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announcer:
Previously this season
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on "Love & Hip Hop Atlanta".
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- You just tweeted to the world
that marrying me
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was your biggest mistake.
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- I never thought
I would see the day
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that would be a married woman
in the hospital by myself.
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- Her seeing you
with the women.
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That [bleep] sent her
over the top.
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- She always said,
"I’m not gonna stop you
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from seeing your daughter"
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- Like, why did you marry me
to do this to me?
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Like, why?
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- I’ve never had to micromanage
so many mother[bleep]
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in my life.
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- We [bleep] in a jail.
I don’t give a [bleep].
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You mad, you mad, whoever mad.
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- You see how much money
we’re dishing out.
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- You’re in the red,
right over a million dollars.
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- There’s something going on.
I think the food being stolen.
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- Everybody has
to understand accountability.
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Who is it?
- It’s Ciara.
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- That’s not true.
- This is the thing.
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You do think you can get away
with murder.
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You can say you don’t,
but you do.
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- Strike three,
you got the door.
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- I don’t feel like
I have no support.
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- I was there
with you every day.
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Now, all of a sudden,
I got a song out,
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and I’m moving, and you like,
"You’re never home."
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- I think it’s a good idea
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that we do probably
get a divorce.
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- She out to get you.
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- If anybody said they wanna
take your son for--
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- Who said that?
- [indistinct]
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- She said I was gonna
take your son--for what?
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- For anything.
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- For what?
- I don’t know.
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- What is everything?
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- You’re scaring me these days.
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- I’m not scaring you ’cause
I’m, like, umpire, bro.
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I’m done.
I’m over.
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- You, Shaggy, and Sean Paul
together on a record?
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- Legendary.
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- Your art of music is
very sexually provocative.
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- What do you mean?
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- You’re not single no more.
Watch what you do.
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You felt like you had to
spite me on "Wendy Williams"?
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Tell her that you single?
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- I put my ring finger up.
I’m not married.
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- Let’s not play
this [bleep] in there.
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- Whatever.
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- I am officially
a Georgia Peach.
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Oh, the door.
Who’s at the door?
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Who’s at the door?
Who’s at the door?
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- You held things down.
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The kids didn’t really
feel like I was missing.
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I’m still involved
in their life,
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and that’s because of you.
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- Are you pregnant?
- Not yet.
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- Want a baby?
- Yeah, I want a baby.
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Do you want a baby?
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Let’s go get in the shower,
boo-boo.
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That’s our baby-making time.
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- Baby making last night.
Are you ready?
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You’re gonna be
tired again, grandma.
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- You trying to sit right here
on the TV show
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’cause you just wanna make me
seem like I’m bad.
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- You walking around
this mother[bleep] telling me
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I’m broke for telling
you some real [bleep]
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- I’m trying to move on!
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Look at my exes!
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- [bleep]
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You fit in the description
to be another statistic.
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That’s what I don’t wanna see.
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[upbeat music]
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- ♪ It’s the life
\hthat we livin’ ♪
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♪ It’s the life
that we chose ♪
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♪ It’s the life
that we livin’ ♪
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♪ It’s the life
that we chose ♪
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♪ Make my way to the top
and ain’t no stopping ♪
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♪ ♪
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- Hoo-whee!
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- This is who I am.
This is what I do.
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This is who I am.
I'm the living proof.
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This is who I am.
This is what I do.
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This is who I am,
coming with the truth.
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- So today is the big day.
Your girl is lit.
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It's been a crazy, crazy year,
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and to be able to open
a new business after COVID,
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be in the hole,
come out the hole,
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and continue to persevere
is such a blessing.
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Frost Bistro had its bumps
but Pressed 2.0,
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we about to cruise
this thing out.
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- So I am at
Pressed ATL with my boo.
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- 2.0 the new location
in Midtown.
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- She's bossed up, baby.
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- Pressed two is opening up
right in Atlanta again.
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This is exactly what I mean
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when I call Atlanta
the new Black Hollywood.
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- Thank you for shopping
at Pressed.
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- You know I got you, honey.
Congratulations.
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- Thank you.
- I'm so proud of you.
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- Oh, that's so nice!
- Look at you!
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all: To the best,
baddest boss ever!
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- Oh, my God.
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- Oh, that's nice!
Thank y'all.
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I love you.
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- This is who I am.
This is what I do.
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This is who I am,
coming with the truth.
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- It's so nice in here.
Hey, y'all!
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- What a gwan?
- Hey, Karlie!
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Hey, Spicey!
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- Me--but first you
with the shopping
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before you buy all
the good stuff before me.
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- I know, look, so I was, like,
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let me get that,
let me get that.
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- I need that, right?
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- Congrats on "Wendy Williams,"
"Good Morning America".
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Everything that you been doing.
I'm so proud of you.
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But wait a minute.
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So you said you was single.
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- Like, oh, my God.
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This whole
"Wendy Williams" thing.
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I mean, when it comes
onto Justin and I,
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I'm still not sure
where we heading.
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We kind of talking, but
it's not like it used to be,
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and at this point, my mind,
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now my focus is
not even on Justin.
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My focus is on my album "10."
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I don't have time
for no drama,
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no problem, not right now.
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My relationship was at a place
that day where I never know.
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We had a huge argument.
Things not going right.
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So what me a-gone do?
Claim this man, I'm happy.
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Yeah, maybe if we were
in a good place,
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I would have said,
"Well, I'm not married,
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but I'm
in a serious relationship."
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But I couldn't say "but"
because I don't know.
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- I really hate
that my girl Spice is
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going through it
with her man,
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but I am on cloud nine
with me and my man.
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We are still trying
to have our baby
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and in the process of buying
our brand-new home.
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I'm in love.
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- But on a good note, guys,
you know, my album is ready
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so I'm inviting you guys
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to come to the album
release party, and you know,
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I'm inviting y'all.
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I'm a living testimony
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that you got to fight
for your dreams.
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Fight for what you want.
Never give up.
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Truly believe in yourself.
And I'm just super excited.
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And I want everybody to come
on out and celebrate with me.
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I'm gonna go shop
before Ciara.
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Buy all of the good stuff.
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- No, no!
- Yes.
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- ♪ Big girl
with big boss energy ♪
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♪ Big world,
the people gon' remember me ♪
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- Hey, host!
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♪ ♪
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- Ever since the meeting
at Frost Bistro
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about this bull[bleep]
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that Ciara was stealing
from the bistro,
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Ky's girlfriend Amina feels
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like she can
disrespect Ciara
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- I ain't got time to fight
with nobody.
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I've talked to Ky.
He doesn't care.
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Of course,
Amina gets favoritism
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'cause that's his girlfriend.
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My siblings, we have never
had these problems
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until these girls
came into the picture.
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Y'all got beef?
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- She can't even last
on the floor.
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- This is not
a Frost Bistro conversation.
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This is Pressed right now.
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- Exactly, congratulations
on Pressed and we're out.
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- For me, Ky,
as your girlfriend,
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why is she whispering to you?
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She can't even
handle the floor.
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- She can't even
handle the this.
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- Why you back there--
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- Okay, so therefore,
when you do that--
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- You back there--
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- You causing problems
when you do that!
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- Exactly,
but that's my [bleep].
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- When you say that--
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- Let go of me.
- I don't give a [bleep].
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- I just want her to know
because that's your bitch!
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She's gonna [bleep] understand.
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Rule number one, my [bleep].
Get yo bitch.
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If you're gonna be
a girlfriend,
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you don't come between family.
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It's family over bitches.
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- We're [bleep] right here!
We're [bleep] right here!
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- All right,
y'all are tripping!
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- I don't know what the [bleep]
happened.
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This is like a nightmare.
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Like your kids
are fighting one another.
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That [bleep]
just really hurts me.
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I can't even control
my emotions.
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What the [bleep] wrong
with y'all?
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- I don't know what to say.
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The event was over with.
Thank God.
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But every time I turn around,
it's some [bleep] drama.
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Like, not here, not today.
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Can y'all respect
my [bleep] place?
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- You need to calm down.
Calm down.
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- It's always
some lame [bleep].
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- That's okay.
- Being disrespectful when--
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This is the wrong place for it.
- All they gotta do is talk.
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- But it's like every time
a [bleep]
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tryna talk, you always
got something to say.
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Sometimes you need to sit back
and listen.
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That's her problem.
- Okay, but you--
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- [bleep] is not telling you
nothing for no reason.
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I'm telling you about you
'cause I [bleep] care.
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- Okay.
- I care!
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You always doing
that lame [bleep] to my girl,
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- But your girl be saying
something to catch it,
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too, though.
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- I'm sorry my [bleep]
timing's bad!
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- You talk [bleep] about me.
You talk [bleep] about her.
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And I still love you.
You're still my brother.
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- None of that shit matters.
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- 'Cause your girl be
speaking--
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- And I ain't never got mad
at you because I love you.
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- But you gotta check
your girl, too, though.
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- I do gotta check her,
but I gotta tell my sister,
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we're family!
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- You can't yell at your sister
about your girl though.
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- But you're yelling at me
over your bitch!
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- I'm yelling at you
because we're in front
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of all these people!
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- Your girl just said
a whole bunch of sour [bleep].
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[indistinct]
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- No, no!
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- Everybody need to understand.
Chill the [bleep] out!
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- They're all [bleep] up.
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- Get your hands off of me.
- Listen, no, no.
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I love you, too, but you have
to calm the [bleep] down.
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- This is just terrible.
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This is not the love
that we grew up having.
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- Chill out before you do
something stupid.
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- I'm over it.
- Yeah, go home.
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Get your [bleep]
and go [bleep] home.
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announcer: Coming up on
"Love & Hip Hop Atlanta"...
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- What's new?
- You being here.
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- At the end of the day,
I'm 100% for my family.
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- How when you don't have
a family now?
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- See, I know everybody
wondering
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what the hell
Scrappy got me here for.
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What we doing?
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- Ahh!
- Oh, [bleep]!
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You telling me
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that I'm not there for you
touches me in a certain place
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because I know what I'd do
to be there for you.
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- All that [bleep] I did,
y'all,
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and y'all do
this [bleep] to me.
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There's gotta be a change.
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[dramatic music]
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ My way to the top,
and ain’t no stopping ♪
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[upbeat music]
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ Tell me the reasons
that I can’t have it all ♪
266
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♪ I drive foreign cars,
buying out the mall ♪
267
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♪ Instead of sitting home
staring at the wall ♪
268
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♪ I wanna sit in box seats
watching basketball ♪
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♪ ’Cause I deserve it ♪
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- Good game, young one.
- All right, next time.
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- You worse than I thought.
- No, you trash.
272
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- Mental, mental, mental.
273
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- I’ve been going through
so much lately, man,
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that I felt like it
would be dope to just kinda,
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you know, organize
this mental health check.
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This is us coming together
as sons and fathers.
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And I think as men,
we should do more of this
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because like, man,
we are definitely
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going through a lot of trouble
on a daily basis.
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Ay, so look.
Check it out, right?
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I’m just, like, happy
that everybody could be here.
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Like, this is past just us just
playing basketball.
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We all know that.
It’s fellowshipping.
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It’s good.
It’s healthy.
285
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And I was going through
a little situation.
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Me and young’un right here, you
know, we few times in the past,
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we’ve come
to our boiling point,
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and Kirk and Mendecees
was like,
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"Yo, I think you’re not
the only one going through
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what you’re going through."
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So it was, like, yo, we need to
just bring everybody together.
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So it be about love.
293
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It be about us communicating
and opening up.
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You know what I mean?
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I know how it go, man,
when you’re fighting
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to keep your family together,
297
00:10:28,625 --> 00:10:32,229
or when you’re just fighting
for your own happy.
298
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It gets rough out here.
299
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I didn’t even realize how
crazy Scrap’s situation was.
300
00:10:38,625 --> 00:10:42,328
When I saw that post
that he put on IG,
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I was just like,
302
00:10:43,262 --> 00:10:45,833
"Damn, that’s how you
really feel about life?"
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- You know, as Black men,
we deal with levels of trauma
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that nobody deals with anyway.
305
00:10:50,668 --> 00:10:52,899
There are people who talk
about committing suicide
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or actually commit suicide
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’cause they don’t feel like
they can outlet the trauma
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and the stress
that they dealing with.
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- What’s up, Kirk?
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00:11:00,965 --> 00:11:02,965
- Sorry, I’m late, guys.
311
00:11:02,965 --> 00:11:04,559
- Kirk, what up?
- What’s good?
312
00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:06,833
After this [bleep]
at the grand opening
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of the new store,
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I’m here to help
my mental health right now
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’cause I feel like I’m the one
who [bleep] need help today.
316
00:11:13,097 --> 00:11:14,932
- Scrap.
- What’s happening?
317
00:11:14,932 --> 00:11:16,625
- What up?
And you missed the game.
318
00:11:16,625 --> 00:11:17,965
Everybody was getting
dumped on.
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00:11:17,965 --> 00:11:20,866
- Man, but I ain’t trying
to play with y’all.
320
00:11:20,866 --> 00:11:23,767
When I did that post
about mental health,
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I just understand being a man.
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00:11:26,064 --> 00:11:27,361
You supposed to not cry.
323
00:11:27,361 --> 00:11:30,130
You supposed to not say
how you feeling.
324
00:11:30,130 --> 00:11:31,800
In the end, you gon’ pop.
325
00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:33,965
Three years ago,
I wanted to kill myself.
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00:11:33,965 --> 00:11:36,394
People thought I was confident,
but I don’t know.
327
00:11:36,394 --> 00:11:38,361
It just came
to a screeching halt,
328
00:11:38,361 --> 00:11:41,262
and I just heard them voices
in my head
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00:11:41,262 --> 00:11:42,163
like, just end it all.
330
00:11:42,163 --> 00:11:45,833
But I told myself
I would never allow trauma
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to mess up my next day.
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Like, as brothers,
we got to let it go.
333
00:11:49,229 --> 00:11:51,394
- Me and my dad, we were going
through a little things,
334
00:11:51,394 --> 00:11:53,866
getting into a little
altercation and stuff,
335
00:11:53,866 --> 00:11:54,833
but at the end of the day,
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I know I need my connection
with my dad.
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You know what I’m saying?
Everybody needed a connection.
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Like, I don’t care
what you’re going through,
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00:12:00,932 --> 00:12:01,998
but fix it for real.
340
00:12:01,998 --> 00:12:03,833
- That’s why, too--like,
I’m about to have a son
341
00:12:03,833 --> 00:12:07,899
and whether--even though
I’m going through a divorce,
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00:12:07,899 --> 00:12:10,734
I feel like it’s really
for the better.
343
00:12:10,734 --> 00:12:13,427
Women who I’ve been with,
they’re always, like,
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00:12:13,427 --> 00:12:15,833
"You have such a wall up,"
and it’s like,
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I feel like I have to.
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00:12:17,031 --> 00:12:19,767
Yeah, so it’s, like, to
some people, it’s running away,
347
00:12:19,767 --> 00:12:23,163
but to me,
I’m just avoiding a situation.
348
00:12:23,163 --> 00:12:25,800
Like, I’m not gonna...
349
00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:28,163
I don’t want my kids
to hear yelling.
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00:12:28,163 --> 00:12:34,064
Like, the only yelling I want
my kids to hear is laughing.
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00:12:34,064 --> 00:12:36,229
I don’t want them
to hear fighting.
352
00:12:36,229 --> 00:12:39,229
I don’t want them to see it.
353
00:12:39,229 --> 00:12:40,767
That [bleep] is not healthy.
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00:12:40,767 --> 00:12:42,163
- I look at it like--
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00:12:42,163 --> 00:12:44,767
’cause I be going through
the marriage.
356
00:12:44,767 --> 00:12:46,800
She’s now two.
You know what I’m saying?
357
00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:48,394
And I ain’t really trying to be
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00:12:48,394 --> 00:12:50,328
going through
what you’re going through.
359
00:12:50,328 --> 00:12:52,295
I don’t believe in death
do you part
360
00:12:52,295 --> 00:12:55,163
because people change
the way they feel.
361
00:12:55,163 --> 00:12:55,899
Hearts change.
362
00:12:55,899 --> 00:13:00,130
But I really do think Safaree
is giving up way too early.
363
00:13:00,130 --> 00:13:02,394
In my marriage,
sometime, I be wanting
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00:13:02,394 --> 00:13:03,734
to let it be all over with.
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00:13:03,734 --> 00:13:05,097
Sometime,
I wanna just keep going.
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00:13:05,097 --> 00:13:08,361
But right now I’ma keep going
and I think he should
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00:13:08,361 --> 00:13:11,361
at least try to like give it
a little more time.
368
00:13:11,361 --> 00:13:13,965
- I’m not gonna sit here,
and lie to myself,
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00:13:13,965 --> 00:13:16,262
and say, "Yo, look, cool.
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00:13:16,262 --> 00:13:19,064
We gon’ do this.
We gonna stick it out and"--no.
371
00:13:19,064 --> 00:13:21,229
- Me and Bam,
we had conversation
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00:13:21,229 --> 00:13:22,493
about his divorce [bleep].
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00:13:22,493 --> 00:13:23,899
Bam told me like, "Man,
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00:13:23,899 --> 00:13:26,130
what happened
with [indistinct]"
375
00:13:26,130 --> 00:13:28,767
I don’t know what going on
at the end of the day.
376
00:13:28,767 --> 00:13:30,932
Man, it’s a whole bunch
of he say, she say,
377
00:13:30,932 --> 00:13:33,526
but I hope that we can
make it through.
378
00:13:33,526 --> 00:13:36,130
Like, we can have a whole bunch
of gray hair
379
00:13:36,130 --> 00:13:37,899
looking at each other cooling.
380
00:13:37,899 --> 00:13:39,427
- What’s going on
with you, Kirk?
381
00:13:39,427 --> 00:13:40,833
- That [bleep]’s [bleep]ed up.
- Nah.
382
00:13:40,833 --> 00:13:44,361
- What, you talking about
personally, family, or my kids?
383
00:13:44,361 --> 00:13:47,031
[bleep]
What [bleep] disaster.
384
00:13:47,031 --> 00:13:47,767
- What you mean?
385
00:13:47,767 --> 00:13:50,229
- Had the grand opening
yesterday, Pressed.
386
00:13:50,229 --> 00:13:51,899
The kids is there, you know?
387
00:13:51,899 --> 00:13:54,767
They start rehashing [bleep]
at the bistro.
388
00:13:54,767 --> 00:13:56,965
Ky wanna fight.
Kelsie wanna fight.
389
00:13:56,965 --> 00:13:58,833
What the [bleep]
are you talking about?
390
00:13:58,833 --> 00:14:00,229
You’re a spoiled [bleep] brat.
391
00:14:00,229 --> 00:14:01,833
My father never
gave me a car.
392
00:14:01,833 --> 00:14:03,866
My father never gave me
a [bleep] job.
393
00:14:03,866 --> 00:14:07,097
You never sold no [bleep] dope,
a [bleep] bag of weed.
394
00:14:07,097 --> 00:14:09,031
You never even had to [bleep]
be on welfare.
395
00:14:09,031 --> 00:14:10,899
I had to stand
in a [bleep] welfare line
396
00:14:10,899 --> 00:14:11,767
for cheese and bologna,
397
00:14:11,767 --> 00:14:14,526
and y’all [bleep]
doing all this [bleep] to me?
398
00:14:14,526 --> 00:14:16,295
That [bleep] make me wanna cry
399
00:14:16,295 --> 00:14:20,097
because it’s like all
that [bleep] I did, y’all,
400
00:14:20,097 --> 00:14:22,163
and y’all do
this [bleep] to me?
401
00:14:22,163 --> 00:14:22,932
- Hey, man.
402
00:14:22,932 --> 00:14:24,899
- That [bleep] hurts, bro.
I’m telling you.
403
00:14:24,899 --> 00:14:28,031
And I hate it because
it’s touching feelings
404
00:14:28,031 --> 00:14:30,031
that I never [bleep]
experienced,
405
00:14:30,031 --> 00:14:31,427
and it made me just wanna leave
406
00:14:31,427 --> 00:14:34,031
and get the [bleep]
away from here.
407
00:14:34,031 --> 00:14:40,097
- Man, I ain’t never seen Kirk
even let out a little emotion
408
00:14:40,097 --> 00:14:41,427
so yet alone cry.
409
00:14:41,427 --> 00:14:43,592
I am thrown right now,
410
00:14:43,592 --> 00:14:45,328
and I understand
where he coming from.
411
00:14:45,328 --> 00:14:48,833
It’s always, like,
wars in my life, too.
412
00:14:48,833 --> 00:14:51,899
That’s why I appreciate
the guy energy.
413
00:14:51,899 --> 00:14:54,592
I really don’t feel like
I be talking to myself.
414
00:14:54,592 --> 00:14:56,328
- Kirk, I look up to you.
Real talk.
415
00:14:56,328 --> 00:14:58,965
- I appreciate it, man.
[bleep] just gets to me.
416
00:14:58,965 --> 00:15:02,031
- You’re a real dad though,
bro, for real.
417
00:15:02,031 --> 00:15:03,866
- I can’t please all y’all.
418
00:15:03,866 --> 00:15:05,493
Is this always some [bleep]?
419
00:15:05,493 --> 00:15:08,493
And it’s just like...
420
00:15:08,493 --> 00:15:10,031
I just went down so fast.
421
00:15:10,031 --> 00:15:14,262
I didn’t even see it coming.
It just broke.
422
00:15:14,262 --> 00:15:16,328
It just hurt me just thinking
423
00:15:16,328 --> 00:15:17,625
about what my kids are doing.
424
00:15:17,625 --> 00:15:19,965
I was at a vulnerable moment
425
00:15:19,965 --> 00:15:22,196
and it felt good to have
the support of others
426
00:15:22,196 --> 00:15:25,229
and just being ever
to lift you up
427
00:15:25,229 --> 00:15:26,493
and help you get back up.
428
00:15:26,493 --> 00:15:28,592
- Bro, I appreciate you just
giving that cause
429
00:15:28,592 --> 00:15:30,229
that’s--it’s okay.
430
00:15:30,229 --> 00:15:31,097
- Yeah.
431
00:15:31,097 --> 00:15:32,031
- You gotta let it out too.
432
00:15:32,031 --> 00:15:35,361
- I go through that
with my mama, daughter,
433
00:15:35,361 --> 00:15:37,130
wife, and that helps, bro.
434
00:15:37,130 --> 00:15:39,328
Men can cry, bro.
435
00:15:41,526 --> 00:15:44,559
You just gotta just thank God
for the process.
436
00:15:44,559 --> 00:15:48,196
Be grateful for the journey
because in that journey of pain
437
00:15:48,196 --> 00:15:50,493
you still had times
where you’re smiling.
438
00:15:50,493 --> 00:15:53,965
You know what I’m saying,
he always open the clouds up.
439
00:15:53,965 --> 00:15:56,097
- I never seen you
in this emotional state ever.
440
00:15:56,097 --> 00:16:02,965
So it further shows and proves
that like it’s needed, bro.
441
00:16:02,965 --> 00:16:07,097
So when I get a chance
to sit amongst my brothers
442
00:16:07,097 --> 00:16:11,229
and we are vulnerable enough
to be transparent.
443
00:16:11,229 --> 00:16:14,427
That’s everything, bro.
444
00:16:23,097 --> 00:16:26,295
- Coming up on
"Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
445
00:16:26,295 --> 00:16:27,592
- How we feelin’?
446
00:16:27,592 --> 00:16:29,460
- You [bleep] did it.
447
00:16:29,460 --> 00:16:32,295
- You should have
been there for me.
448
00:16:32,295 --> 00:16:33,295
- Jacko, are we good?
449
00:16:33,295 --> 00:16:35,262
- What are we doing here?
- I don’t know.
450
00:16:35,262 --> 00:16:39,625
- We gon’ get to the bottom
of this Dubai situation.
451
00:16:43,788 --> 00:16:46,052
- ♪ My way to the top,
and it ain’t no stoppin’ ♪
452
00:16:46,052 --> 00:16:50,052
♪ ♪
453
00:16:50,052 --> 00:16:52,151
- ♪ Intro ♪
454
00:16:52,151 --> 00:16:54,085
♪ Production ♪
455
00:16:54,085 --> 00:16:57,722
♪ ♪
456
00:16:57,722 --> 00:16:59,382
- So my album release 10.
457
00:16:59,382 --> 00:17:02,184
The party is finally here,
and I’m happy.
458
00:17:02,184 --> 00:17:04,250
Me marching with
a marching band
459
00:17:04,250 --> 00:17:05,019
[indistinct]
460
00:17:05,019 --> 00:17:07,250
say the queen
of dancehall deh yah so.
461
00:17:07,250 --> 00:17:08,524
- Let’s show them
what we doing.
462
00:17:08,524 --> 00:17:11,283
How you feelin’?
[cheering]
463
00:17:11,283 --> 00:17:13,283
- ♪ Give me an S, S, S ♪
464
00:17:13,283 --> 00:17:15,151
♪ Give me a P, P, P ♪
465
00:17:15,151 --> 00:17:17,316
♪ Give me an I, I, I ♪
466
00:17:17,316 --> 00:17:20,283
♪ Give me a C and an E ♪
467
00:17:20,283 --> 00:17:23,689
[rapping]
468
00:17:24,458 --> 00:17:26,217
Yeah, we gotta let them know
469
00:17:26,217 --> 00:17:28,722
Spice is here,
and I’m here to stay.
470
00:17:28,722 --> 00:17:32,250
[rapping]
471
00:17:33,316 --> 00:17:35,623
[cheers and applause]
472
00:17:35,623 --> 00:17:37,349
Spice is so talented to me.
473
00:17:37,349 --> 00:17:39,590
She has hit
after hit after hit.
474
00:17:39,590 --> 00:17:41,052
I be with it,
and I began crying.
475
00:17:41,052 --> 00:17:44,019
I’m, like,
"Okay, this my [bleep], Spice."
476
00:17:44,019 --> 00:17:44,722
- How we feelin’?
477
00:17:44,722 --> 00:17:47,349
- My girl Spice is releasing
her first album.
478
00:17:47,349 --> 00:17:50,316
Me and Kirk had to get up
and be a part of this.
479
00:17:50,316 --> 00:17:53,085
We’ve been stressed the freak
out trying to figure out
480
00:17:53,085 --> 00:17:54,382
what to do about these kids.
481
00:17:54,382 --> 00:17:56,283
- First, I want to give thanks
to my mama.
482
00:17:56,283 --> 00:17:58,250
Mama Jayla, big up yourself.
483
00:17:58,250 --> 00:18:02,052
I thank you.
[applause]
484
00:18:02,250 --> 00:18:05,415
- Even though Grace said
that she was saying on "Wendy",
485
00:18:05,415 --> 00:18:06,458
she asked me to show up.
486
00:18:06,458 --> 00:18:08,788
So you know I gotta be there
to support you.
487
00:18:08,788 --> 00:18:14,656
- Last but certainly not
the least, Justin Budd.
488
00:18:14,656 --> 00:18:16,755
I thought that, you know,
he wouldn’t show up.
489
00:18:16,755 --> 00:18:19,151
So I was super excited.
He still cares.
490
00:18:19,151 --> 00:18:21,722
To see you here tonight
to celebrate with me
491
00:18:21,722 --> 00:18:23,349
on the final project
on this release,
492
00:18:23,349 --> 00:18:26,217
it’s such a joy and I
thank you so much, Justin.
493
00:18:26,217 --> 00:18:29,656
I love you so much
and I thank you.
494
00:18:29,656 --> 00:18:31,349
He is a great man to me,
495
00:18:31,349 --> 00:18:33,590
and he’s a great father
figure to my kids
496
00:18:33,590 --> 00:18:35,788
and he did support me
in some way.
497
00:18:35,788 --> 00:18:37,656
So I have to give him thanks.
498
00:18:37,656 --> 00:18:39,052
I love you all so much.
499
00:18:39,052 --> 00:18:41,052
I just want you to know
never give up.
500
00:18:41,052 --> 00:18:43,118
Believe in yourself.
Fight for your dream.
501
00:18:43,118 --> 00:18:45,283
If I can do it,
you all can do it.
502
00:18:45,283 --> 00:18:48,755
My album "10" is out!
I love you all!
503
00:18:48,755 --> 00:18:50,689
Thank you.
504
00:18:53,755 --> 00:18:57,689
♪ ♪
505
00:18:57,689 --> 00:18:59,184
Ooh!
506
00:18:59,184 --> 00:19:01,349
[cheering]
507
00:19:01,349 --> 00:19:04,590
- You [bleep] did it!
You did it.
508
00:19:04,590 --> 00:19:05,788
- That’s right.
509
00:19:05,788 --> 00:19:07,524
- It’s been a long time coming,
510
00:19:07,524 --> 00:19:09,821
and that’s why I had
to call the album "10"
511
00:19:09,821 --> 00:19:10,887
because people just need
to know
512
00:19:10,887 --> 00:19:14,557
that it’s really been ten years
waiting for this album.
513
00:19:14,557 --> 00:19:17,184
Just looking back at everything
that I’ve been through
514
00:19:17,184 --> 00:19:19,349
when it comes on
to just making it to America.
515
00:19:19,349 --> 00:19:22,382
Like, I really went through
a lot, so to see this night
516
00:19:22,382 --> 00:19:25,217
being such a success,
I’m so excited.
517
00:19:25,217 --> 00:19:28,184
The fact that Justin made
that big step to come out
518
00:19:28,184 --> 00:19:29,788
to support me
at my album launch.
519
00:19:29,788 --> 00:19:33,557
I know that there’s something
in him for us.
520
00:19:33,557 --> 00:19:34,590
I also want to apologize
521
00:19:34,590 --> 00:19:38,382
because if he had said
he was single on an interview,
522
00:19:38,382 --> 00:19:42,283
I probably would have felt
some kind of way.
523
00:19:43,415 --> 00:19:45,854
Thanks for coming.
Supporting.
524
00:19:45,854 --> 00:19:47,491
- I always try to be here
to support you.
525
00:19:47,491 --> 00:19:49,491
- But you should’ve been there
for me
526
00:19:49,491 --> 00:19:50,887
and I just felt like
you were being spiteful.
527
00:19:50,887 --> 00:19:54,821
- You telling me that I’m not
there for you that touches me
528
00:19:54,821 --> 00:19:57,151
in a certain place
because I know
529
00:19:57,151 --> 00:19:58,382
what I do to be there
for you.
530
00:19:58,382 --> 00:19:59,458
- And I appreciate you,
531
00:19:59,458 --> 00:20:01,590
but you know it’s hard for me
to say I’m sorry,
532
00:20:01,590 --> 00:20:05,283
but I’m saying if I said
I was single,
533
00:20:05,283 --> 00:20:09,557
and you feel some kind of way,
I’m sorry.
534
00:20:09,557 --> 00:20:12,887
Justin is a great man,
but I just want him to be
535
00:20:12,887 --> 00:20:16,590
that great man to me
all the time not sometimes.
536
00:20:16,590 --> 00:20:18,524
Can I go celebrate
my album now?
537
00:20:18,524 --> 00:20:19,755
- Can I have a kiss first?
538
00:20:19,755 --> 00:20:20,689
- Sure.
[both laugh]
539
00:20:20,689 --> 00:20:23,217
Don’t get me wrong.
Me really miss my man.
540
00:20:23,217 --> 00:20:26,151
Me want me likkle relationship
for work out, you know?
541
00:20:26,151 --> 00:20:28,854
It’s something
worth fighting for.
542
00:20:30,458 --> 00:20:33,491
[tense music]
543
00:20:33,491 --> 00:20:38,217
♪ ♪
544
00:20:38,217 --> 00:20:42,217
- So I got a really weird
text message from scrappy
545
00:20:42,217 --> 00:20:45,590
saying meet him
at this warehouse
546
00:20:45,590 --> 00:20:48,887
and wear all black.
547
00:20:48,887 --> 00:20:52,887
With a damn stuffed dog.
What?
548
00:20:53,854 --> 00:20:56,623
- Hey, Bam.
- Hey.
549
00:20:59,986 --> 00:21:02,821
- How you doin’?
How you feelin’?
550
00:21:02,821 --> 00:21:04,590
- Do you care?
- Yes.
551
00:21:04,590 --> 00:21:05,755
- Okay, I’m good.
552
00:21:05,755 --> 00:21:08,415
- What the [bleep]
are we doing?
553
00:21:08,415 --> 00:21:09,382
Momma Dee is the last person
554
00:21:09,382 --> 00:21:10,986
I wanna be looking
at right now.
555
00:21:10,986 --> 00:21:14,382
[both shouting]
556
00:21:14,382 --> 00:21:15,458
- We got lawyers too.
557
00:21:15,458 --> 00:21:16,953
- Okay.
- And we can pay.
558
00:21:16,953 --> 00:21:18,689
- Okay.
559
00:21:18,689 --> 00:21:19,283
- Ciara.
560
00:21:19,283 --> 00:21:21,623
- So then Ciara comes in.
Now I’m thinking okay,
561
00:21:21,623 --> 00:21:26,458
maybe he’s gonna address some
things that went on in Dubai.
562
00:21:26,458 --> 00:21:27,689
I’m kind of putting
that together.
563
00:21:27,689 --> 00:21:30,689
- I feel like we in
a Scarface movie.
564
00:21:30,689 --> 00:21:32,590
[laughter]
- I know, right?
565
00:21:32,590 --> 00:21:34,689
♪ ♪
566
00:21:34,689 --> 00:21:35,689
- I need to get some stress
567
00:21:35,689 --> 00:21:37,349
off my head and my shoulders,
man.
568
00:21:37,349 --> 00:21:40,920
All these rumors I been hearing
that Bam was trying to do this
569
00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:42,953
and that and divorce
and take money
570
00:21:42,953 --> 00:21:44,524
and all
that kind of crazy stuff.
571
00:21:44,524 --> 00:21:47,283
Man, the hell
with all this, man.
572
00:21:47,283 --> 00:21:49,349
Everybody got their own story
about Dubai.
573
00:21:49,349 --> 00:21:52,524
I just wanna put this story
that story together
574
00:21:52,524 --> 00:21:54,283
and get down
to the bottom of it,
575
00:21:54,283 --> 00:21:55,788
and we gon’ do this today,
pimp.
576
00:21:55,788 --> 00:21:58,415
Everybody want a show
and all this [bleep],
577
00:21:58,415 --> 00:22:00,986
I’ma give they ass a show.
578
00:22:01,349 --> 00:22:03,953
- Oh, look what the cat
drug in.
579
00:22:03,953 --> 00:22:05,491
- Well, well, well.
580
00:22:05,491 --> 00:22:06,920
The clan is here,
581
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:08,953
- We’ve been waiting for you.
582
00:22:08,953 --> 00:22:10,722
- Jacko, you good?
583
00:22:10,722 --> 00:22:13,019
I love me some
"New Jack City."
584
00:22:13,019 --> 00:22:14,019
I love me some Martin.
585
00:22:14,019 --> 00:22:16,953
I really want to get down
to the nitty-gritty,
586
00:22:16,953 --> 00:22:17,821
but at the same time,
587
00:22:17,821 --> 00:22:19,316
relieve some tension
that’s in the room
588
00:22:19,316 --> 00:22:20,788
’cause I know
there’s gonna be some tension.
589
00:22:20,788 --> 00:22:23,755
See, I know everybody
wondering, "What the hell
590
00:22:23,755 --> 00:22:26,656
Scrappy got me here for?
What we doin’?"
591
00:22:26,656 --> 00:22:27,788
But at the same time,
592
00:22:27,788 --> 00:22:30,920
I’m wondering how the hell
we got here too.
593
00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:32,524
- You text us.
594
00:22:32,524 --> 00:22:34,590
[thunder booms]
[screaming]
595
00:22:34,590 --> 00:22:35,349
- [bleep]!
596
00:22:35,349 --> 00:22:36,920
- That was the man upstairs
597
00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:41,019
- [screams]
[chatter]
598
00:22:41,019 --> 00:22:42,854
- Hold on. Hold on, though.
599
00:22:42,854 --> 00:22:45,788
We gon’ get to the bottom
of this Dubai situation.
600
00:22:45,788 --> 00:22:48,085
You know what I’m saying?
If somebody knows something.
601
00:22:48,085 --> 00:22:50,953
Who started it?
Who motivated it?
602
00:22:50,953 --> 00:22:54,524
Who trying to turn
my life upside down?
603
00:22:57,118 --> 00:22:58,151
- Don’t look at me.
I ain’t--
604
00:22:58,151 --> 00:22:59,986
- I’m just sayin’--I’m--
- I--
605
00:22:59,986 --> 00:23:02,415
- I done heard your name
couple times, say, say.
606
00:23:02,415 --> 00:23:05,887
- And I’m trying to figure out
where this all is coming from.
607
00:23:05,887 --> 00:23:07,920
- Man, Scrappy is walking
around the table
608
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:11,590
with his Teddy bear dog
like he’s Nino Brown.
609
00:23:11,590 --> 00:23:12,821
I have no idea what’s going on.
610
00:23:12,821 --> 00:23:14,557
You gotta tell him
what you told me about.
611
00:23:14,557 --> 00:23:15,623
- I’m just trying
to figure it out.
612
00:23:15,623 --> 00:23:19,656
- At y’all wedding,
somebody said
613
00:23:19,656 --> 00:23:21,052
that we were getting a divorce
614
00:23:21,052 --> 00:23:24,821
and that I was trying
to take all of his money.
615
00:23:24,821 --> 00:23:26,887
- That’s what was said.
That’s what was said.
616
00:23:26,887 --> 00:23:30,524
- Who said that you was trying
to take all the money?
617
00:23:30,524 --> 00:23:33,085
- She said that.
- Oh, no, Momma Dee.
618
00:23:33,085 --> 00:23:35,689
- She said it.
- Oh, no.
619
00:23:35,689 --> 00:23:36,623
- We’re not going to lie.
620
00:23:36,623 --> 00:23:39,821
- I told you that Bambi
was thinking about divorce,
621
00:23:39,821 --> 00:23:42,085
but never anything about me.
622
00:23:42,085 --> 00:23:43,349
From my understanding,
623
00:23:43,349 --> 00:23:46,458
Bambi wants a divorce
and she wanna separate.
624
00:23:46,458 --> 00:23:48,557
Like, she don’t wanna be
in a house with Scrap.
625
00:23:48,557 --> 00:23:51,491
- So can I ask you
a question about that?
626
00:23:51,491 --> 00:23:52,316
Was you a little tipsy
627
00:23:52,316 --> 00:23:55,019
when you heard
this information?
628
00:23:57,184 --> 00:23:59,019
- Yes, I was.
I ain’t gonna lie.
629
00:23:59,019 --> 00:24:01,755
- Okay.
- Momma Dee, so you told me
630
00:24:01,755 --> 00:24:03,085
to come into the palace,
you said--
631
00:24:03,085 --> 00:24:05,755
- Then you came over and sat
next to me. I remember.
632
00:24:05,755 --> 00:24:06,689
- I never said that.
633
00:24:06,689 --> 00:24:08,821
- You know what--you know
what I think?
634
00:24:08,821 --> 00:24:11,415
I think she just probably
misunderstood something.
635
00:24:11,415 --> 00:24:14,887
You feel me?
And it’s okay. You dig?
636
00:24:14,887 --> 00:24:17,052
- Momma Dee,
don’t call me into
637
00:24:17,052 --> 00:24:18,052
that goddamn palace no more.
638
00:24:18,052 --> 00:24:20,689
I don’t give a damn
if the prince, the king,
639
00:24:20,689 --> 00:24:21,557
and the horses is doing--
640
00:24:21,557 --> 00:24:24,491
whoever else is
riding up out that bitch--
641
00:24:24,491 --> 00:24:25,415
I don’t want no parts.
642
00:24:25,415 --> 00:24:27,887
Keep me away from it,
Momma Dee. Goodbye.
643
00:24:27,887 --> 00:24:30,656
I’m sorry that y’all got,
you know,
644
00:24:30,656 --> 00:24:32,184
dragged into this mess.
645
00:24:32,184 --> 00:24:34,151
- Next time can we
just get on Zoom?
646
00:24:34,151 --> 00:24:37,019
- I love y’all.
[crosstalk]
647
00:24:37,019 --> 00:24:38,755
- Bam, you can stay.
648
00:24:38,755 --> 00:24:40,986
- I gotta stay in here.
649
00:24:40,986 --> 00:24:42,755
- I really think
I got to the bottom
650
00:24:42,755 --> 00:24:44,250
of what happened in Dubai.
651
00:24:44,250 --> 00:24:45,986
Now it’s time
to get to real life.
652
00:24:45,986 --> 00:24:49,118
Me and Bam got some
real [bleep] going on, man.
653
00:24:49,118 --> 00:24:51,557
We gotta work through
some things.
654
00:24:51,557 --> 00:24:56,217
♪ ♪
655
00:24:56,217 --> 00:24:58,821
Coming up on
"Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
656
00:24:58,821 --> 00:25:02,151
- You know I got anger
towards you, and I’m gonna do
657
00:25:02,151 --> 00:25:04,821
what I need to do
to make this situation change.
658
00:25:04,821 --> 00:25:07,118
- I’m weeks away from
giving birth to our son.
659
00:25:07,118 --> 00:25:10,689
It’s you that’s out of town.
It’s me stuck in this house
660
00:25:10,689 --> 00:25:13,986
by myself,
taking care of our daughter.
661
00:25:18,722 --> 00:25:19,622
- ♪ My way to the top,
and it ain't no stoppin' ♪
662
00:25:19,689 --> 00:25:23,960
♪ ♪
663
00:25:24,027 --> 00:25:25,562
- Hello, boo.
664
00:25:25,628 --> 00:25:29,799
- Hello. Your--your antics.
665
00:25:29,866 --> 00:25:31,735
- About Bam trying
to leave the Scrap.
666
00:25:31,801 --> 00:25:34,604
You feel me? I was upset
and pissed off.
667
00:25:34,671 --> 00:25:36,372
'Cause you were telling your
homegirl
668
00:25:36,439 --> 00:25:38,174
and not me,
and I had to see why.
669
00:25:38,241 --> 00:25:40,443
You know, I don't understand
that I had a lot
670
00:25:40,510 --> 00:25:42,112
of anger towards you,
671
00:25:42,178 --> 00:25:45,815
and at the same time,
672
00:25:45,882 --> 00:25:47,617
I know you have a lot
of anger too.
673
00:25:47,684 --> 00:25:49,586
So we like--we human.
674
00:25:49,652 --> 00:25:52,889
I feel like, you know,
we should keep trying.
675
00:25:52,956 --> 00:25:55,024
- I mean, it's a lot of
different things
676
00:25:55,091 --> 00:25:58,194
we could be doing
that we are not doing
677
00:25:58,261 --> 00:26:01,498
and I feel like
that's why this keeps repeating
678
00:26:01,564 --> 00:26:03,566
like, the same pattern.
679
00:26:03,633 --> 00:26:05,135
- You know, we feel
the way we feel.
680
00:26:05,201 --> 00:26:06,703
Sometime we act out.
681
00:26:06,770 --> 00:26:08,571
Sometime might be right
sometime it might be wrong,
682
00:26:08,638 --> 00:26:11,808
but I'm just like--
I'm dealing with myself
683
00:26:11,875 --> 00:26:16,045
and do what I need to do
to make the situation change.
684
00:26:16,112 --> 00:26:18,681
I love you.
I know you love me, you know?
685
00:26:18,748 --> 00:26:20,650
- Yes.
- Just go through a whole bunch
686
00:26:20,717 --> 00:26:22,819
of craziness,
you know what I'm saying?
687
00:26:22,886 --> 00:26:25,622
- I do feel like
something clicked,
688
00:26:25,688 --> 00:26:27,590
like, overnight in you.
689
00:26:27,657 --> 00:26:30,026
You know, you had
the ring on in the house.
690
00:26:30,093 --> 00:26:32,796
- I had a conversation
with myself and I said, "Self
691
00:26:32,862 --> 00:26:35,832
"if you gon' be married,
you gon' do this thing
692
00:26:35,899 --> 00:26:37,667
till it's over with,
you know what I'm saying,
693
00:26:37,734 --> 00:26:39,769
and play your part
till it's over with.
694
00:26:39,836 --> 00:26:43,006
- We both should start, like,
really focusing for real
695
00:26:43,073 --> 00:26:46,843
on individually,
like, our mental health.
696
00:26:46,910 --> 00:26:50,080
I know a few weeks ago
I was just, like, not okay
697
00:26:50,146 --> 00:26:52,048
with the idea
of doing counseling,
698
00:26:52,115 --> 00:26:55,985
but, you know, if we are gonna
move forward like, I feel like
699
00:26:56,052 --> 00:26:58,521
that's something that's
gonna be really important.
700
00:26:58,588 --> 00:27:00,123
- Yeah, I feel that.
701
00:27:00,190 --> 00:27:03,026
- I love my husband,
I love our family,
702
00:27:03,093 --> 00:27:05,995
and Scrap and I
having conversations
703
00:27:06,062 --> 00:27:09,666
about his mental health
is a huge step for him
704
00:27:09,733 --> 00:27:11,367
because he never
admit [bleep].
705
00:27:11,434 --> 00:27:15,872
But we have to, you know,
evolve, like, every day.
706
00:27:15,939 --> 00:27:19,008
We have to just want
to do better for ourselves
707
00:27:19,075 --> 00:27:20,477
and our children.
708
00:27:20,543 --> 00:27:24,013
- I just wanna take you home
and rub on your stomach
709
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:30,186
and rub on your feet
and kiss on your mouth.
710
00:27:30,286 --> 00:27:32,288
- What are you gonna do
with your kids?
711
00:27:32,322 --> 00:27:33,590
- They gonna go
in the other room.
712
00:27:33,656 --> 00:27:36,726
[both laugh]
713
00:27:39,362 --> 00:27:45,034
- ♪ When I know that
it's over ♪
714
00:27:45,101 --> 00:27:48,605
♪ I can see that
it's meant to be ♪
715
00:27:48,671 --> 00:27:50,840
- Damn.
716
00:27:50,907 --> 00:27:53,076
- ♪ Now I feel
a little sober ♪
717
00:27:53,143 --> 00:27:54,978
- I haven't been to that house
for a few weeks.
718
00:27:55,044 --> 00:27:57,313
So this is the first time
I've seen Erica
719
00:27:57,380 --> 00:27:59,382
since we both
filed for divorce
720
00:27:59,449 --> 00:28:01,484
and, you know,
we just haven't been speaking.
721
00:28:01,551 --> 00:28:04,320
We got each other blocked,
and nothing has been nice
722
00:28:04,387 --> 00:28:06,089
about our communications.
723
00:28:06,156 --> 00:28:12,228
- ♪ A thousand miles
from who I used to be ♪
724
00:28:12,328 --> 00:28:16,766
I just want our relationship
to just be co-parenting,
725
00:28:16,833 --> 00:28:20,503
no more arguing,
as calm and smooth as possible.
726
00:28:20,570 --> 00:28:22,539
- You look nice.
- I'm sure.
727
00:28:22,605 --> 00:28:23,540
- What's new?
728
00:28:23,606 --> 00:28:25,275
- You being here.
729
00:28:25,341 --> 00:28:27,177
- [chuckles]
730
00:28:27,277 --> 00:28:29,145
- Are you happy?
731
00:28:32,982 --> 00:28:34,384
- It's what you wanted.
732
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:40,056
I haven't seen my husband
face-to-face in some time,
733
00:28:40,123 --> 00:28:45,795
and as much as I love him,
I love me more.
734
00:28:45,862 --> 00:28:47,297
We're gonna have this
conversation
735
00:28:47,297 --> 00:28:48,932
'cause we need it.
736
00:28:48,998 --> 00:28:51,201
The main thing is
that my kids come first.
737
00:28:51,301 --> 00:28:54,838
You know, we gotta get this
co-parenting thing figured out.
738
00:28:54,904 --> 00:28:56,973
- I'm still gonna be around.
At the end of the day,
739
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:58,742
whether me and you
are together or not,
740
00:28:58,808 --> 00:29:02,412
I'm going to still be
100% for my family.
741
00:29:02,479 --> 00:29:04,347
- How, when you don't have
a family now?
742
00:29:04,414 --> 00:29:07,016
- This is still my family.
- What is?
743
00:29:07,083 --> 00:29:10,019
You don't care if your kids
grow up in a broken home.
744
00:29:10,086 --> 00:29:11,755
- It won't be a broken home.
- Yes, it is.
745
00:29:11,821 --> 00:29:13,723
You're living somewhere else.
I'm living here.
746
00:29:13,790 --> 00:29:15,225
That's a broken home.
747
00:29:15,325 --> 00:29:18,128
And therefore, I have to suffer
'cause you get to live
748
00:29:18,261 --> 00:29:20,430
where you say 20 minutes away,
749
00:29:20,497 --> 00:29:22,031
wake up when you feel like it,
750
00:29:22,098 --> 00:29:25,935
do as you please while I have
to be around the clock 24/7,
751
00:29:26,002 --> 00:29:27,270
a mother and a father
752
00:29:27,303 --> 00:29:29,773
when you're not around
to our children.
753
00:29:29,839 --> 00:29:32,075
I'm weeks away from
giving birth to our son.
754
00:29:32,142 --> 00:29:33,843
It's you that's out of town.
755
00:29:33,910 --> 00:29:36,079
It's me stuck in this house
by myself
756
00:29:36,146 --> 00:29:37,680
taking care of our daughter.
757
00:29:37,747 --> 00:29:40,083
- You know, I definitely take
responsibility for the things
758
00:29:40,150 --> 00:29:42,652
that, you know,
I've done to cause her pain.
759
00:29:42,719 --> 00:29:44,320
But the last time
I was at the house,
760
00:29:44,387 --> 00:29:45,688
I had to call the police
761
00:29:45,755 --> 00:29:47,390
because me and her
got into an argument
762
00:29:47,457 --> 00:29:49,092
and she starts yelling
and crying
763
00:29:49,159 --> 00:29:54,164
and throwing stuff at me
and picking up sharp objects
764
00:29:54,297 --> 00:29:56,299
and I just need
to protect myself.
765
00:29:56,366 --> 00:29:58,301
Look, I'm not gonna
lie to myself.
766
00:29:58,301 --> 00:30:01,471
The inevitable with me
and you is us not lasting.
767
00:30:01,538 --> 00:30:04,774
- It's not gonna last
because you put no effort.
768
00:30:04,841 --> 00:30:08,044
If you love us
the way you love you, yes.
769
00:30:08,111 --> 00:30:12,649
If you decided
I'm going to be a man for mine.
770
00:30:12,715 --> 00:30:15,652
Yes.
But I know that's not the case
771
00:30:15,718 --> 00:30:18,288
and that's why I filed
for divorce.
772
00:30:18,354 --> 00:30:23,560
I know you will never
put us before you. Never.
773
00:30:23,626 --> 00:30:28,898
This is really [bleep] up.
I feel scammed.
774
00:30:28,965 --> 00:30:30,700
So now you're free.
775
00:30:30,767 --> 00:30:32,635
Congratulations.
You got what you want.
776
00:30:32,702 --> 00:30:34,137
You can live
your bachelor life.
777
00:30:34,270 --> 00:30:35,972
- It's not about bachelor life.
- You can do all of that
778
00:30:36,039 --> 00:30:37,474
that you want to do now.
- I love being a father,
779
00:30:37,540 --> 00:30:39,776
and I want us to just be--
- Yeah, okay.
780
00:30:39,843 --> 00:30:41,044
- Be amazing for our children.
781
00:30:41,111 --> 00:30:42,445
- Yeah, okay.
- She looks at me
782
00:30:42,512 --> 00:30:45,448
with so much anger sometimes
it's like damn.
783
00:30:45,515 --> 00:30:48,118
But I know where my heart is,
I know what I wanna do.
784
00:30:48,184 --> 00:30:50,720
I still wanna be there
and do as much as, you know,
785
00:30:50,787 --> 00:30:52,389
you know, I can with the kids.
786
00:30:52,455 --> 00:30:55,492
- Our son will be born
in a couple of weeks,
787
00:30:55,558 --> 00:30:56,960
so that by the time he comes,
788
00:30:57,026 --> 00:30:59,129
I can really fully wrap my head
around the fact
789
00:30:59,195 --> 00:31:02,465
that I'm gonna be a single
mother of two under two.
790
00:31:02,532 --> 00:31:03,900
- I'm gonna check on Mahjee.
791
00:31:03,967 --> 00:31:06,870
[somber music]
792
00:31:06,936 --> 00:31:14,077
♪ ♪
793
00:31:16,579 --> 00:31:18,915
- Coming up on "Love & Hip
Hop: Atlanta"...
794
00:31:18,982 --> 00:31:21,317
- Things are not
what they used to be.
795
00:31:21,384 --> 00:31:25,021
I would rather sell the bistro
than have all of this conflict
796
00:31:25,088 --> 00:31:28,525
and bull[bleep] going on,
and in order for it to change,
797
00:31:28,591 --> 00:31:30,026
there's gotta be a change.
798
00:31:30,093 --> 00:31:33,129
♪ ♪
799
00:31:34,798 --> 00:31:36,099
- ♪ A thousand miles
from who I-- ♪
800
00:31:35,386 --> 00:31:38,419
- ♪ My way to the top,
and it ain’t no stoppin’ ♪
801
00:31:38,419 --> 00:31:39,221
- ♪ Yeah ♪
802
00:31:39,221 --> 00:31:40,947
♪ Get ’em down
take around ♪
803
00:31:40,947 --> 00:31:42,320
♪ Now it’s time to shine ♪
804
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:44,287
♪ Get the sack,
get it filled ♪
805
00:31:44,287 --> 00:31:46,617
- What’s up, guys?
- Hola, hola, hola.
806
00:31:46,617 --> 00:31:49,980
- Since the situation
at the grand opening,
807
00:31:49,980 --> 00:31:52,386
Kirk and I have just been
trying to figure out,
808
00:31:52,386 --> 00:31:53,617
like, what’s the next step?
809
00:31:53,617 --> 00:31:55,188
- Sometimes when kids
do wrong [bleep],
810
00:31:55,188 --> 00:31:58,386
you really gotta back up and
let them taste that [bleep]
811
00:31:58,386 --> 00:32:00,254
so they chill the [bleep] out.
- They have to.
812
00:32:00,254 --> 00:32:04,089
- So we figured let’s meet
with the kids individually
813
00:32:04,089 --> 00:32:07,188
and talk to everybody,
and basically let them know
814
00:32:07,188 --> 00:32:09,056
that Kirk and I
want to be supportive,
815
00:32:09,056 --> 00:32:12,188
but we need them to understand
y’all are [bleep] [bleep] up.
816
00:32:12,188 --> 00:32:16,353
Everything that happened
the other night, I was in shock
817
00:32:16,353 --> 00:32:20,551
- What in the hell is wrong
with my children?
818
00:32:20,551 --> 00:32:22,320
- I can apologize for it,
819
00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:25,155
taking part in how
the grand opening was.
820
00:32:25,155 --> 00:32:27,881
- It was kinda-- kinda crazy.
821
00:32:27,881 --> 00:32:28,716
- Since it did happen,
822
00:32:28,716 --> 00:32:32,122
I would prefer it to happen
somewhere else or at least--
823
00:32:32,122 --> 00:32:34,013
- I wouldn’t want it
to happen all.
824
00:32:34,013 --> 00:32:35,485
- Where did it all go wrong?
825
00:32:35,485 --> 00:32:37,947
- We was having a family
conversation, and [bleep]
826
00:32:37,947 --> 00:32:40,056
just went left real quick.
- We straight.
827
00:32:40,056 --> 00:32:42,122
It ain’t going to never be me
fighting my sister,
828
00:32:42,122 --> 00:32:43,617
but one thing
I’m not gonna do, like,
829
00:32:43,617 --> 00:32:45,386
is let her talk to me
no type of way.
830
00:32:45,386 --> 00:32:47,551
- The way Ky came at me
it’s kinda like
831
00:32:47,551 --> 00:32:48,419
I don’t like aggression,
832
00:32:48,419 --> 00:32:49,683
especially not coming
from a dude.
833
00:32:49,683 --> 00:32:51,551
- Especially not coming
from your brother.
834
00:32:51,551 --> 00:32:53,122
- Well, I don’t feel like
it’s my siblings.
835
00:32:53,122 --> 00:32:55,254
I definitely feel like
it’s your girlfriends.
836
00:32:55,254 --> 00:32:56,914
- Amina and Kelsey
needed to work it out
837
00:32:56,914 --> 00:32:59,914
’cause it always causes
Chelsea and Ky to argue.
838
00:32:59,914 --> 00:33:02,650
- I totally feel like
blaming stuff on Ciara,
839
00:33:02,650 --> 00:33:03,980
blaming it on Amina.
840
00:33:03,980 --> 00:33:07,980
All that’s cool,
but no, you guys are grown.
841
00:33:07,980 --> 00:33:10,551
Like, you gotta look in the
mirror and say, you know what?
842
00:33:10,551 --> 00:33:14,089
"I [bleeped] up too.
I messed up. This is wrong."
843
00:33:14,089 --> 00:33:16,089
Like, let’s stop
talking about these girls
844
00:33:16,089 --> 00:33:18,089
’cause I told y’all,
don’t bring it in here,
845
00:33:18,089 --> 00:33:21,013
you did it, and now we having
all these problems.
846
00:33:21,013 --> 00:33:22,947
Things are not
what they used to be.
847
00:33:22,947 --> 00:33:27,287
I would rather sell the bistro
than have all of this conflict
848
00:33:27,287 --> 00:33:28,188
and bull[bleep] going on.
849
00:33:28,188 --> 00:33:32,518
And in order for it to change,
there’s gotta be a change.
850
00:33:32,518 --> 00:33:35,386
I feel like we need to find a
path to make sure things,
851
00:33:35,386 --> 00:33:38,089
number one, get back like
how they was, and then remain
852
00:33:38,089 --> 00:33:41,452
and get stronger and grow
in the right direction.
853
00:33:41,452 --> 00:33:44,221
We letting Amina and Ciara
go at this point,
854
00:33:44,221 --> 00:33:46,122
but I don’t think that’s enough
to save the family.
855
00:33:46,122 --> 00:33:52,013
The plan is to kind of just let
all the kids go at this point.
856
00:33:52,013 --> 00:33:55,056
[dramatic music]
857
00:33:55,056 --> 00:33:56,320
♪ ♪
858
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:59,320
- Me and Kirk making
the decision to say,
859
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:02,188
let’s let the kids go
is hard as a parent.
860
00:34:02,188 --> 00:34:04,716
We tried,
we did everything we could,
861
00:34:04,716 --> 00:34:06,518
and now it’s time for them
to just move on.
862
00:34:06,518 --> 00:34:10,584
They know how this has
affected us on a family level.
863
00:34:10,584 --> 00:34:13,419
Like, we ain’t on the same
[bleep] we used to be on.
864
00:34:13,419 --> 00:34:15,617
In order for us to get back
to that good place,
865
00:34:15,617 --> 00:34:19,254
I think it’s best for us
to not work together.
866
00:34:19,254 --> 00:34:21,287
- That’s--I don’t--
867
00:34:21,287 --> 00:34:23,386
- I’ve worked with y’all
since day one.
868
00:34:23,386 --> 00:34:28,056
Getting rid of them is a plus,
but getting rid of us...
869
00:34:29,518 --> 00:34:33,452
is also probably
a better thing to do as well.
870
00:34:33,452 --> 00:34:36,155
- That’s not gonna change
how I feel about y’all.
871
00:34:36,155 --> 00:34:38,485
I love y’all, regardless.
I don’t mix that business
872
00:34:38,485 --> 00:34:40,155
with how I feel about y’all.
873
00:34:40,155 --> 00:34:42,584
- Shoot, I’m with--
[indistinct]
874
00:34:42,584 --> 00:34:43,287
[laughter]
875
00:34:43,287 --> 00:34:45,815
- The plan is definitely
to get you out of Frost Bistro,
876
00:34:45,815 --> 00:34:48,254
but the plan to help
y’all become entrepreneurs,
877
00:34:48,254 --> 00:34:50,782
and we’re gonna help
y’all start your own business
878
00:34:50,782 --> 00:34:53,320
and help you out and be great
at what you wanna do.
879
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:56,683
I feel like this is a great
move for the family aspect.
880
00:34:56,683 --> 00:34:59,122
I do feel like
starting a new business
881
00:34:59,122 --> 00:35:00,386
it will be some work for them,
882
00:35:00,386 --> 00:35:03,782
but I feel like we can begin
to begin to heal
883
00:35:03,782 --> 00:35:06,518
and get back closer
to being family
884
00:35:06,518 --> 00:35:07,782
and get rid of the [bleep].
885
00:35:07,782 --> 00:35:09,320
The next time you try me,
though,
886
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:11,254
I’m gonna make you feel
something.
887
00:35:11,254 --> 00:35:15,089
Just so you hear me.
- Really. [laughs]
888
00:35:17,977 --> 00:35:20,472
- ♪ My way to the top,
and it ain’t no stoppin’ ♪
889
00:35:20,472 --> 00:35:24,538
♪ ♪
890
00:35:24,538 --> 00:35:27,670
- ♪ We’re gonna live
our best life ♪
891
00:35:27,670 --> 00:35:31,472
♪ We’re gonna
have a good time ♪
892
00:35:31,472 --> 00:35:33,637
- Moving down to Atlanta
is something
893
00:35:33,637 --> 00:35:36,406
Mendecees has wanted do
for a very long time.
894
00:35:36,406 --> 00:35:40,538
So to now see all of his
children together and happy,
895
00:35:40,538 --> 00:35:42,142
it means the world to him.
896
00:35:42,142 --> 00:35:43,802
- This [bleep] has been
amazing for me.
897
00:35:43,802 --> 00:35:46,538
All my kids
underneath one roof.
898
00:35:46,538 --> 00:35:47,274
My wife is happy.
899
00:35:47,274 --> 00:35:50,340
Of course, we still, you know,
got little problems.
900
00:35:50,340 --> 00:35:52,274
- I think that I have
experienced
901
00:35:52,274 --> 00:35:54,802
the highest of highs
in my marriage
902
00:35:54,802 --> 00:35:55,670
and the lowest of lows,
903
00:35:55,670 --> 00:36:00,604
but ultimately, we walked out
better than we started in.
904
00:36:00,604 --> 00:36:03,604
- ♪ We’re gonna live
our best life ♪
905
00:36:03,604 --> 00:36:06,802
♪ We’re gonna have
a good time ♪
906
00:36:06,802 --> 00:36:09,736
- I started this year
out working really hard,
907
00:36:09,736 --> 00:36:12,340
recording, Foogiano
going to jail,
908
00:36:12,340 --> 00:36:13,670
being away from my kids,
909
00:36:13,670 --> 00:36:17,142
trying to figure things out,
and move on with my mom.
910
00:36:17,142 --> 00:36:20,802
But now everything is
falling back into place.
911
00:36:20,802 --> 00:36:22,373
My kids are here with me.
912
00:36:22,373 --> 00:36:24,373
We’re about to have us
a movie night.
913
00:36:24,373 --> 00:36:27,406
These times right here
mean the most to me,
914
00:36:27,406 --> 00:36:30,769
and that’s what I’m working
so hard for.
915
00:36:30,769 --> 00:36:33,208
- ♪ We’re gonna
have a good time ♪
916
00:36:33,208 --> 00:36:37,736
- This year has been a roller
coaster, to say the least.
917
00:36:37,736 --> 00:36:39,142
Things could be a lot better
918
00:36:39,142 --> 00:36:42,538
if Scrap would really just
focused on his mental health.
919
00:36:42,538 --> 00:36:44,835
Whatever needs to happen
in order for you
920
00:36:44,835 --> 00:36:46,340
to have a better
quality of life,
921
00:36:46,340 --> 00:36:47,802
I think we should
focus on that.
922
00:36:47,802 --> 00:36:51,241
- When it comes to what I
think the future gon’ be
923
00:36:51,241 --> 00:36:52,109
all I know right now
924
00:36:52,109 --> 00:36:55,538
is I want to be married
the rest of my life
925
00:36:55,538 --> 00:36:57,505
and to be filled
with the journey
926
00:36:57,505 --> 00:36:59,670
that God has meant
for me to have.
927
00:36:59,670 --> 00:37:00,538
You dig what I’m saying?
928
00:37:00,538 --> 00:37:04,175
- ♪ Yeah, we living
in the moment ♪
929
00:37:04,175 --> 00:37:07,637
- I definitely did come into
this year wanting love,
930
00:37:07,637 --> 00:37:12,340
but this record deal is just
going to take me to the places
931
00:37:12,340 --> 00:37:14,373
that I’ve always known
I should be.
932
00:37:14,373 --> 00:37:18,373
So I found love in my pockets.
933
00:37:18,373 --> 00:37:19,901
I threw out the one guap
934
00:37:19,901 --> 00:37:21,802
and I went
and got a million guaps,
935
00:37:21,802 --> 00:37:24,670
and I’m so excited
about the future.
936
00:37:24,670 --> 00:37:27,538
- ♪ We’re gonna live
our best life ♪
937
00:37:27,538 --> 00:37:31,340
♪ We’re gonna have
a good time ♪
938
00:37:31,340 --> 00:37:33,505
- I finally made it in America.
939
00:37:33,505 --> 00:37:35,977
I’m just living
my American dreams.
940
00:37:35,977 --> 00:37:37,241
My album is a success.
941
00:37:37,241 --> 00:37:39,373
Justin and I,
we’re working things out.
942
00:37:39,373 --> 00:37:41,944
I’m going to take
over the universe,
943
00:37:41,944 --> 00:37:42,868
Queen of dancehall for Mars,
944
00:37:42,868 --> 00:37:46,538
Jupiter, Saturn, and definitely
mother [bleep] Earth.
945
00:37:46,538 --> 00:37:47,769
- ♪ It’s always
gon’ be hating ♪
946
00:37:47,769 --> 00:37:50,241
♪ When you still
on your grind, yeah ♪
947
00:37:50,241 --> 00:37:51,241
- So I gotta be honest, man.
948
00:37:51,241 --> 00:37:52,944
I’m very optimistic
about this next year life
949
00:37:52,944 --> 00:37:56,604
opening up this new rim shop,
exclusive rims and tires.
950
00:37:56,604 --> 00:37:58,439
I think my son
is starting to see
951
00:37:58,439 --> 00:37:59,439
what’s real and what ain’t.
952
00:37:59,439 --> 00:38:02,835
I’m very appreciative
of our newfound happiness
953
00:38:02,835 --> 00:38:03,835
with our relationship.
954
00:38:03,835 --> 00:38:06,406
Family--
mm, ain’t nothing like it.
955
00:38:06,406 --> 00:38:10,670
- ♪ We’re gonna live
our best life ♪
956
00:38:10,670 --> 00:38:12,670
- To me, my music
is more relatable
957
00:38:12,670 --> 00:38:14,472
because it’s talking
about my real life.
958
00:38:14,472 --> 00:38:17,736
Fans love you for real ’cause
they can be able to connect.
959
00:38:17,736 --> 00:38:20,769
And talking about
my childhood,
960
00:38:20,769 --> 00:38:22,604
this has helped me and my momma
961
00:38:22,604 --> 00:38:24,010
start to have
real conversations
962
00:38:24,010 --> 00:38:26,868
and not just keep sweeping
everything under the rug
963
00:38:26,868 --> 00:38:28,670
and talk about
our real feelings
964
00:38:28,670 --> 00:38:30,274
and get stuff solved for real.
965
00:38:30,274 --> 00:38:34,340
- ♪ We’re gonna live
our best life ♪
966
00:38:34,340 --> 00:38:37,340
- This year has been
a journey.
967
00:38:37,340 --> 00:38:39,274
I feel like we’re beginning
to come out of it.
968
00:38:39,274 --> 00:38:41,977
It’s feeling like a fresh
breath of air right now,
969
00:38:41,977 --> 00:38:43,901
- We’ve had some [bleep]
happen with our family
970
00:38:43,901 --> 00:38:45,868
that we never fathom
would even happen,
971
00:38:45,868 --> 00:38:47,703
but it’s just about
trying to grow.
972
00:38:47,703 --> 00:38:51,373
Ultimately, man, all we can do
is try to be the best
973
00:38:51,373 --> 00:38:52,241
that we can possibly be
974
00:38:52,241 --> 00:38:55,439
each and every day and better
than we were yesterday.
975
00:38:55,439 --> 00:38:57,736
- ♪ It’s all a mindset
get that mind right ♪
976
00:38:57,736 --> 00:38:58,670
♪ It’s your life ♪
977
00:38:58,670 --> 00:39:01,736
- Through this journey
with my daughter, I’ve learned
978
00:39:01,736 --> 00:39:03,439
that you gotta back up
a little.
979
00:39:03,439 --> 00:39:07,604
But it’s so hard
because she’s still my baby.
980
00:39:07,604 --> 00:39:09,043
That’s what I learned.
I learned that
981
00:39:09,043 --> 00:39:10,835
I can’t treat her
like a baby anymore.
982
00:39:10,835 --> 00:39:15,010
We are now closer than ever.
That’s such a good feeling.
983
00:39:15,010 --> 00:39:17,637
- ♪ So this what life teaches
and I’m okay with it ♪
984
00:39:17,637 --> 00:39:19,571
♪ Yeah, you can have
your way with this ♪
985
00:39:19,571 --> 00:39:20,703
♪ Life cannot stay like this ♪
986
00:39:20,703 --> 00:39:22,670
♪ There’s changes
when you move your lips ♪
987
00:39:22,670 --> 00:39:24,769
- The end of 2020,
I got engaged.
988
00:39:24,769 --> 00:39:29,109
The beginning of 2021, I was
in a whole new relationship.
989
00:39:29,109 --> 00:39:31,406
My boyfriend
is super successful.
990
00:39:31,406 --> 00:39:33,944
I’m successful.
My kids love him.
991
00:39:33,944 --> 00:39:37,538
We are about to close
on a big, beautiful house,
992
00:39:37,538 --> 00:39:41,439
and we are still practicing
on having a baby
993
00:39:41,439 --> 00:39:43,901
and I’m a little late.
994
00:39:43,901 --> 00:39:45,670
So let’s see what happens.
995
00:39:45,670 --> 00:39:51,076
I feel so good and I’m just--
I’m grateful.
996
00:39:51,076 --> 00:39:56,538
- ♪ We’re gonna live
our best life, yeah ♪
997
00:39:56,538 --> 00:39:59,076
- I did it!
998
00:39:59,076 --> 00:40:01,637
Legend was born at 34 weeks.
999
00:40:01,637 --> 00:40:03,043
Healthy, strong.
1000
00:40:03,043 --> 00:40:04,670
He’s so, so yummy.
1001
00:40:04,670 --> 00:40:06,571
- I’m not gonna miss
the birth of my son
1002
00:40:06,571 --> 00:40:08,076
for nothing in the world
and, you know,
1003
00:40:08,076 --> 00:40:09,538
fatherhood is just
so important to me
1004
00:40:09,538 --> 00:40:13,406
because what I saw growing up
I just knew that, like, yo,
1005
00:40:13,406 --> 00:40:15,703
when I become a father,
I wanna--
1006
00:40:15,703 --> 00:40:17,835
I wanna be
the opposite of that.
1007
00:40:17,835 --> 00:40:20,736
- From here on out,
I just wanna heal.
1008
00:40:20,736 --> 00:40:22,142
’cause I got some healing
to do.
1009
00:40:22,142 --> 00:40:26,835
I’m a mess, but I’m going to
use this to make me stronger.
1010
00:40:26,835 --> 00:40:29,142
I’m just waiting for
what God has in store next
1011
00:40:29,142 --> 00:40:33,571
’cause obviously, something
just wasn’t meant to be.
1012
00:40:33,571 --> 00:40:35,802
- I don’t know if this year
was just like one big test,
1013
00:40:35,802 --> 00:40:37,944
but it’s been a rough year
for the both of us.
1014
00:40:37,944 --> 00:40:41,142
I just want us to be
best parents we could be.
1015
00:40:41,142 --> 00:40:43,637
I can’t worry about
what the world thinks.
1016
00:40:43,637 --> 00:40:46,944
I gotta focus on me,
my mental health,
1017
00:40:46,944 --> 00:40:48,901
raising these
beautiful children.
1018
00:40:48,901 --> 00:40:50,010
I don’t want them
to have to worry
1019
00:40:50,010 --> 00:40:54,076
about anything other
than just being happy.
1020
00:40:54,076 --> 00:40:57,175
- ♪ We’re gonna
have a good time ♪
1021
00:40:57,175 --> 00:40:59,255
♪ We’re gonna
live our best life, yeah ♪
1022
00:41:04,931 --> 00:41:06,558
- ♪ My way to the top
and it ain’t no stopping ♪
1023
00:41:06,558 --> 00:41:08,294
- You’re watching "Love
& Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
1024
00:41:08,294 --> 00:41:09,832
- Check Yourself.
- Season 10.
1025
00:41:09,832 --> 00:41:12,525
- You’ll be watching us...
- Watch the show...
1026
00:41:12,525 --> 00:41:13,426
- For the very first time.
1027
00:41:13,426 --> 00:41:16,063
- You’ll be getting our natural
and honest reactions.
1028
00:41:16,063 --> 00:41:17,964
- We’re watching it...
- With you.
1029
00:41:17,964 --> 00:41:19,591
- The scene you’re about to see
is--
1030
00:41:19,591 --> 00:41:22,261
it was about to go down
at Pressed.
1031
00:41:22,261 --> 00:41:25,294
[upbeat music]
1032
00:41:25,294 --> 00:41:27,129
♪ ♪
1033
00:41:27,129 --> 00:41:28,898
- Damn, Mendeecees,
1034
00:41:28,898 --> 00:41:31,898
aka Bruce Wayne
in the Batmobile.
1035
00:41:31,898 --> 00:41:33,558
That’s what I’m talking about,
my boy.
1036
00:41:33,558 --> 00:41:35,261
♪ ♪
1037
00:41:35,261 --> 00:41:39,096
- Oh, look,
it’s all my friends.
1038
00:41:39,096 --> 00:41:39,898
♪ ♪
1039
00:41:39,898 --> 00:41:43,360
- Seeing Pressed 2.0
come to life is beautiful.
1040
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:45,360
It feels amazing.
Hey, you know what?
1041
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,591
All the hard work
is finally here.
1042
00:41:47,591 --> 00:41:48,898
We’re at the moment of truth.
1043
00:41:48,898 --> 00:41:53,063
- Watching Kirk and Rasheeda
turn the whole Pressed
1044
00:41:53,063 --> 00:41:56,195
boutique brand into, like,
you know,
1045
00:41:56,195 --> 00:41:59,294
a actual brick and mortar,
a actual storefront
1046
00:41:59,294 --> 00:42:02,360
type of situation,
all from a little, you know,
1047
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:07,129
online boutique--
psh--kudos to the kiddos.
1048
00:42:07,129 --> 00:42:09,195
- Hey, hoes!
1049
00:42:09,195 --> 00:42:11,228
- I ain’t got time
to fight with nobody.
1050
00:42:11,228 --> 00:42:13,261
- Oh, Lord.
[laughs]
1051
00:42:13,261 --> 00:42:15,459
There go my--
uh, everybody says
1052
00:42:15,459 --> 00:42:18,063
Kelsie is me at a younger age.
1053
00:42:18,063 --> 00:42:21,129
They was like,
"She reminds me of you.
1054
00:42:21,129 --> 00:42:23,492
Stop faultin’ her.
She is the younger you."
1055
00:42:23,492 --> 00:42:25,492
- Y’all got beef?
- She can’t even last
1056
00:42:25,492 --> 00:42:26,195
on the floor.
1057
00:42:26,195 --> 00:42:28,393
- This is not a Frost Bistro
conversation.
1058
00:42:28,393 --> 00:42:29,360
This is Pressed right now.
1059
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:31,261
- Look at Rasheeda
being Christian.
1060
00:42:31,261 --> 00:42:32,492
Go ahead, girl,
get ’em in line.
1061
00:42:32,492 --> 00:42:35,931
- Congratulations to Pressed,
and we’re out, baby, we’re out.
1062
00:42:35,931 --> 00:42:37,964
- For me, Ky,
as your girlfriend,
1063
00:42:37,964 --> 00:42:39,162
why is she whispering to you?
1064
00:42:39,162 --> 00:42:40,426
She can’t even handle
the [bleep] floor.
1065
00:42:40,426 --> 00:42:42,162
- ’Cause that’s my [bleep] and
I’m gonna tell him whatever--
1066
00:42:42,162 --> 00:42:44,327
- She can’t even handle--
- Why you back there?
1067
00:42:44,327 --> 00:42:47,195
- Okay, so therefor,
when you do that, my [bleep].
1068
00:42:47,195 --> 00:42:49,591
- Oh, see?
This is where you understand
1069
00:42:49,591 --> 00:42:52,393
that they just don’t
like each other.
1070
00:42:52,393 --> 00:42:55,096
They need to get in the boxing
[bleep] ring.
1071
00:42:55,096 --> 00:42:55,789
You know what?
1072
00:42:55,789 --> 00:42:57,426
We need to see them two
in the boxing ring.
1073
00:42:57,426 --> 00:42:59,525
- You caused a problem
when you do that.
1074
00:42:59,525 --> 00:43:01,459
- Exactly,
but that’s my [bleep].
1075
00:43:01,459 --> 00:43:03,931
[both shouting over each other]
1076
00:43:03,931 --> 00:43:06,162
- Let go of me.
- I don’t give a [bleep]!
1077
00:43:06,162 --> 00:43:07,426
- I just want her to know!
1078
00:43:07,426 --> 00:43:09,360
Because that’s your bitch,
1079
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:11,657
she’s gonna [bleep] you,
understand?
1080
00:43:11,657 --> 00:43:13,129
- What?
1081
00:43:13,129 --> 00:43:15,294
She talk like that?
1082
00:43:15,294 --> 00:43:18,690
Oh, she lit, man.
Okay, okay, okay.
1083
00:43:18,690 --> 00:43:20,030
- You need to calm down.
1084
00:43:20,030 --> 00:43:21,129
- But that [bleep] lame.
1085
00:43:21,129 --> 00:43:22,096
It’s always some lame [bleep].
1086
00:43:22,096 --> 00:43:24,558
Being disrespectful when
people--to talk to people.
1087
00:43:24,558 --> 00:43:26,162
- This is the wrong place
for it.
1088
00:43:26,162 --> 00:43:27,294
This is the wrong time
and place.
1089
00:43:27,294 --> 00:43:28,459
- Every time a [bleep]
try to talk,
1090
00:43:28,459 --> 00:43:29,525
you always got something
to say.
1091
00:43:29,525 --> 00:43:31,063
Sometimes you need to sit back
and listen.
1092
00:43:31,063 --> 00:43:32,723
That’s her problem.
- Okay.
1093
00:43:32,723 --> 00:43:36,997
- Rasheeda,
1094
00:43:36,997 --> 00:43:39,294
a penis is winning right now.
1095
00:43:39,294 --> 00:43:41,030
Penis: Two.
Parents: Zero.
1096
00:43:41,030 --> 00:43:42,294
Penis is winning right now.
1097
00:43:42,294 --> 00:43:43,690
- Okay, but you--
- [bleep] not telling you
1098
00:43:43,690 --> 00:43:44,525
nothing for no reason.
1099
00:43:44,525 --> 00:43:47,030
I’m telling about you
’cause I [bleep] care.
1100
00:43:47,030 --> 00:43:48,558
You always doing that lame
[bleep] to my girl.
1101
00:43:48,558 --> 00:43:51,063
- But your girl be saying
something trashy too, though.
1102
00:43:51,063 --> 00:43:52,690
[bleep] check your girl.
1103
00:43:52,690 --> 00:43:53,723
- You gonna talk [bleep]
about me,
1104
00:43:53,723 --> 00:43:54,997
you gonna talk
[bleep] about her.
1105
00:43:54,997 --> 00:43:56,426
And I still love you
’cause you’re my brother.
1106
00:43:56,426 --> 00:43:58,690
- Check your girl, too.
- None of that [bleep] matters.
1107
00:43:58,690 --> 00:44:01,426
- Your girl be speaking up--
1108
00:44:01,426 --> 00:44:03,162
- I never got mad at you,
’cause I love you.
1109
00:44:03,162 --> 00:44:04,558
- But you gotta check your girl
too, though.
1110
00:44:04,558 --> 00:44:05,492
- I do gotta check her.
1111
00:44:05,492 --> 00:44:07,426
But I have to tell my sister
we a family.
1112
00:44:07,426 --> 00:44:10,129
- You can’t yell at your sister
about your girl, though, bro.
1113
00:44:10,129 --> 00:44:12,360
You trippin’.
- I’m yelling at you because
1114
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:14,063
we in front of
all these people.
1115
00:44:14,063 --> 00:44:16,360
- Your girl be saying a whole
bunch of sour [bleep].
1116
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:17,525
I ain’t said [bleep].
1117
00:44:17,525 --> 00:44:20,525
- What is Kirk even doing
in the middle of this?
1118
00:44:20,525 --> 00:44:23,162
Because it’s like,
you know what?
1119
00:44:23,162 --> 00:44:24,261
There’s a referee thing
going on.
1120
00:44:24,261 --> 00:44:28,393
I feel like Sierra and Amina
need to argue one-on-one,
1121
00:44:28,393 --> 00:44:30,030
and none of my kids
should be in it,
1122
00:44:30,030 --> 00:44:33,327
and this is where
I don’t like the [bleep].
1123
00:44:33,327 --> 00:44:33,898
- No, no!
1124
00:44:33,898 --> 00:44:37,030
- Everybody need to understand,
chill the [bleep] out!
1125
00:44:37,030 --> 00:44:38,393
- Man, what the hell’s
happening?
1126
00:44:38,393 --> 00:44:39,756
- Let’s [bleep] all [bleep] up.
1127
00:44:39,756 --> 00:44:40,690
- Get your hands off of me.
1128
00:44:40,690 --> 00:44:45,129
- I love you too, but you have
to calm the [bleep] down, bro.
1129
00:44:45,129 --> 00:44:47,228
- Chill out before you do
something stupid.
1130
00:44:47,228 --> 00:44:48,525
- Go home.
Get your [bleep]
1131
00:44:48,525 --> 00:44:50,228
and go the [bleep] home.
1132
00:44:50,228 --> 00:44:51,723
♪ ♪
1133
00:44:51,723 --> 00:44:52,690
- Wait, wait, wait, what?
1134
00:44:52,690 --> 00:44:54,393
It was getting’ good!
Hold up!
1135
00:44:54,393 --> 00:44:57,261
Oh, no, wait,
hold on, it was getting good.
1136
00:44:57,261 --> 00:44:59,558
- Next scene you about to see
right now, man,
1137
00:44:59,558 --> 00:45:00,789
is hip hop with no love.
1138
00:45:00,789 --> 00:45:03,426
Man, the heartbreak of all,
man,
1139
00:45:03,426 --> 00:45:05,327
a marriage couple break up--
1140
00:45:05,327 --> 00:45:07,162
Safaree and Erica Mena.
1141
00:45:07,162 --> 00:45:10,162
[upbeat music]
1142
00:45:10,162 --> 00:45:16,723
♪ ♪
1143
00:45:17,129 --> 00:45:21,690
- That’s the best pregnant lady
I’ve ever seen.
1144
00:45:21,690 --> 00:45:23,294
- Damn.
1145
00:45:23,294 --> 00:45:25,327
♪ ♪
1146
00:45:25,327 --> 00:45:26,690
- What did she do to his shoe?
1147
00:45:26,690 --> 00:45:30,393
I mean, he got to smell it
before he place it down?
1148
00:45:30,393 --> 00:45:33,690
Mm, or was he the last one
that washed it?
1149
00:45:33,690 --> 00:45:35,690
♪ ♪
1150
00:45:37,162 --> 00:45:39,865
[dramatic music]
1151
00:45:39,865 --> 00:45:41,327
- You look nice.
1152
00:45:41,327 --> 00:45:42,195
- I’m sure.
1153
00:45:42,195 --> 00:45:44,393
- What’s new?
- You being here.
1154
00:45:44,393 --> 00:45:47,129
- One thing about Erica,
you can see that look,
1155
00:45:47,129 --> 00:45:48,789
you can see that look
in her eyes.
1156
00:45:48,789 --> 00:45:51,162
Yo, you can see that look
in her eyes.
1157
00:45:51,162 --> 00:45:55,294
- You know, we gotta get this
coparenting thing figured out.
1158
00:45:55,294 --> 00:45:56,228
- I’m still gonna be around.
1159
00:45:56,228 --> 00:45:58,789
At the end of the day, whether
me and you are together or not,
1160
00:45:58,789 --> 00:46:02,426
I’m going to still be 100%
for my family.
1161
00:46:02,426 --> 00:46:04,690
- How, when you don’t have
a family now?
1162
00:46:04,690 --> 00:46:07,162
- This is still my family.
- What is?
1163
00:46:07,162 --> 00:46:09,393
- Safaree giving me "I don’t
give a [bleep]" vibes.
1164
00:46:09,393 --> 00:46:13,162
"All my [bleep] is [bleep] up,"
you know what I’m saying?
1165
00:46:13,162 --> 00:46:15,558
"You’re crazy.
I just wanna be away.
1166
00:46:15,558 --> 00:46:17,294
Take care of my kids."
[laughs]
1167
00:46:17,294 --> 00:46:20,261
- You don’t care if your kids
grow up in a broken home.
1168
00:46:20,261 --> 00:46:21,426
- They--it won’t be
a broken home.
1169
00:46:21,426 --> 00:46:23,426
- Yes, it is!
You’re living somewhere else,
1170
00:46:23,426 --> 00:46:25,393
I’m living here;
that’s a broken home.
1171
00:46:25,393 --> 00:46:27,624
- It sounds like a broken home
to me.
1172
00:46:27,624 --> 00:46:29,426
- And therefor,
I have to suffer
1173
00:46:29,426 --> 00:46:32,789
’cause you get to live where
you say "20 minutes away,"
1174
00:46:32,789 --> 00:46:35,162
wake up when you feel like it,
do as you please,
1175
00:46:35,162 --> 00:46:38,898
while I have to be around the
clock, 24/7 a mother
1176
00:46:38,898 --> 00:46:42,228
and a father when you’re not
around to our children.
1177
00:46:42,228 --> 00:46:45,195
- You can’t make a man
be a man.
1178
00:46:45,195 --> 00:46:46,756
Sometimes we gotta get it
1179
00:46:46,756 --> 00:46:50,261
that we are messing
with grown-ass boys.
1180
00:46:50,261 --> 00:46:53,756
- For some reason,
us guys do dumb [bleep]
1181
00:46:53,756 --> 00:46:54,931
when our wives are pregnant.
1182
00:46:54,931 --> 00:46:56,898
I don’t know
if it’s ’cause they big
1183
00:46:56,898 --> 00:47:01,558
and they gain weight
and they not as sexy to us,
1184
00:47:01,558 --> 00:47:02,492
or--I don’t know.
1185
00:47:02,492 --> 00:47:03,898
We do dumb [bleep] and we ha--
1186
00:47:03,898 --> 00:47:05,426
I’ve done dumb [bleep],
1187
00:47:05,426 --> 00:47:09,898
but Safaree has took
the [bleep] flag
1188
00:47:09,898 --> 00:47:10,898
and won the race with it.
1189
00:47:10,898 --> 00:47:13,964
- I’m weeks away
from giving birth to our son.
1190
00:47:13,964 --> 00:47:15,690
It’s you that’s out of town.
1191
00:47:15,690 --> 00:47:17,690
It’s me stuck in this house
by myself,
1192
00:47:17,690 --> 00:47:19,492
taking care of our daughter.
1193
00:47:19,492 --> 00:47:21,327
- Look, I’m not gonna lie
to myself.
1194
00:47:21,327 --> 00:47:23,832
The inevitable with me and you
1195
00:47:23,832 --> 00:47:25,294
is us not lasting.
1196
00:47:25,294 --> 00:47:25,997
- Wow.
1197
00:47:25,997 --> 00:47:28,426
I ain’t never seen
a mother[bleep]
1198
00:47:28,426 --> 00:47:30,294
be real like that, ever.
1199
00:47:30,294 --> 00:47:31,723
Like, that was just--
1200
00:47:31,723 --> 00:47:34,393
I mean, I don’t even see
what you can say after that.
1201
00:47:34,393 --> 00:47:38,327
Like, a mother[bleep] said,
like, it’s--
1202
00:47:38,690 --> 00:47:42,426
- I watched Safaree
wish to be married.
1203
00:47:42,426 --> 00:47:43,690
He was like, "One day,
1204
00:47:43,690 --> 00:47:45,393
"somebody’s gonna
wear this ring.
1205
00:47:45,393 --> 00:47:47,964
One day, there’s gonna be
a Mrs. Samuels."
1206
00:47:47,964 --> 00:47:50,591
Like, the things he asked for
you’ve seen happen,
1207
00:47:50,591 --> 00:47:53,690
so I was thinking it would be
better than this,
1208
00:47:53,690 --> 00:47:55,964
but I pray they make it.
1209
00:47:55,964 --> 00:47:58,756
- I’m gonna go check on
my child.
1210
00:47:58,756 --> 00:48:01,690
[somber music]
1211
00:48:01,690 --> 00:48:09,360
♪ ♪
1212
00:48:09,898 --> 00:48:13,756
- It’s okay, Erica.
Come over and cry.
1213
00:48:13,756 --> 00:48:15,063
I’ll hug you, boo.
1214
00:48:15,063 --> 00:48:17,657
- My last advice to you, Erica,
1215
00:48:17,657 --> 00:48:20,591
is that I’m proud of you.
Stay strong.
1216
00:48:20,591 --> 00:48:24,723
And know that trouble
don’t last always.
1217
00:48:28,270 --> 00:48:35,864
♪ ♪
1218
00:48:37,105 --> 00:48:38,666
- ♪ Rise up, rise up ♪
1219
00:48:38,666 --> 00:48:40,006
♪ We will rise as a whole ♪
1220
00:48:40,006 --> 00:48:41,204
♪ Rise up, rise up ♪
1221
00:48:41,204 --> 00:48:42,897
♪ We will grind to the poll ♪
1222
00:48:42,897 --> 00:48:44,006
♪ Rise up, rise up ♪
1223
00:48:44,006 --> 00:48:45,633
♪ We will never, ever fall ♪
1224
00:48:45,633 --> 00:48:46,600
♪ Rise up, rise up ♪
1225
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:48,072
♪ Aim for the top,
\h\hfor the goal ♪
1226
00:48:48,072 --> 00:48:49,204
♪ Rise up, rise up ♪
1227
00:48:49,204 --> 00:48:51,831
♪ We will rise as a whole ♪
1228
00:48:54,633 --> 00:48:57,567
- ♪ MTV ♪