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Previously on
"Mom"...

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I get a call today
from this woman who's like,

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"Is this Tammy Diffendorf?"

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It was my aunt!

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My long-lost,
"never knew I had one" aunt.

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I need a kidney.

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You want my kidney?

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Want anything
from the cafeteria?

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Hi. What room
is Tammy Diffendorf...

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Egg white omelet with
bacon and cheddar cheese.

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You're getting egg whites,

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and you're adding bacon
and cheese?

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She's donating
a kidney today,

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and I really want to see her
before she goes in.

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Losing the yolk buys you
the bacon and cheese.

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It's diet math.

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Okay. Tammy Diffendorf,

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Room 502.

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Who?

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It isn't too late to bail.

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Bonnie. What?

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She's giving a chunk of her body
to a woman who lied to her.

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I made a commitment.
I'm gonna honor it.

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That's very noble. The safe word
is "I don't want to do this."

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I know I wouldn't
want to do it.

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I'm scared just
standing here.

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There's, like, 18 different
kinds of killer bacteria

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on this floor.Jill.

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I'm just saying burn your shoes
when you get home, people.

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Oh, my God.

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The most amazing
thing just happened.

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Cookie died,
and I get to go home?

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I met a guy.

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I mean,

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technically, we didn't meet.

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We smiled at each other.

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But I feel like it's one of
those moments people talk about.

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Like when you see
someone, and you say,

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"Oh, that's the man
I'm gonna marry."

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Why didn't you
talk to him?

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I wanted to see Tammy
before her surgery

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'cause you never know.

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Christy.

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Special delivery.

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- Aw, you guys!
- You're welcome.

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They're from Cookie. You can't prove that.
Is there a card?

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- There is?
- Moving on.

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Just put them over there.

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Well, that was nice of Cookie.
Mm.

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And now if one
of you does die,

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at least you'll end
on a good note.

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- Marjorie. - Marjorie.
- Marjorie.

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Well, maybe this whole thing

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will bring you and your aunt
closer together.

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Oh, we're not even gonna see
each other.

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They're taking us
to separate operating rooms.

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Then I'll be rid
of that woman forever.

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If you don't want to seem like
a coward in front of them,

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just give me a wink,
and I'll throw a sheet over you

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and take you out
through the morgue.

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I'm ready, Wendy.

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- We love you.
- Proud of you.

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- Was that a wink?
- No.

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Okay, it'll only be a few
minutes until the OR's ready.

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We're not supposed
to do this, but...

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I love you.

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Why aren't you supposed
to do it? It's so sweet.

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Nfection.

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You're fine.
You're fine.

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Hello, sailor.

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Come here often?

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Hello.

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I want to thank you again.

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I'm so grateful to you.

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You're welcome.

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With your hair back like that,

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you look so much like
your mother.

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Were you also surprised

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by how much
they had to shave us?

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All right, kidney.

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You're solo now.

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Really hope you aren't
the Garfunkel of that duo.

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Hey, ready to go?

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Yeah, I just got to do one thing
before we leave.

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I thought Christy was coming.

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She was right here.

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Oh, God.

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It's like Legoland
all over again.

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No handsome guy.

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No handsome guy.

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Whoa! That's a lot of blood.

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Why would I do that?

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So, your labs look great.

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Yourlabs look great.

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Your creatinine is a 1.1.

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Don't let the other kidneys
on the floor know that.

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They'd be jealous.

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Funny anda doctor.

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Your wife is a lucky woman.

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I'm not married.

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Maybe I'm a lucky woman.

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Go away.

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It's me.

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Oh, Tammy.

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What a wonderful surprise.

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I was just on my way out,
and I came by to say goodbye.

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Uh, how's she doing?

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Well, she's peeing,

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which means
I really nailed it.

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And just remember

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your antirejection drugs
have to be taken

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at the same time every day
for the rest of your life.

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Isn't that
a bit overly dramatic?

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No. Same time every day
like your life depends on it.

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Because it does.

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Are you trying to tell me
you can't live without me?

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I'll check on you later

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Hey.

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I'm glad you're here.

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I was afraid that...

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No, look, I just...
Thank you for the flowers.

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And I'm so glad the kidney's
working out for you.

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And, uh, I guess...

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Have a nice life.

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Wait. Wait, Tammy.

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Look, I know that I...
behaved badly towards you,

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and I haven't been able
to make it up, but...

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Well, you're part of me now.

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Literally.

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I'd love to have a chance
to start over?

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I don't know.

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Oh, listen to me. "I want..."

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"What I want..."

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What do you want
that I can give you?

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Do I really look like my mom?

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Oh, so much.

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And you have her hands.

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And her laugh.

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Wait, could you be
more specific?

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'Cause there are
several laughs. Um...

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A chortle,
a chuckle and a belly.

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Well, let's hear them.

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Middle one.

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Oh. What're you doing here?

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Waiting for Tammy.
Waiting for Christy.

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Might also take a nap.

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Just need to find
the perfect angle.

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And...

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there it is.

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Be a love and hit the light.

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And the door.

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Come on.

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You can't tell me anything
about sexy gurney guy?

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Not if I want to keep my job.

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Nerd.

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There will come a time

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when you will need
something from me,

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and I will not
give it to you.

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Okay.

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Look who's here.

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Hey. Hey!

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Oh! I can't believe
you're up and about already.

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Yeah. Who knew pain pills
could also be used for pain?

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You should see her incision.
It is so cute.

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I took a selfie
and put it up on Instagram

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with the caption,
"Just kidney-ing around."

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Already six likes.

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Ooh! Seven. Thank you, Jill.

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By the way, if everyone's free
Saturday night,

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my aunt wants
to take us all out to dinner.

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Wait, you two are talking?

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- Mm.
- And wait.

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Somebody besides me is paying
for dinner?

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You're not
just "kidney-ing" around?

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It's great that you
guys patched things up.

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Oh, yeah,
they're best friends now.

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Sorry, I'm busy on Saturday.

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It's a steakhouse.

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I will consider it.

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She's the only link
I have to my past, Bonnie.

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And I'm having so much fun
finding out stuff about my mom.

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Like she was in a band.

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Maybe that's why I love bands.

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If you ask me,
Cookie's working you.

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For what?

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She's already got her kidney.

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Think she's gunning
for her spleen?

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- I don't know.
- I just don't trust her.

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My mom died when I was 16.

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I swear we got back
from the funeral,

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and my dad never said
another word about her.

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Still won't.

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I'd do anything
to have somebody

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who could tell me stories
about her.

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I wish there was a
way for me to forget

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all the stories I've
heard about her.

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You and me both.

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Cookie, thank you so much
for bringing us all out.

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I'm getting lobster.
I don't even like it.

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I just want to make
this meal count.

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Jill's right.

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This is a celebration.

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Everyone should order

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something really expensive
they don't even like.

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Modern medicine.

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- What a miracle. 
- Yeah.

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They took a part out of you,

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and they put it into you,

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and four days later,

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you're both out to dinner.

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And did you know you can also send

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a package
overnight now?

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Marjorie raises a good point.

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Should Tammy's kidney be out
so soon after surgery?

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Oh, I couldn't stay
another moment in that bed.

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Unless

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the doctor had taken me up

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on my rather bold offer.

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Wine?

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Ah, here.

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Should Tammy's kidney
be drinking?

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As long as it's not
inside Tammy,

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I think it's fine. Wendy?

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A few sips are okay.

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Well, good. Because it
absolutely loves merlot.

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That's my kidney, all right.

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Oh.

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I wonder if my handsome
husband-to-be loves merlot.

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You're engaged?

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Close.

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Just need
to find out his name.

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Um, so, I-I want
to propose a toast.

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For a long time,

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I haven't been able to think
about the future.

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And now,
thanks to you,

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I can.

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Here's to Tammy.

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To Tammy.

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Way more than a few sips.

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Drop it.

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I detect an odor.

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Well...

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I'm going
to the little girls' room.

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And do you know why?

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Because I can pee!

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Isn't she great?

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I can't believe I almost
cut her out of my life.

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These last few days
have been so awesome.

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How is it not bothering you
that she's treating your kidney

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like a freshman
at Arizona State?

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It's not my kidney anymore.

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To me, it will always
be your kidney.

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That doesn't make sense.

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Oh, we have to make sense now?
Is that the new thing?

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My daughter's marrying
a man she's never met.

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So we have
your blessing?

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I also have to pee,

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if anyone would care
to throw me a parade!

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Tammy's kidney is smoking!

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Christy, can you
pass the bread?

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I warned you that
there would come a time

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when you would ask me
for something

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and I wouldn't
give it to ya.

264
00:11:29,512 --> 00:11:30,861
Okay.

265
00:11:33,361 --> 00:11:35,518
How does that revenge taste?

266
00:11:35,963 --> 00:11:37,041
You're not gonna believe this.

267
00:11:37,128 --> 00:11:39,015
Cookie's outside
smoking a cigarette.

268
00:11:39,103 --> 00:11:40,930
- Wait, what?
- Yeah. Puffin' away,

269
00:11:41,018 --> 00:11:43,705
like first grade Bonnie
waitin' for the school bus.

270
00:11:45,370 --> 00:11:47,157
Oh, dear. That's not good.

271
00:11:47,245 --> 00:11:48,634
It's not.
Because, uh...

272
00:11:48,721 --> 00:11:49,853
Uh, Wendy?

273
00:11:49,940 --> 00:11:51,637
Her immune system
has been weakened,

274
00:11:51,724 --> 00:11:53,465
so smoking puts
a lot of stress on it.

275
00:11:53,552 --> 00:11:54,466
Bam! That's why.

276
00:11:54,553 --> 00:11:56,190
- But...
- No. You're done.

277
00:11:57,098 --> 00:11:59,486
Are you gonna say
something to her? Of course she is.

278
00:11:59,602 --> 00:12:01,822
Cookie's out there kicking
her old kidney in the nuts.

279
00:12:01,909 --> 00:12:03,475
Actually, I think
Jill was asking me.

280
00:12:03,562 --> 00:12:04,999
And no, I'm not
gonna say anything.

281
00:12:05,086 --> 00:12:06,827
Really? If she
keeps this up,

282
00:12:06,914 --> 00:12:08,567
her body will, uh...

283
00:12:08,654 --> 00:12:09,571
Wendy?

284
00:12:09,659 --> 00:12:10,660
Reject it.

285
00:12:10,787 --> 00:12:12,728
Bam! Reject it.
You might as well

286
00:12:12,816 --> 00:12:14,955
have had your kidney removed
and just thrown it in the trash.

287
00:12:15,042 --> 00:12:16,555
Bonnie, you've had
a problem with Cookie

288
00:12:16,642 --> 00:12:17,657
ever since she showed up.

289
00:12:17,745 --> 00:12:19,269
Because you had a
problem with her.

290
00:12:19,357 --> 00:12:21,291
Yeah, but now I don't.
I've chosen to forgive her.

291
00:12:21,378 --> 00:12:22,671
I actually like her.

292
00:12:22,759 --> 00:12:24,886
I don't. I think
she's manipulative

293
00:12:24,974 --> 00:12:27,122
and selfish
and ungrateful.

294
00:12:27,371 --> 00:12:30,417
Well, sometimes we choose to
overlook a person's faults

295
00:12:30,505 --> 00:12:32,548
because we want to
keep them in our lives.

296
00:12:33,483 --> 00:12:36,356
Is she talking about me?

297
00:12:36,552 --> 00:12:38,510
Hard to say. It could
be any of you.

298
00:12:42,775 --> 00:12:43,994
Hi.

299
00:12:45,430 --> 00:12:47,998
I was here last week,
and I had this...

300
00:12:48,085 --> 00:12:51,704
intense eye-contact thing
with one of your patients.

301
00:12:51,950 --> 00:12:53,567
It was a life-changing moment.

302
00:12:53,670 --> 00:12:55,281
The only problem is, uh,

303
00:12:55,369 --> 00:12:56,806
I don't know his name

304
00:12:56,964 --> 00:12:59,357
or if he's still alive.

305
00:12:59,444 --> 00:13:02,517
I'm sorry, we can't release
any patient information.

306
00:13:03,111 --> 00:13:07,278
Not even for an egg white omelet
with bacon and cheddar cheese?

307
00:13:08,499 --> 00:13:09,892
All right!

308
00:13:09,980 --> 00:13:13,200
But just know you're standing
in the way of true love!

309
00:13:14,416 --> 00:13:15,896
Oh, hi. Hi.

310
00:13:15,983 --> 00:13:17,898
Uh, I was here last week,

311
00:13:17,985 --> 00:13:21,088
and I had
this intense eye-contact thing

312
00:13:21,176 --> 00:13:22,424
with one of your patients,

313
00:13:22,512 --> 00:13:23,661
and...

314
00:13:23,749 --> 00:13:27,098
Okay, I can see that I'm
losing you. Do you like omelets?

315
00:13:29,293 --> 00:13:31,098
Cookie wants cream
and three sugars.

316
00:13:31,186 --> 00:13:32,752
Well, of course she does.

317
00:13:33,416 --> 00:13:35,114
Oh, Bonnie, you said you'd try.

318
00:13:35,209 --> 00:13:37,894
This is trying. I'm making
coffee for a woman I can't stand

319
00:13:37,982 --> 00:13:40,357
and putting in sugar instead of
rat poison because I love you.

320
00:13:42,487 --> 00:13:44,494
So, what are your plans

321
00:13:44,582 --> 00:13:46,934
now that you have
a new lease on life?

322
00:13:47,022 --> 00:13:48,710
Oh, it's all
about this girl.

323
00:13:48,798 --> 00:13:50,756
I'm gonna be here
as much as I can.

324
00:13:50,843 --> 00:13:52,479
Ooh, and she's taking me
to Bakersfield,

325
00:13:52,567 --> 00:13:53,847
where she and my mom grew up.

326
00:13:53,934 --> 00:13:55,827
- Lots of memories there.
- Mm-hmm.

327
00:13:55,915 --> 00:13:57,645
And wild dogs.

328
00:13:58,434 --> 00:14:00,027
We'll probably just stay
in the car.

329
00:14:00,115 --> 00:14:01,255
Yeah.

330
00:14:01,343 --> 00:14:02,898
Well, that sounds like
a fun weekend

331
00:14:02,986 --> 00:14:04,118
- for you guys.
- Yeah.

332
00:14:06,033 --> 00:14:07,208
Ah.

333
00:14:07,295 --> 00:14:08,731
Right. What was that?

334
00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:12,430
A reminder to, uh, tell
me to take my meds.

335
00:14:12,517 --> 00:14:14,302
So, Tammy tells me
that you and Christy

336
00:14:14,389 --> 00:14:15,956
have been all
over the world.

337
00:14:16,043 --> 00:14:18,045
Not on purpose.
It was more like fleeing,

338
00:14:18,132 --> 00:14:20,498
hiding and pretending to be
other people.

339
00:14:20,955 --> 00:14:22,434
Aren't you gonna take 'em?

340
00:14:22,522 --> 00:14:24,466
I suppose I should.

341
00:14:24,554 --> 00:14:26,802
Yeah, Christy and I were
kind of like Thelma and Louise,

342
00:14:26,890 --> 00:14:29,142
if Louise was six
and Thelma was always drunk

343
00:14:29,230 --> 00:14:31,232
and forgetting
where she put Louise.

344
00:14:31,630 --> 00:14:32,927
Well, darn.

345
00:14:33,380 --> 00:14:34,910
I must have left
them at the hotel.

346
00:14:34,998 --> 00:14:36,498
I'll drive you back
and get them.

347
00:14:36,586 --> 00:14:38,376
No, no. There's
no big deal.

348
00:14:38,478 --> 00:14:41,220
I skipped them altogether the
other day and nothing happened.

349
00:14:41,370 --> 00:14:42,981
Yeah, but the doctor said
you're supposed to take them

350
00:14:43,068 --> 00:14:45,332
at the same time every day...
he said your life depends on it.

351
00:14:45,419 --> 00:14:47,770
Oh, they just say
that to scare you.

352
00:14:47,858 --> 00:14:50,352
No, I think they say that
so you won't die.

353
00:14:50,784 --> 00:14:52,699
Look, I'm not a child.

354
00:14:53,036 --> 00:14:54,720
I can take
care of myself.

355
00:14:54,808 --> 00:14:56,782
- Can you?
- Excuse me?

356
00:14:56,870 --> 00:14:58,436
This woman went
under the knife for you,

357
00:14:58,524 --> 00:15:00,986
and here you are wasting
the second chance she gave you,

358
00:15:01,074 --> 00:15:02,847
which I don't think you deserved
in the first place.

359
00:15:02,934 --> 00:15:04,271
- Don't yell at her.
- Somebody has to.

360
00:15:04,358 --> 00:15:05,533
Enough!

361
00:15:05,831 --> 00:15:08,051
I have been sick
a long time.

362
00:15:08,589 --> 00:15:10,651
Countless doctors'
appointments.

363
00:15:10,777 --> 00:15:13,074
Dialysis three times a week.

364
00:15:13,645 --> 00:15:16,277
You have no idea what
I've been through.

365
00:15:16,365 --> 00:15:17,487
Now, I just want

366
00:15:17,581 --> 00:15:20,454
to enjoy my life
for a little bit.

367
00:15:20,541 --> 00:15:24,110
And although I realize that I
am undercutting my own argument,

368
00:15:24,197 --> 00:15:26,161
I am suddenly in terrible pain!

369
00:15:26,249 --> 00:15:28,319
Oh, my God!
We'll go get your pills!

370
00:15:28,407 --> 00:15:29,670
No, never mind the pills.

371
00:15:29,758 --> 00:15:32,325
Take me to the hospital.Oh. Oh, God.

372
00:15:32,545 --> 00:15:33,838
Oh, thank you, Bonnie.

373
00:15:33,926 --> 00:15:35,667
This was lovely.

374
00:15:42,999 --> 00:15:45,305
Was that...?

375
00:15:45,392 --> 00:15:48,831
No. Even she can't be
that desperate.

376
00:15:50,230 --> 00:15:53,421
Well, Cookie didn't
take care of herself,

377
00:15:53,509 --> 00:15:55,436
and now she's
rejecting the kidney.

378
00:15:55,524 --> 00:15:58,076
Oh, God.
Is she gonna be okay?

379
00:15:58,164 --> 00:15:59,527
Oh, they think so.

380
00:15:59,615 --> 00:16:01,007
They're upping
her medication.

381
00:16:01,095 --> 00:16:02,264
That's good.

382
00:16:02,352 --> 00:16:04,202
I'm just so
angry at her.

383
00:16:04,290 --> 00:16:05,344
You have every right to be.

384
00:16:05,431 --> 00:16:06,804
And I'm angry at myself.

385
00:16:06,892 --> 00:16:08,892
I feel so stupid
for trusting her.

386
00:16:08,980 --> 00:16:10,357
Don't be so hard
on yourself.

387
00:16:10,713 --> 00:16:11,986
And I'm angry at you.

388
00:16:12,074 --> 00:16:13,510
- What?
- For being right.

389
00:16:13,598 --> 00:16:15,688
Oh. That's okay.

390
00:16:16,703 --> 00:16:18,705
Mostly, I'm
angry at myself.

391
00:16:18,924 --> 00:16:21,588
Look...
we all have crazy people

392
00:16:21,715 --> 00:16:23,368
in our lives
who we can't let go of.

393
00:16:24,543 --> 00:16:27,198
Wait, was that... I'm telling myself no.

394
00:16:32,602 --> 00:16:33,907
Hey.

395
00:16:35,290 --> 00:16:37,304
- You mad at me?
- Yes!

396
00:16:37,401 --> 00:16:38,706
I gave you my kidney.

397
00:16:38,793 --> 00:16:40,796
I gave you a second
chance to be my aunt.

398
00:16:40,883 --> 00:16:42,683
And you keep acting like
none of that matters.

399
00:16:42,770 --> 00:16:44,705
- Of course it matters.
- Well, then show it.

400
00:16:44,793 --> 00:16:46,233
I will. I promise.

401
00:16:46,321 --> 00:16:47,937
Don't just tell me
what I want to hear.

402
00:16:48,025 --> 00:16:50,554
I mean, I want you to eat right,
I want you to take your pills.

403
00:16:50,642 --> 00:16:52,218
I want you to
live a long time!

404
00:16:52,306 --> 00:16:54,259
You made me care about you,
damn it.

405
00:16:54,377 --> 00:16:56,118
I care about you, too.

406
00:16:56,338 --> 00:16:57,688
Do you?

407
00:16:58,049 --> 00:16:59,963
More than I can say.

408
00:17:01,173 --> 00:17:02,511
Look, I'm sorry.

409
00:17:03,056 --> 00:17:06,288
I'm just not used to...
thinking about anybody else.

410
00:17:06,376 --> 00:17:09,005
It's always been...
just me.

411
00:17:10,150 --> 00:17:11,891
I guess I get that.

412
00:17:12,095 --> 00:17:14,760
I mean, until recently,
it's always been just me.

413
00:17:15,700 --> 00:17:17,425
Well, if it's
all right with you,

414
00:17:17,513 --> 00:17:19,776
I'd like to stick around town
for a while and...

415
00:17:20,100 --> 00:17:22,581
do some of the things
we planned.

416
00:17:22,786 --> 00:17:25,349
I do like your stories
about my mom.

417
00:17:25,437 --> 00:17:27,657
I got a lot of 'em. Pull up a chair.

418
00:17:27,745 --> 00:17:28,920
Okay.

419
00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:34,257
Okay. When your mother
was eight years old...

420
00:17:34,345 --> 00:17:35,243
Mm-hmm...

421
00:17:35,330 --> 00:17:37,376
she decided she wanted
to have a squirrel circus.

422
00:17:38,900 --> 00:17:41,218
And so she brought home
three squirrels.

423
00:17:41,306 --> 00:17:44,179
But our dog was not
on board with this at all.

424
00:17:45,454 --> 00:17:48,025
And frankly,
neither were the squirrels.

425
00:17:54,867 --> 00:17:56,825
Yes. It's you.

426
00:18:01,876 --> 00:18:03,052
Papa!

427
00:18:04,096 --> 00:18:06,308
Mi mancate molto.

428
00:18:06,605 --> 00:18:08,745
I miei bellissimi figli.

429
00:18:08,934 --> 00:18:09,979
Hey.

430
00:18:14,879 --> 00:18:16,402
Gay, married...

431
00:18:16,716 --> 00:18:18,370
doesn't speak English.

432
00:18:19,051 --> 00:18:20,956
Good job, Christy.

433
00:18:25,626 --> 00:18:26,925
Hey.

434
00:18:27,364 --> 00:18:29,149
Hi.My aunt ready to go?

435
00:18:29,483 --> 00:18:30,929
Oh. She didn't call you?

436
00:18:31,017 --> 00:18:32,655
No. What's going on?
Is she okay?

437
00:18:32,743 --> 00:18:35,218
Tammy, she checked herself out
last night.

438
00:18:35,306 --> 00:18:37,434
She said she was going back
to Santa Fe.

439
00:18:37,863 --> 00:18:39,213
What?

440
00:18:39,300 --> 00:18:41,856
No, no. She said she was
gonna stay in town and...

441
00:18:41,990 --> 00:18:43,513
spend time with me.

442
00:18:43,601 --> 00:18:44,950
I don't know what to tell you.

443
00:18:45,084 --> 00:18:47,894
She made me all these promises.

444
00:18:48,047 --> 00:18:50,224
Did...
She didn't leave a note?

445
00:18:51,741 --> 00:18:52,892
Sorry, I got to go.

446
00:18:52,980 --> 00:18:54,764
You gonna be all right? Oh, yeah, sure.

447
00:18:54,969 --> 00:18:56,231
Thanks.

448
00:18:59,711 --> 00:19:01,345
Hey, let's get a move on.

449
00:19:01,433 --> 00:19:03,261
I'm double-parked in
front of an ambulance.

450
00:19:14,188 --> 00:19:16,490
So, I have a new rule.

451
00:19:16,655 --> 00:19:20,257
I am not going to fall in love
with anyone I haven't spoken to.

452
00:19:21,244 --> 00:19:22,556
Unless, you know, it's...

453
00:19:22,644 --> 00:19:24,384
it's really, reallyclear

454
00:19:24,691 --> 00:19:26,475
we're meant
to be together.

455
00:19:27,428 --> 00:19:28,777
Thanks.

456
00:19:30,883 --> 00:19:32,711
Anyone else
want to share?

457
00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:34,459
Tammy?

458
00:19:35,205 --> 00:19:36,205
I'm good.

459
00:19:36,978 --> 00:19:37,978
I'll go.

460
00:19:38,357 --> 00:19:39,546
Bonnie. Alcoholic.

461
00:19:39,634 --> 00:19:40,915
Hi, Bonnie.

462
00:19:41,122 --> 00:19:42,819
You know how we say in here

463
00:19:43,017 --> 00:19:45,508
that when you're irritated
by someone else's behavior,

464
00:19:45,596 --> 00:19:48,048
it's actually because
it's a reflection of you,

465
00:19:48,136 --> 00:19:49,657
or, as Marjorie would say...

466
00:19:49,817 --> 00:19:51,732
"You spot it, you got it."

467
00:19:51,819 --> 00:19:54,650
I didn't make it up.
I wish I did.

468
00:19:55,084 --> 00:19:56,547
It's super annoying,

469
00:19:56,635 --> 00:19:58,174
but there is
some truth in it.

470
00:19:58,261 --> 00:20:00,838
I've spent a lot of my life
making promises that I broke,

471
00:20:00,926 --> 00:20:03,624
and I never thought about how
that affected the other person.

472
00:20:03,782 --> 00:20:07,090
It wasn't that I was lying...
I really meant it at the time.

473
00:20:07,357 --> 00:20:10,099
My therapist says
it's because I'm a narcissist.

474
00:20:10,186 --> 00:20:11,883
Which I think is
a pretty mean word to use

475
00:20:11,970 --> 00:20:14,096
for someone who just
gets caught up in the moment.

476
00:20:14,438 --> 00:20:18,399
Either way, it would be crazy
for the person I disappointed

477
00:20:18,487 --> 00:20:21,403
to blame themselves,
because it has nothing...

478
00:20:21,491 --> 00:20:23,803
I mean... nothing...

479
00:20:23,891 --> 00:20:25,092
to do with them.

480
00:20:29,637 --> 00:20:32,630
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