[Mallorie] Previously on "90 Day Fiancé."
[cheering]
If I was 21 years old, you would have never been here.
[laughing]
Last time you visited, we kinda left on a bad note.
I just hope that things are not weird,
awkward when we arrive there.
[car honking]
But how bad things was in the past, this could be
a total disaster.
This one knew he was coming to a farm.
That's why he's dressed accordingly.
This one, not so much.
I want you to want me 100% with no doubt.
So we're getting married, sweetie?
[Juliette speaking]
[Mark] No, Catie!
[Josh] Come on, let's go home.
How much worse is it supposed to get before the real hard
questions are the ones that you need to ask?
There are things that I just feel like I'm looking for,
like in a strong man.
And I just don't know if you can even do that.
[tense music builds]
You could [bleep] that slut in Egypt,
but you can't be compassionate with me?
She pushed me too far. It's finished.
It's over.
I have no idea what to do.
You should probably send him [bleep] packing ASAP, girl.
Like, get him out.
I'm trying to protect myself if the bad things happen.
OK, whatever.
You're focusing on the wrong thing.
No.
OK, whatever.
Enjoy your [bleep] shop.
♪ Bang, you better be ready ♪
♪ Bang, I [indistinct] so city ♪
♪ Bang, karma is my minion ♪
♪ And she'll hit you like a cannon ♪
[both] Hey.
[Marissa] I wanted to talk to you about something real quick.
I just had to redo all the trash.
♪ Bang, you got a warning ♪
♪ You can't ignore it ♪
♪ Bang ♪
You understand what I meant when I said,
"You take the trash bins and take them to the curb,"
right?
[Marissa] What do you mean that's what you do?
You have to, like, contain it all and, like, put it
so that it looks neat.
Like, you can't just, like, throw the trash
because it's a disaster.
And when I say, "Put them to the curb,"
it means put them to the curb.
Curb.
Hm.
Listen, I'm not gonna get aggravated if you don't know
a word, but, like, the one thing I don't want is
for me to say something and you say, "OK, OK,"
and, like, not, like, understand exactly
what I'm telling you to do.
It's just a lot for me.
Like, it's a lot for me to have on my shoulders to, like,
have to teach you every little thing.
- OK. - You have to really...
Yeah.
I'll see you later.
Living with Edward is tough sometimes.
It's taking a lot longer for him to really integrate
into the culture than I thought it would.
And it's frustrating, and I probably I probably
should be a little bit more patient with him, but I was
under a different impression of how things were gonna go.
And it's really starting to make me have doubts
and question if this is the right thing for me.
- Hi, mama. - [Joann] Hi, Mariss.
- How you doing? - [Joann] Hi, honey.
[Marissa] I'm really good.
- Sorry, I'm a little late. - [Marissa] Well, that's normal.
Yeah.
[Marissa] Fashionably late.
[Joann] So how are you?
I'm doing OK.
What is Edward doing today?
He's been trying to do things around the house,
and I'm trying my best now to, like, be really patient with him
and, like, give him the benefit of the doubt
that he's not an idiot.
He doesn't know the area, he doesn't know the customs,
he doesn't know the culture, and, you know,
that gets old after a while.
I think one of the things that I feel really bad about is
ever since he's gotten here, he's been nothing but loving,
supportive, like, sweet, caring, thoughtful
with me, and here I am.
Like, he comes into my country, and I'm just like,
"You're doing this wrong. You don't know this.
You're not prepared." And it's not nice.
- Stop. - Oh, my gosh.
Stop calling me "Bro." It's awkward.
- Hmm. - [Marissa] Huh?
Can you what? What?
No, absolutely not. Are you kidding me?
You can't be nice all the time.
You said he never gets mad, he never gets upset,
he's so balanced. That's not good.
I agree with you, I mean, I just--
[Joann] And he really has to speak up,
if he doesn't say anything, he's going to resent you.
- I know, it's like, stand up for yourself. - [Joann] Speak up for yourself.
- [Joann] Right. - [Marissa] You know, be a man.
Like, he feels the need to reach out and hold my hand
or get some kind of affirmation that I still love him... - [Joann] Right, right, right.
- Exactly. - ...and then it annoys me.
[Joann] So then you need to be different.
And not just, you know,
you don't wanna make excuses for him either.
I know.
I wish Edward would be more open with his communication
with me, because I've been upfront and honest with him
and his response has kind of just been,
"OK, well, we'll figure it out."
And that is not an appropriate response to me telling him that
I don't know if this arrangement is gonna work out.
Are-- are you feeling less, a little bit more--
- [Marissa] Less sure, yeah. - Less sure than you were?
[Marissa] Absolutely.
Once you start having one doubt,
a lot of other things start creeping into your mind.
I have... kind of polarizing emotions about this.
Like, in one regard, I'm like,
"This is the person that I love,"
like, "He's gonna be here to emotionally support me,"
and then the other side of it,
the other polarizing thought is that, like,
is he going to
contribute, get up to speed
as quickly as I need him to before I get to that point
when I'm just like,
this is-- I-- I can't do this anymore.
[Joann] Look, we all agree. Edward is a really nice guy.
But I also think
that you can't teach someone to have fire in the belt.
Mm-hmm.
Because in 90 days, if you don't see that
he has ambition and he can be a good partner for you
and he can be a role model to your kids,
if you don't see it, it's-- that's the person you have.
Here's the bottom line, if the end of 90 days comes
and I am horribly unhappy
and, like, I just know in my gut that this is not
ever gonna work out, I don't see any potential,
I'm gonna be miserable for the rest of my life,
of course I'm not gonna go through with it.
But you have to be very clear on what you're getting into.
I know, I know. I promise you that I will.
I'm strong, I'm independent, I can figure this out.
Just keep your head on straight, keep your eyes open.
I think Marissa's head space has changed.
I think she's starting to question
how fulfilling this will be.
Love is great, but if you don't have respect and trust
and you don't fulfill each other on every level,
it's not going to work.
I-- I said my piece.
And now if we had wine, which we should have had,
we could have clinked glasses and said...
- Too early for wine, Mom. - "God bless."
[Marissa] Coffee and tea?
Well, honestly, it's never too early for wine,
but I'll take what I get.
♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh ♪
Shea!
- Dad, Shea baby. - [Shea speaking]
- [Allison] Shea baby! - [guest] Shea baby!
[group] Woo!
♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh ♪
♪ Run all night ♪
♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh ♪
I know.
[Shea] Babe... baby!
- You're cold? You're getting cold? - [Anabelle] No, no.
- [Shea] You-- you got your shawl behind you. - [Anabelle] No.
Yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
- No, he's married. - He wasn't.
Shea is the biggest flirt ever.
No, like, with me, he was like, "I'll buy your own island,
you're so beautiful," like, wanting me to stay
the night here, even, like, at the lake house, so...
that's all I have to say about that.
[Chandler] Yeah.
[indistinct singing over mic]
[cheering]
[Shea speaking]
I don't know, six or seven.
Well, how many-- you were supposed to tell me.
[Allison] How many have you drank, Anabelle?
- 20? - Yeah.
Oh, my God.
[Shea and Anabelle speaking]
[Allison] Go to sleep.
Annabelle, this is a lake party.
I'll put you to bed. I'm coming back out, though.
We-- I got-- I got too many friends here.
[Shea] That's kinda embarrassing for me, babe.
I mean, I've got, these are all your new friends.
[Shea] You've been having fun.
[Anabelle speaking]
I love you. I don't want anybody.
They know you're my-- you're my fiancée, baby.
We're about to get married.
Everybody-- everybody that is talking to me
is like, "Oh, my God, I love Annabelle."
So why are you... trying to go to bed?
OK, so you can't wait another hour?
Don't-- don't embarrass me. I mean, let's have fun.
You know as well-- you aren't-- don't even start.
Let's go back out and have a good time, baby.
[Anabelle speaking]
♪ Come hell or high water ♪
♪ The wicked shall fall ♪
I don't like that she's bossing him around.
If she's upset about this, she-- she's in for it.
This is tame Shea, baby, for sure.
This is team dad.
♪ Come hell ♪
♪ Or high water, the wicked shall fall ♪
[Allison] Maybe they're not meant for each other.
If she can't hang with him, and like if she's not OK
with this crowd, then I don't see that being a fit anyways.
So if she doesn't like it, go home.
And go back to your family.
♪ Heads will roll ♪
♪ Hell or high water ♪
Today, I am taking Rash to his first baseball game ever.
Do you wanna know who's gonna be throwing out
the first pitch? - Who?
- You. - Really?
Yeah.
Have you ever seen a baseball before?
No.
[announcer speaking]
[Mallorie] Here he goes.
[Debby] What do we do?
I'm just dealing with somebody that's emotionally
very immature.
I-- I don't-- I don't know how you build on that.
[tense music plays]
[Mido speaking]
♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪
[klaxon honking]
♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪
[Mallorie] Bye. Be good.
Love you.
[dog barking]
♪ Oh, oh ♪
♪ Oh ♪
[Mallorie] OK, let's go.
[Rasit] Alright.
♪ Shackles and chains on my hands and legs ♪
♪ How much does a poor boy have to pay ♪
You look so good in your jersey.
Yeah.
[sighs]
- Love you. - Love you.
Today, I am taking Rash to his first baseball game ever.
It'll be exciting. It'll be your first time.
- Yeah, I-- I excited, this-- - Are you really?
You know.
I am really hoping that after the disaster prenup
conversation we had the other day,
that going to the baseball game might cheer Rash up,
and maybe he can put that prenup conversation in the back
of his mind and just really
enjoy going to his first American baseball game.
MaCayla, so the company she works for,
they have a connection. - [Rasit] Yeah.
So they set up something really special for you.
What is this?
So before the baseball game starts,
somebody throws the first pitch, the first ball
on the game. - Yeah, yeah.
And do you wanna know who's gonna be throwing out
the first pitch at the game today?
Who?
- You. - Really?
Yeah.
[Mallorie] It's OK.
Have you ever seen a baseball before?
[Rasit] No.
Oh, God.
- Good catch. - Oh!
Yeah.
Imagine, like, when the pitcher throws the ball.
Yeah.
Like, 100 miles per, well, you don't know miles per
hour, but, like, fast,
like, very, very fast, yeah. - Really fast, yeah.
Oh, my God. I am very excited.
[Rasit speaking]
Um, I think MaCayla.
I don't know if Ryn's coming.
Um, you know, we talked about having Brandon meet us there.
That way you guys can kind of...
Oh, my God.
[Mallorie] ...squash everything that's going on.
He is my friend.
Oh, my God.
- There's the stadium. - [Rasit] Oh, yeah.
[Rasit] Oh, my God.
♪ What you gonna say on judgment day ♪
♪ You better get on your knees and pray ♪
♪ For every sin, there's a price to pay ♪
- Ready? - [Rasit] Yes.
- [Mallorie] Hey! - [MaCayla] Hey!
[Rasit] Hey!
- Got you some tickets. - Oh, thank you, thank you.
- Thank you so much. - [MaCayla] Are you excited?
Yeah, thank you.
- You look so cute, I love your hair. - Thank you, thank you!
- You excited? - Yeah, I'm excited.
- Let's go. - Nervous, excited.
- [MaCayla] Let's go. - [Mallorie] Here we go.
- [Rasit] What's up? - [Mallorie] Hey.
- How's it going? - Hi.
Hi. OK.
- Alright, well, can we go in? - [Rasit] Yeah.
- Let's go. - [Mallorie] Mm-hmm.
[MaCayla] Let's go meet Lindsey, and she's gonna take you
all to the field.
Mallorie's friendship is important, and I don't wanna
escalate the situation.
So I show up here hoping that, you know, we're gonna come
to a-- a point of, you know,
mitigation here.
But, I mean, the whole time it's been nothing but
straight disrespect, man.
I'm just like, "Bro, like, why even invite me
if you're just gonna throw shade my way?"
- Hi, good to see you. - Hi, good to see you, how are you?
- [MaCayla] Good. - Nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you, too. - Hi, nice to meet you.
Hi, how are you, nice to meet you, come on down,
here, come this way.
[Rasit speaking]
[Rasit] Oh, my God.
[Mallorie] Yes.
You can do it.
Uh-huh, uh-huh.
OK.
I don't, I mean, I don't.
Yeah, 11 miles?
- That's far, not fast. - Feet, like feet.
Yeah.
That's, no.
I can't believe this. I will play with real team.
[Mallorie] Yeah, you'll see.
Well, I mean, you're gonna
play on the same field they play on.
- Ah, ah! - Yeah, you'll throw it to a real player.
- A real player, yeah. - A real player, and we'll get a picture.
- Alright, I watch a little bit in, yeah, movie. - Yeah, movie, yeah.
What movie? "Bull Durham?"
- No! - [Lindsey] "Moneyball?"
- "Twilight!" - Oh, shoot.
No! "Twilight" is not baseball.
- [baseball worker] - [Mallorie] Ready?
Rash, when you throw, just stand on the other side
of the sprocket. - [Rasit] OK, yeah...
[baseball worker] It's OK. Alright, come over here.
♪ Take a shot in the dark, take a shot ♪
[baseball announcer]
- Thank you! - [Mallorie] Woo!
♪ Take a shot in the dark ♪
- ♪ Take a shot ♪ - [Mallorie] Here he goes.
♪ In the dark ♪
♪ Take a shot in the dark ♪
[all cheer]
[Rasit] Thank you.
Baby, come here, yay, good job, baby!
- [Mallorie] I know, you did great. - [Rasit] Yeah.
Yeah, OK.
Oh, God.
- He threw it pretty good. - If you wanna call that good.
[Brandon] I mean, my grandma could throw better than that.
Remember the first time you threw a baseball?
Yeah, it was majestic.
[announcer] Ladies and gentlemen
- Hello again. - Hi.
- [Rasit] Hi. - There they are.
Hey.
Why?
OK, whatever.
What frustrates me about Rash is the persistent disrespect
he shows towards me.
I'm here as an ally, not an enemy.
But if he keeps on treating me like an enemy,
I will be the enemy.
And he does not want that.
♪ Something broke in me that day ♪
♪ So I wait ♪
♪ To get back to you ♪
♪ And it seems like I only meet you in the moonlight ♪
♪ I know the devil's inside ♪
♪ Just carry me low ♪
No, stand up. No, no, no.
Come on, here.
Since the argument and the blowout, Mido is
flat-out ignoring me.
And I'm really struggling to process this thing in my head
and in my heart. I love him at the same point.
I'm always big about people show you who they are.
It was a big reveal.
- Come on. - ♪ Don't take my heart ♪
♪ If you got nothing to give me ♪
♪ Don't you take my soul if you got nothing to say ♪
- Hey. - Hey.
- Are we gonna talk? - About what?
[Debby] About the other day.
What you want me to do?
[Debby] I don't know, but let's get out of here.
Let's go to the lake. Are you up for that?
- It's OK. - OK.
[tense music playing]
It's really important that Mido and I have a conversation about
the other night.
We can't keep lingering in this no contact, no conversation,
no addressing the elephant in the room.
We have to move forward from this.
We can't just stay here.
I don't know what to do to make it better.
I don't know if there's anything I can do
to make it better.
[Mido sighs]
[Debby] Ready to talk?
No, not at all.
It was really not good.
And I don't want a night like that to ever happen again.
I mean, it was bad behavior across the board.
It's not OK.
You keep saying it's OK, and it's not OK.
I know it's not OK.
I've seen you over the last couple of days.
It's not OK. You're so closed off now.
And I know this is a conversation
that you don't wanna have.
But if we don't, like, deal with it, it's just gonna
come up again.
And I don't think that that's good.
I'm just dealing with somebody that's emotionally
very immature in some areas.
Mido needs to let me in. It's not real complicated.
I just don't see, you know, without that
communication as a base.
I don't-- I don't know how you build on that.
I just get the feeling that you are just not happy.
- I think we both deserve that. - Yeah.
And I love you.
I know that you love me 'cause I don't think you would
have done all that you've done if you didn't.
You don't wanna say it, but I know it.
What do you mean, very good?
I know.
I don't want what happened to ever happen again.
But what do we do?
Your plan should be to stay here.
But, I mean, it's not just a me fix.
You think it's just a me fix?
- No, no, no, no, no. - OK.
Mido has turned this whole thing around on me, won't even
take responsibility for his side of it.
It's so frustrating.
Everything since he's got here has been all about him.
But relationships are about compromise, and he's been
single for a long time. I'm starting to see why.
You've got to get real honest,
not only with yourself, but with me.
Eh?
Wow.
Judge me based on me.
I can be a hundred years older than Maxwell, but, one thing
for sure, we're walking down that aisle, period.
♪ Hey you, hey you ♪
♪ Well, I've been thinking about you ♪
[Thomas] What did you write on there?
What does it say?
I wrote here, "To Mrs. Rini and Mr. Tom,
we are waiting for you in our wedding."
- [Thomas] Oh, that's beautiful. - "From Paula and Thomas."
[Thomas] That's very beautiful.
I'm gonna give to her soon, as soon as possible.
♪ Well, I've been wondering if you ♪
♪ Wondering if you ♪
♪ If you want me like I want you ♪
What's the matter? It's not working?
- I think it's working. - It's hot.
- It's-- it's-- it feels like it's cooking. - Where's Paula?
She's putting some final touches
on her makeup or something. - [Rini] Makeup?
[Thomas] Hey, this trip is a big deal for me.
I mean, there's a lot of sensitive issues that we
need to discuss.
And we also need to invite them to the wedding.
And, you know, part of that is telling them,
"Hey, my mom's gonna be there."
My parents are divorced.
And the two sides have never really gotten along together.
So I wanna make sure that they're aware of it
and don't walk into it blindsided.
[Thomas speaking]
[Tom] Paula!
[Rini] Are you-- you're gonna go see the sheep like that?
These are yours. These are the vegan burgers.
Wow.
Looks beautiful.
Can I go get my hamburger now? It's already done?
[Rini] Yes, yours is done.
[Paula] So you guys always do this, like, always eat outside?
We're in the-- we're in the camper, so
when we go to campgrounds,
there's, like, picnic tables, and we just set up just like
this on the picnic table and have all of
our supplies out.
It's-- it's super relaxing, makes you feel like you're
on vacation no matter where you are.
[Paula] Yes.
[Rini] Did you and your family go camping too, like growing up?
We did camping a few times, but it's very different.
It's a-- it-- it...
- We had a lots of fun. - [Rini] It sounds fun.
- Boom. - Very beautiful.
Mm, very good.
[Rini] So how many are in your family, Paula?
Paula's trying to manifest her family to come.
I-- U caught her with a-- she orders this stuff online,
all these tiny miniatures,
and she bought a bunch of tiny little people.
And I said, "What is this for?" She wouldn't tell me,
but I think she's trying to manifest her family to come.
It's so adorable.
- Oh, look at that cute little box. - That's so cute.
It has a very beautiful message written on it.
That is so cute.
- I love little things, too. - [Paula] Really?
I do.
- Oh, a little pig. - Oh.
Look how cute it is.
- His little pink nose. Oh, it's adorable! - [Paula] Yes.
- And there's more here. - Oh, thank you so much.
I love it. Thank you so much.
So speaking of your wedding, can you tell us all about it,
like where it's gonna be, how it's gonna go? - [Paula] Yes.
We found the perfect spot, but it's gonna be
in Long Beach now.
So it's all the way in California.
But we really want you guys to try and make it, if possible.
And who else do you guys have coming to the wedding?
We invited some people from California.
Aunt Bev, Aunt Susan from North Carolina and Virginia.
I invited some people from high school.
Um, I invited my mom.
And her husband, so my stepdad. Yeah, I invited them.
So if they make that trip, it'll be impressive,
but I invited them.
Thomas was nine, Megan was six,
when I was going through my divorce.
She wasn't involved in their life at all.
And so I ended up with custody of the children,
which is not a normal occurrence.
So it was very difficult for the children to go through it.
And I had to be strong to be there for them.
And, you know, they had to be strong themselves.
I will try our best
to make it out there.
I don't know if I can go because I have a farm hand that
watches the farm when we travel in the camper, and I don't know
if they're gonna be able to cover my farm.
[Thomas] Yeah, but our wedding won't feel
complete unless our full family
gets to make it, including you, Rini.
I'll see what I can do.
"Yes, we're going, we're so happy."
They was like, "Mm, I'll see."
[speaking Portuguese]
Paula wants to have the entire family together,
but Thomas' real family is me and Rini.
Paula believes that she knows how things should work,
but Thomas' biological mother
and myself will never speak to each other again.
It's your wedding, and you guys are making a commitment
to each other, and the two most important people that need
to be at the wedding are you two.
[upbeat music playing]
Yeah.
Eh?
Wow.
Alright, y'all. We got the snacks.
Y'all ready for something to eat?
[Juliette] Not really.
[Ashia] Tonight, I'm meeting with my mom, his parents, Blaise.
And we're gonna let everybody know that we're going
to pursue the spousal visa,
which I'm happy to get that off my chest.
But we got to give them the news that
we're getting married.
And not only are we getting married,
we're getting married in just over a week.
This is not ideal, but we're gonna roll with it.
We're gonna make it happen.
[Maxwell speaking]
[Juliette speaking]
[Maxwell] Oh.
I said it to-- when I was speaking--
[Ashia] As this situation is unfolding, Mom is being very quiet.
And come to find out, my mama told her, like,
she the one who spilled the beans, so right now,
I just can't see anything straight.
I deliberately did not tell these people my age.
And it was because of how they view older women.
So I felt like,
you know, that's between me and Maxwell, that topic.
If he's OK with my age,
then they shouldn't have an opinion on it.
Blaise, you said you like me as a person,
so don't judge me based off statistics.
Judge me based on me.
But I'm still worried.
You know your brother makes great decisions.
He's very wise. He's smart.
He's intelligent.
He was raised by two great parents.
They might not approve of the fact that I'm 10 years
older than Maxwell, but they're just
gonna have to live with it.
I can be 10 years older than Maxwell.
I can be 100 years older than Maxwell.
But one thing for sure, we're getting married.
I'm walking down that aisle, and there's nothing anybody can
do about it because this union that we have is God-ordained.
Period.
[Clement speaking]
Why do you think he keeps forgiving you?
I think Josh thinks we're, like, a good match long term.
But I think he's also overlooking
my repeated behavior.
One second, I'll only want Josh, and I'll be like,
"Why would I ever throw this away?"
and then the next second, I'll be like,
"I should just have fun
and live my life to the fullest."
[Ryan] Like, should you be getting married?
With these feelings?
♪ Come on, come on ♪
♪ You must be high or out of your mind ♪
♪ Saying I'm sorry isn't good enough ♪
♪ You live and learn, you make a mistake ♪
♪ You crash and burn, there's a price to pay ♪
- [Ryan] Hi. - [Catie] Hey.
- How are you? - Great.
[Catie] How-- have you recovered?
I recovered, yeah.
- Did you drink that much? - I had much less than you did.
Oh, damn.
♪ What makes you think I ever think about ♪
♪ Forgiving your ass ♪
♪ What's up with that ♪
♪ You know you got a lot nerve ♪
♪ You got a lot of nerve, I'm here to tell you ♪
♪ Not a chance ♪
♪ I think I'll pass ♪
I feel like Josh is reaching his breaking point.
And if I keep acting how I acted at my birthday
party, he'll...
not want to be with me.
Was that the most drunk you've ever seen me?
- No, no, far from it. - [Catie laughs] OK.
'Cause of my OCD, I always am telling myself,
"Don't make out with anyone, don't be flirty."
And then I'll tell myself to stop obsessing over this
and enjoy the moment.
And then somehow
I relax and then I'm impulsive and make out with people.
- Cool. - OK, let's go.
Let's go.
[Catie] I think I can stop, but
I think I'll need to put a lot of effort into controlling
my drinking, and finding a balance
between being my fun party self,
but also being loyal to Josh.
I'm kind of worried about your relationship with alcohol.
- Really? - [Ryan] Yeah.
Why?
Because, like, you can be a very fun, chill person,
but then, like, drunk Katie does things that sober Katie,
like, regrets a lot. - Yeah.
Yeah, I'm also worried about that.
[Josh speaking]
- Like-- - [Catie] And then I stress out about it a lot.
I think me and Josh are amicable.
And I don't feel like my continued friendship
with Catie will cause conflict
in the relationship anymore.
So I'm happy for that.
But my biggest concern for Catie is that
she just continues to...
like, self-destruct her happiness.
Ow! Sorry.
- Ouch, ow. - [Ryan] Are you OK?
- What did you just do? - [laughs]
I hit my arm.
When Josh was talking to me this morning and was trying to,
like, tell me all his feelings with, like, my drinking
and my behavior, he said, "I'm disappointed in you"
multiple times.
And it just made me feel really defeated and sad.
Ugh, I'm worried I'll never change and I'll ruin my life.
Like, you keep saying this whenever bad stuff happens.
Like, do you actually think Josh is gonna dump you?
I think I'm pushing the limits.
Why do you think he keeps forgiving you?
I think he thinks we're, like, a good match long term
and that I'd be a good partner.
But I think he's also overlooking
my repeated behavior.
But I think eventually he might not.
I do have a fear that Josh will leave me
or get sick of my shenanigans.
And I think with, like, OCD,
it's like, I think about it like a lot more
and I, like, just, like, replays in my brain.
So it's-- the fear is torturing me
instead of me like actually taking good steps to fix it.
So like, if he stops forgiving you, how would that feel?
That would like break my heart.
And I would not. I don't know.
I think I'd be in a really bad place.
And I don't wanna mess this up, 'cause I love him.
Despite us fighting and stuff, I do love him.
I know, like, you're feeling like you're on a clock,
but like should you be getting married with these feelings?
Hm.
I mean...
I don't think-- I-- I-- ah, it's so hard, 'cause, like,
I don't think we should be getting married, realistically.
But I think if we want to like start our life together,
we have to get married.
It's a constant battle with my head, whether,
"Oh, I should settle down and be with the person I love,"
or, "I should just have fun
and live my life to the fullest."
But then I also really want to be with Josh.
One second, I'll...
only want Josh, and I'll be like,
"Why would I ever throw this away?"
And then the next second, I'll be like,
"I could see ourselves in a marriage
where we're both not happy and not getting our needs met."
And I have less than 90 days to figure it out.
Mm.
I don't like it.
There have been times since you got here that I've had,
like, some serious doubts.
And said to myself, like, "What-- what did I do?"
This is too scary for me,
and I don't know if I can go through with it.
♪ Don't let me down softly ♪
♪ Just say you're gonna leave ♪
♪ Oh, I am in the water ♪
♪ Keep telling me to breathe ♪
♪ You tell me your sorrow ♪
♪ But I don't want the pain ♪
♪ Don't tell me that tomorrow ♪
♪ Is just another day ♪
♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh ♪
I think it would be foolish to throw away six years.
We've been through a lot, as a couple, and is this gonna
be the end of our story?
[Devyn] Hey, y'all.
Hey.
I'm feeling a lot of tense energy in here right now.
OK, I'm gonna just go ahead and leave you all to it.
[Devyn] Well, this is exciting.
We haven't done a manicure or a pedicure in so long.
[Debby] Yeah, I know. This is gonna be fun.
It's been so tense and awkward at home with my mom
and Mido kind of...
icing each other out and not really talking,
that I think it was a good idea for us to go ahead
and have some mother-daughter time
and to come out and get some pedicures.
[worker] Hey, y'all. How's it going?
- Hi. - It's good. How are you?
[worker] Great.
I have very serious concerns that I think that she needs
to really seriously consider and think through because
this is a huge life decision.
- [Debby] Oh, wow, OK. - This way.
- Hi, just right here. - [Debby] Thank you.
- Thank you. - Just watch your step.
Let me pull this out of the way for you.
- You good? - [Debby] Yeah.
- [Devyn] Good. - It's been a stressful couple of weeks.
- Yeah, I can kind of tell. - Thank you, dear.
- Thank you, thank you. - [Devyn] Thank you so much.
[Debby] Yeah, it's been really bad.
Like, something like that cannot happen again.
Yeah, but how are things going with Mido then?
'Cause I've noticed I noticed that he's still on the couch.
Y'all aren't talking and everything,
but you're still over here,
like, seriously trying to get married.
We've been together for six years now.
I'm not willing to just throw that away on a whim.
Well, it wouldn't necessarily even really be a whim,
'cause you're having all of this mounting evidence
from just the few months of...
y'all being together.
It's coming little by little.
We both just need time.
That's... not really something that you have.
That clock is ticking.
Like, you need to be able to make hard choices...
- Quick. - Quick.
Because what happens when, if y'all go through with it,
and y'all keep arguing,
it keeps getting worse and worse.
And then y'all are married, y'all are legally bound together
in an international marriage. - [Debby] But that's it, right.
and y'all don't wanna be together anymore? - [Debby] But then that's it.
That's it.
If we move forward, we're moving forward.
[Devyn] Mm-hmm.
[Debby] That is where I am at.
OK.
There are just a few things I-- I want from him.
I want a formal proposal.
I just need to him to say, "I love you."
That's all I can say.
And has he been able to say that?
[Debby] No.
This was never the way I dreamed it would be.
No, this is the reality.
This isn't a fairy tale or a fantasy
or anything like that.
I just think the truth has a way of rising to the surface.
But what if you're being shown the truth right now?
Then I have to make a decision.
But I mean, I need time.
I need time.
[Debby] I'm not ready to give up hope just yet.
Is there issues that need to be contended with?
Absolutely.
We've got some major issues to deal with.
But I'm also not willing to just go,
"It's done, it's over, go home, that's the end of it."
Because it's not.
It just hasn't reached that point yet.
But I need to see, to have peace of mind for myself,
some forward moving something soon.
Because, at this point, I'm not sure if Mido loves me.
It just...
I'm at my wit's end with the whole thing.
To me, the logic isn't really there, to be honest.
♪ Ooh, no, no, no, no, no, no ♪
♪ Ooh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no ♪
Park, parque.
- El parque. - El parque.
- Oh.
♪ I keep searching ♪
So I figured we could also, like, get out of the house.
OK. And just enjoy some quiet time,
'cause there's always a lot of things
going on at the house.
And just I wanna just like kind of get a temperature check of
like how you're feeling right now,
because I know it's been not so easy.
I know that I've been a nightmare to deal with,
and I feel really badly about that.
But I wanna, you know, kind of understand, like,
what this whole process has been like for you so far.
Because I know it hasn't been easy for me.
After I spoke to my mother,
I feel like I need to have a heart-to-heart with Edward.
I know that I've been really tough on Edward,
and I feel really bad about it.
You know, rude and kind of snippy.
And I don't like how I'm behaving,
but I feel like I can't control it
because I'm starting to question
if this is really the right decision for me.
Um...
Oh, like...
I appreciate that you, like, think about this
and, like, try to, like,
understand my feelings, you know?
You wanna sit down for a sec?
- Yeah, of course. - 'Cause I feel like this is...
something I wanna really kind of listen to
and hear your point of view on. - [Edward] Like...
Mm.
I don't like it.
Honestly, I don't like it at all.
I've been,
like, a bitch.
I'm gonna admit it. Like, I feel really bad.
I feel like embarrassed for my behavior,
there's just been a lot of hard conversations and a lot of,
like, adjustments and fears
that are kind of like clouding my...
my-- my-- my judgment, my feelings, like.
This is hard to say, and I don't want you to really
get very sensitive about this, but...
like...
There have been times since you got here that I've had,
like, some serious doubts about this relationship.
And, like, I have said to myself, like, "What did I do?
Like, what am I getting myself into?"
I mean, do you feel that way?
Do you feel like there have been times since you got here
that you were like, "[bleep] did I make a mistake?"
[Marissa] You know, but that's the difference between us.
I think that you're just always thinking
for the best. - [Edward] Yeah, I'm like this.
- I'm not-- I'm not-- - And I'm thinking for the worst.
Listen, like, my whole life, I never have a choice.
I just-- I just always move forward.
It's like something is bad, I don't have time to, like,
sit down, cry, figure it out.
No. I need to move forward.
But the point is that you always have this idea of,
like, you're gonna, like,
you made your decision,
and you're gonna make it work.
I love that you're 100% sure
that this is what you wanna do, but you also have--
you have to understand that, like, there are reasons
why I'm not 100% sure.
I'm sorry that, like, I don't have the same conviction
that you feel.
Like, this is too scary for me, and I don't know
if I can go through with it.
[announcer] Please rise and remove your caps
and join us as we honor our country
with the national anthem.
Stand up.
Take your hat off.
♪ Oh say can you see ♪
♪ By the dawn's early light ♪
♪ Oh so proudly we hailed ♪
- [bleep] because you-- - Babe.
You are very-- you got...
Turkish people are very proud of their culture.
They take their culture very, more serious
than Americans probably.
Yes, they do!
No!
OK, OK.
No, that's not true.
That's not true. That's not true.
Oh, God.
[all cheering]
MaCayla, you wanna swap?
- [MaCayla] OK. - Oh my God.
[Rasit] Very, very good.
- MaCayla, hi. - [MaCayla] Hi!
Oh, my God.
- Anyways. - [MaCayla] Anyways.
Y'all want a drink?
[Mallorie] Yeah, I want a drink.
- You want a baseball bat beer? - Yeah.
A beer and a baseball bat?
[MaCayla] Y'all wanna go get one?
I'm gonna go, too, because I'm--
Low, low on E.
- [MaCayla] Thank you. - You're welcome.
[Mallorie speaking]
[MaCayla] He seriously wouldn't even sit by him?
[Mallorie] Well, it's like, get over it. Get the [bleep] over it.
- Everyone's moved on with their lives. - [MaCayla] Seriously.
Yeah.
So how is play, like, how I can play?
As soon as you leave,
you're trying to get as many people on base.
No, I-- I-- I want to listen Ryn.
OK, well, if you wanna listen to him,
I'm gonna go piss. Excuse me.
I'm gonna tell you right now,
I've known Brandon for a really long time,
my absolute best friend in the world.
He's just, he's a really good guy.
And I know he's got the history with Mallorie,
but I know he don't have any intentions with your wife.
[Ryn] Just give him time to prove it.
You'll see the good side of Brandon that I see every day.
Yeah.
I am sorry.
Feel better?
[Ryn] Good deal.
Look, I got your bat.
- Oh, my God. - [Rasit] What is this?
[Mallorie] It's beer.
I don't want.
Really.
You're putting everybody in a really difficult position
by being like this.
OK, well, then you don't care about me,
and you don't care about trying to--
Yeah, I do care, I-- I care you,
but I don't care, like, you know.
No, I don't know.
[Rasit] I don't want this, baby.
It's like, I don't know why you're being so difficult.
Mac and I planned this whole day out so you guys could
squash this silly little bull[bleep] that's going on.
We talked about respect.
Here we are, you're still not respecting me.
He's not going anywhere.
He's going to be around, and you need to get over it.
[Rasit] OK.
Yeah, but you're in America now.
You're just gonna have to put your big boy pants on
and get over it. - [Rasit] Alright.
Move the [bleep] on.
[Rasit] No.
I've been straight up with you,
and you've shown--
you've shown me nothing, but disrespect.
Well, you know what? This conversation's over.
- Oh! - [bleep] you.
[speaking Turkish]
[Brandon speaking]
[tense music plays]
Don't judge me based off your culture, but judge me
based off me.
Give us a year.
Wow.
Well, Blaise, he gotta get a job and get settled
and get comfortable.
Who created time?
So the Father of time put us together at a certain time.
And we're just gonna trust in God's timing.
- Is that right, sweetie? - Yeah.
[Ashia] And in America, we have so many options.
We can freeze eggs.
We can do all kind of things. Surrogates.
Fertility is very personal.
And I just feel like that's a bit much for this situation.
We are all faith-based people, so why don't you have the faith
that God is gonna give me a child?
Like, we can take it biblical.
Like, Sarah was 90 something years old
when she had her first child.
So if God wanted to happen, by all means,
it's going to happen.
[Juliette speaking]
[Juliette] I know, that's right.
[Ashia] Thanks, sweetie.
The number one thing is the kingdom.
When we're making a union,
we're all part of the kingdom of God.
That need to be the main focus.
That's right.
[Ashia] Thank you.
[Maria speaking]
[Clement speaking]
I'm glad everything's out, you know.
I appreciate everybody's opinion, and this will be a good
opportunity for us to pray and let God seal everything.
Do y'all wanna join hands?
Our Father, which are in heaven, hallowed be thy name,
Lord Jesus. Thank you
for being who you are.
At the end of the day, at least Maxwell family, they know
about the age.
Nothing is hidden
at this point. They know.
I ask that you bless everybody that's holding hands, Lord.
Lord, touch them right now, heavenly Father.
Right now, we gotta make sure that everybody is in prayer
and have the best interest for us, because if there's not
unity, I feel like that leaves room for the devil to creep in.
Everybody holding hands, open up your mouth and give God
praise in the name of Jesus, Lord. - [Blaise] Thank you, Jesus.
- Lord, I thank you right now, Lord Jesus. - [all praying]
Come into this room right now. [mumbling]
- In the name of Jesus. - [all] Amen.
- [Ashia] Amen. - Amen.
- Thank you, Lord. - Thank you, Lord.
That's a perfect place to clap.
I'm just ready to get down this aisle, and I just don't want
anything causing issues before we get there.
[speaking Igbo]
...is well done. - [Ashia and Juliette] Well done.
[speaking Spanish]
What happened?
You OK?
[speaking Spanish]
♪ So burn like a wildfire ♪
♪ Burn like a wildfire ♪
What happened?
- You OK? - [Edward] Hm?
You OK?
[Marissa] Why?
It's part of the process.
If we don't work through these things now,
we're never gonna feel,
or I'm never gonna feel that the decision
at the end of the 90 days is a good one.
That's why we have to talk about it.
We have to have the hard conversations in order to make
our bond stronger.
[Edward speaking]
- What does that mean? - Because, like...
That's what I'm trying to say, is that, like,
if we don't have these conversations
and these hard moments in our relationship
to just make sure that everything is good to go
so that we finally do get married,
I feel that this is the right decision.
Just because I say these things
doesn't mean that I don't love you.
I mean, you know that I love you.
I'm doing everything in the [bleep] world
to get you here.
But just as you're going through these things,
you don't like to have these hard conversations.
I don't like to feel overwhelmed in my space either.
So there's gonna be these ups and downs.
It's gonna happen.
But you have to, like, be able to, like, manage through
the difficult and not get so broken by them.
Because it...
- Weakness? - Yeah.
I don't want that. I don't, I-- I hate that.
I don't, I-- I don't like to people look me like...
like a freaking little girl, like, just crying all the time.
- You're not crying. - Yeah, but like, that's--
You're dealing with emotion, but that's OK.
You're allowed to have emotion.
You don't need to bottle everything up and just let me
be the crazy one that's, like,
feeling all these emotions and uncertainties and everything.
I feel better.
I don't have problems with these conversations because
I'm expressing myself
and I feel happy that you give me
the outlet to do that, right? - [Edward] Yeah.
You need to feel that too.
And holding it all in and pretending like
everything's gonna be great, everything's gonna be fine
is not healthy for you.
But if I'm the only one that's expressing like all this emotion
and you're just like, "It's OK, like, I love you,
I love you, I love you," like, we're not gonna make it.
Stand up for yourself, like.
Tell me how you're feeling, because I need, like,
a strong man in my life that's gonna put me in check
when I need to be.
[Edward] Can we go?
Is this too good to be true?
Is this, like, this kind, loving person?
Is this who he really is?
Like, I believe that he is, but I've also seen some crazy
[bleep] in life that, like, you know, you believe that
you know somebody, and then all of a sudden they completely
change into somebody that you don't even know anymore.
Then it starts to make me think, is he just putting up
with it so that, like,
he gets his papers and, you know,
then one day he's gonna be like, "I'm outta here."
That's a real fear.
It doesn't matter what happened in the past.
Now the issue is, is that you're just a [bleep] dick to him.
No, you didn't delete them.
- I'm not-- - Always bla, bla, bla.
This is definitely not the man I fell in love with,
and I'm not putting up with this [bleep].
♪ I will swing, swing that hammer ♪
♪ Till the day, the day is done ♪
- OK? - [MaCayla] I guess I'm going too.
♪ I will swing ♪
♪ Swing that hammer ♪
♪ Until the day is done ♪
What are you eating? Oh, my God.
- [Rasit] What? I like. - The popcorn he threw on you?
- [Rasit] Yeah. - OK, alright, whatever.
Whatever floats your boat.
- I don't care. - [Mallorie] OK.
I feel embarrassed. I'm annoyed.
I'm angry.
Honestly, like, you've ruined the day.
You ruined my mood.
I just want to go home at this point.
- It's hot as [bleep]. - OK.
- Let's just go. - OK.
[Mallorie] I think to an extent, Rash is just pushing Brandon to make
to make Brandon seem like he's the villain,
so Rash has a reason for him to continue being on
the hating Brandon train.
And it's just like...
Come on!
I'm really not happy with you.
You were a dick to him the minute you saw him.
If you would have saw him and shook his hand and said,
"Hey, everything that happened at the White Trash Bash,
"let's put that to the side for today
and let's have a good day together,"
but no, you couldn't do that.
- OK? - But you have me.
So why does it matter?
You're the one I'm marrying.
What is this issue?
There shouldn't even be a [bleep] issue.
I don't have any family here.
My friends are my family.
And when that car accident--
No, listen, I'm--
- No, I'm talking. - OK?
Don't talk over me.
When the car accident happened, the only people I had
were my friends.
And one of my friends that stepped up was Brandon.
I am here for you.
- But-- - I know you are,
but you were halfway across the world,
and that wasn't your fault.
That wasn't your fault.
I don't-- I'm not--
Always bla, bla, bla.
No, you didn't delete them.
Oh, my God.
I know.
It's terrifying, to be completely honest,
that we're supposed to be getting married in two months,
and this is definitely not
the man I fell in love with.
I didn't sign up to be with a man who is
possessive and controlling.
Maybe it is a culture thing.
I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt.
He's changed his entire world just to be with me,
but also in the same breath he's in America.
I'm American, and...
I'm-- I'm not-- I'm not putting up with this [bleep].
So what do you want?
I want you to apologize to him.
- This is ridiculous, dude. - No.
Like, at this point, it doesn't even matter what happened
in the past.
Now the issue is, is that you're just a [bleep] dick to him.
It's ridiculous.
- Catch. - [Mallorie] No.
Mother[bleep].
[Mallorie] Bye.
[Ashia] Next time on "90 Day Fiancé."
[friend #1] I'm a financial advisor.
[friend #2] I'm in the insurance industry.
[Edward] Oh.
I feel like I'm, like, losing who I am.
I'm just so frustrated and angry all the time.
Today is the day.
I thought Annabelle would come open-minded.
But the entire time we're in church,
judging everybody. Looking at everybody.
Just rude.
I'm not gonna move churches.
She's the one coming into our life.
OK, that's enough, I'm-- I'm--
I don't wanna hear it.
Whatever y'all decide to do is on y'all.
We just decided that we're gonna go ahead
and get married while I'm here and do what we need to do.
That's disrespectful.
Are you pregnant or something?
Maybe you guys can help Rash understand.
I want a prenup just to protect.
Did you ever take into consideration that he packed
his whole life up to move here?
[MaCayla] I'm gonna be honest.
I'm the one who suggested it in the first place.
[Ryn] He put everything he has into you.
Why not do the same and put everything you've got into him?
[Debby] Mm-hmm.
No.
Oh, my God!