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- Previously on
"Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
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- Her energy be [bleep] up.
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- I don't want that energy.
I don't like that energy.
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- So go!
- She divorcing you.
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- You sound like you don't know
what's going on.
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- She out to get you.
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- You see how much money
we're dishing out?
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- If we out our savings
to do this [bleep].
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- We don't have room
for no more problems like this.
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- You trying to sit right here
on this TV show
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just wanna make me seem
like I'm bad.
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- It just seems like he's lost.
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- I'm not gonna lose you out
to these [bleep] streets,
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but you're walking around
this mother [bleep]
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telling me I'm wrong for
telling you some real [bleep].
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- I'm trying to move on,
look at my actions.
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[phone ringing]
- Oh, it's Erica calling.
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- Hey.
- You're in the hospital.
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- Who would've thought I would
be going through this alone?
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- Left me in the house while
you're gyrating with bitches
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and smiling like this is okay.
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- I just wanna make sure
that there's no issues
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when it comes
to seeing my daughter.
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- We specialize
in father's rights.
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- She's such a happy baby.
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- And you gonna make sure
that she stays a happy baby.
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- All right.
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- ♪ This is the life ♪
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- ♪ It’s the life
that we’re living ♪
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- ♪ This is the life ♪
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- ♪ It’s the life
that we chose ♪
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- ♪ This is the life ♪
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- ♪ It’s the life
that we’re living ♪
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- ♪ This is the life ♪
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- ♪ It’s the life
that we chose ♪
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- ♪ Made my way to the top
and there ain’t no stopping ♪
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- ♪ I was told you had to see
it to believe it ♪
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♪ ♪
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♪ I gotta make it somehow ♪
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♪ Show ain't over,
I ain't taking a bow ♪
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♪ I ain't taking a bow ♪
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- I cannot believe this grand
opening is three days away.
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- Yeah, it feel like
a long time in the making.
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- It was a long time
in the making.
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But honestly,
I just want to say,
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thank you guys so much
for the support.
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One of my goals
in moving to Atlanta
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was to open up
my first Yelle store.
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An all-natural plant-based
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skin care line
for the average woman.
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And my goal for the store
is to have it look
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like the Garden of Eden
when you walk in.
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But smack dead in the middle
of me trying to get the store
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and the decor right,
we decided to go to Dubai.
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Oh, take me back.
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[cheers and applause]
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It was needed, seeing all
the family out there,
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everybody seemed
like they had a good time.
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- Dubai was like one of
the dopest experience.
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- I literally have less
than a week to get this girl
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ready for our grand opening.
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I already invited Rasheeda,
Sierra, Karlie.
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Then some of the girls
from New York,
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Jonathan is coming down.
I invited Erica too.
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- Uh-oh.
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When I invited Safaree,
he's like, you know,
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"Please don't invite
my other half."
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- I love them both.
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That has nothing to do with me.
I invited her, you invited him.
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- Is it gonna be drama free?
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- I mean, I think they both
respect us enough
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not to have no drama.
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They know how to, you know, be
in the same room and be cool.
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At least, I hope.
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Listen,
I think they love each other
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and they just got things
to work through.
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Maybe in this beautiful
Garden of Eden,
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they'll be filled with love
all over again.
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- That's good that
you're wishful thinking.
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- After you, Kirk.
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- Hey, hey, hey.
What's going on?
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- I'm definitely very proud
of Yandy.
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You know, she came to Atlanta,
next thing you know
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she's opening her business
the Yelle shop.
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And that's what
you're supposed to do.
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You're supposed to
get in here,
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make moves, make more money
for your family.
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So I'm very happy
for what she's doing.
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Y'all make me happy,
I ain't gonna lie,
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when I get around y'all
I be happy.
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- Same here, Joc.
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How's your family doing?
Your boy's good?
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- I'm gonna tell you like this.
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The last 30 days of my life
have been trying
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on a lot of personal levels,
you know what I'm saying?
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But I'm getting through it.
I ain't gonna say
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I got through it,
I'm getting through it.
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And that's why I need to
holler at you and your woman.
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- A'ight. So let's head out.
- I lost my cool,
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the last time me and my son
had a face to face.
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Apparently, I ain't as good
as I thought when it comes
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to making sure
I get right to the point
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and making it make sense
for my son.
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So yeah, I'm gonna get
a chance to holler
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at Kirk and Mendeecees.
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Both of these guys
are a little older than me
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so I think
it's worth sitting down,
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talking with the brothers
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to see how we can all come
to some type of resolve.
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Imagine you talking to your son
and somebody come along,
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get you shut down.
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And your son is over here
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checking on the person
who got your [bleep] shut down.
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- Feel like a traitor.
- You like, what you doing?
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I done ran up on his ass
so [bleep] fast.
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[bleep] like a little
brick wall though.
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- A fight?
- I landed up on him like,
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what you doing?
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- This was very saddening
to hear that Joc had
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a physical fight with his son.
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You know, I think there is
a level of respect
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that parents should have
and a son should have
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and that line
shouldn't be crossed.
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- That [bleep] went crazy, man.
I took that damn bar stool bro,
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and before you know it,
I'm busting out glasses.
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- Do you feel like the need
that you need to talk to him?
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Like the--so y'all could be
able to put this behind y'all
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and sort of move forward?
- I want to, bro.
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I want to 'cause
I am the bigger man.
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- Mm-hmm.
- I'm the father.
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- Yeah.
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- But that doesn't mean
that I have to--
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- But you should have
a mediator in here.
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- But I want to.
After all this transpired Amoni
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and I have not spoken in
about two, almost three weeks.
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We gotta come together man,
we gotta squash this.
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- You know how he taking it?
- I'm trying to keep it cool.
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- It's like you insulted him.
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That's not how kids work, bro.
They don't work like that.
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- Kirk, I got homies
losing they children.
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I don't want to be
in that club.
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- Every time I talk to my son,
he'd be like,
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"Okay,
here come another lecture."
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I say, "Listen, you lucky
that you got somebody
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to give you a lecture,
I never had that."
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- Right. My pops got locked up.
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- "What people
wanted to give me,
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oh, you don't want that.
You lucky I'm talking to you."
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Because you know, you--
we from the same place.
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- I can't even believe,
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I'm just like,
"This ain't really happening."
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I don't know what to do.
I'm like, "I'm losing you, son.
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Like, what is you doing?
I'm losing you."
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- Yeah, you--you gotta
find something.
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Joc's business is his focus
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and I don't think his son
can relate to that yet
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because he's never had one.
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So you gotta find a better
angle to kind of relate
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to him versus just saying
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you're losing
a million-dollar business.
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That really don't mean nothing
to none of our kids right now.
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- No pastor?
You don't go to church.
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- That's not of bad idea.
As mad as I am, bro,
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I can't just let him go
to the wayside.
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I can't man. I'mma talk to
the pastor and say, "Look man,
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can you, you know,
can we possibly just uh-uh?"
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- You got some real [bleep]
going on.
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I feel it for you bro,
you gotta--ooh.
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- ♪ Don't tell me nobody ♪
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♪ Don't tell me nobody
but me ♪
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♪ Don't tell me nobody ♪
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♪ Don't tell me nobody
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- How are you?
- Good.
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I feel like I know you so well.
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- I know.
- Nice to see you in person.
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Come on back.
- Thank you.
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- Come on back this way.
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- So this is the last thing
I wanted to do.
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I'm really, really hurting.
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I'm a mess, I'm pregnant,
I'm alone, I'm scared.
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I never would have thought
I would have this
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big fairytale wedding,
to be on baby number two,
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and now, be filing for divorce.
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- When we filed the divorce,
it was very bare bones.
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We didn't put anything else
in there.
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And then I know
what you've been upset about
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is that he recently filed
some paperwork.
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- When I went into this,
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I was very adamant
with my legal team
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that I wanted this to be fair,
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I didn't want it to get dirty.
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But when Safaree
counter suited,
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it was just--
it's baffling to read
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all the things that he said.
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And from what I'm being told
around town
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that he has a lawyer
that just fights dirty.
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And it's obvious what's
being said in these papers,
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we have to have
some kind of court ordered
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set visitation hearing.
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He's making me feel like
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I'm this random woman
he had kids with.
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- We all thought the deal was
Erica has her child,
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everything goes well
and then we get together
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and we do a mediation
and we resolve everything.
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But now he's asking
for an expedited hearing,
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and they wanna do all this
before your child is born.
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That means
in the next couple days
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you're gonna have to go
through the stress
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of resolving a whole divorce
and maybe having a hearing.
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- I know, but it's scary
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because he's asking
for 50% custody.
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I was in the hospital
for a week,
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he didn't cancel any gigs.
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I almost went into premature
labor twice that week,
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and then next thing you know,
I see him all over Instagram
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groping other women...
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[upbeat hip-hop music]
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♪ ♪
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But you want 50% custody.
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Safaree doesn't--
- By the way,
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just to clear it up.
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When someone has joint custody,
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it does not mean
they have 50% of the time.
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It means--what will happen
in your case most likely
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is the children
will live with you.
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You know, you're gonna be
a primary custodian
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and he's gonna have
a parenting plan.
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And with young babies, you're
gonna have a default plan
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that says we're gonna try
to let him
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have these days
and these days,
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but y'all can agree
to whatever you want.
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- And that's what worries me
because Safaree
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is not capable
of having my kids,
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especially this young.
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I know I would never
lose custody of my kids
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because you can call me
a lot of [bleep] names
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in the book if you want to,
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but I [bleep] dare you to say
I'm not a good mother.
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What's very difficult
when it comes to Safaree
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is he has not fully stepped up
to the plate in understanding
242
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that when you have kids,
they come first.
243
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He runs any time
real life [bleep] happens.
244
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He's not a bad dad,
245
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he's just--
he thinks he can pick
246
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and choose
when he wants to be around.
247
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- The big picture is he's not
taking your babies from you.
248
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You'll end up with custody,
you're the mom.
249
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There's nothing embarrassing
about going through divorce
250
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and sometimes there's
something embarrassing
251
00:09:01,132 --> 00:09:02,700
about not filing for divorce.
252
00:09:02,767 --> 00:09:05,570
- It is when you thought
it was gonna be forever.
253
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♪ ♪
254
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- ♪ Better,
live for me ♪
255
00:09:10,174 --> 00:09:13,177
♪ Getting better,
live for me ♪
256
00:09:13,244 --> 00:09:15,947
♪ Turning this right,
I feel it getting closer ♪
257
00:09:16,013 --> 00:09:18,516
- Ooh, look at that cutie.
258
00:09:18,583 --> 00:09:22,386
What's up, honey buns?
259
00:09:22,420 --> 00:09:23,387
What's up?
260
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- Same.
261
00:09:24,589 --> 00:09:26,390
- What?
262
00:09:26,424 --> 00:09:27,792
- I'm working.
263
00:09:27,858 --> 00:09:30,628
It's like something
is always going wrong.
264
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- With all of
this family drama...
265
00:09:32,096 --> 00:09:33,998
- Frost Bistro has us tripping.
266
00:09:34,065 --> 00:09:35,499
- It's turned our relationship.
267
00:09:35,566 --> 00:09:36,968
It turned it--it turned it.
It got people tripping.
268
00:09:37,034 --> 00:09:38,636
- It got us tripping
and acting funny.
269
00:09:38,703 --> 00:09:40,271
- I'm not gonna change who I am
because of somebody, like--
270
00:09:40,404 --> 00:09:41,405
- Y'all don't know how
to be cordial though.
271
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- I say hello--
272
00:09:43,007 --> 00:09:44,475
- Like, but y'all don't know
how to be cordial
273
00:09:44,542 --> 00:09:45,877
How can y'all not be cordial?
274
00:09:45,943 --> 00:09:48,045
- There was no way we wanted
to trust the kids to run
275
00:09:48,112 --> 00:09:51,082
Frost Bistro on their own
while we went to Dubai.
276
00:09:51,148 --> 00:09:52,550
- You know, when I try to close
out the night
277
00:09:52,617 --> 00:09:53,751
and the totals don't match up?
278
00:09:53,818 --> 00:09:55,419
- Mm-hmm.
279
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- So there was a bill for 142
plus a $19 tip and lookie here,
280
00:10:00,992 --> 00:10:04,829
the balance was off $161.
281
00:10:04,896 --> 00:10:06,464
Something ain't adding up.
282
00:10:06,530 --> 00:10:09,100
- So we decided to bring in
a temporary manager
283
00:10:09,166 --> 00:10:11,168
to help run things
while we were gone away.
284
00:10:11,235 --> 00:10:13,471
- Me personally, I think
the food being stolen.
285
00:10:13,538 --> 00:10:16,541
I don't know if you're inviting
your friends to come in,
286
00:10:16,607 --> 00:10:18,242
you giving them free food.
- That's what it sound like.
287
00:10:18,309 --> 00:10:21,913
- You're a real petty-ass thief
to be stealing plates of food.
288
00:10:21,979 --> 00:10:23,381
You're lame as [bleep]
for that.
289
00:10:23,447 --> 00:10:24,715
- Who is It?
290
00:10:24,782 --> 00:10:26,250
- I don't want to get
into nothing personal
291
00:10:26,384 --> 00:10:28,619
that's gonna
'cause a family feud.
292
00:10:28,686 --> 00:10:30,054
- At this point,
293
00:10:30,121 --> 00:10:32,823
we need to sit 'em down
and sort things out.
294
00:10:32,890 --> 00:10:34,525
- Let's just be honest,
I'm annoyed
295
00:10:34,592 --> 00:10:37,395
with this whole situation
going on at the bistro.
296
00:10:37,461 --> 00:10:40,398
With the server, and food being
taken out of the window
297
00:10:40,464 --> 00:10:43,067
and disappearing, and drinks
disappearing and all of that.
298
00:10:43,134 --> 00:10:45,403
And we'll have
that conversation later,
299
00:10:45,469 --> 00:10:47,138
but there's something
that's more important
300
00:10:47,205 --> 00:10:49,840
than anything else
going on right now.
301
00:10:49,907 --> 00:10:52,476
Have you been on social media?
302
00:10:52,543 --> 00:10:53,844
- Not really.
303
00:10:53,911 --> 00:10:55,980
- So you haven't seen
Scrappy's post?
304
00:10:56,047 --> 00:10:57,582
- What he done did?
305
00:10:57,648 --> 00:11:00,851
- "Shout-out to all the men
going through mental illnesses
306
00:11:00,918 --> 00:11:03,421
"with no one to turn to
because the world
307
00:11:03,487 --> 00:11:06,190
"wrongly taught males
to mask their emotions.
308
00:11:07,592 --> 00:11:10,828
"Men suffer,
men have suicidal thoughts.
309
00:11:10,895 --> 00:11:12,496
"Men die by suicide.
310
00:11:12,563 --> 00:11:14,966
"We need to encourage men
to speak up.
311
00:11:15,032 --> 00:11:17,935
not expect them to man up."
312
00:11:18,002 --> 00:11:19,403
Then on his caption.
313
00:11:19,470 --> 00:11:22,173
"I'm experiencing
this right now.
314
00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:26,043
Just lean on God,
take it back, Jack."
315
00:11:26,110 --> 00:11:28,412
- Oh, wow. That's bad.
316
00:11:28,479 --> 00:11:32,283
- I have never heard him
or felt as though
317
00:11:32,350 --> 00:11:34,318
he would be dealing
with something like that.
318
00:11:34,385 --> 00:11:36,254
- Let me see it.
- The "I'm experiencing this
319
00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:37,521
right now" thing
is what got me.
320
00:11:37,588 --> 00:11:39,290
- No. Yeah.
He basically sending like
321
00:11:39,357 --> 00:11:42,793
a suicidal--he asking--,
that's asking for help.
322
00:11:42,860 --> 00:11:45,596
For him to blurt that out
on social media,
323
00:11:45,663 --> 00:11:47,832
it's gotta be bad.
And I felt like,
324
00:11:47,899 --> 00:11:50,868
"Why didn't you reach out
or let me know sooner?"
325
00:11:50,935 --> 00:11:53,504
Like you shouldn't be going
through that pain alone.
326
00:11:53,571 --> 00:11:56,574
At this point, it must have
built up pretty [bleep] bad
327
00:11:56,641 --> 00:11:57,708
if you let it out.
328
00:11:57,775 --> 00:11:59,176
For him to post that,
329
00:11:59,243 --> 00:12:01,612
that means he's physically
going through something.
330
00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:02,780
Wow.
- You know,
331
00:12:02,847 --> 00:12:04,849
when you going through
marital problems
332
00:12:04,916 --> 00:12:06,751
and relationship things,
333
00:12:06,817 --> 00:12:08,853
you can get into
a deep, dark place.
334
00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:10,621
We know something about that.
335
00:12:10,688 --> 00:12:12,557
Marriage is, it's a lot--
336
00:12:12,623 --> 00:12:14,725
- Like neither one of us came
here with our rings on today.
337
00:12:14,792 --> 00:12:16,260
- I see.
- So--
338
00:12:16,327 --> 00:12:21,065
- I walked by and seen the ring
on the--on the counter.
339
00:12:21,132 --> 00:12:25,036
I had mine on, I was like,
"Well, what am I doing?"
340
00:12:25,102 --> 00:12:28,506
- Scrappy's been family for me
and Kirk for 20 years probably.
341
00:12:28,573 --> 00:12:30,441
And I know things
have not been good,
342
00:12:30,474 --> 00:12:33,244
but to see what he just posted
makes me think,
343
00:12:33,311 --> 00:12:35,713
hold on, there's a lot
going on in his head
344
00:12:35,780 --> 00:12:37,515
and we are extremely concerned.
345
00:12:37,582 --> 00:12:38,849
- You know what?
346
00:12:38,916 --> 00:12:40,251
You need to hit Bambi
and see where he's at.
347
00:12:40,318 --> 00:12:41,652
- I'll text her.
- Yeah.
348
00:12:41,719 --> 00:12:43,221
We need to figure that out.
349
00:12:43,287 --> 00:12:45,456
I feel like me looking at
Scrappy, looking in his eyes,
350
00:12:45,456 --> 00:12:47,592
I can know what's going on.
351
00:12:47,658 --> 00:12:50,528
Is it because something's
going on with you and Bambi?
352
00:12:50,595 --> 00:12:53,598
Are you really sitting here
contemplating doing something,
353
00:12:53,664 --> 00:12:55,099
which I pray you're not.
354
00:12:55,166 --> 00:12:56,834
You know, I feel like,
let me analyze it
355
00:12:56,901 --> 00:12:59,370
and talk to him face to face,
get his body language
356
00:12:59,470 --> 00:13:03,341
and then we're gonna adjust
as we're talking.
357
00:13:05,209 --> 00:13:08,212
-Coming up on
"Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
358
00:13:08,279 --> 00:13:09,847
- You got all this stuff
going on,
359
00:13:09,914 --> 00:13:10,948
y'all talking about divorcing.
360
00:13:11,015 --> 00:13:12,250
- Time changes things.
361
00:13:12,316 --> 00:13:14,652
- Marriage is forever.
- Not this one.
362
00:13:14,719 --> 00:13:16,120
- What y'all out here
talking about?
363
00:13:16,187 --> 00:13:18,055
- You.
- You're scaring me these days.
364
00:13:18,122 --> 00:13:19,590
- That's [bleep]
how I feel, bro.
365
00:13:19,657 --> 00:13:20,958
- Yeah, go.
366
00:13:21,025 --> 00:13:22,560
- Listen, just know [bleep]
that when you come
367
00:13:22,627 --> 00:13:25,096
with the lawyers,
we got lawyers too.
368
00:13:44,705 --> 00:13:46,607
- So after Momma Dees
just told me that
369
00:13:46,674 --> 00:13:48,142
[inaudible]
was trying to divorce
370
00:13:48,208 --> 00:13:50,344
and take money and all that
kind of crazy stuff,
371
00:13:50,411 --> 00:13:51,679
I had to get up out the house,
372
00:13:51,745 --> 00:13:54,515
you feel what I'm saying?
Because man, I'm done.
373
00:13:54,582 --> 00:14:00,187
I'm like so confused
and just I'm tired, man.
374
00:14:00,254 --> 00:14:03,591
I'm physically,
mentally drained.
375
00:14:03,657 --> 00:14:07,094
♪ ♪
376
00:14:07,161 --> 00:14:08,929
I was already really down,
man,
377
00:14:08,996 --> 00:14:10,564
and it was a couple days
378
00:14:10,631 --> 00:14:13,601
where I was only able to see
my kids through Instagram
379
00:14:13,667 --> 00:14:16,170
because Bam was like
not answering the phone
380
00:14:16,237 --> 00:14:18,205
and all that
kind of crazy stuff.
381
00:14:20,608 --> 00:14:23,344
- Nah, man, listen,
I don't say [bleep],
382
00:14:23,410 --> 00:14:25,846
you know what I'm saying?
I keep it pushing.
383
00:14:25,913 --> 00:14:27,715
♪ ♪
384
00:14:27,781 --> 00:14:30,284
Yo.
- Hey, man. What's happening?
385
00:14:30,351 --> 00:14:32,653
- What's going on, bro?
How you doing?
386
00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:34,121
- I felt like it was time
for me
387
00:14:34,154 --> 00:14:35,656
to make a call to Mendeecees.
388
00:14:35,723 --> 00:14:37,858
Let's get Scrappy down here,
let's talk to him.
389
00:14:37,925 --> 00:14:39,894
You know, I need you
to quarterback me with this
390
00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:42,329
Scrappy situation, I wanna
make sure I don't miss nothing.
391
00:14:42,396 --> 00:14:44,398
Looking at Scrappy,
looking in his eyes,
392
00:14:44,465 --> 00:14:46,300
he look like he's going
through a tough time.
393
00:14:46,367 --> 00:14:48,269
This is not the normal
Scrappy right here.
394
00:14:48,335 --> 00:14:49,403
- What y'all out here talking
about?
395
00:14:49,470 --> 00:14:51,205
- You.
- Yeah.
396
00:14:51,272 --> 00:14:52,439
- Just wanted to check up
on you
397
00:14:52,506 --> 00:14:54,141
and see if you--you know
how you is doing.
398
00:14:54,141 --> 00:14:55,876
- I'm just tired, bro.
399
00:14:55,943 --> 00:14:58,379
Like,
400
00:14:58,445 --> 00:15:00,281
this marriage [bleep] man.
401
00:15:00,347 --> 00:15:04,018
My momma come back and say,
"Oh, Bam is finna go file
402
00:15:04,151 --> 00:15:08,289
for a divorce, and she want
this much money. And--"
403
00:15:08,355 --> 00:15:09,757
- Wait, wait, hold on. You too?
404
00:15:09,823 --> 00:15:11,158
- Huh?
405
00:15:11,191 --> 00:15:12,626
- Is you gonna go through
the same [bleep] with--
406
00:15:12,693 --> 00:15:14,028
like Safaree?
407
00:15:14,161 --> 00:15:16,163
- I mean, we had a couple
conversation about divorce
408
00:15:16,196 --> 00:15:17,731
and we were gonna--
you know,
409
00:15:17,798 --> 00:15:19,466
but I'm thinking like we
gonna have that conversation.
410
00:15:19,533 --> 00:15:23,604
Like, not you and your friends
and [bleep] like that.
411
00:15:23,671 --> 00:15:25,306
- When did y'all get to
that point though?
412
00:15:25,372 --> 00:15:28,108
- Man, soon as the pandemic
eased up, bruh,
413
00:15:28,142 --> 00:15:29,743
[bleep] went up.
414
00:15:29,810 --> 00:15:31,645
I don't know if she thought
like I was just gonna be
415
00:15:31,712 --> 00:15:35,316
at home all the time,
but I got back on my hustle.
416
00:15:35,382 --> 00:15:36,951
I released "GA/FL".
417
00:15:37,017 --> 00:15:39,787
And you can't just sit
in one place in this position
418
00:15:39,853 --> 00:15:42,723
that I'm in, you gotta move,
but she don't understand that.
419
00:15:42,790 --> 00:15:45,159
She be mad that [bleep] having
a good time
420
00:15:45,226 --> 00:15:46,860
and she's pregnant
and having a baby.
421
00:15:46,927 --> 00:15:49,563
Like, she act like I'm doing
what Safaree doing,
422
00:15:49,630 --> 00:15:50,898
This [bleep] just [bleep].
423
00:15:50,965 --> 00:15:53,500
That's why I just go through
all this [bleep].
424
00:15:53,567 --> 00:15:57,271
When you a working man,
you do that to provide
425
00:15:57,338 --> 00:15:59,607
and it kind of baffles me that
426
00:15:59,673 --> 00:16:01,542
Bam gets angry,
you know what I'm saying?
427
00:16:01,609 --> 00:16:04,678
When she see me having fun,
when I'm out and I'm working.
428
00:16:04,745 --> 00:16:07,681
Like, going to a show,
I'm gonna get paid, bro.
429
00:16:07,748 --> 00:16:11,885
There's some people hold
your pay, and so it like,
430
00:16:11,952 --> 00:16:13,354
"I'm gonna go get that."
431
00:16:13,420 --> 00:16:15,656
I'm out of town,
like I normally call,
432
00:16:15,723 --> 00:16:18,626
she pick up FaceTime,
talk to my babies,
433
00:16:18,692 --> 00:16:21,195
but she won't even
put 'em on for me no more.
434
00:16:21,262 --> 00:16:22,863
I don't play about my babies.
435
00:16:22,930 --> 00:16:26,033
[bleep] this [bleep],
that how I feel, bro.
436
00:16:26,166 --> 00:16:27,801
- You're scaring me these days.
437
00:16:27,868 --> 00:16:30,404
I feel like Scrappy
is just like,
438
00:16:30,471 --> 00:16:31,906
"It's done. It's over with."
439
00:16:31,972 --> 00:16:33,674
I know you love Bambi,
440
00:16:33,741 --> 00:16:37,144
I think I know you want to be
with Bambi and your family,
441
00:16:37,211 --> 00:16:38,679
but I do think you being macho
442
00:16:38,746 --> 00:16:41,181
because you supposed
to be as a man.
443
00:16:41,248 --> 00:16:43,651
No, you need to let
your guards down
444
00:16:43,717 --> 00:16:45,786
and have a real
one-on-one with your wife
445
00:16:45,853 --> 00:16:48,022
and let her know
what's going on in your head.
446
00:16:48,122 --> 00:16:49,390
- When I made that post,
447
00:16:49,456 --> 00:16:51,191
I was really talking
about mental health
448
00:16:51,258 --> 00:16:55,429
and the way men are and the way
women want men to be.
449
00:16:55,496 --> 00:16:58,399
They want us to shut up
and take it
450
00:16:58,465 --> 00:16:59,967
and you ain't supposed
to feel no kind of way.
451
00:17:00,034 --> 00:17:02,636
You 'posed to--you a man,
man up, take that [bleep].
452
00:17:02,703 --> 00:17:05,139
You know, I'm like, cuz, let me
be over here in my moment
453
00:17:05,205 --> 00:17:06,840
'cause you know
what I'm saying?
454
00:17:06,907 --> 00:17:10,544
And you know that [bleep] don't
happen for a lot of men, bro.
455
00:17:10,611 --> 00:17:12,780
- You know what helped me
and Yandy?
456
00:17:12,846 --> 00:17:16,550
We like to be around
successful couples.
457
00:17:16,617 --> 00:17:17,985
- Yeah.
- Right? It inspire us.
458
00:17:18,052 --> 00:17:20,020
Even, we look at the history
Rasheeda and Kirk.
459
00:17:20,154 --> 00:17:21,455
- Yeah.
460
00:17:21,522 --> 00:17:23,424
- They've been together
for 20 something years.
461
00:17:23,490 --> 00:17:25,793
So we just asking them,
"How y'all get there?"
462
00:17:25,859 --> 00:17:28,729
Because there's plenty of times
they want to kill each other.
463
00:17:28,796 --> 00:17:32,299
What you going through,
that sound extremely hard,
464
00:17:32,366 --> 00:17:34,134
but don't give up.
465
00:17:34,201 --> 00:17:37,104
- I appreciate Kirk and
Mendeecees looking out, man.
466
00:17:37,104 --> 00:17:39,173
It good to know that people
will come pull up
467
00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:41,642
and I feel like men
should check in on each other.
468
00:17:41,709 --> 00:17:42,876
We all are going through it.
469
00:17:42,943 --> 00:17:44,845
- Pick up the phone man,
call me, you know,
470
00:17:44,912 --> 00:17:47,381
you used to hit me
all the time.
471
00:17:47,448 --> 00:17:48,749
- As I've been
going through it,
472
00:17:48,816 --> 00:17:51,485
just trying to get through it.
You feel me?
473
00:17:51,552 --> 00:17:54,488
[dramatic music]
474
00:17:54,555 --> 00:17:57,925
♪ ♪
475
00:17:57,992 --> 00:17:59,326
[upbeat music]
476
00:17:59,393 --> 00:18:00,895
- ♪ I try to scheme on you ♪
477
00:18:00,961 --> 00:18:02,763
♪ You got everything to lose ♪
478
00:18:02,830 --> 00:18:04,198
♪ Now you're sitting,
discouraged ♪
479
00:18:04,265 --> 00:18:05,666
♪ 'Cause you got everything
to lose ♪
480
00:18:05,733 --> 00:18:08,602
- I've heard the madness
that's going on on the blogs.
481
00:18:08,669 --> 00:18:10,704
I've seen it, everyone has,
482
00:18:10,771 --> 00:18:12,539
but Erica and Safaree
are my friends
483
00:18:12,606 --> 00:18:13,741
and I need to check in on them
484
00:18:13,807 --> 00:18:16,043
and make sure they're good.
485
00:18:16,143 --> 00:18:17,378
- Hi.
- How are you?
486
00:18:17,444 --> 00:18:19,313
- Newly married.
- Ah!
487
00:18:19,380 --> 00:18:21,916
You consider six years newly
married?
488
00:18:21,982 --> 00:18:22,983
Newly married again.
489
00:18:23,050 --> 00:18:24,451
- At least you made it.
490
00:18:24,518 --> 00:18:26,687
- I wish you would've--stop,
okay, please.
491
00:18:26,754 --> 00:18:28,489
I wish you would've been
on the trip.
492
00:18:28,556 --> 00:18:30,190
- I'm actually really happy
for Yandy.
493
00:18:30,257 --> 00:18:33,661
When you're like in a real
solid relationship or marriage,
494
00:18:33,727 --> 00:18:36,697
that's gotta be
a different type of high.
495
00:18:36,764 --> 00:18:40,601
Yandy is Safaree's friend
and being married to him
496
00:18:40,668 --> 00:18:42,970
has actually brought me
and Yandy closer.
497
00:18:43,103 --> 00:18:46,907
I've been able to kind of
pick her brain on marriage,
498
00:18:46,974 --> 00:18:48,709
and then there's times
where I'm like,
499
00:18:48,776 --> 00:18:50,110
"What's up with your friend?
500
00:18:50,144 --> 00:18:52,346
Like do you know something
I didn't know?"
501
00:18:52,413 --> 00:18:53,647
How was the wedding though?
502
00:18:53,714 --> 00:18:55,516
- It was beautiful. It was so--
503
00:18:55,583 --> 00:18:57,284
- Do you feel refreshed?
Like it's like a start over--
504
00:18:57,351 --> 00:18:58,953
- You know what?
505
00:18:59,019 --> 00:19:00,721
We haven't--we've never been
out the country together.
506
00:19:00,788 --> 00:19:03,791
Sitting here talking to Erica
about my vow renewal
507
00:19:03,857 --> 00:19:06,794
and she may be getting
a divorce, was not easy.
508
00:19:06,860 --> 00:19:09,263
She was one of
the most beautiful brides.
509
00:19:09,330 --> 00:19:12,399
Safaree was shining and happy.
510
00:19:12,466 --> 00:19:14,301
I hate that a few years later,
511
00:19:14,368 --> 00:19:17,705
we are here in this space
with them and I'm hoping that,
512
00:19:17,771 --> 00:19:20,608
you know, in this conversation
there may still be a chance.
513
00:19:20,674 --> 00:19:22,276
How are you doing?
514
00:19:22,343 --> 00:19:26,013
- Filing for divorce was the
hardest decision on my life.
515
00:19:26,146 --> 00:19:27,414
And I still am like,
516
00:19:27,481 --> 00:19:29,250
"I don't even know
if I'm doing the right thing."
517
00:19:29,316 --> 00:19:32,786
Like, "Why did you marry me
to do this to me?"
518
00:19:32,853 --> 00:19:34,488
Like why?
519
00:19:34,555 --> 00:19:36,490
And then I'm pregnant
by myself,
520
00:19:36,557 --> 00:19:38,292
like I'm a single mother.
521
00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:39,994
- Oh, my God.
522
00:19:40,094 --> 00:19:41,161
Erica, the first thing,
523
00:19:41,228 --> 00:19:42,863
you have got to take care
of yourself.
524
00:19:42,930 --> 00:19:47,301
- I was already depressed,
I had found out he cheated
525
00:19:47,368 --> 00:19:49,670
after I found out
I was pregnant.
526
00:19:49,737 --> 00:19:51,639
I found out my husband
was cheating
527
00:19:51,705 --> 00:19:53,240
because I had an intuition.
528
00:19:53,307 --> 00:19:55,910
I hired a detective who told me
everything I needed to know.
529
00:19:55,976 --> 00:19:58,846
I have the proof, I wouldn't
even mention the girls
530
00:19:58,913 --> 00:20:00,414
just because
they're all whack.
531
00:20:00,481 --> 00:20:04,418
I'm not in this to make
a [bleep] show of my marriage.
532
00:20:04,485 --> 00:20:09,757
He wants to rush our divorce to
happen before the baby's born.
533
00:20:09,823 --> 00:20:12,760
He wants to sue me
for his stuff.
534
00:20:12,826 --> 00:20:14,428
He wants 50% custody.
535
00:20:14,495 --> 00:20:19,199
He wants a rush court hearing
for visitation with Safire.
536
00:20:19,266 --> 00:20:21,969
- I'm not understanding
why Safaree would even wanna
537
00:20:22,036 --> 00:20:25,139
put Erica through this
before the baby is born.
538
00:20:25,205 --> 00:20:28,909
Do you understand
what stress can do to a baby?
539
00:20:28,976 --> 00:20:31,078
I never wanna take
one side of the story,
540
00:20:31,145 --> 00:20:34,915
but this side from her
is breaking my heart.
541
00:20:34,982 --> 00:20:38,786
You have my number
and you can call me anytime.
542
00:20:38,852 --> 00:20:41,822
That's it, don't depend on him
and what he got going on.
543
00:20:41,889 --> 00:20:44,792
He gotta deal with that
with God and his own demons.
544
00:20:44,858 --> 00:20:47,795
You can't do the [bleep] that
he's doing to a woman like you
545
00:20:47,861 --> 00:20:50,531
or to that those babies
and get away with it.
546
00:20:50,598 --> 00:20:53,100
I understand
how important a village is.
547
00:20:53,100 --> 00:20:55,502
I'm telling you
I would not be here
548
00:20:55,569 --> 00:20:58,105
if it was for women that came
to my aid.
549
00:20:58,172 --> 00:20:59,607
I would not be here.
550
00:20:59,673 --> 00:21:00,674
- I really appreciate that.
551
00:21:00,741 --> 00:21:04,111
♪ ♪
552
00:21:04,178 --> 00:21:06,914
- Coming up on
"Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
553
00:21:06,981 --> 00:21:08,916
- I think the foods
being stolen.
554
00:21:08,983 --> 00:21:11,785
- Does anybody have anything
to say about this?
555
00:21:11,852 --> 00:21:14,722
The truth, who is it?
556
00:21:18,229 --> 00:21:19,856
- ♪ My way to the top
and it ain’t no stopping ♪
557
00:21:19,856 --> 00:21:21,559
- ♪ I just looked at my wrist,
I got time today ♪
558
00:21:21,559 --> 00:21:23,031
♪ [...] it,
I’m crossing a line today ♪
559
00:21:23,031 --> 00:21:24,823
♪ The hate be so real,
the love be fake ♪
560
00:21:24,823 --> 00:21:26,823
♪ Be bumpin’ they gums
and bumpin’ my tape ♪
561
00:21:26,823 --> 00:21:30,790
- Joc and his son, Scrappy
and Bambi getting divorced,
562
00:21:30,790 --> 00:21:32,262
Frost Bistro,
me and my kids.
563
00:21:32,262 --> 00:21:34,823
It’s just like
we’re all going through
564
00:21:34,823 --> 00:21:35,757
some bull[bleep] right now.
565
00:21:35,757 --> 00:21:38,823
We totally know somebody is
stealing from the restaurant.
566
00:21:38,823 --> 00:21:41,064
I thought we were
moving forward,
567
00:21:41,064 --> 00:21:42,856
and to find out
that we still gotta deal
568
00:21:42,856 --> 00:21:46,031
with some bull[bleep]
is really mind-boggling to me.
569
00:21:46,031 --> 00:21:48,097
So we calling all the kids
together to have a meeting
570
00:21:48,097 --> 00:21:49,998
so we can kind of get
this [bleep] straight.
571
00:21:49,998 --> 00:21:52,658
We got a serious problem
with some missing food
572
00:21:52,658 --> 00:21:53,559
at this point in time
573
00:21:53,559 --> 00:21:55,856
and we need to get
to the bottom of it.
574
00:21:55,856 --> 00:21:59,823
- There’s something going on
and I feel it’s not right.
575
00:21:59,823 --> 00:22:02,757
- So now Varmar tells me
he know why we got these voids
576
00:22:02,757 --> 00:22:06,163
and why the food is not adding
up at the end of the night.
577
00:22:06,163 --> 00:22:08,625
♪ ♪
578
00:22:08,625 --> 00:22:11,130
- Me, personally,
I think the food being stolen.
579
00:22:11,130 --> 00:22:14,965
- I think that everybody has
to understand accountability.
580
00:22:14,965 --> 00:22:16,130
I do expect better.
581
00:22:16,130 --> 00:22:21,262
I don’t know, does anybody have
anything to say about this?
582
00:22:21,262 --> 00:22:23,064
The truth, who is it?
583
00:22:23,064 --> 00:22:26,097
[dramatic music]
584
00:22:26,097 --> 00:22:28,790
♪ ♪
585
00:22:28,790 --> 00:22:31,691
- It’s Ciara.
586
00:22:31,691 --> 00:22:32,361
- It’s not true.
587
00:22:32,361 --> 00:22:33,691
I never had no problem
588
00:22:33,691 --> 00:22:35,064
with me serving or none of that
589
00:22:35,064 --> 00:22:38,163
until the involvement
of people disliking me.
590
00:22:38,163 --> 00:22:40,932
- Honestly,
I’m not at all surprised
591
00:22:40,932 --> 00:22:43,658
because we’ve had situations
where Ciara
592
00:22:43,658 --> 00:22:45,625
since she started
at the Bistro--
593
00:22:45,625 --> 00:22:47,965
- All of a sudden,
now these past couple months,
594
00:22:47,965 --> 00:22:49,691
it’s like
when I make a mistake,
595
00:22:49,691 --> 00:22:50,691
it feel like death row in here.
596
00:22:50,691 --> 00:22:52,097
- This is the thing,
you do think
597
00:22:52,097 --> 00:22:53,163
you can get away with murder.
598
00:22:53,163 --> 00:22:54,965
You can say you don’t,
but you do.
599
00:22:54,965 --> 00:22:56,932
And that needs to stop now
600
00:22:56,932 --> 00:22:59,295
so consider this your warning.
601
00:22:59,295 --> 00:23:00,998
- That’s it.
602
00:23:00,998 --> 00:23:01,691
♪ ♪
603
00:23:01,691 --> 00:23:05,196
Listen, there’s no better time
to start than right now
604
00:23:05,196 --> 00:23:07,130
to try to mend it
and make things better.
605
00:23:07,130 --> 00:23:09,932
So Kirk’s decision
not to terminate her
606
00:23:09,932 --> 00:23:11,965
is understandable,
but what I will say
607
00:23:11,965 --> 00:23:14,328
is we need to be
on the lookout for things.
608
00:23:14,328 --> 00:23:17,262
My whole thing is,
when we’re not here,
609
00:23:17,262 --> 00:23:21,031
we want the establishment
to run like we are here
610
00:23:21,031 --> 00:23:23,163
and that’s really what
we’re looking for
611
00:23:23,163 --> 00:23:24,691
and that’s the main goal here.
612
00:23:24,691 --> 00:23:25,691
You understand what I’m saying?
613
00:23:25,691 --> 00:23:28,130
- Absolutely.
- As far as Ciara’s concerned,
614
00:23:28,130 --> 00:23:30,163
whatever you see, document it,
615
00:23:30,163 --> 00:23:32,031
know it, write [bleep] up,
boom.
616
00:23:32,031 --> 00:23:35,998
And then after that, you got
one, two, three write-ups.
617
00:23:35,998 --> 00:23:38,097
Strike three, you out the door.
618
00:23:38,097 --> 00:23:40,856
- ♪ No, no, no, no lie ♪
619
00:23:40,856 --> 00:23:42,031
♪ Real queens don’t die ♪
620
00:23:42,031 --> 00:23:45,658
♪ We just pass on the crown
and multiply ♪
621
00:23:45,658 --> 00:23:49,427
♪ So you can keep hitting
on a boss lady ♪
622
00:23:49,427 --> 00:23:52,724
- Well, hello friend.
- Hi.
623
00:23:52,724 --> 00:23:54,691
- I have missed you so much.
624
00:23:54,691 --> 00:23:57,130
- I miss you.
- Oh, my gosh.
625
00:23:57,130 --> 00:23:59,724
So Scrap’s been out on the road
leaving me at home
626
00:23:59,724 --> 00:24:02,064
with the kids
and all the responsibilities.
627
00:24:02,064 --> 00:24:05,394
But even though Scrappy’s
back home,
628
00:24:05,394 --> 00:24:07,394
we’re not talking at all.
629
00:24:07,394 --> 00:24:08,724
So how was it?
630
00:24:08,724 --> 00:24:09,559
- Dubai? It was good.
631
00:24:09,559 --> 00:24:11,262
It was the first time
that everybody met Eric,
632
00:24:11,262 --> 00:24:14,361
but I just was like, thinking
about y’all the whole time.
633
00:24:14,361 --> 00:24:15,460
You know what I’m saying?
- Yeah.
634
00:24:15,460 --> 00:24:17,328
Me and Erica,
we had each other here.
635
00:24:17,328 --> 00:24:18,394
- No, I know.
- So.
636
00:24:18,394 --> 00:24:21,965
- I was in Dubai
living my best life,
637
00:24:21,965 --> 00:24:25,295
but I feel bad
because Erica and Bambi
638
00:24:25,295 --> 00:24:27,790
is kind of going through
the same drama
639
00:24:27,790 --> 00:24:29,229
with their husbands.
640
00:24:29,229 --> 00:24:31,130
Gotta ask you, is Scrap okay?
641
00:24:31,130 --> 00:24:35,295
’Cause he posted something
like he was suicidal and stuff
642
00:24:35,295 --> 00:24:36,295
like that so I’m like, damn,
643
00:24:36,295 --> 00:24:37,526
this [bleep]
it’s getting real,
644
00:24:37,526 --> 00:24:39,965
like, let me see
what’s really going on.
645
00:24:39,965 --> 00:24:40,856
- You know what?
Like,
646
00:24:40,856 --> 00:24:43,163
I know that he really
has been suffering.
647
00:24:43,163 --> 00:24:45,196
- Yeah.
- So he came home
648
00:24:45,196 --> 00:24:46,460
the next day after that.
649
00:24:46,460 --> 00:24:48,932
He was like all sick
and mind you,
650
00:24:48,932 --> 00:24:49,965
like,
we haven’t been talking.
651
00:24:49,965 --> 00:24:52,460
He was like, totally [bleep]
disrespectful to me,
652
00:24:52,460 --> 00:24:55,295
but I did make sure
he had some food.
653
00:24:55,295 --> 00:24:58,031
Like, I gave him some tea
and [bleep] and all that.
654
00:24:58,031 --> 00:25:00,163
I worry about Scrap
and his mental health.
655
00:25:00,163 --> 00:25:02,163
He just like
keeps it all to himself
656
00:25:02,163 --> 00:25:05,097
but then he’ll like, pour it
out on social media.
657
00:25:05,097 --> 00:25:07,196
So at this point,
I’m just gonna let Scrap
658
00:25:07,196 --> 00:25:08,460
figure out what
he’s gonna do for himself
659
00:25:08,460 --> 00:25:11,163
and I’m gonna focus on myself
and my babies.
660
00:25:11,163 --> 00:25:15,790
- Not to make matters worse
for y’all, but let me tell you.
661
00:25:15,790 --> 00:25:16,691
Okay, so--
- What?
662
00:25:16,691 --> 00:25:19,427
- Dubai, Momma Dee was there.
- Oh, God.
663
00:25:19,427 --> 00:25:22,856
- She was like,
"Sierra, come into the palace."
664
00:25:22,856 --> 00:25:24,823
- Oh, God.
- I’m like what the [bleep]
665
00:25:24,823 --> 00:25:25,592
do Momma Dee want?
666
00:25:25,592 --> 00:25:27,229
"I don’t like this trouble
in a palace
667
00:25:27,229 --> 00:25:30,097
’cause my son got lawyers
and it--"
668
00:25:30,097 --> 00:25:31,932
he--she just started
talking weird, right?
669
00:25:31,932 --> 00:25:34,526
- I’m gonna call my lawyer.
- And I’m pretty sure
670
00:25:34,526 --> 00:25:36,295
Bambi gonna call
her lawyer too, Momma Dee.
671
00:25:36,295 --> 00:25:39,163
- Yeah, let her do it.
- So she said he got lawyers?
672
00:25:39,163 --> 00:25:41,427
- She just was like
talking off the wall.
673
00:25:41,427 --> 00:25:42,262
She was like,
674
00:25:42,262 --> 00:25:46,262
"She don’t be with the kids,
my son be with the kids a lot."
675
00:25:46,262 --> 00:25:48,899
- Momma Dee is being
typical Momma Dee again,
676
00:25:48,899 --> 00:25:52,790
just really trying
to make excuses for her son.
677
00:25:52,790 --> 00:25:54,899
- I just can’t keep [bleep]
from you so I feel like
678
00:25:54,899 --> 00:25:56,526
I needed to let you know
what was going on
679
00:25:56,526 --> 00:25:58,427
and what was being said
on both ends.
680
00:25:58,427 --> 00:25:59,932
- Right.
This lady better not try me.
681
00:25:59,932 --> 00:26:01,559
I’m tired of
just holding [bleep] in.
682
00:26:01,559 --> 00:26:04,394
Listen, I have so much
going on at this point.
683
00:26:04,394 --> 00:26:07,361
I’m carrying this baby.
I’m taking care of two babies.
684
00:26:07,361 --> 00:26:08,427
I’m running the business.
685
00:26:08,427 --> 00:26:12,031
I’m trying to be the best
friend I can be to Erica.
686
00:26:12,031 --> 00:26:17,196
I, myself, am sitting up here
facing a divorce,
687
00:26:17,196 --> 00:26:18,460
and then Momma Dee like,
688
00:26:18,460 --> 00:26:21,460
she wants to put her
little extra, you know,
689
00:26:21,460 --> 00:26:23,328
seasoning in the mix.
And I’m just like,
690
00:26:23,328 --> 00:26:26,427
"Girl, like right now,
I really don’t need this."
691
00:26:26,427 --> 00:26:30,229
She itching for
some real [bleep] drama
692
00:26:30,229 --> 00:26:31,856
and I’m gonna give it to her.
693
00:26:31,856 --> 00:26:34,427
- Coming up on
"Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"...
694
00:26:34,427 --> 00:26:38,031
- But you may think
I’m tripping, I’m concerned.
695
00:26:38,031 --> 00:26:40,361
I got a group of peers
right now,
696
00:26:40,361 --> 00:26:41,526
that lost their sons.
697
00:26:41,526 --> 00:26:44,130
I don’t want be in that group.
698
00:26:48,953 --> 00:26:50,021
- ♪ My way to the top
and it ain't no stopping ♪
699
00:26:50,088 --> 00:26:52,090
- ♪ I will overcome ♪
700
00:26:52,157 --> 00:26:53,558
♪ Just like I do me for this ♪
701
00:26:53,625 --> 00:26:54,993
♪ Overcomer ♪
702
00:26:55,060 --> 00:26:56,461
♪ They thought they had me,
I'm out ♪
703
00:26:56,528 --> 00:26:58,329
♪ Just got
that prisoner down ♪
704
00:26:58,396 --> 00:27:00,198
♪ And stress
is holding me down ♪
705
00:27:00,265 --> 00:27:01,966
♪ But I fought through
all that now ♪
706
00:27:02,033 --> 00:27:03,468
♪ Now I got my back
for effect ♪
707
00:27:03,535 --> 00:27:05,070
♪ My chest all right,
they hear me now ♪
708
00:27:05,136 --> 00:27:07,338
♪ We conquerors,
got a lot on my mind ♪
709
00:27:07,405 --> 00:27:09,007
- Oh, hello, hello.
- Hey, pastor.
710
00:27:09,074 --> 00:27:11,009
How you doing?
- Hey.
711
00:27:11,076 --> 00:27:13,478
- How's it going?
How you doing?
712
00:27:13,545 --> 00:27:14,612
- I'm good,
hanging in there, man.
713
00:27:14,679 --> 00:27:15,680
- Good to see you, pastor.
714
00:27:15,747 --> 00:27:17,215
- Good to see you, sister.
715
00:27:17,282 --> 00:27:18,850
- Now the other day,
when Kirk gave me that advice
716
00:27:18,917 --> 00:27:20,385
about going to talk
to my pastor,
717
00:27:20,452 --> 00:27:21,953
I felt like
it was sound advice,
718
00:27:22,020 --> 00:27:23,488
so everybody's
coming together.
719
00:27:23,555 --> 00:27:26,191
And I think that this is
a great opportunity for Amoni
720
00:27:26,257 --> 00:27:28,660
to see that everybody
around you sees
721
00:27:28,727 --> 00:27:30,462
that you have great potential,
722
00:27:30,528 --> 00:27:34,399
but we need you to unlock
that now before it's too late.
723
00:27:34,466 --> 00:27:37,602
- How you feeling, mom?
- I'm good baby. How are you?
724
00:27:37,669 --> 00:27:40,004
- Just trying to make sure
I keep my head good
725
00:27:40,071 --> 00:27:41,773
with all things at all times.
726
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:43,375
- Everything will be fine.
727
00:27:43,441 --> 00:27:45,877
- That's all I'm praying for.
728
00:27:45,944 --> 00:27:47,712
♪ ♪
729
00:27:47,779 --> 00:27:49,247
- So what's going on?
730
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:53,818
- Jasiel and Amoni are trying
to repair and, you know,
731
00:27:53,885 --> 00:27:55,720
grow their
father-son relationship,
732
00:27:55,787 --> 00:27:58,890
but, you know,
professional help is needed.
733
00:27:58,957 --> 00:28:00,658
- There's no perfect family.
734
00:28:00,725 --> 00:28:03,395
No perfect father,
no perfect children.
735
00:28:03,461 --> 00:28:06,064
And--see what's going on.
[knock on door]
736
00:28:06,131 --> 00:28:07,832
- Hey baby.
737
00:28:07,899 --> 00:28:11,936
♪ ♪
738
00:28:12,003 --> 00:28:14,472
- This being the first time
that we've seen each other
739
00:28:14,539 --> 00:28:18,276
since the incident,
I'm uneasy, I'm unsettled,
740
00:28:18,309 --> 00:28:19,577
I don't really know
how to feel.
741
00:28:19,644 --> 00:28:22,781
- Your father reached out to me
to get a session
742
00:28:22,847 --> 00:28:26,418
because I understand that
there's been some conflict.
743
00:28:26,484 --> 00:28:30,822
You know, I'm just here
to see how I can help.
744
00:28:30,889 --> 00:28:32,157
- It's okay though.
745
00:28:32,290 --> 00:28:34,826
- So what happened recently
at the club?
746
00:28:34,893 --> 00:28:38,296
- We came there to resolve
things like we doing now
747
00:28:38,363 --> 00:28:41,533
and things ain't go
how they were 'posed to go.
748
00:28:41,599 --> 00:28:44,302
Ended up getting into
a physical altercation.
749
00:28:44,302 --> 00:28:46,705
Things just weren't right,
750
00:28:46,771 --> 00:28:48,973
that's why we here.
751
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:52,977
- I do think that some of my
general practices on parenting
752
00:28:53,044 --> 00:28:54,913
may have to change a little.
753
00:28:54,979 --> 00:28:58,450
Like Kirk said, the approach
can feel more like love
754
00:28:58,516 --> 00:29:02,287
and opposed to hate or insult.
755
00:29:02,354 --> 00:29:04,489
- Do you have anything
to say to each other?
756
00:29:04,556 --> 00:29:06,091
- Yeah.
757
00:29:06,157 --> 00:29:07,559
Well, you may think
I'm tripping.
758
00:29:07,625 --> 00:29:09,027
I'm concerned.
759
00:29:09,094 --> 00:29:13,264
I got a group of peers
right now that lost their son.
760
00:29:13,331 --> 00:29:14,933
I don't wanna be in that group.
761
00:29:14,999 --> 00:29:19,070
As much as I love them, I wanna
support them from the outside.
762
00:29:19,137 --> 00:29:20,538
I don't wanna support them
on the inside
763
00:29:20,605 --> 00:29:24,275
and feel that same pain,
that same trauma.
764
00:29:24,309 --> 00:29:27,512
I have so many friends
who lost their sons,
765
00:29:27,579 --> 00:29:30,715
it'll take me six sets
of hands to count on.
766
00:29:30,782 --> 00:29:32,851
No parent should ever
bury their child,
767
00:29:32,917 --> 00:29:34,886
but life is not like that.
768
00:29:34,953 --> 00:29:37,455
I would rather yell
to the top of my lungs
769
00:29:37,522 --> 00:29:40,492
so he knows how passionate I am
about his life
770
00:29:40,558 --> 00:29:42,394
than to have
a moment of silence
771
00:29:42,460 --> 00:29:45,196
and just let him go out here
and do anything he want to do.
772
00:29:45,296 --> 00:29:46,731
So here I am,
I'm telling my son
773
00:29:46,798 --> 00:29:48,533
who I'm seeing unraveling.
774
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,402
It's like this behavioral
pattern unraveling,
775
00:29:50,468 --> 00:29:52,904
you know, he was like,
"You know, I'm grown though."
776
00:29:52,971 --> 00:29:54,572
Me and Gino were grown too.
777
00:29:54,639 --> 00:29:57,008
I've had guns drawn on me
from the police,
778
00:29:57,075 --> 00:29:58,276
"Hey, don't move."
779
00:29:58,343 --> 00:29:59,444
How did I get charges?
780
00:29:59,511 --> 00:30:01,446
Y'all were looking
for my brother,
781
00:30:01,513 --> 00:30:04,115
instead they get me
guns in my face,
782
00:30:04,249 --> 00:30:05,250
guns in my lady face.
783
00:30:05,316 --> 00:30:06,718
I coulda got killed
784
00:30:06,785 --> 00:30:08,520
because the police ran up on me
with their guns out
785
00:30:08,586 --> 00:30:10,488
'cause they thought I was him.
For what?
786
00:30:10,555 --> 00:30:13,458
I ain't even did nothing,
I'm just pulling up.
787
00:30:13,525 --> 00:30:15,627
'Cause I fit the description.
788
00:30:15,694 --> 00:30:18,296
We get profiled and I'm trying
to get my son to see this.
789
00:30:18,363 --> 00:30:20,965
I mean, myself,,
I been through it.
790
00:30:21,032 --> 00:30:22,133
[bleep] ain't no,
this ain't cap,
791
00:30:22,267 --> 00:30:24,069
this ain't no game out here.
792
00:30:24,135 --> 00:30:25,470
I'm your father,
I'm looking at you
793
00:30:25,537 --> 00:30:27,072
I'm saying, man,
you fitting the description
794
00:30:27,138 --> 00:30:29,507
to be another statistic.
795
00:30:29,574 --> 00:30:31,676
That's what I don't
want to see.
796
00:30:31,743 --> 00:30:33,778
So as I'm talking to you,
797
00:30:33,845 --> 00:30:36,381
my heart is on my sleeve
and you kinda like,
798
00:30:36,448 --> 00:30:37,549
"Man, I don't want it.
Psh.
799
00:30:37,615 --> 00:30:38,850
Get your little heart
outta here."
800
00:30:38,917 --> 00:30:42,287
- Right. Like I told him.
- That's how I felt.
801
00:30:42,354 --> 00:30:44,889
- It's coming from a place
of loving you,
802
00:30:44,956 --> 00:30:46,391
but I don't think the way
803
00:30:46,458 --> 00:30:48,326
that he came about doing it
was the right way.
804
00:30:48,393 --> 00:30:50,261
- So as a man, I apologize,
805
00:30:50,328 --> 00:30:52,864
but I love you
with everything in me, bro.
806
00:30:52,931 --> 00:30:54,866
Everything in me.
807
00:30:54,933 --> 00:30:57,435
- Love you too, Dad.
808
00:30:57,502 --> 00:30:59,671
I don't want no friction
between us,
809
00:30:59,738 --> 00:31:01,773
you know what I'm saying?
I want it to be positive energy
810
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:03,541
between us.
811
00:31:03,608 --> 00:31:06,478
- Brother, I felt that apology.
812
00:31:06,544 --> 00:31:07,879
I'm sure your son felt it.
813
00:31:07,946 --> 00:31:10,648
And I felt your response.
814
00:31:10,715 --> 00:31:12,550
It was a different type
of apology.
815
00:31:12,617 --> 00:31:16,154
I feel that you definitely
want to be with your father,
816
00:31:16,254 --> 00:31:18,590
you wanna spend more time
with your father.
817
00:31:18,656 --> 00:31:21,292
You want to do more positive
things with your father.
818
00:31:21,359 --> 00:31:22,627
This is how--
819
00:31:22,694 --> 00:31:25,530
♪ ♪
820
00:31:25,597 --> 00:31:27,332
- Start of a new beginning.
821
00:31:27,399 --> 00:31:29,567
I really feel like a burden
822
00:31:29,634 --> 00:31:30,902
has been lifted off
my shoulders,
823
00:31:30,969 --> 00:31:33,538
but I still feel like
there's more work to do.
824
00:31:33,605 --> 00:31:36,541
It's gonna take more of us
825
00:31:36,608 --> 00:31:39,044
pouring into him even more now,
826
00:31:39,110 --> 00:31:42,380
give him a fair shot at being
the best that he could be.
827
00:31:42,447 --> 00:31:44,449
I love you, man,
for real, though.
828
00:31:44,516 --> 00:31:46,618
- Love you too.
- Sitting with the pastor,
829
00:31:46,684 --> 00:31:49,788
I gotta get a chance
to really break down things
830
00:31:49,854 --> 00:31:51,222
between me and my dad.
831
00:31:51,256 --> 00:31:53,224
This time he didn't do
too much yelling,
832
00:31:53,224 --> 00:31:56,394
he more so like really wanted
to get me to really understand.
833
00:31:56,461 --> 00:31:58,496
Instead of talking at me,
he was talking to me,
834
00:31:58,563 --> 00:32:00,065
you know what I'm saying?
835
00:32:00,131 --> 00:32:01,332
Like a man to man,
836
00:32:01,399 --> 00:32:02,801
I can see eye to eye with him
837
00:32:02,867 --> 00:32:05,603
and be like, "Okay,
I get what I was wrong at too."
838
00:32:05,670 --> 00:32:07,472
And so I'm happy
we was able to settle it
839
00:32:07,539 --> 00:32:09,741
and so we can end up
working on our connection.
840
00:32:09,808 --> 00:32:12,077
- I don't want nothing but the
best for you, dog.
841
00:32:12,143 --> 00:32:13,712
Believe that.
842
00:32:16,802 --> 00:32:18,868
- ♪ My way to the top,
and it ain’t no stopping ♪
843
00:32:18,868 --> 00:32:21,802
[upbeat music]
844
00:32:21,802 --> 00:32:24,396
- ♪ Everybody wanna
celebrate, celebrate ♪
845
00:32:24,396 --> 00:32:26,934
♪ Ain’t nobody wanna put
the work in, put the work in ♪
846
00:32:26,934 --> 00:32:30,604
♪ I been working for it
every day, every ♪
847
00:32:30,604 --> 00:32:34,670
- Today is the day
that one of my dreams
848
00:32:34,670 --> 00:32:35,571
gets checked off the list.
849
00:32:35,571 --> 00:32:38,703
I got most of my new friends
from the A coming out.
850
00:32:38,703 --> 00:32:41,802
I got my friends and family
from New York.
851
00:32:41,802 --> 00:32:44,604
Like, how does a girl
get so lucky?
852
00:32:44,604 --> 00:32:45,472
[cheering]
853
00:32:45,472 --> 00:32:46,901
- ♪ I’m in love
with the game ♪
854
00:32:46,901 --> 00:32:47,835
♪ Never stopping ♪
855
00:32:47,835 --> 00:32:51,363
- Thank you, guys, so, so, so,
so much for the support.
856
00:32:51,363 --> 00:32:55,703
I wanted my team, my friends,
my family on this stage with me
857
00:32:55,703 --> 00:32:58,472
because it has truly been
a village
858
00:32:58,472 --> 00:33:00,198
that has helped
create this line.
859
00:33:00,198 --> 00:33:03,835
To actually see this store
come to life,
860
00:33:03,835 --> 00:33:06,637
I am beyond grateful.
861
00:33:06,637 --> 00:33:09,934
One, two, three!
862
00:33:09,934 --> 00:33:11,868
[cheering]
863
00:33:11,868 --> 00:33:15,396
All right, family, come on in.
864
00:33:15,396 --> 00:33:18,033
♪ ♪
865
00:33:18,033 --> 00:33:19,934
- You’ve really made it
look like the garden,
866
00:33:19,934 --> 00:33:20,901
Her floor is grass.
867
00:33:20,901 --> 00:33:25,505
- Do y’all see all this Black
girl magic round here?
868
00:33:25,505 --> 00:33:27,637
Yandy,
I am so freaking proud of you.
869
00:33:27,637 --> 00:33:29,901
I love to see you
continue to shine.
870
00:33:29,901 --> 00:33:30,901
Let’s celebrate, boo.
871
00:33:30,901 --> 00:33:33,297
- ♪ Summer like hop scotch,
I be on a double Dutch ♪
872
00:33:33,297 --> 00:33:36,736
♪ Tip tag, tip tag,
gotta get your rhythm on ♪
873
00:33:36,736 --> 00:33:38,571
- I’m rejoicing for Yandy
right now
874
00:33:38,571 --> 00:33:44,264
because Atlanta is definitely
fertile soil for opportunity,
875
00:33:44,264 --> 00:33:45,703
especially when it comes
to minorities.
876
00:33:45,703 --> 00:33:48,736
And I’m just very happy
for Yandy and her family, man.
877
00:33:48,736 --> 00:33:50,472
And I’m here to support that.
878
00:33:50,472 --> 00:33:52,703
- Hey y’all.
- Hey, what’s up, boo?
879
00:33:52,703 --> 00:33:53,396
How are you?
880
00:33:53,396 --> 00:33:55,330
I ain’t your ass
in a hundred years.
881
00:33:55,330 --> 00:33:57,297
- How things going
with you and Amoni?
882
00:33:57,297 --> 00:33:58,670
Has it gotten any better?
883
00:33:58,670 --> 00:34:00,000
- Well, we going
to counselling and--
884
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:01,538
- Really?
- We just--yeah.
885
00:34:01,538 --> 00:34:03,330
- Oh, that’s good.
- It’s good. It’s helpful.
886
00:34:03,330 --> 00:34:06,330
- It’s a weird moment ’cause
we in church and some words
887
00:34:06,330 --> 00:34:07,703
might slip out at church.
- Stop.
888
00:34:07,703 --> 00:34:09,363
- Yeah, we be at the church,
but whatever--
889
00:34:09,363 --> 00:34:10,637
- Oh, at the church?
Yeah.
890
00:34:10,637 --> 00:34:12,571
- But whatever we feel,
we say it.
891
00:34:12,571 --> 00:34:13,330
And I, you know,
892
00:34:13,330 --> 00:34:14,802
I would never want
to disrespect the Lord but--
893
00:34:14,802 --> 00:34:17,736
- Period. The church?
- In his office.
894
00:34:17,736 --> 00:34:19,571
- Nah, but we cool.
We chill. We chill.
895
00:34:19,571 --> 00:34:22,901
A lot of Black kids
don’t get that luxury
896
00:34:22,901 --> 00:34:23,868
of having both parents there.
897
00:34:23,868 --> 00:34:28,835
But I really feel like
seeing his mom and me talk
898
00:34:28,835 --> 00:34:29,934
and share our love for him.
899
00:34:29,934 --> 00:34:33,472
I think that was like a moment
of triumph for him
900
00:34:33,472 --> 00:34:34,297
and for us as a whole.
901
00:34:34,297 --> 00:34:36,901
- Sometimes these kids
be feeling like they just--
902
00:34:36,901 --> 00:34:37,670
- Entitled.
903
00:34:37,670 --> 00:34:39,472
- To [bleep] like--
- Yes. Entitled.
904
00:34:39,472 --> 00:34:40,604
- Like you can’t
tell ’em nothing,
905
00:34:40,604 --> 00:34:43,396
like you ain’t walked that path
or lived that.
906
00:34:43,396 --> 00:34:44,703
Or like,
"I get that you grown [bleep],
907
00:34:44,703 --> 00:34:46,066
but you don’t know everything."
908
00:34:46,066 --> 00:34:46,670
- Right.
909
00:34:46,670 --> 00:34:48,670
- ♪ I just wanna party
in the hills ♪
910
00:34:48,670 --> 00:34:49,769
♪ With a drink in my hand ♪
911
00:34:49,769 --> 00:34:53,538
♪ And a girl by my side,
is that too much to ask for? ♪
912
00:34:53,538 --> 00:34:54,604
- Yandy is one of my peoples.
913
00:34:54,604 --> 00:34:56,330
Yandy is one of my best friends
I would say.
914
00:34:56,330 --> 00:34:59,670
I was with Yandy when Yelle
was just a thought
915
00:34:59,670 --> 00:35:00,934
to now she has her own
big storefront.
916
00:35:00,934 --> 00:35:03,670
Of course I’m gonna show up
and support.
917
00:35:03,670 --> 00:35:04,802
I’m proud.
918
00:35:04,802 --> 00:35:06,396
♪ ♪
919
00:35:06,396 --> 00:35:07,802
- What you doing back here?
What you doing?
920
00:35:07,802 --> 00:35:09,934
What you doing? What you doing?
- I’m supporting--
921
00:35:09,934 --> 00:35:10,967
- What you doing back here?
922
00:35:10,967 --> 00:35:13,802
- Supporting a Black owned
popcorn that tastes very good.
923
00:35:13,802 --> 00:35:15,637
What are you looking at me
like that for?
924
00:35:15,637 --> 00:35:16,769
- ’Cause we need to talk.
925
00:35:16,769 --> 00:35:18,835
You used to act
like we were friends.
926
00:35:18,835 --> 00:35:20,000
You got all this stuff
going on,
927
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:20,967
I don’t know nothing about it.
928
00:35:20,967 --> 00:35:22,868
I’m thinking you happy,
everything is good.
929
00:35:22,868 --> 00:35:25,538
- I am happy.
- It doesn’t seem like so.
930
00:35:25,538 --> 00:35:28,703
Y’all talking about divorce
and child support and--
931
00:35:28,703 --> 00:35:31,769
- Time changes things.
- Marriage is forever.
932
00:35:31,769 --> 00:35:34,769
- Should be, but not this one.
933
00:35:34,769 --> 00:35:37,165
It’s not about marriage,
it’s about being happy,
934
00:35:37,165 --> 00:35:38,934
it’s about
a healthy relationship.
935
00:35:38,934 --> 00:35:40,736
And if that’s not there,
it doesn’t matter
936
00:35:40,736 --> 00:35:41,604
if you’re married or not,
937
00:35:41,604 --> 00:35:43,835
I’m not gonna stay with someone
just because I’m married
938
00:35:43,835 --> 00:35:45,835
and all we do is fight.
No, thank you.
939
00:35:45,835 --> 00:35:47,901
- What I’m hearing and what
I’m seeing is not you.
940
00:35:47,901 --> 00:35:52,637
You’re the most concerned,
protective person that I know.
941
00:35:52,637 --> 00:35:53,472
- It’s about respect.
942
00:35:53,472 --> 00:35:55,934
- Respect is important too
but that goes both ways.
943
00:35:55,934 --> 00:35:58,802
If she’s in the hospital,
you need to be by her side.
944
00:35:58,802 --> 00:36:00,637
- Not if it’s just
arguing and fighting.
945
00:36:00,637 --> 00:36:03,132
- It takes two to argue.
She can’t argue by herself.
946
00:36:03,132 --> 00:36:04,033
- Yes, she can.
947
00:36:04,033 --> 00:36:06,802
- No, Safaree, why is she
talking about infidelity?
948
00:36:06,802 --> 00:36:10,165
Why is she talking about
she caught you cheating?
949
00:36:10,165 --> 00:36:12,538
- She keeps saying
the word cheating,
950
00:36:12,538 --> 00:36:14,033
but we weren’t together so--
951
00:36:14,033 --> 00:36:16,934
- You’re married.
What do you mean?
952
00:36:16,934 --> 00:36:19,736
- The situation that Erica
is talking about
953
00:36:19,736 --> 00:36:22,198
was a one-time situation.
954
00:36:22,198 --> 00:36:25,099
I’m not gonna sit around and be
some goody two shoe, like,
955
00:36:25,099 --> 00:36:28,670
if I am out there and I end up
entertaining somebody else,
956
00:36:28,670 --> 00:36:31,802
then this is what
we put out there.
957
00:36:31,802 --> 00:36:32,637
And that’s that.
958
00:36:32,637 --> 00:36:34,571
Look, I’ve been by myself
the past three weeks
959
00:36:34,571 --> 00:36:36,934
and I wake up and I swear
to God I’m in peace.
960
00:36:36,934 --> 00:36:37,934
- Let me ask you this question,
961
00:36:37,934 --> 00:36:43,033
are you angry or do you
no longer love her?
962
00:36:43,033 --> 00:36:45,198
- Well, I feel like
I don’t care.
963
00:36:45,198 --> 00:36:46,066
- You’re angry.
964
00:36:46,066 --> 00:36:47,934
If you can’t sit here
and tell me,
965
00:36:47,934 --> 00:36:50,165
"No, I’m no longer
in love with her."
966
00:36:50,165 --> 00:36:51,000
Then you love her,
967
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,066
and I also know how much
you love your babies.
968
00:36:53,066 --> 00:36:54,835
- And that’s why I’m leaving.
969
00:36:54,835 --> 00:36:58,769
Like, I left, I got
my own place, like I’m out.
970
00:36:58,769 --> 00:36:59,736
- You got your own place?
971
00:36:59,736 --> 00:37:01,066
- Like I don’t
live there anymore.
972
00:37:01,066 --> 00:37:03,132
Every other day she’s saying,
"Get out,
973
00:37:03,132 --> 00:37:04,066
get out, get out, get out."
974
00:37:04,066 --> 00:37:08,066
I’d rather stay on a bunk bed
in someone else’s crib
975
00:37:08,066 --> 00:37:08,868
than to be in this house
976
00:37:08,868 --> 00:37:11,769
and just be arguing nonstop
every day, every time we speak.
977
00:37:11,769 --> 00:37:14,132
It just doesn’t make any sense
and it’s not healthy.
978
00:37:14,132 --> 00:37:17,736
We gonna coexist,
but not in the same place.
979
00:37:17,736 --> 00:37:20,099
- Aye...
980
00:37:22,264 --> 00:37:25,000
- When I talked to Sierra
in Dubai,
981
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:27,868
she told me that Bambi said
she’s getting a divorce
982
00:37:27,868 --> 00:37:30,604
from my son, Scrappy,
and that she’s gonna try
983
00:37:30,604 --> 00:37:33,264
to take my son
for everything he got.
984
00:37:33,264 --> 00:37:37,000
- From my understanding,
Bambi wants a divorce
985
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:38,165
and she want to separate,
986
00:37:38,165 --> 00:37:41,604
like she don’t wanna be
in the house with Scrap.
987
00:37:41,604 --> 00:37:43,637
- I can smell a rat
from a mile away
988
00:37:43,637 --> 00:37:47,165
and I feel the need as a mom
to protect my son.
989
00:37:47,165 --> 00:37:51,000
And when it comes down to this,
I’m not backing down.
990
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:52,736
Matter of fact,
I’m doubling down,
991
00:37:52,736 --> 00:37:55,868
and that’s what
any parent would do.
992
00:37:55,868 --> 00:37:57,769
Hello.
993
00:37:57,769 --> 00:38:03,297
♪ ♪
994
00:38:04,273 --> 00:38:06,240
- ♪ My way to the top,
and it ain’t no stopping ♪
995
00:38:06,240 --> 00:38:09,273
[dramatic music]
996
00:38:09,273 --> 00:38:10,075
♪ ♪
997
00:38:10,075 --> 00:38:11,834
- We’re drinking some
wifey.
998
00:38:11,834 --> 00:38:13,207
- [indistinct chatter]
999
00:38:13,207 --> 00:38:14,207
- Okay.
1000
00:38:14,207 --> 00:38:17,735
- Still popping bottles.
1001
00:38:17,735 --> 00:38:18,801
- Hello.
1002
00:38:18,801 --> 00:38:20,943
- Hello.
- How are you?
1003
00:38:20,943 --> 00:38:22,372
- I’m good.
1004
00:38:22,372 --> 00:38:23,900
- A lot of things
have occurred.
1005
00:38:23,900 --> 00:38:28,603
When I went to Dubai I didn’t
know, I honestly did not know.
1006
00:38:28,603 --> 00:38:29,471
- You didn’t know what?
1007
00:38:29,471 --> 00:38:32,075
- I didn’t know what Sierra
told me, so let me just repeat.
1008
00:38:32,075 --> 00:38:33,306
- What did Sierra tell you?
1009
00:38:33,306 --> 00:38:36,636
- She told me that
y’all filed for divorce
1010
00:38:36,636 --> 00:38:38,339
and I knew y’all had checked me
in Arizona
1011
00:38:38,339 --> 00:38:39,174
so I stayed out of it.
1012
00:38:39,174 --> 00:38:40,943
- So Sierra came up to you
and told you?
1013
00:38:40,943 --> 00:38:41,504
- Yes.
1014
00:38:41,504 --> 00:38:43,240
- So the last thing I wanna
be doing today
1015
00:38:43,240 --> 00:38:44,339
is talking to Momma Dee,
1016
00:38:44,339 --> 00:38:45,669
especially after
all the [bleep]
1017
00:38:45,669 --> 00:38:46,603
she been talking to Sierra
1018
00:38:46,603 --> 00:38:48,042
and anybody else
who will listen.
1019
00:38:48,042 --> 00:38:49,801
- She told me
at a bar in Dubai.
1020
00:38:49,801 --> 00:38:53,240
I was shocked, I really didn’t
want to believe her at first.
1021
00:38:53,240 --> 00:38:56,735
I got upset, I started cursing,
because mind you,
1022
00:38:56,735 --> 00:38:59,768
if anybody said they gonna
take your son for everything.
1023
00:38:59,768 --> 00:39:01,702
- Who said that?
- Sierra, just when she--
1024
00:39:01,702 --> 00:39:03,900
- She said I was gonna take
your son for what?
1025
00:39:03,900 --> 00:39:05,075
For what?
- I don’t know.
1026
00:39:05,075 --> 00:39:05,900
- What is everything?
1027
00:39:05,900 --> 00:39:07,834
I really don’t understand
where this energy
1028
00:39:07,834 --> 00:39:09,405
is coming from
because honey, like,
1029
00:39:09,405 --> 00:39:12,801
I’m still trying to figure out
where the money at?
1030
00:39:12,801 --> 00:39:15,735
That’s where the problem lies,
you should be--
1031
00:39:15,735 --> 00:39:16,943
- So you’re trying to flip
the blame,
1032
00:39:16,943 --> 00:39:18,075
you’re not gonna
put the blame on me.
1033
00:39:18,075 --> 00:39:19,669
- You should be grown enough
and smart enough to know that--
1034
00:39:19,669 --> 00:39:21,438
- No, you should be worried
about discussing your business
1035
00:39:21,438 --> 00:39:22,438
to people that run their mouth.
1036
00:39:22,438 --> 00:39:23,735
- At the end of the day,
you run your mouth.
1037
00:39:23,735 --> 00:39:25,834
Why are you sitting right here
talking to me now?
1038
00:39:25,834 --> 00:39:26,867
- Just listen to me.
1039
00:39:26,867 --> 00:39:28,735
- Why are you--why did you come
over here and talking to me?
1040
00:39:28,735 --> 00:39:30,042
- Just know-just know
I would never let anyone
1041
00:39:30,042 --> 00:39:31,405
hurt my grandson
and you would never let nobody.
1042
00:39:31,405 --> 00:39:33,735
- First of all,
you’ve only seen your grandson
1043
00:39:33,735 --> 00:39:34,537
a handful of times,
1044
00:39:34,537 --> 00:39:35,976
so what is you talking
about your grandson?
1045
00:39:35,976 --> 00:39:38,042
- Because I don’t have
access to him. Stop.
1046
00:39:38,042 --> 00:39:39,900
- How did this go
from Scrappy to Breland?
1047
00:39:39,900 --> 00:39:41,273
Before you say anything
about my kids,
1048
00:39:41,273 --> 00:39:45,306
how about you show up
and come see them or shut up.
1049
00:39:45,306 --> 00:39:47,405
Because if my kids
saw you today,
1050
00:39:47,405 --> 00:39:48,867
they wouldn’t even know you.
1051
00:39:48,867 --> 00:39:51,174
Your son has some [bleep]--
1052
00:39:51,174 --> 00:39:54,207
- Just know that when you come
with the lawyers,
1053
00:39:54,207 --> 00:39:56,273
we got lawyers too
and we can pay.
1054
00:39:56,273 --> 00:39:57,174
- Okay, okay.
1055
00:39:57,174 --> 00:39:58,768
Well, you can’t pay
as much as I can pay.
1056
00:39:58,768 --> 00:40:00,669
- Come on,
[bleep] bring it bitch.
1057
00:40:00,669 --> 00:40:02,108
- [bleep] outta my face.
1058
00:40:02,108 --> 00:40:03,075
- I don’t play that [bleep].
1059
00:40:03,075 --> 00:40:04,372
Keep that bitch away from me.
1060
00:40:04,372 --> 00:40:09,405
Baby, what you don’t want
is to tangle with my Black ass.
1061
00:40:12,762 --> 00:40:14,455
- ♪ My way to the top
there ain’t no stopping ♪
1062
00:40:14,455 --> 00:40:16,059
- You’re watching
"Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta..."
1063
00:40:16,059 --> 00:40:18,059
- "Check Yourself."
- Season ten.
1064
00:40:18,059 --> 00:40:19,059
- You’ll be watching us...
1065
00:40:19,059 --> 00:40:21,059
- Watch the show...
- For the very first time.
1066
00:40:21,059 --> 00:40:23,927
- You’ll be getting our natural
and honest reactions.
1067
00:40:23,927 --> 00:40:25,356
- We’re watching it...
- With you.
1068
00:40:25,356 --> 00:40:29,092
- The scene you’re about to see
is Yandy on a high note
1069
00:40:29,092 --> 00:40:32,158
and the palace running amok.
1070
00:40:32,158 --> 00:40:35,191
[upbeat music]
1071
00:40:35,191 --> 00:40:42,828
♪ ♪
1072
00:40:45,828 --> 00:40:48,762
- One, two, three!
1073
00:40:48,762 --> 00:40:52,092
- I mean, let’s be--let’s--
let’s keep it 100, now.
1074
00:40:52,092 --> 00:40:53,092
The feeling of a ribbon cutting
1075
00:40:53,092 --> 00:40:56,993
is a beautiful thing,
you know what I’m saying?
1076
00:40:56,993 --> 00:40:59,224
- They really made it
look like the garden.
1077
00:40:59,224 --> 00:41:00,026
Our floor is grass.
1078
00:41:00,026 --> 00:41:03,290
- I gotta admit, you know,
it does look good inside.
1079
00:41:03,290 --> 00:41:05,828
It reminds me of my palace.
1080
00:41:05,828 --> 00:41:08,026
- Hey, what’s up, boo?
How are you?
1081
00:41:08,026 --> 00:41:10,092
I ain’t seen your ass
in a hundred years.
1082
00:41:10,092 --> 00:41:13,257
- Uh, ain’t been that long,
Rasheeda-sheeda.
1083
00:41:13,257 --> 00:41:17,224
Just a couple of...months.
1084
00:41:17,224 --> 00:41:18,795
[dramatic music]
1085
00:41:18,795 --> 00:41:22,092
- Here come...
music video Safaree.
1086
00:41:22,092 --> 00:41:25,290
He’s doing
that video walk again.
1087
00:41:25,290 --> 00:41:26,224
- What you doing back here?
1088
00:41:26,224 --> 00:41:28,125
What you doing, what you doing,
what you doing?
1089
00:41:28,125 --> 00:41:29,488
- I’m supporting--
- What you doing back here?
1090
00:41:29,488 --> 00:41:32,422
- A Black-owned popcorn
that tastes very good.
1091
00:41:32,422 --> 00:41:34,455
Why you looking at me
like that for?
1092
00:41:34,455 --> 00:41:35,356
- ’Cause we need to talk.
1093
00:41:35,356 --> 00:41:37,927
- See, now you hear
the New York
1094
00:41:37,927 --> 00:41:38,927
come out of Yandy.
1095
00:41:38,927 --> 00:41:41,828
"We need to tawk.
We need to tawk."
1096
00:41:41,828 --> 00:41:43,828
That’s the Yandy I know.
[chuckles]
1097
00:41:43,828 --> 00:41:45,828
- You used to act
like we were friends.
1098
00:41:45,828 --> 00:41:46,894
You got all this
stuff going on,
1099
00:41:46,894 --> 00:41:49,092
I don’t know nothing about it.
I’m thinking you happy,
1100
00:41:49,092 --> 00:41:50,828
everything is good--
- I am happy.
1101
00:41:50,828 --> 00:41:53,960
- Do I look happy
when I look like this?
1102
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:57,455
Or do I look happy
when I look like this?
1103
00:41:57,455 --> 00:42:02,762
- If nonchalant was a person,
"I am happy."
1104
00:42:02,762 --> 00:42:03,389
[chuckles]
1105
00:42:03,389 --> 00:42:05,927
- When a man acts nonchalant
1106
00:42:05,927 --> 00:42:08,323
and his face goes like--
1107
00:42:08,323 --> 00:42:11,092
that mean he sticking
more than one girl.
1108
00:42:11,092 --> 00:42:11,762
Watch him.
1109
00:42:11,762 --> 00:42:15,422
- Y’all talking about divorce
and child support and--
1110
00:42:15,422 --> 00:42:16,257
- Time changes things.
1111
00:42:16,257 --> 00:42:19,554
- Marriage is forever.
- Could be.
1112
00:42:19,554 --> 00:42:21,488
But not this one.
1113
00:42:21,488 --> 00:42:22,960
- Oh, my gosh.
1114
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,960
Just hearing him
say that, like--
1115
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:29,894
just hearing him say that,
for real, is--is not cool.
1116
00:42:29,894 --> 00:42:33,092
And he says it like a asshole.
1117
00:42:33,092 --> 00:42:35,158
- What I’m hearing and
what I’m seeing is not you.
1118
00:42:35,158 --> 00:42:39,224
You’re the most concerned,
protective person that I know.
1119
00:42:39,224 --> 00:42:42,290
- It’s about respect.
- Respect is important too.
1120
00:42:42,290 --> 00:42:43,224
But that goes both ways.
1121
00:42:43,224 --> 00:42:46,026
If she’s in the hospital,
you need to be by her side.
1122
00:42:46,026 --> 00:42:47,894
- Not if it’s just
arguing and fighting.
1123
00:42:47,894 --> 00:42:50,290
- It takes two to argue.
She can’t argue by herself.
1124
00:42:50,290 --> 00:42:52,422
- Yes, she can.
- No--Safaree.
1125
00:42:52,422 --> 00:42:54,488
- How do--how do
I argue by myself?
1126
00:42:54,488 --> 00:42:57,290
Kar--what the hell?
Karlie, I don’t know--
1127
00:42:57,290 --> 00:43:00,927
Karlie, to the--but you heard
what I said, Karlie.
1128
00:43:00,927 --> 00:43:03,158
What you mean what you said,
Karlie?
1129
00:43:03,158 --> 00:43:05,158
Karlie--
1130
00:43:05,158 --> 00:43:07,422
I don’t think you can
argue by yourself.
1131
00:43:07,422 --> 00:43:09,422
- Why is she talking
about infidelity?
1132
00:43:09,422 --> 00:43:12,960
Why is she talking about
she caught you cheating?
1133
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:15,125
- She keeps saying
the word "cheating,"
1134
00:43:15,125 --> 00:43:16,927
but we weren’t together.
1135
00:43:16,927 --> 00:43:19,224
- You’re married.
What do you mean?
1136
00:43:19,224 --> 00:43:21,257
- Exactly!
1137
00:43:21,257 --> 00:43:22,993
You a whole married man.
1138
00:43:22,993 --> 00:43:26,125
Not a half a married man,
a whole married man.
1139
00:43:26,125 --> 00:43:28,191
- Look, I’ve been by myself
the past three weeks
1140
00:43:28,191 --> 00:43:30,422
and I wake up, and I swear to
God, I’m at peace.
1141
00:43:30,422 --> 00:43:33,927
- Let me ask you this question:
are you angry?
1142
00:43:33,927 --> 00:43:36,620
Or do you no longer love her?
1143
00:43:36,620 --> 00:43:38,521
- Well, I feel like
I don’t care.
1144
00:43:38,521 --> 00:43:43,960
- Talking to Safaree is like
talking to a two-year--no,
1145
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:49,092
my two-year-old can,
you know, we can kinda--
1146
00:43:49,092 --> 00:43:50,191
he’s not that stubborn.
1147
00:43:50,191 --> 00:43:52,927
Safaree is stubborn as hell.
1148
00:43:52,927 --> 00:43:53,653
- You’re angry.
1149
00:43:53,653 --> 00:43:54,828
If you can’t sit here
and tell me,
1150
00:43:54,828 --> 00:43:57,488
"No, I’m no longer in love
with her," then you love her.
1151
00:43:57,488 --> 00:44:00,224
And I also know
how much you love your babies.
1152
00:44:00,224 --> 00:44:02,191
- And that’s why I’m leaving.
1153
00:44:02,191 --> 00:44:04,554
Like, I left.
I got my own place.
1154
00:44:04,554 --> 00:44:06,894
Like, I’m out.
- You got your own place?
1155
00:44:06,894 --> 00:44:08,927
- Like, I don’t
live there anymore.
1156
00:44:08,927 --> 00:44:09,927
- Ay.
1157
00:44:09,927 --> 00:44:13,026
[upbeat music]
1158
00:44:13,026 --> 00:44:20,455
♪ ♪
1159
00:44:24,422 --> 00:44:26,158
- Hello.
1160
00:44:26,158 --> 00:44:28,257
Hello.
How are you?
1161
00:44:28,257 --> 00:44:30,224
- I’m good.
1162
00:44:31,323 --> 00:44:33,993
- Oh, God be with me.
1163
00:44:33,993 --> 00:44:34,620
- Finally.
1164
00:44:34,620 --> 00:44:35,795
The scene that
you’re about to see
1165
00:44:35,795 --> 00:44:38,960
is about to get
a little interesting.
1166
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:41,125
A lot of things have occurred.
1167
00:44:41,125 --> 00:44:42,257
When I went to Dubai.
1168
00:44:42,257 --> 00:44:45,059
I didn’t know.
I honestly did not know.
1169
00:44:45,059 --> 00:44:46,059
- You didn’t know what?
1170
00:44:46,059 --> 00:44:47,455
- I didn’t know
what Sierra told me.
1171
00:44:47,455 --> 00:44:49,422
So let me just repeat--
- What did Sierra tell you?
1172
00:44:49,422 --> 00:44:52,993
- She told me that
y’all filing for divorce
1173
00:44:52,993 --> 00:44:54,993
and I knew y’all had checked me
in Arizona--
1174
00:44:54,993 --> 00:44:57,389
- So Sierra came up
to you and told you--
1175
00:44:57,389 --> 00:44:58,059
- Yes.
1176
00:44:58,059 --> 00:45:02,026
- I ain’t saying Momma Dee
would lie.
1177
00:45:02,026 --> 00:45:04,554
But she might embellish
the truth a little bit.
1178
00:45:04,554 --> 00:45:05,356
Pico.
1179
00:45:05,356 --> 00:45:09,356
- That’s where the
miscommunication came in at.
1180
00:45:09,356 --> 00:45:14,620
Sierra told her that I possibly
wanted to get a divorce
1181
00:45:14,620 --> 00:45:16,092
and wanted to separate
1182
00:45:16,092 --> 00:45:17,795
but not that
I filed for divorce.
1183
00:45:17,795 --> 00:45:20,653
Like, it’s all
making sense now.
1184
00:45:20,653 --> 00:45:24,224
It’s all making--I get it,
I get what happened.
1185
00:45:24,224 --> 00:45:25,026
- I was shocked.
1186
00:45:25,026 --> 00:45:26,696
I really didn’t want to
believe her at first.
1187
00:45:26,696 --> 00:45:30,554
I got upset, I started cursing
because, mind you--
1188
00:45:30,554 --> 00:45:35,224
- Guys, she’s drunk so let
the [bleep] shenanigans begin.
1189
00:45:35,224 --> 00:45:38,521
- If anybody said they were
gonna take your son--
1190
00:45:38,521 --> 00:45:39,587
- Who says that?
1191
00:45:39,587 --> 00:45:40,224
- Sierra--
1192
00:45:40,224 --> 00:45:41,422
- She said I was gonna
take your son?
1193
00:45:41,422 --> 00:45:43,488
For what? For what?
- For everything, I don’t know.
1194
00:45:43,488 --> 00:45:44,488
- What is "everything"?
1195
00:45:44,488 --> 00:45:46,092
What is this "everything"
1196
00:45:46,092 --> 00:45:47,356
that you’re referring to?
1197
00:45:47,356 --> 00:45:48,488
- The money that he gave you
1198
00:45:48,488 --> 00:45:51,125
when he buying you
a $10,000 Birkin bag.
1199
00:45:51,125 --> 00:45:52,092
That’s where the money at.
1200
00:45:52,092 --> 00:45:55,323
The money’s in $35,000 Rolex
that he done bought you.
1201
00:45:55,323 --> 00:45:58,455
The money’s in that $10,000
full length mink coat.
1202
00:45:58,455 --> 00:45:59,795
That’s where
his money at, okay?
1203
00:45:59,795 --> 00:46:01,422
’Cause every time
he get a dime,
1204
00:46:01,422 --> 00:46:02,795
you got your hand out, girl.
1205
00:46:02,795 --> 00:46:05,092
- Look, that’s where
the problem lies.
1206
00:46:05,092 --> 00:46:06,422
- So you’re trying
to flip the blame.
1207
00:46:06,422 --> 00:46:08,092
You’re not gonna
flip the blame on me.
1208
00:46:08,092 --> 00:46:10,224
No, you should be woman enough
not to discuss
1209
00:46:10,224 --> 00:46:12,092
your business to people
that run they mouth.
1210
00:46:12,092 --> 00:46:13,828
- At the end of the day,
you run your mouth.
1211
00:46:13,828 --> 00:46:15,389
- You know what the energy,
1212
00:46:15,389 --> 00:46:16,389
you know where the energy--
1213
00:46:16,389 --> 00:46:18,323
You shared this disinformation
1214
00:46:18,323 --> 00:46:20,158
to Sierra and Erica Mena,
1215
00:46:20,158 --> 00:46:22,158
so you know where
I’m coming from.
1216
00:46:22,158 --> 00:46:23,422
I’m coming for your jugular.
1217
00:46:23,422 --> 00:46:26,696
I’m telling you now,
I feel like, you know--
1218
00:46:26,696 --> 00:46:28,422
you know,
I feel like a vampire.
1219
00:46:28,422 --> 00:46:30,290
You know, because
at this moment,
1220
00:46:30,290 --> 00:46:32,422
I’m so heated up after Bam
1221
00:46:32,422 --> 00:46:35,224
so I can actually sense her--
1222
00:46:35,224 --> 00:46:36,828
her carotid artery, her vein,
1223
00:46:36,828 --> 00:46:39,422
and I really want to
put my fangs in it,
1224
00:46:39,422 --> 00:46:40,554
you know what I’m saying?
1225
00:46:40,554 --> 00:46:42,356
And just drain the bitch.
1226
00:46:42,356 --> 00:46:44,488
- Your son has some
[bleep] tra--
1227
00:46:44,488 --> 00:46:48,389
- Listen, just know that
when you come with the lawyers,
1228
00:46:48,389 --> 00:46:49,422
we got lawyers too.
1229
00:46:49,422 --> 00:46:50,554
- But wait, Momma Dee,
1230
00:46:50,554 --> 00:46:52,158
you done heard that
from Sierra.
1231
00:46:52,158 --> 00:46:55,125
You ain’t heard nothing
from Bambi or your son.
1232
00:46:55,125 --> 00:46:56,290
- Okay, okay.
- And we can pay.
1233
00:46:56,290 --> 00:46:58,125
- Well you can’t pay
as much as I can pay.
1234
00:46:58,125 --> 00:47:00,125
- Come on, bring it, bitch.
- [bleep] out here.
1235
00:47:00,125 --> 00:47:01,290
Get the [bleep] out of my face.
1236
00:47:01,290 --> 00:47:03,422
- I don’t play that [bleep].
Get that bitch away from me.
1237
00:47:03,422 --> 00:47:07,323
- Girl, go on. I got--I got
a real attorney if I need it
1238
00:47:07,323 --> 00:47:11,290
so get the [bleep] out of here
with your 1-800-411-PAIN.
1239
00:47:11,290 --> 00:47:12,620
- Wow, you know
what I’m saying?
1240
00:47:12,620 --> 00:47:14,587
This that--that look
and that feeling
1241
00:47:14,587 --> 00:47:17,521
when you see your--
your wife and your mom,
1242
00:47:17,521 --> 00:47:20,290
both who said
they didn’t say [bleep],
1243
00:47:20,290 --> 00:47:21,323
say [bleep].
1244
00:47:21,323 --> 00:47:22,323
And you like, "Wow.
1245
00:47:22,323 --> 00:47:24,587
Like, this how
y’all getting down?"
1246
00:47:24,587 --> 00:47:26,290
And I’m not right there,
you know what I’m saying?
1247
00:47:26,290 --> 00:47:28,653
But y’all both come back and
say, "Oh, no, I didn’t say--
1248
00:47:28,653 --> 00:47:33,927
I didn’t use--no, no, no,
I’m cool, okay? Would never."
1249
00:47:37,313 --> 00:47:38,577
- Next time
on the season finale
1250
00:47:38,577 --> 00:47:39,907
of "Love & Hip Hop:
Atlanta"...
1251
00:47:39,907 --> 00:47:40,940
- How we feeling?
1252
00:47:40,940 --> 00:47:43,445
- You [bleep] did it.
1253
00:47:43,445 --> 00:47:44,313
- That’s right.
1254
00:47:44,313 --> 00:47:47,412
- You should have been there
for me.
1255
00:47:47,412 --> 00:47:51,445
- I said, when you graduate,
I’m gonna give you the world.
1256
00:47:51,445 --> 00:47:52,412
- Congratulations.
1257
00:47:52,412 --> 00:47:53,577
- [crying] Thank you.
1258
00:47:53,577 --> 00:47:56,006
Thank you for bringing us
here.
1259
00:47:56,006 --> 00:47:58,577
- See, I know everybody
wondering what the hell
1260
00:47:58,577 --> 00:48:00,973
Scrappy got me here for,
what we doing?
1261
00:48:00,973 --> 00:48:02,610
[thunder booms]
[screaming]
1262
00:48:02,610 --> 00:48:03,940
- You always doing that
lame [bleep] to my girl.
1263
00:48:03,940 --> 00:48:06,346
- But your girl be saying
something to catch her too.
1264
00:48:06,346 --> 00:48:07,039
- I’m sorry--
1265
00:48:07,039 --> 00:48:11,445
- What in the hell is wrong
with my children?
1266
00:48:11,445 --> 00:48:13,313
- No, no, no!
1267
00:48:13,313 --> 00:48:14,709
- Chill the [bleep] out.
1268
00:48:14,709 --> 00:48:16,775
I’m hurt, it’s really
starting to bother me.
1269
00:48:16,775 --> 00:48:19,577
- I felt like it would be dope
to organize
1270
00:48:19,577 --> 00:48:20,445
mental health check.
1271
00:48:20,445 --> 00:48:24,511
- All that [bleep] I did y’all,
you all do that [bleep] to me?
1272
00:48:24,511 --> 00:48:25,874
- There’s gotta be a change.
1273
00:48:25,874 --> 00:48:28,907
[dramatic music]
1274
00:48:28,907 --> 00:48:32,874
♪ ♪