1 00:00:02,470 --> 00:00:03,802 - She helped me level up. 2 00:00:03,871 --> 00:00:07,239 You can't put a price on what she did for me. 3 00:00:07,308 --> 00:00:09,908 - "Hey, are you doing an episode on me right now?" 4 00:00:09,977 --> 00:00:11,944 Oh, that's Lanise? - Ooh. 5 00:00:12,013 --> 00:00:15,047 - So there's three people who are all connected to this. 6 00:00:15,116 --> 00:00:17,249 - Are there a whole ring of girls in Houston 7 00:00:17,318 --> 00:00:18,484 out to get Deonn? 8 00:00:18,552 --> 00:00:20,619 - Maybe. - You weren't in a relationship 9 00:00:20,688 --> 00:00:22,755 when you first started talking to her, were you? 10 00:00:22,823 --> 00:00:24,223 - It's a long story. 11 00:00:24,291 --> 00:00:26,492 - Deonn. - Oh, man. 12 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:27,893 - Deonn! 13 00:00:27,962 --> 00:00:29,962 ♪ ♪ 14 00:00:30,031 --> 00:00:31,230 - You know what's an underrate instrument? 15 00:00:31,298 --> 00:00:33,332 - What? - The banjo. 16 00:00:33,401 --> 00:00:36,502 Deedle-dee, do-dee, do-dee, do-dee. 17 00:00:36,570 --> 00:00:39,138 - You know how to do the Cotton-Eyed Joe? 18 00:00:39,206 --> 00:00:41,407 - This one? - Duh-neen, deen--no! 19 00:00:41,475 --> 00:00:43,208 - Wait, oh. - The Cotton-eyed Joe. 20 00:00:43,277 --> 00:00:45,544 Do-do, do-do. Do-do, do-do. Do-do, do-do. 21 00:00:45,613 --> 00:00:48,647 - Hey! - Is that how it goes? 22 00:00:48,716 --> 00:00:50,949 - Dee-dee, dee-dee, dee-dee, dee-dee, dee-dee, dee-dee, 23 00:00:51,018 --> 00:00:52,751 dee-dee, dee-dee. 24 00:00:52,820 --> 00:00:54,186 Deedle-eedle-ee. Leedle-duh-dee-dee. 25 00:00:54,255 --> 00:00:56,221 Deedle-eedle-dee. Deedle-eedle-dee-dee. 26 00:00:56,290 --> 00:00:58,223 - I think this is the Electric Slide. Whoops. 27 00:00:58,292 --> 00:01:00,726 - Yeah, right? - [laughing] 28 00:01:00,795 --> 00:01:02,461 - All right, all right, enough fiddling around. 29 00:01:02,530 --> 00:01:04,196 - Well. 30 00:01:04,265 --> 00:01:08,767 - Let's see what we got in the old email. 31 00:01:08,836 --> 00:01:10,736 "Hey, Nev and Kamie, my name is Deonn. 32 00:01:10,805 --> 00:01:13,338 "I'm 28, and I live in Houston, Texas. 33 00:01:13,407 --> 00:01:15,140 "Just a guy who works hard 34 00:01:15,209 --> 00:01:17,209 and is trying to provide for my two kids." 35 00:01:17,278 --> 00:01:19,745 - ♪ Ever since I met you ♪ 36 00:01:19,814 --> 00:01:23,582 - "Two years ago, a girl named Lanise hit me up online." 37 00:01:23,651 --> 00:01:27,286 - ♪ Running on my, running on my mind ♪ 38 00:01:27,354 --> 00:01:31,723 - "She's beautiful, to be sure, but she's not like other girls. 39 00:01:31,792 --> 00:01:37,696 "Lanise is mature and caring. She's a single parent too. 40 00:01:37,765 --> 00:01:40,599 "She's also smart and into business. 41 00:01:40,668 --> 00:01:43,402 "I liked her right away. We messaged on Instagram 42 00:01:43,471 --> 00:01:45,704 "for a bit and moved to talking and texting. 43 00:01:45,773 --> 00:01:48,140 "But when we were supposed to meet up, 44 00:01:48,209 --> 00:01:49,208 that's when things got strange." 45 00:01:49,276 --> 00:01:50,509 - Of course. 46 00:01:50,578 --> 00:01:52,211 - "We both stayed in Houston at this time, 47 00:01:52,279 --> 00:01:53,679 "so there shouldn't have been any problems. 48 00:01:53,747 --> 00:01:57,316 "But when I went to meet her, she ghosted me. 49 00:01:57,384 --> 00:01:58,750 "Finally, she sent a text 50 00:01:58,819 --> 00:02:01,453 "and said that she had to work late unexpectedly. 51 00:02:01,522 --> 00:02:03,288 "She's a single mom, so I get that it's hard. 52 00:02:03,357 --> 00:02:04,690 "I could settle for a video chat, 53 00:02:04,758 --> 00:02:06,725 "but she won't let me see her on there either. 54 00:02:06,794 --> 00:02:07,893 - ♪ Wanna try ♪ 55 00:02:07,962 --> 00:02:09,895 ♪ Let's try it if the love is there ♪ 56 00:02:09,964 --> 00:02:11,463 ♪ Why would we deny it ♪ 57 00:02:11,532 --> 00:02:14,633 "Despite all that, we still chat a lot. 58 00:02:14,702 --> 00:02:17,269 "And we just vibe. I want to meet her. 59 00:02:17,338 --> 00:02:19,304 "Recently, she moved to Dallas, 60 00:02:19,373 --> 00:02:21,140 "which is about three hours from me. 61 00:02:21,208 --> 00:02:22,808 "She wants to meet up again. 62 00:02:22,877 --> 00:02:25,944 "But I've had enough of being stood up. 63 00:02:26,013 --> 00:02:29,081 "Not sure if she's a catfish or just a flake. 64 00:02:29,150 --> 00:02:31,483 "Her excuses always make sense, 65 00:02:31,552 --> 00:02:34,987 "but I want y'all's help before I get played again. 66 00:02:35,055 --> 00:02:38,190 Thanks. Deonn." 67 00:02:38,259 --> 00:02:41,927 - Let's hit him up. 68 00:02:41,996 --> 00:02:43,328 The fact that Deonn is saying 69 00:02:43,397 --> 00:02:45,364 that he'll settle for a video chat, 70 00:02:45,432 --> 00:02:47,933 he's already settling in general. 71 00:02:48,002 --> 00:02:49,401 How many times are you gonna get ghosted 72 00:02:49,470 --> 00:02:50,702 before you give up, sir? - Right. 73 00:02:50,771 --> 00:02:53,338 - 'Cause for me, it's just once. 74 00:02:53,407 --> 00:02:55,707 - Hey. There he is. 75 00:02:55,776 --> 00:02:59,444 - Yo, yo, yo, yo, yo. - Deonn, what's up, man? 76 00:02:59,513 --> 00:03:00,712 What do you do down in Houston? 77 00:03:00,781 --> 00:03:01,947 - I do security. 78 00:03:02,016 --> 00:03:05,484 Sometimes I secure law firms, plants. 79 00:03:05,553 --> 00:03:07,085 It just depends, honestly, 80 00:03:07,154 --> 00:03:10,088 what shelf-- where they want to move you to. 81 00:03:10,157 --> 00:03:12,124 - Cool. How old are your kids? 82 00:03:12,193 --> 00:03:13,926 - Ten and five. - Wow. 83 00:03:14,895 --> 00:03:16,428 - So you're 28. -you got two kids.. 84 00:03:16,497 --> 00:03:18,430 One's ten and one's five. 85 00:03:18,499 --> 00:03:20,332 It's surprising to me, and I think Kamie too, 86 00:03:20,401 --> 00:03:22,834 that, like, at this point in your life, 87 00:03:22,903 --> 00:03:26,305 you're finding yourself in this situation-ship... 88 00:03:26,373 --> 00:03:27,439 - Mm-hmm. 89 00:03:27,508 --> 00:03:29,508 - With this girl. - Lanise. 90 00:03:29,577 --> 00:03:31,310 - Take us back to that first message. 91 00:03:31,378 --> 00:03:32,844 How did it-how'd it all go down? 92 00:03:32,913 --> 00:03:35,948 - So she messaged me. She sent me the heart eyes. 93 00:03:36,016 --> 00:03:37,416 I end up responding back. 94 00:03:37,484 --> 00:03:39,218 We started talking a little bit. 95 00:03:39,286 --> 00:03:41,453 She was just a cool girl to talk to. 96 00:03:41,522 --> 00:03:42,554 - What do you like about her? 97 00:03:42,623 --> 00:03:43,488 - First, I thought of her as, 98 00:03:43,557 --> 00:03:44,890 she just look good. 99 00:03:44,959 --> 00:03:45,991 Let's just be real. 100 00:03:46,060 --> 00:03:47,593 But then, as we, like, 101 00:03:47,661 --> 00:03:49,228 started talking and texting and stuff, 102 00:03:49,296 --> 00:03:54,032 she actually made me, like, find new hustles to make money. 103 00:03:54,101 --> 00:03:55,934 Because she actually have, like, multiple 104 00:03:56,003 --> 00:03:57,169 sources of income. 105 00:03:57,238 --> 00:03:58,737 She's an entrepreneur. 106 00:03:58,806 --> 00:04:01,740 She, like, does hair and sell lashes on the side. 107 00:04:01,809 --> 00:04:03,508 She put it in my mind to, like, you know, 108 00:04:03,577 --> 00:04:05,777 find other sources of income, you know what I'm saying? 109 00:04:05,846 --> 00:04:09,214 - You feel like she's investing in you as a person. 110 00:04:09,283 --> 00:04:10,916 - Without being with me. - Mm-hmm. 111 00:04:10,985 --> 00:04:12,184 - You see what I'm saying? - Mm-hmm. 112 00:04:12,253 --> 00:04:15,621 - And so what could you do if you were with me, 113 00:04:15,689 --> 00:04:19,258 and with the other things in life and money? 114 00:04:19,326 --> 00:04:20,759 She helped me level up. 115 00:04:20,828 --> 00:04:22,661 - So you genuinely feel like Lanise 116 00:04:22,730 --> 00:04:25,998 has made you into a better man. 117 00:04:26,066 --> 00:04:28,033 - Oh, facts. Facts. 118 00:04:28,102 --> 00:04:29,401 I'm from, like, you know, 119 00:04:29,470 --> 00:04:32,704 the very bad part of Houston, you know? 120 00:04:32,773 --> 00:04:35,607 And if I ain't in the very bad part of Houston, 121 00:04:35,676 --> 00:04:37,876 I hang around pretty much every area 122 00:04:37,945 --> 00:04:41,079 that would be probably called poverty to other people. 123 00:04:41,148 --> 00:04:43,215 When I meet Lanise, she kind of pulled me away from that. 124 00:04:43,284 --> 00:04:44,883 Like, let you know, like, 125 00:04:44,952 --> 00:04:48,553 there's other things in life than where you're from. 126 00:04:48,622 --> 00:04:50,155 It's cool to, you know what I'm saying, 127 00:04:50,224 --> 00:04:51,523 get out of your element. 128 00:04:51,592 --> 00:04:55,961 You can't put a price on what she did for me. 129 00:04:56,030 --> 00:04:59,731 It make you feel like maybe God sent you to be in my life, 130 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:01,700 you know, to help me out, you know what I'm saying? 131 00:05:01,769 --> 00:05:04,202 So when Lanise came around, 132 00:05:04,271 --> 00:05:06,538 she did something nobody could do 133 00:05:06,607 --> 00:05:09,775 for 24 years of my life. 134 00:05:09,843 --> 00:05:12,210 - Do you feel like you've ever had anyone in your life 135 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:13,845 like her before? 136 00:05:13,914 --> 00:05:17,249 - Nah. Nobody don't care enough for, like, all of that stuff. 137 00:05:17,318 --> 00:05:18,450 - That is all really nice, 138 00:05:18,519 --> 00:05:19,751 that she really seems to care for you, 139 00:05:19,820 --> 00:05:21,553 she sort of inspired you to start thinking 140 00:05:21,622 --> 00:05:23,588 about your life differently. That's cool. 141 00:05:23,657 --> 00:05:25,791 - Yeah. But have you talked to her on the phone? 142 00:05:25,859 --> 00:05:27,326 - Yes. I've talked to her on the phone, 143 00:05:27,394 --> 00:05:29,895 but when it gets time to, like, how we is--I can see 144 00:05:29,963 --> 00:05:32,731 both of y'all--she's nowhere to be found. 145 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:36,735 It's always something like, "the Wi-Fi messed up," 146 00:05:36,804 --> 00:05:39,738 "the kids got my phone." I don't know. 147 00:05:39,807 --> 00:05:41,640 - When you guys met, she was living in Houston. 148 00:05:41,709 --> 00:05:44,776 - Right. She even told me to come to her house, 149 00:05:44,845 --> 00:05:46,244 address and all. - Oh. 150 00:05:46,313 --> 00:05:49,581 - We're messaging the whole way driving there. 151 00:05:49,650 --> 00:05:52,584 Get there, nothing. She called or texted me 152 00:05:52,653 --> 00:05:54,920 like 30 minutes later, like, "I'm at work." 153 00:05:54,988 --> 00:05:57,089 She just always do the same thing. 154 00:05:57,157 --> 00:05:58,657 So I got off of it. 155 00:05:58,726 --> 00:06:01,159 We stop communicating periodically. 156 00:06:01,228 --> 00:06:03,328 - When you guys took breaks, were you dating someone else? 157 00:06:03,397 --> 00:06:06,331 I mean, I assume you're also dating in Houston, right? 158 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:10,936 - I've always been dating. But every time we stop talking, 159 00:06:11,004 --> 00:06:13,705 she's gonna find her way to come find me, 160 00:06:13,774 --> 00:06:16,608 like, no matter what, and it always instantly go to, 161 00:06:16,677 --> 00:06:18,877 "You need to leave whoever you talking to. 162 00:06:18,946 --> 00:06:20,812 Whoever you talking to, they not better than me," 163 00:06:20,881 --> 00:06:22,748 you know what I'm saying. - Wow. 164 00:06:22,816 --> 00:06:24,883 - Are you telling her that you're dating people? 165 00:06:24,952 --> 00:06:27,352 Or is she just, like, seeing it on social media? 166 00:06:27,421 --> 00:06:28,587 - Both. 167 00:06:31,892 --> 00:06:35,660 That's just me being honest. But I always date hood chicks. 168 00:06:35,729 --> 00:06:37,462 I've been in some of the craziest relationships 169 00:06:37,531 --> 00:06:39,798 you could think of. I had a girlfriend. 170 00:06:39,867 --> 00:06:44,269 She literally had a tracking device on my car. 171 00:06:44,338 --> 00:06:47,038 - So you've had your fair share of experiences with women 172 00:06:47,107 --> 00:06:50,475 that have taken a turn for the worst. 173 00:06:50,544 --> 00:06:51,843 - Yeah. 174 00:06:51,912 --> 00:06:53,612 - Do you feel like you may have contributed 175 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:57,983 to any of that chaos by doing some two-timing? 176 00:06:58,051 --> 00:07:03,155 Because this could be some crazy ex-girlfriend 177 00:07:03,223 --> 00:07:04,489 out for revenge. 178 00:07:04,558 --> 00:07:06,591 - Yes. I'm, like, playing around. 179 00:07:06,660 --> 00:07:08,093 You know, I date here and there. 180 00:07:08,162 --> 00:07:09,761 - Maybe you should keep it in your pants 181 00:07:09,830 --> 00:07:12,030 so you don't have these crazy situations. 182 00:07:12,099 --> 00:07:14,499 - You live and you learn. Like--but-- 183 00:07:14,568 --> 00:07:16,234 - You're saying you have all this drama 184 00:07:17,538 --> 00:07:20,238 Now, here you are, two years into talking to Lanise. 185 00:07:20,307 --> 00:07:22,541 She's being a little shady. She won't meet up. 186 00:07:22,609 --> 00:07:23,809 She won't video chat. 187 00:07:23,877 --> 00:07:26,344 I'm surprised that you're still pursuing her 188 00:07:26,413 --> 00:07:29,347 and letting her kind of in-in and around your life. 189 00:07:29,416 --> 00:07:32,350 [dramatic music] 190 00:07:32,419 --> 00:07:34,119 ♪ ♪ 191 00:07:34,188 --> 00:07:37,823 - I don't know. You want to get married one day, you know. 192 00:07:37,891 --> 00:07:41,226 You want to put your past life behind you. 193 00:07:41,295 --> 00:07:43,995 Like I said, I done been through some crazy stuff. 194 00:07:44,064 --> 00:07:47,732 So with Lanise, if marriage supposed to be there, you know, 195 00:07:47,801 --> 00:07:49,534 I'd probably get married. 196 00:07:49,603 --> 00:07:53,705 If not, you know, back to the drawing board. 197 00:07:53,774 --> 00:07:56,708 I-I would sure thank her, though, for what she, 198 00:07:56,777 --> 00:07:58,243 you know, have done. 199 00:07:58,312 --> 00:08:02,047 You can't really take that away, what she did for me. 200 00:08:02,115 --> 00:08:05,517 - Wait, so you've thought about marrying her. 201 00:08:05,586 --> 00:08:07,252 - I just think she a great girl. 202 00:08:07,321 --> 00:08:09,521 - Let's see. I want to see what she looks like. 203 00:08:09,590 --> 00:08:11,022 I want to see your conversation. 204 00:08:11,091 --> 00:08:12,057 I kind of just want to get a sense of... 205 00:08:12,125 --> 00:08:13,191 - Okay. 206 00:08:13,260 --> 00:08:14,860 - Who we're really talking about. 207 00:08:14,928 --> 00:08:16,428 Okay, there she is. 208 00:08:16,497 --> 00:08:18,497 - See what I'm saying? 209 00:08:18,565 --> 00:08:22,000 - Okay. Mm-hmm. 210 00:08:22,069 --> 00:08:26,204 - Show us her Instagram. There's not a lot on there. 211 00:08:26,273 --> 00:08:27,839 - Nope. 212 00:08:27,908 --> 00:08:29,107 - Has there ever been more than this, or is that it? 213 00:08:29,176 --> 00:08:31,576 - There was more pictures than that. 214 00:08:31,645 --> 00:08:33,144 - Oh, there used to be a lot. Okay. 215 00:08:33,213 --> 00:08:34,312 - Right. 216 00:08:34,381 --> 00:08:36,181 - So you and Lanise have mutual friends? 217 00:08:37,651 --> 00:08:41,786 - Yes. - Who are all these people that she follows that you follow? 218 00:08:41,855 --> 00:08:43,488 - I don't even know. 219 00:08:43,557 --> 00:08:44,689 I think we just follow each other. 220 00:08:44,758 --> 00:08:46,124 - Show us the messages. 221 00:08:46,193 --> 00:08:48,527 "Hopefully I'm the only ho you want." 222 00:08:48,595 --> 00:08:50,395 You said, "Aw, man, you crazy still. 223 00:08:50,464 --> 00:08:53,265 LOL. I be chilling out here. I don't have no hos." 224 00:08:53,333 --> 00:08:56,968 Oh, she said, "A tad bit when I need you all to myself." 225 00:08:57,037 --> 00:08:58,703 Ooh. 226 00:08:58,772 --> 00:09:00,305 - Just hope she's real, man. 227 00:09:00,374 --> 00:09:04,175 If y'all can find out, it would be a great help to me. 228 00:09:04,244 --> 00:09:06,645 - Okay. Send us what you've got. 229 00:09:06,713 --> 00:09:07,879 - I got you. 230 00:09:07,948 --> 00:09:09,247 - All right, we'll talk to you soon, bud. 231 00:09:09,316 --> 00:09:10,749 - Peace up. 232 00:09:13,921 --> 00:09:15,287 - You think it's an ex. 233 00:09:15,355 --> 00:09:16,922 - It's an ex. 1000%. 234 00:09:16,990 --> 00:09:21,459 Deonn has been admittedly a bit of a player. 235 00:09:21,528 --> 00:09:22,827 - Right. - It seems like, 236 00:09:22,896 --> 00:09:25,664 as much as he wants to stay away from the drama 237 00:09:25,732 --> 00:09:29,334 at this point in his life, he seems to kind of attract it. 238 00:09:29,403 --> 00:09:30,502 - Something's going on. 239 00:09:30,571 --> 00:09:31,870 - I'm just worried that Deonn 240 00:09:31,939 --> 00:09:34,873 is about to get a taste of his own medicine. 241 00:09:37,344 --> 00:09:40,545 - All right, we've got a live one, for sure. 242 00:09:40,614 --> 00:09:41,947 - Mm-hmm. - Right? 243 00:09:42,015 --> 00:09:44,149 Deonn has been talking to Lanise for two years. 244 00:09:45,619 --> 00:09:50,088 She shot her shot, as they say, and started it up with him. 245 00:09:50,157 --> 00:09:51,323 - Mm-hmm. 246 00:09:51,391 --> 00:09:53,124 - Things were going well. They agreed to meet up. 247 00:09:53,193 --> 00:09:56,795 Lanise invited Deonn to meet her at her apartment to go out. 248 00:09:56,863 --> 00:09:58,697 Gets there. Doesn't heat from her. 249 00:09:58,765 --> 00:10:02,000 Bails. Finally, Deonn backs off a little. 250 00:10:02,069 --> 00:10:05,604 But every time she messages him, he engages, 251 00:10:05,672 --> 00:10:07,806 and he can't say no to her. 252 00:10:07,874 --> 00:10:10,108 - And it's understandable why he can't let her go, 253 00:10:10,177 --> 00:10:12,010 because the other girls that he's dated 254 00:10:12,079 --> 00:10:13,945 haven't really measured up to her. 255 00:10:14,014 --> 00:10:16,147 - Right. All right, so let's go to his email now 256 00:10:16,216 --> 00:10:17,882 and start digging. 257 00:10:17,951 --> 00:10:20,185 "Nev and Kamie, so glad y'all are on the case. 258 00:10:20,253 --> 00:10:23,455 Here's what I have on Lanise. Her name is Lanise Rynell. 259 00:10:23,523 --> 00:10:25,523 Here's her phone number and her Instagram. 260 00:10:25,592 --> 00:10:27,559 When she stood me up that time, she gave me an address. 261 00:10:27,628 --> 00:10:30,195 It was something something something. Here are the pics." 262 00:10:30,263 --> 00:10:32,330 All right, so let's save these pics. 263 00:10:32,399 --> 00:10:37,769 All right, let's do a quick image search. 264 00:10:37,838 --> 00:10:41,773 First picture, nothing. All right, next pic. 265 00:10:41,842 --> 00:10:46,311 Negative. Nothing. 266 00:10:46,380 --> 00:10:48,013 Last one. 267 00:10:48,081 --> 00:10:51,750 All right, well no hits on the pics. 268 00:10:51,818 --> 00:10:53,251 Let's go to the Instagram. 269 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:58,023 Okay. So on her Instagram right now, there's four posts. 270 00:10:58,091 --> 00:11:02,027 Oh, she is tagged in a video posted by krazyyass.shayy. 271 00:11:02,095 --> 00:11:03,995 - That's not Lanise. - That is not Lanise. 272 00:11:04,064 --> 00:11:08,600 That must be Shay, who says, "Had so much fun this night." 273 00:11:08,669 --> 00:11:11,903 And she tagged just one person, Lanise. 274 00:11:11,972 --> 00:11:15,206 Hold on, let's see who Shay is. 275 00:11:15,275 --> 00:11:16,841 Okay, so that's definitely Shay. 276 00:11:16,910 --> 00:11:18,276 - In the video. - Right. 277 00:11:18,345 --> 00:11:21,546 So Shay posted a boomerang of herself giggling, 278 00:11:21,615 --> 00:11:22,847 and said how much fun she had, 279 00:11:22,916 --> 00:11:25,116 and tagged Lanise, which to me suggests 280 00:11:25,185 --> 00:11:26,751 that Lanise either took the boomerang 281 00:11:26,820 --> 00:11:29,287 or was certainly there that night. 282 00:11:29,356 --> 00:11:31,489 - Mm-hmm. Is that the story you're going with? 283 00:11:31,558 --> 00:11:32,757 - That's one explanation. 284 00:11:32,826 --> 00:11:34,092 - It's not the right one. 285 00:11:34,161 --> 00:11:36,995 - What, you think that Shay could be Lanise? 286 00:11:37,064 --> 00:11:39,964 - Yes! She has one tagged image, 287 00:11:40,033 --> 00:11:43,868 and it's this boomerang. Why would she tag Lanise? 288 00:11:43,937 --> 00:11:45,537 We have to message her, for sure. 289 00:11:45,605 --> 00:11:48,540 - All right. Okay. Hey, Shay. 290 00:11:48,608 --> 00:11:51,443 - Careful what you write. She could be Deonn's ex. 291 00:11:51,511 --> 00:11:55,847 - This is Nev and Kamie from "Catfish." 292 00:11:55,916 --> 00:11:59,184 Could use your help. Sent. 293 00:11:59,252 --> 00:12:04,589 All right, let's run the phone number. 294 00:12:04,658 --> 00:12:06,624 No name associated with this number. 295 00:12:06,693 --> 00:12:08,960 - Bandwidth.com. It's a text app. 296 00:12:09,029 --> 00:12:13,898 - Right. Whoa. Look at this. Houston's calling. Hello. 297 00:12:14,701 --> 00:12:17,268 - Yes. Hi. Is this Shay? 298 00:12:18,505 --> 00:12:19,671 - Hey, Shay. How you doing? 299 00:12:19,740 --> 00:12:21,406 It's Nev, and Kamie's here too. 300 00:12:21,475 --> 00:12:22,807 - Hey. 301 00:12:22,876 --> 00:12:23,908 - Thank you for getting back to me. 302 00:12:24,678 --> 00:12:26,544 - The reason I reached out was because we're working 303 00:12:26,613 --> 00:12:28,446 on an episode of "Catfish" now, 304 00:12:28,515 --> 00:12:31,182 and we're trying to help someone in Houston 305 00:12:31,251 --> 00:12:36,588 who we think might be talking to your friend Lanise. 306 00:12:36,656 --> 00:12:40,525 And we saw that she had been tagged in a video on your page. 307 00:12:40,594 --> 00:12:42,927 And we were just wondering how you know Lanise. 308 00:12:48,468 --> 00:12:49,868 - Oh. Great. 309 00:12:49,936 --> 00:12:51,202 And so do you know the video I'm talking about? 310 00:12:51,271 --> 00:12:53,938 I think it's, like, your most recent post. 311 00:12:55,275 --> 00:12:57,108 - Right. And Lanise was with you. 312 00:12:58,545 --> 00:13:00,011 - Oh. So why'd you tag her? 313 00:13:05,685 --> 00:13:08,119 - Uh-huh. Are you still pretty close with her? 314 00:13:09,689 --> 00:13:10,955 - Has she ever mentioned a guy 315 00:13:11,024 --> 00:13:13,024 that she talks to for the last few years? 316 00:13:16,530 --> 00:13:18,863 - Is Lanise single? 317 00:13:18,932 --> 00:13:21,132 - Um... 318 00:13:30,076 --> 00:13:31,709 - Yeah. Well, look, I don't want you to give us 319 00:13:31,778 --> 00:13:32,911 anything--any information 320 00:13:32,979 --> 00:13:33,978 on her you're not comfortable with. 321 00:13:34,047 --> 00:13:36,080 I have one last possible request. 322 00:13:36,149 --> 00:13:39,684 If I tell you the number that he has, 323 00:13:39,753 --> 00:13:41,052 can you just confirm 324 00:13:41,121 --> 00:13:42,821 whether or not that is the number you have? 325 00:13:43,456 --> 00:13:44,556 - Great. 326 00:13:44,624 --> 00:13:50,228 So the number he has already is 346-[bleep]. 327 00:13:52,732 --> 00:13:54,132 - Okay. 328 00:13:55,735 --> 00:13:56,968 - Oh. Okay, great. 329 00:13:57,037 --> 00:13:59,137 So that means he is talking to your friend. 330 00:13:59,206 --> 00:14:01,673 All right. Thank you, Shay. 331 00:14:01,741 --> 00:14:04,075 - Thank you. - Bye. 332 00:14:04,144 --> 00:14:07,478 [tense music] 333 00:14:07,547 --> 00:14:08,880 - No. 334 00:14:08,949 --> 00:14:12,250 - But, if Shay were Lanise, why would you tag on your real 335 00:14:12,319 --> 00:14:16,354 Instagram the fake page that you're using to catfish people? 336 00:14:16,423 --> 00:14:19,490 It's like a trail of breadcrumbs right back to you. 337 00:14:19,559 --> 00:14:21,426 So let's just assume for a second that Shay and Lanise 338 00:14:21,494 --> 00:14:23,428 are different people. - Okay. 339 00:14:23,496 --> 00:14:25,230 - Okay? Shay is friends with Lanise, 340 00:14:25,298 --> 00:14:27,465 and knows she's talking to Deonn. 341 00:14:27,534 --> 00:14:29,834 There could be something else Lanise is hiding, 342 00:14:29,903 --> 00:14:32,103 and Shay is just covering for her. 343 00:14:32,172 --> 00:14:35,206 - Unless Shay is Lanise and talking to Deonn. 344 00:14:35,275 --> 00:14:38,042 Why don't we look up the address? 345 00:14:38,111 --> 00:14:43,681 Maybe it comes back to Shay. 346 00:14:43,750 --> 00:14:46,985 Syndi. S-Y-N. 347 00:14:47,053 --> 00:14:48,686 Didn't he have a person follow him 348 00:14:48,755 --> 00:14:51,522 named Syndi with an S-Y-N also? 349 00:14:51,591 --> 00:14:54,559 She's one of the mutual friends with Lanise. 350 00:14:54,628 --> 00:14:56,594 - All right. Let's see. 351 00:14:56,663 --> 00:14:58,763 - Right there. "Syncityy." 352 00:14:58,832 --> 00:15:01,366 - Wow. 353 00:15:01,434 --> 00:15:07,105 - This Syn spells it S-Y-N, and this Syndi is S-Y-N-D-I. 354 00:15:07,173 --> 00:15:09,340 Maybe it's just a coincidence. What's that first video-- 355 00:15:09,409 --> 00:15:10,441 - Oh, wait, what's this? - Entrepreneur. 356 00:15:10,510 --> 00:15:12,577 - She's an entrepreneur. 357 00:15:12,646 --> 00:15:15,313 - We know Lanise is an entrepreneur. 358 00:15:15,382 --> 00:15:18,917 And it looks like Syn is also an entrepreneur. 359 00:15:18,985 --> 00:15:20,485 Another coincidence? 360 00:15:20,553 --> 00:15:23,621 Not so sure. So let's message Syn. 361 00:15:23,690 --> 00:15:26,524 Hey, Syn. - Mm-hmm. 362 00:15:26,593 --> 00:15:28,626 - Hi, Syn. This is Neve from "Catfish." 363 00:15:28,695 --> 00:15:31,796 Wanted to talk to you about your friend Lanise. 364 00:15:31,865 --> 00:15:33,464 Here's my info. - Mm-hmm. 365 00:15:33,533 --> 00:15:36,167 - All right. So we've now sent her a message. 366 00:15:36,236 --> 00:15:38,803 - I'm taking the official stance. 367 00:15:38,872 --> 00:15:40,171 Deonn is getting catfished. 368 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:42,607 There's no way in hell 369 00:15:42,676 --> 00:15:46,177 this Lanise person is who he thinks it is. 370 00:15:46,246 --> 00:15:48,212 Are there a whole ring of girls in Houston 371 00:15:48,281 --> 00:15:49,814 that are out to get Deonn? 372 00:15:49,883 --> 00:15:51,382 Like, who did he [bleep] over? 373 00:15:51,451 --> 00:15:52,383 - I mean, maybe. 374 00:15:52,452 --> 00:15:54,452 - Request. We have a request. Request. 375 00:15:54,521 --> 00:15:55,987 - Oh, request. 376 00:15:56,056 --> 00:15:58,690 "Hey, are you doing an episode on me right now? 377 00:15:58,758 --> 00:16:00,491 Can we talk?" 378 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:04,462 Who is this? Oh! That's Lanise. 379 00:16:04,531 --> 00:16:05,897 - Ooh! 380 00:16:05,966 --> 00:16:07,532 - That's the actual girl in the pictures. 381 00:16:07,600 --> 00:16:11,102 - Ooh. - What the hell is going on? 382 00:16:12,038 --> 00:16:13,738 - "Can we talk?" Who is this? 383 00:16:13,807 --> 00:16:16,507 Oh! That's the girl. 384 00:16:16,576 --> 00:16:17,809 - Ooh! 385 00:16:17,877 --> 00:16:20,445 - That's the actual girl in the pictures. 386 00:16:20,513 --> 00:16:22,847 - That's not the profile Deonn's been talking to. 387 00:16:22,916 --> 00:16:25,683 - She goes by Lala. - Not Lanise. 388 00:16:25,752 --> 00:16:27,485 - But here, this is the pic. - Mm-hmm. 389 00:16:27,554 --> 00:16:28,753 - That's the one. 390 00:16:28,822 --> 00:16:30,922 That-that's the pic on Lanise's page. 391 00:16:30,991 --> 00:16:32,991 - Mm-hmm. - How did this girl find out 392 00:16:33,059 --> 00:16:36,728 we were doing an episode that involved that picture? 393 00:16:36,796 --> 00:16:38,162 Only explanation for her 394 00:16:38,231 --> 00:16:43,801 reaching out to me is that she's friends with Shay. 395 00:16:43,870 --> 00:16:45,436 - Or Syn. 396 00:16:45,505 --> 00:16:49,440 We sent a message to Syn too. We got to talk to her. 397 00:16:49,509 --> 00:16:51,376 - "Hey." - "Can you Zoom?" 398 00:16:51,444 --> 00:16:57,448 - "Can you Zoom, so we can figure this out?" 399 00:16:58,118 --> 00:17:03,788 Oh, she said yes. Yes. Oh. Wait, is this her? 400 00:17:03,857 --> 00:17:05,623 - She's calling on Instagram. 401 00:17:05,692 --> 00:17:08,359 - Hello. Hey. 402 00:17:08,428 --> 00:17:10,928 Is Zoom doable, or is this the best way? 403 00:17:13,266 --> 00:17:15,299 - Okay. So hey, I'm Nev, and this is Kamie. 404 00:17:15,368 --> 00:17:16,334 - Hi. 405 00:17:17,504 --> 00:17:19,437 - Okay, so-- and what's your name? 406 00:17:20,974 --> 00:17:23,941 - Leetreon. But you go by Lala on Instagram. 407 00:17:24,677 --> 00:17:26,144 - Okay, cool. 408 00:17:26,212 --> 00:17:30,081 So how did you find out that we were doing an episode, 409 00:17:30,150 --> 00:17:32,116 and that you were involved? 410 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:35,453 - Someone, like, hit you up on Instagram? 411 00:17:36,456 --> 00:17:37,855 - What was her name? 412 00:17:38,925 --> 00:17:40,258 - Like, S-Y-N? 413 00:17:41,494 --> 00:17:43,394 - Basically, it said something like what? 414 00:17:52,672 --> 00:17:53,971 - Got it. Okay. 415 00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:58,242 So do you know a guy named Deonn, 416 00:17:58,311 --> 00:18:00,478 who lives in Texas? Houston? 417 00:18:02,348 --> 00:18:05,216 - So someone has been talking to this guy 418 00:18:05,285 --> 00:18:07,752 and sending him these pictures, 419 00:18:07,821 --> 00:18:09,120 and saying that that's who they are, 420 00:18:09,189 --> 00:18:11,089 but that's obviously you, right? 421 00:18:13,726 --> 00:18:16,461 - Have you had people use your pictures before? 422 00:18:21,468 --> 00:18:23,301 Is this the person that messaged you? 423 00:18:26,539 --> 00:18:28,973 - Okay. And then what about this person? 424 00:18:29,042 --> 00:18:31,609 Do you know this person, Shay? 425 00:18:34,247 --> 00:18:35,079 - Okay. 426 00:18:35,148 --> 00:18:36,447 - Weird. - All right. 427 00:18:36,516 --> 00:18:37,915 Well, we're not sure exactly what's going on, 428 00:18:37,984 --> 00:18:40,718 and it looks like someone is using your pictures 429 00:18:40,787 --> 00:18:42,086 to catfish this guy. 430 00:18:42,155 --> 00:18:43,488 But we're gonna hopefully try to figure out 431 00:18:43,556 --> 00:18:46,023 who this person is and get them to stop. 432 00:18:47,660 --> 00:18:49,660 - It was nice to meet you. - Thank you. 433 00:18:49,729 --> 00:18:51,963 - Bye. 434 00:18:52,031 --> 00:18:53,498 - Okay. 435 00:18:53,566 --> 00:18:57,001 Well, I feel pretty confident that she's not Lanise. 436 00:18:57,070 --> 00:19:00,037 - Does Syn follow her? Syn follows her. 437 00:19:00,106 --> 00:19:02,006 And she follows Syn! 438 00:19:02,075 --> 00:19:03,608 - Who, Lala? - Yes! 439 00:19:03,676 --> 00:19:04,709 - She might just follow Syn 440 00:19:04,777 --> 00:19:05,943 and not even have any idea. 441 00:19:06,012 --> 00:19:07,545 Follow for follow. 442 00:19:07,614 --> 00:19:10,481 - Could it be--'cause listen, girls do this sometimes. 443 00:19:10,550 --> 00:19:12,083 I'm not saying me. 444 00:19:12,152 --> 00:19:14,919 But sometimes girls link up and make a fake page 445 00:19:14,988 --> 00:19:16,954 so they can snoop and do things, you know-- 446 00:19:17,023 --> 00:19:18,556 - Sure. 447 00:19:18,625 --> 00:19:22,960 - Could Lanise be a page that Syn and Lala created together, 448 00:19:23,029 --> 00:19:26,464 that they've been using to talk to people or dig for dirt? 449 00:19:26,533 --> 00:19:31,369 - Right. But then why would they use Lala's real picture? 450 00:19:31,437 --> 00:19:35,806 We've got Shay, who claims that Lanise is very real. 451 00:19:35,875 --> 00:19:37,141 - Mm-hmm. 452 00:19:37,210 --> 00:19:40,077 - Now, we've talked to Lala... - Mm-hmm. 453 00:19:40,146 --> 00:19:41,279 - Who is the girl in the pictures 454 00:19:41,347 --> 00:19:43,481 that Deonn thought was Lanise, 455 00:19:43,550 --> 00:19:47,385 but follows and is followed by Syn. 456 00:19:47,453 --> 00:19:51,088 - Mm-hmm. And Syd follows... - Right. 457 00:19:51,157 --> 00:19:53,291 - Lanise and Deonn. - Right. 458 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:55,226 - And has her own company. She's an entrepreneur. 459 00:19:55,295 --> 00:19:58,396 - Right. So there's three people 460 00:19:58,464 --> 00:20:00,731 who are all somehow connected to this. 461 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:02,667 - And bad bitches link up. 462 00:20:02,735 --> 00:20:07,638 - I think there's a chance that Deonn's philandering 463 00:20:07,707 --> 00:20:10,441 might finally be coming back to haunt him. 464 00:20:16,783 --> 00:20:18,316 And look who showed up to work. Come over here. 465 00:20:18,384 --> 00:20:19,917 - Biggie. - Look at this little guy. 466 00:20:19,986 --> 00:20:23,721 Hey. Biggie came to the office today. You sweet little man. 467 00:20:23,790 --> 00:20:26,157 - Biggie's on the case. 468 00:20:26,226 --> 00:20:30,094 - All right, so what do we got? Yesterday was confusing. 469 00:20:30,163 --> 00:20:34,131 - I think Shay and Syn are working together. 470 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:35,967 Some [bleep] going down, 471 00:20:36,035 --> 00:20:37,668 and it's between the two of them. 472 00:20:37,737 --> 00:20:41,739 - Well, the real question will be does Deonn know these girls? 473 00:20:41,808 --> 00:20:46,477 So let's get Deonn back in this Zoom. 474 00:20:46,546 --> 00:20:49,413 ♪ ♪ 475 00:20:49,482 --> 00:20:51,949 - What's going on? - How you doing? 476 00:20:52,018 --> 00:20:53,317 - Just chilling, really. 477 00:20:53,386 --> 00:20:55,453 - You been talking to Lanise at all? 478 00:20:55,521 --> 00:20:58,289 - She hasn't texted me at all. 479 00:20:58,358 --> 00:20:59,824 - When was the last time you talked to her? 480 00:20:59,892 --> 00:21:01,359 - Earlier yesterday. 481 00:21:01,427 --> 00:21:03,694 - All right, well, look, we did some research yesterday. 482 00:21:03,763 --> 00:21:08,432 We found some very interesting but also confusing information. 483 00:21:08,501 --> 00:21:12,236 - Let's see who this is. Let's see what it's about. 484 00:21:12,305 --> 00:21:14,405 - All right, so I'm gonna share my screen. 485 00:21:14,474 --> 00:21:18,242 All right. So you sent us Lanise's Instagram account. 486 00:21:18,311 --> 00:21:21,779 Interestingly, when we go to Lanise's tagged photos, 487 00:21:21,848 --> 00:21:23,848 it's actually someone else. 488 00:21:23,916 --> 00:21:25,783 Like, do you know who that is? 489 00:21:25,852 --> 00:21:27,518 - No. 490 00:21:27,587 --> 00:21:31,622 - Well, this was posted by someone named krazyyass.shayy. 491 00:21:31,691 --> 00:21:34,558 And she said, "Lanise, she's my friend. 492 00:21:34,627 --> 00:21:37,595 That's her profile. She's very real." 493 00:21:37,664 --> 00:21:39,163 - Okay. 494 00:21:39,232 --> 00:21:40,631 - Now, here's the really weird part, okay? 495 00:21:40,700 --> 00:21:43,367 We ran the address that you went to. 496 00:21:43,436 --> 00:21:48,105 It came back Syndi [bleep]. Does that ring any bells? 497 00:21:48,174 --> 00:21:49,807 - Nah. 498 00:21:49,876 --> 00:21:53,177 - So because the name Syndi came back with an S-Y-N, 499 00:21:53,246 --> 00:21:55,513 I remembered that you had a follower named Syn, 500 00:21:55,581 --> 00:21:59,250 also with an S-Y-N. Syndi, Syn. 501 00:21:59,319 --> 00:22:02,219 Syn was somebody was another mutual follower 502 00:22:02,288 --> 00:22:05,356 that you follow, follows you, and follows Lanise. 503 00:22:05,425 --> 00:22:08,526 - Right. So you know who this is? 504 00:22:08,594 --> 00:22:12,296 - No. Definitely not. We just follow each other. 505 00:22:12,365 --> 00:22:14,398 - She's actually an entrepreneur. 506 00:22:14,467 --> 00:22:16,133 Lanise is supposed to be an entrepreneur. 507 00:22:16,202 --> 00:22:19,337 She's putting you on to really great business opportunities. 508 00:22:19,405 --> 00:22:22,673 Could Syn be Lanise? 509 00:22:24,811 --> 00:22:25,810 I don't know. 510 00:22:25,878 --> 00:22:28,612 Has this girl ever hit you up before? 511 00:22:28,681 --> 00:22:31,782 - Nah. Uh-uh. I don't think so. 512 00:22:31,851 --> 00:22:33,184 - Now, here's what got crazy. 513 00:22:33,252 --> 00:22:35,486 All of a sudden I get a DM, in Instagram, 514 00:22:35,555 --> 00:22:38,322 from someone I don't know. And look, it says, 515 00:22:38,391 --> 00:22:41,325 "Hey, are you guys doing an episode on me right now? 516 00:22:41,394 --> 00:22:44,795 Can we talk?" So we get this girl on video. 517 00:22:44,864 --> 00:22:49,767 And look who it is. 518 00:22:49,836 --> 00:22:52,370 It's Lanise. 519 00:22:53,106 --> 00:22:54,472 - Ah! 520 00:22:55,074 --> 00:22:59,643 - But on this profile, she calls herself Lala. 521 00:22:59,712 --> 00:23:04,482 Her name is Leetreon, not Lanise. 522 00:23:04,550 --> 00:23:06,684 - ♪ Whoa-oh-oh-oh ♪ 523 00:23:06,753 --> 00:23:08,018 - I asked her, "How did you know 524 00:23:08,087 --> 00:23:09,420 we were doing this episode?" 525 00:23:09,489 --> 00:23:12,556 She said, "Oh, some girl named Syn messaged me." 526 00:23:12,625 --> 00:23:15,259 So basically what we found out from her is that the girl 527 00:23:15,328 --> 00:23:17,194 in the pictures that you've been looking at 528 00:23:17,263 --> 00:23:19,096 is not the girl you're talking to. 529 00:23:19,165 --> 00:23:23,000 - ♪ Bags for eyes ♪ 530 00:23:23,069 --> 00:23:27,171 ♪ You must be so tired ♪ 531 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:31,075 ♪ Better lie ♪ 532 00:23:31,144 --> 00:23:35,279 ♪ You got so much to hide ♪ 533 00:23:35,348 --> 00:23:37,415 ♪ Paralyzed ♪ 534 00:23:37,483 --> 00:23:40,684 - So--so who is it, then? Like, if that's-- 535 00:23:40,753 --> 00:23:44,188 - Who is behind all of this? The whole thing is so bizarre. 536 00:23:44,257 --> 00:23:48,325 - ♪ 'Cause I'm the king of secrets, king of secrets ♪ 537 00:23:48,394 --> 00:23:52,430 - Oh, man. This is crazy. 538 00:23:53,833 --> 00:23:55,065 - We're at a point now where we know enough 539 00:23:55,134 --> 00:23:58,169 to determine that Lanise has been lying to you. 540 00:23:58,237 --> 00:24:00,371 - Yeah, it do feel that way. Definitely. 541 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:02,173 - Now, maybe she's just lying about the photos. 542 00:24:02,241 --> 00:24:04,175 Maybe she's lying about more than that. 543 00:24:04,243 --> 00:24:05,576 - Yeah. Right. 544 00:24:05,645 --> 00:24:07,211 - I think at the very least, we know that the girl 545 00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:09,513 in the pictures is not who you're talking to. 546 00:24:09,582 --> 00:24:10,848 Now, that doesn't necessarily mean that she's not 547 00:24:10,917 --> 00:24:12,116 somehow involved. 548 00:24:12,185 --> 00:24:13,751 - There's just something very off 549 00:24:13,820 --> 00:24:15,986 about this whole situation. 550 00:24:16,055 --> 00:24:17,955 I mean, how do you feel about everything? 551 00:24:18,024 --> 00:24:20,090 - This is so crazy. 552 00:24:20,159 --> 00:24:22,927 Whoever this person is, we got to find this out. 553 00:24:22,995 --> 00:24:24,595 - I think at this point, we need to reach out 554 00:24:24,664 --> 00:24:27,798 to Lanise, then, and just say, "Hey, here's what's up. 555 00:24:27,867 --> 00:24:30,334 "We're trying to get you to finally FaceTime. 556 00:24:30,403 --> 00:24:32,937 Can you do it?" And just see what she says. 557 00:24:33,005 --> 00:24:34,839 - I think you should do it. 558 00:24:34,907 --> 00:24:37,708 [dramatic music] 559 00:24:37,777 --> 00:24:39,210 - So share your screen, 560 00:24:39,278 --> 00:24:42,346 and we'll all kind of work on the message together. 561 00:24:42,415 --> 00:24:46,750 - "Can we Zoom with you?" 562 00:24:46,819 --> 00:24:48,118 - Oh, okay, he sent it. - Yeah. 563 00:24:48,187 --> 00:24:50,287 - Say, "I want to see you." Heart eyes. 564 00:24:50,356 --> 00:24:53,224 - I don't know if I want to send some heart eyes right now. 565 00:24:53,292 --> 00:24:55,059 We ain't doing too much heart eyes. 566 00:24:55,127 --> 00:24:58,062 - We have to play the role. 567 00:24:58,130 --> 00:25:00,364 Sometimes, to get people to come forward, we have to... 568 00:25:00,433 --> 00:25:01,899 - Oh, he sent the heart eyes. See, he-he knows. 569 00:25:01,968 --> 00:25:03,300 - Massage it. 570 00:25:03,369 --> 00:25:07,771 - Hey, look, Deonn knows how to butter a girl up. 571 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:09,206 - What? She wrote back. 572 00:25:09,275 --> 00:25:12,042 "I'll video chat you. Are you single now?" 573 00:25:12,111 --> 00:25:13,878 - Why would she say that? 574 00:25:13,946 --> 00:25:17,615 - Man. [laughs] 575 00:25:17,683 --> 00:25:19,650 That's so childish. 576 00:25:19,719 --> 00:25:20,951 - You've been single. - Well, hold on a second. 577 00:25:21,020 --> 00:25:22,286 Hold on. Okay, okay, okay, okay. 578 00:25:22,355 --> 00:25:25,656 So-so just say, "Great. Yeah, I'm single." 579 00:25:25,725 --> 00:25:26,857 Right? Just-just-- 580 00:25:26,926 --> 00:25:28,192 - He's been single this whole time. 581 00:25:28,261 --> 00:25:30,261 - Or, "Still-still single." Yeah. 582 00:25:30,329 --> 00:25:34,198 - "Still single. How about you?" Is she not? 583 00:25:34,267 --> 00:25:36,033 - Well, we don't want to start asking questions in text. 584 00:25:36,102 --> 00:25:37,301 She said yes to video chat. - Yeah. 585 00:25:37,370 --> 00:25:39,003 - So just say, "Great. Yeah, still single." 586 00:25:39,071 --> 00:25:41,939 And then a new sentence: "Here's the Zoom." 587 00:25:42,008 --> 00:25:43,073 - Okay. 588 00:25:43,142 --> 00:25:44,875 - What does she mean? 589 00:25:44,944 --> 00:25:47,144 "Are you single now?" 590 00:25:47,213 --> 00:25:48,412 You weren't in a relationship 591 00:25:48,481 --> 00:25:50,915 when you first started talking to her, were you? 592 00:25:50,983 --> 00:25:54,084 - It's a long story. It's a long story. 593 00:25:54,153 --> 00:25:57,254 - Deonn. Were you single? 594 00:25:57,323 --> 00:26:00,491 - Nah, I wasn't single. Like, nah, I wasn't single. 595 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:01,959 - So--oh. 596 00:26:02,028 --> 00:26:05,362 "So you moved out with your girlfriend already?" 597 00:26:05,431 --> 00:26:07,565 Wow, she's getting into it. - Yeah. Okay. 598 00:26:07,633 --> 00:26:09,066 - Wait, so when you met, 599 00:26:09,135 --> 00:26:11,335 did you tell her you were living with your girlfriend? 600 00:26:11,404 --> 00:26:14,204 - Yes. But--no, I was not living with my girlfriend. 601 00:26:14,273 --> 00:26:17,575 I was, like, I don't know what you'd call it--back and forth. 602 00:26:17,643 --> 00:26:19,009 - Deonn. - Same... 603 00:26:19,078 --> 00:26:21,278 - The past is the past. - Is it? 604 00:26:21,347 --> 00:26:23,547 Who were you living with when you were talking to Lanise? 605 00:26:23,616 --> 00:26:24,782 - His ex. 606 00:26:24,850 --> 00:26:26,183 - Okay, when I first met Lanise, 607 00:26:26,252 --> 00:26:27,651 truthfully-- this is God's honest truth. 608 00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:30,721 When I first met Lanise, I was back and forth, right? 609 00:26:30,790 --> 00:26:33,924 And she was not even my girlfriend yet, truthfully. 610 00:26:33,993 --> 00:26:35,259 She was not even my girlfriend. 611 00:26:35,328 --> 00:26:37,127 - Deonn, what's this girl's name? 612 00:26:37,196 --> 00:26:39,229 - Oh, her name is Shanice. 613 00:26:39,298 --> 00:26:41,532 - This girl's name was Shanice. - Yes. 614 00:26:41,601 --> 00:26:45,769 - And the girl you're talking to's name is Lanise. 615 00:26:45,838 --> 00:26:48,372 And you don't see the correlation. 616 00:26:48,441 --> 00:26:50,674 - We don't call her that, though. We call her Tinky. 617 00:26:50,743 --> 00:26:52,610 Like, everybody call her Tinky. 618 00:26:52,678 --> 00:26:57,414 - So while you were talking to this girl, Shanice, 619 00:26:57,483 --> 00:27:00,451 all of a sudden you get a DM from a girl named Lanise. 620 00:27:00,519 --> 00:27:03,621 Is it possible that Tinky... - Mm-hmm. 621 00:27:03,689 --> 00:27:07,658 - Wanted more from you, may have set this Lanise page up 622 00:27:07,727 --> 00:27:09,259 to kind of distract you 623 00:27:09,328 --> 00:27:12,896 and get some info on you and kind of wrap you up? 624 00:27:12,965 --> 00:27:14,264 - Man. 625 00:27:14,333 --> 00:27:16,567 - When was the last time you talked to Tinky? 626 00:27:16,636 --> 00:27:20,337 - I talked to Tiny yes-- - Yesterday? 627 00:27:20,406 --> 00:27:21,639 - Yeah. - Morning? 628 00:27:21,707 --> 00:27:24,441 Around the time when you talked to Lanise? 629 00:27:24,510 --> 00:27:27,511 - Like, 9:33 a.m. - Here's a better question. 630 00:27:27,580 --> 00:27:29,713 When was the last time... - Wait a second. Well, wait-- 631 00:27:29,782 --> 00:27:30,914 - You hooked up with Tinky? 632 00:27:30,983 --> 00:27:32,483 - Okay. 633 00:27:32,551 --> 00:27:35,352 ♪ ♪ 634 00:27:35,421 --> 00:27:39,023 - Probably, like, last-- - Oh. 635 00:27:39,091 --> 00:27:40,958 - Hey. How are y'all? 636 00:27:41,027 --> 00:27:44,395 - Oh, my God. It's Shanice. 637 00:27:44,463 --> 00:27:46,797 both: Shanice! 638 00:27:46,866 --> 00:27:50,367 - What? Wait, what? 639 00:27:50,436 --> 00:27:53,871 - AKA Tinky. - Yeah, Tinky Pinky. 640 00:27:53,939 --> 00:27:58,842 - Come on, now. We--no, no, no, no. Hell, no. 641 00:27:58,911 --> 00:28:01,445 - You mean, you, you, you, you. 642 00:28:01,514 --> 00:28:03,747 - What are you doing? That's so lame. 643 00:28:03,816 --> 00:28:06,050 - I know, it's very lame that people look for people 644 00:28:06,118 --> 00:28:07,851 on the internet that they don't know, 645 00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:09,353 send them text messages, pictures, 646 00:28:09,422 --> 00:28:11,088 call them, video chats. 647 00:28:11,157 --> 00:28:13,891 And just, oh, they're having their time of your life, I bet. 648 00:28:13,959 --> 00:28:15,959 And didn't you just tell the girl you still single? 649 00:28:16,028 --> 00:28:16,927 - No. - You want to be single? 650 00:28:16,996 --> 00:28:18,529 - No. What are you doing? 651 00:28:18,597 --> 00:28:20,597 - You wanted to meet a woman you don't know 652 00:28:20,666 --> 00:28:23,133 while you got a girlfriend that you been with. 653 00:28:23,202 --> 00:28:25,569 - A girlfriend? - Yeah, I'm his fiancée. 654 00:28:25,638 --> 00:28:29,506 - Ahh! What? Deonn! 655 00:28:31,911 --> 00:28:33,143 - You wanted to meet a woman you don't know 656 00:28:33,212 --> 00:28:35,279 while you got a girlfriend that you been with, 657 00:28:35,347 --> 00:28:36,980 that you say you want to marry. 658 00:28:37,049 --> 00:28:40,184 - A girlfriend? - Yeah, I'm his fiancée. 659 00:28:40,252 --> 00:28:42,419 - Ahh! 660 00:28:42,488 --> 00:28:46,490 - What? - What? Deonn! 661 00:28:46,559 --> 00:28:48,058 - Marry? What--how you gonna marry somebody 662 00:28:48,127 --> 00:28:50,060 that do stuff like this-- what are you talking about? 663 00:28:50,129 --> 00:28:52,396 Like, that's what I be--why do I be running into, 664 00:28:52,465 --> 00:28:55,132 like--y'all be crazy, girl. 665 00:28:55,201 --> 00:28:57,401 - You could be babysitting, but instead you're sitting here 666 00:28:57,470 --> 00:29:00,504 trying to meet somebody from the internet, from Instagram. 667 00:29:00,573 --> 00:29:01,672 How many other people 668 00:29:01,741 --> 00:29:03,040 have you met off Instagram, Deonn? 669 00:29:03,109 --> 00:29:04,374 You're a dog. 670 00:29:04,443 --> 00:29:06,543 - Do you guys live together? - No. 671 00:29:06,612 --> 00:29:08,679 - Shanice, how long have you guys been dating? 672 00:29:08,748 --> 00:29:10,647 - This is gonna be three years. 673 00:29:12,518 --> 00:29:15,753 - No, we be off and on, like. 674 00:29:15,821 --> 00:29:20,624 - But you're on right now. Technically. 675 00:29:20,693 --> 00:29:22,392 - Technically, right? - Yes. 676 00:29:22,461 --> 00:29:23,927 - Oh, boy. 677 00:29:23,996 --> 00:29:26,663 - Yes. We both talked about, like, getting married. 678 00:29:26,732 --> 00:29:28,766 - How often do we talk about getting married? 679 00:29:28,834 --> 00:29:30,000 - So you-you don't want to marry me? 680 00:29:30,069 --> 00:29:31,034 Is that what you're saying? 681 00:29:31,103 --> 00:29:32,870 - I'm not saying I wouldn't marry you, 682 00:29:32,938 --> 00:29:34,872 but I'm saying we don't talk about this--like, 683 00:29:34,940 --> 00:29:38,375 this ain't no prime conversation? 684 00:29:38,444 --> 00:29:40,644 - Deonn, we ain't here to homewreck. 685 00:29:40,713 --> 00:29:42,646 How you drag us in your [bleep]? 686 00:29:42,715 --> 00:29:45,516 The fact that you never mentioned Shanice to us 687 00:29:45,584 --> 00:29:46,650 is crazy to me. 688 00:29:46,719 --> 00:29:49,486 - It's a problem. That's a problem. 689 00:29:49,555 --> 00:29:52,322 That's a problem. Like, I'm-I'm a ghost. 690 00:29:52,391 --> 00:29:54,691 - She be crazy. 691 00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:59,263 - I mean, the craziest thing is that she still talks to you. 692 00:29:59,331 --> 00:30:01,131 Well, wait a second. So just to see 693 00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:03,801 how he would respond to a girl flirting to him, 694 00:30:03,869 --> 00:30:06,436 you sent him that message as Lanise. 695 00:30:06,505 --> 00:30:07,805 - Yes. 696 00:30:07,873 --> 00:30:09,740 - And when he responded and indicated 697 00:30:09,809 --> 00:30:13,076 that he would talk to her, why didn't you then just say, 698 00:30:13,145 --> 00:30:16,046 "Well, I guess he's not gonna be loyal" and move on? 699 00:30:16,115 --> 00:30:19,583 - Because I want him to waste his gas and pull up on places, 700 00:30:19,652 --> 00:30:21,385 just so he can make a fool out his self, 701 00:30:21,453 --> 00:30:23,287 'cause he's making a fool out of me. 702 00:30:23,355 --> 00:30:24,688 - For two years? 703 00:30:24,757 --> 00:30:28,458 - What the [bleep] are you talking about, girl? 704 00:30:28,527 --> 00:30:30,227 Come on, Shanice. 705 00:30:30,296 --> 00:30:31,662 - He flirt with so many women. 706 00:30:31,730 --> 00:30:34,665 I've seen him say some of the most craziest stuff. 707 00:30:38,604 --> 00:30:40,537 - [laughs] 708 00:30:40,606 --> 00:30:42,339 Have you had the twister turcolater? 709 00:30:42,408 --> 00:30:43,473 - I definitely have had the triple 710 00:30:43,542 --> 00:30:45,108 trip--it's a real thing. 711 00:30:45,177 --> 00:30:46,810 [trilling] 712 00:30:46,879 --> 00:30:49,379 [laughter] 713 00:30:49,448 --> 00:30:51,448 - Oh, my God. 714 00:30:51,517 --> 00:30:52,883 - And he delete his messages. 715 00:30:52,952 --> 00:30:55,085 Look at them, just sitting down there looking. 716 00:30:55,154 --> 00:30:58,021 "Yeah. Yeah, I do delete my messages." 717 00:30:58,090 --> 00:31:00,824 - [laughing] 718 00:31:00,893 --> 00:31:02,459 Do you know the girl Lala, 719 00:31:02,528 --> 00:31:04,595 the real girl in the pictures that you were using for Deonn? 720 00:31:04,663 --> 00:31:06,163 - Yeah, I met her on Facebook. She doesn't--she 721 00:31:06,232 --> 00:31:08,732 shouldn't--she doesn't know anything about this, like. 722 00:31:08,801 --> 00:31:10,667 - Well, she knows about it. 723 00:31:10,736 --> 00:31:12,135 - Well, she knows about it now. 724 00:31:12,204 --> 00:31:13,637 - She reached out to us, 725 00:31:13,706 --> 00:31:18,308 because she said she was reached out to by Syn. 726 00:31:18,377 --> 00:31:20,210 - Do you know who Syn is? 727 00:31:20,279 --> 00:31:22,246 - That's a girl that I believe one of my other friends 728 00:31:22,314 --> 00:31:23,847 has run a page with me. 729 00:31:23,916 --> 00:31:25,649 She's somebody that they know. 730 00:31:25,718 --> 00:31:27,784 - Who's running the page with you? 731 00:31:27,853 --> 00:31:29,653 - Oh, it's three other women. 732 00:31:29,722 --> 00:31:31,154 - Oh. - What? 733 00:31:31,223 --> 00:31:32,856 - That's what I was talking about. 734 00:31:32,925 --> 00:31:36,526 - On the Lanise page? - A lurking account. 735 00:31:36,595 --> 00:31:41,732 Shanice, who else is running the account with you? Shay? 736 00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,801 - Shay is one of them. I have a friend named Kay. 737 00:31:44,870 --> 00:31:47,104 And [bleep]. And then me. I'm number four. 738 00:31:47,172 --> 00:31:48,338 - Okay. 739 00:31:48,407 --> 00:31:49,840 - So there's four people. 740 00:31:49,909 --> 00:31:51,842 - And they're all using it separately to talk 741 00:31:51,911 --> 00:31:54,878 to other--potentially to talk to their boyfriends... 742 00:31:54,947 --> 00:31:56,179 - Or watch. Or watch. - And keep an eye on them. 743 00:31:56,248 --> 00:31:57,848 Right. - Mm-hmm. 744 00:31:57,917 --> 00:32:00,284 - But none of them have been talking to Deonn. Only you. 745 00:32:00,352 --> 00:32:03,153 - Oh, no. That's--he's mine. - Right. Okay. 746 00:32:03,222 --> 00:32:05,088 - You were talking on the phone to him. 747 00:32:05,157 --> 00:32:06,957 Was that you on the phone talking to him, 748 00:32:07,026 --> 00:32:07,991 or was that one of your friends? 749 00:32:08,060 --> 00:32:11,361 - Yes, I always change my voice. 750 00:32:11,430 --> 00:32:12,996 - What--y'all not listening to this? 751 00:32:13,065 --> 00:32:16,800 Like, y'all don't hear this? Like, that's crazy, bro. 752 00:32:16,869 --> 00:32:21,538 Like, she is crazy. Do you not see that? 753 00:32:21,607 --> 00:32:23,206 - Deonn, you didn't think that 754 00:32:23,275 --> 00:32:26,810 when you met a girl named Lanise, that was... 755 00:32:26,879 --> 00:32:28,645 - Nah, like-- - A little weird? 756 00:32:28,714 --> 00:32:30,480 - I just don't even, like-- 757 00:32:30,549 --> 00:32:31,815 - The math wasn't mathing? 758 00:32:31,884 --> 00:32:32,683 - You wouldn't even think--like, come on. 759 00:32:32,751 --> 00:32:34,885 Like, this--like-- 760 00:32:34,954 --> 00:32:36,887 - They stupid. And that's my point. 761 00:32:36,956 --> 00:32:40,924 It's very amusing that somebody can be so stupid. 762 00:32:40,993 --> 00:32:44,294 - Shanice, you were actually building him up 763 00:32:44,363 --> 00:32:46,997 and making him feel really, really good as Lanise. 764 00:32:47,066 --> 00:32:48,532 Like, he feels like he's changed 765 00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:51,168 and become a better man because of this relationship. 766 00:32:51,236 --> 00:32:54,338 Like, how were you getting back if you're just building him up 767 00:32:54,406 --> 00:32:57,274 to go outside and have more confidence with other bitches? 768 00:32:57,343 --> 00:32:59,009 - Because--'cause it's me. 769 00:32:59,078 --> 00:33:01,845 Nobody else is gonna be able to get him to talk like that. 770 00:33:01,914 --> 00:33:03,780 Everybody else is nasty. 771 00:33:03,849 --> 00:33:05,349 See, this is a different conversation, 772 00:33:05,417 --> 00:33:08,051 because it's still me. You get what I'm saying? 773 00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:11,388 - We're obviously learning a lot about, well, you both. 774 00:33:11,457 --> 00:33:15,158 But Deonn, you hadn't mentioned to us that you were 775 00:33:15,227 --> 00:33:18,762 in a relationship. If you had told us, 776 00:33:18,831 --> 00:33:22,399 I don't know that we would have helped you. 777 00:33:22,468 --> 00:33:24,634 What if Lanise had been real, 778 00:33:24,703 --> 00:33:25,936 and she finally wanted to meet up with you? 779 00:33:26,005 --> 00:33:28,972 What-what was the plan? 780 00:33:29,041 --> 00:33:31,775 - I don't-I don't know no more. I don't know. 781 00:33:31,844 --> 00:33:33,310 Man, this [bleep] crazy. 782 00:33:33,379 --> 00:33:36,513 Like, we be around each other, so you could have just, 783 00:33:36,582 --> 00:33:39,316 like--you could have just been like, 784 00:33:39,385 --> 00:33:43,120 "Hey, whatever you doing, 785 00:33:43,188 --> 00:33:45,589 "I don't like it. 786 00:33:45,657 --> 00:33:47,391 Stop," whatever. 787 00:33:47,459 --> 00:33:48,859 Like, but you brought m--like, 788 00:33:48,927 --> 00:33:50,694 I don't know. [mumbles indistinctly] 789 00:33:50,763 --> 00:33:53,864 - His mind is flawed with his infidelity. 790 00:33:53,932 --> 00:33:55,365 - Here's what I don't understand. 791 00:33:55,434 --> 00:33:58,402 Okay, Deonn, obviously you're surprised, 792 00:33:58,470 --> 00:34:04,341 and not happy to find out that Lanise is actually Shanice. 793 00:34:04,410 --> 00:34:06,610 - Shanice. - If I were you, 794 00:34:06,678 --> 00:34:09,212 and I saw this woman who I've been dating 795 00:34:09,281 --> 00:34:11,848 and who's been taking care of you and loving you 796 00:34:11,917 --> 00:34:13,884 and with you now for a long time, 797 00:34:13,952 --> 00:34:16,753 and I found out that she just busted me, 798 00:34:16,822 --> 00:34:18,722 I might be apologizing. 799 00:34:18,791 --> 00:34:21,992 - [laughs] What? What? 800 00:34:22,061 --> 00:34:24,494 - Deonn, do you feel... 801 00:34:24,563 --> 00:34:26,830 that you owe Shanice an apology? 802 00:34:26,899 --> 00:34:30,167 - [sputtering] 803 00:34:30,235 --> 00:34:32,536 I don't know, bro. Like, this [bleep] is crazy. 804 00:34:32,604 --> 00:34:35,372 All right. 805 00:34:35,441 --> 00:34:37,574 - Deonn, if you walk away now, 806 00:34:37,643 --> 00:34:41,078 Shanice may never take you back. 807 00:34:45,818 --> 00:34:49,453 - I don't know, bro. Like, this [bleep] is crazy. 808 00:34:49,521 --> 00:34:51,488 - Deonn, if you walk away now, 809 00:34:51,557 --> 00:34:55,725 Shanice may never take you back. 810 00:34:55,794 --> 00:35:00,630 - Crazy. What the [bleep]? 811 00:35:00,699 --> 00:35:02,199 - We'll just talk to you 812 00:35:02,267 --> 00:35:05,735 for a minute, alone, separately, if that's okay. 813 00:35:05,804 --> 00:35:07,504 - Oh, I don't mind. 814 00:35:07,573 --> 00:35:10,107 - So what's your relationship 815 00:35:10,175 --> 00:35:11,775 and what are your feelings towards Deonn? 816 00:35:11,844 --> 00:35:14,311 Like, do you--are you in love with him? Are you guys... 817 00:35:14,379 --> 00:35:15,912 - I am in love with him, but I feel like 818 00:35:15,981 --> 00:35:17,547 he have to respect me more, 819 00:35:17,616 --> 00:35:21,518 because it's like I don't want to be in a dead relationship. 820 00:35:21,587 --> 00:35:23,620 I don't want to go through the same cycles. 821 00:35:23,689 --> 00:35:25,889 - Yeah. - After over and over again-- 822 00:35:25,958 --> 00:35:28,959 - As fun as you say it was for you, I can see, 823 00:35:29,027 --> 00:35:32,562 from your face, and, like, just as a woman in general, 824 00:35:32,631 --> 00:35:34,064 that you have probably been really, 825 00:35:34,133 --> 00:35:36,066 really hurt by all of this. 826 00:35:36,135 --> 00:35:38,535 - Yeah. It's like--it's repetitive. 827 00:35:38,604 --> 00:35:40,337 You know, and it's like--it's a shame 828 00:35:40,405 --> 00:35:42,939 that my heart have to be hardened. 829 00:35:43,008 --> 00:35:46,209 Because what else do I not know? 830 00:35:46,278 --> 00:35:48,645 - So why not just let him off the leash? 831 00:35:48,714 --> 00:35:50,080 - I guess 'cause I-- that's why I said 832 00:35:50,149 --> 00:35:51,715 I'm kind of hardened to it, 833 00:35:51,783 --> 00:35:53,683 because I've seen it so much it doesn't shock me. 834 00:35:53,752 --> 00:35:55,719 It doesn't even--my heart don't even beat. 835 00:35:55,787 --> 00:35:59,322 - But I mean, he just walked out instead of apologizing. 836 00:35:59,391 --> 00:36:01,458 Is he really someone you can save? 837 00:36:04,630 --> 00:36:07,597 I don't want to break up whatever home you guys have. 838 00:36:07,666 --> 00:36:09,699 I don't know if it's happy. I don't know if it's not. 839 00:36:09,768 --> 00:36:13,370 - I think it's one of them little mutual standings. 840 00:36:13,438 --> 00:36:16,740 - I feel like you deserve better. 841 00:36:16,808 --> 00:36:20,777 - I do. I know it. I say that, but it's like, I do love Deonn. 842 00:36:20,846 --> 00:36:23,313 We're very compatible, and we have fun. 843 00:36:23,382 --> 00:36:25,415 I do want to be a wife. I want to have a baby. 844 00:36:25,484 --> 00:36:28,285 - You think that Deonn's gonna forgive you? 845 00:36:28,353 --> 00:36:30,120 - What is there to forgive? 846 00:36:30,189 --> 00:36:33,423 I mean, I don't--I mean, look, nothing is gonna be perfect. 847 00:36:33,492 --> 00:36:35,592 But it has to be boundaries and understandings 848 00:36:35,661 --> 00:36:37,627 and leaning from your mistakes. 849 00:36:37,696 --> 00:36:41,064 This is just growth that needs to happen. There you go. 850 00:36:41,133 --> 00:36:43,166 - Well, let's try and bring Deonn back in. 851 00:36:43,235 --> 00:36:45,335 And you guys don't have to figure it all out right now. 852 00:36:45,404 --> 00:36:47,704 But let's just make sure you guys are at least just 853 00:36:47,773 --> 00:36:50,407 talking and on the same page, so that there's sort of 854 00:36:50,475 --> 00:36:55,378 a starting point to have a conversation. 855 00:36:55,447 --> 00:36:58,882 - Yeah, get back on in here. 856 00:36:58,951 --> 00:37:02,719 - All right, well, we are not relationship experts. 857 00:37:02,788 --> 00:37:05,322 We don't propose any solution to this, 858 00:37:05,390 --> 00:37:07,057 other than just now's the perfect time 859 00:37:07,125 --> 00:37:08,625 to be honest with each other. 860 00:37:08,694 --> 00:37:11,294 - I really don't even want to talk to her like that. 861 00:37:11,363 --> 00:37:12,929 Like, I don't want to-- I don't have 862 00:37:12,998 --> 00:37:16,399 nothing to say to her, really, right now. Like-- 863 00:37:16,468 --> 00:37:19,502 - Do you want to be with Shanice? 864 00:37:19,571 --> 00:37:24,774 - Sometimes, yeah. Sometimes, hell nah. 865 00:37:24,843 --> 00:37:27,510 - It seems like both of you have become accustomed 866 00:37:27,579 --> 00:37:31,348 to toxicity with each other, 867 00:37:31,416 --> 00:37:35,318 and that's why this is your normal. 868 00:37:35,387 --> 00:37:36,453 It doesn't make it normal. 869 00:37:36,521 --> 00:37:37,921 If you guys are going to try 870 00:37:37,990 --> 00:37:39,623 to make this work together, 871 00:37:39,691 --> 00:37:45,595 you guys are gonna have to change gears a little bit. 872 00:37:45,664 --> 00:37:49,099 - I don't know. - Do you love Shanice? 873 00:37:49,167 --> 00:37:50,400 - Oh, of course. 874 00:37:50,469 --> 00:37:52,269 I w--yeah, of course. Of course. 875 00:37:52,337 --> 00:37:57,274 - Maybe the boundaries and the conversations that you had set 876 00:37:57,342 --> 00:37:59,309 in the beginning of your relationship 877 00:37:59,378 --> 00:38:01,544 have ran their course, 878 00:38:01,613 --> 00:38:04,047 and maybe it is time to have a different conversation 879 00:38:04,116 --> 00:38:07,751 and set new boundaries to be able to move forward. 880 00:38:07,819 --> 00:38:09,919 - You guys clearly both love each other. 881 00:38:09,988 --> 00:38:11,955 Where are we going with this? 882 00:38:12,024 --> 00:38:18,194 - Well, from how I feel, I feel like I should not have to think 883 00:38:18,263 --> 00:38:21,831 that he's going to bang a woman 884 00:38:21,900 --> 00:38:24,401 and then probably come back and bang me. 885 00:38:24,469 --> 00:38:27,704 All you do is flirt. All I see you do is flirt. 886 00:38:27,773 --> 00:38:30,040 - All right, so-- so Deonn needs to understand 887 00:38:30,108 --> 00:38:33,977 that when he flirts with other women, it's upsetting. 888 00:38:34,046 --> 00:38:35,345 - Yes. 889 00:38:35,414 --> 00:38:37,847 - It's very obvious that Shanice is looking 890 00:38:37,916 --> 00:38:39,749 for a different level of commitment 891 00:38:39,818 --> 00:38:42,686 from you at this point in your relationship. 892 00:38:42,754 --> 00:38:44,621 You don't have to give it to her. 893 00:38:44,690 --> 00:38:48,191 But this is what she's telling you that she wants. 894 00:38:48,260 --> 00:38:51,194 [soft music] 895 00:38:51,263 --> 00:38:55,699 ♪ ♪ 896 00:38:55,767 --> 00:38:58,168 - All right. Well, maybe a little bit 897 00:38:58,236 --> 00:38:59,969 more time and distance 898 00:39:00,038 --> 00:39:03,440 from this will make it easier to communicate. 899 00:39:03,508 --> 00:39:05,008 Shanice, I hope whatever happens, 900 00:39:05,077 --> 00:39:07,077 whether it's with you guys or not with you guys, 901 00:39:07,145 --> 00:39:10,146 that you end up getting treated the way you want to be treated 902 00:39:10,215 --> 00:39:12,215 and deserve to be treated. 903 00:39:12,284 --> 00:39:13,516 So good luck with that. 904 00:39:13,585 --> 00:39:14,818 - Thank you. - All right. 905 00:39:14,886 --> 00:39:16,419 - Shanice. 906 00:39:16,488 --> 00:39:19,189 - Shanice, it was a real pleasure, and... 907 00:39:19,257 --> 00:39:20,223 - Good luck. 908 00:39:20,292 --> 00:39:22,692 - Blessings. 909 00:39:24,229 --> 00:39:26,796 - All right, man, look, if you had told us that 910 00:39:26,865 --> 00:39:29,032 you were in a relationship, we definitely would have liked 911 00:39:29,101 --> 00:39:30,900 to have known that that was your situation, 912 00:39:30,969 --> 00:39:32,936 so that we could have handled it better. 913 00:39:33,004 --> 00:39:34,738 - I, like, blame myself for a lot of this. 914 00:39:34,806 --> 00:39:36,940 I'm not even gonna act like I ain't just blame myself. 915 00:39:37,008 --> 00:39:38,842 Like, I'm just--I don't want to even be on here, 916 00:39:38,910 --> 00:39:42,579 like, everything is somebody else fault, 917 00:39:42,647 --> 00:39:44,714 'cause it's like 80% my fault. 918 00:39:44,783 --> 00:39:46,149 - You've been talking to her just as much 919 00:39:46,218 --> 00:39:47,884 as she's been talking to you, the whole time. 920 00:39:47,953 --> 00:39:49,285 - You both could have told each other. 921 00:39:49,354 --> 00:39:50,787 - You could have ended it. Right. 922 00:39:50,856 --> 00:39:53,957 So you're-you're both equally a part of this, 923 00:39:54,025 --> 00:39:56,593 just like you're both equally in a relationship. 924 00:39:56,661 --> 00:40:00,463 - Right, right, right. I agree. I agree. 925 00:40:00,532 --> 00:40:04,734 - So if you want to be Shanice's man, 926 00:40:04,803 --> 00:40:06,436 then let her know, because right now 927 00:40:06,505 --> 00:40:08,438 she is available to you. 928 00:40:08,507 --> 00:40:10,073 But that might not last forever. 929 00:40:10,142 --> 00:40:11,474 - Mm-hmm. 930 00:40:11,543 --> 00:40:12,409 - And if it's not Shanice that you want, 931 00:40:12,477 --> 00:40:14,844 then, like, let her know. 932 00:40:16,715 --> 00:40:19,482 - I appreciate y'all. I thank y'all. 933 00:40:19,551 --> 00:40:21,618 - I'm sorry it didn't go the way you had hoped. 934 00:40:21,686 --> 00:40:24,120 But live and learn, live and learn. 935 00:40:24,189 --> 00:40:26,923 So good luck with her, and good luck with everything. 936 00:40:26,992 --> 00:40:31,194 - Same thing with y'all. Thank y'all. Appreciate y'all. 937 00:40:31,263 --> 00:40:33,296 Blessings to both of y'all. 938 00:40:33,365 --> 00:40:34,531 - Bye, Deonn. 939 00:40:34,599 --> 00:40:35,999 - See you later, man. 940 00:40:36,067 --> 00:40:38,735 - ♪ I don't see nobody no more, no more ♪ 941 00:40:38,804 --> 00:40:41,438 ♪ I can't take the pressure no more, no more ♪ 942 00:40:41,506 --> 00:40:44,340 ♪ 'Cause you ♪ 943 00:40:44,409 --> 00:40:47,911 ♪ 'Cause you, yeah ♪ 944 00:40:47,979 --> 00:40:52,048 ♪ ♪ 945 00:40:53,251 --> 00:40:54,317 - Dark, 22, goes online. 946 00:40:54,386 --> 00:40:56,052 He meets Roger. They match. 947 00:40:56,121 --> 00:40:57,187 - He's really caring. 948 00:40:57,255 --> 00:40:58,755 We FaceTimed a few times. 949 00:40:58,824 --> 00:40:59,789 - What? 950 00:41:01,660 --> 00:41:02,725 - He's married. 951 00:41:02,794 --> 00:41:04,227 - "I'm always in someone's mouth. 952 00:41:04,296 --> 00:41:05,462 Now shut up, bitch!" 953 00:41:05,530 --> 00:41:06,729 - The [bleep] did you say to me? 954 00:41:06,798 --> 00:41:08,398 - This looks like an evil twin. 955 00:41:08,467 --> 00:41:10,200 [doorbell rings] 956 00:41:10,268 --> 00:41:11,801 - Get the [bleep] out of here.