[man] Previously on 90 Day Fiance...
- [Nikki] Hi. - [Justin] Come on.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[Nikki] This trip is important because I wanna feel
that I'm making the right choice
giving a second chance at love.
Are you scared that they're gonna be able to tell
I used to be a man?
Okay. Well, that's better
than a man or trans or a dude or--
[suspenseful music playing]
You're my priority, so I quit my job.
If I had known that Gino was gonna quit his job,
I would have never had this plastic surgery.
Baby, you spent $10,000 on butt implants?
Well, you quit your job without telling me.
[Gino] This is exactly the [bleep] kind of [bleep]
that I'm worried about with you, is you're spending my [bleep] money
on unnecessary [bleep].
We need this [bleep] money, okay?
[Manuel speaking Spanish]
[in English] That makes me sad.
[Ashley] Manuel's mom has been thinking
that he is out working in Guayaquil,
when in reality he's been in the States with me.
[Ashley's mother] My kids would never leave without telling me goodbye.
You didn't say goodbye and you lied.
I'm gonna be questioning some things about him.
He says he's in for the long haul.
You all in my phone.
- Oh. - Who is that?
Not... I don't know.
[Sophie] I would describe myself
as a very jealous person.
Like, I'm very honest about it, I know I'm jealous.
But at the same time, it's like Rob hasn't necessarily
been the most loyal fiance.
We only have 90 days
to decide if we're gonna be together, if this is like it.
Every time you try to act like that was cheating,
that's bull[bleep] because I haven't ever cheated on you.
[bird caws]
[upbeat music playing]
[exhales]
Coco.
Coco. Pss-pss-pss.
Where is my baby?
Oh, my gosh.
Now you know how to do it.
Last night after we got home from the massage,
Gino barely spoken to me,
and he has been giving me the cold treatment.
I know that he's mad, he's disappointed
because he told me that I am selfish.
Coco.
Do you miss Panama and your aunties?
You're gonna go home, okay?
And maybe he's right.
What I did was very selfish on my part.
But it's done.
[somber music playing]
[Gino] I'm really disappointed
and angry with Jasmine right now.
I sent her $4,000 to buy a wedding dress,
and she comes back and tells me
she got butt implants
with the money I sent her.
I feel really betrayed by Jasmine.
To me, she's like thinking of herself,
and that the wedding doesn't matter to her,
and she lied to me about it.
What else is she lying to me about?
[sighs]
[phone rings]
[Jasmine speaking Spanish]
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] This first week here in Michigan has been very tough.
It just feels like a mess.
But meanwhile, I'm freaking out
because I might not being able to bring my kids
to the United States because I am not working,
so I cannot be the sponsor for my kids.
It needs to be Gino
because the only income
that we were gonna have was his job,
but now that is gone
because he feel that it was gonna be a good idea
just to spend time with me.
[Jasmine speaking Spanish]
[gasps]
[Zuellen speaking Spanish]
[Jasmine speaking]
[suspenseful music playing]
[in English] One of the things that I feel the most guilty about
is me accepting $2,000...
That then became a gift
to get my butt implant.
Gino doesn't like Dane,
doesn't trust on him,
doesn't want him close to me
as a friend or anything.
- I have good news. - Tell me.
- [laughs] - [Dane] Fantastic.
I'm excited we're gonna be neighbors.
Out of all the buildings in freaking Panama,
you gotta pick the one that your ex is in.
Are you?
- I'm outta here. - [Jasmine speaking]
- [Gino] Right there, bitch. - [Jasmine speaking]
[Gino] [bleep] whore.
[Jasmine] When Gino learned
that I still have a friendship with Dane,
he completely disagree with it
and ask me to cut it because he sees him
as competition.
But in reality, there's nothing to worry about.
Honestly, I see Dane as a brother.
You know, he's always willing to help.
[Zuellen speaking Spanish]
[in English] I wanna be honest but I'm not stupid.
If I tell him right now
that Dane contributed
to my butt implant surgery,
we are gonna have big problems.
I will eventually tell Gino,
but not now.
[speaking Spanish]
♪ All over the place In my mind ♪
♪ Like a rumble ♪
♪ Rumble in my head ♪
[Sophie speaking]
Why? It's not like you've done anything
for her to wanna fight you or anything.
- Yeah. [laughs] - [Rob] We should be good.
Sophie arrived to the US a couple days ago,
and it's been pretty up and down.
We've had huge things
about online cheating
and just bickering and fighting about stupid stuff.
But I don't wanna dwell on that negative stuff.
We got a long journey in this process,
so I'm trying to keep things positive,
and tonight we're gonna meet up with my sister Victoria.
Anything I should talk to her about
or shouldn't that will, like, help the conversation?
I mean, be positive,
talk about maybe you can't wait to meet
the rest of the family, you know, things like that.
Don't act shy.
Just act like... Act like you--
You can't just say, "Don't act shy."
- I'm shy. - Don't act shy, like,
just try to be open, try to be honest, you know?
Sophie's only met Victoria two times.
They really haven't gotten to know each other very well,
but I think Victoria thinks she's a really sweet girl.
She thinks that she's genuine.
Victoria's a party planner and she's actually offered
to plan our wedding for us.
So whatever she thinks of Sophie, it can't be that bad.
All right. So when you meet Victoria,
don't make eye contact immediately.
She can get pretty aggressive.
[Sophie] Are you being serious?
Yeah.
Actually.
- Huh? - Are you being serious?
[Rob] Nah.
I'm very nervous to meet Rob's sister
just because I haven't really seen her in a while.
And it's like now she'll talk to me
not just as Rob's girlfriend, she's going to talk to me
as, you know, someone that's gonna marry her brother.
So I don't know if she's gonna judge me
or she's gonna try and grill me, but yeah.
I'm a bit nervous.
- [Sophie] Hi. - Hi.
- [Rob] Hey, yo. - [Victoria] How are you guys?
- How you doing? - Well, you're fine.
Hold on one second. Hi.
- [Sophie] Hi, love. - [Victoria] How are you?
[Sophie] I'm good. You?
You're finally here.
[Sophie] I know, it's crazy.
I'm so excited.
I'm so excited for you.
Are you, like, so happy to be here?
- Yeah. It's really crazy... - [Victoria] Finally.
It's been so long.
How is it having her here?
Like, finally here?
I'm very relieved that she's here, but like now
we have so much... So much other stuff to figure out
and we're also not gonna wait until the last day. So...
Oh, you're doing it sooner?
- [Rob] Yeah, I mean, we're not gonna wait till... - Bro.
- ...the last day of-- - [Victoria] You... I'm not...
You're not even in my calendar yet.
[Rob] You gotta talk to her about that.
[Sophie] I feel like I wanna do just like
- a basic courthouse thing. - [Victoria] Yeah.
Like, I want to do obviously not like the huge ceremony.
But, like, definitely something
because it's still like, you know,
official kind of like getting married-ish.
Yeah. Like, I wanna make it special,
- you know what I mean? - [Sophie] Yes.
Even though it's like there's time
and there's pressure, like, it doesn't have to be,
like, feel rushed.
That makes it a lot more, like, stressful, to be honest.
But, like, it would also be nice, like,
I'd rather look back and say I had a nice,
you know, wedding rather than just a rushed one.
[Victoria] On the flip side, though, it could be a nice distraction
from not being able to go anywhere
and, like, do stuff at home, you know what I mean?
Like, we can work on that together
and, like, it might be... It might help you mentally
because you'll, like, have something to work on.
[Rob] Yeah, by the time we're in month three,
you might be bored to death.
She won't be because she's gonna be planning a wedding.
- [Sophie laughs] - There you go.
- Are you ready to get married? - I mean, it's--
There's pressure and there's...
Like, there's no pressure, and there is like
a ton of pressure, you know what I mean?
Yeah, obviously because of the countdown,
that's why. Because it's not like,
you know, we'll have more time, we don't have more time.
If we're not ready within 90 days, it's like that's it.
Like, I have to leave if we're not ready.
So it's like there's more pressure
for, like, for me than Rob.
Um, but yeah, I mean, I think we're ready though,
- I feel like. Yeah. - That's good, that's good.
[Victoria] Have you guys thought about kids?
- [Rob] Yeah, we wanna have kids. - Are they in the plan? Like--
We're gonna have kids, like, one day.
- Okay. - [Rob] Yeah.
When do you want to have kids?
I mean, we haven't really had,
like, this conversation, obviously.
Wait, you guys are gonna get married
and you haven't had this conversation?
[Rob] I mean, we've... I feel like we've
touched base on it, like, in general.
[Victoria] Well, that's kind of huge.
We'll have kids, um, in the future.
[Sophie] Like, to be honest, like,
I don't think I actually want to be pregnant.
[suspenseful music playing]
What does that even mean?
I don't wanna be pregnant.
So you don't wanna have kids?
If I don't ever want kids,
is that a problem with you?
Because right now where my head's at, that's the case,
if I'm being honest with you.
Is that, like, a problem for you or...
Yeah.
[Sophie] I mean, we both thought we were on the same page.
[Victoria] That's the problem, is you guys
never had this conversation.
There was a lot of assuming and thinking,
but nobody talked.
[dramatic music playing]
I don't really know how I'm doing right now.
Kinda just...
I feel like, um...
Yeah, I just don't... I don't really... I have no idea.
I don't know how I'm doing right now.
Sophie just rocked my entire belief in her
and what we can have.
And it's like, what else?
What's the next thing that you're gonna tell me
that you really don't want or you really don't care about.
I don't want it to just be me and Sophie forever.
Like, I really saw there being more to that.
[sniffles]
I really put my heart into that.
[gasps]
Yeah.
Being intimate is a very big part
of making our relationship work.
And sometimes I just feel like he doesn't even try.
[Nikki speaking]
[Ashley] You sit here and act like an [bleep]
when I get you a brand new cell phone
and you tell me essentially to kick rocks
because it wasn't early enough.
[speaking Spanish]
[Ashley in English] Not to be a butt-face,
but I really don't have space
for stupid conversations.
You want respect? You give respect.
That's how this works here.
[upbeat music playing]
Now my lips looks like your lips.
Yeah.
[upbeat music playing]
Where is this guy?
There he is.
There you are.
Come on, honey, I wanna go check out your place.
And I think this...
So, do I look...
too out there, over-the-top?
Or do I look super-hot and you're like,
"Wow, this is my woman."
- Not a cartoon. - Okay, movie, movie.
- Probably like a James Bond movie. - Okay, okay, movie,
- yes, like James Bond. - Stop pushing my buttons.
[Justin] Come in, baby.
[Nikki] Okay.
What is that?
What's the G-button?
Are you talking about G-spot?
- [both laugh] - Oh, my God.
I can't.
[Justin speaking]
I want you to make first step.
[keys rattling]
- Okay. - [door unlocks]
[Justin] Step and welcome.
- [light switch clicks] - Here the lighting.
[upbeat music playing]
[Nikki] Cute.
[Justin] I'll show you the toilet.
[Nikki] So this is the bathroom...
Yeah. Impressive. You remember?
- ...that you were working on? - Yeah.
[Nikki] So money is a thing between us.
I did agree I would help him.
Before this trip, he asked to borrow some money
to fix the bathroom and I sent it to him
and I see that it went in...
You know, the money went for good things
because he did repair the bathroom.
And I'm happy because it actually shows
that he cared to make me feel more comfortable
while I'm staying with him.
- Yeah. - Here we can make the shower.
- Okay. - Yeah. We have to close this.
[Nikki] And you fixed the water pressure, right?
- Yes. Now, it's... - Show me.
- Look, it's like this. - [Nikki] Perfect.
- [Nikki] Okay. - [Justin] Okay.
[Nikki] What else? Show me the kitchen.
[Justin] Yes.
Here. Like in your apartment,
I have a rules of apartments.
- [Nikki] Very good. - Yeah.
See, that's why we're meant to be together
because we have the same values.
Okay.
[Nikki sighs]
[Justin] And we can go here.
[Nikki speaking]
[Justin] And this is my bed.
- [Nikki] This is my bed. - And our bed.
Okay. It's our bed now.
[Justin] You can put the light on.
- [Nikki] Cute. - [Justin] Yeah.
All right. I got to unpack.
Just, I need to take a break.
- I love it. - Yeah.
It's nice.
Being that I'm in an overseas relationship,
there's just so much you can do for someone.
You can help them financially,
you can support them on the phone,
but then there's the other elements of a relationship
when you're together finally.
[Justin] Let's go.
Being intimate is a very big part
of making our relationship work too.
And sometimes I just feel like he doesn't even try.
I think here you can put your clothes.
[Nikki] If you're truly in love with somebody,
you prove your love.
You make love to the person.
That's just always been forever that.
It makes me feel rejected
and that's a problem for me.
And this is why I'm here.
Are you gonna shower me?
[upbeat music playing]
[alarm beeping]
[Manuel speaking Spanish]
[speaking Spanish]
[coughs]
[laughs]
[Manuel speaking Spanish]
[alarm beeping]
- [Ashley in English] Okay. - [speaking Spanish]
[alarm beeping]
[quirky music playing]
[speaking Spanish]
- [in English] Yeah. - [speaking Spanish]
[Manuel speaking Spanish]
[Ashley in English] We woke up this morning, everything was fine.
And Manuel's been telling me
that he can't get the Internet
on his Ecuadorian phone.
And I felt really, really bad about it.
So I call up my cell phone company
and I'm like, "Hey, let's get an estimate
of how much it's gonna be to get him a new phone."
They're like, "It's not even gonna be this much.
We'll do, like, a free two-day express shipping.
We're waiving the activation fee."
All of these things. I'm like, "Yes.
That's amazing. That's amazing. Let's do it."
Order the phone, I tell him, and he goes,
[scoffs]
"That's not early enough.
I need Internet."
And I was like, "Okay, so what...
- Do you want me to cancel it?" -"Yeah."
Then just walks away.
I deserve an apology.
[speaking Spanish]
[Ashley speaking Spanish]
[Ashley in English] You want Internet specifically on your phone.
My question is, why you need Internet so bad?
I've got an iPhone, I've got an iPad, I've got a computer.
The whole house runs on Internet.
Whoever you need to talk to for these next two days
while waiting for your phone, you could talk to.
[speaking Spanish]
Manuel...
[Manuel speaking]
[dog barks]
- [Ashley in English] This is ridiculous. - Yeah.
[speaking Spanish]
Manuel.
[in English] All right. This is the stupidest conversation
- I think I've ever had. - [Manuel speaking Spanish]
I feel like I'm losing brain cells.
[speaking Spanish]
Manuel...
[speaking Spanish]
Manuel, Manuel.
[in English] Yeah, [bleep] you because that was absolutely ridiculous.
That was absolutely ridiculous.
You sit here and act like an [bleep]
when I get you a brand new cell phone
and you tell me essentially to kick rocks
because it wasn't early enough.
So yes, that was not nice for you to say.
You want respect, you give respect.
That's how this works here.
[Manuel speaking Spanish]
- [in English] We are not meditating. - [speaking Spanish]
[in English] I am not sharing spiritual space with you
and your nasty-ass attitude.
That's for sure.
- [Manuel in English] Okay. - Okay.
- [Manuel] Okay. - Okay.
[suspenseful music playing]
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] Growing pains like on steroids.
We're getting to know each other
and we are hitting some rough patches.
- Bye, Ashley. - Ciao, Manuel.
[speaking Spanish]
[Ashley in English] He's [bleep] ridiculous.
I'm done. I'm done with this conversation
and not to be a butt-face,
but I really don't have space for stupid conversations.
[dog whimpers]
[speaking Korean]
[both laugh]
[Nick in English] When I first met Devin...
She's the first white girl I've dated.
If Devin blows this up,
my family won't let me go to US
and it's gonna destroy my whole life.
I don't know what the [bleep] I'm gonna do with my life
if I don't ever have kids.
[bleep] even Jay-Z and Beyonce got kids.
It's like, if I wanted to not have kids,
I'd probably be a player forever.
- Babe. - Just leave me alone for a little bit.
[upbeat music playing]
[singer singing in Korean]
♪ Show me how you do it ♪
[Nick] I was born and raised in Korea.
So I would...
It sometimes sound stupid.
[in Australian accent]
[in normal voice]
[upbeat music playing]
[singing in Korean]
- [man] No. - [laughs]
[gasps]
Come on. Oh, there you go.
There you go. Drag it, drag it, drag it.
There you go.
Oh, I got this piggy.
Whoa, look at this. It's cute.
And when I first met Devin in Australia, uh...
And I felt so lucky.
♪ If you don't know about me ♪
♪ Well, I'm about To show you ♪
♪ If you don't know about me ♪
♪ Well, I'm about To show you ♪
[Nick speaking]
Let's dig in.
Devin is definitely introvert person.
So when I first met her...
But after we spend quite a lot of time...
And it was fun.
Like just for fun
to make me laugh and...
Yeah, something like that.
[somber music playing]
[speaking Korean]
[Nick speaking]
[in English] Devin calls me monkey and I call her a piggy
because she's cute and a little chubby.
I felt kind of bad,
but it's just saying Devin is cute.
[speaking Korean]
[both laugh]
[woman speaking]
[in English] I've dated Devin for two years
when I was Australia.
So we got engaged
and applied for the K-1 visa.
So what I know is there's nothing.
I'm kind of worried about it.
There's not much diversity there.
There's no Korean community,
no Korean restaurant and store.
Devin told me there are quite a lot of racists there.
[speaking Korean]
[Nick speaking English]
...but today, Devin, she's flying to Korea.
[speaking Korean]
[in English] She always wanted to come to Korea
and see what it's like.
So I'm excited to show her around
and this is a secret,
but I'm going to propose her in Korea.
When we got engaged and apply for the K-1 visa...
But I wanna propose her properly.
But in Korea, we need permission,
approval from our family and parents
before I get married.
If Devin blows this up,
my family won't let me go to US
and it's gonna destroy my whole life.
[upbeat music playing]
[Victoria] If you legitimately
do not see children in your future at all,
like ever, that is something you need to be
completely honest with yourself about.
Yeah.
[upbeat music playing]
[Victoria] I'm kind of in shock.
If I hadn't asked that question about the kids,
I don't know if they would've talked about it.
I'm just... I'm just kind of...
I don't... I honestly, I don't even know.
For me, it is definitely more the pregnancy thing,
and even a scare of like, can I even have kids?
'Cause when I was 15 they found like a,
there was a teratoma cyst in my left ovary.
Um, which obviously,
if they didn't find it in time,
I would've died. Like, it's quite serious.
So they had to do surgery.
Like that's why I literally have, like, scars
- on my stomach from like-- - [Victoria] Wow.
They told me that, like, there was a possibility
that it could mess up my eggs.
So since then it's like, would I rather, you know,
be like, "Oh, yeah, like I'm gonna be a mom one day."
And then be told, "Actually, you can't have kids."
- 'Cause that's devastating. - [Victoria] Yeah.
For me, it was easier to just be like, you know,
"Actually I might not even wanna be pregnant."
So it's like I've kind of accepted it.
[Rob] I feel like Sophie knows what the [bleep]...
She knows what I want.
She's known that I want a kid.
I told her... How do I... How do you...
How does a man talk about what his kids' names would be
and then she's gonna act like she doesn't remember that
and act like she didn't know I would want kids?
It just sounds [bleep] stupid.
We're pretty far into this
for her to not know maybe, maybe not.
Like, it's not that type of thing.
It's like, do you want 'em or not?
Do you see yourself having kids or not?
[Victoria] Does Robert know that?
Um, I know Rob knows that I have had surgery
when I was... 'Cause he's asked
about, obviously, the scar on my stomach.
Um, but I don't think he knows that it's affected,
like, my eggs or anything like that.
I honestly think that
that conversation needs to happen...
[Sophie] Yeah.
[Victoria] ...if you want this relationship
to go further.
[Sophie] The reasons behind me not wanting kids
has a lot to do with medical issues,
which I don't really tell, you know, anyone.
It's a... It's a very personal, like matter for me.
Rob does know some stuff about it.
I guess he's never really asked,
"Does that affect you having kids?"
Like, if someone who really wants kids,
I just feel like that would be the first thing
you'd kind of wonder like, is everything okay there?
And when we both ask about each other's future,
it's the same thing.
Me and him living inland with animals.
Never one of us has mentioned "with a couple kids."
Like usually that's, you know,
genuinely in the conversation.
Not once has he ever mentioned kids.
Not one time in this whole three years.
I'm gonna just go check on him at least
to make sure he's all right.
[Victoria] All right.
Are you okay?
[Rob] Am I okay?
Can you stop for a sec? Can you just stop?
I'm trying to have a serious conversation with you.
I feel like you done hit me over the head
with this [bleep] like, and then you're trying to act
like you have no idea that I would want kids.
I just don't wanna talk about this at a,
like, arcade place.
Like it's not really the place
- to have this conversation. - Well, how are we supposed to enjoy the arcade?
[Sophie] I understand that Rob is in shock
about what I've said,
but I'm also in shock by the way he's acting.
It seems like he hates me.
And it's crazy how something like that
can just go so sideways.
I said one thing and he's looking at me like
he's ready to walk away and leave.
I've never seen him look at me like that before.
It's like a very upsetting situation
and I don't really know how we're supposed to,
I guess, make up from this.
I don't know what the [bleep] I'm gonna do with my life
if I don't ever have kids.
I don't know what Sophie saw us doing
with our later years.
Like, all right, we want to grind,
we want to gold chase right now.
And then what? [bleep]
Even Jay-Z and Beyonce got kids.
It's like, I don't wanna be single forever.
If I wanted to not have kids,
I'd probably be a player forever.
Just leave me alone for a little bit.
[dramatic music playing]
Baby, I'm home.
[Nikki] You always criticize me.
I'm tired of it.
You're not gonna control my style,
my hair looks, and my makeup.
[upbeat music playing]
[motorcycle engine revving]
[cell phone vibrating]
[Nikki speaking]
[Justin sighs]
[both laughing]
[Justin speaking]
[Nikki] That's disgusting.
Good morning, baby.
[Justin] Good morning, sweetie.
I'm so tired.
Waking up next to Justin
my first morning in Chisinau, Moldova
makes me feel whole again.
You know, I felt like I was missing part of my heart
and feels good to be held at night
and cuddled by a guy with nice, strong muscles.
So, what are we gonna do today?
Of course I like parks.
Okay.
What?
You said you're gonna walk me in the park like a dog.
Yeah.
[Nikki] Well, you're too much.
Well, I need...
I need to go and, uh, get ready.
It's probably gonna take me about...
- [Justin] How much? - ...like an hour, hour-and-a-half,
maybe a little bit more.
- What? - [Nikki] Yeah.
Baby, I like when you look more natural.
That is, for me, looking more natural.
When I get done up, it takes about three hours.
[quirky music playing]
[Justin speaking]
Yeah?
[Nikki] They like me.
[Nikki] No, they will not. Stop playing.
I have to do my makeup.
[Justin] Okay.
No sexual activity.
Um, we were both exhausted.
We ate dinner
and um, I think we passed out around 7:00 p.m.
Honestly, I just don't know what the plan is gonna be
about who makes the first move
of being intimate together.
But I think Justin's priorities
are a little, you know, mix-matched.
So, I don't know, you know, so we'll see.
And don't forget the bacon and some eggs.
[Justin] Okay.
Mm-hmm.
So...
[dramatic music playing]
You can have...
You want no makeup, you want natural,
go date a Russian girl.
You know, from the very beginning,
17 years ago I wore makeup and I still wear makeup
and that's never gonna change.
So why are you asking?
Why are you telling me this?
It's like he wants to mold me
or to conform me into this person that I'm not.
Justin changed his whole character
when he found out that I was trans.
Like literally changed to someone very macho.
Like trying to make me submissive.
It makes me upset.
I just don't understand because 17 years ago
I wore makeup.
You never said anything.
Now I'm getting a little bit older.
And I see many kinds of makeups.
So, you know about makeup?
- A little. - No, you don't.
- How it's look up... - No, you don't.
- ...on the face and the girls. - No, you don't.
You're not a makeup artist. Okay?
I am a makeup artist and this is my aesthetic.
This is what I do.
At the end of the day, you're not gonna control
my style, my hair looks, and my makeup.
Like--
[Nikki] Hmm. I think that that's pretty much--
And this is what I'm talking about.
When you wanna be a jokester,
you think everything is funny.
- It's like... - [Justin] Not everything.
- Nothing. - I'm trying to be...
- I'm trying to be serious. - Our life is not funny.
[Nikki] I can't figure him out sometimes.
I really can't.
It doesn't seem like he wants to work
or try to make it better.
And everything is a joke.
I feel he's not taking our relationship seriously.
[Justin] Give me a hug.
A little hug.
He is walking not in a man's pace.
He's walking in a child's pace.
But I do love him.
So, I'm going to think positively
that my relationship is gonna work,
that I want it to work,
and I'm gonna do everything possible to make it work.
[dramatic music playing]
They called nine times.
Like that's weird, Ashley.
It's weird.
I didn't know who you guys were
when he was over in Ecuador.
Now you're blowing him up?
I'd be a fool to not think about the fact
that Manuel might be coming here on my back
so he could meet up with his family.
And leave you?
Don't like it.
It's messy.
[dramatic music playing]
[upbeat music playing]
♪ I just do it for myself ♪
♪ I don't need no one else ♪
♪ And they say I'm sick But I don't do this ♪
♪ For my health ♪
♪ It's all about me ♪
♪ All about me ♪
♪ I can walk in your shoes ♪
♪ But it's not about you ♪
[Sienna] Hi.
- [Ashley] How are you? - How are you?
- I'm good. You? - [sighs]
- I've been better. - Okay.
We are here at the park right now
because Manuel and I got
into kind of an explosive argument.
So, called my sister to vent
and talk me off the ledge, really.
- Thanks for meeting me. - No problem.
Yeah, when you called me you just kind of
- sounded a little upset. - I don't...
I don't know if he's adjusting or not adjusting well.
Wait, I'm sorry.
Is that a hickey on your neck?
[laughs]
- Ashley. - I don't...
- I don't know what it is. - No. Stop.
- Is that a hickey? - [laughter]
- What is that? - I don't know.
[Sienna] No, show me. Don't try to hide it up.
I don't know what it is.
You see that part's fine.
Okay.
Yeah, I know. I mean it's kind of--
- It's just the communication. - [Sienna] Yeah.
When you called me and it's only been two days,
I was like, "Yeah, something's up."
[Ashley] Let's sit, like, right here.
- It's beautiful. - Mm-hmm.
I wanna see what's on my neck.
Let me see your phone.
Okay.
Oh, God.
- We're just gonna-- - You're bad.
I told you, that part is fine.
- [Sienna] I'm telling mom. - This...
I mean the sex should be great.
[sighs] Here's what's not great though.
Okay. I tell him,
I'm like, "Babe, your phone's coming on Monday
or Tuesday all set up."
And then he goes, "Ugh, that's not early enough."
Like, "thank you" should have been
- the first thing out of his mouth. - Thank you.
I'm not sitting here like, "You need to thank me
and like bow down to me."
But it just could have been very simply,
-"Thanks, babe. Appreciate you." - [Sienna] Yeah.
- That's it. - Yeah.
The fact that we couldn't try to work through this
and I had to leave my space, red flag for me.
You know, you have to...
You have to work through it.
You can't just walk away when things get hard.
- And-- - He told me when I left, he goes,
"Make sure you come back in a better mood."
- Ooh. - I'm telling you.
And then he's like, "Yeah, you're all like saying
like [bleep] you duh, duh, duh, duh, duh."
And I was like, "And I meant what I said,
- [bleep] you." - Cursing him out, Ashley?
Sisi, I meant what I said.
You were cursing him out?
Sisi, how? Okay.
Did he... Did he understand you?
He repeated back, "[bleep] you."
[laughing]
[Sienna] Ashley is quick to react.
She goes from zero to one hundred
really, really fast.
She's fire.
She's magic, she's fire.
And, you know, they're both alphas.
We'll see how things work out for them,
but it's gonna be a lot of learning curves.
Was he, like, frustrated
that he couldn't talk to his family?
- Is that why? - He can talk to his family.
[Sienna] On your device?
- On... Yeah. - [Sienna] Okay.
When he says,
"I need Internet now,"
he needs Internet on his phone.
That's what he's saying.
But why, though?
Why is it so important for you to get Internet
on your phone, specifically?
[Sienna] Do you think he was like, I don't know.
[Ashley] What were you gonna say?
Say it, say it.
That just makes me nervous.
Is he, like, planning
something with his family?
I'd be a fool to not think about the fact
that Manuel might be coming here on my back
so he could meet up with his family.
- And leave you? - [Ashley] I would be... And leave me.
I would be a fool to not think about that.
He has family in New York City.
He has family in Newark.
Does that worry you?
It didn't until his people started calling
so aggressively.
I guess his mom gave them my phone number
because we still can't get his phone up
and working in America.
So they've been blowing up my phone to talk to him.
They called nine times.
Like, that's weird, Ashley.
- Isn't that weird? - [Sienna] It's weird.
- That's what I'm saying. - It's weird.
Why are you calling so much?
I didn't know who you guys were
when he was over in Ecuador.
Now you're blowing him up?
Interesting.
I've never met them.
I've never FaceTimed with them.
I don't know their names.
I did not think that they'd be calling me.
I'm glad that he has people close by
so he doesn't feel like he's alone.
But I also want him to remember
- what he's here for. - Yeah.
He's not here for them.
He's on a K-1 visa.
He is here for this relationship.
They are secondary.
I'm not saying this man is here for a visa.
I truly believe he loves me,
but I also believe
that if things don't work out
and if we don't get married,
he has no intention of going back to Ecuador.
[Sienna] Damn.
I support her.
I love... I love who she loves,
but based off some of the red flags
that I'm getting from him,
I don't know if he's a fit partner for her yet.
You know, thing... People switch up.
When they show you who they are,
you believe them, and I feel like
he's definitely showing who he is.
So I think they need to get to know each other more
before something like marriage.
[dramatic music playing]
I'm just shocked that you blew all that money
on a cosmetic procedure that you don't even need,
and you lied to me about it.
I feel betrayed by Jasmine. For the last year and a half,
I've been busting my ass to save money.
When is she gonna do something for us?
But you have to understand that you lie to me, baby,
because hiding the truth is lying.
Baby, it's not the same thing.
[dramatic music playing]
[Jasmine] Coco.
- Hi. - [Gino] Hi.
[dramatic music playing]
What you doing?
I was just reading some news.
Well, I really feel like
I really need to talk to you.
I'm very sad to be honest, because you're mad at me.
We cannot continue just like ignoring each other.
I'm just shocked that...
the money that I gave to you
for your wedding dress...
and you blew all that money on a...
on a cosmetic procedure that you don't even need,
and you lied to me about it.
Yeah. I feel really betrayed by Jasmine.
For the last year and a half, I've been busting my ass
to save money to buy a dress
and she spends it
on butt implants for herself.
I mean, when is she gonna do something for us?
I feel very bad to make you feel that way.
I was never intended to make you feel...
like you're feeling.
But you have to understand, too, that you lie to me, baby,
because hiding the truth is lying.
You know...
Baby, it's not the same thing.
I was quitting my job to be with you and support you
- when you come here. - Yeah, but that's the thing.
If you have told me this, like, you quit your job,
that we were under a very tight budget
when I was in Panama
instead of waiting until I arrive here,
I promise I would never spend this money.
But that's the thing, I did it thinking to myself
that you were working, that we were okay,
that I would have time to replace the money.
I mean, I regret having the surgery,
I do, but I cannot, like, "Okay doctor,
take out the implants and give me the money."
I wish I could.
If that were possible,
trust me, I will.
What's gonna happen when we...
If we were to get married
and you are spending, spending, spending money
like crazy on these cosmetic procedures
that you don't even need?
I don't see myself the way you see me.
I have always deal with this problem.
Like, I am very insecure
when it comes to my body.
I'm sorry for being like this.
I wanted to look so pretty for you, baby.
Like, I work so hard at the gym.
Um, I'm eating healthy all the time.
Um, you know, but the reflection that I see
in the mirror doesn't match,
you know, the reality.
Like, I don't see myself like a pretty woman.
I'm highly insecure and I was so scared,
like, now that I got so skinny...
- [Gino] Baby, you're-- - ...and I lost my ass,
you wouldn't love me.
[dramatic music playing]
[Gino] You don't have to change all this stuff.
I like you the way you are.
Like, you're beautiful the day I met you,
why do you have to keep doing all these procedures?
Baby, but I'm trying my best.
I just took away my hair extension
that I used to spend thousands and thousands of dollars.
- [Gino] Baby, you're-- - And embrace my natural hair
- that I hated because I'm losing it. - I love your natural hair.
It's beautiful.
I love the way your hair is now.
[Jasmine speaking]
And I'm very insecure about my hair.
It means a lot having Gino complimenting my hair
and telling me how beautiful I look.
It really just helps with my self-esteem a lot.
You're beautiful the way you are.
Don't you see?
- You're beautiful. - [Jasmine sobbing]
[Gino] I knew that Jasmine had some insecurities.
Um, but I don't know, maybe she struggles with it
more than I know.
At least she apologized, because honestly,
she doesn't apologize to me very often, to be honest.
She's being honest with me and it gives me hope
that maybe she's not gonna lie to me anymore.
We just have to, like,
stop hiding things from each other.
Um, it would prevent a lot of pain,
suffering in the, you know, future.
'Cause otherwise our relationship's gonna
- go down the drain. - No, I want...
No, no, don't say that.
Don't say "down the drain." No.
I want us to have a happy
and healthy relationship.
You're my happiness.
I want that, too.
[dramatic music playing]
I agree that honesty is super important
if we really wanna make this relationship work.
And that means that I will eventually
have to come clean,
but now it's not the time.
[speaking Spanish]
[laughs]
[dramatic music playing]
[Nick speaking]
Are you excited?
I'm excited, too.
...but I don't care.
[speaking Spanish]
[Ashley in English] He likes to keep pieces of his life separate
and it makes me wonder.
It does.
[speaking Spanish]
[Manuel speaking Spanish]
[upbeat music playing]
♪ I will never let you go ♪
[Nick speaking]
I'm nervous and excited at the same time.
And I can't wait to see her.
Are you excited?
I'm excited, too.
That sounds weird, but I can't wait.
It's not easy to...
But talking on the phone is...
is nothing. I wanna...
I wanna touch her and feel her, you know?
[suspenseful music playing]
We haven't seen each other in a while.
So when we see each other in person...
it can be different, you know?
But, um, I just can't wait to see her, you know?
I just... going crazy.
[upbeat music playing]
[Nick speaking]
[upbeat music playing]
My name is Devin. I'm 24,
and I live in Searcy, Arkansas.
All good?
[Devin] When I see Nick, I definitely feel emotional.
It's been a long time
and there were points where we weren't sure
if it was even gonna happen or not.
So now that it's finally here,
I don't even really know exactly how to feel about it.
It's still processing.
Yeah.
Seeing Nick cry like this,
it's pretty sweet
because he never cries
or anything, so...
Didn't you cry, too?
Well, yeah, but I cry all the time.
- [laughs] - Okay.
This is for you.
Look at this, piggy.
Look at that.
Exactly, uh, just like you.
Look at that.
Yeah, piggy.
- Piggy. You like it? - Mm-hmm.
Yes.
Nick insists that piggy is a term of endearment.
But in America, it'd be considered
extremely rude to, like, call someone a piggy.
Um...
So I think he knows, but--
I know, but we are different.
You know what I mean?
[Devin] No.
[chuckles]
- Are you okay? - Yeah.
- Tired? - Are you okay?
[Nick speaking]
What do you want to eat?
You don't know?
Let's get outta here.
[Devin] The main reason we came to Korea
was for me to meet Nick's parents for the first time.
So, you know, even with all the excitement
that I'm still a little nervous about that.
We've already gone through a lot to get to this point.
So it would ruin everything
if his parents didn't like me.
Do you think your parents will like me?
It's okay to be nervous,
'cause, uh, I'll be the same
when I see your family.
But you'll be there for me, yeah?
And I'll be there for you.
[laughs] Come here.
[dramatic music playing]
[Nick] Welcome to Korea.
["Never Let Me Go" by Wiese playing]
♪ You got me Breathing underwater ♪
♪ Underwater ♪
♪ Baby, when you're around ♪
♪ Oh, I can do anything ♪
[cell phone rings]
[Ashley sighs]
[Ashley speaking Spanish]
♪ I can't lie ♪
♪ I'm into you I can't hide ♪
♪ From the truth ♪
♪ You caught my eye ♪
[both speaking Spanish]
[Ashley in English] So, I'm making dinner
and these people have been calling me like crazy.
I'm just trying to figure out like who they are
and what's up and what's going on with that.
[speaking Spanish]
[Ashley in English] We still can't get his phone up
and working in America.
So I guess his mom gave them my phone number,
so it's been really intense.
I have no clue who these people are.
I just know that they're family members of Manuel
and that they're in New York City.
[speaking Spanish]
- [speaking Spanish] - [Ashley in English] Okay.
[Manuel speaking Spanish]
[Ashley speaking Spanish]
[Manuel speaking]
[speaking Spanish]
[Mercy speaking]
[Ashley speaking]
[Mercy speaking]
[in English] Yeah.
[speaking Spanish]
[Mercy speaking]
[Ashley in English] Manuel, he has a lot of family in New York.
I thought that he had some, but Mercy said...
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] And it makes me wonder whether or not he's using me
for a green card.
It does.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] Pretty much the way I see it
is if Manuel ever wanted to, like, leave
and take a bus to New York, he could.
He could bounce out.
He'd eat.
He'd figure it out.
That's what it sounds like
with the amount of family he has
just five hours away from me.
[both speaking Spanish]
[in English] Bye.
I don't see anything in your mind
that you even wanna spend, like, intimate time with me.
Justin, this is something that you do
when two people live with each other.
I haven't seen you in nine months.
Like you act like you have another woman.
- [Justin] Please... - No.
You act like you have another woman though.
[upbeat music playing]
[Nikki] Baby, my sneaker...
Can you tie it for me, please?
[Justin speaking]
[upbeat music playing]
Okay. So how far is the park from here?
Today I bring the Nikki
as in one of the beautiful parks at Chisinau.
They have ice cream.
- [Nikki] I want ice cream. - [Justin] Yes. You like?
How about... I want some cotton candy
and I want ice cream.
[Justin speaking]
- Yes. My favorite. - Okay.
[Nikki] Okay.
[Nikki speaking Russian]
Can I get one?
[Justin speaking]
Ah, I just got ice cream on my face.
Can you lick it?
Lick it.
It's too much you make-up here.
- I can't. - What? But it's cute.
[Justin chuckles] No, no, no.
- No intention. No, no. - Come on.
- I don't have a... - I don't want to eat...
- Well, I don't have a napkin. - ...makeup.
I don't have a napkin.
I give it to you.
[Nikki] No, I don't...
- [Justin] Wait, wait, wait. - [Nikki] Come here.
Just lick it.
Oh, my God.
Can you believe my fiance wouldn't lick my face?
Thank you.
[speaking Russian]
[Justin speaking Russian]
[Justin in English] Let's go.
[Nikki] I think it's such a beautiful gesture
to take me to the park in Moldova,
because the last time we were in Moldova
16 or 17 years ago,
he brought me to a park for my first engagement.
And here, some games.
- Okay. - [Nikki] What is this?
- The first thing is... You see? - [Nikki] Yes.
All the pieces are on the places.
[Nikki] Okay.
And I put it here.
[Nikki] Yes.
And try to put all the pieces here.
Are you trying to test how smart I am?
No, no, no.
This is just games for brain.
I will play with you often.
[Nikki] Justin likes chess.
So I don't find it odd
that he likes puzzles, I guess.
I think I deserve a little bit more.
I would've probably liked a picnic with some wine.
Why are you testing
- how much of an airhead I am? - No.
[Nikki] I don't know if this is one of Justin's moves,
bringing a woman to a park, playing puzzles.
Maybe that's why he was still single at 36 years old,
because obviously that hasn't worked for him.
Wait, hold up.
I think I got it.
- Yeah. You see? Only one game... - Yes.
...and you smarter.
[Nikki] Okay. What other games are we gonna play?
- Hide the hotdog? - [laughter]
[Justin speaking]
[Nikki] Let's go work on our relationship, honey.
Let's go to the house.
[laughs]
We're... No, you're not sleeping, honey.
Okay.
[sighs]
I haven't seen you in nine months.
That means, like, being with you intimately
and stuff like that. Do you even want to?
Because it doesn't seem like you do.
I want you, babe.
Let's talk about it.
Nevermind.
[sighs]
Jump.
Would you rather play chess than make love?
Is that... Does that excite you more?
I don't think you, like, really appreciate
like a beautiful, gorgeous woman being with you.
- No, babe. - I haven't seen you in nine months.
Like, you act like you have another woman.
- Please... - No.
You act like you have another woman though.
I mean, if you don't like being with me,
then why are you even with me?
I mean, honestly when I get here
- and there's no spark, um-- - Excuse me. Spark?
- What's mean spark? - [mimics spark sound]
Okay. Flash.
Flash in your soul, in your heart.
- [Justin] Yes. Yes. - In your...
- [Justin] Got it. - ...penis.
That's a spark.
You know, when you feel something inside you
and you wanna make love to the woman
that you're marrying in the future.
Like, after a nine-month break,
it makes me question his love for me.
I always with you, I'm trying to be the nice with you.
Why you want always to fight?
I don't understand your position.
Justin, this is something that you do
when two people live with each other.
So it's like, I don't see anything in your mind
that you even wanna spend, like, intimate time with me.
And that's like, it...
That bothers me because it's not just now...
No, it's not just now, it's other times too.
If you're not sexually attracted to me,
why are you with me?
But when you say, "Baby, I need money.
Baby, I need help." I'm there, right?
Can we just pack this? I wanna go.
Honestly, I just feel like if you're not wanting to be
with me intimately, I feel rejected.
And when I feel rejected, I start feeling
that you're not in love with me
or there's someone else
that you're screwing when I'm not around.
Okay.
Mm-hmm.
- Okay. - Okay.
I understand.
- Can we go? - Yes, let's go.
Couples make love and you don't do that with me.
What do you mean, I won't? I won't...
Physically or--
Yes, honey. That...
Yes, there's many elements that go into a relationship.
[Nikki] Can we just go?
- [Justin speaking] - [Nikki] Can we go?
[Justin] Of course, we can go.
- [Nikki] Listen, I'm gonna tell-- - Okay. Okay.
- I'm gonna tell you something. - Next ten minutes--
- I'm gonna tell you something... - What?
...and you can... And you can take it for whatever it is.
Okay.
If something doesn't change, and, like, seriously,
I think this is so beautiful, yes, thank you.
But literally, you have within, like, 48 hours
to change my mind or I'm literally leaving.
Okay? And that's the last time you're ever gonna see me.
I'm so done with your...
Like, making everything a joke and something that I'm--
[Justin speaking]
Yes, I'm very serious.
There's so many emotions inside
that have been holding inside of me for so long
with my relationship with Justin.
But, like, now, being here in the moment
and speaking to him in person and seeing that it's, like,
reality is hitting me in my face.
Like, "Oh, my God, he really is cold to me."
He has never put me on his social media.
He has never even wanted me to come to here.
It makes me feel like I am a secret.
It makes me feel like he's ashamed of me.
It makes me feel so many feelings
that I should not feel,
and I don't deserve that.
I deserve more.
I'm... I'm just, like, so over this [bleep].
I thought this was gonna change with us
and it's just not.
[sighs]
And I have to have hope
and never have doubts of our relationship,
but whether he chooses to jump in
and work on it with me
or emotionally check out like he always does
and run away, we'll see.
[tense music playing]
[Sophie speaking]
Just at least let me, like, think about things too, you know.
[Rob] I could not walk down the aisle today.
I couldn't do that.
It would be a lie,
because my heart is really torn right now.
I'll be back.
[dramatic music playing]
- Hi. - I'm heading out.
- I just wanted to say bye. - Bye.
How are you feeling about...
everything right now?
Just got a lot to process.
Yeah.
I mean, like, I'm kind of taken aback
by that whole conversation, you know.
I wasn't expecting that.
Like, you would think that that's something
you guys talked about in the beginning.
I really feel like it was...
It's definitely been put out there.
But then you asked...
And I guess she didn't hear it.
...the question, "Do you want children"?
[Rob] I feel like if I'm telling you
what I would name my kids,
obviously I want kids.
Yeah.
She did tell me...
I don't know how much she told you,
but she confided in me a little bit
that it's more like a medical...
Like it's a legitimate medical fear
that, like, she fears for her life.
So, like, I just want you to listen
with an open heart, because the one thing
a woman's body is supposed to do is have children.
So when you feel like that's been taken away from you,
you guys just need to have that conversation.
But I'm here for both of you guys.
I love both of you.
All right. I love you.
- All right. I love you too. - I'll talk to you soon, okay?
- Drive home safe. - All right. Bye.
I guess we will have to talk about it.
Sophie... Sophie's gonna have to say something.
She's gonna have to help me understand
what I should be thinking right now.
So what's up? You ready to go?
[Sophie] Yeah.
[Rob] Because I could not walk down the aisle today.
I couldn't do that.
It would be a lie.
Because my heart is really torn right now.
And that's not fair to me or her.
[dramatic music playing]
[Sophie groans]
[sighs]
[exhales] Is there heating in this car?
[Sophie] Freezing.
I feel like, you know,
he's making me out to be like a villain
because I've said something as crazy as,
"Oh, I don't want kids." When it's like, you know...
This isn't... I'm not obliged to have children.
It's not, you know, "If you're in a relationship,
you have to have kids."
You don't. No one does.
I still want to be with Rob
even though he's acting like this,
I still feel the same.
But it kind of looks like his feelings towards me,
even just by saying something, has completely switched.
This is what he does.
He's heard something he doesn't like,
he's shutting down.
He doesn't wanna listen to me or understand
my personal reasons
as to why I don't want children.
And I just want him to,
I guess, just listen to me and give me the time I need
and understand where I'm coming from.
But it just feels like he hates me right now
and he doesn't really care what I have to say.
Right now, I'm overly exhausted,
so I really don't have the energy to, like,
speak about something this big.
So it's like, I feel like tomorrow I can give you, like,
you know, my full energy and after, like...
Just at least let me, like, think about things too, you know.
So, yeah, I'm just gonna get some sleep.
And I think you should, as well.
[Sophie] Okay.
I don't know how she can sleep.
I know I'm not gonna sleep.
All I'm gonna think about is wondering
what's gonna happen with my life.
- I'll be back. - [Sophie] Mm-hmm.
[Rob] Rome, come on.
[dog barks]
[woman] Next time, on 90 Day Fiance...
[Jasmine] Today, I look at myself in the mirror.
I was super red and I got scared like, "What is this?"
What is causing this is, like, the house is very dirty.
You were living in a dirty apartment
with mice in it.
What mice, you [bleep] idiot?
- What mice? You're very... - Your apartment--
- ...disrespectful. - Your apartment--
You're very disrespectful.
[upbeat music playing]
Oh, little French pig.
I love my Guinea pigs a lot,
but they're not my only roommates.
I also have two Chihuahuas.
My mom lives in a walk-in closet,
but my fiancee Anali got issued her K-1 visa
and she's gonna be arriving to the US very soon.
[speaking Spanish]
[in English] But I'm worried about how Anali would react
if she were to arrive today.
Surprise.
[Nick speaking]
It's kind of big day.
The first time you're gonna see my parents.
I can't marry someone my family doesn't like.
- Okay. - [Devin speaking]
[Nick speaking]
So tomorrow you wanna go to the gym?
Why would it be better for me
than the gym that you've been going to
that you don't want me going to?
Okay. Stop.
You don't put me first ever.
Who the [bleep] do you think you are?
Bye, little child.
[suspenseful music playing]
I'm not perfect,
but I'm definitely not trying to [bleep] me
with nobody else but you.
I just want you. I want you in my life.
It's just a lot and I just... He's disgusting right now
and I just don't wanna be, like, anywhere near him.
I just feel very trapped and very alone.
I don't have anywhere to go.
What am I supposed to do now?
[sobbing]