[Ashley] Previously on 90 Day Fiance
Do you forgive me, or do you think you ever will?
I mean, I forgive you.
I haven't forgotten what you did,
but I forgive you.
But we're actually together now.
I'm in America. You have no excuse.
Like, I'm here, you know?
So I'm, like... If you do anything like it,
like, I'm gonna be gone.
[Kevin speaking]
-You're real. -[laughing]
Nick, being from South Korea,
he's really coming into a strange situation.
[Nick] I'm the only one.
That's overwhelming.
Oh.
[speaking other language]
[in English] How did you and Daniel come to accept my life,
my life, who I am?
[speaking other language]
[in English] I was like, "Do you expect me to send money down there,
like, every month?"
And he was like, "Well, yeah." And I was like, "How much?"
-And he was like, "300." -$300?
[Manuel speaking Spanish]
We are on a limited time before the 90 days are up,
and we need to learn how to coexist
if we're gonna make it.
-Where's he going? -[Ashley speaking Spanish]
-[Manuel speaking Spanish] -[man] Wow.
[Manuel speaking]
Oh, look. I see grapes.
Yeah, many greats here.
And we are here.
[Nikki] I need a glass of wine.
[Justin] Yeah.
-Oh, it's so cold. -Okay.
[Justin] Here we go.
Yeah.
-[Justin speaking] -Do you think we could capture
some sweet moments together?
I hope so, too.
[Justin] Today, Nikki and I are going to romantic place.
If she behaves, maybe we can have sex the second time.
Oh, we're finally here.
Oh, it's nice and toasty.
Oh, I love it.
Let's check out this room.
[gasps] Pink bedsheets.
And I think we have some closets over here.
His and hers, right?
[Justin speaking]
That side.
No, that side, like we have at your house.
You're on that side, I'm on this side.
-Yeah. -Yes.
I really, truly feel like our relationship
is a rollercoaster ride,
and sometimes I want to get off and throw up,
and sometimes I want to get back on it again.
But I think to myself, "You know what?
Time is of the essence."
Ha.
So I want to actually just enjoy my time with him,
because I do love him so much.
[Justin speaking]
Yes.
-Here? This one. -[laughs]
Okay.
-Cheers, babe. -To our new beginning,
or old beginning, I don't know.
-This is a continuation to a new beginning. -Yeah.
-A new special moment for us. -Yes.
How do you think about it?
I don't think anybody gets it.
Like, they just... I mean,
I still can't believe that we're here again.
[both chuckle]
-Shut up. -[laughs]
You always have something stupid to say.
So, are you gonna get ready for bed?
-Yeah. -No.
I'm just testing how it's work.
No, no, no, no, no.
No.
Maybe after dinner, we can have some sexy time.
Maybe, it's been about a week.
It's true.
I know Nikki really wants sex,
but for my mental, it's not working like that.
If Nikki fight with me, I go a few steps back.
But at this trip, of course I want to try.
[both laugh]
[Justin] Oh, hello. Who are they?
Who are these two girls?
[Robert] Ready to lose?
[Sophie] You're ready to lose.
-I'm never ready to lose. -[Sophie] I'm ready to win.
[Robert] I've already won.
-[Sophie] Alrighty there. -Because I got you.
[Sophie speaking]
[Robert] I can't lose, baby. Because I got you, baby.
Okay, where do we get our shoes at?
Tonight we're gonna meet up with Ty and Tor'i
at the bowling alley.
I'd say bowling's actually pretty big in England.
Like, 'cause in England,
there's not a lot of outdoorsy stuff to do
because the weather's so bad,
so, like, bowling's pretty popular.
It's like something to do indoors.
Sophie and I have gone bowling before,
and I like when she actually releases the ball
because the ball's heavy.
There's a... there's a reflex jiggle.
[laughs] I was wearing jeans.
You can still see the reflex jiggle.
I only know my England size. Hold on.
[Robert] I need a 10-and-a-half.
and she needs to work out her English London sizes.
In American size.
[Robert] Those big feet.
Do you have, um, six-point-five
[woman] Yeah.
We call it six-and-a-half.
[laughs]
American is, like, adopted from England.
And yet, you told me you originally fell for me
because of the way I sound.
Yeah, I think you sound nice.
You like the way the English sounds.
I'm saying British is like...
[Robert] You like the way--
...Americans speak British from England.
-Oi. -[laughs]
That's so bad.
[in English accent] Turn... turn off the telly.
Rob's English accent is rubbish.
He thinks it's good, but it's--
You're taking the piss.
That's awful.
-[in normal voice] Oh. -[laughs]
Just like y'all to start without me.
-Yeah, yeah. -Glad you could make it, bro.
-You look all flashy and stylish. -I appreciate you.
-Hi. -I like your jacket.
[Robert] Hey, take that off.
You don't need to be looking like me anyways.
You and Rob are twinning.
-Twinning. -I know.
-I mean, yeah, we're twinning. -Twinning it up.
Good to see you.
[Ty speaking]
[Sophie] I'm all right.
I feel like it depends on the game.
-They have bowling in England. -[Ty] Do they?
-Yeah, they got bowling all over the place. -Oh, my bad.
I love anything, like, competitive.
So like anything, like any type of games,
I just always want to beat Rob,
because like I'm great at a lot of things.
[Robert] That's absolutely not true.
[laughs]
She just talks a big game,
but no, she's definitely not a better bowler than me,
and she's not better at any sport than me.
False. Tennis. I'm way better than you.
Okay, you're better at me than tennis
because I've never played tennis.
-Start it off. Y'all ready? -Start her off.
[Sophie] Oh!
-Aw. -[Tor'i] Bad start.
[Ty] Are you cooking over there?
-Whoo! -[Sophie] Ah.
[Ty] Uh-oh.
Aye, I broke a nail, though.
Aye, that's what's up.
-Came to play, baby. -Nice.
[Ty speaking]
It's been good. Just been chilling.
I don't have much to do because I can't work, so...
-I hear you. I hear you. -I just be at the house.
[Sophie] Yeah.
Hey, Sophie, what's all this going-through-phone stuff?
I heard you was going through Rob's phone.
Why you was up there in the phone like that?
Because did he not tell you what he did?
I mean, that's what y'all do?
[Rob] It's your turn.
Basically, if you haven't told them properly,
he was online on, like, Snapchat,
and he was getting nudes and videos from girls,
and he was, like, you know, sexting them, like, back
and telling them, like, "Oh, like, your ass is so amazing."
This, that.
[Ty speaking]
You didn't tell them?
Do I need to dive into every detail of what it was?
I should not have responded.
Yes, bro, because I'm forming an opinion,
an unfair opinion, based off of what you're giving me.
[Robert] I don't know why.
If you're giving me half the story... Okay, bro.
-I don't know why you're forming that unfair opinion. -Oh, okay.
Because I said I was wrong.
The conversation took a little bit of a turn, though.
It did.
I think it was that Leo energy.
-Big Leo energy, I mean, -Big Leo energy.
Rob didn't tell us the full story.
I'd say the whole going through phone thing
just ain't a healthy thing,
-and it ain't a healthy situation. -[Sophie] I agree,
-I don't want to do that, but I also-- -Yeah.
I'm trying to be like, how can I gain trust?
Like, I'd need to know
I'm not gonna find any more videos.
I'm not gonna find anything, and it's like,
this is what helps me kind of try to get the trust back.
Because if I still resent him, I'm not gonna marry him.
Understood.
I mean, that gives me major respect for you, Sophie,
for still being here and still saying, "You know what?
I'm gonna stick it out with you," and that says a lot.
I feel like my blood leaked into the water,
and all the sharks was like, "Oh [bleep]
here we go, it's feeding time."
That basically made me feel like, "Okay,
nothing I've done has fixed this.
Nothing I've done has made this better,
regardless of how much I've tried, regardless.
Doesn't matter."
I don't get it.
And the last thing I want to be is the person
who just doesn't get it.
If everything I think is just wrong,
is Sophie just right to come at me,
is Tor'i and Ty right in feeling
like I deliberately left out information?
I don't know. I don't know.
I'm pretty lost after this whole situation.
[phone ringing]
-Baby. -[Citra speaking]
[Sam] I told my fiance, Citra, about my drug past.
I've never had anyone believe in me
the way she believes in me.
Me and Citra have not had sex yet.
[Sam speaking]
Has there been any girls that you [bleep] around with?
Uh-huh.
So I applied for the K-1 visa,
and you already [bleep] bitches.
-[yawns] -* Wish always we could be heroes *
* It didn't tell us that we were supposed to say *
* We'd chase the life on the high road *
* It just takes that cross without grace *
[Sam] My name's Sam.
I'm from Cameron, Missouri.
I am 30 years old.
* 'Cause you can't hide the shadow *
* Without the song *
I'm sleeping in my car these days
because I'm working double shifts,
and it's an hour each way, so it's easier to take a nap
than just do that whole commute.
-All good, have a good day. -Thank you. You too.
I work for an online retailer,
stocking like a dock worker, basically.
It's definitely not my career choice,
but I don't have any options because of my past.
Back when I was 15, I got addicted to pain medicine,
and I stayed addicted to it for quite a few years.
Being addicted to opiates,
it makes you, like, a really cold, numb person,
so I never had a real relationship that lasted.
And it made life really hard.
But jobs, if you're sick every other day,
it's hard to commit to anything,
and trying to get drugs, like buy drugs on the street,
getting burned, it's just a dirty, ugly world.
When I was around 22, I got clean and sober,
and it's been almost 10 years now,
and yeah, at times that's even been a struggle.
I've relapsed a few times,
but now it's more important than ever that I stay clean,
because my fiance is coming soon.
Her name's Citra. She's 26 and from West Java, Indonesia.
* Just take me for a ride *
[Sam] Citra has the most beautiful open heart.
She doesn't judge you, and she's just the most kind,
calm, patient person I've ever met.
Hi, baby. I love you, and I miss you.
[Sam] I met Citra on an online dating app over three years ago.
Citra reached out to me first, and I thought she was hot,
but, like, I didn't get attached right away,
but it was just really easy to talk to her
with some flirting in there.
Not only, like, she has just the best personality.
I love a nice big butt, and she's got that big butt.
* The bigger the boom, the bigger the bang *
[Sam] Oh, I've been dreaming for so long,
of squeezing that butt and just, like, slapping it.
She's got what I like.
A year in, we fully started letting each other in
and just telling everything.
I told Citra about my drug past.
She still looked past all that and, like, loved me.
When I didn't love myself.
I've never had anyone believe in me
the way she believes in me.
After two years, we finally met face-to-face in Indonesia.
[Citra] Oh, my God!
[Sam] Finally, my heart was racing so much.
-[laughs] -It was the best trip of my life.
[Sam] It was just, like, surreal.
Like, you know this person,
but you kind of feel like you don't,
but you're already kissing and hugging,
and the bond just... It built pretty quick.
I knew I wanted to propose to her.
I didn't have money for a ring,
but I got on one knee.
[both laughing]
When she said yes, I felt like a million-dollar man
just on top of the world.
[woman speaking other language]
[indistinct chatter]
[Citra speaking]
And I found his profile,
and then I was like, "His face is so young,
but his profile says that he was 26."
[speaking other language]
[laughs]
[Citra speaking English]
[man vocalizing]
[Citra speaking]
[Brian] Hey, Sam.
Just got off work?
[Sam] Yeah.
Growing up, my mom's side were really religious, Christian.
I live with my dad now
and he doesn't believe in any kind of God at all.
He heavily believes in aliens.
And he's just waiting for them to pick him up.
Part of me thinks it's kind of silly,
but I've seen a UFO.
It was some white little circle in the sky
with four lime green lights,
so I believe it's possible.
All of that kind of led me to be an atheist.
I'm nervous because I definitely think
it's gonna be hard to live by the strict things
that they have to live by.
I'm not gonna be able to drink
and even just Ramadan where you fast till sundown,
that alone makes me hurt.
So I hope I can do it
because I know there's gonna be no wedding
if I don't convert.
-[phone ringing] -[Sam tutting]
Baby.
Just getting stuff together and ready for you.
A few days?
[chuckles]
Citra's dad, Herman.
He's a police officer
and doesn't want there to be a whole lot of time
of me and her being in the same house
because he worries that we'll have sex.
Me and Citra have not had sex yet.
We've kissed and all that, but in Muslim culture,
you can't sex till marriage like that.
It's just, uh-uh.
He's a policeman and like,
I don't know if it's because he's Muslim,
there's just something like,
I love you like a son, but I'll [beep] kill you.
[Citra speaking]
That's awfully quick.
There's so much stress
because I gotta please her dad,
make sure he feels comfortable like with me
and like knowing I'm gonna take care of her,
getting the wedding together and converting.
If I don't get everything done,
it's gonna make me look like I'm not a man to her dad
and she'll just end up going back with him to Indonesia.
Well, we'll figure all that stuff out, okay, baby?
Be safe.
Just hurry up and get here, okay?
Okay.
-I love you. -[Citra speaking]
With everything going on, all the damn pressure,
like, I don't know how the hell I'm gonna pull this off.
This is a statue of a Confederate soldier.
Right.
[Nick speaking]
[Ashley] Manuel.
[speaking Spanish]
"Mucha walla walla," his favorite statement.
You're talking too much.
[speaking Spanish]
* You can give me all your troubles *
* And nothing but bad news *
* You can take all my money *
[Devin speaking]
-Are you kidding? -No.
-[Devin] No? -No.
* Ever since I found my baby *
* I ain't got the blues *
[Devin speaking]
[Devin] It was such a long flight from Korea.
We decided to stay in a hotel near the airport
and then drive back home today.
Hey, good morning.
[Nick] Yeah, ready, let's go.
My first impression of Devin's parents are they are nice.
[Nick] Oh, it's real heavy.
[Devin] I think Nick has the right to be worried.
If I was in his situation, moving to Korea,
I'd probably feel a little bit worried too.
Take in all the large tall buildings now
because once we cross over the bridge,
-you won't see any for -[Kevin] Yeah.
a long, long time.
[Kevin] This is the Mississippi River.
Yeah, welcome to your new home state.
It is possible.
Yes, there are a few alligators.
Which is very different from--
Most of America is like that.
That's not the America we are thinking about.
So kind of scary.
Wow.
[Kevin speaking]
[Katrina] We're home!
Her house really big.
Most of Korean house is apartment.
Looks like she's so rich compared to that.
Hello.
[woman speaking]
Oh, hello, guys. [laughs]
[Devin] I live with my parents, but also with my sisters.
And then my brother, Kaden.
-Can I give you a hug? -Yeah.
Let me give you a hug.
Nice to meet you, Kaden.
How many people are in the house?
Like six, was there six people in the house?
So it's gonna be a bit awkward
and it will be difficult to have some privacy.
Can you give me a tour please?
[Katrina] He's waited a long time to get here, so.
[Devin] The living room.
[Nick speaking]
[Devin] This is the kitchen in here.
[Nick speaking]
I think Nick being here,
I'm sure he's very overwhelmed.
Our room is over here.
[Nick] Ooh.
I think it's good, yeah.
Devin is never one to show a whole lot of emotion,
but I think she's very excited
to finally be in the same place again,
and the same time zone again.
I'm glad to be here with you.
You know?
[Nick speaking]
-Ow! -[Devin laughs]
-[Devin] Come on. -[Nick] Yeah.
Take a look around.
[Nick] Today, Devin wants me to see Searcy.
-Wow. -Mine's right over there.
[Nick] Over there?
-Is that the one? -Yeah, I did this one here.
-What is it? -[chuckles]
[Devin] Yeah, we're in White County.
It's not talking about skin color.
-Are you sure? -It's just-- Yeah.
[Nick] Okay.
[Devin speaking]
[both laugh]
[Devin] Searcy is a pretty small town.
[Nick speaks]
[Devin speaking]
Searcy is majority white.
There are people here who probably aren't as tolerant,
who were born here, live here, and die here,
and haven't been exposed to
very much culture other than what we have here in town.
Yeah. [chuckles]
Uh, so you know how the United States had a Civil War?
Yeah.
Yes. Yes.
[Devin speaking]
-Right. -Okay.
That's, that's... Okay. Okay.
He's a baby.
[Ashley] Uh, he does.
We're on a double date with my best friends
Solly and Alysia.
And Manuel gets upset and storms out
because he doesn't like the questions being asked of him.
That's really what comes down to it.
I think Manuel has a tendency to be unreasonable.
I think Manuel is very used to getting his way.
[speaks Spanish]
[in English] His favorite statement.
"You're talking too much."
-Is this normal? Does he do this normally? -[Ashley stutters] I...
I mean, he's run off before since he's been here.
He's just not used to being questioned
the way he's been questioned, like, he's just used to,
"It is what it is, and that's what it is."
[stutters] It is... We need to... Ashley.
Ashley.
I understand you wanna run after your man right now.
I get that.
Sometimes, you just gotta let him go.
When things get tough,
it's not time to run away.
And if she thinks it's gonna get better with marriage,
she'll be in for a rude awakening.
-Yeah. -[laughs] For sure.
[Solly] I think this just confirms everything that
I'd already thought that he, I think that--
Yeah, nevermind.
That he's kind of a man child.
[in Spanish]
[soccer match playing over phone]
[in Spanish]
-[Manuel speaks] -Manuel.
[Ashley in English] Okay, Manuel.
[in Spanish]
[in English] Yeah, okay.
[continues in Spanish]
[Ashley in English] Yes.
[Ashley] Okay.
[Ashley] Yeah.
[Ashley] Manuel.
Manuel, I understand--
[Ashley] Okay, that's fine.
We don't need to talk anymore about the friends.
[Manuel speaks]
I was naive to think that Manuel would apologize
for being a jerk to my friends and running off.
Instead, he's doubling down,
being a bit of a jerk, and being dismissive.
Can I marry somebody who wants nothing to do with my friends,
but also wants me to have nothing to do with his family?
'Cause that's kinda how I'm feeling in this moment.
Probably not. And no, I don't know what to do.
Like, you know about the online cheating that he did.
He did it again.
And it's kind of ruined our trust again.
I feel like this might be something that,
now there's something he didn't know about me.
It could be, like,
the final thing that breaks us.
[Nikki] What was it, like, 3:00 am?
That's when you wanna make love to me, at 3:00?
[imitates rooster's crow, laughs]
He was finally horny at that moment,
and he gave it to me. Like, it's just not
special to me.
Do you feel like because you're the one with the penis
and you have inserted to the vagina,
that it's only up to your decision
of when you wanna do it?
[Rob speaks]
[Sophie speaks]
[video call ringtone ringing]
[Sophie] Hi!
[Sophie] Yeah, I'm good. How are you?
[Maya speaking over video call]
[Sophie] It's been, like, a little bit crazy.
Like, with somethings with, like, me and Rob.
-But, like, I love it here so far, so yeah. [chuckles] -[Maya laughs]
[Sophie] I'm calling my friend from London, Maya,
just to kind of get some advice
and tell her what's going on with the whole
Rob and the cheating thing.
It's nice to have support,
and just kind of have someone there for me
to help me out with what it is I should do.
Um, like, you know about the online cheating that he did.
And like, you were like,
"How do you know he's not gonna do it again," right?
He did it again.
Yeah, the exact same thing
he did before, he did it again.
[Maya speaking]
Yeah.
Uh, I hate how you have good points. [chuckles]
-Uh, I've, I don't think... -[laughs]
Mmm.
He is trying to make it up to me, though.
Like, he just booked us a really nice beach house,
where it was just me and him, and we spent the night together.
[Maya speaks]
Yeah. Shouldn't I think with my heart?
[laughs] Is that not better?
[Maya chuckles]
[Sophie chuckling]
[Sophie] Yeah.
No, I feel you. I mean, there is, like,
you know, we do have quite a few problems that we need to sort out.
[Maya speaking]
[Sophie] Obviously, because of everything that's going on,
I haven't really had the opportunity to tell him.
[Maya speaking]
[Sophie] Yeah.
[Sophie] Right, yeah.
Hopefully, he'll be, like, accepting and, like, supportive of it.
[Sophie] I know Maya is right and he does deserve to know,
because it's kind of, like, now or never.
But me and Rob have already gone through so much together
and had so many issues,
and those things that I didn't know about Rob.
And I feel like this might be something that,
now there's something he didn't know about me,
it could be, like, the final thing that breaks us.
[sheep bleating]
[speaking Russian]
[Justin in English]
[Justin speaking]
[chuckling]
We have some intimate moments.
-[Justin] Niko, help her. -Okay.
I'm afraid to touch because my nails are so long,
they're making holes in the dough.
[Nikki] Yeah. Mmm.
Before we sleep, if Nikki writing something,
-it's, like, so loudly. -Oh, oh, my goodness.
-So loudly. Annoying. -He can play his chess, okay?
-Sit there and play in here. -Yes, without nails.
-Like... -No, you hear, ding, ding.
All the moves that you make, but yet I'm like...
-[nails clicking] -[laughs]
-On my phone, and he's like... -Yeah.
[imitating Justin] "Baby, can you stop? It's too much."
-It's true, true. -[in normal voice] I'm like, "Wait, what?"
Do any Moldovan man cook...
[in Russian]
[in English] For the woman? [speaks Russian]
-[in English] For the woman in Moldova? -[laughing]
-[Nikki] What?
Of course, yes.
And when the man want to do
-some nice things for woman... -Uh-huh.
-...he is cooked. -Yeah?
Yeah.
-You haven't cooked for me. You reheat stuff for me. -The potatoes.
-Baby. -Yeah?
-Finish please. -Okay.
I'll be watching you.
[Nikki laughs] You're gonna get this on your face.
Nikki doesn't cook. Nikki doesn't clean.
I mean the woman in the U.S.A.
doesn't do anything. I didn't know.
Niko, open your mouth.
-[chef in English] Okay. -Nikki, open your mouth.
Let's try. Catch it.
-No. -No?
-I want something else in my mouth, not that. -[Justin] Okay.
[both laugh]
But here, different.
The woman is great cook,
and they keep house clean,
and support the man.
Many things.
And then you want to make love with that woman.
-Thank you. Bon appétito! -[in Russian] Spasibo.
[speaks Russian]
[hungrily] Oh!
[Nikki in English] It looks amazing!
[Nikki] It is so--
-[Nikki] Ooh, there's cottage cheese. -Mmm!
[in Russian accent] Very, very, very, very interesting.
[Justin chuckles]
[in normal voice] Last night, when we finally,
you know, got ready for bed,
I thought that we would have some
sexy time together.
And, no.
But then, I don't know, in the middle of the night,
we had a moment. [inhales deeply]
What was it, like, 3:00 am? Really?
That's when you wanna make love to me, at 3:00?
[imitating rooster's crow, laughing]
-[Nikki] At 3:00 a.m.? -[imitating rooster crowing]
-At 3:00 a.m.? -[Justin chuckles]
Come on.
I think it's so selfish
the way his mind thinks on his time to make love to me.
It's not special to me.
So, like, please give me a serious answer because it is going...
-it keeps running in my head, like... -[speaking in English]
...us not being intimate more
and you not [bleep] me, like, is that... like, literally,
the thing in my head is that it's because I'm trans.
Or is this just normal for you?
[speaking in English]
[chuckling] I'm sorry.
So, basically, you're saying when I [bleep] out it's like a [bleep] man?
I can't. I hate you. [chuckles]
[speaking in English]
-But you understand me? -Yeah, I do.
[speaking in English]
[Nikki] If I'm gonna stay in this relationship with you
I need to see something more.
We've been engaged for a year, babe.
A year. And you still don't have, like, "engaged",
-even just the word engaged on your social media. -Baby...
[speaking in English]
-I know. I know. -[Justin speaking in English]
Social media can be the destruction in any relationship.
It doesn't matter if it's long distance or not.
I feel like when two people love each other you should be on both social media pages,
and I've posted him all over my social media
because I'm truly in love with him
but what I don't understand is after all this time, after being engaged
and he doesn't put me on to his social media. That bothers me.
I don't... I think any woman would be bothered by that.
I see the sacrifice that you're making for our relationship,
I just can't be in the dark in your life.
I can't be a secret to anyone's re... Like, in a relationship.
-[Justin speaking in English] -I know.
[Nikki] I'm so happy.
-You finally put "engaged". Yes. -[Justin] Yay.
-[speaking in English] -[Nikki] I'm very happy.
[Justin speaking in English]
-I'm so happy. -[speaking in English]
-Thank you so much. -You're welcome.
[Manuel speaking in other language]
[Ashley in English] Okay, um...
[Manuel and Ashley speaking in other language]
-[in English] This is what we call ghetto ways... -[Manuel chuckles]
...but, okay.
[Ashley] I'm taking you to a place for food
that is really, really, really popular in Rochester.
[speaking in other language]
-[speaking in other language] -[in English] Yes.
[Ashley] After what happened the other night with my friends...
[speaking in English]
It's been tough, but at this point we have two options.
Wave the white flag and surrender
or keep pushing forward and try to make this work.
So, today, we're gonna try to do some wedding planning
'cause I do wanna try to make it to the altar.
And as an added bonus for Manuel
I'm gonna show him Rochester's very own Garbage Plate.
Are you excited to try your first Garbage Plate?
[Manuel speaking in other language]
[in English] He's gonna have such a bad diarrhea.
[laughs]
[speaking in other language]
[in English] Hi!
Um, okay, so, can you explain to us what's in a Garbage Plate?
Of course, yeah, no problem.
So, it comes on a plate and we have two sides on the bottom.
Typically, there are, like, home fries and mac salad.
-Those are the two most popular sides. -[speaking in other language]
[in English] And then, on top of that goes two meats.
-Usually, cheeseburgers or hotdogs. -[speaking in other language]
[in English] And then, on top of that is
-meat sauce, mustard and onions. -[speaking in other language]
[in English] He's... he's gonna see.
-[speaking in other language] -[in English] Yeah, it does, eh?
We will take two.
-[receptionist] Two? -Yeah.
[speaking in other language]
-[in English] Thank you so much. -You're welcome.
[speaking in other language]
[Ashley in English] Okay, so, we decided
to get married in Florida because Florida's beautiful.
We met in a traveling experience
so why wouldn't we get hitched in a traveling experience?
[speaking in other language]
[Ashley in English] As soon as Manuel proposed
I'm immediately getting the wedding invitations,
buying my wedding dress.
So, like, team too much. Hashtag team too much.
I know it, I own it, I don't care.
Take me or hate me, don't care.
Okay, round trip.
[both speaking in other language]
[in English] It's more than Manuel wants to spend
but it's also the only time we're getting married.
So, I'm totally fine going into a little bit of debt
for something we'll both remember forever. Fine with it.
[speaking in other language]
[in English] After taxes and then there's two people, like that's--
-[speaking in other language] -[in English] I hate when you make that face.
I, literally, hate when you make that face.
It's such this st... stank ass face.
This is America. Everything's expensive.
Like, it is so cheap to live in Ecuador.
So, no matter what he looks at his jaw is dropping at the price.
Whether it's eggs or a plane ticket and everything in between,
he's like, "Why are we spending money on this?"
'Cause we have to live.
[speaking in other language]
[Ashley in English] Manuel sending money home
and us figuring out what's appropriate to send home
is gonna be something that we're gonna be working on
for the rest of our relationship.
I might get emotional. I can feel it coming.
Because it's, like, well, could this go back to his family?
And then it's, like, no, it's like the way that I wanna live my life.
It's, you know, I can't live my life necessarily in that way
because I have to think about what could go back
and I feel like he doesn't want to, either
because he's thinking of what could go back to his family,
so, we're both sitting in this space of feeling guilty.
And so, I'm doing the best that I can
when I'm navigating through waters I've never swam in.
[man 1] Swirl it in your mouth, give it some air.
[Justin speaking in English]
-This is for you. [chuckles] -[Nikki sniffs]
-[speaking in English] -Okay, this is wine.
Rohan, you are the love therapist.
[speaking in English]
Too much information but all right.
What do South Korean people think of Americans?
[speaking in English]
Oh, my.
[speaking in English]
Are you serious?
[speaking in English]
Him calling her piggy, I wish he wouldn't do that.
[speaking in English]
[Nikki] Thank you.
[Justin speaking in English]
[Nikki] Yes, baby. I'm excited, too.
[speaking in English]
[Nikki and Justin speaking in English]
[Rohan] Hello.
-Hi. Oh, wow, you speak English. -I'm Rohan. Yes, I do.
-Hi. Rohan. Nice to meet you. -My name is Nikki
-and that's my fiancé, Justin. -[Rohan] Fantastic.
Welcome to our tasting room.
We're gonna have some nice wines today.
[Nikki] You know, I've never done a wine tasting before.
[Rohan] That's perfect. That means I can say anything
and you're gonna believe it, right?
[Nikki] Possibly, but probably not because I'm from New York, so, yeah. [chuckles]
We will start with our sauvignon blanc.
My first impression was interesting couple.
We're still a conservative country here.
Generally speaking you will not find, in Moldova,
um, a much older woman with a younger guy.
Then we're gonna have a cabernet sauvignon rosé.
I'd like to describe this one as the essence of summer.
But this has got, like, these beautiful peachy,
-golden hues, pink. -Beautiful.
-I love pink. My favorite color. -[Rohan] Smells like summer.
[sniffs] Mmm.
What do you think, baby?
-You like this one? -Uh...
[speaking in English]
-Keep drinking. -[chuckles]
All right.
When people do wine tastings
yeah, it's common to get a little drunk or tipsy.
-It's good. -[Rohan] So, when you age wine in an oak barrel--
-[speaking in English] -Why not.
It is a tasting. But people do tend to drink rather than taste.
All right.
By the seventh wine people aren't really listening to me.
You gotta train your palate, actually.
[speaking in English]
That's another way to do it.
Shall we move to the next wine, then?
We've got a deep ruby here.
-Hints of pomegranate. -I do. I smell it.
-[sniffs] -This is for you. [chuckles]
Okay, this is wine.
-Tonight, hopefully we can get busy. -Okay.
Too much information but all right.
The wine tasting we have the full energy of love
and this is why we drink a lot of wine.
[gasps] I like this.
I thought so. It's pink, sweet.
It's pink like what, baby?
[Justin] Um, pink like your lips, I think.
Exactly... both of them.
[Justin speaking in English]
What do you mean don't eat you? I can eat you whenever I want.
[speaking in English]
Wine is the universal liquid lubricant.
[chuckles] If you wanna put it that way.
I am so plastered right now.
[all chuckling]
[Nikki speaking]
-[Rohan] Sounds like your... -Baby, we're not ending.
-What? -...your relationship's stronger than ever.
-Amazing. -Until the hangover tomorrow.
Rohan, you are the love therapist.
[inhales] Uh-oh.
[burps]
[laughs]
-Hey. -How're y'all doing?
-Did you bring your fish cooker? -[Kevin 1] Yeah.
I got it. You wanna help me get it real quick?
-It's too heavy for me. Hi, Katrina. -[Katrina] Hey.
[Kevin 2] Our friends Kevin and Michelle are coming over for a fish fry.
We're excited for them to meet Nick.
-This thing's heavy. -[chuckles]
So far things are going okay. He's been helpful.
Cleans up after himself.
[Kevin 2] Even though I'm sure it's stressful on him
it really lets us get to know him, personally,
so that we know how he's gonna treat her for the long term.
-Hey. -Oh, hi.
-I'm Nick. Nice to meet you. -[Kevin 1] Ah, how're you doing?
Good. How are you?
-Hi, Nick. -Michelle.
-[muffled] So nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you.
-[Kevin 2] Hey, girl. -What's up?
[speaking in English]
[all applauding] Catfish.
[Nick speaking in English]
Why don't you come over, Nick, and we'll show you how to cook some fish.
So, basically, we are having fish and chips?
Basically, yeah.
[Devin] Southern fish and chips.
[Kevin 2] And then we just ease it down in the grease.
You can go ahead and get this one ready.
Lay that in there. You're getting pretty good at that.
[Kevin 2 speaking]
-Ooh, smell that... -No.
...Smell the fish.
Very soft. Tender.
[Kevin 1] Yeah, yeah, it is.
-[Katrina] Do you like it? -[Nick] Yeah, I like it.
What do South Korean people think of Americans?
Uh...
[speaking in English]
Oh, my.
I don't think that way...
[speaking in English]
No offense.
Unhealthy food is much cheaper
-than healthy food. -Ah.
Or some people are just lazy.
And it's easier to drive through and get something than
-to cook. -What do you think?
You're lazy so you always get your fast food for lunch.
[speaking in English]
-Are you serious? -Look at this.
I'm just saying the truth.
[speaking in English]
[Kevin 2] Him calling her piggy concerns me.
Even though Devin acts as if it doesn't bother her
I don't want her deep down inside actually, be bothered by that.
[Devin speaking in English]
[speaking in English]
[Devin] Say nice things.
-Beautiful. -Nice things? Ah, okay.
-[speaking in English] -It's too late.
The piggy nickname is something
that has been a very long ongoing battle
that I've very much given up on.
So, tradition, since we cooked
-everybody else gets to clean up. -[Nick] Okay, yeah.
[Devin] See ya.
So, we really had a good time tonight but...
that... that's kind of a big deal what we were talking about.
It was just kinda uncomfortable kinda big deal.
What part? [chuckles]
-What is her nickname? -He calls her piggy but he... yeah, piggy.
-Piggy? -Oh, so he was serious?
It would be tough if I had to do this. I mean, with--
With 90 days to get to know somebody
that's gonna be married to your daughter
who possibly will be the father to your grandchildren.
It's something that we've thought about
that is just not... we have not discussed it with them, yet.
Things are happening so fast that--
[Katrina] There's not been a whole lot of time to slow down.
I'm worried about finding out that he's gonna be a good person.
That he's gonna treat her right, you know.
We've... we've gotta hurry up and make that decision
'cause it's getting here pretty quick.
When Nick calls Devin Piggy I do not, uh, think
that he understands the impact.
Especially, in our culture,
it being in America where weight is such a huge deal
and women struggle with it everyday.
[Kevin 2] I need to have a heart-to-heart with Nick
about how I expect my daughter to be treated.
That way there's no questions in the future.
He knows in... He knows how I feel.
[speaking in other language]
[in English] I understand how important it is for Manuel to send money back to his family.
But I also don't think it's fair for me to not get
the wedding that I've been dreaming about.
[speaking in other language]
[Ashley in English] I decided we were gonna go to the beach and hang out.
And just kind of, relieve some tension.
We spent a lot of time in our apartment, surrounded by a lot of city.
And I wanna show him some more of, you know,
the naturaleza, as Manuel likes to call it.
And, there-- We can make a home here.
He can be comfortable here.
[Manuel speaking in Spanish]
[Ashley laughs]
[in English] We'll come here more often.
[Ashley speaking in Spanish]
[in English] There are definitely things
that Manuel and I are not gonna be able to resolve
before we make it to wedding day.
They're just too heavy to unpack.
There's too much going on.
I understand how important it is
for Manuel to send money back to his family. I totally get it.
But I also don't think it's fair for me to not get the wedding
that I've been dreaming about.
We just need to communicate and figure how to compromise,
which we haven't been too good at lately.
[Ashley speaking in Spanish]
[Manuel] Ontario?
[Manuel speaking in Spanish]
[in English] I know you must really, really, really miss home.
Yeah.
Mmm-hmm.
[in English] You have to understand too, babe.
I had a life before you came.
And I adjusted my life to get you here.
So there are certain parts of my life
that I might not want to adjust.
[Manuel speaking in Spanish]
Yeah.
[in English] I'm really glad that you're telling me this.
Because it helps me understand you a bit more.
And it helps me understand why you get frustrated
and maybe why you feel alone.
[Manuel speaking in Spanish]
[Ashley speaking in Spanish]
[in English] Okay. Let's go.
[Manuel speaking in Spanish]
[Ashley exclaims]
[Ashley speaking in Spanish]
[laughs]
[Manuel speaking in Spanish]
[Ashley in English] You look like a baby.
I'm so happy.
Everyday we'll come here.
Today I'm about to tell Rob that I'm bisexual.
I'm not really looking forward to it.
[Sophie clears throat]
[Robert] I don't know what this is.
But it doesn't... It doesn't feel like it's gonna be a good thing.
Sophie.
Are you crying?
* Check what I'm saying *
* 'Cause I ain't playing *
* Thought you a winner But you were faking *
* I'm on a row now *
* You ain't amazing *
* Check your perfection *
* Think you need saving *
[Robert speaking]
So today, Sophie and I are gonna go ring shopping.
Uh, we're just getting our
actual wedding bands.
And it doesn't need to be fancy.
But, uh, yeah.
We have to-- We need to get that.
[Sophie] Oh, gosh.
Uh...
Today I'm about to tell Rob
that I am bisexual.
So, I'm not really looking forward to it.
I've been putting off for so long.
I'm just hoping that, like, he can't-- Like, he can take it well.
And doesn't freak out with me, I guess.
-[Robert] Hey. -Hey, babe.
-[Robert] What's up? -You look nice.
Should I look basic? You look nice.
[Sophie speaking]
I want a rose gold one.
Try not to spend a bunch.
Obviously this whole... This whole process is on a budget, but...
-Um, hopefully we-- -How much?
-Don't worry about it. -Five thousand.
-Five thousand? -[chuckles]
Girl, we wouldn't have half the conversations we've had
in the last two and a half months, if I had a budget of five grand,
right here, right now.
Mine will be five years can be like [clears throat] one.
Anyways, you see something you like...
you can ask me.
And we'll see what we can do.
I'm excited.
[Robert] Yeah, I'm excited too.
Are you ready?
All right. Let's go.
[Sophie] Okay. One second. Hold on.
[clears throat]
Okay.
-What? -[chuckles]
[Robert] Sophie.
Am I supposed to come out there?
[Sophie in low voice] No. Just wait inside.
-[Robert] Huh? -No.
[Sophie sniffling]
[Robert] Babe.
Are you crying?
-What can possibly... -[Sophie speaking]
[Robert] You all right?
[Sophie speaking]
[Robert] Anxiety about what?
Huh?
What's up? What's the... What's going on?
[Sophie speaking]
I mean, nobody wants to be told that there's something they don't know.
Then what is it?
[Sophie] Telling Rob is actually seeming
a lot harder than I thought it would be.
Like, I have all these, like...
It's like these rush of feelings come through.
Like, it's just-- It's a difficult thing to come out.
And I know I'm not gay. But it's like... It's still my sexuality.
So, it feels kind of the same as like...
It's such a personal thing.
And like, you never know how someone is gonna take that.
[clears throat]
Okay.
You're bi?
[Sophie speaking]
[tense music plays]
[exhales heavily]
I don't even know what to say to that.
[music ends]
[groans]
[sighs]
My head... is still spinning.
I need lots of water and food.
-This is too much for me going up this hill. -[Justin speaking]
What-- What are you doing?
-[Justin speaking] -[Nikki laughs]
I thought you were gonna put me on your back.
[Nikki] I loved my night together with Justin.
That was lots of fun.
But, today I feel so hungover. [chuckles]
[Justin speaking]
Mmm. Smells good.
My mind and my body need a rest.
[sighs]
Mmm.
[Justin speaking]
[Nikki] I am not present.
[chuckles] Oh, my head is spinning.
-Mmm. -[Justin speaking]
Oh.
[Justin speaking]
[waiter speaking in other language]
[Justin speaking in other language]
Cheers, my darling.
-Mmm. -[exhales heavily]
[Nikki] What kind of meat is this?
[Justin] Mmm...
-What? -No. I don't know.
-Hard to say in English. -Mouse meat?
This is like beef. Some beef. Some good meat.
It looks... They, all three of them looks suspicious to me.
[waiter speaking in other language]
[Justin speaking in other language]
What meat is this?
I don't know. I think pork.
Mmm. Yeah, but what of the pork?
Please don't tell me it's like butt, like butt [bleep],
or something.
-Or intestine. I don't know. -You like it?
Uh-uh. Can't eat that.
Oh, I'm excited for horseback riding today.
I wish I was riding you on a horse. [laughing]
Okay.
-Really? -Yes.
[imitates sleeping]
[Nikki] At 3 a.m.
That's why I was like... that's not...
-That's not how I want to do it. -So, okay.
At least let me be awake.
So I can look at your beautiful face.
And feel your body.
Not be like...
So, would you rather just be friends?
Would you rather just be--
Why? It would... like...
Because...
you don't... I don't have sex with my friends.
And you really just, really have sex with me.
So, it's almost like we're friends.
You have friendly sex with your friend?
Um...
[Nikki] You do? You have... You have that?
Really? Really?
While we've been together?
Come on, Igor. Don't lie to me.
Because there was times where I was reaching you and you're upset.
Like, you were angry. Like I was bothering you.
It just feels like that.
I'm not saying that you are.
But I'm saying that sometimes it just feels like that.
That you were not answering,
if you were with someone.
-No. Bitch vibes is not coming. -Yeah.
It's because you're... You're like
tiptoeing around the answer. But it's fine.
I wanna be able to trust, you know, Justin.
And obviously I do, if I came back to him,
after 17... you know, 15 years.
But, um...
you know, guys are always gonna be guys.
And little does he keep forgetting,
is that I used to be a boy.
And I still have that part of the brain working.
And I know what guys think, before they think it.
So if he thinks he's gonna pull one over me, he just not. [chuckles]
Is there anyone since we've been talking...
that you had sex with, slept with?
I mean, now is the time to tell me.
I'm not gonna judge you.
[exhales heavily] So?
Has there been any girls that you [bleep] around with?
Which was when to you?
So you feel that that was the most serious time in August?
It wasn't for Mexico?
Okay. 'Kay, then?
Uh-huh.
So before that, you were [bleep] other girls?
Say yes or no.
So I applied for the K-1 visa in June.
And you were already [bleep] bitches?
Are you serious?
And it wasn't until August with the ring,
that's when you got serious, 100%?
And you stopped having sex with other girls?
[Justin chuckles]
I... I'm really holding myself back,
from like, jumping over this table.
So, like, I'm literally...
I knew it. I [bleep] knew it.
I knew you were [bleep].
I knew you were not being [bleep] faithful.
Oh. We were already talking seriously.
Now I understand. Now I clearly understand,
why you don't wanna make love to me.
It all makes sense.
I had already filed the K-1 visa.
So for him to literally tell me
that he was sticking his [bleep] in other women...
all the way up until the engagement, no...
Unacceptable.
And I don't know if I wanna go forward with the engagement at this point.
I'm [bleep] done.
I'm out of here.
[Justin sighs]
[narrator] Next time on 90 Day Fiancé...
-Oh. -[Gino] Baby, does it feel like Panama?
[Jasmine] I wanna take this off.
What are you doing? [laughs]
[Jasmine speaking]
Wow.
I am so happy to be here.
But at the same time, it just constantly
reminds me of how much I miss Panama
and my family.
[goats bleating]
[Clayton] Whoa. Stop trying to steal from this. Ow.
[speaking in Spanish]
[in English] I'm not intimidated.
[exclaims]
[goats bleating]
Heart's beating like a thousand miles a minute.
Feeling pretty nervous, waiting on Citra.
I'm just like, really worried,
we're not gonna have that same connection,
when I was out there.
-Baby. -[Citra chuckles]
[Citra speaking]
You call my daughter, Devin, piggy.
[laughs]
Devin never really appears as upset, as what she really is.
But I know her body language.
We're in a mini-disaster right now.
Devin, what's going on?
[gasps and exclaims]
I don't need to ever worry that I'm gonna go cheat on you with a woman.
'Cause that's-- I would never do that.
[Robert] The fact that she's only now realizing that she's bisexual...
what does that mean for our relationship?
If my girl gets to [bleep] somebody else,
-then I get to [bleep] somebody else. -No. You will never...
You will never get to [bleep] someone else.
-So we should better-- -In my whole life, I will never be okay with that.
-Then neither will you. -Even you saying is disgusting.
I will never be okay with that.
You don't think that applying for K-1 visa, that's not serious stuff?
Huh? You thought that was a [bleep] joke?
And you're still [bleep] bitches.
It's different if you make an agreement.
We have a open relationship.
No, that was never discussed.