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What maniac brought
vegetables without ranch?
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I don't want to know what
celery actually tastes like.
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It was me. I swear,
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I hadn't eaten something
green in a month.
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Ever since I started dating Andy,
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all I eat is meat, meat,
meat and banana pudding.
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But your man cooks for
you. That's my dream.
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That and a pickup truck with a tailgate
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that turns into a ladder.
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It is nice, but he brought over
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a ton of cookbooks and rubs and sauces.
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He's got my kitchen
looking like a... kitchen.
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Hey, you're a builder person.
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Can you build me a shelf
to make that stuff go away?
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In my sleep. Well,
how much do you charge?
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Stop. I'll do it for free.
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No, no. You got to know your value.
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How else are you gonna get that
pickup if you work for free?
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Well, I do want that truck.
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Let's see, one shelf: $42,000.
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- Fine. 75 bucks.
- Deal.
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Hello, everyone.
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What's new?
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You went to my bra lady.
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Oh, she is not a bra lady,
she's a boob architect.
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I mean, I got lifted, separated
and groped, but in a good way.
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I had no idea I was wearing
the wrong size this whole time.
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Oh, I did. Merry Christmas.
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I keep catching them
in my peripheral vision.
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I'm just sitting there and
it's like "Ooh! Hello, ladies."
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- Oh, my God.
- What?
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I just got a text from my son.
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Are you serious?
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He hasn't spoken to me in years.
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Well, what'd it say?
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Just to call him when I get a chance.
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Well, you got a chance. Do it.
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No. No, I'm not ready.
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I need a meeting first.
Wendy, let's get started.
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Welcome to the Thursday women's meeting.
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My name is Wendy and I'm an alcoholic.
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Eh, screw it, I can't wait.
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Hi, Wendy.
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- Synced and corrected by ChrisKe -
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Marjorie's still on the
phone? I can barely see.
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Looks like somebody cleaned
this window with ham.
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I think her lips are moving.
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Oh, that doesn't mean anything.
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She talks to herself
all the time at home.
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What are you guys looking at?
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Oh. I don't know.
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So who have we been spying on?
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Oh, my God, it's Dwayne the custodian.
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Well, that's on him.
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He shouldn't wear his hair like that.
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So, what happened?
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Call me Grandma.
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Congratulations.
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Oh...
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That's great.
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It was so wonderful to hear his voice.
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Aw.
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He told me I have a
granddaughter named Sophia
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and he wants me to meet her.
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That's great, Marjorie.
I am so happy... Whoa!
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Oh. Sorry, my boobs scared me again.
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Whew.
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How much further?
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1.7 miles.
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Uh, make that 1.6 miles.
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Ooh, T.J. Maxx coming up on the left.
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1.5.
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Okay, Siri, settle down.
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Thanks again for driving.
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I felt fine this morning, but
then I fed the cats granola
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and poured myself a bowl of Meow Mix
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and I thought, "Maybe don't drive."
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You'll be great.
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1.2.
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I can't believe this is happening.
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1.1.
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You know the best part?
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Jerry wanted nothing to do with you,
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but you sent birthday cards every year.
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You didn't get anything
back, but you didn't give up.
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And now look.
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I thought you were crazy.
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I might have said so
when you weren't around.
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You said it to my face.
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Did I?
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That's what I like about me.
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And what the rest of
us hope you work on.
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What am I supposed to say
to him after all this time?
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When he was little,
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my goal was just to stay sober
until he got on the school bus,
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and most days, I couldn't make it.
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Well, I blame vodka for
being so damn delicious
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with orange juice.
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Or with any juice.
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Or with nothing.
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0.3.
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Finally, my husband told me
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I had to stop drinking or move out.
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So...
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- You moved out.
- That day.
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I chose booze over my own son.
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But you're an incredible woman
now and he's gonna see it.
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You have arrived at your destination.
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Oh, sure, I do all the
work and you bring us home.
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Text us if you need us.
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We're gonna go get our nails done.
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And maybe hit that T.J. Maxx.
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I am so nervous.
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Relax. There's a baby there.
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They're great icebreakers.
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Yeah. Any time you're
at a loss for words,
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you just say, "Look at the baby."
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Maybe don't do a voice
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that sounds like you're
gonna eat the baby.
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Would you look at all
these stupid cookbooks?
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Grill Master, Grill
Monster, All Up in My Grill.
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I guess I should be happy he's reading.
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Although this one's mostly pictures.
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How high do you want this?
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Where I can't see it and Andy can.
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Well, how tall is he?
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Mm...
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Little bit taller than you.
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Oh, Belinda, did you vacuum the carpet
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in the master bedroom today?
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I did it first thing.
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Did you, though?
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'Cause it's not as
fluffed up as it should be.
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I'll give it another go.
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And this time, I'll
really put my back into it.
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Thank you, thank you.
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All righty, I'm gonna go get a massage,
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take a steam and then
relax for a little while.
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That's a pretty busy
day. Leave time for a nap.
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I always do.
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- What would you like for lunch?
- Oh, I'll be done way before then.
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Have you worked for Miss Jill before?
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- No.
- I'll make you tuna.
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Got to say, I'm surprised
you said yes to the paraffin.
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I didn't know what it was.
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I thought she was offering me a snack.
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Well, whatever's
happening inside this mitt
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feels soft and warm.
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And kind of sexy.
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Man, I need a boyfriend.
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That is the word on the street.
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Maybe this bra is gonna
change my whole dating life.
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You've been wearing it
for a couple of days.
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Gotten any feelers?
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Just me for right now.
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But you know what? It ain't bad.
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- It's Marjorie.
- So soon?
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Hang on.
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She says, "Come get me ASAP."
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- That's not good.
- I know, we got to go
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right after we're done
here. No T.J. Maxx.
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Mom, we got to go now.
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What? She said, "as soon as possible."
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The only thing that's possible right now
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is me taking a chicken out of the oven.
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11:22. Told you I'd be
out of here by lunch.
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Well done.
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Well, I took my steam,
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but there was no eucalyptus spray,
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and I'm not gonna point
any fingers, but Natalie?
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- I'll take care of it.
- Thank you, thank you.
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I finished your shelf.
What do you think?
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Oh. Okay.
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- Don't you like it?
- No, I like it.
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- But?
- It's just not what I pictured.
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- Well, what did you picture?
- I don't know.
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I mean, I-I guess I sort of saw
the shelf with sides and a top
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and maybe some doors.
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So a cabinet.
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A cabinet, yes. That's
the kind of shelf I want.
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All right. Well, I need
to get more supplies,
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but okay.
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- Oh. You're the best.
- Ah...
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Thank you, thank you.
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Would you like your tuna
sandwich toasted or not toasted?
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Toasted.
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Oh, God, she's sitting on the curb.
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Looks like a depressed garden gnome.
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- Are you okay?
- No.
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What happened?
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I thought it was going well.
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And then I said the baby looked cold
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and maybe she needed a blanket.
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Then all of a sudden my
son starts screaming at me
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that I have no right to
tell him how to parent.
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That's crazy.
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You didn't mean anything by it.
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You know what? I'm gonna
go in and say something.
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No. Stay out of it.
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But it's not fair.
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Please just take me home.
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So? What do you think?
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Hmm.
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So I build her a cabinet,
which everyone knows
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is different than a shelf,
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and she says it's "too closed-off."
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So we try glass doors that she
picked out, and then guess what?
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She says it's "too see-through."
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Why are you smiling?
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No one ever vents to me.
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Oh, good. She came.
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Mm. Hope she's doing better today.
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You know, Bonnie, they paint
lines in the parking lot
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for a reason.
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Nope.
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I'm sorry, I'll park
better in the future.
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Damn, this is terrible.
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It's always terrible.
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Do you want to vent to me?
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It's a thing now.
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We have time for one more share.
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I'll go.
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Marjorie?
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Fine.
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- Marjorie, alcoholic.
- Hi, Marjorie.
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I know that I've been
sober for a long time
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and I sponsor women and I try
to do all the right things,
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but... in my son's eyes,
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I'll-I'll always be the mom he
saw passed out on the sidewalk
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on his way to school.
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And I had accepted that he and I
might never have a relationship.
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But then I saw him.
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And I met my beautiful
new granddaughter.
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And now I wish he'd never
reached out to me at all.
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If her son knew her the way we do,
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he'd be excited to have her in his life.
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He'd be lucky to have her in his life.
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He needs to know how incredible she is.
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Someone needs to tell him.
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- Ooh, are we telling him?
- Hell yeah, we are.
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I was literally about to say
we should go there and meddle.
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We're so in sync.
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Were you also thinking we should stop
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- at the drive-through and get...
- Crunchwrap gorditas?
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I was gonna say salads.
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Okay, but same page about the son.
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What the hell was that?
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- A high five.
- How about an "up top" first?
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I followed your suggestions,
made it "more streamlined,"
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got rid of the "silly frills."
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I hope you like it.
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Oh, Tammy!
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It's perfect! Ah...
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Belinda, Natalie, did you see it?
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- Beautiful.
- Yes.
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Oh, I'm so happy.
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Job well done. And here you go.
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$75, just like we agreed.
259
00:11:52,139 --> 00:11:54,116
Yeah, just like we agreed.
260
00:11:55,879 --> 00:11:58,744
Belinda, put all of Andy's grill stuff
261
00:11:58,769 --> 00:12:01,192
up on my new shelf when you're
done vacuuming my bedroom.
262
00:12:01,217 --> 00:12:03,098
I already vacuumed it twice.
263
00:12:03,777 --> 00:12:05,610
Perhaps the third
time will be the charm.
264
00:12:06,226 --> 00:12:07,559
Thank you, thank you.
265
00:12:10,129 --> 00:12:12,160
That's the same shelf you
started with, isn't it?
266
00:12:12,185 --> 00:12:14,118
Yep, but now it's her idea.
267
00:12:14,325 --> 00:12:15,770
You caught on fast.
268
00:12:15,991 --> 00:12:18,458
You know, it's funny, I've
never seen this side of Jill.
269
00:12:18,483 --> 00:12:20,283
Is there another side?
270
00:12:20,308 --> 00:12:22,344
How could she not get that
with all the extra time
271
00:12:22,369 --> 00:12:24,606
and materials, she
should pay me more money?
272
00:12:24,677 --> 00:12:25,976
It's Jill math.
273
00:12:26,035 --> 00:12:29,170
She pays us to work till
5:00, but keeps us till 6:30.
274
00:12:29,324 --> 00:12:31,925
And she hasn't given us
a raise in three years.
275
00:12:31,950 --> 00:12:34,387
But she does give us lots
of "thank you, thank yous."
276
00:12:35,659 --> 00:12:38,668
I tried to buy groceries
with them, but it didn't work.
277
00:12:39,473 --> 00:12:41,863
- That's not right.
- Uh-huh.
278
00:12:41,888 --> 00:12:43,421
No, I'm serious. It's not right.
279
00:12:43,446 --> 00:12:46,014
- We agree.
- I mean, it's wrong!
280
00:12:46,039 --> 00:12:49,107
Remember when we were like that?
281
00:12:50,473 --> 00:12:51,738
I'd stay and reminisce,
282
00:12:51,763 --> 00:12:54,197
but I have to go and
vacuum a clean carpet.
283
00:12:58,539 --> 00:13:00,339
Thanks for seeing us.
284
00:13:00,364 --> 00:13:01,969
We know this is a little weird.
285
00:13:02,009 --> 00:13:04,608
That's fine. I just want
everyone to get along.
286
00:13:04,633 --> 00:13:06,266
Babe, who's at the door?
287
00:13:06,688 --> 00:13:10,086
Uh, this is, uh, Bonnie and Christy.
288
00:13:10,111 --> 00:13:11,978
Friends of your mother's.
289
00:13:12,259 --> 00:13:14,584
- Oh.
- Hi.
290
00:13:14,788 --> 00:13:17,055
You and I actually met.
291
00:13:17,124 --> 00:13:20,893
It was a few years ago,
when your mom had cancer.
292
00:13:20,918 --> 00:13:22,664
Right.
293
00:13:22,689 --> 00:13:24,623
You stuck your nose in then.
294
00:13:24,863 --> 00:13:27,431
I'm assuming you're here
to stick it in again now?
295
00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:32,820
Look at the baby!
296
00:13:37,172 --> 00:13:40,646
I have nothing to say about that woman.
297
00:13:40,671 --> 00:13:44,340
It was a mistake to reach
out. It wasn't even my idea.
298
00:13:44,365 --> 00:13:45,798
It was mine.
299
00:13:45,823 --> 00:13:49,431
I thought it would be nice for
Sophia to have a grandmother
300
00:13:49,456 --> 00:13:51,844
who might like to babysit
every once in a while.
301
00:13:52,084 --> 00:13:54,084
I'm so frickin' tired.
302
00:13:57,719 --> 00:13:59,942
Marjorie would love to babysit.
303
00:13:59,967 --> 00:14:01,233
Well, that's too bad.
304
00:14:01,258 --> 00:14:03,281
She's made her choices
and I've made mine.
305
00:14:03,306 --> 00:14:05,282
I know this is difficult to believe,
306
00:14:05,307 --> 00:14:07,941
but the person you're angry
at doesn't exist anymore.
307
00:14:07,966 --> 00:14:10,886
And if you gave her another
chance, you'd see that.
308
00:14:10,911 --> 00:14:12,578
Yeah, she is a remarkable woman.
309
00:14:12,603 --> 00:14:15,086
She has done so much
good for so many people.
310
00:14:15,111 --> 00:14:18,766
Great. She can help total
strangers but not her own son.
311
00:14:18,791 --> 00:14:21,002
Okay, buddy, you're not
ten years old anymore.
312
00:14:21,027 --> 00:14:23,245
Your mother screwed up a long time ago.
313
00:14:23,270 --> 00:14:25,103
You need to let her
off the hook already.
314
00:14:25,128 --> 00:14:27,428
I mean, this one put me
through the wringer forever,
315
00:14:27,453 --> 00:14:29,806
but she came around, and now we're good.
316
00:14:32,809 --> 00:14:34,743
I wasn't putting her
through the wringer,
317
00:14:34,768 --> 00:14:36,853
I was taking care of myself.
318
00:14:37,572 --> 00:14:40,095
Exactly. And-and that's what I'm doing.
319
00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:42,767
But the point is, my
daughter forgave me.
320
00:14:43,150 --> 00:14:45,384
But that took time.
321
00:14:45,409 --> 00:14:47,656
And you need to do what's best for you.
322
00:14:47,681 --> 00:14:48,847
What are you doing?
323
00:14:50,351 --> 00:14:55,517
Well, I just, I have been in
his position, so I can empathize.
324
00:14:55,542 --> 00:14:58,290
When you've had a
traumatizing childhood,
325
00:14:58,337 --> 00:15:01,170
it's hard to just let that go.
326
00:15:01,195 --> 00:15:03,705
- It's really hard.
- But it's possible.
327
00:15:04,898 --> 00:15:07,899
That's what we're here to
tell him, that it's possible.
328
00:15:07,924 --> 00:15:09,357
Of course it is.
329
00:15:09,382 --> 00:15:10,877
We're good now.
330
00:15:11,006 --> 00:15:13,673
And that's because I
took the space I needed.
331
00:15:13,874 --> 00:15:15,641
He's had 28 years of space.
332
00:15:15,709 --> 00:15:17,687
And for the record, I don't
think much healing went on
333
00:15:17,711 --> 00:15:19,044
when you shut me out of your life.
334
00:15:19,069 --> 00:15:21,002
- But we are good now.
- So good.
335
00:15:20,993 --> 00:15:23,826
And I think the reason we're
so good now is that we deal
336
00:15:23,851 --> 00:15:26,029
with each other instead of
letting our resentments fester
337
00:15:26,053 --> 00:15:28,280
and bubble up at inappropriate times.
338
00:15:28,305 --> 00:15:30,188
You can't schedule feelings, Mom.
339
00:15:30,213 --> 00:15:32,046
They just get here when they get here!
340
00:15:32,071 --> 00:15:34,405
But you can choose to
keep them to yourself!
341
00:15:38,697 --> 00:15:40,772
Sorry, she's just so activating.
342
00:15:46,055 --> 00:15:47,121
I'm heading out.
343
00:15:47,146 --> 00:15:48,979
Okay. Thank you, thank you.
344
00:15:51,389 --> 00:15:53,155
Look, I need to tell you something,
345
00:15:53,180 --> 00:15:54,846
because if I don't, it'll build up
346
00:15:54,871 --> 00:15:57,071
and pretty soon when I do my
birthday thing at Benihana,
347
00:15:57,096 --> 00:15:58,994
you won't be invited
and you'll be devastated
348
00:15:59,019 --> 00:16:00,752
'cause you won't know why.
349
00:16:01,606 --> 00:16:04,530
That was a lot to
follow. Are you mad at me?
350
00:16:06,093 --> 00:16:09,361
You and I agreed on $75 for one shelf.
351
00:16:09,386 --> 00:16:12,242
- And I love it.
- Yeah, but in order to get to that shelf,
352
00:16:12,266 --> 00:16:15,608
you made me build two other shelves.
And a series of cabinets.
353
00:16:16,437 --> 00:16:19,627
- So... ?
- So I want more money.
354
00:16:20,124 --> 00:16:21,385
Oh.
355
00:16:21,410 --> 00:16:23,210
I spent more than that
on materials alone,
356
00:16:23,235 --> 00:16:24,593
not to mention my time.
357
00:16:24,905 --> 00:16:27,105
So I think $250 sounds fair.
358
00:16:27,338 --> 00:16:29,104
Let me get my checkbook.
359
00:16:29,129 --> 00:16:31,129
- Thanks.
- You're welcome.
360
00:16:33,762 --> 00:16:36,597
- You get why I'd asked, right?
- Mm-hmm.
361
00:16:36,790 --> 00:16:38,635
Because it seems like
you're writing me the check
362
00:16:38,660 --> 00:16:39,826
to shut me up.
363
00:16:39,851 --> 00:16:41,921
Isn't that what checks are for?
364
00:16:43,802 --> 00:16:47,037
No, they're for paying people
who work very hard for you.
365
00:16:47,062 --> 00:16:49,491
I heard you, I heard you. Calm down.
366
00:16:49,516 --> 00:16:51,203
No, because it's not just about me.
367
00:16:51,228 --> 00:16:53,206
You-you know, you haven't
given your housekeepers a raise
368
00:16:53,231 --> 00:16:54,464
in three years?
369
00:16:54,489 --> 00:16:58,448
- Of course I have.
- Nope. Not in three years.
370
00:16:58,645 --> 00:17:00,116
Well, how would you even know that?
371
00:17:00,141 --> 00:17:02,158
Because for the last few
days, I've been in the kitchen
372
00:17:02,182 --> 00:17:03,448
of Downton Abbey.
373
00:17:03,897 --> 00:17:06,585
I love that show.
374
00:17:06,610 --> 00:17:08,711
Now that's a staff.
375
00:17:08,736 --> 00:17:10,836
Belinda and Natalie are fantastic.
376
00:17:10,861 --> 00:17:12,788
And I say thank you all the time.
377
00:17:12,813 --> 00:17:15,360
Well, maybe you should
start doing it with money.
378
00:17:15,428 --> 00:17:16,805
I mean, aren't you the one that says
379
00:17:16,830 --> 00:17:18,374
you need to pay people their value?
380
00:17:18,493 --> 00:17:21,717
- Yes.
- So why aren't you?
381
00:17:24,936 --> 00:17:26,436
I don't know.
382
00:17:27,662 --> 00:17:29,618
It just never occurred to me.
383
00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:33,712
Oh, my God, I am an awful person.
384
00:17:33,737 --> 00:17:36,104
No, no, you're a terrific person,
385
00:17:36,129 --> 00:17:37,940
it's just a little bit
of a blind spot for you.
386
00:17:37,965 --> 00:17:40,199
And when I say "little
bit," I mean huge.
387
00:17:40,224 --> 00:17:41,657
And when I say "blind spot,"
388
00:17:41,682 --> 00:17:43,616
I mean gigantic character flaw.
389
00:17:45,116 --> 00:17:46,769
I mean, this is so humiliating.
390
00:17:46,794 --> 00:17:48,983
I don't think I can even face them now.
391
00:17:49,430 --> 00:17:51,663
I mean, should I just get
rid of them and get new ones?
392
00:17:51,688 --> 00:17:53,655
No. No.
393
00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:55,513
Look at me. No.
394
00:18:02,049 --> 00:18:05,217
Oh. I was gonna watch a movie.
395
00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:09,124
Fine, I'll study in my room.
396
00:18:09,385 --> 00:18:11,685
Oh, I don't want to inconvenience you.
397
00:18:11,710 --> 00:18:13,116
You're not.
398
00:18:13,452 --> 00:18:14,835
Thank you.
399
00:18:19,007 --> 00:18:20,207
What does that mean?
400
00:18:21,165 --> 00:18:23,272
It's called breathing.
401
00:18:24,364 --> 00:18:27,933
Is that okay or is it
too "activating" for you?
402
00:18:30,204 --> 00:18:32,022
Keep breathing, I'll get it.
403
00:18:37,221 --> 00:18:39,855
I just got off the phone with my son.
404
00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:41,146
It was Christy's idea.
405
00:18:41,804 --> 00:18:43,702
You're the one who
turned the car around.
406
00:18:43,727 --> 00:18:46,151
I came to say thank you.
407
00:18:46,176 --> 00:18:47,523
It was my idea.
408
00:18:49,122 --> 00:18:51,252
Jerry decided that he
wants his daughter to
409
00:18:51,277 --> 00:18:53,405
- have a relationship with her grandma.
- Oh...
410
00:18:54,383 --> 00:18:55,816
That's amazing.
411
00:18:56,007 --> 00:18:57,938
What about, what about you and Jerry?
412
00:18:57,963 --> 00:19:00,565
H-He said we're a work in progress.
413
00:19:00,738 --> 00:19:04,506
I don't know what you said
to him, but I'm so grateful.
414
00:19:05,521 --> 00:19:07,955
To be honest, it was
really more Christy than me.
415
00:19:07,980 --> 00:19:10,586
That's not true.
416
00:19:10,611 --> 00:19:12,544
You're the one who turned
the car around.
417
00:19:12,613 --> 00:19:14,524
Yeah, but you did that whole thing
where you empathized with him.
418
00:19:14,549 --> 00:19:16,048
I think that made the difference.
419
00:19:16,116 --> 00:19:18,783
I don't know. That tough love stuff
420
00:19:18,808 --> 00:19:20,875
you were dishing out
was pretty compelling.
421
00:19:21,032 --> 00:19:22,865
And that festering resentment part?
422
00:19:22,890 --> 00:19:24,322
It was a home run.
423
00:19:24,711 --> 00:19:26,869
Was it? I was afraid it was too much.
424
00:19:26,894 --> 00:19:28,393
In the moment, I was concerned... Yeah.
425
00:19:28,462 --> 00:19:30,128
But it turns out, you're a genius.
426
00:19:31,034 --> 00:19:34,399
Wow. You two are so good now.
427
00:19:34,511 --> 00:19:36,565
We know.
428
00:19:37,604 --> 00:19:39,137
- Hey, we did it.
- Ah!
429
00:19:39,162 --> 00:19:40,828
What?
430
00:19:44,410 --> 00:19:45,753
Here you go.
431
00:19:45,778 --> 00:19:47,745
Oh, you didn't have to make me lunch.
432
00:19:47,770 --> 00:19:50,671
Oh, no, no, no. I have to learn
how to do things for myself.
433
00:19:50,696 --> 00:19:53,019
Settle down. You just sent
your housekeepers on vacation.
434
00:19:53,044 --> 00:19:54,710
You're not Helen Keller.
435
00:19:54,858 --> 00:19:56,458
That's right. Because I'm a good person
436
00:19:56,483 --> 00:19:57,979
who also makes a good tuna sandwich.
437
00:19:58,004 --> 00:20:01,439
How about you're a great person
who makes a sandwich?
438
00:20:03,028 --> 00:20:05,228
Would you mind getting me
a refill of my iced tea?
439
00:20:05,253 --> 00:20:07,153
Oh, sure.
440
00:20:07,547 --> 00:20:09,547
Thank you, thank you.
441
00:20:09,571 --> 00:20:14,571
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