1 00:00:01,268 --> 00:00:02,736 - Previously on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"... 2 00:00:02,803 --> 00:00:04,505 - Her energy be [bleep] up. 3 00:00:04,571 --> 00:00:06,240 - I don't want that energy. I don't like that energy. 4 00:00:06,306 --> 00:00:08,308 - So go! - She divorcing you. 5 00:00:08,375 --> 00:00:10,010 - You sound like you don't know what's going on. 6 00:00:10,077 --> 00:00:12,546 - She out to get you. 7 00:00:12,613 --> 00:00:14,748 - You see how much money we're dishing out? 8 00:00:14,815 --> 00:00:17,784 - If we out our savings to do this [bleep]. 9 00:00:17,851 --> 00:00:21,188 - We don't have room for no more problems like this. 10 00:00:21,255 --> 00:00:23,023 - You trying to sit right here on this TV show 11 00:00:23,090 --> 00:00:25,259 just wanna make me seem like I'm bad. 12 00:00:25,325 --> 00:00:26,927 - It just seems like he's lost. 13 00:00:26,994 --> 00:00:29,096 - I'm not gonna lose you out to these [bleep] streets, 14 00:00:29,162 --> 00:00:30,664 but you're walking around this mother [bleep] 15 00:00:30,731 --> 00:00:33,367 telling me I'm wrong for telling you some real [bleep]. 16 00:00:33,433 --> 00:00:35,602 - I'm trying to move on, look at my actions. 17 00:00:35,669 --> 00:00:38,372 [phone ringing] - Oh, it's Erica calling. 18 00:00:38,438 --> 00:00:40,807 - Hey. - You're in the hospital. 19 00:00:40,874 --> 00:00:44,645 - Who would've thought I would be going through this alone? 20 00:00:44,711 --> 00:00:47,915 - Left me in the house while you're gyrating with bitches 21 00:00:47,981 --> 00:00:50,551 and smiling like this is okay. 22 00:00:50,617 --> 00:00:53,187 - I just wanna make sure that there's no issues 23 00:00:53,253 --> 00:00:56,190 when it comes to seeing my daughter. 24 00:00:56,256 --> 00:00:58,759 - We specialize in father's rights. 25 00:00:58,825 --> 00:01:00,194 - She's such a happy baby. 26 00:01:00,260 --> 00:01:02,596 - And you gonna make sure that she stays a happy baby. 27 00:01:02,663 --> 00:01:03,864 - All right. 28 00:01:04,644 --> 00:01:05,545 [upbeat hip-hop music] 29 00:01:05,545 --> 00:01:06,545 - ♪ This is the life ♪ 30 00:01:06,545 --> 00:01:07,974 - ♪ It’s the life that we’re living ♪ 31 00:01:07,974 --> 00:01:08,974 - ♪ This is the life ♪ 32 00:01:08,974 --> 00:01:10,479 - ♪ It’s the life that we chose ♪ 33 00:01:10,479 --> 00:01:11,479 - ♪ This is the life ♪ 34 00:01:11,479 --> 00:01:12,908 - ♪ It’s the life that we’re living ♪ 35 00:01:12,908 --> 00:01:13,908 - ♪ This is the life ♪ 36 00:01:13,908 --> 00:01:15,205 - ♪ It’s the life that we chose ♪ 37 00:01:15,205 --> 00:01:17,405 - ♪ Made my way to the top and there ain’t no stopping ♪ 38 00:01:21,138 --> 00:01:22,673 - ♪ I was told you had to see it to believe it ♪ 39 00:01:22,740 --> 00:01:25,142 ♪ ♪ 40 00:01:25,209 --> 00:01:26,677 ♪ I gotta make it somehow ♪ 41 00:01:26,744 --> 00:01:27,979 ♪ Show ain't over, I ain't taking a bow ♪ 42 00:01:28,045 --> 00:01:29,547 ♪ I ain't taking a bow ♪ 43 00:01:29,614 --> 00:01:33,117 - I cannot believe this grand opening is three days away. 44 00:01:33,184 --> 00:01:35,620 - Yeah, it feel like a long time in the making. 45 00:01:35,686 --> 00:01:38,155 - It was a long time in the making. 46 00:01:38,222 --> 00:01:39,390 But honestly, I just want to say, 47 00:01:39,457 --> 00:01:41,325 thank you guys so much for the support. 48 00:01:41,392 --> 00:01:43,494 One of my goals in moving to Atlanta 49 00:01:43,561 --> 00:01:46,964 was to open up my first Yelle store. 50 00:01:47,031 --> 00:01:48,399 An all-natural plant-based 51 00:01:48,466 --> 00:01:50,635 skin care line for the average woman. 52 00:01:50,701 --> 00:01:52,570 And my goal for the store is to have it look 53 00:01:52,637 --> 00:01:54,772 like the Garden of Eden when you walk in. 54 00:01:54,839 --> 00:01:58,709 But smack dead in the middle of me trying to get the store 55 00:01:58,776 --> 00:02:01,946 and the decor right, we decided to go to Dubai. 56 00:02:02,013 --> 00:02:03,447 Oh, take me back. 57 00:02:03,514 --> 00:02:06,918 [cheers and applause] 58 00:02:06,984 --> 00:02:09,820 It was needed, seeing all the family out there, 59 00:02:09,887 --> 00:02:12,156 everybody seemed like they had a good time. 60 00:02:12,223 --> 00:02:14,825 - Dubai was like one of the dopest experience. 61 00:02:14,892 --> 00:02:18,563 - I literally have less than a week to get this girl 62 00:02:18,629 --> 00:02:20,097 ready for our grand opening. 63 00:02:20,164 --> 00:02:23,634 I already invited Rasheeda, Sierra, Karlie. 64 00:02:23,701 --> 00:02:25,770 Then some of the girls from New York, 65 00:02:25,836 --> 00:02:29,073 Jonathan is coming down. I invited Erica too. 66 00:02:29,140 --> 00:02:30,841 - Uh-oh. 67 00:02:30,908 --> 00:02:33,477 When I invited Safaree, he's like, you know, 68 00:02:33,544 --> 00:02:35,279 "Please don't invite my other half." 69 00:02:35,346 --> 00:02:36,948 - I love them both. 70 00:02:37,014 --> 00:02:40,184 That has nothing to do with me. I invited her, you invited him. 71 00:02:40,251 --> 00:02:41,919 - Is it gonna be drama free? 72 00:02:41,986 --> 00:02:43,988 - I mean, I think they both respect us enough 73 00:02:44,055 --> 00:02:45,656 not to have no drama. 74 00:02:45,723 --> 00:02:47,959 They know how to, you know, be in the same room and be cool. 75 00:02:48,025 --> 00:02:49,160 At least, I hope. 76 00:02:49,227 --> 00:02:50,461 Listen, I think they love each other 77 00:02:50,494 --> 00:02:52,530 and they just got things to work through. 78 00:02:52,597 --> 00:02:55,633 Maybe in this beautiful Garden of Eden, 79 00:02:55,700 --> 00:02:57,902 they'll be filled with love all over again. 80 00:02:57,969 --> 00:03:00,171 - That's good that you're wishful thinking. 81 00:03:00,238 --> 00:03:01,205 - After you, Kirk. 82 00:03:01,272 --> 00:03:05,243 - Hey, hey, hey. What's going on? 83 00:03:05,309 --> 00:03:06,711 - I'm definitely very proud of Yandy. 84 00:03:06,777 --> 00:03:08,746 You know, she came to Atlanta, next thing you know 85 00:03:08,813 --> 00:03:10,982 she's opening her business the Yelle shop. 86 00:03:11,048 --> 00:03:12,216 And that's what you're supposed to do. 87 00:03:12,283 --> 00:03:13,484 You're supposed to get in here, 88 00:03:13,551 --> 00:03:15,486 make moves, make more money for your family. 89 00:03:15,553 --> 00:03:17,054 So I'm very happy for what she's doing. 90 00:03:17,121 --> 00:03:18,356 Y'all make me happy, I ain't gonna lie, 91 00:03:18,489 --> 00:03:19,257 when I get around y'all I be happy. 92 00:03:19,323 --> 00:03:20,691 - Same here, Joc. 93 00:03:20,758 --> 00:03:22,760 How's your family doing? Your boy's good? 94 00:03:22,827 --> 00:03:24,028 - I'm gonna tell you like this. 95 00:03:24,095 --> 00:03:27,098 The last 30 days of my life have been trying 96 00:03:27,164 --> 00:03:28,900 on a lot of personal levels, you know what I'm saying? 97 00:03:28,966 --> 00:03:30,668 But I'm getting through it. I ain't gonna say 98 00:03:30,735 --> 00:03:32,136 I got through it, I'm getting through it. 99 00:03:32,203 --> 00:03:34,105 And that's why I need to holler at you and your woman. 100 00:03:34,171 --> 00:03:35,973 - A'ight. So let's head out. - I lost my cool, 101 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:39,110 the last time me and my son had a face to face. 102 00:03:39,176 --> 00:03:41,913 Apparently, I ain't as good as I thought when it comes 103 00:03:41,979 --> 00:03:44,115 to making sure I get right to the point 104 00:03:44,181 --> 00:03:45,950 and making it make sense for my son. 105 00:03:46,017 --> 00:03:47,485 So yeah, I'm gonna get a chance to holler 106 00:03:47,552 --> 00:03:48,819 at Kirk and Mendeecees. 107 00:03:48,886 --> 00:03:50,721 Both of these guys are a little older than me 108 00:03:50,788 --> 00:03:52,023 so I think it's worth sitting down, 109 00:03:52,089 --> 00:03:53,457 talking with the brothers 110 00:03:53,457 --> 00:03:55,159 to see how we can all come to some type of resolve. 111 00:03:55,226 --> 00:03:59,096 Imagine you talking to your son and somebody come along, 112 00:03:59,163 --> 00:04:00,164 get you shut down. 113 00:04:00,231 --> 00:04:02,166 And your son is over here 114 00:04:02,233 --> 00:04:05,570 checking on the person who got your [bleep] shut down. 115 00:04:05,636 --> 00:04:07,538 - Feel like a traitor. - You like, what you doing? 116 00:04:07,605 --> 00:04:09,874 I done ran up on his ass so [bleep] fast. 117 00:04:09,941 --> 00:04:11,609 [bleep] like a little brick wall though. 118 00:04:11,676 --> 00:04:13,044 - A fight? - I landed up on him like, 119 00:04:13,110 --> 00:04:14,345 what you doing? 120 00:04:14,478 --> 00:04:16,280 - This was very saddening to hear that Joc had 121 00:04:16,347 --> 00:04:18,182 a physical fight with his son. 122 00:04:18,249 --> 00:04:20,651 You know, I think there is a level of respect 123 00:04:20,718 --> 00:04:23,020 that parents should have and a son should have 124 00:04:23,087 --> 00:04:24,922 and that line shouldn't be crossed. 125 00:04:24,989 --> 00:04:27,491 - That [bleep] went crazy, man. I took that damn bar stool bro, 126 00:04:27,558 --> 00:04:30,161 and before you know it, I'm busting out glasses. 127 00:04:30,228 --> 00:04:32,096 - Do you feel like the need that you need to talk to him? 128 00:04:32,163 --> 00:04:34,732 Like the--so y'all could be able to put this behind y'all 129 00:04:34,799 --> 00:04:36,434 and sort of move forward? - I want to, bro. 130 00:04:36,434 --> 00:04:37,802 I want to 'cause I am the bigger man. 131 00:04:37,868 --> 00:04:39,337 - Mm-hmm. - I'm the father. 132 00:04:39,437 --> 00:04:40,571 - Yeah. 133 00:04:40,638 --> 00:04:42,039 - But that doesn't mean that I have to-- 134 00:04:42,106 --> 00:04:43,674 - But you should have a mediator in here. 135 00:04:43,741 --> 00:04:45,743 - But I want to. After all this transpired Amoni 136 00:04:45,810 --> 00:04:48,746 and I have not spoken in about two, almost three weeks. 137 00:04:48,813 --> 00:04:51,349 We gotta come together man, we gotta squash this. 138 00:04:51,449 --> 00:04:52,750 - You know how he taking it? - I'm trying to keep it cool. 139 00:04:52,817 --> 00:04:54,485 - It's like you insulted him. 140 00:04:54,552 --> 00:04:56,754 That's not how kids work, bro. They don't work like that. 141 00:04:56,821 --> 00:04:59,357 - Kirk, I got homies losing they children. 142 00:04:59,457 --> 00:05:00,892 I don't want to be in that club. 143 00:05:00,958 --> 00:05:02,793 - Every time I talk to my son, he'd be like, 144 00:05:02,860 --> 00:05:04,295 "Okay, here come another lecture." 145 00:05:04,362 --> 00:05:06,931 I say, "Listen, you lucky that you got somebody 146 00:05:06,998 --> 00:05:08,599 to give you a lecture, I never had that." 147 00:05:08,666 --> 00:05:09,800 - Right. My pops got locked up. 148 00:05:09,867 --> 00:05:11,636 - "What people wanted to give me, 149 00:05:11,702 --> 00:05:13,938 oh, you don't want that. You lucky I'm talking to you." 150 00:05:14,005 --> 00:05:16,474 Because you know, you-- we from the same place. 151 00:05:16,474 --> 00:05:17,775 - I can't even believe, 152 00:05:17,842 --> 00:05:19,844 I'm just like, "This ain't really happening." 153 00:05:19,911 --> 00:05:22,580 I don't know what to do. I'm like, "I'm losing you, son. 154 00:05:22,647 --> 00:05:24,081 Like, what is you doing? I'm losing you." 155 00:05:24,148 --> 00:05:26,751 - Yeah, you--you gotta find something. 156 00:05:26,817 --> 00:05:28,319 Joc's business is his focus 157 00:05:28,419 --> 00:05:30,888 and I don't think his son can relate to that yet 158 00:05:30,955 --> 00:05:32,423 because he's never had one. 159 00:05:32,423 --> 00:05:35,426 So you gotta find a better angle to kind of relate 160 00:05:35,426 --> 00:05:37,028 to him versus just saying 161 00:05:37,094 --> 00:05:39,030 you're losing a million-dollar business. 162 00:05:39,096 --> 00:05:41,766 That really don't mean nothing to none of our kids right now. 163 00:05:41,832 --> 00:05:43,568 - No pastor? You don't go to church. 164 00:05:43,634 --> 00:05:46,537 - That's not of bad idea. As mad as I am, bro, 165 00:05:46,604 --> 00:05:48,172 I can't just let him go to the wayside. 166 00:05:48,239 --> 00:05:50,841 I can't man. I'mma talk to the pastor and say, "Look man, 167 00:05:50,908 --> 00:05:54,178 can you, you know, can we possibly just uh-uh?" 168 00:05:54,245 --> 00:05:56,113 - You got some real [bleep] going on. 169 00:05:56,180 --> 00:05:59,917 I feel it for you bro, you gotta--ooh. 170 00:05:59,984 --> 00:06:02,086 - ♪ Don't tell me nobody ♪ 171 00:06:02,153 --> 00:06:04,589 ♪ Don't tell me nobody but me ♪ 172 00:06:04,655 --> 00:06:06,958 ♪ Don't tell me nobody ♪ 173 00:06:07,024 --> 00:06:08,960 ♪ Don't tell me nobody but me ♪ 174 00:06:09,026 --> 00:06:10,328 - How are you? - Good. 175 00:06:10,461 --> 00:06:11,596 I feel like I know you so well. 176 00:06:11,662 --> 00:06:13,030 - I know. - Nice to see you in person. 177 00:06:13,097 --> 00:06:14,198 Come on back. - Thank you. 178 00:06:14,265 --> 00:06:15,600 - Come on back this way. 179 00:06:15,666 --> 00:06:17,735 - So this is the last thing I wanted to do. 180 00:06:17,802 --> 00:06:19,203 I'm really, really hurting. 181 00:06:19,270 --> 00:06:23,007 I'm a mess, I'm pregnant, I'm alone, I'm scared. 182 00:06:23,074 --> 00:06:25,076 I never would have thought I would have this 183 00:06:25,142 --> 00:06:28,679 big fairytale wedding, to be on baby number two, 184 00:06:28,746 --> 00:06:30,915 and now, be filing for divorce. 185 00:06:30,982 --> 00:06:33,651 - When we filed the divorce, it was very bare bones. 186 00:06:33,718 --> 00:06:35,419 We didn't put anything else in there. 187 00:06:35,419 --> 00:06:36,888 And then I know what you've been upset about 188 00:06:36,954 --> 00:06:39,490 is that he recently filed some paperwork. 189 00:06:39,557 --> 00:06:40,892 - When I went into this, 190 00:06:40,958 --> 00:06:43,594 I was very adamant with my legal team 191 00:06:43,661 --> 00:06:46,664 that I wanted this to be fair, 192 00:06:46,731 --> 00:06:48,532 I didn't want it to get dirty. 193 00:06:48,599 --> 00:06:50,635 But when Safaree counter suited, 194 00:06:50,701 --> 00:06:53,604 it was just-- it's baffling to read 195 00:06:53,671 --> 00:06:54,972 all the things that he said. 196 00:06:55,039 --> 00:06:56,974 And from what I'm being told around town 197 00:06:57,041 --> 00:07:00,177 that he has a lawyer that just fights dirty. 198 00:07:00,244 --> 00:07:03,114 And it's obvious what's being said in these papers, 199 00:07:03,180 --> 00:07:05,449 we have to have some kind of court ordered 200 00:07:05,449 --> 00:07:06,951 set visitation hearing. 201 00:07:07,018 --> 00:07:08,252 He's making me feel like 202 00:07:08,319 --> 00:07:10,354 I'm this random woman he had kids with. 203 00:07:10,454 --> 00:07:13,591 - We all thought the deal was Erica has her child, 204 00:07:13,658 --> 00:07:15,026 everything goes well and then we get together 205 00:07:15,092 --> 00:07:17,128 and we do a mediation and we resolve everything. 206 00:07:17,194 --> 00:07:20,498 But now he's asking for an expedited hearing, 207 00:07:20,565 --> 00:07:22,767 and they wanna do all this before your child is born. 208 00:07:22,833 --> 00:07:24,402 That means in the next couple days 209 00:07:24,468 --> 00:07:26,204 you're gonna have to go through the stress 210 00:07:26,270 --> 00:07:28,806 of resolving a whole divorce and maybe having a hearing. 211 00:07:28,873 --> 00:07:30,074 - I know, but it's scary 212 00:07:30,141 --> 00:07:33,277 because he's asking for 50% custody. 213 00:07:33,411 --> 00:07:35,546 I was in the hospital for a week, 214 00:07:35,613 --> 00:07:37,315 he didn't cancel any gigs. 215 00:07:37,415 --> 00:07:40,985 I almost went into premature labor twice that week, 216 00:07:41,052 --> 00:07:44,188 and then next thing you know, I see him all over Instagram 217 00:07:44,255 --> 00:07:45,423 groping other women... 218 00:07:45,489 --> 00:07:48,426 [upbeat hip-hop music] 219 00:07:48,459 --> 00:07:49,927 ♪ ♪ 220 00:07:49,994 --> 00:07:51,762 But you want 50% custody. 221 00:07:51,829 --> 00:07:53,197 Safaree doesn't-- - By the way, 222 00:07:53,264 --> 00:07:54,198 just to clear it up. 223 00:07:54,265 --> 00:07:55,433 When someone has joint custody, 224 00:07:55,499 --> 00:07:57,068 it does not mean they have 50% of the time. 225 00:07:57,134 --> 00:07:59,770 It means--what will happen in your case most likely 226 00:07:59,837 --> 00:08:01,272 is the children will live with you. 227 00:08:01,339 --> 00:08:02,840 You know, you're gonna be a primary custodian 228 00:08:02,907 --> 00:08:04,508 and he's gonna have a parenting plan. 229 00:08:04,575 --> 00:08:06,777 And with young babies, you're gonna have a default plan 230 00:08:06,844 --> 00:08:07,945 that says we're gonna try to let him 231 00:08:08,012 --> 00:08:09,780 have these days and these days, 232 00:08:09,847 --> 00:08:11,282 but y'all can agree to whatever you want. 233 00:08:11,349 --> 00:08:13,618 - And that's what worries me because Safaree 234 00:08:13,684 --> 00:08:16,787 is not capable of having my kids, 235 00:08:16,854 --> 00:08:18,256 especially this young. 236 00:08:18,322 --> 00:08:21,225 I know I would never lose custody of my kids 237 00:08:21,292 --> 00:08:23,928 because you can call me a lot of [bleep] names 238 00:08:23,995 --> 00:08:25,529 in the book if you want to, 239 00:08:25,596 --> 00:08:30,401 but I [bleep] dare you to say I'm not a good mother. 240 00:08:30,468 --> 00:08:33,204 What's very difficult when it comes to Safaree 241 00:08:33,271 --> 00:08:37,074 is he has not fully stepped up to the plate in understanding 242 00:08:37,141 --> 00:08:40,444 that when you have kids, they come first. 243 00:08:40,511 --> 00:08:45,449 He runs any time real life [bleep] happens. 244 00:08:45,516 --> 00:08:46,817 He's not a bad dad, 245 00:08:46,884 --> 00:08:49,020 he's just-- he thinks he can pick 246 00:08:49,086 --> 00:08:51,322 and choose when he wants to be around. 247 00:08:51,422 --> 00:08:54,825 - The big picture is he's not taking your babies from you. 248 00:08:54,892 --> 00:08:57,161 You'll end up with custody, you're the mom. 249 00:08:57,228 --> 00:08:59,063 There's nothing embarrassing about going through divorce 250 00:08:59,130 --> 00:09:01,065 and sometimes there's something embarrassing 251 00:09:01,132 --> 00:09:02,700 about not filing for divorce. 252 00:09:02,767 --> 00:09:05,570 - It is when you thought it was gonna be forever. 253 00:09:05,636 --> 00:09:07,738 ♪ ♪ 254 00:09:07,805 --> 00:09:10,107 - ♪ Better, live for me ♪ 255 00:09:10,174 --> 00:09:13,177 ♪ Getting better, live for me ♪ 256 00:09:13,244 --> 00:09:15,947 ♪ Turning this right, I feel it getting closer ♪ 257 00:09:16,013 --> 00:09:18,516 - Ooh, look at that cutie. 258 00:09:18,583 --> 00:09:22,386 What's up, honey buns? 259 00:09:22,420 --> 00:09:23,387 What's up? 260 00:09:23,421 --> 00:09:24,522 - Same. 261 00:09:24,589 --> 00:09:26,390 - What? 262 00:09:26,424 --> 00:09:27,792 - I'm working. 263 00:09:27,858 --> 00:09:30,628 It's like something is always going wrong. 264 00:09:30,695 --> 00:09:32,029 - With all of this family drama... 265 00:09:32,096 --> 00:09:33,998 - Frost Bistro has us tripping. 266 00:09:34,065 --> 00:09:35,499 - It's turned our relationship. 267 00:09:35,566 --> 00:09:36,968 It turned it--it turned it. It got people tripping. 268 00:09:37,034 --> 00:09:38,636 - It got us tripping and acting funny. 269 00:09:38,703 --> 00:09:40,271 - I'm not gonna change who I am because of somebody, like-- 270 00:09:40,404 --> 00:09:41,405 - Y'all don't know how to be cordial though. 271 00:09:41,472 --> 00:09:42,940 - I say hello-- 272 00:09:43,007 --> 00:09:44,475 - Like, but y'all don't know how to be cordial 273 00:09:44,542 --> 00:09:45,877 How can y'all not be cordial? 274 00:09:45,943 --> 00:09:48,045 - There was no way we wanted to trust the kids to run 275 00:09:48,112 --> 00:09:51,082 Frost Bistro on their own while we went to Dubai. 276 00:09:51,148 --> 00:09:52,550 - You know, when I try to close out the night 277 00:09:52,617 --> 00:09:53,751 and the totals don't match up? 278 00:09:53,818 --> 00:09:55,419 - Mm-hmm. 279 00:09:55,486 --> 00:10:00,925 - So there was a bill for 142 plus a $19 tip and lookie here, 280 00:10:00,992 --> 00:10:04,829 the balance was off $161. 281 00:10:04,896 --> 00:10:06,464 Something ain't adding up. 282 00:10:06,530 --> 00:10:09,100 - So we decided to bring in a temporary manager 283 00:10:09,166 --> 00:10:11,168 to help run things while we were gone away. 284 00:10:11,235 --> 00:10:13,471 - Me personally, I think the food being stolen. 285 00:10:13,538 --> 00:10:16,541 I don't know if you're inviting your friends to come in, 286 00:10:16,607 --> 00:10:18,242 you giving them free food. - That's what it sound like. 287 00:10:18,309 --> 00:10:21,913 - You're a real petty-ass thief to be stealing plates of food. 288 00:10:21,979 --> 00:10:23,381 You're lame as [bleep] for that. 289 00:10:23,447 --> 00:10:24,715 - Who is It? 290 00:10:24,782 --> 00:10:26,250 - I don't want to get into nothing personal 291 00:10:26,384 --> 00:10:28,619 that's gonna 'cause a family feud. 292 00:10:28,686 --> 00:10:30,054 - At this point, 293 00:10:30,121 --> 00:10:32,823 we need to sit 'em down and sort things out. 294 00:10:32,890 --> 00:10:34,525 - Let's just be honest, I'm annoyed 295 00:10:34,592 --> 00:10:37,395 with this whole situation going on at the bistro. 296 00:10:37,461 --> 00:10:40,398 With the server, and food being taken out of the window 297 00:10:40,464 --> 00:10:43,067 and disappearing, and drinks disappearing and all of that. 298 00:10:43,134 --> 00:10:45,403 And we'll have that conversation later, 299 00:10:45,469 --> 00:10:47,138 but there's something that's more important 300 00:10:47,205 --> 00:10:49,840 than anything else going on right now. 301 00:10:49,907 --> 00:10:52,476 Have you been on social media? 302 00:10:52,543 --> 00:10:53,844 - Not really. 303 00:10:53,911 --> 00:10:55,980 - So you haven't seen Scrappy's post? 304 00:10:56,047 --> 00:10:57,582 - What he done did? 305 00:10:57,648 --> 00:11:00,851 - "Shout-out to all the men going through mental illnesses 306 00:11:00,918 --> 00:11:03,421 "with no one to turn to because the world 307 00:11:03,487 --> 00:11:06,190 "wrongly taught males to mask their emotions. 308 00:11:07,592 --> 00:11:10,828 "Men suffer, men have suicidal thoughts. 309 00:11:10,895 --> 00:11:12,496 "Men die by suicide. 310 00:11:12,563 --> 00:11:14,966 "We need to encourage men to speak up. 311 00:11:15,032 --> 00:11:17,935 not expect them to man up." 312 00:11:18,002 --> 00:11:19,403 Then on his caption. 313 00:11:19,470 --> 00:11:22,173 "I'm experiencing this right now. 314 00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:26,043 Just lean on God, take it back, Jack." 315 00:11:26,110 --> 00:11:28,412 - Oh, wow. That's bad. 316 00:11:28,479 --> 00:11:32,283 - I have never heard him or felt as though 317 00:11:32,350 --> 00:11:34,318 he would be dealing with something like that. 318 00:11:34,385 --> 00:11:36,254 - Let me see it. - The "I'm experiencing this 319 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:37,521 right now" thing is what got me. 320 00:11:37,588 --> 00:11:39,290 - No. Yeah. He basically sending like 321 00:11:39,357 --> 00:11:42,793 a suicidal--he asking--, that's asking for help. 322 00:11:42,860 --> 00:11:45,596 For him to blurt that out on social media, 323 00:11:45,663 --> 00:11:47,832 it's gotta be bad. And I felt like, 324 00:11:47,899 --> 00:11:50,868 "Why didn't you reach out or let me know sooner?" 325 00:11:50,935 --> 00:11:53,504 Like you shouldn't be going through that pain alone. 326 00:11:53,571 --> 00:11:56,574 At this point, it must have built up pretty [bleep] bad 327 00:11:56,641 --> 00:11:57,708 if you let it out. 328 00:11:57,775 --> 00:11:59,176 For him to post that, 329 00:11:59,243 --> 00:12:01,612 that means he's physically going through something. 330 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:02,780 Wow. - You know, 331 00:12:02,847 --> 00:12:04,849 when you going through marital problems 332 00:12:04,916 --> 00:12:06,751 and relationship things, 333 00:12:06,817 --> 00:12:08,853 you can get into a deep, dark place. 334 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:10,621 We know something about that. 335 00:12:10,688 --> 00:12:12,557 Marriage is, it's a lot-- 336 00:12:12,623 --> 00:12:14,725 - Like neither one of us came here with our rings on today. 337 00:12:14,792 --> 00:12:16,260 - I see. - So-- 338 00:12:16,327 --> 00:12:21,065 - I walked by and seen the ring on the--on the counter. 339 00:12:21,132 --> 00:12:25,036 I had mine on, I was like, "Well, what am I doing?" 340 00:12:25,102 --> 00:12:28,506 - Scrappy's been family for me and Kirk for 20 years probably. 341 00:12:28,573 --> 00:12:30,441 And I know things have not been good, 342 00:12:30,474 --> 00:12:33,244 but to see what he just posted makes me think, 343 00:12:33,311 --> 00:12:35,713 hold on, there's a lot going on in his head 344 00:12:35,780 --> 00:12:37,515 and we are extremely concerned. 345 00:12:37,582 --> 00:12:38,849 - You know what? 346 00:12:38,916 --> 00:12:40,251 You need to hit Bambi and see where he's at. 347 00:12:40,318 --> 00:12:41,652 - I'll text her. - Yeah. 348 00:12:41,719 --> 00:12:43,221 We need to figure that out. 349 00:12:43,287 --> 00:12:45,456 I feel like me looking at Scrappy, looking in his eyes, 350 00:12:45,456 --> 00:12:47,592 I can know what's going on. 351 00:12:47,658 --> 00:12:50,528 Is it because something's going on with you and Bambi? 352 00:12:50,595 --> 00:12:53,598 Are you really sitting here contemplating doing something, 353 00:12:53,664 --> 00:12:55,099 which I pray you're not. 354 00:12:55,166 --> 00:12:56,834 You know, I feel like, let me analyze it 355 00:12:56,901 --> 00:12:59,370 and talk to him face to face, get his body language 356 00:12:59,470 --> 00:13:03,341 and then we're gonna adjust as we're talking. 357 00:13:05,209 --> 00:13:08,212 -Coming up on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"... 358 00:13:08,279 --> 00:13:09,847 - You got all this stuff going on, 359 00:13:09,914 --> 00:13:10,948 y'all talking about divorcing. 360 00:13:11,015 --> 00:13:12,250 - Time changes things. 361 00:13:12,316 --> 00:13:14,652 - Marriage is forever. - Not this one. 362 00:13:14,719 --> 00:13:16,120 - What y'all out here talking about? 363 00:13:16,187 --> 00:13:18,055 - You. - You're scaring me these days. 364 00:13:18,122 --> 00:13:19,590 - That's [bleep] how I feel, bro. 365 00:13:19,657 --> 00:13:20,958 - Yeah, go. 366 00:13:21,025 --> 00:13:22,560 - Listen, just know [bleep] that when you come 367 00:13:22,627 --> 00:13:25,096 with the lawyers, we got lawyers too. 368 00:13:44,705 --> 00:13:46,607 - So after Momma Dees just told me that 369 00:13:46,674 --> 00:13:48,142 [inaudible] was trying to divorce 370 00:13:48,208 --> 00:13:50,344 and take money and all that kind of crazy stuff, 371 00:13:50,411 --> 00:13:51,679 I had to get up out the house, 372 00:13:51,745 --> 00:13:54,515 you feel what I'm saying? Because man, I'm done. 373 00:13:54,582 --> 00:14:00,187 I'm like so confused and just I'm tired, man. 374 00:14:00,254 --> 00:14:03,591 I'm physically, mentally drained. 375 00:14:03,657 --> 00:14:07,094 ♪ ♪ 376 00:14:07,161 --> 00:14:08,929 I was already really down, man, 377 00:14:08,996 --> 00:14:10,564 and it was a couple days 378 00:14:10,631 --> 00:14:13,601 where I was only able to see my kids through Instagram 379 00:14:13,667 --> 00:14:16,170 because Bam was like not answering the phone 380 00:14:16,237 --> 00:14:18,205 and all that kind of crazy stuff. 381 00:14:20,608 --> 00:14:23,344 - Nah, man, listen, I don't say [bleep], 382 00:14:23,410 --> 00:14:25,846 you know what I'm saying? I keep it pushing. 383 00:14:25,913 --> 00:14:27,715 ♪ ♪ 384 00:14:27,781 --> 00:14:30,284 Yo. - Hey, man. What's happening? 385 00:14:30,351 --> 00:14:32,653 - What's going on, bro? How you doing? 386 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:34,121 - I felt like it was time for me 387 00:14:34,154 --> 00:14:35,656 to make a call to Mendeecees. 388 00:14:35,723 --> 00:14:37,858 Let's get Scrappy down here, let's talk to him. 389 00:14:37,925 --> 00:14:39,894 You know, I need you to quarterback me with this 390 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:42,329 Scrappy situation, I wanna make sure I don't miss nothing. 391 00:14:42,396 --> 00:14:44,398 Looking at Scrappy, looking in his eyes, 392 00:14:44,465 --> 00:14:46,300 he look like he's going through a tough time. 393 00:14:46,367 --> 00:14:48,269 This is not the normal Scrappy right here. 394 00:14:48,335 --> 00:14:49,403 - What y'all out here talking about? 395 00:14:49,470 --> 00:14:51,205 - You. - Yeah. 396 00:14:51,272 --> 00:14:52,439 - Just wanted to check up on you 397 00:14:52,506 --> 00:14:54,141 and see if you--you know how you is doing. 398 00:14:54,141 --> 00:14:55,876 - I'm just tired, bro. 399 00:14:55,943 --> 00:14:58,379 Like, 400 00:14:58,445 --> 00:15:00,281 this marriage [bleep] man. 401 00:15:00,347 --> 00:15:04,018 My momma come back and say, "Oh, Bam is finna go file 402 00:15:04,151 --> 00:15:08,289 for a divorce, and she want this much money. And--" 403 00:15:08,355 --> 00:15:09,757 - Wait, wait, hold on. You too? 404 00:15:09,823 --> 00:15:11,158 - Huh? 405 00:15:11,191 --> 00:15:12,626 - Is you gonna go through the same [bleep] with-- 406 00:15:12,693 --> 00:15:14,028 like Safaree? 407 00:15:14,161 --> 00:15:16,163 - I mean, we had a couple conversation about divorce 408 00:15:16,196 --> 00:15:17,731 and we were gonna-- you know, 409 00:15:17,798 --> 00:15:19,466 but I'm thinking like we gonna have that conversation. 410 00:15:19,533 --> 00:15:23,604 Like, not you and your friends and [bleep] like that. 411 00:15:23,671 --> 00:15:25,306 - When did y'all get to that point though? 412 00:15:25,372 --> 00:15:28,108 - Man, soon as the pandemic eased up, bruh, 413 00:15:28,142 --> 00:15:29,743 [bleep] went up. 414 00:15:29,810 --> 00:15:31,645 I don't know if she thought like I was just gonna be 415 00:15:31,712 --> 00:15:35,316 at home all the time, but I got back on my hustle. 416 00:15:35,382 --> 00:15:36,951 I released "GA/FL". 417 00:15:37,017 --> 00:15:39,787 And you can't just sit in one place in this position 418 00:15:39,853 --> 00:15:42,723 that I'm in, you gotta move, but she don't understand that. 419 00:15:42,790 --> 00:15:45,159 She be mad that [bleep] having a good time 420 00:15:45,226 --> 00:15:46,860 and she's pregnant and having a baby. 421 00:15:46,927 --> 00:15:49,563 Like, she act like I'm doing what Safaree doing, 422 00:15:49,630 --> 00:15:50,898 This [bleep] just [bleep]. 423 00:15:50,965 --> 00:15:53,500 That's why I just go through all this [bleep]. 424 00:15:53,567 --> 00:15:57,271 When you a working man, you do that to provide 425 00:15:57,338 --> 00:15:59,607 and it kind of baffles me that 426 00:15:59,673 --> 00:16:01,542 Bam gets angry, you know what I'm saying? 427 00:16:01,609 --> 00:16:04,678 When she see me having fun, when I'm out and I'm working. 428 00:16:04,745 --> 00:16:07,681 Like, going to a show, I'm gonna get paid, bro. 429 00:16:07,748 --> 00:16:11,885 There's some people hold your pay, and so it like, 430 00:16:11,952 --> 00:16:13,354 "I'm gonna go get that." 431 00:16:13,420 --> 00:16:15,656 I'm out of town, like I normally call, 432 00:16:15,723 --> 00:16:18,626 she pick up FaceTime, talk to my babies, 433 00:16:18,692 --> 00:16:21,195 but she won't even put 'em on for me no more. 434 00:16:21,262 --> 00:16:22,863 I don't play about my babies. 435 00:16:22,930 --> 00:16:26,033 [bleep] this [bleep], that how I feel, bro. 436 00:16:26,166 --> 00:16:27,801 - You're scaring me these days. 437 00:16:27,868 --> 00:16:30,404 I feel like Scrappy is just like, 438 00:16:30,471 --> 00:16:31,906 "It's done. It's over with." 439 00:16:31,972 --> 00:16:33,674 I know you love Bambi, 440 00:16:33,741 --> 00:16:37,144 I think I know you want to be with Bambi and your family, 441 00:16:37,211 --> 00:16:38,679 but I do think you being macho 442 00:16:38,746 --> 00:16:41,181 because you supposed to be as a man. 443 00:16:41,248 --> 00:16:43,651 No, you need to let your guards down 444 00:16:43,717 --> 00:16:45,786 and have a real one-on-one with your wife 445 00:16:45,853 --> 00:16:48,022 and let her know what's going on in your head. 446 00:16:48,122 --> 00:16:49,390 - When I made that post, 447 00:16:49,456 --> 00:16:51,191 I was really talking about mental health 448 00:16:51,258 --> 00:16:55,429 and the way men are and the way women want men to be. 449 00:16:55,496 --> 00:16:58,399 They want us to shut up and take it 450 00:16:58,465 --> 00:16:59,967 and you ain't supposed to feel no kind of way. 451 00:17:00,034 --> 00:17:02,636 You 'posed to--you a man, man up, take that [bleep]. 452 00:17:02,703 --> 00:17:05,139 You know, I'm like, cuz, let me be over here in my moment 453 00:17:05,205 --> 00:17:06,840 'cause you know what I'm saying? 454 00:17:06,907 --> 00:17:10,544 And you know that [bleep] don't happen for a lot of men, bro. 455 00:17:10,611 --> 00:17:12,780 - You know what helped me and Yandy? 456 00:17:12,846 --> 00:17:16,550 We like to be around successful couples. 457 00:17:16,617 --> 00:17:17,985 - Yeah. - Right? It inspire us. 458 00:17:18,052 --> 00:17:20,020 Even, we look at the history Rasheeda and Kirk. 459 00:17:20,154 --> 00:17:21,455 - Yeah. 460 00:17:21,522 --> 00:17:23,424 - They've been together for 20 something years. 461 00:17:23,490 --> 00:17:25,793 So we just asking them, "How y'all get there?" 462 00:17:25,859 --> 00:17:28,729 Because there's plenty of times they want to kill each other. 463 00:17:28,796 --> 00:17:32,299 What you going through, that sound extremely hard, 464 00:17:32,366 --> 00:17:34,134 but don't give up. 465 00:17:34,201 --> 00:17:37,104 - I appreciate Kirk and Mendeecees looking out, man. 466 00:17:37,104 --> 00:17:39,173 It good to know that people will come pull up 467 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:41,642 and I feel like men should check in on each other. 468 00:17:41,709 --> 00:17:42,876 We all are going through it. 469 00:17:42,943 --> 00:17:44,845 - Pick up the phone man, call me, you know, 470 00:17:44,912 --> 00:17:47,381 you used to hit me all the time. 471 00:17:47,448 --> 00:17:48,749 - As I've been going through it, 472 00:17:48,816 --> 00:17:51,485 just trying to get through it. You feel me? 473 00:17:51,552 --> 00:17:54,488 [dramatic music] 474 00:17:54,555 --> 00:17:57,925 ♪ ♪ 475 00:17:57,992 --> 00:17:59,326 [upbeat music] 476 00:17:59,393 --> 00:18:00,895 - ♪ I try to scheme on you ♪ 477 00:18:00,961 --> 00:18:02,763 ♪ You got everything to lose ♪ 478 00:18:02,830 --> 00:18:04,198 ♪ Now you're sitting, discouraged ♪ 479 00:18:04,265 --> 00:18:05,666 ♪ 'Cause you got everything to lose ♪ 480 00:18:05,733 --> 00:18:08,602 - I've heard the madness that's going on on the blogs. 481 00:18:08,669 --> 00:18:10,704 I've seen it, everyone has, 482 00:18:10,771 --> 00:18:12,539 but Erica and Safaree are my friends 483 00:18:12,606 --> 00:18:13,741 and I need to check in on them 484 00:18:13,807 --> 00:18:16,043 and make sure they're good. 485 00:18:16,143 --> 00:18:17,378 - Hi. - How are you? 486 00:18:17,444 --> 00:18:19,313 - Newly married. - Ah! 487 00:18:19,380 --> 00:18:21,916 You consider six years newly married? 488 00:18:21,982 --> 00:18:22,983 Newly married again. 489 00:18:23,050 --> 00:18:24,451 - At least you made it. 490 00:18:24,518 --> 00:18:26,687 - I wish you would've--stop, okay, please. 491 00:18:26,754 --> 00:18:28,489 I wish you would've been on the trip. 492 00:18:28,556 --> 00:18:30,190 - I'm actually really happy for Yandy. 493 00:18:30,257 --> 00:18:33,661 When you're like in a real solid relationship or marriage, 494 00:18:33,727 --> 00:18:36,697 that's gotta be a different type of high. 495 00:18:36,764 --> 00:18:40,601 Yandy is Safaree's friend and being married to him 496 00:18:40,668 --> 00:18:42,970 has actually brought me and Yandy closer. 497 00:18:43,103 --> 00:18:46,907 I've been able to kind of pick her brain on marriage, 498 00:18:46,974 --> 00:18:48,709 and then there's times where I'm like, 499 00:18:48,776 --> 00:18:50,110 "What's up with your friend? 500 00:18:50,144 --> 00:18:52,346 Like do you know something I didn't know?" 501 00:18:52,413 --> 00:18:53,647 How was the wedding though? 502 00:18:53,714 --> 00:18:55,516 - It was beautiful. It was so-- 503 00:18:55,583 --> 00:18:57,284 - Do you feel refreshed? Like it's like a start over-- 504 00:18:57,351 --> 00:18:58,953 - You know what? 505 00:18:59,019 --> 00:19:00,721 We haven't--we've never been out the country together. 506 00:19:00,788 --> 00:19:03,791 Sitting here talking to Erica about my vow renewal 507 00:19:03,857 --> 00:19:06,794 and she may be getting a divorce, was not easy. 508 00:19:06,860 --> 00:19:09,263 She was one of the most beautiful brides. 509 00:19:09,330 --> 00:19:12,399 Safaree was shining and happy. 510 00:19:12,466 --> 00:19:14,301 I hate that a few years later, 511 00:19:14,368 --> 00:19:17,705 we are here in this space with them and I'm hoping that, 512 00:19:17,771 --> 00:19:20,608 you know, in this conversation there may still be a chance. 513 00:19:20,674 --> 00:19:22,276 How are you doing? 514 00:19:22,343 --> 00:19:26,013 - Filing for divorce was the hardest decision on my life. 515 00:19:26,146 --> 00:19:27,414 And I still am like, 516 00:19:27,481 --> 00:19:29,250 "I don't even know if I'm doing the right thing." 517 00:19:29,316 --> 00:19:32,786 Like, "Why did you marry me to do this to me?" 518 00:19:32,853 --> 00:19:34,488 Like why? 519 00:19:34,555 --> 00:19:36,490 And then I'm pregnant by myself, 520 00:19:36,557 --> 00:19:38,292 like I'm a single mother. 521 00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:39,994 - Oh, my God. 522 00:19:40,094 --> 00:19:41,161 Erica, the first thing, 523 00:19:41,228 --> 00:19:42,863 you have got to take care of yourself. 524 00:19:42,930 --> 00:19:47,301 - I was already depressed, I had found out he cheated 525 00:19:47,368 --> 00:19:49,670 after I found out I was pregnant. 526 00:19:49,737 --> 00:19:51,639 I found out my husband was cheating 527 00:19:51,705 --> 00:19:53,240 because I had an intuition. 528 00:19:53,307 --> 00:19:55,910 I hired a detective who told me everything I needed to know. 529 00:19:55,976 --> 00:19:58,846 I have the proof, I wouldn't even mention the girls 530 00:19:58,913 --> 00:20:00,414 just because they're all whack. 531 00:20:00,481 --> 00:20:04,418 I'm not in this to make a [bleep] show of my marriage. 532 00:20:04,485 --> 00:20:09,757 He wants to rush our divorce to happen before the baby's born. 533 00:20:09,823 --> 00:20:12,760 He wants to sue me for his stuff. 534 00:20:12,826 --> 00:20:14,428 He wants 50% custody. 535 00:20:14,495 --> 00:20:19,199 He wants a rush court hearing for visitation with Safire. 536 00:20:19,266 --> 00:20:21,969 - I'm not understanding why Safaree would even wanna 537 00:20:22,036 --> 00:20:25,139 put Erica through this before the baby is born. 538 00:20:25,205 --> 00:20:28,909 Do you understand what stress can do to a baby? 539 00:20:28,976 --> 00:20:31,078 I never wanna take one side of the story, 540 00:20:31,145 --> 00:20:34,915 but this side from her is breaking my heart. 541 00:20:34,982 --> 00:20:38,786 You have my number and you can call me anytime. 542 00:20:38,852 --> 00:20:41,822 That's it, don't depend on him and what he got going on. 543 00:20:41,889 --> 00:20:44,792 He gotta deal with that with God and his own demons. 544 00:20:44,858 --> 00:20:47,795 You can't do the [bleep] that he's doing to a woman like you 545 00:20:47,861 --> 00:20:50,531 or to that those babies and get away with it. 546 00:20:50,598 --> 00:20:53,100 I understand how important a village is. 547 00:20:53,100 --> 00:20:55,502 I'm telling you I would not be here 548 00:20:55,569 --> 00:20:58,105 if it was for women that came to my aid. 549 00:20:58,172 --> 00:20:59,607 I would not be here. 550 00:20:59,673 --> 00:21:00,674 - I really appreciate that. 551 00:21:00,741 --> 00:21:04,111 ♪ ♪ 552 00:21:04,178 --> 00:21:06,914 - Coming up on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"... 553 00:21:06,981 --> 00:21:08,916 - I think the foods being stolen. 554 00:21:08,983 --> 00:21:11,785 - Does anybody have anything to say about this? 555 00:21:11,852 --> 00:21:14,722 The truth, who is it? 556 00:21:18,229 --> 00:21:19,856 - ♪ My way to the top and it ain’t no stopping ♪ 557 00:21:19,856 --> 00:21:21,559 - ♪ I just looked at my wrist, I got time today ♪ 558 00:21:21,559 --> 00:21:23,031 ♪ [...] it, I’m crossing a line today ♪ 559 00:21:23,031 --> 00:21:24,823 ♪ The hate be so real, the love be fake ♪ 560 00:21:24,823 --> 00:21:26,823 ♪ Be bumpin’ they gums and bumpin’ my tape ♪ 561 00:21:26,823 --> 00:21:30,790 - Joc and his son, Scrappy and Bambi getting divorced, 562 00:21:30,790 --> 00:21:32,262 Frost Bistro, me and my kids. 563 00:21:32,262 --> 00:21:34,823 It’s just like we’re all going through 564 00:21:34,823 --> 00:21:35,757 some bull[bleep] right now. 565 00:21:35,757 --> 00:21:38,823 We totally know somebody is stealing from the restaurant. 566 00:21:38,823 --> 00:21:41,064 I thought we were moving forward, 567 00:21:41,064 --> 00:21:42,856 and to find out that we still gotta deal 568 00:21:42,856 --> 00:21:46,031 with some bull[bleep] is really mind-boggling to me. 569 00:21:46,031 --> 00:21:48,097 So we calling all the kids together to have a meeting 570 00:21:48,097 --> 00:21:49,998 so we can kind of get this [bleep] straight. 571 00:21:49,998 --> 00:21:52,658 We got a serious problem with some missing food 572 00:21:52,658 --> 00:21:53,559 at this point in time 573 00:21:53,559 --> 00:21:55,856 and we need to get to the bottom of it. 574 00:21:55,856 --> 00:21:59,823 - There’s something going on and I feel it’s not right. 575 00:21:59,823 --> 00:22:02,757 - So now Varmar tells me he know why we got these voids 576 00:22:02,757 --> 00:22:06,163 and why the food is not adding up at the end of the night. 577 00:22:06,163 --> 00:22:08,625 ♪ ♪ 578 00:22:08,625 --> 00:22:11,130 - Me, personally, I think the food being stolen. 579 00:22:11,130 --> 00:22:14,965 - I think that everybody has to understand accountability. 580 00:22:14,965 --> 00:22:16,130 I do expect better. 581 00:22:16,130 --> 00:22:21,262 I don’t know, does anybody have anything to say about this? 582 00:22:21,262 --> 00:22:23,064 The truth, who is it? 583 00:22:23,064 --> 00:22:26,097 [dramatic music] 584 00:22:26,097 --> 00:22:28,790 ♪ ♪ 585 00:22:28,790 --> 00:22:31,691 - It’s Ciara. 586 00:22:31,691 --> 00:22:32,361 - It’s not true. 587 00:22:32,361 --> 00:22:33,691 I never had no problem 588 00:22:33,691 --> 00:22:35,064 with me serving or none of that 589 00:22:35,064 --> 00:22:38,163 until the involvement of people disliking me. 590 00:22:38,163 --> 00:22:40,932 - Honestly, I’m not at all surprised 591 00:22:40,932 --> 00:22:43,658 because we’ve had situations where Ciara 592 00:22:43,658 --> 00:22:45,625 since she started at the Bistro-- 593 00:22:45,625 --> 00:22:47,965 - All of a sudden, now these past couple months, 594 00:22:47,965 --> 00:22:49,691 it’s like when I make a mistake, 595 00:22:49,691 --> 00:22:50,691 it feel like death row in here. 596 00:22:50,691 --> 00:22:52,097 - This is the thing, you do think 597 00:22:52,097 --> 00:22:53,163 you can get away with murder. 598 00:22:53,163 --> 00:22:54,965 You can say you don’t, but you do. 599 00:22:54,965 --> 00:22:56,932 And that needs to stop now 600 00:22:56,932 --> 00:22:59,295 so consider this your warning. 601 00:22:59,295 --> 00:23:00,998 - That’s it. 602 00:23:00,998 --> 00:23:01,691 ♪ ♪ 603 00:23:01,691 --> 00:23:05,196 Listen, there’s no better time to start than right now 604 00:23:05,196 --> 00:23:07,130 to try to mend it and make things better. 605 00:23:07,130 --> 00:23:09,932 So Kirk’s decision not to terminate her 606 00:23:09,932 --> 00:23:11,965 is understandable, but what I will say 607 00:23:11,965 --> 00:23:14,328 is we need to be on the lookout for things. 608 00:23:14,328 --> 00:23:17,262 My whole thing is, when we’re not here, 609 00:23:17,262 --> 00:23:21,031 we want the establishment to run like we are here 610 00:23:21,031 --> 00:23:23,163 and that’s really what we’re looking for 611 00:23:23,163 --> 00:23:24,691 and that’s the main goal here. 612 00:23:24,691 --> 00:23:25,691 You understand what I’m saying? 613 00:23:25,691 --> 00:23:28,130 - Absolutely. - As far as Ciara’s concerned, 614 00:23:28,130 --> 00:23:30,163 whatever you see, document it, 615 00:23:30,163 --> 00:23:32,031 know it, write [bleep] up, boom. 616 00:23:32,031 --> 00:23:35,998 And then after that, you got one, two, three write-ups. 617 00:23:35,998 --> 00:23:38,097 Strike three, you out the door. 618 00:23:38,097 --> 00:23:40,856 - ♪ No, no, no, no lie ♪ 619 00:23:40,856 --> 00:23:42,031 ♪ Real queens don’t die ♪ 620 00:23:42,031 --> 00:23:45,658 ♪ We just pass on the crown and multiply ♪ 621 00:23:45,658 --> 00:23:49,427 ♪ So you can keep hitting on a boss lady ♪ 622 00:23:49,427 --> 00:23:52,724 - Well, hello friend. - Hi. 623 00:23:52,724 --> 00:23:54,691 - I have missed you so much. 624 00:23:54,691 --> 00:23:57,130 - I miss you. - Oh, my gosh. 625 00:23:57,130 --> 00:23:59,724 So Scrap’s been out on the road leaving me at home 626 00:23:59,724 --> 00:24:02,064 with the kids and all the responsibilities. 627 00:24:02,064 --> 00:24:05,394 But even though Scrappy’s back home, 628 00:24:05,394 --> 00:24:07,394 we’re not talking at all. 629 00:24:07,394 --> 00:24:08,724 So how was it? 630 00:24:08,724 --> 00:24:09,559 - Dubai? It was good. 631 00:24:09,559 --> 00:24:11,262 It was the first time that everybody met Eric, 632 00:24:11,262 --> 00:24:14,361 but I just was like, thinking about y’all the whole time. 633 00:24:14,361 --> 00:24:15,460 You know what I’m saying? - Yeah. 634 00:24:15,460 --> 00:24:17,328 Me and Erica, we had each other here. 635 00:24:17,328 --> 00:24:18,394 - No, I know. - So. 636 00:24:18,394 --> 00:24:21,965 - I was in Dubai living my best life, 637 00:24:21,965 --> 00:24:25,295 but I feel bad because Erica and Bambi 638 00:24:25,295 --> 00:24:27,790 is kind of going through the same drama 639 00:24:27,790 --> 00:24:29,229 with their husbands. 640 00:24:29,229 --> 00:24:31,130 Gotta ask you, is Scrap okay? 641 00:24:31,130 --> 00:24:35,295 ’Cause he posted something like he was suicidal and stuff 642 00:24:35,295 --> 00:24:36,295 like that so I’m like, damn, 643 00:24:36,295 --> 00:24:37,526 this [bleep] it’s getting real, 644 00:24:37,526 --> 00:24:39,965 like, let me see what’s really going on. 645 00:24:39,965 --> 00:24:40,856 - You know what? Like, 646 00:24:40,856 --> 00:24:43,163 I know that he really has been suffering. 647 00:24:43,163 --> 00:24:45,196 - Yeah. - So he came home 648 00:24:45,196 --> 00:24:46,460 the next day after that. 649 00:24:46,460 --> 00:24:48,932 He was like all sick and mind you, 650 00:24:48,932 --> 00:24:49,965 like, we haven’t been talking. 651 00:24:49,965 --> 00:24:52,460 He was like, totally [bleep] disrespectful to me, 652 00:24:52,460 --> 00:24:55,295 but I did make sure he had some food. 653 00:24:55,295 --> 00:24:58,031 Like, I gave him some tea and [bleep] and all that. 654 00:24:58,031 --> 00:25:00,163 I worry about Scrap and his mental health. 655 00:25:00,163 --> 00:25:02,163 He just like keeps it all to himself 656 00:25:02,163 --> 00:25:05,097 but then he’ll like, pour it out on social media. 657 00:25:05,097 --> 00:25:07,196 So at this point, I’m just gonna let Scrap 658 00:25:07,196 --> 00:25:08,460 figure out what he’s gonna do for himself 659 00:25:08,460 --> 00:25:11,163 and I’m gonna focus on myself and my babies. 660 00:25:11,163 --> 00:25:15,790 - Not to make matters worse for y’all, but let me tell you. 661 00:25:15,790 --> 00:25:16,691 Okay, so-- - What? 662 00:25:16,691 --> 00:25:19,427 - Dubai, Momma Dee was there. - Oh, God. 663 00:25:19,427 --> 00:25:22,856 - She was like, "Sierra, come into the palace." 664 00:25:22,856 --> 00:25:24,823 - Oh, God. - I’m like what the [bleep] 665 00:25:24,823 --> 00:25:25,592 do Momma Dee want? 666 00:25:25,592 --> 00:25:27,229 "I don’t like this trouble in a palace 667 00:25:27,229 --> 00:25:30,097 ’cause my son got lawyers and it--" 668 00:25:30,097 --> 00:25:31,932 he--she just started talking weird, right? 669 00:25:31,932 --> 00:25:34,526 - I’m gonna call my lawyer. - And I’m pretty sure 670 00:25:34,526 --> 00:25:36,295 Bambi gonna call her lawyer too, Momma Dee. 671 00:25:36,295 --> 00:25:39,163 - Yeah, let her do it. - So she said he got lawyers? 672 00:25:39,163 --> 00:25:41,427 - She just was like talking off the wall. 673 00:25:41,427 --> 00:25:42,262 She was like, 674 00:25:42,262 --> 00:25:46,262 "She don’t be with the kids, my son be with the kids a lot." 675 00:25:46,262 --> 00:25:48,899 - Momma Dee is being typical Momma Dee again, 676 00:25:48,899 --> 00:25:52,790 just really trying to make excuses for her son. 677 00:25:52,790 --> 00:25:54,899 - I just can’t keep [bleep] from you so I feel like 678 00:25:54,899 --> 00:25:56,526 I needed to let you know what was going on 679 00:25:56,526 --> 00:25:58,427 and what was being said on both ends. 680 00:25:58,427 --> 00:25:59,932 - Right. This lady better not try me. 681 00:25:59,932 --> 00:26:01,559 I’m tired of just holding [bleep] in. 682 00:26:01,559 --> 00:26:04,394 Listen, I have so much going on at this point. 683 00:26:04,394 --> 00:26:07,361 I’m carrying this baby. I’m taking care of two babies. 684 00:26:07,361 --> 00:26:08,427 I’m running the business. 685 00:26:08,427 --> 00:26:12,031 I’m trying to be the best friend I can be to Erica. 686 00:26:12,031 --> 00:26:17,196 I, myself, am sitting up here facing a divorce, 687 00:26:17,196 --> 00:26:18,460 and then Momma Dee like, 688 00:26:18,460 --> 00:26:21,460 she wants to put her little extra, you know, 689 00:26:21,460 --> 00:26:23,328 seasoning in the mix. And I’m just like, 690 00:26:23,328 --> 00:26:26,427 "Girl, like right now, I really don’t need this." 691 00:26:26,427 --> 00:26:30,229 She itching for some real [bleep] drama 692 00:26:30,229 --> 00:26:31,856 and I’m gonna give it to her. 693 00:26:31,856 --> 00:26:34,427 - Coming up on "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"... 694 00:26:34,427 --> 00:26:38,031 - But you may think I’m tripping, I’m concerned. 695 00:26:38,031 --> 00:26:40,361 I got a group of peers right now, 696 00:26:40,361 --> 00:26:41,526 that lost their sons. 697 00:26:41,526 --> 00:26:44,130 I don’t want be in that group. 698 00:26:48,953 --> 00:26:50,021 - ♪ My way to the top and it ain't no stopping ♪ 699 00:26:50,088 --> 00:26:52,090 - ♪ I will overcome ♪ 700 00:26:52,157 --> 00:26:53,558 ♪ Just like I do me for this ♪ 701 00:26:53,625 --> 00:26:54,993 ♪ Overcomer ♪ 702 00:26:55,060 --> 00:26:56,461 ♪ They thought they had me, I'm out ♪ 703 00:26:56,528 --> 00:26:58,329 ♪ Just got that prisoner down ♪ 704 00:26:58,396 --> 00:27:00,198 ♪ And stress is holding me down ♪ 705 00:27:00,265 --> 00:27:01,966 ♪ But I fought through all that now ♪ 706 00:27:02,033 --> 00:27:03,468 ♪ Now I got my back for effect ♪ 707 00:27:03,535 --> 00:27:05,070 ♪ My chest all right, they hear me now ♪ 708 00:27:05,136 --> 00:27:07,338 ♪ We conquerors, got a lot on my mind ♪ 709 00:27:07,405 --> 00:27:09,007 - Oh, hello, hello. - Hey, pastor. 710 00:27:09,074 --> 00:27:11,009 How you doing? - Hey. 711 00:27:11,076 --> 00:27:13,478 - How's it going? How you doing? 712 00:27:13,545 --> 00:27:14,612 - I'm good, hanging in there, man. 713 00:27:14,679 --> 00:27:15,680 - Good to see you, pastor. 714 00:27:15,747 --> 00:27:17,215 - Good to see you, sister. 715 00:27:17,282 --> 00:27:18,850 - Now the other day, when Kirk gave me that advice 716 00:27:18,917 --> 00:27:20,385 about going to talk to my pastor, 717 00:27:20,452 --> 00:27:21,953 I felt like it was sound advice, 718 00:27:22,020 --> 00:27:23,488 so everybody's coming together. 719 00:27:23,555 --> 00:27:26,191 And I think that this is a great opportunity for Amoni 720 00:27:26,257 --> 00:27:28,660 to see that everybody around you sees 721 00:27:28,727 --> 00:27:30,462 that you have great potential, 722 00:27:30,528 --> 00:27:34,399 but we need you to unlock that now before it's too late. 723 00:27:34,466 --> 00:27:37,602 - How you feeling, mom? - I'm good baby. How are you? 724 00:27:37,669 --> 00:27:40,004 - Just trying to make sure I keep my head good 725 00:27:40,071 --> 00:27:41,773 with all things at all times. 726 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:43,375 - Everything will be fine. 727 00:27:43,441 --> 00:27:45,877 - That's all I'm praying for. 728 00:27:45,944 --> 00:27:47,712 ♪ ♪ 729 00:27:47,779 --> 00:27:49,247 - So what's going on? 730 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:53,818 - Jasiel and Amoni are trying to repair and, you know, 731 00:27:53,885 --> 00:27:55,720 grow their father-son relationship, 732 00:27:55,787 --> 00:27:58,890 but, you know, professional help is needed. 733 00:27:58,957 --> 00:28:00,658 - There's no perfect family. 734 00:28:00,725 --> 00:28:03,395 No perfect father, no perfect children. 735 00:28:03,461 --> 00:28:06,064 And--see what's going on. [knock on door] 736 00:28:06,131 --> 00:28:07,832 - Hey baby. 737 00:28:07,899 --> 00:28:11,936 ♪ ♪ 738 00:28:12,003 --> 00:28:14,472 - This being the first time that we've seen each other 739 00:28:14,539 --> 00:28:18,276 since the incident, I'm uneasy, I'm unsettled, 740 00:28:18,309 --> 00:28:19,577 I don't really know how to feel. 741 00:28:19,644 --> 00:28:22,781 - Your father reached out to me to get a session 742 00:28:22,847 --> 00:28:26,418 because I understand that there's been some conflict. 743 00:28:26,484 --> 00:28:30,822 You know, I'm just here to see how I can help. 744 00:28:30,889 --> 00:28:32,157 - It's okay though. 745 00:28:32,290 --> 00:28:34,826 - So what happened recently at the club? 746 00:28:34,893 --> 00:28:38,296 - We came there to resolve things like we doing now 747 00:28:38,363 --> 00:28:41,533 and things ain't go how they were 'posed to go. 748 00:28:41,599 --> 00:28:44,302 Ended up getting into a physical altercation. 749 00:28:44,302 --> 00:28:46,705 Things just weren't right, 750 00:28:46,771 --> 00:28:48,973 that's why we here. 751 00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:52,977 - I do think that some of my general practices on parenting 752 00:28:53,044 --> 00:28:54,913 may have to change a little. 753 00:28:54,979 --> 00:28:58,450 Like Kirk said, the approach can feel more like love 754 00:28:58,516 --> 00:29:02,287 and opposed to hate or insult. 755 00:29:02,354 --> 00:29:04,489 - Do you have anything to say to each other? 756 00:29:04,556 --> 00:29:06,091 - Yeah. 757 00:29:06,157 --> 00:29:07,559 Well, you may think I'm tripping. 758 00:29:07,625 --> 00:29:09,027 I'm concerned. 759 00:29:09,094 --> 00:29:13,264 I got a group of peers right now that lost their son. 760 00:29:13,331 --> 00:29:14,933 I don't wanna be in that group. 761 00:29:14,999 --> 00:29:19,070 As much as I love them, I wanna support them from the outside. 762 00:29:19,137 --> 00:29:20,538 I don't wanna support them on the inside 763 00:29:20,605 --> 00:29:24,275 and feel that same pain, that same trauma. 764 00:29:24,309 --> 00:29:27,512 I have so many friends who lost their sons, 765 00:29:27,579 --> 00:29:30,715 it'll take me six sets of hands to count on. 766 00:29:30,782 --> 00:29:32,851 No parent should ever bury their child, 767 00:29:32,917 --> 00:29:34,886 but life is not like that. 768 00:29:34,953 --> 00:29:37,455 I would rather yell to the top of my lungs 769 00:29:37,522 --> 00:29:40,492 so he knows how passionate I am about his life 770 00:29:40,558 --> 00:29:42,394 than to have a moment of silence 771 00:29:42,460 --> 00:29:45,196 and just let him go out here and do anything he want to do. 772 00:29:45,296 --> 00:29:46,731 So here I am, I'm telling my son 773 00:29:46,798 --> 00:29:48,533 who I'm seeing unraveling. 774 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,402 It's like this behavioral pattern unraveling, 775 00:29:50,468 --> 00:29:52,904 you know, he was like, "You know, I'm grown though." 776 00:29:52,971 --> 00:29:54,572 Me and Gino were grown too. 777 00:29:54,639 --> 00:29:57,008 I've had guns drawn on me from the police, 778 00:29:57,075 --> 00:29:58,276 "Hey, don't move." 779 00:29:58,343 --> 00:29:59,444 How did I get charges? 780 00:29:59,511 --> 00:30:01,446 Y'all were looking for my brother, 781 00:30:01,513 --> 00:30:04,115 instead they get me guns in my face, 782 00:30:04,249 --> 00:30:05,250 guns in my lady face. 783 00:30:05,316 --> 00:30:06,718 I coulda got killed 784 00:30:06,785 --> 00:30:08,520 because the police ran up on me with their guns out 785 00:30:08,586 --> 00:30:10,488 'cause they thought I was him. For what? 786 00:30:10,555 --> 00:30:13,458 I ain't even did nothing, I'm just pulling up. 787 00:30:13,525 --> 00:30:15,627 'Cause I fit the description. 788 00:30:15,694 --> 00:30:18,296 We get profiled and I'm trying to get my son to see this. 789 00:30:18,363 --> 00:30:20,965 I mean, myself,, I been through it. 790 00:30:21,032 --> 00:30:22,133 [bleep] ain't no, this ain't cap, 791 00:30:22,267 --> 00:30:24,069 this ain't no game out here. 792 00:30:24,135 --> 00:30:25,470 I'm your father, I'm looking at you 793 00:30:25,537 --> 00:30:27,072 I'm saying, man, you fitting the description 794 00:30:27,138 --> 00:30:29,507 to be another statistic. 795 00:30:29,574 --> 00:30:31,676 That's what I don't want to see. 796 00:30:31,743 --> 00:30:33,778 So as I'm talking to you, 797 00:30:33,845 --> 00:30:36,381 my heart is on my sleeve and you kinda like, 798 00:30:36,448 --> 00:30:37,549 "Man, I don't want it. Psh. 799 00:30:37,615 --> 00:30:38,850 Get your little heart outta here." 800 00:30:38,917 --> 00:30:42,287 - Right. Like I told him. - That's how I felt. 801 00:30:42,354 --> 00:30:44,889 - It's coming from a place of loving you, 802 00:30:44,956 --> 00:30:46,391 but I don't think the way 803 00:30:46,458 --> 00:30:48,326 that he came about doing it was the right way. 804 00:30:48,393 --> 00:30:50,261 - So as a man, I apologize, 805 00:30:50,328 --> 00:30:52,864 but I love you with everything in me, bro. 806 00:30:52,931 --> 00:30:54,866 Everything in me. 807 00:30:54,933 --> 00:30:57,435 - Love you too, Dad. 808 00:30:57,502 --> 00:30:59,671 I don't want no friction between us, 809 00:30:59,738 --> 00:31:01,773 you know what I'm saying? I want it to be positive energy 810 00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:03,541 between us. 811 00:31:03,608 --> 00:31:06,478 - Brother, I felt that apology. 812 00:31:06,544 --> 00:31:07,879 I'm sure your son felt it. 813 00:31:07,946 --> 00:31:10,648 And I felt your response. 814 00:31:10,715 --> 00:31:12,550 It was a different type of apology. 815 00:31:12,617 --> 00:31:16,154 I feel that you definitely want to be with your father, 816 00:31:16,254 --> 00:31:18,590 you wanna spend more time with your father. 817 00:31:18,656 --> 00:31:21,292 You want to do more positive things with your father. 818 00:31:21,359 --> 00:31:22,627 This is how-- 819 00:31:22,694 --> 00:31:25,530 ♪ ♪ 820 00:31:25,597 --> 00:31:27,332 - Start of a new beginning. 821 00:31:27,399 --> 00:31:29,567 I really feel like a burden 822 00:31:29,634 --> 00:31:30,902 has been lifted off my shoulders, 823 00:31:30,969 --> 00:31:33,538 but I still feel like there's more work to do. 824 00:31:33,605 --> 00:31:36,541 It's gonna take more of us 825 00:31:36,608 --> 00:31:39,044 pouring into him even more now, 826 00:31:39,110 --> 00:31:42,380 give him a fair shot at being the best that he could be. 827 00:31:42,447 --> 00:31:44,449 I love you, man, for real, though. 828 00:31:44,516 --> 00:31:46,618 - Love you too. - Sitting with the pastor, 829 00:31:46,684 --> 00:31:49,788 I gotta get a chance to really break down things 830 00:31:49,854 --> 00:31:51,222 between me and my dad. 831 00:31:51,256 --> 00:31:53,224 This time he didn't do too much yelling, 832 00:31:53,224 --> 00:31:56,394 he more so like really wanted to get me to really understand. 833 00:31:56,461 --> 00:31:58,496 Instead of talking at me, he was talking to me, 834 00:31:58,563 --> 00:32:00,065 you know what I'm saying? 835 00:32:00,131 --> 00:32:01,332 Like a man to man, 836 00:32:01,399 --> 00:32:02,801 I can see eye to eye with him 837 00:32:02,867 --> 00:32:05,603 and be like, "Okay, I get what I was wrong at too." 838 00:32:05,670 --> 00:32:07,472 And so I'm happy we was able to settle it 839 00:32:07,539 --> 00:32:09,741 and so we can end up working on our connection. 840 00:32:09,808 --> 00:32:12,077 - I don't want nothing but the best for you, dog. 841 00:32:12,143 --> 00:32:13,712 Believe that. 842 00:32:16,802 --> 00:32:18,868 - ♪ My way to the top, and it ain’t no stopping ♪ 843 00:32:18,868 --> 00:32:21,802 [upbeat music] 844 00:32:21,802 --> 00:32:24,396 - ♪ Everybody wanna celebrate, celebrate ♪ 845 00:32:24,396 --> 00:32:26,934 ♪ Ain’t nobody wanna put the work in, put the work in ♪ 846 00:32:26,934 --> 00:32:30,604 ♪ I been working for it every day, every ♪ 847 00:32:30,604 --> 00:32:34,670 - Today is the day that one of my dreams 848 00:32:34,670 --> 00:32:35,571 gets checked off the list. 849 00:32:35,571 --> 00:32:38,703 I got most of my new friends from the A coming out. 850 00:32:38,703 --> 00:32:41,802 I got my friends and family from New York. 851 00:32:41,802 --> 00:32:44,604 Like, how does a girl get so lucky? 852 00:32:44,604 --> 00:32:45,472 [cheering] 853 00:32:45,472 --> 00:32:46,901 - ♪ I’m in love with the game ♪ 854 00:32:46,901 --> 00:32:47,835 ♪ Never stopping ♪ 855 00:32:47,835 --> 00:32:51,363 - Thank you, guys, so, so, so, so much for the support. 856 00:32:51,363 --> 00:32:55,703 I wanted my team, my friends, my family on this stage with me 857 00:32:55,703 --> 00:32:58,472 because it has truly been a village 858 00:32:58,472 --> 00:33:00,198 that has helped create this line. 859 00:33:00,198 --> 00:33:03,835 To actually see this store come to life, 860 00:33:03,835 --> 00:33:06,637 I am beyond grateful. 861 00:33:06,637 --> 00:33:09,934 One, two, three! 862 00:33:09,934 --> 00:33:11,868 [cheering] 863 00:33:11,868 --> 00:33:15,396 All right, family, come on in. 864 00:33:15,396 --> 00:33:18,033 ♪ ♪ 865 00:33:18,033 --> 00:33:19,934 - You’ve really made it look like the garden, 866 00:33:19,934 --> 00:33:20,901 Her floor is grass. 867 00:33:20,901 --> 00:33:25,505 - Do y’all see all this Black girl magic round here? 868 00:33:25,505 --> 00:33:27,637 Yandy, I am so freaking proud of you. 869 00:33:27,637 --> 00:33:29,901 I love to see you continue to shine. 870 00:33:29,901 --> 00:33:30,901 Let’s celebrate, boo. 871 00:33:30,901 --> 00:33:33,297 - ♪ Summer like hop scotch, I be on a double Dutch ♪ 872 00:33:33,297 --> 00:33:36,736 ♪ Tip tag, tip tag, gotta get your rhythm on ♪ 873 00:33:36,736 --> 00:33:38,571 - I’m rejoicing for Yandy right now 874 00:33:38,571 --> 00:33:44,264 because Atlanta is definitely fertile soil for opportunity, 875 00:33:44,264 --> 00:33:45,703 especially when it comes to minorities. 876 00:33:45,703 --> 00:33:48,736 And I’m just very happy for Yandy and her family, man. 877 00:33:48,736 --> 00:33:50,472 And I’m here to support that. 878 00:33:50,472 --> 00:33:52,703 - Hey y’all. - Hey, what’s up, boo? 879 00:33:52,703 --> 00:33:53,396 How are you? 880 00:33:53,396 --> 00:33:55,330 I ain’t your ass in a hundred years. 881 00:33:55,330 --> 00:33:57,297 - How things going with you and Amoni? 882 00:33:57,297 --> 00:33:58,670 Has it gotten any better? 883 00:33:58,670 --> 00:34:00,000 - Well, we going to counselling and-- 884 00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:01,538 - Really? - We just--yeah. 885 00:34:01,538 --> 00:34:03,330 - Oh, that’s good. - It’s good. It’s helpful. 886 00:34:03,330 --> 00:34:06,330 - It’s a weird moment ’cause we in church and some words 887 00:34:06,330 --> 00:34:07,703 might slip out at church. - Stop. 888 00:34:07,703 --> 00:34:09,363 - Yeah, we be at the church, but whatever-- 889 00:34:09,363 --> 00:34:10,637 - Oh, at the church? Yeah. 890 00:34:10,637 --> 00:34:12,571 - But whatever we feel, we say it. 891 00:34:12,571 --> 00:34:13,330 And I, you know, 892 00:34:13,330 --> 00:34:14,802 I would never want to disrespect the Lord but-- 893 00:34:14,802 --> 00:34:17,736 - Period. The church? - In his office. 894 00:34:17,736 --> 00:34:19,571 - Nah, but we cool. We chill. We chill. 895 00:34:19,571 --> 00:34:22,901 A lot of Black kids don’t get that luxury 896 00:34:22,901 --> 00:34:23,868 of having both parents there. 897 00:34:23,868 --> 00:34:28,835 But I really feel like seeing his mom and me talk 898 00:34:28,835 --> 00:34:29,934 and share our love for him. 899 00:34:29,934 --> 00:34:33,472 I think that was like a moment of triumph for him 900 00:34:33,472 --> 00:34:34,297 and for us as a whole. 901 00:34:34,297 --> 00:34:36,901 - Sometimes these kids be feeling like they just-- 902 00:34:36,901 --> 00:34:37,670 - Entitled. 903 00:34:37,670 --> 00:34:39,472 - To [bleep] like-- - Yes. Entitled. 904 00:34:39,472 --> 00:34:40,604 - Like you can’t tell ’em nothing, 905 00:34:40,604 --> 00:34:43,396 like you ain’t walked that path or lived that. 906 00:34:43,396 --> 00:34:44,703 Or like, "I get that you grown [bleep], 907 00:34:44,703 --> 00:34:46,066 but you don’t know everything." 908 00:34:46,066 --> 00:34:46,670 - Right. 909 00:34:46,670 --> 00:34:48,670 - ♪ I just wanna party in the hills ♪ 910 00:34:48,670 --> 00:34:49,769 ♪ With a drink in my hand ♪ 911 00:34:49,769 --> 00:34:53,538 ♪ And a girl by my side, is that too much to ask for? ♪ 912 00:34:53,538 --> 00:34:54,604 - Yandy is one of my peoples. 913 00:34:54,604 --> 00:34:56,330 Yandy is one of my best friends I would say. 914 00:34:56,330 --> 00:34:59,670 I was with Yandy when Yelle was just a thought 915 00:34:59,670 --> 00:35:00,934 to now she has her own big storefront. 916 00:35:00,934 --> 00:35:03,670 Of course I’m gonna show up and support. 917 00:35:03,670 --> 00:35:04,802 I’m proud. 918 00:35:04,802 --> 00:35:06,396 ♪ ♪ 919 00:35:06,396 --> 00:35:07,802 - What you doing back here? What you doing? 920 00:35:07,802 --> 00:35:09,934 What you doing? What you doing? - I’m supporting-- 921 00:35:09,934 --> 00:35:10,967 - What you doing back here? 922 00:35:10,967 --> 00:35:13,802 - Supporting a Black owned popcorn that tastes very good. 923 00:35:13,802 --> 00:35:15,637 What are you looking at me like that for? 924 00:35:15,637 --> 00:35:16,769 - ’Cause we need to talk. 925 00:35:16,769 --> 00:35:18,835 You used to act like we were friends. 926 00:35:18,835 --> 00:35:20,000 You got all this stuff going on, 927 00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:20,967 I don’t know nothing about it. 928 00:35:20,967 --> 00:35:22,868 I’m thinking you happy, everything is good. 929 00:35:22,868 --> 00:35:25,538 - I am happy. - It doesn’t seem like so. 930 00:35:25,538 --> 00:35:28,703 Y’all talking about divorce and child support and-- 931 00:35:28,703 --> 00:35:31,769 - Time changes things. - Marriage is forever. 932 00:35:31,769 --> 00:35:34,769 - Should be, but not this one. 933 00:35:34,769 --> 00:35:37,165 It’s not about marriage, it’s about being happy, 934 00:35:37,165 --> 00:35:38,934 it’s about a healthy relationship. 935 00:35:38,934 --> 00:35:40,736 And if that’s not there, it doesn’t matter 936 00:35:40,736 --> 00:35:41,604 if you’re married or not, 937 00:35:41,604 --> 00:35:43,835 I’m not gonna stay with someone just because I’m married 938 00:35:43,835 --> 00:35:45,835 and all we do is fight. No, thank you. 939 00:35:45,835 --> 00:35:47,901 - What I’m hearing and what I’m seeing is not you. 940 00:35:47,901 --> 00:35:52,637 You’re the most concerned, protective person that I know. 941 00:35:52,637 --> 00:35:53,472 - It’s about respect. 942 00:35:53,472 --> 00:35:55,934 - Respect is important too but that goes both ways. 943 00:35:55,934 --> 00:35:58,802 If she’s in the hospital, you need to be by her side. 944 00:35:58,802 --> 00:36:00,637 - Not if it’s just arguing and fighting. 945 00:36:00,637 --> 00:36:03,132 - It takes two to argue. She can’t argue by herself. 946 00:36:03,132 --> 00:36:04,033 - Yes, she can. 947 00:36:04,033 --> 00:36:06,802 - No, Safaree, why is she talking about infidelity? 948 00:36:06,802 --> 00:36:10,165 Why is she talking about she caught you cheating? 949 00:36:10,165 --> 00:36:12,538 - She keeps saying the word cheating, 950 00:36:12,538 --> 00:36:14,033 but we weren’t together so-- 951 00:36:14,033 --> 00:36:16,934 - You’re married. What do you mean? 952 00:36:16,934 --> 00:36:19,736 - The situation that Erica is talking about 953 00:36:19,736 --> 00:36:22,198 was a one-time situation. 954 00:36:22,198 --> 00:36:25,099 I’m not gonna sit around and be some goody two shoe, like, 955 00:36:25,099 --> 00:36:28,670 if I am out there and I end up entertaining somebody else, 956 00:36:28,670 --> 00:36:31,802 then this is what we put out there. 957 00:36:31,802 --> 00:36:32,637 And that’s that. 958 00:36:32,637 --> 00:36:34,571 Look, I’ve been by myself the past three weeks 959 00:36:34,571 --> 00:36:36,934 and I wake up and I swear to God I’m in peace. 960 00:36:36,934 --> 00:36:37,934 - Let me ask you this question, 961 00:36:37,934 --> 00:36:43,033 are you angry or do you no longer love her? 962 00:36:43,033 --> 00:36:45,198 - Well, I feel like I don’t care. 963 00:36:45,198 --> 00:36:46,066 - You’re angry. 964 00:36:46,066 --> 00:36:47,934 If you can’t sit here and tell me, 965 00:36:47,934 --> 00:36:50,165 "No, I’m no longer in love with her." 966 00:36:50,165 --> 00:36:51,000 Then you love her, 967 00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,066 and I also know how much you love your babies. 968 00:36:53,066 --> 00:36:54,835 - And that’s why I’m leaving. 969 00:36:54,835 --> 00:36:58,769 Like, I left, I got my own place, like I’m out. 970 00:36:58,769 --> 00:36:59,736 - You got your own place? 971 00:36:59,736 --> 00:37:01,066 - Like I don’t live there anymore. 972 00:37:01,066 --> 00:37:03,132 Every other day she’s saying, "Get out, 973 00:37:03,132 --> 00:37:04,066 get out, get out, get out." 974 00:37:04,066 --> 00:37:08,066 I’d rather stay on a bunk bed in someone else’s crib 975 00:37:08,066 --> 00:37:08,868 than to be in this house 976 00:37:08,868 --> 00:37:11,769 and just be arguing nonstop every day, every time we speak. 977 00:37:11,769 --> 00:37:14,132 It just doesn’t make any sense and it’s not healthy. 978 00:37:14,132 --> 00:37:17,736 We gonna coexist, but not in the same place. 979 00:37:17,736 --> 00:37:20,099 - Aye... 980 00:37:22,264 --> 00:37:25,000 - When I talked to Sierra in Dubai, 981 00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:27,868 she told me that Bambi said she’s getting a divorce 982 00:37:27,868 --> 00:37:30,604 from my son, Scrappy, and that she’s gonna try 983 00:37:30,604 --> 00:37:33,264 to take my son for everything he got. 984 00:37:33,264 --> 00:37:37,000 - From my understanding, Bambi wants a divorce 985 00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:38,165 and she want to separate, 986 00:37:38,165 --> 00:37:41,604 like she don’t wanna be in the house with Scrap. 987 00:37:41,604 --> 00:37:43,637 - I can smell a rat from a mile away 988 00:37:43,637 --> 00:37:47,165 and I feel the need as a mom to protect my son. 989 00:37:47,165 --> 00:37:51,000 And when it comes down to this, I’m not backing down. 990 00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:52,736 Matter of fact, I’m doubling down, 991 00:37:52,736 --> 00:37:55,868 and that’s what any parent would do. 992 00:37:55,868 --> 00:37:57,769 Hello. 993 00:37:57,769 --> 00:38:03,297 ♪ ♪ 994 00:38:04,273 --> 00:38:06,240 - ♪ My way to the top, and it ain’t no stopping ♪ 995 00:38:06,240 --> 00:38:09,273 [dramatic music] 996 00:38:09,273 --> 00:38:10,075 ♪ ♪ 997 00:38:10,075 --> 00:38:11,834 - We’re drinking some wifey. 998 00:38:11,834 --> 00:38:13,207 - [indistinct chatter] 999 00:38:13,207 --> 00:38:14,207 - Okay. 1000 00:38:14,207 --> 00:38:17,735 - Still popping bottles. 1001 00:38:17,735 --> 00:38:18,801 - Hello. 1002 00:38:18,801 --> 00:38:20,943 - Hello. - How are you? 1003 00:38:20,943 --> 00:38:22,372 - I’m good. 1004 00:38:22,372 --> 00:38:23,900 - A lot of things have occurred. 1005 00:38:23,900 --> 00:38:28,603 When I went to Dubai I didn’t know, I honestly did not know. 1006 00:38:28,603 --> 00:38:29,471 - You didn’t know what? 1007 00:38:29,471 --> 00:38:32,075 - I didn’t know what Sierra told me, so let me just repeat. 1008 00:38:32,075 --> 00:38:33,306 - What did Sierra tell you? 1009 00:38:33,306 --> 00:38:36,636 - She told me that y’all filed for divorce 1010 00:38:36,636 --> 00:38:38,339 and I knew y’all had checked me in Arizona 1011 00:38:38,339 --> 00:38:39,174 so I stayed out of it. 1012 00:38:39,174 --> 00:38:40,943 - So Sierra came up to you and told you? 1013 00:38:40,943 --> 00:38:41,504 - Yes. 1014 00:38:41,504 --> 00:38:43,240 - So the last thing I wanna be doing today 1015 00:38:43,240 --> 00:38:44,339 is talking to Momma Dee, 1016 00:38:44,339 --> 00:38:45,669 especially after all the [bleep] 1017 00:38:45,669 --> 00:38:46,603 she been talking to Sierra 1018 00:38:46,603 --> 00:38:48,042 and anybody else who will listen. 1019 00:38:48,042 --> 00:38:49,801 - She told me at a bar in Dubai. 1020 00:38:49,801 --> 00:38:53,240 I was shocked, I really didn’t want to believe her at first. 1021 00:38:53,240 --> 00:38:56,735 I got upset, I started cursing, because mind you, 1022 00:38:56,735 --> 00:38:59,768 if anybody said they gonna take your son for everything. 1023 00:38:59,768 --> 00:39:01,702 - Who said that? - Sierra, just when she-- 1024 00:39:01,702 --> 00:39:03,900 - She said I was gonna take your son for what? 1025 00:39:03,900 --> 00:39:05,075 For what? - I don’t know. 1026 00:39:05,075 --> 00:39:05,900 - What is everything? 1027 00:39:05,900 --> 00:39:07,834 I really don’t understand where this energy 1028 00:39:07,834 --> 00:39:09,405 is coming from because honey, like, 1029 00:39:09,405 --> 00:39:12,801 I’m still trying to figure out where the money at? 1030 00:39:12,801 --> 00:39:15,735 That’s where the problem lies, you should be-- 1031 00:39:15,735 --> 00:39:16,943 - So you’re trying to flip the blame, 1032 00:39:16,943 --> 00:39:18,075 you’re not gonna put the blame on me. 1033 00:39:18,075 --> 00:39:19,669 - You should be grown enough and smart enough to know that-- 1034 00:39:19,669 --> 00:39:21,438 - No, you should be worried about discussing your business 1035 00:39:21,438 --> 00:39:22,438 to people that run their mouth. 1036 00:39:22,438 --> 00:39:23,735 - At the end of the day, you run your mouth. 1037 00:39:23,735 --> 00:39:25,834 Why are you sitting right here talking to me now? 1038 00:39:25,834 --> 00:39:26,867 - Just listen to me. 1039 00:39:26,867 --> 00:39:28,735 - Why are you--why did you come over here and talking to me? 1040 00:39:28,735 --> 00:39:30,042 - Just know-just know I would never let anyone 1041 00:39:30,042 --> 00:39:31,405 hurt my grandson and you would never let nobody. 1042 00:39:31,405 --> 00:39:33,735 - First of all, you’ve only seen your grandson 1043 00:39:33,735 --> 00:39:34,537 a handful of times, 1044 00:39:34,537 --> 00:39:35,976 so what is you talking about your grandson? 1045 00:39:35,976 --> 00:39:38,042 - Because I don’t have access to him. Stop. 1046 00:39:38,042 --> 00:39:39,900 - How did this go from Scrappy to Breland? 1047 00:39:39,900 --> 00:39:41,273 Before you say anything about my kids, 1048 00:39:41,273 --> 00:39:45,306 how about you show up and come see them or shut up. 1049 00:39:45,306 --> 00:39:47,405 Because if my kids saw you today, 1050 00:39:47,405 --> 00:39:48,867 they wouldn’t even know you. 1051 00:39:48,867 --> 00:39:51,174 Your son has some [bleep]-- 1052 00:39:51,174 --> 00:39:54,207 - Just know that when you come with the lawyers, 1053 00:39:54,207 --> 00:39:56,273 we got lawyers too and we can pay. 1054 00:39:56,273 --> 00:39:57,174 - Okay, okay. 1055 00:39:57,174 --> 00:39:58,768 Well, you can’t pay as much as I can pay. 1056 00:39:58,768 --> 00:40:00,669 - Come on, [bleep] bring it bitch. 1057 00:40:00,669 --> 00:40:02,108 - [bleep] outta my face. 1058 00:40:02,108 --> 00:40:03,075 - I don’t play that [bleep]. 1059 00:40:03,075 --> 00:40:04,372 Keep that bitch away from me. 1060 00:40:04,372 --> 00:40:09,405 Baby, what you don’t want is to tangle with my Black ass. 1061 00:40:12,762 --> 00:40:14,455 - ♪ My way to the top there ain’t no stopping ♪ 1062 00:40:14,455 --> 00:40:16,059 - You’re watching "Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta..." 1063 00:40:16,059 --> 00:40:18,059 - "Check Yourself." - Season ten. 1064 00:40:18,059 --> 00:40:19,059 - You’ll be watching us... 1065 00:40:19,059 --> 00:40:21,059 - Watch the show... - For the very first time. 1066 00:40:21,059 --> 00:40:23,927 - You’ll be getting our natural and honest reactions. 1067 00:40:23,927 --> 00:40:25,356 - We’re watching it... - With you. 1068 00:40:25,356 --> 00:40:29,092 - The scene you’re about to see is Yandy on a high note 1069 00:40:29,092 --> 00:40:32,158 and the palace running amok. 1070 00:40:32,158 --> 00:40:35,191 [upbeat music] 1071 00:40:35,191 --> 00:40:42,828 ♪ ♪ 1072 00:40:45,828 --> 00:40:48,762 - One, two, three! 1073 00:40:48,762 --> 00:40:52,092 - I mean, let’s be--let’s-- let’s keep it 100, now. 1074 00:40:52,092 --> 00:40:53,092 The feeling of a ribbon cutting 1075 00:40:53,092 --> 00:40:56,993 is a beautiful thing, you know what I’m saying? 1076 00:40:56,993 --> 00:40:59,224 - They really made it look like the garden. 1077 00:40:59,224 --> 00:41:00,026 Our floor is grass. 1078 00:41:00,026 --> 00:41:03,290 - I gotta admit, you know, it does look good inside. 1079 00:41:03,290 --> 00:41:05,828 It reminds me of my palace. 1080 00:41:05,828 --> 00:41:08,026 - Hey, what’s up, boo? How are you? 1081 00:41:08,026 --> 00:41:10,092 I ain’t seen your ass in a hundred years. 1082 00:41:10,092 --> 00:41:13,257 - Uh, ain’t been that long, Rasheeda-sheeda. 1083 00:41:13,257 --> 00:41:17,224 Just a couple of...months. 1084 00:41:17,224 --> 00:41:18,795 [dramatic music] 1085 00:41:18,795 --> 00:41:22,092 - Here come... music video Safaree. 1086 00:41:22,092 --> 00:41:25,290 He’s doing that video walk again. 1087 00:41:25,290 --> 00:41:26,224 - What you doing back here? 1088 00:41:26,224 --> 00:41:28,125 What you doing, what you doing, what you doing? 1089 00:41:28,125 --> 00:41:29,488 - I’m supporting-- - What you doing back here? 1090 00:41:29,488 --> 00:41:32,422 - A Black-owned popcorn that tastes very good. 1091 00:41:32,422 --> 00:41:34,455 Why you looking at me like that for? 1092 00:41:34,455 --> 00:41:35,356 - ’Cause we need to talk. 1093 00:41:35,356 --> 00:41:37,927 - See, now you hear the New York 1094 00:41:37,927 --> 00:41:38,927 come out of Yandy. 1095 00:41:38,927 --> 00:41:41,828 "We need to tawk. We need to tawk." 1096 00:41:41,828 --> 00:41:43,828 That’s the Yandy I know. [chuckles] 1097 00:41:43,828 --> 00:41:45,828 - You used to act like we were friends. 1098 00:41:45,828 --> 00:41:46,894 You got all this stuff going on, 1099 00:41:46,894 --> 00:41:49,092 I don’t know nothing about it. I’m thinking you happy, 1100 00:41:49,092 --> 00:41:50,828 everything is good-- - I am happy. 1101 00:41:50,828 --> 00:41:53,960 - Do I look happy when I look like this? 1102 00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:57,455 Or do I look happy when I look like this? 1103 00:41:57,455 --> 00:42:02,762 - If nonchalant was a person, "I am happy." 1104 00:42:02,762 --> 00:42:03,389 [chuckles] 1105 00:42:03,389 --> 00:42:05,927 - When a man acts nonchalant 1106 00:42:05,927 --> 00:42:08,323 and his face goes like-- 1107 00:42:08,323 --> 00:42:11,092 that mean he sticking more than one girl. 1108 00:42:11,092 --> 00:42:11,762 Watch him. 1109 00:42:11,762 --> 00:42:15,422 - Y’all talking about divorce and child support and-- 1110 00:42:15,422 --> 00:42:16,257 - Time changes things. 1111 00:42:16,257 --> 00:42:19,554 - Marriage is forever. - Could be. 1112 00:42:19,554 --> 00:42:21,488 But not this one. 1113 00:42:21,488 --> 00:42:22,960 - Oh, my gosh. 1114 00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,960 Just hearing him say that, like-- 1115 00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:29,894 just hearing him say that, for real, is--is not cool. 1116 00:42:29,894 --> 00:42:33,092 And he says it like a asshole. 1117 00:42:33,092 --> 00:42:35,158 - What I’m hearing and what I’m seeing is not you. 1118 00:42:35,158 --> 00:42:39,224 You’re the most concerned, protective person that I know. 1119 00:42:39,224 --> 00:42:42,290 - It’s about respect. - Respect is important too. 1120 00:42:42,290 --> 00:42:43,224 But that goes both ways. 1121 00:42:43,224 --> 00:42:46,026 If she’s in the hospital, you need to be by her side. 1122 00:42:46,026 --> 00:42:47,894 - Not if it’s just arguing and fighting. 1123 00:42:47,894 --> 00:42:50,290 - It takes two to argue. She can’t argue by herself. 1124 00:42:50,290 --> 00:42:52,422 - Yes, she can. - No--Safaree. 1125 00:42:52,422 --> 00:42:54,488 - How do--how do I argue by myself? 1126 00:42:54,488 --> 00:42:57,290 Kar--what the hell? Karlie, I don’t know-- 1127 00:42:57,290 --> 00:43:00,927 Karlie, to the--but you heard what I said, Karlie. 1128 00:43:00,927 --> 00:43:03,158 What you mean what you said, Karlie? 1129 00:43:03,158 --> 00:43:05,158 Karlie-- 1130 00:43:05,158 --> 00:43:07,422 I don’t think you can argue by yourself. 1131 00:43:07,422 --> 00:43:09,422 - Why is she talking about infidelity? 1132 00:43:09,422 --> 00:43:12,960 Why is she talking about she caught you cheating? 1133 00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:15,125 - She keeps saying the word "cheating," 1134 00:43:15,125 --> 00:43:16,927 but we weren’t together. 1135 00:43:16,927 --> 00:43:19,224 - You’re married. What do you mean? 1136 00:43:19,224 --> 00:43:21,257 - Exactly! 1137 00:43:21,257 --> 00:43:22,993 You a whole married man. 1138 00:43:22,993 --> 00:43:26,125 Not a half a married man, a whole married man. 1139 00:43:26,125 --> 00:43:28,191 - Look, I’ve been by myself the past three weeks 1140 00:43:28,191 --> 00:43:30,422 and I wake up, and I swear to God, I’m at peace. 1141 00:43:30,422 --> 00:43:33,927 - Let me ask you this question: are you angry? 1142 00:43:33,927 --> 00:43:36,620 Or do you no longer love her? 1143 00:43:36,620 --> 00:43:38,521 - Well, I feel like I don’t care. 1144 00:43:38,521 --> 00:43:43,960 - Talking to Safaree is like talking to a two-year--no, 1145 00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:49,092 my two-year-old can, you know, we can kinda-- 1146 00:43:49,092 --> 00:43:50,191 he’s not that stubborn. 1147 00:43:50,191 --> 00:43:52,927 Safaree is stubborn as hell. 1148 00:43:52,927 --> 00:43:53,653 - You’re angry. 1149 00:43:53,653 --> 00:43:54,828 If you can’t sit here and tell me, 1150 00:43:54,828 --> 00:43:57,488 "No, I’m no longer in love with her," then you love her. 1151 00:43:57,488 --> 00:44:00,224 And I also know how much you love your babies. 1152 00:44:00,224 --> 00:44:02,191 - And that’s why I’m leaving. 1153 00:44:02,191 --> 00:44:04,554 Like, I left. I got my own place. 1154 00:44:04,554 --> 00:44:06,894 Like, I’m out. - You got your own place? 1155 00:44:06,894 --> 00:44:08,927 - Like, I don’t live there anymore. 1156 00:44:08,927 --> 00:44:09,927 - Ay. 1157 00:44:09,927 --> 00:44:13,026 [upbeat music] 1158 00:44:13,026 --> 00:44:20,455 ♪ ♪ 1159 00:44:24,422 --> 00:44:26,158 - Hello. 1160 00:44:26,158 --> 00:44:28,257 Hello. How are you? 1161 00:44:28,257 --> 00:44:30,224 - I’m good. 1162 00:44:31,323 --> 00:44:33,993 - Oh, God be with me. 1163 00:44:33,993 --> 00:44:34,620 - Finally. 1164 00:44:34,620 --> 00:44:35,795 The scene that you’re about to see 1165 00:44:35,795 --> 00:44:38,960 is about to get a little interesting. 1166 00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:41,125 A lot of things have occurred. 1167 00:44:41,125 --> 00:44:42,257 When I went to Dubai. 1168 00:44:42,257 --> 00:44:45,059 I didn’t know. I honestly did not know. 1169 00:44:45,059 --> 00:44:46,059 - You didn’t know what? 1170 00:44:46,059 --> 00:44:47,455 - I didn’t know what Sierra told me. 1171 00:44:47,455 --> 00:44:49,422 So let me just repeat-- - What did Sierra tell you? 1172 00:44:49,422 --> 00:44:52,993 - She told me that y’all filing for divorce 1173 00:44:52,993 --> 00:44:54,993 and I knew y’all had checked me in Arizona-- 1174 00:44:54,993 --> 00:44:57,389 - So Sierra came up to you and told you-- 1175 00:44:57,389 --> 00:44:58,059 - Yes. 1176 00:44:58,059 --> 00:45:02,026 - I ain’t saying Momma Dee would lie. 1177 00:45:02,026 --> 00:45:04,554 But she might embellish the truth a little bit. 1178 00:45:04,554 --> 00:45:05,356 Pico. 1179 00:45:05,356 --> 00:45:09,356 - That’s where the miscommunication came in at. 1180 00:45:09,356 --> 00:45:14,620 Sierra told her that I possibly wanted to get a divorce 1181 00:45:14,620 --> 00:45:16,092 and wanted to separate 1182 00:45:16,092 --> 00:45:17,795 but not that I filed for divorce. 1183 00:45:17,795 --> 00:45:20,653 Like, it’s all making sense now. 1184 00:45:20,653 --> 00:45:24,224 It’s all making--I get it, I get what happened. 1185 00:45:24,224 --> 00:45:25,026 - I was shocked. 1186 00:45:25,026 --> 00:45:26,696 I really didn’t want to believe her at first. 1187 00:45:26,696 --> 00:45:30,554 I got upset, I started cursing because, mind you-- 1188 00:45:30,554 --> 00:45:35,224 - Guys, she’s drunk so let the [bleep] shenanigans begin. 1189 00:45:35,224 --> 00:45:38,521 - If anybody said they were gonna take your son-- 1190 00:45:38,521 --> 00:45:39,587 - Who says that? 1191 00:45:39,587 --> 00:45:40,224 - Sierra-- 1192 00:45:40,224 --> 00:45:41,422 - She said I was gonna take your son? 1193 00:45:41,422 --> 00:45:43,488 For what? For what? - For everything, I don’t know. 1194 00:45:43,488 --> 00:45:44,488 - What is "everything"? 1195 00:45:44,488 --> 00:45:46,092 What is this "everything" 1196 00:45:46,092 --> 00:45:47,356 that you’re referring to? 1197 00:45:47,356 --> 00:45:48,488 - The money that he gave you 1198 00:45:48,488 --> 00:45:51,125 when he buying you a $10,000 Birkin bag. 1199 00:45:51,125 --> 00:45:52,092 That’s where the money at. 1200 00:45:52,092 --> 00:45:55,323 The money’s in $35,000 Rolex that he done bought you. 1201 00:45:55,323 --> 00:45:58,455 The money’s in that $10,000 full length mink coat. 1202 00:45:58,455 --> 00:45:59,795 That’s where his money at, okay? 1203 00:45:59,795 --> 00:46:01,422 ’Cause every time he get a dime, 1204 00:46:01,422 --> 00:46:02,795 you got your hand out, girl. 1205 00:46:02,795 --> 00:46:05,092 - Look, that’s where the problem lies. 1206 00:46:05,092 --> 00:46:06,422 - So you’re trying to flip the blame. 1207 00:46:06,422 --> 00:46:08,092 You’re not gonna flip the blame on me. 1208 00:46:08,092 --> 00:46:10,224 No, you should be woman enough not to discuss 1209 00:46:10,224 --> 00:46:12,092 your business to people that run they mouth. 1210 00:46:12,092 --> 00:46:13,828 - At the end of the day, you run your mouth. 1211 00:46:13,828 --> 00:46:15,389 - You know what the energy, 1212 00:46:15,389 --> 00:46:16,389 you know where the energy-- 1213 00:46:16,389 --> 00:46:18,323 You shared this disinformation 1214 00:46:18,323 --> 00:46:20,158 to Sierra and Erica Mena, 1215 00:46:20,158 --> 00:46:22,158 so you know where I’m coming from. 1216 00:46:22,158 --> 00:46:23,422 I’m coming for your jugular. 1217 00:46:23,422 --> 00:46:26,696 I’m telling you now, I feel like, you know-- 1218 00:46:26,696 --> 00:46:28,422 you know, I feel like a vampire. 1219 00:46:28,422 --> 00:46:30,290 You know, because at this moment, 1220 00:46:30,290 --> 00:46:32,422 I’m so heated up after Bam 1221 00:46:32,422 --> 00:46:35,224 so I can actually sense her-- 1222 00:46:35,224 --> 00:46:36,828 her carotid artery, her vein, 1223 00:46:36,828 --> 00:46:39,422 and I really want to put my fangs in it, 1224 00:46:39,422 --> 00:46:40,554 you know what I’m saying? 1225 00:46:40,554 --> 00:46:42,356 And just drain the bitch. 1226 00:46:42,356 --> 00:46:44,488 - Your son has some [bleep] tra-- 1227 00:46:44,488 --> 00:46:48,389 - Listen, just know that when you come with the lawyers, 1228 00:46:48,389 --> 00:46:49,422 we got lawyers too. 1229 00:46:49,422 --> 00:46:50,554 - But wait, Momma Dee, 1230 00:46:50,554 --> 00:46:52,158 you done heard that from Sierra. 1231 00:46:52,158 --> 00:46:55,125 You ain’t heard nothing from Bambi or your son. 1232 00:46:55,125 --> 00:46:56,290 - Okay, okay. - And we can pay. 1233 00:46:56,290 --> 00:46:58,125 - Well you can’t pay as much as I can pay. 1234 00:46:58,125 --> 00:47:00,125 - Come on, bring it, bitch. - [bleep] out here. 1235 00:47:00,125 --> 00:47:01,290 Get the [bleep] out of my face. 1236 00:47:01,290 --> 00:47:03,422 - I don’t play that [bleep]. Get that bitch away from me. 1237 00:47:03,422 --> 00:47:07,323 - Girl, go on. I got--I got a real attorney if I need it 1238 00:47:07,323 --> 00:47:11,290 so get the [bleep] out of here with your 1-800-411-PAIN. 1239 00:47:11,290 --> 00:47:12,620 - Wow, you know what I’m saying? 1240 00:47:12,620 --> 00:47:14,587 This that--that look and that feeling 1241 00:47:14,587 --> 00:47:17,521 when you see your-- your wife and your mom, 1242 00:47:17,521 --> 00:47:20,290 both who said they didn’t say [bleep], 1243 00:47:20,290 --> 00:47:21,323 say [bleep]. 1244 00:47:21,323 --> 00:47:22,323 And you like, "Wow. 1245 00:47:22,323 --> 00:47:24,587 Like, this how y’all getting down?" 1246 00:47:24,587 --> 00:47:26,290 And I’m not right there, you know what I’m saying? 1247 00:47:26,290 --> 00:47:28,653 But y’all both come back and say, "Oh, no, I didn’t say-- 1248 00:47:28,653 --> 00:47:33,927 I didn’t use--no, no, no, I’m cool, okay? Would never." 1249 00:47:37,313 --> 00:47:38,577 - Next time on the season finale 1250 00:47:38,577 --> 00:47:39,907 of "Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta"... 1251 00:47:39,907 --> 00:47:40,940 - How we feeling? 1252 00:47:40,940 --> 00:47:43,445 - You [bleep] did it. 1253 00:47:43,445 --> 00:47:44,313 - That’s right. 1254 00:47:44,313 --> 00:47:47,412 - You should have been there for me. 1255 00:47:47,412 --> 00:47:51,445 - I said, when you graduate, I’m gonna give you the world. 1256 00:47:51,445 --> 00:47:52,412 - Congratulations. 1257 00:47:52,412 --> 00:47:53,577 - [crying] Thank you. 1258 00:47:53,577 --> 00:47:56,006 Thank you for bringing us here. 1259 00:47:56,006 --> 00:47:58,577 - See, I know everybody wondering what the hell 1260 00:47:58,577 --> 00:48:00,973 Scrappy got me here for, what we doing? 1261 00:48:00,973 --> 00:48:02,610 [thunder booms] [screaming] 1262 00:48:02,610 --> 00:48:03,940 - You always doing that lame [bleep] to my girl. 1263 00:48:03,940 --> 00:48:06,346 - But your girl be saying something to catch her too. 1264 00:48:06,346 --> 00:48:07,039 - I’m sorry-- 1265 00:48:07,039 --> 00:48:11,445 - What in the hell is wrong with my children? 1266 00:48:11,445 --> 00:48:13,313 - No, no, no! 1267 00:48:13,313 --> 00:48:14,709 - Chill the [bleep] out. 1268 00:48:14,709 --> 00:48:16,775 I’m hurt, it’s really starting to bother me. 1269 00:48:16,775 --> 00:48:19,577 - I felt like it would be dope to organize 1270 00:48:19,577 --> 00:48:20,445 mental health check. 1271 00:48:20,445 --> 00:48:24,511 - All that [bleep] I did y’all, you all do that [bleep] to me? 1272 00:48:24,511 --> 00:48:25,874 - There’s gotta be a change. 1273 00:48:25,874 --> 00:48:28,907 [dramatic music] 1274 00:48:28,907 --> 00:48:32,874 ♪ ♪