[woman] Previously on90 Day Fiancé...
It's starting to feel like the old Jasmine and Gino
and things were good and we are happy
and having a good time together.
That's what I wanted to bring back.
I really look forward
to bringing your kids over here soon.
And I would like to have one child of my own.
I'm not...
ready.
-Oh, my God. -[Sam] This is Citra, Mom.
My mom's side, they were really religious.
Part of me wants to keep Citra and my mom apart.
Uh, hopefully she just doesn't say obscene things.
So are you having a Muslim ceremony?
What would happen if Sam didn't wanna do it?
Would he get to still marry you?
[laughs]
I take all the sex experimenting
when I was younger.
I'm ready to settle down.
I'll talk about these things...
-[Nikki] No. -in the future, it's on us.
So after we're married and we have our vows,
you wanna do these threesomes?
-[man in Romanian] -[in Romanian]
[in Romanian]
Can you, like, help me figure this out?
Like, I am noticing Manuel doesn't really like
to spend money on himself.
[in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
He's trying to dictate how I spend my money.
I don't like that.
[Manuel in Spanish]
[Ashley] I take a lot of offense to that and I might cry.
[Manuel in Spanish]
[dramatic music playing]
This whole not telling her dad thing
is also causing her to essentially hide you
from her life.
Really, what I truly want to do is be like,
"Hey Emily, you need to do it kind of like now,
or I'm gonna do it myself."
[Clayton in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Clayton] [bleep].
[dramatic music playing]
[Claire] This is where you live?
For now.
You basically moved yourself into a mancave.
Yeah, if you've never lived on your own
and had to do it on your own, then shut up.
You don't know what the hell being at the bottom is unless...
And then whenever you have ever been at the bottom,
you just make a phone call and you're back up.
That's easy enough for you guys, but I don't have that.
[upbeat music playing]
Y'all just want to [bleep] judge, judge, judge,
and act like y'all been through it all.
That's bull[bleep].
I am sorry, I've tried so hard to like him
but he has rub the friggin' knob and he always will be.
Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah, calm down.
You don't need to bring out angry Claire.
-[laughter] -No angry Claire?
[Sophie] No.
I asked Rob so many times,
"Please be nice to my mom."
And his reply was, "I always am.
I've never not been nice to your mom."
And this is the proof, he's not nice to my mom.
Like, my mom came in, and she was very respectful.
Everybody got an opinion,
but ain't nobody out here doing it themselves.
I'm doing it myself.
Nobody else.
I don't got no roommate.
I don't got no parents helping me out.
I don't got nothing.
I'm just doing it on my own.
Neither of them have any...
Anything close to the idea of what it's like
to live your life and know if you don't hold it down,
that's your ass.
You'll be on the street.
Nobody's coming to save you.
They don't have a [bleep] clue what that looks like
or what that feels like. It's just a slap in the face
'cause life been hard as [bleep]
and y'all two sittin' here trying to tell me what I should be doing.
They make me sound like, I'm like, I'm just living in squalor.
Like [bleep] outta here with that [bleep].
And I... And it's mad disrespectful
to walk into my house
and tell me what I'm supposed to do.
They can't accept that they're not right.
They can't accept that they're not
just an absolute always right person.
-They, not really-- -[Sophie] Right.
I'm, like, his fiancée. What the [bleep].
Just ignore him.
[Sophie] Just talk over him.
I'm working on it. I still want better.
I'm not satisfied.
[Sophie] I feel like Rob is jealous about my upbringing.
I feel like he tells me all the time
how he's had it really difficult
and I should be lucky that I...
Like, I... Like, here's the thing,
I'm very grateful about my upbringing.
I'm your fiancée, like I'm not someone
that you should be jealous of.
I mean, I just feel like he's like,
has this weird resentment to me
that I was raised differently from him.
-Oh, Soph, please... -Oh,
I forgot my little bonnet. All right.
Okay, let's go.
[Rob] [indistinct]
what I'm looking for.
I'd be so depressed if I was so upset
at what I don't have.
[Sophie speaking]
-I'm not trying to be disrespectful. -[Claire speaking]
I'm trying to be respectful.
-That's fine. -[Claire speaking]
[dramatic music playing]
It feels like Sophie's not on my team.
She's gonna go stay the night with her mom now
after we just had this huge argument
instead of worrying about,
"Is Rob okay?" She doesn't care.
She only caress about what she's thinking.
And now her mom is co-signing her
so she's co-signing her mom. They're both...
Now they're just...
they're just on the same team together
and they're feeling good. They're feeling...
They're feeling like they got me in a good corner
and they're making me sound stupid and Rob better fix it.
There's not one thought in Sophie's mind right now about,
"That's my future husband."
Maybe I should be worried about fixing this.
[upbeat music playing]
I am not supporting you because I'm not just sending dollars
and dollars and dollars to your family?
They gotta wait.
We're having a wedding.
They got to wait and I'm over the conversation.
Over it.
[sighs]
[indistinct chatter]
[Jonathan in Spanish]
Are you okay?
I'm okay.
[in Spanish]
[Ashley] Yes, Manuel, I went to the bathroom.
[in Spanish]
Jonathan, can you hand me my purse please?
[in Spanish]
[Ashley in Spanish]
Let's get you to the airport and then,
Manuel, you'll just come with me. Okay?
[in Spanish]
[Ashley] I've always felt empathetic about Manuel's situation.
I think what still triggers me
is that sometimes I don't feel
like I get that same empathy back.
I got you over here on a K-1 with no lawyer,
no co-signer on my own back.
You came here with a backpack.
I had to clothe you, feed you, make sure you're safe,
whole nine, I'm not asking you to [bleep] my ass.
I'm just asking for some acknowledgement.
[man] Shades come back out.
So I, like, come back out...
[Manuel in Spanish]
-[Jonathan] Huh? -[Manuel in Spanish]
-[Jonathan in Spanish] -[Manuel in Spanish]
[Jonathan in Spanish]
-[Manuel speaking Spanish] -[Ashley in Spanish]
-[Manuel in Spanish] -[Ashley in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[Manuel in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Ashley] [bleep].
[Manuel in Spanish]
[Jonathan in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
[Jonathan in Spanish]
[smooch]
-[Manuel in Spanish] -[Ashley in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Ashley in Spanish]
Let's just do this, okay?
Let's go.
[in Spanish]
Come on.
[in Spanish]
[Manuel in Spanish]
[Ashley speaking]
[bleep]. [laughs]
[in Spanish]
[laughs]
[Ashley moaning]
[Manuel in Spanish]
[Manuel speaking]
-[Ashley in Spanish] -[Manuel in Spanish]
Okay.
[in Spanish]
...get Jonathan. Okay, perfect.
We talked and then I had to use the bathroom.
[laughing]
[yells] Um, yeah.
So I just needed some company.
Let's go, boys.
-Let's go. Let's go. -Let's go.
[Manuel in Spanish]
Mmm-hmm.
Sex doesn't make all the problems go away
even though it's a good time.
Manuel's negative energy around money
and saying that I don't support him,
it needs to stop, like, yesterday.
We're done with that.
I can't marry a man who runs away from conversation.
Do Moldovan men like took control...
[woman speaking]
Men from Moldova are controlling
and I have to break that side of him
because just like 15 years ago,
it will end again.
[woman speaking]
[dramatic music playing]
[Clayton in Spanish]
[Anali speaking]
[Clayton] I'm not even asking for that much.
Just tell your parents you're in a relationship.
I don't know how else to say it.
[in Spanish]
[tense music playing]
[upbeat music playing]
[Nikki] Where are the street...
Building numbers?
So confusing.
[upbeat music playing]
[Nikki] Hi. [in Romanian]
[woman] Hi.
Okay. Um...
[in Romanian]
-Do you speak English? -Yes.
-[Nikki] Good. -Yes, I understand a little bit.
Okay. Good.
Hopefully you understand what I'm saying.
Um, I have my nails done in the US,
but I broke my nail and I have,
-um, an important engagement. -Mmm-hmm.
It's my engagement celebration.
-Okay. -Thank you so much.
Can you sit down?
[in Romanian]
This morning Justin and I had a talk
to try to, I guess,
come down to some type of resolution
in our relationship,
being that he is from a different language
and different culture
and I'm trying to understand him
and he's trying to understand me.
Uh, your name is...
-Nicole. -Nicole.
-Yeah. -Okay.
At this point, I don't even know
if we're still gonna have the engagement party,
but I have a broken nail
and I have to get that fixed like ASAP.
I'm from Jersey and having a broken nail in Moldova
is not happening for me. [laughs]
[woman] What's bring you in Moldova?
Well, I'm engaged
and, um, my fiancé is from here.
I gotta show you the photos.
This was for after we got engaged.
[woman speaking]
[Nikki] Right? It's like a fairytale,
you know, and it was like fairytale.
But now we are having some issues in our relationship.
[sighs] It's so embarrassing.
He, um... He doesn't like to really
be affectionate to me, like, make love.
Years ago we used to have multiple times in a day,
three... Two, three times a day every day.
And now down to, like... [sighs]
two times, three times in the week,
to now, once in the week.
So maybe you can understand
'cause you're from here and you know Moldovan men.
Um, is that normal for Moldovan men
to not really be sexually...
[woman speaking]
-[Nikki] No? -[woman speaking]
I hope you don't mind me, like,
talking and telling you some things.
I was trying to get all the tea from the nail tech
and she was like...
[laughs]
Like, "What do I... What did I sign up for?"
I am, uh, very strong.
He's very strong
and he wants to be the man,
but also make me come down a lot.
Like, "Yes, master."
And are Moldovan men like this with their women
in the culture?
Like, do they make their women submit
and go lower than them
and they are high and powerful?
-[woman speaking] -[Nikki] Yes?
[woman speaking]
But maybe I come too much, uh, energy to him
-that he feels like I am... -[woman] Maybe.
-above him and I'm not. -[woman speaking]
[Nikki] Right. And he says he loves me.
So, we are going to see where it goes.
Right?
Ah. [in Romanian]
-[woman speaking] -[Nikki] Thank you so much.
-[woman speaking] -Thank you. Yes.
-[woman] It's okay? -I like it. You fixed it.
Thank you so much.
-It looks good. -[woman speaking]
The sense that I get after talking about
men from Moldova,
it's more that guys are a little controlling
and they're very closed off
and I have to break that side of him.
You know, like, being in the United States, I...
He can't have that same mentality
because just like 15 years ago,
it will end again.
I don't want it to.
[woman speaking]
-Find an American boy? -[woman speaking]
Oh, no. Well, you know what?
There... There's no better in America, girl.
[tense music playing]
[in Spanish]
I want Anali to tell her dad about us,
but anything that's difficult in her mind,
she just avoids it.
She likes to go to the bathroom
and lock the door.
She likes to shut down.
She likes to give me ultimatums.
She likes to avoid
anything that she perceives as difficult.
[in Spanish]
[Clayton in Spanish]
Hey.
[in Spanish]
[tense music playing]
I cannot imagine that it's that big of a deal
to throw away over two years of a relationship.
You've already come to the US,
we have wedding plans, we have the gears in motion.
I'm not even asking for that much.
It's been over two years.
Just tell your parents you're in a relationship.
I don't know how else to say it.
[in Spanish]
She knows my history with not being shared.
That ends up being a cheating situation.
I just noticed patterns
and it's really an easily resolvable thing for me.
But she should understand.
But I don't know if she really is understanding.
[in Spanish]
Okay.
[in Spanish]
Aw.
[in Spanish]
[dramatic music playing]
I finally feel like Anali is hearing me
and I feel understood for once.
I am elated that she would post about us
and post such a sweet message.
It just makes me happy that she would do that.
[singer] ♪ I just need One little spark ♪
♪ Something like A little bit sun ♪
♪ So I can hold on To the sunrise ♪
[Anali speaks Spanish]
Before I convert, I kinda, like, wanna have some fun,
like, do some things that
we won't have the freedom to do anymore.
[Citra] I was gonna...
There you go.
I know not drinking alcohol is breaking the rules.
-Can I get you guys a drink? -Yeah.
So you don't need to tell my dad about it.
-Awesome. Thank you. -There you go, guys. Enjoy.
[singer] ♪ Attempting to say it
♪ I think I should Bite my tongue ♪
♪ No, I should wait, But I finally found you ♪
[Sam speaking]
[singer] ♪ We gotta run
♪ 'Cause they'll try To hold us back ♪
Take her out night on the town, have a little fun.
Excellent.
[Citra speaking]
I'm trying to get grass to grow.
Where, uh, several months back,
something was walking across our roof
with very heavy footsteps.
It looks to me almost like footsteps went off this way.
[Brian] I don't know really what it was, but...
[Sam] Don't get him started on Big Foot.
[Brian] it had very heavy footsteps.
That's my theory.
I might be wrong.
Crazy as that is, that night I did hear
something on the roof too, loud footsteps.
And then the next morning, that patch...
Like a circle patch was in the grass.
[Sam] Then we'll never...
[Citra speaking]
I don't wanna give into that
and feed into his alien stuff.
But that night, just something was weird.
X-Files, call them.
I don't know.
Oh, well I'll see you later on.
All right.
[Sam] Have a good one.
[Brian] Yeah, thanks.
[country music playing]
Well, we... I mean we had kind of some dates,
like we'd have breakfast together and...
She paid for everything.
Yeah.
[Sam speaking]
[Citra] I'm not gonna...
You'll like that.
[upbeat music playing]
Before I convert, I kinda, like, wanna have some fun,
like, do some things that we don't normally...
Won't have the freedom to do anymore.
[Sam speaking]
Mmm-hmm.
But he took me to the bar, like,
in the middle of nowhere.
[laughs]
-Just follow me, babe. -[Citra speaking]
[Sam] We'll find out what's good.
How's it going?
Can I get you guys a drink?
She's not a big drinker.
So, like, what's something that tastes good
and has some alcohol in it?
-You want like fruity? -Yeah.
-Some fruity and pretty.
And for you, sir?
-[Sam] Just make it two. -Okay.
Feeling pretty tonight.
[laughs]
-Awesome. Thank you. -There you go, guys. Enjoy.
[Sam] All right. Let's go at the same time.
Okay.
Mm.
You can't even taste the alcohol, huh?
Yeah. You know me. I don't...
I'm not big on drinking. I don't like...
I don't drink something that tastes bad,
but no, these are good.
-[Citra chuckles] -[Sam] Right?
I know that trying to drink alcohol is breaking the rules,
but I just want to give it a try only once in my life.
[Citra speaking]
So we don't...
We don't need to tell my dad about it.
Keeping it as a secret.
[Sam] Just to break 'em up.
Here.
All right.
Yeah. No. Like, make a circle.
Yeah. There you go. Perfect.
Your whole goal is trying to get
one of these balls in there. Yeah.
There you go.
[laughs]
You did it, though. You did it.
It's hard to not just, kind of,
go at each other and, like...
I'm struggling with it.
Yeah.
One, two, three.
[Sam speaking]
[laughs]
Like that.
[indistinct]
-Yeah. -Awesome.
[indistinct] do you guys want me to--
Yeah, you can put it over... Thank you.
It's a lot.
[Sam] Damn, that is a lot.
You ready for that?
We'll finish in a sec.
[Citra] Oh, I hate this chair.
You want me to give you a boost?
What is boost?
Boost up?
No, I'm good.
[Citra speaking]
[Sam speaking]
What are some other, like, things that, like,
have to change after I convert and we get married?
[Citra speaking]
[Sam] I mean, you know, I'm not a big drinker.
My only issue is, like, when you can't, like, you...
You're not supposed to do things, like,
then that makes it harder.
But you just...
You know, with my past,
I struggle with certain things.
Mmm-hmm.
[Sam speaking]
I just don't wanna be a bad husband to you.
Alcohol, sex, drinking, drugs used to be a big part of me,
so always that monkey on your back
that's just telling you, "Do it, do it.
Have fun. Just say [bleep] it." And it...
It's sometimes hard to resist.
Even after I convert, it's still gonna be there,
but I'm gonna try my hardest to be strong
and just stay on the wagon, be good.
I really can't screw this one up.
[pensive music playing]
[Jasmine] Our last sunset.
[Gino] Our last sunset in Miami.
Tonight, I get to show Jasmine
that I am her Romeo bonito.
I'll be honest, I never dream my partner,
someone like you.
I was always, like, more attracted, like,
kind of muscular guys that are filthy rich.
Why are you crying?
[clears throat] Sorry.
[singer] ♪ Daddy, daddy, Let me whine up on you ♪
♪ Whine up you, Whine up on you ♪
♪ Baby, let me do
♪ All the things You want me to ♪
♪ Do you wanna go With me tonight? ♪
[Gino] What else?
[singer] ♪ Tonight it's just You and me ♪
♪ We can just get away
Gino had planned something special for us tonight,
which I still don't know what it is
because he told me that it is a surprise.
I love surprises, but I'm very anxious about...
To know what it is.
I wanna know it now.
[door closes]
[Gino] Baby, look at you.
That is... Dress is amazing. You look so hot.
-It's gorgeous. It's beautiful. -Look at the back.
-Look at the front. -I know.
Oh, my gosh. Look at those things.
[laughs]
-[Jasmine] So... -[Gino] Let's go baby.
is my surprise ready?
-Ready to go? -Yes.
Let's do it.
After finding out that I had a bachelor party,
Jasmine made it clear that I needed to regain
her trust on this trip.
It's our last night in Miami,
and tonight I'm planning something special.
Where are... Where are we going?
We're going to dinner.
[chuckles]
You're scaring me.
I definitely believe I have romantic side, and tonight
I get to show Jasmine that I am her Romeo bonito.
[Jasmine] What's going on?
-[laughs] -[Gino] Ouch.
Baby, what do you think?
[Jasmine] You made this?
Yeah. For you.
Do you like it?
Aw.
[Gino] Follow the path.
[Jasmine] More flowers.
Do you like them?
Yes.
I love it. I'm...
[laughs]
I'm speechless.
The only surprises from Gino are the ones that he leave
in the toilet because he forgets to flush,
but they're, like, real rose petals on the pool.
A table with the wine.
So this is, like, a real,
very beautiful, amazing surprise.
I'm in shock. I'm sorry, I don't know what to say.
I'm, uh, the, uh...
Just tell me how much you love it.
This is so freaking amazing, baby.
I'm so glad you like it, baby.
[chuckles]
-Let me breathe. -[laughs]
Let's have a drink.
Okay.
Oh, what am I doing?
Just... Baby, here.
Thanks.
Gino has shown me nothing but love during this trip
and how much he's willing to change.
We're gonna have a very bright future in all ways.
-Cheers. -[Gino] Amen.
Amen.
This is making me feel good about what Gino
is willing to do for our relationship and my kids.
I'll be honest, I never dream
the man of my life,
you know, my partner,
someone like you.
What do you mean someone like me?
I was always, like, more attracted, like...
Compare yourself to the last guy that I date versus you.
[Jasmine speaking]
He was more like the kind of man that I like.
Like blond...
-Oh, gross. Really? -blue eyes.
Yeah. That's what I like in the past.
Now, I like your brown eyes.
-You're both handsome. -I'm way better looking.
I mean, he is got wrinkles all over his eyes and [bleep].
[Jasmine] What I'm trying to say is that
this is real love.
I, myself, should feel more thankful for finding you
and having you, all your love,
-all your support, and I really... -Yes.
need to learn from you, baby,
because you're so kind and I'm...
-[Gino] Oh, I'm glad... -so bitchy all the time.
Yeah, you can be a real bitch. Yeah.
[Jasmine laughs]
I know, baby, but I wanna be a better person.
I promise with my heart that I'm gonna fight
my emotions bad.
You know, I'm gonna try to be a better person.
Even complaining about your family
and not wanting them at my wedding.
[clears throat] Sorry.
What happened?
[pensive music playing]
What happened, baby?
I don't know.
What happened, baby?
Why are you crying?
Like, Manuel continues to say, like,
things are gonna get better when we get married.
I love that man.
He's a responsible human being,
and so for me that's enough to walk down that aisle.
[Alysia] I don't think it's a good idea
for them to get married.
They're just waiting for all these problems
to dissolve once they say "I do." And it's...
That's not gonna happen.
I have to have faith.
Trust me that I'm making the right decision.
[Citra speaking]
[Sam] Being in the mosque really
isn't my normal cup of tea.
Like, it suddenly hits me just,
"Oh [bleep] am I really about to do this?"
[Jawad speaking]
I was a atheist before and, like,
and there's still a lot I don't know.
Right.
[slow rock music playing]
[Citra speaking]
Oh, you are?
-So, I'm gonna-- -When is this, uh, conversion?
[Citra] On Friday.
-Friday? -[Citra] Yeah.
Don't miss it.
[laughs]
[Brian] I wouldn't miss it for the world.
Are you really gonna come?
Yeah, of course.
I don't think Sam realizes
what's all involved in following a faith.
It just seems like he's so in love with Citra.
He's just willing to do whatever to make her happy.
But, you know, when it comes to religion,
it's gotta be something more heartfelt,
and I don't know how he'll deal with that.
When are they coming in?
-[Citra] Tomorrow? -I think you and her dad
will really get along and...
But he doesn't speak much English.
I would like to at least say, "Hi, I'm Sam's father."
Like "Nice to meet you?"
Yeah.
[in Indonesian]
Oh, God. That's...
Oh, you said that really fast.
-Yeah. You said it really fast. -[Sam] Yeah.
Say it slowly.
-[in Indonesian] -[in Indonesian]
[Citra in Indonesian]
-[in Indonesian] -[Citra in Indonesian]
-[in Indonesian] -[in Indonesian]
-Yeah. -Yeah, say...
-[in Indonesian] -Yeah, just...
-[in Indonesian] -[Brian in Indonesian]
Yeah. It's like, "How are you?"
[in Indonesian]
-[in Indonesian] -[Citra in Indonesian]
-[in Indonesian] -[in Indonesian]
[Citra] Yeah.
[Citra speaking]
Slight sloppy White guy gibberish,
-what they're speaking. -Yeah.
Well, whatever. I'm gonna practice
-until I feel like it comes out naturally. -[Citra] Yeah.
-And-- -So we're gonna head out.
Yeah.
To mosque?
Yeah. Okay.
[in Indonesian]
[Citra in Indonesian]
[in Indonesian]
[laughs]
[Sam] We'll see you later.
-All right. -All right.
Citra's dad's been honest just day and night
about we need to find a mosque
and, like, nothing else matters.
So today we're gonna go check out the mosque
and get a feel for them.
[Citra speaking]
[Sam speaking]
[Citra speaking]
Can I get a kiss on the cheek, hmm?
It's like, you know, mostly Christian churches out here or...
So most of the time,
when I tell people about my conversion,
they think some wild things like,
"Do you not use toilet paper?"
Like, of course we don't eat pork,
but they think we also don't eat any meat at all.
Like, it's just...
It could be anything.
Hmm.
Look that way.
Not at all.
-[chuckles] -Not at all.
[Citra speaking]
[solemn music playing]
I am definitely nervous about converting to Islam.
Ready and willing.
Just worried about past Sam
coming up and like [bleep] things up.
Drugs used to be, you know, my fun escape to feel better
to deal with stuff or not deal with stuff,
but now I just gotta face 'em head on,
so it's way harder.
[Jawad] Hey, how you guys doing?
How's it going, man?
-Sam. -My name is Jawad.
-Good to meet you. -Jawad.
-How are you? -Hi. I'm Citra.
-Citra. Good to meet you, guys. -Yeah.
Come on in, guys. Come on in.
-[Sam] Thank you. -[Citra] Thank you.
[Jawad] Yeah, you're welcome.
You know how to say As-salamu Alaikum?
[Sam stammers]
-You know how to say it? -What...
-As-salamu Alaikum. -What do you say?
As-salamu Alaikum.
I say to you.
As-salamu Alaikum.
Wa-Alaikum-Salaam.
And what you say to me...
Wa-Alaikum-Salaam.
-Wa-Alaikum-Salaam. -Wa-Alaikum-Salaam.
Yeah.
As-salamu Alaikum.
First of all, we wish you the best.
-Okay? Let's not make this so hard. -Thank you.
Being in the mosque really isn't my normal cup of tea.
Like, it suddenly hits me just, "Oh, [bleep].
Like, this is really happening.
Am I really about to do this?
And am I ready for it?"
Yeah. So, this is my fiancée.
She's Muslim and her whole family is Muslims
and I'm gonna be converting.
Have you studied about Islam at all?
How much do you know?
Um, some, like I've, uh...
Like I kind of know, uh,
just like the way that Muslims live
and there's still a lot I don't know.
Right.
I was a atheist before
and, like, being with her over the...
Like, we've been together three plus years,
and I've found, like, my belief in God again.
-[Jawad] Right. -And...
[Jawad] No, that's good.
Uh, one thing I tell people
who come to Islam is like,
once you put your foot in the door,
that's the biggest step for you.
And the imam is gonna give the ceremony. Right?
After that you're gonna say the Shahada,the testimony.
Mmm-hmm.
[Jawad] A person who's becoming a Muslim,
they need to take theShahada,
the testimony of faith.
TheShahada in English basically means
that one is saying
that there is none worthy of worship except Allah.
And that Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him,
is the last prophet and messenger of Allah.
For a person who comes to Islam,
at the beginning, it's quite, you know, hard for them.
[Ramadhan] Mmm-hmm.
[Jawad] They are coming into a whole different lifestyle.
Maybe there's some habits you have to leave
and maybe there's some new habits
that you have to pick up.
[Citra speaking]
-Ceremony? -[Citra] Like...
-Yeah. Her family's fine. -Like my dad.
[Jawad] Oh, they're coming here?
-Yeah. -[Jawad] Oh, perfect then.
Yeah, no problem.
As long as he approves...
-[Citra] Yeah. -as a guardian for her
because in Islam, in the marriage,
the guardian has to, you know, approve.
[Sam] Honestly, I'm leaving here more nervous
than when I came.
When I heard that we still need Citra's dad's blessing
before the conversion. I...
[bleep] it's terrifying.
I mean, I kind of had in the back of my mind,
like, does any of this really even matter?
Because Herman could still take Citra back to Indonesia
no matter what I do.
[singer] ♪ Take it off
♪ Turn it off
♪ You know where you belong
Okay. We're gonna change this energy up,
because whatever the tomfoolery that happened
at the coffee shop wasn't cute.
[singer] ♪ Here it comes
♪ Ready or not
♪ All right
[in Spanish]
-[Ashley] What? -[in Spanish]
-[Manuel in Spanish]
[Ashley in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
-[Ashley in Spanish] -[speaking Spanish]
In your heart chakra.
[in Spanish]
Do you feel the energy?
[in Spanish]
Celestite is a calming stone.
It's an angelic stone.
It works with our higher crown chakras.
And honestly, we both need to be operating
from our highest crown chakra right now.
And we were, kind of, operating from our root chakra
at the coffee shop.
We can do better and we should do better.
[Manuel in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
Okay?
-[Manuel] Okay. -Okay.
[Manuel] Bye. Okay.
-Bye. -[Manuel] Yeah.
[in Spanish]
[singer] ♪ If you Wanna be victorious ♪
♪ Baby, sharpen your edges
♪ If you want To be victorious ♪
♪ Place is still Hoping on you ♪
Hi, baby girl.
[Ashley] I was getting myself in the mood...
-[Alysia] I can't-- -[Ashley] for us to dance.
We're about two weeks away from the wedding day.
So today my sister Sissy is choreographing the dance
that she created for Alysia,
her, and I for the wedding.
It's totally my idea to do this dance for Manuel
because Manuel loves sexy dancing.
That was one thing I noticed about him.
I have danced for Manuel privately
and he gets way too into it.
And I'm like, "You love this."
He's like, "Oh yeah, please,
you gonna dance for me?"
And I'm like, "Oh, my God. You like this."
-All right. Yeah. -[Ashley] Whatever.
Let's just start by walking through it
so it's, like, in our brain.
-Okay. -Okay.
So we're gonna start with our intro first.
Right, left, up.
And have those elbows lead.
Mm-hmm. And, like, sharp boom, boom.
Yeah.
I've been teaching dance for about seven years now.
It's what I love to do. It's my passion.
I grew up dancing.
So the wedding dance is my present to her and Manuel.
I got no money.
So she's not getting a gift.
So we start here
and then, boom, boom, boom.
Three, four,
and maybe do a little African...
[humming]
Oh, no, I'm keeping my fingers crossed.
I'm hopeful only because,
like, what if he doesn't like to dance
and if he sees Ashley, like, dancing in a certain way.
I don't want him to be, like, taken aback by it
or, you know, storm off 'cause he's so quick to leave.
-Back, forward, up, around. -Boom, boom,
-boom, boom. -[Sienna] And then down.
Good.
Yeah. Okay.
-[Ashley] Okay. -Good job.
[Ashley] I feel like that's it for today.
-I'm tired. -Yeah.
Me too. It was... It was pretty good though.
I'm having so much fun doing that.
It is. Honestly, it is a lot of fun
and I think it's gonna come together,
but on some real [bleep] I wasn't even sure
if I was gonna do it.
-The dance? -Yes, girl.
Well, why we been practicing so hard?
We have been practicing so hard.
What's going on, mama?
It's just been really crazy with him and I.
Like, you guys kind of know some of it.
It's just like...
I don't even know where to [bleep] begin.
Anything recently that's like...
I don't know.
We definitely showed our asses at Fuego.
-[Sienna] Oh, gosh. -[Alysia] Oh, no.
Yeah, we showed out at the coffee shop.
That is a family establishment, bitch.
[Ashley] Oh, my God.
It turned, like, from bad to worse,
back to bad, and then to weird.
-Weird as in... -Weird?
Say it.
I wouldn't say...
What'd you do?
We had intercourse...
[in Spanish]
-In Fuego? -[Ashley] Ew, Sissy.
-[Sienna] I'm sorry. -Let the bitch live, okay?
-The germs. -[Ashley] Let the bitch live.
Wait, what if a mother had to change her child?
There were two bathrooms and we did it standing up,
-so we were touching-- -That doesn't make it better.
-[Ashley] Okay. Sissy-- -Sorry.
-That doesn't make it better. -[Ashley] I... Your responses
need to be reeled back.
We're at a twelve and I need you at a two, okay?
[Sienna] I'm sorry, but, like--
There are millions of people--
If it was, like, some sexy [bleep]
-like let's go with the body-o. -[Ashley] It was super sexy.
-It doesn't sound sexy. -[Ashley] It was sexy.
I thought it was sexy, okay?
And I... You know,
it was just like it was an energetic release.
Literally.
I understand where she's coming from.
I think she loves to be loved.
I think there's just more to relationship than just sex.
And I feel like the relationship is so up and down
where like, they'll argue
and, like, I'll get phone calls
and then the next day they're perfectly fine.
So I don't really know what's like...
What's true and what's not anymore.
Manuel had said that he felt like
I didn't support him
and that is what set me off.
This man is [bleep] okay?
This man is fed. Okay?
How am I not supporting him?
-Yeah, that scares me a little bit too. -[Ashley] Mm-hmm.
Just because I want you to be in your marriage be happy
-and fulfilled and... -Hell yeah.
-Successful. -Right.
And I don't want you to feel like
you're taking on a project or another client.
Listen, I love that man.
He's a responsible human being.
He's incredibly loving.
He gives me more love, and intention, and I affection
than a partner ever has before.
And so for me, that's enough
to walk down that aisle,
and then we'll figure it out as we go.
Like, Manuel continues to say, like,
things are gonna get better when we get married.
Things are gonna get better when we get married.
It's gonna be a slap in the face
because it's work
and you're gonna have to work to make that better.
And just because you're married,
it's not magically gonna change.
We're at the mercy of the government.
The government's literally saying,
"You marry or he goes home,
and you spent all your money going back and forth."
[dramatic music playing]
I'm always gonna be there for Ashley
whether the wedding happens, whether it doesn't.
But I don't think it's a good idea for them to get married.
I think they're just waiting
for all these problems to dissolve
once they say "I do."
And it's... That's not gonna happen.
And I just worry for my friend.
For me, the good outweighs the bad.
We have our problems, but I do have faith
that we can work through our problems.
I have to have faith.
Trust me that I'm making the right decision.
If it all burns to the ground, just pick me back up.
[in Spanish]
[Jasmine] What's happening? Where are you going?
Baby.
I wanted to re-propose to Jasmine
with an upgraded ring.
What is that?
[Gino] Baby...
[upbeat music playing]
Hi.
[in Spanish]
[chuckles]
[singer] ♪ Picture perfect [indistinct] time ♪
♪ We did it fine, We did it fine ♪
♪ We did it fine
[Clayton] The last few days in San Diego
have definitely had their ups and downs.
You know, we had a little bit of an issue
with the dad situation,
but me and Anali finally broke
our dry streak on sex last night.
It only took about two months,
but the train finally pulled into the station
and we both got off, unless she was faking it.
Choo-choo.
[in Spanish]
[Anali laughs]
[in Spanish]
[both laugh]
[in Spanish]
[laughing]
[upbeat music playing]
Is this Clayton's reservation?
[man] [indistinct]
Thank you, sir. Thanks, sir.
[bell dings]
[in Spanish]
[Clayton] Anali's got a long list of things
that she wants to happen for the wedding,
but those are kind of not gonna fit with our budget.
Maybe I can talk Anali into maybe a goat instead,
something more Indiana-esque.
I don't think a llama's gonna happen.
[in Spanish]
I'm wanting Brandi to be a part of this wedding
because she's been married and divorced three times.
It's hard to imagine someone
with more experience than this.
[chuckling] That's so bad.
I shouldn't have said it.
[laughing]
I shouldn't have said it.
[bleep] I don't care.
[seagull squawking]
[phone ringing]
[phone beeps]
Hello. Hi.
[Brandi speaking]
[Clayton] We're in San Diego.
-Are you really? -[Clayton] Yeah. We're in San Diego.
[Brandi speaking]
-[in Spanish] -[Clayton] Yeah, yeah.
[in Spanish]
Uh, she wants a bachelorette party.
I already kind of had one on the works for you, so...
[in Spanish]
[laughter]
-Mmm-hmm. -[in Spanish]
So, part of the reason I'm calling you is,
to see if you might be able to help finish planning,
like, wedding stuff.
'Cause we're on vacation right now.
So, some things I need.
I need, um, a person in a guinea pig costume.
We also need, potentially, a llama or an alpaca,
whichever's available, for, like, pictures, decorations.
[Brandi speaking]
Brandi, it's really important that we include things
from Anali's culture, because, like, yeah, I could have
a traditional American wedding and just kinda like
forget that she's Peruvian, but I don't wanna do that.
I feel like you're just throwing everything
on the plate for me,
like I don't have my own life.
So, are you saying you're not gonna be able
to help now, or...
I'm not saying that.
I'm just saying it's the guinea pig request,
the llama...
[Brandi speaking]
I'm done with this.
[dramatic music playing]
Ouch.
Oh. [sighs]
I'm hoping that I didn't annoy Brandi too much,
because there is a risk that, uh, she won't want
to continue helping us with the wedding.
[phone ringing]
The wedding date is fast approaching.
I'm kind of anxious because we don't have a lot of time left.
A lot of pressure's on me
because of the language barrier.
My soon-to-be wife can't really help out too much.
So, there's a lot of weight on me.
[in Spanish]
[dramatic music playing]
[indistinct chatter]
[sniffs]
Why are you crying?
I don't know. I think it's everything.
[sniffs]
I mean, you were just saying you're gonna try to,
you know, bond with my family,
you're gonna be open with my family.
Babe, I didn't know that I was hurting you this bad.
Fighting with your family.
[sighs]
[Gino] You'd be willing to try.
Baby, of course I will.
I will try.
[chuckles, sniffs]
Baby, come here.
Baby, I'm sorry.
[dramatic music playing]
I'm sorry.
Don't cry.
[Gino] I know I really love you.
You know, you're the love of my life.
-[Gino] Yes. -How do you know?
What's happening? Where are you going?
Oh, my gosh.
Baby.
That is not.
[Gino] Baby...
[in Spanish]
[dramatic music playing]
[in Spanish]
-[in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[Gino] The ring I bought Jasmine in Panama,
when I proposed to her for the first time,
was not the most expensive ring.
I don't know if I got those...
The price tags mixed up, though.
-It's what, $250? -[man speaking]
[Gino] $270?
Thanks a lot.
[chuckling] Yeah.
So, I wanted to re-propose to Jasmine
with an upgraded ring.
Baby, I...
[sobbing]
[chuckles]
Do you like it?
[dramatic music playing]
[Jasmine speaking]
I have always wanted a different engagement ring.
As much as the first one means a lot to me,
let's be honest, it was cheap as [bleep].
[sobbing] Babe, I'm so happy.
My God.
This is a real diamond.
[laughs]
It's real.
-[Jasmine] Baby. -[laughs]
[smooches]
This is why I wanna marry you, Gino.
Why I want you to become my husband.
-You're the love of my life. -Gino.
-My Gino. -How about baby?
-This is to us... -To us.
and to Miami and a wonderful weekend
and many wonderful days to come.
You know, this is only the beginning for us.
It is. Love conquers all, baby.
Love conquers all.
Amen.
[Jasmine speaking]
Aw, that's so beautiful.
Even in cold Michigan.
-[chuckles] -Even in cold Michigan.
Oh, my God.
[Jasmine] Come on. [Jasmine speaking]
[Gino] Yeah, yeah.
[laughs]
What?
Until she's married, her dad has the final say.
And if I don't make him trust giving her away to me,
then, like, there's no wedding, there's nothing.
[knocks on door]
[suspenseful music playing]
[Herman speaking]
[upbeat music playing]
[Citra speaking]
Baby, where we're going, we don't need roads.
[rock music playing]
Citra's family has landed here in the US.
They had some layovers, some troubles,
and her dad and sister got in last night,
went to a hotel.
Her other sister is arriving today.
We're picking her up and then, going over to the hotel.
[chuckles]
I... He's a police officer, so hopefully,
he knows if you have to help translate
that I, yeah, had my medicine,
but I hadn't seen a doctor for a couple months,
so the prescription was old.
And they... I got in trouble for that.
Me and Citra's dad,
we bond and he treats me like a son-in-law,
but, uh, he's also worried at times.
They're expecting me to kind of be that rich American
that, uh, you know, just Mr. Hero,
and, uh, I just, I guess, didn't meet
quite the standard.
And now, I have to tell him after I marry his daughter
I might have to do jail time
and I'm worried Herman is gonna just say
that's the last straw, I'm not a good husband,
and he's gonna have Citra go back to Indonesia with him.
What?
Oh.
[in Indonesian]
Citra's two sisters, Nafa and Nanda,
they're great, but they're kinda mean girls.
Any physical insecurities I have,
Citra's sisters are quick to point out.
Call me Popeye.
Like, they've made me feel worse about myself,
I think, than any, like, bully I've ever had in school.
But I love them.
Ass [bleep]. Yeah. Ass [bleep].
[Citra's speaking]
-The hotel where you're... -Oh. [chuckles]
your sister and your father are.
[in Indonesian]
This isn't a city.
It's further that way.
Take you both.
[in Indonesian]
She pooped on the plane.
I'm proud of her.
I couldn't do that. [chuckles]
When you gotta go, you gotta go.
[instrumental music playing]
[Citra] Yeah.
[suspenseful music playing]
I'm feeling pretty nervous
and it just kinda all feels unreal
knowing, like, I'm about to meet her dad again
and, like, what I had to tell him.
Did he tell you what floor they're on?
[Nafa] Fifth.
Indonesian tradition,
until she's married, her dad has a final say.
And if I don't impress him and make him trust
giving her away to me,
then, like, there's no wedding, there's nothing.
[knocking on door]
Hey.
[Herman speaking]
[speaking Indonesian]
[laughs]
[speaking Indonesian]
It's been too long.
[in Indonesian]
-Good, good. -[laughs]
[in Indonesian]
[speaking Indonesian]
[in Arabic]
I can't wait to kinda show him around,
give him the American taste and, like--
[in Indonesian]
Are you ready to marry me
and also, like, ready to convert?
Yes.
-[Herman] Yeah? -Yeah.
I don't... I don't know how to say it,
but, like, really looking forward to it.
And, uh, every Muslim I've met is just...
They're the nicest people.
And any, like, inside struggles I've had,
it's gonna help bring peace.
[in Indonesian]
[chuckles]
[in Indonesian]
He's hoping that we're gonna, like, build,
like good marriage, like you taking care of me.
Like, he wants you to be responsible,
because my family is far away.
I know I'm gonna give you a good life,
and I'll die trying.
[in Indonesian]
I do kind of feel like I'm[bleep] Citra's dad
a little bit as he's telling me all this stuff,
and it's just kinda going out the other ear,
'cause all I can focus on is what I have to tell him.
But the longer I keep this a secret,
the worse it's gonna get.
And when I tell him,
I really don't think he's gonna take it well.
You're... You don't wanna hear...
-when you're wrong, right? -Stop it.
[Nikki] Too much stress?
No. You don't wanna change.
You don't wanna say, "I'm sorry, Nicole.
I'm sorry, Nicole."
Sometimes I feel like I don't know why I keep going
with Justin.
Is this a dead end?
Like, what are we doing?
[suspenseful music playing]
[Justin speaking]
Hi.
Hello, my love.
What makes this strange?
[Nikki chuckles] Well, in a rustic way.
Oh, my goodness. Why didn't you warn me?
I'm wearing heels.
[Justin speaking]
-Oh. -[Nikki yelps]
-[Justin] Yeah? -[Nikki] Oh, my--
-[Justin] Yeah? -[Nikki grunts]
[Justin speaking]
[Nikki] You control.
[Justin] What can you do more with your legs?
I can choke somebody out with my legs, that's for sure.
[chuckles]
Two strong legs...
-[Nikki] Yeah. -[Justin] and a big butt.
Were you looking at my butt?
-No. Of course, no. -My new... My new butt.
-Of course not. -[chuckles]
Why?
[Nikki] Yeah, as a team. Yes.
Despite all the arguing
and all the little fights and disagreements,
when he gives me love
and shows me affection,
I feel like the most...
[sighs] ...luckiest girl in the world.
Hopefully, we get through it,
because I do love him.
I want it to work.
You know, tomorrow's our engagement celebration.
And I do know that I wanna have
this engagement celebration, because I believe in my heart
there's no one else I'd rather be with.
And I don't know how you feel.
You think that we should still have this?
Keep dreaming on it.
You gotta dream more.
You're not getting a threesome
until the intimacy comes first.
But if I offer that to you,
then you gotta offer it to me with another guy.
-Why? -No.
So, I have to watch you with another woman,
but then you can't see me with another guy?
When I will be with two girls...
-[Nikki] Yeah. -I [bleep] them.
When second guy come,
-he [bleep] you. -[Nikki] So--
I don't want to somebody [bleep] you.
Well, but why I got to see you
[bleep] a girl... Another girl and me?
-Yes. [laughs] -Why?
You know, I'm two seconds
from slapping the [bleep] outta you.
That's really so disrespectful
that you [bleep] laugh at my face.
-[chuckles] -Igor, cut the [bleep], okay?
Okay, sweetie. Okay, sweetie.
-Later. -You're--
-Yes. You don't wanna hear... -Stop.
-when you're wrong, right? -Stop.
Oh, poor baby. So, when you're...
So, when you're getting called out on your [bleep],
you don't wanna deal with it, right?
You don't wanna hear when you're wrong.
That's the problem. Too much stress?
No, you don't wanna change.
You don't wanna say, "I'm sorry Nicole.
I'm sorry Nicole."
You don't like to take accountability
for anything you do wrong.
That's a problem.
I'm telling you to take accountability
when you do something wrong, and you don't.
Just like you tell me to take accountability
when I do something wrong.
I have to say, "Yes, I understand, okay?
I'm sorry," but no, you don't take accountability
for when you do something wrong.
You don't wanna hear it because you're the man.
Now, when I say it's you do something wrong,
you don't wanna hear it. I don't wanna hear it.
That's a problem.
-[Justin speaking] -Here we go.
Act like little child.
Run away, like you always do.
Throwing a little mantrums.
This whole trip in general has been a pure [bleep] show.
You know, I think that there's way bigger fish to fry
than our engagement celebration at this point.
Sometimes, I feel like I don't know why I keep going
with Justin.
I feel like, you know, is this a dead end?
Are we gonna progress? Are we gonna move on?
Are we gonna resolve? Like, what are we doing?
[sighs]
I have lied to Gino
and I have hide things that I shouldn't have.
The surgery.
The one you never told me about?
The only person
who could lend me the money
was Dane.
[tense music playing]
[upbeat music playing]
Wow, you're so organized with your packing.
My stuff's, like, all over the place.
Yours is, like, perfectly organized.
Oh.
[Gino] Tired?
Why do we have to leave?
Why we cannot stay here, baby?
[upbeat music playing]
Don't forget your hat.
[Gino] The most important thing in my suitcase.
I know. I know.
I've been feeling guilty since last night.
I want to leave Miami with a clean slate,
start over, fresh new.
I love this new version of us,
but I, myself, I have lied to Gino
and I have hide things that I shouldn't have.
So...
I don't... I promise to leave Miami on a positive note.
This is a new version of us.
This new Jasmine
needs to confess a few things.
[tense music playing]
The surgery.
What surgery?
The butt implant, the one...
-That I-- -The one you never told me about?
Yeah.
When I wanted the surgery, I only had $8,000.
Right? $4,000 from the... From you.
That was supposed to be the wedding dress.
Other $4,000 that I have saved,
but I was still missing $2,000.
And the only person
who could provide that money to me, as a loan,
was, um, Dane.
And when I was gonna pay him back,
he said, "You know what? You're gonna get married
and this is your wedding gift."
You should... Why are you talking to him
and asking him for money?
Because he's my friend.
This is the guy that you were, like, screaming
when I was last time in Panama
that you had sex with this guy.
[Jasmine] You're a [bleep] piece of [bleep].
-I'm outta here. -[Jasmine speaking]
[Gino] Right there, bitch.
[Jasmine speaking]
-Go back. -[Jasmine speaking]
Go back to him. I don't need you.
[Jasmine] He is the most important person in my life.
Yeah. Go [bleep] yourself.
Go to hell.
I just hear his name way too much.
Dane, Dane, Dane.
You dislike this guy so much
and he said like, "I'm glad that you found Gino.
I'm glad you're gonna marry the love of your life.
And you know what?"
Because Dane know that you are the one
who is gonna enjoy my ass
and [bleep] it.
He's not gonna [bleep] my ass.
I can't believe that we had such a good trip,
and you just killed all the momentum and happiness and...
[dramatic music playing]
Just killed everything.
She was beating me to a pulp
when she found out about the bachelor party.
And now, she thinks it's okay that she was hiding
and lying to me about all these things with her ex?
I mean, how could she do that?
I mean, she's so hypocritical.
[Jasmine] You don't deserve this [bleep].
I am so sorry, baby.
We have to catch our flight, like, soon.
I was thinking when Jasmine left Panama
that it would be the end of relationship with Dane.
They're not gonna talk anymore,
'cause she's come to US to be with me.
I mean, what the[bleep] is that?
I thought things were so good,
but this is all not good.
None of it's good.
[tense music playing]
[woman] Next time on90 Day Fiancé...
I am furious.
He doesn't care about other people's feelings,
and he won't take accountability
and he doesn't realize he's doing things wrong.
So, I don't think I wanna marry someone like that.
She did not tell her mom anything
other than what we don't have,
what we... What we didn't make.
That feels like we not on the same team.
One to ten, how good are you feeling?
I'm, like, a four.
Sophie has always assumed that we're gonna get married,
but I have all the way up until I say I do.
[woman] Okay, smile.
Okay. Thank you.
[Nikki chuckles]
[in Spanish]
[Ashley] Manuel.
Manuel deciding to have another bitch fit.
We're going in circles.
[in Spanish]
[in foreign language]
[laughter]
Citra's family just arrived from Indonesia.
[Sam] A couple months ago, as you know, I got in trouble.
[in Indonesian]
It's hard to say with a felony.
[in Indonesian]
I don't have a problem
with Anali at all.
But I'd feel better if I just see once a week
a [indistinct] pick up some American.
Where's the cheeseburgers at?
My mom's passive-aggressive,
and I personally hate that.
Her being in the house is affecting mine
and Anali's private relationship.
It's frustrating that she... She's not speaking English.
I don't think she has a desire to learn English.
I don't know. I shouldn't say that,
but I said what I said.
[tense music playing]
Did she come out and start attacking you,
or did you say something to her?
Gino's ex-girlfriend really ruined my life.
She was blackmailing me for a while.
I blame Gino.
You are really asking me
if I provoke her?
Well, you hurt me.
I wish I have [bleep] Dane that last night.
I'm not gonna get married to this [bleep] idiot.
[tense music playing]