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- Ten singles
put their futures
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In the hands of experts
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To find love.
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They married
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- ♪ beachside with
my toes in the sand like ♪
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- Last time, their honeymoons
continued in jamaica.
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- ♪ this life
is just getting better ♪
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- Every other thing
that we've done here,
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You've complained about it.
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If you're gonna do it,
then just do it.
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Because ultimately, it's making
me not wanna do it anymore.
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- I wanna work on it.
I'm trying to work on it.
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I want you to have
the best time too.
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- I wanna get to know you
on a serious side,
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And it's okay to show,
like, your comical side.
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But I just always feel like
it's a time and a place.
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- That's good.
That's something I can respect.
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- And then we can laugh
and joke and have a good time.
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- Do you feel like we're moving
in the direction
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We need to move in?
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- I feel like we are.
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I know there's gonna be
peaks and valleys.
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- So you're ready
and willing for that?
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- Yeah, I'm ready and willing.
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- That's something
that I needed,
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And that's reassuring for me.
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- I don't see
any major red flags.
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But I'm like,
when we live together--
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She's never lived with someone.
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I've never lived with someone.
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- We have three dogs.
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We both have
very demanding jobs.
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And we're nervous that
the stress of all of that
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Is going to hurt
our relationship.
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- When you say someone's
not slender enough--
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- I didn't even say slender.
- Athletic is--
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You did say slender.
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"I'm used to people
that are slender."
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- Sorry you feel that way.
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I'm just--I'm just
trying to be honest.
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- If you feel
like you've said nothing wrong,
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I honestly don't think
there's anything left
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To say in this conversation.
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I'm done.
Yeah, thank you.
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- You should be done.
- Okay, yeah.
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- You should be done.
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What an unfortunate turn
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Unreal.
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- Tonight, our couples
spend the final days
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Of their honeymoon
before heading
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Back to the real world.
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- Well, and airris, like,
not being put on the spot,
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But do you think you could fall
in love with him?
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- I just kind of wanted you
to be aware
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Of, like, where my head is,
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'cause right now, I feel
more of, like, a friendly vibe.
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I'm not trying to be
nobody friend.
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- Being completely transparent,
I feel
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Like I've given you
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And that it hasn't been
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It's like your way
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It's getting awkward now.
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- Hey, baby.
What's wrong?
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- I had
a pretty terrible conversation
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With clint just over...
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My physical appearance,
I guess.
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Yesterday, he had said
something about me not being
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Slender enough
or athletically built
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To what he normally goes for.
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And I tried to talk
through that today,
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And I feel like he just
doesn't really see anything
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Wrong with that statement.
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And so we've just kind of
been talking in circles.
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To me, I'm, like,
honestly disgusted
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At this point.
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I feel like it's
a pretty nasty thing to say.
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And to not know that
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Is, like,
a huge red flag, so...
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- Fellas.
Fellas.
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- Dude.
- Oh, what up, dude?
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- What's going on, man?
- Dude, I need you right now.
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- You need me?
- I need you.
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- That's why I'm here.
That's why I'm here, bro.
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- I'll move down, brother.
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Dude, we were just having
a deep talk, man.
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He's got--
I'll let him tell you.
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- So...
- I'm speechless.
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- So we just--we just went
through a moment,
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A real moment.
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- Tell me about this moment.
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- Gina just, like,
started going after me.
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Like, "I started talking--
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"I talked to the girls.
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You made a disparaging comment
about my weight," you know?
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"you're, like, calling me
thick, or fat,"
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Or whatever she used.
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I'm paraphrasing at the time--
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At the moment.
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And--and I'm like--
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I'm like, "no, that wasn't
what I was trying to do.
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"that wasn't the intent.
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I apologize."
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I'm like, "I was just
trying to give you
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"a point of reference
of, like, who I've dated
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Typically in the past."
- like, your type, yeah.
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- Like, I apologize,
and she's like,
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"it's unforgivable.
I just can't."
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I'm like--I'm like,
"well, hold on."
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And she's called me ginger.
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She's called me
redhead, light skin.
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Like, she didn't wanna be
with a ginger.
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- Right.
Right.
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- Like, that's not
a term of endearment.
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- Right.
Right, yeah.
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- And I'm just like--
you know, like, I get it.
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I'm not trying to do
for the tit for tat, right?
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But at the end
of the day, like--
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- You have to validate
her concerns.
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I feel like a lot of times,
when someone brings
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Something to a person,
we automatically get defensive.
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Maybe that's, like, then--
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We're still getting to know
each other, right?
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Maybe that's, like,
an insecurity.
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But, like, in my mind,
she's not fat or thick.
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In my mind, she's small.
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But you know, who knows?
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Maybe that's something, like,
she's dealt with on her own.
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Like, maybe she--
maybe she does feel overweight,
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And then hearing,
like, her husband say it--
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Like, you know, that--that
isn't, like, reassuring.
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- But I never even said
"overweight."
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And--but I tried to apologize.
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- I know.
What I'm saying--
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It's not what you said.
I mean, how she interpreted it.
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- Right.
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- You never said
the word "fat."
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You never said overweight.
- Yeah.
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- You said "I typically date
slender."
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- Yeah.
And all of a sudden,
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I'm typecasted as
"you don't like bigger women."
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I'm like,
"that's just not fair."
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- That's not fair.
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- Now all of a sudden,
I can't be me.
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- Gotta be clint, bro.
- But he's a blunt guy.
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Like, he--and, like,
I can appreciate--
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Again, I can appreciate that.
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You're just very up-front.
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You tell--you tell it
like you see it.
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And it's not always easy
to hear
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For some people, I'm sure.
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And, like, in that situation,
it wasn't easy
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For her to hear in that way.
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And she took it
in a different way
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That you didn't intend.
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And I mean,
I don't know what to say.
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- Okay, so let me
ask you, do you--
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Do you acknowledge
that maybe,
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You could delivered that
differently?
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Like, are you aware
of, like, how it came--like--
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- Yeah.
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- Do you think
that, like, it was--
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Your delivery was, like,
the correct delivery?
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Like, you--
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- I mean, it was spur
of the moment.
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But when I, like,
reflect on it, like,
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Did I have time to even curtail
how I went about it?
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It could have been
more poignant.
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It could have been
more eloquent.
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- Okay.
I feel like the fact
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That he recognizes that--
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- For sure.
- You know what I mean?
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- I mean, that says a lot.
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I mean, if people
are taken aback by it,
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It's like, yeah, maybe--
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Maybe that was wrong.
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I mean, not maybe.
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Like, obviously,
it wasn't the way
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It was meant to come across.
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- Right.
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- This is one
of those things in life
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I'm like, this is
one of those moments
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To where I really have
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To seek that inner mind
and see, like,
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What does my soul say to me
right now?
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- I mean, we got the dinner--
we got the dinner tonight.
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Maybe her feelings will change.
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We still got time.
- Yeah.
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I mean, I've got
some thinking to do.
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I don't wanna make
a rash, quick decision.
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- Yeah, you should.
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- My intentions were
to find somebody
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That I could be with
for the rest of my life.
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And I have the purest intent
to put myself out there.
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And this has been
a very eye-opening experience.
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This is just not the way
it was supposed to go.
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I had an orchestrated idea
of the whole thing,
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And everything
has gone sideways.
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It's [bleep] insane.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ lean where
I can breathe it in ♪
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♪ you know I'm still
thinking about how we did ♪
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♪ talking, uh, pouring drinks
with your friends ♪
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♪ there's something
about you ♪
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♪ can't get my head
around it ♪
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♪ I don't wanna control you ♪
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♪ but I was always there ♪
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- Hey.
Hey.
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- Hello.
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- It looks like
you're ready to dance.
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- Hey, how are you?
- Looking so good.
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- Clint and I did have
an opportunity to talk.
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Like, he apologized
to me in the room.
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He definitely came in
more understanding
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Than the last time
that I had seen him.
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And I was able
to just clarify again
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How that could be offensive
not only to me,
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But all the other females
in the room.
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- Well, I just wanna say,
like, it's good
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To, like, reconnect
with everybody.
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We're here in jamaica,
like, last day, right?
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- Yeah.
- Last day.
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- Last day.
- And it's been an experience.
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- I'm pretty intrigued
to see
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What the hell clint's
gonna say
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After him and gina's blow-up.
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Hopefully, you know,
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He owns up to his mistake
like a man.
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It was wrong because
gina definitely didn't--
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00:08:43,357 --> 00:08:44,689
She didn't deserve
that moment.
253
00:08:44,916 --> 00:08:47,083
- No.
254
00:08:47,176 --> 00:08:50,529
- So I would love
to address the table.
255
00:08:50,680 --> 00:08:52,346
So--
- stand up, clint.
256
00:08:52,366 --> 00:08:53,514
- Yeah.
- I wanna hear you, bro.
257
00:08:53,608 --> 00:08:54,758
- So I'm gonna stand up.
I'ma stand up.
258
00:08:54,851 --> 00:08:56,183
- Oh, wow.
This is a--
259
00:08:56,278 --> 00:08:58,094
- I'ma stand up because--
260
00:08:58,113 --> 00:08:59,612
- My guy.
261
00:08:59,706 --> 00:09:01,281
- This is a big address.
262
00:09:01,433 --> 00:09:02,949
- So I think
in the short period of time
263
00:09:03,101 --> 00:09:04,876
That we've all been here,
264
00:09:05,028 --> 00:09:06,936
I wanted to exude
and exonerate,
265
00:09:06,955 --> 00:09:09,272
Like, I'm front street.
266
00:09:09,365 --> 00:09:11,383
I try to be
as real as possible.
267
00:09:11,610 --> 00:09:13,793
And sometimes, I say
ridiculous, crazy comments.
268
00:09:13,887 --> 00:09:15,278
- Oh, we know.
269
00:09:15,371 --> 00:09:16,203
- And they're
right off the cuff.
270
00:09:16,298 --> 00:09:17,722
- Right.
Right.
271
00:09:17,949 --> 00:09:19,057
- You came out swinging
strong and wrong.
272
00:09:19,208 --> 00:09:20,800
[laughing]
273
00:09:20,952 --> 00:09:22,619
- Strong and wrong.
274
00:09:22,637 --> 00:09:24,563
Let's--let's focus
on the wrong part.
275
00:09:24,790 --> 00:09:25,789
- Let's focus
on the wrong part.
276
00:09:25,882 --> 00:09:29,142
- And so I said
some comments last night
277
00:09:29,236 --> 00:09:31,403
That were, like,
off the cuff and in the moment.
278
00:09:31,554 --> 00:09:34,722
And it wasn't
to disparage anyone.
279
00:09:34,741 --> 00:09:39,135
And so I talked about,
like, slender and athletic.
280
00:09:39,228 --> 00:09:41,487
And I don't think
it hit the right way.
281
00:09:41,582 --> 00:09:42,989
It was the wrong--
282
00:09:43,141 --> 00:09:45,417
It was
the wrong choice of words.
283
00:09:45,644 --> 00:09:48,812
It was just to,
like, try to give everybody
284
00:09:48,905 --> 00:09:50,237
Some context of, like,
where I've been
285
00:09:50,257 --> 00:09:53,666
In my past life.
286
00:09:53,819 --> 00:09:56,152
- I think it's disgusting
what clint said.
287
00:09:56,245 --> 00:09:57,987
And not only
did he say it,
288
00:09:58,006 --> 00:10:01,324
He didn't even think
to apologize after.
289
00:10:01,343 --> 00:10:04,494
He's a lot,
and for me to say that,
290
00:10:04,587 --> 00:10:06,663
That should speak volumes
in itself.
291
00:10:06,756 --> 00:10:08,607
- I wanna hear from gina
in this moment.
292
00:10:08,758 --> 00:10:10,683
- So we did talk about it.
293
00:10:10,836 --> 00:10:14,003
And I will say
he immediately apologized.
294
00:10:14,022 --> 00:10:15,947
He was like,
"I wholeheartedly apologize.
295
00:10:16,174 --> 00:10:18,265
"like, I would never, ever
wanna hurt your feelings
296
00:10:18,285 --> 00:10:20,434
Or make you feel bad."
297
00:10:20,528 --> 00:10:22,846
He was like, "you're obviously
a very attractive woman.
298
00:10:22,939 --> 00:10:24,623
Like, that's not at all
what I meant."
299
00:10:24,774 --> 00:10:26,625
And so it really just
boils down to being mindful
300
00:10:26,852 --> 00:10:28,275
Of, like, verbiage.
301
00:10:28,370 --> 00:10:30,703
But for sure,
when you're on the spot,
302
00:10:30,797 --> 00:10:33,298
We've all probably been there
where we might say something
303
00:10:33,449 --> 00:10:35,375
And be like, "oh, [bleep].
That's actually not..."
304
00:10:35,527 --> 00:10:36,968
- What I meant.
- "what I meant."
305
00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:38,970
And so for me,
I'm a runner, right?
306
00:10:39,197 --> 00:10:40,639
So like, I'm like, "I'm gone,
see ya,"
307
00:10:40,866 --> 00:10:42,456
If someone offends me
or makes me feel that way.
308
00:10:42,550 --> 00:10:44,717
So it was actually healthy
309
00:10:44,870 --> 00:10:47,312
That we weren't able
to do that.
310
00:10:47,539 --> 00:10:49,222
We had to--we had
to approach it head on.
311
00:10:49,374 --> 00:10:50,982
♪ ♪
312
00:10:51,134 --> 00:10:52,817
- Thank you
for explaining yourself.
313
00:10:52,969 --> 00:10:55,320
And if gina's willing
to give you a second chance,
314
00:10:55,547 --> 00:10:57,380
We are too.
315
00:10:57,399 --> 00:10:59,565
But we all thought
differently about you,
316
00:10:59,718 --> 00:11:03,144
I will say, you know,
at our girls' meeting.
317
00:11:03,238 --> 00:11:06,723
But as long as you're both
committed to at least trying,
318
00:11:06,816 --> 00:11:08,908
I feel safe saying
for everyone,
319
00:11:09,002 --> 00:11:12,170
We will clean slate and just be
one big, happy family
320
00:11:12,397 --> 00:11:14,080
And support you guys
in your journey
321
00:11:14,232 --> 00:11:15,748
That might continue
to be bumpy.
322
00:11:15,842 --> 00:11:18,568
But we will all need
support from each other.
323
00:11:18,661 --> 00:11:21,162
So thank you
for being so open with us.
324
00:11:21,181 --> 00:11:23,014
I don't think clinton and gina
are doomed to fail,
325
00:11:23,241 --> 00:11:24,924
But I think they have
a long, hard road
326
00:11:25,018 --> 00:11:26,017
Ahead of them.
327
00:11:26,244 --> 00:11:35,935
♪ ♪
328
00:11:36,029 --> 00:11:39,513
♪ ♪
329
00:11:39,533 --> 00:11:43,702
- Today was a self-realization,
like, good, healthy day.
330
00:11:43,853 --> 00:11:45,428
And I needed that.
I needed that.
331
00:11:45,521 --> 00:11:48,373
And I feel like
we're closer for that.
332
00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:51,876
This is communication stuff
that everybody's gonna have.
333
00:11:52,103 --> 00:11:54,771
Like, don't think
I'm the only one.
334
00:11:54,864 --> 00:11:56,363
Like, gina and I aren't
the only ones
335
00:11:56,383 --> 00:11:57,531
That's gonna ever have this,
like--
336
00:11:57,551 --> 00:11:59,200
- Yeah.
- No.
337
00:11:59,294 --> 00:12:02,220
- So it's been a week
since we've all been married,
338
00:12:02,447 --> 00:12:04,781
And it's our last night
of the honeymoon.
339
00:12:04,874 --> 00:12:08,301
So if you had to rate
your relationship
340
00:12:08,395 --> 00:12:11,454
On a scale of one to ten, like,
physical, emotional,
341
00:12:11,473 --> 00:12:15,308
Everything combined, what would
it be at leaving our honeymoon?
342
00:12:15,402 --> 00:12:16,717
- Oh, [bleep].
343
00:12:16,811 --> 00:12:18,644
- Guys? [clicks tongue]
344
00:12:18,739 --> 00:12:21,388
- Considering everything,
I think I would--you know,
345
00:12:21,408 --> 00:12:25,226
We had a few road things here.
346
00:12:25,245 --> 00:12:26,393
- Speed bumps.
347
00:12:26,413 --> 00:12:27,804
- Speed bumps.
There we go.
348
00:12:27,822 --> 00:12:29,639
- Rolling things.
- They were my speed bumps.
349
00:12:29,732 --> 00:12:31,565
My sense of humor
is not the best.
350
00:12:31,585 --> 00:12:32,992
I think it is,
but it's clearly not.
351
00:12:33,086 --> 00:12:34,310
- I think it's great.
352
00:12:34,403 --> 00:12:35,328
I appreciate your sense
of humor.
353
00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:36,570
- I think the guys like it,
354
00:12:36,590 --> 00:12:37,663
But it's not good
in the relationship.
355
00:12:37,816 --> 00:12:39,090
It's something I'm working on.
356
00:12:39,242 --> 00:12:42,318
So trying to figure out
how to convey to her,
357
00:12:42,411 --> 00:12:44,487
You know,
how I'm really feeling,
358
00:12:44,580 --> 00:12:45,989
That's what I was
looking for in a partner
359
00:12:46,007 --> 00:12:49,008
To pull me out of my rut
for being introverted.
360
00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:51,269
There's always room
to grow, considering
361
00:12:51,420 --> 00:12:53,663
How we are emotionally,
or at least I thought.
362
00:12:53,681 --> 00:12:56,274
Mentally, physically,
I think you're great.
363
00:12:56,425 --> 00:12:59,944
I would say a 7 1/2.
364
00:13:00,096 --> 00:13:01,020
- I could do that.
365
00:13:01,114 --> 00:13:02,930
I can agree with that.
366
00:13:02,949 --> 00:13:04,690
- I'll take it.
[both laugh]
367
00:13:04,843 --> 00:13:07,268
- So I would say, you know,
368
00:13:07,287 --> 00:13:09,270
I wanna work up to a ten
with you
369
00:13:09,289 --> 00:13:12,198
And keep building
on what we're doing now.
370
00:13:12,350 --> 00:13:14,517
And hopefully, I get better
at communicating
371
00:13:14,536 --> 00:13:17,186
And you keep
your patience with you.
372
00:13:17,205 --> 00:13:18,797
- Thank god I coached
those 12-year-olds last year.
373
00:13:18,948 --> 00:13:21,132
[laughter]
374
00:13:21,284 --> 00:13:22,542
I agree.
Cheers.
375
00:13:22,694 --> 00:13:24,360
Thank you for that.
376
00:13:24,379 --> 00:13:25,862
- Honestly, I mean,
this has been better
377
00:13:25,955 --> 00:13:27,713
Than I expected, for sure.
378
00:13:27,866 --> 00:13:30,366
Like, it was a crazy situation.
You didn't know what to expect.
379
00:13:30,385 --> 00:13:31,551
You didn't know
who was coming down the aisle
380
00:13:31,703 --> 00:13:32,885
And everything else.
381
00:13:33,038 --> 00:13:34,704
And I was blown away with you.
382
00:13:34,797 --> 00:13:36,314
I think it's been amazing.
383
00:13:36,465 --> 00:13:38,132
So, like, I'm gonna go
with a little different number.
384
00:13:38,151 --> 00:13:40,376
I'm gonna go, like, 8.2, 8.2.
385
00:13:40,395 --> 00:13:41,544
Kind of crazy.
- I was gonna say 8.2.
386
00:13:41,563 --> 00:13:42,803
Oh, my god.
387
00:13:42,897 --> 00:13:43,896
- Chris gotta be
the one-upper.
388
00:13:43,990 --> 00:13:45,398
- Yeah, yeah.
389
00:13:45,550 --> 00:13:46,549
- I was literally
just about to say that.
390
00:13:46,642 --> 00:13:47,884
- You were gonna say 8.2?
- 8.2.
391
00:13:47,977 --> 00:13:50,069
- I mean, I did guess
your name before.
392
00:13:50,221 --> 00:13:53,147
- I honestly was going to say
8.2 as well.
393
00:13:53,241 --> 00:13:55,074
I'm not just copying him.
394
00:13:55,226 --> 00:13:58,077
However, I feel like
when we do get back
395
00:13:58,229 --> 00:14:02,990
To normal life and all of those
daily natural things set in,
396
00:14:03,084 --> 00:14:06,010
That's where we might kind of
have our little battles.
397
00:14:06,162 --> 00:14:09,496
So I don't feel comfortable
giving it a higher number yet
398
00:14:09,516 --> 00:14:12,075
Because we only know, like, 1%
399
00:14:12,168 --> 00:14:13,685
Of all the things we need
to know.
400
00:14:13,912 --> 00:14:18,264
So honestly, I would rate
our experience thus far
401
00:14:18,416 --> 00:14:22,360
Almost a ten, but I'm rating
our marriage as a whole 8.2
402
00:14:22,511 --> 00:14:25,922
Because we just don't know
enough about each other yet.
403
00:14:25,940 --> 00:14:28,515
But I think we'll get there.
- I do too.
404
00:14:28,535 --> 00:14:31,094
- Nicole is a hard-hitting,
like, new york woman.
405
00:14:31,112 --> 00:14:33,204
And I know new york.
And she's, like--
406
00:14:33,431 --> 00:14:35,448
She's, through and through,
who she is.
407
00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:38,601
And chris is
a little bit, like, passive.
408
00:14:38,620 --> 00:14:42,196
So I think she's gonna take him
for a ride.
409
00:14:42,215 --> 00:14:43,289
I do.
- Before we leave--
410
00:14:43,441 --> 00:14:44,698
Before we leave jamaica?
411
00:14:44,718 --> 00:14:46,200
- Well, I don't know,
like, a sexual ride.
412
00:14:46,294 --> 00:14:47,944
- Oh, I thought
that's what you're--
413
00:14:48,037 --> 00:14:50,371
That you're alluding to.
- Well, could maybe be.
414
00:14:50,390 --> 00:14:51,723
Could might be.
415
00:14:51,950 --> 00:14:53,282
- All right.
416
00:14:53,301 --> 00:14:54,283
I wanna hear
about shaq and kirsten.
417
00:14:54,302 --> 00:14:55,709
- Yeah.
418
00:14:55,803 --> 00:14:57,303
- Let's hear it.
- Why?
419
00:14:57,397 --> 00:14:58,471
The pressure's on us.
420
00:14:58,565 --> 00:15:00,123
- Let's hear it.
421
00:15:00,141 --> 00:15:01,715
No, we had a moment earlier.
422
00:15:01,809 --> 00:15:03,309
We really did.
- Today?
423
00:15:03,403 --> 00:15:04,977
- Yeah, today.
424
00:15:05,130 --> 00:15:07,130
I know he likes to joke,
and I feel
425
00:15:07,148 --> 00:15:09,056
Like it's a time
and a place for that.
426
00:15:09,150 --> 00:15:10,316
- I can relate.
427
00:15:10,410 --> 00:15:12,059
- Yeah, exactly.
428
00:15:12,078 --> 00:15:14,137
But physically and emotionally,
429
00:15:14,230 --> 00:15:16,414
I'll rate our relationship
at a seven.
430
00:15:16,641 --> 00:15:18,082
Things are going well
right now.
431
00:15:18,234 --> 00:15:19,659
We had so many things
in common.
432
00:15:19,811 --> 00:15:21,085
It just felt natural.
433
00:15:21,312 --> 00:15:23,479
Like, we're almost
the same person.
434
00:15:23,572 --> 00:15:24,997
That could be
a good thing, you know?
435
00:15:25,091 --> 00:15:28,151
Hopefully, it will be.
436
00:15:28,169 --> 00:15:30,929
- And I would agree.
I would definitely say a seven.
437
00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:34,507
Like, I'm excited to see, like,
where this goes from here.
438
00:15:34,659 --> 00:15:36,492
And I'm happy with a seven.
439
00:15:36,511 --> 00:15:38,661
- Me too.
440
00:15:38,754 --> 00:15:40,087
- Gina, go.
- Do you want me to start?
441
00:15:40,106 --> 00:15:41,330
- Yeah, please.
442
00:15:41,349 --> 00:15:42,848
- Okay.
443
00:15:43,001 --> 00:15:45,685
So I'll be fully transparent.
444
00:15:45,779 --> 00:15:48,446
I am pleased at where we are.
445
00:15:48,597 --> 00:15:50,856
I was like, I feel like
such a, like, waa-waa,
446
00:15:51,009 --> 00:15:53,526
But I'm at, like, a solid five,
which I think is big for us.
447
00:15:53,678 --> 00:15:54,786
- That's good.
That's good.
448
00:15:54,937 --> 00:15:56,437
That's good.
[interposing voices]
449
00:15:56,456 --> 00:15:58,122
- Yeah, it's like, a--
I'm feeling
450
00:15:58,349 --> 00:16:00,516
In my heart,
like, a good halfsies, right?
451
00:16:00,535 --> 00:16:02,018
Like, I think I'm hopeful.
452
00:16:02,036 --> 00:16:03,352
And I'm still in it, so...
453
00:16:03,371 --> 00:16:05,188
- Yeah.
454
00:16:05,206 --> 00:16:07,465
Uh, I mean, it's a relief
to hear that
455
00:16:07,692 --> 00:16:12,211
Because for us to come back
from where we were, like...
456
00:16:12,363 --> 00:16:13,638
It was a tough situation.
457
00:16:13,789 --> 00:16:17,200
It's not easy, especially
in a short-term duration
458
00:16:17,218 --> 00:16:18,718
Of having interactions
with each other.
459
00:16:18,870 --> 00:16:20,812
Anyhow, I have arrived at--
460
00:16:20,963 --> 00:16:23,873
I've arrived
at, like, a 5 1/2...
461
00:16:23,966 --> 00:16:25,725
- Ooh, it's higher
than last night.
462
00:16:25,877 --> 00:16:27,819
- Because we've been
through the rigors.
463
00:16:28,046 --> 00:16:30,971
And now I feel like we're
at a much healthier place
464
00:16:30,991 --> 00:16:33,049
Because of that.
- All right.
465
00:16:33,067 --> 00:16:34,475
- That's very sweet.
- That's great.
466
00:16:34,569 --> 00:16:36,810
- Airris and jas, like,
I wanna hear from you guys.
467
00:16:36,904 --> 00:16:38,904
Like, where are y'all at?
468
00:16:39,057 --> 00:16:40,314
- Tell the people
how you're doing.
469
00:16:40,333 --> 00:16:42,225
- Tell the people.
- Tell the people.
470
00:16:42,318 --> 00:16:44,393
Really, no pressure.
- My girl.
471
00:16:44,412 --> 00:16:46,987
- No, I mean, I feel like--
472
00:16:47,081 --> 00:16:48,581
I feel like we're good.
473
00:16:48,733 --> 00:16:49,732
I mean, like, we've had
474
00:16:49,825 --> 00:16:52,176
Our few little, you know,
hiccups.
475
00:16:52,328 --> 00:16:55,905
And I found out that, you know,
he's never been in love.
476
00:16:55,923 --> 00:16:58,182
And for me, that was
kind of an eyebrow raise.
477
00:16:58,334 --> 00:17:00,259
Like, this man is 39.
478
00:17:00,411 --> 00:17:01,668
He's never been in love.
479
00:17:01,688 --> 00:17:03,504
And you know,
I fall in love easy.
480
00:17:03,523 --> 00:17:05,672
Like, I'm a hopeless romantic.
481
00:17:05,692 --> 00:17:07,508
I love to be in a relationship.
482
00:17:07,602 --> 00:17:09,343
What if I fall in love
with this man,
483
00:17:09,437 --> 00:17:10,920
And then it's not reciprocated?
484
00:17:10,938 --> 00:17:13,773
But I can't fault him
for, like, not being in love.
485
00:17:13,925 --> 00:17:15,107
Maybe he just ain't been
with the right girl.
486
00:17:15,201 --> 00:17:16,683
He needed, you know, jasmine.
487
00:17:16,703 --> 00:17:18,519
- You never had that jasmine!
488
00:17:18,538 --> 00:17:20,096
- Come on, now.
489
00:17:20,189 --> 00:17:22,189
- But I feel like we have
fun together.
490
00:17:22,208 --> 00:17:24,691
I feel like, you know,
everything is going
491
00:17:24,711 --> 00:17:27,603
As it should be, in my opinion.
492
00:17:27,622 --> 00:17:30,715
So I would keep us
at, like, a 7 and 1/2,
493
00:17:30,866 --> 00:17:33,217
You know, 8 maybe.
494
00:17:33,369 --> 00:17:34,960
What do you think?
495
00:17:35,055 --> 00:17:37,630
- I would say a seven.
496
00:17:37,724 --> 00:17:38,964
- I'm not mad at that.
497
00:17:39,117 --> 00:17:40,391
I'm not mad at that.
498
00:17:40,543 --> 00:17:43,619
[insects chirping]
499
00:17:43,638 --> 00:17:44,787
- I feel like some people
are lying.
500
00:17:44,806 --> 00:17:46,138
- Yeah.
501
00:17:46,291 --> 00:17:47,306
- On a scale of one to ten,
502
00:17:47,458 --> 00:17:48,549
Like, being attracted to me,
503
00:17:48,568 --> 00:17:49,625
I feel like she's at,
like, a 12.
504
00:17:49,644 --> 00:17:51,235
- Yeah.
505
00:17:51,387 --> 00:17:52,461
- And I feel like I'm at,
like, a four or five.
506
00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:56,966
♪ ♪
507
00:17:56,984 --> 00:17:59,302
But I'm still hopeful
and willing to put in the work
508
00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:00,820
That, you know,
we can get to a ten.
509
00:18:00,972 --> 00:18:03,247
- Yeah.
510
00:18:03,474 --> 00:18:04,974
- Well, and airris, not meaning
to put you on the spot,
511
00:18:04,992 --> 00:18:06,751
But do you think
you can fall in love with her?
512
00:18:06,978 --> 00:18:07,977
- Ooh.
513
00:18:07,995 --> 00:18:10,755
♪ ♪
514
00:18:10,906 --> 00:18:12,906
- I know you've never--you said
you never loved anybody.
515
00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:15,242
- Okay, deep questions.
516
00:18:15,336 --> 00:18:16,761
- Love the deep conversations,
growing.
517
00:18:16,988 --> 00:18:18,487
- This is marriage.
518
00:18:18,506 --> 00:18:20,840
- I mean, that's what,
like, I signed up for.
519
00:18:20,934 --> 00:18:23,826
That's what, like--like,
it's only--it's been a week.
520
00:18:23,919 --> 00:18:25,177
Like, this is all--
it's still, like--
521
00:18:25,271 --> 00:18:26,829
It's shocking.
522
00:18:26,848 --> 00:18:28,940
- We did marry strangers
before we're meeting.
523
00:18:29,091 --> 00:18:31,258
- No, but see, you was making
me feel like I was crazy.
524
00:18:31,277 --> 00:18:33,853
Everyone kept saying, like--
[all talking at once]
525
00:18:33,947 --> 00:18:35,354
- When I kept saying
it's only been a week,
526
00:18:35,506 --> 00:18:37,673
You were like, "oh, my gosh.
527
00:18:37,766 --> 00:18:39,358
You keep saying a week.
You keep saying a week."
528
00:18:39,452 --> 00:18:40,451
- We all know.
529
00:18:42,347 --> 00:18:43,437
- I'm here.
530
00:18:43,456 --> 00:18:45,014
Like, I'm here.
I know I'm here.
531
00:18:45,107 --> 00:18:47,016
But it still feels,
like, crazy.
532
00:18:47,034 --> 00:18:48,701
Maybe I'm the only one
that feels like that.
533
00:18:48,853 --> 00:18:49,852
But, like,
this feels nuts to me.
534
00:18:49,871 --> 00:18:51,520
♪ ♪
535
00:18:51,539 --> 00:18:52,964
- Like, I feel
like she's ready to be a wife,
536
00:18:53,191 --> 00:18:54,690
But I'm not so sure
he's ready to be a husband.
537
00:18:54,709 --> 00:19:01,389
♪ ♪
538
00:19:06,204 --> 00:19:11,149
♪ ♪
539
00:19:13,135 --> 00:19:14,652
- Good morning.
- Good morning.
540
00:19:14,803 --> 00:19:17,563
- Happy last day
of the honeymoon.
541
00:19:17,715 --> 00:19:20,566
- It's our last morning here.
542
00:19:20,660 --> 00:19:21,826
We leave today.
543
00:19:21,977 --> 00:19:23,552
- Sad face.
544
00:19:23,571 --> 00:19:26,146
- If I can wake up to the ocean
every morning
545
00:19:26,166 --> 00:19:27,999
For the rest of my life,
I would.
546
00:19:28,150 --> 00:19:30,984
It's just beautiful.
547
00:19:31,078 --> 00:19:32,986
Like, oh, my gosh.
Beautiful.
548
00:19:33,006 --> 00:19:34,839
- What a morning to wake up to.
549
00:19:35,066 --> 00:19:38,992
5:00 a.M.,
severe stomach cramps,
550
00:19:39,086 --> 00:19:42,013
Things coming out of both ends,
551
00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:43,906
Feeling...
- Way to be descriptive.
552
00:19:43,925 --> 00:19:46,909
- Good is that it's
just, like, so hot.
553
00:19:46,928 --> 00:19:48,093
- So hot.
554
00:19:48,246 --> 00:19:49,353
- Last day in jamaica.
555
00:19:50,748 --> 00:19:52,748
Just had a nice workout.
556
00:19:52,767 --> 00:19:55,267
I was able to get up
before jasmine,
557
00:19:55,420 --> 00:19:58,362
So I did some reading,
got my workout in.
558
00:19:58,514 --> 00:20:00,923
Like, my alone time
is pretty important to me.
559
00:20:00,942 --> 00:20:03,776
- While their honeymoons
had some ups and downs,
560
00:20:03,928 --> 00:20:05,852
These newlyweds
are returning to nashville
561
00:20:05,872 --> 00:20:07,854
To face
an even bigger challenge:
562
00:20:07,874 --> 00:20:10,374
Living together
in the real world
563
00:20:10,526 --> 00:20:13,118
As married strangers.
564
00:20:13,271 --> 00:20:15,287
- With jasmine, I am--
565
00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:20,943
I feel guilty that I'm not,
like, showing, like, I guess,
566
00:20:20,962 --> 00:20:24,222
Like, you know,
as much interest as she is.
567
00:20:24,449 --> 00:20:27,207
So I'm, like, trying
to process that.
568
00:20:27,227 --> 00:20:29,042
You know,
I am attracted to her,
569
00:20:29,136 --> 00:20:30,786
But it's just like, I feel
like our attraction levels
570
00:20:30,879 --> 00:20:32,897
Aren't on the same level yet.
571
00:20:33,124 --> 00:20:35,066
You know, hopefully,
we can leave on a good note.
572
00:20:35,293 --> 00:20:37,401
♪ ♪
573
00:20:39,297 --> 00:20:41,739
♪ ♪
574
00:20:41,966 --> 00:20:43,983
- ♪ did you fall
from heaven? ♪
575
00:20:44,135 --> 00:20:46,635
♪ didn't see you coming ♪
576
00:20:46,654 --> 00:20:48,304
♪ ♪
577
00:20:48,397 --> 00:20:51,415
- Room service meal in bed.
578
00:20:51,642 --> 00:20:53,584
- I will miss the room service.
- Same.
579
00:20:53,736 --> 00:20:57,088
I just wanna thank you
for taking
580
00:20:57,315 --> 00:20:59,090
This leap
that we've taken together.
581
00:20:59,241 --> 00:21:01,092
This is super crazy.
582
00:21:01,243 --> 00:21:02,426
- Super crazy.
583
00:21:02,578 --> 00:21:04,411
- It takes a lot
to do something
584
00:21:04,505 --> 00:21:06,597
And go through what we have.
585
00:21:06,749 --> 00:21:08,766
So I can't thank you enough
for doing it with me
586
00:21:08,917 --> 00:21:10,417
And dealing with me.
587
00:21:10,511 --> 00:21:12,661
- [laughs] cheers.
588
00:21:12,755 --> 00:21:15,273
I will say,
after, like, knowing you
589
00:21:15,500 --> 00:21:17,424
And having this experience,
I am very surprised
590
00:21:17,518 --> 00:21:21,003
That this is something
you decided to go through with.
591
00:21:21,022 --> 00:21:22,671
I know a lot of the things
that we've done here
592
00:21:22,690 --> 00:21:25,341
Have been outside
of your comfort zone.
593
00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:29,194
I will say that you say
sometimes that, like,
594
00:21:29,347 --> 00:21:30,846
"yeah, like, we're doing this"
595
00:21:30,865 --> 00:21:31,956
And, like, "I normally
wouldn't have done this,
596
00:21:32,107 --> 00:21:33,349
But I did it for you."
597
00:21:33,367 --> 00:21:35,351
You know what I mean?
Like, I want you
598
00:21:35,369 --> 00:21:36,943
To want to do
those things, you know?
599
00:21:36,963 --> 00:21:38,537
Like, I don't want you
to just do stuff
600
00:21:38,689 --> 00:21:40,614
Because you think
it's gonna make me happy.
601
00:21:40,633 --> 00:21:43,450
Like, I want us both to be,
like, gung ho
602
00:21:43,469 --> 00:21:45,194
And excited to, like, go
and do things,
603
00:21:45,287 --> 00:21:47,530
Not, like, me, like, having
604
00:21:47,548 --> 00:21:49,698
To, like, push, push, push,
push, push.
605
00:21:49,717 --> 00:21:51,050
You know?
- But that's just not who I am.
606
00:21:51,202 --> 00:21:53,702
Like, I'm--I'm not a--
607
00:21:53,721 --> 00:21:55,704
Like, I can't apologize
for not being excited
608
00:21:55,798 --> 00:21:57,890
To go sailing or ride horses.
609
00:21:57,984 --> 00:21:59,725
Like, I wanna do these things.
I wanna be excited.
610
00:21:59,877 --> 00:22:01,393
So this is me expressing,
like, "all right.
611
00:22:01,546 --> 00:22:03,045
Let's get pumped up for this."
612
00:22:03,064 --> 00:22:05,323
I'm trying to be sentimental
in a way of, like,
613
00:22:05,474 --> 00:22:07,550
"hey, I want you to know, like,
this is something I wanna do,
614
00:22:07,568 --> 00:22:08,993
And I'm glad we're
doing it together,"
615
00:22:09,144 --> 00:22:12,054
And I've completely made it
sound not like that at all.
616
00:22:12,073 --> 00:22:13,906
And that's not my intent.
617
00:22:14,058 --> 00:22:16,225
That's just who I am
as a midwestern guy
618
00:22:16,318 --> 00:22:18,410
Who talks a lot of [bleep]
619
00:22:18,563 --> 00:22:21,747
And, you know, older brother
who--you know,
620
00:22:21,899 --> 00:22:22,915
We hype each other
up like that.
621
00:22:23,009 --> 00:22:24,066
We talk [bleep].
622
00:22:24,159 --> 00:22:25,568
- And I'm not your brother.
623
00:22:25,661 --> 00:22:27,327
- No.
And I understand.
624
00:22:27,347 --> 00:22:29,238
And I'm not trying to make
you like one of the boys.
625
00:22:29,256 --> 00:22:31,590
But, like, you have to give me
some room to, like, be myself.
626
00:22:31,684 --> 00:22:33,409
And--
- yeah.
627
00:22:33,427 --> 00:22:36,428
Just for me, it doesn't feel
like there's room
628
00:22:36,581 --> 00:22:39,765
For me to, you know, have my--
629
00:22:39,917 --> 00:22:41,359
My moments, you know?
630
00:22:41,510 --> 00:22:44,253
Because I am trying to, like,
be very supportive,
631
00:22:44,271 --> 00:22:45,938
And optimistic, and all
632
00:22:46,090 --> 00:22:47,590
Of these things for you.
633
00:22:47,683 --> 00:22:49,758
I feel like kind of the coach.
634
00:22:49,777 --> 00:22:51,927
You know what I mean?
Like game face.
635
00:22:52,020 --> 00:22:53,779
Like, "you can do this.
Let's go."
636
00:22:53,931 --> 00:22:55,280
Like, push.
Like, you know what I mean?
637
00:22:55,375 --> 00:22:56,615
But like--
638
00:22:56,767 --> 00:22:59,210
- I kind of feel the opposite.
639
00:22:59,437 --> 00:23:00,544
Like, I feel like I've been
pretty critiqued
640
00:23:00,696 --> 00:23:01,954
Since we've gotten here.
641
00:23:02,106 --> 00:23:03,105
I like the further
we're getting into this,
642
00:23:03,198 --> 00:23:05,699
The less growth I'm having,
643
00:23:05,718 --> 00:23:08,460
And the more, like, okay,
I don't wanna piss you off,
644
00:23:08,613 --> 00:23:10,888
And I don't wanna ruin
your time.
645
00:23:11,039 --> 00:23:12,539
Being completely transparent,
I feel like I've given you
646
00:23:12,633 --> 00:23:15,709
The benefit of the doubt so far
647
00:23:15,728 --> 00:23:19,304
And that it hasn't been
really returned on my end.
648
00:23:19,399 --> 00:23:23,642
It's like, you know,
your way or the highway.
649
00:23:23,736 --> 00:23:25,218
I'm conflicted.
650
00:23:25,238 --> 00:23:27,888
I think I set
the expectation too high
651
00:23:27,982 --> 00:23:32,392
Coming into this after
our first day or two together.
652
00:23:32,486 --> 00:23:34,319
I think I expressed, like,
everything's so comfortable,
653
00:23:34,472 --> 00:23:35,654
And natural, and not awkward.
654
00:23:35,806 --> 00:23:36,831
And it's getting awkward now.
655
00:23:39,902 --> 00:23:42,235
- I understand
what you're saying.
656
00:23:42,329 --> 00:23:44,422
Like, I have to, like--
657
00:23:44,573 --> 00:23:46,498
Like, know that your heart
is in the right place.
658
00:23:46,592 --> 00:23:47,666
Like, I have to feel it.
659
00:23:47,818 --> 00:23:49,743
I have to see it,
like, commitment.
660
00:23:49,837 --> 00:23:51,487
And, like, you know, that is
661
00:23:51,505 --> 00:23:53,747
What dating in nashville
has done to me.
662
00:23:53,766 --> 00:23:56,341
And I think that it
maybe has made me
663
00:23:56,494 --> 00:23:59,586
A little more, like,
hard on the inside,
664
00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:00,938
If that makes sense.
665
00:24:01,165 --> 00:24:02,756
- Sure.
666
00:24:02,850 --> 00:24:04,257
- But I am trying.
667
00:24:04,277 --> 00:24:06,168
And I definitely
don't want you to feel
668
00:24:06,261 --> 00:24:07,778
Like you're being attacked.
669
00:24:08,005 --> 00:24:11,264
I know that these things are
going to take time.
670
00:24:11,284 --> 00:24:14,618
For me, like, attitude is,
like, a big part of, like,
671
00:24:14,845 --> 00:24:19,623
My sexual and, like,
emotional attraction.
672
00:24:19,850 --> 00:24:21,517
- Yeah.
673
00:24:21,535 --> 00:24:22,868
I totally respect that.
674
00:24:22,962 --> 00:24:29,717
♪ ♪
675
00:24:49,137 --> 00:24:52,564
- Hey, baby.
What's wrong?
676
00:24:52,658 --> 00:24:53,732
- [crying]
677
00:24:53,826 --> 00:24:55,159
- What's wrong?
678
00:24:55,310 --> 00:24:56,410
Talk to me.
679
00:25:00,666 --> 00:25:02,166
- Why not?
680
00:25:02,393 --> 00:25:03,667
- There's a dog restriction.
And...
681
00:25:05,746 --> 00:25:07,171
- No, that's not an option.
682
00:25:07,322 --> 00:25:08,413
Look at me.
683
00:25:08,566 --> 00:25:09,565
That's not an option.
684
00:25:09,658 --> 00:25:11,008
We're not abandoning the dogs.
685
00:25:15,906 --> 00:25:18,682
- I got the news
that my dogs...
686
00:25:18,909 --> 00:25:21,352
♪ ♪
687
00:25:21,579 --> 00:25:22,578
Sorry.
688
00:25:22,596 --> 00:25:25,839
♪ ♪
689
00:25:25,933 --> 00:25:27,933
I got the news that my dogs
won't be able to come
690
00:25:28,027 --> 00:25:29,752
Into this apartment.
691
00:25:29,770 --> 00:25:31,086
There's a two-dog limit,
692
00:25:31,179 --> 00:25:32,271
And between me and nicole,
693
00:25:32,365 --> 00:25:33,364
We have three dogs.
694
00:25:33,591 --> 00:25:35,515
♪ ♪
695
00:25:35,535 --> 00:25:36,759
Like, obviously,
I wanna do everything
696
00:25:36,777 --> 00:25:39,111
To make the marriage work.
697
00:25:39,263 --> 00:25:41,780
And everything's fine
with me and nicole.
698
00:25:41,932 --> 00:25:43,265
She's been amazing.
699
00:25:43,284 --> 00:25:44,950
But this is not easy.
700
00:25:45,044 --> 00:25:46,935
♪ ♪
701
00:25:46,954 --> 00:25:48,712
My dogs are...
702
00:25:55,446 --> 00:25:56,703
They've been with me
through everything.
703
00:25:56,722 --> 00:25:59,114
Like, I--
- I--I understand,
704
00:25:59,133 --> 00:26:00,224
And we're not gonna
just abandon them.
705
00:26:00,451 --> 00:26:01,633
- I can't just leave them
at my place
706
00:26:01,727 --> 00:26:04,136
And then, like, just check
on them every day.
707
00:26:04,288 --> 00:26:05,954
I can't do that.
- Okay. Okay.
708
00:26:05,973 --> 00:26:09,124
Listen.
Listen to me.
709
00:26:09,217 --> 00:26:11,551
We're gonna figure this out.
710
00:26:11,571 --> 00:26:13,053
I don't know
the solution right now.
711
00:26:13,147 --> 00:26:14,129
- I don't know what to do.
712
00:26:14,222 --> 00:26:15,631
- But we will figure it out.
713
00:26:15,649 --> 00:26:18,058
- I don't know what to do.
714
00:26:18,077 --> 00:26:19,726
I know they're just dogs.
People say that.
715
00:26:19,745 --> 00:26:22,062
But they literally get
separation anxiety.
716
00:26:22,156 --> 00:26:25,324
They get sad when I leave
for vacations or for any trip.
717
00:26:25,418 --> 00:26:27,400
Like, I [bleep]--I hate
that I [bleep] have
718
00:26:27,420 --> 00:26:29,920
To leave them now because,
like, this is the longest
719
00:26:30,147 --> 00:26:31,980
I've been without them.
They're like...
720
00:26:31,999 --> 00:26:33,239
You know, like,
I know they're okay.
721
00:26:33,259 --> 00:26:34,817
They're good.
722
00:26:34,835 --> 00:26:37,744
But, like, they mean
everything to be.
723
00:26:37,763 --> 00:26:39,988
I can't have them
barely involved in my life
724
00:26:40,007 --> 00:26:41,490
For eight weeks.
- No.
725
00:26:41,508 --> 00:26:42,766
- Like, it broke my heart
just to board them.
726
00:26:42,993 --> 00:26:44,417
- I know.
727
00:26:44,437 --> 00:26:46,770
This has been
our biggest concern to date.
728
00:26:46,922 --> 00:26:49,255
And we have been as close
to perfect as possible.
729
00:26:49,350 --> 00:26:51,424
And all we keep saying is
730
00:26:51,444 --> 00:26:53,093
We just have to make
the dogs work.
731
00:26:53,112 --> 00:26:55,170
Because if the dogs can work,
732
00:26:55,263 --> 00:26:57,597
We have no issue
with us working.
733
00:26:57,617 --> 00:26:59,783
And the dogs are not
working right now,
734
00:27:00,010 --> 00:27:03,362
So this could be
a big hurdle for us.
735
00:27:03,456 --> 00:27:04,938
I understand.
736
00:27:04,957 --> 00:27:06,606
And if we have to be apart
a little bit
737
00:27:06,626 --> 00:27:09,017
To make it work,
738
00:27:09,036 --> 00:27:11,036
We can do that.
739
00:27:11,188 --> 00:27:12,779
Our relationship
is strong enough
740
00:27:12,798 --> 00:27:14,206
That we don't need to be
on top of each other
741
00:27:14,300 --> 00:27:15,858
Every two seconds.
742
00:27:15,876 --> 00:27:17,968
And we will figure out
a way to make it work.
743
00:27:18,195 --> 00:27:19,803
I don't know
the solution in this moment
744
00:27:19,955 --> 00:27:22,473
Because we don't have
all options in front of us.
745
00:27:22,624 --> 00:27:24,533
But do you trust me?
746
00:27:24,551 --> 00:27:25,868
Do you trust me
that we're gonna figure out
747
00:27:25,886 --> 00:27:27,035
Something to make it work?
748
00:27:27,054 --> 00:27:29,037
- I do, and I--I just--
749
00:27:29,131 --> 00:27:30,873
I'm willing to do
everything and anything.
750
00:27:30,966 --> 00:27:32,724
I'm not willing to do this.
751
00:27:32,877 --> 00:27:34,877
- And I'm not willing
to let you do this.
752
00:27:34,895 --> 00:27:43,735
♪ ♪
753
00:27:43,829 --> 00:27:45,645
♪ ♪
754
00:27:45,739 --> 00:27:47,406
- So--can you hear me?
755
00:27:47,558 --> 00:27:48,982
Hello?
- I got you.
756
00:27:49,076 --> 00:27:50,650
Okay, what's going on?
757
00:27:50,670 --> 00:27:52,819
- So we just found out
that chris' dogs
758
00:27:52,838 --> 00:27:55,673
Are not allowed to move
into our building with us.
759
00:27:55,824 --> 00:27:57,749
The max is two dogs.
760
00:27:57,843 --> 00:28:01,512
So I don't know
if this will be an option,
761
00:28:01,739 --> 00:28:04,406
But if they will allow
us to swap out dogs,
762
00:28:04,499 --> 00:28:05,924
Like, we'll have
his dog sometimes,
763
00:28:06,076 --> 00:28:08,352
Charlie other times,
764
00:28:08,503 --> 00:28:11,096
Would you be willing to help
with charlie at some point
765
00:28:11,248 --> 00:28:12,481
If that's an option?
766
00:28:14,527 --> 00:28:16,084
- Of course.
767
00:28:16,103 --> 00:28:17,419
You want me to take
him to florida?
768
00:28:17,438 --> 00:28:19,438
♪ ♪
769
00:28:19,590 --> 00:28:22,090
- I--I can't be
without him for two months.
770
00:28:22,109 --> 00:28:24,517
And then I need chris
to be around him.
771
00:28:24,537 --> 00:28:26,036
I mean, charlie's
part of our family.
772
00:28:26,263 --> 00:28:28,263
- No, I understand.
You figure it out.
773
00:28:28,282 --> 00:28:30,207
I am--I am on board in
any way I can help you.
774
00:28:30,434 --> 00:28:31,357
- Thank you.
775
00:28:31,452 --> 00:28:32,692
I'm not super comfortable
776
00:28:32,712 --> 00:28:34,619
Not being with charlie either.
777
00:28:34,714 --> 00:28:38,623
But if this is what it takes
for the next few weeks
778
00:28:38,718 --> 00:28:41,885
To make this marriage work,
I am willing to do that.
779
00:28:42,112 --> 00:28:43,628
So I will--
780
00:28:43,781 --> 00:28:45,222
- It's an option.
781
00:28:45,373 --> 00:28:47,224
- Okay, thank you.
That's all I needed to know.
782
00:28:47,375 --> 00:28:48,708
Thank you.
783
00:28:48,728 --> 00:28:50,210
I will text you later.
Okay?
784
00:28:50,229 --> 00:28:51,395
I love you, and thank you.
- Okay.
785
00:28:51,622 --> 00:28:52,971
- Bye.
786
00:28:53,123 --> 00:28:55,649
♪ ♪
787
00:28:58,553 --> 00:29:00,053
I don't know if you're
in the mood for coffee,
788
00:29:00,147 --> 00:29:02,239
But in case you are,
I brought some.
789
00:29:02,466 --> 00:29:05,467
- Thank you.
- So I just spoke to my dad.
790
00:29:05,486 --> 00:29:07,986
He said he would have
no problem coming back
791
00:29:08,138 --> 00:29:09,488
To watch charlie for a week.
792
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:13,325
Or if it came down to it,
793
00:29:13,477 --> 00:29:15,753
I can't say I would be
totally comfortable,
794
00:29:15,980 --> 00:29:18,589
But I would be willing
to let my dad take charlie
795
00:29:18,816 --> 00:29:22,150
Down to florida
for a little bit.
796
00:29:22,244 --> 00:29:24,244
- I don't wanna ask you
that, though.
797
00:29:24,263 --> 00:29:26,263
- If that's what it takes
to make this work,
798
00:29:26,490 --> 00:29:28,824
I'm okay with that.
799
00:29:28,842 --> 00:29:32,160
And yes, you might have
to watch me cry a little bit
800
00:29:32,254 --> 00:29:35,013
Because I miss him,
but that's--
801
00:29:35,165 --> 00:29:37,441
You know, it is what it is.
802
00:29:37,592 --> 00:29:40,002
- Her willing to make
that sacrifice just shows me
803
00:29:40,020 --> 00:29:42,020
That she's willing to do,
like, whatever it takes
804
00:29:42,172 --> 00:29:45,173
To, like,
make this work.
805
00:29:45,267 --> 00:29:47,618
And I think that's amazing
806
00:29:47,769 --> 00:29:48,952
Because that's what I think
marriage is about,
807
00:29:49,104 --> 00:29:50,937
Is, like, compromise
808
00:29:50,956 --> 00:29:52,364
And trying to help each other
809
00:29:52,516 --> 00:29:56,442
And making,
you know, sacrifices, honestly.
810
00:29:56,537 --> 00:29:57,686
- We're making this work.
811
00:29:57,704 --> 00:30:04,426
♪ ♪
812
00:30:07,698 --> 00:30:10,290
- Did you enjoy your you time
with your workout?
813
00:30:10,384 --> 00:30:12,034
- Yeah.
I felt good.
814
00:30:12,127 --> 00:30:14,127
Whenever I'm, like, off
of my routine,
815
00:30:14,221 --> 00:30:16,462
If I don't, like, get
that workout in,
816
00:30:16,482 --> 00:30:18,315
It kind of, like, throws
my day off, so--
817
00:30:18,542 --> 00:30:19,983
And now I came back.
818
00:30:20,135 --> 00:30:21,902
You had breakfast ready,
so I really appreciate that.
819
00:30:22,971 --> 00:30:24,396
How did you sleep?
820
00:30:24,490 --> 00:30:25,972
- I was tired yesterday,
821
00:30:25,991 --> 00:30:27,825
So I slept really good
last night.
822
00:30:27,976 --> 00:30:29,660
I was out.
823
00:30:29,887 --> 00:30:32,145
- So how do you feel overall
about the dinner last night?
824
00:30:32,239 --> 00:30:34,314
Like, it seemed
kind of off-putting
825
00:30:34,333 --> 00:30:35,907
When we had, like,
separate ratings.
826
00:30:36,001 --> 00:30:37,817
- It seemed off-putting?
827
00:30:37,837 --> 00:30:39,394
- I don't know.
828
00:30:39,413 --> 00:30:40,412
When you gave your number
and I gave my number,
829
00:30:40,506 --> 00:30:42,397
I felt, like, a shift.
830
00:30:42,416 --> 00:30:43,674
Or I mean,
I could have read it wrong.
831
00:30:43,825 --> 00:30:45,233
- A shift?
No.
832
00:30:45,252 --> 00:30:46,751
I mean, I said
before I said my number
833
00:30:46,846 --> 00:30:49,329
That my number was gonna be
different from yours.
834
00:30:49,348 --> 00:30:50,922
The past few days
have just been
835
00:30:51,075 --> 00:30:53,925
A little complicated for me.
836
00:30:54,019 --> 00:30:55,577
- I mean, that's, like, one
of the reasons, like,
837
00:30:55,596 --> 00:30:57,337
I kind of needed my me time
this morning
838
00:30:57,356 --> 00:30:58,504
Because, like, honestly, like,
839
00:30:58,524 --> 00:31:01,341
This whole process has been
a lot.
840
00:31:01,435 --> 00:31:03,509
And I've kind of been, like,
trying to process that.
841
00:31:03,529 --> 00:31:06,421
Like, is there something
I could be doing differently?
842
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,773
Like, in my mind, I keep
saying it's only a week.
843
00:31:08,926 --> 00:31:10,258
It's not, like,
as a defense mechanism.
844
00:31:10,277 --> 00:31:12,018
It just is.
845
00:31:12,037 --> 00:31:14,279
So I've been like, beating
myself up, like, honestly.
846
00:31:14,431 --> 00:31:15,855
Like, what can I do?
847
00:31:15,875 --> 00:31:17,449
Is there something
that we could do?
848
00:31:17,601 --> 00:31:20,377
Like, because in my mind,
time will solve it.
849
00:31:20,528 --> 00:31:22,787
- Your family
has, like, told me,
850
00:31:22,882 --> 00:31:25,698
Like, "you're gonna have
to pull things out of him."
851
00:31:25,718 --> 00:31:28,886
And so it was more so me
also, like, taking a step back.
852
00:31:29,113 --> 00:31:31,463
Like, I can't expect
anybody to--you know,
853
00:31:31,615 --> 00:31:33,615
To feel the way that I feel.
854
00:31:33,634 --> 00:31:35,375
Now, did it take me
a minute to be like,
855
00:31:35,394 --> 00:31:37,119
"oh, no, like, what
is"--you know,
856
00:31:37,137 --> 00:31:39,563
Yeah, but I'm trying
to take the approach
857
00:31:39,790 --> 00:31:41,381
Of giving you grace.
858
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:44,476
Because I feel like,
when it comes to our feelings,
859
00:31:44,628 --> 00:31:46,386
We're different.
- Right.
860
00:31:46,405 --> 00:31:49,131
Like, I feel like we both
are here for the same reason.
861
00:31:49,224 --> 00:31:51,057
I just kind of wanted you
to be aware of, like,
862
00:31:51,151 --> 00:31:52,817
Where my head is 'cause, like,
it's been kind of, like,
863
00:31:52,912 --> 00:31:54,636
Stressing me out.
864
00:31:54,655 --> 00:31:56,396
I'm just like, "dang" 'cause
right now, I feel
865
00:31:56,490 --> 00:31:59,732
More of, like, a friendly vibe.
866
00:31:59,752 --> 00:32:02,661
But that's not
necessarily a bad thing.
867
00:32:02,813 --> 00:32:04,162
Like, I don't know.
868
00:32:04,256 --> 00:32:06,982
If I had a crisis and I was
in an accident tomorrow,
869
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:10,152
I have 100% confidence
that, like, you would be right
870
00:32:10,170 --> 00:32:11,929
There in the hospital bed.
871
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:14,247
If I had to roll over and
you had to wipe my ass, like,
872
00:32:14,341 --> 00:32:15,507
I know you would do that.
873
00:32:15,659 --> 00:32:17,267
Like, I'm confident like.
874
00:32:17,419 --> 00:32:20,086
And it's like I already
figured that out in one week.
875
00:32:20,105 --> 00:32:22,180
You know, so I feel
like the other stuff,
876
00:32:22,332 --> 00:32:25,834
For me, I just need time
to, like, get there.
877
00:32:25,852 --> 00:32:27,169
I'm just hoping, like--
878
00:32:27,187 --> 00:32:28,670
Like, you said
you'll give me grace.
879
00:32:28,689 --> 00:32:30,172
I'm hoping
you can continue to do so.
880
00:32:30,190 --> 00:32:31,506
- Yeah.
881
00:32:31,525 --> 00:32:34,509
♪ ♪
882
00:32:34,528 --> 00:32:36,361
I'm not trying
to be nobody friend.
883
00:32:36,455 --> 00:32:37,770
I'm trying to be a wife
out here in these streets.
884
00:32:37,864 --> 00:32:41,533
So I guess I just didn't
wanna hear the "friend" word
885
00:32:41,627 --> 00:32:42,851
From my husband.
886
00:32:42,869 --> 00:32:49,282
♪ ♪
887
00:32:49,301 --> 00:32:51,617
- So we just met
with the executive producers
888
00:32:51,637 --> 00:32:54,287
Of the show to really
kind of talk
889
00:32:54,306 --> 00:32:55,806
Through our options
with the dogs.
890
00:32:55,957 --> 00:32:57,549
- The dog situation.
891
00:32:57,701 --> 00:33:01,536
Charlie will still be a part
of our family and our lives.
892
00:33:01,555 --> 00:33:03,221
He just won't be
living directly with us
893
00:33:03,373 --> 00:33:05,298
For the next few weeks.
894
00:33:05,392 --> 00:33:06,891
He will be living
at my apartment
895
00:33:06,986 --> 00:33:09,211
With one of my family members.
896
00:33:09,229 --> 00:33:12,214
So this way, he can
still come hang with us
897
00:33:12,232 --> 00:33:13,657
And be part of the family.
898
00:33:13,884 --> 00:33:16,976
At the end of this,
we will find a space
899
00:33:16,996 --> 00:33:19,496
That allows
all three of our dogs
900
00:33:19,647 --> 00:33:23,000
And has a beautiful backyard
for them to run around in.
901
00:33:23,151 --> 00:33:24,226
And that's that.
902
00:33:24,244 --> 00:33:26,394
♪ ♪
903
00:33:26,413 --> 00:33:31,157
- ♪ you're breaking
through my walls ♪
904
00:33:31,251 --> 00:33:33,235
- You have been so messy.
You have things everywhere.
905
00:33:33,328 --> 00:33:35,328
- I have been on vacation.
906
00:33:35,422 --> 00:33:36,662
This is not how I live at home.
907
00:33:36,682 --> 00:33:37,922
- I sure hope not.
908
00:33:38,075 --> 00:33:39,574
- At home,
I'm, like, a neat freak.
909
00:33:39,593 --> 00:33:41,852
Like, you'll be amazed
to see my house.
910
00:33:42,003 --> 00:33:44,521
Like, suits are
in line and color coordinated
911
00:33:44,672 --> 00:33:47,858
And organized
and very detailed in the house.
912
00:33:48,009 --> 00:33:50,435
- Well, I shall see.
913
00:33:50,587 --> 00:33:52,195
- The honeymoon is over.
914
00:33:52,422 --> 00:33:54,180
The real challenge
is gonna come
915
00:33:54,199 --> 00:33:57,367
From actually, like,
living everyday life together.
916
00:33:57,594 --> 00:33:59,277
- I'm curious to see,
like, how I'm gonna adjust
917
00:33:59,371 --> 00:34:00,686
Because I've--
918
00:34:00,706 --> 00:34:02,113
- You've never lived
with someone.
919
00:34:02,266 --> 00:34:05,024
- Yeah, I've never--
never lived with anyone.
920
00:34:05,044 --> 00:34:06,768
- What are you thinking about
921
00:34:06,787 --> 00:34:08,545
You want the apartment
to look like?
922
00:34:08,772 --> 00:34:13,775
- The perfect way to describe
it would be nice, elegant,
923
00:34:13,868 --> 00:34:16,795
But also, if some strangers
walked in,
924
00:34:16,889 --> 00:34:18,221
I want them to know
that black people live there.
925
00:34:18,373 --> 00:34:20,298
- [laughs]
926
00:34:20,450 --> 00:34:22,225
Okay.
927
00:34:22,452 --> 00:34:24,227
- I like a lot of--
- so modern.
928
00:34:24,379 --> 00:34:25,470
- I like a lot of black art.
I like a lot of black art.
929
00:34:25,622 --> 00:34:26,621
- Okay.
- Yeah.
930
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:28,231
- So, like, a modern chic?
931
00:34:28,383 --> 00:34:30,049
- Modern chic.
Yes.
932
00:34:30,069 --> 00:34:31,884
- Okay, we're going
for modern chic
933
00:34:31,904 --> 00:34:34,387
In the new place.
I think that's easy.
934
00:34:34,406 --> 00:34:36,239
- So what are
your top priorities
935
00:34:36,391 --> 00:34:39,968
For, like, housing?
936
00:34:39,986 --> 00:34:42,728
- I don't know.
I would say I'm pretty simple,
937
00:34:42,748 --> 00:34:45,398
I like to think,
like just cleanliness
938
00:34:45,417 --> 00:34:47,992
Or a little bit
of organization.
939
00:34:48,145 --> 00:34:50,478
I like to keep pretty cool
in the house.
940
00:34:50,497 --> 00:34:53,481
- Okay, well, good thing
I have 20,000 hoodies.
941
00:34:53,500 --> 00:34:55,483
- [laughs]
942
00:34:55,502 --> 00:34:57,335
- I would say I'm kind of
excited to head home.
943
00:34:57,487 --> 00:35:00,655
Like, this is so far
out of his comfort zone.
944
00:35:00,674 --> 00:35:02,841
Like, I'm like, "okay, well,
maybe it'll get better,
945
00:35:02,993 --> 00:35:04,175
"like, once we get back home
946
00:35:04,328 --> 00:35:05,827
And he can, like, go back
in his bubble."
947
00:35:05,846 --> 00:35:07,662
Like--and we both
are big people
948
00:35:07,681 --> 00:35:10,181
And, like, needing time
and needing space.
949
00:35:10,334 --> 00:35:12,016
So I'm looking forward to it.
950
00:35:12,169 --> 00:35:13,259
♪ ♪
951
00:35:13,278 --> 00:35:15,445
- Shoes.
952
00:35:15,597 --> 00:35:16,929
It's pretty good here.
953
00:35:17,023 --> 00:35:19,783
It's going to be
a change for her and I
954
00:35:20,010 --> 00:35:22,026
To bring somebody
into my life, day to day,
955
00:35:22,179 --> 00:35:23,620
Every single day.
956
00:35:23,847 --> 00:35:27,182
We're gonna be able to get
into that deeper level
957
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:29,960
And see each other
in a different light.
958
00:35:30,111 --> 00:35:31,202
Bye, room.
959
00:35:31,355 --> 00:35:32,778
Farewell.
960
00:35:32,798 --> 00:35:33,705
- We'll miss you.
961
00:35:33,799 --> 00:35:35,114
- It's been fun.
962
00:35:35,208 --> 00:35:36,967
Well, time to head back
to reality.
963
00:35:37,194 --> 00:35:38,618
- Thank you, 'cause that
is too heavy for me.
964
00:35:38,637 --> 00:35:40,712
- Yeah.
Back to your whole life.
965
00:35:40,806 --> 00:35:43,031
- Whole life.
966
00:35:43,049 --> 00:35:45,533
- Maybe I should get
the door for you.
967
00:35:45,552 --> 00:35:47,035
- Why?
- So you can go with the bag.
968
00:35:47,053 --> 00:35:48,553
- Oh, so I can get the--
oh, yeah, there we go.
969
00:35:48,647 --> 00:35:49,704
That makes more sense.
970
00:35:49,723 --> 00:35:59,214
♪ ♪
971
00:35:59,232 --> 00:36:01,549
♪ ♪
972
00:36:01,568 --> 00:36:03,660
- We're our way to the airport.
- Yeah.
973
00:36:03,887 --> 00:36:05,162
- Did everyone have fun
in jamaica?
974
00:36:05,389 --> 00:36:07,071
- Yeah.
975
00:36:07,224 --> 00:36:08,573
- Everyone ready to go home?
976
00:36:08,725 --> 00:36:10,241
All: Yes.
977
00:36:10,394 --> 00:36:13,912
♪ ♪
978
00:36:14,006 --> 00:36:17,399
- When we get back, we're gonna
move into new apartment.
979
00:36:17,492 --> 00:36:19,083
That's when
the real work starts.
980
00:36:19,236 --> 00:36:20,177
- The honeymoon's over.
981
00:36:20,404 --> 00:36:22,161
♪ ♪
982
00:36:22,255 --> 00:36:23,738
Back to life.
- Here we are.
983
00:36:23,757 --> 00:36:30,745
♪ ♪
984
00:36:30,838 --> 00:36:32,247
- I'm excited to see
this new place
985
00:36:32,265 --> 00:36:34,024
We're about to move into.
986
00:36:34,251 --> 00:36:36,267
I actually am going
straight there.
987
00:36:36,420 --> 00:36:37,343
- Straight
to our new apartment.
988
00:36:37,362 --> 00:36:38,603
So...
989
00:36:38,755 --> 00:36:39,604
- Ready to go to sleep.
990
00:36:39,756 --> 00:36:44,183
♪ ♪
991
00:36:44,277 --> 00:36:45,760
- Long day, long hallway.
992
00:36:45,853 --> 00:36:46,870
- It's good to be home though.
993
00:36:47,097 --> 00:36:49,855
- But we get to go
to our new home.
994
00:36:49,950 --> 00:36:51,616
- All right.
This is it.
995
00:36:51,768 --> 00:36:52,858
♪ ♪
996
00:36:52,878 --> 00:36:55,437
- We are right here.
- Yes.
997
00:36:55,530 --> 00:36:57,214
- With the honeymoon over,
it's time
998
00:36:57,441 --> 00:37:00,124
For real life to start
and for our couples
999
00:37:00,277 --> 00:37:02,034
To move in together.
1000
00:37:02,128 --> 00:37:03,887
- So this is 313.
1001
00:37:04,114 --> 00:37:05,705
And my dad--
1002
00:37:05,799 --> 00:37:07,282
I used to visit him in detroit.
1003
00:37:07,375 --> 00:37:09,617
313 is the area code
for detroit.
1004
00:37:09,636 --> 00:37:11,043
This is kind of like symbolism.
1005
00:37:11,063 --> 00:37:12,395
- Good juju.
Yeah.
1006
00:37:12,622 --> 00:37:15,232
- So let's see what else
this place has to offer.
1007
00:37:15,459 --> 00:37:18,902
♪ ♪
1008
00:37:19,053 --> 00:37:20,812
- Oh, my god.
1009
00:37:20,906 --> 00:37:22,388
- ♪ this is life ♪
1010
00:37:22,407 --> 00:37:23,889
♪ I'm gonna run ♪
1011
00:37:23,984 --> 00:37:25,483
♪ I'm gonna reach
for the sky ♪
1012
00:37:25,577 --> 00:37:27,893
- Ooh.
Oh, look.
1013
00:37:27,988 --> 00:37:31,139
It's the sign from the wedding.
1014
00:37:31,157 --> 00:37:32,490
- This is cool.
1015
00:37:32,584 --> 00:37:34,900
- Sweet pad.
- Aw.
1016
00:37:34,995 --> 00:37:37,495
- Cute.
- Okay, this is pretty big.
1017
00:37:37,589 --> 00:37:40,832
- Each couple is provided
with a neutral living space
1018
00:37:40,984 --> 00:37:43,075
To start their marriage
on equal footing.
1019
00:37:43,169 --> 00:37:44,427
- Lucky bracelet.
1020
00:37:44,654 --> 00:37:47,097
- But cohabitating
may not be easy.
1021
00:37:47,324 --> 00:37:49,248
- We got enough matching stuff.
We got luggage.
1022
00:37:49,268 --> 00:37:50,658
We got t-shirts.
I'm just getting...
1023
00:37:50,752 --> 00:37:52,269
- Are you overwhelmed?
- Beaten over the head.
1024
00:37:52,420 --> 00:37:55,105
Yeah.
- Sorry, husband.
1025
00:37:55,332 --> 00:37:57,015
- Despite what they learned
about each other
1026
00:37:57,109 --> 00:38:01,169
On their honeymoon, each couple
still has a long way to go
1027
00:38:01,187 --> 00:38:03,338
To really understand
their spouse
1028
00:38:03,431 --> 00:38:06,841
As they merge their lives
together under one roof.
1029
00:38:06,934 --> 00:38:09,786
- Dishwasher,
which I never use.
1030
00:38:09,937 --> 00:38:11,771
- You never use--
you always hand-wash?
1031
00:38:11,865 --> 00:38:13,105
- I hand-wash everything.
- All right.
1032
00:38:13,125 --> 00:38:16,017
- Dog.
Dog.
1033
00:38:16,036 --> 00:38:17,702
- Their first night
in their shared apartment
1034
00:38:17,796 --> 00:38:19,612
Is the start of a new chapter.
1035
00:38:19,631 --> 00:38:21,039
- ♪ this is life ♪
1036
00:38:21,191 --> 00:38:22,040
- Oh, my goodness.
1037
00:38:22,192 --> 00:38:23,282
The cabana.
1038
00:38:23,302 --> 00:38:25,117
We have to have a pool party.
1039
00:38:25,211 --> 00:38:27,211
- And only they can determine
1040
00:38:27,364 --> 00:38:29,714
If it will be filled with joy
or sorrow.
1041
00:38:29,866 --> 00:38:30,956
♪ ♪
1042
00:38:30,976 --> 00:38:32,717
- ♪ this is life ♪
1043
00:38:32,869 --> 00:38:36,146
♪ ♪
1044
00:38:36,297 --> 00:38:38,982
- Oh.
- This is nice.
1045
00:38:39,133 --> 00:38:41,543
This is a good one, then.
[laughs]
1046
00:38:41,636 --> 00:38:43,653
He's like, "you can have
that one."
1047
00:38:43,805 --> 00:38:45,155
I don't do those blankets
in the summer,
1048
00:38:45,306 --> 00:38:47,215
Although I do--
- what it is, is, like, mink.
1049
00:38:47,308 --> 00:38:50,643
- [laughs]
it's like a fur coat.
1050
00:38:50,737 --> 00:38:51,811
So much happened
on the honeymoon
1051
00:38:51,905 --> 00:38:53,555
That kind of set us back.
1052
00:38:53,648 --> 00:38:55,999
But I think you can
absolutely grow in love.
1053
00:38:56,150 --> 00:38:58,059
I've been
in a relationship before
1054
00:38:58,152 --> 00:38:59,836
Where the physical
attraction was not,
1055
00:39:00,063 --> 00:39:02,246
Like, straight fire
right when you came in.
1056
00:39:02,341 --> 00:39:04,065
I know that love takes work.
1057
00:39:04,158 --> 00:39:05,917
I know that
relationships take work.
1058
00:39:06,011 --> 00:39:08,678
And they--you have
to water it for it to grow.
1059
00:39:08,905 --> 00:39:10,905
- I'm excited to fill up
the fridge with food.
1060
00:39:10,998 --> 00:39:11,906
- Yeah?
What's the first thing
1061
00:39:11,925 --> 00:39:13,257
You wanna make?
1062
00:39:13,410 --> 00:39:14,333
- That's a good question.
1063
00:39:14,427 --> 00:39:16,853
I wanna have some friends over,
1064
00:39:17,004 --> 00:39:19,247
And I wanna do
a mexican fiesta night.
1065
00:39:19,340 --> 00:39:21,507
We'll have to arrange
chairs, though.
1066
00:39:21,601 --> 00:39:22,859
- Yeah, we'll figure it out.
1067
00:39:23,086 --> 00:39:25,028
- We're gonna need
more seating.
1068
00:39:25,255 --> 00:39:27,030
- Maybe I should--
it would be really hard
1069
00:39:27,181 --> 00:39:30,033
To get my love sack over here,
but it is an option.
1070
00:39:30,260 --> 00:39:31,593
- Love sack?
1071
00:39:31,611 --> 00:39:35,872
- Yeah, it's a big poof,
a massive chair.
1072
00:39:36,099 --> 00:39:38,875
- That's what I call mine too.
- Oh. [laughs]
1073
00:39:39,102 --> 00:39:41,936
- Where's hank gonna stay
during the day?
1074
00:39:42,029 --> 00:39:45,364
- Hank will, I mean,
either stay here--
1075
00:39:45,384 --> 00:39:47,942
He's so good.
1076
00:39:47,961 --> 00:39:49,869
He, like, won't--he doesn't
chew on anything anymore.
1077
00:39:49,963 --> 00:39:51,537
He's almost five.
- Yeah.
1078
00:39:51,556 --> 00:39:53,131
- So he'll either chill here,
1079
00:39:53,225 --> 00:39:56,300
Or he can come with you to work
if you wanna take him.
1080
00:39:56,395 --> 00:39:59,303
He's not allowed at the salon.
1081
00:39:59,456 --> 00:40:01,806
- I absolutely love dogs.
1082
00:40:01,958 --> 00:40:03,291
I'm a huge dog guy.
1083
00:40:03,384 --> 00:40:04,142
I haven't been able to have
a dog
1084
00:40:04,294 --> 00:40:05,476
In quite some years
1085
00:40:05,629 --> 00:40:07,386
Because I do travel
quite a bit.
1086
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:09,313
And I think it's gonna be
great having a dog around.
1087
00:40:09,466 --> 00:40:11,983
And looking forward
to having more time
1088
00:40:12,077 --> 00:40:13,635
Collectively together.
1089
00:40:13,728 --> 00:40:14,727
I think that's what
we really need
1090
00:40:14,821 --> 00:40:16,413
In the relationship
1091
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:18,990
Is more time in the saddle
together, not--
1092
00:40:19,142 --> 00:40:20,750
Not the proverbial
sexual saddle,
1093
00:40:20,977 --> 00:40:23,903
But just, you know, time
to really get to know
1094
00:40:23,922 --> 00:40:25,755
Each other on that next scale.
1095
00:40:25,982 --> 00:40:28,741
Ah.
1096
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:30,242
- Sparkly.
- That's how you, like, go far.
1097
00:40:30,336 --> 00:40:32,320
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
1098
00:40:32,338 --> 00:40:34,005
There you go.
Good.
1099
00:40:34,157 --> 00:40:36,081
- Suckers are white.
1100
00:40:36,101 --> 00:40:38,826
- Light.
1101
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:41,329
- Just kidding.
It didn't work.
1102
00:40:41,422 --> 00:40:42,997
I'm gonna do it again
on that one.
1103
00:40:43,090 --> 00:40:44,274
[clapping]
1104
00:40:44,501 --> 00:40:46,017
[both laugh]
1105
00:40:46,111 --> 00:40:47,259
- It's gonna be a good week.
1106
00:40:47,279 --> 00:40:48,260
- Better than the honeymoon.
1107
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:49,946
[both laugh]
1108
00:40:50,173 --> 00:40:55,618
♪ ♪
1109
00:40:55,770 --> 00:40:57,361
- We have a lot
of things to do.
1110
00:40:57,514 --> 00:40:58,621
- What else you gotta move?
1111
00:40:58,848 --> 00:41:00,014
♪ ♪
1112
00:41:00,033 --> 00:41:02,292
- Just me and my clothes.
1113
00:41:02,443 --> 00:41:03,868
- How organized are you in
your closet, though?
1114
00:41:03,962 --> 00:41:04,794
'cause--
1115
00:41:06,189 --> 00:41:08,131
- [sighs]
- [sighs]
1116
00:41:08,282 --> 00:41:09,615
It's gonna be--
it's not gonna be a mess
1117
00:41:09,709 --> 00:41:10,950
With us together.
1118
00:41:10,969 --> 00:41:12,385
Don't you worry.
1119
00:41:14,288 --> 00:41:18,366
So what about washing
and cleaning and mopping?
1120
00:41:18,459 --> 00:41:20,643
- Do you want our clothes
washed together?
1121
00:41:20,870 --> 00:41:23,480
- No, I would probably wash
your clothes first.
1122
00:41:23,707 --> 00:41:25,373
But you have to show me
how you like your clothes
1123
00:41:25,391 --> 00:41:27,800
To be washed
because I know sometimes,
1124
00:41:27,894 --> 00:41:31,303
People have certain washing
ingredients where they add,
1125
00:41:31,323 --> 00:41:35,717
Like, the fabric softener,
the detergent, the beads,
1126
00:41:35,735 --> 00:41:37,643
Like, a million things.
1127
00:41:37,737 --> 00:41:38,661
- I just put it in there.
1128
00:41:38,813 --> 00:41:40,479
- Okay, great.
Me too.
1129
00:41:40,499 --> 00:41:42,481
I don't have a washing recipe.
- I don't have--no.
1130
00:41:42,575 --> 00:41:44,000
- Me either.
Me either.
1131
00:41:44,227 --> 00:41:45,651
That makes me sneeze.
Like, I can't handle
1132
00:41:45,670 --> 00:41:48,004
All those scents
and everything.
1133
00:41:48,155 --> 00:41:50,823
How do you think living
together is gonna be?
1134
00:41:50,917 --> 00:41:54,844
- I think, for one, just always
having someone, like, around--
1135
00:41:54,996 --> 00:41:56,420
But some people--you know,
1136
00:41:56,573 --> 00:41:58,072
They like their personal space,
you know?
1137
00:41:58,091 --> 00:41:59,757
Like, we have to learn
each other's--
1138
00:41:59,851 --> 00:42:01,409
Like, how we live.
1139
00:42:01,427 --> 00:42:03,853
- Right, our living styles.
- Yeah.
1140
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:06,597
- Oh, don't worry.
I'll definitely let you know.
1141
00:42:06,750 --> 00:42:08,916
I am looking forward
to living with shaquille.
1142
00:42:08,935 --> 00:42:10,509
We're at a good space.
1143
00:42:10,603 --> 00:42:11,919
I feel like it can be better.
1144
00:42:11,938 --> 00:42:15,514
And I know that it
takes me to making
1145
00:42:15,608 --> 00:42:18,276
Certain intentional moves
1146
00:42:18,428 --> 00:42:20,278
To have a better relationship
with shaquille
1147
00:42:20,372 --> 00:42:24,023
In order for him to feel
wanted in this marriage
1148
00:42:24,042 --> 00:42:27,526
And create the love
whenever that happens.
1149
00:42:27,546 --> 00:42:28,619
So I'm just hoping
that shaquille and I
1150
00:42:28,772 --> 00:42:30,438
Can grow from here.
1151
00:42:30,456 --> 00:42:31,214
- Yeah.
1152
00:42:37,797 --> 00:42:38,721
Well, good night.
1153
00:42:38,873 --> 00:42:40,615
- Good night.
1154
00:42:40,633 --> 00:42:41,966
- Sweet dreams.
1155
00:42:42,118 --> 00:42:46,545
♪ ♪
1156
00:42:46,565 --> 00:42:48,122
- Let's test out the couch.
You know we love a good couch.
1157
00:42:48,215 --> 00:42:49,214
- We haven't tested
the couch yet.
1158
00:42:49,234 --> 00:42:52,310
- We have to get
a little blankie.
1159
00:42:52,404 --> 00:42:54,145
Here, your pillow.
1160
00:42:54,297 --> 00:42:56,889
♪ ♪
1161
00:42:56,983 --> 00:42:58,241
Everything has to be equal.
1162
00:42:58,468 --> 00:43:00,484
You get a pillow.
I get a pillow.
1163
00:43:00,579 --> 00:43:03,580
So this is our new home.
1164
00:43:03,807 --> 00:43:04,414
How do you feel about it?
- It's comfortable.
1165
00:43:04,641 --> 00:43:05,748
- I like it.
1166
00:43:05,900 --> 00:43:07,308
It's--it's comfortable.
It's nice.
1167
00:43:07,401 --> 00:43:08,918
I mean, we--we still have
to add
1168
00:43:09,145 --> 00:43:11,254
Kind of a little bit
of our touch to it, but--
1169
00:43:11,405 --> 00:43:13,405
You know.
And obviously, the dogs.
1170
00:43:13,499 --> 00:43:14,573
It's not complete without them.
1171
00:43:14,593 --> 00:43:15,908
- Obviously, it would be
1172
00:43:15,927 --> 00:43:17,168
A little less quiet
with the dogs.
1173
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:19,429
But anything you
are worried about?
1174
00:43:19,656 --> 00:43:21,264
You won't hurt my feelings.
You can just say it.
1175
00:43:21,415 --> 00:43:23,174
- No, I mean--
1176
00:43:23,326 --> 00:43:24,508
I mean, obviously,
we--we already talked
1177
00:43:24,661 --> 00:43:25,660
About introducing the dogs.
1178
00:43:25,678 --> 00:43:27,419
But if anything annoys us
1179
00:43:27,439 --> 00:43:28,830
About each other
that we're doing,
1180
00:43:28,848 --> 00:43:30,273
We just need to be able...
- Call it out.
1181
00:43:30,424 --> 00:43:31,757
- To call it out and talk
about it
1182
00:43:31,776 --> 00:43:33,776
Because the last thing we want
1183
00:43:34,003 --> 00:43:36,595
Is for something
to blow up in one of our faces
1184
00:43:36,615 --> 00:43:38,097
And, like, someone to overreact
and, like,
1185
00:43:38,191 --> 00:43:39,690
It lead to this huge fight.
1186
00:43:39,843 --> 00:43:43,102
And I don't like drama.
I don't like fights.
1187
00:43:43,196 --> 00:43:45,363
I mean, I'm willing to,
obviously, adjust my habits.
1188
00:43:45,515 --> 00:43:47,014
And I know I'm going
to have to.
1189
00:43:47,108 --> 00:43:48,273
- Same.
- Like, I'm not--I'm not--
1190
00:43:48,368 --> 00:43:49,459
I'm not naive to think
that I'm not--
1191
00:43:49,610 --> 00:43:51,610
I'm gonna be able
to just completely do
1192
00:43:51,704 --> 00:43:53,020
All my normal habits
1193
00:43:53,114 --> 00:43:54,038
And nothing is
gonna bother you.
1194
00:43:54,132 --> 00:43:56,466
- And we've been as--
1195
00:43:56,617 --> 00:43:59,469
As close to perfect
as I think two people could be
1196
00:43:59,620 --> 00:44:01,304
In the situation we're in.
1197
00:44:01,531 --> 00:44:04,198
And I don't want
little household, like, chores
1198
00:44:04,291 --> 00:44:07,126
Or habits to be
something that causes
1199
00:44:07,145 --> 00:44:08,436
Friction in our relationship.
1200
00:44:11,983 --> 00:44:15,042
Would you say maybe...
1201
00:44:15,136 --> 00:44:16,227
- Yeah, I would.
What about you?
1202
00:44:16,379 --> 00:44:17,395
- Would you say yes?
1203
00:44:17,489 --> 00:44:18,488
- Yeah, I would.
1204
00:44:18,639 --> 00:44:19,638
- I would say yes.
1205
00:44:19,732 --> 00:44:20,615
Do you love me?
1206
00:44:22,810 --> 00:44:24,068
- No, not right now.
[laughing]
1207
00:44:24,162 --> 00:44:25,161
Not right now.
1208
00:44:25,388 --> 00:44:26,737
Not yet.
1209
00:44:26,890 --> 00:44:28,222
I like you.
1210
00:44:28,315 --> 00:44:29,481
- I like you too,
but I don't love you.
1211
00:44:29,575 --> 00:44:30,908
- I know.
- Okay.
1212
00:44:31,060 --> 00:44:32,985
- So I say it's been
a long day,
1213
00:44:33,079 --> 00:44:35,505
So let's get ready
for bed.
1214
00:44:35,732 --> 00:44:36,898
First night--
- first night in our new home.
1215
00:44:36,916 --> 00:44:38,824
♪ ♪
1216
00:44:38,918 --> 00:44:41,903
Chris and I are definitely
coming off our honeymoon high.
1217
00:44:41,921 --> 00:44:43,754
And we were just relaxing
and enjoying
1218
00:44:43,848 --> 00:44:45,089
Each other in jamaica.
1219
00:44:45,241 --> 00:44:46,498
But now, reality
is setting in.
1220
00:44:46,592 --> 00:44:48,000
But I'm really looking forward
1221
00:44:48,019 --> 00:44:49,927
To coming home to him
every night.
1222
00:44:50,079 --> 00:44:51,579
And even if there's
work stress,
1223
00:44:51,597 --> 00:44:53,022
Even if we're not
at our best selves
1224
00:44:53,249 --> 00:44:54,932
Every night,
I'm really looking forward
1225
00:44:55,026 --> 00:44:57,360
To going through that with him
and not doing it alone.
1226
00:44:57,587 --> 00:45:00,530
- I can't thank you enough
for, like, your support.
1227
00:45:00,681 --> 00:45:02,423
And honestly,
just the willingness
1228
00:45:02,442 --> 00:45:05,702
Of having your dad come out
and watch charlie--like--
1229
00:45:05,853 --> 00:45:07,945
Like, I hate that we
even have to think to use that
1230
00:45:08,097 --> 00:45:09,372
As an option right now.
1231
00:45:09,599 --> 00:45:11,449
- We're all family now.
That's what we do.
1232
00:45:11,601 --> 00:45:13,358
We're the crazy dog people.
- I really wanna thank you--
1233
00:45:13,453 --> 00:45:14,785
No, I mean, like, for real.
1234
00:45:14,879 --> 00:45:18,697
I really wanna thank you
for, like, all your support.
1235
00:45:18,791 --> 00:45:20,942
I mean, I--
I was blown away.
1236
00:45:21,035 --> 00:45:22,552
I think it really brought us
closer as a couple
1237
00:45:22,779 --> 00:45:23,961
Because it was one
of those things that, like...
1238
00:45:24,113 --> 00:45:26,130
♪ ♪
1239
00:45:26,282 --> 00:45:27,631
I didn't know what to do.
1240
00:45:27,726 --> 00:45:29,467
And I was just like--
1241
00:45:29,561 --> 00:45:31,043
I don't know.
1242
00:45:31,062 --> 00:45:32,061
It was emotional.
It sucked.
1243
00:45:32,288 --> 00:45:33,545
It was hard.
1244
00:45:33,639 --> 00:45:36,474
And--but I know that we have
a plan,
1245
00:45:36,568 --> 00:45:38,292
And we're working on it.
1246
00:45:38,311 --> 00:45:40,903
- My dad is coming in
to take care of charlie.
1247
00:45:41,130 --> 00:45:43,722
And we're working on
a doggy swap schedule
1248
00:45:43,816 --> 00:45:45,800
So we can rotate them evenly.
1249
00:45:45,818 --> 00:45:47,744
It's not the perfect plan,
but it's
1250
00:45:47,971 --> 00:45:49,804
The most perfect solution
we can come up with.
1251
00:45:49,822 --> 00:45:52,248
And, you know,
we're making the best
1252
00:45:52,475 --> 00:45:55,493
Out of the limited options
we have.
1253
00:45:55,645 --> 00:45:57,979
- Thank you again
because, like, literally,
1254
00:45:58,072 --> 00:45:58,904
From my bottom
of my heart, like,
1255
00:45:58,998 --> 00:46:00,072
I can't thank you enough.
1256
00:46:00,166 --> 00:46:03,426
Like, that was--
that was what
1257
00:46:03,653 --> 00:46:06,578
A real husband and wife
kind of situation
1258
00:46:06,598 --> 00:46:08,155
In how we support each other--
1259
00:46:08,174 --> 00:46:10,249
Like, that just gave me
a taste of,
1260
00:46:10,268 --> 00:46:12,769
Like, honestly, what marriage
is really all about.
1261
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,271
- ♪ 'cause when you know
what you're looking for ♪
1262
00:46:15,498 --> 00:46:20,684
♪ you find it inside
to find a little more ♪
1263
00:46:20,779 --> 00:46:26,007
♪ ♪
1264
00:46:26,100 --> 00:46:27,432
- Vacation's over.
- Yeah.
1265
00:46:27,527 --> 00:46:28,843
- Honeymoon is over.
- Yeah.
1266
00:46:28,936 --> 00:46:30,344
- I always love a vacation.
1267
00:46:30,437 --> 00:46:32,437
But it's always nice
to get back
1268
00:46:32,457 --> 00:46:34,198
Into the groove of things too.
1269
00:46:34,350 --> 00:46:35,850
I'll have a little bit
more space out here
1270
00:46:35,868 --> 00:46:38,461
Than we did on the honeymoon
to get up early
1271
00:46:38,688 --> 00:46:41,780
And have my coffee
so I'm not, you know,
1272
00:46:41,874 --> 00:46:43,299
Interrupting your beauty sleep.
1273
00:46:45,028 --> 00:46:46,694
- Did you notice
when you would get up,
1274
00:46:46,712 --> 00:46:48,696
I would take the other pillow
and put it on top of my head?
1275
00:46:48,714 --> 00:46:51,198
- Yeah, no.
I noticed.
1276
00:46:51,217 --> 00:46:53,200
I thought I was tiptoeing
and being quiet, but--
1277
00:46:53,219 --> 00:46:54,793
- No, you were
actually just, like...
1278
00:46:54,887 --> 00:46:56,720
[makes scraping noises]
1279
00:46:56,815 --> 00:46:59,816
- It was all the sand.
1280
00:47:00,043 --> 00:47:01,800
- No, but I think it'll
be good having, you know,
1281
00:47:01,820 --> 00:47:03,468
Having more space, you know?
And--
1282
00:47:03,488 --> 00:47:04,712
- Yeah, for sure.
1283
00:47:04,805 --> 00:47:06,656
- Do you have any concerns?
1284
00:47:06,883 --> 00:47:10,234
Because you haven't
lived with a--
1285
00:47:10,328 --> 00:47:12,495
A partner before, right?
1286
00:47:12,722 --> 00:47:14,055
- Yeah.
1287
00:47:14,148 --> 00:47:15,739
I mean, like,
past relationships,
1288
00:47:15,892 --> 00:47:17,834
You know, they're staying over
four or five nights a week.
1289
00:47:17,985 --> 00:47:19,168
- Right, but you haven't, like,
signed a lease
1290
00:47:19,395 --> 00:47:20,911
With someone before.
- Correct. Yeah.
1291
00:47:21,005 --> 00:47:23,005
I feel like I have
a sense of what it's like
1292
00:47:23,232 --> 00:47:25,174
To live with somebody,
whether we've signed
1293
00:47:25,326 --> 00:47:27,084
A lease together or not.
1294
00:47:27,178 --> 00:47:28,511
I don't know.
I think everybody's different.
1295
00:47:28,662 --> 00:47:29,920
And...
- I agree.
1296
00:47:30,014 --> 00:47:31,330
- You know, each partner
is a little different.
1297
00:47:31,349 --> 00:47:32,740
And everyone has their quirks.
1298
00:47:32,758 --> 00:47:34,851
And you know, one of mine
is getting up early
1299
00:47:35,002 --> 00:47:36,519
And being too loud.
1300
00:47:36,670 --> 00:47:38,245
So I'm sure you got something
in there that I'll--
1301
00:47:38,339 --> 00:47:39,914
I'll find that I haven't yet.
1302
00:47:39,932 --> 00:47:41,932
♪ ♪
1303
00:47:42,026 --> 00:47:44,251
- Are you more, like,
traditional in a sense
1304
00:47:44,270 --> 00:47:47,421
Of, like, what you expect,
like, a woman to do
1305
00:47:47,514 --> 00:47:48,756
Around the house,
you know?
1306
00:47:48,774 --> 00:47:50,533
- [laughs]
1307
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:52,927
Like--like, you think
I expect you
1308
00:47:52,945 --> 00:47:54,612
To, like, just cook and clean?
- Yeah.
1309
00:47:54,764 --> 00:47:56,447
- No.
I don't mind cleaning.
1310
00:47:56,599 --> 00:47:59,950
Like, I--I like hanging out
and cleaning.
1311
00:48:00,044 --> 00:48:03,787
And I'm pretty organized
and not a lot of clutter.
1312
00:48:03,940 --> 00:48:06,048
So I'm not the best cook,
1313
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:08,718
But I'm willing to give it
the--
1314
00:48:08,945 --> 00:48:09,960
- We can work on this together.
- Yeah.
1315
00:48:10,054 --> 00:48:11,462
♪ ♪
1316
00:48:11,556 --> 00:48:15,540
- It's a little early
to, you know, be saying,
1317
00:48:15,635 --> 00:48:18,377
Like, "did the experts do
right, or did they do wrong?",
1318
00:48:18,396 --> 00:48:20,638
But I think that they matched
us at this point,
1319
00:48:20,732 --> 00:48:22,899
Because all of the things
that he wants
1320
00:48:23,126 --> 00:48:24,808
To work on and that he
wants to grow on,
1321
00:48:24,961 --> 00:48:26,961
I feel like I embody those.
1322
00:48:27,054 --> 00:48:29,221
It's gonna take
a lot of patience,
1323
00:48:29,240 --> 00:48:33,225
And support, and reassuring
on my part, you know,
1324
00:48:33,244 --> 00:48:37,580
For us to successfully conquer
all of those tasks.
1325
00:48:37,731 --> 00:48:38,581
I think we'll be okay.
1326
00:48:38,732 --> 00:48:39,823
- Perfect.
1327
00:48:39,918 --> 00:48:46,981
♪ ♪
1328
00:48:46,999 --> 00:48:49,241
- So this is my first time
living with someone.
1329
00:48:49,260 --> 00:48:50,651
One of the things
I've always wondered
1330
00:48:50,670 --> 00:48:52,244
When people live together,
1331
00:48:52,263 --> 00:48:55,172
Like, when you
do number two, are you--
1332
00:48:55,324 --> 00:48:57,249
Are you in the bathroom
with that person?
1333
00:48:57,343 --> 00:48:58,842
Because I don't wanna be here
when you're doing number two.
1334
00:48:58,995 --> 00:49:00,085
- I don't want you in here
when I'm doing...
1335
00:49:00,179 --> 00:49:01,604
- All right, cool.
1336
00:49:01,755 --> 00:49:03,105
- I don't even want you
to know--
1337
00:49:03,257 --> 00:49:04,440
- Some people, they be like,
"you ain't in love
1338
00:49:04,591 --> 00:49:05,590
Unless you been"--
- no, no, no.
1339
00:49:05,610 --> 00:49:06,943
I don't even want you to know--
1340
00:49:07,094 --> 00:49:08,260
I say--I say--
1341
00:49:08,354 --> 00:49:09,853
I say girls don't poop.
1342
00:49:10,006 --> 00:49:11,355
- Well, I poop every morning.
1343
00:49:11,507 --> 00:49:12,615
That's the first thing
I do when I wake up.
1344
00:49:12,766 --> 00:49:13,783
- That's fine.
1345
00:49:13,934 --> 00:49:15,267
So which side?
1346
00:49:15,286 --> 00:49:16,935
- The first drawer
and the left side.
1347
00:49:16,955 --> 00:49:18,437
The rest is yours.
Do as you please.
1348
00:49:18,456 --> 00:49:20,531
- [laughs] okay.
1349
00:49:20,625 --> 00:49:22,032
You don't need
any of these other drawers?
1350
00:49:22,185 --> 00:49:23,517
- And don't touch
the first drawer.
1351
00:49:23,610 --> 00:49:25,019
- Why?
- It's my drawer.
1352
00:49:25,112 --> 00:49:26,520
- What's gonna be in there?
1353
00:49:26,539 --> 00:49:28,631
In this moment of moving in,
I realized
1354
00:49:28,782 --> 00:49:29,948
That my husband
is really bossy.
1355
00:49:30,042 --> 00:49:31,300
- This is my side.
1356
00:49:31,527 --> 00:49:33,194
I'm making
the executive decision.
1357
00:49:33,212 --> 00:49:35,471
- Yeah, because I mean, there's
two levels on this side, so--
1358
00:49:35,622 --> 00:49:36,880
- She is not
sleeping in the bed.
1359
00:49:37,033 --> 00:49:38,290
That's another
executive decision
1360
00:49:38,384 --> 00:49:39,809
That I'm making.
- Oh.
1361
00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:41,626
He's making a whole lot
of executive decisions.
1362
00:49:41,646 --> 00:49:42,627
- Do you wear
shoes in the house?
1363
00:49:42,722 --> 00:49:44,054
- I do wear shoes in the house.
1364
00:49:44,148 --> 00:49:45,222
- That's probably--that's
because you got dogs,
1365
00:49:45,374 --> 00:49:46,557
And y'all are just different.
1366
00:49:46,709 --> 00:49:48,150
Y'all just--
- y'all?
1367
00:49:48,302 --> 00:49:49,710
- You got to take
the shoes off.
1368
00:49:49,803 --> 00:49:50,653
- Okay.
- Would you mind
1369
00:49:50,804 --> 00:49:52,046
Taking your shoes off?
1370
00:49:52,139 --> 00:49:53,214
- I won't mind
taking my shoes off.
1371
00:49:53,307 --> 00:49:54,398
- Would that be
a hard adjustment?
1372
00:49:54,550 --> 00:49:56,734
- I don't see that
being a hard adjustment.
1373
00:49:56,886 --> 00:49:58,552
- And my people know,
too, when they come,
1374
00:49:58,571 --> 00:50:00,329
So tell your people
to take their shoes.
1375
00:50:00,556 --> 00:50:01,813
- Take the shoes off.
All right.
1376
00:50:01,907 --> 00:50:03,557
Husband is bossy today.
1377
00:50:03,576 --> 00:50:06,502
And he's very peculiar
about different things.
1378
00:50:06,653 --> 00:50:09,839
- So the left--the left
three drawers are mine.
1379
00:50:10,066 --> 00:50:11,490
- He needs the left side
of the sink.
1380
00:50:11,509 --> 00:50:12,508
He needs the left side
of the drawer.
1381
00:50:12,735 --> 00:50:14,844
He needs no shoes on
in the floor.
1382
00:50:14,995 --> 00:50:19,740
So I'm learning a lot in, like,
five minutes about my husband.
1383
00:50:19,759 --> 00:50:22,760
- The trip is over with
and done with.
1384
00:50:22,854 --> 00:50:25,095
All of that's in the past,
the good, the bad.
1385
00:50:25,248 --> 00:50:26,597
There was way more good.
1386
00:50:26,749 --> 00:50:28,098
It wasn't even no bad.
1387
00:50:28,192 --> 00:50:29,416
- No, it wasn't bad.
It was just challenges.
1388
00:50:29,435 --> 00:50:31,268
- Challenges
- mm-hmm.
1389
00:50:31,362 --> 00:50:33,678
- But is there anything, like,
if you had a do-over
1390
00:50:33,698 --> 00:50:35,939
That you could change
from the trip?
1391
00:50:36,034 --> 00:50:37,591
Like, is there anything
that you could think of?
1392
00:50:37,610 --> 00:50:42,354
♪ ♪
1393
00:50:42,448 --> 00:50:44,874
- The only reason
why I say no
1394
00:50:45,101 --> 00:50:46,691
Is because I'm just
a firm believer
1395
00:50:46,711 --> 00:50:50,212
That everything happens
for a reason.
1396
00:50:50,439 --> 00:50:53,123
I mean, I definitely hope
that, you know,
1397
00:50:53,276 --> 00:50:56,868
If there's something that's
bothering you or bothering me,
1398
00:50:56,888 --> 00:50:59,204
You know, in the future,
now that we see
1399
00:50:59,223 --> 00:51:00,872
How each other, you know,
reacts to it,
1400
00:51:00,892 --> 00:51:04,209
That we can just
keep it out in the open
1401
00:51:04,228 --> 00:51:05,302
Because I only feel like
that'll make
1402
00:51:05,396 --> 00:51:06,453
Our relationship better.
1403
00:51:06,472 --> 00:51:08,147
♪ ♪
1404
00:51:12,812 --> 00:51:14,311
- Yes, I'm gonna slap you.
1405
00:51:14,405 --> 00:51:20,058
♪ ♪
1406
00:51:20,152 --> 00:51:23,304
- ♪ I always have
my guard up ready to fight ♪
1407
00:51:23,397 --> 00:51:25,472
♪ afraid of the dark ♪
1408
00:51:25,491 --> 00:51:27,991
♪ but you always bring
the light ♪
1409
00:51:28,086 --> 00:51:29,810
♪ ♪
1410
00:51:29,903 --> 00:51:33,163
♪ you're shining so ♪
1411
00:51:33,257 --> 00:51:37,835
- It's our first morning
in our new apartment.
1412
00:51:37,929 --> 00:51:40,930
- It's good, though.
- I'm still very tired.
1413
00:51:41,157 --> 00:51:44,600
He--he takes quite
a bit longer than I do
1414
00:51:44,751 --> 00:51:46,827
To wake up
in the morning, but--
1415
00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:48,662
- She talks a lot.
- I do.
1416
00:51:48,755 --> 00:51:49,939
- It's hard not to wake up
with her.
1417
00:51:50,090 --> 00:51:51,607
- I'm still sleeping?
1418
00:51:51,834 --> 00:51:53,425
Am I asleep?
1419
00:51:53,444 --> 00:51:55,185
- No, you're not.
You're talking a lot.
1420
00:51:55,279 --> 00:51:58,948
♪ ♪
1421
00:51:59,099 --> 00:52:00,783
- How do you feel about
moving in together today?
1422
00:52:01,010 --> 00:52:03,119
- Um...
1423
00:52:03,270 --> 00:52:04,286
I don't know.
1424
00:52:04,513 --> 00:52:07,456
♪ ♪
1425
00:52:07,608 --> 00:52:09,016
It's gonna be...
1426
00:52:09,034 --> 00:52:10,775
♪ ♪
1427
00:52:10,870 --> 00:52:12,128
- Interesting?
- Yes.
1428
00:52:12,279 --> 00:52:13,963
- I agree.
1429
00:52:14,190 --> 00:52:16,966
- I can't wait to see
your place.
1430
00:52:17,193 --> 00:52:18,283
- I'm feeling like
there's too much junk.
1431
00:52:18,302 --> 00:52:19,802
I feel like I'm--
1432
00:52:19,953 --> 00:52:21,470
- And you're gonna see
my stuff.
1433
00:52:21,622 --> 00:52:23,197
You're gonna like, "where's
the rest of your furniture?"
1434
00:52:23,215 --> 00:52:24,047
- No, I'm gonna say,
"does she even live here?"
1435
00:52:24,142 --> 00:52:25,215
- Right.
1436
00:52:25,309 --> 00:52:27,201
- This is the first time
1437
00:52:27,219 --> 00:52:29,536
That our newlyweds
will see each other's homes.
1438
00:52:29,555 --> 00:52:30,980
- Excited to meet charlie.
1439
00:52:31,207 --> 00:52:32,389
- I know.
1440
00:52:32,541 --> 00:52:34,633
I'm excited
for you to meet him.
1441
00:52:34,727 --> 00:52:37,711
- Even though these visits
can lead to surprises,
1442
00:52:37,730 --> 00:52:40,156
There's no better way to get
to know
1443
00:52:40,383 --> 00:52:43,901
The stranger they just married
one week ago.
1444
00:52:43,995 --> 00:52:50,749
♪ ♪
1445
00:52:54,338 --> 00:52:55,504
- I hadn't even been home
in two weeks.
1446
00:52:55,731 --> 00:52:57,173
We've been on the honeymoon,
the wedding.
1447
00:52:57,324 --> 00:52:59,566
So I didn't really have time
to, like, fix stuff.
1448
00:52:59,585 --> 00:53:02,403
So I don't know what my wife
might find if she, you know,
1449
00:53:02,421 --> 00:53:04,087
Opens certain drawers
or whatever.
1450
00:53:04,182 --> 00:53:05,239
Who knows?
1451
00:53:05,332 --> 00:53:06,256
You know, it might be, like,
1452
00:53:06,409 --> 00:53:09,410
Some interesting sex toys or--
1453
00:53:09,503 --> 00:53:10,835
Who knows?
I don't know.
1454
00:53:10,855 --> 00:53:13,004
But hopefully,
none of that happens,
1455
00:53:13,024 --> 00:53:14,765
And it's just a smooth process.
1456
00:53:14,917 --> 00:53:18,101
Welcome to the crib.
1457
00:53:18,196 --> 00:53:20,196
- Look in here.
1458
00:53:20,347 --> 00:53:22,013
- Yeah, this is it.
1459
00:53:22,033 --> 00:53:24,516
- Oh, you got a gym.
- Yeah.
1460
00:53:24,610 --> 00:53:25,701
I told you.
I wasn't lying.
1461
00:53:25,852 --> 00:53:26,927
This fitness thing.
1462
00:53:27,020 --> 00:53:28,704
Health is wealth, you know?
1463
00:53:28,855 --> 00:53:30,097
So it's convenient.
1464
00:53:30,190 --> 00:53:32,041
You know, like,
sometimes I wake up late
1465
00:53:32,192 --> 00:53:34,376
And I don't have time to, like,
go outside to the gym.
1466
00:53:34,528 --> 00:53:36,212
I can just, like, come
down here,
1467
00:53:36,439 --> 00:53:38,105
Get a little quick workout
in here.
1468
00:53:38,123 --> 00:53:40,457
- This is very convenient,
very convenient.
1469
00:53:40,609 --> 00:53:44,053
Seeing airris' gym here
and then, like, experiencing it
1470
00:53:44,204 --> 00:53:46,613
At the honeymoon when,
every morning, he woke up
1471
00:53:46,632 --> 00:53:48,465
And, you know,
he went to work out,
1472
00:53:48,617 --> 00:53:51,301
I can see now it wasn't, like,
him using it as an excuse,
1473
00:53:51,395 --> 00:53:53,620
Like, just to be away from me
or to have his me time.
1474
00:53:53,639 --> 00:53:55,289
Because I do know
he loves his me time.
1475
00:53:55,307 --> 00:53:58,067
But it's kind of--
it's a part of him.
1476
00:53:58,294 --> 00:53:59,902
- First, I'm gonna take you
to the place
1477
00:54:00,053 --> 00:54:02,404
Where, like, usually,
women aren't even allowed.
1478
00:54:02,631 --> 00:54:03,964
- Oh, okay.
- It's the kick-it room.
1479
00:54:03,983 --> 00:54:05,074
- This is the man cave?
1480
00:54:05,225 --> 00:54:06,909
- It's the man cave
1481
00:54:07,060 --> 00:54:09,894
Where we come, we drink,
1482
00:54:09,914 --> 00:54:11,989
Talk about women.
1483
00:54:12,141 --> 00:54:14,065
We watch the games.
1484
00:54:14,085 --> 00:54:15,325
- This is
Sunday night football?
1485
00:54:15,419 --> 00:54:17,068
- Sunday night football.
1486
00:54:17,088 --> 00:54:18,495
- So, like, when I said,
sometimes on sundays
1487
00:54:18,589 --> 00:54:19,980
With the guys, we're not, like,
at a sports bar.
1488
00:54:19,999 --> 00:54:21,331
It's usually just here.
1489
00:54:21,425 --> 00:54:23,092
- So, with you having, like,
the man cave,
1490
00:54:23,243 --> 00:54:24,409
The gym downstairs,
1491
00:54:24,503 --> 00:54:26,336
It's, like, really obvious
1492
00:54:26,489 --> 00:54:28,264
That you definitely do need
your me time
1493
00:54:28,491 --> 00:54:30,157
And that you enjoy taking
the time.
1494
00:54:30,175 --> 00:54:32,826
- I told you I wasn't
making this stuff up.
1495
00:54:32,845 --> 00:54:35,604
So when we get our place
together after the apartment,
1496
00:54:35,756 --> 00:54:36,847
I'ma definitely need
a man cave.
1497
00:54:36,999 --> 00:54:38,165
- That's completely fine.
1498
00:54:38,258 --> 00:54:39,758
I'm gonna need a beauty room.
1499
00:54:39,777 --> 00:54:41,110
- It's settled.
1500
00:54:41,261 --> 00:54:42,669
You got a beauty room.
1501
00:54:42,763 --> 00:54:45,447
I got a man cave.
- Easy.
1502
00:54:45,674 --> 00:54:48,342
- All right.
So I'll show you my room next.
1503
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:50,694
- Okay.
- All right.
1504
00:54:50,788 --> 00:54:53,180
I can just stumble
over here and go to sleep.
1505
00:54:53,273 --> 00:54:55,015
- You have
your shoe collection.
1506
00:54:55,034 --> 00:54:57,126
- Yeah.
I mean, it's one of my things.
1507
00:54:57,277 --> 00:54:59,202
You know, my dad
was into shoes.
1508
00:54:59,297 --> 00:55:01,463
I kind of picked up on that
from him at a very young age.
1509
00:55:01,615 --> 00:55:03,966
And it kind of continued.
So...
1510
00:55:04,193 --> 00:55:04,949
- That's why you needed
that side of the closet
1511
00:55:04,969 --> 00:55:06,376
At the new place.
1512
00:55:06,529 --> 00:55:08,045
- That's why I need
that side of the closet.
1513
00:55:08,139 --> 00:55:09,972
- [laughs]
- yeah.
1514
00:55:10,199 --> 00:55:12,199
- I definitely expected
him to have,
1515
00:55:12,292 --> 00:55:13,867
You know, a shoe collection.
1516
00:55:13,886 --> 00:55:16,053
I didn't expect him
to be so neat and in boxes
1517
00:55:16,205 --> 00:55:17,980
And in clear cases
and stuff like that.
1518
00:55:18,207 --> 00:55:21,466
But because his shoes are
in boxes and organized,
1519
00:55:21,485 --> 00:55:24,803
I'm willing to give up
some closet space
1520
00:55:24,822 --> 00:55:26,488
So that he can have
more room for his shoes.
1521
00:55:26,715 --> 00:55:28,991
♪ ♪
1522
00:55:29,218 --> 00:55:30,734
Is that the obituary
for your dad?
1523
00:55:30,886 --> 00:55:33,554
- Yeah, that's
my dad's obituary.
1524
00:55:33,572 --> 00:55:35,906
Unfortunately,
it was a double funeral.
1525
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:37,166
My uncle died.
- Oh, yeah, you told me that.
1526
00:55:37,393 --> 00:55:39,242
- Yeah, my uncle died
two days before.
1527
00:55:39,337 --> 00:55:42,987
So it was a very emotional,
intense period of time
1528
00:55:43,007 --> 00:55:45,732
In my family's life, so yeah.
1529
00:55:45,826 --> 00:55:47,734
- In '94, I was 11 years old.
1530
00:55:47,753 --> 00:55:49,828
My father was murdered.
1531
00:55:49,922 --> 00:55:53,164
So that has been, like, a void,
you know, that's been missing.
1532
00:55:53,184 --> 00:55:55,759
Like, you know,
even as a grown man,
1533
00:55:55,853 --> 00:55:58,412
Sometimes I feel like
a little boy, like,
1534
00:55:58,505 --> 00:55:59,746
Waiting on his dad
to come home.
1535
00:55:59,765 --> 00:56:01,857
I keep those by
just to kind of keep them
1536
00:56:02,084 --> 00:56:04,676
Close to me, one
of the first things
1537
00:56:04,695 --> 00:56:06,086
I think about when I wake up.
1538
00:56:06,105 --> 00:56:07,754
♪ ♪
1539
00:56:07,773 --> 00:56:09,698
- I have a close relationship
with my father.
1540
00:56:09,850 --> 00:56:12,275
So seeing that--because
he wears his necklace
1541
00:56:12,428 --> 00:56:14,261
With his picture every day
as well.
1542
00:56:14,279 --> 00:56:16,279
So seeing that
just kind of reassured me,
1543
00:56:16,374 --> 00:56:18,949
Like, the love he had
for his father, you know?
1544
00:56:19,043 --> 00:56:22,044
He is trying to be
emotionally available.
1545
00:56:22,271 --> 00:56:24,287
The end goal is for us
to be together
1546
00:56:24,382 --> 00:56:27,107
And for us to fall in love,
so I'm excited about it.
1547
00:56:27,126 --> 00:56:34,631
♪ ♪
1548
00:56:34,725 --> 00:56:36,283
- ♪ well, I had plans,
a diamond ring ♪
1549
00:56:36,301 --> 00:56:39,803
♪ a new black suit,
and a date in spring ♪
1550
00:56:39,955 --> 00:56:44,124
♪ we got married in a fever
like johnny and June ♪
1551
00:56:44,217 --> 00:56:46,885
- Well, is there anything
I should know
1552
00:56:46,979 --> 00:56:51,073
Or wanna look out for
before we go in?
1553
00:56:51,300 --> 00:56:52,799
- Not much.
1554
00:56:52,893 --> 00:56:54,651
I mean, I just transitioned
down here.
1555
00:56:54,803 --> 00:56:56,486
I don't have a ton of stuff.
1556
00:56:56,639 --> 00:56:59,230
- We had already had
a prior conversation
1557
00:56:59,250 --> 00:57:02,066
About what
his living situation was.
1558
00:57:02,086 --> 00:57:04,161
- I recently moved down here.
1559
00:57:04,313 --> 00:57:05,479
- Really?
1560
00:57:05,572 --> 00:57:06,422
- One of my best friends,
taylor--
1561
00:57:06,573 --> 00:57:07,572
She lives in washington,
1562
00:57:07,666 --> 00:57:09,425
But her family moved down here.
1563
00:57:09,576 --> 00:57:11,652
And I come down to hang out
with them and stay with them.
1564
00:57:11,670 --> 00:57:13,912
- And so, like,
I get it, you know?
1565
00:57:14,006 --> 00:57:15,580
But, like, I don't know.
I don't know.
1566
00:57:15,599 --> 00:57:17,824
I think it's kind of weird.
1567
00:57:17,843 --> 00:57:21,586
It does not make me feel like
he plans to be here very long.
1568
00:57:21,680 --> 00:57:24,014
And so it is unsettling to me.
1569
00:57:24,166 --> 00:57:25,924
And it doesn't give me
any security.
1570
00:57:26,018 --> 00:57:27,501
- This is it.
1571
00:57:27,519 --> 00:57:28,735
- Nice.
1572
00:57:32,524 --> 00:57:34,341
Nice house.
1573
00:57:34,359 --> 00:57:37,861
- I've been in nashville
for going on five months.
1574
00:57:38,013 --> 00:57:41,290
I've always had family
and friends here.
1575
00:57:41,517 --> 00:57:44,609
I wanted to find love,
so I moved down here
1576
00:57:44,703 --> 00:57:47,037
In my friend's parents'
basement.
1577
00:57:47,189 --> 00:57:48,689
They're like family to me.
1578
00:57:48,707 --> 00:57:50,114
I mean, I've usually had
my own place
1579
00:57:50,209 --> 00:57:51,800
Most of my adult life.
1580
00:57:51,952 --> 00:57:53,860
At one point, I was paying
on two different apartments
1581
00:57:53,879 --> 00:57:55,620
That I hated,
and that was a mistake
1582
00:57:55,639 --> 00:57:58,365
Because I jumped the gun
way too fast.
1583
00:57:58,458 --> 00:57:59,975
And I wasn't gonna do this
here.
1584
00:58:00,126 --> 00:58:03,370
I didn't take that step
to go lock down a place yet.
1585
00:58:03,463 --> 00:58:04,963
That's something
we can figure out together.
1586
00:58:05,057 --> 00:58:06,556
And now it's like
a fresh start
1587
00:58:06,650 --> 00:58:08,633
For me and my wife.
1588
00:58:08,727 --> 00:58:10,210
I am down here.
1589
00:58:10,303 --> 00:58:12,279
- Okay.
- This is my living quarters.
1590
00:58:14,383 --> 00:58:16,049
This is my hangout spot.
1591
00:58:16,068 --> 00:58:17,384
- Okay.
1592
00:58:17,402 --> 00:58:20,737
♪ ♪
1593
00:58:20,889 --> 00:58:23,481
- Very, uh, quaint.
1594
00:58:23,575 --> 00:58:25,075
- Is any of this yours?
1595
00:58:25,169 --> 00:58:27,986
- No.
No.
1596
00:58:28,005 --> 00:58:30,506
- I can only judge on things
that are actually yours.
1597
00:58:30,733 --> 00:58:32,065
- Which is not much.
1598
00:58:32,084 --> 00:58:33,008
♪ ♪
1599
00:58:33,159 --> 00:58:34,401
This is my room.
1600
00:58:34,419 --> 00:58:36,160
♪ ♪
1601
00:58:36,255 --> 00:58:39,573
This is my other family
on the wall.
1602
00:58:39,591 --> 00:58:41,091
- Okay.
1603
00:58:41,243 --> 00:58:43,185
- Collage of the donnellys.
1604
00:58:43,412 --> 00:58:46,004
- I guess, I was expecting
for there to be, like,
1605
00:58:46,098 --> 00:58:49,191
Some parts of mack in the home,
1606
00:58:49,418 --> 00:58:51,676
Or at least in the area
that he was staying in.
1607
00:58:51,770 --> 00:58:55,030
- Yeah, this is pretty much it.
1608
00:58:55,257 --> 00:58:57,348
- Good deal.
1609
00:58:57,368 --> 00:58:59,535
I would say that this makes
me a little more nervous.
1610
00:58:59,762 --> 00:59:01,595
Closet.
- Yeah.
1611
00:59:01,613 --> 00:59:02,704
That's not enough space
for you, is it?
1612
00:59:02,856 --> 00:59:05,023
- No, I could not.
1613
00:59:05,117 --> 00:59:06,708
It is a little small.
1614
00:59:06,860 --> 00:59:09,861
You know, like, you don't
really have a lot of privacy.
1615
00:59:09,880 --> 00:59:15,217
So yeah, I guess
I'm just kind of like, wah.
1616
00:59:15,368 --> 00:59:19,370
- So is this what you imagined
my living situation to be like,
1617
00:59:19,390 --> 00:59:20,556
Or is it worse?
1618
00:59:20,707 --> 00:59:23,041
Or...
- Um...
1619
00:59:23,060 --> 00:59:25,376
I mean, like, it's bad
for me because I don't have
1620
00:59:25,396 --> 00:59:27,304
Anything to judge you off of.
1621
00:59:27,398 --> 00:59:28,638
- Yeah, sorry.
1622
00:59:28,791 --> 00:59:31,308
I--you know, it was--
1623
00:59:31,402 --> 00:59:32,459
I don't know.
1624
00:59:32,552 --> 00:59:33,885
It was a quick transition.
1625
00:59:33,979 --> 00:59:36,054
And this whole process started,
1626
00:59:36,073 --> 00:59:38,815
And next thing you knew,
I was moving
1627
00:59:38,967 --> 00:59:39,891
Into a new apartment with you.
1628
00:59:39,910 --> 00:59:42,135
So...
- Yeah.
1629
00:59:42,154 --> 00:59:45,138
Typically, I do go for guys
that are, like,
1630
00:59:45,157 --> 00:59:48,658
More established, like,
own their own home,
1631
00:59:48,811 --> 00:59:49,751
Like, all of these things.
1632
00:59:49,978 --> 00:59:52,162
So for me,
1633
00:59:52,256 --> 00:59:56,833
It's just kind
of like lack of initiative,
1634
00:59:56,985 --> 00:59:58,485
I guess.
1635
00:59:58,503 --> 01:00:00,987
So yeah, I'm
a little nervous right now.
1636
01:00:01,006 --> 01:00:02,656
♪ ♪
1637
01:00:02,674 --> 01:00:03,990
- Thoughts?
Concerns?
1638
01:00:04,009 --> 01:00:06,101
♪ ♪
1639
01:00:06,252 --> 01:00:10,772
- I mean, I don't know how
you've been there for so long.
1640
01:00:14,169 --> 01:00:17,020
- Yeah, I feel like I made
a smart decision by not jumping
1641
01:00:17,172 --> 01:00:20,932
Into a new house or apartment.
1642
01:00:21,026 --> 01:00:24,194
When I was going
through this process,
1643
01:00:24,346 --> 01:00:25,954
I wasn't sure what area
I wanted to be in--
1644
01:00:26,181 --> 01:00:28,014
- Taking everything
into consideration,
1645
01:00:28,033 --> 01:00:30,016
Like, how you moved
from michigan to california
1646
01:00:30,035 --> 01:00:32,202
And then california
to nashville, you know,
1647
01:00:32,296 --> 01:00:34,296
Like, you don't have any ties.
1648
01:00:34,447 --> 01:00:39,468
You've still kind of, like,
got that free roamer option.
1649
01:00:39,619 --> 01:00:42,379
- Yeah.
Yeah.
1650
01:00:42,531 --> 01:00:45,807
- So that also is, like, going
through my mind a little bit.
1651
01:00:45,959 --> 01:00:48,034
- Yeah, I understand.
1652
01:00:48,053 --> 01:00:50,704
- For me, it's just like,
I don't really have
1653
01:00:50,722 --> 01:00:54,132
Any plan to move
from nashville, you know?
1654
01:00:54,151 --> 01:00:55,558
So the fact
that you're not, like,
1655
01:00:55,653 --> 01:00:58,044
100% tied to this place and...
1656
01:00:58,063 --> 01:00:59,988
♪ ♪
1657
01:01:00,215 --> 01:01:01,548
- I mean, all I can say is,
I came down here
1658
01:01:01,641 --> 01:01:04,384
With the intent
of moving here
1659
01:01:04,403 --> 01:01:05,643
And making sure I liked it.
1660
01:01:05,663 --> 01:01:07,387
And I wanted to not jump
into a place
1661
01:01:07,406 --> 01:01:09,498
Just to jump into a place
when I was--
1662
01:01:09,725 --> 01:01:11,241
- But, like, jump into
a marriage though?
1663
01:01:11,393 --> 01:01:14,561
♪ ♪
1664
01:01:14,579 --> 01:01:16,579
Like, you see how that
could be, like, okay,
1665
01:01:16,674 --> 01:01:18,732
Well, you were apprehensive
about signing a lease,
1666
01:01:18,750 --> 01:01:21,568
But, like, you're, like,
jumping into a marriage.
1667
01:01:21,661 --> 01:01:23,737
You know what I mean?
- Yeah.
1668
01:01:23,755 --> 01:01:25,013
No, I definitely know
what you mean.
1669
01:01:25,165 --> 01:01:28,575
But I--yeah.
1670
01:01:28,668 --> 01:01:32,688
No, you're right.
Um...
1671
01:01:32,839 --> 01:01:36,433
I was up front from the get
about my living situation.
1672
01:01:36,585 --> 01:01:41,104
Now it's this big thing
and clearly a big deal to her.
1673
01:01:41,198 --> 01:01:42,364
I don't know where
things go from here.
1674
01:01:43,442 --> 01:01:46,535
- ♪ belong ♪
1675
01:01:46,762 --> 01:01:50,931
♪ 'cause there's
nowhere you belong ♪
1676
01:01:50,949 --> 01:01:55,210
♪ ♪
1677
01:01:55,361 --> 01:01:57,045
- ♪ I like it ♪
1678
01:01:57,197 --> 01:01:58,529
- Next time on
"married at first sight"...
1679
01:01:58,623 --> 01:02:00,623
- Oh, no.
That dog is humping.
1680
01:02:00,718 --> 01:02:01,866
You know what?
1681
01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:03,552
If he has seen chris
in action before,
1682
01:02:03,779 --> 01:02:05,795
Then I feel pretty good
about what my sex life
1683
01:02:05,948 --> 01:02:06,888
Is gonna look like.
1684
01:02:07,040 --> 01:02:08,615
- ♪ I like it ♪
1685
01:02:08,633 --> 01:02:11,451
- You look like a black
"game of thrones" character.
1686
01:02:11,470 --> 01:02:13,636
I told the experts
I wanted a black queen,
1687
01:02:13,789 --> 01:02:16,214
But they, like, literally gave
me a queen, a black queen.
1688
01:02:16,233 --> 01:02:18,400
- Is that bag coming
in here or no?
1689
01:02:18,551 --> 01:02:21,403
- Honestly, just like, not
really feeling it right now.
1690
01:02:21,554 --> 01:02:23,221
I'm not moving in.
1691
01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:25,298
I'm gonna go home
and take a bath.
1692
01:02:25,317 --> 01:02:27,484
- I wanna know, is
there any chemistry there?
1693
01:02:27,578 --> 01:02:29,636
- Not really.
1694
01:02:29,654 --> 01:02:32,138
- Domynique, what
is your perspective?
1695
01:02:32,157 --> 01:02:33,397
- I mean...
1696
01:02:33,417 --> 01:02:35,825
- Do you want to stay married?
1697
01:02:35,978 --> 01:02:40,071
Are we moving forward,
or is this the day
1698
01:02:40,090 --> 01:02:41,815
That we decide
we're getting a divorce?
1699
01:02:41,833 --> 01:02:43,333
♪ ♪
1700
01:02:43,427 --> 01:02:45,151
- [scoffs] no.
1701
01:02:45,170 --> 01:02:48,180
♪ ♪