[Catie] Previously on "90 Day Fiancé."
-Is this possibly the one? -This is the one.
[friends cheer indistinctly]
[Marissa] Even though I work in bridal,
my love life isn't a fairy tale.
At first, I was like, "We're gonna get married
as soon as you get to the United States."
But now, reality's setting in.
An executive from New York meets a hotel entertainment worker.
-Hi! -[Marissa laughs]
It's vast differences.
Sometimes I feel like I have real-life problems.
And like, you know, he tells me about his problems
and I'm like, "That's not a problem."
I have a lot more at stake here.
Aw.
[Catie speaking]
[Josh] Mm-hmm.
[Catie speaking]
And when I get drunk, I really wanna make out
with everyone I know.
I was a little bit crazy the past two months.
I, like, kissed people while drunk again.
Josh says he can't see himself married to me if I keep
doing this. -Did you tell Josh about this?
[Shea] Oh, yeah.
I don't tell my fiancée, Anabelle, every single thing
that goes on at the parties.
I was in bed with you when you were with Anabelle.
I mean, that's not gonna happen when she's here.
You do know when she gets here, we are actually gonna
have a conversation. There's no way around that.
Hallelujah!
God has given me multiple gifts, and Maxwell is the man
I have been waiting for.
But there's still that stereotype
of Nigerians being scammers.
OK, sweetie, what they say?
I'm not accepting that.
I don't know how the devil snuck in,
but I know one thing.
He gotta leave with that darn visa.
And that's for sure.
♪ I took the long way, but I came back around ♪
♪ All of the hard days are over now ♪
[Shea] Alright.
Daddy's going to get Mommy Belle.
Are y'all excited? She'll be here.
We gotta finish cleaning up.
Daddy will be back tomorrow with Mommy Belle.
♪ Love is a fire burning in my heart ♪
♪ Got back my rhythm and once I start ♪
♪ There ain't no stopping this chain ♪
Y'all are gonna be lucky if you get to stay in the house.
Yeah, she might throw y'all out.
We're gonna have to brush you more.
We're gonna have to -- no.
See? Come on, get down.
That's what I'm talking about.
Anabelle does not like dog hair.
My fiancée, Anabelle, literally is a clean freak.
Get down. Stay off the couch, bud.
I answer the phone. She's got a broom in her hand.
You know, she's washing dishes.
When I, you know, she's doing laundry.
I mean, she keeps it immaculate, golly.
Look at all this hair y'all got.
You're gonna get me in trouble.
It's just me and the dogs at my bachelor pad.
And, you know, I'm more of
a robo-vac every now and then,
and, you know, dust on really special occasions.
And, you know, but Anabelle,
it's like a daily thing for her.
She even tells me she's allergic to dog hair.
And she's not allergic to dog hair.
She just doesn't want it
everywhere in the house.
OK, I gotta get going, guys. About time.
Daddy be back tomorrow.
Off to St. Louis.
Couple hours, I'll be at the airport.
You know, I don't know how it's gonna go.
It's definitely a long time coming.
I mean, that's my fear is me tell her that I cheated on
her and, you know, that's what Nicole's gonna tell her,
even though, you know, in my mind it's not, but you know
when that word comes out and, you know,
I don't know how she'll perceive it.
Maybe at a party on the lake or something I kissed a chick
or had a few too many and were just having fun.
And to me, that's not cheating. That's having a good time.
There's a lot going through my mind and a lot of what ifs.
Maybe my ex-wife, Nicole, is just bluffing and just
trying to get my goat.
But on the other hand, what if she's not and she's really
trying to break up my marriage?
Spot's kind of narrow.
See if I can get out.
I've been married twice. This is gonna be my third.
And it's really hit my wallet.
So either Anabelle's gonna be my partner forever,
or we're just not gonna get married.
♪ Keep reaching for that good life ♪
♪ 'Cause I believe it's coming soon ♪
[Shea] Oh, 454. OK, we're good.
It's getting kinda hard to breathe.
My stomach's hurting.
I mean, she's changing her whole life to come be
with me, so, you know, I'm excited.
I'm gonna say I'm sweating, I'm very hot.
I don't think it's that hot in here, I'm just like...
[optimistic music playing]
-Oh, my God! -Babe!
[giggles]
-Hey, hello! -[Shea] Oh, my God, baby!
♪ [indistinct lyrics] ♪
-Oh, baby! -[Anabelle] Oh!
I missed you so much, baby!
[Anabelle speaking]
You OK, baby?
-Yeah, I'm... -You OK?
-[Anabelle speaking] -You don't look like you've been flying 30 hours.
Oh, Lord.
I got you some flowers.
Smell good?
I -- he -- [stuttering]
God, I miss you so much, baby.
Oh, Lord.
To get to this day, it's almost surreal.
It's like I gotta pinch you, and I gotta pinch me,
because it almost feels like it's not real.
Well, it just doesn't feel like it's real, baby.
-It's taking so long, right? -Yeah.
[Shea] Crazy, baby, crazy.
We're in the airport, baby.
-[Anabelle] It's OK. -Wanna go get your bags, baby?
[Anabelle] Yeah.
...get in the bed with you and love all over you and...
I missed that so much the last two years.
Oh.
OK, well, we can definitely arrange that.
Oh, my gosh. I can't believe it!
Um, yes.
[both singing] Oh, say, can you see.
-La, da, da, da, da, da. -By the dawn's early light.
What so proudly we hailed
At the twilight's last gleaming?
♪ Whose broad stripes and bright stars ♪
♪ Through the perilous fight ♪
[singing] And the rocket's red glare, the bombs bursting in air,
gave proof to the night that the flag was still there.
Da, da, da, da, da, da, da.
Sorry, I got bored.
[Catie laughs] I'm sorry I did a remix.
So I arrived in the States, and Catie's got a hotel room,
which, frankly, I'm quite happy with,
'cause I was worried
that we might be sleeping in the car or worse.
So I'm really glad that we can just be us and kinda
reconnect and be with each other.
Don't we --
I do, I -- I definitely smell bad.
Your mouth smells bad, actually.
-My mouth smells bad? -Yeah, like, your breath.
[Josh] Well, I'm gonna clean my teeth.
Good.
[Josh] Catie has, since I first met her,
she was and continues to be
as probably the bluntest person I know.
I have this mental image of a Tasmanian Devil, like...
in the flesh.
Do you wanna talk about them?
No, I was just like, "Oh, we should be naked while
driving," and I was like, "Wait, I think that's illegal."
To be naked whilst driving. Is that a -- a state law?
I don't -- I don't...
That's public nudity, is that --
That might be legal in the UK, but it's not legal here.
There's no badness in Catie.
She is a menace only in the most comical, ridiculous sense.
-Ooh. -Uh.
I'm scratching your beard.
-With your sweaty hand. -Yeah, my hand is really sweaty.
Sorry, oh, to be fair, I put on a lot of hand sanitizer.
Look, surprise, we're at a hotel.
It doesn't suck.
Nice.
-[Catie] Are you excited? Look, it's gorgeous here. -[Josh] Yes.
-It's colorful, isn't it? -[Catie] Yeah.
I like it.
It's very, like, Portland vibes.
OK, here's the room.
-Look, ah! -[Josh] Oh, this is lovely.
This looks super comfortable.
[Catie speaking]
Yeah, show me.
[Catie] This morning.
-I -- but then I kinda gave up halfway because... -[Josh] Oh, I love it.
[Catie] ...I was running out of time, but...
Catie has this wonderful kind of, uh,
ability to go from being quite blunt and brutal
to being the sweetest, softest, sentimental person.
Uh, and it comes out in things like decorating the hotel room
or decorating me at the airport.
And it just -- it just makes me melt inside.
I'm just like, "Oh, I love you."
I was so stressed out about us having sex.
-Now I'm tired. -Why were you stressed out?
I was just stressed 'cause I feel like we've had problems
with, um, me feeling wanted and I was worried when
you came here you wouldn't wanna have sex, and that would
just, like, set the mood wrong, and then we'd be awkward,
and then our chemistry would be dead.
Yeah, I mean, I feel like
the main thing is getting rid of all, like, the --
the stress-y kind of work, kind of bull[bleep],
you know, that -- wait until, like,
we're settling down and really focus on us.
I just was having a really hard trusting that that would
actually happen when we get here.
I just wanna feel like you want me.
I know I need to focus on you more.
Should we both make...
commitments?
And maybe one commitment you can make is to not keep
kissing other people?
I think that she makes out with people partly from insecurity,
and partly I think she gets a bit of an impulsive rush
from playing with fire.
I think she also knows that it's hurtful, and I think
she knows that it's not right.
And that's why I'm patient, because I think her heart's
in the right place. But I could very well say, "I...
"don't like this, and here's an ultimatum,
stop it or I'm leaving." -[Catie] I don't know.
I, like, I want to feel wanted.
[Josh] You know, we think in very different ways.
-Yeah. -Very often, and so...
I think sex is an important part of what
we're talking about.
I think that it's intimacy and loving and...
I don't feel loving if we're not having sex.
I mean, I don't feel loving when you're -- you're playing
with other guys.
-I -- I think that's -- -At least they wanna have sex with me.
Honestly, I'm, like, worried things won't change.
[Debby and Mido speaking]
[Debby] Handsome.
I'm Debby, and my fiancé's name is Mido,
and he's an Egyptian movie star.
I love you.
He's already asking if I would be willing to, like, move.
-Move where? -Hollywood, New York.
I can't help but worry that Mido's just coming over here
to become a star.
There are. But that's not the one for me.
It's not a realistic relationship,
but she thinks so.
I'm worried about your safety.
I mean, what if the embassy,
they know something that we don't know?
[bell rings]
-[elevator beeps] -[dog barks]
♪ Well, if I was a dog ♪
♪ I wouldn't wear no button-up shirt ♪
Morning.
I'm good. How are you doing this morning?
♪ And I'd get all the praise I could want ♪
♪ Though I'm just chasing my tail ♪
[Debby speaking]
♪ Honey, that's the life for me ♪
[Debby] That's a good girl.
-[phone ringing] -OK.
Hi. How can I help you?
I'm Debby, I'm 55 years old,
and I'm from New Orleans, Louisiana.
Come on. Good girl.
I am an insurance agent.
It's a pretty monotonous day-in-and-day-out career.
[whistling]
[optimistic, calm music playing]
I am in charge of writing new business.
[phone ringing]
Good morning. Hi, this is Debby.
We have metrics that we have to hit every day.
I was going over that quote that we did
for your auto insurance.
Walking someone through a claim, anything that you can
think of in the course of an insurance policy.
We wanna make sure that you are absolutely covered
with all of your coverages. Raising your deductibles
from $500 to $1,000.
The state of Louisiana allows for a five-year interval
for an accident...
It would be very important for you to carry
higher bodily injury coverages...
But outside of work, my life is way more exciting.
Six years ago, I decided that I was going to take a trip
to Egypt with my daughter
and ended up meeting the love of my life.
My fiancé's name is Mido.
He is 41 years old,
and he's an Egyptian movie star.
Mido is an actor and a model. I mean, look at him.
He has a fantastic smile, an absolutely gorgeous face,
and he has a charm and a wit about him that makes
all his physical attributes electrifying.
Mido is famous...
on social media.
He's got hundreds of thousands of followers.
People know who he is in Egypt.
Mido's...
Honestly, he doesn't show me his work.
I don't know why.
I've asked him to send me, like, reels of stuff
that he's done.
But he says I'm not gonna understand what they're
saying, so he keeps telling me, "I'll show you when I arrive
and I'll explain to you what's going on."
But he's got hundreds of thousands of followers, so...
obviously, he's... built up some sort of following.
[upbeat music playing]
[Debby] Let's call Papi, come on.
[phone ringing]
Hey, baby.
[Mido speaking]
-[Debby] Handsome. -[Mido speaking]
[Debby] OK, let me see.
Hmm. Oh my gosh.
[Mido speaking]
Your pyramid is not finished yet.
-OK. -[Mido speaking]
The funnest thing about Mido is that we just have
a really good banter.
But at first, when I met Mido, he annoyed me.
I was on a trip with my daughter, Devyn, to Egypt,
and he was our tour guide.
He said probably one of the cheesiest things possible.
He called me Cleopatra or some goddess.
I don't remember which one, but it was enough that I was
just like, "Oh God."
And then my daughter leans over and she's like,
"He's flirting with you." And I went, "No."
She was like, "Mom, he's flirting with you."
And so we climbed into the Great Pyramid of Khufu.
And when we were climbing down, he kissed me.
And I was really kind of, like, shocked.
Being single for so long, I kinda didn't know what
to do with it.
You know, he's younger than I am, very handsome.
He's very charismatic.
It was just something that I didn't know if it was real.
Are you nervous for your trip?
[Debby] Little bit?
[Mido speaking]
What are you going to be packing?
Baby, we have tuna fish. You don't need to pack.
Really? Really?
[Debby] Yes.
[Mido speaking]
That's different.
I miss you.
Yeah, definitely.
-Send me some more of your modeling shots... -OK.
...so I can print those.
[Debby] OK.
When Mido gets to America, his expectation is
he definitely wants to be an actor, and he wants to be
a major actor.
I love you.
Bye, bye.
And that's also a great fear, because what if he arrives here
and after two months realizes is this is not gonna be
the place of opportunity?
Is he gonna be happy here?
[playful music playing]
[Debby] He's really photogenic.
[Devyn] So he still wants to do the acting thing when
he gets here? -That's the plan.
I don't know that the acting thing is really gonna
go anywhere, personally.
I love this one.
He's so photogenic.
This looks like an amateur photo...
-[Debby] You think? -...shoot thing for, like, Abercrombie & Fitch
or something.
He knows how to find the light in pictures.
To me, they don't really scream for, like,
professional actor headshots. They look like...
Instagram models.
I wish this one wouldn't have chopped the -- his head off.
I'm trying to be supportive, but he's already asking
if I would be willing to, like, move.
Move where?
Hollywood, New York.
He wants to -- he wants you to move to Hollywood with him?
His first priority should be
focused on the relationship with you.
He's very talented. He loves the camera.
The camera obviously loves him too.
He just needs a reality check because I know that there has
been a lot of weird sketchiness going on.
-Let's be real here. -[Debby] I know.
Mido is semi-famous on social media,
but he does not post me
on social media at all.
He says that social media is for work.
And I don't get as upset that he doesn't post about me
as when he posts with other women.
That gets on my nerves.
[Devyn] I need to hear him more and see him...
[Debby] Yeah.
...act like, not acting acting, but see how he acts.
-[Debby] Right, like how -- what he does. -How he behaves.
The relationship is gonna have to be more important
than the dream. Like, if he wants it.
Exactly.
So to me, I don't really care what you do, so long as
what you do makes you happy.
I know that, but I still, I'm still mom.
I still want you and your brother to be able to look
at me and say, "I'm proud of my mom."
-We are. -And I know
y'all are grown, and I know that y'all are on your own.
But at the end of it all, if I don't make y'all proud...
My mom is a very strong woman,
but that strength only goes so far.
So I really do genuinely hope
that Mido's intentions are pure.
I mean, this is already crazy enough.
It's good, mom. It's OK.
But it's true.
She really, truly does deserve happiness
and a good, healthy relationship.
I can't help but worry that Mido's just coming over here
to become a star.
[Derek] Oh, I'm out.
My divorce with my ex-husband, Michael, was challenging
for the kids.
I don't want him to replace dad.
[Marissa sighs] Yeah.
If the kids tell me this is not what they want,
then I'm gonna have to call it quits.
I know I've crossed some boundaries in the past while,
like, drunk, and I just want to be
really transparent with you.
♪ Who's to say ♪
♪ Walk as we take in ♪
♪ Could try to find the man of my dreams ♪
♪ But I don't want him yet ♪
♪ I'm coming in hot ♪
♪ You're staying up late, halo 'round your nose ♪
I got it. I am a ninja.
So I have 50-50 custody with my ex-husband, Michael,
for the boys, and that's what allows me to live
in Pennsylvania and then work in New York City.
I live a, you know, as a high-powered career woman,
and then I go home, and, like, I'm your basic
baseball and football mom,
and picking up the kids, cooking dinner, getting them
to all their events.
And I don't have time for Edward, and that's when
he typically feels not paid attention to,
and he gets angry.
That's one of the fights that we really have
on a frequent basis.
And when he sees me in action, I hope that he understands why
I have, you know, neglected to call him sometimes,
or I'm just too tired at the end of the night
to get on a phone call.
I'm -- I'm very grateful for the opportunity to still get
to spend some time in New York, but I personally don't like
the hustle and bustle of every single day.
Like, I'd rather, like, come back to Pennsylvania and relax.
[upbeat music playing]
So this is my neighborhood. You could take a look around.
I love the streets are tree-lined.
And the neighbors are really nice, but mostly that it's super
quiet and it's quite a shift for me, but it's just like,
it's a happier place to be than New York City.
Derek, Cole.
I kinda separate my mom life versus my career life.
-Cole, it's my pick. -[Cole] Alright.
Derek is the oldest, and he is currently 11 years old.
And Cole is the younger one, and he's 10.
-Alright, so. -Alright, I'll go first.
[Marissa] OK, go.
They don't even look like brothers.
They look completely opposite.
[Derek] Got it.
Derek is my little athlete, and Cole...
[Cole] No!
...is more of my artistic child.
Loves art, loves music, loves creating things.
Wait, do I have a PI already?
Yeah.
[Marissa] Oh, I'm out.
But for me, I love having the contrast
in their personalities in my life.
And Derek wins.
-[Cole] I missed on purpose, actually. -Good game, good game.
-Good game, good game, good game, good game. -[Derek] Good game.
Nice job.
Prior to Edward, I've never let the kids
meet a boyfriend in person.
So this is one of the biggest changes that we're ever
gonna experience, you know?
It's -- it's been like a roller coaster of emotions
every single day.
Alright, so we know Edward's gonna be here in a couple days,
so, like, I just wanna, like, lay out what's happening
exactly 'cause our lives are changing.
-Yeah. -[Marissa] You know?
Mm-hmm.
So how's everybody feeling about that?
When you first told me...
that Edward was moving here, I was, like, super excited.
Yeah? What excites you about having
someone live here with us?
-[Derek] Dog. -Dog.
[Marissa] Oh, 'cause I promised you a dog when Edward
Edward gets here? -[both] Yes.
Mm.
-Well, we'll see, yeah. -[Derek] We'll see?
We've been talking about this for, like, six months.
I keep promising, we keep pushing the date back.
I didn't even know they were dating for, like, until,
like, last year.
So it's only been, like, a year since I've known him,
and he's just coming to live with us.
So it's just, like, a, like, a weird reaction in my body.
-Well, I have a question. -Yeah.
Like, when Edward comes, like, here, will he have,
like, money? -Pff, that's a good question.
[Derek] He had a job when he was there, right?
-Yeah. -So where did he work?
[Marissa] He worked at a hotel.
-Fancy hotels, like resorts, or just like -- oh. -[Marissa] Yeah, like a resort.
But here, we don't have, like, all-inclusive resorts
like they do over there, and, you know, that skill set
isn't really useful here.
Is he gonna get an allowance?
It's a good -- probably. I mean, I'm gonna have to,
like, help pay for things
for him while he gets settled here.
But, you know, the paychecks there, like,
let me -- let me put this into perspective.
The amount of money that we would, like, a --
a -- a normal person maybe here would get for,
like, one week is, like,
what Edward would get in his country for, like,
a whole month. Do you know what I mean?
[Derek] Mm-hmm.
I'm, like, a bit, like, nervous.
[Marissa] Yeah?
'Cause, like, it's just gonna be, like, another guy coming
to live with us. -[Marissa] Mm-hmm.
[Derek] Like, I'm not really ready because, like, I met him,
but I don't know him, it's just like -- -Yeah, it's a little scary.
-[Derek] Mm-hmm. -Yeah.
I mean, like, I don't want him
to replace dad. -[sighs] Yeah.
I mean, I think that you have to remember, like, your dad's
always gonna be your dad, right? -[Derek] Mm-hmm.
[Marissa] And nobody's ever gonna replace him in life.
And Edward is kind of just gonna be here as,
like, another adult to love you guys and play with you.
I'm definitely gonna say could we keep -- take -- take it slow?
Not, like, coming in and, like, being like...
"Oh, hello, hello, my son." -[Marissa] Mm-hmm.
You know, I -- I'll -- I -- I wanna make sure that, like,
you feel comfortable, so I'm gonna have a conversation
with Edward, 'cause if you're not happy in any way, then this
isn't gonna work out for all of us, you know? -OK, Mm-hmm.
My divorce with Michael was challenging for the kids,
mostly for Derek.
He was a little older than Cole, and because of that,
the boys are the number one priority in my life.
Making sure that they feel comfortable is critical to me.
Nothing comes above them, and in the 90 days, if the kids
tell me this is not what they want, then I'm gonna have
to call it quits.
And that's just a lot of pressure on me to try to make
a lot of things work in such a short amount of time.
Well, let's stay positive.
-Alright. -[Marissa] Alright?
Mm-hmm.
♪ Is it your desire ♪
♪ To fool me twice too many times ♪
[Josh] Uh, did you want cream?
Yeah, there's, like, heavy cream in the fridge.
Can you just pour some in it?
Thanks, babe.
♪ Brain on fire ♪
♪ You got me flying around in circles ♪
[Catie] How'd you sleep?
[Josh] I slept so well.
[Catie] You woke up early.
-[Josh] Yeah. -Because we totally just passed out.
I woke up at, like, 6AM, was that about it?
[Catie] I did, too. I woke up when you woke up.
Yeah.
And then we were just kind of like...
"We'll let [bleep]."
Sorry.
Me and Josh had sex. We didn't have sex that night.
We had sex in the morning 'cause I was dead,
and he was dead also.
But, yeah, I just wanna feel like this again.
Last night, you were just like, "I'm ready," which made
me happy that you -- -Yeah, you like that.
I really like that you're --
that's just what I like, that you're able to, like,
tell me that you want me. -Yeah.
I think it's that kinda, like, open, like,
conversation that we just need to keep doing,
and, like, it's on -- on me in a big way to, like,
say that to you,
because I know that you -- you -- you hearing that helps.
I know that, like, with Catie and I, when we don't have sex,
she closes up a bit, and I don't have that same
reaction, but I know that sex is so important to her,
so I feel that she -- she's, um...
I think a bit more relaxed today, and, um, that's good.
I want my other half to feel relaxed.
I -- I felt like just totally different to how I felt over
the past, like, however long.
-Um. -Why do you think that is?
Just, like...
a big thing is not having, like, immigration looming over,
'cause, like, pretty much every thought I've had
over the past year has been, you know...
whatever I'm thinking about and then "[bleep], immigration."
Like, it's just with you all the time, and now that
it's happened and I'm here,
it's just a massive weight that has gone.
And I think that when I'm stressed, sex is, like,
another thing on the to-do list.
Now, it feels like something I wanna run into 'cause
the stress is going away. Does that make sense?
Yeah, I think that's good.
[Josh] Yeah?
-Love you. -Love you.
I definitely feel more connected to Josh
after having sex.
It feels like we're in a good place, and so I'm hoping that
in the next 90 days, we'll be more sexually compatible
and ready for marriage.
♪ I've been feeding lies ♪
♪ And my hands are tied ♪
♪ That's a secret that controls me ♪
-So where are we going? -Uh, this way.
I'm excited to show you around the neighborhood.
[Josh] Nice.
-I think Portland is just so beautiful from what I've seen. -[Catie] Ah!
-That's cute. -There's a goat.
Hello, hi.
-This is very cute. -Hi.
-I'm not feeding you. -Aww.
No donuts, no donuts.
I love --
-Yeah. -It has a collar like a dog.
I feel like that's very Portland.
-It's like urban goat farming. -Yeah, it's so cute.
OK, anyways.
So what -- what do you wanna do tonight?
Um, I have a surprise welcome party planned for you.
Oh, wow. That'll be fun.
Yeah, I wanted to tell you ahead of time.
-Yeah. -'Cause surprise parties are weird, but...
Yeah.
[Catie] Um, I think it's just like running club people.
Christine, Claire, Danika, Eddie, like, um...
-Yeah? -[Catie]...let me think.
It's, like, Mark, you know, like,
how we dated.
Like, casually dated for, like -- for, like, two weeks.
OK, so you remember.
I think I've made out with 90% of the single men
at the run club.
Yeah, some of the makeouts have happened after I met
and was already in a relationship with Josh.
I know I've done things that haven't been fair to you,
like, in the past while, like, drunk and crossed some
boundaries, so I just, like, wanted to, like,
start off Portland.
Just -- I don't know.
I just want to be really transparent with you.
Like, I'm not really a jealous person.
[Catie] It's really hard for me to resist kissing other people.
Like, the compulsion part of OCD is, like, you do a thing
to, like, neutralize the obsession,
but then when you do the compulsion, it actually
makes it all worse, and then it turns into a time-consuming,
stressful, useless cycle.
I know that Josh forgives me when I make out with people,
but I'm -- sometimes I'm worried "Oh, is this the last time?"
Like, I don't think I could do it every week, or I don't
even -- I don't want to do it every week,
but I don't think I could do
it, like, for the next, like, few years and have him
forgive me every time.
I feel like I'm in a good headspace with us.
-Nice. -Like, especially after last night,
'cause I know I've been
particularly unhinged, uh, in London.
Yeah.
And I'll try to let you know before we start drinking what
kind of headspace I am in -- in the future.
[Josh] I feel like I've come to the US
willing to, like, have a new chapter with Catie
and move forwards, and we've got these 90 days to
prove to each other that we're here, and we're here with,
like, meaning and intent.
Catie needs to settle down a bit and have some level
of stability, or this relationship,
it won't work.
And I think she just needs to curb the bull[bleep].
♪ Oh ♪
♪ Whoa ♪
♪ The love that you're laying down ♪
♪ It is a part of the other side's plan ♪
♪ We won't run, we won't hide ♪
♪ We won't live like a broken angel ♪
[Ashia] Alright, Ma.
I'm about to go see that attorney about Maxwell.
[Juliette] So...
[Ashia] I don't know, I hope so.
[Juliette speaking]
I mean, he devastated.
You know, he already started the moving process.
You know he got his stuff ready to go.
You know he done made his plans.
He done told his family.
So right now, I'm just gonna talk to his attorney and see
what options they give us.
It never crossed my mind for a second
that that application
would be denied because I have God on my side.
I feel very upset, enraged, and angry.
[Ashia speaking]
The appeal would be the best option.
And we can get another person to interview them.
And then hopefully, we don't have to restart
this process over again.
So I guess I'm gonna head on out.
I don't wanna be late. And then I gotta pick up Rod.
[Ashia] At the coffee shop, honey.
But I feel like he'll have good expertise on, you know,
trying to help me navigate everything.
-[Juliette] Yeah. -[Ashia] Yeah.
[Juliette speaking]
Rod is my Godbrother.
So we have a really close relationship, like, almost
as if he was my real brother. And he treats me as so.
Rod is crazy.
So...
Hey, Rod, I'm outside.
I'm over here to the left.
And I hope you got me some coffee.
-[Rod] OK. -[Ashia] Alright, bye-bye.
When I first told Rod about Maxwell...
he was a little confused, I think, as far as, like,
"How did you meet this man?"
And then Rod is stuck
on "Nigerians are scammers," rather than looking...
at -- at the one person who is Maxwell.
-What up, Rod? -[Rod] Hey, yes, you want me --
[Ashia] I'm glad you were able to go with me today.
I really wanna see what this attorney gonna say
if the appeal is an option.
Mm-hmm.
Tell me.
American men...
you just gave up?
No, I'm not saying I gave up on American men --
There's Nigerian men here in the United States.
There are. But that's not the one for me.
[Rod] But to go back to all the guys I tried to hook you up with
all these type of guys that wouldn't -- -Oh.
[Rod speaking]
And this guy is none of that, so...
Oh, don't do that. Now, he's -- he's most of that.
Every time that I would come in contact with a guy that,
like, had a flaw or something I didn't like, I would just keep
adding and adding to this list.
Honey, that list was everywhere.
Like, the list was everywhere.
Mm, it's on my phone.
[Ashia] Oh, OK. Well, hold on, girl.
It's stuff every man just about should possess.
So here we go.
First, no smoking, no drinking,
no kids, great job, has ambition.
I don't want him, like, just so die-hard God, that you can't
have fun, you know? Understanding.
Organized, 'cause I'm not organized.
Athletic built. Great lover.
I don't like men with big feet.
Wealthy. Knows his purpose.
Good hygiene. Good hair.
Pretty teeth. I put "Love God" again,
so I guess I just really want that to be on the list.
But that's just part of it. It -- it -- it was long.
Like, one of my friend's mom was like, "Girl, you need
"to burn that list. Like, get rid of that list.
You'll never get a husband like this."
You more worried about the list than me.
Well, I'm worried about your safety.
This is a scary situation for everybody,
and then it may be -- -A scary situation for everybody,
or a scary situation for you?
Let's just keep it real, you know?
It -- it should be a scary situation for everybody,
because there's so much unknown. -It is a lot of unknown.
I mean, what if the embassy,
they know something that we don't know?
Ashia's biological clock is ticking, and she thinks
she should be married by now, and I think she's
rushing into this.
I don't really know the guy, so I don't wanna say that
he's a bad guy, but it's not a realistic relationship.
But she thinks so.
I'm just trying to protect you, but I don't know.
I don't know.
I feel like this ain't the time for protection.
I feel like this is the time where it need to be support.
[Rod] Looking out for your well -- well-being is support.
I feel like Rod has lost his mind
by questioning my choices.
It's hurtful that he does not think that I'm wise enough
to make good decisions.
And we already have enough problems with this denial.
So the last thing I need is Rod saying "Nay, nay, nay."
Oh, 100%, 110%.
Maybe the way that I thought it was gonna be done is
different than what God had planned.
But at the end of the day, I'm getting Maxwell to the USA.
[Rod] I don't know, everything is just a question mark for me.
I mean, what is the rush? What is the rush?
♪ You're the sugar I slipped in my coffee cup ♪
♪ You're the sweet, warm dough, I can't get enough ♪
[Debby] Hey, pretty precious. Hey, pretty girl.
What's that little girl doing? Is she being snuggly?
There you are.
Papi doesn't want you sleeping in the bed.
Mido wants you sleeping out in your own spot.
What? OK.
We're gonna find a spot just for you.
♪ I'm your Chicory Mama ♪
♪ I don't take long to brew ♪
♪ 'Cause your Chicory Mama ♪
-♪ Always has a cup for you ♪ -[Debby] Where's that big girl?
Where's my pretty girl?
Alright, sweetheart, I'll be home
in a little bit, Little Bit.
Mido has set rules for Little Bit
that she cannot sleep in the bed with him.
Give me some lovin'.
I mean, in the Muslim faith, dogs are not to be inside
your home. It's haram, is what they say.
They're looked at as dirty.
Little Bit has spent every night of her life with me
in my bed, so I don't know how them two
are gonna fight that out.
[jazz music playing]
But I mean, I have not shared a bed or lived with a man
in almost 20 years.
So the dog is the least of our worries.
-Hey, look, Debby! -[Astra] There it is!
-How are you? -[Laura] Hey!
-[Astra] Good to see you. -My girl, my girl.
Oh, my gosh, girl, yeah.
Girl, how's it going? It's so good to see you.
I know. Oh, my gosh.
How's it going?
It's going pretty good, and how about you?
What's going on, Debby?
When I tell you everything feels like
it's coming 150 miles per hour.
Well, because it is.
What's gonna be like
the sleeping arrangements in the apartment?
-Like, is -- is -- -[Debby] Devyn's on the couch for now.
[Astra] Does he know y'all are gonna be sharing a bedroom?
Yeah, he -- I think he does.
I mean, unless he wants to sleep on the air mattress.
So y'all have never slept in the same bed together?
Him being Muslim, there's, like, some pretty tight parameters
of pre-marriage and post-marriage.
So what do Muslims believe that you're allowed to do
before marriage? -Nothing.
So you guys have straight up never had sex?
Never.
Whoa.
Wow.
Mido is a 41-year-old virgin.
He's gonna kill me for saying that.
I mean, have you ever, like, kissed?
-Yes. -[Laura] OK.
At first, because he abstained, I didn't think that he was
interested in me until he explained to me he had never
been with a woman before.
I just found the whole situation so bizarre,
because how do you believe a 30-something-year-old that's
telling you this? From the US,
where are you going to find that?
Or at least you're not gonna
find somebody that's gonna admit it.
-[Astra] How old is he? -41.
Wow.
And I know, I've actually had people tell me,
"I don't believe you."
Because I'm a slut.
Sorry.
When I hear that somebody is 40 years old and a virgin,
I'm kind of skeptical. I mean, 40 years?
Really?
It -- it's so unlikely, that they even
made a movie with that title.
I just wanna make sure I have this straight.
-You're gonna be in, like... -Two and a half months.
...two and a half months that you haven't physically seen
or touched in three years.
And you're gonna sleep in the same bed with him
for 90 days and not have any sex? -That's the goal.
-Well... -Is it attainable?
I have no idea.
I give it up on the third date, girl.
I don't -- I don't know how you're gonna do it.
How do you feel about how stable your relationship has
been over the last six years? Like, have you felt like...
-[Laura] Yep. -I mean, we're in it.
-So I mean, at this rate... -Yeah.
-You guys had a rough patch. -Had a couple.
-I -- I -- I remember. -There were some times
when y'all were not all lollipops and rainbows.
-[Laura] Yeah. -No.
No. That damn social media.
-With that girl. -That social media.
-[Laura] That girl [bleep]. -[Debby] Yep.
That girl.
I can't believe I gotta talk about this bitch.
I'm, like...
grinding teeth to even have to bring her up.
And she's not anywhere near him anymore?
Not that I know of. And it's been over a year.
So we actually broke up for a while.
He was posting with this one Egyptian actress
that's very famous.
He thinks that I'm being ridiculous and that this is
just work and that's his friend. I'm not dumb.
I can definitely read a situation pretty well.
And if something doesn't feel right...
something's not right.
I mean, I'm not deluding myself to think any of this is gonna
be an easy walk. -Right.
The biggest thing that I'm worried about is
you getting hurt.
We know that you're in this for love,
but we don't know him... -Yeah.
...at all, so we have no idea what his,
like, agenda is.
[Debby] I think from the beginning, it's been a lot of blind faith
with the acting, with the...
the abstaining, with the social media battle.
So I really, really, really am concerned.
But then people write books about stuff like this.
I may get lucky enough and have the dream.
May not.
But I also might.
And why not take that chance?
This is gonna be a real trip. It's gonna be a real trip.
[Astra] It's gonna be a hard one.
-[Anabelle speaking] -Yeah.
Oh.
Even if I take a poop, Anabelle is trying to get me
in the shower. -[Anabelle speaking]
♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪
♪ My love will lead you like a map down every road ♪
[Shea] That's not it, no.
-[Anabelle] OK. -[Shea speaking]
We're -- yeah, right here, baby.
♪ My love goes wherever you go ♪
[Shea] You're welcome.
♪ You may go, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪
♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪
♪ My love flows wherever you go ♪
-Smooth ride, ain't it, babe? -Smooth.
In the Philippines, we're bop, bop, bop, bop, bop,
bing, bing, bing, bing, bong.
-Oh, so you see at the left? -[Anabelle] Uh-huh?
That's the St. Louis Arch.
They call that the gateway to the West, 'cause coming
from our way, all the settlers would cross Mississippi River,
and they'd go west. -It looks amazing.
It is, it's like your gateway
to your new life in America.
Alright, I think this is it, baby.
Looks kind of like a church or a castle, doesn't it?
Mm-hmm...
[Shea] I don't know if I got in the parking spot
right or not.
[mass music playing]
Wow.
-Hi! -[Shea] Hey.
-How's it going? -[Ken] What's your name?
-I'm Shea. -Hi, I'm Ken.
-Welcome. -[Shea] Nice to meet you.
-This is Anabelle, my fiancée. -[Ken] Hi, nice to meet you.
-Hello. -Welcome.
-[Shea] Thank you. -This is a former Methodist church
that's been converted to a four-bedroom inn. -[Anabelle] Oh, that's --
[Shea] Wow.
I wanted Anabelle to feel special the first night.
So I, you know, I got this room, and I just wanted to show her
how excited I was for her to get here.
I knew you'd like the stained glass.
[Ken] So you guys are staying in our botanical suite?
-[Anabelle] Let's go. -Can I show you?
[Shea] Yeah, sure. We'll just follow you, sir.
[indistinct]
-[Shea] Alright. -Wow.
Mm!
[Shea] Oh, dang. Look at the bath.
-Look how big the tub is. -[Anabelle] Wow.
-[Shea] Wow! -[Anabelle speaking]
[Shea] Get the water going.
[Shea] Oh.
[speaking Tagalog]
[Shea] Alright.
[Shea speaking]
[Anabelle] Oh...
Yeah, oh.
[Anabelle humming]
-Oh. -[Anabelle speaking]
Yeah.
[Anabelle speaking]
I will...
-Yeah, scrub, baby. -[Anabelle indistinct]
Mm.
[Shea speaking]
Right?
Yeah...
I'll have to admit, it was kind of a turn on.
First time I met her, but she's, since then,
she's got a little more comfortable with it,
and, you know, I have to tell her, "Just calm down."
And you get real fast, like.
She scratched me several times,
like, where it hurt and left a mark.
Even if I take a poop, Anabelle is trying to get me
in the shower, a wet rag.
And I'm like, "That's not -- that's not what we do here."
[Shea speaking]
[Anabelle speaking]
[Shea] Oh, yeah.
-[Anabelle] OK. -[Shea] How do they look, babe?
[Anabelle speaking]
-They look good? -[Anabelle] Yeah.
[Shea] I don't mind you clipping my toenails,
'cause it's definitely something I don't enjoy doing.
I wanna try some champagne, baby.
-Oh! -[Shea speaking]
[Anabelle giggles]
Yeah.
-[laughs] -I know right.
[Anabelle] Enough, baby, thank you.
OK, I'll put the bottle right here.
[Anabelle] Mm-hmm.
-[Shea] OK. -[Anabelle] Mm-hmm.
-Yeah, very good taste, baby. -Yeah.
Mm.
Let me taste the champagne, babe.
[both] Mm.
[Shea] Mm.
When it comes to sex, usually Anabelle tells me what
to do, what she wants.
Yeah, yum yum.
[Shea] Of course.
Mm, sounds interesting, ma'am.
I missed you too much, baby.
Mm.
Mm, yum, yum, yum, yum.
-[Anabelle giggles] -[Shea] Yum, yum.
♪ And every able body say ♪
♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, amen and amen ♪
♪ Yeah, thank you, Lord, mm ♪
-[Ashia] Hello, hello. -How are you?
-Doing well, Ashia. -Good, Jeremy.
I do not take "No" for an answer at all.
If there is a solution, oh, I'm gonna find it.
Another option would be you could get married.
[Ashia] If you gonna be on the board and be support, be support.
-I'm being supportive of you. -No, not really.
♪ Love, oh, love, don't give up on love ♪
♪ Love ♪
♪ Keep on looking up, 'cause to often we go for ♪
♪ For the devil we know, for the devil we know ♪
[Rod] Oh, wow, "Love Immigration."
See, you look at how "Love" is sticking out right there.
Yeah, I -- I'm already -- I'm impressed, I feel some type of way already.
Yeah, you are -- you are -- you --
Well, you better get some love in your heart.
I feel like this is a marketing scheme here
with the word "Love." -I love it.
I think it's cute.
Alright.
♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪
♪ I'll pray for you, if you pray for me ♪
♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪
Alright.
Hello, good morning. How can I help you today?
Yes, I had an appointment.
If you follow after me, I can show you where that's at.
-[Ashia] OK, thank you. -[receptionist] Yeah.
I'm the type of person, I do not take "No"
for an answer at all.
Because if there is a solution, oh, I'm gonna find it.
[receptionist] Right this way.
-Alright. -[Jeremy] Hey.
-[Ashia] Hello, hello. -How are you?
-Doing well, Asha. -Good, Jeremy.
Ideally, I would love for this attorney to say
it's a possibility that this case can go back
to the embassy, that I do not have
to restart this process because
I just feel like this case went before the right person,
then it could convince anybody that the relationship is real
because the relationship is real.
-How are y'all doing today? -[Ashia] We're doing good.
Good, good.
-Well, I know a little bit about the situation... -[Ashia] Mm-hmm.
...from when the appointment was made,
but I -- I'll let y'all start off.
How can I help you?
I really do hope you can help us because I feel like my story
is more special than any story because it was God-ordained.
Wow, OK.
So my fiancé's name is Maxwell, and I introduced my best friend
to his best friend. -Right.
And so we did the entire K-1 visa process together.
Right.
[Ashia] So when they went in for their interview,
the guy was like,
"There's no way two friends are engaged to two friends."
So he felt like we were helping them get to America.
So they denied it.
So I just wanna know about the appeal process.
Have you ever done an appeal?
There's not really an appeal process we could go through.
Without a shadow of a doubt, there's no possibility
of an appeal? -Not in this situation.
Applying for this visa is taking almost two years
of our lives away.
And literally, me, him, his family has spent
thousands of dollars on this visa.
And then for what?
I was hoping for an appeal.
The attorney is saying that's not an option.
And I just feel, you know, defeated,
disgusted, irritated. Like, this is unreal.
The options that I see going forward is that you could file
another K-1 petition.
Another option would be you could get married.
And you could file the CR-1 spousal petition.
So you'd have to go there and get married, and you could
file a petition as a spouse.
No, she -- she definitely does not have to go
get married in order to get this case approved and get him here.
So you would recommend to her that she don't need to --
-No, don't -- don't coach him. -No, you're good.
-My job is to let you know what your options are... -[Ashia] Options are.
...and then y'all make the decision.
[Ashia] If you're gonna be on the board and be support,
be support. -I'm being supportive of you.
No, not really.
-If this is what support looks like... -Yeah, I'm supportive, but --
but -- but supportive is you first.
-I'm sorry I turned it up, I'm sorry. -[Jeremy] You're fine,
it don't bother me. -Yeah, that's -- that's fine.
-I'm just making sure. -That's fine.
I'm just making sure.
I don't want Ashia to go over and marry this guy
in Nigeria at all.
It -- it doesn't give me an opportunity to really see
who this guy really is. I'm her protector.
I don't want her to be...
scammed, or I don't want her to be hurt either.
What would you say the K-1, like, how long do you think,
versus the CR-1?
So the K-1 right now, and it really varies,
but you're looking at probably around a year and a half.
OK.
Now, if we do the other process, the CR-1,
you're looking at probably around two years or so.
I would -- about what I would think.
If I go through this process and you're saying a year
to two, is there a possibility
that it might be denied for any reason?
It's possible.
Oh, that ain't what I wanna hear.
[Jeremy] Because there were some immigration issues in the past,
where there was actually findings
of fraud or misrepresentation,
they could still find that again.
I mean, so what options are they leaving us?
Literally, for me to marry Maxwell, live thousands
of miles away, and continue life like that, that's --
that doesn't even make sense. I'm 38.
My biological clock is ticking. I do not have time for this.
I literally came to this meeting looking for answers,
and at the end of the day, I'm left with more questions.
Well, I have a lot of things to think about.
Of course, we'll discuss,
and hopefully, we can get him here.
I truly believe, you know, and I stand on it,
and I have faith in God that this relationship is going
to work, but I just don't know how.
Yeah.
-[Catie's friends cheering] -[friend #1 speaking]
[Mark] We've known Catie for a while.
She does come with that level of craziness where you're like,
"OK, hold on. Like, let's slow down.
Like, what are you doing here?"
♪ Piercing light, under play ♪
♪ And everyone was like ♪
♪ Oh my God, that's the way ♪
♪ Came in strong out the gate ♪
♪ And you got me like OK ♪
-Is this the place? -Yes, it is.
-Are you excited? -[Josh] Yes.
[Catie's friends cheer]
[friend #1 speaking]
Oh, it's so good to see everyone, oh, wow.
♪ You've got me like ♪
♪ Oh, my God ♪
-Hey. -Hey!
Hi, [indistinct], welcome back!
-Welcome back! -Josh!
Welcome back, buddy.
-Yeah! -Let's go, let's go.
Yes, I actually wore it through the immigration.
-I'm -- I'm joking. -Do you feel like a --
I'm -- I'm getting there, like, I feel less British every day.
Tonight, Catie's throwing me a welcome party, which is such
a -- a lovely gesture.
But there are a couple of people that she has made out with
before, and that might be really awkward.
I don't know, I -- I --
I don't know if -- if they'll look at me just like --
like I'm an idiot or...
[Catie] Oh, yeah.
-Hey. -How you doing?
[Danika] You should get a drink.
[Catie] Yes, ooh, if you buy me a tequila shot,
I'll do it with you.
-[Mark] What's going on, girl? -How are you doing?
-I'm doing great. What about you? -Good.
-Josh is here. -Yeah.
-Did you like his new look? -[Mark] I like the new look.
I knew Catie all of a week before we hooked up
and she's a -- she's a lioness on the prowl.
If you're just close enough, she'll just, like, go in that
extra step for the kiss.
Made out with me.
Catie has made out with my roommate.
At this party that I'm aware of, myself.
She's kissed me.
She's kissed Bella.
Fred, and our Josh, British Josh.
Like, I had to ban her from sticking her tongue in my mouth
'cause I -- that's -- that's too much, that's, yeah.
-Dude, it's your turn for darts. -Oh, boy.
-OK, well, well, we will chat later. -OK, yeah.
-Go have fun. -[Catie] Can I steal you for a second?
Can I steal you for a sec?
Nice.
-[Catie] Oh, that's good. -Like that.
Wait, really?
Like, I'm not gonna hurt anyone.
-Like, like. -I mean, no, no, no.
Like, it's like you, like, pull, like...
-Oh, yeah. -[Catie] This is actually fun.
How was picking him up?
I surprised him with the America decorations.
Yes, I love that he's into that.
Oh, that's, I mean, just generally
how people communicate.
-Right. -Like, I've been trying very hard to be less, like,
like, closed and reserved, 'cause I think Americans are
quite, you know, you say what you think.
Yeah.
When we went home, we, like, got ready for bed,
and we were gonna.
We did not have sex in the night, but in the morning
we had sex.
Oh, it's different, right?
She's had these quick in-and-outs over the time.
Yeah, yeah, and, like, we -- we've known Catie for a while.
She's -- she's a bit -- bit of a loose cannon, right?
-Like. -What does that mean?
Well, she was just so, like, loose before, just like
very much just like everything was a party, yes.
-100% like she was just going off the rails. -Oh, yeah.
So I -- I'm not sure whether it's one of those situations
where everyone else in the room knows something
and they don't want to tell me.
On the other hand...
We had some good conversations about, like, how what I need
versus what he needs, and that, like he said,
he'll be, like, more sexually available
and, like, more open to that.
-[Danika] Right. -And I promise, like, I'm going to stop, like, get too drunk
and seek out attention.
When -- when she's going about all these wild, crazy stunts,
like, how -- how have you dealt with that?
As in, like, why -- why am I...
Like, hat, like, you're moving halfway-around-the-world.
Like, that's a huge change.
For me to make this commitment
of kinda leaving my home country,
I need to know it's -- it's going somewhere.
And -- and I -- I -- I feel that with Catie.
But she does come with that level of craziness where you're
like, "OK, hold on. Like, let's -- let's slow down."
Like, what are you doing here?" type-thing.
I don't know, I -- I think you just -- you --
you roll through those punches
way better than I ever could.
What stuck out about Josh tonight was that he's --
that he's -- he's all in.
[Mark] Yeah, let's go get another drink.
-Yeah. -Yes, I'd love that.
He's got his -- his heart and his mind, you know,
just in the correct place.
But I am worried that she will make big mistakes.
-[Josh] Hey. -[Catie] Hey, babe.
Catie can be wild.
You know, she'll drive the crowd, you know, just push
everybody to, like, you know, "Let's all go karaoke."
You know, "Let's all make out."
Once she's been drinking a certain amount, I mean,
that definitely gets cranked up.
[Catie] We saw you and Mark and Josh talking.
-[Josh] OK. -[Catie] I guess you're not my ex-lover.
What were you guys talking about?
They were -- they were, like, essentially, like, checking --
checking in with me, seeing how I'm doing, like. -Why?
-Or, like, how did it go? -I -- I -- I -- it went -- it went great, like, I...
It doesn't bug you? That we've banged before?
I banged both Josh and Mark one time.
Not one time. Like, three times.
You're not insecure?
[Josh] I mean, like, do -- do you wanna be with me?
-Yeah. -OK, well, there we go.
I feel like sometimes I feel like, "Oh..."
Or, like, a brief thought will cross my mind.
Sorry?
But it's more of, like, "Oh, I know...
that didn't work out," like. -Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Well, I hope you guys can, like, hang out.
-Yeah, no, we're -- we're planning to. -Uh, yeah, that's good.
Sometimes Catie can
say something in the hope that it will become true.
And I hope that this isn't one of those situations and I don't
want to be living
in a relationship where I'm second-guessing things.
You know, this would have been a massive waste of my time
and money and -- and emotion to come here for me to
be made a fool of.
Catie needs to prove her commitment to me and to us
or this relationship, it won't work.
-Should we go that way? -[Catie] How do you feel?
I feel like it's time to go that way.
[Catie speaking]
Yeah.
There's a strong possibility that this is all
gonna fall apart.
I'm really worried this just may be too much.
I've been trying to get in touch with Mido and haven't
been able to get through. Mido's flight is tomorrow.
There's a strong possibility that he's not gonna be
on that flight
and this is all gonna fall apart.
[phone ringing]
♪ 'Cause you made me lose my mind ♪
♪ And now I start to lose my mind ♪
♪ You prayed for me to lose ♪
[Debby] It's been a couple days since I heard from Mido.
It's -- it's been tough.
His father's not well.
We don't know what the diagnosis may be.
His father is going through a series of tests,
but there's still a ways to go before we have any idea of what
this is actually going to be.
I know he's stressed.
I know he's got a million and one things going on.
At the same point, I'm not getting much communication.
I definitely go times without hearing from Mido because he is
just the type of person that
he needs that break from people.
When Mido goes silent, it can last a couple of days,
two, three days.
That part of his personality was hard to become accustomed to,
and when he is in his mode of no contact,
it becomes frustrating.
We're about 20-something hours away from the flight,
so him changing that ticket at this point in the game,
I don't think it's logical.
There's a lot of unknowns going on at the moment.
[sad music playing]
[tense music playing]
[phone ringing]
How are you doing, baby?
[Debby] What's wrong?
[Debby] I just, I'm trying to be there, baby.
I don't know what to say.
Did you talk with the doctor?
[Mido speaking]
I'm not trying to, like, aggravate you.
I'm just trying to be there.
Why do you, what will, baby, what will be done
in 10 days that it's not done now?
[Mido speaking]
[Debby] Mido, what do you want me to do?
I told you, I told you.
I told you, need just two weeks.
[Debby] Do you want me to check the airlines to find out how
much the ticket would be for you to go later?
I don't know what I can do.
[Mido speaking]
OK.
Mido is extremely agitated at the moment,
and I definitely am concerned that he he's getting cold feet
about coming to America.
It just feels to me like it's just always something,
and I'm -- I'm tired.
Bye, bye.
At what point do you decide on a journey or on a decision,
what's a test of a commitment
and what's a sign of something that's just not meant to be?
And I'm not sure where to put that anymore.
I'm really worried that Mido's
not gonna get on that flight.
I'm really worried when it's gonna be time.
[sad music playing]
I'm really worried it's just maybe too much.
[Shea] Next time on "90 Day Fiancé."
[Polly speaking]
It's a toilet.
[bleep].
[both speaking Portuguese]
Polly gives the universe way too much credit.
Especially when it's me.
For a little bit, yeah.
We are now on our way to America.
People think Americans are so rich.
I don't make that much money.
[sighs]
[Shea] Oh, hey, guys.
We're probably gonna head on home.
Can we get a couple of dollars?
-[Shea] Here you go. -[Allison] Thank you.
[Shea] OK, bye, guys.
It's just a few dollars.
But that's my daughter.
I'm worried about how the dynamic of our family is
gonna change. -I'm gonna keep it real.
He's 32 years old, and she's about to be
46 years old.
I just wanna make sure that,
you know, she's not being taken advantage of.
And the boys don't get hurt.
Especially when it comes to my kids.
I'll bite someone's face off with my kids.
My thoughts are racing.
I can't even put words to exactly how I'm feeling.
Today is the day that Mido is supposed to arrive.
Either he is coming over, and we are gonna build
a life, or there's no place left to go.
[retching sounds]