- Previously, on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
- The unthinkable has happened.
Yes. If I mess this up,
I'm in trouble.
[phone chimes] - Oh, hell--
It's all in social media.
Joc got a newborn baby from some other side chick.
- 15 minutes after I post her walking down the aisle,
a friend of a friend hit me up and was like,
he's actually marrying her?
He [bleep] with Meda.
- Do I [bleep] tell her?
- Yes, the [bleep] you tell her.
- Nobody has said anything to Kendra.
- Sweet mother of Jesus.
- Spice, I'ma play a little snippet of the song.
[hip-hop music playing]
- But it's not ready yet. - I know it's not ready.
I'm excited. [music continues]
- How could you do this to me?
- Where did Spice go?
- This is like a career sabotage
for you to play my demo in front of everybody--
the media, the blogs, everybody's here.
- I just always wanted to do a song with you!
- But you're not ready yet!
You not ready! - How do you know?
- I'm tellin' you!
You're too [bleep] dramatic.
So don't even bother starting. - Whatever!
[upbeat music]
- ♪ It's the life that we livin' ♪
♪ It's the life that we chose ♪
♪ It's the life that we livin' ♪
♪ It's the life that we chose ♪
♪ Make my way to the top and it ain't no stopping ♪
[hip-hop music]
- ♪ Ridin' through the city in the place I dwell ♪
♪ We just two young fellas in the ATL ♪
♪ You a treat, you a snack ♪
♪ Fightin' with your jeans 'cause you got it like that ♪
♪ Well okay, tell me what y'all fake mad about today ♪
- Mm-hmm.
- Hi. What do you want? - What you doin'?
Where you goin'? Who's calling your phone?
- Nobody for you.
What kind of mom
takes their daughter's phone to see who's calling?
A controlling ass mom, that's who.
Doesn't she realize that I'm 28?
Like, in her head, she still thinks I'm 18.
Come on now, I'm grown. Like, chill out.
- Checking your phone.
- How did you get in my phone? - [laughs]
- Yo! - As you remember,
my daughter is a spoiled brat.
She lives at my house. She doesn't help with rent.
I give her weekly allowance.
She doesn't show up to any of my stores, restaurants.
The new generation got me [bleep] up.
Take a seat. Let's talk.
- No, your talks don't end well.
[tense music]
- So Jaz, you are the only person I have.
- All right, don't be extra.
- You're the only person I can trust.
But you don't wanna, like, be at the store.
You go in when you want. You don't go in.
- It's my life. That's what people do with their life.
They do what they want with their life.
- Not when I'm paying you to do a job.
[dramatic chord]
You should be working for your mom.
- I can't deal with your ups and downs or all arounds.
My mom is so nuts.
Like, she just doesn't give space.
She wants to be my bestie.
I need my mom to be touring,
doing "Louis, Prada, Gucci."
Pop them tags so she can leave me alone.
- And then what about even the event?
You wasn't even supportive for my event.
- I was supportive. Don't even start yourself.
- Like, you know, I was upset with how Spice was acting.
She's like, "Oh, you know, I don't think you're serious."
She embarrassed me.
- She wants you to be serious about this.
This is nothing to play with.
This is-- - Oh, absolutely.
I don't think it should have been
a conversation in front of everybody.
- Okay. That I can respect.
I know y'all should have a talk.
Maybe it's a misunderstanding. Maybe she really was just
trying to give you constructive criticism.
- That really hurt my feelings.
- All right. Don't get emotional.
- No, it did.
'Cause I am taking it serious, and I mean, like,
I know that I didn't know what I was doing before,
but everybody deserves a second chance
and everybody wants--
I wanna live my dreams, too.
- You so extra. Oh, my God. You really--
- Say what you wanna say, but it is my dream.
- You're really a Trini lady. Like, you're extra.
- But it's my dying dream, and nobody can
take it away from me.
I'm gonna show her. - [laughs] Stop.
- I'ma I'm prove everybody wrong.
[hip-hop music]
♪ ♪
- I don't want no stuffed peppers.
- No, I'm not making those stuffed peppers.
I'm making baked chicken, your favorite.
- Oh, all right, cool. - Enough is enough.
We got so much [bleep] going on.
Honestly, I'm so glad that we here in New York.
We're in New York right now
because my beautiful home that we just purchased
that we were getting renovated
was just robbed at gunpoint.
After seeing a video of these guys
breaking into my house with guns,
banging on the door, looking all around my house
not caring if we're there, or if we're not--
And I needed to come here so I can clear my mind.
I don't know how I feel right now in the present time.
When I get to New York,
I always just feel, like, a sense of peace.
My kids are in Atlanta with their dad.
I did not wanna pull them out of school.
And I made sure that I brung my mom with me
because my mom is going through a lot with her drinking.
I truly need to keep an eye on my mama
because right now it's very critical for her.
Like, I don't know. I just feel like
because I'm from Atlanta, I'm starting to get
so [bleep] nervous there.
Don't you feel like that?
- When you be saying that, it kind of gets me upset
because we just bought this big ass crib.
- $500,000 worth of our stuff was stolen.
They came in there with guns, fully loaded.
That's scary as [bleep].
- You can't go in life scared.
So that means anytime we go to the mall--
you're not gonna go to the mall.
You're not gonna go to the gas station.
You're not gonna fly on a plane?
- Bottom line, I wanna move.
- So you wanna sell the house
and go back to an apartment?
- I don't wanna go back to an apartment,
but I wanna go to a condo, to a high-rise
where I feel safe at for me right now.
- First of all, we just bought the house a couple months ago.
Let's upgrade the security system.
- I'm not upgrading nothing.
I said, bottom line, I wanna move.
- I don't want to go backwards.
You've been paying for apartments forever.
I've been buying homes.
It don't make sense to waste money.
You just like wasting money.
A lot of money.
- Sometimes I feel like Eric is so driven by money.
He's looking at how nice the house is.
And right now I'm at the point where I don't give a damn
how much we spent on this house.
Like, come on Eric, no. Hell no.
And I--like, he's really pissing me off right now.
I gotta be somewhere I feel safe,
and I just wish you would understand that.
If not, then guess what?
You could stay in the house
and I'll just go get me another place, and then that's it.
- All right, that's fine 'cause I never said,
I didn't understand. I just said--
- We'll just meet up whenever we see each other.
- Now I'm kinda mad.
Like, what are we doing?
She asked me for a house, I followed through.
I got us a dream home, a house that we both love.
The house we can build a family
and raise our new children together in.
I'm tired of [bleep] adjusting everything.
Like, I moved all the way from New York to Atlanta.
Real [bleep]. She needs to compromise.
This is [bleep] ridiculous.
I just realized what exactly what it is.
You just have selfish ways,
and you gotta either break them [bleep].
That [bleep] not gonna work.
- I'm sorry, booboo, but I'm not staying in that house.
- It's always your way or the highway.
- Yeah.
[upbeat music]
♪ ♪
- Mama, you proud? - Yes, I am.
- You ready? - No! [laughs]
- You better get ready.
- So now I'm about to find out
who's been nominated this year
for Best Reggae Album of the Year.
I don't know if the--my album "10" made the cut,
but we are anxiously waiting.
I'm nervous. - No, no, don't.
Everything gonna be fine.
- All right. - Yes.
- I'm glad you're here, Mom. - Yes.
- Grace, where's Justin?
- Oh, he's at work. - Oh, okay.
My sister is here with me. My mother is here with me.
But no lie, it feels good to have real love
from my family among me.
- Hey, cutie! - Hey, girl. How you doing?
- Hey, mama. - Period.
- How you doing? - Just cute for Spice.
I can't wait. - Yes.
We're about to watch it now. We just hooked it up.
- I came over here for Spice
because I know she's gonna get nominated.
I know it, I feel it, and I'm rooting for her.
I'm her number one [bleep] fan period.
Come on, Spice, we getting this Grammy.
- This is Shekinah. - Hey, how you doin'?
- Nice to meet you. - This is my mom.
- Nice to meet you.
- Where Karlie Redd?
- Me and Karlie, I'm not even talking to her right now.
- What? - Well, he's not talking
to me right now. - What?
I don't know, whichever way it wanna go.
She had an album released
and then she invited me to go to this album--
It's not even an album release 'cause the album not ready.
She tried to play the demo that we did together.
Go-- - I'm sayin'! That's all
you have to do is say it, and you don't wanna do it, so--
- So you had to do this? You wanna do it to hurt me.
- I'm not even coming back to hug you.
You're too [bleep] dramatic,
so don't even better start crying.
- Whatever!
- How was Spice gonna help her? - I will.
As long as she stays-- as my sister,
she's serious and she's not gonna waste my time.
So it was kinda insulting for me, I'm not gonna lie,
that Karlie played the song that was like a demo
in front of people.
To be here now at the place where I'm at,
it doesn't--it is not an overnight success.
So for Karlie to take it so lightly,
it really rubs me the wrong way.
Speaking about business, I'm about to launch
my business next week.
I'm having a huge fashion show, and I want to invite everybody,
including Joc and Kendra and everybody, you know,
I wanna invite the girls. I wanna talk to models.
'Cause you know, it's hard for--
Why you looking me like that? - Can we model together?
I'm saying, it's just modeling.
- Meda don't wanna cat walk with Joc.
She wants Joc to walk back into the cat again.
It's not right, Meda.
You gotta let that married boy go all on.
- He's still my friend.
- No, you're not! - No, Meda.
- For a day-- you must be mad.
- He can't be your friend. - You know what?
You're just the ex-girl then. - He's not your friend.
Sidebar from you, that's a lot.
We was at the wedding, and all this [bleep] dropped.
It was so sad because the girl said
she's pregnant out of nowhere, y'all done checked--
It was on the Internet--crazy.
So he got a little bitty girl out here somewhere.
I don't know. - It's possible that
the baby rumor is not even true.
'Cause we've heard all these [bleep] in the sheets.
and the sheets rumors and everything.
But I mean, Joc, you know, being popping out them babies,
'cause he does have eight.
So at the end of the day, he may have nine now.
- It's coming on. It's coming on now, guys.
- Ohh! - Ready?
- Let's see.
- And now here are the nominations
for the Best Reggae Album of the Year.
- Oh, my God!
[tense music]
- "Pamoja" by Etana,
"Positive Vibrations" by Gramps Morgan...
- Whoo.
- "Live N Livin" by Sean Paul...
- Okay. - "Royal" by Jesse Royal,
- [gasps]
- "Beauty In The Silence" by Soja...
- [sighs]
- And "10" by Spice.
[all screaming]
- Yeah, Spice! [all cheering]
- Oh, my God!
My album "10" just been Grammy nominated.
This is something for top mode.
Where's a drink? I wanna cheer to something.
Cheer, yes. To me, Spice.
From homeless to greatness. Mm-hmm.
- You want a glass?
- Oh, my God. - Oh, Mama.
- Don't cry my dear. Don't cry. Don't cry.
- Mama, I can't believe it. I can't believe it. Oh, my God.
And let me say this-- win, lose or draw,
I just created history.
I'm the first hardcore female dancehall artist
to ever be nominated for a Grammy.
To be Grammy nominated right now is like a validation
of all the hard work that I've put into my career.
I plant the seed, now the tree I grow,
I make a root, I eat the fruits of my labor.
And I'm proud of myself for being consistent
and for never giving up.
Baby did it. - Yes, it's real, my dear.
- You did it. - Oh, my God. I did it.
- You did it.
- After all my family has been through,
I know they feel proud.
So it feels good to give my mom this proud moment.
So when my father died when we were young,
my mom was just struggling by herself
and that just gave me strength, you know?
- Right. - To see her--
she did everything.
So I had to step up and try, and--
- And do it for everybody in the family.
- And stay with her. - Don't cry, Mama.
- My girl is so good.
- Don't cry. - Ooh, God. It's so good.
- We made it. Don't cry. - Sure did.
- So being that you finna get this award and all,
I was just wondering, could you bring a plus two? Like, me?
- She has a man.
[laughter] - "She has a man."
- I was here before the man.
- Coming up, on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
- I was feeling these little shakes
and I've been drinking,
so I decided to check myself into a detox.
- All the way in the New York.
[dancehall music playing]
- Can you stop it? You can stop it.
I don't like the chorus.
- They say you have a baby on the way.
- If any of that [bleep] a fact,
this [bleep] getting annulled.
- ♪ My way to the top, and it ain't no stopping ♪
[Leon Bridges' "Blue Mesas"]
♪ ♪
- ♪ Ain't no peace at the top ♪
♪ I don't know how much air I got ♪
♪ I won't ever get used to this ♪
♪ 'Cause it ain't what it seems ♪
- We came to New York to get away,
but we were at a family party, and my mom kept drinking.
And that night we had to rush her to the hospital.
They thought that her liver was, like, completely damaged.
They told her if she ever drink again, she may not live.
It's scaring a hell outta me right now.
You came to me and told me
that they diagnosed you with a colon infection.
- I can't take the pills and then drink.
- Stop drinking so that your colon can heal.
- I will.
- My mom has been in the hospital for seven days.
The doctor told us it was looking like
cirrhosis of the liver.
We're really scared right now
because we all know cirrhosis of liver
means that you don't got that much longer to live.
All the way in New York.
- They gonna let you stay?
- I came into the hospital
because I was feeling these little shakes,
and I've been drinking, and I felt bad.
So I decided to check myself into detox.
- First it was my house.
Now it's my mom's health condition.
And then me, Eric not really seeing eye-to-eye--
it's like, damn, I can't catch a break.
- It'll be okay.
- But I can say, I love my man.
I appreciate him.
I know that he got my back.
- ♪ Just hold on my button right there ♪
♪ Nice and slow break it off right here ♪
♪ Independent girls only ♪
♪ Make him wanna spend a bag on me ♪
♪ Call him when I'm lonely, lonely, lonely ♪
♪ Call him when I'm lonely ♪
- Oh, okay.
- You like what you hearing?
- Yeah, me love it.
- Really? - I like it. I love it.
- Karlie called me and apologized
that she wants me to come to the studio
to take her career more seriously.
So I'm a friend. I'm gonna give a listening ears.
I told her I'd pull up on her at the studio.
And let's just say she listened.
You can hear that. Karlie, she did her homework.
She understood the assignment, and she's getting the job done.
See, that's what me talk about.
Get another studio, I'm at Miss Sierra's and work on things.
And I meant to say you take serious.
This is what me talking about.
- Spice acting like she all a diva when she come in here,
I know you just got your Grammy nomination and everything,
but bring it back down.
We right here, it's me, girl.
I'm so serious.
- How serious?
Failure is not an option.
I literally have one shot at this. That's it.
I can't let them "Louis, Prada, Gucci" me no more.
♪ Louis, Prada, Gucci, Louis, Prada, Gucci ♪
♪ Pop them tags, pop them tags ♪
- It's not bad. Not bad.
- After my daughter, Jasmine suggested I call Spice,
of course I called her.
She will always be my friend,
no matter how she's being nasty to me.
So I had to sit myself down and say, you know what?
Maybe it's tough love.
I don't wanna give up, and I'm not gonna give up.
And I don't pop tags anymore. I cut checks.
- Well, Karlie, no seriously though.
Why would you play the unfinished song?
It was a demo.
- I finished it. - Did you finish it?
- I finished it. - Doing it is one part...
- I finished it. - But you finish it because--
- And I fixed it.
- How long she's been in this studio?
- Please. Every day. - Every day.
That's a fact. She got receipts.
- So now I need to listen to see if I like it.
And then we can have a complete song.
- You ready? - Yeah.
[music playing]
- ♪ Charlie Blaze ♪
♪ Static ♪ - ♪ Bomb as face ♪
♪ With a waist you can't top that ♪
♪ Pretty kitty, I can make it, top that ♪
♪ Million dollar deal next ♪
♪ Deal, we gon' top that ♪
♪ Top that ♪ - I like it.
- ♪ Take a pause me come and get applause ♪
♪ I'm a boss, boy, talk her in my drawers ♪
♪ Let me see you pull pop back ♪
♪ Run swaz money in a minute ♪
♪ I'ma top that ♪
♪ Own six cars let me see you pull top that ♪
♪ Paid to cashier let me see you come top that ♪
♪ Black millionaire let me see you come top that ♪
- Can you stop it?
You wanna give you a minute please so I can talk to her?
- Oh, most definitely. - 'Cause I don't want her say,
"Oh, you said it in front of him."
- Oh, my God! [laughter]
- I got you. - Oh, my God.
What now?
- So I don't like the chorus.
[dramatic chord]
But I love the song, and I love the way how you listened to me
and the part that you put in putting in--
Banga, blow swag. - [screams]
- I love it. I love that part there.
She finish the song, and it sounds better.
It's just not 100% there yet,
but it definitely sound better than it was before.
So, you know, I'ma forgot to tell you--
- Oh, you forgot to tell me something?
- No, I forgot to invite you.
'Cause you weren't talking to me.
So I'm having a whole fashion show for my clothing line
Make sure you come. - So wait,
am I walking in the show? - Yes.
- Okay. Good. - All I'm just saying
is I Hope that, you know, everything runs smooth
'cause it's a family line
and you know--problems. - Why wouldn't it run smooth?
- 'Cause you know-- all them full of problems.
You pop up outside the box.
Meda. - Ahh!
- All kind of something-- it's just too much.
I mean, Joc is married now, so--
- I--I am so happy for him.
- No, you're not. But that good for you to say.
- And hopefully he's gonna calm that little thing down.
[laughs] His little weewee.
- We need to stop worrying about the man little weewee
- I'm glad we back on good terms,
'cause we better than that.
- Yeah, the part you had fixed, I love it.
So let's work on the chorus.
Once we have the chorus down pat,
then we have a [bleep] hit.
[music playing - ♪ Can't top that ♪
♪ Like this on the beat yeah, drop that ♪
- Coming up, on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
- You've never met Meda?
- I don't know-- - Have you seen her around her?
- I know for a fact Joc's been around Meda for some time.
- Was you [bleep] Meda?
- Whoa, oh, cuz has busted wide open.
- ♪ My way to the top, and it ain't no stopping ♪
[hip-hop music]
- ♪ Ten bad chicks in the club goin' heavy ♪
♪ Oh, yeah, some of them got a little fake ♪
♪ I should probably give him a chance ♪
♪ I should probably head to the club, though ♪
- All right. So what I pulled for you
are all full body sticks.
I'm gonna get you then the medium
of the Plasencia, which is--
- Of the placenta? - Plasencia.
- Plasencia, you know, I was trying to figure it out,
- Placenta? - Yeah, that one is--
you know, I'm trying to figure out.
- You know what I'm saying? What's going on?
Hey man, I'm here for two reasons, today, Jack,
at the cigar bar.
I'm finna go on and my big dog Rich around.
Another reason why I'm here, I asked Joc to come.
'Cause I don't know what the hell going on with him.
Where's your boy? I know they're my cousin,
but where your man's at?
- He's [bleep] late as usual.
- Hey, I need to hear what the [bleep] going on.
You got a baby, cuz?
Like, you got a mistress? From cousin to cousin,
I just feel like he ain't told me nothin'.
I mean, he wouldn't just keep between me and you.
And y'all.
[hip-hop music]
- ♪ I'm about to ball out ♪
♪ ETA 11:30 get the squad out ♪
♪ Hit this bar, body bottles till we crawl out ♪
♪ All out, and I got-- ♪ - What's happening?
- 'Sup? - Sir of the hour.
- What you mean, sir of the hour?
- Sir of the hour. - The sir of the hour.
- Sir. Hey, man, you my guy.
If a person could be a conspiracy then it's you.
- Wow. Y'all ain't got no drinks yet?
- Yeah. I got a little-- - Hold on.
- Let me give you a stick right quick.
- It's gonna be interesting. - Cuz just walked through
like ain't nothing going on in his life.
- Nothing. Like what y'all talking about? Why are we here?
- Yeah. Come on, cuz. [both laughing]
Like, what?
- Hey, boo. - Hi.
- Oh, my God. - How you doin'?
- Look at you.
- Jasiel and I are getting back from the honeymoon.
We went to Miami and the Virgin Islands.
So, we got a chance to just, you know, de-stress
from the wedding and come back to our senses
and just get back to the regular life,
slowly but surely.
I am pulling up to Bambi's house.
This is my first time being able to catch up with her
since before the wedding.
I missed you. - You smell like
a married woman. - Thank you, girl.
- How are you? - I'm good.
I feel like a married woman, girl.
- You do? - Yes.
Now that the wedding is over, I feel so much better.
I feel so much less stressed.
We had a happy ending,
but we damn near died getting in there.
- Oh, my gosh, Kendra. Okay. Hold on. -
[laughs] - I need to get you a cup ASAP.
Hold on. - Okay, girl.
- Kendra is glowing.
She's looking absolutely just amazing.
It is very possible that she has not seen these blogs out--
Joc and his baby.
And then there's another lady, Meda, that he's been
in a relationship with, and in the back of my mind
I'm like, I'm about to have to give her
some of the worst news of her life.
- Cuzo, cuzo, cuzo--
they say that it was like a silent word going around
that you had a baby on the way.
- Shh--I need two more of these, this is entertaining.
- Tell your cousin. I'm a cousin.
- You know, you let the Internet tell it.
Me and Karlie still the best thing going.
You let the internet tell it. Listen, listen.
- And I heard Karlie jumped out of your birthday cake
at your bachelor party. - Yeah, yeah.
- This is what I wanna tell you right now.
- Yeah. - Your woman, your wife,
is over at my house right now with Bam.
Bam thinks she knows something
that Kendra don't know that ain't nobody telling her.
- And see that's the thing.
Anything going on with me, my wife, she's privy to it.
- Is that a maybe? Is that a I don't know?
Is that a hell yeah? You know what I'm saying?
'Cause the way you looking man, is sending me mixed vibes, Joc.
- Kendra, he did some stupid [bleep],
I'm not gonna [bleep] lie to you. Like--
- What did he do, Bambi?
- Some woman has been going around on social media
saying that her stepsister has a baby by Joc
and running it like he knows, like--
- Mm. - You know what I'm saying?
Like, he's been around,
but the girl wants some child sup--
I don't [bleep] know.
- Like girl, that's some [bleep] bull[bleep], like--
- Hold on a sec. Hold on a sec.
Hey. - I'm here.
- You're at club Bam. Club Bam.
You look like you're-- - Okay.
- All right. I'll see you in a minute.
- All right. - Okay.
So we don't have to continue this conversation
if you don't want to, like, when Erica come,
but she ran some other [bleep] to me.
And you know a [bleep] girl named Meda?
Meda supposedly like Spice's friend.
Meda was telling people, like, at the pre-wedding [bleep]
that she'd been [bleep] with Joc.
- Me and Erica Mena walking through Piedmont Park.
- Apparently, your boy Joc has a mistress.
It's just so heartbreaking.
Oh, you didn't know?
As I'm at the wedding posting on IG,
my friend was like, "What?
He's getting married? He's [bleep] me down."
I'm like, you're lying. So I called her.
She was like, yo, dead ass full-blown,
like, whole relationship that they have.
- Yo, is this real? - I swear to God.
- Hold on, hold on.
You and Erica walk through Piedmont Park?
- That's the problem. Why we not talking about that?
- I done been on quarantine for, like, a week or so, right?
I come back, man.
You know what I'm saying? Everything's crazy.
I'm hearing Joc and babies and mistresses.
Rich taking walks in the park with Erica Mena.
I'm like, man, what's happening?
- If you saying there's a side piece or some side action
that's going on while I was a bachelor
engaged to be married,
then let's address that first.
- But was you [bleep] Meda? - Whoa.
Oh, cuz, you're bust wide open.
- Hey. - Kendra.
- Hey. - Hi, honey.
- Hi, hi, hi.
- Do you care if I-- - No, I don't care.
Like, I wanna know what the [bleep] going on.
I'm in the dark.
- How long have you and Joc been together?
- A long time. A long time.
- You've never met Meda?
- I don't--I don't know.
- Have you seen her around her? - I don't think so.
But I know for a fact Joc has been around Meda for some time.
A while back, right after me-- and we had the baby--
- Mm-hmm. - Joc had a game night.
- Mm-hmm. - Meda was there.
- Joc! What up! - Hey, straight!
- Straight! - Hey, what's up, boy?
- What up? What up? - Hi.
- Welcome to game night. I just wanna say thank you.
Really, for real, for helping me put this together.
- Of course, you know, we've been working magic for years.
- This is right before the world kinda shut down.
- Okay, so-- - So this is like pre-pandemic.
- So y'all got her number. Call her.
- Wait, wait, whoa, whoa, wait.
We need to pipe down for a second
and we need to figure out how to push this [bleep]...
- Whoo! - Without being
crazy and weird.
- Like, I can't even believe we even sitting here
talking about this [bleep].
- Don't say y'all did jumping jacks and [bleep like that.
- No, no--Meda was business, right?
I ain't mess with Meda.
- Now I just wanna know...
what the [bleep] is Erica Mena and you doing?
- This [bleep] sounds juicier than your [bleep] you talking--
[laughter] - Y'all [bleep] trying
to put me in the corner? - Okay. So, look--
- You know what? No, no. I'm outta here.
[laughter]
- Look, yo, yo Rich.
- Nope! - I love you.
- I love you back!
- Let me tell y'all something,
if I had found any of this [bleep] out,
I wouldn't have been walking down no aisle.
I wouldn't have had my mommy and my brother down here
and you know what I'm saying? - That's what I told her.
I said, like, her brother married her,
like this was not no-- - I was with Jasiel
when my daddy died, he was in the hospital room with.
- Don't cry. Oh, my gosh.
Please, please.
- He was with me when my daddy took his last breath!
He helped and my mom and my brother.
Like, he is such a piece of [bleep].
- Oh, my gosh.
- Coming up, on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
- Hello? Hi.
Hi. Hi, what's your name?
- Meda. - Oh, okay.
- Hey, Meda. This is Kendra. I'm Jasiel's wife.
- ♪ My way to the top, and it ain't no stopping ♪
- He is such a piece of [bleep]!
- Oh, my gosh.
- Like, why waste my time?
Like, I'm good to his ass. Like, you know what I'm saying?
I take care of his kids.
[bleep], I give his baby mama's money.
His ex-wife money. Like, bitch, I'm out here,
like, being Robinson and Robinson out this [bleep].
Like, that's wrong.
- My heart pours for her. I know what it feels like.
It's disgusting. In fact, it's degrading.
- If I was Kendra, I would cut off his [bleep]
and then feed it to him
and make him [bleep] it out the next day.
- I just--I'm trying to, you know, I'm a lawyer.
I know how to control my emotions.
I just consult--
- This ain't a [bleep] lawyer situation.
- This ain't no lawyer's stuff. - This is a real [bleep]--
This is what I'm saying, Bam.
But I'm trying to collect the facts
and just see what's going on, like, I wanna to people.
I wanna investigate. I wanna know.
I don't know how soon, I don't do family law.
How soon I can get this [bleep] annulled.
- Well, we can't-- - Ma'am, please.
If it's a fact, girl,
but let me tell you, if any of that [bleep] is a fact,
this [bleep] is getting annulled.
- Everything that has to do with Joc and his mistress
and the baby and all this stuff is just hearsay.
I mean, Sierra was at the dinner,
and she's very credible.
So let's get her on the phone and get to the bottom of this
so we can figure out what's real, and what's cap.
Hey, I'm letting Kendra know what's going on.
- Sierra. - Sierra, we--
- Let me speak to Sierra. - Okay. Speak to Sierra.
- What? - Sierra.
- What? - Yes.
- You got what? Messages? - Girl, what the [bleep]
is going on? - Let me see.
- Yeah, so this is the whole situation:
A girl came out at Spice's dinner, and she was like,
I've been messing with him 2016, '17, '18, '19, '20,
and 2021, I think.
I went back and forth in my head
if should I say something or should I not.
Honestly, I thought the bitch was lying.
I didn't wanna ruin your moment.
I did not wanna ruin your [bleep] moment.
- Sierra, it ain't no [bleep] moment
if this [bleep] out here living foul.
I don't know this [bleep] to be facts.
- I don't know if it's true or is it not true or what.
- Here this [bleep]--hold on Hold on.
-Ooh, wait, wait, Sierra.
- Let me tell you something.
No, let me [bleep] tell you something.
You lied to my daddy.
You lied to my brother. You lied to my mama.
You lied to your mama, your daddy, your children.
Why did you marry me?
- Why did you marry me?
Jasiel, I need some answers, is what I need.
I'm not even here.
This Meda lady said she was [bleep] with you
in 2016, '17, '18, '19, '20, and '21.
We've been living together since goddamn '15, my [bleep].
- Oh--
- Yeah, we had this conversation, but you know,
I don't know what she--who she's.
You's [bleep] with her in '16, '17, '18, '19, '20,
and this year?
'Cause she stood up at Spice's birthday party
and said that she was [bleep] with you.
So was you with--you've been with her in '15?
If it's no, tell me no, [bleep].
- Please, can we-- Joc, Joc listen--
- No - I got her Instagram.
- Yeah, [bleep] you probably got it!
If this [bleep] true, you got it!
- I'll call her. - 20--
- Mm-hmm - [bleep]
- Mm-hmm. - [bleep] 00.
- Okay, she'll probably answer FaceTime
'cause she sound thirsty.
- Okay, let's FaceTime her. - So hold on.
- I'm a FaceTime her. Let me talk to her first.
- You lost control now, like, I'm talking to her.
- Hello? Hi.
- Hi. Hi. What's your name?
- Meda. - Oh, okay.
- Hey, Meda. This is Kendra. I'm Jasiel's wife.
I'm Joc's wife. Somebody just told me
y'all been [bleep] around since 2016
to right before our wedding.
Is that true?
I don't care about how y'all used to been [bleep] around,
but what I'm getting is that y'all been [bleep] around
since I've been with him.
- The last time that I [bleep] with Joc was 2019.
- Hm. - I honestly--I don't even know
what Kendra is going through right now.
I mean, she's newly married.
I know that I feel for her.
I feel bad because she's feeling bad.
- And where were you with him?
Y'all slept together? Where y'all sleep together?
- Sleep together? What you mean?
- Like [bleep]. Have sex. Where?
- That was years ago.
- You said 2019. - No, 2019.
- You said 2019.
- The last time that we had sex
was probably maybe a year or two before that.
- Oh, did he just [bleep] hang up?
- I'm about to see if he hung up or if--
- Of course he did. - Oh, no!
- So why did you go to Spice's party
and you told Sierra a different story?
- I didn't tell Sierra a different story.
Anybody that was there took whatever story.
I don't know what story they told you. I told my story.
2017, 2019 and it goes-- you know what I'm saying?
- Ooh!
- Girl, Meda, at this point you are captain
of the side [bleep] coalition.
So if you gonna be that,
you gonna have to own that [bleep].
Which one is it? '19 or '17?
It ain't that hard.
- That's messed up! - No, girl.
- No. Do you have anything else to ask her?
- No. - Oh, this is some [bleep].
- [bleep], she's saying 2017--
like, any time in 2017, you're getting [bleep]
two piece, Jasiel. - Period.
- Like, period. I'm going to a hotel.
[dramatic music]
- Coming up, on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
- This girl's standing up, talking about,
she been messing with you consecutively years
broken up apart, but all the years
she described was when I was in your life.
- ♪ My way to the top, and it ain't no stopping ♪
- ♪ You don't know nothin' 'bout the feelin' ♪
♪ You ain't seen the penthouse and you never willin' ♪
♪ The struggle, the fight, the faith, the hope ♪
♪ The shame, the pressure, the fight ♪
♪ The winter, the snow, the rain ♪
- ♪ I'll be there when the sun goes down ♪
♪ And I'll be there when it comes back ♪
♪ I know it's hard to believe ♪
♪ But we're all that we have ♪
♪ I'll be there when the sun goes down ♪
♪ And I'll be there when it comes back ♪
♪ I know it's hard to believe, but-- ♪
- Hey, we're here.
- Oh, wow. Hey. - Hey.
- Hey! - Oh, my goodness.
Ohh. How are you feeling?
- Good. - Good.
- Oh, that's good. That's good.
- Yes. I feel so much better y'all.
- Seeing my mom come home today is what matters to me.
All this [bleep] with Joc and Kendra and Meda
and the house [bleep]-- that's nothing compared to
me seeing my mama good and healthy right now.
- How was your stay? - It was fine.
- How are you feeling?
- I feel like a totally different person,
so it was good.
- What the doctor told me is that she has, like,
a fatty liver and it's infected.
If she keep on drinking, it's gonna turn into
the cirrhosis of the liver.
You gotta completely stop drinking.
- Yeah. - It's so crazy.
When I spoke to the doctor on the phone,
I knew everything he was saying,
'cause it, like, reminded me of, like, how Dad was.
- It can be helped. - Yeah.
- So hopefully, you know, we stick together as a family
and we can get through this, Kim
and give you the support that you need.
- Yeah. 'Cause I need that support.
- Because nobody needs to go through what we've been through
in the last couple of years
and losing people that are close to you.
- My dad died at only 51 years old.
Now, Mama Kim is the same age as my dad when he died.
I wish--I really, really wish
I can get that time back with my father.
And Mama Kim needs to understand
that it's not even just about her health.
It's about your family, the people that surround you,
they get affected the most.
- What happened, Mom, with big Eric?
- Basically, the same thing. I mean, he drank all the time.
He drank a lot, and we tried to step in and stop it.
But, I mean, when a person wants to drink,
you can't stop it.
You know, you just have to be strong for yourself.
[hip-hop music]
♪ ♪
♪ I'm gonna give it what you give ♪
♪ I'm gonna take in what you take ♪
- What's up?
- We gotta talk.
It's been a couple of days
since I left Bambi's house
with her and Erica filling me in
on what they've been hearing.
And I had to go to a hotel.
We just got married and here it is, people telling me
about what he got going on,
who he's sleeping with, who he slept with.
It's just too much, and I'm feeling real lawyerly,
shall I say, 'cause I'm ready to get to the bottom of this.
You don't understand what I've been through.
Like, the humiliation that I've been through, Jasiel.
- I already know where it's going.
Somebody approaching you with a rumor.
- Some of the stuff is rumors Jasiel,
and some of the stuff is not rumors.
I'm having to pretend I didn't know about the baby.
The rumors about the baby aren't rumors.
- ♪ My way to the top, and it ain't no stopping ♪
♪ ♪
- Some of the stuff is rumors, Jasiel,
and some of the stuff is not rumors.
I'm having to pretend I didn't know about the baby.
The rumors about the baby aren't rumors.
In 2019, we took a break. I dated other people.
And apparently, he did, too.
Once we came back together,
Jasiel did have to let me know what he had going on.
So, you know, I was floored. [laughs]
I was like, you got to be kidding me.
Like, you don't know how to control that thing yet?
Like, I'm not mad that you out here sling it,
like, sling it, do what you do.
'Cause Ken definitely was doing her, you understand.
So I could not be mad at him for that,
but I was just so upset and hurt
that he was so reckless and careless.
I chose to love you after that, you know what I mean?
I chose to not run away from you forever.
- I understand. - For that. You understand?
- Definitely. - Like, that's crazy.
You understand, like, that's--there are still
so many conversations we gotta have with people.
It's like, how do we move forward?
'Cause now it's not just a Kendra and Jasiel thing.
I look like a fool right now.
Bambi coming through with the, "Yeah, sis,
I heard that, too," and this, that, and the third--
Like, I act more surprised than,
you know, I really was because this is something that Jasiel
and I have been dealing with privately.
So, I mean, it's embarrassing.
- I felt like after we made our vows to move forward
that we won't even bring any of this up. I--
- Jasiel, I didn't bring it up.
People bringing it up to me.
Then I'm hearing stuff about the Meda lady.
I've heard about this lady, Meda, before.
Jasiel has mentioned her to me before.
The way it was told to me
is that it was an old bone outta his old closet.
Nothing during the time we were together.
So I'm like, what is the deal?
- I have not messed with Meda.
- This girl standing up talking about,
she been messing with you consecutively years
broken up apart.
But all the years she described was when I was in your life.
Quit playing.
If what Erica is saying is true and there was some foul play
going on between Jasiel and Meda in 2020,
that was during our engagement.
I'm upset that everybody thinking like,
oh, Jasiel changed for her.
She changed him.
And then here it is all boiling down to,
no, he's still pretty much piece of crap.
That opens wounds, Jasiel, because--
- So did she not show-- where is the receipts?
- I still kinda wanna talk to her
to see what's going on, because guess what?
- I think you should. - I gotta hear it with my ears,
and I gotta see it with my own eyes.
- You're determined. - You right.
- I mean, [bleep]. - Yes, yes, sir.
You gotta fix it.
'Cause if you don't fix it,
I mean, it's gonna be hard for us to...
- Kendra-- - Continue the marriage,
and it's gonna be hard for us to grow.
- Kendra-- - Which is gonna mean that--
what is the point? - Did you accept everything
I came with when you said, "I do"?
- I did. - I did, too, vice versa.
- But it's just still a lot.
- I know. - You know what I'm saying?
Like, you don't know how hard it is.
- I don't expect you to just come here
and just have a simple conversation.
Like it's just water that rolls off of a windshield.
I don't, because I understand it's a lot of trauma tied to it
and all I'm telling you is
let's just go back to the pastor.
He encouraged us to continue to go through counseling
because guess what? - We need to.
- We never been right here before.
I just mean that we never been married
with somebody coming in, telling you a rumor
about me dating somebody or you even talking to them.
Like, that [bleep] is crazy.
So let's just do that and just figure [bleep] out.
Because, like... [bleep] hit different.
- I want to know who's telling the truth
and who's telling a lie.
I am inclined to believe my husband
and to stand by my husband,
but I'm not here to be made out to be a fool.
We need to have a sit down-- me, him, and Meda.
Because let me tell you something,
nobody getting ready to play me.
I am an expert truth finder.
I am an expert cross examiner.
I'm gonna investigate. I'm gonna ask who I gotta ask.
I'ma pop up if I gotta pop up.
But either way, the truth will be found.
We will figure it out, and we will hash it out.
- Okay. All right. - But I just--
I don't want no secrets.
I don't want no more-- I don't want no more surprises.
- Next time, on "Love & Hip Hp: Atlanta"...
- What's it about? - My [bleep] house
got broken into.
Y'all hos ain't even been there for me.
- I was pregnant when my house got robbed!
Who the [bleep] came over to [bleep] my house?
- Erica, did you forget? - It wasn't you.
- Kendra knows everything.
She don't give a [bleep]. She know about me.
- I think you should let Kendra handle that.
Joc is saying that he told her everything.
So she gotta go up to them now.
- This is a fun show. There's no rules.
- Y'all can see why Joc was in love with her.
- Give me the mic. - Get the [bleep] down.
- You don't know what you're doing.
- My vagina does not need a timeline for anybody.
- You didn't say that.
- I'ma need y'all to give her this award
for acting like she don't give a [bleep]
what her man does.
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