- No consummation.
741
00:27:37,147 --> 00:27:39,047
- No consummation,
just conversation.
742
00:27:39,075 --> 00:27:42,642
- Yeah, just conversation.
743
00:27:42,703 --> 00:27:44,444
- Did y'all kiss throughout?
744
00:27:44,563 --> 00:27:46,446
- I'm not getting
kiss energy yet.
745
00:27:46,565 --> 00:27:48,056
I'm not getting
the energy of smooch.
746
00:27:48,084 --> 00:27:49,649
- You're not getting
kiss energy?
747
00:27:49,710 --> 00:27:51,451
What is kiss energy?
- I'm not a good kisser.
748
00:27:51,570 --> 00:27:53,804
So that's why we didn't do
a lot of kissing
749
00:27:53,806 --> 00:27:55,714
On this honeymoon.
750
00:27:55,833 --> 00:27:57,457
♪ ♪
751
00:27:57,576 --> 00:28:00,627
- She needs to allow shaquille
to be the judge of that...
752
00:28:00,746 --> 00:28:02,646
By kissing him often.
753
00:28:02,648 --> 00:28:04,297
- What's a good kisser?
What's your definition?
754
00:28:04,416 --> 00:28:05,982
What's your definition
of a good kisser?
755
00:28:05,984 --> 00:28:07,500
- You better answer it right.
- My husband.
756
00:28:07,561 --> 00:28:09,653
- You better answer it right!
- My husband is the definition
757
00:28:09,655 --> 00:28:10,729
Of a good kisser--that's it.
758
00:28:10,848 --> 00:28:12,322
- Aw, that's a good answer.
- Yeah.
759
00:28:12,324 --> 00:28:15,484
Well, let's cheers
to love and kissing and...
760
00:28:15,644 --> 00:28:16,860
- Y'all can't cheers
to that yet.
761
00:28:16,979 --> 00:28:19,312
We'll cheers to that.
- We'll cheers over here.
762
00:28:19,431 --> 00:28:21,089
- Support it.
Support it. Support it.
763
00:28:21,117 --> 00:28:22,408
- To the dillons.
To the dillons.
764
00:28:22,526 --> 00:28:24,350
All:
To the dillons.
765
00:28:24,412 --> 00:28:25,986
- Kirsten's definitely
not a kisser,
766
00:28:26,104 --> 00:28:27,504
And, you know,
that's something for me
767
00:28:27,506 --> 00:28:29,673
That will have to grow
because I am a kisser.
768
00:28:29,675 --> 00:28:31,892
I like kissing, but if
she's not comfortable with it,
769
00:28:31,894 --> 00:28:33,468
I have to compromise and say,
770
00:28:33,470 --> 00:28:35,495
Okay, I have
to allow intimacy to grow
771
00:28:35,614 --> 00:28:37,072
In our relationship.
772
00:28:37,074 --> 00:28:38,757
And, you know, I'll just be
patient enough
773
00:28:38,876 --> 00:28:39,866
To let it take time.
774
00:28:39,927 --> 00:28:41,593
- [sighs]
775
00:28:41,712 --> 00:28:43,336
Well...
[chuckles]
776
00:28:43,455 --> 00:28:44,763
- Okay, sis.
- Come on, now.
777
00:28:44,882 --> 00:28:46,098
- [laughs]
778
00:28:46,216 --> 00:28:47,691
- How you feeling?
- [sighs]
779
00:28:47,693 --> 00:28:50,118
I-I feel--I'm still, like,
780
00:28:50,146 --> 00:28:53,180
Getting into the, you know,
groove of everything.
781
00:28:53,298 --> 00:28:55,182
It's taking me
a little bit more time.
782
00:28:55,300 --> 00:28:56,942
He's been very patient with me.
783
00:28:57,060 --> 00:28:59,695
I'm really trying
to open up to him,
784
00:28:59,855 --> 00:29:02,189
And I feel like that's
probably one of the struggles.
785
00:29:02,307 --> 00:29:04,724
And, like, sometimes I don't
want him to get discouraged.
786
00:29:04,785 --> 00:29:06,860
- Am I being too patient?
787
00:29:06,978 --> 00:29:10,138
Like, I don't know
when I should, like,
788
00:29:10,166 --> 00:29:12,398
Speed it up or slow it down
or be patient.
789
00:29:12,460 --> 00:29:14,626
- You're gonna have
to, like, figure out
790
00:29:14,745 --> 00:29:16,369
What she needs in men.
791
00:29:16,488 --> 00:29:18,889
So there's gonna be a point
or moments
792
00:29:18,891 --> 00:29:20,874
Where she needs that dominant
presence or force from you,
793
00:29:20,992 --> 00:29:21,967
Which can be tricky.
794
00:29:22,085 --> 00:29:23,576
♪ ♪
795
00:29:23,596 --> 00:29:26,396
- I understand
that attraction grows,
796
00:29:26,398 --> 00:29:29,141
But for me, it's like,
797
00:29:29,259 --> 00:29:30,901
If we're trying
to reach that one goal,
798
00:29:30,903 --> 00:29:32,886
Which is the eight weeks
and get to decision day
799
00:29:33,004 --> 00:29:35,055
And say we want to be together,
800
00:29:35,173 --> 00:29:37,657
What makes you attracted to me?
801
00:29:37,659 --> 00:29:40,911
- Yeah, so, one, the goal
is beyond eight weeks, right?
802
00:29:40,913 --> 00:29:42,245
The goal is for a lifetime.
- Mm-hmm.
803
00:29:42,247 --> 00:29:43,930
♪ ♪
804
00:29:43,949 --> 00:29:47,267
- There's definitely room
for kirsten and shaquille
805
00:29:47,328 --> 00:29:50,145
To become more connected
with each other.
806
00:29:50,147 --> 00:29:54,500
I am hoping that they can move
past the friendship
807
00:29:54,618 --> 00:29:58,411
And really begin
to become, you know,
808
00:29:58,530 --> 00:30:00,247
Intimate and physical
809
00:30:00,365 --> 00:30:02,749
And, like, really like
husband and wife together.
810
00:30:02,868 --> 00:30:05,769
- I would say
let the chemistry build
811
00:30:05,771 --> 00:30:07,638
Through intention.
812
00:30:07,756 --> 00:30:09,622
♪ ♪
813
00:30:09,642 --> 00:30:11,291
- We were friends
814
00:30:11,352 --> 00:30:14,594
For probably about a year.
815
00:30:14,713 --> 00:30:17,430
- And we were not physically
attracted to each other.
816
00:30:17,549 --> 00:30:19,441
And it was more as I got to see
817
00:30:19,601 --> 00:30:21,276
How beautiful a person
she was...
818
00:30:21,436 --> 00:30:22,694
- Inside.
- That I started
819
00:30:22,813 --> 00:30:24,621
To really become attracted
to her.
820
00:30:24,623 --> 00:30:25,864
And she can tell you,
she, like,
821
00:30:25,983 --> 00:30:27,640
Remembers vividly the day
it just flipped,
822
00:30:27,701 --> 00:30:29,960
Where I was just looking
at her like, oh, my god,
823
00:30:29,962 --> 00:30:32,295
Like, she had been next to me
this whole time.
824
00:30:32,297 --> 00:30:34,540
- You know, do you feel like
you guys are warming up
825
00:30:34,658 --> 00:30:36,633
To each other physically?
826
00:30:36,635 --> 00:30:38,118
- Is it better than day one?
827
00:30:38,236 --> 00:30:40,453
- It is better than day one.
- Okay.
828
00:30:40,572 --> 00:30:43,732
- Is it better than day two?
[laughter]
829
00:30:43,759 --> 00:30:45,475
- I think it's a great
challenge for both of them,
830
00:30:45,477 --> 00:30:47,219
Because it's not
the perfect package.
831
00:30:47,337 --> 00:30:48,737
"let's figure out
how to make it work.
832
00:30:48,764 --> 00:30:51,314
Let's grow together to still be
a beautiful couple."
833
00:30:51,316 --> 00:30:53,225
And I think
they have that potential, 100%.
834
00:30:53,343 --> 00:30:55,877
- Are you thinking
about decision day at all?
835
00:30:55,938 --> 00:30:57,120
- No.
- No?
836
00:30:57,239 --> 00:30:59,656
- Nope. Not at all.
- Mm.
837
00:30:59,658 --> 00:31:01,841
Do you want to be with shaq
for the rest of your life?
838
00:31:01,902 --> 00:31:03,235
- I can't answer that
right now.
839
00:31:03,353 --> 00:31:04,844
I don't know yet.
- Yeah.
840
00:31:04,905 --> 00:31:06,146
- I don't know.
841
00:31:06,264 --> 00:31:09,074
[tense music]
842
00:31:09,192 --> 00:31:14,120
♪ ♪
843
00:31:14,239 --> 00:31:14,838
[lively music]
844
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:21,670
♪ ♪
845
00:31:23,348 --> 00:31:25,432
[knock at door]
846
00:31:25,434 --> 00:31:26,499
- What's up?
- Hello!
847
00:31:26,618 --> 00:31:27,968
- Hey, guys.
- How you doing?
848
00:31:28,086 --> 00:31:29,887
- Hi. Welcome.
Great shirt.
849
00:31:30,005 --> 00:31:31,972
Very festive.
Both: How are you?
850
00:31:32,090 --> 00:31:34,040
♪ ♪
851
00:31:34,159 --> 00:31:36,209
- Welcome, ladies.
- Wow.
852
00:31:36,270 --> 00:31:38,111
- You're looking so festive.
I love it.
853
00:31:38,113 --> 00:31:40,772
- Thank you. Welcome.
- How are you?
854
00:31:40,891 --> 00:31:42,182
So devonte's coming, too,
855
00:31:42,300 --> 00:31:43,216
But he's running late.
- Oh, okay.
856
00:31:43,277 --> 00:31:44,292
♪ ♪
857
00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:45,551
I like the flamingos.
858
00:31:45,613 --> 00:31:47,020
- Thank you.
Thank you.
859
00:31:47,138 --> 00:31:49,722
- The theme was her idea.
I can't take credit for it.
860
00:31:49,783 --> 00:31:52,208
- Thank you.
- She loves a flamingo.
861
00:31:52,210 --> 00:31:53,559
- Oh, the leis.
862
00:31:53,679 --> 00:31:55,028
- Ooh.
- Ooh.
863
00:31:55,030 --> 00:31:56,263
- Here you go, b.
- Well, thank you.
864
00:31:56,265 --> 00:31:58,198
- Thank you so much.
865
00:31:58,358 --> 00:32:00,108
- So this is our kitchen.
- I like it.
866
00:32:00,169 --> 00:32:02,568
- It normally doesn't have
this many flamingos
867
00:32:02,630 --> 00:32:03,703
And pineapples,
but, you know...
868
00:32:03,822 --> 00:32:04,646
- I think
you should leave it up.
869
00:32:04,673 --> 00:32:06,131
- Yeah, I agree.
870
00:32:06,249 --> 00:32:08,908
And this is our living room.
- Oh, my gosh.
871
00:32:09,069 --> 00:32:11,744
This is the best picture.
- Oh, this is our first kiss.
872
00:32:11,805 --> 00:32:13,396
- Aw!
- Did you see this?
873
00:32:13,398 --> 00:32:15,715
That's beautiful.
- That is really beautiful.
874
00:32:15,834 --> 00:32:18,518
- I will show you the--
there was an original picture
875
00:32:18,637 --> 00:32:21,888
That I was not
super thrilled with.
876
00:32:22,007 --> 00:32:24,240
This was the other photo.
Both: Aw.
877
00:32:24,242 --> 00:32:26,868
- No, you look beautiful.
- That's what I said, but--
878
00:32:26,870 --> 00:32:28,261
- Well, you have to say that.
879
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:30,263
[laughter]
shall we eat? Yes.
880
00:32:30,324 --> 00:32:32,032
- Let's dig in
so it doesn't get cold.
881
00:32:32,150 --> 00:32:33,909
Yeah, we went with
a whole tropical-food theme,
882
00:32:34,069 --> 00:32:36,127
So shrimp scampi,
chicken teriyaki.
883
00:32:36,129 --> 00:32:37,311
And then we got
884
00:32:37,373 --> 00:32:39,239
Nutella-stuffed
chocolate-chip cookies..
885
00:32:39,357 --> 00:32:41,074
- Ooh.
- With sea salt and caramel.
886
00:32:41,192 --> 00:32:43,643
- You got lucky.
You got a good cook.
887
00:32:43,645 --> 00:32:45,069
- But did you have that shirt
in the closet ready to go?
888
00:32:45,089 --> 00:32:46,146
- I actually did.
889
00:32:46,264 --> 00:32:47,572
I had it ready for jamaica,
890
00:32:47,591 --> 00:32:49,165
But I didn't get
to wear it, so...
891
00:32:49,284 --> 00:32:52,027
- I bought us these
really cheesy matching shirts.
892
00:32:52,054 --> 00:32:54,104
- Where are these shirts?
- Yeah. Can we see them?
893
00:32:54,106 --> 00:32:55,847
- They're right there
on the couch, amazingly.
894
00:32:55,966 --> 00:32:58,325
- Oh, golly.
- What?
895
00:32:58,327 --> 00:32:59,826
- Like, if you guys walked in
896
00:32:59,828 --> 00:33:02,996
And we were
in these matching shirts,
897
00:33:02,998 --> 00:33:04,681
I thought it would be funny.
898
00:33:04,799 --> 00:33:06,208
- The two different patterns,
I like it.
899
00:33:06,235 --> 00:33:07,283
- I think
brandon would like it.
900
00:33:07,285 --> 00:33:08,768
- I enjoy them.
- Yeah.
901
00:33:08,887 --> 00:33:10,803
- I feel like I'm about
to put in my fast-food order.
902
00:33:10,864 --> 00:33:12,638
- Yeah.
[laughter]
903
00:33:12,700 --> 00:33:13,973
- But I was so happy
904
00:33:13,993 --> 00:33:16,126
That he was like,
"I don't want to wear them.
905
00:33:16,128 --> 00:33:19,012
I will if it makes you happy,
but I don't want to."
906
00:33:19,014 --> 00:33:21,714
- Well, at least you stood up
for yourself and said no.
907
00:33:21,716 --> 00:33:23,892
- Yeah,
don't let her bully you.
908
00:33:23,919 --> 00:33:25,718
- I liked the effort,
but I was like,
909
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:27,820
"eh, I didn't really hit."
- [laughs]
910
00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:29,155
Yeah, that's
what they say, right,
911
00:33:29,174 --> 00:33:30,623
That it's the thought
that counts?
912
00:33:30,742 --> 00:33:31,824
- Yeah, that's what it was.
913
00:33:31,885 --> 00:33:33,968
- I'm so happy
you told me that.
914
00:33:33,970 --> 00:33:36,162
- Chris, can we steal you
and go have a little chat?
915
00:33:36,223 --> 00:33:38,390
- Yeah.
- Don't you let them bully you.
916
00:33:38,508 --> 00:33:40,517
- I'm gonna teach him
how to not let you bully him.
917
00:33:40,635 --> 00:33:43,303
- Yeah, that's good advice.
- I'm gonna give you some tips.
918
00:33:43,421 --> 00:33:46,389
♪ ♪
919
00:33:46,508 --> 00:33:48,525
So things are going well,
it sounds like.
920
00:33:48,643 --> 00:33:49,617
- Yeah, things are going
really well,
921
00:33:49,619 --> 00:33:51,644
Like, way better
than I expected.
922
00:33:51,763 --> 00:33:53,922
- But do you have anything--
even, like, little things?
923
00:33:53,949 --> 00:33:55,148
Like, do you think,
like, "oh, my god,
924
00:33:55,266 --> 00:33:57,016
That could get really annoying
in a few weeks"?
925
00:33:57,077 --> 00:33:59,018
- In certain situations,
I'm like,
926
00:33:59,079 --> 00:34:01,930
You know, she definitely gets
a little more upset than I do.
927
00:34:01,957 --> 00:34:03,248
- She's not afraid to...
928
00:34:03,366 --> 00:34:04,991
- Yeah.
- Make waves.
929
00:34:05,110 --> 00:34:06,859
- But, again, it's like,
I like that about her.
930
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:08,661
I like that
she's strong-opinionated.
931
00:34:08,780 --> 00:34:11,181
I like that she voices that.
- Well, I appreciate that.
932
00:34:11,183 --> 00:34:13,366
It already sounds like you are
accepting her for who she is.
933
00:34:13,427 --> 00:34:15,409
Both: Yeah.
- So, when she has been having,
934
00:34:15,471 --> 00:34:17,471
Like, her little issues,
how does that go?
935
00:34:17,589 --> 00:34:19,189
How do you feel about that?
936
00:34:19,191 --> 00:34:20,615
- She hasn't used that
against me,
937
00:34:20,642 --> 00:34:23,785
Or she hasn't done that,
like, towards me,
938
00:34:23,812 --> 00:34:25,120
So I'm like, I don't know
939
00:34:25,147 --> 00:34:27,789
What our first potential
roadblock may be, but--
940
00:34:27,816 --> 00:34:29,382
- Yeah, you don't seem
like a fighter.
941
00:34:29,443 --> 00:34:31,693
- Mm-hmm.
942
00:34:31,853 --> 00:34:33,612
- So was it you
that chose the theme,
943
00:34:33,730 --> 00:34:34,963
Or was it a group effort?
944
00:34:34,990 --> 00:34:36,856
- It was me.
945
00:34:36,975 --> 00:34:38,108
Well...
946
00:34:38,226 --> 00:34:40,101
[knock at door]
947
00:34:40,262 --> 00:34:41,595
Hold, please.
948
00:34:41,597 --> 00:34:44,088
[knocking continues]
coming.
949
00:34:44,090 --> 00:34:45,365
Hello.
- Hey.
950
00:34:45,525 --> 00:34:46,641
- Are you devonte?
- Yeah.
951
00:34:46,668 --> 00:34:49,044
- Hi. I'm nicole.
- Wow. Nice to meet you.
952
00:34:49,204 --> 00:34:50,645
- Hugs--we hug around here.
Both: Nice to meet you.
953
00:34:50,672 --> 00:34:52,764
- Welcome.
Well, we have leis for you--
954
00:34:52,766 --> 00:34:54,407
- What's up, man?
Good to see you.
955
00:34:54,568 --> 00:34:56,376
- You guys know each other.
Here you go.
956
00:34:56,494 --> 00:34:57,710
- Yeah, let's do it.
957
00:34:57,829 --> 00:34:59,504
- So are you hungry?
- Always.
958
00:34:59,622 --> 00:35:02,382
- Okay, let's hook you up.
959
00:35:02,500 --> 00:35:03,992
- Where's chris at?
960
00:35:04,019 --> 00:35:07,587
- Uh, he's back in the bedroom
with her friends.
961
00:35:07,648 --> 00:35:09,889
- Oh, wow.
- Enjoy.
962
00:35:10,008 --> 00:35:13,243
- Let me see the ring.
Damn.
963
00:35:13,245 --> 00:35:16,095
- I mean, your boy knows
how to pick jewelry,
964
00:35:16,156 --> 00:35:18,006
So we are very happy.
965
00:35:18,033 --> 00:35:19,658
- So you've been married
for how long now?
966
00:35:19,776 --> 00:35:20,933
- A little over two weeks.
967
00:35:20,994 --> 00:35:22,935
- Y'all had any arguments yet?
968
00:35:22,996 --> 00:35:25,572
- Not really,
but I've been noticing
969
00:35:25,732 --> 00:35:27,257
Just little things
throughout the day
970
00:35:27,259 --> 00:35:28,941
Where he's
kind of appeasing me--
971
00:35:29,002 --> 00:35:30,776
Like, you know,
"whatever you want.
972
00:35:30,838 --> 00:35:32,778
I just want you to be happy."
973
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:34,614
And it's an admirable quality,
974
00:35:34,675 --> 00:35:36,524
But I know
in his past relationships,
975
00:35:36,552 --> 00:35:38,343
He's told me,
you've told me, your mom,
976
00:35:38,461 --> 00:35:40,119
Everyone I met at our wedding
has told me
977
00:35:40,180 --> 00:35:42,121
That he's kind of
gotten walked all over
978
00:35:42,182 --> 00:35:44,032
Because he is such a nice guy.
979
00:35:44,059 --> 00:35:46,609
And I don't want that
to happen with us
980
00:35:46,611 --> 00:35:48,595
Because I do have
such a strong personality.
981
00:35:48,713 --> 00:35:50,096
And I am very conscious of it,
982
00:35:50,215 --> 00:35:51,964
But how often
can you really say,
983
00:35:52,025 --> 00:35:53,449
Like, "no, really,
what do you think?
984
00:35:53,451 --> 00:35:54,359
Really, what do you think?"
985
00:35:54,477 --> 00:35:55,768
- So is it, like,
important for you
986
00:35:55,887 --> 00:35:57,337
To make your own decisions,
987
00:35:57,339 --> 00:35:59,439
Or are you looking
kind of more for compromises,
988
00:35:59,557 --> 00:36:03,994
Or, like, how are you wanting
to model this relationship?
989
00:36:04,112 --> 00:36:06,371
- I'm totally open
to compromise.
990
00:36:06,489 --> 00:36:08,948
And sometimes
there really are situations
991
00:36:09,067 --> 00:36:11,301
Where neither one of us
has a strong opinion,
992
00:36:11,303 --> 00:36:12,560
And that's fine.
993
00:36:12,588 --> 00:36:14,880
It doesn't make me happy
if he's only doing things
994
00:36:14,998 --> 00:36:17,823
To benefit me
and he's secretly miserable.
995
00:36:17,885 --> 00:36:20,660
But if it's something
that changes how we live
996
00:36:20,721 --> 00:36:23,980
Or how we look or, you know,
something really impactful,
997
00:36:23,982 --> 00:36:25,623
I'm open to compromise,
998
00:36:25,642 --> 00:36:27,667
But I need to know
where he's coming from
999
00:36:27,728 --> 00:36:30,169
So I can even have
that conversation.
1000
00:36:30,230 --> 00:36:32,580
- Just be vocal on his stance
and that kind of stuff, yeah.
1001
00:36:32,608 --> 00:36:35,250
- Right. Like, there's a world
where we can both be happy,
1002
00:36:35,277 --> 00:36:36,584
But we don't know that
1003
00:36:36,612 --> 00:36:39,812
Unless we're both saying
what makes us happy.
1004
00:36:39,931 --> 00:36:43,925
- She says at times she does
have a little bit of an issue
1005
00:36:43,952 --> 00:36:45,760
When I do things, like,
to make her happy.
1006
00:36:45,787 --> 00:36:48,688
I don't think she's used to it.
- That's 100% what it is.
1007
00:36:48,749 --> 00:36:51,007
- She's like,
"oh, it's too easy."
1008
00:36:51,009 --> 00:36:52,892
- Because she is so strong,
I think she wants someone
1009
00:36:52,894 --> 00:36:54,169
Who's, like,
gonna challenge her.
1010
00:36:54,329 --> 00:36:56,195
I joke, like, she's like,
"don't let her bully you,"
1011
00:36:56,215 --> 00:36:58,398
But she's strong, and so I feel
like she wants someone
1012
00:36:58,425 --> 00:37:00,833
Who's, like, gonna keep her
in check in a little, like--
1013
00:37:00,952 --> 00:37:03,002
- It's nice that you're nice.
1014
00:37:03,121 --> 00:37:05,171
You just don't want
to be a pushover, yeah.
1015
00:37:05,290 --> 00:37:09,392
♪ ♪
1016
00:37:11,313 --> 00:37:12,329
[upbeat music]
1017
00:37:12,447 --> 00:37:17,192
♪ ♪
1018
00:37:17,352 --> 00:37:21,112
- ♪ party, party, party
'cause I feels so right ♪
1019
00:37:21,231 --> 00:37:22,538
♪ party, party, party ♪
1020
00:37:22,540 --> 00:37:23,798
- Hey. How you doing?
- Hey.
1021
00:37:23,825 --> 00:37:25,708
Hi, duchy.
How you doing?
1022
00:37:25,710 --> 00:37:27,877
- Good. Hey, auntie.
- Hey!
1023
00:37:27,879 --> 00:37:29,279
What's up?
1024
00:37:29,397 --> 00:37:31,214
- What's up? What's up?
Good to see you again.
1025
00:37:31,216 --> 00:37:33,357
- I know.
1026
00:37:33,377 --> 00:37:36,661
- Yeah!
- Yeah!
1027
00:37:36,779 --> 00:37:38,346
- Yo, yo, yo, yo.
- What's going on, man?
1028
00:37:38,348 --> 00:37:40,390
- What's up, bro?
- Yes, sir.
1029
00:37:40,392 --> 00:37:41,682
- Hi.
- Reggie.
1030
00:37:41,684 --> 00:37:42,892
- Jasmine.
Both: Nice to meet you.
1031
00:37:42,894 --> 00:37:44,227
- Nice to meet you again.
- Hi.
1032
00:37:44,229 --> 00:37:45,428
Nice to see you again.
- How you doing?
1033
00:37:45,547 --> 00:37:46,654
- How are y'all doing?
- Hello.
1034
00:37:46,682 --> 00:37:47,747
- Reggie.
- I'm taylor.
1035
00:37:47,766 --> 00:37:49,290
- How y'all doing?
- How you doing?
1036
00:37:49,292 --> 00:37:51,643
♪ ♪
1037
00:37:51,761 --> 00:37:53,569
And this is duchess.
1038
00:37:53,571 --> 00:37:55,071
- Duchess?
Okay.
1039
00:37:55,073 --> 00:37:57,865
- This is one of four.
She got four.
1040
00:37:57,867 --> 00:37:59,242
♪ ♪
1041
00:37:59,244 --> 00:38:02,504
[laughter]
- that's a tall task there.
1042
00:38:02,531 --> 00:38:04,705
- It is a tall task.
- He said--
1043
00:38:04,707 --> 00:38:06,766
He ain't have no words.
- None.
1044
00:38:06,827 --> 00:38:10,378
- Before the marriage,
was she sleeping in the bed?
1045
00:38:10,380 --> 00:38:11,754
- Oh, all my dogs
is in bed with me.
1046
00:38:11,756 --> 00:38:13,423
♪ ♪
1047
00:38:13,425 --> 00:38:15,258
- All of them?
- I mean, I'm single.
1048
00:38:15,260 --> 00:38:16,776
I have a king-sized bed.
1049
00:38:16,837 --> 00:38:18,670
- Four dogs?
You and four dogs?
1050
00:38:18,788 --> 00:38:20,263
- Me and four dogs, yeah.
1051
00:38:20,265 --> 00:38:21,506
- What's the problem?
You don't like--
1052
00:38:21,624 --> 00:38:23,324
You still trying
to get adjusted to one dog?
1053
00:38:23,385 --> 00:38:24,709
- Yeah.
1054
00:38:24,827 --> 00:38:28,454
[tense music]
1055
00:38:28,515 --> 00:38:31,107
- What has been some
of the struggles for you two?
1056
00:38:31,109 --> 00:38:33,518
- Mm.
- Um...
1057
00:38:33,636 --> 00:38:36,921
Both of us aren't
the best of communicators.
1058
00:38:36,940 --> 00:38:39,374
- Communication
is not my strong suit
1059
00:38:39,401 --> 00:38:40,516
In my relationships.
1060
00:38:40,635 --> 00:38:41,759
- Exactly.
1061
00:38:41,778 --> 00:38:43,286
- Prime example--
1062
00:38:43,288 --> 00:38:46,506
We was making a guest list
for this housewarming.
1063
00:38:46,624 --> 00:38:49,609
One of the guests was supposed
to be my cousin.
1064
00:38:49,727 --> 00:38:51,386
They don't have
the best of relationships.
1065
00:38:51,413 --> 00:38:54,781
- You are a pageant sister.
1066
00:38:54,899 --> 00:38:56,708
You know, it's just,
like, a lot of times,
1067
00:38:56,826 --> 00:38:58,893
You're ready
to answer a question
1068
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,062
With what's considered
to be the right answer.
1069
00:39:01,089 --> 00:39:03,398
But, you know,
this is really your life.
1070
00:39:03,425 --> 00:39:05,308
♪ ♪
1071
00:39:05,310 --> 00:39:07,226
- So, as we were making
the guest list,
1072
00:39:07,228 --> 00:39:09,346
She kind of just
brushed it off,
1073
00:39:09,464 --> 00:39:12,557
But then, like, after she left,
she sent me a text message,
1074
00:39:12,675 --> 00:39:14,075
You know, saying,
like, you know,
1075
00:39:14,102 --> 00:39:15,718
She wasn't comfortable
with her coming.
1076
00:39:15,720 --> 00:39:18,913
Like, I would have preferred
her to say it in the moment.
1077
00:39:18,940 --> 00:39:20,398
♪ ♪
1078
00:39:20,517 --> 00:39:22,825
- So is it, like,
a personality clash?
1079
00:39:22,827 --> 00:39:24,635
- I don't think
it's a personality clash.
1080
00:39:24,654 --> 00:39:25,987
I don't know her,
1081
00:39:26,147 --> 00:39:28,239
But I know that
when we had a conversation,
1082
00:39:28,358 --> 00:39:30,592
I didn't feel respected,
1083
00:39:30,619 --> 00:39:32,017
So it was just like,
1084
00:39:32,037 --> 00:39:34,596
I don't want that person
in my space right now.
1085
00:39:34,623 --> 00:39:36,756
- So how did
that make you feel,
1086
00:39:36,758 --> 00:39:38,291
Since that's your family?
1087
00:39:38,410 --> 00:39:39,918
- I mean, you know,
it's obviously
1088
00:39:40,036 --> 00:39:41,485
Two important women in my life.
1089
00:39:41,505 --> 00:39:43,821
I would like them to,
1090
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:46,941
You know, come together,
get along, but it's early.
1091
00:39:46,968 --> 00:39:49,777
I got to give that situation,
like, grace.
1092
00:39:49,938 --> 00:39:51,596
- Officially, you're married.
- Right.
1093
00:39:51,714 --> 00:39:54,115
- So you have to be able
1094
00:39:54,142 --> 00:39:58,344
To make sure
that your wife is comfortable.
1095
00:39:58,463 --> 00:40:00,012
- I understand her bluntness
1096
00:40:00,131 --> 00:40:01,940
And how she just say
how she feel,
1097
00:40:02,058 --> 00:40:03,291
But I been knowing her
my whole life.
1098
00:40:03,318 --> 00:40:06,461
She just met her.
You know what I mean? But...
1099
00:40:06,488 --> 00:40:09,030
- The way airris' cousin
may be saying things
1100
00:40:09,190 --> 00:40:10,949
May be taken the wrong way.
1101
00:40:11,067 --> 00:40:13,410
I mean, his cousin's
gonna have her feelings,
1102
00:40:13,528 --> 00:40:14,861
And she's gonna have hers,
1103
00:40:14,979 --> 00:40:16,379
But they got to get
to know each other.
1104
00:40:16,381 --> 00:40:18,306
- Airris, are you gonna show me
the rest of the house?
1105
00:40:18,333 --> 00:40:19,474
- I got you. Let's do it.
- Okay.
1106
00:40:19,501 --> 00:40:21,050
- Come on.
1107
00:40:21,052 --> 00:40:23,052
- It all go back
to communication.
1108
00:40:23,054 --> 00:40:25,130
So, once they can get
the communication down,
1109
00:40:25,248 --> 00:40:27,298
I think the relationship
will be better.
1110
00:40:27,300 --> 00:40:29,100
- You know, a closet, bathroom.
1111
00:40:29,102 --> 00:40:32,019
- It's nice.
- Pretty standard.
1112
00:40:32,021 --> 00:40:34,197
- This is.
This is very nice.
1113
00:40:34,199 --> 00:40:35,548
- How do you feel
sharing your space
1114
00:40:35,666 --> 00:40:36,641
And a closet with a woman?
1115
00:40:36,759 --> 00:40:38,142
- Let me
just check out this bed.
1116
00:40:38,144 --> 00:40:39,327
- Yeah, check out the bed.
- Pat, girl--
1117
00:40:39,354 --> 00:40:40,720
[laughs]
oh, my...
1118
00:40:40,838 --> 00:40:43,255
- I mean, right now
it hasn't been an issue,
1119
00:40:43,316 --> 00:40:45,741
But depending
on where we go after this,
1120
00:40:45,743 --> 00:40:47,152
I think I'm gonna need space,
1121
00:40:47,270 --> 00:40:48,911
'cause we couldn't
have four dogs in here.
1122
00:40:48,913 --> 00:40:52,490
- No. No, no, no,
that would be a lot, for sure.
1123
00:40:52,609 --> 00:40:55,009
- Well, how do you feel
if she decided
1124
00:40:55,036 --> 00:40:56,402
That she didn't really--
1125
00:40:56,521 --> 00:40:59,514
That she would be willing
to give up her dogs?
1126
00:40:59,541 --> 00:41:01,407
- If she would be willing
to give up her dogs?
1127
00:41:01,526 --> 00:41:03,001
- Yeah.
- I'd be super excited.
1128
00:41:03,119 --> 00:41:06,129
- [gasps]
- [laughs]
1129
00:41:06,247 --> 00:41:08,097
- Okay.
1130
00:41:08,099 --> 00:41:09,857
- Not duchess, though,
the rest of them.
1131
00:41:09,885 --> 00:41:12,243
- [shouts indistinctly]
- they can get out of here.
1132
00:41:12,262 --> 00:41:14,620
[quirky music]
1133
00:41:14,681 --> 00:41:16,656
- What are some
of your concerns
1134
00:41:16,658 --> 00:41:18,533
Just about the marriage
and everything?
1135
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:20,643
- Um...
1136
00:41:20,762 --> 00:41:24,780
I mean, me and airris aren't,
like, you know...
1137
00:41:24,782 --> 00:41:25,865
We ain't having sex.
1138
00:41:25,867 --> 00:41:29,619
[dramatic music]
1139
00:41:29,621 --> 00:41:33,823
Like, we don't have that,
like, sexual, like, chemistry.
1140
00:41:33,942 --> 00:41:37,368
Like, we're not trying to rip
each other's clothes off.
1141
00:41:37,487 --> 00:41:41,122
And he's been very clear
that he's a sexual person.
1142
00:41:41,282 --> 00:41:43,558
Like, he's been very clear,
1143
00:41:43,585 --> 00:41:48,638
So I don't think
that's solely the reason.
1144
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:50,306
- Do you think
the experts picked right?
1145
00:41:50,308 --> 00:41:52,066
- I feel like they did.
1146
00:41:52,093 --> 00:41:55,645
There's a lot of things
me and airris have in common,
1147
00:41:55,647 --> 00:41:58,740
So I feel like we could be
very great together.
1148
00:41:58,767 --> 00:42:02,410
We just have to continue
to be honest
1149
00:42:02,437 --> 00:42:05,671
And, like, work over the
hurdles that we've been handed.
1150
00:42:05,732 --> 00:42:07,415
[tender music]
1151
00:42:07,442 --> 00:42:12,119
- So what are
your expectations?
1152
00:42:12,121 --> 00:42:14,047
- I guess just for us
to continue
1153
00:42:14,074 --> 00:42:16,148
To get to know each other.
1154
00:42:16,267 --> 00:42:17,850
I kind of feel like
we need to plan, though,
1155
00:42:17,911 --> 00:42:19,335
'cause if it's just, like,
1156
00:42:19,337 --> 00:42:20,894
Neither one of us
says anything,
1157
00:42:20,956 --> 00:42:23,248
I feel like we're just
gonna keep going to work,
1158
00:42:23,366 --> 00:42:24,582
Coming home.
1159
00:42:24,701 --> 00:42:26,768
- I'm gonna ride or die
for jas.
1160
00:42:26,928 --> 00:42:30,805
I know that she's in this.
1161
00:42:30,807 --> 00:42:33,365
Are you willing
to take the effort
1162
00:42:33,426 --> 00:42:36,110
To see
how this is gonna work out
1163
00:42:36,137 --> 00:42:38,112
And "if I can love you
1164
00:42:38,139 --> 00:42:41,206
Or show you that I am falling
in love with you"?
1165
00:42:41,268 --> 00:42:44,285
[tense music]
1166
00:42:44,312 --> 00:42:46,020
♪ ♪
1167
00:42:46,180 --> 00:42:48,565
- Like, you know, we're
gonna try, see where it goes.
1168
00:42:48,683 --> 00:42:54,553
♪ ♪
1169
00:42:54,614 --> 00:42:57,514
[gentle music]
1170
00:42:57,534 --> 00:43:00,510
[person vocalizing]
1171
00:43:00,512 --> 00:43:03,546
♪ ooh, oh, yeah,
ooh, oh, yeah ♪
1172
00:43:03,548 --> 00:43:05,898
- You are so sweet.
1173
00:43:05,959 --> 00:43:08,810
- My mom is disappointed this
didn't work out, you know?
1174
00:43:08,837 --> 00:43:10,953
Like,
she signed me up for this.
1175
00:43:10,955 --> 00:43:12,714
She had intentions
1176
00:43:12,874 --> 00:43:15,224
Of, you know, me finding
my lifelong husband.
1177
00:43:15,226 --> 00:43:16,968
Both: Thank you.
- For sure.
1178
00:43:17,086 --> 00:43:19,395
- I feel like I let her down,
1179
00:43:19,397 --> 00:43:21,973
But hopefully
she can understand
1180
00:43:22,091 --> 00:43:24,216
The reasons
why I asked for a divorce.
1181
00:43:24,335 --> 00:43:25,885
- I'm so sad.
1182
00:43:26,003 --> 00:43:29,163
We're supposed to be having
your guys's housewarming today.
1183
00:43:29,190 --> 00:43:30,331
- That would have been
interesting.
1184
00:43:30,358 --> 00:43:32,074
- I was so excited for that.
- Really?
1185
00:43:32,076 --> 00:43:33,651
- Yeah. I mean, I was excited
1186
00:43:33,770 --> 00:43:36,078
About the fact of getting
to know him a little better
1187
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:37,246
And, you know, you guys--
1188
00:43:37,248 --> 00:43:39,565
- I mean, do you want to
after everything?
1189
00:43:39,684 --> 00:43:43,344
- No. I mean, I kind of wish
I had had the opportunity
1190
00:43:43,371 --> 00:43:45,254
To kind of talk to him,
you know,
1191
00:43:45,256 --> 00:43:47,657
Before all this got
to this point.
1192
00:43:47,659 --> 00:43:49,000
♪ ♪
1193
00:43:49,118 --> 00:43:52,503
Maybe things would've changed
or been a little better.
1194
00:43:52,622 --> 00:43:55,081
- Honestly, no, because he
started being very petty.
1195
00:43:55,199 --> 00:43:58,250
- So he started being negative.
- Yeah.
1196
00:43:58,369 --> 00:43:59,510
He was very, very vocal
1197
00:43:59,629 --> 00:44:01,679
About the things
that he did not want to do.
1198
00:44:01,798 --> 00:44:04,532
- Oh, so that was too much?
- It was too much.
1199
00:44:04,559 --> 00:44:06,367
- So did you express to him
1200
00:44:06,394 --> 00:44:08,627
That his complaining
was a bit much
1201
00:44:08,688 --> 00:44:10,946
Or exuberant for you?
- Yeah.
1202
00:44:10,948 --> 00:44:13,207
Yeah. He said
that he would work on it.
1203
00:44:13,234 --> 00:44:16,210
- But then did he really
have time to change it?
1204
00:44:16,237 --> 00:44:18,196
- I didn't come into
this process to change anybody.
1205
00:44:18,314 --> 00:44:19,605
You know what I mean?
1206
00:44:19,724 --> 00:44:21,290
Like, he had made a comment
1207
00:44:21,292 --> 00:44:23,459
Saying that he had felt
like "[bleep]"--
1208
00:44:23,461 --> 00:44:25,127
I'm quoting,
these are not my words--
1209
00:44:25,129 --> 00:44:27,889
Throughout this entire process
1210
00:44:27,916 --> 00:44:30,708
Because he felt like
he just kept apologizing
1211
00:44:30,827 --> 00:44:33,636
And that he was being portrayed
1212
00:44:33,638 --> 00:44:35,471
In a way
that just made him feel
1213
00:44:35,473 --> 00:44:38,733
Like he just needed
to keep redeeming himself.
1214
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:41,644
- Do you feel like you could
have done anything differently
1215
00:44:41,646 --> 00:44:44,663
In your relationship?
- I...
1216
00:44:44,724 --> 00:44:48,242
- Do you think you could've
been a little more patient or--
1217
00:44:48,269 --> 00:44:51,229
- I feel like I was very
patient, to be honest with you.
1218
00:44:51,347 --> 00:44:53,556
I've had enough time,
1219
00:44:53,674 --> 00:44:56,234
To where I feel in my gut...
- Yeah.
1220
00:44:56,352 --> 00:44:58,753
- That this is not
the relationship
1221
00:44:58,780 --> 00:45:00,012
That I need to be in.
1222
00:45:00,073 --> 00:45:02,256
- Honestly, I felt like,
with him being 34--
1223
00:45:02,283 --> 00:45:03,983
- I expected more.
1224
00:45:04,101 --> 00:45:05,835
- I'm highly disappointed.
1225
00:45:05,837 --> 00:45:07,486
You know, I feel like
we all came together,
1226
00:45:07,605 --> 00:45:09,330
And we had a great time
at their wedding.
1227
00:45:09,490 --> 00:45:12,842
I mean, I'm sad,
but I was more sad for her.
1228
00:45:12,844 --> 00:45:14,677
Just--it hurts my heart.
1229
00:45:14,679 --> 00:45:16,604
♪ ♪
1230
00:45:16,631 --> 00:45:19,090
Do you plan
on seeing him again?
1231
00:45:19,208 --> 00:45:22,443
- Honestly, I don't...
1232
00:45:22,470 --> 00:45:24,111
I don't really feel the need.
1233
00:45:24,139 --> 00:45:27,949
- Are you still dead-ass set
on your decision?
1234
00:45:27,976 --> 00:45:29,692
♪ ♪
1235
00:45:29,694 --> 00:45:31,018
- Yeah.
1236
00:45:31,020 --> 00:45:34,272
♪ ♪
1237
00:45:34,390 --> 00:45:37,275
- ♪ the clock strikes ♪
1238
00:45:37,393 --> 00:45:39,535
♪ and it's over ♪
1239
00:45:43,207 --> 00:45:44,356
[upbeat music]
1240
00:45:44,475 --> 00:45:48,227
♪ ♪
1241
00:45:48,288 --> 00:45:50,154
- The party has arrived!
- Hey!
1242
00:45:50,272 --> 00:45:51,864
- Whoo!
- Hey!
1243
00:45:51,982 --> 00:45:53,716
- So this is elizabeth.
- Hi.
1244
00:45:53,718 --> 00:45:55,643
- Elizabeth, very nice
to meet you. Paige.
1245
00:45:55,670 --> 00:45:57,687
- Hi, I'm ashlee.
- Ashlee, nice to meet you.
1246
00:45:57,805 --> 00:45:59,605
- And this is melissa.
- Melissa, nice to meet you.
1247
00:45:59,607 --> 00:46:02,699
- This is hanky-doo.
- Hi, hank. Hi.
1248
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:04,668
- Do you guys want a margarita?
- Yes, I would love one.
1249
00:46:04,787 --> 00:46:08,139
- So gina is
a trained drink-ologist.
1250
00:46:08,257 --> 00:46:10,057
- We should put tattoos on.
1251
00:46:10,218 --> 00:46:13,035
- What did you guys do
at your housewarming party?
1252
00:46:13,037 --> 00:46:15,237
- Y'all didn't get tatted up?
That's what we did.
1253
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:17,214
- Worth it.
#worthit.
1254
00:46:17,233 --> 00:46:20,443
Oh, no. Oh, sh...
- Oh, you got a chili pepper.
1255
00:46:20,561 --> 00:46:22,261
- ♪ some like it
hot, hot, hot ♪
1256
00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:23,996
- Oh.
- [laughs]
1257
00:46:23,998 --> 00:46:26,832
- That one looks good.
- Chili pepper!
1258
00:46:26,834 --> 00:46:29,010
- Aw, mine sucks.
1259
00:46:29,037 --> 00:46:30,435
- Oh, cover it up.
1260
00:46:30,597 --> 00:46:32,238
Laser--we're gonna get
the laser out.
1261
00:46:32,356 --> 00:46:34,165
- We tried. We all tried.
"a" for effort.
1262
00:46:34,283 --> 00:46:36,400
- Or we could eat.
1263
00:46:36,519 --> 00:46:39,245
[person singing in spanish]
1264
00:46:39,363 --> 00:46:43,674
♪ ♪
1265
00:46:43,793 --> 00:46:45,509
- Good boy.
1266
00:46:45,511 --> 00:46:47,512
- [laughs]
- he's so smart.
1267
00:46:47,630 --> 00:46:49,605
- This is really
the first time we are able
1268
00:46:49,607 --> 00:46:52,816
To get outsider perspective
from people that know us.
1269
00:46:52,818 --> 00:46:55,027
I feel like we can both agree
1270
00:46:55,029 --> 00:46:56,762
We don't have to, like,
press the physical.
1271
00:46:56,764 --> 00:46:59,023
We're just taking
this next chapter
1272
00:46:59,141 --> 00:47:01,267
And still building
the foundation.
1273
00:47:01,385 --> 00:47:03,285
Welcome to our humble--
1274
00:47:03,287 --> 00:47:07,106
- Oh, look how cute he is--
on your bedside table.
1275
00:47:07,224 --> 00:47:09,275
- I feel like I haven't seen
you guys in, like, four months,
1276
00:47:09,435 --> 00:47:11,443
And I know it's only been
a couple weeks.
1277
00:47:11,562 --> 00:47:12,978
- I'm sure it's just been,
like, just...
1278
00:47:13,097 --> 00:47:14,597
[imitates whooshing]
- it's been a whirlwind, yeah.
1279
00:47:14,599 --> 00:47:16,349
- Yeah.
- It's been really crazy.
1280
00:47:16,376 --> 00:47:18,576
- So, all right,
now that we've got you here,
1281
00:47:18,694 --> 00:47:19,969
You can just open up to us.
1282
00:47:19,971 --> 00:47:21,712
How is it really going?
- Spill the beans.
1283
00:47:21,831 --> 00:47:24,556
- So--so...
1284
00:47:24,558 --> 00:47:27,960
We've had kind of
these peaks and valleys.
1285
00:47:28,078 --> 00:47:30,621
It's been just
the roll of the ocean.
1286
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:32,815
And we're brutally honest.
- Yeah.
1287
00:47:32,817 --> 00:47:35,726
- And that can be, you know,
a point of contention.
1288
00:47:35,845 --> 00:47:38,471
- Better to reel it back in
than hold it in...
1289
00:47:38,473 --> 00:47:39,730
- True.
- And have secrets
1290
00:47:39,849 --> 00:47:41,974
And not feel like you can
tell her what you're thinking.
1291
00:47:42,092 --> 00:47:43,909
- You know,
we're just taking it slow,
1292
00:47:43,911 --> 00:47:45,144
Taking it day by day.
1293
00:47:45,262 --> 00:47:47,046
I feel like
we're both emotionally,
1294
00:47:47,073 --> 00:47:49,540
Physically,
and financially in a place
1295
00:47:49,542 --> 00:47:51,242
To have
a successful relationship.
1296
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:54,962
And I've always been, like--
I want to be in a relationship
1297
00:47:54,964 --> 00:47:57,006
With somebody that has
the foundational components
1298
00:47:57,008 --> 00:47:58,649
To grow together.
- Right.
1299
00:47:58,668 --> 00:48:01,160
They may not be
quite there physically yet,
1300
00:48:01,278 --> 00:48:02,920
But in, I think, her history,
1301
00:48:03,039 --> 00:48:04,422
And I think
what a lot of people see,
1302
00:48:04,540 --> 00:48:06,440
Is the physical side is
usually the easiest up front,
1303
00:48:06,467 --> 00:48:08,000
But, like,
kind of the foundation
1304
00:48:08,118 --> 00:48:09,685
And all the big stuff
and the values
1305
00:48:09,687 --> 00:48:11,337
Are what really becomes hard
to line up on,
1306
00:48:11,455 --> 00:48:13,205
And they've kind of
got that down.
1307
00:48:13,266 --> 00:48:15,908
And they're just looking
to see what's beyond that.
1308
00:48:16,068 --> 00:48:17,635
So y'all got to,
like, plant the seeds
1309
00:48:17,753 --> 00:48:19,637
To, like, get each other
some butterflies going.
1310
00:48:19,755 --> 00:48:22,473
- If you get too hyper-focused
on the things
1311
00:48:22,591 --> 00:48:25,550
That can tear you apart,
it will continue.
1312
00:48:25,612 --> 00:48:27,586
- I think for us
to focus on the positives,
1313
00:48:27,614 --> 00:48:29,747
Like, where we're at right now,
1314
00:48:29,749 --> 00:48:32,666
The positives definitely
outweigh the negative.
1315
00:48:32,668 --> 00:48:33,817
I think I was overthinking
1316
00:48:33,936 --> 00:48:35,394
The whole, like,
moving-in thing, too.
1317
00:48:35,455 --> 00:48:37,629
[pensive music]
1318
00:48:37,631 --> 00:48:39,198
- I think we'll figure it out.
- Yeah.
1319
00:48:39,316 --> 00:48:40,841
- I think we judged
a little early.
1320
00:48:40,843 --> 00:48:42,034
- Right.
1321
00:48:42,194 --> 00:48:44,337
- So we're on, I think,
a positive track,
1322
00:48:44,455 --> 00:48:46,764
So I feel encouraged.
1323
00:48:46,766 --> 00:48:49,041
- ♪ all I need is somebody ♪
1324
00:48:49,159 --> 00:48:50,867
♪ just like you ♪
1325
00:48:50,887 --> 00:48:53,203
♪ ♪
1326
00:48:53,222 --> 00:48:55,640
- ♪ no matter what we do ♪
1327
00:48:55,758 --> 00:48:58,208
♪ no matter where we go ♪
1328
00:48:58,227 --> 00:49:00,552
♪ we always come back home ♪
1329
00:49:00,671 --> 00:49:04,047
♪ ♪
1330
00:49:04,067 --> 00:49:06,383
- We about to meet the other
couples, catch up on them.
1331
00:49:06,402 --> 00:49:08,653
You know, this is kind of,
like, our first gathering,
1332
00:49:08,771 --> 00:49:10,412
Really, since jamaica.
1333
00:49:10,414 --> 00:49:12,657
- I'm kind of nervous about
this potluck, actually,
1334
00:49:12,775 --> 00:49:14,825
Because--
- see what's really going on.
1335
00:49:14,944 --> 00:49:17,394
- Let's go.
- All right, let's go.
1336
00:49:17,413 --> 00:49:19,029
♪ ♪
1337
00:49:19,148 --> 00:49:21,916
- All right,
just put it over here.
1338
00:49:22,076 --> 00:49:23,775
- Look at us showing up early
for something.
1339
00:49:23,836 --> 00:49:24,910
Are you impressed
1340
00:49:25,029 --> 00:49:26,170
I was ready on time?
- Yeah.
1341
00:49:26,288 --> 00:49:28,247
What's up, guys?
- Hey, y'all.
1342
00:49:28,365 --> 00:49:29,648
- How you doing?
- Hi!
1343
00:49:29,650 --> 00:49:31,149
Oh, you look so beautiful.
- You do, too.
1344
00:49:31,151 --> 00:49:33,618
- Welcome. Welcome.
1345
00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:35,346
Hi.
- Oh, hello.
1346
00:49:35,464 --> 00:49:38,607
All: Hi.
- [laughs]
1347
00:49:38,609 --> 00:49:41,793
- Yes. Hey, hey.
1348
00:49:41,854 --> 00:49:43,595
- Let's migrate
to the couches, people.
1349
00:49:43,714 --> 00:49:45,331
- [chuckles]
1350
00:49:45,358 --> 00:49:47,733
- Has anyone spoken
to mac or dom this morning?
1351
00:49:47,852 --> 00:49:50,994
Because I did not text anyone.
1352
00:49:50,996 --> 00:49:54,473
- Hey.
- Wow, there they are.
1353
00:49:54,492 --> 00:49:57,434
- [laughs]
1354
00:49:57,553 --> 00:49:59,978
- I'm not too excited about
seeing dom for the first time,
1355
00:50:00,039 --> 00:50:01,722
You know,
since the divorce.
1356
00:50:01,749 --> 00:50:04,316
I don't know--
it's awkward, but also...
1357
00:50:04,335 --> 00:50:06,485
It's sad
to tell the other couples
1358
00:50:06,504 --> 00:50:07,986
That we're getting divorced.
1359
00:50:08,047 --> 00:50:09,422
I had high hopes for us.
1360
00:50:09,540 --> 00:50:11,473
I put in a lot of time
and effort to all this,
1361
00:50:11,475 --> 00:50:13,567
And it sucks.
1362
00:50:13,594 --> 00:50:15,811
- I just want to say
thank you all for coming.
1363
00:50:15,813 --> 00:50:18,380
It has been wonderful
getting to know each other.
1364
00:50:18,499 --> 00:50:20,816
And I hope you're all getting
to know your husbands and wives
1365
00:50:20,818 --> 00:50:23,244
And appreciating everyone
for who they are.
1366
00:50:23,271 --> 00:50:26,505
And I look forward to us all
being on this journey together.
1367
00:50:26,566 --> 00:50:28,899
Cheers to happy marriages.
All: Cheers.
1368
00:50:28,901 --> 00:50:30,876
♪ ♪
1369
00:50:30,878 --> 00:50:34,813
- Okay. How was
everyone's housewarming party?
1370
00:50:34,932 --> 00:50:36,648
- We had a good housewarming.
- Yeah.
1371
00:50:36,767 --> 00:50:38,317
It was a lot of fun.
1372
00:50:38,435 --> 00:50:40,578
- Clint's a really,
really good cook.
1373
00:50:40,696 --> 00:50:42,747
- Yeah, I've noticed that.
1374
00:50:42,865 --> 00:50:44,856
- And not to mention,
our housewarming party
1375
00:50:44,917 --> 00:50:47,268
Was all females and clint,
so that was,
1376
00:50:47,295 --> 00:50:49,261
Like, a big deal for me
'cause he was just killing it.
1377
00:50:49,263 --> 00:50:50,755
He's like,
"ladies, who wants a marg?"
1378
00:50:50,873 --> 00:50:52,439
Like, just had the best time.
1379
00:50:52,467 --> 00:50:54,759
And I don't think I would
ever think to be with a dude
1380
00:50:54,877 --> 00:50:57,094
That would be like, "yeah, I'll
hang out with all the girls."
1381
00:50:57,213 --> 00:50:58,829
- He gonna come to the salon
and just take over.
1382
00:50:58,848 --> 00:51:00,614
- Yeah, loving it. Like, that's
my whole--
1383
00:51:00,641 --> 00:51:03,768
Like, I know now I can have
all the salon girls over.
1384
00:51:03,886 --> 00:51:06,412
- I'm gonna be putting
extensions in in no time.
1385
00:51:06,414 --> 00:51:08,455
[laughter]
1386
00:51:08,483 --> 00:51:11,016
We have come a long way
in a short period of time.
1387
00:51:11,176 --> 00:51:12,918
- Y'all have.
1388
00:51:12,920 --> 00:51:14,453
- We so proud.
We like proud parents.
1389
00:51:14,455 --> 00:51:15,687
- I am proud.
1390
00:51:15,806 --> 00:51:17,298
- Yeah, I look forward
1391
00:51:17,325 --> 00:51:19,283
To really diving deep
with gina, really.
1392
00:51:19,401 --> 00:51:21,693
Like, I want to know, like,
1393
00:51:21,812 --> 00:51:24,029
What did five-year-old gina
want for her life,
1394
00:51:24,148 --> 00:51:25,956
And now what does
35-year-old gina want?
1395
00:51:26,075 --> 00:51:28,292
Like, the depths of who she is,
1396
00:51:28,410 --> 00:51:32,037
Like, just the crusty,
little bits.
1397
00:51:32,156 --> 00:51:33,722
[laughter]
1398
00:51:33,724 --> 00:51:36,542
- That's very romantic
underneath all that.
1399
00:51:36,660 --> 00:51:37,968
- I'm rooting for y'all.
1400
00:51:38,087 --> 00:51:39,911
- Usually crusty and romance
don't go together,
1401
00:51:39,972 --> 00:51:41,897
But that was honestly
the sweetest,
1402
00:51:41,899 --> 00:51:43,641
Most romantic thing I've
ever heard you say about her.
1403
00:51:43,759 --> 00:51:46,051
[laughter]
1404
00:51:46,170 --> 00:51:48,570
- Well,
anybody else want to share?
1405
00:51:48,572 --> 00:51:50,656
- Has anybody had sex yet?
1406
00:51:50,658 --> 00:51:53,559
[tense music]
1407
00:51:53,677 --> 00:52:00,082
♪ ♪
1408
00:52:00,084 --> 00:52:01,233
[pensive music]
1409
00:52:01,235 --> 00:52:02,176
- Has anybody had sex yet?
1410
00:52:02,336 --> 00:52:05,587
♪ ♪
1411
00:52:05,589 --> 00:52:07,606
- Yeah. Yeah, we did.
1412
00:52:07,667 --> 00:52:09,408
- Yeah!
- Good for y'all.
1413
00:52:09,526 --> 00:52:11,776
- Score!
- Yep.
1414
00:52:11,838 --> 00:52:13,262
- Cheers to sex.
- Congratulations.
1415
00:52:13,264 --> 00:52:14,596
- [laughs]
1416
00:52:14,598 --> 00:52:16,415
- Nicole has been
the only wife so far
1417
00:52:16,533 --> 00:52:17,675
To get her back blown out.
1418
00:52:17,793 --> 00:52:19,951
I'm so happy for them.
- [chortles]
1419
00:52:20,012 --> 00:52:22,271
- Yeah, I don't--
the other couples--
1420
00:52:22,273 --> 00:52:24,756
We're just moving along
a lot slower.
1421
00:52:24,875 --> 00:52:26,124
- Anything crazy come out?
1422
00:52:26,185 --> 00:52:28,719
Like, some weird
spinning wheels or--
1423
00:52:28,837 --> 00:52:31,538
- Oh, yeah, we were, like,
hanging from the ceiling.
1424
00:52:31,566 --> 00:52:33,115
- Chris had
some nipple tassels on?
1425
00:52:33,117 --> 00:52:34,541
- Yes.
1426
00:52:34,569 --> 00:52:36,785
His back was actually hurting
the day after
1427
00:52:36,787 --> 00:52:38,212
Because
I blew that [bleep] out.
1428
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:40,214
- You blew his back out!
- Yeah.
1429
00:52:40,241 --> 00:52:42,624
[laughter]
1430
00:52:42,626 --> 00:52:43,959
- Like, we hooked up
the other morning.
1431
00:52:43,961 --> 00:52:45,369
- We're very much
in-the-moment people.
1432
00:52:45,487 --> 00:52:46,962
- Yeah. Sorry.
- No, no.
1433
00:52:46,964 --> 00:52:50,040
No, I mean, I'm proud of you
for, like, letting it go.
1434
00:52:50,159 --> 00:52:51,800
- It's the best way to wake up,
you know?
1435
00:52:51,802 --> 00:52:53,227
- Better than coffee.
1436
00:52:53,254 --> 00:52:54,545
♪ ♪
1437
00:52:54,663 --> 00:52:57,898
- What about y'all?
Y'all getting frisky?
1438
00:52:57,925 --> 00:52:59,641
- I don't know
if we getting frisky.
1439
00:52:59,643 --> 00:53:00,901
- No, we're not getting frisky.
1440
00:53:00,928 --> 00:53:03,161
- No, we're not getting frisky
over here.
1441
00:53:03,222 --> 00:53:05,063
- What was
that big reaction for?
1442
00:53:05,065 --> 00:53:06,432
- No, we're not getting frisky.
1443
00:53:06,550 --> 00:53:09,000
- No. No intimacy,
no friskiness.
1444
00:53:09,061 --> 00:53:11,320
- Mm-mm.
- Are you kissing?
1445
00:53:11,322 --> 00:53:12,980
- Occasionally.
- Occasionally.
1446
00:53:13,140 --> 00:53:14,481
♪ ♪
1447
00:53:14,642 --> 00:53:17,993
- I mean, I'm sexually,
like, attracted to him,
1448
00:53:17,995 --> 00:53:20,587
But he's not there yet with me.
1449
00:53:20,615 --> 00:53:22,164
♪ ♪
1450
00:53:22,282 --> 00:53:24,742
I mean, I've never had
to initiate ever
1451
00:53:24,860 --> 00:53:26,668
In any relationship
I've been in,
1452
00:53:26,670 --> 00:53:28,570
So this is...
1453
00:53:28,689 --> 00:53:31,073
- I mean, it's new for me, too.
I never been in a situation--
1454
00:53:31,191 --> 00:53:33,100
- Where he ain't been
sexually attracted to them.
1455
00:53:33,127 --> 00:53:34,693
- So it's new for me, too.
- Hey, listen.
1456
00:53:34,754 --> 00:53:37,087
You guys are not alone.
- Yeah, definitely.
1457
00:53:37,206 --> 00:53:39,364
- We can all hang out and talk.
- Yeah.
1458
00:53:39,425 --> 00:53:41,850
Y'all definitely not alone.
She wasn't attracted to me.
1459
00:53:41,852 --> 00:53:44,353
- Now she loves that head.
- Now she like this...
1460
00:53:44,355 --> 00:53:46,521
Now, she always like--
like, it'll grow.
1461
00:53:46,523 --> 00:53:48,373
- Yeah.
- It'll grow with time.
1462
00:53:48,434 --> 00:53:50,692
- But you have
to allow it to grow.
1463
00:53:50,694 --> 00:53:52,144
- What about you guys?
1464
00:53:55,366 --> 00:53:58,700
- I lost my voice last night,
but here we go.
1465
00:53:58,702 --> 00:54:00,385
Dom is outspoken.
1466
00:54:00,446 --> 00:54:02,053
She knows what she wants.
I know what I want.
1467
00:54:02,114 --> 00:54:05,466
And me and dom
have made a decision
1468
00:54:05,493 --> 00:54:07,667
To get divorced.
1469
00:54:07,669 --> 00:54:11,296
♪ ♪
1470
00:54:11,298 --> 00:54:13,565
This is the decision
we made, so...
1471
00:54:13,626 --> 00:54:15,142
- Why are y'all getting
a divorce?
1472
00:54:15,169 --> 00:54:17,144
- Yeah.
Can we get some context?
1473
00:54:17,171 --> 00:54:18,069
Like, what happened?
- Yeah.
1474
00:54:18,130 --> 00:54:19,571
It's a pretty bold statement.
1475
00:54:19,632 --> 00:54:22,483
- Well, I feel like there was
a little bit of confusion
1476
00:54:22,510 --> 00:54:24,209
Because he had made
a few comments,
1477
00:54:24,328 --> 00:54:27,078
You know, that made me
feel like he was not happy,
1478
00:54:27,139 --> 00:54:29,564
And I am very much,
like, positive vibes only.
1479
00:54:29,566 --> 00:54:32,751
Like, I don't like negativity
and negative energy in my life,
1480
00:54:32,812 --> 00:54:35,587
And I felt like
it was best for us
1481
00:54:35,648 --> 00:54:37,756
To cut things off, like,
1482
00:54:37,817 --> 00:54:41,618
Before it got to the point
to where things turned toxic.
1483
00:54:41,620 --> 00:54:43,895
♪ ♪
1484
00:54:44,014 --> 00:54:46,156
- I don't fully agree
with that.
1485
00:54:46,275 --> 00:54:50,935
I was 100% blindsided
that you asked for a divorce.
1486
00:54:50,997 --> 00:54:52,904
I had faith in the process,
1487
00:54:53,023 --> 00:54:55,666
And that's not
what wore me down.
1488
00:54:55,784 --> 00:54:58,760
It was more like the belittling
that started on the honeymoon
1489
00:54:58,762 --> 00:55:01,279
That wore me down
mentally, emotionally.
1490
00:55:01,340 --> 00:55:03,765
You know, I'm somebody
who knows I have faults,
1491
00:55:03,767 --> 00:55:05,767
And these are things
I want to work on every year
1492
00:55:05,769 --> 00:55:08,787
And grow and be
a better human in general.
1493
00:55:08,848 --> 00:55:11,015
And I'm not saying
1494
00:55:11,133 --> 00:55:13,124
That you think you're perfect
or anything,
1495
00:55:13,185 --> 00:55:15,536
But there's been
no compromise, though.
1496
00:55:15,563 --> 00:55:18,280
It's just been me compromising.
- I mean...
1497
00:55:18,282 --> 00:55:19,873
- I mean, throwing in the towel
1498
00:55:19,900 --> 00:55:21,283
Is the easiest damn way out,
though.
1499
00:55:21,285 --> 00:55:23,685
All: Yeah.
- That's the easy scapegoat.
1500
00:55:23,687 --> 00:55:26,971
And so, like,
I would challenge you
1501
00:55:27,033 --> 00:55:28,807
To, like, take a step back,
1502
00:55:28,868 --> 00:55:31,376
Because I think
there could be something there
1503
00:55:31,378 --> 00:55:33,795
If you guys are willing
to, like, stick it out.
1504
00:55:33,797 --> 00:55:36,798
- You don't want
to just give up on him so fast,
1505
00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:38,559
Because, like,
if you give up on somebody,
1506
00:55:38,586 --> 00:55:40,318
You wouldn't want somebody
to give up on you.
1507
00:55:40,379 --> 00:55:42,153
I think it's unfortunate
1508
00:55:42,214 --> 00:55:44,639
That they're giving up
on each other so quickly.
1509
00:55:44,641 --> 00:55:46,884
I'm like--
I don't even really feel
1510
00:55:47,002 --> 00:55:49,327
Like they gave each other
a real chance at all.
1511
00:55:49,388 --> 00:55:52,239
- Like, I'm pretty sure
they haven't had any, like...
1512
00:55:52,266 --> 00:55:53,498
Real conversation.
1513
00:55:53,559 --> 00:55:55,409
"how was your childhood?"
you know?
1514
00:55:55,436 --> 00:55:58,387
It was always a back-and-forth
tassel between them.
1515
00:55:58,505 --> 00:56:01,323
- It sounds like they were
just pulling against each other
1516
00:56:01,325 --> 00:56:03,917
Versus working together
to get to know each other
1517
00:56:03,944 --> 00:56:06,995
And how they can have
a better life together.
1518
00:56:06,997 --> 00:56:08,739
- Dom, honestly,
I really like you.
1519
00:56:08,857 --> 00:56:10,014
I care about you a lot.
1520
00:56:10,076 --> 00:56:11,516
I really like you two
as a couple,
1521
00:56:11,577 --> 00:56:12,651
And I say this out of love,
1522
00:56:12,769 --> 00:56:14,595
But you are going
to regret this.
1523
00:56:14,622 --> 00:56:16,655
♪ ♪
1524
00:56:16,773 --> 00:56:19,466
You will regret
not even trying.
1525
00:56:19,468 --> 00:56:22,026
- ♪ oh ♪
1526
00:56:22,088 --> 00:56:24,329
♪ so ♪
1527
00:56:24,448 --> 00:56:27,365
♪ lost and lonely ♪
1528
00:56:27,426 --> 00:56:28,683
♪ ♪
1529
00:56:28,685 --> 00:56:30,444
- Just playing
devil's advocate here.
1530
00:56:30,471 --> 00:56:32,429
And, listen,
it's your relationship.
1531
00:56:32,548 --> 00:56:35,357
I don't know the ins and outs,
but is there any scenario
1532
00:56:35,359 --> 00:56:37,117
Where maybe taking
a little time apart
1533
00:56:37,144 --> 00:56:39,937
And starting fresh could help?
1534
00:56:40,055 --> 00:56:45,717
♪ ♪
1535
00:56:45,778 --> 00:56:48,612
- Maybe.
- Okay.
1536
00:56:48,730 --> 00:56:50,597
- Cheers to maybe!
1537
00:56:50,658 --> 00:56:52,707
- But, mac?
- Yeah, yeah.
1538
00:56:52,709 --> 00:56:54,910
- Mac's saying yes.
Yes and maybe. Okay.
1539
00:56:55,028 --> 00:56:56,620
- Cheers to maybe!
- Cheers to maybe!
1540
00:56:56,738 --> 00:56:59,130
- Cheers to maybe. Thank you.
- I love it.
1541
00:56:59,132 --> 00:57:00,690
- So you're saying
there's a chance?
1542
00:57:00,709 --> 00:57:06,112
- Yeah.
1543
00:57:06,173 --> 00:57:07,523
- ♪ if our time is done ♪
1544
00:57:07,641 --> 00:57:10,609
♪ going down like the sun ♪
1545
00:57:10,636 --> 00:57:14,321
♪ then maybe
we're better as friends ♪
1546
00:57:14,348 --> 00:57:15,639
- Here's to you two being open
1547
00:57:15,757 --> 00:57:17,691
And to everyone else
being a support system
1548
00:57:17,693 --> 00:57:19,359
For you guys and each other.
Both: Yeah.
1549
00:57:19,361 --> 00:57:20,752
All: Cheers.
1550
00:57:20,813 --> 00:57:22,821
- Aw, babe,
they're giving us cheers.
1551
00:57:22,823 --> 00:57:24,589
- One day she's mad, the next
day she wants a divorce.
1552
00:57:24,608 --> 00:57:26,349
And then it's a maybe.
1553
00:57:26,468 --> 00:57:29,169
All the back-and-forth is,
like--it just--
1554
00:57:29,196 --> 00:57:32,263
It's such a younger thing
to do.
1555
00:57:32,324 --> 00:57:35,567
That's what you do when
you don't know what you want,
1556
00:57:35,685 --> 00:57:38,345
When you're not in tune
with yourself
1557
00:57:38,372 --> 00:57:40,330
And your emotions mentally.
1558
00:57:40,449 --> 00:57:42,891
Like, the back-and-forth
is a young man's game,
1559
00:57:42,893 --> 00:57:47,521
A young woman's game,
and that's what dom plays.
1560
00:57:47,548 --> 00:57:50,248
- That was interesting.
1561
00:57:50,408 --> 00:57:54,769
- [sniffs] yeah.
- What'd you think?
1562
00:57:54,771 --> 00:57:56,771
- I don't know.
Kind of went as expected.
1563
00:57:56,773 --> 00:57:58,432
- Yeah.
- What did you think?
1564
00:57:58,592 --> 00:58:00,701
- I feel like
that was so much pressure.
1565
00:58:00,728 --> 00:58:01,943
- Yeah. No, it was.
1566
00:58:01,945 --> 00:58:03,778
- I feel like
it was so much pressure.
1567
00:58:03,780 --> 00:58:05,539
- It was a lot of pressure.
It wasn't my intent.
1568
00:58:05,566 --> 00:58:07,191
- I know. I know.
Nothing towards you, you know?
1569
00:58:07,309 --> 00:58:08,875
And I know that they want
the best for us, you know,
1570
00:58:08,903 --> 00:58:11,469
But at the same time,
I'm just like,
1571
00:58:11,530 --> 00:58:13,213
Are you actually listening?
1572
00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:14,973
- Yeah.
1573
00:58:15,034 --> 00:58:16,958
- It wasn't
my favorite conversation.
1574
00:58:16,960 --> 00:58:18,460
[chuckles]
1575
00:58:18,462 --> 00:58:22,797
- I guess my question is,
why did you say "maybe"?
1576
00:58:22,799 --> 00:58:24,725
- I mean...
1577
00:58:24,752 --> 00:58:26,384
When everybody's looking at you
1578
00:58:26,386 --> 00:58:30,380
And nicole is giving you
the glaring eyes...
1579
00:58:30,499 --> 00:58:33,825
I honestly didn't appreciate it
at all.
1580
00:58:33,886 --> 00:58:36,053
- I know.
That's--I get it.
1581
00:58:36,171 --> 00:58:39,740
- Yeah, I felt like
nobody was actually listening.
1582
00:58:39,767 --> 00:58:42,226
Everybody's just like, "no.
Keep going, yeah," you know?
1583
00:58:42,344 --> 00:58:45,654
But, like, nobody was
actually listening, you know?
1584
00:58:45,656 --> 00:58:48,081
- So, obviously,
maybe a lot of pressure.
1585
00:58:48,108 --> 00:58:49,233
Do you feel like
you just said "maybe"
1586
00:58:49,351 --> 00:58:52,010
'cause it was peer pressure?
1587
00:58:52,071 --> 00:58:53,737
- Honestly, yes.
- Yeah.
1588
00:58:53,855 --> 00:58:55,680
♪ ♪
1589
00:58:55,741 --> 00:58:58,408
- I feel like "no" wasn't
an acceptable answer.
1590
00:58:58,527 --> 00:59:00,351
And I am--
you know I'm very honest.
1591
00:59:00,412 --> 00:59:01,870
- No, I know you are. Yeah.
1592
00:59:01,989 --> 00:59:04,081
- But just, like,
reading the room, like...
1593
00:59:04,199 --> 00:59:06,024
- Yeah.
1594
00:59:06,085 --> 00:59:08,085
♪ ♪
1595
00:59:08,203 --> 00:59:10,270
So here we are.
1596
00:59:10,297 --> 00:59:12,422
[inhales deeply]
it was definitely awkward.
1597
00:59:12,541 --> 00:59:13,932
♪ ♪
1598
00:59:13,934 --> 00:59:15,342
So where do we go from here?
1599
00:59:15,502 --> 00:59:17,444
♪ ♪
1600
00:59:17,471 --> 00:59:19,930
- I wouldn't mind
being friends, you know?
1601
00:59:20,048 --> 00:59:21,948
- I mean, I don't want
to be your friend.
1602
00:59:21,976 --> 00:59:26,544
♪ ♪
1603
00:59:26,605 --> 00:59:28,622
- I'm not feeling so good
about myself right now.
1604
00:59:28,649 --> 00:59:30,214
[chuckles]
1605
00:59:30,276 --> 00:59:32,517
I'm feeling like a carcass
in the middle of the road,
1606
00:59:32,636 --> 00:59:35,203
And cars just keep
running it over.
1607
00:59:35,205 --> 00:59:36,871
I feel like there's been
a lot of jab-throwing
1608
00:59:36,873 --> 00:59:38,632
And a lot
of petty conversations
1609
00:59:38,659 --> 00:59:40,284
And a lot of, like,
petty statements
1610
00:59:40,402 --> 00:59:43,194
That have been said to me
that's kind of immature.
1611
00:59:43,313 --> 00:59:45,897
And that's not something
I want to deal with
1612
00:59:45,958 --> 00:59:48,141
And incorporate into my life.
1613
00:59:48,168 --> 00:59:50,068
- I should probably
start packing.
1614
00:59:50,129 --> 00:59:52,737
- Okay.
1615
00:59:52,798 --> 00:59:54,314
Okay.
- All right.
1616
00:59:54,341 --> 00:59:56,300
- [sighs]
1617
00:59:56,418 --> 00:59:57,818
Hug.
1618
00:59:57,845 --> 00:59:59,127
Friend, not friend.
1619
00:59:59,245 --> 01:00:01,305
- Yeah, of course.
- [chuckles]
1620
01:00:01,423 --> 01:00:04,415
- I'm not interested
in, you know, another friend.
1621
01:00:04,476 --> 01:00:05,884
I have plenty of friends.
1622
01:00:05,886 --> 01:00:09,237
It's just--I don't think
dom knows what she wants.
1623
01:00:09,239 --> 01:00:11,072
I think dom is young
1624
01:00:11,074 --> 01:00:13,542
And has a lot to experience.
1625
01:00:13,544 --> 01:00:15,060
I don't think she's ready
for a relationship,
1626
01:00:15,178 --> 01:00:16,795
And I don't know
that she knows
1627
01:00:16,955 --> 01:00:19,673
What a serious relationship
takes and needs.
1628
01:00:19,700 --> 01:00:23,693
♪ ♪
1629
01:00:23,812 --> 01:00:25,345
- Bye.
1630
01:00:25,505 --> 01:00:32,252
♪ ♪
1631
01:00:38,518 --> 01:00:41,019
I don't want anybody
walking around nashville
1632
01:00:41,021 --> 01:00:43,730
With hate in their heart
for me, you know?
1633
01:00:43,732 --> 01:00:45,423
But, ultimately, like,
I respect mac's feelings.
1634
01:00:45,542 --> 01:00:46,867
If he doesn't want
to be my friend,
1635
01:00:46,894 --> 01:00:48,259
He doesn't want
to be my friend.
1636
01:00:48,378 --> 01:00:52,539
That's okay. So I guess
this is where we end things.
1637
01:00:52,566 --> 01:00:54,583
And I wish him all the best.
1638
01:00:54,701 --> 01:00:57,844
I feel also that I have
been pushed to my limits
1639
01:00:57,905 --> 01:00:59,946
And think
I'm just gonna, like,
1640
01:00:59,948 --> 01:01:03,274
Go on some, like,
soul-searching journey
1641
01:01:03,393 --> 01:01:06,961
At this point to try
to piece myself back together.
1642
01:01:06,963 --> 01:01:08,889
[elevator doors open]
1643
01:01:08,916 --> 01:01:12,392
- ♪ find a home ♪
1644
01:01:12,419 --> 01:01:15,520
♪ rest your bones ♪
1645
01:01:15,547 --> 01:01:17,989
- You know, dom is the one who
asked for the divorce, not me.
1646
01:01:18,050 --> 01:01:20,550
So what am I supposed to do?
1647
01:01:20,669 --> 01:01:22,544
♪ ♪
1648
01:01:22,662 --> 01:01:24,070
Yeah,
it's not a perfect match,
1649
01:01:24,098 --> 01:01:26,406
But we just needed time
and effort.
1650
01:01:26,433 --> 01:01:30,318
You got to give things time,
and I just didn't get that.
1651
01:01:30,320 --> 01:01:34,022
- ♪ let it fade away ♪
1652
01:01:34,141 --> 01:01:37,341
- I am looking to start my life
with somebody.
1653
01:01:37,403 --> 01:01:41,213
I want to find
my forever person, my wife.
1654
01:01:41,215 --> 01:01:44,591
- ♪ let it fade away ♪
1655
01:01:44,618 --> 01:01:47,594
♪ let it fade away ♪
1656
01:01:47,621 --> 01:01:49,596
♪ ♪
1657
01:01:49,623 --> 01:01:51,206
- ♪ all right ♪
1658
01:01:51,324 --> 01:01:53,433
- Next time
on "married at first sight"...
1659
01:01:53,460 --> 01:01:54,692
- ♪ dig that thing ♪
- [screams]
1660
01:01:54,712 --> 01:01:56,769
- ♪ make that bank ♪
1661
01:01:56,771 --> 01:01:58,721
♪ bend till you think
it's gonna break that thing ♪
1662
01:01:58,723 --> 01:02:00,849
- Our couples build
on their connection
1663
01:02:00,851 --> 01:02:02,976
And try to create
a foundation of love
1664
01:02:02,978 --> 01:02:04,869
That will last a lifetime.
1665
01:02:04,930 --> 01:02:07,072
- Come on, mr. Good-looking.
1666
01:02:07,074 --> 01:02:09,299
We're definitely taking things
to the next level today.
1667
01:02:09,417 --> 01:02:10,984
♪ ♪
1668
01:02:10,986 --> 01:02:14,045
- Covid has got your boy.
1669
01:02:14,064 --> 01:02:17,381
- I'm gonna try and be there
for him as much as I can.
1670
01:02:17,443 --> 01:02:18,867
- Appearance-wise,
I said beautiful smile,
1671
01:02:18,869 --> 01:02:20,527
Beautiful face,
but I did say, like,
1672
01:02:20,687 --> 01:02:22,337
A little thicker
than I normally go for.
1673
01:02:22,339 --> 01:02:24,097
[dramatic music]
1674
01:02:24,099 --> 01:02:27,159
- Do you feel like
you're falling in love
1675
01:02:27,277 --> 01:02:28,226
In this marriage?
1676
01:02:28,287 --> 01:02:30,428
- No. No.
1677
01:02:30,430 --> 01:02:32,197
- This is what happens
when you let your wall down,
1678
01:02:32,315 --> 01:02:33,715
Like, you let somebody
get close.
1679
01:02:33,717 --> 01:02:35,383
It just blows up in your face.
1680
01:02:35,501 --> 01:02:36,643
- I got a girl pregnant.
1681
01:02:36,670 --> 01:02:39,296
♪ ♪
1682
01:02:39,414 --> 01:02:40,872
- We just met each other,
1683
01:02:41,032 --> 01:02:44,225
So of course I'm gonna want
to be around you.
1684
01:02:44,227 --> 01:02:47,103
- You got what you wanted,
and now I'm miserable.
1685
01:02:47,105 --> 01:02:50,932
♪ ♪